1 00:00:04,874 --> 00:00:08,050 Previously, on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. 2 00:00:08,051 --> 00:00:10,010 Hi, how are you? 3 00:00:10,227 --> 00:00:11,228 That is so funny. 4 00:00:11,446 --> 00:00:12,533 That's really good. 5 00:00:12,534 --> 00:00:13,317 Well, you guys have that, yeah. 6 00:00:13,535 --> 00:00:14,796 We all got the memo. 7 00:00:14,797 --> 00:00:16,625 I'm best known for my best-selling book, 8 00:00:16,842 --> 00:00:18,540 "Rich as [bleep]" which has given me the nickname, 9 00:00:18,757 --> 00:00:20,281 "The Money Queen". 10 00:00:20,498 --> 00:00:22,935 My marriage has been eradicated from the Catholic Church. 11 00:00:23,110 --> 00:00:24,066 [imitates sword slicing] 12 00:00:24,067 --> 00:00:25,721 The letter came to Sutton Brown. 13 00:00:25,938 --> 00:00:26,808 Oh! 14 00:00:26,809 --> 00:00:27,940 Have you gone on any dates? 15 00:00:28,115 --> 00:00:29,203 Oh. 16 00:00:29,420 --> 00:00:30,855 Are you dating now? 17 00:00:30,856 --> 00:00:33,250 I am not. I just haven't been leaving my house. 18 00:00:33,468 --> 00:00:34,772 Girl, what? 19 00:00:34,773 --> 00:00:37,472 The truth about if Kyle is seeing somebody, 20 00:00:37,689 --> 00:00:39,604 it's like, I'm sorry, are we friends or not? 21 00:00:39,822 --> 00:00:42,042 I don't feel like being asked all the time 22 00:00:42,259 --> 00:00:43,781 about my private life. 23 00:00:43,782 --> 00:00:45,828 I was seeing someone. Unfortunately, I'm single now. 24 00:00:46,046 --> 00:00:47,569 Since separating from Mau, 25 00:00:47,786 --> 00:00:51,267 I was at a very vulnerable place in my life, 26 00:00:51,268 --> 00:00:54,923 and I fell hard for this person. 27 00:00:54,924 --> 00:00:57,927 If it was only me I would give all the answers they want but-- 28 00:00:58,101 --> 00:00:59,581 Yeah, it's not just about you. 29 00:01:02,410 --> 00:01:05,195 In this town, stars come and go 30 00:01:05,413 --> 00:01:07,719 but diamonds last forever. 31 00:01:07,937 --> 00:01:09,982 I'd die for fashion 32 00:01:10,157 --> 00:01:12,594 but now I'm living for me. 33 00:01:12,811 --> 00:01:15,814 I turn ambition into an art form 34 00:01:16,032 --> 00:01:17,729 and I am the masterpiece. 35 00:01:17,947 --> 00:01:19,949 I might live on a main road 36 00:01:20,123 --> 00:01:22,516 but I definitely bring main character and energy. 37 00:01:22,517 --> 00:01:24,562 I didn't marry into money 38 00:01:24,780 --> 00:01:27,304 I manifested it. 39 00:01:28,218 --> 00:01:29,872 Survival isn't my story 40 00:01:30,090 --> 00:01:32,353 it's my superpower. 41 00:01:32,570 --> 00:01:37,445 I'm unfiltered, unbothered and finally unburdened. 42 00:01:42,276 --> 00:01:44,495 [upbeat music] 43 00:01:49,109 --> 00:01:50,588 Nico. 44 00:01:50,806 --> 00:01:51,676 You look so pretty. 45 00:01:51,894 --> 00:01:52,676 Thank you. 46 00:01:52,677 --> 00:01:53,764 You look so pretty. Yes. 47 00:01:53,765 --> 00:01:55,115 I'm ready. I'm in my matchmaking bag. 48 00:01:55,332 --> 00:01:56,854 I know, you've got the roses. 49 00:01:56,855 --> 00:01:59,554 I feel like I'm like, the hostess of The Bachelorette. 50 00:01:59,771 --> 00:02:02,644 And what are the men called, the bachelors? 51 00:02:02,861 --> 00:02:04,689 Yes, that's what single men are called. 52 00:02:04,907 --> 00:02:05,603 I've never seen The Bachelorette. 53 00:02:05,821 --> 00:02:06,951 [laughs] 54 00:02:06,952 --> 00:02:08,649 I've come to a striking realization: 55 00:02:08,650 --> 00:02:12,001 almost everybody is single in this friend group. 56 00:02:12,175 --> 00:02:14,045 These girls are going through it. 57 00:02:14,046 --> 00:02:15,439 We've got our questions. 58 00:02:15,657 --> 00:02:17,311 I think Dorit is going to be the most enthusiastic. 59 00:02:17,528 --> 00:02:18,442 Erika too. 60 00:02:18,660 --> 00:02:20,226 No, Erika might scare them. 61 00:02:20,227 --> 00:02:21,924 And secretly, I think Kyle is going to be very nervous. 62 00:02:22,142 --> 00:02:25,145 I want all the girls to come out and enjoy themselves, 63 00:02:25,362 --> 00:02:27,277 but I think this might be an opportunity for Kyle 64 00:02:27,495 --> 00:02:28,930 to really let her hair down. 65 00:02:28,931 --> 00:02:31,107 Flirt a little. I want to see that side of her. 66 00:02:31,281 --> 00:02:33,936 I think the guys are already, like, comparing their resumes. 67 00:02:34,154 --> 00:02:35,110 Look at them. 68 00:02:35,111 --> 00:02:36,156 - Good to see you. - Cheers. 69 00:02:36,330 --> 00:02:37,547 Cheers, fellas. 70 00:02:37,548 --> 00:02:39,027 - Cheers. - Great to be here with ya. 71 00:02:39,028 --> 00:02:41,900 Do you not have your cocktails yet? Sorry, bad timing. 72 00:02:42,118 --> 00:02:44,294 I went through my contact list and found 73 00:02:44,512 --> 00:02:47,602 eligible bachelors that match the interests of my friends. 74 00:02:47,819 --> 00:02:51,736 We are going to describe like, keywords, okay? 75 00:02:51,954 --> 00:02:53,260 - Protector. - Chivalrous. 76 00:02:53,477 --> 00:02:54,608 Safe. 77 00:02:54,609 --> 00:02:56,654 - Sexy. - Sexy! What does that mean? 78 00:02:56,872 --> 00:02:59,179 Someone who likes sex, and you can tell by looking at them. 79 00:02:59,353 --> 00:03:00,180 Oh, wow! 80 00:03:00,397 --> 00:03:02,007 I have done my research. 81 00:03:02,182 --> 00:03:03,618 I mean, this is a pretty good group. 82 00:03:03,835 --> 00:03:05,097 They look good too. 83 00:03:05,272 --> 00:03:07,230 Oh, I'm so glad everybody's here. 84 00:03:07,448 --> 00:03:08,188 Thanks for having us. 85 00:03:08,405 --> 00:03:09,580 Hi, so nice to see you. 86 00:03:09,798 --> 00:03:10,972 Good to see you too. 87 00:03:10,973 --> 00:03:12,147 Thank you for coming. Hi, how are you? 88 00:03:12,148 --> 00:03:13,367 Hi, Boz, how ya doing? 89 00:03:13,584 --> 00:03:15,586 Hello. Oh, so good. Good to see you. 90 00:03:15,804 --> 00:03:17,588 Now, I have to tell you a secret. 91 00:03:17,806 --> 00:03:19,155 These ladies are very nervous. 92 00:03:19,329 --> 00:03:21,288 I can tell you, the group chat with the like, 93 00:03:21,505 --> 00:03:23,464 "What should I wear?" "What should I say?" 94 00:03:23,681 --> 00:03:24,987 "What am I gonna do?" 95 00:03:27,424 --> 00:03:29,905 It would be really great if one or all of them 96 00:03:30,122 --> 00:03:31,035 found true love tonight. 97 00:03:31,036 --> 00:03:32,472 And even if it doesn't happen, 98 00:03:32,473 --> 00:03:35,389 I'm still excited for them to flirt a little bit. 99 00:03:35,606 --> 00:03:38,566 Because maybe it'll loosen up the old wires 100 00:03:38,783 --> 00:03:40,829 that aren't necessarily clicking all the way. 101 00:03:41,046 --> 00:03:42,004 They should be nervous. We are intense. 102 00:03:42,222 --> 00:03:43,309 Yeah. 103 00:03:43,310 --> 00:03:45,094 Look, you better cut it out, okay? 104 00:03:45,268 --> 00:03:46,617 [laughing] Give 'em a break! 105 00:03:51,361 --> 00:03:53,407 I wanna look like a normal human being. 106 00:03:53,624 --> 00:03:54,885 Mm-hmm. 107 00:03:54,886 --> 00:03:56,323 Right? Because, you know, men get scared. 108 00:03:56,540 --> 00:03:57,454 - Yeah. - See? 109 00:03:57,672 --> 00:03:59,020 I agree. 110 00:03:59,021 --> 00:04:01,153 For the face, I think that we keep it young. 111 00:04:01,328 --> 00:04:02,198 Baby doll. 112 00:04:02,372 --> 00:04:03,546 Approachable, but not. 113 00:04:03,547 --> 00:04:05,419 Could give you a blowjob in the alley. 114 00:04:05,636 --> 00:04:06,376 [laughs] 115 00:04:06,594 --> 00:04:08,900 But probably won't. 116 00:04:09,118 --> 00:04:11,425 [upbeat music] 117 00:04:14,515 --> 00:04:16,952 Okay, we have to make me look very pretty. 118 00:04:17,169 --> 00:04:20,042 We're gonna make you look extra snatched. 119 00:04:20,260 --> 00:04:22,218 [laughter] 120 00:04:35,187 --> 00:04:36,580 [music winds down] 121 00:04:39,453 --> 00:04:41,193 [upbeat music resumes] 122 00:04:45,502 --> 00:04:48,505 I need a beverage now. Where are these ladies? 123 00:04:54,250 --> 00:04:55,207 Hi! 124 00:04:55,382 --> 00:04:56,730 [Erika giggles] 125 00:04:56,731 --> 00:04:58,341 You look good! Why are you giggling already? 126 00:04:58,559 --> 00:04:59,995 I know, I feel really weird. 127 00:05:00,212 --> 00:05:01,039 Now I feel weird. 128 00:05:01,257 --> 00:05:02,475 I feel weird. Hello. 129 00:05:02,476 --> 00:05:04,260 How about have a seat right there, 130 00:05:04,434 --> 00:05:05,305 cause they are over there. 131 00:05:05,479 --> 00:05:07,307 - Oh no! - I know. 132 00:05:10,353 --> 00:05:11,484 Oh, my God! 133 00:05:11,485 --> 00:05:12,789 If you make me take my shoes off... 134 00:05:12,790 --> 00:05:14,662 - No, no, no, you don't have to. - I will not. 135 00:05:14,879 --> 00:05:15,966 This is the first time. 136 00:05:15,967 --> 00:05:17,359 I was gonna bring some sanitizer. 137 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:18,839 I don't know what to make of Kyle's single state. 138 00:05:18,840 --> 00:05:20,885 Is she single because she has accepted 139 00:05:21,103 --> 00:05:22,712 her separation from Mau? 140 00:05:22,713 --> 00:05:25,455 For somebody who's nervous, you certainly don't look it. 141 00:05:25,673 --> 00:05:28,415 Is she single because she isn't dating anyone at all? 142 00:05:28,632 --> 00:05:30,808 Why did you bring the most expensive bag? 143 00:05:31,026 --> 00:05:32,984 See, this is clearly signaling you're high maintenance. 144 00:05:33,202 --> 00:05:34,334 Oh, my God. 145 00:05:34,551 --> 00:05:35,683 That means, don't mess with me. 146 00:05:35,900 --> 00:05:36,727 Don't. 147 00:05:41,123 --> 00:05:42,080 Hi! 148 00:05:42,298 --> 00:05:44,473 Wow, you are a goddess! 149 00:05:44,474 --> 00:05:45,954 Come on in. 150 00:05:46,171 --> 00:05:48,522 We all look like we're going to a funeral, you guys. 151 00:05:51,655 --> 00:05:53,178 Rachel's wearing black! 152 00:05:53,353 --> 00:05:55,833 No, she is not. Oh, my God. 153 00:05:56,051 --> 00:05:56,921 Everybody's wearing black? 154 00:05:57,139 --> 00:05:58,445 Everybody's wearing black. 