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{\an7}- ♪ MTV ♪
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hPreviously
on "Teen Mom 2"...
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{\an7}- What have you built
\h\hfor this family?
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- I can say I plan
to put my best foot forward
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hto make us...uh,
co-inhabiting this house
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{\an7}as smooth as possible.
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{\an7}- What’s up with you and Bar?
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{\an7}- I don’t know.
What the hell?
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{\an7}I feel like I’m being
\h\h\h\hinterrogated.
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{\an7}People are married
\h\h\hin real life
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{\an7}trying to work it out
\h\h\h\hin real life,
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{\an7}so I say give me time.
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{\an7}Give me the [bleep] time.
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{\an7}- Hold on, Ashley. Hold on.
\h\h- Ashley, [indistinct].
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{\an7}- No, I’m done.
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{\an7}- When me and Dad got pulled
\h\h\h\hover three years ago,
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hhe had weed in there,
and they charged me with it,
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{\an7}so I have to go to jail
\h\h\h\h\hfor 45 days.
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{\an7}They continued it.
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{\an7}I didn’t go to jail.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Well, I guess
that’s great for you then.
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{\an7}- Can I come see you
\h\hand Kloie later?
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{\an7}- Um, not today.
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{\an7}I didn’t really care.
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{\an7}I guess good for her.
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{\an7}\hThat just means they’re
continuing the court date
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{\an7}\h\ha little later,
so it doesn’t mean
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{\an7}she’s out of anything.
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{\an7}- Open up all the way.
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{\an7}- Come look.
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{\an7}Your dad’s here.
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{\an7}- Your dad wants to take you.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I think
that hurt his feelings
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{\an7}and he just didn’t show.
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{\an7}He disappointed her.
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{\an7}- Just telling you about
\h\hmy kids, that’s all.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hI love ’em.
- When that time comes,
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{\an7}I’m really excited
\h\h\hto meet them.
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{\an7}- I’d like to go to Costa Rica
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand see Royer.
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{\an7}I’d like for you to go.
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{\an7}Cai will be two.
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{\an7}And he’s never seen his dad.
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{\an7}- Do you wanna go
\hto Costa Rica?
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{\an7}- I would love to go.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI mean,
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{\an7}this would be a good time
\h\h\h\h\hfor me to kinda
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{\an7}\hprove to you
that I’m ready
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{\an7}to be in a relationship
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith you.
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{\an7}- Vee and I started
\h\h\ha new podcast
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{\an7}called "Baby Mamas, No Drama."
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{\an7}I’m gonna let you introduce,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hum...
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Our guest?
- Yeah, our guest today.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Of course,
it had to be my hubby.
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{\an7}\h- I’m excited to see you guys
taking a new journey together.
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{\an7}\h- How you feel about
the podcast we just did
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{\an7}with, uh, Briana?
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{\an7}- Kail’s not gonna like it
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hoff the fact
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{\an7}that it’s just Briana.
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{\an7}That’s it.
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{\an7}[tense music]
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}[upbeat rock music]
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}- ♪ Shame I’m feeling myself ♪
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{\an7}♪ Oh, yeah ♪
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{\an7}- I spent a week in Costa Rica
\h\hwith my sister and Jaylan.
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{\an7}We had an amazing time.
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{\an7}Royer got to meet their son
\h\h\h\hfor the first time,
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{\an7}and he and my sister
\h\h\h\hgot engaged.
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{\an7}- Aw.
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{\an7}[camera shutter clicks]
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{\an7}- I got to know Jaylan better
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{\an7}while we were there.
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{\an7}And on a date night,
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hhe asked me
to be his girlfriend.
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{\an7}So we’re official now.
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{\an7}[soft music]
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{\an7}I just got home and Jaylan
\h\hflew back to Georgia.
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{\an7}The girls spent the week
\h\h\h\hat their dad’s,
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{\an7}but they’re here now
\h\h\hwith a sitter,
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{\an7}and I can’t wait to see them.
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{\an7}Boo!
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hBoo!
[dog barking]
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{\an7}- Got you roses.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Who did?
- Lucky missed you too.
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{\an7}- Jay.
- Jay?
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{\an7}Jaylan got me roses?
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{\an7}What?
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{\an7}\h\h\hWhat?
- Hey, Mom.
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}- Hi, Lucky man.
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{\an7}Hi, Lucky man.
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{\an7}\h\h\hHow are you?
Did you miss mama?
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Sit.
- What? [gasps]
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Sit.
- You still have your mask on.
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{\an7}You’ve been in the car.
\h\h\h\h\h- No, I know.
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{\an7}\h[groans]
- [squeals]
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{\an7}- What are you doing?
\h- He scratched me.
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{\an7}- Ooh, I see some As in here.
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{\an7}Okay, so how much did you guys
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hmiss me though?
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{\an7}- A lot.
- A lot?
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[barking]
Lucky, no, no, no, no, no.
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{\an7}Come in!
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{\an7}Lucky, come.
- Hey, Lucky.
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{\an7}- I’m in here.
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{\an7}- Hey.
\h- Hi.
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{\an7}- Whatcha doing?
\h- Oh, you know.
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{\an7}I just came back
from Costa Rica.
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{\an7}- How was it though?
\h\h- It was amazing.
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{\an7}So I invited Jaylan to go
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith me.
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{\an7}And I think it allowed us to...
\h\h\h\h\h\hkind of get closer
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{\an7}and get to know each other
\h\h\h\h\h\ha little better
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{\an7}than maybe we did.
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{\an7}\h- Yeah.
- Before.
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{\an7}He ended up taking me to this,
\h\h\h\hlike, candlelit dinner.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Stop.
- I [bleep] you not.
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{\an7}I think this dude’s the devil.
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{\an7}- [laughs]
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{\an7}Why, because he’s so perfect?
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{\an7}- He asked me to be exclusive.
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{\an7}- And you said...
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{\an7}- And I said hell no.
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{\an7}- No, you didn’t.
- No, I’m joking.
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{\an7}I’m joking, I’m joking,
I’m joking, I’m joking.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI did.
I was like, oh, my God.
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{\an7}- Like, I’m happy for you.
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{\an7}\h\hReally.
- [laughs]
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{\an7}- [laughing]
\hSeriously.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I know.
- Like, he literally came
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{\an7}\houtta nowhere.
- A little--yeah.
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{\an7}He gives me butterflies
\h\h\h\h\ha little bit,
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{\an7}but I’m like, all right.
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{\an7}- So did Jaylan go back
\h\h\h\h\h\hto Georgia?
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{\an7}\h\h- Yeah, he did.
- How’s that going?
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{\an7}\h\h\h- He had some work stuff.
I mean, it’ll be long-distance
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{\an7}\h\h\hfor a little while,
but he’s coming to visit
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{\an7}later this week.
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{\an7}- Has he met the girls yet?
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Not yet.
He’s excited and nervous
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{\an7}about meeting them.
\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
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{\an7}\h\h- It’s so clear
that he loves kids.
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{\an7}And I think the girls
\h\h\hwill love him.
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{\an7}I think that’s what scares me
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe most.
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{\an7}Is because...
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{\an7}I like him so much.
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{\an7}And I see, like,
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{\an7}how and where my kids are
\hgonna like him so much.
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{\an7}- Yeah.
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{\an7}[soft music]
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{\an7}[upbeat music]
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{\an7}- My sister and I
were in San Diego
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{\an7}for the last two weeks
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hfilming
"Teen Mom: Family Reunion,"
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand tonight
we’re finally coming home.
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{\an7}- Listen.
\h- Uh...
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Listen to me,
the faster we pack your snacks
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{\an7}for tonight--for tomorrow--
\h\h\h- It’s [indistinct].
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{\an7}- No.
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{\an7}The faster--and you go to bed,
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{\an7}the faster you see your mom.
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{\an7}- [talking indistinctly]
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}[barking]
- [gasps]
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{\an7}\h[screaming]
They’re home!
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{\an7}- Hi, girls.
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{\an7}- We missed you guys.
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{\an7}- What? No way!
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{\an7}Oh, my God, your mom is here!
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{\an7}- I missed you, girl.
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{\an7}- I think I’m more excited
\h\h\h\h\h\hthan the girls.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hOh,
I’m happy you guys are home.
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}- So how was San Diego?
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{\an7}- San Diego was cool.
\h\hIt was--it was--
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{\an7}it was nice out there.
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{\an7}Nice and relaxing.
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{\an7}\hCome on, take your time.
Take your time. Line it up.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hBut yeah,
it was a good time out there.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYou know,
got a lot of time to, you know,
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{\an7}really get to...
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{\an7}like show Bri what the hell’s
\h\h\h\h\h\hgoing on with me.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Bri,
would I be accurate to say
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{\an7}\hthat you do not trust him
to say he’s gonna show up?
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{\an7}- Not always.
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{\an7}- I just want you to know,
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{\an7}\h\h\h[sighs]
I love Nova.
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{\an7}\h- I know.
- [sniffs]
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{\an7}Always.
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{\an7}- I know.
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{\an7}- And I mean, like,
\hI’m definitely--
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{\an7}can do a lot for more--
a lot more for her now.
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{\an7}- Is that a commitment?
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hHm?
- It’s a promise.
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{\an7}- How was the--the talk?
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{\an7}- It was cool.
\hWe usually--
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{\an7}whenever we sit down and forced
\h\h\h\hto talk to teach other,
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{\an7}it’s an argument on the couch.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm.
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{\an7}- You don’t know what size
\h\h\h\h\hshoes she wears.
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{\an7}You don’t know her diaper.
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{\an7}You don’t know [bleep].
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{\an7}- Is this the Briana show
\h\h\h\h\hor can I talk?
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{\an7}- No, you don’t need to talk.
\h- Is it the Briana show--?
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{\an7}- ’Cause your actions show
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hit all.
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{\an7}- How many birthday parties
have you gone to for Nova?
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{\an7}\h\h\h- Told me don’t come,
not that I wasn’t invited.
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{\an7}- Get the [bleep] outta here.
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{\an7}You’re such a liar.
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{\an7}I feel like I’ma throw [bleep]
\h\h\h\h\hat him at this point.
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{\an7}- Wrap it up then.
\h- No, you’re not.
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{\an7}- You don’t do what you need
\h\h\h\h\hto do as a father!
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{\an7}You do bare minimum.
\h\h\h\hBare minimum.
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{\an7}- Hey, y’all let me know
\h\h\h\hwhen I can talk.
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{\an7}- You’re not a real man.
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{\an7}- Let’s take a minute.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
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{\an7}- Take the [bleep] mic off me,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hman.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Just--
- I’m outta here, man.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hAnd this time
it actually wasn’t so...
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{\an7}goner.
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{\an7}- So you said, you know,
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{\an7}you got to finally tell her,
like, what you want from her
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{\an7}and what she expects from you.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm.
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{\an7}\h- What was, like,
the basis of that?
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{\an7}What?
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{\an7}- Terrible.
\h- Awful.
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{\an7}- I just need her to,
you know what I mean,
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{\an7}see things from my perspective,
\h\h\h\h\hyou know what I mean.
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{\an7}Not just always see [bleep]
\h\h\h\h\h\hfrom her side.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- For sure.
- And as far as me,
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{\an7}\hshe just wants me
to be more present.
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{\an7}\h- Day-to-day or--
- Day-to-day, yeah.
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{\an7}More--more so day-to-day.
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{\an7}\hSo the one thing I understand
is everyone’s raised different,
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{\an7}and that’s pretty important,
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{\an7}especially when it comes
\h\h\h\hto co-parenting.
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{\an7}\h\h- And when you don’t know
somebody like that too, like.
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{\an7}\h- When we had the baby,
I didn’t really know her.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
- Not on that level at all.
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{\an7}Better late than never,
\hyou know what I mean?
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{\an7}- Better late than never.
