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- You know, I think I'm gonna
have to cancel
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the engagement party.
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- I got a DUI hella long ago.
- Right.
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- So they threw me
on this ankle bracelet.
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This [bleep] right here.
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- Oh, that's no bueno.
- So--
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- Ooh!
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Yeah, I think
we should go to Napa.
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We always thought about going.
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- We've been talking
about going to Napa
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since we got here.
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- We never go.
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- So you start school
tomorrow?
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- Yep.
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- I'm the principal, teacher,
and mother, okay?
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- Now what's the level
of discipline
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when they're at home?
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- Nothing.
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I can tell you that right now.
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- I don't even know
where my iPod is, Dad.
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- I think Isaac
found his passion.
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He wants to write.
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I'm doing a wallpaper line.
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And I asked them
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if you could do
a line of your own.
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So how do you feel about that?
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- Nervous.
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- City of Miami 911.
What is your emergency?
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- My friend just had
plastic surgery this morning.
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to go get her
pain prescriptions disappeared,
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and I don't know
if they're coming back.
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And I think she's having, like,
a really bad panic attack.
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- [coughing]
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- I saw, like, open,
like, wounds here.
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Like, she is just--
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- Yes.
And I can't touch her.
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So I'm trying my very best.
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So thank God
we went to see her.
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She is stable now.
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She went to go get
a checkup today.
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They said she went.
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So I don't know
what's going on right now.
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I don't--I don't know.
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- Back up, dude.
Get those cameras off me, man.
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- So did Sean
hit Corey tonight?
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- Yes.
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They hit each other.
It was mutual combat.
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- And I just let him know,
I was like,
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"Look, dude, next time
my daughter comes at me saying
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"that you're doing something
that she doesn't like,
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I'm gonna have to kick
your [bleep] ass."
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And he didn't like that
I said that, so he attacked me.
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♪ ♪
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[dramatic music]
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♪ ♪
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- So I just had my surgery
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a few days ago.
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And I haven't felt good enough
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to really even document
everything.
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It's just been
the worst recovery
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I could have ever imagined.
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I wouldn't wish this
on my worst enemy.
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Sean and my parents
are fighting
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because Sean's saying
my parents
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aren't doing anything to help,
which they really are not.
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I've had a panic attack
almost every day.
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But I'm just ready to go home
because I want to just put
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this whole situation
behind me.
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And I'm hoping that my doctor
can clear me to fly
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so I can go back home
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and be in my own bed
and be somewhere more peaceful.
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- I haven't heard from Luis
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since he bailed
on Stella yesterday.
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But Sean just called me,
and I'm worried about Jade.
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So I'm gonna go check on her.
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Give me a kiss.
Give me a kiss.
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- Mama.
- I see.
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- I put marker in this.
- You put marker in it?
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- I'm gonna take a quick trip
back to Miami.
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Sean asked for help.
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- How is she?
- Terrible.
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Sean told me that the reason
why she's not healing
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the way
she's supposed to be healing
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is 'cause
she's under too much stress.
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Supposedly, the dad and Sean
got into a fistfight.
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And Jade jumped out of bed
trying to fix the situation.
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- What the [bleep]?
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- The only person
that she can really count on
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is herself and Sean.
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But Sean is torn
between the kid--
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- Running after the baby
and then watching her.
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- So it's not that
he's not doing nothing.
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It's just he has
to prioritize the baby.
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- It's just too much.
- Yeah.
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- He has too much on his hands.
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- So who is there
with them now?
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- The mom is there,
the dad is there,
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and the baby's still there,
and Sean.
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But the mom is not helping
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like Jade thought she was gonna
be there to help.
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That's what Sean
told me at least.
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They want to leave,
like, tonight,
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when I think it's the most--
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not the greatest decision
in the world to leave tonight.
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- How is she gonna go
back home?
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- Flying.
- [gasps]
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- Oh, my God.
If she's my daughter,
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I would tell her,
"No, you're not flying."
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No way, the altitude,
blood clots, no way.
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Talk some sense into them
and let them understand
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the severity of her situation.
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It's [bleep] dangerous.
Let her know the truth.
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- I'm gonna try
to convince them to stay.
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- You coming back today
or tomorrow?
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- Probably tonight.
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I'm not trying
to stay the night.
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- No, you have to come tonight.
Don't touch body fluids.
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- Oh, no. We know.
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- Right now, that household
is just a little bit too much
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for her to be in.
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I just want to be there for her
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and make her situation
less hectic as I can.
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And I want her to relax.
I want her to be okay.
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I want her to not have
to worry about anything.
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I just feel like I need to go
down there and rescue her.
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- All the girls are still
doing remote learning
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since we are being
extra cautious with COVID
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because of Ali's health.
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But lately, Addie has been
struggling at home.
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And I'm worried about
the effects
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it's having on her schoolwork.
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- Keller. Helen Keller.
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Oh, puppy.
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♪ ♪
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- Are you focused?
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You're distracted?
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[sighs]
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Is school at home tough?
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- Mm-hmm.
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- Are there a lot
of distractions?
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- Mm-hmm.
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- Mm-hmm.
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Do you think
that you would learn better
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if you were in school?
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- Hmm?
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- Do you think you would learn
better if you were in school?
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- Yeah. Why?
- Yeah? All right.
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Well, let me know when you're
finished with that story, okay?
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It's only taken you forever.
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[cats purr and meow]
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- Can y'all shut up?
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- ♪ It's not that
I didn't try ♪
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♪ 'Cause I did try my best ♪
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- Hello?
- Hey.
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- Hey, what's up?
- Nothing. What you doing?
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- Just had some lunch.
What's going on?
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- Addie is really struggling
with remote learning.
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- Really?
- Yeah.
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Her energy level
is always on high.
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So she definitely
needs stimulation,
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like, in a school setting
rather--
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you know what, I just--
maybe that's what it is.
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I think I just have
to call the principal
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and get some suggestions
on what she think is best.
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- I wonder how Addie
will feel about it.
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Have you asked her yet?
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- I honestly think
that she'll feel relieved
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because I think it's putting
a lot of pressure on her
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to get--you know,
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to make good grades
and to understand this
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and to find this app
and to submit this assignment.
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It's almost like her home life
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and her educational environment
is meshing together.
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And it's becoming
super confusing for her.
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And she's just getting
easily distracted.
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[trills]
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Well, I guess I'll call
the school
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and see how we can get Addie
back into in-person learning.
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I thought about it.
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Do I really want
to send her back?
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What if there's another,
you know, COVID case
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or there's an outbreak?
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Of course, Ali has,
you know, a health condition.
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But all of the teachers
have been vaccinated.
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Also, the cases in our state
have been going down.
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I am confident that the school
has been following
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all the necessary precautions
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to keep our family safe
and our community safe.
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Honestly, the hardest part
is trying to navigate
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what is best
for their physical health
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and their mental health.
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- ♪ I don't want
to care anymore ♪
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♪ Yeah, it's true
it was good before ♪
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♪ But I don't want to,
I don't want to care ♪
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- How are you?
How was your dad's?
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Yeah?
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Come give me hugs.
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Why are you--
oh, you're so--okay.
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I've noticed some changes
in my body lately.
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And it's been hard.
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I'm having
super, super heavy periods.
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And I'm having
these new challenges
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with not being able
to lose weight
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and trying to eat right.
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I've decreased my calories.
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I've changed what I eat,
try to work out.
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You know, in the past,
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I've never really had an issue
with losing weight.
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And the comments online
have been harsh.
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- ♪ If I turn off the light,
will it hide the truth ♪
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♪ That I'm thinkin'
about you ♪
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- I went to the doctor
earlier this week,
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and now I'm waiting
for the test results.
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- Brother, will you come
outside with me?
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- I had to get bloodwork done
and ultrasound done
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to try to figure out
what's going on.
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It's been an emotional
roller coaster for me
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because, you know,
I go through weeks
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and sometimes months
doing the right thing,
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and I'm not even dropping
a single pound.
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And so then I also have
heavy periods,
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and then I can't sleep.
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And so there's just
so many things
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that I can't--I can't control.
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- ♪ But I don't want
to care anymore ♪
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♪ Stop making it hard for me ♪
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♪ So hard for me ♪
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[Le Trouble's
"How Was I To Know"]
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- ♪ Baby, we did it our way ♪
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- We're dropping Holly off
with my mom
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because now that Bar has
his ankle monitor off,
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we can celebrate
our engagement.
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He hasn't had a drink
in over a year,
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so I hope
he'll be responsible.
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- You cannot tell me he is not
[inaudible] right now.
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- Damn all that
[bleep] [bleep].
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- Knock, Knock.
- Knock, knock. Open sesame.
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- Hey, hey, hey.
- Who's there? It's me.
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- It's us.
- Open ses.
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- Hey.
- What? This is my house too.
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- You come through the door
like the Task Force.
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Geesh!
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So what's the plan
with you guys?
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- So what's up?
- Napa.
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- Napa.
- Only old people go to Napa.
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- No, we've been talking about
Napa since we got together.
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- Okay.
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- We been talking about
going out to Napa,
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but we just ain't never did.
252
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- Okay.
- So now we doin' it.
253
00:10:10,210 --> 00:10:11,977
- Okay.
So this is what I do know.
254
00:10:12,045 --> 00:10:15,880
Now you goin' out, how you feel
about being off the monitor
255
00:10:15,949 --> 00:10:18,149
and you free to do whatever?
- I ain't worried about it.
256
00:10:18,218 --> 00:10:19,985
I thought I was gonna be
worried like, "Damn, all right,
257
00:10:20,053 --> 00:10:22,253
"now the ankle monitor off,
am I gonna--
258
00:10:22,322 --> 00:10:24,055
"is it gonna immediately pop
back in my head, like, drink,
259
00:10:24,124 --> 00:10:25,957
drink, drink, drink, drink?"
