1 00:00:06,740 --> 00:00:10,344 Previously, on The Real Housewives of Orange County. 2 00:00:10,410 --> 00:00:12,112 Vegas! Woo! [cheering] 3 00:00:12,179 --> 00:00:13,847 [screaming] 4 00:00:13,914 --> 00:00:14,648 I won! 5 00:00:14,681 --> 00:00:16,416 Get your head out of my vagina. 6 00:00:16,516 --> 00:00:18,619 Heather brought up that it bothers her 7 00:00:18,685 --> 00:00:19,720 that we room together? 8 00:00:19,820 --> 00:00:21,421 - What? - I know! 9 00:00:21,488 --> 00:00:22,856 She doesn't have the control. 10 00:00:22,923 --> 00:00:25,559 Oh look, I got married right there, at the Villagio. 11 00:00:25,659 --> 00:00:26,927 How did you know he was the one? 12 00:00:26,994 --> 00:00:27,928 I still don't know. 13 00:00:27,995 --> 00:00:30,264 It's hard to find joy in each other. 14 00:00:30,330 --> 00:00:31,189 Yes, dear. 15 00:00:31,256 --> 00:00:32,533 No, that's not what you have to say. 16 00:00:32,599 --> 00:00:34,434 Well, I'm not gonna say what I really want to think, 17 00:00:34,534 --> 00:00:35,936 so I'm saying yes, dear. 18 00:00:36,003 --> 00:00:37,538 It's very contentious right now. 19 00:00:37,638 --> 00:00:38,805 I would love to live by you. 20 00:00:38,939 --> 00:00:41,308 But I'm not gonna spend that much money on a house. 21 00:00:41,441 --> 00:00:42,676 What is your dream of a retirement? 22 00:00:42,743 --> 00:00:43,644 I don't know. 23 00:00:43,677 --> 00:00:45,178 - You gotta help me with it. - I will. 24 00:00:45,245 --> 00:00:47,981 Here I am at 62, realizing you can't ignore 25 00:00:48,048 --> 00:00:49,349 your finances anymore. 26 00:00:49,383 --> 00:00:51,084 Baby, how you feeling? 27 00:00:51,184 --> 00:00:53,987 - Just don't feel well. - I'm so sorry, honey. 28 00:00:54,087 --> 00:00:56,657 Danny's staying with her. 29 00:00:56,790 --> 00:00:59,192 It shouldn't be a big deal that he's taking care of your kids. 30 00:00:59,259 --> 00:01:00,160 I do love him. 31 00:01:00,193 --> 00:01:01,361 I do want to live life with him. 32 00:01:01,428 --> 00:01:04,131 But I have a wall of resentment. 33 00:01:04,197 --> 00:01:06,333 You left your kids in San Diego. 34 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:07,935 - Okay, don't. - That's bizarre to me. 35 00:01:08,001 --> 00:01:10,871 I always put my children first. That's below the belt. 36 00:01:10,938 --> 00:01:12,005 We're not doing children. 37 00:01:12,139 --> 00:01:13,073 Move on. 38 00:01:13,140 --> 00:01:14,741 Don't talk to me that way. 39 00:01:18,070 --> 00:01:20,539 [upbeat music] 40 00:01:31,792 --> 00:01:32,592 Hi. 41 00:01:32,659 --> 00:01:33,660 Hello. 42 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:34,695 I'm here to get an IV. 43 00:01:34,761 --> 00:01:35,862 Thank you for having us. 44 00:01:35,896 --> 00:01:37,731 We're all set for you. Come on back. 45 00:01:37,798 --> 00:01:39,558 - Hi, Victoria! - Hi my love. 46 00:01:39,591 --> 00:01:41,068 Ready for an IV. 47 00:01:41,134 --> 00:01:42,436 And some fried chicken! 48 00:01:42,502 --> 00:01:44,404 - I love chicken. - Oh, my God. Look at you. 49 00:01:44,471 --> 00:01:45,672 Is it Diet Coke? 50 00:01:45,739 --> 00:01:47,766 - Yes, Diet Coke. - Thank you so much. 51 00:01:47,833 --> 00:01:49,209 You're the hostest with the mostest. 52 00:01:49,242 --> 00:01:50,711 I think this is from the south, right? 53 00:01:50,777 --> 00:01:51,712 I think so. 54 00:01:51,845 --> 00:01:53,271 I kind of feel like Brooks would eat this, 55 00:01:53,338 --> 00:01:55,248 - like Mississippi style. - Oh, my God, I can't believe 56 00:01:55,315 --> 00:01:56,049 you said Brooks. 57 00:01:56,083 --> 00:01:58,243 Hi, guys! Welcome to Revitalize. 58 00:01:58,276 --> 00:01:59,353 Hi. 59 00:01:59,419 --> 00:02:00,721 It looks like we're gonna do a Meyers cocktail. 60 00:02:00,787 --> 00:02:03,557 Good hydration, energy, immune boost. 61 00:02:03,690 --> 00:02:04,958 Is that the after Vegas... 62 00:02:05,025 --> 00:02:06,118 After Vegas cure. 63 00:02:06,184 --> 00:02:07,728 I don't know what's harder, 64 00:02:07,761 --> 00:02:09,254 being in Vegas with you ladies 65 00:02:09,287 --> 00:02:10,497 or being at home with my children. 66 00:02:10,564 --> 00:02:12,290 Being at home with your children. 67 00:02:12,357 --> 00:02:14,267 - It's all exhausting. - It's all exhausting. 68 00:02:14,301 --> 00:02:15,636 The minute I get home, 69 00:02:15,702 --> 00:02:18,572 he's like, "I've been with them for four days straight, so..." 70 00:02:18,605 --> 00:02:19,965 - "Here they are." - "Here they are." 71 00:02:20,032 --> 00:02:22,409 There's no, "How was Vegas? 72 00:02:22,476 --> 00:02:23,477 "Was it fun? 73 00:02:23,577 --> 00:02:24,936 "Did you have a good time?" 74 00:02:24,970 --> 00:02:26,947 It's like, transactional. 75 00:02:27,014 --> 00:02:27,914 It's like, tuck and roll. 76 00:02:27,981 --> 00:02:28,974 It's like, he's like, 77 00:02:29,041 --> 00:02:30,751 he's already driving down the street. 78 00:02:30,817 --> 00:02:32,152 [chuckling] 79 00:02:32,252 --> 00:02:34,087 Not to talk about me for a second, 80 00:02:34,121 --> 00:02:36,715 but my spike protein is at 2800, 81 00:02:36,815 --> 00:02:38,625 I just... It's over 2800. 82 00:02:38,692 --> 00:02:40,660 We should be between zero and point four. 83 00:02:40,727 --> 00:02:41,728 I don't know what spike protein-- 84 00:02:41,795 --> 00:02:42,462 Google it. 85 00:02:42,529 --> 00:02:43,263 It's not good. 86 00:02:43,296 --> 00:02:44,456 I don't have my phone, but... 87 00:02:44,489 --> 00:02:45,499 Spike protein can persist 88 00:02:45,565 --> 00:02:47,059 in the brain's protective layers, 89 00:02:47,159 --> 00:02:49,436 contributing to long-lasting neurological symptoms. 90 00:02:49,503 --> 00:02:52,506 So now when I tell you I can't remember Carmilla's name... 91 00:02:52,606 --> 00:02:54,174 Carmella. 92 00:02:54,241 --> 00:02:55,300 Now you know why. 93 00:02:55,333 --> 00:02:58,178 [upbeat music] 94 00:03:05,085 --> 00:03:07,187 - Hello! - Hi! 95 00:03:07,254 --> 00:03:07,954 [kisses] 96 00:03:08,021 --> 00:03:09,289 - You look great. - Thank you! 97 00:03:09,423 --> 00:03:12,359 - This place looks cool. - Let's go over here and sit. 98 00:03:12,426 --> 00:03:13,860 - How are things going? - Good. 99 00:03:13,927 --> 00:03:14,828 Good. 100 00:03:14,861 --> 00:03:16,697 I'm excited for you. So. 101 00:03:16,763 --> 00:03:18,765 So, you saw the place I texted you that Max sent me. 102 00:03:18,832 --> 00:03:20,634 - Yes. - Do you call that South County? 103 00:03:20,700 --> 00:03:21,827 Kind of North County. 104 00:03:21,860 --> 00:03:23,403 But it's south from here. 105 00:03:23,470 --> 00:03:24,304 Yeah, it's south from here. 106 00:03:24,371 --> 00:03:25,639 Okay, great. 107 00:03:25,672 --> 00:03:27,507 And I know rentals are, you know, below your pay grade. 108 00:03:27,541 --> 00:03:29,142 - I'll do them. - But I want to find her 109 00:03:29,209 --> 00:03:31,712 something that she will, like, be happy. 110 00:03:31,778 --> 00:03:34,514 Max, she's gotten into a whole bunch of law schools. 111 00:03:34,581 --> 00:03:37,217 - Yeah. - One is in San Diego. 112 00:03:37,317 --> 00:03:38,952 So I wanted to talk to you. 113 00:03:39,052 --> 00:03:41,121 I know you don't do rentals and stuff like that. 114 00:03:41,221 --> 00:03:44,691 - I'll totally do rentals. - Really? Aw, thank you! 115 00:03:44,724 --> 00:03:47,394 The ones she sent that are in La Jolla, 116 00:03:47,461 --> 00:03:49,596 it's very difficult to get in and out of. 117 00:03:49,663 --> 00:03:51,932 So, if she has a four o'clock class, 118 00:03:52,032 --> 00:03:54,201 it's gonna take her 40 minutes to get to school. 119 00:03:54,267 --> 00:03:56,303 So, I'd like to show you, 120 00:03:56,369 --> 00:03:59,506 I love this place, within 15 minutes. 121 00:03:59,573 --> 00:04:00,974 It's in Banker's Hill. 122 00:04:01,074 --> 00:04:02,509 Which is a great area. 123 00:04:02,576 --> 00:04:04,244 Oh, this is very cool. 124 00:04:04,311 --> 00:04:05,345 It's really cool. 125 00:04:05,378 --> 00:04:07,914 Coffee shops, I mean it's just a vibe. 126 00:04:07,981 --> 00:04:11,685 Carmella is a real estate agent in this exact area, 127 00:04:11,752 --> 00:04:16,857 plus her kids are really similarly aged to my kids. 128 00:04:16,923 --> 00:04:18,325 Seems like a no brainer. 129 00:04:18,391 --> 00:04:19,993 These are so cool, though, thank you. 130 00:04:20,060 --> 00:04:21,795 I thought it's a nice, like, option. 131 00:04:21,895 --> 00:04:24,364 I want to do everything I can to get your baby home, so. 132 00:04:24,397 --> 00:04:25,398 Thank you. 133 00:04:25,432 --> 00:04:27,801 So what's going on on the friend front? 134 00:04:27,901 --> 00:04:29,369 Like, look, I was upset with Emily. 135 00:04:29,402 --> 00:04:31,388 I didn't really like sort of, 136 00:04:31,421 --> 00:04:34,274 all of these character assassination vibes 137 00:04:34,374 --> 00:04:35,742 she was giving me. 138 00:04:35,809 --> 00:04:39,746 She doesn't like when you try to tell her how she should operate. 139 00:04:39,813 --> 00:04:40,881 I don't care. 140 00:04:40,981 --> 00:04:42,616 And now you're acting like you're a rule follower. 141 00:04:42,716 --> 00:04:44,885 Does anyone else have some, 142 00:04:44,918 --> 00:04:47,220 does the waiter need to talk to me? 143 00:04:47,287 --> 00:04:48,522 I mean, we're adults. 144 00:04:48,588 --> 00:04:50,081 It hurts our group, honestly. 145 00:04:50,115 --> 00:04:53,126 [upbeat music] 146 00:04:58,832 --> 00:05:00,834 Yeah! Come on. 147 00:05:00,901 --> 00:05:03,261 Good boy. 148 00:05:03,295 --> 00:05:04,738 Come here. Come on, Troy. 149 00:05:04,804 --> 00:05:06,139 No, no, no. This way. 150 00:05:06,206 --> 00:05:07,240 No, no, no. Troy. 151 00:05:07,307 --> 00:05:08,742 Troy. Troy. 152 00:05:08,808 --> 00:05:10,110 - Hi there. - Hello! 153 00:05:10,143 --> 00:05:11,678 - Hi. Welcome. - How are you? 154 00:05:11,745 --> 00:05:13,713 - Thank you for having us. - Yeah. 155 00:05:13,780 --> 00:05:16,416 I love your outfit. 156 00:05:16,449 --> 00:05:17,951 Top of the morning! 157 00:05:17,984 --> 00:05:19,186 Why does this not surprise me about you? 158 00:05:19,286 --> 00:05:21,321 Well, I know. I have to every year. 159 00:05:21,388 --> 00:05:22,255 What do you call your dog? 160 00:05:22,322 --> 00:05:23,523 That's Rita. 161 00:05:23,590 --> 00:05:25,659 - Hiya, whatcha doing? - She had to get a new harness, 162 00:05:25,725 --> 00:05:27,485 Shannon, because, we grew. 163 00:05:27,552 --> 00:05:29,696 - Move it, chubby! Just kidding. - That's Chubbs. 164 00:05:29,763 --> 00:05:31,097 She needs Ozempic! 165 00:05:31,164 --> 00:05:33,325 I got someone who's kind of like, the death of me over here. 166 00:05:33,391 --> 00:05:35,635 - Well he's gonna learn today. - I say it in a loving, 167 00:05:35,669 --> 00:05:36,636 loving way. 168 00:05:36,670 --> 00:05:39,673 Troy is very, very sweet. But it is a lot. 169 00:05:39,739 --> 00:05:40,840 I think you've got a wonderful dog, 170 00:05:40,941 --> 00:05:43,001 he could just do even better with some basics. 171 00:05:43,068 --> 00:05:44,544 You want to practice some of this? 172 00:05:44,611 --> 00:05:47,013 Sure. I mean, Troy has eaten 173 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:51,084 well over $12,000 worth of shoes. 174 00:05:51,184 --> 00:05:52,310 Come, touch! 175 00:05:52,344 --> 00:05:54,421 Yes. Touch! Yes. 176 00:05:54,521 --> 00:05:55,814 Troy, touch. 177 00:05:55,847 --> 00:05:56,690 Yes. 178 00:05:56,756 --> 00:05:57,958 He'd be getting an A in my class. 