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Can people change?
Well, that's a... tough one
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that's a tough one
but i would say "yes",
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people can change.
That's what I beliebe, anyway.
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And I will
until the day I die.
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You do realize you're proving
the exact opposite of your point?
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See, she's changed. She used
to be very supportive about me.
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Come on...
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(screaming):
Phill!
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Ow! Why is this
so loud?
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Why is this
so loud?
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Make it stop.
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I just installed a sweet
home theater system
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at the family room.
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The trouble is -
Claire struggles with technology.
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Of any kind.
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I mean, remotes,
cell phones, computers...
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Haley, have you seen my blue...
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- Hey, Mrs. Dunphy.
- Oh, hey, Dylan.
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You know
I can see you, right?
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***
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Haley is just in the bathroom,
she'll be back in just a minute?
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Thank you.
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What are we poiting at?
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At the TV.
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(chuckles)
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Honey, no, I'm sorry.
It's a home theater.
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What so I - I can't point
at the TV
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when I wanna watch the TV?
- no.
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You pointg at the reciever.
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What's a reciever?
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Imagine our home theater system
is a human body,
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so, then, the reciever
is the brain.
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The TV is the face.
- ***.
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So, he says those lies,
and a lot many more.
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His heart - Boom!
-Boom!
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Quadruple bypass,
blow the valve.
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He look who it is!
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Hey, there he is.
What a coinkydink.
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I was just getting some
flowers for gloria
for babysitting lily.
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You want me to take them
to her?
I would,
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But I have the most hilarious
card for her at home.
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It's -- it's a hunky
antonio banderas type
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In silk boxers,
and on the inside it says,
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"thank you
for last noche...
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But I can't find
my pantalones."
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[ laughs ]
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I'm not doing it justice,
really.
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Hi, I'm cameron.
Oh, geez, I'm sorry.
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Guys, this is cameron.
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He's a, um...
A f-friend of my son's.
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This is, uh, scotty, dale,
hugo, and shorty.
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It's nice to meet
you guys.
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You guys look like a scene
out of "jersey boys."
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[ chuckles ]
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Ohh, so handsome!
Thank you.
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Manny, are you wearing
aftershave?
Yes.
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For my date.
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This will be the first time
she will ever smell me.
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Her name is whitney.
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I met her
in an online book club.
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We both like vampire fiction
and the romance of eternal life.
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I think it's adorable
that manny has a date.
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He even picked out
the lunch menu.
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Grilled-cheese sandwich
and tomato soup.
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Tomato soup because, you know,
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That tomato soup
is like the blood
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And the vampires
like to eat their blood.
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And then he wants me
to take them out for ice cream,
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Well, because
manny likes ice cream.
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Doorbell rings ]
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Oh, that must be her.
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If this goes well,
you don't need to stick around.
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Hi, I'm whitney.
I'm here for mny.
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Sync by deGroote.
www.addic7ed.com
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[ beep ]
see how that works?
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Sorry, sweetie.
Sorry, daddy.
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Oh, it's all right.
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We were just -- me and lily
were just using the time
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To finally figure out
how to use the car's
voice-command thingy.
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Oh.
Yeah, here,
check it out. Watch.
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[ beep ]
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Cd player, next track.
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Say a command.
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[ beep ]
[ sighs ]
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Cd player, next track.
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Air conditioner on.
Damn it.
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Wow, you're worse than your
sister with this kind of stuff.
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It's a good thing lily
doesn't have an ejector seat.
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Oh, guess what.
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I ran into your dad
and some of his friends.
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Oh, really?
Yeah.
And get this --
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He, uh, he referred to me
as "a friend of my son."
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Seriously?
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Yeah.
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Well,
I wasn't offended by it.
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Well, I am.
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I mean, w-would he refer
to phil as "a friend
of claire's?" no.
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I've heard him call phil
a lot worse.
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Just let it pass. I should
have never said anything.
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No, I'not
letting it pass.
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He needs to know that
that's not o
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And if he doesn't like it,
he knows where he can go.
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Enter a destination.
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Hell!
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Mexican food.
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Shut up!
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I came out of the closet
in my mid-20s.
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I had to actually come out
to my dad three times
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Before he
finally acknowledged it.
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I'm not sure if maybe
he was hoping he heard it wrong.
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Like I had said,
"dad, I'm gray."
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And my parents,
they always just knew.
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My mother says labor with me
took 36 hours
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Because I came out of the womb
like this, "hello!"
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[ indistinct conversations ]
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Hey, dad.
Mitchell.
