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- What have you built
for this family?
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- I can say I plan
to put my best foot forward
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to make us...uh,
co-inhabiting this house
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as smooth as possible.
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- What's up with you and Bar?
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- I don't know.
What the hell?
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I feel like I'm being
interrogated.
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People are married
in real life
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trying to work it out
in real life,
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so I say give me time.
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Give me the [bleep] time.
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- Hold on, Ashley. Hold on.
- Ashley, [indistinct].
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- No, I'm done.
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- When me and Dad got pulled
over three years ago,
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he had weed in there,
and they charged me with it,
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so I have to go to jail
for 45 days.
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They continued it.
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I didn't go to jail.
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- Well, I guess
that's great for you then.
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- Can I come see you
and Kloie later?
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- Um, not today.
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I didn't really care.
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I guess good for her.
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That just means they're
continuing the court date
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a little later,
so it doesn't mean
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she's out of anything.
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- Open up all the way.
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- Come look.
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Your dad's here.
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- Your dad wants to take you.
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- I think
that hurt his feelings
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and he just didn't show.
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He disappointed her.
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- Just telling you about
my kids, that's all.
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I love 'em.
- When that time comes,
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I'm really excited
to meet them.
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- I'd like to go to Costa Rica
and see Royer.
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I'd like for you to go.
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Cai will be two.
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And he's never seen his dad.
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- Do you wanna go
to Costa Rica?
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- I would love to go.
I mean,
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this would be a good time
for me to kinda
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prove to you
that I'm ready
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to be in a relationship
with you.
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- Vee and I started
a new podcast
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called "Baby Mamas, No Drama."
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I'm gonna let you introduce,
um...
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- Our guest?
- Yeah, our guest today.
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- Of course,
it had to be my hubby.
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- I'm excited to see you guys
taking a new journey together.
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- How you feel about
the podcast we just did
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with, uh, Briana?
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- Kail's not gonna like it
off the fact
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that it's just Briana.
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That's it.
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[tense music]
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♪ ♪
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[upbeat rock music]
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Shame I'm feeling myself ♪
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♪ Oh, yeah ♪
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- I spent a week in Costa Rica
with my sister and Jaylan.
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Royer got to meet their son
for the first time,
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and he and my sister
got engaged.
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- Aw.
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- I got to know Jaylan better
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while we were there.
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And on a date night,
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he asked me
to be his girlfriend.
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So we're official now.
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[soft music]
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I just got home and Jaylan
flew back to Georgia.
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The girls spent the week
at their dad's,
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but they're here now
with a sitter,
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and I can't wait to see them.
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Boo!
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Boo!
[dog barking]
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- Got you roses.
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- Who did?
- Lucky missed you too.
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- Jay.
- Jay?
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Jaylan got me roses?
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What?
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What?
- Hey, Mom.
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♪ ♪
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- Hi, Lucky man.
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Hi, Lucky man.
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How are you?
Did you miss mama?
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- Sit.
- What? [gasps]
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- Sit.
- You still have your mask on.
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You've been in the car.
- No, I know.
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[groans]
- [squeals]
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- What are you doing?
- He scratched me.
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- Ooh, I see some As in here.
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Okay, so how much did you guys
miss me though?
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- A lot.
- A lot?
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♪ ♪
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[barking]
Lucky, no, no, no, no, no.
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Come in!
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Lucky, come.
- Hey, Lucky.
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- I'm in here.
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- Hey.
- Hi.
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- Whatcha doing?
- Oh, you know.
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I just came back
from Costa Rica.
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- How was it though?
- It was amazing.
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So I invited Jaylan to go
with me.
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And I think it allowed us to...
kind of get closer
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and get to know each other
a little better
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than maybe we did.
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- Yeah.
- Before.
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He ended up taking me to this,
like, candlelit dinner.
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- Stop.
- I [bleep] you not.
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I think this dude's the devil.
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- [laughs]
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Why, because he's so perfect?
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- He asked me to be exclusive.
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- And you said...
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- And I said hell no.
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- No, you didn't.
- No, I'm joking.
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I'm joking, I'm joking,
I'm joking, I'm joking.
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I did.
I was like, oh, my God.
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- Like, I'm happy for you.
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Really.
- [laughs]
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- [laughing]
Seriously.
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- I know.
- Like, he literally came
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outta nowhere.
- A little--yeah.
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He gives me butterflies
a little bit,
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but I'm like, all right.
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- So did Jaylan go back
to Georgia?
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- Yeah, he did.
- How's that going?
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- He had some work stuff.
I mean, it'll be long-distance
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for a little while,
but he's coming to visit
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later this week.
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- Has he met the girls yet?
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- Not yet.
He's excited and nervous
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about meeting them.
- Yeah.
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- It's so clear
that he loves kids.
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And I think the girls
will love him.
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I think that's what scares me
the most.
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Is because...
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I like him so much.
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And I see, like,
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how and where my kids are
gonna like him so much.
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- Yeah.
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[soft music]
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[upbeat music]
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- My sister and I
were in San Diego
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for the last two weeks
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filming
"Teen Mom: Family Reunion,"
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and tonight
we're finally coming home.
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- Listen.
- Uh...
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- Listen to me,
the faster we pack your snacks
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for tonight--for tomorrow--
- It's [indistinct].
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- No.
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The faster--and you go to bed,
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the faster you see your mom.
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- [talking indistinctly]
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♪ ♪
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[barking]
- [gasps]
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[screaming]
They're home!
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- Hi, girls.
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- We missed you guys.
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- What? No way!
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Oh, my God, your mom is here!
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- I missed you, girl.
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- I think I'm more excited
than the girls.
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Oh,
I'm happy you guys are home.
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♪ ♪
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- So how was San Diego?
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- San Diego was cool.
It was--it was--
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it was nice out there.
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Nice and relaxing.
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Come on, take your time.
Take your time. Line it up.
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But yeah,
it was a good time out there.
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You know,
got a lot of time to, you know,
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really get to...
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like show Bri what the hell's
going on with me.
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- Bri,
would I be accurate to say
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that you do not trust him
to say he's gonna show up?
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- Not always.
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- I just want you to know,
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[sighs]
I love Nova.
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- I know.
- [sniffs]
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Always.
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- I know.
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- And I mean, like,
I'm definitely--
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can do a lot for more--
a lot more for her now.
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- Is that a commitment?
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Hm?
- It's a promise.
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- How was the--the talk?
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- It was cool.
We usually--
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whenever we sit down and forced
to talk to teach other,
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it's an argument on the couch.
- Mm-hmm.
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- You don't know what size
shoes she wears.
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You don't know her diaper.
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You don't know [bleep].
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- Is this the Briana show
or can I talk?
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- No, you don't need to talk.
- Is it the Briana show--?
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- 'Cause your actions show
it all.
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- How many birthday parties
have you gone to for Nova?
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- Told me don't come,
not that I wasn't invited.
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- Get the [bleep] outta here.
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You're such a liar.
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I feel like I'ma throw [bleep]
at him at this point.
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- Wrap it up then.
- No, you're not.
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- You don't do what you need
to do as a father!
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You do bare minimum.
Bare minimum.
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- Hey, y'all let me know
when I can talk.
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- You're not a real man.
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- Let's take a minute.
- Yeah.
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- Take the [bleep] mic off me,
man.
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- Just--
- I'm outta here, man.
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And this time
it actually wasn't so...
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goner.
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- So you said, you know,
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you got to finally tell her,
like, what you want from her
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and what she expects from you.
- Mm-hmm.
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- What was, like,
the basis of that?
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What?
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- I just need her to,
you know what I mean,
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see things from my perspective,
you know what I mean.
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Not just always see [bleep]
from her side.
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- For sure.
- And as far as me,
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she just wants me
to be more present.
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- Day-to-day or--
- Day-to-day, yeah.
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More--more so day-to-day.
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So the one thing I understand
is everyone's raised different,
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and that's pretty important,
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especially when it comes
to co-parenting.
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- And when you don't know
somebody like that too, like.
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- When we had the baby,
I didn't really know her.
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- Yeah.
- Not on that level at all.
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Better late than never,
you know what I mean?
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- Better late than never.
- Absolutely.
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- Yeah, in the future I hope
that this means
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that we'll all be closer.
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- Right.
- Everybody.
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- You know how that whole
schedule [bleep]
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with just pickup and drop.
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I don't--I told her
I don't want give me a schedule
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with her
and then just out the blue
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drop that [bleep].
- Oh, okay.
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- I don't need you.
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I'm picking her up from
gymnastics tomorrow.
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I've been trying to plan
a dinner with Briana and Nova.
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- That'll be fun.
- You know what I mean.
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Yeah, we never really sat down
and--
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- The three of y'all, like.
- Chopped it up,
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just discussed things
as a civilized--
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- Unit.
- Pair of parents, you know?
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- And this is--will be
the first time
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that you guys do something
like that, right?
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- Yeah, we've never--
254
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in Nova's 10 years--
done nothing like this.
255
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- She is gonna love that.
256
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- You know what I mean, like,
should be cool.
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- ♪ I'm gonna show you how
to switch it up ♪
258
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♪ Ooh, gonna shake the world,
ooh ♪
259
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♪ With a billion colors,
ooh, ooh ♪
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♪ ♪
261
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- Hey.
- Hello.
262
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- Long time no see.
- Long time no see.
263
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- Welcome back.
- Welcome.
264
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I'm--I'm nervous.
265
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- You're nervous?
- Yeah.
266
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- Uh, do you wanna chat?
267
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- Yeah, let's do it.
- Cool.
268
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So it's been a little while,
huh?
269
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- Yeah.
- It's been a couple months
270
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since you filmed.
271
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- Three months.
272
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I just reached a point
in my life
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where I felt like things
that were occurring
274
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didn't align with the work
I've been doing in therapy.
275
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- Mm-hmm.
- And right around that time,
276
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I found out about Chris,
which is--
277
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I'm not saying one way
or the other,
278
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but I had no idea.
279
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- How are you and Chris?
280
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- At this point
for co-parenting,
281
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when I text,
I don't get a response.
282
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So I'm done.
283
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- Yeah.
284
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So right now,
how are things going
285
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with co-parenting
with each of the dads?
286
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Do you and Jo speak?
- No.
287
00:09:24,498 --> 00:09:27,365
- You and Jo are just--
you drop the kids off
288
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and don't talk?
- Mm-hmm.
289
00:09:28,835 --> 00:09:31,102
- It's only in case
of emergency?
290
00:09:31,171 --> 00:09:32,537
- Mm-hmm.
- Do you feel like you're
291
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paying for past sins?
- Yes.
292
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- Is that what it is?
- Yes, 'cause I feel
293
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the growth.
I see the growth in myself.
294
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I know I just, like,
I don't react
295
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to things the same way,
but I still get treated
296
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like I'm the Kail
from years ago.
297
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- Do you still record
the podcast with Vee
298
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at your office?
- Yeah.
299
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- How do you keep things
so friendly with Vee when--
300
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- It's hard.
- Very challenging with Jo.