179 00:05:58,024 --> 00:05:59,659 We're gonna give you guys a break, we're gonna go 180 00:05:59,726 --> 00:06:00,460 potty these guys, okay? 181 00:06:00,493 --> 00:06:01,419 - Okay. - Okay. 182 00:06:01,519 --> 00:06:02,562 [kissing noise] Come on, Troy. 183 00:06:02,662 --> 00:06:03,521 Thank you. 184 00:06:03,588 --> 00:06:04,664 She was a little slower than Troy. 185 00:06:04,731 --> 00:06:06,633 We have such good kids. 186 00:06:06,700 --> 00:06:08,335 Anything new? How you feel since Vegas? 187 00:06:08,401 --> 00:06:10,036 Tired. I'm an old lady. 188 00:06:10,103 --> 00:06:11,972 I am an old lady. 189 00:06:12,038 --> 00:06:13,740 After the last dinner in Vegas, 190 00:06:13,840 --> 00:06:14,874 did you guys go out? 191 00:06:14,941 --> 00:06:16,243 We went to Heather's room. 192 00:06:16,343 --> 00:06:17,510 Oh, Heather's room. 193 00:06:17,577 --> 00:06:20,347 Did you guys catch us walking through the casino, 194 00:06:20,413 --> 00:06:23,316 and Heather was in the front, and she's like this. 195 00:06:23,350 --> 00:06:24,843 - Yeah. - I mean it was ridiculous. 196 00:06:24,876 --> 00:06:27,454 She's gotta be front and center always getting the room key, 197 00:06:27,554 --> 00:06:28,989 getting this. And like, we're all here together 198 00:06:29,055 --> 00:06:29,823 as a family. 199 00:06:29,856 --> 00:06:31,224 She's very entitled. 200 00:06:31,291 --> 00:06:35,128 She makes me feel like she's ahead of the troops and... 201 00:06:35,228 --> 00:06:36,263 We have to fall in line. 202 00:06:36,329 --> 00:06:37,597 You guys can do that, I'm not gonna follow. 203 00:06:37,664 --> 00:06:39,391 Well, I'm not either. I go rogue all the time. 204 00:06:39,457 --> 00:06:40,867 That's why she's always mad at me. 205 00:06:40,934 --> 00:06:43,703 And when she got in your face and yelled at you at the casino. 206 00:06:43,770 --> 00:06:45,338 - To stand down. - You saw that? 207 00:06:45,372 --> 00:06:47,507 She was like in her face. If I would've done that, 208 00:06:47,540 --> 00:06:48,675 or you've done that, 209 00:06:48,708 --> 00:06:49,809 you know what we've been called? 210 00:06:49,876 --> 00:06:51,044 - Aggressive. - Aggressive 211 00:06:51,077 --> 00:06:53,213 It wasn't about her, and she chimed in. 212 00:06:53,246 --> 00:06:55,282 Well, what you did, what you said was not nice to Carmella. 213 00:06:55,348 --> 00:06:56,249 - Of course. - It wasn't. 214 00:06:56,316 --> 00:06:57,450 And I apologized, and we moved on-- 215 00:06:57,517 --> 00:06:59,152 And we all told Vicki that, but the point is, 216 00:06:59,219 --> 00:07:02,255 Victoria can address it with Carmella herself. 217 00:07:02,322 --> 00:07:03,415 Yeah. 218 00:07:03,481 --> 00:07:04,658 I think with Vicki, I mean, 219 00:07:04,758 --> 00:07:07,360 do you feel like you let her off pretty easy too? 220 00:07:07,427 --> 00:07:08,995 I do. I do. 221 00:07:09,062 --> 00:07:10,964 Because once I went home from Vegas, I was like, 222 00:07:11,064 --> 00:07:13,099 okay, this isn't sitting well with me. 223 00:07:13,166 --> 00:07:14,701 I'm a chronic overthinker. 224 00:07:14,734 --> 00:07:17,671 And so usually something happens and then later I ruminate. 225 00:07:17,737 --> 00:07:20,598 And I'm feeling like Vicki's apology 226 00:07:20,665 --> 00:07:22,542 is more for her than for me. 227 00:07:22,575 --> 00:07:24,936 She knows she looks like a dumbass, 228 00:07:25,003 --> 00:07:27,380 so I'm questioning, is this genuine, 229 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:31,618 or are we gonna see this repeat itself. 230 00:07:31,685 --> 00:07:34,721 Is it just that you lose your filter as you get older? 231 00:07:34,754 --> 00:07:37,415 'Cause I think back to like when Betty White was alive. 232 00:07:37,449 --> 00:07:38,825 Like, she could say whatever she wanted, 233 00:07:38,892 --> 00:07:39,926 'cause she was Betty White. Yeah. 234 00:07:39,993 --> 00:07:42,562 So it's like, you just lose that filter. 235 00:07:42,595 --> 00:07:43,997 She kind of reminds me of her. 236 00:07:44,064 --> 00:07:46,066 - She just spits things out. - Yes. 237 00:07:46,132 --> 00:07:48,068 And you're like, where did that come from? 238 00:07:48,101 --> 00:07:49,336 [chuckles] 239 00:07:49,402 --> 00:07:51,871 She's hilarious, and that's why I think everyone goes, 240 00:07:51,972 --> 00:07:53,940 - "Oh, it's just Vicki." - Mm-hm. 241 00:07:54,007 --> 00:07:56,643 - Vicki just says stuff. - Yeah. 242 00:07:56,710 --> 00:07:58,178 - What is that? - That was a lot. 243 00:07:58,278 --> 00:08:01,348 Carmella, she was just, really grateful for the apology 244 00:08:01,448 --> 00:08:02,916 instead of taking Vicki to task. 245 00:08:02,949 --> 00:08:04,209 It's not only that. 246 00:08:04,309 --> 00:08:06,753 Tamra was upset when we were at the gambling tables 247 00:08:06,820 --> 00:08:09,656 and Heather was advocating for Carmella. 248 00:08:09,723 --> 00:08:11,291 The girl's ----ing crying. 249 00:08:11,324 --> 00:08:13,126 I know, but you thought it was weird. 250 00:08:13,159 --> 00:08:16,029 I said to her, "It is weird that you said to her 251 00:08:16,096 --> 00:08:17,597 I'm gonna give you $20,000." 252 00:08:17,731 --> 00:08:19,899 It is weird but you're over here trying to be the savior. 253 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:20,967 No, I'm not. 254 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:22,602 She was saying, it's like, hypocritical. 255 00:08:22,736 --> 00:08:26,606 She said Heather was anti-Carmella. 256 00:08:26,639 --> 00:08:28,775 And now all of a sudden, she's trying to save her. 257 00:08:28,908 --> 00:08:31,678 No, no, no. I'm not gonna allow her to be spoken to that way. 258 00:08:31,745 --> 00:08:34,014 Heather was the one that was questioning her the most. 259 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:35,682 I guess she has said some things. 260 00:08:35,749 --> 00:08:37,150 It's frustrating. 261 00:08:37,183 --> 00:08:40,453 It feels like Heather has moves that she makes off-camera. 262 00:08:40,487 --> 00:08:43,623 And it's hard to sit on the other side 263 00:08:43,690 --> 00:08:46,026 of the friendship, and be like, well I genuinely love you, 264 00:08:46,126 --> 00:08:48,294 and I genuinely want this friendship with you. 265 00:08:48,328 --> 00:08:49,662 It feels calculated. 266 00:08:49,696 --> 00:08:52,399 I don't know. You know? I don't know. 267 00:08:52,465 --> 00:08:53,633 When Carmella's not around, 268 00:08:53,666 --> 00:08:55,360 she says a lot about Carmella. 269 00:08:55,427 --> 00:08:57,695 She's over here going, "She doesn't fit in!" 270 00:08:57,762 --> 00:08:58,538 [gasps] 271 00:08:58,605 --> 00:08:59,864 She does. Yeah. 272 00:08:59,931 --> 00:09:01,975 Heather was not a fan of Carmella 273 00:09:02,042 --> 00:09:03,276 when we first met her. 274 00:09:03,343 --> 00:09:07,313 She made it very clear multiple times off camera 275 00:09:07,447 --> 00:09:10,650 that she thought that she was trashy looking 276 00:09:10,784 --> 00:09:12,919 and that she didn't fit in 277 00:09:13,019 --> 00:09:15,288 with the group and that she shouldn't be here. 278 00:09:15,355 --> 00:09:16,756 Oh, they just opened the caviar store. 279 00:09:16,823 --> 00:09:17,624 Do you eat caviar? 280 00:09:17,724 --> 00:09:19,384 I eat toast and monster. 281 00:09:19,451 --> 00:09:21,494 [echoing] 282 00:09:21,628 --> 00:09:22,829 I heard her, I walked behind her. 283 00:09:22,929 --> 00:09:25,064 She was like, all up in, she was, you know. 284 00:09:25,165 --> 00:09:26,800 She was very Heather Dubrow. 285 00:09:26,900 --> 00:09:30,670 [whooshing] 286 00:09:30,804 --> 00:09:33,106 But then when she was crying at the table, 287 00:09:33,173 --> 00:09:36,409 Heather was the first one to go over there and coddle her. 288 00:09:36,476 --> 00:09:38,545 Yes, but then she walks off and says she shouldn't be 289 00:09:38,611 --> 00:09:39,846 in this group. 290 00:09:39,879 --> 00:09:42,407 It's gonna be devastating for her if she finds out 291 00:09:42,474 --> 00:09:44,517 that Heather really feels this way about her, 292 00:09:44,584 --> 00:09:46,419 and that their relationship is a sham. 293 00:09:46,486 --> 00:09:48,713 It's all so messy, Dubrow. 294 00:09:48,746 --> 00:09:49,789 So, so messy. 295 00:09:49,856 --> 00:09:51,858 That's compassion. I mean, I like compassion, 296 00:09:51,891 --> 00:09:54,527 - if Carmella was sad-- - It's not compassion! 297 00:09:54,561 --> 00:09:56,721 No, Carmella was crying, then she was hugging her, 298 00:09:56,754 --> 00:09:58,198 - that's compassion. - No, but then she walks away. 299 00:09:58,298 --> 00:09:59,699 And then she went and talked sh-- about it. 300 00:09:59,732 --> 00:10:02,327 - Well, that's not compassion. - That's called hypocrite. 301 00:10:02,427 --> 00:10:05,238 But Carmella was feeling like, okay, I have a friend, she's-- 302 00:10:05,271 --> 00:10:06,072 Well, because of you! 303 00:10:06,106 --> 00:10:08,174 [chuckling] 304 00:10:08,241 --> 00:10:09,275 Coming up. 305 00:10:09,342 --> 00:10:11,044 - Here you go, babe. - Can I have a straw? 306 00:10:11,077 --> 00:10:12,270 I'll give you a blowjob later. 307 00:10:12,337 --> 00:10:13,246 [gasps] 308 00:10:13,313 --> 00:10:14,280 Mom! 309 00:10:14,380 --> 00:10:17,075 - Oh, my God. - I'm so sorry, that was a joke. 310 00:10:20,778 --> 00:10:22,539 [upbeat music] 311 00:10:24,782 --> 00:10:26,226 Get the table set here. 312 00:10:26,259 --> 00:10:27,126 Seven, eight, nine. 313 00:10:27,193 --> 00:10:29,687 You want to eat a lemon, would you? 314 00:10:29,754 --> 00:10:31,498 Yeah, okay. 315 00:10:31,531 --> 00:10:32,565 VICKI: Shannon! 316 00:10:32,632 --> 00:10:34,092 Oh, my God. 317 00:10:35,627 --> 00:10:38,037 I had to stop and get coffee, 'cause you don't have coffee. 318 00:10:38,138 --> 00:10:39,230 No, I don't have coffee, 319 00:10:39,297 --> 00:10:41,407 but I got you some little bite for lunch. 320 00:10:41,508 --> 00:10:43,309 Hi. Troy. Can you please tell him to stop licking me? 321 00:10:43,409 --> 00:10:44,744 I will. Hey, Troy! 322 00:10:44,844 --> 00:10:48,114 Lick, lick, lick, lick, lick, sniff, sniff, sniff, 323 00:10:48,148 --> 00:10:49,807 lick, lick, sniff, lick. 324 00:10:49,908 --> 00:10:51,251 That's what dogs do. 325 00:10:51,317 --> 00:10:52,552 I love dogs. 326 00:10:52,585 --> 00:10:54,479 But I'm of the belief when you go in a home, 327 00:10:54,546 --> 00:10:55,555 you go to the dog. 328 00:10:55,622 --> 00:10:56,981 Shannon doesn't teach her dogs 329 00:10:57,081 --> 00:10:58,950 because they're all over you when you walk in the house. 330 00:10:58,983 --> 00:11:00,785 They're sniffing and licking and licking and sniffing 331 00:11:00,818 --> 00:11:01,594 and sniffing and licking. 332 00:11:01,694 --> 00:11:03,321 [dog whining] 333 00:11:03,421 --> 00:11:05,598 I think he's got bad manners. 334 00:11:05,632 --> 00:11:07,233 - Is it good? - Ish, yeah. 335 00:11:07,300 --> 00:11:08,768 - Ish? - It's a little dry. 336 00:11:08,801 --> 00:11:10,061 [chuckles] 337 00:11:10,128 --> 00:11:12,672 So, I put files together 338 00:11:12,772 --> 00:11:15,133 with my bank statement and American Express. 339 00:11:15,166 --> 00:11:17,677 I just want to pay the money that I owe. 340 00:11:17,744 --> 00:11:19,412 You know, like, for taxes, and everything. 341 00:11:19,479 --> 00:11:21,339 Like, I want to be squared up. 342 00:11:21,439 --> 00:11:22,682 When you look at people embezzling, 343 00:11:22,782 --> 00:11:23,942 or not doing the right thing for you, 344 00:11:24,008 --> 00:11:25,752 I check my bank statement every single day. 345 00:11:25,818 --> 00:11:27,520 I manage it tightly. 346 00:11:27,587 --> 00:11:29,789 So, that's why I've been able to have three houses. 