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<b><i>- Previously, on</i></b>
<b><i>"Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta"...</i></b>

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<b><i>- My home was just</i></b>
<b><i>recently burglarized</i></b>

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<b>and my husband's</b>
<b>been gone ever since.</b>

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<b>- Where's Safaree?</b>

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<b>- He's gyrating all over Miami.</b>

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<b>I'm ready to file for the</b>
<b>divorce. I'm ready.</b>

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<b>- I was thinking when we get to</b>
<b>Dubai, would you marry me?</b>

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<b>- Again?</b>
<b>- Again.</b>

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<b>- Aww!</b>

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<b>- Where we at?</b>

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<b>- We're in Dubai.</b>

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<b><i>- I got my friends and family</i></b>
<b><i>from back home.</i></b>

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<b><i>I am on cloud nine.</i></b>

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<b>- You want to be married?</b>

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<b>- I would love to be married</b>
<b>and have a family</b>

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<b>'cause I'm a family man.</b>

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<b>- And you can see yourself</b>
<b>getting married to me?</b>

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<b>- Yeah.</b>
<b>- You could?</b>

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<b>- Yeah, for real.</b>

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<b>- You lyin'!</b>

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<b>Your mother-in-law,</b>
<b>we had a conversation.</b>

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<b>She said it was fake.</b>
<b>I didn't know--realize that.</b>

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<b>- That what was fake?</b>

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<b>- That the first wedding</b>
<b>was fake.</b>

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<b>- That it was fake?</b>
<b>- Yeah, she said that.</b>

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<b>- Babe.</b>

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<i>[upbeat hip-hop music]</i>

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<i>- ♪ It’s the life
\hthat we livin’ ♪</i>

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<i>♪ It’s the life
that we trust ♪</i>

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<i>- ♪ It’s the life
\hthat we livin’ ♪</i>

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<i>♪ It’s the life
that we trust ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Makin’ my way to the top,
\hand it ain’t no stoppin’ ♪</i>

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<b><i>[upbeat music]</i></b>

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<b>[knock at door]</b>

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<b>- Coming.</b>

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<b>As-Salaam-Alaikum.</b>

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<b>- [screams]</b>

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<b>[laughter]</b>

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<b>Y'all made it! Ahh!</b>

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<b>Yes! My babies</b>
<b>are finally here.</b>

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<b>I get to be in Dubai</b>
<b>with my babies. I'm so excited.</b>

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<b><i>The wedding is in two days.</i></b>

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<b><i>And after what Momma Dee</i></b>
<b><i>just told me last night,</i></b>

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<b>what I will not have happen</b>

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<b>is Judy turn this dream</b>
<b>into a nightmare.</b>

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<b>- We're about to go</b>
<b>to the desert, have some fun.</b>

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<b>- Fun, fun, fun!</b>
<b>- So come on.</b>

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<b>- We running late, anyway</b>
<b>so come on,</b>

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<b>get your stuff,</b>
<b>belongings, let's go.</b>

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<b>- Y'all eat anything?</b>
<b>- Nope.</b>

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<b>- Infinity and I have talked</b>
<b>since she left for New York</b>

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<b><i>and really decided</i></b>
<b><i>that families</i></b>

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<b><i>would go through things,</i></b>
<b><i>but the key is for us</i></b>

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<b><i>to go through them</i></b>
<b><i>then get through them.</i></b>

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<b>So I would never have my</b>
<b>wedding without Infinity there.</b>

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<b>She's not only going to be</b>
<b>at the wedding.</b>

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<b>She's going to be</b>
<b>in the wedding.</b>

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<b>- We're gonna ride a camel.</b>
<b>- Hey! Hey!</b>

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<b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

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<b>- Good morning.</b>
<b>- Great morning.</b>

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<b>- Are you tired?</b>
<b>- I'm up.</b>

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<b>Gonna need a nice shower,</b>
<b>get dressed.</b>

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<b>I really would like to go</b>
<b>to these activities.</b>

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<b>- We need to be spending</b>
<b>some alone time</b>

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<b>'cause we gotta be</b>
<b>trying to make a baby.</b>

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<b>[both laugh]</b>

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<b>- I'm here for it.</b>

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<b>- The first time</b>
<b>we came to Dubai,</b>

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<b>we fell deeply in love</b>
<b>with each other.</b>

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<b><i>And I just can't wait</i></b>

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<b>to tell my baby that</b>
<b>you were conceived in Dubai.</b>

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<b>Let's go get</b>
<b>in the shower, booboo.</b>

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<b>That's our baby-making time.</b>

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<b>- We was baby-making</b>
<b>last night.</b>

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<b>Are you ready?</b>
<b>You gon' be tired again.</b>

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<b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

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<b>- Ooh. It's about to go down!</b>

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<b>[screaming, laughing]</b>

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<b>- Oh, please, God,</b>
<b>don't make this car flip over.</b>

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<b>- Oh, hell no.</b>
<b>- [screaming]</b>

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<b>- Oh, oh, Lord.</b>
<b>- Oh [bleep]!</b>

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<b>Oh, [bleep]!</b>
<b>Oh, my God!</b>

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<b>I loved dune bashing, but this</b>
<b>today, it's a little much.</b>

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<b>[screams]</b>
<b>We just need</b>

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<b>to get out this car.</b>
<b>- Oh, oh!</b>

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<b>- Oh, Lord!</b>
<b>- One of us is gonna throw up</b>

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<b>and this is not gonna be good.</b>

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<b>No, I'm done!</b>

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<b>That's it. Oh, no.</b>
<b>Okay, okay, okay. No!</b>

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<b>- Oh, my goodness.</b>
<b>- No!</b>

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<b>[screaming]</b>

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<b>- Oh, Lord! Ahh!</b>

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<b>- Oh, hell no.</b>

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<b>- We ain't got no--</b>
<b>[all screaming]</b>

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<b>Oh, Lord!</b>
<b>- Oh, God, no!</b>

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<b>- Oh, wow.</b>
<b>- Oh, God!</b>

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<b>No, no, no!</b>

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<b>[screams]</b>

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<b>- Dizzy.</b>
<b>- I'm Dizzy as [bleep].</b>

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<b>- I'm dizzy.</b>
<b>Like, I'm totally dizzy.</b>

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<b>- I feel like I'm about</b>
<b>to vomit.</b>

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<b>- Yeah, you gotta chill, man.</b>

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<b>- Okay, so I thought</b>
<b>I was pregnant.</b>

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<b>I started feeling better,</b>
<b>then I get in this car</b>

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<b>and he want to flip</b>
<b>and dip and trip</b>

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<b>and with the air on low,</b>
<b>is not working for a sister.</b>

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<b>- Bro, we nauseous as hell.</b>
<b>- Hell yeah, bro.</b>

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<b>We good.</b>
<b>We [bleep] good.</b>

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<b>- Picture time!</b>
<b>- Oh, no.</b>

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<b>[bleep] with y'all out here.</b>
<b>This is not for Black people.</b>

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<b>- Whoo!</b>

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<b>I'm so glad I get to share</b>
<b>this experience</b>

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<b>with my friends,</b>

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<b>but more importantly,</b>
<b>with my babies.</b>

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<b><i>I'm on cloud nine.</i></b>

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<b>My goal was for Infinity to</b>
<b>feel welcomed and loved.</b>

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<b>And it looks like</b>
<b>she's having a great time.</b>

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<b>- One, two, three.</b>

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<b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

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<b><i>[hip-hop music]</i></b>

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<b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

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<b>[bird screeches]</b>

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<b>- After a wild day in the sun,</b>
<b>I planned a desert barbecue</b>

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<b>and bazaar</b>
<b>for everyone to eat.</b>

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<b><i>We have belly dancers,</i></b>
<b><i>fire eaters, little shops.</i></b>

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<b>I mean the food--amazing, okay?</b>

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<b>Our other guests</b>
<b>are starting to arrive.</b>

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<b>- Jonathan, do you still</b>
<b>do makeup?</b>

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<b>- Mm-hmm.</b>
<b>- You do?</b>

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<b>- I thought you was</b>
<b>too fabulous for that.</b>

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<b>- No, I can do Yandy's</b>
<b>makeup.</b>

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<b>- It ain't no fun</b>
<b>if John can't have none.</b>

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<b>Okay, that is one of my</b>
<b>best friends from New York.</b>

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<b>I could not ever get remarried</b>
<b>and not have him here</b>

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<b>as my BFF--</b>
<b>oh, and my make-up artist.</b>

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<b>See that's what</b>
<b>real friends are for.</b>

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<b>- Right?</b>

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<b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

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<b><i>- The barbecue is so much fun</i></b>

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<b>and was definitely, you know,</b>

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<b>learning some moves</b>
<b>from the belly dancing.</b>

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<b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

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<b>- Uh-oh, uh-oh. Oh, oh.</b>

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<b>- Oh, wow, guys.</b>

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<b>- It's the boots for me, honey,</b>

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<b>- Hey, you made it!</b>

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<b>- I'm good, bro? How are you?</b>
<b>All right? Where y'all was at.</b>

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<b>- I got kidnapped again.</b>

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<b>- Held her hostage.</b>

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<b>- I got me a henna.</b>
<b>Look at my henna.</b>

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<b>- Oh, I wanna get some.</b>
<b>- What it say?</b>

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<b>[laughter]</b>

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<b>all: Woah!</b>

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<b>- Karlie, come with me</b>
<b>to the bar.</b>

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<b>Let's go get a drink.</b>
<b>- Yes, ma'am.</b>

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<b>- My boss said I can't drink.</b>

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<b>- Your daughter has spoken,</b>
<b>honey.</b>

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<b>- Does she listen to me?</b>

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<b>Jasmine needs to remember</b>
<b>who the adult is.</b>

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<b><i>She talks about how I'm bossy.</i></b>

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<b>Little girl, yes. I'm bossy</b>
<b>'cause I'm your mother.</b>

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<b>- Wow.</b>

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<b>- I want her to, like,</b>
<b>really get her stuff together.</b>

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<b>I'm proud of you--</b>
<b>- Honey, she got it together.</b>

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<b>You are my hero.</b>
<b>Do you understand me?</b>

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<b>- You don't understand.</b>
<b>- No, I'm dead serious.</b>

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<b>I never understood the struggle</b>
<b>of a single mother</b>

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<b>till I became one.</b>

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<b>My respect level is up to here,</b>
<b>especially to have a--</b>

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<b>- But what did you do, though,</b>
<b>that whole time?</b>

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<b>- Have a village. That's</b>
<b>the only way I got through.</b>

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<b>That's the only way my babies</b>
<b>made it to school.</b>

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<b>That's the only way</b>
<b>I was able to work.</b>

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<b>That's the only way I was able</b>
<b>to be sane. It's crazy.</b>

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<b>- I hope you're still not upset</b>
<b>about what Judy said</b>

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<b>because I get it.</b>

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<b>When Moe went to jail,</b>

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<b>I was getting lawsuits...</b>
<b>- You ain't have to tell me.</b>

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<b>- Because I got married.</b>
<b>- Baby, listen,</b>

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<b>that's exactly why--</b>
<b>you know, with Judy</b>

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<b>why that pissed me so bad</b>
<b>because she was there the night</b>

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<b>that the lawyer called me</b>
<b>and said,</b>

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<b>"Listen, we don't know</b>
<b>what's going to happen.</b>

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<b>Your finances will become one."</b>

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<b>And I--I have to think</b>
<b>about all of that.</b>

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<b>I had to think</b>
<b>about restitution.</b>

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<b>I don't want</b>
<b>the problems you have</b>

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<b>because you signed</b>
<b>the paperwork</b>

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<b>and now you in bond</b>
<b>with the government</b>

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<b>and this man who when</b>
<b>they sue him, they sue you.</b>

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<b>- And you never sent it in</b>
<b>to this day.</b>

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<b>- I didn't send it in,</b>
<b>but what we did was</b>

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<b>we signed every other paperwork</b>
<b>that mattered.</b>

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<b>- Got it.</b>
<b>- We signed our wills.</b>

195
00:07:40,917 --> 00:07:42,819
<b>If anything ever happens to me,</b>
<b>he has the final say.</b>

196
00:07:42,886 --> 00:07:45,122
<b>If anything ever happens</b>
<b>to him, I have the final say.</b>

197
00:07:45,188 --> 00:07:49,593
<b>But the most important thing</b>
<b>for me was the vows we made.</b>

198
00:07:49,593 --> 00:07:52,629
<b>So when his mother said</b>
<b>this is fake,</b>

199
00:07:52,696 --> 00:07:54,598
<b>that's an abomination</b>
<b>to say to me</b>

200
00:07:54,631 --> 00:07:56,299
<b>after what I went through</b>
<b>for that.</b>

201
00:07:56,366 --> 00:07:57,601
<b>So y'all want to</b>
<b>talk about paper?</b>

202
00:07:57,601 --> 00:07:58,969
<b>Get your paperwork straight.</b>

203
00:07:59,036 --> 00:08:01,271
<b>What's your money like?</b>
<b>Get your finances up.</b>

204
00:08:01,338 --> 00:08:02,606
<b>Make sure</b>
<b>your household is good</b>

205
00:08:02,606 --> 00:08:03,774
<b>'cause mines is straight.</b>

206
00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,476
<b>Now the love?</b>
<b>We good. Okay?</b>

207
00:08:06,610 --> 00:08:08,612
<b>For once and for all,</b>
<b>that's it.</b>

208
00:08:08,612 --> 00:08:10,447
<b>There's nothing</b>
<b>fake about this.</b>

209
00:08:10,514 --> 00:08:13,683
<b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

210
00:08:13,750 --> 00:08:16,620
<b>- Ooh, look at the camel.</b>
<b>- Mm, mm!</b>

