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so

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uh

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crazy woman

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so

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huh

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ah speak of the devil how'd it go
great do you get your source absolutely

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dana we're gonna put rose and bloom on your
story excuse me you're short on manpower

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you know i hate losing to the post we're not
gonna lose to the post i'll get me started

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on the journal we're not gonna lose to the
journal either especially not with my help

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what are you gonna do i got sambar you actually
talked to him we're sitting down next week when

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i want to hear everything you got my
monday's page one meeting mean time

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you two exchange notes when next week it's not
set yet oh okay so all of this is predicated on

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a meeting you don't actually have no no i just
said it's not set yet but we're sitting there

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no you said it wasn't set yet no i said it's not
said no yes he just says sandberg and suddenly

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he's on my story because i've come to you a
thousand times and it's never been that easy

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when you sit down with him tell him
i said hi because i just had that

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meeting that you think you're gonna get dana what

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hang on a minute it's me i heard what happened

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frozen blue is telling everybody he's on your
story now oh i can't stand his looks smug ass

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why are you still breastfeeding jordan's
one because the world health organization

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recommends it for up to two years and beyond
kid's got a mouth full of teeth dee he's gonna

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be able to spell milk pretty soon doesn't
it hurt it's a good way for us to stay close

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how you doing my blouse is almost
dry i'm not asking about your blouse

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please don't isolate yourself i'm not isolated
we're talking right now you know what i mean

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dee you come here you work you go home
that's all you ever did i'm a single mother

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all right you're not gonna talk
to me you better talk to someone

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i am fine i don't think you're
fine i'll tell you if i wasn't

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now if you will excuse me i have to go make
sure little rose emblem stays off my story

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how you doing manny so a little man earlier
not so little anymore who you tell her

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hi sorry i'm late how is he taking his nap still
oh i hope he's not coming down with something

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no no that boy around wild in the park
i had to pry him away thank you kalisha

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you should go at home oh okay let me finish up
and i'll see you tomorrow morning all right okay

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so

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so

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here i come

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tell them everything

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okay

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dear jordan i want you to know
that it's all right for boys to cry

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sometimes crying can release
a lot of pain and stress

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it has nothing to do with your manhood

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your father wrote that

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he wrote this whole thing just for you

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i thought you should hear it because

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you cry a lot

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dear jordan if you are reading this it means
that we got through the sorrowful years somehow

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and that you are old enough to understand
all that i am about to tell you

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the first time i saw your father charles monroe
king was in the living room of the house where i

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grew up it was the spring of 1998 and i was
visiting your grandfather for his birthday

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my baby

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oh

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oh

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so baby how's dwayne doing mike
come on mama i told you we broke up

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well flames rekindled look at your brother
remember when he and charlene fell out

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yeah i was shocked she took him back you
never know did you call him now why would

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i do that well you're the one who said he's so
perfect mommy works on wall street i believe

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i know we are not getting back together okay it's
over you never know mom some things you do know

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ah

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grace

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bless us o lord for these gifts we're about
to receive from thy bounty and praise our lord

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oh smoking rebound here

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you all know this house is downwind right

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you know i don't smoke you can't think when
you're high but help you relax i'm relaxed

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you think i need to relax what do you
bro yes okay maybe i'm a little type a

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little they stress me out why do you think i'm
staying at a hotel savory to be out here get high

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i just don't understand how she stays
with him all these years she loves it

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that is not love it's fear she's scared
to end up alone is that how it is mike

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is that how it is being married because

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are you scared you're gonna end up alone
no no really [ Transcript By SHIBAMOON ] sometimes i wish you

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will leave me tomorrow but are you happy yeah
we fight as [ Transcript By SHIBAMOON ] but yeah see there's hope

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now i just gotta find the right guy good
luck men are luxurious not necessities

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apparently not it's cold out
here i see y'all inside all right

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hi hi i'm a friend of your fathers
oh are you dana dana i'm a journalist

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and you are oh i'm uh first sergeant charles
king at your service huh you're a soldier

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nice man your father was a
dress auction back in the day

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i just came by to hang this one early birthday
present 761st tank time some of the bravest men to

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fight in world war ii me and your dad a tanker so
share mutual admiration what do you think about it

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it's beautiful

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is that pointillism yes ma'am it is you know like
joycerat it takes a bit more time but i think it's

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worth you drew that yes ma'am technically
it's a pain but i won't hold it against you

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you know sarge talks about you a lot

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all three here's problem joy is he
here yes ma'am he's not on the porch

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i told him to wait there while i finish
hanging this excuse me real quick

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morning daddy oh good morning
happy birthday know it's not

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until tomorrow but these are cigars
so don't let mommy see him thank you

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so your friend's in there finish
putting my picture up here not yet

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but you're going to love it

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he's uh talented isn't he and good looking

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did we meet him yet she's been
out with your mom all morning

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huh

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just tell them that you've got
something at your hotel and

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your sister wants to borrow your car
daddy i'm just trying to help don't

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excuse me hi can i ask you a favor i
left my cell phone back at my hotel

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and my sister needs to bring my car when she
gets back would you mind giving me a ride

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you mind if i turn on the radio no sure what kind
of music do you like there should be a cd in there

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spanish

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you don't talk much do you yeah i do
i mean when i got something to say

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okay

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so my dad was your drill sergeant yes man he
taught me how to be a soldier i'm lucky i met him

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both of you folks they've been there

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sorry

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take the girl out of the city you
can't take the city out of the girl

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you know i'm a journalist so i have to
ask my parents have been there for you how

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i'm going through a divorce oh

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i'm sorry don't be

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mom's a great listener and pop always invites
me over to watch ball games pop yes ma'am i mean

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don't get me wrong i love my parents but i don't
think i would have made it through without yours

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you might seem so surprised
you didn't grow up with them

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what about you what about me

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you seeing someone i'm surprised my parents
didn't tell you since you all talk so much

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i'm single recently

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hey listen i'm supposed to go to
the house tomorrow for the barbecue

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i could pick you up on my way if you want

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yeah that'd be great pals oh 900

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early

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that's perfect

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no housekeeping come back
later it's charles king who

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uh what what time is it uh 8 49.
i'm so sorry don't worry about it

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i'll be right out it's okay take your time

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i won't be longer i promise
whenever you're ready i'll be here

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i'm so sorry it was worth the wait

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i'm hot

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you hungry i could eat

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so what made you join the army

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discipline travel and i love my country

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so i always wanted to serve plus
the camo just brings out my eyes

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it's a tough way to make a living yes ma'am it is

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you know you don't have to call me
ma'am i know i don't want to either

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belgium waffles and i've got scrambled
eggs and oatmeal got you a little extra