155 00:05:58,662 --> 00:06:00,359 Hello, beautiful! 156 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:01,404 Oh, my God. 157 00:06:01,622 --> 00:06:03,231 You look gorgeous. 158 00:06:03,232 --> 00:06:04,886 Everybody's wearing black. Let's see what Sutton has on. 159 00:06:05,103 --> 00:06:05,842 Hey. 160 00:06:05,843 --> 00:06:07,062 I love this on you. 161 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:08,716 My God! 162 00:06:08,933 --> 00:06:10,718 The key is you can't look like you tried too hard, 163 00:06:10,935 --> 00:06:12,458 cause that reads desperate and thirsty. 164 00:06:12,459 --> 00:06:14,374 Don't look like you spent three hours getting dressed. 165 00:06:14,591 --> 00:06:15,810 Like, oh, I just threw this on. 166 00:06:16,027 --> 00:06:17,812 I look like the---ing maid 167 00:06:18,029 --> 00:06:20,118 that's gonna bend over and get it. 168 00:06:20,336 --> 00:06:21,903 I do think if you wear a little black dress 169 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:25,123 on a first date, you're saying I want to have sex with you. 170 00:06:25,341 --> 00:06:26,995 Oh, my God. She's wearing black. 171 00:06:27,212 --> 00:06:28,692 Oh, my God. 172 00:06:28,910 --> 00:06:30,390 Everybody's in black. I cannot even believe you. 173 00:06:30,564 --> 00:06:31,956 Do we look like we're going to a funeral? 174 00:06:32,174 --> 00:06:33,349 - Yes. - That's what I just said. 175 00:06:33,523 --> 00:06:34,697 Sh--. 176 00:06:34,698 --> 00:06:36,308 Our subconscious is talking right now. 177 00:06:36,483 --> 00:06:37,613 Sh--. 178 00:06:37,614 --> 00:06:39,181 We do not look like a group of women 179 00:06:39,399 --> 00:06:40,790 that are looking to find a date. 180 00:06:40,791 --> 00:06:43,011 We're all dressed in black like we just came from 181 00:06:43,228 --> 00:06:44,926 some sort of witch convention. 182 00:06:45,143 --> 00:06:47,407 I think it just says where we all are in our lives, is black. 183 00:06:47,624 --> 00:06:51,193 It's a black cloud... over all of us. 184 00:06:51,411 --> 00:06:53,413 We have to get out of our heads. 185 00:06:53,587 --> 00:06:54,935 Mm-hmm. Yes. 186 00:06:54,936 --> 00:06:56,111 She happens to know that they're all good guys. 187 00:06:56,328 --> 00:06:57,459 - Yes. - They're all successful. 188 00:06:57,460 --> 00:06:58,505 - That's right. - They're all very nice. 189 00:06:58,722 --> 00:07:00,332 Don't ask for any dick pics. 190 00:07:00,507 --> 00:07:01,333 What?! 191 00:07:01,508 --> 00:07:02,596 Boz! 192 00:07:02,813 --> 00:07:04,075 That is horrible. How dare you. 193 00:07:04,293 --> 00:07:05,598 We would never. 194 00:07:05,599 --> 00:07:07,730 I've gotten enough of those dick pics in my DMs. 195 00:07:07,731 --> 00:07:09,385 I mean, do they really think you're gonna be like, 196 00:07:09,559 --> 00:07:12,997 oh, my God, that's so great. Hi! 197 00:07:13,215 --> 00:07:14,345 Can we go say hi to them? 198 00:07:14,346 --> 00:07:15,478 Group: Aw. 199 00:07:15,696 --> 00:07:20,178 Let's go. Let's go, girls. Let's go! 200 00:07:20,396 --> 00:07:21,441 I'm rallying the troops. 201 00:07:21,615 --> 00:07:22,832 Are you taking your bags in? 202 00:07:22,833 --> 00:07:24,444 - I'm wearing my sunglasses. - Rachel. 203 00:07:24,618 --> 00:07:25,793 Is that rude? 204 00:07:26,010 --> 00:07:27,272 No. Yes. It's rude. 205 00:07:27,447 --> 00:07:28,839 But they're Rachel Zoe glasses. 206 00:07:29,057 --> 00:07:31,799 Hello, everyone! Hi! 207 00:07:32,016 --> 00:07:34,454 Okay. Good, good job, Dorit. Oh, I'm so proud of her. 208 00:07:34,671 --> 00:07:35,542 - Hi, guys. I'm Dorit. 209 00:07:35,759 --> 00:07:37,064 - Hi. Ben. - Pleasure. 210 00:07:37,065 --> 00:07:39,023 - Hey Dorit. I'm Chase. - Nice to meet you. 211 00:07:39,241 --> 00:07:40,546 - What happened? - Go! 212 00:07:40,547 --> 00:07:42,417 Let's go to Jack in the Box and get a taco. 213 00:07:42,418 --> 00:07:45,334 I didn't realize how many of these women 214 00:07:45,508 --> 00:07:47,597 are so socially awkward. 215 00:07:47,815 --> 00:07:48,729 Come on! 216 00:07:48,946 --> 00:07:50,033 Oh, I hate this. 217 00:07:50,034 --> 00:07:51,079 - Oh, just, just kidding. - Yes. 218 00:07:51,296 --> 00:07:52,906 Kyle, Erika. 219 00:07:52,907 --> 00:07:55,431 Cheers. Weird Tuesday. 220 00:07:55,605 --> 00:07:57,301 Sutton. Okay, well I knew Sutton was. 221 00:07:57,302 --> 00:07:59,435 Just itching because I have neuropathy. 222 00:07:59,609 --> 00:08:01,655 - It's gonna bother me. - Yeah. 223 00:08:01,872 --> 00:08:03,831 - I'm Rick. - Greg, nice to meet you. 224 00:08:04,048 --> 00:08:05,180 - Rick. - Rick? 225 00:08:05,397 --> 00:08:08,400 - Guys... Hi, Rachel. - I'm Jeff. 226 00:08:08,575 --> 00:08:09,880 - Hi. - Nice to meet you. 227 00:08:10,098 --> 00:08:11,360 How are you? Nice to meet you. 228 00:08:11,534 --> 00:08:13,362 - How are you doing? I'm Seb. - Hi. 229 00:08:13,536 --> 00:08:15,190 - What was your name? - Rachel. Nice to meet you. 230 00:08:15,407 --> 00:08:16,407 Hey, Rachel. Nice to meet you too. 231 00:08:16,408 --> 00:08:17,409 - Rachel. - Rachel. Pleasure. 232 00:08:17,584 --> 00:08:19,149 Nice to meet you. 233 00:08:19,150 --> 00:08:20,456 Wait, does this feel like a receiving line, you guys? 234 00:08:20,630 --> 00:08:22,980 Fun fact: I actually won the biggest flirt award 235 00:08:23,198 --> 00:08:26,636 when I was six years old in day camp. A ribbon and everything. 236 00:08:26,854 --> 00:08:27,941 Where is your accent? 237 00:08:27,942 --> 00:08:29,246 - It's Australian. - Australian. 238 00:08:29,247 --> 00:08:30,814 Yeah, accent has two girls already. I get it. 239 00:08:31,032 --> 00:08:32,816 Always, always works, doesn't it? 240 00:08:33,034 --> 00:08:36,559 They asked us to choose a husband to marry 241 00:08:36,777 --> 00:08:38,299 on our camp bus. 242 00:08:38,300 --> 00:08:40,694 And you know who I picked? My 18-year-old counselor. 243 00:08:40,911 --> 00:08:41,869 Do you have a drink? 244 00:08:42,086 --> 00:08:43,565 No, I but I think I need one. 245 00:08:43,566 --> 00:08:45,437 Oh, my God, I feel so awkward. Hold on one second. 246 00:08:45,612 --> 00:08:47,047 - Okay. - I gotta go to the bar. 247 00:08:47,048 --> 00:08:48,963 What? I've never seen this side of Erika before. 248 00:08:49,180 --> 00:08:51,705 Where's the woman who's twirling around on stage? 249 00:08:51,922 --> 00:08:54,534 Making people nervous when she walks in the room? 250 00:08:54,708 --> 00:08:56,404 Probably got whips and chains somewhere. 251 00:08:56,405 --> 00:08:57,667 Where is she? 252 00:08:57,885 --> 00:08:59,364 - Can I have a cocktail? - Yes. 253 00:08:59,539 --> 00:09:01,453 I'm nervous. I feel stupid. 254 00:09:01,628 --> 00:09:02,497 You want to take a shot? 255 00:09:02,498 --> 00:09:03,499 No, I don't need a shot. 256 00:09:03,673 --> 00:09:05,327 Erika Jayne can do anything. 257 00:09:05,545 --> 00:09:06,806 She can talk to anybody. 258 00:09:06,807 --> 00:09:08,678 Splits on stage, run around in a costume. 259 00:09:08,896 --> 00:09:12,073 But Erika is very awkward. 260 00:09:12,290 --> 00:09:13,988 I thought you had, like, some icebreaker activity? 261 00:09:14,205 --> 00:09:15,075 I do, but we lost one. 262 00:09:15,076 --> 00:09:16,730 I think, I know, we lost-- 263 00:09:16,947 --> 00:09:18,470 Or we could just do it the old-fashioned way and just-- 264 00:09:18,645 --> 00:09:20,255 - We lost somebody? - Yes. 265 00:09:20,472 --> 00:09:21,560 How long have you been single? 266 00:09:21,561 --> 00:09:23,214 Like a week. No, I'm kidding, a year. 267 00:09:23,432 --> 00:09:24,607 - Uh, about four hours. - Yeah. 268 00:09:24,825 --> 00:09:26,043 Okay, that's long enough for me. 269 00:09:26,261 --> 00:09:27,654 No, well, I guess... 270 00:09:27,871 --> 00:09:29,176 - A year. - A year. 271 00:09:29,177 --> 00:09:32,441 I'm not going to suggest that I'm emotionally 272 00:09:32,615 --> 00:09:35,226 in the best place to date right now. 273 00:09:35,444 --> 00:09:38,578 I've never heard a lemon referred to as the carcass 274 00:09:38,752 --> 00:09:40,448 when it's done. 275 00:09:40,449 --> 00:09:43,931 Listen, it's just a drink that I like. It's clean, it's easy. 276 00:09:44,148 --> 00:09:46,716 Is that how you would describe yourself? 277 00:09:46,934 --> 00:09:48,718 Not easy. I'm definitely not easy. 278 00:09:48,936 --> 00:09:49,806 [laughs] 279 00:09:50,024 --> 00:09:51,329 I mean... but she is. 280 00:09:51,547 --> 00:09:52,940 Make sure you tell her I told you that. 281 00:09:53,157 --> 00:09:54,854 I will. 282 00:09:54,855 --> 00:09:56,639 I am a little out of practice, but that doesn't mean it's gone. 283 00:09:56,857 --> 00:09:58,989 I know I'm a good flirt. 284 00:09:59,207 --> 00:10:00,860 [glass clinks] 285 00:10:00,861 --> 00:10:03,472 It's working, right? Oh, good. I got everybody's attention? 286 00:10:03,646 --> 00:10:07,171 Well, welcome. I'm so glad everybody was able to come over. 287 00:10:07,389 --> 00:10:08,608 So, welcome. Cheers to you. 288 00:10:08,782 --> 00:10:10,391 [Group]: Cheers. 289 00:10:10,392 --> 00:10:14,091 Yes. So, we have some stations where the ladies will sit. 290 00:10:14,309 --> 00:10:16,050 Some questions that I've written, 291 00:10:16,267 --> 00:10:17,921 but you are free to ask your own questions. 292 00:10:18,139 --> 00:10:19,401 And then we'll keep going around and around 293 00:10:19,619 --> 00:10:20,620 until everybody's met everybody. 294 00:10:20,837 --> 00:10:22,098 I'm game. 295 00:10:22,099 --> 00:10:24,580 Okay, very good. Kyle, you can sit here. 296 00:10:24,754 --> 00:10:25,711 Okay. 297 00:10:25,712 --> 00:10:26,755 Erika, you're gonna go inside. 298 00:10:26,756 --> 00:10:29,410 Sutton, you're going inside, too. 299 00:10:29,411 --> 00:10:31,021 I've never done anything like this. 300 00:10:31,239 --> 00:10:33,067 I'd be more comfortable, like, standing on stage 301 00:10:33,284 --> 00:10:34,545 with no clothes. 