301
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- It's very hard,
but on the other hand,
302
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we make it work
303
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and it's been going
really well.
304
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And then Javi, honestly,
changes by the minute.
305
00:09:55,796 --> 00:09:57,028
One day we're good,
one day we're bad,
306
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and I literally never know
what it's going to be.
307
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Like, I don't know.
308
00:10:00,500 --> 00:10:01,800
But we're good now.
309
00:10:01,868 --> 00:10:02,901
- So what do you think?
310
00:10:02,970 --> 00:10:05,236
Are you ready to come back
and--
311
00:10:05,305 --> 00:10:06,938
- I said, literally in my head,
it was like,
312
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this weekend's a trial.
- Yeah.
313
00:10:08,976 --> 00:10:10,275
- Every time I thought about
coming back,
314
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I was like, mm, no.
315
00:10:11,712 --> 00:10:13,078
Even now,
like this whole shoot, like,
316
00:10:13,146 --> 00:10:16,081
I had such a hard time trying
to mentally put myself back
317
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in a place where I have, like,
318
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a crew and, like, cameras
following me around
319
00:10:19,653 --> 00:10:20,752
was really hard.
- Yeah.
320
00:10:20,821 --> 00:10:22,654
- So hopefully
this is like a restart.
321
00:10:22,723 --> 00:10:24,689
And um, I'm gonna try.
322
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[somber music]
323
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[squeaking]
324
00:10:31,832 --> 00:10:33,598
[bright music]
325
00:10:33,667 --> 00:10:37,402
[upbeat music]
326
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♪ ♪
327
00:10:42,209 --> 00:10:44,576
- I'm still sorting through
my feelings about Bar.
328
00:10:44,645 --> 00:10:45,810
But today I'm helping my mom
329
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with her cake-decorating
workshop,
330
00:10:47,214 --> 00:10:49,381
and Bar decided to come too.
331
00:10:49,449 --> 00:10:51,149
Hi.
- What's happening?
332
00:10:52,252 --> 00:10:53,151
- I love you.
333
00:10:54,087 --> 00:10:56,788
So grab out your aprons, okay?
334
00:10:56,857 --> 00:10:58,390
- Rotate this.
- Yeah.
335
00:10:58,458 --> 00:11:01,292
- It's easier for you than
you rotating your wrist.
336
00:11:01,361 --> 00:11:03,495
Do you get what I'm saying?
[people talking indistinctly]
337
00:11:03,563 --> 00:11:04,929
- Yeah, you can put some more.
338
00:11:04,998 --> 00:11:07,165
- Oh, you guys
are doing good back here.
339
00:11:07,234 --> 00:11:09,501
Anybody need help
with the icing?
340
00:11:09,569 --> 00:11:12,604
I'm seeing some of your cakes,
y'all, they lookin' beautiful.
341
00:11:12,673 --> 00:11:13,705
They lookin' beautiful.
342
00:11:13,774 --> 00:11:17,075
Y'all got me proud up in here.
343
00:11:17,144 --> 00:11:18,877
[door shuts]
- Ooh, girl.
344
00:11:18,945 --> 00:11:21,146
- I'm losing my [bleep] mind.
- [laughs]
345
00:11:21,214 --> 00:11:23,148
- Cake everywhere.
Frosting everywhere.
346
00:11:23,216 --> 00:11:24,382
- What's up though?
- I'm happy Mom
347
00:11:25,452 --> 00:11:26,718
got her little day.
- It is nice though.
- This is cute.
348
00:11:26,787 --> 00:11:27,686
- It's going good.
- It's cool
349
00:11:27,754 --> 00:11:28,687
for her first rodeo though.
350
00:11:28,755 --> 00:11:29,854
- Yeah.
351
00:11:29,923 --> 00:11:30,955
- I see Bar slid through.
352
00:11:31,024 --> 00:11:32,357
- He wanted to show up for Mom.
353
00:11:32,426 --> 00:11:34,025
- Well, that's good.
It was good to see him.
354
00:11:34,094 --> 00:11:35,827
- Yeah.
- I ain't seen him in a minute.
355
00:11:35,896 --> 00:11:37,028
At least you
in a little better mood
356
00:11:37,097 --> 00:11:38,897
than last time 'cause, girl...
- I am.
357
00:11:38,965 --> 00:11:40,498
- The way you flipped that hair
and walked out with that beret,
358
00:11:40,567 --> 00:11:42,067
'cause you had me tear up
though a little bit.
359
00:11:42,135 --> 00:11:45,003
You was all crying
and I was like...[sniffs].
360
00:11:45,072 --> 00:11:46,571
I was sad too.
- When you're with somebody
361
00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:49,207
and you don't really know
how--what you guys are
362
00:11:49,276 --> 00:11:52,043
or how you guys are,
it's just a frustrating topic.
363
00:11:52,112 --> 00:11:54,345
And when you're married,
that should not be--
364
00:11:54,414 --> 00:11:55,647
- Right, 'cause it's
the part of you, like,
365
00:11:55,716 --> 00:11:57,015
you started something serious
and you don't wanna
366
00:11:57,084 --> 00:11:58,283
just give up on it.
- Yeah.
367
00:11:58,351 --> 00:11:59,584
- You don't wanna feel
like you failed.
368
00:11:59,653 --> 00:12:01,086
- One day you hate him.
Next day you love him.
369
00:12:01,154 --> 00:12:04,823
So I feel like the best way is
to say I don't know
370
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versus flip-flopping
back and forth.
371
00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:08,359
- I mean, that's fair.
372
00:12:08,428 --> 00:12:10,662
- But the main goal
is taking care of Holly.
373
00:12:10,731 --> 00:12:12,230
- Mm-hmm.
374
00:12:12,299 --> 00:12:14,299
- And I'm happy
that I have somebody in that
375
00:12:14,367 --> 00:12:16,768
who, like, wants to be a dad,
is a dad,
376
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is a attentive dad.
377
00:12:18,071 --> 00:12:19,270
You know what I'm saying?
378
00:12:19,339 --> 00:12:20,739
- Y'all was always good
with Holly though.
379
00:12:20,807 --> 00:12:22,140
- [sighs]
- Y'all was good.
380
00:12:22,209 --> 00:12:23,875
- It's hard.
- Now y'all two?
381
00:12:23,944 --> 00:12:25,744
- A mess.
- Got some work to do.
382
00:12:25,812 --> 00:12:27,145
- I think
we should try therapy.
383
00:12:27,214 --> 00:12:29,080
We're not gonna make no calls,
no judgments.
384
00:12:29,149 --> 00:12:30,515
We gonna start with therapy.
385
00:12:30,584 --> 00:12:31,983
[people talking indistinctly]
386
00:12:32,052 --> 00:12:33,785
- And see where that goes.
387
00:12:33,854 --> 00:12:35,520
- Keep in mind
there's boundaries,
388
00:12:35,589 --> 00:12:38,156
that therapy needs to be put
in place, you know?
389
00:12:38,225 --> 00:12:39,691
Establish them boundaries.
390
00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:43,261
And then it has to be, like,
a path of moving forward.
391
00:12:43,330 --> 00:12:44,829
- Yeah.
- And not, like, doubling back.
392
00:12:44,898 --> 00:12:47,031
And if you gonna be with him,
393
00:12:47,100 --> 00:12:49,067
you gotta forgive too.
394
00:12:49,136 --> 00:12:50,168
- I know.
- That's another thing.
395
00:12:50,237 --> 00:12:51,536
- That's what I'm saying.
I feel like
396
00:12:51,605 --> 00:12:54,305
certain conversations
we should leave for therapy.
397
00:12:54,374 --> 00:12:55,940
When you have a kid,
398
00:12:56,009 --> 00:12:58,843
and that kid adores
the other parent,
399
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and it's just like...
400
00:13:00,747 --> 00:13:02,046
- True,
but those little moments
401
00:13:02,115 --> 00:13:04,149
is what make you
stick together though.
402
00:13:04,217 --> 00:13:05,416
- And that's what I'm saying.
403
00:13:05,485 --> 00:13:07,385
- If you feel that
to still fight for it,
404
00:13:07,454 --> 00:13:08,820
fight for it.
405
00:13:08,889 --> 00:13:10,688
- Yeah.
- You gonna know when you done.
406
00:13:10,757 --> 00:13:11,756
- I know.
- That's what I got to say.
407
00:13:11,825 --> 00:13:14,359
- We can take time for us.
408
00:13:14,427 --> 00:13:17,896
- Mm-hmm.
- To see if this is gonna be.
409
00:13:17,964 --> 00:13:19,397
[upbeat rock music]
410
00:13:19,466 --> 00:13:21,032
- Even though my mom
isn't going to jail anymore,
411
00:13:21,101 --> 00:13:22,634
I'm still not letting her
come around
412
00:13:22,702 --> 00:13:25,170
'cause the tension between us
isn't good for Kloie.
413
00:13:25,238 --> 00:13:26,905
Sean's been in rehab
for two months
414
00:13:26,973 --> 00:13:28,439
and we talk once a week,
415
00:13:28,508 --> 00:13:30,842
and I decided to start looking
for houses for sale.
416
00:13:30,911 --> 00:13:33,178
Pretty.
I like the cut too better.
417
00:13:33,246 --> 00:13:36,681
Six hours well worth it.
- Six hours.
418
00:13:36,750 --> 00:13:39,684
♪ ♪
419
00:13:39,753 --> 00:13:40,852
- [whines]
420
00:13:40,921 --> 00:13:42,220
- Your back hurts still?
421
00:13:42,289 --> 00:13:43,855
You have to stop doing
those flips on there.
422
00:13:43,924 --> 00:13:45,490
We're gonna take you
to gymnastics--
423
00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:46,591
- She wants to be a ninja.
- And you can do flips.
424
00:13:46,660 --> 00:13:48,726
- Clearly.
- She wants to do gymnastics.
425
00:13:48,795 --> 00:13:51,396
So I went
and looked at a house.
426
00:13:51,464 --> 00:13:53,131
Super cute house.
It's pretty small,
427
00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:54,833
but I like the vibe of it.
428
00:13:54,901 --> 00:13:57,202
I like the area.
The schooling's really good.
429
00:13:57,270 --> 00:13:59,304
So I talked to the owner there
430
00:13:59,372 --> 00:14:02,040
and I put in a cash offer
to him.
431
00:14:02,108 --> 00:14:03,842
- Oh, that's good.
432
00:14:03,910 --> 00:14:05,443
- Yeah, and he--
- Okay.
433
00:14:05,512 --> 00:14:07,178
- Accepted the offer.
- Big bank.
434
00:14:07,247 --> 00:14:08,947
- So the next step
would pretty much be
435
00:14:09,015 --> 00:14:10,615
doing, like, all the...
436
00:14:10,684 --> 00:14:12,116
- Yeah, closing it.
- Closing paperwork.
437
00:14:12,185 --> 00:14:14,018
So I'm hoping that...
- Wow, that's so exciting.
438
00:14:14,087 --> 00:14:15,486
- It doesn't sound too good
to be true.
