1 00:00:02,169 --> 00:00:03,402 - You know, I think I'm gonna have to cancel 2 00:00:03,471 --> 00:00:04,636 the engagement party. 3 00:00:04,705 --> 00:00:07,373 - I got a DUI hella long ago. - Right. 4 00:00:07,441 --> 00:00:09,008 - So they threw me on this ankle bracelet. 5 00:00:09,076 --> 00:00:10,209 This [bleep] right here. 6 00:00:10,277 --> 00:00:13,679 - Oh, that's no bueno. - So-- 7 00:00:13,748 --> 00:00:16,115 - Ooh! 8 00:00:16,183 --> 00:00:17,549 Yeah, I think we should go to Napa. 9 00:00:17,618 --> 00:00:18,751 We always thought about going. 10 00:00:18,819 --> 00:00:20,252 - We've been talking about going to Napa 11 00:00:20,321 --> 00:00:21,253 since we got here. 12 00:00:21,322 --> 00:00:22,688 - We never go. 13 00:00:22,757 --> 00:00:24,056 - So you start school tomorrow? 14 00:00:24,125 --> 00:00:25,257 - Yep. 15 00:00:26,861 --> 00:00:29,194 - I'm the principal, teacher, and mother, okay? 16 00:00:29,263 --> 00:00:30,796 - Now what's the level of discipline 17 00:00:30,865 --> 00:00:32,097 when they're at home? 18 00:00:32,166 --> 00:00:33,265 - Nothing. 19 00:00:33,334 --> 00:00:34,666 I can tell you that right now. 20 00:00:36,670 --> 00:00:38,971 - I don't even know where my iPod is, Dad. 21 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,607 - I think Isaac found his passion. 22 00:00:41,675 --> 00:00:42,908 He wants to write. 23 00:00:42,977 --> 00:00:44,143 I'm doing a wallpaper line. 24 00:00:44,211 --> 00:00:46,011 And I asked them 25 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:49,381 if you could do a line of your own. 26 00:00:49,450 --> 00:00:50,783 So how do you feel about that? 27 00:00:50,851 --> 00:00:52,251 - Nervous. 28 00:00:52,319 --> 00:00:53,752 - City of Miami 911. What is your emergency? 29 00:00:53,821 --> 00:00:56,722 - My friend just had plastic surgery this morning. 30 00:00:57,925 --> 00:01:00,692 to go get her pain prescriptions disappeared, 31 00:01:00,761 --> 00:01:02,761 and I don't know if they're coming back. 32 00:01:02,830 --> 00:01:05,297 And I think she's having, like, a really bad panic attack. 33 00:01:05,366 --> 00:01:06,765 - [coughing] 34 00:01:06,834 --> 00:01:09,068 - I saw, like, open, like, wounds here. 35 00:01:09,136 --> 00:01:10,436 Like, she is just-- 36 00:01:12,006 --> 00:01:14,239 - Yes. And I can't touch her. 37 00:01:14,308 --> 00:01:16,075 So I'm trying my very best. 38 00:01:16,143 --> 00:01:18,310 So thank God we went to see her. 39 00:01:18,379 --> 00:01:19,578 She is stable now. 40 00:01:19,647 --> 00:01:20,913 She went to go get a checkup today. 41 00:01:20,981 --> 00:01:22,247 They said she went. 42 00:01:22,316 --> 00:01:23,882 So I don't know what's going on right now. 43 00:01:23,951 --> 00:01:26,452 I don't--I don't know. 44 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:29,254 - Back up, dude. Get those cameras off me, man. 45 00:01:36,497 --> 00:01:38,764 - So did Sean hit Corey tonight? 46 00:01:38,833 --> 00:01:40,632 - Yes. 47 00:01:40,701 --> 00:01:42,734 They hit each other. It was mutual combat. 48 00:01:42,803 --> 00:01:44,136 - And I just let him know, I was like, 49 00:01:44,205 --> 00:01:46,405 "Look, dude, next time my daughter comes at me saying 50 00:01:46,474 --> 00:01:48,240 "that you're doing something that she doesn't like, 51 00:01:48,309 --> 00:01:49,708 I'm gonna have to kick your [bleep] ass." 52 00:01:49,777 --> 00:01:52,311 And he didn't like that I said that, so he attacked me. 53 00:01:58,319 --> 00:02:01,220 [upbeat rock music] 54 00:02:01,288 --> 00:02:08,360 ♪ ♪ 55 00:02:15,336 --> 00:02:18,270 [dramatic music] 56 00:02:18,339 --> 00:02:21,006 ♪ ♪ 57 00:02:21,075 --> 00:02:25,277 - So I just had my surgery 58 00:02:25,346 --> 00:02:27,412 a few days ago. 59 00:02:27,481 --> 00:02:30,215 And I haven't felt good enough 60 00:02:30,284 --> 00:02:34,386 to really even document everything. 61 00:02:34,455 --> 00:02:36,088 It's just been the worst recovery 62 00:02:36,157 --> 00:02:37,489 I could have ever imagined. 63 00:02:37,558 --> 00:02:39,958 I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. 64 00:02:40,027 --> 00:02:41,593 Sean and my parents are fighting 65 00:02:41,662 --> 00:02:44,096 because Sean's saying my parents 66 00:02:44,165 --> 00:02:48,634 aren't doing anything to help, which they really are not. 67 00:02:48,702 --> 00:02:50,936 I've had a panic attack almost every day. 68 00:02:51,005 --> 00:02:53,438 But I'm just ready to go home because I want to just put 69 00:02:53,507 --> 00:02:54,873 this whole situation behind me. 70 00:02:54,942 --> 00:02:59,912 And I'm hoping that my doctor can clear me to fly 71 00:02:59,980 --> 00:03:01,880 so I can go back home 72 00:03:01,949 --> 00:03:05,884 and be in my own bed and be somewhere more peaceful. 73 00:03:10,524 --> 00:03:11,757 - I haven't heard from Luis 74 00:03:11,825 --> 00:03:13,592 since he bailed on Stella yesterday. 75 00:03:13,661 --> 00:03:16,094 But Sean just called me, and I'm worried about Jade. 76 00:03:16,163 --> 00:03:18,130 So I'm gonna go check on her. 77 00:03:18,199 --> 00:03:20,098 Give me a kiss. Give me a kiss. 78 00:03:20,167 --> 00:03:22,000 - Mama. - I see. 79 00:03:22,069 --> 00:03:25,604 - I put marker in this. - You put marker in it? 80 00:03:25,673 --> 00:03:28,373 - I'm gonna take a quick trip back to Miami. 81 00:03:28,442 --> 00:03:29,675 Sean asked for help. 82 00:03:29,743 --> 00:03:31,743 - How is she? - Terrible. 83 00:03:31,812 --> 00:03:34,379 Sean told me that the reason why she's not healing 84 00:03:34,448 --> 00:03:35,814 the way she's supposed to be healing 85 00:03:35,883 --> 00:03:37,749 is 'cause she's under too much stress. 86 00:03:37,818 --> 00:03:41,587 Supposedly, the dad and Sean got into a fistfight. 87 00:03:41,655 --> 00:03:45,224 And Jade jumped out of bed trying to fix the situation. 88 00:03:45,292 --> 00:03:46,658 - What the [bleep]? 89 00:03:46,727 --> 00:03:48,594 - The only person that she can really count on 90 00:03:48,662 --> 00:03:50,128 is herself and Sean. 91 00:03:50,197 --> 00:03:52,664 But Sean is torn between the kid-- 92 00:03:52,733 --> 00:03:54,499 - Running after the baby and then watching her. 93 00:03:54,568 --> 00:03:55,834 - So it's not that he's not doing nothing. 94 00:03:55,903 --> 00:03:57,202 It's just he has to prioritize the baby. 95 00:03:57,271 --> 00:03:58,370 - It's just too much. - Yeah. 96 00:03:58,439 --> 00:03:59,738 - He has too much on his hands. 97 00:03:59,807 --> 00:04:01,773 - So who is there with them now? 98 00:04:01,842 --> 00:04:04,343 - The mom is there, the dad is there, 99 00:04:04,411 --> 00:04:07,512 and the baby's still there, and Sean. 100 00:04:07,581 --> 00:04:10,182 But the mom is not helping 101 00:04:10,251 --> 00:04:13,385 like Jade thought she was gonna be there to help. 102 00:04:13,454 --> 00:04:14,987 That's what Sean told me at least. 103 00:04:15,055 --> 00:04:16,722 They want to leave, like, tonight, 104 00:04:16,790 --> 00:04:20,259 when I think it's the most-- 105 00:04:20,327 --> 00:04:22,961 not the greatest decision in the world to leave tonight. 106 00:04:23,030 --> 00:04:24,162 - How is she gonna go back home? 107 00:04:24,231 --> 00:04:25,430 - Flying. - [gasps] 108 00:04:25,499 --> 00:04:26,698 - Oh, my God. If she's my daughter, 109 00:04:26,767 --> 00:04:28,667 I would tell her, "No, you're not flying." 110 00:04:28,736 --> 00:04:31,069 No way, the altitude, blood clots, no way. 111 00:04:31,138 --> 00:04:33,705 Talk some sense into them and let them understand 112 00:04:33,774 --> 00:04:35,607 the severity of her situation. 113 00:04:35,676 --> 00:04:38,043 It's [bleep] dangerous. Let her know the truth. 114 00:04:38,112 --> 00:04:39,878 - I'm gonna try to convince them to stay. 115 00:04:39,947 --> 00:04:41,280 - You coming back today or tomorrow? 116 00:04:41,348 --> 00:04:42,381 - Probably tonight. 117 00:04:42,449 --> 00:04:43,815 I'm not trying to stay the night. 118 00:04:43,884 --> 00:04:46,518 - No, you have to come tonight. Don't touch body fluids. 119 00:04:46,587 --> 00:04:49,087 - Oh, no. We know. 120 00:04:49,156 --> 00:04:51,523 - Right now, that household is just a little bit too much 121 00:04:51,592 --> 00:04:52,691 for her to be in. 122 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:54,893 I just want to be there for her 123 00:04:54,962 --> 00:04:58,130 and make her situation less hectic as I can. 124 00:04:58,198 --> 00:05:00,932 And I want her to relax. I want her to be okay. 125 00:05:01,001 --> 00:05:04,703 I want her to not have to worry about anything. 126 00:05:04,772 --> 00:05:07,839 I just feel like I need to go down there and rescue her. 127 00:05:11,045 --> 00:05:13,145 - All the girls are still doing remote learning 128 00:05:13,213 --> 00:05:15,447 since we are being extra cautious with COVID 129 00:05:15,516 --> 00:05:16,915 because of Ali's health. 130 00:05:16,984 --> 00:05:19,418 But lately, Addie has been struggling at home. 131 00:05:19,486 --> 00:05:20,652 And I'm worried about the effects 132 00:05:20,721 --> 00:05:22,387 it's having on her schoolwork. 