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- I would like to ask you,
will you marry me?
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- Mm-hmm.
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[sniffles] Yeah.
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We're not sure what we want
I dto do right now.ate.
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We do know what comes
with trying to merge.
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His mama, my mama, his sister,
my sister, whatever.
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I don't want the stress
of that
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to become heavier
than us getting married.
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- I feel like Kloie really
needs two parents
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that can communicate
with each other good.
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- I mean, I agree.
Because I want her to
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have everything I didn't have
and I didn't have that.
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- My lease is up here.
And I need to start over
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and feel like I have a house
that's just mine.
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- Here they are
two sets of keys.
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- It's about to be dark out.
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We're not gonna be able
to see anything.
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So we have to kind of hurry
and get all the big stuff.
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- Kloie.
- Hey, stop screaming.
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Can you look at me?
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- Really don't want to.
You're irritating the [bleep].
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- You're irritating [bleep]
out of me.
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I'm just getting annoyed
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and I just want
to stop filming right now.
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- I noticed that I have a lump
in my breast.
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My doctor called
and said it is a benign tumor,
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which we'll continue to follow.
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[phone chimes]
Oh, my gosh, I'm so excited.
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I just got an email
that said I had insurance.
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Your mama has medical
insurance guys.
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They said they wanted
to keep monitoring it,
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keep following it.
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As far as surgery, that scares
the living [bleep] out of me.
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The last biggest surgery
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I had they prescribed me
prescription pain medication
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that I became addicted to.
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- This answer is incorrect.
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Re-answer them
and then let me know.
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I have some bad news
for you guys.
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You're not going back
to in-person school
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until further notice.
How do you guys feel?
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- Horrible.
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- What did you like about
going into in person school?
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- I could go see
my friends and stuff.
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- I want for COVID
not to exist.
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- Stella.
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- Where are we going today?
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- With who?
- With Luis.
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- Oh, your daddy?
- Uh-huh.
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- I don't know where
your daddy is, baby.
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- I love him.
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- You love him?
- Uh-huh.
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- Good. I know you do, baby.
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Luis didn't show up.
- [sighs]
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- It's just hard to see Nova
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with her father and then
Stella not with her dad.
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[upbeat rock music]
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♪ ♪
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[pop rock music]
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♪ ♪
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- Get over here!
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Get over here.
- [giggling]
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- I love you.
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[grunts]
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You're a big girl now.
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You used to be
a small tiny baby.
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Look.
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Let me show you some pictures.
- Huh?
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- That was when you were
going to day care.
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Remember going to day care?
Oh, Granny's calling.
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- Hi, Gran.
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- You was a little baby?
- Yeah.
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- We were going through her
Instagram
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looking back
from pictures from 2018,
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when she was super little.
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- So, Ash, you guys have
any official wedding plans?
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- We don't have no plans yet.
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So I'll let you know
when the ball gets rolling.
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But as of right now it's not.
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- Okay.
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- Okay, Mom.
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Well, why don't you pick out
your wedding dress too?
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- No, because you're gonna
say, "Mom, you're trying
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to do too much,"
and you know I'm coming
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in a whole white gown,
like, with sprinkles.
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- If you come in white,
I will murder you.
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- I know.
- I will literally--
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I will be a hater
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and literally spill
Kool-Aid on you on purpose.
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- You can pick out my clothes.
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I don't care.
You can pick out my clothes.
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- I'm gonna put you
in a G-string
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thong mesh body-con dress,
straight from Fashion Nova.
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- I'll be like this too, ah.
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- Yeah, you can stay home.
You can stay home, sis.
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- [laughing]
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[singer vocalizing]
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♪ ♪
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- She's been asking me to check
on spider bite
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for, like, two days.
Something in me is starting
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to tell me to let her
check the spider bite.
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Here, go ahead.
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- There's nothing there.
- Right here.
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- It's not--it's barely
anything.
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It literally looks
like nothing.
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- Are you good now?
- Yeah.
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- You're gonna stop asking
about it?
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- Yeah.
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- So I've been supposed
to take my GED
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for five years literally,
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but I was always end up
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running into
some kind of excuse
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as to why
I can't get into it done.
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- He's studying for a GED,
I know that.
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- That's good.
Push him to get that.
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- I've pushed him
for three years.
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You actually going to have
to study for this.
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- I was studying,
you feel me,
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everything seemed great.
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And after that,
I completely forgot about it.
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- You got an attitude
right now?
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- Yeah, your GED is not
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really something
that you need to be forgetting.
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- But now, what I found out
is they do it online now
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'cause of COVID.
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It's like a simple situation
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where I got to do it
like in a quiet room.
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- Well, that's good.
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I'm proud of you.
I want to see you do it.
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- I'm not--because I want
to go to college.
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You're ready for me
to get my GED, though?
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- Uh-huh.
- What's the GED?
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- [sighs]
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- How about this?
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Do you think school
is important?
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- Yeah.
- Yeah?
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Do you think it's important
that daddy finishes school?
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- Yeah.
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- Are you going
to finish school?
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- Yeah.
- Yeah? Right.
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I do think it's important
that Bar gets his GED,
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finishes his high school
education,
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because high school
is mandatory for Holly.
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It was mandatory
in my mom's household.
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It's mandatory mine.
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But also, Bar is really smart.
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He is so smart.
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Like, I don't think
people know this,
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because he has four eyebrows.
But he is so smart.
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And so, like, I think that
he's capable of passing.
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This is stuff that
he already learned,
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it's just a matter
of bringing it back up,
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working it out and applying it
and I think he can do that.
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- Devoin's been
pretty consistent.
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So I let him take Nova
to gymnastics today.
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But then he forgot
to pick her up.
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And she was waiting
for over an hour.
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She's home now, though,
and after she got here,
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I realized I'd missed
a call from the gym.
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- Hi Briana, just wanted
to check in with you.
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We still have Nova here.
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But if you could just give us
a call back and let us know
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who is coming to get her,
that would be great.
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I'd like to let
her know as well.
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All right, thank you so much.
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- Devoin forgot to pick her up
at gymnastics.
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When he came to pick up Nova,
I looked at him in his eyes
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and I said,
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"Can you please pick Nova
up at 8:30 today?"
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He looked at me,
dead in my eyes and said,
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"You got it."
10:22 on the dot tonight
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she walks in and she's all sad
and hysterical.
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And she's just like,
"My dad forgot about me."
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And I'm like,
"Wait, what's going on?"
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She was like,
"Yeah, the gym called you.
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You didn't get their message."
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So then I rushed to my phone.
Never had a missed call,
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but I have a voicemail
from them, and I had no idea.
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So I'm like,
"What the [bleep]?"
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And she was like, "Yeah,
I heard my dad over the phone
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"talking to the coach
saying that he forgot,
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now that he's on his way
to come get me."
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So he literally forgot
to get her.
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She's upstairs.
She's so upset right now.
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- That's so [bleep] up.
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It was late.
We all got to do better,
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so she never has to
experience that again.
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- I sent like a really long,
long, long, long, message.
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I said, "Your [bleep] daughter
walked into the house
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"sad and upset.
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"So you weren't just
a little late.
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"You were a whole lot of late.
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"I gave you a little bit
of responsibility
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"and you let me down
every single time.
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"Your daughter's here crying
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"and I don't
even know what to say to her.
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"Never in my life have
I ever been late to the point
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that she's the last one
in the [bleep] gym."
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And then he said,
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"You can't be mad
for her all the time, Briana."
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- You're the [bleep] mom.
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You're the one that has to
handle the [bleep],
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of course you're
going to be mad.
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- Of course I'm going
to be upset.
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- That's so [bleep] up.
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- Don't play with that
a little girl's emotions.
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- Terrible.
Terrible, terrible, terrible.
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- ♪ It'll set you free ♪
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[folksy pop music]
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- I'm still really anxious
about the tumor
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they found my breast.
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I gave Corey a heads up,
in case the girls mention it.
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And I'm on my way to drop them
off to him now.
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All right. Let's roll.
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- Mommy, look.
- What, baby?
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- I already got one paper done.
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- Can I draw something?
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Let me draw something.
- No.
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- I'm gonna say,
"What's up?"
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- Why can't--I want to say,
"What's up?"
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- No.