439
00:14:15,555 --> 00:14:17,488
You know how [bleep] we have,
and so in my head I'm like,
440
00:14:17,557 --> 00:14:19,958
hell yeah, I'm excited,
but then I'm also like,
441
00:14:20,026 --> 00:14:22,961
well, not until
the paperwork's signed
442
00:14:23,029 --> 00:14:24,696
am I gonna be like,
this is my house.
443
00:14:24,764 --> 00:14:25,897
- Yeah.
- You know?
444
00:14:25,966 --> 00:14:27,465
- Aw, that's awesome.
445
00:14:27,534 --> 00:14:30,235
So have you told Sean
that you're working on closing?
446
00:14:30,303 --> 00:14:31,236
- Mm-mm.
447
00:14:31,304 --> 00:14:32,804
I haven't told him
anything yet.
448
00:14:32,873 --> 00:14:34,439
- You really don't get to talk
to him and be like--
449
00:14:34,507 --> 00:14:35,273
- I--right.
450
00:14:35,342 --> 00:14:37,408
- Are you excited to tell him?
451
00:14:37,477 --> 00:14:39,143
- Yeah, I am.
452
00:14:39,212 --> 00:14:40,912
It's sad though
because she misses Sean.
453
00:14:40,981 --> 00:14:42,213
She's been asking about Sean
a lot.
454
00:14:42,282 --> 00:14:44,582
I think lately more though
she's starting to realize
455
00:14:44,651 --> 00:14:46,484
that he hasn't been around.
456
00:14:46,553 --> 00:14:48,887
- Do you know when Sean's
coming back?
457
00:14:48,955 --> 00:14:50,655
- I'm not sure
of the exact date,
458
00:14:50,724 --> 00:14:52,957
but if he finished just
that program,
459
00:14:53,026 --> 00:14:54,859
it would be right before
Thanksgiving.
460
00:14:54,928 --> 00:14:56,461
But I don't know.
461
00:14:56,529 --> 00:14:57,595
I'm not sure.
462
00:14:57,664 --> 00:15:01,199
- So how does it feel,
being a single mom?
463
00:15:01,268 --> 00:15:02,967
- [bleep] for the birds.
464
00:15:03,036 --> 00:15:04,836
- The birds.
But you're growing a lot.
465
00:15:04,905 --> 00:15:05,904
You didn't think
you could do it,
466
00:15:05,972 --> 00:15:07,438
but it's been a few months.
467
00:15:07,507 --> 00:15:12,510
- I think with having a child,
stability is so important.
468
00:15:12,579 --> 00:15:14,779
Like having a stable home,
a stable life
469
00:15:14,848 --> 00:15:16,014
gives her more stability.
470
00:15:16,082 --> 00:15:18,516
'Cause I think growing up,
we moved so much,
471
00:15:18,585 --> 00:15:20,118
all the time,
that I didn't have that--
472
00:15:20,186 --> 00:15:22,153
- Same.
- Home stability.
473
00:15:22,222 --> 00:15:23,554
So I'm excited.
- That's exciting.
474
00:15:23,623 --> 00:15:25,056
- I wanna be able to give
my kid something...
475
00:15:25,125 --> 00:15:27,625
- You're doing so much--
- I didn't have.
476
00:15:27,694 --> 00:15:28,960
But without Sean.
- Yeah, I never had...
477
00:15:29,029 --> 00:15:30,228
- Without your mom.
- That as a kid.
478
00:15:30,297 --> 00:15:31,596
I'd be the first person
in my whole family
479
00:15:31,665 --> 00:15:33,164
to be a homeowner.
- To own a home, yeah.
480
00:15:33,233 --> 00:15:35,667
- So I think that that's
something that's big for me
481
00:15:35,735 --> 00:15:36,701
as a parent.
482
00:15:36,770 --> 00:15:39,671
[soft sentimental music]
483
00:15:39,739 --> 00:15:44,242
♪ ♪
484
00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,480
- ♪ Don't you worry what
they're gonna think ♪
[bright music]
485
00:15:49,549 --> 00:15:53,051
♪ Just take a look
at history ♪
486
00:15:53,119 --> 00:15:54,452
- Jaylan lives
eight hours away,
487
00:15:54,521 --> 00:15:55,954
and it's hard for me
to visit him
488
00:15:56,022 --> 00:15:57,655
with all
of my responsibilities.
489
00:15:57,724 --> 00:16:00,024
So he tries
to come up every week.
490
00:16:00,093 --> 00:16:01,259
Hm.
491
00:16:02,762 --> 00:16:04,395
Hi.
- Hey, baby.
492
00:16:04,464 --> 00:16:05,997
What's up?
- How you doing?
493
00:16:06,066 --> 00:16:07,365
You look good.
494
00:16:07,434 --> 00:16:09,634
- Thank you.
You're looking beautiful.
495
00:16:09,703 --> 00:16:10,668
- You are.
496
00:16:10,737 --> 00:16:12,637
What necklace do you have on?
Oh.
497
00:16:12,706 --> 00:16:15,206
Costa Rica, baby.
- Costa Rica.
498
00:16:15,275 --> 00:16:17,241
I like this thing.
It's just so, like.
499
00:16:17,310 --> 00:16:19,544
It can--I can put it
with anything I put on.
500
00:16:19,612 --> 00:16:21,346
I'll probably come down
on Thursday.
501
00:16:21,414 --> 00:16:22,613
- All right, sounds good.
502
00:16:22,682 --> 00:16:23,614
I miss you.
503
00:16:23,683 --> 00:16:25,717
I love your hat.
504
00:16:25,785 --> 00:16:27,552
- Love you too.
505
00:16:27,620 --> 00:16:28,987
- I love your hat.
506
00:16:29,055 --> 00:16:30,855
- Oh.
- But I love you too.
507
00:16:30,924 --> 00:16:31,990
[laughs]
508
00:16:32,058 --> 00:16:34,625
♪ ♪
509
00:16:34,694 --> 00:16:37,929
- ♪ I didn't believe
it was true ♪
510
00:16:37,998 --> 00:16:40,365
♪ Till I met somebody ♪
511
00:16:40,433 --> 00:16:43,267
♪ I met somebody like you ♪
- Hey. What's up?
512
00:16:43,336 --> 00:16:45,203
What are you working on?
- Hi, I have so many emails
513
00:16:45,271 --> 00:16:47,338
to answer.
514
00:16:47,407 --> 00:16:48,439
- How's that going?
515
00:16:48,508 --> 00:16:50,241
- Oh, you know.
It's going.
516
00:16:50,310 --> 00:16:51,943
♪ ♪
517
00:16:52,012 --> 00:16:53,144
Mm.
518
00:16:53,947 --> 00:16:55,913
Mm.
519
00:16:55,982 --> 00:16:58,349
♪ ♪
520
00:16:58,418 --> 00:17:01,786
Yeah,
so Costa Rica was so much fun.
521
00:17:01,855 --> 00:17:03,388
It was kinda emotional,
- It a little bit,fun.
522
00:17:03,456 --> 00:17:05,123
'cause we talked a lot
about--a lot about--
523
00:17:05,191 --> 00:17:06,290
- Everything.
- Everything.
524
00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:08,292
About your kids, so.
525
00:17:08,361 --> 00:17:11,229
Let's just--let's just keep
what we got going and...
526
00:17:11,297 --> 00:17:13,164
build off of it.
- Mm-hmm.
527
00:17:13,233 --> 00:17:14,966
Do you think
that this will continue to be
528
00:17:15,035 --> 00:17:16,601
a long-distance relationship?
529
00:17:16,669 --> 00:17:20,104
- I have a new job possibility
that will let me move closer.
530
00:17:20,173 --> 00:17:21,439
- It's not always gonna
be easy.
531
00:17:21,508 --> 00:17:23,541
Especially with kids.
- Yeah.
532
00:17:23,610 --> 00:17:25,943
- I mean,
since we are exclusive now,
533
00:17:26,012 --> 00:17:27,645
I think my daughters deserve
534
00:17:27,714 --> 00:17:30,148
to see
who's making their mama smile.
535
00:17:30,216 --> 00:17:32,450
They are gonna put you through
the test.
536
00:17:32,519 --> 00:17:37,488
They're very strong-willed
little ladies.
537
00:17:37,557 --> 00:17:39,290
- Yeah.
- And I love it.
538
00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:42,493
It's hard to date as a mom
and be exclusive with someone
539
00:17:42,562 --> 00:17:44,562
and your kids not be involved.
540
00:17:44,631 --> 00:17:47,265
It's almost, like, impossible.
541
00:17:47,333 --> 00:17:49,200
So after we became exclusive,
542
00:17:49,269 --> 00:17:51,002
I feel confident enough
in my decision
543
00:17:51,071 --> 00:17:52,503
for them to meet Jaylan.
544
00:17:52,572 --> 00:17:54,105
I think that it's a big step,
545
00:17:54,174 --> 00:17:58,976
but I don't want to put
too much pressure on that.
546
00:17:59,045 --> 00:18:02,180
So I think that we just kinda
go with the flow.
547
00:18:02,248 --> 00:18:03,381
[upbeat music]
548
00:18:03,450 --> 00:18:05,416
- After "Family Reunion,"
549
00:18:05,485 --> 00:18:07,218
I'm trying to give Devoin
more of a chance
550
00:18:07,287 --> 00:18:08,553
to be there for Nova.
551
00:18:08,621 --> 00:18:10,121
We made a plan
that he'd pick her up
552
00:18:10,190 --> 00:18:11,556
twice a week from gymnastics,
553
00:18:11,624 --> 00:18:13,224
and he's bringing her home
now.
554
00:18:13,293 --> 00:18:15,159
Hi.
[barking]
555
00:18:15,228 --> 00:18:17,195
- Hi.
556
00:18:17,263 --> 00:18:19,163
- [groans]
- How was practice?
557
00:18:19,232 --> 00:18:20,998
- Good.
558
00:18:21,067 --> 00:18:22,200
- Did you do your homework?
559
00:18:22,268 --> 00:18:23,968
- She got homework.
560
00:18:24,037 --> 00:18:25,670
She got math.
561
00:18:25,738 --> 00:18:28,039
- Do you wanna do that while
I make you some ramen?
562
00:18:28,108 --> 00:18:29,407
Yeah?
Okay.
563
00:18:31,177 --> 00:18:32,243
- Well, it's--
well, your dad's here.
564
00:18:32,312 --> 00:18:34,212
Maybe he can help you.
565
00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:36,214
- What you doing this weekend?
566
00:18:36,282 --> 00:18:38,015
- Zero plans.
567
00:18:38,084 --> 00:18:41,486
- Word, I was thinking
we should go have dinner.
568
00:18:41,554 --> 00:18:44,522
- Kay.
- Me, you, and Nova.
569
00:18:44,591 --> 00:18:47,525
- How do you feel about us
going out all together?
570
00:18:47,594 --> 00:18:48,993
Cool?
571
00:18:49,062 --> 00:18:50,561
You're down with that?
572
00:18:50,630 --> 00:18:51,762
- That's good.