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brown sugar you sure you don't want some fruit
or something uh no thank you i'm fine thanks man

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let me know if you need anything excuse
me hi uh i'm gonna need some hot sauce

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for those hash browns and uh a
little warm up please sure thing

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so how long have you been in the army one second

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all right thank you uh it's been 11 years
i plan on doing another nine and hopefully

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retiring a sergeant major then i'm gonna
focus on my art oh who's your favorite artist

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you ask a lot of questions

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occupational hazard well if you must know i
have two george soro yeah and claw my name

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he's my number one i mean i mess
around a bit with pointillism but

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monet style i mean who's messing with him

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you um got a little bit right oh
something all right other side

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just all right you're smudging me uh you want
i don't even know got a little bit yep thanks

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you know i saw some of monet's
work at the met in new york

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i've never been to new york oh it's so different
when you can see the brush strokes up close

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and i've actually never seen a real monday
in person you should get up there sometime

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see the pain

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maybe i will

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look at that yeah baby hey hey hey come on
over me first sergeant king just call him

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why in the world

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oh i thought men were luxuries not necessities you
just want to stand there they don't come help me

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be lucky you saw him first

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i am yes ma'am i mean yes i am are you
sure i was just about to put out dessert

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i wish i could fresh apple pie i
got a phone date with my daughter oh

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yeah she lives in texas with her mother and i
gotta catch her before she goes to sleep of course

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well if you're ever in new york and
want to see that monet look me up

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will do

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take care you too

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what

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hello hey guys this is she hey this is
first sergeant charles king oh hello charles

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my dad told me he gave me my number three weeks
ago yeah is now a good time to talk um i am kind

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of in the middle of something oh okay i can call
you back no no it's fine i have a few minutes

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i would have called you sooner

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but

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i just i want to be honest and
my divorce i just got final

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i don't want to make things harder
for you charles no but you're not

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you're not that's exactly
why i'm calling you right now

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and i'm always going to be thinking about
her you know it's not going to change but

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i just want you to know that you don't
have anything to worry about i promise

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fair enough

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hello

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then i want you to know i've been thinking about

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you a lot

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well you have had three weeks

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happy birthday to you happy birthday
to you happy birthday dear mommy

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happy birthday to you okay
okay let's blow him out ready

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okay now let's get our sugared up

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all right time out mommy needs a little break

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what are you talking about

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what okay what are you looking at what
are you saying silly boy hey daddy

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so

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so

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there's barely any black people let alone black
women no second chances it's like i'm the standard

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bearer for every other black person who wants to
work there i understand that but you do love what

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you do right it's the new york times of course
i love it for germans that's a dream come true

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it's the only time i hate new york when it's
hot and muggy new york is not hot all right

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you been to iraq kuwait too desert
storm well was it bad it's bad enough

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listen can i call you back
later i got a meeting with

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the brass and a few and i do not want to be late

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no you hang up are we really doing
this right now i guess we are okay

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are you gonna hang up the phone bye

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bye

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so do you think you'll want more kids well
definitely i always wanted a big family

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hey how's your daughter handling it christina
she's she's great beautiful she listens smart

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a lot smarter than me i'll tell you that

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hold on a second

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you know it was uh

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it was stressful

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stressful for

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for everybody well how did you handle it

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i felt like a failure

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tried to make it work

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but you know we we uh we were young we
were kids trying to figure it out and

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you know we both were to blame you know so

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it hurt

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i'm sorry you were hurt i
know it's uh you know i'm

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doing good and i love being a father you know
one of the best things that ever happened to me

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hey if i didn't go through that
i wouldn't be talking to you

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sometimes after dinner my father would announce
he was going to buy milk i never understood how

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my mom could just sit there with her head down she
knew he was having an affair the whole town did

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one night i came down with this terrible flu

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and my mom had to bomb a neighbor's
car to take me to the hospital

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and i just remember lying there
on that back seat delirious

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when i lifted my head up i saw we
were driving around a parking lot

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of a bar on the base how are you i was seven

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she was looking for his car

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is

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no

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he used to say that she trapped
him by getting pregnant with me

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she was just as trapped as he was

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wow

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how'd that make you feel

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now see you are all up in my
business trying to get me all open

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sounds a little too late for that what did you say

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alone

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enough about me

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so what do you do when you're not
turning young men into soldiers

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what if i'm not drawing or painting

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probably in the gym okay i like the gym too for
the massages the little smoothies at the juice bar

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you're telling me you go to the gym and you don't
work out well i'm not exactly the workout type

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but i stay active it's a walking city

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massage juices smoothies all
that whatever it is you're doing

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it's working

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i think you were beautiful

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but you like this guy or not i can't
he's a soldier my dad was a soldier

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it's not like he walks around in uniform all
the time that [ Transcript By SHIBAMOONTranscript By SHIBAMOON ] would be hot so quickly

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and he's divorced oh and he has a nine-year-old
daughter so is he a good dad he seems like it i

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don't know i don't know he is not exactly my type
look you said he was nice right and he's cute

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too yes so what's your problem are you too good
for him you little bougie [ Transcript By SHIBAMOONTranscript By SHIBAMOON ] i barely know him

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we've only talked on the phone well if you decide
to let him kiss it just don't shoot your legs

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what i know you there is no way
you would ever sleep with a guy

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at least not the first time without exfoliating
moisturizing and shaving god is true same

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sorry i can't come pick you up don't worry
about it i know you got work if you get lucky

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with traffic you should be here about 2 30. you
know i could just stay in a hotel not a problem

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of course not don't be silly i mean unless
would you do you want to stay at a hotel no

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no i'm good good okay

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oh and by the way that cab ride from laguardia
shouldn't cost you more than 30 bucks i usually

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tip if he helps me with my bags oh and don't let
him take the queensborough bridge okay general

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hopefully all my training and the tank battles
i survived in iraq have prepared me enough for

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new york city as you were negro and if i don't
make it oh god i want you to know that i tried

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and can you call my mom before you just tell
her that i love her charles you can stop now

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guess what huh what chicken butt
you're so corny get off the phone

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hey are you there uh yes ma'am i'm right here i'm
i'm sorry maddie uh no problem ms kennedy your

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guest has arrived you want me to send them up
yes please i left the key for uh yes ma'am i

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got it right here uh can you put him on
real quick sure he wants to talk to you

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hey just want to let you know that i
made it in safe mission accomplished

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happy to hear so i'm not going to be home for
another couple hours yeah that's fine i'll

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get my sketchbook with me so handle your work
okay uh help yourself to anything in the fridge

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hey manny uh it's his first time in new york
so just help him out if he needs anything okay

