1 00:00:02,136 --> 00:00:04,236 - This is how you guys met, right? 2 00:00:04,305 --> 00:00:06,171 - Getting my tattoo, and then we just started 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:07,506 hanging out and [bleep]. 4 00:00:07,575 --> 00:00:11,210 He's just nice. I'm not used to nice. 5 00:00:11,278 --> 00:00:14,446 I don't know where him and I stand. 6 00:00:14,515 --> 00:00:18,250 I'm not 100% sure about what we are. 7 00:00:18,319 --> 00:00:21,253 Devoin forgot Nova at gymnastics. 8 00:00:21,322 --> 00:00:23,655 - You were scared? 9 00:00:23,724 --> 00:00:26,258 - I did forget, like, 'cause I ain't gonna lie. 10 00:00:26,327 --> 00:00:27,726 I feel like [bleep], like, damn. 11 00:00:27,795 --> 00:00:29,595 - I want my daughter to have a good life, 12 00:00:29,663 --> 00:00:32,598 and all I'm asking for Devoin is to help me with gymnastics. 13 00:00:32,666 --> 00:00:34,466 He is asking for more responsibility, 14 00:00:34,535 --> 00:00:37,636 but then when I give it to him, he can't take it. 15 00:00:37,705 --> 00:00:39,505 - She don't give me credit for nothing. 16 00:00:39,573 --> 00:00:41,673 I need credit for something. 17 00:00:41,742 --> 00:00:44,910 - So Jeremy tested positive for COVID. 18 00:00:44,979 --> 00:00:47,713 There are a lot of precautions that we need to take. 19 00:00:47,782 --> 00:00:50,349 I feel like [bleep]. 20 00:00:50,418 --> 00:00:53,552 Previous COVID test results have came back negative. 21 00:00:53,621 --> 00:00:57,322 However, considering Jeremy just tested positive 22 00:00:57,391 --> 00:00:58,557 and we were around him, 23 00:00:58,626 --> 00:01:01,260 I won't be shocked if I test positive. 24 00:01:01,328 --> 00:01:03,328 - How have you been feeling in general 25 00:01:03,397 --> 00:01:05,130 because of the pandemic? 26 00:01:05,199 --> 00:01:06,965 - A lot has changed. 27 00:01:07,034 --> 00:01:09,134 - I want to help him find something that he likes to do 28 00:01:09,203 --> 00:01:12,004 but he's also good at so that he builds that self-confidence. 29 00:01:12,073 --> 00:01:13,338 - Right. 30 00:01:13,407 --> 00:01:15,941 - We're gonna go over a couple tile selections 31 00:01:16,010 --> 00:01:17,142 for your bathroom. 32 00:01:17,211 --> 00:01:19,778 - I want this blue. - You want blue? 33 00:01:19,847 --> 00:01:21,080 - Yeah. 34 00:01:21,148 --> 00:01:22,815 - Bar finally got his GED, 35 00:01:22,883 --> 00:01:26,685 so to celebrate, I am throwing him a surprise party. 36 00:01:26,754 --> 00:01:30,889 Bar got a phone call, and his mom ruined the whole thing. 37 00:01:30,958 --> 00:01:32,558 - And you told them it was a surprise. 38 00:01:32,626 --> 00:01:34,359 - I did. I think it's unfortunate 39 00:01:34,428 --> 00:01:36,728 that this is the situation that our families are in. 40 00:01:36,797 --> 00:01:39,465 His mama, my mama, we don't need a setback. 41 00:01:39,533 --> 00:01:41,433 We need to just move on. 42 00:01:41,502 --> 00:01:43,001 - He's like, "I have a gift for you," 43 00:01:43,070 --> 00:01:45,938 and then he just opens, like, a ring box and was like, 44 00:01:46,006 --> 00:01:48,240 "I really love you and I want you to be my wife, 45 00:01:48,309 --> 00:01:49,341 and I want to be with you." 46 00:01:49,410 --> 00:01:51,810 - I gave it to her, and I just said, 47 00:01:53,114 --> 00:01:57,583 I don't want you to feel like you need to give me one." 48 00:01:57,651 --> 00:01:59,017 - If you have [bleep] common sense, 49 00:01:59,086 --> 00:02:00,552 you would know at 24 years old, 50 00:02:00,621 --> 00:02:03,755 it's not a good idea to just run up and marry somebody. 51 00:02:04,492 --> 00:02:07,593 [upbeat rock music] 52 00:02:07,661 --> 00:02:14,633 ♪ ♪ 53 00:02:22,209 --> 00:02:24,176 [rock music] 54 00:02:24,245 --> 00:02:25,344 - ♪ I want it ♪ 55 00:02:25,412 --> 00:02:26,745 - I'm glad Sean's not pressuring me 56 00:02:26,814 --> 00:02:28,480 for an answer to his proposal 57 00:02:28,549 --> 00:02:30,048 because we're doing really well, 58 00:02:30,117 --> 00:02:31,283 and I don't want that to change. 59 00:02:31,352 --> 00:02:32,885 - ♪ I want it ♪ 60 00:02:34,855 --> 00:02:36,221 - What is that? 61 00:02:38,626 --> 00:02:41,059 - [laughs] It's a troll. 62 00:02:41,128 --> 00:02:42,294 I like him like this. 63 00:02:42,363 --> 00:02:44,062 - [giggles] 64 00:02:44,131 --> 00:02:45,898 [as troll] Hi, Kloie. 65 00:02:49,069 --> 00:02:51,236 Sean's watching Kloie while I go back to work, 66 00:02:51,305 --> 00:02:52,738 and tomorrow I'm flying to Miami 67 00:02:52,806 --> 00:02:55,240 for my surgery later this week. 68 00:02:55,309 --> 00:02:58,577 I think that I'm a confident person, 69 00:02:58,646 --> 00:03:01,413 but I also think everyone has their own insecurities, 70 00:03:01,482 --> 00:03:03,815 and I feel like I'm not totally satisfied 71 00:03:03,884 --> 00:03:05,484 with how I look, 72 00:03:05,553 --> 00:03:07,819 so I'm getting a Brazilian butt lift 73 00:03:07,888 --> 00:03:09,988 where they do 360 lipo. 74 00:03:10,057 --> 00:03:12,491 I had a different mindset or, like, an image 75 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:15,594 of what I thought I was going to eventually look like. 76 00:03:15,663 --> 00:03:18,096 I thought I would, like, have bigger boobs 77 00:03:18,165 --> 00:03:19,998 or I would at least be a little more curvy. 78 00:03:20,067 --> 00:03:22,568 I just kind of thought I would grow into it as I got older, 79 00:03:22,636 --> 00:03:26,038 so, like, I definitely wanted to move some fat 80 00:03:26,106 --> 00:03:27,673 from, like, my midsection area 81 00:03:27,741 --> 00:03:30,375 and then just kind of distribute it differently. 82 00:03:30,444 --> 00:03:32,644 I talked to Briana about wanting it 83 00:03:32,713 --> 00:03:34,079 because she had one too. 84 00:03:34,148 --> 00:03:35,480 She was the one, like, 85 00:03:35,549 --> 00:03:37,115 "Yeah, you should definitely go for it." 86 00:03:37,184 --> 00:03:40,552 But I think having this surgery will just make me 87 00:03:40,621 --> 00:03:43,422 a lot more happy in my own skin 88 00:03:43,490 --> 00:03:47,893 and just feeling more confident about who I am. 89 00:03:47,962 --> 00:03:51,063 - ♪ So gimme, gimme right now ♪ 90 00:03:51,131 --> 00:03:53,065 ♪ I know before I'll win it ♪ 91 00:03:53,133 --> 00:03:54,633 ♪ Got twenty-twenty vision ♪ 92 00:03:54,702 --> 00:03:56,268 ♪ To take it to the limit ♪ 93 00:03:56,337 --> 00:03:58,203 ♪ I ain't ever stopping now ♪ 94 00:03:58,272 --> 00:03:59,638 ♪ Forever in this feeling ♪ 95 00:03:59,707 --> 00:04:01,607 ♪ And I ain't ever leaving ♪ 96 00:04:01,675 --> 00:04:03,208 ♪ I get myself believing ♪ 97 00:04:03,277 --> 00:04:07,145 ♪ I ain't ever coming down ♪ 98 00:04:07,214 --> 00:04:09,114 - Hi. - Hi. 99 00:04:09,183 --> 00:04:11,149 How are you? 100 00:04:11,218 --> 00:04:12,784 - Good. How are you? 101 00:04:12,853 --> 00:04:16,021 - I'm good. How was work? - It was good. 102 00:04:16,090 --> 00:04:17,322 I was here all day, though. 103 00:04:17,391 --> 00:04:19,958 - Who's going to Miami? 104 00:04:20,027 --> 00:04:22,361 - My--everybody, bitch. 105 00:04:22,429 --> 00:04:23,695 Everybody. - Jesus. 106 00:04:23,764 --> 00:04:25,731 - My mom, my dad, 107 00:04:25,799 --> 00:04:27,099 my best friend, 108 00:04:27,167 --> 00:04:31,536 Kelsey, her son, me, Sean and my daughter. 109 00:04:31,605 --> 00:04:34,339 - How exciting. - I know. 110 00:04:34,408 --> 00:04:35,974 I'm nervous, but I'm really excited, 111 00:04:36,043 --> 00:04:37,109 but I'm super, super, nervous. 112 00:04:37,177 --> 00:04:38,477 - What are you most nervous about? 113 00:04:38,545 --> 00:04:39,811 - I just don't have-- 114 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:41,346 I've just never had surgery, honestly. 115 00:04:41,415 --> 00:04:42,481 - Are they putting you to sleep? 116 00:04:42,549 --> 00:04:43,348 - Mommy. 117 00:04:43,417 --> 00:04:44,650 - Yeah. - Okay. 118 00:04:44,718 --> 00:04:46,051 Well, then, that's good 'cause some doctors 119 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:47,119 don't put people to sleep. 120 00:04:47,187 --> 00:04:49,121 - Do I need to call him? - No-- 121 00:04:49,189 --> 00:04:50,322 - I mean, I would assume. 122 00:04:50,391 --> 00:04:53,592 - [laughs] I would double-check. 123 00:04:53,661 --> 00:04:55,727 - No, 'cause I be in there like, uh-uh, and he know-- 124 00:04:55,796 --> 00:04:58,196 he's seen my chart, so he knows I got a anxiety 125 00:04:58,265 --> 00:05:00,365 and a panic disorder, so he'd be like, 126 00:05:00,434 --> 00:05:01,967 "No, this bitch got to go to sleep." 127 00:05:02,036 --> 00:05:05,737 - I will say, not to scare you, it's gonna hurt. 128 00:05:05,806 --> 00:05:07,372 You're gonna wake up-- - I mean, yeah. 129 00:05:07,441 --> 00:05:10,242 - And it's gonna hurt as-- you're not gonna feel great. 130 00:05:10,311 --> 00:05:11,643 Like, after the third day, 131 00:05:11,712 --> 00:05:13,812 you'll be able to do things on your own, 132 00:05:13,881 --> 00:05:15,681 but make sure somebody is there with you 133 00:05:15,749 --> 00:05:17,683 because you won't be able to get up by yourself. 134 00:05:17,751 --> 00:05:19,618 You won't be able to use the bathroom by yourself. 135 00:05:19,687 --> 00:05:21,453 You won't be able to wipe yourself. 136 00:05:21,522 --> 00:05:23,955 - My mom is checking my body, my wounds, 137 00:05:24,024 --> 00:05:25,424 like, all my, like, healing. 138 00:05:25,492 --> 00:05:27,326 You used to be a surgical nurse. 