1 00:00:08,409 --> 00:00:09,610 >> THE ABILITY TO LET GO OF IT 2 00:00:09,610 --> 00:00:11,779 IS HARD FOR RON, AND THE ABILITY 3 00:00:11,779 --> 00:00:12,813 TO STOP GETTING IT -- IT'S 4 00:00:12,813 --> 00:00:15,583 BEYOND ME. 5 00:00:15,583 --> 00:00:17,151 >> I WAS HORRIFIED WHEN I SAW 6 00:00:17,151 --> 00:00:18,686 STUFF COMING OUT THE ATTIC 7 00:00:18,686 --> 00:00:20,121 WINDOW. 8 00:00:20,121 --> 00:00:20,621 >> I'M AFRAID THAT CHILD 9 00:00:20,621 --> 00:00:23,691 PROTECTIVE SERVICES MAY STEP IN. 10 00:00:23,691 --> 00:00:25,493 >> STOP! STOP! 11 00:00:25,493 --> 00:00:26,660 >> MY IDENTITY AS A PARENT IS AT 12 00:00:26,660 --> 00:00:28,462 STAKE. 13 00:00:28,462 --> 00:00:30,431 >> THE SMELL HITS YOU WHEN YOU 14 00:00:30,431 --> 00:00:31,799 WALK IN THAT HOUSE. 15 00:00:31,799 --> 00:00:32,633 IT'S LIKE A BLAST. 16 00:00:32,633 --> 00:00:34,068 >> YOU'RE NOT THROWING AWAY MY 17 00:00:34,068 --> 00:00:34,502 MILK. 18 00:00:34,502 --> 00:00:35,469 MY MILK IS FINE. 19 00:00:35,469 --> 00:00:36,504 >> I'M THROWING IT ALL OUT. 20 00:00:36,504 --> 00:00:37,671 >> THE HEALTH DEPARTMENT MIGHT 21 00:00:37,671 --> 00:00:39,073 VERY WELL CONDEMN A HOUSE LIKE 22 00:00:39,073 --> 00:00:39,507 THIS. 23 00:00:39,507 --> 00:00:40,174 >> [ RETCHES ] 24 00:00:40,174 --> 00:00:42,410 >> IT SMELLS A BIT FISHY. 25 00:00:42,410 --> 00:00:44,545 >> HOLY SMOKES. 26 00:01:17,678 --> 00:01:20,781 >> MY NAME IS JENNIFER, AND I'M 27 00:01:20,781 --> 00:01:23,050 27 YEARS OLD. 28 00:01:23,484 --> 00:01:25,453 WHAT'S IN YOUR MOUTH? CANDY? 29 00:01:25,453 --> 00:01:29,423 WELL, MY HOUSE IS A MESS. 30 00:01:29,423 --> 00:01:32,793 IT DOESN'T FEEL LIKE A HOME. 31 00:01:32,793 --> 00:01:35,028 MY PORCH IS SORT OF THE CATCHALL 32 00:01:35,028 --> 00:01:36,964 FOR THINGS THAT WE CAN'T FIT 33 00:01:36,964 --> 00:01:38,399 INTO THE HOUSE. 34 00:01:38,399 --> 00:01:38,932 AND THEN YOU COME INTO THE 35 00:01:38,932 --> 00:01:42,436 LIVING ROOM, AND THE FLOOR'S 36 00:01:42,436 --> 00:01:43,637 PRETTY WELL CONSUMED. 37 00:01:43,637 --> 00:01:46,540 AND THE KITCHEN -- THE KITCHEN, 38 00:01:46,540 --> 00:01:47,841 YOU KNOW, THE SINK IS AN OLD 39 00:01:47,841 --> 00:01:48,709 SLOP SINK, SO WATER SPILLS OUT 40 00:01:48,709 --> 00:01:49,810 OF IT FREQUENTLY. 41 00:01:49,810 --> 00:01:52,513 THERE'S A LOT OF SPILLS THAT 42 00:01:52,513 --> 00:01:54,014 DON'T GET CLEANED 'CAUSE THERE'S 43 00:01:54,014 --> 00:01:56,450 STUFF ON THE FLOOR. 44 00:01:56,450 --> 00:01:57,685 THE HALLWAY IS OUR LAUNDRY 45 00:01:57,685 --> 00:01:59,520 HAMPER. 46 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:00,788 THERE'S ALWAYS A CARPET OF 47 00:02:00,788 --> 00:02:01,689 LAUNDRY. 48 00:02:01,689 --> 00:02:03,857 GETTING DOWN TO THE BASEMENT TO 49 00:02:03,857 --> 00:02:05,659 DO LAUNDRY CAN BE HAZARDOUS. 50 00:02:05,659 --> 00:02:07,861 AND THE KIDS' ROOMS -- THAT CAN 51 00:02:07,861 --> 00:02:09,997 PROBABLY BE AT TIMES SOME OF THE 52 00:02:09,997 --> 00:02:11,999 MESSY -- THE MESSIEST PLACE IN 53 00:02:11,999 --> 00:02:12,800 THE HOUSE. 54 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:16,837 IT'S AWFUL. 55 00:02:16,837 --> 00:02:21,642 >> HEY, I'M RON, I'M 39, AND 56 00:02:21,642 --> 00:02:23,411 JENNIFER IS MY PARTNER, AND HAS 57 00:02:23,411 --> 00:02:26,013 BEEN FOR OVER 10 YEARS. 58 00:02:26,013 --> 00:02:28,482 JENNIFER -- SHE LOVES TO SHOP, 59 00:02:28,482 --> 00:02:30,651 AND I THINK SHE FEELS SOME 60 00:02:30,651 --> 00:02:32,920 CONTROL WHEN SHE'S ABLE TO SHOP 61 00:02:32,920 --> 00:02:35,523 AND BUY THINGS. 62 00:02:35,523 --> 00:02:37,625 >> THE ABILITY TO LET GO OF IT 63 00:02:37,625 --> 00:02:38,792 IS HARD FOR RON, AND THE ABILITY 64 00:02:38,792 --> 00:02:43,764 TO STOP GETTING IT IS -- IT'S 65 00:02:43,764 --> 00:02:44,698 BEYOND ME. 66 00:02:50,638 --> 00:02:55,409 [ HORN HONKS ] 67 00:02:55,409 --> 00:02:56,677 THE FEELING OF SHOPPING, FOR ME, 68 00:02:56,677 --> 00:02:59,813 IS VERY MUCH LIKE THE RUSH, THE 69 00:02:59,813 --> 00:03:02,015 HIGH YOU GET FROM ANY KIND OF 70 00:03:02,015 --> 00:03:02,283 ADDICTION. 71 00:03:02,283 --> 00:03:02,850 >> [ SQUEALS ] 72 00:03:02,850 --> 00:03:07,087 >> YEAH! WE GOT BOXES! 73 00:03:07,087 --> 00:03:08,856 SHOPPING IS AN ADDICTION FOR ME. 74 00:03:08,856 --> 00:03:09,156 I KNOW THAT. 75 00:03:09,156 --> 00:03:11,191 >> YOU KNOW, I PROBABLY LEARNED 76 00:03:11,191 --> 00:03:12,893 A LOT OF DISORGANIZATION IN MY 77 00:03:12,893 --> 00:03:14,094 CHILDHOOD. 78 00:03:14,094 --> 00:03:15,896 I REMEMBER MY DAD WORKED ON 79 00:03:15,896 --> 00:03:17,998 JOBSITES AND WOULD BRING HOME, 80 00:03:17,998 --> 00:03:19,900 YOU KNOW, SOMETHING THAT WAS 81 00:03:19,900 --> 00:03:21,735 SALVAGEABLE OR LEFTOVER. 82 00:03:21,735 --> 00:03:24,137 YEAH, DAD TAUGHT ME SOME THINGS. 83 00:03:24,137 --> 00:03:27,708 [ CHUCKLES ] 84 00:03:27,708 --> 00:03:29,710 >> YOU KNOW, BEING A MOTHER AT 85 00:03:29,710 --> 00:03:31,712 20 AND A MOTHER AGAIN AT 21, I 86 00:03:31,712 --> 00:03:33,180 WAS VERY ILL-EQUIPPED. 87 00:03:33,180 --> 00:03:34,648 I WAS TERRIFIED. 88 00:03:34,648 --> 00:03:37,851 AND THEN IN MAY, MY DAD DIED. 89 00:03:37,851 --> 00:03:40,654 I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A DADDY'S 90 00:03:40,654 --> 00:03:43,424 GIRL -- ALWAYS. 91 00:03:43,424 --> 00:03:45,393 IT WAS VERY HARD FOR ME TO LOSE 92 00:03:45,393 --> 00:03:52,633 MY FATHER. 93 00:03:52,633 --> 00:03:57,405 I STILL MISS HIM A LOT. 94 00:03:57,405 --> 00:04:04,177 AND THE PAIN CAUSED BY LOSS... 95 00:04:04,177 --> 00:04:05,779 YOU KNOW, IT'S A HARD THING TO 96 00:04:05,779 --> 00:04:09,917 DEAL WITH, AND... 97 00:04:09,917 --> 00:04:12,720 SO, YEAH. YOU KNOW, I SHOP. 98 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,723 AND IT'S -- IT'S NOWHERE NEAR A 99 00:04:15,723 --> 00:04:20,127 REPLACEMENT OF MY FATHER. 100 00:04:20,127 --> 00:04:22,696 [ SIGHS ] 101 00:04:22,696 --> 00:04:26,900 BUT IT PROVIDES A MOMENT OF JOY 102 00:04:26,900 --> 00:04:32,806 IN A WORLD WHERE THAT'S RARE. 103 00:04:39,980 --> 00:04:42,082 HE KNOWS HOW TO CLIMB OVER IT 104 00:04:42,082 --> 00:04:44,051 AND DIG THROUGH IT TO FIND HIS 105 00:04:44,051 --> 00:04:48,489 CARS, AND, YOU KNOW... 106 00:04:48,489 --> 00:04:50,190 IT'S NOT SOMETHING THAT WE'RE 107 00:04:50,190 --> 00:04:51,959 REALLY PROUD OF, BUT, HEY, YOU 108 00:04:51,959 --> 00:04:53,961 KNOW, WE'RE ADAPTABLE. 109 00:04:53,961 --> 00:04:56,564 [ CHUCKLES ] 110 00:04:56,564 --> 00:04:58,165 >> THEY'RE GONNA GROW UP IN 111 00:04:58,165 --> 00:05:01,569 THIS. 112 00:05:01,569 --> 00:05:02,670 I GUESS I'D BE CONCERNED THAT, 113 00:05:02,670 --> 00:05:04,738 YOU KNOW, THEY COULD GO REALLY 114 00:05:04,738 --> 00:05:07,741 WRONG WITH IT, TOO. 115 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,047 >> THE CITY HEALTH-CODE 116 00:05:14,047 --> 00:05:15,916 INSPECTOR CAME AND SAID THAT 117 00:05:15,916 --> 00:05:17,951 THERE HAD BEEN A COMPLAINT AND 118 00:05:17,951 --> 00:05:19,920 THAT HE NEEDED TO INSPECT THE 119 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:21,722 HOUSE AND THAT IF WE DIDN'T 120 00:05:21,722 --> 00:05:23,791 COMPLY, THEY COULD GET A SEARCH 121 00:05:23,791 --> 00:05:24,057 WARRANT. 122 00:05:24,057 --> 00:05:28,696 AND I BEGGED HIM FOR, YOU KNOW, 123 00:05:28,696 --> 00:05:30,130 SOME TIME. 124 00:05:30,130 --> 00:05:32,533 I'M AFRAID THAT CHILD PROTECTIVE 125 00:05:32,533 --> 00:05:34,435 SERVICES MAY STEP IN AND SAY 126 00:05:34,435 --> 00:05:36,937 THAT WE'RE UNFIT PARENTS. 127 00:05:44,044 --> 00:05:45,879 IT'S TERRIFYING. 128 00:05:45,879 --> 00:05:47,781 SOMEBODY COMES TO MY DOOR AND 129 00:05:47,781 --> 00:05:51,952 KNOCKS AND I'M NOT EXPECTING -- 130 00:05:51,952 --> 00:05:53,787 YOU KNOW, IT INSTANTLY CAUSES MY 131 00:05:53,787 --> 00:05:58,926 HEART TO, YOU KNOW, THUMP. 132 00:05:58,926 --> 00:06:00,894 LOSING MY CHILDREN WOULD -- I 133 00:06:00,894 --> 00:06:03,030 MEAN, I DON'T EVEN WANT TO THINK 134 00:06:03,030 --> 00:06:03,797 ABOUT IT. 135 00:06:03,797 --> 00:06:05,966 I DON'T WANT TO IMAGINE HOW THAT 136 00:06:05,966 --> 00:06:08,001 WOULD FEEL. 137 00:06:14,908 --> 00:06:19,012 >> ONION. 138 00:06:19,012 --> 00:06:20,781 MY NAME IS JILL, AND I'M 60 139 00:06:20,781 --> 00:06:24,952 YEARS OLD. 140 00:06:24,952 --> 00:06:26,186 HMM. 141 00:06:26,186 --> 00:06:28,756 I'VE BEEN A MESSY PERSON ALL MY 142 00:06:28,756 --> 00:06:32,159 LIFE. 143 00:06:32,159 --> 00:06:34,562 I HOARD FOOD. 144 00:06:34,562 --> 00:06:36,764 I FEEL GUILTY ABOUT WASTING 145 00:06:36,764 --> 00:06:39,700 SOMETHING THAT SOMEBODY COULD BE 146 00:06:39,700 --> 00:06:40,901 USING. 147 00:06:40,901 --> 00:06:44,438 I USE DUCT TAPE TO CLOSE THE 148 00:06:44,438 --> 00:06:47,441 FREEZER DOOR SOMETIMES WHEN I'VE 149 00:06:47,441 --> 00:06:49,910 GOT TOO MANY THINGS IN THERE. 150 00:06:49,910 --> 00:06:51,879 >> MY NAME IS KATHY, AND JILL IS 151 00:06:51,879 --> 00:06:54,047 MY OLDER SISTER. 152 00:06:54,047 --> 00:06:55,849 THE FOOD IN JILL'S HOUSE IS JUST 153 00:06:55,849 --> 00:06:56,684 REALLY SCARY. 154 00:06:56,684 --> 00:06:58,719 IT'S 'CAUSE IT'S EVERYWHERE. 