1 00:00:04,413 --> 00:00:06,862 [Delana] I am unable to move 2 00:00:06,896 --> 00:00:09,275 enough to do anything anymore. 3 00:00:09,310 --> 00:00:10,137 [coughs] 4 00:00:16,758 --> 00:00:17,965 [woman] Somewhere in me is this 5 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,172 little glimmer of hope. 6 00:00:20,206 --> 00:00:22,206 I just wanna be a normal person. 7 00:00:22,965 --> 00:00:23,793 [breathes heavily] 8 00:00:33,724 --> 00:00:34,793 [man] You can't do it. 9 00:00:34,827 --> 00:00:35,758 And then I just 10 00:00:35,793 --> 00:00:37,206 get mad. 11 00:00:37,241 --> 00:00:38,689 [woman] If I don't make a change now, 12 00:00:38,724 --> 00:00:39,896 I'm scared it's gonna be too late. 13 00:00:44,310 --> 00:00:45,310 [wailing] 14 00:00:46,034 --> 00:00:47,620 It hurts! 15 00:00:47,655 --> 00:00:50,137 [woman] I refuse to stop fighting. 16 00:00:50,172 --> 00:00:51,862 I have to do this for my children. 17 00:00:52,448 --> 00:00:53,275 Oh. 18 00:00:59,413 --> 00:01:01,517 [shrieking] Ow! 19 00:01:02,275 --> 00:01:04,241 [crying] This was gonna happen. 20 00:01:34,827 --> 00:01:37,068 [Delana] The first thought that I have when I open my eyes is, 21 00:01:37,758 --> 00:01:38,758 I made it to another day. 22 00:01:40,378 --> 00:01:41,620 I didn't die in my sleep. 23 00:01:43,206 --> 00:01:44,551 -[Delana] Good morning. -[James] Morning. 24 00:01:45,137 --> 00:01:46,172 [Delana] It's just like, 25 00:01:46,206 --> 00:01:47,172 do I really wanna get up? 26 00:01:47,551 --> 00:01:48,551 Because, 27 00:01:48,586 --> 00:01:50,689 it's so hard. It's so painful. 28 00:01:50,723 --> 00:01:52,551 All right, bubby. You gotta move. 29 00:01:52,586 --> 00:01:54,378 And I know as soon as I, 30 00:01:55,378 --> 00:01:56,551 sit up, 31 00:01:56,586 --> 00:01:57,896 that the pain's gonna start. 32 00:01:57,931 --> 00:01:59,723 And it's just, 33 00:01:59,758 --> 00:02:00,862 the same way all day. 34 00:02:02,310 --> 00:02:03,344 Pain, pain, pain. 35 00:02:06,827 --> 00:02:07,655 [James] Your turn. 36 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:08,827 [coughs] 37 00:02:12,275 --> 00:02:13,758 [Delana] Once you stand up, you feel 38 00:02:13,793 --> 00:02:15,310 all the weight on your legs. 39 00:02:17,379 --> 00:02:19,000 I am very terrified of falling. 40 00:02:21,206 --> 00:02:23,310 I have gotten to where I use an office chair, 41 00:02:23,344 --> 00:02:25,965 in the house, in order to be able to... 42 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:27,241 Maneuver where I need to go. 43 00:02:28,137 --> 00:02:29,965 And I roll to the bathroom. 44 00:02:31,172 --> 00:02:32,827 And that's how I do it. [chuckles] 45 00:02:36,689 --> 00:02:39,448 I'm very slow whenever it comes to moving around. 46 00:02:43,379 --> 00:02:45,103 It's not easy moving the weight around. 47 00:02:50,827 --> 00:02:52,241 -Hey, babe? -[James] Yeah. 48 00:02:52,275 --> 00:02:54,551 Can you come and put a towel up by the tub for me? 49 00:02:54,586 --> 00:02:56,067 Yup. 50 00:02:56,103 --> 00:02:57,965 [Delana] You can grab a washcloth. 51 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:01,000 Me and Delana have been married for six years. 52 00:03:01,034 --> 00:03:03,896 I think we have a very good relationship. 53 00:03:03,931 --> 00:03:06,137 Most cases I really do feel like I'm her caretaker. 54 00:03:07,068 --> 00:03:08,413 Not her husband. But, 55 00:03:08,448 --> 00:03:10,034 when I see her in pain 56 00:03:10,068 --> 00:03:12,000 and I can't take away the pain, 57 00:03:12,034 --> 00:03:14,482 that hurts me. Because I love her. 58 00:03:14,517 --> 00:03:15,586 Makes me feel better to know 59 00:03:15,620 --> 00:03:16,896 that she's feeling better. [chuckles] 60 00:03:19,275 --> 00:03:20,379 [Delana] You didn't have to take a shower. 61 00:03:20,413 --> 00:03:22,517 I typically do not bathe everyday. 62 00:03:22,551 --> 00:03:23,896 I typically bathe every other day. 63 00:03:25,379 --> 00:03:26,551 I'm unable to get in the tub. 64 00:03:27,620 --> 00:03:29,137 I will sit on the side of the tub, 65 00:03:29,827 --> 00:03:30,965 and... 66 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,379 Use the, shower head, 67 00:03:33,413 --> 00:03:36,655 to wash my hair and my upper body. 68 00:03:36,689 --> 00:03:39,034 The most difficult part about taking a shower is, 69 00:03:39,067 --> 00:03:40,034 getting under 70 00:03:40,067 --> 00:03:41,827 the folds of skin. 71 00:03:41,862 --> 00:03:43,793 I have folds of skin everywhere. 72 00:03:43,827 --> 00:03:44,862 Places that you wouldn't even 73 00:03:44,896 --> 00:03:46,758 think you're supposed to have folds of skin. 74 00:03:46,793 --> 00:03:48,896 I do know that a lot of it is the weight. 75 00:03:48,930 --> 00:03:50,137 But I also do have 76 00:03:50,172 --> 00:03:51,241 swelling, in my legs. 77 00:03:52,413 --> 00:03:53,930 And sometimes the folds, 78 00:03:55,275 --> 00:03:58,448 are, so swollen together that, 79 00:03:58,482 --> 00:03:59,793 you can't even get 80 00:03:59,827 --> 00:04:01,241 your hand in between them. 81 00:04:01,275 --> 00:04:03,379 So, I have a, 82 00:04:03,413 --> 00:04:04,965 back scrubber brush 83 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:06,241 that had a sponge on it, 84 00:04:06,275 --> 00:04:07,793 that the sponge broke off of, 85 00:04:08,275 --> 00:04:09,275 so I will take 86 00:04:09,310 --> 00:04:10,413 a washcloth 87 00:04:10,448 --> 00:04:11,931 and a ponytail holder 88 00:04:11,965 --> 00:04:13,620 and make the washcloth stick on this little, 89 00:04:14,896 --> 00:04:16,067 flat, 90 00:04:16,103 --> 00:04:17,481 piece of wood. 91 00:04:17,517 --> 00:04:19,757 So that I can get it between the folds of my skin. 92 00:04:22,172 --> 00:04:24,034 So, I do try, 93 00:04:24,068 --> 00:04:24,931 to get it clean. 94 00:04:28,448 --> 00:04:30,310 Getting out of the shower, I feel like, 95 00:04:30,344 --> 00:04:32,620 my legs are going to give out. 96 00:04:32,655 --> 00:04:36,275 I don't try to take a shower without my husband here. 97 00:04:36,310 --> 00:04:38,137 Just on the event that I do fall. 98 00:04:41,137 --> 00:04:43,275 I definitely don't need to fall. 99 00:04:43,310 --> 00:04:44,413 Have an, 100 00:04:44,448 --> 00:04:46,965 EMS or somebody have to come to my assistance, 101 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:48,068 that petrifies me. 102 00:04:49,931 --> 00:04:51,586 My legs ache, 103 00:04:52,103 --> 00:04:53,034 after I'm, I'm done. 104 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,551 Then I will typically, 105 00:04:58,965 --> 00:04:59,827 get dressed. 106 00:05:01,931 --> 00:05:04,827 I have a little grabby tool [chuckles] that I use, 107 00:05:05,620 --> 00:05:07,103 to pull my pants up. 108 00:05:07,137 --> 00:05:08,793 Because I can't bend over 109 00:05:08,827 --> 00:05:10,551 far enough to do so on my own. 110 00:05:15,206 --> 00:05:16,206 Just to... 111 00:05:16,241 --> 00:05:17,724 To stand up long enough to pull my pants up, 112 00:05:18,517 --> 00:05:19,344 is excruciating. 113 00:05:28,137 --> 00:05:29,379 After I finish getting dressed, 114 00:05:29,413 --> 00:05:30,551 I'm just ready for breakfast. 115 00:05:32,827 --> 00:05:34,862 I'll have crispy bacon with sausages, 116 00:05:34,896 --> 00:05:36,275 biscuits and a cup of coffee. 117 00:05:36,689 --> 00:05:37,689 It's not 118 00:05:37,724 --> 00:05:39,655 the most healthy, but it's also not the worst. 119 00:05:39,689 --> 00:05:41,655 'Cause it's not a piece of chocolate cake. 120 00:05:41,689 --> 00:05:44,310 So, that's the way I look at things right now. 121 00:05:44,344 --> 00:05:46,137 [James] All right, anything else? 122 00:05:46,172 --> 00:05:47,000 [Delana] No. Thank you. 123 00:05:47,655 --> 00:05:49,206 Whenever it's time to eat, 124 00:05:49,689 --> 00:05:51,000 something yummy, 125 00:05:51,827 --> 00:05:53,172 I start to feel happy. 126 00:05:53,206 --> 00:05:55,827 It brings in the euphoria feeling. 127 00:05:56,586 --> 00:05:57,551 Because it takes me back 128 00:05:57,586 --> 00:05:58,620 to the happy part of my childhood. 129 00:06:03,241 --> 00:06:04,655 From the time I was six months old, 130 00:06:04,689 --> 00:06:06,827 I was raised by my, 131 00:06:06,862 --> 00:06:09,413 first cousin actually. 132 00:06:09,448 --> 00:06:11,275 There were some complications with my mother. 133 00:06:12,310 --> 00:06:14,724 And she had to, 134 00:06:14,758 --> 00:06:16,793 sign me over to my cousin. 135 00:06:18,310 --> 00:06:20,517 And I was raised with her two children. 136 00:06:21,758 --> 00:06:23,517 Then, when I was seven, 137 00:06:23,551 --> 00:06:25,793 my biological mom came back into the picture. 138 00:06:26,275 --> 00:06:27,551 I was, 139 00:06:27,586 --> 00:06:29,931 staying with my grandmother, which was her mother, 140 00:06:30,517 --> 00:06:31,931 for summer. 141 00:06:31,965 --> 00:06:34,448 My biological mom came home, 142 00:06:34,482 --> 00:06:36,379 she told me that we were gonna go get candy, 143 00:06:36,413 --> 00:06:37,241 me and my sister. 144 00:06:38,034 --> 00:06:40,379 And she, took us in the car. 145 00:06:41,482 --> 00:06:43,068 She set my sister out, [sighs] 146 00:06:43,103 --> 00:06:45,448 about a couple miles down the road and... 147 00:06:45,482 --> 00:06:48,206 Told her to walk home and she kidnapped me. 148 00:06:48,241 --> 00:06:50,551 I was with her for the rest of that year. 149 00:06:51,482 --> 00:06:52,758 I remember going to school 150 00:06:52,793 --> 00:06:54,793 and I was actually able to have a sleepover 151 00:06:54,827 --> 00:06:57,172 with some of the kids that I went to school with. 152 00:06:57,206 --> 00:06:59,241 And at one point we had our own apartment. 153 00:06:59,275 --> 00:07:00,551 But, there were times 154 00:07:00,586 --> 00:07:02,758 that my mom and I, didn't have a place to stay. 155 00:07:05,275 --> 00:07:07,620 I don't know exactly why she brought me back. 156 00:07:07,655 --> 00:07:08,793 But she brought me back to my cousin. 157 00:07:10,206 --> 00:07:12,482 To my knowledge, there were no consequences for her. 158 00:07:12,517 --> 00:07:14,275 She just brought me back and I didn't have 159 00:07:14,310 --> 00:07:17,068 any more contact with her until I was roughly 18. 160 00:07:18,344 --> 00:07:19,448 When my mom dropped me off, 161 00:07:19,482 --> 00:07:21,931 everybody was really excited and really happy and... 162 00:07:21,965 --> 00:07:23,413 I was really excited to be home. 163 00:07:24,862 --> 00:07:26,344 My cousin's name is Maryanne. 164 00:07:26,379 --> 00:07:28,000 Although to me she's, Mom. 165 00:07:29,551 --> 00:07:31,068 She felt guilty because, 166 00:07:31,103 --> 00:07:33,758 of what happened. Where I was taken 167 00:07:33,793 --> 00:07:35,931 from her. I missed an entire year. 168 00:07:36,827 --> 00:07:38,275 And, so, she just, 169 00:07:38,310 --> 00:07:40,448 would give in to my every want, 170 00:07:41,172 --> 00:07:43,000 to make me happy. 171 00:07:43,655 --> 00:07:44,827 There was always cakes, 172 00:07:44,862 --> 00:07:45,689 always cookies. 173 00:07:46,103 --> 00:07:47,241 Always sweets. 174 00:07:48,034 --> 00:07:50,068 I didn't know to limit myself. 175 00:07:50,103 --> 00:07:51,586 I was a kid. 176 00:07:51,620 --> 00:07:53,068 And it was offered to me. 177 00:07:53,103 --> 00:07:54,275 I would eat it. 178 00:07:54,310 --> 00:07:55,655 It took me until middle school 179 00:07:55,689 --> 00:07:58,241 to figure out that I was overweight. 180 00:07:58,275 --> 00:08:00,275 The other kids started calling me fat. 181 00:08:00,310 --> 00:08:02,344 I felt like an outsider. 182 00:08:02,379 --> 00:08:04,172 And when you don't really have somebody that you can 183 00:08:04,206 --> 00:08:06,896 confide in, in school, it leaves you feeling alone. 184 00:08:09,793 --> 00:08:13,241 So I would just overindulge in brownies or cookies, 185 00:08:13,275 --> 00:08:15,689 to solve the problems that are happening'. 186 00:08:15,724 --> 00:08:18,034 And it was, an euphoria felling. 187 00:08:22,482 --> 00:08:23,551 I would, 188 00:08:23,586 --> 00:08:24,620 gain weight 189 00:08:24,655 --> 00:08:26,310 and then I would level out for a little while. 190 00:08:26,344 --> 00:08:27,827 And then I would end up gaining more weight 191 00:08:27,862 --> 00:08:29,517 and level out for a little while. 192 00:08:29,551 --> 00:08:30,724 And when I finished high school 193 00:08:30,758 --> 00:08:33,724 I was in roughly 18 size clothes. 194 00:08:33,758 --> 00:08:37,241 And I stayed that size for about three or four years. 195 00:08:38,758 --> 00:08:40,206 But then, 196 00:08:40,241 --> 00:08:41,655 when I was 20 I got pregnant, 197 00:08:43,517 --> 00:08:44,655 but, 198 00:08:44,689 --> 00:08:45,655 the father 199 00:08:45,689 --> 00:08:47,275 ended up being abusive. 200 00:08:47,310 --> 00:08:48,551 So... 201 00:08:48,586 --> 00:08:50,344 I told him to hit the road. 202 00:08:50,896 --> 00:08:52,482 Then I ended up having 203 00:08:52,931 --> 00:08:54,482 our child. 204 00:08:54,517 --> 00:08:56,034 She ended up being a full-term stillborn. 205 00:08:56,551 --> 00:08:57,379 So... 206 00:08:58,724 --> 00:09:00,827 It was one of the hardest moments of my entire life. 207 00:09:01,793 --> 00:09:02,620 I turned to food. 208 00:09:03,482 --> 00:09:05,551 I, remember 209 00:09:05,586 --> 00:09:08,413 staying up, for probably three days straight. 210 00:09:08,793 --> 00:09:09,862 No sleep. 211 00:09:09,896 --> 00:09:10,896 All I did was eat. 212 00:09:11,758 --> 00:09:12,896 Three days straight. 