139 00:05:27,394 --> 00:05:29,328 She's gonna stay in the other--in my-- 140 00:05:29,396 --> 00:05:31,129 the house with me, like, right after my surgery, 141 00:05:31,198 --> 00:05:32,631 obviously, to be checking in on me, 142 00:05:32,700 --> 00:05:35,267 but we can't be around each other too long. 143 00:05:35,336 --> 00:05:37,836 - How is Sean feeling about this? 144 00:05:37,905 --> 00:05:40,439 - I mean, at first, he was, like, 145 00:05:40,507 --> 00:05:42,741 super weird about it, like, confused. 146 00:05:42,810 --> 00:05:45,844 He was like, "Why do you-- why are you doing this?" 147 00:05:45,913 --> 00:05:47,813 And I'm like, "I'm just doing it for me." 148 00:05:47,881 --> 00:05:50,082 And he was like, "Well, are you doing this 149 00:05:50,150 --> 00:05:51,450 "because, like, you-- 150 00:05:51,518 --> 00:05:53,585 like, because of other-- like, other guys?" 151 00:05:53,654 --> 00:05:55,887 And I'm like, "Oh, my God, stupid boy." 152 00:05:55,956 --> 00:05:57,956 - I think you'll do great. 153 00:05:58,025 --> 00:05:59,358 I think you're gonna love it. 154 00:05:59,426 --> 00:06:03,662 And I'm so happy forou because I feel like I was 155 00:06:03,731 --> 00:06:06,164 so insecure about my body, and I got my body done, 156 00:06:06,233 --> 00:06:09,167 and it made me feel 20 times more better about myself. 157 00:06:09,236 --> 00:06:13,505 - I feel like Sean, one minute, he's totally cool about it, 158 00:06:13,574 --> 00:06:15,207 and then next minute he's not, 159 00:06:15,275 --> 00:06:17,409 but I feel like after getting the BBL, 160 00:06:17,478 --> 00:06:21,213 I'll just feel more, like, how I envision myself to look. 161 00:06:21,281 --> 00:06:24,216 [dramatic music] 162 00:06:24,284 --> 00:06:29,755 ♪ ♪ 163 00:06:29,823 --> 00:06:32,124 - So Jade just called me clueless. 164 00:06:32,192 --> 00:06:33,925 She's clueless. 165 00:06:33,994 --> 00:06:35,560 This poor girl has no idea-- 166 00:06:35,629 --> 00:06:39,631 - What do you mean? - What she's about to get into. 167 00:06:39,700 --> 00:06:42,300 - What did she say? - She doesn't know anything. 168 00:06:42,369 --> 00:06:43,835 She's getting a Brazilian butt lift, 169 00:06:43,904 --> 00:06:46,071 which is a BBL, and then she's getting fat 170 00:06:46,140 --> 00:06:49,241 transferred to her to boobs, but she has no idea, like-- 171 00:06:49,309 --> 00:06:50,742 - She needs to have her mom there. 172 00:06:51,912 --> 00:06:53,211 - In case something happens. -I don't care.. 173 00:06:53,280 --> 00:06:54,379 - No, for sure. She needs her mom there. 174 00:06:54,448 --> 00:06:55,781 - No, the mom needs to be there. 175 00:06:55,849 --> 00:06:57,616 - Everybody is gonna be there, her boyfriend, 176 00:06:57,684 --> 00:06:58,950 the baby, her best friend, 177 00:06:59,019 --> 00:07:01,353 and I'm going to go too to support her. 178 00:07:01,422 --> 00:07:03,021 So can you watch the girls? 179 00:07:03,090 --> 00:07:04,523 - Yeah. 180 00:07:04,591 --> 00:07:07,859 Stelly, what are you gonna do Saturday with grandma? 181 00:07:07,928 --> 00:07:09,361 - Play dollies. 182 00:07:09,430 --> 00:07:10,962 - Play dollies? - Play dollies? Okay. 183 00:07:11,031 --> 00:07:13,098 You gonna text Devoin, or am I gonna text him? 184 00:07:13,167 --> 00:07:16,435 - Text him Friday night on Nova's phone or your phone. 185 00:07:16,503 --> 00:07:17,803 You have his number. 186 00:07:17,871 --> 00:07:21,173 Say, "Hey, you can pick Nova up at 10:00 187 00:07:21,241 --> 00:07:22,441 and bring her home at 6:00," 188 00:07:22,509 --> 00:07:23,875 but if she doesn't want to go, 189 00:07:23,944 --> 00:07:25,477 then you just let him know she doesn't want to go, 190 00:07:25,546 --> 00:07:27,312 but more than likely she'll go, so-- 191 00:07:27,381 --> 00:07:28,814 - Is Luis in town? 192 00:07:28,882 --> 00:07:30,849 - I don't know. I haven't heard from him. 193 00:07:30,918 --> 00:07:33,552 But I feel bad for Jade because she's clueless. 194 00:07:33,620 --> 00:07:35,420 - The first time is scary. 195 00:07:35,489 --> 00:07:36,922 Let her know that it [bleep] hurts. 196 00:07:36,990 --> 00:07:38,990 - I told her it hurts. 197 00:07:39,059 --> 00:07:41,293 - Briana, surgery is over. - It hurts. 198 00:07:41,361 --> 00:07:43,228 - I know. Just hang in there. 199 00:07:43,297 --> 00:07:44,930 - How do you feel? 200 00:07:44,998 --> 00:07:47,065 - I'm dying. 201 00:07:47,134 --> 00:07:48,834 Can you call my mom? - Yeah. 202 00:07:48,902 --> 00:07:51,436 [line trills] 203 00:07:51,505 --> 00:07:53,138 - She's not answering. 204 00:07:53,207 --> 00:07:57,676 - We're here. It's okay. Relax. Just relax. I'm here. I'm here. 205 00:07:57,744 --> 00:07:58,910 - Breathe, girl. 206 00:07:58,979 --> 00:08:00,178 - You weren't answering, 207 00:08:00,247 --> 00:08:01,580 and I was like, "Where's my mom?" 208 00:08:01,648 --> 00:08:03,949 And I had a panic attack. 209 00:08:04,017 --> 00:08:06,351 - Your body, like, is traumatized. 210 00:08:06,420 --> 00:08:08,453 You know the trauma you cause the body? 211 00:08:08,522 --> 00:08:10,188 And your cells are going haywire. 212 00:08:10,257 --> 00:08:11,590 You're on, like-- 213 00:08:11,658 --> 00:08:13,258 your body is trying to survive all that trauma. 214 00:08:13,327 --> 00:08:16,728 - And she said that she gets bad anxiety, so I'm like, ugh. 215 00:08:16,797 --> 00:08:19,264 - Just tell her to pray. You know, faith. 216 00:08:19,333 --> 00:08:20,365 - But she clueless. 217 00:08:20,434 --> 00:08:27,606 ♪ ♪ 218 00:08:32,179 --> 00:08:34,346 - ♪ Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh ♪ 219 00:08:34,414 --> 00:08:36,414 - The last couple of weeks were rough, 220 00:08:36,483 --> 00:08:38,416 but we're all still negative for COVID, 221 00:08:38,485 --> 00:08:41,453 and officially out of quarantine. 222 00:08:41,522 --> 00:08:43,221 The twins' birthday is this week, 223 00:08:43,290 --> 00:08:45,924 so they celebrated with Corey while they were there. 224 00:08:45,993 --> 00:08:47,826 [upbeat music] 225 00:08:47,895 --> 00:08:50,195 - So how does it feel to be almost 11? 226 00:08:50,264 --> 00:08:51,496 - Good. - Good? 227 00:08:51,565 --> 00:08:53,498 - Same thing. - Do you feel any different? 228 00:08:53,567 --> 00:08:54,966 You don't feel older? 229 00:08:56,236 --> 00:08:59,638 - Your back's not hurting yet? - No. I'm just 11. 230 00:08:59,706 --> 00:09:01,873 - I'm not 30. - [laughs] 231 00:09:01,942 --> 00:09:03,141 Like someone else. 232 00:09:03,210 --> 00:09:07,345 [laughter] 233 00:09:07,414 --> 00:09:11,416 ♪ ♪ 234 00:09:12,452 --> 00:09:14,853 - Hi. - No, no, no. 235 00:09:14,922 --> 00:09:15,887 - He lied to you? 236 00:09:15,956 --> 00:09:18,189 - No, that's not what she's saying. 237 00:09:18,258 --> 00:09:19,591 - All right. Bye, girls. Love you. 238 00:09:19,660 --> 00:09:21,393 - Bye. Love you. - I'll y'all tomorrow, okay? 239 00:09:21,461 --> 00:09:22,727 both: Okay. 240 00:09:22,796 --> 00:09:25,030 - Bye. 241 00:09:25,098 --> 00:09:26,331 So are you feeling better? 242 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:27,799 - I'm glad to be out of quarantine. 243 00:09:27,868 --> 00:09:29,134 - Yeah. 244 00:09:29,202 --> 00:09:31,736 - I definitely got anxious when Jeremy tested positive. 245 00:09:31,805 --> 00:09:33,204 - Yeah, it was definitely scary. 246 00:09:33,273 --> 00:09:35,340 - Jeremy is doing better, and he's already back to work. 247 00:09:35,409 --> 00:09:37,075 - That's good. - So how was their birthday? 248 00:09:37,144 --> 00:09:38,510 - It was good. 249 00:09:38,579 --> 00:09:39,844 It was a lot different than normal. 250 00:09:39,913 --> 00:09:41,212 Usually, like--you know. 251 00:09:41,281 --> 00:09:43,181 - They called me afterwards, and they were super excited. 252 00:09:43,250 --> 00:09:47,018 - Yeah, it was just, like, open the presents, cake, singing. 253 00:09:47,087 --> 00:09:48,453 - Yeah, I'm gonna do a Zoom party with them 254 00:09:48,522 --> 00:09:49,554 on their birthday, 255 00:09:49,623 --> 00:09:52,057 so we'll see how that turns out. 256 00:09:52,125 --> 00:09:53,825 I can't believe they're 11. It's kind of cool. 257 00:09:53,894 --> 00:09:55,694 It's bittersweet. - Yeah. 258 00:09:55,762 --> 00:09:58,196 It's definitely hard because they're still, to me, 259 00:09:58,265 --> 00:10:00,198 you know, little tiny babies. 260 00:10:00,267 --> 00:10:01,633 - But they're not. [laughs] 261 00:10:01,702 --> 00:10:05,770 - So it's like, that's how it goes, but-- 262 00:10:05,839 --> 00:10:07,072 oh, well. 263 00:10:07,140 --> 00:10:08,607 All right, well, good luck with your party. 264 00:10:08,675 --> 00:10:10,041 - All right. - All right. 265 00:10:10,110 --> 00:10:11,176 - Definitely. Thank you. 266 00:10:11,244 --> 00:10:13,178 [dramatic music] 267 00:10:13,246 --> 00:10:15,547 I'm sure that the girls want a birthday party 268 00:10:15,616 --> 00:10:18,583 where their entire family can be there 269 00:10:18,652 --> 00:10:21,453 and celebrate with them, but I think 270 00:10:21,521 --> 00:10:23,588 the girls understand the times that we're in. 271 00:10:23,657 --> 00:10:25,957 They understand that COVID is scary, 272 00:10:26,026 --> 00:10:28,560 especially with Ali being immunocompromised, 273 00:10:28,629 --> 00:10:30,295 but I think that we're definitely 274 00:10:30,364 --> 00:10:31,930 gonna remain optimistic 275 00:10:31,999 --> 00:10:34,833 and make it the best time for them that I possibly can. 276 00:10:34,901 --> 00:10:37,369 Pray it goes well. Let's pray it goes well. 277 00:10:38,338 --> 00:10:40,205 - ♪ It's possible ♪ 278 00:10:40,273 --> 00:10:42,807 ♪ To see the city from the wrong side ♪ 279 00:10:42,876 --> 00:10:45,977 - [blows raspberry] - Ew. 280 00:10:46,046 --> 00:10:48,046 You, like, spit--whoa! 281 00:10:48,115 --> 00:10:50,281 - Did you do that? Did you just spit on him? 282 00:10:50,350 --> 00:10:53,051 - Chicken nuggets. [giggles] 283 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,887 - You're disgusting. 