- What's up?
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- No, get your own paper.
- What's up?
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- And write to them.
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- I don't have paper.
- What's up?
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- I don't have paper.
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She won't let me say,
"What's up?"
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- What's up?
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- [grunts] Coming.
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My clothes are still wet.
- Wild childs.
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- Hi, dad.
- Ooh.
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- [grunting]
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- Put your iPad and stuff
over there.
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God, you got a bunch
of stuff.
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They didn't think about that,
did they?
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- What?
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- Your books are bigger
than your bag.
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[grunts]
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- Um, so I know I mentioned to
you about the lump in my breast
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in case the girls say
something to you, or ask you.
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And then I'd just like to let
you know these things in case
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I do need your support.
- Mm-kay.
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- But I don't want them
to even worry about,
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you know what I mean?
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- You told them about it.
I'm aware of it.
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So if they have any questions,
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I can come to you about it
and let you know.
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- Yeah.
- I think that's
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the best scenario,
you know what I'm saying?
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- All right, love you guys.
- Love you.
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- Bye, have fun.
Have a good week.
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[soft dramatic music]
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- I'm supposed to go to
the doctor later this week,
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but I just got
some upsetting news.
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We just got a call
from the school
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and there had been
a positive COVID case
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in one of the classrooms.
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I immediately connected
with Corey and let him know.
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He was like, "Oh, [bleep]."
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Now, in person school is shut
down for at least two weeks.
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I was supposed to have
a doctor's appointment
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for the tumor on my breast.
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And I definitely cancelled it
because of the COVID scare.
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My doctor's offices
in a hospital.
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My daughter's had been directly
exposed to positive cases.
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And I don't want to
potentially expose anyone else.
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♪ ♪
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- Moving into my new house
was super stressful,
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but I'm getting settled in.
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Sean's still staying
at the extended stay hotel.
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But he's been spending a lot
of time here
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to help with Kloie.
Hey, good morning.
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- Bones?
She already ate them all.
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- Oh, really?
- Yeah.
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Mommy's going to be at work
all night.
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So you better enjoy homemade
food because you know,
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your dad only knows
how to make pizzas.
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- You what? Can I have a bite?
- Yeah.
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- Thank you.
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- Excited to go back to work.
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I had to, like,
move all my clients and stuff.
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Because, like,
moving last minute, you know?
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So I feel like
I've actually worked.
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What do you think
about my house?
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Do you think it's cute?
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- Yeah, like it. Feels homey.
- Yeah, it feels comfy.
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Well, thank you for helping me.
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I couldn't have done it
by myself, that's for sure.
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I'm glad everything's
better between us.
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- Feels different.
Even just hanging out with you.
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- That's why we've been getting
along better.
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And I think lately, like,
you've been helping out so much
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with everything, like moving
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and, like, you've
just been like stepping up
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and doing more things
that I've been, like, needing
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and wanting you to do,
you know?
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I think you moving out was,
like,
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the best thing that happened
for our relationship.
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Like, this space, you know?
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Because if you would have
never moved out initially.
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- We'd have been fighting.
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- Like it would--it just
would have got worse.
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00:12:18,538 --> 00:12:20,739
- Yeah. I do feel like this
is the best spot
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we've been in a relationship
for a long time.
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We're just working on
being better for each other.
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And our daughter.
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- I feel like things with me
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and Sean have been
a little better.
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Maybe it's from
the space apart.
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And we've kind of
discussed him, you know,
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moving in and staying,
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but I'm still kind of
on the fence about it.
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I know long term he does want
to live with me and Kloie.
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And wants us to be a family,
but I feel like
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we've been through
a lot of different [bleep]
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and us living together
maybe could push us apart.
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I think I just still have
my doubts about stuff.
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- We're gonna
start construction
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on the new house soon,
but a few weeks ago,
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I decided
to let Isaac have a phone.
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And he's been
bringing it to Jo's.
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[upbeat rock music]
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♪ ♪
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I'm still doing my podcast
with Vee,
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and we're recording
an episode with Jo today
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at our new office.
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- All right. I'm gonna--
I'm gonna record.
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- All right. Recording.
- Ready?
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- Hi guys, and welcome back
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to yet another episode
of "Baby Mama's No Drama."
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- We do have a special guest
yet again.
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We have my husband Jo,
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well, our baby daddy
back by popular demand.
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- It's been awesome.
I'm proud of you guys.
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- Thank you.
- Yeah.
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- Give me something cool
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to listen to
throughout the week.
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- Is it weird for you
that we are doing this?
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And then, now that we have an
office together? Is that weird?
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- Yeah, 'cause...
- [bleep] yeah, it's weird.
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- These are the questions
people ask all the time,
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I have been looking
in our messages and stuff.
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And people really
are interested in knowing
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how do we get
to the relationship
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that you guys have?
And I'm like, "Listen,
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"you got to come to
an agreement with that person
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and try and work on your
relationship with that person."
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I feel like
that's where--basically
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the core
of co-parenting comes from.
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- Co-parenting
is [bleep] hard.
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My biggest advice is
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[singsongy]
don't have three baby daddies.
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- [laughs]
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- Anyway, that's all the time
we have.
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So we hope you love
the episode with Jo,
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and thank you for coming
on the podcast.
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- Yeah.
- Thank you guys for listening.
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- Bye. Talk to you guys soon.
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- See you.
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- Let's upload--I'll upload
it now.
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- So she has my [bleep].
- Yeah, here take my--
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- So how does this new phone
thing works with Isaac?
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Because we never, you know,
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like,
discussed this beforehand.
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00:14:31,404 --> 00:14:33,738
- It was free. It was kind of
a last minute thing.
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00:14:33,807 --> 00:14:35,807
- Did you do like the parental
control and stuff?
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00:14:35,876 --> 00:14:37,408
- We have to, like,
figure this out.
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00:14:37,477 --> 00:14:39,944
- He worries about him going on
Pornhub and looking at titties.
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00:14:40,013 --> 00:14:41,713
- No.
- That's what he's mad about.
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00:14:41,781 --> 00:14:43,615
- He's not going to find porn--
- Isaac's not even there yet.
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00:14:43,683 --> 00:14:44,816
Trust me.
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00:14:44,885 --> 00:14:46,384
- I just--that is my concern.
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I'm concerned about him
calling you and me.
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00:14:49,289 --> 00:14:51,389
- No, but he's becoming
a preteen, you know?
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00:14:51,458 --> 00:14:53,157
- That-- I'm concerned
about his exposures.
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00:14:53,226 --> 00:14:55,226
- He's had an--an iPad at
my house for four years?
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00:14:55,295 --> 00:14:56,594
- Yeah, he has an iPad.
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00:14:56,663 --> 00:14:59,631
- So-- what's--
- He has limited use, right?
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Does he clear his history?
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00:15:01,401 --> 00:15:03,268
- I highly doubt he knows
how to do that.
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00:15:03,336 --> 00:15:05,303
- Why am I more scared
of this than you are?
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00:15:05,372 --> 00:15:07,272
- Because you're a guy.
- Because you know,
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00:15:07,340 --> 00:15:09,941
because you probably did it
when you were ten.
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00:15:10,010 --> 00:15:11,609
But if you don't want him
to have it,
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00:15:11,678 --> 00:15:12,844
we can just save it for later.
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00:15:12,913 --> 00:15:14,212
- Oh, he's got it.
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00:15:14,281 --> 00:15:16,514
He's gonna be super sad
if we take it away now.
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00:15:16,583 --> 00:15:18,683
- I mean, if you only want him
to have it at certain times,
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00:15:18,752 --> 00:15:19,918
and only give it to him
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00:15:19,986 --> 00:15:21,252
at certain times,
same thing for me.
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00:15:21,321 --> 00:15:23,221
- I just don't--
- I check it every day.
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00:15:23,290 --> 00:15:25,323
- I just don't know
how I feel about it yet.
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00:15:25,392 --> 00:15:26,824
- Okay.
- That's it.
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00:15:26,893 --> 00:15:28,626
And I just wished
we'd talked about it.
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[soft dramatic music]
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♪ ♪
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00:15:35,769 --> 00:15:38,069
[phone buzzing]
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00:15:42,075 --> 00:15:45,009
[soft pop music]
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♪ ♪
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00:15:47,247 --> 00:15:48,846
- I'm getting the girls
ready for school.
