1 00:00:08,509 --> 00:00:10,744 >> I WOULD NOT CLASSIFY MYSELF 2 00:00:10,744 --> 00:00:12,046 AS A HOARDER. 3 00:00:12,046 --> 00:00:14,082 I CONSIDER MYSELF MORE OF A 4 00:00:14,082 --> 00:00:17,351 SAVER, A RESCUER OF THINGS. 5 00:00:17,351 --> 00:00:18,752 >> TO ME, IT'S STUFF VERSUS 6 00:00:18,752 --> 00:00:19,720 RELATIONSHIPS. 7 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,355 >> YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS ARE 8 00:00:21,355 --> 00:00:23,057 COMMITTING TO NOT HELPING YOU 9 00:00:23,057 --> 00:00:23,524 ANYMORE. 10 00:00:23,524 --> 00:00:25,226 >> WE PROMISED EACH OTHER YOU 11 00:00:25,226 --> 00:00:27,628 WOULD NOT [BLEEP] THIS ROOM UP. 12 00:00:27,628 --> 00:00:29,230 >> THIS IS NOT THE WAY PEOPLE 13 00:00:29,230 --> 00:00:29,463 LIVE. 14 00:00:29,463 --> 00:00:30,398 NOTHING HAS A HOME. 15 00:00:30,398 --> 00:00:31,732 IT WAS A LITTLE OVERWHELMING. 16 00:00:31,732 --> 00:00:33,267 NO, I DON'T EVEN WANT TO TAKE 17 00:00:33,267 --> 00:00:34,102 THE TIME FOR THAT. 18 00:00:34,102 --> 00:00:35,503 NO, THERE'S NO DISCUSSION ABOUT 19 00:00:35,503 --> 00:00:36,337 THAT RIGHT NOW. 20 00:00:36,337 --> 00:00:37,605 >> SHE DOESN'T REALIZE SHE'S 21 00:00:37,605 --> 00:00:38,472 HURTING HERSELF. 22 00:00:38,472 --> 00:00:40,541 >> YOU HAVE TO LET IT GO, 23 00:00:40,541 --> 00:00:42,810 BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T, IT WILL 24 00:00:42,810 --> 00:00:44,712 SWALLOW YOU UP. 25 00:01:20,281 --> 00:01:21,815 >> I AM BETTY. 26 00:01:21,815 --> 00:01:24,252 I'M 68 YEARS OLD. 27 00:01:24,252 --> 00:01:27,821 I WAS THE GARBAGEMAN'S DAUGHTER. 28 00:01:27,821 --> 00:01:30,724 HE'D BRING HOME LUMBER AND 29 00:01:30,724 --> 00:01:33,427 CLOTHES AND FURNITURE AND JUST 30 00:01:33,427 --> 00:01:35,463 EVERYTHING. 31 00:01:35,463 --> 00:01:37,798 THE KIDS AT SCHOOL USED TO TEASE 32 00:01:37,798 --> 00:01:40,401 ME ABOUT IT, AND IT WAS A BIG 33 00:01:40,401 --> 00:01:46,174 ISSUE, BUT...IT WAS HOME. 34 00:01:46,174 --> 00:01:48,476 AND THIS... 35 00:01:53,881 --> 00:01:56,484 BUT I DON'T WANT IT TO BE 36 00:01:56,484 --> 00:01:58,719 BECAUSE I HAVE NOWHERE TO PUT 37 00:01:58,719 --> 00:02:01,189 ANYTHING. 38 00:02:01,189 --> 00:02:05,326 >> I'M CHARLES, BETTY'S HUSBAND. 39 00:02:05,326 --> 00:02:09,729 WE'VE BEEN MARRIED 46 YEARS. 40 00:02:09,729 --> 00:02:12,666 >> MY HUSBAND WAS AN ALCOHOLIC. 41 00:02:12,666 --> 00:02:14,635 AND HE WOULD DRINK AND SMOKE, 42 00:02:14,635 --> 00:02:18,339 AND I DID NEITHER -- NEVER DID. 43 00:02:18,339 --> 00:02:20,341 HE'S BEEN IN AND OUT OF OUR 44 00:02:20,341 --> 00:02:22,210 LOCAL MENTAL FACILITY FOR 45 00:02:22,210 --> 00:02:23,744 SCHIZOPHRENIA. 46 00:02:23,744 --> 00:02:25,746 I WENT THROUGH A LOT WITH THAT. 47 00:02:25,746 --> 00:02:27,881 BUT I STILL LOVE HIM, AND WE'RE 48 00:02:27,881 --> 00:02:30,484 STILL MARRIED, AND WE PRODUCED 49 00:02:30,484 --> 00:02:32,586 FIVE BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN -- FOUR 50 00:02:32,586 --> 00:02:34,488 GIRLS AND A BOY. 51 00:02:34,488 --> 00:02:36,757 >> STAN -- I'M BETTY'S SON. 52 00:02:36,757 --> 00:02:40,228 I'M GONNA CALL IT IN THE LAST 53 00:02:40,228 --> 00:02:43,431 10, 15 YEARS SHE REALLY STARTED 54 00:02:43,431 --> 00:02:45,699 LETTING THINGS GO DOWNHILL. 55 00:03:02,616 --> 00:03:03,951 >> THE ONLY THING THAT BROUGHT 56 00:03:03,951 --> 00:03:07,288 ME HAPPINESS WAS TO BUY STUFF. 57 00:03:10,824 --> 00:03:12,760 >> YOU HAD THE ALCOHOLISM, AND 58 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:14,462 YOU HAD THE MENTAL ILLNESS. 59 00:03:14,462 --> 00:03:16,830 SO MOM DOESN'T GET TO ENJOY HER 60 00:03:16,830 --> 00:03:17,831 RETIREMENT. 61 00:03:17,831 --> 00:03:19,567 SHE GETS TO TAKE CARE OF A SICK, 62 00:03:19,567 --> 00:03:21,269 OLD MAN. 63 00:03:21,269 --> 00:03:24,405 THIS IS HER REBELLION OF, "WELL, 64 00:03:24,405 --> 00:03:26,840 IF I CAN'T GO OUT TO DO THIS AND 65 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:29,243 GO HAVE FUN IN YOSEMITE, I'M 66 00:03:29,243 --> 00:03:30,911 GONNA GO TO A YARD SALE, AND I'M 67 00:03:30,911 --> 00:03:32,580 GONNA BUY FOUR TONS OF [BLEEP] 68 00:03:32,580 --> 00:03:37,718 THAT NOBODY NEEDS." 69 00:03:37,718 --> 00:03:39,720 >> I SUPPOSE IN THE BACK OF MY 70 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:43,524 MIND THAT I FELT THAT IF HE EVER 71 00:03:43,524 --> 00:03:45,659 LEFT OR DISAPPEARED OR SOMETHING 72 00:03:45,659 --> 00:03:47,695 LIKE THAT, I WOULD HAVE WHAT I 73 00:03:47,695 --> 00:03:51,432 NEEDED TO CONTINUE LIFE. 74 00:04:06,380 --> 00:04:07,648 >> PEOPLE WOULD ASK ME WHEN I 75 00:04:07,648 --> 00:04:09,417 WOULD BUY STUFF AT SALES, "DO 76 00:04:09,417 --> 00:04:10,718 YOU BUY STUFF TO RESELL?" 77 00:04:10,718 --> 00:04:16,055 NO, I DON'T. I BOUGHT IT TO USE. 78 00:04:16,055 --> 00:04:18,058 99% OF THE THINGS THAT I OWN 79 00:04:18,058 --> 00:04:20,027 HAVE COME FROM A RUMMAGE SALE, 80 00:04:20,027 --> 00:04:22,330 YARD SALE, GARAGE SALE, ALONG 81 00:04:22,330 --> 00:04:23,831 THE STREET, GOODWILL. 82 00:04:23,831 --> 00:04:26,066 I'VE STOPPED AT MORE THAN ONE 83 00:04:26,066 --> 00:04:27,968 TRASH PILE AND PICKED STUFF OUT 84 00:04:27,968 --> 00:04:33,040 OF IT. 85 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:35,008 >> I'M MICHELLE, AND I'M BETTY'S 86 00:04:35,008 --> 00:04:36,877 DAUGHTER. 87 00:04:36,877 --> 00:04:39,313 MY MOM'S HOME THAT SHE'S 88 00:04:39,313 --> 00:04:41,849 CURRENTLY LIVING IN IS WHAT I 89 00:04:41,849 --> 00:04:43,817 WOULD CONSIDER AN ABSOLUTE 90 00:04:43,817 --> 00:04:47,020 DISASTER AREA. 91 00:04:47,020 --> 00:04:49,056 NO ONE SHOULD BE LIVING IN THE 92 00:04:49,056 --> 00:04:49,523 HOME. 93 00:04:49,523 --> 00:04:51,492 IT'S NOT SAFE. 94 00:04:51,492 --> 00:04:52,860 IT'S NOT SANITARY. 95 00:04:52,860 --> 00:04:55,763 IT IS A STOCKPILE FOR EVERYTHING 96 00:04:55,763 --> 00:04:57,898 UNDER THE SUN. 97 00:05:05,906 --> 00:05:07,641 >> I'M LIKE MY MOM. 98 00:05:07,641 --> 00:05:08,876 I'VE GOT THE BUG NOW. 99 00:05:08,876 --> 00:05:10,611 IF I DIDN'T HAVE IT BEFORE, I'VE 100 00:05:10,611 --> 00:05:12,079 GOT IT NOW, I THINK. 101 00:05:12,079 --> 00:05:14,715 IF I BUY SOMETHING, IT'S HAD TO 102 00:05:14,715 --> 00:05:18,386 HAVE GIVEN ME A THRILL OR IT WAS 103 00:05:18,386 --> 00:05:20,688 PLEASING TO ME IN SOME WAY. 104 00:05:20,688 --> 00:05:24,792 AND FOR THAT REASON, I COLLECT 105 00:05:24,792 --> 00:05:26,360 IT, OR HOARD IT. 106 00:05:31,965 --> 00:05:33,967 >> WE TOOK POSSESSION OF THE 107 00:05:33,967 --> 00:05:36,437 HOUSE IN JUNE -- OR JUNE 1st -- 108 00:05:36,437 --> 00:05:38,606 AND SEPTEMBER 29th, IT CAUGHT 109 00:05:38,606 --> 00:05:39,940 FIRE. 110 00:05:39,940 --> 00:05:44,077 IT WAS CLUTTERED, AS IT IS NOW. 111 00:05:44,077 --> 00:05:45,513 >> THE STORY I GOT, AND WHAT THE 112 00:05:45,513 --> 00:05:47,147 FIRE DEPARTMENT CAME UP WITH IS, 113 00:05:47,147 --> 00:05:48,682 TRIESTE WAS SMOKING IN THE 114 00:05:48,682 --> 00:05:50,951 HOUSE, AND THAT'S HOW IT 115 00:05:50,951 --> 00:05:52,753 STARTED. 116 00:05:52,753 --> 00:05:54,422 >> I ARRIVED AT THE HOUSE AND 117 00:05:54,422 --> 00:05:56,557 FOUND OUT THAT MY FATHER WAS NOT 118 00:05:56,557 --> 00:05:58,559 BREATHING. 119 00:05:58,559 --> 00:06:00,093 AND THE SQUAD CAME, AND THEY 120 00:06:00,093 --> 00:06:01,862 COULDN'T GET A GURNEY IN TO GET 121 00:06:01,862 --> 00:06:03,397 HIM, SO THEY HAD TO CARRY HIM 122 00:06:03,397 --> 00:06:05,032 OUT. 123 00:06:05,032 --> 00:06:07,735 >> THEY WERE HERE AND SAW IT AND 124 00:06:07,735 --> 00:06:08,836 REPORTED IT. 125 00:06:08,836 --> 00:06:11,939 >> ADULT PROTECTIVE SERVICES HAS 126 00:06:11,939 --> 00:06:15,543 BECOME INVOLVED. 127 00:06:15,543 --> 00:06:17,511 THE CONDITIONS ARE SUCH THAT MY 128 00:06:17,511 --> 00:06:19,880 FATHER, GIVEN HIS HEALTH, IS NOT 129 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:22,550 ABLE TO BE IN THE HOME. 130 00:06:22,550 --> 00:06:27,020 [ SNIFFLES ] 131 00:06:27,020 --> 00:06:29,089 >> IT'S AN ACCESS THING. 132 00:06:41,669 --> 00:06:45,138 >> I'VE BEEN OUT OF MY HOME FOR 133 00:06:45,138 --> 00:06:48,442 ABOUT TWO MONTHS. 134 00:06:48,442 --> 00:06:49,943 >> I'VE RUN OUT OF MONEY AND 135 00:06:49,943 --> 00:06:51,812 DON'T HAVE THE MONEY TO PAY FOR 136 00:06:51,812 --> 00:06:53,614 ANY MORE MOTEL STAY. 137 00:07:00,988 --> 00:07:04,057 UH, I NEED -- I NEED HELP. 138 00:07:12,099 --> 00:07:15,703 >> MY NAME IS TARA SMITH, AND I 139 00:07:15,703 --> 00:07:17,738 MOVED HERE IN ABOUT 2003. 140 00:07:17,738 --> 00:07:18,972 OH, THERE'S THE INFORMATION. 141 00:07:18,972 --> 00:07:20,541 I KNEW I HAD IT SOMEWHERE. 142 00:07:20,541 --> 00:07:22,476 WHEN I FIRST MOVED IN, IT WAS 143 00:07:22,476 --> 00:07:23,644 JUST MOSTLY BOXES 'CAUSE I WAS 144 00:07:23,644 --> 00:07:24,144 MOVING IN. 145 00:07:24,144 --> 00:07:25,546 EVERYTHING WAS PACKED. 146 00:07:25,546 --> 00:07:27,147 THEN WE TRIED TO UNPACK IT, BUT 147 00:07:27,147 --> 00:07:29,082 THEN EVERYTHING JUST GOT PUT 148 00:07:29,082 --> 00:07:31,719 WHEREVER. 149 00:07:31,719 --> 00:07:33,987 IT GOT TO WHERE THERE WAS TOO 150 00:07:33,987 --> 00:07:35,756 MUCH STUFF BECAUSE THE WHOLE 151 00:07:35,756 --> 00:07:37,090 GARAGE WAS FILLED. 152 00:07:37,090 --> 00:07:40,060 AND THEN THE SECOND BEDROOM GOT 153 00:07:40,060 --> 00:07:42,763 FILLED, SO I GOT NERVOUS, AND I 154 00:07:42,763 --> 00:07:45,699 RENTED ANOTHER LITTLE STORAGE. 