347 00:11:29,822 --> 00:11:30,949 - That's why I've-- - Right. 348 00:11:31,015 --> 00:11:33,326 So I have to do, I have to be better at it. 349 00:11:33,359 --> 00:11:35,320 Vicki knows her stuff. She's a financial planner. 350 00:11:35,353 --> 00:11:38,431 I have created some debt, 351 00:11:38,464 --> 00:11:40,900 and I give money to my kids. 352 00:11:40,934 --> 00:11:43,269 But I put all my savings into Real for Real. 353 00:11:43,336 --> 00:11:46,105 Unfortunately, I had to shut my company down. 354 00:11:46,172 --> 00:11:48,308 And when I look back, I think, 355 00:11:48,408 --> 00:11:49,609 I could've had a house, 356 00:11:49,709 --> 00:11:52,203 I could've invested in multiple other companies. 357 00:11:52,270 --> 00:11:53,413 My life would be different. 358 00:11:53,446 --> 00:11:55,882 So I brought something I do for my clients. 359 00:11:55,949 --> 00:11:58,785 A budget worksheet that's got your household expenses, 360 00:11:58,851 --> 00:12:00,845 your mortgage, your real estate. 361 00:12:00,878 --> 00:12:03,615 I work on my budget every single month. 362 00:12:03,681 --> 00:12:04,958 So, how much do you think you-- 363 00:12:05,024 --> 00:12:08,728 You said one time said you spent $3,000 a month on Ubers. 364 00:12:08,795 --> 00:12:09,988 Is that still about right? 365 00:12:10,054 --> 00:12:10,897 I don't know. 366 00:12:10,964 --> 00:12:12,131 How much you spend on healthcare? 367 00:12:12,198 --> 00:12:13,825 Probably, seven, eight, nine hundred a month. 368 00:12:13,891 --> 00:12:15,693 I think more than that. 369 00:12:15,727 --> 00:12:17,737 This is a great place, but how much is it a month? 370 00:12:17,837 --> 00:12:19,572 Well, I don't, it's $10,500. 371 00:12:19,639 --> 00:12:21,140 Shannon. 372 00:12:21,207 --> 00:12:24,277 It's not in your budget. $10,500 plus utilities, 373 00:12:24,310 --> 00:12:25,837 you're probably at $14,000 a month. 374 00:12:25,903 --> 00:12:27,146 Do you have renter's insurance on it too? 375 00:12:27,180 --> 00:12:28,314 - Yes. - Okay. 376 00:12:28,381 --> 00:12:29,849 By the way, you didn't go through Coto insurance 377 00:12:29,949 --> 00:12:31,017 for that either. 378 00:12:31,050 --> 00:12:33,911 So now, I don't even, it's just, I love it here. 379 00:12:33,978 --> 00:12:35,154 It makes me happy. 380 00:12:35,254 --> 00:12:36,990 But back to my point, 381 00:12:37,090 --> 00:12:40,818 as my spending habits and patterns are, 382 00:12:40,885 --> 00:12:43,096 you know, scrutinized. 383 00:12:43,196 --> 00:12:44,564 It's gonna be like, what the [bleep] 384 00:12:44,597 --> 00:12:46,199 were you doing, Shannon? 385 00:12:46,266 --> 00:12:47,367 Shannon is not frugal. 386 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,068 And if this job ends 387 00:12:49,102 --> 00:12:51,204 and David's child support ends, 388 00:12:51,237 --> 00:12:52,372 then what? 389 00:12:52,438 --> 00:12:54,107 I'm gonna be there for her to help her, 390 00:12:54,173 --> 00:12:55,274 but I'm not gonna give her money. 391 00:12:55,341 --> 00:12:56,934 I love Shannon, 392 00:12:57,035 --> 00:13:00,046 but she can't come live with me. 393 00:13:00,113 --> 00:13:02,081 - And I, like-- - I'm happy. 394 00:13:02,181 --> 00:13:04,450 I'm so grateful that you're helping me through this. 395 00:13:04,517 --> 00:13:06,753 Okay, you know, I will always be there to help you, 396 00:13:06,853 --> 00:13:09,389 but lean on me. 397 00:13:09,422 --> 00:13:10,581 - Wait, come here. - What? 398 00:13:10,615 --> 00:13:11,557 Open your mouth. 399 00:13:11,624 --> 00:13:12,283 Oh, my God. 400 00:13:12,383 --> 00:13:13,626 Okay, see, I have... 401 00:13:13,693 --> 00:13:15,286 What is wrong? Am I, like, 402 00:13:15,353 --> 00:13:18,589 I'm like an old woman, like my dad. 403 00:13:18,623 --> 00:13:21,217 [upbeat music] 404 00:13:26,931 --> 00:13:28,574 - Hello! - What are you into over there? 405 00:13:28,608 --> 00:13:30,601 - Gosh, it smells good in here. - I know, right? 406 00:13:30,635 --> 00:13:31,978 What are you doing? [chuckles] 407 00:13:32,078 --> 00:13:33,746 I had to borrow their readers because I couldn't read 408 00:13:33,780 --> 00:13:34,781 any of the bottles. 409 00:13:34,814 --> 00:13:36,482 Do you use readers, yet? 410 00:13:36,549 --> 00:13:38,042 [scoffs] Do I use readers? 411 00:13:38,109 --> 00:13:39,143 I need them. 412 00:13:39,210 --> 00:13:39,986 - Hi. - Oh, hi. 413 00:13:40,053 --> 00:13:40,720 - Hi! 414 00:13:40,820 --> 00:13:41,988 Doesn't it smell amazing in here? 415 00:13:42,088 --> 00:13:43,723 Yeah, I love this, I actually love this shop, 416 00:13:43,790 --> 00:13:45,224 but I can't smell much because-- 417 00:13:45,325 --> 00:13:46,859 - She's, she got my illness. - Oh, you're stuffy. 418 00:13:46,893 --> 00:13:48,653 I got this freaking cold from hell from her. 419 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:49,962 Heather got a good laugh out of that. 420 00:13:49,996 --> 00:13:51,230 I saw her the other day. 421 00:13:51,330 --> 00:13:52,765 I caught Emily's cold. 422 00:13:52,799 --> 00:13:54,759 See? That will teach you for rooming with Emily. 423 00:13:54,826 --> 00:13:55,935 [laughter] I know, I was like-- 424 00:13:56,002 --> 00:13:58,171 All right, we're shopping for Carmella. 425 00:13:58,271 --> 00:14:00,940 Do they sell Dior bags here? 426 00:14:01,007 --> 00:14:02,742 I'm not going in with you bitches on that. 427 00:14:02,809 --> 00:14:05,578 - Do you have vibrators? - That's a no. 428 00:14:05,645 --> 00:14:06,946 I'm actually stoked. 429 00:14:07,013 --> 00:14:09,215 I feel like we've just gotten, like, snippets of Carmella. 430 00:14:09,282 --> 00:14:11,175 I can't wait to go. I want to see her life. 431 00:14:11,275 --> 00:14:14,020 Carmella texted: "I wanted to invite you girls 432 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:16,589 "to hang at my place in the Ranch. 433 00:14:16,656 --> 00:14:20,159 "Pool, lunch and a little R&R. Super low key." 434 00:14:20,193 --> 00:14:21,861 I've never seen her place in the ranch. 435 00:14:21,928 --> 00:14:22,762 That's very nice. 436 00:14:22,795 --> 00:14:24,163 This time her kids will be around. 437 00:14:24,197 --> 00:14:25,598 She wants us to meet some of her kids. 438 00:14:25,665 --> 00:14:27,191 - Oh, fun. - So that's nice. 439 00:14:27,258 --> 00:14:28,267 Okay. I love that. 440 00:14:28,368 --> 00:14:30,403 She said maybe her boyfriend Danny will be there. 441 00:14:30,436 --> 00:14:31,237 I wanna meet him. 442 00:14:31,270 --> 00:14:32,372 Maybe. 443 00:14:32,472 --> 00:14:34,031 I don't know how they interact with each other. 444 00:14:34,098 --> 00:14:36,175 She and I were shopping before Vegas, and she's like, 445 00:14:36,209 --> 00:14:37,376 pulled out this dress, and she's like... 446 00:14:37,477 --> 00:14:38,878 I did make a joke to Danny. 447 00:14:38,945 --> 00:14:42,173 I'm like, let me go pick a dress so I can cheat on you in Vegas, 448 00:14:42,206 --> 00:14:43,116 and... no. [chuckles] 449 00:14:43,182 --> 00:14:44,117 Wait, you said that to Danny? 450 00:14:44,183 --> 00:14:45,418 I just was kidding. 451 00:14:45,485 --> 00:14:47,345 Like, she's like, "I just give it back to him sometimes, 452 00:14:47,378 --> 00:14:48,287 "'cause I'm so pissed." 453 00:14:48,354 --> 00:14:49,956 They're not gonna stay together. 454 00:14:50,022 --> 00:14:52,150 - You don't think so? - I don't think so, no. 455 00:14:52,216 --> 00:14:54,660 There's a part of her that maybe felt a little stuck, you know? 456 00:14:54,761 --> 00:14:56,854 - With him? - Because he helps her a lot 457 00:14:56,888 --> 00:14:57,964 with her kids. 458 00:14:57,997 --> 00:15:00,992 I did go through this in my past relationship, 459 00:15:01,058 --> 00:15:06,072 and I understand your desire to want to move past it. 460 00:15:06,139 --> 00:15:07,698 But, it's okay for things to end. 461 00:15:07,732 --> 00:15:10,543 There's a small percentage of people that do recover 462 00:15:10,643 --> 00:15:13,079 from infidelity and move on into the sunset. 463 00:15:13,179 --> 00:15:15,248 God bless them. Carmella is not one of them. 464 00:15:15,314 --> 00:15:16,716 - You know? - How was Heather after Vegas? 465 00:15:16,749 --> 00:15:17,909 'Cause you know, I roomed with Heather, 466 00:15:17,975 --> 00:15:18,851 and she would just be like, 467 00:15:18,918 --> 00:15:19,977 "I'm taking it from everybody." 468 00:15:20,044 --> 00:15:21,487 That last night at Nobu, 469 00:15:21,554 --> 00:15:23,089 I was so irritated by Heather. 470 00:15:23,156 --> 00:15:24,415 Wait, about what? 471 00:15:24,482 --> 00:15:27,160 She was so controlling over every conversation, 472 00:15:27,226 --> 00:15:28,895 and so monopolizing. 473 00:15:28,928 --> 00:15:32,398 I got made out to be this villain because I said, 474 00:15:32,432 --> 00:15:34,033 "All you do is talk." 475 00:15:34,100 --> 00:15:35,201 And then we go to Vegas, 476 00:15:35,234 --> 00:15:38,037 and then she's mean and aggressive. 477 00:15:38,104 --> 00:15:41,374 I am continually perplexed that 478 00:15:41,407 --> 00:15:44,610 I get labelled as aggressive. 479 00:15:44,710 --> 00:15:46,270 Get her the [bleep] away from me! 480 00:15:46,370 --> 00:15:50,383 [yelling over each other] I will ----ing kill you! 481 00:15:50,416 --> 00:15:51,851 Maybe I can be a little aggressive, 482 00:15:51,951 --> 00:15:52,944 I will give you that. 483 00:15:53,010 --> 00:15:55,780 But Heather is extremely aggressive. 484 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:58,191 And I feel like she never actually gets called out on it. 485 00:15:58,257 --> 00:15:59,859 I don't find Heather to be aggressive. 486 00:15:59,926 --> 00:16:02,528 I mean, she, the way she went at Vicki, I was like, wow! 487 00:16:02,595 --> 00:16:03,863 - Who is this? - That was aggressive. 488 00:16:03,963 --> 00:16:06,599 But, I feel like that almost came from a place for Heather. 489 00:16:06,632 --> 00:16:07,900 - Because Heather-- - Well, it was self-serving. 490 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,169 Heather is so protective of what she wants. 491 00:16:10,203 --> 00:16:12,805 I know, but this whole rule that you've put in place, 492 00:16:12,905 --> 00:16:15,041 this no kids, no careers thing is too broad. 493 00:16:15,141 --> 00:16:17,076 Like she was pissed at you that night, 494 00:16:17,143 --> 00:16:18,845 when you brought up how you said something like, 495 00:16:18,911 --> 00:16:20,246 maybe she's sensitive 'cause she didn't get 496 00:16:20,279 --> 00:16:22,440 some role or something and she shut that down. 497 00:16:22,473 --> 00:16:23,482 Yeah, she did. 498 00:16:23,583 --> 00:16:26,819 Did you not share the audition with everybody? 499 00:16:26,919 --> 00:16:28,588 Oh, why are we talking about that? 500 00:16:28,654 --> 00:16:30,590 I said what is going on with Heather? 501 00:16:30,623 --> 00:16:33,192 And she said maybe it's because you didn't get this role. 502 00:16:33,226 --> 00:16:34,785 - Yeah. - No, I mean, I was upset 503 00:16:34,819 --> 00:16:36,729 about it, but it wasn't... I don't think... 504 00:16:36,762 --> 00:16:37,989 But that has nothing to do with this. 505 00:16:38,089 --> 00:16:39,565 She got defensive. She thought you were, like, 506 00:16:39,632 --> 00:16:41,567 - it was threatening to her. - Yes, but I feel different. 507 00:16:41,667 --> 00:16:43,961 Like, I don't want to feel like I can't talk about my kids 508 00:16:43,995 --> 00:16:45,171 with you guys. 509 00:16:45,238 --> 00:16:46,839 When it comes to Heather, it's very important for her 510 00:16:46,939 --> 00:16:48,774 to share the good things and the positive things, 511 00:16:48,808 --> 00:16:51,077 because that's what she likes to put out there. 