133 00:05:22,456 --> 00:05:24,923 - Keller. Helen Keller. 134 00:05:24,992 --> 00:05:26,458 Oh, puppy. 135 00:05:26,527 --> 00:05:29,428 [upbeat music] 136 00:05:29,496 --> 00:05:32,197 ♪ ♪ 137 00:05:32,266 --> 00:05:33,498 - Are you focused? 138 00:05:33,567 --> 00:05:36,401 You're distracted? 139 00:05:36,470 --> 00:05:38,370 [sighs] 140 00:05:38,439 --> 00:05:40,839 Is school at home tough? 141 00:05:40,908 --> 00:05:41,907 - Mm-hmm. 142 00:05:41,975 --> 00:05:44,276 - Are there a lot of distractions? 143 00:05:44,345 --> 00:05:45,444 - Mm-hmm. 144 00:05:45,512 --> 00:05:47,913 - Mm-hmm. 145 00:05:47,981 --> 00:05:49,414 Do you think that you would learn better 146 00:05:49,483 --> 00:05:52,284 if you were in school? 147 00:05:52,353 --> 00:05:53,919 - Hmm? 148 00:05:53,987 --> 00:05:56,321 - Do you think you would learn better if you were in school? 149 00:05:56,390 --> 00:05:59,858 - Yeah. Why? - Yeah? All right. 150 00:05:59,927 --> 00:06:02,361 Well, let me know when you're finished with that story, okay? 151 00:06:02,429 --> 00:06:04,629 It's only taken you forever. 152 00:06:04,698 --> 00:06:09,434 [cats purr and meow] 153 00:06:09,503 --> 00:06:11,503 - Can y'all shut up? 154 00:06:13,207 --> 00:06:15,273 - ♪ It's not that I didn't try ♪ 155 00:06:15,342 --> 00:06:18,210 ♪ 'Cause I did try my best ♪ 156 00:06:18,278 --> 00:06:19,678 - Hello? - Hey. 157 00:06:19,747 --> 00:06:22,114 - Hey, what's up? - Nothing. What you doing? 158 00:06:23,517 --> 00:06:25,250 - Just had some lunch. What's going on? 159 00:06:25,319 --> 00:06:28,620 - Addie is really struggling with remote learning. 160 00:06:28,689 --> 00:06:30,355 - Really? - Yeah. 161 00:06:30,424 --> 00:06:33,625 Her energy level is always on high. 162 00:06:33,694 --> 00:06:35,961 So she definitely needs stimulation, 163 00:06:36,029 --> 00:06:37,829 like, in a school setting rather-- 164 00:06:37,898 --> 00:06:40,799 you know what, I just-- maybe that's what it is. 165 00:06:40,868 --> 00:06:42,701 I think I just have to call the principal 166 00:06:42,770 --> 00:06:44,903 and get some suggestions on what she think is best. 167 00:06:44,972 --> 00:06:46,538 - I wonder how Addie will feel about it. 168 00:06:46,607 --> 00:06:47,973 Have you asked her yet? 169 00:06:48,041 --> 00:06:50,675 - I honestly think that she'll feel relieved 170 00:06:50,744 --> 00:06:52,644 because I think it's putting a lot of pressure on her 171 00:06:52,713 --> 00:06:54,012 to get--you know, 172 00:06:54,081 --> 00:06:56,782 to make good grades and to understand this 173 00:06:56,850 --> 00:06:59,451 and to find this app and to submit this assignment. 174 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:01,319 It's almost like her home life 175 00:07:01,388 --> 00:07:05,957 and her educational environment is meshing together. 176 00:07:06,026 --> 00:07:09,461 And it's becoming super confusing for her. 177 00:07:09,530 --> 00:07:12,230 And she's just getting easily distracted. 178 00:07:12,299 --> 00:07:13,698 [trills] 179 00:07:13,767 --> 00:07:15,233 Well, I guess I'll call the school 180 00:07:15,302 --> 00:07:19,237 and see how we can get Addie back into in-person learning. 181 00:07:19,306 --> 00:07:20,739 I thought about it. 182 00:07:20,808 --> 00:07:22,974 Do I really want to send her back? 183 00:07:23,043 --> 00:07:25,410 What if there's another, you know, COVID case 184 00:07:25,479 --> 00:07:26,945 or there's an outbreak? 185 00:07:27,014 --> 00:07:29,681 Of course, Ali has, you know, a health condition. 186 00:07:29,750 --> 00:07:32,551 But all of the teachers have been vaccinated. 187 00:07:32,619 --> 00:07:35,887 Also, the cases in our state have been going down. 188 00:07:35,956 --> 00:07:37,823 I am confident that the school has been following 189 00:07:37,891 --> 00:07:40,125 all the necessary precautions 190 00:07:40,194 --> 00:07:43,528 to keep our family safe and our community safe. 191 00:07:43,597 --> 00:07:46,765 Honestly, the hardest part is trying to navigate 192 00:07:46,834 --> 00:07:49,734 what is best for their physical health 193 00:07:49,803 --> 00:07:51,770 and their mental health. 194 00:07:51,839 --> 00:07:54,139 - ♪ I don't want to care anymore ♪ 195 00:07:54,208 --> 00:07:56,942 ♪ Yeah, it's true it was good before ♪ 196 00:07:57,010 --> 00:07:58,877 ♪ But I don't want to, I don't want to care ♪ 197 00:07:58,946 --> 00:08:00,679 - How are you? How was your dad's? 198 00:08:01,348 --> 00:08:03,648 Yeah? 199 00:08:03,717 --> 00:08:05,550 Come give me hugs. 200 00:08:05,619 --> 00:08:09,321 Why are you-- oh, you're so--okay. 201 00:08:09,389 --> 00:08:11,289 I've noticed some changes in my body lately. 202 00:08:11,358 --> 00:08:12,624 And it's been hard. 203 00:08:12,693 --> 00:08:15,026 I'm having super, super heavy periods. 204 00:08:15,095 --> 00:08:17,929 And I'm having these new challenges 205 00:08:17,998 --> 00:08:19,231 with not being able to lose weight 206 00:08:19,299 --> 00:08:20,398 and trying to eat right. 207 00:08:20,467 --> 00:08:21,733 I've decreased my calories. 208 00:08:21,802 --> 00:08:24,669 I've changed what I eat, try to work out. 209 00:08:24,738 --> 00:08:26,037 You know, in the past, 210 00:08:26,106 --> 00:08:29,040 I've never really had an issue with losing weight. 211 00:08:29,109 --> 00:08:31,042 And the comments online have been harsh. 212 00:08:31,111 --> 00:08:34,246 - ♪ If I turn off the light, will it hide the truth ♪ 213 00:08:34,314 --> 00:08:37,315 ♪ That I'm thinkin' about you ♪ 214 00:08:37,384 --> 00:08:39,017 - I went to the doctor earlier this week, 215 00:08:39,086 --> 00:08:41,219 and now I'm waiting for the test results. 216 00:08:41,288 --> 00:08:43,922 - Brother, will you come outside with me? 217 00:08:46,026 --> 00:08:48,059 - I had to get bloodwork done and ultrasound done 218 00:08:48,128 --> 00:08:49,761 to try to figure out what's going on. 219 00:08:49,830 --> 00:08:52,597 It's been an emotional roller coaster for me 220 00:08:52,666 --> 00:08:54,933 because, you know, I go through weeks 221 00:08:55,002 --> 00:08:56,801 and sometimes months doing the right thing, 222 00:08:56,870 --> 00:08:58,737 and I'm not even dropping a single pound. 223 00:08:58,805 --> 00:09:02,607 And so then I also have heavy periods, 224 00:09:02,676 --> 00:09:03,975 and then I can't sleep. 225 00:09:04,044 --> 00:09:06,111 And so there's just so many things 226 00:09:06,179 --> 00:09:08,914 that I can't--I can't control. 227 00:09:08,982 --> 00:09:11,583 - ♪ But I don't want to care anymore ♪ 228 00:09:11,652 --> 00:09:14,452 ♪ Stop making it hard for me ♪ 229 00:09:14,521 --> 00:09:16,922 ♪ So hard for me ♪ 230 00:09:21,161 --> 00:09:23,461 [Le Trouble's "How Was I To Know"] 231 00:09:23,530 --> 00:09:27,999 - ♪ Baby, we did it our way ♪ 232 00:09:28,068 --> 00:09:29,734 - We're dropping Holly off with my mom 233 00:09:29,803 --> 00:09:31,870 because now that Bar has his ankle monitor off, 234 00:09:31,939 --> 00:09:33,872 we can celebrate our engagement. 235 00:09:33,941 --> 00:09:35,707 He hasn't had a drink in over a year, 236 00:09:35,776 --> 00:09:38,109 so I hope he'll be responsible. 237 00:09:38,178 --> 00:09:40,545 - You cannot tell me he is not [inaudible] right now. 238 00:09:40,614 --> 00:09:44,616 - Damn all that [bleep] [bleep]. 239 00:09:44,685 --> 00:09:46,785 - Knock, Knock. - Knock, knock. Open sesame. 240 00:09:46,853 --> 00:09:48,486 - Hey, hey, hey. - Who's there? It's me. 241 00:09:48,555 --> 00:09:50,555 - It's us. - Open ses. 242 00:09:50,624 --> 00:09:52,057 - Hey. - What? This is my house too. 243 00:09:52,125 --> 00:09:54,759 - You come through the door like the Task Force. 244 00:09:54,828 --> 00:09:55,760 Geesh! 245 00:09:55,829 --> 00:09:57,329 So what's the plan with you guys? 246 00:09:57,397 --> 00:09:59,764 - So what's up? - Napa. 247 00:09:59,833 --> 00:10:02,100 - Napa. - Only old people go to Napa. 248 00:10:02,169 --> 00:10:04,936 - No, we've been talking about Napa since we got together. 249 00:10:05,005 --> 00:10:06,071 - Okay. 250 00:10:06,139 --> 00:10:07,439 - We been talking about going out to Napa, 251 00:10:07,507 --> 00:10:08,773 but we just ain't never did. 252 00:10:08,842 --> 00:10:10,141 - Okay. - So now we doin' it. 253 00:10:10,210 --> 00:10:11,977 - Okay. So this is what I do know. 254 00:10:12,045 --> 00:10:15,880 Now you goin' out, how you feel about being off the monitor 255 00:10:15,949 --> 00:10:18,149 and you free to do whatever? - I ain't worried about it. 256 00:10:18,218 --> 00:10:19,985 I thought I was gonna be worried like, "Damn, all right, 257 00:10:20,053 --> 00:10:22,253 "now the ankle monitor off, am I gonna-- 258 00:10:22,322 --> 00:10:24,055 "is it gonna immediately pop back in my head, like, drink, 259 00:10:24,124 --> 00:10:25,957 drink, drink, drink, drink?" But no, it didn't. 260 00:10:26,026 --> 00:10:29,494 - Well, drink responsibly if you do decide to drink. 