155 00:07:45,699 --> 00:07:48,669 BUT AS YOU PUT THINGS IN BOXES, 156 00:07:48,669 --> 00:07:50,638 NOTHING HAD A HOME. 157 00:07:53,741 --> 00:07:56,076 MY MOTHER, SHE HAD A ONE-BEDROOM 158 00:07:56,076 --> 00:07:57,010 APARTMENT. 159 00:07:57,010 --> 00:07:59,513 WE ALL SLEPT IN THE SAME BED, 160 00:07:59,513 --> 00:08:01,248 AND IT WAS JUST REALLY CROWDED. 161 00:08:01,248 --> 00:08:02,950 IT WAS JUST A LOT OF STUFF. 162 00:08:02,950 --> 00:08:04,518 I GUESS I THOUGHT THAT WAS 163 00:08:04,518 --> 00:08:04,918 NORMAL. 164 00:08:04,918 --> 00:08:06,854 EVEN THOUGH I HATED IT, I THINK 165 00:08:06,854 --> 00:08:09,990 I CARRIED THAT, ALSO, INTO MY 166 00:08:09,990 --> 00:08:11,792 YOUNG ADULT WHEN I GOT MY FIRST 167 00:08:11,792 --> 00:08:12,860 LITTLE APARTMENT. 168 00:08:12,860 --> 00:08:15,162 I DIDN'T REALLY KNOW HOW A HOUSE 169 00:08:15,162 --> 00:08:16,964 WAS SUPPOSED TO BE. 170 00:08:16,964 --> 00:08:19,533 AND THEN I THINK ONLY JUST IN 171 00:08:19,533 --> 00:08:21,835 THIS LAST MAYBE 10, LESS THAN 15 172 00:08:21,835 --> 00:08:25,606 YEARS, I REALIZED THAT THIS IS 173 00:08:25,606 --> 00:08:27,174 NOT THE WAY PEOPLE LIVE. 174 00:08:27,174 --> 00:08:29,743 I MEAN, EVERYTHING HAS A HOME, 175 00:08:29,743 --> 00:08:31,545 AND IN MY CASE, NOTHING HAS A 176 00:08:31,545 --> 00:08:34,847 HOME. 177 00:08:34,847 --> 00:08:36,316 I NEVER LEARNED HOW TO ORGANIZE. 178 00:08:36,316 --> 00:08:38,085 I JUST KNOW EVERYTHING GOES IN A 179 00:08:38,085 --> 00:08:38,318 BOX. 180 00:08:38,318 --> 00:08:41,121 THAT'S ALL I KNOW. 181 00:08:48,562 --> 00:08:49,963 >> I'M ROCHELLE MAURER, AND I'M 182 00:08:49,963 --> 00:08:51,732 A FIRE INSPECTOR WITH THE 183 00:08:51,732 --> 00:08:52,866 TORRANCE FIRE DEPARTMENT. 184 00:08:52,866 --> 00:08:54,835 HOARDING IS HUGE. 185 00:08:54,835 --> 00:08:56,269 IT'S VERY EPIDEMIC. 186 00:08:56,269 --> 00:08:57,838 WE'RE SEEING QUITE A FEW CASES, 187 00:08:57,838 --> 00:08:59,673 AT LEAST ONE TO TWO A WEEK, THAT 188 00:08:59,673 --> 00:09:01,775 WE GET CALLS ON FOR THE HOARDERS 189 00:09:01,775 --> 00:09:03,343 OR PACK RATS OR CONCERNS FROM 190 00:09:03,343 --> 00:09:07,247 NEIGHBORS OR FAMILY MEMBERS. 191 00:09:07,247 --> 00:09:09,983 >> SOMEONE DID CALL ON ME. 192 00:09:09,983 --> 00:09:11,318 IN ALL THE YEARS THAT I'VE EVER 193 00:09:11,318 --> 00:09:13,253 LIVED IN A PLACE, I'VE NEVER HAD 194 00:09:13,253 --> 00:09:14,622 ANYBODY EVER CALL ON ME. 195 00:09:14,622 --> 00:09:16,757 AND, SUPPOSEDLY, THEY CAME, AND 196 00:09:16,757 --> 00:09:18,992 THEY LOOKED IN THE WINDOW. 197 00:09:18,992 --> 00:09:20,794 I WAS CRUSHED. 198 00:09:20,794 --> 00:09:22,229 I HAD SUCH A PANIC. 199 00:09:22,229 --> 00:09:24,932 I ALWAYS FELT LIKE IF JESUS CAME 200 00:09:24,932 --> 00:09:27,701 TO THE DOOR, I COULDN'T OPEN THE 201 00:09:27,701 --> 00:09:29,336 DOOR BECAUSE I WOULD HAVE BEEN 202 00:09:29,336 --> 00:09:30,170 SO ASHAMED. 203 00:09:30,170 --> 00:09:32,606 I WOULD HAVE FELT LIKE I WASN'T 204 00:09:32,606 --> 00:09:33,373 SHOWING GRATEFULNESS AND 205 00:09:33,373 --> 00:09:35,843 APPRECIATIVENESS. 206 00:09:35,843 --> 00:09:37,611 [ SOBS ] 207 00:09:44,284 --> 00:09:45,719 >> MY NAME IS GINA VELASQUEZ, 208 00:09:45,719 --> 00:09:46,920 AND I'VE BEEN FRIENDS WITH TARA 209 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:49,356 FOR 16 YEARS NOW. 210 00:09:49,356 --> 00:09:51,725 TARA LOVES COLLECTIBLES, AND IF 211 00:09:51,725 --> 00:09:54,027 SOMETHING SAYS "LIMITED EDITION" 212 00:09:54,027 --> 00:09:56,196 OR "1 OF 40," SHE MAKES SURE 213 00:09:56,196 --> 00:09:58,398 THAT SHE DOES EVERYTHING SHE CAN 214 00:09:58,398 --> 00:10:00,400 TO COLLECT ALL OF THEM. 215 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,103 THAT'S ONE THING THAT IS A TRAP 216 00:10:03,103 --> 00:10:04,337 FOR HER. 217 00:10:04,337 --> 00:10:06,874 >> I WOULD COLLECT McDONALD'S. 218 00:10:06,874 --> 00:10:09,743 I LOVE McDONALD'S SPECIAL TOYS. 219 00:10:09,743 --> 00:10:11,645 OH, AND I DO COLLECT NATIVITY 220 00:10:11,645 --> 00:10:13,413 SCENES, SO I DO HAVE A BUNCH OF 221 00:10:13,413 --> 00:10:13,914 THOSE. 222 00:10:13,914 --> 00:10:15,348 >> SHE'S GOT EASTER, SHE'S GOT 223 00:10:15,348 --> 00:10:16,383 HALLOWEEN, SHE'S GOT 224 00:10:16,383 --> 00:10:18,686 MOTHER'S DAY STUFF THAT SHE'S 225 00:10:18,686 --> 00:10:20,187 COLLECTED ALONG THE WAY. 226 00:10:20,187 --> 00:10:23,056 SHE COLLECTS CARTOON STRIPS FROM 227 00:10:23,056 --> 00:10:25,025 THE NEWSPAPER, AND IF YOU THROW 228 00:10:25,025 --> 00:10:26,994 IT AWAY, IT ROCKS HER WORLD. 229 00:10:26,994 --> 00:10:28,762 >> [ SNIFFLES ] 230 00:10:28,762 --> 00:10:30,764 I HAVE A LOVE FOR TEDDY BEARS. 231 00:10:30,764 --> 00:10:32,432 [ CHUCKLES ] 232 00:10:32,432 --> 00:10:34,334 IT'S A DOLLAR, AND IT'S CUTE. 233 00:10:34,334 --> 00:10:36,169 HE HAS A CUTE FACE, AND IT SAYS, 234 00:10:36,169 --> 00:10:37,771 "WILD ABOUT YOU." 235 00:10:37,771 --> 00:10:38,939 AND I DO -- I LOVE HIM. 236 00:10:38,939 --> 00:10:41,041 AS A CHILD, THAT WAS THE ONE 237 00:10:41,041 --> 00:10:43,376 THING THAT I HAD THAT I COULD 238 00:10:43,376 --> 00:10:45,345 SOMETIMES SHARE MY SECRETS WITH 239 00:10:45,345 --> 00:10:47,147 AND I COULD CRY. 240 00:10:47,147 --> 00:10:49,817 IT TAKES ALL YOUR PAIN AND YOUR 241 00:10:49,817 --> 00:10:52,920 HURT AND YOUR TEARS, AND IT 242 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:54,688 DOESN'T CARE. 243 00:10:54,688 --> 00:10:57,224 BUT IT HOLDS THEM ALL SAFE FOR 244 00:10:57,224 --> 00:10:57,758 YOU. 245 00:10:57,758 --> 00:11:00,193 AND I JUST WOULD COLLECT THE 246 00:11:00,193 --> 00:11:02,295 DIFFERENT TYPES OF BEARS, AND 247 00:11:02,295 --> 00:11:04,131 YOU CAN'T HAVE AN OVERABUNDANCE, 248 00:11:04,131 --> 00:11:06,199 AND SO I THINK I MIGHT HAVE HAD 249 00:11:06,199 --> 00:11:08,736 A LITTLE TOO MANY. 250 00:11:08,736 --> 00:11:09,770 WHEN YOU CARE ABOUT SOMETHING, 251 00:11:09,770 --> 00:11:11,438 YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO DISPLAY IT. 252 00:11:11,438 --> 00:11:13,240 BUT THIS IS NOT DISPLAYING IT IF 253 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:15,442 IT'S JUST AMONGST YOUR CLUTTER. 254 00:11:15,442 --> 00:11:17,811 NOTHING HAS A HOME. 255 00:11:17,811 --> 00:11:19,412 NOTHING -- NOTHING... 256 00:11:19,412 --> 00:11:21,815 EVERYTHING HAS TO BE KIND OF 257 00:11:21,815 --> 00:11:23,216 OUT -- OUT. 258 00:11:23,216 --> 00:11:26,219 IT'S JUST THERE FOR PEOPLE TO 259 00:11:26,219 --> 00:11:28,055 SEE. 260 00:11:35,896 --> 00:11:38,331 >> I WOULD NOT CLASSIFY MYSELF 261 00:11:38,331 --> 00:11:39,332 AS A HOARDER. 262 00:11:39,332 --> 00:11:41,134 I CONSIDER MYSELF MORE OF A 263 00:11:41,134 --> 00:11:45,472 SAVER, A RESCUER OF THINGS. 264 00:11:49,509 --> 00:11:51,745 I'M SURE MY CHILDREN WOULD SAY 265 00:11:51,745 --> 00:11:52,780 I'M A HOARDER. 266 00:11:52,780 --> 00:11:54,114 I ALREADY KNOW THAT MICHELLE 267 00:11:54,114 --> 00:11:56,950 THINKS I'M ONE. 268 00:11:56,950 --> 00:11:59,419 >> IF MY MOTHER'S NOT DEFINED AS 269 00:11:59,419 --> 00:12:01,188 A HOARDER, I DON'T KNOW WHO 270 00:12:01,188 --> 00:12:03,090 WOULD BE. 271 00:12:16,336 --> 00:12:18,806 >> DAD CAN'T LIVE THERE. 272 00:12:18,806 --> 00:12:20,507 MOM SHOULDN'T LIVE THERE, 273 00:12:20,507 --> 00:12:21,809 TRIESTE SHOULDN'T LIVE THERE. 274 00:12:21,809 --> 00:12:23,176 THE ANIMALS SHOULDN'T BE FORCED 275 00:12:23,176 --> 00:12:24,211 TO LIVE THERE... 276 00:12:24,211 --> 00:12:24,978 [ CAT MEOWS ] 277 00:12:24,978 --> 00:12:26,346 ...IN THE CONDITION THAT IT'S 278 00:12:26,346 --> 00:12:26,814 IN. 279 00:12:26,814 --> 00:12:28,215 [ CAT MEOWS ] 280 00:12:28,215 --> 00:12:29,516 >> I KNOW MOM DID THE BEST SHE 281 00:12:29,516 --> 00:12:32,052 COULD, BUT I JUST WISH IT COULD 282 00:12:32,052 --> 00:12:32,986 HAVE BEEN BETTER. 283 00:12:32,986 --> 00:12:34,888 LET'S PUT IT THAT WAY. 284 00:12:34,888 --> 00:12:36,223 >> THEY'RE NOT KIDDING WHEN THEY 285 00:12:36,223 --> 00:12:37,557 SEND A LETTER THAT SAYS YOU NEED 286 00:12:37,557 --> 00:12:39,192 TO CLEAN UP YOUR YARD AND YOU'RE 287 00:12:39,192 --> 00:12:43,964 VIOLATING A CITY ORDINANCE. 288 00:12:43,964 --> 00:12:45,398 >> I'M SURE SHE FEELS THAT IT 289 00:12:45,398 --> 00:12:46,834 WILL CONTINUE. 290 00:12:46,834 --> 00:12:49,069 AND SHE'S NOT TOTALLY WRONG IN 291 00:12:49,069 --> 00:12:51,071 THAT BECAUSE I CAN GUARANTEE YOU 292 00:12:51,071 --> 00:12:53,240 THAT I WILL NOT GIVE UP GOING TO 293 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:55,408 YARD SALES OR RUMMAGE SALES OR 294 00:12:55,408 --> 00:12:59,279 FLEA MARKETS BECAUSE IT'S FUN, I 295 00:12:59,279 --> 00:13:01,348 GET ENJOYMENT OUT OF IT, AND I 296 00:13:01,348 --> 00:13:03,383 HAVE VERY LITTLE IN LIFE TO 297 00:13:03,383 --> 00:13:04,417 ENJOY. 298 00:13:07,054 --> 00:13:12,259 [ KNOCK ON DOOR ] 299 00:13:12,259 --> 00:13:13,093 >> HELLO. 300 00:13:13,093 --> 00:13:13,927 >> BETTY, IT'S DOROTHY. 301 00:13:13,927 --> 00:13:16,129 GOOD TO MEET YOU. 302 00:13:16,129 --> 00:13:17,998 >> GOOD TO MEET YOU. 303 00:13:17,998 --> 00:13:19,499 >> THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME 304 00:13:19,499 --> 00:13:20,500 COME. 305 00:13:20,500 --> 00:13:22,202 I AM DOROTHY BREININGER, AND I'M 306 00:13:22,202 --> 00:13:24,304 AN EXPERT ON HOARDING. 307 00:13:24,304 --> 00:13:26,473 IF YOU HAD A LIVING ROOM THAT 308 00:13:26,473 --> 00:13:28,475 WAS JUST COMPLETELY CLEAR AND 309 00:13:28,475 --> 00:13:30,477 FINALLY DECORATED, DOES THAT 310 00:13:30,477 --> 00:13:32,980 APPEAL TO YOU, OR THIS SOMETHING 311 00:13:32,980 --> 00:13:34,447 MORE COMFORTABLE? 