1 00:00:12,644 --> 00:00:13,644 - Previously, on part one 2 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:15,281 of the "Shahs of Sunset" reunion... 3 00:00:15,314 --> 00:00:19,419 Mike, you say slimming down makes your (BLEEP) look bigger. 4 00:00:19,452 --> 00:00:20,586 - I-I gained a half inch. 5 00:00:20,620 --> 00:00:22,254 [laughing] 6 00:00:22,288 --> 00:00:24,289 - You're a piece of sh... . 7 00:00:24,324 --> 00:00:26,326 - Stop being a pussy behind a keyboard. 8 00:00:26,359 --> 00:00:27,260 - I'm not trying to be a pussy. 9 00:00:27,292 --> 00:00:28,303 I'm talkin' to you right here, in my face. 10 00:00:28,327 --> 00:00:30,663 - But why are you pretending that we were cool? 11 00:00:30,696 --> 00:00:33,332 - I want us to earn our way back to a better place. 12 00:00:33,365 --> 00:00:34,677 - I don't think there would be a friendship 13 00:00:34,701 --> 00:00:37,369 if it wasn't for us having kids. 14 00:00:38,170 --> 00:00:40,439 - I have watched you get so ugly with the people 15 00:00:40,472 --> 00:00:41,540 that are around me. 16 00:00:41,573 --> 00:00:43,243 That side of Reza scares me. 17 00:00:43,276 --> 00:00:44,387 - Me and Reza used to be the same way. 18 00:00:44,411 --> 00:00:45,911 When you're on the outs, boom. 19 00:00:45,945 --> 00:00:47,414 The next person takes that spot. 20 00:00:47,447 --> 00:00:48,247 That's-that's the... that's... 21 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:49,149 - If you don't fight Reza's battles, 22 00:00:49,182 --> 00:00:51,509 then you are public enemy number one. 23 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:52,152 - Yes, yes. 24 00:00:52,185 --> 00:00:54,286 - Why were you mad at Paulina for texting everyone 25 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,456 about Mike cheating? - These were from Mike. 26 00:00:56,488 --> 00:00:58,124 Put 'em in the trash. - Thank you. 27 00:00:58,158 --> 00:00:59,523 - Why are you such a bitch? 28 00:00:59,524 --> 00:01:02,161 - You are my enemy now. - You're a hood rat! 29 00:01:02,195 --> 00:01:03,463 [gasps] 30 00:01:03,496 --> 00:01:05,564 - I wanna share something with you guys. 31 00:01:05,597 --> 00:01:07,098 We're engaged. - Oh. 32 00:01:07,099 --> 00:01:08,411 - Paulina, you have told me stuff. 33 00:01:08,435 --> 00:01:10,436 I have kept it to myself. 34 00:01:10,469 --> 00:01:14,441 - Listen, it's all hearsay. - Your schtick is up! 35 00:01:14,474 --> 00:01:16,575 ♪♪ 36 00:01:19,179 --> 00:01:23,115 ♪♪ 37 00:01:23,149 --> 00:01:26,453 Every single time he has talked sh... about me, 38 00:01:26,486 --> 00:01:28,822 Paulina, even that night... 39 00:01:28,855 --> 00:01:32,459 You know what you said to me in the bathroom. 40 00:01:32,491 --> 00:01:35,161 You know damn well I have been there 41 00:01:35,194 --> 00:01:37,364 from the beginning and had your back, 42 00:01:37,396 --> 00:01:41,200 and I never went and told anybody anything. 43 00:01:41,234 --> 00:01:42,968 - I will say one thing, though. 44 00:01:43,299 --> 00:01:45,838 I was so wasted at dinner that night. 45 00:01:45,871 --> 00:01:49,109 - Okay, but what about the other nights, 46 00:01:49,141 --> 00:01:50,619 and the other texts, and the phone calls? 47 00:01:50,643 --> 00:01:51,844 - Yeah. - Paulina, don't. 48 00:01:51,878 --> 00:01:53,479 - No, no, no. I'm... listen. 49 00:01:53,513 --> 00:01:55,123 I'm not... I'm not... I'm not saying anything. 50 00:01:55,147 --> 00:01:56,692 - Do you remember what you said in the bathroom? 51 00:01:56,716 --> 00:01:57,716 - Yeah. - I really don't. 52 00:01:57,751 --> 00:01:59,527 - Is it okay for her to say what you told her? 53 00:01:59,551 --> 00:02:00,819 Is she okay to say it out loud? 54 00:02:00,853 --> 00:02:02,549 - I don't know what I said. 55 00:02:02,879 --> 00:02:03,289 - But is it okay for her to say it, right now, what you... 56 00:02:03,322 --> 00:02:06,525 - Well, I don't... I... - No, don't say anything out loud. 57 00:02:06,558 --> 00:02:09,329 - She may not ever let you know, 58 00:02:09,361 --> 00:02:10,530 or she may, and I don't care. 59 00:02:10,562 --> 00:02:14,300 I will never say what she said, out of respect, okay? 60 00:02:14,334 --> 00:02:15,134 - Thank you. - You know, 61 00:02:15,168 --> 00:02:16,902 do you feel like she knows too much? 62 00:02:16,936 --> 00:02:22,307 - I think that I confessed too much to everybody 63 00:02:22,341 --> 00:02:24,711 by even getting everyone involved. 64 00:02:24,743 --> 00:02:27,379 - Right. - That was my biggest mistake. 65 00:02:27,413 --> 00:02:29,549 - Okay, I think that's as far as we're gonna get 66 00:02:29,581 --> 00:02:32,151 on this one. [sighs] 67 00:02:32,185 --> 00:02:34,687 Never one to shy away from over the top festivities, 68 00:02:34,721 --> 00:02:38,123 this season, Destiney threw a haunted Halloween party, 69 00:02:38,158 --> 00:02:42,262 and while Nema in MJ drag was frightening... 70 00:02:42,295 --> 00:02:43,163 [laughing] 71 00:02:43,195 --> 00:02:44,864 The tension between Mike and Destiney 72 00:02:44,897 --> 00:02:47,599 was downright spine-chilling. 73 00:02:47,634 --> 00:02:50,270 MJ, how did Nema do as you? 74 00:02:50,302 --> 00:02:52,504 - Two of us! - Ahh! Wow. 75 00:02:52,538 --> 00:02:54,105 - There's literally two of us. 76 00:02:54,106 --> 00:02:57,242 - You're wearing my entire outfit. 77 00:02:57,276 --> 00:02:58,578 I was super impressed. [laughing] 78 00:02:58,610 --> 00:03:01,848 I... I was amazed how, like, I'm like this, 79 00:03:01,881 --> 00:03:04,584 and then he's like this, and it looked very similar, 80 00:03:04,616 --> 00:03:08,687 and he did that, like, overline dark lip contour. 81 00:03:08,722 --> 00:03:10,590 You know, it was beautiful. 82 00:03:10,622 --> 00:03:11,724 [laughing] - Yeah. 83 00:03:11,758 --> 00:03:12,835 - Reza and MJ, did you plan to both come as hippies, 84 00:03:12,859 --> 00:03:16,228 or was that a surprise? - It was just a coincidence. 85 00:03:16,262 --> 00:03:17,396 - No, that was cute. - Yeah. 86 00:03:17,430 --> 00:03:20,834 - Destiney, before your party, you had Paulina over. 87 00:03:20,866 --> 00:03:24,804 She told you Mike had been caught sexting ten times. 88 00:03:24,837 --> 00:03:26,772 - It's happened, like, ten times. 89 00:03:26,806 --> 00:03:28,875 - Oh, my God, Paulina. 90 00:03:28,908 --> 00:03:30,909 - And that's a turn on. That's his porn for him. 91 00:03:30,943 --> 00:03:32,545 - Are you... ing serious? 92 00:03:32,579 --> 00:03:35,814 He's a piece of sh... . 93 00:03:35,848 --> 00:03:39,586 - Those ten instances were the spoof texts instances? 94 00:03:40,954 --> 00:03:43,590 - Yeah, that I had thought were all real. 95 00:03:43,622 --> 00:03:44,622 - Bullsh... . 96 00:03:45,959 --> 00:03:47,894 - Any reaction to that? 97 00:03:50,764 --> 00:03:52,978 Okay. 98 00:03:52,979 --> 00:03:55,343 Kevin from West Hollywood said, "Mike, when you told Destiney 99 00:03:55,367 --> 00:03:58,504 "you could buy and sell her, that was disgusting." 100 00:03:58,538 --> 00:03:59,271 - Yes, it was. 101 00:03:59,305 --> 00:04:00,706 I'll buy and... ing sell you. 102 00:04:00,740 --> 00:04:02,418 - What are you, a ing slaveowner? 103 00:04:02,419 --> 00:04:03,752 Buy and sell me, bitch? - Let me get him out. 104 00:04:03,776 --> 00:04:04,743 Let me get him out. 105 00:04:04,777 --> 00:04:07,447 - You... ing buy whores in Vegas! [indistinct] 106 00:04:07,479 --> 00:04:09,125 - Let me... let me get him out. Let me get him out. 107 00:04:09,149 --> 00:04:11,818 - Please explain that. - I was being triggered. 108 00:04:11,850 --> 00:04:13,752 A lot of the questions were questionable. 109 00:04:13,787 --> 00:04:15,955 I-I felt like they were trying to attack me 110 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:19,492 and make me look even worse than I already looked. 111 00:04:19,526 --> 00:04:22,327 I didn't like it, and lost my sh... , 112 00:04:22,362 --> 00:04:23,930 and I said things that I didn't mean. 113 00:04:23,963 --> 00:04:25,632 - Do you wanna apologize to her? 114 00:04:25,665 --> 00:04:26,565 - I apologize for saying that to you. 115 00:04:26,598 --> 00:04:27,709 - But you don't mean it. This is all fake. 116 00:04:27,733 --> 00:04:30,302 - This is the... this is the, like, double-edged sword 117 00:04:30,336 --> 00:04:32,471 of the Paulina- Destiney friendship, 118 00:04:32,504 --> 00:04:34,908 is that it's really great for Paulina and Destiney 119 00:04:34,941 --> 00:04:36,509 to feel close to each other 120 00:04:36,543 --> 00:04:39,411 because there's such a strong bond between them. 121 00:04:39,446 --> 00:04:40,755 - My penis is bigger than his, and he knows it. 122 00:04:40,779 --> 00:04:43,828 - But it ultimately undermines the Destiney-Mike relationship. 123 00:04:43,829 --> 00:04:44,718 - It probably is. - It is. Oh, it is. 124 00:04:44,750 --> 00:04:46,386 I will totally dick slap you. 125 00:04:46,418 --> 00:04:47,252 Watch out. - I-I'm sure... I'm sure... 126 00:04:47,286 --> 00:04:48,396 I'm sure Paulina already told you, too. 127 00:04:48,420 --> 00:04:50,689 - Mike, did you have any idea about Destiney's stalker 128 00:04:50,723 --> 00:04:52,759 before she told it to you? - No, I didn't. No. 129 00:04:52,792 --> 00:04:54,728 - How did it make you feel to hear 130 00:04:54,761 --> 00:04:56,862 that your actions triggered her? 131 00:04:56,896 --> 00:04:58,731 - Honestly, I felt... I felt... 132 00:04:58,764 --> 00:05:00,632 I felt horrible that she went through that. 133 00:05:00,666 --> 00:05:02,735 And whatever happened on Twitter, 134 00:05:02,769 --> 00:05:03,702 whatever the (BLEEP) else happened, 135 00:05:03,737 --> 00:05:06,872 that was after the fact, because I was upset. 136 00:05:06,906 --> 00:05:08,942 - You're on Twitter talking sh... about me! 137 00:05:09,420 --> 00:05:11,810 You even said the situation with my stalker 138 00:05:11,845 --> 00:05:13,456 was a fake storyline. - Dude... dude, you... 139 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,489 I didn't say that. I didn't say that. 140 00:05:16,490 --> 00:05:17,726 I was just trying to get Paulina and leave. 141 00:05:17,750 --> 00:05:19,651 If that triggered you, I'm sorry. 142 00:05:19,685 --> 00:05:21,553 - If I asked a man to leave several times, 143 00:05:21,588 --> 00:05:22,721 and he chooses not to... 144 00:05:22,755 --> 00:05:23,656 - My most prized possession was there. 145 00:05:23,689 --> 00:05:25,858 - Hold on. I don't care. - My most prized... 146 00:05:25,891 --> 00:05:27,269 Not possession. - She's not a possession. 147 00:05:27,293 --> 00:05:28,771 - Not possession, but my most prized... - Mike! Mike, that means... 