211
00:08:16,686 --> 00:08:18,955
<b>- Oh, [bleep].</b>
<b>We got another show.</b>

212
00:08:19,022 --> 00:08:22,325
<b>[camel grunts]</b>

213
00:08:22,392 --> 00:08:23,460
<b>What in the heezy?</b>

214
00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:26,797
<b>- Oh, great.</b>
<b>My mother-in-law's here.</b>

215
00:08:28,398 --> 00:08:29,900
<b>Wonderful.</b>

216
00:08:31,334 --> 00:08:35,205
<b>We were having</b>
<b>an Arabian night in a desert.</b>

217
00:08:35,272 --> 00:08:39,643
<b>Now, welcome to the zoo</b>
<b>and there's a clown.</b>

218
00:08:39,710 --> 00:08:42,145
<b>- When you're in Rome,</b>
<b>you do as the Romans do.</b>

219
00:08:42,212 --> 00:08:44,614
<b>When you're Dubai,</b>
<b>you do what the Dubaians do.</b>

220
00:08:44,681 --> 00:08:46,950
<b>Isn't that right, baby?</b>
<b>[camel groans]</b>

221
00:08:47,017 --> 00:08:48,485
<b>Yeah.</b>

222
00:08:48,585 --> 00:08:51,588
<b>- I just arrived in Dubai</b>
<b>earlier today</b>

223
00:08:51,655 --> 00:08:54,191
<b>and Momma Dee told me</b>
<b>that she told my son</b>

224
00:08:54,257 --> 00:08:56,927
<b>a conversation that me</b>
<b>and I had as girlfriends.</b>

225
00:08:56,993 --> 00:09:00,464
<b>- Do you want to sit down?</b>
<b>- That was not her place.</b>

226
00:09:00,597 --> 00:09:03,767
<b>- I came here to apologize</b>
<b>to you about a conversation me</b>

227
00:09:03,834 --> 00:09:07,471
<b>and Momma Dee had about</b>
<b>were you really married.</b>

228
00:09:07,604 --> 00:09:10,173
<b>So I said,</b>
<b>"Well, I hope that this time</b>

229
00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,309
<b>that it's gonna be real."</b>

230
00:09:12,376 --> 00:09:13,744
<b>- What you--what</b>
<b>you mean by that?</b>

231
00:09:13,810 --> 00:09:15,345
<b>Like why--</b>
<b>why would you say that?</b>

232
00:09:15,412 --> 00:09:16,780
<b>- Because I want it to be real.</b>

233
00:09:16,847 --> 00:09:19,249
<b>- That's insinuating</b>
<b>the first one wasn't real</b>

234
00:09:19,316 --> 00:09:22,285
<b>if you say that.</b>
<b>Do you know that?</b>

235
00:09:22,352 --> 00:09:24,554
<b>- At this point, I'm like,</b>

236
00:09:24,588 --> 00:09:27,190
<b>"Judy, this battle,</b>
<b>you're not gonna win."</b>

237
00:09:27,257 --> 00:09:28,392
<b>Just say your truth</b>

238
00:09:28,458 --> 00:09:29,659
<b>and the kids</b>
<b>can move on from that.</b>

239
00:09:29,726 --> 00:09:30,994
<b>- I knew the first one</b>
<b>was real</b>

240
00:09:31,061 --> 00:09:32,896
<b>until they started talking</b>
<b>on TV--</b>

241
00:09:32,963 --> 00:09:34,564
<b>- That's not true, though,</b>
<b>your son told you.</b>

242
00:09:34,564 --> 00:09:36,700
<b>Your son told you way</b>
<b>before that. Your son told you.</b>

243
00:09:36,767 --> 00:09:38,101
<b>- No, wait. You calm down.</b>

244
00:09:38,168 --> 00:09:40,704
<b>- You knew exactly the reason</b>
<b>your son told you.</b>

245
00:09:40,771 --> 00:09:41,738
<b>- I'm feel like crying.</b>

246
00:09:41,805 --> 00:09:43,206
<b>- Don't cry. Don't cry.</b>

247
00:09:43,273 --> 00:09:45,108
<b>- I'm gonna cry this time.</b>

248
00:09:45,175 --> 00:09:46,309
<b>- Don't cry.</b>

249
00:09:46,376 --> 00:09:47,778
<b>- Mom, you ain't even</b>
<b>got no tears.</b>

250
00:09:47,844 --> 00:09:49,579
<b>- Well, I'm hurting.</b>
<b>I'm hurting.</b>

251
00:09:49,613 --> 00:09:51,148
<b>- Oh, all right.</b>
<b>- I'm--I'm hurting inside.</b>

252
00:09:51,214 --> 00:09:52,649
<b>- All right.</b>
<b>- I love you so much.</b>

253
00:09:52,716 --> 00:09:54,184
<b>- Yeah, I--I gotta go.</b>

254
00:09:54,251 --> 00:09:58,188
<b>- It hurts when someone</b>
<b>blatantly just lie in your face</b>

255
00:09:58,255 --> 00:10:01,291
<b>and not take accountability</b>
<b>and just say I'm sorry.</b>

256
00:10:01,358 --> 00:10:03,960
<b>You said what you said,</b>
<b>and that [bleep] is--</b>

257
00:10:04,027 --> 00:10:05,762
<b>You did say it.</b>
<b>But you said it.</b>

258
00:10:05,829 --> 00:10:07,197
<b>This ain't even about you.</b>

259
00:10:07,264 --> 00:10:09,132
<b>I don't know why you came here</b>
<b>and make this about you.</b>

260
00:10:09,199 --> 00:10:12,803
<b>Anytime my mom would deflect</b>
<b>on what's going on, you know,</b>

261
00:10:12,869 --> 00:10:14,304
<b>here come the fake tears.</b>

262
00:10:14,371 --> 00:10:15,572
<b>It doesn't work anymore.</b>

263
00:10:15,639 --> 00:10:18,575
<b>- I'm hurt so bad.</b>
<b>It hurts so bad.</b>

264
00:10:18,642 --> 00:10:20,844
<b>- I was faking.</b>
<b>- So--oh, so you were?</b>

265
00:10:20,911 --> 00:10:22,179
<b>- What you think I was doing?</b>

266
00:10:22,245 --> 00:10:24,114
<b>I--I wanted to cry</b>
<b>before she started crying.</b>

267
00:10:24,181 --> 00:10:25,282
<b>I know Yandy.</b>

268
00:10:25,348 --> 00:10:26,817
<b>She--she--she</b>
<b>know how to fake cry</b>

269
00:10:26,883 --> 00:10:28,885
<b>so I wanted to beat her to it.</b>
<b>- Oh.</b>

270
00:10:28,952 --> 00:10:31,688
<b>- We not gonna do this.</b>
<b>We not--we not gon' do</b>

271
00:10:31,755 --> 00:10:33,790
<b>none of this.</b>
<b>We got our kids here.</b>

272
00:10:33,857 --> 00:10:36,093
<b>We got friends here.</b>
<b>This is embarrassing.</b>

273
00:10:36,159 --> 00:10:37,861
<b>- That's what I came here for.</b>
<b>- Right, mm-hmm.</b>

274
00:10:37,928 --> 00:10:39,129
<b>- Okay.</b>
<b>- And we not gonna do that.</b>

275
00:10:39,196 --> 00:10:40,330
<b>Can we just move on?</b>
<b>- Come on, let's go.</b>

276
00:10:40,397 --> 00:10:42,232
<b>All right. This way.</b>

277
00:10:42,299 --> 00:10:44,601
<b>- I'm going with you.</b>
<b>I'm going with you.</b>

278
00:10:44,668 --> 00:10:45,936
<b>- Ma, this ain't--</b>
<b>- I'm going with you</b>

279
00:10:46,002 --> 00:10:47,337
<b>because you my child.</b>
<b>- No, no, listen, Ma.</b>

280
00:10:47,404 --> 00:10:48,638
<b>Hey, chill, come on, now.</b>
<b>- No I don't wanna have</b>

281
00:10:48,705 --> 00:10:50,474
<b>a good relationship again</b>
<b>with my family.</b>

282
00:10:50,574 --> 00:10:52,042
<b><i>- I feel like Mama Judy</i></b>
<b><i>is the type of person</i></b>

283
00:10:52,109 --> 00:10:54,211
<b>that throw the rock</b>
<b>and hide her hand.</b>

284
00:10:54,277 --> 00:10:56,213
<b>Like, she'll throw the rock</b>
<b>and then be like,</b>

285
00:10:56,279 --> 00:10:59,182
<b>"Oh, but I--but I didn't mean</b>
<b>it that way.</b>

286
00:10:59,249 --> 00:11:01,051
<b>But what did I do?"</b>

287
00:11:01,118 --> 00:11:03,587
<b>- We're not gonna turn</b>
<b>on each other? No. No way.</b>

288
00:11:03,620 --> 00:11:05,255
<b>- What do you mean?</b>
<b>You turned on us.</b>

289
00:11:05,322 --> 00:11:07,057
<b>- No, I never will do that.</b>
<b>- Constantly.</b>

290
00:11:07,124 --> 00:11:08,825
<b>- No, you do that, Yandy.</b>
<b>That's what you're doing now</b>

291
00:11:08,892 --> 00:11:10,894
<b>because you don't know</b>
<b>how to take an apology.</b>

292
00:11:10,961 --> 00:11:13,864
<b>And you--'cause you always try</b>
<b>to get conflict.</b>

293
00:11:13,930 --> 00:11:16,166
<b>I think that Yandy</b>
<b>doesn't accept my apology</b>

294
00:11:16,233 --> 00:11:18,869
<b>because that's the way</b>
<b>to keep me away from my son.</b>

295
00:11:18,935 --> 00:11:20,537
<b>And look, it's working.</b>

296
00:11:20,604 --> 00:11:23,807
<b>Somebody has to forgive</b>
<b>and move on, you understand?</b>

297
00:11:23,874 --> 00:11:25,208
<b>Don't keep this going.</b>

298
00:11:25,275 --> 00:11:26,643
<b>- But I don't--it--it looks</b>
<b>like to me,</b>

299
00:11:26,710 --> 00:11:27,944
<b>they don't want</b>
<b>to keep it going.</b>

300
00:11:28,011 --> 00:11:30,147
<b>Sometimes you just gotta</b>
<b>just release, let go,</b>

301
00:11:30,213 --> 00:11:32,416
<b>or at least pick</b>
<b>the right time and place.</b>

302
00:11:32,482 --> 00:11:35,252
<b>Now we have our wedding,</b>
<b>what's gon' happen there?</b>

303
00:11:35,318 --> 00:11:37,421
<b>- Right.</b>
<b>- She doesn't approve of this.</b>

304
00:11:37,487 --> 00:11:39,022
<b>- So maybe--</b>
<b>- So if you don't support this,</b>

305
00:11:39,089 --> 00:11:40,957
<b>why are you here?</b>
<b>- So listen, so maybe</b>

306
00:11:41,024 --> 00:11:43,460
<b>we should uninvite her.</b>
<b>- I'm not doing it. You do it.</b>

307
00:11:43,527 --> 00:11:45,495
<b>Because when I do it--</b>
<b>- Well, listen, listen,</b>

308
00:11:45,562 --> 00:11:46,863
<b>she don't know the location</b>

309
00:11:46,930 --> 00:11:50,467
<b>and I'm not gonna</b>
<b>give it to her.</b>

310
00:11:50,534 --> 00:11:52,803
<b><i>- Coming up on</i></b>
<b><i>"Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta"...</i></b>

311
00:11:52,869 --> 00:11:56,540
<b><i>[phone ringing]</i></b>
<b>- Oh, it's Erica calling.</b>

312
00:11:56,606 --> 00:11:58,375
<b>- You're in the hospital.</b>

313
00:11:58,442 --> 00:11:59,843
<b>- If I'm not welcome, I'm good.</b>

314
00:11:59,910 --> 00:12:01,411
<b>- Yeah, because you--you</b>
<b>talking stupid [bleep].</b>

315
00:12:01,478 --> 00:12:04,915
<b>Stop going around my family</b>
<b>with the he said she said.</b>

316
00:12:04,981 --> 00:12:09,252
<b>all: ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪</b>

317
00:12:09,319 --> 00:12:11,354
<b>- I didn't know how to explain</b>
<b>to you how I love you</b>

318
00:12:11,421 --> 00:12:12,589
<b>and how you take care of me.</b>

319
00:12:12,656 --> 00:12:14,925
<b>And I just want</b>
<b>to make you see that.</b>

320
00:12:14,991 --> 00:12:17,260
<b>- Oh, [bleep].</b>
<b>- Ooh!</b>

321
00:12:20,692 --> 00:12:23,022
<i>- ♪ My way to the top,
and it ain’t no stoppin’ ♪</i>

322
00:12:23,022 --> 00:12:25,824
<i>- ♪ Hey, feel like I made it ♪</i>

323
00:12:25,824 --> 00:12:26,989
<i>♪ Livin’ this OG e-life ♪</i>

324
00:12:26,989 --> 00:12:30,692
<i>♪ Look at the life
</i><i>I’ve created ♪</i>

325
00:12:30,692 --> 00:12:31,527
- Where have you been?

326
00:12:31,527 --> 00:12:33,187
I feel like
I haven’t really seen you.

327
00:12:33,187 --> 00:12:35,253
- I know.
- Your ass been MIA.

328
00:12:35,253 --> 00:12:39,857
- MIA. I missed the whole ATV
riding in the desert.

329
00:12:39,857 --> 00:12:42,253
- Is it ’cause
you were laid up?

330
00:12:42,253 --> 00:12:44,154
- No--yes, it’s
’cause I was laid up.

331
00:12:44,154 --> 00:12:47,725
[both laugh]
I’m trying to make a baby.

332
00:12:47,725 --> 00:12:49,154
- You wanna make a baby?
- Yeah.