213 00:09:14,793 --> 00:09:16,689 I had met a gentleman who didn't think 214 00:09:16,724 --> 00:09:17,655 of my weight as an issue. 215 00:09:19,275 --> 00:09:21,379 And I ended up, getting pregnant, 216 00:09:22,137 --> 00:09:23,034 with his child. 217 00:09:23,827 --> 00:09:24,965 We got married. 218 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:28,551 And I had a perfectly healthy baby boy. 219 00:09:29,448 --> 00:09:30,758 Shortly after that, 220 00:09:30,793 --> 00:09:33,034 he decided that he wanted a divorce. 221 00:09:33,482 --> 00:09:34,931 And that, 222 00:09:34,965 --> 00:09:36,103 he was gonna take our son. 223 00:09:37,793 --> 00:09:40,034 And I didn't have an attorney 224 00:09:40,068 --> 00:09:41,655 and I lost custody of my son, Lee. 225 00:09:42,758 --> 00:09:44,379 It devastated me. 226 00:09:44,413 --> 00:09:46,310 Which cause me to turn to food again. 227 00:09:47,413 --> 00:09:50,241 Food has been a vicious, cycle in my life. 228 00:09:51,241 --> 00:09:53,655 That, I wanted to change. 229 00:09:53,689 --> 00:09:56,034 I actually started a weight management program. 230 00:09:56,068 --> 00:09:57,965 Because I realized being obese was only 231 00:09:58,000 --> 00:09:59,586 gonna cause me more problems. 232 00:10:01,137 --> 00:10:02,896 A year after my divorce was final, 233 00:10:02,931 --> 00:10:05,034 I got remarried and had my daughter, Savannah. 234 00:10:06,172 --> 00:10:07,965 And everything was perfect until, 235 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:09,137 he became abusive. 236 00:10:09,827 --> 00:10:11,931 I said, "Oh, hell no." 237 00:10:12,827 --> 00:10:13,655 I don't play that. 238 00:10:14,482 --> 00:10:15,448 I am not a victim. 239 00:10:16,241 --> 00:10:17,620 I'm a survivor. 240 00:10:17,655 --> 00:10:19,448 Got sole custody, got a divorce, 241 00:10:19,482 --> 00:10:20,482 did all that fun stuff. 242 00:10:21,827 --> 00:10:22,655 Then, 243 00:10:23,413 --> 00:10:25,448 I was single. Living by myself, 244 00:10:25,482 --> 00:10:26,724 with my daughter. 245 00:10:26,758 --> 00:10:29,241 She lived with me until she was about twelve years old. 246 00:10:29,275 --> 00:10:30,413 And then we an argument 247 00:10:30,448 --> 00:10:32,034 and she stormed off to live with my brother. 248 00:10:32,931 --> 00:10:34,620 My daughter is 19 years old. 249 00:10:34,655 --> 00:10:35,724 She has not moved back home 250 00:10:35,758 --> 00:10:37,896 as she is embarrassed of how overweight I am. 251 00:10:39,517 --> 00:10:42,000 I moved and was living on my own at that point. 252 00:10:42,724 --> 00:10:45,758 And I decided to try, 253 00:10:45,793 --> 00:10:47,482 online dating, because why not? 254 00:10:47,517 --> 00:10:48,965 It's the thing to do. 255 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:50,896 I wasn't looking for a hookup. 256 00:10:50,931 --> 00:10:53,413 But I wasn't expecting to meet the love of my life. 257 00:10:53,448 --> 00:10:54,517 I clicked on James, 258 00:10:54,551 --> 00:10:56,413 because he was cute in the picture that I saw. 259 00:10:58,310 --> 00:11:00,379 I didn't care about her being overweight. 260 00:11:00,413 --> 00:11:02,344 I loved her face and I loved her personality. 261 00:11:03,310 --> 00:11:05,034 Our first date was actually, 262 00:11:05,068 --> 00:11:06,620 a breakfast date because we, 263 00:11:07,379 --> 00:11:08,689 both work nights. 264 00:11:08,724 --> 00:11:10,275 So, it was, um, 265 00:11:11,413 --> 00:11:14,000 kinda like it just... It worked out. [laughs] 266 00:11:14,862 --> 00:11:16,379 [Delana] And then, 267 00:11:16,413 --> 00:11:19,000 the next day we went out to lunch. 268 00:11:19,034 --> 00:11:21,931 And a couple of days later we went out again.[chuckles] 269 00:11:21,965 --> 00:11:23,724 And it just kept, happening. 270 00:11:23,758 --> 00:11:26,137 We just decided to keep going' out. 271 00:11:27,206 --> 00:11:29,275 During this little relationship, 272 00:11:29,862 --> 00:11:31,310 time thingy, 273 00:11:31,344 --> 00:11:33,689 I ended up getting an infection in my leg. 274 00:11:33,724 --> 00:11:35,517 The infection caused a really, 275 00:11:35,862 --> 00:11:36,724 big scab, 276 00:11:37,172 --> 00:11:38,310 on my leg. 277 00:11:38,344 --> 00:11:39,448 The doctor thought that it was, 278 00:11:39,482 --> 00:11:41,862 Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, from a tick bite. 279 00:11:41,896 --> 00:11:44,275 So I was in the hospital for, 280 00:11:44,310 --> 00:11:45,103 five days. 281 00:11:46,310 --> 00:11:47,724 James was, 282 00:11:48,655 --> 00:11:50,275 there by my side, 283 00:11:50,310 --> 00:11:53,034 even though we had only been dating about a month. 284 00:11:53,068 --> 00:11:54,689 The doctor said that I would need somebody there 285 00:11:54,724 --> 00:11:56,000 to help take care of me, 286 00:11:56,034 --> 00:11:57,620 at home. 287 00:11:57,655 --> 00:12:00,137 I was pretty much, you know, there to help her and everything. 288 00:12:00,172 --> 00:12:03,103 And I kinda never left after that. [chuckles] 289 00:12:03,137 --> 00:12:05,965 I decided I'd move in with her at that point. 290 00:12:06,896 --> 00:12:08,172 So... 291 00:12:08,206 --> 00:12:11,448 Not the exact way we wanted to start a relationship, but hey. 292 00:12:11,482 --> 00:12:14,000 We got married in Black Mountain, North Carolina, 293 00:12:14,034 --> 00:12:16,275 right on the lake. Lake Tomahawk. 294 00:12:16,310 --> 00:12:17,931 And we're happy seven years later. 295 00:12:23,655 --> 00:12:24,862 So, are you about ready for lunch? 296 00:12:24,896 --> 00:12:26,206 Are you getting hungry? 297 00:12:26,241 --> 00:12:27,034 [James] Ah, getting there. 298 00:12:27,931 --> 00:12:30,241 What were you thinking? Fast food? 299 00:12:30,275 --> 00:12:32,586 Yeah. Do you wanna text me what you want, so that way 300 00:12:32,620 --> 00:12:33,586 I can just let them know? 301 00:12:33,620 --> 00:12:34,931 Yup. 302 00:12:34,965 --> 00:12:38,172 [Delana] The problem is that I'm unable to move, 303 00:12:38,206 --> 00:12:40,965 enough to help do anything anymore. 304 00:12:41,724 --> 00:12:42,862 [James] When we first met, 305 00:12:42,896 --> 00:12:44,862 I mean she was still a big lady. 306 00:12:45,379 --> 00:12:46,275 But she was 307 00:12:46,310 --> 00:12:47,931 mobile, she had her own car. 308 00:12:47,965 --> 00:12:49,586 She was able to do stuff. 309 00:12:49,620 --> 00:12:51,655 We'd take trips to Florida and things like that. 310 00:12:51,689 --> 00:12:53,724 And then just driving' around. 311 00:12:53,758 --> 00:12:55,931 I miss being able to go do stuff with her. 312 00:12:55,965 --> 00:12:57,620 And I mean, now we can't do that 'cause 313 00:12:57,655 --> 00:12:59,448 she cannot get into the vehicle. 314 00:12:59,482 --> 00:13:01,896 And it has me worried, 315 00:13:01,931 --> 00:13:03,137 because I'm scared I'm gonna lose her. 316 00:13:04,310 --> 00:13:05,689 [Delana gasps] Who is that? 317 00:13:06,379 --> 00:13:08,000 Come here boys. Back up. 318 00:13:08,034 --> 00:13:09,344 I never leave the house. 319 00:13:09,379 --> 00:13:10,827 The number one factor is, 320 00:13:10,862 --> 00:13:12,137 it's just difficult. 321 00:13:12,172 --> 00:13:14,000 If I don't have to do it, I don't wanna do it. 322 00:13:14,034 --> 00:13:15,655 I'm not gonna do it. 323 00:13:15,689 --> 00:13:17,448 [James chuckles] Down Gusmo. 324 00:13:17,482 --> 00:13:18,379 [Delana chuckles] 325 00:13:18,413 --> 00:13:19,689 Fries. 326 00:13:19,724 --> 00:13:22,000 Our relationship's pretty much, 327 00:13:22,034 --> 00:13:24,931 me being an enabler to whatever she wants. 328 00:13:24,965 --> 00:13:26,172 That's what you wanted. 329 00:13:26,206 --> 00:13:27,689 [Delana] Thank you. 330 00:13:27,724 --> 00:13:29,344 We've had a few conversations about, 331 00:13:29,379 --> 00:13:30,586 what's going on, 332 00:13:30,620 --> 00:13:32,310 but every time we've tried something 333 00:13:32,344 --> 00:13:34,689 she'd do it for a week and then give up on it. 334 00:13:35,517 --> 00:13:36,620 And... 335 00:13:36,655 --> 00:13:37,620 Pretty much that's my fault 336 00:13:37,655 --> 00:13:39,000 too 'cause I just let her get away with it. 337 00:13:42,862 --> 00:13:43,931 You think you're gonna be able to do it? 338 00:13:44,862 --> 00:13:45,689 Give up those sweets? 339 00:13:46,344 --> 00:13:47,172 Yes. 340 00:13:47,965 --> 00:13:49,241 I'm determined. 341 00:13:49,275 --> 00:13:50,862 Are you gonna handle it if I'm skinnier? 342 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:52,931 [James] Yeah. 343 00:13:52,965 --> 00:13:54,655 You still gonna love me if I'm skinnier? 344 00:13:54,689 --> 00:13:55,827 Yup. 345 00:13:55,862 --> 00:13:57,000 It'd make my life a whole lot easier. 346 00:13:57,862 --> 00:13:58,689 How? 347 00:14:00,137 --> 00:14:01,241 Then I won't have to do everything. 348 00:14:03,862 --> 00:14:04,689 [Delana] True. 349 00:14:05,206 --> 00:14:06,000 Brain freeze. 350 00:14:08,827 --> 00:14:10,172 I think I'm gonna take a nap. 351 00:14:10,206 --> 00:14:12,482 -[James] Really? -Yes, really. 352 00:14:12,517 --> 00:14:14,793 And I guess whenever I get back up I'll, eat the rest. 353 00:14:14,827 --> 00:14:16,000 -[James] Okay. -So... 354 00:14:27,758 --> 00:14:28,896 Yup, let's go. 355 00:14:31,724 --> 00:14:33,172 I'm done with being the way I am. 356 00:14:34,068 --> 00:14:35,413 I'm miserable. 357 00:14:35,448 --> 00:14:36,827 And I need to change. 358 00:14:44,344 --> 00:14:45,655 [James] Hey. 359 00:14:45,689 --> 00:14:47,000 If we're going to the store, we need to go. 360 00:14:47,655 --> 00:14:48,689 [Delana] Okay. 361 00:14:48,724 --> 00:14:50,689 The best way I think to do this, 362 00:14:50,724 --> 00:14:54,206 is, um, to pull the van up to 363 00:14:54,241 --> 00:14:55,344 the back door. 364 00:14:55,379 --> 00:14:57,896 My legs feel like, Jell-O, 365 00:14:57,931 --> 00:15:00,931 if I try to walk more than five to fifteen foot. 366 00:15:00,965 --> 00:15:03,413 And I feel like I'm going to collapse. 367 00:15:03,448 --> 00:15:04,827 Literally just collapse. 368 00:15:06,482 --> 00:15:08,482 But, I like to try to walk 369 00:15:08,517 --> 00:15:10,137 to get around sometimes. 370 00:15:12,103 --> 00:15:13,758 It's one of those things where, 371 00:15:13,793 --> 00:15:14,620 my brain, 372 00:15:15,310 --> 00:15:17,448 is still in the function that, 373 00:15:17,482 --> 00:15:19,931 I can do this, I can do this, I can do this, 374 00:15:19,965 --> 00:15:21,827 my body says, "No, you can't." 375 00:15:21,862 --> 00:15:25,068 I physically cannot do the things that I used to do. 376 00:15:25,103 --> 00:15:26,379 [softly] This is scary. 377 00:15:26,413 --> 00:15:27,620 [James] You're fine. 378 00:15:27,655 --> 00:15:29,379 Because the weight is just, 379 00:15:30,241 --> 00:15:31,137 it's overbearing. 380 00:15:31,172 --> 00:15:32,000 One, two... 381 00:15:34,482 --> 00:15:35,689 [James] If you go to fall, just sit down. 382 00:15:35,724 --> 00:15:36,551 [Delana breathes heavily] 383 00:15:40,551 --> 00:15:41,862 I don't got it. 384 00:15:41,896 --> 00:15:43,034 The ground's not level. 385 00:15:44,310 --> 00:15:46,068 Oh, well we can't do anything about the ground. 386 00:15:46,103 --> 00:15:48,034 Oh, just hold me. [whimpers] 387 00:15:48,068 --> 00:15:49,103 [breathes heavily] 388 00:15:50,068 --> 00:15:51,896 Why do you park far away? 389 00:15:53,241 --> 00:15:54,827 -Do I? -You parked far away. 390 00:15:57,827 --> 00:15:58,655 [breathing heavily] 391 00:16:01,793 --> 00:16:02,827 [James] What hurts me the most, 392 00:16:02,862 --> 00:16:04,137 she's always in pain. 393 00:16:04,172 --> 00:16:06,724 Always on the verge of tears. 394 00:16:06,758 --> 00:16:08,517 Sometimes it really does overwhelm me. 395 00:16:09,137 --> 00:16:10,172 Lean up against the van. 396 00:16:10,206 --> 00:16:11,379 I'm trying to sit. 397 00:16:14,206 --> 00:16:15,551 [whimpering] 398 00:16:15,586 --> 00:16:16,793 Give me your hand. Give me your hand. 399 00:16:16,827 --> 00:16:17,655 [breathes heavily] 400 00:16:20,379 --> 00:16:22,103 [bleep] 401 00:16:22,137 --> 00:16:24,793 If I were to fall at my weight and break a bone, 402 00:16:24,827 --> 00:16:25,655 I'd be done. 403 00:16:26,379 --> 00:16:28,137 And that, petrifies me. 404 00:16:33,482 --> 00:16:34,620 -[James] Is that easier? -No. 405 00:16:46,655 --> 00:16:48,034 [gasps] I'm falling. 406 00:16:52,551 --> 00:16:53,379 One, two, 407 00:16:53,862 --> 00:16:54,689 [grunts] three. 408 00:16:56,482 --> 00:16:57,310 [bleep] 409 00:16:58,310 --> 00:16:59,448 [shrieking] 410 00:16:59,482 --> 00:17:00,482 Ow! 411 00:17:00,517 --> 00:17:01,655 [crying] 412 00:17:01,689 --> 00:17:03,241 Knew this was gonna happen. 413 00:17:04,619 --> 00:17:05,448 [crying] Damn it. 414 00:17:08,034 --> 00:17:09,758 [Delana] I hate my life and what I've become. 415 00:17:11,448 --> 00:17:13,517 -What can we do? -[Delana] I don't know. 416 00:17:13,550 --> 00:17:14,723 -[James] Can you crawl? -No. 417 00:17:14,758 --> 00:17:15,586 My knees hurt. 418 00:17:31,068 --> 00:17:32,620 [Delana] I've fallen and I can't get up. 419 00:17:34,206 --> 00:17:35,689 I feel like such an idiot. 420 00:17:47,517 --> 00:17:48,344 Hey. 421 00:17:48,793 --> 00:17:50,172 No, but I'm here. 422 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,344 [Sharon] What can I do to help you? 423 00:17:54,689 --> 00:17:55,517 [James] Call the fire department? 