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00:15:48,915 --> 00:15:50,214
But Nova is still upset
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00:15:50,283 --> 00:15:52,984
about Devoin
forgetting her last night.
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00:15:53,053 --> 00:15:56,054
How are you feeling? You okay?
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00:15:56,122 --> 00:15:58,089
- You were scared?
404
00:16:00,226 --> 00:16:01,960
- Who stayed with you
after gymnastics?
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00:16:02,028 --> 00:16:03,461
- The coach.
406
00:16:03,530 --> 00:16:06,097
- The owner says that she was
gonna drive her home.
407
00:16:06,166 --> 00:16:07,565
- Are you serious?
408
00:16:07,634 --> 00:16:09,767
- What did he say
when you got in the car?
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00:16:09,836 --> 00:16:13,137
- He said that he was sorry.
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00:16:13,206 --> 00:16:15,106
- Did you accept his apology?
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00:16:15,175 --> 00:16:16,641
- Yeah.
- That's good.
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00:16:16,710 --> 00:16:18,977
You know, that will
never happen, ever again.
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00:16:19,045 --> 00:16:21,612
Never, swear to God.
I'm sorry, baby.
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00:16:21,681 --> 00:16:24,582
[singer vocalizing]
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00:16:24,651 --> 00:16:28,987
♪ ♪
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00:16:29,055 --> 00:16:31,622
[phone trilling]
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00:16:33,593 --> 00:16:35,059
- Hello.
- Yo.
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00:16:35,128 --> 00:16:37,195
- What's up? What you want?
- Briana's mad
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00:16:37,263 --> 00:16:39,063
'cause I was late to pick up
over from gymnastics.
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00:16:39,132 --> 00:16:40,398
- All right.
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00:16:40,467 --> 00:16:41,699
- I dropped her off
at gymnastics,
422
00:16:41,768 --> 00:16:43,701
and she asked me
if I could pick her up.
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00:16:43,770 --> 00:16:46,204
I'm like, "Okay, cool.
No problem, whatever."
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00:16:46,272 --> 00:16:50,575
And I did forget, like so.
Yeah.
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00:16:50,643 --> 00:16:52,443
That [bleep],
I ain't gonna lie,
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00:16:52,512 --> 00:16:54,078
I feel like [bleep],
I'm, like, "Damn,"
427
00:16:54,147 --> 00:16:57,448
but it wasn't
no worth--no fighting worthy,
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00:16:57,517 --> 00:16:59,183
you know what I mean?
- Mm-hmm.
429
00:16:59,252 --> 00:17:00,551
- Gonna turn into
some big ass deal.
430
00:17:00,620 --> 00:17:01,719
You know how we both are,
431
00:17:01,788 --> 00:17:03,788
we both stubborn,
and she was just saying like,
432
00:17:03,857 --> 00:17:05,857
"How could you do this?"
Like, blah, blah, blah.
433
00:17:05,925 --> 00:17:08,726
Making me sound like
the worst [bleep] in the world.
434
00:17:08,795 --> 00:17:10,094
Being late is not good.
435
00:17:10,163 --> 00:17:12,563
But this is my first time
I [bleep] up.
436
00:17:12,632 --> 00:17:13,998
It wasn't like I lost her
in the mall
437
00:17:14,067 --> 00:17:15,633
or some [bleep] like that.
438
00:17:15,702 --> 00:17:17,502
Everyone I've ever spoken to
in my life has been picked up
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00:17:17,570 --> 00:17:19,070
late by their parents
or something, like,
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00:17:19,139 --> 00:17:20,405
so I'm not even worried
about that at all.
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00:17:20,473 --> 00:17:21,739
That's a part of life, like--
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00:17:21,808 --> 00:17:23,408
I done walked home
in the third grade
443
00:17:23,476 --> 00:17:24,709
'cause both my parents
didn't know which one
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00:17:24,778 --> 00:17:26,544
was picking me up.
And [bleep] happened, bro.
445
00:17:26,613 --> 00:17:28,246
Ain't that big
of a [bleep] deal.
446
00:17:28,314 --> 00:17:29,814
- Mm-hmm.
447
00:17:31,351 --> 00:17:32,517
- She says she don't
want me to.
448
00:17:32,585 --> 00:17:33,951
She says she don't need me to.
449
00:17:34,020 --> 00:17:35,586
I was wrong.
It's not about Briana.
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00:17:35,655 --> 00:17:37,522
She just tryin' to capitalize
off this [bleep],
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00:17:37,590 --> 00:17:40,191
tryin' to bring me down.
That's all.
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00:17:43,696 --> 00:17:45,630
- Bar's been talking about
getting his GED
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00:17:45,698 --> 00:17:48,399
for the last few years.
And it hasn't happened yet.
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00:17:48,468 --> 00:17:49,967
But he's been studying
more this time.
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00:17:50,036 --> 00:17:52,870
And he's taking all four tests
online this week.
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00:17:52,939 --> 00:17:54,639
- I've been wanting to get
my GED forever.
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00:17:54,707 --> 00:17:58,309
But up until recently,
I had a lot going on mentally.
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00:17:58,378 --> 00:17:59,944
I was participating
in a lot of stuff
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00:18:00,013 --> 00:18:01,679
that I probably
shouldn't have been, you know,
460
00:18:01,748 --> 00:18:05,383
but I can say back then,
my mindset was just survival,
461
00:18:05,452 --> 00:18:07,585
don't think about what's
tomorrow, the day after.
462
00:18:07,654 --> 00:18:11,089
As compared to now,
so I got to, you know, family.
463
00:18:11,157 --> 00:18:13,624
I actually got stuff
that I need to go home to.
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00:18:13,693 --> 00:18:16,494
And I think it is
very important for Holly,
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00:18:16,563 --> 00:18:19,130
to see both parents
doing schooling, you know.
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00:18:19,199 --> 00:18:22,066
It's easier to teach
your child something
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00:18:22,135 --> 00:18:23,401
when they see you doing it.
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00:18:23,470 --> 00:18:26,104
So I definitely feel
like getting my GED
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00:18:26,172 --> 00:18:27,905
will make me a better
father and husband.
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00:18:27,974 --> 00:18:32,210
And honestly, just a better
contribution to society.
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00:18:32,278 --> 00:18:36,214
[bleep], it's just a GED,
but it works.
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00:18:37,117 --> 00:18:40,017
[upbeat music]
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00:18:40,086 --> 00:18:43,788
♪ ♪
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00:18:47,927 --> 00:18:49,494
I'm so embarrassed.
475
00:18:49,562 --> 00:18:50,661
- What?
476
00:18:50,730 --> 00:18:52,663
- The lack of mask
is very embarrassing.
477
00:18:55,435 --> 00:18:57,702
- Girl.
- No.
478
00:18:57,770 --> 00:18:59,170
I went to the post office
the other day.
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00:18:59,239 --> 00:19:00,571
- Without one?
480
00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:02,073
- I was just like,
"Yeah, can I have my package?"
481
00:19:02,142 --> 00:19:03,674
We were just talking and all.
All of the sudden I was like,
482
00:19:03,743 --> 00:19:05,076
"I don't have a mask on.
I'm so sorry."
483
00:19:05,145 --> 00:19:06,577
- Oh, my God.
- They were like,
484
00:19:06,646 --> 00:19:08,713
"No, it's literally nice
to see another human smile."
485
00:19:08,781 --> 00:19:11,282
- Yeah.
- I was like, "I know."
486
00:19:11,351 --> 00:19:13,251
- You can tell like when
you're like, "I'm loud."
487
00:19:13,319 --> 00:19:14,552
Because you're not,
like, muffled.
488
00:19:14,621 --> 00:19:16,254
- Wearing a mask.
- "Oh, my God. I forgot."
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00:19:16,322 --> 00:19:17,755
- Or when your oxygen
is flowing too freely,
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00:19:17,824 --> 00:19:19,056
you're like, "I know
something's not"--
491
00:19:19,125 --> 00:19:20,791
- Just too freely. Yeah.
When you can breathe right.
492
00:19:20,860 --> 00:19:22,260
- Yeah.