312 00:13:34,447 --> 00:13:36,249 >> IF I COULD HAVE THE HOUSE ANY 313 00:13:36,249 --> 00:13:39,052 WAY I WANTED IT, IT WOULD LOOK 314 00:13:39,052 --> 00:13:41,321 MUCH MORE NORMAL. 315 00:13:41,321 --> 00:13:43,924 I HAVE A RUG THAT WE GOT AT AN 316 00:13:43,924 --> 00:13:46,359 AUCTION, UPSTAIRS, ROLLED UP, 317 00:13:46,359 --> 00:13:47,928 READY TO COME IN. 318 00:13:47,928 --> 00:13:49,529 WELL, I GUESS THAT I'D WANT TO 319 00:13:49,529 --> 00:13:51,131 PUT THE SEWING MACHINE IN FRONT 320 00:13:51,131 --> 00:13:52,465 OF THE WINDOWS, WHERE I CAN SIT 321 00:13:52,465 --> 00:13:53,333 THERE AND SEW. 322 00:13:53,333 --> 00:13:55,068 WE'VE GOT A REALLY NICE 323 00:13:55,068 --> 00:13:56,636 QUEEN-SIZE MATTRESS THAT I GOT 324 00:13:56,636 --> 00:13:57,871 FOR 200 BUCKS. 325 00:13:57,871 --> 00:13:59,940 IT'S GOING TO GO IN THE BEDROOM. 326 00:13:59,940 --> 00:14:01,875 TRIM AROUND THE TOP, AND I MAY 327 00:14:01,875 --> 00:14:03,376 PUT A BORDER AROUND HERE. 328 00:14:03,376 --> 00:14:04,577 I'VE GOT A GOOD PLAN. 329 00:14:04,577 --> 00:14:06,546 THAT'S ONE REASON I RESENT THIS 330 00:14:06,546 --> 00:14:08,015 ORGANIZER THING, BUT I'M WILLING 331 00:14:08,015 --> 00:14:09,616 TO GO ALONG WITH IT 'CAUSE SHE 332 00:14:09,616 --> 00:14:11,251 MAY HAVE IDEAS THAT I HADN'T 333 00:14:11,251 --> 00:14:13,186 THOUGHT OF OR WOULD BE ABLE TO 334 00:14:13,186 --> 00:14:13,553 USE. 335 00:14:13,553 --> 00:14:14,554 THERE MAY BE SOMETHING SHE 336 00:14:14,554 --> 00:14:16,456 SUGGESTS THAT I WOULD JUST SAY 337 00:14:16,456 --> 00:14:16,656 NO TO. 338 00:14:16,656 --> 00:14:18,892 >> LIKE, DO WE CLEAR THIS OUT, 339 00:14:18,892 --> 00:14:20,660 OR ARE YOU FOLKS USING IT? 340 00:14:20,660 --> 00:14:23,396 >> IT'S PERFUMES, LOTIONS... 341 00:14:23,396 --> 00:14:24,197 >> YEAH. 342 00:14:24,197 --> 00:14:25,565 >> ...STUFF THAT I'D WANTED TO 343 00:14:25,565 --> 00:14:26,666 SAVE. 344 00:14:26,666 --> 00:14:28,468 [ SIGHS ] 345 00:14:28,468 --> 00:14:30,470 GIVEN THE SITUATION, I'M GOING 346 00:14:30,470 --> 00:14:33,907 TO HAVE TO ACCEPT WHATEVER SHE 347 00:14:33,907 --> 00:14:35,142 SUGGESTS. 348 00:14:35,142 --> 00:14:40,914 BUT IT IS RESENTFUL TO ME TO 349 00:14:40,914 --> 00:14:42,549 FINALLY BE ABLE TO HAVE A 350 00:14:42,549 --> 00:14:45,085 SITUATION WHERE I CAN HAVE WHAT 351 00:14:45,085 --> 00:14:47,554 I WANT AND DO WHAT I WANT AND 352 00:14:47,554 --> 00:14:50,023 THEN HAVE TO BE TOLD WHAT TO DO 353 00:14:50,023 --> 00:14:50,991 AND HOW TO DO IT. 354 00:14:50,991 --> 00:14:52,960 IT'S NOT BOTHERING ANYBODY, IT'S 355 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:54,527 NOT IN THE ROAD, NOBODY HAS TO 356 00:14:54,527 --> 00:14:55,695 WALK AROUND IT. 357 00:14:55,695 --> 00:14:58,131 >> YOU KNOW, BETTY WANTS TO BE 358 00:14:58,131 --> 00:15:00,433 IN CONTROL, AND I'M STEPPING IN, 359 00:15:00,433 --> 00:15:02,235 WANTING TO HAVE CONTROL. 360 00:15:02,235 --> 00:15:03,336 BUT I KNOW I CAN'T. 361 00:15:03,336 --> 00:15:04,337 THEN YOU KNOW WHAT? 362 00:15:04,337 --> 00:15:05,405 WE DON'T HAVE TO ARGUE. 363 00:15:05,405 --> 00:15:06,306 YOU'RE CORRECT. 364 00:15:06,306 --> 00:15:07,574 SHE'S GOING TO CALL THE SHOTS. 365 00:15:07,574 --> 00:15:09,076 I'M GOING TO ASK PERMISSION A 366 00:15:09,076 --> 00:15:09,309 LOT. 367 00:15:09,309 --> 00:15:10,410 I JUST AGREED WITH YOU. 368 00:15:10,410 --> 00:15:11,945 YOU DON'T HAVE TO EVEN DEFEND IT 369 00:15:11,945 --> 00:15:12,579 ANOTHER MINUTE. 370 00:15:12,579 --> 00:15:14,614 THERE IS NOTHING I CAN DO TO 371 00:15:14,614 --> 00:15:17,050 CONVINCE BETTY THAT SHE NEEDS TO 372 00:15:17,050 --> 00:15:18,685 THROW SOMETHING AWAY. 373 00:15:18,685 --> 00:15:22,089 SHE DOES NOT WANT ME TO HAVE 374 00:15:22,089 --> 00:15:23,590 THAT KIND OF SAY, AND I HAVE TO 375 00:15:23,590 --> 00:15:26,026 HONOR THAT. 376 00:15:26,026 --> 00:15:27,995 COULD YOU PICK OUT FIVE ITEMS 377 00:15:27,995 --> 00:15:31,331 THAT YOU WOULD CONSIDER LETTING 378 00:15:31,331 --> 00:15:32,732 GO OF? 379 00:15:32,732 --> 00:15:37,537 >> WELL, IT'S MOSTLY JUNK, LIKE 380 00:15:37,537 --> 00:15:40,974 NEWSPAPERS AND A WHOLE BUNCH OF 381 00:15:40,974 --> 00:15:44,111 CLOTHES -- JUST ITEMS THAT SHE 382 00:15:44,111 --> 00:15:45,612 WANTS TO KEEP. 383 00:15:45,612 --> 00:15:47,714 >> HIS SOLUTION WOULD BE JUST TO 384 00:15:47,714 --> 00:15:49,649 THROW EVERYTHING AWAY AND NOT 385 00:15:49,649 --> 00:15:51,751 SAVE WHAT IS VALUABLE OR 386 00:15:51,751 --> 00:15:54,054 SENTIMENTAL OR USEFUL. 387 00:15:54,054 --> 00:15:55,555 DOESN'T MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE WHAT 388 00:15:55,555 --> 00:15:57,390 IT IS, WHAT IT MEANT TO ME -- 389 00:15:57,390 --> 00:15:58,358 OUT IT GOES. 390 00:15:58,358 --> 00:16:01,128 >> IT'S WORTH SOMETHING, BUT IT 391 00:16:01,128 --> 00:16:03,763 AIN'T WORTH GOING TO JAIL OR 392 00:16:03,763 --> 00:16:07,000 GETTING FINED OVER. 393 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:09,202 >> I KNOW THAT BETTY AND CHARLIE 394 00:16:09,202 --> 00:16:11,004 HAVE HAD A HISTORY THAT HAS BEEN 395 00:16:11,004 --> 00:16:14,441 VERY DIFFICULT AND VERY 396 00:16:14,441 --> 00:16:16,143 PAINFUL. 397 00:16:16,143 --> 00:16:19,412 AND HERE IT IS COURT-ORDERED 398 00:16:19,412 --> 00:16:20,713 THAT SHE'S GOT TO CLEAN UP THE 399 00:16:20,713 --> 00:16:22,382 HOUSE SO THAT SHE CAN BRING HER 400 00:16:22,382 --> 00:16:23,583 HUSBAND HOME. 401 00:16:23,583 --> 00:16:25,352 AND I WONDER, DOES SHE WANT TO? 402 00:16:25,352 --> 00:16:26,686 READY FOR A BIG DAY? 403 00:16:26,686 --> 00:16:29,122 >> OH, GOD, I JUST CAN'T HARDLY 404 00:16:29,122 --> 00:16:29,722 WAIT. 405 00:16:29,722 --> 00:16:31,424 >> IS THAT REAL, OR IS THAT 406 00:16:31,424 --> 00:16:32,359 SARCASM? 407 00:16:32,359 --> 00:16:33,526 >> THAT'S A WHOLE LOT OF 408 00:16:33,526 --> 00:16:34,561 SARCASM. 409 00:16:34,561 --> 00:16:35,395 >> OKAY. GREAT. 410 00:16:35,395 --> 00:16:36,163 [ LAUGHS ] 411 00:16:36,163 --> 00:16:38,698 >> AND I REALLY AM GOING TO BE 412 00:16:38,698 --> 00:16:41,068 MORE WILLING TO FIGHT FOR WHAT I 413 00:16:41,068 --> 00:16:43,503 WANT AND WHAT I WANT TO KEEP AND 414 00:16:43,503 --> 00:16:46,173 WHAT I WANT TO SAVE THAN 415 00:16:46,173 --> 00:16:49,576 PROBABLY I EVER HAVE BEFORE. 416 00:16:49,576 --> 00:16:51,144 >> WELL, I'M READY, SO LET'S GO. 417 00:16:51,144 --> 00:16:52,245 >> OKAY. 418 00:16:52,245 --> 00:16:54,581 >> IT'S ALL FOR NAUGHT. 419 00:16:54,581 --> 00:16:56,283 NOTHING'S EVER GONNA GET BETTER. 420 00:16:56,283 --> 00:16:59,086 I JUST DON'T SEE IT HAPPENING. 421 00:17:07,627 --> 00:17:09,662 >> I JUST STARTED ASKING GOD 422 00:17:09,662 --> 00:17:11,798 THAT I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT 423 00:17:11,798 --> 00:17:13,766 IT WOULD BE LIKE TO HAVE AN 424 00:17:13,766 --> 00:17:15,568 ORGANIZED HOME... 425 00:17:15,568 --> 00:17:19,672 THIS ONE'S STILL GOOD. 426 00:17:19,672 --> 00:17:21,508 ...THAT A BED LOOKS LIKE A BED 427 00:17:21,508 --> 00:17:23,276 WITH PILLOWS ON IT AND YOUR 428 00:17:23,276 --> 00:17:25,178 TABLE DOESN'T HAVE STUFF ON IT. 429 00:17:25,178 --> 00:17:26,613 IT KIND OF HAS A SETTING. 430 00:17:26,613 --> 00:17:28,548 AND THE COUCH -- YOU CAN SIT ON 431 00:17:28,548 --> 00:17:28,848 IT. 432 00:17:28,848 --> 00:17:32,219 PEOPLE CAN COME. 433 00:17:32,219 --> 00:17:35,655 [ EXHALES SHARPLY ] 434 00:17:35,655 --> 00:17:40,093 SEE, I FEEL OVERWHELMED. 435 00:17:40,093 --> 00:17:42,095 MY THREE DEAREST FRIENDS AND 436 00:17:42,095 --> 00:17:43,663 THEIR HUSBANDS HAVE TRIED TO 437 00:17:43,663 --> 00:17:44,764 HELP ME. 438 00:17:44,764 --> 00:17:46,833 >> THE FIRST TIME I WALKED IN, I 439 00:17:46,833 --> 00:17:50,470 WAS PRETTY MUCH, "WOW." 440 00:17:50,470 --> 00:17:51,738 YOU KNOW, THERE WAS A LOT OF 441 00:17:51,738 --> 00:17:53,306 STUFF, AND IT WAS A LITTLE 442 00:17:53,306 --> 00:17:54,341 OVERWHELMING. 443 00:17:54,341 --> 00:17:55,875 AND I COULDN'T UNDERSTAND HOW 444 00:17:55,875 --> 00:17:57,777 SHE WAS ABLE TO LIVE IN THE 445 00:17:57,777 --> 00:17:59,712 HOUSE. 446 00:17:59,712 --> 00:18:01,514 >> WELL, I'VE FINALLY COME TO 447 00:18:01,514 --> 00:18:02,715 THE REALIZATION I HAVE TOO MUCH 448 00:18:02,715 --> 00:18:03,550 STUFF. 449 00:18:03,550 --> 00:18:05,352 IT'S JUST TOO MUCH. 450 00:18:05,352 --> 00:18:07,687 AND I TOLD GOD THAT I JUST HAVE 451 00:18:07,687 --> 00:18:10,357 THIS ONE WISH AND THIS ONE DREAM 452 00:18:10,357 --> 00:18:12,359 THAT, "LORD, YOU JUST SEND 453 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:14,394 SOMEONE TO HELP ME." 454 00:18:28,541 --> 00:18:31,278 HI. 455 00:18:31,278 --> 00:18:32,412 >> HOW ARE YOU DOING? 456 00:18:32,412 --> 00:18:33,513 >> GOOD, THANK YOU. 457 00:18:33,513 --> 00:18:34,714 YOU'LL HAVE TO PARDON -- MY 458 00:18:34,714 --> 00:18:35,748 FRIENDS HAVE BEEN HERE. 459 00:18:35,748 --> 00:18:36,716 NICE TO MEET YOU. 460 00:18:36,716 --> 00:18:38,385 >> OH, IT'S GREAT TO MEET YOU. 461 00:18:38,385 --> 00:18:39,419 I'M BRENDEN McDANIEL. 462 00:18:39,419 --> 00:18:41,854 I'M A PROFESSIONAL ORGANIZER WHO 463 00:18:41,854 --> 00:18:43,723 SPECIALIZES IN WORKING WITH 464 00:18:43,723 --> 00:18:45,425 HOARDERS AND PEOPLE WITH 465 00:18:45,425 --> 00:18:47,294 CHALLENGING SITUATIONS IN THEIR 466 00:18:47,294 --> 00:18:48,261 LIVES. 467 00:18:48,261 --> 00:18:50,197 WELL, WHY DON'T YOU GIVE ME A 468 00:18:50,197 --> 00:18:51,831 LITTLE TOUR AND SHOW ME, YOU 469 00:18:51,831 --> 00:18:53,500 KNOW, SOME THINGS THAT ARE 470 00:18:53,500 --> 00:18:53,900 BOTHERING YOU? 471 00:18:53,900 --> 00:18:56,403 MY MOTHER WAS A HOARDER. 