261 00:10:29,563 --> 00:10:32,564 - Yeah. I'm actually genuinely excited to go find a good wine. 262 00:10:32,633 --> 00:10:34,132 - Taste wine. Yeah, me too. 263 00:10:34,201 --> 00:10:35,867 - To find a food wine 'cause I know, like, two wines 264 00:10:35,936 --> 00:10:37,636 that I like, but like, real talk, 265 00:10:37,704 --> 00:10:40,238 I really don't got no interest in hard alcohol. 266 00:10:40,307 --> 00:10:42,073 - But the monitor been off and he ain't drink nothing. 267 00:10:42,142 --> 00:10:44,009 - But with all respect, though, I haven't seen you drink. 268 00:10:44,077 --> 00:10:45,477 I haven't seen you drink at all. 269 00:10:45,545 --> 00:10:46,911 - You know when I was drinking [bleep]. 270 00:10:46,980 --> 00:10:48,947 It wasn't easy to hide [bleep]. 271 00:10:49,016 --> 00:10:49,948 - But I tell you a lot of people 272 00:10:50,017 --> 00:10:51,349 done get on that ankle monitor 273 00:10:51,418 --> 00:10:52,584 and really do it for a whole year. 274 00:10:52,653 --> 00:10:53,952 - So-- - I know a couple people 275 00:10:54,021 --> 00:10:55,387 that ended up violating, like, a couple times. 276 00:10:55,455 --> 00:10:57,288 - He did it for a whole year without one hiccup. 277 00:10:57,357 --> 00:10:59,691 - Okay, so I hope you guys do have fun though. 278 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:03,895 Whatever you guys decide to do, stay safe, stay out of trouble. 279 00:11:03,964 --> 00:11:05,430 - I'm getting into all the trouble 280 00:11:05,499 --> 00:11:07,565 with a capital "Troub." 281 00:11:07,634 --> 00:11:08,667 - I'm not. 282 00:11:08,735 --> 00:11:10,669 - Thank you. - [laughs] 283 00:11:10,737 --> 00:11:12,604 - I'm kind of excited to, 284 00:11:12,673 --> 00:11:14,673 I guess, enjoy alcohol with him again. 285 00:11:14,741 --> 00:11:16,141 We're young. 286 00:11:16,209 --> 00:11:17,842 We obviously want to go to bars. 287 00:11:17,911 --> 00:11:19,310 We hang out with our friends who drink. 288 00:11:19,379 --> 00:11:23,248 And so it's just really hard to maintain that line 289 00:11:23,316 --> 00:11:24,716 of what's appropriate. 290 00:11:24,785 --> 00:11:26,918 But I don't see him going overboard. 291 00:11:26,987 --> 00:11:28,920 Not only has Bar seen the consequences 292 00:11:28,989 --> 00:11:31,022 of what drinking can do, but I also feel like 293 00:11:31,091 --> 00:11:33,391 he's genuinely felt the consequence, 294 00:11:33,460 --> 00:11:36,761 like me leaving him, him not having his family. 295 00:11:36,830 --> 00:11:40,765 So I hope that, together, we're able to kind of navigate 296 00:11:40,834 --> 00:11:43,702 what this ankle monitor being off means. 297 00:11:43,770 --> 00:11:46,538 [High Tropics' "Waterfalls"] - ♪ And I hope that I see ♪ 298 00:11:46,606 --> 00:11:48,173 ♪ The sunshine ♪ 299 00:11:48,241 --> 00:11:51,743 ♪ I hope that I see the sunshine ♪ 300 00:11:51,812 --> 00:11:54,546 - Hola. - Hey. 301 00:11:54,614 --> 00:11:56,448 - How is she? - Sleeping, finally. 302 00:11:56,516 --> 00:11:58,049 - Sleeping? That's good. - Yeah. 303 00:11:58,118 --> 00:12:00,585 Just trying to get [bleep] cleaned up, you know? 304 00:12:00,654 --> 00:12:02,053 - You guys are still leaving tonight? 305 00:12:02,122 --> 00:12:03,321 - Yeah. 306 00:12:03,390 --> 00:12:04,789 - [groans] - Yep. 307 00:12:04,858 --> 00:12:06,491 It's a straight-through flight. We're in first class. 308 00:12:06,560 --> 00:12:07,892 So she's got leg room. 309 00:12:07,961 --> 00:12:09,627 And, like, the doctor wants me getting up 310 00:12:09,696 --> 00:12:11,830 and walking her every so often on the flight 311 00:12:11,898 --> 00:12:13,398 'cause, I mean, 312 00:12:13,467 --> 00:12:15,266 it's only, like, an hour and a half straight through. 313 00:12:15,335 --> 00:12:17,102 But yeah, you're more than welcome to go in there. 314 00:12:17,170 --> 00:12:18,336 - Okay. 315 00:12:21,408 --> 00:12:23,675 Hi. 316 00:12:23,744 --> 00:12:26,644 How are you, beautiful girl? Where's her mom? 317 00:12:26,713 --> 00:12:27,846 - Out back. 318 00:12:27,914 --> 00:12:29,347 - How's that going? - Good. 319 00:12:29,416 --> 00:12:30,815 Just they're her out there, you know, like-- 320 00:12:30,884 --> 00:12:33,218 - Yeah, they're just out there. 321 00:12:33,286 --> 00:12:34,319 - Yeah. 322 00:12:34,387 --> 00:12:36,020 - Do you think it's the safest thing 323 00:12:36,089 --> 00:12:38,056 to leave tonight? 324 00:12:38,125 --> 00:12:40,158 - I don't see it being a problem 'cause it's got-- 325 00:12:40,227 --> 00:12:43,361 - You want to know what my concern is about her flying 326 00:12:43,430 --> 00:12:44,963 is, when I had surgery done, 327 00:12:45,031 --> 00:12:49,100 my doctor didn't want me traveling for two weeks 328 00:12:49,169 --> 00:12:50,869 just because of, 329 00:12:50,937 --> 00:12:53,071 you know, possible blood clots and, you know-- 330 00:12:53,140 --> 00:12:54,539 - Right. I mean, he cleared her. 331 00:12:54,608 --> 00:12:57,041 - She could die, you know? - He cleared her, you know? 332 00:12:57,110 --> 00:12:59,344 Like, I don't think he would let her if he thought her life 333 00:12:59,412 --> 00:13:00,979 was in danger, you know? 334 00:13:04,351 --> 00:13:06,050 I don't have any bad feelings about it. 335 00:13:06,119 --> 00:13:08,953 Usually if something--I have a bad feeling about something 336 00:13:09,022 --> 00:13:10,321 if we shouldn't do it. 337 00:13:10,390 --> 00:13:12,891 But I haven't had a bad feeling about it, so... 338 00:13:15,862 --> 00:13:17,262 - Okay. - She said no cameras. 339 00:13:17,330 --> 00:13:19,364 Absolutely no. 340 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:23,635 - Hi, beautiful girl. You look so much better. 341 00:13:23,703 --> 00:13:25,003 - Hello. 342 00:13:25,071 --> 00:13:26,704 - Mummy. 343 00:13:26,773 --> 00:13:28,740 - You look like you have color. 344 00:13:31,444 --> 00:13:33,711 - Girl, we told you to hit us up if you needed anything. 345 00:13:33,780 --> 00:13:34,979 - You could have texted me. 346 00:13:35,048 --> 00:13:36,748 We would have been here for you. 347 00:13:41,621 --> 00:13:43,254 - Girl, we're worried about you flying. 348 00:13:43,323 --> 00:13:45,857 - Do you know the risk of you flying with a blood clot? 349 00:13:45,926 --> 00:13:47,225 You know that you can die? 350 00:13:47,294 --> 00:13:48,860 - I don't know what to do 'cause I feel like 351 00:13:48,929 --> 00:13:50,228 don't nobody give a [bleep] about me. 352 00:13:50,297 --> 00:13:51,930 - Girl, that's why we're telling you to stay. 353 00:13:51,998 --> 00:13:54,265 - Jade, stay. 354 00:13:54,334 --> 00:13:56,467 Sean can take care of the baby at home. 355 00:13:56,536 --> 00:13:57,869 You come to my house. 356 00:13:57,938 --> 00:14:00,371 Do you want to come to my house? 357 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,140 - I'm just scared to fly now 'cause I feel like 358 00:14:02,209 --> 00:14:05,109 you're telling me, like, I'm gonna die or something. 359 00:14:05,178 --> 00:14:06,878 - You have clean beds, clean sheets, 360 00:14:06,947 --> 00:14:08,279 clean towels, TV, 361 00:14:08,348 --> 00:14:11,950 Wi-Fi, food, everything you need at home. 362 00:14:13,086 --> 00:14:14,419 - You're not. Girl, you're not. 363 00:14:14,487 --> 00:14:17,288 - I have a walk-in shower. I have a walk-in shower. 364 00:14:17,357 --> 00:14:19,524 You will be fine. Come to my house. 365 00:14:19,593 --> 00:14:22,060 That's it. You're not leaving. You're gonna come to my house. 366 00:14:24,097 --> 00:14:25,630 Briana wants me to go home with her. 367 00:14:25,699 --> 00:14:27,966 She's like--she said the risk of flying. Tell him-- 368 00:14:28,034 --> 00:14:29,167 - We can take her. - Tell him the risk. 369 00:14:29,236 --> 00:14:30,134 - We were talking to him earlier. 370 00:14:30,203 --> 00:14:31,236 We can take her home. 371 00:14:31,304 --> 00:14:32,871 - Well, I'm not gonna leave her. 372 00:14:32,939 --> 00:14:34,672 What kind of boyfriend would I be if I left you out here? 373 00:14:34,741 --> 00:14:36,174 - I would rather you just go. - You're not gonna leave her. 374 00:14:36,243 --> 00:14:37,308 You're not gonna leave her alone. 375 00:14:37,377 --> 00:14:38,776 You're gonna leave her with us. 376 00:14:38,845 --> 00:14:40,211 - And I'm scared now to fly 377 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:41,813 'cause she's, like, saying there's all these risks. 378 00:14:41,882 --> 00:14:43,147 - I feel like a piece of [bleep] 379 00:14:43,216 --> 00:14:44,616 because I couldn't care for you. 380 00:14:44,684 --> 00:14:45,884 - But you're taking care of-- 381 00:14:45,952 --> 00:14:47,518 you're taking care of your child. 382 00:14:47,587 --> 00:14:49,354 - The baby and you're taking care of her indirectly 383 00:14:49,422 --> 00:14:51,089 because you're taking all that stress off her. 384 00:14:51,157 --> 00:14:52,557 You're taking all the pressure off of her. 385 00:14:52,626 --> 00:14:55,026 - And you guys know what she's going through. 