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- This is how
you guys met, right?
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- Getting my tattoo,
and then we just started
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hanging out and [bleep].
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He's just nice.
I'm not used to nice.
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I don't know
where him and I stand.
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I'm not 100% sure
about what we are.
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Devoin forgot Nova
at gymnastics.
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- You were scared?
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- I did forget, like,
'cause I ain't gonna lie.
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I feel like [bleep],
like, damn.
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- I want my daughter
to have a good life,
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and all I'm asking for Devoin
is to help me with gymnastics.
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He is asking
for more responsibility,
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but then when I give it
to him, he can't take it.
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- She don't give me credit
for nothing.
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I need credit for something.
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- So Jeremy tested positive
for COVID.
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There are a lot of precautions
that we need to take.
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I feel like [bleep].
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Previous COVID test results
have came back negative.
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However, considering
Jeremy just tested positive
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and we were around him,
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I won't be shocked
if I test positive.
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- How have you been feeling
in general
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because of the pandemic?
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- A lot has changed.
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- I want to help him find
something that he likes to do
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but he's also good at so that
he builds that self-confidence.
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- Right.
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- We're gonna go over
a couple tile selections
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for your bathroom.
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- I want this blue.
- You want blue?
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- Yeah.
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- Bar finally got his GED,
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so to celebrate, I am
throwing him a surprise party.
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Bar got a phone call, and his
mom ruined the whole thing.
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- And you told them
it was a surprise.
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- I did.
I think it's unfortunate
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that this is the situation
that our families are in.
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His mama, my mama,
we don't need a setback.
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We need to just move on.
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- He's like,
"I have a gift for you,"
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and then he just opens, like,
a ring box and was like,
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"I really love you
and I want you to be my wife,
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and I want to be with you."
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- I gave it to her,
and I just said,
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I don't want you to feel like
you need to give me one."
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- If you have
[bleep] common sense,
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you would know at 24 years old,
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it's not a good idea to just
run up and marry somebody.
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[upbeat rock music]
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♪ ♪
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[rock music]
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- ♪ I want it ♪
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- I'm glad
Sean's not pressuring me
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for an answer to his proposal
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because we're doing
really well,
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and I don't want
that to change.
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- ♪ I want it ♪
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- What is that?
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- [laughs]
It's a troll.
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I like him like this.
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- [giggles]
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[as troll]
Hi, Kloie.
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Sean's watching Kloie
while I go back to work,
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and tomorrow
I'm flying to Miami
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for my surgery
later this week.
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I think that I'm
a confident person,
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but I also think everyone
has their own insecurities,
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and I feel like
I'm not totally satisfied
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with how I look,
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so I'm getting
a Brazilian butt lift
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where they do 360 lipo.
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I had a different mindset
or, like, an image
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of what I thought I was going
to eventually look like.
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I thought I would, like,
have bigger boobs
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or I would at least be
a little more curvy.
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I just kind of thought I would
grow into it as I got older,
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so, like, I definitely wanted
to move some fat
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from, like, my midsection area
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and then just kind of
distribute it differently.
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I talked to Briana
about wanting it
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because she had one too.
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She was the one, like,
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"Yeah, you should
definitely go for it."
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But I think having this surgery
will just make me
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a lot more happy in my own skin
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and just feeling more confident
about who I am.
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- ♪ So gimme,
gimme right now ♪
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♪ I know before I'll win it ♪
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♪ Got twenty-twenty vision ♪
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♪ To take it to the limit ♪
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♪ I ain't ever stopping now ♪
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♪ Forever in this feeling ♪
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♪ And I ain't ever leaving ♪
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♪ I get myself believing ♪
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♪ I ain't ever coming down ♪
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- Hi.
- Hi.
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How are you?
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- Good. How are you?
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- I'm good. How was work?
- It was good.
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I was here all day, though.
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- Who's going to Miami?
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- My--everybody, bitch.
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Everybody.
- Jesus.
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- My mom, my dad,
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my best friend,
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Kelsey, her son, me,
Sean and my daughter.
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- How exciting.
- I know.
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I'm nervous,
but I'm really excited,
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but I'm super, super, nervous.
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- What are you
most nervous about?
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- I just don't have--
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I've just never had surgery,
honestly.
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- Are they putting you
to sleep?
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- Mommy.
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- Yeah.
- Okay.
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Well, then, that's good
'cause some doctors
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don't put people to sleep.
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- Do I need to call him?
- No--
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- I mean, I would assume.
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- [laughs]
I would double-check.
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- No, 'cause I be in there
like, uh-uh, and he know--
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he's seen my chart,
so he knows I got a anxiety
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and a panic disorder,
so he'd be like,
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"No, this bitch
got to go to sleep."
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- I will say, not to scare you,
it's gonna hurt.
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You're gonna wake up--
- I mean, yeah.
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- And it's gonna hurt as--
you're not gonna feel great.
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Like, after the third day,
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you'll be able to do things
on your own,
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but make sure somebody
is there with you
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because you won't be able
to get up by yourself.
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You won't be able to use
the bathroom by yourself.
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You won't be able
to wipe yourself.
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- My mom is checking my body,
my wounds,
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like, all my, like, healing.
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You used to be
a surgical nurse.
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She's gonna stay
in the other--in my--
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the house with me, like,
right after my surgery,
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obviously,
to be checking in on me,
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but we can't be around
each other too long.
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- How is Sean feeling
about this?
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- I mean, at first,
he was, like,
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super weird about it,
like, confused.
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He was like, "Why do you--
why are you doing this?"
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And I'm like,
"I'm just doing it for me."
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And he was like,
"Well, are you doing this
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"because, like, you--
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like, because of other--
like, other guys?"
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And I'm like,
"Oh, my God, stupid boy."
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- I think you'll do great.
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I think you're gonna love it.
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And I'm so happy forou
because I feel like I was
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so insecure about my body,
and I got my body done,
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and it made me feel 20 times
more better about myself.
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- I feel like Sean, one minute,
he's totally cool about it,
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and then next minute he's not,
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but I feel like
after getting the BBL,
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I'll just feel more, like,
how I envision myself to look.
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♪ ♪
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- So Jade just
called me clueless.
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She's clueless.
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This poor girl has no idea--
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- What do you mean?
- What she's about to get into.
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- What did she say?
- She doesn't know anything.
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She's getting
a Brazilian butt lift,
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which is a BBL,
and then she's getting fat
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transferred to her to boobs,
but she has no idea, like--
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- She needs to have
her mom there.
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- In case something happens.
-I don't care..
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- No, for sure.
She needs her mom there.
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- No, the mom needs
to be there.
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- Everybody is gonna be there,
her boyfriend,
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the baby, her best friend,
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and I'm going to go too
to support her.
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So can you watch the girls?
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- Yeah.
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Stelly, what are you gonna do
Saturday with grandma?
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- Play dollies.
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- Play dollies?
- Play dollies? Okay.
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You gonna text Devoin,
or am I gonna text him?
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- Text him Friday night
on Nova's phone or your phone.
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You have his number.
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Say, "Hey, you can
pick Nova up at 10:00
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and bring her home at 6:00,"
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but if she doesn't want to go,
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then you just let him know
she doesn't want to go,
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but more than likely
she'll go, so--
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- Is Luis in town?
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- I don't know.
I haven't heard from him.
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But I feel bad for Jade
because she's clueless.
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- The first time is scary.
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Let her know
that it [bleep] hurts.
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- I told her it hurts.
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- Briana, surgery is over.
- It hurts.
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- I know. Just hang in there.
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- How do you feel?
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- I'm dying.
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Can you call my mom?
- Yeah.
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[line trills]
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- She's not answering.
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- We're here. It's okay. Relax.
Just relax. I'm here. I'm here.
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- Breathe, girl.
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- You weren't answering,
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and I was like,
"Where's my mom?"
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And I had a panic attack.
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- Your body, like,
is traumatized.
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You know the trauma
you cause the body?
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And your cells
are going haywire.
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You're on, like--
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your body is trying to survive
all that trauma.
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- And she said that she gets
bad anxiety, so I'm like, ugh.
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- Just tell her to pray.
You know, faith.
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- But she clueless.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh ♪
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- The last couple of weeks
were rough,
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but we're all
still negative for COVID,
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and officially out
of quarantine.
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The twins' birthday
is this week,
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so they celebrated with Corey
while they were there.
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[upbeat music]
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- So how does it feel
to be almost 11?
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- Good.
- Good?
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- Same thing.
- Do you feel any different?
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You don't feel older?
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- Your back's not hurting yet?
- No. I'm just 11.
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- I'm not 30.
- [laughs]
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Like someone else.
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[laughter]
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♪ ♪
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- Hi.
- No, no, no.
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- He lied to you?
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- No, that's not
what she's saying.
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- All right. Bye, girls.
Love you.
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- Bye. Love you.
- I'll y'all tomorrow, okay?
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both: Okay.
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- Bye.
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So are you feeling better?
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- I'm glad to be
out of quarantine.
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- Yeah.
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- I definitely got anxious
when Jeremy tested positive.
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- Yeah, it was
definitely scary.
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- Jeremy is doing better,
and he's already back to work.
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- That's good.
- So how was their birthday?
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- It was good.
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It was a lot different
than normal.
250
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Usually, like--you know.
251
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- They called me afterwards,
and they were super excited.
252
00:09:43,250 --> 00:09:47,018
- Yeah, it was just, like, open
the presents, cake, singing.
253
00:09:47,087 --> 00:09:48,453
- Yeah, I'm gonna do
a Zoom party with them
254
00:09:48,522 --> 00:09:49,554
on their birthday,
255
00:09:49,623 --> 00:09:52,057
so we'll see
how that turns out.
256
00:09:52,125 --> 00:09:53,825
I can't believe they're 11.
It's kind of cool.
257
00:09:53,894 --> 00:09:55,694
It's bittersweet.
- Yeah.
258
00:09:55,762 --> 00:09:58,196
It's definitely hard
because they're still, to me,
259
00:09:58,265 --> 00:10:00,198
you know, little tiny babies.
260
00:10:00,267 --> 00:10:01,633
- But they're not.
[laughs]
261
00:10:01,702 --> 00:10:05,770
- So it's like,
that's how it goes, but--
262
00:10:05,839 --> 00:10:07,072
oh, well.
263
00:10:07,140 --> 00:10:08,607
All right, well, good luck
with your party.
264
00:10:08,675 --> 00:10:10,041
- All right.
