1 00:00:06,707 --> 00:00:09,501 Previously on the Real Housewives of Orange County. 2 00:00:09,568 --> 00:00:12,579 Let me use your shoes, you take the slippers. 3 00:00:12,646 --> 00:00:14,348 No, I don't want the slippers! 4 00:00:14,414 --> 00:00:15,349 Whoa! 5 00:00:15,415 --> 00:00:17,676 Oh! Old lady down, old lady down. 6 00:00:17,743 --> 00:00:19,152 I'm not gonna lie, 7 00:00:19,219 --> 00:00:21,722 that Tres Amigas trip was off the chain. 8 00:00:21,788 --> 00:00:23,323 Tamra texted me and is like, 9 00:00:23,390 --> 00:00:24,558 "Can't wait to hang out." 10 00:00:24,625 --> 00:00:26,793 Did you think we can get it back? 11 00:00:26,860 --> 00:00:29,730 I want to know what happened at the girls' trip. 12 00:00:29,830 --> 00:00:32,324 Am I making excuses for calling her an alcoholic 13 00:00:32,357 --> 00:00:33,233 and all those things? No. 14 00:00:33,333 --> 00:00:34,993 Me and Shannon are a problem. 15 00:00:35,027 --> 00:00:37,170 Carmella seems like she's a lot of fun. 16 00:00:37,237 --> 00:00:40,540 - I was naked. - Oh! 17 00:00:40,607 --> 00:00:42,442 And so I was working for Playboy. 18 00:00:42,509 --> 00:00:43,644 Were you at the Playboy Mansion? 19 00:00:43,777 --> 00:00:45,245 Yeah. 20 00:00:45,312 --> 00:00:46,613 This is kind of a move-out gadget. 21 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:47,681 You want to look through that? 22 00:00:47,748 --> 00:00:49,007 Is this a taser? 23 00:00:49,041 --> 00:00:50,651 I definitely think that I'm gonna have a harder time 24 00:00:50,751 --> 00:00:52,452 with this change than Sophia will. 25 00:00:52,552 --> 00:00:55,322 Grayson got pulled over the other day. 26 00:00:55,455 --> 00:00:56,490 I said, "Wait, wait, Gray, 27 00:00:56,556 --> 00:00:57,991 "how fast did they pull you over for?" 28 00:00:58,091 --> 00:00:59,226 105. 29 00:00:59,326 --> 00:01:00,227 [gasps] 30 00:01:00,294 --> 00:01:01,228 Jenn. 31 00:01:01,295 --> 00:01:02,554 What'd she say? 32 00:01:02,621 --> 00:01:05,399 Basically, I'm not friends with you, like I think I am. 33 00:01:05,499 --> 00:01:06,767 Oh, stop! 34 00:01:06,833 --> 00:01:08,936 You feel certain ways, I don't feel that way. 35 00:01:09,036 --> 00:01:10,896 If you're doing this to Tamra, 36 00:01:10,963 --> 00:01:12,572 what are you doing behind my back? 37 00:01:12,673 --> 00:01:13,974 I'm trying to get to a point 38 00:01:14,074 --> 00:01:15,842 where we're not yelling at each other 39 00:01:15,876 --> 00:01:17,644 and saying your podcast is tanking. 40 00:01:17,744 --> 00:01:18,545 Absolutely. 41 00:01:18,578 --> 00:01:20,514 I make money off of you. 42 00:01:20,614 --> 00:01:21,873 Then you should thank me. 43 00:01:29,890 --> 00:01:32,392 My motives are like my taste. 44 00:01:32,459 --> 00:01:34,428 Best left unquestioned. 45 00:01:36,063 --> 00:01:38,198 How do I hold it all together? 46 00:01:38,298 --> 00:01:40,801 Resilience and shapewear. 47 00:01:41,468 --> 00:01:45,105 The truth speaks volumes and I'm about to turn it up. 48 00:01:47,733 --> 00:01:51,778 Just because I'm spoken for doesn't mean I won't speak up. 49 00:01:53,413 --> 00:01:55,616 My body may be new, 50 00:01:55,682 --> 00:01:59,286 but my mouth is the same as always. 51 00:01:59,786 --> 00:02:02,956 I'm the center of attention and the centerfold. 52 00:02:04,608 --> 00:02:08,795 I'm still the hottest housewife, and that's my opinion. 53 00:02:11,365 --> 00:02:13,233 Wives come and go, but legends... 54 00:02:13,333 --> 00:02:15,218 we whoop it up forever! 55 00:02:19,339 --> 00:02:21,058 [upbeat music] 56 00:02:29,616 --> 00:02:32,586 Sophia, what part of pack everything last night 57 00:02:32,652 --> 00:02:35,389 did you misunderstand? 58 00:02:35,455 --> 00:02:36,590 Don't you want to take your comforter? 59 00:02:36,723 --> 00:02:38,525 No, Mom. I actually don't want to sleep in bed sheets. 60 00:02:38,592 --> 00:02:39,651 Well, this is all the stuff 61 00:02:39,718 --> 00:02:40,927 that needs to be packed up, dude. 62 00:02:40,961 --> 00:02:43,463 You're acting like I'm not doing things right now. 63 00:02:43,497 --> 00:02:44,931 No, I'm not saying that. 64 00:02:44,998 --> 00:02:46,291 Help me out. 65 00:02:46,324 --> 00:02:48,635 Where's the cat food and bowls and all that stuff? 66 00:02:48,668 --> 00:02:50,937 Here. I'm, I'm prepared. 67 00:02:50,971 --> 00:02:53,607 Sophia's just grown up so much in the last year. 68 00:02:53,707 --> 00:02:56,510 She was so hesitant about moving out and going to LA 69 00:02:56,610 --> 00:02:57,778 and doing things on her own. 70 00:02:57,811 --> 00:02:59,746 Look at all these cobwebs everywhere. 71 00:02:59,846 --> 00:03:02,049 That's been there since before I even moved into this room. 72 00:03:02,115 --> 00:03:04,017 Don't put that on me, don't put that on me. 73 00:03:04,084 --> 00:03:05,085 Oh, God. 74 00:03:05,152 --> 00:03:06,678 I think that now that she's with Nico, 75 00:03:06,745 --> 00:03:08,455 she's become more confident. 76 00:03:08,488 --> 00:03:10,257 And it didn't hurt that her boyfriend 77 00:03:10,357 --> 00:03:12,459 lives 10 minutes from her brand new place. 78 00:03:12,526 --> 00:03:14,361 I told you, you should have been more prepared. 79 00:03:17,330 --> 00:03:19,933 I've been raising kids for 40 years. 80 00:03:20,033 --> 00:03:21,468 [screaming] 81 00:03:21,535 --> 00:03:23,762 Show my wife, because I'm blown away. 82 00:03:23,829 --> 00:03:25,030 Why would you do that? 83 00:03:25,097 --> 00:03:26,164 Who are you wearing, Sydney? 84 00:03:26,198 --> 00:03:28,241 I'm wearing Tamra Barney. 85 00:03:28,308 --> 00:03:29,643 You're one of my best work. 86 00:03:29,676 --> 00:03:30,811 It's like graduation all over again. 87 00:03:30,844 --> 00:03:33,013 And now that she's the last one, 88 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,842 I feel like I really need to nurture my relationship 89 00:03:36,875 --> 00:03:38,151 with my husband. 90 00:03:38,185 --> 00:03:41,213 I don't know, I just feel like having like Woodstock sex. 91 00:03:41,279 --> 00:03:42,522 You know what I mean? Like, just, 92 00:03:42,556 --> 00:03:45,325 "Orgies at our house! Kids are gone!" 93 00:03:45,459 --> 00:03:47,094 Thank God it's not raining today. 94 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:48,186 I know. 95 00:03:48,220 --> 00:03:51,331 [upbeat music] 96 00:03:51,431 --> 00:03:53,984 [thunder clap] 97 00:04:00,407 --> 00:04:04,010 [calm music] 98 00:04:04,144 --> 00:04:06,012 [scoffs] 99 00:04:06,146 --> 00:04:07,514 Oh, Doctor Tim! 100 00:04:07,581 --> 00:04:08,740 What's happening, Em? 101 00:04:08,807 --> 00:04:09,649 Hi, how you doing? 102 00:04:09,716 --> 00:04:11,318 You look absolutely spectacular. 103 00:04:11,418 --> 00:04:12,519 What's new and exciting? 104 00:04:12,586 --> 00:04:14,588 I lost I'd say probably like 40 pounds 105 00:04:14,654 --> 00:04:15,689 over the past nine months. 106 00:04:15,756 --> 00:04:17,557 But I mean, I go to the gym every day. 107 00:04:17,624 --> 00:04:19,092 - It shows. - I was there this morning. 108 00:04:19,159 --> 00:04:22,129 Last year, I was very overwhelmed by Luke, 109 00:04:22,195 --> 00:04:23,964 and I had also gained a lot of weight back. 110 00:04:24,030 --> 00:04:26,967 He's possibly autistic, and he doesn't think 111 00:04:27,033 --> 00:04:29,236 and function like other children do. 112 00:04:29,269 --> 00:04:31,772 I feel like the weight of it is on me. 113 00:04:31,838 --> 00:04:34,766 And now I feel like I've found myself again. 114 00:04:34,833 --> 00:04:36,443 And then when you feel good about yourself, 115 00:04:36,543 --> 00:04:38,745 you feel good about taking care of your kids, 116 00:04:38,812 --> 00:04:40,680 and spending time with your husband, and then that 117 00:04:40,747 --> 00:04:42,048 trickles down to everybody else. 118 00:04:42,115 --> 00:04:43,717 Well, hello, Shannon. 119 00:04:43,750 --> 00:04:44,885 The Doctor of pain. 120 00:04:44,918 --> 00:04:46,086 How are you, beauty? 121 00:04:46,119 --> 00:04:47,078 I'm good, how are you? 122 00:04:47,112 --> 00:04:48,321 Ow! 123 00:04:48,388 --> 00:04:52,025 I have been seeing Doctor Tim for I think 11 years now. 124 00:04:52,092 --> 00:04:53,727 We're gonna do a little, like, stretch. 125 00:04:53,794 --> 00:04:56,129 Okay, wait! I don't want to get paralyzed. 126 00:04:56,196 --> 00:04:57,088 [creak] Oh! 127 00:04:57,122 --> 00:04:58,498 [creak] Yeah, yeah, yeah! Ow! 128 00:04:58,565 --> 00:05:02,068 Some of Doctor Tim's approach is aggressive. 129 00:05:02,102 --> 00:05:03,303 Food-wise, what are you doing? 130 00:05:03,370 --> 00:05:06,256 Chicken meatballs! With just a little panko! 131 00:05:06,289 --> 00:05:07,340 - All right? - Yes. Ow! 132 00:05:07,407 --> 00:05:09,709 I can't, ow, ow, ow, ow, ow! 133 00:05:09,810 --> 00:05:11,144 My usual workout routine 134 00:05:11,211 --> 00:05:14,080 is I do cardio and then I go into weights. 135 00:05:14,181 --> 00:05:15,307 Ow! 136 00:05:15,373 --> 00:05:16,750 I don't know what's going on at Doctor Tim's 137 00:05:16,850 --> 00:05:20,086 except there's some stretching, and then there's some pain. 138 00:05:20,187 --> 00:05:21,221 Ow! 139 00:05:21,288 --> 00:05:23,156 It's definitely not what I'm used to. 140 00:05:23,223 --> 00:05:24,758 We're just gonna cool down, we're just gonna be easy. 141 00:05:24,824 --> 00:05:26,326 - Okay. - We're gonna lay on the mat. 142 00:05:26,393 --> 00:05:27,828 No pain from me this time. 143 00:05:27,894 --> 00:05:29,329 Any questions, you holler. 144 00:05:29,396 --> 00:05:30,664 - Yeah. Okay. - Yeah. 145 00:05:30,764 --> 00:05:33,567 You seemed quiet last night at my birthday. 146 00:05:33,667 --> 00:05:36,670 I mean, I was biting my tongue. 147 00:05:36,736 --> 00:05:38,705 When you were having a discussion with Tamra, 148 00:05:38,805 --> 00:05:42,442 because I thought that that conversation was outrageous. 