- Kay, girl.
573
00:18:51,831 --> 00:18:53,464
It's a date, girl.
574
00:18:53,533 --> 00:18:55,867
Let's knock out this homework
super quick.
575
00:18:58,705 --> 00:19:01,472
- If this one right here
is 25 times 20,
576
00:19:01,541 --> 00:19:04,642
look quickly
at the 25 times 30.
577
00:19:04,711 --> 00:19:07,845
- Thank God
you have a smart parent.
578
00:19:07,914 --> 00:19:09,413
You and your father
are the same.
579
00:19:09,482 --> 00:19:10,548
- She got the right one.
580
00:19:10,617 --> 00:19:12,483
I won't sit here and debate
with you.
581
00:19:12,552 --> 00:19:14,418
'Cause I know what I'm talking
about.
582
00:19:14,487 --> 00:19:15,853
- And I know what I'm talking
about too.
583
00:19:15,922 --> 00:19:16,888
- You do.
584
00:19:16,956 --> 00:19:18,990
You do.
585
00:19:19,058 --> 00:19:20,691
- After family therapy,
586
00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,827
I realized that I can't always
be in control.
587
00:19:22,896 --> 00:19:24,896
I have to learn
that his parenting is one way
588
00:19:24,964 --> 00:19:26,230
and my parenting is another,
589
00:19:26,299 --> 00:19:27,832
and that's just how
it has to be.
590
00:19:27,901 --> 00:19:31,802
I think the main goal is
to be better parents for Nova,
591
00:19:31,871 --> 00:19:34,872
and it's gonna take both of us
to put in the hard work.
592
00:19:34,941 --> 00:19:38,676
And it's gonna take some time,
but I think we can do it.
593
00:19:38,745 --> 00:19:41,579
And I just don't wanna repeat
old patterns.
594
00:19:41,648 --> 00:19:43,948
I don't wanna go back
to where we first were.
595
00:19:44,017 --> 00:19:46,851
And it's just gonna take work.
596
00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:49,020
Devoin stayed until
Nova's homework was finished
597
00:19:49,088 --> 00:19:52,256
and she went upstairs
to get ready for bed.
598
00:19:53,860 --> 00:19:56,594
- Okay, make sure you wash
your hands after.
599
00:19:56,663 --> 00:19:58,229
- Okay.
- She's wearing heels,
600
00:19:58,298 --> 00:20:00,198
she's gonna wipe her ass,
and she's gonna wash her hands.
601
00:20:00,266 --> 00:20:01,232
She's grown.
- [laughs]
602
00:20:01,301 --> 00:20:03,167
- She's [bleep] grown.
603
00:20:03,236 --> 00:20:04,468
Did Devoin stop by?
604
00:20:04,537 --> 00:20:06,737
- Yeah, he helped Nova
with her homework.
605
00:20:06,806 --> 00:20:08,472
Devoin has definitely
been helping.
606
00:20:08,541 --> 00:20:11,642
Um, and he asked...
607
00:20:11,711 --> 00:20:14,512
if he could take me and Nova
out to dinner.
608
00:20:14,581 --> 00:20:16,280
- I think that's nice.
609
00:20:16,349 --> 00:20:17,381
- Yeah.
- What do you think?
610
00:20:17,450 --> 00:20:18,783
- He's never done that before.
611
00:20:18,851 --> 00:20:21,719
- At least he's trying,
you know, like the effort.
612
00:20:21,788 --> 00:20:25,189
- The therapist said
for the sake of Nova,
613
00:20:25,258 --> 00:20:30,361
you're just gonna have to make
certain sacrifices to show Nova
614
00:20:30,430 --> 00:20:32,897
what a healthy relationship
looks like.
615
00:20:32,966 --> 00:20:35,166
- I've been saying it.
You have to guide him.
616
00:20:35,235 --> 00:20:37,201
- Which to me is a big deal
617
00:20:37,270 --> 00:20:39,003
because I don't do stuff
like that.
618
00:20:39,072 --> 00:20:40,805
But obviously I'm trying.
- But you have to.
619
00:20:40,873 --> 00:20:41,639
- But it's good.
620
00:20:41,708 --> 00:20:42,940
I want Nova to see more
621
00:20:43,009 --> 00:20:46,277
of Devoin and I doing things
together
622
00:20:46,346 --> 00:20:48,346
'cause I want her to see
what it's like
623
00:20:48,414 --> 00:20:50,514
for, like, two people to--
even though
624
00:20:50,583 --> 00:20:52,583
they're not together--
but still get along.
625
00:20:52,652 --> 00:20:55,519
[soft sentimental music]
626
00:20:55,588 --> 00:20:59,657
♪ ♪
627
00:21:01,060 --> 00:21:02,260
[bright music]
628
00:21:02,328 --> 00:21:04,829
[upbeat music]
629
00:21:04,897 --> 00:21:06,464
- I'm still getting used
to having cameras
630
00:21:06,532 --> 00:21:08,032
around again,
and on top of that,
631
00:21:08,101 --> 00:21:09,734
I just found out something
about Vee
632
00:21:09,802 --> 00:21:11,669
that's really upsetting.
633
00:21:11,738 --> 00:21:13,070
We still have our podcast
together,
634
00:21:13,139 --> 00:21:14,772
but I'm not sure what's gonna
happen now,
635
00:21:14,841 --> 00:21:16,774
so I want some advice
from Leah.
636
00:21:16,843 --> 00:21:18,509
Hello, hi.
- Hi.
637
00:21:18,578 --> 00:21:20,044
- How are you?
- I just came back
638
00:21:20,113 --> 00:21:21,112
from Costa Rica.
639
00:21:21,180 --> 00:21:22,913
It was the best trip ever.
640
00:21:22,982 --> 00:21:23,948
- Yeah?
641
00:21:24,017 --> 00:21:25,249
Um, really quickly,
642
00:21:25,318 --> 00:21:28,019
just wanted to give you, like,
backstory with Vee.
643
00:21:28,087 --> 00:21:30,921
Basically what happened was
like a couple months ago,
644
00:21:30,990 --> 00:21:32,523
Javi and I got
into a huge fight
645
00:21:32,592 --> 00:21:34,625
and he didn't want me talking
about him
646
00:21:34,694 --> 00:21:36,994
on my podcast with Vee.
647
00:21:37,063 --> 00:21:41,165
And he was basically alluding
to, like, her being deceitful.
648
00:21:41,234 --> 00:21:44,435
And so I texted her and Javi
in a group text
649
00:21:44,504 --> 00:21:46,137
and I said, you know,
whatever it is,
650
00:21:46,205 --> 00:21:47,605
like, lay it all out there.
651
00:21:47,674 --> 00:21:49,106
- Mm-hmm.
- So Vee comes into my office
652
00:21:50,310 --> 00:21:53,944
"I--I told Javi about
your pregnancy with Lux."
653
00:21:54,013 --> 00:21:58,049
Javi told me
that back four years ago,
654
00:21:58,117 --> 00:22:00,518
Vee hit him up on social media
and was like,
655
00:22:00,586 --> 00:22:01,752
I'm tired
of you looking stupid.
656
00:22:01,821 --> 00:22:03,821
I'll tell you everything,
like, let's meet up.
657
00:22:03,890 --> 00:22:05,222
- Damn.
658
00:22:05,291 --> 00:22:09,093
- Well, I'm gonna start
filming about being pregnant.
659
00:22:09,162 --> 00:22:10,394
Have not told Javi yet.
660
00:22:10,463 --> 00:22:11,996
- You have to tell him.
- I know.
661
00:22:12,065 --> 00:22:13,431
I just don't know
when the right time is,
662
00:22:13,499 --> 00:22:14,865
'cause he is not stable
right now.
663
00:22:14,934 --> 00:22:17,568
So they met up
in a Target parking lot
664
00:22:17,637 --> 00:22:19,904
in the m--like,
in the night,
665
00:22:19,972 --> 00:22:24,308
and she told him about me being
pregnant with Lux.
666
00:22:24,377 --> 00:22:27,244
- A little birdie came to me
and pretty much told me,
667
00:22:27,313 --> 00:22:30,414
said, "Hey, Jav,
I'm tired of biting my tongue.
668
00:22:30,483 --> 00:22:32,550
"I'm tired of you looking like
a dumbass.
669
00:22:32,618 --> 00:22:34,618
We need to meet up,"
so he says,
670
00:22:34,687 --> 00:22:36,253
"Kail's three months pregnant."
671
00:22:36,322 --> 00:22:37,955
[tense music]
672
00:22:38,024 --> 00:22:39,090
Yeah.
673
00:22:39,158 --> 00:22:42,660
- She didn't just leak
my pregnancy to him,
674
00:22:42,729 --> 00:22:46,764
she told him--
which is a complete lie--
675
00:22:46,833 --> 00:22:49,500
that my miscarriage
that I had with him
676
00:22:49,569 --> 00:22:51,001
may not have been his.
677
00:22:51,070 --> 00:22:52,436
- I heard just as much
as you heard.
678
00:22:52,505 --> 00:22:54,238
I'm not showing it,
but I'm hurting.
679
00:22:54,307 --> 00:22:56,640
Because you know how much
I wanted that baby.
680
00:22:56,709 --> 00:22:58,309
- But I never cheated on him,
681
00:22:58,378 --> 00:23:00,144
and that was
a planned pregnancy.
682
00:23:00,213 --> 00:23:02,380
So for her to place doubt
in his mind,
683
00:23:02,448 --> 00:23:05,416
I just felt like that, to me,
that part was unforgivable,
684
00:23:05,485 --> 00:23:07,218
because up until this day,
685
00:23:07,286 --> 00:23:10,421
Javi will say, "I don't even
know if that baby was mine."
686
00:23:10,490 --> 00:23:11,822
- Damn.
687
00:23:11,891 --> 00:23:13,557
- I sent Vee
a long text message
688
00:23:13,626 --> 00:23:15,826
basically just explaining,
like, how I felt.
689
00:23:15,895 --> 00:23:19,063
And then she actually sent
back, like, a long message
690
00:23:19,132 --> 00:23:21,232
saying that she completely
understands, that she's sorry.
691
00:23:21,300 --> 00:23:23,267
I walked into the office
and her stuff wasn't here.
692
00:23:23,336 --> 00:23:24,702
And I felt sad.
693
00:23:24,771 --> 00:23:28,372
- You're saying you're
not willing to...
694
00:23:28,441 --> 00:23:30,107
Or are you--you don't know?
cont You don't know.dcast?
695
00:23:30,176 --> 00:23:32,042
Everything's up in the air
right now.
696
00:23:32,111 --> 00:23:33,811
- I genuinely don't know.
697
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:35,746
- That's, like,
way too many people
698
00:23:35,815 --> 00:23:37,715
putting their hands...
699
00:23:37,784 --> 00:23:40,017
in conversations
that just shouldn't be,
700
00:23:40,086 --> 00:23:41,452
I guess.
I don't know.
701
00:23:41,521 --> 00:23:43,421
That's--
I hate that.
