1 00:00:00,099 --> 00:00:01,660 {\an7}- ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:01,660 --> 00:00:04,099 {\an7}\h\h\h\hPreviously on "Teen Mom 2"... 3 00:00:04,099 --> 00:00:06,198 {\an7}- What have you built \h\hfor this family? 4 00:00:06,198 --> 00:00:09,066 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- I can say I plan to put my best foot forward 5 00:00:09,066 --> 00:00:13,099 {\an7}\h\h\h\hto make us...uh, co-inhabiting this house 6 00:00:13,099 --> 00:00:14,066 {\an7}as smooth as possible. 7 00:00:14,066 --> 00:00:15,066 {\an7}- What’s up with you and Bar? 8 00:00:15,066 --> 00:00:16,165 {\an7}- I don’t know. What the hell? 9 00:00:16,165 --> 00:00:18,066 {\an7}I feel like I’m being \h\h\h\hinterrogated. 10 00:00:18,066 --> 00:00:19,759 {\an7}People are married \h\h\hin real life 11 00:00:19,759 --> 00:00:21,561 {\an7}trying to work it out \h\h\h\hin real life, 12 00:00:21,561 --> 00:00:22,726 {\an7}so I say give me time. 13 00:00:22,726 --> 00:00:23,693 {\an7}Give me the [bleep] time. 14 00:00:23,693 --> 00:00:26,495 {\an7}- Hold on, Ashley. Hold on. \h\h- Ashley, [indistinct]. 15 00:00:26,495 --> 00:00:28,165 {\an7}- No, I’m done. 16 00:00:32,033 --> 00:00:34,330 {\an7}- When me and Dad got pulled \h\h\h\hover three years ago, 17 00:00:34,330 --> 00:00:36,726 {\an7}\h\h\h\hhe had weed in there, and they charged me with it, 18 00:00:36,726 --> 00:00:39,297 {\an7}so I have to go to jail \h\h\h\h\hfor 45 days. 19 00:00:39,297 --> 00:00:40,528 {\an7}They continued it. 20 00:00:40,528 --> 00:00:41,627 {\an7}I didn’t go to jail. 21 00:00:41,627 --> 00:00:43,660 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Well, I guess that’s great for you then. 22 00:00:43,660 --> 00:00:46,330 {\an7}- Can I come see you \h\hand Kloie later? 23 00:00:46,330 --> 00:00:48,033 {\an7}- Um, not today. 24 00:00:48,033 --> 00:00:49,693 {\an7}I didn’t really care. 25 00:00:49,693 --> 00:00:50,660 {\an7}I guess good for her. 26 00:00:50,660 --> 00:00:53,099 {\an7}\hThat just means they’re continuing the court date 27 00:00:53,099 --> 00:00:54,495 {\an7}\h\ha little later, so it doesn’t mean 28 00:00:54,495 --> 00:00:56,462 {\an7}she’s out of anything. 29 00:00:56,462 --> 00:00:59,330 {\an7}- Open up all the way. 30 00:00:59,330 --> 00:01:00,594 {\an7}- Come look. 31 00:01:00,594 --> 00:01:01,462 {\an7}Your dad’s here. 32 00:01:01,462 --> 00:01:04,165 {\an7}- Your dad wants to take you. 33 00:01:05,363 --> 00:01:06,627 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I think that hurt his feelings 34 00:01:06,627 --> 00:01:08,363 {\an7}and he just didn’t show. 35 00:01:08,363 --> 00:01:09,759 {\an7}He disappointed her. 36 00:01:09,759 --> 00:01:11,165 {\an7}- Just telling you about \h\hmy kids, that’s all. 37 00:01:11,165 --> 00:01:12,561 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hI love ’em. - When that time comes, 38 00:01:12,561 --> 00:01:13,693 {\an7}I’m really excited \h\h\hto meet them. 39 00:01:13,693 --> 00:01:16,561 {\an7}- I’d like to go to Costa Rica \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand see Royer. 40 00:01:16,561 --> 00:01:18,066 {\an7}I’d like for you to go. 41 00:01:18,066 --> 00:01:19,198 {\an7}Cai will be two. 42 00:01:19,198 --> 00:01:20,528 {\an7}And he’s never seen his dad. 43 00:01:20,528 --> 00:01:21,594 {\an7}- Do you wanna go \hto Costa Rica? 44 00:01:21,594 --> 00:01:22,693 {\an7}- I would love to go. \h\h\h\h\h\h\hI mean, 45 00:01:22,693 --> 00:01:24,132 {\an7}this would be a good time \h\h\h\h\hfor me to kinda 46 00:01:24,132 --> 00:01:25,528 {\an7}\hprove to you that I’m ready 47 00:01:25,528 --> 00:01:26,627 {\an7}to be in a relationship \h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith you. 48 00:01:26,627 --> 00:01:28,528 {\an7}- Vee and I started \h\h\ha new podcast 49 00:01:28,528 --> 00:01:29,759 {\an7}called "Baby Mamas, No Drama." 50 00:01:29,759 --> 00:01:31,825 {\an7}I’m gonna let you introduce, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hum... 51 00:01:31,825 --> 00:01:33,693 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Our guest? - Yeah, our guest today. 52 00:01:33,693 --> 00:01:35,132 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Of course, it had to be my hubby. 53 00:01:35,132 --> 00:01:38,462 {\an7}\h- I’m excited to see you guys taking a new journey together. 54 00:01:38,462 --> 00:01:40,726 {\an7}\h- How you feel about the podcast we just did 55 00:01:40,726 --> 00:01:41,429 {\an7}with, uh, Briana? 56 00:01:41,429 --> 00:01:42,792 {\an7}- Kail’s not gonna like it \h\h\h\h\h\h\hoff the fact 57 00:01:42,792 --> 00:01:44,363 {\an7}that it’s just Briana. 58 00:01:44,363 --> 00:01:45,264 {\an7}That’s it. 59 00:01:45,264 --> 00:01:48,297 {\an7}[tense music] 60 00:01:48,297 --> 00:01:51,264 {\an7}♪ ♪ 61 00:01:51,264 --> 00:01:54,396 {\an7}[upbeat rock music] 62 00:01:54,396 --> 00:02:01,891 {\an7}♪ ♪ 63 00:02:07,594 --> 00:02:09,891 {\an7}- ♪ Shame I’m feeling myself ♪ 64 00:02:09,891 --> 00:02:11,165 {\an7}♪ Oh, yeah ♪ 65 00:02:11,165 --> 00:02:15,132 {\an7}- I spent a week in Costa Rica \h\hwith my sister and Jaylan. 66 00:02:15,132 --> 00:02:16,000 {\an7}We had an amazing time. 67 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,528 {\an7}Royer got to meet their son \h\h\h\hfor the first time, 68 00:02:18,528 --> 00:02:22,165 {\an7}and he and my sister \h\h\h\hgot engaged. 69 00:02:22,165 --> 00:02:24,231 {\an7}- Aw. 70 00:02:24,231 --> 00:02:25,099 {\an7}[camera shutter clicks] 71 00:02:25,099 --> 00:02:26,594 {\an7}- I got to know Jaylan better 72 00:02:26,594 --> 00:02:27,627 {\an7}while we were there. 73 00:02:27,627 --> 00:02:28,495 {\an7}And on a date night, 74 00:02:28,495 --> 00:02:30,594 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hhe asked me to be his girlfriend. 75 00:02:30,594 --> 00:02:31,726 {\an7}So we’re official now. 76 00:02:31,726 --> 00:02:32,594 {\an7}[soft music] 77 00:02:32,594 --> 00:02:35,561 {\an7}I just got home and Jaylan \h\hflew back to Georgia. 78 00:02:35,561 --> 00:02:37,198 {\an7}The girls spent the week \h\h\h\hat their dad’s, 79 00:02:37,198 --> 00:02:38,858 {\an7}but they’re here now \h\h\hwith a sitter, 80 00:02:38,858 --> 00:02:40,792 {\an7}and I can’t wait to see them. 81 00:02:40,792 --> 00:02:41,759 {\an7}Boo! 82 00:02:41,759 --> 00:02:44,297 {\an7}\h\h\h\hBoo! [dog barking] 83 00:02:44,297 --> 00:02:45,132 {\an7}- Got you roses. 84 00:02:45,132 --> 00:02:46,825 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Who did? - Lucky missed you too. 85 00:02:46,825 --> 00:02:48,231 {\an7}- Jay. - Jay? 86 00:02:48,231 --> 00:02:50,198 {\an7}Jaylan got me roses? 87 00:02:50,198 --> 00:02:51,429 {\an7}What? 88 00:02:51,429 --> 00:02:52,594 {\an7}\h\h\hWhat? - Hey, Mom. 89 00:02:52,594 --> 00:02:55,231 {\an7}♪ ♪ 90 00:02:55,231 --> 00:02:56,627 {\an7}- Hi, Lucky man. 91 00:02:56,627 --> 00:02:57,660 {\an7}Hi, Lucky man. 92 00:02:57,660 --> 00:03:00,528 {\an7}\h\h\hHow are you? Did you miss mama? 93 00:03:00,528 --> 00:03:01,858 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Sit. - What? [gasps] 94 00:03:01,858 --> 00:03:03,429 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Sit. - You still have your mask on. 95 00:03:03,429 --> 00:03:05,792 {\an7}You’ve been in the car. \h\h\h\h\h- No, I know. 96 00:03:05,792 --> 00:03:07,594 {\an7}\h[groans] - [squeals] 97 00:03:07,594 --> 00:03:09,297 {\an7}- What are you doing? \h- He scratched me. 98 00:03:09,297 --> 00:03:11,198 {\an7}- Ooh, I see some As in here. 99 00:03:11,198 --> 00:03:13,759 {\an7}Okay, so how much did you guys \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hmiss me though? 100 00:03:13,759 --> 00:03:15,594 {\an7}- A lot. - A lot? 101 00:03:15,594 --> 00:03:20,396 {\an7}♪ ♪ 102 00:03:20,396 --> 00:03:23,561 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[barking] Lucky, no, no, no, no, no. 103 00:03:23,561 --> 00:03:24,330 {\an7}Come in! 104 00:03:24,330 --> 00:03:26,792 {\an7}Lucky, come. - Hey, Lucky. 105 00:03:26,792 --> 00:03:27,693 {\an7}- I’m in here. 106 00:03:27,693 --> 00:03:29,297 {\an7}- Hey. \h- Hi. 107 00:03:29,297 --> 00:03:31,297 {\an7}- Whatcha doing? \h- Oh, you know. 108 00:03:31,297 --> 00:03:32,858 {\an7}I just came back from Costa Rica. 109 00:03:32,858 --> 00:03:35,528 {\an7}- How was it though? \h\h- It was amazing. 110 00:03:35,528 --> 00:03:37,396 {\an7}So I invited Jaylan to go \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith me. 111 00:03:37,396 --> 00:03:41,693 {\an7}And I think it allowed us to... \h\h\h\h\h\hkind of get closer 112 00:03:41,693 --> 00:03:44,264 {\an7}and get to know each other \h\h\h\h\h\ha little better 113 00:03:44,264 --> 00:03:45,396 {\an7}than maybe we did. 114 00:03:45,396 --> 00:03:46,231 {\an7}\h- Yeah. - Before. 115 00:03:46,231 --> 00:03:48,792 {\an7}He ended up taking me to this, \h\h\h\hlike, candlelit dinner. 116 00:03:48,792 --> 00:03:52,330 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Stop. - I [bleep] you not. 117 00:03:52,330 --> 00:03:54,396 {\an7}I think this dude’s the devil. 118 00:03:54,396 --> 00:03:56,264 {\an7}- [laughs] 119 00:03:56,264 --> 00:03:58,297 {\an7}Why, because he’s so perfect? 120 00:03:58,297 --> 00:03:59,660 {\an7}- He asked me to be exclusive. 121 00:03:59,660 --> 00:04:00,759 {\an7}- And you said... 122 00:04:00,759 --> 00:04:01,594 {\an7}- And I said hell no. 123 00:04:01,594 --> 00:04:02,660 {\an7}- No, you didn’t. - No, I’m joking. 124 00:04:02,660 --> 00:04:04,858 {\an7}I’m joking, I’m joking, I’m joking, I’m joking. 125 00:04:04,858 --> 00:04:06,891 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI did. I was like, oh, my God. 126 00:04:06,891 --> 00:04:09,297 {\an7}- Like, I’m happy for you. 127 00:04:09,297 --> 00:04:10,495 {\an7}\h\hReally. - [laughs] 128 00:04:10,495 --> 00:04:11,858 {\an7}- [laughing] \hSeriously. 129 00:04:11,858 --> 00:04:13,462 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I know. - Like, he literally came 130 00:04:13,462 --> 00:04:14,825 {\an7}\houtta nowhere. - A little--yeah. 131 00:04:14,825 --> 00:04:16,495 {\an7}He gives me butterflies \h\h\h\h\ha little bit, 132 00:04:16,495 --> 00:04:17,330 {\an7}but I’m like, all right. 133 00:04:17,330 --> 00:04:18,528 {\an7}- So did Jaylan go back \h\h\h\h\h\hto Georgia? 134 00:04:18,528 --> 00:04:19,726 {\an7}\h\h- Yeah, he did. - How’s that going? 135 00:04:19,726 --> 00:04:21,462 {\an7}\h\h\h- He had some work stuff. I mean, it’ll be long-distance 136 00:04:21,462 --> 00:04:23,693 {\an7}\h\h\hfor a little while, but he’s coming to visit 137 00:04:23,693 --> 00:04:24,462 {\an7}later this week. 138 00:04:24,462 --> 00:04:25,528 {\an7}- Has he met the girls yet? 139 00:04:25,528 --> 00:04:27,561 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Not yet. He’s excited and nervous 140 00:04:27,561 --> 00:04:28,627 {\an7}about meeting them. \h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. 141 00:04:28,627 --> 00:04:30,891 {\an7}\h\h- It’s so clear that he loves kids. 142 00:04:30,891 --> 00:04:32,330 {\an7}And I think the girls \h\h\hwill love him. 143 00:04:32,330 --> 00:04:34,495 {\an7}I think that’s what scares me \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe most. 144 00:04:34,495 --> 00:04:36,429 {\an7}Is because... 