512 00:16:51,143 --> 00:16:52,678 However, in a real friendship, 513 00:16:52,745 --> 00:16:54,747 in a group of friends, it's so important that you share 514 00:16:54,814 --> 00:16:56,841 the good, the bad, and the ugly. 515 00:16:56,908 --> 00:16:57,842 We had the best conversation 516 00:16:57,942 --> 00:16:59,318 when I was at your house the other day. 517 00:16:59,352 --> 00:17:00,753 Yes, I want to talk about that. 518 00:17:00,786 --> 00:17:01,921 And that meant a lot to me. 519 00:17:01,954 --> 00:17:05,149 I learned so much from other mothers out there 520 00:17:05,182 --> 00:17:08,094 who have children with the PANDAS diagnosis saying, 521 00:17:08,194 --> 00:17:10,630 you should try this doctor, you should try this. 522 00:17:10,663 --> 00:17:13,766 So to have all these women come to me 523 00:17:13,866 --> 00:17:17,828 and give me information has been life-altering. 524 00:17:17,862 --> 00:17:18,905 Tomorrow should be fun. 525 00:17:18,938 --> 00:17:20,439 I was just gonna say, what are we taking? 526 00:17:20,506 --> 00:17:21,941 Um, I think we should do like, 527 00:17:21,974 --> 00:17:24,143 - what do they say, this spray? - What is this, scented candle? 528 00:17:24,176 --> 00:17:25,978 'Cause it smells good. It's like a room spray. 529 00:17:26,078 --> 00:17:27,613 All right, let's do these three things. 530 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:29,040 I'm getting glasses. 531 00:17:29,140 --> 00:17:31,284 Yes, you've been holding them forever. 532 00:17:31,350 --> 00:17:32,476 Coming up. 533 00:17:32,543 --> 00:17:35,254 We're just in a bad place in our marriage right now. 534 00:17:35,321 --> 00:17:36,681 I'm juggling the three kids 535 00:17:36,714 --> 00:17:39,458 with school and everything. You don't understand. 536 00:17:39,525 --> 00:17:41,060 That's... not true. 537 00:17:46,557 --> 00:17:48,359 [upbeat music] 538 00:17:53,497 --> 00:17:54,865 What is a trattoria? 539 00:17:54,899 --> 00:17:55,900 I don't know. 540 00:17:56,033 --> 00:17:57,810 - Hi! - Hey, guys, welcome in. 541 00:17:57,843 --> 00:17:59,312 - Do we have a reservation? - Two. 542 00:17:59,345 --> 00:18:01,480 Right this way for you guys. 543 00:18:01,547 --> 00:18:03,240 Buona sera. How are you this evening? 544 00:18:03,374 --> 00:18:04,709 Would you like to start with some water? 545 00:18:04,742 --> 00:18:05,651 I'll take water. 546 00:18:05,718 --> 00:18:07,545 Can I also order an Aperol Spritz too? 547 00:18:07,578 --> 00:18:08,354 Aperol Spritz. 548 00:18:08,421 --> 00:18:09,288 Can I get a Diet Coke? 549 00:18:09,355 --> 00:18:10,389 - Diet Coke. - Thank you. 550 00:18:10,423 --> 00:18:11,390 Absolutely. 551 00:18:11,424 --> 00:18:13,709 Shane and I had our 17th anniversary. 552 00:18:13,743 --> 00:18:15,061 Which is on February 14th, 553 00:18:15,161 --> 00:18:17,029 but it was just impossible 554 00:18:17,096 --> 00:18:19,223 for us to be able to get out of the house. 555 00:18:19,256 --> 00:18:21,233 Should Dad and I go to dinner for our anniversary? 556 00:18:21,334 --> 00:18:22,468 Yeah. 557 00:18:22,535 --> 00:18:24,695 You're not gonna change your mind later and get upset? 558 00:18:24,762 --> 00:18:25,763 No. 559 00:18:25,863 --> 00:18:28,341 It's difficult to leave Luke a lot of the time. 560 00:18:28,407 --> 00:18:29,875 He calls and texts constantly. 561 00:18:29,942 --> 00:18:32,244 And so we just have to turn around and go home. 562 00:18:32,378 --> 00:18:34,714 I wouldn't say it ruins our night, 563 00:18:34,780 --> 00:18:35,898 we're just used to it. 564 00:18:35,931 --> 00:18:39,185 It's very difficult for just a babysitter 565 00:18:39,251 --> 00:18:42,254 to be able to know what to do. 566 00:18:42,388 --> 00:18:43,581 Do you have steak? 567 00:18:43,614 --> 00:18:44,415 Filet mignon. 568 00:18:44,448 --> 00:18:45,758 - I'll take that. - Filet. Medium? 569 00:18:45,791 --> 00:18:47,118 - Yes, perfect, thank you. - Beautiful. 570 00:18:47,251 --> 00:18:49,028 Can I just get chicken alfredo? 571 00:18:49,095 --> 00:18:49,954 - Yeah. - Thanks. 572 00:18:50,087 --> 00:18:51,555 I went to the gym this morning. 573 00:18:51,622 --> 00:18:52,665 That new gym. 574 00:18:52,732 --> 00:18:54,433 Jen and Ryan don't go there anymore, either. 575 00:18:54,567 --> 00:18:56,469 No, I saw her at the new gym I go to. 576 00:18:56,602 --> 00:18:57,395 When are they getting married? 577 00:18:57,461 --> 00:18:58,421 I don't know. 578 00:18:58,454 --> 00:19:01,874 I would bet that Gina and Travis get married 579 00:19:01,941 --> 00:19:03,275 before Jen and Ryan. 580 00:19:03,409 --> 00:19:05,611 Yeah? Who will get divorced first? 581 00:19:05,645 --> 00:19:07,972 I don't think either one of them will get divorced. 582 00:19:08,072 --> 00:19:09,215 Us, we'll get divorced first. 583 00:19:09,281 --> 00:19:10,116 [chuckles] 584 00:19:10,216 --> 00:19:13,269 If I have anything to say about it. 585 00:19:13,302 --> 00:19:14,420 Um... 586 00:19:14,487 --> 00:19:17,323 Sometimes I wonder how Shane and I have made it. 587 00:19:17,423 --> 00:19:19,792 I think it's because we're both very dedicated 588 00:19:19,825 --> 00:19:22,061 to our children and our family. 589 00:19:22,128 --> 00:19:24,430 - Filet mignon. - Oh, yeah, thank you so much. 590 00:19:24,497 --> 00:19:27,500 I don't want them part of a broken home. 591 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:28,951 I grew up like that, it was awful. 592 00:19:28,984 --> 00:19:31,170 And so that's why we stay together. 593 00:19:31,270 --> 00:19:33,472 I just want it to be better. 594 00:19:33,506 --> 00:19:34,623 Alfredo with chicken. 595 00:19:34,657 --> 00:19:35,474 Thank you, sir. 596 00:19:35,508 --> 00:19:37,343 Yours looks like the kids meal. 597 00:19:37,476 --> 00:19:39,970 Um, so I know everything was very chaotic 598 00:19:40,004 --> 00:19:41,338 when we were remodelling the kids bedrooms. 599 00:19:41,439 --> 00:19:42,973 - Yeah, it was bad, yeah. - 'Cause everything was, 600 00:19:43,007 --> 00:19:44,617 it was just a lot going on in the house. 601 00:19:44,717 --> 00:19:45,810 - And I understand that. - Yeah. 602 00:19:45,843 --> 00:19:48,979 But you seemed like you just hated life. 603 00:19:49,013 --> 00:19:52,158 Are you unhappy being a stay-at-home dad 604 00:19:52,291 --> 00:19:53,325 and doing all those things? 605 00:19:53,426 --> 00:19:55,428 It's challenging at times. 606 00:19:55,494 --> 00:19:57,696 Do you miss working? 607 00:19:57,763 --> 00:19:58,864 Yeah. 608 00:19:58,998 --> 00:20:01,200 As the kids needs are growing, 609 00:20:01,300 --> 00:20:02,501 and Emily's days are getting busier, 610 00:20:02,635 --> 00:20:06,338 it just made more sense that one parent not be working 611 00:20:06,439 --> 00:20:08,874 and try to stay at home and take the kids to school 612 00:20:08,974 --> 00:20:11,869 and all their activities, and she could kind of run around 613 00:20:12,002 --> 00:20:13,637 with her head cut off like a chicken, 614 00:20:13,704 --> 00:20:14,847 and do whatever she wants to do. 615 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:16,974 We're in this very non-traditional kind 616 00:20:17,041 --> 00:20:19,952 of environment that we never anticipated. 617 00:20:20,019 --> 00:20:22,880 I'm juggling the three kids with school and everything. 618 00:20:23,013 --> 00:20:24,315 You don't understand. 619 00:20:24,381 --> 00:20:25,558 I got an ego. 620 00:20:25,691 --> 00:20:26,959 I'm a man and I want to provide. 621 00:20:26,992 --> 00:20:29,028 But even when I had a full-time job, 622 00:20:29,061 --> 00:20:30,696 I felt I was always full time at home. 623 00:20:30,730 --> 00:20:32,865 When you come home, and then you go to your bed, 624 00:20:32,998 --> 00:20:34,850 and you look at your phone, and you look at Instagram, 625 00:20:34,884 --> 00:20:36,869 and I'm putting them to bed, yeah, it's kinda tough. 626 00:20:36,969 --> 00:20:38,537 That's not fair, I put the kids to bed, too. 627 00:20:38,671 --> 00:20:39,872 Oh, it's just... I'm just-- 628 00:20:40,005 --> 00:20:41,874 You're making it like I don't ever put the kids to bed. 629 00:20:41,907 --> 00:20:44,043 - I'm not making it like that. - That's not true. 630 00:20:44,110 --> 00:20:47,371 I feel that Emily is unaware that I could use a break 631 00:20:47,404 --> 00:20:48,214 once in a while. 632 00:20:48,347 --> 00:20:50,015 That's the frustrating part. 633 00:20:50,082 --> 00:20:52,218 How much of the laundry is done by me? 634 00:20:52,251 --> 00:20:53,419 70 percent. 635 00:20:53,552 --> 00:20:54,887 And then all I hear all the time 636 00:20:54,987 --> 00:20:57,323 is "This laundry's out of control." 637 00:20:57,389 --> 00:20:58,682 I have been making an effort. 638 00:20:58,749 --> 00:21:01,051 I've been making you steak, we've been having sex 639 00:21:01,085 --> 00:21:03,596 all the time. You made steak... 640 00:21:03,662 --> 00:21:05,890 Yes, thank you. 641 00:21:05,923 --> 00:21:06,690 And? 642 00:21:06,757 --> 00:21:08,033 Yes, okay, yeah. 643 00:21:08,100 --> 00:21:10,928 You've finally given me some attention and I appreciate that. 644 00:21:11,028 --> 00:21:12,071 Now can we move on? 645 00:21:12,138 --> 00:21:15,057 - Sure. - All right. 646 00:21:15,090 --> 00:21:16,767 Can I have a piece of your steak? 647 00:21:16,901 --> 00:21:18,402 [chuckling] 648 00:21:18,435 --> 00:21:22,481 [upbeat music] 649 00:21:22,548 --> 00:21:24,742 Do you think anyone's gonna go in the pool? 650 00:21:24,775 --> 00:21:26,285 Oh, it's hot. 651 00:21:26,418 --> 00:21:27,253 Are you checking to make sure 652 00:21:27,386 --> 00:21:28,521 - all the flavors are there? - Yes. 653 00:21:28,587 --> 00:21:31,457 You got strawberry, rocky road, rainbow sherbet. 654 00:21:31,590 --> 00:21:32,416 This looks so good. 655 00:21:32,449 --> 00:21:33,726 And we're good here. [sizzling] 656 00:21:33,792 --> 00:21:35,094 Yes, hi. How are you? 657 00:21:35,161 --> 00:21:35,961 - Good. - Hot dogs! 658 00:21:36,095 --> 00:21:36,862 All right. 659 00:21:36,896 --> 00:21:38,255 We've got something for everyone. 660 00:21:38,289 --> 00:21:40,065 I'm hungry, we're gonna eat in a little bit, huh? 661 00:21:40,132 --> 00:21:41,100 - Yeah. - This looks great, 662 00:21:41,133 --> 00:21:42,802 - thank you so much. - Good, thank you. 663 00:21:42,935 --> 00:21:45,095 Everything's perfect. Perfect. 664 00:21:45,129 --> 00:21:47,923 [upbeat music] 665 00:21:47,957 --> 00:21:53,112 Hot dogs and pool parties! 666 00:21:53,212 --> 00:21:54,280 Yeah. 667 00:21:54,380 --> 00:21:55,940 [phone ringing] 668 00:21:55,973 --> 00:21:58,450 Hello? We're in the car, you're on speaker. 669 00:21:58,484 --> 00:21:59,718 Hi everyone. 670 00:21:59,785 --> 00:22:01,420 I can hear frustration in your voice. 671 00:22:01,487 --> 00:22:02,488 You stuck in traffic? 672 00:22:03,989 --> 00:22:04,957 Okay. Good. 673 00:22:05,057 --> 00:22:07,585 Get to know Carmella a little bit better. 674 00:22:07,651 --> 00:22:09,028 Say her name, Victoria. 675 00:22:09,094 --> 00:22:10,429 Carmella. 676 00:22:10,496 --> 00:22:12,122 - Good job! - Yes! 677 00:22:12,156 --> 00:22:14,325 Here, let me take a picture of all you. 678 00:22:14,458 --> 00:22:16,135 Family photo without JJ. 679 00:22:16,268 --> 00:22:17,636 Danny, you want to get like, 680 00:22:17,736 --> 00:22:18,621 like this and up. 681 00:22:18,654 --> 00:22:19,805 You don't want to get the ground. 