702
00:23:43,489 --> 00:23:45,790
♪ ♪
703
00:23:45,858 --> 00:23:47,658
- ♪ I'm runnin',
I'm runnin' ♪
704
00:23:47,727 --> 00:23:50,795
♪ I'm runnin' out of time ♪
705
00:23:50,863 --> 00:23:52,096
- I've been thinking a lot
706
00:23:52,165 --> 00:23:53,964
about where I want things
to go with Bar,
707
00:23:54,033 --> 00:23:57,935
and I'm ready for us
to get on the same page.
708
00:23:58,004 --> 00:24:00,104
- It's a nice day out here.
- It is.
709
00:24:00,173 --> 00:24:02,573
- I'm happy it's not summer
no more.
710
00:24:02,642 --> 00:24:03,707
- Yeah, it's--
- Anymore.
711
00:24:03,776 --> 00:24:06,210
- Cool enough to wear jackets
now.
712
00:24:06,279 --> 00:24:07,445
- How you been feeling?
713
00:24:07,513 --> 00:24:08,979
- About what?
714
00:24:09,048 --> 00:24:11,048
- Just everything.
Us.
715
00:24:11,117 --> 00:24:13,451
- I mean,
we get rocky patches
716
00:24:13,519 --> 00:24:16,821
and [bleep] goes amiss.
717
00:24:16,889 --> 00:24:18,422
- I mean,
I feel like I could do therapy,
718
00:24:18,491 --> 00:24:20,090
like personal therapy,
719
00:24:20,159 --> 00:24:22,426
like, to work on, like,
my responses.
720
00:24:22,495 --> 00:24:24,328
I also feel like
moving forward,
721
00:24:24,397 --> 00:24:26,130
we...
722
00:24:26,199 --> 00:24:28,265
should get into therapy,
723
00:24:28,334 --> 00:24:30,501
and you know, like,
really work it,
724
00:24:30,570 --> 00:24:31,769
really get with the therapist.
725
00:24:31,838 --> 00:24:33,404
- And we wanna keep [bleep]
cool for Holly,
726
00:24:33,473 --> 00:24:34,438
but yeah, I don't know.
727
00:24:34,507 --> 00:24:35,606
I think we got some work to do.
728
00:24:35,675 --> 00:24:36,807
Definitely.
729
00:24:36,876 --> 00:24:38,909
- So if we're gonna try
to make it work,
730
00:24:38,978 --> 00:24:41,946
what I need from you
is discipline
731
00:24:42,014 --> 00:24:43,914
in whatever you're choosing
to do with your life.
732
00:24:43,983 --> 00:24:45,483
- Right.
- Obviously,
733
00:24:45,551 --> 00:24:46,650
the drinking was a thing,
but, like,
734
00:24:46,719 --> 00:24:48,619
I feel like
you've really gotten that...
735
00:24:48,688 --> 00:24:51,755
- Yeah.
I do understand that part.
736
00:24:51,824 --> 00:24:54,592
- What do you feel like you
need from me?
737
00:24:54,660 --> 00:24:55,993
- I don't know,
maybe communication
738
00:24:56,062 --> 00:24:57,928
or something, you know.
- I feel like I could learn
739
00:24:57,997 --> 00:24:59,530
how to better communicate.
- Yeah.
740
00:24:59,599 --> 00:25:02,566
It's the way we deal with each
other and the response.
741
00:25:02,635 --> 00:25:04,668
- I'm sometimes
just automatically like
742
00:25:04,737 --> 00:25:08,272
you versus me,
so I have to work on that.
743
00:25:08,341 --> 00:25:09,139
[soft music]
744
00:25:09,208 --> 00:25:11,075
- So now the next step is just
745
00:25:11,143 --> 00:25:12,910
actually putting it
into motion.
746
00:25:12,979 --> 00:25:15,112
We done had conversations about
doing therapy
747
00:25:15,181 --> 00:25:17,047
and stuff like that
and all of this,
748
00:25:17,116 --> 00:25:18,983
but now let's actually do it.
- Yeah.
749
00:25:19,051 --> 00:25:21,085
And we gotta get through
this court [bleep] too.
750
00:25:21,153 --> 00:25:22,620
But, like,
I do really love you.
751
00:25:22,688 --> 00:25:24,755
Like, I do really, really--
- I love you too.
752
00:25:24,824 --> 00:25:29,093
- And I love our relationship,
so I do want to save it.
753
00:25:29,161 --> 00:25:31,896
I feel like in my heart
I do really wanna believe
754
00:25:31,964 --> 00:25:34,231
that things are gonna be
different,
755
00:25:34,300 --> 00:25:36,667
and things are gonna be amazing
and things are gonna be great.
756
00:25:36,736 --> 00:25:39,870
But my head definitely
understands
757
00:25:39,939 --> 00:25:42,206
the fact that there's a lot
of work to be done.
758
00:25:42,275 --> 00:25:44,108
There's a lot of trust
to be rebuilt,
759
00:25:44,176 --> 00:25:46,277
and that [bleep] is not easy.
760
00:25:46,345 --> 00:25:47,645
It's gonna take a lot,
761
00:25:47,713 --> 00:25:49,380
and it's gonna take us
both showing up,
762
00:25:49,448 --> 00:25:51,882
and so I'm cautious.
763
00:25:51,951 --> 00:25:53,450
I'm moving forward cautiously.
764
00:25:53,519 --> 00:25:55,185
♪ ♪
765
00:25:55,254 --> 00:25:58,155
[upbeat music]
766
00:25:58,224 --> 00:26:03,260
♪ ♪
767
00:26:03,329 --> 00:26:04,461
- Hey.
768
00:26:04,530 --> 00:26:06,196
- Hi.
- How are you?
769
00:26:06,265 --> 00:26:08,766
- Good.
You look really good.
770
00:26:08,834 --> 00:26:09,767
- Thank you.
771
00:26:09,835 --> 00:26:10,734
- How you been?
772
00:26:10,803 --> 00:26:12,469
- I've been good.
773
00:26:12,538 --> 00:26:13,637
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
774
00:26:13,706 --> 00:26:15,706
I've been looking at houses.
775
00:26:15,775 --> 00:26:16,774
- I'm excited.
776
00:26:16,842 --> 00:26:18,909
- Yeah.
I'm really excited.
777
00:26:18,978 --> 00:26:20,811
- Big stuff.
778
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,548
- So I got your, like, update
from your counselor.
779
00:26:24,617 --> 00:26:26,517
You've been doing
really, really good.
780
00:26:26,586 --> 00:26:28,118
How's that been going?
781
00:26:28,187 --> 00:26:30,087
- Very well.
Now I get to, uh,
782
00:26:30,156 --> 00:26:32,856
help all the new guys
and help them work through
783
00:26:32,925 --> 00:26:34,191
what they're dealing with,
784
00:26:34,260 --> 00:26:37,094
and uh,
share my experience with them.
785
00:26:37,163 --> 00:26:38,963
'Cause I've been there
before, you know, so.
786
00:26:39,031 --> 00:26:40,364
- Right.
- I know what it's like
787
00:26:41,500 --> 00:26:43,100
to be where they're at.
- Yeah, I feel like
this whole experience,
788
00:26:43,169 --> 00:26:45,202
you can always look at it
as such a positive thing
789
00:26:45,271 --> 00:26:47,538
because you can use everything
that you've learned there
790
00:26:47,607 --> 00:26:49,607
and you know,
use your platform
791
00:26:49,675 --> 00:26:53,077
to kind of enlighten
more people.
792
00:26:53,145 --> 00:26:54,445
- Mom.
793
00:26:54,513 --> 00:26:56,146
- Kloie's sad.
794
00:26:56,215 --> 00:26:57,648
- Why?
- She got a boo-boo
795
00:26:57,717 --> 00:27:00,484
on her finger and she's grouchy
'cause she's tired.
796
00:27:00,553 --> 00:27:03,120
Kloie.
797
00:27:03,189 --> 00:27:05,089
Do you wanna talk to your dad?
798
00:27:05,157 --> 00:27:06,390
- No.
799
00:27:06,459 --> 00:27:08,125
- I'm gonna have to bring
the phone in there to her
800
00:27:08,194 --> 00:27:10,027
'cause she's obviously not
gonna come in here.
801
00:27:10,096 --> 00:27:11,562
She's in a bad mood.
802
00:27:11,631 --> 00:27:12,830
- [yells indistinctly]
803
00:27:12,898 --> 00:27:14,665
- Do you wanna see your dad?
804
00:27:14,734 --> 00:27:16,033
Can you tell Daddy--say--
805
00:27:16,102 --> 00:27:17,434
can you tell him
that you love him?
806
00:27:17,503 --> 00:27:20,537
And Mommy and Daddy will talk
for a minute?
807
00:27:20,606 --> 00:27:22,072
You wanna say you love Daddy?
808
00:27:22,141 --> 00:27:24,074
Don't be a little grouch just
'cause you're in a bad mood.
809
00:27:24,143 --> 00:27:26,977
Dad doesn't really get to talk
to you that much, so...
810
00:27:27,046 --> 00:27:28,278
- I love you, baby.
811
00:27:30,683 --> 00:27:32,449
- You say, "Love you, Dad."
812
00:27:32,518 --> 00:27:34,351
Scoot over.
- What?
813
00:27:34,420 --> 00:27:37,021
[crying] Mommy.
- What's the matter, Kloie?
814
00:27:37,089 --> 00:27:38,722
- Klo--you wanna tell Daddy
what's wrong?
815
00:27:38,791 --> 00:27:39,723
Do you miss Daddy?
816
00:27:39,792 --> 00:27:41,058
- [crying]
817
00:27:41,127 --> 00:27:42,693
- Are you just sad right now?
818
00:27:42,762 --> 00:27:44,928
- [sobs]
I want Daddy.
819
00:27:44,997 --> 00:27:46,597
- Aw, you want Dad?
820
00:27:46,666 --> 00:27:47,965
- [crying]
821
00:27:48,034 --> 00:27:49,533
- I think she's just sad.
822
00:27:49,602 --> 00:27:51,201
- I want Daddy.
823
00:27:51,270 --> 00:27:52,469
- I know.
824
00:27:52,538 --> 00:27:54,171
I know.
Come here.
825
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:55,472
Come here.
Lay with Mommy.
826
00:27:55,541 --> 00:27:56,774
- No.
- Well.
827
00:27:56,842 --> 00:28:00,878
- [laughs]
- [continues crying]
828
00:28:00,946 --> 00:28:02,379
- Hey, Kloie.
829
00:28:02,448 --> 00:28:04,214
- Look, Daddy's trying
to tell you something.
830
00:28:04,283 --> 00:28:06,250
- [cries]
- Kloie, listen, listen.
831
00:28:06,318 --> 00:28:09,319
You want me to bring you
a surprise when I come home?
832
00:28:10,623 --> 00:28:12,556
You gotta be good for Mommy
though, okay?
833
00:28:12,625 --> 00:28:14,925
And you gotta stop screaming
and crying like that.
