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{\an7}\h\hannouncer: Previously on
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{\an7}- I’ve never had to micromanage
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{\an7}so many mother[bleep]
\h\h\h\h\hin my life.
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{\an7}I feel like I want
to pull my wig off.
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{\an7}- We [bleep] in a jam.
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{\an7}I don’t give a [bleep] you mad,
\h\h\h\h\hyou mad, whoever mad.
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{\an7}\h\h- And I’m scared, like, you
don’t want to do life with me.
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{\an7}\h\h\h- So, what?
You’re pregnant?
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{\an7}- We’re pregnant.
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{\an7}- This is crazy.
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{\an7}- It’s definitely hard
\h\hto close something
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{\an7}after it’s already
\hbeen busted open.
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{\an7}- When was it busted?
\h\hWhat the [bleep]?
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{\an7}You are either my [bleep]
or you’re not my [bleep].
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hHe literally
is going out of his way
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{\an7}to make me look like a weirdo.
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{\an7}Don’t go to my [bleep] house.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hLeave.
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}- Infinity reached out to me.
\h\h\h\h- She’s coming here?
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{\an7}- I don’t understand why
I keep feeling left out.
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{\an7}- You went to social media
and everybody attacked me.
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{\an7}- Did I deserve to be fed back
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto the wolves?
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{\an7}Did I deserve to go live back
\h\h\h\hwith my grandmother?
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{\an7}- Yes.
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{\an7}- This is actually
really dumb to me.
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[hip-hop music]
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- ♪ It's about that life ♪
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♪ It's the life that I chose ♪
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♪ It's about that life ♪
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♪ It's the life that I chose ♪
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♪ Making my way to the top,
and there's no stopping ♪
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{\an7}[tense music]
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{\an7}- I have nothing else
\h\h\h\hmore to say.
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{\an7}\hThis is actually
really dumb to me.
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}- Infinity is trying to paint
\h\h\h\h\h\hthis picture that
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{\an7}\h\hwhen Mendeecees came home,
our relationship went downhill.
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{\an7}That is not the truth.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hInfinity was in
a very toxic relationship
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{\an7}with an older person.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hAnd as her mother,
it is my duty to protect her.
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{\an7}\h\hSo now with seeing how
she’s gone to social media
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\habout our family
and what she’s dealing with,
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hmy husband
doesn’t feel comfortable
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{\an7}with her coming to the house
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hright now.
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{\an7}\h\h\hAnd I have to respect it.
And I have to understand that.
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}Infinity.
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{\an7}Infinity, come on now.
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{\an7}Don’t make me chase you.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m tired.
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{\an7}- You don’t have to chase me.
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{\an7}\h- See, I could just
let Infinity walk on.
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{\an7}And guess what?
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{\an7}I’ll probably never see her
\hagain until she needs me.
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{\an7}But that’s not the relationship
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI wanna have
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{\an7}with someone I call my child.
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{\an7}\h\hWe’re gonna sit,
we’re going to talk,
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{\an7}and we’re gonna work this out.
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{\an7}This narrative that you allowed
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto be out there
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{\an7}\his not the truth.
- It is the truth.
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{\an7}- That is not the truth.
We painting this picture
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hthat me and you
got a troubled relationship
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{\an7}because of Mendeecees
and that’s not true.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hThat man been open
and welcoming with open arms.
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{\an7}- I never came to you
\h\h\habout that man,
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{\an7}not one time ever in my life.
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{\an7}- But to the world, Infinity,
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{\an7}\h\hyou make it like
he’s leaving you out.
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{\an7}Yes, you do.
\h- I don’t.
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{\an7}- I wanted my Mom to just
tell me, like, yo, like--
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{\an7}I wanted her to hug me
\h\hand tell me, like,
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{\an7}\h\h\h"I’m glad you learned
what you learned from that."
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{\an7}It hurts to see that, you know,
the mistakes I made turned out
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{\an7}to be how people identify me
\h\hwhen I’m not my mistakes.
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{\an7}- Just like, you know,
\h\hyou felt left out.
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{\an7}Seeing you turn your back on us
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hand threaten
our family’s safety,
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{\an7}I--I felt extremely hurt.
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{\an7}I felt like I was a mother
\h\h\h\h\hlosing her child.
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{\an7}That’s how I felt.
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{\an7}[voice breaking] I would never
\h\hpurposely try to hurt you.
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{\an7}[sniffles]
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{\an7}\hOne thing I know
is trauma is real.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hSometimes I feel like
my relationship with Infinity
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{\an7}is contingent upon how she
dealt with her own mother.
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{\an7}Whatever that trauma
\h\h\hmay be for her,
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{\an7}it becomes a part of my life
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand my family.
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}- I know I didn’t listen before
\h\h\hbut I’m gonna listen now.
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{\an7}[crying]
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{\an7}I don’t wanna end up
\h\h\h\h\hlosing you.
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{\an7}I’ve struggled my whole life
\hwith receiving tough love.
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{\an7}Like, that’s all I ever get.
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{\an7}\hLike, sometimes I take it
as, like, a personal attack.
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{\an7}\hBut I know Mom
has a good heart
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{\an7}\h\h\hand that’s not
what she’s thinking,
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{\an7}but that’s how my mind
will play things on me.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- I do believe
that we could get back
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{\an7}to the way we were
before all of this.
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{\an7}But where we did go wrong
\h\h\h\his communication.
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{\an7}\hWe have to make a decision
that no matter what happens,
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{\an7}we are going to have
\heach other’s back.
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{\an7}Because that’s the only way
\hwe can build trust again.
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{\an7}But I think also
\hthat you should
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{\an7}have a conversation
\hwith Mendeecees.
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{\an7}He’s very confused.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hI think that
he will be very open
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{\an7}to what you have to say.
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{\an7}Is that a deal?
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{\an7}- Yeah. I could do that.
\h\h\h\h\h\h- All right.
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{\an7}\h\h\hSo now you got to get up
and then you got to help me up.
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{\an7}Because unlike the past
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{\an7}when I used to drop it
like it’s hot with you,
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{\an7}I definitely can’t get up.
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{\an7}’Cause my knees ain’t like
Megan Thee Stallion knees.
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{\an7}[groaning]
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{\an7}[hip-hop music]
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{\an7}- ♪ Trying to get down
\h\h\hwith the beat ♪
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{\an7}♪ Trying to get nice
\h\h\hwith my feet ♪
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{\an7}♪ I ain’t never taste defeat ♪
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{\an7}♪ So I gotta give the world
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthese keys ♪
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{\an7}- It’s a beautiful day
\h\h\h\h\h\hat Pressed.
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{\an7}We got so many cute
new arrivals, guys.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hCome see us.
We are at Phipps Plaza
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{\an7}or shop with us online
\h\hat pressedatl.com.
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{\an7}\hOh.
Cute.
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{\an7}both: Hey.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- What’s up?
- Surprise, surprise.
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{\an7}[both laugh]
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{\an7}- What is you doing
\h\h\hin Buckhead?
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{\an7}- Hey.
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{\an7}- What’s up, hey, bud?
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{\an7}both: Muah!
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{\an7}- Dropped some glasses off
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto have...
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{\an7}\h\h\h- You did? Oh.
- Yeah. Lens put in.
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{\an7}- I haven’t seen my Mom
\h\hin a couple months.
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{\an7}It’s good to see her.
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{\an7}It’s crazy how the people
\h\h\h\h\hclosest to you,
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{\an7}you hadn’t even been around
\h\hbecause of damn COVID.
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{\an7}- So Boobie’s birthday
\h\h\h\h\h\h\his today.
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{\an7}I was thinking about having
\h\h\h\h\ha little dinner.
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{\an7}- I’m not opposed to, you know,
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{\an7}if it’s something you want
\hto do, you know, for her.
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{\an7}- Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
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{\an7}\h\h- Because you know,
I get "Happy birthday,"
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{\an7}and that’s it.
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{\an7}[bleep] won’t even show up
\h\h\h\h\h\hto my birthday.
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{\an7}\h\hMy older sister’s name is
Cheryl but we call her Boobie.
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{\an7}That’s her nickname.
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{\an7}Her nickname was Boobie,
\h\h\h\h\hmine was Punky.
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{\an7}Don’t see me in the streets
and call me Punky, people.
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{\an7}I’m going to ignore you.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hOkay?
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{\an7}\hMy sister and I
grew up together
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{\an7}in Illinois with my mom.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hShe was grown
when my Mom and I left.
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{\an7}\h\h\hAnd us moving down here
and the--the age difference,
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{\an7}I think, you know,
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{\an7}our relationship
just took a turn.
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{\an7}She’s my older sister but you
\h\hwouldn’t really know it.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hWe’re sisters
and we love each other.
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{\an7}But you know, our relationship
\h\h\h\hat this point is just,
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{\an7}"I need to get another car.
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{\an7}"I need to move into
\h\h\h\ha new place.
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{\an7}Can I get some money?"
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{\an7}And sometimes, honestly,
\h\h\h\hit makes me feel
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{\an7}\h\hmore like a ATM machine
than a damn family member.
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{\an7}Listen, if you want to do
\ha dinner, let me know.
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{\an7}- I really wanted to try
\h\h\h\h\h\hthe habitat.
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{\an7}- The Bistro?
\h\h- Mm-hmm.
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{\an7}This evening.
\h- Oh, jeez.
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{\an7}If that’s what you want to do,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’ma tell Kirk.
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{\an7}\h\h- I was just trying
to think of something.
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{\an7}You know, I carried her
\h\h\h\h\hfor 40 years.
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{\an7}And then I had to just
\h\h\hput a stop to it.
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{\an7}\h- Well, I guess--
am I the other ten?
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{\an7}’Cause I definitely helped her
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\ha whole lot.
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{\an7}\h\hI’ve helped her
get numerous cars.
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{\an7}\h\h\hI’ve helped her move into
different places several times.
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{\an7}But my thing is like, it’s hard
\h\h\hto nurture a relationship
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{\an7}\hand for us to be super tight
when the next conversation is,
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{\an7}"Can I have $1,000?"
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{\an7}when I see other people
\h\hwith their sisters
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{\an7}and their, like, really,
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{\an7}really tight relationships,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m like,
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h"Man, I really wish
me and my sister had, like,
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{\an7}"this real special bond
\h\h\h\hso we’re, like,
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{\an7}"when I’m going through
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthings,
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{\an7}"I can just really lean on her
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{\an7}and she’s there as like
\h\ha support system."
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{\an7}Because that’s the most
\himportant part of it.
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{\an7}And we lost sight
\hof all of that.
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{\an7}- It’s your fault.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- It’s my fault?
- Yeah, that’s your fault.
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{\an7}\h\h\hBecause first of all,
let me tell you something.
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{\an7}We are enablers.
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{\an7}Boobie’s made many bad choices
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin her life.
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{\an7}She’s gone to jail.
\h\hShe’s lost jobs.
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{\an7}I had to fire her three times
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{\an7}and one of the times
\h\hwas for stealing.
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{\an7}But Boobie’s really
\h\h\ha good person.
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{\an7}So when she pop in my mind,
204
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{\an7}\h\hthen I do try to do
something nice for her.
205
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{\an7}\h- I just don’t want it
to turn into no [bleep].
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{\an7}\h’Cause I’m really
kind of tired of--
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hI’m sitting here
trying to figure out ways
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{\an7}to keep my [bleep] together.
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{\an7}\h\hThe last thing I want
is to be dealing with her
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{\an7}and any issues and problems
\hthat comes along with it.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- ♪ God,
I give You everything ♪
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{\an7}♪ I’m tired of holding on,
I’m tired of holding on ♪
213
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h♪ God,
I give You everything ♪
214
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{\an7}\h♪ I been searching
for so long, yeah ♪
215
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{\an7}♪ Ay, searching for so long ♪
216
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{\an7}♪ For so long, for so long ♪
217
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{\an7}♪ I let go ♪
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{\an7}- Hey, hey.
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{\an7}- Hi, Dr. Jackie.
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{\an7}- [muffled speech]
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{\an7}- I know.
222
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{\an7}- How are you?
\h\h- I’m good.
223
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Talk to me.
Tell me what’s going on.
224
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{\an7}- I’m starting to finally feel
\hpregnant, first and foremost.
225
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{\an7}Because you know,
when I was here,
226
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{\an7}I came flat as a board.
\h\h\h\hIt was a shock.
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{\an7}- Yeah.
228
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{\an7}- And I actually told Safaree
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe other day.
229
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{\an7}- And he said?
230
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Nothin’.
I want to show you something.
231
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{\an7}- So what? You’re pregnant?
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm.
- This is crazy.
233
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{\an7}[engine revving]
234
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{\an7}\h\h- Anytime there’s real-life
conversations with my husband,
235
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{\an7}I’m alone.
236
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{\an7}It’s just consistent
\h\h\h\hhumiliation.
237
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hMaking me feel
like this is my fault
238
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{\an7}is just how he deals
239
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{\an7}with everything when it gets
\h\hrough with our marriage.
240
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{\an7}- What would you have
\h\hwanted him to do?
241
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{\an7}- Take me up, spin me around,
242
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{\an7}gone with the wind.
