1 00:00:00,391 --> 00:00:02,219 - Previously, on part one 2 00:00:02,263 --> 00:00:03,829 of the "Shahs of Sunset" reunion... 3 00:00:03,873 --> 00:00:07,224 Mike, you say slimming down makes your [BLEEP] look bigger. 4 00:00:07,268 --> 00:00:08,399 - I-I gained a half inch. 5 00:00:08,443 --> 00:00:10,053 [laughing] 6 00:00:10,097 --> 00:00:12,099 - You're a piece of sh--. 7 00:00:12,142 --> 00:00:14,144 - Stop being a pussy behind a keyboard. 8 00:00:14,188 --> 00:00:15,363 - I'm not trying to be a pussy. 9 00:00:15,406 --> 00:00:16,712 I'm talkin' to you right here, in my face. 10 00:00:16,755 --> 00:00:18,496 - But why are you pretending that we were cool? 11 00:00:18,540 --> 00:00:21,151 - I want us to earn our way back to a better place. 12 00:00:21,195 --> 00:00:22,500 - I don't think there would be a friendship 13 00:00:22,544 --> 00:00:24,894 if it wasn't for us having kids. 14 00:00:26,026 --> 00:00:28,289 - I have watched you get so ugly with the people 15 00:00:28,332 --> 00:00:29,377 that are around me. 16 00:00:29,420 --> 00:00:31,074 That side of Reza scares me. 17 00:00:31,118 --> 00:00:32,206 - Me and Reza used to be the same way. 18 00:00:32,249 --> 00:00:33,859 When you're on the outs, boom. 19 00:00:33,903 --> 00:00:35,252 The next person takes that spot. 20 00:00:35,296 --> 00:00:36,340 That's-that's the- - that's-- 21 00:00:36,384 --> 00:00:37,515 - If you don't fight Reza's battles, 22 00:00:37,559 --> 00:00:38,908 then you are public enemy number one. 23 00:00:38,951 --> 00:00:40,344 - Yes, yes. 24 00:00:40,388 --> 00:00:42,085 - Why were you mad at Paulina for texting everyone 25 00:00:42,129 --> 00:00:44,261 about Mike cheating? - These were from Mike. 26 00:00:44,305 --> 00:00:45,958 Put 'em in the trash. - Thank you. 27 00:00:46,002 --> 00:00:47,221 - Why are you such a bitch? 28 00:00:47,264 --> 00:00:50,006 - You are my enemy now. - You're a hood rat! 29 00:00:50,050 --> 00:00:51,225 [gasps] 30 00:00:51,268 --> 00:00:53,401 - I wanna share something with you guys. 31 00:00:53,444 --> 00:00:54,924 We're engaged. - Oh. 32 00:00:54,967 --> 00:00:56,230 - Paulina, you have told me stuff. 33 00:00:56,273 --> 00:00:58,275 I have kept it to myself. 34 00:00:58,319 --> 00:01:02,279 - Listen, it's all hearsay. - Your schtick is up! 35 00:01:02,323 --> 00:01:04,412 ♪ 36 00:01:07,067 --> 00:01:10,983 ♪ 37 00:01:11,027 --> 00:01:14,291 Every single time he has talked sh-- about me, 38 00:01:14,335 --> 00:01:16,685 Paulina, even that night-- 39 00:01:16,728 --> 00:01:20,297 you know what you said to me in the bathroom. 40 00:01:20,341 --> 00:01:22,995 You know damn well I have been there 41 00:01:23,039 --> 00:01:25,128 from the beginning and had your back, 42 00:01:25,172 --> 00:01:29,045 and I never went and told anybody anything. 43 00:01:29,089 --> 00:01:30,916 - I will say one thing, though. 44 00:01:30,960 --> 00:01:33,702 I was so wasted at dinner that night. 45 00:01:33,745 --> 00:01:36,966 - Okay, but what about the other nights, 46 00:01:37,009 --> 00:01:38,446 and the other texts, and the phone calls? 47 00:01:38,489 --> 00:01:39,708 - Yeah. - Paulina, don't. 48 00:01:39,751 --> 00:01:41,318 - No, no, no. I'm-- listen. 49 00:01:41,362 --> 00:01:42,972 I'm not-- I'm not-- I'm not saying anything. 50 00:01:43,015 --> 00:01:44,539 - Do you remember what you said in the bathroom? 51 00:01:44,582 --> 00:01:45,888 - Yeah. - I really don't. 52 00:01:45,931 --> 00:01:47,368 - Is it okay for her to say what you told her? 53 00:01:47,411 --> 00:01:48,673 Is she okay to say it out loud? 54 00:01:48,717 --> 00:01:50,284 - I don't know what I said. 55 00:01:50,327 --> 00:01:51,894 - But is it okay for her to say it, right now, what you-- 56 00:01:51,937 --> 00:01:54,375 - Well, I don't-- I-- - No, don't say anything out loud. 57 00:01:54,418 --> 00:01:57,160 - She may not ever let you know, 58 00:01:57,204 --> 00:01:58,640 or she may, and I don't care. 59 00:01:58,683 --> 00:02:02,165 I will never say what she said, out of respect, okay? 60 00:02:02,209 --> 00:02:03,253 - Thank you. - You know, 61 00:02:03,297 --> 00:02:04,776 do you feel like she knows too much? 62 00:02:04,820 --> 00:02:10,173 - I think that I confessed too much to everybody 63 00:02:10,217 --> 00:02:12,567 by even getting everyone involved. 64 00:02:12,610 --> 00:02:15,222 - Right. - That was my biggest mistake. 65 00:02:15,265 --> 00:02:17,398 - Okay, I think that's as far as we're gonna get 66 00:02:17,441 --> 00:02:20,009 on this one. [sighs] 67 00:02:20,052 --> 00:02:22,533 Never one to shy away from over the top festivities, 68 00:02:22,577 --> 00:02:26,015 this season, Destiney threw a haunted Halloween party, 69 00:02:26,058 --> 00:02:30,150 and while Nema in MJ drag was frightening... 70 00:02:30,193 --> 00:02:31,325 [laughing] 71 00:02:31,368 --> 00:02:32,717 The tension between Mike and Destiney 72 00:02:32,761 --> 00:02:35,416 was downright spine-chilling. 73 00:02:35,459 --> 00:02:38,158 MJ, how did Nema do as you? 74 00:02:38,201 --> 00:02:40,377 - Two of us! - Ahh! Wow. 75 00:02:40,421 --> 00:02:42,031 - There's literally two of us. 76 00:02:42,074 --> 00:02:45,165 - You're wearing my entire outfit. 77 00:02:45,208 --> 00:02:46,470 I was super impressed. [laughing] 78 00:02:46,514 --> 00:02:49,691 I-- I was amazed how, like, I'm like this, 79 00:02:49,734 --> 00:02:52,433 and then he's like this, and it looked very similar, 80 00:02:52,476 --> 00:02:56,524 and he did that, like, overline dark lip contour. 81 00:02:56,567 --> 00:02:58,439 You know, it was beautiful. 82 00:02:58,482 --> 00:02:59,875 [laughing] - Yeah. 83 00:02:59,918 --> 00:03:01,311 - Reza and MJ, did you plan to both come as hippies, 84 00:03:01,355 --> 00:03:04,096 or was that a surprise? - It was just a coincidence. 85 00:03:04,140 --> 00:03:05,576 - No, that was cute. - Yeah. 86 00:03:05,620 --> 00:03:08,666 - Destiney, before your party, you had Paulina over. 87 00:03:08,710 --> 00:03:12,670 She told you Mike had been caught sexting ten times. 88 00:03:12,714 --> 00:03:14,672 - It's happened, like, ten times. 89 00:03:14,716 --> 00:03:16,761 - Oh, my God, Paulina. 90 00:03:16,805 --> 00:03:18,807 - And that's a turn on. That's his porn for him. 91 00:03:18,850 --> 00:03:20,417 - Are you ----ing serious? 92 00:03:20,461 --> 00:03:23,725 He's a piece of sh--. 93 00:03:23,768 --> 00:03:27,468 - Those ten instances were the spoof texts instances? 94 00:03:28,817 --> 00:03:31,428 - Yeah, that I had thought were all real. 95 00:03:31,472 --> 00:03:32,342 - Bullsh--. 96 00:03:33,822 --> 00:03:35,780 - Any reaction to that? 97 00:03:38,609 --> 00:03:40,220 Okay. 98 00:03:40,263 --> 00:03:43,179 Kevin from West Hollywood said, "Mike, when you told Destiney 99 00:03:43,223 --> 00:03:46,313 "you could buy and sell her, that was disgusting." 100 00:03:46,356 --> 00:03:47,314 - Yes, it was. 101 00:03:47,357 --> 00:03:48,576 I'll buy and ----ing sell you. 102 00:03:48,619 --> 00:03:49,881 - What are you, a ----ing slaveowner? 103 00:03:49,925 --> 00:03:51,622 Buy and sell me, bitch? - Let me get him out. 104 00:03:51,666 --> 00:03:52,928 Let me get him out. 105 00:03:52,971 --> 00:03:55,322 - You ----ing buy whores in Vegas! [indistinct] 106 00:03:55,365 --> 00:03:57,106 - Let me-- let me get him out. Let me get him out. 107 00:03:57,149 --> 00:03:59,717 - Please explain that. - I was being triggered. 108 00:03:59,761 --> 00:04:01,632 A lot of the questions were questionable. 109 00:04:01,676 --> 00:04:03,852 I-I felt like they were trying to attack me 110 00:04:03,895 --> 00:04:07,377 and make me look even worse than I already looked. 111 00:04:07,421 --> 00:04:10,206 I didn't like it, and lost my sh--, 112 00:04:10,250 --> 00:04:11,773 and I said things that I didn't mean. 113 00:04:11,816 --> 00:04:13,470 - Do you wanna apologize to her? 114 00:04:13,514 --> 00:04:14,689 - I apologize for saying that to you. 115 00:04:14,732 --> 00:04:16,125 - But you don't mean it. This is all fake. 116 00:04:16,168 --> 00:04:18,170 - This is the-- this is the, like, double-edged sword 117 00:04:18,214 --> 00:04:20,303 of the Paulina- Destiney friendship, 118 00:04:20,347 --> 00:04:22,784 is that it's really great for Paulina and Destiney 119 00:04:22,827 --> 00:04:24,394 to feel close to each other 120 00:04:24,438 --> 00:04:27,310 because there's such a strong bond between them. 121 00:04:27,354 --> 00:04:28,964 - My penis is bigger than his, and he knows it. 122 00:04:29,007 --> 00:04:30,922 - But it ultimately undermines the Destiney-Mike relationship. 123 00:04:30,966 --> 00:04:32,620 - It probably is. - It is. Oh, it is. 124 00:04:32,663 --> 00:04:34,317 I will totally dick slap you. 125 00:04:34,361 --> 00:04:35,449 Watch out. - I-I'm sure-- I'm sure-- 126 00:04:35,492 --> 00:04:36,928 I'm sure Paulina already told you, too. 127 00:04:36,972 --> 00:04:38,582 - Mike, did you have any idea about Destiney's stalker 128 00:04:38,626 --> 00:04:40,671 before she told it to you? - No, I didn't. No. 129 00:04:40,715 --> 00:04:42,630 - How did it make you feel to hear 130 00:04:42,673 --> 00:04:44,762 that your actions triggered her? 131 00:04:44,806 --> 00:04:46,590 - Honestly, I felt-- I felt-- 132 00:04:46,634 --> 00:04:48,505 I felt horrible that she went through that. 133 00:04:48,549 --> 00:04:50,594 And whatever happened on Twitter, 134 00:04:50,638 --> 00:04:51,856 whatever the [BLEEP] else happened, 135 00:04:51,900 --> 00:04:54,729 that was after the fact, because I was upset. 136 00:04:54,772 --> 00:04:56,818 - You're on Twitter talking sh-- about me! 137 00:04:56,861 --> 00:04:59,690 You even said the situation with my stalker 138 00:04:59,734 --> 00:05:01,344 was a fake storyline. - Dude-- dude, you-- 139 00:05:01,388 --> 00:05:03,912 I didn't say that. I didn't say that. 140 00:05:03,955 --> 00:05:05,609 I was just trying to get Paulina and leave. 141 00:05:05,653 --> 00:05:07,524 If that triggered you, I'm sorry. 142 00:05:07,568 --> 00:05:09,439 - If I asked a man to leave several times, 143 00:05:09,483 --> 00:05:10,614 and he chooses not to-- 144 00:05:10,658 --> 00:05:11,833 - My most prized possession was there. 145 00:05:11,876 --> 00:05:13,748 - Hold on. I don't care. - My most prized-- 146 00:05:13,791 --> 00:05:15,576 not possession. - She's not a possession. 147 00:05:15,619 --> 00:05:16,664 - Not possession, but my most prized-- - Mike! Mike, that means-- 148 00:05:16,707 --> 00:05:17,839 no, no, no. - Don't say that. 149 00:05:17,882 --> 00:05:19,319 Don't say that. Don't say that. 150 00:05:19,362 --> 00:05:20,755 - If you were-- if you were-- - I-I-- I used the word 151 00:05:20,798 --> 00:05:21,538 incorrectly. I'm sorry. - Yeah. No, I'm just saying. 