284 00:10:55,956 --> 00:10:57,722 - I just dropped off the boys with their dads, 285 00:10:57,791 --> 00:10:59,591 and later this week I'm flying to Atlanta 286 00:10:59,660 --> 00:11:01,493 where my cohost for "Coffee Convos" lives 287 00:11:01,561 --> 00:11:04,062 so we can record some podcasts in person. 288 00:11:04,131 --> 00:11:06,498 [upbeat music] 289 00:11:06,566 --> 00:11:08,166 [line trills] 290 00:11:08,235 --> 00:11:10,168 - Hello. - Hello, ma'am. 291 00:11:10,237 --> 00:11:12,404 - [laughs] Hey. What are you doing? 292 00:11:12,472 --> 00:11:14,639 - I just wanted to call you 293 00:11:14,708 --> 00:11:18,309 because I was on our Instagram and I saw that we were, 294 00:11:18,378 --> 00:11:21,613 like, overwhelmed with messages 295 00:11:21,682 --> 00:11:25,617 to have Devoin on our podcast. 296 00:11:25,686 --> 00:11:28,920 - Yes. I actually noticed that too. 297 00:11:28,989 --> 00:11:30,789 - Okay. - So what's the move? 298 00:11:30,857 --> 00:11:32,157 - I messaged him on Instagram, 299 00:11:32,225 --> 00:11:33,925 and I asked him if he would want to come on, 300 00:11:33,994 --> 00:11:35,093 and he said yes. 301 00:11:35,162 --> 00:11:36,127 - Okay. 302 00:11:36,196 --> 00:11:38,163 - He said that he would come to Atlanta. 303 00:11:38,231 --> 00:11:40,031 I don't know, I feel like he doesn't really have a chance 304 00:11:40,100 --> 00:11:42,200 to, like, say what he wants to say, 305 00:11:42,269 --> 00:11:44,636 and, like, nobody hears his side of it 306 00:11:44,705 --> 00:11:46,438 because he always gets shut down. 307 00:11:46,506 --> 00:11:47,739 So I just--I don't know. 308 00:11:47,808 --> 00:11:49,774 I want to give him a chance to, like, talk. 309 00:11:49,843 --> 00:11:51,209 - For sure. Well, I'm excited about this. 310 00:11:51,278 --> 00:11:53,978 - Yeah, same. - Just let me know dates, 311 00:11:54,047 --> 00:11:56,781 and we'll start planning and everything, 312 00:11:56,850 --> 00:11:59,184 and it will be fun, and it will be good. 313 00:11:59,252 --> 00:12:00,719 - All right. Sounds good. I'll talk to you soon. 314 00:12:00,787 --> 00:12:02,220 All right. Bye. - Bye. 315 00:12:03,724 --> 00:12:05,490 - ♪ Gonna do what I do ♪ 316 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:07,158 - ♪ Gonna do what I do ♪ 317 00:12:08,929 --> 00:12:10,528 - Can you give Holly a chocolate, man? 318 00:12:10,597 --> 00:12:11,830 - She has had, like, ten of them. 319 00:12:11,898 --> 00:12:13,498 No. She don't need no more. 320 00:12:13,567 --> 00:12:15,934 You just had hell of 'em. 321 00:12:16,002 --> 00:12:17,502 - Why do you have chocolate everywhere? 322 00:12:17,571 --> 00:12:19,070 - Are you serious? - Okay, yeah. No. 323 00:12:19,139 --> 00:12:21,139 - No, you can't have none. You're bugging out. 324 00:12:21,208 --> 00:12:22,640 - Why do you--why do you-- 325 00:12:22,709 --> 00:12:24,409 why do you have chocolate everywhere, bro? 326 00:12:24,478 --> 00:12:26,544 - How did you do that? 327 00:12:26,613 --> 00:12:29,547 We've been in the car for five minutes. 328 00:12:29,616 --> 00:12:31,015 - [cries] - Fix your mouth right now. 329 00:12:31,084 --> 00:12:31,983 - Stop. Don't start. 330 00:12:32,052 --> 00:12:33,852 - Hey, I'm not doing it with you. 331 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,554 - So a while back, Bar got a DUI. 332 00:12:36,623 --> 00:12:41,092 We weren't together, but now we are together in a situation 333 00:12:41,161 --> 00:12:45,430 that we all have to deal with because he can't drive. 334 00:12:45,499 --> 00:12:47,999 It's a possibility that they could take his license 335 00:12:48,068 --> 00:12:50,969 or make him do all these classes 336 00:12:51,037 --> 00:12:52,637 before he can qualify to get it back, 337 00:12:52,706 --> 00:12:54,005 or they just say, "You can't get it back 338 00:12:54,074 --> 00:12:55,740 five years or whatever how long." 339 00:12:55,809 --> 00:12:58,109 And he's [bleep]-- it puts a strain on me 340 00:12:58,178 --> 00:13:00,979 to have to do all the transportation, 341 00:13:01,047 --> 00:13:03,014 and we don't live close to anybody or anything, 342 00:13:03,083 --> 00:13:06,618 so he gonna have to learn the bus schedule very well 343 00:13:06,686 --> 00:13:08,787 because I'm not gonna be chauffeuring you 344 00:13:08,855 --> 00:13:10,221 all the way around here. 345 00:13:10,290 --> 00:13:11,856 Should have thought about how your ass is gonna get 346 00:13:11,925 --> 00:13:14,559 from A to B before you did what you did. 347 00:13:14,628 --> 00:13:17,595 [upbeat music] 348 00:13:17,664 --> 00:13:19,798 ♪ ♪ 349 00:13:19,866 --> 00:13:21,132 - Let me see you jump on one leg. 350 00:13:21,201 --> 00:13:23,735 Let me see how many times you can do it. 351 00:13:23,804 --> 00:13:25,503 Look, look, look, look. You got to go like-- 352 00:13:25,572 --> 00:13:27,438 - Bar has a court date later this week to see 353 00:13:27,507 --> 00:13:29,107 if the lawyers have reached an agreement 354 00:13:29,176 --> 00:13:31,242 about his DUI charges from last year, 355 00:13:31,311 --> 00:13:33,645 and I just want to put all of this behind us. 356 00:13:33,713 --> 00:13:35,747 - No, you got to keep your leg up. 357 00:13:35,816 --> 00:13:37,248 That's why I'm holding you. 358 00:13:37,317 --> 00:13:40,051 - [giggling] 359 00:13:42,689 --> 00:13:45,557 And surprise! - Surprise. 360 00:13:45,625 --> 00:13:47,091 - Surprise. 361 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:48,827 So I got to go to court tomorrow. 362 00:13:48,895 --> 00:13:50,295 It shouldn't be nothing too serious. 363 00:13:50,363 --> 00:13:53,765 I mean, it's just for the DUI that I got. 364 00:13:53,834 --> 00:13:56,568 - Don't say it like that. - I mean, I [bleep]-- 365 00:13:56,636 --> 00:13:58,570 - Don't say "just for a DUI." 366 00:13:58,638 --> 00:14:00,238 - No, I'm saying, like, I'm not-- 367 00:14:00,307 --> 00:14:01,639 okay, well, it's serious. 368 00:14:01,708 --> 00:14:03,107 I'm not saying, like, "just for the DUI." 369 00:14:03,176 --> 00:14:05,910 I'm saying it's for the DUI that I had. 370 00:14:05,979 --> 00:14:07,178 I'm hoping tomorrow, 371 00:14:07,247 --> 00:14:09,614 they just cut this ankle monitor off my leg. 372 00:14:09,683 --> 00:14:12,951 - Go in there humbly with a lesson learned. 373 00:14:13,019 --> 00:14:15,153 - I always go into court humbly. 374 00:14:15,222 --> 00:14:17,388 It's not gonna be-- I ain't shiver. 375 00:14:17,457 --> 00:14:18,790 - You should be 376 00:14:18,859 --> 00:14:20,258 'cause they could take your license for years. 377 00:14:20,327 --> 00:14:21,626 - I know. 378 00:14:21,695 --> 00:14:23,962 - So you should be nervous. You should be. 379 00:14:24,030 --> 00:14:26,030 If I was you, I'd be nervous. 380 00:14:26,099 --> 00:14:30,134 I think that because he knows people who are in jail 381 00:14:30,203 --> 00:14:32,437 for a much more serious thing, he feels like, 382 00:14:32,505 --> 00:14:34,138 "Oh, this could be worse," 383 00:14:34,207 --> 00:14:36,341 but, like, I'm hoping that they don't take his license 384 00:14:36,409 --> 00:14:37,809 because, I mean, 385 00:14:37,878 --> 00:14:40,345 that is a real consequence to drinking and driving. 386 00:14:40,413 --> 00:14:44,148 I am nervous for him because he's young, 387 00:14:44,217 --> 00:14:47,752 he's Black, and now he's with the courts. 388 00:14:47,821 --> 00:14:50,054 So let's hope that he can turn it around 389 00:14:50,123 --> 00:14:53,758 because, you know, it's just not cute. 390 00:14:55,228 --> 00:14:56,427 It's not cute. 391 00:14:56,496 --> 00:14:59,397 [dramatic music] 392 00:14:59,466 --> 00:15:01,299 ♪ ♪ 393 00:15:05,071 --> 00:15:06,771 - ♪ Real, real good ♪ 394 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:08,973 [upbeat music] 395 00:15:09,042 --> 00:15:10,241 - I'm heading out to Miami 396 00:15:10,310 --> 00:15:11,709 to see Jade before her surgery. 397 00:15:11,778 --> 00:15:13,077 My mom's with Stella, 398 00:15:13,146 --> 00:15:16,080 and Devoin has Nova for a few hours. 399 00:15:16,149 --> 00:15:17,148 Bye. 400 00:15:17,217 --> 00:15:19,484 - [Indistinct] - Bye, Mom. 401 00:15:19,552 --> 00:15:23,087 - See you later. I'll text you. 402 00:15:23,156 --> 00:15:25,223 Oy-yoy-yoy. - This one's heavy. 403 00:15:25,292 --> 00:15:28,860 - We going on a two-day-- one-day trip, 404 00:15:28,929 --> 00:15:30,795 and we acting like we're moving over there. 405 00:15:30,864 --> 00:15:32,997 You okay with me driving? - I don't care. 406 00:15:35,502 --> 00:15:38,136 ♪ ♪ 407 00:15:38,204 --> 00:15:40,638 Let me hit up Jade and see what she's doing, 408 00:15:40,707 --> 00:15:42,106 tell her that we're on our way. 409 00:15:42,175 --> 00:15:44,876 - Do you know who she's getting her surgery with? 410 00:15:44,945 --> 00:15:47,578 - I don't know. We'll ask her when we get-- 411 00:15:47,647 --> 00:15:49,447 I think she's gonna come to our Airbnb. 