1 00:00:05,171 --> 00:00:06,206 Previously on The Real Housewives of Orange County... 2 00:00:07,574 --> 00:00:09,075 I hate the devil! 3 00:00:09,109 --> 00:00:10,377 You're going in the fire! 4 00:00:10,410 --> 00:00:12,278 - [screaming] - [laughter] 5 00:00:12,312 --> 00:00:14,714 -This is whack-a-doodle. - So, John has a type. 6 00:00:15,215 --> 00:00:17,150 - Are you okay? - I know, what's going on? 7 00:00:17,183 --> 00:00:19,786 What's happening is... 8 00:00:19,819 --> 00:00:21,221 Is it a Shannon thing? 9 00:00:21,254 --> 00:00:23,390 It's all of the legal battle, period. 10 00:00:23,423 --> 00:00:27,694 John Janssen sues ex, Shannon Bedour, for $75,000. 11 00:00:27,727 --> 00:00:29,129 Now, it all makes sense 12 00:00:29,162 --> 00:00:31,231 why Alexis was acting a little loony. 13 00:00:31,264 --> 00:00:33,133 Oh, Shannon's calling me. 14 00:00:34,901 --> 00:00:37,337 She butt-dialed me. 15 00:00:40,340 --> 00:00:42,308 When we did the fashion show, 16 00:00:42,342 --> 00:00:45,311 I was the only person that brought their own jeans to wear. 17 00:00:45,345 --> 00:00:47,514 I felt like I was singled out. 18 00:00:47,547 --> 00:00:50,283 I thought I was giving you a starring role. 19 00:00:50,316 --> 00:00:52,318 I'm asking you to have a conversation. 20 00:00:52,352 --> 00:00:53,687 Could you be quiet for a second? 21 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:55,188 Oh, [bleep] off. 22 00:00:55,221 --> 00:00:56,723 - Hi, bud. How are you? - What's up, man? 23 00:00:56,756 --> 00:00:58,124 - Good. Good to see you. - Yeah? 24 00:00:58,158 --> 00:00:59,526 - Wanna give me a hug? - No. 25 00:00:59,559 --> 00:01:00,260 Oh, okay. 26 00:01:00,293 --> 00:01:02,228 Don't talk about my ----ing kids. 27 00:01:02,262 --> 00:01:03,496 I feel I'm validated in everything I said 28 00:01:03,530 --> 00:01:06,332 - based on the way you guys-- - Are you ----ing kidding me? 29 00:01:06,366 --> 00:01:08,468 - ...treated me. - How's the FBI going for you? 30 00:01:08,501 --> 00:01:09,336 Stop, okay? 31 00:01:09,369 --> 00:01:11,171 Can you just stop talking? 32 00:01:11,204 --> 00:01:13,640 Eddie, I hate this coming between me and you. 33 00:01:13,673 --> 00:01:15,342 I'm done. 34 00:01:15,375 --> 00:01:17,911 - Oh, sh--. - This guy's a piece of sh--. 35 00:01:17,944 --> 00:01:19,579 [bleep] 36 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,149 ----ing kidding me? 37 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,522 I'm done. Get in the car. Let's go. 38 00:01:30,457 --> 00:01:31,491 [bleep] 39 00:01:33,393 --> 00:01:35,161 It doesn't need to be like this, so. 40 00:01:35,195 --> 00:01:37,397 She's Tamra. That's what she does. 41 00:01:37,430 --> 00:01:38,531 Hello? 42 00:01:40,767 --> 00:01:41,935 Girlfriend. 43 00:01:41,968 --> 00:01:43,503 - What? - Why'd you leave? 44 00:01:43,536 --> 00:01:45,739 I'm not gonna put up with that guy. 45 00:01:45,772 --> 00:01:46,906 I know. 46 00:01:46,940 --> 00:01:49,275 She knows he's a piece of sh--. 47 00:01:49,309 --> 00:01:50,944 Ask her about the FBI. 48 00:01:50,977 --> 00:01:53,546 And now, there's a lawsuit that's going on 49 00:01:53,580 --> 00:01:56,249 by the FBI about illegal gambling? 50 00:01:56,282 --> 00:01:57,617 - Shut up. - Yes. 51 00:01:57,650 --> 00:01:58,918 It's disgusting. 52 00:01:58,952 --> 00:02:00,820 - Oh, no. - He's a horrible human being. 53 00:02:00,854 --> 00:02:04,891 There's an account on Instagram that broke down everything. 54 00:02:04,924 --> 00:02:06,926 What was going on in Las Vegas, 55 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:08,795 things about his partner. 56 00:02:08,828 --> 00:02:12,332 $595,000 was paid to Ryan 57 00:02:12,365 --> 00:02:14,834 and Ryan's company, Lion Time Inc. 58 00:02:14,868 --> 00:02:18,538 And when Ryan was asked where that money was coming from, 59 00:02:18,571 --> 00:02:20,507 he just simply couldn't remember. 60 00:02:20,540 --> 00:02:21,675 Allegedly. 61 00:02:21,708 --> 00:02:23,410 And also, allegedly, 62 00:02:23,443 --> 00:02:28,948 Ryan's partner's business address is Ryan's home address. 63 00:02:28,982 --> 00:02:30,850 Eddie, I think Tamra's ready to go. 64 00:02:30,884 --> 00:02:32,886 Oh, okay. 65 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:34,954 Eddie, it was really good to meet you, finally. 66 00:02:34,988 --> 00:02:36,623 Thank you for coming over. 67 00:02:36,656 --> 00:02:38,491 - We should get together soon. - Yeah, I would love that. 68 00:02:38,525 --> 00:02:39,893 - Eddie, pleasure. - Nice to meet you. 69 00:02:39,926 --> 00:02:41,428 Bye, Eddie. 70 00:02:41,461 --> 00:02:42,796 - I look forward to next time. - Seriously. 71 00:02:42,829 --> 00:02:43,897 - Thank you. - Bye. 72 00:02:43,930 --> 00:02:45,498 See you soon. 73 00:02:46,966 --> 00:02:48,335 Good to see you. 74 00:02:48,368 --> 00:02:49,602 Yeah, we'll see you soon, maybe. 75 00:02:55,842 --> 00:02:57,610 Yeah. Appreciate it. 76 00:02:57,644 --> 00:03:00,213 You guys can be golf course friends. 77 00:03:00,613 --> 00:03:01,481 I know. 78 00:03:01,514 --> 00:03:03,283 - Take care of that for me. - I will. 79 00:03:03,316 --> 00:03:05,285 - Help me with that. Okay. - I will. 80 00:03:05,318 --> 00:03:07,554 After how far Tamra and I have come... 81 00:03:07,587 --> 00:03:11,825 I'm so happy that Ryan stepped up for you. 82 00:03:11,858 --> 00:03:13,259 I love you so much. 83 00:03:13,293 --> 00:03:15,362 I'm so grateful. You have no idea. 84 00:03:15,395 --> 00:03:16,896 ...I would love to sit here and say 85 00:03:16,930 --> 00:03:18,398 I'm blindsided by this behavior, 86 00:03:18,431 --> 00:03:19,799 but it was a matter of time. 87 00:03:19,833 --> 00:03:21,468 I'm sorry, Jenn. 88 00:03:21,501 --> 00:03:24,371 Oh, you know, it was short-lived, unfortunately. 89 00:03:24,404 --> 00:03:26,539 It's hard because I love Eddie. 90 00:03:26,573 --> 00:03:29,809 I respect him tremendously, but Tamra can't help herself. 91 00:03:29,843 --> 00:03:31,878 She's not loyal to anyone, 92 00:03:31,911 --> 00:03:33,747 and certainly not me. 93 00:03:33,780 --> 00:03:35,015 Tamra's very upset. 94 00:03:35,048 --> 00:03:36,516 What did she say? 95 00:03:36,549 --> 00:03:39,452 She just said ask him about the FBI. 96 00:03:41,921 --> 00:03:43,690 Gosh, that's so interesting. 97 00:03:43,723 --> 00:03:46,893 Yeah, one of my closest friends is going through something 98 00:03:46,926 --> 00:03:48,328 and has been since September. 