\h\h\h\h\h\h- Absolutely.
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{\an7}- Yeah, in the future I hope
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat this means
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{\an7}that we’ll all be closer.
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{\an7}\h\h- Right.
- Everybody.
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{\an7}- You know how that whole
\h\h\h\hschedule [bleep]
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{\an7}with just pickup and drop.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hI don’t--I told her
I don’t want give me a schedule
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith her
and then just out the blue
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{\an7}drop that [bleep].
\h\h\h\h- Oh, okay.
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{\an7}- I don’t need you.
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{\an7}I’m picking her up from
\hgymnastics tomorrow.
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{\an7}\h\h\hI’ve been trying to plan
a dinner with Briana and Nova.
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{\an7}\h\h\h- That’ll be fun.
- You know what I mean.
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{\an7}Yeah, we never really sat down
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand--
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{\an7}- The three of y’all, like.
\h\h\h\h\h- Chopped it up,
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{\an7}just discussed things
\h\has a civilized--
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Unit.
- Pair of parents, you know?
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{\an7}- And this is--will be
\h\h\h\hthe first time
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{\an7}that you guys do something
\h\h\h\h\hlike that, right?
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{\an7}- Yeah, we’ve never--
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{\an7}\hin Nova’s 10 years--
done nothing like this.
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{\an7}- She is gonna love that.
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{\an7}- You know what I mean, like,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hshould be cool.
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{\an7}- ♪ I’m gonna show you how
\h\h\h\hto switch it up ♪
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{\an7}♪ Ooh, gonna shake the world,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hooh ♪
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{\an7}♪ With a billion colors,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hooh, ooh ♪
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}\h- Hey.
- Hello.
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{\an7}- Long time no see.
- Long time no see.
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{\an7}- Welcome back.
\h\h- Welcome.
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{\an7}I’m--I’m nervous.
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{\an7}- You’re nervous?
\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
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{\an7}- Uh, do you wanna chat?
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{\an7}- Yeah, let’s do it.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Cool.
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{\an7}So it’s been a little while,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hhuh?
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
- It’s been a couple months
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{\an7}since you filmed.
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{\an7}- Three months.
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{\an7}I just reached a point
\h\h\h\h\h\hin my life
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{\an7}where I felt like things
\h\h\hthat were occurring
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{\an7}didn’t align with the work
I’ve been doing in therapy.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm.
- And right around that time,
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{\an7}I found out about Chris,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwhich is--
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{\an7}I’m not saying one way
\h\h\h\h\hor the other,
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{\an7}but I had no idea.
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{\an7}- How are you and Chris?
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{\an7}\h- At this point
for co-parenting,
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hwhen I text,
I don’t get a response.
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{\an7}So I’m done.
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{\an7}- Yeah.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hSo right now,
how are things going
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{\an7}\h\h\hwith co-parenting
with each of the dads?
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{\an7}Do you and Jo speak?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- No.
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{\an7}- You and Jo are just--
\hyou drop the kids off
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{\an7}and don’t talk?
\h\h\h- Mm-hmm.
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{\an7}- It’s only in case
\h\h\hof emergency?
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm.
- Do you feel like you’re
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{\an7}paying for past sins?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yes.
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{\an7}- Is that what it is?
- Yes, ’cause I feel
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe growth.
I see the growth in myself.
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{\an7}I know I just, like,
\h\h\h\hI don’t react
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{\an7}to things the same way,
but I still get treated
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{\an7}like I’m the Kail
\hfrom years ago.
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{\an7}- Do you still record
the podcast with Vee
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{\an7}at your office?
\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
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{\an7}\h- How do you keep things
so friendly with Vee when--
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- It’s hard.
- Very challenging with Jo.
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{\an7}\h\h\h- It’s very hard,
but on the other hand,
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{\an7}we make it work
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{\an7}and it’s been going
\h\h\hreally well.
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{\an7}And then Javi, honestly,
\hchanges by the minute.
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{\an7}One day we’re good,
one day we’re bad,
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{\an7}and I literally never know
\h\hwhat it’s going to be.
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{\an7}Like, I don’t know.
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{\an7}But we’re good now.
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{\an7}- So what do you think?
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{\an7}Are you ready to come back
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand--
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{\an7}- I said, literally in my head,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hit was like,
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{\an7}this weekend’s a trial.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
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{\an7}- Every time I thought about
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hcoming back,
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{\an7}I was like, mm, no.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hEven now,
like this whole shoot, like,
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{\an7}I had such a hard time trying
\hto mentally put myself back
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{\an7}in a place where I have, like,
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{\an7}a crew and, like, cameras
\h\h\hfollowing me around
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{\an7}was really hard.
\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- So hopefully
this is like a restart.
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{\an7}And um, I’m gonna try.
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{\an7}[somber music]
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{\an7}[squeaking]
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♪ ♪
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- I'm still sorting through
my feelings about Bar.
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But today I'm helping my mom
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with her cake-decorating
workshop,
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and Bar decided to come too.
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Hi.
- What's happening?
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- I love you.
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So grab out your aprons, okay?
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- Rotate this.
- Yeah.
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- It's easier for you than
you rotating your wrist.
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Do you get what I'm saying?
[people talking indistinctly]
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- Yeah, you can put some more.
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- Oh, you guys
are doing good back here.
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Anybody need help
with the icing?
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I'm seeing some of your cakes,
y'all, they lookin' beautiful.
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They lookin' beautiful.
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Y'all got me proud up in here.
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[door shuts]
- Ooh, girl.
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- I'm losing my [bleep] mind.
- [laughs]
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- Cake everywhere.
Frosting everywhere.
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- What's up though?
- I'm happy Mom
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got her little day.
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- It is nice though.
- This is cute.
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- It's going good.
- It's cool
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for her first rodeo though.
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- Yeah.
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- I see Bar slid through.
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- He wanted to show up for Mom.
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- Well, that's good.
It was good to see him.
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- Yeah.
- I ain't seen him in a minute.
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At least you
in a little better mood
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than last time 'cause, girl...
- I am.
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- The way you flipped that hair
and walked out with that beret,
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'cause you had me tear up
though a little bit.
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You was all crying
and I was like...[sniffs].
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I was sad too.
- When you're with somebody
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and you don't really know
how--what you guys are
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or how you guys are,
it's just a frustrating topic.
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And when you're married,
that should not be--
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- Right, 'cause it's
the part of you, like,
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you started something serious
and you don't wanna
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just give up on it.
- Yeah.
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- You don't wanna feel
like you failed.
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- One day you hate him.
Next day you love him.
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So I feel like the best way is
to say I don't know
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versus flip-flopping
back and forth.
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- I mean, that's fair.
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- But the main goal
is taking care of Holly.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- And I'm happy
that I have somebody in that
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who, like, wants to be a dad,
is a dad,
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is a attentive dad.
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You know what I'm saying?
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- Y'all was always good
with Holly though.
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- [sighs]
- Y'all was good.
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- It's hard.
- Now y'all two?
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- A mess.
- Got some work to do.
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- I think
we should try therapy.
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We're not gonna make no calls,
no judgments.
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We gonna start with therapy.
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[people talking indistinctly]
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- And see where that goes.
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- Keep in mind
there's boundaries,
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that therapy needs to be put
in place, you know?
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Establish them boundaries.
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And then it has to be, like,
a path of moving forward.
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- Yeah.
- And not, like, doubling back.
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And if you gonna be with him,
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you gotta forgive too.
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- I know.
- That's another thing.
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- That's what I'm saying.
I feel like
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certain conversations
we should leave for therapy.
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When you have a kid,
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and that kid adores
the other parent,
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and it's just like...
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- True,
but those little moments
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is what make you
stick together though.
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- And that's what I'm saying.
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- If you feel that
to still fight for it,
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fight for it.
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- Yeah.
- You gonna know when you done.
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- I know.
- That's what I got to say.
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- We can take time for us.
414
00:13:17,397 --> 00:13:20,901
- Mm-hmm.
- To see if this is gonna be.
415
00:13:20,967 --> 00:13:22,435
[upbeat rock music]
416
00:13:22,502 --> 00:13:24,070
- Even though my mom
isn't going to jail anymore,
417
00:13:24,070 --> 00:13:25,605
I'm still not letting her
come around
418
00:13:25,672 --> 00:13:28,141
'cause the tension between us
isn't good for Kloie.
419
00:13:28,208 --> 00:13:29,876
Sean's been in rehab
for two months
420
00:13:29,943 --> 00:13:31,444
and we talk once a week,
421
00:13:31,511 --> 00:13:33,814
and I decided to start looking
for houses for sale.
422
00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:36,183
Pretty.
I like the cut too better.
423
00:13:36,249 --> 00:13:39,653
Six hours well worth it.
- Six hours.
424
00:13:39,719 --> 00:13:42,656
♪ ♪
425
00:13:42,722 --> 00:13:43,857
- [whines]
426
00:13:43,924 --> 00:13:45,192
- Your back hurts still?
427
00:13:45,258 --> 00:13:46,827
You have to stop doing
those flips on there.
428
00:13:46,893 --> 00:13:48,461
We're gonna take you
to gymnastics--
429
00:13:48,528 --> 00:13:49,729
- She wants to be a ninja.
- And you can do flips.
430
00:13:49,796 --> 00:13:51,698
- Clearly.
- She wants to do gymnastics.
431
00:13:51,765 --> 00:13:54,401
So I went
and looked at a house.
432
00:13:54,468 --> 00:13:56,102
Super cute house.
It's pretty small,
433
00:13:56,169 --> 00:13:57,838
but I like the vibe of it.
434
00:13:57,904 --> 00:14:00,173
I like the area.
The schooling's really good.
435
00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:02,275
So I talked to the owner there
436
00:14:02,342 --> 00:14:05,045
and I put in a cash offer
to him.
437
00:14:05,111 --> 00:14:06,847
- Oh, that's good.
438
00:14:06,913 --> 00:14:08,448
- Yeah, and he--
- Okay.
439
00:14:08,515 --> 00:14:10,183
- Accepted the offer.
- Big bank.
440
00:14:10,250 --> 00:14:11,952
- So the next step
would pretty much be
441
00:14:12,052 --> 00:14:13,587
doing, like, all the...
442
00:14:13,653 --> 00:14:15,088
- Yeah, closing it.
- Closing paperwork.
443
00:14:15,155 --> 00:14:17,057
So I'm hoping that...
- Wow, that's so exciting.
444
00:14:17,057 --> 00:14:18,558
- It doesn't sound too good
to be true.
445
00:14:18,625 --> 00:14:20,460
You know how [bleep] we have,
and so in my head I'm like,
446
00:14:20,527 --> 00:14:22,929
hell yeah, I'm excited,
but then I'm also like,
447
00:14:23,063 --> 00:14:25,966
well, not until
the paperwork's signed
448
00:14:26,066 --> 00:14:27,701
am I gonna be like,
this is my house.
449
00:14:27,767 --> 00:14:28,869
- Yeah.
- You know?
450
00:14:28,935 --> 00:14:30,470
- Aw, that's awesome.
451
00:14:30,537 --> 00:14:33,206
So have you told Sean
that you're working on closing?
452
00:14:33,273 --> 00:14:34,341
- Mm-mm.
453
00:14:34,407 --> 00:14:35,775
I haven't told him
anything yet.
454
00:14:35,842 --> 00:14:37,410
- You really don't get to talk
to him and be like--
455
00:14:37,477 --> 00:14:38,378
- I--right.
456
00:14:38,445 --> 00:14:40,380
- Are you excited to tell him?
457
00:14:40,447 --> 00:14:42,149
- Yeah, I am.
458
00:14:42,215 --> 00:14:43,884
It's sad though
because she misses Sean.
459
00:14:44,017 --> 00:14:45,285
She's been asking about Sean
a lot.