412 00:15:49,516 --> 00:15:50,882 - Okay. 413 00:15:50,951 --> 00:15:57,555 ♪ ♪ 414 00:15:57,624 --> 00:15:58,856 - Grab one flat. 415 00:15:58,925 --> 00:16:00,058 You want to try and get it in the back. 416 00:16:00,126 --> 00:16:01,326 - It smells good. - Don't lick it. 417 00:16:01,394 --> 00:16:03,428 - I didn't lick it. - Smell good? 418 00:16:03,496 --> 00:16:04,996 - Yeah, it smells good. 419 00:16:05,065 --> 00:16:06,597 - See, you back it into the corner like that 420 00:16:06,666 --> 00:16:10,034 so you know you got enough space to drop the next one. 421 00:16:10,804 --> 00:16:12,170 - We're just bored 'cause we're waiting 422 00:16:12,238 --> 00:16:15,006 for the food to get done. - Mm-hmm. 423 00:16:15,075 --> 00:16:17,508 - So we're just gonna do some tricks over here. 424 00:16:17,577 --> 00:16:18,876 Hands on his feet. 425 00:16:18,945 --> 00:16:21,012 You just start like this, 426 00:16:21,081 --> 00:16:22,613 and you just kick up, 427 00:16:22,682 --> 00:16:25,316 and then he'll catch you, or somebody will catch you. 428 00:16:25,385 --> 00:16:27,785 And then he just starts walking around. 429 00:16:27,854 --> 00:16:33,024 ♪ ♪ 430 00:16:34,928 --> 00:16:36,060 - I got to go out of town 431 00:16:36,129 --> 00:16:37,462 for a couple of days. - Yeah? 432 00:16:37,530 --> 00:16:40,064 - I'm about to go to Atlanta. - What's out there? 433 00:16:40,133 --> 00:16:41,899 - I'm about to do a podcast out there. 434 00:16:41,968 --> 00:16:43,234 - Who are you doing a podcast with? 435 00:16:43,303 --> 00:16:45,169 - With Kail. - Who's that? 436 00:16:45,238 --> 00:16:46,871 - Briana used to [bleep] her baby daddy. 437 00:16:46,940 --> 00:16:48,272 - You're salty that Javi is moving on. 438 00:16:48,341 --> 00:16:50,375 - About what? - And Javi came to my face 439 00:16:50,443 --> 00:16:51,943 and told me I don't have a choice. 440 00:16:52,012 --> 00:16:53,945 Briana is coming to the party whether I like it or not. 441 00:16:54,014 --> 00:16:55,480 I don't think she's a good person, 442 00:16:55,548 --> 00:16:57,148 and I don't want to be around her. 443 00:16:57,217 --> 00:16:59,217 Briana started a group chat with me and Javi, and she said, 444 00:16:59,285 --> 00:17:01,019 "Shut the [bleep] up 'cause now I'm mad. 445 00:17:01,087 --> 00:17:02,920 [bleep] my [bleep], you dumb bitch." 446 00:17:06,393 --> 00:17:08,026 - Because of the podcast? - Yeah. 447 00:17:08,094 --> 00:17:09,427 - I don't give damn about what nobody say. 448 00:17:09,496 --> 00:17:10,862 I will go on my Instagram right now and say, 449 00:17:10,930 --> 00:17:12,830 "[bleep] Briana," from my verified Gram. 450 00:17:12,899 --> 00:17:14,332 Post. 451 00:17:14,401 --> 00:17:16,434 I ain't worried about nothing she say. 452 00:17:16,503 --> 00:17:18,102 She out of her mouth saying I'm a bad dad. 453 00:17:18,171 --> 00:17:19,637 That's more hurtful than anything I could ever say 454 00:17:19,706 --> 00:17:21,406 about her to be real. 455 00:17:21,474 --> 00:17:23,041 So what is there to say? 456 00:17:23,109 --> 00:17:24,976 But yeah, I'm trying to make it "The Me Show," 457 00:17:25,045 --> 00:17:26,744 not "The Bri Show." 458 00:17:29,416 --> 00:17:31,249 [upbeat music] 459 00:17:31,317 --> 00:17:33,918 - I'm flying to Miami with Sean and Kloie, 460 00:17:33,987 --> 00:17:35,753 and my parents are coming later tonight. 461 00:17:35,822 --> 00:17:37,088 I really want this surgery, 462 00:17:37,157 --> 00:17:39,757 but I'm so anxious about the process. 463 00:17:39,826 --> 00:17:41,125 Ready? 464 00:17:41,194 --> 00:17:42,393 - No. - Come on. 465 00:17:42,462 --> 00:17:43,961 Here, I'll put you in the car first. 466 00:17:44,030 --> 00:17:48,399 - [babbles] - Yep. Let's go to the car. 467 00:17:48,468 --> 00:17:51,702 We're all going in here, baby. I know it's not mommy's car. 468 00:17:51,771 --> 00:17:52,870 Okay? 469 00:17:52,939 --> 00:17:59,510 ♪ ♪ 470 00:17:59,579 --> 00:18:01,345 - ♪ Yeah, here I come ♪ 471 00:18:01,414 --> 00:18:04,715 ♪ ♪ 472 00:18:04,784 --> 00:18:06,317 ♪ Here comes trouble ♪ 473 00:18:06,386 --> 00:18:09,887 ♪ ♪ 474 00:18:09,956 --> 00:18:11,956 ♪ Here comes trouble ♪ 475 00:18:14,260 --> 00:18:16,427 - I'm at the surgical center for my pre-op appointment, 476 00:18:16,496 --> 00:18:17,995 but I'm not gonna meet the doctor 477 00:18:18,064 --> 00:18:19,397 until the day of my surgery, 478 00:18:19,466 --> 00:18:22,333 which makes me even more anxious. 479 00:18:22,402 --> 00:18:25,069 So right now I'm going up to the second floor. 480 00:18:25,138 --> 00:18:26,637 I look like a hot mess. 481 00:18:26,706 --> 00:18:29,607 I've been up since 5:00 a.m., so I'm super nervous. 482 00:18:31,344 --> 00:18:33,277 - You're gonna get undressed for me completely. 483 00:18:33,346 --> 00:18:34,679 You're gonna put on this gown, okay? 484 00:18:34,747 --> 00:18:36,180 - Okay. Got you. Thank you. 485 00:18:36,249 --> 00:18:38,116 - Now, as far as the procedure that you're getting done, 486 00:18:38,184 --> 00:18:39,517 it's gonna be a BBL, 487 00:18:39,586 --> 00:18:41,586 which is liposuction 360, front and back-- 488 00:18:41,654 --> 00:18:42,920 - Right. 489 00:18:42,989 --> 00:18:44,789 - Chin liposuction, arm liposuction-- 490 00:18:44,858 --> 00:18:46,224 - Mm-hmm. 491 00:18:46,292 --> 00:18:48,359 - Fat transfer to the buttocks and the breasts. 492 00:18:48,428 --> 00:18:50,027 - Yeah, and, like, buttocks meaning, 493 00:18:50,096 --> 00:18:51,596 like, butt, hips, legs and-- - And hips, yeah. 494 00:18:51,664 --> 00:18:52,797 - Okay, okay. 495 00:18:52,866 --> 00:18:54,365 I'm guessing I'm having stitches 496 00:18:54,434 --> 00:18:58,169 everywhere that lipo has been inserted or extracted, correct? 497 00:18:58,238 --> 00:19:00,538 - Yes, the only places you will not have stitches 498 00:19:00,607 --> 00:19:02,707 that he does not close up is down here, 499 00:19:02,775 --> 00:19:04,075 the three incisions down here 500 00:19:04,144 --> 00:19:05,510 because that's left open for drainage. 501 00:19:05,578 --> 00:19:06,577 - Okay. 502 00:19:06,646 --> 00:19:08,246 - So I would forewarn your caretaker 503 00:19:08,314 --> 00:19:10,047 or whoever is gonna be with you at the time. 504 00:19:10,116 --> 00:19:12,283 On Saturday, the doctor is gonna speak to you first, 505 00:19:12,352 --> 00:19:14,218 and then the anesthesia provider is gonna come in 506 00:19:14,287 --> 00:19:16,387 and talk to you and explain to you 507 00:19:16,456 --> 00:19:18,456 step by step how it's gonna go. 508 00:19:18,525 --> 00:19:20,658 - I have a really bad panic disorder 509 00:19:20,727 --> 00:19:22,593 and a anxiety disorder, 510 00:19:22,662 --> 00:19:24,562 so, like, my blood pressure gets really high, 511 00:19:24,631 --> 00:19:27,865 and I sometimes faint from, like, being so anxious. 512 00:19:27,934 --> 00:19:29,200 - Okay. - So I don't know 513 00:19:29,269 --> 00:19:30,601 if that's something you guys should know 514 00:19:30,670 --> 00:19:32,670 'cause I'm very, very anxious about this whole surgery. 515 00:19:32,739 --> 00:19:34,071 I'm very, very nervous. 516 00:19:34,140 --> 00:19:35,540 - Yeah, it's normal to be a little nervous. 517 00:19:35,608 --> 00:19:37,742 Any questions that you may have, 518 00:19:37,810 --> 00:19:38,843 they can answer them for you. 519 00:19:38,912 --> 00:19:40,044 - Okay. 520 00:19:40,113 --> 00:19:43,080 [dramatic music] 521 00:19:43,149 --> 00:19:45,516 ♪ ♪ 522 00:19:50,390 --> 00:19:54,225 - ♪ Hey, hey, hey, don't be afraid to feel it ♪ 523 00:19:54,294 --> 00:19:56,194 - Today the twins turn 11, 524 00:19:56,262 --> 00:19:57,662 and we're celebrating virtually 525 00:19:57,730 --> 00:19:59,497 with family and friends. 526 00:19:59,566 --> 00:20:03,467 - We are now decorating for our Zoom birthday. 527 00:20:03,536 --> 00:20:06,871 What we've got done with so far is this. 528 00:20:06,940 --> 00:20:09,607 - We have a ton of balloons right now. 529 00:20:09,676 --> 00:20:10,775 - Balloons. 530 00:20:10,843 --> 00:20:12,643 - Yeah, so a whole bunch. 531 00:20:12,712 --> 00:20:14,845 [balloon squeals] 532 00:20:14,914 --> 00:20:16,948 I'm sorry. - Again? 533 00:20:17,016 --> 00:20:18,950 - ♪ Lean into it ♪ 534 00:20:19,018 --> 00:20:20,218 - Who all is on here? 535 00:20:20,286 --> 00:20:23,821 - We have seven, eight-- - It's papa. Ee-oh. 536 00:20:23,890 --> 00:20:25,523 - Happy birthday. 537 00:20:25,592 --> 00:20:29,894 - ♪ Can't stop, na-na-na-na ♪ 538 00:20:29,963 --> 00:20:32,396 - Oh, guys! 539 00:20:32,465 --> 00:20:34,065 - ♪ Got a flare for all the drama ♪ 540 00:20:34,133 --> 00:20:36,133 ♪ Yeah, we got it from our mamas ♪ 541 00:20:36,202 --> 00:20:39,437 ♪ Get ready 'cause we're running the show ♪ 542 00:20:39,505 --> 00:20:41,339 ♪ To the runway, watch me strut ♪ 543 00:20:41,407 --> 00:20:43,774 ♪ Dance it out and turn it up ♪ 544 00:20:43,843 --> 00:20:47,044 ♪ 'Cause we taking over tonight ♪ 545 00:20:47,113 --> 00:20:49,013 ♪ Making moves like ♪ 546 00:20:49,082 --> 00:20:50,982 - [Indistinct] 547 00:20:51,050 --> 00:20:52,583 - ♪ In the spotlight ♪ 548 00:20:52,652 --> 00:20:56,287 - This year, the birthday party was a little bit different. 549 00:20:56,356 --> 00:20:58,856 The dance party was my favorite. 550 00:20:58,925 --> 00:21:02,393 - Actually, I didn't dance, but Aleeah and Mommy danced, 551 00:21:02,462 --> 00:21:04,128 and they went crazy, and the birthday party 552 00:21:04,197 --> 00:21:07,265 was so much fun with all of our friends, family, 553 00:21:07,333 --> 00:21:10,101 and--bye. 554 00:21:10,169 --> 00:21:12,370 - I still can't believe the twins are 11. 