386 00:14:55,095 --> 00:14:56,794 - We've been through it a lot. 387 00:14:56,863 --> 00:14:58,429 This is, what, my third, fourth surgery. 388 00:14:58,498 --> 00:15:00,031 So don't feel like you're gonna be a burden on anybody 389 00:15:00,100 --> 00:15:01,499 because she brought it up. 390 00:15:01,568 --> 00:15:03,067 - Yeah, you're not 'cause the doors are open. 391 00:15:03,136 --> 00:15:04,402 - She understood when I told her you're not leaving. 392 00:15:04,471 --> 00:15:05,270 She wants to see you. 393 00:15:05,338 --> 00:15:06,504 - Hi, Mommy. - Hi, baby. 394 00:15:06,573 --> 00:15:08,439 - Are you sick? - Yeah. 395 00:15:08,508 --> 00:15:10,575 Okay, I'll go... 396 00:15:10,644 --> 00:15:13,611 [dramatic music] 397 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:17,048 ♪ ♪ 398 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:22,487 [Layup's "Run All the Way"] 399 00:15:22,555 --> 00:15:26,090 - ♪ I'm gonna run a long time ♪ 400 00:15:26,159 --> 00:15:28,259 - We made the decision to keep everyone home 401 00:15:28,328 --> 00:15:30,561 for remote learning a few months ago. 402 00:15:30,630 --> 00:15:32,797 But since the schools are a lot safer now, 403 00:15:32,866 --> 00:15:36,000 it might be better for Addie to go back in person. 404 00:15:36,069 --> 00:15:39,938 [line ringing] 405 00:15:40,006 --> 00:15:43,474 Hi, this is Leah Messer, Adalynn Calvert's mom. 406 00:15:44,477 --> 00:15:48,446 Yeah, I know, we're struggling a little bit with e-learning. 407 00:15:48,515 --> 00:15:50,448 Bring her in when? 408 00:15:50,517 --> 00:15:53,685 The same requirements-- or same guidelines? 409 00:15:53,753 --> 00:15:55,119 Yeah. All right. 410 00:15:55,188 --> 00:15:57,388 Well, we will see you guys tomorrow. 411 00:15:57,457 --> 00:15:59,023 Thank you. 412 00:15:59,092 --> 00:16:01,826 All right, bye. 413 00:16:01,895 --> 00:16:03,895 That was easier than I thought. 414 00:16:03,964 --> 00:16:05,863 [bleep] going to school tomorrow! 415 00:16:05,932 --> 00:16:07,865 Ayy! [laughs] 416 00:16:07,934 --> 00:16:09,734 I--I love her. I love her. 417 00:16:09,803 --> 00:16:11,202 But she has had a really-- 418 00:16:11,271 --> 00:16:13,805 extremely difficult time focusing. 419 00:16:13,873 --> 00:16:16,007 It's definitely been hard to navigate what is best 420 00:16:16,076 --> 00:16:18,242 for all of our health 421 00:16:18,311 --> 00:16:21,646 and making sure that they're also getting a good education. 422 00:16:21,715 --> 00:16:24,482 I think that's something that a lot of parents can relate to, 423 00:16:24,551 --> 00:16:26,184 really, like, what's the right decision, 424 00:16:26,252 --> 00:16:27,819 because there's been so many times 425 00:16:27,887 --> 00:16:31,122 it's been kind of, like, up in the air, like-- 426 00:16:32,492 --> 00:16:34,292 - Okay, ready? 427 00:16:34,361 --> 00:16:36,661 - Make your grand appearance, and I'll-- 428 00:16:36,730 --> 00:16:39,130 - [laughs] 429 00:16:39,199 --> 00:16:41,866 - Okay! 430 00:16:41,935 --> 00:16:44,068 Guess what. I got a surprise to tell you. 431 00:16:44,137 --> 00:16:45,770 Do you want to know the surprise? 432 00:16:45,839 --> 00:16:47,005 - Yeah. 433 00:16:47,073 --> 00:16:49,007 - I'm taking your butt to school tomorrow 434 00:16:49,075 --> 00:16:52,110 so you can really learn, really get some work done. 435 00:16:52,178 --> 00:16:54,512 And we have to be there by 6:45. 436 00:16:54,581 --> 00:16:56,714 So you're gonna follow the guidelines 437 00:16:56,783 --> 00:16:57,949 if I let you go back to school? 438 00:16:58,018 --> 00:16:59,417 - Yeah. - Yeah? 439 00:16:59,486 --> 00:17:02,286 Why is it important that you stay safe at school? 440 00:17:02,355 --> 00:17:04,756 - So I don't bring nothing back to sissies. 441 00:17:04,824 --> 00:17:07,225 - Yeah. Or anyone. We don't want to infect anyone. 442 00:17:07,293 --> 00:17:08,326 - Mm-hmm. 443 00:17:08,395 --> 00:17:09,927 - So you're gonna do your part at school? 444 00:17:09,996 --> 00:17:11,329 Pinky promise? 445 00:17:11,398 --> 00:17:14,365 [upbeat music] 446 00:17:14,434 --> 00:17:16,100 ♪ ♪ 447 00:17:16,169 --> 00:17:18,569 [relaxed music] 448 00:17:18,638 --> 00:17:20,405 - I got my test results back from the bloodwork 449 00:17:20,473 --> 00:17:21,806 and ultrasound. 450 00:17:21,875 --> 00:17:23,307 It's a lot to process, 451 00:17:23,376 --> 00:17:25,143 but I'm recording a podcast with Lindsie today, 452 00:17:25,211 --> 00:17:28,046 and I think I'm ready to talk about it. 453 00:17:28,114 --> 00:17:29,347 Okay, recording. 454 00:17:29,416 --> 00:17:31,315 All right, everyone, we're back 455 00:17:31,384 --> 00:17:34,152 with another episode of "Coffee Convos Podcast." 456 00:17:34,220 --> 00:17:36,721 And today, we are podcasting from-- 457 00:17:36,790 --> 00:17:38,523 - Philadelphia. - Pennsylvania. 458 00:17:38,591 --> 00:17:40,725 Okay, so I think we've just prefaced this 459 00:17:40,794 --> 00:17:42,360 by saying you guys convinced me 460 00:17:42,429 --> 00:17:44,729 to go get my period problem checked out. 461 00:17:44,798 --> 00:17:46,597 I scheduled with my GYN. 462 00:17:46,666 --> 00:17:49,934 In the ultrasound, he found, on my right ovary, 463 00:17:50,003 --> 00:17:53,037 I had multiple cysts, almost ten. 464 00:17:53,106 --> 00:17:54,605 And then on the right ovary, 465 00:17:54,674 --> 00:17:58,776 he found a cyst that was half the size of my ovary. 466 00:17:58,845 --> 00:18:01,813 - Wow. - In the, like, notes... 467 00:18:01,881 --> 00:18:03,081 - Mm-hmm. 468 00:18:03,149 --> 00:18:05,550 - Polycystic ovarian syndrome. 469 00:18:05,618 --> 00:18:07,552 [solemn music] 470 00:18:07,620 --> 00:18:09,253 - What is PCOS? 471 00:18:09,322 --> 00:18:11,089 - Some people have trouble getting pregnant on it. 472 00:18:11,157 --> 00:18:12,256 It affects fertility. 473 00:18:12,325 --> 00:18:14,459 It affects your insulin resistance. 474 00:18:14,527 --> 00:18:17,528 You're predisposed to diabetes and other things, 475 00:18:17,597 --> 00:18:19,097 heart disease. 476 00:18:19,165 --> 00:18:22,800 And it can be very, very difficult for people 477 00:18:22,869 --> 00:18:24,168 who have PCOS to lose weight. 478 00:18:24,237 --> 00:18:25,536 - And then, like, how long does it take 479 00:18:25,605 --> 00:18:27,505 to develop something like this? Like, is it-- 480 00:18:27,574 --> 00:18:29,140 - I think it's unknown. 481 00:18:29,209 --> 00:18:31,275 But yeah, it's been-- it's been a rough little ride 482 00:18:31,344 --> 00:18:33,111 for this little period of my life. 483 00:18:33,179 --> 00:18:34,745 But I want to get it under control. 484 00:18:34,814 --> 00:18:36,214 And I want to focus on that. 485 00:18:36,282 --> 00:18:38,282 But like, yes, I have four kids, 486 00:18:38,351 --> 00:18:39,817 I don't really fit the criteria, 487 00:18:39,886 --> 00:18:41,452 but I want to do egg freezing 488 00:18:41,521 --> 00:18:44,388 because I may not be able to conceive naturally now 489 00:18:44,457 --> 00:18:46,324 that I have it diagnosed-- like, I know. 490 00:18:46,392 --> 00:18:48,626 I feel like it's easy for anyone to say, like, 491 00:18:48,695 --> 00:18:50,728 "Oh, I'm choosing to be done having kids." 492 00:18:50,797 --> 00:18:52,263 - Mm-hmm. 493 00:18:52,332 --> 00:18:54,065 - But when the option is completely taken from you, 494 00:18:54,134 --> 00:18:55,433 and I'm not saying it has for me, 495 00:18:55,502 --> 00:18:57,268 but I feel like I'm speaking for a lot of people, 496 00:18:57,337 --> 00:19:01,205 like, it feels like it's not fair. 497 00:19:01,274 --> 00:19:04,375 I will say the comments that I get about my weight gain 498 00:19:04,444 --> 00:19:06,644 on social media and being on the show and stuff, 499 00:19:06,713 --> 00:19:10,214 like, that has been the hardest part for me because-- 500 00:19:10,283 --> 00:19:12,984 - It's out of your control. - Yes. 501 00:19:13,052 --> 00:19:15,052 - You would be like, 502 00:19:15,121 --> 00:19:17,054 "I am doing these hard workouts and I'm"... 503 00:19:17,123 --> 00:19:20,024 both: I'm not dropping one single pound. 504 00:19:20,093 --> 00:19:21,225 - And that's where I get emotional 505 00:19:21,294 --> 00:19:23,494 'cause it's like-- 506 00:19:23,563 --> 00:19:25,129 and so when people comment and they're like, 507 00:19:25,198 --> 00:19:26,697 "Oh, pig, cow, this, that, and third," 508 00:19:26,766 --> 00:19:31,002 I'm like, "Well, [bleep]. Like I--do I get surgery? 509 00:19:31,070 --> 00:19:34,272 Do I--like, what is wrong with me that I can't lose weight?" 510 00:19:34,340 --> 00:19:36,207 Those workouts, I was, like, dreading. 511 00:19:36,276 --> 00:19:37,542 - 'Cause it wasn't sustainable for you. 512 00:19:38,611 --> 00:19:39,911 And then I'm trying - Nto eat healthy,at. 513 00:19:39,979 --> 00:19:41,112 and I don't normally eat these things, 514 00:19:41,181 --> 00:19:42,580 and, like, the comments on Instagram-- 515 00:19:42,649 --> 00:19:44,415 and I know that, like, my friends and stuff, like, 516 00:19:44,484 --> 00:19:46,250 they've noticed the weight gain. 517 00:19:46,319 --> 00:19:48,386 You can't--it's undeniable and it's not something 518 00:19:48,454 --> 00:19:49,654 I've been able to control. 