333
00:12:49,154 --> 00:12:50,989
I’m not rushing,
but if I get pregnant,

334
00:12:50,989 --> 00:12:53,758
I’m not going to be mad
that I’m pregnant.

335
00:12:53,758 --> 00:12:54,428
- This time.

336
00:12:54,428 --> 00:12:57,857
- This time ’cause you know,
two years ago

337
00:12:57,857 --> 00:12:58,989
I almost had a panic attack.

338
00:12:58,989 --> 00:13:01,319
- The stick.
- Oh, the stick. Okay, cool.

339
00:13:01,319 --> 00:13:02,791
- Everyone,
grab your own stick.

340
00:13:02,791 --> 00:13:04,319
- Sit--sit down.
I’m gonna get you some water.

341
00:13:04,319 --> 00:13:06,890
You’re hyperventilating.
Just sit down.

342
00:13:06,890 --> 00:13:08,286
- [yelping]

343
00:13:08,286 --> 00:13:10,286
- When y’all tricked me and I
thought I was pregnant

344
00:13:10,286 --> 00:13:12,890
that’s because
I was thinking that BK,

345
00:13:12,890 --> 00:13:14,659
you know,
he didn’t have it together.

346
00:13:14,659 --> 00:13:17,286
- You ain’t even said
engagement marriage.

347
00:13:17,286 --> 00:13:18,692
You went straight
to the carriage.

348
00:13:18,692 --> 00:13:20,286
- You know, most girls
who haven’t been married,

349
00:13:20,286 --> 00:13:22,055
that’s all they want to do
is just get married,

350
00:13:22,055 --> 00:13:24,055
but I’ve experienced that.
So it’s just like--

351
00:13:24,055 --> 00:13:25,791
- Yeah. Even Yandy
she was saying

352
00:13:25,791 --> 00:13:29,121
yesterday that, you know,
she married before God,

353
00:13:29,121 --> 00:13:31,121
not for the government.
You get what I’m saying?

354
00:13:31,121 --> 00:13:32,857
’Cause she still
hasn’t signed a paper.

355
00:13:32,857 --> 00:13:34,989
- Oh, okay.
- And, like, she felt like--

356
00:13:34,989 --> 00:13:36,319
- That’s what Mama Judy
was talking about.

357
00:13:36,319 --> 00:13:40,395
I just heard Mama Judy saying,
like, "The marriage was this,

358
00:13:40,395 --> 00:13:42,187
the marriage was--"
Like, I don’t know.

359
00:13:42,187 --> 00:13:43,923
But you know, I was married
for eight years,

360
00:13:43,923 --> 00:13:46,055
so I don’t come in
on people marriages,

361
00:13:46,055 --> 00:13:49,461
situations, whatever it is.
Like that’s very sacred to me.

362
00:13:49,461 --> 00:13:52,220
So I’m like,
I’m just listening.

363
00:13:52,220 --> 00:13:53,088
- Yeah.
- Yeah.

364
00:13:53,088 --> 00:13:57,055
- I just hope that they fix it
before the wedding.

365
00:13:57,055 --> 00:13:57,725
- Yeah.

366
00:13:57,725 --> 00:14:00,022
- So a marriage does not
have to have paper.

367
00:14:00,022 --> 00:14:01,319
Look at people
who’ve been living

368
00:14:01,319 --> 00:14:02,527
with their husbands
for many years.

369
00:14:02,527 --> 00:14:05,494
They called that a common-law
husband or a common-law wife.

370
00:14:05,494 --> 00:14:09,121
I wish I didn’t have a paper
saying that I was married.

371
00:14:09,121 --> 00:14:13,461
- So what’s going on with Jas?
- She’s--oh, man.

372
00:14:13,461 --> 00:14:16,088
I just don’t want her to make
the same mistakes I did.

373
00:14:16,088 --> 00:14:19,319
I don’t care what nobody say.
I don’t like this dude for her.

374
00:14:19,319 --> 00:14:21,319
- You don’t.
- What if Paris started

375
00:14:21,319 --> 00:14:22,428
dating a guy that you really,

376
00:14:22,428 --> 00:14:24,088
really don’t like,
what would you do?

377
00:14:24,088 --> 00:14:25,989
- I would definitely get
my honest opinion,

378
00:14:25,989 --> 00:14:27,890
but I wouldn’t beat it
on her head.

379
00:14:27,890 --> 00:14:29,362
Like, "Oh, he’s not right.

380
00:14:29,362 --> 00:14:30,890
Or you should be
with somebody else."

381
00:14:30,890 --> 00:14:32,791
Because you’re gonna
make her rebellious.

382
00:14:32,791 --> 00:14:34,494
Eventually, she’ll see.
She’ll be like,

383
00:14:34,494 --> 00:14:37,088
"Mom, you was right.
He ain’t all that.

384
00:14:37,088 --> 00:14:38,362
He ain’t who I need
to be with."

385
00:14:38,362 --> 00:14:40,824
You have to let her fall
and bump her head

386
00:14:40,824 --> 00:14:42,461
to get back up
and try it again.

387
00:14:42,461 --> 00:14:43,890
<i>- I’m tired of chasing Jasmine</i>

388
00:14:43,890 --> 00:14:46,220
so we’re just gonna
have fun in Dubai

389
00:14:46,220 --> 00:14:49,253
for these last few days,
and it is what it is.

390
00:14:49,253 --> 00:14:52,824
- Let her be in love
’cause honey, I am in love.

391
00:14:52,824 --> 00:14:54,253
And then you know,
me and Rasheeda

392
00:14:54,253 --> 00:14:55,461
having us a big party tonight.

393
00:14:55,461 --> 00:14:57,362
- I know. It’s your birthday.

394
00:14:57,362 --> 00:14:58,527
- Then we got the wedding.

395
00:14:58,527 --> 00:15:00,989
We got so much time
to spend together, friend.

396
00:15:00,989 --> 00:15:04,857
Come on. Let’s go get drunk.
- [laughs]

397
00:15:04,857 --> 00:15:08,187
<i>♪ ♪</i>

398
00:15:08,187 --> 00:15:10,088
- Yes, God.
- How are you?

399
00:15:10,088 --> 00:15:14,461
Last night barbecue
was a disaster, and Momma Dee

400
00:15:14,461 --> 00:15:15,857
is everything to blame.

401
00:15:15,857 --> 00:15:17,286
My son is not speaking to me

402
00:15:17,286 --> 00:15:20,626
so now I need Momma Dee
to clean up the mess she made.

403
00:15:20,626 --> 00:15:24,154
- Girl, you know,
it’s about 115 degrees here.

404
00:15:24,154 --> 00:15:25,890
- I feel it.
I’m about to faint.

405
00:15:25,890 --> 00:15:26,956
- Yeah, climb on up here, girl.

406
00:15:26,956 --> 00:15:28,362
- Yeah, but I needed
to come see you.

407
00:15:28,362 --> 00:15:31,461
- Yeah.
- Because of yesterday.

408
00:15:31,461 --> 00:15:34,055
- Uh-huh.
I don’t regret opening my mouth

409
00:15:34,055 --> 00:15:36,286
because that’s something
that need to be said.

410
00:15:36,286 --> 00:15:38,923
I hold on to it
and I hold on strong.

411
00:15:38,923 --> 00:15:39,791
I’m not taking it back.

412
00:15:39,791 --> 00:15:43,989
I invited you to Dubai, right?
- Mm-hmm.

413
00:15:43,989 --> 00:15:45,857
- I brought you here
for support

414
00:15:45,857 --> 00:15:47,956
because we were growing
into a friendship.

415
00:15:47,956 --> 00:15:49,319
- Right and I’m here
for support.

416
00:15:49,319 --> 00:15:50,187
- We share a lot.

417
00:15:50,187 --> 00:15:53,362
And you see a moment of two
happy people who come to...

418
00:15:53,362 --> 00:15:54,494
both: To renew their vows.

419
00:15:54,494 --> 00:15:56,220
- And this to come out
your mouth.

420
00:15:56,220 --> 00:15:58,286
- At the end of the day,
let me tell you what’s

421
00:15:58,286 --> 00:16:01,187
easy for me is to own my truth.
- Uh-huh.

422
00:16:01,187 --> 00:16:03,220
- You told me that you want
to come up there

423
00:16:03,220 --> 00:16:05,154
whether or not
their marriage was real.

424
00:16:05,154 --> 00:16:06,319
- So you thought
that was the right time?

425
00:16:06,319 --> 00:16:08,055
On they special day in Dubai...
- No, no, no.

426
00:16:08,055 --> 00:16:09,428
- For me to own something,
to tell him

427
00:16:09,428 --> 00:16:11,923
that their marriage was fake?
- But you said it.

428
00:16:11,923 --> 00:16:13,055
- I brought you here.
So--okay.

429
00:16:13,055 --> 00:16:15,286
I said it to you
so you brought it to them?

430
00:16:15,286 --> 00:16:17,220
You have to listen.
What would stop you

431
00:16:17,220 --> 00:16:18,560
from acting out
on their wedding?

432
00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:20,187
I mean, that’s a day--
- I’m not gon’--

433
00:16:20,187 --> 00:16:22,560
Judy,
I would never do that now.

434
00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:24,253
Ooh.
I may be a lot of stuff

435
00:16:24,253 --> 00:16:27,527
but never would I ever
do something like that.

436
00:16:27,527 --> 00:16:31,593
If I was in your situation,
I would just own my truth.

437
00:16:31,593 --> 00:16:33,923
- And my truth is to tell you
not to come right now.

438
00:16:33,923 --> 00:16:35,055
- Listen--
- Because I don’t know

439
00:16:35,055 --> 00:16:36,187
what you’re talking about.
- [sighs]

440
00:16:36,187 --> 00:16:37,220
- Truth is to tell you
not to come.

441
00:16:37,220 --> 00:16:39,055
- If I’m not welcome, I’m good.
- Yeah, because you’re

442
00:16:39,055 --> 00:16:39,857
talking stupid [bleep].

443
00:16:39,857 --> 00:16:42,154
Stop going around my family
with the he said, she said.

444
00:16:42,154 --> 00:16:44,956
- It’s not he said!
- Oh, "What Judy said to me,

445
00:16:44,956 --> 00:16:45,956
about they had
a fake marriage."

446
00:16:45,956 --> 00:16:47,527
- But that’s not he said.
That came out your mouth.

447
00:16:47,527 --> 00:16:48,725
- Okay, so you--all right.
So you know what--

448
00:16:48,725 --> 00:16:50,220
- Did it not--
Am I lying? But am I lying?

449
00:16:50,220 --> 00:16:51,395
- Look at my mouth.
- Am I lying?

450
00:16:51,395 --> 00:16:53,923
- Look at my mouth.
- No, but tell me if I’m lying.

451
00:16:53,923 --> 00:16:55,395
- No, no--
- You are not welcome

452
00:16:55,395 --> 00:16:56,923
to come to the wedding.
- I’m not a kid.

453
00:16:56,923 --> 00:16:58,055
I’m not a kid.
- That’s my mouth.

454
00:16:58,055 --> 00:16:59,527
- All right. Well, okay then.
Sorry.

455
00:16:59,527 --> 00:17:00,659
- That’s my truth.
- All right.

456
00:17:00,659 --> 00:17:02,626
She can’t, disinvite the queen.

457
00:17:02,626 --> 00:17:04,319
<i>Bitch, I’ma be
at wedding, girl</i>

458
00:17:04,319 --> 00:17:06,253
with the horse
and the buggies, girl.

459
00:17:06,253 --> 00:17:10,989
Yeah. Another drink,
’cause I damn sure need it.

460
00:17:10,989 --> 00:17:12,253
Mm.

461
00:17:12,253 --> 00:17:14,494
<i>- ♪ Now when
the sun comes out ♪</i>

462
00:17:14,494 --> 00:17:16,022
<i>♪ What do it deliver? ♪</i>

463
00:17:16,022 --> 00:17:18,220
<i>♪ A new day
that better and bigger ♪</i>

464
00:17:18,220 --> 00:17:21,319
<i>♪ Make it happen
time to pull the trigger ♪</i>

465
00:17:21,319 --> 00:17:23,758
<i>♪ Now’s the time
to double your figures ♪</i>

466
00:17:23,758 --> 00:17:26,121
<i>♪ Now’s the time,
and it’s the only time ♪</i>

467
00:17:26,121 --> 00:17:28,593
<i>♪ I’m trying to make a dollar
</i><i>out of dime ♪</i>

468
00:17:28,593 --> 00:17:31,725
<i>♪ I’m on my grind
in pious state of mind ♪</i>

469
00:17:31,725 --> 00:17:34,593
- Take your sister car seat
to the back.

470
00:17:34,593 --> 00:17:35,692
- Hello.

471
00:17:35,692 --> 00:17:37,022
- Oh, hey, Ma.
- Hi.

472
00:17:37,022 --> 00:17:38,362
How y’all doin’?
- You got your hands full, huh?

473
00:17:38,362 --> 00:17:42,461
- I do. I got three.
I’m practicing.

474
00:17:42,461 --> 00:17:43,088
- Hi, Saf.

475
00:17:43,088 --> 00:17:45,022
- We giving her mommy
a little break.

476
00:17:45,022 --> 00:17:47,692
I’ve been really concerned
about Erica,

477
00:17:47,692 --> 00:17:50,088
<i>especially
after this recent robbery.</i>

478
00:17:50,088 --> 00:17:53,527
She’s exhausted. She doesn’t
have any family in town.

479
00:17:53,527 --> 00:17:58,362
Safaree is not really
as present as, you know,

480
00:17:58,362 --> 00:17:59,461
she needs him to be right now.

481
00:17:59,461 --> 00:18:02,286
I’m just trying to take some
of that pressure off of her.