- So how is, like, school--how
493
00:19:22,328 --> 00:19:23,661
does school work for you?
494
00:19:23,730 --> 00:19:25,496
You're all online, right?
- Uh-huh.
495
00:19:25,565 --> 00:19:27,198
- Like, what exactly--what
kind of classes are you taking?
496
00:19:27,267 --> 00:19:28,633
- Just basic pre reqs.
497
00:19:28,701 --> 00:19:29,967
So right now I'm doing
psychology
498
00:19:30,036 --> 00:19:32,370
and environmental science,
but I do humanities.
499
00:19:32,438 --> 00:19:34,105
I'm happy I'm done
with humanities though,
500
00:19:34,174 --> 00:19:35,473
'cause that [bleep]--
501
00:19:35,542 --> 00:19:37,208
- I know, you said you were
struggling.
502
00:19:37,277 --> 00:19:39,043
I don't even know
what humanities is.
503
00:19:39,112 --> 00:19:40,411
- Oh, I can tell you.
504
00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,447
[exaggerated]
How did the Renaissance art
505
00:19:43,516 --> 00:19:46,217
change the way
that you drive your car today?
506
00:19:46,286 --> 00:19:48,219
Can you please
draw a correlation?
507
00:19:48,288 --> 00:19:49,787
[normal voice] No!
- No, I can't.
508
00:19:49,856 --> 00:19:51,289
- They didn't even have cars,
they're carriages.
509
00:19:51,357 --> 00:19:52,657
What the [bleep]
are you talking about?
510
00:19:52,725 --> 00:19:54,258
I don't [bleep] know.
- That's literally
511
00:19:54,327 --> 00:19:55,860
exactly, like,
what I thought humanities were.
512
00:19:55,929 --> 00:19:56,861
- I got an A in it, though.
513
00:19:56,930 --> 00:19:58,663
I got a 92--90 something
percent, so--
514
00:19:58,731 --> 00:20:00,565
- Girl, I made up some
bull[bleep], will that work?
515
00:20:00,633 --> 00:20:02,300
So you're hella busy, like,
516
00:20:02,368 --> 00:20:03,801
with school and stuff,
what's Bar doing?
517
00:20:03,870 --> 00:20:07,538
- So Bar has taken two out
of four of his GED tests.
518
00:20:07,607 --> 00:20:10,107
And he has passed two so far.
519
00:20:10,176 --> 00:20:12,276
- Yeah.
- I don't know, I--
520
00:20:12,345 --> 00:20:13,778
he's talked about
wanting to get his GED.
521
00:20:13,846 --> 00:20:15,513
But you know,
we've talked about that before.
522
00:20:15,582 --> 00:20:17,748
So I'm just hoping
that he takes it serious.
523
00:20:17,817 --> 00:20:19,450
- You're just not trying to,
like, push him.
524
00:20:19,519 --> 00:20:20,751
You want him
to just do it on his own.
525
00:20:20,820 --> 00:20:22,620
- I'm not gonna micromanage.
- Yeah.
526
00:20:22,689 --> 00:20:24,355
- I'm going to do what
the [bleep] I have to do.
527
00:20:24,424 --> 00:20:27,124
I have enough schoolwork,
to not worry about his.
528
00:20:27,193 --> 00:20:28,359
- I can't be doing yours too.
529
00:20:28,428 --> 00:20:29,760
- I'm hoping that
he does, though.
530
00:20:29,829 --> 00:20:31,462
Because he wants to go
to college, so you know,
531
00:20:31,531 --> 00:20:32,863
he needs that foot in the door.
532
00:20:32,932 --> 00:20:34,765
So he might as well
just [bleep] do it.
533
00:20:34,834 --> 00:20:38,803
♪ ♪
534
00:20:38,871 --> 00:20:40,338
[owl cries]
535
00:20:44,611 --> 00:20:46,544
[racoons chittering]
536
00:20:46,613 --> 00:20:49,714
[heavy electronic music]
537
00:20:49,782 --> 00:20:55,119
♪ ♪
538
00:20:55,188 --> 00:20:56,887
- [grunting]
539
00:21:01,294 --> 00:21:04,061
- Jo and I agreed that a phone
is a big responsibility.
540
00:21:04,130 --> 00:21:06,897
So I'm gonna set some
ground rules for Isaac.
541
00:21:06,966 --> 00:21:08,633
All right.
- Yeah?
542
00:21:08,701 --> 00:21:09,934
- What does it feel like
to have a phone?
543
00:21:10,003 --> 00:21:13,237
I didn't have a phone
when I was 11, so.
544
00:21:13,306 --> 00:21:15,840
- I think it's really great.
545
00:21:15,908 --> 00:21:18,576
- Do your other friends
at school have phones?
546
00:21:18,645 --> 00:21:20,645
I know some of them do.
547
00:21:20,713 --> 00:21:23,080
- Everyone except
for like two.
548
00:21:23,149 --> 00:21:24,348
- So they all have phones.
549
00:21:24,417 --> 00:21:27,385
- Yeah. Mm-hmm.
- So there's rules.
550
00:21:27,453 --> 00:21:28,819
This is a privilege.
551
00:21:28,888 --> 00:21:31,656
This is not a necessity.
- Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
552
00:21:31,724 --> 00:21:34,558
- You're disrespectful, you
don't do your responsibilities,
553
00:21:34,627 --> 00:21:37,261
you are going against me
554
00:21:37,330 --> 00:21:39,163
and your dad's guidelines
for the phone,
555
00:21:39,232 --> 00:21:41,265
it's taken away
and you're not getting it back.
556
00:21:41,334 --> 00:21:42,733
- Mm-hmm.
557
00:21:42,802 --> 00:21:45,436
- I want to approve everybody
that goes in here.
558
00:21:45,505 --> 00:21:49,173
Understood? 9:00, bedtime,
hand me your phone.
559
00:21:49,242 --> 00:21:52,109
Because you're not taking this
in your room with you.
560
00:21:52,178 --> 00:21:54,445
Do you understand?
561
00:21:54,514 --> 00:21:56,981
- Yes.
- I'm serious.
562
00:21:57,050 --> 00:22:01,085
This is a privilege.
I don't owe this to you.
563
00:22:01,154 --> 00:22:02,420
This is earned.
564
00:22:02,488 --> 00:22:05,156
- Mm-hmm.
- Okay, so approved contacts.
565
00:22:05,224 --> 00:22:06,424
Who would you want to text?
566
00:22:06,492 --> 00:22:08,459
Would you want
to put in your phone?
567
00:22:08,528 --> 00:22:10,361
- My friend Zoe.
- Okay.
568
00:22:10,430 --> 00:22:12,363
This is a girlfriend
or just a friend?
569
00:22:12,432 --> 00:22:14,699
- Used to be my girlfriend.
- Oh, okay.
570
00:22:14,767 --> 00:22:16,901
No, no, no, that's not what
I thought you were gonna say.
571
00:22:16,969 --> 00:22:18,536
So we're not
even gonna go there.
572
00:22:18,604 --> 00:22:21,405
- But I haven't talked to her
in three months.
573
00:22:21,474 --> 00:22:23,507
- Well, quarantine.
574
00:22:23,576 --> 00:22:24,875
I think Jo and I
are on the same page
575
00:22:24,944 --> 00:22:26,577
about phone rules
and expectations.
576
00:22:26,646 --> 00:22:28,379
Isaac's getting older,
his needs
577
00:22:28,448 --> 00:22:30,047
and his wants are changing.
578
00:22:30,116 --> 00:22:32,717
And with that comes a shift
in co-parenting and a shift
579
00:22:32,785 --> 00:22:35,019
in what we think
is best for him.
580
00:22:35,088 --> 00:22:37,555
All right, there you go.
581
00:22:37,623 --> 00:22:40,157
[laughs]
Here.
582
00:22:40,226 --> 00:22:43,494
[laughs]
What?
583
00:22:51,971 --> 00:22:54,538
- Sean's been improving, and
right now I can rely on him
584
00:22:54,607 --> 00:22:56,240
to watch Kloie
while I'm at work.
585
00:22:56,309 --> 00:22:58,175
But this has happened before
and it doesn't always last.
586
00:22:58,244 --> 00:23:01,312
So I'm trying to take things
slow with our relationship.
