1 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:16,620 So yesterday I found out 2 00:00:16,644 --> 00:00:18,485 about the DNA stuff with Ashley. 3 00:00:20,530 --> 00:00:21,865 - It was hard. - Oh. 4 00:00:21,891 --> 00:00:23,417 I'm going to meet with 5 00:00:23,441 --> 00:00:24,991 a geneticist to find my dad. 6 00:00:25,992 --> 00:00:27,269 No. That's what's crazy. 7 00:00:27,293 --> 00:00:28,972 - I do actually - have a guy in mind-- 8 00:00:28,998 --> 00:00:31,287 - Oh, sh--! - He has a home in France. 9 00:00:31,313 --> 00:00:33,637 - You said you're a Francophile, - which made me think of him. 10 00:00:33,661 --> 00:00:34,344 That sounds really good. 11 00:00:34,368 --> 00:00:35,879 - Last night, - I had a problem sleeping, 12 00:00:35,905 --> 00:00:37,280 - Because tomorrow - is my serious date. 13 00:00:37,306 --> 00:00:39,149 - Right! - With marriage material. 14 00:00:39,175 --> 00:00:40,884 - I think you should - focus on the marriage material. 15 00:00:40,910 --> 00:00:42,251 Forget about the toy boys. 16 00:00:42,275 --> 00:00:43,500 It's a very competitive 17 00:00:43,524 --> 00:00:44,746 business, 18 00:00:44,770 --> 00:00:45,889 - real estate, obviously. - Well, I'm a competitor. 19 00:00:45,915 --> 00:00:47,257 - Well, that's good. - Start working some open houses. 20 00:00:47,283 --> 00:00:48,891 And I'll keep studying. 21 00:00:48,915 --> 00:00:50,427 - So, I'm going to - do an event next week. 22 00:00:50,453 --> 00:00:52,262 - It's actually - called Black Shabbat. 23 00:00:52,288 --> 00:00:54,847 - Then, why are you - calling it a Black Shabbat? 24 00:00:54,871 --> 00:00:55,732 - Because the guests - I'm inviting are Black. 25 00:00:55,758 --> 00:00:57,467 - Why do you have to say - whether you're white, Black, 26 00:00:57,493 --> 00:00:59,896 Purple, yellow or red? 27 00:00:59,920 --> 00:01:00,170 - It is Black--. - [bleep] 28 00:01:00,196 --> 00:01:02,304 ♪♪♪ 29 00:01:02,328 --> 00:01:04,106 Of all my vices, 30 00:01:04,130 --> 00:01:05,726 being glamorous is 31 00:01:05,750 --> 00:01:07,343 one I'll never give up. 32 00:01:07,367 --> 00:01:09,930 I'm sex positive 33 00:01:09,954 --> 00:01:12,515 and BS-negative. 34 00:01:12,539 --> 00:01:14,383 I may say the wrong thing, 35 00:01:14,407 --> 00:01:15,953 but my intentions 36 00:01:15,977 --> 00:01:17,520 are always right. 37 00:01:17,544 --> 00:01:18,806 I've had to work twice 38 00:01:18,830 --> 00:01:20,089 as hard for half as much, 39 00:01:20,113 --> 00:01:21,275 but now I'm 40 00:01:21,299 --> 00:01:22,458 coming for everything. 41 00:01:22,482 --> 00:01:25,826 Just like New York city, 42 00:01:25,850 --> 00:01:27,731 - Sonja Morgan - never goes out of style. 43 00:01:27,757 --> 00:01:31,367 ♪♪♪ 44 00:01:31,391 --> 00:01:33,269 [upbeat music] 45 00:01:33,293 --> 00:01:41,277 ♪♪♪ 46 00:01:41,301 --> 00:01:43,831 Angel, you're a little 47 00:01:43,855 --> 00:01:46,382 Jewish chihuahua! You are. 48 00:01:46,406 --> 00:01:49,420 Yes! Oh my goodness, 49 00:01:49,444 --> 00:01:52,479 my little girl. My little girl. 50 00:01:54,214 --> 00:01:55,515 [soft growling] 51 00:01:58,318 --> 00:02:01,799 Baruch Atah Adonai, 52 00:02:01,823 --> 00:02:05,301 Eloheinu Melech-- 53 00:02:05,325 --> 00:02:07,336 Oh, God. 54 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:12,475 ♪♪♪ 55 00:02:12,499 --> 00:02:13,794 - Hi. 56 00:02:13,818 --> 00:02:15,111 - Hey, baby. 57 00:02:15,135 --> 00:02:16,813 - Oh, my God, it's weird - looking at myself in this, 58 00:02:16,839 --> 00:02:18,815 - I don't like it - because it looks like my hair is 59 00:02:18,841 --> 00:02:20,783 The same color as my face, 60 00:02:20,807 --> 00:02:22,786 - and it's like making me - feel like I look bald. Anyway. 61 00:02:22,812 --> 00:02:24,521 - You look like Nicole Kidman. - Oh, stop. 62 00:02:24,547 --> 00:02:26,122 What are you doing? 63 00:02:26,146 --> 00:02:27,124 So, I'm looking 64 00:02:27,148 --> 00:02:28,125 at my prayer book 65 00:02:28,149 --> 00:02:30,794 - and practicing the prayer - with the lights for Shabbat, 66 00:02:30,820 --> 00:02:32,045 But like, it's, 67 00:02:32,069 --> 00:02:33,295 Hebrew is really hard. 68 00:02:33,319 --> 00:02:35,298 - It's like - [uvular voice] you know, 69 00:02:35,324 --> 00:02:37,367 - You do all this stuff, - and it doesn't feel so, 70 00:02:37,393 --> 00:02:39,236 - Like, feminine. So I feel, - like, weird, doing it, 71 00:02:39,260 --> 00:02:40,536 Because I'm like [uvulating] 72 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,772 [laughing] 73 00:02:42,796 --> 00:02:44,291 Hebrew is actually 74 00:02:44,315 --> 00:02:45,808 a beautiful language 75 00:02:45,832 --> 00:02:46,994 when it's spoken 76 00:02:47,018 --> 00:02:48,177 by someone who knows 77 00:02:48,201 --> 00:02:50,179 how to speak it. 78 00:02:50,203 --> 00:02:52,481 [guttural] Hala, Hala. 79 00:02:52,505 --> 00:02:54,216 [growling] 80 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:55,384 It's going to take time. 81 00:02:55,408 --> 00:02:58,154 And I'm hanging my mezuzahtoday 82 00:02:58,178 --> 00:02:59,523 - You know, - I bought one with my ex. 83 00:02:59,549 --> 00:03:01,446 Here, I'll show it to you, 84 00:03:01,470 --> 00:03:02,326 - it's on my ----ing - kitchen counter. 85 00:03:02,352 --> 00:03:04,260 You're gonna laugh hysterically. 86 00:03:04,284 --> 00:03:06,430 - Look how funny this is, - and he never ----ing put it up. 87 00:03:06,456 --> 00:03:08,864 It's beautiful. Do you see mine? 88 00:03:08,888 --> 00:03:10,217 Oh, your prayer is in it, 89 00:03:10,241 --> 00:03:11,567 it's see-through. 90 00:03:11,591 --> 00:03:13,073 - Yeah. 91 00:03:13,097 --> 00:03:14,576 - That's dope. 92 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:15,405 - Of course, - yours is all pink and-- 93 00:03:15,431 --> 00:03:17,516 - Pretty. 94 00:03:17,540 --> 00:03:19,626 - Like, so cute and modern. 95 00:03:19,650 --> 00:03:21,378 - I didn't mean to get - such a giant mezuzah-- 96 00:03:21,404 --> 00:03:22,645 But of course you would. 97 00:03:22,669 --> 00:03:24,313 The bigger, the better. 98 00:03:24,337 --> 00:03:25,332 - BM energy. 99 00:03:25,356 --> 00:03:26,349 - Totally. 100 00:03:26,373 --> 00:03:27,768 - Big mezuzahenergy. 101 00:03:27,792 --> 00:03:29,185 - Big mezuzahenergy, BME. 102 00:03:29,209 --> 00:03:30,586 The bigger the mezuzah, 103 00:03:30,610 --> 00:03:31,955 the less insecure 104 00:03:31,979 --> 00:03:33,322 I feel about converting. 105 00:03:33,346 --> 00:03:36,525 So, okay. 106 00:03:36,549 --> 00:03:38,395 - Today, you're going - to be my friend, Archie, 107 00:03:38,421 --> 00:03:40,364 - Who I told you is - like my Jewish sister. 108 00:03:40,390 --> 00:03:42,632 - You're going to love her. - I can't wait to meet her. 109 00:03:42,658 --> 00:03:44,434 - Just don't leave me, - and like run away together. 110 00:03:44,460 --> 00:03:45,869 - [both laughing] 111 00:03:45,893 --> 00:03:47,303 - It's so funny. 112 00:03:47,327 --> 00:03:49,439 - You'll be like two, gorgeous, - tall, blond, Jewish women. 113 00:03:49,465 --> 00:03:51,425 So jealous. I told her that you 114 00:03:51,449 --> 00:03:53,409 want to lead some of the prayers 115 00:03:53,433 --> 00:03:55,679 - and things, during Shabbat. - Yeah, well, just the candles. 116 00:03:55,705 --> 00:03:58,315 - I am really - excited about Black Shabbat, 117 00:03:58,341 --> 00:04:00,617 - And I'm really honored - to share this opportunity 118 00:04:00,643 --> 00:04:01,952 With Leah, because 119 00:04:01,976 --> 00:04:03,285 she has been so committed 120 00:04:03,309 --> 00:04:05,288 - and disciplined in - her studies of Judaism, 121 00:04:05,314 --> 00:04:06,889 And I'm really proud of her, 122 00:04:06,913 --> 00:04:08,558 - and I'm excited to - share that with the women. 123 00:04:08,584 --> 00:04:10,661 - Let me go - practice my prayers now. 124 00:04:10,687 --> 00:04:12,328 You're gonna be great, baby. 125 00:04:12,352 --> 00:04:14,097 - Mwah! - Thank you, mwah. Love you. 126 00:04:14,123 --> 00:04:15,297 Talk to you later. Bye. 127 00:04:15,321 --> 00:04:22,938 ♪♪♪ 128 00:04:22,962 --> 00:04:24,640 Come in. 129 00:04:24,664 --> 00:04:26,343 - Hey. - Hey! 130 00:04:26,369 --> 00:04:28,245 - Right, where - should I put my coat? 131 00:04:28,271 --> 00:04:29,913 - I'll take it, we'll - just put it in the kitchen. 132 00:04:29,939 --> 00:04:31,682 - Alright. - Are you ready for this? 133 00:04:31,708 --> 00:04:33,317 - Yeah, because actually - I researched some more things. 134 00:04:33,343 --> 00:04:35,452 - Okay. So, - my client, Jordan, is coming up. 135 00:04:35,478 --> 00:04:37,254 - Alright. - I think you did great before. 136 00:04:37,278 --> 00:04:38,622 - The only thing you just got to - remember, 137 00:04:38,648 --> 00:04:40,489 And it's sometimes hard 138 00:04:40,513 --> 00:04:42,359 - because we all get disoriented - in the apartment, is, 139 00:04:42,385 --> 00:04:44,528 - You know, which way is north, - which way is south. 140 00:04:44,554 --> 00:04:47,497 - No, I know. I know this is west, - and I know that's north, 141 00:04:47,523 --> 00:04:49,333 - And that's south. - Perfect. 142 00:04:49,359 --> 00:04:50,667 - But in the bedroom, - I got confused because, 143 00:04:50,693 --> 00:04:51,952 Because when you 144 00:04:51,976 --> 00:04:53,235 face the East River, 145 00:04:53,259 --> 00:04:54,671 - and I was - thinking it was that way, 146 00:04:54,697 --> 00:04:56,405 But it wasn't that way. 147 00:04:56,429 --> 00:04:58,508 - I don't have - my a real estate license yet. 148 00:04:58,534 --> 00:04:59,913 I've just been 149 00:04:59,937 --> 00:05:01,316 taking the 75-hour course. 150 00:05:01,340 --> 00:05:02,849 I just took my test, 151 00:05:02,873 --> 00:05:04,380 like after every few chapters, 152 00:05:04,404 --> 00:05:06,415 I have to take a quiz. I got 81. 153 00:05:06,439 --> 00:05:08,418 Well yeah. I'm three 154 00:05:08,442 --> 00:05:10,419 quarters of the way through, 155 00:05:10,443 --> 00:05:12,489 - but I definitely - want to get my feet wet, 156 00:05:12,515 --> 00:05:13,507 And show off that 157 00:05:13,531 --> 00:05:14,523 I have what it takes. 158 00:05:14,547 --> 00:05:16,493 - [knocking] - Ooh, he's here. Ready? 159 00:05:16,519 --> 00:05:17,626 I was born ready. 160 00:05:17,650 --> 00:05:18,679 - Hello. 161 00:05:18,703 --> 00:05:19,729 - Hi, how are you? 162 00:05:19,753 --> 00:05:21,065 - What's up, how are you? 163 00:05:21,089 --> 00:05:22,398 - Can I give you a hug? 164 00:05:22,422 --> 00:05:23,667 - Yeah, okay. 165 00:05:23,691 --> 00:05:24,934 - Hi there, how are you? 166 00:05:24,958 --> 00:05:26,535 Hey, I'm Ramona. How are you? 167 00:05:26,559 --> 00:05:28,538 - A pleasure. - A pleasure, pleasure. 168 00:05:28,564 --> 00:05:30,574 - So, so excited that - you came in over the bridge. 169 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:32,509 - Wait, not over the bridge, - because you're in Connecticut. 170 00:05:32,535 --> 00:05:34,444 - That's still a bridge. - That's still a bridge. 171 00:05:34,470 --> 00:05:36,413 - We're on an island. - Yeah, exactly. 172 00:05:36,439 --> 00:05:37,781 - Let's just - start with the presence 173 00:05:37,807 --> 00:05:39,483 - Of how you just - walk into your apartment. 