152 00:05:21,582 --> 00:05:23,932 - My most prized-- 153 00:05:23,975 --> 00:05:25,368 - Oh, my God. - Person in your life. 154 00:05:25,412 --> 00:05:26,674 - Whatever you say, it's gonna be an issue, babe. 155 00:05:26,717 --> 00:05:27,805 - Oh, my goodness, dude, you guys are all nuts. 156 00:05:27,849 --> 00:05:28,937 I can't. - How am I nuts, 157 00:05:28,980 --> 00:05:30,068 when you're the one-- how am I nuts? 158 00:05:30,112 --> 00:05:31,243 - I say the word "possession" as a joke, 159 00:05:31,287 --> 00:05:32,375 and you're about to have an aneurism, 160 00:05:32,419 --> 00:05:33,681 and this one is-- what the [BLEEP]? 161 00:05:33,724 --> 00:05:34,812 - Mike, this is what-- - No one as about to have an-- 162 00:05:34,856 --> 00:05:37,511 looking out for you. - Wow, man, wow. 163 00:05:37,554 --> 00:05:38,947 Come on. 164 00:05:38,990 --> 00:05:39,904 You know, I'm not that way. - Give me facts, Mike. 165 00:05:39,948 --> 00:05:43,560 - Come on. No, man. Stop. 166 00:05:43,604 --> 00:05:44,822 - Okay. - Stop. 167 00:05:44,866 --> 00:05:46,215 Cut me some slack. - No problem. Go. 168 00:05:46,258 --> 00:05:48,435 - Like, who hurt him that made him this ----ed up? 169 00:05:48,478 --> 00:05:50,437 - All right, moving on. 170 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:53,265 Well, breaking bread is where the shahs thrive, 171 00:05:53,309 --> 00:05:56,225 but when almost every guest at Friendsgiving 172 00:05:56,268 --> 00:05:59,881 had a strained relationship, the holiday was messier 173 00:05:59,924 --> 00:06:03,363 than MJ's fingernails in the turkey. 174 00:06:03,406 --> 00:06:04,929 ♪ 175 00:06:04,973 --> 00:06:06,366 - Is this for me? Okay. - Told me that story. 176 00:06:06,409 --> 00:06:06,888 - I love this. 177 00:06:06,931 --> 00:06:09,369 ♪ 178 00:06:09,412 --> 00:06:10,587 - I gotta ask. 179 00:06:10,631 --> 00:06:14,548 Why do you think MJ's hands are unclean? 180 00:06:14,591 --> 00:06:15,636 [chuckles] - They're not unclean. 181 00:06:15,679 --> 00:06:16,637 I-- she washes her hands regularly. 182 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:18,769 [laughing] 183 00:06:20,902 --> 00:06:22,338 - Oh, my God. 184 00:06:22,382 --> 00:06:23,992 - I mean, they're very clean, but I was pretty drunk, 185 00:06:24,035 --> 00:06:26,342 and I was-- there was no-- - No, but she's a picker. 186 00:06:26,386 --> 00:06:27,778 You're a picker. - No, Merc. 187 00:06:27,822 --> 00:06:29,650 - We are not letting you go the drunk one on this. 188 00:06:29,693 --> 00:06:30,999 - No, girl, no. - You will do one of these. 189 00:06:31,042 --> 00:06:34,306 [laughing] 190 00:06:34,350 --> 00:06:35,960 - You-you eat with your hands. - I 100%, like, 191 00:06:36,004 --> 00:06:37,135 eat from my hands. 192 00:06:37,179 --> 00:06:38,310 - Like, this pinky is in the ranch dip, 193 00:06:38,354 --> 00:06:39,442 while this one is holding a hot wing, 194 00:06:39,486 --> 00:06:40,922 and this one has a donut. [laughing] 195 00:06:40,965 --> 00:06:43,925 - I have to say seeing MJ and Reza role play as Veda 196 00:06:43,968 --> 00:06:46,797 was hilarious and spot on. 197 00:06:50,410 --> 00:06:52,324 - Mom, mom. - Mercedes, no. 198 00:06:52,368 --> 00:06:53,325 No. 199 00:06:58,069 --> 00:07:00,637 - Oh! [laughing] 200 00:07:00,681 --> 00:07:03,684 - Tell me what Veda would say about your outfits tonight? 201 00:07:13,041 --> 00:07:13,781 - Hello. 202 00:07:21,005 --> 00:07:23,007 [laughing] 203 00:07:23,051 --> 00:07:25,401 - Paulina, what's the real reason you didn't show up 204 00:07:25,445 --> 00:07:26,968 for Friendsgiving? 205 00:07:27,011 --> 00:07:29,710 - I didn't wanna sit at a table 206 00:07:29,753 --> 00:07:33,801 where I didn't feel like I'm... 207 00:07:33,844 --> 00:07:35,977 thankful for the people around me, 208 00:07:36,020 --> 00:07:37,457 to be honest with you. - Hmm. 209 00:07:37,500 --> 00:07:40,024 - I mean, I was at that table. 210 00:07:40,068 --> 00:07:41,373 You know what I'm saying? 211 00:07:41,417 --> 00:07:43,767 And on that phone, you-you gave her a shoutout. 212 00:07:43,811 --> 00:07:45,247 I was confused. I even asked your man, 213 00:07:45,290 --> 00:07:47,423 and your man straight told me that you didn't like me. 214 00:07:47,467 --> 00:07:49,033 Paulina Joon, but what did I do? 215 00:07:49,077 --> 00:07:50,557 I haven't even heard from you. 216 00:07:53,690 --> 00:07:54,952 She was talking about MJ. - About MJ, yeah. 217 00:07:54,996 --> 00:07:56,519 You said certain things when you were mad at me. 218 00:07:56,563 --> 00:07:58,434 - What did I say? - That I control her 219 00:07:58,478 --> 00:08:00,001 and that she won't talk in front of me. 220 00:08:00,044 --> 00:08:01,524 - What your girl told you, was one thing. 221 00:08:01,568 --> 00:08:03,700 What she told me, is something completely different. 222 00:08:03,744 --> 00:08:05,572 That's what I'm saying. 223 00:08:05,615 --> 00:08:06,921 - I said I didn't like her? 224 00:08:06,964 --> 00:08:08,444 - I don't remember what I said. I was pissed. 225 00:08:08,488 --> 00:08:10,620 I don't know. - I did not say that. 226 00:08:10,664 --> 00:08:12,666 - You said on the phone that you were thankful 227 00:08:12,709 --> 00:08:15,103 for me and Merc and not Destiney. 228 00:08:15,146 --> 00:08:16,800 - But I specifically said, "Not Destiney?" 229 00:08:16,844 --> 00:08:18,019 - No, no. - No, you didn't mention Destiney. 230 00:08:18,062 --> 00:08:19,020 - No, you said, "I don't trust Destiney." 231 00:08:19,063 --> 00:08:20,238 - Oh. 232 00:08:20,282 --> 00:08:22,502 I never said that. - Maybe you were drunk. 233 00:08:22,545 --> 00:08:25,417 - It wasn't intentional for me to not mention her. 234 00:08:25,461 --> 00:08:28,116 - But she was the closest to you. 235 00:08:28,159 --> 00:08:30,161 - Yes. 236 00:08:30,205 --> 00:08:32,903 - Kelsey from St. Louis said, "Paulina, why were you 237 00:08:32,947 --> 00:08:34,905 "using Mike's friends as the reason 238 00:08:34,949 --> 00:08:37,038 "you stopped coming around when you were the one 239 00:08:37,081 --> 00:08:38,909 "who involved them in the first place?" 240 00:08:38,953 --> 00:08:41,085 - That's a great question. 241 00:08:41,129 --> 00:08:44,654 I didn't feel that safe around them. 242 00:08:44,698 --> 00:08:46,569 - So, someone reacting and saying, 243 00:08:46,613 --> 00:08:48,571 "I don't want any involvement in what's going on," 244 00:08:48,615 --> 00:08:50,617 it makes you feel unsafe? 245 00:08:50,660 --> 00:08:51,835 - Who were you talking about specifically? 246 00:08:51,879 --> 00:08:53,315 - Yeah. - Well, if it's not-- 247 00:08:53,358 --> 00:08:54,446 - How did I make you feel unsafe by not getting involved? 248 00:08:54,490 --> 00:08:56,100 - It's not London. It's not Destiney. 249 00:08:56,144 --> 00:08:57,232 It's not me. - How did-- I-- 250 00:08:57,275 --> 00:08:58,189 who made you unsafe? - The group, 251 00:08:58,233 --> 00:08:59,408 when it comes to together, is-- 252 00:08:59,451 --> 00:09:00,627 is very-- - It's just very-- it's very-- 253 00:09:00,670 --> 00:09:01,758 - No, I did not get involved. - I know. 254 00:09:01,802 --> 00:09:02,890 - I never spoke a word when you guys 255 00:09:02,933 --> 00:09:04,108 would have discussions about your elationship. 256 00:09:04,152 --> 00:09:05,762 - I know. I know. - No, no, no. I know, 257 00:09:05,806 --> 00:09:06,894 but it was very overwhelming. - But as a group-- as a group. 258 00:09:06,937 --> 00:09:08,069 - Who at the table made you feel unsafe? 259 00:09:08,112 --> 00:09:10,724 ♪ 260 00:09:10,767 --> 00:09:12,726 Who was it? 261 00:09:13,727 --> 00:09:14,945 - Coming up... 262 00:09:14,989 --> 00:09:17,034 - She touched my dick in Hawaii and said, 263 00:09:17,078 --> 00:09:18,862 "I'm pleasantly surprised." - I was. 264 00:09:18,906 --> 00:09:20,168 - And it was like a Persian cucumber. 265 00:09:20,211 --> 00:09:21,604 - Like the one she put in her mouth earlier. 266 00:09:21,648 --> 00:09:22,823 - It was a Persian cucumber, not an English cucumber. 267 00:09:22,866 --> 00:09:24,651 [laughing] 268 00:09:24,694 --> 00:09:26,696 - I'll never look at those cucumbers the same. 269 00:09:29,046 --> 00:09:32,136 ♪ 270 00:09:32,180 --> 00:09:34,356 - Kelsey from St. Louis said, "Paulina, 271 00:09:34,399 --> 00:09:36,880 "why were you using Mike's friends as the reason 272 00:09:36,924 --> 00:09:38,882 "you stopped coming around when you were the one 273 00:09:38,926 --> 00:09:40,667 "who involved them in the first place?" 274 00:09:40,710 --> 00:09:42,886 - That's a great question. 275 00:09:42,930 --> 00:09:46,063 I didn't feel that safe around them. 276 00:09:46,107 --> 00:09:48,109 - Who at the table made you feel unsafe? 277 00:09:48,152 --> 00:09:50,894 - The group when it comes to together, is-- is very-- 278 00:09:50,938 --> 00:09:52,548 - Who at the table made you feel unsafe? 279 00:09:52,592 --> 00:09:53,593 - It's just very overwhelming to be at a table with all of them. 280 00:09:53,636 --> 00:09:54,637 - As a group. - Who? It's not-- 281 00:09:54,681 --> 00:09:55,725 Who was it? - Was it the group, 282 00:09:55,769 --> 00:09:56,900 or was it the group and the cameras? 283 00:09:56,944 --> 00:09:58,989 - Honestly, a mixure of both. 284 00:09:59,033 --> 00:10:01,339 I would have to say, you know, to this day, 285 00:10:01,383 --> 00:10:03,994 it's not easy being in front of cameras. 286 00:10:04,038 --> 00:10:05,169 It's really not. 287 00:10:05,213 --> 00:10:07,824 But one thing I will say, is that I... 288 00:10:09,913 --> 00:10:12,133 I-I don't know how to put into words, but I would-- 289 00:10:12,176 --> 00:10:16,485 I would think that they would have handled it differently 290 00:10:16,528 --> 00:10:20,358 versus making him feel attacked. 291 00:10:22,839 --> 00:10:24,014 - I have to ask, Paulina. 292 00:10:24,058 --> 00:10:27,148 Why did you call Destiney in the Redwoods? 293 00:10:27,191 --> 00:10:29,672 This was just a few weeks after you said 294 00:10:29,716 --> 00:10:31,674 you couldn't trust any of Mike's friends. 295 00:10:37,288 --> 00:10:48,952 you know, as I'm sure you can guess, 296 00:10:52,129 --> 00:10:54,131 I never said that-- her. 297 00:10:54,175 --> 00:10:55,742 When I say, "The friends"... 298 00:10:55,785 --> 00:10:57,744 - Yes. - I mean, the-- the-the group. 299 00:10:57,787 --> 00:10:59,006 - Okay, you weren't meaning-- right. 300 00:10:59,049 --> 00:11:00,181 - No, I didn't mean her. 301 00:11:00,224 --> 00:11:01,965 - You don't-- - I've always had that, 302 00:11:02,009 --> 00:11:05,012 you know, that trust with her and that bond with her. 303 00:11:05,055 --> 00:11:07,492 - So, you got caught, again. - No. 304 00:11:07,536 --> 00:11:11,975 - These were more spoof texts? - Yes. 305 00:11:12,019 --> 00:11:13,281 - Why does all these weird things 306 00:11:13,324 --> 00:11:15,283 always happen to you with, like, iClouds? 