682 00:22:19,838 --> 00:22:20,956 All right, here we go. 683 00:22:20,990 --> 00:22:22,666 [camera shutters] 684 00:22:22,766 --> 00:22:24,710 - Let's see how it turned out. - Okay, let's look at it. 685 00:22:24,777 --> 00:22:26,712 - I'm getting caught off guard. - Wait, I want to look 686 00:22:26,779 --> 00:22:28,214 at it first. I want to look at it. 687 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:29,473 - Let me see it. - Oh, God. 688 00:22:29,506 --> 00:22:30,716 You have to have this in the background. 689 00:22:30,783 --> 00:22:33,644 Once upon a time I used to take some pictures. 690 00:22:33,677 --> 00:22:36,255 Girl, you were exposed in those pictures. 691 00:22:36,322 --> 00:22:37,890 Let's just be quiet. 692 00:22:37,957 --> 00:22:38,807 Jax, hug. 693 00:22:38,841 --> 00:22:40,025 [camera shutters] 694 00:22:40,092 --> 00:22:41,160 Thank you, Ray. 695 00:22:41,293 --> 00:22:42,428 On a serious note, 696 00:22:42,494 --> 00:22:45,064 can we not say anything inappropriate in front 697 00:22:45,130 --> 00:22:46,165 of my new friends. 698 00:22:46,298 --> 00:22:48,167 Yeah, we're the appropriate ones, you're not. 699 00:22:48,234 --> 00:22:49,526 Oh, it's pretty! 700 00:22:49,660 --> 00:22:50,636 There's no furniture. 701 00:22:50,703 --> 00:22:53,322 - It's a Pilates thing. - A reformer? 702 00:22:53,355 --> 00:22:54,340 Hello? 703 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:56,842 - Oh, it's echo-y. - Knock knock. 704 00:22:56,942 --> 00:22:58,844 - Hello? - Hello? 705 00:22:58,978 --> 00:23:01,880 I do feel that the Pilates reformer 706 00:23:02,014 --> 00:23:04,183 is an interesting decor piece. 707 00:23:04,216 --> 00:23:05,451 - Let's go this way. - Okay. 708 00:23:05,484 --> 00:23:06,543 If I was selling this home, 709 00:23:06,644 --> 00:23:08,220 that would be the first thing to go. 710 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:10,556 - Oh, hi! - Hi! 711 00:23:10,689 --> 00:23:13,492 - You look so pretty. - Thanks for having us. 712 00:23:13,559 --> 00:23:16,487 - Hi! Presley. Hi! - Hi. You're Faith? 713 00:23:16,553 --> 00:23:18,180 - Yeah. - Jax, nice to meet you. 714 00:23:18,213 --> 00:23:19,265 Nice to meet you. 715 00:23:19,331 --> 00:23:20,332 Wait, you have four, right? 716 00:23:20,399 --> 00:23:22,301 The other one kind of is a little shy. 717 00:23:22,368 --> 00:23:24,361 - Your home is beautiful. - Thank you! 718 00:23:24,395 --> 00:23:25,271 You all look so gorgeous. 719 00:23:25,337 --> 00:23:26,538 I'm just gonna start eating. 720 00:23:26,572 --> 00:23:28,140 - Who are we missing? - Vicki. 721 00:23:28,207 --> 00:23:30,067 [car door shuts] [car beeps] 722 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:33,112 [shuffling footsteps] 723 00:23:33,178 --> 00:23:35,814 So you guys normally on a Saturday, you're doing what? 724 00:23:35,881 --> 00:23:37,249 Nothing. [laughter] 725 00:23:37,316 --> 00:23:38,367 Yeah. 726 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,536 Is that what it's like in Rancho Santa Fe? 727 00:23:40,569 --> 00:23:41,537 Yeah. 728 00:23:41,570 --> 00:23:42,855 [doorbell chimes] 729 00:23:42,922 --> 00:23:45,874 Hi. You are currently being recorded. 730 00:23:45,908 --> 00:23:47,559 Hello. 731 00:23:47,593 --> 00:23:50,596 [door squeaking] Hello? Hello? 732 00:23:50,663 --> 00:23:53,065 You are currently being recorded. 733 00:23:53,132 --> 00:23:54,900 Do I take my shoes off? 734 00:23:54,934 --> 00:23:56,735 - So the kids grew up here? - They grew up here. 735 00:23:56,802 --> 00:23:59,772 Now I understand why you would want to go to Corona Del Mar. 736 00:23:59,872 --> 00:24:01,573 - You get it, right? - It's sleepy. 737 00:24:01,607 --> 00:24:03,058 - Hello? - We're in here, Vic. 738 00:24:03,092 --> 00:24:05,678 Hi. I'm ringing and knocking and entering. 739 00:24:05,744 --> 00:24:07,579 - Hi. - Ow! God! 740 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:08,948 - Hi! - Hello! 741 00:24:09,048 --> 00:24:11,016 - I made it! How are you? - Good, how are you? 742 00:24:11,050 --> 00:24:13,410 - God, your house is gorgeous. - I love this. Thank you. 743 00:24:13,444 --> 00:24:14,420 Hello, Victoria. 744 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,222 There is infused water over here. 745 00:24:17,289 --> 00:24:18,248 Margaritas and lemonade. 746 00:24:18,282 --> 00:24:19,224 Hi! 747 00:24:19,291 --> 00:24:21,093 - You look like a mama. - Aw, thank you. 748 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:22,094 - What's your name? - Presley. 749 00:24:22,194 --> 00:24:23,595 - I love that name. - Thank you. 750 00:24:23,629 --> 00:24:24,288 Hi, I'm Jax. 751 00:24:24,421 --> 00:24:25,264 That hair, oh, my God. 752 00:24:25,297 --> 00:24:26,198 You guys are so darling. 753 00:24:26,231 --> 00:24:27,633 Do you guys go to the same school? 754 00:24:27,766 --> 00:24:29,960 - Uh, we go to the same school. - They're in high school. 755 00:24:30,060 --> 00:24:30,961 I'm in eighth grade. 756 00:24:31,095 --> 00:24:32,271 These are the kids that I left behind. 757 00:24:32,338 --> 00:24:34,131 I'm kidding! I'm kidding. 758 00:24:34,231 --> 00:24:36,442 Yeah, you did leave them behind. 759 00:24:36,508 --> 00:24:39,261 It's like a boxer that like kicks, 760 00:24:39,294 --> 00:24:41,180 or hits a guy in the nuts. 761 00:24:41,246 --> 00:24:42,781 It's because he's unskilled. 762 00:24:42,915 --> 00:24:44,141 Like there's something like, 763 00:24:44,274 --> 00:24:48,620 unskilled here when it comes to Vicki. 764 00:24:48,687 --> 00:24:49,555 Hi. 765 00:24:49,588 --> 00:24:50,789 - Oh, there you are. - Hi, Shannon. 766 00:24:50,923 --> 00:24:52,558 - Hi, I just let myself in. - Hi. 767 00:24:52,591 --> 00:24:55,152 How are you? Oh my gosh, your house is beautiful. 768 00:24:55,285 --> 00:24:57,588 You look so cute with the blue. 769 00:24:57,654 --> 00:24:58,288 Hi. 770 00:24:58,322 --> 00:24:59,490 [peculiar music] 771 00:24:59,623 --> 00:25:03,118 - Ow! What are you doing? - You stepped on my foot! 772 00:25:03,152 --> 00:25:04,470 Who put their finger up my fanny! 773 00:25:04,570 --> 00:25:05,971 You put your finger up her butt? 774 00:25:06,038 --> 00:25:06,905 Yes! 775 00:25:06,972 --> 00:25:08,340 I did not, I went to grab your cheek. 776 00:25:08,474 --> 00:25:09,975 - Who are you? - I just went to grab 777 00:25:10,008 --> 00:25:11,310 - your cheek bone. - There are children 778 00:25:11,377 --> 00:25:12,244 in this house! 779 00:25:12,277 --> 00:25:13,679 Oh, it's okay, my mom did it to me. 780 00:25:13,779 --> 00:25:15,481 "My mom did it to me," is that what you said? 781 00:25:15,547 --> 00:25:16,515 You did it to me earlier! 782 00:25:16,615 --> 00:25:17,975 But you have like a lot under there. 783 00:25:18,008 --> 00:25:18,984 I have a slip. 784 00:25:19,084 --> 00:25:20,085 Spanx? 785 00:25:20,152 --> 00:25:21,286 Wait, let me see it, Shannon. 786 00:25:21,387 --> 00:25:23,088 Oh! 787 00:25:23,155 --> 00:25:24,289 [laughter] 788 00:25:24,390 --> 00:25:27,109 [upbeat music] 789 00:25:29,686 --> 00:25:31,021 - Should we go outside? - Yeah, let's go. 790 00:25:31,155 --> 00:25:32,865 - Should we eat hot dogs? - Yes, hot dogs. 791 00:25:32,998 --> 00:25:33,766 Ice cream. 792 00:25:33,832 --> 00:25:35,359 That's the ocean way down there. 793 00:25:35,492 --> 00:25:37,161 Wow. This is gorgeous. 794 00:25:37,194 --> 00:25:37,961 Hi. 795 00:25:38,028 --> 00:25:39,463 Thanks, Pete. 796 00:25:39,530 --> 00:25:40,339 Hi. 797 00:25:40,372 --> 00:25:42,199 You made it. Four hours later. 798 00:25:42,299 --> 00:25:43,842 Oh my gosh, look at this view! 799 00:25:43,876 --> 00:25:46,703 Hi, thanks for having us! Your home is beautiful. 800 00:25:46,804 --> 00:25:48,472 Swans in the pool, I'm happy. 801 00:25:48,539 --> 00:25:50,349 There's hot dogs, I don't know if you eat hot dogs. 802 00:25:50,382 --> 00:25:51,683 I do. I love hot dogs. 803 00:25:51,784 --> 00:25:54,353 - Oh, this is nice. - What is on me? A hair? 804 00:25:54,453 --> 00:25:55,546 Where is Danny? 805 00:25:55,679 --> 00:25:56,547 - Right here. - He's hiding. 806 00:25:56,647 --> 00:25:57,714 I was just checking on the dogs. 807 00:25:57,848 --> 00:25:59,024 I want to introduce you. 808 00:25:59,058 --> 00:26:01,151 Okay, ladies, I'd love to introduce you to Danny. 809 00:26:01,218 --> 00:26:02,486 Hi! 810 00:26:02,553 --> 00:26:04,721 - Hi, how are you? I'm Danny. - Hi, Tamra, nice to meet you. 811 00:26:04,822 --> 00:26:06,356 - Hi, nice to meet you. -Hi, Danny, I'm Heather. 812 00:26:06,390 --> 00:26:08,367 - Hi, hi, nice to meet you. - So nice to meet you. 813 00:26:08,467 --> 00:26:10,185 It is weird meeting him when we know so much stuff. 814 00:26:10,219 --> 00:26:11,662 I feel weird, I feel weird, I feel weird. 815 00:26:11,728 --> 00:26:13,030 I feel like, are we supposed to be nice, 816 00:26:13,063 --> 00:26:14,506 or are we supposed to give him like a... 817 00:26:14,573 --> 00:26:16,066 - No, we have to be nice. - No... yeah. 818 00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:17,376 I just don't have a poker face, 819 00:26:17,409 --> 00:26:20,712 so it's really hard for me to just meet this man. 820 00:26:20,746 --> 00:26:22,014 I don't like secrets, 821 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:23,740 I don't like infidelity. 822 00:26:23,874 --> 00:26:25,250 I just don't like it. 823 00:26:25,384 --> 00:26:27,553 I'm crawling out of my skin just even talking about it. 824 00:26:27,586 --> 00:26:29,655 It feels so icky. It gives me bad posture, 825 00:26:29,721 --> 00:26:32,391 and I've already overcome that, honestly. 826 00:26:32,524 --> 00:26:36,720 Like, I know all the dirty digs without him, 827 00:26:36,753 --> 00:26:37,855 and now I just feel like, 828 00:26:37,921 --> 00:26:39,731 "Hey, what's up, man? Nice to meet you." 829 00:26:39,765 --> 00:26:41,049 I know, because I really want to say, 830 00:26:41,083 --> 00:26:42,568 "How long ago was it that you cheated on her? 831 00:26:42,701 --> 00:26:44,570 - "Was it like, recently?" - Shhh! 832 00:26:44,603 --> 00:26:46,605 - I'm sorry! - That's so loud! 833 00:26:52,811 --> 00:26:53,779 [upbeat music] 834 00:26:53,846 --> 00:26:55,614 "How long ago was it that you cheated on her? 835 00:26:55,681 --> 00:26:57,508 - "Was it like, recently?" - Shh! 836 00:26:57,574 --> 00:26:59,409 - I'm sorry! - That's so loud! 837 00:26:59,443 --> 00:27:00,619 - Don't say that! - Was that loud? 838 00:27:00,686 --> 00:27:02,554 - Yes. That was very loud! - Oh. 839 00:27:02,621 --> 00:27:05,591 We're in her yard. Sh! Tamra's coming. 840 00:27:05,624 --> 00:27:07,259 I'm right here, I heard you say, "sh!" 841 00:27:07,326 --> 00:27:08,352 We said Tammy's coming. 842 00:27:08,418 --> 00:27:09,928 Well, you've gotta meet her boyfriend. 843 00:27:09,962 --> 00:27:11,096 I don't know if I can. 844 00:27:11,163 --> 00:27:12,798 It's not uncomfortable for you to meet him knowing 845 00:27:12,898 --> 00:27:13,899 that we know so much stuff? 846 00:27:13,966 --> 00:27:14,800 Little bit. 847 00:27:14,900 --> 00:27:16,735 How do you feel about that, Tammy? 848 00:27:16,869 --> 00:27:18,070 You know how I am about cheaters. 849 00:27:18,170 --> 00:27:20,405 - Hi, I'm Danny. - Hi! 850 00:27:20,439 --> 00:27:22,140 - Hi, Danny. I'm Gina. - Hi, nice to meet you. 851 00:27:22,241 --> 00:27:23,675 Are you overwhelmed by all of us. 852 00:27:23,775 --> 00:27:25,277 A little bit, but it's all good. 853 00:27:25,310 --> 00:27:27,312 - Yeah? Are you scared? - Mmm, not really scared. 854 00:27:27,379 --> 00:27:30,015 - Are you nervous? - Kinda right now, but... 855 00:27:30,115 --> 00:27:31,108 [laughter] 856 00:27:31,141 --> 00:27:34,186 Don't be nervous. We're nice. [laughing] 857 00:27:34,253 --> 00:27:36,722 - Sometimes. - Not Tammy. 858 00:27:36,788 --> 00:27:37,756 Not Emily. 