519 00:19:49,722 --> 00:19:51,122 I've tried. 520 00:19:51,191 --> 00:19:54,091 [somber music] 521 00:19:54,160 --> 00:20:01,299 ♪ ♪ 522 00:20:04,270 --> 00:20:06,337 [ROOMATE's "Good Life"] 523 00:20:06,406 --> 00:20:09,207 - ♪ We got the good life ♪ 524 00:20:09,275 --> 00:20:12,009 ♪ Heading for the blue skies ♪ 525 00:20:12,078 --> 00:20:14,378 - We got to Napa last night and met up with our friends. 526 00:20:14,447 --> 00:20:15,746 It's nice to be able 527 00:20:15,815 --> 00:20:18,583 to celebrate our engagement like this. 528 00:20:18,651 --> 00:20:21,519 Okay, let's make sure we're pouring all the same wines. 529 00:20:21,588 --> 00:20:22,987 - Okay. - We all got the same tastes. 530 00:20:23,056 --> 00:20:24,722 - Got you. 531 00:20:24,791 --> 00:20:26,023 both: Okay. - Okay. 532 00:20:30,730 --> 00:20:32,063 - Okay. - Okay. 533 00:20:32,131 --> 00:20:34,932 - Ooh-hoo-hoo! Swirl it. - I can't smell it. 534 00:20:35,001 --> 00:20:36,067 - You don't even have ice in yours. 535 00:20:36,135 --> 00:20:37,301 - I'm just kidding. I don't know. 536 00:20:37,370 --> 00:20:39,870 I don't know if you're supposed to swirl it. 537 00:20:39,939 --> 00:20:41,372 So... - Yo. 538 00:20:41,441 --> 00:20:43,407 - Tastes like grapes. Definitely grapes in it. Next. 539 00:20:43,476 --> 00:20:44,542 [laughter] 540 00:20:44,611 --> 00:20:45,910 I feel like I just took a shot. 541 00:20:45,979 --> 00:20:48,212 - Better than that beer. I'm drunk. 542 00:20:48,281 --> 00:20:49,780 - I'm not gonna lie, though, but I'ma be honest, 543 00:20:49,849 --> 00:20:51,649 like, I'm not typically a extreme fan 544 00:20:51,718 --> 00:20:52,950 of Chardonnay though. 545 00:20:53,019 --> 00:20:55,720 - Me either. - It's dry as hell. 546 00:20:55,788 --> 00:20:57,655 Mmm. - You like it? 547 00:20:57,724 --> 00:20:58,923 - It's not horrible. It's not horrible. 548 00:20:58,992 --> 00:21:00,725 - Here goes nothing. 549 00:21:00,793 --> 00:21:04,028 - I'm not gonna lie, yo, I got--I'm cool, bro. 550 00:21:04,097 --> 00:21:05,596 Like, I'm taking it slow, bro. 551 00:21:05,665 --> 00:21:07,131 - And it's been a minute. - Your tolerance's lower. 552 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:08,299 - If you take a break like that... 553 00:21:08,368 --> 00:21:09,467 - Yeah, my tolerance is trash. 554 00:21:09,535 --> 00:21:11,402 - Your tolerance drop for sure. 555 00:21:11,471 --> 00:21:13,938 - 'Cause when we started--when I started drinking the wine, 556 00:21:14,007 --> 00:21:15,973 when we first got here, I got a little tipsy from it. 557 00:21:16,042 --> 00:21:17,408 Not like--I wasn't drunk, but it was like-- 558 00:21:17,477 --> 00:21:19,010 - That wine from the gondola got me tipsy. 559 00:21:19,078 --> 00:21:20,344 - It was quick. 560 00:21:20,413 --> 00:21:22,480 - That red wine in the gondola? - Oh, yeah. 561 00:21:22,548 --> 00:21:24,649 - I used to drink a lot of Hennessy. 562 00:21:24,717 --> 00:21:26,350 Hennessy was actually one of the alcohols that-- 563 00:21:26,419 --> 00:21:27,985 like, Hennessy and E&J 564 00:21:28,054 --> 00:21:29,287 is the two alcohols that I really-- 565 00:21:29,355 --> 00:21:30,721 - Oh, wow. - Years and years ago. 566 00:21:30,790 --> 00:21:32,089 - I was cool. 567 00:21:32,158 --> 00:21:33,557 - You just said that like you, like, 35. 568 00:21:34,827 --> 00:21:37,028 - That was a whole lifetime ago, like, for real. 569 00:21:37,096 --> 00:21:39,463 Bruh, if y'all knew how I was living, 570 00:21:39,532 --> 00:21:41,632 that was a whole lifetime ago for real. 571 00:21:41,701 --> 00:21:43,467 - Right. - This is great. This is great. 572 00:21:43,536 --> 00:21:45,736 - I feel you. I feel you. - This is great. 573 00:21:45,805 --> 00:21:47,872 [upbeat music] 574 00:21:47,940 --> 00:21:49,640 [serious music] 575 00:21:49,709 --> 00:21:52,543 - My recovery should be a lot smoother at Briana's house. 576 00:21:52,612 --> 00:21:54,178 So I really appreciate her offer. 577 00:21:54,247 --> 00:21:56,681 Sean's packing my stuff now, but he and my parents 578 00:21:56,749 --> 00:21:59,250 are flying back to Indy tonight with Kloie. 579 00:22:01,354 --> 00:22:02,653 - This is literally all her medical stuff. 580 00:22:02,722 --> 00:22:03,854 [line trilling] - Everything? 581 00:22:03,923 --> 00:22:05,222 - Yeah. - Okay. You can put it my car. 582 00:22:05,291 --> 00:22:06,524 - And then her garments are in that bag. 583 00:22:06,592 --> 00:22:08,492 - Okay. Okay. - Where do you want it? 584 00:22:08,561 --> 00:22:09,827 - Anywhere at the back of the car. 585 00:22:09,896 --> 00:22:11,696 Doesn't matter. Should be open. Hey, Mama. 586 00:22:11,764 --> 00:22:14,131 - Hi. - Hey. 587 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:17,335 - Is she okay? - She could be better. 588 00:22:17,403 --> 00:22:19,570 It's a very stressful situation here. 589 00:22:19,639 --> 00:22:21,472 So she just wants to get away from everybody. 590 00:22:21,541 --> 00:22:23,374 So I told her to come to the house 591 00:22:23,443 --> 00:22:24,942 and we'll take care of her 592 00:22:25,011 --> 00:22:26,811 and we'll figure it out when she gets to the house. 593 00:22:26,879 --> 00:22:29,146 I'll help her shower, clean sheets, she said that-- 594 00:22:29,215 --> 00:22:30,881 - Yeah. 595 00:22:30,950 --> 00:22:32,783 - She said that she doesn't even have a clean towel, so-- 596 00:22:32,852 --> 00:22:33,851 - Yeah. 597 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:35,953 - We got to take her for a few days. 598 00:22:36,022 --> 00:22:40,891 We're gonna buy a air mattress for the car 599 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,293 so she can lay down. 600 00:22:42,362 --> 00:22:43,728 - Oh, wow. - Yeah. 601 00:22:43,796 --> 00:22:45,229 So she's gonna be in the back of the car, 602 00:22:45,298 --> 00:22:46,897 and we'll just have to figure it out. 603 00:22:46,966 --> 00:22:49,033 - And how's the little girl? - She's okay. 604 00:22:49,102 --> 00:22:51,402 She's gonna go back home with Sean. 605 00:22:51,471 --> 00:22:53,404 But they're all gonna leave tonight. 606 00:22:53,473 --> 00:22:54,705 - Oh, my God. Poor girl. 607 00:22:54,774 --> 00:22:56,674 Thank God she made the right choice. 608 00:22:56,743 --> 00:23:00,578 - I'd rather her be in our care than her alone in this house 609 00:23:00,646 --> 00:23:02,546 or at least feeling alone in this house. 610 00:23:02,615 --> 00:23:04,014 - Yeah. Yeah. I know. I know. 611 00:23:04,083 --> 00:23:05,883 'Cause she also needs to get away from that. 612 00:23:05,952 --> 00:23:07,818 - Just be ready 'cause there's gonna be 613 00:23:07,887 --> 00:23:10,354 a third child coming into the house. 614 00:23:10,423 --> 00:23:13,257 - It's okay. Make sure you drive safely. 615 00:23:13,326 --> 00:23:14,658 - Yeah. Thanks, Mom. Love you. 616 00:23:14,727 --> 00:23:15,826 - Love you. Bye. 617 00:23:15,895 --> 00:23:16,927 - Bye. 618 00:23:16,996 --> 00:23:22,833 ♪ ♪ 619 00:23:26,205 --> 00:23:28,005 [upbeat music] 620 00:23:28,074 --> 00:23:30,241 - ♪ Oh, whoa, oh, oh ♪ 621 00:23:30,309 --> 00:23:31,942 - I'm on my way to pick up the twins, 622 00:23:32,011 --> 00:23:34,044 and I'll have the girls for Addie's first day 623 00:23:34,113 --> 00:23:35,746 back at school tomorrow. 624 00:23:35,815 --> 00:23:38,382 Are you excited to go to in-person school? 625 00:23:38,451 --> 00:23:40,418 - Mm-hmm. - You want to call Daddy 626 00:23:40,486 --> 00:23:42,853 and tell him you're going back to in-person tomorrow? 627 00:23:42,922 --> 00:23:44,155 - Yeah-huh. 628 00:23:44,223 --> 00:23:48,793 [line ringing] 629 00:23:48,861 --> 00:23:49,927 - Hello. 630 00:23:49,996 --> 00:23:51,295 - Oh, well, guess who gets 631 00:23:51,364 --> 00:23:54,565 to go back to school in person tomorrow. 632 00:23:54,634 --> 00:23:58,035 - Miss Addie butt. - Miss Addie butt. 633 00:23:58,104 --> 00:24:00,771 - Are you excited you'll get to see some of your friends? 634 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,807 - Yes. 635 00:24:02,875 --> 00:24:06,510 - She gets to wake up bright and early, 5:00 a.m. 636 00:24:06,579 --> 00:24:09,580 - Oh, you'll be griping about it by about Wednesday. 637 00:24:10,450 --> 00:24:12,316 - "Can I do e-learning?!" 638 00:24:12,385 --> 00:24:13,951 And I'm gonna say, 639 00:24:14,020 --> 00:24:18,689 "H-E-double-hockey-stick no." 640 00:24:18,758 --> 00:24:21,025 - [laughs] 641 00:24:21,093 --> 00:24:22,760 - I mean, it's hard. 642 00:24:22,829 --> 00:24:26,897 I'm sure that being younger, it's more difficult for her. 643 00:24:26,966 --> 00:24:32,069 I can be at my very best, but I'm still not that teacher. 644 00:24:32,138 --> 00:24:35,906 - I agree. I agree. - Have a good evening. 