1 00:00:00,109 --> 00:00:02,175 {\an7}\h\hannouncer: Previously on "Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"... 2 00:00:02,175 --> 00:00:03,538 {\an7}- I’ve never had to micromanage 3 00:00:03,538 --> 00:00:05,340 {\an7}so many mother[bleep] \h\h\h\h\hin my life. 4 00:00:05,340 --> 00:00:07,406 {\an7}I feel like I want to pull my wig off. 5 00:00:07,406 --> 00:00:08,670 {\an7}- We [bleep] in a jam. 6 00:00:08,670 --> 00:00:12,769 {\an7}I don’t give a [bleep] you mad, \h\h\h\h\hyou mad, whoever mad. 7 00:00:12,769 --> 00:00:16,505 {\an7}\h\h- And I’m scared, like, you don’t want to do life with me. 8 00:00:16,505 --> 00:00:18,142 {\an7}\h\h\h- So, what? You’re pregnant? 9 00:00:18,142 --> 00:00:20,736 {\an7}- We’re pregnant. 10 00:00:20,736 --> 00:00:22,340 {\an7}- This is crazy. 11 00:00:22,340 --> 00:00:23,340 {\an7}[dramatic music] 12 00:00:23,340 --> 00:00:25,307 {\an7}- It’s definitely hard \h\hto close something 13 00:00:25,307 --> 00:00:27,241 {\an7}after it’s already \hbeen busted open. 14 00:00:27,241 --> 00:00:28,472 {\an7}- When was it busted? \h\hWhat the [bleep]? 15 00:00:28,472 --> 00:00:32,373 {\an7}You are either my [bleep] or you’re not my [bleep]. 16 00:00:32,373 --> 00:00:35,076 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hHe literally is going out of his way 17 00:00:35,076 --> 00:00:36,505 {\an7}to make me look like a weirdo. 18 00:00:36,505 --> 00:00:39,142 {\an7}Don’t go to my [bleep] house. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hLeave. 19 00:00:39,142 --> 00:00:40,076 {\an7}♪ ♪ 20 00:00:40,076 --> 00:00:42,769 {\an7}- Infinity reached out to me. \h\h\h\h- She’s coming here? 21 00:00:42,769 --> 00:00:45,175 {\an7}- I don’t understand why I keep feeling left out. 22 00:00:45,175 --> 00:00:49,439 {\an7}- You went to social media and everybody attacked me. 23 00:00:49,439 --> 00:00:50,769 {\an7}- Did I deserve to be fed back \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto the wolves? 24 00:00:50,769 --> 00:00:53,109 {\an7}Did I deserve to go live back \h\h\h\hwith my grandmother? 25 00:00:53,109 --> 00:00:53,670 {\an7}- Yes. 26 00:00:53,670 --> 00:00:57,208 {\an7}- This is actually really dumb to me. 27 00:01:01,179 --> 00:01:03,214 [hip-hop music] 28 00:01:03,281 --> 00:01:05,583 - ♪ It's about that life ♪ 29 00:01:05,650 --> 00:01:08,152 ♪ It's the life that I chose ♪ 30 00:01:08,219 --> 00:01:10,454 ♪ It's about that life ♪ 31 00:01:10,521 --> 00:01:12,156 ♪ It's the life that I chose ♪ 32 00:01:12,223 --> 00:01:14,592 ♪ Making my way to the top, and there's no stopping ♪ 33 00:01:15,613 --> 00:01:17,075 {\an7}[tense music] 34 00:01:17,075 --> 00:01:18,778 {\an7}- I have nothing else \h\h\h\hmore to say. 35 00:01:18,778 --> 00:01:20,679 {\an7}\hThis is actually really dumb to me. 36 00:01:20,679 --> 00:01:24,415 {\an7}♪ ♪ 37 00:01:24,415 --> 00:01:26,580 {\an7}- Infinity is trying to paint \h\h\h\h\h\hthis picture that 38 00:01:26,580 --> 00:01:31,141 {\an7}\h\hwhen Mendeecees came home, our relationship went downhill. 39 00:01:31,141 --> 00:01:32,811 {\an7}That is not the truth. 40 00:01:32,811 --> 00:01:36,382 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hInfinity was in a very toxic relationship 41 00:01:36,382 --> 00:01:37,547 {\an7}with an older person. 42 00:01:37,547 --> 00:01:41,481 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hAnd as her mother, it is my duty to protect her. 43 00:01:41,481 --> 00:01:45,283 {\an7}\h\hSo now with seeing how she’s gone to social media 44 00:01:45,283 --> 00:01:49,240 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\habout our family and what she’s dealing with, 45 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:50,646 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hmy husband doesn’t feel comfortable 46 00:01:50,646 --> 00:01:52,283 {\an7}with her coming to the house \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hright now. 47 00:01:52,283 --> 00:01:56,580 {\an7}\h\h\hAnd I have to respect it. And I have to understand that. 48 00:01:56,580 --> 00:01:59,316 {\an7}♪ ♪ 49 00:01:59,316 --> 00:02:01,174 {\an7}Infinity. 50 00:02:01,174 --> 00:02:02,745 {\an7}Infinity, come on now. 51 00:02:02,745 --> 00:02:04,547 {\an7}Don’t make me chase you. \h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m tired. 52 00:02:04,547 --> 00:02:05,844 {\an7}- You don’t have to chase me. 53 00:02:05,844 --> 00:02:08,679 {\an7}\h- See, I could just let Infinity walk on. 54 00:02:08,679 --> 00:02:09,415 {\an7}And guess what? 55 00:02:09,415 --> 00:02:11,679 {\an7}I’ll probably never see her \hagain until she needs me. 56 00:02:11,679 --> 00:02:13,481 {\an7}But that’s not the relationship \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI wanna have 57 00:02:13,481 --> 00:02:15,108 {\an7}with someone I call my child. 58 00:02:15,108 --> 00:02:16,745 {\an7}\h\hWe’re gonna sit, we’re going to talk, 59 00:02:16,745 --> 00:02:17,712 {\an7}and we’re gonna work this out. 60 00:02:17,712 --> 00:02:19,877 {\an7}This narrative that you allowed \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto be out there 61 00:02:19,877 --> 00:02:21,679 {\an7}\his not the truth. - It is the truth. 62 00:02:21,679 --> 00:02:24,316 {\an7}- That is not the truth. We painting this picture 63 00:02:24,316 --> 00:02:26,174 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hthat me and you got a troubled relationship 64 00:02:26,174 --> 00:02:27,844 {\an7}because of Mendeecees and that’s not true. 65 00:02:27,844 --> 00:02:30,646 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hThat man been open and welcoming with open arms. 66 00:02:30,646 --> 00:02:32,349 {\an7}- I never came to you \h\h\habout that man, 67 00:02:32,349 --> 00:02:33,613 {\an7}not one time ever in my life. 68 00:02:33,613 --> 00:02:34,646 {\an7}- But to the world, Infinity, 69 00:02:34,646 --> 00:02:36,613 {\an7}\h\hyou make it like he’s leaving you out. 70 00:02:36,613 --> 00:02:37,712 {\an7}Yes, you do. \h- I don’t. 71 00:02:37,712 --> 00:02:39,844 {\an7}- I wanted my Mom to just tell me, like, yo, like-- 72 00:02:39,844 --> 00:02:41,207 {\an7}I wanted her to hug me \h\hand tell me, like, 73 00:02:41,207 --> 00:02:43,910 {\an7}\h\h\h"I’m glad you learned what you learned from that." 74 00:02:43,910 --> 00:02:47,613 {\an7}It hurts to see that, you know, the mistakes I made turned out 75 00:02:47,613 --> 00:02:53,613 {\an7}to be how people identify me \h\hwhen I’m not my mistakes. 76 00:02:53,613 --> 00:02:56,448 {\an7}- Just like, you know, \h\hyou felt left out. 77 00:02:56,448 --> 00:02:58,481 {\an7}Seeing you turn your back on us 78 00:02:58,481 --> 00:03:00,712 {\an7}\h\h\h\hand threaten our family’s safety, 79 00:03:00,712 --> 00:03:04,712 {\an7}I--I felt extremely hurt. 80 00:03:04,712 --> 00:03:06,481 {\an7}[emotional music] 81 00:03:06,481 --> 00:03:11,580 {\an7}I felt like I was a mother \h\h\h\h\hlosing her child. 82 00:03:11,580 --> 00:03:12,877 {\an7}That’s how I felt. 83 00:03:12,877 --> 00:03:16,481 {\an7}[voice breaking] I would never \h\hpurposely try to hurt you. 84 00:03:16,481 --> 00:03:18,646 {\an7}[sniffles] 85 00:03:18,646 --> 00:03:20,349 {\an7}\hOne thing I know is trauma is real. 86 00:03:20,349 --> 00:03:25,349 {\an7}\h\h\h\hSometimes I feel like my relationship with Infinity 87 00:03:25,349 --> 00:03:30,207 {\an7}is contingent upon how she dealt with her own mother. 88 00:03:30,207 --> 00:03:32,877 {\an7}Whatever that trauma \h\h\hmay be for her, 89 00:03:32,877 --> 00:03:37,712 {\an7}it becomes a part of my life \h\h\h\h\h\h\hand my family. 90 00:03:37,712 --> 00:03:45,349 {\an7}♪ ♪ 91 00:03:49,811 --> 00:03:54,415 {\an7}- I know I didn’t listen before \h\h\hbut I’m gonna listen now. 92 00:03:54,415 --> 00:03:56,316 {\an7}[crying] 93 00:03:56,316 --> 00:03:59,910 {\an7}I don’t wanna end up \h\h\h\h\hlosing you. 94 00:03:59,910 --> 00:04:04,283 {\an7}I’ve struggled my whole life \hwith receiving tough love. 95 00:04:04,283 --> 00:04:05,207 {\an7}Like, that’s all I ever get. 96 00:04:05,207 --> 00:04:08,844 {\an7}\hLike, sometimes I take it as, like, a personal attack. 97 00:04:08,844 --> 00:04:10,448 {\an7}\hBut I know Mom has a good heart 98 00:04:10,448 --> 00:04:11,745 {\an7}\h\h\hand that’s not what she’s thinking, 99 00:04:11,745 --> 00:04:14,316 {\an7}but that’s how my mind will play things on me. 100 00:04:14,316 --> 00:04:16,042 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- I do believe that we could get back 101 00:04:16,042 --> 00:04:18,910 {\an7}to the way we were before all of this. 102 00:04:18,910 --> 00:04:21,613 {\an7}But where we did go wrong \h\h\h\his communication. 103 00:04:21,613 --> 00:04:25,514 {\an7}\hWe have to make a decision that no matter what happens, 104 00:04:25,514 --> 00:04:27,745 {\an7}we are going to have \heach other’s back. 105 00:04:27,745 --> 00:04:31,349 {\an7}Because that’s the only way \hwe can build trust again. 106 00:04:31,349 --> 00:04:32,811 {\an7}But I think also \hthat you should 107 00:04:32,811 --> 00:04:34,712 {\an7}have a conversation \hwith Mendeecees. 108 00:04:34,712 --> 00:04:36,316 {\an7}He’s very confused. 109 00:04:36,316 --> 00:04:40,679 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI think that he will be very open 110 00:04:40,679 --> 00:04:44,382 {\an7}to what you have to say. 111 00:04:44,382 --> 00:04:45,679 {\an7}Is that a deal? 112 00:04:45,679 --> 00:04:47,448 {\an7}- Yeah. I could do that. \h\h\h\h\h\h- All right. 113 00:04:47,448 --> 00:04:50,613 {\an7}\h\h\hSo now you got to get up and then you got to help me up. 114 00:04:50,613 --> 00:04:51,481 {\an7}Because unlike the past 115 00:04:51,481 --> 00:04:53,580 {\an7}when I used to drop it like it’s hot with you, 116 00:04:53,580 --> 00:04:54,679 {\an7}I definitely can’t get up. 117 00:04:54,679 --> 00:04:58,877 {\an7}’Cause my knees ain’t like Megan Thee Stallion knees. 118 00:04:58,877 --> 00:05:01,976 {\an7}[groaning] 119 00:05:01,976 --> 00:05:02,712 {\an7}[hip-hop music] 120 00:05:02,712 --> 00:05:04,108 {\an7}- ♪ Trying to get down \h\h\hwith the beat ♪ 121 00:05:04,108 --> 00:05:05,877 {\an7}♪ Trying to get nice \h\h\hwith my feet ♪ 122 00:05:05,877 --> 00:05:07,009 {\an7}♪ I ain’t never taste defeat ♪ 123 00:05:07,009 --> 00:05:09,349 {\an7}♪ So I gotta give the world \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthese keys ♪ 124 00:05:09,349 --> 00:05:11,745 {\an7}- It’s a beautiful day \h\h\h\h\h\hat Pressed. 125 00:05:11,745 --> 00:05:14,811 {\an7}We got so many cute new arrivals, guys. 126 00:05:14,811 --> 00:05:16,646 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hCome see us. We are at Phipps Plaza 127 00:05:16,646 --> 00:05:20,075 {\an7}or shop with us online \h\hat pressedatl.com. 128 00:05:20,075 --> 00:05:21,943 {\an7}\hOh. Cute. 129 00:05:21,943 --> 00:05:22,613 {\an7}both: Hey. 130 00:05:22,613 --> 00:05:24,514 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- What’s up? - Surprise, surprise. 131 00:05:24,514 --> 00:05:25,174 {\an7}[both laugh] 132 00:05:25,174 --> 00:05:27,415 {\an7}- What is you doing \h\h\hin Buckhead? 133 00:05:27,415 --> 00:05:28,745 {\an7}- Hey. 134 00:05:28,745 --> 00:05:30,349 {\an7}- What’s up, hey, bud? 135 00:05:30,349 --> 00:05:31,009 {\an7}both: Muah! 136 00:05:31,009 --> 00:05:32,646 {\an7}- Dropped some glasses off \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto have... 137 00:05:32,646 --> 00:05:34,646 {\an7}\h\h\h- You did? Oh. - Yeah. Lens put in. 138 00:05:34,646 --> 00:05:37,042 {\an7}- I haven’t seen my Mom \h\hin a couple months. 139 00:05:37,042 --> 00:05:37,910 {\an7}It’s good to see her. 140 00:05:37,910 --> 00:05:40,075 {\an7}It’s crazy how the people \h\h\h\h\hclosest to you, 141 00:05:40,075 --> 00:05:43,415 {\an7}you hadn’t even been around \h\hbecause of damn COVID. 142 00:05:43,415 --> 00:05:45,745 {\an7}- So Boobie’s birthday \h\h\h\h\h\h\his today. 143 00:05:45,745 --> 00:05:47,877 {\an7}I was thinking about having \h\h\h\h\ha little dinner. 144 00:05:47,877 --> 00:05:49,448 {\an7}- I’m not opposed to, you know, 145 00:05:49,448 --> 00:05:51,844 {\an7}if it’s something you want \hto do, you know, for her. 146 00:05:51,844 --> 00:05:52,646 {\an7}- Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 147 00:05:52,646 --> 00:05:54,811 {\an7}\h\h- Because you know, I get "Happy birthday," 148 00:05:54,811 --> 00:05:55,547 {\an7}and that’s it. 149 00:05:55,547 --> 00:05:56,844 {\an7}[bleep] won’t even show up \h\h\h\h\h\hto my birthday. 