472 00:18:56,403 --> 00:18:58,705 SHE ENDED UP TAKING HER OWN LIFE 473 00:18:58,705 --> 00:19:01,308 BECAUSE OF BEING DEPRESSED. 474 00:19:01,308 --> 00:19:02,709 WHERE DO YOU SIT WHEN YOU WANT 475 00:19:02,709 --> 00:19:03,543 TO WATCH TELEVISION? 476 00:19:03,543 --> 00:19:04,544 >> THAT WOULD BE RIGHT THERE. 477 00:19:04,544 --> 00:19:05,378 >> RIGHT HERE, OKAY. 478 00:19:05,378 --> 00:19:06,279 >> YEAH, YEAH. 479 00:19:06,279 --> 00:19:09,316 >> PERHAPS I'M HELPING MY MOTHER 480 00:19:09,316 --> 00:19:11,184 NOW, DOING THIS. 481 00:19:11,184 --> 00:19:12,919 >> THE TV IS SUPPOSED TO BE IN 482 00:19:12,919 --> 00:19:13,720 THERE. 483 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:14,621 >> IS THAT YOUR GOAL? 484 00:19:14,621 --> 00:19:15,388 DO YOU WANT IT IN THERE? 485 00:19:15,388 --> 00:19:16,423 >> YES, IT WAS SUPPOSED TO GO IN 486 00:19:16,423 --> 00:19:16,856 THERE. 487 00:19:16,856 --> 00:19:17,624 >> WE'LL DO THAT. 488 00:19:17,624 --> 00:19:18,425 THAT'LL BE EASY. 489 00:19:18,425 --> 00:19:20,660 WITH HOARDING, YOU WALK INTO 490 00:19:20,660 --> 00:19:22,895 THEIR HOMES, AND IT'S PACKED 491 00:19:22,895 --> 00:19:24,431 FLOOR TO CEILING. 492 00:19:24,431 --> 00:19:25,798 >> THIS IS THE ONE THAT IS THE 493 00:19:25,798 --> 00:19:27,767 MOST -- NEXT TO THE LIVING ROOM, 494 00:19:27,767 --> 00:19:29,569 THIS IS THE MOST UPSETTING. 495 00:19:29,569 --> 00:19:30,903 >> AND THIS IS WHERE THEY HAVE 496 00:19:30,903 --> 00:19:32,572 THE IMMEDIATE NEED BECAUSE THEY 497 00:19:32,572 --> 00:19:33,940 COULD LOSE THEIR HOME. 498 00:19:33,940 --> 00:19:34,841 YOU'VE GOT A CLOSET. 499 00:19:34,841 --> 00:19:36,476 SO YOU KEEP MORE CLOTHES IN 500 00:19:36,476 --> 00:19:36,809 HERE, TOO? 501 00:19:36,809 --> 00:19:38,211 >> WELL, I HAVEN'T BEEN IN THERE 502 00:19:38,211 --> 00:19:38,578 SINCE -- 503 00:19:38,578 --> 00:19:39,612 >> FOR A WHILE? 504 00:19:39,612 --> 00:19:40,513 >> FIVE YEARS. 505 00:19:40,513 --> 00:19:41,714 >> OH, WELL, MAYBE SOME OF THOSE 506 00:19:41,714 --> 00:19:42,582 YOU CAN LET GO. 507 00:19:42,582 --> 00:19:43,816 >> 'CAUSE THIS DOOR WAS SHUT. 508 00:19:43,816 --> 00:19:46,886 >> OKAY. 509 00:19:46,886 --> 00:19:48,821 >> I REALIZE I HAVE TO LET SOME 510 00:19:48,821 --> 00:19:50,757 THINGS GO BECAUSE, HOW AM I 511 00:19:50,757 --> 00:19:53,326 GONNA EVER GET OUT OF THIS 512 00:19:53,326 --> 00:19:54,961 MAYHEM AND FOOLISHNESS IF I 513 00:19:54,961 --> 00:19:56,563 DON'T LET IT GO? 514 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:02,835 >> MY CAUTIONS ARE THAT IN 515 00:20:02,835 --> 00:20:04,937 CLEANING UP, I JUST FEEL LIKE 516 00:20:04,937 --> 00:20:06,939 TARA IS GONNA GET VERY, VERY 517 00:20:06,939 --> 00:20:08,308 EMOTIONAL ABOUT IT. 518 00:20:08,308 --> 00:20:10,543 YOU KNOW, THAT'S A LITTLE SCARY 519 00:20:10,543 --> 00:20:11,878 FOR ME. 520 00:20:11,878 --> 00:20:14,714 >> WITH THIS ONE, MAYBE THIS 521 00:20:14,714 --> 00:20:17,250 COULD GO TO A KID, YOU KNOW. 522 00:20:17,250 --> 00:20:18,585 >> YEAH, I COULD PUT IT IN MY 523 00:20:18,585 --> 00:20:19,652 GIFT BAG, MY GIFT BOX. 524 00:20:19,652 --> 00:20:20,653 >> SO THAT'S WHAT THIS IS? 525 00:20:20,653 --> 00:20:21,588 >> THAT'S WHAT THAT IS. 526 00:20:21,588 --> 00:20:23,923 YOU HAVE TO BE READY TO DO THE 527 00:20:23,923 --> 00:20:24,924 WORK. 528 00:20:24,924 --> 00:20:26,993 YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO LET IT 529 00:20:26,993 --> 00:20:29,762 GO BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T, IT WILL 530 00:20:29,762 --> 00:20:31,831 SWALLOW YOU UP. 531 00:20:38,838 --> 00:20:40,039 >> [ SIGHS ] 532 00:20:40,039 --> 00:20:41,274 >> MY MOM AND DAD CAN'T MOVE 533 00:20:41,274 --> 00:20:42,642 BACK IN THE HOUSE UNLESS THE 534 00:20:42,642 --> 00:20:43,910 HOUSE IS CLEAN, AND I MEAN 535 00:20:43,910 --> 00:20:45,712 CLEAN. 536 00:20:45,712 --> 00:20:47,547 AND I'M NOT QUITE SURE MY MOTHER 537 00:20:47,547 --> 00:20:49,849 UNDERSTANDS WHAT THAT REALLY 538 00:20:49,849 --> 00:20:51,918 MEANS. 539 00:20:51,918 --> 00:20:53,653 >> GRANDPA WAS A JUNKMAN, AND 540 00:20:53,653 --> 00:20:55,655 GRANDMA WAS A PACK RAT, SO SHE'S 541 00:20:55,655 --> 00:20:58,958 LIVED LIKE THIS ALL HER LIFE AND 542 00:20:58,958 --> 00:21:01,861 JUST HASN'T REALLY CHANGED. 543 00:21:01,861 --> 00:21:03,830 >> I'M ALREADY WORRIED ABOUT HOW 544 00:21:03,830 --> 00:21:05,832 IT'S GONNA BE HANDLED BECAUSE 545 00:21:05,832 --> 00:21:07,534 TWO OR THREE TRUCKS WOULD CARRY 546 00:21:07,534 --> 00:21:09,702 OUT EVERYTHING I'VE GOT IN THE 547 00:21:09,702 --> 00:21:10,903 HOUSE. 548 00:21:10,903 --> 00:21:13,039 I'M GOING TO DIG MY HEELS IN 549 00:21:13,039 --> 00:21:15,575 RIGHT NOW AND SAY THERE BETTER 550 00:21:15,575 --> 00:21:18,411 NOT BE THAT MUCH STUFF GOING OUT 551 00:21:18,411 --> 00:21:19,679 OF HERE. 552 00:21:19,679 --> 00:21:21,914 >> IF NOTHING GOES INTO ANY OF 553 00:21:21,914 --> 00:21:24,317 THE TRUCKS, IT'S FINE WITH ME. 554 00:21:24,317 --> 00:21:25,852 THIS IS YOUR HOME, THIS IS YOUR 555 00:21:25,852 --> 00:21:27,354 PROJECT, AND YOU'RE GONNA STAND 556 00:21:27,354 --> 00:21:28,855 YOUR GROUND, SO I CAN'T FIGHT 557 00:21:28,855 --> 00:21:29,789 YOU ON THAT. 558 00:21:29,789 --> 00:21:30,022 >> OKAY. 559 00:21:30,022 --> 00:21:31,658 I DON'T THINK I COULD PUT A GOOD 560 00:21:31,658 --> 00:21:33,626 ESTIMATE ON HOW MUCH IS JUNK AND 561 00:21:33,626 --> 00:21:38,331 HOW MUCH IS TREASURE UNTIL I 562 00:21:38,331 --> 00:21:39,832 HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT. 563 00:21:39,832 --> 00:21:41,601 I KNOW TWO DAYS ISN'T GOING TO 564 00:21:41,601 --> 00:21:43,503 BE ENOUGH TIME TO DO THAT. 565 00:21:51,010 --> 00:21:52,812 [ LAUGHS ] 566 00:21:52,812 --> 00:21:54,381 WOW. 567 00:21:54,381 --> 00:21:55,615 >> WHAT'S THE "WOW"? EXPLAIN. 568 00:21:55,615 --> 00:21:57,517 >> THERE'S SO MUCH TO DO. 569 00:22:10,062 --> 00:22:11,598 >> IT TOOK ME YEARS AND YEARS TO 570 00:22:11,598 --> 00:22:12,499 GET ALL THESE HANGERS. 571 00:22:12,499 --> 00:22:13,733 >> AND NOW WE'RE JUST GONNA MAKE 572 00:22:13,733 --> 00:22:14,601 YOU GET RID OF THEM. 573 00:22:14,601 --> 00:22:15,768 >> AND NOW WE'RE JUST GONNA 574 00:22:15,768 --> 00:22:16,469 THROW THEM AWAY. 575 00:22:16,469 --> 00:22:18,505 >> TRIESTE ACTUALLY HAS THREE 576 00:22:18,505 --> 00:22:20,473 BEDROOMS OCCUPIED UPSTAIRS. 577 00:22:20,473 --> 00:22:21,641 AND I SAID TO BETTY, "IT'S YOUR 578 00:22:21,641 --> 00:22:22,074 HOUSE. 579 00:22:22,074 --> 00:22:23,976 HOW MUCH SPACE ARE WE GOING TO 580 00:22:23,976 --> 00:22:25,578 GIVE YOUR DAUGHTER?" 581 00:22:25,578 --> 00:22:27,714 >> I SAVE THESE AS SOUVENIRS FOR 582 00:22:27,714 --> 00:22:29,115 SOME STUPID REASON. 583 00:22:29,115 --> 00:22:29,782 I DON'T KNOW. 584 00:22:29,782 --> 00:22:30,750 IT'S JUST THEY'VE BEEN 585 00:22:30,750 --> 00:22:31,684 EVERYWHERE I'VE BEEN. 586 00:22:31,684 --> 00:22:32,919 >> I'M WITH YOU. 587 00:22:32,919 --> 00:22:35,121 >> I'M APPREHENSIVE ABOUT IT, 588 00:22:35,121 --> 00:22:37,924 BUT I MIGHT AS WELL JUST DEAL 589 00:22:37,924 --> 00:22:40,727 WITH IT. 590 00:22:40,727 --> 00:22:42,128 >> WE'RE GONNA BE STARTING OVER 591 00:22:42,128 --> 00:22:43,796 HERE AND MOVING DOWN THROUGH 592 00:22:43,796 --> 00:22:44,397 HERE. 593 00:22:44,397 --> 00:22:45,865 AND BETTY'S DESIGNATING WHERE 594 00:22:45,865 --> 00:22:46,833 IT'S GONNA GO. 595 00:22:46,833 --> 00:22:48,835 IT'S EITHER TRASH IN HERE, 596 00:22:48,835 --> 00:22:50,537 GIVEAWAY OVER THERE. 597 00:22:50,537 --> 00:22:50,970 YES? 598 00:22:50,970 --> 00:22:52,138 AND IF IT'S KEEP, WELL, IT'S 599 00:22:52,138 --> 00:22:53,440 GONNA GO IN ONE OF THOSE 600 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:53,873 CONTAINERS. 601 00:22:53,873 --> 00:22:55,608 MAKE SENSE? 602 00:22:55,608 --> 00:22:57,577 >> OUTSIDE HERE, A LOT OF IT IS 603 00:22:57,577 --> 00:22:58,144 KEEPING. 604 00:22:58,144 --> 00:23:00,447 VERY MUCH OF IT IS KEEPING, 605 00:23:00,447 --> 00:23:02,682 UNLESS IT'S ABSOLUTELY RUINED. 606 00:23:02,682 --> 00:23:04,851 AND I CAN'T FIND THAT OUT UNTIL 607 00:23:04,851 --> 00:23:07,119 IT'S THAWED OUT AND I CAN REALLY 608 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,121 HAVE THE TIME TO CHECK IT OUT. 609 00:23:09,121 --> 00:23:10,957 >> THIS ONE'S BROKE, SO CAN I 610 00:23:10,957 --> 00:23:11,958 GET RID OF IT? 611 00:23:11,958 --> 00:23:12,825 >> NO. 612 00:23:12,825 --> 00:23:15,562 I DON'T USE THIS SIDE, AND THIS 613 00:23:15,562 --> 00:23:16,996 SIDE IS ONLY BROKE IN HALF, AND 614 00:23:16,996 --> 00:23:18,565 I CAN USE EITHER HALF OF IT. 615 00:23:18,565 --> 00:23:20,132 >> BUT YOU HAVE THIS ONE. 616 00:23:20,132 --> 00:23:22,502 >> THEY'RE DIFFERENT POWERS. 617 00:23:22,502 --> 00:23:24,003 >> OKAY. 618 00:23:24,003 --> 00:23:25,738 IF YOU THINK I HAVE NOT SUFFERED 619 00:23:25,738 --> 00:23:27,139 MY MOTHER'S WRATH BEFORE IN 620 00:23:27,139 --> 00:23:28,641 THROWING THINGS AWAY THAT SHE 621 00:23:28,641 --> 00:23:30,142 DIDN'T APPROVE OF, YOU'RE HIGHLY 622 00:23:30,142 --> 00:23:31,978 MISTAKEN. 623 00:23:31,978 --> 00:23:33,880 I HAVE SUFFERED MORE THAN YOU 624 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:35,782 CAN IMAGINE IN DEALING WITH MY 625 00:23:35,782 --> 00:23:38,885 MOTHER AND THIS CHRONIC, 626 00:23:38,885 --> 00:23:41,020 HORRIBLE CONDITION OF EXTREME 627 00:23:41,020 --> 00:23:42,755 HOARDING THAT SHE HAS. 628 00:23:42,755 --> 00:23:45,925 AND I'M DONE SUFFERING. 