145 00:04:36,429 --> 00:04:38,627 {\an7}I like him so much. 146 00:04:38,627 --> 00:04:39,363 {\an7}And I see, like, 147 00:04:39,363 --> 00:04:42,858 {\an7}how and where my kids are \hgonna like him so much. 148 00:04:42,858 --> 00:04:43,726 {\an7}- Yeah. 149 00:04:43,726 --> 00:04:46,264 {\an7}[soft music] 150 00:04:46,264 --> 00:04:47,726 {\an7}[upbeat music] 151 00:04:47,726 --> 00:04:50,297 {\an7}- My sister and I were in San Diego 152 00:04:50,297 --> 00:04:51,198 {\an7}for the last two weeks 153 00:04:51,198 --> 00:04:53,264 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hfilming "Teen Mom: Family Reunion," 154 00:04:53,264 --> 00:04:56,330 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand tonight we’re finally coming home. 155 00:04:56,330 --> 00:04:57,165 {\an7}- Listen. \h- Uh... 156 00:04:57,165 --> 00:04:59,495 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Listen to me, the faster we pack your snacks 157 00:04:59,495 --> 00:05:01,792 {\an7}for tonight--for tomorrow-- \h\h\h- It’s [indistinct]. 158 00:05:01,792 --> 00:05:02,462 {\an7}- No. 159 00:05:02,462 --> 00:05:03,792 {\an7}The faster--and you go to bed, 160 00:05:03,792 --> 00:05:06,033 {\an7}the faster you see your mom. 161 00:05:06,033 --> 00:05:08,924 {\an7}- [talking indistinctly] 162 00:05:08,924 --> 00:05:10,396 {\an7}♪ ♪ 163 00:05:10,396 --> 00:05:11,528 {\an7}[barking] - [gasps] 164 00:05:11,528 --> 00:05:15,429 {\an7}\h[screaming] They’re home! 165 00:05:16,594 --> 00:05:17,660 {\an7}- Hi, girls. 166 00:05:17,660 --> 00:05:18,792 {\an7}- We missed you guys. 167 00:05:18,792 --> 00:05:20,825 {\an7}- What? No way! 168 00:05:20,825 --> 00:05:24,000 {\an7}Oh, my God, your mom is here! 169 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:25,066 {\an7}- I missed you, girl. 170 00:05:25,066 --> 00:05:27,957 {\an7}- I think I’m more excited \h\h\h\h\h\hthan the girls. 171 00:05:27,957 --> 00:05:30,594 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hOh, I’m happy you guys are home. 172 00:05:30,594 --> 00:05:37,594 {\an7}♪ ♪ 173 00:05:38,792 --> 00:05:40,594 {\an7}- So how was San Diego? 174 00:05:40,594 --> 00:05:42,495 {\an7}- San Diego was cool. \h\hIt was--it was-- 175 00:05:42,495 --> 00:05:43,594 {\an7}it was nice out there. 176 00:05:43,594 --> 00:05:44,957 {\an7}Nice and relaxing. 177 00:05:44,957 --> 00:05:47,726 {\an7}\hCome on, take your time. Take your time. Line it up. 178 00:05:47,726 --> 00:05:49,396 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hBut yeah, it was a good time out there. 179 00:05:49,396 --> 00:05:51,792 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYou know, got a lot of time to, you know, 180 00:05:51,792 --> 00:05:53,858 {\an7}really get to... 181 00:05:53,858 --> 00:05:55,858 {\an7}like show Bri what the hell’s \h\h\h\h\h\hgoing on with me. 182 00:05:55,858 --> 00:05:57,528 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Bri, would I be accurate to say 183 00:05:57,528 --> 00:06:00,891 {\an7}\hthat you do not trust him to say he’s gonna show up? 184 00:06:00,891 --> 00:06:01,858 {\an7}- Not always. 185 00:06:01,858 --> 00:06:03,660 {\an7}- I just want you to know, 186 00:06:03,660 --> 00:06:05,066 {\an7}\h\h\h[sighs] I love Nova. 187 00:06:05,066 --> 00:06:07,429 {\an7}\h- I know. - [sniffs] 188 00:06:07,429 --> 00:06:08,693 {\an7}Always. 189 00:06:08,693 --> 00:06:11,000 {\an7}- I know. 190 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:12,759 {\an7}- And I mean, like, \hI’m definitely-- 191 00:06:12,759 --> 00:06:16,066 {\an7}can do a lot for more-- a lot more for her now. 192 00:06:16,066 --> 00:06:18,594 {\an7}- Is that a commitment? 193 00:06:18,594 --> 00:06:20,858 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hHm? - It’s a promise. 194 00:06:20,858 --> 00:06:22,594 {\an7}- How was the--the talk? 195 00:06:22,594 --> 00:06:23,627 {\an7}- It was cool. \hWe usually-- 196 00:06:23,627 --> 00:06:25,462 {\an7}whenever we sit down and forced \h\h\h\hto talk to teach other, 197 00:06:25,462 --> 00:06:26,858 {\an7}it’s an argument on the couch. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm. 198 00:06:26,858 --> 00:06:28,858 {\an7}- You don’t know what size \h\h\h\h\hshoes she wears. 199 00:06:28,858 --> 00:06:29,891 {\an7}You don’t know her diaper. 200 00:06:29,891 --> 00:06:30,891 {\an7}You don’t know [bleep]. 201 00:06:30,891 --> 00:06:32,099 {\an7}- Is this the Briana show \h\h\h\h\hor can I talk? 202 00:06:32,099 --> 00:06:34,693 {\an7}- No, you don’t need to talk. \h- Is it the Briana show--? 203 00:06:34,693 --> 00:06:36,396 {\an7}- ’Cause your actions show \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hit all. 204 00:06:36,396 --> 00:06:38,693 {\an7}- How many birthday parties have you gone to for Nova? 205 00:06:38,693 --> 00:06:40,792 {\an7}\h\h\h- Told me don’t come, not that I wasn’t invited. 206 00:06:40,792 --> 00:06:42,099 {\an7}- Get the [bleep] outta here. 207 00:06:42,099 --> 00:06:43,033 {\an7}You’re such a liar. 208 00:06:43,033 --> 00:06:45,033 {\an7}I feel like I’ma throw [bleep] \h\h\h\h\hat him at this point. 209 00:06:45,033 --> 00:06:46,462 {\an7}- Wrap it up then. \h- No, you’re not. 210 00:06:46,462 --> 00:06:49,165 {\an7}- You don’t do what you need \h\h\h\h\hto do as a father! 211 00:06:49,165 --> 00:06:52,066 {\an7}You do bare minimum. \h\h\h\hBare minimum. 212 00:06:52,066 --> 00:06:54,099 {\an7}- Hey, y’all let me know \h\h\h\hwhen I can talk. 213 00:06:54,099 --> 00:06:55,462 {\an7}- You’re not a real man. 214 00:06:55,462 --> 00:06:56,891 {\an7}- Let’s take a minute. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. 215 00:06:56,891 --> 00:06:58,462 {\an7}- Take the [bleep] mic off me, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hman. 216 00:06:58,462 --> 00:06:59,495 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Just-- - I’m outta here, man. 217 00:06:59,495 --> 00:07:03,198 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hAnd this time it actually wasn’t so... 218 00:07:03,198 --> 00:07:04,000 {\an7}goner. 219 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,099 {\an7}- So you said, you know, 220 00:07:05,099 --> 00:07:08,462 {\an7}you got to finally tell her, like, what you want from her 221 00:07:08,462 --> 00:07:10,627 {\an7}and what she expects from you. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm. 222 00:07:10,627 --> 00:07:13,825 {\an7}\h- What was, like, the basis of that? 223 00:07:13,825 --> 00:07:15,561 {\an7}What? 224 00:07:15,561 --> 00:07:16,429 {\an7}- Terrible. \h- Awful. 225 00:07:16,429 --> 00:07:18,726 {\an7}- I just need her to, you know what I mean, 226 00:07:18,726 --> 00:07:20,858 {\an7}see things from my perspective, \h\h\h\h\hyou know what I mean. 227 00:07:20,858 --> 00:07:23,000 {\an7}Not just always see [bleep] \h\h\h\h\h\hfrom her side. 228 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:24,231 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- For sure. - And as far as me, 229 00:07:24,231 --> 00:07:25,957 {\an7}\hshe just wants me to be more present. 230 00:07:25,957 --> 00:07:28,000 {\an7}\h- Day-to-day or-- - Day-to-day, yeah. 231 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:29,132 {\an7}More--more so day-to-day. 232 00:07:29,132 --> 00:07:32,924 {\an7}\hSo the one thing I understand is everyone’s raised different, 233 00:07:32,924 --> 00:07:33,858 {\an7}and that’s pretty important, 234 00:07:33,858 --> 00:07:35,000 {\an7}especially when it comes \h\h\h\hto co-parenting. 235 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,561 {\an7}\h\h- And when you don’t know somebody like that too, like. 236 00:07:37,561 --> 00:07:39,099 {\an7}\h- When we had the baby, I didn’t really know her. 237 00:07:39,099 --> 00:07:40,792 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - Not on that level at all. 238 00:07:40,792 --> 00:07:42,165 {\an7}Better late than never, \hyou know what I mean? 239 00:07:42,165 --> 00:07:44,231 {\an7}- Better late than never. \h\h\h\h\h\h- Absolutely. 240 00:07:44,231 --> 00:07:47,528 {\an7}- Yeah, in the future I hope \h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat this means 241 00:07:47,528 --> 00:07:49,132 {\an7}that we’ll all be closer. 242 00:07:49,132 --> 00:07:50,000 {\an7}\h\h- Right. - Everybody. 243 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,033 {\an7}- You know how that whole \h\h\h\hschedule [bleep] 244 00:07:52,033 --> 00:07:53,594 {\an7}with just pickup and drop. 245 00:07:53,594 --> 00:07:55,759 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hI don’t--I told her I don’t want give me a schedule 246 00:07:55,759 --> 00:07:57,066 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith her and then just out the blue 247 00:07:57,066 --> 00:07:58,957 {\an7}drop that [bleep]. \h\h\h\h- Oh, okay. 248 00:07:58,957 --> 00:07:59,759 {\an7}- I don’t need you. 249 00:07:59,759 --> 00:08:02,231 {\an7}I’m picking her up from \hgymnastics tomorrow. 250 00:08:02,231 --> 00:08:05,165 {\an7}\h\h\hI’ve been trying to plan a dinner with Briana and Nova. 251 00:08:05,165 --> 00:08:06,660 {\an7}\h\h\h- That’ll be fun. - You know what I mean. 252 00:08:06,660 --> 00:08:07,957 {\an7}Yeah, we never really sat down \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand-- 253 00:08:07,957 --> 00:08:09,858 {\an7}- The three of y’all, like. \h\h\h\h\h- Chopped it up, 254 00:08:09,858 --> 00:08:13,132 {\an7}just discussed things \h\has a civilized-- 255 00:08:13,132 --> 00:08:15,264 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Unit. - Pair of parents, you know? 256 00:08:15,264 --> 00:08:16,792 {\an7}- And this is--will be \h\h\h\hthe first time 257 00:08:16,792 --> 00:08:18,759 {\an7}that you guys do something \h\h\h\h\hlike that, right? 258 00:08:18,759 --> 00:08:19,660 {\an7}- Yeah, we’ve never-- 259 00:08:19,660 --> 00:08:22,297 {\an7}\hin Nova’s 10 years-- done nothing like this. 260 00:08:22,297 --> 00:08:23,594 {\an7}- She is gonna love that. 261 00:08:23,594 --> 00:08:26,858 {\an7}- You know what I mean, like, \h\h\h\h\h\h\hshould be cool. 262 00:08:26,858 --> 00:08:29,297 {\an7}- ♪ I’m gonna show you how \h\h\h\hto switch it up ♪ 263 00:08:29,297 --> 00:08:31,627 {\an7}♪ Ooh, gonna shake the world, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hooh ♪ 264 00:08:31,627 --> 00:08:34,660 {\an7}♪ With a billion colors, \h\h\h\h\h\h\hooh, ooh ♪ 265 00:08:34,660 --> 00:08:40,660 {\an7}♪ ♪ 266 00:08:40,660 --> 00:08:41,693 {\an7}\h- Hey. - Hello. 267 00:08:41,693 --> 00:08:44,000 {\an7}- Long time no see. - Long time no see. 268 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:45,726 {\an7}- Welcome back. \h\h- Welcome. 269 00:08:45,726 --> 00:08:46,693 {\an7}I’m--I’m nervous. 270 00:08:46,693 --> 00:08:48,264 {\an7}- You’re nervous? \h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. 271 00:08:48,264 --> 00:08:49,132 {\an7}- Uh, do you wanna chat? 272 00:08:49,132 --> 00:08:51,693 {\an7}- Yeah, let’s do it. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Cool. 273 00:08:52,957 --> 00:08:54,726 {\an7}So it’s been a little while, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hhuh? 274 00:08:54,726 --> 00:08:56,198 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - It’s been a couple months 275 00:08:56,198 --> 00:08:57,297 {\an7}since you filmed. 276 00:08:57,297 --> 00:08:58,132 {\an7}- Three months. 277 00:08:58,132 --> 00:09:00,792 {\an7}I just reached a point \h\h\h\h\h\hin my life 278 00:09:00,792 --> 00:09:03,858 {\an7}where I felt like things \h\h\hthat were occurring 279 00:09:03,858 --> 00:09:07,132 {\an7}didn’t align with the work I’ve been doing in therapy. 280 00:09:07,132 --> 00:09:09,594 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm. - And right around that time, 281 00:09:09,594 --> 00:09:11,660 {\an7}I found out about Chris, \h\h\h\h\h\h\hwhich is-- 282 00:09:11,660 --> 00:09:13,330 {\an7}I’m not saying one way \h\h\h\h\hor the other, 283 00:09:13,330 --> 00:09:14,759 {\an7}but I had no idea. 284 00:09:14,759 --> 00:09:15,726 {\an7}- How are you and Chris? 