149 00:05:42,509 --> 00:05:45,637 I felt like we got to some kind of a resolution, 150 00:05:45,670 --> 00:05:47,848 but then she said, "Now I can tell iHeart 151 00:05:47,914 --> 00:05:49,507 "that you're allowed to go to events now." 152 00:05:49,574 --> 00:05:51,176 We do a ton of things with iHeart, 153 00:05:51,243 --> 00:05:53,954 and you haven't been there because I wouldn't allow it. 154 00:05:54,020 --> 00:05:55,322 So now... [laughter] 155 00:05:55,388 --> 00:05:58,058 Now I gotta sit back at the table and fight with you. 156 00:05:58,124 --> 00:05:59,960 - What are you talking about? - I'm joking, I'm joking. 157 00:06:00,026 --> 00:06:02,629 The intent of saying that was to remind me 158 00:06:02,696 --> 00:06:05,523 that she's up here, and I'm below her. 159 00:06:05,590 --> 00:06:07,859 I'm not gonna put myself through that anymore. 160 00:06:07,926 --> 00:06:08,927 It was exhausting. 161 00:06:09,027 --> 00:06:12,372 [upbeat music] 162 00:06:17,611 --> 00:06:18,912 Let's go peoples, come on. 163 00:06:18,979 --> 00:06:20,313 Put the rocking chair right there. 164 00:06:20,380 --> 00:06:21,648 We're gonna turn it right here. 165 00:06:21,715 --> 00:06:23,316 Little less talk, little more work here. 166 00:06:23,383 --> 00:06:25,485 [chuckling] 167 00:06:25,552 --> 00:06:26,778 Do you want to put up pictures? 168 00:06:26,845 --> 00:06:28,388 - What do you want to do? - Yeah, sure. 169 00:06:28,488 --> 00:06:29,656 [sighs] 170 00:06:29,789 --> 00:06:30,657 Here, try that. 171 00:06:30,757 --> 00:06:32,559 Okay. And I'll look. 172 00:06:32,626 --> 00:06:34,728 [bang] Oh, [bleep]. There you go. 173 00:06:34,794 --> 00:06:37,631 Shh, it's okay. 174 00:06:37,731 --> 00:06:38,531 Who is she? 175 00:06:38,565 --> 00:06:39,432 It's Helen. 176 00:06:39,499 --> 00:06:40,634 Her dad was a jewelry maker. 177 00:06:40,734 --> 00:06:43,069 - How do you know this? - She told me. 178 00:06:43,169 --> 00:06:44,504 You're scaring me. 179 00:06:44,571 --> 00:06:46,006 So, Vicki was over at my house, 180 00:06:46,039 --> 00:06:48,441 and she wants the Tres Amigas back. 181 00:06:48,541 --> 00:06:50,343 Can you move on with Shannon? 182 00:06:50,377 --> 00:06:51,711 You have to understand, I tried. 183 00:06:51,778 --> 00:06:53,947 She wouldn't even give me the time of day last year. 184 00:06:54,014 --> 00:06:56,383 All I want is to figure out 185 00:06:56,449 --> 00:06:57,867 a way that we can put it behind us 186 00:06:57,901 --> 00:07:00,120 and just start being kind. 187 00:07:00,186 --> 00:07:01,888 I'm all for moving forward. 188 00:07:01,955 --> 00:07:03,223 Just be neutral. 189 00:07:03,290 --> 00:07:04,758 [phone buzzes] 190 00:07:04,824 --> 00:07:06,993 Oh, it's Vicki. 191 00:07:07,060 --> 00:07:08,720 What are you doing? 192 00:07:08,753 --> 00:07:10,221 Hi, Victoria. 193 00:07:10,255 --> 00:07:11,556 You guys are working out? 194 00:07:11,589 --> 00:07:12,599 I'm freezing. 195 00:07:12,666 --> 00:07:15,435 - This rain is horrible. - Oh, it's so nasty. 196 00:07:15,535 --> 00:07:17,404 So Shannon, do you want to do lunch? 197 00:07:17,470 --> 00:07:18,705 Just me and you? 198 00:07:18,805 --> 00:07:20,307 No, and Tamra. 199 00:07:20,407 --> 00:07:21,942 We're gonna have a chit-chat. 200 00:07:22,008 --> 00:07:23,109 Oh, just say yes. 201 00:07:23,176 --> 00:07:24,711 - Just say yes. - You don't have a choice. 202 00:07:24,744 --> 00:07:28,014 You'd better be there or be square. 203 00:07:28,114 --> 00:07:31,384 The thing is, I'm not gonna be dumb and go back. 204 00:07:31,451 --> 00:07:32,786 You don't have to go backwards. 205 00:07:32,852 --> 00:07:35,580 You sit across from her, you articulate the way you feel, 206 00:07:35,613 --> 00:07:38,491 and you can say, "I have to have boundaries, but you know what? 207 00:07:38,558 --> 00:07:40,026 "We can still do things together." 208 00:07:40,093 --> 00:07:41,962 I thought we were okay after Amsterdam. 209 00:07:42,062 --> 00:07:45,899 And then, at the reunion, it's like "Shut up!" 210 00:07:45,966 --> 00:07:47,233 It was like, what? What? 211 00:07:47,300 --> 00:07:49,402 I just can't imagine, like, harboring 212 00:07:49,436 --> 00:07:51,604 such bad feelings for two years. 213 00:07:51,638 --> 00:07:53,573 I have tried to move on with Shannon, 214 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,201 but I just feel like she wants me to be 215 00:07:56,301 --> 00:07:57,711 the villain in her story. 216 00:07:57,811 --> 00:08:01,047 Does Tamra have amnesia? 217 00:08:01,147 --> 00:08:02,415 That a couple weeks ago, 218 00:08:02,449 --> 00:08:06,753 she said some very horrible and hurtful things about me. 219 00:08:06,820 --> 00:08:08,146 I regret that, for sure. 220 00:08:08,213 --> 00:08:11,691 But I was mad about what she had said to me 221 00:08:11,758 --> 00:08:12,726 about me. 222 00:08:12,826 --> 00:08:15,028 I'm hoping all this nonsense will stop. 223 00:08:15,095 --> 00:08:16,496 Maybe just talk to her and be like, 224 00:08:16,596 --> 00:08:20,000 "Hey, we did things we don't, like, stand by." 225 00:08:20,100 --> 00:08:21,868 - Right. - "Let's move on." 226 00:08:21,935 --> 00:08:23,470 And if she makes a big fuss, 227 00:08:23,503 --> 00:08:24,838 then you're like, okay, I got my answer. 228 00:08:24,938 --> 00:08:27,207 We can only go up from here. 229 00:08:27,273 --> 00:08:28,475 - Mm-hmm. - Right? 230 00:08:28,541 --> 00:08:29,442 Yep. 231 00:08:29,542 --> 00:08:33,113 [upbeat music] 232 00:08:33,179 --> 00:08:34,681 Look, I had these made for you. 233 00:08:34,748 --> 00:08:36,783 Aw, this is fun. How cute! 234 00:08:36,883 --> 00:08:38,618 - So that's you. Hot stuff. - Hot stuff. 235 00:08:38,685 --> 00:08:39,844 - Uh-huh. - You're "big kiss." 236 00:08:39,911 --> 00:08:40,653 Uh-huh. 237 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:41,955 Wow. 238 00:08:41,988 --> 00:08:45,917 - Right? Isn't it awesome? - There's a lot to take in here. 239 00:08:45,984 --> 00:08:47,127 Very-- look at these. 240 00:08:47,227 --> 00:08:48,987 - Uh-huh. - Cute, huh? 241 00:08:49,020 --> 00:08:50,597 Mm-hm. [birds tweeting] 242 00:08:50,697 --> 00:08:53,299 I could do a wind chime. 243 00:08:53,333 --> 00:08:54,567 Tyler, what's she doing today? 244 00:08:54,634 --> 00:08:57,003 Her and the girls are out, doing their thing. 245 00:08:57,037 --> 00:08:59,239 - I mean, the weather's amazing. - Oh, I'm so happy for her. 246 00:08:59,305 --> 00:09:00,365 - She's been... - I'm telling you, 247 00:09:00,432 --> 00:09:02,242 it's so funny because I feel like 248 00:09:02,308 --> 00:09:05,945 managing the emotions of the kids, 249 00:09:06,012 --> 00:09:08,648 it feels like a lot sometimes. 250 00:09:08,715 --> 00:09:11,584 I gotta talk to Grayson because I feel like since 251 00:09:11,651 --> 00:09:13,987 this ticket, he's beating himself up. 252 00:09:14,054 --> 00:09:15,088 Like, a lot. 253 00:09:15,188 --> 00:09:16,423 I think it's bigger than that. 254 00:09:16,489 --> 00:09:17,882 You do? 255 00:09:17,949 --> 00:09:20,260 I see the change in Grayson. 256 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:23,930 It's the relationship that he doesn't have with his dad. 257 00:09:23,997 --> 00:09:26,766 Everything that goes wrong goes back to Will for Ryan. 258 00:09:26,866 --> 00:09:28,435 Like this has nothing to do with Will. 259 00:09:28,501 --> 00:09:30,570 I'm sure Ryan's not totally wrong, 260 00:09:30,637 --> 00:09:33,072 that Gray would like more time with his dad, but I don't think 261 00:09:33,139 --> 00:09:34,574 that this is what this is. 262 00:09:34,641 --> 00:09:36,209 I would do anything to have a relationship 263 00:09:36,242 --> 00:09:37,510 - with my children. - And same for me. 264 00:09:37,544 --> 00:09:39,304 - I would never-- - To not say goodnight to them 265 00:09:39,404 --> 00:09:41,247 and tuck them in? To not wake them up in the morning. 266 00:09:41,347 --> 00:09:43,783 We're divorced. And I'm grateful that I have 267 00:09:43,850 --> 00:09:45,218 100 percent custody with the kids. 268 00:09:45,285 --> 00:09:46,744 Honey, this is, it's... you're taking it personal. 269 00:09:46,811 --> 00:09:48,121 I'm talking about a father. 270 00:09:48,221 --> 00:09:51,925 No, I'm taking it personal because I'm trying to compensate 271 00:09:51,991 --> 00:09:52,959 for everything. 272 00:09:53,059 --> 00:09:54,194 One, that their lives have changed. 273 00:09:54,227 --> 00:09:55,587 Two, everything that we've lost. 274 00:09:55,653 --> 00:09:58,214 Do you not think I don't feel the ----ing burden? 275 00:09:58,248 --> 00:09:59,532 I'm so tired all the time. 276 00:09:59,566 --> 00:10:02,235 And on the flip side of it, to be very honest with you, 277 00:10:02,268 --> 00:10:04,270 I feel like I have to maintain this sh-- with you 278 00:10:04,337 --> 00:10:06,539 because I know it's all too much for you. 279 00:10:06,606 --> 00:10:09,267 Having the kids' dad not involved has definitely 280 00:10:09,334 --> 00:10:11,344 had an impact on Jenn and I's relationship. 281 00:10:11,444 --> 00:10:14,072 And it comes solely from the basis of, 282 00:10:14,105 --> 00:10:15,281 I'm a father, 283 00:10:15,348 --> 00:10:18,218 I believe a father should show up in a certain manner. 284 00:10:18,284 --> 00:10:21,287 So I just want Jenn to be more clear and honest 285 00:10:21,354 --> 00:10:22,455 with the kids so hopefully 286 00:10:22,522 --> 00:10:24,224 we can support them the best that they need. 287 00:10:24,357 --> 00:10:26,893 I want to know that, that Will's not always 288 00:10:26,993 --> 00:10:28,061 gonna be in our marriage. 289 00:10:28,161 --> 00:10:31,531 I... can't give you that. 290 00:10:31,631 --> 00:10:33,625 I'm gonna call a spade a spade. 291 00:10:33,691 --> 00:10:36,302 I feel this is having an impact on the kids. 292 00:10:36,369 --> 00:10:38,204 Okay, and that I can hear. 293 00:10:38,271 --> 00:10:39,739 Because I just need to figure out how 294 00:10:39,806 --> 00:10:40,807 I want to go about that. 295 00:10:40,874 --> 00:10:44,310 Okay. 296 00:10:44,777 --> 00:10:45,712 Coming up. 297 00:10:45,778 --> 00:10:47,413 Some people, after this happens, 298 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:49,883 they can't walk, they can't do anything. 