1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:02,101 - Previously, on part one 2 00:00:02,136 --> 00:00:03,335 of the "shahs of sunset" reunion... 3 00:00:03,371 --> 00:00:07,456 Mike, you say slimming down makes your (bleep) look bigger. 4 00:00:07,508 --> 00:00:08,624 - I-I gained a half inch. 5 00:00:08,676 --> 00:00:10,292 [laughing] 6 00:00:10,344 --> 00:00:12,344 - you're a piece of sh--. 7 00:00:12,380 --> 00:00:14,380 - Stop being a pussy behind a keyboard. 8 00:00:14,415 --> 00:00:15,297 - I'm not trying to be a pussy. 9 00:00:15,349 --> 00:00:16,348 I'm talkin' to you right here, in my face. 10 00:00:16,384 --> 00:00:18,717 - But why are you pretending that we were cool? 11 00:00:18,753 --> 00:00:21,387 - I want us to earn our way back to a better place. 12 00:00:21,422 --> 00:00:22,721 - I don't think there would be a friendship 13 00:00:22,756 --> 00:00:25,057 if it wasn't for us having kids. 14 00:00:26,227 --> 00:00:28,477 - I have watched you get so ugly with the people 15 00:00:28,529 --> 00:00:29,594 that are around me. 16 00:00:29,613 --> 00:00:31,280 That side of reza scares me. 17 00:00:31,315 --> 00:00:32,431 - Me and reza used to be the same way. 18 00:00:32,466 --> 00:00:33,966 When you're on the outs, boom. 19 00:00:34,001 --> 00:00:35,451 The next person takes that spot. 20 00:00:35,486 --> 00:00:36,285 That's-that's the- - that's-- 21 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:37,202 - if you don't fight reza's battles, 22 00:00:37,238 --> 00:00:39,104 then you are public enemy number one. 23 00:00:39,140 --> 00:00:40,205 - Yes, yes. 24 00:00:40,241 --> 00:00:42,341 - Why were you mad at paulina for texting everyone 25 00:00:42,376 --> 00:00:44,510 about mike cheating? - These were from mike. 26 00:00:44,545 --> 00:00:46,161 Put 'em in the trash. - Thank you. 27 00:00:46,213 --> 00:00:47,129 - Why are you such a bitch? 28 00:00:47,164 --> 00:00:50,215 - You are my enemy now. - You're a hood rat! 29 00:00:50,251 --> 00:00:51,517 [gasps] 30 00:00:51,552 --> 00:00:53,618 - I wanna share something with you guys. 31 00:00:53,637 --> 00:00:55,120 We're engaged. - Oh. 32 00:00:55,139 --> 00:00:56,455 - Paulina, you have told me stuff. 33 00:00:56,490 --> 00:00:58,474 I have kept it to myself. 34 00:00:58,509 --> 00:01:02,478 - Listen, it's all hearsay. - Your schtick is up! 35 00:01:02,513 --> 00:01:04,630 ♪♪ 36 00:01:07,234 --> 00:01:11,153 ♪♪ 37 00:01:11,188 --> 00:01:14,490 every single time he has talked sh-- about me, 38 00:01:14,525 --> 00:01:16,859 paulina, even that night-- 39 00:01:16,911 --> 00:01:20,512 you know what you said to me in the bathroom. 40 00:01:20,548 --> 00:01:23,198 You know damn well I have been there 41 00:01:23,250 --> 00:01:25,417 from the beginning and had your back, 42 00:01:25,453 --> 00:01:29,254 and I never went and told anybody anything. 43 00:01:29,290 --> 00:01:31,006 - I will say one thing, though. 44 00:01:31,041 --> 00:01:33,876 I was so wasted at dinner that night. 45 00:01:33,928 --> 00:01:37,162 - Okay, but what about the other nights, 46 00:01:37,198 --> 00:01:38,664 and the other texts, and the phone calls? 47 00:01:38,699 --> 00:01:39,882 - Yeah. - Paulina, don't. 48 00:01:39,934 --> 00:01:41,517 - No, no, no. I'm-- listen. 49 00:01:41,552 --> 00:01:43,168 I'm not-- I'm not-- I'm not saying anything. 50 00:01:43,187 --> 00:01:44,720 - Do you remember what you said in the bathroom? 51 00:01:44,772 --> 00:01:45,771 - Yeah. - I really don't. 52 00:01:45,806 --> 00:01:47,556 - Is it okay for her to say what you told her? 53 00:01:47,608 --> 00:01:48,874 Is she okay to say it out loud? 54 00:01:48,909 --> 00:01:50,109 - I don't know what I said. 55 00:01:50,144 --> 00:01:51,343 - But is it okay for her to say it, right now, what you-- 56 00:01:51,362 --> 00:01:54,563 - well, I don't-- I-- - no, don't say anything out loud. 57 00:01:54,615 --> 00:01:57,366 - She may not ever let you know, 58 00:01:57,401 --> 00:01:58,567 or she may, and I don't care. 59 00:01:58,619 --> 00:02:02,354 I will never say what she said, out of respect, okay? 60 00:02:02,373 --> 00:02:03,188 - Thank you. - You know, 61 00:02:03,207 --> 00:02:04,957 do you feel like she knows too much? 62 00:02:04,992 --> 00:02:10,362 - I think that I confessed too much to everybody 63 00:02:10,381 --> 00:02:12,748 by even getting everyone involved. 64 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,417 - Right. - That was my biggest mistake. 65 00:02:15,469 --> 00:02:17,603 - Okay, I think that's as far as we're gonna get 66 00:02:17,638 --> 00:02:20,205 on this one. [sighs] 67 00:02:20,241 --> 00:02:22,741 never one to shy away from over the top festivities, 68 00:02:22,776 --> 00:02:26,178 this season, destiney threw a haunted Halloween party, 69 00:02:26,213 --> 00:02:30,315 and while nema in mj drag was frightening... 70 00:02:30,351 --> 00:02:31,216 [laughing] 71 00:02:31,252 --> 00:02:32,901 the tension between mike and destiney 72 00:02:32,937 --> 00:02:35,654 was downright spine-chilling. 73 00:02:35,689 --> 00:02:38,323 Mj, how did nema do as you? 74 00:02:38,359 --> 00:02:40,559 - Two of us! - Ahh! Wow. 75 00:02:40,578 --> 00:02:42,077 - There's literally two of us. 76 00:02:42,112 --> 00:02:45,297 - You're wearing my entire outfit. 77 00:02:45,332 --> 00:02:46,615 I was super impressed. [laughing] 78 00:02:46,667 --> 00:02:49,901 I-- I was amazed how, like, I'm like this, 79 00:02:49,920 --> 00:02:52,621 and then he's like this, and it looked very similar, 80 00:02:52,673 --> 00:02:56,742 and he did that, like, overline dark lip contour. 81 00:02:56,777 --> 00:02:58,644 You know, it was beautiful. 82 00:02:58,679 --> 00:02:59,744 [laughing] - yeah. 83 00:02:59,763 --> 00:03:00,846 - Reza and mj, did you plan to both come as hippies, 84 00:03:00,881 --> 00:03:04,283 or was that a surprise? - It was just a coincidence. 85 00:03:04,318 --> 00:03:05,417 - No, that was cute. - Yeah. 86 00:03:05,452 --> 00:03:08,887 - Destiney, before your party, you had paulina over. 87 00:03:08,922 --> 00:03:12,858 She told you mike had been caught sexting ten times. 88 00:03:12,893 --> 00:03:14,810 - It's happened, like, ten times. 89 00:03:14,862 --> 00:03:16,928 - Oh, my god, paulina. 90 00:03:16,947 --> 00:03:18,947 - And that's a turn on. That's his porn for him. 91 00:03:18,983 --> 00:03:20,599 - Are you ----ing serious? 92 00:03:20,634 --> 00:03:23,869 He's a piece of sh--. 93 00:03:23,904 --> 00:03:27,623 - Those ten instances were the spoof texts instances? 94 00:03:28,993 --> 00:03:31,627 - Yeah, that I had thought were all real. 95 00:03:31,662 --> 00:03:32,544 - Bullsh--. 96 00:03:33,998 --> 00:03:35,914 - Any reaction to that? 97 00:03:38,802 --> 00:03:40,118 Okay. 98 00:03:40,137 --> 00:03:43,388 Kevin from west hollywood said, "mike, when you told destiney 99 00:03:43,424 --> 00:03:46,558 "you could buy and sell her, that was disgusting." 100 00:03:46,594 --> 00:03:47,326 - yes, it was. 101 00:03:47,361 --> 00:03:48,760 I'll buy and ----ing sell you. 102 00:03:48,795 --> 00:03:50,012 - What are you, a ----ing slaveowner? 103 00:03:50,064 --> 00:03:51,797 Buy and sell me, bitch? - Let me get him out. 104 00:03:51,832 --> 00:03:52,798 Let me get him out. 105 00:03:52,833 --> 00:03:55,500 - You ----ing buy whores in vegas! [indistinct] 106 00:03:55,536 --> 00:03:57,169 - let me-- let me get him out. Let me get him out. 107 00:03:57,204 --> 00:03:59,855 - Please explain that. - I was being triggered. 108 00:03:59,907 --> 00:04:01,807 A lot of the questions were questionable. 109 00:04:01,842 --> 00:04:03,992 I-I felt like they were trying to attack me 110 00:04:04,028 --> 00:04:07,529 and make me look even worse than I already looked. 111 00:04:07,581 --> 00:04:10,365 I didn't like it, and lost my sh--, 112 00:04:10,417 --> 00:04:11,983 and I said things that I didn't mean. 113 00:04:12,002 --> 00:04:13,685 - Do you wanna apologize to her? 114 00:04:13,721 --> 00:04:14,620 - I apologize for saying that to you. 115 00:04:14,655 --> 00:04:15,704 - But you don't mean it. This is all fake. 116 00:04:15,756 --> 00:04:18,340 - This is the-- this is the, like, double-edged sword 117 00:04:18,375 --> 00:04:20,525 of the paulina- destiney friendship, 118 00:04:20,561 --> 00:04:22,961 is that it's really great for paulina and destiney 119 00:04:22,996 --> 00:04:24,563 to feel close to each other 120 00:04:24,598 --> 00:04:27,466 because there's such a strong bond between them. 121 00:04:27,501 --> 00:04:28,800 - My penis is bigger than his, and he knows it. 122 00:04:28,835 --> 00:04:31,053 - But it ultimately undermines the destiney-mike relationship. 123 00:04:31,105 --> 00:04:32,771 - It probably is. - It is. Oh, it is. 124 00:04:32,806 --> 00:04:34,439 I will totally dick slap you. 125 00:04:34,475 --> 00:04:35,307 Watch out. - I-I'm sure-- I'm sure-- 126 00:04:35,342 --> 00:04:36,441 I'm sure paulina already told you, too. 127 00:04:36,477 --> 00:04:38,727 - Mike, did you have any idea about destiney's stalker 128 00:04:38,779 --> 00:04:40,812 before she told it to you? - No, I didn't. No. 129 00:04:40,847 --> 00:04:42,781 - How did it make you feel to hear 130 00:04:42,816 --> 00:04:44,916 that your actions triggered her? 131 00:04:44,952 --> 00:04:46,785 - Honestly, I felt-- I felt-- 132 00:04:46,820 --> 00:04:48,687 I felt horrible that she went through that. 133 00:04:48,722 --> 00:04:50,789 And whatever happened on twitter, 134 00:04:50,824 --> 00:04:51,740 whatever the (bleep) else happened, 135 00:04:51,792 --> 00:04:54,910 that was after the fact, because I was upset. 136 00:04:54,962 --> 00:04:56,995 - You're on twitter talking sh-- about me! 137 00:04:57,031 --> 00:04:59,865 You even said the situation with my stalker 138 00:04:59,900 --> 00:05:01,500 was a fake storyline. - Dude-- dude, you-- 139 00:05:01,535 --> 00:05:04,069 I didn't say that. I didn't say that. 140 00:05:04,104 --> 00:05:05,754 I was just trying to get paulina and leave. 141 00:05:05,806 --> 00:05:07,706 If that triggered you, I'm sorry. 142 00:05:07,725 --> 00:05:09,591 - If I asked a man to leave several times, 143 00:05:09,643 --> 00:05:10,759 and he chooses not to-- 144 00:05:10,811 --> 00:05:11,710 - my most prized possession was there. 145 00:05:11,729 --> 00:05:13,895 - Hold on. I don't care. - My most prized-- 146 00:05:13,931 --> 00:05:15,314 not possession. - She's not a possession. 147 00:05:15,349 --> 00:05:16,815 - Not possession, but my most prized-- - mike! Mike, that means-- 148 00:05:16,850 --> 00:05:17,983 no, no, no. - Don't say that. 149 00:05:18,018 --> 00:05:19,184 Don't say that. Don't say that. 150 00:05:19,219 --> 00:05:20,285 - If you were-- if you were-- - I-I-- I used the word 151 00:05:20,321 --> 00:05:21,720 incorrectly. I'm sorry. - Yeah. No, I'm just saying. 