285 00:09:15,726 --> 00:09:17,231 {\an7}\h- At this point for co-parenting, 286 00:09:17,231 --> 00:09:19,000 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hwhen I text, I don’t get a response. 287 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:20,165 {\an7}So I’m done. 288 00:09:20,165 --> 00:09:20,792 {\an7}- Yeah. 289 00:09:20,792 --> 00:09:22,330 {\an7}\h\h\h\hSo right now, how are things going 290 00:09:22,330 --> 00:09:24,858 {\an7}\h\h\hwith co-parenting with each of the dads? 291 00:09:24,858 --> 00:09:26,363 {\an7}Do you and Jo speak? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- No. 292 00:09:26,363 --> 00:09:29,693 {\an7}- You and Jo are just-- \hyou drop the kids off 293 00:09:29,693 --> 00:09:30,891 {\an7}and don’t talk? \h\h\h- Mm-hmm. 294 00:09:30,891 --> 00:09:33,330 {\an7}- It’s only in case \h\h\hof emergency? 295 00:09:33,330 --> 00:09:34,792 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm. - Do you feel like you’re 296 00:09:34,792 --> 00:09:35,858 {\an7}paying for past sins? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yes. 297 00:09:35,858 --> 00:09:37,165 {\an7}- Is that what it is? - Yes, ’cause I feel 298 00:09:37,165 --> 00:09:38,429 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe growth. I see the growth in myself. 299 00:09:38,429 --> 00:09:39,660 {\an7}I know I just, like, \h\h\h\hI don’t react 300 00:09:39,660 --> 00:09:41,726 {\an7}to things the same way, but I still get treated 301 00:09:41,726 --> 00:09:43,330 {\an7}like I’m the Kail \hfrom years ago. 302 00:09:43,330 --> 00:09:45,264 {\an7}- Do you still record the podcast with Vee 303 00:09:45,264 --> 00:09:46,264 {\an7}at your office? \h\h\h\h- Yeah. 304 00:09:46,264 --> 00:09:48,660 {\an7}\h- How do you keep things so friendly with Vee when-- 305 00:09:48,660 --> 00:09:50,825 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- It’s hard. - Very challenging with Jo. 306 00:09:50,825 --> 00:09:52,363 {\an7}\h\h\h- It’s very hard, but on the other hand, 307 00:09:52,363 --> 00:09:53,099 {\an7}we make it work 308 00:09:53,099 --> 00:09:54,693 {\an7}and it’s been going \h\h\hreally well. 309 00:09:54,693 --> 00:09:57,792 {\an7}And then Javi, honestly, \hchanges by the minute. 310 00:09:57,792 --> 00:09:59,033 {\an7}One day we’re good, one day we’re bad, 311 00:09:59,033 --> 00:10:01,825 {\an7}and I literally never know \h\hwhat it’s going to be. 312 00:10:01,825 --> 00:10:02,891 {\an7}Like, I don’t know. 313 00:10:02,891 --> 00:10:04,198 {\an7}But we’re good now. 314 00:10:04,198 --> 00:10:05,066 {\an7}- So what do you think? 315 00:10:05,066 --> 00:10:07,165 {\an7}Are you ready to come back \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand-- 316 00:10:07,165 --> 00:10:09,099 {\an7}- I said, literally in my head, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hit was like, 317 00:10:09,099 --> 00:10:10,924 {\an7}this weekend’s a trial. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. 318 00:10:10,924 --> 00:10:12,759 {\an7}- Every time I thought about \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hcoming back, 319 00:10:12,759 --> 00:10:13,726 {\an7}I was like, mm, no. 320 00:10:13,726 --> 00:10:14,891 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hEven now, like this whole shoot, like, 321 00:10:14,891 --> 00:10:18,363 {\an7}I had such a hard time trying \hto mentally put myself back 322 00:10:18,363 --> 00:10:19,330 {\an7}in a place where I have, like, 323 00:10:19,330 --> 00:10:21,924 {\an7}a crew and, like, cameras \h\h\hfollowing me around 324 00:10:21,924 --> 00:10:22,858 {\an7}was really hard. \h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. 325 00:10:22,858 --> 00:10:25,066 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- So hopefully this is like a restart. 326 00:10:25,066 --> 00:10:27,165 {\an7}And um, I’m gonna try. 327 00:10:27,165 --> 00:10:29,264 {\an7}[somber music] 328 00:10:29,264 --> 00:10:32,363 {\an7}[squeaking] 329 00:10:34,868 --> 00:10:36,570 [bright music] 330 00:10:36,636 --> 00:10:40,407 [upbeat music] 331 00:10:40,474 --> 00:10:45,145 ♪ ♪ 332 00:10:45,212 --> 00:10:47,581 - I'm still sorting through my feelings about Bar. 333 00:10:47,647 --> 00:10:48,815 But today I'm helping my mom 334 00:10:48,882 --> 00:10:50,116 with her cake-decorating workshop, 335 00:10:50,183 --> 00:10:52,385 and Bar decided to come too. 336 00:10:52,452 --> 00:10:54,120 Hi. - What's happening? 337 00:10:55,222 --> 00:10:56,122 - I love you. 338 00:10:57,090 --> 00:10:59,759 So grab out your aprons, okay? 339 00:10:59,826 --> 00:11:01,361 - Rotate this. - Yeah. 340 00:11:01,428 --> 00:11:04,297 - It's easier for you than you rotating your wrist. 341 00:11:04,364 --> 00:11:06,466 Do you get what I'm saying? [people talking indistinctly] 342 00:11:06,533 --> 00:11:07,934 - Yeah, you can put some more. 343 00:11:08,001 --> 00:11:10,170 - Oh, you guys are doing good back here. 344 00:11:10,237 --> 00:11:12,472 Anybody need help with the icing? 345 00:11:12,539 --> 00:11:15,609 I'm seeing some of your cakes, y'all, they lookin' beautiful. 346 00:11:15,675 --> 00:11:16,676 They lookin' beautiful. 347 00:11:16,743 --> 00:11:20,046 Y'all got me proud up in here. 348 00:11:20,113 --> 00:11:21,882 [door shuts] - Ooh, girl. 349 00:11:21,948 --> 00:11:24,151 - I'm losing my [bleep] mind. - [laughs] 350 00:11:24,217 --> 00:11:26,153 - Cake everywhere. Frosting everywhere. 351 00:11:26,219 --> 00:11:27,387 - What's up though? - I'm happy Mom 352 00:11:27,454 --> 00:11:28,588 got her little day. 353 00:11:28,655 --> 00:11:29,723 - It is nice though. - This is cute. 354 00:11:29,789 --> 00:11:30,690 - It's going good. - It's cool 355 00:11:30,757 --> 00:11:31,691 for her first rodeo though. 356 00:11:31,758 --> 00:11:32,826 - Yeah. 357 00:11:32,893 --> 00:11:34,027 - I see Bar slid through. 358 00:11:34,027 --> 00:11:35,328 - He wanted to show up for Mom. 359 00:11:35,395 --> 00:11:37,030 - Well, that's good. It was good to see him. 360 00:11:37,097 --> 00:11:38,832 - Yeah. - I ain't seen him in a minute. 361 00:11:38,899 --> 00:11:40,066 At least you in a little better mood 362 00:11:40,133 --> 00:11:41,868 than last time 'cause, girl... - I am. 363 00:11:41,935 --> 00:11:43,470 - The way you flipped that hair and walked out with that beret, 364 00:11:43,537 --> 00:11:45,038 'cause you had me tear up though a little bit. 365 00:11:45,105 --> 00:11:48,041 You was all crying and I was like...[sniffs]. 366 00:11:48,041 --> 00:11:49,543 I was sad too. - When you're with somebody 367 00:11:49,609 --> 00:11:52,179 and you don't really know how--what you guys are 368 00:11:52,245 --> 00:11:55,048 or how you guys are, it's just a frustrating topic. 369 00:11:55,081 --> 00:11:57,317 And when you're married, that should not be-- 370 00:11:57,384 --> 00:11:58,752 - Right, 'cause it's the part of you, like, 371 00:11:58,819 --> 00:12:00,053 you started something serious and you don't wanna 372 00:12:00,086 --> 00:12:01,254 just give up on it. - Yeah. 373 00:12:01,321 --> 00:12:02,622 - You don't wanna feel like you failed. 374 00:12:02,689 --> 00:12:04,090 - One day you hate him. Next day you love him. 375 00:12:04,157 --> 00:12:07,794 So I feel like the best way is to say I don't know 376 00:12:07,861 --> 00:12:10,063 versus flip-flopping back and forth. 377 00:12:10,130 --> 00:12:11,331 - I mean, that's fair. 378 00:12:11,398 --> 00:12:13,633 - But the main goal is taking care of Holly. 379 00:12:13,700 --> 00:12:15,202 - Mm-hmm. 380 00:12:15,268 --> 00:12:17,270 - And I'm happy that I have somebody in that 381 00:12:17,337 --> 00:12:19,739 who, like, wants to be a dad, is a dad, 382 00:12:19,806 --> 00:12:21,074 is a attentive dad. 383 00:12:21,074 --> 00:12:22,309 You know what I'm saying? 384 00:12:22,375 --> 00:12:23,743 - Y'all was always good with Holly though. 385 00:12:23,810 --> 00:12:25,145 - [sighs] - Y'all was good. 386 00:12:25,212 --> 00:12:26,847 - It's hard. - Now y'all two? 387 00:12:26,913 --> 00:12:28,748 - A mess. - Got some work to do. 388 00:12:28,815 --> 00:12:30,150 - I think we should try therapy. 389 00:12:30,217 --> 00:12:32,085 We're not gonna make no calls, no judgments. 390 00:12:32,152 --> 00:12:33,520 We gonna start with therapy. 391 00:12:33,587 --> 00:12:35,021 [people talking indistinctly] 392 00:12:35,021 --> 00:12:36,756 - And see where that goes. 393 00:12:36,823 --> 00:12:38,492 - Keep in mind there's boundaries, 394 00:12:38,558 --> 00:12:41,127 that therapy needs to be put in place, you know? 395 00:12:41,194 --> 00:12:42,662 Establish them boundaries. 396 00:12:42,729 --> 00:12:46,233 And then it has to be, like, a path of moving forward. 397 00:12:46,299 --> 00:12:47,834 - Yeah. - And not, like, doubling back. 398 00:12:47,901 --> 00:12:50,036 And if you gonna be with him, 399 00:12:50,103 --> 00:12:52,038 you gotta forgive too. 400 00:12:52,105 --> 00:12:53,206 - I know. - That's another thing. 401 00:12:53,273 --> 00:12:54,641 - That's what I'm saying. I feel like 402 00:12:54,708 --> 00:12:57,310 certain conversations we should leave for therapy. 403 00:12:57,377 --> 00:12:58,912 When you have a kid, 404 00:12:59,045 --> 00:13:01,848 and that kid adores the other parent, 405 00:13:01,915 --> 00:13:03,650 and it's just like... 406 00:13:03,717 --> 00:13:05,051 - True, but those little moments 407 00:13:05,118 --> 00:13:07,154 is what make you stick together though. 408 00:13:07,220 --> 00:13:08,421 - And that's what I'm saying. 409 00:13:08,488 --> 00:13:10,357 - If you feel that to still fight for it, 410 00:13:10,423 --> 00:13:11,825 fight for it. 411 00:13:11,892 --> 00:13:13,693 - Yeah. - You gonna know when you done. 412 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:14,728 - I know. - That's what I got to say. 413 00:13:14,794 --> 00:13:17,330 - We can take time for us. 414 00:13:17,397 --> 00:13:20,901 - Mm-hmm. - To see if this is gonna be. 415 00:13:20,967 --> 00:13:22,435 [upbeat rock music] 416 00:13:22,502 --> 00:13:24,070 - Even though my mom isn't going to jail anymore, 417 00:13:24,070 --> 00:13:25,605 I'm still not letting her come around 418 00:13:25,672 --> 00:13:28,141 'cause the tension between us isn't good for Kloie. 419 00:13:28,208 --> 00:13:29,876 Sean's been in rehab for two months 420 00:13:29,943 --> 00:13:31,444 and we talk once a week, 421 00:13:31,511 --> 00:13:33,814 and I decided to start looking for houses for sale. 422 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:36,183 Pretty. I like the cut too better. 423 00:13:36,249 --> 00:13:39,653 Six hours well worth it. - Six hours. 424 00:13:39,719 --> 00:13:42,656 ♪ ♪ 425 00:13:42,722 --> 00:13:43,857 - [whines] 426 00:13:43,924 --> 00:13:45,192 - Your back hurts still? 427 00:13:45,258 --> 00:13:46,827 You have to stop doing those flips on there. 428 00:13:46,893 --> 00:13:48,461 We're gonna take you to gymnastics-- 429 00:13:48,528 --> 00:13:49,729 - She wants to be a ninja. - And you can do flips. 430 00:13:49,796 --> 00:13:51,698 - Clearly. - She wants to do gymnastics. 431 00:13:51,765 --> 00:13:54,401 So I went and looked at a house. 432 00:13:54,468 --> 00:13:56,102 Super cute house. It's pretty small, 433 00:13:56,169 --> 00:13:57,838 but I like the vibe of it. 434 00:13:57,904 --> 00:14:00,173 I like the area. The schooling's really good. 435 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:02,275 So I talked to the owner there 436 00:14:02,342 --> 00:14:05,045 and I put in a cash offer to him. 437 00:14:05,111 --> 00:14:06,847 - Oh, that's good. 438 00:14:06,913 --> 00:14:08,448 - Yeah, and he-- - Okay. 439 00:14:08,515 --> 00:14:10,183 - Accepted the offer. - Big bank. 440 00:14:10,250 --> 00:14:11,952 - So the next step would pretty much be 441 00:14:12,052 --> 00:14:13,587 doing, like, all the... 442 00:14:13,653 --> 00:14:15,088 - Yeah, closing it. - Closing paperwork. 