299 00:10:49,983 --> 00:10:53,486 But, sometimes, I'm really not grateful. 300 00:10:57,148 --> 00:10:59,242 [upbeat music] 301 00:11:07,659 --> 00:11:10,336 [peculiar music] 302 00:11:10,403 --> 00:11:13,923 [phone buzzing] 303 00:11:14,407 --> 00:11:15,742 Hello! 304 00:11:15,808 --> 00:11:16,576 What are you doing? 305 00:11:16,643 --> 00:11:17,677 I'm eating a pickle. 306 00:11:17,744 --> 00:11:19,012 That sounds good. 307 00:11:19,078 --> 00:11:20,805 So, your birthday was fun. 308 00:11:20,838 --> 00:11:23,750 When I first walked in, I could not find you guys. 309 00:11:23,816 --> 00:11:24,642 [laughter] 310 00:11:24,676 --> 00:11:26,844 I don't know where to go. 311 00:11:26,911 --> 00:11:29,856 Oh my gosh, now I see them. 312 00:11:29,923 --> 00:11:31,783 Happy birthday! 313 00:11:31,849 --> 00:11:33,192 I thought it was great. 314 00:11:33,293 --> 00:11:36,262 But I think I'm just bummed by Jenn. 315 00:11:36,362 --> 00:11:37,964 About your conversation? 316 00:11:38,064 --> 00:11:40,099 I don't know if I feel like on one hand, 317 00:11:40,166 --> 00:11:42,193 good for you for apologizing, 318 00:11:42,293 --> 00:11:44,762 or, is that so there's backup there? 319 00:11:44,829 --> 00:11:46,339 I don't think she's malicious at all. 320 00:11:46,372 --> 00:11:47,840 I like her. 321 00:11:47,874 --> 00:11:50,109 But you know, starting from the historical friends comment 322 00:11:50,176 --> 00:11:53,204 that she repeated and put a little... 323 00:11:53,271 --> 00:11:54,614 Tamra's a historical friend. 324 00:11:54,681 --> 00:11:56,883 By the way, I do not talk like that, first of all. 325 00:11:56,983 --> 00:12:00,620 Which totally changes the tone and the context. 326 00:12:00,687 --> 00:12:03,356 I've been having such a great time with Jenn, 327 00:12:03,456 --> 00:12:06,192 but now I feel really ----ed over by her. 328 00:12:06,292 --> 00:12:09,988 We have a very different opinion of what friendship is. 329 00:12:10,054 --> 00:12:12,323 It's making me want to take a step back. 330 00:12:12,390 --> 00:12:13,967 Oh, so I didn't tell you. 331 00:12:14,033 --> 00:12:16,060 So, after we left the birthday party, 332 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:17,303 I'm in the kitchen with the kids 333 00:12:17,403 --> 00:12:20,240 and I see, like, the Dior shopping bag. 334 00:12:20,340 --> 00:12:22,141 So, Shane was like, "Oh, who got you that?" 335 00:12:22,175 --> 00:12:23,543 I was like, "Well, it's Carmella." 336 00:12:23,643 --> 00:12:25,403 And he's like, "Well, open it. Let's see what it is." 337 00:12:25,503 --> 00:12:29,574 And she bought a nice, like, gold Dior clutch. 338 00:12:29,674 --> 00:12:30,917 - It was beautiful. - Wow. 339 00:12:31,017 --> 00:12:32,652 And we were at my birthday party. 340 00:12:32,719 --> 00:12:34,654 She said multiple times to me, 341 00:12:34,687 --> 00:12:36,656 "Oh, are you gonna open your gifts?" 342 00:12:36,723 --> 00:12:40,360 Was the intent to actually just try to be funny 343 00:12:40,426 --> 00:12:41,494 and give me a nice gift? 344 00:12:41,527 --> 00:12:44,155 Or did she want maybe a moment or something? 345 00:12:44,222 --> 00:12:47,500 Are we really thumbing our nose at a Dior clutch? 346 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:48,893 Like, what's the bar? 347 00:12:48,926 --> 00:12:51,929 Maybe the intent was to show the rest of the women 348 00:12:52,030 --> 00:12:55,675 "I'm a baller and I have money and clout, so look at me." 349 00:12:55,708 --> 00:12:58,211 However because it was given to me, 350 00:12:58,244 --> 00:12:59,879 I think it's completely appropriate. 351 00:12:59,912 --> 00:13:02,407 Can a friendship be bought with a designer bag? 352 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:03,775 I mean... yes. 353 00:13:03,875 --> 00:13:05,752 Thank you, Carmella. 354 00:13:05,785 --> 00:13:07,954 But, anyway, there was something else in the bag, 355 00:13:08,021 --> 00:13:11,040 and I pulled it out, and it was a vibrator! 356 00:13:13,426 --> 00:13:15,695 Okay, that's weird. 357 00:13:15,762 --> 00:13:16,696 Now you've lost me. 358 00:13:16,729 --> 00:13:17,855 - Hello. - Oh hey, look who 359 00:13:17,922 --> 00:13:19,732 - just walked in. - Who you talking to? 360 00:13:19,799 --> 00:13:21,134 - Hi Emily! - Hi! 361 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,094 And I'm telling you, Shane, he swooped in 362 00:13:23,127 --> 00:13:24,896 and grabbed it and had it out of the room 363 00:13:24,962 --> 00:13:28,341 before the kids could even like look up and see what it was! 364 00:13:28,408 --> 00:13:29,475 I get it. 365 00:13:29,575 --> 00:13:30,902 If you would've opened it, she would've said, 366 00:13:30,968 --> 00:13:32,679 "If you don't like the bag, go [bleep] yourself." 367 00:13:32,745 --> 00:13:33,813 Get it? 368 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:36,149 - Oh, I see! - That was a good one, right? 369 00:13:36,249 --> 00:13:37,884 Isn't that the greatest joke ever? 370 00:13:37,950 --> 00:13:39,052 Please, stroke him. 371 00:13:39,085 --> 00:13:40,920 So I don't have to later. Thank you. 372 00:13:40,953 --> 00:13:43,281 [laughter] 373 00:13:43,314 --> 00:13:45,992 [Latin music] 374 00:13:50,988 --> 00:13:52,365 [ice shaking] 375 00:13:52,398 --> 00:13:53,424 Hello. 376 00:13:53,491 --> 00:13:54,559 - Hi. - How are you? 377 00:13:54,625 --> 00:13:56,002 I'm doing good, thank you, how are you? 378 00:13:56,069 --> 00:13:57,103 Good. 379 00:13:57,170 --> 00:13:59,939 So I'm waiting on two other girlfriends. 380 00:14:00,039 --> 00:14:01,274 [chuckling] You're a good height for me. 381 00:14:01,340 --> 00:14:03,876 - I know, right? - This is so beautiful. 382 00:14:03,943 --> 00:14:05,812 When you have time, just hot coffee. 383 00:14:05,912 --> 00:14:07,847 - Yes? Of course. - Okay. Thanks. 384 00:14:09,006 --> 00:14:10,149 Brr! 385 00:14:10,249 --> 00:14:11,918 - Hi! - Hi! 386 00:14:11,951 --> 00:14:13,086 Gosh, I'm glad you're by the fire. 387 00:14:13,152 --> 00:14:14,454 I would get up, but I'm not... 388 00:14:14,554 --> 00:14:15,354 Don't get up. 389 00:14:15,421 --> 00:14:16,948 - Hello! - Hello! 390 00:14:17,014 --> 00:14:18,024 - How are you? - Hi! 391 00:14:18,091 --> 00:14:19,083 You look so cute! 392 00:14:19,150 --> 00:14:20,585 Are we going to school? [overlapping] 393 00:14:20,651 --> 00:14:22,787 - So cute, what is this for? - We're going to work, Victoria. 394 00:14:22,854 --> 00:14:24,130 - I love you too. - How are you? 395 00:14:24,230 --> 00:14:25,264 - How are you? - Hi. 396 00:14:25,331 --> 00:14:26,065 You look beautiful. 397 00:14:26,099 --> 00:14:27,291 - Hello. - Hi. 398 00:14:27,358 --> 00:14:28,167 I'm just breezy. 399 00:14:28,267 --> 00:14:29,368 I would love a coffee, actually. 400 00:14:29,435 --> 00:14:30,970 - Sounds good. Be right back. - Thank you. 401 00:14:31,037 --> 00:14:32,138 You're sweet, thank you. 402 00:14:32,171 --> 00:14:33,865 I had to do the seminar today. 403 00:14:33,931 --> 00:14:36,167 So I teach women about finance in retirement. 404 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:38,936 - Thank you. - That's so smart. 405 00:14:39,003 --> 00:14:40,279 Vicki, actually I want to ask your opinion 406 00:14:40,346 --> 00:14:41,372 on something because I feel like 407 00:14:41,439 --> 00:14:43,216 you're a good person to ask. 408 00:14:43,282 --> 00:14:44,217 And our brunch. 409 00:14:44,283 --> 00:14:45,618 I would love a breakfast burrito. 410 00:14:45,651 --> 00:14:46,652 Breakfast burrito. 411 00:14:46,753 --> 00:14:47,987 I'm doing the enchilada with the chorizo. 412 00:14:48,087 --> 00:14:49,155 Chorizo, okay, 413 00:14:49,222 --> 00:14:51,758 'Cause I need to ask your number one... 414 00:14:51,791 --> 00:14:53,059 - Oh, yes. - I wasn't even thinking 415 00:14:53,159 --> 00:14:56,220 about prenup or anything like that. 416 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:57,797 Are you doing a prenup with Travis? 417 00:14:57,830 --> 00:15:00,566 I don't know. Like I feel like the smarter thing to do 418 00:15:00,666 --> 00:15:03,494 is to just say whatever assets I have currently 419 00:15:03,561 --> 00:15:05,671 - go to my children, you know? - For sure. I agree. 420 00:15:05,738 --> 00:15:06,672 100 percent. 421 00:15:06,706 --> 00:15:09,300 I've really come to love Gina. 422 00:15:09,367 --> 00:15:12,311 She's really grown up and I'm super proud of her 423 00:15:12,345 --> 00:15:13,746 about talking about finance with me. 424 00:15:13,846 --> 00:15:15,148 I've been through a divorce. 425 00:15:15,248 --> 00:15:16,516 I've been through a remarriage. 426 00:15:16,549 --> 00:15:18,918 I definitely see a little bit of myself in her. 427 00:15:19,018 --> 00:15:20,219 She's a go-getter. 428 00:15:20,253 --> 00:15:22,155 I'm just curious, like, what you're doing because 429 00:15:22,221 --> 00:15:23,656 you're with Michael and I feel like 430 00:15:23,756 --> 00:15:25,158 you're in a similar situation with me. 431 00:15:25,224 --> 00:15:26,526 We will never commingle money. 432 00:15:26,559 --> 00:15:27,827 - Ever. - Are you engaged? 