482
00:18:02,286 --> 00:18:04,395
And I take Safire because hey,

483
00:18:04,395 --> 00:18:08,989
I gotta get used to having
three--three car seats anyway.

484
00:18:08,989 --> 00:18:11,055
- I cannot wait
to have three kids.

485
00:18:11,055 --> 00:18:14,494
Ooh! I ain’t going never
be able to sit down.

486
00:18:14,494 --> 00:18:15,461
Well, you just got back?

487
00:18:15,461 --> 00:18:17,527
- Yeah, I had to go and see
about your auntie.

488
00:18:17,527 --> 00:18:19,527
She was sick.
- And how’s she doing now?

489
00:18:19,527 --> 00:18:22,725
- She’s doing better.
What’s going on with you?

490
00:18:22,725 --> 00:18:23,659
- Oh, everything.

491
00:18:23,659 --> 00:18:28,791
I’m just over here
being a mom and a entrepreneur.

492
00:18:28,791 --> 00:18:30,560
- What about being a wife?

493
00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:33,494
- Apparently, I’m not
being a good one.

494
00:18:33,494 --> 00:18:35,527
- Why not?
- Because I take care

495
00:18:35,527 --> 00:18:38,626
of my kids too much
and work too much.

496
00:18:38,626 --> 00:18:39,725
He think he’s the victim.

497
00:18:39,725 --> 00:18:42,494
Like, I’m pregnant.
I’m taking care of these kids.

498
00:18:42,494 --> 00:18:45,428
I’m taking care of everything,
and you’re complaining.

499
00:18:45,428 --> 00:18:49,121
Scrappy never thinks
that he’s doing anything wrong.

500
00:18:49,121 --> 00:18:53,593
I know that my [bleep]
is together completely.

501
00:18:53,593 --> 00:18:56,154
<i>But I’m human and I understand</i>

502
00:18:56,154 --> 00:18:58,725
that I can do better
in some areas.

503
00:18:58,725 --> 00:19:00,121
Scrap? No.

504
00:19:00,121 --> 00:19:01,319
And that’s a problem.

505
00:19:01,319 --> 00:19:02,253
I don’t know what he wants,

506
00:19:02,253 --> 00:19:05,527
but clearly, you know,
this ain’t enough for him.

507
00:19:05,527 --> 00:19:08,121
- So where do we go from here?
What are we going to do?

508
00:19:08,121 --> 00:19:12,286
- I’m just going to continue
doing what I do and, you know,

509
00:19:12,286 --> 00:19:16,659
try to relax
until I give birth.

510
00:19:16,659 --> 00:19:18,154
But if things don’t get better,

511
00:19:18,154 --> 00:19:20,692
I might have to consider
speaking to a lawyer.

512
00:19:20,692 --> 00:19:24,494
<i>[phone ringing]
</i>Oh, it’s Erica calling.

513
00:19:26,395 --> 00:19:28,626
- You’re in the hospital.

514
00:19:28,626 --> 00:19:31,857
What’s going on?

515
00:19:31,857 --> 00:19:33,560
- No way!

516
00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:35,824
So what are you
gonna have to do?

517
00:19:40,319 --> 00:19:42,362
- Okay, well the baby is fine.

518
00:19:42,362 --> 00:19:45,154
You just need
to rest and relax.

519
00:19:53,626 --> 00:19:56,890
- It’s really scary.
If you go into labor right now,

520
00:19:56,890 --> 00:19:58,725
<i>your baby’s going
to be premature.</i>

521
00:19:58,725 --> 00:20:03,362
Erica is alone
and that just ain’t right.

522
00:20:03,362 --> 00:20:05,560
Have you talked to him?

523
00:20:05,890 --> 00:20:09,626
- You haven’t tried to tell him
what’s going on?

524
00:20:15,187 --> 00:20:18,626
- Oh, my gosh.

525
00:20:18,626 --> 00:20:22,395
- No, he would.
He--he got to.

526
00:20:26,857 --> 00:20:29,527
<i>- Now that Erica has filed
</i><i>for divorce,</i>

527
00:20:29,527 --> 00:20:31,626
<i>you know,
this whole thing is public.</i>

528
00:20:31,626 --> 00:20:34,659
She’s going through it
and it’s just making me feel

529
00:20:34,659 --> 00:20:40,626
like I just don’t, you know,
I--I don’t want to be next.

530
00:20:40,626 --> 00:20:44,560
Oh, my gosh, that is not good.

531
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,791
<i>- Coming up on
"Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta"...</i>

532
00:20:46,791 --> 00:20:50,187
- So what are we doing about
your mom for the ceremony?

533
00:20:50,187 --> 00:20:52,923
- If you’re gonna be
that rude and hurtful,

534
00:20:52,923 --> 00:20:54,593
stay over there.

535
00:20:59,597 --> 00:21:00,998
<b><i>- ♪ My way to the top,</i></b>
<b><i>and it ain't no stoppin' ♪</i></b>

536
00:21:01,065 --> 00:21:03,000
<b><i>- ♪ Fly with me</i></b>
<b><i>to the sky with me ♪</i></b>

537
00:21:03,067 --> 00:21:05,670
<b><i>♪ Don't be surprised</i></b>
<b><i>at things you find in me ♪</i></b>

538
00:21:05,736 --> 00:21:07,805
<b><i>♪ Stereotypes,</i></b>
<b><i>we live the stereo life ♪</i></b>

539
00:21:09,140 --> 00:21:11,075
<b>- Another one.</b>

540
00:21:11,142 --> 00:21:14,612
<b><i>- ♪ There is nothing</i></b>
<b><i>but our loving left to lose ♪</i></b>

541
00:21:14,679 --> 00:21:16,981
<b>- Many nights I prayed</b>
<b>for something like this</b>

542
00:21:17,048 --> 00:21:20,184
<b>and dreamed of stuff like this</b>
<b>happening, so it feels so good.</b>

543
00:21:20,251 --> 00:21:24,322
<b>- You-- [bleep],</b>
<b>I laid on the bunk</b>

544
00:21:24,388 --> 00:21:27,391
<b>you know, and just gazed</b>
<b>at the ceiling praying</b>

545
00:21:27,458 --> 00:21:32,096
<b>for to be places like this</b>
<b>with--with you and the kids.</b>

546
00:21:32,163 --> 00:21:35,933
<b>I feel so blessed that I'm able</b>
<b>to have my family in Dubai</b>

547
00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,602
<b>and, you know, I want this</b>
<b>to be a regular thing</b>

548
00:21:38,669 --> 00:21:42,673
<b>that we do to take trips</b>
<b>and just enjoy life</b>

549
00:21:42,740 --> 00:21:45,509
<b>and create these big smiles</b>
<b>and memories.</b>

550
00:21:45,576 --> 00:21:49,914
<b>- So have you started thinking</b>
<b>of your vows yet?</b>

551
00:21:49,981 --> 00:21:51,482
<b>- Oh, no--</b>
<b>- Or you going just straight</b>

552
00:21:51,549 --> 00:21:53,317
<b>off the top of your head?</b>
<b>- I'm--yeah, I'm a freestyler.</b>

553
00:21:53,384 --> 00:21:55,386
<b>I say what's--I say what's on</b>
<b>my heart,</b>

554
00:21:55,453 --> 00:21:57,088
<b>and then it comes out.</b>

555
00:21:57,154 --> 00:21:58,589
<b>I don't know how</b>
<b>it's gon' come out.</b>

556
00:21:58,656 --> 00:22:00,658
<b>- Well you know you get choked</b>
<b>up in front of a crowd.</b>

557
00:22:00,725 --> 00:22:03,227
<b>- Yeah, well,</b>
<b>that's okay. That's me.</b>

558
00:22:05,229 --> 00:22:08,866
<b>- So, what are we doing about</b>
<b>your mom for the ceremony?</b>

559
00:22:08,866 --> 00:22:10,401
<b>I mean, she's here.</b>

560
00:22:10,468 --> 00:22:11,902
<b>- I mean, listen.</b>

561
00:22:11,969 --> 00:22:14,572
<b>She just say her few things,</b>
<b>she do her few things.</b>

562
00:22:14,639 --> 00:22:16,574
<b>And it's like, at this point,</b>
<b>I'm just like tired of it.</b>

563
00:22:16,641 --> 00:22:18,376
<b>She's breaking up this family.</b>

564
00:22:18,442 --> 00:22:20,578
<b>Nobody's breaking up</b>
<b>this family but her.</b>

565
00:22:20,645 --> 00:22:22,880
<b>If you're going to be that rude</b>
<b>and that hurtful,</b>

566
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:24,448
<b>do it--stay over there.</b>

567
00:22:24,515 --> 00:22:26,417
<b>Why--why come ruin our mood?</b>

568
00:22:26,484 --> 00:22:29,353
<b>- Yeah. I'm always hopeful</b>
<b>that Mendeecees' mother</b>

569
00:22:29,420 --> 00:22:31,656
<b>will value what he needs--</b>

570
00:22:31,722 --> 00:22:37,628
<b>love, comfort, loyalty,</b>
<b>trustworthiness.</b>

571
00:22:37,695 --> 00:22:38,596
<b>That's it.</b>

572
00:22:38,663 --> 00:22:40,898
<b>He don't ask for much.</b>

573
00:22:40,931 --> 00:22:42,500
<b>Come here.</b>
<b>Come on.</b>

574
00:22:42,566 --> 00:22:44,468
<b>We need to go get ready</b>
<b>for the birthday party.</b>

575
00:22:44,535 --> 00:22:47,438
<b><i>[hip-hop music]</i></b>

576
00:22:47,505 --> 00:22:54,645
<b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

577
00:22:59,917 --> 00:23:03,587
<b>- So tonight,</b>
<b>it's Gemini season on that ass.</b>

578
00:23:03,654 --> 00:23:06,057
<b>Me and Sierra's birthday</b>
<b>are one day apart.</b>

579
00:23:06,123 --> 00:23:10,027
<b>Okay, so we are getting ready</b>
<b>to have a joint birthday party.</b>

580
00:23:10,094 --> 00:23:13,030
<b>And my girl, Yandy,</b>
<b>she has a local performer.</b>

581
00:23:13,097 --> 00:23:15,032
<b><i>His name is Free,</i></b>
<b><i>and I'm really enjoying this.</i></b>

582
00:23:15,099 --> 00:23:18,035
<b>He's, like, rapping in Arabic</b>
<b>and I'm just like,</b>

583
00:23:18,102 --> 00:23:20,171
<b>I might not get all the words,</b>
<b>but you know what?</b>

584
00:23:20,237 --> 00:23:22,940
<b>Music is a universal</b>
<b>language, baby, so let's go.</b>

585
00:23:23,007 --> 00:23:28,379
<b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

586
00:23:28,446 --> 00:23:32,383
<b>[cheering]</b>

587
00:23:32,450 --> 00:23:33,584
<b>- You did that!</b>

588
00:23:33,651 --> 00:23:35,786
<b>Shout out to the DJ.</b>

589
00:23:35,886 --> 00:23:38,055
<b>I'm so blessed to have</b>
<b>Rasheeda and Sierra here</b>

590
00:23:38,122 --> 00:23:40,691
<b>to celebrate my wedding,</b>
<b>but it's their birthday,</b>

591
00:23:40,758 --> 00:23:44,295
<b>so I would never be so selfish</b>
<b>not to celebrate them.</b>

592
00:23:44,362 --> 00:23:48,633
<b>all: Happy birthday to you.</b>

593
00:23:48,699 --> 00:23:51,102
<b>- And luckily, Ms. Judy</b>
<b>will not be attending</b>

594
00:23:51,168 --> 00:23:53,537
<b>so there will be</b>
<b>no tears tonight.</b>

595
00:23:53,604 --> 00:23:59,577
<b>- ♪ Happy birthday,</b>
<b>dear Sierra and Rasheeda ♪</b>

596
00:23:59,644 --> 00:24:04,548
<b>- ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪</b>
<b>- ♪ To us ♪</b>

597
00:24:04,615 --> 00:24:07,018
<b>- I do not buy surprise</b>
<b>gifts anymore</b>

598
00:24:07,084 --> 00:24:09,020
<b>because we are to deep</b>
<b>in the relationship</b>

599
00:24:09,086 --> 00:24:10,688
<b>and this shit</b>
<b>cost too much money.</b>

600
00:24:10,755 --> 00:24:13,924
<b>But Rasheeda wanted</b>
<b>this gift last year,</b>

601
00:24:13,991 --> 00:24:16,127
<b>and it sat to this year</b>
<b>because--</b>

602
00:24:16,193 --> 00:24:18,529
<b>- Oh, no.</b>
<b>- So there go your--</b>

603
00:24:18,596 --> 00:24:21,265
<b>there your joint, girl.</b>
<b>- Oh, [bleep], bitch!</b>

604
00:24:21,332 --> 00:24:23,501
<b>[shouting]</b>
<b>Oh, [bleep]!</b>

605
00:24:23,567 --> 00:24:24,969
<b>Ooh-hoo-hoo-hoo!</b>

606
00:24:25,036 --> 00:24:29,674
<b>♪ Put it on her,</b>
<b>make her wanna marry me, hey ♪</b>

607
00:24:29,740 --> 00:24:31,442
<b>- You know, in your vows</b>
<b>you say, you know,</b>

608
00:24:31,509 --> 00:24:33,711
<b>for richer or better, poor</b>
<b>or worse,</b>

609
00:24:33,778 --> 00:24:36,647
<b>in sick and and death, do you</b>
<b>part and all these things.</b>

610
00:24:36,714 --> 00:24:38,582
<b><i>So guess what?</i></b>
<b><i>When I was in the hole,</i></b>

611
00:24:38,649 --> 00:24:40,885
<b>Rasheeda held me down.</b>
<b>Now that we back up,</b>