155 00:07:05,859 --> 00:07:09,396 >> UH-OH. 156 00:07:09,396 --> 00:07:11,965 LOOKS LIKE I LOST A GRAPEFRUIT. 157 00:07:11,965 --> 00:07:13,601 [ CAT MEOWS ] 158 00:07:13,601 --> 00:07:16,069 >> I WENT INTO HER HOME, AND I 159 00:07:16,069 --> 00:07:17,671 WAS SHOCKED. 160 00:07:17,671 --> 00:07:19,507 I WAS JUST SHOCKED. 161 00:07:19,507 --> 00:07:22,109 I WAS HORRIFIED. 162 00:07:22,109 --> 00:07:23,777 WE WERE SUPPOSED TO BE EATING A 163 00:07:23,777 --> 00:07:25,445 MEAL, AND THERE WAS NO PLACE TO 164 00:07:25,445 --> 00:07:25,613 EAT. 165 00:07:25,613 --> 00:07:27,414 >> OH, THAT'S WHERE MY SCALE IS. 166 00:07:27,414 --> 00:07:27,948 >> WE WERE SUPPOSED TO BE 167 00:07:27,948 --> 00:07:29,617 COOKING A MEAL. 168 00:07:29,617 --> 00:07:31,985 THERE WAS NO PLACE TO COOK. 169 00:07:31,985 --> 00:07:33,587 THERE WAS NO PLACE TO WASH 170 00:07:33,587 --> 00:07:33,854 DISHES. 171 00:07:33,854 --> 00:07:34,922 AND NONE OF IT SEEMED TO BOTHER 172 00:07:34,922 --> 00:07:36,790 HER AT ALL. 173 00:07:47,434 --> 00:07:49,637 >> I'VE HAD PERIODS OF POVERTY, 174 00:07:49,637 --> 00:07:50,871 WHERE I HAVEN'T HAD A CHOICE OF 175 00:07:50,871 --> 00:07:52,840 WHAT I COULD EAT. 176 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:54,875 THAT AFFECTED ME REALLY, REALLY 177 00:07:54,875 --> 00:07:58,546 SEVERELY, TO THE POINT NOW WHERE 178 00:07:58,546 --> 00:08:00,914 I WANT TO ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE. 179 00:08:00,914 --> 00:08:05,986 NOW, FIND A LID. 180 00:08:05,986 --> 00:08:08,455 >> MY NAME'S AIDAN MADIGAN. 181 00:08:08,455 --> 00:08:17,430 I'M JILL MADIGAN'S SON. 182 00:08:17,430 --> 00:08:20,033 HER CURRENT LIVING CONDITION IS 183 00:08:20,033 --> 00:08:27,841 POOR AT BEST. 184 00:08:27,841 --> 00:08:31,011 >> AIDAN'S ALWAYS GROWN UP IN MY 185 00:08:31,011 --> 00:08:33,013 DISORDER. 186 00:08:33,013 --> 00:08:35,482 I TAUGHT AIDAN HOW TO SHOP IN 187 00:08:35,482 --> 00:08:36,884 PERIODS OF POVERTY. 188 00:08:36,884 --> 00:08:39,486 $4. THAT'S NOT TERRIBLE. 189 00:08:39,486 --> 00:08:40,854 IT'S VERY SEDUCTIVE TO GATHER 190 00:08:40,854 --> 00:08:43,991 THINGS THAT YOU MIGHT NEED WHEN 191 00:08:43,991 --> 00:08:46,393 YOU DON'T HAVE MONEY TO BUY 192 00:08:46,393 --> 00:08:46,960 THEM. 193 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:48,762 HAZELNUT FLOUR. WOW. 194 00:08:48,762 --> 00:08:52,165 OH, I DIDN'T KNOW THEY MADE 195 00:08:52,165 --> 00:08:54,935 SPAGHETTI FROM CORN. 196 00:08:54,935 --> 00:08:56,737 ZEN CUBE. HMM. 197 00:08:56,737 --> 00:08:59,006 I HAVE THIS DIFFICULTY WITH 198 00:08:59,006 --> 00:09:01,008 RESISTING SALE PRICES. 199 00:09:01,008 --> 00:09:03,877 WHEN SOMETHING IS INEXPENSIVE, I 200 00:09:03,877 --> 00:09:04,745 BUY IT. 201 00:09:04,745 --> 00:09:06,814 OOH. IRRESISTIBLE. 202 00:09:06,814 --> 00:09:08,949 IT'S SPRINGTIME. 203 00:09:08,949 --> 00:09:11,819 HAVING A PANTRY THAT HAS A LARGE 204 00:09:11,819 --> 00:09:14,121 COLLECTION OF DIFFERENT TYPES OF 205 00:09:14,121 --> 00:09:16,489 FOODS MEANS THAT I CAN COME UP 206 00:09:16,489 --> 00:09:18,525 WITH WHATEVER I WANT TO THROW 207 00:09:18,525 --> 00:09:20,694 TOGETHER, AND I'M A GOOD COOK. 208 00:09:20,694 --> 00:09:22,896 >> SHE'S A DAMN GOOD COOK. 209 00:09:22,896 --> 00:09:30,871 BUT... 210 00:09:30,871 --> 00:09:36,844 >> FINGER FOOD. 211 00:09:36,844 --> 00:09:38,478 THERE ARE THINGS THAT I BUY AND 212 00:09:38,478 --> 00:09:39,980 THEN FORGET ABOUT. 213 00:09:39,980 --> 00:09:41,782 >> SHE GETS PUMPKINS FROM THE 214 00:09:41,782 --> 00:09:45,986 CHURCH SOMETIMES SO THAT SHE CAN 215 00:09:45,986 --> 00:09:48,088 MAKE PUMPKIN PIES. 216 00:09:48,088 --> 00:09:49,990 BUT WITH SOME OF THE PERISHABLE 217 00:09:49,990 --> 00:09:51,925 ITEMS, SHE GETS SIDETRACKED AND 218 00:09:51,925 --> 00:09:53,827 FORGETS ABOUT THEM, AND THEN 219 00:09:53,827 --> 00:09:58,666 THEY JUST SIT THERE. 220 00:09:58,666 --> 00:09:59,900 >> CABBAGES ARE REALLY 221 00:09:59,900 --> 00:10:00,901 FORGIVING. 222 00:10:00,901 --> 00:10:02,803 THE OUTSIDE WILL GO BAD, BUT THE 223 00:10:02,803 --> 00:10:04,504 INSIDE WILL BE FINE. 224 00:10:04,504 --> 00:10:05,472 THERE WE GO. 225 00:10:05,472 --> 00:10:07,474 NOW WE'RE SEEING SOME GOOD 226 00:10:07,474 --> 00:10:08,842 COLOR. 227 00:10:08,842 --> 00:10:10,577 I BELIEVE THAT IF THINGS HAVE 228 00:10:10,577 --> 00:10:11,912 BEEN KEPT COLD, AND IF THEY'RE 229 00:10:11,912 --> 00:10:13,647 NOT PUFFED-UP, THEY'RE JUST 230 00:10:13,647 --> 00:10:14,648 FINE. 231 00:10:14,648 --> 00:10:15,883 WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO WITH SOUR 232 00:10:15,883 --> 00:10:16,416 CREAM? 233 00:10:16,416 --> 00:10:17,050 WHAT'S GONNA GO WRONG WITH THAT? 234 00:10:17,050 --> 00:10:18,886 IS IT GONNA GO SOUR? 235 00:10:18,886 --> 00:10:20,888 [ CHUCKLES ] 236 00:10:20,888 --> 00:10:23,190 THERE'S STILL A VERY GOOD MEAL 237 00:10:23,190 --> 00:10:23,791 THERE. 238 00:10:23,791 --> 00:10:26,694 SO THAT WILL TASTE GOOD. 239 00:10:34,601 --> 00:10:36,603 >> THIS IS A VERY SERIOUS TIME 240 00:10:36,603 --> 00:10:38,772 FOR JILL RIGHT NOW. 241 00:10:38,772 --> 00:10:40,774 >> OH, THE WORST-CASE SCENARIO 242 00:10:40,774 --> 00:10:42,810 WOULD BE BEING EVICTED 243 00:10:42,810 --> 00:10:44,845 TOMORROW... 244 00:10:44,845 --> 00:10:46,446 [ CHUCKLES ] 245 00:10:46,446 --> 00:10:48,581 ...AND HAVING ALL OF THIS STUFF 246 00:10:48,581 --> 00:10:48,949 STILL AROUND ME. 247 00:10:48,949 --> 00:10:50,784 THAT WOULD BE THE WORST-CASE 248 00:10:50,784 --> 00:10:52,552 SCENARIO. 249 00:10:52,552 --> 00:10:54,855 [ CHUCKLES ] 250 00:10:54,855 --> 00:11:02,730 O0 C1 251 00:11:02,730 --> 00:11:03,697 >> I'M WORRIED ABOUT CHILD 252 00:11:03,697 --> 00:11:06,033 PROTECTIVE SERVICES. 253 00:11:06,033 --> 00:11:07,868 I'M WORRIED ABOUT, YOU KNOW, 254 00:11:07,868 --> 00:11:08,936 THEM SAYING, "YOU CAN'T STAY 255 00:11:08,936 --> 00:11:10,670 HERE." 256 00:11:10,670 --> 00:11:13,073 I'M WORRIED THAT THEY WOULD SAY 257 00:11:13,073 --> 00:11:16,710 THAT I'M A BAD MOTHER. 258 00:11:16,710 --> 00:11:18,879 AND I'M WORRIED ABOUT HAVING A 259 00:11:18,879 --> 00:11:21,614 LIFESTYLE FOR MY KIDS THAT, YOU 260 00:11:21,614 --> 00:11:22,883 KNOW, IT'S NOT GOOD. 261 00:11:38,465 --> 00:11:40,700 >> HI, JENNIFER. I'M GERALIN. 262 00:11:40,700 --> 00:11:41,935 >> NICE TO MEET YOU. 263 00:11:41,935 --> 00:11:43,837 >> NICE TO MEET YOU, TOO. 264 00:11:43,837 --> 00:11:45,705 I'M GERALIN THOMAS, AND I'M A 265 00:11:45,705 --> 00:11:46,874 CERTIFIED PROFESSIONAL 266 00:11:46,874 --> 00:11:47,140 ORGANIZER. 267 00:11:47,140 --> 00:11:49,709 >> WELL, THIS IS THE BEGINNING 268 00:11:49,709 --> 00:11:49,910 OF IT. 269 00:11:49,910 --> 00:11:52,780 YOU SEE MY PORCH, AND THIS THE 270 00:11:52,780 --> 00:11:55,115 OVERSPILL OF STUFF THAT WE CAN'T 271 00:11:55,115 --> 00:11:56,616 FIT INSIDE. 272 00:11:56,616 --> 00:11:59,419 >> JENNIFER -- SHE MENTIONED 273 00:11:59,419 --> 00:11:59,987 THAT SHE'S NEVER REALLY BEEN 274 00:11:59,987 --> 00:12:02,756 TAUGHT SYSTEMS FOR HOW TO DEAL 275 00:12:02,756 --> 00:12:04,424 WITH THINGS WHEN THEY COME INTO 276 00:12:04,424 --> 00:12:07,460 THE HOUSE AND HAS NEVER REALLY 277 00:12:07,460 --> 00:12:09,062 LET ANYTHING GO. 278 00:12:09,062 --> 00:12:11,832 >> OKAY. 279 00:12:11,832 --> 00:12:13,433 >> WHERE ARE WE? 280 00:12:13,433 --> 00:12:15,135 >> THIS IS THE KIDS' ROOM. 281 00:12:15,135 --> 00:12:16,904 I CLEAN IT PROBABLY MORE 282 00:12:16,904 --> 00:12:19,106 FREQUENTLY THAN ANYTHING ELSE, 283 00:12:19,106 --> 00:12:21,474 BUT IT GETS SO OUT OF HAND SO 284 00:12:21,474 --> 00:12:23,811 QUICKLY 'CAUSE THE KIDS HAVEN'T 285 00:12:23,811 --> 00:12:25,813 LEARNED HOW TO PUT ANYTHING 286 00:12:25,813 --> 00:12:26,179 BACK, OBVIOUSLY. 287 00:12:26,179 --> 00:12:28,715 >> I SEE LOTS OF CHEERIOS ON THE 288 00:12:28,715 --> 00:12:29,116 FLOOR. 289 00:12:29,116 --> 00:12:29,682 >> YEAH, THAT WAS, YOU KNOW, 290 00:12:29,682 --> 00:12:32,585 THEY COME IN, AND THEY FIGHT, 291 00:12:32,585 --> 00:12:34,054 AND THEY SPILL, AND THEN THAT'S 292 00:12:34,054 --> 00:12:34,888 THERE, AND THE DOG DOESN'T EAT 293 00:12:34,888 --> 00:12:36,824 CHEERIOS, SO... 294 00:12:36,824 --> 00:12:37,791 >> [ LAUGHS ] 295 00:12:37,791 --> 00:12:38,792 >> OKAY. 296 00:12:38,792 --> 00:12:40,560 >> WHERE ARE YOU TAKING ME NOW? 297 00:12:40,560 --> 00:12:45,765 >> THIS IS OUR HALLWAY/LAUNDRY 298 00:12:45,765 --> 00:12:47,968 BASKET/LAUNDRY CARPET. 299 00:12:47,968 --> 00:12:49,636 [ CHUCKLES ] 300 00:12:49,636 --> 00:12:50,938 >> THIS SEEMS TO BE A LOT OF 301 00:12:50,938 --> 00:12:51,704 CLOTHING. 302 00:12:51,704 --> 00:12:52,139 >> YEAH. 303 00:12:52,139 --> 00:12:53,706 >> SO HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN 304 00:12:53,706 --> 00:12:54,207 PICKING THEM UP FROM THE 305 00:12:54,207 --> 00:12:56,743 BATHROOM FLOOR AND PUTTING THEM 306 00:12:56,743 --> 00:12:56,944 HERE? 307 00:12:56,944 --> 00:12:58,846 >> THIS HAS BEEN HERE PROBABLY, 308 00:12:58,846 --> 00:13:00,881 MAYBE TWO MONTHS. 309 00:13:00,881 --> 00:13:02,850 >> HOW ABOUT SHEETS AND TOWELS? 