152 00:05:21,755 --> 00:05:24,072 - My most prized-- 153 00:05:24,108 --> 00:05:25,190 - oh, my god. - Person in your life. 154 00:05:25,225 --> 00:05:26,191 - Whatever you say, it's gonna be an issue, babe. 155 00:05:26,226 --> 00:05:27,959 - Oh, my goodness, dude, you guys are all nuts. 156 00:05:27,995 --> 00:05:28,827 I can't. - How am I nuts, 157 00:05:28,862 --> 00:05:29,695 when you're the one-- how am I nuts? 158 00:05:29,730 --> 00:05:30,579 - I say the word "possession" as a joke, 159 00:05:30,614 --> 00:05:31,446 and you're about to have an aneurism, 160 00:05:31,498 --> 00:05:33,799 and this one is-- what the (bleep)? 161 00:05:33,834 --> 00:05:34,966 - Mike, this is what-- - no one about to have an-- 162 00:05:35,002 --> 00:05:37,669 looking out for you. - Wow, man, wow. 163 00:05:37,705 --> 00:05:38,754 Come on. 164 00:05:38,789 --> 00:05:40,072 You know, I'm not that way. - Give me facts, mike. 165 00:05:40,107 --> 00:05:43,742 - Come on. No, man. Stop. 166 00:05:43,761 --> 00:05:44,960 - Okay. - Stop. 167 00:05:45,012 --> 00:05:46,044 Cut me some slack. - No problem. Go. 168 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,613 - Like, who hurt him that made him this ----ed up? 169 00:05:48,649 --> 00:05:50,599 - All right, moving on. 170 00:05:50,634 --> 00:05:53,418 Well, breaking bread is where the shahs thrive, 171 00:05:53,454 --> 00:05:56,271 but when almost every guest at friendsgiving 172 00:05:56,306 --> 00:06:00,058 had a strained relationship, the holiday was messier 173 00:06:00,094 --> 00:06:03,478 than mj's fingernails in the turkey. 174 00:06:03,530 --> 00:06:05,097 ♪♪ 175 00:06:05,132 --> 00:06:06,498 - is this for me? Okay. - Told me that story. 176 00:06:06,533 --> 00:06:06,998 - I love this. 177 00:06:07,034 --> 00:06:09,468 ♪♪ 178 00:06:09,503 --> 00:06:10,402 - I gotta ask. 179 00:06:10,437 --> 00:06:14,673 Why do you think mj's hands are unclean? 180 00:06:14,708 --> 00:06:15,490 [chuckles] - they're not unclean. 181 00:06:15,542 --> 00:06:16,792 I-- she washes her hands regularly. 182 00:06:16,827 --> 00:06:18,910 [laughing] 183 00:06:21,048 --> 00:06:22,130 - oh, my god. 184 00:06:22,166 --> 00:06:24,149 - I mean, they're very clean, but I was pretty drunk, 185 00:06:24,184 --> 00:06:26,468 and I was-- there was no-- - no, but she's a picker. 186 00:06:26,503 --> 00:06:27,586 You're a picker. - No, merc. 187 00:06:27,621 --> 00:06:29,805 - We are not letting you go the drunk one on this. 188 00:06:29,840 --> 00:06:31,139 - No, girl, no. - You will do one of these. 189 00:06:31,175 --> 00:06:34,459 [laughing] 190 00:06:34,478 --> 00:06:36,128 - you-you eat with your hands. - I 100%, like, 191 00:06:36,163 --> 00:06:37,012 eat from my hands. 192 00:06:37,064 --> 00:06:37,929 - Like, this pinky is in the ranch dip, 193 00:06:37,964 --> 00:06:39,631 while this one is holding a hot wing, 194 00:06:39,650 --> 00:06:40,766 and this one has a donut. [laughing] 195 00:06:40,801 --> 00:06:44,019 - I have to say seeing mj and reza role play as veda 196 00:06:44,071 --> 00:06:46,905 was hilarious and spot on. 197 00:06:50,494 --> 00:06:52,344 - Mom, mom. - Mercedes, no. 198 00:06:52,379 --> 00:06:53,412 No. 199 00:06:58,202 --> 00:07:00,819 - Oh! [laughing] 200 00:07:00,838 --> 00:07:03,855 - tell me what veda would say about your outfits tonight? 201 00:07:13,183 --> 00:07:13,932 - Hello. 202 00:07:21,108 --> 00:07:23,108 [laughing] 203 00:07:23,143 --> 00:07:25,477 - paulina, what's the real reason you didn't show up 204 00:07:25,512 --> 00:07:27,078 for friendsgiving? 205 00:07:27,114 --> 00:07:29,815 - I didn't wanna sit at a table 206 00:07:29,850 --> 00:07:33,952 where I didn't feel like I'm... 207 00:07:33,987 --> 00:07:36,121 Thankful for the people around me, 208 00:07:36,156 --> 00:07:37,539 to be honest with you. - Hmm. 209 00:07:37,574 --> 00:07:40,191 - I mean, I was at that table. 210 00:07:40,210 --> 00:07:41,209 You know what I'm saying? 211 00:07:41,245 --> 00:07:43,912 And on that phone, you-you gave her a shoutout. 212 00:07:43,964 --> 00:07:45,063 I was confused. I even asked your man, 213 00:07:45,098 --> 00:07:47,566 and your man straight told me that you didn't like me. 214 00:07:47,601 --> 00:07:49,201 Paulina joon, but what did I do? 215 00:07:49,236 --> 00:07:50,735 I haven't even heard from you. 216 00:07:53,807 --> 00:07:54,756 She was talking about mj. - About mj, yeah. 217 00:07:54,808 --> 00:07:56,641 You said certain things when you were mad at me. 218 00:07:56,677 --> 00:07:58,510 - What did I say? - That I control her 219 00:07:58,545 --> 00:08:00,095 and that she won't talk in front of me. 220 00:08:00,147 --> 00:08:01,646 - What your girl told you, was one thing. 221 00:08:01,682 --> 00:08:03,815 What she told me, is something completely different. 222 00:08:03,851 --> 00:08:05,684 That's what I'm saying. 223 00:08:05,719 --> 00:08:07,051 - I said I didn't like her? 224 00:08:07,070 --> 00:08:08,553 - I don't remember what I said. I was pissed. 225 00:08:08,572 --> 00:08:10,739 I don't know. - I did not say that. 226 00:08:10,774 --> 00:08:12,824 - You said on the phone that you were thankful 227 00:08:12,860 --> 00:08:15,227 for me and merc and not destiney. 228 00:08:15,262 --> 00:08:16,912 - But I specifically said, "not destiney?" 229 00:08:16,947 --> 00:08:17,863 - no, no. - No, you didn't mention destiney. 230 00:08:17,898 --> 00:08:19,114 - No, you said, "I don't trust destiney." 231 00:08:19,166 --> 00:08:20,064 - oh. 232 00:08:20,083 --> 00:08:22,617 I never said that. - Maybe you were drunk. 233 00:08:22,669 --> 00:08:25,570 - It wasn't intentional for me to not mention her. 234 00:08:25,589 --> 00:08:28,239 - But she was the closest to you. 235 00:08:28,258 --> 00:08:30,258 - Yes. 236 00:08:30,294 --> 00:08:33,011 - Kelsey from st. Louis said, "paulina, why were you 237 00:08:33,046 --> 00:08:35,013 "using mike's friends as the reason 238 00:08:35,048 --> 00:08:37,132 "you stopped coming around when you were the one 239 00:08:37,184 --> 00:08:39,017 "who involved them in the first place?" 240 00:08:39,052 --> 00:08:41,219 - that's a great question. 241 00:08:41,254 --> 00:08:44,773 I didn't feel that safe around them. 242 00:08:44,808 --> 00:08:46,691 - So, someone reacting and saying, 243 00:08:46,727 --> 00:08:48,643 "I don't want any involvement in what's going on," 244 00:08:48,695 --> 00:08:50,762 it makes you feel unsafe? 245 00:08:50,781 --> 00:08:51,947 - Who were you talking about specifically? 246 00:08:51,982 --> 00:08:53,097 - Yeah. - Well, if it's not-- 247 00:08:53,116 --> 00:08:53,949 - how did I make you feel unsafe by not getting involved? 248 00:08:53,984 --> 00:08:56,201 - It's not london. It's not destiney. 249 00:08:56,236 --> 00:08:57,319 It's not me. - How did-- I-- 250 00:08:57,371 --> 00:08:58,069 who made you unsafe? - The group, 251 00:08:58,104 --> 00:08:58,987 when it comes to together, is-- 252 00:08:59,039 --> 00:08:59,938 is very-- - it's just very-- it's very-- 253 00:08:59,957 --> 00:09:00,789 - no, I did not get involved. - I know. 254 00:09:00,824 --> 00:09:03,008 - I never spoke a word when you guys 255 00:09:03,043 --> 00:09:03,942 would have discussions about your ationship. 256 00:09:03,961 --> 00:09:05,210 - I know. I know. - No, no, no. I know, 257 00:09:05,245 --> 00:09:06,077 but it was very overwhelming. - But as a group-- as a group. 258 00:09:06,112 --> 00:09:08,163 - Who at the table made you feel unsafe? 259 00:09:08,215 --> 00:09:10,832 ♪♪ 260 00:09:10,884 --> 00:09:12,834 who was it? 261 00:09:13,854 --> 00:09:14,786 - Coming up... 262 00:09:14,805 --> 00:09:17,138 - She touched my dick in hawaii and said, 263 00:09:17,174 --> 00:09:18,974 "I'm pleasantly surprised." - I was. 264 00:09:19,009 --> 00:09:19,975 - And it was like a persian cucumber. 265 00:09:20,010 --> 00:09:21,092 - Like the one she put in her mouth earlier. 266 00:09:21,127 --> 00:09:22,961 - It was a persian cucumber, not an english cucumber. 267 00:09:22,980 --> 00:09:24,796 [laughing] 268 00:09:24,815 --> 00:09:26,831 - I'll never look at those cucumbers the same. 269 00:09:31,204 --> 00:09:33,404 ♪♪lina, 270 00:09:33,423 --> 00:09:35,907 "why were you using mike's friends as the reason 271 00:09:35,926 --> 00:09:37,876 "you stopped coming around when you were the one 272 00:09:37,911 --> 00:09:39,678 "who involved them in the first place?" 273 00:09:39,713 --> 00:09:41,880 - that's a great question. 274 00:09:41,915 --> 00:09:45,100 I didn't feel that safe around them. 275 00:09:45,135 --> 00:09:47,185 - Who at the table made you feel unsafe? 276 00:09:47,220 --> 00:09:49,938 - The group when it comes to together, is-- is very-- 277 00:09:49,973 --> 00:09:51,273 - who at the table made you feel unsafe? 278 00:09:51,308 --> 00:09:52,090 - It's just very overwhelming to be at a table with all of them. 279 00:09:52,109 --> 00:09:52,891 - As a group. - Who? It's not-- 280 00:09:52,926 --> 00:09:53,725 who was it? - Was it the group, 281 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,944 or was it the group and the cameras? 282 00:09:55,979 --> 00:09:58,063 - Honestly, a mixre of both. 283 00:09:58,098 --> 00:10:00,398 I would have to say, you know, to this day, 284 00:10:00,433 --> 00:10:03,034 it's not easy being in front of cameras. 285 00:10:03,070 --> 00:10:03,935 It's really not. 286 00:10:03,971 --> 00:10:06,871 But one thing I will say, is that I... 287 00:10:08,959 --> 00:10:11,126 I-I don't know how to put into words, but I would-- 288 00:10:11,161 --> 00:10:15,463 I would think that they would have handled it differently 289 00:10:15,499 --> 00:10:19,301 versus making him feel attacked. 290 00:10:21,838 --> 00:10:22,754 - I have to ask, paulina. 291 00:10:22,789 --> 00:10:26,224 Why did you call destiney in the redwoods? 292 00:10:26,259 --> 00:10:28,693 This was just a few weeks after you said 293 00:10:28,729 --> 00:10:30,729 you couldn't trust any of mike's friends. 294 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:47,946 You know, as I'm sure you can guess, 295 00:10:51,118 --> 00:10:53,151 I never said that-- her. 296 00:10:53,170 --> 00:10:54,786 When I say, "the friends"... 297 00:10:54,821 --> 00:10:56,788 - Yes. - I mean, the-- the-the group. 298 00:10:56,823 --> 00:10:58,006 - Okay, you weren't meaning-- right. 