99 00:03:48,361 --> 00:03:50,764 I mean, she must be talking about Matt. 100 00:03:50,797 --> 00:03:52,332 - Oh. - Yeah. 101 00:03:52,365 --> 00:03:54,034 Do you host people in Vegas? 102 00:03:54,067 --> 00:03:55,368 Matt's one of my closest friends. 103 00:03:55,402 --> 00:03:56,636 I go with him to Vegas often. 104 00:03:56,670 --> 00:03:58,338 - Okay. - But I don't know about host. 105 00:03:58,371 --> 00:03:59,706 I've never hosted anything. 106 00:03:59,739 --> 00:04:01,441 Oh, I didn't know. Isn't that what he was doing? 107 00:04:01,474 --> 00:04:02,742 - No. - Oh, I thought 108 00:04:02,776 --> 00:04:05,345 he was hosting big timers in Vegas, 109 00:04:05,378 --> 00:04:06,613 and then that's how he got in trouble. 110 00:04:06,646 --> 00:04:08,381 - Like they were using... - No. 111 00:04:08,415 --> 00:04:09,916 - ...illegal money or something. - No, not at all. 112 00:04:09,949 --> 00:04:11,685 Then, why the FBI? 113 00:04:11,718 --> 00:04:14,788 Matt's a pro, 114 00:04:14,821 --> 00:04:17,057 excuse me, he's a professional gambler. 115 00:04:17,090 --> 00:04:18,458 Okay, right. 116 00:04:18,491 --> 00:04:19,993 And also has a bookie business, 117 00:04:20,026 --> 00:04:22,328 and him and his family are going through some tough times. 118 00:04:22,362 --> 00:04:23,797 I'm not even able to talk about it. 119 00:04:23,830 --> 00:04:25,932 - I mean, that's his situation. - No, I know, I'm sure. 120 00:04:25,965 --> 00:04:27,434 It's super, super tough for him. 121 00:04:27,467 --> 00:04:28,468 Oh, I thought you guys did the same thing. 122 00:04:28,501 --> 00:04:29,803 - In California. - No. 123 00:04:29,836 --> 00:04:31,371 No, gosh, no. 124 00:04:31,404 --> 00:04:32,672 Well, I don't know, I would just always 125 00:04:32,706 --> 00:04:34,107 see you together like going to Vegas and stuff. 126 00:04:34,140 --> 00:04:35,542 No, they're great friends of ours. 127 00:04:35,575 --> 00:04:37,844 Okay, I've heard the rumors about Ryan 128 00:04:37,877 --> 00:04:41,047 and the FBI and some partner that he's involved in 129 00:04:41,081 --> 00:04:42,949 being investigated by the FBI. 130 00:04:42,982 --> 00:04:44,484 I don't know details. 131 00:04:44,517 --> 00:04:46,419 I don't know if it's true. 132 00:04:46,453 --> 00:04:47,487 So, you would just go with them? 133 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,589 - Yes. Yeah. - Oh, okay. 134 00:04:49,622 --> 00:04:51,725 We like the fruits of just going with our friends. 135 00:04:51,758 --> 00:04:53,793 We were fortunate to enjoy those fruits. 136 00:04:53,827 --> 00:04:56,463 Ryan goes to Vegas like it's his job. 137 00:04:56,496 --> 00:04:58,665 His career is going to Vegas. 138 00:04:58,698 --> 00:05:01,101 I don't know what else there is to do in Vegas 139 00:05:01,134 --> 00:05:03,603 besides gamble, go to shows, drink. 140 00:05:04,404 --> 00:05:05,739 Oh, prostitution. 141 00:05:06,873 --> 00:05:08,074 That is legal. 142 00:05:08,108 --> 00:05:09,576 I'm sorry how the night went. 143 00:05:09,609 --> 00:05:11,478 It's not your fault. It's Ryan's fault. 144 00:05:11,511 --> 00:05:14,948 - Yeah. - It wasn't you. 145 00:05:14,981 --> 00:05:16,750 What a ----ing night. 146 00:05:22,689 --> 00:05:25,392 * What goes around, comes around, goes around * 147 00:05:25,425 --> 00:05:26,659 This is cool. 148 00:05:26,693 --> 00:05:29,129 Hi, welcome to Backyard Expressions. 149 00:05:29,162 --> 00:05:30,463 Oh, I'm meeting a friend. 150 00:05:30,497 --> 00:05:31,698 - Okay, wonderful. - Great. 151 00:05:31,731 --> 00:05:33,600 Are you looking for anything particular? 152 00:05:33,633 --> 00:05:36,002 I guess we're looking for outdoor expressions. 153 00:05:36,036 --> 00:05:37,604 Hi. 154 00:05:37,637 --> 00:05:39,739 - There's the birthday girl. - Okay, well. 155 00:05:39,773 --> 00:05:42,108 - Hello. - Oh, my God, happy birthday. 156 00:05:42,142 --> 00:05:44,077 Thank you. Thank you. 157 00:05:44,110 --> 00:05:45,612 How do you feel? 158 00:05:45,645 --> 00:05:48,148 Come on, man. This is a new decade. 159 00:05:48,181 --> 00:05:50,183 - Yeah. - This is good. 160 00:05:50,216 --> 00:05:51,751 It's my 60th birthday, 161 00:05:51,785 --> 00:05:56,056 but birthdays have never been a big day for me. 162 00:05:56,089 --> 00:05:57,557 I just don't like the focus on me. 163 00:05:57,590 --> 00:06:00,760 I don't, I don't, I'm uncomfortable with it. 164 00:06:00,794 --> 00:06:02,662 Oh, hi. I'm getting her a crown. 165 00:06:02,696 --> 00:06:03,863 I feel like you need a crown. 166 00:06:03,897 --> 00:06:06,166 Okay, let's just keep emphasizing the big. 167 00:06:06,199 --> 00:06:08,535 Big birthday. 168 00:06:08,568 --> 00:06:12,572 So, singing in public in the store. 169 00:06:13,006 --> 00:06:16,076 I appreciate the kindness, but it's not necessary. 170 00:06:16,109 --> 00:06:18,578 All right, so what are we looking for? What do we need? 171 00:06:18,611 --> 00:06:21,681 In my front patio, I have space for a sofa. 172 00:06:21,715 --> 00:06:23,750 This is nice, but it is a spider trap. 173 00:06:23,783 --> 00:06:25,819 Spiders would live in here, yeah. 174 00:06:25,852 --> 00:06:28,455 Oh, yeah, that's why I don't like ivy on houses. 175 00:06:28,488 --> 00:06:30,056 - It looks like rat ladders. - It is. 176 00:06:30,090 --> 00:06:31,624 - It is. - Jinx. 177 00:06:31,658 --> 00:06:33,226 - See, this looks like you. - No. 178 00:06:33,259 --> 00:06:34,527 Do you like this one? 179 00:06:34,561 --> 00:06:36,196 None of that matches my place. 180 00:06:36,229 --> 00:06:37,931 Well, do you like this one? 181 00:06:37,964 --> 00:06:39,466 No. This is weird. 182 00:06:39,499 --> 00:06:41,134 I got great style, 183 00:06:41,167 --> 00:06:43,737 but we are 20 years apart in age, 184 00:06:43,770 --> 00:06:48,541 and that might play into the style, you know? 185 00:06:48,575 --> 00:06:50,076 - That's cute. - No. 186 00:06:50,110 --> 00:06:52,479 - I like that. - No. 187 00:06:55,515 --> 00:06:58,051 - This is kind of comfortable. - Yeah. 188 00:06:58,084 --> 00:06:59,986 How was your show, first of all? 189 00:07:00,020 --> 00:07:02,689 - I haven't even seen you guys. - Yeah, how was the show? 190 00:07:02,722 --> 00:07:04,591 Well, first of all, we sold out both shows. 191 00:07:04,624 --> 00:07:06,593 Wow. Oh, I saw that on your Instagram. 192 00:07:06,626 --> 00:07:09,829 Shannon Bedour and Vicki Gunvalson! 193 00:07:09,863 --> 00:07:11,998 [cheering] 194 00:07:12,532 --> 00:07:14,134 How was the end of the trip? 195 00:07:14,167 --> 00:07:15,602 That was good. 196 00:07:15,635 --> 00:07:16,703 Jenn's house became like a sh-- storm. 