460
00:14:45,352 --> 00:14:47,587
I think lately more though
she's starting to realize
461
00:14:47,654 --> 00:14:49,489
that he hasn't been around.
462
00:14:49,556 --> 00:14:51,858
- Do you know when Sean's
coming back?
463
00:14:51,925 --> 00:14:53,627
- I'm not sure
of the exact date,
464
00:14:53,693 --> 00:14:55,929
but if he finished just
that program,
465
00:14:56,029 --> 00:14:57,864
it would be right before
Thanksgiving.
466
00:14:57,931 --> 00:14:59,432
But I don't know.
467
00:14:59,499 --> 00:15:00,734
I'm not sure.
468
00:15:00,801 --> 00:15:04,171
- So how does it feel,
being a single mom?
469
00:15:04,237 --> 00:15:05,939
- [bleep] for the birds.
470
00:15:06,039 --> 00:15:07,841
- The birds.
But you're growing a lot.
471
00:15:07,908 --> 00:15:08,875
You didn't think
you could do it,
472
00:15:08,942 --> 00:15:10,410
but it's been a few months.
473
00:15:10,477 --> 00:15:15,482
- I think with having a child,
stability is so important.
474
00:15:15,549 --> 00:15:17,751
Like having a stable home,
a stable life
475
00:15:17,818 --> 00:15:19,052
gives her more stability.
476
00:15:19,085 --> 00:15:21,488
'Cause I think growing up,
we moved so much,
477
00:15:21,555 --> 00:15:23,123
all the time,
that I didn't have that--
478
00:15:23,190 --> 00:15:25,125
- Same.
- Home stability.
479
00:15:25,192 --> 00:15:26,526
So I'm excited.
- That's exciting.
480
00:15:26,593 --> 00:15:28,061
- I wanna be able to give
my kid something...
481
00:15:28,094 --> 00:15:29,663
- You're doing so much--
- I didn't have.
482
00:15:29,729 --> 00:15:30,864
- Yeah.
By yourself.
483
00:15:30,931 --> 00:15:32,065
But without Sean.
- Yeah, I never had...
484
00:15:32,065 --> 00:15:33,300
- Without your mom.
- That as a kid.
485
00:15:33,366 --> 00:15:34,601
I'd be the first person
in my whole family
486
00:15:34,668 --> 00:15:36,136
to be a homeowner.
- To own a home, yeah.
487
00:15:36,203 --> 00:15:38,638
- So I think that that's
something that's big for me
488
00:15:38,705 --> 00:15:39,673
as a parent.
489
00:15:39,739 --> 00:15:42,642
[soft sentimental music]
490
00:15:42,709 --> 00:15:47,214
♪ ♪
491
00:15:48,060 --> 00:15:48,829
{\an7}[bright music]
492
00:15:48,829 --> 00:15:51,291
{\an7}- ♪ Don’t you worry what
\hthey’re gonna think ♪
493
00:15:51,291 --> 00:15:54,961
{\an7}♪ Just take a look
\h\h\hat history ♪
494
00:15:54,961 --> 00:15:56,357
{\an7}\h\h- Jaylan lives
eight hours away,
495
00:15:56,357 --> 00:15:57,994
{\an7}and it’s hard for me
\h\h\h\hto visit him
496
00:15:57,994 --> 00:15:59,522
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith all
of my responsibilities.
497
00:15:59,522 --> 00:16:02,654
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hSo he tries
to come up every week.
498
00:16:02,654 --> 00:16:04,159
{\an7}Hm.
499
00:16:04,928 --> 00:16:06,522
{\an7}\h\h\h\hHi.
- Hey, baby.
500
00:16:06,522 --> 00:16:08,456
{\an7}\h\h\h\hWhat’s up?
- How you doing?
501
00:16:08,456 --> 00:16:09,159
{\an7}You look good.
502
00:16:09,159 --> 00:16:12,159
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Thank you.
You’re looking beautiful.
503
00:16:12,159 --> 00:16:12,796
{\an7}- You are.
504
00:16:12,796 --> 00:16:14,654
{\an7}What necklace do you have on?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hOh.
505
00:16:14,654 --> 00:16:16,994
{\an7}Costa Rica, baby.
\h\h- Costa Rica.
506
00:16:16,994 --> 00:16:18,994
{\an7}\hI like this thing.
It’s just so, like.
507
00:16:18,994 --> 00:16:21,390
{\an7}\h\hIt can--I can put it
with anything I put on.
508
00:16:21,390 --> 00:16:23,654
{\an7}I’ll probably come down
\h\h\h\h\h\hon Thursday.
509
00:16:23,654 --> 00:16:25,060
{\an7}- All right, sounds good.
510
00:16:25,060 --> 00:16:26,060
{\an7}I miss you.
511
00:16:26,060 --> 00:16:28,126
{\an7}I love your hat.
512
00:16:28,126 --> 00:16:29,928
{\an7}- Love you too.
513
00:16:29,928 --> 00:16:30,994
{\an7}- I love your hat.
514
00:16:30,994 --> 00:16:33,456
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Oh.
- But I love you too.
515
00:16:33,456 --> 00:16:34,423
{\an7}[laughs]
516
00:16:34,423 --> 00:16:36,357
{\an7}♪ ♪
517
00:16:36,357 --> 00:16:40,060
{\an7}- ♪ I didn’t believe
\h\h\hit was true ♪
518
00:16:40,060 --> 00:16:42,027
{\an7}♪ Till I met somebody ♪
519
00:16:42,027 --> 00:16:44,994
{\an7}♪ I met somebody like you ♪
\h\h\h\h\h- Hey. What’s up?
520
00:16:44,994 --> 00:16:47,763
{\an7}\hWhat are you working on?
- Hi, I have so many emails
521
00:16:47,763 --> 00:16:49,730
{\an7}to answer.
522
00:16:49,730 --> 00:16:50,555
{\an7}- How’s that going?
523
00:16:50,555 --> 00:16:52,730
{\an7}- Oh, you know.
\h\hIt’s going.
524
00:16:52,730 --> 00:16:54,588
{\an7}♪ ♪
525
00:16:54,588 --> 00:16:56,060
{\an7}Mm.
526
00:16:56,522 --> 00:16:58,390
{\an7}Mm.
527
00:16:58,390 --> 00:17:00,324
{\an7}♪ ♪
528
00:17:00,324 --> 00:17:03,126
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYeah,
so Costa Rica was so much fun.
529
00:17:03,126 --> 00:17:03,961
{\an7}- It was a lot of fun.
530
00:17:03,961 --> 00:17:05,258
{\an7}It was kinda emotional,
\h\h\h\h\ha little bit,
531
00:17:05,258 --> 00:17:07,225
{\an7}’cause we talked a lot
\habout--a lot about--
532
00:17:07,225 --> 00:17:08,621
{\an7}- Everything.
- Everything.
533
00:17:08,621 --> 00:17:10,060
{\an7}About your kids, so.
534
00:17:10,060 --> 00:17:13,456
{\an7}Let’s just--let’s just keep
\hwhat we got going and...
535
00:17:13,456 --> 00:17:15,027
{\an7}build off of it.
\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm.
536
00:17:15,027 --> 00:17:17,159
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hDo you think
that this will continue to be
537
00:17:17,159 --> 00:17:18,159
{\an7}a long-distance relationship?
538
00:17:18,159 --> 00:17:22,192
{\an7}- I have a new job possibility
\hthat will let me move closer.
539
00:17:22,192 --> 00:17:23,456
{\an7}- It’s not always gonna
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hbe easy.
540
00:17:23,456 --> 00:17:25,522
{\an7}Especially with kids.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
541
00:17:25,522 --> 00:17:28,159
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I mean,
since we are exclusive now,
542
00:17:28,159 --> 00:17:29,588
{\an7}I think my daughters deserve
543
00:17:29,588 --> 00:17:32,093
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto see
who’s making their mama smile.
544
00:17:32,093 --> 00:17:34,324
{\an7}They are gonna put you through
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe test.
545
00:17:34,324 --> 00:17:39,697
{\an7}They’re very strong-willed
\h\h\h\h\h\hlittle ladies.
546
00:17:39,697 --> 00:17:40,763
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
- And I love it.
547
00:17:40,763 --> 00:17:44,588
{\an7}\h\hIt’s hard to date as a mom
and be exclusive with someone
548
00:17:44,588 --> 00:17:46,730
{\an7}and your kids not be involved.
549
00:17:46,730 --> 00:17:49,489
{\an7}It’s almost, like, impossible.
550
00:17:49,489 --> 00:17:51,093
{\an7}So after we became exclusive,
551
00:17:51,093 --> 00:17:53,324
{\an7}I feel confident enough
\h\h\h\h\hin my decision
552
00:17:53,324 --> 00:17:54,654
{\an7}for them to meet Jaylan.
553
00:17:54,654 --> 00:17:55,796
{\an7}I think that it’s a big step,
554
00:17:55,796 --> 00:18:00,829
{\an7}\hbut I don’t want to put
too much pressure on that.
555
00:18:00,829 --> 00:18:04,588
{\an7}So I think that we just kinda
\h\h\h\h\h\hgo with the flow.
556
00:18:04,588 --> 00:18:05,588
{\an7}[upbeat music]
557
00:18:05,588 --> 00:18:07,192
{\an7}- After "Family Reunion,"
558
00:18:07,192 --> 00:18:09,489
{\an7}I’m trying to give Devoin
\h\h\h\h\hmore of a chance
559
00:18:09,489 --> 00:18:10,390
{\an7}to be there for Nova.
560
00:18:10,390 --> 00:18:12,258
{\an7}\h\h\h\hWe made a plan
that he’d pick her up
561
00:18:12,258 --> 00:18:13,489
{\an7}twice a week from gymnastics,
562
00:18:13,489 --> 00:18:15,621
{\an7}and he’s bringing her home
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hnow.
563
00:18:15,621 --> 00:18:17,763
{\an7}\h\h\hHi.
[barking]
564
00:18:17,763 --> 00:18:19,258
{\an7}- Hi.
565
00:18:19,258 --> 00:18:21,730
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- [groans]
- How was practice?
566
00:18:21,730 --> 00:18:23,192
{\an7}- Good.
567
00:18:23,192 --> 00:18:24,555
{\an7}- Did you do your homework?
568
00:18:24,555 --> 00:18:26,423
{\an7}- She got homework.
569
00:18:26,423 --> 00:18:27,390
{\an7}She got math.
570
00:18:27,390 --> 00:18:30,390
{\an7}- Do you wanna do that while
\h\h\hI make you some ramen?
571
00:18:30,390 --> 00:18:32,291
{\an7}Yeah?
Okay.
572
00:18:33,060 --> 00:18:34,522
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Well, it’s--
well, your dad’s here.
573
00:18:34,522 --> 00:18:36,357
{\an7}Maybe he can help you.
574
00:18:36,357 --> 00:18:38,654
{\an7}- What you doing this weekend?
575
00:18:38,654 --> 00:18:39,829
{\an7}- Zero plans.
576
00:18:39,829 --> 00:18:43,588
{\an7}\h- Word, I was thinking
we should go have dinner.
577
00:18:43,588 --> 00:18:46,225
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Kay.
- Me, you, and Nova.
578
00:18:46,225 --> 00:18:50,159
{\an7}- How do you feel about us
\h\hgoing out all together?
579
00:18:50,159 --> 00:18:51,357
{\an7}Cool?
580
00:18:51,357 --> 00:18:52,730
{\an7}You’re down with that?
581
00:18:52,730 --> 00:18:54,192
{\an7}- That’s good.
\h- Kay, girl.
582
00:18:54,192 --> 00:18:55,357
{\an7}It’s a date, girl.
583
00:18:55,357 --> 00:18:58,796
{\an7}Let’s knock out this homework
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hsuper quick.