299 00:10:58,041 --> 00:10:59,190 - No, I didn't mean her. 300 00:10:59,226 --> 00:11:00,992 - You don't-- - I've always had that, 301 00:11:01,011 --> 00:11:04,012 you know, that trust with her and that bond with her. 302 00:11:04,047 --> 00:11:06,514 - So, you got caught, again. - No. 303 00:11:06,550 --> 00:11:11,036 - These were more spoof texts? - Yes. 304 00:11:11,071 --> 00:11:12,336 - Why does all these weird things 305 00:11:12,356 --> 00:11:14,339 always happen to you with, like, iclouds? 306 00:11:14,374 --> 00:11:15,340 - I- I don't know. 307 00:11:15,375 --> 00:11:16,174 - And people calling you and two landlines and-- 308 00:11:16,193 --> 00:11:16,975 - why don't you change your numbers? 309 00:11:17,010 --> 00:11:17,942 - Because it doesn't even matter. 310 00:11:17,978 --> 00:11:20,028 They're texting him. They're texting shervin. 311 00:11:20,063 --> 00:11:21,012 It doesn't matter about tphone number. 312 00:11:21,031 --> 00:11:21,863 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. Actually-- actually-- 313 00:11:21,898 --> 00:11:23,481 - it's-it's-- it-it doesn't matter. 314 00:11:23,516 --> 00:11:24,899 - Hold on. One of the spoof messages 315 00:11:24,951 --> 00:11:26,534 that I got really upset about with him, 316 00:11:26,570 --> 00:11:29,187 and I was like, "no, no, no, this is real," 317 00:11:29,222 --> 00:11:31,956 he goes, "really?" he shows me. 318 00:11:31,992 --> 00:11:35,243 Nema got the same exact message. 319 00:11:35,295 --> 00:11:36,828 - But isn't that, like, a setup? 320 00:11:36,863 --> 00:11:38,563 That's like-- - I'm really good. 321 00:11:38,598 --> 00:11:39,998 - I mean, if I was a guy, andy, if I was a guy, 322 00:11:40,033 --> 00:11:41,533 I'd be taking notes, dude. This guy-- 323 00:11:41,568 --> 00:11:42,550 - yes, yeah, I'm great. 324 00:11:42,586 --> 00:11:44,436 - Does everyone here believe that 325 00:11:44,471 --> 00:11:48,223 these are spoof messages that are coming in? 326 00:11:48,258 --> 00:11:49,758 - No, they think I'm doing it. 327 00:11:49,810 --> 00:11:51,176 - They think-- - they think I'm doing it. 328 00:11:51,211 --> 00:11:52,894 I'm sending it to myself. - How can you? 329 00:11:52,929 --> 00:11:53,912 - Why would you be sending it to yourself? 330 00:11:53,947 --> 00:11:54,896 - Reza thinks that. 331 00:11:54,931 --> 00:11:56,815 - I think he was doing it to, like, be, like, 332 00:11:56,850 --> 00:11:57,782 "look, do you see? 333 00:11:57,818 --> 00:11:59,567 Like, there's all this fake sh-- going on." 334 00:11:59,603 --> 00:12:01,385 - but I admitted to the sh-- that was really, really bad. 335 00:12:01,405 --> 00:12:02,887 So, I'm wondering. 336 00:12:02,906 --> 00:12:03,555 - What reza is saying, is if there were, like, 337 00:12:03,590 --> 00:12:05,190 ten other real messages, 338 00:12:05,225 --> 00:12:07,075 and you could make twenty fake ones 339 00:12:07,110 --> 00:12:08,109 and be like, "all 30 are fake." 340 00:12:08,161 --> 00:12:09,110 - oh, I'm going-- I-I-I'm-- - everything, yes. 341 00:12:09,162 --> 00:12:11,096 - Everything is fake. That's what he's saying. 342 00:12:11,131 --> 00:12:12,430 - So, I'm-I'm-- oh, oh, oh. 343 00:12:12,466 --> 00:12:13,397 - Oh. 344 00:12:13,417 --> 00:12:14,115 - Mike, you talked about having an addiction 345 00:12:14,167 --> 00:12:16,434 to getting attention. - Yes. 346 00:12:16,470 --> 00:12:18,420 - Have you seen anyone to help you with this? 347 00:12:18,455 --> 00:12:20,121 - Like I've said, and I'll say it again, I am. 348 00:12:20,173 --> 00:12:21,239 I'm getting-- - it's the healer? 349 00:12:21,258 --> 00:12:24,542 - I'm talking to a rabbi. 350 00:12:24,578 --> 00:12:26,544 - I wanna end this conversation. 351 00:12:26,579 --> 00:12:28,430 You two are in a great place. 352 00:12:28,465 --> 00:12:29,431 - We're engaged. We're in an amazing place. 353 00:12:29,466 --> 00:12:31,549 - You're engaged. When will you get married? 354 00:12:31,584 --> 00:12:33,251 - We don't know yet. Soon, hopefully. 355 00:12:33,286 --> 00:12:34,219 - All right. - Soon? 356 00:12:34,254 --> 00:12:35,270 - Sure. 357 00:12:35,305 --> 00:12:38,289 - Is there anything else, paulina, before you go, 358 00:12:38,325 --> 00:12:41,826 that you wanna clear up, or say to the group, 359 00:12:41,862 --> 00:12:43,294 or say to destiney? 360 00:12:43,330 --> 00:12:45,997 - I mean, I would love to have that relationship 361 00:12:46,032 --> 00:12:47,115 with you, again. 362 00:12:47,150 --> 00:12:50,034 I've, honestly, I've-- I've really missed you a lot, 363 00:12:50,070 --> 00:12:55,290 and I apologize for getting you involved 364 00:12:55,325 --> 00:12:58,476 and getting everyone here involved. 365 00:12:58,512 --> 00:13:01,179 That was wrong and I shouldn't have done that. 366 00:13:01,214 --> 00:13:04,349 - And also, since you're here, I have to make it very clear. 367 00:13:04,384 --> 00:13:08,419 I really hope when you looked at all the episodes, 368 00:13:08,454 --> 00:13:10,421 every time your girl spoke to me, 369 00:13:10,457 --> 00:13:12,157 I really hope you remind yourself 370 00:13:12,192 --> 00:13:14,292 every time you wanna be rude to me 371 00:13:14,311 --> 00:13:17,295 that I never once said anything, not even to you, 372 00:13:17,314 --> 00:13:20,648 not to him, not to her, not to her, nothing, 373 00:13:20,684 --> 00:13:24,152 but ya still just kept comin' for my jugular. 374 00:13:24,187 --> 00:13:25,653 - Mike and I have talked about this. 375 00:13:25,689 --> 00:13:28,156 Yes, destiney has never, like, said anything 376 00:13:28,191 --> 00:13:30,909 that paulina has confided, but when you consistently 377 00:13:30,944 --> 00:13:34,195 go to the group and allude that you know something 378 00:13:34,247 --> 00:13:36,164 but don't actually say the full thing, 379 00:13:36,199 --> 00:13:37,348 that triggers him. 380 00:13:37,384 --> 00:13:38,166 - I do know something. I-- - I know, but that trigger-- 381 00:13:38,201 --> 00:13:40,285 but you might as well just say it, 382 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:41,169 at that point. - And-and I know many things. 383 00:13:41,204 --> 00:13:42,036 I've even said 'em-- 384 00:13:42,088 --> 00:13:42,921 I even said it at the reunion last year 385 00:13:42,956 --> 00:13:44,055 when he tried to disrespect me. - No. 386 00:13:44,090 --> 00:13:45,089 - If I say-- if I say-- but that's what triggers him. 387 00:13:45,125 --> 00:13:46,925 - I said, "you don't wanna come for me, buddy. 388 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:47,892 "you don't na do it." I've already-- 389 00:13:47,928 --> 00:13:48,893 - so, I want him to be honest about that. 390 00:13:48,929 --> 00:13:49,827 It's either say it all or say nothing at all. 391 00:13:49,846 --> 00:13:52,347 - Just-just stop, bro. Stop, stop, stop. 392 00:13:52,382 --> 00:13:53,631 [sighs] 393 00:13:53,666 --> 00:13:56,885 - god, please, give it to us. 394 00:13:56,937 --> 00:13:59,604 - What? - I can't let today end 395 00:13:59,639 --> 00:14:02,173 and it be like the way it is with reza, 396 00:14:02,209 --> 00:14:04,075 and it be like with you, too. 397 00:14:04,110 --> 00:14:07,896 Like, today is such a huge, important thing. 398 00:14:07,948 --> 00:14:08,913 I keep-- 399 00:14:08,949 --> 00:14:09,864 - so, why don't we bury this ----ing bullsh-- 400 00:14:09,900 --> 00:14:11,316 and move on? - Yeah, I want us to not go home 401 00:14:11,351 --> 00:14:14,385 having all this regret. 402 00:14:14,421 --> 00:14:17,555 - Merc has spoken. 403 00:14:17,591 --> 00:14:18,690 High five. 404 00:14:18,725 --> 00:14:20,158 That was well said. - Thank you. 405 00:14:20,193 --> 00:14:21,426 - Well, paulina, before you leave, 406 00:14:21,461 --> 00:14:22,660 do you wanna hug it out with destiney? 407 00:14:22,696 --> 00:14:23,695 - Hug it out. Yes. 408 00:14:23,730 --> 00:14:25,063 - Aww, yes. - I would love to. 409 00:14:25,098 --> 00:14:25,863 - Yes, hug it out. 410 00:14:25,882 --> 00:14:29,100 - She's the only one I wanna hug. 411 00:14:32,072 --> 00:14:33,504 Bitch. 412 00:14:36,593 --> 00:14:38,076 - You know that. - I know. 413 00:14:38,111 --> 00:14:40,111 - Paulina, thanks for being here 414 00:14:40,146 --> 00:14:41,079 and dispelling the myth 415 00:14:41,114 --> 00:14:43,431 that mike won't let you speak for yourself. 416 00:14:43,483 --> 00:14:45,250 - Thank you for allowing that to-to-to-to happen. 417 00:14:45,285 --> 00:14:47,185 - Oh, no, absolutely. Absolutely. 418 00:14:47,220 --> 00:14:48,519 - Thank you and congratulations. 419 00:14:48,555 --> 00:14:49,587 - Thank you. - Thank you. 420 00:14:49,623 --> 00:14:50,605 - Hi. 421 00:14:50,657 --> 00:14:51,723 - Join this side of the crew for a little bit. 422 00:14:51,758 --> 00:14:53,725 - Well, let's chill. 423 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:55,426 I mean, I don't know what the (bleep) 424 00:14:55,462 --> 00:14:56,444 is going on today. 425 00:14:56,496 --> 00:14:58,463 - We're just ----ing bullsh--ing through this. 426 00:14:58,498 --> 00:14:59,447 - It's a lot. 427 00:14:59,499 --> 00:15:00,565 - I didn't mean to, like, salt that moment, 428 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:03,268 but I-- I couldn't not-- I couldn't not keep it real. 429 00:15:03,303 --> 00:15:05,236 - Well, it was a lot. 430 00:15:05,272 --> 00:15:07,622 It was a very heavy day for them-- 431 00:15:07,674 --> 00:15:09,290 very heavy day for them. 432 00:15:11,577 --> 00:15:12,543 - Bye, baby. 433 00:15:13,647 --> 00:15:17,715 - Thank you. 434 00:15:17,750 --> 00:15:18,916 - Coming up... 435 00:15:18,935 --> 00:15:21,085 What does the future hold in terms of a baby for you guys? 436 00:15:21,121 --> 00:15:22,020 - Never happening. 437 00:15:22,055 --> 00:15:24,455 I don't ever, ever, ever wanna have a kid. 438 00:15:24,491 --> 00:15:26,557 I don't think it's a good idea. 439 00:15:26,592 --> 00:15:28,092 - Wow. 440 00:15:28,128 --> 00:15:30,929 ♪♪ 441 00:15:31,030 --> 00:15:32,196 - all right, mj, you're good. 442 00:15:32,232 --> 00:15:33,031 Lean back whenever you want to. 443 00:15:33,066 --> 00:15:34,699 - Thank you. I really appreciate it. 444 00:15:34,734 --> 00:15:36,868 - No problem. 445 00:15:36,903 --> 00:15:39,070 - Okay, so, mike comes back in. 446 00:15:39,105 --> 00:15:39,938 - You're giving me, like, 447 00:15:39,973 --> 00:15:42,907 madonna sex kitten vibes here, golnesa. 448 00:15:42,943 --> 00:15:44,609 - I mean, I am a virgin technically. 449 00:15:44,644 --> 00:15:45,643 Three years makes you a virgin. 450 00:15:45,662 --> 00:15:46,945 - You're-you're giving me some major sex cat. 451 00:15:46,980 --> 00:15:49,414 - Hey! [laughing] 452 00:15:49,449 --> 00:15:51,082 - here we go. 453 00:15:51,117 --> 00:15:53,952 While some of our shahs are in relationships, 454 00:15:53,987 --> 00:15:56,154 the rest are still looking for their match, 455 00:15:56,189 --> 00:15:59,457 or, in some case, matches plural. 