629 00:23:50,997 --> 00:23:53,766 >> TOSSING OR KEEPING? 630 00:23:53,766 --> 00:23:55,735 >> IT'S NOT THAT I WANT TO KEEP 631 00:23:55,735 --> 00:23:57,670 A SWEEPER TO USE 'CAUSE I DON'T 632 00:23:57,670 --> 00:23:59,606 LIKE RUGS, BUT A LITTLE BIT OF 633 00:23:59,606 --> 00:24:01,007 MY ELBOW GREASE AND CLEANING IT 634 00:24:01,007 --> 00:24:02,609 UP AND SELLING IT AT A YARD SALE 635 00:24:02,609 --> 00:24:03,209 FOR $5 OR $10. 636 00:24:03,209 --> 00:24:05,745 >> WHAT'S YOUR HISTORY OF 637 00:24:05,745 --> 00:24:08,515 ACTUALLY REPAIRING THINGS AND 638 00:24:08,515 --> 00:24:09,782 SELLING THEM AT A YARD SALE? 639 00:24:09,782 --> 00:24:13,052 >> UH, I ACTUALLY NEVER HAVE HAD 640 00:24:13,052 --> 00:24:15,622 A YARD SALE ON MY OWN. 641 00:24:15,622 --> 00:24:16,789 >> THE INTENTION IS THERE. 642 00:24:16,789 --> 00:24:17,189 >> YEAH. 643 00:24:17,189 --> 00:24:18,625 >> RIGHT, BUT IF YOU'RE NOT 644 00:24:18,625 --> 00:24:19,692 GONNA FOLLOW THROUGH -- 645 00:24:19,692 --> 00:24:21,027 LIKE, WHAT'S MORE IMPORTANT -- 646 00:24:21,027 --> 00:24:23,195 REPAIRING THIS VACUUM CLEANER, 647 00:24:23,195 --> 00:24:25,197 MAYBE OR MAYBE NOT, OR HAVING 648 00:24:25,197 --> 00:24:27,199 DINNER AND COOKING FOR YOUR 649 00:24:27,199 --> 00:24:29,068 FAMILY AND HAVING EVERYBODY 650 00:24:29,068 --> 00:24:31,704 OVER? 651 00:24:31,704 --> 00:24:33,239 >> UH... 652 00:24:33,239 --> 00:24:35,207 >> DINNER WITH YOUR FAMILY IS 653 00:24:35,207 --> 00:24:36,676 MORE IMPORTANT. 654 00:24:36,676 --> 00:24:38,578 PLEASE. 655 00:24:44,216 --> 00:24:46,753 I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. 656 00:24:54,727 --> 00:24:56,996 >> NOW'S THE TIME TO NOT TEAR 657 00:24:56,996 --> 00:24:59,098 UP, BUT I DON'T THINK THAT CAN 658 00:24:59,098 --> 00:25:00,266 BE HELPED. 659 00:25:00,266 --> 00:25:02,535 BUT I'VE GOT FANTASTIC 660 00:25:02,535 --> 00:25:04,704 CHILDREN -- ALL OF THEM. 661 00:25:04,704 --> 00:25:09,241 I'VE BEEN ALONE, AND THAT'S WHY 662 00:25:09,241 --> 00:25:11,844 I HAVE STUFF, BECAUSE IT GIVES 663 00:25:11,844 --> 00:25:13,846 ME SOMETHING TO DO. 664 00:25:13,846 --> 00:25:16,983 AND IT'S ALWAYS THERE, AND MY 665 00:25:16,983 --> 00:25:18,585 FAMILY ISN'T. 666 00:25:18,585 --> 00:25:20,286 >> TO ME, IT'S STUFF VERSUS 667 00:25:20,286 --> 00:25:25,057 RELATIONSHIPS. 668 00:25:25,057 --> 00:25:28,027 >> [ GRUNTS ] 669 00:25:32,098 --> 00:25:36,736 >> I'M REALLY PROUD OF YOU. 670 00:25:36,736 --> 00:25:39,271 IT'S STUFF, MOM. 671 00:25:39,271 --> 00:25:41,574 IT'S STUFF. 672 00:25:41,574 --> 00:25:44,143 >> SHE'S ONLY CRIED TWO OR THREE 673 00:25:44,143 --> 00:25:46,012 TIMES. 674 00:25:46,012 --> 00:25:47,914 I WAS BETTING SHE'D CRY. 675 00:25:47,914 --> 00:25:49,649 I WAS WAITING FOR IT. 676 00:25:49,649 --> 00:25:52,585 >> YOU'RE ONLY HERE BRIEFLY, AND 677 00:25:52,585 --> 00:25:55,054 I'M HERE A LOT, SO THAT'S WHY 678 00:25:55,054 --> 00:25:57,323 STUFF IS IMPORTANT TO ME. 679 00:25:57,323 --> 00:25:59,291 >> I KNOW IT. 680 00:25:59,291 --> 00:26:01,027 STUFF GETS IN THE WAY OF 681 00:26:01,027 --> 00:26:03,162 RELATIONSHIPS, AND THAT'S WHAT 682 00:26:03,162 --> 00:26:05,164 WE'VE BEEN TRYING SO HARD TO 683 00:26:05,164 --> 00:26:07,066 HELP MOM WORK THROUGH. 684 00:26:07,299 --> 00:26:08,134 WE HAVE HOPE. 685 00:26:08,134 --> 00:26:09,669 I HEARD YOU SAY THAT THIS 686 00:26:09,669 --> 00:26:10,670 MORNING, MOTHER. 687 00:26:10,670 --> 00:26:12,304 WE HAVE HOPE. 688 00:26:12,304 --> 00:26:14,140 >> NO -- NO DYING IN DESPAIR. 689 00:26:14,140 --> 00:26:15,875 I DON'T WANT TO HEAR THAT 690 00:26:15,875 --> 00:26:17,043 ANYMORE. 691 00:26:17,043 --> 00:26:17,877 I DON'T CARE. 692 00:26:17,877 --> 00:26:19,311 I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT ANYMORE. 693 00:26:19,311 --> 00:26:21,614 NO DYING, NO DESPAIR. 694 00:26:21,614 --> 00:26:23,082 I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT ANYMORE. 695 00:26:23,082 --> 00:26:25,317 I DON'T WANT TO LIVE THAT WAY. 696 00:26:29,956 --> 00:26:31,323 >> SO, THESE WE CAN TAKE TO THE 697 00:26:31,323 --> 00:26:31,791 ROOM? 698 00:26:31,791 --> 00:26:33,092 >> YEAH, BUT THERE'S NO ROOM IN 699 00:26:33,092 --> 00:26:33,693 THERE. 700 00:26:33,693 --> 00:26:35,161 >> WHAT I'D LIKE YOU TO DO, 701 00:26:35,161 --> 00:26:37,063 TARA, IS JUST COME OVER HERE AND 702 00:26:37,063 --> 00:26:38,831 SIT. 703 00:26:38,831 --> 00:26:39,331 >> SIT? 704 00:26:39,331 --> 00:26:40,099 >> YOU SIT. 705 00:26:40,099 --> 00:26:41,801 OH, YOU'RE GONNA BE WORKING, 706 00:26:41,801 --> 00:26:42,635 BELIEVE ME. 707 00:26:42,635 --> 00:26:43,836 OKAY, THIS IS GREAT. 708 00:26:43,836 --> 00:26:45,838 NOW WE HAVE YOUR FRIENDS, AND 709 00:26:45,838 --> 00:26:47,674 WE'RE GONNA START TODAY. 710 00:26:47,674 --> 00:26:49,642 WE'RE GONNA GET AS MUCH DONE AS 711 00:26:49,642 --> 00:26:50,176 WE CAN. 712 00:26:50,176 --> 00:26:51,911 SHE WOULD LIKE TO SEE THE ENTIRE 713 00:26:51,911 --> 00:26:55,081 HOUSE EMPTIED TODAY AND HAVE A 714 00:26:55,081 --> 00:26:56,816 MAGIC WAND WAVED OVER THE WHOLE 715 00:26:56,816 --> 00:26:58,184 SITUATION, HAVE IT DONE. 716 00:26:58,184 --> 00:26:59,752 LET'S JUST TAKE A QUICK MINUTE 717 00:26:59,752 --> 00:27:01,087 AND SEE IF THERE'S ANYTHING -- 718 00:27:01,087 --> 00:27:02,722 >> NO, I DON'T EVEN WANT TO TAKE 719 00:27:02,722 --> 00:27:03,723 THE TIME FOR THAT. 720 00:27:03,723 --> 00:27:04,957 >> TARA, LET'S JUST TAKE A 721 00:27:04,957 --> 00:27:06,693 SECOND HERE. 722 00:27:06,693 --> 00:27:08,227 WHAT I WANT TO DO TODAY IS 723 00:27:08,227 --> 00:27:10,062 CONCENTRATE IN THE LIVING ROOM 724 00:27:10,062 --> 00:27:12,732 AND WORK ON ONE SPECIFIC AREA 725 00:27:12,732 --> 00:27:14,701 AND NOT OVERWHELM TARA. 726 00:27:14,701 --> 00:27:16,135 WHAT I'M RECOMMENDING IS WE GO 727 00:27:16,135 --> 00:27:17,737 THROUGH AND AT LEAST LOOK AND 728 00:27:17,737 --> 00:27:18,137 SAY -- 729 00:27:18,137 --> 00:27:19,839 >> BUT CAN'T WE DO THAT WHEN WE 730 00:27:19,839 --> 00:27:20,673 ORGANIZE IT? 731 00:27:20,673 --> 00:27:21,841 I CAN'T DO IT RIGHT NOW. 732 00:27:21,841 --> 00:27:23,242 >> THIS IS WHAT WE'RE DOING. 733 00:27:23,242 --> 00:27:24,243 WE'RE ORGANIZING. 734 00:27:24,243 --> 00:27:25,745 I KNOW, BUT I CAN'T DO THAT 735 00:27:25,745 --> 00:27:26,378 RIGHT NOW. 736 00:27:26,378 --> 00:27:28,414 MY BRAIN IS NOT WIRED RIGHT NOW 737 00:27:28,414 --> 00:27:30,717 FOR THAT BECAUSE I'M TRYING TO 738 00:27:30,717 --> 00:27:32,018 RECOVER FROM A MIGRAINE. 739 00:27:32,018 --> 00:27:33,886 >> THE CYCLE KEEPS GOING THAT 740 00:27:33,886 --> 00:27:35,955 THINGS GET CLEANED UP, PUT IT IN 741 00:27:35,955 --> 00:27:37,724 A BOX, AND YOU DEAL WITH IT 742 00:27:37,724 --> 00:27:38,157 LATER. 743 00:27:38,157 --> 00:27:40,292 LATER DOESN'T COME. 744 00:27:40,292 --> 00:27:41,393 WE NEED TO BREAK THE CYCLE. 745 00:27:41,393 --> 00:27:42,729 >> NO, NO, THE BAG, HON. 746 00:27:42,729 --> 00:27:43,996 THE RED ONE, THE RED AND GRAY. 747 00:27:43,996 --> 00:27:44,831 YEAH, THAT ONE. 748 00:27:44,831 --> 00:27:46,132 JUST PUT PRETTY STUFF IN THERE. 749 00:27:46,132 --> 00:27:46,866 >> OKAY. 750 00:27:46,866 --> 00:27:47,867 >> YEAH, WE CAN DO IT LATER 751 00:27:47,867 --> 00:27:49,401 'CAUSE I'M GETTING STRESSED. 752 00:27:49,401 --> 00:27:51,103 I GET OVERWHELMED BECAUSE THEN 753 00:27:51,103 --> 00:27:52,772 I'M TRYING TO DO OTHER THINGS, 754 00:27:52,772 --> 00:27:54,273 AND I THINK, "OKAY, WELL, I'LL 755 00:27:54,273 --> 00:27:55,274 DO THAT TOMORROW." 756 00:27:55,274 --> 00:27:56,876 BUT THEN TOMORROW, SOMETHING 757 00:27:56,876 --> 00:28:00,146 ELSE HAPPENS. 758 00:28:00,146 --> 00:28:01,147 THAT'S A JOURNAL. 759 00:28:01,147 --> 00:28:02,281 >> WE'RE GONNA SAVE THE 760 00:28:02,281 --> 00:28:03,015 JOURNALS. 761 00:28:03,015 --> 00:28:04,183 HOW ABOUT THIS PRINCESS? 762 00:28:04,183 --> 00:28:05,752 >> THAT'S A GIFT, SO WE SAVE 763 00:28:05,752 --> 00:28:06,118 THAT. 764 00:28:06,118 --> 00:28:07,153 THAT'LL GO WITH THIS. 765 00:28:07,153 --> 00:28:08,821 >> SHE'S STILL THINKING THAT 766 00:28:08,821 --> 00:28:10,289 SHE'S GOING TO BE DELIVERING 767 00:28:10,289 --> 00:28:12,058 THESE GIFTS EVEN THOUGH SOME OF 768 00:28:12,058 --> 00:28:13,425 THESE GIFTS HAVE BEEN IN HER 769 00:28:13,425 --> 00:28:15,161 POSSESSION FOR, ACTUALLY, YEARS. 770 00:28:15,161 --> 00:28:16,763 >> OKAY, THIS IS WHAT I DON'T 771 00:28:16,763 --> 00:28:17,129 LIKE. 772 00:28:17,129 --> 00:28:18,464 I DON'T LIKE WHEN THEY START 773 00:28:18,464 --> 00:28:19,165 FALLING. 774 00:28:19,165 --> 00:28:20,266 THEN I GET STRESSED. 775 00:28:20,266 --> 00:28:21,734 >> HERE, PUT THEM IN THIS BOX. 776 00:28:21,734 --> 00:28:22,434 >> OH, THANK YOU. 777 00:28:22,434 --> 00:28:23,803 >> I'M GONNA PUT IT ON THE 778 00:28:23,803 --> 00:28:24,136 FLOOR. 779 00:28:24,136 --> 00:28:25,437 >> THESE ARE MY GIFTS. 780 00:28:25,437 --> 00:28:26,438 >> FRAGILE. 781 00:28:26,438 --> 00:28:29,441 SHE HAS THIS NEED TO PLEASE AND 782 00:28:29,441 --> 00:28:32,444 TO HELP PEOPLE, BUT SHE DOESN'T 783 00:28:32,444 --> 00:28:34,280 REALIZE SHE'S HURTING HERSELF. 784 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:35,782 SO, THESE ARE ALL FOR YOUR 785 00:28:35,782 --> 00:28:36,448 FRIEND AT WORK? 786 00:28:36,448 --> 00:28:38,350 >> YEP, YEP. 787 00:28:43,455 --> 00:28:43,923 WHOA! 788 00:28:43,923 --> 00:28:45,191 >> I GOT YOU. 789 00:28:45,191 --> 00:28:46,893 >> OKAY, SEE, OH, THAT'S MY 790 00:28:46,893 --> 00:28:47,293 VERTIGO. 791 00:28:47,293 --> 00:28:48,060 [ CHUCKLES ] 792 00:28:48,060 --> 00:28:49,028 WHOA, OKAY, JUST A MINUTE. 