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can you see if he has on kind of
worn out sneakers probably dirty

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yes man okay you can send them up all right

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she says you've been going up
all right thank you you got it

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hey there what are you doing get out of here no i
have too much work to do work schmer go get some

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there you go

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so

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hey you how was your day it was good how was
your flight it was what's good welcome home

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you smell good thank you i got something for you

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this is for you oh my god you like it i do
i really tried to imagine you in my head

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what i'm lying i use that photo over

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i'm glad you there it

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so i know you just got here but
um we should probably talk about

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sleeping arrangements i have a
sofa bed it's pretty comfortable

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that's fine i have no
problem sleeping on the couch

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why you look nervous what do you think
i was gonna say i don't look nervous

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i just didn't want to set up any unrealistic
expectations oh well i expect to have a good time

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i'm not worried i'll be with you

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okay we decided we have i i'm ready
are you yeah what is that olive oil

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i have the linguine with clam sauce please like
capri salad to start absolutely and for you sir

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i'll have the caesar salad that's it i'm sorry
can you give us one minute of course thank you

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what you can get a caesar
salad anywhere drop pasta

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that's a lot of carbs you eat mess hot food all
day come on how do you know what i like to eat

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well at least get some grilled
chicken in it or something

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okay

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i really am glad you're here i
just want you to enjoy your weekend

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you taste like oregano

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oh so we're in broadway no see there's off
broadway and there's off broadway okay so is there

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anything actually on broadway yes but it's not
about the street it's all about the size of the

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house the house how many seats there are in the
house yes okay the house yes looks like i thought

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charles please i appreciate the manners but
you can't keep walking on the outside of

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the sidewalk it's new york there are
too many people so i just can't help

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it's a force to happen you know what no i'm
sorry thank you the world needs more gentlemen

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that's an off off-broadway kiss

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that's an off-road kiss and this is

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broadway

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and the tony award for best kiss goes
too oh hold on who the hell is tony

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uh i'm gonna go freshen up really quick
there's water and stuff in the fridge so

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help yourself so whatever okay

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she's

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do you need anything

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uh yeah maybe just some corporation
pillows one everyone got me sleeping

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i was thinking maybe you could sleep
on one side of the bed if you want

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yeah cool

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um

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we should stop

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yes sir

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good night

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good night

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who travels with exercise equipment
i do you look good i slept well

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now you need to put all that away i have not
had my coffee yet i remembered lucky black right

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yes i do all right so i need you to
get up get in the shower get dressed

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we'll go for a run i want to
see more of your city okay

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i want to see more of your
city i'll take your state

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you know zip code i want to see your area
don't want to see your social security number

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show it all to me oh god i want to see it

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you know you like it

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you know i can't show you
the whole city in one weekend

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i guess you gotta come back

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um

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got to take a shower

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i'll keep that in mind close the drapes

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i got you

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so yeah

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you like it

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i love it

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00:54:02,240 --> 00:54:09,840
it's so beautiful

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thank you

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00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:51,840
we've only got four days soldier it's
christmas time in new york up and at them

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are you done yet yeah well come on out let me see

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00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:07,760
get out here please

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00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:24,400
oh yes i don't know let's try the blazer i
look like someone has an account a fine one

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and do you know how expensive these
clothes are it's a christmas gift

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00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:35,600
no i can't let you do that i want to i know you
don't care about clothes cause clothes don't make

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the man baby but the man can make the clothes baby
besides you work hard you deserve more than just

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00:55:42,720 --> 00:55:48,880
baggy jeans and t-shirts i like munchings
okay well what about the grandpa sneakers

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grandpa the only place you should be wearing
those two is the gym they're practical and

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00:55:54,240 --> 00:56:01,840
they're very comfortable and those aren't
come on now don't look like you don't like it

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00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:08,480
look at you wow see

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00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:16,720
fine but i'm keeping my sneakers
i'm paying for half charles half

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baby why don't you be my girlfriend
what i want you to be my lady

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like officially what do you mean like go steady
you know exactly what that means that's funny no

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it's just it's just what we're grown yeah
we're grown enough to commit to one another

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charles don't say my name like that

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can we talk about this later
talk about it now we have guests

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please

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however i don't want her hurt i don't want no
that's that's not my intention i know it's not

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your intentions but it may happen he actually said
officially that's the sweetest thing i ever heard

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oh my god died for him but he can't help it he's
military you can't help it you're falling for him

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you know you're strong i am not
i've never seen you like this before

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like you like him of course i like him no i
mean you like like him like you really like him

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i want a drink it's christmas
i need a drink i need a drink

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00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:53,520
but you're gonna be good you're doing good yes
yes you said no no i want scotch you weren't

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kidding about his ass you could bounce a
quarter off that thing today's the season

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00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:07,840
just tell me one thing is he good and bad now
you know we wouldn't be talking if he were

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don't talk to me like that

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00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:25,920
julie yeah miss jenny yeah she could talk so
you're gonna answer my question what question

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00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:29,680
we were talking about earlier
charles you know i care about you

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00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:34,800
why do we have to define our
relationship because we have one

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00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:38,880
well what's the hurry there's no
hurry been together for six months

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00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:44,800
i don't want to give up my career to follow
you around to different military bases

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00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:50,560
who said anything about that and you don't
even live here you seen somebody else what

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00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:54,880
are you seeing somebody else no

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00:58:57,600 --> 00:58:58,160
i'm serious

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00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:01,860
no

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00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:07,840
i would never ask you to give up your critters
to follow me around you know that right

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00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:17,840
yeah i know

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00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:31,840
i'm not saying this is going to
be easy but we can make this work

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00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:34,080
how can you be so sure

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00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:38,580
i can't

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00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:45,840
i can't predict the future either
but i know we got a shot at one

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do you trust me

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01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:13,840
i already am

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01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:30,160
you know you could have told
me that earlier right now

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01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:41,840
now it's going to be your turn

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01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:55,840
leave them open

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hmm

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Transcript By SHIBAMOON a.k.a CryptoPay

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Transcript By SHIBAMOON a.k.a CryptoPay

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do you want a ride now you know you don't want
to drive to the airport this early in the morning

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01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:33,840
it's freezing out

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01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:41,280
you can put this one under the tree another
one this is for manny the doorman it's a

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01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:50,000
medtech he's from queens i didn't know you
two were friends we're buddies oh the buddies

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01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:58,960
bet you didn't know he was worrying no he never
mentioned it that's because you two aren't buddies

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01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:02,080
this is for you

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01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:15,840
it's a bunch of grandpa music hey that's grown
man music right there crazy woman am i what crazy

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absolutely not

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i'm gonna call you one on one