310 00:13:02,850 --> 00:13:03,951 IS THERE A SYSTEM FOR KEEPING 311 00:13:03,951 --> 00:13:04,885 THOSE CLEAN? 312 00:13:04,885 --> 00:13:07,754 >> WE FREQUENTLY WASH SHEETS 313 00:13:07,754 --> 00:13:09,589 BECAUSE WE EAT IN THE BEDROOM 314 00:13:09,589 --> 00:13:11,424 AND FOOD SPILLS AND STUFF. 315 00:13:11,424 --> 00:13:12,960 >> HOW OFTEN DO YOU EAT IN BED? 316 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:14,594 >> PROBABLY EVERY DAY. 317 00:13:14,594 --> 00:13:15,062 >> DINNER? 318 00:13:15,062 --> 00:13:15,295 >> YEAH. 319 00:13:15,295 --> 00:13:16,763 >> ALL OF YOU? 320 00:13:16,763 --> 00:13:17,530 >> YEAH. 321 00:13:17,530 --> 00:13:18,798 >> FIVE PEOPLE EAT IN A BED 322 00:13:18,798 --> 00:13:19,099 EVERY NIGHT. 323 00:13:19,099 --> 00:13:20,633 >> YEAH. 324 00:13:20,633 --> 00:13:20,968 >> OKAY. 325 00:13:20,968 --> 00:13:22,735 >> WITH PLATES ON OUR LAPS, 326 00:13:22,735 --> 00:13:23,103 YEAH. 327 00:13:23,103 --> 00:13:23,336 >> OKAY. 328 00:13:23,336 --> 00:13:25,738 AND HOW DO YOU END UP IN A BED, 329 00:13:25,738 --> 00:13:27,607 EATING AS A FAMILY EVERY NIGHT? 330 00:13:27,607 --> 00:13:29,642 >> IT'S JUST LACK OF AN AREA TO 331 00:13:29,642 --> 00:13:30,110 SIT DOWN. 332 00:13:30,110 --> 00:13:30,944 I MEAN, YOU KNOW, WE HAVE A 333 00:13:30,944 --> 00:13:33,780 SMALL TABLE IN THE KITCHEN, BUT 334 00:13:33,780 --> 00:13:35,682 NORMALLY IT IS SO CLUTTERED WITH 335 00:13:35,682 --> 00:13:37,617 STUFF, YOU KNOW, YOU COULDN'T 336 00:13:37,617 --> 00:13:38,986 EVEN BEGIN TO SIT DOWN, AND 337 00:13:38,986 --> 00:13:42,956 THAT'S JUST THE EASIEST PLACE. 338 00:13:42,956 --> 00:13:45,125 ALL RIGHT, COME ON DOWN TO THE 339 00:13:45,125 --> 00:13:47,127 BASEMENT. 340 00:13:47,127 --> 00:13:47,895 THIS IS PRECARIOUS. 341 00:13:47,895 --> 00:13:50,730 YOU HAVE TO BE CAREFUL. 342 00:13:50,730 --> 00:13:52,765 >> JENNIFER, DO YOU REALLY DO 343 00:13:52,765 --> 00:13:54,634 THIS ALL THE TIME? 344 00:13:54,634 --> 00:13:58,105 >> YEAH, EVERY DAY. 345 00:13:58,105 --> 00:13:59,907 YOU KNOW, YOU ESCAPE THESE 346 00:13:59,907 --> 00:14:03,510 THINGS. 347 00:14:03,510 --> 00:14:06,179 IT'S HARD PRIDE-WISE TO, YOU 348 00:14:06,179 --> 00:14:09,416 KNOW, SAY, "YEAH, I'M NOT GOOD 349 00:14:09,416 --> 00:14:12,920 AT THIS, AND I DON'T KNOW WHY." 350 00:14:18,658 --> 00:14:19,859 >> I HAVE A TENDENCY TO 351 00:14:19,859 --> 00:14:21,895 SOMETIMES OVERESTIMATE HOW MUCH 352 00:14:21,895 --> 00:14:23,796 ROOM I HAVE FOR THINGS WHEN I 353 00:14:23,796 --> 00:14:24,898 FIND SOMETHING THAT'S PRICED 354 00:14:24,898 --> 00:14:27,467 REALLY WELL. 355 00:14:27,467 --> 00:14:30,670 OH, HERE'S SOME COLD COFFEE. 356 00:14:30,670 --> 00:14:32,372 HERE. 357 00:14:34,874 --> 00:14:39,479 [ FOOTSTEPS ] 358 00:14:39,479 --> 00:14:41,514 [ KNOCK ON DOOR ] 359 00:14:41,514 --> 00:14:43,183 >> HI, JILL. DAVID TOLIN. 360 00:14:43,183 --> 00:14:43,951 >> NICE TO MEET YOU. 361 00:14:43,951 --> 00:14:46,019 >> NICE TO MEET YOU. MAY I? 362 00:14:46,019 --> 00:14:48,688 >> WELCOME TO THE PIT. 363 00:14:48,688 --> 00:14:50,790 >> WELL, LET'S TAKE A LOOK. 364 00:14:50,790 --> 00:14:52,725 MY NAME IS DR. DAVID TOLIN. 365 00:14:52,725 --> 00:14:53,961 I'M A CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGIST AND 366 00:14:53,961 --> 00:14:55,996 A RESEARCHER IN THE AREA OF 367 00:14:55,996 --> 00:14:59,967 COMPULSIVE HOARDING. 368 00:14:59,967 --> 00:15:00,767 WOW. 369 00:15:00,767 --> 00:15:03,503 WELL, SO, JILL, TELL ME WHAT IT 370 00:15:03,503 --> 00:15:05,405 IS THAT WE'RE LOOKING AT. 371 00:15:05,405 --> 00:15:09,476 >> WE'RE LOOKING AT, UH, UM... 372 00:15:09,476 --> 00:15:15,682 UM, UH, A COMPLETE MESS. 373 00:15:15,682 --> 00:15:18,485 [ CATS HISSING ] 374 00:15:18,485 --> 00:15:20,187 >> THE SMELL IS THE FIRST THING 375 00:15:20,187 --> 00:15:22,022 THAT HITS YOU WHEN YOU WALK IN 376 00:15:22,022 --> 00:15:22,855 THAT HOUSE. 377 00:15:22,855 --> 00:15:30,663 IT'S LIKE A BLAST IN YOUR FACE. 378 00:15:30,663 --> 00:15:31,164 DO YOU NOTICE THE SMELL? 379 00:15:31,164 --> 00:15:33,533 >> I THINK I'M PROBABLY IMMUNE 380 00:15:33,533 --> 00:15:33,933 TO IT. 381 00:15:33,933 --> 00:15:35,602 >> I'M NOTICING A STRONG -- A 382 00:15:35,602 --> 00:15:36,836 STRONG SMELL, AND I'M ALSO 383 00:15:36,836 --> 00:15:38,638 NOTICING -- I DON'T KNOW IF 384 00:15:38,638 --> 00:15:40,007 YOU'VE SEEN, BUT THERE ARE FLIES 385 00:15:40,007 --> 00:15:41,641 BUZZING AROUND THE ROOM. 386 00:15:41,641 --> 00:15:42,175 >> YEAH, THERE ARE FLIES. 387 00:15:42,175 --> 00:15:44,677 >> DO YOU HAVE ANY SENSE OF WHAT 388 00:15:44,677 --> 00:15:47,447 THAT MIGHT BE ABOUT? 389 00:15:47,447 --> 00:15:47,981 >> IT IS REALLY COMPLETELY 390 00:15:47,981 --> 00:15:49,516 DISGUSTING. 391 00:15:49,516 --> 00:15:51,184 >> YOU KNOW, SOMETIMES, WHEN YOU 392 00:15:51,184 --> 00:15:52,819 GET A STRONG SMELL AND A LOT OF 393 00:15:52,819 --> 00:15:54,654 FLIES BUZZING AROUND, IT MEANS 394 00:15:54,654 --> 00:15:56,556 THAT THERE'S SOMETHING ROTTING. 395 00:15:56,556 --> 00:15:57,890 IS THERE SOMETHING ROTTING IN 396 00:15:57,890 --> 00:15:58,658 THE ROOM? 397 00:15:58,658 --> 00:15:59,926 >> NOT IN THIS ROOM, NO. 398 00:15:59,926 --> 00:16:01,561 I HAVE SOME APPLES THAT ARE 399 00:16:01,561 --> 00:16:02,062 ROTTING IN THE KITCHEN. 400 00:16:02,062 --> 00:16:04,631 >> I SEE, BUT THERE'S NO ROTTING 401 00:16:04,631 --> 00:16:05,865 FOOD IN THIS ROOM HERE. 402 00:16:05,865 --> 00:16:07,534 >> NOT IN THIS ROOM, NO. 403 00:16:07,534 --> 00:16:08,901 THERE'S SOME FRUIT OVER THERE, 404 00:16:08,901 --> 00:16:10,903 BUT IT'S FRESH. 405 00:16:10,903 --> 00:16:13,073 OH, I'M SORRY. THE PUMPKIN. 406 00:16:13,073 --> 00:16:15,542 IT WAS A VERY NICE PUMPKIN WHEN 407 00:16:15,542 --> 00:16:16,976 IT WAS FRESH. 408 00:16:16,976 --> 00:16:18,878 >> NOT SO FRESH NOW. 409 00:16:18,878 --> 00:16:19,479 >> NO. 410 00:16:19,479 --> 00:16:19,679 >> NO. 411 00:16:19,679 --> 00:16:21,881 >> NO. 412 00:16:21,881 --> 00:16:24,584 >> THE HEALTH DEPARTMENT MIGHT 413 00:16:24,584 --> 00:16:25,885 VERY WELL CONDEMN A HOUSE LIKE 414 00:16:25,885 --> 00:16:27,054 THIS. 415 00:16:27,054 --> 00:16:29,156 IT WAS VERY CLEAR THAT THERE 416 00:16:29,156 --> 00:16:31,491 WERE HUGE PILES OF ROTTING FOOD 417 00:16:31,491 --> 00:16:32,859 ALL OVER THE PLACE. 418 00:16:32,859 --> 00:16:36,496 THERE'S QUITE A COLLECTION HERE. 419 00:16:36,496 --> 00:16:36,963 THIS IS -- 420 00:16:36,963 --> 00:16:38,798 >> YEAH, I LEFT -- I JUST -- 421 00:16:38,798 --> 00:16:39,832 >> WHAT'S THIS HERE? 422 00:16:39,832 --> 00:16:40,933 >> THAT'S A PIECE OF -- THAT WAS 423 00:16:40,933 --> 00:16:43,703 LETTUCE THAT I BOUGHT LAST WEEK. 424 00:16:43,703 --> 00:16:43,970 EW! 425 00:16:43,970 --> 00:16:46,806 >> OOH. 426 00:16:46,806 --> 00:16:48,808 >> IT'S GONE. 427 00:16:48,808 --> 00:16:50,177 >> WOW. 428 00:16:50,177 --> 00:16:52,612 YOU HAVE TO HAVE A CERTAIN 429 00:16:52,612 --> 00:16:55,148 AMOUNT OF DENIAL TO ALLOW THIS 430 00:16:55,148 --> 00:16:59,018 KIND OF A PROBLEM TO BUILD UP. 431 00:16:59,018 --> 00:17:00,787 I THINK I JUST STEPPED ON... 432 00:17:00,787 --> 00:17:02,522 WHAT IS THAT -- MORE PUMPKIN? 433 00:17:02,522 --> 00:17:03,056 >> THAT'S A DIFFERENT ONE. 434 00:17:03,056 --> 00:17:05,558 THAT'S A -- IT'S A SQUASH THAT 435 00:17:05,558 --> 00:17:06,526 WENT BAD, YEAH. 436 00:17:06,526 --> 00:17:08,060 THERE ISN'T -- I'VE FORGOTTEN 437 00:17:08,060 --> 00:17:08,361 ABOUT THAT. 438 00:17:08,361 --> 00:17:10,497 >> UNRELATED TO THE PUMPKIN. 439 00:17:10,497 --> 00:17:12,699 >> UNRELATED TO THE PUMPKIN. 440 00:17:12,699 --> 00:17:13,965 THERE IS ANOTHER REFRIGERATOR 441 00:17:13,965 --> 00:17:19,539 THAT'S DOWN IN THE BASEMENT. 442 00:17:19,539 --> 00:17:21,741 >> WHAT'S GOING ON IN HERE? 443 00:17:21,741 --> 00:17:24,077 >> WELL THE ICE CHUNK HAS TAKEN 444 00:17:24,077 --> 00:17:26,679 HOLD OF A COUPLE OF THINGS, AND 445 00:17:26,679 --> 00:17:28,981 IT LOOKS LIKE MY CARROTS, WHICH 446 00:17:28,981 --> 00:17:31,584 I WANTED TO MAKE CARROT JUICE 447 00:17:31,584 --> 00:17:34,587 FROM, HAVE SPOILED. 448 00:17:34,587 --> 00:17:36,589 I'VE GOT A LOT OF YOGURT IN 449 00:17:36,589 --> 00:17:39,559 THERE, SOME OF WHICH I PROBABLY 450 00:17:39,559 --> 00:17:41,428 WOULD STILL EAT. 451 00:17:41,428 --> 00:17:43,029 I DON'T CARE ABOUT THE DATES. 452 00:17:43,029 --> 00:17:43,996 IF IT'S NOT PUFFY AND IF IT 453 00:17:43,996 --> 00:17:46,799 LOOKS OKAY AND SMELLS OKAY... 454 00:17:46,799 --> 00:17:47,200 IT'S A VERY -- THE 455 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:48,868 REFRIGERATOR'S VERY COLD, SO... 456 00:17:48,868 --> 00:17:52,639 >> THIS EXPIRED SIX MONTHS AGO. 457 00:17:52,639 --> 00:17:55,007 OVERCOMING COMPULSIVE HOARDING 458 00:17:55,007 --> 00:17:56,843 IS AN UPHILL BATTLE. 459 00:17:56,843 --> 00:17:59,646 IF WE'VE LEARNED ANYTHING, WE'VE 460 00:17:59,646 --> 00:18:01,013 LEARNED THAT THE PROCESS IS 461 00:18:01,013 --> 00:18:03,650 DIFFICULT, AND IT'S 462 00:18:03,650 --> 00:18:05,518 TIME-CONSUMING. 