645 00:24:35,975 --> 00:24:38,576 - I love you, Faith. - Love you. 646 00:24:38,644 --> 00:24:41,178 - Love you more. - No. 647 00:24:41,247 --> 00:24:43,080 - Yeah. I win. 648 00:24:43,149 --> 00:24:46,083 - I win. - I win. 649 00:24:46,152 --> 00:24:48,853 - I win a million times. - Okay, bye. 650 00:24:48,921 --> 00:24:50,321 - Hey! 651 00:24:50,389 --> 00:24:51,422 - ♪ It's good to be home ♪ 652 00:24:51,491 --> 00:24:53,557 ♪ Oh, whoa, oh, oh ♪ 653 00:24:53,626 --> 00:24:55,893 ♪ Oh, whoa, oh, oh ♪ 654 00:24:55,962 --> 00:24:57,828 ♪ Oh, whoa, oh, oh ♪ 655 00:24:57,897 --> 00:25:04,835 ♪ ♪ 656 00:25:06,772 --> 00:25:08,305 - Okay, bye, Dad. - Bye, baby girl. 657 00:25:08,374 --> 00:25:09,673 - Love you. - Love y'all. 658 00:25:09,742 --> 00:25:13,711 - ♪ I know where I belong ♪ 659 00:25:13,779 --> 00:25:15,679 - Guess what. - What? 660 00:25:15,748 --> 00:25:19,350 - Addie's going back to school tomorrow! 661 00:25:21,988 --> 00:25:23,354 [laughs] 662 00:25:23,422 --> 00:25:26,590 [dramatic music] 663 00:25:26,659 --> 00:25:28,325 - My family's leaving for the airport, 664 00:25:28,394 --> 00:25:32,229 and I'm going to Orlando with Bri and Shirley later tonight. 665 00:25:32,298 --> 00:25:35,165 - Love you, Jade. [Kloie whining] 666 00:25:35,234 --> 00:25:37,167 - Kloie, Kloie. Honey, honey. Stop. 667 00:25:37,236 --> 00:25:42,973 ♪ ♪ 668 00:25:43,042 --> 00:25:45,009 - Bye. - Thank you. 669 00:25:45,077 --> 00:25:46,710 - You're welcome. 670 00:25:49,282 --> 00:25:51,949 Wow. Intense. 671 00:25:54,453 --> 00:25:55,920 All right. This is gonna have to do. 672 00:25:58,858 --> 00:26:00,591 This doesn't fill up all the way, Shirley. 673 00:26:00,660 --> 00:26:02,760 You want to help me bring this inside? 674 00:26:04,430 --> 00:26:06,163 - I think it'll be fine when she lays on it 675 00:26:06,232 --> 00:26:08,499 'cause she still has the seats. 676 00:26:08,568 --> 00:26:11,201 - It doesn't fill up all the way, mother [bleep]. 677 00:26:11,270 --> 00:26:12,636 "Does this even fit?" is the question. 678 00:26:12,705 --> 00:26:15,306 - We're gonna make it fit. Hold on. 679 00:26:15,374 --> 00:26:18,075 - [bleep]. 680 00:26:18,144 --> 00:26:19,910 - Wait, wait, wait. - We're gonna pop it. 681 00:26:19,979 --> 00:26:21,645 - Lift it up over there. 682 00:26:21,714 --> 00:26:23,480 - I'm gonna let some air out. 683 00:26:23,549 --> 00:26:25,382 - No, no, no, no. 684 00:26:25,451 --> 00:26:28,052 She's gonna be miserable. 685 00:26:28,120 --> 00:26:29,219 Tell her to come in here. 686 00:26:29,288 --> 00:26:30,888 - Come this way. 687 00:26:30,957 --> 00:26:34,758 It's easier, Jade. Just two steps here. 688 00:26:34,827 --> 00:26:38,128 - I'll be all right. - So how are we doing this? 689 00:26:38,197 --> 00:26:40,097 - Okay, okay. [bleep]. 690 00:26:40,166 --> 00:26:41,632 - It's okay. It's okay. 691 00:26:41,701 --> 00:26:43,867 - But cover your little ass. - I'm covering your ass. 692 00:26:43,936 --> 00:26:45,235 Do you think you can fix yourself, 693 00:26:45,304 --> 00:26:46,170 or you need assistance? 694 00:26:46,238 --> 00:26:47,838 - Yeah. 695 00:26:47,907 --> 00:26:50,874 [laughter] 696 00:26:50,943 --> 00:26:52,109 - Hold on. 697 00:26:52,178 --> 00:26:55,112 [laughter] 698 00:26:57,717 --> 00:27:00,985 - I love it. I [bleep] love it. - Here's a blanket. 699 00:27:01,053 --> 00:27:02,987 You want to cover yourself, baby? 700 00:27:04,123 --> 00:27:06,523 I like this. I'm proud of us. - No. 701 00:27:06,592 --> 00:27:07,858 - You sure you're comfortable? 702 00:27:07,927 --> 00:27:09,960 - Yes. I'm good. 703 00:27:10,029 --> 00:27:12,396 - Okay. 704 00:27:12,465 --> 00:27:14,064 - Jade, boo, how you doing back there? 705 00:27:14,133 --> 00:27:15,833 - I'm okay. I just want to get on the road 706 00:27:15,901 --> 00:27:18,669 'cause [bleep] it's a little claustrophobic. 707 00:27:18,738 --> 00:27:21,005 - This is so much better than the airplane ride. 708 00:27:25,044 --> 00:27:27,044 Thank you. I appreciate you guys so much. 709 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,280 'cause people never go out Youof their way, like,and 710 00:27:30,349 --> 00:27:32,683 to do [bleep] this for me ever. 711 00:27:32,752 --> 00:27:35,786 - Girl, you have us here to take care of you. 712 00:27:37,757 --> 00:27:39,423 And I don't want you to feel like you're a burden, 713 00:27:39,492 --> 00:27:40,858 because you're not. 714 00:27:40,926 --> 00:27:43,060 If you just want to sit back and not do anything, 715 00:27:43,129 --> 00:27:45,362 that's the purpose of you coming to my house. 716 00:27:45,431 --> 00:27:48,032 - Bitches that go through this [bleep] are real gangsters. 717 00:27:48,100 --> 00:27:50,901 Like, I don't think people really understand 718 00:27:50,970 --> 00:27:52,970 that [bleep] this is not-- I think it's 'cause 719 00:27:53,039 --> 00:27:55,039 it's cosmetic, people don't feel bad. 720 00:27:55,107 --> 00:27:57,541 Like, "Oh, you asked for this. You signed up for it." 721 00:27:57,610 --> 00:27:58,942 - Yeah. - But this [bleep], for real, 722 00:27:59,011 --> 00:28:02,513 is like--it is a toll on your mental health, 723 00:28:02,581 --> 00:28:04,081 your [bleep] everything. 724 00:28:04,150 --> 00:28:06,050 - There was a lot going on in the house. 725 00:28:06,118 --> 00:28:10,120 And we went in and we saw you and we saw what wasn't right, 726 00:28:10,189 --> 00:28:13,624 and we had to fix it. 727 00:28:13,693 --> 00:28:14,992 - And my mom was acting like she's one 728 00:28:15,061 --> 00:28:16,860 of those know-it-alls, she knows everything. 729 00:28:16,929 --> 00:28:18,462 And then you come out here and then now, 730 00:28:18,531 --> 00:28:19,763 at the end, you're like, 731 00:28:19,832 --> 00:28:21,098 "Oh, sorry, I didn't know what I was doing 732 00:28:21,167 --> 00:28:22,666 'cause I haven't been trained for this." 733 00:28:22,735 --> 00:28:24,268 - You could have pushed yourself through 734 00:28:24,336 --> 00:28:27,171 if you had the right people supporting you around you. 735 00:28:27,239 --> 00:28:29,106 - Like, she was saying that everyone was saying for her 736 00:28:29,175 --> 00:28:30,641 to not come in there. [bleep] that. 737 00:28:30,710 --> 00:28:32,042 If my kid was in pain, just had surgery, 738 00:28:32,111 --> 00:28:33,577 I'd be like, "Bitch, get the [bleep] out of my face." 739 00:28:33,646 --> 00:28:34,578 - Yeah. - "I'm going in there, 740 00:28:34,647 --> 00:28:35,913 and I'm being with my kid." 741 00:28:35,981 --> 00:28:37,147 - Yep. 742 00:28:37,216 --> 00:28:38,582 - Like, you know, it just--I don't know. 743 00:28:38,651 --> 00:28:40,317 It just didn't make sense to me. 744 00:28:40,386 --> 00:28:43,020 Unless you're in my position, you'd never understand 745 00:28:43,089 --> 00:28:46,023 what--like, the draining and the emotional draining 746 00:28:46,092 --> 00:28:48,192 for years and years this does to you. 747 00:28:48,260 --> 00:28:50,527 - You have every right to be upset at your mom 748 00:28:50,596 --> 00:28:54,098 and whoever else that was in that house this past weekend. 749 00:28:54,166 --> 00:28:55,466 You have every right to be upset 750 00:28:55,534 --> 00:28:56,967 and feel the way that you do. 751 00:28:57,036 --> 00:29:00,104 - I think this opened your eyes to a lot of [bleep]. 752 00:29:00,172 --> 00:29:02,873 - I think I'm just reevaluating my life so much. 753 00:29:02,942 --> 00:29:09,146 ♪ ♪ 754 00:29:11,917 --> 00:29:15,185 [Boundary Run's "Make It Out"] 755 00:29:15,254 --> 00:29:20,023 - ♪ I was searching for an open door ♪ 756 00:29:20,092 --> 00:29:22,826 ♪ I was looking for a peace of mind ♪ 757 00:29:22,895 --> 00:29:25,462 - So I think that's all for today. 758 00:29:25,531 --> 00:29:26,864 We hope you guys have a great week. 759 00:29:26,932 --> 00:29:29,133 And we'll chat with you soon. - See ya. 760 00:29:29,201 --> 00:29:33,537 - Alexa, notes for us to send to Lauren for anything? 761 00:29:33,606 --> 00:29:35,072 - No. I mean, everything sounded good. 762 00:29:35,141 --> 00:29:38,809 - So that episode is going to release on Thursday. 763 00:29:38,878 --> 00:29:40,210 I just worry that it's, like, 764 00:29:40,279 --> 00:29:43,046 one more thing that makes me damaged goods. 765 00:29:43,115 --> 00:29:44,481 - Who's not damaged? - Yeah. 766 00:29:44,550 --> 00:29:45,582 - I don't--that doesn't make you damaged. 767 00:29:45,651 --> 00:29:46,917 You just have a condition. 768 00:29:46,986 --> 00:29:48,819 - So that's the thing, though, is, I think, like, 769 00:29:48,888 --> 00:29:52,122 that feeling's valid, but I think that it's gonna 770 00:29:52,191 --> 00:29:55,092 maybe make a lot of people feel more heard. 771 00:29:55,161 --> 00:29:57,461 And I think that's what you need to focus on here. 772 00:29:57,530 --> 00:29:59,062 - Like, there are so many women out there 773 00:29:59,131 --> 00:30:01,031 who probably have this and have no idea. 774 00:30:01,100 --> 00:30:02,733 They don't know why they're struggling with something. 775 00:30:02,802 --> 00:30:04,201 I feel like there's a whole stigma. 