584
00:19:00,588 --> 00:19:03,522
{\an7}- If this one right here
\h\h\h\h\his 25 times 20,
585
00:19:03,522 --> 00:19:06,697
{\an7}\h\h\hlook quickly
at the 25 times 30.
586
00:19:06,697 --> 00:19:09,862
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Thank God
you have a smart parent.
587
00:19:09,862 --> 00:19:11,763
{\an7}You and your father
\h\h\hare the same.
588
00:19:11,763 --> 00:19:12,555
{\an7}- She got the right one.
589
00:19:12,555 --> 00:19:14,456
{\an7}I won’t sit here and debate
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith you.
590
00:19:14,456 --> 00:19:16,324
{\an7}’Cause I know what I’m talking
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\habout.
591
00:19:16,324 --> 00:19:18,456
{\an7}- And I know what I’m talking
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\habout too.
592
00:19:18,456 --> 00:19:19,456
{\an7}- You do.
593
00:19:19,456 --> 00:19:21,258
{\an7}You do.
594
00:19:21,258 --> 00:19:22,390
{\an7}- After family therapy,
595
00:19:22,390 --> 00:19:24,588
{\an7}I realized that I can’t always
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hbe in control.
596
00:19:24,588 --> 00:19:27,126
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI have to learn
that his parenting is one way
597
00:19:27,126 --> 00:19:28,225
{\an7}and my parenting is another,
598
00:19:28,225 --> 00:19:29,555
{\an7}and that’s just how
\h\h\hit has to be.
599
00:19:29,555 --> 00:19:33,522
{\an7}\h\h\hI think the main goal is
to be better parents for Nova,
600
00:19:33,522 --> 00:19:36,357
{\an7}and it’s gonna take both of us
\h\h\hto put in the hard work.
601
00:19:36,357 --> 00:19:40,489
{\an7}And it’s gonna take some time,
\h\hbut I think we can do it.
602
00:19:40,489 --> 00:19:43,357
{\an7}And I just don’t wanna repeat
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hold patterns.
603
00:19:43,357 --> 00:19:46,126
{\an7}\hI don’t wanna go back
to where we first were.
604
00:19:46,126 --> 00:19:48,522
{\an7}And it’s just gonna take work.
605
00:19:48,522 --> 00:19:50,763
{\an7}\h\h\h\hDevoin stayed until
Nova’s homework was finished
606
00:19:50,763 --> 00:19:55,192
{\an7}and she went upstairs
to get ready for bed.
607
00:19:55,730 --> 00:19:58,654
{\an7}- Okay, make sure you wash
\h\h\h\h\hyour hands after.
608
00:19:58,654 --> 00:19:59,928
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay.
- She’s wearing heels,
609
00:19:59,928 --> 00:20:02,423
{\an7}\h\h\hshe’s gonna wipe her ass,
and she’s gonna wash her hands.
610
00:20:02,423 --> 00:20:03,588
{\an7}She’s grown.
\h- [laughs]
611
00:20:03,588 --> 00:20:05,555
{\an7}- She’s [bleep] grown.
612
00:20:05,555 --> 00:20:06,390
{\an7}Did Devoin stop by?
613
00:20:06,390 --> 00:20:08,730
{\an7}- Yeah, he helped Nova
\h\hwith her homework.
614
00:20:08,730 --> 00:20:10,829
{\an7}Devoin has definitely
\h\h\h\hbeen helping.
615
00:20:10,829 --> 00:20:13,489
{\an7}Um, and he asked...
616
00:20:13,489 --> 00:20:16,829
{\an7}if he could take me and Nova
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hout to dinner.
617
00:20:16,829 --> 00:20:18,390
{\an7}- I think that’s nice.
618
00:20:18,390 --> 00:20:19,588
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
- What do you think?
619
00:20:19,588 --> 00:20:20,555
{\an7}- He’s never done that before.
620
00:20:20,555 --> 00:20:23,588
{\an7}\h\h- At least he’s trying,
you know, like the effort.
621
00:20:23,588 --> 00:20:26,730
{\an7}- The therapist said
for the sake of Nova,
622
00:20:26,730 --> 00:20:32,258
{\an7}you’re just gonna have to make
certain sacrifices to show Nova
623
00:20:32,258 --> 00:20:34,730
{\an7}what a healthy relationship
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hlooks like.
624
00:20:34,730 --> 00:20:37,390
{\an7}- I’ve been saying it.
You have to guide him.
625
00:20:37,390 --> 00:20:39,258
{\an7}- Which to me is a big deal
626
00:20:39,258 --> 00:20:40,895
{\an7}because I don’t do stuff
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hlike that.
627
00:20:40,895 --> 00:20:43,291
{\an7}But obviously I’m trying.
\h\h\h- But you have to.
628
00:20:43,291 --> 00:20:43,961
{\an7}- But it’s good.
629
00:20:43,961 --> 00:20:44,961
{\an7}I want Nova to see more
630
00:20:44,961 --> 00:20:48,324
{\an7}of Devoin and I doing things
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\htogether
631
00:20:48,324 --> 00:20:50,324
{\an7}’cause I want her to see
\h\h\h\h\hwhat it’s like
632
00:20:50,324 --> 00:20:52,390
{\an7}for, like, two people to--
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\heven though
633
00:20:52,390 --> 00:20:54,895
{\an7}they’re not together--
\hbut still get along.
634
00:20:54,895 --> 00:20:58,027
{\an7}[soft sentimental music]
635
00:20:58,027 --> 00:21:02,555
{\an7}♪ ♪
636
00:21:03,987 --> 00:21:05,155
[bright music]
637
00:21:05,222 --> 00:21:07,724
[upbeat music]
638
00:21:07,791 --> 00:21:09,359
- I'm still getting used
to having cameras
639
00:21:09,426 --> 00:21:10,928
around again,
and on top of that,
640
00:21:10,994 --> 00:21:12,629
I just found out something
about Vee
641
00:21:12,696 --> 00:21:14,565
that's really upsetting.
642
00:21:14,631 --> 00:21:15,999
We still have our podcast
together,
643
00:21:16,066 --> 00:21:17,668
but I'm not sure what's gonna
happen now,
644
00:21:17,734 --> 00:21:19,670
so I want some advice
from Leah.
645
00:21:19,736 --> 00:21:21,405
Hello, hi.
- Hi.
646
00:21:21,471 --> 00:21:22,940
- How are you?
- I just came back
647
00:21:23,006 --> 00:21:24,007
from Costa Rica.
648
00:21:24,074 --> 00:21:25,809
It was the best trip ever.
649
00:21:25,876 --> 00:21:26,843
- Yeah?
650
00:21:26,910 --> 00:21:28,278
Um, really quickly,
651
00:21:28,345 --> 00:21:30,914
just wanted to give you, like,
backstory with Vee.
652
00:21:30,981 --> 00:21:33,817
Basically what happened was
like a couple months ago,
653
00:21:33,884 --> 00:21:35,419
Javi and I got
into a huge fight
654
00:21:35,485 --> 00:21:37,554
and he didn't want me talking
about him
655
00:21:37,621 --> 00:21:39,890
on my podcast with Vee.
656
00:21:39,957 --> 00:21:44,061
And he was basically alluding
to, like, her being deceitful.
657
00:21:44,127 --> 00:21:47,331
And so I texted her and Javi
in a group text
658
00:21:47,397 --> 00:21:49,032
and I said, you know,
whatever it is,
659
00:21:49,099 --> 00:21:50,534
like, lay it all out there.
660
00:21:50,601 --> 00:21:52,035
- Mm-hmm.
- So Vee comes into my office
661
00:21:52,102 --> 00:21:53,370
and she's like, you know,
662
00:21:53,437 --> 00:21:56,840
"I--I told Javi about
your pregnancy with Lux."
663
00:21:56,907 --> 00:22:00,944
Javi told me
that back four years ago,
664
00:22:01,011 --> 00:22:03,447
Vee hit him up on social media
and was like,
665
00:22:03,513 --> 00:22:04,748
I'm tired
of you looking stupid.
666
00:22:04,815 --> 00:22:06,717
I'll tell you everything,
like, let's meet up.
667
00:22:06,783 --> 00:22:08,218
- Damn.
668
00:22:08,285 --> 00:22:11,989
- Well, I'm gonna start
filming about being pregnant.
669
00:22:12,122 --> 00:22:13,323
Have not told Javi yet.
670
00:22:13,390 --> 00:22:14,892
- You have to tell him.
- I know.
671
00:22:14,958 --> 00:22:16,326
I just don't know
when the right time is,
672
00:22:16,393 --> 00:22:17,761
'cause he is not stable
right now.
673
00:22:17,828 --> 00:22:20,497
So they met up
in a Target parking lot
674
00:22:20,564 --> 00:22:22,833
in the m--like,
in the night,
675
00:22:22,900 --> 00:22:27,204
and she told him about me being
pregnant with Lux.
676
00:22:27,271 --> 00:22:30,140
- A little birdie came to me
and pretty much told me,
677
00:22:30,207 --> 00:22:33,343
said, "Hey, Jav,
I'm tired of biting my tongue.
678
00:22:33,410 --> 00:22:35,445
"I'm tired of you looking like
a dumbass.
679
00:22:35,512 --> 00:22:37,514
We need to meet up,"
so he says,
680
00:22:37,581 --> 00:22:39,149
"Kail's three months pregnant."
681
00:22:39,216 --> 00:22:40,851
[tense music]
682
00:22:40,918 --> 00:22:42,152
Yeah.
683
00:22:42,219 --> 00:22:45,556
- She didn't just leak
my pregnancy to him,
684
00:22:45,622 --> 00:22:49,660
she told him--
which is a complete lie--
685
00:22:49,726 --> 00:22:52,396
that my miscarriage
that I had with him
686
00:22:52,462 --> 00:22:53,897
may not have been his.
687
00:22:53,964 --> 00:22:55,332
- I heard just as much
as you heard.
688
00:22:55,399 --> 00:22:57,167
I'm not showing it,
but I'm hurting.
689
00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,570
Because you know how much
I wanted that baby.
690
00:22:59,636 --> 00:23:01,238
- But I never cheated on him,
691
00:23:01,305 --> 00:23:03,106
and that was
a planned pregnancy.
692
00:23:03,106 --> 00:23:05,275
So for her to place doubt
in his mind,
693
00:23:05,342 --> 00:23:08,345
I just felt like that, to me,
that part was unforgivable,
694
00:23:08,412 --> 00:23:10,113
because up until this day,
695
00:23:10,180 --> 00:23:13,317
Javi will say, "I don't even
know if that baby was mine."
696
00:23:13,383 --> 00:23:14,751
- Damn.
697
00:23:14,818 --> 00:23:16,453
- I sent Vee
a long text message
698
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:18,755
basically just explaining,
like, how I felt.
699
00:23:18,822 --> 00:23:21,992
And then she actually sent
back, like, a long message
700
00:23:22,125 --> 00:23:24,127
saying that she completely
understands, that she's sorry.
701
00:23:24,194 --> 00:23:26,196
I walked into the office
and her stuff wasn't here.
702
00:23:26,263 --> 00:23:27,598
And I felt sad.
703
00:23:27,664 --> 00:23:30,133
- You're saying you're
not willing to...
704
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:31,535
continue with the podcast?
705
00:23:31,602 --> 00:23:33,003
Or are you--you don't know?
You don't know.
706
00:23:33,136 --> 00:23:34,972
Everything's up in the air
right now.
707
00:23:35,038 --> 00:23:36,707
- I genuinely don't know.
708
00:23:36,773 --> 00:23:38,642
- That's, like,
way too many people
709
00:23:38,709 --> 00:23:40,611
putting their hands...
710
00:23:40,677 --> 00:23:42,913
in conversations
that just shouldn't be,
711
00:23:42,980 --> 00:23:44,348
I guess.
I don't know.