243
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{\an7}I want it to be blowin’
\h\h\h\h\h\hin my hair.
244
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{\an7}- Okay, now let me tell you
\h\h\hwhy that’s not fair.
245
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{\an7}You stood--you stared at me
\h\h\hfor like ten minutes.
246
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I know.
- Okay? So you had no reaction.
247
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{\an7}And the only reason you had
a reaction is you heard it.
248
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{\an7}You saw it.
249
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{\an7}\h\h\hSo now you’re asking him
to do something you didn’t do.
250
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{\an7}- [sighs]
251
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{\an7}\hAnd I’m a little worried
just on how he’s going to,
252
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{\an7}I don’t know, take on this one
\h\h\h\hbecause he walks around
253
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{\an7}claiming he has postpartum
\h\h\h\hfrom the first one.
254
00:10:01,811 --> 00:10:03,778
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Really?
- [laughing] Yeah.
255
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{\an7}- Why you laugh?
256
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{\an7}\h- ’Cause, I mean,
is that even true?
257
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{\an7}- I think it happens.
258
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{\an7}They may not have the hormonal
\h\himbalance that women have,
259
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{\an7}but they do have
a responsibility.
260
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{\an7}\h\hAnd they are processing
internally, in most cases.
261
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{\an7}Most men don’t talk about it.
262
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm.
- We’ve been in a pandemic.
263
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- I know.
It’s been a lot.
264
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{\an7}We gave birth in February
\h\h\h\h\hand then March,
265
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{\an7}the world shut down
266
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{\an7}and it was us just crammed
\h\hin the house together.
267
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{\an7}Just us and this new baby.
268
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{\an7}So I’m just a little worried
269
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{\an7}\h\h’cause as he’s starting
to embrace the fatherhood,
270
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{\an7}just bam, I just smack him
\h\h\h\h\hwith the reality.
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{\an7}Just us having our one now,
\hhe’s already tapped out.
272
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{\an7}So I’m more so worried
\h\h\habout being left
273
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{\an7}with all the responsibility
\h\h\h\hfor two under two.
274
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{\an7}- So when do you want
\hto know the gender?
275
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{\an7}Let me tell you good news.
\h\h- Can we find out now?
276
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{\an7}Because we took blood
\h\h\h\h\hlast time.
277
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{\an7}- Let me tell you
\hthe good news.
278
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hMy sonographer sent
the ultrasound pictures in.
279
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{\an7}\h\h\hEverything, brain,
spine, kidney, fingers...
280
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{\an7}- I’m good.
- Was good.
281
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{\an7}- Okay. What is it?
282
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay.
I’m--I’m gonna let you see.
283
00:11:00,877 --> 00:11:03,844
{\an7}- I’m like, so nervous.
284
00:11:03,844 --> 00:11:05,283
{\an7}- Drum roll.
285
00:11:05,283 --> 00:11:06,877
{\an7}[trills tongue]
286
00:11:06,877 --> 00:11:11,976
{\an7}So again, right here,
\hwhat does that say?
287
00:11:11,976 --> 00:11:13,943
{\an7}- What?
288
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{\an7}\h\hannouncer: Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"...
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{\an7}\h\h- You know, I’m not
who you want me to be.
290
00:11:19,042 --> 00:11:21,877
{\an7}\h\h\hEverybody starts thinking
I’m crazy and all this [bleep].
291
00:11:21,877 --> 00:11:23,943
{\an7}- Oh, you want to bring up
\h\h\h\h\hsome bull[bleep]?
292
00:11:23,943 --> 00:11:25,174
{\an7}- I like you, Tate-o.
\h\h\h\hI really do.
293
00:11:25,174 --> 00:11:29,108
{\an7}But I think we should keep it
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hat just that.
294
00:11:29,108 --> 00:11:32,316
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Are you ready
for the special guest?
295
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- ♪ Making my way to the top ♪
296
00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:41,808
♪ And there's no stopping ♪
297
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- ♪ Every time you see me ♪
298
00:11:43,577 --> 00:11:47,881
♪ I'ma be doing better than
you seen me last time ♪
299
00:11:47,948 --> 00:11:49,749
♪ Uh, you know that bounce ♪
300
00:11:49,816 --> 00:11:51,451
♪ Gotta keep on goin' ♪
301
00:11:51,518 --> 00:11:54,554
♪ 'Cause the streets keep on
sayin' that they need me ♪
302
00:11:54,621 --> 00:11:58,592
♪ That's right, yeah,
that's what they want ♪
303
00:11:58,658 --> 00:12:01,962
When I get up on that stage,
it's never looking dull.
304
00:12:02,028 --> 00:12:03,930
And the reason why is
because I rehearse.
305
00:12:03,997 --> 00:12:07,434
I used to go to my mom's
rehearsals all the time.
306
00:12:07,500 --> 00:12:10,370
Seeing that really always
inspired me and,
307
00:12:10,437 --> 00:12:13,440
like, there was a Grammy
on our dining room table.
308
00:12:13,506 --> 00:12:16,076
You know what I'm saying?
So I grew up just knowing
309
00:12:16,142 --> 00:12:17,911
that, like,
things were possible for me.
310
00:12:17,978 --> 00:12:20,080
That sounds good.
I'm getting hot.
311
00:12:20,146 --> 00:12:23,216
I have to take
this sweatshirt off.
312
00:12:23,283 --> 00:12:24,451
- Okay.
313
00:12:24,517 --> 00:12:26,620
- So yeah,
I'm booked and busy.
314
00:12:26,686 --> 00:12:29,256
I have this cover
for "Uproxx" magazine
315
00:12:29,322 --> 00:12:34,094
and I have to shoot a video,
a Spotify piece I'm doing
316
00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,931
but I'm like on the verge
of tears at a lot of points
317
00:12:37,998 --> 00:12:41,835
because of what happened last
night between me and Guapdad.
318
00:12:41,901 --> 00:12:43,370
What the [bleep]
is you talking about?
319
00:12:43,436 --> 00:12:47,374
You are either my [bleep]
or you're not my [bleep].
320
00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:49,276
The whole night,
he was kind of being weird.
321
00:12:49,342 --> 00:12:52,512
Just very, like, trying to poke
his chest out and, like,
322
00:12:52,579 --> 00:12:55,181
act like he was just so much
more important than he was.
323
00:12:55,248 --> 00:12:57,150
Like, I'm not your girlfriend,
324
00:12:57,217 --> 00:13:00,153
but ain't we, like,
doing something here?
325
00:13:00,220 --> 00:13:02,555
♪ I need you with me, oh ♪
326
00:13:02,622 --> 00:13:04,824
[phone trilling]
327
00:13:04,891 --> 00:13:07,794
- You can answer.
328
00:13:07,861 --> 00:13:09,296
If that's what you gotta do.
329
00:13:09,362 --> 00:13:10,463
I told you, focus.
330
00:13:10,530 --> 00:13:11,898
- Shut up.
- Focus.
331
00:13:12,899 --> 00:13:14,234
- Hello.
332
00:13:16,636 --> 00:13:18,238
- Um, rehearsing.
333
00:13:19,439 --> 00:13:21,041
What's up?
334
00:13:24,544 --> 00:13:27,314
- Yeah.
I felt extremely disrespected.
335
00:13:27,380 --> 00:13:29,783
I felt like
I didn't matter to him at all.
336
00:13:29,849 --> 00:13:31,785
And it turned all the way up.
337
00:13:31,851 --> 00:13:35,088
People got a little too angry.
Some words were said.
338
00:13:35,188 --> 00:13:37,223
And I told everybody to get
the [bleep] out of my house.
339
00:13:37,290 --> 00:13:39,492
You wasn't on my side at all.
340
00:13:53,406 --> 00:13:54,741
- That's rude.
341
00:13:54,808 --> 00:13:56,576
- He just hung up on you?
- Yeah.
342
00:13:56,643 --> 00:13:58,578
- Anyways, back to rehearsal.
343
00:13:58,645 --> 00:14:01,181
- A'ight.
- [bleep] That just put me off.
344
00:14:01,248 --> 00:14:04,017
- [bleep] you up a little bit?
- Yeah.
345
00:14:04,150 --> 00:14:05,885
I am healthy.
I am wealthy. I am strong.
346
00:14:05,952 --> 00:14:08,355
I am independent.
I am all of those things.
347
00:14:08,421 --> 00:14:10,056
But I am a human.
348
00:14:10,156 --> 00:14:12,392
And I have a heart.
It gets attached to people.
349
00:14:12,459 --> 00:14:17,297
So part of me doesn't want
to be done and is really hurt
350
00:14:17,364 --> 00:14:20,467
that he's not understanding
my point of view.
351
00:14:20,533 --> 00:14:22,869
- You want to boost your mood
or somethin'?
352
00:14:22,936 --> 00:14:24,304
- I guess.
353
00:14:24,371 --> 00:14:26,940
- Somethin' cool
happened today.
354
00:14:28,541 --> 00:14:30,010
- A million?
355
00:14:30,076 --> 00:14:31,278
- A million views.
356
00:14:31,344 --> 00:14:35,015
- We did it, Joe.
We hit a million.
357
00:14:35,081 --> 00:14:37,183
Guap tried to bring me down.
358
00:14:37,183 --> 00:14:39,953
But look, I'm so happy
that we finally hit a million.
359
00:14:40,020 --> 00:14:41,688
Oh, no, no.
I feel like we need to--
360
00:14:41,755 --> 00:14:43,189
- We gonna run down the back?
- Yeah. I need to turn back up.
361
00:14:43,256 --> 00:14:44,824
- Okay, hold on.
Let me find it.
362
00:14:44,891 --> 00:14:46,326
[music playing]
363
00:14:46,393 --> 00:14:49,129
- ♪ I want a first date,
out of state, like Wunna ♪
364
00:14:49,129 --> 00:14:52,132
♪ You know the drinks hit
different when they Palmer ♪
365
00:14:52,132 --> 00:14:54,501
- ♪ I'm 'bout to make
a big splash ♪
366
00:14:54,567 --> 00:14:56,770
♪ Bigger bang
than I ever had ♪
367
00:14:56,836 --> 00:14:59,406
♪ I get to show it all
to mom and dad ♪
368
00:14:59,472 --> 00:15:01,875
- So do you like being at home
doing the virtual school
369
00:15:01,942 --> 00:15:03,577
or you like going to school?
370
00:15:03,643 --> 00:15:04,945
- I like going to school.
371
00:15:05,011 --> 00:15:07,147
- You don't like
being home with us?
372
00:15:07,213 --> 00:15:09,182
[knocking on door]
373
00:15:09,249 --> 00:15:10,784
- Hi.
- What's up, hottie dotty?
374
00:15:10,850 --> 00:15:13,019
- What's up, cutie wutie?
- Lookin' like a hottie dotty.
375
00:15:13,153 --> 00:15:16,556
- We decided to open another
Pressed location in Atlanta.
376
00:15:16,623 --> 00:15:19,059
With hopes that, you know,
we get these coins back up
377
00:15:19,159 --> 00:15:20,493
and everything,
get back to normal.
378
00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:22,495
Kirk already has a lot
on his plate.
379
00:15:22,562 --> 00:15:25,966
I mean, from us trying
to finalize the construction
380
00:15:26,032 --> 00:15:27,334
of Pressed 2.0,
381
00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:29,069
all the drama at the Bistro,
382
00:15:29,169 --> 00:15:31,037
and just trying to be a dad,
period.
383
00:15:31,171 --> 00:15:32,939
It's like, okay,
now I'm about to hit him with,
384
00:15:33,006 --> 00:15:35,075
"Let's just throw
everything out the window
385
00:15:35,175 --> 00:15:36,176
and have a birthday party."
386
00:15:36,209 --> 00:15:37,777
[gasps]
Hey, buddy.
387
00:15:37,844 --> 00:15:38,945
- Hi, Mommy.
388
00:15:39,012 --> 00:15:41,314
- How was school today?
389
00:15:41,381 --> 00:15:44,584
- It was super good.
- It was good?
390
00:15:44,651 --> 00:15:47,954
So guess who popped up
on me today?
391
00:15:48,021 --> 00:15:49,456
- I don't know.
- Mama.
392
00:15:49,522 --> 00:15:50,624
- Really?
393
00:15:50,690 --> 00:15:51,925
- You know today
is Boobie's birthday?
394
00:15:51,992 --> 00:15:54,194
- It is, ain't it?
- Yes.
395
00:15:54,261 --> 00:15:55,996
She wanted to have
a dinner party.
396
00:15:56,129 --> 00:15:57,831
- She wanted to have a dinner
for Boobie when?
397
00:15:57,897 --> 00:15:59,432
- Today.
398
00:15:59,499 --> 00:16:01,167
- Oh, so she gonna
do a dinner today? Okay.
399
00:16:01,234 --> 00:16:03,236
- At the Bistro.
- Oh, wow.
400
00:16:03,303 --> 00:16:05,405
- And I said, okay.
401
00:16:05,472 --> 00:16:08,041
- And I'm sure I'm gonna be
paying for it, correct?
402
00:16:08,141 --> 00:16:10,277
I'm sure there's gonna be
not one cent donated.