612
00:24:40,951 --> 00:24:42,353
<b>we heading</b>
<b>in the right direction,</b>

613
00:24:42,420 --> 00:24:43,988
<b>I feel like we make sure</b>
<b>you get the--</b>

614
00:24:44,055 --> 00:24:45,156
<b>get what you want you.</b>

615
00:24:45,222 --> 00:24:46,624
<b>And now we up, so let's be up.</b>

616
00:24:46,691 --> 00:24:48,693
<b>- Got some canaries.</b>

617
00:24:48,759 --> 00:24:52,029
<b>- Yeah!</b>
<b>- And another one.</b>

618
00:24:52,096 --> 00:24:54,465
<b>- Yes!</b>

619
00:24:54,532 --> 00:24:57,969
<b>Boy, stop playing with me.</b>

620
00:24:58,035 --> 00:24:59,270
<b>Let's throw them away.</b>

621
00:24:59,337 --> 00:25:01,973
<b>Thank you, Kirk,</b>
<b>for making me feel so special.</b>

622
00:25:02,039 --> 00:25:04,475
<b>- Come on now,</b>
<b>he barely bought them.</b>

623
00:25:04,542 --> 00:25:06,177
<b>- That's what marriage</b>
<b>is supposed to look like.</b>

624
00:25:06,243 --> 00:25:09,714
<b>Hey, listen, listen, listen,</b>
<b>listen, listen, listen.</b>

625
00:25:09,847 --> 00:25:12,450
<b>- Oh.</b>
<b>- You set the bar high, Kirk.</b>

626
00:25:12,516 --> 00:25:13,918
<b>I want everybody to follow us.</b>

627
00:25:13,985 --> 00:25:16,420
<b>- Where we going?</b>
<b>- We going back to our room.</b>

628
00:25:16,487 --> 00:25:19,423
<b>So here I am watching Kirk</b>
<b>give Rasheeda gift after gift</b>

629
00:25:19,490 --> 00:25:21,258
<b>and they've been together</b>
<b>over 20 years,</b>

630
00:25:21,325 --> 00:25:22,560
<b><i>so the pressure is on.</i></b>

631
00:25:22,626 --> 00:25:24,161
<b>I'm the new guy on the block.</b>

632
00:25:24,228 --> 00:25:27,031
<b>I gotta wow my girl.</b>

633
00:25:27,098 --> 00:25:29,266
<b>Happy birthday.</b>
<b>- This is amazing.</b>

634
00:25:29,333 --> 00:25:31,135
<b>- She got signs made.</b>

635
00:25:31,202 --> 00:25:33,871
<b>- Rasheeda got another ring,</b>
<b>some more gifts</b>

636
00:25:33,904 --> 00:25:35,473
<b>and some more and some more.</b>

637
00:25:35,539 --> 00:25:40,044
<b>And now Eric has Sierra's name</b>
<b>in lights, which was cute.</b>

638
00:25:40,111 --> 00:25:41,879
<b>I didn't know how to explain</b>
<b>to you how I love you</b>

639
00:25:41,912 --> 00:25:44,348
<b>and how you take care</b>
<b>of everybody around you,</b>

640
00:25:44,415 --> 00:25:46,283
<b>how you make people</b>
<b>feel comfortable,</b>

641
00:25:46,350 --> 00:25:50,888
<b>how you show people how much</b>
<b>how comfortable they are.</b>

642
00:25:50,888 --> 00:25:53,658
<b>And I just wanna</b>
<b>make you see that.</b>

643
00:25:53,724 --> 00:25:56,293
<b>Sierra, there's something</b>
<b>I want to ask you.</b>

644
00:25:56,360 --> 00:25:58,829
<b>- Oh, [bleep].</b>

645
00:25:58,896 --> 00:26:01,832
<b><i>Coming up on</i></b>
<b><i>"Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta"...</i></b>

646
00:26:01,866 --> 00:26:05,069
<b>- The doctors do fear of me</b>
<b>going into premature labor.</b>

647
00:26:05,136 --> 00:26:07,004
<b>If he is born this early,</b>

648
00:26:07,071 --> 00:26:09,607
<b>he will be put into</b>
<b>an incubator.</b>

649
00:26:13,106 --> 00:26:14,941
<i>- ♪ My way to the top,
and it ain’t no stoppin’ ♪</i>

650
00:26:14,941 --> 00:26:15,842
<i>♪ ♪</i>

651
00:26:15,842 --> 00:26:17,634
- I didn’t know how to explain
to you how I love you

652
00:26:17,634 --> 00:26:22,040
and how you take care of me
and make you see that.

653
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:23,667
There’s something
I want to ask you.

654
00:26:23,667 --> 00:26:26,733
- When it comes to me and Eric
giving me gifts,

655
00:26:26,733 --> 00:26:27,974
he goes all out.

656
00:26:27,974 --> 00:26:29,238
And I’m not gonna lie,

657
00:26:29,238 --> 00:26:31,139
he’s making me nervous
right now.

658
00:26:31,139 --> 00:26:33,667
Is he about to get on
one knee or what?

659
00:26:33,667 --> 00:26:35,667
- What do you give a woman
that has everything?

660
00:26:35,667 --> 00:26:37,941
So I had this sign
custom-made for you

661
00:26:37,941 --> 00:26:39,535
and I got you some gifts, too.

662
00:26:39,535 --> 00:26:40,908
I don’t know
where the gifts is at.

663
00:26:40,908 --> 00:26:41,875
Here go the gifts
right here.

664
00:26:41,875 --> 00:26:46,667
- Well, it wasn’t a proposal,
but Eric is trying.

665
00:26:46,667 --> 00:26:49,908
Sierra is a boss.
She ain’t a easy one to please.

666
00:26:49,908 --> 00:26:52,172
Now, she like
the good [bleep].

667
00:26:52,172 --> 00:26:54,875
So he knows that, so make sure
you come with it.

668
00:26:54,875 --> 00:26:57,875
- Ooh, [bleep]!
- It’s big, honey.

669
00:26:57,875 --> 00:26:58,842
- That’s pretty.

670
00:26:58,842 --> 00:27:00,809
Oh, thank you.
- With your shoes to match.

671
00:27:00,809 --> 00:27:01,776
- Oh, yes!
- Okay.

672
00:27:01,776 --> 00:27:05,205
- Ooh, yay!
[cheering]

673
00:27:05,205 --> 00:27:08,700
- All right, guys. Good night.
We about to go have fun.

674
00:27:08,700 --> 00:27:11,073
all: Whoo!
- Yes!

675
00:27:11,073 --> 00:27:15,139
Everybody know that
I am a runaway bride.

676
00:27:15,139 --> 00:27:17,073
But if Eric would’ve
gave me a ring,

677
00:27:17,073 --> 00:27:19,733
I woulda said yes,
because I truly love him.

678
00:27:19,733 --> 00:27:23,875
I can say that Chanel will do
for now, but I cannot wait

679
00:27:23,875 --> 00:27:29,535
until I can just dress
my baby’s room up in Chanel.

680
00:27:30,733 --> 00:27:32,974
- Hey.
- Hey, handsome.

681
00:27:32,974 --> 00:27:36,205
- What’s good?
- Nothing.

682
00:27:36,205 --> 00:27:37,007
Tonight is a good night.

683
00:27:37,007 --> 00:27:40,535
- Yeah.
- Night before the big night.

684
00:27:40,535 --> 00:27:41,776
- Listen, we gotta talk.

685
00:27:41,776 --> 00:27:44,139
I had a conversation
with your mom

686
00:27:44,139 --> 00:27:45,733
and what happened last night,

687
00:27:45,733 --> 00:27:48,908
and she was mad
that I told you what she said

688
00:27:48,908 --> 00:27:50,601
about the marriage being fake.

689
00:27:50,601 --> 00:27:52,875
But you know,
I wanted you to know.

690
00:27:52,875 --> 00:27:54,634
I said, own up to your truth.

691
00:27:54,634 --> 00:27:55,535
And she put everything on me.

692
00:27:55,535 --> 00:27:58,842
- Yeah, that’s expected, too.
When people caught wrong,

693
00:27:58,842 --> 00:28:00,535
instead of
taking responsibility

694
00:28:00,535 --> 00:28:02,700
and accountability,
they deflect.

695
00:28:02,700 --> 00:28:04,941
I’m tired of that.
In the snap of a finger,

696
00:28:04,941 --> 00:28:06,238
everybody’s supposed to forgive
her

697
00:28:06,238 --> 00:28:08,733
and say yesterday was the pest.

698
00:28:08,733 --> 00:28:09,842
At this moment right now,

699
00:28:09,842 --> 00:28:12,733
I’m not even giving her
the address.

700
00:28:12,733 --> 00:28:14,667
This is something
that’s real to us

701
00:28:14,667 --> 00:28:17,073
and we want to enjoy it
for us and our kids.

702
00:28:17,073 --> 00:28:19,205
- You wanna protect
your family, and I get that.

703
00:28:19,205 --> 00:28:20,271
It’s just for me, like,

704
00:28:20,271 --> 00:28:22,842
I--I had such a difficult
relationship with my mom

705
00:28:22,842 --> 00:28:24,205
and I’m saying this
with my heart.

706
00:28:24,205 --> 00:28:27,073
The milestones in my life
my mom has been there

707
00:28:27,073 --> 00:28:29,205
and regardless
of what relationship me

708
00:28:29,205 --> 00:28:30,271
and my mom had in the past,

709
00:28:30,271 --> 00:28:32,667
I was grateful to know
that she was there.

710
00:28:32,667 --> 00:28:33,875
And now that we got past them,

711
00:28:33,875 --> 00:28:35,238
when I look back
at those pictures,

712
00:28:35,238 --> 00:28:36,601
I’m like, "[bleep], thank God.

713
00:28:36,601 --> 00:28:39,337
I didn’t let those moments
keep my mom from being there

714
00:28:39,337 --> 00:28:40,601
because my mom was
in the picture."

715
00:28:40,601 --> 00:28:44,700
<i>- Even though Judy is trying
to blame me for everything,</i>

716
00:28:44,700 --> 00:28:45,700
<i>I agree with Jonathan.</i>

717
00:28:45,700 --> 00:28:47,974
Mendeecees need to put
all the issues aside

718
00:28:47,974 --> 00:28:50,238
and allow his mom to be there.

719
00:28:50,238 --> 00:28:51,974
You’re only gon’
have one mother.

720
00:28:51,974 --> 00:28:53,139
- She’s not--she’s not there

721
00:28:53,139 --> 00:28:56,238
because she put--
she didn’t put herself.

722
00:28:56,238 --> 00:28:58,700
- Still your momma,
irregardless.

723
00:28:58,700 --> 00:29:03,073
You think
Scrappy like my [bleep]?

724
00:29:03,073 --> 00:29:03,700
Hell no!

725
00:29:03,700 --> 00:29:05,271
But I’ll be the first.
He don’t like it.

726
00:29:05,271 --> 00:29:09,040
Makes him uncomfortable.
But guess what? I’m his momma.

727
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:10,667
And it is what it is.

728
00:29:10,667 --> 00:29:13,139
<i>♪ ♪</i>

729
00:29:17,700 --> 00:29:20,733
<i>[somber music]</i>

730
00:29:20,733 --> 00:29:23,304
<i>♪ ♪</i>

731
00:29:23,304 --> 00:29:25,842
<i>- Well, it’s day three.</i>

732
00:29:25,842 --> 00:29:28,700
I’m here.

733
00:29:28,700 --> 00:29:33,040
Me, myself,
and my little Y.

734
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:38,974
And I’m just waiting to see
what the status is right now.

735
00:29:38,974 --> 00:29:41,271
There’s no doubt about it,
Safaree’s recent antics

736
00:29:41,271 --> 00:29:45,667
have definitely made me become
so stressed to the point

737
00:29:45,667 --> 00:29:49,271
that it’s extremely unhealthy
for a pregnant woman.

738
00:29:49,271 --> 00:29:52,337
The doctors do fear of me
going into premature labor

739
00:29:52,337 --> 00:29:56,238
because of the fact
that I am dilating.

740
00:29:56,238 --> 00:29:58,974
If he is born this early,

741
00:29:58,974 --> 00:30:01,271
he will be put
into an incubator

742
00:30:01,271 --> 00:30:04,733
until it’s time
for him to come home.

743
00:30:04,733 --> 00:30:09,733
He’s purposely tried to hurt me
and make my pregnancy hell.

744
00:30:09,733 --> 00:30:10,974
What am I putting
my body through

745
00:30:10,974 --> 00:30:13,073
by dealing with all this
unnecessary [bleep]

746
00:30:13,073 --> 00:30:17,809
that could possibly be
affecting my unborn child?

747
00:30:17,809 --> 00:30:20,205
You know, I’m really
just trying to keep myself

748
00:30:20,205 --> 00:30:21,403
in the best spirits possible.

749
00:30:21,403 --> 00:30:25,403
My daughter is
what’s keeping me going to

750
00:30:25,403 --> 00:30:28,403
FaceTiming her and my kids,
in general,

751
00:30:28,403 --> 00:30:31,073
is just where I’m finding
my source--source

752
00:30:31,073 --> 00:30:35,106
of strength
and drive and comfort from

753
00:30:35,106 --> 00:30:38,502
because that’s all I have
right now.

754
00:30:38,502 --> 00:30:42,007
I haven’t seen or spoken
to my husband in a week

755
00:30:42,007 --> 00:30:47,809
and I’ve been left here to deal
with all of this all on my own.

756
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:53,205
It’s literally a nightmare
for me right now.

757
00:30:53,205 --> 00:30:57,073
<i>I married someone
literally abandoned me.</i>

758
00:30:57,073 --> 00:30:58,469
I thought he would get better.