424 00:17:57,034 --> 00:17:58,655 [Sharon] I mean, we got to do what's best for you. 425 00:18:01,068 --> 00:18:01,896 [crying] 426 00:18:03,413 --> 00:18:04,241 [dial tone] 427 00:18:06,724 --> 00:18:07,586 [operator] Grand Canyon 911 428 00:18:07,620 --> 00:18:09,379 We need an ambulance. 429 00:18:09,413 --> 00:18:12,586 My daughter has fallen and we can't get her up. 430 00:18:12,620 --> 00:18:13,896 [woman] Is she injured at all? 431 00:18:13,931 --> 00:18:15,896 [Delana] No, I'm fine. I just can't get up. 432 00:18:16,413 --> 00:18:18,068 She's 600 lbs. 433 00:18:18,103 --> 00:18:19,862 [woman] Okay, we're gonna get 'em out there as soon as we can. 434 00:18:19,896 --> 00:18:22,344 [Sharon] Okay, well we're gonna need plenty of help. 435 00:18:22,758 --> 00:18:23,586 Thank you. 436 00:18:25,482 --> 00:18:27,551 They'll be here, soon. 437 00:18:27,586 --> 00:18:29,103 [sobbing] I'm sorry. 438 00:18:30,068 --> 00:18:31,724 [Sharon] Darling, don't be sorry. 439 00:18:31,758 --> 00:18:33,172 It's, it's time to get help. 440 00:18:33,206 --> 00:18:34,172 [siren wailing] 441 00:18:37,551 --> 00:18:38,724 [Delana] Hi. 442 00:18:38,758 --> 00:18:39,586 [man] Hi there. 443 00:18:41,724 --> 00:18:42,862 -Hey. -Hello little girl. 444 00:18:50,689 --> 00:18:51,758 [indistinct radio chatter] 445 00:18:51,793 --> 00:18:53,517 [Delana] Oh, this is so [bleep] embarrassing. 446 00:18:53,551 --> 00:18:55,206 [man] Wanna make sure somebody's in front of her foot, 447 00:18:55,241 --> 00:18:57,172 so it'll help her stand up. 448 00:18:58,586 --> 00:19:00,034 You just hang on. I'm going on three. 449 00:19:00,068 --> 00:19:01,000 One, two, three. 450 00:19:01,034 --> 00:19:01,862 [indistinct radio chatter] 451 00:19:02,862 --> 00:19:04,448 [grunts] 452 00:19:04,482 --> 00:19:05,965 I'm on somebody's foot. I'm sorry. 453 00:19:08,862 --> 00:19:10,103 I just need to get to the steps. 454 00:19:10,137 --> 00:19:10,965 [man] Okay. 455 00:19:13,965 --> 00:19:15,344 Okay, that's what I need. 456 00:19:16,482 --> 00:19:17,275 [Man 2] There you go. 457 00:19:19,517 --> 00:19:20,344 Bandit go. 458 00:19:22,344 --> 00:19:24,000 One, two, three. 459 00:19:26,482 --> 00:19:28,172 Damn it, two more steps. 460 00:19:28,206 --> 00:19:29,931 [breathlessly] One, two... 461 00:19:29,965 --> 00:19:31,413 I gotta lift it after one, two. 462 00:19:32,862 --> 00:19:34,655 [wailing] Please don't move. 463 00:19:37,965 --> 00:19:38,793 [whimpering] 464 00:19:43,517 --> 00:19:44,344 Ow! 465 00:19:45,172 --> 00:19:46,000 [screaming] Ow! 466 00:19:51,137 --> 00:19:52,172 Oh, my, God, my knee. 467 00:19:53,965 --> 00:19:55,000 My knee! 468 00:19:55,034 --> 00:19:57,068 It's being pushed into the damn, wood. 469 00:19:57,448 --> 00:19:58,275 [whimpers] 470 00:20:09,862 --> 00:20:10,965 -[man] Got a hammer? -You need a wheelchair. 471 00:20:20,103 --> 00:20:20,931 [Delana chuckles nervously] 472 00:20:28,137 --> 00:20:29,413 [Delana] Try not to go so fast. I'm pushing too. 473 00:20:30,034 --> 00:20:30,862 [sighs] 474 00:20:31,620 --> 00:20:32,517 'Cause I'm trying to fall out. 475 00:20:38,862 --> 00:20:41,517 I know there was a rock back there, so just be careful. 476 00:20:41,551 --> 00:20:43,241 -Okay. -You wanna get one of these? 477 00:20:43,275 --> 00:20:45,793 -[man] You're good. -Let me help you. 478 00:20:45,827 --> 00:20:47,827 [man] Two... Three. 479 00:20:47,862 --> 00:20:51,344 [screams] I'm sliding. I'm sliding. 480 00:20:51,379 --> 00:20:54,448 Completely sliding. [wheezes] 481 00:20:54,482 --> 00:20:56,586 [indistinct conversation] 482 00:20:56,620 --> 00:20:57,827 Okay. 483 00:20:57,862 --> 00:20:59,655 Oh, God. [panting] 484 00:20:59,689 --> 00:21:01,344 -[indistinct conversation] -[beeps] 485 00:21:01,379 --> 00:21:03,379 -[man] Hold your breath, ma'am. -[Delana] [beeps] me. 486 00:21:05,206 --> 00:21:06,862 [indistinct chatter] 487 00:21:11,068 --> 00:21:12,862 [grunts] Okay, further up. 488 00:21:14,827 --> 00:21:16,206 Ow. 489 00:21:18,896 --> 00:21:21,310 Okay, one, two, three. 490 00:21:23,896 --> 00:21:26,689 Okay, you back up. 491 00:21:26,724 --> 00:21:29,034 -You back up. I got this part. -Yes, ma'am. 492 00:21:33,310 --> 00:21:35,034 [panting] 493 00:21:39,655 --> 00:21:41,000 Level ground I can move on. 494 00:21:42,206 --> 00:21:43,965 -You guys are totally awesome. -We're gonna go. 495 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:45,000 -Thank you. -You need anything, just call. 496 00:21:45,034 --> 00:21:46,000 -Thank you. -No problem. 497 00:21:46,517 --> 00:21:47,896 [pants] 498 00:21:47,931 --> 00:21:49,068 Go save somebody else. 499 00:21:51,482 --> 00:21:52,689 Thank you. 500 00:21:52,724 --> 00:21:54,137 -Have a wonderful day. -You too. 501 00:21:57,103 --> 00:21:59,137 [panting] 502 00:22:19,137 --> 00:22:22,482 [Delana] So, today, we are heading to Houston. 503 00:22:22,517 --> 00:22:25,793 Because I made myself an appointment to meet with Dr. Now. 504 00:22:25,827 --> 00:22:27,724 And that's in just a couple of days. 505 00:22:29,793 --> 00:22:33,103 For the last month, since my horrible fall outside my house, 506 00:22:33,137 --> 00:22:36,000 I've been trying to jumpstart my own weight loss. 507 00:22:36,034 --> 00:22:38,482 And I'm pretty sure it's working because I feel better already. 508 00:22:39,655 --> 00:22:40,482 We got this. 509 00:22:41,482 --> 00:22:42,758 We got this. 510 00:22:42,793 --> 00:22:44,137 I feel great about the trip. 511 00:22:47,103 --> 00:22:49,724 I mean, I'm still nervous and scared about it. 512 00:22:49,758 --> 00:22:54,172 I haven't been on a road trip in a very long time. 513 00:22:54,206 --> 00:23:00,482 I'm excited, extremely excited because I'm going to see Dr. Now. 514 00:23:00,517 --> 00:23:02,482 Which is something that has been a long time coming. 515 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,310 -[Delana] Guess what? -[James] What? 516 00:23:06,344 --> 00:23:08,034 -One butt cheek's in. -[both laugh] 517 00:23:13,448 --> 00:23:15,379 [panting] 518 00:23:16,068 --> 00:23:17,448 One and a half. 519 00:23:18,586 --> 00:23:20,172 I just gotta get my damn leg in. 520 00:23:20,655 --> 00:23:21,689 [panting] 521 00:23:24,310 --> 00:23:25,793 I can't bend it any further. 522 00:23:27,793 --> 00:23:29,965 [beeps] production. 523 00:23:32,689 --> 00:23:35,103 [groans and pants] 524 00:23:45,137 --> 00:23:46,689 Okay, I'm in. 525 00:23:46,724 --> 00:23:49,103 Okay, now I just need the [bleep] in the car and go. 526 00:23:50,517 --> 00:23:52,379 And you. 527 00:23:52,413 --> 00:23:55,379 [Delana] So, it is... It's going to be a very long road trip. 528 00:23:55,413 --> 00:23:59,172 Today, it's going to be roughly a seven hour drive. 529 00:23:59,206 --> 00:24:02,413 Tomorrow is going to be six and a half, seven hour drive. 530 00:24:03,689 --> 00:24:05,103 Seems a little daunting. 531 00:24:08,379 --> 00:24:09,758 [Delana sighs] 532 00:24:19,896 --> 00:24:23,241 I don't have any concerns about making it there in time, 533 00:24:23,275 --> 00:24:24,551 or anything like that. 534 00:24:29,586 --> 00:24:32,413 And, I'm ready. Let's go. Let's do this. 535 00:24:41,551 --> 00:24:44,068 -[horns honking] -[Delana] Oh, my God. 536 00:24:44,103 --> 00:24:45,724 All those lights are back on again. 537 00:24:45,758 --> 00:24:48,000 We're stuck in the middle of the [bleep] road. 538 00:25:04,103 --> 00:25:05,517 [Delana] You're going to have to slam the brake. 539 00:25:09,793 --> 00:25:12,586 -[Delana] Did it over heat or anything? -Nope, it just stopped. 540 00:25:13,827 --> 00:25:15,275 That was the same problem we just got fixed. 541 00:25:16,689 --> 00:25:18,275 [crying] [beeps] we are. 542 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:23,068 [sighs] 543 00:25:23,827 --> 00:25:25,793 I don't know what to do from here. 544 00:25:25,827 --> 00:25:29,068 This is the whole issue we were having whenever we got it fixed. 545 00:25:32,965 --> 00:25:35,724 Well, something we can do is take the battery cables off and... 546 00:25:35,758 --> 00:25:37,965 touch 'em together for a second 547 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,586 And that'll erase the computer memory and it'll learn over 548 00:25:40,620 --> 00:25:42,965 and that may get you back to normal driving. 549 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:44,344 [Delana] Thank you. 550 00:25:51,448 --> 00:25:53,379 Okay, start it up now, let's see. 551 00:25:53,413 --> 00:25:55,931 [engine starts] 552 00:25:55,965 --> 00:25:58,793 What we'll do is, when I get my truck, and everybody's ready, 553 00:25:58,827 --> 00:26:02,551 I'll pull out and block the lane, and then you guys can pull out. 554 00:26:02,586 --> 00:26:04,517 -[James] Okay. -[man] Okay. 555 00:26:05,517 --> 00:26:06,965 [James] Nope, she's doing it again. 556 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:08,655 [Delana] She's already doing it? 557 00:26:08,689 --> 00:26:10,413 [James] We won't make it to Houston. 558 00:26:14,137 --> 00:26:17,034 [Delana] Just keep your blinkers on and keep going as much as you can. 559 00:26:30,206 --> 00:26:32,655 -Hi, good. And you? -Good. 560 00:26:32,689 --> 00:26:36,034 Kind of freaking out 'cause this is driving us crazy. 561 00:26:36,068 --> 00:26:39,758 All right, we can take a look. 562 00:26:39,793 --> 00:26:42,000 [Delana] We're tryin' to get all the way to Houston. 563 00:26:42,241 --> 00:26:43,241 And... 564 00:26:44,689 --> 00:26:46,724 We thought we had it fixed. 565 00:26:46,758 --> 00:26:47,724 We'll take a look. 566 00:26:47,758 --> 00:26:48,586 [grunts] 567 00:26:51,068 --> 00:26:53,103 [Delana] It died on the four lane. 568 00:26:53,137 --> 00:26:56,344 We limped it here. It wouldn't go over 20 miles and hour to get here. 569 00:26:57,241 --> 00:26:59,896 I'll let him know that. 570 00:26:59,931 --> 00:27:04,586 So we were able to actually find a place to get the vehicle looked at. 571 00:27:04,620 --> 00:27:07,206 -Um... -Everything there. 572 00:27:07,241 --> 00:27:09,586 [Delana] They've got it attached to the computer. 573 00:27:09,620 --> 00:27:14,034 So yeah, this exact fan, was having this exact issue. 574 00:27:14,068 --> 00:27:16,862 And, we got that replaced. 575 00:27:16,896 --> 00:27:19,448 And now, we're back in the same boat. 576 00:27:25,689 --> 00:27:27,586 -Yes, Sir. -Okay, here's what we're going to do. 577 00:27:27,620 --> 00:27:31,620 -Okay. -I know you're on your way to Texas. 578 00:27:31,655 --> 00:27:35,413 Looks like there's a little more going on, so rather than take a chance here, 579 00:27:35,448 --> 00:27:39,413 on anything and risk anything, we can't get this fixed today. 580 00:27:39,448 --> 00:27:43,241 Not only do we fix cars, but we also rent cars. 581 00:27:43,275 --> 00:27:48,068 Um, so what we'd like to do to help you along with your journey is give you a van 582 00:27:48,103 --> 00:27:51,103 that we have here to take you. It won't cost you a dime. 583 00:27:51,448 --> 00:27:52,724 So... 584 00:27:54,137 --> 00:27:55,482 How about that? 585 00:27:55,517 --> 00:27:58,068 -[crying] Oh, my God. Oh, my God. -Does that help you? 586 00:27:58,103 --> 00:28:00,758 You're welcome. You're welcome. 587 00:28:00,793 --> 00:28:03,931 Just give us a little bit here with it and we'll get you took care of, okay? 588 00:28:03,965 --> 00:28:05,206 -Okay. -All right. 589 00:28:07,931 --> 00:28:11,172 [Delana] I'm really touched the man is going to let us use a rental car from his shop, 590 00:28:11,793 --> 00:28:14,206 while they fix our car. 591 00:28:14,241 --> 00:28:16,103 So it looks like we'll make it to Houston, after all. 592 00:28:16,965 --> 00:28:18,448 -You ready? -Yup. 593 00:28:18,482 --> 00:28:21,206 -[James exhales] -[Delana] But I'm really worried because today 594 00:28:21,241 --> 00:28:22,965 took a lot out of me. 595 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,689 And I'm scared about how tomorrow's gonna go. 596 00:28:25,724 --> 00:28:31,793 Because if I can't make it to Dr. Now on time, he might never take me seriously. 597 00:28:31,827 --> 00:28:34,896 I don't know what's gonna happen to me if I lose the chance to meet him. 598 00:28:37,862 --> 00:28:40,137 [panting] 599 00:28:40,172 --> 00:28:41,862 -What you been trying to do? -I need your stronger 600 00:28:41,896 --> 00:28:43,137 -than that. -Okay 601 00:28:43,172 --> 00:28:45,103 [grunts and pants] 602 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,517 -There we go. -[pants] 603 00:28:50,551 --> 00:28:53,551 [Delana] I can't... [blows raspberry] 604 00:28:58,137 --> 00:29:00,931 [crying hysterically] 605 00:29:03,896 --> 00:29:05,724 [breathing heavily] 606 00:29:08,862 --> 00:29:10,862 [whimpering] 607 00:29:12,068 --> 00:29:14,862 [beeps] me. [groans] 608 00:29:17,896 --> 00:29:19,034 [panting] 609 00:29:20,137 --> 00:29:21,620 Okay, that's in. 610 00:29:22,793 --> 00:29:25,965 -[James] You're in. -[Delana] Close it. 611 00:29:27,310 --> 00:29:29,068 [Delana panting] 612 00:29:30,689 --> 00:29:32,862 [Delana cries] 613 00:29:48,551 --> 00:29:51,241 -[Delana] We got this. -[James] Okay. I love you. 614 00:29:51,275 --> 00:29:53,448 -[James] I love you. -[Delana] I love you too. 615 00:29:53,482 --> 00:29:54,827 [James] Can you believe we're here. 616 00:29:54,862 --> 00:29:57,275 You know, we're not officially here until I shake his hand, right? 617 00:30:00,931 --> 00:30:02,241 Want me to get your leg out first? 618 00:30:13,793 --> 00:30:16,620 [breathing heavily] 619 00:30:26,655 --> 00:30:28,413 Good job. 620 00:30:34,137 --> 00:30:37,068 If you'll just leave that. We'll just grab that in a second. 