150 00:05:56,844 --> 00:05:59,613 {\an7}\h\hMy older sister’s name is Cheryl but we call her Boobie. 151 00:05:59,613 --> 00:06:00,481 {\an7}That’s her nickname. 152 00:06:00,481 --> 00:06:02,349 {\an7}Her nickname was Boobie, \h\h\h\h\hmine was Punky. 153 00:06:02,349 --> 00:06:04,943 {\an7}Don’t see me in the streets and call me Punky, people. 154 00:06:04,943 --> 00:06:06,514 {\an7}I’m going to ignore you. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hOkay? 155 00:06:06,514 --> 00:06:09,108 {\an7}\hMy sister and I grew up together 156 00:06:09,108 --> 00:06:10,745 {\an7}in Illinois with my mom. 157 00:06:10,745 --> 00:06:12,613 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hShe was grown when my Mom and I left. 158 00:06:12,613 --> 00:06:16,075 {\an7}\h\h\hAnd us moving down here and the--the age difference, 159 00:06:16,075 --> 00:06:16,910 {\an7}I think, you know, 160 00:06:16,910 --> 00:06:18,415 {\an7}our relationship just took a turn. 161 00:06:18,415 --> 00:06:21,877 {\an7}She’s my older sister but you \h\hwouldn’t really know it. 162 00:06:21,877 --> 00:06:23,481 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hWe’re sisters and we love each other. 163 00:06:23,481 --> 00:06:26,481 {\an7}But you know, our relationship \h\h\h\hat this point is just, 164 00:06:26,481 --> 00:06:28,075 {\an7}"I need to get another car. 165 00:06:28,075 --> 00:06:29,613 {\an7}"I need to move into \h\h\h\ha new place. 166 00:06:29,613 --> 00:06:30,448 {\an7}Can I get some money?" 167 00:06:30,448 --> 00:06:31,976 {\an7}And sometimes, honestly, \h\h\h\hit makes me feel 168 00:06:31,976 --> 00:06:35,481 {\an7}\h\hmore like a ATM machine than a damn family member. 169 00:06:35,481 --> 00:06:37,844 {\an7}Listen, if you want to do \ha dinner, let me know. 170 00:06:37,844 --> 00:06:40,712 {\an7}- I really wanted to try \h\h\h\h\h\hthe habitat. 171 00:06:40,712 --> 00:06:41,745 {\an7}- The Bistro? \h\h- Mm-hmm. 172 00:06:41,745 --> 00:06:42,811 {\an7}This evening. \h- Oh, jeez. 173 00:06:42,811 --> 00:06:46,448 {\an7}If that’s what you want to do, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’ma tell Kirk. 174 00:06:46,448 --> 00:06:48,481 {\an7}\h\h- I was just trying to think of something. 175 00:06:48,481 --> 00:06:50,943 {\an7}You know, I carried her \h\h\h\h\hfor 40 years. 176 00:06:50,943 --> 00:06:52,976 {\an7}And then I had to just \h\h\hput a stop to it. 177 00:06:52,976 --> 00:06:55,712 {\an7}\h- Well, I guess-- am I the other ten? 178 00:06:55,712 --> 00:06:59,448 {\an7}’Cause I definitely helped her \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\ha whole lot. 179 00:06:59,448 --> 00:07:00,943 {\an7}\h\hI’ve helped her get numerous cars. 180 00:07:00,943 --> 00:07:04,580 {\an7}\h\h\hI’ve helped her move into different places several times. 181 00:07:04,580 --> 00:07:07,745 {\an7}But my thing is like, it’s hard \h\h\hto nurture a relationship 182 00:07:07,745 --> 00:07:13,075 {\an7}\hand for us to be super tight when the next conversation is, 183 00:07:13,075 --> 00:07:13,877 {\an7}"Can I have $1,000?" 184 00:07:13,877 --> 00:07:16,877 {\an7}when I see other people \h\hwith their sisters 185 00:07:16,877 --> 00:07:17,877 {\an7}and their, like, really, 186 00:07:17,877 --> 00:07:19,075 {\an7}really tight relationships, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m like, 187 00:07:19,075 --> 00:07:21,547 {\an7}\h\h\h\h"Man, I really wish me and my sister had, like, 188 00:07:21,547 --> 00:07:23,745 {\an7}"this real special bond \h\h\h\hso we’re, like, 189 00:07:23,745 --> 00:07:25,174 {\an7}"when I’m going through \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthings, 190 00:07:25,174 --> 00:07:26,679 {\an7}"I can just really lean on her 191 00:07:26,679 --> 00:07:28,811 {\an7}and she’s there as like \h\ha support system." 192 00:07:28,811 --> 00:07:31,481 {\an7}Because that’s the most \himportant part of it. 193 00:07:31,481 --> 00:07:33,174 {\an7}And we lost sight \hof all of that. 194 00:07:33,174 --> 00:07:33,976 {\an7}- It’s your fault. 195 00:07:33,976 --> 00:07:35,646 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- It’s my fault? - Yeah, that’s your fault. 196 00:07:35,646 --> 00:07:37,844 {\an7}\h\h\hBecause first of all, let me tell you something. 197 00:07:37,844 --> 00:07:39,009 {\an7}We are enablers. 198 00:07:39,009 --> 00:07:41,481 {\an7}Boobie’s made many bad choices \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin her life. 199 00:07:41,481 --> 00:07:45,009 {\an7}She’s gone to jail. \h\hShe’s lost jobs. 200 00:07:45,009 --> 00:07:46,174 {\an7}I had to fire her three times 201 00:07:46,174 --> 00:07:49,042 {\an7}and one of the times \h\hwas for stealing. 202 00:07:49,042 --> 00:07:51,811 {\an7}But Boobie’s really \h\h\ha good person. 203 00:07:51,811 --> 00:07:53,613 {\an7}So when she pop in my mind, 204 00:07:53,613 --> 00:07:56,514 {\an7}\h\hthen I do try to do something nice for her. 205 00:07:56,514 --> 00:07:58,580 {\an7}\h- I just don’t want it to turn into no [bleep]. 206 00:07:58,580 --> 00:07:59,877 {\an7}\h’Cause I’m really kind of tired of-- 207 00:07:59,877 --> 00:08:01,547 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI’m sitting here trying to figure out ways 208 00:08:01,547 --> 00:08:02,481 {\an7}to keep my [bleep] together. 209 00:08:02,481 --> 00:08:04,745 {\an7}\h\hThe last thing I want is to be dealing with her 210 00:08:04,745 --> 00:08:09,976 {\an7}and any issues and problems \hthat comes along with it. 211 00:08:09,976 --> 00:08:12,844 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- ♪ God, I give You everything ♪ 212 00:08:12,844 --> 00:08:16,745 {\an7}♪ I’m tired of holding on, I’m tired of holding on ♪ 213 00:08:16,745 --> 00:08:19,009 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h♪ God, I give You everything ♪ 214 00:08:19,009 --> 00:08:22,778 {\an7}\h♪ I been searching for so long, yeah ♪ 215 00:08:22,778 --> 00:08:25,613 {\an7}♪ Ay, searching for so long ♪ 216 00:08:25,613 --> 00:08:28,009 {\an7}♪ For so long, for so long ♪ 217 00:08:28,009 --> 00:08:30,745 {\an7}♪ I let go ♪ 218 00:08:30,745 --> 00:08:31,745 {\an7}- Hey, hey. 219 00:08:31,745 --> 00:08:34,075 {\an7}- Hi, Dr. Jackie. 220 00:08:34,075 --> 00:08:35,976 {\an7}- [muffled speech] 221 00:08:35,976 --> 00:08:37,009 {\an7}- I know. 222 00:08:37,009 --> 00:08:38,844 {\an7}- How are you? \h\h- I’m good. 223 00:08:38,844 --> 00:08:42,283 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Talk to me. Tell me what’s going on. 224 00:08:42,283 --> 00:08:46,283 {\an7}- I’m starting to finally feel \hpregnant, first and foremost. 225 00:08:46,283 --> 00:08:47,580 {\an7}Because you know, when I was here, 226 00:08:47,580 --> 00:08:50,745 {\an7}I came flat as a board. \h\h\h\hIt was a shock. 227 00:08:50,745 --> 00:08:51,349 {\an7}- Yeah. 228 00:08:51,349 --> 00:08:55,174 {\an7}- And I actually told Safaree \h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe other day. 229 00:08:55,174 --> 00:08:56,009 {\an7}- And he said? 230 00:08:56,009 --> 00:08:59,844 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Nothin’. I want to show you something. 231 00:09:01,547 --> 00:09:03,745 {\an7}- So what? You’re pregnant? 232 00:09:03,745 --> 00:09:06,679 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm. - This is crazy. 233 00:09:07,943 --> 00:09:10,283 {\an7}[engine revving] 234 00:09:10,283 --> 00:09:15,745 {\an7}\h\h- Anytime there’s real-life conversations with my husband, 235 00:09:15,745 --> 00:09:16,943 {\an7}I’m alone. 236 00:09:16,943 --> 00:09:19,174 {\an7}It’s just consistent \h\h\h\hhumiliation. 237 00:09:19,174 --> 00:09:23,844 {\an7}\h\h\h\hMaking me feel like this is my fault 238 00:09:23,844 --> 00:09:26,075 {\an7}is just how he deals 239 00:09:26,075 --> 00:09:29,009 {\an7}with everything when it gets \h\hrough with our marriage. 240 00:09:29,009 --> 00:09:30,613 {\an7}- What would you have \h\hwanted him to do? 241 00:09:30,613 --> 00:09:32,240 {\an7}- Take me up, spin me around, 242 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:33,075 {\an7}gone with the wind. 243 00:09:33,075 --> 00:09:34,283 {\an7}I want it to be blowin’ \h\h\h\h\h\hin my hair. 244 00:09:34,283 --> 00:09:36,075 {\an7}- Okay, now let me tell you \h\h\hwhy that’s not fair. 245 00:09:36,075 --> 00:09:41,042 {\an7}You stood--you stared at me \h\h\hfor like ten minutes. 246 00:09:41,042 --> 00:09:43,207 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I know. - Okay? So you had no reaction. 247 00:09:43,207 --> 00:09:47,646 {\an7}And the only reason you had a reaction is you heard it. 248 00:09:47,646 --> 00:09:48,679 {\an7}You saw it. 249 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:52,316 {\an7}\h\h\hSo now you’re asking him to do something you didn’t do. 250 00:09:52,316 --> 00:09:53,382 {\an7}- [sighs] 251 00:09:53,382 --> 00:09:56,141 {\an7}\hAnd I’m a little worried just on how he’s going to, 252 00:09:56,141 --> 00:09:58,844 {\an7}I don’t know, take on this one \h\h\h\hbecause he walks around 253 00:09:58,844 --> 00:10:01,811 {\an7}claiming he has postpartum \h\h\h\hfrom the first one. 254 00:10:01,811 --> 00:10:03,778 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Really? - [laughing] Yeah. 255 00:10:03,778 --> 00:10:04,448 {\an7}- Why you laugh? 256 00:10:04,448 --> 00:10:06,712 {\an7}\h- ’Cause, I mean, is that even true? 257 00:10:06,712 --> 00:10:07,613 {\an7}- I think it happens. 258 00:10:07,613 --> 00:10:11,207 {\an7}They may not have the hormonal \h\himbalance that women have, 259 00:10:11,207 --> 00:10:13,141 {\an7}but they do have a responsibility. 260 00:10:13,141 --> 00:10:16,316 {\an7}\h\hAnd they are processing internally, in most cases. 261 00:10:16,316 --> 00:10:17,382 {\an7}Most men don’t talk about it. 262 00:10:17,382 --> 00:10:20,009 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm. - We’ve been in a pandemic. 263 00:10:20,009 --> 00:10:21,009 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- I know. It’s been a lot. 264 00:10:21,009 --> 00:10:23,877 {\an7}We gave birth in February \h\h\h\h\hand then March, 265 00:10:23,877 --> 00:10:24,745 {\an7}the world shut down 266 00:10:24,745 --> 00:10:27,283 {\an7}and it was us just crammed \h\hin the house together. 267 00:10:27,283 --> 00:10:29,415 {\an7}Just us and this new baby. 268 00:10:29,415 --> 00:10:30,877 {\an7}So I’m just a little worried 269 00:10:30,877 --> 00:10:33,108 {\an7}\h\h’cause as he’s starting to embrace the fatherhood, 270 00:10:33,108 --> 00:10:35,448 {\an7}just bam, I just smack him \h\h\h\h\hwith the reality. 271 00:10:35,448 --> 00:10:38,943 {\an7}Just us having our one now, \hhe’s already tapped out. 272 00:10:38,943 --> 00:10:41,415 {\an7}So I’m more so worried \h\h\habout being left 273 00:10:41,415 --> 00:10:44,877 {\an7}with all the responsibility \h\h\h\hfor two under two. 274 00:10:44,877 --> 00:10:46,240 {\an7}- So when do you want \hto know the gender? 275 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:48,349 {\an7}Let me tell you good news. \h\h- Can we find out now? 276 00:10:48,349 --> 00:10:50,042 {\an7}Because we took blood \h\h\h\h\hlast time. 277 00:10:50,042 --> 00:10:51,108 {\an7}- Let me tell you \hthe good news. 278 00:10:51,108 --> 00:10:53,349 {\an7}\h\h\h\hMy sonographer sent the ultrasound pictures in. 279 00:10:53,349 --> 00:10:55,811 {\an7}\h\h\hEverything, brain, spine, kidney, fingers... 280 00:10:55,811 --> 00:10:57,679 {\an7}- I’m good. - Was good. 281 00:10:57,679 --> 00:10:58,481 {\an7}- Okay. What is it? 282 00:10:58,481 --> 00:11:00,877 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay. I’m--I’m gonna let you see. 283 00:11:00,877 --> 00:11:03,844 {\an7}- I’m like, so nervous. 284 00:11:03,844 --> 00:11:05,283 {\an7}- Drum roll. 285 00:11:05,283 --> 00:11:06,877 {\an7}[trills tongue] 286 00:11:06,877 --> 00:11:11,976 {\an7}So again, right here, \hwhat does that say? 287 00:11:11,976 --> 00:11:13,943 {\an7}- What? 288 00:11:13,943 --> 00:11:17,075 {\an7}\h\hannouncer: Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"... 