197 00:07:16,736 --> 00:07:18,171 Something happened with Alexis, 198 00:07:18,204 --> 00:07:19,572 she wouldn't tell us what it was. 199 00:07:19,606 --> 00:07:21,875 Oh, because they did their PR stunt. 200 00:07:21,908 --> 00:07:25,178 John gave People Magazine the lawsuit, 201 00:07:25,211 --> 00:07:27,580 and I'm like, "What do I do?" 202 00:07:27,614 --> 00:07:29,783 This isn't about money. 203 00:07:29,816 --> 00:07:31,084 No, he wants the non-disparagement. 204 00:07:31,117 --> 00:07:32,619 It's about him trashing me. 205 00:07:36,756 --> 00:07:38,124 What I assume is he's thinking, 206 00:07:38,158 --> 00:07:40,060 "Well, what happens if I sign a non-disparagement 207 00:07:40,093 --> 00:07:43,063 "and then she sh-- talks me on the show the whole season." 208 00:07:43,096 --> 00:07:45,565 That's how he's thinking, though, according to Alexis. 209 00:07:45,598 --> 00:07:47,267 He wants to respond to the allegations 210 00:07:47,300 --> 00:07:48,601 when all of this comes out. 211 00:07:48,635 --> 00:07:50,070 It's unbelievable to me. 212 00:07:50,103 --> 00:07:53,707 The sole purpose of John and Alexis putting this lawsuit 213 00:07:53,740 --> 00:07:56,743 in the hands of the public is to hurt me 214 00:07:56,776 --> 00:07:58,244 and try and make me look bad. 215 00:07:58,278 --> 00:07:59,746 I'm tired of talking about him. 216 00:07:59,779 --> 00:08:01,181 I just want to move on with my life. 217 00:08:01,214 --> 00:08:02,849 I get it. 218 00:08:02,882 --> 00:08:04,050 And oh, by the way, when he broke up with me, 219 00:08:04,084 --> 00:08:06,686 he had a statement prepared for People magazine as well. 220 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,221 Who do you think you are? 221 00:08:08,254 --> 00:08:09,956 You need to tell the world? 222 00:08:09,989 --> 00:08:13,727 Anyways, I had Tamra, Eddie, Jenn, Ryan, 223 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:15,562 Shane, Emily at my house for dinner. 224 00:08:15,595 --> 00:08:19,232 And, um, that was interesting. 225 00:08:19,265 --> 00:08:20,567 Why? 226 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:22,535 It got heated. 227 00:08:27,307 --> 00:08:29,743 - Hi, Fran! - Hello. 228 00:08:29,776 --> 00:08:31,044 Oh, look what you have on! 229 00:08:31,077 --> 00:08:32,979 - Isn't it so [indistinct]? - Yes! Thank you! 230 00:08:33,013 --> 00:08:34,647 - It's so comfortable. - It actually really is 231 00:08:34,681 --> 00:08:36,016 and it's super cute. 232 00:08:36,049 --> 00:08:37,150 Let me see the room. 233 00:08:37,183 --> 00:08:39,152 This is cool, Nick. 234 00:08:39,185 --> 00:08:40,587 I love the New York skyline. 235 00:08:40,620 --> 00:08:42,022 - It's awesome. - It's really cool. 236 00:08:42,055 --> 00:08:43,723 And then we blocked it with the [indistinct] anti-dust. 237 00:08:43,757 --> 00:08:45,258 But you know what? It's still there. 238 00:08:45,291 --> 00:08:47,794 Oh, my gosh. This is so fun. 239 00:08:47,827 --> 00:08:49,963 - And then there's a fire pole. - This looks huge. 240 00:08:51,398 --> 00:08:54,067 Oh, look at you. 241 00:08:54,100 --> 00:08:55,301 Wow. 242 00:08:55,335 --> 00:08:56,670 Should I do that? 243 00:08:56,703 --> 00:08:59,105 Yeah. Try it, Mom. 244 00:08:59,139 --> 00:09:00,740 Try it, Mom. 245 00:09:01,141 --> 00:09:02,976 Don't hit your knees on that. That hurts. 246 00:09:03,009 --> 00:09:05,578 Yeah, but she's too big. She's gonna hit her. 247 00:09:06,212 --> 00:09:07,647 Or she's just gonna get stuck. 248 00:09:08,281 --> 00:09:10,216 [pole squeaks] 249 00:09:10,250 --> 00:09:12,652 Yay! 250 00:09:13,086 --> 00:09:16,122 I feel like I could be a good stripper. 251 00:09:16,156 --> 00:09:18,258 Why can't there be like a golden strip club? 252 00:09:18,291 --> 00:09:19,626 The Golden Girls. 253 00:09:19,659 --> 00:09:20,927 We're just swinging from poles. 254 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:23,963 Need to take some ibuprofen here and there. 255 00:09:24,330 --> 00:09:26,299 It sounds sexy. 256 00:09:26,332 --> 00:09:28,635 - Does it? - No. 257 00:09:28,668 --> 00:09:30,103 I don't even think I would be worthy 258 00:09:30,136 --> 00:09:32,372 of a stripper name because that sh-- is too much work. 259 00:09:32,405 --> 00:09:34,908 I'm winded from just coming down it. 260 00:09:37,744 --> 00:09:40,380 Ew, no, because my mom's Susan. 261 00:09:40,413 --> 00:09:43,016 Oh, my God, so I saw Tamra 262 00:09:43,049 --> 00:09:45,285 and she said that you all went to Katie's 263 00:09:45,318 --> 00:09:46,720 or whatever with the guys. 264 00:09:46,753 --> 00:09:48,121 Oh, my God. That was a sh-- show. 265 00:09:48,154 --> 00:09:49,723 I just said, like, 266 00:09:49,756 --> 00:09:50,924 why don't we talk about the elephant in the room? 267 00:09:50,957 --> 00:09:52,726 And I said, you went on a podcast 268 00:09:52,759 --> 00:09:53,860 and talked badly about my gym, 269 00:09:53,893 --> 00:09:55,095 you talked badly about my husband, 270 00:09:55,128 --> 00:09:56,730 and then I called him a little bitch. 271 00:09:57,430 --> 00:09:59,866 Such a little bitch! 272 00:09:59,899 --> 00:10:02,268 Tamra was just all out of sorts. 273 00:10:02,302 --> 00:10:03,870 She can't keep doing this, 274 00:10:03,903 --> 00:10:05,839 where it's like because you had three martinis, 275 00:10:05,872 --> 00:10:08,408 you can say things that are awful. 276 00:10:08,441 --> 00:10:09,943 So, we're sitting at dinner, 277 00:10:09,976 --> 00:10:12,879 Tamra, she started calling Ryan a little bitch, 278 00:10:12,912 --> 00:10:15,749 and Jenn started screaming at Tamra. 279 00:10:15,782 --> 00:10:17,784 - They all have a long history. - Yes. 280 00:10:17,817 --> 00:10:19,419 But sometimes, not everyone has to be friends. 281 00:10:19,452 --> 00:10:20,787 I think it's okay. 282 00:10:20,820 --> 00:10:23,023 They need to not be together. 283 00:10:24,190 --> 00:10:25,792 I'll be honest with you, 284 00:10:25,825 --> 00:10:27,894 when I invited you to the tea on the group text... 285 00:10:27,927 --> 00:10:30,196 Shannon texted all of us. She said, "Hello, ladies. 286 00:10:30,230 --> 00:10:32,699 "In light of me turning 60, I thought it'd be fun 287 00:10:32,732 --> 00:10:34,034 "to do something age appropriate 288 00:10:34,067 --> 00:10:36,369 "and invite you to tea on Tuesday." 289 00:10:36,403 --> 00:10:37,804 Oh. 290 00:10:37,837 --> 00:10:39,706 Tamra said, "I can't make it." 291 00:10:39,739 --> 00:10:41,207 That was right after my house. 