587
00:23:01,381 --> 00:23:04,281
[upbeat pop music]
588
00:23:04,350 --> 00:23:07,418
♪ ♪
589
00:23:07,487 --> 00:23:08,886
- Okay.
590
00:23:14,927 --> 00:23:17,194
- ♪ Wake, wake, wake up ♪
591
00:23:17,263 --> 00:23:19,864
- So Sean, what's going on?
592
00:23:19,932 --> 00:23:22,700
You've been hanging out here
at the new house with Jade.
593
00:23:22,769 --> 00:23:26,036
- Yeah.
- But you guys aren't together?
594
00:23:26,105 --> 00:23:27,638
- In my eyes,
we're still together,
595
00:23:27,707 --> 00:23:29,440
because, you know, I'm here.
596
00:23:29,509 --> 00:23:31,075
You know?
597
00:23:31,144 --> 00:23:34,145
But Jade might say
something different.
598
00:23:34,213 --> 00:23:35,813
Ever since I moved out,
599
00:23:35,882 --> 00:23:38,549
tryin' to figure it out,
what I needed to do
600
00:23:38,618 --> 00:23:40,751
in changing who I am for her
601
00:23:40,820 --> 00:23:43,687
and changing my ways
for both of us, you know,
602
00:23:43,756 --> 00:23:45,589
for our family and my daughter.
603
00:23:45,658 --> 00:23:48,025
I was kind of
a [bleep]head and selfish.
604
00:23:48,094 --> 00:23:52,930
I had to grow up, focus more
on taking care of my daughter.
605
00:23:52,999 --> 00:23:54,932
Kloie definitely
seems a lot happier.
606
00:23:55,001 --> 00:23:57,601
But she definitely wants
mommy and daddy.
607
00:23:57,670 --> 00:24:00,137
- What do you think
for the future for you guys?
608
00:24:00,206 --> 00:24:03,441
- Endless possibilities,
nothing negative at all.
609
00:24:03,509 --> 00:24:05,009
I'm just trying to keep
a positive mindset
610
00:24:05,077 --> 00:24:06,477
about everything.
611
00:24:06,546 --> 00:24:08,045
Because I know she's still
on the fence about trusting me.
612
00:24:08,114 --> 00:24:11,248
She wants to,
but she's she can't yet.
613
00:24:11,317 --> 00:24:13,651
Because I've given her reasons
in the past not to.
614
00:24:13,719 --> 00:24:16,821
It's just not who I am anymore.
615
00:24:16,889 --> 00:24:19,824
I just got to, you know,
man up, you know.
616
00:24:19,892 --> 00:24:23,894
Show her that I'm still the guy
that she fell in love with.
617
00:24:23,963 --> 00:24:26,096
Show her that I can still be
the person she wants
618
00:24:26,165 --> 00:24:27,364
to be with,
you know,
619
00:24:27,433 --> 00:24:29,166
so that she does see
a future with us.
620
00:24:29,235 --> 00:24:32,770
I got her a gift.
I haven't given it to her yet.
621
00:24:32,839 --> 00:24:37,775
But it's to reassure her
that I'm not going anywhere.
622
00:24:37,844 --> 00:24:40,077
And I'm not trying to talk
to anybody else.
623
00:24:40,146 --> 00:24:43,981
And I'm here for her and Kloie.
For good, you know,
624
00:24:44,050 --> 00:24:47,151
because that's what I see
in my future, it's my family.
625
00:24:47,220 --> 00:24:50,120
[dramatic pop music]
626
00:24:50,189 --> 00:24:52,690
♪ ♪
627
00:24:56,362 --> 00:24:59,930
[upbeat music]
628
00:24:59,999 --> 00:25:01,499
- The girls and I have
all been
629
00:25:01,567 --> 00:25:03,033
testing negative for COVID.
630
00:25:03,102 --> 00:25:05,703
So I let Addie go to Jeremy's
for a few days,
631
00:25:05,771 --> 00:25:08,138
while Aleeah and Ali do
remote learning here.
632
00:25:08,207 --> 00:25:11,709
[phone trills]
633
00:25:11,777 --> 00:25:14,411
Hi, what are you doing?
634
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:18,816
- Uh, just working and trying
not to get COVID.
635
00:25:18,885 --> 00:25:22,019
- Your hair looks great.
Can you cut my hair?
636
00:25:22,088 --> 00:25:25,523
- Yeah, you need a haircut.
- I know. My end looks so bad.
637
00:25:25,591 --> 00:25:27,191
Guess what?
638
00:25:27,260 --> 00:25:29,960
There was a recent COVID break
at the girls' school.
639
00:25:30,029 --> 00:25:33,731
- Oh, my gosh.
- Our cases keep rising here.
640
00:25:33,799 --> 00:25:36,867
So they're out of the school
until,
641
00:25:36,936 --> 00:25:38,936
I mean, further notice I guess.
642
00:25:39,005 --> 00:25:41,272
In person learning
will eventually resume.
643
00:25:41,340 --> 00:25:43,240
But I don't-I don't even want
to send them back.
644
00:25:43,309 --> 00:25:44,441
- [inaudible] going back?
645
00:25:44,510 --> 00:25:45,910
- I don't want to send
them back.
646
00:25:45,978 --> 00:25:48,712
I don't want to chance that.
I will stay home with them.
647
00:25:48,781 --> 00:25:52,950
I will do whatever we get to do
to make sure that,
648
00:25:53,019 --> 00:25:54,818
you know, we're all safe.
It just sucks
649
00:25:54,887 --> 00:25:58,556
that we're dealing with this
almost a year later.
650
00:25:58,624 --> 00:26:02,793
I didn't expect it, you know,
to be over in three months.
651
00:26:02,862 --> 00:26:06,530
But I expected everyone
to do the best thing for, like,
652
00:26:06,599 --> 00:26:08,165
the common good of everyone.
653
00:26:08,234 --> 00:26:10,768
It's really been hard on
our family, this pandemic has.
654
00:26:10,836 --> 00:26:12,770
It was difficult to pull them
from the activities
655
00:26:12,838 --> 00:26:14,805
that they love
for the first time ever.
656
00:26:14,874 --> 00:26:16,874
And then now school.
657
00:26:18,544 --> 00:26:21,478
[melancholy music]
658
00:26:21,547 --> 00:26:28,686
♪ ♪
659
00:26:32,024 --> 00:26:34,425
- Hi, girl.
- Hey, mom.
660
00:26:34,493 --> 00:26:36,026
- How's it going?
- Good.
661
00:26:36,095 --> 00:26:40,598
- With your switching to
back to online?
662
00:26:40,666 --> 00:26:41,832
- Not fun.
663
00:26:41,901 --> 00:26:43,734
- And you do fairly well
once you get on
664
00:26:43,803 --> 00:26:46,971
to the--like, on a routine.
665
00:26:47,039 --> 00:26:50,174
I think the back and forth
makes it a little difficult.
666
00:26:50,242 --> 00:26:52,443
You don't want to go
back to school?
667
00:26:52,511 --> 00:26:54,345
- No.
- Why?
668
00:26:54,413 --> 00:26:55,846
- Because.
669
00:26:55,915 --> 00:26:58,048
- The outbreak scares you
a little bit?
670
00:26:58,117 --> 00:27:00,584
- 'Cause then I just--I'm
gonna stress out about it,
671
00:27:00,653 --> 00:27:02,586
and I ain't got time for that.
672
00:27:02,655 --> 00:27:04,054
- You need to focus
on learning.
673
00:27:04,123 --> 00:27:06,357
You don't have to stress out
about anything.
674
00:27:06,425 --> 00:27:09,293
- I don't want to risk bringing
COVID home the Ali.
675
00:27:09,362 --> 00:27:10,861
- Of course, you don't want
to do that
676
00:27:10,930 --> 00:27:13,797
with any of your family.
I totally understand.
677
00:27:13,866 --> 00:27:16,200
But I don't want you
to distress.
678
00:27:16,268 --> 00:27:20,137
I want you to continue
to be a child and learn
679
00:27:20,206 --> 00:27:21,905
and not be worried
about everything
680
00:27:21,974 --> 00:27:24,141
that's going on
in the world right now.