443 00:14:15,155 --> 00:14:17,057 So I'm hoping that... - Wow, that's so exciting. 444 00:14:17,057 --> 00:14:18,558 - It doesn't sound too good to be true. 445 00:14:18,625 --> 00:14:20,460 You know how [bleep] we have, and so in my head I'm like, 446 00:14:20,527 --> 00:14:22,929 hell yeah, I'm excited, but then I'm also like, 447 00:14:23,063 --> 00:14:25,966 well, not until the paperwork's signed 448 00:14:26,066 --> 00:14:27,701 am I gonna be like, this is my house. 449 00:14:27,767 --> 00:14:28,869 - Yeah. - You know? 450 00:14:28,935 --> 00:14:30,470 - Aw, that's awesome. 451 00:14:30,537 --> 00:14:33,206 So have you told Sean that you're working on closing? 452 00:14:33,273 --> 00:14:34,341 - Mm-mm. 453 00:14:34,407 --> 00:14:35,775 I haven't told him anything yet. 454 00:14:35,842 --> 00:14:37,410 - You really don't get to talk to him and be like-- 455 00:14:37,477 --> 00:14:38,378 - I--right. 456 00:14:38,445 --> 00:14:40,380 - Are you excited to tell him? 457 00:14:40,447 --> 00:14:42,149 - Yeah, I am. 458 00:14:42,215 --> 00:14:43,884 It's sad though because she misses Sean. 459 00:14:44,017 --> 00:14:45,285 She's been asking about Sean a lot. 460 00:14:45,352 --> 00:14:47,587 I think lately more though she's starting to realize 461 00:14:47,654 --> 00:14:49,489 that he hasn't been around. 462 00:14:49,556 --> 00:14:51,858 - Do you know when Sean's coming back? 463 00:14:51,925 --> 00:14:53,627 - I'm not sure of the exact date, 464 00:14:53,693 --> 00:14:55,929 but if he finished just that program, 465 00:14:56,029 --> 00:14:57,864 it would be right before Thanksgiving. 466 00:14:57,931 --> 00:14:59,432 But I don't know. 467 00:14:59,499 --> 00:15:00,734 I'm not sure. 468 00:15:00,801 --> 00:15:04,171 - So how does it feel, being a single mom? 469 00:15:04,237 --> 00:15:05,939 - [bleep] for the birds. 470 00:15:06,039 --> 00:15:07,841 - The birds. But you're growing a lot. 471 00:15:07,908 --> 00:15:08,875 You didn't think you could do it, 472 00:15:08,942 --> 00:15:10,410 but it's been a few months. 473 00:15:10,477 --> 00:15:15,482 - I think with having a child, stability is so important. 474 00:15:15,549 --> 00:15:17,751 Like having a stable home, a stable life 475 00:15:17,818 --> 00:15:19,052 gives her more stability. 476 00:15:19,085 --> 00:15:21,488 'Cause I think growing up, we moved so much, 477 00:15:21,555 --> 00:15:23,123 all the time, that I didn't have that-- 478 00:15:23,190 --> 00:15:25,125 - Same. - Home stability. 479 00:15:25,192 --> 00:15:26,526 So I'm excited. - That's exciting. 480 00:15:26,593 --> 00:15:28,061 - I wanna be able to give my kid something... 481 00:15:28,094 --> 00:15:29,663 - You're doing so much-- - I didn't have. 482 00:15:29,729 --> 00:15:30,864 - Yeah. By yourself. 483 00:15:30,931 --> 00:15:32,065 But without Sean. - Yeah, I never had... 484 00:15:32,065 --> 00:15:33,300 - Without your mom. - That as a kid. 485 00:15:33,366 --> 00:15:34,601 I'd be the first person in my whole family 486 00:15:34,668 --> 00:15:36,136 to be a homeowner. - To own a home, yeah. 487 00:15:36,203 --> 00:15:38,638 - So I think that that's something that's big for me 488 00:15:38,705 --> 00:15:39,673 as a parent. 489 00:15:39,739 --> 00:15:42,642 [soft sentimental music] 490 00:15:42,709 --> 00:15:47,214 ♪ ♪ 491 00:15:48,060 --> 00:15:48,829 {\an7}[bright music] 492 00:15:48,829 --> 00:15:51,291 {\an7}- ♪ Don’t you worry what \hthey’re gonna think ♪ 493 00:15:51,291 --> 00:15:54,961 {\an7}♪ Just take a look \h\h\hat history ♪ 494 00:15:54,961 --> 00:15:56,357 {\an7}\h\h- Jaylan lives eight hours away, 495 00:15:56,357 --> 00:15:57,994 {\an7}and it’s hard for me \h\h\h\hto visit him 496 00:15:57,994 --> 00:15:59,522 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith all of my responsibilities. 497 00:15:59,522 --> 00:16:02,654 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hSo he tries to come up every week. 498 00:16:02,654 --> 00:16:04,159 {\an7}Hm. 499 00:16:04,928 --> 00:16:06,522 {\an7}\h\h\h\hHi. - Hey, baby. 500 00:16:06,522 --> 00:16:08,456 {\an7}\h\h\h\hWhat’s up? - How you doing? 501 00:16:08,456 --> 00:16:09,159 {\an7}You look good. 502 00:16:09,159 --> 00:16:12,159 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Thank you. You’re looking beautiful. 503 00:16:12,159 --> 00:16:12,796 {\an7}- You are. 504 00:16:12,796 --> 00:16:14,654 {\an7}What necklace do you have on? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hOh. 505 00:16:14,654 --> 00:16:16,994 {\an7}Costa Rica, baby. \h\h- Costa Rica. 506 00:16:16,994 --> 00:16:18,994 {\an7}\hI like this thing. It’s just so, like. 507 00:16:18,994 --> 00:16:21,390 {\an7}\h\hIt can--I can put it with anything I put on. 508 00:16:21,390 --> 00:16:23,654 {\an7}I’ll probably come down \h\h\h\h\h\hon Thursday. 509 00:16:23,654 --> 00:16:25,060 {\an7}- All right, sounds good. 510 00:16:25,060 --> 00:16:26,060 {\an7}I miss you. 511 00:16:26,060 --> 00:16:28,126 {\an7}I love your hat. 512 00:16:28,126 --> 00:16:29,928 {\an7}- Love you too. 513 00:16:29,928 --> 00:16:30,994 {\an7}- I love your hat. 514 00:16:30,994 --> 00:16:33,456 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Oh. - But I love you too. 515 00:16:33,456 --> 00:16:34,423 {\an7}[laughs] 516 00:16:34,423 --> 00:16:36,357 {\an7}♪ ♪ 517 00:16:36,357 --> 00:16:40,060 {\an7}- ♪ I didn’t believe \h\h\hit was true ♪ 518 00:16:40,060 --> 00:16:42,027 {\an7}♪ Till I met somebody ♪ 519 00:16:42,027 --> 00:16:44,994 {\an7}♪ I met somebody like you ♪ \h\h\h\h\h- Hey. What’s up? 520 00:16:44,994 --> 00:16:47,763 {\an7}\hWhat are you working on? - Hi, I have so many emails 521 00:16:47,763 --> 00:16:49,730 {\an7}to answer. 522 00:16:49,730 --> 00:16:50,555 {\an7}- How’s that going? 523 00:16:50,555 --> 00:16:52,730 {\an7}- Oh, you know. \h\hIt’s going. 524 00:16:52,730 --> 00:16:54,588 {\an7}♪ ♪ 525 00:16:54,588 --> 00:16:56,060 {\an7}Mm. 526 00:16:56,522 --> 00:16:58,390 {\an7}Mm. 527 00:16:58,390 --> 00:17:00,324 {\an7}♪ ♪ 528 00:17:00,324 --> 00:17:03,126 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYeah, so Costa Rica was so much fun. 529 00:17:03,126 --> 00:17:03,961 {\an7}- It was a lot of fun. 530 00:17:03,961 --> 00:17:05,258 {\an7}It was kinda emotional, \h\h\h\h\ha little bit, 531 00:17:05,258 --> 00:17:07,225 {\an7}’cause we talked a lot \habout--a lot about-- 532 00:17:07,225 --> 00:17:08,621 {\an7}- Everything. - Everything. 533 00:17:08,621 --> 00:17:10,060 {\an7}About your kids, so. 534 00:17:10,060 --> 00:17:13,456 {\an7}Let’s just--let’s just keep \hwhat we got going and... 535 00:17:13,456 --> 00:17:15,027 {\an7}build off of it. \h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm. 536 00:17:15,027 --> 00:17:17,159 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hDo you think that this will continue to be 537 00:17:17,159 --> 00:17:18,159 {\an7}a long-distance relationship? 538 00:17:18,159 --> 00:17:22,192 {\an7}- I have a new job possibility \hthat will let me move closer. 539 00:17:22,192 --> 00:17:23,456 {\an7}- It’s not always gonna \h\h\h\h\h\h\hbe easy. 540 00:17:23,456 --> 00:17:25,522 {\an7}Especially with kids. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. 541 00:17:25,522 --> 00:17:28,159 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I mean, since we are exclusive now, 542 00:17:28,159 --> 00:17:29,588 {\an7}I think my daughters deserve 543 00:17:29,588 --> 00:17:32,093 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto see who’s making their mama smile. 544 00:17:32,093 --> 00:17:34,324 {\an7}They are gonna put you through \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe test. 545 00:17:34,324 --> 00:17:39,697 {\an7}They’re very strong-willed \h\h\h\h\h\hlittle ladies. 546 00:17:39,697 --> 00:17:40,763 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - And I love it. 547 00:17:40,763 --> 00:17:44,588 {\an7}\h\hIt’s hard to date as a mom and be exclusive with someone 548 00:17:44,588 --> 00:17:46,730 {\an7}and your kids not be involved. 549 00:17:46,730 --> 00:17:49,489 {\an7}It’s almost, like, impossible. 550 00:17:49,489 --> 00:17:51,093 {\an7}So after we became exclusive, 551 00:17:51,093 --> 00:17:53,324 {\an7}I feel confident enough \h\h\h\h\hin my decision 552 00:17:53,324 --> 00:17:54,654 {\an7}for them to meet Jaylan. 553 00:17:54,654 --> 00:17:55,796 {\an7}I think that it’s a big step, 554 00:17:55,796 --> 00:18:00,829 {\an7}\hbut I don’t want to put too much pressure on that. 555 00:18:00,829 --> 00:18:04,588 {\an7}So I think that we just kinda \h\h\h\h\h\hgo with the flow. 556 00:18:04,588 --> 00:18:05,588 {\an7}[upbeat music] 557 00:18:05,588 --> 00:18:07,192 {\an7}- After "Family Reunion," 558 00:18:07,192 --> 00:18:09,489 {\an7}I’m trying to give Devoin \h\h\h\h\hmore of a chance 559 00:18:09,489 --> 00:18:10,390 {\an7}to be there for Nova. 560 00:18:10,390 --> 00:18:12,258 {\an7}\h\h\h\hWe made a plan that he’d pick her up 561 00:18:12,258 --> 00:18:13,489 {\an7}twice a week from gymnastics, 562 00:18:13,489 --> 00:18:15,621 {\an7}and he’s bringing her home \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hnow. 563 00:18:15,621 --> 00:18:17,763 {\an7}\h\h\hHi. [barking] 564 00:18:17,763 --> 00:18:19,258 {\an7}- Hi. 565 00:18:19,258 --> 00:18:21,730 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- [groans] - How was practice? 566 00:18:21,730 --> 00:18:23,192 {\an7}- Good. 567 00:18:23,192 --> 00:18:24,555 {\an7}- Did you do your homework? 568 00:18:24,555 --> 00:18:26,423 {\an7}- She got homework. 569 00:18:26,423 --> 00:18:27,390 {\an7}She got math. 570 00:18:27,390 --> 00:18:30,390 {\an7}- Do you wanna do that while \h\h\hI make you some ramen? 571 00:18:30,390 --> 00:18:32,291 {\an7}Yeah? Okay. 572 00:18:33,060 --> 00:18:34,522 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Well, it’s-- well, your dad’s here. 573 00:18:34,522 --> 00:18:36,357 {\an7}Maybe he can help you. 574 00:18:36,357 --> 00:18:38,654 {\an7}- What you doing this weekend? 575 00:18:38,654 --> 00:18:39,829 {\an7}- Zero plans. 576 00:18:39,829 --> 00:18:43,588 {\an7}\h- Word, I was thinking we should go have dinner. 577 00:18:43,588 --> 00:18:46,225 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Kay. - Me, you, and Nova. 578 00:18:46,225 --> 00:18:50,159 {\an7}- How do you feel about us \h\hgoing out all together? 579 00:18:50,159 --> 00:18:51,357 {\an7}Cool? 580 00:18:51,357 --> 00:18:52,730 {\an7}You’re down with that? 581 00:18:52,730 --> 00:18:54,192 {\an7}- That’s good. \h- Kay, girl. 582 00:18:54,192 --> 00:18:55,357 {\an7}It’s a date, girl. 583 00:18:55,357 --> 00:18:58,796 {\an7}Let’s knock out this homework \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hsuper quick. 584 00:19:00,588 --> 00:19:03,522 {\an7}- If this one right here \h\h\h\h\his 25 times 20, 585 00:19:03,522 --> 00:19:06,697 {\an7}\h\h\hlook quickly at the 25 times 30. 586 00:19:06,697 --> 00:19:09,862 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Thank God you have a smart parent. 587 00:19:09,862 --> 00:19:11,763 {\an7}You and your father \h\h\hare the same. 588 00:19:11,763 --> 00:19:12,555 {\an7}- She got the right one. 589 00:19:12,555 --> 00:19:14,456 {\an7}I won’t sit here and debate \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith you. 590 00:19:14,456 --> 00:19:16,324 {\an7}’Cause I know what I’m talking \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\habout. 