712
00:23:44,414 --> 00:23:46,350
That's--
I hate that.
713
00:23:46,416 --> 00:23:48,685
♪ ♪
714
00:23:48,752 --> 00:23:50,587
- ♪ I'm runnin',
I'm runnin' ♪
715
00:23:50,654 --> 00:23:53,690
♪ I'm runnin' out of time ♪
716
00:23:53,757 --> 00:23:55,058
- I've been thinking a lot
717
00:23:55,158 --> 00:23:56,894
about where I want things
to go with Bar,
718
00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:00,831
and I'm ready for us
to get on the same page.
719
00:24:00,898 --> 00:24:03,000
- It's a nice day out here.
- It is.
720
00:24:03,100 --> 00:24:05,469
- I'm happy it's not summer
no more.
721
00:24:05,535 --> 00:24:06,637
- Yeah, it's--
- Anymore.
722
00:24:06,703 --> 00:24:09,106
- Cool enough to wear jackets
now.
723
00:24:09,172 --> 00:24:10,340
- How you been feeling?
724
00:24:10,407 --> 00:24:11,875
- About what?
725
00:24:11,942 --> 00:24:13,944
- Just everything.
Us.
726
00:24:14,011 --> 00:24:16,380
- I mean,
we get rocky patches
727
00:24:16,446 --> 00:24:19,750
and [bleep] goes amiss.
728
00:24:19,816 --> 00:24:21,351
- I mean,
I feel like I could do therapy,
729
00:24:21,418 --> 00:24:22,986
like personal therapy,
730
00:24:23,120 --> 00:24:25,322
like, to work on, like,
my responses.
731
00:24:25,389 --> 00:24:27,257
I also feel like
moving forward,
732
00:24:27,324 --> 00:24:29,026
we...
733
00:24:29,126 --> 00:24:31,161
should get into therapy,
734
00:24:31,228 --> 00:24:33,397
and you know, like,
really work it,
735
00:24:33,463 --> 00:24:34,731
really get with the therapist.
736
00:24:34,798 --> 00:24:36,300
- And we wanna keep [bleep]
cool for Holly,
737
00:24:36,366 --> 00:24:37,367
but yeah, I don't know.
738
00:24:37,434 --> 00:24:38,535
I think we got some work to do.
739
00:24:38,602 --> 00:24:39,736
Definitely.
740
00:24:39,803 --> 00:24:41,805
- So if we're gonna try
to make it work,
741
00:24:41,872 --> 00:24:44,841
what I need from you
is discipline
742
00:24:44,908 --> 00:24:46,810
in whatever you're choosing
to do with your life.
743
00:24:46,877 --> 00:24:48,378
- Right.
- Obviously,
744
00:24:48,445 --> 00:24:49,646
the drinking was a thing,
but, like,
745
00:24:49,713 --> 00:24:51,548
I feel like
you've really gotten that...
746
00:24:51,615 --> 00:24:54,685
- Yeah.
I do understand that part.
747
00:24:54,751 --> 00:24:57,487
- What do you feel like you
need from me?
748
00:24:57,554 --> 00:24:58,956
- I don't know,
maybe communication
749
00:24:59,022 --> 00:25:00,824
or something, you know.
- I feel like I could learn
750
00:25:00,891 --> 00:25:02,426
how to better communicate.
- Yeah.
751
00:25:02,492 --> 00:25:05,495
It's the way we deal with each
other and the response.
752
00:25:05,562 --> 00:25:07,564
- I'm sometimes
just automatically like
753
00:25:07,631 --> 00:25:11,168
you versus me,
so I have to work on that.
754
00:25:11,235 --> 00:25:12,202
[soft music]
755
00:25:12,269 --> 00:25:13,971
- So now the next step is just
756
00:25:14,104 --> 00:25:15,806
actually putting it
into motion.
757
00:25:15,872 --> 00:25:18,108
We done had conversations about
doing therapy
758
00:25:18,108 --> 00:25:19,943
and stuff like that
and all of this,
759
00:25:20,010 --> 00:25:21,878
but now let's actually do it.
- Yeah.
760
00:25:21,945 --> 00:25:23,981
And we gotta get through
this court [bleep] too.
761
00:25:24,114 --> 00:25:25,549
But, like,
I do really love you.
762
00:25:25,616 --> 00:25:27,684
Like, I do really, really--
- I love you too.
763
00:25:27,751 --> 00:25:31,989
- And I love our relationship,
so I do want to save it.
764
00:25:32,122 --> 00:25:34,791
I feel like in my heart
I do really wanna believe
765
00:25:34,858 --> 00:25:37,127
that things are gonna be
different,
766
00:25:37,194 --> 00:25:39,596
and things are gonna be amazing
and things are gonna be great.
767
00:25:39,663 --> 00:25:42,766
But my head definitely
understands
768
00:25:42,833 --> 00:25:45,135
the fact that there's a lot
of work to be done.
769
00:25:45,168 --> 00:25:47,004
There's a lot of trust
to be rebuilt,
770
00:25:47,137 --> 00:25:49,172
and that [bleep] is not easy.
771
00:25:49,239 --> 00:25:50,540
It's gonna take a lot,
772
00:25:50,607 --> 00:25:52,276
and it's gonna take us
both showing up,
773
00:25:52,342 --> 00:25:54,778
and so I'm cautious.
774
00:25:54,845 --> 00:25:56,346
I'm moving forward cautiously.
775
00:25:56,413 --> 00:25:58,148
♪ ♪
776
00:25:58,148 --> 00:26:01,051
[upbeat music]
777
00:26:01,151 --> 00:26:06,189
♪ ♪
778
00:26:06,256 --> 00:26:07,357
- Hey.
779
00:26:07,424 --> 00:26:09,092
- Hi.
- How are you?
780
00:26:09,159 --> 00:26:11,662
- Good.
You look really good.
781
00:26:11,728 --> 00:26:12,663
- Thank you.
782
00:26:12,729 --> 00:26:13,664
- How you been?
783
00:26:13,730 --> 00:26:15,365
- I've been good.
784
00:26:15,432 --> 00:26:16,567
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
785
00:26:16,633 --> 00:26:18,602
I've been looking at houses.
786
00:26:18,669 --> 00:26:19,670
- I'm excited.
787
00:26:19,736 --> 00:26:21,805
- Yeah.
I'm really excited.
788
00:26:21,872 --> 00:26:23,740
- Big stuff.
789
00:26:23,807 --> 00:26:27,477
- So I got your, like, update
from your counselor.
790
00:26:27,544 --> 00:26:29,413
You've been doing
really, really good.
791
00:26:29,479 --> 00:26:31,014
How's that been going?
792
00:26:31,114 --> 00:26:32,983
- Very well.
Now I get to, uh,
793
00:26:33,116 --> 00:26:35,786
help all the new guys
and help them work through
794
00:26:35,852 --> 00:26:37,120
what they're dealing with,
795
00:26:37,154 --> 00:26:39,990
and uh,
share my experience with them.
796
00:26:40,123 --> 00:26:41,858
'Cause I've been there
before, you know, so.
797
00:26:41,925 --> 00:26:43,260
- Right.
- I know what it's like
798
00:26:43,327 --> 00:26:44,561
to be where they're at.
799
00:26:44,628 --> 00:26:45,996
- Yeah, I feel like
this whole experience,
800
00:26:46,129 --> 00:26:48,131
you can always look at it
as such a positive thing
801
00:26:48,165 --> 00:26:50,434
because you can use everything
that you've learned there
802
00:26:50,500 --> 00:26:52,502
and you know,
use your platform
803
00:26:52,569 --> 00:26:55,973
to kind of enlighten
more people.
804
00:26:56,039 --> 00:26:57,374
- Mom.
805
00:26:57,441 --> 00:26:59,042
- Kloie's sad.
806
00:26:59,142 --> 00:27:00,544
- Why?
- She got a boo-boo
807
00:27:00,611 --> 00:27:03,413
on her finger and she's grouchy
'cause she's tired.
808
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,083
Kloie.
809
00:27:06,083 --> 00:27:07,985
Do you wanna talk to your dad?
810
00:27:08,085 --> 00:27:09,319
- No.
811
00:27:09,386 --> 00:27:11,088
- I'm gonna have to bring
the phone in there to her
812
00:27:11,121 --> 00:27:12,923
'cause she's obviously not
gonna come in here.
813
00:27:12,990 --> 00:27:14,458
She's in a bad mood.
814
00:27:14,524 --> 00:27:15,726
- [yells indistinctly]
815
00:27:15,792 --> 00:27:17,561
- Do you wanna see your dad?
816
00:27:17,628 --> 00:27:18,929
Can you tell Daddy--say--
817
00:27:18,996 --> 00:27:20,364
can you tell him
that you love him?
818
00:27:20,430 --> 00:27:23,433
And Mommy and Daddy will talk
for a minute?
819
00:27:23,500 --> 00:27:25,002
You wanna say you love Daddy?
820
00:27:25,102 --> 00:27:26,970
Don't be a little grouch just
'cause you're in a bad mood.
821
00:27:27,104 --> 00:27:29,873
Dad doesn't really get to talk
to you that much, so...
822
00:27:29,940 --> 00:27:31,174
- I love you, baby.
823
00:27:33,577 --> 00:27:35,345
- You say, "Love you, Dad."
824
00:27:35,412 --> 00:27:37,247
Scoot over.
- What?
825
00:27:37,314 --> 00:27:39,917
[crying] Mommy.
- What's the matter, Kloie?
826
00:27:39,983 --> 00:27:41,618
- Klo--you wanna tell Daddy
what's wrong?
827
00:27:41,685 --> 00:27:42,619
Do you miss Daddy?
828
00:27:42,686 --> 00:27:43,954
- [crying]
829
00:27:44,021 --> 00:27:45,589
- Are you just sad right now?
830
00:27:45,656 --> 00:27:47,858
- [sobs]
I want Daddy.
831
00:27:47,925 --> 00:27:49,493
- Aw, you want Dad?
832
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:50,894
- [crying]
833
00:27:50,961 --> 00:27:52,429
- I think she's just sad.
834
00:27:52,496 --> 00:27:54,131
- I want Daddy.
835
00:27:54,197 --> 00:27:55,365
- I know.
836
00:27:55,432 --> 00:27:57,134
I know.
Come here.
837
00:27:57,167 --> 00:27:58,402
Come here.
Lay with Mommy.
838
00:27:58,468 --> 00:27:59,670
- No.
- Well.
839
00:27:59,736 --> 00:28:03,774
- [laughs]
- [continues crying]
840
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,275
- Hey, Kloie.
841
00:28:05,342 --> 00:28:07,110
- Look, Daddy's trying
to tell you something.
842
00:28:07,177 --> 00:28:09,146
- [cries]
- Kloie, listen, listen.
843
00:28:09,212 --> 00:28:12,215
You want me to bring you
a surprise when I come home?
844
00:28:12,282 --> 00:28:13,650
A surprise.
845
00:28:13,717 --> 00:28:15,452
You gotta be good for Mommy
though, okay?
846
00:28:15,519 --> 00:28:17,821
And you gotta stop screaming
and crying like that.
847
00:28:17,888 --> 00:28:18,755
- [cries]
- And I'll bring you
848
00:28:18,822 --> 00:28:21,091
a surprise.
849
00:28:21,124 --> 00:28:23,193
- She's just--she's just
emotional.
850
00:28:23,260 --> 00:28:25,095
- [whining]
- I think that you being gone
851
00:28:25,095 --> 00:28:26,496
for so long,
she's been getting, like,
852
00:28:26,563 --> 00:28:29,166
real emotional about it
and just kind of acting out
853
00:28:29,233 --> 00:28:31,001
and doing little things
that I can tell
854
00:28:31,101 --> 00:28:33,103
she's just doing it 'cause
she's just tryna act out.
