1 00:00:00,901 --> 00:00:03,003 - ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:03,070 --> 00:00:04,838 - Previously on "Teen Mom 2"... 3 00:00:04,905 --> 00:00:06,974 - So there's a guy that I met at the concert, 4 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:08,108 and he's pretty cool. 5 00:00:08,175 --> 00:00:09,743 - Mmm, okay, so what's his name? 6 00:00:11,378 --> 00:00:12,479 - Would it be okay if I give you a text 7 00:00:12,546 --> 00:00:13,814 and maybe sometime we'll chop it up, 8 00:00:13,881 --> 00:00:15,215 meet up, hang out a little bit? - Seriously? 9 00:00:15,282 --> 00:00:17,284 - Yeah. - Okay, I'm down. 10 00:00:17,351 --> 00:00:19,019 - When was the last time you talked to your mom? 11 00:00:19,086 --> 00:00:20,153 - I've talked to her here and there. 12 00:00:20,220 --> 00:00:21,889 Like, I still want Chloe to have 13 00:00:21,955 --> 00:00:23,524 that relationship with her. 14 00:00:23,590 --> 00:00:26,193 - I just want you to start furthering your life more. 15 00:00:26,260 --> 00:00:27,594 - Yeah, that's the--the plan. 16 00:00:27,661 --> 00:00:29,863 - You knew I had to be at work at 12:45. 17 00:00:29,930 --> 00:00:31,164 - I'm not talking to you again. 18 00:00:31,231 --> 00:00:32,399 - I brought it to Sean's attention 19 00:00:32,466 --> 00:00:34,935 that I was just very unhappy, 20 00:00:35,002 --> 00:00:37,037 and then he just broke down and said 21 00:00:37,104 --> 00:00:39,573 that he had to go to rehab. 22 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:42,176 - So while the cameras weren't around, 23 00:00:42,242 --> 00:00:43,777 Bar and I went and got married. 24 00:00:43,844 --> 00:00:46,146 For the past month or so me and Bar have been 25 00:00:46,213 --> 00:00:48,215 going through a few things. 26 00:00:48,282 --> 00:00:51,318 - I have to serve 15 days in County. 27 00:00:51,385 --> 00:00:53,654 - So this is for the same DUI situation? 28 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:54,955 - Yeah. 29 00:00:55,022 --> 00:00:57,191 As far as the discharging a firearm incident, 30 00:00:57,257 --> 00:00:58,825 if they decide to pick the case up 31 00:00:58,892 --> 00:01:00,194 and charge me, then they can. 32 00:01:00,260 --> 00:01:01,929 - My graduation party was ruined. 33 00:01:02,062 --> 00:01:03,797 He hates on the things that I do, 34 00:01:03,864 --> 00:01:05,532 and that's why he tries to ruin them. 35 00:01:05,599 --> 00:01:08,569 I need to count on you to meet me halfway. 36 00:01:08,635 --> 00:01:10,637 And if I'm looking over and always just trying 37 00:01:10,704 --> 00:01:14,208 to bring you along that puts more stress on me. 38 00:01:14,274 --> 00:01:17,110 We should just split up, I guess. 39 00:01:17,177 --> 00:01:18,879 - [Bleep] being broken up is the last thing 40 00:01:18,946 --> 00:01:20,814 that I want, especially now that we married. 41 00:01:20,881 --> 00:01:23,183 - Harvey gets jealous sometimes. 42 00:01:23,250 --> 00:01:24,585 I get so much attention, 43 00:01:24,651 --> 00:01:27,287 and he's scared that my attention with him 44 00:01:27,354 --> 00:01:28,956 is gonna go elsewhere. 45 00:01:29,089 --> 00:01:30,490 - Get the [bleep] out of my car. 46 00:01:30,557 --> 00:01:31,692 - What's up? - Get out of my car. 47 00:01:31,758 --> 00:01:33,160 - Yeah, she be wanting me in here. 48 00:01:33,227 --> 00:01:35,229 Too bad. [Bleep] y'all. [Bleep] you. 49 00:01:35,295 --> 00:01:36,930 - They can hear you; they can see you. 50 00:01:36,997 --> 00:01:38,599 - [Bleep] you. [Bleep] you too. 51 00:01:38,665 --> 00:01:40,100 - You're gonna be on the show. - You listening. Yeah, you. 52 00:01:40,100 --> 00:01:42,302 - You know what? I hope they show you. 53 00:01:42,369 --> 00:01:44,771 - Can you talk to me what parenting Lux 54 00:01:44,838 --> 00:01:46,240 and Creed looks like? 55 00:01:46,306 --> 00:01:47,774 - It's hard, because they're just--there 56 00:01:47,841 --> 00:01:50,711 isn't the involvement that the other dads have. 57 00:01:50,777 --> 00:01:54,715 - Kail no longer wants to film about her true life. 58 00:01:54,781 --> 00:01:57,518 Kail is trying to sue me 59 00:01:57,584 --> 00:02:00,687 for defamation of character. 60 00:02:00,754 --> 00:02:02,322 Thanks, Kailyn. 61 00:02:02,389 --> 00:02:04,791 - I'm honestly tired of untrue things being said, 62 00:02:04,858 --> 00:02:06,460 and I'm not gonna take accountability 63 00:02:06,527 --> 00:02:07,961 for things I didn't do. 64 00:02:08,061 --> 00:02:09,296 - Chris reached out to me. 65 00:02:09,363 --> 00:02:11,265 He wants to invite me 66 00:02:11,331 --> 00:02:13,367 on his podcast to do, like, an episode. 67 00:02:13,433 --> 00:02:15,469 - Why are you doing it, to get back at her? 68 00:02:15,536 --> 00:02:16,537 - No. 69 00:02:16,603 --> 00:02:19,773 - Girl, you're just being messy. 70 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:22,776 [upbeat music] 71 00:02:22,843 --> 00:02:29,750 ♪ ♪ 72 00:02:38,358 --> 00:02:40,093 - Sean's been at rehab for a few days, 73 00:02:40,093 --> 00:02:42,596 and I haven't really had time to process that he's gone, 74 00:02:42,663 --> 00:02:45,265 'cause Kloie has had a terrible Tuesday. 75 00:02:45,332 --> 00:02:48,368 I've been up all night long with Kloie. 76 00:02:48,435 --> 00:02:52,372 I feel terrible for her, like, her tooth is killing her. 77 00:02:52,439 --> 00:02:55,909 It's been like this for hours, so she's not sleeping. 78 00:02:55,976 --> 00:02:58,612 I think as a mom the worst thing in the world 79 00:02:58,679 --> 00:03:01,615 is watching your child be in pain 80 00:03:01,682 --> 00:03:04,218 and not able to really help them. 81 00:03:04,284 --> 00:03:06,520 It just sucks doing this alone. 82 00:03:06,587 --> 00:03:08,355 Like, I know that she wants her dad. 83 00:03:08,422 --> 00:03:09,890 I know she wants to see her dad. 84 00:03:09,957 --> 00:03:13,627 ♪ ♪ 85 00:03:13,694 --> 00:03:15,195 Kloie's still in a lot of pain. 86 00:03:15,262 --> 00:03:17,731 So I'm taking her to an emergency dentist appointment. 87 00:03:17,798 --> 00:03:20,067 - Ow. - What? What's wrong? 88 00:03:20,133 --> 00:03:21,168 - My tooth. 89 00:03:21,235 --> 00:03:23,203 - Your tooth? - Yeah. 90 00:03:23,270 --> 00:03:25,339 - I know, baby. I know it hurts. 91 00:03:25,405 --> 00:03:26,607 We're almost there. 92 00:03:29,510 --> 00:03:33,447 - It's in Morrisville by where Daddy's grandma lives. 93 00:03:33,514 --> 00:03:35,349 - Daddy's grandma? - Yeah. 94 00:03:35,415 --> 00:03:36,650 - That's where my dad lives? 95 00:03:36,717 --> 00:03:38,952 - No, your daddy doesn't live there. 96 00:03:41,188 --> 00:03:46,093 - No, he's in Texas, remember? He's at the doctor. 97 00:03:46,093 --> 00:03:47,895 - With--with the dentist? 98 00:03:47,961 --> 00:03:52,599 - No, he's at a different doctor to make him feel better. 99 00:03:52,666 --> 00:03:55,669 [gentle piano music] 100 00:03:55,736 --> 00:03:56,870 - Come on, babe. - There's a toothbrush 101 00:03:56,937 --> 00:03:58,338 in the teeth. 102 00:03:58,405 --> 00:03:59,740 - I know; this is where they'd fix your teeth, 103 00:03:59,806 --> 00:04:02,409 and they come out as clean and shiny. 104 00:04:02,476 --> 00:04:03,844 Are you ready? 105 00:04:03,911 --> 00:04:06,313 - Yeah. - Okay. 106 00:04:06,380 --> 00:04:07,548 - Are we at home? 107 00:04:07,614 --> 00:04:10,918 - We are at the dentist, remember? 108 00:04:11,051 --> 00:04:15,622 Mmm-hmm, this her first time at the dentist. 109 00:04:17,057 --> 00:04:18,091 - I know, baby. 110 00:04:18,158 --> 00:04:19,960 You don't have to be scared, okay? 111 00:04:20,060 --> 00:04:21,828 They're just gonna fix your tooth while you all asleep 112 00:04:21,895 --> 00:04:25,799 so it don't hurt or nothing, okay? 113 00:04:25,866 --> 00:04:28,769 I want... 114 00:04:28,836 --> 00:04:29,837 - I know. 115 00:04:29,903 --> 00:04:32,306 - [sobbing] 116 00:04:32,372 --> 00:04:34,508 - ♪ It's a good, good life ♪ 117 00:04:34,575 --> 00:04:36,410 - You're not-- you can't ride that. 118 00:04:36,476 --> 00:04:37,711 It's for a certain weight. 119 00:04:37,778 --> 00:04:42,649 [laughter] 120 00:04:42,716 --> 00:04:45,419 - I always miss my girls when they're with their dads, 121 00:04:45,485 --> 00:04:47,487 but Jaylan cheered me up by asking me out 122 00:04:47,554 --> 00:04:50,557 for brunch today before he goes home to Georgia. 123 00:04:50,624 --> 00:04:53,861 - Hello? - Hello? What are you doing? 124 00:04:55,629 --> 00:04:57,331 What are you doing? - [indistinct]. 125 00:04:57,397 --> 00:04:59,600 Well, Jaylan, the guy 126 00:04:59,666 --> 00:05:02,369 from the cookout, wants to go to brunch. 127 00:05:02,436 --> 00:05:04,505 So that's actually where I'm heading. 128 00:05:04,571 --> 00:05:07,074 - Oh, okay, 129 00:05:07,140 --> 00:05:08,509 I think it's a good thing. 130 00:05:08,575 --> 00:05:10,511 - I think it's a good thing but not--I don't know 131 00:05:10,577 --> 00:05:13,213 if it's a good, good thing until much later on. 132 00:05:13,280 --> 00:05:15,682 - And I'm proud of you. - You are? 133 00:05:15,749 --> 00:05:17,050 - I didn't think--I don't--I didn't think 134 00:05:17,084 --> 00:05:18,819 that you would even go if he asked. 135 00:05:18,886 --> 00:05:21,455 - Really? It's been a while since I've been on a date. 136 00:05:21,522 --> 00:05:23,123 - So of course you're gonna be scared. 137 00:05:23,190 --> 00:05:24,191 I don't blame you. 138 00:05:24,258 --> 00:05:25,792 - I'm nervous. I'm nervous. 139 00:05:25,859 --> 00:05:27,394 - Yeah, I think it's normal. 140 00:05:27,461 --> 00:05:29,296 - But damn he was fine yesterday too, though. 141 00:05:29,363 --> 00:05:30,964 He was so fine. 142 00:05:31,064 --> 00:05:35,202 I like a career-driven person that has their own [bleep]. 143 00:05:35,269 --> 00:05:36,503 I like that. - Yeah. 144 00:05:36,570 --> 00:05:38,138 - Guess who else called me this morning. 