148 00:05:28,795 --> 00:05:29,928 No, no, no. - Don't say that. 149 00:05:29,963 --> 00:05:31,139 Don't say that. Don't say that. 150 00:05:31,163 --> 00:05:32,240 - If you were... if you were... - I-I... I used the word 151 00:05:32,264 --> 00:05:33,675 incorrectly. I'm sorry. - Yeah. No, I'm just saying. 152 00:05:33,699 --> 00:05:36,688 - My most prized... 153 00:05:36,689 --> 00:05:37,170 - Oh, my God. - Person in your life. 154 00:05:37,202 --> 00:05:38,170 - Whatever you say, it's gonna be an issue, babe. 155 00:05:38,204 --> 00:05:39,915 - Oh, my goodness, dude, you guys are all nuts. 156 00:05:39,939 --> 00:05:40,774 I can't. - How am I nuts, 157 00:05:40,807 --> 00:05:41,641 when you're the one... how am I nuts? 158 00:05:41,675 --> 00:05:42,542 - I say the word "possession" as a joke, 159 00:05:42,574 --> 00:05:43,409 and you're about to have an aneurism, 160 00:05:43,442 --> 00:05:45,745 and this one is... What the (BLEEP)? 161 00:05:45,778 --> 00:05:46,922 - Mike, this is what... - No one about to have an... 162 00:05:46,946 --> 00:05:49,615 Looking out for you. - Wow, man, wow. 163 00:05:49,649 --> 00:05:50,750 Come on. 164 00:05:50,783 --> 00:05:52,849 You know, I'm not that way. - Give me facts, Mike. 165 00:05:52,850 --> 00:05:55,689 - Come on. No, man. Stop. 166 00:05:55,721 --> 00:05:56,923 - Okay. - Stop. 167 00:05:56,956 --> 00:05:58,356 Cut me some slack. - No problem. Go. 168 00:05:58,909 --> 00:06:00,569 - Like, who hurt him that made him this... ed up? 169 00:06:00,593 --> 00:06:02,562 - All right, moving on. 170 00:06:02,595 --> 00:06:05,365 Well, breaking bread is where the shahs thrive, 171 00:06:05,398 --> 00:06:08,233 but when almost every guest at Friendsgiving 172 00:06:08,268 --> 00:06:12,378 had a strained relationship, the holiday was messier 173 00:06:12,379 --> 00:06:15,442 than MJ's fingernails in the turkey. 174 00:06:15,475 --> 00:06:17,430 ♪♪ 175 00:06:17,769 --> 00:06:18,444 - Is this for me? Okay. - Told me that story. 176 00:06:18,478 --> 00:06:18,944 - I love this. 177 00:06:19,449 --> 00:06:21,413 ♪♪ 178 00:06:21,447 --> 00:06:22,348 - I gotta ask. 179 00:06:22,382 --> 00:06:26,619 Why do you think MJ's hands are unclean? 180 00:06:26,653 --> 00:06:27,454 [chuckles] - They're not unclean. 181 00:06:27,487 --> 00:06:28,764 I... she washes her hands regularly. 182 00:06:28,788 --> 00:06:30,856 [laughing] 183 00:06:33,590 --> 00:06:34,127 - Oh, my God. 184 00:06:34,159 --> 00:06:36,959 - I mean, they're very clean, but I was pretty drunk, 185 00:06:36,129 --> 00:06:38,430 and I was... there was no... - No, but she's a picker. 186 00:06:38,465 --> 00:06:39,566 You're a picker. - No, Merc. 187 00:06:39,598 --> 00:06:41,768 - We are not letting you go the drunk one on this. 188 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:43,112 - No, girl, no. - You will do one of these. 189 00:06:43,136 --> 00:06:46,406 [laughing] 190 00:06:46,439 --> 00:06:48,740 - You-you eat with your hands. - I 100%, like, 191 00:06:48,108 --> 00:06:49,108 eat from my hands. 192 00:06:49,750 --> 00:06:49,875 - Like, this pinky is in the ranch dip, 193 00:06:49,908 --> 00:06:51,577 while this one is holding a hot wing, 194 00:06:51,610 --> 00:06:52,754 and this one has a donut. [laughing] 195 00:06:52,778 --> 00:06:55,981 - I have to say seeing MJ and Reza role play as Veda 196 00:06:56,819 --> 00:06:58,851 was hilarious and spot on. 197 00:07:02,454 --> 00:07:04,290 - Mom, mom. - Mercedes, no. 198 00:07:04,324 --> 00:07:05,358 No. 199 00:07:10,163 --> 00:07:12,766 - Oh! [laughing] 200 00:07:12,798 --> 00:07:15,802 - Tell me what Veda would say about your outfits tonight? 201 00:07:25,144 --> 00:07:26,144 - Hello. 202 00:07:33,529 --> 00:07:35,550 [laughing] 203 00:07:35,879 --> 00:07:37,432 - Paulina, what's the real reason you didn't show up 204 00:07:37,456 --> 00:07:39,589 for Friendsgiving? 205 00:07:39,590 --> 00:07:41,761 - I didn't wanna sit at a table 206 00:07:41,795 --> 00:07:45,899 where I didn't feel like I'm... 207 00:07:45,932 --> 00:07:48,099 thankful for the people around me, 208 00:07:48,100 --> 00:07:49,502 to be honest with you. - Hmm. 209 00:07:49,536 --> 00:07:52,137 - I mean, I was at that table. 210 00:07:52,172 --> 00:07:53,173 You know what I'm saying? 211 00:07:53,206 --> 00:07:55,875 And on that phone, you-you gave her a shoutout. 212 00:07:55,908 --> 00:07:57,768 I was confused. I even asked your man, 213 00:07:57,769 --> 00:07:59,521 and your man straight told me that you didn't like me. 214 00:07:59,545 --> 00:08:01,146 Paulina Joon, but what did I do? 215 00:08:01,180 --> 00:08:02,682 I haven't even heard from you. 216 00:08:05,752 --> 00:08:06,720 She was talking about MJ. - About MJ, yeah. 217 00:08:06,752 --> 00:08:08,596 You said certain things when you were mad at me. 218 00:08:08,620 --> 00:08:10,456 - What did I say? - That I control her 219 00:08:10,490 --> 00:08:12,579 and that she won't talk in front of me. 220 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:13,593 - What your girl told you, was one thing. 221 00:08:13,625 --> 00:08:15,762 What she told me, is something completely different. 222 00:08:15,795 --> 00:08:17,629 That's what I'm saying. 223 00:08:17,663 --> 00:08:19,318 - I said I didn't like her? 224 00:08:19,319 --> 00:08:20,509 - I don't remember what I said. I was pissed. 225 00:08:20,533 --> 00:08:22,701 I don't know. - I did not say that. 226 00:08:22,735 --> 00:08:24,771 - You said on the phone that you were thankful 227 00:08:24,803 --> 00:08:27,173 for me and Merc and not Destiney. 228 00:08:27,206 --> 00:08:28,875 - But I specifically said, "Not Destiney?" 229 00:08:28,908 --> 00:08:29,809 - No, no. - No, you didn't mention Destiney. 230 00:08:29,843 --> 00:08:31,769 - No, you said, "I don't trust Destiney." 231 00:08:31,110 --> 00:08:32,449 - Oh. 232 00:08:32,450 --> 00:08:34,581 I never said that. - Maybe you were drunk. 233 00:08:34,614 --> 00:08:37,517 - It wasn't intentional for me to not mention her. 234 00:08:37,549 --> 00:08:40,186 - But she was the closest to you. 235 00:08:40,220 --> 00:08:42,221 - Yes. 236 00:08:42,254 --> 00:08:44,957 - Kelsey from St. Louis said, "Paulina, why were you 237 00:08:45,580 --> 00:08:46,960 "using Mike's friends as the reason 238 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,950 "you stopped coming around when you were the one 239 00:08:49,129 --> 00:08:50,963 "who involved them in the first place?" 240 00:08:51,639 --> 00:08:53,165 - That's a great question. 241 00:08:53,198 --> 00:08:56,735 I didn't feel that safe around them. 242 00:08:56,769 --> 00:08:58,638 - So, someone reacting and saying, 243 00:08:58,672 --> 00:09:00,615 "I don't want any involvement in what's going on," 244 00:09:00,639 --> 00:09:02,708 it makes you feel unsafe? 245 00:09:02,741 --> 00:09:04,076 - Who were you talking about specifically? 246 00:09:04,100 --> 00:09:05,779 - Yeah. - Well, if it's not... 247 00:09:05,110 --> 00:09:06,119 - How did I make you feel unsafe by not getting involved? 248 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:08,148 - It's not London. It's not Destiney. 249 00:09:08,181 --> 00:09:09,282 It's not me. - How did... I... 250 00:09:09,315 --> 00:09:10,476 Who made you unsafe? - The group, 251 00:09:10,500 --> 00:09:11,169 when it comes to together, is... 252 00:09:11,169 --> 00:09:11,884 Is very... - It's just very... it's very... 253 00:09:11,918 --> 00:09:12,751 - No, I did not get involved. - I know. 254 00:09:12,785 --> 00:09:15,209 - I never spoke a word when you guys 255 00:09:15,210 --> 00:09:15,889 would have discussions about your ationship. 256 00:09:15,922 --> 00:09:17,198 - I know. I know. - No, no, no. I know, 257 00:09:17,222 --> 00:09:18,885 but it was very overwhelming. - But as a group... as a group. 258 00:09:18,909 --> 00:09:20,135 - Who at the table made you feel unsafe? 259 00:09:20,159 --> 00:09:22,796 ♪♪ 260 00:09:22,828 --> 00:09:24,798 Who was it? 261 00:09:25,798 --> 00:09:26,732 - Coming up... 262 00:09:26,765 --> 00:09:29,101 - She touched my dick in Hawaii and said, 263 00:09:29,134 --> 00:09:30,937 "I'm pleasantly surprised." - I was. 264 00:09:31,370 --> 00:09:31,937 - And it was like a Persian cucumber. 265 00:09:32,379 --> 00:09:33,730 - Like the one she put in her mouth earlier. 266 00:09:33,105 --> 00:09:34,917 - It was a Persian cucumber, not an English cucumber. 267 00:09:34,941 --> 00:09:36,743 [laughing] 268 00:09:36,775 --> 00:09:38,778 - I'll never look at those cucumbers the same. 269 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:45,118 ♪♪ 270 00:09:45,150 --> 00:09:47,354 - Kelsey from St. Louis said, "Paulina, 271 00:09:47,386 --> 00:09:49,855 "why were you using Mike's friends as the reason 272 00:09:49,889 --> 00:09:51,825 "you stopped coming around when you were the one 273 00:09:51,857 --> 00:09:53,625 "who involved them in the first place?" 274 00:09:53,659 --> 00:09:55,828 - That's a great question. 275 00:09:55,861 --> 00:09:59,649 I didn't feel that safe around them. 276 00:09:59,990 --> 00:10:01,143 - Who at the table made you feel unsafe? 277 00:10:01,167 --> 00:10:03,903 - The group when it comes to together, is... is very... 278 00:10:03,937 --> 00:10:05,246 - Who at the table made you feel unsafe? 279 00:10:05,270 --> 00:10:06,696 - It's just very overwhelming to be at a table with all of them. 280 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:06,840 - As a group. - Who? It's not... 281 00:10:06,873 --> 00:10:07,673 Who was it? - Was it the group, 282 00:10:07,706 --> 00:10:09,908 or was it the group and the cameras? 283 00:10:09,942 --> 00:10:12,120 - Honestly, a mixre of both. 284 00:10:12,450 --> 00:10:14,346 I would have to say, you know, to this day, 285 00:10:14,380 --> 00:10:16,982 it's not easy being in front of cameras. 286 00:10:17,169 --> 00:10:17,884 It's really not. 287 00:10:17,917 --> 00:10:20,820 But one thing I will say, is that I... 288 00:10:22,922 --> 00:10:25,517 I-I don't know how to put into words, but I would... 289 00:10:25,518 --> 00:10:29,428 I would think that they would have handled it differently 290 00:10:29,461 --> 00:10:33,265 versus making him feel attacked. 291 00:10:35,802 --> 00:10:36,702 - I have to ask, Paulina. 292 00:10:36,735 --> 00:10:40,173 Why did you call Destiney in the Redwoods? 293 00:10:40,206 --> 00:10:42,642 This was just a few weeks after you said 294 00:10:42,676 --> 00:10:44,677 you couldn't trust any of Mike's friends. 295 00:10:50,283 --> 00:10:58,283 You know, as I'm sure you can guess, 296 00:11:05,649 --> 00:11:07,100 I never said that... her. 297 00:11:07,133 --> 00:11:08,735 When I say, "The friends"... 298 00:11:08,768 --> 00:11:10,736 - Yes. - I mean, the... the-the group. 299 00:11:10,769 --> 00:11:12,169 - Okay, you weren't meaning... right. 