433 00:15:27,860 --> 00:15:29,262 Well, he says he has a ring. 434 00:15:29,362 --> 00:15:30,521 - But... - Okay. 435 00:15:30,588 --> 00:15:32,131 Some days he gets mad at me so he says, 436 00:15:32,198 --> 00:15:33,399 "I'm not giving it to you!" 437 00:15:33,432 --> 00:15:34,926 He says he has a ring but he hasn't-- 438 00:15:34,992 --> 00:15:36,002 He's had it for over a year. 439 00:15:36,102 --> 00:15:37,570 I don't have a diamond ring on me yet. 440 00:15:37,603 --> 00:15:38,729 Oh, I thought Mike got you one. 441 00:15:38,763 --> 00:15:40,373 He says it's in the safe and he's not gonna 442 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:41,941 give it to me until I shape up. 443 00:15:42,008 --> 00:15:43,543 You be a good girl, and maybe you'll get it. 444 00:15:43,576 --> 00:15:45,111 Is he not asking, 'cause like 445 00:15:45,211 --> 00:15:46,446 oh, maybe it's not gonna work out? 446 00:15:46,512 --> 00:15:47,747 Or, why's he sitting on the ring? 447 00:15:47,780 --> 00:15:49,607 I don't need a ring to-- 448 00:15:49,674 --> 00:15:50,516 But you want that. 449 00:15:50,616 --> 00:15:51,684 But we talk about it. 450 00:15:51,751 --> 00:15:53,452 That would cheapen the ring for me. 451 00:15:53,553 --> 00:15:54,787 Like it's so rude. 452 00:15:54,887 --> 00:15:57,256 It's going to marry us as a couple, 453 00:15:57,290 --> 00:15:59,417 but you use it to like dangle this thing of like, 454 00:15:59,450 --> 00:16:01,194 maybe you get it, maybe you don't. 455 00:16:01,260 --> 00:16:03,362 I'm not the girl that needs him to get down on one knee 456 00:16:03,429 --> 00:16:05,223 - and be this big surprise. - Right. I understand that. 457 00:16:05,289 --> 00:16:06,799 It would be like a joint decision. 458 00:16:06,866 --> 00:16:07,800 Yeah. 459 00:16:07,900 --> 00:16:09,393 For me, I would be like screw you, 460 00:16:09,460 --> 00:16:10,695 and your ring. 461 00:16:10,761 --> 00:16:12,538 Thank you, so pretty. 462 00:16:12,638 --> 00:16:13,973 So tomorrow, 463 00:16:14,073 --> 00:16:15,241 I'm meeting with Tamra and Shannon 464 00:16:15,341 --> 00:16:16,375 and we're gonna do lunch. 465 00:16:16,409 --> 00:16:17,743 Why are you in the middle-- 466 00:16:17,777 --> 00:16:19,412 Because they're both my friends. 467 00:16:19,512 --> 00:16:20,905 You know, I love Shannon. 468 00:16:20,972 --> 00:16:24,917 And I don't condone what Tamra has done. 469 00:16:25,017 --> 00:16:27,778 But I do think we have to lead by example 470 00:16:27,812 --> 00:16:29,889 and say we gotta move on. 471 00:16:29,956 --> 00:16:31,757 But I find Shannon has moved on. 472 00:16:31,791 --> 00:16:32,992 I don't think she can forget, 473 00:16:33,092 --> 00:16:34,293 and I don't like speaking-- 474 00:16:34,393 --> 00:16:36,162 'Cause you can't forget when, when, three weeks ago, 475 00:16:36,262 --> 00:16:37,697 - and they're having dinner-- - And it happens again. 476 00:16:37,730 --> 00:16:39,398 - And she's getting beat again. - It happens again. 477 00:16:39,465 --> 00:16:42,326 It was really unfortunate that Tamra and Shannon 478 00:16:42,393 --> 00:16:45,671 had this fight at my ultima girls trip moment. 479 00:16:45,738 --> 00:16:48,574 I gotta just get Shannon a little bit, like, 480 00:16:48,674 --> 00:16:50,176 not so guarded with her. 481 00:16:50,276 --> 00:16:51,903 Yeah, she was so quiet last night. 482 00:16:51,969 --> 00:16:53,104 And I gotta Tamra, stop attacking her. 483 00:16:53,170 --> 00:16:54,939 - Mm-hmm. - Stop attacking her. 484 00:16:55,006 --> 00:16:56,674 - Heel, bitch, heel. - Like, yeah, heel. 485 00:16:56,774 --> 00:16:59,919 I'll walk out of a situation if it's gonna get too toxic. 486 00:16:59,986 --> 00:17:01,679 But I think Tamra feeds on it. 487 00:17:01,779 --> 00:17:05,091 It makes me anxious. It makes me scared of her. 488 00:17:05,157 --> 00:17:07,159 They should just ----ing cut the head off 489 00:17:07,260 --> 00:17:08,694 and start fresh from here. 490 00:17:08,761 --> 00:17:11,030 Because there's no way-- - Oh, you can cut my leg off, 491 00:17:11,130 --> 00:17:13,366 if you want. Yeah, right at the knee. 492 00:17:13,432 --> 00:17:17,436 [groans] 493 00:17:17,503 --> 00:17:18,571 Coming up. 494 00:17:18,604 --> 00:17:19,772 I look on Amazon, 495 00:17:19,805 --> 00:17:22,033 and I see there's seven different vibrators. 496 00:17:22,133 --> 00:17:24,043 She calls me, she's like "Presley, I just bought 497 00:17:24,110 --> 00:17:26,379 "the best present ever!" [laughing] 498 00:17:29,206 --> 00:17:31,350 [upbeat music] 499 00:17:31,417 --> 00:17:32,985 [traffic din] 500 00:17:33,052 --> 00:17:34,178 [dog barks] 501 00:17:37,882 --> 00:17:38,824 How was your day today? 502 00:17:38,891 --> 00:17:40,326 It was good, actually. 503 00:17:40,393 --> 00:17:43,396 Sean's been here, She did my extensions. 504 00:17:43,429 --> 00:17:44,630 How was yours? 505 00:17:44,697 --> 00:17:46,766 I'm just happy I made it out of school. 506 00:17:46,832 --> 00:17:48,301 I'm happy you went to school 507 00:17:48,334 --> 00:17:50,169 because I feel like half of the week last week 508 00:17:50,236 --> 00:17:51,337 you didn't go to school, 509 00:17:51,437 --> 00:17:53,372 and I'm pretty positive 510 00:17:53,472 --> 00:17:57,276 I could go to jail for not sending my kid to school. 511 00:17:57,343 --> 00:17:58,736 Oh, okay. 512 00:17:58,836 --> 00:18:00,571 Honey, you miss a lot of school. 513 00:18:00,671 --> 00:18:03,140 Yeah, but I have a great reason. 514 00:18:03,207 --> 00:18:04,917 First, I needed a tan. 515 00:18:04,951 --> 00:18:05,985 No. 516 00:18:06,018 --> 00:18:08,854 And then, I needed to watch my show. 517 00:18:08,955 --> 00:18:10,323 No. 518 00:18:10,389 --> 00:18:12,850 Honey, your dad's gonna get pissed. 519 00:18:12,883 --> 00:18:14,660 He doesn't have to know. 520 00:18:14,727 --> 00:18:16,846 Can we talk about something positive? 521 00:18:16,912 --> 00:18:20,800 Oh, I was going to buy groceries, and I look on Amazon, 522 00:18:20,833 --> 00:18:23,336 and I see there's seven different vibrators. 523 00:18:23,402 --> 00:18:24,762 I didn't know what kind she wanted. 524 00:18:24,862 --> 00:18:26,205 [laughter] And I was like... 525 00:18:26,305 --> 00:18:28,474 You should've seen what she said to me. 526 00:18:28,541 --> 00:18:29,834 She calls me and she's like 527 00:18:29,900 --> 00:18:32,545 "Presley, I just bought the best present ever." 528 00:18:32,612 --> 00:18:35,606 I'm not, like, a vibrator connoisseur, 529 00:18:35,706 --> 00:18:37,508 so I ordered like 7 just to make sure 530 00:18:37,575 --> 00:18:39,652 that the vibrator fit inside the purse. 531 00:18:39,719 --> 00:18:41,253 It was a gag gift. 532 00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:42,179 No pun intended. 533 00:18:42,246 --> 00:18:43,122 [chuckling] 534 00:18:43,222 --> 00:18:45,182 I think you went a little overboard. 535 00:18:45,249 --> 00:18:47,218 I'm very aware, like, 536 00:18:47,284 --> 00:18:50,196 if somebody didn't have a sense of humor, 537 00:18:50,262 --> 00:18:52,882 it might not be received well. 538 00:18:52,948 --> 00:18:54,392 But, whether it's a purse, 539 00:18:54,458 --> 00:18:59,296 a vibrator, the only thing that should be said is thank you. 540 00:18:59,397 --> 00:19:00,531 Very much. 541 00:19:00,598 --> 00:19:02,742 So I went to the store today to get cough drops. 542 00:19:02,842 --> 00:19:04,977 I didn't know that you had to be over 18. 543 00:19:05,044 --> 00:19:06,404 - Serious. - Anyways, the guy like, 544 00:19:06,437 --> 00:19:08,572 next to me, he offered to buy it for me, 545 00:19:08,606 --> 00:19:10,266 but I just said, like, thank you. 546 00:19:10,299 --> 00:19:11,684 For [bleep] sake, Presley. 547 00:19:11,751 --> 00:19:13,811 Presley, you should've accepted it. 548 00:19:13,911 --> 00:19:15,980 No, you do not accept gifts from men. 549 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:17,556 Ever. [laughing] 550 00:19:17,623 --> 00:19:22,261 Being in Playboy was a wake-up call for my own, 551 00:19:22,328 --> 00:19:23,421 like, self-awareness. 552 00:19:23,454 --> 00:19:25,665 I would have guys looking in my windows, 553 00:19:25,698 --> 00:19:29,068 and just, like envelope fan mail that would come to the house. 554 00:19:29,135 --> 00:19:31,896 It just was kind of unnerving in ways. 555 00:19:31,962 --> 00:19:34,457 And so I'm ultra-cautious when it comes to my kids. 556 00:19:34,490 --> 00:19:35,474 That's a creep. 557 00:19:35,541 --> 00:19:36,642 You gotta carry the mace. 558 00:19:36,709 --> 00:19:40,296 But don't use it on a windy day. 559 00:19:40,329 --> 00:19:43,783 One time, I had to mace somebody. 560 00:19:43,849 --> 00:19:46,635 It was something that happened that was very inappropriate, 561 00:19:46,669 --> 00:19:49,447 and then I saw all these other girls crying. 562 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:51,415 I maced the whole crowd. 563 00:19:51,482 --> 00:19:54,118 If that were me, I would sue you. 564 00:19:54,185 --> 00:19:59,865 [upbeat music] 565 00:20:01,734 --> 00:20:04,103 Rita, you coming 566 00:20:04,170 --> 00:20:07,198 or are you too tired to come up the rest of the stairs? 567 00:20:07,264 --> 00:20:08,140 [knocking on door] 568 00:20:08,207 --> 00:20:08,966 [dog barks] 569 00:20:08,999 --> 00:20:10,609 - Emily! - Hello? Hi. 570 00:20:10,676 --> 00:20:12,870 It's the greeters. Hello babies! 571 00:20:12,937 --> 00:20:14,213 It's the greeters. The greeters, they need baths. 572 00:20:14,246 --> 00:20:15,114 You look cute. 573 00:20:15,181 --> 00:20:16,373 Thank you. 574 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,134 Remember I told you about my closet? 575 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:19,985 Wait, what is this? This is a hall closet. 576 00:20:20,052 --> 00:20:21,637 No, I have no room in my closet 577 00:20:21,704 --> 00:20:23,122 'cause Ryan takes the whole closet. 578 00:20:23,189 --> 00:20:25,291 I like, keep random weird stuff. 579 00:20:25,357 --> 00:20:26,992 But I want someone to tell me, 580 00:20:27,059 --> 00:20:28,627 "You're actually never gonna wear that." 581 00:20:28,694 --> 00:20:29,495 Okay, I can do that. 582 00:20:29,562 --> 00:20:31,455 Okay, this is a dress. 583 00:20:31,522 --> 00:20:32,556 That's in the no pile. 584 00:20:32,656 --> 00:20:33,991 What was I thinking with this? 585 00:20:34,058 --> 00:20:35,167 Get rid of it. 586 00:20:35,267 --> 00:20:37,103 This has gotta go 'cause it's got snags all over it. 587 00:20:37,169 --> 00:20:37,987 Is this the waist? 588 00:20:38,053 --> 00:20:39,271 No. It's a dress. 589 00:20:39,338 --> 00:20:40,698 All right, I'm gonna go put it on. 590 00:20:40,798 --> 00:20:41,524 Oh, good. 591 00:20:41,557 --> 00:20:43,042 - Look! - Really pretty. 