855
00:28:33,136 --> 00:28:34,738
- [crying]
- Yeah.
856
00:28:34,805 --> 00:28:36,907
- I want Daddy.
857
00:28:36,974 --> 00:28:39,910
[soft sad music]
858
00:28:39,977 --> 00:28:43,880
♪ ♪
859
00:28:45,316 --> 00:28:46,483
[bright music]
860
00:28:46,550 --> 00:28:49,887
[upbeat music]
861
00:28:49,954 --> 00:28:52,056
- I'm picking up my girls
from school.
862
00:28:52,122 --> 00:28:53,958
Jaylan's been staying
at a hotel,
863
00:28:54,024 --> 00:28:55,726
but he's heading
to my house now,
864
00:28:55,793 --> 00:28:57,728
so he can finally meet
everyone.
865
00:28:57,795 --> 00:28:59,430
- You wanted the back anyway.
- I know.
866
00:28:59,496 --> 00:29:02,266
♪ ♪
867
00:29:02,333 --> 00:29:05,102
- Did you have at your dad's?
- Yes.
868
00:29:05,169 --> 00:29:06,737
- Okay, I have something
to tell you guys.
869
00:29:06,804 --> 00:29:08,205
You guys know that,
I mean clearly,
870
00:29:08,272 --> 00:29:09,707
when you talked to me
in Costa Rica,
871
00:29:09,773 --> 00:29:11,275
I was there with...
872
00:29:11,342 --> 00:29:13,244
- Jay.
- Jaylan, Jay. So and yes,
873
00:29:13,310 --> 00:29:16,780
he asked me to be
his girlfriend in Costa Rica.
874
00:29:16,847 --> 00:29:19,316
Yeah.
Why are you guys grinning?
875
00:29:19,383 --> 00:29:21,085
He'll be here
'cause he got here
876
00:29:21,151 --> 00:29:22,419
right before I came
to pick you guys up.
877
00:29:22,486 --> 00:29:24,355
So I told him just to chill
at the house.
878
00:29:24,421 --> 00:29:25,789
And if you're open
to meeting him,
879
00:29:25,856 --> 00:29:27,391
you can meet him.
880
00:29:27,458 --> 00:29:29,026
- Well, no duh.
We gotta meet him.
881
00:29:29,093 --> 00:29:31,896
- He's super nervous.
882
00:29:31,962 --> 00:29:33,597
- Like how long is he staying?
- Yeah.
883
00:29:33,664 --> 00:29:34,798
- Uh, I don't know.
884
00:29:34,865 --> 00:29:36,133
We'll see-we'll see
how it goes.
885
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:37,768
I don't want you guys to feel
uncomfortable
886
00:29:37,835 --> 00:29:39,870
and you guys can ask Jaylan any
questions that you guys have.
887
00:29:39,937 --> 00:29:41,539
- Okay.
- He's prepared.
888
00:29:41,605 --> 00:29:42,806
All right, are you guys ready?
889
00:29:42,873 --> 00:29:45,309
- Yep.
- All right, here we go.
890
00:29:45,409 --> 00:29:47,411
♪ ♪
891
00:29:47,411 --> 00:29:49,747
- Lock your door.
- No, I'm saying you gotta do--
892
00:29:49,813 --> 00:29:50,848
- Of course I can.
893
00:29:50,915 --> 00:29:52,416
- Yeah.
- [vocalizing]
894
00:29:52,483 --> 00:29:53,617
- Good day at school?
895
00:29:53,684 --> 00:29:55,419
- Mm-hmm.
- Yeah? Yeah?
896
00:29:55,486 --> 00:29:58,856
- On Friday,
we have five minutes off.
897
00:29:58,923 --> 00:30:00,891
- Lucky was really excited
to see you guys.
898
00:30:00,958 --> 00:30:02,726
Ali, this is Jay.
- Nice to meet you, Ali.
899
00:30:02,793 --> 00:30:03,961
- Mm-hmm, I know.
- Jay.
900
00:30:04,028 --> 00:30:05,996
- She said she knows.
[laughs]
901
00:30:06,063 --> 00:30:07,765
- Aleeah, this is Jay.
- And Aleeah.
902
00:30:07,831 --> 00:30:08,899
- Hi.
- This is Jaylan.
903
00:30:08,966 --> 00:30:10,167
- And Addie.
- They were, I mean,
904
00:30:10,234 --> 00:30:11,468
they were excited to meet you.
- [laughs]
905
00:30:11,535 --> 00:30:13,204
- I was excited
to meet you guys too,
906
00:30:13,270 --> 00:30:16,173
so I was kinda nervous too,
but excited at the same time.
907
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:17,241
- Something that you guys
have in common--
908
00:30:17,308 --> 00:30:18,943
- Yeah,
so I have a twin sister.
909
00:30:19,009 --> 00:30:20,744
I'm a twin as well.
910
00:30:20,811 --> 00:30:22,046
I know how it feels
to have a twin.
911
00:30:22,112 --> 00:30:24,715
- Mm-hmm,
I always forget.
912
00:30:24,782 --> 00:30:25,983
- Can never forget.
- Yeah.
913
00:30:26,050 --> 00:30:27,351
- Do you guys have
any questions?
914
00:30:27,451 --> 00:30:28,819
- Anything you guys want
to know about me?
915
00:30:28,886 --> 00:30:30,187
- Anything you wanna know
about Jay?
916
00:30:30,254 --> 00:30:32,256
- If he becomes your boyfriend,
917
00:30:32,323 --> 00:30:34,358
can he drive me around
to get my nails done?
918
00:30:34,458 --> 00:30:36,660
[laughter]
You work at the mall?
919
00:30:36,727 --> 00:30:38,529
- No.
- Mom, how did you meet?
920
00:30:38,596 --> 00:30:39,797
- We met at a concert.
921
00:30:39,864 --> 00:30:41,565
And we've went on a few dates
since then
922
00:30:41,632 --> 00:30:44,268
and talked FaceTimed and...
923
00:30:44,401 --> 00:30:46,570
- ♪ If you liked it, then you
should have put a ring on it ♪
924
00:30:46,637 --> 00:30:48,405
[laughter]
925
00:30:48,439 --> 00:30:51,141
- Okay, it was very important
that I waited to introduce
926
00:30:51,208 --> 00:30:52,276
you guys.
- Mm-hmm.
927
00:30:52,409 --> 00:30:53,544
- 'Cause you guys are my life.
928
00:30:53,611 --> 00:30:55,846
So anyone that comes around
you guys...
929
00:30:55,913 --> 00:30:57,681
- Mm-hmm.
- Has to love you equally
930
00:30:57,748 --> 00:30:59,617
and be good to you guys.
931
00:30:59,683 --> 00:31:01,852
So it was very important
that I got to know Jay,
932
00:31:01,919 --> 00:31:03,187
like really got to know Jay,
933
00:31:03,254 --> 00:31:05,322
before I ever introduced him
to you guys.
934
00:31:05,422 --> 00:31:06,490
Do you guys wanna see him more?
935
00:31:06,557 --> 00:31:08,325
- Yeah.
- Mm-hmm.
936
00:31:08,425 --> 00:31:10,794
- I already did want
to see you guys more, so...
937
00:31:10,861 --> 00:31:12,563
[soft music]
938
00:31:12,630 --> 00:31:13,831
It was nice meeting you.
939
00:31:13,898 --> 00:31:15,032
- Mm-hmm.
- Ali.
940
00:31:15,099 --> 00:31:16,834
- Something.
- Tall, she's tall.
941
00:31:16,901 --> 00:31:17,768
She's--
- Yep.
942
00:31:17,835 --> 00:31:19,537
[laughs]
943
00:31:19,603 --> 00:31:21,972
[bass guitar music]
944
00:31:22,039 --> 00:31:23,307
- There you go, Linc.
Come on.
945
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:24,808
Get outside.
Get outside.
946
00:31:24,875 --> 00:31:25,943
Get outside.
Get outside.
947
00:31:26,010 --> 00:31:27,278
That's nice!
That's nice!
948
00:31:27,344 --> 00:31:28,679
That's a good one.
Good job, Linc!
949
00:31:28,746 --> 00:31:29,747
- There you go!
950
00:31:29,813 --> 00:31:30,848
Lincoln has football,
951
00:31:30,915 --> 00:31:31,882
so I stopped by to watch.
952
00:31:31,949 --> 00:31:33,484
I'm gonna see Vee later,
953
00:31:33,551 --> 00:31:35,486
so I wanna make sure
I understand what happened
954
00:31:35,553 --> 00:31:37,855
between her and Javi
before we talk.
955
00:31:37,922 --> 00:31:39,957
I mean, Lincoln loves
football.
956
00:31:40,024 --> 00:31:42,059
He loves training.
He loves all of it.
957
00:31:42,126 --> 00:31:43,861
- And we never thought
he would be into football.
958
00:31:43,928 --> 00:31:45,062
- You know, one thing
959
00:31:45,129 --> 00:31:46,597
that we have never
needed help on
960
00:31:46,664 --> 00:31:48,432
is co-parenting
when it comes to Lincoln
961
00:31:48,499 --> 00:31:50,234
and all of his activities
and things like that.
962
00:31:50,301 --> 00:31:52,603
But I just wish
that you had told me
963
00:31:52,670 --> 00:31:53,804
about Vee instead.
964
00:31:53,871 --> 00:31:55,706
This did happen.
I did meet up with her.
965
00:31:55,773 --> 00:31:57,074
I did--this was said.
966
00:31:57,141 --> 00:31:59,610
- So why I never went to you
is because
967
00:31:59,677 --> 00:32:01,111
we were in a bad spot.
968
00:32:01,178 --> 00:32:02,646
That whole divorce,
that whole year of the divorce,
969
00:32:02,713 --> 00:32:04,081
when we were in a bad spot--
- Even the year after.
970
00:32:04,148 --> 00:32:07,117
- So for someone
that's, in my eyes,
971
00:32:07,184 --> 00:32:09,086
close to you,
I'm gonna believe it.
972
00:32:09,153 --> 00:32:11,555
If Vee wants to own up to that,
that's on her.
973
00:32:11,622 --> 00:32:13,023
- I don't think she is
who she was,
974
00:32:13,090 --> 00:32:14,458
you know, four years ago...
- Right.
975
00:32:14,525 --> 00:32:16,660
- But as far as, like,
business goes,
976
00:32:16,727 --> 00:32:19,463
I think it was just a sign
that, like, we can be friends,
977
00:32:19,530 --> 00:32:20,664
but maybe not necessarily
work together.
978
00:32:20,731 --> 00:32:21,899
- Yeah.
979
00:32:21,966 --> 00:32:23,033
- But now I need to have
a conversation
980
00:32:23,100 --> 00:32:24,768
with Vee about everything
in person,
981
00:32:24,835 --> 00:32:26,237
and I am a little nervous,
982
00:32:26,303 --> 00:32:28,439
'cause I haven't seen Vee
since the stuff that occurred.
983
00:32:28,505 --> 00:32:31,442
[somber music]
984
00:32:31,508 --> 00:32:38,449
♪ ♪
985
00:32:43,888 --> 00:32:45,956
Hey.
- Oh, hey.
986
00:32:46,023 --> 00:32:47,625
- How are you?
- How are you?
987
00:32:47,691 --> 00:32:48,859
- Good.
- Good.
988
00:32:48,926 --> 00:32:50,995
- Okay.
989
00:32:51,061 --> 00:32:53,297
So I just want you to know
that I--
990
00:32:53,397 --> 00:32:54,999
I still love our friendship,
991
00:32:55,065 --> 00:32:56,600
and I still wanna be there
for the kids.
992
00:32:56,667 --> 00:32:57,668
I don't hate you.
993
00:32:57,735 --> 00:32:58,736
- Well, I'm--no, I'm glad
994
00:32:58,802 --> 00:32:59,837
that you texted me.