But no, it didn't.
260
00:10:26,026 --> 00:10:29,494
- Well, drink responsibly
if you do decide to drink.
261
00:10:29,563 --> 00:10:32,564
- Yeah. I'm actually genuinely
excited to go find a good wine.
262
00:10:32,633 --> 00:10:34,132
- Taste wine. Yeah, me too.
263
00:10:34,201 --> 00:10:35,867
- To find a food wine
'cause I know, like, two wines
264
00:10:35,936 --> 00:10:37,636
that I like,
but like, real talk,
265
00:10:37,704 --> 00:10:40,238
I really don't got no interest
in hard alcohol.
266
00:10:40,307 --> 00:10:42,073
- But the monitor been off
and he ain't drink nothing.
267
00:10:42,142 --> 00:10:44,009
- But with all respect, though,
I haven't seen you drink.
268
00:10:44,077 --> 00:10:45,477
I haven't seen you
drink at all.
269
00:10:45,545 --> 00:10:46,911
- You know when
I was drinking [bleep].
270
00:10:46,980 --> 00:10:48,947
It wasn't easy to hide [bleep].
271
00:10:49,016 --> 00:10:49,948
- But I tell you
a lot of people
272
00:10:50,017 --> 00:10:51,349
done get on that ankle monitor
273
00:10:51,418 --> 00:10:52,584
and really do it
for a whole year.
274
00:10:52,653 --> 00:10:53,952
- So--
- I know a couple people
275
00:10:54,021 --> 00:10:55,387
that ended up violating,
like, a couple times.
276
00:10:55,455 --> 00:10:57,288
- He did it for a whole year
without one hiccup.
277
00:10:57,357 --> 00:10:59,691
- Okay, so I hope
you guys do have fun though.
278
00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:03,895
Whatever you guys decide to do,
stay safe, stay out of trouble.
279
00:11:03,964 --> 00:11:05,430
- I'm getting into all
the trouble
280
00:11:05,499 --> 00:11:07,565
with a capital "Troub."
281
00:11:07,634 --> 00:11:08,667
- I'm not.
282
00:11:08,735 --> 00:11:10,669
- Thank you.
- [laughs]
283
00:11:10,737 --> 00:11:12,604
- I'm kind of excited to,
284
00:11:12,673 --> 00:11:14,673
I guess, enjoy alcohol
with him again.
285
00:11:14,741 --> 00:11:16,141
We're young.
286
00:11:16,209 --> 00:11:17,842
We obviously want
to go to bars.
287
00:11:17,911 --> 00:11:19,310
We hang out
with our friends who drink.
288
00:11:19,379 --> 00:11:23,248
And so it's just really hard
to maintain that line
289
00:11:23,316 --> 00:11:24,716
of what's appropriate.
290
00:11:24,785 --> 00:11:26,918
But I don't see him
going overboard.
291
00:11:26,987 --> 00:11:28,920
Not only has Bar
seen the consequences
292
00:11:28,989 --> 00:11:31,022
of what drinking can do,
but I also feel like
293
00:11:31,091 --> 00:11:33,391
he's genuinely
felt the consequence,
294
00:11:33,460 --> 00:11:36,761
like me leaving him,
him not having his family.
295
00:11:36,830 --> 00:11:40,765
So I hope that, together,
we're able to kind of navigate
296
00:11:40,834 --> 00:11:43,702
what this ankle monitor
being off means.
297
00:11:43,770 --> 00:11:46,538
[High Tropics' "Waterfalls"]
- ♪ And I hope that I see ♪
298
00:11:46,606 --> 00:11:48,173
♪ The sunshine ♪
299
00:11:48,241 --> 00:11:51,743
♪ I hope that I see
the sunshine ♪
300
00:11:51,812 --> 00:11:54,546
- Hola.
- Hey.
301
00:11:54,614 --> 00:11:56,448
- How is she?
- Sleeping, finally.
302
00:11:56,516 --> 00:11:58,049
- Sleeping? That's good.
- Yeah.
303
00:11:58,118 --> 00:12:00,585
Just trying to get [bleep]
cleaned up, you know?
304
00:12:00,654 --> 00:12:02,053
- You guys are still
leaving tonight?
305
00:12:02,122 --> 00:12:03,321
- Yeah.
306
00:12:03,390 --> 00:12:04,789
- [groans]
- Yep.
307
00:12:04,858 --> 00:12:06,491
It's a straight-through flight.
We're in first class.
308
00:12:06,560 --> 00:12:07,892
So she's got leg room.
309
00:12:07,961 --> 00:12:09,627
And, like, the doctor wants me
getting up
310
00:12:09,696 --> 00:12:11,830
and walking her
every so often on the flight
311
00:12:11,898 --> 00:12:13,398
'cause, I mean,
312
00:12:13,467 --> 00:12:15,266
it's only, like, an hour
and a half straight through.
313
00:12:15,335 --> 00:12:17,102
But yeah, you're more
than welcome to go in there.
314
00:12:17,170 --> 00:12:18,336
- Okay.
315
00:12:21,408 --> 00:12:23,675
Hi.
316
00:12:23,744 --> 00:12:26,644
How are you, beautiful girl?
Where's her mom?
317
00:12:26,713 --> 00:12:27,846
- Out back.
318
00:12:27,914 --> 00:12:29,347
- How's that going?
- Good.
319
00:12:29,416 --> 00:12:30,815
Just they're her out there,
you know, like--
320
00:12:30,884 --> 00:12:33,218
- Yeah, they're just out there.
321
00:12:33,286 --> 00:12:34,319
- Yeah.
322
00:12:34,387 --> 00:12:36,020
- Do you think
it's the safest thing
323
00:12:36,089 --> 00:12:38,056
to leave tonight?
324
00:12:38,125 --> 00:12:40,158
- I don't see it being
a problem 'cause it's got--
325
00:12:40,227 --> 00:12:43,361
- You want to know what
my concern is about her flying
326
00:12:43,430 --> 00:12:44,963
is, when I had surgery done,
327
00:12:45,031 --> 00:12:49,100
my doctor didn't want me
traveling for two weeks
328
00:12:49,169 --> 00:12:50,869
just because of,
329
00:12:50,937 --> 00:12:53,071
you know, possible blood clots
and, you know--
330
00:12:53,140 --> 00:12:54,539
- Right.
I mean, he cleared her.
331
00:12:54,608 --> 00:12:57,041
- She could die, you know?
- He cleared her, you know?
332
00:12:57,110 --> 00:12:59,344
Like, I don't think he would
let her if he thought her life
333
00:12:59,412 --> 00:13:00,979
was in danger, you know?
334
00:13:04,351 --> 00:13:06,050
I don't have
any bad feelings about it.
335
00:13:06,119 --> 00:13:08,953
Usually if something--I have
a bad feeling about something
336
00:13:09,022 --> 00:13:10,321
if we shouldn't do it.
337
00:13:10,390 --> 00:13:12,891
But I haven't had
a bad feeling about it, so...
338
00:13:15,862 --> 00:13:17,262
- Okay.
- She said no cameras.
339
00:13:17,330 --> 00:13:19,364
Absolutely no.
340
00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:23,635
- Hi, beautiful girl.
You look so much better.
341
00:13:23,703 --> 00:13:25,003
- Hello.
342
00:13:25,071 --> 00:13:26,704
- Mummy.
343
00:13:26,773 --> 00:13:28,740
- You look like
you have color.
344
00:13:31,444 --> 00:13:33,711
- Girl, we told you to hit us
up if you needed anything.
345
00:13:33,780 --> 00:13:34,979
- You could have texted me.
346
00:13:35,048 --> 00:13:36,748
We would have been
here for you.
347
00:13:41,621 --> 00:13:43,254
- Girl, we're worried
about you flying.
348
00:13:43,323 --> 00:13:45,857
- Do you know the risk of you
flying with a blood clot?
349
00:13:45,926 --> 00:13:47,225
You know that you can die?
350
00:13:47,294 --> 00:13:48,860
- I don't know what to do
'cause I feel like
351
00:13:48,929 --> 00:13:50,228
don't nobody give a [bleep]
about me.
352
00:13:50,297 --> 00:13:51,930
- Girl, that's why
we're telling you to stay.
353
00:13:51,998 --> 00:13:54,265
- Jade, stay.
354
00:13:54,334 --> 00:13:56,467
Sean can take care
of the baby at home.
355
00:13:56,536 --> 00:13:57,869
You come to my house.
356
00:13:57,938 --> 00:14:00,371
Do you want to come
to my house?
357
00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,140
- I'm just scared to fly now
'cause I feel like
358
00:14:02,209 --> 00:14:05,109
you're telling me, like,
I'm gonna die or something.
359
00:14:05,178 --> 00:14:06,878
- You have clean beds,
clean sheets,
360
00:14:06,947 --> 00:14:08,279
clean towels, TV,
361
00:14:08,348 --> 00:14:11,950
Wi-Fi, food,
everything you need at home.
362
00:14:13,086 --> 00:14:14,419
- You're not.
Girl, you're not.
363
00:14:14,487 --> 00:14:17,288
- I have a walk-in shower.
I have a walk-in shower.
364
00:14:17,357 --> 00:14:19,524
You will be fine.
Come to my house.
365
00:14:19,593 --> 00:14:22,060
That's it. You're not leaving.
You're gonna come to my house.
366
00:14:24,097 --> 00:14:25,630
Briana wants me
to go home with her.
367
00:14:25,699 --> 00:14:27,966
She's like--she said
the risk of flying. Tell him--
368
00:14:28,034 --> 00:14:29,167
- We can take her.