289 00:11:17,075 --> 00:11:19,042 {\an7}\h\h- You know, I’m not who you want me to be. 290 00:11:19,042 --> 00:11:21,877 {\an7}\h\h\hEverybody starts thinking I’m crazy and all this [bleep]. 291 00:11:21,877 --> 00:11:23,943 {\an7}- Oh, you want to bring up \h\h\h\h\hsome bull[bleep]? 292 00:11:23,943 --> 00:11:25,174 {\an7}- I like you, Tate-o. \h\h\h\hI really do. 293 00:11:25,174 --> 00:11:29,108 {\an7}But I think we should keep it \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hat just that. 294 00:11:29,108 --> 00:11:32,316 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Are you ready for the special guest? 295 00:11:39,339 --> 00:11:40,373 - ♪ Making my way to the top ♪ 296 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:41,808 ♪ And there's no stopping ♪ 297 00:11:41,875 --> 00:11:43,510 - ♪ Every time you see me ♪ 298 00:11:43,577 --> 00:11:47,881 ♪ I'ma be doing better than you seen me last time ♪ 299 00:11:47,948 --> 00:11:49,749 ♪ Uh, you know that bounce ♪ 300 00:11:49,816 --> 00:11:51,451 ♪ Gotta keep on goin' ♪ 301 00:11:51,518 --> 00:11:54,554 ♪ 'Cause the streets keep on sayin' that they need me ♪ 302 00:11:54,621 --> 00:11:58,592 ♪ That's right, yeah, that's what they want ♪ 303 00:11:58,658 --> 00:12:01,962 When I get up on that stage, it's never looking dull. 304 00:12:02,028 --> 00:12:03,930 And the reason why is because I rehearse. 305 00:12:03,997 --> 00:12:07,434 I used to go to my mom's rehearsals all the time. 306 00:12:07,500 --> 00:12:10,370 Seeing that really always inspired me and, 307 00:12:10,437 --> 00:12:13,440 like, there was a Grammy on our dining room table. 308 00:12:13,506 --> 00:12:16,076 You know what I'm saying? So I grew up just knowing 309 00:12:16,142 --> 00:12:17,911 that, like, things were possible for me. 310 00:12:17,978 --> 00:12:20,080 That sounds good. I'm getting hot. 311 00:12:20,146 --> 00:12:23,216 I have to take this sweatshirt off. 312 00:12:23,283 --> 00:12:24,451 - Okay. 313 00:12:24,517 --> 00:12:26,620 - So yeah, I'm booked and busy. 314 00:12:26,686 --> 00:12:29,256 I have this cover for "Uproxx" magazine 315 00:12:29,322 --> 00:12:34,094 and I have to shoot a video, a Spotify piece I'm doing 316 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,931 but I'm like on the verge of tears at a lot of points 317 00:12:37,998 --> 00:12:41,835 because of what happened last night between me and Guapdad. 318 00:12:41,901 --> 00:12:43,370 What the [bleep] is you talking about? 319 00:12:43,436 --> 00:12:47,374 You are either my [bleep] or you're not my [bleep]. 320 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:49,276 The whole night, he was kind of being weird. 321 00:12:49,342 --> 00:12:52,512 Just very, like, trying to poke his chest out and, like, 322 00:12:52,579 --> 00:12:55,181 act like he was just so much more important than he was. 323 00:12:55,248 --> 00:12:57,150 Like, I'm not your girlfriend, 324 00:12:57,217 --> 00:13:00,153 but ain't we, like, doing something here? 325 00:13:00,220 --> 00:13:02,555 ♪ I need you with me, oh ♪ 326 00:13:02,622 --> 00:13:04,824 [phone trilling] 327 00:13:04,891 --> 00:13:07,794 - You can answer. 328 00:13:07,861 --> 00:13:09,296 If that's what you gotta do. 329 00:13:09,362 --> 00:13:10,463 I told you, focus. 330 00:13:10,530 --> 00:13:11,898 - Shut up. - Focus. 331 00:13:12,899 --> 00:13:14,234 - Hello. 332 00:13:16,636 --> 00:13:18,238 - Um, rehearsing. 333 00:13:19,439 --> 00:13:21,041 What's up? 334 00:13:24,544 --> 00:13:27,314 - Yeah. I felt extremely disrespected. 335 00:13:27,380 --> 00:13:29,783 I felt like I didn't matter to him at all. 336 00:13:29,849 --> 00:13:31,785 And it turned all the way up. 337 00:13:31,851 --> 00:13:35,088 People got a little too angry. Some words were said. 338 00:13:35,188 --> 00:13:37,223 And I told everybody to get the [bleep] out of my house. 339 00:13:37,290 --> 00:13:39,492 You wasn't on my side at all. 340 00:13:53,406 --> 00:13:54,741 - That's rude. 341 00:13:54,808 --> 00:13:56,576 - He just hung up on you? - Yeah. 342 00:13:56,643 --> 00:13:58,578 - Anyways, back to rehearsal. 343 00:13:58,645 --> 00:14:01,181 - A'ight. - [bleep] That just put me off. 344 00:14:01,248 --> 00:14:04,017 - [bleep] you up a little bit? - Yeah. 345 00:14:04,150 --> 00:14:05,885 I am healthy. I am wealthy. I am strong. 346 00:14:05,952 --> 00:14:08,355 I am independent. I am all of those things. 347 00:14:08,421 --> 00:14:10,056 But I am a human. 348 00:14:10,156 --> 00:14:12,392 And I have a heart. It gets attached to people. 349 00:14:12,459 --> 00:14:17,297 So part of me doesn't want to be done and is really hurt 350 00:14:17,364 --> 00:14:20,467 that he's not understanding my point of view. 351 00:14:20,533 --> 00:14:22,869 - You want to boost your mood or somethin'? 352 00:14:22,936 --> 00:14:24,304 - I guess. 353 00:14:24,371 --> 00:14:26,940 - Somethin' cool happened today. 354 00:14:28,541 --> 00:14:30,010 - A million? 355 00:14:30,076 --> 00:14:31,278 - A million views. 356 00:14:31,344 --> 00:14:35,015 - We did it, Joe. We hit a million. 357 00:14:35,081 --> 00:14:37,183 Guap tried to bring me down. 358 00:14:37,183 --> 00:14:39,953 But look, I'm so happy that we finally hit a million. 359 00:14:40,020 --> 00:14:41,688 Oh, no, no. I feel like we need to-- 360 00:14:41,755 --> 00:14:43,189 - We gonna run down the back? - Yeah. I need to turn back up. 361 00:14:43,256 --> 00:14:44,824 - Okay, hold on. Let me find it. 362 00:14:44,891 --> 00:14:46,326 [music playing] 363 00:14:46,393 --> 00:14:49,129 - ♪ I want a first date, out of state, like Wunna ♪ 364 00:14:49,129 --> 00:14:52,132 ♪ You know the drinks hit different when they Palmer ♪ 365 00:14:52,132 --> 00:14:54,501 - ♪ I'm 'bout to make a big splash ♪ 366 00:14:54,567 --> 00:14:56,770 ♪ Bigger bang than I ever had ♪ 367 00:14:56,836 --> 00:14:59,406 ♪ I get to show it all to mom and dad ♪ 368 00:14:59,472 --> 00:15:01,875 - So do you like being at home doing the virtual school 369 00:15:01,942 --> 00:15:03,577 or you like going to school? 370 00:15:03,643 --> 00:15:04,945 - I like going to school. 371 00:15:05,011 --> 00:15:07,147 - You don't like being home with us? 372 00:15:07,213 --> 00:15:09,182 [knocking on door] 373 00:15:09,249 --> 00:15:10,784 - Hi. - What's up, hottie dotty? 374 00:15:10,850 --> 00:15:13,019 - What's up, cutie wutie? - Lookin' like a hottie dotty. 375 00:15:13,153 --> 00:15:16,556 - We decided to open another Pressed location in Atlanta. 376 00:15:16,623 --> 00:15:19,059 With hopes that, you know, we get these coins back up 377 00:15:19,159 --> 00:15:20,493 and everything, get back to normal. 378 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:22,495 Kirk already has a lot on his plate. 379 00:15:22,562 --> 00:15:25,966 I mean, from us trying to finalize the construction 380 00:15:26,032 --> 00:15:27,334 of Pressed 2.0, 381 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:29,069 all the drama at the Bistro, 382 00:15:29,169 --> 00:15:31,037 and just trying to be a dad, period. 383 00:15:31,171 --> 00:15:32,939 It's like, okay, now I'm about to hit him with, 384 00:15:33,006 --> 00:15:35,075 "Let's just throw everything out the window 385 00:15:35,175 --> 00:15:36,176 and have a birthday party." 386 00:15:36,209 --> 00:15:37,777 [gasps] Hey, buddy. 387 00:15:37,844 --> 00:15:38,945 - Hi, Mommy. 388 00:15:39,012 --> 00:15:41,314 - How was school today? 389 00:15:41,381 --> 00:15:44,584 - It was super good. - It was good? 390 00:15:44,651 --> 00:15:47,954 So guess who popped up on me today? 391 00:15:48,021 --> 00:15:49,456 - I don't know. - Mama. 392 00:15:49,522 --> 00:15:50,624 - Really? 393 00:15:50,690 --> 00:15:51,925 - You know today is Boobie's birthday? 394 00:15:51,992 --> 00:15:54,194 - It is, ain't it? - Yes. 395 00:15:54,261 --> 00:15:55,996 She wanted to have a dinner party. 396 00:15:56,129 --> 00:15:57,831 - She wanted to have a dinner for Boobie when? 397 00:15:57,897 --> 00:15:59,432 - Today. 398 00:15:59,499 --> 00:16:01,167 - Oh, so she gonna do a dinner today? Okay. 399 00:16:01,234 --> 00:16:03,236 - At the Bistro. - Oh, wow. 400 00:16:03,303 --> 00:16:05,405 - And I said, okay. 401 00:16:05,472 --> 00:16:08,041 - And I'm sure I'm gonna be paying for it, correct? 402 00:16:08,141 --> 00:16:10,277 I'm sure there's gonna be not one cent donated. 403 00:16:10,343 --> 00:16:11,745 - Right. - But I had to tell her. 404 00:16:11,811 --> 00:16:13,546 I was like, listen. What people got to understand 405 00:16:13,613 --> 00:16:15,715 is sometimes it just gets so draining 406 00:16:15,782 --> 00:16:17,884 because it's always somebody wants something. 407 00:16:17,951 --> 00:16:21,588 - So after the staff meeting, things are moving along. 408 00:16:21,655 --> 00:16:24,925 You know, we're making a little money here at Frost Bistro. 409 00:16:24,991 --> 00:16:27,861 But nobody wants to go to work and just hand they money over. 410 00:16:27,928 --> 00:16:29,329 That [bleep] just crazy. 411 00:16:29,396 --> 00:16:31,464 I'm just trying to just really mind my business 412 00:16:31,531 --> 00:16:36,569 because, you know, Rasheeda is the sucker for everything. 413 00:16:36,636 --> 00:16:38,104 - There's a lot of things 414 00:16:38,171 --> 00:16:40,106 that we're still trying to build back up. 415 00:16:40,140 --> 00:16:42,509 Like, we not walking ATM machines. 416 00:16:42,576 --> 00:16:44,644 Just like that'd be my problem with Boobie sometimes. 417 00:16:44,711 --> 00:16:46,713 It's like, we have one conversation, 418 00:16:46,780 --> 00:16:48,515 we might have another conversation. 419 00:16:48,582 --> 00:16:50,951 But the third conversation is her asking me for something. 420 00:16:51,017 --> 00:16:56,489 But now may be the time for us to start trying to, you know, 421 00:16:56,556 --> 00:16:58,725 get our relationship a little bit better. 422 00:16:58,792 --> 00:17:01,661 Honestly speaking, life is short, man, listen. 423 00:17:01,728 --> 00:17:03,897 I only got one sister, and it's super important 424 00:17:03,964 --> 00:17:06,967 regardless to whatever we feelin' for us 425 00:17:07,033 --> 00:17:08,335 to express it, get it out, 426 00:17:08,401 --> 00:17:10,971 and take whatever time we got left 427 00:17:11,037 --> 00:17:12,439 to try to have a good relationship. 428 00:17:12,505 --> 00:17:14,474 We gettin' older, you know what I'm saying? 429 00:17:14,541 --> 00:17:17,310 This pandemic has opened up our eyes and we've talked about it. 430 00:17:17,377 --> 00:17:19,446 - Nah, that's cool. I mean, I don't--I mean, 431 00:17:19,512 --> 00:17:21,214 that's what we're doing, that's what we're doing. 432 00:17:21,281 --> 00:17:23,350 It is what it is. It's her birthday. 433 00:17:23,416 --> 00:17:24,951 - I'm willing to give it a try but [bleep], 434 00:17:25,018 --> 00:17:29,256 if the relationship ain't changed in all these years, 435 00:17:29,322 --> 00:17:31,057 is it gonna change now? 436 00:17:31,157 --> 00:17:33,560 But I could at least say I have tried. 437 00:17:33,627 --> 00:17:37,964 ♪ ♪ 438 00:17:38,098 --> 00:17:40,900 announcer: Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"... 439 00:17:40,967 --> 00:17:43,703 - Next time y'all feel some way or she feels some way, 440 00:17:43,770 --> 00:17:45,472 you gonna go to social media again? 441 00:17:45,538 --> 00:17:47,741 How can I ever trust you again? 442 00:17:52,060 --> 00:17:53,095 - ♪ Making my way to the top ♪ 443 00:17:53,161 --> 00:17:54,396 ♪ And there's no stopping ♪ 444 00:17:54,463 --> 00:17:56,098 [mellow hip-hop music] 445 00:17:56,164 --> 00:17:59,801 - ♪ Keep your head up, gotta keep on going ♪ 446 00:17:59,868 --> 00:18:02,704 ♪ Push through it, keep your mind open ♪ 447 00:18:02,771 --> 00:18:05,941 ♪ Loving every second, live in the moment ♪ 448 00:18:06,008 --> 00:18:09,378 - You know, when you threaten to write a book 449 00:18:09,444 --> 00:18:12,748 or you go on social media about a family picture, 450 00:18:12,814 --> 00:18:14,550 that includes my family. 451 00:18:14,616 --> 00:18:17,686 My husband is even more protective over my family 452 00:18:17,753 --> 00:18:20,722 than I am, so you got to talk to the man. 453 00:18:20,789 --> 00:18:24,760 ♪ ♪ 454 00:18:24,826 --> 00:18:26,094 - What's up? 455 00:18:26,161 --> 00:18:27,663 - Hi. 456 00:18:27,729 --> 00:18:31,300 Got a surprise guest for you. - [chuckles] 457 00:18:31,366 --> 00:18:33,835 - I know Infinity and I know what she needs. 