591 00:19:16,324 --> 00:19:18,456 {\an7}- And I know what I’m talking \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\habout too. 592 00:19:18,456 --> 00:19:19,456 {\an7}- You do. 593 00:19:19,456 --> 00:19:21,258 {\an7}You do. 594 00:19:21,258 --> 00:19:22,390 {\an7}- After family therapy, 595 00:19:22,390 --> 00:19:24,588 {\an7}I realized that I can’t always \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hbe in control. 596 00:19:24,588 --> 00:19:27,126 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI have to learn that his parenting is one way 597 00:19:27,126 --> 00:19:28,225 {\an7}and my parenting is another, 598 00:19:28,225 --> 00:19:29,555 {\an7}and that’s just how \h\h\hit has to be. 599 00:19:29,555 --> 00:19:33,522 {\an7}\h\h\hI think the main goal is to be better parents for Nova, 600 00:19:33,522 --> 00:19:36,357 {\an7}and it’s gonna take both of us \h\h\hto put in the hard work. 601 00:19:36,357 --> 00:19:40,489 {\an7}And it’s gonna take some time, \h\hbut I think we can do it. 602 00:19:40,489 --> 00:19:43,357 {\an7}And I just don’t wanna repeat \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hold patterns. 603 00:19:43,357 --> 00:19:46,126 {\an7}\hI don’t wanna go back to where we first were. 604 00:19:46,126 --> 00:19:48,522 {\an7}And it’s just gonna take work. 605 00:19:48,522 --> 00:19:50,763 {\an7}\h\h\h\hDevoin stayed until Nova’s homework was finished 606 00:19:50,763 --> 00:19:55,192 {\an7}and she went upstairs to get ready for bed. 607 00:19:55,730 --> 00:19:58,654 {\an7}- Okay, make sure you wash \h\h\h\h\hyour hands after. 608 00:19:58,654 --> 00:19:59,928 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay. - She’s wearing heels, 609 00:19:59,928 --> 00:20:02,423 {\an7}\h\h\hshe’s gonna wipe her ass, and she’s gonna wash her hands. 610 00:20:02,423 --> 00:20:03,588 {\an7}She’s grown. \h- [laughs] 611 00:20:03,588 --> 00:20:05,555 {\an7}- She’s [bleep] grown. 612 00:20:05,555 --> 00:20:06,390 {\an7}Did Devoin stop by? 613 00:20:06,390 --> 00:20:08,730 {\an7}- Yeah, he helped Nova \h\hwith her homework. 614 00:20:08,730 --> 00:20:10,829 {\an7}Devoin has definitely \h\h\h\hbeen helping. 615 00:20:10,829 --> 00:20:13,489 {\an7}Um, and he asked... 616 00:20:13,489 --> 00:20:16,829 {\an7}if he could take me and Nova \h\h\h\h\h\h\hout to dinner. 617 00:20:16,829 --> 00:20:18,390 {\an7}- I think that’s nice. 618 00:20:18,390 --> 00:20:19,588 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - What do you think? 619 00:20:19,588 --> 00:20:20,555 {\an7}- He’s never done that before. 620 00:20:20,555 --> 00:20:23,588 {\an7}\h\h- At least he’s trying, you know, like the effort. 621 00:20:23,588 --> 00:20:26,730 {\an7}- The therapist said for the sake of Nova, 622 00:20:26,730 --> 00:20:32,258 {\an7}you’re just gonna have to make certain sacrifices to show Nova 623 00:20:32,258 --> 00:20:34,730 {\an7}what a healthy relationship \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hlooks like. 624 00:20:34,730 --> 00:20:37,390 {\an7}- I’ve been saying it. You have to guide him. 625 00:20:37,390 --> 00:20:39,258 {\an7}- Which to me is a big deal 626 00:20:39,258 --> 00:20:40,895 {\an7}because I don’t do stuff \h\h\h\h\h\h\hlike that. 627 00:20:40,895 --> 00:20:43,291 {\an7}But obviously I’m trying. \h\h\h- But you have to. 628 00:20:43,291 --> 00:20:43,961 {\an7}- But it’s good. 629 00:20:43,961 --> 00:20:44,961 {\an7}I want Nova to see more 630 00:20:44,961 --> 00:20:48,324 {\an7}of Devoin and I doing things \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\htogether 631 00:20:48,324 --> 00:20:50,324 {\an7}’cause I want her to see \h\h\h\h\hwhat it’s like 632 00:20:50,324 --> 00:20:52,390 {\an7}for, like, two people to-- \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\heven though 633 00:20:52,390 --> 00:20:54,895 {\an7}they’re not together-- \hbut still get along. 634 00:20:54,895 --> 00:20:58,027 {\an7}[soft sentimental music] 635 00:20:58,027 --> 00:21:02,555 {\an7}♪ ♪ 636 00:21:03,987 --> 00:21:05,155 [bright music] 637 00:21:05,222 --> 00:21:07,724 [upbeat music] 638 00:21:07,791 --> 00:21:09,359 - I'm still getting used to having cameras 639 00:21:09,426 --> 00:21:10,928 around again, and on top of that, 640 00:21:10,994 --> 00:21:12,629 I just found out something about Vee 641 00:21:12,696 --> 00:21:14,565 that's really upsetting. 642 00:21:14,631 --> 00:21:15,999 We still have our podcast together, 643 00:21:16,066 --> 00:21:17,668 but I'm not sure what's gonna happen now, 644 00:21:17,734 --> 00:21:19,670 so I want some advice from Leah. 645 00:21:19,736 --> 00:21:21,405 Hello, hi. - Hi. 646 00:21:21,471 --> 00:21:22,940 - How are you? - I just came back 647 00:21:23,006 --> 00:21:24,007 from Costa Rica. 648 00:21:24,074 --> 00:21:25,809 It was the best trip ever. 649 00:21:25,876 --> 00:21:26,843 - Yeah? 650 00:21:26,910 --> 00:21:28,278 Um, really quickly, 651 00:21:28,345 --> 00:21:30,914 just wanted to give you, like, backstory with Vee. 652 00:21:30,981 --> 00:21:33,817 Basically what happened was like a couple months ago, 653 00:21:33,884 --> 00:21:35,419 Javi and I got into a huge fight 654 00:21:35,485 --> 00:21:37,554 and he didn't want me talking about him 655 00:21:37,621 --> 00:21:39,890 on my podcast with Vee. 656 00:21:39,957 --> 00:21:44,061 And he was basically alluding to, like, her being deceitful. 657 00:21:44,127 --> 00:21:47,331 And so I texted her and Javi in a group text 658 00:21:47,397 --> 00:21:49,032 and I said, you know, whatever it is, 659 00:21:49,099 --> 00:21:50,534 like, lay it all out there. 660 00:21:50,601 --> 00:21:52,035 - Mm-hmm. - So Vee comes into my office 661 00:21:52,102 --> 00:21:53,370 and she's like, you know, 662 00:21:53,437 --> 00:21:56,840 "I--I told Javi about your pregnancy with Lux." 663 00:21:56,907 --> 00:22:00,944 Javi told me that back four years ago, 664 00:22:01,011 --> 00:22:03,447 Vee hit him up on social media and was like, 665 00:22:03,513 --> 00:22:04,748 I'm tired of you looking stupid. 666 00:22:04,815 --> 00:22:06,717 I'll tell you everything, like, let's meet up. 667 00:22:06,783 --> 00:22:08,218 - Damn. 668 00:22:08,285 --> 00:22:11,989 - Well, I'm gonna start filming about being pregnant. 669 00:22:12,122 --> 00:22:13,323 Have not told Javi yet. 670 00:22:13,390 --> 00:22:14,892 - You have to tell him. - I know. 671 00:22:14,958 --> 00:22:16,326 I just don't know when the right time is, 672 00:22:16,393 --> 00:22:17,761 'cause he is not stable right now. 673 00:22:17,828 --> 00:22:20,497 So they met up in a Target parking lot 674 00:22:20,564 --> 00:22:22,833 in the m--like, in the night, 675 00:22:22,900 --> 00:22:27,204 and she told him about me being pregnant with Lux. 676 00:22:27,271 --> 00:22:30,140 - A little birdie came to me and pretty much told me, 677 00:22:30,207 --> 00:22:33,343 said, "Hey, Jav, I'm tired of biting my tongue. 678 00:22:33,410 --> 00:22:35,445 "I'm tired of you looking like a dumbass. 679 00:22:35,512 --> 00:22:37,514 We need to meet up," so he says, 680 00:22:37,581 --> 00:22:39,149 "Kail's three months pregnant." 681 00:22:39,216 --> 00:22:40,851 [tense music] 682 00:22:40,918 --> 00:22:42,152 Yeah. 683 00:22:42,219 --> 00:22:45,556 - She didn't just leak my pregnancy to him, 684 00:22:45,622 --> 00:22:49,660 she told him-- which is a complete lie-- 685 00:22:49,726 --> 00:22:52,396 that my miscarriage that I had with him 686 00:22:52,462 --> 00:22:53,897 may not have been his. 687 00:22:53,964 --> 00:22:55,332 - I heard just as much as you heard. 688 00:22:55,399 --> 00:22:57,167 I'm not showing it, but I'm hurting. 689 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,570 Because you know how much I wanted that baby. 690 00:22:59,636 --> 00:23:01,238 - But I never cheated on him, 691 00:23:01,305 --> 00:23:03,106 and that was a planned pregnancy. 692 00:23:03,106 --> 00:23:05,275 So for her to place doubt in his mind, 693 00:23:05,342 --> 00:23:08,345 I just felt like that, to me, that part was unforgivable, 694 00:23:08,412 --> 00:23:10,113 because up until this day, 695 00:23:10,180 --> 00:23:13,317 Javi will say, "I don't even know if that baby was mine." 696 00:23:13,383 --> 00:23:14,751 - Damn. 697 00:23:14,818 --> 00:23:16,453 - I sent Vee a long text message 698 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:18,755 basically just explaining, like, how I felt. 699 00:23:18,822 --> 00:23:21,992 And then she actually sent back, like, a long message 700 00:23:22,125 --> 00:23:24,127 saying that she completely understands, that she's sorry. 701 00:23:24,194 --> 00:23:26,196 I walked into the office and her stuff wasn't here. 702 00:23:26,263 --> 00:23:27,598 And I felt sad. 703 00:23:27,664 --> 00:23:30,133 - You're saying you're not willing to... 704 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:31,535 continue with the podcast? 705 00:23:31,602 --> 00:23:33,003 Or are you--you don't know? You don't know. 706 00:23:33,136 --> 00:23:34,972 Everything's up in the air right now. 707 00:23:35,038 --> 00:23:36,707 - I genuinely don't know. 708 00:23:36,773 --> 00:23:38,642 - That's, like, way too many people 709 00:23:38,709 --> 00:23:40,611 putting their hands... 710 00:23:40,677 --> 00:23:42,913 in conversations that just shouldn't be, 711 00:23:42,980 --> 00:23:44,348 I guess. I don't know. 712 00:23:44,414 --> 00:23:46,350 That's-- I hate that. 713 00:23:46,416 --> 00:23:48,685 ♪ ♪ 714 00:23:48,752 --> 00:23:50,587 - ♪ I'm runnin', I'm runnin' ♪ 715 00:23:50,654 --> 00:23:53,690 ♪ I'm runnin' out of time ♪ 716 00:23:53,757 --> 00:23:55,058 - I've been thinking a lot 717 00:23:55,158 --> 00:23:56,894 about where I want things to go with Bar, 718 00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:00,831 and I'm ready for us to get on the same page. 719 00:24:00,898 --> 00:24:03,000 - It's a nice day out here. - It is. 720 00:24:03,100 --> 00:24:05,469 - I'm happy it's not summer no more. 721 00:24:05,535 --> 00:24:06,637 - Yeah, it's-- - Anymore. 722 00:24:06,703 --> 00:24:09,106 - Cool enough to wear jackets now. 723 00:24:09,172 --> 00:24:10,340 - How you been feeling? 724 00:24:10,407 --> 00:24:11,875 - About what? 725 00:24:11,942 --> 00:24:13,944 - Just everything. Us. 726 00:24:14,011 --> 00:24:16,380 - I mean, we get rocky patches 727 00:24:16,446 --> 00:24:19,750 and [bleep] goes amiss. 728 00:24:19,816 --> 00:24:21,351 - I mean, I feel like I could do therapy, 729 00:24:21,418 --> 00:24:22,986 like personal therapy, 730 00:24:23,120 --> 00:24:25,322 like, to work on, like, my responses. 731 00:24:25,389 --> 00:24:27,257 I also feel like moving forward, 732 00:24:27,324 --> 00:24:29,026 we... 733 00:24:29,126 --> 00:24:31,161 should get into therapy, 734 00:24:31,228 --> 00:24:33,397 and you know, like, really work it, 735 00:24:33,463 --> 00:24:34,731 really get with the therapist. 736 00:24:34,798 --> 00:24:36,300 - And we wanna keep [bleep] cool for Holly, 737 00:24:36,366 --> 00:24:37,367 but yeah, I don't know. 738 00:24:37,434 --> 00:24:38,535 I think we got some work to do. 739 00:24:38,602 --> 00:24:39,736 Definitely. 