174 00:05:39,509 --> 00:05:41,550 You start with this long hallway 175 00:05:41,574 --> 00:05:43,620 - with our - beautiful 12 feet ceilings. 176 00:05:43,646 --> 00:05:45,472 I am really looking 177 00:05:45,496 --> 00:05:47,323 forward to doing real estate. 178 00:05:47,347 --> 00:05:49,559 - I've already sold - my New York City apartment, 179 00:05:49,585 --> 00:05:51,144 Renovated Southampton, 180 00:05:51,168 --> 00:05:52,728 so I need something else. 181 00:05:52,752 --> 00:05:54,293 I just like being busy, 182 00:05:54,317 --> 00:05:55,856 and I like making money. 183 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:57,300 - Now, this says it all. - This view. Oh my gosh. 184 00:05:57,326 --> 00:05:59,569 - I mean, let's just take this in. - Let's not even say a word. 185 00:05:59,595 --> 00:06:01,738 - This view is amazing. - Right now, you're facing 186 00:06:01,764 --> 00:06:04,277 - North, this i-- - You don't get views like this. 187 00:06:04,303 --> 00:06:06,209 - I'm talking! - Ow. 188 00:06:06,235 --> 00:06:08,316 Sorry, I didn't mean to hit him. 189 00:06:08,340 --> 00:06:09,780 - I feel like we won't do - that much during showings. 190 00:06:09,806 --> 00:06:11,782 - No physical abuse - during showings. 191 00:06:11,808 --> 00:06:14,351 - I'm supposed to be talking. - You're supposed to be quiet. 192 00:06:14,377 --> 00:06:15,719 - He's a friend and a client, - it's okay. 193 00:06:15,745 --> 00:06:17,754 - You can hit him - in the face next time. 194 00:06:17,780 --> 00:06:20,557 - He's not, I was in my mood. - Sorry, I'm going to be quiet. 195 00:06:20,583 --> 00:06:21,792 - I'm not like - a wishy-washy person. 196 00:06:21,818 --> 00:06:23,694 - If I'm going to - show an apartment 197 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,029 Worth millions of dollars, 198 00:06:25,053 --> 00:06:26,362 I'm taking command. 199 00:06:26,386 --> 00:06:28,516 And you have this wrap around, 200 00:06:28,540 --> 00:06:29,399 three sides of glass, 201 00:06:29,423 --> 00:06:31,546 and they're able to achieve this 202 00:06:31,570 --> 00:06:33,770 - because all the supports - are outside on the terrace. 203 00:06:33,796 --> 00:06:35,556 I could always do floor plans 204 00:06:35,580 --> 00:06:37,340 for you to fit your lifestyle. 205 00:06:37,364 --> 00:06:38,774 Maybe you have a baby grand. 206 00:06:38,798 --> 00:06:40,477 - We'll show you - how that could fit in. 207 00:06:41,534 --> 00:06:43,580 - But you entertain, you know? - Of course I do. 208 00:06:43,606 --> 00:06:44,634 So, this is 209 00:06:44,658 --> 00:06:45,686 the primary bathroom. 210 00:06:45,710 --> 00:06:46,583 Well, these windows, 211 00:06:46,607 --> 00:06:48,717 - I just, I got a little, - like vertigo. 212 00:06:48,741 --> 00:06:49,720 - Yeah! I got a little, - like, oooh! 213 00:06:49,746 --> 00:06:51,121 The cabinets are actually 214 00:06:51,145 --> 00:06:52,521 Italian glass, handmade. 215 00:06:52,545 --> 00:06:53,657 Down here is 216 00:06:53,681 --> 00:06:54,790 your washer and dryer, 217 00:06:54,814 --> 00:06:56,459 and your garbage disposal. 218 00:06:56,483 --> 00:06:57,761 - Trash chute. - Trash chute. 219 00:06:57,787 --> 00:06:59,629 - That's the disposal. - Right. 220 00:06:59,655 --> 00:07:01,598 - I mean, that's where - you dispose your garbage. 221 00:07:01,624 --> 00:07:03,537 - Now is the time - to hit him again. 222 00:07:03,563 --> 00:07:04,633 No, but thank you. 223 00:07:04,657 --> 00:07:06,567 - It bothers me - when he's correcting me 224 00:07:06,591 --> 00:07:07,437 - Because it - means I'm not perfect, 225 00:07:07,463 --> 00:07:08,705 - So I want to be perfect, - Michael. 226 00:07:08,731 --> 00:07:10,374 - This is like - indoor/outdoor living. 227 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:11,741 Yeah. 228 00:07:11,765 --> 00:07:13,844 - You could have 40 people. - Totally. 229 00:07:13,870 --> 00:07:15,679 - And it's not one - of those scary terraces-- 230 00:07:15,705 --> 00:07:17,447 - And wait, remember. - Terrace on the top. 231 00:07:17,473 --> 00:07:19,516 - Oh yeah, that's - true also. That's amazing. 232 00:07:19,542 --> 00:07:21,652 - With her shoes, I tell - her not to wear this, you know. 233 00:07:21,678 --> 00:07:23,754 - No, I can do everything. - I told you, I can run. 234 00:07:23,780 --> 00:07:25,655 She needs those little things. 235 00:07:25,679 --> 00:07:27,557 - Oh, those little brown - things that go at the bottom. 236 00:07:27,583 --> 00:07:29,660 - No, I'm fine with these shoes. - Don't scuff the floor. 237 00:07:29,686 --> 00:07:31,827 Oh sorry, sorry, sorry. 238 00:07:31,851 --> 00:07:34,431 - Michael doesn't realize that - my shoes have rubber bottoms, 239 00:07:34,457 --> 00:07:36,298 So I'm not ruining the floors 240 00:07:36,322 --> 00:07:38,502 - but I'm not going to correct - him in front of the client. 241 00:07:38,528 --> 00:07:39,954 - She's doing well, right? 242 00:07:39,978 --> 00:07:41,404 - Can I tell you something? 243 00:07:41,428 --> 00:07:43,473 - Are you intimidated? I want - people to be intimidated by her. 244 00:07:43,499 --> 00:07:44,841 - She's smart, and she - knows everything and everyone. 245 00:07:44,867 --> 00:07:46,542 How am I tough? 246 00:07:46,566 --> 00:07:47,878 - You're very assertive, - very confident. 247 00:07:47,904 --> 00:07:49,780 - That's why - I can't get a boyfriend. 248 00:07:49,806 --> 00:07:51,198 But who cares because you'll 249 00:07:51,222 --> 00:07:52,615 sell ten apartments a month. 250 00:07:52,639 --> 00:07:53,734 - I'll buy a boyfriend? 251 00:07:53,758 --> 00:07:54,850 - Exactly. 252 00:07:54,874 --> 00:07:56,852 [chuckling] 253 00:07:56,876 --> 00:08:02,325 ♪♪♪ 254 00:08:02,349 --> 00:08:03,928 Carey James, 255 00:08:03,952 --> 00:08:05,528 mommy's had a day, honey. 256 00:08:05,552 --> 00:08:07,463 [knocking] 257 00:08:07,487 --> 00:08:10,533 Coming. Okay. 258 00:08:10,557 --> 00:08:11,834 Hi! 259 00:08:11,858 --> 00:08:13,337 - You're not afraid of dogs, - are you? 260 00:08:13,363 --> 00:08:14,704 Oh, not at all. I love dogs. 261 00:08:14,728 --> 00:08:16,573 - Come on in. - Nice to meet you. 262 00:08:16,599 --> 00:08:17,908 - Nice to meet you. - Hey, come on in. 263 00:08:17,934 --> 00:08:19,810 - Crazy dog. - So cute! 264 00:08:19,836 --> 00:08:21,812 - Don't mind her. - Let me take your coat and purse. 265 00:08:21,838 --> 00:08:23,646 Oh, thank you, I appreciate it. 266 00:08:23,670 --> 00:08:25,615 - Yeah. Linda has a job - I'd never heard of before. 267 00:08:25,641 --> 00:08:27,550 She's a genetic investigator. 268 00:08:27,574 --> 00:08:29,053 She's able to 269 00:08:29,077 --> 00:08:30,553 literally use my DNA, 270 00:08:30,577 --> 00:08:32,501 to trace backwards from 271 00:08:32,525 --> 00:08:34,446 that and identify my father. 272 00:08:34,470 --> 00:08:35,726 - Alright. Well, - thanks for getting a hold of me. 273 00:08:35,752 --> 00:08:37,360 I'm really excited about this. 274 00:08:37,384 --> 00:08:38,862 - Well, I was so - excited to find you, 275 00:08:38,888 --> 00:08:40,380 Because I don't know 276 00:08:40,404 --> 00:08:41,897 hardly anything about, 277 00:08:41,921 --> 00:08:43,233 about my family 278 00:08:43,257 --> 00:08:44,567 tree or any of it. 279 00:08:44,591 --> 00:08:45,753 My mom's amazing, 280 00:08:45,777 --> 00:08:46,936 but I'm an only child, 281 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:48,322 and we don't really 282 00:08:48,346 --> 00:08:49,705 have all the answers around 283 00:08:49,729 --> 00:08:51,474 the paternity situation. 284 00:08:51,498 --> 00:08:52,775 Okay. 285 00:08:52,799 --> 00:08:54,778 - And the one lead - I had was a beautiful, 286 00:08:54,804 --> 00:08:56,780 - Wonderful woman - named Ashley growing up, 287 00:08:56,806 --> 00:08:58,515 - Thinking and being - told I was her sister. 288 00:08:58,541 --> 00:09:00,182 Okay. 289 00:09:00,206 --> 00:09:02,519 - Unfortunately, got - the news that it's not a match. 290 00:09:02,545 --> 00:09:04,955 Blood-wise, it doesn't 291 00:09:04,979 --> 00:09:07,390 support that we are sisters. 292 00:09:07,414 --> 00:09:09,392 I wanted that so badly. 293 00:09:09,416 --> 00:09:11,795 - I felt like I had my family, - you know? 294 00:09:11,821 --> 00:09:13,730 - Bitch can only - go through so much. 295 00:09:13,756 --> 00:09:15,249 You know, this has been a lot, 296 00:09:15,273 --> 00:09:16,766 a lot of disappointment, 297 00:09:16,790 --> 00:09:18,769 a lot of heartache, and if 298 00:09:18,793 --> 00:09:20,770 Linda and this doesn't work, 299 00:09:20,794 --> 00:09:22,756 I'm going to just call it 300 00:09:22,780 --> 00:09:24,740 a wrap. I have done Ancestry. 301 00:09:24,764 --> 00:09:26,810 - Great. Any big reveals? - No big reveals at all. 302 00:09:26,836 --> 00:09:28,544 No first cousins at all. 303 00:09:28,568 --> 00:09:30,337 - Okay. - Here, I can show it. 304 00:09:30,363 --> 00:09:31,714 Yeah. No, I'd love to see. 305 00:09:31,738 --> 00:09:33,216 - But nothing rang-- - So, this person. 306 00:09:33,242 --> 00:09:34,617 Who is this? 307 00:09:34,641 --> 00:09:36,397 - So, you don't know? - No! 308 00:09:36,423 --> 00:09:37,754 - Okay, that's good. - That's a close match. 309 00:09:37,780 --> 00:09:39,556 - Okay. Yeah, - I have no idea who that is. 310 00:09:39,582 --> 00:09:40,791 - Well, hopefully-- - Or this. 311 00:09:40,817 --> 00:09:42,456 Oh! 312 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:43,659 I don't know who that is either. 313 00:09:43,683 --> 00:09:45,487 - Okay. This is great. - This is, these are-- 314 00:09:45,513 --> 00:09:46,663 - Really? - Yes. 315 00:09:46,689 --> 00:09:48,231 - So wait. What - are you going to do? 316 00:09:48,257 --> 00:09:49,799 Well, I am going-- 317 00:09:49,823 --> 00:09:51,268 - You're going to - reach out to these two? 318 00:09:51,294 --> 00:09:53,566 Well, no. 319 00:09:53,590 --> 00:09:54,938 - Actually, what I'll do is - first do a clustering analysis. 320 00:09:54,964 --> 00:09:56,440 - When you do - a clustering analysis 321 00:09:56,466 --> 00:09:57,773 On all of your DNA matches, 322 00:09:57,797 --> 00:09:59,543 - it should show - you four clusters, 323 00:09:59,569 --> 00:10:01,244 - And it should, two - clusters for your maternal side, 324 00:10:01,270 --> 00:10:03,337 - And then the same - for the maternal side. 325 00:10:03,363 --> 00:10:04,948 - And then between - those two clusters, 326 00:10:04,974 --> 00:10:07,718 - You're looking to find - an individual from, you know, 327 00:10:07,744 --> 00:10:09,820 - The first two clusters - is going to have a union 328 00:10:09,846 --> 00:10:11,922 - With an individual - from the second two clusters. 329 00:10:15,150 --> 00:10:16,459 Yeah. 330 00:10:16,483 --> 00:10:17,461 - Oh, God. 331 00:10:17,485 --> 00:10:18,462 - Yeah. It's-- 332 00:10:18,486 --> 00:10:20,464 - That's remarkable. There is - a part of me that's excited, 333 00:10:20,490 --> 00:10:22,526 Because Linda's great. 334 00:10:22,550 --> 00:10:24,801 - But, I also know this - is like a shot in the dark. 335 00:10:24,827 --> 00:10:26,569 You have good matches. 336 00:10:26,593 --> 00:10:28,257 - So, possibly you - could have some half siblings 337 00:10:28,283 --> 00:10:30,239 And cousins, half-cousins. 