145 00:05:38,205 --> 00:05:40,641 Of course of all days on a day of a date my dad called me 146 00:05:40,707 --> 00:05:42,809 and said he was in jail. - What? 147 00:05:42,876 --> 00:05:45,312 - Yeah, though when does my dad call me? 148 00:05:45,379 --> 00:05:46,713 - Never. - I swear. 149 00:05:46,780 --> 00:05:48,982 I haven't even heard from him in over a year. 150 00:05:49,082 --> 00:05:51,118 He was like, "They said I'm gonna have to get an attorney, 151 00:05:51,185 --> 00:05:53,387 and I was like, "I'm not paying for your attorney." 152 00:05:53,453 --> 00:05:55,088 - What did he do though, like, for what? 153 00:05:55,088 --> 00:05:57,558 - I guess he wrecked and hit someone else. 154 00:05:57,624 --> 00:05:58,892 - We don't want that negative energy. 155 00:05:58,959 --> 00:06:00,894 - No, you've got to leave that in Florida. 156 00:06:01,028 --> 00:06:03,363 My dad has always been in and out of my life, 157 00:06:03,430 --> 00:06:04,731 but he used to live nearby. 158 00:06:04,798 --> 00:06:07,534 - My baby girl. - It's been a little while. 159 00:06:07,601 --> 00:06:09,069 I mean, we've talked on the phone, but it's-- 160 00:06:09,136 --> 00:06:10,037 - Yeah, it's been a while. 161 00:06:10,103 --> 00:06:12,105 I love you, darling. 162 00:06:12,172 --> 00:06:14,107 - He was here during my struggles with addiction 163 00:06:14,174 --> 00:06:17,511 and moved to Florida over five years ago. 164 00:06:17,578 --> 00:06:19,713 My sister's calling. I gotta go. 165 00:06:19,780 --> 00:06:20,948 - Bye. - Bye. 166 00:06:21,048 --> 00:06:22,583 - Bye. 167 00:06:22,649 --> 00:06:24,618 - Hey, are you crying? 168 00:06:24,685 --> 00:06:25,919 - How did you know? How did you know? 169 00:06:26,053 --> 00:06:28,622 - Why are you crying? Why are you crying? 170 00:06:28,689 --> 00:06:30,557 - 'Cause he started crying 171 00:06:30,624 --> 00:06:33,160 on the phone, like, talking about it. 172 00:06:33,227 --> 00:06:34,528 - But he needs to hold himself. 173 00:06:34,595 --> 00:06:37,164 Like, he needs to take ownership of it. 174 00:06:37,231 --> 00:06:39,700 Seriously, like, you can't blame the court system 175 00:06:39,766 --> 00:06:41,068 for your stupidity. 176 00:06:41,134 --> 00:06:43,270 Don't call me when you need bail money. 177 00:06:43,337 --> 00:06:45,472 That's how I felt just now,; like, you called me 178 00:06:45,539 --> 00:06:46,807 'cause you were in jail, 179 00:06:46,874 --> 00:06:48,408 but you can't call me on my birthday? 180 00:06:48,475 --> 00:06:49,810 You can't call me on my kid's birthday? 181 00:06:49,877 --> 00:06:52,679 [Bleep] you. I don't know. I'm--I'm going on a date. 182 00:06:52,746 --> 00:06:56,483 I don't have time to deal with this really. 183 00:06:56,550 --> 00:06:59,453 [upbeat music] 184 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:01,855 ♪ ♪ 185 00:07:01,922 --> 00:07:04,124 - Bar's lack of direction is putting a lot of pressure 186 00:07:04,191 --> 00:07:06,593 on our family, but we're still living together, 187 00:07:06,660 --> 00:07:12,132 and he's taken Holly to Ohio for a few days to see his mom. 188 00:07:12,199 --> 00:07:13,500 Are you ready to go? 189 00:07:13,567 --> 00:07:15,269 - Yeah. - On your trip on the airplane? 190 00:07:15,335 --> 00:07:16,503 Do you know where you're going? 191 00:07:16,570 --> 00:07:18,539 - Yeah. - Where? 192 00:07:18,605 --> 00:07:21,808 - Airport. I'm gonna see Nana. 193 00:07:21,875 --> 00:07:24,411 - Are you excited? - Yeah. 194 00:07:24,478 --> 00:07:26,046 - Can I tell you something? 195 00:07:26,046 --> 00:07:27,447 - What? - I'm not gonna go. 196 00:07:27,514 --> 00:07:29,516 I'm not gonna be going with you guys. 197 00:07:29,583 --> 00:07:30,751 - Miss. 198 00:07:30,817 --> 00:07:32,252 - Yeah, oh, are you gonna miss me? 199 00:07:32,319 --> 00:07:35,923 - Mm-hmm. 200 00:07:36,056 --> 00:07:41,094 - ♪ I'll lead the way ♪ 201 00:07:41,161 --> 00:07:43,063 ♪ ♪ 202 00:07:43,096 --> 00:07:45,332 - This is gonna be the best day of my life. 203 00:07:45,399 --> 00:07:50,204 - It is, and I hope you have the most fun ever. 204 00:07:50,270 --> 00:07:54,308 Okay? Have fun with your nana and your cousins. 205 00:07:54,374 --> 00:07:56,510 ♪ ♪ 206 00:07:56,577 --> 00:07:57,678 All righty, then. 207 00:07:57,744 --> 00:08:00,747 - ♪ Back to life ♪ 208 00:08:00,814 --> 00:08:04,318 ♪ Let me love you ♪ 209 00:08:04,384 --> 00:08:07,821 ♪ Love you back to life ♪ 210 00:08:07,888 --> 00:08:11,525 ♪ Let me love you ♪ 211 00:08:11,592 --> 00:08:17,030 ♪ Love you back to life ♪ 212 00:08:18,398 --> 00:08:19,566 - Hey, babe. - How are you? 213 00:08:19,633 --> 00:08:21,268 - Mwah! 214 00:08:21,335 --> 00:08:22,402 What's going on with you? 215 00:08:22,469 --> 00:08:24,738 - I'm taking a cute picture. Hey. 216 00:08:24,805 --> 00:08:27,774 - She cute, huh? So what's up with you? 217 00:08:27,841 --> 00:08:30,277 - Nothing. Bar and Holly are in Ohio. 218 00:08:30,344 --> 00:08:32,045 - What is y'all status? What is y'all official status? 219 00:08:32,112 --> 00:08:34,047 - What do you mean? We're not together. 220 00:08:34,047 --> 00:08:35,849 - So what's the difference between 221 00:08:35,916 --> 00:08:39,086 all the other not togethers and then this time? 222 00:08:39,152 --> 00:08:40,954 - Maybe it ain't different, but I'm saying right now 223 00:08:41,054 --> 00:08:43,056 we ain't toge-- we ain't together. 224 00:08:43,123 --> 00:08:44,358 - Mm-hmm. 225 00:08:44,424 --> 00:08:46,727 - Aside from us not even being able to kind of 226 00:08:46,793 --> 00:08:49,296 have amicable conversations, 227 00:08:49,363 --> 00:08:52,933 you know, he's got all this court stuff going on. 228 00:08:53,066 --> 00:08:54,835 The reason why I haven't just told him to leave 229 00:08:54,902 --> 00:08:56,703 is because we both paid all this rent. 230 00:08:56,770 --> 00:08:57,938 - A lot of money. 231 00:08:58,071 --> 00:08:59,806 - We paid rent a year in advance. 232 00:08:59,873 --> 00:09:02,276 So our rent is--is paid until next year. 233 00:09:02,342 --> 00:09:05,913 - Bless you, Lord. Listen, it's no secret. 234 00:09:06,013 --> 00:09:08,649 I never wanted you with Bar, and I it--it's no secret. 235 00:09:08,715 --> 00:09:10,551 - We know, girl. 236 00:09:10,617 --> 00:09:12,052 But it's just, like, you know, honestly, 237 00:09:12,119 --> 00:09:14,888 I'm gonna tell you what it is. It's hard to step out 238 00:09:15,022 --> 00:09:17,858 from what--you know when you're so comfortable, like, 239 00:09:17,925 --> 00:09:20,727 even though it's toxic, it's comfortable to me. 240 00:09:20,794 --> 00:09:23,630 And so stepping out of that comfort 241 00:09:23,697 --> 00:09:25,632 I feel like I would need to completely detach. 242 00:09:25,699 --> 00:09:28,702 And it's, like, in order to break that 243 00:09:28,769 --> 00:09:30,504 I have to remove myself. 244 00:09:30,571 --> 00:09:32,139 But I can't do that right now. 245 00:09:32,206 --> 00:09:35,175 - It seems like you really don't really have a plan. 246 00:09:35,242 --> 00:09:40,314 - I don't. My plan is to be--is to try to remain as cordial 247 00:09:40,380 --> 00:09:42,282 and amicable as possible while we are in this house. 248 00:09:42,349 --> 00:09:44,051 - And if that doesn't work--and if that doesn't work then what? 249 00:09:44,051 --> 00:09:46,053 - If that doesn't work he's gonna force my hand, 250 00:09:46,053 --> 00:09:49,423 and I'm gonna have to put him out. 251 00:09:49,489 --> 00:09:52,292 - Gotcha. - Gotcha. 252 00:09:52,359 --> 00:09:54,628 Girl, you better divorce him. 253 00:09:54,695 --> 00:09:56,864 - I don't really know what I'm doing right now. 254 00:09:56,930 --> 00:09:58,532 I have not been thinking about divorce 255 00:09:58,599 --> 00:10:03,036 only because I just feel like divorce is such a heavy word, 256 00:10:03,103 --> 00:10:05,105 but I mean, at the end of the day 257 00:10:05,172 --> 00:10:06,940 if we're not gonna be together and that's what it's gonna be, 258 00:10:07,007 --> 00:10:09,276 I think we probably should think about divorce. 259 00:10:09,343 --> 00:10:15,749 ♪ ♪ 260 00:10:18,677 --> 00:10:21,580 - ♪ We're all alone ♪ 261 00:10:21,646 --> 00:10:23,482 - I'm going on Chris' podcast. 262 00:10:23,548 --> 00:10:25,817 We're recording in Philly tomorrow, and Shirley 263 00:10:25,884 --> 00:10:27,519 and I just got into town. 264 00:10:27,586 --> 00:10:30,789 So Chris and his friend are coming over later to meet up. 265 00:10:30,856 --> 00:10:35,293 - They said there's, like, a backyard or something. 266 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:37,362 This looks cute. - What is up with my hair? 267 00:10:37,429 --> 00:10:39,798 Girl, my hair is a hot mess. 268 00:10:39,865 --> 00:10:40,899 - Oh, and then we're gonna probably go to, 269 00:10:40,966 --> 00:10:42,701 like, a rage room, like, smash. 270 00:10:42,768 --> 00:10:45,303 - Ooh. 271 00:10:45,370 --> 00:10:49,441 - Oh. 272 00:10:49,508 --> 00:10:50,575 - Hi. - Hey, what's up? 273 00:10:50,642 --> 00:10:52,110 What's up? What's up? How you doing? 274 00:10:52,177 --> 00:10:56,548 - What's going on? - How are you? How are you? 275 00:10:56,615 --> 00:10:58,049 - I'm good, I'm good. How are you? 276 00:10:58,116 --> 00:11:00,585 - I'm good; how was the drive? - It was cool. 277 00:11:00,652 --> 00:11:01,920 - Cool. - Not too bad. 278 00:11:01,987 --> 00:11:03,622 - No? I'm waiting for my friend, Shirley. 279 00:11:03,688 --> 00:11:08,226 She's upstairs getting dressed. But you can sit down. Shirley. 280 00:11:08,293 --> 00:11:10,362 This is my best friend, Shirley. This is Chris. 281 00:11:10,429 --> 00:11:11,530 - Hi. - How you doing? 282 00:11:11,596 --> 00:11:14,399 - Nice to meet you. - Brad. 283 00:11:14,466 --> 00:11:18,503 So what's going on? I'm so excited to be here. 284 00:11:18,570 --> 00:11:19,938 - Yeah, I know. - You're nervous? 