834
00:28:14,994 --> 00:28:15,859
- [cries]
- And I'll bring you
835
00:28:15,928 --> 00:28:18,162
a surprise.
836
00:28:18,230 --> 00:28:20,297
- She's just--she's just
emotional.
837
00:28:20,366 --> 00:28:22,132
- [whining]
- I think that you being gone
838
00:28:22,201 --> 00:28:23,467
for so long,
she's been getting, like,
839
00:28:23,536 --> 00:28:26,270
real emotional about it
and just kind of acting out
840
00:28:26,338 --> 00:28:28,072
and doing little things
that I can tell
841
00:28:28,140 --> 00:28:30,174
she's just doing it 'cause
she's just tryna act out.
842
00:28:30,242 --> 00:28:31,842
- [crying]
- Yeah.
843
00:28:31,911 --> 00:28:34,011
- I want Daddy.
844
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:37,014
[soft sad music]
845
00:28:37,083 --> 00:28:40,951
♪ ♪
846
00:28:42,455 --> 00:28:43,620
[bright music]
847
00:28:43,689 --> 00:28:47,024
[upbeat music]
848
00:28:47,093 --> 00:28:49,193
- I'm picking up my girls
from school.
849
00:28:49,261 --> 00:28:51,095
Jaylan's been staying
at a hotel,
850
00:28:51,163 --> 00:28:52,830
but he's heading
to my house now,
851
00:28:52,898 --> 00:28:54,865
so he can finally meet
everyone.
852
00:28:54,934 --> 00:28:56,567
- You wanted the back anyway.
- I know.
853
00:28:56,635 --> 00:28:59,403
♪ ♪
854
00:28:59,472 --> 00:29:02,239
- Did you have at your dad's?
- Yes.
855
00:29:02,308 --> 00:29:03,874
- Okay, I have something
to tell you guys.
856
00:29:03,943 --> 00:29:05,342
You guys know that,
I mean clearly,
857
00:29:05,411 --> 00:29:06,844
when you talked to me
in Costa Rica,
858
00:29:06,912 --> 00:29:08,378
I was there with...
859
00:29:08,447 --> 00:29:10,380
- Jay.
- Jaylan, Jay. So and yes,
860
00:29:10,449 --> 00:29:13,884
he asked me to be
his girlfriend in Costa Rica.
861
00:29:13,953 --> 00:29:16,453
Yeah.
Why are you guys grinning?
862
00:29:16,522 --> 00:29:18,188
He'll be here
'cause he got here
863
00:29:18,257 --> 00:29:19,556
right before I came
to pick you guys up.
864
00:29:19,625 --> 00:29:21,492
So I told him just to chill
at the house.
865
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:22,926
And if you're open
to meeting him,
866
00:29:22,995 --> 00:29:24,528
you can meet him.
867
00:29:24,597 --> 00:29:26,163
- Well, no duh.
We gotta meet him.
868
00:29:26,232 --> 00:29:28,999
- He's super nervous.
869
00:29:29,068 --> 00:29:30,734
- Like how long is he staying?
- Yeah.
870
00:29:30,803 --> 00:29:31,902
- Uh, I don't know.
871
00:29:31,971 --> 00:29:33,237
We'll see-we'll see
how it goes.
872
00:29:33,305 --> 00:29:34,738
I don't want you guys to feel
uncomfortable
873
00:29:34,807 --> 00:29:37,007
and you guys can ask Jaylan any
questions that you guys have.
874
00:29:37,076 --> 00:29:38,675
- Okay.
- He's prepared.
875
00:29:38,744 --> 00:29:39,943
All right, are you guys ready?
876
00:29:40,012 --> 00:29:42,446
- Yep.
- All right, here we go.
877
00:29:42,515 --> 00:29:44,481
♪ ♪
878
00:29:44,550 --> 00:29:46,884
- Lock your door.
- No, I'm saying you gotta do--
879
00:29:46,952 --> 00:29:47,985
- Of course I can.
880
00:29:48,053 --> 00:29:49,553
- Yeah.
- [vocalizing]
881
00:29:49,622 --> 00:29:50,721
- Good day at school?
882
00:29:50,790 --> 00:29:52,556
- Mm-hmm.
- Yeah? Yeah?
883
00:29:52,625 --> 00:29:55,993
- On Friday,
we have five minutes off.
884
00:29:56,061 --> 00:29:58,028
- Lucky was really excited
to see you guys.
885
00:29:58,097 --> 00:29:59,863
Ali, this is Jay.
- Nice to meet you, Ali.
886
00:29:59,932 --> 00:30:01,098
- Mm-hmm, I know.
- Jay.
887
00:30:01,167 --> 00:30:03,133
- She said she knows.
[laughs]
888
00:30:03,202 --> 00:30:04,902
- Aleeah, this is Jay.
- And Aleeah.
889
00:30:04,970 --> 00:30:06,003
- Hi.
- This is Jaylan.
890
00:30:06,071 --> 00:30:07,204
- And Addie.
- They were, I mean,
891
00:30:07,273 --> 00:30:08,605
they were excited to meet you.
- [laughs]
892
00:30:08,674 --> 00:30:10,340
- I was excited
to meet you guys too,
893
00:30:10,409 --> 00:30:13,310
so I was kinda nervous too,
but excited at the same time.
894
00:30:13,379 --> 00:30:14,311
- Something that you guys
have in common--
895
00:30:14,380 --> 00:30:16,079
- Yeah,
so I have a twin sister.
896
00:30:16,148 --> 00:30:17,848
I'm a twin as well.
897
00:30:17,917 --> 00:30:19,183
I know how it feels
to have a twin.
898
00:30:19,251 --> 00:30:21,852
- Mm-hmm,
I always forget.
899
00:30:21,921 --> 00:30:23,120
- Can never forget.
- Yeah.
900
00:30:23,189 --> 00:30:24,488
- Do you guys have
any questions?
901
00:30:24,557 --> 00:30:25,956
- Anything you guys want
to know about me?
902
00:30:26,025 --> 00:30:27,324
- Anything you wanna know
about Jay?
903
00:30:27,393 --> 00:30:29,393
- If he becomes your boyfriend,
904
00:30:29,461 --> 00:30:31,461
can he drive me around
to get my nails done?
905
00:30:31,530 --> 00:30:33,797
[laughter]
You work at the mall?
906
00:30:33,866 --> 00:30:35,666
- No.
- Mom, how did you meet?
907
00:30:36,769 --> 00:30:38,702
And we've went on a few dates
- We msince thenncert.
908
00:30:38,771 --> 00:30:41,371
and talked FaceTimed and...
909
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,707
- ♪ If you liked it, then you
should have put a ring on it ♪
910
00:30:43,776 --> 00:30:45,509
[laughter]
911
00:30:45,578 --> 00:30:48,278
- Okay, it was very important
that I waited to introduce
912
00:30:48,347 --> 00:30:49,413
you guys.
- Mm-hmm.
913
00:30:49,481 --> 00:30:50,614
- 'Cause you guys are my life.
914
00:30:50,683 --> 00:30:52,983
So anyone that comes around
you guys...
915
00:30:53,052 --> 00:30:54,818
- Mm-hmm.
- Has to love you equally
916
00:30:54,887 --> 00:30:56,753
and be good to you guys.
917
00:30:56,822 --> 00:30:58,956
So it was very important
that I got to know Jay,
918
00:30:59,024 --> 00:31:00,290
like really got to know Jay,
919
00:31:00,359 --> 00:31:02,459
before I ever introduced him
to you guys.
920
00:31:02,528 --> 00:31:03,627
Do you guys wanna see him more?
921
00:31:03,696 --> 00:31:05,429
- Yeah.
- Mm-hmm.
922
00:31:05,497 --> 00:31:07,931
- I already did want
to see you guys more, so...
923
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:09,666
[soft music]
924
00:31:09,735 --> 00:31:10,968
It was nice meeting you.
925
00:31:11,036 --> 00:31:12,169
- Mm-hmm.
- Ali.
926
00:31:12,238 --> 00:31:13,971
- Something.
- Tall, she's tall.
927
00:31:14,039 --> 00:31:14,905
She's--
- Yep.
928
00:31:14,974 --> 00:31:16,673
[laughs]
929
00:31:16,742 --> 00:31:19,076
[bass guitar music]
930
00:31:19,144 --> 00:31:20,444
- There you go, Linc.
Come on.
931
00:31:20,512 --> 00:31:21,945
Get outside.
Get outside.
932
00:31:22,014 --> 00:31:23,013
Get outside.
Get outside.
933
00:31:23,082 --> 00:31:24,414
That's nice!
That's nice!
934
00:31:24,483 --> 00:31:25,782
That's a good one.
Good job, Linc!
935
00:31:25,851 --> 00:31:26,884
- There you go!
936
00:31:26,952 --> 00:31:27,985
Lincoln has football,
937
00:31:28,053 --> 00:31:29,019
so I stopped by to watch.
938
00:31:29,088 --> 00:31:30,621
I'm gonna see Vee later,
939
00:31:30,689 --> 00:31:32,623
so I wanna make sure
I understand what happened
940
00:31:32,691 --> 00:31:34,958
between her and Javi
before we talk.
941
00:31:35,027 --> 00:31:37,094
I mean, Lincoln loves
football.
942
00:31:37,162 --> 00:31:39,196
He loves training.
He loves all of it.
943
00:31:39,265 --> 00:31:40,998
- And we never thought
he would be into football.
944
00:31:41,066 --> 00:31:42,199
- You know, one thing
945
00:31:42,268 --> 00:31:43,734
that we have never
needed help on
946
00:31:43,802 --> 00:31:45,569
is co-parenting
when it comes to Lincoln
947
00:31:45,638 --> 00:31:47,371
and all of his activities
and things like that.
948
00:31:47,439 --> 00:31:49,740
But I just wish
that you had told me
949
00:31:50,776 --> 00:31:52,843
This did happen.
I did meet up with her.
950
00:31:52,912 --> 00:31:54,211
I did--this was said.
951
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,747
- So why I never went to you
is because
952
00:31:56,815 --> 00:31:58,215
we were in a bad spot.
953
00:31:58,284 --> 00:31:59,783
That whole divorce,
that whole year of the divorce,
954
00:31:59,852 --> 00:32:01,218
when we were in a bad spot--
- Even the year after.
955
00:32:01,287 --> 00:32:04,254
- So for someone
that's, in my eyes,
956
00:32:04,323 --> 00:32:06,223
close to you,
I'm gonna believe it.
957
00:32:06,292 --> 00:32:08,692
If Vee wants to own up to that,
that's on her.
958
00:32:08,761 --> 00:32:10,160
- I don't think she is
who she was,
959
00:32:10,229 --> 00:32:11,595
you know, four years ago...
- Right.
960
00:32:11,664 --> 00:32:13,797
- But as far as, like,
business goes,
961
00:32:13,866 --> 00:32:16,600
I think it was just a sign
that, like, we can be friends,
962
00:32:16,669 --> 00:32:17,801
but maybe not necessarily
work together.
963
00:32:17,870 --> 00:32:19,036
- Yeah.