555 00:21:12,438 --> 00:21:14,438 That was a sensitive time for me, 556 00:21:14,507 --> 00:21:16,907 so I want to give them the support I wish I had 557 00:21:16,976 --> 00:21:19,777 when I was their age. 558 00:21:19,846 --> 00:21:21,579 - It's so nice today. - It is. 559 00:21:21,648 --> 00:21:24,715 It's a beautiful day. We needed some vitamin D. 560 00:21:24,784 --> 00:21:27,018 So I've been thinking about the girls a lot, 561 00:21:27,086 --> 00:21:29,020 and I've been wanting to ask, 562 00:21:29,088 --> 00:21:33,024 when did you start your menstrual cycle? 563 00:21:33,092 --> 00:21:34,925 - I was in fourth grade, 564 00:21:34,994 --> 00:21:36,394 and I went to go to the bathroom, 565 00:21:36,462 --> 00:21:39,597 and that's when I seen it, and I freaked out. 566 00:21:39,666 --> 00:21:41,165 I freaked out, 567 00:21:41,234 --> 00:21:43,367 and I'm pretty sure Grandma was the one that came 568 00:21:43,436 --> 00:21:45,970 and got me from school 'cause I didn't know. 569 00:21:46,039 --> 00:21:47,305 I mean, all I knew was, I'm bleeding 570 00:21:47,373 --> 00:21:48,739 from my area, you know? 571 00:21:48,808 --> 00:21:50,174 Like, what's going on? 572 00:21:50,243 --> 00:21:52,209 - Yeah. - So, I mean-- 573 00:21:52,278 --> 00:21:53,878 - Listen, I'm not being exaggerate, 574 00:21:53,946 --> 00:21:57,348 but when I started my period, I was traumatized, 100%. 575 00:21:57,417 --> 00:21:58,616 - I was. 576 00:21:58,685 --> 00:22:01,452 - I was in the fifth grade, and we were in gym, 577 00:22:01,521 --> 00:22:02,987 and I was like, "I'm gonna go to the bathroom." 578 00:22:03,056 --> 00:22:04,989 I went to the bathroom and noticed it. 579 00:22:05,058 --> 00:22:06,424 I was like, "Oh, my gosh." 580 00:22:06,492 --> 00:22:08,459 Like, I really thought that I was dying. 581 00:22:08,528 --> 00:22:09,927 I thought something was wrong with me. 582 00:22:09,996 --> 00:22:13,431 I was crying. - I know the feeling. 583 00:22:13,499 --> 00:22:15,499 - I'm like, "Ah!" - Yeah. 584 00:22:15,568 --> 00:22:17,201 - My friends [bleep] knew, and I didn't even know. 585 00:22:17,270 --> 00:22:19,003 I was like, "What? Period? What's a period?" 586 00:22:19,072 --> 00:22:20,905 - Exactly. What is it? - Ah! 587 00:22:20,973 --> 00:22:22,873 The counselor or secretary at the time was like, 588 00:22:22,942 --> 00:22:25,943 "It's okay. This is what it is. This is what's happening." 589 00:22:26,012 --> 00:22:27,478 And thank God for her 590 00:22:27,547 --> 00:22:29,580 because our mom didn't prepare us at all. 591 00:22:29,649 --> 00:22:31,115 I don't want my daughters 592 00:22:31,184 --> 00:22:32,883 to have that traumatizing experience. 593 00:22:32,952 --> 00:22:34,585 They're already 11 years old, 594 00:22:34,654 --> 00:22:36,821 and I want to make sure that I'm educating them 595 00:22:36,889 --> 00:22:39,957 on what their bodies will be going through as, 596 00:22:40,026 --> 00:22:41,959 you know, preteens and a teenager. 597 00:22:42,028 --> 00:22:43,427 - What kind of talking do you mean? 598 00:22:43,496 --> 00:22:45,262 Just, like, menstrual talking or-- 599 00:22:45,331 --> 00:22:46,831 - Yeah, like, what their hormones 600 00:22:46,899 --> 00:22:50,101 will be going through the next few years. 601 00:22:50,169 --> 00:22:52,436 So this is where it starts. 602 00:22:52,505 --> 00:22:54,638 I think it's time to lay the foundation down. 603 00:22:54,707 --> 00:22:56,040 - Lay it out there. 604 00:22:56,109 --> 00:22:57,475 - There's a reason I was pregnant at 17. 605 00:22:57,543 --> 00:22:59,410 - That's right. - And I don't want that 606 00:22:59,479 --> 00:23:02,279 to happen for them in the future, 607 00:23:02,348 --> 00:23:04,215 you know what I mean? - Mm-hmm. 608 00:23:06,386 --> 00:23:07,585 - ♪ Oh yeah, oh yeah ♪ 609 00:23:07,653 --> 00:23:09,220 - Bar's court date is tomorrow, 610 00:23:09,288 --> 00:23:11,021 and I just want to be able to move forward 611 00:23:11,090 --> 00:23:14,125 with our lives together. 612 00:23:14,193 --> 00:23:15,192 That feels good. 613 00:23:15,261 --> 00:23:17,795 - Do you want to-- - Oh. 614 00:23:17,864 --> 00:23:19,096 [both laugh] 615 00:23:19,165 --> 00:23:20,297 - Did you fall? 616 00:23:20,366 --> 00:23:22,099 - I just sank in real nice and, like-- 617 00:23:22,168 --> 00:23:23,567 - Oh, I sat, like, halfway. I don't know. 618 00:23:23,636 --> 00:23:25,269 - Comfy. - It feels super good. 619 00:23:25,338 --> 00:23:26,604 I'm gonna get hot. 620 00:23:26,672 --> 00:23:28,939 - We're never the same temperature. 621 00:23:29,008 --> 00:23:31,609 - I got a little more insulation. 622 00:23:31,677 --> 00:23:33,277 - That's all right. I'm working on it. 623 00:23:33,346 --> 00:23:35,713 I might have to go buy it, but I'm working on it. 624 00:23:35,782 --> 00:23:40,017 - So what's going on with, like, Bar and his ankle monitor 625 00:23:40,086 --> 00:23:41,085 and everything going on? 626 00:23:41,154 --> 00:23:42,987 - I'm so over that [bleep]. 627 00:23:43,055 --> 00:23:44,255 - You've been over it for a while. 628 00:23:44,323 --> 00:23:45,656 - This is not new. 629 00:23:45,725 --> 00:23:47,191 This is something that he did, like, a year ago-- 630 00:23:47,260 --> 00:23:48,626 - Right. - That he's still dealing with. 631 00:23:48,694 --> 00:23:50,361 I'm like, "This is the last decision 632 00:23:50,430 --> 00:23:51,529 "that you're gonna make that affects 633 00:23:51,597 --> 00:23:53,264 "this whole household negatively. 634 00:23:53,332 --> 00:23:56,600 I want you to really think." 635 00:23:56,669 --> 00:23:58,636 - Men don't think like that. - They don't. They don't. 636 00:23:58,704 --> 00:23:59,937 - They act. - Yeah, they act. 637 00:24:00,006 --> 00:24:01,238 - That's it. - And it's like, 638 00:24:01,307 --> 00:24:02,673 you can't think of a time when I've come home like, 639 00:24:02,742 --> 00:24:05,576 "Babe, I [bleep] up. I [bleep] up. 640 00:24:05,645 --> 00:24:07,845 The cops are out there." [both laugh] 641 00:24:07,914 --> 00:24:10,047 Like, I don't do [bleep]. 642 00:24:10,116 --> 00:24:12,116 Not that he has, like, the cops running through our [bleep], 643 00:24:12,185 --> 00:24:13,484 you know what I'm saying, but it's like, 644 00:24:13,553 --> 00:24:16,153 I want him to think about the fact that even though 645 00:24:16,222 --> 00:24:18,289 this is something that just affects you, 646 00:24:18,357 --> 00:24:19,857 it also affects the whole house, 647 00:24:19,926 --> 00:24:21,258 you know what I'm saying? 648 00:24:21,327 --> 00:24:24,128 'Cause God forbid they throw your ass in jail, 649 00:24:24,197 --> 00:24:25,496 and then, you know what I'm saying? 650 00:24:25,565 --> 00:24:27,031 - Now we don't have you here. 651 00:24:27,099 --> 00:24:29,700 - I am irritated. 652 00:24:29,769 --> 00:24:32,002 I guess maybe that's minimizing it, but, like, 653 00:24:32,071 --> 00:24:34,138 I'm upset that we have to deal with this situation 654 00:24:34,207 --> 00:24:36,373 because it's something that affects the whole household, 655 00:24:36,442 --> 00:24:38,108 not just him, 656 00:24:38,177 --> 00:24:42,146 and so I'm wanting to figure this situation out finally 657 00:24:42,215 --> 00:24:46,016 so that we can move forwards so we can just plan a wedding. 658 00:24:46,085 --> 00:24:49,253 Like, this is all creating so much anxiety. 659 00:24:49,322 --> 00:24:52,256 [tense music] 660 00:24:52,325 --> 00:24:58,329 ♪ ♪ 661 00:25:01,868 --> 00:25:06,437 - ♪ So fresh ♪ - ♪ You're so fresh ♪ 662 00:25:06,506 --> 00:25:07,872 - We just arrived in Miami, 663 00:25:07,940 --> 00:25:09,640 and Jade will be coming over soon, 664 00:25:09,709 --> 00:25:13,210 so I want to make sure she's prepared for her surgery. 665 00:25:13,279 --> 00:25:15,779 - ♪ Looking so fresh ♪ 666 00:25:15,848 --> 00:25:18,749 [upbeat music] 667 00:25:18,818 --> 00:25:19,850 ♪ ♪ 668 00:25:19,919 --> 00:25:21,919 - ♪ Looking so fresh ♪ 669 00:25:21,988 --> 00:25:23,521 - ♪ So fresh ♪ 670 00:25:23,589 --> 00:25:27,558 - ♪ Looking so fresh ♪ - ♪ It's so fresh ♪ 671 00:25:27,627 --> 00:25:30,394 - ♪ Looking so fresh ♪ - ♪ Looking so fresh ♪ 672 00:25:30,463 --> 00:25:33,397 - Oh, this is so cute. 673 00:25:33,466 --> 00:25:35,466 - ♪ Looking so fresh ♪ 674 00:25:37,703 --> 00:25:39,703 - [laughs] - This is super cute. 675 00:25:39,772 --> 00:25:41,238 - Ducks later. [phone dings] 676 00:25:41,307 --> 00:25:42,873 Jade's here. 677 00:25:42,942 --> 00:25:45,175 - Tell her to come in. 678 00:25:45,244 --> 00:25:46,343 - Hola. 679 00:25:46,412 --> 00:25:49,313 - Hi! - Hey. 680 00:25:49,382 --> 00:25:51,248 - You look so cute. - Oh, thanks. 681 00:25:51,317 --> 00:25:52,650 I didn't bring nothing 682 00:25:52,718 --> 00:25:54,618 but, like, ugly big stuff because I was like [bleep]. 683 00:25:54,687 --> 00:25:55,886 - That's what you're supposed to bring. 684 00:25:55,955 --> 00:25:57,221 - I didn't bring anything cute, though. 685 00:25:57,290 --> 00:25:58,255 - You look good. - Hi. Nice to meet you. 686 00:25:58,324 --> 00:26:00,457 - Hey. You too. 687 00:26:00,526 --> 00:26:03,193 - So what is up? How's Sean? 688 00:26:03,262 --> 00:26:04,562 - He gave me an engagement ring. 689 00:26:04,630 --> 00:26:07,131 Like a 4 carat engagement ring. - Oh, [bleep]. 690 00:26:07,199 --> 00:26:09,466 Did you say yes? - No. 691 00:26:09,535 --> 00:26:10,935 - You didn't say yes? - No. 692 00:26:11,003 --> 00:26:12,303 - Oh, my god. - Wow. 693 00:26:12,371 --> 00:26:14,104 - 'Cause for one, it didn't even fit me. 694 00:26:14,173 --> 00:26:17,374 How you gonna marry a bitch and don't know my little 695 00:26:17,443 --> 00:26:19,310 sausage-ass ring finger size? 696 00:26:19,378 --> 00:26:21,512 I was just, like, confused, 697 00:26:21,581 --> 00:26:22,746 and I was like, I don't want to answer. 