681
00:27:24,210 --> 00:27:25,976
That's why I really think
remote learning
682
00:27:26,045 --> 00:27:28,178
is going to be
even more helpful.
683
00:27:29,749 --> 00:27:32,016
I know it was really hard
for Aleeah to quit cheer
684
00:27:32,084 --> 00:27:34,985
during the pandemic
and it's hard to tell her
685
00:27:35,054 --> 00:27:37,388
that she can't go to school
in person either.
686
00:27:37,456 --> 00:27:41,125
I was worried that
she would be upset about it.
687
00:27:41,193 --> 00:27:45,095
But she's very understanding
and I'm proud of her for that.
688
00:27:45,164 --> 00:27:47,831
It's definitely been
a tough year for me
689
00:27:47,900 --> 00:27:51,168
and my family following
all the COVID protocols
690
00:27:51,237 --> 00:27:52,569
to keep our family safe,
691
00:27:52,638 --> 00:27:55,205
especially Ali
being immunocompromised.
692
00:27:55,274 --> 00:27:57,307
I mean, it's tiring.
It's exhausting.
693
00:27:57,376 --> 00:27:59,910
And I know things are opening
back up in my state,
694
00:27:59,979 --> 00:28:02,880
but we still have
to remain very cautious.
695
00:28:02,948 --> 00:28:06,116
I really don't know
how COVID would affect Ali
696
00:28:06,185 --> 00:28:09,887
and we just want to be careful.
Love you.
697
00:28:09,955 --> 00:28:11,722
- [muffled] Love you.
698
00:28:11,791 --> 00:28:14,425
[upbeat music]
699
00:28:14,493 --> 00:28:16,326
♪ ♪
700
00:28:16,395 --> 00:28:17,628
- Mama.
- What?
701
00:28:17,697 --> 00:28:18,829
- "Mama."
- Na-na-na boo-boo.
702
00:28:18,898 --> 00:28:20,397
- Na-na-na boo-boo.
703
00:28:20,466 --> 00:28:23,867
- You can't even put water...
704
00:28:23,936 --> 00:28:26,203
- Oh, she is gonna--[laughs]
- In my face?
705
00:28:26,272 --> 00:28:27,905
No, don't spray me.
706
00:28:29,208 --> 00:28:31,108
- So what's going on with
Devoin and Luis?
707
00:28:31,177 --> 00:28:32,910
- Luis is never really around.
708
00:28:32,978 --> 00:28:36,580
Devoin is still, you know,
not consistent.
709
00:28:36,649 --> 00:28:40,117
He really let Nova down when
he forgot her at gymnastics.
710
00:28:40,186 --> 00:28:41,985
I would like for both,
you know, Devoin and Luis
711
00:28:42,054 --> 00:28:43,620
to be on the same page
with the girls,
712
00:28:43,689 --> 00:28:45,823
'cause they're not
really consistent.
713
00:28:45,891 --> 00:28:47,691
But that's just
what my life is.
714
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:51,095
So it's like me trying to...
715
00:28:51,163 --> 00:28:53,731
- Balance them not being there.
- Balance them, yeah.
716
00:28:53,799 --> 00:28:55,232
- Plus everything else.
- Yeah.
717
00:28:55,301 --> 00:28:56,867
- It's a lot.
- It's a lot.
718
00:28:56,936 --> 00:29:00,370
- I just feel like
it's been nine years of--forget
719
00:29:00,439 --> 00:29:02,239
the first year--she ain't know
whether he was there or not.
720
00:29:02,308 --> 00:29:03,607
- Yeah. But still...
- But still.
721
00:29:03,676 --> 00:29:05,109
- It's been nine years
722
00:29:05,177 --> 00:29:06,910
and he hasn't been consistent.
- It's been nine years.
723
00:29:06,979 --> 00:29:09,413
- I can definitely relate
to both of my kids
724
00:29:09,482 --> 00:29:13,817
when it comes to our fathers
not being consistent.
725
00:29:13,886 --> 00:29:15,185
Like my father.
726
00:29:15,254 --> 00:29:17,888
He's you know, MIA.
There was a lot of times
727
00:29:17,957 --> 00:29:20,524
where I just felt
lonely and sad.
728
00:29:20,593 --> 00:29:24,461
So I don't want that for Nova,
so that's why I try so hard
729
00:29:24,530 --> 00:29:27,164
for Devoin
to be around for Nova,
730
00:29:27,233 --> 00:29:29,867
but I just don't want her
feeling sad.
731
00:29:29,935 --> 00:29:31,735
So I'm going to show my kids
the world
732
00:29:31,804 --> 00:29:34,671
whether their fathers
are around or not.
733
00:29:34,740 --> 00:29:39,476
I'm thinking of us
going to
734
00:29:39,545 --> 00:29:44,114
have a girl's
little day trip with Nova.
735
00:29:44,183 --> 00:29:45,716
- That would be cool.
- You wanna do that?
736
00:29:45,785 --> 00:29:47,684
- Yeah, what do you
have in mind?
737
00:29:47,753 --> 00:29:50,587
- I want to book us
a kayaking...
738
00:29:50,656 --> 00:29:51,822
- Mama.
739
00:29:51,891 --> 00:29:53,423
- Trail. What's it called?
- Mama!
740
00:29:53,492 --> 00:29:54,691
- Yes.
- I love you.
741
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,927
- I love you too.
- [laughs]
742
00:29:56,996 --> 00:30:01,064
- Just so, you know,
explore the lakes in Florida.
743
00:30:01,133 --> 00:30:02,733
- That would be cool.
- Yeah?
744
00:30:02,802 --> 00:30:04,568
- I agree.
- You're down?
745
00:30:04,637 --> 00:30:06,069
- Hell, yeah.
746
00:30:06,138 --> 00:30:07,971
As long as there's
no alligators in the water.
747
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:11,175
- We live in Florida.
There's alligators everywhere.
748
00:30:11,243 --> 00:30:12,543
- No, that would be
dope, though.
749
00:30:12,611 --> 00:30:17,247
♪ ♪
750
00:30:21,220 --> 00:30:24,354
[upbeat electronic music]
751
00:30:24,423 --> 00:30:26,657
- Bar's been working
on his GED all week,
752
00:30:26,725 --> 00:30:30,561
and he's taking
his final test online today.
753
00:30:30,629 --> 00:30:32,529
Are you ready for your tests?
754
00:30:32,598 --> 00:30:34,231
- Yeah.
- All right.
755
00:30:34,300 --> 00:30:36,433
Then I'll be done with it.
Hopefully.
756
00:30:36,502 --> 00:30:39,736
- I love you. Give me a kiss.
- I love you.
757
00:30:40,472 --> 00:30:42,506
You can ask your dad
if you can watch the show.
758
00:30:44,710 --> 00:30:46,310
- Yeah.
759
00:30:49,782 --> 00:30:52,249
- I'm gonna go in the room
and wait for the word bird.
760
00:30:52,318 --> 00:30:54,184
I love you, kid.
- I love you too.
761
00:31:04,230 --> 00:31:06,496
- Babe?
- Yeah?
762
00:31:06,565 --> 00:31:08,332
- Let's check these results.
763
00:31:13,038 --> 00:31:15,639
I's ready.
- All right. Watch out.
764
00:31:15,708 --> 00:31:17,174
Don't hit me, don't hit me,
don't hit me, don't hit me.
765
00:31:17,243 --> 00:31:18,642
- Okay.
- I got my GED.
766
00:31:18,711 --> 00:31:20,043
- Watch out.
767
00:31:20,112 --> 00:31:22,112
- Now, I'm gonna hit you
in the back of the head.
768
00:31:22,181 --> 00:31:24,848
I get a dome knock for that.
769
00:31:24,917 --> 00:31:28,118
Taking all this [bleep] time.
Good job.
770
00:31:28,187 --> 00:31:30,554
- Thank you. Thank you.
Thank you. Thank you.
771
00:31:30,623 --> 00:31:32,856
- I'm proud of you.
- Oh, wow, I actually just--
772
00:31:32,925 --> 00:31:34,157
one of the best results
on here.
773
00:31:34,226 --> 00:31:36,393
- You're actually
kind of smart.
774
00:31:36,462 --> 00:31:37,594
- What? What?
775
00:31:37,663 --> 00:31:41,198
- I'm so proud of you, babe.