458 00:18:33,902 --> 00:18:37,372 She needs our family and she also is yearning 459 00:18:37,439 --> 00:18:39,741 for a father figure in her life. 460 00:18:39,808 --> 00:18:43,412 And there's somewhere in me that really hopes and wishes 461 00:18:43,478 --> 00:18:47,449 Mendeecees can fill that father void that she feels. 462 00:18:47,516 --> 00:18:49,284 - What's up with y'all? 463 00:18:49,351 --> 00:18:52,654 - Nothing. We just had a long talk. 464 00:18:52,721 --> 00:18:53,922 - How'd it go? 465 00:18:53,989 --> 00:18:55,390 - It was okay. It could have been better. 466 00:18:55,457 --> 00:18:57,726 - Yeah. She got mad at me and she walked off 467 00:18:57,793 --> 00:18:59,461 and I have to chase her down the block. 468 00:18:59,528 --> 00:19:01,797 - Well, listen, man, you put your emotions everywhere. 469 00:19:01,864 --> 00:19:03,365 Even social media. 470 00:19:03,432 --> 00:19:05,567 Family issues aren't supposed to go to social media. 471 00:19:05,634 --> 00:19:07,970 It's supposed to stay within the household. 472 00:19:08,103 --> 00:19:11,773 So it's--it's hard to see y'all together and be happy 473 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:13,375 because next time 474 00:19:13,442 --> 00:19:14,910 y'all feel some way or she feels some away, 475 00:19:14,977 --> 00:19:17,746 are you're gonna go to social media again? 476 00:19:17,813 --> 00:19:19,982 You gonna be like, "I'm writing a book"? 477 00:19:20,115 --> 00:19:21,617 Even if you upset, you angry, 478 00:19:21,683 --> 00:19:23,285 you just don't do them type of things. 479 00:19:23,352 --> 00:19:25,287 Because it's like, if--if you do, 480 00:19:25,354 --> 00:19:27,122 how can I ever trust you again? - Right. 481 00:19:27,189 --> 00:19:28,423 I understand. 482 00:19:28,490 --> 00:19:30,359 And like I told Yandy, like, 483 00:19:30,425 --> 00:19:31,727 I never had no--I don't got no issue with you, like, 484 00:19:31,793 --> 00:19:33,462 I'm not mad at you for posting your family. 485 00:19:33,529 --> 00:19:34,897 I just want to try to understand that 486 00:19:34,963 --> 00:19:36,465 from my perspective, when I'm not there, 487 00:19:36,532 --> 00:19:38,500 and everybody's there except me, 488 00:19:38,567 --> 00:19:41,937 how can--can you understand how I can feel left out? 489 00:19:42,004 --> 00:19:43,472 - Listen. Let me tell you something, right? 490 00:19:43,539 --> 00:19:45,641 For four years, I sat back and watched Yandy 491 00:19:45,707 --> 00:19:47,276 post pictures with her and the kids 492 00:19:47,342 --> 00:19:49,144 and watched it every day on social media. 493 00:19:49,144 --> 00:19:51,380 And I know how it feels left out. 494 00:19:51,446 --> 00:19:53,649 And I'm sorry for, you know, not thinking about you. 495 00:19:53,715 --> 00:19:57,185 This is the first Christmas I get to enjoy 496 00:19:57,252 --> 00:19:58,720 with all my children. 497 00:19:58,787 --> 00:20:00,455 So I'm not really thinking about nothing else. 498 00:20:00,522 --> 00:20:02,491 She could have came. She choose not to come. 499 00:20:02,558 --> 00:20:04,560 So because Infinity is not here, 500 00:20:04,626 --> 00:20:06,528 I'm not thinking not to take a picture. 501 00:20:06,595 --> 00:20:08,096 - I know my wrongs and I'm gonna hold myself accountable 502 00:20:08,130 --> 00:20:09,431 for the mistakes that I made. 503 00:20:09,498 --> 00:20:10,666 And I'm just trying to figure out 504 00:20:10,732 --> 00:20:12,134 how do I right my wrongs and move forward? 505 00:20:12,201 --> 00:20:13,669 So I won't make those same mistakes. 506 00:20:13,735 --> 00:20:15,637 I feel like I--both of y'all, like, you know, 507 00:20:15,704 --> 00:20:17,439 it's not just 'cause both of you as a couple, 508 00:20:17,506 --> 00:20:19,241 like, got married, and I'm in-- under y'all household. 509 00:20:19,308 --> 00:20:20,676 If I ever decide to come back 510 00:20:20,742 --> 00:20:23,111 or if I'm allowed to come back to stay, possibly, 511 00:20:23,178 --> 00:20:24,846 it's gonna have to be one step at a time because, 512 00:20:24,913 --> 00:20:26,815 you know, me doing something to her, that affects you also. 513 00:20:26,882 --> 00:20:28,383 - Right. 514 00:20:28,450 --> 00:20:30,619 I think Infinity absolutely have childhood trauma. 515 00:20:30,686 --> 00:20:32,354 She have abandonment issues, 516 00:20:32,421 --> 00:20:33,956 you know, she have trust issues. 517 00:20:34,022 --> 00:20:36,825 And I can see a lot of things that Infinity have 518 00:20:36,892 --> 00:20:38,861 because I can identify with some of them. 519 00:20:38,927 --> 00:20:41,997 But at the same time, I think that Infinity 520 00:20:42,130 --> 00:20:44,399 just need to communicate. 521 00:20:44,466 --> 00:20:46,535 Because it's like nothing that she's going through 522 00:20:46,602 --> 00:20:48,871 we can't help her with, but she have to talk to us. 523 00:20:48,937 --> 00:20:52,808 Now, listen. I'm definitely willing to take steps 524 00:20:52,875 --> 00:20:54,376 towards the right direction, right? 525 00:20:54,443 --> 00:20:57,713 I think that the first thing we got to work on is respect. 526 00:20:57,779 --> 00:20:59,281 - I think, if it's okay with you, 527 00:20:59,348 --> 00:21:01,250 she should come back to the house? 528 00:21:01,316 --> 00:21:02,985 You know, lettin' her see the kids. 529 00:21:03,085 --> 00:21:05,220 The kids miss her terribly. 530 00:21:05,287 --> 00:21:08,156 [tense music] 531 00:21:08,223 --> 00:21:10,626 ♪ ♪ 532 00:21:10,692 --> 00:21:12,628 - I think that--that's cool. 533 00:21:12,694 --> 00:21:15,998 Pretty sure everybody would be excited to see you. 534 00:21:16,098 --> 00:21:18,433 Because I know they miss you. 535 00:21:18,500 --> 00:21:20,402 I think that, you know, it's gonna take some time 536 00:21:20,469 --> 00:21:22,704 for me to get to know Infinity. 537 00:21:22,771 --> 00:21:24,540 You know, I have trust issues. 538 00:21:24,606 --> 00:21:27,309 And--and, you know, these--these are my kids. 539 00:21:27,376 --> 00:21:28,610 This is my family. 540 00:21:28,677 --> 00:21:30,913 I really don't know at this point. 541 00:21:30,979 --> 00:21:33,115 - Okay, so why don't you go to the hotel, 542 00:21:33,148 --> 00:21:34,716 change your clothes, get yourself together 543 00:21:34,783 --> 00:21:36,652 and then come meet us at the house? 544 00:21:36,718 --> 00:21:37,853 - Sounds like a plan to me. 545 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:39,154 - And then we can eat or something. 546 00:21:39,221 --> 00:21:40,722 Can you do me a favor? 547 00:21:40,789 --> 00:21:42,491 Can you take this picture for me? 548 00:21:42,558 --> 00:21:43,926 - I gotta make sure I look good, though. 549 00:21:43,992 --> 00:21:46,328 - Oh, so now you care about looking good? 550 00:21:46,395 --> 00:21:48,330 You never used to care about looking good. 551 00:21:48,397 --> 00:21:51,500 - Here you go. Now stand at that side. 552 00:21:51,567 --> 00:21:54,870 - Thank you so much. Appreciate you. 553 00:21:54,937 --> 00:21:57,639 - ♪ Move around, move around ♪ 554 00:21:57,706 --> 00:22:00,275 ♪ Move around, if you ain't making moves ♪ 555 00:22:00,342 --> 00:22:02,544 ♪ Move around, move around ♪ 556 00:22:02,611 --> 00:22:06,715 - I'm in L.A. and I have a shoot with "Uproxx." 557 00:22:06,782 --> 00:22:08,884 They're doing a profile on me and my career. 558 00:22:08,951 --> 00:22:10,452 So I'm a cover girl now. 559 00:22:10,519 --> 00:22:13,822 And I also hit a million views on the "I Am" video 560 00:22:13,889 --> 00:22:16,625 which I was so pressing for. 561 00:22:16,692 --> 00:22:18,961 So I'm so happy that we finally hit a million. 562 00:22:19,094 --> 00:22:21,697 - ♪ Got a plug, he charged me up ♪ 563 00:22:21,763 --> 00:22:23,999 ♪ I got the bottle, boo, you got a cup? ♪ 564 00:22:24,099 --> 00:22:26,168 - But I had to do my Spotify thing. 565 00:22:26,235 --> 00:22:28,604 And the whole day, I kept thinking about Guap. 566 00:22:28,670 --> 00:22:30,639 Can I get a Rainbow Rocket? 567 00:22:30,706 --> 00:22:32,841 So I asked him to meet me. 568 00:22:32,908 --> 00:22:34,343 Hey. 569 00:22:37,179 --> 00:22:38,914 Wanna go for a walk? 570 00:22:38,981 --> 00:22:41,850 [tense music] 571 00:22:41,917 --> 00:22:44,386 So... 572 00:22:44,453 --> 00:22:46,288 - That [bleep] that happened at the house 573 00:22:46,355 --> 00:22:48,790 for me was absolutely not cool. 574 00:22:48,857 --> 00:22:50,659 I don't know what started anything. 575 00:22:50,726 --> 00:22:52,427 All I know is you was frantic. 576 00:22:52,494 --> 00:22:55,063 I pulled you to the side. You gave me nothing. 577 00:22:55,097 --> 00:22:58,066 Like, absolutely nothing but just disrespect. 578 00:22:58,133 --> 00:23:01,069 - Like, I don't remember anything. I wasn't even, like-- 579 00:23:01,136 --> 00:23:03,906 - Your savage turned up so crazy, I was, like, 580 00:23:03,972 --> 00:23:08,076 this is a demon of the likes I've never seen before. 581 00:23:08,143 --> 00:23:11,713 - Unfortunately, I can't drink as much as everybody else. 582 00:23:11,780 --> 00:23:16,652 And sometimes, I don't realize that until it is way too late. 583 00:23:16,718 --> 00:23:20,289 I really hope that he can see 584 00:23:20,355 --> 00:23:24,626 this was just a moment in time that we can move past. 585 00:23:24,693 --> 00:23:27,529 Look, I don't want 586 00:23:27,596 --> 00:23:30,666 the other night's events, 587 00:23:30,732 --> 00:23:32,668 as crazy as it were, 588 00:23:32,734 --> 00:23:36,004 to, like, [bleep] up what we have going on. 589 00:23:36,104 --> 00:23:40,175 Because I feel like we were getting to, like, a good place. 590 00:23:40,242 --> 00:23:41,343 - I like you, Tate-o. 591 00:23:41,410 --> 00:23:42,744 I really do. - Mm-hmm. 592 00:23:42,811 --> 00:23:44,947 - I feel like you know my honesty in that. 593 00:23:45,013 --> 00:23:46,348 - Yeah. 594 00:23:46,415 --> 00:23:49,151 - I like being around you. I like talking to you. 595 00:23:49,218 --> 00:23:50,519 I like [bleep] you. 596 00:23:50,586 --> 00:23:52,788 - [laughs] - I like making music with you. 597 00:23:52,854 --> 00:23:54,656 - Yeah. 598 00:23:54,723 --> 00:23:57,125 - But I think we should keep it at just that. 599 00:23:57,192 --> 00:23:59,928 [somber music] 600 00:24:00,062 --> 00:24:02,965 - I wished that he would have been like, "You know what? 601 00:24:03,065 --> 00:24:05,601 "I know it wasn't nothing actually personal. 602 00:24:05,667 --> 00:24:07,069 "So like, yeah, we cool. 603 00:24:07,069 --> 00:24:09,071 Like, just don't do that [bleep] again." 604 00:24:09,104 --> 00:24:12,207 But this one situation was the thing that was, like, 605 00:24:12,274 --> 00:24:14,343 "You know what? Mm-mm. 606 00:24:14,409 --> 00:24:17,212 Um, I don't even want to deal with this anymore." 607 00:24:17,279 --> 00:24:18,614 And that hurts. 608 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,215 - It's what it is. 609 00:24:20,282 --> 00:24:23,385 - It is what it is. It's always been what it was. 610 00:24:23,452 --> 00:24:24,620 - Appreciate you. 611 00:24:24,686 --> 00:24:31,193 ♪ ♪ 612 00:24:31,260 --> 00:24:34,329 announcer: Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"... 613 00:24:34,396 --> 00:24:36,632 - Just a minute ago, y'all wasn't even speaking. 614 00:24:36,698 --> 00:24:38,400 How--how long you plan on staying here? 615 00:24:38,467 --> 00:24:42,304 - I wanna stay until I'm told I can't stay no more. 616 00:24:42,371 --> 00:24:43,839 - Nothin' is ever gonna get better 617 00:24:43,906 --> 00:24:45,841 and we're gonna go years without seeing each other. 618 00:24:45,908 --> 00:24:48,577 - You know, I'm not who you want me to be. 619 00:24:51,525 --> 00:24:52,657 {\an7}- ♪ Making my way to the top ♪ 620 00:24:52,657 --> 00:24:53,756 {\an7}♪ And there’s no stopping ♪ 621 00:24:53,756 --> 00:24:56,690 {\an7}[mellow hip-hop music] 622 00:24:56,690 --> 00:24:59,723 {\an7}- ♪ No matter where we at, we gon’ shine regardless ♪ 623 00:24:59,723 --> 00:25:00,855 {\an7}♪ I come from a place where ♪ 624 00:25:00,855 --> 00:25:03,822 {\an7}\h\h\h- So being in the house with the kids, Yandy cooking, 625 00:25:03,822 --> 00:25:05,086 {\an7}the kids just running around, 626 00:25:05,086 --> 00:25:06,789 {\an7}I just felt like my dream \h\h\h\h\his coming true. 627 00:25:06,789 --> 00:25:09,624 {\an7}- Guys, I want you to make sure \h\hyou keep this house clean. 