- All right.
265
00:10:10,110 --> 00:10:11,176
- Definitely. Thank you.
266
00:10:11,244 --> 00:10:13,178
[dramatic music]
267
00:10:13,246 --> 00:10:15,547
I'm sure that the girls
want a birthday party
268
00:10:15,616 --> 00:10:18,583
where their entire family
can be there
269
00:10:18,652 --> 00:10:21,453
and celebrate with them,
but I think
270
00:10:21,521 --> 00:10:23,588
the girls understand
the times that we're in.
271
00:10:23,657 --> 00:10:25,957
They understand
that COVID is scary,
272
00:10:26,026 --> 00:10:28,560
especially with Ali
being immunocompromised,
273
00:10:28,629 --> 00:10:30,295
but I think
that we're definitely
274
00:10:30,364 --> 00:10:31,930
gonna remain optimistic
275
00:10:31,999 --> 00:10:34,833
and make it the best time
for them that I possibly can.
276
00:10:34,901 --> 00:10:37,369
Pray it goes well.
Let's pray it goes well.
277
00:10:38,338 --> 00:10:40,205
- ♪ It's possible ♪
278
00:10:40,273 --> 00:10:42,807
♪ To see the city
from the wrong side ♪
279
00:10:42,876 --> 00:10:45,977
- [blows raspberry]
- Ew.
280
00:10:46,046 --> 00:10:48,046
You, like, spit--whoa!
281
00:10:48,115 --> 00:10:50,281
- Did you do that?
Did you just spit on him?
282
00:10:50,350 --> 00:10:53,051
- Chicken nuggets.
[giggles]
283
00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,887
- You're disgusting.
284
00:10:55,956 --> 00:10:57,722
- I just dropped off the boys
with their dads,
285
00:10:57,791 --> 00:10:59,591
and later this week
I'm flying to Atlanta
286
00:10:59,660 --> 00:11:01,493
where my cohost
for "Coffee Convos" lives
287
00:11:01,561 --> 00:11:04,062
so we can record
some podcasts in person.
288
00:11:04,131 --> 00:11:06,498
[upbeat music]
289
00:11:06,566 --> 00:11:08,166
[line trills]
290
00:11:08,235 --> 00:11:10,168
- Hello.
- Hello, ma'am.
291
00:11:10,237 --> 00:11:12,404
- [laughs]
Hey. What are you doing?
292
00:11:12,472 --> 00:11:14,639
- I just wanted to call you
293
00:11:14,708 --> 00:11:18,309
because I was on our Instagram
and I saw that we were,
294
00:11:18,378 --> 00:11:21,613
like, overwhelmed with messages
295
00:11:21,682 --> 00:11:25,617
to have Devoin on our podcast.
296
00:11:25,686 --> 00:11:28,920
- Yes.
I actually noticed that too.
297
00:11:28,989 --> 00:11:30,789
- Okay.
- So what's the move?
298
00:11:30,857 --> 00:11:32,157
- I messaged him on Instagram,
299
00:11:32,225 --> 00:11:33,925
and I asked him
if he would want to come on,
300
00:11:33,994 --> 00:11:35,093
and he said yes.
301
00:11:35,162 --> 00:11:36,127
- Okay.
302
00:11:36,196 --> 00:11:38,163
- He said that he would
come to Atlanta.
303
00:11:38,231 --> 00:11:40,031
I don't know, I feel like
he doesn't really have a chance
304
00:11:40,100 --> 00:11:42,200
to, like, say
what he wants to say,
305
00:11:42,269 --> 00:11:44,636
and, like, nobody hears
his side of it
306
00:11:44,705 --> 00:11:46,438
because he always gets
shut down.
307
00:11:46,506 --> 00:11:47,739
So I just--I don't know.
308
00:11:47,808 --> 00:11:49,774
I want to give him
a chance to, like, talk.
309
00:11:49,843 --> 00:11:51,209
- For sure.
Well, I'm excited about this.
310
00:11:51,278 --> 00:11:53,978
- Yeah, same.
- Just let me know dates,
311
00:11:54,047 --> 00:11:56,781
and we'll start planning
and everything,
312
00:11:56,850 --> 00:11:59,184
and it will be fun,
and it will be good.
313
00:11:59,252 --> 00:12:00,719
- All right. Sounds good.
I'll talk to you soon.
314
00:12:00,787 --> 00:12:02,220
All right. Bye.
- Bye.
315
00:12:03,724 --> 00:12:05,490
- ♪ Gonna do what I do ♪
316
00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:07,158
- ♪ Gonna do what I do ♪
317
00:12:08,929 --> 00:12:10,528
- Can you give Holly
a chocolate, man?
318
00:12:10,597 --> 00:12:11,830
- She has had, like,
ten of them.
319
00:12:11,898 --> 00:12:13,498
No. She don't need no more.
320
00:12:13,567 --> 00:12:15,934
You just had hell of 'em.
321
00:12:16,002 --> 00:12:17,502
- Why do you have chocolate
everywhere?
322
00:12:17,571 --> 00:12:19,070
- Are you serious?
- Okay, yeah. No.
323
00:12:19,139 --> 00:12:21,139
- No, you can't have none.
You're bugging out.
324
00:12:21,208 --> 00:12:22,640
- Why do you--why do you--
325
00:12:22,709 --> 00:12:24,409
why do you have chocolate
everywhere, bro?
326
00:12:24,478 --> 00:12:26,544
- How did you do that?
327
00:12:26,613 --> 00:12:29,547
We've been in the car
for five minutes.
328
00:12:29,616 --> 00:12:31,015
- [cries]
- Fix your mouth right now.
329
00:12:31,084 --> 00:12:31,983
- Stop. Don't start.
330
00:12:32,052 --> 00:12:33,852
- Hey, I'm not
doing it with you.
331
00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,554
- So a while back,
Bar got a DUI.
332
00:12:36,623 --> 00:12:41,092
We weren't together, but now
we are together in a situation
333
00:12:41,161 --> 00:12:45,430
that we all have to deal with
because he can't drive.
334
00:12:45,499 --> 00:12:47,999
It's a possibility that
they could take his license
335
00:12:48,068 --> 00:12:50,969
or make him do
all these classes
336
00:12:51,037 --> 00:12:52,637
before he can qualify
to get it back,
337
00:12:52,706 --> 00:12:54,005
or they just say,
"You can't get it back
338
00:12:54,074 --> 00:12:55,740
five years
or whatever how long."
339
00:12:55,809 --> 00:12:58,109
And he's [bleep]--
it puts a strain on me
340
00:12:58,178 --> 00:13:00,979
to have to do
all the transportation,
341
00:13:01,047 --> 00:13:03,014
and we don't live close
to anybody or anything,
342
00:13:03,083 --> 00:13:06,618
so he gonna have to learn
the bus schedule very well
343
00:13:06,686 --> 00:13:08,787
because I'm not gonna be
chauffeuring you
344
00:13:08,855 --> 00:13:10,221
all the way around here.
345
00:13:10,290 --> 00:13:11,856
Should have thought about
how your ass is gonna get
346
00:13:11,925 --> 00:13:14,559
from A to B
before you did what you did.
347
00:13:14,628 --> 00:13:17,595
[upbeat music]
348
00:13:17,664 --> 00:13:19,798
♪ ♪
349
00:13:19,866 --> 00:13:21,132
- Let me see you jump
on one leg.
350
00:13:21,201 --> 00:13:23,735
Let me see how many times
you can do it.
351
00:13:23,804 --> 00:13:25,503
Look, look, look, look.
You got to go like--
352
00:13:25,572 --> 00:13:27,438
- Bar has a court date
later this week to see
353
00:13:27,507 --> 00:13:29,107
if the lawyers
have reached an agreement
354
00:13:29,176 --> 00:13:31,242
about his DUI charges
from last year,
355
00:13:31,311 --> 00:13:33,645
and I just want to put
all of this behind us.
356
00:13:33,713 --> 00:13:35,747
- No, you got to keep
your leg up.
357
00:13:35,816 --> 00:13:37,248
That's why I'm holding you.
358
00:13:37,317 --> 00:13:40,051
- [giggling]
359
00:13:42,689 --> 00:13:45,557
And surprise!
- Surprise.
360
00:13:45,625 --> 00:13:47,091
- Surprise.
361
00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:48,827
So I got to go
to court tomorrow.
362
00:13:48,895 --> 00:13:50,295
It shouldn't be nothing
too serious.
363
00:13:50,363 --> 00:13:53,765
I mean, it's just
for the DUI that I got.
364
00:13:53,834 --> 00:13:56,568
- Don't say it like that.
- I mean, I [bleep]--
365
00:13:56,636 --> 00:13:58,570
- Don't say "just for a DUI."
366
00:13:58,638 --> 00:14:00,238
- No, I'm saying, like,
I'm not--
367
00:14:00,307 --> 00:14:01,639
okay, well, it's serious.
368
00:14:01,708 --> 00:14:03,107
I'm not saying, like,
"just for the DUI."
369
00:14:03,176 --> 00:14:05,910
I'm saying it's for the DUI
that I had.
370
00:14:05,979 --> 00:14:07,178
I'm hoping tomorrow,
371
00:14:07,247 --> 00:14:09,614
they just cut this
ankle monitor off my leg.
372
00:14:09,683 --> 00:14:12,951
- Go in there humbly
with a lesson learned.
373
00:14:13,019 --> 00:14:15,153
- I always go
into court humbly.
374
00:14:15,222 --> 00:14:17,388
It's not gonna be--
I ain't shiver.
375
00:14:17,457 --> 00:14:18,790
- You should be
376
00:14:18,859 --> 00:14:20,258
'cause they could take
your license for years.
377
00:14:20,327 --> 00:14:21,626
- I know.
378
00:14:21,695 --> 00:14:23,962
- So you should be nervous.
You should be.
379
00:14:24,030 --> 00:14:26,030
If I was you, I'd be nervous.
380
00:14:26,099 --> 00:14:30,134
I think that because he knows
people who are in jail
381
00:14:30,203 --> 00:14:32,437
for a much more serious thing,
he feels like,
382
00:14:32,505 --> 00:14:34,138
"Oh, this could be worse,"
383
00:14:34,207 --> 00:14:36,341
but, like, I'm hoping that
they don't take his license
384
00:14:36,409 --> 00:14:37,809
because, I mean,
385
00:14:37,878 --> 00:14:40,345
that is a real consequence
to drinking and driving.