- Thank you.
776
00:31:41,267 --> 00:31:43,400
- Good job.
And you did it in a week,
777
00:31:43,469 --> 00:31:45,035
and you took all this time
to do it.
778
00:31:45,104 --> 00:31:47,037
You literally did it in a week.
779
00:31:49,408 --> 00:31:51,174
- Whop. Bam.
780
00:31:51,243 --> 00:31:53,610
That's the certification
right there.
781
00:31:53,679 --> 00:31:55,279
- I don't think you even know
782
00:31:55,347 --> 00:31:57,948
how many doors
this opens for you.
783
00:31:58,017 --> 00:31:59,349
You used to be like,
"Well, you know,
784
00:31:59,418 --> 00:32:00,784
I don't think
it's that big of a deal."
785
00:32:00,853 --> 00:32:02,386
But now getting it.
786
00:32:02,454 --> 00:32:04,955
Do you think that it sets
a better example for Holly?
787
00:32:05,024 --> 00:32:06,456
- Oh, yeah.
788
00:32:06,525 --> 00:32:07,858
As soon as she starts school,
I'm gonna hang it up
789
00:32:07,927 --> 00:32:09,259
in a room on her wall.
- Right.
790
00:32:09,328 --> 00:32:10,827
- Bow! So every time
you wake up,
791
00:32:10,896 --> 00:32:12,162
you see I got mine.
792
00:32:12,231 --> 00:32:13,797
It took me a second,
but I got it, so do it.
793
00:32:13,866 --> 00:32:15,799
- Because I was saying that
I think in our household,
794
00:32:15,868 --> 00:32:19,436
it's going to be requirement
that she attends high school.
795
00:32:19,505 --> 00:32:21,672
- Yeah, no, she's got to
attend high school.
796
00:32:21,740 --> 00:32:25,676
- I feel like it just gives us
a stronger...
797
00:32:25,744 --> 00:32:27,177
- Argument.
- Argument.
798
00:32:27,246 --> 00:32:28,712
I know that I have
pushed you hard
799
00:32:28,781 --> 00:32:30,614
to get your GED.
800
00:32:30,683 --> 00:32:32,716
And it has kind of caught
some riffraff
801
00:32:32,785 --> 00:32:34,051
between us in the past.
802
00:32:34,119 --> 00:32:36,586
But honestly,
I know how smart you are.
803
00:32:36,655 --> 00:32:38,121
And I know what
you can accomplish,
804
00:32:38,190 --> 00:32:39,923
and what you
want to accomplish.
805
00:32:39,992 --> 00:32:42,693
And so I just was
so sad for you,
806
00:32:42,761 --> 00:32:45,629
seeing this be an obstacle.
You know what I'm saying?
807
00:32:45,698 --> 00:32:48,598
But whatever you want to do,
I want to see you do it.
808
00:32:48,667 --> 00:32:49,933
I want to see you work
towards it,
809
00:32:50,002 --> 00:32:51,201
do it and be the best.
810
00:32:51,270 --> 00:32:52,336
I don't want to see
you half ass it.
811
00:32:52,404 --> 00:32:54,171
You know what I'm saying?
So...
812
00:32:54,239 --> 00:32:55,672
- I'ma be the best
hot dog [indistinct] ever.
813
00:32:55,741 --> 00:32:58,041
- You gonna be the best
and the cutest.
814
00:32:58,110 --> 00:33:00,110
- Thank you. I love you.
815
00:33:00,179 --> 00:33:02,813
The exciting part to me
is that I could go to...
816
00:33:02,881 --> 00:33:04,948
- College?
- Hey, brah, I can enroll
817
00:33:05,017 --> 00:33:06,717
in the class right now.
Hold on.
818
00:33:06,785 --> 00:33:09,186
Hey, I can't do it now.
I just realized that.
819
00:33:09,254 --> 00:33:10,754
Do you know
how many times I went
820
00:33:10,823 --> 00:33:12,422
and got on the college things?
821
00:33:12,491 --> 00:33:16,226
And was like, "Hell yeah.
Hell yeah. Oh, this dope. Ooh."
822
00:33:16,295 --> 00:33:19,162
And I was like,
"Oh, I can't afforge that.
823
00:33:19,231 --> 00:33:21,465
Y'all asking for numbers?"
824
00:33:21,533 --> 00:33:23,367
- But now I think you should
just call it try
825
00:33:23,435 --> 00:33:24,968
to get it into your pre reqs
826
00:33:25,037 --> 00:33:27,471
while I'm doing my pre reqs
and we can do it together.
827
00:33:27,539 --> 00:33:29,606
Yeah, I want to come out
and be like, "Ooh, he's cute.
828
00:33:29,675 --> 00:33:30,741
Who's that new boy?"
829
00:33:30,809 --> 00:33:32,709
♪ ♪
830
00:33:32,778 --> 00:33:35,479
- ♪ You know we're never
coming back down ♪
831
00:33:35,547 --> 00:33:39,416
♪ ♪
832
00:33:41,220 --> 00:33:43,887
♪ Drive, drive,
get in the car ♪
833
00:33:43,956 --> 00:33:46,323
♪ Surfed all night
to find who you are ♪
834
00:33:46,392 --> 00:33:48,658
♪ And you ride, ride,
ride through the stars ♪
835
00:33:48,727 --> 00:33:49,893
- Hey.
836
00:33:49,962 --> 00:33:50,894
- Aren't you just obsessed
with him?
837
00:33:50,963 --> 00:33:52,162
- I know.
838
00:33:52,231 --> 00:33:53,163
- Isn't he the cutest
littlest thing?
839
00:33:53,232 --> 00:33:54,164
- When he just went pee,
the way
840
00:33:54,233 --> 00:33:55,465
that he peed was so cute.
841
00:33:55,534 --> 00:33:59,469
- Did you go pee outside
like a big boy?
842
00:33:59,538 --> 00:34:00,971
- What's up?
843
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,241
- I feel like everything is a
lot better between me and Sean.
844
00:34:04,309 --> 00:34:07,177
He's been helping,
like, watch her.
845
00:34:07,246 --> 00:34:10,647
He's been doing
what I asked him to do.
846
00:34:10,716 --> 00:34:15,252
But I think we're on different
pages when it comes to like,
847
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,554
what we're wanting.
[phone rings]
848
00:34:19,258 --> 00:34:20,791
- Hey, what's up?
849
00:34:21,860 --> 00:34:23,560
- Okay.
850
00:34:25,831 --> 00:34:27,664
- Hey, I got to be right back.
851
00:34:27,733 --> 00:34:31,068
- I feel like Sean's ready
to rush into anything.
852
00:34:31,136 --> 00:34:35,372
But where my headspace out now,
I'm kind of more on the fence
853
00:34:35,441 --> 00:34:37,607
about him living here
854
00:34:37,676 --> 00:34:39,876
and us working
on our relationship.
855
00:34:39,945 --> 00:34:42,479
I think I'm just taking it
like one step at a time
856
00:34:42,548 --> 00:34:45,215
and just feeling
the whole situation out.
857
00:34:59,631 --> 00:35:01,064
- Yeah.
858
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:03,400
- Oh, my God.
859
00:35:06,939 --> 00:35:10,073
- Jesus Christ.
- She gonna love it, right?
860
00:35:10,142 --> 00:35:12,309
- Yeah.
- I realized a lot being away.
861
00:35:12,377 --> 00:35:16,146
But now I, like,
got my eyes set and I'm, like,
862
00:35:16,215 --> 00:35:18,248
headed in the right path.
863
00:35:18,317 --> 00:35:20,317
The light at the end
of the tunnel
864
00:35:20,385 --> 00:35:25,055
is definitely gonna be marriage
eventually and more kids
865
00:35:25,124 --> 00:35:27,958
and I'm going to do what I got
to do [bleep] for this.
866
00:35:28,026 --> 00:35:31,661
You know.
Gonna happen.
867
00:35:31,730 --> 00:35:33,663
Stay tuned.
868
00:35:47,279 --> 00:35:51,114
[upbeat music]
869
00:35:51,183 --> 00:35:55,185
- ♪ Ooh, whoa-ooh, ah, ah ♪
870
00:35:55,254 --> 00:35:56,586
- I still feel bad for Nova
871
00:35:56,655 --> 00:35:58,088
and I hope spending
the day with me,
872
00:35:58,157 --> 00:36:01,458
Shirley, and Brittany
helps her feel better.