307 00:11:15,326 --> 00:11:16,588 - I- I don't know. 308 00:11:16,632 --> 00:11:17,677 - And people calling you and two landlines and-- 309 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:18,721 - Why don't you change your numbers? 310 00:11:18,765 --> 00:11:19,983 - Because it doesn't even matter. 311 00:11:20,027 --> 00:11:20,984 They're texting him. They're texting Shervin. 312 00:11:21,028 --> 00:11:22,246 It doesn't matter about te phone number. 313 00:11:22,290 --> 00:11:23,378 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. Actually-- actually-- 314 00:11:23,421 --> 00:11:24,509 - It's-it's-- it-it doesn't matter. 315 00:11:24,553 --> 00:11:25,902 - Hold on. One of the spoof messages 316 00:11:25,946 --> 00:11:27,556 that I got really upset about with him, 317 00:11:27,599 --> 00:11:30,167 and I was like, "No, no, no, this is real," 318 00:11:30,211 --> 00:11:32,909 he goes, "Really?" He shows me. 319 00:11:32,953 --> 00:11:36,260 Nema got the same exact message. 320 00:11:36,304 --> 00:11:37,784 - But isn't that, like, a setup? 321 00:11:37,827 --> 00:11:39,568 That's like-- - I'm really good. 322 00:11:39,611 --> 00:11:40,961 - I mean, if I was a guy, Andy, if I was a guy, 323 00:11:41,004 --> 00:11:42,527 I'd be taking notes, dude. This guy-- 324 00:11:42,571 --> 00:11:43,572 - Yes, yeah, I'm great. 325 00:11:43,615 --> 00:11:45,443 - Does everyone here believe that 326 00:11:45,487 --> 00:11:49,230 these are spoof messages that are coming in? 327 00:11:49,273 --> 00:11:50,753 - No, they think I'm doing it. 328 00:11:50,797 --> 00:11:52,146 - They think-- - They think I'm doing it. 329 00:11:52,189 --> 00:11:53,843 I'm sending it to myself. - How can you? 330 00:11:53,887 --> 00:11:54,844 - Why would you be sending it to yourself? 331 00:11:54,888 --> 00:11:56,150 - Reza thinks that. 332 00:11:56,193 --> 00:11:57,804 - I think he was doing it to, like, be, like, 333 00:11:57,847 --> 00:11:59,066 "Look, do you see? 334 00:11:59,109 --> 00:12:00,589 Like, there's all this fake sh-- going on." 335 00:12:00,632 --> 00:12:02,373 - But I admitted to the sh-- that was really, really bad. 336 00:12:02,417 --> 00:12:03,853 So, I'm wondering. 337 00:12:03,897 --> 00:12:04,593 - What Reza is saying, is if there were, like, 338 00:12:04,636 --> 00:12:06,160 ten other real messages, 339 00:12:06,203 --> 00:12:08,075 and you could make twenty fake ones 340 00:12:08,118 --> 00:12:09,424 and be like, "All 30 are fake." 341 00:12:09,467 --> 00:12:10,730 - Oh, I'm going-- I-I-I'm-- - Everything, yes. 342 00:12:10,773 --> 00:12:12,079 - Everything is fake. That's what he's saying. 343 00:12:12,122 --> 00:12:13,428 - So, I'm-I'm-- oh, oh, oh. 344 00:12:13,471 --> 00:12:14,690 - Oh. 345 00:12:14,734 --> 00:12:15,647 - Mike, you talked about having an addiction 346 00:12:15,691 --> 00:12:17,432 to getting attention. - Yes. 347 00:12:17,475 --> 00:12:19,434 - Have you seen anyone to help you with this? 348 00:12:19,477 --> 00:12:21,131 - Like I've said, and I'll say it again, I am. 349 00:12:21,175 --> 00:12:22,219 I'm getting-- - It's the healer? 350 00:12:22,263 --> 00:12:25,570 - I'm talking to a rabbi. 351 00:12:25,614 --> 00:12:27,572 - I wanna end this conversation. 352 00:12:27,616 --> 00:12:29,444 You two are in a great place. 353 00:12:29,487 --> 00:12:30,750 - We're engaged. We're in an amazing place. 354 00:12:30,793 --> 00:12:32,577 - You're engaged. When will you get married? 355 00:12:32,621 --> 00:12:34,231 - We don't know yet. Soon, hopefully. 356 00:12:34,275 --> 00:12:35,189 - All right. - Soon? 357 00:12:35,232 --> 00:12:36,581 - Sure. 358 00:12:36,625 --> 00:12:39,280 - Is there anything else, Paulina, before you go, 359 00:12:39,323 --> 00:12:42,805 that you wanna clear up, or say to the group, 360 00:12:42,849 --> 00:12:44,285 or say to Destiney? 361 00:12:44,328 --> 00:12:46,983 - I mean, I would love to have that relationship 362 00:12:47,027 --> 00:12:48,463 with you, again. 363 00:12:48,506 --> 00:12:51,031 I've, honestly, I've-- I've really missed you a lot, 364 00:12:51,074 --> 00:12:56,297 and I apologize for getting you involved 365 00:12:56,340 --> 00:12:59,474 and getting everyone here involved. 366 00:12:59,517 --> 00:13:02,172 That was wrong and I shouldn't have done that. 367 00:13:02,216 --> 00:13:05,349 - And also, since you're here, I have to make it very clear. 368 00:13:05,393 --> 00:13:09,440 I really hope when you looked at all the episodes, 369 00:13:09,484 --> 00:13:11,442 every time your girl spoke to me, 370 00:13:11,486 --> 00:13:13,140 I really hope you remind yourself 371 00:13:13,183 --> 00:13:15,272 every time you wanna be rude to me 372 00:13:15,316 --> 00:13:18,275 that I never once said anything, not even to you, 373 00:13:18,319 --> 00:13:21,670 not to him, not to her, not to her, nothing, 374 00:13:21,713 --> 00:13:25,152 but ya still just kept comin' for my jugular. 375 00:13:25,195 --> 00:13:26,675 - Mike and I have talked about this. 376 00:13:26,718 --> 00:13:29,156 Yes, Destiney has never, like, said anything 377 00:13:29,199 --> 00:13:31,898 that Paulina has confided, but when you consistently 378 00:13:31,941 --> 00:13:35,205 go to the group and allude that you know something 379 00:13:35,249 --> 00:13:37,164 but don't actually say the full thing, 380 00:13:37,207 --> 00:13:38,687 that triggers him. 381 00:13:38,730 --> 00:13:39,775 - I do know something. I-- - I know, but that trigger-- 382 00:13:39,819 --> 00:13:41,298 but you might as well just say it, 383 00:13:41,342 --> 00:13:42,212 at that point. - And-and I know many things. 384 00:13:42,256 --> 00:13:43,344 I've even said 'em-- 385 00:13:43,387 --> 00:13:44,475 I even said it at the reunion last year 386 00:13:44,519 --> 00:13:45,955 when he tried to disrespect me. - No. 387 00:13:45,999 --> 00:13:47,304 - If I say-- if I say-- but that's what triggers him. 388 00:13:47,348 --> 00:13:48,218 - I said, "You don't wanna come for me, buddy. 389 00:13:48,262 --> 00:13:49,480 "You don't anna do it." I've already-- 390 00:13:49,524 --> 00:13:50,786 - So, I want him to be honest about that. 391 00:13:50,830 --> 00:13:52,005 It's either say it all or say nothing at all. 392 00:13:52,048 --> 00:13:53,397 - Just-just stop, bro. Stop, stop, stop. 393 00:13:53,441 --> 00:13:54,616 [sighs] 394 00:13:54,659 --> 00:13:57,880 - God, please, give it to us. 395 00:13:57,924 --> 00:14:00,622 - What? - I can't let today end 396 00:14:00,665 --> 00:14:03,146 and it be like the way it is with Reza, 397 00:14:03,190 --> 00:14:05,061 and it be like with you, too. 398 00:14:05,105 --> 00:14:08,891 Like, today is such a huge, important thing. 399 00:14:08,935 --> 00:14:10,197 I keep-- 400 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:11,459 - So, why don't we bury this ----ing bullsh-- 401 00:14:11,502 --> 00:14:12,329 and move on? - Yeah, I want us to not go home 402 00:14:12,373 --> 00:14:15,419 having all this regret. 403 00:14:15,463 --> 00:14:18,596 - Merc has spoken. 404 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:19,728 High five. 405 00:14:19,771 --> 00:14:21,164 That was well said. - Thank you. 406 00:14:21,208 --> 00:14:22,470 - Well, Paulina, before you leave, 407 00:14:22,513 --> 00:14:23,688 do you wanna hug it out with Destiney? 408 00:14:23,732 --> 00:14:24,733 - Hug it out. Yes. 409 00:14:24,776 --> 00:14:26,082 - Aww, yes. - I would love to. 410 00:14:26,126 --> 00:14:27,127 - Yes, hug it out. 411 00:14:27,170 --> 00:14:30,130 - She's the only one I wanna hug. 412 00:14:33,089 --> 00:14:34,569 Bitch. 413 00:14:37,615 --> 00:14:39,052 - You know that. - I know. 414 00:14:39,095 --> 00:14:41,097 - Paulina, thanks for being here 415 00:14:41,141 --> 00:14:42,359 and dispelling the myth 416 00:14:42,403 --> 00:14:44,448 that Mike won't let you speak for yourself. 417 00:14:44,492 --> 00:14:46,233 - Thank you for allowing that to-to-to-to happen. 418 00:14:46,276 --> 00:14:48,148 - Oh, no, absolutely. Absolutely. 419 00:14:48,191 --> 00:14:49,497 - Thank you and congratulations. 420 00:14:49,540 --> 00:14:50,628 - Thank you. - Thank you. 421 00:14:50,672 --> 00:14:51,978 - Hi. 422 00:14:52,021 --> 00:14:52,761 - Join this side of the crew for a little bit. 423 00:14:52,804 --> 00:14:54,763 - Well, let's chill. 424 00:14:54,806 --> 00:14:56,460 I mean, I don't know what the [BLEEP] 425 00:14:56,504 --> 00:14:57,809 is going on today. 426 00:14:57,853 --> 00:14:59,507 - We're just ----ing bullsh--ing through this. 427 00:14:59,550 --> 00:15:00,812 - It's a lot. 428 00:15:00,856 --> 00:15:02,249 - I didn't mean to, like, salt that moment, 429 00:15:02,292 --> 00:15:04,294 but I-- I couldn't not-- I couldn't not keep it real. 430 00:15:04,338 --> 00:15:06,253 - Well, it was a lot. 431 00:15:06,296 --> 00:15:08,690 It was a very heavy day for them-- 432 00:15:08,733 --> 00:15:10,344 very heavy day for them. 433 00:15:12,650 --> 00:15:13,608 - Bye, baby. 434 00:15:14,696 --> 00:15:18,743 - Thank you. 435 00:15:18,787 --> 00:15:20,310 - Coming up... 436 00:15:20,354 --> 00:15:22,051 What does the future hold in terms of a baby for you guys? 437 00:15:22,095 --> 00:15:23,270 - Never happening. 438 00:15:23,313 --> 00:15:25,446 I don't ever, ever, ever wanna have a kid. 439 00:15:25,489 --> 00:15:27,578 I don't think it's a good idea. 440 00:15:27,622 --> 00:15:29,102 - Wow. 441 00:15:29,145 --> 00:15:31,191 ♪ 442 00:15:32,583 --> 00:15:34,194 - All right, MJ, you're good. 443 00:15:34,237 --> 00:15:35,282 Lean back whenever you want to. 444 00:15:35,325 --> 00:15:36,370 - Thank you. I really appreciate it. 445 00:15:36,413 --> 00:15:38,546 - No problem. 446 00:15:38,589 --> 00:15:40,765 - Okay, so, Mike comes back in. 447 00:15:40,809 --> 00:15:41,897 - You're giving me, like, 448 00:15:41,941 --> 00:15:44,595 Madonna sex kitten vibes here, Golnesa. 449 00:15:44,639 --> 00:15:46,293 - I mean, I am a virgin technically. 450 00:15:46,336 --> 00:15:47,642 Three years makes you a virgin. 451 00:15:47,685 --> 00:15:48,643 - You're-you're giving me some major sex cat. 452 00:15:48,686 --> 00:15:51,080 - Hey! [laughing] 453 00:15:51,124 --> 00:15:52,777 - Here we go. 454 00:15:52,821 --> 00:15:55,606 While some of our Shahs are in relationships, 455 00:15:55,650 --> 00:15:57,826 the rest are still looking for their match, 456 00:15:57,869 --> 00:16:01,090 or, in some case, matches plural. 457 00:16:01,134 --> 00:16:05,312 GG, we've seen you date, get engaged, and get married. 