285 00:11:20,005 --> 00:11:21,406 - Hell yeah. - Yeah? 286 00:11:21,473 --> 00:11:22,574 - Yup. - Why? 287 00:11:22,641 --> 00:11:24,509 - Yeah you--can you see all this? 288 00:11:24,576 --> 00:11:25,877 Do you see all this? 289 00:11:25,944 --> 00:11:28,213 I mean, I'm usually in the camera like... 290 00:11:28,313 --> 00:11:30,015 - I mean. - Bleep, bleep, bleep. 291 00:11:30,082 --> 00:11:31,583 - But we can't do that now. It's time to like-- 292 00:11:31,650 --> 00:11:33,819 - Relax, no, I'm not gonna do 293 00:11:33,885 --> 00:11:36,455 what everybody thinks I'm gonna do. 294 00:11:36,521 --> 00:11:38,323 - But yeah, I wanna know more about the podcast. 295 00:11:38,390 --> 00:11:41,660 What? like topics, like, what are we talking about? 296 00:11:41,726 --> 00:11:42,894 - Parenthood, of course, you know, 297 00:11:42,961 --> 00:11:46,331 co-parenting as a inconsistent father. 298 00:11:46,331 --> 00:11:47,899 - Yeah, is it worse than the absent father? 299 00:11:47,966 --> 00:11:49,367 - Absent father? - Good question, 300 00:11:49,434 --> 00:11:51,336 'cause I definitely deal with that [bleep]. 301 00:11:51,336 --> 00:11:52,871 - 'Cause both definitely traumatizing to the child, 302 00:11:52,938 --> 00:11:55,340 but... - To me, I think in and out. 303 00:11:55,407 --> 00:11:57,342 - Yeah, I feel like in and out is definitely worse. 304 00:11:57,342 --> 00:11:59,478 - So, like, what's gonna happen now when you drop this podcast? 305 00:11:59,544 --> 00:12:05,650 Like, do you think your baby mama's gonna be, like, upset? 306 00:12:05,717 --> 00:12:06,818 - Yeah, yeah. It is gonna blow up. 307 00:12:06,885 --> 00:12:08,019 - It's gonna blow up. 308 00:12:08,086 --> 00:12:09,454 - But it's gonna be, like, negative-- 309 00:12:09,521 --> 00:12:11,757 - I wanna steer away from her as much as possible, 310 00:12:11,823 --> 00:12:15,961 because I am going through a lawsuit right now with her. 311 00:12:16,027 --> 00:12:17,963 - I didn't even know that. I didn't even know that. 312 00:12:18,029 --> 00:12:19,598 - It's crazy, 'cause now I have a lawyer. 313 00:12:19,664 --> 00:12:20,966 I've never had one. She-- 314 00:12:21,032 --> 00:12:23,034 - I had one lawyer, and I paid him for no reason. 315 00:12:23,101 --> 00:12:26,438 - No reason. Terrible. - Yeah, I ended up- 316 00:12:26,505 --> 00:12:28,039 - Really? - [Bleep]. 317 00:12:28,106 --> 00:12:30,742 - You got a custody agreements because you defended yourself? 318 00:12:30,809 --> 00:12:32,310 - Mm-hmm. 319 00:12:32,377 --> 00:12:34,079 - Wow, so what's your visitation status right now? 320 00:12:34,146 --> 00:12:35,480 - What you mean? I get-- - Like, what-- 321 00:12:35,547 --> 00:12:37,149 - It's a set schedule, like, 322 00:12:37,215 --> 00:12:39,317 every other week I get him for a certain amount of days, but-- 323 00:12:39,384 --> 00:12:41,019 - Okay. - It's corny to me. 324 00:12:41,086 --> 00:12:42,421 - And why can't I chill with my kids the way 325 00:12:42,487 --> 00:12:43,989 that other dads get to chill with their... 326 00:12:44,055 --> 00:12:45,123 - Have you asked that? - Yes. Yes. 327 00:12:45,190 --> 00:12:47,025 - And what do they say? 328 00:12:47,092 --> 00:12:48,427 - I don't even want to get into it. 329 00:12:48,493 --> 00:12:50,629 - Like, you're not up to par in their eyes? 330 00:12:50,695 --> 00:12:52,063 - Hell no, they can't say that. 331 00:12:52,130 --> 00:12:53,598 They can't say that, because when we good, 332 00:12:53,665 --> 00:12:54,933 I can see my kids whenever I want. 333 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:56,067 But then when they get in their feelings, 334 00:12:56,134 --> 00:12:57,669 it's a whole different story. 335 00:12:57,736 --> 00:12:59,671 - So now do you have to, like, pretend to be nice to her 336 00:12:59,738 --> 00:13:01,506 so you can get your kids? 337 00:13:01,573 --> 00:13:04,443 - No, it ain't no pretending; like, I'm--it's genuine. 338 00:13:04,509 --> 00:13:07,012 Like, I try to be nice, but sometimes they just take-- 339 00:13:07,079 --> 00:13:09,614 like, you only can handle so much. 340 00:13:09,681 --> 00:13:10,949 Like, I know I sounds crazy, 341 00:13:11,016 --> 00:13:12,384 but, like, when you just get to a point 342 00:13:12,451 --> 00:13:14,119 and you've been dealing with stuff for so long, 343 00:13:14,186 --> 00:13:18,290 I became, like, very, very angry through all this, 344 00:13:18,290 --> 00:13:20,959 angry, bitter, resentful, all that. 345 00:13:21,026 --> 00:13:23,395 I took myself to therapy. 346 00:13:23,462 --> 00:13:26,331 - So how are we doing this tomorrow? 347 00:13:26,398 --> 00:13:27,966 Like, you're bringing your gear here, 348 00:13:28,033 --> 00:13:29,668 or, like, what's--what's the deal? 349 00:13:29,734 --> 00:13:32,037 - Yeah, you know, it's just a computer and mics. 350 00:13:32,104 --> 00:13:33,371 - Okay, computer and mics. 351 00:13:33,438 --> 00:13:36,708 - Just set it up. Pop the questions out. 352 00:13:36,775 --> 00:13:39,044 - Tornado coming. 353 00:13:39,111 --> 00:13:40,445 [rock music] 354 00:13:40,512 --> 00:13:42,447 - The guys invited us to a rage room 355 00:13:42,514 --> 00:13:45,784 to blow off some steam before tomorrow's podcast. 356 00:13:45,851 --> 00:13:48,053 Hi. - Welcome to Rage Philly. 357 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:49,821 You guys are here to rage? 358 00:13:49,888 --> 00:13:52,657 - Yes. - Okay, good. 359 00:13:52,724 --> 00:13:53,825 - This is exciting. 360 00:13:53,892 --> 00:13:55,127 - Yes. 361 00:13:55,193 --> 00:13:56,161 - Feel like I'm about to commit a crime. 362 00:13:56,228 --> 00:13:57,662 - Y'all got a bathroom? 363 00:13:57,729 --> 00:14:01,500 - All right. These are your items right here. 364 00:14:01,566 --> 00:14:06,338 You see what you're up against. I need you to trash everything. 365 00:14:06,371 --> 00:14:09,841 - Don't hit me with anything. - I got you. 366 00:14:09,908 --> 00:14:11,710 - All right, I'm gonna break something. 367 00:14:11,777 --> 00:14:13,345 - That's the whole point. 368 00:14:13,412 --> 00:14:18,283 ♪ ♪ 369 00:14:18,283 --> 00:14:19,785 - Whoo! 370 00:14:19,851 --> 00:14:24,823 ♪ ♪ 371 00:14:24,890 --> 00:14:28,293 - You gotta keep pushing. 372 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:29,895 That bike is not giving up without a fight. 373 00:14:29,961 --> 00:14:31,496 - [indistinct]. - I'm tellin you. 374 00:14:31,563 --> 00:14:36,935 ♪ ♪ 375 00:14:37,002 --> 00:14:39,304 - Shirley. - Yes. 376 00:14:39,371 --> 00:14:42,808 - She's like, "Nah, I wanna stay in there. 377 00:14:42,874 --> 00:14:45,944 She wants to stay in there." 378 00:14:46,011 --> 00:14:48,346 [upbeat music] 379 00:14:48,413 --> 00:14:50,749 - The dentist recommended Kloie see a pediatric dentist. 380 00:14:50,816 --> 00:14:54,686 So we made an appointment for tomorrow. 381 00:14:54,753 --> 00:14:56,321 - I know. 382 00:14:56,388 --> 00:14:58,356 She kept asking for Sean, and I wish he could 383 00:14:58,423 --> 00:15:00,525 be here for her, but I've also been letting her 384 00:15:00,592 --> 00:15:03,228 see my mom lately even though we aren't in the best place. 385 00:15:03,328 --> 00:15:07,432 So I think having her around could help. 386 00:15:07,499 --> 00:15:09,534 Tomorrow, we'll go to a different place, 387 00:15:09,601 --> 00:15:12,637 and they're gonna fix your tooth with no pinchies 388 00:15:12,704 --> 00:15:15,073 and it will be so easy, and you won't feel anything, 389 00:15:15,140 --> 00:15:18,710 and it will be so better, okay? - Okay. 390 00:15:18,777 --> 00:15:21,980 - All right, you did good job. 391 00:15:27,686 --> 00:15:30,388 - [indistinct]. 392 00:15:30,455 --> 00:15:31,823 - I'm gonna call your-- your Mammaw 393 00:15:31,890 --> 00:15:32,891 and let her know. 394 00:15:32,958 --> 00:15:34,493 [line trilling] 395 00:15:34,559 --> 00:15:36,061 Hello. - Hello. 396 00:15:36,128 --> 00:15:38,163 - The problem is, is, her nerve is exposed. 397 00:15:38,296 --> 00:15:41,333 They started numbing her, and she was screaming, 398 00:15:41,399 --> 00:15:43,535 and she wouldn't let the dentist finish 399 00:15:43,602 --> 00:15:46,571 all the--the numbing stuff. So he was like, 400 00:15:46,638 --> 00:15:49,341 "I don't--here we don't"-- they don't do pediatrics, 401 00:15:49,407 --> 00:15:51,443 so he was like, "We can't just sit here and hold her down, 402 00:15:51,510 --> 00:15:53,345 "'cause she's gonna be terrified of the dentist 403 00:15:53,412 --> 00:15:55,380 for the rest of her life." I felt so bad. 404 00:15:55,447 --> 00:15:57,382 I was in there crying and everything. Like... 405 00:15:57,449 --> 00:16:01,887 - Let's see. Hey, honey. You okay? 406 00:16:01,953 --> 00:16:03,755 I love you. 407 00:16:03,822 --> 00:16:07,993 - So my Aunt Lisa called and got me in tomorrow 408 00:16:08,059 --> 00:16:09,795 to a pediatric dental. 409 00:16:09,861 --> 00:16:11,496 - What time is your appointment tomorrow? 410 00:16:11,563 --> 00:16:13,064 - It's at 2:00. 411 00:16:13,131 --> 00:16:16,435 - Well, We'll be at your house by what around noon. 412 00:16:16,501 --> 00:16:19,671 - Why, are you--wanted to come with me to her appointment? 413 00:16:19,738 --> 00:16:21,473 - Yeah, we'll go with you. 414 00:16:21,540 --> 00:16:22,641 - All right. 415 00:16:22,707 --> 00:16:24,109 Yeah, she's got to have this done, 416 00:16:24,176 --> 00:16:26,278 'cause she is, like, in bad shape. 417 00:16:26,278 --> 00:16:28,880 - Yeah, okay. 418 00:16:28,947 --> 00:16:32,651 [tense music] 419 00:16:34,201 --> 00:16:37,432 {\an7}- ♪ Nothing’s gonna \h\h\hstop me now ♪ 420 00:16:37,432 --> 00:16:39,267 {\an7}♪ I can’t wait ♪ 421 00:16:39,267 --> 00:16:41,993 {\an7}- It’s been a while since \h\h\hI’ve been on a date. 422 00:16:41,993 --> 00:16:42,894 {\an7}So I’m pretty nervous. 423 00:16:42,894 --> 00:16:45,092 {\an7}\hAnd my dad’s timing is super frustrating, 424 00:16:45,092 --> 00:16:49,201 {\an7}\hbut I’m not gonna let it affect things with Jaylan. 