- Tell him the risk.
369
00:14:29,236 --> 00:14:30,134
- We were talking
to him earlier.
370
00:14:30,203 --> 00:14:31,236
We can take her home.
371
00:14:31,304 --> 00:14:32,871
- Well, I'm not
gonna leave her.
372
00:14:32,939 --> 00:14:34,672
What kind of boyfriend would I
be if I left you out here?
373
00:14:34,741 --> 00:14:36,174
- I would rather you just go.
- You're not gonna leave her.
374
00:14:36,243 --> 00:14:37,308
You're not gonna
leave her alone.
375
00:14:37,377 --> 00:14:38,776
You're gonna leave her
with us.
376
00:14:38,845 --> 00:14:40,211
- And I'm scared now to fly
377
00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:41,813
'cause she's, like, saying
there's all these risks.
378
00:14:41,882 --> 00:14:43,147
- I feel like a piece
of [bleep]
379
00:14:43,216 --> 00:14:44,616
because I couldn't
care for you.
380
00:14:44,684 --> 00:14:45,884
- But you're taking care of--
381
00:14:45,952 --> 00:14:47,518
you're taking care
of your child.
382
00:14:47,587 --> 00:14:49,354
- The baby and you're taking
care of her indirectly
383
00:14:49,422 --> 00:14:51,089
because you're taking
all that stress off her.
384
00:14:51,157 --> 00:14:52,557
You're taking
all the pressure off of her.
385
00:14:52,626 --> 00:14:55,026
- And you guys know
what she's going through.
386
00:14:55,095 --> 00:14:56,794
- We've been through it a lot.
387
00:14:56,863 --> 00:14:58,429
This is, what, my third,
fourth surgery.
388
00:14:58,498 --> 00:15:00,031
So don't feel like you're
gonna be a burden on anybody
389
00:15:00,100 --> 00:15:01,499
because she brought it up.
390
00:15:01,568 --> 00:15:03,067
- Yeah, you're not
'cause the doors are open.
391
00:15:03,136 --> 00:15:04,402
- She understood when I
told her you're not leaving.
392
00:15:04,471 --> 00:15:05,270
She wants to see you.
393
00:15:05,338 --> 00:15:06,504
- Hi, Mommy.
- Hi, baby.
394
00:15:06,573 --> 00:15:08,439
- Are you sick?
- Yeah.
395
00:15:08,508 --> 00:15:10,575
Okay, I'll go...
396
00:15:10,644 --> 00:15:13,611
[dramatic music]
397
00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:17,048
♪ ♪
398
00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:22,487
[Layup's "Run All the Way"]
399
00:15:22,555 --> 00:15:26,090
- ♪ I'm gonna run
a long time ♪
400
00:15:26,159 --> 00:15:28,259
- We made the decision
to keep everyone home
401
00:15:28,328 --> 00:15:30,561
for remote learning
a few months ago.
402
00:15:30,630 --> 00:15:32,797
But since the schools
are a lot safer now,
403
00:15:32,866 --> 00:15:36,000
it might be better for Addie
to go back in person.
404
00:15:36,069 --> 00:15:39,938
[line ringing]
405
00:15:40,006 --> 00:15:43,474
Hi, this is Leah Messer,
Adalynn Calvert's mom.
406
00:15:44,477 --> 00:15:48,446
Yeah, I know, we're struggling
a little bit with e-learning.
407
00:15:48,515 --> 00:15:50,448
Bring her in when?
408
00:15:50,517 --> 00:15:53,685
The same requirements--
or same guidelines?
409
00:15:53,753 --> 00:15:55,119
Yeah. All right.
410
00:15:55,188 --> 00:15:57,388
Well, we will see
you guys tomorrow.
411
00:15:57,457 --> 00:15:59,023
Thank you.
412
00:15:59,092 --> 00:16:01,826
All right, bye.
413
00:16:01,895 --> 00:16:03,895
That was easier than I thought.
414
00:16:03,964 --> 00:16:05,863
[bleep] going to school
tomorrow!
415
00:16:05,932 --> 00:16:07,865
Ayy!
[laughs]
416
00:16:07,934 --> 00:16:09,734
I--I love her. I love her.
417
00:16:09,803 --> 00:16:11,202
But she has had a really--
418
00:16:11,271 --> 00:16:13,805
extremely difficult time
focusing.
419
00:16:13,873 --> 00:16:16,007
It's definitely been hard
to navigate what is best
420
00:16:16,076 --> 00:16:18,242
for all of our health
421
00:16:18,311 --> 00:16:21,646
and making sure that they're
also getting a good education.
422
00:16:21,715 --> 00:16:24,482
I think that's something that
a lot of parents can relate to,
423
00:16:24,551 --> 00:16:26,184
really, like,
what's the right decision,
424
00:16:26,252 --> 00:16:27,819
because there's been
so many times
425
00:16:27,887 --> 00:16:31,122
it's been kind of, like,
up in the air, like--
426
00:16:32,492 --> 00:16:34,292
- Okay, ready?
427
00:16:34,361 --> 00:16:36,661
- Make your grand appearance,
and I'll--
428
00:16:36,730 --> 00:16:39,130
- [laughs]
429
00:16:39,199 --> 00:16:41,866
- Okay!
430
00:16:41,935 --> 00:16:44,068
Guess what.
I got a surprise to tell you.
431
00:16:44,137 --> 00:16:45,770
Do you want to know
the surprise?
432
00:16:45,839 --> 00:16:47,005
- Yeah.
433
00:16:47,073 --> 00:16:49,007
- I'm taking your butt
to school tomorrow
434
00:16:49,075 --> 00:16:52,110
so you can really learn,
really get some work done.
435
00:16:52,178 --> 00:16:54,512
And we have to be there
by 6:45.
436
00:16:54,581 --> 00:16:56,714
So you're gonna follow
the guidelines
437
00:16:56,783 --> 00:16:57,949
if I let you go back to school?
438
00:16:58,018 --> 00:16:59,417
- Yeah.
- Yeah?
439
00:16:59,486 --> 00:17:02,286
Why is it important
that you stay safe at school?
440
00:17:02,355 --> 00:17:04,756
- So I don't bring
nothing back to sissies.
441
00:17:04,824 --> 00:17:07,225
- Yeah. Or anyone.
We don't want to infect anyone.
442
00:17:07,293 --> 00:17:08,326
- Mm-hmm.
443
00:17:08,395 --> 00:17:09,927
- So you're gonna do your part
at school?
444
00:17:09,996 --> 00:17:11,329
Pinky promise?
445
00:17:11,398 --> 00:17:14,365
[upbeat music]
446
00:17:14,434 --> 00:17:16,100
♪ ♪
447
00:17:16,169 --> 00:17:18,569
[relaxed music]
448
00:17:18,638 --> 00:17:20,405
- I got my test results back
from the bloodwork
449
00:17:20,473 --> 00:17:21,806
and ultrasound.
450
00:17:21,875 --> 00:17:23,307
It's a lot to process,
451
00:17:23,376 --> 00:17:25,143
but I'm recording a podcast
with Lindsie today,
452
00:17:25,211 --> 00:17:28,046
and I think I'm ready
to talk about it.
453
00:17:28,114 --> 00:17:29,347
Okay, recording.
454
00:17:29,416 --> 00:17:31,315
All right, everyone, we're back
455
00:17:31,384 --> 00:17:34,152
with another episode
of "Coffee Convos Podcast."
456
00:17:34,220 --> 00:17:36,721
And today,
we are podcasting from--
457
00:17:36,790 --> 00:17:38,523
- Philadelphia.
- Pennsylvania.
458
00:17:38,591 --> 00:17:40,725
Okay, so I think
we've just prefaced this
459
00:17:40,794 --> 00:17:42,360
by saying you guys convinced me
460
00:17:42,429 --> 00:17:44,729
to go get my period problem
checked out.
461
00:17:44,798 --> 00:17:46,597
I scheduled with my GYN.
462
00:17:46,666 --> 00:17:49,934
In the ultrasound, he found,
on my right ovary,
463
00:17:50,003 --> 00:17:53,037
I had multiple cysts,
almost ten.
464
00:17:53,106 --> 00:17:54,605
And then on the right ovary,
465
00:17:54,674 --> 00:17:58,776
he found a cyst that was
half the size of my ovary.
466
00:17:58,845 --> 00:18:01,813
- Wow.
- In the, like, notes...
467
00:18:01,881 --> 00:18:03,081
- Mm-hmm.
468
00:18:03,149 --> 00:18:05,550
- Polycystic ovarian syndrome.
469
00:18:05,618 --> 00:18:07,552
[solemn music]
470
00:18:07,620 --> 00:18:09,253
- What is PCOS?
471
00:18:09,322 --> 00:18:11,089
- Some people have trouble
getting pregnant on it.
472
00:18:11,157 --> 00:18:12,256
It affects fertility.
473
00:18:12,325 --> 00:18:14,459
It affects
your insulin resistance.
474
00:18:14,527 --> 00:18:17,528
You're predisposed to diabetes
and other things,
475
00:18:17,597 --> 00:18:19,097
heart disease.
476
00:18:19,165 --> 00:18:22,800
And it can be very,
very difficult for people
477
00:18:22,869 --> 00:18:24,168
who have PCOS to lose weight.
478
00:18:24,237 --> 00:18:25,536
- And then, like,
how long does it take
479
00:18:25,605 --> 00:18:27,505
to develop something like this?
Like, is it--
480
00:18:27,574 --> 00:18:29,140
- I think it's unknown.
481
00:18:29,209 --> 00:18:31,275
But yeah, it's been--
it's been a rough little ride
482
00:18:31,344 --> 00:18:33,111
for this little period
of my life.