463 00:18:05,518 --> 00:18:06,085 >> I EXPECT THERE WILL BE A 464 00:18:06,085 --> 00:18:08,421 CERTAIN AMOUNT OF KICKING AND 465 00:18:08,421 --> 00:18:09,122 SCREAMING ALONG THE WAY, BUT I 466 00:18:09,122 --> 00:18:12,024 NEED HELP...NOW. 467 00:18:12,024 --> 00:18:19,966 O0 C1 468 00:18:19,966 --> 00:18:21,434 >> I THINK THE BIG THING IS THAT 469 00:18:21,434 --> 00:18:22,902 I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT 470 00:18:22,902 --> 00:18:24,437 BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW HOW THIS 471 00:18:24,437 --> 00:18:27,540 WORKS. 472 00:18:27,774 --> 00:18:29,442 AND SO I'M EXPECTING SOMETHING. 473 00:18:29,442 --> 00:18:31,043 I HOPE THAT I'M GONNA GET 474 00:18:31,043 --> 00:18:32,645 SOMETHING THAT I WOULDN'T HAVE 475 00:18:32,645 --> 00:18:33,680 BEEN ABLE TO DO. 476 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:34,547 [ LAUGHS ] 477 00:18:34,547 --> 00:18:36,883 YOU KNOW, SOMETHING A LOT BETTER 478 00:18:36,883 --> 00:18:38,785 THAN WHAT IT'S BEEN. 479 00:18:49,028 --> 00:18:51,564 >> HEY, GOOD MORNING, JENNIFER 480 00:18:51,564 --> 00:18:52,465 AND RON. 481 00:18:52,465 --> 00:18:54,434 I BROUGHT HELP WITH ME, AS I 482 00:18:54,434 --> 00:18:55,435 SAID I WOULD. 483 00:18:55,435 --> 00:18:57,069 RON, YOU AND I ARE GONNA WORK 484 00:18:57,069 --> 00:18:59,138 TOGETHER A LITTLE BIT LATER, AND 485 00:18:59,138 --> 00:19:01,140 WHAT I WANT TO KNOW FROM YOU IS 486 00:19:01,140 --> 00:19:02,175 YOU HAVE A LOT OF FISH TANKS 487 00:19:02,175 --> 00:19:04,177 HANGING AROUND THE HOUSE, AND I 488 00:19:04,177 --> 00:19:06,479 WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOUR PLANS ARE 489 00:19:06,479 --> 00:19:08,080 FOR THOSE. 490 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:09,449 >> GERALIN ASKED ME ABOUT THE 491 00:19:09,449 --> 00:19:12,452 FISH TANKS, AND IT WAS A TOUGH 492 00:19:12,452 --> 00:19:12,719 DECISION. 493 00:19:12,719 --> 00:19:14,120 I ACTUALLY SHED A TEAR IN THE 494 00:19:14,120 --> 00:19:16,623 KITCHEN THIS MORNING IN 495 00:19:16,623 --> 00:19:17,724 CONTEMPLATING. 496 00:19:17,724 --> 00:19:19,726 WELL, I HAD IMAGINED THAT THEY 497 00:19:19,726 --> 00:19:21,728 WOULD BE USEFUL IN THE FUTURE, 498 00:19:21,728 --> 00:19:23,730 BUT I'VE DECIDED THAT IF WE'RE 499 00:19:23,730 --> 00:19:25,732 DOING THIS THAT I'M WILLING TO 500 00:19:25,732 --> 00:19:26,699 LET THEM GO. 501 00:19:26,699 --> 00:19:28,401 WHATEVER WE NEED TO DO. 502 00:19:28,401 --> 00:19:28,635 >> OKAY. 503 00:19:28,635 --> 00:19:30,069 ALL RIGHT, LET'S GET STARTED. 504 00:19:30,069 --> 00:19:33,440 >> SOUNDS GOOD. 505 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:36,075 >> I FEEL VERY INTIMIDATED BY 506 00:19:36,075 --> 00:19:37,076 THE WHOLE PROCESS. 507 00:19:37,076 --> 00:19:39,078 I'M SCARED ABOUT IT. 508 00:19:39,078 --> 00:19:41,448 YOU ALWAYS HEAR, YOU KNOW, "YOU 509 00:19:41,448 --> 00:19:42,482 DON'T AIR YOUR DIRTY LAUNDRY," 510 00:19:42,482 --> 00:19:44,884 AND HERE WE ARE, AIRING OUR 511 00:19:44,884 --> 00:19:47,487 DIRTY LAUNDRY FIRST THING TODAY. 512 00:19:47,487 --> 00:19:50,122 >> THOSE ARE JUNK. THAT'S JUNK. 513 00:19:50,122 --> 00:19:50,823 KEEP. 514 00:19:50,823 --> 00:19:51,891 >> QUICK WORK. 515 00:19:51,891 --> 00:19:52,859 [ CHUCKLES ] 516 00:19:52,859 --> 00:19:54,827 >> I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH 517 00:19:54,827 --> 00:19:56,629 GETTING RID OF STUFF THAT I 518 00:19:56,629 --> 00:19:57,497 DON'T WANT. 519 00:19:57,497 --> 00:19:58,698 IT'S REALLY RON. 520 00:19:58,698 --> 00:20:00,633 >> THE BROKEN-WHEELED CAR THAT 521 00:20:00,633 --> 00:20:02,134 I'VE BEEN HOLDING ON TO FOR 522 00:20:02,134 --> 00:20:04,404 YEARS BECAUSE I JUST LOVED IT -- 523 00:20:04,404 --> 00:20:06,439 IT'S GONNA GO BYE. 524 00:20:06,439 --> 00:20:08,107 IT'S GONNA GO. 525 00:20:08,107 --> 00:20:10,810 THERE'S A LITTLE PANG OF SADNESS 526 00:20:10,810 --> 00:20:12,579 AROUND LOSING THAT CAR. 527 00:20:12,579 --> 00:20:13,880 IT'S NOT EASY. 528 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:18,451 STRANGELY ENOUGH, IT'S NOT EASY. 529 00:20:18,451 --> 00:20:19,886 ARE THESE GUYS TAKING THE FISH 530 00:20:19,886 --> 00:20:20,186 TANK? 531 00:20:20,186 --> 00:20:20,820 >> YES. 532 00:20:20,820 --> 00:20:22,054 >> WHAT'S THEIR SERVICE NOW? 533 00:20:22,054 --> 00:20:23,690 >> THEY'RE GOING TO THROW THEM 534 00:20:23,690 --> 00:20:23,890 AWAY. 535 00:20:23,890 --> 00:20:25,658 >> I DIDN'T REALLY WANT TO THROW 536 00:20:25,658 --> 00:20:26,393 THEM AWAY. 537 00:20:26,393 --> 00:20:27,794 >> OH, WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO 538 00:20:27,794 --> 00:20:28,127 WITH THEM? 539 00:20:28,127 --> 00:20:29,829 >> WELL, I WANTED THEM TO BE 540 00:20:29,829 --> 00:20:30,129 USED. 541 00:20:30,129 --> 00:20:32,399 I MEAN, I DON'T WANT THEM BEING 542 00:20:32,399 --> 00:20:33,165 THROWN AWAY. 543 00:20:33,165 --> 00:20:33,400 >> OKAY. 544 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:35,568 HEY, GUYS, LEAVE THE FISH TANK 545 00:20:35,568 --> 00:20:36,168 AND THE STAND. 546 00:20:36,168 --> 00:20:37,937 HE'S CHANGED HIS MIND. YEP. 547 00:20:37,937 --> 00:20:39,171 >> I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH 548 00:20:39,171 --> 00:20:41,007 MY FISH TANKS GOING, BUT I DON'T 549 00:20:41,007 --> 00:20:42,141 WANT THEM THROWN IN THE 550 00:20:42,141 --> 00:20:42,409 DUMPSTER. 551 00:20:42,409 --> 00:20:44,644 I GUESS THAT'S ABOUT THE ONLY 552 00:20:44,644 --> 00:20:46,045 WAY I CAN FEEL OKAY ABOUT IT. 553 00:20:46,045 --> 00:20:47,714 IF WE SAID WE WERE JUST GONNA 554 00:20:47,714 --> 00:20:49,416 THROW THEM IN THE GARBAGE, I'D 555 00:20:49,416 --> 00:20:50,049 REALLY HAVE A HARD TIME WITH IT. 556 00:20:50,049 --> 00:20:51,951 >> IT'S BROKEN. 557 00:20:51,951 --> 00:20:53,019 >> NO, IT'S NOT BROKEN. 558 00:20:53,019 --> 00:20:58,991 NO, IT'S NOT. 559 00:20:58,991 --> 00:21:01,027 >> HE -- HE KIND OF RENEGED ON 560 00:21:01,027 --> 00:21:04,631 LETTING THOSE GO, SO THEY'RE 561 00:21:04,631 --> 00:21:06,699 STILL THERE. 562 00:21:06,699 --> 00:21:07,334 YEAH, HE'S HAVING A ROUGH TIME. 563 00:21:07,334 --> 00:21:09,569 THIS IS A LOT TO DEAL WITH, YOU 564 00:21:09,569 --> 00:21:12,472 KNOW, FOR BOTH OF US. 565 00:21:18,144 --> 00:21:19,646 >> HORSE? 566 00:21:19,646 --> 00:21:22,014 >> IT CAN GO. YES. 567 00:21:22,014 --> 00:21:22,248 GO. GO. 568 00:21:22,248 --> 00:21:24,851 >> GO? 569 00:21:24,851 --> 00:21:26,986 >> THOSE LITTLE THINGS CAN GO. 570 00:21:26,986 --> 00:21:28,187 THE HOUSE CAN GO AND EVERYTHING 571 00:21:28,187 --> 00:21:31,023 IN IT -- GONE. 572 00:21:41,534 --> 00:21:42,034 >> TURTLE -- STAY OR GO? 573 00:21:42,034 --> 00:21:43,803 >> IT STAYS. 574 00:21:43,803 --> 00:21:44,404 >> OKAY. 575 00:21:44,404 --> 00:21:45,538 PILE OF SOMETHING. 576 00:21:45,538 --> 00:21:46,873 WHAT'S GOING ON HERE? 577 00:21:46,873 --> 00:21:48,140 >> OH, THAT'S SOMETHING -- I 578 00:21:48,140 --> 00:21:49,876 THINK I'M GONNA USE THEM. 579 00:21:49,876 --> 00:21:51,043 >> OKAY, SO IT'S SOMETHING 580 00:21:51,043 --> 00:21:51,978 USEFUL. 581 00:21:51,978 --> 00:21:53,646 >> IT'S SOMETHING USEFUL, YEAH. 582 00:21:53,646 --> 00:21:55,114 >> ANYTHING UNDER HERE THAT CAN 583 00:21:55,114 --> 00:21:57,717 GO? 584 00:21:57,717 --> 00:21:59,051 YOU GOT A LOT OF STUFF LYING 585 00:21:59,051 --> 00:22:01,020 AROUND HERE THAT I'M NOT SURE IS 586 00:22:01,020 --> 00:22:02,955 CONTRIBUTING TO THE HAPPY-HOME 587 00:22:02,955 --> 00:22:04,757 PICTURE THAT YOU WANT TO CREATE. 588 00:22:04,757 --> 00:22:05,157 >> YEAH. 589 00:22:05,157 --> 00:22:08,961 >> I WAS PRETTY AFRAID THAT, YOU 590 00:22:08,961 --> 00:22:11,097 KNOW, WHEN I STARTED TO SEE 591 00:22:11,097 --> 00:22:12,999 RON'S REACTION TO SOME OF THE 592 00:22:12,999 --> 00:22:15,034 STUFF, YOU KNOW, GERALIN WAS 593 00:22:15,034 --> 00:22:17,504 ASKING HIM IF SOME OF THE STUFF 594 00:22:17,504 --> 00:22:18,137 COULD GO. 595 00:22:18,137 --> 00:22:20,006 AND, YOU KNOW, FROM HAVING KNOWN 596 00:22:20,006 --> 00:22:21,107 HIM FOR 10 YEARS, I'VE SEEN 597 00:22:21,107 --> 00:22:22,709 THOSE POSTURES AND THOSE LOOKS 598 00:22:22,709 --> 00:22:23,576 COME ON HIS FACE. 599 00:22:23,576 --> 00:22:26,012 AND NORMALLY, WHAT THEY MEAN IS 600 00:22:26,012 --> 00:22:28,448 SOMETHING THAT'S NOT TOO 601 00:22:28,448 --> 00:22:29,849 PLEASANT OR FRIENDLY. 602 00:22:29,849 --> 00:22:31,150 >> SO, WHAT'S THE STORY WITH 603 00:22:31,150 --> 00:22:31,418 THIS DECK? 604 00:22:31,418 --> 00:22:33,886 IS IT GOING TO STAY, OR IS IT 605 00:22:33,886 --> 00:22:36,088 GOING TO GO? 606 00:22:36,088 --> 00:22:38,024 >> I HAVE SO MUCH INVESTED IN 607 00:22:38,024 --> 00:22:39,559 IT. 608 00:22:39,559 --> 00:22:40,393 >> HOW SO? 609 00:22:40,393 --> 00:22:42,395 >> WELL, THE INVESTMENT WAS MY 610 00:22:42,395 --> 00:22:44,130 FATHER FOUND IT, AND HE GOT 611 00:22:44,130 --> 00:22:46,165 SOMEBODY TO HAUL IT OVER HERE. 612 00:22:46,165 --> 00:22:48,034 I HAVE A COUPLE FRIENDS THAT 613 00:22:48,034 --> 00:22:50,102 LAUGH AND ASK ME ABOUT MY DECK 614 00:22:50,102 --> 00:22:52,505 THAT'S NOT ATTACHED TO ANYTHING. 