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be careful i will

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you know you can leave some of your new stuff
here i can clear up some closet space if you want

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okay

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Transcript By SHIBAMOON a.k.a CryptoPay

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01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:50,720
hello guess what chicken butt i'm serious okay
what we're doing a whole series on race in america

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01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:55,040
i'm writing one of the stories and
they want me to be an editor too

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01:04:55,040 --> 01:05:00,800
this is the biggest opportunity they've ever
given me hey congratulations but if i don't notice

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01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:05,680
my career at the times will literally be over
women please no no i'm not kidding don't fire me

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01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:12,720
i can't lose this job charles new york is too
expensive listen they picked you because you're

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01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:20,720
qualified and you do outstanding work i'm proud
of you thank you baby and i can't wait to read

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01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:25,600
what you're writing i gotta start flying to
akron once a week before i write anything

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01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:32,400
i'm not looking forward to that okay well
just give me a couple weeks let me get my

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01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:38,720
new soldier squared away and i'll see if
i can fly down really yeah i love that

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01:05:40,800 --> 01:05:41,680
i'll catch the one

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01:05:47,360 --> 01:05:50,400
you've reached first sergeant charles
king completely the message of the beat

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01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:56,960
hey sweetie i made it back to akron no
i think i was traveling this got me sick

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01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:04,800
anyways i uh i can't wait
to see you call me later bye

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01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:10,720
you've reached first sergeant
charles king please leave the message

402
01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:17,840
charles where are you starting to get worried

403
01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:30,880
charles hey baby where are you i'm at the
hospital one of my soldiers just had a baby

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01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:35,120
i've been calling you i'm sorry
i have to come to the hospital

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01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:41,440
dana he's 19 years old you
know he was scared he needed me

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01:06:42,160 --> 01:06:46,240
they don't have phones at the
hospital it was pretty hectic in here

407
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:51,440
i tried but i couldn't get away since when is
delivering baby is a part of your job description

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01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:58,240
how about we both get some sleep tonight and
uh we'll just talk about it in the morning

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01:06:58,240 --> 01:07:03,520
it is morning and i'm sick as a dog he's stuck in
akron ohio waiting for you i thought you were in a

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01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:08,960
plane crash i'm sorry i should have called you but
you know i have to be there for my men and what

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01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:15,360
about me your official girlfriend i haven't seen
you in two months maybe it's only been six weeks

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01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:23,360
okay i don't i don't think you understand how hurt
i am his wife had complications well what kind

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01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:28,960
i don't know exactly so you've been there
all night and you don't know anything

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01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:34,800
all i know is that she needed a c-section i see

415
01:07:37,280 --> 01:07:41,840
so maybe you're the one that's seeing someone
else what is that why you missed your flight what

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01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:48,880
no no no no no you want to talk to him he's
another room right now no charles you can get your

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01:07:48,880 --> 01:07:54,000
soldiers to say anything that you want come on now
danny you're talking crazy crazy i've been sitting

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01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:58,960
in a hotel room for hours waiting on you why
would i lie to you give me a call to let me know

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01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:09,840
that you were not coming relax i don't need to
relax where you actually i can't do this goodbye

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01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:23,840
um

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01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:29,360
hey manny welcome back this vanity
you got a delivery earlier i hope

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01:08:29,360 --> 01:08:37,840
you don't mind i put it upstairs thanks

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01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:40,320
what are you doing here

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01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:47,200
then i screwed up and i'm sorry no
no you can't just show up like this

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01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:51,360
we haven't spoken in weeks because you
won't during my calls because i didn't

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01:08:51,360 --> 01:08:57,040
want to talk to you i'm sorry i didn't show up
in akron you were right i should have called

427
01:08:57,040 --> 01:09:05,840
you that night i had no idea where you were
or who you were with i wasn't with anybody

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01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:07,380
yeah

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01:09:09,760 --> 01:09:10,260
baby

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01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:15,440
i'm i'm not your father

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01:09:17,920 --> 01:09:19,840
i will never be with another woman

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01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:28,640
i love you you don't love me i do no you
love your men i'm just better looking

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01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:33,840
i love you

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01:09:36,400 --> 01:09:38,720
i might have given you a reason to leave me but

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01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:42,240
i'm never gonna leave you

436
01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:47,840
i love you

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01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:52,720
i love you

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01:09:55,600 --> 01:10:01,840
i'm not going anywhere

439
01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:15,840
okay

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01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:29,840
sometimes i forget you're a soldier

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01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:39,680
that's your question have
you ever been able to stop me

442
01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:49,440
most combat like my dad never talks
about me um you never talk about iraq

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01:10:53,680 --> 01:10:58,400
to be honest i don't remember much smiles

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01:11:01,040 --> 01:11:01,540
sound

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01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:08,800
training kicks in so it's kind of a blur

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01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:11,860
are you scared

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01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:25,840
have you ever actually killed someone

448
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:53,840
how can you be a soldier and believe in god

449
01:11:55,600 --> 01:12:07,840
i believe in evil too protecting
people who can't protect themselves

450
01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:21,840
um

451
01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:36,720
are you out of your mind don't forget
you're on the street taking fire you

452
01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:41,680
guys looking real weak out here huh
you see these guys for you everybody

453
01:12:41,680 --> 01:12:44,480
look at this okay look at that
they're gonna die for you huh

454
01:12:45,440 --> 01:12:49,840
yeah keep moving your feet

455
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:03,840
yes

456
01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:17,840
here

457
01:13:27,520 --> 01:13:31,840
excuse me

458
01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:36,800
charles yeah yeah i'm fine i'm fine

459
01:13:36,800 --> 01:13:45,840
yes i'm safe where are you i'm at the office
you're watching this oh my god oh my god

460
01:13:49,440 --> 01:13:51,840
okay i want you to go home and
don't leave call your parents

461
01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:54,000
and tell them not to leave the
house either don't do anything

462
01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:58,880
so you hear from me you got it yeah yes yes
i got i got it i got it all right i gotta go

463
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:13,840
please be careful

464
01:14:25,760 --> 01:14:27,840
when you follow

465
01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:41,840
hey sweetie how was school why

466
01:14:55,200 --> 01:14:55,840
may i come in

467
01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:04,720
do you want to talk no

468
01:15:07,200 --> 01:15:09,840
jordan monroe king look at me

469
01:15:11,840 --> 01:15:18,080
oh my god baby what happened you got in the fight
with who lance oh i'm calling the principal and

470
01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:25,040
i want to talk to that boy's parents mom no
snitches get stitches if i snitch i'm dead

471
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:35,280
jordan why were you fighting they called me a
wigger a white [ Transcript By SHIBAMOONTranscript By SHIBAMOON ] they say all kinds of stuff