302 00:10:34,546 --> 00:10:36,636 I would like to gouge out my own eyeballs, 303 00:10:36,810 --> 00:10:39,421 but I'm going to go with a smile on my face. 304 00:10:41,553 --> 00:10:45,819 Let me start my clock. Okay, here we go. 305 00:10:46,036 --> 00:10:47,647 Um... okay. 306 00:10:47,821 --> 00:10:49,170 Oh [bleep]. 307 00:10:55,219 --> 00:10:59,006 Let me start my clock. Okay, here we go. 308 00:10:59,223 --> 00:11:01,443 No. Uh, well... at... well, yes. 309 00:11:01,661 --> 00:11:03,488 That was a little a-, wh-, ah. 310 00:11:03,663 --> 00:11:05,141 So, you were a lawyer, too? 311 00:11:05,142 --> 00:11:07,188 I was, but I'm not- I'm still active with the bar, 312 00:11:07,405 --> 00:11:08,406 but I'm not practicing. - Thank God. 313 00:11:08,624 --> 00:11:10,016 What do you do for fun? 314 00:11:10,017 --> 00:11:11,540 I don't think I've had that in a very long time, 315 00:11:11,714 --> 00:11:13,323 so I've almost forgot. 316 00:11:13,324 --> 00:11:15,065 You have such a sexy dress. How could you not have fun? 317 00:11:15,283 --> 00:11:16,631 Well, thank you. 318 00:11:16,632 --> 00:11:17,981 Are you more of a dominant or a submissive? 319 00:11:18,199 --> 00:11:21,463 I've learned to be a bit more dominant in life. 320 00:11:21,681 --> 00:11:22,943 I think the question means sexually. 321 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:25,206 Oh. [laughs] 322 00:11:25,423 --> 00:11:26,772 I've been on a lot of bad dates. 323 00:11:26,773 --> 00:11:28,775 And you know, I did go on that one date with... 324 00:11:28,992 --> 00:11:30,472 it was all just about the mother. 325 00:11:30,690 --> 00:11:32,212 Uh, mom still lives in the house. 326 00:11:32,213 --> 00:11:35,477 But I've been working from home so I can still see Mom. 327 00:11:35,695 --> 00:11:38,480 I'm the only guy whose mother tried to pull 328 00:11:38,698 --> 00:11:40,917 the what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas rule. 329 00:11:41,135 --> 00:11:42,788 Oh. 330 00:11:42,789 --> 00:11:45,400 I kind of have this fearless factor when it comes to dating. 331 00:11:45,617 --> 00:11:47,924 So, show me what you got. Let's do this. 332 00:11:48,142 --> 00:11:50,448 I started Comicon. So, if you're ever into superheroes. 333 00:11:50,666 --> 00:11:52,146 - No. - Oh. 334 00:11:52,363 --> 00:11:53,494 I can't. 335 00:11:53,495 --> 00:11:54,931 I date a lot, not in Los Angeles. 336 00:11:55,149 --> 00:11:56,018 Why is that? 337 00:11:56,019 --> 00:11:57,804 Girls here are pretty bad. 338 00:11:58,021 --> 00:11:59,282 Oh, God. 339 00:11:59,283 --> 00:12:01,198 Where do you live? You live on this side? 340 00:12:01,416 --> 00:12:03,331 I'm... I think we're on the west side, right? 341 00:12:03,548 --> 00:12:04,985 I think we're in the east side now. 342 00:12:05,202 --> 00:12:08,118 Okay. So I don't know what side I live on. 343 00:12:08,336 --> 00:12:09,728 Oh. 344 00:12:09,729 --> 00:12:11,034 I live in the Valley. 345 00:12:11,252 --> 00:12:12,513 Okay. 346 00:12:12,514 --> 00:12:14,559 - Do you know where that is? - That way. 347 00:12:14,734 --> 00:12:16,213 Okay, who do you think is - ing amazing? 348 00:12:16,431 --> 00:12:17,911 Maybe like Led Zeppelin and the Rolling Stones, 349 00:12:18,128 --> 00:12:19,129 and that's like, it. I don't know. 350 00:12:19,347 --> 00:12:20,521 Chris Martin? 351 00:12:20,522 --> 00:12:22,306 What's that? Yeah, just Coldplay sucks. 352 00:12:22,524 --> 00:12:23,959 What?! 353 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:25,440 Coldplay sucks. Dude, white women love Coldplay. 354 00:12:25,657 --> 00:12:27,049 What?! 355 00:12:27,050 --> 00:12:29,096 When I was younger, I was always in love with a guy 356 00:12:29,313 --> 00:12:30,444 that I shouldn't be in love with. 357 00:12:30,445 --> 00:12:32,186 What I've realized is I'm still her. 358 00:12:32,403 --> 00:12:34,710 [laughs] 359 00:12:34,884 --> 00:12:37,757 I am still her. I am still the girl that is attracted 360 00:12:37,931 --> 00:12:42,370 to a very certain kind of person that is not the guy 361 00:12:42,587 --> 00:12:44,633 that probably everybody, like, wants to set me up with. 362 00:12:44,807 --> 00:12:47,157 Oh, my God. This is so much harder than I thought. 363 00:12:47,375 --> 00:12:49,072 It is? Is it a little stressful for you? 364 00:12:49,290 --> 00:12:50,420 It's so stressful. 365 00:12:50,421 --> 00:12:51,640 I'm a real estate agent by the way. 366 00:12:51,814 --> 00:12:53,337 My husband would die right now. 367 00:12:53,555 --> 00:12:54,425 Well, I'm separated. [laughs] 368 00:12:54,643 --> 00:12:55,861 I... we did a deal. 369 00:12:55,862 --> 00:12:57,733 - I'm sure you did. - Yeah. 370 00:12:57,907 --> 00:12:59,866 I honestly cannot get away from Mau. 371 00:13:00,083 --> 00:13:02,520 I mean, I wouldn't be surprised if he was here tonight 372 00:13:02,738 --> 00:13:03,957 as one of the bachelors. 373 00:13:04,174 --> 00:13:05,001 I mean, he does good deals. 374 00:13:05,219 --> 00:13:06,523 Have you been married? 375 00:13:06,524 --> 00:13:08,700 I married a stranger in Las Vegas for a day. 376 00:13:08,875 --> 00:13:10,179 It was on my bucket list. 377 00:13:10,180 --> 00:13:11,573 I was just gonna say it was a bucket list. 378 00:13:11,791 --> 00:13:13,400 It was a bucket list. [gasps] 379 00:13:13,401 --> 00:13:15,359 Cause it's completely legal in your country. You can just-- 380 00:13:15,577 --> 00:13:17,186 You get married. 381 00:13:17,187 --> 00:13:19,146 When I turn the charm on, I'm not the girl that's like, 382 00:13:19,363 --> 00:13:21,277 oh [giggles]. 383 00:13:21,278 --> 00:13:24,542 Oh wow, oh, you look good. Have you been working out? 384 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:27,371 I'm more of the, it's in the eyes. 385 00:13:27,589 --> 00:13:30,157 Maybe a little hair flip. 386 00:13:30,374 --> 00:13:32,376 Anyway, so... 387 00:13:32,594 --> 00:13:34,378 Seductive. 388 00:13:34,596 --> 00:13:38,165 I've been asking the guys. Everybody loves Dorit. 389 00:13:38,382 --> 00:13:39,643 Look at them right now. 390 00:13:39,644 --> 00:13:40,994 I have to tell you... oh, that's sweet. 391 00:13:41,211 --> 00:13:42,429 - Yeah. - Thank you, my darling. 392 00:13:42,430 --> 00:13:44,084 But I think everybody likes Sebastian. 393 00:13:44,301 --> 00:13:46,869 Yeah, I like Sebastian. Yes, everybody likes Sebastian. 394 00:13:47,087 --> 00:13:48,348 Go, go back inside. 395 00:13:48,349 --> 00:13:50,002 But look at them. This is a match made. 396 00:13:50,003 --> 00:13:52,353 They both have accents. That's how I knew it was gonna work. 397 00:13:52,570 --> 00:13:54,224 People say I'm loquacious, so. 398 00:13:54,442 --> 00:13:55,746 Oh my, what a word. 399 00:13:55,747 --> 00:13:57,226 Were you like, a big comic fan as a child? 400 00:13:57,227 --> 00:13:58,837 Yeah, I grew up collecting sports cards and comic books 401 00:13:58,838 --> 00:13:59,882 as a kid. 402 00:14:00,100 --> 00:14:01,579 I love sports cars. 403 00:14:01,797 --> 00:14:03,276 Well, baseball, basketball, all the great-- 404 00:14:03,277 --> 00:14:04,233 Oh, cards, excuse me. 405 00:14:04,234 --> 00:14:05,932 Yeah, oh yeah, C-A-R-D-S, yes. 406 00:14:06,149 --> 00:14:07,150 Mm-hmm. 407 00:14:07,368 --> 00:14:08,716 I have zero game. 408 00:14:08,717 --> 00:14:11,807 I can't small talk. I don't know how to do it. 409 00:14:11,981 --> 00:14:13,896 Wait, you're in law, right? 410 00:14:14,114 --> 00:14:15,202 Yeah, but I do other things, too. 411 00:14:15,419 --> 00:14:16,725 So, you're a slimy weasel? 412 00:14:16,899 --> 00:14:18,727 Sutton has a lot more game than I do. 413 00:14:18,901 --> 00:14:23,296 Soft and feminine and Southern, and you know, "Hi". 414 00:14:23,297 --> 00:14:25,516 Your accent's great. Just a hint of Georgia. 415 00:14:25,734 --> 00:14:26,865 It's more if I go home. 416 00:14:26,866 --> 00:14:28,215 Or if I talk to my mother too long. 417 00:14:28,432 --> 00:14:29,869 Oh, listen, when I'm on the phone with my family 418 00:14:30,086 --> 00:14:30,739 back home-- 419 00:14:30,913 --> 00:14:32,087 Right? 420 00:14:32,088 --> 00:14:32,959 The New York comes right out, absolutely. 421 00:14:33,176 --> 00:14:34,437 It'll just come right back. 422 00:14:34,438 --> 00:14:35,525 I've been fortunate to work in baseball. 423 00:14:35,526 --> 00:14:36,266 I've represented a bunch of players. 424 00:14:36,484 --> 00:14:38,093 Oh, really? 425 00:14:38,094 --> 00:14:39,095 My apologies, you are halfway through your conversation. 426 00:14:39,313 --> 00:14:40,401 Oh, okay, ma'am. 427 00:14:40,618 --> 00:14:41,968 Time is flying by, Boz. 428 00:14:42,185 --> 00:14:43,360 I know, when you're having fun. 429 00:14:43,578 --> 00:14:45,753 I like Rick. He is easy to talk to. 430 00:14:45,754 --> 00:14:47,887 He seems interested in me. 431 00:14:48,061 --> 00:14:49,888 He has potential, this Rick. 432 00:14:49,889 --> 00:14:51,934 - Our time is up. - Okay. 433 00:14:52,152 --> 00:14:53,326 Now, we're all gonna get back together. 434 00:14:53,327 --> 00:14:54,502 - Sure. - Okay. 435 00:14:54,719 --> 00:14:55,895 So, we can go back in here. 436 00:14:56,069 --> 00:14:57,808 Okay, what's happening, you guys? 437 00:14:57,809 --> 00:15:01,030 Well, everybody, I would like to say goodnight to our gentlemen. 438 00:15:01,248 --> 00:15:03,903 - Oh. - Good night, guys. 439 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:05,556 It was nice meeting all y'all. 440 00:15:05,774 --> 00:15:07,167 Wait, wait, this is me. 441 00:15:07,384 --> 00:15:08,516 All right. Done. 442 00:15:08,733 --> 00:15:10,256 So, let me know. Uh... 443 00:15:10,257 --> 00:15:12,868 - All right, I'll let you know. - It's in your court. 444 00:15:13,042 --> 00:15:15,262 Still got it. Obviously. 445 00:15:15,479 --> 00:15:18,656 I love Boz and there's nothing I won't do for her or with her. 446 00:15:18,874 --> 00:15:20,353 I need firepit. 447 00:15:20,354 --> 00:15:23,357 But like, I knew full well there was zero percent chance 448 00:15:23,574 --> 00:15:25,446 I was meeting a guy at a speed dating event. 