615 00:22:52,505 --> 00:22:54,073 >> IT'S A DETACHED DECK. 616 00:22:54,073 --> 00:22:56,909 >> THE DECK TO NOWHERE. YEAH. 617 00:22:56,909 --> 00:22:58,545 >> SERIOUSLY, I DON'T WANT YOU 618 00:22:58,545 --> 00:23:00,012 TO LET IT GO IF IT'S GONNA BE A 619 00:23:00,012 --> 00:23:01,481 BAD FEELING FOR YOU. 620 00:23:01,481 --> 00:23:03,049 >> WELL, WE CAN SEE IF WE CAN, 621 00:23:03,049 --> 00:23:03,716 AND... 622 00:23:03,716 --> 00:23:04,050 >> OKAY. 623 00:23:04,050 --> 00:23:05,652 >> AND I CAN CHANGE MY MIND. 624 00:23:05,652 --> 00:23:06,919 BUT IT'S GONNA TAKE THEM A 625 00:23:06,919 --> 00:23:07,754 MINUTE TO GET IT. 626 00:23:07,754 --> 00:23:09,088 >> IT'S GONNA TAKE THEM MORE 627 00:23:09,088 --> 00:23:10,122 THAN A MINUTE TO GET THAT THING 628 00:23:10,122 --> 00:23:10,890 UNDONE. 629 00:23:10,890 --> 00:23:12,058 OKAY. YOU FEEL PRETTY GOOD? 630 00:23:12,058 --> 00:23:12,358 >> YEAH, NO. 631 00:23:12,358 --> 00:23:14,694 I FEEL LIKE I MIGHT GET SICK. 632 00:23:14,694 --> 00:23:15,094 >> DO YOU? 633 00:23:15,094 --> 00:23:16,028 >> A LITTLE BIT. 634 00:23:16,028 --> 00:23:18,064 >> YEAH. YOU FEELING NAUSEATED? 635 00:23:18,064 --> 00:23:19,065 >> JUST A LITTLE. 636 00:23:19,065 --> 00:23:20,399 >> OKAY, TAKE A COUPLE DEEP 637 00:23:20,399 --> 00:23:20,633 BREATHS. 638 00:23:20,633 --> 00:23:22,635 DO YOU NEED A COKE OR A WATER? 639 00:23:22,635 --> 00:23:23,870 YOU WANT TO HAVE A SEAT FOR A 640 00:23:23,870 --> 00:23:24,170 FEW MINUTES? 641 00:23:24,170 --> 00:23:25,738 >> NO, I'M OKAY. I'M ALL RIGHT. 642 00:23:25,738 --> 00:23:26,038 >> YOU SURE? 643 00:23:26,038 --> 00:23:27,940 >> YEAH. 644 00:23:47,026 --> 00:23:49,061 >> OKAY, WELL, I SAVED THE ONES 645 00:23:49,061 --> 00:23:51,598 THAT PAPAW GOT FOR YOU, BUT I 646 00:23:51,598 --> 00:23:53,165 THINK WE KIND OF NEED TO GET RID 647 00:23:53,165 --> 00:23:53,733 OF SOME OF THE OTHER STUFFED 648 00:23:53,733 --> 00:23:56,769 ANIMALS 'CAUSE WE HAVE SO MANY, 649 00:23:56,769 --> 00:23:58,137 AND A LOT OF THEM WERE MESSED 650 00:23:58,137 --> 00:23:58,838 UP. 651 00:23:58,838 --> 00:24:00,507 AND I KNOW IT'S SOMETHING HARD, 652 00:24:00,507 --> 00:24:01,908 BUT THE REALITY IS THAT YOU'RE 653 00:24:01,908 --> 00:24:03,075 NOT GONNA GET TO ENJOY THE STUFF 654 00:24:03,075 --> 00:24:05,812 YOULIKE IF YOU DON'T LET GO 655 00:24:05,812 --> 00:24:07,480 OF SOME OF THE STUFF YOU REALLY 656 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:08,014 DON'T LIKE. 657 00:24:08,014 --> 00:24:10,983 >> MOM, DO WE HAVE TO THROW AWAY 658 00:24:10,983 --> 00:24:11,283 MY BLANKIE? 659 00:24:11,283 --> 00:24:12,919 >> NO. 660 00:24:12,919 --> 00:24:14,053 NO, THE BLANKIE IS GONNA BE 661 00:24:14,053 --> 00:24:15,888 WASHED. 662 00:24:15,888 --> 00:24:17,790 >> YAY. 663 00:24:32,705 --> 00:24:35,908 STOP! STOP! 664 00:24:35,908 --> 00:24:36,342 I WANT TO KEEP THAT! 665 00:24:36,342 --> 00:24:39,078 >> OH. I'M SORRY, MAN. 666 00:24:39,078 --> 00:24:40,980 THEY TOLD ME TO TAKE IT. 667 00:24:40,980 --> 00:24:42,815 >> [ Voice breaking ] I WANTED 668 00:24:42,815 --> 00:24:46,118 TO KEEP THAT. 669 00:24:46,118 --> 00:24:50,857 THEY'RE TAKING THIS TOY HOUSE. 670 00:24:50,857 --> 00:24:53,059 WHEN I WAS A LITTLE KID, I HAD 671 00:24:53,059 --> 00:24:55,662 THAT, AND I WANTED -- AND I 672 00:24:55,662 --> 00:24:58,030 WANTED TO GIVE IT TO MY CHILDREN 673 00:24:58,030 --> 00:25:01,433 WHEN I WAS OLDER, BUT THEY'RE 674 00:25:01,433 --> 00:25:03,870 THROWING IT AWAY. 675 00:25:03,870 --> 00:25:05,938 >> BUT IS IT KIND OF BEAT-UP? 676 00:25:05,938 --> 00:25:07,840 >> NO IT IS. 677 00:25:28,494 --> 00:25:30,897 >> IT'S HARD FOR ME TO IMAGINE 678 00:25:30,897 --> 00:25:34,466 LIVING IN A HOUSE THAT'S SO FULL 679 00:25:34,466 --> 00:25:37,937 OF NOT JUST STUFF, BUT THE DIRT 680 00:25:37,937 --> 00:25:39,772 AND EVERYTHING. 681 00:25:39,772 --> 00:25:40,940 JUST... 682 00:25:40,940 --> 00:25:42,008 [ SIGHS ] 683 00:25:51,984 --> 00:25:54,954 >> CAN I MAKE A SUGGESTION? 684 00:25:54,954 --> 00:25:55,588 >> YES. 685 00:25:55,588 --> 00:25:57,624 >> I THINK MAYBE IT MAKES SENSE 686 00:25:57,624 --> 00:25:59,525 TO PRIORITIZE FIRST AREAS OF 687 00:25:59,525 --> 00:26:01,393 HAZARD -- THINGS THAT POSE A 688 00:26:01,393 --> 00:26:03,162 DANGER TO YOU, YOUR PETS, THE 689 00:26:03,162 --> 00:26:04,764 PEOPLE AROUND YOU. 690 00:26:04,764 --> 00:26:06,465 BRENDEN AND I HAVE BEEN TALKING 691 00:26:06,465 --> 00:26:07,033 A LITTLE BIT ABOUT THIS, AND 692 00:26:07,033 --> 00:26:09,802 WHAT WE HAVE IN MIND IS A BIT OF 693 00:26:09,802 --> 00:26:10,870 A TAG-TEAM APPROACH. 694 00:26:10,870 --> 00:26:12,071 >> I'M BRENDEN McDANIEL. 695 00:26:12,071 --> 00:26:13,806 I'M A PROFESSIONAL ORGANIZER. 696 00:26:13,806 --> 00:26:14,941 WE HELP PEOPLE GET ON TRACK TO 697 00:26:14,941 --> 00:26:17,409 AN ORGANIZED LIFE. 698 00:26:17,409 --> 00:26:19,111 >> BRENDEN AND HIS TEAM ARE 699 00:26:19,111 --> 00:26:21,447 GONNA HELP WITH THE ORGANIZING 700 00:26:21,447 --> 00:26:22,581 ASPECT OF IT. 701 00:26:22,581 --> 00:26:24,784 I'M GONNA GET IN THERE WITH THE 702 00:26:24,784 --> 00:26:26,886 BEHAVIORAL- AND EMOTIONAL-CHANGE 703 00:26:26,886 --> 00:26:27,820 PART OF IT. 704 00:26:27,820 --> 00:26:29,088 SOUND LIKE A PLAN? 705 00:26:29,088 --> 00:26:30,589 >> SOUNDS GREAT WITH ME. 706 00:26:30,589 --> 00:26:31,223 >> LET'S GET INSIDE AND GET WARM 707 00:26:31,223 --> 00:26:31,958 AND GET TO IT. 708 00:26:31,958 --> 00:26:33,826 >> YES, OKAY. 709 00:26:33,826 --> 00:26:38,030 [ CHUCKLES ] 710 00:26:38,030 --> 00:26:39,899 I THINK YOU'RE ALL SET. 711 00:26:39,899 --> 00:26:41,634 YOU'RE ABOUT READY TO DO THE 712 00:26:41,634 --> 00:26:42,068 PUMPKIN. 713 00:26:42,068 --> 00:26:45,604 WELL, IT WAS A BEAUTY WHEN IT 714 00:26:45,604 --> 00:26:46,673 WAS ALIVE. 715 00:26:46,673 --> 00:26:48,908 I ENJOYED YOU WHILE YOU WERE 716 00:26:48,908 --> 00:26:49,742 HERE. 717 00:26:49,742 --> 00:26:52,912 THANK YOU. GOODBYE. 718 00:26:52,912 --> 00:26:54,714 >> THERE'S A LOT OF WORK TO BE 719 00:26:54,714 --> 00:26:56,082 DONE. 720 00:26:56,082 --> 00:26:58,084 THIS IS PROBABLY THE WORST HOUSE 721 00:26:58,084 --> 00:26:59,919 THAT I'VE DONE, PERIOD. 722 00:26:59,919 --> 00:27:01,888 >> OH, MY. 723 00:27:01,888 --> 00:27:03,455 LET ME JUST LOOK AND SEE IF 724 00:27:03,455 --> 00:27:05,124 THERE ARE ANY SEEDS IN HERE, SO 725 00:27:05,124 --> 00:27:07,059 WE CAN TRY TO GET A FEW OF THESE 726 00:27:07,059 --> 00:27:08,094 'CAUSE THIS IS AN ODD PUMPKIN. 727 00:27:08,094 --> 00:27:10,897 I'VE NEVER SEEN ONE QUITE LIKE 728 00:27:10,897 --> 00:27:11,731 THIS BEFORE. 729 00:27:11,731 --> 00:27:13,599 AND IF I CAN GROW SOME, THAT 730 00:27:13,599 --> 00:27:14,600 WOULD BE NEAT. 731 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:16,002 OKAY. 732 00:27:16,002 --> 00:27:18,170 >> THE KITCHEN IS WHAT I'M 733 00:27:18,170 --> 00:27:19,806 REALLY CONCERNED ABOUT. 734 00:27:19,806 --> 00:27:22,174 JUST THE PURE MAGNITUDE OF THE 735 00:27:22,174 --> 00:27:24,010 AMOUNT OF FOOD IN THE KITCHEN 736 00:27:24,010 --> 00:27:27,947 THAT ALL NEEDS TO BE TOSSED OUT. 737 00:27:27,947 --> 00:27:30,116 ROTTEN APPLES. 738 00:27:30,116 --> 00:27:33,085 LOOKS LIKE IT SEPARATED. 739 00:27:33,085 --> 00:27:35,154 OOH, LOOKS LIKE MORE APPLES, 740 00:27:35,154 --> 00:27:37,556 SOME LETTUCE, SOME OTHER STUFF 741 00:27:37,556 --> 00:27:38,891 THAT TURNED BLACK. 742 00:27:38,891 --> 00:27:40,059 DELICIOUS. 743 00:27:40,059 --> 00:27:40,927 >> JILL, HOW ABOUT THE FREEZER? 744 00:27:40,927 --> 00:27:43,763 CAN WE GET RID OF EVERYTHING IN 745 00:27:43,763 --> 00:27:44,596 THE FREEZER? 746 00:27:44,596 --> 00:27:45,197 >> LET ME LOOK THROUGH IT, IF 747 00:27:45,197 --> 00:27:49,736 YOU DON'T MIND. 748 00:27:49,736 --> 00:27:52,504 OH! I DIDN'T KNOW I HAD TAMALES! 749 00:27:52,504 --> 00:27:54,106 OH! 750 00:27:54,106 --> 00:27:55,407 I'M GONNA KEEP THOSE. 751 00:27:55,407 --> 00:27:56,408 I'LL KEEP THIS ONE. 752 00:27:56,408 --> 00:27:57,744 I'LL KEEP THIS ONE 'CAUSE THAT 753 00:27:57,744 --> 00:28:00,747 SMALL ONE'S FOR ME. 754 00:28:00,747 --> 00:28:02,048 IF IT'S SQUISHY, I'M TOSSING IT. 755 00:28:02,048 --> 00:28:03,582 >> THOSE DON'T LOOK GOOD. 756 00:28:03,582 --> 00:28:04,450 >> WHAT IS THAT? 757 00:28:04,450 --> 00:28:05,517 >> GROUND BUFFALO. 758 00:28:05,517 --> 00:28:05,785 EXPIRED... 759 00:28:05,785 --> 00:28:07,586 >> IT PROBABLY ISN'T EXPIRED 760 00:28:07,586 --> 00:28:08,220 BECAUSE I HAVEN'T BEEN BUYING IT 761 00:28:08,220 --> 00:28:09,889 THAT LONG. 762 00:28:09,889 --> 00:28:11,858 >> WELL, IT'S GREEN INSIDE. 763 00:28:11,858 --> 00:28:13,025 IT'S HARD SEEING SOMEONE LIVING 764 00:28:13,025 --> 00:28:15,061 IN THESE CONDITIONS AND NOT 765 00:28:15,061 --> 00:28:19,832 HAVING A PROBLEM WITH THAT. 766 00:28:19,832 --> 00:28:20,399 YOU'VE GOT THIS REALLY COOL 767 00:28:20,399 --> 00:28:22,634 ORGANIC CHICKEN BROTH -- 768 00:28:22,634 --> 00:28:24,837 FREE-RANGE-CHICKEN BROTH. 769 00:28:24,837 --> 00:28:27,073 BUT IT'S NOVEMBER OF '08. 