859 00:27:37,890 --> 00:27:39,925 - We're mean and aggressive. - We're a package deal. 860 00:27:40,058 --> 00:27:40,859 Yeah. 861 00:27:40,959 --> 00:27:42,261 Thank you for having us over. 862 00:27:42,294 --> 00:27:44,321 - No, I'm glad you guys made it. - Thank you, yes. 863 00:27:44,388 --> 00:27:46,565 - Mm-hm. Nice to meet you all. - Nice to meet you too! 864 00:27:46,632 --> 00:27:48,333 - Did that go well? - Kinda. 865 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:49,134 Yeah. 866 00:27:49,201 --> 00:27:50,627 Mom, do you want props? 867 00:27:50,661 --> 00:27:51,436 Sure. [camera shutter clicking] 868 00:27:51,470 --> 00:27:54,439 - Flash? - Hold on. 869 00:27:54,506 --> 00:27:56,542 I'll do a hot dog with ketchup. 870 00:27:56,608 --> 00:27:57,876 You don't put ketchup on hot dogs. 871 00:27:57,943 --> 00:27:59,144 I'm from Chicago, you don't. 872 00:27:59,178 --> 00:28:00,612 Well, I'm from Rancho Santa Fe. 873 00:28:00,646 --> 00:28:01,680 [laughter] 874 00:28:01,747 --> 00:28:03,640 Am I the only one having a hot dog? 875 00:28:03,674 --> 00:28:04,483 Let me see it. 876 00:28:04,550 --> 00:28:05,884 No, we want Gina to eat a hot dog. 877 00:28:05,951 --> 00:28:07,286 Tamra, why don't you go get a hot dog 878 00:28:07,352 --> 00:28:08,345 so I can take your seat? 879 00:28:08,412 --> 00:28:09,488 Because why didn't you get me one? 880 00:28:09,555 --> 00:28:10,722 I don't want anything on it but ketchup. 881 00:28:10,822 --> 00:28:13,325 Oh, for God, you don't put ketchup on hot dogs! 882 00:28:13,392 --> 00:28:15,827 What do you mean you don't put ketchup on hot dogs? 883 00:28:15,861 --> 00:28:17,629 Is that so good? Do I need to go eat that? 884 00:28:17,663 --> 00:28:18,530 You have to eat one. 885 00:28:18,597 --> 00:28:20,198 It's really messy and not pretty. 886 00:28:20,299 --> 00:28:21,325 Oh, I don't care about that, 887 00:28:21,358 --> 00:28:22,568 - I just-- - But it's so good. 888 00:28:22,668 --> 00:28:24,937 After the car, I just needed to settle. 889 00:28:25,003 --> 00:28:26,830 Chicago dogs never have ketchup. 890 00:28:26,863 --> 00:28:28,006 - Why? - If you're from Chicago, 891 00:28:28,073 --> 00:28:29,041 you don't do it. 892 00:28:29,141 --> 00:28:30,943 It's like ranch on your pizza to a New Yorker. 893 00:28:31,043 --> 00:28:32,177 - Mm. - I love ranch on pizza. 894 00:28:32,244 --> 00:28:34,947 It's so offensive. [chuckling] 895 00:28:35,047 --> 00:28:37,015 Carmella should be your people 'cause she's a Midwesterner. 896 00:28:37,082 --> 00:28:38,016 I know, she is my people. 897 00:28:38,083 --> 00:28:38,817 We're best friends now. 898 00:28:38,850 --> 00:28:40,052 Okay, good. I love that for you. 899 00:28:40,118 --> 00:28:41,520 I love that you have mustard on your lips. 900 00:28:41,587 --> 00:28:42,487 I love that too. 901 00:28:42,521 --> 00:28:43,714 You and Carmella are best friends now? 902 00:28:43,780 --> 00:28:44,923 I mean, I-- Is that what she said? 903 00:28:44,990 --> 00:28:46,383 - Yeah, we're fine. - Carmella poked at her 904 00:28:46,450 --> 00:28:47,693 - when we came in. - Okay, whatever. 905 00:28:47,726 --> 00:28:48,794 Poked at her? What's that mean? 906 00:28:48,860 --> 00:28:50,162 She's like, "Oh, are those your kids?" 907 00:28:50,195 --> 00:28:52,130 She's like, "Yes, these are my kids that I left behind." 908 00:28:52,197 --> 00:28:53,357 That's what she did. 909 00:28:53,390 --> 00:28:55,033 We all leave our kids behind when we go traveling. 910 00:28:55,067 --> 00:28:56,268 - Now it's fine. - Now it's fine. 911 00:28:56,335 --> 00:28:57,436 - It's fine. - It's fine. 912 00:28:57,536 --> 00:28:59,696 Vicki somewhat apologized to Carmella in Vegas. 913 00:28:59,730 --> 00:29:00,672 Let's be honest. 914 00:29:00,706 --> 00:29:02,608 And Vicki completely mom-shamed her. 915 00:29:02,708 --> 00:29:05,310 So now you guys are the "same kind of people," 916 00:29:05,377 --> 00:29:07,045 and you and Carmella are best friends? 917 00:29:07,079 --> 00:29:08,680 Yeah, no, you're not. 918 00:29:08,714 --> 00:29:10,949 I'm gonna make "songria" for everyone in a minute. 919 00:29:11,016 --> 00:29:12,376 - Right now? - Yeah, I brought some 920 00:29:12,409 --> 00:29:13,452 "songria" stuff. 921 00:29:13,518 --> 00:29:15,387 - What'd you bring? - Some "songria" stuff. 922 00:29:15,454 --> 00:29:16,655 - "Songria?" - Yeah. 923 00:29:16,755 --> 00:29:17,823 - "Songria!" 924 00:29:17,889 --> 00:29:19,958 Songria... why are you making fun of me today? 925 00:29:20,025 --> 00:29:22,027 Wait, like "songria," like, S-O-N? 926 00:29:22,094 --> 00:29:24,154 But I don't think it's called "Songria." 927 00:29:24,221 --> 00:29:25,797 I thought it was sangria. It's sangria. 928 00:29:25,864 --> 00:29:28,400 Heather, how do you spell that? Is it S-O-N? 929 00:29:28,467 --> 00:29:30,602 S-A-N? S-A-N-G-- 930 00:29:30,669 --> 00:29:33,105 What am I supposed to say, sangria? 931 00:29:33,171 --> 00:29:34,706 - Yeah. - I think so. 932 00:29:34,740 --> 00:29:37,142 Then let me make your sangria. 933 00:29:37,242 --> 00:29:39,444 Which is incorrect by the way. 934 00:29:39,511 --> 00:29:41,905 I always thought it was "Sang-ria." 935 00:29:41,938 --> 00:29:42,714 I'm from Ohio. 936 00:29:42,848 --> 00:29:44,883 We don't even have sangria in Ohio. 937 00:29:44,916 --> 00:29:46,785 It's "Songria." [laughing] 938 00:29:46,852 --> 00:29:47,886 You like sangria? 939 00:29:47,953 --> 00:29:49,388 It's Songria. I'm sorry, 940 00:29:49,488 --> 00:29:50,989 could you please say it correctly? 941 00:29:51,089 --> 00:29:51,890 [laughter] 942 00:29:51,957 --> 00:29:53,925 - Song! - Songria. 943 00:29:53,992 --> 00:29:55,827 Do you need help? Oh, that would be lovely, 944 00:29:55,927 --> 00:29:57,087 thank you. 945 00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,598 I didn't realize, but it's kinda like a little weird, 946 00:29:59,665 --> 00:30:01,858 like I didn't know how to act around Danny, 947 00:30:01,958 --> 00:30:05,370 because I feel like it's like, we all know so much about him. 948 00:30:05,470 --> 00:30:07,906 Oh, my God, I felt guilty that I like... 949 00:30:07,973 --> 00:30:09,908 See, you guys shouldn't ask me so many questions. 950 00:30:09,975 --> 00:30:12,044 Has it been better since Vegas for you? 951 00:30:12,110 --> 00:30:13,412 Yeah, yeah, it has. 952 00:30:13,512 --> 00:30:16,114 I go back and forth and back and forth. 953 00:30:16,181 --> 00:30:17,207 Like, that's a big thing, 954 00:30:17,274 --> 00:30:18,684 to step up and to help with your kids. 955 00:30:18,750 --> 00:30:21,953 But sometimes I'm so angry. 956 00:30:22,020 --> 00:30:23,922 - Yeah. - And I have to let go of that, 957 00:30:23,955 --> 00:30:25,882 and not just for him, like, for me. 958 00:30:25,949 --> 00:30:27,592 - For you, yeah. - For my kids. 959 00:30:27,626 --> 00:30:29,094 My kids love Danny. 960 00:30:29,127 --> 00:30:31,263 Knowing that he's trying to give my kids comfort 961 00:30:31,296 --> 00:30:32,989 means so much to me. 962 00:30:33,056 --> 00:30:35,033 I had a track meet, and he was like, 963 00:30:35,133 --> 00:30:36,401 "Well, when's the track meet? 964 00:30:36,501 --> 00:30:37,794 "Because I want to like, come." 965 00:30:37,828 --> 00:30:40,539 And it like, meant a lot to me. 966 00:30:40,639 --> 00:30:42,774 I do feel like it kind of chipped away 967 00:30:42,841 --> 00:30:44,609 at like that wall of resentment 968 00:30:44,676 --> 00:30:45,811 that I have. 969 00:30:45,877 --> 00:30:48,839 Like, we're trying to rebuild and make this work. 970 00:30:48,905 --> 00:30:50,949 So that's for you. 971 00:30:51,016 --> 00:30:51,950 Just to try. 972 00:30:51,983 --> 00:30:53,618 Thanks, Danny. That's so nice. 973 00:30:53,652 --> 00:30:54,519 Thank you, Heather. 974 00:30:54,619 --> 00:30:55,787 Party's at your house next. 975 00:30:55,921 --> 00:30:56,722 Isn't that yummy? 976 00:30:56,822 --> 00:30:57,656 It's just kind of refreshing. 977 00:30:57,689 --> 00:30:58,623 It's very refreshing. 978 00:30:58,657 --> 00:31:00,183 You want me to take that one back in? 979 00:31:00,250 --> 00:31:00,959 Oh, thanks, honey. 980 00:31:01,026 --> 00:31:02,194 What all have you got going on? 981 00:31:02,260 --> 00:31:03,528 Shane and I went to dinner the other night 982 00:31:03,595 --> 00:31:05,764 - just the two of us. - Oh, you told me about that. 983 00:31:05,831 --> 00:31:07,032 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - How was that? 984 00:31:07,099 --> 00:31:08,825 Things have been good lately, it was good. We got out. 985 00:31:08,859 --> 00:31:10,635 I thought after your two-time sex in the day thing, like... 986 00:31:10,702 --> 00:31:11,970 You had sex two times in a day? 987 00:31:12,037 --> 00:31:12,804 Yeah, in one day, yes. 988 00:31:12,838 --> 00:31:13,972 - In the same day? - Yeah. 989 00:31:14,039 --> 00:31:15,474 Before and after dinner. 990 00:31:15,540 --> 00:31:17,008 Before dinner and after dinner? 991 00:31:17,075 --> 00:31:18,710 Not even, like, eight hours in between? 992 00:31:18,777 --> 00:31:19,611 No, I don't know. 993 00:31:19,711 --> 00:31:20,837 Oh, I suck. 994 00:31:20,871 --> 00:31:22,147 But you know what else they need besides attention? 995 00:31:22,214 --> 00:31:24,649 They need gratitude. And that's very hard for me. 996 00:31:24,750 --> 00:31:25,584 Like, just say thank you. 997 00:31:25,684 --> 00:31:26,651 "Thank you for doing the dishes, 998 00:31:26,685 --> 00:31:27,944 "thank you for taking the trash out, 999 00:31:28,011 --> 00:31:29,187 "thank you for taking care of the kids." 1000 00:31:29,221 --> 00:31:30,722 - It's like, just say it. - Just say it. 1001 00:31:30,789 --> 00:31:31,757 'Cause everyone wants to be seen. 1002 00:31:31,823 --> 00:31:33,183 I need to be better at that. 1003 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:36,595 I'm gonna get a hot dog. 1004 00:31:36,695 --> 00:31:38,096 When you're in Orange County you have to go out 1005 00:31:38,163 --> 00:31:39,664 with all of us with our husbands and significant others. 1006 00:31:39,798 --> 00:31:41,333 - I would love that. - We're inviting you. 1007 00:31:41,366 --> 00:31:42,801 - Thank you. - And Shannon. 1008 00:31:42,868 --> 00:31:44,636 And me. I'll be the fifth wheel, 1009 00:31:44,736 --> 00:31:45,570 ninth wheel. 1010 00:31:45,637 --> 00:31:46,938 Find her a good, find her a good... 1011 00:31:47,038 --> 00:31:48,507 But if you can find her a nice guy... 1012 00:31:48,540 --> 00:31:50,842 -I'm good, right now. - She loves making out. 1013 00:31:50,909 --> 00:31:51,777 [chuckling] 1014 00:31:51,843 --> 00:31:53,145 Yeah, I like to kiss. [indistinct] 1015 00:31:53,211 --> 00:31:54,279 And I think she does blowjobs, too. 1016 00:31:54,379 --> 00:31:56,081 Okay. [laughter] 1017 00:31:56,148 --> 00:31:57,215 Step up. 1018 00:31:57,282 --> 00:31:58,416 Well, that's weird that we'd just tell him. 1019 00:31:58,517 --> 00:32:00,252 - It's not weird, right? - Well, it kind of is. 1020 00:32:00,352 --> 00:32:01,186 I'm sure he likes blowjobs. 1021 00:32:01,219 --> 00:32:02,187 [laughter] 1022 00:32:02,220 --> 00:32:04,856 Jen needs to be like a swimsuit model. 1023 00:32:04,890 --> 00:32:05,891 Forget houses, Jen, 1024 00:32:05,957 --> 00:32:07,759 you need to be a swimsuit model. 1025 00:32:07,859 --> 00:32:08,627 Here you go, babe. 1026 00:32:08,727 --> 00:32:09,795 - Me? - You're in trouble. 1027 00:32:09,861 --> 00:32:11,062 Thank you so much. 1028 00:32:11,129 --> 00:32:13,031 - Do I have a straw? - Actually, I'll get you one. 1029 00:32:13,098 --> 00:32:14,299 Thank you. Is that too much? I'm sorry. 