628 00:25:09,624 --> 00:25:12,053 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hDad, stop eating. I have a special guest coming. 629 00:25:12,053 --> 00:25:13,492 {\an7}- Who’s the special guest? 630 00:25:13,492 --> 00:25:15,723 {\an7}\h\h- Can’t tell! It’s a surprise! 631 00:25:15,723 --> 00:25:17,987 {\an7}- It’s a surprise. \h\h\h\h\hExactly. 632 00:25:17,987 --> 00:25:19,954 {\an7}- Yandy been telling me \h\h\h\h\hthat Infinity 633 00:25:19,954 --> 00:25:21,053 {\an7}genuinely missed the kids. 634 00:25:21,053 --> 00:25:23,086 {\an7}So I didn’t want to come in \h\h\h\h\h\hand weigh that. 635 00:25:23,086 --> 00:25:25,624 {\an7}My thing was she has to know \h\h\h\h\hthere’s boundaries 636 00:25:25,624 --> 00:25:29,558 {\an7}and there’s a level of respect \hto be accepted in this house. 637 00:25:29,558 --> 00:25:33,492 {\an7}- No one touch this plate. \h\hThis is for the guest. 638 00:25:33,492 --> 00:25:34,855 {\an7}[doorbell rings] 639 00:25:34,855 --> 00:25:37,086 {\an7}That’s the door! 640 00:25:38,086 --> 00:25:40,195 {\an7}♪ ♪ 641 00:25:40,195 --> 00:25:41,228 {\an7}- [chuckles] 642 00:25:41,228 --> 00:25:43,624 {\an7}- They don’t know. 643 00:25:43,624 --> 00:25:46,492 {\an7}They don’t know. \h\h\h- Sit down. 644 00:25:46,492 --> 00:25:48,525 {\an7}Sit down, Skylar. 645 00:25:48,525 --> 00:25:52,020 {\an7}\h- Okay. Are you ready for the special guest? 646 00:25:52,020 --> 00:25:52,954 {\an7}- Yes. 647 00:25:52,954 --> 00:25:57,822 {\an7}- Okay, special guest, come in. 648 00:25:58,020 --> 00:26:02,020 {\an7}[kids all shouting at once] 649 00:26:02,020 --> 00:26:03,195 {\an7}♪ ♪ 650 00:26:03,195 --> 00:26:08,053 {\an7}- Oh, see, I knew that my kids \h\h\h\hwould love this moment. 651 00:26:08,053 --> 00:26:11,020 {\an7}They love her so much, 652 00:26:11,020 --> 00:26:13,987 {\an7}especially Omare and Skylar. 653 00:26:13,987 --> 00:26:15,261 {\an7}They lived with her \hfor three years. 654 00:26:15,261 --> 00:26:19,152 {\an7}So you know, in their mind, \h\h\hthat is their sister. 655 00:26:19,152 --> 00:26:23,294 {\an7}\h\h\hSo you know, this is a special moment for them. 656 00:26:23,294 --> 00:26:25,020 {\an7}- Who’s your favorite sister? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- You. 657 00:26:25,020 --> 00:26:27,020 {\an7}You should get your nails \h\h\h\hpretty like that. 658 00:26:27,020 --> 00:26:30,020 {\an7}\h- Well, I play basketball. I can’t play ball with nails. 659 00:26:30,020 --> 00:26:31,921 {\an7}- Oh, ’cause you’re gonna \h\h\h\hbreak your nails. 660 00:26:31,921 --> 00:26:35,954 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. So we gonna play or no? 661 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:38,624 {\an7}- I don’t know. 662 00:26:38,624 --> 00:26:40,723 {\an7}How long do you want me \h\h\h\h\h\h\hto stay? 663 00:26:40,723 --> 00:26:43,020 {\an7}\h\h\h- The whole year! A year! A year! A year! 664 00:26:43,020 --> 00:26:45,855 {\an7}- A year? Just a year? I can’t--I can’t live? 665 00:26:45,855 --> 00:26:46,987 {\an7}[tense music] 666 00:26:46,987 --> 00:26:48,053 {\an7}\h- You can stay for another year. 667 00:26:48,053 --> 00:26:51,624 {\an7}- All right, kids. So me, Dad, \hand Infinity are gonna talk. 668 00:26:51,624 --> 00:26:52,426 {\an7}You guys go to bed. 669 00:26:52,426 --> 00:26:55,954 {\an7}\h\hBefore we even invited Infinity back to the house, 670 00:26:55,954 --> 00:26:57,086 {\an7}we discussed baby steps. 671 00:26:57,086 --> 00:27:00,086 {\an7}These are the kind of things \h\h\h\hthat drive me crazy. 672 00:27:00,086 --> 00:27:03,360 {\an7}Because just a few hours ago, \h\h\h\hwe was talking about 673 00:27:03,360 --> 00:27:06,360 {\an7}the tell-all book you was about to write about us. 674 00:27:06,360 --> 00:27:07,020 {\an7}Slow down. 675 00:27:07,020 --> 00:27:08,921 {\an7}- Like overall, like, \hjust a minute ago, 676 00:27:08,921 --> 00:27:10,954 {\an7}y’all wasn’t even speaking. 677 00:27:10,954 --> 00:27:11,723 {\an7}- Right. - Right? 678 00:27:11,723 --> 00:27:14,195 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hSo y’all trying to kindle y’all relationship. 679 00:27:14,195 --> 00:27:17,294 {\an7}So you being in this house \h\h\h\his a step forward. 680 00:27:17,294 --> 00:27:20,228 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hIs this, like-- is this where you want to be? 681 00:27:20,228 --> 00:27:21,690 {\an7}\h- When I packed up and got on the plane, 682 00:27:21,690 --> 00:27:24,261 {\an7}I came here with the intentions \h\h\h\hto have a conversation. 683 00:27:24,261 --> 00:27:25,723 {\an7}I have no other motives 684 00:27:25,723 --> 00:27:27,690 {\an7}other than just to have \h\h\h\ha conversation 685 00:27:27,690 --> 00:27:28,690 {\an7}and get back to my family. 686 00:27:28,690 --> 00:27:31,195 {\an7}\h\h- Right, so how--how long do you plan on staying here? 687 00:27:31,195 --> 00:27:34,822 {\an7}- I want to stay until I’m told \h\h\h\h\hI can’t stay no more. 688 00:27:34,822 --> 00:27:37,360 {\an7}- So it’s one thing to live in New York 689 00:27:37,360 --> 00:27:38,954 {\an7}\h\hand only come here through holiday times, 690 00:27:38,954 --> 00:27:41,921 {\an7}but it’s another thing to live \h\h\hin this house every day. 691 00:27:41,921 --> 00:27:45,723 {\an7}\h\h\hI don’t want--got time to be blasted on social media 692 00:27:45,723 --> 00:27:47,261 {\an7}for the way I comb my hair 693 00:27:47,261 --> 00:27:49,020 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hor the way I spilt some orange juice. 694 00:27:49,020 --> 00:27:52,152 {\an7}\h\h\hBut I just think there’s a level of respect that we need 695 00:27:52,152 --> 00:27:54,261 {\an7}to establish before, you know, 696 00:27:54,261 --> 00:27:58,228 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hshe actually stays in the house for good. 697 00:27:58,228 --> 00:28:00,987 {\an7}It’s just a lot, right? \hHaving my kids back, 698 00:28:00,987 --> 00:28:03,888 {\an7}\h\h\hit’s just been like God has been blessing me. 699 00:28:03,888 --> 00:28:05,426 {\an7}\h\h\hYou know, I missed a lot of time with them. 700 00:28:05,426 --> 00:28:09,294 {\an7}\hI missed a lot of holidays. I missed a lot of birthdays. 701 00:28:09,294 --> 00:28:13,152 {\an7}And I prayed to have them all underneath one roof. 702 00:28:13,152 --> 00:28:14,086 {\an7}It’s happening. 703 00:28:14,086 --> 00:28:16,987 {\an7}So anything negative, I ain’t got time for. 704 00:28:16,987 --> 00:28:17,591 {\an7}- Yeah. 705 00:28:17,591 --> 00:28:21,152 {\an7}- She have to get her emotions \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hintact first 706 00:28:21,152 --> 00:28:23,921 {\an7}and find ways to deal \h\hwith her problems 707 00:28:23,921 --> 00:28:26,822 {\an7}before she even talk about \h\h\h\h\h\h\hmoving here. 708 00:28:26,822 --> 00:28:29,459 {\an7}And we’re a long way from that. 709 00:28:31,789 --> 00:28:34,393 {\an7}[upbeat hip-hop music] 710 00:28:34,393 --> 00:28:37,294 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- ♪ Hey, hey, won’t you come on my way? ♪ 711 00:28:37,294 --> 00:28:40,888 {\an7}♪ You know, you know, you know \h\hthat you fine like that ♪ 712 00:28:40,888 --> 00:28:42,756 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- So this dinner is like super last minute. 713 00:28:42,756 --> 00:28:45,294 {\an7}But Karter’s here, \h\h\hKai is here. 714 00:28:45,294 --> 00:28:47,086 {\an7}My Aunt Allison. 715 00:28:47,086 --> 00:28:47,921 {\an7}Of course, my mom. 716 00:28:47,921 --> 00:28:50,756 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hMy grandmother with her beautiful self. 717 00:28:50,756 --> 00:28:51,855 {\an7}And of course, Kirk is here. 718 00:28:51,855 --> 00:28:55,228 {\an7}We’re gonna keep it small, \hintimate, and just chill 719 00:28:55,228 --> 00:28:56,327 {\an7}and see what happens. 720 00:28:56,327 --> 00:28:58,294 {\an7}- I appreciate you opening up \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe lounge 721 00:28:58,294 --> 00:29:00,228 {\an7}so we can come in here \h\h\h\h\hand do this. 722 00:29:00,228 --> 00:29:01,152 {\an7}This is so awesome. 723 00:29:01,152 --> 00:29:04,360 {\an7}Because to me it’s just kind of intimate to have just us. 724 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,360 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Uh-oh. Somebody’s at the door. 725 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,426 {\an7}- Hey! - Hey! 726 00:29:09,426 --> 00:29:10,822 {\an7}- Whoo-whoo! 727 00:29:10,822 --> 00:29:13,360 {\an7}- Happy birthday. \h\h\h\h- Hello. 728 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,228 {\an7}Happy birthday. 729 00:29:15,228 --> 00:29:16,954 {\an7}- Thank you. I love you. 730 00:29:16,954 --> 00:29:17,921 {\an7}- I love you too. 731 00:29:17,921 --> 00:29:19,228 {\an7}- Boobie’s finally here. We can get to it and eat. 732 00:29:19,228 --> 00:29:21,228 {\an7}Let’s get you something to eat. \h\h\h\h- Right, right, right. 733 00:29:21,228 --> 00:29:22,822 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Hi, Bud. You gonna come and sit down? 734 00:29:22,822 --> 00:29:24,360 {\an7}- We’re gonna bless the food. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Hi. 735 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:25,789 {\an7}- You want some wine? 736 00:29:25,789 --> 00:29:26,954 {\an7}- Sure. Thank you. \h\h\h\h[laughter] 737 00:29:26,954 --> 00:29:29,327 {\an7}- Lord, thank you for the food \h\hthat we’re about to receive 738 00:29:29,327 --> 00:29:31,855 {\an7}for the nourishment of our body. Amen. 739 00:29:31,855 --> 00:29:33,294 {\an7}all: Amen. 740 00:29:33,294 --> 00:29:35,954 {\an7}- All right. Dig in. 741 00:29:36,756 --> 00:29:37,921 {\an7}- Well, what do you think \h\h\h\h\h\h\habout this? 742 00:29:37,921 --> 00:29:40,987 {\an7}\h\h\h- This is very nice. I love it. I appreciate it. 743 00:29:40,987 --> 00:29:41,822 {\an7}- I know when Mama said, 744 00:29:41,822 --> 00:29:43,086 {\an7}\h\h\h\h"I want to do a dinner for Boobie." 745 00:29:43,086 --> 00:29:45,053 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI said, "You--you do--want to do what?" 746 00:29:45,053 --> 00:29:48,261 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Well, she should. She didn’t come to my 50th. 747 00:29:48,261 --> 00:29:50,393 {\an7}- Don’t start that [bleep], \h\h\h\hBoobie, because... 748 00:29:50,393 --> 00:29:51,086 {\an7}[laughter] 749 00:29:51,086 --> 00:29:52,855 {\an7}\h\h\hWhy in the hell are you saying that? 750 00:29:52,855 --> 00:29:54,228 {\an7}I met you for brunch. 751 00:29:54,228 --> 00:29:55,921 {\an7}- That was the next day. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h- So what? 752 00:29:55,921 --> 00:29:57,921 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Like, we ain’t gonna go there. 753 00:29:57,921 --> 00:29:59,261 {\an7}- Please don’t. Please don’t. 754 00:29:59,261 --> 00:30:01,119 {\an7}- Well, I mean, honestly, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hplease do 755 00:30:01,119 --> 00:30:01,954 {\an7}so everybody can get out 756 00:30:01,954 --> 00:30:04,888 {\an7}\h\h\h\hwhat needs to be said and then we can get past it. 757 00:30:04,888 --> 00:30:05,987 {\an7}Because if we ain’t gonna talk 758 00:30:05,987 --> 00:30:08,152 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\habout it then it’s never gonna be resolved. 759 00:30:08,152 --> 00:30:09,195 {\an7}- When it comes to Boobie, 760 00:30:09,195 --> 00:30:10,921 {\an7}she thinks that her side \h\h\h\h\h\hof the story 761 00:30:10,921 --> 00:30:12,987 {\an7}is always the true side \h\h\h\h\hof the story. 762 00:30:12,987 --> 00:30:14,119 {\an7}But she got to understand 763 00:30:14,119 --> 00:30:16,393 {\an7}she just kind of get on \h\heverybody’s nerves. 764 00:30:16,393 --> 00:30:19,020 {\an7}And that comes from the things \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat she does, 765 00:30:19,020 --> 00:30:22,492 {\an7}begging for money all the time, \h\h\h\hbut, whew, that’s her. 766 00:30:22,492 --> 00:30:25,921 {\an7}\h\h- Nothin’ is ever gonna get better and we’re gonna go years 767 00:30:25,921 --> 00:30:26,954 {\an7}without seeing each other. 