300 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:13,139 - No, I didn't mean her. 301 00:11:13,173 --> 00:11:14,941 - You don't... - I've always had that, 302 00:11:14,974 --> 00:11:17,976 you know, that trust with her and that bond with her. 303 00:11:18,779 --> 00:11:20,480 - So, you got caught, again. - No. 304 00:11:20,513 --> 00:11:24,984 - These were more spoof texts? - Yes. 305 00:11:25,850 --> 00:11:26,286 - Why does all these weird things 306 00:11:26,318 --> 00:11:28,288 always happen to you with, like, iClouds? 307 00:11:28,321 --> 00:11:29,288 - I-I don't know. 308 00:11:29,322 --> 00:11:30,123 - And people calling you and two landlines and... 309 00:11:30,155 --> 00:11:30,923 - Why don't you change your numbers? 310 00:11:30,956 --> 00:11:31,890 - Because it doesn't even matter. 311 00:11:31,924 --> 00:11:33,993 They're texting him. They're texting Shervin. 312 00:11:34,940 --> 00:11:34,961 It doesn't matter about tphone number. 313 00:11:34,994 --> 00:11:35,828 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. Actually... actually... 314 00:11:35,861 --> 00:11:37,429 - It's-it's... it-it doesn't matter. 315 00:11:37,463 --> 00:11:38,865 - Hold on. One of the spoof messages 316 00:11:38,898 --> 00:11:40,500 that I got really upset about with him, 317 00:11:40,533 --> 00:11:43,135 and I was like, "No, no, no, this is real," 318 00:11:43,168 --> 00:11:45,904 he goes, "Really?" He shows me. 319 00:11:45,938 --> 00:11:49,209 Nema got the same exact message. 320 00:11:49,241 --> 00:11:50,777 - But isn't that, like, a setup? 321 00:11:50,809 --> 00:11:52,511 That's like... - I'm really good. 322 00:11:52,544 --> 00:11:53,956 - I mean, if I was a guy, Andy, if I was a guy, 323 00:11:53,980 --> 00:11:55,481 I'd be taking notes, dude. This guy... 324 00:11:55,514 --> 00:11:56,515 - Yes, yeah, I'm great. 325 00:11:56,548 --> 00:11:58,384 - Does everyone here believe that 326 00:11:58,418 --> 00:12:02,187 these are spoof messages that are coming in? 327 00:12:02,221 --> 00:12:03,722 - No, they think I'm doing it. 328 00:12:03,756 --> 00:12:05,134 - They think... - They think I'm doing it. 329 00:12:05,158 --> 00:12:06,860 I'm sending it to myself. - How can you? 330 00:12:06,893 --> 00:12:07,860 - Why would you be sending it to yourself? 331 00:12:07,894 --> 00:12:08,861 - Reza thinks that. 332 00:12:08,894 --> 00:12:10,764 - I think he was doing it to, like, be, like, 333 00:12:10,797 --> 00:12:11,730 "Look, do you see? 334 00:12:11,764 --> 00:12:13,533 Like, there's all this fake sh... going on." 335 00:12:13,566 --> 00:12:15,344 - But I admitted to the sh... That was really, really bad. 336 00:12:15,368 --> 00:12:16,836 So, I'm wondering. 337 00:12:16,870 --> 00:12:17,537 - What Reza is saying, is if there were, like, 338 00:12:17,570 --> 00:12:19,139 ten other real messages, 339 00:12:19,172 --> 00:12:21,739 and you could make twenty fake ones 340 00:12:21,740 --> 00:12:22,750 and be like, "All 30 are fake." 341 00:12:22,107 --> 00:12:23,759 - Oh, I'm going... I-I-I'm... - Everything, yes. 342 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:25,778 - Everything is fake. That's what he's saying. 343 00:12:25,779 --> 00:12:26,379 - So, I'm-I'm... oh, oh, oh. 344 00:12:26,413 --> 00:12:27,346 - Oh. 345 00:12:27,379 --> 00:12:28,809 - Mike, you talked about having an addiction 346 00:12:28,810 --> 00:12:30,383 to getting attention. - Yes. 347 00:12:30,417 --> 00:12:32,384 - Have you seen anyone to help you with this? 348 00:12:32,418 --> 00:12:34,870 - Like I've said, and I'll say it again, I am. 349 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:35,197 I'm getting... - It's the healer? 350 00:12:35,221 --> 00:12:38,490 - I'm talking to a rabbi. 351 00:12:38,524 --> 00:12:40,493 - I wanna end this conversation. 352 00:12:40,527 --> 00:12:42,394 You two are in a great place. 353 00:12:42,428 --> 00:12:43,395 - We're engaged. We're in an amazing place. 354 00:12:43,429 --> 00:12:45,498 - You're engaged. When will you get married? 355 00:12:45,532 --> 00:12:47,200 - We don't know yet. Soon, hopefully. 356 00:12:47,232 --> 00:12:48,168 - All right. - Soon? 357 00:12:48,201 --> 00:12:49,235 - Sure. 358 00:12:49,269 --> 00:12:52,238 - Is there anything else, Paulina, before you go, 359 00:12:52,272 --> 00:12:55,774 that you wanna clear up, or say to the group, 360 00:12:55,808 --> 00:12:57,243 or say to Destiney? 361 00:12:57,277 --> 00:12:59,946 - I mean, I would love to have that relationship 362 00:13:00,460 --> 00:13:01,114 with you, again. 363 00:13:01,147 --> 00:13:04,499 I've, honestly, I've... I've really missed you a lot, 364 00:13:04,500 --> 00:13:09,254 and I apologize for getting you involved 365 00:13:09,288 --> 00:13:12,424 and getting everyone here involved. 366 00:13:12,458 --> 00:13:15,128 That was wrong and I shouldn't have done that. 367 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:18,298 - And also, since you're here, I have to make it very clear. 368 00:13:18,331 --> 00:13:22,369 I really hope when you looked at all the episodes, 369 00:13:22,402 --> 00:13:24,370 every time your girl spoke to me, 370 00:13:24,403 --> 00:13:26,105 I really hope you remind yourself 371 00:13:26,139 --> 00:13:28,240 every time you wanna be rude to me 372 00:13:28,274 --> 00:13:31,244 that I never once said anything, not even to you, 373 00:13:31,277 --> 00:13:34,614 not to him, not to her, not to her, nothing, 374 00:13:34,647 --> 00:13:38,118 but ya still just kept comin' for my jugular. 375 00:13:38,150 --> 00:13:39,619 - Mike and I have talked about this. 376 00:13:39,652 --> 00:13:42,121 Yes, Destiney has never, like, said anything 377 00:13:42,154 --> 00:13:44,857 that Paulina has confided, but when you consistently 378 00:13:44,890 --> 00:13:48,161 go to the group and allude that you know something 379 00:13:48,193 --> 00:13:50,129 but don't actually say the full thing, 380 00:13:50,163 --> 00:13:51,331 that triggers him. 381 00:13:51,364 --> 00:13:52,164 - I do know something. I... - I know, but that trigger... 382 00:13:52,197 --> 00:13:54,234 But you might as well just say it, 383 00:13:54,267 --> 00:13:55,134 at that point. - And-and I know many things. 384 00:13:55,168 --> 00:13:56,200 I've even said 'em... 385 00:13:56,101 --> 00:13:56,870 I even said it at the reunion last year 386 00:13:56,903 --> 00:13:58,399 when he tried to disrespect me. - No. 387 00:13:58,104 --> 00:13:59,104 - If I say... if I say... but that's what triggers him. 388 00:13:59,105 --> 00:14:00,883 - I said, "You don't wanna come for me, buddy. 389 00:14:00,907 --> 00:14:01,841 "You don't na do it." I've already... 390 00:14:01,875 --> 00:14:02,841 - So, I want him to be honest about that. 391 00:14:02,875 --> 00:14:03,777 It's either say it all or say nothing at all. 392 00:14:03,809 --> 00:14:06,312 - Just-just stop, bro. Stop, stop, stop. 393 00:14:06,346 --> 00:14:07,580 [sighs] 394 00:14:07,614 --> 00:14:10,850 - God, please, give it to us. 395 00:14:10,884 --> 00:14:13,552 - What? - I can't let today end 396 00:14:13,586 --> 00:14:16,121 and it be like the way it is with Reza, 397 00:14:16,155 --> 00:14:18,579 and it be like with you, too. 398 00:14:18,580 --> 00:14:21,860 Like, today is such a huge, important thing. 399 00:14:21,894 --> 00:14:22,861 I keep... 400 00:14:22,895 --> 00:14:23,830 - So, why don't we bury this... ing bullsh... 401 00:14:23,863 --> 00:14:25,274 And move on? - Yeah, I want us to not go home 402 00:14:25,298 --> 00:14:28,335 having all this regret. 403 00:14:28,368 --> 00:14:31,504 - Merc has spoken. 404 00:14:31,538 --> 00:14:32,639 High five. 405 00:14:32,672 --> 00:14:34,106 That was well said. - Thank you. 406 00:14:34,139 --> 00:14:35,384 - Well, Paulina, before you leave, 407 00:14:35,408 --> 00:14:36,619 do you wanna hug it out with Destiney? 408 00:14:36,643 --> 00:14:37,644 - Hug it out. Yes. 409 00:14:37,677 --> 00:14:39,788 - Aww, yes. - I would love to. 410 00:14:39,789 --> 00:14:39,812 - Yes, hug it out. 411 00:14:39,846 --> 00:14:43,830 - She's the only one I wanna hug. 412 00:14:46,860 --> 00:14:47,860 Bitch. 413 00:14:50,557 --> 00:14:52,918 - You know that. - I know. 414 00:14:52,919 --> 00:14:54,939 - Paulina, thanks for being here 415 00:14:54,940 --> 00:14:55,949 and dispelling the myth 416 00:14:55,950 --> 00:14:57,405 that Mike won't let you speak for yourself. 417 00:14:57,429 --> 00:14:59,207 - Thank you for allowing that to-to-to-to happen. 418 00:14:59,231 --> 00:15:01,134 - Oh, no, absolutely. Absolutely. 419 00:15:01,167 --> 00:15:02,469 - Thank you and congratulations. 420 00:15:02,501 --> 00:15:03,535 - Thank you. - Thank you. 421 00:15:03,570 --> 00:15:04,604 - Hi. 422 00:15:04,636 --> 00:15:05,681 - Join this side of the crew for a little bit. 423 00:15:05,705 --> 00:15:07,673 - Well, let's chill. 424 00:15:07,706 --> 00:15:09,375 I mean, I don't know what the (BLEEP) 425 00:15:09,408 --> 00:15:10,409 is going on today. 426 00:15:10,442 --> 00:15:12,412 - We're just... ing bullsh... ing through this. 427 00:15:12,445 --> 00:15:13,413 - It's a lot. 428 00:15:13,446 --> 00:15:14,557 - I didn't mean to, like, salt that moment, 429 00:15:14,581 --> 00:15:17,216 but I... I couldn't not... I couldn't not keep it real. 430 00:15:17,250 --> 00:15:19,184 - Well, it was a lot. 431 00:15:19,219 --> 00:15:21,587 It was a very heavy day for them... 432 00:15:21,620 --> 00:15:23,255 Very heavy day for them. 433 00:15:25,524 --> 00:15:26,524 - Bye, baby. 434 00:15:27,594 --> 00:15:31,663 - Thank you. 435 00:15:31,697 --> 00:15:32,865 - Coming up... 436 00:15:32,899 --> 00:15:35,678 What does the future hold in terms of a baby for you guys? 437 00:15:35,679 --> 00:15:35,969 - Never happening. 438 00:15:36,690 --> 00:15:38,404 I don't ever, ever, ever wanna have a kid. 439 00:15:38,437 --> 00:15:40,506 I don't think it's a good idea. 440 00:15:40,539 --> 00:15:42,750 - Wow. 441 00:15:46,312 --> 00:15:47,472 - All right, MJ, you're good. 442 00:15:47,580 --> 00:15:48,380 Lean back whenever you want to. 443 00:15:48,414 --> 00:15:50,829 - Thank you. I really appreciate it. 444 00:15:50,830 --> 00:15:52,217 - No problem. 445 00:15:52,251 --> 00:15:54,421 - Okay, so, Mike comes back in. 446 00:15:54,453 --> 00:15:55,288 - You're giving me, like, 447 00:15:55,321 --> 00:15:58,258 Madonna sex kitten vibes here, Golnesa. 448 00:15:58,290 --> 00:16:00,258 - I mean, I am a virgin technically. 449 00:16:00,259 --> 00:16:01,499 Three years makes you a virgin. 450 00:16:01,610 --> 00:16:02,294 - You're-you're giving me some major sex cat. 451 00:16:02,327 --> 00:16:04,764 - Hey! [laughing] 452 00:16:04,798 --> 00:16:06,432 - Here we go. 453 00:16:06,466 --> 00:16:09,302 While some of our Shahs are in relationships, 454 00:16:09,336 --> 00:16:11,504 the rest are still looking for their match, 455 00:16:11,538 --> 00:16:14,807 or, in some case, matches plural. 