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Hey, you guys know my son,
mitch.
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Hey.
Hey, mitch. How's it
hanging there, buddy?
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Hey, heyhey,
that's a great coat.
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Where'd you get that?
Um, you know, I don't know.
It was a gift.
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Really? What is it, suede?
Microsuede?
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Some kind of lambskin?
It's very soft, you know?
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Thank you.
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Uh, can I talk to you
for a second?
Yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Be right back.
Good seeing you.
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What's the matter?
Um, "a friend
of my son"?
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That's how
you introduce cam?
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That's
why you came here?
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Dad, it's -- it's just
more than a little insulting.
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Cam and I have been together
for five years.
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We -- we have a daughter.
It's --
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Look at these guys.
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They look like they came out
of the 1800s.
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You see hugo over there?
After lunch, he ordered a sanka.
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No, they're -- they're
not the ones that are
uncomfortable with this.
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You are. You...
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You've never been
completely accepting of me
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And now that I have a family,
it's getting a little old.
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These guys don't understand
the gay thing.
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Why create an awkward situation?
That's all I'm saying.
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That's weird, because
your friend shorty there --
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Gay as they come.
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You got to be kidding.
Mnh, no.
My gaydar is never wrong,
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And it is pinging
like we're at a bathhouse.
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What are you talking about, gay?
The guy used to be married.
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Okay, well, that makes --
no, well, so did elton john,
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Merv griffin,
cole porter --
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Hey, you know what?
You know what? Listen to me.
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You couldn't be more wrong
about this.
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No, dad, u could not be more
wrong -- about a lot of things.
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Good seeing you guys.
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Yeah! See you!
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That's a great coat!
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Ping!
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Phil dunphy.
Hey, it's me.
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Hey!
Listen, I've got
a bunch of moms over here
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Who want to watch
the talent-show dvd,
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And I can't get
the sound to work.
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Is there a picture?
Yes.
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Be honest. Did you do that thing
where you get frustrated
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And you start pressing
all the buttons?
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No.
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I have a theory
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That phil installs overly
complicated things in the house
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Just so he has an excuse
to talk to me like a child.
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Last month,
it was the thermostat.
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[ to tune of
"the wheels on the bus" ]
⪠the snowflake button âª
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⪠makes it
cold, cold, cold âª
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⪠"set temperature"
makes it hold, hold, hold âª
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⪠the little flame
makes it... âª
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Whitney: [ cries ]
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This is so humiliating.
I am sorry.
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It's okay.
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He just seemed
so mature online.
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How could I be
so stupid?
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You're not stupid. Stupid
isot following your heart
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And taking a chance
on love.
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I mean, what kind of 11-year-old
talks like that?
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Manny's an old soul.
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Here,
use my handkerchief.
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You see what I mean?
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I'll just be alone for the rest
of my life, and that's okay.
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No, don't say that.
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In my country,
there is a saying that means,
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"love is
just around the corner."
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I come from a neighborhood
with a lot of prostitutes.
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Maybe for you.
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I mean, men must throw
themselves at you every day.
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They'll do the same for you
if you just...
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Just what?
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Put out?
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No, just --
like, the lipstick,
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The hair, push-up bra,
you know.
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What's it matter? I'm never
gonna be as pretty as you.
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Believe me,
this takes a lot of work.
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You just need to find
your inner beauty.
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It's hiding beneath
a mask of insecurity.
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Okay, he's starting
to freak me out.
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Manny, go play.
Okay.
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00:08:13,879 --> 00:08:16,614
Mitchell, how do these
look to you?
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Like they're dying.
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I know, right?
I saidomething to the florist,
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And he said,
"oh, don't worry about it.
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They're gonna me back."
they're not coming back.
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They've crossed
to the other side!
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You are a funny man.
Why?
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Well, because you're completely
bothered by the flowers,
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But when my father introduces
you as "a friend of my son" --
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Doesn't faze you
in the least.
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Because the florist
played me for a fool.
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Your dad didn't mean any harm.
He's just being who he is.
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Uh, when I was back east
in law school,
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My dad used to call me
every Saturday at 6:00 p.M.
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Before people would go out,
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Just, you know,
check in, catch up.
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And then I think the christmas
of my second year,
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I finally got up the courage
to tell him.
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After that, I-I pretty much
just talked to my mom.
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Don't cry.
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I'm not crying.
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I'm home!
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We're here.
Jay, this is whitney.
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00:09:07,933 --> 00:09:09,467
We're giving her
a makeover.
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Hi. You havesucy
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And a really beautiful
house.