621 00:30:39,103 --> 00:30:40,965 As soon as I get set. 622 00:30:43,137 --> 00:30:46,241 [Delana] I'm not looking forward to getting on a scale. 623 00:30:47,965 --> 00:30:51,344 Because I hate seeing how high that number gets each time. 624 00:30:51,379 --> 00:30:54,344 So I've avoided it for a long time now. 625 00:30:54,379 --> 00:30:56,862 The last time I weighed, I was still in the 500s. 626 00:30:59,827 --> 00:31:01,965 [pants] Okay. 627 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:06,034 -You okay? -Mm-hm. Nervous. Anxious. 628 00:31:07,482 --> 00:31:09,000 Delana? 629 00:31:10,793 --> 00:31:13,896 [Delana] I'm glad I made it here on my feet, but this is rough. 630 00:31:13,931 --> 00:31:16,034 I feel like I'm going to throw up, I'm so nervous. 631 00:31:18,379 --> 00:31:20,379 Especially about seeing my weight. 632 00:31:21,689 --> 00:31:24,482 But also about what Dr. Now's gonna say. 633 00:31:24,517 --> 00:31:27,310 [nurse] I'll have you stand on the scale when it zeros out. 634 00:31:27,344 --> 00:31:29,586 -[Delana groans] -[nurse] Whenever you're ready. 635 00:31:32,344 --> 00:31:34,344 I think I'd be maybe in the upper 500s, 636 00:31:34,379 --> 00:31:37,206 but I'm terrified to find out the truth. 637 00:31:37,241 --> 00:31:40,000 No matter what it is, I know I'll have to do this. 638 00:31:52,896 --> 00:31:54,655 [Delana inhales] 639 00:31:58,413 --> 00:31:59,586 Holy [beeps] 640 00:32:00,655 --> 00:32:02,068 [exhales] 641 00:32:02,413 --> 00:32:03,827 [cries] 642 00:32:13,413 --> 00:32:16,206 [whispers] I'm sorry. 643 00:32:16,241 --> 00:32:18,655 I can't believe I'm almost in the upper 600s. 644 00:32:24,034 --> 00:32:26,620 So it's actually just kind of down the hall to the right, okay? 645 00:32:26,655 --> 00:32:28,724 Okay. 646 00:32:28,758 --> 00:32:31,206 To the right. I'm going to let the doctor know that you're ready. 647 00:32:31,241 --> 00:32:32,482 Okay. 648 00:32:33,827 --> 00:32:35,724 [James] There where the door is open. 649 00:32:39,862 --> 00:32:42,827 I'm just shocked and embarrassed that I let it get to this point. 650 00:32:47,655 --> 00:32:49,965 It's definitely higher than I expected. 651 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,413 I to have got to get better. 652 00:32:51,448 --> 00:32:53,793 Just got to get better. Period. 653 00:32:53,827 --> 00:32:56,448 He shouldn't have to take care of me. 654 00:32:56,482 --> 00:32:59,655 Just because I let myself go and weigh as much as I do. 655 00:33:01,413 --> 00:33:02,206 [knock on door] 656 00:33:05,655 --> 00:33:08,862 -Hello, how are y'all doing? -[Delana] Good, and you? 657 00:33:08,896 --> 00:33:11,862 Good. All right, well, you must be Delana. 658 00:33:11,896 --> 00:33:13,793 -Yes, Sir. -How was your trip down here? 659 00:33:14,793 --> 00:33:16,275 Adventuresome. 660 00:33:17,034 --> 00:33:18,724 What do you mean? 661 00:33:18,758 --> 00:33:20,931 We broke down in four lane traffic. 662 00:33:20,965 --> 00:33:22,793 So, how's your car now? 663 00:33:22,827 --> 00:33:23,931 I don't know. It's at the shop. 664 00:33:23,965 --> 00:33:26,724 So, that explains you rescheduling. 665 00:33:26,758 --> 00:33:29,206 How many days it took you to get down here? 666 00:33:29,241 --> 00:33:31,034 Just two? Two. 667 00:33:31,517 --> 00:33:32,827 -Yeah. -Okay. 668 00:33:32,862 --> 00:33:37,034 So let's talk first about your eating habits and your weight. 669 00:33:37,068 --> 00:33:39,965 What do you do all day? What do you do with your routine 670 00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,655 -from the time you wake up till you go to bed? -Nothing. 671 00:33:43,689 --> 00:33:45,793 Um, obviously you eat. 672 00:33:45,827 --> 00:33:49,724 -Well yeah, but... -What I mean by "Yeah," that's what I'm looking for. 673 00:33:49,758 --> 00:33:52,862 -Gotcha. -What do you mean? Did you just left that out? 674 00:33:52,896 --> 00:33:55,034 Conveniently you do just nothing. 675 00:33:55,068 --> 00:33:58,482 So, let's talk about what do you eat all day then? 676 00:33:58,517 --> 00:34:03,103 I prefer yogurt. Um, the Greek yogurt, I love it. 677 00:34:03,758 --> 00:34:05,241 Okay, how much? 678 00:34:06,482 --> 00:34:08,379 Usually one of the little cups. 679 00:34:08,413 --> 00:34:10,688 'Cause I've started to buying the cups because they're portioned right. 680 00:34:11,379 --> 00:34:13,551 So, just eat one yogurt cup? 681 00:34:13,585 --> 00:34:14,896 -Yes. -That's all? 682 00:34:14,931 --> 00:34:16,275 For breakfast. 683 00:34:16,310 --> 00:34:19,103 So, that is your breakfast. And after that what do you eat? 684 00:34:19,137 --> 00:34:22,103 For lunch, here lately, um, a salad. 685 00:34:23,620 --> 00:34:26,068 Lately, what then, that's about two days? 686 00:34:26,103 --> 00:34:28,793 No, no, no, no. You can ask him. 687 00:34:28,827 --> 00:34:32,137 We cleaned out our pantry and gave it to the kids next door. 688 00:34:32,172 --> 00:34:36,585 Okay, so, that is salad and yogurt, then? What do you drink for lunch? 689 00:34:36,620 --> 00:34:39,724 Um, I try to go with water. 690 00:34:39,757 --> 00:34:44,413 Sometimes, I'll have like, uh, tea. But it's the unsweet tea. 691 00:34:44,447 --> 00:34:48,103 -Okay. -And then for like dinner, I'll do usually, 692 00:34:48,137 --> 00:34:52,413 chicken of some sort. White meat chicken or pork, just a white meat. 693 00:34:52,447 --> 00:34:54,931 -Okay, any snack in between? -No. 694 00:34:54,965 --> 00:34:57,551 That almost sounds too good to be true. 695 00:34:57,586 --> 00:35:01,413 So, if that is your current diet, you should have lost a lot. 696 00:35:01,448 --> 00:35:05,931 So, you put the math together today, your BMI is 111. 697 00:35:07,551 --> 00:35:09,827 And this is a very dangerous BMI to be at. 698 00:35:09,862 --> 00:35:13,241 And normal BMI is 18 to 25. 699 00:35:13,275 --> 00:35:17,310 Your is over 100. 111 is one of the highest BMI we've seen. 700 00:35:18,379 --> 00:35:21,137 So, your situation needs to change now. 701 00:35:21,172 --> 00:35:24,482 And the only thing that's going to do that is if you eat less. 702 00:35:24,517 --> 00:35:27,620 -Great. -So, I'm going to give you a 1200 calorie, low carb, 703 00:35:27,655 --> 00:35:30,482 high protein diet, that will help you do that. 704 00:35:30,517 --> 00:35:33,965 If you show me you can do that, then weight loss surgery is going to be 705 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,689 an option for you. But, doing weight loss surgery 706 00:35:36,724 --> 00:35:40,344 on somebody at your BMI is very risky. 707 00:35:40,379 --> 00:35:45,379 Right now, you need to work hard if you want that to be an option, okay? 708 00:35:45,413 --> 00:35:49,448 So, you're the enabler guy, that she's gonna try to eat healthy and 709 00:35:49,482 --> 00:35:51,793 you're gonna bring home the high calorie foods. 710 00:35:51,827 --> 00:35:57,000 Well yesterday, she was so stressed out about the van and everything that 711 00:35:57,827 --> 00:36:00,137 I gave in and got her a candy bar. 712 00:36:00,172 --> 00:36:03,310 She stressed out, and the treatment for that is a candy bar? 713 00:36:03,344 --> 00:36:06,068 I was in the car with her for 10 hours yesterday. 714 00:36:06,103 --> 00:36:11,000 That justifies her being kill her and give her something unhealthy? 715 00:36:11,034 --> 00:36:13,931 [James] She wasn't as mean. [laughs] 716 00:36:13,965 --> 00:36:18,724 And well, that is a justification to make bad choices. 717 00:36:18,758 --> 00:36:22,517 So, don't convince yourself that uh, you need that. 718 00:36:22,551 --> 00:36:25,413 You don't. So today I'm going to bring you some 719 00:36:25,448 --> 00:36:27,344 written instruction and 720 00:36:27,379 --> 00:36:32,068 I'm gonna give you also some exercise plan that I want you to do on daily basis. 721 00:36:32,103 --> 00:36:36,551 -Yes, Sir. -Okay. If you stick to eating 1200 calories, high protein, 722 00:36:36,586 --> 00:36:42,448 low carb diet, when you're at 600 lbs. you can easily lose 50-60 pounds in one month. 723 00:36:42,482 --> 00:36:47,241 But the goal I'm gonna give you is to just to lose 50 lbs. in two months. 724 00:36:47,275 --> 00:36:51,103 So that should be very easy for you, if you make the changes you need. 725 00:36:51,137 --> 00:36:54,344 -So in two months, we'll see how're you doing. -Yes, Sir. 726 00:36:54,379 --> 00:36:59,172 If you don't have a reliable means of transportation, we are going to do your 727 00:36:59,206 --> 00:37:02,965 two month follow up back home for you at a local clinic. 728 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:07,827 What needs to happen is you show me that you're willing to make the changes. 729 00:37:07,862 --> 00:37:13,000 If you do that, then we will move ahead with you and do your weight loss surgery. 730 00:37:13,034 --> 00:37:16,137 And so, I'm gonna get some stuff for you, and then bring it to you 731 00:37:16,172 --> 00:37:17,758 and explain it to you what to do with it. 732 00:37:17,793 --> 00:37:21,206 I have an app that I've been using. It's free. 733 00:37:21,241 --> 00:37:22,793 She puts in her calories everyday. 734 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,827 -Okay, do me a favor. -Yes, Sir. 735 00:37:26,862 --> 00:37:28,965 -Delete that freakin' app. -[James chuckles] 736 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,793 Okay? And, because this is... 737 00:37:31,827 --> 00:37:34,896 a way to get yourself in trouble. 738 00:37:34,931 --> 00:37:37,482 -So, forget about the app. -Okay, I deleted it. 739 00:37:37,517 --> 00:37:40,034 The diet is very simple, I'm going to give it to you. 740 00:37:40,068 --> 00:37:42,206 -Okay, all right, I'll be right back. -Yes, Sir. 741 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:49,793 So, what do you think? 742 00:37:49,827 --> 00:37:53,344 The anxiousness is gone. I think I'm more excited. 743 00:37:53,379 --> 00:37:55,586 I mean, he didn't officially say that I'm in the program, but he also 744 00:37:55,620 --> 00:37:56,965 didn't officially say that I'm not in the program. 745 00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,724 Yeah. Think you can do it though? 746 00:38:00,137 --> 00:38:02,000 -Yeah. -Okay. 747 00:38:02,448 --> 00:38:03,275 We'll do it. 748 00:38:04,586 --> 00:38:07,448 Delana may be a really tough challenge. 749 00:38:07,482 --> 00:38:10,655 Because right at the start, she's telling me that she has made 750 00:38:10,689 --> 00:38:13,310 healthy changes and she's eating better. 751 00:38:13,344 --> 00:38:18,137 But, when pushed about her choices more specifically, it is clear 752 00:38:18,172 --> 00:38:23,206 that's not the case. So she convinces herself that she's trying to do better 753 00:38:23,241 --> 00:38:25,620 and she's improving her habits. 754 00:38:25,655 --> 00:38:29,068 But she's not doing nearly as well as she thinks. 755 00:38:29,103 --> 00:38:34,068 So, that coupled with unhealthy dynamic she has with her husband, 756 00:38:34,103 --> 00:38:38,517 where they both use stressful situations in their lives 757 00:38:38,551 --> 00:38:41,344 to justify unhealthy habits together. 758 00:38:41,379 --> 00:38:46,517 That makes her situation one that's not going to be easy to change. 759 00:38:46,551 --> 00:38:51,310 Unless she's serious about doing what she needs, and following the direction 760 00:38:51,344 --> 00:38:53,689 I'm going to give her. 761 00:38:53,724 --> 00:38:59,344 All right then. So, here's what I got for you. This is your app. 762 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:01,482 -[all laughing] -Okay. 763 00:39:01,517 --> 00:39:06,931 Okay, so read that very carefully, so you understand how things work. 764 00:39:06,965 --> 00:39:09,206 Here's a three factor to control your weight. 765 00:39:09,241 --> 00:39:11,275 And that is where your diet fits in. 766 00:39:11,310 --> 00:39:13,344 And then, I'm gonna give you my book. 767 00:39:13,379 --> 00:39:17,931 There is this chapter 12 768 00:39:17,965 --> 00:39:20,379 has the exercise plan. 769 00:39:20,413 --> 00:39:23,034 -[Delana] Okay. -And I want you to build up your stamina. 770 00:39:23,068 --> 00:39:24,655 -Okay. -Okay. 771 00:39:24,689 --> 00:39:29,310 All right. Have a nice trip back home. What you going to do about your vehicle? 772 00:39:29,344 --> 00:39:32,206 Oh, we're going to go drop the van off, and hopefully our van is fixed 773 00:39:32,241 --> 00:39:33,896 when we get there. 774 00:39:33,931 --> 00:39:36,862 All right, good luck and we'll talk soon. 775 00:39:36,896 --> 00:39:38,758 And if you need anything, give me a call. 776 00:39:38,793 --> 00:39:41,103 -Okay. -All right, well, see y'all later. 777 00:39:41,137 --> 00:39:42,793 -Thank you. -Okay, bye-bye. 778 00:39:51,137 --> 00:39:52,965 -You ready. -Yeah, let's go. 779 00:39:54,724 --> 00:39:56,862 -Let's go enjoy that heat. -[both laugh] 780 00:39:58,827 --> 00:40:01,896 -All right, we gotta move in to it, so. [chuckles] -Yeah we do. 781 00:40:05,862 --> 00:40:07,206 [Delana] Thank you, baby. 782 00:40:10,068 --> 00:40:13,758 I was already aware that, you know, I'm pretty much in a life or death situation 783 00:40:14,241 --> 00:40:15,793 with my weight. 784 00:40:15,827 --> 00:40:20,862 I wasn't prepared for the amount of weight that I am, but once again that's... 785 00:40:20,896 --> 00:40:24,034 I've done it to myself so I have to remove it myself. 