768 00:30:26,954 --> 00:30:28,294 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hAnd we live in the same [bleep] city. 769 00:30:28,294 --> 00:30:31,855 {\an7}And you know, a lot of stuff just doesn’t make any sense. 770 00:30:31,855 --> 00:30:32,657 {\an7}I mean, I love you-- 771 00:30:32,657 --> 00:30:34,195 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- ’Cause you’re not-- you’re not connecting with me 772 00:30:34,195 --> 00:30:37,393 {\an7}\h\h’cause like, I don’t know, maybe it’s the age difference. 773 00:30:37,393 --> 00:30:40,888 {\an7}We were young and together, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know? 774 00:30:40,888 --> 00:30:42,086 {\an7}How old were you when y’all left? 775 00:30:42,086 --> 00:30:43,294 {\an7}\h\h\h\hBecause you were just like a freshman in-- 776 00:30:43,294 --> 00:30:44,954 {\an7}\h\h- I wasn’t even in high school yet. 777 00:30:44,954 --> 00:30:46,261 {\an7}- You weren’t in high school? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hOkay. 778 00:30:46,261 --> 00:30:48,855 {\an7}All we knew was child, \hyou know, childhood. 779 00:30:48,855 --> 00:30:51,053 {\an7}\h\hMaybe that’s just where we’re missing. 780 00:30:51,053 --> 00:30:55,393 {\an7}- Me and my Mom and my sister, \h\hwe was three amigos, okay? 781 00:30:55,393 --> 00:30:56,086 {\an7}[laughs] 782 00:30:56,086 --> 00:30:58,360 {\an7}It was just us livin’ life, \h\h\h\h\hholding it down. 783 00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:59,492 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYou know, I was of course the baby. 784 00:30:59,492 --> 00:31:01,888 {\an7}We had such a close bond \hwhen we were younger. 785 00:31:01,888 --> 00:31:05,393 {\an7}\hAnd I would love for us to be able to go back to those days. 786 00:31:05,393 --> 00:31:06,888 {\an7}\h\h\hBut that’s not the reality of life. 787 00:31:06,888 --> 00:31:11,152 {\an7}- The thing is, you don’t never \h\h\h\hget to do what you did 788 00:31:11,152 --> 00:31:12,987 {\an7}when y’all were living together \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hgrowing up. 789 00:31:12,987 --> 00:31:14,053 {\an7}That’s [bleep] just like, 790 00:31:14,053 --> 00:31:15,327 {\an7}you don’t really realize \h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat it’s-- 791 00:31:15,327 --> 00:31:16,525 {\an7}- It’s like a one-time thing. 792 00:31:16,525 --> 00:31:18,195 {\an7}- Yeah, you don’t realize how blessed you was to be 793 00:31:18,195 --> 00:31:19,426 {\an7}\h\h\hin the house with your siblings. 794 00:31:19,426 --> 00:31:22,624 {\an7}\hAnd you just get older and y’all just kind of separate. 795 00:31:22,624 --> 00:31:24,426 {\an7}- But I feel like, you know, \h\h\h\h\hlike, I called you 796 00:31:24,426 --> 00:31:25,921 {\an7}a couple times saying, \h\h\h\h"Where you at? 797 00:31:25,921 --> 00:31:27,261 {\an7}What you about to do?" \hAnd you’re just like, 798 00:31:27,261 --> 00:31:28,393 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h"I’m about to run some errands." 799 00:31:28,393 --> 00:31:30,152 {\an7}I really wanted to say, \h\h\h"Well, can I come 800 00:31:30,152 --> 00:31:32,152 {\an7}and run the errands with you \h\h\h\h\hor come with you?" 801 00:31:32,152 --> 00:31:34,624 {\an7}- Well then you have to say it. \h\h\h\h\h- I just get the vibe 802 00:31:34,624 --> 00:31:37,459 {\an7}\h\h\h\hthat you’re too busy and you just don’t have time. 803 00:31:37,459 --> 00:31:39,954 {\an7}\hI know you--you have your friends and stuff 804 00:31:39,954 --> 00:31:43,020 {\an7}but it’s like, I tell you, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI feel like 805 00:31:43,020 --> 00:31:45,591 {\an7}you’re closer to your friends \h\h\h\h\hthan you are to me. 806 00:31:45,591 --> 00:31:47,327 {\an7}Those people really \h\hdon’t know me. 807 00:31:47,327 --> 00:31:48,954 {\an7}- Because you don’t \h\h\hcome around. 808 00:31:48,954 --> 00:31:49,855 {\an7}- Yeah, I don’t--I don’t-- 809 00:31:49,855 --> 00:31:52,119 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Like, we invite you to damn near everything we have 810 00:31:52,119 --> 00:31:55,558 {\an7}and you make your choice not to show up, you know? 811 00:31:55,558 --> 00:31:57,086 {\an7}Then when you do show up, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know, 812 00:31:57,086 --> 00:31:59,228 {\an7}\h\hyou be sitting around halfway with a attitude. 813 00:31:59,228 --> 00:32:03,020 {\an7}Me, if I’m gonna walk into your birthday or anything, 814 00:32:03,020 --> 00:32:04,053 {\an7}I’m gonna be me regardless. 815 00:32:04,053 --> 00:32:06,558 {\an7}\h\h\h"What up y’all? Hoo hoo ha ha hee hee hee. Coo coo." 816 00:32:06,558 --> 00:32:11,195 {\an7}I’m not gonna sit in the corner \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand be like... 817 00:32:11,195 --> 00:32:13,020 {\an7}’cause that’s what \h\h\hyou be doing. 818 00:32:13,020 --> 00:32:14,690 {\an7}\hI mean, it’s just like you feel some kind of way 819 00:32:14,690 --> 00:32:17,558 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\heverybody needs to-- now you’re gonna get emotional. 820 00:32:17,558 --> 00:32:18,690 {\an7}- ’Cause that’s what I do. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Oh. 821 00:32:18,690 --> 00:32:21,459 {\an7}\h\h- Everybody start thinking I’m crazy and all this [bleep]. 822 00:32:21,459 --> 00:32:23,690 {\an7}- How do you want to bring up \h\h\h\h\h\hsome bull[bleep]? 823 00:32:23,690 --> 00:32:25,426 {\an7}- So what? \h\hLike-- 824 00:32:25,426 --> 00:32:26,987 {\an7}- Like, take a chill pill. 825 00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:28,294 {\an7}- Boobie is so sensitive. 826 00:32:28,294 --> 00:32:31,119 {\an7}She think that don’t nobody \h\h\h\h\hwant her around. 827 00:32:31,119 --> 00:32:33,426 {\an7}And that is not true. \hRasheeda has always 828 00:32:33,426 --> 00:32:35,987 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hhad time to have a relationship with Boobie. 829 00:32:35,987 --> 00:32:38,690 {\an7}It’s just that Boobie wanted \h\h\h\h\h\hto do her thing. 830 00:32:38,690 --> 00:32:41,327 {\an7}\hAnd nobody had time for all the stuff that she would do. 831 00:32:41,327 --> 00:32:44,558 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- I appreciate everything you do for me. 832 00:32:44,558 --> 00:32:45,690 {\an7}I love you a lot. 833 00:32:45,690 --> 00:32:48,987 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hAnd, you know, I’m not who you want me to be. 834 00:32:48,987 --> 00:32:50,360 {\an7}- It’s not that. It’s not that. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I mean, 835 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,152 {\an7}\hI’m not--I just want you to understand me for that. 836 00:32:52,152 --> 00:32:55,195 {\an7}I just--pick up the phone sometime and just call me 837 00:32:55,195 --> 00:32:56,525 {\an7}and say, "How you doing?" 838 00:32:56,525 --> 00:32:59,228 {\an7}\h\h\hI just feel like Mom and everyone else, 839 00:32:59,228 --> 00:33:01,152 {\an7}they’re really, really close. 840 00:33:01,152 --> 00:33:04,756 {\an7}And wish we could be like that because it was just--you know? 841 00:33:04,756 --> 00:33:07,020 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - And that’s just what I want. 842 00:33:07,020 --> 00:33:09,393 {\an7}- Let me be honest. \hThat’s my sister. 843 00:33:09,393 --> 00:33:10,459 {\an7}Like, period. 844 00:33:10,459 --> 00:33:12,756 {\an7}And I love her to death. \h\h\hI looked up to her. 845 00:33:12,756 --> 00:33:15,756 {\an7}I always wanted to be with her, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hride with her, 846 00:33:15,756 --> 00:33:17,053 {\an7}hang with her and her friends. 847 00:33:17,053 --> 00:33:19,086 {\an7}But now there’s like \ha gray area there, 848 00:33:19,086 --> 00:33:24,459 {\an7}like a gap where maybe we lost \htouch on that sisterly bond. 849 00:33:24,459 --> 00:33:28,360 {\an7}\hAnd it’s important for us to get on some kind of good page. 850 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:29,393 {\an7}We got [bleep] to work on. 851 00:33:29,393 --> 00:33:31,086 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - But we love you. 852 00:33:31,086 --> 00:33:33,624 {\an7}\h\hLet’s start making time for each other. No excuse. 853 00:33:33,624 --> 00:33:36,624 {\an7}\hNo, "I ain’t gonna make it." No, no, no, no. Give me a hug. 854 00:33:36,624 --> 00:33:38,294 {\an7}\hWe’re gonna hug across the table. 855 00:33:38,294 --> 00:33:40,756 {\an7}\h\h\h- [laughs] both: I love you. 856 00:33:40,756 --> 00:33:42,020 {\an7}- I love you too. \hHappy birthday. 857 00:33:42,020 --> 00:33:45,459 {\an7}\h\hannouncer: Coming up on "Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"... 858 00:33:45,459 --> 00:33:48,558 {\an7}- I want you to promise that no matter what the gender is, 859 00:33:48,558 --> 00:33:52,086 {\an7}\h\h\hyou’re not gonna, like, jump off the nearest bridge. 860 00:33:52,086 --> 00:33:53,558 {\an7}- I want a boy. You know me. 861 00:33:53,558 --> 00:33:57,591 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- If it’s a girl, would you really be upset? 862 00:34:00,614 --> 00:34:01,746 {\an7}- ♪ Making my way to the top ♪ 863 00:34:01,746 --> 00:34:02,845 {\an7}♪ And there’s no stopping ♪ 864 00:34:02,845 --> 00:34:05,076 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- ♪ Strength, grandma, she got strength ♪ 865 00:34:05,076 --> 00:34:06,350 {\an7}♪ Mama, she got strength ♪ 866 00:34:06,350 --> 00:34:07,713 {\an7}\h♪ And my auntie, she got strength ♪ 867 00:34:07,713 --> 00:34:09,746 {\an7}\h♪ Stickin’ together, we’ll have strength ♪ 868 00:34:09,746 --> 00:34:10,812 {\an7}♪ We can unify, strength ♪ 869 00:34:10,812 --> 00:34:12,548 {\an7}\h♪ If you gon’ die, die with strength ♪ 870 00:34:12,548 --> 00:34:14,548 {\an7}- I can’t say I’ve fully \h\h\hcome to terms yet 871 00:34:14,548 --> 00:34:17,076 {\an7}that I’m having another child \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hbecause 872 00:34:17,076 --> 00:34:18,350 {\an7}even when I had Safire, 873 00:34:18,350 --> 00:34:21,241 {\an7}I still didn’t believe that, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h"Yo, Safaree, 874 00:34:21,241 --> 00:34:23,241 {\an7}you’re a father now." It’s just unexpected. 875 00:34:23,241 --> 00:34:26,449 {\an7}\hAnd you know, I definitely wish I would have responded 876 00:34:26,449 --> 00:34:28,515 {\an7}in a more exciting \hand happier way 877 00:34:28,515 --> 00:34:30,614 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hso that you know, Erica would feel good about it. 878 00:34:30,614 --> 00:34:32,317 {\an7}Because I don’t want her \h\h\h\h\h\hto feel like 879 00:34:32,317 --> 00:34:34,043 {\an7}anything’s her fault \h\hbecause it’s not. 880 00:34:34,043 --> 00:34:37,241 {\an7}[reggaeton beat playing] \h- ♪ What you mean? ♪ 881 00:34:37,241 --> 00:34:39,383 {\an7}[rapping] 882 00:34:39,383 --> 00:34:41,208 {\an7}♪ What you mean? ♪ 883 00:34:41,208 --> 00:34:44,284 {\an7}[rapping] 884 00:34:44,284 --> 00:34:45,482 {\an7}- [babbles] 885 00:34:45,482 --> 00:34:49,076 {\an7}♪ ♪ 886 00:34:49,076 --> 00:34:53,208 {\an7}- [gasps] \h\h\hHi. 887 00:34:53,208 --> 00:34:54,284 {\an7}- Oh. 888 00:34:54,284 --> 00:34:56,241 {\an7}- I’m not sure if Safaree 889 00:34:56,241 --> 00:34:59,076 {\an7}will be able to handle \h\hhaving a new baby. 890 00:34:59,076 --> 00:35:03,812 {\an7}Because I know he tends to run away from the responsibilities 891 00:35:03,812 --> 00:35:06,845 {\an7}of just us having our one now. 892 00:35:06,845 --> 00:35:10,284 {\an7}\h\h- You look pregnant. But you still look small. 893 00:35:10,284 --> 00:35:12,142 {\an7}- Really? Well, I’ve been working out consistently. 894 00:35:12,142 --> 00:35:15,680 {\an7}I feel like it makes me feel a lot better just in general. 895 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,383 {\an7}- [laughs] 896 00:35:17,383 --> 00:35:18,548 {\an7}- But, um, 897 00:35:18,548 --> 00:35:20,779 {\an7}I went to the doctor’s. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm. 898 00:35:20,779 --> 00:35:25,416 {\an7}- They were able to tell me \h\h\h\hall the good stuff. 