770 00:28:27,073 --> 00:28:29,842 CAN WE LET THAT GO? 771 00:28:29,842 --> 00:28:31,443 >> NO, THAT'S SOMETHING THAT I 772 00:28:31,443 --> 00:28:32,111 WOULD BE ABLE TO USE. 773 00:28:32,111 --> 00:28:34,781 >> WELL, WE HAVE -- 774 00:28:34,781 --> 00:28:35,982 >> IT'S NOT PUFFY, IT'S 775 00:28:35,982 --> 00:28:37,917 EXPENSIVE, I DON'T HAVE THE 776 00:28:37,917 --> 00:28:39,786 MONEY TO REPLACE IT, AND IT IS 777 00:28:39,786 --> 00:28:41,854 SOMETHING THAT I CAN EAT ON MY 778 00:28:41,854 --> 00:28:42,855 DIET. 779 00:28:42,855 --> 00:28:45,457 >> HOW MUCH BACTERIA DO YOU 780 00:28:45,457 --> 00:28:46,959 THINK WOULD HAVE TO EXIST IN 781 00:28:46,959 --> 00:28:51,130 HERE BEFORE IT WOULD PUFF? 782 00:28:51,130 --> 00:28:52,832 >> I THINK QUITE A BIT. 783 00:28:52,832 --> 00:28:54,666 >> YEAH, YOU'RE PROBABLY TALKING 784 00:28:54,666 --> 00:28:56,002 LIFE-THREATENING AMOUNTS OF 785 00:28:56,002 --> 00:28:56,869 BACTERIA. 786 00:28:56,869 --> 00:28:58,704 >> YEAH, I MUST HAVE A CAST-IRON 787 00:28:58,704 --> 00:29:00,606 STOMACH OR SOMETHING BECAUSE I 788 00:29:00,606 --> 00:29:02,608 CAN GET AWAY WITH EATING STUFF 789 00:29:02,608 --> 00:29:03,810 THAT OTHER PEOPLE GET -- THEY 790 00:29:03,810 --> 00:29:05,044 SEE THE DATE AND SAY, "OH, 791 00:29:05,044 --> 00:29:05,277 HORRORS! 792 00:29:05,277 --> 00:29:08,881 NOVEMBER '08!" 793 00:29:08,881 --> 00:29:10,749 >> HOW CRITICAL IS IT FOR YOU TO 794 00:29:10,749 --> 00:29:12,184 MAKE THE BIG BEHAVIORAL CHANGES 795 00:29:12,184 --> 00:29:13,052 THAT ARE GONNA ACTUALLY GET YOU 796 00:29:13,052 --> 00:29:15,754 WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN LIFE, 797 00:29:15,754 --> 00:29:18,724 VERSUS SAVING THE MONEY AND 798 00:29:18,724 --> 00:29:22,728 HANGING ON TO THIS VERY EXPIRED 799 00:29:22,728 --> 00:29:24,163 CHICKEN BROTH? 800 00:29:24,163 --> 00:29:26,765 MY THOUGHT IS THAT YOU HAVE A 801 00:29:26,765 --> 00:29:27,800 BLIND SPOT HERE. 802 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,135 MY THOUGHT IS THAT YOU'RE 803 00:29:29,135 --> 00:29:30,636 FALLING INTO ONE OF YOUR 804 00:29:30,636 --> 00:29:34,006 HOARDING HABITS. 805 00:29:34,006 --> 00:29:36,642 >> HMM. 806 00:29:36,642 --> 00:29:37,977 >> CLUTTER IS THE SYMPTOM, BUT 807 00:29:37,977 --> 00:29:40,913 HOARDING IS THE DISEASE. 808 00:29:40,913 --> 00:29:42,114 IF ALL WE DO IS TACKLE CLUTTER, 809 00:29:42,114 --> 00:29:45,017 IF ALL WE DO IS REMOVE THINGS, 810 00:29:45,017 --> 00:29:47,519 WE'RE NOT CHANGING HER BEHAVIOR. 811 00:29:47,519 --> 00:29:49,721 WE'RE NOT REALLY HELPING HER IN 812 00:29:49,721 --> 00:29:50,622 THE LONG RUN. 813 00:29:50,622 --> 00:29:51,157 AND IF WE COME BACK IN SIX 814 00:29:51,157 --> 00:29:53,592 MONTHS OR A YEAR, I THINK WE 815 00:29:53,592 --> 00:29:54,160 WOULD FIND THAT THE HOUSE IS 816 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,128 EXACTLY HOW IT WAS. 817 00:29:56,128 --> 00:30:06,038 O0 C1 818 00:30:06,038 --> 00:30:07,907 >> GOOD MORNING, EVERYBODY. 819 00:30:08,140 --> 00:30:08,941 >> GOOD MORNING. 820 00:30:08,941 --> 00:30:09,441 >> EVERYBODY REST WELL? 821 00:30:09,441 --> 00:30:10,843 READY TO WORK? 822 00:30:10,843 --> 00:30:13,445 >> ABSOLUTELY. 823 00:30:13,445 --> 00:30:14,180 >> THE KIDS, YEAH, YESTERDAY, 824 00:30:14,180 --> 00:30:16,983 THEY WERE A LITTLE OVERWHELMED 825 00:30:16,983 --> 00:30:18,817 BY WHAT WAS ALL THE STUFF BEING 826 00:30:18,817 --> 00:30:19,818 SHIFTED AROUND. 827 00:30:19,818 --> 00:30:21,620 AND AGAIN, THEY HAVE -- YOU 828 00:30:21,620 --> 00:30:23,422 KNOW, THEY'VE ADAPTED TO THIS. 829 00:30:23,422 --> 00:30:24,924 THIS IS NORMAL TO THEM. 830 00:30:33,432 --> 00:30:35,701 I KNOW THAT IT'S THE ONLY THING 831 00:30:35,701 --> 00:30:37,103 THAT YOU'VE EVER KNOWN, AND SO 832 00:30:37,103 --> 00:30:38,871 IT'S HARD FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND 833 00:30:38,871 --> 00:30:39,405 THAT IT CAN BE DIFFERENT. 834 00:30:39,405 --> 00:30:42,408 BUT YOU KNOW HOW WHEN YOU GO 835 00:30:42,408 --> 00:30:44,576 OVER TO YOUR FRIEND'S HOUSE -- 836 00:30:44,576 --> 00:30:46,645 BEN'S HOUSE -- YOU KNOW HOW MUCH 837 00:30:46,645 --> 00:30:47,446 FUN IT IS OVER THERE? 838 00:30:47,446 --> 00:30:49,081 >> MM-HMM. 839 00:30:49,081 --> 00:30:50,782 >> DO YOU WANT A HOUSE LIKE 840 00:30:50,782 --> 00:30:51,450 THAT? 841 00:30:51,450 --> 00:30:52,484 >> SOMETIMES. 842 00:30:52,484 --> 00:30:54,453 >> CHANGING SOMETHING THAT BIG 843 00:30:54,453 --> 00:30:56,422 IN YOUR LIFE IS NEVER GONNA BE 844 00:30:56,422 --> 00:30:57,489 COMFORTABLE AND JUST EASY AND 845 00:30:57,489 --> 00:30:58,390 FEELY-GOOD. 846 00:30:58,390 --> 00:31:01,427 ARE YOU GONNA BE ALL RIGHT? 847 00:31:01,427 --> 00:31:03,595 GET THROUGH THIS WITH US? 848 00:31:03,595 --> 00:31:04,530 >> SURE. 849 00:31:04,530 --> 00:31:06,465 >> I LOVE YOU, KIDDO. 850 00:31:15,441 --> 00:31:18,444 THIS IS AN OVERDRAFT STATEMENT. 851 00:31:18,444 --> 00:31:20,579 >> HOW MUCH DID THAT COST YOU -- 852 00:31:20,579 --> 00:31:22,681 $25 OR $15 -- AN OVERDRAFT? 853 00:31:22,681 --> 00:31:23,682 >> A LOT MORE. 854 00:31:23,682 --> 00:31:24,483 >> OH. 855 00:31:24,483 --> 00:31:24,716 >> YEAH. 856 00:31:24,716 --> 00:31:26,018 >> OKAY. 857 00:31:26,018 --> 00:31:29,021 >> HUNDREDS. 858 00:31:29,021 --> 00:31:30,656 >> YOU LOOK LIKE YOU'RE ABOUT TO 859 00:31:30,656 --> 00:31:30,957 CRY. 860 00:31:30,957 --> 00:31:31,723 >> IT WAS BAD. 861 00:31:31,723 --> 00:31:33,092 >> DID HE EVER FIND OUT? 862 00:31:33,092 --> 00:31:34,493 >> NO, NOT REALLY. 863 00:31:34,493 --> 00:31:36,562 >> WHY ARE YOU CRYING RIGHT NOW? 864 00:31:36,562 --> 00:31:38,797 >> [ Voice breaking ] 'CAUSE I'M 865 00:31:38,797 --> 00:31:40,099 NOT PROUD OF IT. 866 00:31:40,099 --> 00:31:41,500 >> A LOT OF SHAME. 867 00:31:41,500 --> 00:31:42,534 >> YEAH. 868 00:31:42,534 --> 00:31:44,503 >> WHAT -- WHAT DO YOU WANT TO 869 00:31:44,503 --> 00:31:47,473 DO WITH IT? 870 00:31:47,473 --> 00:31:49,976 >> YOU KNOW, I WANT THIS NOT TO 871 00:31:49,976 --> 00:31:52,411 BE A REGULAR PART OF MY LIFE 872 00:31:52,411 --> 00:31:58,617 ANYMORE. 873 00:31:58,617 --> 00:31:59,818 >> EXCUSE US. 874 00:31:59,818 --> 00:32:01,620 IT'S LOOKING GOOD. 875 00:32:01,620 --> 00:32:03,455 I HAVE TO SAY THAT IT'S A LITTLE 876 00:32:03,455 --> 00:32:05,491 DISORIENTING. 877 00:32:05,491 --> 00:32:07,994 I THINK IT'S JUST KIND OF -- 878 00:32:07,994 --> 00:32:09,528 IT'S JUST REALLY A STRANGE 879 00:32:09,528 --> 00:32:12,798 SENSATION FOR EVERYTHING TO BE 880 00:32:12,798 --> 00:32:15,167 JUST MOVED AROUND LIKE IT IS. 881 00:32:15,167 --> 00:32:18,804 I'VE DISCOVERED THAT I HAVE A 882 00:32:18,804 --> 00:32:21,107 STRANGE ATTACHMENT TO THE WAY 883 00:32:21,107 --> 00:32:22,474 THINGS ARE, EVEN IF THEY'RE 884 00:32:22,474 --> 00:32:24,043 CHAOTIC. 885 00:32:24,043 --> 00:32:26,512 I'VE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO DO THIS. 886 00:32:26,512 --> 00:32:28,914 THIS IS A NEW EXPERIENCE FOR ME. 887 00:32:28,914 --> 00:32:30,549 IT HAD NEVER OCCURRED TO ME HOW 888 00:32:30,549 --> 00:32:33,452 EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED I CAN 889 00:32:33,452 --> 00:32:37,556 BECOME TO STUFF. 890 00:32:40,426 --> 00:32:42,061 >> TRASH IT. TRASH IT. 891 00:32:42,061 --> 00:32:42,794 >> YEAH. 892 00:32:42,794 --> 00:32:43,829 >> TRASH IT. 893 00:32:43,829 --> 00:32:44,596 >> YEAH. 894 00:32:44,596 --> 00:32:45,631 >> TRASH IT. 895 00:32:45,631 --> 00:32:47,633 >> YEAH. 896 00:32:47,633 --> 00:32:48,634 SHE HAD THIS TODAY. 897 00:32:48,634 --> 00:32:49,935 >> BUT WE DON'T NEED IT. 898 00:32:49,935 --> 00:32:50,969 >> WE DON'T NEED IT? 899 00:32:50,969 --> 00:32:52,438 >> NO. THIS IS THE LAST DAY. 900 00:32:52,438 --> 00:32:53,639 THE GUYS ARE GONNA BE HERE. 901 00:32:53,639 --> 00:32:54,506 WE NEED TO GET THIS STUFF OUT IF 902 00:32:54,506 --> 00:32:55,907 IT'S GOING. 903 00:32:55,907 --> 00:32:57,176 I DON'T KNOW WHAT THIS IS, SO 904 00:32:57,176 --> 00:32:58,477 WE'RE NOT GONNA MISS IT. 905 00:32:58,477 --> 00:32:59,745 WE'RE NOT GONNA MISS IT. 906 00:32:59,745 --> 00:33:01,413 >> WE WON'T MISS THAT. 907 00:33:14,626 --> 00:33:16,562 WHILE I WAS GONE, PICKING UP THE 908 00:33:16,562 --> 00:33:17,163 KIDS, SHE WAS LIKE, YOU KNOW, 909 00:33:17,163 --> 00:33:19,498 THE OPPORTUNITY PRESENTED 910 00:33:19,498 --> 00:33:19,731 ITSELF. 911 00:33:19,731 --> 00:33:22,000 I DIDN'T KNOW THAT WE WERE GONNA 912 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:22,434 DEAL WITH THE ATTIC. 913 00:33:22,434 --> 00:33:27,039 AND I WAS SCARED. 914 00:33:27,039 --> 00:33:28,640 >> WHEN HE LEFT TO PICK UP THE 915 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,476 KIDS, HE WAS UPSET, AND HE SAID 916 00:33:30,476 --> 00:33:31,177 IT WAS GETTING ON HIS NERVES AND 917 00:33:31,177 --> 00:33:40,852 HE WAS NOT COPING WELL. 918 00:33:40,852 --> 00:33:42,954 >> I MEAN, I WAS HORRIFIED WHEN 919 00:33:42,954 --> 00:33:45,091 I SAW STUFF COMING OUT THE ATTIC 920 00:33:45,091 --> 00:33:52,431 WINDOW. 921 00:33:52,431 --> 00:33:55,634 SOME OF IT WAS, YOU KNOW -- IT'S 922 00:33:55,634 --> 00:34:02,074 STUFF THAT HAD SOME VALUE. 