458 00:16:05,355 --> 00:16:08,532 What changed within you that led you to polyamory? 459 00:16:08,576 --> 00:16:10,621 - Well, I haven't technically fully tried it out yet 460 00:16:10,665 --> 00:16:11,753 because of COVID. 461 00:16:11,796 --> 00:16:13,755 - And polyamory means what? 462 00:16:13,798 --> 00:16:16,323 - I enjoy relationships, and I enjoy commitment. 463 00:16:16,366 --> 00:16:19,456 I just want it with more than one partner. 464 00:16:19,500 --> 00:16:21,545 - How do you know that that's what you want? 465 00:16:21,589 --> 00:16:23,417 When you've been in a relationship with someone, 466 00:16:23,460 --> 00:16:25,593 and then you've thought, "I wanna open this up?" 467 00:16:25,636 --> 00:16:26,855 - Yes. 468 00:16:26,898 --> 00:16:28,683 I think when I was married, uh, to Shalom-- 469 00:16:28,726 --> 00:16:30,467 - I now pronounce you husband and wife. 470 00:16:30,511 --> 00:16:31,860 Shalom, you may kiss your bride. 471 00:16:31,903 --> 00:16:35,690 - Oh, my God. [laughing] 472 00:16:35,733 --> 00:16:37,692 There was one time we woke up in the morning. 473 00:16:37,735 --> 00:16:39,041 - That was, like, four months, right? 474 00:16:39,085 --> 00:16:40,347 - We were together four months. 475 00:16:40,390 --> 00:16:42,044 We were married for, like, six, seven weeks. 476 00:16:42,088 --> 00:16:43,045 - Okay. [laughing] 477 00:16:43,089 --> 00:16:44,655 - But we-we woke up. We were-- 478 00:16:44,699 --> 00:16:45,961 - So, you felt boxed in during that time? 479 00:16:46,005 --> 00:16:47,006 [laughing] 480 00:16:47,049 --> 00:16:48,094 - It was a tough six weeks, Andy. 481 00:16:48,137 --> 00:16:49,834 - She was suffocating. - I mean... 482 00:16:49,878 --> 00:16:51,358 - I said, "You know, if I'm not around 483 00:16:51,401 --> 00:16:52,663 or if I'm busy, and you're, like, 484 00:16:52,707 --> 00:16:54,535 with your boys, and there's a hot girl, 485 00:16:54,578 --> 00:16:55,797 I don't have a problem with it. 486 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:57,581 - Oh, my God. - He threw a massive fit. 487 00:16:57,625 --> 00:16:59,061 - Right. 488 00:16:59,105 --> 00:16:59,975 - Because he assumed that meant I'm ----ing another guy. 489 00:17:00,019 --> 00:17:01,324 - Yeah. 490 00:17:01,368 --> 00:17:02,630 - So, I was like, I'm not interested in that. 491 00:17:02,673 --> 00:17:04,675 I'm just interested in different stimulation. 492 00:17:04,719 --> 00:17:09,028 He was not able to give me certain stuff that I needed. 493 00:17:09,071 --> 00:17:12,074 - Do you ever hear from Shalom? - No comment. 494 00:17:12,118 --> 00:17:13,684 - Is that still the Shalom ring? 495 00:17:13,728 --> 00:17:15,121 - It is. - Wow. 496 00:17:15,164 --> 00:17:16,644 - Yeah, it looks really good with this outfit, too. 497 00:17:16,687 --> 00:17:18,124 - It does. - Yeah, it does. 498 00:17:18,167 --> 00:17:19,560 - It looks good. - Thanks, Shalom. 499 00:17:19,603 --> 00:17:20,735 - Um, Sarah from Detroit said, 500 00:17:20,778 --> 00:17:22,650 "GG, since having multiple partners 501 00:17:22,693 --> 00:17:25,000 is what works best for you, would you ever consider 502 00:17:25,044 --> 00:17:28,917 "dating both Shervin and Nema?" I'd be here for it. 503 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:30,527 - Nema would definitely be more my type than-- 504 00:17:30,571 --> 00:17:32,877 than Shervin would be, but, um, no. 505 00:17:32,921 --> 00:17:35,097 I'm just-- I need someone who is very open to 506 00:17:35,141 --> 00:17:36,925 being in a poly relationship. 507 00:17:36,968 --> 00:17:39,449 I need a very confident and secure man to that. 508 00:17:39,493 --> 00:17:41,147 - You need to date a gay guy. [laughing] 509 00:17:41,190 --> 00:17:42,104 - I need to. - Yeah. 510 00:17:42,148 --> 00:17:43,888 - I really do. 511 00:17:43,932 --> 00:17:45,760 - Destiney, are you dating anyone these days? 512 00:17:45,803 --> 00:17:48,110 - I am not. COVID-- gross. 513 00:17:48,154 --> 00:17:49,764 Andy, honestly, I'm scared to, like, 514 00:17:49,807 --> 00:17:50,939 go certain places. 515 00:17:50,982 --> 00:17:52,854 I'm scared to go to the supermarket. 516 00:17:52,897 --> 00:17:56,031 Like, it's become a thing. - Wow. 517 00:17:56,075 --> 00:17:57,946 You know, Nema, on "Watch What Happens Live," 518 00:17:57,989 --> 00:18:01,993 you said that GG claims anyone she isn't interested in, 519 00:18:02,037 --> 00:18:03,952 is hung like a baby carrot. 520 00:18:03,995 --> 00:18:07,086 - Anyone who doesn't like GG has a small penis. 521 00:18:07,129 --> 00:18:08,435 - Oh. - Mike has a small penis. 522 00:18:08,478 --> 00:18:09,827 I have a small penis. - Oh, okay, okay. 523 00:18:09,871 --> 00:18:11,481 - Yeah, that's the thing. If you don't like her-- 524 00:18:11,525 --> 00:18:12,526 - That's her go to. Right. 525 00:18:12,569 --> 00:18:13,614 - Yeah, then you're hung like this. 526 00:18:13,657 --> 00:18:14,658 So, yeah, I get it. - Right, okay. 527 00:18:14,702 --> 00:18:16,225 So, GG, where does the truth lie? 528 00:18:16,269 --> 00:18:18,532 Is that your go to? - Listen, I'm pushing 40. 529 00:18:18,575 --> 00:18:21,143 I've been there, done that, and I've had, you know, 530 00:18:21,187 --> 00:18:24,581 all types of dool. - Peni. 531 00:18:24,625 --> 00:18:28,019 - She touched my dick in Hawaii and literally said to me, 532 00:18:28,063 --> 00:18:30,500 "I'm pleasantly surprised." - I was. I was surprised. 533 00:18:30,544 --> 00:18:31,675 I thought it was gonna be a carrot. 534 00:18:31,719 --> 00:18:32,981 - Those were her words. 535 00:18:33,024 --> 00:18:33,634 That was-- those-those-- that was the feedback 536 00:18:33,677 --> 00:18:34,852 I-I ever got. 537 00:18:34,896 --> 00:18:35,592 - I did think it was gonna be a carrot. 538 00:18:35,636 --> 00:18:36,854 - Pleasantly surprised. 539 00:18:36,898 --> 00:18:37,551 - And it was more like a Persian cucumber. 540 00:18:37,594 --> 00:18:38,856 - It was a cucumber. 541 00:18:38,900 --> 00:18:40,075 - Like the one she put in her mouth earlier. 542 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:40,858 - I was a Persian cucumber, not an English cucumber. 543 00:18:40,902 --> 00:18:42,208 - No way. [laughing] 544 00:18:42,251 --> 00:18:43,426 - I'll never look at those cucumbers the same. 545 00:18:43,470 --> 00:18:44,775 - Boy, boy, boy, boy. - What's up, Nema? 546 00:18:47,038 --> 00:18:48,301 Give it up for me now. 547 00:18:48,344 --> 00:18:49,824 - I just devoured you, right now, a second ago, 548 00:18:49,867 --> 00:18:50,868 in my mouth. 549 00:18:50,912 --> 00:18:52,174 - Nema, now that you're bicoastal, 550 00:18:52,218 --> 00:18:54,045 are you having more luck with East Coast girls 551 00:18:54,089 --> 00:18:55,090 or West Coast girls? 552 00:18:55,134 --> 00:18:56,874 - East Coast girls is definitely 553 00:18:56,918 --> 00:18:58,049 a different dating experience. 554 00:18:58,093 --> 00:18:59,138 - And what is that? 555 00:18:59,181 --> 00:18:59,921 - They're much more to the point. 556 00:18:59,964 --> 00:19:01,314 - Okay. - It's a vibe. 557 00:19:01,357 --> 00:19:02,967 - And listen, I'm-- I'm very into being single. 558 00:19:03,011 --> 00:19:05,187 I did just meet somebody who is really intriguing to me, 559 00:19:05,231 --> 00:19:07,015 albeit very, very new. - Ooh. 560 00:19:07,058 --> 00:19:08,277 - Garcelle? [laughing] 561 00:19:08,321 --> 00:19:10,932 - Does Garcelle follow Nema from "Shahs?" 562 00:19:10,975 --> 00:19:12,238 - Oh. 563 00:19:12,281 --> 00:19:13,587 - You know what? Maybe yes. 564 00:19:13,630 --> 00:19:15,023 - I'm gonna say no. - Yes. 565 00:19:15,066 --> 00:19:16,198 - Really? - He's hot. 566 00:19:16,242 --> 00:19:17,547 - Wow! All right. [bell dings] 567 00:19:17,591 --> 00:19:18,940 [cheers and applause] 568 00:19:18,983 --> 00:19:21,290 Rumor has it that you are quite the ladies' man 569 00:19:21,334 --> 00:19:23,118 with the Bravolebrities. 570 00:19:23,162 --> 00:19:25,207 - That is the rumor on the block, yeah. 571 00:19:25,251 --> 00:19:26,600 - So, um-- - It ain't a rumor. 572 00:19:26,643 --> 00:19:27,862 It ain't a rumor. - He's the Persian James Dean. 573 00:19:27,905 --> 00:19:29,168 Why not? - Scheana Shay. 574 00:19:29,211 --> 00:19:30,256 - Hey, Scheana-- Scheana. - Scheana. 575 00:19:30,299 --> 00:19:31,735 - Yeah, and then I know you wanna say it. 576 00:19:31,779 --> 00:19:33,041 I know you-- I know you want-- - He likes them famous. 577 00:19:33,084 --> 00:19:34,173 - "Summer House." - Say her name. 578 00:19:34,216 --> 00:19:34,869 - No. - The one with the short hair. 579 00:19:34,912 --> 00:19:35,652 - Paige. - Lindsay? 580 00:19:35,696 --> 00:19:36,566 - Paige- 581 00:19:36,610 --> 00:19:37,959 - Paige. 582 00:19:38,002 --> 00:19:38,873 - Like, there was a-a date maybe in New York City. 583 00:19:38,916 --> 00:19:39,917 - Really? - Yeah. 584 00:19:39,961 --> 00:19:41,049 - It was like a-- it was like a-- 585 00:19:41,092 --> 00:19:41,919 - Are we gonna do this or what? Come on. 586 00:19:41,963 --> 00:19:42,964 It's happening. Let's go. 587 00:19:43,007 --> 00:19:44,313 - Excuse me, Andy. - Andy, I've-- 588 00:19:44,357 --> 00:19:45,271 I've run my course with-- - And Jules from "Summer Hose." 589 00:19:45,314 --> 00:19:47,011 - Holy sh--. - Oh, sh-- 590 00:19:47,055 --> 00:19:49,971 - Yeah. - And who is the new girl? 591 00:19:50,014 --> 00:19:51,755 - She's hot. - This French girl that I met. 592 00:19:51,799 --> 00:19:53,192 I'd love to bring her around the group at some point. 593 00:19:53,235 --> 00:19:54,323 - So, you're thinking, like, relationship? 594 00:19:54,367 --> 00:19:55,716 - Is she in L.A. or New York? - L.A. 595 00:19:55,759 --> 00:19:57,065 - Wow. All right. 596 00:19:57,108 --> 00:19:59,372 Reza, how is Adam? 597 00:19:59,415 --> 00:20:00,590 - Adam is great. - Adam is fantastic. 598 00:20:00,634 --> 00:20:01,809 - We didn't see much of him this season. 599 00:20:01,852 --> 00:20:04,246 - No, you didn't, and that was purposeful. 600 00:20:04,290 --> 00:20:05,987 It's a good thing I love your beer. 601 00:20:06,030 --> 00:20:07,249 [laughing] 602 00:20:07,293 --> 00:20:08,903 Thank you for bringing me. 603 00:20:08,946 --> 00:20:12,254 - You're most welcome. - This thing is magic. 604 00:20:12,298 --> 00:20:13,647 - Tell me. 605 00:20:13,690 --> 00:20:15,257 - Adam is not around because he's got a new job, 606 00:20:15,301 --> 00:20:18,042 and the same way Paulina feels about the group, 607 00:20:18,086 --> 00:20:20,610 Adam feels the exact same way. 608 00:20:20,654 --> 00:20:23,309 - And what does the future hold in terms of a baby for you guys? 609 00:20:23,352 --> 00:20:24,527 - Never happening. 