386
00:14:40,413 --> 00:14:44,148
I am nervous for him
because he's young,
387
00:14:44,217 --> 00:14:47,752
he's Black,
and now he's with the courts.
388
00:14:47,821 --> 00:14:50,054
So let's hope that he can
turn it around
389
00:14:50,123 --> 00:14:53,758
because, you know,
it's just not cute.
390
00:14:55,228 --> 00:14:56,427
It's not cute.
391
00:14:56,496 --> 00:14:59,397
[dramatic music]
392
00:14:59,466 --> 00:15:01,299
♪ ♪
393
00:15:05,071 --> 00:15:06,771
- ♪ Real, real good ♪
394
00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:08,973
[upbeat music]
395
00:15:09,042 --> 00:15:10,241
- I'm heading out to Miami
396
00:15:10,310 --> 00:15:11,709
to see Jade
before her surgery.
397
00:15:11,778 --> 00:15:13,077
My mom's with Stella,
398
00:15:13,146 --> 00:15:16,080
and Devoin has Nova
for a few hours.
399
00:15:16,149 --> 00:15:17,148
Bye.
400
00:15:17,217 --> 00:15:19,484
- [Indistinct]
- Bye, Mom.
401
00:15:19,552 --> 00:15:23,087
- See you later. I'll text you.
402
00:15:23,156 --> 00:15:25,223
Oy-yoy-yoy.
- This one's heavy.
403
00:15:25,292 --> 00:15:28,860
- We going on a two-day--
one-day trip,
404
00:15:28,929 --> 00:15:30,795
and we acting like
we're moving over there.
405
00:15:30,864 --> 00:15:32,997
You okay with me driving?
- I don't care.
406
00:15:35,502 --> 00:15:38,136
♪ ♪
407
00:15:38,204 --> 00:15:40,638
Let me hit up Jade
and see what she's doing,
408
00:15:40,707 --> 00:15:42,106
tell her that we're on our way.
409
00:15:42,175 --> 00:15:44,876
- Do you know who she's getting
her surgery with?
410
00:15:44,945 --> 00:15:47,578
- I don't know.
We'll ask her when we get--
411
00:15:47,647 --> 00:15:49,447
I think she's gonna come
to our Airbnb.
412
00:15:49,516 --> 00:15:50,882
- Okay.
413
00:15:50,951 --> 00:15:57,555
♪ ♪
414
00:15:57,624 --> 00:15:58,856
- Grab one flat.
415
00:15:58,925 --> 00:16:00,058
You want to try
and get it in the back.
416
00:16:00,126 --> 00:16:01,326
- It smells good.
- Don't lick it.
417
00:16:01,394 --> 00:16:03,428
- I didn't lick it.
- Smell good?
418
00:16:03,496 --> 00:16:04,996
- Yeah, it smells good.
419
00:16:05,065 --> 00:16:06,597
- See, you back it
into the corner like that
420
00:16:06,666 --> 00:16:10,034
so you know you got enough
space to drop the next one.
421
00:16:10,804 --> 00:16:12,170
- We're just bored
'cause we're waiting
422
00:16:12,238 --> 00:16:15,006
for the food to get done.
- Mm-hmm.
423
00:16:15,075 --> 00:16:17,508
- So we're just gonna do
some tricks over here.
424
00:16:17,577 --> 00:16:18,876
Hands on his feet.
425
00:16:18,945 --> 00:16:21,012
You just start like this,
426
00:16:21,081 --> 00:16:22,613
and you just kick up,
427
00:16:22,682 --> 00:16:25,316
and then he'll catch you,
or somebody will catch you.
428
00:16:25,385 --> 00:16:27,785
And then he just starts
walking around.
429
00:16:27,854 --> 00:16:33,024
♪ ♪
430
00:16:34,928 --> 00:16:36,060
- I got to go out of town
431
00:16:36,129 --> 00:16:37,462
for a couple of days.
- Yeah?
432
00:16:37,530 --> 00:16:40,064
- I'm about to go to Atlanta.
- What's out there?
433
00:16:40,133 --> 00:16:41,899
- I'm about to do
a podcast out there.
434
00:16:41,968 --> 00:16:43,234
- Who are you doing
a podcast with?
435
00:16:43,303 --> 00:16:45,169
- With Kail.
- Who's that?
436
00:16:45,238 --> 00:16:46,871
- Briana used to [bleep]
her baby daddy.
437
00:16:46,940 --> 00:16:48,272
- You're salty
that Javi is moving on.
438
00:16:48,341 --> 00:16:50,375
- About what?
- And Javi came to my face
439
00:16:50,443 --> 00:16:51,943
and told me
I don't have a choice.
440
00:16:52,012 --> 00:16:53,945
Briana is coming to the party
whether I like it or not.
441
00:16:54,014 --> 00:16:55,480
I don't think
she's a good person,
442
00:16:55,548 --> 00:16:57,148
and I don't want
to be around her.
443
00:16:57,217 --> 00:16:59,217
Briana started a group chat
with me and Javi, and she said,
444
00:16:59,285 --> 00:17:01,019
"Shut the [bleep] up
'cause now I'm mad.
445
00:17:01,087 --> 00:17:02,920
[bleep] my [bleep],
you dumb bitch."
446
00:17:06,393 --> 00:17:08,026
- Because of the podcast?
- Yeah.
447
00:17:08,094 --> 00:17:09,427
- I don't give damn
about what nobody say.
448
00:17:09,496 --> 00:17:10,862
I will go on my Instagram
right now and say,
449
00:17:10,930 --> 00:17:12,830
"[bleep] Briana,"
from my verified Gram.
450
00:17:12,899 --> 00:17:14,332
Post.
451
00:17:14,401 --> 00:17:16,434
I ain't worried
about nothing she say.
452
00:17:16,503 --> 00:17:18,102
She out of her mouth
saying I'm a bad dad.
453
00:17:18,171 --> 00:17:19,637
That's more hurtful than
anything I could ever say
454
00:17:19,706 --> 00:17:21,406
about her to be real.
455
00:17:21,474 --> 00:17:23,041
So what is there to say?
456
00:17:23,109 --> 00:17:24,976
But yeah, I'm trying to make it
"The Me Show,"
457
00:17:25,045 --> 00:17:26,744
not "The Bri Show."
458
00:17:29,416 --> 00:17:31,249
[upbeat music]
459
00:17:31,317 --> 00:17:33,918
- I'm flying to Miami
with Sean and Kloie,
460
00:17:33,987 --> 00:17:35,753
and my parents are coming
later tonight.
461
00:17:35,822 --> 00:17:37,088
I really want this surgery,
462
00:17:37,157 --> 00:17:39,757
but I'm so anxious
about the process.
463
00:17:39,826 --> 00:17:41,125
Ready?
464
00:17:41,194 --> 00:17:42,393
- No.
- Come on.
465
00:17:42,462 --> 00:17:43,961
Here, I'll put you
in the car first.
466
00:17:44,030 --> 00:17:48,399
- [babbles]
- Yep. Let's go to the car.
467
00:17:48,468 --> 00:17:51,702
We're all going in here, baby.
I know it's not mommy's car.
468
00:17:51,771 --> 00:17:52,870
Okay?
469
00:17:52,939 --> 00:17:59,510
♪ ♪
470
00:17:59,579 --> 00:18:01,345
- ♪ Yeah, here I come ♪
471
00:18:01,414 --> 00:18:04,715
♪ ♪
472
00:18:04,784 --> 00:18:06,317
♪ Here comes trouble ♪
473
00:18:06,386 --> 00:18:09,887
♪ ♪
474
00:18:09,956 --> 00:18:11,956
♪ Here comes trouble ♪
475
00:18:14,260 --> 00:18:16,427
- I'm at the surgical center
for my pre-op appointment,
476
00:18:16,496 --> 00:18:17,995
but I'm not gonna meet
the doctor
477
00:18:18,064 --> 00:18:19,397
until the day of my surgery,
478
00:18:19,466 --> 00:18:22,333
which makes me
even more anxious.
479
00:18:22,402 --> 00:18:25,069
So right now I'm going up
to the second floor.
480
00:18:25,138 --> 00:18:26,637
I look like a hot mess.
481
00:18:26,706 --> 00:18:29,607
I've been up since 5:00 a.m.,
so I'm super nervous.
482
00:18:31,344 --> 00:18:33,277
- You're gonna get undressed
for me completely.
483
00:18:33,346 --> 00:18:34,679
You're gonna put on
this gown, okay?
484
00:18:34,747 --> 00:18:36,180
- Okay. Got you. Thank you.
485
00:18:36,249 --> 00:18:38,116
- Now, as far as the procedure
that you're getting done,
486
00:18:38,184 --> 00:18:39,517
it's gonna be a BBL,
487
00:18:39,586 --> 00:18:41,586
which is liposuction 360,
front and back--
488
00:18:41,654 --> 00:18:42,920
- Right.
489
00:18:42,989 --> 00:18:44,789
- Chin liposuction,
arm liposuction--
490
00:18:44,858 --> 00:18:46,224
- Mm-hmm.
491
00:18:46,292 --> 00:18:48,359
- Fat transfer to the buttocks
and the breasts.
492
00:18:48,428 --> 00:18:50,027
- Yeah, and, like,
buttocks meaning,
493
00:18:50,096 --> 00:18:51,596
like, butt, hips, legs and--
- And hips, yeah.
494
00:18:51,664 --> 00:18:52,797
- Okay, okay.
495
00:18:52,866 --> 00:18:54,365
I'm guessing
I'm having stitches
496
00:18:54,434 --> 00:18:58,169
everywhere that lipo has been
inserted or extracted, correct?
497
00:18:58,238 --> 00:19:00,538
- Yes, the only places
you will not have stitches
498
00:19:00,607 --> 00:19:02,707
that he does not close up
is down here,
499
00:19:02,775 --> 00:19:04,075
the three incisions down here
500
00:19:04,144 --> 00:19:05,510
because that's left
open for drainage.
501
00:19:05,578 --> 00:19:06,577
- Okay.
502
00:19:06,646 --> 00:19:08,246
- So I would forewarn
your caretaker
503
00:19:08,314 --> 00:19:10,047
or whoever is gonna be
with you at the time.