456 00:16:14,841 --> 00:16:19,449 GG, we've seen you date, get engaged, and get married. 457 00:16:19,450 --> 00:16:22,215 What changed within you that led you to polyamory? 458 00:16:22,248 --> 00:16:24,288 - Well, I haven't technically fully tried it out yet 459 00:16:24,317 --> 00:16:25,418 because of COVID. 460 00:16:25,451 --> 00:16:27,419 - And polyamory means what? 461 00:16:27,453 --> 00:16:30,558 - I enjoy relationships, and I enjoy commitment. 462 00:16:30,559 --> 00:16:33,125 I just want it with more than one partner. 463 00:16:33,158 --> 00:16:35,227 - How do you know that that's what you want? 464 00:16:35,260 --> 00:16:37,970 When you've been in a relationship with someone, 465 00:16:37,129 --> 00:16:39,264 and then you've thought, "I wanna open this up?" 466 00:16:39,298 --> 00:16:40,232 - Yes. 467 00:16:40,265 --> 00:16:42,369 I think when I was married, uh, to Shalom... 468 00:16:42,402 --> 00:16:44,169 - I now pronounce you husband and wife. 469 00:16:44,203 --> 00:16:45,538 Shalom, you may kiss your bride. 470 00:16:45,572 --> 00:16:49,341 - Oh, my God. [laughing] 471 00:16:49,375 --> 00:16:51,344 There was one time we woke up in the morning. 472 00:16:51,378 --> 00:16:52,587 - That was, like, four months, right? 473 00:16:52,611 --> 00:16:53,580 - We were together four months. 474 00:16:53,613 --> 00:16:55,749 We were married for, like, six, seven weeks. 475 00:16:55,782 --> 00:16:56,582 - Okay. [laughing] 476 00:16:56,615 --> 00:16:58,317 - But we-we woke up. We were... 477 00:16:58,350 --> 00:16:59,595 - So, you felt boxed in during that time? 478 00:16:59,619 --> 00:17:00,586 [laughing] 479 00:17:00,620 --> 00:17:01,453 - It was a tough six weeks, Andy. 480 00:17:01,488 --> 00:17:03,490 - She was suffocating. - I mean... 481 00:17:03,523 --> 00:17:05,579 - I said, "You know, if I'm not around 482 00:17:05,910 --> 00:17:06,326 or if I'm busy, and you're, like, 483 00:17:06,358 --> 00:17:08,193 with your boys, and there's a hot girl, 484 00:17:08,228 --> 00:17:09,468 I don't have a problem with it. 485 00:17:09,496 --> 00:17:11,263 - Oh, my God. - He threw a massive fit. 486 00:17:11,297 --> 00:17:12,432 - Right. 487 00:17:12,464 --> 00:17:13,609 - Because he assumed that meant I'm... ing another guy. 488 00:17:13,633 --> 00:17:14,634 - Yeah. 489 00:17:14,667 --> 00:17:15,634 - So, I was like, I'm not interested in that. 490 00:17:15,669 --> 00:17:18,371 I'm just interested in different stimulation. 491 00:17:18,404 --> 00:17:22,608 He was not able to give me certain stuff that I needed. 492 00:17:22,642 --> 00:17:25,744 - Do you ever hear from Shalom? - No comment. 493 00:17:25,778 --> 00:17:27,313 - Is that still the Shalom ring? 494 00:17:27,346 --> 00:17:28,448 - It is. - Wow. 495 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,292 - Yeah, it looks really good with this outfit, too. 496 00:17:30,316 --> 00:17:31,785 - It does. - Yeah, it does. 497 00:17:31,817 --> 00:17:33,185 - It looks good. - Thanks, Shalom. 498 00:17:33,219 --> 00:17:34,362 - Um, Sarah from Detroit said, 499 00:17:34,386 --> 00:17:36,288 "GG, since having multiple partners 500 00:17:36,322 --> 00:17:38,625 is what works best for you, would you ever consider 501 00:17:38,657 --> 00:17:42,561 "dating both Shervin and Nema?" I'd be here for it. 502 00:17:42,595 --> 00:17:44,206 - Nema would definitely be more my type than... 503 00:17:44,230 --> 00:17:46,532 Than Shervin would be, but, um, no. 504 00:17:46,566 --> 00:17:48,768 I'm just... I need someone who is very open to 505 00:17:48,801 --> 00:17:50,603 being in a poly relationship. 506 00:17:50,636 --> 00:17:53,138 I need a very confident and secure man to that. 507 00:17:53,173 --> 00:17:54,874 - You need to date a gay guy. [laughing] 508 00:17:54,907 --> 00:17:55,775 - I need to. - Yeah. 509 00:17:55,808 --> 00:17:57,576 - I really do. 510 00:17:57,609 --> 00:17:59,412 - Destiney, are you dating anyone these days? 511 00:17:59,445 --> 00:18:01,647 - I am not. COVID... gross. 512 00:18:01,681 --> 00:18:03,415 Andy, honestly, I'm scared to, like, 513 00:18:03,450 --> 00:18:04,550 go certain places. 514 00:18:04,584 --> 00:18:06,486 I'm scared to go to the supermarket. 515 00:18:06,519 --> 00:18:09,655 Like, it's become a thing. - Wow. 516 00:18:09,689 --> 00:18:11,557 You know, Nema, on "Watch What Happens Live," 517 00:18:11,590 --> 00:18:15,595 you said that GG claims anyone she isn't interested in, 518 00:18:15,627 --> 00:18:17,564 is hung like a baby carrot. 519 00:18:17,596 --> 00:18:20,666 - Anyone who doesn't like GG has a small penis. 520 00:18:20,700 --> 00:18:22,134 - Oh. - Mike has a small penis. 521 00:18:22,167 --> 00:18:23,245 I have a small penis. - Oh, okay, okay. 522 00:18:23,269 --> 00:18:25,180 - Yeah, that's the thing. If you don't like her... 523 00:18:25,204 --> 00:18:26,389 - That's her go to. Right. 524 00:18:26,390 --> 00:18:26,806 - Yeah, then you're hung like this. 525 00:18:26,839 --> 00:18:27,673 So, yeah, I get it. - Right, okay. 526 00:18:27,707 --> 00:18:29,942 So, GG, where does the truth lie? 527 00:18:30,430 --> 00:18:32,211 Is that your go to? - Listen, I'm pushing 40. 528 00:18:32,244 --> 00:18:34,681 I've been there, done that, and I've had, you know, 529 00:18:34,713 --> 00:18:38,218 all types of dool. - Peni. 530 00:18:38,250 --> 00:18:41,653 - She touched my dick in Hawaii and literally said to me, 531 00:18:41,688 --> 00:18:44,156 "I'm pleasantly surprised." - I was. I was surprised. 532 00:18:44,190 --> 00:18:45,333 I thought it was gonna be a carrot. 533 00:18:45,357 --> 00:18:46,326 - Those were her words. 534 00:18:46,358 --> 00:18:47,259 That was... those-those... That was the feedback 535 00:18:47,292 --> 00:18:48,193 I-I ever got. 536 00:18:48,228 --> 00:18:48,761 - I did think it was gonna be a carrot. 537 00:18:48,795 --> 00:18:49,729 - Pleasantly surprised. 538 00:18:49,762 --> 00:18:50,262 - And it was more like a Persian cucumber. 539 00:18:50,296 --> 00:18:51,263 - It was a cucumber. 540 00:18:51,297 --> 00:18:53,400 - Like the one she put in her mouth earlier. 541 00:18:53,432 --> 00:18:54,669 - Ias a Persian cucumber, not an English cucumber. 542 00:18:54,670 --> 00:18:55,679 - No way. [laughing] 543 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:55,969 - I'll never look at those cucumbers the same. 544 00:18:56,690 --> 00:18:58,404 - Boy, boy, boy, boy. - What's up, Nema? 545 00:19:00,707 --> 00:19:01,674 Give it up for me now. 546 00:19:01,708 --> 00:19:03,518 - I just devoured you, right now, a second ago, 547 00:19:03,542 --> 00:19:04,309 in my mouth. 548 00:19:04,344 --> 00:19:05,310 - Nema, now that you're bicoastal, 549 00:19:05,345 --> 00:19:07,713 are you having more luck with East Coast girls 550 00:19:07,747 --> 00:19:08,515 or West Coast girls? 551 00:19:08,548 --> 00:19:10,517 - East Coast girls is definitely 552 00:19:10,549 --> 00:19:11,694 a different dating experience. 553 00:19:11,718 --> 00:19:12,519 - And what is that? 554 00:19:12,551 --> 00:19:13,562 - They're much more to the point. 555 00:19:13,586 --> 00:19:14,621 - Okay. - It's a vibe. 556 00:19:14,653 --> 00:19:16,588 - And listen, I'm... I'm very into being single. 557 00:19:16,623 --> 00:19:18,734 I did just meet somebody who is really intriguing to me, 558 00:19:18,758 --> 00:19:20,626 albeit very, very new. - Ooh. 559 00:19:20,660 --> 00:19:21,594 - Garcelle? [laughing] 560 00:19:21,627 --> 00:19:24,564 - Does Garcelle follow Nema from "Shahs?" 561 00:19:24,596 --> 00:19:25,898 - Oh. 562 00:19:25,932 --> 00:19:27,232 - You know what? Maybe yes. 563 00:19:27,267 --> 00:19:28,634 - I'm gonna say no. - Yes. 564 00:19:28,667 --> 00:19:29,868 - Really? - He's hot. 565 00:19:29,903 --> 00:19:31,203 - Wow! All right. [bell dings] 566 00:19:31,237 --> 00:19:32,305 [cheers and applause] 567 00:19:32,338 --> 00:19:35,409 Rumor has it that you are quite the ladies' man 568 00:19:35,410 --> 00:19:36,742 with the Bravolebrities. 569 00:19:36,776 --> 00:19:38,877 - That is the rumor on the block, yeah. 570 00:19:38,912 --> 00:19:40,072 - So, um... - It ain't a rumor. 571 00:19:40,460 --> 00:19:41,524 It ain't a rumor. - He's the Persian James Dean. 572 00:19:41,548 --> 00:19:42,749 Why not? - Scheana Shay. 573 00:19:42,781 --> 00:19:44,181 - Hey, Scheana... Scheana. - Scheana. 574 00:19:44,500 --> 00:19:45,218 - Yeah, and then I know you wanna say it. 575 00:19:45,250 --> 00:19:46,661 I know you... I know you want... - He likes them famous. 576 00:19:46,685 --> 00:19:47,519 - "Summer House." - Say her name. 577 00:19:47,554 --> 00:19:48,654 - No. - The one with the short hair. - Paige. - Lindsay? 578 00:19:48,688 --> 00:19:50,222 - Paige... Paige. - Paige. 579 00:19:50,256 --> 00:19:51,290 - Paige. 580 00:19:51,324 --> 00:19:52,501 - Like, there was a-a date maybe in New York City. 581 00:19:52,525 --> 00:19:53,292 - Really? - Yeah. 582 00:19:53,326 --> 00:19:54,160 - It was like a... It was like a... 583 00:19:54,193 --> 00:19:54,827 - Are we gonna do this or what? Come on. 584 00:19:54,861 --> 00:19:55,662 It's happening. Let's go. 585 00:19:55,694 --> 00:19:57,763 - Excuse me, Andy. - Andy, I've... 586 00:19:57,797 --> 00:19:58,940 I've run my course with... - And Jules from "Summer Hoe." 587 00:19:58,964 --> 00:20:00,633 - Holy sh... . - Oh, sh... 588 00:20:00,666 --> 00:20:03,603 - Yeah. - And who is the new girl? 589 00:20:03,635 --> 00:20:05,404 - She's hot. - This French girl that I met. 590 00:20:05,438 --> 00:20:06,782 I'd love to bring her around the group at some point. 591 00:20:06,806 --> 00:20:07,673 - So, you're thinking, like, relationship? 592 00:20:07,707 --> 00:20:09,375 - Is she in L.A. or New York? - L.A. 593 00:20:09,409 --> 00:20:10,710 - Wow. All right. 594 00:20:10,743 --> 00:20:13,460 Reza, how is Adam? - Adam is great. 595 00:20:13,789 --> 00:20:13,980 - Adam is great. - Adam is fantastic. 596 00:20:14,140 --> 00:20:14,913 - We didn't see much of him this season. 597 00:20:14,948 --> 00:20:17,784 - No, you didn't, and that was purposeful. 598 00:20:17,817 --> 00:20:19,586 It's a good thing I love your beer. 599 00:20:19,618 --> 00:20:20,787 [laughing] 600 00:20:20,819 --> 00:20:22,489 Thank you for bringing me. 601 00:20:22,521 --> 00:20:25,791 - You're most welcome. - This thing is magic. 602 00:20:25,825 --> 00:20:26,859 - Tell me. 603 00:20:26,893 --> 00:20:28,894 - Adam is not around because he's got a new job, 604 00:20:28,928 --> 00:20:31,663 and the same way Paulina feels about the group, 605 00:20:31,698 --> 00:20:34,233 Adam feels the exact same way. 606 00:20:34,267 --> 00:20:36,970 - And what does the future hold in terms of a baby for you guys? 607 00:20:37,299 --> 00:20:37,903 - Never happening. 