425 00:16:49,201 --> 00:16:50,531 {\an7}- Hey, what’s up? \h\h\h- Oh, hey. 426 00:16:50,531 --> 00:16:51,663 {\an7}- It’s good seeing you. 427 00:16:51,663 --> 00:16:53,498 {\an7}\h\h- Yeah. - You too. 428 00:16:53,498 --> 00:16:55,267 {\an7}\h- I got you a mosa if you drink mimosas. 429 00:16:55,267 --> 00:16:56,465 {\an7}\h\h- Oh, I do. - Everybody do. 430 00:16:56,465 --> 00:16:57,960 {\an7}- It’s brunch; are you serious? 431 00:16:57,960 --> 00:16:59,663 {\an7}\h\h\h- Yeah. - Thank you. 432 00:16:59,663 --> 00:17:01,201 {\an7}- You look beautiful today. 433 00:17:01,201 --> 00:17:02,630 {\an7}- Thank you. So do you. 434 00:17:02,630 --> 00:17:04,092 {\an7}- Thank you. I appreciate it. 435 00:17:04,092 --> 00:17:05,092 {\an7}- You can. \h\h- Okay. 436 00:17:05,092 --> 00:17:06,267 {\an7}- Anytime you can do that. 437 00:17:06,267 --> 00:17:08,498 {\an7}- Thank you. 438 00:17:09,663 --> 00:17:12,059 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- All right, guys, what are y’all having today? 439 00:17:12,059 --> 00:17:15,092 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- So I’m gonna get the shrimp in grits, and... 440 00:17:15,092 --> 00:17:16,531 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Let me get the chicken and waffles. 441 00:17:16,531 --> 00:17:17,399 {\an7}- Okay. - Yeah. 442 00:17:17,399 --> 00:17:20,465 {\an7}- Thank you. - Yeah, so... 443 00:17:20,465 --> 00:17:22,267 {\an7}- Cheers. - Cheers. 444 00:17:22,267 --> 00:17:24,663 {\an7}- To brunch, yay. 445 00:17:24,663 --> 00:17:27,267 {\an7}It’s not a shot. 446 00:17:27,267 --> 00:17:29,125 {\an7}- That was a shot move, \h\h\h\h\h\h\hbut yeah. 447 00:17:29,125 --> 00:17:29,696 {\an7}- Mm-hmm. 448 00:17:29,696 --> 00:17:31,092 {\an7}- I think the cookout was great yesterday. 449 00:17:31,092 --> 00:17:32,399 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah? - Yeah. I had a good time. 450 00:17:32,399 --> 00:17:33,531 {\an7}- I did too. It was fun. 451 00:17:33,531 --> 00:17:36,201 {\an7}\h\h- Look at that. - A whole lotta... 452 00:17:36,201 --> 00:17:37,465 {\an7}- Yours looks a lot better \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthan mine. 453 00:17:37,465 --> 00:17:38,366 {\an7}I should have gotten that. 454 00:17:38,366 --> 00:17:39,630 {\an7}- This is for you. \h\h\h\h- Awesome. 455 00:17:39,630 --> 00:17:41,300 {\an7}- I’m definitely about \h\h\hto take this yolk 456 00:17:41,300 --> 00:17:42,300 {\an7}off the top of this egg. 457 00:17:42,300 --> 00:17:44,762 {\an7}- You don’t like the yoke? \h\h\hThat’s the good part. 458 00:17:44,762 --> 00:17:45,597 {\an7}- Do you want it? 459 00:17:45,597 --> 00:17:47,630 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- I don’t want it, but I already got one here. 460 00:17:47,630 --> 00:17:49,630 {\an7}- Are you nervous a little bit? 461 00:17:49,630 --> 00:17:51,201 {\an7}- Maybe a little bit, \h\hbut that’s okay. 462 00:17:51,201 --> 00:17:54,597 {\an7}I mean, wouldn’t you be nervous \h\hif you was in my shoes? No? 463 00:17:54,597 --> 00:17:55,234 {\an7}- Yeah. 464 00:17:55,234 --> 00:17:56,432 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- So tell me a little bit about you, 465 00:17:56,432 --> 00:17:58,059 {\an7}a little bit about your past. \h\h\h\h\h\hI know you’re a-- 466 00:17:58,059 --> 00:17:59,432 {\an7}- I’m not telling you \h\h\habout my past. 467 00:17:59,432 --> 00:18:00,696 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’ve been on television show of course. 468 00:18:00,696 --> 00:18:02,333 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay. - I have three kids. 469 00:18:02,333 --> 00:18:02,927 {\an7}- Yeah. 470 00:18:02,927 --> 00:18:05,630 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- So how do you feel about kids? Do you have any? 471 00:18:05,630 --> 00:18:07,333 {\an7}- I don’t have any kids. 472 00:18:07,333 --> 00:18:08,762 {\an7}Not yet at least, 473 00:18:08,762 --> 00:18:11,059 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hbut eventually I wanna have kids, but-- 474 00:18:11,059 --> 00:18:14,663 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- You do? - I do, so we’ll see. 475 00:18:14,663 --> 00:18:17,399 {\an7}So what do your kids look like? \h\h\h\h\h\h\hYou got a photo? 476 00:18:17,399 --> 00:18:18,234 {\an7}- Mm-hmm. \h- Yeah? 477 00:18:18,234 --> 00:18:21,026 {\an7}\h\h- So this is Aleeah. - You guys are beautiful. 478 00:18:21,026 --> 00:18:21,696 {\an7}- Thank you. 479 00:18:21,696 --> 00:18:23,201 {\an7}- She’s like--she’s \h\hlike your twin. 480 00:18:23,201 --> 00:18:25,300 {\an7}\h\h\h- Everyone says that. - If you guys--if you guys 481 00:18:25,300 --> 00:18:26,465 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hwere, like, you know what I mean? 482 00:18:26,465 --> 00:18:27,729 {\an7}\h\h\hI wouldn’t even--I wouldn’t even recognize-- 483 00:18:27,729 --> 00:18:29,125 {\an7}\h\h\h- Everyone says that. - She looks just like you. 484 00:18:29,125 --> 00:18:31,597 {\an7}\h\h- But she’s tall. She looks like--we look like sisters now. 485 00:18:31,597 --> 00:18:33,267 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - It’s not even okay. 486 00:18:33,267 --> 00:18:35,092 {\an7}\hThis one’s Ali. So they’re twins, 487 00:18:35,092 --> 00:18:37,498 {\an7}look nothing alike, and this is Addie. 488 00:18:37,498 --> 00:18:41,092 {\an7}\h\h- That’s Addie. They’re beautiful. 489 00:18:41,092 --> 00:18:41,762 {\an7}- Thank you. 490 00:18:41,762 --> 00:18:43,234 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Yeah, you seem like a very good mother. They’re-- 491 00:18:43,234 --> 00:18:44,597 {\an7}- Thank you. \hThank you. 492 00:18:44,597 --> 00:18:46,300 {\an7}- Yeah, they are blessed \h\h\h\h\h\hto have you. 493 00:18:46,300 --> 00:18:48,531 {\an7}I like your necklace, \h\h"blessed," so... 494 00:18:48,531 --> 00:18:50,498 {\an7}- Aw, thank you. - You’re welcome. 495 00:18:50,498 --> 00:18:51,234 {\an7}- Yeah. 496 00:18:51,234 --> 00:18:52,795 {\an7}- ’Cause we never got a chance \h\h\h\hto actually talk about 497 00:18:52,795 --> 00:18:54,531 {\an7}\h\hwhat--what I do or where I’m from. 498 00:18:54,531 --> 00:18:55,201 {\an7}- Okay. 499 00:18:55,201 --> 00:18:56,663 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Yesterday, because some people were around, so... 500 00:18:56,663 --> 00:18:58,465 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI’m from Charlotte, North Carolina, and once-- 501 00:18:58,465 --> 00:19:00,234 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Love Charlotte. - I graduated from high school, 502 00:19:00,234 --> 00:19:01,663 {\an7}\hI decided to go to the military, 503 00:19:01,663 --> 00:19:03,564 {\an7}so I went up to West Point. 504 00:19:03,564 --> 00:19:08,729 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI graduated, and so now I’m like, you know, contracting 505 00:19:08,729 --> 00:19:11,399 {\an7}for, like, the government as well as NASA as well. 506 00:19:11,399 --> 00:19:12,663 {\an7}- Really? \h- Yeah. 507 00:19:12,663 --> 00:19:14,795 {\an7}\h\h- Man, you have accomplished a lot. 508 00:19:14,795 --> 00:19:18,158 {\an7}- Thank you. I appreciate it. - Seriously, how old are you? 509 00:19:18,158 --> 00:19:18,729 {\an7}- I’m 25. 510 00:19:18,729 --> 00:19:21,059 {\an7}\h\h\h- Holy [bleep]. You’re 25 years old? 511 00:19:21,059 --> 00:19:22,267 {\an7}\h- Yeah. - I’m 29. 512 00:19:22,267 --> 00:19:23,432 {\an7}Let me drink to this one. 513 00:19:23,432 --> 00:19:24,696 {\an7}[laughter] 514 00:19:24,696 --> 00:19:27,234 {\an7}- I think it’s important \h\hto not only just text 515 00:19:27,234 --> 00:19:29,663 {\an7}but just kind of see people, \h\h\h\hyou know, in person. 516 00:19:29,663 --> 00:19:31,795 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Make that... - Yeah, that, you know. 517 00:19:31,795 --> 00:19:33,696 {\an7}\h- [indistinct], you know. - That physical connection 518 00:19:33,696 --> 00:19:34,663 {\an7}a little bit. \h\h\h- Yeah. 519 00:19:34,663 --> 00:19:35,960 {\an7}- Yeah, see each other face \h\h\h\h\hto face and talk. 520 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:37,201 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Absolutely. - You know what I mean? 521 00:19:37,201 --> 00:19:38,399 {\an7}I think that’s important, so... \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- It is. 522 00:19:38,399 --> 00:19:39,795 {\an7}- But also I’m not \h\h\ha fast mover. 523 00:19:39,795 --> 00:19:41,795 {\an7}I’m not a fast mover, okay? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay. 524 00:19:41,795 --> 00:19:43,729 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I’ve rushed into relationships in the past, 525 00:19:43,729 --> 00:19:45,366 {\an7}and it was with people \h\hthat I wasn’t even 526 00:19:45,366 --> 00:19:46,597 {\an7}compatible with to begin with. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Right. 527 00:19:46,597 --> 00:19:48,894 {\an7}- And then I had kids, \hand then all of that. 528 00:19:48,894 --> 00:19:50,663 {\an7}So I think I’ve learned a \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hlot 529 00:19:50,663 --> 00:19:51,630 {\an7}from those past relationships, 530 00:19:51,630 --> 00:19:53,366 {\an7}\h\h\h\hso I’m a very, like, go with the flow. 531 00:19:53,366 --> 00:19:55,696 {\an7}It’s kind of where--really \hwhere I’m at in my life. 532 00:19:55,696 --> 00:19:56,861 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay. - You know what I mean? 533 00:19:56,861 --> 00:19:58,597 {\an7}- Yeah, I agree that we should \h\h\h\h\h\htake it slow, yeah. 534 00:19:58,597 --> 00:20:00,158 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - Get to know each other. 535 00:20:00,158 --> 00:20:00,993 {\an7}- Get to know each other. 536 00:20:00,993 --> 00:20:02,201 {\an7}- Just keep talking \h\hto each other. 