483
00:18:33,179 --> 00:18:34,745
But I want to get it
under control.
484
00:18:34,814 --> 00:18:36,214
And I want to focus on that.
485
00:18:36,282 --> 00:18:38,282
But like, yes,
I have four kids,
486
00:18:38,351 --> 00:18:39,817
I don't really fit
the criteria,
487
00:18:39,886 --> 00:18:41,452
but I want to do egg freezing
488
00:18:41,521 --> 00:18:44,388
because I may not be able
to conceive naturally now
489
00:18:44,457 --> 00:18:46,324
that I have it diagnosed--
like, I know.
490
00:18:46,392 --> 00:18:48,626
I feel like it's easy
for anyone to say, like,
491
00:18:48,695 --> 00:18:50,728
"Oh, I'm choosing
to be done having kids."
492
00:18:50,797 --> 00:18:52,263
- Mm-hmm.
493
00:18:52,332 --> 00:18:54,065
- But when the option
is completely taken from you,
494
00:18:54,134 --> 00:18:55,433
and I'm not saying
it has for me,
495
00:18:55,502 --> 00:18:57,268
but I feel like I'm speaking
for a lot of people,
496
00:18:57,337 --> 00:19:01,205
like, it feels like
it's not fair.
497
00:19:01,274 --> 00:19:04,375
I will say the comments
that I get about my weight gain
498
00:19:04,444 --> 00:19:06,644
on social media and being
on the show and stuff,
499
00:19:06,713 --> 00:19:10,214
like, that has been the hardest
part for me because--
500
00:19:10,283 --> 00:19:12,984
- It's out of your control.
- Yes.
501
00:19:13,052 --> 00:19:15,052
- You would be like,
502
00:19:15,121 --> 00:19:17,054
"I am doing these hard workouts
and I'm"...
503
00:19:17,123 --> 00:19:20,024
both: I'm not dropping
one single pound.
504
00:19:20,093 --> 00:19:21,225
- And that's where
I get emotional
505
00:19:21,294 --> 00:19:23,494
'cause it's like--
506
00:19:23,563 --> 00:19:25,129
and so when people comment
and they're like,
507
00:19:25,198 --> 00:19:26,697
"Oh, pig, cow,
this, that, and third,"
508
00:19:26,766 --> 00:19:31,002
I'm like, "Well, [bleep].
Like I--do I get surgery?
509
00:19:31,070 --> 00:19:34,272
Do I--like, what is wrong with
me that I can't lose weight?"
510
00:19:34,340 --> 00:19:36,207
Those workouts,
I was, like, dreading.
511
00:19:36,276 --> 00:19:37,542
- 'Cause it wasn't
sustainable for you.
512
00:19:38,611 --> 00:19:39,911
And then I'm trying
- Nto eat healthy,at.
513
00:19:39,979 --> 00:19:41,112
and I don't normally eat
these things,
514
00:19:41,181 --> 00:19:42,580
and, like, the comments
on Instagram--
515
00:19:42,649 --> 00:19:44,415
and I know that, like,
my friends and stuff, like,
516
00:19:44,484 --> 00:19:46,250
they've noticed
the weight gain.
517
00:19:46,319 --> 00:19:48,386
You can't--it's undeniable
and it's not something
518
00:19:48,454 --> 00:19:49,654
I've been able to control.
519
00:19:49,722 --> 00:19:51,122
I've tried.
520
00:19:51,191 --> 00:19:54,091
[somber music]
521
00:19:54,160 --> 00:20:01,299
♪ ♪
522
00:20:04,270 --> 00:20:06,337
[ROOMATE's "Good Life"]
523
00:20:06,406 --> 00:20:09,207
- ♪ We got the good life ♪
524
00:20:09,275 --> 00:20:12,009
♪ Heading for the blue skies ♪
525
00:20:12,078 --> 00:20:14,378
- We got to Napa last night
and met up with our friends.
526
00:20:14,447 --> 00:20:15,746
It's nice to be able
527
00:20:15,815 --> 00:20:18,583
to celebrate
our engagement like this.
528
00:20:18,651 --> 00:20:21,519
Okay, let's make sure we're
pouring all the same wines.
529
00:20:21,588 --> 00:20:22,987
- Okay.
- We all got the same tastes.
530
00:20:23,056 --> 00:20:24,722
- Got you.
531
00:20:24,791 --> 00:20:26,023
both: Okay.
- Okay.
532
00:20:30,730 --> 00:20:32,063
- Okay.
- Okay.
533
00:20:32,131 --> 00:20:34,932
- Ooh-hoo-hoo! Swirl it.
- I can't smell it.
534
00:20:35,001 --> 00:20:36,067
- You don't even have ice
in yours.
535
00:20:36,135 --> 00:20:37,301
- I'm just kidding.
I don't know.
536
00:20:37,370 --> 00:20:39,870
I don't know if you're
supposed to swirl it.
537
00:20:39,939 --> 00:20:41,372
So...
- Yo.
538
00:20:41,441 --> 00:20:43,407
- Tastes like grapes.
Definitely grapes in it. Next.
539
00:20:43,476 --> 00:20:44,542
[laughter]
540
00:20:44,611 --> 00:20:45,910
I feel like I just took a shot.
541
00:20:45,979 --> 00:20:48,212
- Better than that beer.
I'm drunk.
542
00:20:48,281 --> 00:20:49,780
- I'm not gonna lie, though,
but I'ma be honest,
543
00:20:49,849 --> 00:20:51,649
like, I'm not typically
a extreme fan
544
00:20:51,718 --> 00:20:52,950
of Chardonnay though.
545
00:20:53,019 --> 00:20:55,720
- Me either.
- It's dry as hell.
546
00:20:55,788 --> 00:20:57,655
Mmm.
- You like it?
547
00:20:57,724 --> 00:20:58,923
- It's not horrible.
It's not horrible.
548
00:20:58,992 --> 00:21:00,725
- Here goes nothing.
549
00:21:00,793 --> 00:21:04,028
- I'm not gonna lie, yo,
I got--I'm cool, bro.
550
00:21:04,097 --> 00:21:05,596
Like, I'm taking it slow, bro.
551
00:21:05,665 --> 00:21:07,131
- And it's been a minute.
- Your tolerance's lower.
552
00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:08,299
- If you take a break
like that...
553
00:21:08,368 --> 00:21:09,467
- Yeah, my tolerance is trash.
554
00:21:09,535 --> 00:21:11,402
- Your tolerance drop for sure.
555
00:21:11,471 --> 00:21:13,938
- 'Cause when we started--when
I started drinking the wine,
556
00:21:14,007 --> 00:21:15,973
when we first got here,
I got a little tipsy from it.
557
00:21:16,042 --> 00:21:17,408
Not like--I wasn't drunk,
but it was like--
558
00:21:17,477 --> 00:21:19,010
- That wine from the gondola
got me tipsy.
559
00:21:19,078 --> 00:21:20,344
- It was quick.
560
00:21:20,413 --> 00:21:22,480
- That red wine in the gondola?
- Oh, yeah.
561
00:21:22,548 --> 00:21:24,649
- I used to drink a lot
of Hennessy.
562
00:21:24,717 --> 00:21:26,350
Hennessy was actually
one of the alcohols that--
563
00:21:26,419 --> 00:21:27,985
like, Hennessy and E&J
564
00:21:28,054 --> 00:21:29,287
is the two alcohols
that I really--
565
00:21:29,355 --> 00:21:30,721
- Oh, wow.
- Years and years ago.
566
00:21:30,790 --> 00:21:32,089
- I was cool.
567
00:21:32,158 --> 00:21:33,557
- You just said that
like you, like, 35.
568
00:21:34,827 --> 00:21:37,028
- That was a whole
lifetime ago, like, for real.
569
00:21:37,096 --> 00:21:39,463
Bruh, if y'all knew
how I was living,
570
00:21:39,532 --> 00:21:41,632
that was a whole
lifetime ago for real.
571
00:21:41,701 --> 00:21:43,467
- Right.
- This is great. This is great.
572
00:21:43,536 --> 00:21:45,736
- I feel you. I feel you.
- This is great.
573
00:21:45,805 --> 00:21:47,872
[upbeat music]
574
00:21:47,940 --> 00:21:49,640
[serious music]
575
00:21:49,709 --> 00:21:52,543
- My recovery should be a lot
smoother at Briana's house.
576
00:21:52,612 --> 00:21:54,178
So I really appreciate
her offer.
577
00:21:54,247 --> 00:21:56,681
Sean's packing my stuff now,
but he and my parents
578
00:21:56,749 --> 00:21:59,250
are flying back
to Indy tonight with Kloie.
579
00:22:01,354 --> 00:22:02,653
- This is literally
all her medical stuff.
580
00:22:02,722 --> 00:22:03,854
[line trilling]
- Everything?
581
00:22:03,923 --> 00:22:05,222
- Yeah.
- Okay. You can put it my car.
582
00:22:05,291 --> 00:22:06,524
- And then her garments
are in that bag.
583
00:22:06,592 --> 00:22:08,492
- Okay. Okay.
- Where do you want it?
584
00:22:08,561 --> 00:22:09,827
- Anywhere at the back
of the car.
585
00:22:09,896 --> 00:22:11,696
Doesn't matter. Should be open.
Hey, Mama.
586
00:22:11,764 --> 00:22:14,131
- Hi.
- Hey.
587
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:17,335
- Is she okay?
- She could be better.
588
00:22:17,403 --> 00:22:19,570
It's a very
stressful situation here.
589
00:22:19,639 --> 00:22:21,472
So she just wants to get away
from everybody.