786 00:40:24,068 --> 00:40:29,068 To me, a huge goal would be able to just walk the dogs. 787 00:40:29,103 --> 00:40:32,379 To get behind the wheel of a car and drive wherever I wanted to go. 788 00:40:32,413 --> 00:40:36,172 To walk into a restaurant and not feel like everybody's staring at me. 789 00:40:38,931 --> 00:40:43,034 Just the simple things that most people take for granted every day. 790 00:40:44,482 --> 00:40:46,103 I struggle with, everyday. 791 00:40:48,551 --> 00:40:52,379 When Dr. Now was talking about her BMI, I was scared. 792 00:40:52,413 --> 00:40:56,655 I mean, I still am scared. If something's gonna happen, 793 00:40:56,689 --> 00:40:58,379 it would really hit home. 794 00:40:59,758 --> 00:41:01,000 We're gonna do something. 795 00:41:05,344 --> 00:41:06,965 [Delana pants] 796 00:41:25,931 --> 00:41:28,413 [James clears throat] 797 00:41:28,448 --> 00:41:30,103 So, what's the plan for today? 798 00:41:30,758 --> 00:41:31,862 [Delana sighs] 799 00:41:33,413 --> 00:41:35,517 Get up and get some exercises done and... 800 00:41:37,275 --> 00:41:38,862 I can't move, my dogs are on me. 801 00:41:38,896 --> 00:41:39,724 [James chuckles] 802 00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,241 -I think I still have yoghurt, don't I? -Yeah. 803 00:41:43,275 --> 00:41:44,758 Okay. 804 00:41:44,793 --> 00:41:46,931 [Delana] The last month has been pretty tough. 805 00:41:46,965 --> 00:41:48,862 Our car's still in the shop. 806 00:41:48,896 --> 00:41:51,724 But the auto shop let us keep the rental car. 807 00:41:51,758 --> 00:41:53,379 And that was really nice of them. 808 00:41:55,275 --> 00:41:56,344 [groaning] 809 00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,413 I started Dr. Now's diet. And I've been doing the exercises too. 810 00:42:04,827 --> 00:42:06,896 I plan on using the chair 811 00:42:06,931 --> 00:42:11,310 to make it more mobile for myself. 812 00:42:11,344 --> 00:42:15,310 I have been trying to go without the chair. 813 00:42:15,344 --> 00:42:18,172 The way I see it, it's better to be more stable 814 00:42:18,206 --> 00:42:20,793 than to fall and bust my booty. 815 00:42:25,275 --> 00:42:26,482 So I'm trying 816 00:42:26,517 --> 00:42:29,655 to do the squats up and down in the chair. 817 00:42:30,206 --> 00:42:31,103 Whatever I possibly 818 00:42:31,137 --> 00:42:34,620 can to help burn off the calories. 819 00:42:34,655 --> 00:42:37,000 I know that I'm not consuming 820 00:42:37,034 --> 00:42:38,862 more than 1200 calories a day. 821 00:42:39,172 --> 00:42:40,310 But 822 00:42:40,344 --> 00:42:42,482 I need to make sure that I'm burning off more 823 00:42:42,517 --> 00:42:44,241 than 1200 calories a day. 824 00:42:47,413 --> 00:42:48,689 [sighs] 825 00:42:51,517 --> 00:42:52,655 [James] Morning. 826 00:42:54,551 --> 00:42:56,103 -Thank you, Baby. -Yep. 827 00:42:56,137 --> 00:42:58,068 [Delana] James has been helping me make the changes I need. 828 00:42:58,931 --> 00:43:00,413 And after talking about it, 829 00:43:00,448 --> 00:43:02,206 we decided we're just gonna bite the bullet 830 00:43:02,241 --> 00:43:04,034 and move to Houston as soon as possible. 831 00:43:05,034 --> 00:43:06,689 To show Dr. Now how dedicated I am. 832 00:43:15,068 --> 00:43:16,586 I'm gonna leave it as a surprise. 833 00:43:17,275 --> 00:43:18,862 So hopefully, 834 00:43:18,896 --> 00:43:21,482 I'll knock his socks off at my next appointment with my overall weight loss. 835 00:43:29,620 --> 00:43:31,000 This will help ensure that I get 836 00:43:31,034 --> 00:43:31,896 my approval. 837 00:43:58,172 --> 00:44:00,724 [Delana] Lately, life has been pretty stressful. 838 00:44:03,931 --> 00:44:06,068 The car still isn't fixed. And now 839 00:44:06,103 --> 00:44:09,137 it's starting to hold us up in terms of moving to Houston. 840 00:44:09,172 --> 00:44:11,620 On top of that, we haven't found a place yet, either. 841 00:44:11,655 --> 00:44:14,206 It's been harder than expected, but we're still working on it. 842 00:44:14,965 --> 00:44:16,758 [Delana] How did you sleep? 843 00:44:16,793 --> 00:44:19,551 I did miss the checkup with Dr. Now and I feel bad about that. 844 00:44:20,758 --> 00:44:22,862 I wanted to surprise him by moving down there. 845 00:44:22,896 --> 00:44:24,896 And that fell through, obviously. 846 00:44:24,931 --> 00:44:27,655 And now his office set up a video call with him. 847 00:44:27,689 --> 00:44:30,931 And I'm a little bit nervous that he's gonna be mad at me for being delinquent. 848 00:44:31,655 --> 00:44:32,620 [James] Why? 849 00:44:36,758 --> 00:44:37,758 [Delana] You wanna go grab 850 00:44:37,793 --> 00:44:39,103 the laptop for me? 851 00:44:39,137 --> 00:44:40,000 [James] Yup. 852 00:44:48,344 --> 00:44:51,482 [Delana] Thank you. Glad you remembered the table. I forgot. 853 00:44:55,103 --> 00:44:56,103 There you go. 854 00:45:00,172 --> 00:45:01,931 -Oh, you gotta sit by me. -Why? 855 00:45:01,965 --> 00:45:03,551 -He's gonna wanna see you too. -No, he ain't. 856 00:45:03,827 --> 00:45:05,103 [laughs] 857 00:45:06,689 --> 00:45:07,896 Why, are you scared? 858 00:45:10,172 --> 00:45:11,931 He'll say, "Are you still bringing her food?" 859 00:45:11,965 --> 00:45:14,655 He will, won't he? [laughs] 860 00:45:16,172 --> 00:45:18,000 -All right? -Mm-mm. 861 00:45:35,379 --> 00:45:37,000 -Hello. -[Delana] Hi. 862 00:45:37,034 --> 00:45:38,896 [Dr. Now] So what's going on with you, Delana? 863 00:45:38,931 --> 00:45:43,758 You missed your appointment at the local clinic a month ago and I haven't heard from you. 864 00:45:43,793 --> 00:45:46,137 This has been, like, 865 00:45:46,172 --> 00:45:49,931 40 days since when your appointment was scheduled for. 866 00:45:49,965 --> 00:45:52,965 -Has it? Wow. -[Dr. Now] Yeah. 867 00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:54,931 [Delana] Well, the reason we're doing it virtually, is 868 00:45:54,965 --> 00:45:56,965 because my van is still in the shop. 869 00:45:57,724 --> 00:46:00,034 [Dr. Now] So that van is... 870 00:46:00,068 --> 00:46:01,620 what's wrong with it? 871 00:46:01,655 --> 00:46:03,586 [Delana] Um, we don't know exactly. 872 00:46:03,620 --> 00:46:06,965 I believe it's a sensor of some sort. 873 00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,931 But they're working on it, so we don't know exactly. 874 00:46:09,965 --> 00:46:11,620 [Dr. Now] You couldn't call to tell me that? 875 00:46:12,137 --> 00:46:13,896 Uh, well, yes. 876 00:46:13,931 --> 00:46:15,758 My plan was to be there at this appointment. 877 00:46:15,793 --> 00:46:17,241 But the... They... 878 00:46:17,275 --> 00:46:19,931 He wasn't able to get the part in, or something. 879 00:46:19,965 --> 00:46:22,586 [Dr. Now] So right now, you're telling me you're trapped at home 880 00:46:22,620 --> 00:46:24,241 until your van is fixed. 881 00:46:24,275 --> 00:46:25,896 -[Delana] Correct. -All right. 882 00:46:25,931 --> 00:46:28,655 So when do you think your van will be fixed? 883 00:46:28,689 --> 00:46:30,000 Hopefully within the week. 884 00:46:31,241 --> 00:46:32,793 Okay. 885 00:46:32,827 --> 00:46:36,448 So reschedule your appointment at the local clinic for two weeks from now. 886 00:46:36,482 --> 00:46:39,517 Your van will be fixed and you can go to that. 887 00:46:39,551 --> 00:46:41,965 -[Delana] That is my plan. -Okay. 888 00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:46,103 So I'm gonna set another appointment with you for two weeks from now. 889 00:46:46,137 --> 00:46:47,517 And you need to have lost 890 00:46:47,551 --> 00:46:49,000 50 pounds still. 891 00:46:49,034 --> 00:46:52,241 Do you think you can do that and make it to that appointment? 892 00:46:52,275 --> 00:46:53,551 I can do that. Yeah. 893 00:46:53,586 --> 00:46:54,931 All right then. 894 00:46:54,965 --> 00:46:57,620 If you need anything, give me a call. Otherwise, we'll talk 895 00:46:57,655 --> 00:46:59,275 after you get your weight checked. 896 00:46:59,310 --> 00:47:01,827 And I hope to see you make it this time. 897 00:47:01,862 --> 00:47:04,448 [Delana and James] Yes, sir. Thank you. 898 00:47:04,482 --> 00:47:06,172 -All right. Bye now. -[both] Bye. 899 00:47:17,310 --> 00:47:18,724 -[Delana] You okay, babe? -Yeah. 900 00:47:18,758 --> 00:47:19,827 Great. 901 00:47:23,206 --> 00:47:26,137 [Delana] So today, I'm going to a local clinic to weigh in. 902 00:47:26,172 --> 00:47:28,586 And I'm nervous to find out how much I've lost. 903 00:47:28,620 --> 00:47:29,517 And I think I lost a bunch 904 00:47:29,551 --> 00:47:30,931 but I'm not really sure. 905 00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:34,620 -Oh, there. -Where? 906 00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:35,931 Right there. 907 00:47:36,931 --> 00:47:37,965 Park in the handicap. 908 00:47:55,586 --> 00:47:56,931 Shoe fell off. 909 00:48:00,689 --> 00:48:03,000 [Delana] Sorry, baby. Thank you. 910 00:48:04,034 --> 00:48:04,862 Walker, closer. 911 00:48:09,241 --> 00:48:10,068 Okay. 912 00:48:13,310 --> 00:48:14,689 Okay. 913 00:48:23,275 --> 00:48:24,206 Okay. [sighs] 914 00:48:24,758 --> 00:48:27,137 [breathing heavily] 915 00:48:30,931 --> 00:48:31,758 [car door shuts] 916 00:48:47,344 --> 00:48:51,206 -Hi. -[nurse] How're you feeling? 917 00:48:51,241 --> 00:48:53,137 -Come on in here. -[Delana] Can I sit for a second? 918 00:48:53,172 --> 00:48:54,655 -Absolutely. Sure can. -Sorry. 919 00:49:02,620 --> 00:49:03,551 [James] You ready? 920 00:49:04,448 --> 00:49:06,413 [Delana] I think so. 921 00:49:06,448 --> 00:49:07,586 -How far back is it? -It's just right here. 922 00:49:08,275 --> 00:49:09,137 -Okay. -Yep. 923 00:49:11,275 --> 00:49:12,137 [groans softly] Yeah. 924 00:49:13,793 --> 00:49:15,241 Follow me on in here and I'll help ya. 925 00:49:18,931 --> 00:49:19,758 Okay. 926 00:49:31,586 --> 00:49:34,275 [Delana] At my last appointment, I was 646. 927 00:49:34,310 --> 00:49:36,000 And I'm supposed to have lost 50 pounds. 928 00:49:38,793 --> 00:49:41,241 [nurse] Step right in the middle. 929 00:49:41,275 --> 00:49:43,551 [Delana] So that'll put me down to 596. 930 00:49:43,586 --> 00:49:44,551 [nurse] Okay. 931 00:49:49,827 --> 00:49:51,034 We got... 932 00:49:51,068 --> 00:49:52,931 -651 pounds. -Are you [bleep] 933 00:49:53,655 --> 00:49:55,275 [nurse] Okay, so 651 pounds. 934 00:49:57,413 --> 00:49:59,000 Okay, be careful. Here we go. 935 00:50:02,172 --> 00:50:03,413 I'll show you where to go. 936 00:50:07,827 --> 00:50:09,379 -Next door to the left. -Okay. 937 00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:11,275 -The next one. -Okay. 938 00:50:11,310 --> 00:50:13,000 -There you go. -Sorry. 939 00:50:15,310 --> 00:50:16,241 Good deal. 940 00:50:26,482 --> 00:50:29,137 -Sorry. -Okay. 941 00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:34,551 [call ringing] 942 00:50:37,103 --> 00:50:39,206 -Hi, Delana. -Hi, how are you? 943 00:50:40,827 --> 00:50:43,103 - I'm doing okay, how about you? -Good, thank you. 944 00:50:43,137 --> 00:50:44,482 What is your weight today? 945 00:50:45,413 --> 00:50:47,655 Six... Um, 651. 946 00:50:47,689 --> 00:50:51,931 You gained five pounds. Do you want to tell me why do you think that is? 947 00:50:51,965 --> 00:50:56,655 I barely hit 1200 calories a day. Still... I don't understand... 948 00:50:56,689 --> 00:50:59,068 I know what the scale says. I do understand that. 949 00:50:59,103 --> 00:51:00,896 But I don't understand how... 950 00:51:03,896 --> 00:51:06,517 I don't understand how it's continuing to go up whenever 951 00:51:06,551 --> 00:51:09,034 I'm not consuming as many calories. 952 00:51:12,896 --> 00:51:15,586 You know that's not the reality, okay? 953 00:51:15,620 --> 00:51:20,655 There is no way you're gonna gain weight if you are eating 1200 calorie a day. 954 00:51:20,689 --> 00:51:23,517 That is not humanly possible that happened. 955 00:51:23,551 --> 00:51:24,965 You eating 6000 to 7000 956 00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:27,034 calorie a day to make gain that weight. 957 00:51:27,068 --> 00:51:28,827 [Delana] Mm-mm. No, sir. 958 00:51:28,862 --> 00:51:30,827 I have been trying to change my eating habits. 959 00:51:31,862 --> 00:51:34,206 This is just arguing with the scale. 960 00:51:34,241 --> 00:51:36,137 I'm not trying to make excuses because I'm... 961 00:51:36,172 --> 00:51:38,310 I know I messed up and I'm just trying to fix that. 962 00:51:38,344 --> 00:51:40,034 So... 963 00:51:40,068 --> 00:51:42,620 So what is your plan at this point? 964 00:51:42,655 --> 00:51:44,965 My plan is to come on down to Houston 965 00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:48,724 and do my best and lose the weight. 966 00:51:49,517 --> 00:51:51,862 Period. 967 00:51:51,896 --> 00:51:54,965 Delana, if you want to take the risk and move to Houston, that's fine. 968 00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:59,206 But the reality is, you're not following your diet. Okay? 969 00:51:59,241 --> 00:52:01,137 If you eat less, you're gonna lose weight. 970 00:52:01,172 --> 00:52:03,965 So, you wanna take the chance and move down to Houston? 971 00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:06,620 That would be pointless. Unless you start to make the 972 00:52:06,655 --> 00:52:08,758 choices you need to change your life. 973 00:52:08,793 --> 00:52:12,275 -[Delana] Right. Yes, sir. - You understand that? 974 00:52:12,310 --> 00:52:17,379 So if you lose 55 pounds to cover the goal I gave you, plus the five pounds 975 00:52:17,413 --> 00:52:22,551 then we will move ahead with you. If not, then it won't matter if you're in Houston 976 00:52:22,586 --> 00:52:23,620 if you move here. 977 00:52:23,655 --> 00:52:25,931 Because we're not gonna move ahead with you. 978 00:52:26,413 --> 00:52:27,896 Okay. 979 00:52:27,931 --> 00:52:29,896 If you need anything, you may call. 980 00:52:29,931 --> 00:52:32,103 I hope I'll see you in two months. 