338 00:10:30,263 --> 00:10:31,741 So, yeah. 339 00:10:31,765 --> 00:10:33,577 - And if I could - find out just anything 340 00:10:33,603 --> 00:10:36,312 That gives me a, a bigger sense, 341 00:10:36,336 --> 00:10:38,966 a broader sense of who I am, 342 00:10:38,990 --> 00:10:41,617 you know what I mean? 343 00:10:41,641 --> 00:10:43,619 For how long are we thinking? 344 00:10:43,643 --> 00:10:44,688 It could be in a week, 345 00:10:44,712 --> 00:10:45,755 maybe less. 346 00:10:45,779 --> 00:10:47,324 - What? - Yeah. 347 00:10:47,350 --> 00:10:49,466 Wow. 348 00:10:49,490 --> 00:10:51,728 - Well, I work fast, so. - Oh, my God, Linda. Oh my gosh. 349 00:10:51,754 --> 00:10:53,506 This is so, I might like, 350 00:10:53,530 --> 00:10:54,498 - know additional - family by Christmas. 351 00:10:54,524 --> 00:10:56,536 Oh, that would be the best. 352 00:10:56,560 --> 00:10:57,700 I would like to do that for you. 353 00:10:57,724 --> 00:10:58,868 Insane. 354 00:10:58,892 --> 00:11:00,503 I'm excited. Can I get a hug? 355 00:11:00,527 --> 00:11:01,837 Thank you. 356 00:11:01,861 --> 00:11:03,606 Coming up... 357 00:11:03,630 --> 00:11:05,308 - I have back surgery. - Oh my gosh. 358 00:11:05,334 --> 00:11:07,077 - If you think - of a disk like a jelly donut? 359 00:11:07,103 --> 00:11:08,844 Okay. 360 00:11:08,868 --> 00:11:10,314 - When it herniates, - the jelly comes out. 361 00:11:10,340 --> 00:11:11,514 Oh, yuck. 362 00:11:11,538 --> 00:11:13,707 ♪♪♪ 363 00:11:25,418 --> 00:11:27,196 Hello. 364 00:11:27,220 --> 00:11:28,564 Hello, I'm Brad. 365 00:11:28,588 --> 00:11:29,732 Pleased to meet you. 366 00:11:29,756 --> 00:11:31,886 I'm Sonja. 367 00:11:31,910 --> 00:11:32,969 - I've never had - a matchmaker before. 368 00:11:32,995 --> 00:11:34,388 So if I seem rusty, it's 369 00:11:34,412 --> 00:11:35,805 because I've never done this. 370 00:11:35,829 --> 00:11:38,141 - I've never done it either. - [both laughing] 371 00:11:38,167 --> 00:11:39,843 Well, I'm glad you came. 372 00:11:39,867 --> 00:11:41,544 I'm really excited to meet you. 373 00:11:41,568 --> 00:11:44,081 - Do you remember when I told you - I had someone in mind? 374 00:11:44,105 --> 00:11:45,082 Right. 375 00:11:45,106 --> 00:11:46,916 I did bring you a picture. 376 00:11:46,940 --> 00:11:49,218 [gasping] Oh, he's adorable. 377 00:11:49,242 --> 00:11:50,320 - Isn't he? 378 00:11:50,344 --> 00:11:51,420 - Oh my God! 379 00:11:51,444 --> 00:11:53,222 Girl, Devyn, you are the bomb. 380 00:11:53,246 --> 00:11:54,924 This is my kind of guy. 381 00:11:54,948 --> 00:11:57,160 - He's got a little belly, - which I love. 382 00:11:57,186 --> 00:11:58,495 Oh, my God, 383 00:11:58,519 --> 00:11:59,829 no socks with his loafers. 384 00:11:59,853 --> 00:12:01,179 - Yeah! 385 00:12:01,203 --> 00:12:02,526 - Can I get a Bloody Mary? 386 00:12:02,550 --> 00:12:03,433 - Bloody Mary, sure. - Perfect. 387 00:12:03,459 --> 00:12:04,495 I'll actually 388 00:12:04,519 --> 00:12:05,556 have a virgin Bloody 389 00:12:05,580 --> 00:12:06,702 Mary, that sounds great. 390 00:12:06,726 --> 00:12:08,171 - I know our dating - pictures look different 391 00:12:08,197 --> 00:12:09,439 Than we do in person, 392 00:12:09,463 --> 00:12:10,706 but first impression, 393 00:12:10,730 --> 00:12:12,726 I remember Bradley 394 00:12:12,750 --> 00:12:14,744 being taller, fitter. 395 00:12:14,768 --> 00:12:16,880 - I guess, I focused - on the loafers too much, 396 00:12:16,906 --> 00:12:18,948 But I'm looking for a partner, 397 00:12:18,972 --> 00:12:21,451 - so I'm just going to be quiet, - and see what he has to say. 398 00:12:21,477 --> 00:12:23,103 Let him work his 399 00:12:23,127 --> 00:12:24,754 magic. Is that bacon? 400 00:12:24,778 --> 00:12:26,766 It's bacon. 401 00:12:26,790 --> 00:12:27,891 - Oh, way to a woman's heart. - Bacon! 402 00:12:27,917 --> 00:12:29,426 Don't you love bacon? 403 00:12:29,450 --> 00:12:30,960 I grew up on bacon. 404 00:12:30,984 --> 00:12:32,963 - My grandmother - made bacon every weekend. 405 00:12:32,989 --> 00:12:34,865 - I love it. - There's nothing wrong with it. 406 00:12:34,891 --> 00:12:36,371 I don't read the reports. 407 00:12:36,395 --> 00:12:37,876 Fake news. 408 00:12:37,900 --> 00:12:38,869 It's healthy for you. 409 00:12:38,893 --> 00:12:40,393 Both sets of grandparents 410 00:12:40,417 --> 00:12:41,916 live to their 90s, so. 411 00:12:41,940 --> 00:12:43,507 - Cheers. - We're bonding over food. 412 00:12:43,533 --> 00:12:45,237 Great. 413 00:12:45,261 --> 00:12:46,966 We have found common ground. 414 00:12:46,990 --> 00:12:47,778 What do you feel like? 415 00:12:47,802 --> 00:12:49,946 - I do like - oysters. I see oysters. 416 00:12:49,972 --> 00:12:52,215 - They're naked. - I don't know what that means. 417 00:12:52,241 --> 00:12:53,949 Aren't they all naked? 418 00:12:53,973 --> 00:12:56,086 - I've never seen one dressed. - [laughing] 419 00:12:56,112 --> 00:12:57,654 - This is one - of my favorite restaurants. 420 00:12:57,680 --> 00:12:59,088 It's a block from my house. 421 00:12:59,112 --> 00:13:00,823 I live on Chelsea. 422 00:13:00,847 --> 00:13:02,826 - When I was in college, - I lived down there. 423 00:13:02,852 --> 00:13:04,895 - But it wasn't Chels--it wasn't - the sexy Chelsea it is now, 424 00:13:04,921 --> 00:13:06,830 - When I was in college. - Yeah. 425 00:13:06,856 --> 00:13:08,856 I rarely go downtown. 426 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:10,536 I rarely come uptown. 427 00:13:10,560 --> 00:13:12,556 You know, 428 00:13:12,580 --> 00:13:13,567 Helen Gurley Brown 429 00:13:13,591 --> 00:13:14,576 said you have to live 430 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:16,840 - within ten blocks to really - make it. So, that's a strike. 431 00:13:16,866 --> 00:13:18,242 So, I will have the oysters. 432 00:13:18,266 --> 00:13:19,642 Six, please. 433 00:13:19,666 --> 00:13:21,378 I'm going try 434 00:13:21,402 --> 00:13:23,112 the pastrami salmon carpaccio. 435 00:13:23,136 --> 00:13:24,280 Thank you. 436 00:13:24,304 --> 00:13:26,082 Smart. 437 00:13:26,106 --> 00:13:28,284 What kind of business do you do? 438 00:13:28,308 --> 00:13:30,120 - I lease retail - space for a living. 439 00:13:30,146 --> 00:13:32,823 - Oh, okay. - Markets have been decimated. 440 00:13:32,849 --> 00:13:35,225 - I was just going to say, that's - the other side of the coin. 441 00:13:35,251 --> 00:13:36,777 It really wasn't great 442 00:13:36,801 --> 00:13:38,327 before the pandemic started, 443 00:13:38,351 --> 00:13:40,263 - the market had - started to come down. 444 00:13:40,289 --> 00:13:42,065 My business is online, 445 00:13:42,089 --> 00:13:43,866 so that's very busy. 446 00:13:43,890 --> 00:13:45,234 What business? 447 00:13:45,258 --> 00:13:46,970 - Uh, fashion. Fashion, - shoes, perfume. 448 00:13:46,996 --> 00:13:49,538 So, I, I'm exhausted. 449 00:13:49,562 --> 00:13:51,107 I'm working all the time. 450 00:13:51,131 --> 00:13:53,509 My office closed on March 13th. 451 00:13:53,533 --> 00:13:54,812 - Okay. 452 00:13:54,836 --> 00:13:56,112 - Then, I had back surgery. 453 00:13:56,136 --> 00:13:58,348 - Oh, my gosh. So, - you've been through the wringer? 454 00:13:58,374 --> 00:14:00,116 It was my fourth. 455 00:14:00,140 --> 00:14:02,084 What happened? Skiing or tennis? 456 00:14:02,108 --> 00:14:03,487 Uh no, basically 457 00:14:03,511 --> 00:14:04,887 just have a bad spine. 458 00:14:04,911 --> 00:14:07,356 I had two laminectomies. 459 00:14:07,380 --> 00:14:10,227 - If you think - of a disk like a jelly doughnut? 460 00:14:10,253 --> 00:14:11,927 Okay. 461 00:14:11,951 --> 00:14:13,597 - When it herniates, - the jelly comes out. 462 00:14:13,623 --> 00:14:16,133 - Oh, yuck. It's not the sexiest - thing to hear on a date, 463 00:14:16,159 --> 00:14:18,335 - But maybe I can tell - him I have gas. I don't know. 464 00:14:18,361 --> 00:14:20,576 Thank you. 465 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:21,327 You're welcome. Bon apetit. 466 00:14:22,862 --> 00:14:24,908 - You know the south of France? - I do. 467 00:14:24,932 --> 00:14:26,142 You know where Mougins is? 468 00:14:26,166 --> 00:14:27,494 - Yeah. 469 00:14:27,518 --> 00:14:28,844 - I bought a house there. 470 00:14:28,868 --> 00:14:30,247 Perfect. I hear, 471 00:14:30,271 --> 00:14:31,647 "House, south of France." 472 00:14:31,671 --> 00:14:33,183 - Oh, that's great. 473 00:14:33,207 --> 00:14:34,716 - It was a beautiful house. 474 00:14:34,740 --> 00:14:36,253 - Mm-hm. - I just wasn't using it enough. 475 00:14:36,279 --> 00:14:37,721 So, I sold 476 00:14:37,745 --> 00:14:39,188 a month and a half ago. 477 00:14:39,212 --> 00:14:42,003 Huh. Sold. 478 00:14:42,027 --> 00:14:44,816 There's another strike. 479 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:45,762 Well, this was fun. 480 00:14:45,786 --> 00:14:47,387 Yeah, this was a good idea. 481 00:14:49,255 --> 00:14:51,134 - Is there anything - else that I can get for you? 482 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:52,368 No, I'm good, thanks. 483 00:14:52,392 --> 00:14:54,137 - Yeah. It's like - you read my mind. 484 00:14:54,163 --> 00:14:55,972 - We weren't - going to have dessert. 485 00:14:55,998 --> 00:14:57,941 - There's a lot of hit - or misses during this date, 486 00:14:57,967 --> 00:15:00,310 - But it's so naive to think - that it's love at first sight 487 00:15:00,336 --> 00:15:02,145 - When you're - looking for Mr. Right. 488 00:15:02,171 --> 00:15:04,080 Shall we walk this way? 489 00:15:04,104 --> 00:15:06,249 - Sure. Let's take a walk down - here and get some fresh air. 490 00:15:06,275 --> 00:15:08,386 At least, I'm on a first date. 491 00:15:08,410 --> 00:15:09,252 - I'm headed in - the right direction, 492 00:15:09,278 --> 00:15:10,500 And I'm willing 493 00:15:10,524 --> 00:15:11,746 to give it a chance. 494 00:15:11,770 --> 00:15:12,769 Bye. Thank you, 495 00:15:12,793 --> 00:15:13,789 that was really nice. 496 00:15:13,813 --> 00:15:15,425 - So much fun. - Really good. 497 00:15:15,451 --> 00:15:17,159 Going to see you again, I hope. 498 00:15:17,183 --> 00:15:18,627 We will. 499 00:15:18,651 --> 00:15:25,368 ♪♪♪ 500 00:15:25,392 --> 00:15:28,586 What do you think, Aston? 501 00:15:28,610 --> 00:15:35,911 ♪♪♪ 502 00:15:35,935 --> 00:15:37,813 This one? Or this one? 503 00:15:37,837 --> 00:15:39,415 I'm not sure. 504 00:15:39,439 --> 00:15:41,716 ♪♪♪ 505 00:15:41,740 --> 00:15:43,953 Who knows, let me call Lu. 506 00:15:43,977 --> 00:15:45,306 Alright, please 507 00:15:45,330 --> 00:15:46,656 tell me what a Shabbatis. 508 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:48,257 The Jewish holy day. 509 00:15:48,281 --> 00:15:49,460 This? Or is 510 00:15:49,484 --> 00:15:50,660 this too Christmas-y? 511 00:15:50,684 --> 00:15:52,395 Very low cut, but... 512 00:15:52,419 --> 00:15:53,898 Yeah, you're right. 513 00:15:53,922 --> 00:15:55,398 It's a religious holiday. 514 00:15:55,422 --> 00:15:57,700 ♪♪♪ 515 00:15:57,724 --> 00:15:59,896 Hello? 516 00:15:59,920 --> 00:16:00,237 Hey Lu, how are ya, honey? 517 00:16:00,261 --> 00:16:02,338 I'm good, I'm good. 518 00:16:02,362 --> 00:16:04,875 So, I'm pulling my outfits 519 00:16:04,899 --> 00:16:07,410 for Eboni's Black Sederdinner. 