537 00:20:02,201 --> 00:20:03,300 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm. - You know what I mean? 538 00:20:03,300 --> 00:20:04,630 {\an7}- Yeah, I think you’re a great \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hperson, yeah. 539 00:20:04,630 --> 00:20:07,201 {\an7}- I appreciate that; thank you. 540 00:20:07,201 --> 00:20:08,630 {\an7}I can’t wait to get \h\h\hto know you. 541 00:20:08,630 --> 00:20:09,861 {\an7}- Yeah? - Yeah. 542 00:20:09,861 --> 00:20:12,201 {\an7}- Okay. 543 00:20:12,201 --> 00:20:15,300 {\an7}[light music] 544 00:20:15,300 --> 00:20:16,158 {\an7}[upbeat music] 545 00:20:16,158 --> 00:20:19,597 {\an7}\h- So I decided to come out to Ohio to come see my mom, 546 00:20:19,597 --> 00:20:21,432 {\an7}and then also to kind of, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know, 547 00:20:21,432 --> 00:20:22,861 {\an7}kind of get some space between \h\h\hme and Ashley, you know? 548 00:20:22,861 --> 00:20:26,267 {\an7}\hWe just been in a little bit of a stressed area right now. 549 00:20:26,267 --> 00:20:27,432 {\an7}It sucks; it sucks. 550 00:20:27,432 --> 00:20:29,333 {\an7}I got some things that I need \h\h\h\hto correct on my end 551 00:20:29,333 --> 00:20:33,927 {\an7}as far as me getting my life together and stuff like that. 552 00:20:33,927 --> 00:20:37,894 {\an7}- Sugar. Hi, baby. 553 00:20:37,894 --> 00:20:40,465 {\an7}- What’s up, kid? \h\h\h\h[laughs] 554 00:20:40,465 --> 00:20:44,597 {\an7}\h\hDon’t cry. Don’t cry. You’re gonna make me cry. 555 00:20:44,597 --> 00:20:48,201 {\an7}- Oh, I love you so much. 556 00:20:48,201 --> 00:20:52,696 {\an7}- What’s up, Mama? \h\h\h\h- Hi, baby. 557 00:20:52,696 --> 00:20:54,531 {\an7}Hi, son. 558 00:20:54,531 --> 00:20:55,795 {\an7}- What’s up, buddy? 559 00:20:55,795 --> 00:21:01,663 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Oh, my God, I missed you so much. 560 00:21:01,663 --> 00:21:02,564 {\an7}Oh, it’s gonna be okay. 561 00:21:02,564 --> 00:21:04,333 {\an7}- Let’s get this stuff \h\h\h\h\hout of here. 562 00:21:04,333 --> 00:21:06,564 {\an7}- Give uncle some love... \h\h\h\h- What’s up, kid? 563 00:21:06,564 --> 00:21:08,795 {\an7}- So you guys can go upstairs. 564 00:21:08,795 --> 00:21:11,663 {\an7}\h\h- Yeah, I told you I was coming, didn’t I? 565 00:21:11,663 --> 00:21:14,597 {\an7}- Go play with your cousin, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hbaby. 566 00:21:14,597 --> 00:21:15,399 {\an7}Come here, baby. 567 00:21:15,399 --> 00:21:16,795 {\an7}- Mama, I’m not gonna lie-- \h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Come here. 568 00:21:16,795 --> 00:21:17,960 {\an7}- I’m not trying to do \h\h\hall that [bleep] 569 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:19,267 {\an7}in front of the cameras. \h\h- Let me talk to you. 570 00:21:19,267 --> 00:21:20,663 {\an7}- I don’t wanna do all this. \h\h\h\h- Can I just say hi? 571 00:21:20,663 --> 00:21:21,861 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- No, I don’t wanna do that [bleep] 572 00:21:21,861 --> 00:21:23,498 {\an7}\hin front of the camera, Mama. - Can you give me what I need? 573 00:21:23,498 --> 00:21:26,597 {\an7}\h\h\h- I’m sorry, I’m trying to keep my [bleep] together. 574 00:21:26,597 --> 00:21:28,597 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- No, I don’t-- not on camera. Not right now. 575 00:21:28,597 --> 00:21:30,267 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hI got too much going on a lot of [bleep] 576 00:21:30,267 --> 00:21:34,795 {\an7}\hI need to worry about right now. 577 00:21:52,894 --> 00:21:54,762 {\an7}\h- Hey, son. - What’s up? 578 00:21:54,762 --> 00:21:55,630 {\an7}- What you doing, baby? 579 00:21:55,630 --> 00:21:57,960 {\an7}- Nothing. It’s kind of hot \h\h\h\hin here, ain’t it? 580 00:21:57,960 --> 00:21:59,300 {\an7}- How are you feeling today, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hbabe? 581 00:21:59,300 --> 00:22:00,663 {\an7}What’s been going on? \h\h\h\h\h- I’m cool. 582 00:22:00,663 --> 00:22:02,927 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m good. - What you got going on? 583 00:22:02,927 --> 00:22:05,861 {\an7}- Yesterday drained me, boy. 584 00:22:05,861 --> 00:22:06,696 {\an7}- You and Ashley good? 585 00:22:06,696 --> 00:22:09,762 {\an7}- Just tryin’ to work on some [bleep]; that it. That’s all. 586 00:22:09,762 --> 00:22:12,630 {\an7}- Well, you’ll always be \h\h\h\hworking on stuff. 587 00:22:12,630 --> 00:22:14,399 {\an7}Let me tell you--hey, baby. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hCome here. 588 00:22:14,399 --> 00:22:16,729 {\an7}- What’s up, kid? 589 00:22:16,729 --> 00:22:19,333 {\an7}- Come join us, beautiful. 590 00:22:19,333 --> 00:22:21,366 {\an7}- Ohh. 591 00:22:21,366 --> 00:22:23,267 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- I have to salvage my relationship right now. 592 00:22:23,267 --> 00:22:25,300 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hStraight forward. I have to save my relationship 593 00:22:25,300 --> 00:22:27,333 {\an7}’cause it’s--it’s-- \h\hit’s dwindling 594 00:22:27,333 --> 00:22:28,300 {\an7}because of my--my actions, 595 00:22:28,300 --> 00:22:33,366 {\an7}\hso--and that’s my focus is me just fixing myself 596 00:22:33,366 --> 00:22:34,927 {\an7}right now, but--yeah. \h\h\h\hSo hopefully 597 00:22:34,927 --> 00:22:36,399 {\an7}everything--everything \h\h\h\h\h\hwill work. 598 00:22:36,399 --> 00:22:37,564 {\an7}- That’s the most \himportant part. 599 00:22:37,564 --> 00:22:38,861 {\an7}\h\h- It is because I can’t--[bleep]--I 600 00:22:38,861 --> 00:22:40,399 {\an7}\h\h\hcan’t be a good husband or a good parent all the way 601 00:22:40,399 --> 00:22:43,059 {\an7}\h\hor--or-nothing if I’m not-- - Sound like somebody you know? 602 00:22:43,059 --> 00:22:44,630 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- If I am not-- - Didn’t I tell you that? 603 00:22:44,630 --> 00:22:47,597 {\an7}- Fully capable of sustaining \h\h\h\h\h\heverything myself 604 00:22:47,597 --> 00:22:48,597 {\an7}and doing my own [bleep]. 605 00:22:48,597 --> 00:22:50,630 {\an7}- You’re married now, and that’s your wife. 606 00:22:50,630 --> 00:22:52,399 {\an7}- It’s not just easy \h\h\hquits no more. 607 00:22:52,399 --> 00:22:57,465 {\an7}\h\h- Yeah, you--it’s--it’s not just [bleep] you, bye anymore. 608 00:22:57,465 --> 00:22:58,564 {\an7}- I know. I’m aware-- 609 00:22:58,564 --> 00:23:00,026 {\an7}- It’s work. It’s work, baby. 610 00:23:00,026 --> 00:23:01,597 {\an7}- I know. I’m--I’m--I am 611 00:23:01,597 --> 00:23:05,663 {\an7}in the ringer right now trying to make everything work, but... 612 00:23:05,663 --> 00:23:09,399 {\an7}- It’s ’cause you love her and you want it to work super bad. 613 00:23:09,399 --> 00:23:12,861 {\an7}- I ain’t never loved nobody \h\h\h\h\h\has much as I love 614 00:23:12,861 --> 00:23:13,795 {\an7}this girl; I kid you not. 615 00:23:13,795 --> 00:23:17,993 {\an7}\h- I really believe that she really just wants you better. 616 00:23:17,993 --> 00:23:18,894 {\an7}- I know that’s the case. 617 00:23:18,894 --> 00:23:22,663 {\an7}\h\h- Let me tell you, that feeling that I got 618 00:23:22,663 --> 00:23:24,597 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwhen you came in last night--look, 619 00:23:24,597 --> 00:23:26,432 {\an7}I cry every time I think about it. 620 00:23:26,432 --> 00:23:27,300 {\an7}Look at the goosebumps. 621 00:23:27,300 --> 00:23:30,630 {\an7}\hLike, the relief, like, I can put my guard down, 622 00:23:30,630 --> 00:23:33,465 {\an7}\h’cause now you’re here to help me and protect me 623 00:23:33,465 --> 00:23:38,762 {\an7}\h\hso those days that Ashley picked you up at your lowest 624 00:23:38,762 --> 00:23:40,564 {\an7}or you picked her up \h\h\h\hat her lowest 625 00:23:40,564 --> 00:23:43,828 {\an7}and that feeling you had \h\hwhen you had nothing 626 00:23:43,828 --> 00:23:44,993 {\an7}and how good you guys were, 627 00:23:44,993 --> 00:23:49,432 {\an7}to find somebody to get you \h\h\h\hthrough your worst, 628 00:23:49,432 --> 00:23:50,927 {\an7}\hthey deserve you at your best, baby. 629 00:23:50,927 --> 00:23:54,498 {\an7}- I know; I know. I’m trying. 630 00:23:54,498 --> 00:23:56,498 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hThere’s some work--some work to do. 631 00:23:56,498 --> 00:23:57,597 {\an7}- I know, baby. 632 00:23:57,597 --> 00:24:00,630 {\an7}[gentle music] 633 00:24:00,630 --> 00:24:05,432 {\an7}♪ ♪ 634 00:24:08,030 --> 00:24:10,232 - ♪ I like it like that ♪ 635 00:24:10,299 --> 00:24:11,667 ♪ I like it ♪ 636 00:24:11,734 --> 00:24:13,335 - We're recording the podcast later today, 637 00:24:13,402 --> 00:24:16,138 but Javi's mad that I went to the rage room with Chris, 638 00:24:16,205 --> 00:24:17,473 and he keeps texting me. 639 00:24:17,539 --> 00:24:19,441 I gonna FaceTime the girls real quick. 640 00:24:19,508 --> 00:24:21,744 [line trilling] 641 00:24:21,810 --> 00:24:23,345 Hey, Mom. - Hey. 642 00:24:23,412 --> 00:24:24,747 - I just wanted to check on you 643 00:24:24,813 --> 00:24:27,216 and the kids, make sure you guys are okay. 644 00:24:27,282 --> 00:24:29,084 Can I see them? 645 00:24:29,151 --> 00:24:30,319 - Say hi to Mama. 646 00:24:30,386 --> 00:24:32,221 - Hi. 647 00:24:32,287 --> 00:24:33,756 - Say hi. - Hi. 648 00:24:33,822 --> 00:24:35,491 - Look at Stella, the new diver. 649 00:24:35,557 --> 00:24:36,592 She learned how to dive. 650 00:24:36,658 --> 00:24:38,961 - Oh, let me see. 651 00:24:39,027 --> 00:24:42,097 Wow, Ms. Stella. 652 00:24:42,164 --> 00:24:44,433 I love you guys. Bye. 653 00:24:44,500 --> 00:24:46,135 - All right, bye. 654 00:24:46,201 --> 00:24:50,105 - So have you spoken to Javi? - A little bit, yeah. 655 00:24:50,172 --> 00:24:53,709 He's a little, you know, upset, I guess. 656 00:24:53,776 --> 00:24:55,611 The vibe is a little weird right now, 657 00:24:55,677 --> 00:24:57,513 'cause I'm here, and he doesn't really know 658 00:24:57,579 --> 00:24:59,048 what's going on right now. Like, I don't know 659 00:24:59,114 --> 00:25:02,084 if he thinks, like, I'm gonna do something or-- 660 00:25:02,151 --> 00:25:04,186 - Probably thinks we're out partying. 