759
00:30:58,469 --> 00:31:01,337
I thought this would
bring us together closer,

760
00:31:01,337 --> 00:31:03,337
but it’s obvious
I’m not a concern

761
00:31:03,337 --> 00:31:08,139
on Safaree’s mind whatsoever,
and neither is my unborn child.

762
00:31:08,139 --> 00:31:10,238
- I’m out here.
I’m going to the airport.

763
00:31:10,238 --> 00:31:11,040
I’m going to Miami.

764
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,502
- You gon’ leave, bro?
- I ain’t trying to be around

765
00:31:12,502 --> 00:31:15,974
all this bad energy.
- Where’d he go?

766
00:31:17,842 --> 00:31:20,238
It’s like
everything that’s happening.

767
00:31:20,238 --> 00:31:22,370
It’s like--

768
00:31:22,370 --> 00:31:23,908
it’s like
he wants to reassure me

769
00:31:23,908 --> 00:31:29,469
that the divorce decision
I made was the right one.

770
00:31:30,337 --> 00:31:32,172
But God as my witness,

771
00:31:32,172 --> 00:31:35,337
I did not want to get divorced.

772
00:31:35,337 --> 00:31:40,469
I would have done anything
to save my marriage.

773
00:31:40,469 --> 00:31:45,337
I really would
have done anything,

774
00:31:45,337 --> 00:31:48,205
especially for my kids.

775
00:31:51,139 --> 00:31:54,106
Wanted my daughter
to see her dad loved her mom

776
00:31:54,106 --> 00:31:58,007
and have that be her
first example

777
00:31:58,007 --> 00:32:03,436
of what a man is supposed to do
in her world, you know?

778
00:32:03,436 --> 00:32:06,535
She’s not gonna get that
with me

779
00:32:06,535 --> 00:32:07,974
sticking around this marriage.

780
00:32:07,974 --> 00:32:13,436
Who would’ve thought I wouldn’t
be going through this alone?

781
00:32:18,907 --> 00:32:22,940
<i>- ♪ My way to the top,
and it ain’t no stoppin’ ♪</i>

782
00:32:22,940 --> 00:32:27,072
<i>♪ ♪</i>

783
00:32:27,072 --> 00:32:29,973
<i>- ♪ It’s a lot,
they got the music bumpin’ ♪</i>

784
00:32:29,973 --> 00:32:32,973
<i>♪ Speakers beatin’,
</i><i>got it jumpin’ ♪</i>

785
00:32:32,973 --> 00:32:37,039
<i>♪ Brown skin girl,
you rock my world ♪</i>

786
00:32:37,039 --> 00:32:42,237
- Today is the big day,
and I’m so stressed right now.

787
00:32:42,237 --> 00:32:43,468
<i>I’m thinking about the kids.</i>

788
00:32:43,468 --> 00:32:45,369
Do they have
their outfits together?

789
00:32:45,369 --> 00:32:48,072
My hair, my makeup--
but I’m lit.

790
00:32:48,072 --> 00:32:52,468
So what--what are we gonna do?

791
00:32:52,468 --> 00:32:53,567
- What you mean?

792
00:32:53,567 --> 00:32:56,567
- With your mom?

793
00:32:56,567 --> 00:32:58,237
- I thought about it,
and, you know,

794
00:32:58,237 --> 00:33:00,336
I agree with what
Jonathan said, you know?

795
00:33:00,336 --> 00:33:03,072
I don’t want to look
back years later

796
00:33:03,072 --> 00:33:04,402
and just feel like that,
you know,

797
00:33:04,402 --> 00:33:09,039
I was so emotional that I let
my emotions get the best of me.

798
00:33:09,039 --> 00:33:11,907
<i>I can’t trust my mom
to behave herself</i>

799
00:33:11,907 --> 00:33:13,600
<i>and I don’t know
what’s gonna happen,</i>

800
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,501
but I just gotta be ready
to deal with it.

801
00:33:16,501 --> 00:33:17,435
I bought her a dress.

802
00:33:17,435 --> 00:33:21,237
I’ma send her the address,
and if she comes, she comes.

803
00:33:21,237 --> 00:33:22,270
- Okay.
- That’s it?

804
00:33:22,270 --> 00:33:24,369
I don’t want to put
too much thought into it.

805
00:33:24,369 --> 00:33:26,567
- Okay.

806
00:33:26,567 --> 00:33:28,600
- Hi.
- Hi.

807
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:31,973
- Hey.

808
00:33:31,973 --> 00:33:34,237
So KP wants
to take us for breakfast.

809
00:33:34,237 --> 00:33:35,369
- Girl, bye.

810
00:33:35,369 --> 00:33:38,039
So of course, KP and Jasmine

811
00:33:38,039 --> 00:33:41,534
are spending even more time
together, but you know what?

812
00:33:41,534 --> 00:33:44,072
I’m appreciative of this little
time with my daughter,

813
00:33:44,072 --> 00:33:47,171
even if getting our makeup done
is as much time as I can get.

814
00:33:47,171 --> 00:33:50,369
You said that you wanted me
to spend more time with me?

815
00:33:50,369 --> 00:33:51,907
This is--
- We are spending time

816
00:33:51,907 --> 00:33:53,940
together.
- If I’m with you,

817
00:33:53,940 --> 00:33:55,468
he can’t be around

818
00:33:55,468 --> 00:33:56,369
because this was our trip.

819
00:33:56,369 --> 00:33:59,369
We’ll plan another trip
for winter for all three of us.

820
00:33:59,369 --> 00:34:02,237
- Oh, that’s nice.
Can we just start now?

821
00:34:02,237 --> 00:34:03,237
- No.

822
00:34:03,237 --> 00:34:06,435
- All right. I think my mama’s
is warming to him.

823
00:34:06,435 --> 00:34:08,402
Yes!
A trip with all three of us?

824
00:34:08,402 --> 00:34:12,534
Let’s go. We get in somewhere.
You’re crazy.

825
00:34:12,534 --> 00:34:14,600
- Yeah, I know.
Crazy about you.

826
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:16,501
- Aww, I love you too.

827
00:34:16,501 --> 00:34:22,973
<i>♪ ♪</i>

828
00:34:22,973 --> 00:34:25,633
- That’s how you gon’ do
at the reception?

829
00:34:25,633 --> 00:34:28,534
- So Mendeecees
got someone a dress.

830
00:34:28,534 --> 00:34:30,336
- Who?
- His mother.

831
00:34:30,336 --> 00:34:31,270
- Oh.

832
00:34:31,270 --> 00:34:34,303
<i>[upbeat music]</i>

833
00:34:34,303 --> 00:34:40,138
<i>♪ ♪</i>

834
00:34:40,138 --> 00:34:41,402
- To Yandy and Mendeecees.

835
00:34:41,402 --> 00:34:44,237
- Love and health, bro.
And success.

836
00:34:44,237 --> 00:34:45,600
- Amen, child.

837
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:53,237
<i>♪ ♪</i>

838
00:34:54,369 --> 00:34:56,435
- We got one more time
to do it, man.

839
00:34:56,435 --> 00:34:57,567
- One more time.
- How you feeling?

840
00:34:57,567 --> 00:35:00,468
- Listen, one more time--
this is the last time, man.

841
00:35:00,468 --> 00:35:03,171
- Are you excited, though?
- I am excited.

842
00:35:03,171 --> 00:35:07,039
I’m nervous. You know, this is
not our first rodeo,

843
00:35:07,039 --> 00:35:11,666
but this is different because
last time when we got married,

844
00:35:11,666 --> 00:35:15,270
we had so much stress on us.

845
00:35:15,270 --> 00:35:18,072
You know, he hadn’t signed
his plea deal yet.

846
00:35:18,072 --> 00:35:21,808
We didn’t know how much time
he was facing.

847
00:35:21,808 --> 00:35:25,765
And I honestly was
so bogged down with stress

848
00:35:25,765 --> 00:35:32,633
that I had to force a smile
because I just--I didn’t know.

849
00:35:32,633 --> 00:35:34,171
I didn’t know
what the future held.

850
00:35:34,171 --> 00:35:37,204
So this is different, you know,
and--and that’s--

851
00:35:37,204 --> 00:35:41,699
- You get to enjoy it.
- I get to enjoy it.

852
00:35:41,699 --> 00:35:44,435
You’re on Judy patrol
all night.

853
00:35:44,435 --> 00:35:46,303
I want you by her side.

854
00:35:46,303 --> 00:35:47,600
I mean, you can going to be
with us of course

855
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,501
but I also want you to just
make sure she’s good and happy.

856
00:35:50,501 --> 00:35:53,501
I don’t want no stress,
please, Jonathan.

857
00:35:53,501 --> 00:35:55,171
- Okay, she’s gonna be fine.

858
00:35:55,171 --> 00:35:58,699
If anyone can keep Judy
happy it’s Jonathan.

859
00:35:58,699 --> 00:36:01,336
Nothing is going
to ruin this moment.

860
00:36:01,336 --> 00:36:03,237
Okay. You ready to do this?

861
00:36:03,237 --> 00:36:07,105
- Y’all ready?
- Yeah. Time to go.

862
00:36:07,303 --> 00:36:09,204
- You look stunning.

863
00:36:09,204 --> 00:36:11,303
- OMG.

864
00:36:14,992 --> 00:36:17,487
<i>- ♪ My way to the top,
and it ain’t no stoppin’ ♪</i>

865
00:36:17,487 --> 00:36:23,157
<i>♪ ♪</i>

866
00:36:23,157 --> 00:36:26,421
<i>- ♪ Don’t let me go ♪</i>

867
00:36:26,421 --> 00:36:29,817
<i>♪ Baby, don’t let me go ♪</i>

868
00:36:29,817 --> 00:36:31,190
<i>♪ I can’t seem to fight ♪</i>

869
00:36:31,190 --> 00:36:36,586
<i>♪ This feeling I get
when I’m with you ♪</i>

870
00:36:36,586 --> 00:36:40,355
<i>♪ So kiss me slow ♪</i>

871
00:36:40,355 --> 00:36:43,256
<i>♪ Love me low ♪</i>

872
00:36:43,256 --> 00:36:47,718
<i>♪ I just wanna be,
I just wanna be ♪</i>

873
00:36:47,718 --> 00:36:49,784
<i>♪ With you ♪</i>

874
00:36:49,784 --> 00:36:53,223
<i>♪ And I just wanna be ♪</i>

875
00:36:53,223 --> 00:36:56,685
<i>♪ With you ♪</i>

876
00:36:56,685 --> 00:36:59,388
<i>♪ You ♪</i>

877
00:36:59,388 --> 00:37:00,817
- Oh, my God!

878
00:37:00,817 --> 00:37:03,091
<i>- ♪ Love you ♪</i>

879
00:37:03,091 --> 00:37:04,751
<i>♪ You don’t even know ♪</i>

880
00:37:04,751 --> 00:37:07,685
<i>♪ How I’m going to miss you ♪</i>

881
00:37:07,685 --> 00:37:11,619
<i>♪ Baby, I just wanna
</i><i>kiss you ♪</i>

882
00:37:11,619 --> 00:37:14,322
[cheering]

883
00:37:14,322 --> 00:37:16,817
- So I see Yandy walking down
the aisle

884
00:37:16,817 --> 00:37:19,223
and she’s, you know,
she’s beautiful.

885
00:37:19,223 --> 00:37:21,289
<i>I’m pretty much
lost for words.</i>

886
00:37:21,289 --> 00:37:22,355
<i>I don’t even know what to say.</i>

887
00:37:22,355 --> 00:37:25,388
I’m just happy that we able
to tie the knot again.

888
00:37:25,388 --> 00:37:27,190
This heart is pounding
right now

889
00:37:27,190 --> 00:37:28,091
so I’m gonna help him out.

890
00:37:28,091 --> 00:37:31,685
You can go ahead
and grab your wife’s hand.

891
00:37:31,685 --> 00:37:32,652
Well, good evening, everyone.

892
00:37:32,652 --> 00:37:36,256
I’d like to welcome all the
family, friends, and guests.

893
00:37:36,256 --> 00:37:40,388
We’re gathered here today
to celebrate one of life’s

894
00:37:40,388 --> 00:37:41,718
greatest moments,

895
00:37:41,718 --> 00:37:45,883
the vow renewal of these
two beautiful souls.

896
00:37:45,883 --> 00:37:49,388
<i>♪ ♪</i>

897
00:37:49,388 --> 00:37:50,916
- I just want to say
that I love you.

898
00:37:50,916 --> 00:37:53,487
I’ll vow to love you
for the rest of your life

899
00:37:53,487 --> 00:37:57,388
and protect you through good
times to bad times, you know.

900
00:37:57,388 --> 00:38:02,223
I’m--I just want to be your
savior in any time of need

901
00:38:02,223 --> 00:38:03,421
and even when
you don’t need me.

902
00:38:03,421 --> 00:38:08,487
I just want to be there
for you. I love you.

903
00:38:08,487 --> 00:38:10,421
- Aww!
[laughter]

904
00:38:10,421 --> 00:38:13,718
- You know, when I vowed to you
for better or for worse,

905
00:38:13,718 --> 00:38:18,487
these past couple of years,
that vow has been tested.

906
00:38:18,487 --> 00:38:19,619
But we made it through.

907
00:38:19,619 --> 00:38:22,959
- One thing about this moment
for Yandy and Mendeecees

908
00:38:22,959 --> 00:38:26,256
is it is
a very deserved moment.

909
00:38:26,256 --> 00:38:27,817
- Let’s see
what’s gonna happen.

910
00:38:27,817 --> 00:38:28,992
[screams]

911
00:38:28,992 --> 00:38:30,355
- Oh, [bleep]!

912
00:38:30,355 --> 00:38:31,487
<i>- They’ve been through a lot.</i>

913
00:38:31,487 --> 00:38:32,850
- I’ma call you as much
as possible.