981 00:52:32,137 --> 00:52:33,275 [Delana] Yes, sir. 982 00:52:33,310 --> 00:52:34,965 - All right, bye now. -Bye bye. 983 00:52:40,620 --> 00:52:42,344 [Delana] I... 984 00:52:42,379 --> 00:52:44,689 have done everything that I know to do to cut back. 985 00:52:47,862 --> 00:52:49,034 Um... 986 00:52:52,103 --> 00:52:54,448 I don't understand how I'm gaining weight. 987 00:52:55,620 --> 00:52:58,103 I do understand that it's my fault. 988 00:52:58,137 --> 00:53:00,068 I know that it's something that I'm doing. 989 00:53:04,586 --> 00:53:06,137 [sighs] 990 00:53:12,206 --> 00:53:13,758 Yet I know I'm the only one that can fix it. 991 00:53:15,103 --> 00:53:16,103 So... 992 00:53:18,068 --> 00:53:23,965 moving forward, the only thing I can do is focus more on what I put into my body. 993 00:53:25,172 --> 00:53:29,586 Liquid as far as drinks, food, what have you. 994 00:53:29,620 --> 00:53:34,413 And just keep track of the calories and everything closer. 995 00:53:35,275 --> 00:53:36,965 So that I don't... 996 00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:43,310 So that I can get it down. Because I've got to do something. 997 00:54:20,551 --> 00:54:21,931 [Delana] Is it hot out there? 998 00:54:21,965 --> 00:54:23,413 [James panting] Yeah. 999 00:54:25,344 --> 00:54:28,068 There's no way you can get in the back of the truck, is there? 1000 00:54:28,103 --> 00:54:30,586 I need some help getting that stuff moved around. 1001 00:54:30,620 --> 00:54:33,344 There's not a whole lotta heavy lifting. It's just 1002 00:54:33,379 --> 00:54:36,551 stuff moving around in the truck while it's already there. 1003 00:54:36,586 --> 00:54:41,620 If I wasn't afraid of heights, and then my weight, and then going ka-thunk on my booty 1004 00:54:41,655 --> 00:54:43,793 again... Maybe Myra can help. 1005 00:54:43,827 --> 00:54:46,034 She's a little on the lighter side compared to me. 1006 00:54:46,068 --> 00:54:48,931 [Delana] It's been a couple of weeks since my last weigh-in. 1007 00:54:48,965 --> 00:54:52,517 And I've been eating less and less in order to get that weight off of me. 1008 00:54:52,551 --> 00:54:54,827 It feels like I'm barely eating at all now. 1009 00:54:54,862 --> 00:54:59,448 And whenever he comes in and asks if I can assist, 1010 00:54:59,482 --> 00:55:01,931 with being in the U-Haul or something like that, 1011 00:55:03,068 --> 00:55:05,241 it's devastating that I can't. 1012 00:55:05,275 --> 00:55:08,517 A few years ago, I would've been out there right with him. 1013 00:55:08,551 --> 00:55:09,862 Like, literally lifting 1014 00:55:09,896 --> 00:55:13,344 the stuff, putting it in the U-Haul, no problem. 1015 00:55:13,379 --> 00:55:15,413 [James] Get this while you're up there. 1016 00:55:15,448 --> 00:55:17,413 [Myra] She might need this. 1017 00:55:17,448 --> 00:55:20,827 But there's good news because we have our place in Houston all lined up. 1018 00:55:20,862 --> 00:55:23,724 And we're packing up to get ready to move. Which, it looks like 1019 00:55:23,758 --> 00:55:27,068 James is even gonna be able to transfer his job to Houston. 1020 00:55:27,103 --> 00:55:29,551 That might mean we can actually make ends meet. 1021 00:55:29,586 --> 00:55:31,206 And I really wanna get out of here today. 1022 00:55:36,551 --> 00:55:38,482 Our vehicle's still not working quite right. 1023 00:55:40,206 --> 00:55:42,379 So we're gonna have to drive a rental car. 1024 00:55:42,413 --> 00:55:45,068 What we'd like to do is just tow our car behind the U-Haul 1025 00:55:45,103 --> 00:55:47,172 so we can get it fixed while we're down in Houston. 1026 00:55:48,793 --> 00:55:50,689 -[Delana] Who's here! -[Sharon] Hey! 1027 00:55:53,379 --> 00:55:55,586 I got your medicine and your lotion and stuff. 1028 00:55:55,620 --> 00:55:58,551 Oh, thank you. I forgot about that stuff. Okay. 1029 00:55:58,586 --> 00:56:01,034 [Delana] Sharon's my biological mom. She's gonna drive the moving van 1030 00:56:01,068 --> 00:56:04,275 which is a big help. Because neither me or James have 1031 00:56:04,310 --> 00:56:07,827 ever done that before. But mom has and she's cool with helping. 1032 00:56:09,068 --> 00:56:10,413 [Delana] So how was your evening? 1033 00:56:10,448 --> 00:56:11,379 You finally get some sleep? 1034 00:56:13,586 --> 00:56:16,965 [Sharon] I've been up since 4:00. I'm just not feeling good, Delana. 1035 00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,241 I just don't see how I can make that trip. 1036 00:56:19,275 --> 00:56:21,931 -Okay. -Honest to God, I don't know how I can do it. 1037 00:56:22,896 --> 00:56:26,137 'Cause I'm... That COVID. 1038 00:56:27,137 --> 00:56:28,862 It's still kicking my butt. 1039 00:56:28,896 --> 00:56:30,379 Okay. 1040 00:56:30,413 --> 00:56:31,413 [Sharon] You know I'm here 1041 00:56:31,448 --> 00:56:34,379 to support you every inch of the way. 1042 00:56:34,413 --> 00:56:37,137 And if I felt like I could make the trip, you know I would. 1043 00:56:39,586 --> 00:56:41,827 You know I'd bust my butt to help you. 1044 00:56:44,620 --> 00:56:46,620 But right now I don't see how I can do it. 1045 00:56:50,344 --> 00:56:53,068 You know you can call me and FaceTime me any time. 1046 00:56:55,724 --> 00:56:56,620 But this is just... 1047 00:56:58,137 --> 00:56:59,413 I really thought I could do it. 1048 00:57:01,206 --> 00:57:02,517 But I feel like... 1049 00:57:03,689 --> 00:57:08,034 You know. I feel bad because I can't do it. 1050 00:57:08,068 --> 00:57:12,034 It's not that I don't want to do it. It's that I physically can't do it. 1051 00:57:12,068 --> 00:57:13,724 I just don't feel good. 1052 00:57:13,758 --> 00:57:18,793 I hope you can find somebody that'll help you do it. 1053 00:57:18,827 --> 00:57:23,517 I'm saying you could get in the truck 'cause it's got a big seat. 1054 00:57:25,724 --> 00:57:27,137 She can't get up in the U-Haul. 1055 00:57:28,620 --> 00:57:30,827 Maybe with a step stool. 1056 00:57:30,862 --> 00:57:33,206 [Delana] I wouldn't even attempt it because I'd fall on my ass. 1057 00:57:33,241 --> 00:57:35,965 And then I'd break a bone and then I'd be in bed forever. 1058 00:57:37,655 --> 00:57:41,620 Like I said, I'm sorry. I've done the best I can. 1059 00:57:41,655 --> 00:57:43,965 And I know that it's not gonna be a good trip for me. 1060 00:57:44,275 --> 00:57:45,103 Right. 1061 00:57:48,689 --> 00:57:49,655 So... 1062 00:57:52,551 --> 00:57:53,827 Okay. 1063 00:57:54,758 --> 00:57:56,827 I'm gonna go before it gets any worse. 1064 00:57:57,862 --> 00:57:59,034 I love you, Delana. 1065 00:58:00,758 --> 00:58:02,172 -Love you, James. -You too. 1066 00:58:03,206 --> 00:58:04,586 Y'all take care. 1067 00:58:18,413 --> 00:58:21,103 [Delana] I don't know what I'm gonna do at this point. 1068 00:58:21,137 --> 00:58:23,034 'Cause I don't know anyone else who can help me. 1069 00:58:30,310 --> 00:58:32,206 Feels like I've been abandoned. 1070 00:58:48,724 --> 00:58:49,896 -[Danny] Hello? -Hey. 1071 00:58:51,034 --> 00:58:52,379 - Hey. -What are you doing? 1072 00:58:54,655 --> 00:58:56,896 - I'm taking Nana to the doctor. -Okay. 1073 00:58:58,551 --> 00:59:00,827 - Okay. -I need your help. 1074 00:59:00,862 --> 00:59:03,000 Really, truly. I need your help. 1075 00:59:04,517 --> 00:59:06,793 - What? -Sharon has backed out. 1076 00:59:06,827 --> 00:59:09,586 She is not going to Houston at all. 1077 00:59:09,620 --> 00:59:13,724 We have the U-Haul packed. We are ready to [bleep] go. 1078 00:59:13,758 --> 00:59:16,482 [sobs] 1079 00:59:16,517 --> 00:59:19,586 Please, I just need help. [sniffles] 1080 00:59:22,172 --> 00:59:23,482 [Danny] Oh, boy. 1081 00:59:24,310 --> 00:59:25,586 Uh... 1082 00:59:29,206 --> 00:59:30,310 Okay. 1083 00:59:30,344 --> 00:59:32,137 Oh, my God. 1084 00:59:32,172 --> 00:59:35,310 Thank you. Thank you, I really appreciate it. 1085 00:59:35,344 --> 00:59:36,517 You have no clue. 1086 00:59:37,137 --> 00:59:38,517 [garbled sounds] 1087 00:59:38,551 --> 00:59:41,172 Do you know you're, like, literally the only person in 1088 00:59:41,206 --> 00:59:43,344 the family that I've ever been able to depend on? 1089 00:59:44,310 --> 00:59:45,965 [sniffles] Ever? 1090 00:59:49,793 --> 00:59:54,413 Once my mom told me she was unable to make it, I made a phone call to my brother 1091 00:59:55,275 --> 00:59:57,482 who lives in North Carolina. 1092 00:59:57,517 --> 01:00:02,862 He takes care of my elderly mother. The one who adopted me. 1093 01:00:02,896 --> 01:00:05,551 The one who's here was my biological mom. 1094 01:00:05,586 --> 01:00:07,103 With everything that's 1095 01:00:07,137 --> 01:00:10,655 happening, he's volunteered to go ahead and drive the U-Haul to Houston. 1096 01:00:11,344 --> 01:00:12,896 I'll let you go. I love you. 1097 01:00:12,931 --> 01:00:15,000 -Bye. -[Danny] Bye. 1098 01:00:15,034 --> 01:00:16,000 [call disconnects] 1099 01:00:16,034 --> 01:00:17,103 [Delana] So he is coming over 1100 01:00:17,827 --> 01:00:20,034 My daughter will be with him. 1101 01:00:20,068 --> 01:00:24,241 My daughter and I haven't really spoke in about six months or so. 1102 01:00:24,275 --> 01:00:26,310 I haven't even met my granddaughter. 1103 01:00:41,310 --> 01:00:45,344 [Delana] My brother is coming over to go ahead and drive the U-Haul to Houston. 1104 01:00:48,137 --> 01:00:50,379 My daughter will be with him. 1105 01:00:50,413 --> 01:00:54,413 So I am literally meeting my granddaughter for the first time. 1106 01:00:54,448 --> 01:00:56,758 The day that I am leaving for Houston. 1107 01:00:56,793 --> 01:00:58,965 So it's kind of a double-edged sword? 1108 01:01:00,482 --> 01:01:01,931 I'm super grateful to get to meet her. 1109 01:01:03,896 --> 01:01:08,862 But I'm heartbroken because I'm only meeting her for one time 1110 01:01:08,896 --> 01:01:13,689 and maybe an hour, and then that's it for a year or more. 1111 01:01:15,034 --> 01:01:19,103 Come on in. Come here, boys. Come here. Hi. Pretty dress. 1112 01:01:19,689 --> 01:01:21,931 -Well, hello. -Hi. 1113 01:01:25,103 --> 01:01:27,413 -[Danny] Howdy, Sis. -[Delana] Hi, how are you? 1114 01:01:27,448 --> 01:01:28,344 [Danny] All right. How are you? 1115 01:01:28,379 --> 01:01:29,827 -Good. Love you. -Love you. 1116 01:01:29,862 --> 01:01:33,241 -Hey, buddy. How are ya? -[James] Hi. Good. 1117 01:01:33,275 --> 01:01:35,241 -Who's that little sweety? -[Chelsey] Watch out. 1118 01:01:37,206 --> 01:01:39,655 [overlapping conversations] 1119 01:01:41,275 --> 01:01:44,000 -[Delana] Can I hold her? Is that okay? -Yeah. 1120 01:01:44,034 --> 01:01:45,482 [Savannah] Uh, have fun. She's gonna cry. 1121 01:01:46,137 --> 01:01:47,310 [Delana] Hi, baby. 1122 01:01:48,344 --> 01:01:49,793 Aww. 1123 01:01:49,827 --> 01:01:50,965 [Savannah] You gotta fix your bow. 1124 01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:55,655 -This is what I was worried about. -[cooing continues] 1125 01:01:56,517 --> 01:01:58,620 I was worried about you. 1126 01:01:58,655 --> 01:02:02,310 And yes you're crying for more food and yes you're spitting up. 1127 01:02:04,068 --> 01:02:06,413 -[Delana] Aww you're squishy. -[Savannah] Boys. 1128 01:02:07,034 --> 01:02:08,344 [baby fussing] 1129 01:02:11,379 --> 01:02:13,413 [baby crying] 1130 01:02:13,448 --> 01:02:15,827 -Look at him, he's shaking. -[Danny laughs] 1131 01:02:16,862 --> 01:02:18,413 [crying continues] 1132 01:02:18,448 --> 01:02:21,000 "What is this? Why did you bring a tiny screaming alien?" 1133 01:02:21,827 --> 01:02:23,137 -[Delana] Hi. -[baby coughing] 1134 01:02:31,517 --> 01:02:35,000 [Savannah] I haven't seen my mom in six months. 1135 01:02:35,482 --> 01:02:37,000 We had a really 1136 01:02:37,034 --> 01:02:41,000 love-hate relationship whenever I was growing up. 1137 01:02:41,034 --> 01:02:45,241 Um, she wasn't really present in my life. 1138 01:02:45,275 --> 01:02:47,379 From what I remember, my grandma, 1139 01:02:47,413 --> 01:02:49,275 her adopted mom raised me. 1140 01:02:49,310 --> 01:02:52,827 And she would just show up to be a mom whenever it was convenient for her. 1141 01:02:52,862 --> 01:02:56,793 Her weight has always had like an issue on our relationship 1142 01:02:56,827 --> 01:02:59,310 cause she would project her 1143 01:02:59,344 --> 01:03:01,275 weight insecurities onto me and say, 1144 01:03:01,310 --> 01:03:05,448 "Oh, don't do this, da da da da da you'll, like you'll end up being my size." 1145 01:03:05,482 --> 01:03:07,586 And that gave me body dysmorphia 1146 01:03:07,620 --> 01:03:10,655 and I've struggled with eating disorders my whole life because of it. 1147 01:03:12,068 --> 01:03:12,965 Hey. 1148 01:03:14,103 --> 01:03:16,275 [indistinct conversation] 1149 01:03:16,310 --> 01:03:18,413 Hopefully when you see me next time... 1150 01:03:18,448 --> 01:03:21,413 -I will be three people smaller. -Good. 1151 01:03:21,448 --> 01:03:22,724 Three people smaller. 1152 01:03:22,758 --> 01:03:25,551 -Then you can come see us. -Yes. 1153 01:03:25,586 --> 01:03:26,448 I love you. 1154 01:03:26,482 --> 01:03:27,482 [sighs] 1155 01:03:29,758 --> 01:03:31,413 [baby cooing] 1156 01:03:31,448 --> 01:03:33,965 [Delana] Seeing my grandbaby, that was awesome. 1157 01:03:35,172 --> 01:03:37,586 There's not words to describe what it was like. 1158 01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:40,724 'Cause she's perfect. 