592 00:20:43,109 --> 00:20:44,001 Oh, thank you. 593 00:20:44,068 --> 00:20:44,902 So would you wear that? 594 00:20:45,002 --> 00:20:46,078 I mean, I'd wear it in Vegas. 595 00:20:46,112 --> 00:20:48,180 Why does everything look so good on you? 596 00:20:48,247 --> 00:20:51,117 I like it. I like it. 597 00:20:51,150 --> 00:20:53,319 We should be making Ryan get rid of stuff. 598 00:20:53,352 --> 00:20:55,321 Oh my gosh, he has sparkly shoes. 599 00:20:55,387 --> 00:20:59,016 Ryan's closet is even more interesting. 600 00:20:59,049 --> 00:21:00,493 He's in his pink era. 601 00:21:00,526 --> 00:21:02,194 There was like the floral section. 602 00:21:02,261 --> 00:21:05,256 It looks like upholstery from some grandma's couch. 603 00:21:05,356 --> 00:21:07,091 Then there was like, the black t-shirt section. 604 00:21:07,191 --> 00:21:10,060 How many sleeveless black t-shirts does he have? 605 00:21:10,161 --> 00:21:11,437 I mean, I'm married to a man 606 00:21:11,470 --> 00:21:13,731 that wears In-N-Out t-shirts every day. 607 00:21:13,831 --> 00:21:16,192 So, I mean, that was a lot for me to take in. 608 00:21:16,258 --> 00:21:18,177 I'm gonna use some of this lotion, I'm a little ashy. 609 00:21:18,210 --> 00:21:20,838 I've got lotion everywhere. So, by all means. 610 00:21:20,905 --> 00:21:22,982 So, what's going on with the kids, anything new? 611 00:21:23,048 --> 00:21:25,551 I literally got a text from Evie the other day, 612 00:21:25,618 --> 00:21:28,445 "Mom, I want to come home. I feel so ugly today." 613 00:21:28,512 --> 00:21:29,905 - Mm... - I'm like, no. 614 00:21:29,939 --> 00:21:32,575 Grayson's getting pulled over for 105 miles an hour 615 00:21:32,608 --> 00:21:36,120 and then the next few days after his ticket, 616 00:21:36,220 --> 00:21:37,963 he, like, holed up in his room 617 00:21:37,997 --> 00:21:40,432 and something shut down 618 00:21:40,533 --> 00:21:43,736 and it set in him so hard. 619 00:21:43,802 --> 00:21:46,530 Gray is the kid that's like full of life 620 00:21:46,597 --> 00:21:50,100 and light and I notice the lightness isn't there. 621 00:21:50,201 --> 00:21:53,212 He's in his room, like, he's withdrawing from something. 622 00:21:53,279 --> 00:21:54,872 I don't know how to fix this. 623 00:21:54,939 --> 00:21:56,215 I don't know what to do. 624 00:21:56,282 --> 00:21:58,117 Last year when I was going through everything with Luke, 625 00:21:58,184 --> 00:22:02,087 he needed so much attention and Shane and I were so focused 626 00:22:02,154 --> 00:22:04,390 on him that I really just lost, 627 00:22:04,423 --> 00:22:06,759 like, a connection with Annabelle, 628 00:22:06,826 --> 00:22:09,528 like, she felt like she was abandoned. 629 00:22:09,562 --> 00:22:12,456 When Annabelle shared how she felt, 630 00:22:12,556 --> 00:22:15,034 it just took me backward to when I was a child 631 00:22:15,067 --> 00:22:16,235 and how I felt. 632 00:22:16,268 --> 00:22:19,496 I don't want to perpetuate the same dynamics, 633 00:22:19,597 --> 00:22:20,931 I want to do better. 634 00:22:20,998 --> 00:22:24,001 I've made such an effort to just reconnect with her. 635 00:22:24,101 --> 00:22:26,670 If she needs to be picked up from cheer at 9 PM 636 00:22:26,737 --> 00:22:28,881 then I'm gonna drive there at 8:30, 637 00:22:28,948 --> 00:22:30,975 put my phone down, I'm gonna watch 638 00:22:31,075 --> 00:22:32,977 her last 30 minutes of cheer 639 00:22:33,077 --> 00:22:34,678 so that she sees me sitting there. 640 00:22:34,745 --> 00:22:37,448 As soon as she sees me, her face lights up. 641 00:22:37,514 --> 00:22:41,160 And it's such a small little insignificant moment 642 00:22:41,260 --> 00:22:44,163 but it means so much and that's all I need 643 00:22:44,263 --> 00:22:48,334 to validate that it's monumental in her life. 644 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,794 I probably needed you tell me this because I feel 645 00:22:50,861 --> 00:22:51,704 like I do the same stuff. 646 00:22:51,737 --> 00:22:53,931 - I'm tired. - I know, but I... 647 00:22:53,998 --> 00:22:55,507 We just... We can't. We have to just... 648 00:22:55,574 --> 00:22:57,376 We have to lay in bed and watch movies with them. 649 00:22:57,409 --> 00:22:59,303 You're so right. 650 00:22:59,336 --> 00:23:00,804 We have to. 651 00:23:00,838 --> 00:23:02,114 Coming up... 652 00:23:02,181 --> 00:23:04,283 She told me that you said, well, 653 00:23:04,316 --> 00:23:05,818 yeah, "I can call iHeart now 654 00:23:05,885 --> 00:23:07,978 "and say that they can invite you to events now." 655 00:23:08,045 --> 00:23:10,289 - Oh, my God-- - She's really hurt by it. 656 00:23:10,322 --> 00:23:13,058 - She's hurt by it! - Oh, my God! 657 00:23:16,262 --> 00:23:19,898 [upbeat music] 658 00:23:24,136 --> 00:23:24,870 Hello! 659 00:23:24,937 --> 00:23:25,838 Hey! 660 00:23:25,971 --> 00:23:27,940 - I made it! - How many hours did it take you 661 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:29,441 - to get here? - Two hours. 662 00:23:29,508 --> 00:23:30,910 It's a Saturday, like, why is there traffic? 663 00:23:30,976 --> 00:23:32,478 We didn't even think about the fact that you 664 00:23:32,578 --> 00:23:33,679 should've slept over. 665 00:23:33,712 --> 00:23:37,041 Teddy and I used to spend so much time together. 666 00:23:47,126 --> 00:23:48,227 I want a glass of champs. 667 00:23:48,260 --> 00:23:49,928 So, I have my Pedialyte and my champs. 668 00:23:49,995 --> 00:23:51,096 Okay. 669 00:23:51,163 --> 00:23:53,465 And then she got sick and then she kind of 670 00:23:53,565 --> 00:23:54,700 isolated herself for a while. 671 00:23:54,733 --> 00:23:56,602 This is like a day out for me. 672 00:23:56,702 --> 00:23:58,070 I know! 673 00:23:58,103 --> 00:24:01,140 But now she's kind of turned a corner, she's doing better. 674 00:24:01,206 --> 00:24:04,810 So, as much time as I can spend with her, I do. 675 00:24:04,877 --> 00:24:05,878 Let's go upstairs. 676 00:24:05,978 --> 00:24:08,647 That's a lot of medication on the table. 677 00:24:08,714 --> 00:24:10,816 A lot of issues around here. 678 00:24:10,883 --> 00:24:11,942 I know. 679 00:24:12,009 --> 00:24:13,786 Are you still on a lot of medication? 680 00:24:13,852 --> 00:24:17,556 I'm no longer on any of the ones that give me the shakes. 681 00:24:17,623 --> 00:24:19,450 Yeah, you're not shaking as much. 682 00:24:19,516 --> 00:24:20,626 Yeah, I know. Isn't that exciting? 683 00:24:20,726 --> 00:24:22,194 Oh, my God. Yeah, what does the doctor say? 684 00:24:22,294 --> 00:24:24,163 Um, he says it just takes time, 685 00:24:24,229 --> 00:24:27,566 like, some people, after this happens, they can't walk, 686 00:24:27,666 --> 00:24:29,368 they can't do anything. 687 00:24:29,435 --> 00:24:31,937 So... the fact that 688 00:24:32,004 --> 00:24:34,840 you're in your situation right now, you should really 689 00:24:34,907 --> 00:24:37,643 be grateful but... 690 00:24:37,743 --> 00:24:40,012 sometimes I'm really not grateful. 691 00:24:40,079 --> 00:24:41,246 I know. 692 00:24:41,313 --> 00:24:44,350 I start to feel like I'm letting everybody down, 693 00:24:44,450 --> 00:24:45,984 you know, I had to-- 694 00:24:46,051 --> 00:24:47,419 You're not letting anybody down. 695 00:24:47,486 --> 00:24:50,089 It was extremely difficult to watch Teddy battling cancer, 696 00:24:50,155 --> 00:24:51,690 going through treatment, 697 00:24:51,757 --> 00:24:53,025 immunotherapy once a month, 698 00:24:53,092 --> 00:24:55,361 her hair falling out after radiation. 699 00:24:55,461 --> 00:24:56,996 Is your memory getting better? 700 00:24:57,062 --> 00:24:59,823 I think slowly, I'm starting to get it again. 701 00:24:59,890 --> 00:25:01,500 I know, I miss my partner in crime. 702 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,502 I don't have the same fire. 703 00:25:03,569 --> 00:25:05,963 - It'll come back. - It's gotta come back. 704 00:25:05,996 --> 00:25:08,874 All we thought about was losing her and she would be 705 00:25:08,974 --> 00:25:11,502 like, "Bitch, I ain't dying." 706 00:25:11,568 --> 00:25:15,414 Teddy Mellencamp is one strong woman. 707 00:25:15,481 --> 00:25:17,850 So, I know you were struggling 708 00:25:17,916 --> 00:25:21,920 last year because nobody had any answers and we were all scared. 709 00:25:22,020 --> 00:25:23,422 How are you feeling now? 710 00:25:23,489 --> 00:25:24,957 It, it was horrible 711 00:25:25,057 --> 00:25:27,793 and I don't want to make this about me whatsoever 712 00:25:27,826 --> 00:25:30,062 but to watch somebody that you love 713 00:25:30,129 --> 00:25:31,897 and to hear the doctor say, 714 00:25:31,997 --> 00:25:34,500 like, "She could have six to nine months to live." 715 00:25:34,566 --> 00:25:38,195 I finally got, like, the best friend ever with you. 716 00:25:38,262 --> 00:25:39,371 I know. 717 00:25:39,471 --> 00:25:41,407 And then I would go around these girls and I just felt 718 00:25:41,473 --> 00:25:42,341 like they just didn't care. 719 00:25:42,374 --> 00:25:44,009 They just didn't care. 720 00:25:44,076 --> 00:25:47,012 I think when it comes to some of your girlfriends 721 00:25:47,046 --> 00:25:50,215 you gotta have people that you really open up to 722 00:25:50,282 --> 00:25:52,342 and tell the good, the bad and the ugly too. 723 00:25:52,376 --> 00:25:54,553 You're so used to being disappointed that 724 00:25:54,620 --> 00:25:56,713 you're then gonna be an asshole to somebody 725 00:25:56,780 --> 00:26:00,159 but then you're the bigger asshole than somebody else. 726 00:26:00,192 --> 00:26:04,329 Doing this, constantly quitting, getting so angry. 727 00:26:04,363 --> 00:26:05,864 I'm dealing with the most ---ing 728 00:26:05,898 --> 00:26:10,502 difficult thing in my life right now and you are not helping! 729 00:26:10,536 --> 00:26:12,838 Watching Teddy battle cancer, 730 00:26:12,971 --> 00:26:14,873 it put me over the edge last year 731 00:26:14,940 --> 00:26:16,442 but it taught me a lot. 732 00:26:16,508 --> 00:26:17,843 You're a really good friend, 733 00:26:17,876 --> 00:26:21,947 you want the best, so, like, show up. 734 00:26:22,014 --> 00:26:24,917 Before I was like, oh, you're cheating on her 735 00:26:24,983 --> 00:26:27,586 and you're not paying your taxes and all those things. 