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Thanks. Uh, you two
know each other how?
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She's my date.
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Of course she is.
I'll be in here.
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I'll be right back.
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I'm sorry this didn't turn out
like you wanted.
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That's okay.
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Probably didn't turn out
how you wanted it, either.
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I'll tell you what.
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If neither of us is
with anybody in 10 years,
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How about you and me
give it a shot?
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That's disturbing...
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But maybe.
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How was your lunch
with the boys?
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Good.
Ran into mitchell and cam.
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Ay, nice.
And you're
not gonna believe this.
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Mitchell says shorty's gay.
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Shorty?
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Yeah, I believe it.
Oh, come on!
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00:09:51,810 --> 00:09:54,612
Well, he's a great dresser,
a great dancer.
245
00:09:54,646 --> 00:09:56,213
That doesn't prove
anything.
246
00:09:56,248 --> 00:09:57,782
And he's the only one of your
friends that never hits on me.
247
00:09:57,816 --> 00:10:00,785
My friends hit on you?
Ah, yes, all the time.
But don't worry --
248
00:10:00,819 --> 00:10:04,155
They're a bunch
of harmless old men.
They're my age.
249
00:10:04,189 --> 00:10:06,157
I'm sure it's very hard
on shorty
250
00:10:06,191 --> 00:10:07,625
To keep a secret
like that.
251
00:10:07,659 --> 00:10:09,427
Jay, I think
you should talk to him.
252
00:10:09,461 --> 00:10:11,862
What?
Yeah, you're the only one
with a gay son.
253
00:10:11,897 --> 00:10:14,298
I'm sure he'll appreciate
opening up to you.
254
00:10:14,332 --> 00:10:16,067
We're guys.
We don't "open up."
255
00:10:16,101 --> 00:10:17,635
We talk about sports
and cars,
256
00:10:17,669 --> 00:10:19,804
Getting up in the middle
of the night to pee.
257
00:10:19,838 --> 00:10:21,806
But I'm sure you made it
very easy
258
00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,842
For mitch
to come out of the closet.
259
00:10:24,876 --> 00:10:26,210
Yeah.
260
00:10:26,244 --> 00:10:29,146
Okay, I'm gonna finish
my makeover...
261
00:10:29,214 --> 00:10:31,215
'cause I care
about people...
262
00:10:31,249 --> 00:10:35,119
Because I want to help them
change their lives.
263
00:10:35,153 --> 00:10:37,154
Jay, I'm hinting that you
should call your friend, okay?
264
00:10:37,189 --> 00:10:40,391
Yes, I'm getting that.
Okay, okay.
265
00:10:42,561 --> 00:10:44,895
Hey, hey, hey.
Daddy in the hiz-ouse!
266
00:10:44,930 --> 00:10:46,397
[ crunch ]
267
00:10:52,404 --> 00:10:54,071
Phil:
Why would you do that
268
00:10:54,106 --> 00:10:56,774
To a brand-new,
very expensive remote?
269
00:10:56,808 --> 00:10:58,943
Because I lost my temper
and it didn't work.
270
00:10:58,977 --> 00:11:00,311
Therefore, it's useless.
271
00:11:00,345 --> 00:11:02,580
Well, honey, when it comes
to anything electronic,
272
00:11:02,614 --> 00:11:04,248
You're not exactly
the best student.
273
00:11:04,282 --> 00:11:05,850
I am very smart.
274
00:11:05,884 --> 00:11:09,820
I had a 4.0 in college.
How about you?
I was almost that
275
00:11:09,855 --> 00:11:11,756
Despite my substantial
time commitment to cheerleading.
276
00:11:11,790 --> 00:11:14,492
I thought we agreed not
to bring up the cheerleading.
277
00:11:14,526 --> 00:11:17,194
Cheerleading in my college
was cool.
278
00:11:17,229 --> 00:11:18,929
The football players
were so jealous,
279
00:11:18,964 --> 00:11:21,632
They wouldn't even let me and my
buddies trevor, scotty, and ling
280
00:11:21,666 --> 00:11:24,301
Go to their parties.
281
00:11:24,336 --> 00:11:28,139
Seriously, claire, you owe me
an apology for baking that.
282
00:11:28,173 --> 00:11:29,440
Okay.
283
00:11:29,474 --> 00:11:31,809
Phil, I apologize for breaking
the world's worst remote...
284
00:11:31,843 --> 00:11:34,512
That you bought...
Stupidly.
285
00:11:34,546 --> 00:11:35,913
Excuse me,
286
00:11:35,947 --> 00:11:39,450
But the experts at cnet.Com
rated it the best remote.