608 00:20:37,936 --> 00:20:40,740 I don't ever, ever, ever wanna have a kid. 609 00:20:40,773 --> 00:20:41,840 - Wow. 610 00:20:41,875 --> 00:20:44,277 - One hundred percent, I never wanna have a child. 611 00:20:44,309 --> 00:20:46,451 - This is a huge change of heart. 612 00:20:46,452 --> 00:20:49,648 - Totally, it is. Um... 613 00:20:49,682 --> 00:20:52,519 - No. [sighs] 614 00:20:52,849 --> 00:20:54,820 - You can... 615 00:20:58,424 --> 00:21:01,608 feel certain things that it just... 616 00:21:01,609 --> 00:21:02,929 I don't think it's a good idea. 617 00:21:02,961 --> 00:21:03,829 - You don't think it's a good idea. 618 00:21:03,863 --> 00:21:05,531 - No. - Wow. 619 00:21:05,565 --> 00:21:08,300 It seemed like... we talked so much about it. 620 00:21:08,335 --> 00:21:09,169 - Yeah. 621 00:21:09,201 --> 00:21:09,836 - It seemed like something you wanted. 622 00:21:09,868 --> 00:21:11,104 - Yeah. 623 00:21:11,136 --> 00:21:13,416 - And it seemed like something as a couple that you two wanted. 624 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:14,973 - We have decided as a couple 625 00:21:15,750 --> 00:21:17,443 that we are gonna use a surrogate, 626 00:21:17,477 --> 00:21:19,788 and we're gonna have biological children. 627 00:21:19,789 --> 00:21:19,945 - Wonderful. 628 00:21:19,979 --> 00:21:20,779 - When do you wanna start having kids? 629 00:21:20,814 --> 00:21:21,548 - Huh? 630 00:21:21,580 --> 00:21:23,615 - Like, do we have a timeframe? 631 00:21:23,650 --> 00:21:25,652 Is it, like, one year? Two years? 632 00:21:25,684 --> 00:21:28,587 - I wish I could ask you. When are we having a baby? 633 00:21:28,621 --> 00:21:29,556 - So, what made you change your mind? 634 00:21:29,588 --> 00:21:31,857 - Sometimes you learn things about yourself. 635 00:21:31,891 --> 00:21:33,859 Like, they point out things to me, too, 636 00:21:33,893 --> 00:21:37,931 that I do things to them that they don't like, right? - Okay. 637 00:21:37,963 --> 00:21:43,670 - And, uh, I have two parents that... 638 00:21:43,702 --> 00:21:44,871 I don't wanna cry. 639 00:21:44,903 --> 00:21:46,815 Can I take a little break 'cause I don't wanna be crying 640 00:21:46,839 --> 00:21:47,874 while I'm talking? 641 00:21:47,906 --> 00:21:49,875 I just wanna break for two seconds. 642 00:21:49,909 --> 00:21:51,377 - Go. - I just wanna dab my eyes. 643 00:21:51,411 --> 00:21:53,480 I don't wanna cry. I'm sorry. 644 00:21:53,512 --> 00:21:59,885 ♪♪ 645 00:21:59,919 --> 00:22:00,886 - Up next... 646 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:02,422 Why'd you say it at the party? 647 00:22:02,454 --> 00:22:04,457 - Because the one hit wonder shows up. 648 00:22:04,490 --> 00:22:07,126 She walked in, said hi, and it was like 649 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:08,795 pop-pop-pop-pop-pop-pop-pop. 650 00:22:20,673 --> 00:22:21,673 - You okay, babe? 651 00:22:21,708 --> 00:22:22,608 - Yeah. Thank you. Sorry. 652 00:22:22,642 --> 00:22:23,410 - By the way, there's nothing wrong with 653 00:22:23,442 --> 00:22:24,144 getting emotional about the topic. 654 00:22:24,176 --> 00:22:25,845 It's an emotional topic. - Yeah. 655 00:22:25,878 --> 00:22:27,078 No, I just don't wanna, like... 656 00:22:27,799 --> 00:22:28,448 It-You haven't criedic. once today. 657 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:29,682 We need a good Reza cry. 658 00:22:29,715 --> 00:22:30,784 - No. - Yeah, I mean... 659 00:22:30,817 --> 00:22:33,153 I mean, it wouldn't be a reunion if we didn't have 660 00:22:33,185 --> 00:22:34,586 some good tears from you. 661 00:22:34,621 --> 00:22:35,721 - Thank you. 662 00:22:35,755 --> 00:22:37,699 - Are you worried that you wouldn't be a good father? 663 00:22:37,723 --> 00:22:40,559 You would make the same mistakes that your parents made? 664 00:22:40,593 --> 00:22:41,970 Is that what's dictating this? - You're not. 665 00:22:41,994 --> 00:22:44,631 - I don't want to participate 666 00:22:44,663 --> 00:22:48,634 'cause I think that I have the potential 667 00:22:48,667 --> 00:22:51,637 to do lots of damage. 668 00:22:51,671 --> 00:22:55,106 - Um, I'm wondering what you're thinking of this, MJ. 669 00:22:55,107 --> 00:22:56,710 - I hope that he has a change of heart 670 00:22:56,742 --> 00:23:01,847 because, um, you know, life really 671 00:23:01,881 --> 00:23:03,682 takes on a new meaning 672 00:23:03,717 --> 00:23:05,919 when you bring life into the world. 673 00:23:05,951 --> 00:23:07,929 - You seem... - Reza, when I got my sh... together, you saw. 674 00:23:07,953 --> 00:23:09,521 - I love you. - Because I want to be 675 00:23:09,556 --> 00:23:10,856 that example for my kid. 676 00:23:10,890 --> 00:23:11,825 - Totally. I love you so much. 677 00:23:11,857 --> 00:23:13,436 - And you already are. You've changed a lot 678 00:23:13,460 --> 00:23:15,608 in the last two years specifically. 679 00:23:15,609 --> 00:23:16,663 You are perfect. 680 00:23:16,695 --> 00:23:17,630 I think you're just meant for it. 681 00:23:17,663 --> 00:23:18,631 - I love you. Thank you. 682 00:23:18,664 --> 00:23:21,433 - It-it really, really reshapes who you are. 683 00:23:21,468 --> 00:23:22,868 - Does Adam still want kids? 684 00:23:22,902 --> 00:23:26,740 - Um, you know, we have, like, tough conversations. 685 00:23:26,772 --> 00:23:29,409 Our relationship is in a really good place, 686 00:23:29,442 --> 00:23:32,746 and I just would hate myself 687 00:23:32,778 --> 00:23:36,750 if I ended up, like, being that parent, 688 00:23:36,782 --> 00:23:39,419 whose disappointments shown through, 689 00:23:39,451 --> 00:23:43,757 and I made my kid feel sometimes 690 00:23:43,789 --> 00:23:46,726 the way I was made to feel. 691 00:23:46,759 --> 00:23:48,595 - Everyone makes mistakes as a parent. 692 00:23:48,627 --> 00:23:51,969 - We're lunatics, and we did it alone. 693 00:23:51,970 --> 00:23:53,932 You know, I-I wanna go back to the welcoming party 694 00:23:53,967 --> 00:23:56,736 because, Reza, it seems like you got enjoyment 695 00:23:56,769 --> 00:24:00,105 out of telling Destiney what Veda said. 696 00:24:00,140 --> 00:24:02,575 - Veda Joon was like, "You look snatch, 697 00:24:02,608 --> 00:24:04,576 but you need an ass, girl." 698 00:24:04,611 --> 00:24:05,377 - Rude. 699 00:24:05,412 --> 00:24:06,455 - Why'd you say it at the party? 700 00:24:06,479 --> 00:24:10,717 - Because I'm sick of MJ not shutting her mom down. 701 00:24:10,750 --> 00:24:12,786 - Wait, but you just said I'm sick of my mom... 702 00:24:12,818 --> 00:24:14,586 Me not shutting my mom down. 703 00:24:14,621 --> 00:24:16,381 - No, I'm sick of you... - You just said that. 704 00:24:16,559 --> 00:24:17,190 - No, when it comes... - You're sick of MJ 705 00:24:17,222 --> 00:24:18,490 not shutting her mom down. 706 00:24:18,525 --> 00:24:20,598 - When it comes down to other people. 707 00:24:20,599 --> 00:24:22,671 You love shutting her down when she's talking to you. 708 00:24:22,695 --> 00:24:23,805 - That's not true. - You thrive 709 00:24:23,829 --> 00:24:25,464 when she's coming for other people, 710 00:24:25,498 --> 00:24:26,809 things you wish you would say. - Then why repeat it? 711 00:24:26,833 --> 00:24:27,800 - What? Thank you. - Why? 712 00:24:27,834 --> 00:24:29,602 Because I'm sick and tired 713 00:24:29,635 --> 00:24:30,403 of her mom... - No. 714 00:24:30,436 --> 00:24:31,403 - But she did try to shut it down. 715 00:24:31,438 --> 00:24:32,719 - No, she didn't. - You guys, if he didn't... 716 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:32,872 - She said it wasn't nice. 717 00:24:32,905 --> 00:24:33,740 - Destiney needs an ass, she told me. 718 00:24:33,772 --> 00:24:35,942 - Oh, why did you say that, Mom? 719 00:24:35,974 --> 00:24:38,811 -She said Destiney needs to put an ass. 720 00:24:38,845 --> 00:24:41,114 - How about you don't tell anyone about their body? 721 00:24:41,146 --> 00:24:42,115 - No, no, she did not. 722 00:24:42,147 --> 00:24:43,805 - Yes, I did. - Andy, if he did not repeat it, 723 00:24:43,829 --> 00:24:44,616 I would not have known until it aired. - She would have seen it later. 724 00:24:44,651 --> 00:24:46,618 - I know, but you were laughing. 725 00:24:46,653 --> 00:24:47,729 - Have you seen... - That's what she sd. 726 00:24:47,753 --> 00:24:48,520 - God, please don't be... - Because I couldn't believe 727 00:24:48,555 --> 00:24:49,489 what was happening, like, again. 728 00:24:49,521 --> 00:24:52,791 The-the, like, the one hit wonder shows up. 729 00:24:52,826 --> 00:24:55,494 She walked in, said hi, and it was like 730 00:24:55,528 --> 00:24:56,930 pop-pop-pop-pop-pop-pop-pop. 731 00:24:56,962 --> 00:24:58,530 Like, why? - No, no, no, no, no. 732 00:24:58,565 --> 00:24:59,465 - I don't wanna hear this stuff. 733 00:24:59,499 --> 00:25:02,349 Go, like... - Absolute-absolute bullsh... . 734 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:03,536 Just so you know... - Yeah, yeah. 735 00:25:03,569 --> 00:25:06,389 - You've destroyed my mom. You've hurt her so much. 736 00:25:06,390 --> 00:25:08,173 - You've done nothing. You're an angel. 737 00:25:08,208 --> 00:25:09,642 We've had the best friendship. 738 00:25:09,675 --> 00:25:10,686 - Destroyed your mom by doing what? 739 00:25:10,710 --> 00:25:11,611 - You've done nothing to me. - That's not fair. 740 00:25:11,644 --> 00:25:12,144 - You're the best. - He broke her heart. 741 00:25:12,178 --> 00:25:13,346 - Destroyed her why? 742 00:25:13,380 --> 00:25:15,291 - I'm compulsive, I'm elusive. - Because my mom watched. 743 00:25:15,315 --> 00:25:16,115 - He repeated. - Buse my mom... 744 00:25:16,148 --> 00:25:18,284 - I'm this. I'm the worst person. 745 00:25:18,317 --> 00:25:20,153 - No. - Bring out a list for her. 746 00:25:20,185 --> 00:25:22,548 Does some have a scroll for Merc to read? 747 00:25:22,549 --> 00:25:23,666 - You... because you insulted her. 748 00:25:23,690 --> 00:25:25,657 - I feel like you came here with an agenda 749 00:25:25,692 --> 00:25:26,759 to make me look bad. 750 00:25:26,792 --> 00:25:27,870 I don't like it. - That's not true. 751 00:25:27,894 --> 00:25:29,618 - And then you were like, no, me. 752 00:25:29,619 --> 00:25:32,231 - Destiney, were you more bothered by what Veda said 753 00:25:32,265 --> 00:25:34,968 or that Reza kind of gleefully 754 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:36,269 told you what she said? 755 00:25:36,301 --> 00:25:37,513 - Please be respectful to my mom. 756 00:25:37,537 --> 00:25:39,838 - I hated all of it, everything. 757 00:25:39,873 --> 00:25:41,607 I was so disgusted. 