292 00:10:41,241 --> 00:10:42,342 Oh. 293 00:10:42,375 --> 00:10:43,877 She was very emotional. 294 00:10:43,910 --> 00:10:45,945 I think she was just heightened, you know? 295 00:10:45,979 --> 00:10:48,682 So tomorrow, we have Shannon's party... 296 00:10:50,216 --> 00:10:52,952 And now I'm getting pissed that she's, like, 297 00:10:52,986 --> 00:10:55,221 treating me the way she's treating me. 298 00:10:55,255 --> 00:10:56,890 Because we left together? 299 00:10:56,923 --> 00:11:00,927 Yeah, because I chose to get you out of a bad situation. 300 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:03,129 I didn't do anything to you, Emily. 301 00:11:03,163 --> 00:11:04,931 When I started to say what I wanted to say, 302 00:11:04,964 --> 00:11:07,167 - you were pissed. - No, Emily, you kept going. 303 00:11:07,534 --> 00:11:10,136 I didn't ask you! Shut the [bleep] up! 304 00:11:10,170 --> 00:11:13,807 This was a lovely night. Had a great time. 305 00:11:16,176 --> 00:11:18,178 It wasn't like I was like, [bleep] you, Heather, 306 00:11:18,211 --> 00:11:19,245 as I was leaving. 307 00:11:19,279 --> 00:11:22,515 I'm in trouble because one friend took your side. 308 00:11:22,549 --> 00:11:25,118 - Yeah. - So, what side were you on? 309 00:11:26,086 --> 00:11:29,155 I can see how she wants to be heard, 310 00:11:29,189 --> 00:11:31,091 but I can see how the night got away from her. 311 00:11:31,124 --> 00:11:34,327 I was listening to her. She got aggressive with me. 312 00:11:34,928 --> 00:11:36,496 She told Tamra that I attacked her. 313 00:11:36,529 --> 00:11:38,064 I didn't ----ing attack her. 314 00:11:38,098 --> 00:11:40,066 When I walked up and I was crying and I said 315 00:11:40,100 --> 00:11:43,236 "Why don't we just sit down as friends and just talk this out?" 316 00:11:43,269 --> 00:11:46,473 And she put her finger in my face and she said, "No." 317 00:11:46,506 --> 00:11:48,074 How did you leave it with her? 318 00:11:48,108 --> 00:11:48,875 Terribly. 319 00:11:48,908 --> 00:11:50,377 - Have you talked to her? - No. 320 00:11:50,410 --> 00:11:51,511 Haven't talked to her at all. 321 00:11:51,544 --> 00:11:53,380 - But you saw her? - Correct. 322 00:11:53,413 --> 00:11:54,981 And she got emotional, 323 00:11:55,015 --> 00:11:57,017 and she said I just wanted her to hear me. 324 00:11:57,050 --> 00:12:00,787 I wanted her to see me as a size 6 and not a size 12. 325 00:12:00,820 --> 00:12:02,255 It's hurtful. 326 00:12:02,288 --> 00:12:04,190 She said, you know, "I feel like I've worked so hard, 327 00:12:04,224 --> 00:12:07,260 "and it's like she still sees me as the big girl." 328 00:12:07,293 --> 00:12:08,962 Wait a minute. 329 00:12:08,995 --> 00:12:11,064 So, Emily has just talked to everyone about this, 330 00:12:11,097 --> 00:12:13,233 but I would have loved to have had the opportunity 331 00:12:13,266 --> 00:12:15,802 to talk to her and made her feel better about this. 332 00:12:15,835 --> 00:12:18,405 I think she's gorgeous. 333 00:12:18,438 --> 00:12:19,973 What did I say? 334 00:12:20,006 --> 00:12:22,208 What did I do to make you feel that way? 335 00:12:22,242 --> 00:12:25,845 All I needed from her was for her to actually be a human 336 00:12:25,879 --> 00:12:28,848 and understand that that is something 337 00:12:28,882 --> 00:12:30,417 that's psychologically triggering for me 338 00:12:30,450 --> 00:12:32,318 because of everything I've had to deal with in the past, 339 00:12:32,352 --> 00:12:34,187 because of every ----ing name I've been called. 340 00:12:34,220 --> 00:12:36,322 Just being public and putting myself out there, 341 00:12:36,356 --> 00:12:40,593 the constant commentary on my body, it's hurtful, 342 00:12:40,627 --> 00:12:43,163 and sometimes it just messes with me, 343 00:12:43,196 --> 00:12:45,131 especially when people comment negative things where I'm like, 344 00:12:45,165 --> 00:12:46,933 I post something, and I'm like, "Oh, I look good. 345 00:12:46,966 --> 00:12:48,435 "I see some muscle tone there." 346 00:12:48,468 --> 00:12:50,370 And then people are like, "You need to keep working out." 347 00:12:50,403 --> 00:12:51,871 You look the same. 348 00:12:51,905 --> 00:12:55,442 And I'm like, "Damn, man, I can't win." 349 00:12:55,475 --> 00:12:56,910 Honestly, I'm not interested 350 00:12:56,943 --> 00:12:58,111 in having any conversation with her 351 00:12:58,144 --> 00:12:59,979 because then it's on her terms again. 352 00:13:00,013 --> 00:13:01,948 I am a very good listener 353 00:13:01,981 --> 00:13:03,850 and I really want to sit down with her one-on-one. 354 00:13:03,883 --> 00:13:05,185 I want to know what's going on, 355 00:13:05,218 --> 00:13:06,953 but if you want to come after me with something 356 00:13:06,986 --> 00:13:08,955 that you're saying I did to you, 357 00:13:08,988 --> 00:13:11,391 it's really hard for me to not answer back. 358 00:13:11,424 --> 00:13:14,961 She's got to come back down to the earth a little, Heather. 359 00:13:14,994 --> 00:13:17,130 That air up there is real thin. 360 00:13:17,163 --> 00:13:20,033 It's starting to cut off the circulation to her brain. 361 00:13:21,634 --> 00:13:23,236 Coming up. 362 00:13:24,371 --> 00:13:25,972 Oh, wow. 363 00:13:26,006 --> 00:13:28,575 - Is it from you guys? - No. 364 00:13:28,608 --> 00:13:30,110 Who's it from? 365 00:13:37,117 --> 00:13:42,889 ** 366 00:13:46,059 --> 00:13:47,394 - Hi. - Hi. 367 00:13:47,427 --> 00:13:48,528 Emily. 368 00:13:48,561 --> 00:13:49,629 - Jason. - Hi, Jason. 369 00:13:49,662 --> 00:13:51,064 Thank you for having us today. 370 00:13:51,097 --> 00:13:52,165 - I appreciate it. - Absolutely. 371 00:13:52,198 --> 00:13:53,933 Anthony is going to come in 372 00:13:53,967 --> 00:13:55,669 to shop for a new suit. 373 00:13:55,702 --> 00:13:57,337 - That's awesome. - Yeah. 374 00:13:57,370 --> 00:13:58,405 Hi, Anthony. 375 00:13:58,438 --> 00:13:59,673 - Hey, Anthony. - How are you? 376 00:13:59,706 --> 00:14:02,676 I want a hug. Nice to see you. 377 00:14:02,709 --> 00:14:04,277 So nice to meet you. 378 00:14:04,310 --> 00:14:06,279 Even though I'm not practicing law right now 379 00:14:06,312 --> 00:14:08,048 because I'm raising my children, 380 00:14:08,081 --> 00:14:10,283 I do love being involved with the Innocence Center 381 00:14:10,316 --> 00:14:12,252 because it gives me a way to still be involved 382 00:14:12,285 --> 00:14:14,954 in the legal world, but to also do a little bit 383 00:14:14,988 --> 00:14:16,556 for humanity and to give back. 384 00:14:16,589 --> 00:14:18,291 What do you need in your closet? 