472
01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:42,880
like what like if i'm black how come
i'm not good at basketball oh sweetie

473
01:15:46,080 --> 01:15:51,840
they said my dad wasn't a soldier they
said if he's black he's probably in prison

474
01:15:58,000 --> 01:15:58,500
okay

475
01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:05,840
come with me

476
01:16:07,360 --> 01:16:08,400
take your coat off sit down

477
01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:19,840
we're in trouble

478
01:16:20,480 --> 01:16:20,980
read it

479
01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:25,440
out loud

480
01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:39,120
jordan you are african-american no
one can ever take that away from you

481
01:16:45,520 --> 01:16:49,840
you will be challenged because of your
complexion in the color of your eyes

482
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:54,960
but let your character and
deeds shine in everything you do

483
01:16:56,800 --> 01:17:01,840
and never forget where you came from

484
01:17:03,280 --> 01:17:03,780
what's this

485
01:17:06,240 --> 01:17:07,120
your dad wrote it

486
01:17:11,360 --> 01:17:17,280
he wrote everything in there just for you
you're old enough now so i want you to read it

487
01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:40,720
everyone happy birthday to you happy birthday

488
01:17:40,720 --> 01:17:43,840
happy birthday

489
01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:52,320
y'all know it's not my birthday are y'all trying
to scam free dessert well you wouldn't let us

490
01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:58,160
celebrate last year and i know how much
you hate it on the actual day so a wish

491
01:18:03,760 --> 01:18:11,840
you guys open mine first fine

492
01:18:18,960 --> 01:18:23,760
is this what i think it is if you will let
me set you up on days you should at least

493
01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:29,040
have some pleasure i go on dates three dates and
one night stand and over a decade does not count

494
01:18:30,320 --> 01:18:35,040
well do you want to play it in plug it in and
then work your way up to the highest setting

495
01:18:35,040 --> 01:18:39,040
slowly not too slowly you have
one too oh yeah yeah we all do

496
01:18:39,040 --> 01:18:43,280
better than most boyfriends no i don't know
about that football well i do it's better

497
01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:53,840
than my husband half the time i'll tell you
that [ Transcript By SHIBAMOONTranscript By SHIBAMOON ] wish i could plug his asset woof

498
01:19:06,960 --> 01:19:11,840
for attention what's up you think we
could go see my sister in texas soon

499
01:19:11,840 --> 01:19:15,040
christina of course baby we should see her more

500
01:19:15,600 --> 01:19:21,840
my dad said he wanted us to get to know
each other well we can do that come here

501
01:19:28,320 --> 01:19:30,000
how come you barely ever talk about him

502
01:19:35,200 --> 01:19:37,040
well sometimes it hurts to remember

503
01:19:39,040 --> 01:19:44,400
but i think about him all the time and i
read love too that makes me feel better

504
01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:52,960
why don't we have any preachers it we do
just pop one on your desk with the balloons

505
01:19:56,800 --> 01:19:57,440
we'll put more

506
01:19:59,760 --> 01:20:03,840
folded flag like nana and grandpa

507
01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:17,840
the technical

508
01:20:19,840 --> 01:20:31,840
your father

509
01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:44,960
my fellow citizens in this hour american
and coalition forces are in the early stages

510
01:20:44,960 --> 01:20:51,280
of military operations to disarm iraq to free
its people and to defend the world from grand

511
01:20:51,280 --> 01:20:59,840
danger on my order coalition forces have begun
striking selected targets of military importance

512
01:21:25,200 --> 01:21:27,840
what's wrong

513
01:21:32,080 --> 01:21:41,840
hmm

514
01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:55,840
when do you deploy

515
01:22:02,880 --> 01:22:09,840
when can i see you

516
01:22:35,520 --> 01:22:37,840
charles i need to talk to you coming
back right away it's an emergency

517
01:23:04,480 --> 01:23:05,840
is everything okay

518
01:23:08,160 --> 01:23:11,360
are you okay yes but i don't want
to talk about it on the phone

519
01:23:14,720 --> 01:23:22,160
talk about what can you come this weekend please
okay well maybe i can come and see you dana

520
01:23:23,120 --> 01:23:29,520
tell me what's wrong i want to have
a baby what i want to get pregnant

521
01:23:42,640 --> 01:23:48,400
and not just report on it and i want to live
it with you so please have a baby with me

522
01:23:51,920 --> 01:23:56,640
absolutely well you don't well
you don't want to take a second

523
01:23:56,640 --> 01:23:59,920
to think about it i'm not asking for
a puppy i don't need to think about it

524
01:24:11,360 --> 01:24:15,840
what if i can't get pregnant
marry me what marry me

525
01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:29,840
okay okay is that a yes charles
monroe king yes i will marry you

526
01:24:34,160 --> 01:24:37,760
she said yes sir i'm getting married

527
01:24:43,440 --> 01:24:43,940
you're done

528
01:24:49,200 --> 01:24:57,840
what is this a gift we're going to see dad

529
01:24:58,560 --> 01:25:05,920
jordan i have work mom it's on a weekend
it's only washington dc it's not that far

530
01:25:09,360 --> 01:25:11,840
baby give me your auntie a minute please

531
01:25:13,920 --> 01:25:14,420
good luck

532
01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:25,840
you have no right to do this miriam the
hell i don't he's my godson i love him too

533
01:25:25,840 --> 01:25:31,040
who's paying for this it's taken care of so
this was your idea no jordans he emailed me

534
01:25:32,240 --> 01:25:35,440
he needs this trip you both do

535
01:25:38,320 --> 01:25:40,080
hey listen

536
01:25:42,240 --> 01:25:44,000
it's not like charles left you with nothing

537
01:25:45,680 --> 01:25:49,680
we both know that little man in there
is special and he needs you right now

538
01:25:52,160 --> 01:25:53,840
he's not going to be a kid forever

539
01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:19,440
sorry folks we're headed for more choppy air

540
01:26:20,000 --> 01:26:35,840
please return to your seats and keep
your seat belts securely fastened

541
01:26:46,960 --> 01:26:52,960
look at you welcome home it's good to be back

542
01:26:55,360 --> 01:26:57,840
we missed you what i missed you too

543
01:27:00,880 --> 01:27:06,960
no what no soldiers in this house wow just me

544
01:27:12,320 --> 01:27:17,840
there we go go ahead

545
01:27:24,640 --> 01:27:25,140
heartbeat

546
01:27:28,080 --> 01:27:31,840
thank you

547
01:27:32,720 --> 01:27:40,160
i love you too that's one
of those sex yes it's a boy