456 00:15:59,492 --> 00:16:03,661 Gg, we've seen you date, get engaged, and get married. 457 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:06,864 What changed within you that led you to polyamory? 458 00:16:06,900 --> 00:16:08,933 - Well, I haven't technically fully tried it out yet 459 00:16:08,969 --> 00:16:10,051 because of covid. 460 00:16:10,103 --> 00:16:12,070 - And polyamory means what? 461 00:16:12,105 --> 00:16:14,672 - I enjoy relationships, and I enjoy commitment. 462 00:16:14,691 --> 00:16:17,775 I just want it with more than one partner. 463 00:16:17,811 --> 00:16:19,877 - How do you know that that's what you want? 464 00:16:19,913 --> 00:16:21,746 When you've been in a relationship with someone, 465 00:16:21,781 --> 00:16:23,898 and then you've thought, "I wanna open this up?" 466 00:16:23,950 --> 00:16:24,866 - yes. 467 00:16:24,901 --> 00:16:27,018 I think when I was married, uh, to shalom-- 468 00:16:27,053 --> 00:16:28,820 - I now pronounce you husband and wife. 469 00:16:28,855 --> 00:16:30,188 Shalom, you may kiss your bride. 470 00:16:30,223 --> 00:16:33,992 - Oh, my god. [laughing] 471 00:16:34,027 --> 00:16:35,994 there was one time we woke up in the morning. 472 00:16:36,029 --> 00:16:37,228 - That was, like, four months, right? 473 00:16:37,263 --> 00:16:38,229 - We were together four months. 474 00:16:38,264 --> 00:16:40,381 We were married for, like, six, seven weeks. 475 00:16:40,417 --> 00:16:41,215 - Okay. [laughing] 476 00:16:41,251 --> 00:16:42,967 - but we-we woke up. We were-- 477 00:16:43,003 --> 00:16:44,235 - so, you felt boxed in during that time? 478 00:16:44,270 --> 00:16:45,219 [laughing] 479 00:16:45,255 --> 00:16:46,054 - it was a tough six weeks, andy. 480 00:16:46,089 --> 00:16:48,139 - She was suffocating. - I mean... 481 00:16:48,174 --> 00:16:49,707 - I said, "you know, if I'm not around 482 00:16:49,743 --> 00:16:50,975 or if I'm busy, and you're, like, 483 00:16:51,011 --> 00:16:52,844 with your boys, and there's a hot girl, 484 00:16:52,879 --> 00:16:54,095 I don't have a problem with it. 485 00:16:54,147 --> 00:16:55,913 - Oh, my god. - He threw a massive fit. 486 00:16:55,949 --> 00:16:57,048 - Right. 487 00:16:57,067 --> 00:16:58,232 - Because he assumed that meant I'm ----ing another guy. 488 00:16:58,268 --> 00:16:59,283 - Yeah. 489 00:16:59,319 --> 00:17:00,284 - So, I was like, I'm not interested in that. 490 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:03,021 I'm just interested in different stimulation. 491 00:17:03,056 --> 00:17:07,258 He was not able to give me certain stuff that I needed. 492 00:17:07,293 --> 00:17:10,394 - Do you ever hear from shalom? - No comment. 493 00:17:10,413 --> 00:17:11,946 - Is that still the shalom ring? 494 00:17:11,998 --> 00:17:13,064 - It is. - Wow. 495 00:17:13,083 --> 00:17:14,916 - Yeah, it looks really good with this outfit, too. 496 00:17:14,951 --> 00:17:16,417 - It does. - Yeah, it does. 497 00:17:16,453 --> 00:17:17,835 - It looks good. - Thanks, shalom. 498 00:17:17,871 --> 00:17:19,003 - Um, sarah from detroit said, 499 00:17:19,039 --> 00:17:20,922 "gg, since having multiple partners 500 00:17:20,957 --> 00:17:23,274 is what works best for you, would you ever consider 501 00:17:23,309 --> 00:17:27,211 "dating both shervin and nema?" I'd be here for it. 502 00:17:27,246 --> 00:17:28,846 - Nema would definitely be more my type than-- 503 00:17:28,882 --> 00:17:31,182 than shervin would be, but, um, no. 504 00:17:31,217 --> 00:17:33,418 I'm just-- I need someone who is very open to 505 00:17:33,453 --> 00:17:35,252 being in a poly relationship. 506 00:17:35,271 --> 00:17:37,772 I need a very confident and secure man to that. 507 00:17:37,807 --> 00:17:39,524 - You need to date a gay guy. [laughing] 508 00:17:39,559 --> 00:17:40,424 - I need to. - Yeah. 509 00:17:40,443 --> 00:17:42,226 - I really do. 510 00:17:42,261 --> 00:17:44,062 - Destiney, are you dating anyone these days? 511 00:17:44,097 --> 00:17:46,297 - I am not. Covid-- gross. 512 00:17:46,332 --> 00:17:48,066 Andy, honestly, I'm scared to, like, 513 00:17:48,101 --> 00:17:49,200 go certain places. 514 00:17:49,235 --> 00:17:51,119 I'm scared to go to the supermarket. 515 00:17:51,154 --> 00:17:54,288 Like, it's become a thing. - Wow. 516 00:17:54,324 --> 00:17:56,207 You know, nema, on "watch what happens live," 517 00:17:56,242 --> 00:18:00,244 you said that gg claims anyone she isn't interested in, 518 00:18:00,279 --> 00:18:02,213 is hung like a baby carrot. 519 00:18:02,248 --> 00:18:05,299 - Anyone who doesn't like gg has a small penis. 520 00:18:05,335 --> 00:18:06,784 - Oh. - Mike has a small penis. 521 00:18:06,803 --> 00:18:07,835 I have a small penis. - Oh, okay, okay. 522 00:18:07,887 --> 00:18:09,821 - Yeah, that's the thing. If you don't like her-- 523 00:18:09,856 --> 00:18:10,621 - that's her go to. Right. 524 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:11,455 - Yeah, then you're hung like this. 525 00:18:11,474 --> 00:18:12,306 So, yeah, I get it. - Right, okay. 526 00:18:12,342 --> 00:18:14,592 So, gg, where does the truth lie? 527 00:18:14,627 --> 00:18:16,861 Is that your go to? - Listen, I'm pushing 40. 528 00:18:16,896 --> 00:18:19,330 I've been there, done that, and I've had, you know, 529 00:18:19,365 --> 00:18:22,850 all types of dool. - Peni. 530 00:18:22,902 --> 00:18:26,303 - She touched my dick in hawaii and literally said to me, 531 00:18:26,322 --> 00:18:28,806 "I'm pleasantly surprised." - I was. I was surprised. 532 00:18:28,825 --> 00:18:29,974 I thought it was gonna be a carrot. 533 00:18:29,993 --> 00:18:30,975 - Those were her words. 534 00:18:30,994 --> 00:18:31,909 That was-- those-those-- that was the feedback 535 00:18:31,945 --> 00:18:32,827 I-I ever got. 536 00:18:32,862 --> 00:18:33,411 - I did think it was gonna be a carrot. 537 00:18:33,446 --> 00:18:34,362 - Pleasantly surprised. 538 00:18:34,414 --> 00:18:34,912 - And it was more like a persian cucumber. 539 00:18:34,948 --> 00:18:35,913 - It was a cucumber. 540 00:18:35,949 --> 00:18:38,032 - Like the one she put in her mouth earlier. 541 00:18:38,084 --> 00:18:38,649 - Ias a persian cucumber, not an english cucumber. 542 00:18:38,668 --> 00:18:39,667 - No way. [laughing] 543 00:18:39,702 --> 00:18:40,618 - I'll never look at those cucumbers the same. 544 00:18:40,653 --> 00:18:43,037 - Boy, boy, boy, boy. - What's up, nema? 545 00:18:45,358 --> 00:18:46,324 Give it up for me now. 546 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:48,159 - I just devoured you, right now, a second ago, 547 00:18:48,194 --> 00:18:48,960 in my mouth. 548 00:18:48,995 --> 00:18:49,961 - Nema, now that you're bicoastal, 549 00:18:49,996 --> 00:18:52,346 are you having more luck with east coast girls 550 00:18:52,382 --> 00:18:53,164 or west coast girls? 551 00:18:53,199 --> 00:18:55,166 - East coast girls is definitely 552 00:18:55,185 --> 00:18:56,333 a different dating experience. 553 00:18:56,352 --> 00:18:57,168 - And what is that? 554 00:18:57,187 --> 00:18:58,186 - They're much more to the point. 555 00:18:58,221 --> 00:18:59,270 - Okay. - It's a vibe. 556 00:18:59,305 --> 00:19:01,239 - And listen, I'm-- I'm very into being single. 557 00:19:01,274 --> 00:19:03,357 I did just meet somebody who is really intriguing to me, 558 00:19:03,393 --> 00:19:05,276 albeit very, very new. - Ooh. 559 00:19:05,311 --> 00:19:06,244 - Garcelle? [laughing] 560 00:19:06,279 --> 00:19:09,197 - does garcelle follow nema from "shahs?" 561 00:19:09,232 --> 00:19:10,531 - oh. 562 00:19:10,567 --> 00:19:11,866 - You know what? Maybe yes. 563 00:19:11,901 --> 00:19:13,284 - I'm gonna say no. - Yes. 564 00:19:13,319 --> 00:19:14,518 - Really? - He's hot. 565 00:19:14,537 --> 00:19:15,853 - Wow! All right. [bell dings] 566 00:19:15,872 --> 00:19:16,904 [cheers and applause] 567 00:19:16,956 --> 00:19:19,624 rumor has it that you are quite the ladies' man 568 00:19:19,659 --> 00:19:21,375 with the bravolebrities. 569 00:19:21,411 --> 00:19:23,527 - That is the rumor on the block, yeah. 570 00:19:23,546 --> 00:19:24,595 - So, um-- - it ain't a rumor. 571 00:19:24,631 --> 00:19:26,164 It ain't a rumor. - He's the persian james dean. 572 00:19:26,199 --> 00:19:27,381 Why not? - Scheana shay. 573 00:19:27,417 --> 00:19:28,583 - Hey, scheana-- scheana. - Scheana. 574 00:19:28,635 --> 00:19:29,867 - Yeah, and then I know you wanna say it. 575 00:19:29,886 --> 00:19:31,302 I know you-- I know you want-- - he likes them famous. 576 00:19:31,337 --> 00:19:32,170 - "summer house." - say her name. 577 00:19:32,205 --> 00:19:32,703 - No. - The one with the short hair. 578 00:19:32,722 --> 00:19:33,304 - Paige. - Lindsay? 579 00:19:33,339 --> 00:19:34,872 - Paige-- paige. - Paige. 580 00:19:34,908 --> 00:19:35,923 - Paige. 581 00:19:35,975 --> 00:19:37,141 - Like, there was a-a date maybe in new york city. 582 00:19:37,177 --> 00:19:37,942 - Really? - Yeah. 583 00:19:37,977 --> 00:19:38,809 - It was like a-- it was like a-- 584 00:19:38,845 --> 00:19:39,477 - are we gonna do this or what? Come on. 585 00:19:39,512 --> 00:19:40,261 It's happening. Let's go. 586 00:19:40,313 --> 00:19:42,396 - Excuse me, andy. - Andy, I've-- 587 00:19:42,432 --> 00:19:43,581 I've run my course with-- - and jules from "summer hoe." 588 00:19:43,616 --> 00:19:45,266 - holy sh--. - Oh, sh-- 589 00:19:45,318 --> 00:19:48,236 - yeah. - And who is the new girl? 590 00:19:48,271 --> 00:19:50,054 - She's hot. - This french girl that I met. 591 00:19:50,089 --> 00:19:51,422 I'd love to bring her around the group at some point. 592 00:19:51,457 --> 00:19:52,273 - So, you're thinking, like, relationship? 593 00:19:52,325 --> 00:19:54,025 - Is she in l.A. Or new york? - L.A. 594 00:19:54,060 --> 00:19:55,359 - Wow. All right. 595 00:19:55,394 --> 00:19:57,695 Reza, how is adam? - Adam is great. 596 00:19:57,730 --> 00:19:58,613 - Adam is great. - Adam is fantastic. 597 00:19:58,665 --> 00:19:59,563 - We didn't see much of him this season. 598 00:19:59,582 --> 00:20:02,433 - No, you didn't, and that was purposeful. 599 00:20:02,468 --> 00:20:04,235 It's a good thing I love your beer. 600 00:20:04,270 --> 00:20:05,419 [laughing] 601 00:20:05,455 --> 00:20:07,121 thank you for bringing me. 602 00:20:07,173 --> 00:20:10,424 - You're most welcome. - This thing is magic. 603 00:20:10,460 --> 00:20:11,509 - Tell me. 604 00:20:11,544 --> 00:20:13,544 - Adam is not around because he's got a new job, 605 00:20:13,579 --> 00:20:16,297 and the same way paulina feels about the group, 606 00:20:16,349 --> 00:20:18,883 adam feels the exact same way. 607 00:20:18,918 --> 00:20:21,619 - And what does the future hold in terms of a baby for you guys? 608 00:20:21,654 --> 00:20:22,553 - Never happening. 