740 00:24:39,803 --> 00:24:41,805 - So if we're gonna try to make it work, 741 00:24:41,872 --> 00:24:44,841 what I need from you is discipline 742 00:24:44,908 --> 00:24:46,810 in whatever you're choosing to do with your life. 743 00:24:46,877 --> 00:24:48,378 - Right. - Obviously, 744 00:24:48,445 --> 00:24:49,646 the drinking was a thing, but, like, 745 00:24:49,713 --> 00:24:51,548 I feel like you've really gotten that... 746 00:24:51,615 --> 00:24:54,685 - Yeah. I do understand that part. 747 00:24:54,751 --> 00:24:57,487 - What do you feel like you need from me? 748 00:24:57,554 --> 00:24:58,956 - I don't know, maybe communication 749 00:24:59,022 --> 00:25:00,824 or something, you know. - I feel like I could learn 750 00:25:00,891 --> 00:25:02,426 how to better communicate. - Yeah. 751 00:25:02,492 --> 00:25:05,495 It's the way we deal with each other and the response. 752 00:25:05,562 --> 00:25:07,564 - I'm sometimes just automatically like 753 00:25:07,631 --> 00:25:11,168 you versus me, so I have to work on that. 754 00:25:11,235 --> 00:25:12,202 [soft music] 755 00:25:12,269 --> 00:25:13,971 - So now the next step is just 756 00:25:14,104 --> 00:25:15,806 actually putting it into motion. 757 00:25:15,872 --> 00:25:18,108 We done had conversations about doing therapy 758 00:25:18,108 --> 00:25:19,943 and stuff like that and all of this, 759 00:25:20,010 --> 00:25:21,878 but now let's actually do it. - Yeah. 760 00:25:21,945 --> 00:25:23,981 And we gotta get through this court [bleep] too. 761 00:25:24,114 --> 00:25:25,549 But, like, I do really love you. 762 00:25:25,616 --> 00:25:27,684 Like, I do really, really-- - I love you too. 763 00:25:27,751 --> 00:25:31,989 - And I love our relationship, so I do want to save it. 764 00:25:32,122 --> 00:25:34,791 I feel like in my heart I do really wanna believe 765 00:25:34,858 --> 00:25:37,127 that things are gonna be different, 766 00:25:37,194 --> 00:25:39,596 and things are gonna be amazing and things are gonna be great. 767 00:25:39,663 --> 00:25:42,766 But my head definitely understands 768 00:25:42,833 --> 00:25:45,135 the fact that there's a lot of work to be done. 769 00:25:45,168 --> 00:25:47,004 There's a lot of trust to be rebuilt, 770 00:25:47,137 --> 00:25:49,172 and that [bleep] is not easy. 771 00:25:49,239 --> 00:25:50,540 It's gonna take a lot, 772 00:25:50,607 --> 00:25:52,276 and it's gonna take us both showing up, 773 00:25:52,342 --> 00:25:54,778 and so I'm cautious. 774 00:25:54,845 --> 00:25:56,346 I'm moving forward cautiously. 775 00:25:56,413 --> 00:25:58,148 ♪ ♪ 776 00:25:58,148 --> 00:26:01,051 [upbeat music] 777 00:26:01,151 --> 00:26:06,189 ♪ ♪ 778 00:26:06,256 --> 00:26:07,357 - Hey. 779 00:26:07,424 --> 00:26:09,092 - Hi. - How are you? 780 00:26:09,159 --> 00:26:11,662 - Good. You look really good. 781 00:26:11,728 --> 00:26:12,663 - Thank you. 782 00:26:12,729 --> 00:26:13,664 - How you been? 783 00:26:13,730 --> 00:26:15,365 - I've been good. 784 00:26:15,432 --> 00:26:16,567 - Yeah? - Yeah. 785 00:26:16,633 --> 00:26:18,602 I've been looking at houses. 786 00:26:18,669 --> 00:26:19,670 - I'm excited. 787 00:26:19,736 --> 00:26:21,805 - Yeah. I'm really excited. 788 00:26:21,872 --> 00:26:23,740 - Big stuff. 789 00:26:23,807 --> 00:26:27,477 - So I got your, like, update from your counselor. 790 00:26:27,544 --> 00:26:29,413 You've been doing really, really good. 791 00:26:29,479 --> 00:26:31,014 How's that been going? 792 00:26:31,114 --> 00:26:32,983 - Very well. Now I get to, uh, 793 00:26:33,116 --> 00:26:35,786 help all the new guys and help them work through 794 00:26:35,852 --> 00:26:37,120 what they're dealing with, 795 00:26:37,154 --> 00:26:39,990 and uh, share my experience with them. 796 00:26:40,123 --> 00:26:41,858 'Cause I've been there before, you know, so. 797 00:26:41,925 --> 00:26:43,260 - Right. - I know what it's like 798 00:26:43,327 --> 00:26:44,561 to be where they're at. 799 00:26:44,628 --> 00:26:45,996 - Yeah, I feel like this whole experience, 800 00:26:46,129 --> 00:26:48,131 you can always look at it as such a positive thing 801 00:26:48,165 --> 00:26:50,434 because you can use everything that you've learned there 802 00:26:50,500 --> 00:26:52,502 and you know, use your platform 803 00:26:52,569 --> 00:26:55,973 to kind of enlighten more people. 804 00:26:56,039 --> 00:26:57,374 - Mom. 805 00:26:57,441 --> 00:26:59,042 - Kloie's sad. 806 00:26:59,142 --> 00:27:00,544 - Why? - She got a boo-boo 807 00:27:00,611 --> 00:27:03,413 on her finger and she's grouchy 'cause she's tired. 808 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,083 Kloie. 809 00:27:06,083 --> 00:27:07,985 Do you wanna talk to your dad? 810 00:27:08,085 --> 00:27:09,319 - No. 811 00:27:09,386 --> 00:27:11,088 - I'm gonna have to bring the phone in there to her 812 00:27:11,121 --> 00:27:12,923 'cause she's obviously not gonna come in here. 813 00:27:12,990 --> 00:27:14,458 She's in a bad mood. 814 00:27:14,524 --> 00:27:15,726 - [yells indistinctly] 815 00:27:15,792 --> 00:27:17,561 - Do you wanna see your dad? 816 00:27:17,628 --> 00:27:18,929 Can you tell Daddy--say-- 817 00:27:18,996 --> 00:27:20,364 can you tell him that you love him? 818 00:27:20,430 --> 00:27:23,433 And Mommy and Daddy will talk for a minute? 819 00:27:23,500 --> 00:27:25,002 You wanna say you love Daddy? 820 00:27:25,102 --> 00:27:26,970 Don't be a little grouch just 'cause you're in a bad mood. 821 00:27:27,104 --> 00:27:29,873 Dad doesn't really get to talk to you that much, so... 822 00:27:29,940 --> 00:27:31,174 - I love you, baby. 823 00:27:33,577 --> 00:27:35,345 - You say, "Love you, Dad." 824 00:27:35,412 --> 00:27:37,247 Scoot over. - What? 825 00:27:37,314 --> 00:27:39,917 [crying] Mommy. - What's the matter, Kloie? 826 00:27:39,983 --> 00:27:41,618 - Klo--you wanna tell Daddy what's wrong? 827 00:27:41,685 --> 00:27:42,619 Do you miss Daddy? 828 00:27:42,686 --> 00:27:43,954 - [crying] 829 00:27:44,021 --> 00:27:45,589 - Are you just sad right now? 830 00:27:45,656 --> 00:27:47,858 - [sobs] I want Daddy. 831 00:27:47,925 --> 00:27:49,493 - Aw, you want Dad? 832 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:50,894 - [crying] 833 00:27:50,961 --> 00:27:52,429 - I think she's just sad. 834 00:27:52,496 --> 00:27:54,131 - I want Daddy. 835 00:27:54,197 --> 00:27:55,365 - I know. 836 00:27:55,432 --> 00:27:57,134 I know. Come here. 837 00:27:57,167 --> 00:27:58,402 Come here. Lay with Mommy. 838 00:27:58,468 --> 00:27:59,670 - No. - Well. 839 00:27:59,736 --> 00:28:03,774 - [laughs] - [continues crying] 840 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,275 - Hey, Kloie. 841 00:28:05,342 --> 00:28:07,110 - Look, Daddy's trying to tell you something. 842 00:28:07,177 --> 00:28:09,146 - [cries] - Kloie, listen, listen. 843 00:28:09,212 --> 00:28:12,215 You want me to bring you a surprise when I come home? 844 00:28:12,282 --> 00:28:13,650 A surprise. 845 00:28:13,717 --> 00:28:15,452 You gotta be good for Mommy though, okay? 846 00:28:15,519 --> 00:28:17,821 And you gotta stop screaming and crying like that. 847 00:28:17,888 --> 00:28:18,755 - [cries] - And I'll bring you 848 00:28:18,822 --> 00:28:21,091 a surprise. 849 00:28:21,124 --> 00:28:23,193 - She's just--she's just emotional. 850 00:28:23,260 --> 00:28:25,095 - [whining] - I think that you being gone 851 00:28:25,095 --> 00:28:26,496 for so long, she's been getting, like, 852 00:28:26,563 --> 00:28:29,166 real emotional about it and just kind of acting out 853 00:28:29,233 --> 00:28:31,001 and doing little things that I can tell 854 00:28:31,101 --> 00:28:33,103 she's just doing it 'cause she's just tryna act out. 855 00:28:33,136 --> 00:28:34,738 - [crying] - Yeah. 856 00:28:34,805 --> 00:28:36,907 - I want Daddy. 857 00:28:36,974 --> 00:28:39,910 [soft sad music] 858 00:28:39,977 --> 00:28:43,880 ♪ ♪ 859 00:28:45,316 --> 00:28:46,483 [bright music] 860 00:28:46,550 --> 00:28:49,887 [upbeat music] 861 00:28:49,954 --> 00:28:52,056 - I'm picking up my girls from school. 862 00:28:52,122 --> 00:28:53,958 Jaylan's been staying at a hotel, 863 00:28:54,024 --> 00:28:55,726 but he's heading to my house now, 864 00:28:55,793 --> 00:28:57,728 so he can finally meet everyone. 865 00:28:57,795 --> 00:28:59,430 - You wanted the back anyway. - I know. 866 00:28:59,496 --> 00:29:02,266 ♪ ♪ 867 00:29:02,333 --> 00:29:05,102 - Did you have at your dad's? - Yes. 868 00:29:05,169 --> 00:29:06,737 - Okay, I have something to tell you guys. 869 00:29:06,804 --> 00:29:08,205 You guys know that, I mean clearly, 870 00:29:08,272 --> 00:29:09,707 when you talked to me in Costa Rica, 871 00:29:09,773 --> 00:29:11,275 I was there with... 872 00:29:11,342 --> 00:29:13,244 - Jay. - Jaylan, Jay. So and yes, 873 00:29:13,310 --> 00:29:16,780 he asked me to be his girlfriend in Costa Rica. 874 00:29:16,847 --> 00:29:19,316 Yeah. Why are you guys grinning? 875 00:29:19,383 --> 00:29:21,085 He'll be here 'cause he got here 876 00:29:21,151 --> 00:29:22,419 right before I came to pick you guys up. 877 00:29:22,486 --> 00:29:24,355 So I told him just to chill at the house. 878 00:29:24,421 --> 00:29:25,789 And if you're open to meeting him, 879 00:29:25,856 --> 00:29:27,391 you can meet him. 880 00:29:27,458 --> 00:29:29,026 - Well, no duh. We gotta meet him. 881 00:29:29,093 --> 00:29:31,896 - He's super nervous. 882 00:29:31,962 --> 00:29:33,597 - Like how long is he staying? - Yeah. 883 00:29:33,664 --> 00:29:34,798 - Uh, I don't know. 884 00:29:34,865 --> 00:29:36,133 We'll see-we'll see how it goes. 885 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:37,768 I don't want you guys to feel uncomfortable 886 00:29:37,835 --> 00:29:39,870 and you guys can ask Jaylan any questions that you guys have. 887 00:29:39,937 --> 00:29:41,539 - Okay. - He's prepared. 888 00:29:41,605 --> 00:29:42,806 All right, are you guys ready? 889 00:29:42,873 --> 00:29:45,309 - Yep. - All right, here we go. 890 00:29:45,409 --> 00:29:47,411 ♪ ♪ 891 00:29:47,411 --> 00:29:49,747 - Lock your door. - No, I'm saying you gotta do-- 892 00:29:49,813 --> 00:29:50,848 - Of course I can. 893 00:29:50,915 --> 00:29:52,416 - Yeah. - [vocalizing] 894 00:29:52,483 --> 00:29:53,617 - Good day at school? 895 00:29:53,684 --> 00:29:55,419 - Mm-hmm. - Yeah? Yeah? 896 00:29:55,486 --> 00:29:58,856 - On Friday, we have five minutes off. 897 00:29:58,923 --> 00:30:00,891 - Lucky was really excited to see you guys. 898 00:30:00,958 --> 00:30:02,726 Ali, this is Jay. - Nice to meet you, Ali. 899 00:30:02,793 --> 00:30:03,961 - Mm-hmm, I know. - Jay. 900 00:30:04,028 --> 00:30:05,996 - She said she knows. [laughs] 901 00:30:06,063 --> 00:30:07,765 - Aleeah, this is Jay. - And Aleeah. 902 00:30:07,831 --> 00:30:08,899 - Hi. - This is Jaylan. 903 00:30:08,966 --> 00:30:10,167 - And Addie. - They were, I mean, 904 00:30:10,234 --> 00:30:11,468 they were excited to meet you. - [laughs] 905 00:30:11,535 --> 00:30:13,204 - I was excited to meet you guys too, 906 00:30:13,270 --> 00:30:16,173 so I was kinda nervous too, but excited at the same time. 907 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:17,241 - Something that you guys have in common-- 908 00:30:17,308 --> 00:30:18,943 - Yeah, so I have a twin sister. 909 00:30:19,009 --> 00:30:20,744 I'm a twin as well. 910 00:30:20,811 --> 00:30:22,046 I know how it feels to have a twin. 911 00:30:22,112 --> 00:30:24,715 - Mm-hmm, I always forget. 912 00:30:24,782 --> 00:30:25,983 - Can never forget. - Yeah. 913 00:30:26,050 --> 00:30:27,351 - Do you guys have any questions? 914 00:30:27,451 --> 00:30:28,819 - Anything you guys want to know about me? 915 00:30:28,886 --> 00:30:30,187 - Anything you wanna know about Jay? 916 00:30:30,254 --> 00:30:32,256 - If he becomes your boyfriend, 917 00:30:32,323 --> 00:30:34,358 can he drive me around to get my nails done? 918 00:30:34,458 --> 00:30:36,660 [laughter] You work at the mall? 919 00:30:36,727 --> 00:30:38,529 - No. - Mom, how did you meet? 920 00:30:38,596 --> 00:30:39,797 - We met at a concert. 