403
00:16:10,343 --> 00:16:11,745
- Right.
- But I had to tell her.
404
00:16:11,811 --> 00:16:13,546
I was like, listen.
What people got to understand
405
00:16:13,613 --> 00:16:15,715
is sometimes
it just gets so draining
406
00:16:15,782 --> 00:16:17,884
because it's always
somebody wants something.
407
00:16:17,951 --> 00:16:21,588
- So after the staff meeting,
things are moving along.
408
00:16:21,655 --> 00:16:24,925
You know, we're making a little
money here at Frost Bistro.
409
00:16:24,991 --> 00:16:27,861
But nobody wants to go to work
and just hand they money over.
410
00:16:27,928 --> 00:16:29,329
That [bleep] just crazy.
411
00:16:29,396 --> 00:16:31,464
I'm just trying to just
really mind my business
412
00:16:31,531 --> 00:16:36,569
because, you know, Rasheeda
is the sucker for everything.
413
00:16:36,636 --> 00:16:38,104
- There's a lot of things
414
00:16:38,171 --> 00:16:40,106
that we're still
trying to build back up.
415
00:16:40,140 --> 00:16:42,509
Like, we not walking
ATM machines.
416
00:16:42,576 --> 00:16:44,644
Just like that'd be my problem
with Boobie sometimes.
417
00:16:44,711 --> 00:16:46,713
It's like,
we have one conversation,
418
00:16:46,780 --> 00:16:48,515
we might have
another conversation.
419
00:16:48,582 --> 00:16:50,951
But the third conversation
is her asking me for something.
420
00:16:51,017 --> 00:16:56,489
But now may be the time for us
to start trying to, you know,
421
00:16:56,556 --> 00:16:58,725
get our relationship
a little bit better.
422
00:16:58,792 --> 00:17:01,661
Honestly speaking,
life is short, man, listen.
423
00:17:01,728 --> 00:17:03,897
I only got one sister,
and it's super important
424
00:17:03,964 --> 00:17:06,967
regardless to whatever
we feelin' for us
425
00:17:07,033 --> 00:17:08,335
to express it, get it out,
426
00:17:08,401 --> 00:17:10,971
and take whatever time
we got left
427
00:17:11,037 --> 00:17:12,439
to try to have
a good relationship.
428
00:17:12,505 --> 00:17:14,474
We gettin' older,
you know what I'm saying?
429
00:17:14,541 --> 00:17:17,310
This pandemic has opened up our
eyes and we've talked about it.
430
00:17:17,377 --> 00:17:19,446
- Nah, that's cool.
I mean, I don't--I mean,
431
00:17:19,512 --> 00:17:21,214
that's what we're doing,
that's what we're doing.
432
00:17:21,281 --> 00:17:23,350
It is what it is.
It's her birthday.
433
00:17:23,416 --> 00:17:24,951
- I'm willing to give it
a try but [bleep],
434
00:17:25,018 --> 00:17:29,256
if the relationship ain't
changed in all these years,
435
00:17:29,322 --> 00:17:31,057
is it gonna change now?
436
00:17:31,157 --> 00:17:33,560
But I could at least say
I have tried.
437
00:17:33,627 --> 00:17:37,964
♪ ♪
438
00:17:38,098 --> 00:17:40,900
announcer: Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"...
439
00:17:40,967 --> 00:17:43,703
- Next time y'all feel some way
or she feels some way,
440
00:17:43,770 --> 00:17:45,472
you gonna go
to social media again?
441
00:17:45,538 --> 00:17:47,741
How can I ever trust you again?
442
00:17:52,060 --> 00:17:53,095
- ♪ Making my way to the top ♪
443
00:17:53,161 --> 00:17:54,396
♪ And there's no stopping ♪
444
00:17:54,463 --> 00:17:56,098
[mellow hip-hop music]
445
00:17:56,164 --> 00:17:59,801
- ♪ Keep your head up,
gotta keep on going ♪
446
00:17:59,868 --> 00:18:02,704
♪ Push through it,
keep your mind open ♪
447
00:18:02,771 --> 00:18:05,941
♪ Loving every second,
live in the moment ♪
448
00:18:06,008 --> 00:18:09,378
- You know, when you threaten
to write a book
449
00:18:09,444 --> 00:18:12,748
or you go on social media
about a family picture,
450
00:18:12,814 --> 00:18:14,550
that includes my family.
451
00:18:14,616 --> 00:18:17,686
My husband is even
more protective over my family
452
00:18:17,753 --> 00:18:20,722
than I am,
so you got to talk to the man.
453
00:18:20,789 --> 00:18:24,760
♪ ♪
454
00:18:24,826 --> 00:18:26,094
- What's up?
455
00:18:26,161 --> 00:18:27,663
- Hi.
456
00:18:27,729 --> 00:18:31,300
Got a surprise guest for you.
- [chuckles]
457
00:18:31,366 --> 00:18:33,835
- I know Infinity
and I know what she needs.
458
00:18:33,902 --> 00:18:37,372
She needs our family
and she also is yearning
459
00:18:37,439 --> 00:18:39,741
for a father figure
in her life.
460
00:18:39,808 --> 00:18:43,412
And there's somewhere in me
that really hopes and wishes
461
00:18:43,478 --> 00:18:47,449
Mendeecees can fill that
father void that she feels.
462
00:18:47,516 --> 00:18:49,284
- What's up with y'all?
463
00:18:49,351 --> 00:18:52,654
- Nothing.
We just had a long talk.
464
00:18:52,721 --> 00:18:53,922
- How'd it go?
465
00:18:53,989 --> 00:18:55,390
- It was okay.
It could have been better.
466
00:18:55,457 --> 00:18:57,726
- Yeah. She got mad at me
and she walked off
467
00:18:57,793 --> 00:18:59,461
and I have to chase her
down the block.
468
00:18:59,528 --> 00:19:01,797
- Well, listen, man, you put
your emotions everywhere.
469
00:19:01,864 --> 00:19:03,365
Even social media.
470
00:19:03,432 --> 00:19:05,567
Family issues aren't supposed
to go to social media.
471
00:19:05,634 --> 00:19:07,970
It's supposed to stay
within the household.
472
00:19:08,103 --> 00:19:11,773
So it's--it's hard to see
y'all together and be happy
473
00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:13,375
because next time
474
00:19:13,442 --> 00:19:14,910
y'all feel some way
or she feels some away,
475
00:19:14,977 --> 00:19:17,746
are you're gonna go
to social media again?
476
00:19:17,813 --> 00:19:19,982
You gonna be like,
"I'm writing a book"?
477
00:19:20,115 --> 00:19:21,617
Even if you upset, you angry,
478
00:19:21,683 --> 00:19:23,285
you just don't do them
type of things.
479
00:19:23,352 --> 00:19:25,287
Because it's like,
if--if you do,
480
00:19:25,354 --> 00:19:27,122
how can I ever trust you again?
- Right.
481
00:19:27,189 --> 00:19:28,423
I understand.
482
00:19:28,490 --> 00:19:30,359
And like I told Yandy, like,
483
00:19:30,425 --> 00:19:31,727
I never had no--I don't got
no issue with you, like,
484
00:19:31,793 --> 00:19:33,462
I'm not mad at you
for posting your family.
485
00:19:33,529 --> 00:19:34,897
I just want to try
to understand that
486
00:19:34,963 --> 00:19:36,465
from my perspective,
when I'm not there,
487
00:19:36,532 --> 00:19:38,500
and everybody's there
except me,
488
00:19:38,567 --> 00:19:41,937
how can--can you understand
how I can feel left out?
489
00:19:42,004 --> 00:19:43,472
- Listen. Let me tell
you something, right?
490
00:19:43,539 --> 00:19:45,641
For four years, I sat back
and watched Yandy
491
00:19:45,707 --> 00:19:47,276
post pictures with her
and the kids
492
00:19:47,342 --> 00:19:49,144
and watched it every day
on social media.
493
00:19:49,144 --> 00:19:51,380
And I know how it feels
left out.
494
00:19:51,446 --> 00:19:53,649
And I'm sorry for, you know,
not thinking about you.
495
00:19:53,715 --> 00:19:57,185
This is the first Christmas
I get to enjoy
496
00:19:57,252 --> 00:19:58,720
with all my children.
497
00:19:58,787 --> 00:20:00,455
So I'm not really thinking
about nothing else.
498
00:20:00,522 --> 00:20:02,491
She could have came.
She choose not to come.
499
00:20:02,558 --> 00:20:04,560
So because Infinity
is not here,
500
00:20:04,626 --> 00:20:06,528
I'm not thinking
not to take a picture.
501
00:20:06,595 --> 00:20:08,096
- I know my wrongs and I'm
gonna hold myself accountable
502
00:20:08,130 --> 00:20:09,431
for the mistakes that I made.
503
00:20:09,498 --> 00:20:10,666
And I'm just trying
to figure out
504
00:20:10,732 --> 00:20:12,134
how do I right my wrongs
and move forward?
505
00:20:12,201 --> 00:20:13,669
So I won't make
those same mistakes.
506
00:20:13,735 --> 00:20:15,637
I feel like I--both of y'all,
like, you know,
507
00:20:15,704 --> 00:20:17,439
it's not just 'cause
both of you as a couple,
508
00:20:17,506 --> 00:20:19,241
like, got married, and I'm in--
under y'all household.
509
00:20:19,308 --> 00:20:20,676
If I ever decide to come back
510
00:20:20,742 --> 00:20:23,111
or if I'm allowed to come back
to stay, possibly,
511
00:20:23,178 --> 00:20:24,846
it's gonna have to be
one step at a time because,
512
00:20:24,913 --> 00:20:26,815
you know, me doing something
to her, that affects you also.
513
00:20:26,882 --> 00:20:28,383
- Right.
514
00:20:28,450 --> 00:20:30,619
I think Infinity absolutely
have childhood trauma.
515
00:20:30,686 --> 00:20:32,354
She have abandonment issues,
516
00:20:32,421 --> 00:20:33,956
you know,
she have trust issues.
517
00:20:34,022 --> 00:20:36,825
And I can see a lot of things
that Infinity have
518
00:20:36,892 --> 00:20:38,861
because I can identify
with some of them.
519
00:20:38,927 --> 00:20:41,997
But at the same time,
I think that Infinity
520
00:20:42,130 --> 00:20:44,399
just need to communicate.
521
00:20:44,466 --> 00:20:46,535
Because it's like nothing
that she's going through
522
00:20:46,602 --> 00:20:48,871
we can't help her with,
but she have to talk to us.
523
00:20:48,937 --> 00:20:52,808
Now, listen. I'm definitely
willing to take steps
524
00:20:52,875 --> 00:20:54,376
towards the right direction,
right?
525
00:20:54,443 --> 00:20:57,713
I think that the first thing
we got to work on is respect.
526
00:20:57,779 --> 00:20:59,281
- I think,
if it's okay with you,
527
00:20:59,348 --> 00:21:01,250
she should come back
to the house?
528
00:21:01,316 --> 00:21:02,985
You know,
lettin' her see the kids.
529
00:21:03,085 --> 00:21:05,220
The kids miss her terribly.
530
00:21:05,287 --> 00:21:08,156
[tense music]
531
00:21:08,223 --> 00:21:10,626
♪ ♪
532
00:21:10,692 --> 00:21:12,628
- I think that--that's cool.
533
00:21:12,694 --> 00:21:15,998
Pretty sure everybody
would be excited to see you.
534
00:21:16,098 --> 00:21:18,433
Because I know they miss you.
535
00:21:18,500 --> 00:21:20,402
I think that, you know,
it's gonna take some time
536
00:21:20,469 --> 00:21:22,704
for me to get to know Infinity.
537
00:21:22,771 --> 00:21:24,540
You know, I have trust issues.
538
00:21:24,606 --> 00:21:27,309
And--and, you know,
these--these are my kids.
539
00:21:27,376 --> 00:21:28,610
This is my family.
540
00:21:28,677 --> 00:21:30,913
I really don't know
at this point.
541
00:21:30,979 --> 00:21:33,115
- Okay, so why don't you
go to the hotel,
542
00:21:33,148 --> 00:21:34,716
change your clothes,
get yourself together
543
00:21:34,783 --> 00:21:36,652
and then come meet us
at the house?
544
00:21:36,718 --> 00:21:37,853
- Sounds like a plan to me.
545
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:39,154
- And then we can eat
or something.
546
00:21:39,221 --> 00:21:40,722
Can you do me a favor?
547
00:21:40,789 --> 00:21:42,491
Can you take this picture
for me?
548
00:21:42,558 --> 00:21:43,926
- I gotta make sure
I look good, though.
549
00:21:43,992 --> 00:21:46,328
- Oh, so now you care
about looking good?
550
00:21:46,395 --> 00:21:48,330
You never used to care
about looking good.
551
00:21:48,397 --> 00:21:51,500
- Here you go.
Now stand at that side.
552
00:21:51,567 --> 00:21:54,870
- Thank you so much.
Appreciate you.