736 00:26:27,653 --> 00:26:29,388 And now I'm like in the big scheme of things, 737 00:26:29,421 --> 00:26:30,355 does it really matter? 738 00:26:30,456 --> 00:26:31,757 Life is just too short. 739 00:26:31,824 --> 00:26:33,559 - I love you. - I love you more. 740 00:26:33,625 --> 00:26:35,152 Thank you for being such a good friend. 741 00:26:35,252 --> 00:26:38,597 [upbeat music] 742 00:26:42,134 --> 00:26:44,236 I'm starving. 743 00:26:44,303 --> 00:26:46,939 I feel, like, wait until dinner to be able to eat. 744 00:26:47,005 --> 00:26:48,774 - I know. - Hi, welcome. 745 00:26:48,841 --> 00:26:50,409 Hello. Two? Is this table good? 746 00:26:50,476 --> 00:26:51,343 This is perfect. 747 00:26:51,443 --> 00:26:53,045 - Alright, thank you. - Enjoy. 748 00:26:53,145 --> 00:26:54,446 - Hi. - Hey, how are you doing? 749 00:26:54,546 --> 00:26:55,647 I'm well, thank you. How about you? 750 00:26:55,714 --> 00:26:56,715 - Good, thanks. - Good, thank you. 751 00:26:56,815 --> 00:26:58,817 Can I actually have a hot water with lemon? 752 00:26:58,917 --> 00:26:59,952 Thank you. 753 00:27:00,052 --> 00:27:02,454 I'll do water and a chamay green. 754 00:27:02,554 --> 00:27:03,655 Let's go. 755 00:27:03,755 --> 00:27:05,424 Can I get you guys any food started at moment? 756 00:27:05,491 --> 00:27:07,117 Yes. 757 00:27:07,184 --> 00:27:08,227 - Sure is. - Let's go, bro. 758 00:27:08,327 --> 00:27:09,728 [laughing] It's the best thing. 759 00:27:09,795 --> 00:27:11,263 - You can eat mussels? - I'm doing it. 760 00:27:11,330 --> 00:27:12,130 I'm gonna do it. 761 00:27:12,197 --> 00:27:12,931 That's awesome. 762 00:27:12,998 --> 00:27:15,400 Alright, guys, thank you. 763 00:27:15,434 --> 00:27:18,504 This reminds me of, um, Emily's birthday party 764 00:27:18,570 --> 00:27:21,974 dressed as Nonna Gina. Ordering the hot water 765 00:27:22,074 --> 00:27:24,643 with lemon was, like, so on brand for that situation. 766 00:27:24,710 --> 00:27:25,811 Yeah. 767 00:27:25,878 --> 00:27:29,373 Actually, Jen has this new friend Carmella. 768 00:27:29,473 --> 00:27:32,384 She used to be married to a big time, uh, 769 00:27:32,484 --> 00:27:34,219 football player, a quarterback. 770 00:27:34,319 --> 00:27:35,454 I like that. 771 00:27:35,487 --> 00:27:38,023 So, she told me she has her real estate license 772 00:27:38,090 --> 00:27:39,983 but she's definitely not a relator. 773 00:27:40,050 --> 00:27:41,560 She said she's a developer. 774 00:27:41,660 --> 00:27:44,730 She takes some clients on and she like helps them 775 00:27:44,796 --> 00:27:47,466 build and design their homes. 776 00:27:47,499 --> 00:27:48,992 I wouldn't call that a developer, but-- 777 00:27:49,059 --> 00:27:50,536 Well, neither would Vicky Gunvalson. 778 00:27:50,602 --> 00:27:52,871 She gave me the same story that she gave you. 779 00:27:52,971 --> 00:27:54,873 That's she's a developer and there are properties, 780 00:27:54,940 --> 00:27:56,842 some properties she takes down to the studs. 781 00:27:56,909 --> 00:27:58,777 That's not a developer, that's a rehab-er. 782 00:27:58,810 --> 00:28:01,630 Honestly, I'm not completely clear on what Carmella does 783 00:28:01,663 --> 00:28:04,483 but she obviously knows real estate words. 784 00:28:04,550 --> 00:28:05,842 So, that's good. 785 00:28:05,909 --> 00:28:07,252 Like... [laughs] 786 00:28:07,319 --> 00:28:08,954 Alright, well, what else is going on? 787 00:28:09,087 --> 00:28:13,859 This is all just, like, very not romantic, 788 00:28:13,926 --> 00:28:15,994 but what are your thoughts about a prenup? 789 00:28:16,061 --> 00:28:20,265 Look, the, the, the reasoning behind a prenup is very logical. 790 00:28:20,332 --> 00:28:23,302 It's not like I'd take it personal or I'm not like 791 00:28:23,368 --> 00:28:25,204 viewing it like, oh, we're gonna break up, so... 792 00:28:25,270 --> 00:28:26,471 Yeah. 793 00:28:26,538 --> 00:28:29,808 It's not about the fact that I make more money than Travis, 794 00:28:29,875 --> 00:28:31,610 it has more to do with the fact 795 00:28:31,677 --> 00:28:34,813 I've worked incredibly hard and I want to protect myself 796 00:28:34,846 --> 00:28:36,181 and I want to protect my kids. 797 00:28:36,248 --> 00:28:40,352 So, this prenup it's, it's non-negotiable for me. 798 00:28:40,419 --> 00:28:41,445 When are we... 799 00:28:41,511 --> 00:28:43,655 When do we want to get married? 800 00:28:43,722 --> 00:28:46,617 I told you, I'm not talking about it for six months, so... 801 00:28:46,717 --> 00:28:49,895 Well, I just want to bring up me changing my name. 802 00:28:49,962 --> 00:28:53,732 When I went with Luka to get his glasses, 803 00:28:53,799 --> 00:28:55,200 I was like, you know what? 804 00:28:55,234 --> 00:28:56,501 I'm making this about me 805 00:28:56,568 --> 00:29:00,364 and my feelings but I don't even really know how the kids 806 00:29:00,397 --> 00:29:01,732 actually feel about it. 807 00:29:01,798 --> 00:29:04,710 If I get married to Travis, 808 00:29:04,743 --> 00:29:07,012 usually, generally what happens 809 00:29:07,112 --> 00:29:09,815 is, you know, the girl takes the boy's name, right? 810 00:29:09,881 --> 00:29:11,216 So, I'm just curious, though, 811 00:29:11,250 --> 00:29:15,045 how it makes you feel that Mommy would no longer 812 00:29:15,078 --> 00:29:18,557 be a Kirschenheiter and now she would be a Mullen. 813 00:29:18,624 --> 00:29:20,025 I wouldn't really care, 814 00:29:20,058 --> 00:29:21,994 we're still family. 815 00:29:22,060 --> 00:29:23,562 It immediately made me feel like 816 00:29:23,629 --> 00:29:28,267 maybe I am making a bigger deal of this than it actually is. 817 00:29:28,367 --> 00:29:31,470 I'll be honest, I don't think the kids think about that 818 00:29:31,536 --> 00:29:32,738 one time ever in their life. 819 00:29:32,804 --> 00:29:34,164 I'm the only one thinking about this? Okay. 820 00:29:34,231 --> 00:29:35,474 Yeah. I'll be honest. 821 00:29:35,574 --> 00:29:37,542 You're kind of making it seem like I'm making a big deal 822 00:29:37,609 --> 00:29:38,410 out of this, I'm not. 823 00:29:38,477 --> 00:29:40,445 [awkward beat] 824 00:29:40,512 --> 00:29:41,680 Okay. 825 00:29:41,780 --> 00:29:44,408 It's not about you having my last name. 826 00:29:44,441 --> 00:29:45,484 Right, I understand that. 827 00:29:45,550 --> 00:29:48,854 My last name to me is not about my ex-husband, 828 00:29:48,954 --> 00:29:50,722 it is about my children. 829 00:29:50,822 --> 00:29:54,626 If I were to marry Travis and take on his last name, 830 00:29:54,726 --> 00:29:56,795 the same last name as his children 831 00:29:56,862 --> 00:30:00,257 and change my name away from my kid's last name is, 832 00:30:00,290 --> 00:30:01,900 that feels wrong to me. 833 00:30:01,933 --> 00:30:03,335 Look, if we can't be together 834 00:30:03,402 --> 00:30:05,504 because you have your ex's last name, 835 00:30:05,570 --> 00:30:06,405 then there's bigger issues. 836 00:30:06,538 --> 00:30:07,673 Yeah. 837 00:30:07,773 --> 00:30:10,742 It's not like we're going to call off the wedding. 838 00:30:10,876 --> 00:30:13,278 The wedding that we're not even planning yet? 839 00:30:13,345 --> 00:30:16,615 If we're happy and content, hell, who gives a f... 840 00:30:16,682 --> 00:30:18,717 - Who cares? - Yeah, I mean, [bleep] it. 841 00:30:18,784 --> 00:30:21,086 I guess I could hyphenate it. 842 00:30:21,119 --> 00:30:23,155 [laughter] 843 00:30:23,221 --> 00:30:24,489 Okay. 844 00:30:24,589 --> 00:30:25,657 Probably. 845 00:30:25,724 --> 00:30:26,625 Alright. 846 00:30:26,658 --> 00:30:27,926 Coming up... 847 00:30:27,993 --> 00:30:30,162 Are people being unkind to you? 848 00:30:30,228 --> 00:30:31,321 Yeah. 849 00:30:31,388 --> 00:30:33,415 [sobbing] 850 00:30:35,534 --> 00:30:40,088 [upbeat music] 851 00:30:43,308 --> 00:30:44,209 This is my mother's. 852 00:30:44,309 --> 00:30:45,110 Why do I have this? 853 00:30:45,210 --> 00:30:47,079 Oh, my God, this is so... 854 00:30:47,145 --> 00:30:49,973 moldy, just like my childhood. 855 00:30:50,006 --> 00:30:53,351 [upbeat music] 856 00:30:57,155 --> 00:30:58,156 [lid pops] 857 00:30:58,190 --> 00:31:00,959 Aw, [bleep]. 858 00:31:01,059 --> 00:31:03,462 [vacuum whirs] 859 00:31:03,562 --> 00:31:05,797 [upbeat music] 860 00:31:05,831 --> 00:31:09,334 How about the plug? 861 00:31:09,368 --> 00:31:12,037 Isn't this supposed to go in the wall? 862 00:31:12,104 --> 00:31:15,006 God, this thing has got a mind of its own. 863 00:31:15,073 --> 00:31:16,007 [upbeat music] 864 00:31:16,074 --> 00:31:17,976 Come get your medicine. 865 00:31:18,009 --> 00:31:20,011 You can't see what I'm doing. 866 00:31:20,078 --> 00:31:21,830 No, look the other way. 867 00:31:21,863 --> 00:31:25,217 Oh... 868 00:31:25,283 --> 00:31:27,886 Oh, well, that was a fail. 869 00:31:27,953 --> 00:31:28,987 Come on, Hunch. 870 00:31:29,054 --> 00:31:32,524 Yeah, that's a good boy! 871 00:31:32,591 --> 00:31:36,027 [quirky music] 872 00:31:36,094 --> 00:31:36,887 No! 873 00:31:36,953 --> 00:31:37,662 [sighs] 874 00:31:37,796 --> 00:31:39,498 Darn it. 875 00:31:39,598 --> 00:31:43,652 [chill music] 876 00:31:46,204 --> 00:31:49,775 Okay, what do you want before you go? 877 00:31:49,841 --> 00:31:50,909 - Okay. - I want these. 878 00:31:50,976 --> 00:31:52,043 Okay. 879 00:31:52,110 --> 00:31:53,703 Have you ever done them in the microwave? 880 00:31:53,737 --> 00:31:54,713 No. 881 00:31:54,780 --> 00:31:56,306 You sound like your dad when you do that. 882 00:31:56,406 --> 00:31:57,182 You know that? 883 00:31:57,315 --> 00:31:58,784 I think I picked up on it. 884 00:31:58,884 --> 00:32:00,719 I think you've picked up on a few things. 