449 00:15:25,663 --> 00:15:28,536 Dorit, was that your first like, meet new guys moment? 450 00:15:28,753 --> 00:15:29,710 Totally. 451 00:15:29,711 --> 00:15:31,104 And? I feel like you did great. 452 00:15:31,321 --> 00:15:33,366 Oh, I'm very good in these situations. 453 00:15:33,367 --> 00:15:34,934 By the way, I feel like you were fully rolling 454 00:15:35,151 --> 00:15:36,282 into each guy, right? 455 00:15:36,283 --> 00:15:38,720 Tonight was a boost of confidence. 456 00:15:38,938 --> 00:15:44,508 It felt like the feminine, flirty, fun Dorit was here. 457 00:15:44,726 --> 00:15:46,031 And it felt good. 458 00:15:46,032 --> 00:15:47,207 Who was our favorite guy? 459 00:15:47,424 --> 00:15:48,817 The Aussie guy was great. 460 00:15:48,991 --> 00:15:50,384 - The Aussie guy was cute. - Sebastian. 461 00:15:50,601 --> 00:15:52,255 - He was really fun. - I liked Rick. 462 00:15:52,473 --> 00:15:54,257 Did he give you his card? Cause he gave me his card. 463 00:15:54,475 --> 00:15:55,867 - Okay. - Ooh! 464 00:15:56,042 --> 00:15:57,347 Okay. 465 00:15:57,565 --> 00:15:59,523 Y'all, I'm just saying, your attorney husband 466 00:15:59,741 --> 00:16:00,872 didn't work out so well. 467 00:16:01,047 --> 00:16:04,876 Oh! Oh sh--! 468 00:16:05,051 --> 00:16:05,877 Coming up. 469 00:16:06,052 --> 00:16:07,748 In order to be friends, 470 00:16:07,749 --> 00:16:10,404 I want to know the information so that I can also be helpful. 471 00:16:10,621 --> 00:16:12,580 Well, why don't you ask what you really want to ask? 472 00:16:18,629 --> 00:16:20,936 [♪] 473 00:16:21,110 --> 00:16:22,677 Okay, who was our favorite guy? 474 00:16:22,894 --> 00:16:24,373 I liked Rick. 475 00:16:24,374 --> 00:16:26,072 Did he give you his card? Cause he gave me his card. 476 00:16:26,289 --> 00:16:28,900 Okay. Your attorney husband didn't work out so well. 477 00:16:29,075 --> 00:16:32,426 Oh! Oh sh--! 478 00:16:32,643 --> 00:16:34,123 I'm about to do something really important. 479 00:16:34,341 --> 00:16:36,037 She's gonna throw it in the fire. 480 00:16:36,038 --> 00:16:39,520 No. In the spirit of kindness, and being like, a good friend, 481 00:16:39,737 --> 00:16:41,000 truthfully, this is for you. 482 00:16:41,217 --> 00:16:42,218 Woo! 483 00:16:42,436 --> 00:16:43,740 Erika. 484 00:16:43,741 --> 00:16:45,569 It's taken a long time for Sutton and I to get 485 00:16:45,787 --> 00:16:48,181 to a good place and Rick seems like a really nice guy. 486 00:16:48,398 --> 00:16:49,747 Yeah, Sutton, enjoy him. 487 00:16:49,965 --> 00:16:51,836 I'm gonna give the lawyer thing a rest. 488 00:16:52,011 --> 00:16:53,273 Case dismissed. 489 00:16:53,490 --> 00:16:55,144 - Um, Kyle. - Yes 490 00:16:55,362 --> 00:16:58,669 Do you feel that you are actively looking 491 00:16:58,887 --> 00:17:00,193 to meet someone? 492 00:17:00,410 --> 00:17:01,237 Ooh! 493 00:17:01,455 --> 00:17:02,411 Of course not. 494 00:17:02,412 --> 00:17:04,066 I mean, I'm not... I'm not... 495 00:17:04,284 --> 00:17:06,763 What do you mean, of course not? 496 00:17:06,764 --> 00:17:08,027 No, I'm not. I mean, you're not actively looking 497 00:17:08,201 --> 00:17:09,245 for anybody. 498 00:17:09,463 --> 00:17:10,768 I'm not three years in. 499 00:17:10,986 --> 00:17:14,033 I mean, like, is that what you want? 500 00:17:14,207 --> 00:17:16,948 I would be looking for a life partner. 501 00:17:17,123 --> 00:17:18,384 Whoa. 502 00:17:18,385 --> 00:17:19,472 Like, I would want to get married again. 503 00:17:19,473 --> 00:17:20,735 You want to be married again, Kyle? 504 00:17:20,952 --> 00:17:22,171 I think I would want to get married again. 505 00:17:22,389 --> 00:17:23,651 Really? 506 00:17:23,868 --> 00:17:25,348 Dorit, do you want to come talk with me 507 00:17:25,566 --> 00:17:27,089 for like, five minutes? 508 00:17:27,307 --> 00:17:28,611 Pardon? 509 00:17:28,612 --> 00:17:29,787 Come here, come talk with me for a minute. 510 00:17:30,005 --> 00:17:30,832 I want to talk to you. 511 00:17:31,050 --> 00:17:32,355 Oh, okay, go ahead. 512 00:17:32,573 --> 00:17:34,270 I just want to catch up with you, 513 00:17:34,488 --> 00:17:36,968 and how you're doing, and PK, and all of that. 514 00:17:37,143 --> 00:17:39,101 Sutton, do you want to sit here? 515 00:17:39,319 --> 00:17:40,798 Yeah, is that okay? 516 00:17:41,016 --> 00:17:43,018 Have a seat. I was asking Dorit what's going on? 517 00:17:43,192 --> 00:17:45,847 And I'm just trying to check in on her and see how the kids are. 518 00:17:46,065 --> 00:17:47,717 Did they go to Florida? 519 00:17:47,718 --> 00:17:50,286 My kids are supposed to go to Florida with their grandparents, 520 00:17:50,504 --> 00:17:53,681 and PK is now, I got a letter today from the lawyer 521 00:17:53,898 --> 00:17:57,076 saying that he's gonna block it. 522 00:17:57,293 --> 00:17:58,512 They did go to Florida. 523 00:17:58,729 --> 00:17:59,948 So, the kids are having a good time? 524 00:18:00,122 --> 00:18:03,256 They are having the greatest time ever. 525 00:18:03,473 --> 00:18:05,345 What are you doing now that they're not... are you resting? 526 00:18:05,562 --> 00:18:07,347 The best thing that you can do is take care of yourself. 527 00:18:07,564 --> 00:18:08,695 Yes. 528 00:18:08,696 --> 00:18:10,393 - You have to. - I know. I have to. 529 00:18:10,611 --> 00:18:12,091 And you don't want it used against you. 530 00:18:12,308 --> 00:18:13,309 You know what I mean? 531 00:18:13,527 --> 00:18:14,744 - Exactly. - Oh, no. 532 00:18:14,745 --> 00:18:16,356 That's, by the way, that's by design. 533 00:18:16,573 --> 00:18:18,619 Here's the thing, when you're going through a divorce, 534 00:18:18,836 --> 00:18:21,317 your state of mind is, like, a big deal. 535 00:18:21,535 --> 00:18:24,886 Anything and everything will be used against you 536 00:18:25,104 --> 00:18:27,889 to make you look not the best. 537 00:18:28,107 --> 00:18:30,587 So, you have to be careful what you say, how you say it, 538 00:18:30,805 --> 00:18:32,328 who you say it to, where are you hanging out, 539 00:18:32,546 --> 00:18:34,678 who are you hanging out with? Where you spend the money? 540 00:18:34,896 --> 00:18:36,463 And it's a long road. 541 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:38,333 Yes. 542 00:18:38,334 --> 00:18:41,511 Dudes can get away with a hell of a lot more than mothers. 543 00:18:41,729 --> 00:18:44,123 The great news is this, you will come ashore. 544 00:18:44,297 --> 00:18:45,427 Yeah. 545 00:18:45,428 --> 00:18:46,429 - And you will survive this. - Yes. 546 00:18:46,647 --> 00:18:47,560 Yeah, you will. 547 00:18:47,561 --> 00:18:48,648 And your children will too. 548 00:18:48,649 --> 00:18:50,694 And all for the better, you know? 549 00:18:50,912 --> 00:18:52,087 You just have to get through it. 550 00:18:52,261 --> 00:18:54,133 And it sucks, and I'm really sorry. 551 00:18:54,307 --> 00:18:56,135 Yeah, it does suck. 552 00:18:56,309 --> 00:18:57,874 Thank you. 553 00:18:57,875 --> 00:18:59,573 This is really nice to see a different side of Sutton. 554 00:18:59,790 --> 00:19:02,706 She's talking to me from her heart. 555 00:19:02,924 --> 00:19:05,927 I know she has the experience. And it feels genuine. 556 00:19:06,145 --> 00:19:09,626 I completely sympathize with Dorit. 557 00:19:09,844 --> 00:19:14,153 I see a little bit of myself in this broken wing 558 00:19:14,370 --> 00:19:18,331 that she's walking around with. It's so sad. 559 00:19:18,548 --> 00:19:21,160 It's just the hardest thing to watch. 560 00:19:21,377 --> 00:19:24,989 I want to be a good friend to everybody. 561 00:19:25,164 --> 00:19:26,642 Yeah, of course. 562 00:19:26,643 --> 00:19:28,167 You know? I think Kyle is somebody that I'm, like, 563 00:19:28,341 --> 00:19:30,647 okay, I'm like, peeling back the onion. 564 00:19:30,865 --> 00:19:33,433 Did you like anybody? Was there anything that sparked? 565 00:19:33,650 --> 00:19:36,044 If not, I'm like, okay, tell me girl, what you want. 566 00:19:36,218 --> 00:19:37,654 Well, I mean, gosh. My gosh! 567 00:19:37,872 --> 00:19:40,091 You know, I'm not the only single one here. Um... 568 00:19:40,266 --> 00:19:41,919 You don't want to just be like [clicks tongue]. 569 00:19:42,137 --> 00:19:43,224 - No, no. - Right. 570 00:19:43,225 --> 00:19:44,270 You are not a one night only girl. 571 00:19:44,487 --> 00:19:45,835 No. 572 00:19:45,836 --> 00:19:47,490 So, we've got to find somebody with substance. 573 00:19:47,708 --> 00:19:49,144 But how many times have you been in love? 574 00:19:49,318 --> 00:19:50,406 Have I been in love? 575 00:19:50,624 --> 00:19:51,842 How many times have you been in love? 576 00:19:52,060 --> 00:19:53,017 Oh, in love. 577 00:19:53,192 --> 00:19:54,236 Like, say, three. Three times. 578 00:19:54,454 --> 00:19:56,064 - Three. - Yeah, in my life. 579 00:19:56,238 --> 00:19:57,631 How many have you been in love? 580 00:19:57,848 --> 00:19:58,849 - Four. - How many times? 581 00:19:59,067 --> 00:20:00,285 - Three. 582 00:20:00,286 --> 00:20:02,897 Yeah. Have you found love again... since? 583 00:20:03,114 --> 00:20:04,725 Uh, yeah. Yeah. 584 00:20:04,942 --> 00:20:06,553 - Well, that's a good feeling. - Since him? 585 00:20:06,770 --> 00:20:08,381 Yeah, I have loved somebody, but-- 586 00:20:08,598 --> 00:20:11,558 [gasps] Okay, but now you don't. 587 00:20:11,775 --> 00:20:14,038 No, and now I'm just... 588 00:20:14,213 --> 00:20:15,692 Figuring it out. 589 00:20:15,910 --> 00:20:17,738 No, now I'm just, I mean, I did, but now I'm... 590 00:20:17,955 --> 00:20:19,435 now I'm on my own again, so. 591 00:20:19,653 --> 00:20:21,611 - Okay. Okay. - You know? 592 00:20:21,829 --> 00:20:24,571 Boz is acting like she's never heard anything or seen anything, 593 00:20:24,788 --> 00:20:26,660 and she's asking me all these questions. 594 00:20:26,877 --> 00:20:28,879 And I'm like, okay, Boz. 595 00:20:29,097 --> 00:20:32,709 Was it by choice not to be in love now? By your choice? 