1159 01:03:40,758 --> 01:03:42,758 -I love you. -[Delana] I love you too. 1160 01:03:42,793 --> 01:03:45,275 They give me the motivation to get the weight off. 1161 01:03:45,310 --> 01:03:46,793 Because I wanna be around long enough 1162 01:03:46,827 --> 01:03:48,620 to see my granddaughter grow up. 1163 01:03:48,655 --> 01:03:50,379 No matter how hard it is. 1164 01:03:50,413 --> 01:03:51,965 Cause we're taking her to [bleep] Disney World. 1165 01:03:54,586 --> 01:03:55,931 Period. 1166 01:03:55,965 --> 01:03:57,000 And I'm riding Dumbo with her. 1167 01:03:57,724 --> 01:03:58,793 Never shoved that. 1168 01:04:00,620 --> 01:04:04,620 So as of now, we are staying here one more night. [chuckles] 1169 01:04:04,655 --> 01:04:08,689 We're going to leave out tomorrow morning, headed to Houston. 1170 01:04:18,517 --> 01:04:20,862 -[Danny] We made it to Texas. -[Delana] Finally. 1171 01:04:24,206 --> 01:04:26,103 It seems like it's a long time coming 1172 01:04:26,137 --> 01:04:28,827 and it kind of doesn't seem real.[chuckles] 1173 01:04:28,862 --> 01:04:31,103 It's not going to be real until I'm actually there. 1174 01:04:47,655 --> 01:04:50,068 This whole time has been really stressful. 1175 01:04:50,103 --> 01:04:53,275 But at this point, I just have to believe everything's gonna work out. 1176 01:04:53,310 --> 01:04:55,034 Because everything has worked out so far. 1177 01:05:21,068 --> 01:05:22,241 Now that we're finally here, 1178 01:05:22,275 --> 01:05:24,137 I can breathe a sigh of relief. 1179 01:05:24,172 --> 01:05:27,379 And I'll be able to really start focusing on my diet and exercise 1180 01:05:27,413 --> 01:05:29,724 to make sure that I'm ready for my next Dr. Now appointment. 1181 01:05:32,206 --> 01:05:34,034 There is still a lot of work to do unloading. 1182 01:05:34,068 --> 01:05:36,793 I wish I could help more, but I really just can't. 1183 01:05:36,827 --> 01:05:38,724 So, I'm just gonna be a cheerleader I guess. 1184 01:05:51,724 --> 01:05:55,206 So, we made it to Houston. We are currently at the house. 1185 01:05:55,241 --> 01:05:57,793 The U-Haul is almost completely unpacked. 1186 01:05:57,827 --> 01:06:00,586 Um, trying to get it-- last little bit done 1187 01:06:00,620 --> 01:06:03,586 cause Danny has to catch a flight out tonight. 1188 01:06:03,620 --> 01:06:08,517 So, we're gonna... try to get me in and say goodbyes and 1189 01:06:09,758 --> 01:06:11,655 then get him on the road and 1190 01:06:12,517 --> 01:06:14,310 start unpacking, little by little. 1191 01:06:14,344 --> 01:06:16,310 And get some curtains up, cause I don't wanna see everybody. 1192 01:06:24,620 --> 01:06:25,448 [breathing heavily] 1193 01:06:43,344 --> 01:06:44,448 [sighs wearily] 1194 01:06:44,482 --> 01:06:45,310 I got you. 1195 01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:48,517 I'll have to explore in a minute. 1196 01:06:48,551 --> 01:06:50,344 I can't resist that good. [chuckles] 1197 01:06:50,379 --> 01:06:51,793 but... [sighs] 1198 01:06:51,827 --> 01:06:53,758 -I'm in the house. -Yeah. 1199 01:06:53,793 --> 01:06:55,241 -Right? -Yeah. 1200 01:06:55,275 --> 01:06:56,965 I'm sitting on I don't know what it is. 1201 01:06:57,000 --> 01:06:57,931 I hope I didn't break nothing. 1202 01:06:59,034 --> 01:06:59,862 [exhales] 1203 01:07:01,379 --> 01:07:03,310 -Yeah. -What time is your plane? 1204 01:07:03,344 --> 01:07:04,586 -[Danny] I got to go. -[James] Thank you very much. 1205 01:07:04,620 --> 01:07:05,517 [Delana] I'm sorry, Daniel. 1206 01:07:07,103 --> 01:07:08,689 -All right, bye. I love you. -I love you too. 1207 01:07:09,689 --> 01:07:11,000 Change clothes before you go. 1208 01:07:11,034 --> 01:07:12,379 -I love you. -[Danny] I love you too. 1209 01:07:12,413 --> 01:07:14,241 -Bye. -Bye. I love you, thank you. 1210 01:07:14,275 --> 01:07:15,931 -Congratulations. -Thank you. [both] 1211 01:07:17,068 --> 01:07:19,137 So this is gonna be our home for a little while. 1212 01:07:19,172 --> 01:07:20,551 I kind of like it. 1213 01:07:20,586 --> 01:07:22,862 I'd like it even more if my bed was set up so I could rest. 1214 01:07:24,379 --> 01:07:26,896 There we go, now this is normal. 1215 01:07:26,931 --> 01:07:29,517 -[James chuckles] -Now we're getting normal. [chuckles] 1216 01:07:40,103 --> 01:07:40,931 Hey, babe. 1217 01:07:41,689 --> 01:07:43,172 Nothing. 1218 01:07:43,206 --> 01:07:45,862 Just waiting on James to get back with some food cause we're hungry. 1219 01:07:47,862 --> 01:07:49,413 Hi! 1220 01:07:49,448 --> 01:07:52,000 Yes, I'm in the calorie zone. Thank you. 1221 01:07:52,482 --> 01:07:53,724 [laughing] 1222 01:07:55,862 --> 01:07:56,965 I know. 1223 01:07:57,000 --> 01:07:59,206 He just got back, so let me let you go, okay babe. 1224 01:08:01,137 --> 01:08:02,482 I love you too. I'll talk to you later. 1225 01:08:03,172 --> 01:08:04,000 -All right, bye. -Bye. 1226 01:08:04,655 --> 01:08:05,482 [call disconnects] 1227 01:08:07,931 --> 01:08:09,724 So, even from Tennessee, she's griping at me, 1228 01:08:09,758 --> 01:08:10,724 to make sure I'm in the calorie. 1229 01:08:11,172 --> 01:08:12,896 [chuckles] 1230 01:08:12,931 --> 01:08:14,793 -I guess that's one way to do it, huh? -Yup. 1231 01:08:18,930 --> 01:08:20,103 [Delana] Since we've been down in Houston, 1232 01:08:20,136 --> 01:08:22,758 I've been taking my diet really seriously. 1233 01:08:22,792 --> 01:08:24,448 Because I need to be ready for Dr. Now 1234 01:08:24,482 --> 01:08:27,482 at the next appointment in a couple of weeks. 1235 01:08:27,517 --> 01:08:31,136 I'll called him and told him that we moved down here, and he set an appointment. 1236 01:08:31,171 --> 01:08:33,551 So now, I just have to make my goal by then. 1237 01:08:33,586 --> 01:08:35,551 Because I have to move ahead and get the surgery. 1238 01:08:36,448 --> 01:08:37,412 I can't mess this up. 1239 01:08:37,448 --> 01:08:39,379 That's why I'm working this hard. 1240 01:08:39,412 --> 01:08:41,930 And that's why I have so much anxiety. 1241 01:08:41,965 --> 01:08:43,310 But I know, I'm gonna be able to do it. 1242 01:08:43,344 --> 01:08:44,792 I know I have to think positive. 1243 01:08:54,517 --> 01:08:56,448 -You're gonna save that half for later? -[Delana] Yeah. 1244 01:09:16,482 --> 01:09:17,274 [Delana] Thank you. 1245 01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:23,274 Thank you. Sorry. 1246 01:09:25,895 --> 01:09:27,448 -Need the stool? -No. 1247 01:09:29,241 --> 01:09:31,412 [Delana] Today's the day that I'm headed into the clinic. 1248 01:09:31,448 --> 01:09:34,930 Just getting in to get the leverage that I needed. 1249 01:09:34,965 --> 01:09:38,412 I have to hit this goal because of my whole chance to get help. 1250 01:09:38,448 --> 01:09:41,586 And my whole life is really depending on the weight loss that I can show. 1251 01:09:42,654 --> 01:09:43,482 [breathing heavily] 1252 01:09:59,482 --> 01:10:00,551 Delana. 1253 01:10:02,965 --> 01:10:05,724 At my last appointment, I was 651 pounds 1254 01:10:06,689 --> 01:10:08,655 Dr. Now told me to lose 55 pounds. 1255 01:10:10,344 --> 01:10:14,103 So if I did that, I would be 596 pounds or lower today. 1256 01:10:17,241 --> 01:10:18,034 [breathing heavily] 1257 01:10:36,068 --> 01:10:37,517 [James] Holy crap. 1258 01:10:37,551 --> 01:10:38,379 [sniffles] 1259 01:10:40,275 --> 01:10:42,827 I'm very happy. Just the fact of being able to lose any 1260 01:10:42,862 --> 01:10:46,310 makes you happy, but losing that amount is like... 1261 01:10:47,103 --> 01:10:48,379 Over-the-moon ecstatic. 1262 01:10:50,103 --> 01:10:51,310 After seeing that weigh-in, 1263 01:10:51,344 --> 01:10:54,482 I'm very proud of Delana for the hard work she has put in. 1264 01:10:54,517 --> 01:10:57,310 [James] I'm very excited to see what Dr. Now has to say today. 1265 01:10:59,448 --> 01:11:01,103 [Delana] I really hope the doctor's happy with that, 1266 01:11:01,137 --> 01:11:03,000 because I want him to see how seriousI am. 1267 01:11:04,241 --> 01:11:06,206 And know how important getting this help, is to me. 1268 01:11:09,241 --> 01:11:10,034 [knock on door] 1269 01:11:13,655 --> 01:11:15,620 -Hello, how you all doing? -[Delana] Fine, good. 1270 01:11:19,965 --> 01:11:22,793 Well, what changes did you make this time? 1271 01:11:23,689 --> 01:11:25,344 This is the first time in eight months 1272 01:11:25,379 --> 01:11:27,655 that I've seen you being able to lose weight, huh? 1273 01:11:28,655 --> 01:11:30,965 I... proportioned. 1274 01:11:31,896 --> 01:11:33,724 -Just portion control? -Yeah. 1275 01:11:33,758 --> 01:11:36,551 [Dr. Now] And hopefully eating only two or three times a day, right? 1276 01:11:36,793 --> 01:11:37,827 Yes. 1277 01:11:37,862 --> 01:11:40,137 And he's not trying to bring you some food 1278 01:11:40,172 --> 01:11:42,620 -to let you know that he loves you, right? -No. 1279 01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:43,827 [chuckles] 1280 01:11:45,724 --> 01:11:49,482 -All right, so you think you can continue with this? -Yes. 1281 01:11:50,862 --> 01:11:53,172 -Well, I'm proud of your progress. -Thank you. 1282 01:11:53,206 --> 01:11:57,689 And, if you keep this up and lose another 40 pounds next month, 1283 01:11:57,724 --> 01:11:59,827 -then you'd be ready for surgery. -Okay. 1284 01:11:59,862 --> 01:12:02,034 So, I'm gonna approve you for surgery 1285 01:12:02,068 --> 01:12:05,068 -providing if you lose another 40 pounds. -Okay. 1286 01:12:05,103 --> 01:12:08,724 Okay, so if you lose that next month, 1287 01:12:08,758 --> 01:12:10,517 then we proceed with your surgery, 1288 01:12:10,551 --> 01:12:13,517 -and that's gonna help you to lose more weight. -Okay. 1289 01:12:13,551 --> 01:12:17,448 -and be able to cope with the eating habit much easier. -Right. 1290 01:12:18,034 --> 01:12:19,689 -Okay? -Yes. 1291 01:12:19,724 --> 01:12:21,413 -Is that a good news for you? -Yes, it is. 1292 01:12:21,862 --> 01:12:23,206 [Dr. Now] Okay. 1293 01:12:23,241 --> 01:12:26,931 -How is your activity doing? -I've been doing your exercises, um 1294 01:12:26,965 --> 01:12:28,586 I walk around the house. 1295 01:12:29,413 --> 01:12:30,965 -I'm afraid of falling... -Mmm-hmm. 1296 01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:34,896 So I don't do as much outside as I probably should but I do still do inside. 1297 01:12:35,379 --> 01:12:36,448 Okay. 1298 01:12:36,482 --> 01:12:38,517 All right, so, this is the 1299 01:12:38,551 --> 01:12:41,586 positive changes you start making and turning around 1300 01:12:41,620 --> 01:12:46,344 but the problem is that you still have a BMI of 103 1301 01:12:46,379 --> 01:12:49,068 and that makes it very risky for doing 1302 01:12:49,103 --> 01:12:51,586 any kind of surgical procedure. 1303 01:12:51,620 --> 01:12:55,034 So, you have to continue losing weight, 1304 01:12:55,068 --> 01:12:58,275 and if you lose another 40 pounds, I think that may be 1305 01:12:58,310 --> 01:13:01,103 -put you in the less risk category. -Okay. 1306 01:13:01,137 --> 01:13:03,827 So, I'm gonna schedule you for doing some testing 1307 01:13:03,862 --> 01:13:06,827 -and make sure everything is okay. -Okay. 1308 01:13:06,862 --> 01:13:09,965 And see how we're gonna proceed with that. 1309 01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:11,827 But don't take this victory lap 1310 01:13:11,862 --> 01:13:14,689 -and go back to your old eating habit. -No. 1311 01:13:14,724 --> 01:13:19,000 Okay, so you got anything to help her with that? 1312 01:13:19,034 --> 01:13:22,172 [chuckles] I mean, she's worked hard. 1313 01:13:22,206 --> 01:13:24,172 She really has. She's, uh, 1314 01:13:24,206 --> 01:13:27,655 you know she's only eaten pretty much two times a day, 1315 01:13:27,689 --> 01:13:32,517 um, even if she like eats breakfast, she eats an 80-calorie no-fat yogurt. 1316 01:13:32,551 --> 01:13:34,344 You know, that's what she has for breakfast. 1317 01:13:34,379 --> 01:13:36,827 All right, and you're supporting her right? 1318 01:13:36,862 --> 01:13:40,241 Yes sir, I've been upset with her a little bit the last few days. 1319 01:13:40,275 --> 01:13:42,103 -Why? -Cause I didn't think 1320 01:13:42,137 --> 01:13:44,655 she was taking it as serious as I thought she should be. 1321 01:13:45,551 --> 01:13:47,172 But, she proved me wrong. 1322 01:13:47,206 --> 01:13:51,137 So, this is very positive now, trying to convince yourself 1323 01:13:51,172 --> 01:13:53,241 that you're never gonna be able to do that, 1324 01:13:53,275 --> 01:13:55,275 but you proved that you can turn around 1325 01:13:55,310 --> 01:13:57,931 -and make the changes right? -Yes, sir. 1326 01:13:57,965 --> 01:14:00,517 All right, just stick with doing that and if you lose that weight 1327 01:14:00,551 --> 01:14:03,655 -then we proceed with your weight loss surgery. -Okay. 1328 01:14:03,689 --> 01:14:05,034 -[Dr. Now] Okay? -[James] All right. 1329 01:14:05,068 --> 01:14:06,379 All right, any questions? 1330 01:14:07,482 --> 01:14:09,034 [both] No, sir. 1331 01:14:09,068 --> 01:14:12,655 All right. Wish you good luck with your eating habit and stick with that 1332 01:14:12,689 --> 01:14:16,206 -and we are proud of your progress and keep it up. -Thank you. 1333 01:14:16,241 --> 01:14:17,241 -[Dr. Now] Okay? -Yes sir. Thank you. 1334 01:14:17,275 --> 01:14:18,068 -All right. -[Delana] Thank you. 1335 01:14:28,862 --> 01:14:30,586 It was very nice to hear the doctor 1336 01:14:30,620 --> 01:14:32,827 actually say that he was finally proud of something. 