899 00:35:25,416 --> 00:35:27,581 {\an7}The baby is fine. 900 00:35:27,581 --> 00:35:29,614 {\an7}And then, um, 901 00:35:29,614 --> 00:35:32,449 {\an7}I explained to her \h\hyour reaction. 902 00:35:32,449 --> 00:35:34,317 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYou know, Dr. Jackie is my girl. 903 00:35:34,317 --> 00:35:37,142 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- And she said it’s very normal, right? 904 00:35:37,142 --> 00:35:38,109 {\an7}[laughs] 905 00:35:38,109 --> 00:35:41,142 {\an7}\h- She’s just saying, "Well, when I told you, 906 00:35:41,142 --> 00:35:44,142 {\an7}you stared at me for ten minutes." 907 00:35:44,142 --> 00:35:45,076 {\an7}And that’s when it hit me. 908 00:35:45,076 --> 00:35:47,746 {\an7}\h\hI have to actually be realistic about it. 909 00:35:47,746 --> 00:35:51,350 {\an7}\hBecause I was in shock. I guess I will say this. 910 00:35:51,350 --> 00:35:54,548 {\an7}\h\h\hForgive me because I know I’ve been putting the pressure 911 00:35:54,548 --> 00:35:58,109 {\an7}on you a little bit \hon your reaction. 912 00:35:58,109 --> 00:35:59,241 {\an7}No, serious. 913 00:35:59,241 --> 00:36:00,142 {\an7}- Yeah, I’m serious too. 914 00:36:00,142 --> 00:36:01,548 {\an7}- But I still want you \h\h\h\h\hto understand 915 00:36:01,548 --> 00:36:04,350 {\an7}\h\h\h\hwhere I’m coming from. You’ve definitely neglected me 916 00:36:04,350 --> 00:36:07,614 {\an7}the first few months \hof her being here. 917 00:36:07,614 --> 00:36:09,515 {\an7}- I needed to sleep and I-- 918 00:36:09,515 --> 00:36:10,878 {\an7}- I need to sleep too. 919 00:36:10,878 --> 00:36:12,350 {\an7}I’m breastfeeding. I just gave birth. 920 00:36:12,350 --> 00:36:14,812 {\an7}\h\hDo you know how much energy leaves the woman’s body after-- 921 00:36:14,812 --> 00:36:16,350 {\an7}- You know, after--after-- \h\h\h\h\h\hyou know what? 922 00:36:16,350 --> 00:36:19,713 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI had postpartum and a whole brand new human being 923 00:36:19,713 --> 00:36:23,142 {\an7}\hthat depends on us and everything we do 924 00:36:23,142 --> 00:36:24,548 {\an7}for you to do everything. 925 00:36:24,548 --> 00:36:26,614 {\an7}That kind of changed me, \h\h\h\hmind you. It did. 926 00:36:26,614 --> 00:36:30,746 {\an7}\h\h\hWe go from sorry to now a slight insult. 927 00:36:30,746 --> 00:36:32,680 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hCome on. We gotta pick one. 928 00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:33,746 {\an7}You can’t say sorry \h\h\h\h\hthen say, 929 00:36:33,746 --> 00:36:35,746 {\an7}oh, I wasn’t there for you, \h\h\hI wasn’t doing this. 930 00:36:35,746 --> 00:36:38,350 {\an7}I wasn’t doing that. Like, I was learning. 931 00:36:38,350 --> 00:36:40,482 {\an7}I’m just trying to be the best \hfather I could be, all right? 932 00:36:40,482 --> 00:36:43,175 {\an7}- I just want you to step up \hto the plate and understand 933 00:36:43,175 --> 00:36:45,350 {\an7}that this is your life. You have to be serious. 934 00:36:45,350 --> 00:36:47,878 {\an7}\hYou are a married man. You have a baby already. 935 00:36:47,878 --> 00:36:49,713 {\an7}And you have another one \h\h\h\h\h\h\hon the way. 936 00:36:49,713 --> 00:36:50,746 {\an7}- So what’s next now? 937 00:36:50,746 --> 00:36:54,878 {\an7}\h\h\hWe got to do a whole baby shower, gender party. 938 00:36:54,878 --> 00:36:56,581 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hHow are we... - Speaking of gender-- 939 00:36:56,581 --> 00:36:57,878 {\an7}- How are we gonna do this? 940 00:36:57,878 --> 00:37:00,482 {\an7}- Speaking of gender, 941 00:37:00,482 --> 00:37:01,614 {\an7}I want you to promise 942 00:37:01,614 --> 00:37:03,746 {\an7}\h\hthat no matter what the gender is, 943 00:37:03,746 --> 00:37:08,241 {\an7}\h\h\hyou’re not gonna, like, jump off the nearest bridge. 944 00:37:08,241 --> 00:37:09,515 {\an7}- I want a boy. 945 00:37:09,515 --> 00:37:10,812 {\an7}- Why do you want a boy? 946 00:37:10,812 --> 00:37:12,548 {\an7}- Because we already \h\h\h\hhave a girl. 947 00:37:12,548 --> 00:37:13,680 {\an7}A beautiful girl. \h\hYou know me. 948 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,845 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- If it’s a girl, would you really be upset? 949 00:37:16,845 --> 00:37:18,350 {\an7}- I would be-- 950 00:37:18,350 --> 00:37:19,878 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I mean, it runs in your family. 951 00:37:19,878 --> 00:37:22,911 {\an7}\h- Yeah, I would feel a way about it, then-- 952 00:37:22,911 --> 00:37:23,779 {\an7}- Feel a what way? 953 00:37:23,779 --> 00:37:25,878 {\an7}\h\h\h\hWhat way exactly would you feel about it? 954 00:37:25,878 --> 00:37:28,746 {\an7}- I’d be frustrated. I’d be like, "Damn." 955 00:37:28,746 --> 00:37:31,284 {\an7}Having a son, 956 00:37:31,284 --> 00:37:34,416 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat’d be like the most unbelievable thing. 957 00:37:34,416 --> 00:37:36,548 {\an7}My family is all women. 958 00:37:36,548 --> 00:37:38,713 {\an7}All my sisters had girls. 959 00:37:38,713 --> 00:37:39,812 {\an7}So I have all nieces. 960 00:37:39,812 --> 00:37:42,944 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hI need a man to carry on my last name. 961 00:37:42,944 --> 00:37:43,878 {\an7}I need a heir to the throne. 962 00:37:43,878 --> 00:37:47,548 {\an7}- You’re supposed to be like, \h\h"As long as it’s healthy. 963 00:37:47,548 --> 00:37:50,284 {\an7}\h\h\hLong as my wife gets through labor." 964 00:37:50,284 --> 00:37:51,812 {\an7}- No, I know that. I know that. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hBut you know-- 965 00:37:51,812 --> 00:37:53,812 {\an7}- Like, you have to watch \h\h\h\h\h\hwhat you say. 966 00:37:53,812 --> 00:37:54,779 {\an7}Like, sometimes I get it, 967 00:37:54,779 --> 00:37:56,548 {\an7}you want to be funny and you’re too blunt. 968 00:37:56,548 --> 00:37:57,515 {\an7}- I don’t wanna be funny. 969 00:37:57,515 --> 00:37:59,878 {\an7}\hI’m just very blunt and I’m very honest. 970 00:37:59,878 --> 00:38:02,449 {\an7}- Do you want to know \hwhat it is or not? 971 00:38:02,449 --> 00:38:03,911 {\an7}- [inhales] 972 00:38:03,911 --> 00:38:08,680 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hOkay. - What do you feel is in here? 973 00:38:09,284 --> 00:38:10,878 {\an7}Anyway, you’re having a son. 974 00:38:10,878 --> 00:38:12,713 {\an7}[tense music] 975 00:38:12,713 --> 00:38:15,779 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Are you sure? - Yeah, she showed me the-- 976 00:38:16,010 --> 00:38:16,977 {\an7}- [crying] 977 00:38:23,055 --> 00:38:24,122 - ♪ Making my way to the top ♪ 978 00:38:24,189 --> 00:38:25,424 ♪ And there's no stopping ♪ 979 00:38:25,490 --> 00:38:26,692 - You're having a son. 980 00:38:26,758 --> 00:38:28,660 - Are you sure? - Yeah, she showed me-- 981 00:38:29,828 --> 00:38:34,666 - [crying] 982 00:38:34,733 --> 00:38:36,568 - [laughs] 983 00:38:36,635 --> 00:38:38,837 - Safaree, pick her up, you freaking idiot. 984 00:38:38,904 --> 00:38:40,539 - [wailing] 985 00:38:40,606 --> 00:38:41,940 - Like, what's your problem? 986 00:38:42,007 --> 00:38:44,476 - [screaming] 987 00:38:44,543 --> 00:38:47,245 - Oh, she's fine. 988 00:38:47,312 --> 00:38:48,814 See. 989 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,316 When she's in here with me by herself, this don't happen. 990 00:38:51,383 --> 00:38:53,518 - Let me give her a drink. 991 00:38:55,287 --> 00:39:00,259 This moment is probably setting me up to get ready 992 00:39:00,325 --> 00:39:01,927 for what my life is about to be-- 993 00:39:01,994 --> 00:39:07,299 me having to hold down my babies by myself, 994 00:39:07,366 --> 00:39:08,934 even when they're hurting. 995 00:39:09,001 --> 00:39:12,337 Because Daddy finds it to be funny. 996 00:39:12,404 --> 00:39:15,641 But it just proves how immature he is. 997 00:39:15,707 --> 00:39:17,209 That was a real dickhead move of you. 998 00:39:17,276 --> 00:39:19,478 - It was your fault. 999 00:39:19,544 --> 00:39:20,946 Shouldn't have had her over there. 1000 00:39:21,013 --> 00:39:22,881 - I should've never had her over there? 1001 00:39:22,948 --> 00:39:24,149 - Yeah. 1002 00:39:24,149 --> 00:39:25,450 - Safaree, shut up. 1003 00:39:25,517 --> 00:39:26,985 - She's there throwing guitars on her head. 1004 00:39:27,052 --> 00:39:28,720 - And you're there laughing at her 1005 00:39:28,787 --> 00:39:30,155 instead of picking her up. 1006 00:39:30,188 --> 00:39:31,657 - It was funny. 1007 00:39:31,723 --> 00:39:34,259 - I'm completely angry because I-I just feel like 1008 00:39:34,326 --> 00:39:38,597 everything you portrayed yourself to be in the beginning 1009 00:39:38,664 --> 00:39:40,499 is nothing what you really are. 1010 00:39:40,565 --> 00:39:42,834 - The baby fell. She's not hurt. 1011 00:39:42,901 --> 00:39:44,970 Let's not turn it into nothing else. 1012 00:39:45,037 --> 00:39:47,606 - You got blessed with everything that you have 1013 00:39:47,673 --> 00:39:49,441 in front of you right now. 1014 00:39:49,508 --> 00:39:51,176 And you're not even man enough to be grateful 1015 00:39:51,209 --> 00:39:53,745 and hold the [bleep] down like the way you're supposed to. 1016 00:39:53,812 --> 00:39:56,782 - She needs to know that there's pain in life. 1017 00:39:56,848 --> 00:39:58,884 I'm dead serious. - No. 1018 00:39:58,951 --> 00:40:00,986 You're gonna find out that there's pain in life. 1019 00:40:01,053 --> 00:40:02,054 - [chuckles] 1020 00:40:04,547 --> 00:40:06,207 {\an7}\h\h\h- ♪ I made it to the top and there ain’t no stopping ♪ 1021 00:40:06,207 --> 00:40:07,811 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- You’re watching "Love and Hip Hop Atlanta..." 1022 00:40:07,811 --> 00:40:09,844 {\an7}- "Check Yourself..." \h\h\h- "Season ten" 1023 00:40:09,844 --> 00:40:10,844 {\an7}- You’ll be watching us... 1024 00:40:10,844 --> 00:40:12,844 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Watch the show... - For the very first time. 1025 00:40:12,844 --> 00:40:15,712 {\an7}- You’ll be getting our natural \h\h\h\h\hand honest reactions. 1026 00:40:15,712 --> 00:40:17,547 {\an7}- We’re watching it... \h\h\h\h\h\h- With you. 1027 00:40:17,547 --> 00:40:19,174 {\an7}- The scene you’re about to see \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\his when 1028 00:40:19,174 --> 00:40:22,646 {\an7}Infinity say she’s gonna \h\h\hstay here forever. 1029 00:40:22,646 --> 00:40:24,811 {\an7}[upbeat music] 1030 00:40:24,811 --> 00:40:27,811 {\an7}- Guys, I want you to make sure \h\hyou keep this house clean. 1031 00:40:27,811 --> 00:40:30,207 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hDad, stop eating. I have a special guest coming. 1032 00:40:30,207 --> 00:40:33,481 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI hate that. Like, let me finish cooking. 1033 00:40:33,481 --> 00:40:34,679 {\an7}- I do this all the time. 1034 00:40:34,679 --> 00:40:35,844 {\an7}I always gotta test the food 1035 00:40:35,844 --> 00:40:37,646 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand make sure there’s no poison in it 1036 00:40:37,646 --> 00:40:39,547 {\an7}before everybody else eat it. 1037 00:40:39,547 --> 00:40:40,976 {\an7}- Who’s the special guest? 1038 00:40:40,976 --> 00:40:43,075 {\an7}- Can’t know, it’s a surprise! 1039 00:40:43,075 --> 00:40:46,141 {\an7}- Skylar, get off the chair. 1040 00:40:46,141 --> 00:40:47,481 {\an7}We have cameras around. 1041 00:40:47,481 --> 00:40:48,844 {\an7}\hAct like you have some home training, 1042 00:40:48,844 --> 00:40:52,943 {\an7}\h\heven if you’re just acting for the cameras. 1043 00:40:52,943 --> 00:40:56,778 {\an7}\h\hKay, are you ready for the special guest? 1044 00:40:56,778 --> 00:40:57,712 {\an7}- Yes. 1045 00:40:57,712 --> 00:41:02,811 {\an7}- Okay, special guest, come in. 1046 00:41:02,811 --> 00:41:05,141 {\an7}\h\h\h- Oh! - Infinity! 1047 00:41:05,141 --> 00:41:09,613 {\an7}I just knew it would be you! 1048 00:41:09,613 --> 00:41:11,745 {\an7}- Yeah, the kids love Infinity. 1049 00:41:11,745 --> 00:41:12,613 {\an7}They miss Infinity. 1050 00:41:12,613 --> 00:41:14,547 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYou know, she’s they big sister. 1051 00:41:14,547 --> 00:41:16,976 {\an7}\h\h\hAnd they just happy to have her in the house. 