698 00:26:22,815 --> 00:26:24,748 - So has he brought it up since? 699 00:26:24,817 --> 00:26:26,050 - Uh-uh. - Okay. 700 00:26:26,118 --> 00:26:27,484 And you haven't brought it up? 701 00:26:27,553 --> 00:26:30,988 - I asked him the other day to get it sized. 702 00:26:31,057 --> 00:26:32,957 - Okay. So that's a step. 703 00:26:33,025 --> 00:26:36,427 - I was thinking about--I mean, [bleep], I can wear it. 704 00:26:36,495 --> 00:26:38,395 - [laughs] - I mean, like-- 705 00:26:38,464 --> 00:26:40,531 - Jade, no. - Put it on a different finger. 706 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,466 - If your mindset is, like, 707 00:26:42,535 --> 00:26:44,868 "I don't know what I'm doing right now with you"-- 708 00:26:44,937 --> 00:26:46,904 - I don't know where I'm at with you, like, yeah. 709 00:26:46,973 --> 00:26:49,607 - But you're still leading him on, right, in a sense of, 710 00:26:49,675 --> 00:26:51,709 "Can we get the ring sized? Can we"-- 711 00:26:51,777 --> 00:26:53,644 - Well, I've never been able to put it on, though. 712 00:26:53,713 --> 00:26:55,779 - But that's, like, in-- - So I'm like-- 713 00:26:55,848 --> 00:26:57,581 - In his eyes, that's like, "Oh, I got this." 714 00:26:57,650 --> 00:26:59,083 - It's, "I'm getting there," kind of thing. 715 00:26:59,151 --> 00:27:00,584 - "This is gonna be my wife." 716 00:27:00,653 --> 00:27:02,453 - So many people I know have been married and divorced, 717 00:27:02,521 --> 00:27:05,689 and I'm like, "Look, if I'm not 100% infatuated, 718 00:27:05,758 --> 00:27:09,259 "wrapped up in you and want to build with you, 719 00:27:09,328 --> 00:27:10,894 I don't want to get married." 720 00:27:10,963 --> 00:27:13,697 If I'm second guessing anything or have to think about it, no. 721 00:27:13,766 --> 00:27:15,265 - We're not gonna get married. - Okay. 722 00:27:15,334 --> 00:27:16,467 When is your surgery? 723 00:27:16,535 --> 00:27:17,935 - Tomorrow. - What time? 724 00:27:18,004 --> 00:27:19,870 - 7:00 in the morning. - Oh, [bleep]. 725 00:27:19,939 --> 00:27:22,239 - Have you seen your doctor? - No, I haven't met him. 726 00:27:22,308 --> 00:27:23,474 - No? - I met his nurse. 727 00:27:23,542 --> 00:27:25,109 - Okay. - So they said that I meet him 728 00:27:25,177 --> 00:27:26,477 the day of my surgery, 729 00:27:26,545 --> 00:27:27,878 like, an hour before, and I get to, like, 730 00:27:27,947 --> 00:27:30,781 basically sit down with him and talk with him. 731 00:27:30,850 --> 00:27:33,484 - Go over everything. - Yeah, they did my whole chart 732 00:27:33,552 --> 00:27:36,587 and did all, like, the photos and all the stuff. 733 00:27:36,656 --> 00:27:37,755 - Make sure you have somebody there 734 00:27:37,823 --> 00:27:39,289 that will never leave your side. 735 00:27:39,358 --> 00:27:40,891 Is Sean gonna be there? Is he prepared? 736 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:42,359 - Yeah. - Mentally, physically? 737 00:27:42,428 --> 00:27:43,594 - Yes. - Okay. 738 00:27:43,663 --> 00:27:44,995 So then you guys are gonna be fine. 739 00:27:45,064 --> 00:27:46,664 - I'm already a lot to handle as it is, so I'm like, 740 00:27:46,732 --> 00:27:48,132 he already knows what it's about to be. 741 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:49,900 What are you guys doing while you're out here? 742 00:27:50,936 --> 00:27:52,336 I know I want to check on you tomorrow. 743 00:27:52,405 --> 00:27:55,005 I just don't know when the perfect timing is to do that. 744 00:27:55,074 --> 00:27:56,807 I want you to give me Sean's number 745 00:27:56,876 --> 00:27:59,076 'cause I know you won't be-- you'll be out of commission. 746 00:27:59,145 --> 00:28:00,611 - I'm so nervous. 747 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,046 I just want to walk in and somebody be behind a door, 748 00:28:02,114 --> 00:28:03,247 like, "Pfft," 749 00:28:03,315 --> 00:28:04,882 and shoot me with a dart and just, like-- 750 00:28:04,950 --> 00:28:07,251 and just knock me out and drag my ass 751 00:28:07,319 --> 00:28:08,352 into the surgery room 'cause-- 752 00:28:08,421 --> 00:28:09,420 - You would. - I'm so scared 753 00:28:09,488 --> 00:28:13,190 - I think, like, with my experience, 754 00:28:13,259 --> 00:28:14,692 they may give you, like, something 755 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:16,827 when you get in just to relax your nerves. 756 00:28:16,896 --> 00:28:18,862 - Yes. He knows I'm crazy. He's seen my doctor chart. 757 00:28:18,931 --> 00:28:21,231 My doctor was like, "Panic disorder, PTSD." 758 00:28:21,300 --> 00:28:22,399 So I'm not-- 759 00:28:22,468 --> 00:28:23,701 - What are you most nervous about? 760 00:28:23,769 --> 00:28:25,135 - Waking up. - Waking up? 761 00:28:25,204 --> 00:28:27,905 - And, like, getting back-- like, the first day after 762 00:28:27,973 --> 00:28:29,840 'cause, I mean, that's the worst day. 763 00:28:29,909 --> 00:28:33,510 - I was almost on my deathbed for, like, three days. 764 00:28:33,579 --> 00:28:35,345 You think you can do all these things 765 00:28:35,414 --> 00:28:37,281 until you can't do it anymore, and you're like, 766 00:28:37,349 --> 00:28:38,649 "[bleep]." 767 00:28:38,718 --> 00:28:40,884 - I'm trying not to think about it too much. 768 00:28:40,953 --> 00:28:43,887 [dramatic music] 769 00:28:43,956 --> 00:28:48,826 ♪ ♪ 770 00:28:52,064 --> 00:28:53,230 - ♪ Do it ♪ 771 00:28:53,299 --> 00:28:55,766 [upbeat music] 772 00:28:55,835 --> 00:28:57,134 - I got to Atlanta earlier, 773 00:28:57,203 --> 00:28:59,470 and we're recording some podcasts today. 774 00:28:59,538 --> 00:29:01,138 - ♪ Got to move and get into it ♪ 775 00:29:01,207 --> 00:29:04,274 - Hello. Come in. Come on in. 776 00:29:04,343 --> 00:29:05,676 - Hi. - How are you? 777 00:29:05,745 --> 00:29:07,010 - Doing good. Good. How you doing? 778 00:29:07,079 --> 00:29:08,679 - Hi, I'm Lindsie. - Nice to meet you. Devoin. 779 00:29:08,748 --> 00:29:10,147 - Nice to meet you. - Devoin. Hey. 780 00:29:10,216 --> 00:29:11,682 - Devoin. Correct. There you go. 781 00:29:11,751 --> 00:29:13,016 - Okay, awesome 'cause that was one of the things 782 00:29:13,085 --> 00:29:14,952 that I wanted to clarify on the podcast. 783 00:29:15,020 --> 00:29:16,320 - What's going on though? How y'all doing? 784 00:29:16,388 --> 00:29:17,521 - We're good. Hold on. 785 00:29:17,590 --> 00:29:18,722 Will you put on a "Coffee Convos" hoodie 786 00:29:18,791 --> 00:29:20,591 and take a picture with us? 787 00:29:22,228 --> 00:29:23,761 - How do you think this is gonna play out, like, 788 00:29:23,829 --> 00:29:27,164 when this all comes out that you're here? 789 00:29:27,233 --> 00:29:31,201 Is this gonna be bad? - Not for me. Hell no. 790 00:29:31,270 --> 00:29:32,870 - No, we're just talking about us. 791 00:29:32,938 --> 00:29:34,638 - Let's have you stand looking this way. 792 00:29:34,707 --> 00:29:36,306 - I'm gonna go on the left. 793 00:29:38,144 --> 00:29:39,810 - Great. - It's not-- 794 00:29:39,879 --> 00:29:42,146 I didn't ever want this to be a bashing-fest. 795 00:29:42,214 --> 00:29:44,414 It was more, like, to clear the air kind of thing. 796 00:29:44,483 --> 00:29:46,416 - Nah, you're not out of pocket at all. 797 00:29:46,485 --> 00:29:47,584 You didn't do nothing. - We good? 798 00:29:47,653 --> 00:29:48,986 - Move a little bit forward for me. 799 00:29:49,054 --> 00:29:50,487 Perfect. There we go. 800 00:29:50,556 --> 00:29:52,856 Yes. Cute. 801 00:29:52,925 --> 00:29:54,558 - You think we got it? - I hope. 802 00:29:54,627 --> 00:29:56,193 - I was a little nervous for this one. 803 00:29:56,262 --> 00:29:57,861 All right, you guys. We're recording. 804 00:29:57,930 --> 00:30:00,364 And welcome to another episode of "Coffee Convos" podcast, 805 00:30:00,432 --> 00:30:01,532 and we have a guest today. 806 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,167 We're gonna get right into it, 807 00:30:03,235 --> 00:30:04,935 and it's Devoin, not Devon. 808 00:30:05,004 --> 00:30:06,470 - Devoin. Correct. - Okay. All right. 809 00:30:06,539 --> 00:30:08,672 So before we get started, 810 00:30:08,741 --> 00:30:12,142 why do people think that your name is Devon? 811 00:30:12,211 --> 00:30:14,344 - Well, I kind of take blame for that personally. 812 00:30:14,413 --> 00:30:16,013 I just really don't-- 813 00:30:16,081 --> 00:30:19,850 I never really corrected people for that, but I don't know. 814 00:30:19,919 --> 00:30:22,953 Growing up, like, even after correcting all the teachers 815 00:30:23,022 --> 00:30:25,455 that taught me, like, they never got it right. 816 00:30:25,524 --> 00:30:27,090 - Okay. So it wasn't a Briana thing. 817 00:30:27,159 --> 00:30:28,725 - It wasn't a Briana thing. - Got it. Okay. 818 00:30:28,794 --> 00:30:30,027 - Definitely not her. It's not her fault. 819 00:30:30,095 --> 00:30:31,161 - Okay. Cool. 820 00:30:31,230 --> 00:30:33,130 I feel like a lot of our listeners and our viewers 821 00:30:33,199 --> 00:30:36,366 of "Teen Mom 2" don't know who you are. 822 00:30:36,435 --> 00:30:38,802 - That's a fact. They don't. - Who is Devoin? 823 00:30:38,871 --> 00:30:40,571 You grew up where, in Florida? 824 00:30:40,639 --> 00:30:42,005 Or where did you grow up? - No. I'm from Michigan. 825 00:30:42,074 --> 00:30:43,707 Lansing, Michigan, the capital of Michigan. 