1337 01:14:32,862 --> 01:14:37,551 Cause it's just, hearing that anybody's proud of me for doing anything, 1338 01:14:37,586 --> 01:14:40,310 it makes you feel good. 1339 01:14:40,344 --> 01:14:42,206 But knowing that it's Dr. Now, 1340 01:14:42,241 --> 01:14:44,482 saying that he's proud of you for doing something, 1341 01:14:44,517 --> 01:14:46,724 it's like, "Hmm, I did something right." 1342 01:15:11,724 --> 01:15:13,000 You're gonna be fine. 1343 01:15:15,655 --> 01:15:16,482 Okay? 1344 01:15:17,551 --> 01:15:18,827 -I love you. -Love you too. 1345 01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:21,586 -I'm so scared you know. -I know. 1346 01:15:26,206 --> 01:15:29,241 We are about to do the surgery. 1347 01:15:29,275 --> 01:15:32,931 So, I'm still rather nervous and excited and anxious. 1348 01:15:32,965 --> 01:15:36,931 and petrified and I don't know what other emotions 1349 01:15:36,965 --> 01:15:39,689 I can elaborate right now, but they're all there. 1350 01:15:39,724 --> 01:15:42,379 I'm nervous that I won't wake up. 1351 01:15:43,620 --> 01:15:46,517 I'm overweight. They're gonna do an operation. 1352 01:15:46,551 --> 01:15:49,034 It's, my heart may not be able to take it. 1353 01:15:49,068 --> 01:15:50,482 Who knows? 1354 01:15:50,517 --> 01:15:52,000 [nurse] Mistletoe here, mistletoe there 1355 01:15:52,034 --> 01:15:53,655 -for hug and kiss before surgery. -[all chuckling] 1356 01:15:56,275 --> 01:15:57,482 -I love you. -Love you too. 1357 01:15:59,034 --> 01:16:00,379 This is the next chapter in my life. 1358 01:16:00,413 --> 01:16:03,379 This surgery is definitely the next chapter. 1359 01:16:03,413 --> 01:16:05,068 Every day is a new beginning. 1360 01:16:05,103 --> 01:16:07,448 But this is just a whole new chapter. 1361 01:16:07,482 --> 01:16:11,068 It's not been written yet. 1362 01:16:11,103 --> 01:16:13,068 That's what we're doing. We're writing it. 1363 01:16:18,827 --> 01:16:20,379 [nurse] Just right outside. 1364 01:16:21,172 --> 01:16:22,896 [indistinct conversation] 1365 01:16:25,655 --> 01:16:28,068 [Dr. Now] Today, we are attempting to perform 1366 01:16:28,103 --> 01:16:30,275 a gastric sleeve on Delana. 1367 01:16:37,344 --> 01:16:43,275 She is down to 539. She lost another 39 pounds in the last two months. 1368 01:16:44,862 --> 01:16:48,793 And I'm very happy to see that she continue making good progress. 1369 01:17:04,551 --> 01:17:05,862 [Dr. Now] Turn the room light off. 1370 01:17:07,206 --> 01:17:11,517 Magnification is at 30 degree. 1371 01:17:11,551 --> 01:17:15,379 So, I have no doubt she is ready to take this step today. 1372 01:17:15,413 --> 01:17:19,310 But Delana is still a very high risk at her wight. 1373 01:17:19,344 --> 01:17:23,172 So with that, there is always possibility of complication 1374 01:17:23,206 --> 01:17:26,517 and issues that can put a lot of strain on her body 1375 01:17:26,551 --> 01:17:28,172 that it cannot handle. 1376 01:17:29,068 --> 01:17:30,620 [Dr. Now] Go up. Up. 1377 01:17:34,655 --> 01:17:35,862 All right. Bring the robot. 1378 01:17:48,034 --> 01:17:50,896 All right. I'm going to transition to robot. 1379 01:17:56,517 --> 01:17:59,620 So, if there's anything concerning at any point, 1380 01:17:59,655 --> 01:18:01,344 we'll stop the operation. 1381 01:18:01,379 --> 01:18:06,413 But hopefully, we will be able to use this tool to Delana today. 1382 01:18:06,448 --> 01:18:08,965 Because, what this will do is, 1383 01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:13,103 make it easier for Delana to control her eating habits. 1384 01:18:13,137 --> 01:18:15,344 Because this is an operation that we're gonna take 1385 01:18:15,379 --> 01:18:17,896 almost about 80% of the stomach out 1386 01:18:17,931 --> 01:18:22,310 and leave her with a small, narrow, 20% stomach volume 1387 01:18:22,344 --> 01:18:25,758 that is going to help her to eat less and be able to lose more weight. 1388 01:18:27,793 --> 01:18:31,137 So, this is a very significant and important step 1389 01:18:31,172 --> 01:18:35,344 Delana is taking to get healthy and turn her life around. 1390 01:18:36,862 --> 01:18:38,965 Okay, take the robot away. 1391 01:18:39,931 --> 01:18:41,551 [James] I'm feeling, um, 1392 01:18:41,586 --> 01:18:43,862 both excited and scared. 1393 01:18:43,896 --> 01:18:49,379 Just, I'm excited cause she's been working at this for a long time. 1394 01:18:49,413 --> 01:18:51,241 I'm scared cause, anything could happen. 1395 01:18:53,586 --> 01:18:56,931 I'm worried that something could go wrong and she might not wake up. 1396 01:18:58,103 --> 01:18:59,862 So I'm hoping for the best today. 1397 01:19:03,310 --> 01:19:05,310 [Dr. Now] All right, we can remove the stomach. 1398 01:19:08,275 --> 01:19:10,068 Keep pulling. Keep pulling. Keep pulling. 1399 01:19:12,793 --> 01:19:15,310 All right. Put that on the table over there. 1400 01:19:17,689 --> 01:19:19,482 Okay, we can suture her up. 1401 01:19:21,482 --> 01:19:22,344 Almost done. 1402 01:19:23,862 --> 01:19:25,620 Okay. All finished. 1403 01:19:28,482 --> 01:19:29,344 Turn the room light on. 1404 01:19:38,034 --> 01:19:40,344 Delana's surgery went well. 1405 01:19:40,379 --> 01:19:44,241 We were able to complete the operation without any issues. 1406 01:19:44,275 --> 01:19:47,137 She will be on a liquid diet for the next month. 1407 01:19:47,172 --> 01:19:51,482 And in that time, she should at least lose another 30 pounds. 1408 01:19:51,517 --> 01:19:55,413 And then she should be able to lose at least 20 pounds a month 1409 01:19:55,448 --> 01:19:58,517 until she gets closer to her target weight. 1410 01:19:58,551 --> 01:20:01,689 And if her weight loss slows down at any point 1411 01:20:01,724 --> 01:20:04,655 and she falls below that, it will be indication 1412 01:20:04,689 --> 01:20:06,482 that her emotional issues 1413 01:20:06,517 --> 01:20:10,448 are likely coming to the surface for her and need to be addressed. 1414 01:20:10,482 --> 01:20:13,758 So we will start her psychotherapy at that point. 1415 01:20:13,793 --> 01:20:17,275 But over the last four months, Delana has shown me 1416 01:20:17,310 --> 01:20:18,931 that she's willing to work hard 1417 01:20:18,965 --> 01:20:23,931 to succeed at losing all the weight required, and turning her life around, 1418 01:20:23,965 --> 01:20:27,137 but she has a lot of hard work ahead to do that. 1419 01:20:27,172 --> 01:20:30,793 But I'm confident she will keep at it and in the long term 1420 01:20:30,827 --> 01:20:33,931 we will be able to get her to where she needs. 1421 01:20:33,965 --> 01:20:38,310 To be able to have a chance, at a healthier and happier life. 1422 01:20:58,758 --> 01:21:00,275 -[man] Go enjoy. -[Delana] Thank you. 1423 01:21:02,862 --> 01:21:04,827 It's been about a month since my surgery. 1424 01:21:04,862 --> 01:21:06,275 And Dr. Now says my weight loss is 1425 01:21:06,310 --> 01:21:08,137 right on track with where it should be 1426 01:21:08,172 --> 01:21:11,068 after the liquid diet and everything. 1427 01:21:11,103 --> 01:21:13,586 And he's putting me back on solid foods which is nice and all, 1428 01:21:13,620 --> 01:21:16,724 but it's totally different now how I feel about food. 1429 01:21:16,758 --> 01:21:20,517 It's really weird not having the same appetite, but I kind of love it. 1430 01:21:20,551 --> 01:21:25,137 We are in Houston and we are at an art gallery that is pretty cool actually. 1431 01:21:27,275 --> 01:21:29,724 Since the pounds are coming off, I'm feeling better 1432 01:21:29,758 --> 01:21:31,551 and I'm able to do so much more. 1433 01:21:32,827 --> 01:21:34,275 Today, me and James are just doing 1434 01:21:34,310 --> 01:21:36,448 some leisurely stuff out in the world. 1435 01:21:36,482 --> 01:21:39,034 And we're going to take in this art installation that we heard about. 1436 01:21:40,448 --> 01:21:42,310 A month ago, I wouldn't have been able to do this. 1437 01:21:42,344 --> 01:21:44,551 A month ago, I would have been like, "No, forget it. It ain't happening." 1438 01:21:44,586 --> 01:21:46,551 I'm excited. 1439 01:21:46,586 --> 01:21:47,448 [James] Looks pretty cool. 1440 01:21:49,517 --> 01:21:51,413 Being able to walk around with my husband 1441 01:21:51,448 --> 01:21:53,586 through this art gallery has been... 1442 01:21:55,827 --> 01:21:58,896 I don't even know how to describe it. It's... 1443 01:21:58,931 --> 01:22:02,000 To think that we can do something like this is pretty incredible. 1444 01:22:02,034 --> 01:22:04,517 Because I was in such bad shape less than a year ago. 1445 01:22:06,310 --> 01:22:08,103 And I know I still have a long way to go. 1446 01:22:08,137 --> 01:22:10,103 But for the first time maybe ever, 1447 01:22:10,137 --> 01:22:12,206 I feel like I could make it there. 1448 01:22:12,241 --> 01:22:14,655 Because I actually believe now that I can get my weight down 1449 01:22:14,689 --> 01:22:16,689 like I should and be a changed person. 1450 01:22:19,655 --> 01:22:21,551 I've got the tools and support that I need. 1451 01:22:21,586 --> 01:22:23,275 Now I'm just getting it done. 1452 01:22:29,310 --> 01:22:30,275 There enough room? 1453 01:22:35,172 --> 01:22:36,103 -[James] You having fun? -[Delana] Yes. 1454 01:22:37,137 --> 01:22:38,137 -[Delana] Are you? -[James] Yeah. 1455 01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:42,965 There is all sorts of different little rooms. 1456 01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:46,482 So, all sort of different little neat things. Really cool. 1457 01:22:53,034 --> 01:22:55,034 [James] I could sit here all day and watch you enjoy this. 1458 01:23:05,620 --> 01:23:08,655 I can't remember the last time I went to a bar and shot some pool. 1459 01:23:08,689 --> 01:23:09,965 Which one are you going for? 1460 01:23:11,517 --> 01:23:13,517 I don't know. 1461 01:23:13,551 --> 01:23:16,241 It's been years and years, but James wanted to take me out tonight 1462 01:23:16,275 --> 01:23:17,413 So, I said what the heck. 1463 01:23:18,758 --> 01:23:21,344 I'm still embarrassed by my size out in public. 1464 01:23:21,379 --> 01:23:23,896 But it doesn't feel as bad because I don't feel as trapped. 1465 01:23:25,068 --> 01:23:26,448 I'm changing my circumstances 1466 01:23:26,482 --> 01:23:28,103 and I'm headed in the right direction. 1467 01:23:28,137 --> 01:23:30,103 And any negativity I catch 1468 01:23:30,137 --> 01:23:33,689 is just motivation to keep doing what's right with my eating habits. 1469 01:23:33,724 --> 01:23:35,931 -You're stripes right. -Yeah. 1470 01:23:37,275 --> 01:23:39,172 I lost another 24 pounds last month 1471 01:23:39,206 --> 01:23:40,586 which is pretty much right on track. 1472 01:23:41,206 --> 01:23:43,034 [Delana] Thank you. 1473 01:23:43,068 --> 01:23:45,724 Part of this change for me, is changing into a better person. 1474 01:23:45,758 --> 01:23:47,344 And I decided, along with that, 1475 01:23:47,379 --> 01:23:49,172 I want to be there more for my daughter. 1476 01:23:49,206 --> 01:23:51,758 And for my grandkids if they'll have me. 1477 01:23:51,793 --> 01:23:53,896 They give more motivation to keep losing 1478 01:23:53,931 --> 01:23:56,275 and to remember what I'm trying to get to. 1479 01:23:56,310 --> 01:23:58,827 Not just in body, but in spirit too. 1480 01:23:58,862 --> 01:24:01,172 It's a long way to go. I know this. 1481 01:24:01,206 --> 01:24:03,241 And I'm happy because I have a happy goal now. 1482 01:24:03,275 --> 01:24:04,344 Wow. 1483 01:24:04,379 --> 01:24:07,275 That's a freaking salad. 1484 01:24:07,310 --> 01:24:08,793 [Delana] Would you expect to be doing this... 1485 01:24:10,137 --> 01:24:11,000 a month ago? 1486 01:24:12,275 --> 01:24:13,103 I didn't. 1487 01:24:14,793 --> 01:24:17,758 -Thought we'd still be in Tennessee. -[laughs] I know right? 1488 01:24:17,793 --> 01:24:19,758 But, it's been a long time coming, so... 1489 01:24:19,793 --> 01:24:20,620 It has. 1490 01:24:21,965 --> 01:24:24,793 -And it's been some bumpy road but it's been fun too. -Yeah. 1491 01:24:28,344 --> 01:24:29,482 Like if we're stuck in Tennessee, 1492 01:24:29,517 --> 01:24:31,448 -we wouldn't be out playing pool. -Mmm-mmm. 1493 01:24:35,517 --> 01:24:36,827 How does it feel to be outside? 1494 01:24:40,551 --> 01:24:42,000 To be honest, a little embarrassing. 1495 01:24:43,137 --> 01:24:45,000 But, I'm happy to be with you. 1496 01:24:47,896 --> 01:24:50,413 -We just need to keep going in the right direction. -Mmm-hmm. 1497 01:24:53,172 --> 01:24:54,827 -This is a good salad. -It is. 1498 01:24:57,620 --> 01:24:58,931 We gonna take some of this home? 1499 01:25:01,517 --> 01:25:02,689 Yeah, we'll save this for later. 1500 01:25:03,517 --> 01:25:05,000 [Delana] Okay. 1501 01:25:05,034 --> 01:25:06,379 [James] Now since you're relaxed a little bit, 1502 01:25:06,413 --> 01:25:08,551 -you wanna finish up our game? -[Delana] Yeah. 1503 01:25:09,413 --> 01:25:10,310 We'll finish it up. 1504 01:25:17,413 --> 01:25:18,310 [Delana] You're first. 1505 01:25:23,413 --> 01:25:24,586 Oh, so close. 1506 01:25:27,103 --> 01:25:28,034 You got this. 1507 01:25:30,000 --> 01:25:31,068 Just a little nudge. 1508 01:25:32,724 --> 01:25:34,241 There you go. 1509 01:25:34,275 --> 01:25:36,517 Before I had fears and crippling doubt. 1510 01:25:36,551 --> 01:25:39,000 And to replace that with hope and happiness, 1511 01:25:39,034 --> 01:25:40,724 there is no greater gift in the world. 1512 01:25:41,586 --> 01:25:43,172 It feels damn good.472