610 00:20:24,571 --> 00:20:27,095 I don't ever, ever, ever wanna have a kid. 611 00:20:27,138 --> 00:20:28,531 - Wow. 612 00:20:28,575 --> 00:20:30,620 - One hundred percent, I never wanna have a child. 613 00:20:30,664 --> 00:20:32,405 - This is a huge change of heart. 614 00:20:32,448 --> 00:20:36,017 - Totally, it is. Um... 615 00:20:36,060 --> 00:20:38,411 - No. [sighs] 616 00:20:38,454 --> 00:20:41,240 - You can... 617 00:20:44,852 --> 00:20:47,420 feel certain things that it just-- 618 00:20:47,463 --> 00:20:49,335 I don't think it's a good idea. 619 00:20:49,378 --> 00:20:50,292 - You don't think it's a good idea. 620 00:20:50,336 --> 00:20:51,902 - No. - Wow. 621 00:20:51,946 --> 00:20:54,688 It seemed like-- we talked so much about it. 622 00:20:54,731 --> 00:20:55,819 - Yeah. 623 00:20:55,863 --> 00:20:56,298 - It seemed like something you wanted. 624 00:20:56,342 --> 00:20:57,952 - Yeah. 625 00:20:57,995 --> 00:20:59,736 - And it seemed like something as a couple that you two wanted. 626 00:20:59,780 --> 00:21:01,303 - We have decided as a couple 627 00:21:01,347 --> 00:21:03,784 that we are gonna use a surrogate, 628 00:21:03,827 --> 00:21:05,394 and we're gonna have biological children. 629 00:21:05,438 --> 00:21:06,569 - Wonderful. 630 00:21:06,613 --> 00:21:07,135 - When do you wanna start having kids? 631 00:21:07,178 --> 00:21:08,136 - Huh? 632 00:21:08,179 --> 00:21:09,964 - Like, do we have a timeframe? 633 00:21:10,007 --> 00:21:12,009 Is it, like, one year? Two years? 634 00:21:12,053 --> 00:21:14,969 - I wish I could ask you. When are we having a baby? 635 00:21:15,012 --> 00:21:16,231 - So, what made you change your mind? 636 00:21:16,275 --> 00:21:18,320 - Sometimes you learn things about yourself. 637 00:21:18,364 --> 00:21:20,322 Like, they point out things to me, too, 638 00:21:20,366 --> 00:21:23,456 that I do things to them that they don't like, right? 639 00:21:23,499 --> 00:21:24,587 - Okay. 640 00:21:24,631 --> 00:21:30,071 - And, uh, I have two parents that-- 641 00:21:30,114 --> 00:21:31,638 I don't wanna cry. 642 00:21:31,681 --> 00:21:33,204 Can I take a little break 'cause I don't wanna be crying 643 00:21:33,248 --> 00:21:34,249 while I'm talking? 644 00:21:34,293 --> 00:21:36,295 I just wanna break for two seconds. 645 00:21:36,338 --> 00:21:37,731 - Go. - I just wanna dab my eyes. 646 00:21:37,774 --> 00:21:39,820 I don't wanna cry. I'm sorry. 647 00:21:39,863 --> 00:21:46,348 ♪ 648 00:21:46,392 --> 00:21:47,349 - Up next... 649 00:21:47,393 --> 00:21:48,785 Why'd you say it at the party? 650 00:21:48,829 --> 00:21:50,874 - Because the one hit wonder shows up. 651 00:21:50,918 --> 00:21:53,529 She walked in, said hi, and it was like 652 00:21:53,573 --> 00:21:55,226 pop-pop-pop-pop-pop-pop-pop. 653 00:21:55,270 --> 00:21:57,577 - Absolute bullsh--. 654 00:22:06,237 --> 00:22:07,543 - You okay, babe? 655 00:22:07,587 --> 00:22:08,762 - Yeah. Thank you. Sorry. 656 00:22:08,805 --> 00:22:09,806 - By the way, there's nothing wrong with 657 00:22:09,850 --> 00:22:10,764 getting emotional about the topic. 658 00:22:10,807 --> 00:22:11,612 It's an emotional topic. - Yeah. 659 00:22:11,612 --> 00:22:12,592 No, I just don't wanna, like-- 660 00:22:12,635 --> 00:22:14,071 It- You haven't criedic. once today. 661 00:22:14,115 --> 00:22:15,334 We need a good Reza cry. 662 00:22:15,377 --> 00:22:16,770 - No. - Yeah, I mean-- 663 00:22:16,813 --> 00:22:18,728 I mean, it wouldn't be a reunion if we didn't have 664 00:22:18,772 --> 00:22:20,208 some good tears from you. 665 00:22:20,251 --> 00:22:21,688 - Thank you. 666 00:22:21,731 --> 00:22:23,385 - Are you worried that you wouldn't be a good father? 667 00:22:23,429 --> 00:22:26,214 You would make the same mistakes that your parents made? 668 00:22:26,257 --> 00:22:27,607 Is that what's dictating this? - You're not. 669 00:22:27,650 --> 00:22:30,305 - I don't want to participate 670 00:22:30,349 --> 00:22:34,309 'cause I think that I have the potential 671 00:22:34,353 --> 00:22:37,268 to do lots of damage. 672 00:22:37,312 --> 00:22:40,620 - Um, I'm wondering what you're thinking of this, MJ. 673 00:22:40,663 --> 00:22:42,404 - I hope that he has a change of heart 674 00:22:42,448 --> 00:22:47,453 because, um, you know, life really 675 00:22:47,496 --> 00:22:49,324 takes on a new meaning 676 00:22:49,368 --> 00:22:51,544 when you bring life into the world. 677 00:22:51,587 --> 00:22:53,546 - You seem-- - Reza, when I got my sh-- together, you saw. 678 00:22:53,589 --> 00:22:55,156 - I love you. - Because I want to be 679 00:22:55,199 --> 00:22:56,462 that example for my kid. 680 00:22:56,505 --> 00:22:57,724 - Totally. I love you so much. 681 00:22:57,767 --> 00:22:59,029 - And you already are. You've changed a lot 682 00:22:59,073 --> 00:23:00,640 in the last two years specifically. 683 00:23:00,683 --> 00:23:02,337 You are perfect. 684 00:23:02,381 --> 00:23:03,294 I think you're just meant for it. 685 00:23:03,338 --> 00:23:04,600 - I love you. Thank you. 686 00:23:04,644 --> 00:23:07,081 - It-it really, really reshapes who you are. 687 00:23:07,124 --> 00:23:08,517 - Does Adam still want kids? 688 00:23:08,561 --> 00:23:12,434 - Um, you know, we have, like, tough conversations. 689 00:23:12,478 --> 00:23:15,045 Our relationship is in a really good place, 690 00:23:15,089 --> 00:23:18,397 and I just would hate myself 691 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:22,444 if I ended up, like, being that parent, 692 00:23:22,488 --> 00:23:25,055 whose disappointments shown through, 693 00:23:25,099 --> 00:23:29,451 and I made my kid feel sometimes 694 00:23:29,495 --> 00:23:32,367 the way I was made to feel. 695 00:23:32,411 --> 00:23:34,238 - Everyone makes mistakes as a parent. 696 00:23:34,282 --> 00:23:36,719 - We're lunatics, and we did it alone. 697 00:23:36,763 --> 00:23:39,548 You know, I-I wanna go back to the welcoming party 698 00:23:39,592 --> 00:23:42,464 because, Reza, it seems like you got enjoyment 699 00:23:42,508 --> 00:23:45,728 out of telling Destiney what Veda said. 700 00:23:45,772 --> 00:23:48,209 - Veda Joon was like, "You look snatch, 701 00:23:48,252 --> 00:23:50,211 but you need an ass, girl." 702 00:23:50,254 --> 00:23:51,255 - Rude. 703 00:23:51,299 --> 00:23:52,648 - Why'd you say it at the party? 704 00:23:52,692 --> 00:23:56,347 - Because I'm sick of MJ not shutting her mom down. 705 00:23:56,391 --> 00:23:58,480 - Wait, but you just said I'm sick of my mom-- 706 00:23:58,524 --> 00:24:00,221 me not shutting my mom down. 707 00:24:00,264 --> 00:24:01,570 - No, I'm sick of you-- - You just said that. 708 00:24:01,614 --> 00:24:02,832 - No, when it comes-- - You're sick of MJ 709 00:24:02,876 --> 00:24:04,138 not shutting her mom down. 710 00:24:04,181 --> 00:24:05,661 - When it comes down to other people. 711 00:24:05,705 --> 00:24:08,316 You love shutting her down when she's talking to you. 712 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:09,491 - That's not true. - You thrive 713 00:24:09,535 --> 00:24:11,145 when she's coming for other people, 714 00:24:11,188 --> 00:24:12,494 things you wish you would say. - Then why repeat it? 715 00:24:12,538 --> 00:24:13,539 - What? Thank you. - Why? 716 00:24:13,582 --> 00:24:15,323 Because I'm sick and tired 717 00:24:15,366 --> 00:24:16,367 of her mom-- - No. 718 00:24:16,411 --> 00:24:17,673 - But she did try to shut it down. 719 00:24:17,717 --> 00:24:18,500 - No, she didn't. - You guys, if he didn't-- 720 00:24:18,544 --> 00:24:19,588 - She said it wasn't nice. 721 00:24:19,632 --> 00:24:20,633 - Destiney needs an ass, she told me. 722 00:24:20,676 --> 00:24:21,547 - Oh, why did you say that, Mom? 723 00:24:21,590 --> 00:24:24,506 - She said Destiney needs to put an ass. 724 00:24:24,550 --> 00:24:26,726 - How about you don't tell anyone about their body? 725 00:24:26,769 --> 00:24:28,031 - No, no, she did not. 726 00:24:28,075 --> 00:24:29,163 - Yes, I did. - Andy, if he did not repeat it, 727 00:24:29,206 --> 00:24:30,120 I would not have known until it aired. 728 00:24:30,164 --> 00:24:31,165 - She would have seen it later. 729 00:24:31,208 --> 00:24:32,253 - I know, but you were laughing. 730 00:24:32,296 --> 00:24:33,689 - Have you seen-- - That's what she sid. 731 00:24:33,733 --> 00:24:34,734 - God, please don't be-- - Because I couldn't believe 732 00:24:34,777 --> 00:24:35,996 what was happening, like, again. 733 00:24:36,039 --> 00:24:38,433 The-the, like, the one hit wonder shows up. 734 00:24:38,477 --> 00:24:41,131 She walked in, said hi, and it was like 735 00:24:41,175 --> 00:24:42,568 pop-pop-pop-pop- pop-pop-pop. 736 00:24:42,611 --> 00:24:44,178 Like, why? - No, no, no, no, no. 737 00:24:44,221 --> 00:24:45,396 - I don't wanna hear this stuff. 738 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,703 Go, like-- - Absolute-absolute bullsh--. 739 00:24:47,747 --> 00:24:49,226 Just so you know... - Yeah, yeah. 740 00:24:49,270 --> 00:24:51,664 - You've destroyed my mom. You've hurt her so much. 741 00:24:51,707 --> 00:24:53,840 - You've done nothing. You're an angel. 742 00:24:53,883 --> 00:24:55,319 We've had the best friendship. 743 00:24:55,363 --> 00:24:56,669 - Destroyed your mom by doing what? 744 00:24:56,712 --> 00:24:57,887 - You've done nothing to me. - That's not fair. 745 00:24:57,931 --> 00:24:58,584 - You're the best. - He broke her heart. 746 00:24:58,627 --> 00:25:00,150 - Destroyed her why? 747 00:25:00,194 --> 00:25:00,934 - I'm compulsive, I'm elusive. - Because my mom watched. 748 00:25:00,977 --> 00:25:02,022 - He repeated. - Bcause my mom-- 749 00:25:02,065 --> 00:25:03,893 - I'm this. I'm the worst person. 750 00:25:03,937 --> 00:25:05,765 - No. - Bring out a list for her. 751 00:25:05,808 --> 00:25:07,593 Does some have a scroll for Merc to read? 752 00:25:07,636 --> 00:25:09,290 - You-- because you insulted her. 753 00:25:09,333 --> 00:25:11,292 - I feel like you came here with an agenda 754 00:25:11,335 --> 00:25:12,423 to make me look bad. 755 00:25:12,467 --> 00:25:13,555 I don't like it. - That's not true. 756 00:25:13,599 --> 00:25:15,035 - And then you were like, no, me. 757 00:25:15,078 --> 00:25:17,864 - Destiney, were you more bothered by what Veda said 758 00:25:17,907 --> 00:25:20,649 or that Reza kind of gleefully 759 00:25:20,693 --> 00:25:21,955 told you what she said? 760 00:25:21,998 --> 00:25:23,217 - Please be respectful to my mom. 761 00:25:23,260 --> 00:25:25,524 - I hated all of it, everything. 762 00:25:25,567 --> 00:25:27,264 I was so disgusted. 763 00:25:27,308 --> 00:25:29,571 And I'm also having her husband talk about my looks. 