590
00:22:21,541 --> 00:22:23,374
So I told her
to come to the house
591
00:22:23,443 --> 00:22:24,942
and we'll take care of her
592
00:22:25,011 --> 00:22:26,811
and we'll figure it out
when she gets to the house.
593
00:22:26,879 --> 00:22:29,146
I'll help her shower,
clean sheets, she said that--
594
00:22:29,215 --> 00:22:30,881
- Yeah.
595
00:22:30,950 --> 00:22:32,783
- She said that she doesn't
even have a clean towel, so--
596
00:22:32,852 --> 00:22:33,851
- Yeah.
597
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:35,953
- We got to take her
for a few days.
598
00:22:36,022 --> 00:22:40,891
We're gonna buy
a air mattress for the car
599
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,293
so she can lay down.
600
00:22:42,362 --> 00:22:43,728
- Oh, wow.
- Yeah.
601
00:22:43,796 --> 00:22:45,229
So she's gonna be
in the back of the car,
602
00:22:45,298 --> 00:22:46,897
and we'll just
have to figure it out.
603
00:22:46,966 --> 00:22:49,033
- And how's the little girl?
- She's okay.
604
00:22:49,102 --> 00:22:51,402
She's gonna go back home
with Sean.
605
00:22:51,471 --> 00:22:53,404
But they're
all gonna leave tonight.
606
00:22:53,473 --> 00:22:54,705
- Oh, my God. Poor girl.
607
00:22:54,774 --> 00:22:56,674
Thank God she made
the right choice.
608
00:22:56,743 --> 00:23:00,578
- I'd rather her be in our care
than her alone in this house
609
00:23:00,646 --> 00:23:02,546
or at least feeling alone
in this house.
610
00:23:02,615 --> 00:23:04,014
- Yeah. Yeah. I know. I know.
611
00:23:04,083 --> 00:23:05,883
'Cause she also needs
to get away from that.
612
00:23:05,952 --> 00:23:07,818
- Just be ready
'cause there's gonna be
613
00:23:07,887 --> 00:23:10,354
a third child
coming into the house.
614
00:23:10,423 --> 00:23:13,257
- It's okay.
Make sure you drive safely.
615
00:23:13,326 --> 00:23:14,658
- Yeah. Thanks, Mom. Love you.
616
00:23:14,727 --> 00:23:15,826
- Love you. Bye.
617
00:23:15,895 --> 00:23:16,927
- Bye.
618
00:23:16,996 --> 00:23:22,833
♪ ♪
619
00:23:26,205 --> 00:23:28,005
[upbeat music]
620
00:23:28,074 --> 00:23:30,241
- ♪ Oh, whoa, oh, oh ♪
621
00:23:30,309 --> 00:23:31,942
- I'm on my way
to pick up the twins,
622
00:23:32,011 --> 00:23:34,044
and I'll have the girls
for Addie's first day
623
00:23:34,113 --> 00:23:35,746
back at school tomorrow.
624
00:23:35,815 --> 00:23:38,382
Are you excited to go
to in-person school?
625
00:23:38,451 --> 00:23:40,418
- Mm-hmm.
- You want to call Daddy
626
00:23:40,486 --> 00:23:42,853
and tell him you're going back
to in-person tomorrow?
627
00:23:42,922 --> 00:23:44,155
- Yeah-huh.
628
00:23:44,223 --> 00:23:48,793
[line ringing]
629
00:23:48,861 --> 00:23:49,927
- Hello.
630
00:23:49,996 --> 00:23:51,295
- Oh, well, guess who gets
631
00:23:51,364 --> 00:23:54,565
to go back to school
in person tomorrow.
632
00:23:54,634 --> 00:23:58,035
- Miss Addie butt.
- Miss Addie butt.
633
00:23:58,104 --> 00:24:00,771
- Are you excited you'll get
to see some of your friends?
634
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,807
- Yes.
635
00:24:02,875 --> 00:24:06,510
- She gets to wake up
bright and early, 5:00 a.m.
636
00:24:06,579 --> 00:24:09,580
- Oh, you'll be griping
about it by about Wednesday.
637
00:24:10,450 --> 00:24:12,316
- "Can I do e-learning?!"
638
00:24:12,385 --> 00:24:13,951
And I'm gonna say,
639
00:24:14,020 --> 00:24:18,689
"H-E-double-hockey-stick no."
640
00:24:18,758 --> 00:24:21,025
- [laughs]
641
00:24:21,093 --> 00:24:22,760
- I mean, it's hard.
642
00:24:22,829 --> 00:24:26,897
I'm sure that being younger,
it's more difficult for her.
643
00:24:26,966 --> 00:24:32,069
I can be at my very best,
but I'm still not that teacher.
644
00:24:32,138 --> 00:24:35,906
- I agree. I agree.
- Have a good evening.
645
00:24:35,975 --> 00:24:38,576
- I love you, Faith.
- Love you.
646
00:24:38,644 --> 00:24:41,178
- Love you more.
- No.
647
00:24:41,247 --> 00:24:43,080
- Yeah. I win.
648
00:24:43,149 --> 00:24:46,083
- I win.
- I win.
649
00:24:46,152 --> 00:24:48,853
- I win a million times.
- Okay, bye.
650
00:24:48,921 --> 00:24:50,321
- Hey!
651
00:24:50,389 --> 00:24:51,422
- ♪ It's good to be home ♪
652
00:24:51,491 --> 00:24:53,557
♪ Oh, whoa, oh, oh ♪
653
00:24:53,626 --> 00:24:55,893
♪ Oh, whoa, oh, oh ♪
654
00:24:55,962 --> 00:24:57,828
♪ Oh, whoa, oh, oh ♪
655
00:24:57,897 --> 00:25:04,835
♪ ♪
656
00:25:06,772 --> 00:25:08,305
- Okay, bye, Dad.
- Bye, baby girl.
657
00:25:08,374 --> 00:25:09,673
- Love you.
- Love y'all.
658
00:25:09,742 --> 00:25:13,711
- ♪ I know where I belong ♪
659
00:25:13,779 --> 00:25:15,679
- Guess what.
- What?
660
00:25:15,748 --> 00:25:19,350
- Addie's going back
to school tomorrow!
661
00:25:21,988 --> 00:25:23,354
[laughs]
662
00:25:23,422 --> 00:25:26,590
[dramatic music]
663
00:25:26,659 --> 00:25:28,325
- My family's leaving
for the airport,
664
00:25:28,394 --> 00:25:32,229
and I'm going to Orlando with
Bri and Shirley later tonight.
665
00:25:32,298 --> 00:25:35,165
- Love you, Jade.
[Kloie whining]
666
00:25:35,234 --> 00:25:37,167
- Kloie, Kloie.
Honey, honey. Stop.
667
00:25:37,236 --> 00:25:42,973
♪ ♪
668
00:25:43,042 --> 00:25:45,009
- Bye.
- Thank you.
669
00:25:45,077 --> 00:25:46,710
- You're welcome.
670
00:25:49,282 --> 00:25:51,949
Wow. Intense.
671
00:25:54,453 --> 00:25:55,920
All right.
This is gonna have to do.
672
00:25:58,858 --> 00:26:00,591
This doesn't fill up
all the way, Shirley.
673
00:26:00,660 --> 00:26:02,760
You want to help me
bring this inside?
674
00:26:04,430 --> 00:26:06,163
- I think it'll be fine
when she lays on it
675
00:26:06,232 --> 00:26:08,499
'cause she still has the seats.
676
00:26:08,568 --> 00:26:11,201
- It doesn't fill up
all the way, mother [bleep].
677
00:26:11,270 --> 00:26:12,636
"Does this even fit?"
is the question.
678
00:26:12,705 --> 00:26:15,306
- We're gonna make it fit.
Hold on.
679
00:26:15,374 --> 00:26:18,075
- [bleep].
680
00:26:18,144 --> 00:26:19,910
- Wait, wait, wait.
- We're gonna pop it.
681
00:26:19,979 --> 00:26:21,645
- Lift it up over there.
682
00:26:21,714 --> 00:26:23,480
- I'm gonna let some air out.
683
00:26:23,549 --> 00:26:25,382
- No, no, no, no.
684
00:26:25,451 --> 00:26:28,052
She's gonna be miserable.
685
00:26:28,120 --> 00:26:29,219
Tell her to come in here.
686
00:26:29,288 --> 00:26:30,888
- Come this way.
687
00:26:30,957 --> 00:26:34,758
It's easier, Jade.
Just two steps here.
688
00:26:34,827 --> 00:26:38,128
- I'll be all right.
- So how are we doing this?
689
00:26:38,197 --> 00:26:40,097
- Okay, okay. [bleep].
690
00:26:40,166 --> 00:26:41,632
- It's okay. It's okay.
691
00:26:41,701 --> 00:26:43,867
- But cover your little ass.
- I'm covering your ass.
692
00:26:43,936 --> 00:26:45,235
Do you think
you can fix yourself,
693
00:26:45,304 --> 00:26:46,170
or you need assistance?
694
00:26:46,238 --> 00:26:47,838
- Yeah.
695
00:26:47,907 --> 00:26:50,874
[laughter]
696
00:26:50,943 --> 00:26:52,109
- Hold on.
697
00:26:52,178 --> 00:26:55,112
[laughter]
698
00:26:57,717 --> 00:27:00,985
- I love it. I [bleep] love it.
- Here's a blanket.
699
00:27:01,053 --> 00:27:02,987
You want to cover yourself,
baby?
700
00:27:04,123 --> 00:27:06,523
I like this. I'm proud of us.
- No.
701
00:27:06,592 --> 00:27:07,858
- You sure you're comfortable?
702
00:27:07,927 --> 00:27:09,960
- Yes. I'm good.
703
00:27:10,029 --> 00:27:12,396
- Okay.