553
00:21:54,937 --> 00:21:57,639
- ♪ Move around, move around ♪
554
00:21:57,706 --> 00:22:00,275
♪ Move around,
if you ain't making moves ♪
555
00:22:00,342 --> 00:22:02,544
♪ Move around, move around ♪
556
00:22:02,611 --> 00:22:06,715
- I'm in L.A. and I have
a shoot with "Uproxx."
557
00:22:06,782 --> 00:22:08,884
They're doing a profile on me
and my career.
558
00:22:08,951 --> 00:22:10,452
So I'm a cover girl now.
559
00:22:10,519 --> 00:22:13,822
And I also hit a million views
on the "I Am" video
560
00:22:13,889 --> 00:22:16,625
which I was so pressing for.
561
00:22:16,692 --> 00:22:18,961
So I'm so happy
that we finally hit a million.
562
00:22:19,094 --> 00:22:21,697
- ♪ Got a plug,
he charged me up ♪
563
00:22:21,763 --> 00:22:23,999
♪ I got the bottle,
boo, you got a cup? ♪
564
00:22:24,099 --> 00:22:26,168
- But I had to do
my Spotify thing.
565
00:22:26,235 --> 00:22:28,604
And the whole day,
I kept thinking about Guap.
566
00:22:28,670 --> 00:22:30,639
Can I get a Rainbow Rocket?
567
00:22:30,706 --> 00:22:32,841
So I asked him to meet me.
568
00:22:32,908 --> 00:22:34,343
Hey.
569
00:22:37,179 --> 00:22:38,914
Wanna go for a walk?
570
00:22:38,981 --> 00:22:41,850
[tense music]
571
00:22:41,917 --> 00:22:44,386
So...
572
00:22:44,453 --> 00:22:46,288
- That [bleep] that happened
at the house
573
00:22:46,355 --> 00:22:48,790
for me was absolutely not cool.
574
00:22:48,857 --> 00:22:50,659
I don't know
what started anything.
575
00:22:50,726 --> 00:22:52,427
All I know is you was frantic.
576
00:22:52,494 --> 00:22:55,063
I pulled you to the side.
You gave me nothing.
577
00:22:55,097 --> 00:22:58,066
Like, absolutely nothing
but just disrespect.
578
00:22:58,133 --> 00:23:01,069
- Like, I don't remember
anything. I wasn't even, like--
579
00:23:01,136 --> 00:23:03,906
- Your savage turned up
so crazy, I was, like,
580
00:23:03,972 --> 00:23:08,076
this is a demon of the likes
I've never seen before.
581
00:23:08,143 --> 00:23:11,713
- Unfortunately, I can't drink
as much as everybody else.
582
00:23:11,780 --> 00:23:16,652
And sometimes, I don't realize
that until it is way too late.
583
00:23:16,718 --> 00:23:20,289
I really hope that he can see
584
00:23:20,355 --> 00:23:24,626
this was just a moment in time
that we can move past.
585
00:23:24,693 --> 00:23:27,529
Look, I don't want
586
00:23:27,596 --> 00:23:30,666
the other night's events,
587
00:23:30,732 --> 00:23:32,668
as crazy as it were,
588
00:23:32,734 --> 00:23:36,004
to, like, [bleep] up
what we have going on.
589
00:23:36,104 --> 00:23:40,175
Because I feel like we were
getting to, like, a good place.
590
00:23:40,242 --> 00:23:41,343
- I like you, Tate-o.
591
00:23:41,410 --> 00:23:42,744
I really do.
- Mm-hmm.
592
00:23:42,811 --> 00:23:44,947
- I feel like you know
my honesty in that.
593
00:23:45,013 --> 00:23:46,348
- Yeah.
594
00:23:46,415 --> 00:23:49,151
- I like being around you.
I like talking to you.
595
00:23:49,218 --> 00:23:50,519
I like [bleep] you.
596
00:23:50,586 --> 00:23:52,788
- [laughs]
- I like making music with you.
597
00:23:52,854 --> 00:23:54,656
- Yeah.
598
00:23:54,723 --> 00:23:57,125
- But I think we should keep it
at just that.
599
00:23:57,192 --> 00:23:59,928
[somber music]
600
00:24:00,062 --> 00:24:02,965
- I wished that he would
have been like, "You know what?
601
00:24:03,065 --> 00:24:05,601
"I know it wasn't nothing
actually personal.
602
00:24:05,667 --> 00:24:07,069
"So like, yeah, we cool.
603
00:24:07,069 --> 00:24:09,071
Like, just don't
do that [bleep] again."
604
00:24:09,104 --> 00:24:12,207
But this one situation
was the thing that was, like,
605
00:24:12,274 --> 00:24:14,343
"You know what?
Mm-mm.
606
00:24:14,409 --> 00:24:17,212
Um, I don't even want to deal
with this anymore."
607
00:24:17,279 --> 00:24:18,614
And that hurts.
608
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,215
- It's what it is.
609
00:24:20,282 --> 00:24:23,385
- It is what it is.
It's always been what it was.
610
00:24:23,452 --> 00:24:24,620
- Appreciate you.
611
00:24:24,686 --> 00:24:31,193
♪ ♪
612
00:24:31,260 --> 00:24:34,329
announcer: Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"...
613
00:24:34,396 --> 00:24:36,632
- Just a minute ago,
y'all wasn't even speaking.
614
00:24:36,698 --> 00:24:38,400
How--how long you plan
on staying here?
615
00:24:38,467 --> 00:24:42,304
- I wanna stay until I'm told
I can't stay no more.
616
00:24:42,371 --> 00:24:43,839
- Nothin' is ever
gonna get better
617
00:24:43,906 --> 00:24:45,841
and we're gonna go years
without seeing each other.
618
00:24:45,908 --> 00:24:48,577
- You know, I'm not
who you want me to be.
619
00:24:51,525 --> 00:24:52,657
{\an7}- ♪ Making my way to the top ♪
620
00:24:52,657 --> 00:24:53,756
{\an7}♪ And there’s no stopping ♪
621
00:24:53,756 --> 00:24:56,690
{\an7}[mellow hip-hop music]
622
00:24:56,690 --> 00:24:59,723
{\an7}- ♪ No matter where we at,
we gon’ shine regardless ♪
623
00:24:59,723 --> 00:25:00,855
{\an7}♪ I come from a place where ♪
624
00:25:00,855 --> 00:25:03,822
{\an7}\h\h\h- So being in the house
with the kids, Yandy cooking,
625
00:25:03,822 --> 00:25:05,086
{\an7}the kids just running around,
626
00:25:05,086 --> 00:25:06,789
{\an7}I just felt like my dream
\h\h\h\h\his coming true.
627
00:25:06,789 --> 00:25:09,624
{\an7}- Guys, I want you to make sure
\h\hyou keep this house clean.
628
00:25:09,624 --> 00:25:12,053
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hDad, stop eating.
I have a special guest coming.
629
00:25:12,053 --> 00:25:13,492
{\an7}- Who’s the special guest?
630
00:25:13,492 --> 00:25:15,723
{\an7}\h\h- Can’t tell!
It’s a surprise!
631
00:25:15,723 --> 00:25:17,987
{\an7}- It’s a surprise.
\h\h\h\h\hExactly.
632
00:25:17,987 --> 00:25:19,954
{\an7}- Yandy been telling me
\h\h\h\h\hthat Infinity
633
00:25:19,954 --> 00:25:21,053
{\an7}genuinely missed the kids.
634
00:25:21,053 --> 00:25:23,086
{\an7}So I didn’t want to come in
\h\h\h\h\h\hand weigh that.
635
00:25:23,086 --> 00:25:25,624
{\an7}My thing was she has to know
\h\h\h\h\hthere’s boundaries
636
00:25:25,624 --> 00:25:29,558
{\an7}and there’s a level of respect
\hto be accepted in this house.
637
00:25:29,558 --> 00:25:33,492
{\an7}- No one touch this plate.
\h\hThis is for the guest.
638
00:25:33,492 --> 00:25:34,855
{\an7}[doorbell rings]
639
00:25:34,855 --> 00:25:37,086
{\an7}That’s the door!
640
00:25:38,086 --> 00:25:40,195
{\an7}♪ ♪
641
00:25:40,195 --> 00:25:41,228
{\an7}- [chuckles]
642
00:25:41,228 --> 00:25:43,624
{\an7}- They don’t know.
643
00:25:43,624 --> 00:25:46,492
{\an7}They don’t know.
\h\h\h- Sit down.
644
00:25:46,492 --> 00:25:48,525
{\an7}Sit down, Skylar.
645
00:25:48,525 --> 00:25:52,020
{\an7}\h- Okay. Are you ready
for the special guest?
646
00:25:52,020 --> 00:25:52,954
{\an7}- Yes.
647
00:25:52,954 --> 00:25:57,822
{\an7}- Okay, special guest, come in.
648
00:25:58,020 --> 00:26:02,020
{\an7}[kids all shouting at once]
649
00:26:02,020 --> 00:26:03,195
{\an7}♪ ♪
650
00:26:03,195 --> 00:26:08,053
{\an7}- Oh, see, I knew that my kids
\h\h\h\hwould love this moment.
651
00:26:08,053 --> 00:26:11,020
{\an7}They love her so much,
652
00:26:11,020 --> 00:26:13,987
{\an7}especially Omare and Skylar.
653
00:26:13,987 --> 00:26:15,261
{\an7}They lived with her
\hfor three years.
654
00:26:15,261 --> 00:26:19,152
{\an7}So you know, in their mind,
\h\h\hthat is their sister.
655
00:26:19,152 --> 00:26:23,294
{\an7}\h\h\hSo you know, this is
a special moment for them.
656
00:26:23,294 --> 00:26:25,020
{\an7}- Who’s your favorite sister?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- You.
657
00:26:25,020 --> 00:26:27,020
{\an7}You should get your nails
\h\h\h\hpretty like that.
658
00:26:27,020 --> 00:26:30,020
{\an7}\h- Well, I play basketball.
I can’t play ball with nails.
659
00:26:30,020 --> 00:26:31,921
{\an7}- Oh, ’cause you’re gonna
\h\h\h\hbreak your nails.
660
00:26:31,921 --> 00:26:35,954
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
So we gonna play or no?
661
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:38,624
{\an7}- I don’t know.
662
00:26:38,624 --> 00:26:40,723
{\an7}How long do you want me
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto stay?
663
00:26:40,723 --> 00:26:43,020
{\an7}\h\h\h- The whole year!
A year! A year! A year!
664
00:26:43,020 --> 00:26:45,855
{\an7}- A year? Just a year?
I can’t--I can’t live?
665
00:26:45,855 --> 00:26:46,987
{\an7}[tense music]
666
00:26:46,987 --> 00:26:48,053
{\an7}\h- You can stay
for another year.
667
00:26:48,053 --> 00:26:51,624
{\an7}- All right, kids. So me, Dad,
\hand Infinity are gonna talk.
668
00:26:51,624 --> 00:26:52,426
{\an7}You guys go to bed.
669
00:26:52,426 --> 00:26:55,954
{\an7}\h\hBefore we even invited
Infinity back to the house,
670
00:26:55,954 --> 00:26:57,086
{\an7}we discussed baby steps.
671
00:26:57,086 --> 00:27:00,086
{\an7}These are the kind of things
\h\h\h\hthat drive me crazy.
672
00:27:00,086 --> 00:27:03,360
{\an7}Because just a few hours ago,
\h\h\h\hwe was talking about
673
00:27:03,360 --> 00:27:06,360
{\an7}the tell-all book you was
about to write about us.
674
00:27:06,360 --> 00:27:07,020
{\an7}Slow down.
675
00:27:07,020 --> 00:27:08,921
{\an7}- Like overall, like,
\hjust a minute ago,
676
00:27:08,921 --> 00:27:10,954
{\an7}y’all wasn’t even speaking.
677
00:27:10,954 --> 00:27:11,723
{\an7}- Right.
- Right?
678
00:27:11,723 --> 00:27:14,195
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hSo y’all trying
to kindle y’all relationship.
679
00:27:14,195 --> 00:27:17,294
{\an7}So you being in this house
\h\h\h\his a step forward.
680
00:27:17,294 --> 00:27:20,228
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hIs this, like--
is this where you want to be?
681
00:27:20,228 --> 00:27:21,690
{\an7}\h- When I packed up
and got on the plane,
682
00:27:21,690 --> 00:27:24,261
{\an7}I came here with the intentions
\h\h\h\hto have a conversation.
683
00:27:24,261 --> 00:27:25,723
{\an7}I have no other motives
684
00:27:25,723 --> 00:27:27,690
{\an7}other than just to have
\h\h\h\ha conversation
685
00:27:27,690 --> 00:27:28,690
{\an7}and get back to my family.
686
00:27:28,690 --> 00:27:31,195
{\an7}\h\h- Right, so how--how long
do you plan on staying here?
687
00:27:31,195 --> 00:27:34,822
{\an7}- I want to stay until I’m told
\h\h\h\h\hI can’t stay no more.
688
00:27:34,822 --> 00:27:37,360
{\an7}- So it’s one thing
to live in New York
689
00:27:37,360 --> 00:27:38,954
{\an7}\h\hand only come here
through holiday times,
690
00:27:38,954 --> 00:27:41,921
{\an7}but it’s another thing to live
\h\h\hin this house every day.