776 00:30:04,270 --> 00:30:06,136 You go into the doctor's office and you're overweight, 777 00:30:06,205 --> 00:30:08,672 and they want to blame every single thing on that. 778 00:30:08,741 --> 00:30:11,074 But they don't always look at why. 779 00:30:11,143 --> 00:30:12,976 So I think it'll be good that you touched 780 00:30:13,045 --> 00:30:15,779 on your entire experience for other people going through it. 781 00:30:15,848 --> 00:30:17,281 - Well, it's just like even--you know, 782 00:30:17,349 --> 00:30:18,982 I've had plastic surgery for weight loss or whatever. 783 00:30:19,051 --> 00:30:20,617 But I feel like I did a really good job 784 00:30:20,686 --> 00:30:22,920 maintaining what I got done. 785 00:30:22,988 --> 00:30:24,822 And I never really had a problem with that 786 00:30:24,890 --> 00:30:28,525 until years after the surgery, and like, I'm going to the gym 787 00:30:28,594 --> 00:30:30,427 and I'm still-- I've been able to tailor, 788 00:30:30,496 --> 00:30:32,062 like, my diet and my workouts 789 00:30:32,131 --> 00:30:33,831 to, like, how I was feeling about my body. 790 00:30:33,899 --> 00:30:35,799 If I felt like I was gaining weight, I would make changes, 791 00:30:35,868 --> 00:30:37,434 and it would kind of fix everything. 792 00:30:37,503 --> 00:30:39,369 Now all the sudden, I can't fix it. Like, I don't-- 793 00:30:39,438 --> 00:30:40,637 - Yeah. - You know what I mean? 794 00:30:40,706 --> 00:30:42,506 So there's a lot to be said about that. 795 00:30:42,575 --> 00:30:45,876 - So can we talk about where you're at 796 00:30:45,945 --> 00:30:48,979 with the whole process with your egg retrieval? 797 00:30:49,048 --> 00:30:51,114 What's the timeline on that? Like-- 798 00:30:51,183 --> 00:30:52,749 - I was nervous to talk about it 799 00:30:52,818 --> 00:30:55,018 'cause I don't know when I developed PCOS. 800 00:30:55,087 --> 00:30:57,588 So if it does make it harder for me to get pregnant 801 00:30:57,656 --> 00:30:59,256 and I do decide that I want to get pregnant 802 00:30:59,325 --> 00:31:00,390 and I'm older... 803 00:31:00,459 --> 00:31:01,825 - Mm-hmm. - That, on top of it, 804 00:31:01,894 --> 00:31:04,394 I would want younger, healthier eggs 805 00:31:04,463 --> 00:31:06,330 when I could get them, I guess. 806 00:31:06,398 --> 00:31:09,800 So why not make that option available for myself? 807 00:31:09,869 --> 00:31:11,068 - Are you nervous? - Yes. 808 00:31:11,136 --> 00:31:13,637 - ♪ Always out of reach ♪ 809 00:31:13,706 --> 00:31:17,774 ♪ We can't find our way back home ♪ 810 00:31:17,843 --> 00:31:21,712 - ♪ Miles away ♪ 811 00:31:21,780 --> 00:31:25,816 ♪ That's where I want to fly today ♪ 812 00:31:25,885 --> 00:31:28,252 [soft acoustic music] 813 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,287 - Hey, what's going on, chicky chick? 814 00:31:30,356 --> 00:31:33,290 - Mom! - Hi. I have food. 815 00:31:33,359 --> 00:31:36,093 - Y'all have fun, Ash? What all y'all do? 816 00:31:36,161 --> 00:31:37,761 - We just chilled the first day. 817 00:31:37,830 --> 00:31:41,031 The second day, we had a nice gondola ride. 818 00:31:41,100 --> 00:31:43,033 - Hey, Bar. Let's roll on out. 819 00:31:43,102 --> 00:31:44,668 We're gonna go out and grab a bite to eat 820 00:31:44,737 --> 00:31:47,638 and just get caught up and just chat. 821 00:31:47,706 --> 00:31:49,239 - All right. 822 00:31:49,308 --> 00:31:52,376 - I had no idea that my dad had planned on talking to Bar. 823 00:31:52,444 --> 00:31:54,678 I think that my parents definitely feel like Bar 824 00:31:54,747 --> 00:31:56,847 has changed because my mom flat out told me 825 00:31:56,916 --> 00:31:59,116 in the past that, if he tried to marry me, 826 00:31:59,184 --> 00:32:00,817 she was not gonna let it happen. 827 00:32:00,886 --> 00:32:03,954 - Your man is outside trying to fight your parents 828 00:32:04,023 --> 00:32:06,023 like a back-alley dog. 829 00:32:06,091 --> 00:32:07,925 - Bar was tearing out of his shirt 830 00:32:07,993 --> 00:32:10,560 like [bleep] Incredible Hulk, trying to fight Ted. 831 00:32:10,629 --> 00:32:12,930 And I feel like if the police hadn't came when they came, 832 00:32:12,998 --> 00:32:14,464 it would have gotten worse. 833 00:32:14,533 --> 00:32:16,500 - Do y'all think now that we kind of had this conversation, 834 00:32:16,568 --> 00:32:17,834 y'all will be, like, you know, 835 00:32:17,903 --> 00:32:19,336 more supportive of our relationship? 836 00:32:19,405 --> 00:32:21,138 - For me, I get mixed emotions. 837 00:32:21,206 --> 00:32:23,373 When you start cutting up, then no. 838 00:32:23,442 --> 00:32:26,176 - I feel confident that my parents feel confident 839 00:32:26,245 --> 00:32:27,277 that he's changed 840 00:32:27,346 --> 00:32:30,113 because my mom is a straight shooter 841 00:32:30,182 --> 00:32:31,915 and she would definitely be telling me, 842 00:32:31,984 --> 00:32:35,185 like, "Girl, don't accept that ring from him." 843 00:32:35,254 --> 00:32:37,955 - So y'all got a date settled yet 844 00:32:38,023 --> 00:32:40,958 on this whole shing-ding y'all planning on doing? 845 00:32:41,026 --> 00:32:42,759 - I ain't gonna lie, dates keep jumping around. 846 00:32:42,828 --> 00:32:44,861 - Is y'all ready? Is you ready? 847 00:32:44,930 --> 00:32:47,931 - Overall, like, I do 100% believe I'm ready. 848 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,334 I mean, we had our fair share of issues. 849 00:32:50,402 --> 00:32:52,769 - Yeah, we all thought you was a human [bleep] up. 850 00:32:52,838 --> 00:32:54,271 - [laughs] Man. 851 00:32:54,340 --> 00:32:56,073 - So yeah, that put a bad taste in everybody's mouth. 852 00:32:56,141 --> 00:32:59,176 - I know. It sure did. I used to get drunk as [bleep]. 853 00:32:59,244 --> 00:33:00,577 That was my way to go get away from everything. 854 00:33:00,646 --> 00:33:02,012 - No. Yeah, but we-- 855 00:33:02,081 --> 00:33:03,380 - That was my way to get away from everything. 856 00:33:03,449 --> 00:33:05,515 - Me and Tea was talking about how you, you know, 857 00:33:05,584 --> 00:33:07,084 got yourself together and stuff. 858 00:33:07,152 --> 00:33:11,088 You fell ass backwards into a good--into a good woman. 859 00:33:11,156 --> 00:33:12,756 But the bottom line is simply this: 860 00:33:12,825 --> 00:33:13,890 take care of her, man. 861 00:33:13,959 --> 00:33:15,392 Take care of her. Take care of Tiny. 862 00:33:16,562 --> 00:33:18,095 'Cause if you can't get yourself together, 863 00:33:18,163 --> 00:33:19,596 you're no good to nobody else. 864 00:33:19,665 --> 00:33:21,231 - Right. 865 00:33:21,300 --> 00:33:23,667 - We're gonna pass her on to you, man, with our blessing. 866 00:33:23,736 --> 00:33:26,403 - I appreciate you giving me the blessing, honestly. 867 00:33:26,472 --> 00:33:27,871 - You'll be all right. 868 00:33:27,940 --> 00:33:30,107 - ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ 869 00:33:30,175 --> 00:33:32,642 ♪ Ooh ♪ 870 00:33:32,711 --> 00:33:35,379 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ 871 00:33:35,447 --> 00:33:37,381 - What are you doing? 872 00:33:37,449 --> 00:33:38,915 - Come get your hair done. 873 00:33:38,984 --> 00:33:40,784 - Yeah, you just played yourself. 874 00:33:40,853 --> 00:33:42,319 - Come have a seat. 875 00:33:45,858 --> 00:33:47,824 - There, just relax right there. 876 00:33:49,661 --> 00:33:51,828 So how was your talk with Ted? 877 00:33:51,897 --> 00:33:54,364 - We had a good man-to-man conversation. 878 00:33:54,433 --> 00:33:57,834 Everything going smooth, like, as far as us. 879 00:33:57,903 --> 00:34:00,771 - It's been an exceptional year for you. 880 00:34:00,839 --> 00:34:04,107 - Thank you. I try [bleep]. [laughs] 881 00:34:04,176 --> 00:34:07,577 I unfortunately but fortunately 882 00:34:07,646 --> 00:34:10,180 realized the value of myself 883 00:34:10,249 --> 00:34:12,115 and my peoples around me a little bit more. 884 00:34:12,184 --> 00:34:16,520 - It's making a transition from Bar 885 00:34:16,588 --> 00:34:19,322 who was reckless 886 00:34:19,391 --> 00:34:22,726 to now Bar who has a family, a wife... 887 00:34:22,795 --> 00:34:24,394 - Something to [bleep] live for. 888 00:34:24,463 --> 00:34:26,930 - A whole entire house now. 889 00:34:28,367 --> 00:34:32,602 I'm happy that you are doing all the right [bleep]. 890 00:34:32,671 --> 00:34:34,271 It's wonderful for me. 891 00:34:34,339 --> 00:34:36,306 It's wonderful for your daughter. 892 00:34:36,375 --> 00:34:38,575 I think that, in the last year or so, 893 00:34:38,644 --> 00:34:41,144 Bar has changed tremendously. 894 00:34:41,213 --> 00:34:43,313 As soon as he stopped drinking, he started flourishing 895 00:34:43,382 --> 00:34:45,649 and he started doing all these wonderful 896 00:34:45,717 --> 00:34:47,284 and positive things with his life. 897 00:34:47,352 --> 00:34:49,586 I'm very proud of him 'cause it's not easy. 898 00:34:49,655 --> 00:34:51,088 And I want the best for him 899 00:34:51,156 --> 00:34:52,389 'cause a win for him is a win for Holly, 900 00:34:52,458 --> 00:34:55,459 and that's the bottom line of all of this. 901 00:35:09,775 --> 00:35:12,642 [upbeat music] 902 00:35:12,711 --> 00:35:14,578 ♪ ♪ 903 00:35:14,646 --> 00:35:16,480 - We stayed at the townhouse last night 904 00:35:16,548 --> 00:35:18,148 because it's closer to Addie's school, 905 00:35:18,217 --> 00:35:20,083 and the babysitter will watch the twins this morning 906 00:35:20,152 --> 00:35:22,786 while I take her. 907 00:35:22,855 --> 00:35:25,622 - Addie, come and eat. 908 00:35:25,691 --> 00:35:28,225 - Addie, time for school. 