914
00:38:32,850 --> 00:38:36,619
<i>- So to see them, you know,
rejoicing, it just brings,</i>

915
00:38:36,619 --> 00:38:38,850
<i>like, butterflies
to your stomach to be like,</i>

916
00:38:38,850 --> 00:38:41,817
you know what, love is really,
really beautiful,

917
00:38:41,817 --> 00:38:42,553
y’all for real.

918
00:38:42,553 --> 00:38:44,751
- Mendeecees you will continue
to have Yandy as your wife

919
00:38:44,751 --> 00:38:48,421
and continue to live
in this happy, loving marriage.

920
00:38:48,421 --> 00:38:50,223
- I will.
- Yandy, will you continue

921
00:38:50,223 --> 00:38:53,223
to have Mendeecees and you
promised to keep loving him

922
00:38:53,223 --> 00:38:55,421
even after all of his hair
is gone.

923
00:38:55,421 --> 00:38:57,959
- [laughs]

924
00:38:57,959 --> 00:38:59,718
I do.

925
00:38:59,718 --> 00:39:03,883
[cheering]

926
00:39:04,553 --> 00:39:06,652
<i>- This turned out to be
</i><i>a beautiful moment</i>

927
00:39:06,652 --> 00:39:10,520
and, you know,
looking forward to many more.

928
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:11,685
- You look beautiful.
- Thank you.

929
00:39:11,685 --> 00:39:13,553
I appreciate it.
- Very beautiful.

930
00:39:13,553 --> 00:39:14,157
- Thank you.

931
00:39:14,157 --> 00:39:16,992
- I’m glad Mendeecees
had a change of heart.

932
00:39:16,992 --> 00:39:18,487
<i>I was so happy.</i>

933
00:39:18,487 --> 00:39:19,421
<i>This has been a lesson</i>

934
00:39:19,421 --> 00:39:22,751
and I’m never gonna
share anything that important

935
00:39:22,751 --> 00:39:25,916
with anybody
outside of my family.

936
00:39:25,916 --> 00:39:27,322
- All right, let’s party.

937
00:39:27,322 --> 00:39:28,652
<i>- ♪ Don’t care what you say ♪</i>

938
00:39:28,652 --> 00:39:29,619
<i>♪ I’m on another level ♪</i>

939
00:39:29,619 --> 00:39:32,355
<i>♪ All these other people, they
don’t really got the memo ♪</i>

940
00:39:32,355 --> 00:39:34,883
- This trip has been so good
for me and Eric.

941
00:39:34,883 --> 00:39:38,784
<i>Every girl dreams of having
</i><i>a happily ever after.</i>

942
00:39:38,784 --> 00:39:40,421
And it didn’t work for me
the first time

943
00:39:40,421 --> 00:39:44,355
but I’m hoping and praying that
God has in store for my future.

944
00:39:44,355 --> 00:39:47,586
<i>- ♪ Sippin’ on a daydream,
darlin’, if you feel it ♪</i>

945
00:39:47,586 --> 00:39:48,685
<i>♪ I know that I’m changing ♪</i>

946
00:39:48,685 --> 00:39:51,289
<i>- I’m going to try and take
</i><i>Sierra’s advice</i>

947
00:39:51,289 --> 00:39:52,157
<i>and be less controlling.</i>

948
00:39:52,157 --> 00:39:54,322
I don’t always agree
with my daughter’s choices.

949
00:39:54,322 --> 00:39:56,586
But guess what?
I will always be her mother,

950
00:39:56,586 --> 00:39:58,751
<i>and I don’t want
to push her away.</i>

951
00:39:58,751 --> 00:40:00,586
And when this boyfriend
comes and goes,

952
00:40:00,586 --> 00:40:02,520
Mama will still always be here.

953
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:05,421
<i>- ♪ I’m keeping in step
</i><i>with the sunlight ♪</i>

954
00:40:05,421 --> 00:40:09,959
- Dubai has been a dream
come true. We did it.

955
00:40:09,959 --> 00:40:13,553
<i>Listen, I know that
no family is perfect.</i>

956
00:40:13,553 --> 00:40:17,388
<i>And I’ll be the first
to tell you that my family</i>

957
00:40:17,388 --> 00:40:18,289
<i>is a work in progress.</i>

958
00:40:18,289 --> 00:40:20,421
We are constantly working on
getting to know

959
00:40:20,421 --> 00:40:22,817
each other more,
loving each other better,

960
00:40:22,817 --> 00:40:24,586
but we don’t have it
all figured out.

961
00:40:24,586 --> 00:40:27,553
<i>You know how the movies
always say happily ever after?</i>

962
00:40:27,553 --> 00:40:30,959
Well, we are happily
working on our progress.

963
00:40:30,959 --> 00:40:34,916
<i>- ♪ Baby get us through
</i><i>to the other side ♪</i>

964
00:40:40,716 --> 00:40:42,418
<b>- You're watching</b>
<b>"Love & Hip-Hop Atlanta"...</b>

965
00:40:42,484 --> 00:40:44,286
<b>- Check Yourself.</b>
<b>- Season 10.</b>

966
00:40:44,353 --> 00:40:46,522
<b>- You'll be watching us...</b>
<b>- Watch the show...</b>

967
00:40:46,588 --> 00:40:48,023
<b>- For the very first time.</b>

968
00:40:48,090 --> 00:40:50,325
<b>- You'll be getting our natural</b>
<b>and honest reactions.</b>

969
00:40:50,392 --> 00:40:52,294
<b>- We're watching it...</b>
<b>- With you.</b>

970
00:40:52,361 --> 00:40:54,229
<b>- And the scene</b>
<b>you about to see right now</b>

971
00:40:54,296 --> 00:40:56,732
<b>is Bam talking to her mom Cece</b>

972
00:40:56,799 --> 00:40:58,500
<b>about our situations</b>

973
00:40:58,567 --> 00:41:00,569
<b>and having to help Erica Mena</b>
<b>through hers.</b>

974
00:41:00,636 --> 00:41:03,739
<b> </b><b><i>[relaxed hip-hop music]</i></b>

975
00:41:03,806 --> 00:41:10,746
<b> </b><b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

976
00:41:15,718 --> 00:41:17,720
<b>- Take your sister car seat</b>
<b>to the back.</b>

977
00:41:17,786 --> 00:41:19,221
<b>- Hello.</b>

978
00:41:19,288 --> 00:41:20,789
<b>- Oh, hey, Ma.</b>
<b>- Hi.</b>

979
00:41:20,856 --> 00:41:22,091
<b>How y'all doin'?</b>
<b>- You got your hands full.</b>

980
00:41:22,157 --> 00:41:24,426
<b>- When I tell you</b>
<b>the Goodyear blimp</b>

981
00:41:24,493 --> 00:41:27,262
<b>has came in the door...</b>

982
00:41:27,329 --> 00:41:28,964
<b>my, oh, my.</b>

983
00:41:29,031 --> 00:41:31,500
<b>Looks like someone ain't lost</b>
<b>they appetite.</b>

984
00:41:31,567 --> 00:41:33,836
<b>- I do. I got three.</b>
<b>I'm practicing.</b>

985
00:41:33,902 --> 00:41:35,037
<b>[laughter]</b>

986
00:41:35,104 --> 00:41:36,372
<b>- Hi, Saf.</b>

987
00:41:36,438 --> 00:41:38,707
<b>- We giving her mommy</b>
<b>a little break.</b>

988
00:41:38,774 --> 00:41:40,909
<b>I cannot wait</b>
<b>to have three kids.</b>

989
00:41:40,976 --> 00:41:43,879
<b>Ooh! I ain't going never</b>
<b>be able to sit down.</b>

990
00:41:43,946 --> 00:41:46,382
<b>- You know, apparently,</b>
<b>the Bam always wanted</b>

991
00:41:46,448 --> 00:41:47,883
<b>to be a basketball wife.</b>

992
00:41:47,950 --> 00:41:51,353
<b>Looks like she's trying</b>
<b>to create a whole team.</b>

993
00:41:51,420 --> 00:41:52,454
<b>- What's going on with you?</b>

994
00:41:52,521 --> 00:41:54,023
<b>- Oh, everything.</b>

995
00:41:54,089 --> 00:41:58,927
<b>I'm just over here</b>
<b>being a mom and a entrepreneur.</b>

996
00:41:58,994 --> 00:42:01,296
<b>- What about being a wife?</b>

997
00:42:01,363 --> 00:42:03,265
<b>- That's what I was saying.</b>
<b>[chuckles]</b>

998
00:42:03,265 --> 00:42:04,700
<b>What about being a wife?</b>

999
00:42:04,767 --> 00:42:06,902
<b>- Bambi, if you want</b>
<b>marital advice,</b>

1000
00:42:06,969 --> 00:42:08,937
<b>come to your mother-in-law,</b>
<b>dear.</b>

1001
00:42:09,004 --> 00:42:10,672
<b>Oh, dear</b>
<b>[laughs]</b>

1002
00:42:10,739 --> 00:42:13,509
<b>- Apparently, I'm not</b>
<b>being a good one.</b>

1003
00:42:13,575 --> 00:42:15,677
<b>- Why not?</b>
<b>- Because I take care</b>

1004
00:42:15,744 --> 00:42:18,347
<b>of my kids too much</b>
<b>and work too much.</b>

1005
00:42:18,414 --> 00:42:20,015
<b>He think he's the victim.</b>

1006
00:42:20,082 --> 00:42:22,885
<b>Like, I'm pregnant.</b>
<b>I'm taking care of these kids.</b>

1007
00:42:22,951 --> 00:42:25,688
<b>I'm taking care of everything,</b>
<b>and you're complaining.</b>

1008
00:42:25,754 --> 00:42:28,023
<b>- Hold up, hold up, hold up.</b>

1009
00:42:28,090 --> 00:42:30,826
<b>I'm not gonna let it go on</b>
<b>any further.</b>

1010
00:42:30,893 --> 00:42:32,995
<b>Because we both do</b>
<b>the same thing.</b>

1011
00:42:33,062 --> 00:42:34,296
<b>I really get it in</b>

1012
00:42:34,296 --> 00:42:35,431
<b>with my babies,</b>
<b>you know what I'm saying?</b>

1013
00:42:35,497 --> 00:42:37,032
<b>Ain't no--and you can tell.</b>

1014
00:42:37,099 --> 00:42:38,367
<b>Like, my baby love me.</b>

1015
00:42:38,434 --> 00:42:40,235
<b>All of 'em. All four.</b>

1016
00:42:40,269 --> 00:42:41,603
<b>- I don't know what he wants,</b>

1017
00:42:41,670 --> 00:42:44,273
<b>but clearly, you know,</b>
<b>this ain't enough for him.</b>

1018
00:42:44,339 --> 00:42:45,908
<b>- Wow. Wow.</b>

1019
00:42:45,974 --> 00:42:48,844
<b>First of all, I never said</b>
<b>it wasn't enough.</b>

1020
00:42:48,911 --> 00:42:52,815
<b>I said I need</b>
<b>whatever you say you doing.</b>

1021
00:42:54,249 --> 00:42:56,585
<b>- So where do we go from here?</b>
<b>What are we going to do?</b>

1022
00:42:56,652 --> 00:42:57,953
<b>- I'm just going to continue--</b>

1023
00:42:58,020 --> 00:42:59,321
<b>- [yawns]</b>

1024
00:42:59,388 --> 00:43:01,757
<b>Mm. Cece's making me sleepy.</b>

1025
00:43:01,824 --> 00:43:03,492
<b>Is there a commercial break</b>
<b>yet?</b>

1026
00:43:03,559 --> 00:43:04,893
<b>Anybody know?</b>

1027
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:07,329
<b>- Doing what I do</b>
<b>and, you know,</b>

1028
00:43:07,396 --> 00:43:11,500
<b>try to relax</b>
<b>until I give birth.</b>

1029
00:43:11,567 --> 00:43:13,135
<b>But if things don't get better,</b>

1030
00:43:13,268 --> 00:43:15,704
<b>I might have to consider</b>
<b>speaking to a lawyer.</b>

1031
00:43:15,771 --> 00:43:16,872
<b>- I ain't against that.</b>

1032
00:43:16,939 --> 00:43:18,707
<b>You know,</b>
<b>if things don't get better,</b>

1033
00:43:18,774 --> 00:43:20,609
<b>you gotta get a sweater,</b>
<b>you know what I'm saying?</b>

1034
00:43:20,676 --> 00:43:22,845
<b>It get cold outside,</b>
<b>you know what I'm saying,</b>

1035
00:43:22,911 --> 00:43:24,947
<b>and [bleep]...</b>

1036
00:43:25,014 --> 00:43:27,082
<b>ain't nobody trying to sit</b>
<b>in no [bleep] little [bleep].</b>

1037
00:43:27,149 --> 00:43:29,918
<b> </b><b><i>[phone ringing]</i></b>
<b>- Oh, it's Erica calling.</b>

1038
00:43:32,454 --> 00:43:34,456
<b>- You're in the hospital.</b>

1039
00:43:34,523 --> 00:43:36,025
<b>What's going on?</b>

1040
00:43:36,091 --> 00:43:37,960
<b>- If you have her daughter,</b>

1041
00:43:38,027 --> 00:43:40,529
<b>where did you think</b>
<b>Erica Mena was?</b>

1042
00:43:40,596 --> 00:43:42,664
<b>At the North Pole?</b>

1043
00:43:44,933 --> 00:43:46,668
<b>- No way.</b>

1044
00:43:46,735 --> 00:43:48,370
<b>So what are you</b>
<b>gonna have to do?</b>