691
00:27:41,921 --> 00:27:45,723
{\an7}\h\h\hI don’t want--got time
to be blasted on social media
692
00:27:45,723 --> 00:27:47,261
{\an7}for the way I comb my hair
693
00:27:47,261 --> 00:27:49,020
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hor the way
I spilt some orange juice.
694
00:27:49,020 --> 00:27:52,152
{\an7}\h\h\hBut I just think there’s
a level of respect that we need
695
00:27:52,152 --> 00:27:54,261
{\an7}to establish before, you know,
696
00:27:54,261 --> 00:27:58,228
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hshe actually
stays in the house for good.
697
00:27:58,228 --> 00:28:00,987
{\an7}It’s just a lot, right?
\hHaving my kids back,
698
00:28:00,987 --> 00:28:03,888
{\an7}\h\h\hit’s just been like
God has been blessing me.
699
00:28:03,888 --> 00:28:05,426
{\an7}\h\h\hYou know, I missed
a lot of time with them.
700
00:28:05,426 --> 00:28:09,294
{\an7}\hI missed a lot of holidays.
I missed a lot of birthdays.
701
00:28:09,294 --> 00:28:13,152
{\an7}And I prayed to have them
all underneath one roof.
702
00:28:13,152 --> 00:28:14,086
{\an7}It’s happening.
703
00:28:14,086 --> 00:28:16,987
{\an7}So anything negative,
I ain’t got time for.
704
00:28:16,987 --> 00:28:17,591
{\an7}- Yeah.
705
00:28:17,591 --> 00:28:21,152
{\an7}- She have to get her emotions
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hintact first
706
00:28:21,152 --> 00:28:23,921
{\an7}and find ways to deal
\h\hwith her problems
707
00:28:23,921 --> 00:28:26,822
{\an7}before she even talk about
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hmoving here.
708
00:28:26,822 --> 00:28:29,459
{\an7}And we’re a long way from that.
709
00:28:31,789 --> 00:28:34,393
{\an7}[upbeat hip-hop music]
710
00:28:34,393 --> 00:28:37,294
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- ♪ Hey, hey,
won’t you come on my way? ♪
711
00:28:37,294 --> 00:28:40,888
{\an7}♪ You know, you know, you know
\h\hthat you fine like that ♪
712
00:28:40,888 --> 00:28:42,756
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- So this dinner
is like super last minute.
713
00:28:42,756 --> 00:28:45,294
{\an7}But Karter’s here,
\h\h\hKai is here.
714
00:28:45,294 --> 00:28:47,086
{\an7}My Aunt Allison.
715
00:28:47,086 --> 00:28:47,921
{\an7}Of course, my mom.
716
00:28:47,921 --> 00:28:50,756
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hMy grandmother
with her beautiful self.
717
00:28:50,756 --> 00:28:51,855
{\an7}And of course, Kirk is here.
718
00:28:51,855 --> 00:28:55,228
{\an7}We’re gonna keep it small,
\hintimate, and just chill
719
00:28:55,228 --> 00:28:56,327
{\an7}and see what happens.
720
00:28:56,327 --> 00:28:58,294
{\an7}- I appreciate you opening up
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe lounge
721
00:28:58,294 --> 00:29:00,228
{\an7}so we can come in here
\h\h\h\h\hand do this.
722
00:29:00,228 --> 00:29:01,152
{\an7}This is so awesome.
723
00:29:01,152 --> 00:29:04,360
{\an7}Because to me it’s just kind
of intimate to have just us.
724
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,360
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Uh-oh.
Somebody’s at the door.
725
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,426
{\an7}- Hey!
- Hey!
726
00:29:09,426 --> 00:29:10,822
{\an7}- Whoo-whoo!
727
00:29:10,822 --> 00:29:13,360
{\an7}- Happy birthday.
\h\h\h\h- Hello.
728
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,228
{\an7}Happy birthday.
729
00:29:15,228 --> 00:29:16,954
{\an7}- Thank you. I love you.
730
00:29:16,954 --> 00:29:17,921
{\an7}- I love you too.
731
00:29:17,921 --> 00:29:19,228
{\an7}- Boobie’s finally here.
We can get to it and eat.
732
00:29:19,228 --> 00:29:21,228
{\an7}Let’s get you something to eat.
\h\h\h\h- Right, right, right.
733
00:29:21,228 --> 00:29:22,822
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Hi, Bud.
You gonna come and sit down?
734
00:29:22,822 --> 00:29:24,360
{\an7}- We’re gonna bless the food.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Hi.
735
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:25,789
{\an7}- You want some wine?
736
00:29:25,789 --> 00:29:26,954
{\an7}- Sure. Thank you.
\h\h\h\h[laughter]
737
00:29:26,954 --> 00:29:29,327
{\an7}- Lord, thank you for the food
\h\hthat we’re about to receive
738
00:29:29,327 --> 00:29:31,855
{\an7}for the nourishment
of our body. Amen.
739
00:29:31,855 --> 00:29:33,294
{\an7}all: Amen.
740
00:29:33,294 --> 00:29:35,954
{\an7}- All right. Dig in.
741
00:29:36,756 --> 00:29:37,921
{\an7}- Well, what do you think
\h\h\h\h\h\h\habout this?
742
00:29:37,921 --> 00:29:40,987
{\an7}\h\h\h- This is very nice.
I love it. I appreciate it.
743
00:29:40,987 --> 00:29:41,822
{\an7}- I know when Mama said,
744
00:29:41,822 --> 00:29:43,086
{\an7}\h\h\h\h"I want to do
a dinner for Boobie."
745
00:29:43,086 --> 00:29:45,053
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI said,
"You--you do--want to do what?"
746
00:29:45,053 --> 00:29:48,261
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Well, she should.
She didn’t come to my 50th.
747
00:29:48,261 --> 00:29:50,393
{\an7}- Don’t start that [bleep],
\h\h\h\hBoobie, because...
748
00:29:50,393 --> 00:29:51,086
{\an7}[laughter]
749
00:29:51,086 --> 00:29:52,855
{\an7}\h\h\hWhy in the hell
are you saying that?
750
00:29:52,855 --> 00:29:54,228
{\an7}I met you for brunch.
751
00:29:54,228 --> 00:29:55,921
{\an7}- That was the next day.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- So what?
752
00:29:55,921 --> 00:29:57,921
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Like,
we ain’t gonna go there.
753
00:29:57,921 --> 00:29:59,261
{\an7}- Please don’t. Please don’t.
754
00:29:59,261 --> 00:30:01,119
{\an7}- Well, I mean, honestly,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hplease do
755
00:30:01,119 --> 00:30:01,954
{\an7}so everybody can get out
756
00:30:01,954 --> 00:30:04,888
{\an7}\h\h\h\hwhat needs to be said
and then we can get past it.
757
00:30:04,888 --> 00:30:05,987
{\an7}Because if we ain’t gonna talk
758
00:30:05,987 --> 00:30:08,152
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\habout it then
it’s never gonna be resolved.
759
00:30:08,152 --> 00:30:09,195
{\an7}- When it comes to Boobie,
760
00:30:09,195 --> 00:30:10,921
{\an7}she thinks that her side
\h\h\h\h\h\hof the story
761
00:30:10,921 --> 00:30:12,987
{\an7}is always the true side
\h\h\h\h\hof the story.
762
00:30:12,987 --> 00:30:14,119
{\an7}But she got to understand
763
00:30:14,119 --> 00:30:16,393
{\an7}she just kind of get on
\h\heverybody’s nerves.
764
00:30:16,393 --> 00:30:19,020
{\an7}And that comes from the things
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat she does,
765
00:30:19,020 --> 00:30:22,492
{\an7}begging for money all the time,
\h\h\h\hbut, whew, that’s her.
766
00:30:22,492 --> 00:30:25,921
{\an7}\h\h- Nothin’ is ever gonna get
better and we’re gonna go years
767
00:30:25,921 --> 00:30:26,954
{\an7}without seeing each other.
768
00:30:26,954 --> 00:30:28,294
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hAnd we live
in the same [bleep] city.
769
00:30:28,294 --> 00:30:31,855
{\an7}And you know, a lot of stuff
just doesn’t make any sense.
770
00:30:31,855 --> 00:30:32,657
{\an7}I mean, I love you--
771
00:30:32,657 --> 00:30:34,195
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- ’Cause you’re not--
you’re not connecting with me
772
00:30:34,195 --> 00:30:37,393
{\an7}\h\h’cause like, I don’t know,
maybe it’s the age difference.
773
00:30:37,393 --> 00:30:40,888
{\an7}We were young and together,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know?
774
00:30:40,888 --> 00:30:42,086
{\an7}How old were you
when y’all left?
775
00:30:42,086 --> 00:30:43,294
{\an7}\h\h\h\hBecause you were
just like a freshman in--
776
00:30:43,294 --> 00:30:44,954
{\an7}\h\h- I wasn’t even
in high school yet.
777
00:30:44,954 --> 00:30:46,261
{\an7}- You weren’t in high school?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hOkay.
778
00:30:46,261 --> 00:30:48,855
{\an7}All we knew was child,
\hyou know, childhood.
779
00:30:48,855 --> 00:30:51,053
{\an7}\h\hMaybe that’s just
where we’re missing.
780
00:30:51,053 --> 00:30:55,393
{\an7}- Me and my Mom and my sister,
\h\hwe was three amigos, okay?
781
00:30:55,393 --> 00:30:56,086
{\an7}[laughs]
782
00:30:56,086 --> 00:30:58,360
{\an7}It was just us livin’ life,
\h\h\h\h\hholding it down.
783
00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:59,492
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYou know,
I was of course the baby.
784
00:30:59,492 --> 00:31:01,888
{\an7}We had such a close bond
\hwhen we were younger.
785
00:31:01,888 --> 00:31:05,393
{\an7}\hAnd I would love for us to be
able to go back to those days.
786
00:31:05,393 --> 00:31:06,888
{\an7}\h\h\hBut that’s not
the reality of life.
787
00:31:06,888 --> 00:31:11,152
{\an7}- The thing is, you don’t never
\h\h\h\hget to do what you did
788
00:31:11,152 --> 00:31:12,987
{\an7}when y’all were living together
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hgrowing up.
789
00:31:12,987 --> 00:31:14,053
{\an7}That’s [bleep] just like,
790
00:31:14,053 --> 00:31:15,327
{\an7}you don’t really realize
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat it’s--
791
00:31:15,327 --> 00:31:16,525
{\an7}- It’s like a one-time thing.
792
00:31:16,525 --> 00:31:18,195
{\an7}- Yeah, you don’t realize
how blessed you was to be
793
00:31:18,195 --> 00:31:19,426
{\an7}\h\h\hin the house
with your siblings.
794
00:31:19,426 --> 00:31:22,624
{\an7}\hAnd you just get older and
y’all just kind of separate.
795
00:31:22,624 --> 00:31:24,426
{\an7}- But I feel like, you know,
\h\h\h\h\hlike, I called you
796
00:31:24,426 --> 00:31:25,921
{\an7}a couple times saying,
\h\h\h\h"Where you at?
797
00:31:25,921 --> 00:31:27,261
{\an7}What you about to do?"
\hAnd you’re just like,
798
00:31:27,261 --> 00:31:28,393
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h"I’m about
to run some errands."
799
00:31:28,393 --> 00:31:30,152
{\an7}I really wanted to say,
\h\h\h"Well, can I come
800
00:31:30,152 --> 00:31:32,152
{\an7}and run the errands with you
\h\h\h\h\hor come with you?"
801
00:31:32,152 --> 00:31:34,624
{\an7}- Well then you have to say it.
\h\h\h\h\h- I just get the vibe
802
00:31:34,624 --> 00:31:37,459
{\an7}\h\h\h\hthat you’re too busy
and you just don’t have time.
803
00:31:37,459 --> 00:31:39,954
{\an7}\hI know you--you have
your friends and stuff
804
00:31:39,954 --> 00:31:43,020
{\an7}but it’s like, I tell you,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI feel like
805
00:31:43,020 --> 00:31:45,591
{\an7}you’re closer to your friends
\h\h\h\h\hthan you are to me.
806
00:31:45,591 --> 00:31:47,327
{\an7}Those people really
\h\hdon’t know me.
807
00:31:47,327 --> 00:31:48,954
{\an7}- Because you don’t
\h\h\hcome around.
808
00:31:48,954 --> 00:31:49,855
{\an7}- Yeah, I don’t--I don’t--
809
00:31:49,855 --> 00:31:52,119
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Like, we invite you
to damn near everything we have
810
00:31:52,119 --> 00:31:55,558
{\an7}and you make your choice
not to show up, you know?
811
00:31:55,558 --> 00:31:57,086
{\an7}Then when you do show up,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know,
812
00:31:57,086 --> 00:31:59,228
{\an7}\h\hyou be sitting around
halfway with a attitude.
813
00:31:59,228 --> 00:32:03,020
{\an7}Me, if I’m gonna walk into
your birthday or anything,
814
00:32:03,020 --> 00:32:04,053
{\an7}I’m gonna be me regardless.