609 00:20:22,588 --> 00:20:25,389 I don't ever, ever, ever wanna have a kid. 610 00:20:25,424 --> 00:20:26,474 - Wow. 611 00:20:26,526 --> 00:20:28,926 - One hundred percent, I never wanna have a child. 612 00:20:28,945 --> 00:20:30,728 - This is a huge change of heart. 613 00:20:30,763 --> 00:20:34,282 - Totally, it is. Um... 614 00:20:34,317 --> 00:20:36,701 - No. [sighs] 615 00:20:36,736 --> 00:20:39,453 - you can... 616 00:20:43,076 --> 00:20:45,660 Feel certain things that it just-- 617 00:20:45,712 --> 00:20:47,578 I don't think it's a good idea. 618 00:20:47,613 --> 00:20:48,462 - You don't think it's a good idea. 619 00:20:48,498 --> 00:20:50,164 - No. - Wow. 620 00:20:50,216 --> 00:20:52,950 It seemed like-- we talked so much about it. 621 00:20:52,969 --> 00:20:53,801 - Yeah. 622 00:20:53,836 --> 00:20:54,468 - It seemed like something you wanted. 623 00:20:54,504 --> 00:20:55,753 - Yeah. 624 00:20:55,788 --> 00:20:58,055 - And it seemed like something as a couple that you two wanted. 625 00:20:58,091 --> 00:20:59,623 - We have decided as a couple 626 00:20:59,642 --> 00:21:02,093 that we are gonna use a surrogate, 627 00:21:02,128 --> 00:21:03,678 and we're gonna have biological children. 628 00:21:03,730 --> 00:21:04,595 - Wonderful. 629 00:21:04,631 --> 00:21:05,429 - When do you wanna start having kids? 630 00:21:05,464 --> 00:21:06,197 - Huh? 631 00:21:06,232 --> 00:21:08,266 - Like, do we have a timeframe? 632 00:21:08,301 --> 00:21:10,301 Is it, like, one year? Two years? 633 00:21:10,336 --> 00:21:13,237 - I wish I could ask you. When are we having a baby? 634 00:21:13,273 --> 00:21:14,188 - So, what made you change your mind? 635 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,490 - Sometimes you learn things about yourself. 636 00:21:16,526 --> 00:21:18,492 Like, they point out things to me, too, 637 00:21:18,528 --> 00:21:21,696 that I do things to them that they don't like, right? 638 00:21:21,748 --> 00:21:22,580 - Okay. 639 00:21:22,615 --> 00:21:28,319 - And, uh, I have two parents that-- 640 00:21:28,338 --> 00:21:29,503 I don't wanna cry. 641 00:21:29,539 --> 00:21:31,455 Can I take a little break 'cause I don't wanna be crying 642 00:21:31,491 --> 00:21:32,523 while I'm talking? 643 00:21:32,558 --> 00:21:34,525 I just wanna break for two seconds. 644 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,027 - Go. - I just wanna dab my eyes. 645 00:21:36,062 --> 00:21:38,129 I don't wanna cry. I'm sorry. 646 00:21:38,164 --> 00:21:44,518 ♪♪ 647 00:21:44,554 --> 00:21:45,536 - up next... 648 00:21:45,571 --> 00:21:47,054 Why'd you say it at the party? 649 00:21:47,106 --> 00:21:49,106 - Because the one hit wonder shows up. 650 00:21:49,142 --> 00:21:51,776 She walked in, said hi, and it was like 651 00:21:51,811 --> 00:21:53,444 pop-pop-pop-pop-pop-pop-pop. 652 00:21:53,479 --> 00:22:03,738 - Absolute bullsh--. 653 00:22:03,905 --> 00:22:04,805 - You okay, babe? 654 00:22:04,841 --> 00:22:05,740 - Yeah. Thank you. Sorry. 655 00:22:05,775 --> 00:22:06,540 - By the way, there's nothing wrong with 656 00:22:06,576 --> 00:22:07,274 getting emotional about the topic. 657 00:22:07,293 --> 00:22:08,976 It's an emotional topic. - Yeah. 658 00:22:09,012 --> 00:22:10,111 No, I just don't wanna, like-- 659 00:22:10,146 --> 00:22:11,579 it- you haven't criedic. Once today. 660 00:22:11,614 --> 00:22:12,797 We need a good reza cry. 661 00:22:12,832 --> 00:22:13,914 - No. - Yeah, I mean-- 662 00:22:13,949 --> 00:22:16,283 I mean, it wouldn't be a reunion if we didn't have 663 00:22:16,302 --> 00:22:17,718 some good tears from you. 664 00:22:17,754 --> 00:22:18,836 - Thank you. 665 00:22:18,888 --> 00:22:20,805 - Are you worried that you wouldn't be a good father? 666 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,691 You would make the same mistakes that your parents made? 667 00:22:23,726 --> 00:22:25,092 Is that what's dictating this? - You're not. 668 00:22:25,127 --> 00:22:27,762 - I don't want to participate 669 00:22:27,797 --> 00:22:31,766 'cause I think that I have the potential 670 00:22:31,801 --> 00:22:34,769 to do lots of damage. 671 00:22:34,804 --> 00:22:38,138 - Um, I'm wondering what you're thinking of this, mj. 672 00:22:38,157 --> 00:22:39,824 - I hope that he has a change of heart 673 00:22:39,859 --> 00:22:44,978 because, um, you know, life really 674 00:22:44,997 --> 00:22:46,814 takes on a new meaning 675 00:22:46,833 --> 00:22:49,050 when you bring life into the world. 676 00:22:49,085 --> 00:22:51,035 - You seem-- - reza, when I got my sh-- together, you saw. 677 00:22:51,087 --> 00:22:52,653 - I love you. - Because I want to be 678 00:22:52,672 --> 00:22:53,987 that example for my kid. 679 00:22:54,006 --> 00:22:54,955 - Totally. I love you so much. 680 00:22:54,990 --> 00:22:56,557 - And you already are. You've changed a lot 681 00:22:56,592 --> 00:22:58,125 in the last two years specifically. 682 00:22:58,160 --> 00:22:59,794 You are perfect. 683 00:22:59,829 --> 00:23:00,761 I think you're just meant for it. 684 00:23:00,797 --> 00:23:01,762 - I love you. Thank you. 685 00:23:01,798 --> 00:23:04,548 - It-it really, really reshapes who you are. 686 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:05,999 - Does adam still want kids? 687 00:23:06,018 --> 00:23:09,854 - Um, you know, we have, like, tough conversations. 688 00:23:09,889 --> 00:23:12,523 Our relationship is in a really good place, 689 00:23:12,558 --> 00:23:15,860 and I just would hate myself 690 00:23:15,895 --> 00:23:19,864 if I ended up, like, being that parent, 691 00:23:19,899 --> 00:23:22,533 whose disappointments shown through, 692 00:23:22,568 --> 00:23:26,871 and I made my kid feel sometimes 693 00:23:26,906 --> 00:23:29,857 the way I was made to feel. 694 00:23:29,876 --> 00:23:31,725 - Everyone makes mistakes as a parent. 695 00:23:31,761 --> 00:23:34,161 - We're lunatics, and we did it alone. 696 00:23:34,196 --> 00:23:37,047 You know, I-I wanna go back to the welcoming party 697 00:23:37,083 --> 00:23:39,867 because, reza, it seems like you got enjoyment 698 00:23:39,886 --> 00:23:43,237 out of telling destiney what veda said. 699 00:23:43,272 --> 00:23:45,706 - Veda joon was like, "you look snatch, 700 00:23:45,741 --> 00:23:47,708 but you need an ass, girl." 701 00:23:47,743 --> 00:23:48,509 - rude. 702 00:23:48,544 --> 00:23:49,560 - Why'd you say it at the party? 703 00:23:49,595 --> 00:23:53,848 - Because I'm sick of mj not shutting her mom down. 704 00:23:53,883 --> 00:23:55,900 - Wait, but you just said I'm sick of my mom-- 705 00:23:55,935 --> 00:23:57,718 me not shutting my mom down. 706 00:23:57,737 --> 00:23:59,069 - No, I'm sick of you-- - you just said that. 707 00:23:59,105 --> 00:24:00,321 - No, when it comes-- - you're sick of mj 708 00:24:00,356 --> 00:24:01,605 not shutting her mom down. 709 00:24:01,657 --> 00:24:03,157 - When it comes down to other people. 710 00:24:03,192 --> 00:24:05,793 You love shutting her down when she's talking to you. 711 00:24:05,828 --> 00:24:06,911 - That's not true. - You thrive 712 00:24:06,946 --> 00:24:08,579 when she's coming for other people, 713 00:24:08,614 --> 00:24:09,930 things you wish you would say. - Then why repeat it? 714 00:24:09,966 --> 00:24:10,915 - What? Thank you. - Why? 715 00:24:10,950 --> 00:24:12,733 Because I'm sick and tired 716 00:24:12,752 --> 00:24:13,534 of her mom-- - no. 717 00:24:13,569 --> 00:24:14,535 - But she did try to shut it down. 718 00:24:14,570 --> 00:24:15,169 - No, she didn't. - You guys, if he didn't-- 719 00:24:15,204 --> 00:24:16,003 - she said it wasn't nice. 720 00:24:16,038 --> 00:24:16,871 - Destiney needs an ass, she told me. 721 00:24:16,906 --> 00:24:19,073 - Oh, why did you say that, mom? 722 00:24:19,108 --> 00:24:21,942 -She said destiney needs to put an ass. 723 00:24:21,978 --> 00:24:24,245 - How about you don't tell anyone about their body? 724 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:25,245 - No, no, she did not. 725 00:24:25,264 --> 00:24:26,096 - Yes, I did. - Andy, if he did not repeat it, 726 00:24:26,132 --> 00:24:26,931 I would not have known until it aired. 727 00:24:26,966 --> 00:24:27,748 - She would have seen it later. 728 00:24:27,767 --> 00:24:29,750 - I know, but you were laughing. 729 00:24:29,785 --> 00:24:30,851 - Have you seen-- - that's what she sd. 730 00:24:30,887 --> 00:24:31,652 - God, please don't be-- - because I couldn't believe 731 00:24:31,687 --> 00:24:32,620 what was happening, like, again. 732 00:24:32,655 --> 00:24:35,923 The-the, like, the one hit wonder shows up. 733 00:24:35,958 --> 00:24:38,626 She walked in, said hi, and it was like 734 00:24:38,661 --> 00:24:40,060 pop-pop-pop-pop- pop-pop-pop. 735 00:24:40,095 --> 00:24:41,645 Like, why? - No, no, no, no, no. 736 00:24:41,697 --> 00:24:42,596 - I don't wanna hear this stuff. 737 00:24:42,615 --> 00:24:45,166 Go, like-- - absolute-absolute bullsh--. 738 00:24:45,201 --> 00:24:46,650 Just so you know... - Yeah, yeah. 739 00:24:46,702 --> 00:24:49,119 - You've destroyed my mom. You've hurt her so much. 740 00:24:49,155 --> 00:24:51,305 - You've done nothing. You're an angel. 741 00:24:51,340 --> 00:24:52,773 We've had the best friendship. 742 00:24:52,808 --> 00:24:53,807 - Destroyed your mom by doing what? 743 00:24:53,843 --> 00:24:54,742 - You've done nothing to me. - That's not fair. 744 00:24:54,777 --> 00:24:55,275 - You're the best. - He broke her heart. 745 00:24:55,294 --> 00:24:56,460 - Destroyed her why? 746 00:24:56,496 --> 00:24:58,412 - I'm compulsive, I'm elusive. - Because my mom watched. 747 00:24:58,447 --> 00:24:59,246 - He repeated. - Buse my mom-- 748 00:24:59,281 --> 00:25:01,415 - I'm this. I'm the worst person. 749 00:25:01,450 --> 00:25:03,283 - No. - Bring out a list for her. 750 00:25:03,302 --> 00:25:05,118 Does some have a scroll for merc to read? 751 00:25:05,137 --> 00:25:06,787 - You-- because you insulted her. 752 00:25:06,806 --> 00:25:08,789 - I feel like you came here with an agenda 753 00:25:08,808 --> 00:25:09,890 to make me look bad. 754 00:25:09,926 --> 00:25:10,975 I don't like it. - That's not true. 755 00:25:11,010 --> 00:25:12,125 - And then you were like, no, me. 756 00:25:12,144 --> 00:25:15,362 - Destiney, were you more bothered by what veda said 757 00:25:15,398 --> 00:25:18,098 or that reza kind of gleefully 758 00:25:18,134 --> 00:25:19,400 told you what she said? 759 00:25:19,435 --> 00:25:20,634 - Please be respectful to my mom. 760 00:25:20,653 --> 00:25:22,970 - I hated all of it, everything. 