909 00:35:28,293 --> 00:35:30,727 [laughter] 910 00:35:30,796 --> 00:35:33,396 I don't think it's working. 911 00:35:33,465 --> 00:35:36,333 - ♪ In my town, strutting through the crowd ♪ 912 00:35:36,401 --> 00:35:37,467 ♪ Nothing's gonna hold us down ♪ 913 00:35:37,536 --> 00:35:40,270 - I regret what I said. 914 00:35:40,339 --> 00:35:41,271 - What did you say? 915 00:35:41,340 --> 00:35:43,340 That you wanted to go to school? 916 00:35:43,408 --> 00:35:46,443 Ha! Too late. 917 00:35:46,512 --> 00:35:48,979 - Will you tell Aleeah there are eggs down here too 918 00:35:49,047 --> 00:35:51,348 and she can throw some bread in the toaster? 919 00:35:52,351 --> 00:35:54,117 - I'm excited for you to go back 920 00:35:54,186 --> 00:35:56,853 'cause then you won't be yelling all the time. 921 00:35:56,922 --> 00:36:00,056 - You ready? - Bye, Addie. 922 00:36:03,095 --> 00:36:04,895 - And you got everything, correct? 923 00:36:04,963 --> 00:36:06,530 Make sure you have your mask. 924 00:36:06,598 --> 00:36:08,465 - Yeah. We have everything. 925 00:36:11,003 --> 00:36:12,435 - Addie, are you excited? 926 00:36:12,504 --> 00:36:14,704 - Yeah. 927 00:36:14,773 --> 00:36:17,140 - How are you feeling? - Good. 928 00:36:17,209 --> 00:36:20,510 I want to go to school, but I want to sleep. 929 00:36:20,579 --> 00:36:23,213 - "I want to go to school, but I want to sleep." 930 00:36:24,616 --> 00:36:26,149 - Are you ready? 931 00:36:26,218 --> 00:36:28,451 - Are you sure this is where we're supposed to park? 932 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:29,886 - Mm-hmm. 933 00:36:34,092 --> 00:36:37,027 I hope you have so much fun, okay? 934 00:36:37,095 --> 00:36:39,930 I love you. I love you more. 935 00:36:39,998 --> 00:36:42,732 [sweet music] 936 00:36:42,801 --> 00:36:47,337 ♪ ♪ 937 00:36:47,406 --> 00:36:51,174 Look at my well-behaved daughters 938 00:36:51,243 --> 00:36:53,009 doing their schoolwork. 939 00:36:53,078 --> 00:36:55,779 I just dropped your sister off to her first day. 940 00:36:55,847 --> 00:36:57,447 - Mm-hmm. 941 00:36:57,516 --> 00:36:59,583 - You guys understand why I let her go to in-person, right? 942 00:36:59,651 --> 00:37:00,750 - Mm-hmm. 943 00:37:00,819 --> 00:37:02,152 - It's easier for you guys to focus 944 00:37:02,221 --> 00:37:04,888 because you're a lot older, and you guys do great. 945 00:37:04,957 --> 00:37:08,225 You had the option to go back to in-person. 946 00:37:08,293 --> 00:37:09,859 And you guys said what? 947 00:37:09,928 --> 00:37:11,461 - No. - No. 948 00:37:11,530 --> 00:37:12,529 - No. 949 00:37:12,598 --> 00:37:13,930 - No. - You like remote learning? 950 00:37:13,999 --> 00:37:15,432 - Yeah. 951 00:37:15,500 --> 00:37:17,567 - Well, you guys will be able to get work done easier 952 00:37:17,636 --> 00:37:20,303 without hearing Addie screaming or crying. 953 00:37:20,372 --> 00:37:21,838 How do you guys think remote learning 954 00:37:21,907 --> 00:37:23,940 will be when Addie's not here? 955 00:37:24,009 --> 00:37:25,208 - Peaceful. 956 00:37:25,277 --> 00:37:28,111 - Peaceful? [laughs] 957 00:37:30,048 --> 00:37:32,949 [upbeat music] 958 00:37:33,018 --> 00:37:34,351 ♪ ♪ 959 00:37:40,659 --> 00:37:43,226 - Yo, J gotta pee-pee. 960 00:37:43,295 --> 00:37:46,196 - Oh, my God. Wait. Hold on. - Son of a whore-ass bitch. 961 00:37:46,265 --> 00:37:47,864 Ooh, this is some [bleep] dumbass [bleep] I ever seen. 962 00:37:47,933 --> 00:37:49,733 - J, watch you don't slip. - You're gonna look good, Jade. 963 00:37:49,801 --> 00:37:51,434 You're gonna look good, Jade. It's gonna be worth it. 964 00:37:51,503 --> 00:37:53,303 - Your socks on the floor are slippery. 965 00:37:53,372 --> 00:37:55,672 Watch the strings don't go in the toilet. 966 00:37:55,741 --> 00:37:57,007 - Yes. 967 00:37:57,075 --> 00:38:00,243 - And there's Clorox wipes there for after. 968 00:38:00,312 --> 00:38:02,646 - For my coochie? [laughter] 969 00:38:02,714 --> 00:38:05,749 Oh, I was like-- - No! 970 00:38:05,817 --> 00:38:07,517 To wipe the toilet seat after. 971 00:38:07,586 --> 00:38:09,085 - Got it! 972 00:38:09,154 --> 00:38:11,388 - Bri, you're a good friend. You know that, right? 973 00:38:11,456 --> 00:38:14,090 When I saw you bathing her, I was like, 974 00:38:14,159 --> 00:38:16,526 "Wow, look at my daughter." 975 00:38:16,595 --> 00:38:18,628 - Word. I'm tired though. I was sleeping on the floor. 976 00:38:18,697 --> 00:38:20,597 - I felt so bad. I was like, "What the [bleep]?" 977 00:38:20,666 --> 00:38:23,400 - Y'all should have saw us loading her up into the car. 978 00:38:23,468 --> 00:38:27,170 - Jade, how did you climb in the backseat of the truck? 979 00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:28,905 - By the will of God. 980 00:38:28,974 --> 00:38:31,408 - But would you do it again? - No. 981 00:38:31,476 --> 00:38:32,909 I'd never do this again. I don't give a [bleep]. 982 00:38:32,978 --> 00:38:34,411 - What's the lesson learned here? 983 00:38:34,479 --> 00:38:35,545 - What? 984 00:38:35,614 --> 00:38:37,614 - Beauty is really mother [bleep] painful. 985 00:38:37,683 --> 00:38:40,717 - How long do you figure you're gonna be here? 986 00:38:40,786 --> 00:38:42,118 Like a week, two weeks? 987 00:38:42,187 --> 00:38:44,154 - My body just needs to heal a little bit more 988 00:38:44,222 --> 00:38:45,555 before I feel confident. 989 00:38:45,624 --> 00:38:47,257 And also, I have, like, a bad panic disorder. 990 00:38:47,326 --> 00:38:49,659 So I'm worried getting on the plane anyway. 991 00:38:49,728 --> 00:38:52,262 - Yeah, but worst case scenario--yes, stay here, 992 00:38:52,331 --> 00:38:53,830 whatever amount of time you need. 993 00:38:53,899 --> 00:38:55,565 I think you're gonna be okay. 994 00:38:55,634 --> 00:38:58,134 I just think that stress level has to, like, be zero. 995 00:38:58,203 --> 00:39:00,370 Anybody calls to stress you out, 996 00:39:00,439 --> 00:39:02,105 I'm gonna hang up the phone. 997 00:39:02,174 --> 00:39:03,707 I'm gonna take the phone away from you. 998 00:39:03,775 --> 00:39:05,342 - Okay. 999 00:39:05,410 --> 00:39:07,377 Briana and her family have been really awesome. 1000 00:39:07,446 --> 00:39:09,512 They've been doing everything for me. 1001 00:39:09,581 --> 00:39:12,482 My recovery experience in Miami 1002 00:39:12,551 --> 00:39:15,085 at the Airbnb with my family 1003 00:39:15,153 --> 00:39:17,754 was just horrible, stressful. 1004 00:39:17,823 --> 00:39:20,790 I am super grateful for how much they've helped me 1005 00:39:20,859 --> 00:39:22,092 and been there for me. 1006 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:23,426 But I feel like I'm one of those people, 1007 00:39:23,495 --> 00:39:26,663 it's really hard for me to accept help 1008 00:39:26,732 --> 00:39:29,332 'cause it just makes me feel like--I don't know. 1009 00:39:29,401 --> 00:39:31,568 I just never want to be a burden or a bother to anybody 1010 00:39:31,636 --> 00:39:32,869 'cause I know how it is 1011 00:39:32,938 --> 00:39:35,038 for people to be a burden or bother to me. 1012 00:39:35,107 --> 00:39:37,207 [Boundary Run's "Lose Ourselves"] 1013 00:39:37,275 --> 00:39:39,743 - ♪ I just keep looking back ♪ 1014 00:39:39,811 --> 00:39:43,179 ♪ And you never had time for that ♪ 1015 00:39:43,248 --> 00:39:48,218 ♪ This is where the rubber met the road ♪ 1016 00:39:48,286 --> 00:39:50,887 ♪ Oh, oh ♪ 1017 00:39:50,956 --> 00:39:54,190 ♪ Where do we go when the walls come down? ♪ 1018 00:39:54,259 --> 00:39:56,860 ♪ Oh, oh ♪ 1019 00:39:56,928 --> 00:40:00,296 ♪ Where do we hide when the wolves come out? ♪ 1020 00:40:00,365 --> 00:40:03,366 ♪ Oh, oh ♪ 1021 00:40:03,435 --> 00:40:06,202 ♪ Why do we lose ourselves ♪ 1022 00:40:06,271 --> 00:40:09,239 ♪ Trying to prove ourselves? ♪ 1023 00:40:09,307 --> 00:40:11,508 ♪ Why do we ♪ 1024 00:40:11,576 --> 00:40:16,112 ♪ Lose ourselves? ♪ 1025 00:40:16,181 --> 00:40:17,680 ♪ ♪ 1026 00:40:17,749 --> 00:40:22,519 ♪ Lose ourselves ♪ 1027 00:40:27,225 --> 00:40:29,392 - Mom, there's a-- [screams] 1028 00:40:29,461 --> 00:40:31,494 - You're gonna go to your dad's next weekend. 1029 00:40:31,563 --> 00:40:33,430 I don't want to attack Jo's parenting. 1030 00:40:33,498 --> 00:40:35,298 I'm gonna drop off Isaac first. 1031 00:40:35,367 --> 00:40:37,434 - No! - Bar's birthday is coming up. 1032 00:40:37,502 --> 00:40:39,803 - You a [bleep] lie. [laughs] 1033 00:40:45,444 --> 00:40:46,976 - My mom's done a lot of manipulating. 1034 00:40:47,045 --> 00:40:49,712 If she shows up at my house, call the [bleep] police on her.