520 00:16:07,434 --> 00:16:11,113 [laughing] 521 00:16:11,137 --> 00:16:13,283 - Right? I mean, - I hope she's not gonna get 522 00:16:13,309 --> 00:16:15,285 - On a soapbox - and start preaching to us. 523 00:16:15,311 --> 00:16:17,430 She said it's going to be fun. 524 00:16:24,751 --> 00:16:26,730 - Yeah, so listen, - I'm going to support her, 525 00:16:26,756 --> 00:16:28,388 And you know what, why not? 526 00:16:30,390 --> 00:16:31,734 Yeah, I'll see you soon. 527 00:16:31,758 --> 00:16:34,103 [phone ringing] 528 00:16:34,127 --> 00:16:35,606 Oh, look, 529 00:16:35,630 --> 00:16:37,106 we getting FaceTime. Hey, baby. 530 00:16:37,130 --> 00:16:38,274 Hi! 531 00:16:38,298 --> 00:16:40,276 Hey, Carey says hi. 532 00:16:40,300 --> 00:16:42,178 Um, so I have some news. 533 00:16:42,202 --> 00:16:45,448 I was exposed to COVID. 534 00:16:45,472 --> 00:16:47,316 Wait, what? 535 00:16:47,340 --> 00:16:49,027 Yeah. Like, I have to 536 00:16:49,051 --> 00:16:50,736 quarantine for five days. 537 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:51,722 I'm so concerned with you, 538 00:16:51,746 --> 00:16:52,973 but selfishly, 539 00:16:52,997 --> 00:16:54,223 I'm so sad about Shabbat. 540 00:16:54,247 --> 00:16:55,492 I am so sad, 541 00:16:55,516 --> 00:16:56,759 dude, you have no idea. 542 00:16:56,783 --> 00:16:58,729 - Oh, I'm like about to cry, - actually. 543 00:16:58,755 --> 00:17:00,396 This honestly, ----ing blows. 544 00:17:00,420 --> 00:17:01,965 I'm really so sad. My girl, 545 00:17:01,989 --> 00:17:03,532 Leah, has worked so hard 546 00:17:03,556 --> 00:17:05,334 in her conversion efforts, 547 00:17:05,358 --> 00:17:07,903 and sh--, this damned pandemic. 548 00:17:07,927 --> 00:17:09,772 Can I Zoom? 549 00:17:09,796 --> 00:17:12,175 - Of course! Yeah, I'll - bring my laptop and everything. 550 00:17:12,201 --> 00:17:14,378 - Of course. - Do you still want to do 551 00:17:14,404 --> 00:17:16,178 The blessing for the candles? 552 00:17:16,202 --> 00:17:18,181 - Yeah, I totally will. - I think that's good. 553 00:17:18,207 --> 00:17:19,249 Leah, wait, 554 00:17:19,273 --> 00:17:20,316 you're gonna leave me 555 00:17:20,340 --> 00:17:22,202 with these bitches to do 556 00:17:22,226 --> 00:17:24,086 Black Shabbatall by myself? 557 00:17:24,110 --> 00:17:26,523 - I know. I mean, I'll - still be there on Zoom for you. 558 00:17:26,549 --> 00:17:29,425 Thank God. Leah, I love you. 559 00:17:29,449 --> 00:17:30,961 I'm so selfishly sad, 560 00:17:30,985 --> 00:17:32,495 but I want you to feel okay. 561 00:17:32,519 --> 00:17:33,831 I love you too. 562 00:17:33,855 --> 00:17:35,164 I'll see you later. 563 00:17:35,188 --> 00:17:36,332 Okay, bye. 564 00:17:36,356 --> 00:17:37,466 Bye. 565 00:17:37,490 --> 00:17:39,268 Oh, freaking A. 566 00:17:39,292 --> 00:17:41,103 Coming up... 567 00:17:41,127 --> 00:17:42,506 - My best friend, - Michael Lorber, he's Jewish, 568 00:17:42,532 --> 00:17:44,474 - So I know a little bit, - but not a lot. 569 00:17:44,500 --> 00:17:46,342 Okay. 570 00:17:46,366 --> 00:17:48,078 - And of course, every shiksa's - had a Jewish boyfriend 571 00:17:48,104 --> 00:17:49,313 - Every shi-- 572 00:17:49,337 --> 00:17:50,570 - Once or twice, right? 573 00:17:58,244 --> 00:17:59,755 Thank you, sir. 574 00:17:59,779 --> 00:18:02,358 Have a good night. 575 00:18:02,382 --> 00:18:05,461 Thank you so much. 576 00:18:05,485 --> 00:18:08,230 I'm excited! 577 00:18:08,254 --> 00:18:11,524 ♪♪♪ 578 00:18:16,262 --> 00:18:17,440 Okay. 579 00:18:17,464 --> 00:18:20,176 [laughing] 580 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:21,510 See, I'm so talented. 581 00:18:21,534 --> 00:18:23,512 Oh, Eboni, hi! 582 00:18:23,536 --> 00:18:25,348 Shabbat Shalom, gorgeous! 583 00:18:25,372 --> 00:18:26,450 Oh my, sequins, 584 00:18:26,474 --> 00:18:27,550 you looks stunning. 585 00:18:27,574 --> 00:18:29,785 I'm ready to Shabbat Shalom. 586 00:18:29,809 --> 00:18:31,253 Thanks. 587 00:18:31,277 --> 00:18:32,789 - I'm going to - open this champagne. 588 00:18:32,815 --> 00:18:34,357 [cork popping] 589 00:18:34,381 --> 00:18:36,225 Go on my tippy toes. 590 00:18:36,249 --> 00:18:38,461 Thank you. 591 00:18:38,485 --> 00:18:40,329 Oh! 592 00:18:40,353 --> 00:18:42,098 Wow, look at you! Gorgeous. 593 00:18:42,122 --> 00:18:43,834 - I'm gonna bring it! - You look stunning. 594 00:18:43,860 --> 00:18:45,135 Thank you, my love. 595 00:18:45,159 --> 00:18:46,435 Shabbat Shalom. 596 00:18:46,459 --> 00:18:47,437 - Beautiful. 597 00:18:47,461 --> 00:18:48,438 - Mwah! 598 00:18:48,462 --> 00:18:50,506 I just want you to know, 599 00:18:50,530 --> 00:18:51,558 I don't just do 600 00:18:51,582 --> 00:18:52,608 this for anybody. 601 00:18:52,632 --> 00:18:53,844 - Thank you. 602 00:18:53,868 --> 00:18:55,077 - I had to travel-- 603 00:18:55,101 --> 00:18:56,546 - I had to travel-- - You're coming to New Jersey. 604 00:18:56,572 --> 00:18:58,248 - Wait, and I had - to travel 30 minutes 605 00:18:58,274 --> 00:18:59,849 To get on this lovely bus. 606 00:18:59,873 --> 00:19:01,585 - If I wanted to - travel an hour and a half, 607 00:19:01,611 --> 00:19:03,253 - We'll just go to - the Hamptons for dinner. 608 00:19:03,279 --> 00:19:04,553 Well, hello, ladies. 609 00:19:04,577 --> 00:19:06,255 Hello! Woohoo, yes! 610 00:19:06,279 --> 00:19:08,557 You brought the Shabbat Shalom. 611 00:19:08,581 --> 00:19:10,259 Shabbat Shalom. 612 00:19:10,283 --> 00:19:13,129 Mazel! You look stunning. 613 00:19:13,153 --> 00:19:14,148 - Exquisite. 614 00:19:14,172 --> 00:19:15,164 - Thank you. 615 00:19:15,188 --> 00:19:16,599 Life is a cabaret. 616 00:19:16,623 --> 00:19:18,300 Oh my God. 617 00:19:18,324 --> 00:19:19,469 - This is great, right? 618 00:19:19,493 --> 00:19:20,636 - Where's Leah? 619 00:19:20,660 --> 00:19:22,792 So Leah, sadly, was exposed, 620 00:19:22,816 --> 00:19:24,946 potentially to COVID. 621 00:19:24,970 --> 00:19:25,575 - Oh, no. - Oh, no. 622 00:19:25,601 --> 00:19:27,577 - I think she's fine. She - doesn't want to expose us. 623 00:19:27,603 --> 00:19:29,412 No, better be safe than sorry. 624 00:19:29,436 --> 00:19:31,281 - I don't want to be exposed. - Yeah. 625 00:19:31,307 --> 00:19:32,916 - I feel really bad for Leah, - because honestly, 626 00:19:32,942 --> 00:19:34,618 - I wanted this to be - a part of our bonding 627 00:19:34,644 --> 00:19:36,370 That she is converting, 628 00:19:36,394 --> 00:19:38,120 and Eboni is into it. 629 00:19:38,144 --> 00:19:39,289 I don't really 630 00:19:39,313 --> 00:19:40,456 think Luann and Ramona 631 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:42,625 were dying to do this, so yeah, 632 00:19:42,649 --> 00:19:44,895 - I'm not happy that Leah's - not gonna be here in person. 633 00:19:44,921 --> 00:19:46,462 This is good. 634 00:19:46,486 --> 00:19:48,298 - Now who will I ask - what an Ashkenazi is? 635 00:19:48,324 --> 00:19:50,233 - We are doing - something new today, 636 00:19:50,259 --> 00:19:51,868 - It's gonna be fun. - Is this hummus? 637 00:19:51,894 --> 00:19:53,403 - Yeah. That's hummus. - Oh, good. 638 00:19:53,429 --> 00:19:55,105 - It's the same - hummus that you loved. 639 00:19:55,131 --> 00:19:56,506 - Thank you for - remembering I like hummus. 640 00:19:56,532 --> 00:19:58,408 - I always get us hummus, - cheese, veggies. 641 00:19:58,434 --> 00:20:00,444 - You guys are going to - meet three of my good friends. 642 00:20:00,470 --> 00:20:02,446 - They are Black, - Ramona, doing Black-- 643 00:20:02,472 --> 00:20:03,880 - What are you - nibbling on the cheese 644 00:20:03,906 --> 00:20:05,649 - And covering it up? - Like a mouse? 645 00:20:05,675 --> 00:20:07,684 - No no, this is Luann's package, - mine is up there. 646 00:20:07,710 --> 00:20:09,151 I ate that. 647 00:20:09,175 --> 00:20:10,553 Okay, so three Black friends 648 00:20:10,577 --> 00:20:12,888 and one white, Jewish friend. 649 00:20:12,912 --> 00:20:15,625 - Okay, and the laptop will - literally be at Leah's place. 650 00:20:15,651 --> 00:20:17,326 What laptop? 651 00:20:17,350 --> 00:20:19,262 - My laptop, - so Leah can join us via Zoom. 652 00:20:19,288 --> 00:20:20,347 - That's kinda weird. 653 00:20:20,371 --> 00:20:21,430 - She wanted to. 654 00:20:21,454 --> 00:20:23,500 - She wants to still do - her blessings over the candle. 655 00:20:23,526 --> 00:20:25,402 - Ramona just needs to - wrap her head around it. 656 00:20:25,426 --> 00:20:26,570 - 'Cause she's been practicing, - you know, 657 00:20:26,596 --> 00:20:28,371 For her own conversion. 658 00:20:28,395 --> 00:20:30,240 - It's one thing when - someone joins something 659 00:20:30,266 --> 00:20:31,540 And everyone's on Zoom, 660 00:20:31,564 --> 00:20:32,843 but when eight 661 00:20:32,867 --> 00:20:34,143 people are at a big table 662 00:20:34,167 --> 00:20:36,246 - and we're all talking and - looking at each other's faces, 663 00:20:36,272 --> 00:20:37,681 - And then one - other person is here-- 664 00:20:37,707 --> 00:20:39,382 Scoot over. 665 00:20:39,406 --> 00:20:40,651 - It's just a weird dynamic. - I'm sorry. 666 00:20:40,677 --> 00:20:43,352 Hey, baby, we miss you. 667 00:20:43,376 --> 00:20:44,421 - Hi, honey. - Aw. 668 00:20:44,447 --> 00:20:45,578 What are you doing? 669 00:20:46,546 --> 00:20:48,391 No mesh for Shabbat Shalom. 670 00:20:48,415 --> 00:20:49,460 - We miss you, honey. 671 00:20:49,484 --> 00:20:50,526 - No mesh. 672 00:20:50,550 --> 00:20:52,462 - You only have to - dress from the waist up, 673 00:20:52,488 --> 00:20:54,296 Because no one can see below. 674 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:56,433 - You can wear, like - your underwear and no socks. 675 00:20:57,490 --> 00:20:58,701 Okay, we'll see you soon. 676 00:20:58,725 --> 00:21:00,469 Bye, baby. 677 00:21:00,493 --> 00:21:02,339 - Bye bye. - We miss you. 678 00:21:02,365 --> 00:21:03,707 - So cute. - That was funny. 679 00:21:05,965 --> 00:21:07,443 Alright girls, we're here. 680 00:21:07,467 --> 00:21:08,462 - We're here, yay! 681 00:21:08,486 --> 00:21:09,478 - Let's go. 682 00:21:09,502 --> 00:21:10,680 Welcome to Summit. 683 00:21:10,704 --> 00:21:12,214 Awesome. 684 00:21:12,238 --> 00:21:13,549 Hello. 685 00:21:13,573 --> 00:21:15,318 Alright, girls, you ready? 686 00:21:15,342 --> 00:21:16,720 - I'm trying, - trying to get it together here. 687 00:21:16,746 --> 00:21:18,722 - Let's go, - should we take something 688 00:21:18,748 --> 00:21:20,624 - From the sprinter van? Do you - want champagne or anything? 689 00:21:20,650 --> 00:21:22,425 I, I brought champagne. 690 00:21:22,449 --> 00:21:24,293 I'll bring the pinot grigio. 691 00:21:24,317 --> 00:21:26,563 - I'll bring the cheaper bottle. - That doesn't matter. 692 00:21:26,589 --> 00:21:28,398 - Nobody cares. - I could bring the crudites, 693 00:21:28,424 --> 00:21:30,433 But Eboni bought that for us. 694 00:21:30,457 --> 00:21:31,791 Oh my God, look at the snow! 695 00:21:33,360 --> 00:21:36,439 No, no, no, no, Lu! 696 00:21:36,463 --> 00:21:37,606 I knew it! 697 00:21:37,630 --> 00:21:40,600 [laughing] I got you. Wait! 698 00:21:42,435 --> 00:21:45,185 No! Lu! 699 00:21:45,209 --> 00:21:47,584 - She's like a 12-year-old. - Snowball fight. 