761 00:25:22,989 --> 00:25:24,738 I was so disgusted. 762 00:25:24,774 --> 00:25:26,991 And I'm also having her husband talk about my looks. 763 00:25:27,026 --> 00:25:29,810 - And destiney looks like the count from "sesame street," 764 00:25:29,829 --> 00:25:31,478 and if you wanna get the count, 765 00:25:31,514 --> 00:25:34,448 get the count to find out how many times the broad lies. 766 00:25:34,483 --> 00:25:38,168 - I told tommy I am not supportive of him 767 00:25:38,204 --> 00:25:42,006 criticizing your looks, nor of my mother. 768 00:25:42,041 --> 00:25:43,323 - Jill from montana said, 769 00:25:43,342 --> 00:25:45,292 "reza, it was so fun to see your mom. 770 00:25:45,327 --> 00:25:47,261 She revealed a lot about her difficult marriage 771 00:25:47,296 --> 00:25:48,963 and divorce." - yeah. 772 00:25:48,998 --> 00:25:51,131 - How did all of that affect how you are today? 773 00:25:51,167 --> 00:25:53,667 - I wrote a lot about my mom's tumultuous marriage 774 00:25:53,686 --> 00:25:55,002 to my dad, 775 00:25:55,021 --> 00:25:58,505 and my dad is not-- um, yeah. 776 00:25:58,541 --> 00:26:00,040 - Your dad is what? 777 00:26:00,076 --> 00:26:02,026 - Say it. 778 00:26:03,362 --> 00:26:06,513 - He's, like, nonverbal now, kind of, 779 00:26:06,532 --> 00:26:10,034 and, uh, it's so difficult. 780 00:26:10,069 --> 00:26:11,285 Thank you. 781 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,787 Um, yeah, it's-- 782 00:26:18,744 --> 00:26:20,327 nema posted a picture with his dad 783 00:26:20,362 --> 00:26:21,829 in new york, 784 00:26:21,864 --> 00:26:24,965 and he and I previously had conversations, 785 00:26:25,001 --> 00:26:27,501 and it's so nice to see them 786 00:26:27,536 --> 00:26:30,004 getting to a better place before it's too late. 787 00:26:30,039 --> 00:26:31,505 - Mmm. Mike and reza, 788 00:26:31,540 --> 00:26:33,874 you have always been ride or die brothers, 789 00:26:33,909 --> 00:26:35,943 but, you know, mike, last season, 790 00:26:35,978 --> 00:26:38,846 you were something of a voice of reason. 791 00:26:38,881 --> 00:26:39,880 - You also said things and did things 792 00:26:39,899 --> 00:26:41,882 that were very ----ed up. - I know, terrible. 793 00:26:41,901 --> 00:26:44,551 - Okay, but you have to continue to apologize 794 00:26:44,570 --> 00:26:46,053 because it's not gonna be one apology. 795 00:26:46,072 --> 00:26:47,154 - I will, forever. 796 00:26:47,189 --> 00:26:49,073 - Both of you need to be okay, meet in the middle, 797 00:26:49,108 --> 00:26:50,157 and let's fix this. 798 00:26:50,192 --> 00:26:53,427 - If you had to pinpoint your issues now with reza, 799 00:26:53,462 --> 00:26:55,245 what was at the crux? 800 00:26:55,281 --> 00:26:57,331 - I just wanted him to reciprocate 801 00:26:57,366 --> 00:26:59,500 what I gave him last year. 802 00:26:59,535 --> 00:27:01,251 Honestly, why I wanted to sit down, 803 00:27:01,287 --> 00:27:04,038 is to figure out what-what the (bleep) is going on 804 00:27:04,073 --> 00:27:06,540 between two people who say they're brothers 805 00:27:06,575 --> 00:27:08,959 but take low blows at each other. 806 00:27:09,011 --> 00:27:10,277 I'm also to blame. 807 00:27:10,313 --> 00:27:13,080 - I get resentful of people whose stuff 808 00:27:13,099 --> 00:27:15,382 bleeds over into my world. 809 00:27:15,417 --> 00:27:19,103 - Today, now, here, I look at him, 810 00:27:19,138 --> 00:27:20,437 and I go, (bleep), I miss this guy. 811 00:27:20,473 --> 00:27:21,388 - Okay. 812 00:27:21,424 --> 00:27:22,489 - Who else would wear shorts and a suit 813 00:27:22,525 --> 00:27:23,273 and ----in' pull it off? 814 00:27:23,309 --> 00:27:24,458 And this is the things he does. 815 00:27:24,493 --> 00:27:26,560 Like, I-- he-he amuses me. 816 00:27:26,595 --> 00:27:28,812 He enlightens me. 817 00:27:28,864 --> 00:27:30,564 He makes me feel fulfilled. 818 00:27:30,599 --> 00:27:33,567 He is the older brother that I always wanted. 819 00:27:33,602 --> 00:27:36,070 But, unfortunately, we don't handle it 820 00:27:36,105 --> 00:27:38,138 the way we should. 821 00:27:38,174 --> 00:27:39,540 - Okay. - Instead, we go to social media 822 00:27:39,575 --> 00:27:41,575 and the press, and we do all these nonsense. 823 00:27:41,610 --> 00:27:43,310 - Right. - And get people involved. 824 00:27:43,346 --> 00:27:45,112 And then I feel like, you know what? 825 00:27:45,147 --> 00:27:47,281 (bleep) this guy. Like, he's betraying my trust, 826 00:27:47,316 --> 00:27:48,449 and then it becomes hard. 827 00:27:48,484 --> 00:27:51,335 But, right now, standing before you, 828 00:27:51,387 --> 00:27:52,619 I love you. - I love you. 829 00:27:52,638 --> 00:27:54,471 - I will always love you. I will always be there for you. 830 00:27:54,507 --> 00:27:55,305 I will always protect you. - I love you. 831 00:27:55,341 --> 00:27:57,391 I know you will. - I will-- there's-- 832 00:27:57,426 --> 00:27:59,426 we're gonna work on our friendship. 833 00:27:59,461 --> 00:28:01,345 - And so, same question to you. 834 00:28:01,397 --> 00:28:04,014 - One thing I know about mike, 835 00:28:04,066 --> 00:28:06,100 when he and I make mistakes, 836 00:28:06,135 --> 00:28:08,502 the two of us do not like 837 00:28:08,537 --> 00:28:11,638 when the other one points out mistakes. 838 00:28:11,674 --> 00:28:14,158 I would like to make this one resolution. 839 00:28:14,193 --> 00:28:16,977 I will not ever mention mike's penis. 840 00:28:16,996 --> 00:28:19,146 [laughing] 841 00:28:19,165 --> 00:28:21,448 - mike looks so unhappy, right now. 842 00:28:21,483 --> 00:28:23,834 - I'm so tired of this sh--, dude, yeesh. 843 00:28:23,869 --> 00:28:24,952 - I have to tell you. 844 00:28:24,987 --> 00:28:27,838 One of the most beautiful parts of today's reunion, 845 00:28:27,873 --> 00:28:30,157 is seeing the ring on paulina's finger. 846 00:28:30,192 --> 00:28:32,593 So, for being able to turn that around, 847 00:28:32,628 --> 00:28:34,294 I have mad respect for you, 848 00:28:34,329 --> 00:28:38,966 for being able to come back to the table and admit. 849 00:28:39,001 --> 00:28:41,468 Took you a minute, but I love you and thank you 850 00:28:41,503 --> 00:28:45,172 for being honest and not trying to push the lie. 851 00:28:45,207 --> 00:28:47,357 I love you. - I love you, too. 852 00:28:47,393 --> 00:28:49,343 - You're right, you didn't do it on my timeframe, 853 00:28:49,378 --> 00:28:50,878 and I was mad at you. 854 00:28:50,913 --> 00:28:52,479 I apologize to you. 855 00:28:52,515 --> 00:28:54,982 I'm really sorry. I'm really sorry. 856 00:28:57,036 --> 00:28:58,085 - Love you. 857 00:28:58,120 --> 00:28:59,253 - Coming up... 858 00:28:59,288 --> 00:29:01,021 - We're gonna have to have some difficult conversations 859 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,123 in order to get to a better place. 860 00:29:03,159 --> 00:29:04,658 - I've been punished so much. 861 00:29:04,693 --> 00:29:06,577 - Wow. 862 00:29:10,565 --> 00:29:11,732 - So, you and I go way, way too far back. 863 00:29:11,767 --> 00:29:12,732 - We go way back. 864 00:29:12,752 --> 00:29:15,369 - You don't even feel like you even need to 865 00:29:15,404 --> 00:29:17,204 validate my feelings. - I feel like-- 866 00:29:17,239 --> 00:29:18,905 no, I-- - I'm gonna say my feelings. 867 00:29:18,924 --> 00:29:20,240 - You always say your feelings. 868 00:29:20,276 --> 00:29:21,375 I never say anything about it. 869 00:29:21,410 --> 00:29:22,943 - You just don't-- I just don't wanna talk about it 870 00:29:22,978 --> 00:29:24,261 until we're going. 871 00:29:24,296 --> 00:29:27,214 - Four, three, two. 872 00:29:27,249 --> 00:29:30,150 - Welcome back to the "shahs of sunset" reunion. 873 00:29:30,186 --> 00:29:32,586 Well, after and rough previous season, 874 00:29:32,621 --> 00:29:34,938 this year, mj was back 875 00:29:34,974 --> 00:29:37,958 and ready to fight for all her friendships. 876 00:29:37,993 --> 00:29:40,394 And while those relationships were thriving, 877 00:29:40,429 --> 00:29:42,830 nude texts and all, 878 00:29:42,865 --> 00:29:44,364 her marriage, on the other hand, 879 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,868 had become significantly less spicy. 880 00:29:47,903 --> 00:29:49,453 - Well, when's the last time you had sex? 881 00:29:49,488 --> 00:29:51,205 - It was, like, two weeks ago. 882 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:52,439 - That long ago? - When was that? 883 00:29:52,458 --> 00:29:54,441 - That's a sore subject for me. 884 00:29:54,460 --> 00:29:56,410 It's not what I like to think about. 885 00:29:56,445 --> 00:29:58,445 - What's happening with your spark with tommy? 886 00:29:58,464 --> 00:30:00,113 - Um, we're very close. 887 00:30:00,149 --> 00:30:02,115 We're-we're very in love. 888 00:30:02,151 --> 00:30:05,452 I just don't think I've really prioritized 889 00:30:05,488 --> 00:30:07,287 the romance, right now. [chuckles] 890 00:30:07,323 --> 00:30:09,156 - what does an average day look like for you? 891 00:30:09,191 --> 00:30:11,091 I mean, are you full mom duty? 892 00:30:11,126 --> 00:30:12,259 - Yes. - Yes. 893 00:30:12,294 --> 00:30:14,428 - Um, so, I wake up when he wakes up 894 00:30:14,463 --> 00:30:15,863 around 6 or 7. 895 00:30:15,898 --> 00:30:18,098 [squealing] tommy! 896 00:30:18,133 --> 00:30:20,567 I'm, like, tracking raspberries. 897 00:30:20,603 --> 00:30:23,136 I'm worried something is gonna fall down. 898 00:30:23,155 --> 00:30:25,239 I'm worried he's gonna hurt himself. 899 00:30:25,274 --> 00:30:26,640 - Come here, I got him. 900 00:30:26,659 --> 00:30:28,942 - We do our regular routine, 901 00:30:28,977 --> 00:30:32,546 breakfast, reading books, exercise, 902 00:30:32,581 --> 00:30:33,580 and the witching hour, 903 00:30:33,616 --> 00:30:36,983 which is the hardest part of every single day, 904 00:30:37,002 --> 00:30:38,418 which is, just, like, five hours. 905 00:30:38,454 --> 00:30:39,653 It's impossible to kill. 906 00:30:39,672 --> 00:30:41,488 - Right. - Yeah, it's hell. 907 00:30:41,507 --> 00:30:44,842 - Are there qualities of baby shams that 908 00:30:44,877 --> 00:30:46,960 you see your dad in? 909 00:30:46,995 --> 00:30:50,130 - Yes, his demeanor, his facial expressions, 910 00:30:50,165 --> 00:30:53,567 just physically, like, his part of his hair, 911 00:30:53,602 --> 00:30:57,187 so, um, just a lot of things. 912 00:30:57,223 --> 00:31:00,340 - Reza, shams senior always had your back, 913 00:31:00,376 --> 00:31:02,976 and you haven't met his namesake. 914 00:31:03,011 --> 00:31:05,028 What-what would you tell baby shams 915 00:31:05,064 --> 00:31:07,047 about his grandfather, if you could? 