661 00:25:04,253 --> 00:25:06,188 - Yeah, I don't know what he's thinking, 662 00:25:06,255 --> 00:25:08,123 and he's really not telling me much either, so it's just, 663 00:25:08,190 --> 00:25:11,927 like, I'm literally with Shirley, like, 664 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:13,662 this is a business trip pretty much. 665 00:25:13,729 --> 00:25:15,731 - Mm-hmm. - Doing a podcast. 666 00:25:15,798 --> 00:25:16,932 I don't got time for that [bleep], 667 00:25:16,999 --> 00:25:18,534 so I really just ignore half of him. 668 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,937 Like, boy, if I really wanted to go down that negative route 669 00:25:22,004 --> 00:25:25,040 or, like, cheat or anything like that, 670 00:25:25,107 --> 00:25:26,809 I would've done it a long time ago. 671 00:25:26,942 --> 00:25:29,344 - You don't have to fly out to a different state 672 00:25:29,411 --> 00:25:30,846 to do that [bleep]. 673 00:25:30,946 --> 00:25:33,115 - Yeah, and I even told you who's gonna be here, 674 00:25:33,182 --> 00:25:35,050 what we're doing, not like I'm hiding anything. 675 00:25:35,117 --> 00:25:38,420 Like, I was very up and front about it, honest. 676 00:25:38,487 --> 00:25:39,955 - Mm-hmm. 677 00:25:39,955 --> 00:25:41,590 - So if Javi's feeling some type of way, 678 00:25:41,657 --> 00:25:43,692 then again, like, I really don't give a [bleep], 679 00:25:43,759 --> 00:25:45,127 'cause there's nothing I can do 680 00:25:45,194 --> 00:25:48,630 or say to change his--his thought process. 681 00:25:48,697 --> 00:25:49,965 - Don't forget, though, you guys 682 00:25:49,998 --> 00:25:52,101 are now on your way to be one. 683 00:25:52,167 --> 00:25:54,870 You guys are engaged, so you can't say 684 00:25:54,970 --> 00:25:56,772 you don't give a [bleep] about that, 685 00:25:56,839 --> 00:25:58,974 but maybe right now 686 00:25:58,974 --> 00:26:01,043 is not the time for you to focus on that. 687 00:26:01,110 --> 00:26:05,013 - Yeah, yeah, but I don't have time for it. 688 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,015 A part of me doesn't feel like Javi trusts me. 689 00:26:07,082 --> 00:26:08,917 It kind of, like, turns me off a little bit 690 00:26:08,951 --> 00:26:10,719 when his insecurities show, 691 00:26:10,786 --> 00:26:14,656 because I just--I need somebody confident, 692 00:26:14,723 --> 00:26:18,026 and I wish he was more confident within himself. 693 00:26:18,093 --> 00:26:19,728 [upbeat music] 694 00:26:19,795 --> 00:26:21,697 - Kloie's been resting since we got home from the dentist. 695 00:26:21,764 --> 00:26:26,001 She's still in pain, and I'm exhausted. 696 00:26:26,068 --> 00:26:27,803 - Hi. 697 00:26:27,936 --> 00:26:31,106 So how was today? Stressful? 698 00:26:31,173 --> 00:26:32,808 Girl, I don't even like the dentist. 699 00:26:32,941 --> 00:26:35,044 - I cried when she was crying. I felt so bad. 700 00:26:35,110 --> 00:26:36,745 - You was there, like, in the room? 701 00:26:36,812 --> 00:26:39,314 - Yeah. She just wasn't messing with none of that, 702 00:26:39,381 --> 00:26:40,949 and I felt so bad. 703 00:26:41,016 --> 00:26:43,218 I was, like, in there crying, 'cause I just felt terrible, 704 00:26:43,285 --> 00:26:46,055 and then they did all that poking and all the [bleep] 705 00:26:46,121 --> 00:26:48,724 and couldn't--yeah, couldn't finish the numbing 706 00:26:48,791 --> 00:26:50,692 so they weren't even able to do anything. 707 00:26:50,759 --> 00:26:52,961 So my aunt was, like, calling and got me 708 00:26:52,995 --> 00:26:54,763 into a place tomorrow, thank God, 709 00:26:54,830 --> 00:26:57,599 and she might need surgery. 710 00:26:57,666 --> 00:27:00,035 My mom's gonna come to the pediatric dentist. 711 00:27:00,102 --> 00:27:03,172 She's been really trying to, like, 712 00:27:03,238 --> 00:27:05,040 be there, so I think she was trying-- 713 00:27:05,107 --> 00:27:08,510 - But one thing about your mom is, Kloie, like, 714 00:27:08,577 --> 00:27:12,181 she don't want Kloie to see her as that, you know, as Christy. 715 00:27:12,247 --> 00:27:14,783 She wants Kloie to see her as the greatest grandma... 716 00:27:14,917 --> 00:27:16,051 - Yeah. - In the [bleep] world. 717 00:27:16,118 --> 00:27:17,519 - That's how she sees her, though. 718 00:27:17,586 --> 00:27:19,154 - Yeah, and that's why, when--when 719 00:27:19,221 --> 00:27:21,090 it's something about Kloie, she's--she's on it. 720 00:27:21,156 --> 00:27:22,925 - I'm probably going to be up with her all night again. 721 00:27:22,925 --> 00:27:24,359 I slept probably three hours last night. 722 00:27:24,426 --> 00:27:26,495 - Yeah, she clowned. - She was up all night. 723 00:27:26,562 --> 00:27:27,996 Then all night she wants her dad. 724 00:27:28,063 --> 00:27:29,631 She wants her dad to come home. 725 00:27:29,698 --> 00:27:31,233 She said she don't like there being two. 726 00:27:31,300 --> 00:27:33,335 She goes, "I want there to be three of us here, not two. 727 00:27:33,402 --> 00:27:35,838 If there's two, then we're all alone." 728 00:27:35,938 --> 00:27:37,439 And she was like, "Don't you think we're both 729 00:27:37,506 --> 00:27:38,774 all--all alone?" - Aww. 730 00:27:38,841 --> 00:27:40,442 - And I'm like, "I mean, no, 'cause"-- 731 00:27:40,509 --> 00:27:43,479 - What does she even know about loneliness at three years old? 732 00:27:43,545 --> 00:27:45,748 - I was like, "You have me." I was like, "I know, 733 00:27:45,814 --> 00:27:50,819 but then you're alone." And I'm like...rude. 734 00:27:50,953 --> 00:27:52,688 - Just break my heart. 735 00:27:52,755 --> 00:27:54,790 So how has it been without Sean here? 736 00:27:54,857 --> 00:27:56,325 - Awful. - Awful? 737 00:27:56,392 --> 00:28:00,963 - Awful for--it just--not, like, awful as in for me. 738 00:28:01,030 --> 00:28:02,598 I've been doing [bleep] really by myself 739 00:28:02,664 --> 00:28:04,266 for a long--I mean, he's helped out, 740 00:28:04,333 --> 00:28:06,502 but I feel like a lot of stuff has been on my shoulders anyway 741 00:28:06,568 --> 00:28:08,904 so it don't feel that new to me. 742 00:28:08,971 --> 00:28:12,107 I think it's more like trying to explain to her. 743 00:28:12,174 --> 00:28:13,675 She don't understand-- - 'Cause it's, like, 744 00:28:13,742 --> 00:28:15,044 randomly, like, y'all could--where's my dad?-- 745 00:28:15,110 --> 00:28:16,512 - Like, randomly she'll ask. 746 00:28:16,578 --> 00:28:18,113 - Yeah, or when she's upset, 747 00:28:18,180 --> 00:28:20,249 like when she was at the dentist's crying and screaming 748 00:28:20,315 --> 00:28:22,017 and she was sitting over there holding her mouth. 749 00:28:22,084 --> 00:28:24,453 There's blood. There's, like--she's 750 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:26,655 just so upset, and she's like, 751 00:28:26,722 --> 00:28:28,257 "I want my daddy; I want my daddy." 752 00:28:28,323 --> 00:28:31,293 And I know that, like, I don't even know what to say. 753 00:28:31,360 --> 00:28:34,296 [gentle music] 754 00:28:34,363 --> 00:28:38,934 ♪ ♪ 755 00:28:40,714 --> 00:28:44,110 {\an7}- ♪ Are you ready for a good time ♪ 756 00:28:44,110 --> 00:28:46,275 {\an7}♪ ♪ 757 00:28:46,275 --> 00:28:47,681 {\an7}- Ahh! Ahh! 758 00:28:47,681 --> 00:28:49,912 {\an7}\h\h- It’s been a few days since my date with Jaylan, 759 00:28:49,912 --> 00:28:51,341 {\an7}and now that he’s back \h\h\h\h\hin Georgia, 760 00:28:51,341 --> 00:28:52,912 {\an7}\h\h\hwe’re keeping in touch over texts. 761 00:28:52,912 --> 00:28:55,912 {\an7}I haven’t wanted to deal with \hwhat’s going on with my dad, 762 00:28:55,912 --> 00:28:57,110 {\an7}but Victoria’s coming over, 763 00:28:57,110 --> 00:28:59,780 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand I know she’s gonna bring it up. 764 00:28:59,780 --> 00:29:01,308 {\an7}Come in. 765 00:29:01,308 --> 00:29:03,846 {\an7}- Ola. - Fun. 766 00:29:03,846 --> 00:29:04,714 {\an7}- What are you doing? 767 00:29:04,714 --> 00:29:06,846 {\an7}\h\h- Oh, you know, I’m doing laundry. 768 00:29:06,846 --> 00:29:09,077 {\an7}- Please tell me about your date. 769 00:29:09,077 --> 00:29:11,714 {\an7}- Well...well-- \h\h- Come on. 770 00:29:11,714 --> 00:29:15,912 {\an7}- The date went really, really, \hreally, really, really well. 771 00:29:15,912 --> 00:29:17,450 {\an7}I mean, it--we-- 772 00:29:17,450 --> 00:29:19,912 {\an7}\h\h\hthe conversation flowed the entire time. 773 00:29:19,912 --> 00:29:21,747 {\an7}He didn’t seem nervous \h\h\hwith the cameras. 774 00:29:21,747 --> 00:29:23,176 {\an7}\hThere was definitely-- - So the energy was good? 775 00:29:23,176 --> 00:29:26,143 {\an7}- Yeah, the vibes were good. \h\h\h\hThe energy was good. 776 00:29:26,143 --> 00:29:29,681 {\an7}It was just--we had a really \hgreat connection, I think. 777 00:29:29,681 --> 00:29:30,747 {\an7}- Did you end up telling Jaylan 778 00:29:30,747 --> 00:29:34,747 {\an7}\habout my phone call to you about our dad? 779 00:29:34,747 --> 00:29:35,813 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- No. - You didn’t? 780 00:29:35,813 --> 00:29:37,341 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I didn’t-- - Probably not a good conve-- 781 00:29:37,341 --> 00:29:38,846 {\an7}- I am not about to talk \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto--talk 782 00:29:38,846 --> 00:29:39,912 {\an7}about that on my first date. 783 00:29:39,912 --> 00:29:41,077 {\an7}- I mean, I was just kind \h\h\h\h\h\hof curious-- 784 00:29:41,077 --> 00:29:43,143 {\an7}- I left that entire--I left \h\h\h\h\h\hthat whole vibe-- 785 00:29:43,143 --> 00:29:45,143 {\an7}that whole energy in my car. 786 00:29:45,143 --> 00:29:47,417 {\an7}- I totally wasn’t trying \h\h\hto ruin your date. 787 00:29:47,417 --> 00:29:49,780 {\an7}- I love him, but at the end \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hof the day, 788 00:29:49,780 --> 00:29:54,450 {\an7}I’m not--you got arrested? \h\hYou went to jail, okay. 789 00:29:54,450 --> 00:29:55,813 {\an7}Like, what do you \hwant me to do? 790 00:29:55,813 --> 00:29:59,879 {\an7}\h\h- I think for me in always living in a fear of losing him 791 00:29:59,879 --> 00:30:03,143 {\an7}when he was here and I wan-- \h\h\hI watched him withdraw 792 00:30:03,143 --> 00:30:05,308 {\an7}\hand almost died in the apartment. 