923 00:34:02,074 --> 00:34:05,144 BUT I JUST CAN'T HANDLE IT. 924 00:34:05,144 --> 00:34:06,912 AND I WAS LIKE, "OH, MY GOD. 925 00:34:06,912 --> 00:34:09,815 THEY'RE RUINING EVERYTHING." 926 00:34:16,987 --> 00:34:20,726 >> THE MESS THAT I LIVE IN NOW 927 00:34:20,726 --> 00:34:22,460 HAS REACHED A CRITICAL MASS. 928 00:34:37,543 --> 00:34:38,543 >> TODAY, WE'RE GONNA GO AND 929 00:34:38,543 --> 00:34:40,478 WORK IN THE KITCHEN. 930 00:34:40,478 --> 00:34:42,013 JILL'S GOT TO MAKE SOME 931 00:34:42,013 --> 00:34:43,715 DECISIONS ABOUT GETTING RID OF 932 00:34:43,715 --> 00:34:44,882 LOTS MORE THINGS. 933 00:34:44,882 --> 00:34:46,485 >> THAT SIDE OF THE SHELF IS 934 00:34:46,485 --> 00:34:47,186 GONNA BE BAD. 935 00:34:47,186 --> 00:34:48,620 THROW THAT BUTTER. 936 00:34:48,620 --> 00:34:50,156 THROW THAT COTTAGE CHEESE. 937 00:34:50,156 --> 00:34:51,857 FARINA. THAT I WILL KEEP. 938 00:34:51,857 --> 00:34:53,625 >> HOW LONG HAVE YOU HAD THIS? 939 00:34:53,625 --> 00:34:54,760 >> I DON'T KNOW. 940 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:56,661 WHEN THERE ARE BUGS IN IT, WHICH 941 00:34:56,661 --> 00:34:58,430 IS WHAT HAPPENS TO THEM, THERE 942 00:34:58,430 --> 00:35:00,499 ARE LITTLE CRAWLY MARKS THAT GO 943 00:35:00,499 --> 00:35:01,133 IN HERE. 944 00:35:01,133 --> 00:35:02,968 THAT'S HOW YOU CAN TELL WHETHER 945 00:35:02,968 --> 00:35:05,404 IT'S GOT BUGS. 946 00:35:05,404 --> 00:35:06,672 DO THESE EXPIRE? 947 00:35:06,672 --> 00:35:08,674 I MEAN, WHAT CAN THEY DO -- GO 948 00:35:08,674 --> 00:35:08,874 SOUR? 949 00:35:08,874 --> 00:35:11,009 >> THEY CAN GIVE YOU FOOD 950 00:35:11,009 --> 00:35:12,511 POISONING AND KILL YOU. 951 00:35:12,511 --> 00:35:14,112 >> RICOTTA CHEESE IS FROZEN 952 00:35:14,112 --> 00:35:15,080 SOLID. 953 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:16,182 >> WHAT'S YOUR RULE? 954 00:35:16,182 --> 00:35:17,849 TALK US THROUGH IT. 955 00:35:17,849 --> 00:35:18,250 WHAT'S YOUR LOGIC? 956 00:35:18,250 --> 00:35:21,687 >> WELL, MY LOGIC IS THAT WHEN 957 00:35:21,687 --> 00:35:23,989 STUFF'S FROZEN, IT EXPIRES 958 00:35:23,989 --> 00:35:26,625 SLOWER THAN IT WOULD WHEN IT WAS 959 00:35:26,625 --> 00:35:27,826 NOT FROZEN. 960 00:35:27,826 --> 00:35:30,028 >> THE DATE ON THIS IS JANUARY 961 00:35:30,028 --> 00:35:30,729 OF '07. 962 00:35:30,729 --> 00:35:31,963 >> OH, MY GOD. 963 00:35:31,963 --> 00:35:34,032 >> SOMETHING ABOUT THOSE EGGS IS 964 00:35:34,032 --> 00:35:34,433 REALLY SCARING ME. 965 00:35:34,433 --> 00:35:36,101 >> YES, THOSE ARE THE ONES THAT 966 00:35:36,101 --> 00:35:38,103 I GOT FROM YOU FOR MY BIRTHDAY A 967 00:35:38,103 --> 00:35:40,005 YEAR AGO. 968 00:35:40,005 --> 00:35:41,006 >> A YEAR AGO. 969 00:35:41,006 --> 00:35:42,841 >> I GAVE THEM TO YOU TO EAT. 970 00:35:42,841 --> 00:35:44,743 >> THEY WERE TOO PRETTY TO EAT. 971 00:35:44,743 --> 00:35:47,746 >> ARE YOUR PERCEPTIONS OF FOOD 972 00:35:47,746 --> 00:35:49,881 COMPLETELY ACCURATE? 973 00:35:49,881 --> 00:35:50,449 OR MIGHT THERE BE SOMETHING 974 00:35:50,449 --> 00:35:51,983 IRRATIONAL? 975 00:35:51,983 --> 00:35:52,551 >> I KNOW THAT YOU'RE RIGHT 976 00:35:52,551 --> 00:35:54,486 ABOUT SOME OF IT, AND I'M 977 00:35:54,486 --> 00:35:56,054 THROWING OUT THINGS THAT I'VE 978 00:35:56,054 --> 00:35:57,423 KEPT IN THERE FOR A LONG TIME. 979 00:35:57,423 --> 00:35:58,990 SOME OF THEM ARE NO-BRAINERS. 980 00:35:58,990 --> 00:36:00,492 BUT SOME OF THEM ARE THINGS THAT 981 00:36:00,492 --> 00:36:01,993 I HAD TO REALLY LOOK AT THEM 982 00:36:01,993 --> 00:36:03,128 BEFORE I COULD FIND SOME GOOD 983 00:36:03,128 --> 00:36:04,730 REASON TO THROW THEM OUT. 984 00:36:04,730 --> 00:36:05,331 >> WHAT'S GOING ON WITH THAT? 985 00:36:05,331 --> 00:36:08,934 >> ONCE AGAIN, AN ATTEMPT TO BE 986 00:36:08,934 --> 00:36:10,402 SELF-SUPPORTING. 987 00:36:10,402 --> 00:36:12,438 THAT'S THE DRIVING FORCE BEHIND 988 00:36:12,438 --> 00:36:14,706 MOST EVERYTHING. 989 00:36:14,706 --> 00:36:17,108 >> AND YET IT IS ALSO THAT 990 00:36:17,108 --> 00:36:19,445 MENTALITY THAT GOT YOU HERE. 991 00:36:19,445 --> 00:36:21,179 >> I KNOW. YEAH. 992 00:36:21,179 --> 00:36:27,185 >> RIGHT. 993 00:36:27,185 --> 00:36:27,486 OH, MY GOD. 994 00:36:27,486 --> 00:36:30,422 WHAT'S GOING ON IN THERE? 995 00:36:30,422 --> 00:36:32,391 >> THIS IS ALL GONE. 996 00:36:32,391 --> 00:36:32,691 >> OH, BOY. 997 00:36:32,691 --> 00:36:35,394 >> UGH. THIS IS... 998 00:36:35,394 --> 00:36:37,796 >> PITCH IT. 999 00:36:37,796 --> 00:36:38,196 >> [ GASPS, GAGS ] 1000 00:36:38,196 --> 00:36:41,166 >> [ Laughing ] I'M SORRY. 1001 00:36:41,166 --> 00:36:43,034 >> I'M REALLY GROSSED-OUT. 1002 00:36:43,034 --> 00:36:43,402 >> [ COUGHING ] 1003 00:36:43,402 --> 00:36:46,171 >> IT LOOKS LIKE SOMETHING 1004 00:36:46,171 --> 00:36:46,738 OUT... 1005 00:36:46,738 --> 00:36:47,639 [ LAUGHS ] 1006 00:36:47,639 --> 00:36:48,907 >> I GOT TO GO. 1007 00:36:48,907 --> 00:36:50,542 >> SOMETHING OUT OF A BAD DREAM. 1008 00:36:50,542 --> 00:36:50,809 I'M SORRY. 1009 00:36:50,809 --> 00:36:54,145 [ LAUGHS ] 1010 00:36:54,145 --> 00:36:55,146 >> [ GROANS ] 1011 00:36:55,146 --> 00:36:56,748 [ RETCHING ] 1012 00:36:56,748 --> 00:36:58,884 >> HMM, THIS LOOKS LIKE RESIDUE 1013 00:36:58,884 --> 00:37:00,486 OF THE MEAT THAT WAS NOT 1014 00:37:00,486 --> 00:37:03,088 COMPLETELY FROZEN. 1015 00:37:03,088 --> 00:37:08,093 IT SMELLS A BIT FISHY. 1016 00:37:08,093 --> 00:37:16,902 >> HOLY SMOKES. 1017 00:37:16,902 --> 00:37:19,705 >> I DID NOT PLAN TO LET IT GET 1018 00:37:19,705 --> 00:37:22,073 THIS BAD, EITHER. 1019 00:37:22,073 --> 00:37:23,174 >> IT WAS SO DISGUSTING. 1020 00:37:23,174 --> 00:37:24,075 I JUST -- 1021 00:37:24,075 --> 00:37:25,043 >> MY GOD. 1022 00:37:25,043 --> 00:37:27,579 AND THERE'S STUFF THAT WAS IN 1023 00:37:27,579 --> 00:37:29,114 THAT DRAWER THAT SHE'S STILL 1024 00:37:29,114 --> 00:37:29,348 SAVING! 1025 00:37:29,348 --> 00:37:30,516 >> I KNOW. I KNOW. 1026 00:37:30,516 --> 00:37:31,950 SHE GAVE ME THIS PACKAGE OF 1027 00:37:31,950 --> 00:37:33,519 CHEESE THAT HAD BEEN SITTING IN 1028 00:37:33,519 --> 00:37:35,020 THAT DRIPPING STUFF, AND SHE 1029 00:37:35,020 --> 00:37:36,455 WANTED ME TO LOOK FOR A DATE ON 1030 00:37:36,455 --> 00:37:37,055 IT. 1031 00:37:37,055 --> 00:37:40,158 >> SOMETHING IS OFF HERE. 1032 00:37:40,158 --> 00:37:41,159 YOUR OLD WAY OF DOING THINGS, 1033 00:37:41,159 --> 00:37:44,396 YOUR OLD WAY OF THINKING ABOUT 1034 00:37:44,396 --> 00:37:48,834 THINGS -- IT IS SELF-DESTRUCTIVE 1035 00:37:48,834 --> 00:37:49,067 AS HELL. 1036 00:37:49,067 --> 00:37:56,408 O0 C1 1037 00:37:56,408 --> 00:37:59,745 >> SHE'S PRETTY SICK. 1038 00:37:59,745 --> 00:38:02,914 SHE STILL DOESN'T BELIEVE THAT 1039 00:38:02,914 --> 00:38:06,084 THE FOOD IS BAD, YOU KNOW, THAT 1040 00:38:06,084 --> 00:38:07,686 IT'S UNSAFE. 1041 00:38:07,686 --> 00:38:10,021 SHE REALLY DOESN'T SEE IT YET. 1042 00:38:15,794 --> 00:38:16,962 >> WHAT'S HAPPENING? 1043 00:38:16,962 --> 00:38:18,163 THE COOLER'S COMING? 1044 00:38:18,163 --> 00:38:19,665 >> AIDAN WAS CONCERNED THAT A 1045 00:38:19,665 --> 00:38:23,068 NUMBER OF THE THINGS THAT HAD 1046 00:38:23,068 --> 00:38:24,470 BEEN IN THE REFRIGERATOR HAD 1047 00:38:24,470 --> 00:38:27,473 BECOME CONTAMINATED SIMPLY 1048 00:38:27,473 --> 00:38:30,075 BECAUSE THEY WERE IN THE DIRTY 1049 00:38:30,075 --> 00:38:31,377 REFRIGERATOR. 1050 00:38:31,610 --> 00:38:34,145 >> WHEN THEY OPENED THE LID, THE 1051 00:38:34,145 --> 00:38:35,447 SMELL WAS SO HORRIBLE. 1052 00:38:35,447 --> 00:38:36,915 AND AIDAN SAID, "SHE'S NOT -- 1053 00:38:36,915 --> 00:38:37,516 I'M NOT GONNA LET HER KEEP ANY 1054 00:38:37,516 --> 00:38:39,150 OF THIS." 1055 00:38:39,150 --> 00:38:39,885 >> HEY, MOM. 1056 00:38:39,885 --> 00:38:40,786 >> YEAH. BAGELS. 1057 00:38:40,786 --> 00:38:42,187 >> I LOOKED IN THIS COOLER. 1058 00:38:42,187 --> 00:38:44,523 >> YEAH? 1059 00:38:44,523 --> 00:38:46,525 >> AND THE FIRST THING THAT I 1060 00:38:46,525 --> 00:38:47,593 SAW WAS THIS. 1061 00:38:47,593 --> 00:38:49,027 >> FROZEN TOFU, YEAH. 1062 00:38:49,027 --> 00:38:51,397 >> MA, IT'S PUFFED-UP, AND IT'S 1063 00:38:51,397 --> 00:38:52,030 ROTTEN. 1064 00:38:52,030 --> 00:38:53,565 >> AIDAN, IT IS FROZEN. 1065 00:38:53,565 --> 00:38:54,533 >> ALL THIS STUFF IN THIS 1066 00:38:54,533 --> 00:38:56,101 COOLER -- 1067 00:38:56,101 --> 00:38:58,103 >> OKAY, CAN I TELL YOU -- 1068 00:38:58,103 --> 00:38:58,937 >> NO, NO. 1069 00:38:58,937 --> 00:38:59,538 ALL THIS STUFF IN THIS COOLER 1070 00:38:59,538 --> 00:39:01,940 I'M THROWING OUT, AND THEN 1071 00:39:01,940 --> 00:39:03,108 TONIGHT, WE'RE GONNA GO 1072 00:39:03,108 --> 00:39:04,943 SHOPPING, AND I'M GONNA GET YOU 1073 00:39:04,943 --> 00:39:06,044 SOME NEW GROCERIES. 1074 00:39:06,044 --> 00:39:07,646 >> OKAY, CAN I TELL YOU WHAT IS 1075 00:39:07,646 --> 00:39:07,979 GOING ON HERE? 1076 00:39:07,979 --> 00:39:10,115 >> YOU CAN TELL ME, BUT I'M 1077 00:39:10,115 --> 00:39:11,182 STILL THROWING IT OUT. 1078 00:39:11,182 --> 00:39:12,784 IN MY OPINION, THEY WEREN'T 1079 00:39:12,784 --> 00:39:13,785 SAFE. 1080 00:39:13,785 --> 00:39:16,955 THEY WERE SITTING IN JUICES OF 1081 00:39:16,955 --> 00:39:18,590 ROTTEN STUFF. 