764 00:25:29,615 --> 00:25:32,356 - And Destiney looks like The Count from "Sesame Street," 765 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,010 and if you wanna get The Count, 766 00:25:34,054 --> 00:25:36,970 get The Count to find out how many times the broad lies. 767 00:25:37,013 --> 00:25:40,713 - I told Tommy I am not supportive of him 768 00:25:40,756 --> 00:25:44,543 criticizing your looks, nor of my mother. 769 00:25:44,586 --> 00:25:45,805 - Jill from Montana said, 770 00:25:45,848 --> 00:25:47,807 "Reza, it was so fun to see your mom. 771 00:25:47,850 --> 00:25:49,765 She revealed a lot about her difficult marriage 772 00:25:49,809 --> 00:25:51,506 and divorce." - Yeah. 773 00:25:51,550 --> 00:25:53,639 - How did all of that affect how you are today? 774 00:25:53,682 --> 00:25:56,250 - I wrote a lot about my mom's tumultuous marriage 775 00:25:56,293 --> 00:25:57,556 to my dad, 776 00:25:57,599 --> 00:26:01,037 and my dad is not-- um, yeah. 777 00:26:01,081 --> 00:26:02,648 - Your dad is what? 778 00:26:02,691 --> 00:26:04,563 - Say it. 779 00:26:05,912 --> 00:26:09,045 - He's, like, nonverbal now, kind of, 780 00:26:09,089 --> 00:26:12,614 and, uh, it's so difficult. 781 00:26:12,658 --> 00:26:13,833 Thank you. 782 00:26:13,876 --> 00:26:16,357 Um, yeah, it's-- 783 00:26:21,318 --> 00:26:22,885 Nema posted a picture with his dad 784 00:26:22,929 --> 00:26:24,408 in New York, 785 00:26:24,452 --> 00:26:27,498 and he and I previously had conversations, 786 00:26:27,542 --> 00:26:30,023 and it's so nice to see them 787 00:26:30,066 --> 00:26:32,547 getting to a better place before it's too late. 788 00:26:32,591 --> 00:26:34,027 - Mmm. Mike and Reza, 789 00:26:34,070 --> 00:26:36,420 you have always been ride or die brothers, 790 00:26:36,464 --> 00:26:38,509 but, you know, Mike, last season, 791 00:26:38,553 --> 00:26:41,382 you were something of a voice of reason. 792 00:26:41,425 --> 00:26:42,731 - You also said things and did things 793 00:26:42,775 --> 00:26:44,428 that were very ----ed up. - I know, terrible. 794 00:26:44,472 --> 00:26:47,083 - Okay, but you have to continue to apologize 795 00:26:47,127 --> 00:26:48,607 because it's not gonna be one apology. 796 00:26:48,650 --> 00:26:50,043 - I will, forever. 797 00:26:50,086 --> 00:26:51,653 - Both of you need to be okay, meet in the middle, 798 00:26:51,697 --> 00:26:53,046 and let's fix this. 799 00:26:53,089 --> 00:26:55,962 - If you had to pinpoint your issues now with Reza, 800 00:26:56,005 --> 00:26:57,790 what was at the crux? 801 00:26:57,833 --> 00:26:59,879 - I just wanted him to reciprocate 802 00:26:59,922 --> 00:27:02,055 what I gave him last year. 803 00:27:02,098 --> 00:27:03,796 Honestly, why I wanted to sit down, 804 00:27:03,839 --> 00:27:06,625 is to figure out what-what the [BLEEP] is going on 805 00:27:06,668 --> 00:27:09,062 between two people who say they're brothers 806 00:27:09,105 --> 00:27:11,542 but take low blows at each other. 807 00:27:11,586 --> 00:27:12,805 I'm also to blame. 808 00:27:12,848 --> 00:27:15,634 - I get resentful of people whose stuff 809 00:27:15,677 --> 00:27:17,897 bleeds over into my world. 810 00:27:17,940 --> 00:27:21,683 - Today, now, here, I look at him, 811 00:27:21,727 --> 00:27:22,989 and I go, [BLEEP], I miss this guy. 812 00:27:23,032 --> 00:27:24,207 - Okay. 813 00:27:24,251 --> 00:27:25,034 - Who else would wear shorts and a suit 814 00:27:25,078 --> 00:27:26,079 and ----in' pull it off? 815 00:27:26,122 --> 00:27:26,993 And this is the things he does. 816 00:27:27,036 --> 00:27:29,125 Like, I-- he-he amuses me. 817 00:27:29,169 --> 00:27:31,388 He enlightens me. 818 00:27:31,432 --> 00:27:33,129 He makes me feel fulfilled. 819 00:27:33,173 --> 00:27:36,132 He is the older brother that I always wanted. 820 00:27:36,176 --> 00:27:38,613 But, unfortunately, we don't handle it 821 00:27:38,657 --> 00:27:40,746 the way we should. 822 00:27:40,789 --> 00:27:42,095 - Okay. - Instead, we go to social media 823 00:27:42,138 --> 00:27:44,140 and the press, and we do all these nonsense. 824 00:27:44,184 --> 00:27:45,881 - Right. - And get people involved. 825 00:27:45,925 --> 00:27:47,709 And then I feel like, you know what? 826 00:27:47,753 --> 00:27:49,798 [BLEEP] this guy. Like, he's betraying my trust, 827 00:27:49,842 --> 00:27:50,973 and then it becomes hard. 828 00:27:51,017 --> 00:27:53,889 But, right now, standing before you, 829 00:27:53,933 --> 00:27:55,456 I love you. - I love you. 830 00:27:55,499 --> 00:27:57,023 - I will always love you. I will always be there for you. 831 00:27:57,066 --> 00:27:58,111 I will always protect you. - I love you. 832 00:27:58,154 --> 00:27:59,939 I know you will. - I will-- there's-- 833 00:27:59,982 --> 00:28:01,984 we're gonna work on our friendship. 834 00:28:02,028 --> 00:28:03,899 - And so, same question to you. 835 00:28:03,943 --> 00:28:06,597 - One thing I know about Mike, 836 00:28:06,641 --> 00:28:08,687 when he and I make mistakes, 837 00:28:08,730 --> 00:28:11,037 the two of us do not like 838 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,170 when the other one points out mistakes. 839 00:28:14,214 --> 00:28:16,825 I would like to make this one resolution. 840 00:28:16,869 --> 00:28:19,567 I will not ever mention Mike's penis. 841 00:28:19,610 --> 00:28:21,743 [laughing] 842 00:28:21,787 --> 00:28:24,006 - Mike looks so unhappy, right now. 843 00:28:24,050 --> 00:28:26,443 - I'm so tired of this sh--, dude, yeesh. 844 00:28:26,487 --> 00:28:27,880 - I have to tell you. 845 00:28:27,923 --> 00:28:30,447 One of the most beautiful parts of today's reunion, 846 00:28:30,491 --> 00:28:32,711 is seeing the ring on Paulina's finger. 847 00:28:32,754 --> 00:28:35,148 So, for being able to turn that around, 848 00:28:35,191 --> 00:28:36,845 I have mad respect for you, 849 00:28:36,889 --> 00:28:41,545 for being able to come back to the table and admit. 850 00:28:41,589 --> 00:28:44,026 Took you a minute, but I love you and thank you 851 00:28:44,070 --> 00:28:47,726 for being honest and not trying to push the lie. 852 00:28:47,769 --> 00:28:49,945 I love you. - I love you, too. 853 00:28:49,989 --> 00:28:51,904 - You're right, you didn't do it on my timeframe, 854 00:28:51,947 --> 00:28:53,470 and I was mad at you. 855 00:28:53,514 --> 00:28:55,037 I apologize to you. 856 00:28:55,081 --> 00:28:57,605 I'm really sorry. I'm really sorry. 857 00:28:59,650 --> 00:29:00,695 - Love you. 858 00:29:00,739 --> 00:29:02,218 - Coming up... 859 00:29:02,262 --> 00:29:03,611 - We're gonna have to have some difficult conversations 860 00:29:03,654 --> 00:29:05,744 in order to get to a better place. 861 00:29:05,787 --> 00:29:07,267 - I've been punished so much. 862 00:29:07,310 --> 00:29:09,182 - Wow. 863 00:29:14,274 --> 00:29:15,928 - So, you and I go way, way too far back. 864 00:29:15,971 --> 00:29:17,233 - We go way back. 865 00:29:17,277 --> 00:29:19,192 - You don't even feel like you even need to 866 00:29:19,235 --> 00:29:21,020 validate my feelings. - I feel like-- 867 00:29:21,063 --> 00:29:22,761 No, I-- - I'm gonna say my feelings. 868 00:29:22,804 --> 00:29:24,066 - You always say your feelings. 869 00:29:24,110 --> 00:29:25,546 I never say anything about it. 870 00:29:25,589 --> 00:29:26,808 - You just don't-- I just don't wanna talk about it 871 00:29:26,852 --> 00:29:28,157 until we're going. 872 00:29:28,201 --> 00:29:31,073 - Four, three, two. 873 00:29:31,117 --> 00:29:34,033 - Welcome back to the "Shahs of Sunset" reunion. 874 00:29:34,076 --> 00:29:36,470 Well, after and rough previous season, 875 00:29:36,513 --> 00:29:38,864 this year, MJ was back 876 00:29:38,907 --> 00:29:41,910 and ready to fight for all her friendships. 877 00:29:41,954 --> 00:29:44,304 And while those relationships were thriving, 878 00:29:44,347 --> 00:29:46,741 nude texts and all, 879 00:29:46,785 --> 00:29:48,264 her marriage, on the other hand, 880 00:29:48,308 --> 00:29:51,746 had become significantly less spicy. 881 00:29:51,790 --> 00:29:53,356 - Well, when's the last time you had sex? 882 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,010 - It was, like, two weeks ago. 883 00:29:55,054 --> 00:29:56,272 - That long ago? - When was that? 884 00:29:56,316 --> 00:29:58,274 - That's a sore subject for me. 885 00:29:58,318 --> 00:30:00,276 It's not what I like to think about. 886 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,322 - What's happening with your spark with Tommy? 887 00:30:02,365 --> 00:30:03,976 - Um, we're very close. 888 00:30:04,019 --> 00:30:05,978 We're-we're very in love. 889 00:30:06,021 --> 00:30:09,329 I just don't think I've really prioritized 890 00:30:09,372 --> 00:30:11,157 the romance, right now. [chuckles] 891 00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,028 - What does an average day look like for you? 892 00:30:13,072 --> 00:30:14,987 I mean, are you full mom duty? 893 00:30:15,030 --> 00:30:16,162 - Yes. - Yes. 894 00:30:16,205 --> 00:30:18,338 - Um, so, I wake up when he wakes up 895 00:30:18,381 --> 00:30:19,774 around 6 or 7. 896 00:30:19,818 --> 00:30:21,994 [squealing] Tommy! 897 00:30:22,037 --> 00:30:24,474 I'm, like, tracking raspberries. 898 00:30:24,518 --> 00:30:26,999 I'm worried something is gonna fall down. 899 00:30:27,042 --> 00:30:29,088 I'm worried he's gonna hurt himself. 900 00:30:29,131 --> 00:30:30,524 - Come here, I got him. 901 00:30:30,567 --> 00:30:32,831 - We do our regular routine, 902 00:30:32,874 --> 00:30:36,443 breakfast, reading books, exercise, 903 00:30:36,486 --> 00:30:37,792 and the witching hour, 904 00:30:37,836 --> 00:30:40,882 which is the hardest part of every single day, 905 00:30:40,926 --> 00:30:42,318 which is, just, like, five hours. 906 00:30:42,362 --> 00:30:43,537 It's impossible to kill. 907 00:30:43,580 --> 00:30:45,365 - Right. - Yeah, it's hell. 908 00:30:45,408 --> 00:30:48,759 - Are there qualities of baby Shams that 909 00:30:48,803 --> 00:30:50,892 you see your dad in? 910 00:30:50,936 --> 00:30:54,026 - Yes, his demeanor, his facial expressions, 911 00:30:54,069 --> 00:30:57,464 just physically, like, his part of his hair, 912 00:30:57,507 --> 00:31:01,076 so, um, just a lot of things. 913 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:04,210 - Reza, Shams Senior always had your back, 914 00:31:04,253 --> 00:31:06,865 and you haven't met his namesake. 915 00:31:06,908 --> 00:31:08,910 What-what would you tell baby Shams 916 00:31:08,954 --> 00:31:10,999 about his grandfather, if you could? 917 00:31:11,043 --> 00:31:13,349 - Oh, he was such a great guy. 918 00:31:13,393 --> 00:31:16,787 He took such great care of his daughter. 