758 00:25:41,641 --> 00:25:43,876 And I'm also having her husband talk about my looks. 759 00:25:43,910 --> 00:25:46,680 - And Destiney looks like The Count from "Sesame Street," 760 00:25:46,712 --> 00:25:48,347 and if you wanna get The Count, 761 00:25:48,381 --> 00:25:51,317 get The Count to find out how many times the broad lies. 762 00:25:51,351 --> 00:25:55,879 - I told Tommy I am not supportive of him 763 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,892 criticizing your looks, nor of my mother. 764 00:25:58,924 --> 00:26:00,192 - Jill from Montana said, 765 00:26:00,226 --> 00:26:02,162 "Reza, it was so fun to see your mom. 766 00:26:02,194 --> 00:26:04,130 She revealed a lot about her difficult marriage 767 00:26:04,163 --> 00:26:05,832 and divorce." - Yeah. 768 00:26:05,865 --> 00:26:08,338 - How did all of that affect how you are today? 769 00:26:08,339 --> 00:26:10,537 - I wrote a lot about my mom's tumultuous marriage 770 00:26:10,569 --> 00:26:11,871 to my dad, 771 00:26:11,904 --> 00:26:15,375 and my dad is not... um, yeah. 772 00:26:15,407 --> 00:26:16,910 - Your dad is what? 773 00:26:16,942 --> 00:26:18,912 - Say it. 774 00:26:20,246 --> 00:26:23,383 - He's, like, nonverbal now, kind of, 775 00:26:23,415 --> 00:26:26,920 and, uh, it's so difficult. 776 00:26:26,952 --> 00:26:28,153 Thank you. 777 00:26:28,188 --> 00:26:30,656 Um, yeah, it's... 778 00:26:35,627 --> 00:26:37,197 Nema posted a picture with his dad 779 00:26:37,230 --> 00:26:38,698 in New York, 780 00:26:38,731 --> 00:26:41,835 and he and I previously had conversations, 781 00:26:41,867 --> 00:26:44,371 and it's so nice to see them 782 00:26:44,403 --> 00:26:46,873 getting to a better place before it's too late. 783 00:26:46,905 --> 00:26:48,375 - Mmm. Mike and Reza, 784 00:26:48,407 --> 00:26:50,743 you have always been ride or die brothers, 785 00:26:50,777 --> 00:26:52,811 but, you know, Mike, last season, 786 00:26:52,846 --> 00:26:55,714 you were something of a voice of reason. 787 00:26:55,749 --> 00:26:56,758 - You also said things and did things 788 00:26:56,782 --> 00:26:58,751 that were very... ed up. - I know, terrible. 789 00:26:58,785 --> 00:27:01,421 - Okay, but you have to continue to apologize 790 00:27:01,453 --> 00:27:02,933 because it's not gonna be one apology. 791 00:27:03,230 --> 00:27:04,240 - I will, forever. 792 00:27:04,569 --> 00:27:06,258 - Both of you need to be okay, meet in the middle, 793 00:27:06,259 --> 00:27:07,269 and let's fix this. 794 00:27:07,599 --> 00:27:10,296 - If you had to pinpoint your issues now with Reza, 795 00:27:10,329 --> 00:27:12,132 what was at the crux? 796 00:27:12,164 --> 00:27:14,200 - I just wanted him to reciprocate 797 00:27:14,233 --> 00:27:16,368 what I gave him last year. 798 00:27:16,403 --> 00:27:18,137 Honestly, why I wanted to sit down, 799 00:27:18,171 --> 00:27:20,906 is to figure out what-what the (BLEEP) is going on 800 00:27:20,940 --> 00:27:23,410 between two people who say they're brothers 801 00:27:23,442 --> 00:27:25,845 but take low blows at each other. 802 00:27:25,878 --> 00:27:27,146 I'm also to blame. 803 00:27:27,180 --> 00:27:29,949 - I get resentful of people whose stuff 804 00:27:30,500 --> 00:27:32,251 bleeds over into my world. 805 00:27:32,285 --> 00:27:36,558 - Today, now, here, I look at him, 806 00:27:36,559 --> 00:27:37,323 and I go, (BLEEP), I miss this guy. 807 00:27:37,356 --> 00:27:38,258 - Okay. 808 00:27:38,290 --> 00:27:39,368 - Who else would wear shorts and a suit 809 00:27:39,392 --> 00:27:40,160 and... in' pull it off? 810 00:27:40,192 --> 00:27:41,337 And this is the things he does. 811 00:27:41,361 --> 00:27:43,430 Like, I... he-he amuses me. 812 00:27:43,462 --> 00:27:45,699 He enlightens me. 813 00:27:45,731 --> 00:27:47,433 He makes me feel fulfilled. 814 00:27:47,467 --> 00:27:50,436 He is the older brother that I always wanted. 815 00:27:50,470 --> 00:27:52,939 But, unfortunately, we don't handle it 816 00:27:52,971 --> 00:27:55,749 the way we should. 817 00:27:55,750 --> 00:27:56,409 - Okay. - Instead, we go to social media 818 00:27:56,442 --> 00:27:58,444 and the press, and we do all these nonsense. 819 00:27:58,478 --> 00:28:00,180 - Right. - And get people involved. 820 00:28:00,212 --> 00:28:02,149 And then I feel like, you know what? 821 00:28:02,150 --> 00:28:04,150 (BLEEP) this guy. Like, he's betraying my trust, 822 00:28:04,183 --> 00:28:05,317 and then it becomes hard. 823 00:28:05,352 --> 00:28:08,221 But, right now, standing before you, 824 00:28:08,253 --> 00:28:09,489 I love you. - I love you. 825 00:28:09,521 --> 00:28:11,367 - I will always love you. I will always be there for you. 826 00:28:11,391 --> 00:28:12,192 I will always protect you. - I love you. 827 00:28:12,224 --> 00:28:14,259 I know you will. - I will... there's... 828 00:28:14,294 --> 00:28:16,296 We're gonna work on our friendship. 829 00:28:16,328 --> 00:28:18,230 - And so, same question to you. 830 00:28:18,263 --> 00:28:20,900 - One thing I know about Mike, 831 00:28:20,933 --> 00:28:23,358 when he and I make mistakes, 832 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,372 the two of us do not like 833 00:28:25,404 --> 00:28:28,508 when the other one points out mistakes. 834 00:28:28,540 --> 00:28:31,440 I would like to make this one resolution. 835 00:28:31,769 --> 00:28:33,846 I will not ever mention Mike's penis. 836 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,489 [laughing] 837 00:28:36,490 --> 00:28:38,317 - Mike looks so unhappy, right now. 838 00:28:38,351 --> 00:28:40,720 - I'm so tired of this sh... , dude, yeesh. 839 00:28:40,753 --> 00:28:41,855 - I have to tell you. 840 00:28:41,887 --> 00:28:44,723 One of the most beautiful parts of today's reunion, 841 00:28:44,758 --> 00:28:47,598 is seeing the ring on Paulina's finger. 842 00:28:47,599 --> 00:28:49,461 So, for being able to turn that around, 843 00:28:49,496 --> 00:28:51,163 I have mad respect for you, 844 00:28:51,197 --> 00:28:55,835 for being able to come back to the table and admit. 845 00:28:55,868 --> 00:28:58,337 Took you a minute, but I love you and thank you 846 00:28:58,371 --> 00:29:02,420 for being honest and not trying to push the lie. 847 00:29:02,750 --> 00:29:04,243 I love you. - I love you, too. 848 00:29:04,277 --> 00:29:06,211 - You're right, you didn't do it on my timeframe, 849 00:29:06,246 --> 00:29:07,747 and I was mad at you. 850 00:29:07,780 --> 00:29:09,348 I apologize to you. 851 00:29:09,382 --> 00:29:11,884 I'm really sorry. I'm really sorry. 852 00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:15,209 - Love you. 853 00:29:15,210 --> 00:29:16,122 - Coming up... 854 00:29:16,155 --> 00:29:17,899 - We're gonna have to have some difficult conversations 855 00:29:17,923 --> 00:29:20,258 in order to get to a better place. 856 00:29:20,259 --> 00:29:21,528 - I've been punished so much. 857 00:29:29,435 --> 00:29:30,713 - So, you and I go way, way too far back. 858 00:29:30,737 --> 00:29:31,704 - We go way back. 859 00:29:31,738 --> 00:29:34,340 - You don't even feel like you even need to 860 00:29:34,374 --> 00:29:36,175 validate my feelings. - I feel like... 861 00:29:36,209 --> 00:29:37,876 No, I... - I'm gonna say my feelings. 862 00:29:37,911 --> 00:29:39,211 - You always say your feelings. 863 00:29:39,244 --> 00:29:40,389 I never say anything about it. 864 00:29:40,413 --> 00:29:41,924 - You just don't... I just don't wanna talk about it 865 00:29:41,948 --> 00:29:43,249 until we're going. 866 00:29:43,282 --> 00:29:46,185 - Four, three, two. 867 00:29:46,219 --> 00:29:49,122 - Welcome back to the "Shahs of Sunset" reunion. 868 00:29:49,154 --> 00:29:51,557 Well, after and rough previous season, 869 00:29:51,590 --> 00:29:53,926 this year, MJ was back 870 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,930 and ready to fight for all her friendships. 871 00:29:56,962 --> 00:29:59,365 And while those relationships were thriving, 872 00:29:59,398 --> 00:30:01,800 nude texts and all, 873 00:30:01,835 --> 00:30:03,336 her marriage, on the other hand, 874 00:30:03,369 --> 00:30:06,839 had become significantly less spicy. 875 00:30:06,873 --> 00:30:08,450 - Well, when's the last time you had sex? 876 00:30:08,474 --> 00:30:10,175 - It was, like, two weeks ago. 877 00:30:10,210 --> 00:30:11,419 - That long ago? - When was that? 878 00:30:11,443 --> 00:30:13,413 - That's a sore subject for me. 879 00:30:13,445 --> 00:30:15,382 It's not what I like to think about. 880 00:30:15,414 --> 00:30:17,416 - What's happening with your spark with Tommy? 881 00:30:17,450 --> 00:30:19,484 - Um, we're very close. 882 00:30:19,485 --> 00:30:21,495 We're-we're very in love. 883 00:30:21,496 --> 00:30:24,423 I just don't think I've really prioritized 884 00:30:24,457 --> 00:30:26,259 the romance, right now. [chuckles] 885 00:30:26,291 --> 00:30:28,127 - What does an average day look like for you? 886 00:30:28,161 --> 00:30:30,630 I mean, are you full mom duty? 887 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:31,230 - Yes. - Yes. 888 00:30:31,263 --> 00:30:33,400 - Um, so, I wake up when he wakes up 889 00:30:33,432 --> 00:30:34,834 around 6 or 7. 890 00:30:34,867 --> 00:30:37,102 [squealing] Tommy! 891 00:30:37,103 --> 00:30:39,538 I'm, like, tracking raspberries. 892 00:30:39,572 --> 00:30:42,107 I'm worried something is gonna fall down. 893 00:30:42,142 --> 00:30:44,210 I'm worried he's gonna hurt himself. 894 00:30:44,243 --> 00:30:45,612 - Come here, I got him. 895 00:30:45,644 --> 00:30:47,913 - We do our regular routine, 896 00:30:47,947 --> 00:30:51,518 breakfast, reading books, exercise, 897 00:30:51,550 --> 00:30:52,585 and the witching hour, 898 00:30:52,618 --> 00:30:55,954 which is the hardest part of every single day, 899 00:30:55,989 --> 00:30:57,390 which is, just, like, five hours. 900 00:30:57,423 --> 00:30:58,625 It's impossible to kill. 901 00:30:58,657 --> 00:31:00,460 - Right. - Yeah, it's hell. 902 00:31:00,492 --> 00:31:03,829 - Are there qualities of baby Shams that 903 00:31:03,863 --> 00:31:05,932 you see your dad in? 904 00:31:05,964 --> 00:31:09,102 - Yes, his demeanor, his facial expressions, 905 00:31:09,134 --> 00:31:12,538 just physically, like, his part of his hair, 906 00:31:12,571 --> 00:31:16,175 so, um, just a lot of things. 907 00:31:16,209 --> 00:31:19,311 - Reza, Shams Senior always had your back, 908 00:31:19,346 --> 00:31:21,948 and you haven't met his namesake. 909 00:31:21,980 --> 00:31:24,838 What-what would you tell baby Shams 910 00:31:24,839 --> 00:31:26,858 about his grandfather, if you could? 911 00:31:26,859 --> 00:31:28,387 - Oh, he was such a great guy. 912 00:31:28,421 --> 00:31:31,857 He took such great care of his daughter. 