700 00:21:47,610 --> 00:21:49,753 - I've only been in New Jersey - for like, five minutes, 701 00:21:49,779 --> 00:21:51,205 And Luann's already trying 702 00:21:51,229 --> 00:21:52,655 to whack me with a snowball. 703 00:21:52,679 --> 00:21:55,091 Wait, let me get Ramona. 704 00:21:55,115 --> 00:21:56,277 Get Ramona, yeah. 705 00:21:56,301 --> 00:21:57,460 She can't handle it. 706 00:21:57,484 --> 00:21:58,462 - Woo. 707 00:21:58,486 --> 00:21:59,463 - Thank you. 708 00:21:59,487 --> 00:22:01,548 - [screaming] 709 00:22:01,572 --> 00:22:03,632 - What happened, what did I do? 710 00:22:03,656 --> 00:22:05,434 Come on, no! 711 00:22:05,458 --> 00:22:07,236 [laughing] 712 00:22:07,260 --> 00:22:09,405 [bleep] 713 00:22:09,429 --> 00:22:11,616 Quick, quick. 714 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:12,743 - Where's the entrance? - Come on, right on. 715 00:22:12,769 --> 00:22:13,994 - [screaming] 716 00:22:14,018 --> 00:22:15,244 - There's snow! 717 00:22:15,268 --> 00:22:16,512 Ramona! 718 00:22:16,536 --> 00:22:18,381 Come on, are you crazy? 719 00:22:18,405 --> 00:22:19,816 - It's wet. - [laughing] 720 00:22:19,842 --> 00:22:21,652 - Are you guys - gonna act right tonight? 721 00:22:21,678 --> 00:22:23,003 Oh Lord, 722 00:22:23,027 --> 00:22:24,353 I'm off the chain already. 723 00:22:24,377 --> 00:22:26,423 - You are off the chain, - Sonja Morgan. 724 00:22:26,449 --> 00:22:31,816 Archie. Archie! 725 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:32,496 Hello! 726 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,363 Shabbat Shalom, Archie! 727 00:22:34,387 --> 00:22:38,501 Hi, my love. 728 00:22:38,525 --> 00:22:40,503 This is Luann. Luann, Archie. 729 00:22:40,527 --> 00:22:41,716 Hi, how are you? 730 00:22:41,740 --> 00:22:42,926 Can I give you-- 731 00:22:42,950 --> 00:22:43,707 Hi, Archie, nice to meet you. 732 00:22:43,731 --> 00:22:45,075 I'm a hugger. I am so 733 00:22:45,099 --> 00:22:46,442 happy you're here. Hello. 734 00:22:46,466 --> 00:22:47,528 - Ramona. 735 00:22:47,552 --> 00:22:48,611 - Hi, Ramona. 736 00:22:48,635 --> 00:22:50,279 I'm so happy you guys are here. 737 00:22:50,303 --> 00:22:51,447 Archie, thank you for having us. 738 00:22:51,471 --> 00:22:52,648 Oh my God, thank you. 739 00:22:52,672 --> 00:22:54,450 Archie, my dear friend, Sonja. 740 00:22:54,474 --> 00:22:56,085 Sonja, hi, sweetie. 741 00:22:56,109 --> 00:22:57,386 We're both wearing silver. 742 00:22:57,410 --> 00:22:58,654 I wasn't sure what to wear. 743 00:22:58,678 --> 00:23:00,556 I am so happy you guys are here. 744 00:23:00,580 --> 00:23:02,391 Thank you for inviting us. 745 00:23:02,415 --> 00:23:03,827 - And thank you, - thank you so much. 746 00:23:03,853 --> 00:23:05,662 - There's another bottle. - I'll follow you. 747 00:23:05,688 --> 00:23:07,260 - Okay, okay. We'll put this in. 748 00:23:07,284 --> 00:23:08,856 - I'll go to the kitchen. 749 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:09,533 Alright. Coats. 750 00:23:09,557 --> 00:23:10,833 Oh my God, what fun. 751 00:23:10,857 --> 00:23:12,569 - Take your coats. 752 00:23:12,593 --> 00:23:14,303 - Oh, thank you. 753 00:23:14,327 --> 00:23:16,639 Should I take my scarf off. 754 00:23:16,663 --> 00:23:19,966 Perfect. That's far enough. 755 00:23:19,990 --> 00:23:20,811 - We took everything off the RV, - basically. 756 00:23:20,837 --> 00:23:23,479 Did you, really? 757 00:23:23,503 --> 00:23:25,816 - Well, we had some - really good stuff on the RV. 758 00:23:25,842 --> 00:23:27,550 Let me do introductions. 759 00:23:27,574 --> 00:23:28,818 I'm so rude. 760 00:23:28,842 --> 00:23:30,886 Ramona, Luann. 761 00:23:30,910 --> 00:23:32,588 Dionne. 762 00:23:32,612 --> 00:23:34,557 Hi, Dionne, so nice to meet you. 763 00:23:34,581 --> 00:23:35,725 Brother Brian. 764 00:23:35,749 --> 00:23:37,494 - Hi, I am - Brian. Nice to meet you. 765 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:38,561 Very nice to meet you. 766 00:23:38,585 --> 00:23:40,563 And my dear sister, Linara. 767 00:23:40,587 --> 00:23:41,665 Brian and I travel 768 00:23:41,689 --> 00:23:42,765 to Israel together 769 00:23:42,789 --> 00:23:44,068 along with Linara, 770 00:23:44,092 --> 00:23:45,368 and then there's Dionne, 771 00:23:45,392 --> 00:23:47,904 - who's brilliant and all - three of these amazing friends 772 00:23:47,930 --> 00:23:49,905 Of mine share in the commitment 773 00:23:49,929 --> 00:23:51,842 - to advancing - of Black excellence. 774 00:23:51,868 --> 00:23:53,342 This looks beautiful. 775 00:23:53,366 --> 00:23:54,810 It's gonna be so much fun. 776 00:23:54,834 --> 00:23:56,446 - Oh, you're gonna - explain everything, the bread? 777 00:23:56,472 --> 00:23:57,847 I'm gonna explain everything. 778 00:23:57,871 --> 00:23:59,683 - My best friend, - Michael Lorber, he's Jewish, 779 00:23:59,709 --> 00:24:01,585 - So I know a little bit, - but not a lot. 780 00:24:01,611 --> 00:24:03,586 Okay. 781 00:24:03,610 --> 00:24:04,888 - And of course, every shiksa's - had a Jewish boyfriend 782 00:24:04,914 --> 00:24:06,188 Once or twice. 783 00:24:06,212 --> 00:24:07,891 - Every shi-- - Right? 784 00:24:07,917 --> 00:24:09,793 - Is that a margarita? - Thank you so much. Thank you. 785 00:24:09,819 --> 00:24:11,193 Where do we put Miss Leah? 786 00:24:11,217 --> 00:24:13,729 Miss Leah is right here. 787 00:24:13,753 --> 00:24:15,565 - Perfect. - Oh my God. 788 00:24:15,591 --> 00:24:17,768 - She is missing this. - She is gonna be so sad. 789 00:24:17,794 --> 00:24:19,468 This is spectacular. Archie, 790 00:24:19,492 --> 00:24:21,171 - I love you so - much for doing this. 791 00:24:21,197 --> 00:24:23,607 - Archie runs an - organization called Jew Belong, 792 00:24:23,633 --> 00:24:25,042 And Jew Belong is all about, 793 00:24:25,066 --> 00:24:26,475 you get it, Jew Belong. 794 00:24:26,499 --> 00:24:27,943 Everybody belongs. 795 00:24:27,967 --> 00:24:29,313 She actually 796 00:24:29,337 --> 00:24:30,680 hosted a Shabbatdinner 797 00:24:30,704 --> 00:24:32,883 - for Black - members of the leadership 798 00:24:32,909 --> 00:24:34,684 Community of New York, 799 00:24:34,708 --> 00:24:36,586 - and she wanted - to hear our stories. 800 00:24:36,612 --> 00:24:38,487 Ramona, come over here. 801 00:24:38,511 --> 00:24:40,123 I see the bread to 802 00:24:40,147 --> 00:24:41,757 bless with the candles. 803 00:24:41,781 --> 00:24:43,659 The challah, yeah. 804 00:24:43,683 --> 00:24:45,929 - Oh, honey! Yes, I have - a lot of Jewish girlfriends. 805 00:24:45,955 --> 00:24:47,597 - The challah, - the challah, the challah. 806 00:24:47,623 --> 00:24:49,499 - I'll be right back. - It's gorgeous. 807 00:24:49,525 --> 00:24:50,934 - Very eclectic, - and very modern-looking 808 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:52,803 - And very unusual, - and I kinda like it. 809 00:24:52,829 --> 00:24:54,470 It's different. 810 00:24:54,494 --> 00:24:56,839 I know, I know. 811 00:24:56,863 --> 00:24:58,642 - Ramona, look at - the size of her napkins. 812 00:24:58,668 --> 00:25:00,644 - I know, these are - the best freaking napkins. 813 00:25:00,670 --> 00:25:02,611 You know they're not. 814 00:25:02,635 --> 00:25:03,913 This is a placemat. 815 00:25:03,937 --> 00:25:05,614 Nah-uh, I made those napkins. 816 00:25:05,638 --> 00:25:07,584 - I could make this - like a halter or something. 817 00:25:11,544 --> 00:25:13,436 Aren't they the best? 818 00:25:13,460 --> 00:25:15,457 - This is the tip - of the iceberg with Ramona, 819 00:25:15,483 --> 00:25:16,826 And I know that. Picking 820 00:25:16,850 --> 00:25:18,194 on the napkins as too big, 821 00:25:18,218 --> 00:25:19,346 it's only gonna 822 00:25:19,370 --> 00:25:20,496 get worse from here. 823 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,466 - You don't really think - they're the best, do ya? 824 00:25:22,492 --> 00:25:24,735 - No, they're very interesting, - but you don't match any napkins. 825 00:25:24,761 --> 00:25:26,235 I don't want to match them. 826 00:25:26,259 --> 00:25:27,603 That's the same with the plates. 827 00:25:27,627 --> 00:25:28,938 I get that. You are a rebel. 828 00:25:28,962 --> 00:25:30,773 Look, nothing matches! 829 00:25:30,797 --> 00:25:32,608 I don't want it to match. 830 00:25:32,632 --> 00:25:34,745 - I understand. - You like to do your own path. 831 00:25:34,771 --> 00:25:36,712 You beat your own drummers. 832 00:25:36,736 --> 00:25:38,614 Yeah. 833 00:25:38,638 --> 00:25:40,250 - Okay, we shouldn't drink. - I'm getting a little buzzed. 834 00:25:40,276 --> 00:25:41,489 - Yeah, I am too. 835 00:25:41,513 --> 00:25:42,726 - I'm talking too much. 836 00:25:42,750 --> 00:25:43,620 Coming up... 837 00:25:43,644 --> 00:25:45,688 I've been really worried about 838 00:25:45,712 --> 00:25:47,557 - the relationship - between the black 839 00:25:47,583 --> 00:25:49,796 And Jewish community. 840 00:25:49,820 --> 00:25:50,961 - But, Italians and Jews - have a lot in common too. 841 00:25:50,987 --> 00:25:52,662 Sorry? 842 00:25:52,686 --> 00:25:55,880 ♪♪♪ 843 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:01,738 - Well, hello. 844 00:26:01,762 --> 00:26:02,739 - Hi! 845 00:26:02,763 --> 00:26:04,675 When you said 846 00:26:04,699 --> 00:26:06,609 Archie was wearing sequins, 847 00:26:06,633 --> 00:26:07,969 I thought Archie was a guy, 848 00:26:07,993 --> 00:26:09,326 and I thought, 849 00:26:09,350 --> 00:26:10,488 "Oh, so I'm gonna 850 00:26:10,512 --> 00:26:11,647 have a gay friend here 851 00:26:11,671 --> 00:26:13,282 with sequins on." 852 00:26:13,306 --> 00:26:14,802 No, baby, just you 853 00:26:14,826 --> 00:26:16,319 and Archie and all the women. 854 00:26:16,343 --> 00:26:17,854 - Okay. - I'm sorry. 855 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:19,689 Miss Sonja just met my dear 856 00:26:19,713 --> 00:26:21,447 - friend, Devyn, - who's a matchmaker. 857 00:26:21,473 --> 00:26:23,807 - She just matched - Sonja with a wonderful man 858 00:26:23,831 --> 00:26:24,728 - Who we're gonna hear - about tonight at dinner. 859 00:26:24,754 --> 00:26:26,595 They went on a date, ya'll. 860 00:26:26,619 --> 00:26:28,665 - Maybe we should talk - about it now, and not at dinner. 861 00:26:28,691 --> 00:26:30,537 - Can we? Okay. - Right! 862 00:26:30,563 --> 00:26:31,901 How was it? 863 00:26:31,925 --> 00:26:33,937 - No, because I have - a couple of girlfriends with me 864 00:26:33,963 --> 00:26:35,571 Who like to recycle. 865 00:26:35,595 --> 00:26:37,606 They do like some recycle D. 866 00:26:37,630 --> 00:26:38,808 Okay. No, they do. They do. 867 00:26:38,832 --> 00:26:40,876 Even remove Luann and Ramona 868 00:26:40,900 --> 00:26:42,272 from the conversation. 869 00:26:42,296 --> 00:26:43,666 When I married my ex-husband, 870 00:26:43,690 --> 00:26:44,681 - we put the wedding - invitation out. 871 00:26:44,707 --> 00:26:46,696 No one even knew we were dating. 872 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:47,951 - Ah. - I like it. 873 00:26:47,977 --> 00:26:49,786 - People didn't even know - he was still alive, actually. 874 00:26:49,812 --> 00:26:51,721 [laughing] 875 00:26:51,745 --> 00:26:53,890 - Because my husband is - already 90 now, my ex-husband. 