919 00:31:16,831 --> 00:31:18,920 Um... 920 00:31:21,923 --> 00:31:25,405 sad that he wasn't here to, uh, 921 00:31:25,448 --> 00:31:27,886 get to experience him. 922 00:31:33,108 --> 00:31:35,241 - What's one thing you miss about Reza 923 00:31:35,284 --> 00:31:36,938 that you haven't gotten back yet? 924 00:31:36,982 --> 00:31:40,463 - So, it's, like, the day to day thing. 925 00:31:40,507 --> 00:31:43,814 I mean, being able to wake up, call him, 926 00:31:43,858 --> 00:31:44,990 anything important, 927 00:31:45,033 --> 00:31:48,036 and I feel like what's holding me back, 928 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:49,298 is that I wanna make sure 929 00:31:49,342 --> 00:31:51,257 that we're earning it authentically, 930 00:31:51,300 --> 00:31:53,433 and the problem is, you know, 931 00:31:53,476 --> 00:31:56,001 the stuff between my husband and him. 932 00:31:58,612 --> 00:32:00,962 You know, the jail time that my husband did 933 00:32:01,006 --> 00:32:04,096 is very hard for him to walk back from. 934 00:32:04,139 --> 00:32:06,054 - Well, what is the status of the restraining order, 935 00:32:06,098 --> 00:32:07,316 right now? 936 00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,449 - She told me Tommy doesn't give a [BLEEP]. 937 00:32:09,492 --> 00:32:10,972 He doesn't give sh--. 938 00:32:11,016 --> 00:32:12,626 I had paid my attorney to drop it. 939 00:32:12,669 --> 00:32:14,280 - Okay. - I wrote the card. 940 00:32:14,323 --> 00:32:16,021 He tore it up. I didn't know. 941 00:32:16,064 --> 00:32:20,068 - In this book, there is a letter for you. 942 00:32:20,112 --> 00:32:22,114 - I don't-I don't care, babe. 943 00:32:22,157 --> 00:32:23,332 - Just read it. - I'm not. 944 00:32:23,376 --> 00:32:26,161 I'm good, bro. I'm good. 945 00:32:26,205 --> 00:32:28,163 I don't need this. 946 00:32:28,207 --> 00:32:29,991 - She never reached out to say thanks. 947 00:32:30,035 --> 00:32:31,079 I gave him the card. - What was your reaction 948 00:32:31,123 --> 00:32:32,211 when you saw him tearing up the card? 949 00:32:32,254 --> 00:32:33,690 - So disappointed. 950 00:32:33,734 --> 00:32:35,997 I just thought that we would be in a different place, 951 00:32:36,041 --> 00:32:38,347 and if I was trying 952 00:32:38,391 --> 00:32:40,045 and dropped the restraining order, 953 00:32:40,088 --> 00:32:42,003 that maybe some good would come out of it, 954 00:32:42,047 --> 00:32:44,484 but there was no good, 955 00:32:44,527 --> 00:32:46,181 and that's the way it went. 956 00:32:46,225 --> 00:32:48,488 And can I say something that's very honest? 957 00:32:48,531 --> 00:32:50,011 - Yeah. - I do not want 958 00:32:50,055 --> 00:32:51,317 a relationship with Tommy. - Right. 959 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:52,709 - I'm doing the restraining order 960 00:32:52,753 --> 00:32:55,582 as a favor to MJ 'cause she made it crystal clear 961 00:32:55,625 --> 00:32:58,585 that she feels isolated and alienated 962 00:32:58,628 --> 00:33:00,500 as a result of it. 963 00:33:00,543 --> 00:33:03,982 - How are things with you and Tommy? 964 00:33:04,025 --> 00:33:07,202 - Okay, so, it's a little complicated because I feel 965 00:33:07,246 --> 00:33:09,944 like we have good moments and bad moments. 966 00:33:09,988 --> 00:33:11,946 Compared to last year, there's a lot of progress, 967 00:33:11,990 --> 00:33:14,035 for sure. He's not as angry. 968 00:33:14,079 --> 00:33:16,211 He doesn't feel that intensity. 969 00:33:16,255 --> 00:33:18,039 - Good. - But the boo-boo 970 00:33:18,083 --> 00:33:20,041 is not healed. - Okay. 971 00:33:20,085 --> 00:33:23,088 Reza, have you given up on trying to repair 972 00:33:23,131 --> 00:33:25,177 the Tommy relationship, and why do you think 973 00:33:25,220 --> 00:33:26,395 he should forgive you? 974 00:33:26,439 --> 00:33:28,354 - I don't think he should forgive me. 975 00:33:28,397 --> 00:33:30,965 I'm not looking to do anything with Tommy. 976 00:33:31,009 --> 00:33:32,314 I watched the show. 977 00:33:32,358 --> 00:33:35,578 I've spoken to my former best friend of 30 years. 978 00:33:35,622 --> 00:33:37,711 It's crystal clear. 979 00:33:37,754 --> 00:33:39,974 He's not looking to have relationships 980 00:33:40,018 --> 00:33:42,498 with Destiney, Golnesa, or myself. 981 00:33:42,542 --> 00:33:45,240 I'm just doing this as a good gesture-- 982 00:33:45,284 --> 00:33:48,330 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - To show her that 983 00:33:48,374 --> 00:33:50,332 I wanna do it for her. - Okay. 984 00:33:50,376 --> 00:33:52,726 - I, too, watched the season, and Tommy also 985 00:33:52,769 --> 00:33:55,424 reads the paper and sees things are said 986 00:33:55,468 --> 00:33:58,427 that sets him off, again. - Like what? 987 00:33:58,471 --> 00:34:00,690 - He sees you liking the making fun of me 988 00:34:00,734 --> 00:34:02,083 dying and all of those things. 989 00:34:02,127 --> 00:34:03,128 - What? - He sees it. 990 00:34:03,171 --> 00:34:04,607 - From years ago? - This season. 991 00:34:04,651 --> 00:34:05,652 You said just this season. He's watching this season. 992 00:34:05,695 --> 00:34:06,870 - From years ago? - It wasn't-- 993 00:34:06,914 --> 00:34:08,263 it wasn't years ago. - Yeah, I swear it. 994 00:34:08,307 --> 00:34:09,743 Okay, no problem. - What-what-- 995 00:34:09,786 --> 00:34:11,092 - All I'm saying is, this is for us. 996 00:34:11,136 --> 00:34:12,180 - Okay. 997 00:34:12,224 --> 00:34:13,312 - Nothing has happened this year. 998 00:34:13,355 --> 00:34:14,530 - Poor Tommy. - What do you think-- 999 00:34:14,574 --> 00:34:15,792 what do you think it would take for Tommy 1000 00:34:15,836 --> 00:34:19,579 to say that Reza can meet Shams? 1001 00:34:22,321 --> 00:34:24,018 - I think that Tommy wants to see Reza 1002 00:34:24,062 --> 00:34:25,541 in anger management. - Oh. 1003 00:34:25,585 --> 00:34:27,282 - And he thinks that-- - Tommy wants to see 1004 00:34:27,326 --> 00:34:29,110 Reza in anger management? - Absolutely. 1005 00:34:29,154 --> 00:34:30,329 You've seen the way that he is. 1006 00:34:30,372 --> 00:34:31,547 - And is Tommy going to anger management? 1007 00:34:31,591 --> 00:34:33,027 - He completed many hours. - He completed. 1008 00:34:33,071 --> 00:34:34,376 - 'Cause it was court ordered and then that was it? 1009 00:34:34,420 --> 00:34:35,551 - And-- - When the court order 1010 00:34:35,595 --> 00:34:36,683 hours were done, he finished? 1011 00:34:36,726 --> 00:34:37,727 - No, he-- - Or was the healing done, 1012 00:34:37,771 --> 00:34:39,425 and then he finished? - No, no. 1013 00:34:39,468 --> 00:34:41,862 Tommy has really been working on himself. 1014 00:34:41,905 --> 00:34:44,082 - He's doing his gratitude alarms. 1015 00:34:44,125 --> 00:34:47,041 - Yes. [alarm sounding] 1016 00:34:47,085 --> 00:34:48,477 - I'm grateful for my wife. 1017 00:34:48,521 --> 00:34:50,610 I'm grateful for my son. 1018 00:34:50,653 --> 00:34:52,525 I'm grateful that everybody is healthy. 1019 00:34:52,568 --> 00:34:54,831 - Reza and Golnesa, do you notice 1020 00:34:54,875 --> 00:34:58,574 that MJ has grown? - I haven't, unfortunately, 1021 00:34:58,618 --> 00:35:02,709 spent very much time with Merc. 1022 00:35:02,752 --> 00:35:06,321 I would love to be able to tell you 1023 00:35:06,365 --> 00:35:08,497 that I can share lots of stuff with you, 1024 00:35:08,541 --> 00:35:09,629 but, unfortunately, I can't. 1025 00:35:09,672 --> 00:35:11,326 - Right. And you? 1026 00:35:11,370 --> 00:35:14,155 - I-I would have to say the same. 1027 00:35:14,199 --> 00:35:16,723 - I-I definitely deserve m-more than that 1028 00:35:16,766 --> 00:35:18,681 from you, Golnesa, but that's okay. 1029 00:35:18,725 --> 00:35:21,206 - It's hard to-to wanna, uh, co-sign on anything 1030 00:35:21,249 --> 00:35:24,296 more than that when, you know, it's interesting to me 1031 00:35:24,339 --> 00:35:26,211 that you're kinda saying funny stuff 1032 00:35:26,254 --> 00:35:28,343 behind my back to Reza. 1033 00:35:28,387 --> 00:35:30,128 Like, you're-you're waiting around 1034 00:35:30,171 --> 00:35:33,305 to see this changed person in me. 1035 00:35:33,348 --> 00:35:35,220 You know, and then when I ran into you recently 1036 00:35:35,263 --> 00:35:36,699 at a birthday party, and you were like, 1037 00:35:36,743 --> 00:35:38,310 "Oh, yeah, you had your ringleader there." 1038 00:35:38,353 --> 00:35:40,094 I'm like, "My who?" "You had Reza." 1039 00:35:40,138 --> 00:35:41,748 I'm like, what-- So, it's, like, it's random that-- 1040 00:35:41,791 --> 00:35:43,271 'cause this was just a week or two ago. 1041 00:35:43,315 --> 00:35:44,707 So, I don't know. 1042 00:35:44,751 --> 00:35:46,883 Every time I do feel like we're taking a step 1043 00:35:46,927 --> 00:35:48,624 forward, you say these random things. 1044 00:35:48,668 --> 00:35:51,192 I'm like, did you want me to be like, "ha-ha-ha, 1045 00:35:51,236 --> 00:35:53,803 "yeah, my ----ing ring leader, I had him there?" 1046 00:35:53,847 --> 00:35:55,849 - I harbor resentment. - Oh, boy, Okay. 1047 00:35:55,892 --> 00:35:57,764 - Merc, the reason you are not my friend 1048 00:35:57,807 --> 00:36:00,288 and will not be my friend, is because you lie. 1049 00:36:00,332 --> 00:36:02,421 You have never been there for me. 1050 00:36:02,464 --> 00:36:04,597 - I don't think that you mean to say to me 1051 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,599 that we'll never be friends. 1052 00:36:06,642 --> 00:36:08,775 - Merc, every time I try to have that conversation 1053 00:36:08,818 --> 00:36:10,646 with you, you don't wanna have it. 1054 00:36:10,690 --> 00:36:12,300 You sort of, when I bring up things that you don't 1055 00:36:12,344 --> 00:36:14,781 wanna discuss, maybe you're either in the wrong, 1056 00:36:14,824 --> 00:36:16,739 or it hurts you, you brush it under. 1057 00:36:16,783 --> 00:36:18,219 You're like, "Okay, that's-- that was in the past. 1058 00:36:18,263 --> 00:36:20,352 "We don't need to go there." 1059 00:36:20,395 --> 00:36:22,484 It's hard to get a conversation with you 1060 00:36:22,528 --> 00:36:23,616 to get to that place where I'm like, 1061 00:36:23,659 --> 00:36:24,747 "Good, we had a breakthrough. 1062 00:36:24,791 --> 00:36:28,447 "Let's try to grow from here." 1063 00:36:28,490 --> 00:36:31,189 - Okay, well, let's try. - Let's try, I'm down. 1064 00:36:32,842 --> 00:36:36,237 - Coming up... - When Reza and I are close, 1065 00:36:36,281 --> 00:36:38,457 there would be meaning to having him 1066 00:36:38,500 --> 00:36:41,286 meet and play a role in my son's life. 1067 00:36:41,329 --> 00:36:42,852 - What do you say that? 1068 00:36:42,896 --> 00:36:46,900 - Internally, we have taken 1,000 steps back. 1069 00:36:49,250 --> 00:36:53,646 ♪ 1070 00:36:53,689 --> 00:36:56,692 - Welcome back to "Shahs of Sunset" reunion. 