1030 00:32:14,399 --> 00:32:17,068 - Say thank you. - Thank you so much. Thank you. 1031 00:32:17,102 --> 00:32:19,171 I'll give you a blowjob later. [gasps] 1032 00:32:19,271 --> 00:32:21,540 Mom! Oh, my God! The daughter! 1033 00:32:21,606 --> 00:32:23,608 - Sorry, your mom. - I'm so sorry, that was a joke. 1034 00:32:23,708 --> 00:32:24,476 Mom, you're gross. 1035 00:32:24,543 --> 00:32:26,077 That was Miss Emily's fault, 1036 00:32:26,111 --> 00:32:27,212 it was an inside joke. 1037 00:32:27,279 --> 00:32:29,448 I didn't say blowjob! I just said say thank you! 1038 00:32:29,548 --> 00:32:31,917 - My God. - I got confused. 1039 00:32:31,983 --> 00:32:34,786 Look, I'm not sure how she went from thank you to a blowjob. 1040 00:32:34,853 --> 00:32:37,422 But, she took it to a whole 'nother level. 1041 00:32:37,489 --> 00:32:38,890 That's quite a thank you. 1042 00:32:38,990 --> 00:32:41,626 Keep that in your inner thoughts, please. 1043 00:32:41,693 --> 00:32:44,296 Oh, my God. Did not realize she was standing there. 1044 00:32:48,959 --> 00:32:50,894 [upbeat music] 1045 00:32:50,927 --> 00:32:53,071 - You guys want to do pictures? - Yep. 1046 00:32:53,138 --> 00:32:54,531 Get in here, bitches. 1047 00:32:54,598 --> 00:32:55,941 [screams] She put her finger in my butt! 1048 00:32:56,041 --> 00:32:58,076 Heather! Come here and get your thing for your photo. 1049 00:32:58,143 --> 00:32:59,578 Do you want to take a picture with me? 1050 00:32:59,644 --> 00:33:00,879 We just took pictures. 1051 00:33:00,912 --> 00:33:02,113 It is your turn to take a picture. 1052 00:33:02,180 --> 00:33:03,515 I don't want to take a picture by myself. 1053 00:33:03,582 --> 00:33:04,975 You love taking pictures by yourself. 1054 00:33:05,041 --> 00:33:06,434 - Do this. - No, I don't. 1055 00:33:06,468 --> 00:33:07,886 Look at Heather. She's like, "I hate this." 1056 00:33:07,953 --> 00:33:09,454 - I know. - But then she's like this. 1057 00:33:09,521 --> 00:33:10,856 [hums fanfare] 1058 00:33:10,922 --> 00:33:12,057 [camera shutters] One more. 1059 00:33:12,090 --> 00:33:15,410 I'm leaving. You're going with me. 1060 00:33:15,477 --> 00:33:16,720 So your guys' birthday coming up. 1061 00:33:16,786 --> 00:33:18,496 - I know. - What are we gonna do for it? 1062 00:33:18,597 --> 00:33:20,115 Well, we have to celebrate. 1063 00:33:20,148 --> 00:33:21,766 I'm gonna go out with you guys individually. 1064 00:33:21,867 --> 00:33:23,668 I'm gonna go out with Shannon, just me and Shannon 1065 00:33:23,735 --> 00:33:25,470 are gonna go out. 1066 00:33:25,570 --> 00:33:26,596 We can't all three go out? 1067 00:33:26,663 --> 00:33:29,165 It's my last year before I get on Medicare, 1068 00:33:29,232 --> 00:33:30,667 we are flipping celebrating. 1069 00:33:30,767 --> 00:33:31,676 [laughter] 1070 00:33:31,710 --> 00:33:33,111 The trix amigas are being a little odd. 1071 00:33:33,211 --> 00:33:34,404 Are they excluding you? 1072 00:33:34,437 --> 00:33:35,906 They were taking pictures and I was walking by. 1073 00:33:35,972 --> 00:33:37,641 They go, "Come take a picture, take a picture by yourself." 1074 00:33:37,741 --> 00:33:39,618 And I go, "I don't want to take a picture by myself." 1075 00:33:39,684 --> 00:33:41,177 Can you go get my purse please? 1076 00:33:41,278 --> 00:33:44,589 Can I just sit down? 1077 00:33:44,623 --> 00:33:46,925 Don't put your shoes on furniture. 1078 00:33:46,958 --> 00:33:48,109 [sighs] 1079 00:33:48,176 --> 00:33:49,586 Did you have fun in Vegas? 1080 00:33:49,653 --> 00:33:50,896 I did have fun in Vegas. 1081 00:33:50,962 --> 00:33:52,255 Are you sure you had fun in Vegas? 1082 00:33:52,322 --> 00:33:54,591 I did, but you all have so much energy. 1083 00:33:54,658 --> 00:33:56,484 Like, I can't keep up. 1084 00:33:56,518 --> 00:33:57,569 I felt like Vegas was fun, 1085 00:33:57,636 --> 00:34:01,264 and I felt like all in all, it was a success. 1086 00:34:01,331 --> 00:34:02,599 Stand down! 1087 00:34:02,632 --> 00:34:03,633 Oh, for God's sake. 1088 00:34:03,667 --> 00:34:05,310 That might've been what she said to me. 1089 00:34:05,377 --> 00:34:07,712 - Yeah, that was a lot. - That was loud. 1090 00:34:07,746 --> 00:34:09,372 I feel like maybe we just need to back up 1091 00:34:09,472 --> 00:34:11,341 and maybe just kind of talk about Vegas 1092 00:34:11,441 --> 00:34:14,502 more than just that one isolated incident, because... 1093 00:34:14,536 --> 00:34:17,213 - Oh, good. Here we go. - I feel like we can do this 1094 00:34:17,314 --> 00:34:19,658 - in a friendly mature way. - Oh, okay, yes. Let's hear. 1095 00:34:19,724 --> 00:34:21,993 Yes, I'm sure we can. 1096 00:34:22,060 --> 00:34:23,561 You're being sarcastic, though? 1097 00:34:23,595 --> 00:34:24,854 - No, I'm good. - No, I'm saying 1098 00:34:24,955 --> 00:34:27,432 when I left Vegas, I felt irritated. 1099 00:34:27,499 --> 00:34:28,516 Oh? Why were you irritated? 1100 00:34:28,550 --> 00:34:29,534 It's always like, 1101 00:34:29,634 --> 00:34:31,102 I need to sit at the center of the table, 1102 00:34:31,169 --> 00:34:32,963 or I need to be the first person that walks in. 1103 00:34:33,029 --> 00:34:34,356 I never sit at the center of the table! 1104 00:34:34,389 --> 00:34:36,132 I don't know. It's like walking in first. 1105 00:34:36,199 --> 00:34:38,401 Walking first, every time we're in a group thing, 1106 00:34:38,501 --> 00:34:39,678 you always push me behind you. 1107 00:34:39,744 --> 00:34:41,071 That is not even true? 1108 00:34:41,137 --> 00:34:43,882 I don't know, ask Victoria. Who always walks in first? 1109 00:34:43,982 --> 00:34:44,849 Heather. 1110 00:34:44,950 --> 00:34:46,701 Heather, she just said. It was Heather. 1111 00:34:46,735 --> 00:34:49,154 All I care about is the good light. 1112 00:34:49,220 --> 00:34:50,822 [laughs] It's true. 1113 00:34:50,889 --> 00:34:53,208 I like Heather more today than I did the other day 1114 00:34:53,241 --> 00:34:54,025 because I love her mother. 1115 00:34:54,125 --> 00:34:55,260 - Yeah. - And she's a product 1116 00:34:55,293 --> 00:34:56,519 of her mother. 1117 00:34:56,553 --> 00:34:58,229 I just want to know why she brought sangria mix 1118 00:34:58,296 --> 00:34:59,164 to a pool party. 1119 00:34:59,230 --> 00:35:01,566 Here's the thing, we love you, 1120 00:35:01,633 --> 00:35:03,351 sometimes you're a lot. 1121 00:35:03,418 --> 00:35:04,494 You starting to cool down? 1122 00:35:04,561 --> 00:35:06,363 You put a lot of vodka in the other one. 1123 00:35:06,429 --> 00:35:08,098 No, I didn't. 1124 00:35:08,198 --> 00:35:11,309 Don't be trying anything tricky on me. 1125 00:35:11,343 --> 00:35:12,544 I feel like a lot of times 1126 00:35:12,611 --> 00:35:14,871 everything revolves around you and what you want. 1127 00:35:14,938 --> 00:35:17,349 - And that bothers you. - Well, it was irritating! 1128 00:35:17,382 --> 00:35:18,516 It was a little irritating, 1129 00:35:18,583 --> 00:35:20,986 and I just want to be honest with you about it. 1130 00:35:21,019 --> 00:35:23,038 Okay, well, I guess I'll have to watch that. 1131 00:35:23,104 --> 00:35:24,556 But guess what? 1132 00:35:24,656 --> 00:35:28,893 There are people that ----ing love how much I am. 1133 00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,754 Emily is very frustrating to me 1134 00:35:30,854 --> 00:35:32,197 because the things she accuses me of 1135 00:35:32,263 --> 00:35:34,866 I think are things that she does on the regular 1136 00:35:34,899 --> 00:35:36,292 that I don't complain about. 1137 00:35:36,393 --> 00:35:38,303 She's often in the middle of the photo. 1138 00:35:38,370 --> 00:35:40,405 She's often in the middle of the table sitting there. 1139 00:35:40,472 --> 00:35:41,731 She often walks ahead. 1140 00:35:41,798 --> 00:35:43,400 I don't care. 1141 00:35:43,466 --> 00:35:45,402 So why do you? 1142 00:35:45,435 --> 00:35:47,804 So grateful we're sitting over here in the peace. 1143 00:35:47,904 --> 00:35:50,415 This is the old lady section. 1144 00:35:50,482 --> 00:35:51,216 Rope it off. 1145 00:35:51,282 --> 00:35:53,051 I want to learn how to dance. 1146 00:35:53,118 --> 00:35:55,603 This is all I know. 1147 00:35:55,637 --> 00:35:56,388 It was Heather! 1148 00:35:56,454 --> 00:35:57,389 Sorry, I'm gonna squeeze by you. 1149 00:35:57,455 --> 00:35:59,524 - Get over here. Just stay here. - Yes. 1150 00:35:59,591 --> 00:36:01,317 Okay, we had an opportunity to talk to Danny. 1151 00:36:01,418 --> 00:36:03,586 He's so sweet with your kids today. 1152 00:36:03,653 --> 00:36:04,654 And we saw it. 1153 00:36:04,721 --> 00:36:06,089 - And they love him. - It's clear. 1154 00:36:06,156 --> 00:36:08,091 But I wanted to talk to you without being in front 1155 00:36:08,158 --> 00:36:10,393 of everybody because I came home from Vegas 1156 00:36:10,460 --> 00:36:12,203 and I was heavy-hearted. 1157 00:36:12,270 --> 00:36:13,496 I get it. 1158 00:36:13,563 --> 00:36:14,898 I appreciated your apology, 1159 00:36:14,964 --> 00:36:17,342 but I just wanted to make sure that we were good. 1160 00:36:17,442 --> 00:36:20,145 I mean, do you just feel like you went too far? 1161 00:36:20,211 --> 00:36:22,639 Or like, do you really have those thoughts about me? 1162 00:36:22,739 --> 00:36:23,673 It didn't make sense to me. 1163 00:36:23,773 --> 00:36:24,816 And it doesn't really matter, 1164 00:36:24,916 --> 00:36:26,751 it's not my choice to have it make sense. 1165 00:36:26,818 --> 00:36:28,778 - It just-- - But you didn't intend 1166 00:36:28,812 --> 00:36:29,888 to mom-shame her. It wasn't your intent. 1167 00:36:29,954 --> 00:36:31,056 No, I never mom-shamed you. 1168 00:36:31,122 --> 00:36:32,440 It could've been perceived that way, but that 1169 00:36:32,507 --> 00:36:33,458 wasn't your intention, so. 1170 00:36:33,525 --> 00:36:34,626 God, no. Didn't make sense to me. 1171 00:36:34,692 --> 00:36:36,119 If you want to live in Corona Del Mar, 1172 00:36:36,186 --> 00:36:37,395 live in Corona Del Mar. 1173 00:36:37,429 --> 00:36:39,022 You can't walk away thinking I was mom-shaming you, 1174 00:36:39,122 --> 00:36:40,857 'cause that was never my intent. 1175 00:36:40,957 --> 00:36:42,100 I don't really know her as a parent, 1176 00:36:42,167 --> 00:36:43,827 so I don't want to mom-shame her 1177 00:36:43,927 --> 00:36:45,295 the way Heather said I did. 1178 00:36:45,361 --> 00:36:48,598 But I guess Danny's filling in her role. 1179 00:36:48,665 --> 00:36:49,699 Many times. 1180 00:36:49,799 --> 00:36:53,545 I'm hopeful that she's genuine in her apology, 1181 00:36:53,578 --> 00:36:56,372 and in the fact that she made a mistake. 1182 00:36:56,473 --> 00:36:58,016 We all know Victoria said something very sh---y 1183 00:36:58,116 --> 00:36:59,050 - to Carmella. - Yeah. 1184 00:36:59,150 --> 00:37:00,318 And I don't know where you came from, 1185 00:37:00,385 --> 00:37:02,145 but you like, dropped from the ceiling and like, 1186 00:37:02,212 --> 00:37:04,214 all of a sudden you were like, in the middle of it. 1187 00:37:04,314 --> 00:37:05,957 It was like, I know. 1188 00:37:06,024 --> 00:37:07,008 I don't even know what happened. 1189 00:37:07,041 --> 00:37:08,176 It was like-- And you were like, 1190 00:37:08,209 --> 00:37:09,160 - so aggressive. - I know. 1191 00:37:09,260 --> 00:37:11,429 And then I was like, what just happened? 1192 00:37:11,463 --> 00:37:13,356 And that's when it bothers me, that like, I feel like-- 1193 00:37:13,456 --> 00:37:15,024 Well, it does, I think it bothers both of us 1194 00:37:15,125 --> 00:37:16,301 because you said last year, 1195 00:37:16,367 --> 00:37:18,470 "I don't like that, my dad did that." 1196 00:37:18,536 --> 00:37:20,396 You remind me a little bit of my dad. 1197 00:37:20,463 --> 00:37:21,656 In public, with our family, 1198 00:37:21,723 --> 00:37:23,975 he would have like these outbursts. 