815
00:32:04,053 --> 00:32:06,558
{\an7}\h\h\h"What up y’all? Hoo hoo
ha ha hee hee hee. Coo coo."
816
00:32:06,558 --> 00:32:11,195
{\an7}I’m not gonna sit in the corner
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand be like...
817
00:32:11,195 --> 00:32:13,020
{\an7}’cause that’s what
\h\h\hyou be doing.
818
00:32:13,020 --> 00:32:14,690
{\an7}\hI mean, it’s just like
you feel some kind of way
819
00:32:14,690 --> 00:32:17,558
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\heverybody needs to--
now you’re gonna get emotional.
820
00:32:17,558 --> 00:32:18,690
{\an7}- ’Cause that’s what I do.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Oh.
821
00:32:18,690 --> 00:32:21,459
{\an7}\h\h- Everybody start thinking
I’m crazy and all this [bleep].
822
00:32:21,459 --> 00:32:23,690
{\an7}- How do you want to bring up
\h\h\h\h\h\hsome bull[bleep]?
823
00:32:23,690 --> 00:32:25,426
{\an7}- So what?
\h\hLike--
824
00:32:25,426 --> 00:32:26,987
{\an7}- Like, take a chill pill.
825
00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:28,294
{\an7}- Boobie is so sensitive.
826
00:32:28,294 --> 00:32:31,119
{\an7}She think that don’t nobody
\h\h\h\h\hwant her around.
827
00:32:31,119 --> 00:32:33,426
{\an7}And that is not true.
\hRasheeda has always
828
00:32:33,426 --> 00:32:35,987
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hhad time to have
a relationship with Boobie.
829
00:32:35,987 --> 00:32:38,690
{\an7}It’s just that Boobie wanted
\h\h\h\h\h\hto do her thing.
830
00:32:38,690 --> 00:32:41,327
{\an7}\hAnd nobody had time for all
the stuff that she would do.
831
00:32:41,327 --> 00:32:44,558
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- I appreciate
everything you do for me.
832
00:32:44,558 --> 00:32:45,690
{\an7}I love you a lot.
833
00:32:45,690 --> 00:32:48,987
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hAnd, you know,
I’m not who you want me to be.
834
00:32:48,987 --> 00:32:50,360
{\an7}- It’s not that. It’s not that.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I mean,
835
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,152
{\an7}\hI’m not--I just want you
to understand me for that.
836
00:32:52,152 --> 00:32:55,195
{\an7}I just--pick up the phone
sometime and just call me
837
00:32:55,195 --> 00:32:56,525
{\an7}and say, "How you doing?"
838
00:32:56,525 --> 00:32:59,228
{\an7}\h\h\hI just feel like
Mom and everyone else,
839
00:32:59,228 --> 00:33:01,152
{\an7}they’re really, really close.
840
00:33:01,152 --> 00:33:04,756
{\an7}And wish we could be like that
because it was just--you know?
841
00:33:04,756 --> 00:33:07,020
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
- And that’s just what I want.
842
00:33:07,020 --> 00:33:09,393
{\an7}- Let me be honest.
\hThat’s my sister.
843
00:33:09,393 --> 00:33:10,459
{\an7}Like, period.
844
00:33:10,459 --> 00:33:12,756
{\an7}And I love her to death.
\h\h\hI looked up to her.
845
00:33:12,756 --> 00:33:15,756
{\an7}I always wanted to be with her,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hride with her,
846
00:33:15,756 --> 00:33:17,053
{\an7}hang with her and her friends.
847
00:33:17,053 --> 00:33:19,086
{\an7}But now there’s like
\ha gray area there,
848
00:33:19,086 --> 00:33:24,459
{\an7}like a gap where maybe we lost
\htouch on that sisterly bond.
849
00:33:24,459 --> 00:33:28,360
{\an7}\hAnd it’s important for us to
get on some kind of good page.
850
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:29,393
{\an7}We got [bleep] to work on.
851
00:33:29,393 --> 00:33:31,086
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
- But we love you.
852
00:33:31,086 --> 00:33:33,624
{\an7}\h\hLet’s start making time
for each other. No excuse.
853
00:33:33,624 --> 00:33:36,624
{\an7}\hNo, "I ain’t gonna make it."
No, no, no, no. Give me a hug.
854
00:33:36,624 --> 00:33:38,294
{\an7}\hWe’re gonna hug
across the table.
855
00:33:38,294 --> 00:33:40,756
{\an7}\h\h\h- [laughs]
both: I love you.
856
00:33:40,756 --> 00:33:42,020
{\an7}- I love you too.
\hHappy birthday.
857
00:33:42,020 --> 00:33:45,459
{\an7}\h\hannouncer: Coming up on
"Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"...
858
00:33:45,459 --> 00:33:48,558
{\an7}- I want you to promise that
no matter what the gender is,
859
00:33:48,558 --> 00:33:52,086
{\an7}\h\h\hyou’re not gonna, like,
jump off the nearest bridge.
860
00:33:52,086 --> 00:33:53,558
{\an7}- I want a boy. You know me.
861
00:33:53,558 --> 00:33:57,591
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- If it’s a girl,
would you really be upset?
862
00:34:00,614 --> 00:34:01,746
{\an7}- ♪ Making my way to the top ♪
863
00:34:01,746 --> 00:34:02,845
{\an7}♪ And there’s no stopping ♪
864
00:34:02,845 --> 00:34:05,076
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- ♪ Strength,
grandma, she got strength ♪
865
00:34:05,076 --> 00:34:06,350
{\an7}♪ Mama, she got strength ♪
866
00:34:06,350 --> 00:34:07,713
{\an7}\h♪ And my auntie,
she got strength ♪
867
00:34:07,713 --> 00:34:09,746
{\an7}\h♪ Stickin’ together,
we’ll have strength ♪
868
00:34:09,746 --> 00:34:10,812
{\an7}♪ We can unify, strength ♪
869
00:34:10,812 --> 00:34:12,548
{\an7}\h♪ If you gon’ die,
die with strength ♪
870
00:34:12,548 --> 00:34:14,548
{\an7}- I can’t say I’ve fully
\h\h\hcome to terms yet
871
00:34:14,548 --> 00:34:17,076
{\an7}that I’m having another child
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hbecause
872
00:34:17,076 --> 00:34:18,350
{\an7}even when I had Safire,
873
00:34:18,350 --> 00:34:21,241
{\an7}I still didn’t believe that,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h"Yo, Safaree,
874
00:34:21,241 --> 00:34:23,241
{\an7}you’re a father now."
It’s just unexpected.
875
00:34:23,241 --> 00:34:26,449
{\an7}\hAnd you know, I definitely
wish I would have responded
876
00:34:26,449 --> 00:34:28,515
{\an7}in a more exciting
\hand happier way
877
00:34:28,515 --> 00:34:30,614
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hso that you know,
Erica would feel good about it.
878
00:34:30,614 --> 00:34:32,317
{\an7}Because I don’t want her
\h\h\h\h\h\hto feel like
879
00:34:32,317 --> 00:34:34,043
{\an7}anything’s her fault
\h\hbecause it’s not.
880
00:34:34,043 --> 00:34:37,241
{\an7}[reggaeton beat playing]
\h- ♪ What you mean? ♪
881
00:34:37,241 --> 00:34:39,383
{\an7}[rapping]
882
00:34:39,383 --> 00:34:41,208
{\an7}♪ What you mean? ♪
883
00:34:41,208 --> 00:34:44,284
{\an7}[rapping]
884
00:34:44,284 --> 00:34:45,482
{\an7}- [babbles]
885
00:34:45,482 --> 00:34:49,076
{\an7}♪ ♪
886
00:34:49,076 --> 00:34:53,208
{\an7}- [gasps]
\h\h\hHi.
887
00:34:53,208 --> 00:34:54,284
{\an7}- Oh.
888
00:34:54,284 --> 00:34:56,241
{\an7}- I’m not sure if Safaree
889
00:34:56,241 --> 00:34:59,076
{\an7}will be able to handle
\h\hhaving a new baby.
890
00:34:59,076 --> 00:35:03,812
{\an7}Because I know he tends to run
away from the responsibilities
891
00:35:03,812 --> 00:35:06,845
{\an7}of just us having our one now.
892
00:35:06,845 --> 00:35:10,284
{\an7}\h\h- You look pregnant.
But you still look small.
893
00:35:10,284 --> 00:35:12,142
{\an7}- Really? Well, I’ve been
working out consistently.
894
00:35:12,142 --> 00:35:15,680
{\an7}I feel like it makes me feel
a lot better just in general.
895
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,383
{\an7}- [laughs]
896
00:35:17,383 --> 00:35:18,548
{\an7}- But, um,
897
00:35:18,548 --> 00:35:20,779
{\an7}I went to the doctor’s.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm.
898
00:35:20,779 --> 00:35:25,416
{\an7}- They were able to tell me
\h\h\h\hall the good stuff.
899
00:35:25,416 --> 00:35:27,581
{\an7}The baby is fine.
900
00:35:27,581 --> 00:35:29,614
{\an7}And then, um,
901
00:35:29,614 --> 00:35:32,449
{\an7}I explained to her
\h\hyour reaction.
902
00:35:32,449 --> 00:35:34,317
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYou know,
Dr. Jackie is my girl.
903
00:35:34,317 --> 00:35:37,142
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- And she said
it’s very normal, right?
904
00:35:37,142 --> 00:35:38,109
{\an7}[laughs]
905
00:35:38,109 --> 00:35:41,142
{\an7}\h- She’s just saying,
"Well, when I told you,
906
00:35:41,142 --> 00:35:44,142
{\an7}you stared at me
for ten minutes."
907
00:35:44,142 --> 00:35:45,076
{\an7}And that’s when it hit me.
908
00:35:45,076 --> 00:35:47,746
{\an7}\h\hI have to actually
be realistic about it.
909
00:35:47,746 --> 00:35:51,350
{\an7}\hBecause I was in shock.
I guess I will say this.
910
00:35:51,350 --> 00:35:54,548
{\an7}\h\h\hForgive me because I know
I’ve been putting the pressure
911
00:35:54,548 --> 00:35:58,109
{\an7}on you a little bit
\hon your reaction.
912
00:35:58,109 --> 00:35:59,241
{\an7}No, serious.
913
00:35:59,241 --> 00:36:00,142
{\an7}- Yeah, I’m serious too.
914
00:36:00,142 --> 00:36:01,548
{\an7}- But I still want you
\h\h\h\h\hto understand
915
00:36:01,548 --> 00:36:04,350
{\an7}\h\h\h\hwhere I’m coming from.
You’ve definitely neglected me
916
00:36:04,350 --> 00:36:07,614
{\an7}the first few months
\hof her being here.
917
00:36:07,614 --> 00:36:09,515
{\an7}- I needed to sleep and I--
918
00:36:09,515 --> 00:36:10,878
{\an7}- I need to sleep too.
919
00:36:10,878 --> 00:36:12,350
{\an7}I’m breastfeeding.
I just gave birth.
920
00:36:12,350 --> 00:36:14,812
{\an7}\h\hDo you know how much energy
leaves the woman’s body after--
921
00:36:14,812 --> 00:36:16,350
{\an7}- You know, after--after--
\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know what?
922
00:36:16,350 --> 00:36:19,713
{\an7}\h\h\h\hI had postpartum and
a whole brand new human being
923
00:36:19,713 --> 00:36:23,142
{\an7}\hthat depends on us
and everything we do
924
00:36:23,142 --> 00:36:24,548
{\an7}for you to do everything.
925
00:36:24,548 --> 00:36:26,614
{\an7}That kind of changed me,
\h\h\h\hmind you. It did.
926
00:36:26,614 --> 00:36:30,746
{\an7}\h\h\hWe go from sorry
to now a slight insult.
927
00:36:30,746 --> 00:36:32,680
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hCome on.
We gotta pick one.
928
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:33,746
{\an7}You can’t say sorry
\h\h\h\h\hthen say,
929
00:36:33,746 --> 00:36:35,746
{\an7}oh, I wasn’t there for you,
\h\h\hI wasn’t doing this.
930
00:36:35,746 --> 00:36:38,350
{\an7}I wasn’t doing that.
Like, I was learning.
931
00:36:38,350 --> 00:36:40,482
{\an7}I’m just trying to be the best
\hfather I could be, all right?
932
00:36:40,482 --> 00:36:43,175
{\an7}- I just want you to step up
\hto the plate and understand
933
00:36:43,175 --> 00:36:45,350
{\an7}that this is your life.
You have to be serious.
934
00:36:45,350 --> 00:36:47,878
{\an7}\hYou are a married man.
You have a baby already.
935
00:36:47,878 --> 00:36:49,713
{\an7}And you have another one
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hon the way.
936
00:36:49,713 --> 00:36:50,746
{\an7}- So what’s next now?
937
00:36:50,746 --> 00:36:54,878
{\an7}\h\h\hWe got to do a whole
baby shower, gender party.
938
00:36:54,878 --> 00:36:56,581
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hHow are we...
- Speaking of gender--
939
00:36:56,581 --> 00:36:57,878
{\an7}- How are we gonna do this?