548
01:27:43,200 --> 01:27:44,800
oh what's up little fella

549
01:27:59,120 --> 01:28:02,400
say he's a boy he's a boy

550
01:28:05,280 --> 01:28:09,920
there's enough money in these accounts so you can
withdraw whenever you need to my combat pay gets

551
01:28:09,920 --> 01:28:14,880
deposited on the 15th of every month i'm not gonna
need to spend much of this so it's gonna add up

552
01:28:16,160 --> 01:28:23,280
okay this is a power of attorney so you can sign
up for my military defendant can i show a question

553
01:28:24,640 --> 01:28:31,280
yeah sure when people go to
war what do they do about sex

554
01:28:36,160 --> 01:28:43,040
i i don't i don't know i never think about it
i'm not worried about getting shot i am horny

555
01:28:45,440 --> 01:28:49,600
i was just thinking that if you need sex in iraq

556
01:28:49,600 --> 01:28:55,840
i mean to help you get through it i want
you to know that you have my permission

557
01:28:56,640 --> 01:29:03,680
have you lost your mind i'm serious me too if you
need human contact or someone to hold or to be

558
01:29:03,680 --> 01:29:09,840
held then i don't want another woman and
i'll never disrespect you or my son like that

559
01:29:12,960 --> 01:29:14,800
and i hope you don't expect me to extend that same

560
01:29:14,800 --> 01:29:23,840
offer because you better
keep that [ Transcript By SHIBAMOONTranscript By SHIBAMOON ] locked up

561
01:29:34,400 --> 01:29:38,800
i want you to keep this someplace safe just
in case nothing is going to happen to you

562
01:29:39,600 --> 01:29:51,840
i know but i got you something about
funeral arrangements or anything like that

563
01:29:56,160 --> 01:30:05,840
what's this it's a journal so you can write
to your son even if it's just a page or two

564
01:30:08,320 --> 01:30:19,840
open it

565
01:30:21,840 --> 01:30:22,400
i um

566
01:30:25,040 --> 01:30:29,040
i don't know what to say what
what do i what do i write

567
01:30:30,320 --> 01:30:34,240
well it's especially for dads so there's
some questions to get you started

568
01:30:40,320 --> 01:30:41,200
tell them who you are

569
01:30:43,920 --> 01:30:47,840
what you believe in

570
01:30:53,840 --> 01:30:54,880
and tell them you love them

571
01:31:01,120 --> 01:31:01,840
just so i know

572
01:31:30,960 --> 01:31:37,840
jordan always remember your thoughts and actions
must be open to change and improvement but your

573
01:31:37,840 --> 01:31:47,520
convictions must be non-negotiable so live by your
convictions and on your journey if you ever get

574
01:31:47,520 --> 01:31:53,120
down and feel like you need to talk to someone
then talk to the one who can do something about

575
01:31:57,040 --> 01:32:00,560
mom it you said my dad couldn't
come home when i was born

576
01:32:02,720 --> 01:32:04,080
no sweetie why

577
01:32:04,080 --> 01:32:13,120
not can you hear me yeah yeah i can
hear you hey baby girl how you doing

578
01:32:15,200 --> 01:32:18,400
i'm good hang on hang on say hi to your son

579
01:32:20,720 --> 01:32:21,920
hey what's up soldier

580
01:32:24,160 --> 01:32:34,000
oh he's kicking here's you he hears you yeah
you know daddy boyce we miss you i miss you too

581
01:32:34,800 --> 01:32:39,840
how are you gainfully employed would
definitely be an understatement

582
01:32:40,960 --> 01:32:48,160
sorry i haven't called you it's been three weeks
where are you i want to look at it on my map

583
01:32:49,360 --> 01:32:57,200
no i can't tell you that thank you for my
pictures though you look beautiful i mean [ Transcript By SHIBAMOONTranscript By SHIBAMOON ]

584
01:32:57,200 --> 01:33:02,080
i love in the belly yeah it's easy for you to say
you're not the one who has to carry him around

585
01:33:03,200 --> 01:33:07,840
it's true it's true can't wait to meet him

586
01:33:09,760 --> 01:33:14,160
which reminds me you need to tell me where
you're coming so i can set a date to be induced

587
01:33:19,920 --> 01:33:25,680
i don't know yet well you must have some idea
haven't you put in a request for your leave

588
01:33:27,520 --> 01:33:28,320
no not yet

589
01:33:32,320 --> 01:33:35,840
wait you're cutting it kind of
close what are you waiting for

590
01:33:45,520 --> 01:33:49,840
i don't know you don't know what

591
01:33:51,360 --> 01:34:03,840
charles yes ma'am what are you telling me

592
01:34:04,560 --> 01:34:05,600
you're not coming are you

593
01:34:10,320 --> 01:34:14,320
hello i just need you to please just try

594
01:34:14,320 --> 01:34:16,960
to understand we just got in
country a couple of months i

595
01:34:29,840 --> 01:34:33,280
that can happen whether you are there or not
it's not like i'm asking you to go to chrome

596
01:34:33,280 --> 01:34:36,880
i can't do this right now david just just
breathe oh please no i know your problem

597
01:34:36,880 --> 01:34:46,080
and you know i love you we need you as much as
they do please please i am begging you hello

598
01:34:46,080 --> 01:34:59,840
i gotta go no don't don't get off this
phone please charles no no no no charles

599
01:35:06,640 --> 01:35:08,960
son i couldn't be at your birth because of the war

600
01:35:12,080 --> 01:35:13,840
i hope you and your mother can forgive me

601
01:35:16,560 --> 01:35:20,000
every time i roll out of that gate
i pray i don't run out of time

602
01:35:21,120 --> 01:35:23,920
time with you time with your mother

603
01:35:26,080 --> 01:35:30,880
so much to do jordan but i had
faith that you are safe and sound

604
01:35:32,800 --> 01:35:34,800
because you're surrounded by strong women

605
01:35:37,440 --> 01:35:41,840
these are your first teachers little prince

606
01:35:43,520 --> 01:35:50,880
and all of these women embody the reasons you
should never ever disrespect or lay your hand

607
01:35:50,880 --> 01:35:58,480
against any woman the woman you choose to be your
partner should guard your friendship first son

608
01:36:05,920 --> 01:36:13,440
and just like you she should be honorable
and take pride in how she carries herself

609
01:36:20,880 --> 01:36:23,840
but remember

610
01:36:29,120 --> 01:36:37,840
and real beauty comes from deep inside

611
01:36:40,640 --> 01:36:44,400
pfc coats here first idea private brain

612
01:36:46,640 --> 01:36:50,960
just take one look at your mind
and that'll tell you what i think