1045
00:43:48,437 --> 00:43:50,005
<b>- That [bleep] is scary, man.</b>

1046
00:43:50,072 --> 00:43:52,374
<b>Like, right then,</b>

1047
00:43:52,441 --> 00:43:54,476
<b>like, all bets are off</b>
<b>and everything,</b>

1048
00:43:54,543 --> 00:43:56,512
<b>all anger issues, all of it.</b>

1049
00:43:56,578 --> 00:43:58,080
<b>Like, damn.</b>

1050
00:44:03,352 --> 00:44:05,487
<b>- Okay, well the baby is fine.</b>

1051
00:44:05,554 --> 00:44:07,423
<b>You just need</b>
<b>to rest and relax.</b>

1052
00:44:17,132 --> 00:44:18,400
<b>- Have you talked to him?</b>

1053
00:44:20,035 --> 00:44:22,738
<b>- You haven't tried to tell him</b>
<b>what's going on?</b>

1054
00:44:27,109 --> 00:44:30,345
<b>- Feel like that's a part</b>
<b>of being childish too.</b>

1055
00:44:30,412 --> 00:44:31,513
<b>You know what I'm saying?</b>

1056
00:44:31,580 --> 00:44:33,449
<b>Like, you not telling him</b>
<b>what's going on,</b>

1057
00:44:33,515 --> 00:44:35,117
<b>where you're at,</b>
<b>what happening,</b>

1058
00:44:35,184 --> 00:44:36,952
<b>and you talking</b>
<b>all this other stuff.</b>

1059
00:44:37,019 --> 00:44:41,323
<b>It's another thing</b>
<b>to see your baby in tubes.</b>

1060
00:44:41,390 --> 00:44:42,791
<b>[baby fussing]</b>

1061
00:44:42,858 --> 00:44:46,762
<b>- Oh, my gosh. That's not good.</b>

1062
00:44:46,829 --> 00:44:48,364
<b>- The next scene</b>
<b>that you're about to see</b>

1063
00:44:48,430 --> 00:44:50,599
<b>is Judy owning her truth.</b>

1064
00:44:50,666 --> 00:44:51,967
<b>Unbelievable.</b>

1065
00:44:52,034 --> 00:44:54,937
<b> </b><b><i>[upbeat music]</i></b>

1066
00:44:55,003 --> 00:44:58,340
<b> </b><b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

1067
00:44:58,407 --> 00:44:59,508
<b>- Is that Karlie?</b>
<b>- Yeah.</b>

1068
00:44:59,575 --> 00:45:02,010
<b>- Oh, wow. Wow.</b>

1069
00:45:02,077 --> 00:45:05,280
<b> </b><b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

1070
00:45:05,347 --> 00:45:08,117
<b>- Ooh, look at the camel.</b>
<b>- Mm, mm!</b>

1071
00:45:08,250 --> 00:45:10,552
<b>- Oh, [bleep].</b>
<b>We got another show.</b>

1072
00:45:10,619 --> 00:45:11,854
<b>[camel grunts]</b>

1073
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,023
<b>- I'm here!</b>

1074
00:45:14,089 --> 00:45:16,325
<b>- Here we go with Momma Dee</b>
<b>with this [bleep].</b>

1075
00:45:16,392 --> 00:45:17,459
<b>- What in the heezy?</b>

1076
00:45:17,526 --> 00:45:20,796
<b>- Oh, great.</b>
<b>My mother-in-law's here.</b>

1077
00:45:22,398 --> 00:45:23,899
<b>Wonderful.</b>

1078
00:45:25,434 --> 00:45:26,969
<b>- Girl, you know</b>
<b>you do the most, girl.</b>

1079
00:45:27,036 --> 00:45:28,504
<b>It's gonna get</b>
<b>huggy as hell, girl.</b>

1080
00:45:28,570 --> 00:45:29,938
<b>You know you wanna give him</b>
<b>a kiss.</b>

1081
00:45:30,005 --> 00:45:32,674
<b>When you're in Rome,</b>
<b>you do as the Romans do.</b>

1082
00:45:32,741 --> 00:45:34,943
<b>When you're in Dubai,</b>
<b>you do what the Dubaians do.</b>

1083
00:45:35,010 --> 00:45:37,279
<b>Isn't that right, baby?</b>
<b>[camel groans]</b>

1084
00:45:37,346 --> 00:45:38,781
<b>Yeah.</b>

1085
00:45:38,847 --> 00:45:41,116
<b>- Is she being spiritual</b>
<b>right now?</b>

1086
00:45:41,216 --> 00:45:44,119
<b>- I came here to apologize</b>
<b>to you about a conversation me</b>

1087
00:45:44,219 --> 00:45:47,923
<b>and Momma Dee had about</b>
<b>were y'all really married.</b>

1088
00:45:47,990 --> 00:45:50,626
<b>So I said,</b>
<b>"Well, I hope that this time</b>

1089
00:45:50,693 --> 00:45:52,094
<b>that it's gonna be real."</b>

1090
00:45:52,227 --> 00:45:54,730
<b>- Finally, she owned it!</b>

1091
00:45:54,797 --> 00:45:56,231
<b>- What you--what</b>
<b>you mean by that?</b>

1092
00:45:56,231 --> 00:45:57,766
<b>Like why--</b>
<b>why would you say that?</b>

1093
00:45:57,833 --> 00:45:59,234
<b>- Because I want it to be real.</b>

1094
00:45:59,268 --> 00:46:01,670
<b>- That's insinuating</b>
<b>the first one wasn't real</b>

1095
00:46:01,737 --> 00:46:03,272
<b>if you say that.</b>
<b>Do you know that?</b>

1096
00:46:03,338 --> 00:46:04,606
<b>- I knew the first one</b>
<b>was real</b>

1097
00:46:04,673 --> 00:46:06,308
<b>until they started talking</b>
<b>on TV--</b>

1098
00:46:06,375 --> 00:46:08,110
<b>- That's not true, though,</b>
<b>your son told you.</b>

1099
00:46:08,243 --> 00:46:10,312
<b>Your son told you way</b>
<b>before that. Your son told you.</b>

1100
00:46:10,379 --> 00:46:11,547
<b>- No, wait. You calm down.</b>

1101
00:46:11,613 --> 00:46:13,248
<b>- Oh.</b>

1102
00:46:13,315 --> 00:46:16,251
<b>That's that mama-,</b>
<b>daughter-in-law thing.</b>

1103
00:46:16,318 --> 00:46:18,854
<b>- You knew exactly the reason</b>
<b>your son told you.</b>

1104
00:46:18,921 --> 00:46:19,888
<b>- I'm feel like crying.</b>

1105
00:46:19,955 --> 00:46:21,357
<b>- Don't cry. Don't cry.</b>

1106
00:46:21,423 --> 00:46:23,258
<b>- I'm gonna cry this time.</b>

1107
00:46:23,325 --> 00:46:24,593
<b>- Don't cry.</b>

1108
00:46:24,660 --> 00:46:25,627
<b>- Mom, you ain't even</b>
<b>got no tears.</b>

1109
00:46:25,694 --> 00:46:27,629
<b>- Oh, [bleep]!</b>

1110
00:46:27,696 --> 00:46:30,833
<b>[laughing]</b>

1111
00:46:32,935 --> 00:46:34,670
<b>- Well, I'm hurting.</b>
<b>I'm hurting.</b>

1112
00:46:34,737 --> 00:46:36,705
<b>- Oh, all right.</b>
<b>- I'm--I'm hurting inside.</b>

1113
00:46:36,772 --> 00:46:39,775
<b>- Judy, Judy, Judy, Judy.</b>
<b>Listen.</b>

1114
00:46:39,842 --> 00:46:43,045
<b>What you need to have done</b>
<b>is excuse yourself,</b>

1115
00:46:43,112 --> 00:46:45,748
<b>rub some Vaseline in your eyes,</b>
<b>girl, and walk back over.</b>

1116
00:46:45,814 --> 00:46:48,417
<b>- You said what you said,</b>
<b>and that [bleep] is--</b>

1117
00:46:48,484 --> 00:46:49,918
<b>You did say it.</b>
<b>But you said it.</b>

1118
00:46:49,985 --> 00:46:51,453
<b>This ain't even about you.</b>

1119
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,822
<b>I don't know why you came here</b>
<b>and make this about you.</b>

1120
00:46:53,889 --> 00:46:55,090
<b>- We not gonna do this.</b>

1121
00:46:55,224 --> 00:46:56,959
<b>We not--we not gon' do</b>
<b>none of this.</b>

1122
00:46:57,026 --> 00:47:00,029
<b>- How Yan just said that, like,</b>
<b>"We don't want none of this,"</b>

1123
00:47:00,095 --> 00:47:02,898
<b>like, she done been in Atlanta</b>
<b>a little bit too long.</b>

1124
00:47:02,965 --> 00:47:04,366
<b>- We got our kids here.</b>

1125
00:47:04,433 --> 00:47:06,635
<b>We got friends here.</b>
<b>This is embarrassing.</b>

1126
00:47:06,702 --> 00:47:08,237
<b>- That's what I came here for.</b>
<b>- Right, mm-hmm.</b>

1127
00:47:08,303 --> 00:47:09,638
<b>- Okay.</b>
<b>- And we not gonna do that.</b>

1128
00:47:09,705 --> 00:47:10,773
<b>Can we just move on?</b>
<b>- Come on, let's go.</b>

1129
00:47:10,839 --> 00:47:12,574
<b>All right. This way.</b>

1130
00:47:12,641 --> 00:47:13,776
<b>- I'm going with you.</b>

1131
00:47:13,842 --> 00:47:16,145
<b>- Man, Judy hell, man,</b>
<b>for that [bleep].</b>

1132
00:47:16,245 --> 00:47:18,247
<b>She gonna make him choose</b>
<b>right there.</b>

1133
00:47:18,313 --> 00:47:19,782
<b>You gonna put your--</b>
<b>hey, you gonna grab</b>

1134
00:47:19,848 --> 00:47:21,417
<b>your mama hand, boy.</b>

1135
00:47:21,483 --> 00:47:22,751
<b>- I'm going with you.</b>

1136
00:47:22,818 --> 00:47:24,086
<b>- Ma, this ain't--</b>
<b>- I'm going with you</b>

1137
00:47:24,153 --> 00:47:25,688
<b>because you my child.</b>
<b>- No, no, listen, Ma.</b>

1138
00:47:25,754 --> 00:47:26,989
<b>Hey, chill, come on, now.</b>
<b>- No, I don't wanna have</b>

1139
00:47:27,056 --> 00:47:28,691
<b>a split relationship again</b>
<b>with my family.</b>

1140
00:47:28,757 --> 00:47:30,526
<b>- Stop it, Judy.</b>
<b>Stop it, Judy.</b>

1141
00:47:30,592 --> 00:47:32,661
<b>Know when to hold,</b>
<b>know when to fold.</b>

1142
00:47:35,838 --> 00:47:38,201
<i>- Next time on
"Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta"...</i>

1143
00:47:38,201 --> 00:47:40,036
- Scrap, go hire a lawyer.

1144
00:47:40,036 --> 00:47:40,762
She’s divorcing you.

1145
00:47:40,762 --> 00:47:42,696
- You sound like you don’t know
what’s going on.

1146
00:47:42,696 --> 00:47:44,630
- She out to get you.

1147
00:47:45,003 --> 00:47:46,300
- I already been lied on
enough.

1148
00:47:46,300 --> 00:47:48,597
Already been betrayed--
- Who lied on you?

1149
00:47:48,597 --> 00:47:50,333
Who betrayed you?
- You have.

1150
00:47:50,333 --> 00:47:52,300
- You felt like you had to
spite me on "Wendy Williams."

1151
00:47:52,300 --> 00:47:54,531
Tell her that you single.
- I put my ring finger up.

1152
00:47:54,531 --> 00:47:56,498
I’m not married.
<i>- I never thought</i>

1153
00:47:56,498 --> 00:47:57,696
I would see
the day that I would be

1154
00:47:57,696 --> 00:48:00,399
a married woman in the hospital
and not having someone

1155
00:48:00,399 --> 00:48:02,630
by my side
helping me through this.

1156
00:48:02,630 --> 00:48:05,498
- Her seeing you out
with the women,

1157
00:48:05,498 --> 00:48:08,366
that [bleep] sent her
over the top.

1158
00:48:13,258 --> 00:48:20,365
<b> </b><b><i>♪ ♪</i></b>

1159
00:48:22,401 --> 00:48:24,002
<b> </b><b><i>- ♪ Rise up, rise up ♪</i></b>

1160
00:48:24,069 --> 00:48:25,203
<b> </b><b><i>♪ We will rise as a whole ♪</i></b>

1161
00:48:25,270 --> 00:48:26,571
<b> </b><b><i>♪ Rise up, rise up ♪</i></b>

1162
00:48:26,638 --> 00:48:28,106
<b> </b><b><i>♪ We will grind to the poll ♪</i></b>

1163
00:48:28,173 --> 00:48:29,341
<b> </b><b><i>♪ Rise up, rise up ♪</i></b>

1164
00:48:29,408 --> 00:48:30,842
<b> </b><b><i>♪ We will never, ever fall ♪</i></b>

1165
00:48:30,909 --> 00:48:32,244
<b> </b><b><i>♪ Rise up, rise up ♪</i></b>

1166
00:48:32,311 --> 00:48:33,278
<b> </b><b><i>♪ Aim for the top,</i></b>
<b> </b><b><i>for the goal ♪</i></b>

1167
00:48:33,345 --> 00:48:34,546
<b> </b><b><i>♪ Rise up, rise up ♪</i></b>

1168
00:48:34,613 --> 00:48:36,348
<b> </b><b><i>♪ We will rise as a whole ♪</i></b>

1169
00:48:39,751 --> 00:48:42,087
<b> </b><b><i>- ♪ MTV ♪</i></b>