504
00:19:10,116 --> 00:19:12,283
On Saturday, the doctor
is gonna speak to you first,
505
00:19:12,352 --> 00:19:14,218
and then the anesthesia
provider is gonna come in
506
00:19:14,287 --> 00:19:16,387
and talk to you
and explain to you
507
00:19:16,456 --> 00:19:18,456
step by step how it's gonna go.
508
00:19:18,525 --> 00:19:20,658
- I have a really bad
panic disorder
509
00:19:20,727 --> 00:19:22,593
and a anxiety disorder,
510
00:19:22,662 --> 00:19:24,562
so, like, my blood pressure
gets really high,
511
00:19:24,631 --> 00:19:27,865
and I sometimes faint
from, like, being so anxious.
512
00:19:27,934 --> 00:19:29,200
- Okay.
- So I don't know
513
00:19:29,269 --> 00:19:30,601
if that's something
you guys should know
514
00:19:30,670 --> 00:19:32,670
'cause I'm very, very anxious
about this whole surgery.
515
00:19:32,739 --> 00:19:34,071
I'm very, very nervous.
516
00:19:34,140 --> 00:19:35,540
- Yeah, it's normal
to be a little nervous.
517
00:19:35,608 --> 00:19:37,742
Any questions
that you may have,
518
00:19:37,810 --> 00:19:38,843
they can answer them for you.
519
00:19:38,912 --> 00:19:40,044
- Okay.
520
00:19:40,113 --> 00:19:43,080
[dramatic music]
521
00:19:43,149 --> 00:19:45,516
♪ ♪
522
00:19:50,390 --> 00:19:54,225
- ♪ Hey, hey, hey,
don't be afraid to feel it ♪
523
00:19:54,294 --> 00:19:56,194
- Today the twins turn 11,
524
00:19:56,262 --> 00:19:57,662
and we're celebrating
virtually
525
00:19:57,730 --> 00:19:59,497
with family and friends.
526
00:19:59,566 --> 00:20:03,467
- We are now decorating
for our Zoom birthday.
527
00:20:03,536 --> 00:20:06,871
What we've got done with
so far is this.
528
00:20:06,940 --> 00:20:09,607
- We have a ton of balloons
right now.
529
00:20:09,676 --> 00:20:10,775
- Balloons.
530
00:20:10,843 --> 00:20:12,643
- Yeah, so a whole bunch.
531
00:20:12,712 --> 00:20:14,845
[balloon squeals]
532
00:20:14,914 --> 00:20:16,948
I'm sorry.
- Again?
533
00:20:17,016 --> 00:20:18,950
- ♪ Lean into it ♪
534
00:20:19,018 --> 00:20:20,218
- Who all is on here?
535
00:20:20,286 --> 00:20:23,821
- We have seven, eight--
- It's papa. Ee-oh.
536
00:20:23,890 --> 00:20:25,523
- Happy birthday.
537
00:20:25,592 --> 00:20:29,894
- ♪ Can't stop,
na-na-na-na ♪
538
00:20:29,963 --> 00:20:32,396
- Oh, guys!
539
00:20:32,465 --> 00:20:34,065
- ♪ Got a flare
for all the drama ♪
540
00:20:34,133 --> 00:20:36,133
♪ Yeah, we got it
from our mamas ♪
541
00:20:36,202 --> 00:20:39,437
♪ Get ready 'cause we're
running the show ♪
542
00:20:39,505 --> 00:20:41,339
♪ To the runway,
watch me strut ♪
543
00:20:41,407 --> 00:20:43,774
♪ Dance it out
and turn it up ♪
544
00:20:43,843 --> 00:20:47,044
♪ 'Cause we taking
over tonight ♪
545
00:20:47,113 --> 00:20:49,013
♪ Making moves like ♪
546
00:20:49,082 --> 00:20:50,982
- [Indistinct]
547
00:20:51,050 --> 00:20:52,583
- ♪ In the spotlight ♪
548
00:20:52,652 --> 00:20:56,287
- This year, the birthday party
was a little bit different.
549
00:20:56,356 --> 00:20:58,856
The dance party
was my favorite.
550
00:20:58,925 --> 00:21:02,393
- Actually, I didn't dance,
but Aleeah and Mommy danced,
551
00:21:02,462 --> 00:21:04,128
and they went crazy,
and the birthday party
552
00:21:04,197 --> 00:21:07,265
was so much fun with all
of our friends, family,
553
00:21:07,333 --> 00:21:10,101
and--bye.
554
00:21:10,169 --> 00:21:12,370
- I still can't believe
the twins are 11.
555
00:21:12,438 --> 00:21:14,438
That was a sensitive
time for me,
556
00:21:14,507 --> 00:21:16,907
so I want to give them
the support I wish I had
557
00:21:16,976 --> 00:21:19,777
when I was their age.
558
00:21:19,846 --> 00:21:21,579
- It's so nice today.
- It is.
559
00:21:21,648 --> 00:21:24,715
It's a beautiful day.
We needed some vitamin D.
560
00:21:24,784 --> 00:21:27,018
So I've been thinking
about the girls a lot,
561
00:21:27,086 --> 00:21:29,020
and I've been wanting to ask,
562
00:21:29,088 --> 00:21:33,024
when did you start
your menstrual cycle?
563
00:21:33,092 --> 00:21:34,925
- I was in fourth grade,
564
00:21:34,994 --> 00:21:36,394
and I went to go
to the bathroom,
565
00:21:36,462 --> 00:21:39,597
and that's when I seen it,
and I freaked out.
566
00:21:39,666 --> 00:21:41,165
I freaked out,
567
00:21:41,234 --> 00:21:43,367
and I'm pretty sure
Grandma was the one that came
568
00:21:43,436 --> 00:21:45,970
and got me from school
'cause I didn't know.
569
00:21:46,039 --> 00:21:47,305
I mean, all I knew was,
I'm bleeding
570
00:21:47,373 --> 00:21:48,739
from my area, you know?
571
00:21:48,808 --> 00:21:50,174
Like, what's going on?
572
00:21:50,243 --> 00:21:52,209
- Yeah.
- So, I mean--
573
00:21:52,278 --> 00:21:53,878
- Listen, I'm not
being exaggerate,
574
00:21:53,946 --> 00:21:57,348
but when I started my period,
I was traumatized, 100%.
575
00:21:57,417 --> 00:21:58,616
- I was.
576
00:21:58,685 --> 00:22:01,452
- I was in the fifth grade,
and we were in gym,
577
00:22:01,521 --> 00:22:02,987
and I was like,
"I'm gonna go to the bathroom."
578
00:22:03,056 --> 00:22:04,989
I went to the bathroom
and noticed it.
579
00:22:05,058 --> 00:22:06,424
I was like, "Oh, my gosh."
580
00:22:06,492 --> 00:22:08,459
Like, I really thought
that I was dying.
581
00:22:08,528 --> 00:22:09,927
I thought something
was wrong with me.
582
00:22:09,996 --> 00:22:13,431
I was crying.
- I know the feeling.
583
00:22:13,499 --> 00:22:15,499
- I'm like, "Ah!"
- Yeah.
584
00:22:15,568 --> 00:22:17,201
- My friends [bleep] knew,
and I didn't even know.
585
00:22:17,270 --> 00:22:19,003
I was like, "What? Period?
What's a period?"
586
00:22:19,072 --> 00:22:20,905
- Exactly. What is it?
- Ah!
587
00:22:20,973 --> 00:22:22,873
The counselor or secretary
at the time was like,
588
00:22:22,942 --> 00:22:25,943
"It's okay. This is what it is.
This is what's happening."
589
00:22:26,012 --> 00:22:27,478
And thank God for her
590
00:22:27,547 --> 00:22:29,580
because our mom
didn't prepare us at all.
591
00:22:29,649 --> 00:22:31,115
I don't want my daughters
592
00:22:31,184 --> 00:22:32,883
to have that
traumatizing experience.
593
00:22:32,952 --> 00:22:34,585
They're already 11 years old,
594
00:22:34,654 --> 00:22:36,821
and I want to make sure
that I'm educating them
595
00:22:36,889 --> 00:22:39,957
on what their bodies
will be going through as,
596
00:22:40,026 --> 00:22:41,959
you know,
preteens and a teenager.
597
00:22:42,028 --> 00:22:43,427
- What kind of talking
do you mean?
598
00:22:43,496 --> 00:22:45,262
Just, like,
menstrual talking or--
599
00:22:45,331 --> 00:22:46,831
- Yeah, like,
what their hormones
600
00:22:46,899 --> 00:22:50,101
will be going through
the next few years.
601
00:22:50,169 --> 00:22:52,436
So this is where it starts.
602
00:22:52,505 --> 00:22:54,638
I think it's time
to lay the foundation down.
603
00:22:54,707 --> 00:22:56,040
- Lay it out there.
604
00:22:56,109 --> 00:22:57,475
- There's a reason
I was pregnant at 17.
605
00:22:57,543 --> 00:22:59,410
- That's right.
- And I don't want that
606
00:22:59,479 --> 00:23:02,279
to happen for them
in the future,
607
00:23:02,348 --> 00:23:04,215
you know what I mean?
- Mm-hmm.
608
00:23:06,386 --> 00:23:07,585
- ♪ Oh yeah, oh yeah ♪
609
00:23:07,653 --> 00:23:09,220
- Bar's court date
is tomorrow,
610
00:23:09,288 --> 00:23:11,021
and I just want to be able
to move forward
611
00:23:11,090 --> 00:23:14,125
with our lives together.
612
00:23:14,193 --> 00:23:15,192
That feels good.
613
00:23:15,261 --> 00:23:17,795
- Do you want to--
- Oh.
614
00:23:17,864 --> 00:23:19,096
[both laugh]
615
00:23:19,165 --> 00:23:20,297
- Did you fall?
616
00:23:20,366 --> 00:23:22,099
- I just sank in
real nice and, like--
617
00:23:22,168 --> 00:23:23,567
- Oh, I sat, like, halfway.
I don't know.
618
00:23:23,636 --> 00:23:25,269
- Comfy.
- It feels super good.
619
00:23:25,338 --> 00:23:26,604
I'm gonna get hot.
620
00:23:26,672 --> 00:23:28,939
- We're never
the same temperature.
621
00:23:29,008 --> 00:23:31,609
- I got
a little more insulation.
622
00:23:31,677 --> 00:23:33,277
- That's all right.
I'm working on it.
623
00:23:33,346 --> 00:23:35,713
I might have to go buy it,
but I'm working on it.