793 00:28:49,028 --> 00:28:50,196 >> THIS IS STILL VERY 794 00:28:50,196 --> 00:28:51,097 OVERWHELMING. 795 00:28:51,097 --> 00:28:52,965 I WANT TO HAVE HER MAKE SOME OF 796 00:28:52,965 --> 00:28:54,934 THE DECISIONS RIGHT AWAY ON SOME 797 00:28:54,934 --> 00:28:56,502 OF THESE ITEMS SO THEY DON'T 798 00:28:56,502 --> 00:28:58,470 HAVE TO JUST BE PUT IN A BOX AND 799 00:28:58,470 --> 00:29:00,840 PUT IN THE BACK ROOM. 800 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,842 SEE HOW THE PAPERS JUST START TO 801 00:29:02,842 --> 00:29:04,210 YELLOW, LIKE THIS ONE? 802 00:29:04,210 --> 00:29:06,278 AND SO MAYBE WHEN YOU GET THIS 803 00:29:06,278 --> 00:29:08,781 OUT TO THE GARAGE, IF SOME OF IT 804 00:29:08,781 --> 00:29:10,817 JUST GOES AWAY BECAUSE IT'S 805 00:29:10,817 --> 00:29:13,152 OLDER, AND STORING IT ISN'T 806 00:29:13,152 --> 00:29:14,486 DOING IT ANY GOOD. 807 00:29:14,486 --> 00:29:15,487 >> OKAY, WHAT IS THIS? 808 00:29:15,487 --> 00:29:16,989 OH, THAT'S WHAT I HEARD FALL. 809 00:29:16,989 --> 00:29:17,824 THAT'S TRASH. 810 00:29:17,824 --> 00:29:18,958 >> THIS ISN'T STOPPING. 811 00:29:18,958 --> 00:29:20,359 >> AND THEN REMEMBER, I TOLD YOU 812 00:29:20,359 --> 00:29:21,828 I WANT THEM TO BE ORGANIZED. 813 00:29:21,828 --> 00:29:22,528 >> PERFECT, YES. 814 00:29:22,528 --> 00:29:23,963 >> [ LAUGHS ] 815 00:29:23,963 --> 00:29:25,397 >> I WANT YOU TO GO TAKE YOUR 816 00:29:25,397 --> 00:29:26,098 MEDICINE. 817 00:29:26,098 --> 00:29:27,499 SHE MENTIONED THAT SHE DIDN'T 818 00:29:27,499 --> 00:29:29,201 TAKE HER MEDICINE THIS MORNING, 819 00:29:29,201 --> 00:29:30,870 SO I WANTED HER TO STOP AND GET 820 00:29:30,870 --> 00:29:32,504 SOMETHING TO EAT. 821 00:29:32,504 --> 00:29:33,806 ALL RIGHT, GO TAKE YOUR 822 00:29:33,806 --> 00:29:34,240 MEDICINE. 823 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:35,808 >> OKAY, LET ME SEE, WHAT IS 824 00:29:35,808 --> 00:29:36,108 THIS? 825 00:29:36,108 --> 00:29:37,243 OH, HERE, DID YOU SAY 826 00:29:37,243 --> 00:29:37,977 STATIONERY? 827 00:29:37,977 --> 00:29:39,511 >> SHE'S BEEN DOING THIS NOW FOR 828 00:29:39,511 --> 00:29:41,113 ABOUT 2 1/2 HOURS, AND IT'S TIME 829 00:29:41,113 --> 00:29:42,815 FOR HER TO HAVE A MENTAL BREAK. 830 00:29:42,815 --> 00:29:44,150 >> OKAY, THAT'S A GOOD THING. 831 00:29:44,150 --> 00:29:45,084 >> I'LL DO THIS. 832 00:29:45,084 --> 00:29:46,218 GO TAKE YOUR MEDICINE. 833 00:29:46,218 --> 00:29:47,987 >> OKAY. 834 00:29:47,987 --> 00:29:52,158 [ LAUGHS ] 835 00:29:52,158 --> 00:29:53,559 >> IS SHE WILLING TO PART THIS? 836 00:29:53,559 --> 00:29:55,127 >> YES, SHE'S WILLING TO PART 837 00:29:55,127 --> 00:29:55,527 THAT. 838 00:29:55,527 --> 00:29:57,563 >> OH, OKAY. 839 00:30:07,139 --> 00:30:08,307 >> OKAY, OKAY, JUST CALM DOWN. 840 00:30:08,307 --> 00:30:09,408 YOU NEED SOMETHING TO EAT. 841 00:30:09,408 --> 00:30:10,576 >> NO, I DON'T WANT ANYTHING TO 842 00:30:10,576 --> 00:30:11,310 EAT RIGHT NOW. 843 00:30:11,310 --> 00:30:12,411 I CAN'T EAT BECAUSE I'M SO 844 00:30:12,411 --> 00:30:13,012 UPSET. 845 00:30:13,012 --> 00:30:13,545 >> OKAY. 846 00:30:13,545 --> 00:30:15,181 >> THAT'S SO DISRESPECTFUL. 847 00:30:15,181 --> 00:30:16,983 I CAN'T BELIEVE THEY DID IT. 848 00:30:16,983 --> 00:30:18,384 >> ROCHELLE SAID, "THROW OUT THE 849 00:30:18,384 --> 00:30:19,151 NEWSPAPERS." 850 00:30:19,151 --> 00:30:20,419 SHE JUST DIDN'T WANT TO -- 851 00:30:20,419 --> 00:30:21,988 >> THERE WAS JUST A FEW ITEMS 852 00:30:21,988 --> 00:30:24,056 THAT SHE FELT WEREN'T JUNK, LIKE 853 00:30:24,056 --> 00:30:25,892 HER LITTLE "PEANUTS" COMIC 854 00:30:25,892 --> 00:30:26,558 STRIPS. 855 00:30:26,558 --> 00:30:28,060 >> YOU DON'T DO THIS BEHIND MY 856 00:30:28,060 --> 00:30:28,427 BACK. 857 00:30:28,427 --> 00:30:29,896 THAT, TO ME, SHOWS DISRESPECT. 858 00:30:29,896 --> 00:30:30,897 >> I WOULD NEVER -- 859 00:30:30,897 --> 00:30:32,164 >> NO, I KNOW YOU DIDN'T. 860 00:30:32,164 --> 00:30:33,599 BUT MY "PEANUTS" WERE GOING IN 861 00:30:33,599 --> 00:30:34,566 THERE, YOU KNOW? 862 00:30:34,566 --> 00:30:35,935 >> THAT WAS MY MISTAKE. 863 00:30:35,935 --> 00:30:37,303 >> YOU KNOW, WE CAN GET HER A 864 00:30:37,303 --> 00:30:38,570 BOOK WITH ALL THE "PEANUTS" 865 00:30:38,570 --> 00:30:40,139 CARTOONS IN IT SO SHE DOESN'T 866 00:30:40,139 --> 00:30:41,573 HAVE TO SAVE THOSE NEWSPAPERS. 867 00:30:41,573 --> 00:30:42,942 >> AND I GOT JUST SO ANGRY 868 00:30:42,942 --> 00:30:44,276 'CAUSE, SEE, I'M A PERSON -- 869 00:30:44,276 --> 00:30:46,012 IT'S NOT A PHYSICAL ANGRY. 870 00:30:46,012 --> 00:30:47,613 IT GOES INSIDE OF ME. 871 00:30:47,613 --> 00:30:49,181 I WAS SHOCKED THAT IT WAS YOU, 872 00:30:49,181 --> 00:30:50,582 AND THEN I SAW BRENDEN'S FACE. 873 00:30:50,582 --> 00:30:52,151 >> HE WAS JUST THERE. 874 00:30:52,151 --> 00:30:53,585 >> NO, THAT MAKES ME THINK NOW, 875 00:30:53,585 --> 00:30:55,154 "ARE THEY DOING STUFF BEHIND MY 876 00:30:55,154 --> 00:30:56,455 BACK WHILE I'M IN THE LIVING 877 00:30:56,455 --> 00:30:57,023 ROOM?" 878 00:30:57,023 --> 00:30:57,924 THAT'S NOT COOL. 879 00:30:57,924 --> 00:30:59,191 I DON'T WANT TO DEAL WITH IT 880 00:30:59,191 --> 00:30:59,892 RIGHT NOW. 881 00:30:59,892 --> 00:31:00,626 I NEED TO BREATHE. 882 00:31:00,626 --> 00:31:01,293 >> OKAY. 883 00:31:01,293 --> 00:31:03,329 >> HER WHOLE PROBLEM IS, "I'LL 884 00:31:03,329 --> 00:31:04,330 DO IT LATER. 885 00:31:04,330 --> 00:31:05,597 I'LL GO THROUGH THIS LATER." 886 00:31:05,597 --> 00:31:09,101 AND...LATER IS NOW. 887 00:31:09,101 --> 00:31:11,003 >> [ SIGHS ] 888 00:31:20,146 --> 00:31:22,348 >> DO THE CLOCKS GO? 889 00:31:22,348 --> 00:31:22,982 >> HUH? 890 00:31:22,982 --> 00:31:24,917 >> DO THE CLOCKS GO? 891 00:31:24,917 --> 00:31:26,452 >> UM... 892 00:31:26,452 --> 00:31:27,920 YEAH, I THINK THEY NEED TO GO 893 00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:29,188 OUT OF HERE BECAUSE THEY DON'T 894 00:31:29,188 --> 00:31:30,389 BELONG TO GRANDPA. 895 00:31:30,389 --> 00:31:35,361 I THINK THEY'RE GRANDMA'S CRAP. 896 00:31:35,361 --> 00:31:37,196 >> WE HAD ISSUES IN THE FAMILY 897 00:31:37,196 --> 00:31:39,198 OF DAD BEING AN ALCOHOLIC. 898 00:31:39,198 --> 00:31:44,236 SO...THIS WAS HER REBELLION OF, 899 00:31:44,236 --> 00:31:45,972 "IF HE'S GONNA BE DRUNK ALL 900 00:31:45,972 --> 00:31:48,507 NIGHT, THE HOUSE ISN'T GONNA BE 901 00:31:48,507 --> 00:31:49,641 CLEAN." 902 00:31:49,641 --> 00:31:51,510 IT'S SAD AND PATHETIC, BUT IT'S 903 00:31:51,510 --> 00:31:54,413 THE TRUTH. 904 00:32:06,392 --> 00:32:08,394 >> SHE WANTS TO HAVE IT FILLED 905 00:32:08,394 --> 00:32:09,495 WITH STUFF. 906 00:32:09,495 --> 00:32:11,397 THAT'S WHAT'S IMPORTANT TO HER, 907 00:32:11,397 --> 00:32:13,165 AND IT'S VERY CLEAR THAT THAT'S 908 00:32:13,165 --> 00:32:15,234 ALWAYS GOING TO BE HER CHOICE. 909 00:32:15,234 --> 00:32:18,237 >> OH! 910 00:32:18,237 --> 00:32:22,041 I CAN SEE MICHELLE'S BEEN BUSY. 911 00:32:22,041 --> 00:32:24,443 [ SIGHS ] 912 00:32:24,443 --> 00:32:27,546 >> IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW MUCH 913 00:32:27,546 --> 00:32:28,981 YOU LOVE HER. 914 00:32:28,981 --> 00:32:32,251 SHE'S ALWAYS GOING TO CHOOSE 915 00:32:32,251 --> 00:32:34,286 STUFF. 916 00:32:34,286 --> 00:32:37,556 >> I THINK SHE LIKES TO HAVE A 917 00:32:37,556 --> 00:32:40,026 LOT OF STUFF SO SHE DOESN'T FEEL 918 00:32:40,026 --> 00:32:42,661 POOR OR PEOPLE DON'T THINK OF 919 00:32:42,661 --> 00:32:44,296 HER AS POORER. 920 00:32:44,296 --> 00:32:46,598 >> [ SOBS ] 921 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:03,315 WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO WITH 922 00:33:03,315 --> 00:33:04,183 THIS CHAIR? 923 00:33:04,183 --> 00:33:06,552 >> IT'S JUST A... 924 00:33:06,552 --> 00:33:07,719 A GOOD COMPUTER CHAIR. 925 00:33:07,719 --> 00:33:09,455 >> WELL, WHERE WOULD YOU LIKE IT 926 00:33:09,455 --> 00:33:10,022 NOW? 927 00:33:10,022 --> 00:33:11,290 >> IN THE LIVING ROOM, I 928 00:33:11,290 --> 00:33:12,624 SUPPOSE. 929 00:33:12,624 --> 00:33:14,060 >> IT'S SAD. 930 00:33:14,060 --> 00:33:19,331 IT IS SO SAD TO THINK ABOUT ALL 931 00:33:19,331 --> 00:33:20,766 THE THINGS THAT I'VE DREAMED 932 00:33:20,766 --> 00:33:22,501 ABOUT DOING WITH MY MOM AND ALL 933 00:33:22,501 --> 00:33:24,203 THE TIME THAT I'VE DREAMED FOR 934 00:33:24,203 --> 00:33:25,704 MY CHILDREN TO HAVE WITH THEIR 935 00:33:25,704 --> 00:33:27,473 GRANDMOTHER THAT JUST IS NEVER 936 00:33:27,473 --> 00:33:29,641 GONNA HAPPEN. 937 00:33:29,641 --> 00:33:33,312 I NEED TO HEAR FROM MY MOM THAT, 938 00:33:33,312 --> 00:33:36,482 "YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO ME, AND 939 00:33:36,482 --> 00:33:40,052 YOU ARE IMPORTANT ENOUGH THAT I 940 00:33:40,052 --> 00:33:43,355 AM GOING TO GET SOME HELP." 941 00:33:43,355 --> 00:33:45,224 >> HEY, WE'RE UNEARTHING THE 942 00:33:45,224 --> 00:33:48,527 SEWING-MACHINE COLLECTION. 943 00:33:48,527 --> 00:33:50,096 >> SOME OF IT. 944 00:33:50,096 --> 00:33:52,498 >> WE'VE GOT 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 945 00:33:52,498 --> 00:33:54,400 THAT I KNOW OF. 946 00:33:58,604 --> 00:34:01,507 >> I NEED TO HEAR FROM MY MOM, 947 00:34:01,507 --> 00:34:03,742 "I CHOOSE YOU. 948 00:34:03,742 --> 00:34:05,777 I DON'T CHOOSE THE STUFF. 