385 00:14:18,324 --> 00:14:21,161 I have one suit in my closet, and blue sounds really good. 386 00:14:21,194 --> 00:14:23,163 Yeah, blue goes with everything, 387 00:14:23,196 --> 00:14:25,699 and plus, you can use the coat for a sport coat as well. 388 00:14:25,732 --> 00:14:27,334 - Okay, thank you. - Yeah, absolutely. 389 00:14:27,367 --> 00:14:28,935 So, I'll pick some fabrics and I'll be right back. 390 00:14:28,968 --> 00:14:30,136 Okay, great. 391 00:14:30,170 --> 00:14:31,638 My intent in meeting with you 392 00:14:31,671 --> 00:14:34,507 is so that I can help newly exonerated people assimilate 393 00:14:34,541 --> 00:14:36,209 back into life easier. 394 00:14:36,242 --> 00:14:38,211 Being involved in the Innocence Center just really brings 395 00:14:38,244 --> 00:14:41,081 to light how messed up our justice system is. 396 00:14:41,114 --> 00:14:42,582 There are so many people in prison 397 00:14:42,615 --> 00:14:44,184 and they're wrongfully there, 398 00:14:44,217 --> 00:14:47,053 and when I sit down and talk with exonerated persons, 399 00:14:47,087 --> 00:14:49,055 their stories are so crazy 400 00:14:49,089 --> 00:14:50,724 that you actually think to yourself, 401 00:14:50,757 --> 00:14:52,492 "How did they fall through the cracks?" 402 00:14:52,525 --> 00:14:54,728 I read your case, and I know the charge was attempted murder, 403 00:14:54,761 --> 00:14:56,229 - and it was mayhem. - Yes. 404 00:14:56,262 --> 00:14:58,365 The evening that the event happened, 405 00:14:58,398 --> 00:15:00,333 there were like three people hanging out, 406 00:15:00,367 --> 00:15:02,402 and then someone said something about like a car outside 407 00:15:02,435 --> 00:15:04,471 and then someone left to go out to the car, 408 00:15:04,504 --> 00:15:06,172 and then that's when they were shot, right? 409 00:15:06,206 --> 00:15:07,674 - Mm-hmm. - But that was not you. 410 00:15:07,707 --> 00:15:09,342 No. 411 00:15:09,376 --> 00:15:11,244 I remember thinking, "My mom is gonna fix this." 412 00:15:11,277 --> 00:15:12,645 - Right. - Because I'm 15 years old. 413 00:15:12,679 --> 00:15:14,314 You're 15, right? 414 00:15:14,347 --> 00:15:16,082 Yeah, and so I'm thinking like, "My mom's gonna fix this." 415 00:15:16,116 --> 00:15:17,384 Right. This just goes to show you 416 00:15:17,417 --> 00:15:21,521 how decrepit the justice system is. 417 00:15:21,554 --> 00:15:25,258 First of all, there's a lack of expertise 418 00:15:25,291 --> 00:15:27,560 when it comes to public defenders sometimes, 419 00:15:27,594 --> 00:15:31,231 and also the problem is with juries actually listening 420 00:15:31,264 --> 00:15:34,034 and actually asking, "Is this enough evidence 421 00:15:34,067 --> 00:15:36,136 "to convict someone of a crime?" 422 00:15:36,169 --> 00:15:38,071 Because a lot of times it's not. 423 00:15:38,104 --> 00:15:40,240 So, I know that the actual perpetrator 424 00:15:40,273 --> 00:15:41,641 - was your half-brother. - Correct. 425 00:15:41,675 --> 00:15:43,243 Was he in prison at the time? 426 00:15:43,276 --> 00:15:45,178 He had his own trial at the same time that I did. 427 00:15:45,211 --> 00:15:46,212 But for something different, though. 428 00:15:46,246 --> 00:15:47,514 - Yes. Yes. - Correct? 429 00:15:47,547 --> 00:15:49,516 I read that he didn't want to come forward 430 00:15:49,549 --> 00:15:53,053 and say that he was the actual perpetrator in your case 431 00:15:53,086 --> 00:15:54,387 because he knew that you didn't do it, 432 00:15:54,421 --> 00:15:55,722 so he thought you would just get acquitted. 433 00:15:55,755 --> 00:15:57,190 Mm-hmm. 434 00:15:57,223 --> 00:15:58,591 So he took the fall for it, 435 00:15:58,625 --> 00:16:00,493 but the half-brother thought he would be acquitted. 436 00:16:00,527 --> 00:16:01,728 Acquitted because he was the one that actually did it. 437 00:16:01,761 --> 00:16:03,196 Right. 438 00:16:03,229 --> 00:16:04,631 But then he spent 18 years in prison. 439 00:16:04,664 --> 00:16:06,132 How do you feel now? 440 00:16:06,533 --> 00:16:08,401 I feel blessed. I feel happy. I'm healthy. 441 00:16:08,435 --> 00:16:10,036 - One day at a time. - Yes, absolutely. 442 00:16:10,070 --> 00:16:11,338 That's amazing. 443 00:16:11,371 --> 00:16:12,706 Do you want to look at some fabrics 444 00:16:12,739 --> 00:16:14,240 while we're sitting here? 445 00:16:14,274 --> 00:16:16,142 Yeah, I'm so glad that I get to be a part of it. 446 00:16:16,176 --> 00:16:17,177 Yeah, I'm going to need some help. 447 00:16:17,210 --> 00:16:18,411 So, yes. I will help you. 448 00:16:18,445 --> 00:16:20,113 - Okay. - I think that's a good color. 449 00:16:20,146 --> 00:16:21,514 That's beautiful. 450 00:16:21,548 --> 00:16:25,051 There needs to be policy changes that protect minors. 451 00:16:25,085 --> 00:16:27,787 There needs to be more checks and balances 452 00:16:27,821 --> 00:16:29,422 between prosecutors and police. 453 00:16:29,456 --> 00:16:31,358 And being involved with the Innocence Center 454 00:16:31,391 --> 00:16:33,259 has really opened my eyes to that. 455 00:16:33,293 --> 00:16:36,229 And so, if I can bring awareness to anyone out there, 456 00:16:36,262 --> 00:16:38,398 then I'm doing a service. 457 00:16:38,431 --> 00:16:41,201 This whole suit will just kind of contour your body. 458 00:16:41,234 --> 00:16:43,169 So, when you get done with your final alterations 459 00:16:43,203 --> 00:16:44,170 and everything, we're going to do, 460 00:16:44,204 --> 00:16:45,438 you should be able to walk out 461 00:16:45,472 --> 00:16:47,073 and go to a fashion shoot no problem. 462 00:16:47,107 --> 00:16:48,441 - Thank you. - Thank you. 463 00:16:48,475 --> 00:16:50,210 I appreciate it. 464 00:16:53,246 --> 00:16:54,681 You're supposed to be in a car seat. 465 00:16:54,714 --> 00:16:56,082 I'm not a baby anymore. 466 00:16:56,116 --> 00:16:57,450 Oh, thank you. 467 00:16:57,484 --> 00:16:59,219 Good job. All right, let's go. Come on. 468 00:16:59,252 --> 00:17:01,187 - Oh, yeah. - I'm starving. 469 00:17:01,221 --> 00:17:03,390 Hey, we have four for barbecue. 470 00:17:04,157 --> 00:17:05,125 I love We Meat Again. 471 00:17:05,158 --> 00:17:06,393 I know, yeah. 472 00:17:06,426 --> 00:17:09,295 Okay. Oh, over here? Okay, thank you. 473 00:17:09,329 --> 00:17:11,164 Come my love, Bandon, right here, honey. 474 00:17:11,197 --> 00:17:12,532 Oh, my gosh, I can't wait. 475 00:17:12,565 --> 00:17:13,633 Look, look, look. 476 00:17:13,667 --> 00:17:14,834 They have Korean phrases. 