916 00:31:07,082 --> 00:31:09,416 - Oh, he was such a great guy. 917 00:31:09,451 --> 00:31:12,886 He took such great care of his daughter. 918 00:31:12,922 --> 00:31:15,038 Um... 919 00:31:17,993 --> 00:31:21,495 Sad that he wasn't here to, uh, 920 00:31:21,530 --> 00:31:23,964 get to experience him. 921 00:31:29,221 --> 00:31:31,371 - What's one thing you miss about reza 922 00:31:31,390 --> 00:31:33,056 that you haven't gotten back yet? 923 00:31:33,092 --> 00:31:36,560 - So, it's, like, the day to day thing. 924 00:31:36,595 --> 00:31:39,897 I mean, being able to wake up, call him, 925 00:31:39,932 --> 00:31:41,081 anything important, 926 00:31:41,116 --> 00:31:44,067 and I feel like what's holding me back, 927 00:31:44,103 --> 00:31:45,385 is that I wanna make sure 928 00:31:45,421 --> 00:31:47,321 that we're earning it authentically, 929 00:31:47,356 --> 00:31:49,489 and the problem is, you know, 930 00:31:49,525 --> 00:31:52,059 the stuff between my husband and him. 931 00:31:54,663 --> 00:31:57,030 You know, the jail time that my husband did 932 00:31:57,065 --> 00:32:00,200 is very hard for him to walk back from. 933 00:32:00,235 --> 00:32:02,102 - Well, what is the status of the restraining order, 934 00:32:02,137 --> 00:32:03,070 right now? 935 00:32:03,105 --> 00:32:05,572 - She told me tommy doesn't give a (bleep). 936 00:32:05,591 --> 00:32:07,074 He doesn't give sh--. 937 00:32:07,109 --> 00:32:08,742 I had paid my attorney to drop it. 938 00:32:08,761 --> 00:32:10,410 - Okay. - I wrote the card. 939 00:32:10,446 --> 00:32:12,112 He tore it up. I didn't know. 940 00:32:12,147 --> 00:32:16,099 - In this book, there is a letter for you. 941 00:32:16,135 --> 00:32:18,101 - I don't-I don't care, babe. 942 00:32:18,137 --> 00:32:19,419 - Just read it. - I'm not. 943 00:32:19,455 --> 00:32:22,255 I'm good, bro. I'm good. 944 00:32:22,274 --> 00:32:24,224 I don't need this. 945 00:32:24,259 --> 00:32:26,026 - She never reached out to say thanks. 946 00:32:26,061 --> 00:32:26,860 I gave him the card. - What was your reaction 947 00:32:26,895 --> 00:32:28,278 when you saw him tearing up the card? 948 00:32:28,314 --> 00:32:29,429 - So disappointed. 949 00:32:29,465 --> 00:32:32,032 I just thought that we would be in a different place, 950 00:32:32,067 --> 00:32:34,401 and if I was trying 951 00:32:34,436 --> 00:32:36,119 and dropped the restraining order, 952 00:32:36,155 --> 00:32:38,138 that maybe some good would come out of it, 953 00:32:38,173 --> 00:32:40,607 but there was no good, 954 00:32:40,643 --> 00:32:42,309 and that's the way it went. 955 00:32:42,344 --> 00:32:44,611 And can I say something that's very honest? 956 00:32:44,630 --> 00:32:46,112 - Yeah. - I do not want 957 00:32:46,131 --> 00:32:47,447 a relationship with tommy. - Right. 958 00:32:47,466 --> 00:32:48,515 - I'm doing the restraining order 959 00:32:48,550 --> 00:32:51,652 as a favor to mj 'cause she made it crystal clear 960 00:32:51,687 --> 00:32:54,638 that she feels isolated and alienated 961 00:32:54,673 --> 00:32:56,556 as a result of it. 962 00:32:56,592 --> 00:33:00,010 - How are things with you and tommy? 963 00:33:00,062 --> 00:33:03,263 - Okay, so, it's a little complicated because I feel 964 00:33:03,298 --> 00:33:05,965 like we have good moments and bad moments. 965 00:33:05,985 --> 00:33:07,985 Compared to last year, there's a lot of progress, 966 00:33:08,020 --> 00:33:10,137 for sure. He's not as angry. 967 00:33:10,172 --> 00:33:12,305 He doesn't feel that intensity. 968 00:33:12,324 --> 00:33:14,141 - Good. - But the boo-boo 969 00:33:14,176 --> 00:33:16,143 is not healed. - Okay. 970 00:33:16,178 --> 00:33:19,162 Reza, have you given up on trying to repair 971 00:33:19,198 --> 00:33:21,314 the tommy relationship, and why do you think 972 00:33:21,350 --> 00:33:22,516 he should forgive you? 973 00:33:22,551 --> 00:33:24,484 - I don't think he should forgive me. 974 00:33:24,503 --> 00:33:27,004 I'm not looking to do anything with tommy. 975 00:33:27,039 --> 00:33:28,372 I watched the show. 976 00:33:28,424 --> 00:33:31,625 I've spoken to my former best friend of 30 years. 977 00:33:31,660 --> 00:33:33,760 It's crystal clear. 978 00:33:33,796 --> 00:33:36,013 He's not looking to have relationships 979 00:33:36,048 --> 00:33:38,548 with destiney, golnesa, or myself. 980 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,301 I'm just doing this as a good gesture-- 981 00:33:41,336 --> 00:33:44,438 - yeah, yeah, yeah. - To show her that 982 00:33:44,473 --> 00:33:46,440 I wanna do it for her. - Okay. 983 00:33:46,475 --> 00:33:48,809 - I, too, watched the season, and tommy also 984 00:33:48,844 --> 00:33:51,511 reads the paper and sees things are said 985 00:33:51,530 --> 00:33:54,514 that sets him off, again. - Like what? 986 00:33:54,533 --> 00:33:56,733 - He sees you liking the making fun of me 987 00:33:56,785 --> 00:33:58,184 dying and all of those things. 988 00:33:58,203 --> 00:33:58,985 - What? - He sees it. 989 00:33:59,021 --> 00:34:00,120 - From years ago? - This season. 990 00:34:00,155 --> 00:34:00,921 You said just this season. He's watching this season. 991 00:34:00,956 --> 00:34:01,855 - From years ago? - It wasn't-- 992 00:34:01,890 --> 00:34:04,324 it wasn't years ago. - Yeah, I swear it. 993 00:34:04,359 --> 00:34:05,792 Okay, no problem. -At-what-- 994 00:34:05,828 --> 00:34:07,160 - all I'm saying is, this is for us. 995 00:34:07,195 --> 00:34:07,994 - Okay. 996 00:34:08,029 --> 00:34:08,862 - Nothing has happened this year. 997 00:34:08,881 --> 00:34:09,796 - Poor tommy. - What do you think-- 998 00:34:09,832 --> 00:34:11,832 what do you think it would take for tommy 999 00:34:11,867 --> 00:34:15,635 to say that reza can meet shams? 1000 00:34:18,390 --> 00:34:20,057 - I think that tommy wants to see reza 1001 00:34:20,092 --> 00:34:21,608 in anger management. - Oh. 1002 00:34:21,643 --> 00:34:23,376 - And he thinks that-- - tommy wants to see 1003 00:34:23,395 --> 00:34:25,211 reza in anger management? - Absolutely. 1004 00:34:25,230 --> 00:34:26,146 You've seen the way that he is. 1005 00:34:26,181 --> 00:34:27,064 - And is tommy going to anger management? 1006 00:34:27,099 --> 00:34:28,215 - He completed many hours. - He completed. 1007 00:34:28,250 --> 00:34:30,450 - 'cause it was court ordered and then that was it? 1008 00:34:30,486 --> 00:34:31,601 - And-- - when the court order 1009 00:34:31,653 --> 00:34:32,486 hours were done, he finished? 1010 00:34:32,521 --> 00:34:33,286 - No, he-- - or was the healing done, 1011 00:34:33,322 --> 00:34:35,489 and then he finished? - No, no. 1012 00:34:35,524 --> 00:34:37,858 Tommy has really been working on himself. 1013 00:34:37,893 --> 00:34:40,093 - He's doing his gratitude alarms. 1014 00:34:40,129 --> 00:34:43,080 - Yes. [alarm sounding] 1015 00:34:43,115 --> 00:34:44,531 - I'm grateful for my wife. 1016 00:34:44,566 --> 00:34:46,666 I'm grateful for my son. 1017 00:34:46,702 --> 00:34:48,585 I'm grateful that everybody is healthy. 1018 00:34:48,620 --> 00:34:50,904 - Reza and golnesa, do you notice 1019 00:34:50,923 --> 00:34:54,624 that mj has grown? - I haven't, unfortunately, 1020 00:34:54,676 --> 00:34:58,762 spent very much time with merc. 1021 00:34:58,797 --> 00:35:02,415 I would love to be able to tell you 1022 00:35:02,434 --> 00:35:04,584 that I can share lots of stuff with you, 1023 00:35:04,603 --> 00:35:05,685 but, unfortunately, I can't. 1024 00:35:05,721 --> 00:35:07,420 - Right. And you? 1025 00:35:07,439 --> 00:35:10,140 - I-I would have to say the same. 1026 00:35:10,192 --> 00:35:12,726 - I-I definitely deserve m-more than that 1027 00:35:12,761 --> 00:35:14,694 from you, golnesa, but that's okay. 1028 00:35:14,730 --> 00:35:17,230 - It's hard to-to wanna, uh, co-sign on anything 1029 00:35:17,265 --> 00:35:20,267 more than that when, you know, it's interesting to me 1030 00:35:20,302 --> 00:35:22,269 that you're kinda saying funny stuff 1031 00:35:22,304 --> 00:35:24,437 behind my back to reza. 1032 00:35:24,473 --> 00:35:26,206 Like, you're-you're waiting around 1033 00:35:26,241 --> 00:35:29,292 to see this changed person in me. 1034 00:35:29,328 --> 00:35:31,294 You know, and then when I ran into you recently 1035 00:35:31,330 --> 00:35:32,779 at a birthday party, and you were like, 1036 00:35:32,798 --> 00:35:34,297 "oh, yeah, you had your ringleader there." 1037 00:35:34,333 --> 00:35:36,149 I'm like, "my who?" "you had reza." 1038 00:35:36,185 --> 00:35:37,801 I'm like, what-- so, it's, like, it's random that-- 1039 00:35:37,836 --> 00:35:39,302 'cause this was just a week or two ago. 1040 00:35:39,338 --> 00:35:40,787 So, I don't know. 1041 00:35:40,806 --> 00:35:42,956 Every time I do feel like we're taking a step 1042 00:35:42,991 --> 00:35:44,691 forward, you say these random things. 1043 00:35:44,726 --> 00:35:47,227 I'm like, did you want me to be like, "ha-ha-ha, 1044 00:35:47,262 --> 00:35:49,813 "yeah, my ----ing ring leader, I had him there?" 1045 00:35:49,848 --> 00:35:51,848 - I harbor resentment. - Oh, boy, okay. 1046 00:35:51,900 --> 00:35:53,767 - Merc, the reason you are not my friend 1047 00:35:53,802 --> 00:35:56,336 and will not be my friend, is because you lie. 1048 00:35:56,371 --> 00:35:58,471 You have never been there for me. 1049 00:35:58,507 --> 00:36:00,640 - I don't think that you mean to say to me 1050 00:36:00,659 --> 00:36:02,642 that we'll never be friends. 1051 00:36:02,661 --> 00:36:04,811 - Merc, every time I try to have that conversation 1052 00:36:04,847 --> 00:36:06,696 with you, you don't wanna have it. 1053 00:36:06,748 --> 00:36:08,348 You sort of, when I bring up things that you don't 1054 00:36:08,383 --> 00:36:10,834 wanna discuss, maybe you're either in the wrong, 1055 00:36:10,869 --> 00:36:12,819 or it hurts you, you brush it under. 1056 00:36:12,838 --> 00:36:14,321 You're like, "okay, that's-- that was in the past. 1057 00:36:14,356 --> 00:36:16,339 "we don't need to go there." 1058 00:36:16,375 --> 00:36:18,558 it's hard to get a conversation with you 1059 00:36:18,594 --> 00:36:19,676 to get to that place where I'm like, 1060 00:36:19,711 --> 00:36:20,760 "good, we had a breakthrough. 1061 00:36:20,796 --> 00:36:24,464 "let's try to grow from here." 1062 00:36:24,499 --> 00:36:27,133 - okay, well, let's try. - Let's try, I'm down. 1063 00:36:28,871 --> 00:36:32,272 - Coming up... - When reza and I are close, 1064 00:36:32,307 --> 00:36:34,507 there would be meaning to having him 1065 00:36:34,526 --> 00:36:37,344 meet and play a role in my son's life. 1066 00:36:37,379 --> 00:36:38,862 - What do you say that? 1067 00:36:38,897 --> 00:36:42,916 - Internally, we have taken 1,000 steps back. 1068 00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:49,022 ♪♪ 1069 00:36:49,057 --> 00:36:52,042 - welcome back to "shahs of sunset" reunion. 