885 00:32:00,752 --> 00:32:02,888 You know the other day when I was so mad 886 00:32:02,954 --> 00:32:07,025 about your stupid ticket and I was going off on you. 887 00:32:07,058 --> 00:32:08,627 I guess I just want to check in, 888 00:32:08,693 --> 00:32:11,363 is everything okay with you? 889 00:32:11,496 --> 00:32:14,032 Uh... 890 00:32:14,065 --> 00:32:16,368 Heh. Things have just been hard. 891 00:32:16,401 --> 00:32:18,703 [chuckles nervously] 892 00:32:18,737 --> 00:32:20,906 Sometimes it feels like a lot. 893 00:32:20,972 --> 00:32:23,575 And so it did not help. 894 00:32:23,642 --> 00:32:25,377 - The ticket didn't help? - Mm-mm. 895 00:32:25,444 --> 00:32:26,436 [sad music] 896 00:32:26,503 --> 00:32:29,181 But I... That was stupid by me, so... 897 00:32:29,247 --> 00:32:31,616 I don't really know what you're referencing with 898 00:32:31,683 --> 00:32:35,520 "everything that's a lot," right? 899 00:32:35,587 --> 00:32:38,123 - Are you mad at me? - No. 900 00:32:38,223 --> 00:32:40,358 No, no. I'm not mad at you. 901 00:32:40,458 --> 00:32:41,426 It's just-- 902 00:32:41,460 --> 00:32:45,597 It's my parents aren't together anymore. 903 00:32:45,630 --> 00:32:47,566 I'm with you basically seven days a week 904 00:32:47,599 --> 00:32:51,169 and I love that, that's fine, but I... 905 00:32:51,236 --> 00:32:54,573 You want more time with Dad? 906 00:32:54,606 --> 00:32:55,907 Your parents aren't together anymore, 907 00:32:55,941 --> 00:33:00,178 is that something that's still weighing on you? 908 00:33:00,278 --> 00:33:02,080 Yeah, it's, it's... 909 00:33:02,147 --> 00:33:06,918 It impacts everything I do every day. 910 00:33:06,952 --> 00:33:08,920 I don't see my dad! 911 00:33:08,954 --> 00:33:12,315 I'm sorry. 912 00:33:12,382 --> 00:33:15,093 Every day that he wakes up, 913 00:33:15,126 --> 00:33:19,664 it's hard for him because of a decision I made, 914 00:33:19,731 --> 00:33:21,825 like, I did that. 915 00:33:21,892 --> 00:33:23,568 I did that to him. 916 00:33:23,635 --> 00:33:24,995 All I'm gonna say is it sucks. 917 00:33:25,061 --> 00:33:26,071 It sucks. 918 00:33:26,171 --> 00:33:27,672 I thought he was okay. 919 00:33:27,739 --> 00:33:29,774 I thought, like, we're so many years past it 920 00:33:29,841 --> 00:33:35,146 and, like, we've come out on the other side and we haven't. 921 00:33:35,213 --> 00:33:36,715 I'm a 17-year-old, Mom. 922 00:33:36,781 --> 00:33:38,750 There's people that don't like me, 923 00:33:38,850 --> 00:33:40,176 there's things that are said about me, 924 00:33:40,243 --> 00:33:42,287 there's things I go through myself. 925 00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,522 The immaturity, maybe, of other people, 926 00:33:44,589 --> 00:33:46,024 is that what you're dealing with? 927 00:33:46,091 --> 00:33:47,959 Yeah. 928 00:33:48,026 --> 00:33:51,863 Are people being unkind to you? 929 00:33:51,930 --> 00:33:53,698 Yeah. 930 00:33:53,798 --> 00:33:56,635 You're like the kindest person I've ever known. 931 00:33:56,668 --> 00:33:58,570 I don't even understand that. 932 00:33:58,637 --> 00:34:00,705 [sighs] 933 00:34:04,075 --> 00:34:06,169 [shaky exhale] 934 00:34:09,205 --> 00:34:11,967 [Jenn sobbing] 935 00:34:15,854 --> 00:34:16,988 I'm sorry. 936 00:34:17,022 --> 00:34:18,557 I'm sorry! 937 00:34:18,623 --> 00:34:20,492 I'm the ----ing sorry one. 938 00:34:20,625 --> 00:34:21,927 - Mom... - Yes, I'm sorry. 939 00:34:22,027 --> 00:34:23,328 I'm sorry that it didn't work. 940 00:34:23,395 --> 00:34:25,455 I'm sorry that everything went upside down 941 00:34:25,522 --> 00:34:26,556 and I love you so much 942 00:34:26,623 --> 00:34:28,900 and I'm doing the best that I can. 943 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:29,768 I just... 944 00:34:29,834 --> 00:34:32,237 [sobbing] 945 00:34:32,337 --> 00:34:34,806 I'm sorry that I got so mad about your ticket 946 00:34:34,873 --> 00:34:35,840 but it's actually out of fear 947 00:34:35,907 --> 00:34:38,068 because Grayson if I didn't have you, 948 00:34:38,134 --> 00:34:39,444 if you would've hit a rock, 949 00:34:39,511 --> 00:34:40,578 if you would've lost control 950 00:34:40,679 --> 00:34:43,348 and I lose you, I lose everything. 951 00:34:43,381 --> 00:34:45,884 I love you so much and I think-- 952 00:34:45,951 --> 00:34:48,053 I, I think you know there's nothing that 953 00:34:48,086 --> 00:34:49,579 I wouldn't do for you. 954 00:34:49,646 --> 00:34:50,547 [sighs] 955 00:34:50,580 --> 00:34:51,923 When it comes to your dad and I, 956 00:34:51,990 --> 00:34:53,191 I'm not gonna stop working on that. 957 00:34:53,291 --> 00:34:57,721 Yeah, it'd just be nice if things were easy again. 958 00:34:57,754 --> 00:35:00,699 If anybody had told me how painful it was gonna be 959 00:35:00,765 --> 00:35:01,633 for my kids, 960 00:35:01,733 --> 00:35:03,768 maybe I would've dug my heels in 961 00:35:03,835 --> 00:35:06,605 but what's been done has already been done 962 00:35:06,671 --> 00:35:09,674 and there's not enough sorrys that I can say to Gray 963 00:35:09,741 --> 00:35:11,309 that's gonna take that away from him. 964 00:35:11,409 --> 00:35:14,446 That is gonna be his story for his whole life. 965 00:35:17,015 --> 00:35:18,550 Alright. 966 00:35:18,683 --> 00:35:20,051 Alright? 967 00:35:20,085 --> 00:35:21,536 [laughter] 968 00:35:23,254 --> 00:35:25,590 Come here. 969 00:35:25,657 --> 00:35:27,292 [Jenn exhales] 970 00:35:28,660 --> 00:35:30,762 Mom, you're squeezing me. 971 00:35:30,829 --> 00:35:32,430 Yeah, good talk. 972 00:35:32,497 --> 00:35:35,467 [upbeat music] 973 00:35:45,143 --> 00:35:46,177 Hello there. 974 00:35:46,277 --> 00:35:48,179 - Good afternoon. - I love that sign on the front. 975 00:35:48,246 --> 00:35:49,247 Thanks. 976 00:35:49,314 --> 00:35:50,415 Did you do that because the Housewives 977 00:35:50,448 --> 00:35:51,416 have been eating here sometimes? 978 00:35:51,449 --> 00:35:52,684 [laughter] 979 00:35:52,784 --> 00:35:53,810 How are you, Vicky? 980 00:35:53,877 --> 00:35:54,986 I love it. Good to see you. 981 00:35:55,053 --> 00:35:56,588 The last time we were at the Quiet Woman, 982 00:35:56,621 --> 00:35:57,789 it wasn't so quiet. 983 00:35:57,822 --> 00:35:58,990 How are you? 984 00:35:59,057 --> 00:36:00,892 I'm good, I'm sitting in the middle of the two monkeys. 985 00:36:00,959 --> 00:36:02,093 So, let's if we can get through this. 986 00:36:02,193 --> 00:36:03,495 See how it goes. 987 00:36:03,561 --> 00:36:07,065 If Tamra doesn't stay calm and not use any bad words, 988 00:36:07,132 --> 00:36:09,601 ----, drunk, broke. 989 00:36:09,668 --> 00:36:11,828 There's gonna be a code red, there's gonna be table flipping, 990 00:36:11,895 --> 00:36:13,171 this is gonna be plate launching, 991 00:36:13,271 --> 00:36:16,141 this is going to be everything we don't want it to be. 992 00:36:16,207 --> 00:36:19,277 [upbeat music] 993 00:36:19,344 --> 00:36:20,804 [door squeaks] Hi. 994 00:36:20,837 --> 00:36:21,613 Hello, Tamra. 995 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,006 - How are you? - How are you? 996 00:36:23,073 --> 00:36:23,848 I'm well. 997 00:36:23,915 --> 00:36:26,017 Vicky's waiting patiently. 998 00:36:26,084 --> 00:36:28,653 Oh, the infamous table where Shannon threw the plate. 999 00:36:28,686 --> 00:36:33,491 This isn't my plate, you ----ing bitch! 1000 00:36:33,525 --> 00:36:36,795 Well, she only says it when she's ordering too much food. 1001 00:36:36,861 --> 00:36:38,154 Sit down. How are you? 1002 00:36:38,188 --> 00:36:40,165 - I'm good. I love you so much. - I love you, too. 1003 00:36:40,231 --> 00:36:42,300 I didn't blow dry my hair today, I'm heading out to the desert. 1004 00:36:42,333 --> 00:36:43,935 And I'm gonna go to your desert house 1005 00:36:44,002 --> 00:36:46,304 when you invite me. 1006 00:36:46,371 --> 00:36:47,263 I'm waiting. 1007 00:36:47,363 --> 00:36:48,606 [awkward beat] 1008 00:36:48,706 --> 00:36:51,201 Okay, listen, before Shannon gets here, 1009 00:36:51,267 --> 00:36:53,169 I think I'm gonna start with this, what do you think? 1010 00:36:53,203 --> 00:36:54,145 You know what, Shannon, 1011 00:36:54,179 --> 00:36:55,714 we've both done things to each other, 1012 00:36:55,780 --> 00:36:57,273 I've been hurt, you've been hurt, 1013 00:36:57,340 --> 00:37:00,318 let's not hurt each other and let's move forward. 1014 00:37:00,351 --> 00:37:01,820 Okay. And I'm gonna add one more thing on there. 1015 00:37:01,886 --> 00:37:05,323 I think maybe we need to start with, "I'm sorry," before-- 1016 00:37:05,390 --> 00:37:06,524 Oh, I'm not apologizing. 1017 00:37:06,591 --> 00:37:07,826 Why wouldn't we? 1018 00:37:07,859 --> 00:37:09,352 Does it hurt you? Does it... 1019 00:37:09,385 --> 00:37:10,562 [whacks] ...hurt you? Ow. 1020 00:37:10,628 --> 00:37:11,513 Does it hurt you? 1021 00:37:11,546 --> 00:37:12,797 No, because I did it all last year. 1022 00:37:12,864 --> 00:37:16,868 Obviously, it wasn't sincere or it didn't work. 1023 00:37:16,935 --> 00:37:19,737 [upbeat music] 1024 00:37:21,740 --> 00:37:22,874 Good afternoon, Shannon. 1025 00:37:22,941 --> 00:37:24,209 - How are you? - I'm doing well. 1026 00:37:24,242 --> 00:37:25,910 Well, hello, my love! 1027 00:37:25,977 --> 00:37:27,011 Hello. 1028 00:37:27,078 --> 00:37:28,346 We're back to the scene of the crime. 1029 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:29,380 Oh, God. 1030 00:37:29,447 --> 00:37:30,181 At the table. 1031 00:37:30,215 --> 00:37:31,015 [laughter] Yeah. 1032 00:37:31,049 --> 00:37:32,851 Is Tamra going to acknowledge 1033 00:37:32,884 --> 00:37:35,487 hurtful things that she's done in the last couple months? 1034 00:37:35,587 --> 00:37:36,921 [stammering] 1035 00:37:36,988 --> 00:37:38,323 My hopes aren't that high. 1036 00:37:38,423 --> 00:37:39,691 Ladies, are you ready to order? 1037 00:37:39,724 --> 00:37:42,152 Yes. I would like an artichoke and a steak salad, please. 1038 00:37:42,218 --> 00:37:43,094 You got it. 1039 00:37:43,161 --> 00:37:44,529 Do you have any bread by chance? 1040 00:37:44,596 --> 00:37:45,380 Yeah, I do. 1041 00:37:45,413 --> 00:37:46,397 The cheese bread. 