287
00:11:39,484 --> 00:11:41,986
They gave it
three-and-a-half mice.
Wow!
288
00:11:42,020 --> 00:11:43,053
Well, I have an idea.
289
00:11:43,088 --> 00:11:44,822
Let's invite
the gang from cnet over
290
00:11:44,856 --> 00:11:46,524
And your old buddies
from cheerleading
291
00:11:46,558 --> 00:11:47,892
And we can have
a nerd party.
292
00:11:47,926 --> 00:11:50,394
Ling is not a nerd.
He built his own helicopter.
293
00:11:50,428 --> 00:11:51,829
And if he was alive today --
294
00:11:51,863 --> 00:11:55,466
Sweetie, let's not talk about
ling. It upsets you too much.
295
00:11:57,202 --> 00:11:58,836
You know
what I'm gonna do?
Hmm?
296
00:11:58,870 --> 00:12:01,806
I'm gonna buy a new remote --
the same remote.
297
00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:03,474
And just to prove
how wrong you are,
298
00:12:03,508 --> 00:12:05,309
I'm gonna teach our dumbest kid
how to use it
299
00:12:05,343 --> 00:12:06,477
In 20 minutes or less.
300
00:12:06,511 --> 00:12:08,012
Who's our dumbest kid?
301
00:12:08,046 --> 00:12:09,814
Luke.
Luke?
302
00:12:09,848 --> 00:12:12,183
No, luke understands
electronics.
303
00:12:12,217 --> 00:12:13,217
Haley.
304
00:12:13,251 --> 00:12:14,518
No.
Yeah. Haley.
305
00:12:14,553 --> 00:12:17,254
Teach haley to use the remote,
and then I'll apologize.
306
00:12:17,289 --> 00:12:19,023
Haley?
Mm-hmm.
307
00:12:19,057 --> 00:12:20,357
Come on!
308
00:12:20,392 --> 00:12:21,859
Jay: Hey, shorty.
It's me.
309
00:12:21,893 --> 00:12:24,195
Uh, I was thinking of heading
over to the driving range
310
00:12:24,229 --> 00:12:26,831
And hitting a few balls --
you want to join me?
311
00:12:28,133 --> 00:12:31,268
I don't know.
Wear -- wear whatever you want.
312
00:12:31,303 --> 00:12:34,371
Oh, my god.
Oh, god.
Mitchell: What?
313
00:12:34,406 --> 00:12:36,674
The flowers --
they look so much better.
314
00:12:36,708 --> 00:12:39,710
This is a disaster.
You do know what "disaster"
means, right?
315
00:12:39,744 --> 00:12:43,247
You don't understand. I demanded
that they come exchange them.
316
00:12:43,281 --> 00:12:45,416
I got all medieval
on the florist.
317
00:12:45,450 --> 00:12:47,451
Cam, I heard you
on the phone.
318
00:12:47,485 --> 00:12:48,786
You said
you were displeased,
319
00:12:48,820 --> 00:12:50,454
But that's hardly
going medieval.
Excuse me.
320
00:12:50,488 --> 00:12:54,124
I said "very displeased," and
I used my cowboy voice, so...
321
00:12:54,159 --> 00:12:55,426
W-what are you doing?
322
00:12:55,460 --> 00:12:57,761
I'm microwaving them
so they look bad again.
323
00:12:57,796 --> 00:12:59,763
Well, that seems a little crazy,
doesn't it?
324
00:12:59,798 --> 00:13:01,532
[ door buzzes ]
325
00:13:01,566 --> 00:13:03,500
Oh, no.
That's the florist.
326
00:13:03,535 --> 00:13:05,769
Look, relax.
Just take them out.
327
00:13:05,804 --> 00:13:08,205
I'll get the door.
He'll never know the difference.
328
00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:10,107
Hi.
Florist.
329
00:13:10,141 --> 00:13:11,475
Hi. Yes,
uh, me on in.
330
00:13:11,509 --> 00:13:14,144
He's -- he's over there
with the flowers.
Hello.
331
00:13:14,179 --> 00:13:17,348
I don't know what happened.
They just, uh, somehow
lost their vigor.
332
00:13:17,382 --> 00:13:19,783
They were like this
when we came home.
Cam. Cam...
333
00:13:19,818 --> 00:13:21,485
Oh, my god!
Oh, my god!
334
00:13:21,519 --> 00:13:23,020
Oh, my god!
Oh! Oh!