596 00:20:32,927 --> 00:20:34,885 Um... no, it's not... 597 00:20:37,975 --> 00:20:40,064 ...it's just complicated. 598 00:20:40,239 --> 00:20:41,457 I think it's been really challenging for Kyle 599 00:20:41,675 --> 00:20:43,066 to be vulnerable. 600 00:20:43,067 --> 00:20:44,939 You said that you had never before questioned 601 00:20:45,156 --> 00:20:46,461 your sexuality. 602 00:20:46,462 --> 00:20:48,943 But when public speculation went into overdrive, 603 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,293 you even talked to your daughters about it. 604 00:20:51,511 --> 00:20:53,817 Just a really proud moment for me, as a mom, 605 00:20:54,035 --> 00:20:55,123 how my daughters reacted. 606 00:20:55,297 --> 00:20:56,124 They supported you. 607 00:20:56,298 --> 00:20:58,996 Oh, my gosh, like... 608 00:20:59,214 --> 00:21:00,780 beyond. 609 00:21:00,781 --> 00:21:02,348 And it was a real uncomfortable, hard conversation to have. 610 00:21:02,565 --> 00:21:06,439 But I'm really glad that she's at least sharing a little bit 611 00:21:06,656 --> 00:21:07,831 with me now. 612 00:21:08,049 --> 00:21:09,485 Because I want to be there for her. 613 00:21:09,703 --> 00:21:12,183 I want to be able to support in every way that I can, 614 00:21:12,358 --> 00:21:13,489 as a friend. 615 00:21:13,707 --> 00:21:15,274 I told you, I'm a girls' girl. 616 00:21:15,491 --> 00:21:17,014 I want to, like, be in everybody's business. 617 00:21:17,232 --> 00:21:18,363 You're a ladies' lady. 618 00:21:18,364 --> 00:21:19,713 Not because I want to be in the business, 619 00:21:19,930 --> 00:21:20,670 but because I'm like... 620 00:21:20,888 --> 00:21:21,844 You're a ladies' lady. 621 00:21:21,845 --> 00:21:23,281 ...but in order to be friends. 622 00:21:23,282 --> 00:21:24,805 Well, why don't you ask what you really want to ask? 623 00:21:25,022 --> 00:21:27,155 What's that? What do you think I want to ask? 624 00:21:27,329 --> 00:21:29,810 I don't know, I could go Brad, I could go Angelina. 625 00:21:30,027 --> 00:21:31,201 Oh. 626 00:21:31,202 --> 00:21:32,421 That's what you want me to say, right? 627 00:21:32,639 --> 00:21:34,074 I mean... 628 00:21:34,075 --> 00:21:36,686 Is that serious, you could go Brad or Angelina? 629 00:21:36,904 --> 00:21:39,559 No, I mean, I'm like, half joking, but not, 630 00:21:39,776 --> 00:21:40,908 not fully joking. 631 00:21:41,125 --> 00:21:42,691 Open. Open. 632 00:21:42,692 --> 00:21:44,259 I don't know. Listen, I've learned a lot about myself. 633 00:21:44,433 --> 00:21:45,826 I think gender doesn't matter. 634 00:21:46,043 --> 00:21:47,522 Yeah, of course. 635 00:21:47,523 --> 00:21:49,177 I think it's a... I think it is a connection with a-- 636 00:21:49,351 --> 00:21:50,308 Yes. 637 00:21:50,309 --> 00:21:51,744 ...you know, a soul connection. 638 00:21:51,745 --> 00:21:54,835 I think my biggest worry after Mau and I separated, 639 00:21:55,052 --> 00:22:00,231 was really that I was going to maybe be alone one day. 640 00:22:00,406 --> 00:22:04,540 And then to find someone that you have a lot in common with, 641 00:22:04,758 --> 00:22:08,631 and you can laugh with, and have fun, was exciting for me. 642 00:22:08,849 --> 00:22:13,027 Because I proved to myself, oh, you know, I actually can 643 00:22:13,244 --> 00:22:17,074 meet someone after a marriage of this many years. 644 00:22:17,292 --> 00:22:19,250 I've always been attracted to men, you know. 645 00:22:19,425 --> 00:22:20,512 Okay. 646 00:22:20,513 --> 00:22:21,340 Like, tall, dark, and handsome. 647 00:22:21,557 --> 00:22:23,342 Could that apply to women? 648 00:22:23,516 --> 00:22:27,650 I also felt nervous about if I go out with somebody, 649 00:22:27,868 --> 00:22:30,000 like, what is Mau going to think about that? 650 00:22:30,218 --> 00:22:32,612 What are the girls going to think about that? 651 00:22:32,829 --> 00:22:36,180 What is the public going to think about that? 652 00:22:36,355 --> 00:22:37,399 I don't really know, so. 653 00:22:37,617 --> 00:22:38,791 Kyle, to be honest with you, 654 00:22:38,792 --> 00:22:40,054 I actually don't think you have to know. 655 00:22:40,271 --> 00:22:42,491 You have been with Mau forever. 656 00:22:42,709 --> 00:22:44,362 She said 30 years. 657 00:22:44,363 --> 00:22:47,235 And I think it's okay to now be like, I'm freely being me, 658 00:22:47,409 --> 00:22:48,715 and whatever that feels like, 659 00:22:48,932 --> 00:22:50,412 and whoever I connect with the most. 660 00:22:50,630 --> 00:22:53,415 I've gone through so much in these past few years, 661 00:22:53,633 --> 00:22:58,202 and it really has changed my perspective on life, 662 00:22:58,377 --> 00:23:00,422 and how I want to live. 663 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,078 While I am sad about the relationship, 664 00:23:04,295 --> 00:23:05,775 I'm also really grateful. 665 00:23:05,993 --> 00:23:08,648 You get lost in being a wife and a mother, 666 00:23:08,865 --> 00:23:12,826 and you can kind of forget about who you are. 667 00:23:13,043 --> 00:23:17,700 And I learned a lot about myself in that time. 668 00:23:17,918 --> 00:23:19,615 I'm gonna go back in my contact list. 669 00:23:19,833 --> 00:23:21,443 No! No. 670 00:23:21,661 --> 00:23:22,531 You know what? 671 00:23:22,749 --> 00:23:24,925 I'm a fate kind of person. 672 00:23:25,142 --> 00:23:27,318 [laughs] 673 00:23:27,493 --> 00:23:28,754 Coming up. 674 00:23:28,755 --> 00:23:30,409 Maybe I'll change my name back to Brown. 675 00:23:30,626 --> 00:23:32,889 I dropped my married name, like, the day I left. 676 00:23:33,107 --> 00:23:34,717 It's like, my last little thread. 677 00:23:34,935 --> 00:23:37,764 It is, but you're not married to him anymore. 678 00:23:43,073 --> 00:23:45,380 [♪] 679 00:24:10,013 --> 00:24:11,624 Oh, can I do this? 680 00:24:11,841 --> 00:24:13,234 You guys can absolutely. 681 00:24:13,452 --> 00:24:15,236 Oh, Shoshe, do you want a pan? 682 00:24:15,454 --> 00:24:17,325 She's right behind you. She's right behind you. 683 00:24:17,499 --> 00:24:20,328 She's literally right next to you. 684 00:24:20,502 --> 00:24:22,199 Oh, hi. Okay, you want to paint a dragon? 685 00:24:22,417 --> 00:24:23,156 No. 686 00:24:23,157 --> 00:24:24,287 Cay-Cay wants to help. 687 00:24:24,288 --> 00:24:26,552 Let's go over here. Here, Mama help. 688 00:24:26,769 --> 00:24:28,249 You want me to help you get the stuff? 689 00:24:28,467 --> 00:24:29,903 - How do the beads stick? - I'll show you. 690 00:24:30,120 --> 00:24:30,991 I've never done that activity before. 691 00:24:31,208 --> 00:24:33,210 Hey, Canaan, that's my side. 692 00:24:33,428 --> 00:24:35,082 What if we both paint on both sides? 693 00:24:35,299 --> 00:24:37,780 And we work together collaboratively? 694 00:24:42,785 --> 00:24:44,308 [laughs] 695 00:24:44,483 --> 00:24:46,485 Um... okay. 696 00:24:46,659 --> 00:24:49,313 So, I come from pretty humble beginnings. 697 00:24:49,488 --> 00:24:50,967 We didn't really have a lot. 698 00:24:51,185 --> 00:24:53,317 On Friday nights, I used to hang out at Walmart. 699 00:24:53,492 --> 00:24:56,364 We would like, go walk. I would walk around Walmart. 700 00:24:56,538 --> 00:24:58,235 Do you want to go jet skiing with Dada tomorrow? 701 00:24:58,453 --> 00:24:59,498 We're going jet skiing in the morning. 702 00:24:59,672 --> 00:25:01,021 Of course, of course. 703 00:25:01,238 --> 00:25:02,979 They will never grasp that the reason 704 00:25:03,197 --> 00:25:05,982 I have them in a stroller walking around Beverly Hills, 705 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,071 like getting ice cream, or going to lunch or whatever, 706 00:25:08,289 --> 00:25:10,204 is cause I dreamed this for them. 707 00:25:10,421 --> 00:25:13,424 Like, we walk the streets that I watched on "Clueless". 708 00:25:13,599 --> 00:25:15,209 Like, that... you know? 709 00:25:15,426 --> 00:25:17,864 It looks like I'm going to Disney on Monday. 710 00:25:18,081 --> 00:25:19,822 Daddy has a new project at Disney World. 711 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,521 Sunday you have water polo, correct? 712 00:25:22,738 --> 00:25:24,479 At 11. Yeah, I'm gonna take Liam. 713 00:25:24,653 --> 00:25:27,134 And I'm gonna try to go to Pilates that day during naptime. 714 00:25:27,351 --> 00:25:30,964 Eddie is my partner, and fiancé, and lover. 715 00:25:31,181 --> 00:25:35,534 We met in 2019. And so, we've been together five years. 716 00:25:35,751 --> 00:25:39,407 Eddie is in construction. Isn't he so cute, though? 717 00:25:39,581 --> 00:25:41,234 He's like, so cute. 718 00:25:41,235 --> 00:25:43,672 Okay, before Daddy proposed, like, I kept having the dream 719 00:25:43,890 --> 00:25:46,762 that he got me a ring with the Smart & Final logo on it. 720 00:25:46,980 --> 00:25:48,895 [laughter] 721 00:25:49,112 --> 00:25:50,723 Get your Oklahoma ass outta here. 722 00:25:50,940 --> 00:25:52,768 So, once Eddie and I were living together, 723 00:25:52,986 --> 00:25:55,031 he asked me what I wanted, what my priorities were. 724 00:25:55,249 --> 00:25:59,122 I was about to turn 36 and I remember telling him 725 00:25:59,340 --> 00:26:01,647 that there was an expiration date on my ovaries 726 00:26:01,864 --> 00:26:03,604 more than there was an expiration date 727 00:26:03,605 --> 00:26:06,347 on my ring finger, and I thought we should get to making babies. 728 00:26:08,175 --> 00:26:10,699 It did take a while for us to get engaged, 729 00:26:10,917 --> 00:26:12,570 but then Daddy crushed it. 730 00:26:12,571 --> 00:26:14,964 He got me the exact ring that had been on my vision board. 731 00:26:15,182 --> 00:26:16,530 - Literally. - Okay. 732 00:26:16,531 --> 00:26:19,229 As a financial empowerment teacher and coach, 733 00:26:19,447 --> 00:26:21,101 I'm the embodiment of everything I teach. 734 00:26:21,318 --> 00:26:23,799 I'm my biggest testimonial. 