913 00:31:31,891 --> 00:31:34,940 Um... 914 00:31:36,962 --> 00:31:40,467 sad that he wasn't here to, uh, 915 00:31:40,500 --> 00:31:42,935 get to experience him. 916 00:31:48,208 --> 00:31:50,343 - What's one thing you miss about Reza 917 00:31:50,376 --> 00:31:52,111 that you haven't gotten back yet? 918 00:31:52,112 --> 00:31:55,548 - So, it's, like, the day to day thing. 919 00:31:55,582 --> 00:31:58,884 I mean, being able to wake up, call him, 920 00:31:58,917 --> 00:32:00,529 anything important, 921 00:32:00,859 --> 00:32:03,559 and I feel like what's holding me back, 922 00:32:03,890 --> 00:32:04,356 is that I wanna make sure 923 00:32:04,391 --> 00:32:06,291 that we're earning it authentically, 924 00:32:06,326 --> 00:32:08,461 and the problem is, you know, 925 00:32:08,494 --> 00:32:11,640 the stuff between my husband and him. 926 00:32:13,633 --> 00:32:16,689 You know, the jail time that my husband did 927 00:32:16,690 --> 00:32:19,172 is very hard for him to walk back from. 928 00:32:19,204 --> 00:32:21,740 - Well, what is the status of the restraining order, 929 00:32:21,741 --> 00:32:22,750 right now? 930 00:32:22,751 --> 00:32:24,544 - She told me Tommy doesn't give a (BLEEP). 931 00:32:24,576 --> 00:32:26,788 He doesn't give sh... . 932 00:32:26,789 --> 00:32:27,713 I had paid my attorney to drop it. 933 00:32:27,747 --> 00:32:29,382 - Okay. - I wrote the card. 934 00:32:29,415 --> 00:32:31,478 He tore it up. I didn't know. 935 00:32:31,479 --> 00:32:35,120 - In this book, there is a letter for you. 936 00:32:35,121 --> 00:32:37,122 - I don't-I don't care, babe. 937 00:32:37,123 --> 00:32:38,391 - Just read it. - I'm not. 938 00:32:38,424 --> 00:32:41,227 I'm good, bro. I'm good. 939 00:32:41,260 --> 00:32:43,195 I don't need this. 940 00:32:43,229 --> 00:32:44,998 - She never reached out to say thanks. 941 00:32:45,980 --> 00:32:47,275 I gave him the card. - What was your reaction when you saw him tearing up the card? 942 00:32:47,299 --> 00:32:48,434 - So disappointed. 943 00:32:48,468 --> 00:32:51,400 I just thought that we would be in a different place, 944 00:32:51,401 --> 00:32:53,373 and if I was trying 945 00:32:53,405 --> 00:32:55,107 and dropped the restraining order, 946 00:32:55,141 --> 00:32:57,109 that maybe some good would come out of it, 947 00:32:57,143 --> 00:32:59,578 but there was no good, 948 00:32:59,612 --> 00:33:01,280 and that's the way it went. 949 00:33:01,314 --> 00:33:03,583 And can I say something that's very honest? 950 00:33:03,615 --> 00:33:05,116 - Yeah. - I do not want 951 00:33:05,117 --> 00:33:06,428 a relationship with Tommy. - Right. 952 00:33:06,452 --> 00:33:07,495 - I'm doing the restraining order 953 00:33:07,519 --> 00:33:10,623 as a favor to MJ 'cause she made it crystal clear 954 00:33:10,656 --> 00:33:13,625 that she feels isolated and alienated 955 00:33:13,660 --> 00:33:15,528 as a result of it. 956 00:33:15,561 --> 00:33:19,649 - How are things with you and Tommy? 957 00:33:19,650 --> 00:33:22,234 - Okay, so, it's a little complicated because I feel 958 00:33:22,268 --> 00:33:24,938 like we have good moments and bad moments. 959 00:33:24,971 --> 00:33:26,972 Compared to last year, there's a lot of progress, 960 00:33:27,730 --> 00:33:29,108 for sure. He's not as angry. 961 00:33:29,142 --> 00:33:31,277 He doesn't feel that intensity. 962 00:33:31,310 --> 00:33:33,113 - Good. - But the boo-boo 963 00:33:33,145 --> 00:33:35,115 is not healed. - Okay. 964 00:33:35,147 --> 00:33:38,151 Reza, have you given up on trying to repair 965 00:33:38,183 --> 00:33:40,286 the Tommy relationship, and why do you think 966 00:33:40,319 --> 00:33:41,488 he should forgive you? 967 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,455 - I don't think he should forgive me. 968 00:33:43,490 --> 00:33:45,991 I'm not looking to do anything with Tommy. 969 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:47,359 I watched the show. 970 00:33:47,394 --> 00:33:50,596 I've spoken to my former best friend of 30 years. 971 00:33:50,630 --> 00:33:52,731 It's crystal clear. 972 00:33:52,766 --> 00:33:55,099 He's not looking to have relationships 973 00:33:55,101 --> 00:33:57,537 with Destiney, Golnesa, or myself. 974 00:33:57,569 --> 00:34:00,272 I'm just doing this as a good gesture... 975 00:34:00,306 --> 00:34:03,410 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - To show her that 976 00:34:03,442 --> 00:34:05,412 I wanna do it for her. - Okay. 977 00:34:05,444 --> 00:34:07,780 - I, too, watched the season, and Tommy also 978 00:34:07,814 --> 00:34:10,483 reads the paper and sees things are said 979 00:34:10,516 --> 00:34:13,485 that sets him off, again. - Like what? 980 00:34:13,519 --> 00:34:15,722 - He sees you liking the making fun of me 981 00:34:15,755 --> 00:34:17,157 dying and all of those things. 982 00:34:17,190 --> 00:34:18,190 - What? - He sees it. 983 00:34:18,579 --> 00:34:19,920 - From years ago? - This season. 984 00:34:19,125 --> 00:34:19,893 You said just this season. He's watching this season. 985 00:34:19,925 --> 00:34:20,827 - From years ago? - It wasn't... 986 00:34:20,860 --> 00:34:23,295 It wasn't years ago. - Yeah, I swear it. 987 00:34:23,329 --> 00:34:24,764 Okay, no problem. - At-what... 988 00:34:24,797 --> 00:34:26,142 - All I'm saying is, this is for us. 989 00:34:26,166 --> 00:34:27,166 - Okay. 990 00:34:27,670 --> 00:34:27,833 - Nothing has happened this year. 991 00:34:27,867 --> 00:34:28,768 - Poor Tommy. - What do you think... 992 00:34:28,802 --> 00:34:30,804 What do you think it would take for Tommy 993 00:34:30,836 --> 00:34:34,606 to say that Reza can meet Shams? 994 00:34:37,376 --> 00:34:39,788 - I think that Tommy wants to see Reza 995 00:34:39,789 --> 00:34:40,579 in anger management. - Oh. 996 00:34:40,612 --> 00:34:42,349 - And he thinks that... - Tommy wants to see 997 00:34:42,382 --> 00:34:44,184 Reza in anger management? - Absolutely. 998 00:34:44,217 --> 00:34:45,117 You've seen the way that he is. 999 00:34:45,150 --> 00:34:46,859 - And is Tommy going to anger management? 1000 00:34:46,860 --> 00:34:47,186 - He completed many hours. - He completed. 1001 00:34:47,219 --> 00:34:49,422 - 'Cause it was court ordered and then that was it? 1002 00:34:49,456 --> 00:34:50,599 - And... - When the court order 1003 00:34:50,623 --> 00:34:51,458 hours were done, he finished? 1004 00:34:51,490 --> 00:34:52,257 - No, he... - Or was the healing done, 1005 00:34:52,291 --> 00:34:54,460 and then he finished? - No, no. 1006 00:34:54,494 --> 00:34:56,829 Tommy has really been working on himself. 1007 00:34:56,862 --> 00:34:59,988 - He's doing his gratitude alarms. 1008 00:34:59,989 --> 00:35:02,100 - Yes. [alarm sounding] 1009 00:35:02,101 --> 00:35:03,503 - I'm grateful for my wife. 1010 00:35:03,536 --> 00:35:05,637 I'm grateful for my son. 1011 00:35:05,672 --> 00:35:07,574 I'm grateful that everybody is healthy. 1012 00:35:07,606 --> 00:35:09,876 - Reza and Golnesa, do you notice 1013 00:35:09,909 --> 00:35:13,612 that MJ has grown? - I haven't, unfortunately, 1014 00:35:13,646 --> 00:35:17,751 spent very much time with Merc. 1015 00:35:17,784 --> 00:35:21,387 I would love to be able to tell you 1016 00:35:21,420 --> 00:35:23,556 that I can share lots of stuff with you, 1017 00:35:23,590 --> 00:35:24,666 but, unfortunately, I can't. 1018 00:35:24,690 --> 00:35:26,393 - Right. And you? 1019 00:35:26,425 --> 00:35:29,128 - I-I would have to say the same. 1020 00:35:29,161 --> 00:35:31,697 - I-I definitely deserve m-more than that 1021 00:35:31,731 --> 00:35:33,666 from you, Golnesa, but that's okay. 1022 00:35:33,699 --> 00:35:36,202 - It's hard to-to wanna, uh, co-sign on anything 1023 00:35:36,235 --> 00:35:39,239 more than that when, you know, it's interesting to me 1024 00:35:39,271 --> 00:35:41,240 that you're kinda saying funny stuff 1025 00:35:41,273 --> 00:35:43,409 behind my back to Reza. 1026 00:35:43,443 --> 00:35:45,177 Like, you're-you're waiting around 1027 00:35:45,210 --> 00:35:48,280 to see this changed person in me. 1028 00:35:48,313 --> 00:35:50,282 You know, and then when I ran into you recently 1029 00:35:50,315 --> 00:35:51,760 at a birthday party, and you were like, 1030 00:35:51,784 --> 00:35:53,294 "Oh, yeah, you had your ringleader there." 1031 00:35:53,318 --> 00:35:55,121 I'm like, "My who?" "You had Reza." 1032 00:35:55,155 --> 00:35:56,798 I'm like, what... So, it's, like, it's random that... 1033 00:35:56,822 --> 00:35:58,300 'cause this was just a week or two ago. 1034 00:35:58,324 --> 00:35:59,759 So, I don't know. 1035 00:35:59,793 --> 00:36:01,927 Every time I do feel like we're taking a step 1036 00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:03,673 forward, you say these random things. 1037 00:36:03,697 --> 00:36:06,199 I'm like, did you want me to be like, "ha-ha-ha, 1038 00:36:06,231 --> 00:36:08,802 "yeah, my... ing ring leader, I had him there?" 1039 00:36:08,835 --> 00:36:10,836 - I harbor resentment. - Oh, boy, Okay. 1040 00:36:10,869 --> 00:36:12,739 - Merc, the reason you are not my friend 1041 00:36:12,771 --> 00:36:15,307 and will not be my friend, is because you lie. 1042 00:36:15,342 --> 00:36:17,443 You have never been there for me. 1043 00:36:17,476 --> 00:36:19,612 - I don't think that you mean to say to me 1044 00:36:19,646 --> 00:36:21,614 that we'll never be friends. 1045 00:36:21,648 --> 00:36:23,782 - Merc, every time I try to have that conversation 1046 00:36:23,817 --> 00:36:25,684 with you, you don't wanna have it. 1047 00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:27,329 You sort of, when I bring up things that you don't 1048 00:36:27,353 --> 00:36:29,822 wanna discuss, maybe you're either in the wrong, 1049 00:36:29,856 --> 00:36:31,791 or it hurts you, you brush it under. 1050 00:36:31,824 --> 00:36:33,302 You're like, "Okay, that's... that was in the past. 1051 00:36:33,326 --> 00:36:35,327 "We don't need to go there." 1052 00:36:35,362 --> 00:36:37,530 It's hard to get a conversation with you 1053 00:36:37,563 --> 00:36:38,673 to get to that place where I'm like, 1054 00:36:38,697 --> 00:36:39,742 "Good, we had a breakthrough. 1055 00:36:39,766 --> 00:36:43,436 "Let's try to grow from here." 1056 00:36:43,469 --> 00:36:46,139 - Okay, well, let's try. - Let's try, I'm down. 1057 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:51,244 - Coming up... - When Reza and I are close, 1058 00:36:51,277 --> 00:36:53,480 there would be meaning to having him 1059 00:36:53,512 --> 00:36:56,315 meet and play a role in my son's life. 1060 00:36:56,349 --> 00:36:57,851 - What do you say that? 1061 00:37:05,909 --> 00:37:08,628 ♪♪ 1062 00:37:09,561 --> 00:37:12,565 - Welcome back to "Shahs of Sunset" reunion. 