1199 00:37:24,042 --> 00:37:26,478 I don't have outbursts in my family in public. 1200 00:37:26,544 --> 00:37:28,146 You came after me saying that. 1201 00:37:28,179 --> 00:37:29,506 So I'm like, what is going on here? 1202 00:37:29,539 --> 00:37:30,573 - Okay. - What do you mean? 1203 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:32,175 - That was rude. - Don't bring my dad 1204 00:37:32,208 --> 00:37:33,852 - into it, Tamra. - You brought your dad into it! 1205 00:37:33,952 --> 00:37:35,386 - That's a little different. - Last year, 1206 00:37:35,453 --> 00:37:37,380 - you brought your dad into it. - Okay. 1207 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,983 You're being aggressive, and I'm supposed to just 1208 00:37:40,049 --> 00:37:42,527 sit back and go, yeah. 1209 00:37:42,627 --> 00:37:43,428 No! Hypocrite. 1210 00:37:43,461 --> 00:37:45,255 She can't take her own medicine. 1211 00:37:45,355 --> 00:37:47,098 I believe my behavior was warranted, 1212 00:37:47,132 --> 00:37:50,860 but Tamra and Emily have been aggressive 1213 00:37:50,894 --> 00:37:52,595 many, many times over the years 1214 00:37:52,695 --> 00:37:54,264 in many, many different situations. 1215 00:37:54,364 --> 00:37:56,232 They're really not comparable. 1216 00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:06,784 You said, "I don't like that, my dad did that." 1217 00:38:06,885 --> 00:38:08,111 Don't bring my dad into it, Tamra. 1218 00:38:08,211 --> 00:38:09,245 You brought your dad into it! 1219 00:38:09,279 --> 00:38:10,547 - That's a little different. - Last year, 1220 00:38:10,613 --> 00:38:13,391 - you brought your dad into it. - Okay. 1221 00:38:13,491 --> 00:38:16,019 I hear you, and if something I do or say bothers you, 1222 00:38:16,085 --> 00:38:16,995 I want to hear about it. 1223 00:38:17,028 --> 00:38:18,555 But that's what I'm trying to do, 1224 00:38:18,621 --> 00:38:20,999 and I just want it to be done in a way where it's respected 1225 00:38:21,065 --> 00:38:24,202 and received and that there isn't an issue. 1226 00:38:24,269 --> 00:38:25,595 Of course. 1227 00:38:25,628 --> 00:38:26,805 Do you mind if I leave? 1228 00:38:26,871 --> 00:38:28,798 - I hate to do that. - Oh, no, I totally understand. 1229 00:38:28,898 --> 00:38:30,308 It's my birthday party tonight in the La Quinta. 1230 00:38:30,408 --> 00:38:31,409 I'll walk you out, come on. 1231 00:38:31,442 --> 00:38:33,069 - Hello! I'm heading out. - Oh, okay. 1232 00:38:33,136 --> 00:38:34,479 It's gonna take me two hours and 45 minutes 1233 00:38:34,546 --> 00:38:36,247 and my party starts at seven and I'm gonna get there 1234 00:38:36,347 --> 00:38:38,216 at seven-forty. Love you guys! 1235 00:38:38,283 --> 00:38:39,384 Okay, bye. 1236 00:38:39,450 --> 00:38:41,411 I think it's so rude of Vicki. 1237 00:38:41,477 --> 00:38:42,420 We came all the way here. 1238 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:43,922 I don't even know where the [bleep] we are, 1239 00:38:43,955 --> 00:38:45,114 but we are far away from home, 1240 00:38:45,148 --> 00:38:46,891 and you double booked it? 1241 00:38:46,958 --> 00:38:48,293 Like, just be here. 1242 00:38:48,326 --> 00:38:49,627 Okay, thank you, doll. 1243 00:38:49,661 --> 00:38:50,929 Okay, bye. Drive safe. 1244 00:38:50,962 --> 00:38:52,288 Call us if you run out of gas. 1245 00:38:52,322 --> 00:38:54,290 - I'll get the hell out. - Be careful, too. 1246 00:38:54,324 --> 00:38:57,402 - Okay, bye, honey. - Okay, bye, Vicki! 1247 00:38:57,468 --> 00:38:58,403 [snickers] 1248 00:38:58,469 --> 00:39:00,004 - Are we okay now? - Yeah. 1249 00:39:00,104 --> 00:39:01,506 - Are you sure? - Yeah. 1250 00:39:01,573 --> 00:39:04,108 - Do you feel like I heard you? - Do you feel like you heard me? 1251 00:39:04,209 --> 00:39:05,109 I definitely heard you. 1252 00:39:05,176 --> 00:39:06,844 Noted. Loud and clear. 1253 00:39:06,945 --> 00:39:09,113 Written down. Tattooing it. 1254 00:39:09,214 --> 00:39:12,008 Check the box. 1255 00:39:12,108 --> 00:39:13,451 - It was fun to meet Danny. - Yeah. 1256 00:39:13,484 --> 00:39:15,420 Do you worry about him when he's not around you? 1257 00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:20,058 I mean, I think the honest answer is like, yes. 1258 00:39:20,091 --> 00:39:23,127 But I mean it's not like he's like going out at night, 1259 00:39:23,194 --> 00:39:25,163 but I mean, people don't have to go out at night 1260 00:39:25,263 --> 00:39:26,489 to cheat, either. 1261 00:39:26,522 --> 00:39:28,132 Do you know, and I don't know if this is strange, 1262 00:39:28,233 --> 00:39:30,159 'cause this is just the way I operate with Shane, 1263 00:39:30,193 --> 00:39:32,495 but like, I don't know the pass code on his phone. 1264 00:39:32,528 --> 00:39:34,606 - I don't know anything. - I can't access his email. 1265 00:39:34,672 --> 00:39:36,441 Like, could you look at Terry's phone? 1266 00:39:36,474 --> 00:39:38,409 Yeah. But I would never think to pick it up 1267 00:39:38,443 --> 00:39:40,478 - and look through it. - I don't know his pass code. 1268 00:39:40,511 --> 00:39:41,880 Cat videos, that's all he has. 1269 00:39:41,980 --> 00:39:45,508 My ex saved his mistress under a different name 1270 00:39:45,541 --> 00:39:46,985 to like hide it. 1271 00:39:47,018 --> 00:39:49,854 Do you guys know that when my ex and I got back together, 1272 00:39:49,888 --> 00:39:51,656 we did Friday lunches. 1273 00:39:51,723 --> 00:39:54,459 He got up to go to the restroom and my heart was pounding. 1274 00:39:54,559 --> 00:39:56,653 And I knew what her number was, 1275 00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:57,954 and I put it in, 1276 00:39:58,021 --> 00:39:59,230 and it said a fake name, 1277 00:39:59,330 --> 00:40:02,133 and the texts seemed like they had gotten back together. 1278 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:03,034 - Oh, wow. - Wow. 1279 00:40:03,134 --> 00:40:05,203 Vicki told me that she thought that 1280 00:40:05,236 --> 00:40:06,863 he was still in contact with his affair, 1281 00:40:06,896 --> 00:40:09,866 even though we'd reconciled for months. 1282 00:40:09,899 --> 00:40:10,908 But they had reconnected. 1283 00:40:10,975 --> 00:40:13,303 Because I confirmed that with her husband. 1284 00:40:13,369 --> 00:40:14,712 They flip the script. 1285 00:40:14,746 --> 00:40:16,914 And then you start questioning your own reality. 1286 00:40:16,981 --> 00:40:18,549 Wait, is it me? 1287 00:40:18,583 --> 00:40:20,043 Am I crazy? 1288 00:40:20,076 --> 00:40:22,320 Like, I guess I was so hard on myself for so long, 1289 00:40:22,420 --> 00:40:25,657 because I'm like, why am I not over it? 1290 00:40:25,723 --> 00:40:27,317 I feel like I've damaged the relationship 1291 00:40:27,383 --> 00:40:28,993 with myself the most. 1292 00:40:29,060 --> 00:40:30,561 When you don't trust yourself, 1293 00:40:30,595 --> 00:40:32,722 or when somebody makes you feel crazy, 1294 00:40:32,755 --> 00:40:35,233 like you can't trust your own intuition, 1295 00:40:35,333 --> 00:40:36,801 that's a problem. 1296 00:40:36,834 --> 00:40:39,329 I really feel like I need to go home and have sex with Shane. 1297 00:40:39,395 --> 00:40:41,005 [chuckles] You definitely do. 1298 00:40:41,072 --> 00:40:42,498 Same. I mean, not with Shane, 1299 00:40:42,565 --> 00:40:44,208 but, you know, whatever. 1300 00:40:44,242 --> 00:40:46,269 I'm just sitting here like, mm, he would never do that. 1301 00:40:46,369 --> 00:40:48,880 No, I know, that's what makes you appreciate. 1302 00:40:48,980 --> 00:40:50,440 It was really nice to see where you live 1303 00:40:50,540 --> 00:40:51,941 and meet your kids and stuff. 1304 00:40:52,041 --> 00:40:53,384 Yeah, thank you for having us. 1305 00:40:53,451 --> 00:40:55,353 - Thank you all for coming. - Yeah, thanks for having us. 1306 00:40:55,453 --> 00:40:57,021 This is so beautiful. 1307 00:40:57,088 --> 00:40:59,115 We're gonna have fun, bitches! 1308 00:40:59,215 --> 00:41:00,116 [cheering] 1309 00:41:00,183 --> 00:41:02,126 [yelling] 1310 00:41:02,226 --> 00:41:04,253 - Oh, my God! - You broke my nose! 1311 00:41:04,287 --> 00:41:05,355 Still to come this season 1312 00:41:05,421 --> 00:41:07,832 on The Real Housewives of Orange County. 1313 00:41:07,865 --> 00:41:09,759 Tokyo! 1314 00:41:09,792 --> 00:41:10,735 This familiar? 1315 00:41:10,768 --> 00:41:12,804 I just got your message. What's going on? 1316 00:41:12,870 --> 00:41:14,138 - Wait, what? - Are you serious? 1317 00:41:16,065 --> 00:41:18,301 You're going senile. 1318 00:41:18,401 --> 00:41:20,211 Are those testicles? 1319 00:41:20,278 --> 00:41:22,747 [retching] 1320 00:41:22,847 --> 00:41:23,915 Was it something we said? 1321 00:41:24,015 --> 00:41:24,982 No! 1322 00:41:25,049 --> 00:41:27,643 [upbeat music] oh, my God that is so cute. 1323 00:41:27,744 --> 00:41:29,787 Gina, maybe you're too bougie. 1324 00:41:29,821 --> 00:41:30,980 She lived in a casita. 1325 00:41:31,047 --> 00:41:35,151 I never lived in a ----ing casita. 1326 00:41:35,218 --> 00:41:36,994 I didn't feel like you belonged in our group, 1327 00:41:37,095 --> 00:41:38,596 and I used the word trashy. 1328 00:41:38,696 --> 00:41:39,789 Jeez, Heather. 1329 00:41:39,822 --> 00:41:42,066 Alexis and John are here. 1330 00:41:42,133 --> 00:41:44,669 Keep my name out of your mouth, Alexis. 1331 00:41:44,736 --> 00:41:47,630 This is not fair. 1332 00:41:47,663 --> 00:41:49,807 You are so ----ing hot, 1333 00:41:49,841 --> 00:41:51,801 - and Shane, he has-- - Insecurities. 1334 00:41:51,834 --> 00:41:53,478 Insecurity, resentment. 1335 00:41:53,578 --> 00:41:55,113 She's feeling good about herself, 1336 00:41:55,146 --> 00:41:57,573 is she gonna start looking elsewhere. 1337 00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:58,683 Presley's graduating. 1338 00:41:58,750 --> 00:42:00,518 I'm still ----ing married. 1339 00:42:00,618 --> 00:42:01,944 I don't know what I'm doing. 1340 00:42:02,011 --> 00:42:03,454 You said that we're gonna have a life plan. 1341 00:42:03,488 --> 00:42:06,691 We're not talking about life plan tonight, no. 1342 00:42:06,791 --> 00:42:08,418 On paper everything looks perfect. 1343 00:42:08,484 --> 00:42:11,095 In my heart, it's not. 1344 00:42:11,162 --> 00:42:12,163 Vicki, she said you were fake. 1345 00:42:12,263 --> 00:42:13,022 Bullsh-- 1346 00:42:13,122 --> 00:42:14,632 I'm so sick of you coming at me. 1347 00:42:14,699 --> 00:42:16,567 - Oh, don't yell at me. - No, I can do whatever 1348 00:42:16,601 --> 00:42:17,769 the [bleep] I want, Vicki. 1349 00:42:17,802 --> 00:42:21,439 If somebody said Travis was raising my kids, 1350 00:42:21,506 --> 00:42:23,499 I would punch him in the face. 1351 00:42:23,533 --> 00:42:24,934 You could call me trashy. 1352 00:42:25,001 --> 00:42:26,644 You can't say things like that. 1353 00:42:26,711 --> 00:42:27,837 Girl, girl! 1354 00:42:27,870 --> 00:42:29,280 Don't come for my kids. 1355 00:42:29,347 --> 00:42:30,948 If you can't handle the heat, 1356 00:42:31,015 --> 00:42:32,216 stay out of the ----ing kitchen. 1357 00:42:32,283 --> 00:42:34,010 I feel like I'm gonna have a heart attack. 1358 00:42:34,043 --> 00:42:35,711 [thud] Wait, what just happened? 1359 00:42:35,778 --> 00:42:36,454 [gasps] Uh oh. 1360 00:42:36,487 --> 00:42:38,047 Oh, my God. Vicki! 1361 00:42:38,114 --> 00:42:40,625 Somebody pushed me, who pushed me? 1362 00:42:40,691 --> 00:42:42,310 [laughter]