613
01:37:03,040 --> 01:37:05,840
life

614
01:37:52,240 --> 01:38:06,720
welcome home daddy come on meet
your son hey hey oh my god hey hi hi

615
01:38:08,800 --> 01:38:15,840
this boy is so special you're so cute you're
gonna be a blessing to everybody you mean

616
01:38:19,760 --> 01:38:24,800
someone else thought i was his nanny today
he's so light-skinned no one thinks he's

617
01:38:24,800 --> 01:38:29,840
mine he just gets that from my
mom so you know what i did what

618
01:38:41,440 --> 01:38:57,840
then that way people you won't think twice

619
01:39:05,200 --> 01:39:05,920
are you all right

620
01:39:08,320 --> 01:39:12,880
yeah it's just asthma since
when do you have asthma

621
01:39:15,200 --> 01:39:21,600
our bases buy a power plant doc said properly
got it there it's nothing are you sure

622
01:39:23,920 --> 01:39:26,320
yes don't worry about it

623
01:39:28,640 --> 01:39:35,280
but i'm serious though i can get you a ring
we could do the whole thing one more time

624
01:39:37,600 --> 01:39:43,200
jordan could be my best man
you mean get married why not

625
01:39:46,480 --> 01:39:50,960
no i don't want to cram my
whole lives into one visit

626
01:39:53,360 --> 01:40:00,880
i want a real wedding with white cali
lilies and flower girls and tulle dresses

627
01:40:02,080 --> 01:40:08,080
welcoming dresses too

628
01:40:08,080 --> 01:40:12,640
look you've got six weeks left i can wait

629
01:40:15,680 --> 01:40:21,840
let's open up

630
01:40:25,920 --> 01:40:35,840
charles yeah

631
01:40:41,520 --> 01:40:50,160
hey we got a surprise for you oh no you
don't we have enough soldiers in the family

632
01:40:50,160 --> 01:40:53,040
all right fine i'll wait till he's 18
and take him down to the recruiters

633
01:40:54,480 --> 01:41:03,840
but in the meantime put this on
what is this just trust us go

634
01:41:09,600 --> 01:41:17,840
where are we i say we're moving on
out moving on up to the east side

635
01:41:28,480 --> 01:41:29,760
why are you doing this

636
01:41:36,320 --> 01:41:45,840
surprise for you now we're up in the big leagues
but take a night turn it back long as we live

637
01:41:50,480 --> 01:41:51,040
thank you

638
01:41:59,280 --> 01:41:59,840
olive oil

639
01:42:02,000 --> 01:42:04,720
extra virgin just like you

640
01:42:07,280 --> 01:42:13,840
used to be

641
01:42:25,040 --> 01:42:27,840
what's going on

642
01:42:29,680 --> 01:42:31,920
can i get a membership into your little voice club

643
01:42:32,800 --> 01:42:35,840
i don't know biscuit what do you
say should we let her in our club

644
01:42:38,800 --> 01:42:45,840
what's that said your application is pending
pending causing shots as much as i whip my

645
01:42:45,840 --> 01:42:54,400
movies out to feed him that's a good point
hold please you sure i don't know uh she's

646
01:42:54,400 --> 01:43:09,840
good looking all right okay okay fine on
the count of the booby thing you said okay

647
01:43:18,720 --> 01:43:23,840
are you okay

648
01:43:27,200 --> 01:43:37,840
charles

649
01:43:39,280 --> 01:43:51,840
ain't that right biscuits

650
01:43:52,560 --> 01:43:54,880
i don't want this one which one

651
01:44:00,720 --> 01:44:05,840
is this you

652
01:44:12,400 --> 01:44:14,480
how about this one

653
01:44:16,720 --> 01:44:20,240
i don't want this one either

654
01:44:20,240 --> 01:44:24,240
can't you just go awol and stay here
with us so you want to marry a coward

655
01:44:26,480 --> 01:44:30,000
all right bye girl yeah that biscuit

656
01:44:30,880 --> 01:44:37,520
she wasn't like that at work love
you take care of your mother farmer

657
01:44:41,280 --> 01:44:47,840
you

658
01:44:57,200 --> 01:45:04,080
i want you to wear your dress blues
a marianna soldier yeah you are

659
01:45:06,800 --> 01:45:07,360
i love you

660
01:45:09,520 --> 01:45:10,400
i love you more

661
01:45:14,880 --> 01:45:23,120
guess what oh god don't start
guess what no guess what say it

662
01:45:25,760 --> 01:45:26,260
chicken

663
01:45:29,040 --> 01:45:29,840
crazy woman

664
01:45:35,520 --> 01:45:43,840
see you biscuit

665
01:46:09,360 --> 01:46:11,840
take care of her

666
01:46:44,960 --> 01:46:47,760
you know technically you didn't free
the slaves they freed themselves

667
01:46:48,640 --> 01:46:54,240
did they the emancipation proclamation only
applied to confederate states but it also allowed

668
01:46:54,240 --> 01:47:00,080
black people to join the army and open the war
someone's been paying attention in history class

669
01:47:02,960 --> 01:47:03,840
how did my dad die

670
01:47:06,880 --> 01:47:21,840
i told you baby all you said was that a
bomb exploded i won't know what happened

671
01:47:22,720 --> 01:47:28,560
your father was a part of the first
battalion 67th armed regiment from fort texas

672
01:47:32,960 --> 01:47:37,680
they called themselves the death dealers
which was fitting because most of their

673
01:47:37,680 --> 01:47:42,080
missions in iraq took part in a place
the military called the triangle of death

674
01:47:44,400 --> 01:47:45,920
your dad's nickname was top

675
01:47:46,640 --> 01:47:54,160
because of his ring he was in charge of
105 men of charlie company their nickname

676
01:47:54,160 --> 01:48:03,840
was the carnivores your dad's job was and i quote
to teach them to stay alive and kill the enemy

677
01:48:05,760 --> 01:48:06,960
on october 14

678
01:48:09,040 --> 01:48:10,000
2006

679
01:48:12,480 --> 01:48:13,600
he took them on a mission

680
01:48:15,680 --> 01:48:20,560
he could have stayed behind that day
he even let his battle buddy sleep in

681
01:48:23,840 --> 01:48:27,680
her dad would never ask his soldiers
to do anything he wouldn't do himself

682
01:48:28,960 --> 01:48:31,840
he went with it with

683
01:48:36,000 --> 01:48:45,840
that's the kind of man the dad was

684
01:49:16,720 --> 01:49:20,640
we trust in you oh god we trust
in you in the name of the father

685
01:49:20,640 --> 01:49:23,200
and the son in the name of jesus christ

686
01:49:26,160 --> 01:49:32,080
amen the mission was to resupply
a place called the island