921 00:30:39,864 --> 00:30:41,565 And we've went on a few dates since then 922 00:30:41,632 --> 00:30:44,268 and talked FaceTimed and... 923 00:30:44,401 --> 00:30:46,570 - ♪ If you liked it, then you should have put a ring on it ♪ 924 00:30:46,637 --> 00:30:48,405 [laughter] 925 00:30:48,439 --> 00:30:51,141 - Okay, it was very important that I waited to introduce 926 00:30:51,208 --> 00:30:52,276 you guys. - Mm-hmm. 927 00:30:52,409 --> 00:30:53,544 - 'Cause you guys are my life. 928 00:30:53,611 --> 00:30:55,846 So anyone that comes around you guys... 929 00:30:55,913 --> 00:30:57,681 - Mm-hmm. - Has to love you equally 930 00:30:57,748 --> 00:30:59,617 and be good to you guys. 931 00:30:59,683 --> 00:31:01,852 So it was very important that I got to know Jay, 932 00:31:01,919 --> 00:31:03,187 like really got to know Jay, 933 00:31:03,254 --> 00:31:05,322 before I ever introduced him to you guys. 934 00:31:05,422 --> 00:31:06,490 Do you guys wanna see him more? 935 00:31:06,557 --> 00:31:08,325 - Yeah. - Mm-hmm. 936 00:31:08,425 --> 00:31:10,794 - I already did want to see you guys more, so... 937 00:31:10,861 --> 00:31:12,563 [soft music] 938 00:31:12,630 --> 00:31:13,831 It was nice meeting you. 939 00:31:13,898 --> 00:31:15,032 - Mm-hmm. - Ali. 940 00:31:15,099 --> 00:31:16,834 - Something. - Tall, she's tall. 941 00:31:16,901 --> 00:31:17,768 She's-- - Yep. 942 00:31:17,835 --> 00:31:19,537 [laughs] 943 00:31:19,603 --> 00:31:21,972 [bass guitar music] 944 00:31:22,039 --> 00:31:23,307 - There you go, Linc. Come on. 945 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:24,808 Get outside. Get outside. 946 00:31:24,875 --> 00:31:25,943 Get outside. Get outside. 947 00:31:26,010 --> 00:31:27,278 That's nice! That's nice! 948 00:31:27,344 --> 00:31:28,679 That's a good one. Good job, Linc! 949 00:31:28,746 --> 00:31:29,747 - There you go! 950 00:31:29,813 --> 00:31:30,848 Lincoln has football, 951 00:31:30,915 --> 00:31:31,882 so I stopped by to watch. 952 00:31:31,949 --> 00:31:33,484 I'm gonna see Vee later, 953 00:31:33,551 --> 00:31:35,486 so I wanna make sure I understand what happened 954 00:31:35,553 --> 00:31:37,855 between her and Javi before we talk. 955 00:31:37,922 --> 00:31:39,957 I mean, Lincoln loves football. 956 00:31:40,024 --> 00:31:42,059 He loves training. He loves all of it. 957 00:31:42,126 --> 00:31:43,861 - And we never thought he would be into football. 958 00:31:43,928 --> 00:31:45,062 - You know, one thing 959 00:31:45,129 --> 00:31:46,597 that we have never needed help on 960 00:31:46,664 --> 00:31:48,432 is co-parenting when it comes to Lincoln 961 00:31:48,499 --> 00:31:50,234 and all of his activities and things like that. 962 00:31:50,301 --> 00:31:52,603 But I just wish that you had told me 963 00:31:52,670 --> 00:31:53,804 about Vee instead. 964 00:31:53,871 --> 00:31:55,706 This did happen. I did meet up with her. 965 00:31:55,773 --> 00:31:57,074 I did--this was said. 966 00:31:57,141 --> 00:31:59,610 - So why I never went to you is because 967 00:31:59,677 --> 00:32:01,111 we were in a bad spot. 968 00:32:01,178 --> 00:32:02,646 That whole divorce, that whole year of the divorce, 969 00:32:02,713 --> 00:32:04,081 when we were in a bad spot-- - Even the year after. 970 00:32:04,148 --> 00:32:07,117 - So for someone that's, in my eyes, 971 00:32:07,184 --> 00:32:09,086 close to you, I'm gonna believe it. 972 00:32:09,153 --> 00:32:11,555 If Vee wants to own up to that, that's on her. 973 00:32:11,622 --> 00:32:13,023 - I don't think she is who she was, 974 00:32:13,090 --> 00:32:14,458 you know, four years ago... - Right. 975 00:32:14,525 --> 00:32:16,660 - But as far as, like, business goes, 976 00:32:16,727 --> 00:32:19,463 I think it was just a sign that, like, we can be friends, 977 00:32:19,530 --> 00:32:20,664 but maybe not necessarily work together. 978 00:32:20,731 --> 00:32:21,899 - Yeah. 979 00:32:21,966 --> 00:32:23,033 - But now I need to have a conversation 980 00:32:23,100 --> 00:32:24,768 with Vee about everything in person, 981 00:32:24,835 --> 00:32:26,237 and I am a little nervous, 982 00:32:26,303 --> 00:32:28,439 'cause I haven't seen Vee since the stuff that occurred. 983 00:32:28,505 --> 00:32:31,442 [somber music] 984 00:32:31,508 --> 00:32:38,449 ♪ ♪ 985 00:32:43,888 --> 00:32:45,956 Hey. - Oh, hey. 986 00:32:46,023 --> 00:32:47,625 - How are you? - How are you? 987 00:32:47,691 --> 00:32:48,859 - Good. - Good. 988 00:32:48,926 --> 00:32:50,995 - Okay. 989 00:32:51,061 --> 00:32:53,297 So I just want you to know that I-- 990 00:32:53,397 --> 00:32:54,999 I still love our friendship, 991 00:32:55,065 --> 00:32:56,600 and I still wanna be there for the kids. 992 00:32:56,667 --> 00:32:57,668 I don't hate you. 993 00:32:57,735 --> 00:32:58,736 - Well, I'm--no, I'm glad 994 00:32:58,802 --> 00:32:59,837 that you texted me. 995 00:32:59,904 --> 00:33:01,005 I wish, obviously, right now 996 00:33:01,071 --> 00:33:02,406 that I never did that to you... 997 00:33:02,473 --> 00:33:04,174 - Right, of course. - Because what the [bleep]? 998 00:33:04,241 --> 00:33:05,543 I don't know if it's maybe 999 00:33:05,609 --> 00:33:06,710 'cause all the things that I felt in the past 1000 00:33:06,777 --> 00:33:08,312 like, on top of, like, having the baby, 1001 00:33:08,412 --> 00:33:10,414 and, like, I was going through, like, postpartum 1002 00:33:10,481 --> 00:33:12,516 and just depress-- I had nobody down here... 1003 00:33:12,583 --> 00:33:14,084 - Yeah. - And I just felt miserable. 1004 00:33:14,151 --> 00:33:16,086 I don't know if it was like I wanted someone else to hurt 1005 00:33:16,153 --> 00:33:17,521 or something, which is not-- 1006 00:33:17,588 --> 00:33:18,989 - Sometimes, that's--I mean... - Which is not okay, 1007 00:33:19,056 --> 00:33:22,193 but I would never do that to you or somebody else again. 1008 00:33:22,259 --> 00:33:23,694 I would never want to put that hurt on somebody. 1009 00:33:23,761 --> 00:33:25,496 I know how deeply it hurt you. - Yeah. 1010 00:33:25,563 --> 00:33:26,797 And, like, maybe the podcast is done. 1011 00:33:26,864 --> 00:33:28,299 Like, maybe we weren't meant to work together, 1012 00:33:28,432 --> 00:33:30,201 but, like, I--like I said, I still wanna have, like, 1013 00:33:30,267 --> 00:33:31,635 a personal relationship with you, and-- 1014 00:33:31,702 --> 00:33:34,004 "Baby Mamas, No Drama"-- it would have to be switched 1015 00:33:34,071 --> 00:33:35,773 to, like, "Baby Mamas, All Drama." 1016 00:33:35,839 --> 00:33:37,274 You know what I mean? Like, I mean, it's sad. 1017 00:33:37,341 --> 00:33:38,209 It's so sad. - It's so sad. 1018 00:33:38,275 --> 00:33:39,343 I'm really sad. 1019 00:33:39,443 --> 00:33:40,477 - I definitely think it's hard 1020 00:33:40,544 --> 00:33:41,845 to mix friendships with business. 1021 00:33:41,912 --> 00:33:43,280 - Especially us 'cause we're not just friends. 1022 00:33:43,347 --> 00:33:45,549 We're co-parent on top of that. - Right. 1023 00:33:45,616 --> 00:33:47,284 - So to me, like, our personal relationship 1024 00:33:47,384 --> 00:33:49,153 is way more important to me than... 1025 00:33:49,220 --> 00:33:50,421 - The business? - Than the business. 1026 00:33:50,487 --> 00:33:51,722 - I don't want there to be any bad blood. 1027 00:33:51,789 --> 00:33:53,390 - We just need to do better from here on out, 1028 00:33:53,424 --> 00:33:55,960 no mistakes, no, like, bull[bleep]. 1029 00:33:56,026 --> 00:33:59,063 Like, just loyalty and-- 1030 00:33:59,129 --> 00:34:00,297 - Honesty, transparency, 1031 00:34:00,397 --> 00:34:01,632 all of it, and we're good. 1032 00:34:04,201 --> 00:34:07,137 [upbeat music] 1033 00:34:07,204 --> 00:34:13,410 ♪ ♪ 1034 00:34:13,410 --> 00:34:15,446 - This is exciting. 1035 00:34:15,512 --> 00:34:17,915 Are you excited to eat here? 1036 00:34:17,982 --> 00:34:21,018 You're gonna dip your bread in the cheese and [bleep]? 1037 00:34:21,085 --> 00:34:22,920 - Vroom, vroom, vroom. 1038 00:34:22,987 --> 00:34:24,255 What up? - Hola. 1039 00:34:24,321 --> 00:34:25,789 Cómo estás? 1040 00:34:25,856 --> 00:34:27,491 - What up, what up, what up? 1041 00:34:27,558 --> 00:34:30,427 - Are you guys celebrating anything special today? 1042 00:34:30,494 --> 00:34:32,029 - I'm just here. - Stopped for dinner? 1043 00:34:32,096 --> 00:34:33,097 Nice. - Mm-hmm. 1044 00:34:33,163 --> 00:34:34,098 - It's the weekend, you know. 1045 00:34:34,164 --> 00:34:35,199 - As a family. 1046 00:34:35,266 --> 00:34:37,334 - Family dinner. 1047 00:34:37,434 --> 00:34:40,337 - How's--how's business going for you? 1048 00:34:40,437 --> 00:34:43,140 - Work is cool. It's actually picking up. 1049 00:34:43,207 --> 00:34:44,675 - That's good. 1050 00:34:46,076 --> 00:34:47,278 - When do you plan on moving? 1051 00:34:47,378 --> 00:34:48,946 - End of this month. The lease is up. 1052 00:34:49,013 --> 00:34:50,614 - Oh, God. 1053 00:34:50,681 --> 00:34:52,416 - There's not too many things available 1054 00:34:52,483 --> 00:34:53,751 within what I'm trying to, you know, pay. 1055 00:34:53,817 --> 00:34:54,818 - Yeah, yeah. 1056 00:34:54,885 --> 00:34:56,253 - Three bedrooms, you know? 1057 00:34:56,387 --> 00:34:58,289 I want something I can set her up with a room, so. 1058 00:34:58,389 --> 00:34:59,590 So she wanna come over more. 1059 00:34:59,657 --> 00:35:02,393 - Yeah. Nova needs her own space. 1060 00:35:02,393 --> 00:35:03,661 She's already hitting that age 1061 00:35:03,727 --> 00:35:06,630 where she's basically a teenager already. 1062 00:35:06,697 --> 00:35:07,831 - Oh, I know. 1063 00:35:07,898 --> 00:35:10,234 - What's the third room for? 1064 00:35:10,301 --> 00:35:12,269 - Probably his game room. - Third room-- 1065 00:35:12,403 --> 00:35:13,437 - Your game room? 1066 00:35:13,504 --> 00:35:14,405 You'll probably be in there all day. 1067 00:35:14,438 --> 00:35:15,439 - It's just a de--yeah, 1068 00:35:15,506 --> 00:35:17,875 just like you be on TikTok. 1069 00:35:17,942 --> 00:35:21,111 - I'm glad you invited me out to dinner, me and Nova. 1070 00:35:21,178 --> 00:35:22,646 I'm having a blast. 1071 00:35:22,713 --> 00:35:23,847 - Great. 1072 00:35:23,914 --> 00:35:25,216 - We gotta do this more often. 1073 00:35:25,282 --> 00:35:29,019 Right? Are you having fun? 1074 00:35:29,086 --> 00:35:30,487 - Yeah, I'm eating salad next time. 1075 00:35:30,554 --> 00:35:34,158 - I think Devoin and I had a child so young, 1076 00:35:34,225 --> 00:35:35,926 and I think we both had struggled. 1077 00:35:35,993 --> 00:35:37,428 We were both very immature. 1078 00:35:37,494 --> 00:35:39,330 We did not know how to co-parent, 1079 00:35:39,430 --> 00:35:40,764 let alone parent. 1080 00:35:40,831 --> 00:35:42,733 Like, it was just-- everything about it was hard. 1081 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:46,403 But we're growing up now. We're becoming adults. 1082 00:35:46,470 --> 00:35:48,005 At the end of the day, we just need to make sure 1083 00:35:48,072 --> 00:35:49,373 that Nova is okay 1084 00:35:49,406 --> 00:35:50,808 and to give her everything that she needs 1085 00:35:50,875 --> 00:35:52,576 and to protect her and to love her 1086 00:35:52,643 --> 00:35:53,811 and to guide her and teach her, 1087 00:35:53,878 --> 00:35:56,714 and I think we're trying to do that now. 1088 00:35:56,780 --> 00:35:58,249 Nova's very shy. 1089 00:35:58,382 --> 00:35:59,250 Throughout the dinner, 1090 00:35:59,383 --> 00:36:00,985 seeing her smile and laugh 1091 00:36:01,051 --> 00:36:03,387 with her dad and with me-- it was very special. 