940
00:36:57,878 --> 00:37:00,482
{\an7}- Speaking of gender,
941
00:37:00,482 --> 00:37:01,614
{\an7}I want you to promise
942
00:37:01,614 --> 00:37:03,746
{\an7}\h\hthat no matter
what the gender is,
943
00:37:03,746 --> 00:37:08,241
{\an7}\h\h\hyou’re not gonna, like,
jump off the nearest bridge.
944
00:37:08,241 --> 00:37:09,515
{\an7}- I want a boy.
945
00:37:09,515 --> 00:37:10,812
{\an7}- Why do you want a boy?
946
00:37:10,812 --> 00:37:12,548
{\an7}- Because we already
\h\h\h\hhave a girl.
947
00:37:12,548 --> 00:37:13,680
{\an7}A beautiful girl.
\h\hYou know me.
948
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,845
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- If it’s a girl,
would you really be upset?
949
00:37:16,845 --> 00:37:18,350
{\an7}- I would be--
950
00:37:18,350 --> 00:37:19,878
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I mean,
it runs in your family.
951
00:37:19,878 --> 00:37:22,911
{\an7}\h- Yeah, I would feel
a way about it, then--
952
00:37:22,911 --> 00:37:23,779
{\an7}- Feel a what way?
953
00:37:23,779 --> 00:37:25,878
{\an7}\h\h\h\hWhat way exactly
would you feel about it?
954
00:37:25,878 --> 00:37:28,746
{\an7}- I’d be frustrated.
I’d be like, "Damn."
955
00:37:28,746 --> 00:37:31,284
{\an7}Having a son,
956
00:37:31,284 --> 00:37:34,416
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat’d be like
the most unbelievable thing.
957
00:37:34,416 --> 00:37:36,548
{\an7}My family is all women.
958
00:37:36,548 --> 00:37:38,713
{\an7}All my sisters had girls.
959
00:37:38,713 --> 00:37:39,812
{\an7}So I have all nieces.
960
00:37:39,812 --> 00:37:42,944
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hI need a man
to carry on my last name.
961
00:37:42,944 --> 00:37:43,878
{\an7}I need a heir to the throne.
962
00:37:43,878 --> 00:37:47,548
{\an7}- You’re supposed to be like,
\h\h"As long as it’s healthy.
963
00:37:47,548 --> 00:37:50,284
{\an7}\h\h\hLong as my wife
gets through labor."
964
00:37:50,284 --> 00:37:51,812
{\an7}- No, I know that. I know that.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hBut you know--
965
00:37:51,812 --> 00:37:53,812
{\an7}- Like, you have to watch
\h\h\h\h\h\hwhat you say.
966
00:37:53,812 --> 00:37:54,779
{\an7}Like, sometimes I get it,
967
00:37:54,779 --> 00:37:56,548
{\an7}you want to be funny
and you’re too blunt.
968
00:37:56,548 --> 00:37:57,515
{\an7}- I don’t wanna be funny.
969
00:37:57,515 --> 00:37:59,878
{\an7}\hI’m just very blunt
and I’m very honest.
970
00:37:59,878 --> 00:38:02,449
{\an7}- Do you want to know
\hwhat it is or not?
971
00:38:02,449 --> 00:38:03,911
{\an7}- [inhales]
972
00:38:03,911 --> 00:38:08,680
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hOkay.
- What do you feel is in here?
973
00:38:09,284 --> 00:38:10,878
{\an7}Anyway, you’re having a son.
974
00:38:10,878 --> 00:38:12,713
{\an7}[tense music]
975
00:38:12,713 --> 00:38:15,779
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Are you sure?
- Yeah, she showed me the--
976
00:38:16,010 --> 00:38:16,977
{\an7}- [crying]
977
00:38:23,055 --> 00:38:24,122
- ♪ Making my way to the top ♪
978
00:38:24,189 --> 00:38:25,424
♪ And there's no stopping ♪
979
00:38:25,490 --> 00:38:26,692
- You're having a son.
980
00:38:26,758 --> 00:38:28,660
- Are you sure?
- Yeah, she showed me--
981
00:38:29,828 --> 00:38:34,666
- [crying]
982
00:38:34,733 --> 00:38:36,568
- [laughs]
983
00:38:36,635 --> 00:38:38,837
- Safaree, pick her up,
you freaking idiot.
984
00:38:38,904 --> 00:38:40,539
- [wailing]
985
00:38:40,606 --> 00:38:41,940
- Like, what's your problem?
986
00:38:42,007 --> 00:38:44,476
- [screaming]
987
00:38:44,543 --> 00:38:47,245
- Oh, she's fine.
988
00:38:47,312 --> 00:38:48,814
See.
989
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,316
When she's in here with me
by herself, this don't happen.
990
00:38:51,383 --> 00:38:53,518
- Let me give her a drink.
991
00:38:55,287 --> 00:39:00,259
This moment is probably
setting me up to get ready
992
00:39:00,325 --> 00:39:01,927
for what my life
is about to be--
993
00:39:01,994 --> 00:39:07,299
me having to hold down
my babies by myself,
994
00:39:07,366 --> 00:39:08,934
even when they're hurting.
995
00:39:09,001 --> 00:39:12,337
Because Daddy
finds it to be funny.
996
00:39:12,404 --> 00:39:15,641
But it just proves
how immature he is.
997
00:39:15,707 --> 00:39:17,209
That was a real dickhead move
of you.
998
00:39:17,276 --> 00:39:19,478
- It was your fault.
999
00:39:19,544 --> 00:39:20,946
Shouldn't have
had her over there.
1000
00:39:21,013 --> 00:39:22,881
- I should've never
had her over there?
1001
00:39:22,948 --> 00:39:24,149
- Yeah.
1002
00:39:24,149 --> 00:39:25,450
- Safaree, shut up.
1003
00:39:25,517 --> 00:39:26,985
- She's there throwing guitars
on her head.
1004
00:39:27,052 --> 00:39:28,720
- And you're there
laughing at her
1005
00:39:28,787 --> 00:39:30,155
instead of picking her up.
1006
00:39:30,188 --> 00:39:31,657
- It was funny.
1007
00:39:31,723 --> 00:39:34,259
- I'm completely angry because
I-I just feel like
1008
00:39:34,326 --> 00:39:38,597
everything you portrayed
yourself to be in the beginning
1009
00:39:38,664 --> 00:39:40,499
is nothing what you really are.
1010
00:39:40,565 --> 00:39:42,834
- The baby fell.
She's not hurt.
1011
00:39:42,901 --> 00:39:44,970
Let's not turn it
into nothing else.
1012
00:39:45,037 --> 00:39:47,606
- You got blessed
with everything that you have
1013
00:39:47,673 --> 00:39:49,441
in front of you right now.
1014
00:39:49,508 --> 00:39:51,176
And you're not even man enough
to be grateful
1015
00:39:51,209 --> 00:39:53,745
and hold the [bleep] down like
the way you're supposed to.
1016
00:39:53,812 --> 00:39:56,782
- She needs to know
that there's pain in life.
1017
00:39:56,848 --> 00:39:58,884
I'm dead serious.
- No.
1018
00:39:58,951 --> 00:40:00,986
You're gonna find out
that there's pain in life.
1019
00:40:01,053 --> 00:40:02,054
- [chuckles]
1020
00:40:04,547 --> 00:40:06,207
{\an7}\h\h\h- ♪ I made it to the top
and there ain’t no stopping ♪
1021
00:40:06,207 --> 00:40:07,811
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- You’re watching
"Love and Hip Hop Atlanta..."
1022
00:40:07,811 --> 00:40:09,844
{\an7}- "Check Yourself..."
\h\h\h- "Season ten"
1023
00:40:09,844 --> 00:40:10,844
{\an7}- You’ll be watching us...
1024
00:40:10,844 --> 00:40:12,844
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Watch the show...
- For the very first time.
1025
00:40:12,844 --> 00:40:15,712
{\an7}- You’ll be getting our natural
\h\h\h\h\hand honest reactions.
1026
00:40:15,712 --> 00:40:17,547
{\an7}- We’re watching it...
\h\h\h\h\h\h- With you.
1027
00:40:17,547 --> 00:40:19,174
{\an7}- The scene you’re about to see
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\his when
1028
00:40:19,174 --> 00:40:22,646
{\an7}Infinity say she’s gonna
\h\h\hstay here forever.
1029
00:40:22,646 --> 00:40:24,811
{\an7}[upbeat music]
1030
00:40:24,811 --> 00:40:27,811
{\an7}- Guys, I want you to make sure
\h\hyou keep this house clean.
1031
00:40:27,811 --> 00:40:30,207
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hDad, stop eating.
I have a special guest coming.
1032
00:40:30,207 --> 00:40:33,481
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI hate that.
Like, let me finish cooking.
1033
00:40:33,481 --> 00:40:34,679
{\an7}- I do this all the time.
1034
00:40:34,679 --> 00:40:35,844
{\an7}I always gotta test the food
1035
00:40:35,844 --> 00:40:37,646
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand make sure
there’s no poison in it
1036
00:40:37,646 --> 00:40:39,547
{\an7}before everybody else eat it.
1037
00:40:39,547 --> 00:40:40,976
{\an7}- Who’s the special guest?
1038
00:40:40,976 --> 00:40:43,075
{\an7}- Can’t know, it’s a surprise!
1039
00:40:43,075 --> 00:40:46,141
{\an7}- Skylar, get off the chair.
1040
00:40:46,141 --> 00:40:47,481
{\an7}We have cameras around.
1041
00:40:47,481 --> 00:40:48,844
{\an7}\hAct like you have
some home training,
1042
00:40:48,844 --> 00:40:52,943
{\an7}\h\heven if you’re just
acting for the cameras.
1043
00:40:52,943 --> 00:40:56,778
{\an7}\h\hKay, are you ready
for the special guest?
1044
00:40:56,778 --> 00:40:57,712
{\an7}- Yes.
1045
00:40:57,712 --> 00:41:02,811
{\an7}- Okay, special guest, come in.
1046
00:41:02,811 --> 00:41:05,141
{\an7}\h\h\h- Oh!
- Infinity!
1047
00:41:05,141 --> 00:41:09,613
{\an7}I just knew it would be you!
1048
00:41:09,613 --> 00:41:11,745
{\an7}- Yeah, the kids love Infinity.
1049
00:41:11,745 --> 00:41:12,613
{\an7}They miss Infinity.
1050
00:41:12,613 --> 00:41:14,547
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYou know,
she’s they big sister.
1051
00:41:14,547 --> 00:41:16,976
{\an7}\h\h\hAnd they just happy
to have her in the house.
1052
00:41:16,976 --> 00:41:19,108
{\an7}- You should get your nails
\h\h\h\h\hpointy like that.
1053
00:41:19,108 --> 00:41:22,174
{\an7}\h\h- Why? I play basketball.
I can’t play ball with nails.
1054
00:41:22,174 --> 00:41:23,141
{\an7}- I think they’re super cute.
1055
00:41:23,141 --> 00:41:25,745
{\an7}And she’s right, you can’t play
\hno basketball with no nails.
1056
00:41:25,745 --> 00:41:30,141
{\an7}Like, she couldn’t be walking
around dribbling with these.
1057
00:41:30,141 --> 00:41:32,679
{\an7}- Oh, ’cause you’re gonna
\h\h\h\hbreak your nail.
1058
00:41:32,679 --> 00:41:33,745
{\an7}- Yeah.
1059
00:41:33,745 --> 00:41:35,273
{\an7}So we gonna play or nah?
1060
00:41:35,273 --> 00:41:37,240
{\an7}- How long are you staying?
1061
00:41:37,240 --> 00:41:38,976
{\an7}- I don’t know.
1062
00:41:38,976 --> 00:41:41,844
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- So Mendeecees clearly
can’t hide nothing on his face
1063
00:41:41,844 --> 00:41:46,976
{\an7}because he’s looking like
\h\h\h"Why is she here?"
1064
00:41:46,976 --> 00:41:48,712
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- How long
do you want me to stay?
1065
00:41:48,712 --> 00:41:50,240
{\an7}- A whole year. A year.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Huh?
1066
00:41:50,240 --> 00:41:51,580
{\an7}A year, a year!
\h\h\h- A year?
1067
00:41:51,580 --> 00:41:54,679
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hJust a year?
I can’t--I can’t live?
1068
00:41:54,679 --> 00:41:56,580
{\an7}- You could stay for 90 years.
1069
00:41:56,580 --> 00:41:58,613
{\an7}- My husband is still eating.
1070
00:41:58,613 --> 00:42:01,613
{\an7}He had the pre-meal,
then he had the meal,
1071
00:42:01,613 --> 00:42:03,174
{\an7}and then he’s gonna have
\h\h\h\h\hthe after-meal.
1072
00:42:03,174 --> 00:42:05,141
{\an7}That’s just kinda what happens.
1073
00:42:05,141 --> 00:42:05,976
{\an7}- Yeah, at this point,
1074
00:42:05,976 --> 00:42:08,075
{\an7}I’m not even stealing food,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m eating.
1075
00:42:08,075 --> 00:42:09,679
{\an7}If I gotta eat it
\hout the big pot
1076
00:42:09,679 --> 00:42:13,910
{\an7}or whatever the case may be,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m eating.