687
01:49:33,840 --> 01:49:41,840
it was an isolated spot where
about 60 soldiers were posted

688
01:49:46,160 --> 01:49:51,840
at 10 38 in the morning their convoy
passed a place called jerry fossecker

689
01:49:53,520 --> 01:49:55,840
it was about two miles from the island

690
01:50:48,640 --> 01:51:05,840
is um

691
01:51:21,040 --> 01:51:33,840
Transcript By SHIBAMOON a.k.a CryptoPay

692
01:51:36,080 --> 01:51:47,840
Transcript By SHIBAMOON a.k.a CryptoPay

693
01:52:14,320 --> 01:52:15,840
hmm

694
01:52:29,520 --> 01:52:43,840
stay with me

695
01:52:49,920 --> 01:52:57,840
hello i'm good how are you

696
01:52:59,360 --> 01:53:01,600
yeah a couple friends just
walked in what's going on

697
01:53:05,120 --> 01:53:07,120
wait i'm sorry what what happened

698
01:53:23,280 --> 01:53:39,840
where is he nowhere is he tell me where is he

699
01:53:54,640 --> 01:54:07,840
okay

700
01:54:18,720 --> 01:54:24,000
they had a plan in place a secret plan
in case something happened to your father

701
01:54:25,920 --> 01:54:28,240
he didn't want me to be alone
when i heard he was gone

702
01:54:30,960 --> 01:54:32,480
where were we even fighting that war

703
01:54:34,960 --> 01:54:40,880
that depends on who you ask some might say we were
fighting to free a country from a tyrant and stop

704
01:54:40,880 --> 01:54:45,280
terrorists others might say we're the reason
they became terrorists in the first place

705
01:54:47,680 --> 01:54:53,200
but i bet if you asked your father he'd
say he was fighting for his soldiers

706
01:54:54,640 --> 01:54:57,360
to keep them alive and to get them home

707
01:54:59,440 --> 01:55:00,560
but he had to die to do

708
01:55:00,560 --> 01:55:17,840
it that's what heroes do they need

709
01:55:38,640 --> 01:55:45,840
oh

710
01:55:46,720 --> 01:55:50,160
jordan what are you doing working out

711
01:55:50,880 --> 01:55:55,200
my dad said physical fitness is important i've
only got one body i better take care of it

712
01:55:57,680 --> 01:56:02,400
it's working isn't it i'm gonna
go hit the showers and get dressed

713
01:56:04,320 --> 01:56:08,560
maybe we should wait until the rain
lets up no we've got here this morning

714
01:56:10,880 --> 01:56:13,840
get dressed

715
01:56:28,640 --> 01:56:41,840
you brought your soup let's move out

716
01:57:20,400 --> 01:57:20,900
mom

717
01:57:23,440 --> 01:57:26,880
you all right yeah i'm fine

718
01:57:28,960 --> 01:57:37,840
told you the song come out today

719
01:58:14,400 --> 01:58:19,840
uh

720
01:58:27,600 --> 01:58:33,840
let's go

721
01:58:36,720 --> 01:58:47,840
so

722
01:58:50,800 --> 01:58:56,080
what is this i sent an email went a
little viral more people wanted to

723
01:58:56,080 --> 01:59:03,680
come but they couldn't make it jordan
why didn't you just ask me mom hi baby

724
01:59:08,000 --> 01:59:15,840
how are you pumpkin oh my god i
can't believe you guys are here

725
01:59:23,360 --> 01:59:29,840
you helped him with this he
wanted to surprise you it worked

726
01:59:33,280 --> 01:59:35,520
excuse me everybody can i have your attention

727
01:59:41,920 --> 01:59:43,840
mom

728
01:59:54,240 --> 01:59:58,240
thank you all for coming some
of you came from pretty far

729
02:00:00,400 --> 02:00:02,080
i'd like to read this it's from my dad

730
02:00:11,680 --> 02:00:13,440
family means everything jordan

731
02:00:15,840 --> 02:00:20,960
it's why i wake up in the morning it's
why i put on the uniform and risk my life

732
02:00:22,400 --> 02:00:27,040
and the great thing about family is that when
you get older you get to choose who's in it

733
02:00:29,200 --> 02:00:30,560
he underlined the word you

734
02:00:33,920 --> 02:00:38,080
so choose wisely surround yourself
with people that love you for you

735
02:00:38,080 --> 02:00:43,360
and love them back because love is the one
thing in this world that's worth fighting for

736
02:00:47,520 --> 02:00:49,200
so i guess that makes all you my family

737
02:00:51,520 --> 02:00:53,840
mom

738
02:01:01,200 --> 02:01:05,200
since you never got a flag my dad
would want me to make sure you got one

739
02:01:07,680 --> 02:01:09,280
private empire private moment

740
02:01:21,280 --> 02:01:23,600
on behalf of a grateful
nation in charlotte company

741
02:01:25,360 --> 02:01:35,840
we wouldn't be here if it weren't
for top none of us would man

742
02:01:37,040 --> 02:01:49,840
uh

743
02:01:59,040 --> 02:02:03,840
this belongs to you

744
02:02:04,560 --> 02:02:13,520
dear jordan when your father died i thought
my life was over but the truth is it was

745
02:02:13,520 --> 02:02:21,200
just beginning you and your dad both showed me how
beautiful life is when you live it below your neck

746
02:02:22,000 --> 02:02:31,840
and in your heart risky place a heart because
it's fragile so it breaks and it hurts

747
02:02:33,760 --> 02:02:39,360
after your dad left i tried my best to feel
nothing so my heart would never break again

748
02:02:40,720 --> 02:02:47,280
but even pain is better than nothing because
without pain it's impossible to find joy

749
02:02:49,920 --> 02:02:54,880
i hope these words will help you understand
the remarkable love your father and i

750
02:02:54,880 --> 02:03:02,720
shared i want you to have that kind of love
jordan the kind of love that does not ask

751
02:03:02,720 --> 02:03:13,840
her to be anyone other than who she is and that
does not ask any more of you dear heavenly father

752
02:03:20,720 --> 02:03:26,560
my prayer for you jordan is that you carry with
you the knowledge that you will always have two

753
02:03:26,560 --> 02:03:33,600
parents guiding you but my mother's intuition
alone will not be enough to teach you to be a man

754
02:03:35,520 --> 02:03:41,840
for that i give you your father's
journal and the wisdom it contains

755
02:03:43,600 --> 02:03:46,800
its pages should give you an
idea of where you came from

756
02:03:47,760 --> 02:04:09,840
so you can decide on exactly where you're
going i love you son always and forever mom

757
02:04:17,600 --> 02:04:18,100
you