1071 00:36:56,736 --> 00:36:58,041 Who here thinks Reza should be allowed 1072 00:36:58,085 --> 00:36:59,521 to meet Shams? 1073 00:37:01,567 --> 00:37:03,482 Where does your voice come in, 1074 00:37:03,525 --> 00:37:07,877 in the idea of your son meeting Reza? 1075 00:37:07,921 --> 00:37:10,532 - When Reza and I are close, 1076 00:37:10,576 --> 00:37:12,795 there would be meaning to having him 1077 00:37:12,839 --> 00:37:16,059 meet and play a role in my son's life. 1078 00:37:16,103 --> 00:37:18,236 - How has Reza not being able to see the baby caused 1079 00:37:18,279 --> 00:37:22,849 a strain in your own marriage-- Has it? 1080 00:37:22,892 --> 00:37:25,634 - A strain in my heart. - Strain in your heart. 1081 00:37:25,678 --> 00:37:28,811 - A strain on my heart. I just don't know why 1082 00:37:28,855 --> 00:37:31,423 it's been so long that we're still in this 1083 00:37:31,466 --> 00:37:34,164 same place where I'm proving myself to be, 1084 00:37:34,208 --> 00:37:37,167 you know, worthy of being included. 1085 00:37:37,211 --> 00:37:39,909 - But it's-- she's-she's saying something that is 1086 00:37:39,953 --> 00:37:42,999 so innocuous that I'm doing, uh, it makes me 1087 00:37:43,043 --> 00:37:46,220 want to do nothing 'cause nothing is very safe. 1088 00:37:46,264 --> 00:37:47,526 - Right. 1089 00:37:47,569 --> 00:37:51,747 - Internally, we have taken 1,000 steps back. 1090 00:37:51,791 --> 00:37:54,924 I can't hang out with her when, in my brain 1091 00:37:54,968 --> 00:38:00,103 and in my heart, I feel like she's having conversations 1092 00:38:00,147 --> 00:38:04,151 that are driving me to be the bad person. 1093 00:38:04,194 --> 00:38:05,674 - That part. - I wanna avoid her 1094 00:38:05,718 --> 00:38:08,547 like the plague, and I have, and it's been 1095 00:38:08,590 --> 00:38:10,984 the happiest time of my life, and I'm so sorry. 1096 00:38:11,027 --> 00:38:12,768 - The happiest time of your life? 1097 00:38:12,812 --> 00:38:15,205 - The two years that I haven't had to deal 1098 00:38:15,249 --> 00:38:17,947 with, like, the emotional burden, things that 1099 00:38:17,991 --> 00:38:21,124 she makes me feel obligated that I have to do, 1100 00:38:21,168 --> 00:38:23,126 that put me in positions that I don't wanna be in. 1101 00:38:23,170 --> 00:38:24,867 - Oh, my God. - Wow. 1102 00:38:24,911 --> 00:38:26,782 - You guys feel like I need to go to 1103 00:38:26,826 --> 00:38:28,044 anger management. - Why not? 1104 00:38:28,088 --> 00:38:29,263 - I love you. I'm gonna drop 1105 00:38:29,307 --> 00:38:30,569 the restraining order for your husband. 1106 00:38:30,612 --> 00:38:31,918 I'm not going to anger management. 1107 00:38:31,961 --> 00:38:33,049 I'm not hanging out with you. 1108 00:38:33,093 --> 00:38:34,616 I'm not gonna see your kid. 1109 00:38:34,660 --> 00:38:35,748 I love you. 1110 00:38:35,791 --> 00:38:38,272 I'm gonna do it, so we can have peace. 1111 00:38:38,316 --> 00:38:41,580 - Please just acknowledge it's difficult for me 1112 00:38:41,623 --> 00:38:44,931 to see you form friendships with other people 1113 00:38:44,974 --> 00:38:47,977 and not make room for me. That's a really deep cut. 1114 00:38:48,021 --> 00:38:49,805 We're gonna have to have some difficult 1115 00:38:49,849 --> 00:38:52,547 conversations in order to get to a better place. 1116 00:38:52,591 --> 00:38:53,940 That's what resonated. 1117 00:38:53,983 --> 00:38:57,073 - Difficult conversations, yes, but why do you feel 1118 00:38:57,117 --> 00:39:00,250 like I have to do everything for you? 1119 00:39:00,294 --> 00:39:02,514 Stop punishing me if we're trying 1120 00:39:02,557 --> 00:39:03,776 to go somewhere good. 1121 00:39:03,819 --> 00:39:05,821 I've been punished so much. 1122 00:39:05,865 --> 00:39:07,519 Now, I'm finding out I need to go to 1123 00:39:07,562 --> 00:39:10,043 anger management, too. - I'm curious, Mike. 1124 00:39:10,086 --> 00:39:12,175 How do you think they should figure it out? 1125 00:39:12,219 --> 00:39:13,829 - Leave significant others out of it 1126 00:39:13,873 --> 00:39:15,353 and just work on your guys' friendships. 1127 00:39:15,396 --> 00:39:17,703 She cannot control what Tommy says or does 1128 00:39:17,746 --> 00:39:20,096 or what Veda says and does, and you can't control 1129 00:39:20,140 --> 00:39:22,925 how Adam feels about you. 1130 00:39:22,969 --> 00:39:27,234 And forget what he's got going on here with them. 1131 00:39:27,277 --> 00:39:28,278 - That's good advice. - Yeah. 1132 00:39:28,322 --> 00:39:29,584 - I agree. - Yeah. 1133 00:39:29,628 --> 00:39:30,629 - You know, just work on your guys' friendships 1134 00:39:30,672 --> 00:39:32,021 between you. - I think they were 1135 00:39:32,065 --> 00:39:34,981 trying to, and the factor was weighing that down 1136 00:39:35,024 --> 00:39:37,244 was the spouses, was the baby. 1137 00:39:37,287 --> 00:39:38,506 - Yeah, that's why I'm saying forget them. 1138 00:39:38,550 --> 00:39:39,551 - Well, the other-- - They were trying to, 1139 00:39:39,594 --> 00:39:40,813 but then they got stuck, again. 1140 00:39:40,856 --> 00:39:42,597 - The other thing that's going to be crucial, 1141 00:39:42,641 --> 00:39:45,905 right now, is we're shooting this tonight. 1142 00:39:45,948 --> 00:39:47,689 We're walking outta here. - Mm-hmm. 1143 00:39:47,733 --> 00:39:49,561 - The cameras are gonna be down for a while, 1144 00:39:49,604 --> 00:39:51,911 and then it's the true test of what's gonna happen 1145 00:39:51,954 --> 00:39:54,261 between the two of you because it's either 1146 00:39:54,304 --> 00:39:56,742 gonna sink or swim. - Yeah. 1147 00:39:56,785 --> 00:39:59,701 - It's gonna swim. - For sure. 1148 00:40:04,053 --> 00:40:06,882 - Okay, well, I think we're gonna leave it there, 1149 00:40:06,926 --> 00:40:08,362 and we're gonna focus on the present 1150 00:40:08,406 --> 00:40:10,886 and see where this goes. 1151 00:40:10,930 --> 00:40:12,279 - I'm with that. - Yeah. 1152 00:40:12,322 --> 00:40:15,151 - Well, this is a great way to end it. 1153 00:40:15,195 --> 00:40:17,066 Well, since this year, we enjoyed... 1154 00:40:17,110 --> 00:40:18,459 [speaking Farsi] 1155 00:40:18,503 --> 00:40:20,330 - Yes, perfect. - Oh, yeah, good job. 1156 00:40:20,374 --> 00:40:22,289 - And at times, humble pie. 1157 00:40:22,332 --> 00:40:24,204 - Yes. - I wanna raise our glass 1158 00:40:24,247 --> 00:40:27,163 to a crew that served up another great season. 1159 00:40:27,207 --> 00:40:31,080 And alas, GG, just for you, we got actual pie. 1160 00:40:31,124 --> 00:40:32,691 Let's bring the pie in. - Yes! 1161 00:40:32,734 --> 00:40:34,954 - Did you, really? - I'm so excited! 1162 00:40:34,997 --> 00:40:36,651 - Look at this. - [speaking Farsi] 1163 00:40:36,695 --> 00:40:39,480 - Oh, wow, individual little pies. 1164 00:40:39,524 --> 00:40:41,656 Just take the individual pie. 1165 00:40:41,700 --> 00:40:44,311 - Hold it underneath it. - Cheers! 1166 00:40:44,354 --> 00:40:46,356 - Guys, is there a Persian toast? 1167 00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:47,706 - [speaking Farsi]. 1168 00:40:47,749 --> 00:40:51,840 [all speaking Farsi] 1169 00:40:51,884 --> 00:40:53,842 - A little sugar never hurt nobody. 1170 00:40:53,886 --> 00:40:55,844 - Nobody. 1171 00:40:55,888 --> 00:40:58,804 - Oh, this is a good pie. - Yeah, it is. 1172 00:40:58,847 --> 00:41:00,414 - Look at her devouring the pie. 1173 00:41:00,458 --> 00:41:03,765 - Thank you, Andy Joon. - Thanks, guys. 1174 00:41:03,809 --> 00:41:05,985 - That's so great. - Can you get up here? 1175 00:41:06,028 --> 00:41:10,206 - This is nice-- Wow. - Stay well, baby. 1176 00:41:10,250 --> 00:41:11,338 - Are you gonna be nice to me, though? 1177 00:41:11,381 --> 00:41:12,339 - I promise I will be. 1178 00:41:12,382 --> 00:41:13,427 - But you said that last time. 1179 00:41:13,471 --> 00:41:15,037 - Honestly, I have a lot of love for you. 1180 00:41:15,081 --> 00:41:17,170 I just want you to be on my side sometimes, too. 1181 00:41:17,213 --> 00:41:18,258 - Wow. 1182 00:41:18,301 --> 00:41:19,433 - Wish I coulda gotten a hug today. 1183 00:41:19,477 --> 00:41:21,087 - I'm sorry. - That was great, guys. 1184 00:41:21,130 --> 00:41:22,523 Thank you very much. 1185 00:41:22,567 --> 00:41:29,356 ♪ 1186 00:41:29,399 --> 00:41:30,879 - I wanna change first, so badly. 1187 00:41:33,055 --> 00:41:35,318 - Last year, when we came to reunion, and it was, 1188 00:41:35,362 --> 00:41:37,799 like, so bad, and all I wanted, 1189 00:41:37,843 --> 00:41:41,107 was for it to go a different direction. 1190 00:41:41,150 --> 00:41:42,412 And then this year, I'm thinking, like, 1191 00:41:42,456 --> 00:41:44,284 of course, it's gonna go in a good direction 1192 00:41:44,327 --> 00:41:46,373 because we made so much progress. 1193 00:41:46,416 --> 00:41:51,030 It doesn't make me feel okay with myself to say 1194 00:41:51,073 --> 00:41:54,381 that I am not effectively communicating with people 1195 00:41:54,424 --> 00:41:57,036 that matter to me in my life. 1196 00:41:57,079 --> 00:41:58,298 I don't know how to approach you. 1197 00:41:58,341 --> 00:42:01,910 I don't know how to approach Tommy, okay? 1198 00:42:01,954 --> 00:42:05,914 I just miss you. 1199 00:42:05,958 --> 00:42:10,310 - I missed you, too. - And it's hard. 1200 00:42:10,353 --> 00:42:15,489 The 1,000 steps back is not how I want today to end. 1201 00:42:15,533 --> 00:42:17,273 - Nor do I. 1202 00:42:17,317 --> 00:42:20,233 I was so focused on trying to heal the group 1203 00:42:20,276 --> 00:42:24,063 that I lost sight of trying to heal me and you, 1204 00:42:24,106 --> 00:42:25,978 and then we come here, and I realize that 1205 00:42:26,021 --> 00:42:27,936 all the progress we made-- - Yeah. 1206 00:42:27,980 --> 00:42:31,200 - It so easily can be lost. - Well-- 1207 00:42:31,244 --> 00:42:33,246 - And we have to work on it. - Yeah. 1208 00:42:36,815 --> 00:42:38,338 Thank you. - Absolutely. 1209 00:42:38,381 --> 00:42:40,775 Can I give you a kiss? - Yeah, let's go home. 1210 00:42:43,386 --> 00:42:44,562 - I'm really sorry for upsetting you. 1211 00:42:44,605 --> 00:42:46,389 It's not what I wanted to do. 1212 00:42:46,433 --> 00:42:50,132 - We, um, we deserved the night to end like this. 1213 00:42:50,176 --> 00:42:51,612 - Yeah, absolutely. 1214 00:42:51,656 --> 00:42:53,614 I don't wanna take any more steps back. 1215 00:42:53,658 --> 00:42:55,529 - Likewise, thank you. - Love you. 1216 00:42:57,662 --> 00:43:00,142 Thank you for this way better ending.