1052 00:41:16,976 --> 00:41:19,108 {\an7}- You should get your nails \h\h\h\h\hpointy like that. 1053 00:41:19,108 --> 00:41:22,174 {\an7}\h\h- Why? I play basketball. I can’t play ball with nails. 1054 00:41:22,174 --> 00:41:23,141 {\an7}- I think they’re super cute. 1055 00:41:23,141 --> 00:41:25,745 {\an7}And she’s right, you can’t play \hno basketball with no nails. 1056 00:41:25,745 --> 00:41:30,141 {\an7}Like, she couldn’t be walking around dribbling with these. 1057 00:41:30,141 --> 00:41:32,679 {\an7}- Oh, ’cause you’re gonna \h\h\h\hbreak your nail. 1058 00:41:32,679 --> 00:41:33,745 {\an7}- Yeah. 1059 00:41:33,745 --> 00:41:35,273 {\an7}So we gonna play or nah? 1060 00:41:35,273 --> 00:41:37,240 {\an7}- How long are you staying? 1061 00:41:37,240 --> 00:41:38,976 {\an7}- I don’t know. 1062 00:41:38,976 --> 00:41:41,844 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- So Mendeecees clearly can’t hide nothing on his face 1063 00:41:41,844 --> 00:41:46,976 {\an7}because he’s looking like \h\h\h"Why is she here?" 1064 00:41:46,976 --> 00:41:48,712 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- How long do you want me to stay? 1065 00:41:48,712 --> 00:41:50,240 {\an7}- A whole year. A year. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Huh? 1066 00:41:50,240 --> 00:41:51,580 {\an7}A year, a year! \h\h\h- A year? 1067 00:41:51,580 --> 00:41:54,679 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hJust a year? I can’t--I can’t live? 1068 00:41:54,679 --> 00:41:56,580 {\an7}- You could stay for 90 years. 1069 00:41:56,580 --> 00:41:58,613 {\an7}- My husband is still eating. 1070 00:41:58,613 --> 00:42:01,613 {\an7}He had the pre-meal, then he had the meal, 1071 00:42:01,613 --> 00:42:03,174 {\an7}and then he’s gonna have \h\h\h\h\hthe after-meal. 1072 00:42:03,174 --> 00:42:05,141 {\an7}That’s just kinda what happens. 1073 00:42:05,141 --> 00:42:05,976 {\an7}- Yeah, at this point, 1074 00:42:05,976 --> 00:42:08,075 {\an7}I’m not even stealing food, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m eating. 1075 00:42:08,075 --> 00:42:09,679 {\an7}If I gotta eat it \hout the big pot 1076 00:42:09,679 --> 00:42:13,910 {\an7}or whatever the case may be, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m eating. 1077 00:42:14,108 --> 00:42:17,273 {\an7}- All right, kids, so me, Dad, \hand Infinity are gonna talk. 1078 00:42:17,273 --> 00:42:20,207 {\an7}You guys go to bed. 1079 00:42:20,207 --> 00:42:23,240 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- They’re fronters. You know they’re not sleeping. 1080 00:42:23,240 --> 00:42:25,745 {\an7}\h\h\h- Like, overall, like, just a minute ago 1081 00:42:25,745 --> 00:42:27,207 {\an7}y’all wasn’t even speaking. 1082 00:42:27,207 --> 00:42:27,976 {\an7}- Right. - Right? 1083 00:42:27,976 --> 00:42:30,745 {\an7}\h\h- To y’all trying to kindle y’all relationship 1084 00:42:30,745 --> 00:42:33,910 {\an7}so you being in this house \h\h\h\his a step forward. 1085 00:42:33,910 --> 00:42:36,943 {\an7}Is this, like, is this \h\hwhere you wanna be? 1086 00:42:36,943 --> 00:42:40,042 {\an7}\h\h\h- Oh, my God, I like Mendeecees. 1087 00:42:40,042 --> 00:42:40,712 {\an7}I like him. 1088 00:42:40,712 --> 00:42:42,306 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h’Cause he’s saying exactly what I would’ve said. 1089 00:42:42,306 --> 00:42:46,207 {\an7}\h\h\hJust a minute ago, y’all weren’t even cool, 1090 00:42:46,207 --> 00:42:47,943 {\an7}Now you all up in my house. 1091 00:42:47,943 --> 00:42:49,372 {\an7}No, you gotta go. 1092 00:42:49,372 --> 00:42:51,009 {\an7}This is not right, uh-uh. 1093 00:42:51,009 --> 00:42:52,273 {\an7}\h- When I packed up and got on the plane, 1094 00:42:52,273 --> 00:42:54,679 {\an7}I came here with the intention \h\h\h\hto have a conversation. 1095 00:42:54,679 --> 00:42:56,745 {\an7}I have no other motives \h\h\h\hother than just 1096 00:42:56,745 --> 00:42:59,877 {\an7}to have a conversation and get back my family. 1097 00:42:59,877 --> 00:43:00,405 {\an7}- Right. 1098 00:43:00,405 --> 00:43:01,976 {\an7}\h\h\hSo how long you planning on staying? 1099 00:43:01,976 --> 00:43:05,438 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- I want to stay until I’m told I can’t stay no more. 1100 00:43:05,438 --> 00:43:06,811 {\an7}- Ooh. 1101 00:43:06,811 --> 00:43:09,811 {\an7}[bleep], that’s crazy. 1102 00:43:11,108 --> 00:43:13,273 {\an7}\h\h- The scene that you’re about to watch 1103 00:43:13,273 --> 00:43:17,372 {\an7}is a guy who doesn’t \h\h\hhave a bedframe 1104 00:43:17,372 --> 00:43:21,405 {\an7}\h"breaking up" with a girl that he never went out with 1105 00:43:21,405 --> 00:43:23,438 {\an7}who also has Kamala Harris 1106 00:43:23,438 --> 00:43:26,811 {\an7}walking into the White House \h\h\hlistening to her music. 1107 00:43:26,811 --> 00:43:29,877 {\an7}[chill music] 1108 00:43:29,877 --> 00:43:35,108 {\an7}♪ ♪ 1109 00:43:35,108 --> 00:43:36,745 {\an7}Can I get a rainbow rocket? 1110 00:43:36,745 --> 00:43:39,339 {\an7}I’m so cute. [chuckles] 1111 00:43:42,009 --> 00:43:42,547 {\an7}Hey. 1112 00:43:42,547 --> 00:43:45,372 {\an7}I was nervous to see Guap \hand it was crazy ’cause 1113 00:43:45,372 --> 00:43:49,141 {\an7}I had just got off the phone with him talking about, like, 1114 00:43:49,141 --> 00:43:50,240 {\an7}"Oh, you know, I’m sorry. 1115 00:43:50,240 --> 00:43:52,712 {\an7}I hope things haven’t changed between us." 1116 00:43:52,712 --> 00:43:56,075 {\an7}\h\hAnd so I didn’t know that I was gonna see him that day. 1117 00:43:56,075 --> 00:43:57,405 {\an7}I just was like, "I wanna talk" 1118 00:43:57,405 --> 00:44:00,438 {\an7}\h\h\hbut I didn’t know that we were actually gonna talk, 1119 00:44:00,438 --> 00:44:04,778 {\an7}so it was like "oop!" 1120 00:44:04,778 --> 00:44:07,240 {\an7}- Look how he greeted you. 1121 00:44:07,240 --> 00:44:10,745 {\an7}What is that? 1122 00:44:10,745 --> 00:44:15,075 {\an7}- Wanna go for a walk? 1123 00:44:15,075 --> 00:44:16,877 {\an7}So... 1124 00:44:16,877 --> 00:44:19,042 {\an7}- That [bleep] that happened \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hat the house, 1125 00:44:19,042 --> 00:44:21,372 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hfor me, was absolutely not cool. 1126 00:44:21,372 --> 00:44:23,207 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hI don’t know what started anything. 1127 00:44:23,207 --> 00:44:25,009 {\an7}\h\h\h\hAll I know is when you was frantic, 1128 00:44:25,009 --> 00:44:27,877 {\an7}\h\hyou gave me nothing, like, absolutely nothing 1129 00:44:27,877 --> 00:44:30,811 {\an7}but just disrespect. 1130 00:44:30,811 --> 00:44:32,405 {\an7}- What have you given her? 1131 00:44:32,405 --> 00:44:35,042 {\an7}You’ve given her nothing. \h\h\h\hYou have nothing. 1132 00:44:35,042 --> 00:44:37,514 {\an7}- Your savage turned up \hso crazy I was like, 1133 00:44:37,514 --> 00:44:41,745 {\an7}"This a demon of the likes \hI’ve never seen before." 1134 00:44:41,745 --> 00:44:42,405 {\an7}- I am an angel, 1135 00:44:42,405 --> 00:44:45,306 {\an7}and I do not appreciate \hbeing called a demon. 1136 00:44:45,306 --> 00:44:48,108 {\an7}\h\h\hI have never been on demon time. 1137 00:44:48,108 --> 00:44:49,877 {\an7}I am only on God’s time. 1138 00:44:49,877 --> 00:44:52,075 {\an7}Amen, hallelujah! 1139 00:44:52,075 --> 00:44:58,481 {\an7}\h\h\hLook, I don’t want the other night’s events, 1140 00:44:58,481 --> 00:45:00,075 {\an7}as crazy as they were, 1141 00:45:00,075 --> 00:45:03,405 {\an7}\hto like, [bleep] up what we have going on 1142 00:45:03,405 --> 00:45:06,580 {\an7}\h\h\hbecause I feel like we were getting to, like, 1143 00:45:06,580 --> 00:45:08,108 {\an7}a good place. 1144 00:45:08,108 --> 00:45:10,141 {\an7}- I like you, Tate, \h\h\hI really do. 1145 00:45:10,141 --> 00:45:13,141 {\an7}I feel like you know \hmy honesty in that. 1146 00:45:13,141 --> 00:45:15,405 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - I like being around with you. 1147 00:45:15,405 --> 00:45:19,141 {\an7}I like talking to you. \h\hI like [bleep] you. 1148 00:45:21,075 --> 00:45:21,679 {\an7}- What? 1149 00:45:21,679 --> 00:45:24,141 {\an7}Don’t--don’t he know his cameras are out? 1150 00:45:24,141 --> 00:45:26,372 {\an7}Her mama might hear this? 1151 00:45:27,108 --> 00:45:30,108 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Did he just say what I think he just said? 1152 00:45:30,108 --> 00:45:31,042 {\an7}- Who says that? 1153 00:45:31,042 --> 00:45:34,372 {\an7}\h\hEven though I do got that good [rolls tongue], 1154 00:45:34,372 --> 00:45:36,481 {\an7}but like, that’s rude. 1155 00:45:36,481 --> 00:45:37,547 {\an7}We’re having a heart to heart 1156 00:45:37,547 --> 00:45:39,910 {\an7}\h\h\h\hand you just, "I like [bleep] you." 1157 00:45:39,910 --> 00:45:42,372 {\an7}Like...[groans] 1158 00:45:42,372 --> 00:45:43,372 {\an7}He gets on my nerves. 1159 00:45:43,372 --> 00:45:46,141 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[chuckles] - I like making music with you. 1160 00:45:46,141 --> 00:45:47,339 {\an7}- Yeah. 1161 00:45:47,339 --> 00:45:51,481 {\an7}- But I think we should \hkeep it at just that. 1162 00:45:51,481 --> 00:45:52,174 {\an7}It’s what it is. 1163 00:45:52,174 --> 00:45:56,075 {\an7}\h\h\h- It is what it is and it’s always been what it was. 1164 00:45:56,075 --> 00:45:58,042 {\an7}- Appreciate you. 1165 00:46:03,580 --> 00:46:08,075 {\an7}- I look back just so I could \h\hget that one last glimpse 1166 00:46:08,075 --> 00:46:10,009 {\an7}at this dumbass [bleep]. 1167 00:46:10,009 --> 00:46:12,009 {\an7}\h’Cause I knew I wasn’t gonna ever see him again. 1168 00:46:12,009 --> 00:46:14,240 {\an7}Like, I knew at that moment, 1169 00:46:14,240 --> 00:46:16,372 {\an7}\h"Oh, this is gonna be our last conversation. 1170 00:46:16,372 --> 00:46:17,943 {\an7}I’m never gonna see you again." 1171 00:46:17,943 --> 00:46:20,207 {\an7}\hSo I just wanted to look back like, 1172 00:46:20,207 --> 00:46:26,438 {\an7}"Mm, wow, I really wasted so \hmuch time on that [bleep]." 1173 00:46:30,598 --> 00:46:33,668 announcer: Next time on "Love & Hip Hop Atlanta"... 1174 00:46:33,735 --> 00:46:35,437 - We're getting ready to celebrate DMX. 1175 00:46:35,503 --> 00:46:38,039 Thousands of bikers about to show up. 1176 00:46:38,106 --> 00:46:39,474 - Let's ride. 1177 00:46:39,541 --> 00:46:41,276 - Stop playing. Y'all hate the truth. 1178 00:46:41,342 --> 00:46:42,644 - No. 'Cause that's not my story. 1179 00:46:42,711 --> 00:46:45,080 That's your story. That's your personal story. 1180 00:46:45,146 --> 00:46:46,581 - Just back up out my face. 1181 00:46:46,648 --> 00:46:48,349 Both of y'all, back up out my face. 1182 00:46:48,416 --> 00:46:50,185 - I ain't seen my son and Christopher 1183 00:46:50,251 --> 00:46:52,353 in like 10, 15 years. 1184 00:46:52,420 --> 00:46:54,589 Hopefully, Christopher bring his ass out. 1185 00:46:54,656 --> 00:46:56,758 I pray that I get to see him myself 1186 00:46:56,825 --> 00:46:59,327 and--and make sure he's all right. 1187 00:46:59,394 --> 00:47:01,296 - When you know--when you get upset and you--you know, 1188 00:47:01,362 --> 00:47:04,199 you start tweeting and stuff, women don't like that. 1189 00:47:04,265 --> 00:47:06,534 And--and I'm embarrassed. 1190 00:47:06,601 --> 00:47:08,403 - How you think it makes me feel? 1191 00:47:08,470 --> 00:47:09,904 I don't have a relationship with my [indistinct]. 1192 00:47:09,971 --> 00:47:12,340 - You know you did some [bleep] up [bleep] like this. 1193 00:47:12,407 --> 00:47:13,575 Admit it. Damn. 1194 00:47:13,641 --> 00:47:16,411 - Let's speak about this [bleep]. 1195 00:47:19,910 --> 00:47:22,580 {\an7}[hip-hop music] 1196 00:47:22,580 --> 00:47:28,504 {\an7}♪ ♪ 1197 00:47:28,504 --> 00:47:31,646 {\an7}\h\h- ♪ Rise up, rise up, we will rise as a whole ♪ 1198 00:47:31,646 --> 00:47:32,712 {\an7}♪ Rise up, rise up ♪ 1199 00:47:32,712 --> 00:47:33,910 {\an7}♪ We look right into the cold ♪ 1200 00:47:33,910 --> 00:47:36,438 {\an7}\h\h\h♪ Rise up, rise up, we will never ever fold ♪ 1201 00:47:36,438 --> 00:47:38,471 {\an7}♪ Rise up, rise up, \heven for the top ♪ 1202 00:47:38,471 --> 00:47:40,679 {\an7}\h♪ For the gold, rise up, rise up ♪ 1203 00:47:40,679 --> 00:47:43,471 {\an7}♪ We will rise as a whole ♪ 1204 00:47:46,141 --> 00:47:48,877 {\an7}- ♪ MTV ♪