624
00:23:35,782 --> 00:23:40,017
- So what's going on with,
like, Bar and his ankle monitor
625
00:23:40,086 --> 00:23:41,085
and everything going on?
626
00:23:41,154 --> 00:23:42,987
- I'm so over that [bleep].
627
00:23:43,055 --> 00:23:44,255
- You've been over it
for a while.
628
00:23:44,323 --> 00:23:45,656
- This is not new.
629
00:23:45,725 --> 00:23:47,191
This is something that he did,
like, a year ago--
630
00:23:47,260 --> 00:23:48,626
- Right.
- That he's still dealing with.
631
00:23:48,694 --> 00:23:50,361
I'm like,
"This is the last decision
632
00:23:50,430 --> 00:23:51,529
"that you're gonna make
that affects
633
00:23:51,597 --> 00:23:53,264
"this whole
household negatively.
634
00:23:53,332 --> 00:23:56,600
I want you to really think."
635
00:23:56,669 --> 00:23:58,636
- Men don't think like that.
- They don't. They don't.
636
00:23:58,704 --> 00:23:59,937
- They act.
- Yeah, they act.
637
00:24:00,006 --> 00:24:01,238
- That's it.
- And it's like,
638
00:24:01,307 --> 00:24:02,673
you can't think of a time
when I've come home like,
639
00:24:02,742 --> 00:24:05,576
"Babe, I [bleep] up.
I [bleep] up.
640
00:24:05,645 --> 00:24:07,845
The cops are out there."
[both laugh]
641
00:24:07,914 --> 00:24:10,047
Like, I don't do [bleep].
642
00:24:10,116 --> 00:24:12,116
Not that he has, like, the cops
running through our [bleep],
643
00:24:12,185 --> 00:24:13,484
you know what I'm saying,
but it's like,
644
00:24:13,553 --> 00:24:16,153
I want him to think
about the fact that even though
645
00:24:16,222 --> 00:24:18,289
this is something
that just affects you,
646
00:24:18,357 --> 00:24:19,857
it also affects
the whole house,
647
00:24:19,926 --> 00:24:21,258
you know what I'm saying?
648
00:24:21,327 --> 00:24:24,128
'Cause God forbid
they throw your ass in jail,
649
00:24:24,197 --> 00:24:25,496
and then, you know
what I'm saying?
650
00:24:25,565 --> 00:24:27,031
- Now we don't have you here.
651
00:24:27,099 --> 00:24:29,700
- I am irritated.
652
00:24:29,769 --> 00:24:32,002
I guess maybe that's
minimizing it, but, like,
653
00:24:32,071 --> 00:24:34,138
I'm upset that we have to deal
with this situation
654
00:24:34,207 --> 00:24:36,373
because it's something that
affects the whole household,
655
00:24:36,442 --> 00:24:38,108
not just him,
656
00:24:38,177 --> 00:24:42,146
and so I'm wanting to figure
this situation out finally
657
00:24:42,215 --> 00:24:46,016
so that we can move forwards
so we can just plan a wedding.
658
00:24:46,085 --> 00:24:49,253
Like, this is all creating
so much anxiety.
659
00:24:49,322 --> 00:24:52,256
[tense music]
660
00:24:52,325 --> 00:24:58,329
♪ ♪
661
00:25:01,868 --> 00:25:06,437
- ♪ So fresh ♪
- ♪ You're so fresh ♪
662
00:25:06,506 --> 00:25:07,872
- We just arrived in Miami,
663
00:25:07,940 --> 00:25:09,640
and Jade will be
coming over soon,
664
00:25:09,709 --> 00:25:13,210
so I want to make sure she's
prepared for her surgery.
665
00:25:13,279 --> 00:25:15,779
- ♪ Looking so fresh ♪
666
00:25:15,848 --> 00:25:18,749
[upbeat music]
667
00:25:18,818 --> 00:25:19,850
♪ ♪
668
00:25:19,919 --> 00:25:21,919
- ♪ Looking so fresh ♪
669
00:25:21,988 --> 00:25:23,521
- ♪ So fresh ♪
670
00:25:23,589 --> 00:25:27,558
- ♪ Looking so fresh ♪
- ♪ It's so fresh ♪
671
00:25:27,627 --> 00:25:30,394
- ♪ Looking so fresh ♪
- ♪ Looking so fresh ♪
672
00:25:30,463 --> 00:25:33,397
- Oh, this is so cute.
673
00:25:33,466 --> 00:25:35,466
- ♪ Looking so fresh ♪
674
00:25:37,703 --> 00:25:39,703
- [laughs]
- This is super cute.
675
00:25:39,772 --> 00:25:41,238
- Ducks later.
[phone dings]
676
00:25:41,307 --> 00:25:42,873
Jade's here.
677
00:25:42,942 --> 00:25:45,175
- Tell her to come in.
678
00:25:45,244 --> 00:25:46,343
- Hola.
679
00:25:46,412 --> 00:25:49,313
- Hi!
- Hey.
680
00:25:49,382 --> 00:25:51,248
- You look so cute.
- Oh, thanks.
681
00:25:51,317 --> 00:25:52,650
I didn't bring nothing
682
00:25:52,718 --> 00:25:54,618
but, like, ugly big stuff
because I was like [bleep].
683
00:25:54,687 --> 00:25:55,886
- That's what you're
supposed to bring.
684
00:25:55,955 --> 00:25:57,221
- I didn't bring anything
cute, though.
685
00:25:57,290 --> 00:25:58,255
- You look good.
- Hi. Nice to meet you.
686
00:25:58,324 --> 00:26:00,457
- Hey. You too.
687
00:26:00,526 --> 00:26:03,193
- So what is up? How's Sean?
688
00:26:03,262 --> 00:26:04,562
- He gave me
an engagement ring.
689
00:26:04,630 --> 00:26:07,131
Like a 4 carat engagement ring.
- Oh, [bleep].
690
00:26:07,199 --> 00:26:09,466
Did you say yes?
- No.
691
00:26:09,535 --> 00:26:10,935
- You didn't say yes?
- No.
692
00:26:11,003 --> 00:26:12,303
- Oh, my god.
- Wow.
693
00:26:12,371 --> 00:26:14,104
- 'Cause for one,
it didn't even fit me.
694
00:26:14,173 --> 00:26:17,374
How you gonna marry a bitch
and don't know my little
695
00:26:17,443 --> 00:26:19,310
sausage-ass ring finger size?
696
00:26:19,378 --> 00:26:21,512
I was just, like, confused,
697
00:26:21,581 --> 00:26:22,746
and I was like,
I don't want to answer.
698
00:26:22,815 --> 00:26:24,748
- So has he brought it up
since?
699
00:26:24,817 --> 00:26:26,050
- Uh-uh.
- Okay.
700
00:26:26,118 --> 00:26:27,484
And you haven't brought it up?
701
00:26:27,553 --> 00:26:30,988
- I asked him the other day
to get it sized.
702
00:26:31,057 --> 00:26:32,957
- Okay.
So that's a step.
703
00:26:33,025 --> 00:26:36,427
- I was thinking about--I mean,
[bleep], I can wear it.
704
00:26:36,495 --> 00:26:38,395
- [laughs]
- I mean, like--
705
00:26:38,464 --> 00:26:40,531
- Jade, no.
- Put it on a different finger.
706
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,466
- If your mindset is, like,
707
00:26:42,535 --> 00:26:44,868
"I don't know what I'm doing
right now with you"--
708
00:26:44,937 --> 00:26:46,904
- I don't know where I'm at
with you, like, yeah.
709
00:26:46,973 --> 00:26:49,607
- But you're still leading him
on, right, in a sense of,
710
00:26:49,675 --> 00:26:51,709
"Can we get the ring sized?
Can we"--
711
00:26:51,777 --> 00:26:53,644
- Well, I've never been able
to put it on, though.
712
00:26:53,713 --> 00:26:55,779
- But that's, like, in--
- So I'm like--
713
00:26:55,848 --> 00:26:57,581
- In his eyes, that's like,
"Oh, I got this."
714
00:26:57,650 --> 00:26:59,083
- It's, "I'm getting there,"
kind of thing.
715
00:26:59,151 --> 00:27:00,584
- "This is gonna be my wife."
716
00:27:00,653 --> 00:27:02,453
- So many people I know
have been married and divorced,
717
00:27:02,521 --> 00:27:05,689
and I'm like, "Look, if I'm not
100% infatuated,
718
00:27:05,758 --> 00:27:09,259
"wrapped up in you
and want to build with you,
719
00:27:09,328 --> 00:27:10,894
I don't want to get married."
720
00:27:10,963 --> 00:27:13,697
If I'm second guessing anything
or have to think about it, no.
721
00:27:13,766 --> 00:27:15,265
- We're not gonna get married.
- Okay.
722
00:27:15,334 --> 00:27:16,467
When is your surgery?
723
00:27:16,535 --> 00:27:17,935
- Tomorrow.
- What time?
724
00:27:18,004 --> 00:27:19,870
- 7:00 in the morning.
- Oh, [bleep].
725
00:27:19,939 --> 00:27:22,239
- Have you seen your doctor?
- No, I haven't met him.
726
00:27:22,308 --> 00:27:23,474
- No?
- I met his nurse.
727
00:27:23,542 --> 00:27:25,109
- Okay.
- So they said that I meet him
728
00:27:25,177 --> 00:27:26,477
the day of my surgery,
729
00:27:26,545 --> 00:27:27,878
like, an hour before,
and I get to, like,
730
00:27:27,947 --> 00:27:30,781
basically sit down with him
and talk with him.
731
00:27:30,850 --> 00:27:33,484
- Go over everything.
- Yeah, they did my whole chart
732
00:27:33,552 --> 00:27:36,587
and did all, like, the photos
and all the stuff.
733
00:27:36,656 --> 00:27:37,755
- Make sure you have
somebody there
734
00:27:37,823 --> 00:27:39,289
that will
never leave your side.
735
00:27:39,358 --> 00:27:40,891
Is Sean gonna be there?
Is he prepared?
736
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:42,359
- Yeah.
- Mentally, physically?
737
00:27:42,428 --> 00:27:43,594
- Yes.
- Okay.
738
00:27:43,663 --> 00:27:44,995
So then you guys
are gonna be fine.
739
00:27:45,064 --> 00:27:46,664
- I'm already a lot to handle
as it is, so I'm like,
740
00:27:46,732 --> 00:27:48,132
he already knows
what it's about to be.