793 00:30:05,308 --> 00:30:08,879 {\an7}- No, I don’t want my kids \h\hto see that, and I sure 794 00:30:08,879 --> 00:30:09,945 {\an7}as hell don’t want to see that. 795 00:30:09,945 --> 00:30:13,912 {\an7}\h\h\h\hWhen I was with dad, that relationship was toxic. 796 00:30:13,912 --> 00:30:16,077 {\an7}I used with him. 797 00:30:16,077 --> 00:30:18,417 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hWe enabled each other’s addiction, 798 00:30:18,417 --> 00:30:21,275 {\an7}\h\hand there’s no way I can go back to that. 799 00:30:21,275 --> 00:30:26,077 {\an7}I’m done. You know what I mean? \h\h\h\h\h\hLike, I--I’m done. 800 00:30:28,308 --> 00:30:31,176 {\an7}\h\h\h- ♪ Every time I get back home suitcase down ♪ 801 00:30:31,176 --> 00:30:36,516 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h♪ And I hug my mom I forget about getting older ♪ 802 00:30:36,516 --> 00:30:38,813 {\an7}[line trilling] 803 00:30:38,813 --> 00:30:40,176 {\an7}♪ Every time I get back home ♪ 804 00:30:40,176 --> 00:30:43,945 {\an7}- Holly, what’s going on? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Nothing. 805 00:30:43,945 --> 00:30:47,242 {\an7}- Come say hi to Mommy. 806 00:30:47,242 --> 00:30:48,384 {\an7}- Hi, Mama. 807 00:30:48,384 --> 00:30:50,110 {\an7}- Hi, baby. 808 00:30:50,110 --> 00:30:52,549 {\an7}- I got dirt all over my hand. 809 00:30:52,549 --> 00:30:55,846 {\an7}- What you been doing? 810 00:30:55,846 --> 00:30:57,417 {\an7}- She just got up and \hwalked hella fast. 811 00:30:57,417 --> 00:31:00,813 {\an7}- Oh, okay, well, I’m glad you \hguys are having a good time. 812 00:31:00,813 --> 00:31:02,209 {\an7}I’ll talk to you later. 813 00:31:02,209 --> 00:31:03,879 {\an7}- All right, sound good. 814 00:31:03,879 --> 00:31:09,945 {\an7}♪ ♪ 815 00:31:09,945 --> 00:31:12,011 {\an7}- So did you talk to Ashley, babe? 816 00:31:12,011 --> 00:31:14,450 {\an7}- Yeah, I just called her \hon FaceTime with Holly. 817 00:31:14,450 --> 00:31:16,813 {\an7}- How did that go? \h\h\h\h\h\h- Cool. 818 00:31:18,450 --> 00:31:20,912 {\an7}- Court? \h- Yeah. 819 00:31:20,912 --> 00:31:21,879 {\an7}- The case is settled. 820 00:31:21,879 --> 00:31:24,417 {\an7}\hI was supposed to turn myself in 821 00:31:24,417 --> 00:31:25,516 {\an7}and then I wasn’t--basically, 822 00:31:25,516 --> 00:31:28,011 {\an7}\h\h\h\hit was a lot going on; I wasn’t able to make the date 823 00:31:28,011 --> 00:31:29,275 {\an7}that I was supposed to turn myself in. 824 00:31:29,275 --> 00:31:32,417 {\an7}\h\hSo I went back into court, and they--he basically told me 825 00:31:32,417 --> 00:31:34,384 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hjust come-- come back in November. 826 00:31:34,384 --> 00:31:35,813 {\an7}Once I do these little \h\h\h\h\h\h\htwo weeks 827 00:31:35,813 --> 00:31:37,549 {\an7}\h\h\h\hthen I’ll be done with this DUI situation. 828 00:31:37,549 --> 00:31:39,615 {\an7}I’m tired of dealing \h\hwith all of this. 829 00:31:39,615 --> 00:31:40,582 {\an7}Like, I’m tired of it. 830 00:31:40,582 --> 00:31:41,945 {\an7}- How many courts cases, like, 831 00:31:41,945 --> 00:31:46,209 {\an7}\h\h\hare you just--that’s the last one--you’re done? 832 00:31:46,209 --> 00:31:47,242 {\an7}- There’s another one. 833 00:31:47,242 --> 00:31:49,615 {\an7}\h\h\h\hBasically, I got--I got arrested on--on the grad night 834 00:31:49,615 --> 00:31:52,417 {\an7}at hella later in the night, \h\h\h\hsome stuff happened, 835 00:31:52,417 --> 00:31:55,077 {\an7}\h\h\h\hand I ended up having to fire my gun and whatever. 836 00:31:55,077 --> 00:31:58,044 {\an7}So it wasn’t the best decision; \h\h\h\hI could have definitely 837 00:31:58,044 --> 00:31:59,341 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hprobably made a different decision, but... 838 00:31:59,341 --> 00:32:02,044 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Right, do you know the worst-case scenario and, 839 00:32:02,044 --> 00:32:04,945 {\an7}like, the best-case scenario? \h\hLike, best-case scenario 840 00:32:04,945 --> 00:32:06,582 {\an7}- The best-case scenario \h\h\hthey drop the case. 841 00:32:06,582 --> 00:32:09,582 {\an7}\h\h\h\hThe worst-case, three years in prison? 842 00:32:09,582 --> 00:32:10,648 {\an7}- You’re kidding me. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Nope. 843 00:32:10,648 --> 00:32:14,209 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- How’s Ashley feeling about all this? 844 00:32:14,209 --> 00:32:17,978 {\an7}- She tired of dealing with [bleep]. I ain’t gonna lie. 845 00:32:17,978 --> 00:32:21,341 {\an7}- I just feel like when you’re \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin a marriage-- 846 00:32:21,341 --> 00:32:23,275 {\an7}I’ve seen married couples; 847 00:32:23,275 --> 00:32:24,483 {\an7}they’re partners. 848 00:32:24,483 --> 00:32:25,242 {\an7}They’re equals. 849 00:32:25,242 --> 00:32:28,879 {\an7}\h\h\hOne is not taking and draining the other. 850 00:32:28,879 --> 00:32:31,110 {\an7}And I don’t feel like \h\h\h\hI have that. 851 00:32:31,110 --> 00:32:34,341 {\an7}I feel like I’ve been drained. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI feel like 852 00:32:34,341 --> 00:32:38,341 {\an7}I’m always giving direction \h\hand never getting any. 853 00:32:38,341 --> 00:32:41,044 {\an7}\h\h\hI don’t feel like I’m being met halfway, 854 00:32:41,044 --> 00:32:44,275 {\an7}and so I don’t feel like \h\h\h\hit’s a marriage. 855 00:32:44,275 --> 00:32:48,011 {\an7}I don’t necessarily know what it looks like going forward. 856 00:32:48,011 --> 00:32:53,275 {\an7}\hI’m just, like, kind of making plans day by day. 857 00:32:53,275 --> 00:32:56,615 {\an7}\hI guess we’ll see when Bar comes back. 858 00:33:13,834 --> 00:33:15,736 - We're on our way to the pediatric dentist 859 00:33:15,802 --> 00:33:18,539 to see if Kloie needs surgery. She's still on a lot of pain, 860 00:33:18,605 --> 00:33:20,440 so I'm glad my parents are here for her. 861 00:33:20,507 --> 00:33:22,509 But I'm already stressed, and having them around 862 00:33:22,576 --> 00:33:24,077 isn't helping. 863 00:33:24,144 --> 00:33:25,546 Grab--don't. 864 00:33:25,612 --> 00:33:27,247 This--this, I don't like. I don't like that [bleep]. 865 00:33:27,314 --> 00:33:31,051 - Oh. - 'Cause if something spills... 866 00:33:31,118 --> 00:33:32,486 - Just stopped. 867 00:33:32,553 --> 00:33:33,954 - Mom, this is what the [bleep] I meant. 868 00:33:34,021 --> 00:33:35,355 - I'll clean it up, Jade. - Oh, my God. 869 00:33:35,422 --> 00:33:37,357 - Can you pull the speedway? I'll clean it out, Jade. 870 00:33:37,424 --> 00:33:39,493 - I knew this was gonna happen. I just-- 871 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:40,627 - I will--okay. 872 00:33:40,694 --> 00:33:42,229 - I mean-- - I will clean it out. 873 00:33:42,296 --> 00:33:43,497 - I'll tell you something, and you don't listen to me. 874 00:33:43,564 --> 00:33:45,299 We're here at the baby dentist. 875 00:33:45,365 --> 00:33:46,833 - Yay. 876 00:33:46,900 --> 00:33:49,803 [light rock music] 877 00:33:49,870 --> 00:33:54,575 ♪ ♪ 878 00:33:54,641 --> 00:33:56,310 - Kloie just finished her consult, 879 00:33:56,376 --> 00:33:58,445 and they said she does need surgery to fix her tooth. 880 00:33:58,512 --> 00:34:00,447 So we scheduled it for next week. 881 00:34:00,514 --> 00:34:02,349 She's never been put under before, 882 00:34:02,416 --> 00:34:03,617 and to make things worse, 883 00:34:03,684 --> 00:34:05,319 I can't be with her when they do it. 884 00:34:05,385 --> 00:34:07,254 - Okay, baby, let Mammaw get you to all buckled in. 885 00:34:07,321 --> 00:34:09,423 - The anesthesiologist is gonna come, 886 00:34:09,489 --> 00:34:13,994 and they're gonna give her a S-H-O-T, 887 00:34:14,094 --> 00:34:17,264 and that's gonna make her very off her feet 888 00:34:17,331 --> 00:34:19,366 so they can sedate her. She was, like, 889 00:34:19,433 --> 00:34:21,168 he's brushing her teeth like she's supposed to, 890 00:34:21,235 --> 00:34:23,237 but she was like, what it is, is, 891 00:34:23,303 --> 00:34:25,472 any of those chewy candies that Sean eats, 892 00:34:25,539 --> 00:34:28,442 she said those even when you brush they stick... 893 00:34:28,508 --> 00:34:30,010 - Yeah. - And they don't come out. 894 00:34:30,110 --> 00:34:31,378 So they're gonna put a needle in her 895 00:34:31,445 --> 00:34:33,180 and sedate her while I'm not there. 896 00:34:33,247 --> 00:34:34,414 - What? - So she's gonna be screaming 897 00:34:34,481 --> 00:34:35,782 and crying for me. - I told you. 898 00:34:35,849 --> 00:34:37,117 I didn't think they would. - But kids, you know 899 00:34:37,117 --> 00:34:38,485 why they won't? I'ma tell ya, 'cause kids 900 00:34:38,552 --> 00:34:40,120 are better without their parents. 901 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:41,588 - No, they're not. It's 'cause of COVID. 902 00:34:41,655 --> 00:34:43,123 That's why. 903 00:34:43,156 --> 00:34:44,625 I feel sick. 904 00:34:44,691 --> 00:34:46,560 I'm about to get sick or something. 