1063 00:37:12,599 --> 00:37:13,908 Who here thinks Reza should be allowed 1064 00:37:13,932 --> 00:37:15,335 to meet Shams? 1065 00:37:17,403 --> 00:37:19,304 Where does your voice come in, 1066 00:37:19,338 --> 00:37:23,710 in the idea of your son meeting Reza? 1067 00:37:23,742 --> 00:37:26,378 - When Reza and I are close, 1068 00:37:26,413 --> 00:37:28,648 there would be meaning to having him 1069 00:37:28,681 --> 00:37:31,885 meet and play a role in my son's life. 1070 00:37:31,918 --> 00:37:34,539 - How has Reza not being able to see the baby caused 1071 00:37:34,869 --> 00:37:38,692 a strain in your own marriage... Has it? 1072 00:37:38,724 --> 00:37:41,460 - A strain in my heart. - Strain in your heart. 1073 00:37:41,494 --> 00:37:44,630 - A strain on my heart. I just don't know why 1074 00:37:44,664 --> 00:37:47,233 it's been so long that we're still in this 1075 00:37:47,266 --> 00:37:49,969 same place where I'm proving myself to be, 1076 00:37:50,699 --> 00:37:52,972 you know, worthy of being included. 1077 00:37:53,730 --> 00:37:55,742 - But it's... she's-she's saying something that is 1078 00:37:55,775 --> 00:37:58,844 so innocuous that I'm doing, uh, it makes me 1079 00:37:58,878 --> 00:38:02,480 want to do nothing 'cause nothing is very safe. 1080 00:38:02,820 --> 00:38:03,489 - Right. 1081 00:38:03,829 --> 00:38:07,586 - Internally, we have taken 1,000 steps back. 1082 00:38:07,619 --> 00:38:10,757 I can't hang out with her when, in my brain 1083 00:38:10,789 --> 00:38:15,929 and in my heart, I feel like she's having conversations 1084 00:38:16,289 --> 00:38:20,328 that are driving me to be the bad person. 1085 00:38:20,329 --> 00:38:21,510 - That part. - I wanna avoid her 1086 00:38:21,534 --> 00:38:24,371 like the plague, and I have, and it's been 1087 00:38:24,403 --> 00:38:26,739 the happiest time of my life, and I'm so sorry. 1088 00:38:26,773 --> 00:38:28,541 - The happiest time of your life? 1089 00:38:28,574 --> 00:38:31,440 - The two years that I haven't had to deal 1090 00:38:31,769 --> 00:38:33,780 with, like, the emotional burden, things that 1091 00:38:33,813 --> 00:38:36,949 she makes me feel obligated that I have to do, 1092 00:38:37,500 --> 00:38:39,460 that put me in positions that I don't wanna be in. 1093 00:38:39,519 --> 00:38:40,719 - Oh, my God. - Wow. 1094 00:38:40,753 --> 00:38:42,621 - You guys feel like I need to go to 1095 00:38:42,655 --> 00:38:43,856 anger management. - Why not? 1096 00:38:43,889 --> 00:38:44,791 - I love you. I'm gonna drop 1097 00:38:44,824 --> 00:38:46,425 the restraining order for your husband. 1098 00:38:46,458 --> 00:38:47,769 I'm not going to anger management. 1099 00:38:47,793 --> 00:38:48,870 I'm not hanging out with you. 1100 00:38:48,894 --> 00:38:50,463 I'm not gonna see your kid. 1101 00:38:50,496 --> 00:38:51,331 I love you. 1102 00:38:51,364 --> 00:38:54,098 I'm gonna do it, so we can have peace. 1103 00:38:54,099 --> 00:38:57,403 - Please just acknowledge it's difficult for me 1104 00:38:57,436 --> 00:39:00,739 to see you form friendships with other people 1105 00:39:00,773 --> 00:39:03,777 and not make room for me. That's a really deep cut. 1106 00:39:03,809 --> 00:39:05,612 We're gonna have to have some difficult 1107 00:39:05,644 --> 00:39:08,313 conversations in order to get to a better place. 1108 00:39:08,347 --> 00:39:09,382 That's what resonated. 1109 00:39:09,416 --> 00:39:12,918 - Difficult conversations, yes, but why do you feel 1110 00:39:13,190 --> 00:39:16,559 like I have to do everything for you? 1111 00:39:16,889 --> 00:39:18,324 Stop punishing me if we're trying 1112 00:39:18,358 --> 00:39:19,626 to go somewhere good. 1113 00:39:19,659 --> 00:39:21,661 I've been punished so much. 1114 00:39:21,695 --> 00:39:23,329 Now, I'm finding out I need to go to 1115 00:39:23,362 --> 00:39:25,864 anger management, too. - I'm curious, Mike. 1116 00:39:25,898 --> 00:39:28,339 How do you think they should figure it out? 1117 00:39:28,340 --> 00:39:29,678 - Leave significant others out of it 1118 00:39:29,702 --> 00:39:31,180 and just work on your guys' friendships. 1119 00:39:31,204 --> 00:39:33,539 She cannot control what Tommy says or does 1120 00:39:33,572 --> 00:39:35,909 or what Veda says and does, and you can't control 1121 00:39:35,942 --> 00:39:38,744 how Adam feels about you. 1122 00:39:38,777 --> 00:39:43,488 And forget what he's got going on here with them. 1123 00:39:43,489 --> 00:39:44,609 - That's good advice. - Yeah. 1124 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:45,510 - I agree. - Yeah. 1125 00:39:45,849 --> 00:39:45,851 - You know, just work on your guys' friendships 1126 00:39:45,885 --> 00:39:46,928 between you. - I think they were 1127 00:39:46,952 --> 00:39:50,757 trying to, and the factor was weighing that down 1128 00:39:50,789 --> 00:39:53,589 was the spouses, was the baby. 1129 00:39:53,590 --> 00:39:54,598 - Yeah, that's why I'm saying forget them. 1130 00:39:54,599 --> 00:39:54,793 - Well, the other... - They were trying to, 1131 00:39:54,827 --> 00:39:55,762 but then they got stuck, again. 1132 00:39:55,795 --> 00:39:58,364 - The other thing that's going to be crucial, 1133 00:39:58,398 --> 00:40:01,735 right now, is we're shooting this tonight. 1134 00:40:01,768 --> 00:40:03,536 We're walking outta here. - Mm-hmm. 1135 00:40:03,570 --> 00:40:05,371 - The cameras are gonna be down for a while, 1136 00:40:05,405 --> 00:40:07,740 and then it's the true test of what's gonna happen 1137 00:40:07,773 --> 00:40:10,429 between the two of you because it's either 1138 00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:12,545 gonna sink or swim. - Yeah. 1139 00:40:12,579 --> 00:40:15,514 - It's gonna swim. - For sure. 1140 00:40:19,853 --> 00:40:22,688 - Okay, well, I think we're gonna leave it there, 1141 00:40:22,722 --> 00:40:24,123 and we're gonna focus on the present 1142 00:40:24,157 --> 00:40:26,693 and see where this goes. 1143 00:40:26,726 --> 00:40:28,610 - I'm with that. - Yeah. 1144 00:40:28,940 --> 00:40:30,929 - Well, this is a great way to end it. 1145 00:40:30,963 --> 00:40:32,831 Well, since this year, we enjoyed... 1146 00:40:32,865 --> 00:40:34,233 [speaking Farsi] 1147 00:40:34,266 --> 00:40:36,135 - Yes, perfect. - Oh, yeah, good job. 1148 00:40:36,168 --> 00:40:38,103 - And at times, humble pie. 1149 00:40:38,137 --> 00:40:40,399 - Yes. - I wanna raise our glass 1150 00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:43,428 to a crew that served up another great season. 1151 00:40:43,429 --> 00:40:46,880 And alas, GG, just for you, we got actual pie. 1152 00:40:46,913 --> 00:40:48,414 Let's bring the pie in. - Yes! 1153 00:40:48,447 --> 00:40:50,750 - Did you, really? - I'm so excited! 1154 00:40:50,784 --> 00:40:52,418 - Look at this. - [speaking Farsi] 1155 00:40:52,452 --> 00:40:55,255 - Oh, wow, individual little pies. 1156 00:40:55,288 --> 00:40:57,423 Just take the individual pie. 1157 00:40:57,456 --> 00:41:00,125 - Hold it underneath it. - Cheers! 1158 00:41:00,126 --> 00:41:02,128 - Guys, is there a Persian toast? 1159 00:41:02,161 --> 00:41:03,429 - [speaking Farsi]. 1160 00:41:03,463 --> 00:41:07,634 [all speaking Farsi] 1161 00:41:07,666 --> 00:41:09,635 - A little sugar never hurt nobody. 1162 00:41:09,668 --> 00:41:11,637 - Nobody. 1163 00:41:11,670 --> 00:41:14,574 - Oh, this is a good pie. - Yeah, it is. 1164 00:41:14,606 --> 00:41:16,175 - Look at her devouring the pie. 1165 00:41:16,208 --> 00:41:19,579 - Thank you, Andy Joon. - Thanks, guys. 1166 00:41:19,612 --> 00:41:21,780 - That's so great. - Can you get up here? 1167 00:41:21,815 --> 00:41:25,985 - This is nice... Wow. - Stay well, baby. 1168 00:41:26,860 --> 00:41:27,119 - Are you gonna be nice to me, though? 1169 00:41:27,152 --> 00:41:27,887 - I promise I will be. 1170 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:29,222 - But you said that last time. 1171 00:41:29,255 --> 00:41:30,832 - Honestly, I have a lot of love for you. 1172 00:41:30,856 --> 00:41:32,958 I just want you to be on my side sometimes, too. 1173 00:41:32,992 --> 00:41:33,793 - Wow. 1174 00:41:33,827 --> 00:41:35,195 - Wish I coulda gotten a hug today. 1175 00:41:35,228 --> 00:41:36,862 - I'm sorry. - That was great, guys. 1176 00:41:36,896 --> 00:41:38,297 Thank you very much. 1177 00:41:38,331 --> 00:41:45,137 ♪♪ 1178 00:41:45,170 --> 00:41:46,639 - I wanna change first, so badly. 1179 00:41:48,807 --> 00:41:51,110 - Last year, when we came to reunion, and it was, 1180 00:41:51,143 --> 00:41:53,612 like, so bad, and all I wanted, 1181 00:41:53,646 --> 00:41:56,849 was for it to go a different direction. 1182 00:41:56,882 --> 00:41:58,160 And then this year, I'm thinking, like, 1183 00:41:58,184 --> 00:42:00,490 of course, it's gonna go in a good direction 1184 00:42:00,491 --> 00:42:02,155 because we made so much progress. 1185 00:42:02,188 --> 00:42:06,826 It doesn't make me feel okay with myself to say 1186 00:42:06,860 --> 00:42:10,163 that I am not effectively communicating with people 1187 00:42:10,195 --> 00:42:12,831 that matter to me in my life. 1188 00:42:12,865 --> 00:42:13,800 I don't know how to approach you. 1189 00:42:13,833 --> 00:42:17,704 I don't know how to approach Tommy, okay? 1190 00:42:17,737 --> 00:42:21,708 I just miss you. 1191 00:42:21,740 --> 00:42:26,112 - I missed you, too. - And it's hard. 1192 00:42:26,146 --> 00:42:31,217 The 1,000 steps back is not how I want today to end. 1193 00:42:31,251 --> 00:42:33,859 - Nor do I. 1194 00:42:33,860 --> 00:42:35,989 I was so focused on trying to heal the group 1195 00:42:36,889 --> 00:42:39,826 that I lost sight of trying to heal me and you, 1196 00:42:39,858 --> 00:42:41,760 and then we come here, and I realize that 1197 00:42:41,795 --> 00:42:43,730 all the progress we made... - Yeah. 1198 00:42:43,762 --> 00:42:46,965 - It so easily can be lost. - Well... 1199 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,199 - And we have to work on it. - Yeah. 1200 00:42:52,572 --> 00:42:54,106 Thank you. - Absolutely. 1201 00:42:54,139 --> 00:42:56,543 Can I give you a kiss? - Yeah, let's go home. 1202 00:42:59,179 --> 00:43:00,356 - I'm really sorry for upsetting you. 1203 00:43:00,380 --> 00:43:02,181 It's not what I wanted to do. 1204 00:43:02,215 --> 00:43:05,885 - We, um, we deserved the night to end like this. 1205 00:43:05,918 --> 00:43:07,387 - Yeah, absolutely. 1206 00:43:07,420 --> 00:43:09,356 I don't wanna take any more steps back. 1207 00:43:09,389 --> 00:43:11,257 - Likewise, thank you. - Love you. 1208 00:43:13,425 --> 00:43:15,894 Thank you for this way better ending.