735 00:26:24,017 --> 00:26:26,715 I remember someone who was in one of my courses, 736 00:26:26,933 --> 00:26:29,370 and they're like, "Of course Amanda wouldn't come through 737 00:26:29,588 --> 00:26:31,023 just manifesting a man. 738 00:26:31,024 --> 00:26:33,069 Amanda comes through manifesting a whole-ass family." 739 00:26:33,287 --> 00:26:35,245 I'm really thankful you cook. 740 00:26:35,463 --> 00:26:37,073 Yeah. Or else nobody would eat? 741 00:26:37,291 --> 00:26:38,597 No. 742 00:26:38,771 --> 00:26:40,468 [laughs] 743 00:26:40,642 --> 00:26:44,080 [♪] 744 00:26:57,572 --> 00:26:58,529 [knock at door] 745 00:27:03,796 --> 00:27:05,841 - Hi, la- - Hello. 746 00:27:06,059 --> 00:27:08,844 You are so sweet. Hi. You look so gorgeous. 747 00:27:09,062 --> 00:27:10,540 Hi. Hi. 748 00:27:10,541 --> 00:27:12,500 I feel so casual. I'm so sorry. You look gorgeous. 749 00:27:12,674 --> 00:27:13,849 Why are you-, I'm in jeans. 750 00:27:14,067 --> 00:27:15,284 Okay, we're both in jeans. 751 00:27:15,285 --> 00:27:16,809 - Yeah. I love your house. - Thank you. 752 00:27:17,026 --> 00:27:18,071 Well, I have a penchant for white houses. 753 00:27:18,288 --> 00:27:19,376 - I love white houses. - Me too. 754 00:27:19,594 --> 00:27:20,987 - You drink white wine. - Yes. 755 00:27:21,204 --> 00:27:22,378 So, I brought you some white wine. 756 00:27:22,379 --> 00:27:23,380 And I love this. I love Pouilly-Fuissé. 757 00:27:23,598 --> 00:27:24,990 Yes, well. 758 00:27:24,991 --> 00:27:26,514 - I do. Thank you so much. - Yeah, you're welcome. 759 00:27:26,688 --> 00:27:31,171 I know Sutton because we have, like, some mutual friends. 760 00:27:31,388 --> 00:27:34,000 So, I end up seeing her at different, like, events 761 00:27:34,217 --> 00:27:37,525 and lunches and parties when I do that sort of circuit. 762 00:27:37,699 --> 00:27:39,266 You know, around the holidays especially, 763 00:27:39,483 --> 00:27:41,094 I always see her at Kathy's. 764 00:27:41,311 --> 00:27:43,009 But she was always someone who was very, like, 765 00:27:43,226 --> 00:27:46,360 friendly and outgoing, invites me to all these parties, 766 00:27:46,577 --> 00:27:47,795 and things like that. 767 00:27:47,796 --> 00:27:49,101 I just had never gotten close with her. 768 00:27:49,102 --> 00:27:51,582 Why do I feel like we have so much to discuss? 769 00:27:51,757 --> 00:27:53,149 How's it going? 770 00:27:53,367 --> 00:27:57,023 I mean, can we talk about Boz's house? 771 00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,329 I can't believe we just did like, a speed dating night. 772 00:27:59,547 --> 00:28:01,331 Like, I didn't know that there was a name for this. 773 00:28:01,549 --> 00:28:03,290 Did you think any of the guys were cute? 774 00:28:03,507 --> 00:28:05,031 Uh... 775 00:28:05,248 --> 00:28:06,685 Do you think the guy with the hair... 776 00:28:06,859 --> 00:28:09,035 I feel like he was good looking and cute. 777 00:28:09,252 --> 00:28:10,296 Yeah. 778 00:28:10,297 --> 00:28:12,255 Right? Felt like not - ed up. 779 00:28:12,473 --> 00:28:14,083 [laughs] 780 00:28:14,301 --> 00:28:17,043 It's all relative. 781 00:28:17,260 --> 00:28:20,524 You know, I think I'm still so fresh out of marriage, 782 00:28:20,699 --> 00:28:22,875 so I think I'm really enjoying not being married. 783 00:28:23,092 --> 00:28:24,485 Right. Obviously. 784 00:28:24,703 --> 00:28:25,833 Would you get married? 785 00:28:25,834 --> 00:28:27,095 So, you know, for me, it's complicated 786 00:28:27,096 --> 00:28:31,057 because I found out a little over a year ago, 787 00:28:31,274 --> 00:28:34,321 my ex-husband, he asked for an annulment 788 00:28:34,538 --> 00:28:36,410 with the Catholic Church. 789 00:28:36,627 --> 00:28:39,848 Like, within the church, our marriage never existed. 790 00:28:40,066 --> 00:28:44,374 But when I got the letter from the Catholic Church, 791 00:28:44,592 --> 00:28:49,728 uh... it came to Stracke-Brown. 792 00:28:49,902 --> 00:28:51,337 And Brown is my maiden name. 793 00:28:51,338 --> 00:28:54,645 I think, okay. I kept looking at it, Stracke-Brown. 794 00:28:54,820 --> 00:28:55,907 Mm-hmm. 795 00:28:55,908 --> 00:28:58,258 And so, I thought, well, maybe... 796 00:28:58,475 --> 00:29:00,521 maybe I'll change my name back to Brown. 797 00:29:00,739 --> 00:29:02,958 I dropped my married name the day I left. 798 00:29:03,176 --> 00:29:04,393 - Really? - Yeah. 799 00:29:04,394 --> 00:29:07,963 Well, the truth is, I'm not a Stracke. 800 00:29:08,181 --> 00:29:09,485 So, un-Stracke yourself. 801 00:29:09,486 --> 00:29:10,836 - You know? I'm not. - You should de-Stracke. 802 00:29:11,053 --> 00:29:13,273 I know, but it's like, my last little thread. 803 00:29:13,490 --> 00:29:15,666 It is. It is, but you know what? 804 00:29:15,841 --> 00:29:18,321 You're not married to him anymore. 805 00:29:18,539 --> 00:29:22,891 I always felt that I could get Christian back 806 00:29:23,109 --> 00:29:24,806 whenever I wanted to. 807 00:29:25,024 --> 00:29:28,157 Sometimes when we talk I'm like, there's this little moment, 808 00:29:28,375 --> 00:29:32,248 like, did I just win him back for a second? 809 00:29:32,466 --> 00:29:36,862 I think I realized with this annulment, 810 00:29:37,079 --> 00:29:39,734 he is not going to take me back. 811 00:29:41,562 --> 00:29:44,695 It's over. 812 00:29:44,870 --> 00:29:47,698 Oh, Rachel, why do you want to make me cry? 813 00:29:47,873 --> 00:29:49,962 Sutton, I don't want to make you cry but I also want you to-- 814 00:29:50,179 --> 00:29:51,659 It's like when I think about grandchildren, I'm like uh. 815 00:29:51,833 --> 00:29:53,399 So what? 816 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,359 Grandma and Grandpa Stracke over there, the good ones. 817 00:29:56,577 --> 00:29:57,970 With all the houses all over the world. 818 00:29:58,187 --> 00:29:59,101 Nope. 819 00:29:59,319 --> 00:30:01,016 I'm just Grandmommy Brown... 820 00:30:01,234 --> 00:30:02,756 Nope. Nope. 821 00:30:02,757 --> 00:30:04,759 ...over here with my four dogs and probably 18 cats. 822 00:30:04,933 --> 00:30:06,805 Look, 18 cats is a problem in and of itself, 823 00:30:06,979 --> 00:30:08,284 but that's a whole different story. 824 00:30:08,502 --> 00:30:11,026 I know. 825 00:30:11,244 --> 00:30:13,420 I know a lot of women who want to keep their married name. 826 00:30:13,637 --> 00:30:15,160 And sometimes it's status, 827 00:30:15,161 --> 00:30:17,685 sometimes it's because they're not over the marriage 828 00:30:17,859 --> 00:30:19,208 and they want to hold on to it. 829 00:30:19,426 --> 00:30:21,820 And um... I'm not one of them. 830 00:30:21,994 --> 00:30:24,561 Sutton Brown's not bad. What's your middle name? 831 00:30:24,779 --> 00:30:25,692 [sighs] 832 00:30:25,693 --> 00:30:27,477 Oh no. What's your middle name? 833 00:30:27,695 --> 00:30:29,958 It's Thurman. 834 00:30:30,176 --> 00:30:32,265 'K. Harder. 835 00:30:32,482 --> 00:30:35,703 [laughs] 836 00:30:35,877 --> 00:30:37,182 Coming up. 837 00:30:37,183 --> 00:30:38,661 Do you know about your retirement accounts? 838 00:30:38,662 --> 00:30:42,884 No retirements accounts exist as far as I'm concerned. 839 00:30:43,102 --> 00:30:44,016 Money's not invested? 840 00:30:44,233 --> 00:30:46,583 I'm in the unknown. 841 00:30:51,458 --> 00:30:53,025 [♪] 842 00:30:57,246 --> 00:30:59,118 I'm excited to see flowers. 843 00:30:59,335 --> 00:31:00,640 I know, me too. 844 00:31:00,641 --> 00:31:02,034 Another thing we're checking off the list. 845 00:31:02,251 --> 00:31:03,470 We need to get with the program. 846 00:31:07,517 --> 00:31:08,605 Hi, how are you? 847 00:31:08,823 --> 00:31:10,477 Hi, welcome to Orchid Republic. 848 00:31:10,694 --> 00:31:11,870 We have an appointment. 849 00:31:12,044 --> 00:31:12,871 Yes, of course. 850 00:31:13,088 --> 00:31:14,611 Hi. Margarita. 851 00:31:14,829 --> 00:31:16,744 Hi, Margarita. Nice to meet you. 852 00:31:16,918 --> 00:31:20,530 Trying to get some inspo and ideas for her wedding flowers. 853 00:31:20,748 --> 00:31:24,491 What is your color scheme, and what are the flowers, maybe, 854 00:31:24,708 --> 00:31:26,885 that you're thinking about? 855 00:31:27,059 --> 00:31:29,888 I don't have a color scheme. 856 00:31:30,105 --> 00:31:33,369 I do want colorful, Bohemian. 857 00:31:33,587 --> 00:31:35,937 I like, like the wild, unique-looking flowers. 858 00:31:36,155 --> 00:31:37,896 You know ones like artichokes? 859 00:31:38,113 --> 00:31:39,723 [music stops] 860 00:31:39,898 --> 00:31:43,336 Alexia's ideas get me a little stressed sometimes 861 00:31:43,553 --> 00:31:45,947 because my wedding was more traditional. 862 00:31:46,165 --> 00:31:48,819 Black tie, at a country club. 863 00:31:48,994 --> 00:31:50,559 I had 12 bridesmaids. 864 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:54,086 And very traditional flowers like pink and white roses. 865 00:31:54,303 --> 00:31:55,435 Let's just look in here for a second, 866 00:31:55,652 --> 00:31:56,871 see if we can find something like... 867 00:31:57,045 --> 00:31:58,133 ooh look at that one right there. 868 00:31:58,351 --> 00:32:01,528 That's too many purples. 869 00:32:01,745 --> 00:32:04,792 Alexia is my earth child, free spirit. 870 00:32:04,966 --> 00:32:09,014 So, I expect this to be very eclectic. 871 00:32:09,231 --> 00:32:11,146 I actually like more, like, this vibe than that vibe. 872 00:32:11,364 --> 00:32:13,714 Bringing some of these guys in. B-r-r-r-r. 873 00:32:13,932 --> 00:32:17,022 And look at these tiny balls. I love them. 874 00:32:17,239 --> 00:32:18,980 Do you guys have any like, drippys? 875 00:32:19,198 --> 00:32:20,634 - This is giving artichoke. - This is perfect. 876 00:32:20,851 --> 00:32:23,158 Oh! See, would those look pretty in here? 877 00:32:23,376 --> 00:32:25,030 You like the more organic-y vibe. 878 00:32:25,247 --> 00:32:26,118 We're getting somewhere, guys. 879 00:32:26,335 --> 00:32:27,640 Woo-hoo! 880 00:32:27,641 --> 00:32:29,251 I love that she has her own unique style. 881 00:32:29,469 --> 00:32:31,950 B-r-r-r-r! Frozen. 