1082 00:39:18,590 --> 00:39:20,158 IT'S GOT TO GO. 1083 00:39:20,158 --> 00:39:21,727 >> YOU'RE NOT THROWING AWAY MY 1084 00:39:21,727 --> 00:39:22,060 MILK. 1085 00:39:22,060 --> 00:39:23,094 MY MILK IS FINE. 1086 00:39:23,094 --> 00:39:23,662 >> I'M THROWING IT ALL OUT. 1087 00:39:23,662 --> 00:39:24,896 >> NO. 1088 00:39:24,896 --> 00:39:25,531 >> THE GLASS JARS YOU CAN KEEP. 1089 00:39:25,531 --> 00:39:27,999 >> I'M NOT GONNA THROW AWAY GOOD 1090 00:39:27,999 --> 00:39:28,199 MILK. 1091 00:39:28,199 --> 00:39:28,667 THERE'S NO REASON TO. 1092 00:39:28,667 --> 00:39:31,069 >> I'M THROWING AWAY EVERYTHING 1093 00:39:31,069 --> 00:39:33,839 IN THIS COOLER. 1094 00:39:33,839 --> 00:39:35,073 WE'LL BUY NEW STUFF. 1095 00:39:35,073 --> 00:39:35,641 >> IT'S -- 1096 00:39:35,641 --> 00:39:37,409 >> I KNOW IT'S WASTEFUL, YES. 1097 00:39:37,409 --> 00:39:37,876 I KNOW IT'S WASTEFUL. 1098 00:39:37,876 --> 00:39:39,945 >> HE'S WORRIED ABOUT YOU. 1099 00:39:39,945 --> 00:39:40,546 >> IF THERE'S ANYTHING IN HERE 1100 00:39:40,546 --> 00:39:45,016 THAT CAN HURT YOU, AND -- JUST 1101 00:39:45,016 --> 00:39:45,517 SMELL IT. 1102 00:39:45,517 --> 00:39:48,520 I MEAN, YOU CAN SMELL... 1103 00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:50,756 >> OH, MY CHOCOLATE CHIPS. 1104 00:39:50,756 --> 00:39:51,957 WHAT'S THE MATTER WITH MY 1105 00:39:51,957 --> 00:39:52,924 CHOCOLATE CHIPS? 1106 00:39:52,924 --> 00:39:54,593 >> I'LL BUY YOU SOME NEW ONES. 1107 00:39:54,593 --> 00:39:56,027 >> [ SIGHS ] 1108 00:39:56,027 --> 00:39:57,729 I'M FEELING PRESSURED. 1109 00:39:57,729 --> 00:39:57,963 >> YEAH? 1110 00:39:57,963 --> 00:39:59,598 >> YEAH, I AM. 1111 00:39:59,598 --> 00:40:00,499 >> WHO'S PRESSURING YOU? 1112 00:40:00,499 --> 00:40:03,469 >> AIDAN AND... 1113 00:40:03,469 --> 00:40:05,537 I DON'T WANT TO TAKE HIS MONEY. 1114 00:40:05,537 --> 00:40:07,606 HE DOESN'T EARN VERY MUCH MONEY, 1115 00:40:07,606 --> 00:40:09,174 YOU KNOW? 1116 00:40:09,174 --> 00:40:11,943 I DON'T WANT TO TAKE HIS MONEY. 1117 00:40:11,943 --> 00:40:12,544 I DON'T WANT TO TAKE ANYBODY'S 1118 00:40:12,544 --> 00:40:13,945 MONEY. 1119 00:40:13,945 --> 00:40:15,080 >> NO, I KNOW HOW IMPORTANT 1120 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,449 INDEPENDENCE IS FOR YOU, AND YOU 1121 00:40:17,449 --> 00:40:19,451 DON'T LIKE BEING BEHOLDEN TO 1122 00:40:19,451 --> 00:40:21,953 ANYBODY. 1123 00:40:21,953 --> 00:40:23,722 THERE'S A LOT OF BIG CHANGES IN 1124 00:40:23,722 --> 00:40:25,423 YOUR LIFE, TOO. 1125 00:40:43,575 --> 00:40:46,978 >> SO, JILL, THE GUYS -- THE 1126 00:40:46,978 --> 00:40:48,446 1-800 GUYS -- 1127 00:40:48,446 --> 00:40:50,549 >> CAN YOU LET ME AT IT BEFORE 1128 00:40:50,549 --> 00:40:52,684 YOU START?! 1129 00:40:52,684 --> 00:40:54,853 THERE'S NOTHING HERE THAT I WANT 1130 00:40:54,853 --> 00:40:56,688 TO SAVE, BUT YOU'RE READY TO 1131 00:40:56,688 --> 00:41:01,693 JUMP ON ME FOR IT, OKAY? 1132 00:41:01,693 --> 00:41:04,963 YOU KNOW, YOU'RE EXPECTING ME TO 1133 00:41:04,963 --> 00:41:05,463 DISAGREE. 1134 00:41:05,463 --> 00:41:06,932 YOU'RE EXPECTING ME, YOU KNOW, 1135 00:41:06,932 --> 00:41:08,600 BUT DON'T -- DON'T -- YOU KNOW, 1136 00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:09,568 GIVE ME A CHANCE. 1137 00:41:09,568 --> 00:41:10,502 WILL YOU, PLEASE? 1138 00:41:10,502 --> 00:41:11,570 >> THAT'S FINE. 1139 00:41:11,570 --> 00:41:12,938 >> ALL RIGHT. THANK YOU. 1140 00:41:12,938 --> 00:41:13,905 THANK YOU. 1141 00:41:13,905 --> 00:41:15,674 >> AS SOON AS YOU OPEN IT UP... 1142 00:41:15,674 --> 00:41:17,442 >> IT'S BEEN HARD. 1143 00:41:17,442 --> 00:41:19,978 I KNOW I NEED TO CHANGE IN ORDER 1144 00:41:19,978 --> 00:41:22,447 TO GET THE LIFE THAT I WANT. 1145 00:41:22,447 --> 00:41:24,850 THE YOGURT -- WE'LL JUST LET IT 1146 00:41:24,850 --> 00:41:26,652 GO. 1147 00:41:26,652 --> 00:41:27,553 IT'S ALL GONE. 1148 00:41:27,553 --> 00:41:28,887 >> OKAY. 1149 00:41:28,887 --> 00:41:29,855 >> TAKE IT AWAY. 1150 00:41:29,855 --> 00:41:31,723 >> ARRIVEDERCI, DULCE DE LECHE. 1151 00:41:31,723 --> 00:41:32,758 >> [ LAUGHS ] 1152 00:41:32,758 --> 00:41:33,759 >> THANK YOU. 1153 00:41:33,759 --> 00:41:34,793 >> [ LAUGHS ] 1154 00:41:34,793 --> 00:41:37,028 >> NICE GOING, JILL. 1155 00:41:37,028 --> 00:41:40,431 UNLESS JILL MAKES A DRAMATIC AND 1156 00:41:40,431 --> 00:41:42,901 SUSTAINED CHANGE IN HER 1157 00:41:42,901 --> 00:41:45,003 BEHAVIOR, THEN THE PROBLEM'S 1158 00:41:45,003 --> 00:41:46,471 JUST GONNA RETURN. 1159 00:41:46,471 --> 00:41:48,039 SHE'S GONNA FILL THAT SPACE UP 1160 00:41:48,039 --> 00:41:48,607 AGAIN. 1161 00:41:48,607 --> 00:41:51,442 >> THIS IS CAT AND DOG STUFF. 1162 00:41:51,442 --> 00:41:54,045 THIS IS GOOD STUFF. 1163 00:41:54,045 --> 00:41:56,715 YEAH, THIS IS GOOD STUFF. 1164 00:42:04,656 --> 00:42:06,958 >> I'VE BEEN OVERWHELMED TODAY. 1165 00:42:06,958 --> 00:42:08,894 WE STILL HAVE TO SORT THROUGH 1166 00:42:08,894 --> 00:42:10,395 ALL THIS STUFF. 1167 00:42:10,395 --> 00:42:12,598 MY EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT TO MY 1168 00:42:12,598 --> 00:42:15,066 STUFF JUST OVERWHELMED ME WHEN I 1169 00:42:15,066 --> 00:42:17,569 CAME IN AND SAW ALL THIS STUFF 1170 00:42:17,569 --> 00:42:17,769 GOING. 1171 00:42:17,769 --> 00:42:20,806 IT'S JUST LIKE, "AAH." 1172 00:42:20,806 --> 00:42:24,409 MY REACTION IS ANGER, AND IT'S 1173 00:42:24,409 --> 00:42:25,877 NOT PRETTY. 1174 00:42:29,981 --> 00:42:31,983 I FEEL GOOD I DIDN'T, LIKE -- 1175 00:42:31,983 --> 00:42:32,584 YOU KNOW, I DIDN'T ACT OUT ON 1176 00:42:32,584 --> 00:42:33,985 IT. 1177 00:42:33,985 --> 00:42:34,620 >> I KNOW. 1178 00:42:34,620 --> 00:42:36,755 >> SO THAT WAS GOOD. 1179 00:42:36,755 --> 00:42:37,623 >> AND YOU KNOW THAT WE DID 1180 00:42:37,623 --> 00:42:39,490 EVERYTHING THAT YOUR WIFE ASKED 1181 00:42:39,490 --> 00:42:40,959 US TO DO. 1182 00:42:40,959 --> 00:42:43,762 >> I KNOW, AND I'M SO GLAD THAT 1183 00:42:43,762 --> 00:42:46,097 SHE'S BEEN ABLE TO MAKE SOME 1184 00:42:46,097 --> 00:42:47,799 REAL TOUGH CHOICES. 1185 00:42:47,799 --> 00:42:50,636 >> YOU GUYS ARE GONNA HAVE A LOT 1186 00:42:50,636 --> 00:42:55,440 OF ADJUSTMENTS TO MAKE. 1187 00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,909 >> YES, I CONCUR. 1188 00:42:57,909 --> 00:42:59,778 [ BOTH LAUGH ] 1189 00:42:59,778 --> 00:43:03,782 >> NOW THAT THINGS ARE DONE, I 1190 00:43:03,782 --> 00:43:06,685 FEEL LIKE I HAVE A HOME. 1191 00:43:06,685 --> 00:43:09,554 ALL THE THINGS THAT I LOVE TO DO 1192 00:43:09,554 --> 00:43:10,656 AND TO HAVE AROUND ME ARE ALL 1193 00:43:10,656 --> 00:43:11,990 THERE. 1194 00:43:11,990 --> 00:43:13,625 THEY ALL HAVE A PLACE. 1195 00:43:13,625 --> 00:43:15,126 THE KITCHEN IS AMAZING. 1196 00:43:15,126 --> 00:43:17,162 I CAN'T BELIEVE THE ROOM THAT I 1197 00:43:17,162 --> 00:43:20,632 HAVE IN THERE NOW. 1198 00:43:20,632 --> 00:43:21,499 I FEEL A LOT BETTER ABOUT HAVING 1199 00:43:21,499 --> 00:43:23,835 MY KIDS -- ALL THREE OF THEM -- 1200 00:43:23,835 --> 00:43:24,803 IN ONE ROOM. 1201 00:43:24,803 --> 00:43:25,436 I THINK THAT'S GONNA WORK OUT A 1202 00:43:25,436 --> 00:43:28,606 LOT BETTER FOR THEM. 1203 00:43:28,606 --> 00:43:30,942 >> MY SON, ESPECIALLY -- I THINK 1204 00:43:30,942 --> 00:43:32,644 HE'S THE KID THAT WANTS TO HOLD 1205 00:43:32,644 --> 00:43:32,978 ON TO THINGS. 1206 00:43:32,978 --> 00:43:34,980 YOU KNOW, I TOLD HIM THAT I HAD 1207 00:43:34,980 --> 00:43:36,514 A LOT OF FEELINGS ABOUT WHAT 1208 00:43:36,514 --> 00:43:37,916 HAPPENED 'CAUSE I THINK IT'S 1209 00:43:37,916 --> 00:43:39,517 IMPORTANT THAT I LET HIM KNOW 1210 00:43:39,517 --> 00:43:42,754 THAT. 1211 00:43:42,754 --> 00:43:44,555 YOU KNOW, HE'S SAD 'CAUSE WE 1212 00:43:44,555 --> 00:43:46,491 THREW OUT SOME OF HIS FAVORITE 1213 00:43:46,491 --> 00:43:47,025 TOYS. 1214 00:43:47,025 --> 00:43:47,759 >> RIGHT. 1215 00:43:47,759 --> 00:43:49,728 >> THEN I EXPLAINED TO HIM AND 1216 00:43:49,728 --> 00:43:51,863 ASKED HIM IF HE THOUGHT MAYBE IT 1217 00:43:51,863 --> 00:43:53,965 WOULD BE A GOOD THING THAT WE'LL 1218 00:43:53,965 --> 00:43:55,934 HAVE ROOM FOR HIM TO PLAY WITH 1219 00:43:55,934 --> 00:43:57,568 HIS NEW FAVORITE TOYS. 1220 00:43:57,568 --> 00:43:59,570 >> RIGHT. 1221 00:43:59,570 --> 00:44:02,741 >> THIS IS MONUMENTOUS FOR OUR 1222 00:44:02,741 --> 00:44:05,643 FAMILY. 1223 00:44:05,643 --> 00:44:07,813 >> THIS IS JUST THE TIP OF THE 1224 00:44:07,813 --> 00:44:10,581 ICEBERG. 1225 00:44:10,581 --> 00:44:12,984 YOU CAN MAKE IT, BUT NOW YOUR 1226 00:44:12,984 --> 00:44:15,453 HARD WORK TRULY BEGINS. 1227 00:44:17,555 --> 00:44:20,158 THE CHANCES OF PEOPLE OVERCOMING 1228 00:44:20,158 --> 00:44:22,728 THIS ARE VERY, VERY SLIM, AND I 1229 00:44:22,728 --> 00:44:24,662 GUESS FOR THIS FAMILY, I'M MUCH 1230 00:44:24,662 --> 00:44:27,966 MORE HOPEFUL THAN USUAL BECAUSE 1231 00:44:27,966 --> 00:44:30,501 OF THE PROGRESS I'VE SEEN THEM 1232 00:44:30,501 --> 00:44:32,804 MAKE IN THE LAST TWO DAYS. 1233 00:44:32,804 --> 00:44:35,540 SO I'M ROOTING FOR THEM.