964
00:32:19,104 --> 00:32:20,137
- But now I need to have
a conversation
965
00:32:20,205 --> 00:32:21,905
with Vee about everything
in person,
966
00:32:21,974 --> 00:32:23,373
and I am a little nervous,
967
00:32:23,442 --> 00:32:25,542
'cause I haven't seen Vee
since the stuff that occurred.
968
00:32:25,611 --> 00:32:28,578
[somber music]
969
00:32:28,647 --> 00:32:35,552
♪ ♪
970
00:32:41,026 --> 00:32:43,093
Hey.
- Oh, hey.
971
00:32:43,162 --> 00:32:44,761
- How are you?
- How are you?
972
00:32:44,830 --> 00:32:45,996
- Good.
- Good.
973
00:32:46,065 --> 00:32:48,131
- Okay.
974
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,400
So I just want you to know
that I--
975
00:32:50,469 --> 00:32:52,135
I still love our friendship,
976
00:32:52,204 --> 00:32:53,737
and I still wanna be there
for the kids.
977
00:32:53,806 --> 00:32:54,805
I don't hate you.
978
00:32:54,873 --> 00:32:55,872
- Well, I'm--no, I'm glad
979
00:32:55,941 --> 00:32:56,974
that you texted me.
980
00:32:57,042 --> 00:32:58,141
I wish, obviously, right now
981
00:32:58,210 --> 00:32:59,476
that I never did that to you...
982
00:32:59,545 --> 00:33:01,311
- Right, of course.
- Because what the [bleep]?
983
00:33:01,380 --> 00:33:02,679
I don't know if it's maybe
984
00:33:02,748 --> 00:33:03,747
'cause all the things
that I felt in the past
985
00:33:03,816 --> 00:33:05,449
like, on top of, like,
having the baby,
986
00:33:05,517 --> 00:33:07,551
and, like, I was going
through, like, postpartum
987
00:33:07,619 --> 00:33:09,653
and just depress--
I had nobody down here...
988
00:33:09,722 --> 00:33:11,188
- Yeah.
- And I just felt miserable.
989
00:33:11,256 --> 00:33:13,223
I don't know if it was like
I wanted someone else to hurt
990
00:33:13,292 --> 00:33:14,591
or something,
which is not--
991
00:33:14,660 --> 00:33:16,093
- Sometimes, that's--I mean...
- Which is not okay,
992
00:33:16,161 --> 00:33:19,329
but I would never do that
to you or somebody else again.
993
00:33:19,398 --> 00:33:20,831
I would never want to put
that hurt on somebody.
994
00:33:20,899 --> 00:33:22,632
I know how deeply it hurt you.
- Yeah.
995
00:33:22,701 --> 00:33:23,934
And, like, maybe the podcast
is done.
996
00:33:24,003 --> 00:33:25,402
Like, maybe we weren't meant
to work together,
997
00:33:25,471 --> 00:33:27,337
but, like, I--like I said,
I still wanna have, like,
998
00:33:27,406 --> 00:33:28,739
a personal relationship
with you, and--
999
00:33:28,807 --> 00:33:31,141
"Baby Mamas, No Drama"--
it would have to be switched
1000
00:33:31,210 --> 00:33:32,876
to, like, "Baby Mamas,
All Drama."
1001
00:33:32,945 --> 00:33:34,378
You know what I mean?
Like, I mean, it's sad.
1002
00:33:34,446 --> 00:33:35,345
It's so sad.
- It's so sad.
1003
00:33:35,414 --> 00:33:36,480
I'm really sad.
1004
00:33:36,548 --> 00:33:37,581
- I definitely think it's hard
1005
00:33:37,649 --> 00:33:38,982
to mix friendships
with business.
1006
00:33:39,051 --> 00:33:40,384
- Especially us
'cause we're not just friends.
1007
00:33:40,452 --> 00:33:42,686
We're co-parent on top of that.
- Right.
1008
00:33:42,755 --> 00:33:44,388
- So to me, like,
our personal relationship
1009
00:33:44,456 --> 00:33:46,289
is way more important to me
than...
1010
00:33:46,358 --> 00:33:47,457
- The business?
- Than the business.
1011
00:33:47,526 --> 00:33:48,658
- I don't want there to be
any bad blood.
1012
00:33:48,727 --> 00:33:50,494
- We just need to do better
from here on out,
1013
00:33:50,562 --> 00:33:53,096
no mistakes,
no, like, bull[bleep].
1014
00:33:53,165 --> 00:33:56,166
Like, just loyalty and--
1015
00:33:56,235 --> 00:33:57,434
- Honesty, transparency,
1016
00:33:57,503 --> 00:33:58,769
all of it, and we're good.
1017
00:34:01,340 --> 00:34:04,241
[upbeat music]
1018
00:34:04,309 --> 00:34:10,480
♪ ♪
1019
00:34:10,549 --> 00:34:12,582
- This is exciting.
1020
00:34:12,651 --> 00:34:15,052
Are you excited
to eat here?
1021
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,155
You're gonna dip your bread
in the cheese and [bleep]?
1022
00:34:18,223 --> 00:34:20,023
- Vroom, vroom, vroom.
1023
00:34:20,092 --> 00:34:21,391
What up?
- Hola.
1024
00:34:21,460 --> 00:34:22,893
Cómo estás?
1025
00:34:22,961 --> 00:34:24,628
- What up, what up,
what up?
1026
00:34:24,696 --> 00:34:27,564
- Are you guys celebrating
anything special today?
1027
00:34:27,633 --> 00:34:29,166
- I'm just here.
- Stopped for dinner?
1028
00:34:29,234 --> 00:34:30,200
Nice.
- Mm-hmm.
1029
00:34:30,269 --> 00:34:31,234
- It's the weekend, you know.
1030
00:34:31,303 --> 00:34:32,335
- As a family.
1031
00:34:32,404 --> 00:34:34,471
- Family dinner.
1032
00:34:34,540 --> 00:34:37,474
- How's--how's business going
for you?
1033
00:34:37,543 --> 00:34:40,277
- Work is cool.
It's actually picking up.
1034
00:34:40,345 --> 00:34:41,812
- That's good.
1035
00:34:43,215 --> 00:34:44,381
- When do you plan on moving?
1036
00:34:44,450 --> 00:34:46,049
- End of this month.
The lease is up.
1037
00:34:46,118 --> 00:34:47,751
- Oh, God.
1038
00:34:47,820 --> 00:34:49,519
- There's not too many things
available
1039
00:34:49,588 --> 00:34:50,887
within what I'm trying
to, you know, pay.
1040
00:34:50,956 --> 00:34:51,955
- Yeah, yeah.
1041
00:34:52,024 --> 00:34:53,356
- Three bedrooms, you know?
1042
00:34:53,425 --> 00:34:55,425
I want something I can set her
up with a room, so.
1043
00:34:55,494 --> 00:34:56,693
So she wanna come over more.
1044
00:34:56,762 --> 00:34:59,463
- Yeah.
Nova needs her own space.
1045
00:34:59,531 --> 00:35:00,797
She's already hitting that age
1046
00:35:00,866 --> 00:35:03,767
where she's basically
a teenager already.
1047
00:35:03,836 --> 00:35:04,968
- Oh, I know.
1048
00:35:05,037 --> 00:35:07,370
- What's the third room for?
1049
00:35:07,439 --> 00:35:09,406
- Probably his game room.
- Third room--
1050
00:35:09,475 --> 00:35:10,574
- Your game room?
1051
00:35:10,642 --> 00:35:11,475
You'll probably be
in there all day.
1052
00:35:11,543 --> 00:35:12,542
- It's just a de--yeah,
1053
00:35:12,611 --> 00:35:15,011
just like you be on TikTok.
1054
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:18,248
- I'm glad you invited me
out to dinner, me and Nova.
1055
00:35:18,317 --> 00:35:19,783
I'm having a blast.
1056
00:35:19,852 --> 00:35:20,984
- Great.
1057
00:35:21,053 --> 00:35:22,319
- We gotta do this more often.
1058
00:35:22,387 --> 00:35:26,156
Right?
Are you having fun?
1059
00:35:26,225 --> 00:35:27,591
- Yeah, I'm eating salad
next time.
1060
00:35:27,659 --> 00:35:31,261
- I think Devoin and I
had a child so young,
1061
00:35:31,330 --> 00:35:33,063
and I think we both
had struggled.
1062
00:35:33,132 --> 00:35:34,564
We were both very immature.
1063
00:35:34,633 --> 00:35:36,466
We did not know
how to co-parent,
1064
00:35:36,535 --> 00:35:37,901
let alone parent.
1065
00:35:37,970 --> 00:35:39,836
Like, it was just--
everything about it was hard.
1066
00:35:39,905 --> 00:35:43,507
But we're growing up now.
We're becoming adults.
1067
00:35:43,575 --> 00:35:45,142
At the end of the day,
we just need to make sure
1068
00:35:45,210 --> 00:35:46,476
that Nova is okay
1069
00:35:46,545 --> 00:35:47,944
and to give her
everything that she needs
1070
00:35:48,013 --> 00:35:49,713
and to protect her
and to love her
1071
00:35:49,781 --> 00:35:50,947
and to guide her and teach her,
1072
00:35:51,016 --> 00:35:53,850
and I think we're trying
to do that now.
1073
00:35:53,919 --> 00:35:55,385
Nova's very shy.
1074
00:35:55,454 --> 00:35:56,386
Throughout the dinner,
1075
00:35:56,455 --> 00:35:58,121
seeing her smile and laugh
1076
00:35:58,190 --> 00:36:00,423
with her dad and with me--
it was very special.
1077
00:36:00,492 --> 00:36:02,792
[spacey music]
1078
00:36:02,861 --> 00:36:05,262
♪ ♪
1079
00:36:11,970 --> 00:36:14,104
[upbeat music]
1080
00:36:14,173 --> 00:36:15,338
[country music]
1081
00:36:15,407 --> 00:36:19,509
- ♪ It's always something ♪
1082
00:36:19,578 --> 00:36:21,044
♪ ♪
1083
00:36:21,113 --> 00:36:22,579
- Oh, what are you doing?
1084
00:36:22,648 --> 00:36:23,980
Are you doing
a research project for--
1085
00:36:24,049 --> 00:36:26,316
- It's for Spanish.
- Project for Spanish?
1086
00:36:26,385 --> 00:36:27,851
Are you doing it on Costa Rica?
- Yeah.
1087
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:29,152
- So what did you guys think
about meeting
1088
00:36:29,221 --> 00:36:30,253
Jay the other day?
1089
00:36:30,322 --> 00:36:31,321
- Pretty cool.
1090
00:36:31,390 --> 00:36:32,522
- Yeah?
- Yeah, I like Jay.
1091
00:36:32,591 --> 00:36:33,990
- I like Jay.
1092
00:36:34,059 --> 00:36:35,759
- It's pretty cool
that he's a twin.
1093
00:36:35,827 --> 00:36:37,327
- Mm-hmm.
- And you guys are twins.