949 00:34:05,777 --> 00:34:08,447 I CHOOSE YOU." 950 00:34:12,384 --> 00:34:14,219 >> FATHER GOD, WE COME BEFORE 951 00:34:14,219 --> 00:34:15,754 YOU, AND WE JUST THANK YOU, 952 00:34:15,754 --> 00:34:17,688 LORD, FOR THIS DAY AND ALL THESE 953 00:34:17,688 --> 00:34:19,257 GOOD SAMARITANS AND JUST ALL 954 00:34:19,257 --> 00:34:20,659 THESE SPECIAL PEOPLE THAT YOU 955 00:34:20,659 --> 00:34:22,393 BROUGHT, LORD, JUST TO BE A PART 956 00:34:22,393 --> 00:34:24,830 OF THIS, LORD. 957 00:34:24,830 --> 00:34:26,264 AND, AGAIN, JUST LET HER TO LET 958 00:34:26,264 --> 00:34:27,565 GO, FATHER, THAT SHE WOULD TRULY 959 00:34:27,565 --> 00:34:28,667 JUST BE SET FREE, FATHER. 960 00:34:28,667 --> 00:34:30,235 AGAIN, WE JUST THANK YOU FOR 961 00:34:30,235 --> 00:34:31,703 YOUR MIGHTY HAND IN ALL OF THIS 962 00:34:31,703 --> 00:34:33,172 AND FOR JOINING US, LORD. 963 00:34:33,172 --> 00:34:34,406 IN JESUS' NAME WE PRAY. 964 00:34:34,406 --> 00:34:34,773 AMEN. 965 00:34:34,773 --> 00:34:35,407 >> AMEN. 966 00:34:35,407 --> 00:34:36,275 >> THANK YOU. 967 00:34:36,275 --> 00:34:37,376 THANK YOU, BRENDEN. 968 00:34:37,376 --> 00:34:39,110 I REALLY DO APPRECIATE YOU BEING 969 00:34:39,110 --> 00:34:39,545 HERE. 970 00:34:39,545 --> 00:34:41,112 [ SOBS ] 971 00:34:41,112 --> 00:34:42,281 >> WHEN I WORK WITH A CLIENT 972 00:34:42,281 --> 00:34:43,549 LIKE TARA, IT REMINDS ME SO MUCH 973 00:34:43,549 --> 00:34:45,583 OF MY MOM. 974 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,554 AND I DON'T WANT YOU TO GET THAT 975 00:34:49,554 --> 00:34:51,257 WAY. 976 00:34:51,257 --> 00:34:53,159 YOU KNOW, WHAT MY MOM NEVER 977 00:34:53,159 --> 00:34:54,860 REALIZED -- MAYBE SHE DIDN'T 978 00:34:54,860 --> 00:34:57,196 CARE AT THE END -- BUT IT REALLY 979 00:34:57,196 --> 00:34:58,830 WAS A BURDEN TO HAVE TO GO 980 00:34:58,830 --> 00:35:00,432 THROUGH THESE ITEMS LATER. 981 00:35:00,432 --> 00:35:02,168 WE'RE GONNA GET SOMETHING DONE 982 00:35:02,168 --> 00:35:02,568 TODAY. 983 00:35:02,568 --> 00:35:03,702 >> OKAY. THANK YOU. 984 00:35:03,702 --> 00:35:05,571 >> AND YOU'RE GONNA GET TO WORK. 985 00:35:05,571 --> 00:35:07,873 >> OKAY. OKAY. 986 00:35:13,145 --> 00:35:14,346 >> ARE THESE FOR CODY, OR ARE 987 00:35:14,346 --> 00:35:15,681 THEY ARE FOR... 988 00:35:15,681 --> 00:35:18,850 >> NO, THEY'RE MY BOOKS. 989 00:35:18,850 --> 00:35:20,752 >> OKAY. 990 00:35:20,752 --> 00:35:22,188 >> AS I'M PICKING SOMETHING UP, 991 00:35:22,188 --> 00:35:23,355 IF YOU SEE ANYTHING THAT YOU 992 00:35:23,355 --> 00:35:23,755 DON'T -- 993 00:35:23,755 --> 00:35:25,324 >> THESE ARE MINE. 994 00:35:25,324 --> 00:35:27,193 I KEEP MINE FOR ME. 995 00:35:27,193 --> 00:35:29,461 SEE WHAT YEAR THOSE ARE. 996 00:35:29,461 --> 00:35:30,829 >> MEDICINE FOR KITTENS, HUH? 997 00:35:30,829 --> 00:35:32,731 2001. 998 00:35:32,731 --> 00:35:34,766 >> SHE'S CUTE UNDER ALL THIS 999 00:35:34,766 --> 00:35:37,203 DUST. 1000 00:35:37,203 --> 00:35:38,437 A MIRACLE. 1001 00:35:38,437 --> 00:35:40,172 I'M JUST HOPING AND EVEN PRAYING 1002 00:35:40,172 --> 00:35:41,707 FOR A MIRACLE THAT MAYBE BETWEEN 1003 00:35:41,707 --> 00:35:43,375 TODAY AND TOMORROW SHE WOULD BE 1004 00:35:43,375 --> 00:35:44,610 WILLING TO JUST ABANDON 1005 00:35:44,610 --> 00:35:46,312 EVERYTHING THAT SHE REALLY JUST 1006 00:35:46,312 --> 00:35:46,912 DOESN'T NEED. 1007 00:35:46,912 --> 00:35:48,614 >> OH, YEAH, THESE ARE GIFTS. 1008 00:35:48,614 --> 00:35:49,915 >> THESE ARE ALL GIFTS? 1009 00:35:49,915 --> 00:35:50,616 >> YEAH. 1010 00:35:50,616 --> 00:35:52,451 HAPPY FACES -- THAT'S JUST WHAT 1011 00:35:52,451 --> 00:35:52,884 I NEED. 1012 00:35:52,884 --> 00:35:54,620 WHERE WOULD I PUT HAPPY FACES? 1013 00:35:54,620 --> 00:35:55,387 STICKERS. 1014 00:35:55,387 --> 00:35:56,222 >> TRISHA... 1015 00:35:56,222 --> 00:35:57,856 >> OH, TRISHA YEARWOOD TICKETS. 1016 00:35:57,856 --> 00:35:59,625 >> THIS IS A CONCERT YOU DIDN'T 1017 00:35:59,625 --> 00:36:00,326 GET TO? 1018 00:36:00,326 --> 00:36:02,261 >> I'VE LOST $200 TICKETS TO A 1019 00:36:02,261 --> 00:36:02,894 CONCERT. 1020 00:36:02,894 --> 00:36:04,196 I'VE LOST CASH. 1021 00:36:04,196 --> 00:36:05,364 I'VE LOST CHECKS. 1022 00:36:05,364 --> 00:36:07,366 OF COURSE, WE FIND THEM LATER. 1023 00:36:07,366 --> 00:36:08,634 BUT BY THEN IT'S TOO LATE. 1024 00:36:08,634 --> 00:36:09,901 >> THAT WON'T DO ME ANY GOOD 1025 00:36:09,901 --> 00:36:11,470 BECAUSE I NEVER GOT TO IT, I 1026 00:36:11,470 --> 00:36:11,803 GUESS. 1027 00:36:11,803 --> 00:36:14,240 [ CHUCKLES ] 1028 00:36:14,240 --> 00:36:16,275 >> ALL RIGHT. 1029 00:36:16,275 --> 00:36:18,244 SO, WE GOT YOUR STEREO, SURROUND 1030 00:36:18,244 --> 00:36:19,511 SOUND ALL HOOKED UP. 1031 00:36:19,511 --> 00:36:20,912 YOUR TV IS ALL READY TO GO. 1032 00:36:20,912 --> 00:36:22,514 YOU KNOW, WORKING FOR TODAY, 1033 00:36:22,514 --> 00:36:23,949 WE'VE MADE A LOT OF PROGRESS. 1034 00:36:23,949 --> 00:36:26,652 >> OH, MY GOSH. OH, MY GOSH. 1035 00:36:26,652 --> 00:36:27,786 >> HERE, WE'LL PUT A BOOKSHELF 1036 00:36:27,786 --> 00:36:28,354 THERE. 1037 00:36:28,354 --> 00:36:29,655 >> I DIDN'T REALIZE THERE WAS SO 1038 00:36:29,655 --> 00:36:30,256 MUCH DUST. 1039 00:36:30,256 --> 00:36:31,823 WHO KNEW THAT DUST GETS ON A 1040 00:36:31,823 --> 00:36:32,524 WALL? 1041 00:36:32,524 --> 00:36:34,426 >> WE'LL GET THAT TAKEN CARE OF. 1042 00:36:34,426 --> 00:36:36,662 WE'LL GET IT CLEANED. 1043 00:36:36,662 --> 00:36:38,664 >> THIS IS A LITTLE... 1044 00:36:38,664 --> 00:36:39,898 >> WE'RE NOT DONE. 1045 00:36:39,898 --> 00:36:40,966 WE'RE NOT DONE. 1046 00:36:40,966 --> 00:36:42,934 >> AND I'M SURPRISED IT BOTHERS 1047 00:36:42,934 --> 00:36:43,535 ME. 1048 00:36:43,535 --> 00:36:44,803 AND THEN WHAT DO I PUT IN 1049 00:36:44,803 --> 00:36:45,404 THERE? 1050 00:36:45,404 --> 00:36:45,937 >> THESE? 1051 00:36:45,937 --> 00:36:46,672 >> YES. 1052 00:36:46,672 --> 00:36:48,274 >> WELL, THESE ARE SUPPOSED TO 1053 00:36:48,274 --> 00:36:49,675 BE FOR YOUR COMPACT DISCS. 1054 00:36:49,675 --> 00:36:51,677 JUST LET ME KEEP GOING ON WITH 1055 00:36:51,677 --> 00:36:53,379 YOU, AND WE'LL KEEP MAKING 1056 00:36:53,379 --> 00:36:54,413 PROGRESS. 1057 00:36:54,413 --> 00:36:55,947 IT'S ALL NOT GONNA BE DONE IN 1058 00:36:55,947 --> 00:36:57,683 ONE DAY, BUT WE'RE GONNA GET 1059 00:36:57,683 --> 00:36:58,550 THERE. 1060 00:36:58,550 --> 00:36:59,685 >> IT'S OVERWHELMING. 1061 00:36:59,685 --> 00:37:00,852 IT'S JUST OVERWHELMING. 1062 00:37:00,852 --> 00:37:02,388 >> YOU'RE GONNA HAVE YOUR 1063 00:37:02,388 --> 00:37:03,822 FRIENDS OVER, AND YOU'RE GONNA 1064 00:37:03,822 --> 00:37:04,690 WATCH A MOVIE. 1065 00:37:04,690 --> 00:37:07,359 SO -- OH, YOU'RE DOING GREAT. 1066 00:37:09,961 --> 00:37:11,530 >> [ SNIFFLES ] 1067 00:37:11,530 --> 00:37:13,732 NO IDEA. 1068 00:37:13,732 --> 00:37:15,834 I HAVE SO MUCH WORK TO DO STILL. 1069 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:23,709 >> WE'LL TAKE -- WE'LL TAKE CARE 1070 00:37:23,709 --> 00:37:25,277 OF THAT. 1071 00:37:31,617 --> 00:37:35,321 >> THIS WAS MY BED FOR A LONG 1072 00:37:35,321 --> 00:37:37,356 WHILE. 1073 00:37:37,356 --> 00:37:40,058 HOW ON EARTH DID THAT HAPPEN? 1074 00:37:40,058 --> 00:37:41,727 >> WE'RE KIND OF IN TROUBLE 1075 00:37:41,727 --> 00:37:42,328 HERE. 1076 00:37:42,328 --> 00:37:43,762 YOU KNOW, MY DAD'S LIFE'S AT 1077 00:37:43,762 --> 00:37:44,396 STAKE. 1078 00:37:44,396 --> 00:37:46,031 BUT YET SHE CAN'T LET GO OF THE 1079 00:37:46,031 --> 00:37:47,433 STUFF. 1080 00:37:57,643 --> 00:37:59,511 >> I DON'T CONSIDER MYSELF A 1081 00:37:59,511 --> 00:38:00,045 HOARDER. 1082 00:38:00,045 --> 00:38:03,615 I HAVE SAVED STUFF...AND WAITED 1083 00:38:03,615 --> 00:38:05,651 AND WAITED AND WAITED FOR A 1084 00:38:05,651 --> 00:38:07,018 PLACE TO PUT IT. 1085 00:38:07,018 --> 00:38:07,786 >> I GET THAT. 1086 00:38:07,786 --> 00:38:09,388 >> AND THAT'S JUST STILL THE WAY 1087 00:38:09,388 --> 00:38:10,689 I SEE THINGS. 1088 00:38:10,689 --> 00:38:11,923 YEAH. 1089 00:38:11,923 --> 00:38:14,360 >> [ SIGHS ] 1090 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,395 I'M DONE. 1091 00:38:16,395 --> 00:38:19,531 I'M NOT GOING TO CLEAN ANYMORE. 1092 00:38:19,531 --> 00:38:22,534 I'M NOT GOING TO BE A PART OF 1093 00:38:22,534 --> 00:38:26,672 THIS CHAOS. 1094 00:38:26,672 --> 00:38:27,973 >> YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS ARE 1095 00:38:27,973 --> 00:38:29,575 COMMITTING TO NOT HELPING YOU 1096 00:38:29,575 --> 00:38:32,411 WITH THIS STUFF ANYMORE. 1097 00:38:32,411 --> 00:38:33,945 >> IF THEY CHOOSE NOT TO COME 1098 00:38:33,945 --> 00:38:36,415 BACK BECAUSE I'VE KEPT STUFF, 1099 00:38:36,415 --> 00:38:38,450 THAT'S GONNA BE THEIR PROBLEM. 1100 00:38:38,450 --> 00:38:39,718 GOT ALONG WITHOUT YOU BEFORE I 1101 00:38:39,718 --> 00:38:40,819 MET YOU -- GONNA GET ALONG 1102 00:38:40,819 --> 00:38:41,687 WITHOUT YOU NOW. 1103 00:38:41,687 --> 00:38:42,721 >> THAT'S PRETTY STEEP. 1104 00:38:42,721 --> 00:38:44,055 IT WOULD HURT MY FEELINGS IF YOU 1105 00:38:44,055 --> 00:38:46,592 WERE MY MOM. 1106 00:38:46,592 --> 00:38:48,427 >> THEY'RE NOT HERE EVERY DAY. 1107 00:38:48,427 --> 00:38:49,961 >> OKAY. 1108 00:38:49,961 --> 00:38:52,097 >> AND MY STUFF IS. 1109 00:38:56,435 --> 00:38:58,437 >> I DON'T KNOW HOW YOU CAN LOOK 1110 00:38:58,437 --> 00:39:00,138 AT EVERYTHING AND NOT UNDERSTAND 1111 00:39:00,138 --> 00:39:03,442 THAT THIS IS A DEBILITATING 1112 00:39:03,442 --> 00:39:05,544 ADDICTION. 1113 00:39:05,544 --> 00:39:07,746 AND IT'S REALLY ABSOLUTELY NO 1114 00:39:07,746 --> 00:39:10,115 DIFFERENT THAN BEING ADDICTED TO 1115 00:39:10,115 --> 00:39:13,819 DRUGS OR ALCOHOL. 