477 00:17:14,868 --> 00:17:16,102 You want to practice them, Mom? 478 00:17:16,136 --> 00:17:17,504 - Yeah, I do. - Oh, God. 479 00:17:20,807 --> 00:17:22,242 I know... 480 00:17:22,509 --> 00:17:24,310 - Did I say it right? - I think so. 481 00:17:24,344 --> 00:17:26,279 Kaili taught herself Korean 482 00:17:26,312 --> 00:17:27,847 and I'll say, "Oh, I'll have the da, da, da." 483 00:17:27,881 --> 00:17:29,315 And I'll pronounce it. 484 00:17:29,349 --> 00:17:30,316 And she's like, that's embarrassing. 485 00:17:30,350 --> 00:17:31,618 And she'll re-say it for me. 486 00:17:31,651 --> 00:17:32,719 Hello is... 487 00:17:32,752 --> 00:17:34,621 Ahnyeonghasaeyo. 488 00:17:34,654 --> 00:17:36,122 Gamsahabnida. 489 00:17:36,156 --> 00:17:38,425 The only phrase I know is... 490 00:17:38,792 --> 00:17:39,859 Means... 491 00:17:39,893 --> 00:17:41,294 That's all I know. 492 00:17:41,628 --> 00:17:43,430 So I yell that in traffic or something 493 00:17:43,463 --> 00:17:44,898 so I don't yell curse words in front of Bandon. 494 00:17:44,931 --> 00:17:46,466 Hello, welcome to Baekjong, guys. 495 00:17:46,499 --> 00:17:47,534 Hi. 496 00:17:47,567 --> 00:17:48,368 My name is Ken. 497 00:17:48,401 --> 00:17:50,470 I'll be taking care of you guys today. 498 00:17:50,503 --> 00:17:52,305 You're going to order whatever meat you guys want. 499 00:17:52,339 --> 00:17:53,540 And then, I'm going to help you guys cook it over here. 500 00:17:53,573 --> 00:17:55,342 Can I get you guys started with any drinks 501 00:17:55,375 --> 00:17:57,243 - or anything right now? - Yes, we want soju. 502 00:17:57,277 --> 00:17:58,278 Kaili, what do you want to drink? 503 00:17:58,311 --> 00:17:59,679 Oh, can I get a Coke? 504 00:17:59,713 --> 00:18:01,581 I'll be right back with the drinks for you guys. 505 00:18:01,614 --> 00:18:04,351 - I could eat these for days. - It's good for you. 506 00:18:04,384 --> 00:18:06,753 I am obsessed with kimchi. 507 00:18:06,786 --> 00:18:08,154 I think it's just in my blood. 508 00:18:08,188 --> 00:18:09,389 It just runs through my veins, you know. 509 00:18:09,422 --> 00:18:12,225 Can we get a brisket and then a... 510 00:18:12,258 --> 00:18:14,594 - I guess a pork belly? - Pork belly? 511 00:18:14,627 --> 00:18:17,163 I wish I had been introduced into Korean culture 512 00:18:17,197 --> 00:18:18,732 a lot earlier. 513 00:18:18,765 --> 00:18:21,468 You know, I love that Jenn talks to Dominic about his roots. 514 00:18:21,501 --> 00:18:24,738 We talk about adoption. We talk about his birth mom. 515 00:18:24,771 --> 00:18:25,905 I never had that. 516 00:18:25,939 --> 00:18:28,174 That's amazing she does that. 517 00:18:29,576 --> 00:18:31,277 [Matt chuckling] 518 00:18:31,444 --> 00:18:32,746 All right, brisket's all ready for you guys. 519 00:18:32,779 --> 00:18:34,714 You guys can grab it off the grill whenever you like. 520 00:18:34,748 --> 00:18:36,383 - Okay, thank you so much-- - Gamsahabnida. 521 00:18:36,416 --> 00:18:37,650 Well done. All right, guys. 522 00:18:41,454 --> 00:18:42,889 Are you guys excited to go to Korea? 523 00:18:42,922 --> 00:18:44,424 Yeah. 524 00:18:44,457 --> 00:18:45,692 What are you most excited to go for, Kaili? 525 00:18:45,725 --> 00:18:47,293 I think there's a Hello Kitty World there. 526 00:18:47,327 --> 00:18:50,296 I'd like to see fellow Koreans. 527 00:18:50,330 --> 00:18:51,865 We'll definitely see a lot of those. 528 00:18:51,898 --> 00:18:53,233 Fellow Koreans. 529 00:18:53,266 --> 00:18:55,335 I decided for my 40th birthday, 530 00:18:55,368 --> 00:18:57,537 I wanted to go to Korea to meet my birth mother. 531 00:18:57,570 --> 00:18:59,873 They located my biological mother 532 00:18:59,906 --> 00:19:01,841 in the same town where I was born. 533 00:19:01,875 --> 00:19:03,576 A small farming town. 534 00:19:03,610 --> 00:19:04,444 So she knows... 535 00:19:04,477 --> 00:19:06,279 She knows that I was looking for her. 536 00:19:06,312 --> 00:19:07,647 ...that you were looking for her. Wow. 537 00:19:07,681 --> 00:19:09,482 We're going to be there obviously sightseeing, 538 00:19:09,516 --> 00:19:11,418 but we're all going to be there trying to find, 539 00:19:11,451 --> 00:19:13,253 how do you say grandma? 540 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:16,723 When you're adopted, your life is this puzzle 541 00:19:16,756 --> 00:19:19,726 and the bottom right corner is missing. 542 00:19:19,759 --> 00:19:20,727 And when I go back, 543 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,562 I feel like that's moving that puzzle piece 544 00:19:22,595 --> 00:19:24,864 to finish the puzzle because then I'll feel whole. 545 00:19:24,898 --> 00:19:29,002 The city that I was born in is like southwest of Seoul. 546 00:19:29,035 --> 00:19:31,971 Are you going to find your birth mother? 547 00:19:32,005 --> 00:19:33,840 I hope so. 548 00:19:33,873 --> 00:19:35,342 What's your real name? 549 00:19:35,375 --> 00:19:37,911 Yong-hwa. That's my real name. 550 00:19:37,944 --> 00:19:39,813 Yong-hwa. 551 00:19:40,046 --> 00:19:41,648 I love you, Yong-hwa. 552 00:19:43,283 --> 00:19:44,884 Coming up... 553 00:19:44,918 --> 00:19:46,686 - Hi, everybody. - Hi. 554 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:48,254 - Hello. - Hi. 555 00:19:48,455 --> 00:19:49,956 Can I talk to you? 556 00:19:49,989 --> 00:19:51,658 Um, no. 557 00:19:57,997 --> 00:20:00,467 * Hey, let's get in bed * 558 00:20:00,500 --> 00:20:02,936 * It's time to celebrate * 559 00:20:02,969 --> 00:20:04,938 Nightmare. 560 00:20:04,971 --> 00:20:07,540 I have no color in my wardrobe. 561 00:20:07,574 --> 00:20:09,676 We're just going to make it work. 562 00:20:09,709 --> 00:20:11,845 You really have no other choice but us. 563 00:20:11,878 --> 00:20:13,279 Look, Togo. 564 00:20:13,313 --> 00:20:14,781 Sit. Sit. 565 00:20:15,915 --> 00:20:17,417 Say, "She looks pretty." 566 00:20:17,450 --> 00:20:18,718 When I was doing my boudoir shoot, 567 00:20:18,752 --> 00:20:21,454 Shannon Bedour came with me and I was so glad. 568 00:20:21,488 --> 00:20:22,722 She really lightened the mood. 569 00:20:22,756 --> 00:20:23,957 - Gorgeous. - Yeah. 570 00:20:23,990 --> 00:20:25,558 Do a hair flip. 571 00:20:25,592 --> 00:20:27,427 - That was cute though. - Oh, there you go. 572 00:20:27,460 --> 00:20:29,896 This woman has gone through hell. 573 00:20:29,929 --> 00:20:31,498 I just want to remind her 574 00:20:31,531 --> 00:20:33,767 of how amazing she looks, how strong she is. 575 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,803 And I want to memorialize it and give it to her. 576 00:20:36,836 --> 00:20:38,071 She's 60. 