995
00:32:59,904 --> 00:33:01,005
I wish, obviously, right now
996
00:33:01,071 --> 00:33:02,406
that I never did that to you...
997
00:33:02,473 --> 00:33:04,174
- Right, of course.
- Because what the [bleep]?
998
00:33:04,241 --> 00:33:05,543
I don't know if it's maybe
999
00:33:05,609 --> 00:33:06,710
'cause all the things
that I felt in the past
1000
00:33:06,777 --> 00:33:08,312
like, on top of, like,
having the baby,
1001
00:33:08,412 --> 00:33:10,414
and, like, I was going
through, like, postpartum
1002
00:33:10,481 --> 00:33:12,516
and just depress--
I had nobody down here...
1003
00:33:12,583 --> 00:33:14,084
- Yeah.
- And I just felt miserable.
1004
00:33:14,151 --> 00:33:16,086
I don't know if it was like
I wanted someone else to hurt
1005
00:33:16,153 --> 00:33:17,521
or something,
which is not--
1006
00:33:17,588 --> 00:33:18,989
- Sometimes, that's--I mean...
- Which is not okay,
1007
00:33:19,056 --> 00:33:22,193
but I would never do that
to you or somebody else again.
1008
00:33:22,259 --> 00:33:23,694
I would never want to put
that hurt on somebody.
1009
00:33:23,761 --> 00:33:25,496
I know how deeply it hurt you.
- Yeah.
1010
00:33:25,563 --> 00:33:26,797
And, like, maybe the podcast
is done.
1011
00:33:26,864 --> 00:33:28,299
Like, maybe we weren't meant
to work together,
1012
00:33:28,432 --> 00:33:30,201
but, like, I--like I said,
I still wanna have, like,
1013
00:33:30,267 --> 00:33:31,635
a personal relationship
with you, and--
1014
00:33:31,702 --> 00:33:34,004
"Baby Mamas, No Drama"--
it would have to be switched
1015
00:33:34,071 --> 00:33:35,773
to, like, "Baby Mamas,
All Drama."
1016
00:33:35,839 --> 00:33:37,274
You know what I mean?
Like, I mean, it's sad.
1017
00:33:37,341 --> 00:33:38,209
It's so sad.
- It's so sad.
1018
00:33:38,275 --> 00:33:39,343
I'm really sad.
1019
00:33:39,443 --> 00:33:40,477
- I definitely think it's hard
1020
00:33:40,544 --> 00:33:41,845
to mix friendships
with business.
1021
00:33:41,912 --> 00:33:43,280
- Especially us
'cause we're not just friends.
1022
00:33:43,347 --> 00:33:45,549
We're co-parent on top of that.
- Right.
1023
00:33:45,616 --> 00:33:47,284
- So to me, like,
our personal relationship
1024
00:33:47,384 --> 00:33:49,153
is way more important to me
than...
1025
00:33:49,220 --> 00:33:50,421
- The business?
- Than the business.
1026
00:33:50,487 --> 00:33:51,722
- I don't want there to be
any bad blood.
1027
00:33:51,789 --> 00:33:53,390
- We just need to do better
from here on out,
1028
00:33:53,424 --> 00:33:55,960
no mistakes,
no, like, bull[bleep].
1029
00:33:56,026 --> 00:33:59,063
Like, just loyalty and--
1030
00:33:59,129 --> 00:34:00,297
- Honesty, transparency,
1031
00:34:00,397 --> 00:34:01,632
all of it, and we're good.
1032
00:34:04,201 --> 00:34:07,137
[upbeat music]
1033
00:34:07,204 --> 00:34:13,410
♪ ♪
1034
00:34:13,410 --> 00:34:15,446
- This is exciting.
1035
00:34:15,512 --> 00:34:17,915
Are you excited
to eat here?
1036
00:34:17,982 --> 00:34:21,018
You're gonna dip your bread
in the cheese and [bleep]?
1037
00:34:21,085 --> 00:34:22,920
- Vroom, vroom, vroom.
1038
00:34:22,987 --> 00:34:24,255
What up?
- Hola.
1039
00:34:24,321 --> 00:34:25,789
Cómo estás?
1040
00:34:25,856 --> 00:34:27,491
- What up, what up,
what up?
1041
00:34:27,558 --> 00:34:30,427
- Are you guys celebrating
anything special today?
1042
00:34:30,494 --> 00:34:32,029
- I'm just here.
- Stopped for dinner?
1043
00:34:32,096 --> 00:34:33,097
Nice.
- Mm-hmm.
1044
00:34:33,163 --> 00:34:34,098
- It's the weekend, you know.
1045
00:34:34,164 --> 00:34:35,199
- As a family.
1046
00:34:35,266 --> 00:34:37,334
- Family dinner.
1047
00:34:37,434 --> 00:34:40,337
- How's--how's business going
for you?
1048
00:34:40,437 --> 00:34:43,140
- Work is cool.
It's actually picking up.
1049
00:34:43,207 --> 00:34:44,675
- That's good.
1050
00:34:46,076 --> 00:34:47,278
- When do you plan on moving?
1051
00:34:47,378 --> 00:34:48,946
- End of this month.
The lease is up.
1052
00:34:49,013 --> 00:34:50,614
- Oh, God.
1053
00:34:50,681 --> 00:34:52,416
- There's not too many things
available
1054
00:34:52,483 --> 00:34:53,751
within what I'm trying
to, you know, pay.
1055
00:34:53,817 --> 00:34:54,818
- Yeah, yeah.
1056
00:34:54,885 --> 00:34:56,253
- Three bedrooms, you know?
1057
00:34:56,387 --> 00:34:58,289
I want something I can set her
up with a room, so.
1058
00:34:58,389 --> 00:34:59,590
So she wanna come over more.
1059
00:34:59,657 --> 00:35:02,393
- Yeah.
Nova needs her own space.
1060
00:35:02,393 --> 00:35:03,661
She's already hitting that age
1061
00:35:03,727 --> 00:35:06,630
where she's basically
a teenager already.
1062
00:35:06,697 --> 00:35:07,831
- Oh, I know.
1063
00:35:07,898 --> 00:35:10,234
- What's the third room for?
1064
00:35:10,301 --> 00:35:12,269
- Probably his game room.
- Third room--
1065
00:35:12,403 --> 00:35:13,437
- Your game room?
1066
00:35:13,504 --> 00:35:14,405
You'll probably be
in there all day.
1067
00:35:14,438 --> 00:35:15,439
- It's just a de--yeah,
1068
00:35:15,506 --> 00:35:17,875
just like you be on TikTok.
1069
00:35:17,942 --> 00:35:21,111
- I'm glad you invited me
out to dinner, me and Nova.
1070
00:35:21,178 --> 00:35:22,646
I'm having a blast.
1071
00:35:22,713 --> 00:35:23,847
- Great.
1072
00:35:23,914 --> 00:35:25,216
- We gotta do this more often.
1073
00:35:25,282 --> 00:35:29,019
Right?
Are you having fun?
1074
00:35:29,086 --> 00:35:30,487
- Yeah, I'm eating salad
next time.
1075
00:35:30,554 --> 00:35:34,158
- I think Devoin and I
had a child so young,
1076
00:35:34,225 --> 00:35:35,926
and I think we both
had struggled.
1077
00:35:35,993 --> 00:35:37,428
We were both very immature.
1078
00:35:37,494 --> 00:35:39,330
We did not know
how to co-parent,
1079
00:35:39,430 --> 00:35:40,764
let alone parent.
1080
00:35:40,831 --> 00:35:42,733
Like, it was just--
everything about it was hard.
1081
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:46,403
But we're growing up now.
We're becoming adults.
1082
00:35:46,470 --> 00:35:48,005
At the end of the day,
we just need to make sure
1083
00:35:48,072 --> 00:35:49,373
that Nova is okay
1084
00:35:49,406 --> 00:35:50,808
and to give her
everything that she needs
1085
00:35:50,875 --> 00:35:52,576
and to protect her
and to love her
1086
00:35:52,643 --> 00:35:53,811
and to guide her and teach her,
1087
00:35:53,878 --> 00:35:56,714
and I think we're trying
to do that now.
1088
00:35:56,780 --> 00:35:58,249
Nova's very shy.
1089
00:35:58,382 --> 00:35:59,250
Throughout the dinner,
1090
00:35:59,383 --> 00:36:00,985
seeing her smile and laugh
1091
00:36:01,051 --> 00:36:03,387
with her dad and with me--
it was very special.
1092
00:36:03,387 --> 00:36:05,656
[spacey music]
1093
00:36:05,723 --> 00:36:08,158
♪ ♪
1094
00:36:14,229 --> 00:36:16,493
{\an7}[upbeat music]
1095
00:36:16,493 --> 00:36:17,361
{\an7}[country music]
1096
00:36:17,361 --> 00:36:21,899
{\an7}- ♪ It’s always something ♪
1097
00:36:21,899 --> 00:36:23,328
{\an7}♪ ♪
1098
00:36:23,328 --> 00:36:24,526
{\an7}- Oh, what are you doing?
1099
00:36:24,526 --> 00:36:25,757
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hAre you doing
a research project for--
1100
00:36:25,757 --> 00:36:28,163
{\an7}\h\h- It’s for Spanish.
- Project for Spanish?
1101
00:36:28,163 --> 00:36:29,658
{\an7}Are you doing it on Costa Rica?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
1102
00:36:29,658 --> 00:36:31,493
{\an7}- So what did you guys think
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\habout meeting
1103
00:36:31,493 --> 00:36:32,625
{\an7}Jay the other day?
1104
00:36:32,625 --> 00:36:33,361
{\an7}- Pretty cool.
1105
00:36:33,361 --> 00:36:34,899
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah?
- Yeah, I like Jay.
1106
00:36:34,899 --> 00:36:35,932
{\an7}- I like Jay.
1107
00:36:35,932 --> 00:36:37,757
{\an7}- It’s pretty cool
\hthat he’s a twin.
1108
00:36:37,757 --> 00:36:39,163
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm.
- And you guys are twins.
1109
00:36:39,163 --> 00:36:40,427
{\an7}\h- I mean, it’s what
we have in common...
1110
00:36:40,427 --> 00:36:41,625
{\an7}- That means he knows
\h\h\h\hthe struggle.
1111
00:36:41,625 --> 00:36:43,625
{\an7}- ...things in common,
\h\hit makes it easier.
1112
00:36:43,625 --> 00:36:44,493
{\an7}- Right.
1113
00:36:44,493 --> 00:36:46,833
{\an7}- He was definitely
\h\hacting anxious.
1114
00:36:46,833 --> 00:36:48,493
{\an7}Like, I could tell.
1115
00:36:48,493 --> 00:36:50,262
{\an7}- Well, he’s never been
\h\h\h\h\hwith someone
1116
00:36:50,262 --> 00:36:51,361
{\an7}that’s had kids, either.
1117
00:36:51,361 --> 00:36:52,932
{\an7}’Cause I’m sure that was
\h\h\h\h\h\hdefinitely--
1118
00:36:52,932 --> 00:36:55,262
{\an7}gave him a little bit
\h\h\h\h\hof anxiety.
1119
00:36:55,262 --> 00:36:56,361
{\an7}It’s kind of like your dad
1120
00:36:56,361 --> 00:36:57,658
{\an7}when he first met Miranda,
1121
00:36:57,658 --> 00:36:58,460
{\an7}and he had two kids.
1122
00:36:58,460 --> 00:37:00,526
{\an7}You know, it’s a lot--
\h- Especially you two.
1123
00:37:00,526 --> 00:37:02,592
{\an7}- It’s a lot of responsibility.
1124
00:37:02,592 --> 00:37:04,394
{\an7}What did you guys like
\h\h\h\h\h\habout him?
1125
00:37:04,394 --> 00:37:06,460
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Everything.