335
00:13:23,054 --> 00:13:25,155
Oh, god!
God! God!
336
00:13:25,190 --> 00:13:26,457
[ water running ]
337
00:13:26,491 --> 00:13:30,060
Look at that.
Two things flaming at once.
338
00:13:32,997 --> 00:13:34,384
Damn it!
339
00:13:34,384 --> 00:13:35,985
You know
what the problem is?
What?
340
00:13:36,019 --> 00:13:37,853
You're not moving your hips.
They're frozen.
341
00:13:37,888 --> 00:13:39,588
Hips?
Yeah, your hips.
They're frozen.
342
00:13:39,623 --> 00:13:41,090
Here, let me show you.
No, it's --
343
00:13:41,124 --> 00:13:43,392
No, no, no, no, no.
Don't fight me.
All right, shorty.
344
00:13:43,426 --> 00:13:45,494
Just bring the club back.
Go ahead. All right?
345
00:13:45,529 --> 00:13:46,962
Now turn those hips.
That's it.
346
00:13:46,997 --> 00:13:48,030
Yojust got to relax.
347
00:13:48,064 --> 00:13:49,765
You got to open up the stance
a little bit.
348
00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:51,667
Spad 'em, spread 'em.
That's it. That'.
349
00:13:51,701 --> 00:13:53,669
If you don't relax, you're
never gonna get that shaft
350
00:13:53,703 --> 00:13:55,304
Where it belongs.
Hey, you know what?
351
00:13:55,338 --> 00:13:56,906
How about a coffee?
Let's get a coffee.
352
00:13:56,940 --> 00:13:58,274
Sure.
353
00:13:58,308 --> 00:14:00,109
Phil: Now press the button
labeled "activities."
354
00:14:00,143 --> 00:14:02,545
Where's that?
It's to the right.
To the right.
355
00:14:02,579 --> 00:14:04,246
And then --
and now choose "watch dvd."
356
00:14:04,281 --> 00:14:05,548
What?!
357
00:14:05,582 --> 00:14:07,650
Honey, you got to focus.
We've only got 20 minutes.
358
00:14:07,684 --> 00:14:09,685
Pretend --
pretend the mall's closing.
359
00:14:09,719 --> 00:14:12,087
Dad, this is stupid.
I watch tv on my computer.
360
00:14:12,122 --> 00:14:13,689
Why do I
have to learn this?
361
00:14:13,723 --> 00:14:16,492
Because your mom
doesn't think you can.
Nobody can!
362
00:14:16,526 --> 00:14:19,562
Haley, listen to me.
Listen to me.
363
00:14:19,596 --> 00:14:21,530
I know this seems
impossible,
364
00:14:21,565 --> 00:14:23,599
But this is
for all those times
365
00:14:23,633 --> 00:14:25,801
That mom told you
she was right...
366
00:14:25,836 --> 00:14:28,838
And you knew
she was wrong.
367
00:14:30,473 --> 00:14:32,308
I'll do it.
368
00:14:32,342 --> 00:14:34,410
That's my girl.
369
00:14:34,477 --> 00:14:36,745
You know, that guy's
got a beautiful stroke.
370
00:14:36,780 --> 00:14:39,415
Look at his pants. No pleats.
I like pants like that.
371
00:14:39,449 --> 00:14:42,218
You think I can get away
with something like that?
Sure, why not?
372
00:14:42,252 --> 00:14:44,687
Listen, shorty, uh...
373
00:14:44,721 --> 00:14:46,789
We've known each other
a long time, right?
374
00:14:46,823 --> 00:14:48,524
What, 30 years?
Yeah.
375
00:14:48,558 --> 00:14:50,726
And, uh...
376
00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:53,229
I sense
that you got a secret
377
00:14:53,263 --> 00:14:56,265
That's maybe causing you
a lot of anguish.
378
00:14:57,767 --> 00:14:59,168
You heard something,
right?
379
00:14:59,202 --> 00:15:02,338
Well, I had the same situation
with my son, mitchell.
380
00:15:02,372 --> 00:15:03,839
Really?
381
00:15:03,874 --> 00:15:05,774
And I didn't handle it
too well, either.
382
00:15:05,809 --> 00:15:07,576
And, uh...
383
00:15:07,611 --> 00:15:11,080
I just want you to know
that you can open up to me,
384
00:15:11,114 --> 00:15:14,617
That I'm gonna do all I can
to help you.
385
00:15:14,651 --> 00:15:16,285
[ exhales deeply ]
386
00:15:16,319 --> 00:15:18,354
Well, I mean, I...