876 00:26:53,916 --> 00:26:56,325 Keep that man under wraps. 877 00:26:56,349 --> 00:26:58,095 - There's always - going to be someone trying 878 00:26:58,121 --> 00:26:59,863 - To trip you up. - Unless you're Luann, 879 00:26:59,889 --> 00:27:01,765 - You just roll - down that aisle anyhow. 880 00:27:01,791 --> 00:27:03,156 First of all, Eboni 881 00:27:03,180 --> 00:27:04,546 spent a lot of time with me, 882 00:27:04,570 --> 00:27:05,901 getting to know who I am. 883 00:27:05,925 --> 00:27:07,915 We're both introverts, 884 00:27:07,939 --> 00:27:09,926 Sonja and I are both introverts. 885 00:27:09,950 --> 00:27:11,808 - Who is an introvert? - No, I am. 886 00:27:11,834 --> 00:27:13,293 - Yeah, we are. 887 00:27:13,317 --> 00:27:14,777 - You know I'm an introvert. 888 00:27:14,801 --> 00:27:16,063 - I get it, I get it. 889 00:27:16,087 --> 00:27:17,346 - Girl, really? 890 00:27:17,370 --> 00:27:19,783 - I'm not, we're not shy, - but we recharge in solitude. 891 00:27:19,809 --> 00:27:20,801 - Got it. 892 00:27:20,825 --> 00:27:21,817 - Exactly. 893 00:27:21,841 --> 00:27:23,920 - Honestly, I want to tell you, - we're extroverted introverts. 894 00:27:23,946 --> 00:27:25,806 Because when we're out, 895 00:27:25,830 --> 00:27:27,690 we do show our love 896 00:27:27,714 --> 00:27:29,693 - by being - extroverts and outgoing. 897 00:27:29,719 --> 00:27:31,195 So anyhow, 898 00:27:31,219 --> 00:27:32,695 let's change the subject. 899 00:27:32,719 --> 00:27:34,797 Why are we changing the subject? 900 00:27:34,821 --> 00:27:36,173 'Cause we're introverts, 901 00:27:36,197 --> 00:27:37,546 and you're extroverted. 902 00:27:37,570 --> 00:27:38,902 - You're an introvert? - If you're an introvert, 903 00:27:38,928 --> 00:27:40,337 I'm a frickin' donkey, 904 00:27:40,361 --> 00:27:41,771 if you're an introvert. 905 00:27:41,795 --> 00:27:43,706 [laughing] 906 00:27:43,730 --> 00:27:45,626 That's what they just said. 907 00:27:45,650 --> 00:27:46,703 Don't know any 908 00:27:46,727 --> 00:27:47,777 introverts that... 909 00:27:47,801 --> 00:27:49,912 [cheering] 910 00:27:49,936 --> 00:27:52,748 Entertaining! 911 00:27:52,772 --> 00:27:54,718 Oh! I just realized 912 00:27:54,742 --> 00:27:56,686 I forgot to put the petticoat! 913 00:27:56,710 --> 00:27:58,178 I don't. 914 00:28:00,747 --> 00:28:02,659 - Okay. - Okay. 915 00:28:02,685 --> 00:28:04,244 - Shabbat Shalom! 916 00:28:04,268 --> 00:28:05,828 - Shabbat Shalom! 917 00:28:05,852 --> 00:28:07,697 Ramona, you're sitting here. 918 00:28:07,721 --> 00:28:08,699 - Okay, Sonja. 919 00:28:08,723 --> 00:28:09,700 - Everybody, sit. 920 00:28:09,724 --> 00:28:11,546 That bread looks amazing, 921 00:28:11,570 --> 00:28:12,369 I don't know what that is. 922 00:28:12,393 --> 00:28:13,803 It's called challah. 923 00:28:13,827 --> 00:28:15,672 - Challah. - Which is like-- 924 00:28:15,698 --> 00:28:17,276 Is it sweet? 925 00:28:17,300 --> 00:28:19,297 - Yeah. Makes - the best French toast, 926 00:28:19,323 --> 00:28:20,738 And it's what we call, 927 00:28:20,762 --> 00:28:22,178 like, a paskain Ukraine. 928 00:28:22,202 --> 00:28:23,847 - Because a lot of Ukrainians - were Jewish, right? 929 00:28:23,873 --> 00:28:25,715 I'm Ukrainian, so it's paska. 930 00:28:25,739 --> 00:28:27,617 - Yeah, it's like a sweet, - it sorta tastes like 931 00:28:27,643 --> 00:28:29,786 - Portuguese bread, - a little bit. It's delicious. 932 00:28:29,812 --> 00:28:31,454 Brian, sit down. 933 00:28:31,478 --> 00:28:34,446 Okay, okay. 934 00:28:34,470 --> 00:28:36,860 - Alright, - everything is an experience. 935 00:28:36,886 --> 00:28:38,829 - Hi, Lu. - Hi, babe. 936 00:28:38,855 --> 00:28:40,954 I'm so excited. 937 00:28:42,550 --> 00:28:43,699 Oh, this is a scallion pancake. 938 00:28:43,723 --> 00:28:45,556 I ate that. 939 00:28:45,580 --> 00:28:46,803 - You ate mine? - No, that's yours. 940 00:28:46,827 --> 00:28:48,170 Wait, do we want to invite Leah? 941 00:28:48,194 --> 00:28:49,456 Yeah, let me, 942 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:50,740 let me bring on Leah. 943 00:28:50,764 --> 00:28:52,408 I'm not, do I have to have wine? 944 00:28:52,432 --> 00:28:54,177 - I'd just like to - have the tequila soda, 945 00:28:54,203 --> 00:28:56,913 - Tequila shot and lots of soda. - We got Leah! 946 00:28:56,939 --> 00:28:58,705 Hey, girls. 947 00:28:59,673 --> 00:29:01,417 Leah, say hey to everybody. 948 00:29:01,441 --> 00:29:02,918 - Hey, girls. 949 00:29:02,942 --> 00:29:04,416 - We miss you. 950 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,097 - Here's what - we're gonna do, ladies. 951 00:29:06,123 --> 00:29:08,458 - Archie's gonna start - off with a proper Shabbat. 952 00:29:08,484 --> 00:29:10,478 I first want to thank 953 00:29:10,502 --> 00:29:12,496 my new friends, Lu, Son, 954 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:13,698 Queen Ramona, 955 00:29:13,722 --> 00:29:14,897 who's stuffing her face. 956 00:29:14,921 --> 00:29:16,199 - [all laughing] - Oh, that's so cute. 957 00:29:16,225 --> 00:29:18,167 It's usually me. 958 00:29:18,191 --> 00:29:20,577 - And Leah, who obviously - wants to be here in person, 959 00:29:20,601 --> 00:29:21,737 But she's here in spirit, 960 00:29:21,761 --> 00:29:23,607 - and she's still - gonna lead a blessing 961 00:29:23,631 --> 00:29:24,207 For the lighting of the candle. 962 00:29:24,231 --> 00:29:26,296 Yes, she is. 963 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:27,911 - I am so excited to - have all of you here. 964 00:29:27,937 --> 00:29:29,779 We're just gonna create tonight, 965 00:29:29,803 --> 00:29:31,815 what's gonna be a beautiful, 966 00:29:31,839 --> 00:29:33,849 sacred space. 967 00:29:33,873 --> 00:29:36,219 - So, I started an organization, - it's called Jew Belong, 968 00:29:36,245 --> 00:29:38,288 - And the reason I started - Jew Belong is because-- 969 00:29:38,314 --> 00:29:40,222 [phone ringing] 970 00:29:40,246 --> 00:29:43,466 It's okay, Archie's talking. 971 00:29:43,490 --> 00:29:44,860 I'm gonna set you up. 972 00:29:44,884 --> 00:29:46,496 I want to rebrand Judaism 973 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,130 to make it more welcoming 974 00:29:48,154 --> 00:29:50,801 - and relatable, because I-- - I feel very welcome. 975 00:29:50,827 --> 00:29:52,902 Great, because we are having 976 00:29:52,926 --> 00:29:54,136 a Jew Belong Shabbattonight. 977 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,596 [all cheering] 978 00:29:56,620 --> 00:29:57,140 I love it! 979 00:29:57,164 --> 00:30:00,743 Can I ask a simple question? 980 00:30:00,767 --> 00:30:01,795 Do you need to 981 00:30:01,819 --> 00:30:02,845 be Jewish to belong? 982 00:30:02,869 --> 00:30:03,897 - No! 983 00:30:03,921 --> 00:30:04,947 - Okay. Just asking. 984 00:30:04,971 --> 00:30:06,817 - No, that's an - important question. 985 00:30:06,843 --> 00:30:08,285 - That is the most non-stupid - question in the world. 986 00:30:08,311 --> 00:30:10,406 Oh, okay. 987 00:30:10,430 --> 00:30:11,254 - First of all, - tonight, you're Jewish, 988 00:30:11,278 --> 00:30:12,555 Because you're here in my home. 989 00:30:12,579 --> 00:30:14,090 Hey, Archie, how about this, 990 00:30:14,114 --> 00:30:15,892 - raise your hand - if you're not Jewish? 991 00:30:15,918 --> 00:30:17,861 - Oh wow. - Okay. 992 00:30:17,887 --> 00:30:20,097 - That's everybody. - I'm Jewish by association. 993 00:30:20,123 --> 00:30:21,230 Leah's a half-Jew. 994 00:30:21,254 --> 00:30:22,965 Okay, so-- 995 00:30:22,989 --> 00:30:24,801 - What'd you say, baby? - Yeah, I'm with you. 996 00:30:27,293 --> 00:30:28,572 Oh, the candles 997 00:30:28,596 --> 00:30:29,872 are blocking her. 998 00:30:29,896 --> 00:30:31,273 I'm gonna put you here. 999 00:30:31,297 --> 00:30:32,942 Just put this here. 1000 00:30:32,966 --> 00:30:34,110 Be nice to Leah! 1001 00:30:34,134 --> 00:30:35,277 I am. Here. 1002 00:30:35,301 --> 00:30:36,912 The only way-- 1003 00:30:36,936 --> 00:30:38,687 - Leah, can you - see what's going on? 1004 00:30:41,941 --> 00:30:43,603 - You look like a shrunken head! 1005 00:30:43,627 --> 00:30:45,287 - Just, just let--just. 1006 00:30:45,311 --> 00:30:46,590 We're doing 1007 00:30:46,614 --> 00:30:47,890 the best we can, baby. 1008 00:30:47,914 --> 00:30:50,327 - Oh my God, I'm just - like this little character 1009 00:30:50,353 --> 00:30:52,294 Sitting on the table. 1010 00:30:52,318 --> 00:30:54,297 I didn't know I'd be 1011 00:30:54,321 --> 00:30:56,298 lined up with the gefilte fish. 1012 00:30:56,322 --> 00:30:59,935 We love you. 1013 00:30:59,959 --> 00:31:02,339 - It's kinda difficult to include - you in the conversation. 1014 00:31:02,365 --> 00:31:03,624 We're all sitting here, 1015 00:31:03,648 --> 00:31:04,907 we love you, we adore you. 1016 00:31:04,931 --> 00:31:06,877 - I think it's great that - we're putting you on Facetime, 1017 00:31:06,903 --> 00:31:08,912 - But we can't like, make - sure every second you're okay, 1018 00:31:08,938 --> 00:31:10,880 Because we're in the moment. 1019 00:31:10,904 --> 00:31:12,282 - I think it's great that - you're respecting our health. 1020 00:31:12,308 --> 00:31:13,700 - Because we can't. 1021 00:31:13,724 --> 00:31:15,117 - Because she's a bitch. 1022 00:31:15,141 --> 00:31:17,746 I'm not a bitch. 1023 00:31:17,770 --> 00:31:20,123 - I don't understand why - Ramona's being so rude to Leah. 1024 00:31:20,149 --> 00:31:21,858 - I mean, she's converting, - what are we? 1025 00:31:21,884 --> 00:31:23,159 We're just learning. 1026 00:31:23,183 --> 00:31:24,494 Archie, when are 1027 00:31:24,518 --> 00:31:25,826 we taking our shot? 1028 00:31:25,850 --> 00:31:27,163 Now, we are taking our shot. 1029 00:31:27,187 --> 00:31:29,899 We do a Shabbat-- 1030 00:31:29,923 --> 00:31:31,368 - Luann drank hers already. - Shh. 1031 00:31:31,394 --> 00:31:33,135 We do a Shabbatshot, 1032 00:31:33,159 --> 00:31:35,138 - and there is no - blessing for this one 1033 00:31:35,164 --> 00:31:37,274 - Except thank you all so - much for being here, and-- 1034 00:31:43,136 --> 00:31:44,371 Okay, Leah? 1035 00:31:47,107 --> 00:31:48,818 Coming up... 1036 00:31:48,842 --> 00:31:51,088 - Make sure you - don't blow the candle out. 1037 00:31:51,114 --> 00:31:53,090 - I know, baby, - I've done Shabbatbefore. 1038 00:31:53,116 --> 00:31:55,092 - She's more of a pro than you, - at this point. 1039 00:31:55,118 --> 00:31:56,660 - Stop, Ramona, - you're being so messy. 1040 00:31:56,686 --> 00:32:04,200 ♪♪♪ 1041 00:32:04,224 --> 00:32:05,935 ude. 1042 00:32:05,959 --> 00:32:09,596 You can't, you just can't do it. 1043 00:32:09,620 --> 00:32:10,340 Okay, Leah. 1044 00:32:10,364 --> 00:32:12,142 - Just forget it. - Just lower her voice. 1045 00:32:12,168 --> 00:32:14,177 - No, you shut up. - Don't lower her voice. 1046 00:32:14,203 --> 00:32:15,422 You guys are so 1047 00:32:15,446 --> 00:32:16,666 messy for this sh--. 1048 00:32:16,690 --> 00:32:17,314 - I think you - should put her voice up. 1049 00:32:17,340 --> 00:32:19,115 Okay, great. 1050 00:32:19,139 --> 00:32:20,922 Oh, Eboni, we gotta 1051 00:32:20,946 --> 00:32:22,726 explain what Shabbatis. 