577 00:20:38,104 --> 00:20:40,707 Yeah. Isn't she pretty when for 60? 578 00:20:40,740 --> 00:20:41,741 Get down. 579 00:20:44,611 --> 00:20:45,612 Oh. 580 00:20:46,046 --> 00:20:47,614 Oh, God. 581 00:20:50,016 --> 00:20:51,718 [phone ringing] 582 00:20:52,952 --> 00:20:54,387 Hi. 583 00:20:54,421 --> 00:20:56,556 - Hi, Katie. - Hi. 584 00:20:57,657 --> 00:20:59,392 Shut up. 585 00:21:00,026 --> 00:21:01,528 Shut up. 586 00:21:02,662 --> 00:21:05,065 I know. How are you feeling about today? 587 00:21:05,098 --> 00:21:06,633 Are you anxious? 588 00:21:12,005 --> 00:21:13,606 I think that's fair. 589 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,508 You don't want to go backwards. 590 00:21:17,077 --> 00:21:18,745 Oh, I know. 591 00:21:20,113 --> 00:21:21,414 Okay, go get a dress. 592 00:21:21,448 --> 00:21:24,584 - Bye. - Aye-yi-yi. 593 00:21:29,022 --> 00:21:30,857 Oh, my gosh, it's so pretty. 594 00:21:30,890 --> 00:21:33,760 So, we have our Victorian view patio for us today. 595 00:21:33,793 --> 00:21:36,429 All edible flowers from our garden too, 596 00:21:36,463 --> 00:21:37,897 on the place setting. 597 00:21:37,931 --> 00:21:39,132 Oh, this is gorgeous. 598 00:21:39,165 --> 00:21:40,600 Did you get the gifts that I sent? 599 00:21:40,633 --> 00:21:41,935 - Yes. - Do you like it there? 600 00:21:41,968 --> 00:21:43,803 - Maybe off to the side. - We'll move that for you. 601 00:21:43,837 --> 00:21:45,505 Then, I will put the place cards out. 602 00:21:45,538 --> 00:21:46,773 - Thank you for doing this. - Of course. 603 00:21:46,806 --> 00:21:48,675 Oh, my God, look, little tea things. 604 00:21:48,708 --> 00:21:52,612 60 is a milestone and it's a year of change for me. 605 00:21:52,645 --> 00:21:54,547 I mean, I don't even have my children here 606 00:21:54,581 --> 00:21:55,949 to celebrate with me, 607 00:21:55,982 --> 00:21:59,486 so it's kind of like Shannon's 60 and alone. 608 00:22:00,153 --> 00:22:02,522 I'm a spinster. 609 00:22:02,555 --> 00:22:05,058 I'm delivering a bit of a surprise. 610 00:22:05,091 --> 00:22:06,526 Okay. 611 00:22:06,559 --> 00:22:08,094 So, I'd like for them to come in first. 612 00:22:08,128 --> 00:22:09,529 I'll come in last, 613 00:22:09,562 --> 00:22:10,930 and then I'll give them my surprise. 614 00:22:10,964 --> 00:22:12,399 Okay, I love it. 615 00:22:12,432 --> 00:22:13,400 And then, we'll just get that all out 616 00:22:13,433 --> 00:22:14,701 of the way and then have fun. 617 00:22:14,901 --> 00:22:17,037 * Life is for the living and I'm gon' live it * 618 00:22:17,070 --> 00:22:18,471 I love it here. 619 00:22:18,505 --> 00:22:19,506 This is one of my favorite places. 620 00:22:19,539 --> 00:22:21,608 - It's beautiful. - Hi. 621 00:22:21,641 --> 00:22:23,476 We're here for our friend's birthday. 622 00:22:23,510 --> 00:22:25,478 Right this way. 623 00:22:25,512 --> 00:22:26,813 So beautiful. 624 00:22:26,846 --> 00:22:29,115 - Please enjoy. - Shannon's not here yet. 625 00:22:29,149 --> 00:22:30,517 Wait, is there a seating chart? 626 00:22:30,550 --> 00:22:32,585 - Oh, she's at the back. - You're here. 627 00:22:32,619 --> 00:22:34,054 I'm right here. Perfect. 628 00:22:34,087 --> 00:22:35,188 - I like that. - Yeah. 629 00:22:35,221 --> 00:22:36,623 Should I put this here? 630 00:22:36,656 --> 00:22:38,458 These are like falling apart already. 631 00:22:38,491 --> 00:22:39,726 It really is a good picture. 632 00:22:39,759 --> 00:22:41,861 Isn't it? I know. She looks amazing. 633 00:22:41,895 --> 00:22:43,730 - She's going to blush. - I know. 634 00:22:45,732 --> 00:22:49,569 Can I get a mimosa and a Diet Coke? 635 00:22:49,602 --> 00:22:50,870 I want to try some tea. 636 00:22:50,904 --> 00:22:52,539 Absolutely. I'll bring that out for you. 637 00:22:52,572 --> 00:22:53,773 - Hi. - Hi. 638 00:22:53,807 --> 00:22:55,842 Oh, my God, I thought you were Tamra. 639 00:22:56,743 --> 00:22:58,445 You guys look so much alike. 640 00:22:58,478 --> 00:23:00,080 You do. 641 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,716 Okay, I'm here. This is beautiful. 642 00:23:02,749 --> 00:23:04,551 How many drinks did we get? 643 00:23:04,584 --> 00:23:07,687 I've got a Diet Coke and a pomegranate mimosa. 644 00:23:07,721 --> 00:23:09,522 I would do her whole situation. 645 00:23:09,556 --> 00:23:10,924 So, her whole situation. 646 00:23:10,957 --> 00:23:13,093 Yeah, I like what she's got going on. Thank you. 647 00:23:13,126 --> 00:23:14,761 Hi, everybody. 648 00:23:14,794 --> 00:23:16,863 Hi. 649 00:23:16,896 --> 00:23:18,031 Where am I? 650 00:23:18,064 --> 00:23:19,132 You're here, honey. 651 00:23:19,165 --> 00:23:20,100 Can I talk to you? 652 00:23:20,133 --> 00:23:21,501 Now? 653 00:23:21,534 --> 00:23:23,203 Yeah, just quickly. 654 00:23:23,236 --> 00:23:24,738 Uh, no. 655 00:23:24,771 --> 00:23:26,606 - Okay. - Okay, listen. 656 00:23:26,639 --> 00:23:30,043 I wanted to talk to you friend to friend. 657 00:23:30,076 --> 00:23:33,480 I didn't want to go home crying and feel like sh--. 658 00:23:33,513 --> 00:23:35,682 I probably wasn't in the spirit to do 659 00:23:35,715 --> 00:23:37,751 the private conversation at that time. 660 00:23:37,784 --> 00:23:41,855 Heather now approaching Emily just feels very calculated. 661 00:23:41,888 --> 00:23:44,858 She cannot just be in the moment. 662 00:23:44,891 --> 00:23:47,494 She has to always remove herself, step away, 663 00:23:47,527 --> 00:23:49,629 come up with the perfect thing to say, 664 00:23:49,662 --> 00:23:50,964 and then come back, 665 00:23:50,997 --> 00:23:52,632 and then she wants to have the conversation. 666 00:23:52,665 --> 00:23:54,134 It doesn't feel genuine. 667 00:23:54,167 --> 00:23:57,103 And it's like your goal should be share your feelings, 668 00:23:57,137 --> 00:24:00,674 and communicate and make it better with your friend. 669 00:24:00,707 --> 00:24:02,575 - Hi. - Hi. 670 00:24:02,609 --> 00:24:03,843 - Hi, beautiful. - You're right here. 671 00:24:03,877 --> 00:24:05,745 Can we just talk for a few minutes? 672 00:24:07,047 --> 00:24:07,981 All right. 673 00:24:08,014 --> 00:24:10,517 This birthday tea party, it's about Shannon. 674 00:24:10,550 --> 00:24:11,785 I don't want to make it about us, 675 00:24:11,818 --> 00:24:13,787 but if I know Heather, it will just build. 