387
00:15:18,388 --> 00:15:20,990
I never said this out loud
before to anyone,
388
00:15:21,024 --> 00:15:23,993
But I guess if I did,
it would be you.
389
00:15:24,027 --> 00:15:26,996
It's just that, jay,
you see, I'm, uh...
390
00:15:28,298 --> 00:15:30,733
...I'm...
391
00:15:30,767 --> 00:15:32,201
Go ahead.
392
00:15:32,235 --> 00:15:33,736
Yeah, go ahead.
393
00:15:33,770 --> 00:15:35,804
...I'm in debt.
Huh?
394
00:15:35,839 --> 00:15:39,208
I owe a bookie 20 g's,
and he's a serious guy.
395
00:15:39,242 --> 00:15:42,745
And you offering to give me
the dough -- this is beautiful!
396
00:15:42,779 --> 00:15:44,413
Wait a minute.
You're not gay?
397
00:15:44,447 --> 00:15:47,549
Gay?! What are you
talking about, gay?
398
00:15:47,584 --> 00:15:49,718
I'm not gay!
Where'd you get gay?!
399
00:15:49,753 --> 00:15:52,388
Come on, I mean, you're
blways talking about clothes
and everything, right?
400
00:15:52,422 --> 00:15:55,524
My father was a tailor.
I like clothes. So what?
401
00:15:55,558 --> 00:15:57,760
Are you calling
my father gay?
No!
402
00:15:57,794 --> 00:16:00,296
My father landed on normandy
to save your ass.
403
00:16:00,330 --> 00:16:02,698
You know, if you
weren't lending me 20 g's,
404
00:16:02,732 --> 00:16:05,234
I'd knock you out
right now.
405
00:16:08,605 --> 00:16:10,439
Take a check?
406
00:16:10,473 --> 00:16:13,676
Cash would be better.
407
00:16:13,710 --> 00:16:16,712
Haley, you ready?
408
00:16:16,746 --> 00:16:19,315
Let's do this.
409
00:16:19,349 --> 00:16:21,050
Turn on the tv.
410
00:16:21,084 --> 00:16:23,085
[ beep ]
411
00:16:23,119 --> 00:16:24,620
Nice.
412
00:16:24,654 --> 00:16:26,689
Mute it.
413
00:16:26,723 --> 00:16:28,357
[ beep, no audio ]
414
00:16:28,391 --> 00:16:30,125
Un-mute it.
[ beep ]
415
00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:31,327
[ audio resumes ]
416
00:16:31,361 --> 00:16:33,729
Put it on dvd.
417
00:16:33,763 --> 00:16:35,664
[ beeps twice ]
418
00:16:35,699 --> 00:16:37,433
Skip forward.
419
00:16:37,467 --> 00:16:39,935
Wait. Um...
420
00:16:39,970 --> 00:16:41,170
[ beep ]
421
00:16:42,439 --> 00:16:44,873
Okay. Back to tv.
422
00:16:44,908 --> 00:16:46,709
[ beep ]
423
00:16:48,311 --> 00:16:49,645
Face!
424
00:16:49,679 --> 00:16:51,480
Don't get all cocky,
phil.
425
00:16:51,514 --> 00:16:56,418
Let's see what happens
to little haley when I do this.
426
00:16:56,453 --> 00:16:57,953
Ho! Ooh!
427
00:16:57,988 --> 00:16:59,188
Face.
428
00:16:59,222 --> 00:17:01,056
Dad, w-what do I do?
429
00:17:01,091 --> 00:17:02,758
Don't panic.
We went through this.
430
00:17:02,792 --> 00:17:04,293
Just -- just think.
431
00:17:04,327 --> 00:17:06,428
Give up?
Give up. Admit defeat.
432
00:17:06,463 --> 00:17:07,429
Haley...
433
00:17:07,464 --> 00:17:09,198
Okay, uh, let's see...
434
00:17:09,232 --> 00:17:13,235
You put the remote
onto tv mode
435
00:17:13,269 --> 00:17:19,908
And then pre input
till you get hdmi 1 and...
436
00:17:19,943 --> 00:17:22,678
[ triumphant music
plays on television ]
whoo! [ laughs ]
437
00:17:22,712 --> 00:17:24,680
I did it!
She did it!
438
00:17:24,714 --> 00:17:25,981
[ laughter ]
439
00:17:29,285 --> 00:17:30,819
Fine, you proved
your point.
440
00:17:30,854 --> 00:17:33,022
Everybody in this house
is smarter than me.