704
00:27:12,465 --> 00:27:14,064
- Jade, boo,
how you doing back there?
705
00:27:14,133 --> 00:27:15,833
- I'm okay.
I just want to get on the road
706
00:27:15,901 --> 00:27:18,669
'cause [bleep]
it's a little claustrophobic.
707
00:27:18,738 --> 00:27:21,005
- This is so much better
than the airplane ride.
708
00:27:25,044 --> 00:27:27,044
Thank you.
I appreciate you guys so much.
709
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,280
'cause people never go out
Youof their way, like,and
710
00:27:30,349 --> 00:27:32,683
to do [bleep] this for me ever.
711
00:27:32,752 --> 00:27:35,786
- Girl, you have us here
to take care of you.
712
00:27:37,757 --> 00:27:39,423
And I don't want you
to feel like you're a burden,
713
00:27:39,492 --> 00:27:40,858
because you're not.
714
00:27:40,926 --> 00:27:43,060
If you just want to sit back
and not do anything,
715
00:27:43,129 --> 00:27:45,362
that's the purpose of you
coming to my house.
716
00:27:45,431 --> 00:27:48,032
- Bitches that go through this
[bleep] are real gangsters.
717
00:27:48,100 --> 00:27:50,901
Like, I don't think people
really understand
718
00:27:50,970 --> 00:27:52,970
that [bleep] this is not--
I think it's 'cause
719
00:27:53,039 --> 00:27:55,039
it's cosmetic,
people don't feel bad.
720
00:27:55,107 --> 00:27:57,541
Like, "Oh, you asked for this.
You signed up for it."
721
00:27:57,610 --> 00:27:58,942
- Yeah.
- But this [bleep], for real,
722
00:27:59,011 --> 00:28:02,513
is like--it is a toll
on your mental health,
723
00:28:02,581 --> 00:28:04,081
your [bleep] everything.
724
00:28:04,150 --> 00:28:06,050
- There was a lot going on
in the house.
725
00:28:06,118 --> 00:28:10,120
And we went in and we saw you
and we saw what wasn't right,
726
00:28:10,189 --> 00:28:13,624
and we had to fix it.
727
00:28:13,693 --> 00:28:14,992
- And my mom was acting
like she's one
728
00:28:15,061 --> 00:28:16,860
of those know-it-alls,
she knows everything.
729
00:28:16,929 --> 00:28:18,462
And then you come out here
and then now,
730
00:28:18,531 --> 00:28:19,763
at the end, you're like,
731
00:28:19,832 --> 00:28:21,098
"Oh, sorry,
I didn't know what I was doing
732
00:28:21,167 --> 00:28:22,666
'cause I haven't been trained
for this."
733
00:28:22,735 --> 00:28:24,268
- You could have
pushed yourself through
734
00:28:24,336 --> 00:28:27,171
if you had the right people
supporting you around you.
735
00:28:27,239 --> 00:28:29,106
- Like, she was saying that
everyone was saying for her
736
00:28:29,175 --> 00:28:30,641
to not come in there.
[bleep] that.
737
00:28:30,710 --> 00:28:32,042
If my kid was in pain,
just had surgery,
738
00:28:32,111 --> 00:28:33,577
I'd be like, "Bitch, get
the [bleep] out of my face."
739
00:28:33,646 --> 00:28:34,578
- Yeah.
- "I'm going in there,
740
00:28:34,647 --> 00:28:35,913
and I'm being with my kid."
741
00:28:35,981 --> 00:28:37,147
- Yep.
742
00:28:37,216 --> 00:28:38,582
- Like, you know,
it just--I don't know.
743
00:28:38,651 --> 00:28:40,317
It just didn't
make sense to me.
744
00:28:40,386 --> 00:28:43,020
Unless you're in my position,
you'd never understand
745
00:28:43,089 --> 00:28:46,023
what--like, the draining
and the emotional draining
746
00:28:46,092 --> 00:28:48,192
for years and years
this does to you.
747
00:28:48,260 --> 00:28:50,527
- You have every right
to be upset at your mom
748
00:28:50,596 --> 00:28:54,098
and whoever else that was in
that house this past weekend.
749
00:28:54,166 --> 00:28:55,466
You have every right
to be upset
750
00:28:55,534 --> 00:28:56,967
and feel the way that you do.
751
00:28:57,036 --> 00:29:00,104
- I think this opened your eyes
to a lot of [bleep].
752
00:29:00,172 --> 00:29:02,873
- I think I'm just reevaluating
my life so much.
753
00:29:02,942 --> 00:29:09,146
♪ ♪
754
00:29:11,917 --> 00:29:15,185
[Boundary Run's "Make It Out"]
755
00:29:15,254 --> 00:29:20,023
- ♪ I was searching
for an open door ♪
756
00:29:20,092 --> 00:29:22,826
♪ I was looking
for a peace of mind ♪
757
00:29:22,895 --> 00:29:25,462
- So I think that's all
for today.
758
00:29:25,531 --> 00:29:26,864
We hope you guys
have a great week.
759
00:29:26,932 --> 00:29:29,133
And we'll chat with you soon.
- See ya.
760
00:29:29,201 --> 00:29:33,537
- Alexa, notes for us
to send to Lauren for anything?
761
00:29:33,606 --> 00:29:35,072
- No. I mean,
everything sounded good.
762
00:29:35,141 --> 00:29:38,809
- So that episode is going
to release on Thursday.
763
00:29:38,878 --> 00:29:40,210
I just worry that it's, like,
764
00:29:40,279 --> 00:29:43,046
one more thing
that makes me damaged goods.
765
00:29:43,115 --> 00:29:44,481
- Who's not damaged?
- Yeah.
766
00:29:44,550 --> 00:29:45,582
- I don't--that doesn't
make you damaged.
767
00:29:45,651 --> 00:29:46,917
You just have a condition.
768
00:29:46,986 --> 00:29:48,819
- So that's the thing, though,
is, I think, like,
769
00:29:48,888 --> 00:29:52,122
that feeling's valid,
but I think that it's gonna
770
00:29:52,191 --> 00:29:55,092
maybe make a lot of people
feel more heard.
771
00:29:55,161 --> 00:29:57,461
And I think that's
what you need to focus on here.
772
00:29:57,530 --> 00:29:59,062
- Like, there are so many women
out there
773
00:29:59,131 --> 00:30:01,031
who probably have this
and have no idea.
774
00:30:01,100 --> 00:30:02,733
They don't know why they're
struggling with something.
775
00:30:02,802 --> 00:30:04,201
I feel like
there's a whole stigma.
776
00:30:04,270 --> 00:30:06,136
You go into the doctor's office
and you're overweight,
777
00:30:06,205 --> 00:30:08,672
and they want to blame
every single thing on that.
778
00:30:08,741 --> 00:30:11,074
But they don't always
look at why.
779
00:30:11,143 --> 00:30:12,976
So I think it'll be good
that you touched
780
00:30:13,045 --> 00:30:15,779
on your entire experience for
other people going through it.
781
00:30:15,848 --> 00:30:17,281
- Well, it's just like
even--you know,
782
00:30:17,349 --> 00:30:18,982
I've had plastic surgery
for weight loss or whatever.
783
00:30:19,051 --> 00:30:20,617
But I feel like
I did a really good job
784
00:30:20,686 --> 00:30:22,920
maintaining what I got done.
785
00:30:22,988 --> 00:30:24,822
And I never really
had a problem with that
786
00:30:24,890 --> 00:30:28,525
until years after the surgery,
and like, I'm going to the gym
787
00:30:28,594 --> 00:30:30,427
and I'm still--
I've been able to tailor,
788
00:30:30,496 --> 00:30:32,062
like, my diet and my workouts
789
00:30:32,131 --> 00:30:33,831
to, like, how I was feeling
about my body.
790
00:30:33,899 --> 00:30:35,799
If I felt like I was gaining
weight, I would make changes,
791
00:30:35,868 --> 00:30:37,434
and it would
kind of fix everything.
792
00:30:37,503 --> 00:30:39,369
Now all the sudden,
I can't fix it. Like, I don't--
793
00:30:39,438 --> 00:30:40,637
- Yeah.
- You know what I mean?
794
00:30:40,706 --> 00:30:42,506
So there's a lot
to be said about that.
795
00:30:42,575 --> 00:30:45,876
- So can we talk about
where you're at
796
00:30:45,945 --> 00:30:48,979
with the whole process
with your egg retrieval?
797
00:30:49,048 --> 00:30:51,114
What's the timeline on that?
Like--
798
00:30:51,183 --> 00:30:52,749
- I was nervous
to talk about it
799
00:30:52,818 --> 00:30:55,018
'cause I don't know
when I developed PCOS.
800
00:30:55,087 --> 00:30:57,588
So if it does make it harder
for me to get pregnant
801
00:30:57,656 --> 00:30:59,256
and I do decide that I want
to get pregnant
802
00:30:59,325 --> 00:31:00,390
and I'm older...
803
00:31:00,459 --> 00:31:01,825
- Mm-hmm.
- That, on top of it,
804
00:31:01,894 --> 00:31:04,394
I would want younger,
healthier eggs
805
00:31:04,463 --> 00:31:06,330
when I could get them, I guess.
806
00:31:06,398 --> 00:31:09,800
So why not make that option
available for myself?
807
00:31:09,869 --> 00:31:11,068
- Are you nervous?
- Yes.
808
00:31:11,136 --> 00:31:13,637
- ♪ Always out of reach ♪
809
00:31:13,706 --> 00:31:17,774
♪ We can't find our way
back home ♪
810
00:31:17,843 --> 00:31:21,712
- ♪ Miles away ♪
811
00:31:21,780 --> 00:31:25,816
♪ That's where I want
to fly today ♪
812
00:31:25,885 --> 00:31:28,252
[soft acoustic music]
813
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,287
- Hey, what's going on,
chicky chick?