1077
00:42:14,108 --> 00:42:17,273
{\an7}- All right, kids, so me, Dad,
\hand Infinity are gonna talk.
1078
00:42:17,273 --> 00:42:20,207
{\an7}You guys go to bed.
1079
00:42:20,207 --> 00:42:23,240
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- They’re fronters.
You know they’re not sleeping.
1080
00:42:23,240 --> 00:42:25,745
{\an7}\h\h\h- Like, overall,
like, just a minute ago
1081
00:42:25,745 --> 00:42:27,207
{\an7}y’all wasn’t even speaking.
1082
00:42:27,207 --> 00:42:27,976
{\an7}- Right.
- Right?
1083
00:42:27,976 --> 00:42:30,745
{\an7}\h\h- To y’all trying to
kindle y’all relationship
1084
00:42:30,745 --> 00:42:33,910
{\an7}so you being in this house
\h\h\h\his a step forward.
1085
00:42:33,910 --> 00:42:36,943
{\an7}Is this, like, is this
\h\hwhere you wanna be?
1086
00:42:36,943 --> 00:42:40,042
{\an7}\h\h\h- Oh, my God,
I like Mendeecees.
1087
00:42:40,042 --> 00:42:40,712
{\an7}I like him.
1088
00:42:40,712 --> 00:42:42,306
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h’Cause he’s saying
exactly what I would’ve said.
1089
00:42:42,306 --> 00:42:46,207
{\an7}\h\h\hJust a minute ago,
y’all weren’t even cool,
1090
00:42:46,207 --> 00:42:47,943
{\an7}Now you all up in my house.
1091
00:42:47,943 --> 00:42:49,372
{\an7}No, you gotta go.
1092
00:42:49,372 --> 00:42:51,009
{\an7}This is not right, uh-uh.
1093
00:42:51,009 --> 00:42:52,273
{\an7}\h- When I packed up
and got on the plane,
1094
00:42:52,273 --> 00:42:54,679
{\an7}I came here with the intention
\h\h\h\hto have a conversation.
1095
00:42:54,679 --> 00:42:56,745
{\an7}I have no other motives
\h\h\h\hother than just
1096
00:42:56,745 --> 00:42:59,877
{\an7}to have a conversation
and get back my family.
1097
00:42:59,877 --> 00:43:00,405
{\an7}- Right.
1098
00:43:00,405 --> 00:43:01,976
{\an7}\h\h\hSo how long you
planning on staying?
1099
00:43:01,976 --> 00:43:05,438
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- I want to stay until
I’m told I can’t stay no more.
1100
00:43:05,438 --> 00:43:06,811
{\an7}- Ooh.
1101
00:43:06,811 --> 00:43:09,811
{\an7}[bleep], that’s crazy.
1102
00:43:11,108 --> 00:43:13,273
{\an7}\h\h- The scene that
you’re about to watch
1103
00:43:13,273 --> 00:43:17,372
{\an7}is a guy who doesn’t
\h\h\hhave a bedframe
1104
00:43:17,372 --> 00:43:21,405
{\an7}\h"breaking up" with a girl
that he never went out with
1105
00:43:21,405 --> 00:43:23,438
{\an7}who also has Kamala Harris
1106
00:43:23,438 --> 00:43:26,811
{\an7}walking into the White House
\h\h\hlistening to her music.
1107
00:43:26,811 --> 00:43:29,877
{\an7}[chill music]
1108
00:43:29,877 --> 00:43:35,108
{\an7}♪ ♪
1109
00:43:35,108 --> 00:43:36,745
{\an7}Can I get a rainbow rocket?
1110
00:43:36,745 --> 00:43:39,339
{\an7}I’m so cute. [chuckles]
1111
00:43:42,009 --> 00:43:42,547
{\an7}Hey.
1112
00:43:42,547 --> 00:43:45,372
{\an7}I was nervous to see Guap
\hand it was crazy ’cause
1113
00:43:45,372 --> 00:43:49,141
{\an7}I had just got off the phone
with him talking about, like,
1114
00:43:49,141 --> 00:43:50,240
{\an7}"Oh, you know, I’m sorry.
1115
00:43:50,240 --> 00:43:52,712
{\an7}I hope things haven’t
changed between us."
1116
00:43:52,712 --> 00:43:56,075
{\an7}\h\hAnd so I didn’t know that
I was gonna see him that day.
1117
00:43:56,075 --> 00:43:57,405
{\an7}I just was like, "I wanna talk"
1118
00:43:57,405 --> 00:44:00,438
{\an7}\h\h\hbut I didn’t know that
we were actually gonna talk,
1119
00:44:00,438 --> 00:44:04,778
{\an7}so it was like "oop!"
1120
00:44:04,778 --> 00:44:07,240
{\an7}- Look how he greeted you.
1121
00:44:07,240 --> 00:44:10,745
{\an7}What is that?
1122
00:44:10,745 --> 00:44:15,075
{\an7}- Wanna go for a walk?
1123
00:44:15,075 --> 00:44:16,877
{\an7}So...
1124
00:44:16,877 --> 00:44:19,042
{\an7}- That [bleep] that happened
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hat the house,
1125
00:44:19,042 --> 00:44:21,372
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hfor me,
was absolutely not cool.
1126
00:44:21,372 --> 00:44:23,207
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hI don’t know
what started anything.
1127
00:44:23,207 --> 00:44:25,009
{\an7}\h\h\h\hAll I know is
when you was frantic,
1128
00:44:25,009 --> 00:44:27,877
{\an7}\h\hyou gave me nothing,
like, absolutely nothing
1129
00:44:27,877 --> 00:44:30,811
{\an7}but just disrespect.
1130
00:44:30,811 --> 00:44:32,405
{\an7}- What have you given her?
1131
00:44:32,405 --> 00:44:35,042
{\an7}You’ve given her nothing.
\h\h\h\hYou have nothing.
1132
00:44:35,042 --> 00:44:37,514
{\an7}- Your savage turned up
\hso crazy I was like,
1133
00:44:37,514 --> 00:44:41,745
{\an7}"This a demon of the likes
\hI’ve never seen before."
1134
00:44:41,745 --> 00:44:42,405
{\an7}- I am an angel,
1135
00:44:42,405 --> 00:44:45,306
{\an7}and I do not appreciate
\hbeing called a demon.
1136
00:44:45,306 --> 00:44:48,108
{\an7}\h\h\hI have never
been on demon time.
1137
00:44:48,108 --> 00:44:49,877
{\an7}I am only on God’s time.
1138
00:44:49,877 --> 00:44:52,075
{\an7}Amen, hallelujah!
1139
00:44:52,075 --> 00:44:58,481
{\an7}\h\h\hLook, I don’t want
the other night’s events,
1140
00:44:58,481 --> 00:45:00,075
{\an7}as crazy as they were,
1141
00:45:00,075 --> 00:45:03,405
{\an7}\hto like, [bleep] up
what we have going on
1142
00:45:03,405 --> 00:45:06,580
{\an7}\h\h\hbecause I feel like
we were getting to, like,
1143
00:45:06,580 --> 00:45:08,108
{\an7}a good place.
1144
00:45:08,108 --> 00:45:10,141
{\an7}- I like you, Tate,
\h\h\hI really do.
1145
00:45:10,141 --> 00:45:13,141
{\an7}I feel like you know
\hmy honesty in that.
1146
00:45:13,141 --> 00:45:15,405
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
- I like being around with you.
1147
00:45:15,405 --> 00:45:19,141
{\an7}I like talking to you.
\h\hI like [bleep] you.
1148
00:45:21,075 --> 00:45:21,679
{\an7}- What?
1149
00:45:21,679 --> 00:45:24,141
{\an7}Don’t--don’t he know
his cameras are out?
1150
00:45:24,141 --> 00:45:26,372
{\an7}Her mama might hear this?
1151
00:45:27,108 --> 00:45:30,108
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Did he just say
what I think he just said?
1152
00:45:30,108 --> 00:45:31,042
{\an7}- Who says that?
1153
00:45:31,042 --> 00:45:34,372
{\an7}\h\hEven though I do got
that good [rolls tongue],
1154
00:45:34,372 --> 00:45:36,481
{\an7}but like, that’s rude.
1155
00:45:36,481 --> 00:45:37,547
{\an7}We’re having a heart to heart
1156
00:45:37,547 --> 00:45:39,910
{\an7}\h\h\h\hand you just,
"I like [bleep] you."
1157
00:45:39,910 --> 00:45:42,372
{\an7}Like...[groans]
1158
00:45:42,372 --> 00:45:43,372
{\an7}He gets on my nerves.
1159
00:45:43,372 --> 00:45:46,141
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[chuckles]
- I like making music with you.
1160
00:45:46,141 --> 00:45:47,339
{\an7}- Yeah.
1161
00:45:47,339 --> 00:45:51,481
{\an7}- But I think we should
\hkeep it at just that.
1162
00:45:51,481 --> 00:45:52,174
{\an7}It’s what it is.
1163
00:45:52,174 --> 00:45:56,075
{\an7}\h\h\h- It is what it is and
it’s always been what it was.
1164
00:45:56,075 --> 00:45:58,042
{\an7}- Appreciate you.
1165
00:46:03,580 --> 00:46:08,075
{\an7}- I look back just so I could
\h\hget that one last glimpse
1166
00:46:08,075 --> 00:46:10,009
{\an7}at this dumbass [bleep].
1167
00:46:10,009 --> 00:46:12,009
{\an7}\h’Cause I knew I wasn’t
gonna ever see him again.
1168
00:46:12,009 --> 00:46:14,240
{\an7}Like, I knew at that moment,
1169
00:46:14,240 --> 00:46:16,372
{\an7}\h"Oh, this is gonna be
our last conversation.
1170
00:46:16,372 --> 00:46:17,943
{\an7}I’m never gonna see you again."
1171
00:46:17,943 --> 00:46:20,207
{\an7}\hSo I just wanted
to look back like,
1172
00:46:20,207 --> 00:46:26,438
{\an7}"Mm, wow, I really wasted so
\hmuch time on that [bleep]."
1173
00:46:30,598 --> 00:46:33,668
announcer: Next time on
"Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"...
1174
00:46:33,735 --> 00:46:35,437
- We're getting ready
to celebrate DMX.
1175
00:46:35,503 --> 00:46:38,039
Thousands of bikers
about to show up.
1176
00:46:38,106 --> 00:46:39,474
- Let's ride.
1177
00:46:39,541 --> 00:46:41,276
- Stop playing.
Y'all hate the truth.
1178
00:46:41,342 --> 00:46:42,644
- No.
'Cause that's not my story.
1179
00:46:42,711 --> 00:46:45,080
That's your story.
That's your personal story.
1180
00:46:45,146 --> 00:46:46,581
- Just back up out my face.
1181
00:46:46,648 --> 00:46:48,349
Both of y'all,
back up out my face.
1182
00:46:48,416 --> 00:46:50,185
- I ain't seen my son
and Christopher
1183
00:46:50,251 --> 00:46:52,353
in like 10, 15 years.
1184
00:46:52,420 --> 00:46:54,589
Hopefully,
Christopher bring his ass out.
1185
00:46:54,656 --> 00:46:56,758
I pray that I get
to see him myself
1186
00:46:56,825 --> 00:46:59,327
and--and make sure
he's all right.
1187
00:46:59,394 --> 00:47:01,296
- When you know--when you get
upset and you--you know,
1188
00:47:01,362 --> 00:47:04,199
you start tweeting and stuff,
women don't like that.
1189
00:47:04,265 --> 00:47:06,534
And--and I'm embarrassed.
1190
00:47:06,601 --> 00:47:08,403
- How you think
it makes me feel?
1191
00:47:08,470 --> 00:47:09,904
I don't have a relationship
with my [indistinct].
1192
00:47:09,971 --> 00:47:12,340
- You know you did some
[bleep] up [bleep] like this.
1193
00:47:12,407 --> 00:47:13,575
Admit it.
Damn.
1194
00:47:13,641 --> 00:47:16,411
- Let's speak about
this [bleep].
1195
00:47:19,910 --> 00:47:22,580
{\an7}[hip-hop music]
1196
00:47:22,580 --> 00:47:28,504
{\an7}♪ ♪
1197
00:47:28,504 --> 00:47:31,646
{\an7}\h\h- ♪ Rise up, rise up,
we will rise as a whole ♪
1198
00:47:31,646 --> 00:47:32,712
{\an7}♪ Rise up, rise up ♪
1199
00:47:32,712 --> 00:47:33,910
{\an7}♪ We look right
into the cold ♪
1200
00:47:33,910 --> 00:47:36,438
{\an7}\h\h\h♪ Rise up, rise up,
we will never ever fold ♪
1201
00:47:36,438 --> 00:47:38,471
{\an7}♪ Rise up, rise up,
\heven for the top ♪
1202
00:47:38,471 --> 00:47:40,679
{\an7}\h♪ For the gold,
rise up, rise up ♪
1203
00:47:40,679 --> 00:47:43,471
{\an7}♪ We will rise as a whole ♪
1204
00:47:46,141 --> 00:47:48,877
{\an7}- ♪ MTV ♪