441
00:17:33,056 --> 00:17:34,890
No, honey,
you're missing the point.
442
00:17:34,924 --> 00:17:36,959
I taught haley how to use
the remote in 20 minutes,
443
00:17:36,993 --> 00:17:39,328
So think how fast
you can learn it.
444
00:17:39,362 --> 00:17:41,330
What's that
supposed to mean?
445
00:17:41,364 --> 00:17:43,565
See what I'm saying?
446
00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:46,935
[ pounding on door ]
jay:
Mitchell, it's me!
447
00:17:46,970 --> 00:17:48,270
Hey, dad.
448
00:17:48,304 --> 00:17:49,438
Hi.
Hi.
449
00:17:49,472 --> 00:17:52,174
I'm here to let you know
your gaydar is broken.
450
00:17:52,208 --> 00:17:54,309
Shorty is not gay.
451
00:17:54,344 --> 00:17:56,178
No. I, um,
I knew that.
452
00:17:56,212 --> 00:17:58,981
I just, uh -- I made
that up to mess with you
for dissing cam.
453
00:17:59,015 --> 00:18:01,917
What? That cost me20,000 bucks.
454
00:18:01,951 --> 00:18:04,319
What do you mean?
I reached out to him,
you know,
455
00:18:04,354 --> 00:18:06,021
To let him know
it's okay to be gay.
456
00:18:07,157 --> 00:18:08,791
You did?
Yeah...
457
00:18:08,825 --> 00:18:11,527
Right after one of the stranger
golf lessons of my life.
458
00:18:11,561 --> 00:18:14,296
Turns out what he is
is a lousy gambler,
459
00:18:14,330 --> 00:18:16,999
D now I'm the one
on the hook for it.
460
00:18:17,033 --> 00:18:19,501
[ chuckles ]
well, I'm so sorry.
461
00:18:19,536 --> 00:18:21,170
Then why are you smiling?
462
00:18:21,204 --> 00:18:23,338
I'm -- I'm proud of you, dad.
You're growing.
463
00:18:23,373 --> 00:18:24,973
Just --
just stop it, please?
464
00:18:25,008 --> 00:18:27,009
Don't you see how hard
this is for me?
465
00:18:27,043 --> 00:18:29,378
See, I used to be
just like one of those guys.
466
00:18:29,412 --> 00:18:30,446
Now look at me.
467
00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,381
I got a house looks like
little colombia.
468
00:18:32,415 --> 00:18:34,683
I got a gay son
and a chinese granddaughter.
469
00:18:34,717 --> 00:18:35,784
Vietnamese.
470
00:18:35,819 --> 00:18:37,553
Only you would know
the difference.
471
00:18:37,587 --> 00:18:40,289
Okay, don't worry, dad.
You're not growing too much.
472
00:18:40,323 --> 00:18:41,890
Whitney:
I'm a little nervous.
473
00:18:41,925 --> 00:18:43,125
Don't be!
474
00:18:43,159 --> 00:18:44,960
I'm sure
you look beautiful.
475
00:18:44,994 --> 00:18:48,130
[ gasps ]
whoa!
476
00:18:48,164 --> 00:18:49,631
What do you think?
477
00:18:49,666 --> 00:18:51,834
Look at you!
[ chuckles ]
478
00:18:51,868 --> 00:18:53,335
Really?
479
00:18:53,369 --> 00:18:54,603
[ doorbell rings ]
480
00:18:54,637 --> 00:18:57,606
You gonna be fighting men off
with a stick!
481
00:18:57,640 --> 00:18:59,341
I don't know about that.
482
00:19:00,376 --> 00:19:01,610
Cameron!
483
00:19:01,644 --> 00:19:03,011
Hi! Sorry
for the pop-over,
484
00:19:03,046 --> 00:19:04,780
But I just wanted to
bring you these
485
00:19:04,814 --> 00:19:07,116
To thank you for babysitting
lily again last night.
486
00:19:07,150 --> 00:19:08,917
Oh...
Mwah!
487
00:19:08,952 --> 00:19:11,153
Gracias.
You didn't need to do that.
488
00:19:11,187 --> 00:19:12,955
You know I love lily.
I know.
489
00:19:12,989 --> 00:19:15,357
Come in.
Say hello.
490
00:19:15,391 --> 00:19:16,892
Hey, cam.
491
00:19:16,926 --> 00:19:19,061
Cameron, this is
my new friend, whitney.
492
00:19:19,095 --> 00:19:22,231
Whitney,
this is cameron.
Hello,
it's nice to meet you.