1052 00:32:22,750 --> 00:32:23,220 Yeah, yeah. 1053 00:32:23,244 --> 00:32:25,756 Maybe, you should. 1054 00:32:25,780 --> 00:32:26,223 Okay, this is what Shabbatis. 1055 00:32:26,247 --> 00:32:27,923 Here I go. 1056 00:32:27,947 --> 00:32:30,126 "According to tradition, 1057 00:32:30,150 --> 00:32:31,982 Shabbatis not simply 1058 00:32:32,006 --> 00:32:33,836 a good idea, but a Mitzvah. 1059 00:32:33,860 --> 00:32:35,352 Six days you shall 1060 00:32:35,376 --> 00:32:36,866 toil and do all your work, 1061 00:32:36,890 --> 00:32:38,085 but the seventh 1062 00:32:38,109 --> 00:32:39,301 day is the day of rest. 1063 00:32:39,325 --> 00:32:41,238 - You should stop - "thinking about work." 1064 00:32:41,264 --> 00:32:42,972 Mm-hm. 1065 00:32:42,996 --> 00:32:44,675 - Yep, I don't even - know how to do that. 1066 00:32:44,701 --> 00:32:46,966 You can't. 1067 00:32:46,990 --> 00:32:48,077 I can't, right? 1068 00:32:48,101 --> 00:32:50,380 - No, so this is - the beauty of Shabbat, right? 1069 00:32:50,406 --> 00:32:51,882 "Friday evening is 1070 00:32:51,906 --> 00:32:53,382 designed to help us perform 1071 00:32:53,406 --> 00:32:55,152 this magic trick, to begin 1072 00:32:55,176 --> 00:32:56,919 to act as if--" 1073 00:32:56,943 --> 00:32:58,655 - Our work is done. - Our work is done! 1074 00:32:58,681 --> 00:33:00,436 That's amazing. 1075 00:33:00,460 --> 00:33:01,358 That's what you need to take in. 1076 00:33:01,382 --> 00:33:03,293 - I need to take it in, - Ramona's right. 1077 00:33:03,319 --> 00:33:06,129 - You really need to take it in. - You have to take a break. 1078 00:33:06,155 --> 00:33:08,131 - It's actually Leah's - turn to light candles. 1079 00:33:08,157 --> 00:33:10,009 Okay so Leah, 1080 00:33:10,033 --> 00:33:11,886 I'm gonna light the candles, 1081 00:33:11,910 --> 00:33:13,235 as you do the blessing. Got it. 1082 00:33:13,259 --> 00:33:16,939 Yeah, we can hear you. 1083 00:33:16,963 --> 00:33:18,465 Yes. 1084 00:33:20,233 --> 00:33:22,112 - I know, baby, - I've done Shabbatbefore. 1085 00:33:22,138 --> 00:33:24,114 - She's done this before, - she's been to Israel and back. 1086 00:33:24,140 --> 00:33:26,116 - She's more of a pro than you, - at this point. 1087 00:33:26,142 --> 00:33:27,184 Stop, Ramona, 1088 00:33:27,208 --> 00:33:28,250 you're being so messy. 1089 00:33:28,274 --> 00:33:30,187 - I'm saying, - you've been to Israel. 1090 00:33:30,213 --> 00:33:32,723 - Go ahead, go ahead, Leah. - We are now doing the blessings. 1091 00:33:32,749 --> 00:33:34,391 - Honey, I was converted, - I know a lot. 1092 00:33:34,417 --> 00:33:36,259 - Well, that's - 'cause you were going to 1093 00:33:36,285 --> 00:33:38,428 - Marry the rich Jewish guy. - Didn't say he was rich. 1094 00:33:38,454 --> 00:33:40,430 - Okay, here we go. - Well, he was not poor. 1095 00:33:40,456 --> 00:33:42,198 I was engaged to a man, 1096 00:33:42,222 --> 00:33:44,267 - and he wanted me - to convert to Judaism. 1097 00:33:44,293 --> 00:33:46,103 - So, I went to all - the lessons and everything, 1098 00:33:46,129 --> 00:33:48,271 - And then I realized, - this gentlemen never said to me, 1099 00:33:48,297 --> 00:33:49,773 "I really appreciate 1100 00:33:49,797 --> 00:33:51,273 you switching your religion," 1101 00:33:51,297 --> 00:33:53,143 - and it made me - end my engagement. 1102 00:33:53,169 --> 00:33:54,276 I dodged a bullet. 1103 00:33:54,300 --> 00:33:56,078 She's shushing everybody. 1104 00:33:56,102 --> 00:33:59,105 ♪♪♪ 1105 00:34:03,476 --> 00:34:06,766 [all giggling] 1106 00:34:06,790 --> 00:34:12,194 [Leah praying in Hebrew] 1107 00:34:12,218 --> 00:34:19,135 [Leah praying in Hebrew] 1108 00:34:19,159 --> 00:34:24,173 [Leah praying in Hebrew] 1109 00:34:24,197 --> 00:34:25,325 - Amen. 1110 00:34:25,349 --> 00:34:26,475 - I'm so touched. 1111 00:34:26,499 --> 00:34:27,911 - That was beautiful. 1112 00:34:27,935 --> 00:34:29,345 - That was beautiful. 1113 00:34:29,369 --> 00:34:30,414 Can I see Leah? 1114 00:34:30,438 --> 00:34:31,480 Give me the phone. 1115 00:34:31,504 --> 00:34:33,706 Leah. 1116 00:34:33,730 --> 00:34:34,184 That was great. 1117 00:34:34,208 --> 00:34:36,152 I am so touched. 1118 00:34:36,176 --> 00:34:38,522 - Your commitment has really - blown me away. That's amazing. 1119 00:34:38,548 --> 00:34:39,924 Singing a prayer 1120 00:34:39,948 --> 00:34:41,324 is not easy to do, 1121 00:34:41,348 --> 00:34:42,877 and it was very, 1122 00:34:42,901 --> 00:34:44,427 very special to me. 1123 00:34:44,451 --> 00:34:45,946 And, it's very meaningful 1124 00:34:45,970 --> 00:34:47,463 that Sonja was touched by it, 1125 00:34:47,487 --> 00:34:48,899 and like understands 1126 00:34:48,923 --> 00:34:50,333 how important it is to me. 1127 00:34:50,357 --> 00:34:53,269 Beautiful. Thank you. 1128 00:34:53,293 --> 00:34:55,950 Thank you for joining us. 1129 00:34:56,329 --> 00:34:58,341 You didn't mess up on anything. 1130 00:34:58,365 --> 00:35:00,076 Luann wants to talk to you now. 1131 00:35:00,100 --> 00:35:01,401 Boom! You can sing. 1132 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:04,513 What a commitment, 1133 00:35:04,537 --> 00:35:07,351 - and to know the words - and to sing them so beautifully. 1134 00:35:07,377 --> 00:35:08,551 Girl, that's beautiful. 1135 00:35:08,575 --> 00:35:10,186 That was beautiful, Leah. 1136 00:35:10,210 --> 00:35:12,221 Okay, Eboni, sit down. 1137 00:35:12,245 --> 00:35:13,422 I think you're amazing. 1138 00:35:13,446 --> 00:35:15,591 I do! I really do. 1139 00:35:15,615 --> 00:35:17,260 - Like, there's - just so much hatred 1140 00:35:17,286 --> 00:35:19,496 And so much anti-Semitism 1141 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:20,497 - and there are so - many people who, like, 1142 00:35:20,523 --> 00:35:22,165 - Wouldn't even - come to a Shabbatdinner 1143 00:35:22,189 --> 00:35:23,399 And I am so not kidding you. 1144 00:35:23,423 --> 00:35:25,202 - I go there all the time, - in the Hamptons. 1145 00:35:25,228 --> 00:35:27,203 All my friends are Jewish. 1146 00:35:27,227 --> 00:35:29,539 - Eboni has been an amazing human - who opens up her heart and says, 1147 00:35:29,565 --> 00:35:32,108 "I want to know about Judaism," 1148 00:35:32,132 --> 00:35:33,611 and I've been really 1149 00:35:33,635 --> 00:35:35,111 worried about the relationship 1150 00:35:35,135 --> 00:35:37,180 - between the Black - and Jewish community-- 1151 00:35:37,206 --> 00:35:38,482 But Italians and Jews 1152 00:35:38,506 --> 00:35:39,782 have a lot in common too. 1153 00:35:39,806 --> 00:35:41,384 Sorry? 1154 00:35:41,408 --> 00:35:43,220 - Italians and Jews, - they're all about the-- 1155 00:35:43,246 --> 00:35:44,855 - You're going off topic. - We're talking about-- 1156 00:35:44,881 --> 00:35:46,423 - You said Eboni, - and I'm trying to include 1157 00:35:46,449 --> 00:35:48,457 Other traditions, other people. 1158 00:35:48,481 --> 00:35:50,292 I'm sorry. 1159 00:35:50,316 --> 00:35:51,628 - Everybody, - everybody getting along. 1160 00:35:51,654 --> 00:35:52,896 No, she's saying 1161 00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:54,163 something different. 1162 00:35:54,187 --> 00:35:56,400 - Ramona tries to - interject in a conversation 1163 00:35:56,426 --> 00:35:58,200 Which she has no knowledge of. 1164 00:35:58,224 --> 00:36:00,170 - If you don't have - knowledge of a conversation, 1165 00:36:00,194 --> 00:36:01,570 You should shut up and listen. 1166 00:36:01,594 --> 00:36:02,839 I'm saying something 1167 00:36:02,863 --> 00:36:04,106 very specific, Ramona. 1168 00:36:04,130 --> 00:36:05,242 When you are an 1169 00:36:05,266 --> 00:36:06,375 oppressed people, 1170 00:36:06,399 --> 00:36:08,478 it's very easy to join 1171 00:36:08,502 --> 00:36:10,579 with other forms of oppression 1172 00:36:10,603 --> 00:36:11,915 for your own, 1173 00:36:11,939 --> 00:36:13,249 perceived survival. 1174 00:36:13,273 --> 00:36:14,618 - Right. - The only person that wins 1175 00:36:14,644 --> 00:36:16,620 - When those - communities are at odds 1176 00:36:16,646 --> 00:36:18,605 Is white supremacists, and 1177 00:36:18,629 --> 00:36:20,589 I certainly deal with backlash. 1178 00:36:20,613 --> 00:36:23,427 - I'll do it again, because - there is no place I will not go. 1179 00:36:23,453 --> 00:36:25,896 - Not will any of us, we - all feel that way. We all want-- 1180 00:36:25,922 --> 00:36:27,597 - I understand, - but the difference is, 1181 00:36:27,623 --> 00:36:28,915 - Ramona-- 1182 00:36:28,939 --> 00:36:30,232 - We all do. 1183 00:36:30,256 --> 00:36:32,469 - Mm hm, of course. - The difference is, Ramona, 1184 00:36:32,495 --> 00:36:33,971 The only difference 1185 00:36:33,995 --> 00:36:35,471 is I have paid the price. 1186 00:36:35,495 --> 00:36:37,440 We've all paid the price. 1187 00:36:37,464 --> 00:36:38,525 - No. 1188 00:36:38,549 --> 00:36:39,608 - In different ways. 1189 00:36:39,632 --> 00:36:41,610 I believe that Ramona, 1190 00:36:41,634 --> 00:36:42,946 like a lot 1191 00:36:42,970 --> 00:36:44,280 of well-meaning people, 1192 00:36:44,304 --> 00:36:46,216 - have a hard time - sitting with the pain 1193 00:36:46,242 --> 00:36:48,317 Of marginalized Americans, 1194 00:36:48,341 --> 00:36:49,586 and I don't think 1195 00:36:49,610 --> 00:36:50,853 Ramona has any clue 1196 00:36:50,877 --> 00:36:52,773 as to how painful, really, 1197 00:36:52,797 --> 00:36:54,690 her reaction is in this moment. 1198 00:36:54,714 --> 00:36:55,792 How about when 1199 00:36:55,816 --> 00:36:56,892 I went to college, 1200 00:36:56,916 --> 00:36:59,262 - the Jewish people hated me. - We're not talking about that. 1201 00:36:59,288 --> 00:37:01,197 I'm just saying. 1202 00:37:01,221 --> 00:37:02,899 - Just stop for a second, - we're not talking about that. 1203 00:37:02,925 --> 00:37:05,435 - Okay, I just feel like I can't - talk about anything and-- 1204 00:37:05,461 --> 00:37:07,270 - Right now, we're - talking about the Black race 1205 00:37:07,296 --> 00:37:09,171 And our Jewish friends. 1206 00:37:09,195 --> 00:37:11,208 - What Ramona is bringing - up is a question that a lot-- 1207 00:37:15,168 --> 00:37:16,230 I'm talking 1208 00:37:16,254 --> 00:37:17,313 about life in general. 1209 00:37:17,337 --> 00:37:18,914 I'm not talking about right now. 1210 00:37:18,938 --> 00:37:20,284 It's not only that 1211 00:37:20,308 --> 00:37:21,651 it's not about white people, 1212 00:37:21,675 --> 00:37:24,154 - this dinner, - it's not about you, Ramona. 1213 00:37:24,180 --> 00:37:25,722 - Jewish people - hated you in college, 1214 00:37:25,748 --> 00:37:27,724 - I'm sure everybody - hated you in college. 1215 00:37:27,750 --> 00:37:28,992 It's about 1216 00:37:29,016 --> 00:37:30,259 everybody getting along. 1217 00:37:30,283 --> 00:37:31,560 We're at a Shabbatdinner and-- 1218 00:37:31,584 --> 00:37:33,262 We're at a Shabbatdinner and-- 1219 00:37:33,286 --> 00:37:35,164 A Black Shabbatdinner. 1220 00:37:35,188 --> 00:37:36,532 Inclusive. 1221 00:37:36,556 --> 00:37:38,018 Can I speak? I'm speaking. 1222 00:37:38,042 --> 00:37:39,502 You don't listen. 1223 00:37:39,526 --> 00:37:43,172 I was discriminated. 