741
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:49,900
What are you guys doing
while you're out here?
742
00:27:50,936 --> 00:27:52,336
I know I want to check
on you tomorrow.
743
00:27:52,405 --> 00:27:55,005
I just don't know when the
perfect timing is to do that.
744
00:27:55,074 --> 00:27:56,807
I want you to give me
Sean's number
745
00:27:56,876 --> 00:27:59,076
'cause I know you won't be--
you'll be out of commission.
746
00:27:59,145 --> 00:28:00,611
- I'm so nervous.
747
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,046
I just want to walk in
and somebody be behind a door,
748
00:28:02,114 --> 00:28:03,247
like, "Pfft,"
749
00:28:03,315 --> 00:28:04,882
and shoot me with a dart
and just, like--
750
00:28:04,950 --> 00:28:07,251
and just knock me out
and drag my ass
751
00:28:07,319 --> 00:28:08,352
into the surgery room 'cause--
752
00:28:08,421 --> 00:28:09,420
- You would.
- I'm so scared
753
00:28:09,488 --> 00:28:13,190
- I think, like,
with my experience,
754
00:28:13,259 --> 00:28:14,692
they may give you,
like, something
755
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:16,827
when you get in
just to relax your nerves.
756
00:28:16,896 --> 00:28:18,862
- Yes. He knows I'm crazy.
He's seen my doctor chart.
757
00:28:18,931 --> 00:28:21,231
My doctor was like,
"Panic disorder, PTSD."
758
00:28:21,300 --> 00:28:22,399
So I'm not--
759
00:28:22,468 --> 00:28:23,701
- What are you
most nervous about?
760
00:28:23,769 --> 00:28:25,135
- Waking up.
- Waking up?
761
00:28:25,204 --> 00:28:27,905
- And, like, getting back--
like, the first day after
762
00:28:27,973 --> 00:28:29,840
'cause, I mean,
that's the worst day.
763
00:28:29,909 --> 00:28:33,510
- I was almost on my deathbed
for, like, three days.
764
00:28:33,579 --> 00:28:35,345
You think you can do
all these things
765
00:28:35,414 --> 00:28:37,281
until you can't do it anymore,
and you're like,
766
00:28:37,349 --> 00:28:38,649
"[bleep]."
767
00:28:38,718 --> 00:28:40,884
- I'm trying not to think
about it too much.
768
00:28:40,953 --> 00:28:43,887
[dramatic music]
769
00:28:43,956 --> 00:28:48,826
♪ ♪
770
00:28:52,064 --> 00:28:53,230
- ♪ Do it ♪
771
00:28:53,299 --> 00:28:55,766
[upbeat music]
772
00:28:55,835 --> 00:28:57,134
- I got to Atlanta earlier,
773
00:28:57,203 --> 00:28:59,470
and we're recording
some podcasts today.
774
00:28:59,538 --> 00:29:01,138
- ♪ Got to move
and get into it ♪
775
00:29:01,207 --> 00:29:04,274
- Hello. Come in. Come on in.
776
00:29:04,343 --> 00:29:05,676
- Hi.
- How are you?
777
00:29:05,745 --> 00:29:07,010
- Doing good. Good.
How you doing?
778
00:29:07,079 --> 00:29:08,679
- Hi, I'm Lindsie.
- Nice to meet you. Devoin.
779
00:29:08,748 --> 00:29:10,147
- Nice to meet you.
- Devoin. Hey.
780
00:29:10,216 --> 00:29:11,682
- Devoin. Correct.
There you go.
781
00:29:11,751 --> 00:29:13,016
- Okay, awesome 'cause that
was one of the things
782
00:29:13,085 --> 00:29:14,952
that I wanted to clarify
on the podcast.
783
00:29:15,020 --> 00:29:16,320
- What's going on though?
How y'all doing?
784
00:29:16,388 --> 00:29:17,521
- We're good. Hold on.
785
00:29:17,590 --> 00:29:18,722
Will you put on
a "Coffee Convos" hoodie
786
00:29:18,791 --> 00:29:20,591
and take a picture with us?
787
00:29:22,228 --> 00:29:23,761
- How do you think this is
gonna play out, like,
788
00:29:23,829 --> 00:29:27,164
when this all comes out
that you're here?
789
00:29:27,233 --> 00:29:31,201
Is this gonna be bad?
- Not for me. Hell no.
790
00:29:31,270 --> 00:29:32,870
- No, we're just
talking about us.
791
00:29:32,938 --> 00:29:34,638
- Let's have you stand
looking this way.
792
00:29:34,707 --> 00:29:36,306
- I'm gonna go on the left.
793
00:29:38,144 --> 00:29:39,810
- Great.
- It's not--
794
00:29:39,879 --> 00:29:42,146
I didn't ever want this
to be a bashing-fest.
795
00:29:42,214 --> 00:29:44,414
It was more, like,
to clear the air kind of thing.
796
00:29:44,483 --> 00:29:46,416
- Nah, you're not out of pocket
at all.
797
00:29:46,485 --> 00:29:47,584
You didn't do nothing.
- We good?
798
00:29:47,653 --> 00:29:48,986
- Move a little bit forward
for me.
799
00:29:49,054 --> 00:29:50,487
Perfect. There we go.
800
00:29:50,556 --> 00:29:52,856
Yes. Cute.
801
00:29:52,925 --> 00:29:54,558
- You think we got it?
- I hope.
802
00:29:54,627 --> 00:29:56,193
- I was a little nervous
for this one.
803
00:29:56,262 --> 00:29:57,861
All right, you guys.
We're recording.
804
00:29:57,930 --> 00:30:00,364
And welcome to another episode
of "Coffee Convos" podcast,
805
00:30:00,432 --> 00:30:01,532
and we have a guest today.
806
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,167
We're gonna get right into it,
807
00:30:03,235 --> 00:30:04,935
and it's Devoin, not Devon.
808
00:30:05,004 --> 00:30:06,470
- Devoin. Correct.
- Okay. All right.
809
00:30:06,539 --> 00:30:08,672
So before we get started,
810
00:30:08,741 --> 00:30:12,142
why do people think
that your name is Devon?
811
00:30:12,211 --> 00:30:14,344
- Well, I kind of take blame
for that personally.
812
00:30:14,413 --> 00:30:16,013
I just really don't--
813
00:30:16,081 --> 00:30:19,850
I never really corrected people
for that, but I don't know.
814
00:30:19,919 --> 00:30:22,953
Growing up, like, even after
correcting all the teachers
815
00:30:23,022 --> 00:30:25,455
that taught me,
like, they never got it right.
816
00:30:25,524 --> 00:30:27,090
- Okay.
So it wasn't a Briana thing.
817
00:30:27,159 --> 00:30:28,725
- It wasn't a Briana thing.
- Got it. Okay.
818
00:30:28,794 --> 00:30:30,027
- Definitely not her.
It's not her fault.
819
00:30:30,095 --> 00:30:31,161
- Okay. Cool.
820
00:30:31,230 --> 00:30:33,130
I feel like a lot of our
listeners and our viewers
821
00:30:33,199 --> 00:30:36,366
of "Teen Mom 2"
don't know who you are.
822
00:30:36,435 --> 00:30:38,802
- That's a fact. They don't.
- Who is Devoin?
823
00:30:38,871 --> 00:30:40,571
You grew up where, in Florida?
824
00:30:40,639 --> 00:30:42,005
Or where did you grow up?
- No. I'm from Michigan.
825
00:30:42,074 --> 00:30:43,707
Lansing, Michigan,
the capital of Michigan.
826
00:30:43,776 --> 00:30:45,542
- Okay, so how did you end up
meeting Briana,
827
00:30:45,611 --> 00:30:47,044
and what is the whole story
behind that?
828
00:30:47,112 --> 00:30:49,713
- I met her on social media.
We were in high school.
829
00:30:49,782 --> 00:30:52,816
I was maybe a grade,
two grades above her,
830
00:30:52,885 --> 00:30:55,619
and, you know, we ended up
meeting each other,
831
00:30:55,688 --> 00:30:58,288
and the next school year,
we started dating.
832
00:30:58,357 --> 00:30:59,890
- Okay.
- And then boom,
833
00:30:59,959 --> 00:31:02,860
I'm gonna say maybe four months
into dating, she's pregnant.
834
00:31:02,928 --> 00:31:04,394
- So you were on board
with, you know,
835
00:31:04,463 --> 00:31:05,929
helping raise the baby
and all of that.
836
00:31:05,998 --> 00:31:08,232
- Yeah. Absolutely, absolutely.
Now, don't get me wrong,
837
00:31:08,300 --> 00:31:11,001
when she was pregnant,
we were definitely--you know,
838
00:31:11,070 --> 00:31:13,203
I definitely didn't grasp
the fact that,
839
00:31:13,272 --> 00:31:14,438
yeah, we're not together,
840
00:31:14,506 --> 00:31:15,873
but it's still your kid.
841
00:31:15,941 --> 00:31:18,408
You have to do your [bleep]
at the end of the day.
842
00:31:18,477 --> 00:31:19,910
- Right.
So what do you like to do?
843
00:31:19,979 --> 00:31:21,678
Outside of baby mama drama
and parenting--
844
00:31:21,747 --> 00:31:22,980
- And parenting and TV.
845
00:31:23,048 --> 00:31:25,582
- What does Devoin like to do?
- I like to cook.
846
00:31:25,651 --> 00:31:26,750
That's one thing I can say.
- Okay.
847
00:31:26,819 --> 00:31:27,985
- Like, you know,
I like to cook.
848
00:31:28,053 --> 00:31:30,153
- So does Nova
help you cook ever?
849
00:31:30,222 --> 00:31:32,890
- Nova, she got the attention
span of a peanut.
850
00:31:32,958 --> 00:31:34,057
Nova ain't finessing
no kitchen.
851
00:31:34,126 --> 00:31:35,359
She might say,
"Yeah, let's do it.
852
00:31:35,427 --> 00:31:36,860
Let's do it. Let's do it."
- Right, right, right.
853
00:31:36,929 --> 00:31:38,395
That's all kids
I feel like, though.
854
00:31:38,464 --> 00:31:39,663
- We got the chicken wings
clean?
855
00:31:39,732 --> 00:31:40,764
Okay, let's go do this now.
- Right, right.
856
00:31:40,833 --> 00:31:42,299
- So what's y'all's dynamic
with each other?