- Just gave off a good vibe.
1126
00:37:06,460 --> 00:37:08,229
{\an7}I liked him.
\h\h\h- Yeah.
1127
00:37:08,229 --> 00:37:09,427
{\an7}You said everything?
1128
00:37:09,427 --> 00:37:10,592
{\an7}- Cool vibes.
1129
00:37:10,592 --> 00:37:11,460
{\an7}- Cool vibes?
1130
00:37:11,460 --> 00:37:12,691
{\an7}I know he really likes
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou guys.
1131
00:37:12,691 --> 00:37:14,757
{\an7}I definitely wanted to get
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto know Jay
1132
00:37:14,757 --> 00:37:16,361
{\an7}before I introduced you guys
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto him.
1133
00:37:16,361 --> 00:37:20,394
{\an7}\hBut it’s also important to me
that I don’t just bring anyone
1134
00:37:20,394 --> 00:37:21,460
{\an7}into you guys’ life.
1135
00:37:21,460 --> 00:37:23,757
{\an7}\hI mean, I really like
that you guys clicked.
1136
00:37:23,757 --> 00:37:24,866
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Right.
- I’m excited to see
1137
00:37:24,866 --> 00:37:27,866
{\an7}what--what the future holds
\h\h\h\h\h\hfor all of us.
1138
00:37:27,866 --> 00:37:31,295
{\an7}♪ ♪
1139
00:37:31,295 --> 00:37:33,833
{\an7}- ♪ Yeah ♪
1140
00:37:33,833 --> 00:37:35,757
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- I’m closing
on the new house today,
1141
00:37:35,757 --> 00:37:38,559
{\an7}and I hope this can give Kloie
\h\h\h\ha sense of stability,
1142
00:37:38,559 --> 00:37:40,833
{\an7}\h\h\h\hsince she’s had
a lot of change lately.
1143
00:37:40,833 --> 00:37:41,757
{\an7}- [whines indistinctly]
1144
00:37:41,757 --> 00:37:43,592
{\an7}- It’s not raining
\h\hno more, baby.
1145
00:37:43,592 --> 00:37:44,899
{\an7}It’s done.
1146
00:37:44,899 --> 00:37:46,559
{\an7}Are you gonna be good?
1147
00:37:46,559 --> 00:37:47,295
{\an7}- Yeah!
1148
00:37:47,295 --> 00:37:50,790
{\an7}- This is a big day
\h\hfor you and me.
1149
00:37:50,790 --> 00:37:51,724
{\an7}Behave.
1150
00:37:51,724 --> 00:37:54,998
{\an7}- [whines softly]
1151
00:37:54,998 --> 00:37:56,559
{\an7}♪ ♪
1152
00:37:56,559 --> 00:37:58,592
{\an7}- You’re just grouchy
’cause you’re sleepy.
1153
00:37:58,592 --> 00:38:00,592
{\an7}\h\h\hDo you know
what we’re doing?
1154
00:38:00,592 --> 00:38:01,658
{\an7}- No.
1155
00:38:01,658 --> 00:38:04,724
{\an7}- You want me to tell you
\h\h\h\hwhat we’re doing?
1156
00:38:04,724 --> 00:38:05,965
{\an7}- Mm!
1157
00:38:05,965 --> 00:38:07,361
{\an7}- Can you stop?
1158
00:38:07,361 --> 00:38:09,724
{\an7}\h\h\hYou remember
how Mommy told you
1159
00:38:09,724 --> 00:38:11,757
{\an7}she was gonna buy you a house?
1160
00:38:11,757 --> 00:38:13,592
{\an7}Mommy’s gonna get us a house
1161
00:38:13,592 --> 00:38:15,625
{\an7}that we can keep forever.
1162
00:38:15,625 --> 00:38:18,031
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hYou want a house
that you can have forever?
1163
00:38:18,031 --> 00:38:20,998
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hAll of our stuff
that’s in our house right now
1164
00:38:20,998 --> 00:38:22,526
{\an7}will be in our new house.
1165
00:38:22,526 --> 00:38:25,295
{\an7}Are you excited to show Daddy
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyour new house
1166
00:38:25,295 --> 00:38:27,658
{\an7}when he gets home?
1167
00:38:29,493 --> 00:38:31,592
{\an7}Hmm?
1168
00:38:32,526 --> 00:38:34,757
{\an7}\hAre you just gonna be
a grouch to me all day?
1169
00:38:34,757 --> 00:38:36,833
{\an7}\hYou’re hurting
Mommy’s feelings.
1170
00:38:36,833 --> 00:38:37,493
{\an7}- I’m not.
1171
00:38:37,493 --> 00:38:39,625
{\an7}- This is supposed to be
\h\ha big day for Mommy,
1172
00:38:39,625 --> 00:38:41,625
{\an7}and you’re hurting my feelings.
1173
00:38:41,625 --> 00:38:46,361
{\an7}- ♪ You are my home ♪
1174
00:38:46,361 --> 00:38:48,998
{\an7}♪ All that I need ♪
1175
00:38:48,998 --> 00:38:52,866
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Are you happy?
We just got a new house.
1176
00:38:52,866 --> 00:38:54,526
{\an7}You just got a new house.
1177
00:38:54,526 --> 00:38:55,899
{\an7}Do the dance.
Do the dance.
1178
00:38:55,899 --> 00:38:57,361
{\an7}Do the dance.
\h\h\h\h- No!
1179
00:38:57,361 --> 00:38:58,328
{\an7}- Do the dance.
1180
00:38:58,328 --> 00:38:59,658
{\an7}Do your shaky butt.
\hShake your butt.
1181
00:38:59,658 --> 00:39:00,757
{\an7}Shake your butt.
Shake your butt.
1182
00:39:00,757 --> 00:39:03,790
{\an7}You’re a little grouch.
\hYou’re no fun today.
1183
00:39:03,790 --> 00:39:06,592
{\an7}\h\h- Yeah, I am.
- No, you’re not.
1184
00:39:06,592 --> 00:39:08,932
{\an7}Big whiner.
1185
00:39:09,559 --> 00:39:10,658
{\an7}I’m gonna call Grandma Lori.
1186
00:39:10,658 --> 00:39:13,097
{\an7}Oh, can I see my phone
\h\h\h\h\h\hreal quick?
1187
00:39:13,097 --> 00:39:13,833
{\an7}- Mm!
1188
00:39:13,833 --> 00:39:16,460
{\an7}- I’ll give it back to you
\h\h\hif you give it to me
1189
00:39:16,460 --> 00:39:18,526
{\an7}and you be nice about it.
1190
00:39:18,526 --> 00:39:20,064
{\an7}\h\h\hThank you.
I’ll give it back
1191
00:39:20,064 --> 00:39:21,790
{\an7}after I call Grandma Lori.
1192
00:39:21,790 --> 00:39:24,757
{\an7}[line trilling]
- Grandma no...
1193
00:39:24,757 --> 00:39:27,559
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Hello?
- I signed my papers.
1194
00:39:27,559 --> 00:39:28,493
{\an7}I’m officially a homeowner.
1195
00:39:28,493 --> 00:39:31,965
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- You did?
Congratulations, hon.
1196
00:39:31,965 --> 00:39:33,757
{\an7}Just wait till you get
\h\h\h\h\h\hin there.
1197
00:39:33,757 --> 00:39:35,427
{\an7}You’re gonna freaking love it.
1198
00:39:35,427 --> 00:39:36,899
{\an7}\h\h\h- I know.
I’m so excited.
1199
00:39:36,899 --> 00:39:38,833
{\an7}- Have your own [bleep].
1200
00:39:38,833 --> 00:39:41,965
{\an7}\h- I just wanna give
my daughter stability.
1201
00:39:41,965 --> 00:39:43,526
{\an7}I never had that growing up.
1202
00:39:43,526 --> 00:39:45,724
{\an7}I always moved.
I moved schools.
1203
00:39:45,724 --> 00:39:46,790
{\an7}I lost a lot of friends,
1204
00:39:46,790 --> 00:39:49,757
{\an7}\h\hand I want her
to have somewhere
1205
00:39:49,757 --> 00:39:50,526
{\an7}that’s stable.
1206
00:39:50,526 --> 00:39:52,493
{\an7}\h\hMe providing her
that, like, stability
1207
00:39:52,493 --> 00:39:54,724
{\an7}and that little sense of home
\h\h\h\his really important.
1208
00:39:54,724 --> 00:39:57,097
{\an7}Kloie’s handling Sean
\h\h\h\h\hbeing away.
1209
00:39:57,097 --> 00:40:00,031
{\an7}I think she definitely
\h\h\h\his missing him,
1210
00:40:00,031 --> 00:40:01,965
{\an7}and I think I’m trying
\h\h\h\h\hto do my best
1211
00:40:01,965 --> 00:40:03,965
{\an7}to kind of make up for that,
1212
00:40:03,965 --> 00:40:06,724
{\an7}and I want her to have
\h\ha sense of comfort
1213
00:40:06,724 --> 00:40:08,097
{\an7}and somewhere that she knows
1214
00:40:08,097 --> 00:40:10,031
{\an7}\hthat, you know,
in the next year,
1215
00:40:10,031 --> 00:40:12,757
{\an7}we’re not just gonna up
\h\h\hand have to move.
1216
00:40:12,757 --> 00:40:15,790
{\an7}[soft music]
1217
00:40:15,790 --> 00:40:17,526
{\an7}♪ ♪
1218
00:40:17,526 --> 00:40:19,625
{\an7}- ♪ Whenever the room
\h\hstarts spinning ♪
1219
00:40:19,625 --> 00:40:23,691
{\an7}♪ And the walls feel
like they closing ♪
1220
00:40:23,691 --> 00:40:26,460
{\an7}♪ When the doubt start
\h\h\h\h\hsetting in ♪
1221
00:40:26,460 --> 00:40:27,790
{\an7}♪ I know that you know ♪
1222
00:40:27,790 --> 00:40:31,790
{\an7}\h♪ If I went north
and you went south ♪
1223
00:40:31,790 --> 00:40:35,031
{\an7}♪ We’d find our way
\h\h\hback around ♪
1224
00:40:35,031 --> 00:40:38,899
{\an7}♪ Nothing’s ever too far ♪
1225
00:40:38,899 --> 00:40:42,658
{\an7}♪ I’m with you where you are ♪
1226
00:40:42,658 --> 00:40:45,163
{\an7}♪ ♪
1227
00:40:45,163 --> 00:40:51,691
{\an7}♪ I’m with you where you are ♪
1228
00:40:56,869 --> 00:40:58,440
{\an7}- I don’t wanna play football.
1229
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:00,978
{\an7}\h\h\h- You need to be there
because you committed to it.
1230
00:41:00,978 --> 00:41:03,539
{\an7}- [screaming]
1231
00:41:03,539 --> 00:41:04,374
{\an7}- I’ve never wanted to be
1232
00:41:04,374 --> 00:41:05,638
{\an7}in a long-distance
\h\h\hrelationship.
1233
00:41:05,638 --> 00:41:07,077
{\an7}\h\h- And we, like,
out here, mourning.
1234
00:41:07,077 --> 00:41:08,506
{\an7}This is kind of getting to me.
1235
00:41:08,506 --> 00:41:09,671
{\an7}- I’ve got court tomorrow.
1236
00:41:09,671 --> 00:41:10,605
{\an7}- I’m just over it.
1237
00:41:10,605 --> 00:41:13,638
{\an7}\h\h\h- She was telling me
that her heart was hurting,
1238
00:41:13,638 --> 00:41:15,506
{\an7}so we ran to the ER.
1239
00:41:15,506 --> 00:41:17,572
{\an7}- We’re gonna go see Daddy.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Daddy!
1240
00:41:17,572 --> 00:41:20,176
{\an7}- [laughs]
- [laughs]