814
00:31:30,356 --> 00:31:33,290
- Mom!
- Hi. I have food.
815
00:31:33,359 --> 00:31:36,093
- Y'all have fun, Ash?
What all y'all do?
816
00:31:36,161 --> 00:31:37,761
- We just chilled
the first day.
817
00:31:37,830 --> 00:31:41,031
The second day,
we had a nice gondola ride.
818
00:31:41,100 --> 00:31:43,033
- Hey, Bar.
Let's roll on out.
819
00:31:43,102 --> 00:31:44,668
We're gonna go out
and grab a bite to eat
820
00:31:44,737 --> 00:31:47,638
and just get caught up
and just chat.
821
00:31:47,706 --> 00:31:49,239
- All right.
822
00:31:49,308 --> 00:31:52,376
- I had no idea that my dad
had planned on talking to Bar.
823
00:31:52,444 --> 00:31:54,678
I think that my parents
definitely feel like Bar
824
00:31:54,747 --> 00:31:56,847
has changed
because my mom flat out told me
825
00:31:56,916 --> 00:31:59,116
in the past that,
if he tried to marry me,
826
00:31:59,184 --> 00:32:00,817
she was not gonna
let it happen.
827
00:32:00,886 --> 00:32:03,954
- Your man is outside trying
to fight your parents
828
00:32:04,023 --> 00:32:06,023
like a back-alley dog.
829
00:32:06,091 --> 00:32:07,925
- Bar was tearing out
of his shirt
830
00:32:07,993 --> 00:32:10,560
like [bleep] Incredible Hulk,
trying to fight Ted.
831
00:32:10,629 --> 00:32:12,930
And I feel like if the police
hadn't came when they came,
832
00:32:12,998 --> 00:32:14,464
it would have gotten worse.
833
00:32:14,533 --> 00:32:16,500
- Do y'all think now that we
kind of had this conversation,
834
00:32:16,568 --> 00:32:17,834
y'all will be, like, you know,
835
00:32:17,903 --> 00:32:19,336
more supportive
of our relationship?
836
00:32:19,405 --> 00:32:21,138
- For me, I get mixed emotions.
837
00:32:21,206 --> 00:32:23,373
When you start cutting up,
then no.
838
00:32:23,442 --> 00:32:26,176
- I feel confident
that my parents feel confident
839
00:32:26,245 --> 00:32:27,277
that he's changed
840
00:32:27,346 --> 00:32:30,113
because my mom
is a straight shooter
841
00:32:30,182 --> 00:32:31,915
and she would definitely be
telling me,
842
00:32:31,984 --> 00:32:35,185
like, "Girl, don't accept
that ring from him."
843
00:32:35,254 --> 00:32:37,955
- So y'all got a date
settled yet
844
00:32:38,023 --> 00:32:40,958
on this whole shing-ding
y'all planning on doing?
845
00:32:41,026 --> 00:32:42,759
- I ain't gonna lie,
dates keep jumping around.
846
00:32:42,828 --> 00:32:44,861
- Is y'all ready? Is you ready?
847
00:32:44,930 --> 00:32:47,931
- Overall, like, I do
100% believe I'm ready.
848
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,334
I mean, we had
our fair share of issues.
849
00:32:50,402 --> 00:32:52,769
- Yeah, we all thought you was
a human [bleep] up.
850
00:32:52,838 --> 00:32:54,271
- [laughs]
Man.
851
00:32:54,340 --> 00:32:56,073
- So yeah, that put a bad taste
in everybody's mouth.
852
00:32:56,141 --> 00:32:59,176
- I know. It sure did.
I used to get drunk as [bleep].
853
00:32:59,244 --> 00:33:00,577
That was my way to go
get away from everything.
854
00:33:00,646 --> 00:33:02,012
- No. Yeah, but we--
855
00:33:02,081 --> 00:33:03,380
- That was my way
to get away from everything.
856
00:33:03,449 --> 00:33:05,515
- Me and Tea was talking
about how you, you know,
857
00:33:05,584 --> 00:33:07,084
got yourself
together and stuff.
858
00:33:07,152 --> 00:33:11,088
You fell ass backwards
into a good--into a good woman.
859
00:33:11,156 --> 00:33:12,756
But the bottom line
is simply this:
860
00:33:12,825 --> 00:33:13,890
take care of her, man.
861
00:33:13,959 --> 00:33:15,392
Take care of her.
Take care of Tiny.
862
00:33:16,562 --> 00:33:18,095
'Cause if you can't
get yourself together,
863
00:33:18,163 --> 00:33:19,596
you're no good to nobody else.
864
00:33:19,665 --> 00:33:21,231
- Right.
865
00:33:21,300 --> 00:33:23,667
- We're gonna pass her on
to you, man, with our blessing.
866
00:33:23,736 --> 00:33:26,403
- I appreciate you giving me
the blessing, honestly.
867
00:33:26,472 --> 00:33:27,871
- You'll be all right.
868
00:33:27,940 --> 00:33:30,107
- ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
869
00:33:30,175 --> 00:33:32,642
♪ Ooh ♪
870
00:33:32,711 --> 00:33:35,379
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪
871
00:33:35,447 --> 00:33:37,381
- What are you doing?
872
00:33:37,449 --> 00:33:38,915
- Come get your hair done.
873
00:33:38,984 --> 00:33:40,784
- Yeah, you just
played yourself.
874
00:33:40,853 --> 00:33:42,319
- Come have a seat.
875
00:33:45,858 --> 00:33:47,824
- There, just relax
right there.
876
00:33:49,661 --> 00:33:51,828
So how was your talk with Ted?
877
00:33:51,897 --> 00:33:54,364
- We had a good
man-to-man conversation.
878
00:33:54,433 --> 00:33:57,834
Everything going smooth,
like, as far as us.
879
00:33:57,903 --> 00:34:00,771
- It's been an exceptional year
for you.
880
00:34:00,839 --> 00:34:04,107
- Thank you. I try [bleep].
[laughs]
881
00:34:04,176 --> 00:34:07,577
I unfortunately but fortunately
882
00:34:07,646 --> 00:34:10,180
realized the value of myself
883
00:34:10,249 --> 00:34:12,115
and my peoples around me
a little bit more.
884
00:34:12,184 --> 00:34:16,520
- It's making a transition
from Bar
885
00:34:16,588 --> 00:34:19,322
who was reckless
886
00:34:19,391 --> 00:34:22,726
to now Bar
who has a family, a wife...
887
00:34:22,795 --> 00:34:24,394
- Something to [bleep]
live for.
888
00:34:24,463 --> 00:34:26,930
- A whole entire house now.
889
00:34:28,367 --> 00:34:32,602
I'm happy that you are doing
all the right [bleep].
890
00:34:32,671 --> 00:34:34,271
It's wonderful for me.
891
00:34:34,339 --> 00:34:36,306
It's wonderful
for your daughter.
892
00:34:36,375 --> 00:34:38,575
I think that,
in the last year or so,
893
00:34:38,644 --> 00:34:41,144
Bar has changed tremendously.
894
00:34:41,213 --> 00:34:43,313
As soon as he stopped drinking,
he started flourishing
895
00:34:43,382 --> 00:34:45,649
and he started doing
all these wonderful
896
00:34:45,717 --> 00:34:47,284
and positive things
with his life.
897
00:34:47,352 --> 00:34:49,586
I'm very proud of him
'cause it's not easy.
898
00:34:49,655 --> 00:34:51,088
And I want the best for him
899
00:34:51,156 --> 00:34:52,389
'cause a win for him is a win
for Holly,
900
00:34:52,458 --> 00:34:55,459
and that's the bottom line
of all of this.
901
00:35:09,775 --> 00:35:12,642
[upbeat music]
902
00:35:12,711 --> 00:35:14,578
♪ ♪
903
00:35:14,646 --> 00:35:16,480
- We stayed at the townhouse
last night
904
00:35:16,548 --> 00:35:18,148
because it's closer
to Addie's school,
905
00:35:18,217 --> 00:35:20,083
and the babysitter will watch
the twins this morning
906
00:35:20,152 --> 00:35:22,786
while I take her.
907
00:35:22,855 --> 00:35:25,622
- Addie, come and eat.
908
00:35:25,691 --> 00:35:28,225
- Addie, time for school.
909
00:35:28,293 --> 00:35:30,727
[laughter]
910
00:35:30,796 --> 00:35:33,396
I don't think it's working.
911
00:35:33,465 --> 00:35:36,333
- ♪ In my town,
strutting through the crowd ♪
912
00:35:36,401 --> 00:35:37,467
♪ Nothing's gonna
hold us down ♪
913
00:35:37,536 --> 00:35:40,270
- I regret what I said.
914
00:35:40,339 --> 00:35:41,271
- What did you say?
915
00:35:41,340 --> 00:35:43,340
That you wanted to go
to school?
916
00:35:43,408 --> 00:35:46,443
Ha! Too late.
917
00:35:46,512 --> 00:35:48,979
- Will you tell Aleeah
there are eggs down here too
918
00:35:49,047 --> 00:35:51,348
and she can throw some bread
in the toaster?
919
00:35:52,351 --> 00:35:54,117
- I'm excited for you
to go back
920
00:35:54,186 --> 00:35:56,853
'cause then you won't be
yelling all the time.
921
00:35:56,922 --> 00:36:00,056
- You ready?
- Bye, Addie.
922
00:36:03,095 --> 00:36:04,895
- And you got everything,
correct?
923
00:36:04,963 --> 00:36:06,530
Make sure you have your mask.
924
00:36:06,598 --> 00:36:08,465
- Yeah. We have everything.