1042 00:37:46,431 --> 00:37:47,432 Let's just rub it on our asses, 1043 00:37:47,499 --> 00:37:48,933 that's where it's gonna go, so... 1044 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,101 I know, I know... 1045 00:37:51,202 --> 00:37:51,870 [sighs] 1046 00:37:52,003 --> 00:37:55,440 [awkward music] 1047 00:37:58,476 --> 00:38:00,945 [ice sloshing] 1048 00:38:01,012 --> 00:38:02,614 Um... 1049 00:38:02,714 --> 00:38:05,383 Anyway. 1050 00:38:05,416 --> 00:38:07,277 Thank you. 1051 00:38:07,343 --> 00:38:08,945 [sighs] 1052 00:38:09,012 --> 00:38:10,288 I'm waiting for the Jeopardy music 1053 00:38:10,355 --> 00:38:11,614 to come on any minute now. 1054 00:38:11,681 --> 00:38:14,459 Okay, ladies, uh, somebody's gotta make the first move. 1055 00:38:14,526 --> 00:38:15,451 Let's move along. 1056 00:38:15,518 --> 00:38:16,928 I'm very busy, I got things to do. 1057 00:38:16,995 --> 00:38:19,998 I'm thankful that Vicky put this together 1058 00:38:20,064 --> 00:38:22,901 and I know Shannon that, um, 1059 00:38:23,001 --> 00:38:25,837 the two of us have done a lot to each other to hurt each other 1060 00:38:25,904 --> 00:38:28,740 but I would like to get to a place and just move forward 1061 00:38:28,773 --> 00:38:32,243 where we can have fun and get along. 1062 00:38:32,277 --> 00:38:34,746 To me it's interesting that we're here because 1063 00:38:34,846 --> 00:38:36,272 what was it, a month ago? 1064 00:38:36,306 --> 00:38:38,850 You sat at a booth with a bunch of women 1065 00:38:38,950 --> 00:38:40,752 and said I was drunk, that I'll never get a man 1066 00:38:40,818 --> 00:38:41,853 and that I had no money. 1067 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,255 How do you think that makes me feel? 1068 00:38:44,289 --> 00:38:45,723 How do you think it makes me feel-- 1069 00:38:45,824 --> 00:38:46,958 No, answer the question. 1070 00:38:47,025 --> 00:38:48,993 [dramatic music] 1071 00:38:55,366 --> 00:38:56,668 You said I was a drunk, 1072 00:38:56,801 --> 00:38:59,037 that I'll never get a man and that I had no money. 1073 00:38:59,103 --> 00:39:00,955 How do you think that makes me feel? 1074 00:39:00,989 --> 00:39:02,332 How do you think it makes me feel-- 1075 00:39:02,465 --> 00:39:03,341 No, answer the question. 1076 00:39:03,441 --> 00:39:05,168 Okay. Um, probably not good 1077 00:39:05,301 --> 00:39:06,811 and I'm sorry that I said that. 1078 00:39:06,878 --> 00:39:08,104 Okay? I'm sorry. 1079 00:39:08,171 --> 00:39:08,980 There you go. 1080 00:39:09,047 --> 00:39:10,440 - Sorry, but. - But how is it-- 1081 00:39:10,506 --> 00:39:11,316 No. 1082 00:39:11,349 --> 00:39:13,351 How does it make me feel 1083 00:39:13,451 --> 00:39:16,679 when you get on a live or something and you say 1084 00:39:16,779 --> 00:39:18,681 to somebody that it was a gift 1085 00:39:18,781 --> 00:39:20,975 for me to you to even film with me? 1086 00:39:21,009 --> 00:39:23,862 I gave you a gift and this is between us. 1087 00:39:23,995 --> 00:39:25,430 I filmed with you... 1088 00:39:25,496 --> 00:39:26,998 I even went on a ----ing trip 1089 00:39:27,065 --> 00:39:30,668 where you packed a book called How Not To Be A Miserable Cow. 1090 00:39:30,735 --> 00:39:34,339 Right. I, I-- Because I did move forward from two years ago 1091 00:39:34,405 --> 00:39:37,108 to last year. I just brushed things under the rug. 1092 00:39:37,141 --> 00:39:39,043 - I actually laughed with you-- - Well, I don't think 1093 00:39:39,177 --> 00:39:40,703 that's moving forward, though, Shannon. 1094 00:39:40,837 --> 00:39:42,513 I tried very hard to move forward with you 1095 00:39:42,547 --> 00:39:43,448 and you just didn't-- 1096 00:39:43,514 --> 00:39:44,616 You really didn't-- 1097 00:39:44,649 --> 00:39:46,217 We're making headway. We're making headway. 1098 00:39:46,351 --> 00:39:47,652 But, but-- 1099 00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:49,854 I feel like sometimes you're the pot calling the kettle black 1100 00:39:49,921 --> 00:39:51,956 'cause I met with Emily and she told me 1101 00:39:51,990 --> 00:39:54,325 that she went up to you to hug you 1102 00:39:54,392 --> 00:39:55,860 and then you said, well, 1103 00:39:55,894 --> 00:39:59,188 "Yeah, I can call iHeart now and say that they can invite you 1104 00:39:59,222 --> 00:40:00,498 "to events now." 1105 00:40:00,565 --> 00:40:02,850 I was joking with her and I told her. 1106 00:40:02,884 --> 00:40:04,769 She goes, you didn't and I go, I'm joking. 1107 00:40:04,836 --> 00:40:06,104 Well, it hurt her. 1108 00:40:06,170 --> 00:40:08,364 I don't know that making a joke about something that was 1109 00:40:08,398 --> 00:40:10,875 clearly hurtful right after it happened 1110 00:40:10,908 --> 00:40:12,402 but that's how you roll. 1111 00:40:12,502 --> 00:40:14,862 - Oh, my God, this is the thing. - She's really hurt by it. 1112 00:40:14,896 --> 00:40:16,014 Yeah but she's hurt by it. 1113 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:18,082 Oh, my God! 1114 00:40:18,216 --> 00:40:20,485 You guys hold on to every little thing. 1115 00:40:20,551 --> 00:40:23,246 Don't say, "you guys," she just told me a story. 1116 00:40:23,346 --> 00:40:24,422 Oh, my God, I can't! 1117 00:40:24,555 --> 00:40:25,924 She told me the story yesterday. 1118 00:40:26,057 --> 00:40:27,225 Don't get defensive. 1119 00:40:27,258 --> 00:40:29,394 You guys pick up on the stupidest little things 1120 00:40:29,427 --> 00:40:31,754 and try to make it into something big. 1121 00:40:31,888 --> 00:40:33,556 She's just saying she was hurt. 1122 00:40:33,589 --> 00:40:35,058 God! 1123 00:40:35,091 --> 00:40:36,501 Let's stay in our lane. 1124 00:40:36,567 --> 00:40:39,520 Like, I really love both of you. 1125 00:40:42,256 --> 00:40:44,434 But I am in the middle but I don't have family here. 1126 00:40:44,534 --> 00:40:45,893 My girlfriends are sacred to me, 1127 00:40:45,927 --> 00:40:47,745 I love you guys 1128 00:40:47,779 --> 00:40:51,040 and we know Tamra's got a spitfire personality. 1129 00:40:51,107 --> 00:40:53,242 I'm well aware of that. 1130 00:40:53,276 --> 00:40:55,353 Aging has taught me a lot about friendships 1131 00:40:55,420 --> 00:40:57,113 that we can't take them for granted. 1132 00:40:57,246 --> 00:40:59,824 Nothing's been that bad where they can't move on. 1133 00:40:59,891 --> 00:41:02,093 I mean, they haven't slept with each other's boyfriends 1134 00:41:02,126 --> 00:41:02,994 or husbands. 1135 00:41:03,061 --> 00:41:04,595 They haven't stolen from each other. 1136 00:41:04,729 --> 00:41:06,798 They just got sharp tongues. 1137 00:41:06,931 --> 00:41:08,800 I just want them to get back together, 1138 00:41:08,900 --> 00:41:11,127 like the good old days, the Tracy Miko days. 1139 00:41:11,260 --> 00:41:13,087 Sincerely, I am sorry. 1140 00:41:13,121 --> 00:41:14,422 I am sorry for hurting you 1141 00:41:14,455 --> 00:41:17,442 and I'm happy that you're in a good place right now. 1142 00:41:17,475 --> 00:41:19,110 - Thank you. - I just want to be around 1143 00:41:19,143 --> 00:41:20,478 you in that happy place. 1144 00:41:20,611 --> 00:41:22,680 - So, we can do that. - I'm, I'm... Absolutely. 1145 00:41:22,747 --> 00:41:24,240 - That would be amazing. - Ecstatic about that. 1146 00:41:24,307 --> 00:41:25,450 - That would be amazing. - Okay. 1147 00:41:25,516 --> 00:41:27,018 - Okay? - Thank you. 1148 00:41:27,085 --> 00:41:29,487 I am absolutely willing to move forward and have fun and laugh. 1149 00:41:29,587 --> 00:41:30,989 Yay! [clapping] 1150 00:41:31,089 --> 00:41:32,957 And again, I don't want to hurt anybody, it's not my intention. 1151 00:41:33,024 --> 00:41:34,692 - I know. - Well, I don't think any of us 1152 00:41:34,759 --> 00:41:38,154 want to hurt anybody but sometimes it happens, 1153 00:41:38,287 --> 00:41:39,614 it's usually your fault. 1154 00:41:39,647 --> 00:41:43,159 [dramatic beat] 1155 00:41:43,259 --> 00:41:44,235 I'll take the blame. 1156 00:41:44,302 --> 00:41:47,121 [laughter] 1157 00:41:47,155 --> 00:41:48,206 Woo-hoo! 1158 00:41:48,272 --> 00:41:49,474 Hallelujah, praise the Lord! 1159 00:41:49,574 --> 00:41:51,809 You know, it's the shoulder thing, it helps. 1160 00:41:51,876 --> 00:41:53,811 Thank you. Thank you. 1161 00:41:53,845 --> 00:41:55,346 Mission accomplished. 1162 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:56,981 Checked that one off the list. 1163 00:41:57,014 --> 00:41:58,608 I gotta go back to work. 1164 00:41:58,674 --> 00:42:02,487 One, two, three. 1165 00:42:02,587 --> 00:42:03,304 [chiming music] 1166 00:42:03,337 --> 00:42:04,639 [laughter] We're back! 1167 00:42:04,672 --> 00:42:08,659 Can we do, like, a three-way text from time to time? 1168 00:42:08,693 --> 00:42:09,827 We used to have that. 1169 00:42:09,861 --> 00:42:12,188 Absolutely! 1170 00:42:12,288 --> 00:42:15,833 Next time on The Real Housewives of Orange County. 1171 00:42:15,933 --> 00:42:17,602 Go. [blowing] 1172 00:42:17,668 --> 00:42:18,569 [laughter] 1173 00:42:18,636 --> 00:42:19,904 Are you ever going to have children? 1174 00:42:19,971 --> 00:42:21,531 Should we freeze your sperm? 1175 00:42:21,631 --> 00:42:22,365 [chuckles] 1176 00:42:22,465 --> 00:42:24,108 Is it Gina you're upset with? 1177 00:42:24,175 --> 00:42:25,468 Just be happy for your friend 1178 00:42:25,535 --> 00:42:27,311 that somebody got her a Dior bag, how 'bout that? 1179 00:42:27,378 --> 00:42:30,331 Everybody has put how they feel about you. 1180 00:42:30,364 --> 00:42:31,207 What? 1181 00:42:31,340 --> 00:42:32,350 I am not a Debby Downer. 1182 00:42:32,383 --> 00:42:33,317 That was me. 1183 00:42:33,384 --> 00:42:35,002 You ----ing think I'm obsessed with her. 1184 00:42:35,036 --> 00:42:37,021 - No. - But I don't understand-- 1185 00:42:37,054 --> 00:42:38,189 [overlapping shouting] 1186 00:42:38,222 --> 00:42:39,323 Let me talk! 1187 00:42:39,390 --> 00:42:41,476 Heather, all I've heard tonight is you talking.