493
00:19:22,265 --> 00:19:24,233
That...
Is a spectacular dress.
494
00:19:24,267 --> 00:19:25,567
This old thing?
I don't know...
495
00:19:25,602 --> 00:19:28,504
What about her hair?
Oh, my gosh.
496
00:19:28,538 --> 00:19:30,405
It's like barbra streisand
in "the way we were."
497
00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:31,707
One of my favorites.
498
00:19:31,741 --> 00:19:32,841
Me too.
499
00:19:33,943 --> 00:19:36,745
Okay, who is reading
"the forevers"?
500
00:19:36,779 --> 00:19:38,280
I am.
[ gasps ]
501
00:19:38,314 --> 00:19:41,316
I am so obsessed with this
whole vampire thing right now.
502
00:19:41,351 --> 00:19:43,318
Me too!
503
00:19:43,353 --> 00:19:46,188
I just met the sweetest guy
named cameron.
504
00:19:46,222 --> 00:19:48,257
I think he might be the one.
505
00:19:48,291 --> 00:19:51,360
Mitchell: Can people change?
I don't know.
506
00:19:51,394 --> 00:19:53,795
People are who they are...
507
00:19:53,830 --> 00:19:56,465
Give or take 15%.
508
00:19:56,499 --> 00:19:59,868
That's how much people can
change if they really want to.
509
00:19:59,903 --> 00:20:01,537
Well, I'll see you
when I see you.
510
00:20:01,571 --> 00:20:02,704
Yeah,
thanks for com--
511
00:20:04,207 --> 00:20:05,407
[ rhythmic patting ]
512
00:20:05,441 --> 00:20:06,808
Okay.
513
00:20:11,147 --> 00:20:13,448
Haley, sweetie,
wake u
514
00:20:13,483 --> 00:20:14,816
What?
515
00:20:14,851 --> 00:20:17,553
I need you to teach me
to use the tv.
516
00:20:17,587 --> 00:20:18,887
Now?
517
00:20:18,922 --> 00:20:20,856
Why can't dad teach you?
518
00:20:20,890 --> 00:20:24,526
Because we're married.
519
00:20:24,561 --> 00:20:28,363
Whether it's for themselves
or for the people they love.
520
00:20:28,398 --> 00:20:30,432
That way.
Yeah. And then press --
521
00:20:30,466 --> 00:20:31,900
Mnh.
I got it.
522
00:20:31,935 --> 00:20:33,936
Yeah. Yeah, 15%.
523
00:20:33,970 --> 00:20:35,470
[ beep ]
524
00:20:35,505 --> 00:20:37,206
[ both cheer ]
525
00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:38,840
But you know what?
526
00:20:38,875 --> 00:20:41,143
Sometimes
that's just enough.
527
00:20:41,177 --> 00:20:42,844
I did it!
528
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:48,205
All riall right.See you guys
next week, huh?
Jay, jay...
529
00:20:49,742 --> 00:20:51,543
Listen, I want to thank yo
for, uh, you know,
530
00:20:51,577 --> 00:20:54,779
Helping me out with that jam,
you know.
, it was nothing.
It was nothing.
531
00:20:54,814 --> 00:20:56,548
No. No, no, no. And I got you
a little present.
532
00:20:56,582 --> 00:20:58,416
Oh, come on.
You didn't have to do that.
No, I did.
533
00:20:58,451 --> 00:21:01,720
Two tickets to see
the great michael bublè.
534
00:21:01,754 --> 00:21:04,156
The guy sings
like an angel.
535
00:21:04,190 --> 00:21:05,891
He's gonna be outside
at one of the amphitheaters.
536
00:21:05,925 --> 00:21:06,858
Gloria's gonna love it.
537
00:21:06,893 --> 00:21:08,994
No. I'm talking
about you and me.
538
00:21:09,028 --> 00:21:10,162
Oh, you and me?
Yeah.
539
00:21:10,196 --> 00:21:11,263
Oh, well,
that's a little, um...
540
00:21:11,297 --> 00:21:12,764
Yeah, I thought
maybe we could have
541
00:21:12,798 --> 00:21:14,766
A little picnic since
it's outside, you know?
542
00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,469
I'll get some nice bottle
of wine, a little cheese,
543
00:21:17,503 --> 00:21:19,971
Lay on a nice blanket,
all right?
Yeah, fine, yeah.
544
00:21:20,006 --> 00:21:22,774
Yo, hey, I like your hair.
Who does your hair?
545
00:21:22,808 --> 00:21:26,144
Huh? Yo, handsome,
who does your hair?