857
00:31:42,368 --> 00:31:43,467
Is it, like--
858
00:31:43,535 --> 00:31:44,568
- For me, it's just
"The Nova Show."
859
00:31:44,637 --> 00:31:45,535
Whatever she want to do,
we can do.
860
00:31:45,604 --> 00:31:46,737
- Yeah.
- But yeah.
861
00:31:46,805 --> 00:31:48,038
We have a pretty
good relationship, though.
862
00:31:48,107 --> 00:31:49,239
I like my relationship
with her.
863
00:31:49,308 --> 00:31:50,841
- I guess Briana was upset
864
00:31:50,910 --> 00:31:54,711
about you not showing up
for Nova.
865
00:31:54,780 --> 00:31:56,380
What is your side of that?
866
00:31:56,448 --> 00:31:58,949
- I definitely forgot that
I was supposed to pick her up.
867
00:31:59,018 --> 00:32:01,818
Yes, I did,
and, I mean, I forgot.
868
00:32:01,887 --> 00:32:04,354
- I mean, we're both mothers,
so I think that, you know,
869
00:32:04,423 --> 00:32:07,891
certain things we understand
from a perspective of a mom,
870
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:09,393
and it's nice
871
00:32:09,461 --> 00:32:11,762
to hear a dad's perspective
that's in this situation.
872
00:32:11,830 --> 00:32:13,263
- Most of my friends
are fathers, too.
873
00:32:13,332 --> 00:32:15,565
We're all damn near
the same age, all got kids.
874
00:32:15,634 --> 00:32:17,167
So it's like,
some of them are worse than me.
875
00:32:17,236 --> 00:32:18,602
Like, they're worse
people than me.
876
00:32:18,671 --> 00:32:20,103
I'm not the most
perfect person,
877
00:32:20,172 --> 00:32:22,739
no, but just seeing
how freely their baby mothers
878
00:32:22,808 --> 00:32:24,107
give them their kids,
it's like,
879
00:32:24,176 --> 00:32:25,475
"What the [bleep]
is wrong with me?"
880
00:32:25,544 --> 00:32:27,010
Like, am I--I'm not a felon.
881
00:32:27,079 --> 00:32:28,278
I ain't got nothing
in my record.
882
00:32:28,347 --> 00:32:29,613
Like, what?
883
00:32:29,682 --> 00:32:31,348
Why won't you just throw her
at me, like--
884
00:32:31,417 --> 00:32:33,817
- We've said before that
885
00:32:33,886 --> 00:32:35,986
you like having everything
in writing because--
886
00:32:36,055 --> 00:32:38,288
- Yes, because that's what
the fallback is, like--
887
00:32:38,357 --> 00:32:40,057
- Yeah, that's a fallback,
888
00:32:40,125 --> 00:32:44,328
and if you can't agree and be
normal humans with each other,
889
00:32:44,396 --> 00:32:47,064
then you have to fall back
on the custody arrangement.
890
00:32:47,132 --> 00:32:48,065
- Right.
891
00:32:48,133 --> 00:32:49,700
What do you want
to see moving forward
892
00:32:49,768 --> 00:32:52,602
with, like, your--
with everything, with Nova,
893
00:32:52,671 --> 00:32:55,906
with Briana, with the show,
like, what's next?
894
00:32:55,975 --> 00:32:57,774
- Like, what's
your ideal scenario?
895
00:32:57,843 --> 00:33:00,410
- Ideal scenario,
I'm trying to lock in
896
00:33:00,479 --> 00:33:01,912
on a house real soon, you know?
897
00:33:01,981 --> 00:33:03,680
From that, you know, I mean,
me and Nova can do whatever--
898
00:33:03,749 --> 00:33:05,082
you know,
like, the sky is the limit.
899
00:33:05,150 --> 00:33:06,650
- Well, thank you so much
for coming on.
900
00:33:06,719 --> 00:33:08,285
- Appreciate it.
- I appreciate it so much.
901
00:33:08,354 --> 00:33:10,487
- It was definitely nice
getting to know Devoin
902
00:33:10,556 --> 00:33:12,222
and the backstory
and who Devoin is.
903
00:33:12,291 --> 00:33:13,724
- Yes, I agree.
- Absolutely. No problem.
904
00:33:13,792 --> 00:33:15,826
I appreciate it.
Thank you for the opportunity.
905
00:33:15,894 --> 00:33:18,462
- All right, guys.
That is all we have for today.
906
00:33:18,530 --> 00:33:20,030
- See you.
907
00:33:20,099 --> 00:33:21,999
I think it was cool
to kind of give him a platform
908
00:33:22,067 --> 00:33:24,034
to talk about more
than just the show.
909
00:33:24,103 --> 00:33:26,937
I don't feel like it turned
into a bash-fest at all.
910
00:33:27,006 --> 00:33:29,873
I do think that some
of the situations that Devoin
911
00:33:29,942 --> 00:33:32,743
talked about with us
are similar to my story.
912
00:33:32,811 --> 00:33:36,813
If he ever was feeling like he
wanted to post things online
913
00:33:36,882 --> 00:33:38,582
or stir the pot a little bit,
914
00:33:38,650 --> 00:33:40,951
speaking from experience,
it's never worth it
915
00:33:41,020 --> 00:33:43,286
because it never got me
anywhere,
916
00:33:43,355 --> 00:33:44,721
and so it's never
917
00:33:44,790 --> 00:33:47,224
gonna benefit
his coparenting relationship.
918
00:33:49,094 --> 00:33:50,794
- Addie's with Jeremy's
parents today,
919
00:33:50,863 --> 00:33:52,029
and I have the twins,
920
00:33:52,097 --> 00:33:53,897
so I thought it might be
a good time
921
00:33:53,966 --> 00:33:55,899
to talk about the changes
they'll be going through
922
00:33:55,968 --> 00:33:58,335
and let them know
I'm here to support them.
923
00:33:58,404 --> 00:34:01,238
- So my nails need done. See?
924
00:34:01,306 --> 00:34:02,773
- Come here, kitty.
925
00:34:02,841 --> 00:34:04,341
- Hey, don't pick him up.
926
00:34:04,410 --> 00:34:07,044
- He'll spill.
- Yeah?
927
00:34:07,112 --> 00:34:08,678
- So how was your
school work today?
928
00:34:08,747 --> 00:34:09,980
- Good.
929
00:34:10,049 --> 00:34:11,982
- Next year you're going
to middle school.
930
00:34:12,051 --> 00:34:12,983
- Yeah.
931
00:34:13,052 --> 00:34:14,418
- So since Addie is
at her dad's,
932
00:34:14,486 --> 00:34:16,686
I thought it would be
a great idea for us
933
00:34:16,755 --> 00:34:18,789
to be able to talk,
just the three of us.
934
00:34:18,857 --> 00:34:20,157
Can I tell you the story
935
00:34:20,225 --> 00:34:22,926
about the first time
I started my period?
936
00:34:22,995 --> 00:34:25,629
- Yeah.
- I know. It's weird.
937
00:34:25,697 --> 00:34:27,998
Are you gonna laugh at me?
Yeah?
938
00:34:28,067 --> 00:34:29,699
- Yeah.
- You can laugh at me.
939
00:34:29,768 --> 00:34:31,802
So it was my fifth grade year.
940
00:34:31,870 --> 00:34:33,537
You guys are in
fifth grade right now.
941
00:34:33,605 --> 00:34:34,905
- Mm-hmm.
942
00:34:34,973 --> 00:34:38,241
- And I was on the bleachers
in the gym,
943
00:34:38,310 --> 00:34:41,845
and I felt like--
you know, I felt something.
944
00:34:41,914 --> 00:34:45,515
So I went to the bathroom,
and I was bleeding.
945
00:34:45,584 --> 00:34:47,217
Freaked out.
946
00:34:47,286 --> 00:34:48,819
I started crying.
947
00:34:48,887 --> 00:34:50,520
I thought
I was bleeding to death,
948
00:34:50,589 --> 00:34:51,822
thought I was bleeding out.
949
00:34:51,890 --> 00:34:53,857
Went to the guidance counselor
950
00:34:53,926 --> 00:34:56,526
and was like, "Ah,
something's wrong with me."
951
00:34:56,595 --> 00:35:01,298
And she had to explain to me
because Grandma Dawn, my mom,
952
00:35:01,366 --> 00:35:04,167
did not prepare me for the day
that I would start my period.
953
00:35:04,236 --> 00:35:07,437
I really want for you guys
to be prepared.
954
00:35:07,506 --> 00:35:09,806
It's nothing to be ashamed of.
955
00:35:09,875 --> 00:35:12,209
It's nothing to think as weird
because believe me,
956
00:35:12,277 --> 00:35:14,478
you're gonna go through
a lot of changes
957
00:35:14,546 --> 00:35:15,879
the next few years.
958
00:35:15,948 --> 00:35:17,747
So many different emotions
are gonna come up.
959
00:35:17,816 --> 00:35:19,783
You're gonna have mood swings.
960
00:35:19,852 --> 00:35:21,184
- What in the world
is a mood swing?
961
00:35:21,253 --> 00:35:23,053
- Mood swing is, like,
one second you're happy,
962
00:35:23,122 --> 00:35:26,523
one second you're sad,
one second you're, like, angry.
963
00:35:26,592 --> 00:35:29,726
- Will we go through the same
thing at the same time?
964
00:35:29,795 --> 00:35:31,128
- Probably not.
965
00:35:31,196 --> 00:35:33,096
I think that you guys,
even though you are twins,
966
00:35:33,165 --> 00:35:35,866
you're two completely
different people,
967
00:35:35,934 --> 00:35:37,400
and I want you guys
to always feel comfortable
968
00:35:37,469 --> 00:35:38,869
coming to Mommy.
969
00:35:38,937 --> 00:35:40,303
I definitely didn't feel
comfortable going to my mom
970
00:35:40,372 --> 00:35:42,239
and talking to her
about anything like that.
971
00:35:42,307 --> 00:35:44,441
Does it make you feel better
having these conversations--
972
00:35:44,510 --> 00:35:45,609
- Yeah.
973
00:35:45,677 --> 00:35:46,776
- And prepare you?
- Yeah.
974
00:35:46,845 --> 00:35:48,211
- Mm-hmm.
- It does?
975
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:49,379
- Mm-hmm.
976
00:35:49,448 --> 00:35:50,881
- Are they a little
uncomfortable or awkward?
977
00:35:50,949 --> 00:35:52,082
- No.