905 00:34:46,627 --> 00:34:51,431 - It's horrible when you got something up with your kid. 906 00:34:51,498 --> 00:34:53,033 - I know she's just gonna be crying 907 00:34:53,133 --> 00:34:54,902 and want me to go with her. 908 00:34:54,968 --> 00:34:57,204 - I know. 909 00:34:57,271 --> 00:34:59,873 You just gotta put it out of your head. 910 00:34:59,940 --> 00:35:02,943 Or, like you know, when she goes back, I mean, 911 00:35:03,076 --> 00:35:04,478 it's--it's easier said than done, 912 00:35:04,545 --> 00:35:07,548 'cause you sure can't, but maybe you might need 913 00:35:07,614 --> 00:35:11,251 some--maybe an anxiety pill for that day. 914 00:35:11,318 --> 00:35:14,221 [light piano music] 915 00:35:14,288 --> 00:35:16,390 ♪ ♪ 916 00:35:16,456 --> 00:35:20,527 - We'll figure it out. 917 00:35:20,594 --> 00:35:21,995 - I should just have y'all drop me off. 918 00:35:22,095 --> 00:35:23,363 I'm going right here. 919 00:35:23,430 --> 00:35:25,299 - Where? - Right at the Moose. 920 00:35:25,365 --> 00:35:27,401 - You have to gamble every single day? 921 00:35:27,467 --> 00:35:29,269 - Yup. - No, I haven't played bingo, 922 00:35:29,336 --> 00:35:30,904 Jade, forever till yesterday. 923 00:35:30,971 --> 00:35:32,573 If you don't want to, Jade, you don't have to. 924 00:35:32,639 --> 00:35:34,208 - Mom, we're already on the side. 925 00:35:34,274 --> 00:35:35,342 I can't even get over it to get on the highway 926 00:35:35,409 --> 00:35:36,610 if I wanted to now. 927 00:35:36,677 --> 00:35:38,178 This is where I can't be around you long, 928 00:35:38,245 --> 00:35:40,247 'cause I'm, like, a nervous wreck. 929 00:35:40,314 --> 00:35:45,185 ♪ ♪ 930 00:35:45,252 --> 00:35:46,853 [upbeat music] 931 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:48,822 - Chris and his friends set up the podcast equipment 932 00:35:48,889 --> 00:35:51,024 downstairs, and we're recording soon, 933 00:35:51,124 --> 00:35:52,893 but Javi's still acting jealous, 934 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:54,895 and I'm getting annoyed. 935 00:35:54,962 --> 00:35:59,132 Jesus Christ. 936 00:35:59,166 --> 00:36:00,868 Oh, this is so fancy. 937 00:36:00,934 --> 00:36:03,403 - What's going on? What's up? What's up? What's up? 938 00:36:03,470 --> 00:36:05,105 - A'ight, what's going on, everybody? 939 00:36:05,172 --> 00:36:07,140 Welcome back to another episode of PTSD. 940 00:36:07,207 --> 00:36:09,209 We've got a special guest for you guys. 941 00:36:09,276 --> 00:36:10,377 Y'all gonna like this one, so... 942 00:36:10,444 --> 00:36:11,478 - Real spicy. - So we gonna let-- 943 00:36:11,545 --> 00:36:13,080 we gonna let her introduce herself. 944 00:36:13,146 --> 00:36:15,949 - Hey, guys. It's a Bri Baby. 945 00:36:16,083 --> 00:36:19,086 - Bri Baby. - Bri Baby. 946 00:36:19,086 --> 00:36:20,621 - I'ma start it with this then. 947 00:36:20,687 --> 00:36:22,623 It says here, you know, you're part of "Teen Mom." 948 00:36:22,689 --> 00:36:24,391 What's the biggest misconception 949 00:36:24,458 --> 00:36:25,859 that the people have about you? 950 00:36:25,926 --> 00:36:30,364 - That I'm a bitch or that I'm heartless. 951 00:36:30,430 --> 00:36:32,299 There's, like, so many things that people say about me 952 00:36:32,366 --> 00:36:36,403 that is really untrue, and it's--it sucks. 953 00:36:36,470 --> 00:36:37,738 - What do you think are the three 954 00:36:37,804 --> 00:36:40,774 most important characteristics of co-parenting? 955 00:36:40,841 --> 00:36:42,109 - I don't know. 956 00:36:42,142 --> 00:36:44,111 I feel like co-parenting is the hardest thing. 957 00:36:44,177 --> 00:36:46,113 - Oh, top five. Co-parenting make 958 00:36:46,113 --> 00:36:48,549 you wanna throw your phone; like, it just make you... 959 00:36:48,615 --> 00:36:49,950 just, like, bro, leave me alone. 960 00:36:50,017 --> 00:36:51,285 - Co-parenting is hard, 961 00:36:51,351 --> 00:36:52,686 and it can be very depressing sometimes. 962 00:36:52,753 --> 00:36:54,021 - I would like to thank you for coming on here. 963 00:36:54,121 --> 00:36:55,856 - Yeah, appreciate it. - We had a nice chat. 964 00:36:55,923 --> 00:36:57,257 - Thank you for inviting me. 965 00:36:57,324 --> 00:36:58,592 - It's a good vibe; it's a good vibe. 966 00:36:58,659 --> 00:37:00,127 - I love you guys. I had such a great time. 967 00:37:00,127 --> 00:37:01,461 We could do a picture. I think that would be cute. 968 00:37:01,528 --> 00:37:04,932 - All right, one, two... 969 00:37:05,065 --> 00:37:08,235 - Can we touch each other, or that's not allowed? 970 00:37:08,302 --> 00:37:11,205 [upbeat funky music] 971 00:37:11,271 --> 00:37:16,843 ♪ ♪ 972 00:37:16,910 --> 00:37:18,412 - I just got back home, and I'm glad 973 00:37:18,478 --> 00:37:20,214 I got to meet Chris and do the podcast, 974 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:23,183 even if it makes the situation with me complicated. 975 00:37:23,250 --> 00:37:25,085 - Mommy. 976 00:37:25,085 --> 00:37:26,386 Look. - Let me see. 977 00:37:26,453 --> 00:37:29,556 - I-I-I got money from the tooth fairy. 978 00:37:29,623 --> 00:37:30,757 - What? 979 00:37:30,824 --> 00:37:32,759 [indistinct] crazy. 980 00:37:32,826 --> 00:37:33,927 Where's [indistinct]? 981 00:37:33,994 --> 00:37:37,130 - She's upstairs. Get away. 982 00:37:37,197 --> 00:37:40,434 Off the [indistinct]. 983 00:37:40,500 --> 00:37:41,902 - Oh [bleep]. You're back. 984 00:37:41,969 --> 00:37:43,570 - Mm-hmm. - So how was it? 985 00:37:43,637 --> 00:37:45,639 - It was fun. I had a good time. 986 00:37:45,706 --> 00:37:47,641 It wasn't awkward, like, it was good vibes. 987 00:37:47,708 --> 00:37:49,409 So that was good, 'cause I was, like, nervous 988 00:37:49,476 --> 00:37:50,911 it was gonna be weird. 989 00:37:50,978 --> 00:37:52,913 - Did you talked to Javi about any of this? 990 00:37:52,980 --> 00:37:54,681 - What? Oh, I told Javi everything, 991 00:37:54,748 --> 00:37:57,217 like, where I went, what I was doing, like... 992 00:37:57,284 --> 00:37:59,720 - What did he say? - What can he say? 993 00:37:59,786 --> 00:38:02,122 - No, what did he say? It's not, what can he say? 994 00:38:02,189 --> 00:38:05,058 We know he can't say [bleep], but what did he say, 995 00:38:05,092 --> 00:38:06,260 'cause there a difference. 996 00:38:06,326 --> 00:38:07,895 - He told me that he didn't know 997 00:38:07,961 --> 00:38:10,664 I was doing all the extra stuff as far as, like, rage room. 998 00:38:10,731 --> 00:38:12,065 - What did you think of the podcast, though? 999 00:38:12,132 --> 00:38:14,268 Like, the whole concept of it? 1000 00:38:14,334 --> 00:38:15,836 - It was fine. - And you don't have to, 1001 00:38:15,903 --> 00:38:19,406 you know, be edited or watch what you say, right? 1002 00:38:19,473 --> 00:38:22,175 - Oh, yeah, we do gotta watch what we say, but... 1003 00:38:22,242 --> 00:38:23,443 - Why? 1004 00:38:23,510 --> 00:38:25,078 - 'Cause of Kail, girl. 1005 00:38:25,078 --> 00:38:28,482 - But no, I'm not trying to get under anybody's skin, 1006 00:38:28,549 --> 00:38:30,684 but I guess people would see it like that. 1007 00:38:30,751 --> 00:38:31,985 - Everything makes Kail upset. 1008 00:38:32,085 --> 00:38:34,321 Kail is never happy. She looks at people 1009 00:38:34,388 --> 00:38:36,490 I feel like as their [bleep] territory. 1010 00:38:36,557 --> 00:38:38,091 - She'll be all right. She'll get over it. 1011 00:38:38,091 --> 00:38:39,960 - We'll all be fine. We'll all get over it. 1012 00:38:40,093 --> 00:38:42,930 [funky music] 1013 00:38:42,996 --> 00:38:46,833 ♪ ♪ 1014 00:38:46,900 --> 00:38:48,101 - How you feel about the podcasts 1015 00:38:48,135 --> 00:38:49,536 we just did with Brianna? 1016 00:38:49,603 --> 00:38:51,572 - That join was cool, man. I feel like it'd be a pros 1017 00:38:51,638 --> 00:38:53,941 and cons with bringing Brianna on the podcast. 1018 00:38:54,007 --> 00:38:55,609 - Yeah. - I mean it's only one con 1019 00:38:55,676 --> 00:38:56,877 that I can really think about. - Pissing Kail off, right? 1020 00:38:56,944 --> 00:38:58,345 - Yeah. - Kail's not gonna like it off 1021 00:38:58,412 --> 00:39:00,881 the fact that it's just Briana. That's it. 1022 00:39:00,948 --> 00:39:03,050 It's just, like, if I post certain things I know 1023 00:39:03,050 --> 00:39:04,218 it's gonna get a reaction; 1024 00:39:04,284 --> 00:39:05,719 I gotta be ready for that, you know? 1025 00:39:05,786 --> 00:39:07,187 - You think it's gonna start some fireworks. 1026 00:39:07,254 --> 00:39:08,822 - All right, I'ma just put it like this, you know how 1027 00:39:08,889 --> 00:39:11,625 the fireworks that shoot up really high and they explode? 1028 00:39:11,692 --> 00:39:13,093 - Yeah. - It's a really good show. 1029 00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,128 This is it. That is all. 1030 00:39:15,195 --> 00:39:18,131 [light music] 1031 00:39:18,198 --> 00:39:22,536 ♪ ♪ 1032 00:39:22,603 --> 00:39:29,276 - ♪ It begins now ♪ 1033 00:39:29,343 --> 00:39:35,082 ♪ Now ♪ 1034 00:39:35,082 --> 00:39:38,819 ♪ I will be back ♪ 1035 00:39:38,886 --> 00:39:40,454 ♪ ♪ 1036 00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,423 ♪ Ready for the fun ♪ 1037 00:39:43,490 --> 00:39:47,294 ♪ Its begins now ♪ 1038 00:39:47,361 --> 00:39:50,163 ♪ Everything is happening ♪ 1039 00:39:50,230 --> 00:39:56,537 ♪ Now ♪ 1040 00:39:56,603 --> 00:40:01,108 ♪ This is the start ♪ 1041 00:40:01,174 --> 00:40:06,046 ♪ Where it all begins ♪ 1042 00:40:06,113 --> 00:40:09,316 ♪ Ooh-ooh ♪ 1043 00:40:09,383 --> 00:40:12,085 ♪ It begins now ♪ 1044 00:40:14,504 --> 00:40:16,406 - So how's the dating going? Jaylan. 1045 00:40:16,472 --> 00:40:18,775 - He knows I have three kids. - Yeah, I 'cause he has none. 1046 00:40:18,841 --> 00:40:20,543 - I'm--I'm planning to make us 1047 00:40:20,610 --> 00:40:23,413 co-inhabiting this house as smooth as possible. 1048 00:40:25,815 --> 00:40:27,016 - What happened to you and Javi? 1049 00:40:27,083 --> 00:40:30,753 - Me going to do a podcast was an issue. 1050 00:40:30,820 --> 00:40:32,789 I don't think I wanna talk to him ever again. 1051 00:40:32,855 --> 00:40:34,324 - I might have to tell you something. 1052 00:40:34,390 --> 00:40:35,992 I'm going jail, so... 1053 00:40:36,059 --> 00:40:37,026 - Uh-oh.