882 00:32:32,167 --> 00:32:35,170 But it's just trying to get her to nail down the actual look 883 00:32:35,388 --> 00:32:37,825 she wants so we can just put this to rest. 884 00:32:37,999 --> 00:32:39,087 This looks so pretty. Look at that. 885 00:32:39,305 --> 00:32:40,001 Okay, do you like that? 886 00:32:40,219 --> 00:32:41,523 I do. 887 00:32:41,524 --> 00:32:42,873 This matches, like, the bridesmaids dresses 888 00:32:43,048 --> 00:32:44,266 color scheme. 889 00:32:44,484 --> 00:32:45,485 You said there was no bridesmaids-- 890 00:32:45,702 --> 00:32:46,833 Mother... 891 00:32:46,834 --> 00:32:48,749 I'm still having, like, bridesmaids, 892 00:32:48,967 --> 00:32:50,359 I'm just not doing the walk. 893 00:32:50,577 --> 00:32:51,882 And not matching dresses. 894 00:32:52,057 --> 00:32:53,753 I want matching dresses. 895 00:32:53,754 --> 00:32:55,495 You didn't say that. You said colors, not matching dresses. 896 00:32:55,712 --> 00:32:56,974 But that's still matching. 897 00:32:56,975 --> 00:32:58,541 Dad and I are both walking in with you? 898 00:32:58,759 --> 00:32:59,586 - Yeah. - Okay. 899 00:32:59,803 --> 00:33:00,761 Of course. 900 00:33:00,979 --> 00:33:02,110 Yeah, you're gonna walk me down. 901 00:33:02,328 --> 00:33:03,938 That's so crazy. 902 00:33:04,112 --> 00:33:07,028 It does feel strange now to think that my daughter, 903 00:33:07,246 --> 00:33:08,550 our daughter, 904 00:33:08,551 --> 00:33:12,294 is getting married, and we're not together. 905 00:33:12,512 --> 00:33:16,081 I would like to take the flowers home so that Jake can give 906 00:33:16,298 --> 00:33:17,559 the green light. 907 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:18,865 I always like him to have the final yes. 908 00:33:18,866 --> 00:33:21,042 When I look at Alexia and Jake getting married, 909 00:33:21,260 --> 00:33:24,393 I just hope that they have a long, happy marriage. 910 00:33:24,611 --> 00:33:27,527 I hope that they can always trust each other. 911 00:33:27,744 --> 00:33:28,876 I hope that... 912 00:33:31,009 --> 00:33:33,098 neither one of them ever hurt each other. 913 00:33:38,886 --> 00:33:40,844 I hope that Jake always looks at Alexia 914 00:33:41,019 --> 00:33:43,021 the way he looks at her today. 915 00:33:46,111 --> 00:33:47,677 But when you look back one day-- 916 00:33:47,895 --> 00:33:48,722 Mm-hmm. 917 00:33:48,939 --> 00:33:50,201 ...at your wedding photos, 918 00:33:50,202 --> 00:33:51,812 as long as you look back and you're like, oh, 919 00:33:52,030 --> 00:33:55,511 that's exactly what... you know, what I wanted. 920 00:33:55,729 --> 00:33:57,774 And you know, that's what I wanted at the time. 921 00:33:57,992 --> 00:34:01,256 Mau and me, we were also really happy. 922 00:34:03,911 --> 00:34:06,740 So, do I get scared thinking, I hope one day they don't 923 00:34:06,957 --> 00:34:08,524 go through what we're going through? 924 00:34:08,742 --> 00:34:10,700 Of course I think like that. 925 00:34:10,918 --> 00:34:14,791 I'm hoping that they have both learned from Mau and me 926 00:34:15,009 --> 00:34:16,967 through all of this. 927 00:34:17,142 --> 00:34:21,755 And love and respect each other as much, you know, 928 00:34:21,972 --> 00:34:25,106 30, 40 years from now, as they do today. 929 00:34:25,324 --> 00:34:27,195 I'm telling you, I'm going to have a very different wedding 930 00:34:27,413 --> 00:34:28,457 with each of your sisters. 931 00:34:28,675 --> 00:34:29,544 Yeah. 932 00:34:29,545 --> 00:34:30,633 God help me with Sophia's. 933 00:34:30,851 --> 00:34:33,549 [laughs] 934 00:34:33,767 --> 00:34:35,377 [♪] 935 00:34:37,684 --> 00:34:39,642 - Hey! - Hi, welcome to Jemma. 936 00:34:39,860 --> 00:34:41,557 - Feed me, what's that say? - Feed me pasta 937 00:34:41,775 --> 00:34:43,081 - and tell me I'm pretty. - Oh, yes. 938 00:34:43,255 --> 00:34:44,604 - We'd love that. - That's our slogan. 939 00:34:44,821 --> 00:34:46,997 - Right this way. - Thank you. 940 00:34:47,172 --> 00:34:48,781 Fabulous. 941 00:34:48,782 --> 00:34:50,610 Can I get you started with some still or sparkling water? 942 00:34:50,827 --> 00:34:53,917 - Still would be great. - Sounds good. 943 00:34:54,092 --> 00:34:55,093 Hi, how are you? 944 00:34:55,310 --> 00:34:56,790 Oh, hey, honey. How are you? 945 00:34:57,007 --> 00:34:57,878 I am good. 946 00:34:58,096 --> 00:34:59,661 Good, good. 947 00:34:59,662 --> 00:35:01,229 Can I get you started with something to drink over here? 948 00:35:01,447 --> 00:35:03,057 - Can I have an iced tea? - Yeah, absolutely. 949 00:35:03,231 --> 00:35:05,103 - I'll have an Arnold Palmer. - You got it. 950 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,105 I met Amanda at Jennifer Tilly's party. 951 00:35:07,279 --> 00:35:08,802 Who's jacket is that, by the way? 952 00:35:09,019 --> 00:35:09,758 This is Balmain. 953 00:35:09,759 --> 00:35:11,369 This is Balmain also. 954 00:35:11,370 --> 00:35:13,328 I would knock you down and put you in that pool out there, 955 00:35:13,546 --> 00:35:15,155 then take the jacket and go. 956 00:35:15,156 --> 00:35:16,853 Thank you. I'm taking both those things as a compliment. 957 00:35:17,071 --> 00:35:19,073 She seems interesting. She's a businesswoman. 958 00:35:19,247 --> 00:35:22,424 She's getting married. So, I want to get to know her better. 959 00:35:22,642 --> 00:35:25,993 Did you ever start in, like, the corporate space? 960 00:35:26,167 --> 00:35:28,691 No. I have no formal business experience at all. 961 00:35:28,909 --> 00:35:30,128 Really? You've always been an entrepreneur. 962 00:35:30,345 --> 00:35:31,824 I have a Master's in counselling. 963 00:35:31,825 --> 00:35:33,392 I don't know that I had this language at the time, 964 00:35:33,609 --> 00:35:35,742 but I was like, let's make this a personal development brand. 965 00:35:35,959 --> 00:35:37,046 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 966 00:35:37,047 --> 00:35:38,439 Like, what do I want to be about? 967 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:39,615 So, I started putting out really good content online 968 00:35:39,833 --> 00:35:41,138 every day. 969 00:35:41,139 --> 00:35:42,749 I started out as a therapist and life coach, 970 00:35:42,966 --> 00:35:44,445 and later a business coach. 971 00:35:44,446 --> 00:35:47,884 As my audience grew and I wanted to help more people, 972 00:35:48,102 --> 00:35:50,539 I began to create online courses to help people create 973 00:35:50,757 --> 00:35:53,977 both the professional and personal life of their dreams. 974 00:35:54,152 --> 00:35:55,413 Oh, interesting. 975 00:35:55,414 --> 00:35:56,937 So, then I created a digital course called 976 00:35:57,155 --> 00:35:57,894 Become a Life Coach. 977 00:35:58,112 --> 00:35:59,547 Oh. 978 00:35:59,548 --> 00:36:02,029 And then I found that I had a... a gift, a niche. 979 00:36:02,203 --> 00:36:03,291 Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. 980 00:36:03,509 --> 00:36:05,728 Around money. But not around... 981 00:36:05,946 --> 00:36:07,642 like, I'm not a financial planner. 982 00:36:07,643 --> 00:36:10,472 You know, around the energetic part of money, the mindset part, 983 00:36:10,690 --> 00:36:11,908 the psychology around it. 984 00:36:12,126 --> 00:36:13,954 Right. 985 00:36:14,172 --> 00:36:17,262 Most people who teach on money focus on the practical aspects 986 00:36:17,479 --> 00:36:19,177 of money exclusively. 987 00:36:19,351 --> 00:36:21,918 I think the practical aspects are really important, 988 00:36:22,136 --> 00:36:24,486 but I think the foundation is our relationship with money, 989 00:36:24,704 --> 00:36:27,402 which involves the psychological, the emotional, 990 00:36:27,620 --> 00:36:28,837 and the energetic. 991 00:36:28,838 --> 00:36:30,753 That's really what I became known for. 992 00:36:30,971 --> 00:36:32,493 That's what I wrote my book on. 993 00:36:32,494 --> 00:36:33,713 I have a best-selling book called "Rich as [bleep]". 994 00:36:33,930 --> 00:36:35,279 Oh, yes. 995 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:36,411 So then I became known as the "Money Queen". 996 00:36:36,629 --> 00:36:37,933 Yes. 997 00:36:37,934 --> 00:36:39,197 But I create courses on all kinds of things. 998 00:36:39,371 --> 00:36:40,937 Well, hello, miss fabulous. 999 00:36:41,155 --> 00:36:42,200 - Hello. - Hi. 1000 00:36:42,374 --> 00:36:44,158 Hi, baby. Mwah. Love you. 1001 00:36:44,332 --> 00:36:45,680 You are just so gorgeous. 1002 00:36:45,681 --> 00:36:47,205 - Hello beautiful. - Hi, so good to see you. 1003 00:36:47,379 --> 00:36:48,248 Good to see you too. 1004 00:36:48,249 --> 00:36:49,250 Here, I'll take your bag. 1005 00:36:49,468 --> 00:36:50,468 Thank you, thank you, thank you. 1006 00:36:50,469 --> 00:36:51,948 Uh, I'll take her bag. [laughs] 1007 00:36:52,166 --> 00:36:53,211 That's not what I meant, Dorit. 1008 00:36:53,385 --> 00:36:54,950 I'll take her bag. 1009 00:36:54,951 --> 00:36:56,649 So, I've been thinking about you a lot since the party. 1010 00:36:56,866 --> 00:36:58,694 I really have. Sending you love and good vibes every day, 1011 00:36:58,912 --> 00:36:59,869 and praying you're getting some sleep. 1012 00:37:00,087 --> 00:37:01,740 Oh, Amanda. 1013 00:37:01,741 --> 00:37:03,656 I really have. I have. Every day you've been on my mind. Yeah. 1014 00:37:03,873 --> 00:37:04,831 That's really very sweet. 1015 00:37:05,048 --> 00:37:06,397 No, I mean it. 1016 00:37:06,398 --> 00:37:07,964 My first impression of Amanda, to be honest, 1017 00:37:08,182 --> 00:37:09,444 I didn't know what to make of her. 1018 00:37:09,662 --> 00:37:10,880 Really lovely meeting you. 1019 00:37:11,098 --> 00:37:14,319 For both of us. [indistinct] 1020 00:37:14,536 --> 00:37:17,365 But now, during her, saying how she was thinking about me 1021 00:37:17,583 --> 00:37:19,367 all weekend and prayed for me, 1022 00:37:19,585 --> 00:37:23,502 it's incredibly kind and sweet and caring. 1023 00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:25,895 The French fries, cause that's the most important thing. 