1224 00:37:43,196 --> 00:37:45,708 We're not talking about you. 1225 00:37:45,732 --> 00:37:47,444 So now, we've gone 1226 00:37:47,468 --> 00:37:49,178 from Italian persecution 1227 00:37:49,202 --> 00:37:50,914 - to Ramona - persecution in college. 1228 00:37:50,940 --> 00:37:52,082 I mean, it just 1229 00:37:52,106 --> 00:37:53,249 keeps getting worse. 1230 00:37:53,273 --> 00:37:54,617 Can I please speak? 1231 00:37:54,641 --> 00:37:56,520 - I'm upset that no - one wants to listen to me. 1232 00:37:56,546 --> 00:37:57,687 Go, go. 1233 00:37:57,711 --> 00:37:59,422 No, wait, I need to talk to you. 1234 00:37:59,446 --> 00:38:01,116 Ramona. 1235 00:38:01,140 --> 00:38:03,583 ♪♪♪ 1236 00:38:06,686 --> 00:38:08,598 - It's about - everybody getting along. 1237 00:38:08,624 --> 00:38:10,399 We're at a Shabbatdinner and-- 1238 00:38:10,423 --> 00:38:11,819 I was boycotted. 1239 00:38:11,843 --> 00:38:13,236 I was discriminated. 1240 00:38:13,260 --> 00:38:14,570 I felt like why wasn't I Jewish? 1241 00:38:14,594 --> 00:38:16,339 We're not talking about you. 1242 00:38:16,363 --> 00:38:18,287 - I'm upset that no - one wants to listen to me. 1243 00:38:18,313 --> 00:38:19,742 Eboni. Go, go. 1244 00:38:19,766 --> 00:38:21,778 - When I go to other Shabbat - dinners with my friends, 1245 00:38:21,804 --> 00:38:24,348 - We do the prayers, and we talk, - and we have great conversations. 1246 00:38:24,374 --> 00:38:25,749 - I like to share - thoughts and opinions, 1247 00:38:25,775 --> 00:38:27,651 - But I guess I'm in - trouble for doing that. 1248 00:38:27,677 --> 00:38:30,343 Oh, here's the bathroom. 1249 00:38:32,779 --> 00:38:35,456 This is what I love. 1250 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,126 Whether it's animals, 1251 00:38:37,150 --> 00:38:38,794 children, LGBTQ gather 1252 00:38:38,818 --> 00:38:40,629 and that's what I like. 1253 00:38:40,653 --> 00:38:42,398 I'll tell you this. I mean, 1254 00:38:42,422 --> 00:38:43,767 - Ramona's gone and that's - probably for the best. 1255 00:38:43,793 --> 00:38:45,401 I want to talk about-- 1256 00:38:45,425 --> 00:38:46,736 Yeah. 1257 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,556 I went to pee. 1258 00:38:48,580 --> 00:38:50,373 I can't ----ing pee? 1259 00:38:50,397 --> 00:38:52,375 Are you kidding me? 1260 00:38:52,399 --> 00:38:54,534 Leah, Ramona gets defensive. 1261 00:38:55,635 --> 00:38:57,480 You get defensive. 1262 00:38:57,504 --> 00:38:59,550 I peed. I was on a bus 1263 00:38:59,574 --> 00:39:01,617 for 40 minutes, no, an hour. 1264 00:39:01,641 --> 00:39:04,377 She, she gets defensive. 1265 00:39:07,847 --> 00:39:09,859 Leah, I had to go pee. 1266 00:39:09,883 --> 00:39:11,827 She's back, she took it back. 1267 00:39:11,851 --> 00:39:14,497 I just don't understand why, 1268 00:39:14,521 --> 00:39:16,433 - I don't understand - why it's triggering 1269 00:39:16,459 --> 00:39:18,102 To hear 1270 00:39:18,126 --> 00:39:19,769 about someone else's history. 1271 00:39:19,793 --> 00:39:21,872 - I was in a car - for an hour and a half. 1272 00:39:21,898 --> 00:39:23,607 - I would like to - hear less from you. 1273 00:39:23,633 --> 00:39:25,642 - I haven't peed in, - like, two or three hours. 1274 00:39:25,668 --> 00:39:27,110 I think you're 1275 00:39:27,134 --> 00:39:28,577 amazing. I am glad we waited. 1276 00:39:28,601 --> 00:39:30,079 [bleep] 1277 00:39:30,103 --> 00:39:32,082 - I feel very comfortable, - so I'm sorry-- 1278 00:39:32,108 --> 00:39:34,551 - No, you're too comfortable. - No, and I am sorry. 1279 00:39:34,577 --> 00:39:36,203 Okay, I apologize that 1280 00:39:36,227 --> 00:39:37,853 I brought up my feelings 1281 00:39:37,877 --> 00:39:39,473 because I bonded with you 1282 00:39:39,497 --> 00:39:41,090 and I was sharing my feelings, 1283 00:39:41,114 --> 00:39:42,859 - and I am sorry - if I insulted you. 1284 00:39:42,885 --> 00:39:44,861 No, you didn't. You didn't, 1285 00:39:44,885 --> 00:39:46,862 not even a little. 1286 00:39:46,886 --> 00:39:48,864 All I felt was sad. 1287 00:39:48,888 --> 00:39:50,599 I'm sad now. 1288 00:39:50,623 --> 00:39:52,468 Shh. 1289 00:39:52,492 --> 00:39:54,104 - If anyone, because you expressed - this thing, and clearly, 1290 00:39:54,130 --> 00:39:55,806 - The Jewish - community have left you-- 1291 00:39:55,832 --> 00:39:57,674 - Not now, but when - I first came to New York 1292 00:39:57,700 --> 00:39:58,759 - When I was 17 or 18. 1293 00:39:58,783 --> 00:39:59,842 - They left you out. 1294 00:39:59,866 --> 00:40:01,778 - Well, she did have - sex with some Jewish guys. 1295 00:40:01,804 --> 00:40:03,880 - You know what, shut, you know, - I did not, you stop it. 1296 00:40:03,906 --> 00:40:05,849 - Does she know you were - engaged to a Jewish man? 1297 00:40:05,875 --> 00:40:07,517 - You don't even know - what I'm talking about. 1298 00:40:07,543 --> 00:40:09,518 You are so delusional. 1299 00:40:09,542 --> 00:40:11,655 - I'm just trying to cut off - Ramona, this is not the time, 1300 00:40:11,681 --> 00:40:13,556 It's not the forum. 1301 00:40:13,580 --> 00:40:15,509 It's not even the right 1302 00:40:15,533 --> 00:40:17,460 audience, for Christ's sake. 1303 00:40:17,484 --> 00:40:19,896 - I wished I was born Jewish. - Should we go on? 1304 00:40:19,922 --> 00:40:21,014 Hello, I wished 1305 00:40:21,038 --> 00:40:22,131 I was born Jewish. 1306 00:40:22,155 --> 00:40:23,800 - But you weren't, - and what we're not gonna do-- 1307 00:40:23,826 --> 00:40:25,468 Ramona. 1308 00:40:25,492 --> 00:40:26,587 I was upset 1309 00:40:26,611 --> 00:40:27,703 I wasn't born Jewish. 1310 00:40:27,727 --> 00:40:29,772 Ramona! We're not-- 1311 00:40:29,796 --> 00:40:31,474 Sit down, shiksa. 1312 00:40:31,498 --> 00:40:32,693 We're not going 1313 00:40:32,717 --> 00:40:33,909 to make it about you 1314 00:40:33,933 --> 00:40:35,711 and your white isolation. 1315 00:40:35,735 --> 00:40:37,580 Sit down, shiksa. 1316 00:40:37,604 --> 00:40:39,715 [crosstalk] 1317 00:40:39,739 --> 00:40:41,151 Don't steer 1318 00:40:41,175 --> 00:40:42,585 the conversation to yourself. 1319 00:40:42,609 --> 00:40:43,886 It was a conversation. 1320 00:40:43,910 --> 00:40:45,856 - I just wanted to - talk about my feeling. 1321 00:40:45,882 --> 00:40:47,623 She's talking about her feeling. 1322 00:40:47,647 --> 00:40:49,526 - Can we please listen - to the Blacks and Jews? 1323 00:40:53,787 --> 00:40:55,665 I'm not so eloquent. 1324 00:40:55,689 --> 00:40:56,866 I'm really horrified. 1325 00:40:56,890 --> 00:40:58,734 Archie has gone out of her way, 1326 00:40:58,758 --> 00:41:00,504 - making such - a beautiful night for us, 1327 00:41:00,530 --> 00:41:01,839 To celebrate 1328 00:41:01,863 --> 00:41:03,172 culture and compassion, 1329 00:41:03,196 --> 00:41:04,892 and Ramona and Sonja 1330 00:41:04,916 --> 00:41:06,609 make me look like an asshole. 1331 00:41:06,633 --> 00:41:08,178 - Can we have - the first course though? 1332 00:41:08,204 --> 00:41:09,903 Leah, what? 1333 00:41:12,939 --> 00:41:14,550 Yeah, I'm gonna go get a drink. 1334 00:41:14,574 --> 00:41:15,751 You guys talk. 1335 00:41:15,775 --> 00:41:17,720 Are we getting our first course? 1336 00:41:17,744 --> 00:41:19,656 - Yeah, but we're - not doing Shabbat. 1337 00:41:19,682 --> 00:41:21,241 This is nuts, Leah. This 1338 00:41:21,265 --> 00:41:22,849 is why I needed you here. 1339 00:41:27,821 --> 00:41:30,933 It was nuts. It's crazy. 1340 00:41:30,957 --> 00:41:32,903 - Okay, let me see if - there's food in the kitchen, 1341 00:41:32,929 --> 00:41:34,204 I'm starving. 1342 00:41:34,228 --> 00:41:35,504 I'm sorry. I need to eat. 1343 00:41:35,528 --> 00:41:36,872 I'm trying to lose, see, 1344 00:41:36,896 --> 00:41:38,775 - I lost the three - pounds I gained at Thanksgiving, 1345 00:41:38,801 --> 00:41:40,543 So I didn't eat all day. 1346 00:41:40,567 --> 00:41:41,877 Is this hummus? 1347 00:41:41,901 --> 00:41:43,764 I always get us 1348 00:41:43,788 --> 00:41:45,648 hummus. Cheese. Veggies. 1349 00:41:45,672 --> 00:41:47,234 They'll bring you some 1350 00:41:47,258 --> 00:41:48,818 food right now if you want it. 1351 00:41:48,842 --> 00:41:50,786 No, I want real food. 1352 00:41:50,810 --> 00:41:53,523 - Oh my God, I am so hungry. - Do we have chicken or protein? 1353 00:41:57,784 --> 00:41:59,652 It's Shabbat! 1354 00:42:01,540 --> 00:42:03,600 - There's like a white - woman leading this night. 1355 00:42:03,626 --> 00:42:05,580 Why are you still uncomfortable? 1356 00:42:06,826 --> 00:42:08,804 I am really embarrassed. 1357 00:42:08,828 --> 00:42:10,807 It is totally 1358 00:42:10,831 --> 00:42:12,808 offensive towards Judaism 1359 00:42:12,832 --> 00:42:14,738 and towards all the work 1360 00:42:14,762 --> 00:42:16,666 that Eboni is trying to do, 1361 00:42:16,690 --> 00:42:18,482 - which is - really ----ing brave of her, 1362 00:42:18,508 --> 00:42:19,949 And Ramona has no idea, 1363 00:42:19,973 --> 00:42:21,785 because Ramona has the IQ 1364 00:42:21,809 --> 00:42:23,619 of a ----ing walnut. 1365 00:42:23,643 --> 00:42:25,822 - So, I need food. - What'd they tell you to do? 1366 00:42:25,848 --> 00:42:27,207 I don't even understand 1367 00:42:27,231 --> 00:42:28,591 what happened to Ramona. 1368 00:42:28,615 --> 00:42:30,727 - No, I don't want snacks, - that's fattening. 1369 00:42:30,753 --> 00:42:32,628 I can't be skinny like you. 1370 00:42:32,652 --> 00:42:34,697 This represents a lot of people 1371 00:42:34,721 --> 00:42:36,700 - that get - uncomfortable and defensive. 1372 00:42:36,726 --> 00:42:39,102 - I kinda regret doing - this whole thing, by the way. 1373 00:42:40,794 --> 00:42:42,223 Next time, on The Real 1374 00:42:42,247 --> 00:42:43,673 Housewives of New York City... 1375 00:42:43,697 --> 00:42:45,275 - I'm just gonna make - the blessing over the wine. 1376 00:42:45,301 --> 00:42:47,277 - I would like to - bless with tequila. 1377 00:42:47,303 --> 00:42:50,101 Here, here is the tequila. 1378 00:42:50,125 --> 00:42:51,192 Wait, one of these 1379 00:42:51,216 --> 00:42:52,281 three men is my dad? 1380 00:42:52,305 --> 00:42:53,916 Is that what you're telling me? 1381 00:42:53,940 --> 00:42:55,251 I am almost certain of it. 1382 00:42:55,275 --> 00:42:57,076 What, wait, wait! 1383 00:42:57,100 --> 00:42:58,167 The money is a bit 1384 00:42:58,191 --> 00:42:59,255 crazy for a kid to go 1385 00:42:59,279 --> 00:43:00,774 to high school 1386 00:43:00,798 --> 00:43:02,291 at college prices. 1387 00:43:02,315 --> 00:43:03,894 - This is why I work - my ----ing ass off, 1388 00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:05,761 To give her opportunities. 1389 00:43:05,785 --> 00:43:07,564 - You know you peed in - Archie's driveway last night? 1390 00:43:07,590 --> 00:43:08,716 Yes, I did, 1391 00:43:08,740 --> 00:43:09,866 at the back of the bus. 1392 00:43:09,890 --> 00:43:10,867 What the [bleep]? 1393 00:43:10,891 --> 00:43:12,769 - I have done things like - that before, peed wherever. 1394 00:43:12,795 --> 00:43:14,871 - Sonja went nuts on me. - I just like blocked it out. 1395 00:43:14,897 --> 00:43:16,340 Like, she's on a train, 1396 00:43:16,364 --> 00:43:17,807 and I know she's gonna crash. 1397 00:43:17,831 --> 00:43:19,376 - I know. 1398 00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:20,967 - And there's nothing we can do.