- No?
978
00:35:52,151 --> 00:35:55,085
- No.
- Good. I like it.
979
00:35:55,154 --> 00:35:59,256
- Now it is awkward.
- Give me a hug. I love you.
980
00:35:59,324 --> 00:36:01,291
- Love you too.
- Love you.
981
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:04,861
[soft music]
982
00:36:12,004 --> 00:36:15,138
[upbeat music]
983
00:36:15,207 --> 00:36:18,241
- ♪ I'm like, what up,
what up, what up? ♪
984
00:36:18,310 --> 00:36:21,444
♪ I'm on the come up,
come up, come up ♪
985
00:36:21,513 --> 00:36:23,413
- Bar's court date is today,
and I hope
986
00:36:23,482 --> 00:36:25,649
this is the last
we hear about his DUI.
987
00:36:25,717 --> 00:36:29,519
He's come so far, and I really
want to move forward together.
988
00:36:29,588 --> 00:36:32,389
- [groans]
989
00:36:32,457 --> 00:36:34,858
- You about to have to get
on the road, baby. It's 12:30.
990
00:36:34,927 --> 00:36:36,259
- Yeah.
- I feel bad.
991
00:36:36,328 --> 00:36:37,694
I wanted to go,
but I don't want to have her
992
00:36:37,763 --> 00:36:39,396
sitting in the car
for however long.
993
00:36:39,464 --> 00:36:40,897
- You know,
I ain't worried about.
994
00:36:40,966 --> 00:36:42,165
I'm just about to go
knock this out real quick.
995
00:36:42,234 --> 00:36:43,700
Hopefully they take
this monitor off my ankle
996
00:36:43,769 --> 00:36:46,303
so I can stop this hindrance
997
00:36:46,371 --> 00:36:48,939
on my existence
as a human being.
998
00:36:49,007 --> 00:36:52,375
- Mm-hmm. Mine too. Amen.
999
00:36:52,444 --> 00:36:54,477
- My Uber is here.
1000
00:36:54,546 --> 00:36:55,679
- Good luck.
- Bye.
1001
00:36:55,747 --> 00:36:58,648
[dramatic music]
1002
00:36:58,717 --> 00:37:05,388
♪ ♪
1003
00:37:14,032 --> 00:37:15,298
- What's up?
- Hey, baby.
1004
00:37:15,367 --> 00:37:17,300
- What's up? What's up?
What's up?
1005
00:37:17,369 --> 00:37:21,137
- What's up?
- Court is done for now.
1006
00:37:21,206 --> 00:37:23,139
I go back in 2 weeks.
They put it off.
1007
00:37:23,208 --> 00:37:26,409
So my attorney still is trying
to get me a deal.
1008
00:37:26,478 --> 00:37:28,845
As of right now, I still got
this ankle monitor on.
1009
00:37:28,914 --> 00:37:31,514
- Well, all right.
I guess we'll be waiting.
1010
00:37:31,583 --> 00:37:33,483
They pushed the court date
back again.
1011
00:37:33,552 --> 00:37:36,386
Like, I understand
it's a sticky situation,
1012
00:37:36,455 --> 00:37:39,623
and it's tough, but I just wish
that they would tell him
1013
00:37:39,691 --> 00:37:41,491
what they're gonna do
so we can get over it,
1014
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,126
he can do what he has to do
to get over it,
1015
00:37:43,195 --> 00:37:45,161
and we can move past this.
1016
00:37:45,230 --> 00:37:47,430
I had, like, anxiety waiting,
1017
00:37:47,499 --> 00:37:49,232
playing this
back and forth game
1018
00:37:49,301 --> 00:37:51,167
when there's so much
going on around us,
1019
00:37:51,236 --> 00:37:55,138
an engagement,
a wedding, a court date.
1020
00:37:55,207 --> 00:37:58,008
I just feel like
things are piling up.
1021
00:37:58,076 --> 00:37:59,409
It's not easy, period,
1022
00:37:59,478 --> 00:38:03,480
and I'm just trying
to knock them off one by one
1023
00:38:03,548 --> 00:38:08,251
so that we just can
move forward, I guess.
1024
00:38:10,555 --> 00:38:11,655
- ♪ Ready ♪
1025
00:38:11,723 --> 00:38:15,025
♪ You can whisper now ♪
1026
00:38:15,093 --> 00:38:17,427
♪ Tell me
what it's all about ♪
1027
00:38:17,496 --> 00:38:21,097
♪ Yeah, tell me
what it's all about ♪
1028
00:38:21,166 --> 00:38:22,532
♪ Ready ♪
1029
00:38:22,601 --> 00:38:24,868
- Come here, sissy.
1030
00:38:24,936 --> 00:38:29,105
Oh, is that my baby?
What are you doing, baby?
1031
00:38:29,174 --> 00:38:31,308
- She's been good.
- You've been good girl?
1032
00:38:33,478 --> 00:38:34,411
Noodles?
1033
00:38:34,479 --> 00:38:35,945
- Yeah.
- You want noodles?
1034
00:38:36,014 --> 00:38:37,480
- Yes.
- There's no microwave.
1035
00:38:37,549 --> 00:38:40,684
- I can make them on the stove
for her for right now.
1036
00:38:40,752 --> 00:38:42,552
Yeah, here. Here, baby.
I'll make it for you.
1037
00:38:42,621 --> 00:38:45,355
- So how was it over there
at Briana's?
1038
00:38:45,424 --> 00:38:46,356
- It was cool.
1039
00:38:46,425 --> 00:38:48,258
I still feel nervous
and scared.
1040
00:38:48,327 --> 00:38:49,826
She was like, "It's gonna hurt.
1041
00:38:49,895 --> 00:38:52,562
It's gonna hurt."
Hi, handsome boy.
1042
00:38:52,631 --> 00:38:54,964
Yeah, but I'm so nervous
1043
00:38:55,033 --> 00:38:56,166
that I feel like I'm just gonna
get sick,
1044
00:38:56,234 --> 00:38:57,667
like, [bleep] over myself.
1045
00:38:57,736 --> 00:39:00,303
I'm, like, just nervous
anticipating this whole thing,
1046
00:39:00,372 --> 00:39:02,138
and is everyone
gonna wipe my butt?
1047
00:39:02,207 --> 00:39:05,375
- Just me.
I get--I'm the lucky person.
1048
00:39:05,444 --> 00:39:07,143
- Just, I don't know,
I feel like I'm kind of having,
1049
00:39:07,212 --> 00:39:09,279
like, a mini panic attack
in my own head.
1050
00:39:09,348 --> 00:39:12,649
The nurse said it was,
like, two or three hours,
1051
00:39:12,718 --> 00:39:13,917
and then I'll be in,
1052
00:39:13,985 --> 00:39:16,553
like, the recovery room
for a little bit,
1053
00:39:16,621 --> 00:39:19,322
and then once I wake up
and, you know, I'm coherent
1054
00:39:19,391 --> 00:39:22,492
and I'm there enough,
they'll release me.
1055
00:39:22,561 --> 00:39:25,595
- Yeah.
We're taking you straight here.
1056
00:39:25,664 --> 00:39:27,030
'Cause you don't need
to run around
1057
00:39:27,099 --> 00:39:28,331
and get your prescriptions
with us
1058
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:29,866
'cause you need to come
straight here
1059
00:39:29,935 --> 00:39:32,035
and rest, you know,
and then your mom
1060
00:39:32,104 --> 00:39:35,271
or whoever can go pick
your prescriptions up.
1061
00:39:35,340 --> 00:39:37,374
- Yeah, I just want
to make sure
1062
00:39:37,442 --> 00:39:39,709
she's not [bleep] around.
Like, if I need something,
1063
00:39:39,778 --> 00:39:41,511
like, someone can go and get
and it and bring it back
1064
00:39:41,580 --> 00:39:43,513
and I'm not sitting here
in excruciating pain.
1065
00:39:43,582 --> 00:39:45,382
- I will make sure
that that doesn't happen.
1066
00:39:45,450 --> 00:39:47,617
- You gonna take good
care of me?
1067
00:39:47,686 --> 00:39:48,985
You promise?
1068
00:39:49,054 --> 00:39:50,553
- Everything will be all right.
1069
00:39:50,622 --> 00:39:53,089
[soft music]
1070
00:39:53,158 --> 00:39:54,491
- ♪ Gonna fly ♪
1071
00:39:54,559 --> 00:39:56,493
♪ Gonna stay ♪
1072
00:39:56,561 --> 00:40:00,263
♪ Got the power in our hands ♪
1073
00:40:00,332 --> 00:40:03,767
♪ Do or die to the end ♪
1074
00:40:03,835 --> 00:40:06,903
♪ Oh ♪
1075
00:40:06,972 --> 00:40:11,107
♪ It's going down,
down, down, down ♪
1076
00:40:11,176 --> 00:40:14,310
♪ It's going down, down ♪
1077
00:40:14,379 --> 00:40:17,914
♪ It's going down, down,
down, down ♪
1078
00:40:17,983 --> 00:40:21,785
♪ It's going down ♪
1079
00:40:21,853 --> 00:40:25,288
♪ It's going down, down,
down, down ♪
1080
00:40:25,357 --> 00:40:30,894
♪ It's going down, down,
down, down, down ♪
1081
00:40:30,962 --> 00:40:34,731
♪ It's do or die to the end ♪
1082
00:40:36,935 --> 00:40:40,904
- Ooh, girl,
look at your new wheels.
1083
00:40:40,972 --> 00:40:44,674
- My landlord wants to move
her child in this house.
1084
00:40:44,743 --> 00:40:46,810
So I've gotta go.
1085
00:40:46,878 --> 00:40:48,812
- Oh, my gosh.
- No medicine?
1086
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:49,979
- No medicine.
- Why?
1087
00:40:50,048 --> 00:40:51,848
- 'Cause her mom
didn't get it yet.
1088
00:40:51,917 --> 00:40:53,116
- So she's been gone
2 1/2 hours.
1089
00:40:53,185 --> 00:40:54,050
- Yes.
1090
00:40:54,119 --> 00:40:55,285
- I think she's
full of [bleep].
1091
00:40:55,353 --> 00:40:56,953
- I'm in excruciating pain.
- Okay. Okay.
1092
00:40:57,022 --> 00:40:58,521
[line trills]
- 911. What is your emergency?
1093
00:40:58,590 --> 00:40:59,856
[siren wails]