826 00:30:43,776 --> 00:30:45,542 - Okay, so how did you end up meeting Briana, 827 00:30:45,611 --> 00:30:47,044 and what is the whole story behind that? 828 00:30:47,112 --> 00:30:49,713 - I met her on social media. We were in high school. 829 00:30:49,782 --> 00:30:52,816 I was maybe a grade, two grades above her, 830 00:30:52,885 --> 00:30:55,619 and, you know, we ended up meeting each other, 831 00:30:55,688 --> 00:30:58,288 and the next school year, we started dating. 832 00:30:58,357 --> 00:30:59,890 - Okay. - And then boom, 833 00:30:59,959 --> 00:31:02,860 I'm gonna say maybe four months into dating, she's pregnant. 834 00:31:02,928 --> 00:31:04,394 - So you were on board with, you know, 835 00:31:04,463 --> 00:31:05,929 helping raise the baby and all of that. 836 00:31:05,998 --> 00:31:08,232 - Yeah. Absolutely, absolutely. Now, don't get me wrong, 837 00:31:08,300 --> 00:31:11,001 when she was pregnant, we were definitely--you know, 838 00:31:11,070 --> 00:31:13,203 I definitely didn't grasp the fact that, 839 00:31:13,272 --> 00:31:14,438 yeah, we're not together, 840 00:31:14,506 --> 00:31:15,873 but it's still your kid. 841 00:31:15,941 --> 00:31:18,408 You have to do your [bleep] at the end of the day. 842 00:31:18,477 --> 00:31:19,910 - Right. So what do you like to do? 843 00:31:19,979 --> 00:31:21,678 Outside of baby mama drama and parenting-- 844 00:31:21,747 --> 00:31:22,980 - And parenting and TV. 845 00:31:23,048 --> 00:31:25,582 - What does Devoin like to do? - I like to cook. 846 00:31:25,651 --> 00:31:26,750 That's one thing I can say. - Okay. 847 00:31:26,819 --> 00:31:27,985 - Like, you know, I like to cook. 848 00:31:28,053 --> 00:31:30,153 - So does Nova help you cook ever? 849 00:31:30,222 --> 00:31:32,890 - Nova, she got the attention span of a peanut. 850 00:31:32,958 --> 00:31:34,057 Nova ain't finessing no kitchen. 851 00:31:34,126 --> 00:31:35,359 She might say, "Yeah, let's do it. 852 00:31:35,427 --> 00:31:36,860 Let's do it. Let's do it." - Right, right, right. 853 00:31:36,929 --> 00:31:38,395 That's all kids I feel like, though. 854 00:31:38,464 --> 00:31:39,663 - We got the chicken wings clean? 855 00:31:39,732 --> 00:31:40,764 Okay, let's go do this now. - Right, right. 856 00:31:40,833 --> 00:31:42,299 - So what's y'all's dynamic with each other? 857 00:31:42,368 --> 00:31:43,467 Is it, like-- 858 00:31:43,535 --> 00:31:44,568 - For me, it's just "The Nova Show." 859 00:31:44,637 --> 00:31:45,535 Whatever she want to do, we can do. 860 00:31:45,604 --> 00:31:46,737 - Yeah. - But yeah. 861 00:31:46,805 --> 00:31:48,038 We have a pretty good relationship, though. 862 00:31:48,107 --> 00:31:49,239 I like my relationship with her. 863 00:31:49,308 --> 00:31:50,841 - I guess Briana was upset 864 00:31:50,910 --> 00:31:54,711 about you not showing up for Nova. 865 00:31:54,780 --> 00:31:56,380 What is your side of that? 866 00:31:56,448 --> 00:31:58,949 - I definitely forgot that I was supposed to pick her up. 867 00:31:59,018 --> 00:32:01,818 Yes, I did, and, I mean, I forgot. 868 00:32:01,887 --> 00:32:04,354 - I mean, we're both mothers, so I think that, you know, 869 00:32:04,423 --> 00:32:07,891 certain things we understand from a perspective of a mom, 870 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:09,393 and it's nice 871 00:32:09,461 --> 00:32:11,762 to hear a dad's perspective that's in this situation. 872 00:32:11,830 --> 00:32:13,263 - Most of my friends are fathers, too. 873 00:32:13,332 --> 00:32:15,565 We're all damn near the same age, all got kids. 874 00:32:15,634 --> 00:32:17,167 So it's like, some of them are worse than me. 875 00:32:17,236 --> 00:32:18,602 Like, they're worse people than me. 876 00:32:18,671 --> 00:32:20,103 I'm not the most perfect person, 877 00:32:20,172 --> 00:32:22,739 no, but just seeing how freely their baby mothers 878 00:32:22,808 --> 00:32:24,107 give them their kids, it's like, 879 00:32:24,176 --> 00:32:25,475 "What the [bleep] is wrong with me?" 880 00:32:25,544 --> 00:32:27,010 Like, am I--I'm not a felon. 881 00:32:27,079 --> 00:32:28,278 I ain't got nothing in my record. 882 00:32:28,347 --> 00:32:29,613 Like, what? 883 00:32:29,682 --> 00:32:31,348 Why won't you just throw her at me, like-- 884 00:32:31,417 --> 00:32:33,817 - We've said before that 885 00:32:33,886 --> 00:32:35,986 you like having everything in writing because-- 886 00:32:36,055 --> 00:32:38,288 - Yes, because that's what the fallback is, like-- 887 00:32:38,357 --> 00:32:40,057 - Yeah, that's a fallback, 888 00:32:40,125 --> 00:32:44,328 and if you can't agree and be normal humans with each other, 889 00:32:44,396 --> 00:32:47,064 then you have to fall back on the custody arrangement. 890 00:32:47,132 --> 00:32:48,065 - Right. 891 00:32:48,133 --> 00:32:49,700 What do you want to see moving forward 892 00:32:49,768 --> 00:32:52,602 with, like, your-- with everything, with Nova, 893 00:32:52,671 --> 00:32:55,906 with Briana, with the show, like, what's next? 894 00:32:55,975 --> 00:32:57,774 - Like, what's your ideal scenario? 895 00:32:57,843 --> 00:33:00,410 - Ideal scenario, I'm trying to lock in 896 00:33:00,479 --> 00:33:01,912 on a house real soon, you know? 897 00:33:01,981 --> 00:33:03,680 From that, you know, I mean, me and Nova can do whatever-- 898 00:33:03,749 --> 00:33:05,082 you know, like, the sky is the limit. 899 00:33:05,150 --> 00:33:06,650 - Well, thank you so much for coming on. 900 00:33:06,719 --> 00:33:08,285 - Appreciate it. - I appreciate it so much. 901 00:33:08,354 --> 00:33:10,487 - It was definitely nice getting to know Devoin 902 00:33:10,556 --> 00:33:12,222 and the backstory and who Devoin is. 903 00:33:12,291 --> 00:33:13,724 - Yes, I agree. - Absolutely. No problem. 904 00:33:13,792 --> 00:33:15,826 I appreciate it. Thank you for the opportunity. 905 00:33:15,894 --> 00:33:18,462 - All right, guys. That is all we have for today. 906 00:33:18,530 --> 00:33:20,030 - See you. 907 00:33:20,099 --> 00:33:21,999 I think it was cool to kind of give him a platform 908 00:33:22,067 --> 00:33:24,034 to talk about more than just the show. 909 00:33:24,103 --> 00:33:26,937 I don't feel like it turned into a bash-fest at all. 910 00:33:27,006 --> 00:33:29,873 I do think that some of the situations that Devoin 911 00:33:29,942 --> 00:33:32,743 talked about with us are similar to my story. 912 00:33:32,811 --> 00:33:36,813 If he ever was feeling like he wanted to post things online 913 00:33:36,882 --> 00:33:38,582 or stir the pot a little bit, 914 00:33:38,650 --> 00:33:40,951 speaking from experience, it's never worth it 915 00:33:41,020 --> 00:33:43,286 because it never got me anywhere, 916 00:33:43,355 --> 00:33:44,721 and so it's never 917 00:33:44,790 --> 00:33:47,224 gonna benefit his coparenting relationship. 918 00:33:49,094 --> 00:33:50,794 - Addie's with Jeremy's parents today, 919 00:33:50,863 --> 00:33:52,029 and I have the twins, 920 00:33:52,097 --> 00:33:53,897 so I thought it might be a good time 921 00:33:53,966 --> 00:33:55,899 to talk about the changes they'll be going through 922 00:33:55,968 --> 00:33:58,335 and let them know I'm here to support them. 923 00:33:58,404 --> 00:34:01,238 - So my nails need done. See? 924 00:34:01,306 --> 00:34:02,773 - Come here, kitty. 925 00:34:02,841 --> 00:34:04,341 - Hey, don't pick him up. 926 00:34:04,410 --> 00:34:07,044 - He'll spill. - Yeah? 927 00:34:07,112 --> 00:34:08,678 - So how was your school work today? 928 00:34:08,747 --> 00:34:09,980 - Good. 929 00:34:10,049 --> 00:34:11,982 - Next year you're going to middle school. 930 00:34:12,051 --> 00:34:12,983 - Yeah. 931 00:34:13,052 --> 00:34:14,418 - So since Addie is at her dad's, 932 00:34:14,486 --> 00:34:16,686 I thought it would be a great idea for us 933 00:34:16,755 --> 00:34:18,789 to be able to talk, just the three of us. 934 00:34:18,857 --> 00:34:20,157 Can I tell you the story 935 00:34:20,225 --> 00:34:22,926 about the first time I started my period? 936 00:34:22,995 --> 00:34:25,629 - Yeah. - I know. It's weird. 937 00:34:25,697 --> 00:34:27,998 Are you gonna laugh at me? Yeah? 938 00:34:28,067 --> 00:34:29,699 - Yeah. - You can laugh at me. 939 00:34:29,768 --> 00:34:31,802 So it was my fifth grade year. 940 00:34:31,870 --> 00:34:33,537 You guys are in fifth grade right now. 941 00:34:33,605 --> 00:34:34,905 - Mm-hmm. 942 00:34:34,973 --> 00:34:38,241 - And I was on the bleachers in the gym, 943 00:34:38,310 --> 00:34:41,845 and I felt like-- you know, I felt something. 944 00:34:41,914 --> 00:34:45,515 So I went to the bathroom, and I was bleeding. 945 00:34:45,584 --> 00:34:47,217 Freaked out. 946 00:34:47,286 --> 00:34:48,819 I started crying. 947 00:34:48,887 --> 00:34:50,520 I thought I was bleeding to death, 948 00:34:50,589 --> 00:34:51,822 thought I was bleeding out. 949 00:34:51,890 --> 00:34:53,857 Went to the guidance counselor 950 00:34:53,926 --> 00:34:56,526 and was like, "Ah, something's wrong with me." 951 00:34:56,595 --> 00:35:01,298 And she had to explain to me because Grandma Dawn, my mom, 952 00:35:01,366 --> 00:35:04,167 did not prepare me for the day that I would start my period. 953 00:35:04,236 --> 00:35:07,437 I really want for you guys to be prepared. 954 00:35:07,506 --> 00:35:09,806 It's nothing to be ashamed of. 955 00:35:09,875 --> 00:35:12,209 It's nothing to think as weird because believe me, 956 00:35:12,277 --> 00:35:14,478 you're gonna go through a lot of changes 957 00:35:14,546 --> 00:35:15,879 the next few years. 