1094
00:36:37,396 --> 00:36:38,461
- I mean, it's what
we have in common...
1095
00:36:38,530 --> 00:36:39,696
- That means he knows
the struggle.
1096
00:36:39,765 --> 00:36:41,097
- ...things in common,
it makes it easier.
1097
00:36:41,166 --> 00:36:42,599
- Right.
1098
00:36:42,668 --> 00:36:44,534
- He was definitely
acting anxious.
1099
00:36:44,603 --> 00:36:46,603
Like, I could tell.
1100
00:36:46,672 --> 00:36:48,004
- Well, he's never been
with someone
1101
00:36:48,073 --> 00:36:49,406
that's had kids, either.
1102
00:36:49,474 --> 00:36:51,041
'Cause I'm sure that was
definitely--
1103
00:36:51,109 --> 00:36:53,109
gave him a little bit
of anxiety.
1104
00:36:53,178 --> 00:36:54,177
It's kind of like your dad
1105
00:36:54,246 --> 00:36:55,378
when he first met Miranda,
1106
00:36:55,447 --> 00:36:56,746
and he had two kids.
1107
00:36:56,815 --> 00:36:58,448
You know, it's a lot--
- Especially you two.
1108
00:36:58,517 --> 00:37:00,684
- It's a lot of responsibility.
1109
00:37:00,752 --> 00:37:02,652
What did you guys like
about him?
1110
00:37:02,721 --> 00:37:04,354
- Everything.
- Just gave off a good vibe.
1111
00:37:04,423 --> 00:37:05,989
I liked him.
- Yeah.
1112
00:37:06,058 --> 00:37:06,990
You said everything?
1113
00:37:07,059 --> 00:37:08,158
- Cool vibes.
1114
00:37:08,227 --> 00:37:09,426
- Cool vibes?
1115
00:37:09,494 --> 00:37:10,827
I know he really likes
you guys.
1116
00:37:10,896 --> 00:37:12,829
I definitely wanted to get
to know Jay
1117
00:37:12,898 --> 00:37:14,864
before I introduced you guys
to him.
1118
00:37:14,933 --> 00:37:18,068
But it's also important to me
that I don't just bring anyone
1119
00:37:18,136 --> 00:37:19,703
into you guys' life.
1120
00:37:19,771 --> 00:37:21,638
I mean, I really like
that you guys clicked.
1121
00:37:21,707 --> 00:37:23,073
- Right.
- I'm excited to see
1122
00:37:23,141 --> 00:37:25,475
what--what the future holds
for all of us.
1123
00:37:25,544 --> 00:37:29,012
♪ ♪
1124
00:37:29,081 --> 00:37:32,048
- ♪ Yeah ♪
1125
00:37:32,117 --> 00:37:34,251
- I'm closing
on the new house today,
1126
00:37:34,319 --> 00:37:36,720
and I hope this can give Kloie
a sense of stability,
1127
00:37:36,788 --> 00:37:38,622
since she's had
a lot of change lately.
1128
00:37:38,690 --> 00:37:39,789
- [whines indistinctly]
1129
00:37:39,858 --> 00:37:41,124
- It's not raining
no more, baby.
1130
00:37:41,193 --> 00:37:42,626
It's done.
1131
00:37:42,694 --> 00:37:44,060
Are you gonna be good?
1132
00:37:44,129 --> 00:37:45,428
- Yeah!
1133
00:37:45,497 --> 00:37:48,331
- This is a big day
for you and me.
1134
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:49,332
Behave.
1135
00:37:49,401 --> 00:37:52,636
- [whines softly]
1136
00:37:52,704 --> 00:37:54,804
♪ ♪
1137
00:37:54,873 --> 00:37:56,740
- You're just grouchy
'cause you're sleepy.
1138
00:37:56,808 --> 00:37:58,141
Do you know
what we're doing?
1139
00:37:58,210 --> 00:38:00,076
- No.
1140
00:38:00,145 --> 00:38:02,212
- You want me to tell you
what we're doing?
1141
00:38:02,281 --> 00:38:03,647
- Mm!
1142
00:38:03,715 --> 00:38:05,415
- Can you stop?
1143
00:38:05,484 --> 00:38:07,584
You remember
how Mommy told you
1144
00:38:07,653 --> 00:38:09,586
she was gonna buy you a house?
1145
00:38:09,655 --> 00:38:11,321
Mommy's gonna get us a house
1146
00:38:11,390 --> 00:38:13,723
that we can keep forever.
1147
00:38:13,792 --> 00:38:16,226
You want a house
that you can have forever?
1148
00:38:16,295 --> 00:38:18,695
All of our stuff
that's in our house right now
1149
00:38:18,764 --> 00:38:20,764
will be in our new house.
1150
00:38:20,832 --> 00:38:22,932
Are you excited to show Daddy
your new house
1151
00:38:23,001 --> 00:38:24,801
when he gets home?
1152
00:38:26,972 --> 00:38:28,772
Hmm?
1153
00:38:30,876 --> 00:38:32,742
Are you just gonna be
a grouch to me all day?
1154
00:38:32,811 --> 00:38:34,344
You're hurting
Mommy's feelings.
1155
00:38:34,413 --> 00:38:35,645
- I'm not.
1156
00:38:35,714 --> 00:38:37,514
- This is supposed to be
a big day for Mommy,
1157
00:38:37,582 --> 00:38:39,516
and you're hurting my feelings.
1158
00:38:39,584 --> 00:38:44,254
- ♪ You are my home ♪
1159
00:38:44,323 --> 00:38:47,023
♪ All that I need ♪
1160
00:38:47,092 --> 00:38:50,627
- Are you happy?
We just got a new house.
1161
00:38:50,696 --> 00:38:52,529
You just got a new house.
1162
00:38:52,597 --> 00:38:53,763
Do the dance.
Do the dance.
1163
00:38:53,832 --> 00:38:55,031
Do the dance.
- No!
1164
00:38:55,100 --> 00:38:56,366
- Do the dance.
1165
00:38:56,435 --> 00:38:57,567
Do your shaky butt.
Shake your butt.
1166
00:38:57,636 --> 00:38:59,035
Shake your butt.
Shake your butt.
1167
00:38:59,104 --> 00:39:01,771
You're a little grouch.
You're no fun today.
1168
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,207
- Yeah, I am.
- No, you're not.
1169
00:39:04,276 --> 00:39:06,076
Big whiner.
1170
00:39:07,412 --> 00:39:08,712
I'm gonna call Grandma Lori.
1171
00:39:08,780 --> 00:39:10,547
Oh, can I see my phone
real quick?
1172
00:39:10,615 --> 00:39:12,082
- Mm!
1173
00:39:12,150 --> 00:39:14,184
- I'll give it back to you
if you give it to me
1174
00:39:14,252 --> 00:39:16,386
and you be nice about it.
1175
00:39:16,455 --> 00:39:17,821
Thank you.
I'll give it back
1176
00:39:17,889 --> 00:39:19,823
after I call Grandma Lori.
1177
00:39:19,891 --> 00:39:22,759
[line trilling]
- Grandma no...
1178
00:39:22,828 --> 00:39:25,362
- Hello?
- I signed my papers.
1179
00:39:25,430 --> 00:39:26,596
I'm officially a homeowner.
1180
00:39:26,665 --> 00:39:30,133
- You did?
Congratulations, hon.
1181
00:39:30,202 --> 00:39:31,701
Just wait till you get
in there.
1182
00:39:31,770 --> 00:39:33,303
You're gonna freaking love it.
1183
00:39:33,372 --> 00:39:34,637
- I know.
I'm so excited.
1184
00:39:34,706 --> 00:39:37,173
- Have your own [bleep].
1185
00:39:37,242 --> 00:39:39,809
- I just wanna give
my daughter stability.
1186
00:39:39,878 --> 00:39:41,544
I never had that growing up.
1187
00:39:41,613 --> 00:39:43,480
I always moved.
I moved schools.
1188
00:39:43,548 --> 00:39:44,981
I lost a lot of friends,
1189
00:39:45,050 --> 00:39:47,450
and I want her
to have somewhere
1190
00:39:47,519 --> 00:39:48,585
that's stable.
1191
00:39:48,653 --> 00:39:50,854
Me providing her
that, like, stability
1192
00:39:50,922 --> 00:39:52,922
and that little sense of home
is really important.
1193
00:39:52,991 --> 00:39:55,258
Kloie's handling Sean
being away.
1194
00:39:55,327 --> 00:39:58,128
I think she definitely
is missing him,
1195
00:39:58,196 --> 00:39:59,829
and I think I'm trying
to do my best
1196
00:39:59,898 --> 00:40:02,298
to kind of make up for that,
1197
00:40:02,367 --> 00:40:04,634
and I want her to have
a sense of comfort
1198
00:40:04,703 --> 00:40:06,136
and somewhere that she knows
1199
00:40:06,204 --> 00:40:08,138
that, you know,
in the next year,
1200
00:40:08,206 --> 00:40:10,340
we're not just gonna up
and have to move.
1201
00:40:10,409 --> 00:40:13,343
[soft music]
1202
00:40:13,412 --> 00:40:15,879
♪ ♪
1203
00:40:15,947 --> 00:40:17,981
- ♪ Whenever the room
starts spinning ♪
1204
00:40:18,049 --> 00:40:22,018
♪ And the walls feel
like they closing ♪
1205
00:40:22,087 --> 00:40:24,287
♪ When the doubt start
setting in ♪
1206
00:40:24,356 --> 00:40:26,122
♪ I know that you know ♪
1207
00:40:26,191 --> 00:40:30,026
♪ If I went north
and you went south ♪
1208
00:40:30,095 --> 00:40:32,996
♪ We'd find our way
back around ♪
1209
00:40:33,064 --> 00:40:36,933
♪ Nothing's ever too far ♪
1210
00:40:37,002 --> 00:40:40,270
♪ I'm with you where you are ♪
1211
00:40:40,338 --> 00:40:43,206
♪ ♪
1212
00:40:43,275 --> 00:40:48,878
♪ I'm with you where you are ♪
1213
00:40:54,953 --> 00:40:56,886
- I don't wanna play football.
1214
00:40:56,955 --> 00:40:58,721
- You need to be there
because you committed to it.
1215
00:40:58,790 --> 00:41:01,424
- [screaming]
1216
00:41:02,427 --> 00:41:03,893
in a long-distance
- I'verelationship. to be
1217
00:41:03,962 --> 00:41:05,094
- And we, like,
out here, mourning.
1218
00:41:05,163 --> 00:41:06,463
This is kind of getting to me.
1219
00:41:06,531 --> 00:41:07,530
- I've got court tomorrow.
1220
00:41:07,599 --> 00:41:09,032
- I'm just over it.
1221
00:41:09,100 --> 00:41:11,568
- She was telling me
that her heart was hurting,
1222
00:41:11,636 --> 00:41:13,703
so we ran to the ER.
1223
00:41:13,772 --> 00:41:15,572
- We're gonna go see Daddy.
- Daddy!
1224
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:17,507
- [laughs]
- [laughs]