873
00:36:01,527 --> 00:36:03,560
- Has everybody kayaked before?
- Yes, I have.
874
00:36:03,629 --> 00:36:05,262
- We have, haven't we?
- I have not.
875
00:36:05,330 --> 00:36:06,530
- What we're gonna do today,
876
00:36:06,598 --> 00:36:08,265
we go into Lake Osceola.
- Yeah.
877
00:36:08,333 --> 00:36:10,400
- Lake Osceola's
a big long lake.
878
00:36:10,469 --> 00:36:12,235
We'll cruise half of it,
go over and cruise
879
00:36:12,304 --> 00:36:14,171
the other half of it.
Any questions?
880
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:15,438
- No.
- I think we're good.
881
00:36:15,507 --> 00:36:17,841
- Who's going with whom?
- I'm going with her
882
00:36:17,910 --> 00:36:19,543
and they're going together.
- We're going together.
883
00:36:19,611 --> 00:36:20,710
- Okay, so you're
all ready to go?
884
00:36:20,779 --> 00:36:21,745
- Yeah.
- Okay.
885
00:36:21,813 --> 00:36:23,513
♪ ♪
886
00:36:23,582 --> 00:36:27,050
- I don't like this. No.
- You'll be fine.
887
00:36:27,119 --> 00:36:33,290
♪ ♪
888
00:36:33,358 --> 00:36:35,025
- Oh, we got this.
889
00:36:35,093 --> 00:36:37,427
- It's easy. I like this.
890
00:36:40,065 --> 00:36:42,399
- Oh, [bleep].
891
00:36:42,467 --> 00:36:44,167
No, Briana, stop
rocking the boat.
892
00:36:44,236 --> 00:36:45,702
This is not
[inaudible] music video.
893
00:36:45,771 --> 00:36:47,871
I will--Briana. Look.
- [laughing]
894
00:36:47,940 --> 00:36:51,174
- My whole booty is wet
as [bleep].
895
00:36:52,077 --> 00:36:55,645
[cheering]
896
00:36:55,714 --> 00:36:58,348
[calling]
897
00:37:00,052 --> 00:37:01,785
- [screams]
898
00:37:03,722 --> 00:37:05,589
[laughter]
899
00:37:06,425 --> 00:37:08,358
- And we made it.
900
00:37:10,262 --> 00:37:11,494
- You want to keep your life
vest on
901
00:37:11,563 --> 00:37:12,996
to get in
the water for a little bit?
902
00:37:13,065 --> 00:37:14,731
- Yeah.
903
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,499
- [screams]
904
00:37:18,170 --> 00:37:19,502
Come on, Nova!
905
00:37:21,873 --> 00:37:25,642
Kayaking was a friggin' blast.
I had so much fun.
906
00:37:25,711 --> 00:37:27,444
I'm so glad
that I brought Nova.
907
00:37:27,512 --> 00:37:29,212
I know she was super happy
about it.
908
00:37:29,281 --> 00:37:31,948
And this is something that
she'll probably never forget.
909
00:37:32,017 --> 00:37:33,550
Right now, the girls' fathers,
910
00:37:33,619 --> 00:37:35,252
they're not consistently
in their lives.
911
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,020
So I need to step up
to the plate
912
00:37:37,089 --> 00:37:38,688
and do what's best for my kids.
913
00:37:38,757 --> 00:37:42,292
And that's continuing being
the best mom that I could be.
914
00:37:42,361 --> 00:37:45,462
And just making memories
with my children.
915
00:37:45,530 --> 00:37:47,831
Come on, Nova,
let's take a picture.
916
00:37:47,899 --> 00:37:49,833
♪ ♪
917
00:37:49,901 --> 00:37:52,269
- Since we all tested negative
for COVID
918
00:37:52,337 --> 00:37:55,705
and no one has any symptoms,
the twins went to their dad
919
00:37:55,774 --> 00:37:58,408
and I picked up Addie
from her weekend at Jeremy's.
920
00:37:58,477 --> 00:37:59,843
- I wanna go ice skating.
921
00:37:59,911 --> 00:38:03,380
I know, I wish we could.
As soon--we'll do more stuff
922
00:38:03,448 --> 00:38:05,682
whenever--Here we're just
limit--like,
923
00:38:05,751 --> 00:38:07,317
right now,
during this pandemic,
924
00:38:07,386 --> 00:38:08,818
we're just limited
to the amount of stuff
925
00:38:08,887 --> 00:38:11,621
that we can do.
Or you know,
926
00:38:11,690 --> 00:38:14,991
being in big crowds
and things like that.
927
00:38:15,060 --> 00:38:18,662
But it'll get better soon,
it'll get better soon.
928
00:38:18,730 --> 00:38:22,866
- [mumbling]
929
00:38:22,934 --> 00:38:26,303
[pensive music]
930
00:38:26,371 --> 00:38:29,939
♪ ♪
931
00:38:30,008 --> 00:38:32,509
Jeremy went back to work
a few days ago
932
00:38:32,577 --> 00:38:34,544
but isn't feeling well.
933
00:38:35,881 --> 00:38:37,981
- So COVID
is absolutely horrible.
934
00:38:38,050 --> 00:38:39,316
I tested positive.
935
00:38:39,384 --> 00:38:41,985
I've no idea
where I caught it.
936
00:38:42,054 --> 00:38:46,189
Got a headache.
Can't taste, can't smell.
937
00:38:46,258 --> 00:38:48,358
Feel like [bleep].
938
00:38:48,427 --> 00:38:49,659
You for sure
don't want to catch this
939
00:38:49,728 --> 00:38:53,563
and give it to anybody else.
It sucks.
940
00:38:53,632 --> 00:38:56,466
So hopefully Addie
didn't catch it from me.
941
00:38:56,535 --> 00:38:58,068
No one else has.
942
00:38:58,136 --> 00:38:59,336
I don't know.
943
00:38:59,404 --> 00:39:04,941
♪ ♪
944
00:39:07,646 --> 00:39:11,848
- ♪ Been holding it
all inside ♪
945
00:39:11,917 --> 00:39:14,384
♪ ♪
946
00:39:14,453 --> 00:39:19,556
♪ Been trying to read
the signs ♪
947
00:39:19,624 --> 00:39:22,559
♪ I've been at it so long ♪
948
00:39:22,627 --> 00:39:26,663
♪ It's hard to tell
what went wrong ♪
949
00:39:26,732 --> 00:39:31,000
♪ It's more than a fear
this time ♪
950
00:39:32,170 --> 00:39:33,636
♪ I'm going ♪
951
00:39:33,705 --> 00:39:38,041
♪ Under, under, under ♪
952
00:39:38,110 --> 00:39:39,676
♪ I'm going ♪
953
00:39:39,745 --> 00:39:45,915
♪ Under, under, under ♪
954
00:39:45,984 --> 00:39:49,419
[soft piano music]
955
00:39:49,488 --> 00:39:56,659
♪ ♪
956
00:40:04,102 --> 00:40:07,570
- Addie was with her dad and
he tested positive for COVID.
957
00:40:07,639 --> 00:40:10,507
- I don't even know
what I want, so...
958
00:40:10,575 --> 00:40:13,009
- Figure it out
before you waste any more time.
959
00:40:13,078 --> 00:40:15,011
- I feel really upset.
960
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:16,880
- I wanna find something
that he likes to do
961
00:40:16,948 --> 00:40:18,581
so that he builds
that self-confidence.
962
00:40:18,650 --> 00:40:20,383
- Right.
- I invited his mom
963
00:40:20,452 --> 00:40:21,785
to Bar's GED party
964
00:40:21,853 --> 00:40:23,453
and then she told me that she
would love to come.
965
00:40:23,522 --> 00:40:25,722
- Then let that just be that.
- Yeah.
966
00:40:25,791 --> 00:40:28,525
- And then he just opens, like,
a ring box, and was like,
967
00:40:28,593 --> 00:40:31,227
"I want you to be my wife."
- So what did you say?
968
00:40:31,296 --> 00:40:32,862
♪ ♪