925
00:36:11,003 --> 00:36:12,435
- Addie, are you excited?
926
00:36:12,504 --> 00:36:14,704
- Yeah.
927
00:36:14,773 --> 00:36:17,140
- How are you feeling?
- Good.
928
00:36:17,209 --> 00:36:20,510
I want to go to school,
but I want to sleep.
929
00:36:20,579 --> 00:36:23,213
- "I want to go to school,
but I want to sleep."
930
00:36:24,616 --> 00:36:26,149
- Are you ready?
931
00:36:26,218 --> 00:36:28,451
- Are you sure this is where
we're supposed to park?
932
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:29,886
- Mm-hmm.
933
00:36:34,092 --> 00:36:37,027
I hope you have
so much fun, okay?
934
00:36:37,095 --> 00:36:39,930
I love you.
I love you more.
935
00:36:39,998 --> 00:36:42,732
[sweet music]
936
00:36:42,801 --> 00:36:47,337
♪ ♪
937
00:36:47,406 --> 00:36:51,174
Look at my
well-behaved daughters
938
00:36:51,243 --> 00:36:53,009
doing their schoolwork.
939
00:36:53,078 --> 00:36:55,779
I just dropped your sister off
to her first day.
940
00:36:55,847 --> 00:36:57,447
- Mm-hmm.
941
00:36:57,516 --> 00:36:59,583
- You guys understand why I
let her go to in-person, right?
942
00:36:59,651 --> 00:37:00,750
- Mm-hmm.
943
00:37:00,819 --> 00:37:02,152
- It's easier for you guys
to focus
944
00:37:02,221 --> 00:37:04,888
because you're a lot older,
and you guys do great.
945
00:37:04,957 --> 00:37:08,225
You had the option
to go back to in-person.
946
00:37:08,293 --> 00:37:09,859
And you guys said what?
947
00:37:09,928 --> 00:37:11,461
- No.
- No.
948
00:37:11,530 --> 00:37:12,529
- No.
949
00:37:12,598 --> 00:37:13,930
- No.
- You like remote learning?
950
00:37:13,999 --> 00:37:15,432
- Yeah.
951
00:37:15,500 --> 00:37:17,567
- Well, you guys will be able
to get work done easier
952
00:37:17,636 --> 00:37:20,303
without hearing
Addie screaming or crying.
953
00:37:20,372 --> 00:37:21,838
How do you guys think
remote learning
954
00:37:21,907 --> 00:37:23,940
will be when Addie's not here?
955
00:37:24,009 --> 00:37:25,208
- Peaceful.
956
00:37:25,277 --> 00:37:28,111
- Peaceful?
[laughs]
957
00:37:30,048 --> 00:37:32,949
[upbeat music]
958
00:37:33,018 --> 00:37:34,351
♪ ♪
959
00:37:40,659 --> 00:37:43,226
- Yo, J gotta pee-pee.
960
00:37:43,295 --> 00:37:46,196
- Oh, my God. Wait. Hold on.
- Son of a whore-ass bitch.
961
00:37:46,265 --> 00:37:47,864
Ooh, this is some [bleep]
dumbass [bleep] I ever seen.
962
00:37:47,933 --> 00:37:49,733
- J, watch you don't slip.
- You're gonna look good, Jade.
963
00:37:49,801 --> 00:37:51,434
You're gonna look good, Jade.
It's gonna be worth it.
964
00:37:51,503 --> 00:37:53,303
- Your socks on the floor
are slippery.
965
00:37:53,372 --> 00:37:55,672
Watch the strings
don't go in the toilet.
966
00:37:55,741 --> 00:37:57,007
- Yes.
967
00:37:57,075 --> 00:38:00,243
- And there's Clorox wipes
there for after.
968
00:38:00,312 --> 00:38:02,646
- For my coochie?
[laughter]
969
00:38:02,714 --> 00:38:05,749
Oh, I was like--
- No!
970
00:38:05,817 --> 00:38:07,517
To wipe the toilet seat after.
971
00:38:07,586 --> 00:38:09,085
- Got it!
972
00:38:09,154 --> 00:38:11,388
- Bri, you're a good friend.
You know that, right?
973
00:38:11,456 --> 00:38:14,090
When I saw you bathing her,
I was like,
974
00:38:14,159 --> 00:38:16,526
"Wow, look at my daughter."
975
00:38:16,595 --> 00:38:18,628
- Word. I'm tired though.
I was sleeping on the floor.
976
00:38:18,697 --> 00:38:20,597
- I felt so bad.
I was like, "What the [bleep]?"
977
00:38:20,666 --> 00:38:23,400
- Y'all should have saw us
loading her up into the car.
978
00:38:23,468 --> 00:38:27,170
- Jade, how did you climb
in the backseat of the truck?
979
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:28,905
- By the will of God.
980
00:38:28,974 --> 00:38:31,408
- But would you do it again?
- No.
981
00:38:31,476 --> 00:38:32,909
I'd never do this again.
I don't give a [bleep].
982
00:38:32,978 --> 00:38:34,411
- What's the lesson
learned here?
983
00:38:34,479 --> 00:38:35,545
- What?
984
00:38:35,614 --> 00:38:37,614
- Beauty is really
mother [bleep] painful.
985
00:38:37,683 --> 00:38:40,717
- How long do you figure
you're gonna be here?
986
00:38:40,786 --> 00:38:42,118
Like a week, two weeks?
987
00:38:42,187 --> 00:38:44,154
- My body just needs to heal
a little bit more
988
00:38:44,222 --> 00:38:45,555
before I feel confident.
989
00:38:45,624 --> 00:38:47,257
And also, I have, like,
a bad panic disorder.
990
00:38:47,326 --> 00:38:49,659
So I'm worried
getting on the plane anyway.
991
00:38:49,728 --> 00:38:52,262
- Yeah, but worst case
scenario--yes, stay here,
992
00:38:52,331 --> 00:38:53,830
whatever amount
of time you need.
993
00:38:53,899 --> 00:38:55,565
I think you're gonna be okay.
994
00:38:55,634 --> 00:38:58,134
I just think that stress level
has to, like, be zero.
995
00:38:58,203 --> 00:39:00,370
Anybody calls
to stress you out,
996
00:39:00,439 --> 00:39:02,105
I'm gonna hang up the phone.
997
00:39:02,174 --> 00:39:03,707
I'm gonna take the phone
away from you.
998
00:39:03,775 --> 00:39:05,342
- Okay.
999
00:39:05,410 --> 00:39:07,377
Briana and her family
have been really awesome.
1000
00:39:07,446 --> 00:39:09,512
They've been doing
everything for me.
1001
00:39:09,581 --> 00:39:12,482
My recovery experience
in Miami
1002
00:39:12,551 --> 00:39:15,085
at the Airbnb with my family
1003
00:39:15,153 --> 00:39:17,754
was just horrible, stressful.
1004
00:39:17,823 --> 00:39:20,790
I am super grateful
for how much they've helped me
1005
00:39:20,859 --> 00:39:22,092
and been there for me.
1006
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:23,426
But I feel like
I'm one of those people,
1007
00:39:23,495 --> 00:39:26,663
it's really hard for me
to accept help
1008
00:39:26,732 --> 00:39:29,332
'cause it just makes me
feel like--I don't know.
1009
00:39:29,401 --> 00:39:31,568
I just never want to be
a burden or a bother to anybody
1010
00:39:31,636 --> 00:39:32,869
'cause I know how it is
1011
00:39:32,938 --> 00:39:35,038
for people to be
a burden or bother to me.
1012
00:39:35,107 --> 00:39:37,207
[Boundary Run's
"Lose Ourselves"]
1013
00:39:37,275 --> 00:39:39,743
- ♪ I just keep looking back ♪
1014
00:39:39,811 --> 00:39:43,179
♪ And you never had time
for that ♪
1015
00:39:43,248 --> 00:39:48,218
♪ This is where
the rubber met the road ♪
1016
00:39:48,286 --> 00:39:50,887
♪ Oh, oh ♪
1017
00:39:50,956 --> 00:39:54,190
♪ Where do we go
when the walls come down? ♪
1018
00:39:54,259 --> 00:39:56,860
♪ Oh, oh ♪
1019
00:39:56,928 --> 00:40:00,296
♪ Where do we hide
when the wolves come out? ♪
1020
00:40:00,365 --> 00:40:03,366
♪ Oh, oh ♪
1021
00:40:03,435 --> 00:40:06,202
♪ Why do we lose ourselves ♪
1022
00:40:06,271 --> 00:40:09,239
♪ Trying to prove ourselves? ♪
1023
00:40:09,307 --> 00:40:11,508
♪ Why do we ♪
1024
00:40:11,576 --> 00:40:16,112
♪ Lose ourselves? ♪
1025
00:40:16,181 --> 00:40:17,680
♪ ♪
1026
00:40:17,749 --> 00:40:22,519
♪ Lose ourselves ♪
1027
00:40:27,225 --> 00:40:29,392
- Mom, there's a--
[screams]
1028
00:40:29,461 --> 00:40:31,494
- You're gonna go to your dad's
next weekend.
1029
00:40:31,563 --> 00:40:33,430
I don't want to attack
Jo's parenting.
1030
00:40:33,498 --> 00:40:35,298
I'm gonna drop off Isaac first.
1031
00:40:35,367 --> 00:40:37,434
- No!
- Bar's birthday is coming up.
1032
00:40:37,502 --> 00:40:39,803
- You a [bleep] lie.
[laughs]
1033
00:40:45,444 --> 00:40:46,976
- My mom's done a lot
of manipulating.
1034
00:40:47,045 --> 00:40:49,712
If she shows up at my house,
call the [bleep] police on her.