1116 00:39:13,819 --> 00:39:15,153 >> [ CHUCKLES ] 1117 00:39:15,153 --> 00:39:17,022 I'M NITPICKING THROUGH THE STUFF 1118 00:39:17,022 --> 00:39:18,857 AND PICKING UP STUFF EVERYBODY 1119 00:39:18,857 --> 00:39:20,592 ELSE WOULD CONSIDER JUNK AND 1120 00:39:20,592 --> 00:39:22,160 SWEEP IT UP AND THROW IT AWAY. 1121 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,730 BUT IT'S STUFF THAT ARE LITTLE 1122 00:39:24,730 --> 00:39:26,998 TOYS FOR THE KIDS AND SEWING 1123 00:39:26,998 --> 00:39:29,735 STUFF, WHICH MEANS A LOT TO ME. 1124 00:39:29,735 --> 00:39:31,837 HUH, GOOD BATTERY. 1125 00:39:31,837 --> 00:39:34,039 >> BETTY IS HER OWN PERSON. 1126 00:39:34,039 --> 00:39:36,608 THAT STUFF REPRESENTS A STAND 1127 00:39:36,608 --> 00:39:39,010 THAT SHE'S TAKING FOR HERSELF. 1128 00:39:39,010 --> 00:39:42,047 IT'S HER SAYING, "MY STUFF IS 1129 00:39:42,047 --> 00:39:42,781 ME." 1130 00:39:42,781 --> 00:39:44,716 >> ONLY GOT ONE SECTION I DIDN'T 1131 00:39:44,716 --> 00:39:49,154 GET TO CHECK. 1132 00:39:49,154 --> 00:39:51,022 >> I'M HURTING. 1133 00:39:51,022 --> 00:39:53,792 I'M SCARED. I'M DISGUSTED. 1134 00:39:53,792 --> 00:39:55,461 I CAN'T BREATHE. 1135 00:39:55,461 --> 00:39:57,663 I'M JUST FRUSTRATED BEYOND 1136 00:39:57,663 --> 00:39:58,597 BELIEF. 1137 00:39:58,597 --> 00:40:00,031 THIS IS HOW YOU WANT IT. 1138 00:40:00,031 --> 00:40:01,132 THIS IS HOW YOU WANT IT. 1139 00:40:01,132 --> 00:40:02,634 >> NO, IT'S NOT. YOU KNOW THAT. 1140 00:40:02,634 --> 00:40:04,035 >> I'VE CLEANED YOUR HOUSE OUT 1141 00:40:04,035 --> 00:40:05,504 BEFORE, AND IT KEEPS SHOWING UP 1142 00:40:05,504 --> 00:40:08,774 LIKE THIS, SO THIS MUST BE HOW 1143 00:40:08,774 --> 00:40:10,175 YOU WANT IT. 1144 00:40:10,175 --> 00:40:12,077 WE PROMISED EACH OTHER YOU WOULD 1145 00:40:12,077 --> 00:40:13,679 NOT [BLEEP] THIS ROOM UP. 1146 00:40:13,679 --> 00:40:15,547 IF YOU WANT TO LIVE IN THE FILTH 1147 00:40:15,547 --> 00:40:17,048 AND THE [BLEEP] HAVE AT IT. 1148 00:40:17,048 --> 00:40:18,484 HAVE FUN. 1149 00:40:18,484 --> 00:40:20,752 ME AND MY KIDS AREN'T PLAYING 1150 00:40:20,752 --> 00:40:22,053 ALONG ANYMORE. 1151 00:40:22,053 --> 00:40:24,222 >> UH, OKAY. 1152 00:40:24,222 --> 00:40:26,492 >> THIS IS WHAT YOU CHOOSE, THIS 1153 00:40:26,492 --> 00:40:28,527 IS WHAT YOU ALWAYS CHOOSE, AND I 1154 00:40:28,527 --> 00:40:30,529 BELIEVE IN MY HEART THIS IS WHAT 1155 00:40:30,529 --> 00:40:32,664 YOU WILL CONTINUE TO CHOOSE. 1156 00:40:32,664 --> 00:40:39,771 SO...FROM NOW ON, I CHOOSE ME. 1157 00:40:39,771 --> 00:40:41,807 I HAVE ABANDONED MY CHILDREN AND 1158 00:40:41,807 --> 00:40:45,811 MY FAMILY FOR WAY TOO LONG... 1159 00:40:45,811 --> 00:40:48,079 TO HELP YOU. 1160 00:40:48,079 --> 00:40:50,582 SO I CHOOSE ME. 1161 00:40:53,218 --> 00:40:54,853 [ SIGHS ] 1162 00:41:06,097 --> 00:41:08,099 >> YOU WERE COLLECTING THE 1163 00:41:08,099 --> 00:41:09,234 McDONALD'S TOYS. 1164 00:41:09,234 --> 00:41:10,235 >> YES, I HAVE A WHOLE 1165 00:41:10,235 --> 00:41:11,269 COLLECTION OF THEM, AND, NO, 1166 00:41:11,269 --> 00:41:12,704 THERE'S NO DISCUSSION ABOUT THAT 1167 00:41:12,704 --> 00:41:14,840 RIGHT NOW. 1168 00:41:21,580 --> 00:41:22,714 >> WHAT IS YOUR GOAL? 1169 00:41:22,714 --> 00:41:23,749 >> MY GOAL IS -- 1170 00:41:23,749 --> 00:41:24,282 [ LAUGHS ] 1171 00:41:24,282 --> 00:41:25,851 >> YOU WANT TO SELL THESE ON 1172 00:41:25,851 --> 00:41:27,118 eBay? 1173 00:41:27,118 --> 00:41:29,020 A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE DREAMS OF 1174 00:41:29,020 --> 00:41:30,255 GETTING RICH ON eBay. 1175 00:41:30,255 --> 00:41:32,558 >> I'M AT LEAST GONNA SELL THEM. 1176 00:41:32,558 --> 00:41:34,593 >> THE ODDS ARE AGAINST THEM. 1177 00:41:34,593 --> 00:41:36,728 >> I'VE GOT TO KEEP, YOU KNOW, 1178 00:41:36,728 --> 00:41:38,764 WHAT I WANT AND THEN SELL THE 1179 00:41:38,764 --> 00:41:39,831 REST. 1180 00:41:39,831 --> 00:41:41,567 >> SHE WANTS TO GET A COMPUTER, 1181 00:41:41,567 --> 00:41:43,134 PUT THEM ON eBay, AND SELL THEM. 1182 00:41:43,134 --> 00:41:45,236 IT'S VERY HARD FOR HER TO GET 1183 00:41:45,236 --> 00:41:46,738 ORGANIZED ENOUGH. 1184 00:41:46,738 --> 00:41:48,139 >> SOME OF THE MAIL THAT I JUST 1185 00:41:48,139 --> 00:41:49,140 FOUND IS 18 YEARS OLD. 1186 00:41:49,140 --> 00:41:50,576 >> HOW DO YOU KNOW IT'S 18? 1187 00:41:50,576 --> 00:41:51,777 >> 'CAUSE OF THE DATE ON IT. 1188 00:41:51,777 --> 00:41:53,879 THIS WAS FROM 1992. 1189 00:41:53,879 --> 00:41:54,646 >> OH, '92? 1190 00:41:54,646 --> 00:41:55,747 >> '92 -- IT'S OLD. 1191 00:41:55,747 --> 00:41:56,615 >> OH, RIGHT. 1192 00:41:56,615 --> 00:41:57,749 THERE'S MY ADDRESS. 1193 00:41:57,749 --> 00:41:59,284 OH, I DO NEED MY ADDRESS BECAUSE 1194 00:41:59,284 --> 00:42:02,621 I FORGOT WHERE I LIVED. 1195 00:42:02,621 --> 00:42:05,156 >> I WAS EXPECTING THAT TARA WAS 1196 00:42:05,156 --> 00:42:07,659 JUST GONNA SAY, "OKAY, HERE'S 1197 00:42:07,659 --> 00:42:08,894 ALL MY STUFF. 1198 00:42:08,894 --> 00:42:10,161 TAKE IT AWAY." 1199 00:42:10,161 --> 00:42:12,163 BUT THAT DIDN'T QUITE HAPPEN. 1200 00:42:12,163 --> 00:42:13,865 I THINK IT'S A LITTLE BIT 1201 00:42:13,865 --> 00:42:15,901 TOUGHER THAN SHE ANTICIPATED IT 1202 00:42:15,901 --> 00:42:17,869 WAS GONNA BE. 1203 00:42:17,869 --> 00:42:19,905 >> "I HAVE DONE THE LORD'S WORK 1204 00:42:19,905 --> 00:42:23,642 HUMBLY -- YES, AND WITH TEARS." 1205 00:42:23,642 --> 00:42:25,043 OH, WOW, THAT'S A GOOD ONE 1206 00:42:25,043 --> 00:42:26,912 BECAUSE I DID DO THIS YESTERDAY. 1207 00:42:26,912 --> 00:42:28,179 I THINK I SHOULD JUST CUT UP THE 1208 00:42:28,179 --> 00:42:28,780 SCRIPTURES. 1209 00:42:28,780 --> 00:42:29,915 >> BUT YOU HAVE THE SCRIPTURES 1210 00:42:29,915 --> 00:42:30,816 ALREADY IN THE BIBLE. 1211 00:42:30,816 --> 00:42:32,017 >> DON'T YOU THINK IT WOULD BE 1212 00:42:32,017 --> 00:42:33,184 BETTER TO GIVE IT TO, LIKE, 1213 00:42:33,184 --> 00:42:34,185 GOT JUNK, SOMEBODY WHO COULD USE 1214 00:42:34,185 --> 00:42:34,886 THE WHOLE THING? 1215 00:42:34,886 --> 00:42:35,887 >> WELL, NOW AFTER I TORE THE 1216 00:42:35,887 --> 00:42:36,922 THING OUT... 1217 00:42:36,922 --> 00:42:38,323 OKAY, JUST PUT IT IN GOD STUFF 1218 00:42:38,323 --> 00:42:40,058 'CAUSE I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO 1219 00:42:40,058 --> 00:42:40,325 DO. 1220 00:42:40,325 --> 00:42:41,927 ALL RIGHT, MAYBE SOMEBODY THAT 1221 00:42:41,927 --> 00:42:42,961 DOESN'T KNOW JESUS. 1222 00:42:42,961 --> 00:42:45,363 [ LAUGHTER ] 1223 00:42:45,363 --> 00:42:47,933 I DIDN'T ANTICIPATE ON ALL THE 1224 00:42:47,933 --> 00:42:50,235 EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL WORK THAT 1225 00:42:50,235 --> 00:42:51,202 IT TOOK. 1226 00:42:51,202 --> 00:42:52,237 OH, MY GOD. 1227 00:42:52,237 --> 00:42:55,340 I DIDN'T ANTICIPATE ON A LOT OF 1228 00:42:55,340 --> 00:42:58,343 WHAT WAS INVOLVED TO SHARE YOUR 1229 00:42:58,343 --> 00:43:00,345 HOME AND KIND OF LIKE YOUR 1230 00:43:00,345 --> 00:43:01,647 LITTLE WORLD. 1231 00:43:01,647 --> 00:43:03,849 I WISH FOR EVERYBODY THAT HAS 1232 00:43:03,849 --> 00:43:06,217 THE SAME PROBLEM NOT TO GIVE UP 1233 00:43:06,217 --> 00:43:08,820 BECAUSE WE DIDN'T GET LIKE THIS 1234 00:43:08,820 --> 00:43:09,988 IN ONE DAY. 1235 00:43:09,988 --> 00:43:13,091 BUT NOW I'M LEARNING. 1236 00:43:13,091 --> 00:43:14,225 >> SHE'LL DO IT. 1237 00:43:14,225 --> 00:43:15,961 SHE LIKES THE FEELING NOW OF 1238 00:43:15,961 --> 00:43:17,395 THESE SMALL VICTORIES, AND 1239 00:43:17,395 --> 00:43:19,230 THAT'S WHAT IT TAKES IN THIS 1240 00:43:19,230 --> 00:43:21,700 PARTICULAR TYPE OF SITUATION. 1241 00:43:21,700 --> 00:43:24,970 >> IT LOOKS SO CLEAN. 1242 00:43:24,970 --> 00:43:26,237 YOU KNOW, AND THERE'S NO 1243 00:43:26,237 --> 00:43:26,872 CLUTTER. 1244 00:43:26,872 --> 00:43:28,373 IT WASN'T QUITE A HOME WHEN YOU 1245 00:43:28,373 --> 00:43:30,108 CAME, BUT IT'S BEGINNING TO LOOK 1246 00:43:30,108 --> 00:43:31,409 LIKE A HOME NOW. 1247 00:43:31,409 --> 00:43:33,378 AND THAT'S A START. 1248 00:43:59,738 --> 00:44:01,907 >> THIS MUST BE HOW YOU WANT IT. 1249 00:44:01,907 --> 00:44:04,042 >> WELL, WE HEARD FROM MICHELLE. 1250 00:44:04,042 --> 00:44:06,111 WE HEARD REALLY TRULY HOW SHE 1251 00:44:06,111 --> 00:44:08,279 TOOK A STAND, AND I THINK THERE 1252 00:44:08,279 --> 00:44:10,015 IS SOMETHING THAT WILL BE 1253 00:44:10,015 --> 00:44:11,449 HELPFUL IN THAT WHOLE 1254 00:44:11,449 --> 00:44:13,852 INTERACTION BUT MOST OF ALL, FOR 1255 00:44:13,852 --> 00:44:16,087 EACH PERSON TO REALIZE THAT THEY 1256 00:44:16,087 --> 00:44:17,856 CAN'T HAVE MOM DO IT THEIR 1257 00:44:17,856 --> 00:44:19,891 WAY -- THAT THEY NEED TO FOCUS 1258 00:44:19,891 --> 00:44:22,060 ON THEIR OWN LIVES AND LET BETTY 1259 00:44:22,060 --> 00:44:25,196 FALL OR SUCCEED ON HER OWN. 1260 00:44:28,033 --> 00:44:29,768 >> THE LIVING ROOM IS TOTALLY 1261 00:44:29,768 --> 00:44:30,301 EMPTY. 1262 00:44:30,301 --> 00:44:31,903 WE'VE GOTTEN THIS BACKYARD 1263 00:44:31,903 --> 00:44:34,439 CLEANED UP, SO THE CITY'S HAPPY. 1264 00:44:34,439 --> 00:44:36,307 AND I KNOW THAT IT'S NOT 1265 00:44:36,307 --> 00:44:37,442 FINISHED YET. 1266 00:44:37,442 --> 00:44:39,344 TRIESTE DID A GREAT JOB OF 1267 00:44:39,344 --> 00:44:41,747 GIVING UP A LOT OF THINGS, AND 1268 00:44:41,747 --> 00:44:43,381 WE'VE HAD GREAT PROGRESS. 1269 00:44:43,381 --> 00:44:45,316 AND I UNDERSTAND HOARDING 1270 00:44:45,316 --> 00:44:47,786 TENDENCIES, BUT I REALLY CAN'T 1271 00:44:47,786 --> 00:44:50,288 BELIEVE THAT I'M A HOARDER.