958 00:35:15,948 --> 00:35:17,747 So many different emotions are gonna come up. 959 00:35:17,816 --> 00:35:19,783 You're gonna have mood swings. 960 00:35:19,852 --> 00:35:21,184 - What in the world is a mood swing? 961 00:35:21,253 --> 00:35:23,053 - Mood swing is, like, one second you're happy, 962 00:35:23,122 --> 00:35:26,523 one second you're sad, one second you're, like, angry. 963 00:35:26,592 --> 00:35:29,726 - Will we go through the same thing at the same time? 964 00:35:29,795 --> 00:35:31,128 - Probably not. 965 00:35:31,196 --> 00:35:33,096 I think that you guys, even though you are twins, 966 00:35:33,165 --> 00:35:35,866 you're two completely different people, 967 00:35:35,934 --> 00:35:37,400 and I want you guys to always feel comfortable 968 00:35:37,469 --> 00:35:38,869 coming to Mommy. 969 00:35:38,937 --> 00:35:40,303 I definitely didn't feel comfortable going to my mom 970 00:35:40,372 --> 00:35:42,239 and talking to her about anything like that. 971 00:35:42,307 --> 00:35:44,441 Does it make you feel better having these conversations-- 972 00:35:44,510 --> 00:35:45,609 - Yeah. 973 00:35:45,677 --> 00:35:46,776 - And prepare you? - Yeah. 974 00:35:46,845 --> 00:35:48,211 - Mm-hmm. - It does? 975 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:49,379 - Mm-hmm. 976 00:35:49,448 --> 00:35:50,881 - Are they a little uncomfortable or awkward? 977 00:35:50,949 --> 00:35:52,082 - No. - No? 978 00:35:52,151 --> 00:35:55,085 - No. - Good. I like it. 979 00:35:55,154 --> 00:35:59,256 - Now it is awkward. - Give me a hug. I love you. 980 00:35:59,324 --> 00:36:01,291 - Love you too. - Love you. 981 00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:04,861 [soft music] 982 00:36:12,004 --> 00:36:15,138 [upbeat music] 983 00:36:15,207 --> 00:36:18,241 - ♪ I'm like, what up, what up, what up? ♪ 984 00:36:18,310 --> 00:36:21,444 ♪ I'm on the come up, come up, come up ♪ 985 00:36:21,513 --> 00:36:23,413 - Bar's court date is today, and I hope 986 00:36:23,482 --> 00:36:25,649 this is the last we hear about his DUI. 987 00:36:25,717 --> 00:36:29,519 He's come so far, and I really want to move forward together. 988 00:36:29,588 --> 00:36:32,389 - [groans] 989 00:36:32,457 --> 00:36:34,858 - You about to have to get on the road, baby. It's 12:30. 990 00:36:34,927 --> 00:36:36,259 - Yeah. - I feel bad. 991 00:36:36,328 --> 00:36:37,694 I wanted to go, but I don't want to have her 992 00:36:37,763 --> 00:36:39,396 sitting in the car for however long. 993 00:36:39,464 --> 00:36:40,897 - You know, I ain't worried about. 994 00:36:40,966 --> 00:36:42,165 I'm just about to go knock this out real quick. 995 00:36:42,234 --> 00:36:43,700 Hopefully they take this monitor off my ankle 996 00:36:43,769 --> 00:36:46,303 so I can stop this hindrance 997 00:36:46,371 --> 00:36:48,939 on my existence as a human being. 998 00:36:49,007 --> 00:36:52,375 - Mm-hmm. Mine too. Amen. 999 00:36:52,444 --> 00:36:54,477 - My Uber is here. 1000 00:36:54,546 --> 00:36:55,679 - Good luck. - Bye. 1001 00:36:55,747 --> 00:36:58,648 [dramatic music] 1002 00:36:58,717 --> 00:37:05,388 ♪ ♪ 1003 00:37:14,032 --> 00:37:15,298 - What's up? - Hey, baby. 1004 00:37:15,367 --> 00:37:17,300 - What's up? What's up? What's up? 1005 00:37:17,369 --> 00:37:21,137 - What's up? - Court is done for now. 1006 00:37:21,206 --> 00:37:23,139 I go back in 2 weeks. They put it off. 1007 00:37:23,208 --> 00:37:26,409 So my attorney still is trying to get me a deal. 1008 00:37:26,478 --> 00:37:28,845 As of right now, I still got this ankle monitor on. 1009 00:37:28,914 --> 00:37:31,514 - Well, all right. I guess we'll be waiting. 1010 00:37:31,583 --> 00:37:33,483 They pushed the court date back again. 1011 00:37:33,552 --> 00:37:36,386 Like, I understand it's a sticky situation, 1012 00:37:36,455 --> 00:37:39,623 and it's tough, but I just wish that they would tell him 1013 00:37:39,691 --> 00:37:41,491 what they're gonna do so we can get over it, 1014 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,126 he can do what he has to do to get over it, 1015 00:37:43,195 --> 00:37:45,161 and we can move past this. 1016 00:37:45,230 --> 00:37:47,430 I had, like, anxiety waiting, 1017 00:37:47,499 --> 00:37:49,232 playing this back and forth game 1018 00:37:49,301 --> 00:37:51,167 when there's so much going on around us, 1019 00:37:51,236 --> 00:37:55,138 an engagement, a wedding, a court date. 1020 00:37:55,207 --> 00:37:58,008 I just feel like things are piling up. 1021 00:37:58,076 --> 00:37:59,409 It's not easy, period, 1022 00:37:59,478 --> 00:38:03,480 and I'm just trying to knock them off one by one 1023 00:38:03,548 --> 00:38:08,251 so that we just can move forward, I guess. 1024 00:38:10,555 --> 00:38:11,655 - ♪ Ready ♪ 1025 00:38:11,723 --> 00:38:15,025 ♪ You can whisper now ♪ 1026 00:38:15,093 --> 00:38:17,427 ♪ Tell me what it's all about ♪ 1027 00:38:17,496 --> 00:38:21,097 ♪ Yeah, tell me what it's all about ♪ 1028 00:38:21,166 --> 00:38:22,532 ♪ Ready ♪ 1029 00:38:22,601 --> 00:38:24,868 - Come here, sissy. 1030 00:38:24,936 --> 00:38:29,105 Oh, is that my baby? What are you doing, baby? 1031 00:38:29,174 --> 00:38:31,308 - She's been good. - You've been good girl? 1032 00:38:33,478 --> 00:38:34,411 Noodles? 1033 00:38:34,479 --> 00:38:35,945 - Yeah. - You want noodles? 1034 00:38:36,014 --> 00:38:37,480 - Yes. - There's no microwave. 1035 00:38:37,549 --> 00:38:40,684 - I can make them on the stove for her for right now. 1036 00:38:40,752 --> 00:38:42,552 Yeah, here. Here, baby. I'll make it for you. 1037 00:38:42,621 --> 00:38:45,355 - So how was it over there at Briana's? 1038 00:38:45,424 --> 00:38:46,356 - It was cool. 1039 00:38:46,425 --> 00:38:48,258 I still feel nervous and scared. 1040 00:38:48,327 --> 00:38:49,826 She was like, "It's gonna hurt. 1041 00:38:49,895 --> 00:38:52,562 It's gonna hurt." Hi, handsome boy. 1042 00:38:52,631 --> 00:38:54,964 Yeah, but I'm so nervous 1043 00:38:55,033 --> 00:38:56,166 that I feel like I'm just gonna get sick, 1044 00:38:56,234 --> 00:38:57,667 like, [bleep] over myself. 1045 00:38:57,736 --> 00:39:00,303 I'm, like, just nervous anticipating this whole thing, 1046 00:39:00,372 --> 00:39:02,138 and is everyone gonna wipe my butt? 1047 00:39:02,207 --> 00:39:05,375 - Just me. I get--I'm the lucky person. 1048 00:39:05,444 --> 00:39:07,143 - Just, I don't know, I feel like I'm kind of having, 1049 00:39:07,212 --> 00:39:09,279 like, a mini panic attack in my own head. 1050 00:39:09,348 --> 00:39:12,649 The nurse said it was, like, two or three hours, 1051 00:39:12,718 --> 00:39:13,917 and then I'll be in, 1052 00:39:13,985 --> 00:39:16,553 like, the recovery room for a little bit, 1053 00:39:16,621 --> 00:39:19,322 and then once I wake up and, you know, I'm coherent 1054 00:39:19,391 --> 00:39:22,492 and I'm there enough, they'll release me. 1055 00:39:22,561 --> 00:39:25,595 - Yeah. We're taking you straight here. 1056 00:39:25,664 --> 00:39:27,030 'Cause you don't need to run around 1057 00:39:27,099 --> 00:39:28,331 and get your prescriptions with us 1058 00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:29,866 'cause you need to come straight here 1059 00:39:29,935 --> 00:39:32,035 and rest, you know, and then your mom 1060 00:39:32,104 --> 00:39:35,271 or whoever can go pick your prescriptions up. 1061 00:39:35,340 --> 00:39:37,374 - Yeah, I just want to make sure 1062 00:39:37,442 --> 00:39:39,709 she's not [bleep] around. Like, if I need something, 1063 00:39:39,778 --> 00:39:41,511 like, someone can go and get and it and bring it back 1064 00:39:41,580 --> 00:39:43,513 and I'm not sitting here in excruciating pain. 1065 00:39:43,582 --> 00:39:45,382 - I will make sure that that doesn't happen. 1066 00:39:45,450 --> 00:39:47,617 - You gonna take good care of me? 1067 00:39:47,686 --> 00:39:48,985 You promise? 1068 00:39:49,054 --> 00:39:50,553 - Everything will be all right. 1069 00:39:50,622 --> 00:39:53,089 [soft music] 1070 00:39:53,158 --> 00:39:54,491 - ♪ Gonna fly ♪ 1071 00:39:54,559 --> 00:39:56,493 ♪ Gonna stay ♪ 1072 00:39:56,561 --> 00:40:00,263 ♪ Got the power in our hands ♪ 1073 00:40:00,332 --> 00:40:03,767 ♪ Do or die to the end ♪ 1074 00:40:03,835 --> 00:40:06,903 ♪ Oh ♪ 1075 00:40:06,972 --> 00:40:11,107 ♪ It's going down, down, down, down ♪ 1076 00:40:11,176 --> 00:40:14,310 ♪ It's going down, down ♪ 1077 00:40:14,379 --> 00:40:17,914 ♪ It's going down, down, down, down ♪ 1078 00:40:17,983 --> 00:40:21,785 ♪ It's going down ♪ 1079 00:40:21,853 --> 00:40:25,288 ♪ It's going down, down, down, down ♪ 1080 00:40:25,357 --> 00:40:30,894 ♪ It's going down, down, down, down, down ♪ 1081 00:40:30,962 --> 00:40:34,731 ♪ It's do or die to the end ♪ 1082 00:40:36,935 --> 00:40:40,904 - Ooh, girl, look at your new wheels. 1083 00:40:40,972 --> 00:40:44,674 - My landlord wants to move her child in this house. 1084 00:40:44,743 --> 00:40:46,810 So I've gotta go. 1085 00:40:46,878 --> 00:40:48,812 - Oh, my gosh. - No medicine? 1086 00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:49,979 - No medicine. - Why? 1087 00:40:50,048 --> 00:40:51,848 - 'Cause her mom didn't get it yet. 1088 00:40:51,917 --> 00:40:53,116 - So she's been gone 2 1/2 hours. 1089 00:40:53,185 --> 00:40:54,050 - Yes. 1090 00:40:54,119 --> 00:40:55,285 - I think she's full of [bleep]. 1091 00:40:55,353 --> 00:40:56,953 - I'm in excruciating pain. - Okay. Okay. 1092 00:40:57,022 --> 00:40:58,521 [line trills] - 911. What is your emergency? 1093 00:40:58,590 --> 00:40:59,856 [siren wails]