1024 00:37:26,113 --> 00:37:27,114 - Yes, it is. - Absolutely. 1025 00:37:27,288 --> 00:37:28,593 Let's do the kale salad. 1026 00:37:28,594 --> 00:37:30,422 It looks like this calamari's gluten free? 1027 00:37:30,639 --> 00:37:32,292 Calamari is gluten free. 1028 00:37:32,293 --> 00:37:33,555 Well, that never happens. I haven't had calamari in years. 1029 00:37:33,773 --> 00:37:35,165 - I mean. - So, you have to. 1030 00:37:35,340 --> 00:37:36,470 Yeah, so I have to do that. 1031 00:37:36,471 --> 00:37:38,125 Yeah, awesome. I'll get that started. 1032 00:37:38,299 --> 00:37:40,170 My... what do I say? My husband? My ex-husband? 1033 00:37:40,345 --> 00:37:41,346 I don't know what to say. 1034 00:37:41,563 --> 00:37:42,390 I keep saying estranged. 1035 00:37:42,608 --> 00:37:43,999 Okay, yeah, no. 1036 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:45,349 Estranged husband. That's your official phrase. 1037 00:37:45,350 --> 00:37:47,221 But in any case, he's very much an alpha male, 1038 00:37:47,395 --> 00:37:48,613 a businessman. 1039 00:37:48,614 --> 00:37:51,312 He built a very big business in the UK. 1040 00:37:51,530 --> 00:37:54,489 And when the world tilted on an axis in 2008... 1041 00:37:54,707 --> 00:37:55,490 Hmm. 1042 00:37:55,708 --> 00:37:57,623 ...he lost his business. 1043 00:37:57,840 --> 00:37:59,668 When PK and I married, we did not have a prenup. 1044 00:37:59,886 --> 00:38:02,715 PK came into the relationship broke. 1045 00:38:02,932 --> 00:38:04,193 He had lost his business, 1046 00:38:04,194 --> 00:38:06,327 and he was really starting from scratch. 1047 00:38:06,545 --> 00:38:08,677 So, there was nothing to protect. 1048 00:38:08,895 --> 00:38:12,464 And when we got married, the finances, 1049 00:38:12,681 --> 00:38:14,901 he really was handling everything. 1050 00:38:15,118 --> 00:38:16,772 And you'd kind of delegated it out of your mind. 1051 00:38:16,990 --> 00:38:18,425 Yes. 1052 00:38:18,426 --> 00:38:19,558 You weren't thinking about how the finances were? 1053 00:38:20,036 --> 00:38:21,603 No. We had a business manager. 1054 00:38:21,821 --> 00:38:24,214 I filed for divorce a couple of months ago. 1055 00:38:24,389 --> 00:38:25,738 There wasn't, like, the handoff. 1056 00:38:25,955 --> 00:38:28,306 There wasn't, like, an agreement. 1057 00:38:28,523 --> 00:38:30,176 There was nothing. 1058 00:38:30,177 --> 00:38:34,312 I just would find out that he's not going to pay this anymore. 1059 00:38:43,233 --> 00:38:45,323 [♪] 1060 00:38:45,540 --> 00:38:47,716 I filed for divorce a couple of months ago. 1061 00:38:47,934 --> 00:38:49,327 There wasn't, like, a handoff. 1062 00:38:49,501 --> 00:38:51,894 There wasn't, like, an agreement. 1063 00:38:52,112 --> 00:38:54,157 - There was nothing. - Mm-hmm. 1064 00:38:54,332 --> 00:38:59,380 I just would find out that he's not going to pay this anymore. 1065 00:38:59,598 --> 00:39:01,121 So, wait, wait, wait, so you're living in the house. 1066 00:39:01,339 --> 00:39:02,208 Yes. 1067 00:39:02,209 --> 00:39:03,775 - The family home. - Yes. 1068 00:39:03,776 --> 00:39:05,517 And he's trying to not pay the mortgage? Like, for example. 1069 00:39:05,734 --> 00:39:07,345 He's currently paying the mortgage. 1070 00:39:07,562 --> 00:39:09,434 AMANDA: He's just randomly deciding you're on your own. 1071 00:39:09,651 --> 00:39:11,174 DORIT: Absolutely. He's thinking, 1072 00:39:11,349 --> 00:39:13,481 she's making X... No. 1073 00:39:14,830 --> 00:39:18,138 For the last 14 years, PK's been paying the lion's share 1074 00:39:18,356 --> 00:39:19,313 of our family outgoings. 1075 00:39:19,487 --> 00:39:20,879 When we separated, 1076 00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:22,534 he said that the finances would stay the same. 1077 00:39:22,751 --> 00:39:27,277 She's now having more financial responsibility than in the past. 1078 00:39:27,452 --> 00:39:28,714 But not- but right, 1079 00:39:28,931 --> 00:39:30,368 but it hasn't been mutually decided upon. 1080 00:39:30,542 --> 00:39:32,064 No. 1081 00:39:32,065 --> 00:39:33,588 A month later, I got an email saying that he decided 1082 00:39:33,806 --> 00:39:35,547 he's no longer going to do that. 1083 00:39:35,764 --> 00:39:38,201 And I was like, how can you change this all of a sudden? 1084 00:39:38,376 --> 00:39:41,466 And his answer was, "I only agreed to that for one month." 1085 00:39:43,598 --> 00:39:46,253 For you to have a fair position in mediation, 1086 00:39:46,427 --> 00:39:47,732 you have to know what you're working with. 1087 00:39:47,733 --> 00:39:49,211 Do you know about your retirement accounts? 1088 00:39:49,212 --> 00:39:53,695 No retirements accounts exist, as far as I'm concerned. 1089 00:39:53,913 --> 00:39:55,654 And no, money's not invested? 1090 00:39:55,871 --> 00:39:58,352 I have yet to discover everything. 1091 00:39:58,526 --> 00:40:02,225 And I can tell you, I'm in the unknown. 1092 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:05,881 When Peter died, I was left with the financial responsibility 1093 00:40:06,099 --> 00:40:07,927 of raising Lael. On my own. 1094 00:40:08,144 --> 00:40:09,668 Dorit is in a similar position. 1095 00:40:09,885 --> 00:40:11,974 She needs to understand where the money is. 1096 00:40:12,192 --> 00:40:14,194 I'm hoping, I'm praying, that there's been money invested. 1097 00:40:14,412 --> 00:40:16,457 Like, these are things that people live off of. 1098 00:40:16,675 --> 00:40:18,590 How do you get here? 1099 00:40:18,807 --> 00:40:21,549 Like you have to turn a blind eye to your bank accounts 1100 00:40:21,767 --> 00:40:25,466 for a long time to be in a state where you have no idea 1101 00:40:25,684 --> 00:40:26,989 if you have retirement. 1102 00:40:27,207 --> 00:40:28,948 I mean this is, like, basic information. 1103 00:40:29,165 --> 00:40:31,777 Every woman should know about their financial reality. 1104 00:40:31,994 --> 00:40:34,519 My husband's a complex person. 1105 00:40:34,736 --> 00:40:35,823 Uh-huh. 1106 00:40:35,824 --> 00:40:37,304 He's complex. He's not a bad guy, 1107 00:40:37,478 --> 00:40:40,263 like a terrible, bad guy, vicious. 1108 00:40:40,438 --> 00:40:43,179 Does he have some bad behavior? Absolutely. 1109 00:40:43,397 --> 00:40:46,269 And then, you throw drinking into the mix, 1110 00:40:46,444 --> 00:40:48,707 and that, for someone of his character, 1111 00:40:48,924 --> 00:40:51,579 it gets even more complicated. - Right. 1112 00:40:51,797 --> 00:40:56,236 Not only that, but my name is on everything. 1113 00:40:56,454 --> 00:40:58,543 When I found out our house was in pre-foreclosure, 1114 00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:00,588 I wasn't just worried about losing the house. 1115 00:41:00,806 --> 00:41:02,372 The house is in my name. 1116 00:41:02,547 --> 00:41:04,940 So, if PK stops paying for something, 1117 00:41:05,158 --> 00:41:06,855 or doesn't make payments, 1118 00:41:07,073 --> 00:41:10,250 it's me that suffers the consequences. 1119 00:41:10,468 --> 00:41:11,511 I can't do anything right now. 1120 00:41:11,512 --> 00:41:13,034 My hands are tied behind my back. 1121 00:41:13,035 --> 00:41:14,907 So, you need the clean break so you can start building 1122 00:41:15,124 --> 00:41:16,125 everything back up. 1123 00:41:16,343 --> 00:41:17,430 Exactly. 1124 00:41:17,431 --> 00:41:19,607 What can Dorit do, like proactively, 1125 00:41:19,825 --> 00:41:22,088 knowing like, all of these unknowns? 1126 00:41:22,305 --> 00:41:24,482 Is there anything that she can proactively do 1127 00:41:24,656 --> 00:41:27,789 to protect herself? Or to like, help the situation? 1128 00:41:28,007 --> 00:41:29,661 I think you have to decide what you want, 1129 00:41:29,878 --> 00:41:31,750 what you're creating, and like, who you're gonna be. 1130 00:41:31,967 --> 00:41:33,273 Like, I know that's like, a big, overarching question, 1131 00:41:33,491 --> 00:41:34,883 but who do you want to be as a provider? 1132 00:41:35,101 --> 00:41:36,885 Who do you want to be as a woman who earns? 1133 00:41:37,103 --> 00:41:39,018 Who do you want to be as a woman whose husband screwed her 1134 00:41:39,235 --> 00:41:40,671 and now she has to fill in the gaps? 1135 00:41:40,672 --> 00:41:42,500 Like, who are you gonna be no matter what he does? 1136 00:41:42,674 --> 00:41:43,848 - Know what I'm saying? - Totally. 1137 00:41:43,849 --> 00:41:45,111 Cause you have to keep your mind right 1138 00:41:45,328 --> 00:41:46,504 to go through this battle with this man. 1139 00:41:46,721 --> 00:41:48,113 Oh yes. 1140 00:41:48,114 --> 00:41:50,203 What is this frou-frou mess we talkin' about? 1141 00:41:50,420 --> 00:41:53,380 I was looking for one plus one equals two. 1142 00:41:53,554 --> 00:41:56,731 Intentions? What kind of provider does she wanna be? 1143 00:41:56,949 --> 00:41:58,037 What does that even mean? 1144 00:41:58,254 --> 00:42:00,213 This is not financial advice. 1145 00:42:00,430 --> 00:42:02,868 Mm-mm, the math ain't mathin'. 1146 00:42:03,085 --> 00:42:05,261 The road we're going, there are no winners. 1147 00:42:05,479 --> 00:42:09,657 It is going to get very, very ugly. 1148 00:42:12,704 --> 00:42:16,359 Next on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. 1149 00:42:16,534 --> 00:42:19,580 Erika said "Boring!" I got her in that moment. 1150 00:42:19,798 --> 00:42:22,409 Don't think for two seconds that you got her in that moment. 1151 00:42:24,454 --> 00:42:26,674 Se-do-na! Here we come! 1152 00:42:26,892 --> 00:42:28,284 Let's go, baby! 1153 00:42:28,502 --> 00:42:30,417 This is hot girl summer, Rachel. See? 1154 00:42:30,591 --> 00:42:32,419 - I don't have my luggage. - What? 1155 00:42:32,593 --> 00:42:34,508 Not the fashionista with no clothes? 1156 00:42:34,682 --> 00:42:37,946 Did you see the picture of Erika in the tabloids with that guy? 1157 00:42:38,164 --> 00:42:40,035 Did he approach you? 1158 00:42:40,253 --> 00:42:41,994 Ooh!