1070 00:36:52,094 --> 00:36:53,376 Who here thinks reza should be allowed 1071 00:36:53,428 --> 00:36:54,828 to meet shams? 1072 00:36:56,882 --> 00:36:58,798 Where does your voice come in, 1073 00:36:58,834 --> 00:37:03,186 in the idea of your son meeting reza? 1074 00:37:03,222 --> 00:37:05,872 - When reza and I are close, 1075 00:37:05,908 --> 00:37:08,141 there would be meaning to having him 1076 00:37:08,176 --> 00:37:11,361 meet and play a role in my son's life. 1077 00:37:11,396 --> 00:37:13,530 - How has reza not being able to see the baby caused 1078 00:37:13,565 --> 00:37:18,184 a strain in your own marriage-- has it? 1079 00:37:18,203 --> 00:37:20,954 - A strain in my heart. - Strain in your heart. 1080 00:37:20,989 --> 00:37:24,124 - A strain on my heart. I just don't know why 1081 00:37:24,159 --> 00:37:26,710 it's been so long that we're still in this 1082 00:37:26,745 --> 00:37:29,462 same place where I'm proving myself to be, 1083 00:37:29,498 --> 00:37:32,465 you know, worthy of being included. 1084 00:37:32,501 --> 00:37:35,218 - But it's-- she's-she's saying something that is 1085 00:37:35,254 --> 00:37:38,338 so innocuous that I'm doing, uh, it makes me 1086 00:37:38,373 --> 00:37:41,541 want to do nothing 'cause nothing is very safe. 1087 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:42,542 - Right. 1088 00:37:42,577 --> 00:37:47,080 - Internally, we have taken 1,000 steps back. 1089 00:37:47,115 --> 00:37:50,233 I can't hang out with her when, in my brain 1090 00:37:50,269 --> 00:37:55,405 and in my heart, I feel like she's having conversations 1091 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:59,442 that are driving me to be the bad person. 1092 00:37:59,494 --> 00:38:00,994 - That part. - I wanna avoid her 1093 00:38:01,029 --> 00:38:03,863 like the plague, and I have, and it's been 1094 00:38:03,898 --> 00:38:06,232 the happiest time of my life, and I'm so sorry. 1095 00:38:06,268 --> 00:38:08,034 - The happiest time of your life? 1096 00:38:08,070 --> 00:38:10,537 - The two years that I haven't had to deal 1097 00:38:10,572 --> 00:38:13,256 with, like, the emotional burden, things that 1098 00:38:13,292 --> 00:38:16,426 she makes me feel obligated that I have to do, 1099 00:38:16,461 --> 00:38:18,428 that put me in positions that I don't wanna be in. 1100 00:38:18,463 --> 00:38:20,213 - Oh, my god. - Wow. 1101 00:38:20,248 --> 00:38:22,098 - You guys feel like I need to go to 1102 00:38:22,134 --> 00:38:23,350 anger management. - Why not? 1103 00:38:23,385 --> 00:38:24,267 - I love you. I'm gonna drop 1104 00:38:24,303 --> 00:38:25,918 the restraining order for your husband. 1105 00:38:25,937 --> 00:38:27,253 I'm not going to anger management. 1106 00:38:27,289 --> 00:38:28,355 I'm not hanging out with you. 1107 00:38:28,390 --> 00:38:29,939 I'm not gonna see your kid. 1108 00:38:29,975 --> 00:38:30,824 I love you. 1109 00:38:30,859 --> 00:38:33,560 I'm gonna do it, so we can have peace. 1110 00:38:33,595 --> 00:38:36,896 - Please just acknowledge it's difficult for me 1111 00:38:36,932 --> 00:38:40,233 to see you form friendships with other people 1112 00:38:40,268 --> 00:38:43,269 and not make room for me. That's a really deep cut. 1113 00:38:43,305 --> 00:38:45,104 We're gonna have to have some difficult 1114 00:38:45,123 --> 00:38:47,791 conversations in order to get to a better place. 1115 00:38:47,826 --> 00:38:48,875 That's what resonated. 1116 00:38:48,910 --> 00:38:52,412 - Difficult conversations, yes, but why do you feel 1117 00:38:52,447 --> 00:38:55,548 like I have to do everything for you? 1118 00:38:55,584 --> 00:38:57,817 Stop punishing me if we're trying 1119 00:38:57,853 --> 00:38:59,118 to go somewhere good. 1120 00:38:59,137 --> 00:39:01,137 I've been punished so much. 1121 00:39:01,173 --> 00:39:02,806 Now, I'm finding out I need to go to 1122 00:39:02,841 --> 00:39:05,342 anger management, too. - I'm curious, mike. 1123 00:39:05,394 --> 00:39:07,477 How do you think they should figure it out? 1124 00:39:07,512 --> 00:39:09,162 - Leave significant others out of it 1125 00:39:09,197 --> 00:39:10,663 and just work on your guys' friendships. 1126 00:39:10,699 --> 00:39:13,016 She cannot control what tommy says or does 1127 00:39:13,068 --> 00:39:15,402 or what veda says and does, and you can't control 1128 00:39:15,437 --> 00:39:18,238 how adam feels about you. 1129 00:39:18,273 --> 00:39:22,492 And forget what he's got going on here with them. 1130 00:39:22,527 --> 00:39:23,526 - That's good advice. - Yeah. 1131 00:39:23,578 --> 00:39:24,544 - I agree. - Yeah. 1132 00:39:24,579 --> 00:39:25,328 - You know, just work on your guys' friendships 1133 00:39:25,364 --> 00:39:26,413 between you. - I think they were 1134 00:39:26,448 --> 00:39:30,250 trying to, and the factor was weighing that down 1135 00:39:30,285 --> 00:39:32,502 was the spouses, was the baby. 1136 00:39:32,537 --> 00:39:33,486 - Yeah, that's why I'm saying forget them. 1137 00:39:33,505 --> 00:39:34,287 - Well, the other-- - they were trying to, 1138 00:39:34,322 --> 00:39:35,255 but then they got stuck, again. 1139 00:39:35,290 --> 00:39:37,841 - The other thing that's going to be crucial, 1140 00:39:37,876 --> 00:39:41,211 right now, is we're shooting this tonight. 1141 00:39:41,263 --> 00:39:43,012 We're walking outta here. - Mm-hmm. 1142 00:39:43,048 --> 00:39:44,848 - The cameras are gonna be down for a while, 1143 00:39:44,883 --> 00:39:47,217 and then it's the true test of what's gonna happen 1144 00:39:47,269 --> 00:39:49,536 between the two of you because it's either 1145 00:39:49,571 --> 00:39:52,021 gonna sink or swim. - Yeah. 1146 00:39:52,057 --> 00:39:54,974 - It's gonna swim. - For sure. 1147 00:39:59,347 --> 00:40:02,182 - Okay, well, I think we're gonna leave it there, 1148 00:40:02,217 --> 00:40:03,616 and we're gonna focus on the present 1149 00:40:03,652 --> 00:40:06,185 and see where this goes. 1150 00:40:06,204 --> 00:40:07,537 - I'm with that. - Yeah. 1151 00:40:07,572 --> 00:40:10,423 - Well, this is a great way to end it. 1152 00:40:10,459 --> 00:40:12,325 Well, since this year, we enjoyed... 1153 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:13,710 [speaking farsi] 1154 00:40:13,745 --> 00:40:15,628 - yes, perfect. - Oh, yeah, good job. 1155 00:40:15,664 --> 00:40:17,580 - And at times, humble pie. 1156 00:40:17,632 --> 00:40:19,499 - Yes. - I wanna raise our glass 1157 00:40:19,534 --> 00:40:22,502 to a crew that served up another great season. 1158 00:40:22,537 --> 00:40:26,372 And alas, gg, just for you, we got actual pie. 1159 00:40:26,408 --> 00:40:27,907 Let's bring the pie in. - Yes! 1160 00:40:27,943 --> 00:40:30,243 - Did you, really? - I'm so excited! 1161 00:40:30,278 --> 00:40:31,911 - Look at this. - [speaking farsi] 1162 00:40:31,947 --> 00:40:34,747 - oh, wow, individual little pies. 1163 00:40:34,783 --> 00:40:36,916 Just take the individual pie. 1164 00:40:36,952 --> 00:40:39,586 - Hold it underneath it. - Cheers! 1165 00:40:39,621 --> 00:40:41,621 - Guys, is there a persian toast? 1166 00:40:41,656 --> 00:40:42,922 - [speaking farsi]. 1167 00:40:42,958 --> 00:40:47,127 [all speaking farsi] 1168 00:40:47,162 --> 00:40:49,129 - a little sugar never hurt nobody. 1169 00:40:49,164 --> 00:40:51,114 - Nobody. 1170 00:40:51,166 --> 00:40:54,067 - Oh, this is a good pie. - Yeah, it is. 1171 00:40:54,102 --> 00:40:55,668 - Look at her devouring the pie. 1172 00:40:55,704 --> 00:40:59,072 - Thank you, andy joon. - Thanks, guys. 1173 00:40:59,107 --> 00:41:01,274 - That's so great. - Can you get up here? 1174 00:41:01,309 --> 00:41:05,462 - This is nice-- wow. - Stay well, baby. 1175 00:41:05,514 --> 00:41:06,596 - Are you gonna be nice to me, though? 1176 00:41:06,631 --> 00:41:07,380 - I promise I will be. 1177 00:41:07,415 --> 00:41:08,715 - But you said that last time. 1178 00:41:08,750 --> 00:41:10,300 - Honestly, I have a lot of love for you. 1179 00:41:10,352 --> 00:41:12,435 I just want you to be on my side sometimes, too. 1180 00:41:12,471 --> 00:41:13,269 - Wow. 1181 00:41:13,305 --> 00:41:14,687 - Wish I coulda gotten a hug today. 1182 00:41:14,723 --> 00:41:16,356 - I'm sorry. - That was great, guys. 1183 00:41:16,391 --> 00:41:17,891 Thank you very much. 1184 00:41:18,058 --> 00:41:30,603 .............. 1185 00:41:33,141 --> 00:41:36,342 Was for it to go a different direction. 1186 00:41:36,378 --> 00:41:37,644 And then this year, I'm thinking, like, 1187 00:41:37,679 --> 00:41:39,579 of course, it's gonna go in a good direction 1188 00:41:39,614 --> 00:41:41,648 because we made so much progress. 1189 00:41:41,683 --> 00:41:46,319 It doesn't make me feel okay with myself to say 1190 00:41:46,354 --> 00:41:49,639 that I am not effectively mmunicating with people 1191 00:41:49,674 --> 00:41:52,308 that matter to me in my life. 1192 00:41:52,344 --> 00:41:53,292 I don't know how to approach you. 1193 00:41:53,311 --> 00:41:57,197 I don't know how to approach tommy, okay? 1194 00:41:57,232 --> 00:42:01,201 I just miss you. 1195 00:42:01,236 --> 00:42:05,605 - I missed you, too. - And it's hard. 1196 00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:10,693 The 1,000 steps back is not how I want today to end. 1197 00:42:10,745 --> 00:42:12,512 - Nor do I. 1198 00:42:12,547 --> 00:42:15,481 I was so focused on trying to heal the group 1199 00:42:15,517 --> 00:42:19,318 that I lost sight of trying to heal me and you, 1200 00:42:19,337 --> 00:42:21,254 and then we come here, and I realize that 1201 00:42:21,289 --> 00:42:23,223 all the progress we made-- - yeah. 1202 00:42:23,258 --> 00:42:26,459 - It so easily can be lost. - Well-- 1203 00:42:26,494 --> 00:42:28,494 - and we have to work on it. - Yeah. 1204 00:42:32,067 --> 00:42:33,600 Thank you. - Absolutely. 1205 00:42:33,635 --> 00:42:36,035 Can I give you a kiss? - Yeah, let's go home. 1206 00:42:38,673 --> 00:42:39,839 - I'm really sorry for upsetting you. 1207 00:42:39,874 --> 00:42:41,674 It's not what I wanted to do. 1208 00:42:41,710 --> 00:42:45,378 - We, um, we deserved the night to end like this. 1209 00:42:45,413 --> 00:42:46,879 - Yeah, absolutely. 1210 00:42:46,915 --> 00:42:48,848 I don't wanna take any more steps back. 1211 00:42:48,883 --> 00:42:50,750 - Likewise, thank you. - Love you. 1212 00:42:52,921 --> 00:42:55,388 Thank you for this way better ending.