1092 00:36:03,387 --> 00:36:05,656 [spacey music] 1093 00:36:05,723 --> 00:36:08,158 ♪ ♪ 1094 00:36:14,229 --> 00:36:16,493 {\an7}[upbeat music] 1095 00:36:16,493 --> 00:36:17,361 {\an7}[country music] 1096 00:36:17,361 --> 00:36:21,899 {\an7}- ♪ It’s always something ♪ 1097 00:36:21,899 --> 00:36:23,328 {\an7}♪ ♪ 1098 00:36:23,328 --> 00:36:24,526 {\an7}- Oh, what are you doing? 1099 00:36:24,526 --> 00:36:25,757 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hAre you doing a research project for-- 1100 00:36:25,757 --> 00:36:28,163 {\an7}\h\h- It’s for Spanish. - Project for Spanish? 1101 00:36:28,163 --> 00:36:29,658 {\an7}Are you doing it on Costa Rica? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. 1102 00:36:29,658 --> 00:36:31,493 {\an7}- So what did you guys think \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\habout meeting 1103 00:36:31,493 --> 00:36:32,625 {\an7}Jay the other day? 1104 00:36:32,625 --> 00:36:33,361 {\an7}- Pretty cool. 1105 00:36:33,361 --> 00:36:34,899 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah? - Yeah, I like Jay. 1106 00:36:34,899 --> 00:36:35,932 {\an7}- I like Jay. 1107 00:36:35,932 --> 00:36:37,757 {\an7}- It’s pretty cool \hthat he’s a twin. 1108 00:36:37,757 --> 00:36:39,163 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm. - And you guys are twins. 1109 00:36:39,163 --> 00:36:40,427 {\an7}\h- I mean, it’s what we have in common... 1110 00:36:40,427 --> 00:36:41,625 {\an7}- That means he knows \h\h\h\hthe struggle. 1111 00:36:41,625 --> 00:36:43,625 {\an7}- ...things in common, \h\hit makes it easier. 1112 00:36:43,625 --> 00:36:44,493 {\an7}- Right. 1113 00:36:44,493 --> 00:36:46,833 {\an7}- He was definitely \h\hacting anxious. 1114 00:36:46,833 --> 00:36:48,493 {\an7}Like, I could tell. 1115 00:36:48,493 --> 00:36:50,262 {\an7}- Well, he’s never been \h\h\h\h\hwith someone 1116 00:36:50,262 --> 00:36:51,361 {\an7}that’s had kids, either. 1117 00:36:51,361 --> 00:36:52,932 {\an7}’Cause I’m sure that was \h\h\h\h\h\hdefinitely-- 1118 00:36:52,932 --> 00:36:55,262 {\an7}gave him a little bit \h\h\h\h\hof anxiety. 1119 00:36:55,262 --> 00:36:56,361 {\an7}It’s kind of like your dad 1120 00:36:56,361 --> 00:36:57,658 {\an7}when he first met Miranda, 1121 00:36:57,658 --> 00:36:58,460 {\an7}and he had two kids. 1122 00:36:58,460 --> 00:37:00,526 {\an7}You know, it’s a lot-- \h- Especially you two. 1123 00:37:00,526 --> 00:37:02,592 {\an7}- It’s a lot of responsibility. 1124 00:37:02,592 --> 00:37:04,394 {\an7}What did you guys like \h\h\h\h\h\habout him? 1125 00:37:04,394 --> 00:37:06,460 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Everything. - Just gave off a good vibe. 1126 00:37:06,460 --> 00:37:08,229 {\an7}I liked him. \h\h\h- Yeah. 1127 00:37:08,229 --> 00:37:09,427 {\an7}You said everything? 1128 00:37:09,427 --> 00:37:10,592 {\an7}- Cool vibes. 1129 00:37:10,592 --> 00:37:11,460 {\an7}- Cool vibes? 1130 00:37:11,460 --> 00:37:12,691 {\an7}I know he really likes \h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou guys. 1131 00:37:12,691 --> 00:37:14,757 {\an7}I definitely wanted to get \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto know Jay 1132 00:37:14,757 --> 00:37:16,361 {\an7}before I introduced you guys \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto him. 1133 00:37:16,361 --> 00:37:20,394 {\an7}\hBut it’s also important to me that I don’t just bring anyone 1134 00:37:20,394 --> 00:37:21,460 {\an7}into you guys’ life. 1135 00:37:21,460 --> 00:37:23,757 {\an7}\hI mean, I really like that you guys clicked. 1136 00:37:23,757 --> 00:37:24,866 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Right. - I’m excited to see 1137 00:37:24,866 --> 00:37:27,866 {\an7}what--what the future holds \h\h\h\h\h\hfor all of us. 1138 00:37:27,866 --> 00:37:31,295 {\an7}♪ ♪ 1139 00:37:31,295 --> 00:37:33,833 {\an7}- ♪ Yeah ♪ 1140 00:37:33,833 --> 00:37:35,757 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- I’m closing on the new house today, 1141 00:37:35,757 --> 00:37:38,559 {\an7}and I hope this can give Kloie \h\h\h\ha sense of stability, 1142 00:37:38,559 --> 00:37:40,833 {\an7}\h\h\h\hsince she’s had a lot of change lately. 1143 00:37:40,833 --> 00:37:41,757 {\an7}- [whines indistinctly] 1144 00:37:41,757 --> 00:37:43,592 {\an7}- It’s not raining \h\hno more, baby. 1145 00:37:43,592 --> 00:37:44,899 {\an7}It’s done. 1146 00:37:44,899 --> 00:37:46,559 {\an7}Are you gonna be good? 1147 00:37:46,559 --> 00:37:47,295 {\an7}- Yeah! 1148 00:37:47,295 --> 00:37:50,790 {\an7}- This is a big day \h\hfor you and me. 1149 00:37:50,790 --> 00:37:51,724 {\an7}Behave. 1150 00:37:51,724 --> 00:37:54,998 {\an7}- [whines softly] 1151 00:37:54,998 --> 00:37:56,559 {\an7}♪ ♪ 1152 00:37:56,559 --> 00:37:58,592 {\an7}- You’re just grouchy ’cause you’re sleepy. 1153 00:37:58,592 --> 00:38:00,592 {\an7}\h\h\hDo you know what we’re doing? 1154 00:38:00,592 --> 00:38:01,658 {\an7}- No. 1155 00:38:01,658 --> 00:38:04,724 {\an7}- You want me to tell you \h\h\h\hwhat we’re doing? 1156 00:38:04,724 --> 00:38:05,965 {\an7}- Mm! 1157 00:38:05,965 --> 00:38:07,361 {\an7}- Can you stop? 1158 00:38:07,361 --> 00:38:09,724 {\an7}\h\h\hYou remember how Mommy told you 1159 00:38:09,724 --> 00:38:11,757 {\an7}she was gonna buy you a house? 1160 00:38:11,757 --> 00:38:13,592 {\an7}Mommy’s gonna get us a house 1161 00:38:13,592 --> 00:38:15,625 {\an7}that we can keep forever. 1162 00:38:15,625 --> 00:38:18,031 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hYou want a house that you can have forever? 1163 00:38:18,031 --> 00:38:20,998 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hAll of our stuff that’s in our house right now 1164 00:38:20,998 --> 00:38:22,526 {\an7}will be in our new house. 1165 00:38:22,526 --> 00:38:25,295 {\an7}Are you excited to show Daddy \h\h\h\h\h\h\hyour new house 1166 00:38:25,295 --> 00:38:27,658 {\an7}when he gets home? 1167 00:38:29,493 --> 00:38:31,592 {\an7}Hmm? 1168 00:38:32,526 --> 00:38:34,757 {\an7}\hAre you just gonna be a grouch to me all day? 1169 00:38:34,757 --> 00:38:36,833 {\an7}\hYou’re hurting Mommy’s feelings. 1170 00:38:36,833 --> 00:38:37,493 {\an7}- I’m not. 1171 00:38:37,493 --> 00:38:39,625 {\an7}- This is supposed to be \h\ha big day for Mommy, 1172 00:38:39,625 --> 00:38:41,625 {\an7}and you’re hurting my feelings. 1173 00:38:41,625 --> 00:38:46,361 {\an7}- ♪ You are my home ♪ 1174 00:38:46,361 --> 00:38:48,998 {\an7}♪ All that I need ♪ 1175 00:38:48,998 --> 00:38:52,866 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Are you happy? We just got a new house. 1176 00:38:52,866 --> 00:38:54,526 {\an7}You just got a new house. 1177 00:38:54,526 --> 00:38:55,899 {\an7}Do the dance. Do the dance. 1178 00:38:55,899 --> 00:38:57,361 {\an7}Do the dance. \h\h\h\h- No! 1179 00:38:57,361 --> 00:38:58,328 {\an7}- Do the dance. 1180 00:38:58,328 --> 00:38:59,658 {\an7}Do your shaky butt. \hShake your butt. 1181 00:38:59,658 --> 00:39:00,757 {\an7}Shake your butt. Shake your butt. 1182 00:39:00,757 --> 00:39:03,790 {\an7}You’re a little grouch. \hYou’re no fun today. 1183 00:39:03,790 --> 00:39:06,592 {\an7}\h\h- Yeah, I am. - No, you’re not. 1184 00:39:06,592 --> 00:39:08,932 {\an7}Big whiner. 1185 00:39:09,559 --> 00:39:10,658 {\an7}I’m gonna call Grandma Lori. 1186 00:39:10,658 --> 00:39:13,097 {\an7}Oh, can I see my phone \h\h\h\h\h\hreal quick? 1187 00:39:13,097 --> 00:39:13,833 {\an7}- Mm! 1188 00:39:13,833 --> 00:39:16,460 {\an7}- I’ll give it back to you \h\h\hif you give it to me 1189 00:39:16,460 --> 00:39:18,526 {\an7}and you be nice about it. 1190 00:39:18,526 --> 00:39:20,064 {\an7}\h\h\hThank you. I’ll give it back 1191 00:39:20,064 --> 00:39:21,790 {\an7}after I call Grandma Lori. 1192 00:39:21,790 --> 00:39:24,757 {\an7}[line trilling] - Grandma no... 1193 00:39:24,757 --> 00:39:27,559 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Hello? - I signed my papers. 1194 00:39:27,559 --> 00:39:28,493 {\an7}I’m officially a homeowner. 1195 00:39:28,493 --> 00:39:31,965 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- You did? Congratulations, hon. 1196 00:39:31,965 --> 00:39:33,757 {\an7}Just wait till you get \h\h\h\h\h\hin there. 1197 00:39:33,757 --> 00:39:35,427 {\an7}You’re gonna freaking love it. 1198 00:39:35,427 --> 00:39:36,899 {\an7}\h\h\h- I know. I’m so excited. 1199 00:39:36,899 --> 00:39:38,833 {\an7}- Have your own [bleep]. 1200 00:39:38,833 --> 00:39:41,965 {\an7}\h- I just wanna give my daughter stability. 1201 00:39:41,965 --> 00:39:43,526 {\an7}I never had that growing up. 1202 00:39:43,526 --> 00:39:45,724 {\an7}I always moved. I moved schools. 1203 00:39:45,724 --> 00:39:46,790 {\an7}I lost a lot of friends, 1204 00:39:46,790 --> 00:39:49,757 {\an7}\h\hand I want her to have somewhere 1205 00:39:49,757 --> 00:39:50,526 {\an7}that’s stable. 1206 00:39:50,526 --> 00:39:52,493 {\an7}\h\hMe providing her that, like, stability 1207 00:39:52,493 --> 00:39:54,724 {\an7}and that little sense of home \h\h\h\his really important. 1208 00:39:54,724 --> 00:39:57,097 {\an7}Kloie’s handling Sean \h\h\h\h\hbeing away. 1209 00:39:57,097 --> 00:40:00,031 {\an7}I think she definitely \h\h\h\his missing him, 1210 00:40:00,031 --> 00:40:01,965 {\an7}and I think I’m trying \h\h\h\h\hto do my best 1211 00:40:01,965 --> 00:40:03,965 {\an7}to kind of make up for that, 1212 00:40:03,965 --> 00:40:06,724 {\an7}and I want her to have \h\ha sense of comfort 1213 00:40:06,724 --> 00:40:08,097 {\an7}and somewhere that she knows 1214 00:40:08,097 --> 00:40:10,031 {\an7}\hthat, you know, in the next year, 1215 00:40:10,031 --> 00:40:12,757 {\an7}we’re not just gonna up \h\h\hand have to move. 1216 00:40:12,757 --> 00:40:15,790 {\an7}[soft music] 1217 00:40:15,790 --> 00:40:17,526 {\an7}♪ ♪ 1218 00:40:17,526 --> 00:40:19,625 {\an7}- ♪ Whenever the room \h\hstarts spinning ♪ 1219 00:40:19,625 --> 00:40:23,691 {\an7}♪ And the walls feel like they closing ♪ 1220 00:40:23,691 --> 00:40:26,460 {\an7}♪ When the doubt start \h\h\h\h\hsetting in ♪ 1221 00:40:26,460 --> 00:40:27,790 {\an7}♪ I know that you know ♪ 1222 00:40:27,790 --> 00:40:31,790 {\an7}\h♪ If I went north and you went south ♪ 1223 00:40:31,790 --> 00:40:35,031 {\an7}♪ We’d find our way \h\h\hback around ♪ 1224 00:40:35,031 --> 00:40:38,899 {\an7}♪ Nothing’s ever too far ♪ 1225 00:40:38,899 --> 00:40:42,658 {\an7}♪ I’m with you where you are ♪ 1226 00:40:42,658 --> 00:40:45,163 {\an7}♪ ♪ 1227 00:40:45,163 --> 00:40:51,691 {\an7}♪ I’m with you where you are ♪ 1228 00:40:56,869 --> 00:40:58,440 {\an7}- I don’t wanna play football. 1229 00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:00,978 {\an7}\h\h\h- You need to be there because you committed to it. 1230 00:41:00,978 --> 00:41:03,539 {\an7}- [screaming] 1231 00:41:03,539 --> 00:41:04,374 {\an7}- I’ve never wanted to be 1232 00:41:04,374 --> 00:41:05,638 {\an7}in a long-distance \h\h\hrelationship. 1233 00:41:05,638 --> 00:41:07,077 {\an7}\h\h- And we, like, out here, mourning. 1234 00:41:07,077 --> 00:41:08,506 {\an7}This is kind of getting to me. 1235 00:41:08,506 --> 00:41:09,671 {\an7}- I’ve got court tomorrow. 1236 00:41:09,671 --> 00:41:10,605 {\an7}- I’m just over it. 1237 00:41:10,605 --> 00:41:13,638 {\an7}\h\h\h- She was telling me that her heart was hurting, 1238 00:41:13,638 --> 00:41:15,506 {\an7}so we ran to the ER. 1239 00:41:15,506 --> 00:41:17,572 {\an7}- We’re gonna go see Daddy. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Daddy! 1240 00:41:17,572 --> 00:41:20,176 {\an7}- [laughs] - [laughs]