676 00:24:13,820 --> 00:24:15,789 - You want to hold my hand? - I do. 677 00:24:15,822 --> 00:24:16,623 Oh. 678 00:24:16,656 --> 00:24:18,792 All I can hope is that maybe Heather 679 00:24:18,825 --> 00:24:21,661 just has maybe just a little ounce of compassion 680 00:24:21,695 --> 00:24:23,930 about what I was trying to convey. 681 00:24:23,963 --> 00:24:26,700 First of all, let me say that I was so excited 682 00:24:26,733 --> 00:24:28,601 to be in a fashion show. 683 00:24:28,635 --> 00:24:29,836 - Yeah-- - I'm going to get upset, 684 00:24:29,869 --> 00:24:31,538 because this is very triggering for me. 685 00:24:31,571 --> 00:24:33,039 - I hear you. Yes. - Okay? 686 00:24:33,073 --> 00:24:34,741 When you hang two dresses next to each other 687 00:24:34,774 --> 00:24:36,242 and one's really small and one's big, 688 00:24:36,276 --> 00:24:38,812 and I get the big one, and Alexis gets the small one, 689 00:24:38,845 --> 00:24:40,547 I mean, it makes you feel badly. 690 00:24:40,580 --> 00:24:41,848 Okay. 691 00:24:41,881 --> 00:24:43,550 - You're gonna wear this dress. - Okay. 692 00:24:43,583 --> 00:24:44,818 And it's going to look fantastic. 693 00:24:44,851 --> 00:24:46,619 You and Alexis are wearing the same dress. 694 00:24:46,653 --> 00:24:47,854 - Okay. - You like? 695 00:24:47,887 --> 00:24:49,723 - Yeah. Yeah. - Good? All right. 696 00:24:49,756 --> 00:24:51,224 Then, the next thing was, like, the oversized jacket 697 00:24:51,257 --> 00:24:53,827 and then you have to understand, in my mind, what do I think? 698 00:24:53,860 --> 00:24:55,662 Why are you giving me the oversized jacket? 699 00:24:55,695 --> 00:24:57,564 And then the next outfit was, like, 700 00:24:57,597 --> 00:24:58,631 you have to bring your own pants, 701 00:24:58,665 --> 00:24:59,899 and from my viewpoint, 702 00:24:59,933 --> 00:25:01,201 I thought everybody was bringing jeans 703 00:25:01,234 --> 00:25:02,736 for that last thing. 704 00:25:02,769 --> 00:25:04,838 So, when I realized that I was the only one, 705 00:25:04,871 --> 00:25:06,573 where do you think my mind went? 706 00:25:06,606 --> 00:25:07,841 I can't fit into clothes. 707 00:25:07,874 --> 00:25:09,142 - Yes. - And I know you didn't do it 708 00:25:09,175 --> 00:25:11,644 on purpose, but you have to understand my viewpoint 709 00:25:11,678 --> 00:25:12,912 and my psyche. 710 00:25:12,946 --> 00:25:15,348 I felt like maybe you didn't see 711 00:25:15,382 --> 00:25:17,584 that I'd lost 40 pounds over the last year. 712 00:25:17,617 --> 00:25:19,119 Do you understand? 713 00:25:19,152 --> 00:25:20,754 That's so crazy. 714 00:25:20,787 --> 00:25:22,122 No, listen. This is me. 715 00:25:22,155 --> 00:25:24,024 Like, you know I think you look fantastic. 716 00:25:24,057 --> 00:25:26,593 It's all I've said to you is how great you look. 717 00:25:26,626 --> 00:25:27,761 I know you don't understand this, 718 00:25:37,237 --> 00:25:37,671 How pretty is that? 719 00:25:38,338 --> 00:25:40,140 Garnish with an edible orchid. 720 00:25:40,173 --> 00:25:40,907 - Oh. - Edible? 721 00:25:40,940 --> 00:25:42,976 - Have a bite. - Eat it. Eat it. 722 00:25:43,009 --> 00:25:45,078 - It's like a salad. - Let's go for it. 723 00:25:45,245 --> 00:25:46,713 What does it taste like? 724 00:25:49,149 --> 00:25:51,184 - It's not that good. - That good, huh? 725 00:25:51,217 --> 00:25:52,285 - Hi. - Hi. 726 00:25:52,318 --> 00:25:53,887 Wow. 727 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,021 You guys look beautiful. Is Shannon not here? 728 00:25:55,055 --> 00:25:56,723 - Not yet. - And Emily's not here? 729 00:25:56,756 --> 00:25:58,825 Heather and Emily are talking. 730 00:25:58,858 --> 00:26:01,061 I felt like maybe you didn't see 731 00:26:01,094 --> 00:26:03,363 that I'd lost 40 pounds over the last year. 732 00:26:03,396 --> 00:26:04,731 - Oh! - Do you understand? 733 00:26:04,764 --> 00:26:06,232 That's so crazy. 734 00:26:06,266 --> 00:26:09,769 I've been made fun of and I've been called names. 735 00:26:09,803 --> 00:26:11,037 It always hurts to feel like 736 00:26:11,071 --> 00:26:12,939 you're bigger than everyone else. 737 00:26:12,972 --> 00:26:17,310 And so for once, I thought that I got to not be that. 738 00:26:17,344 --> 00:26:20,080 And I just felt like that again. 739 00:26:20,113 --> 00:26:20,780 I hear you. 740 00:26:20,814 --> 00:26:22,949 That's all I needed, honestly. 741 00:26:22,982 --> 00:26:25,218 I've learned you can't negate someone's feelings. 742 00:26:25,251 --> 00:26:27,854 Throughout my life, of course, I've struggled with body issues. 743 00:26:27,887 --> 00:26:30,223 I'm a woman. I'm in Hollywood. 744 00:26:30,256 --> 00:26:33,126 And I would never want Emily to feel like 745 00:26:33,159 --> 00:26:36,229 I would intentionally do anything 746 00:26:36,262 --> 00:26:39,833 to make her feel anything other than fabulous. 747 00:26:39,866 --> 00:26:42,836 Jenn, I want to apologize. 748 00:26:44,904 --> 00:26:46,673 I know we need to talk more about it 749 00:26:46,706 --> 00:26:47,841 but I just want to apologize. 750 00:26:47,874 --> 00:26:49,242 I want today to be fun and nice 751 00:26:49,275 --> 00:26:52,379 for Shannon, but I just want to say I'm sorry. 752 00:26:52,879 --> 00:26:54,848 Okay. Let's have that discussion another time. 753 00:26:54,881 --> 00:26:56,149 Yeah, for sure. I don't want to have it here, 754 00:26:56,182 --> 00:26:57,984 but I don't want it to be awkward 755 00:26:58,018 --> 00:26:59,419 and I don't want us to not make eye contact 756 00:26:59,452 --> 00:27:00,720 or anything like that. 757 00:27:00,754 --> 00:27:02,088 I love it. 758 00:27:02,122 --> 00:27:04,224 I'm interested in resolving this, 759 00:27:04,257 --> 00:27:06,426 but I've done this with her so many times 760 00:27:06,459 --> 00:27:08,028 and it goes nowhere. 761 00:27:08,061 --> 00:27:10,997 I'm exhausted by this pattern, like exhausted. 762 00:27:11,031 --> 00:27:12,832 Can I tell you my side of all of this now? 763 00:27:12,866 --> 00:27:14,134 - Absolutely. - Okay. 764 00:27:14,167 --> 00:27:15,735 The only reason I chose you and Tamra 765 00:27:15,769 --> 00:27:16,903 to wear the oversized moto 766 00:27:16,936 --> 00:27:18,738 is because it's a badass jacket 767 00:27:18,772 --> 00:27:20,240 and you two are badasses. 768 00:27:20,273 --> 00:27:23,743 The reason why I had you and Alexis wear the dresses 769 00:27:23,777 --> 00:27:25,245 is because you have the best figures. 770 00:27:25,278 --> 00:27:27,847 You're both tall. You're both curvy and voluptuous. 771 00:27:27,881 --> 00:27:29,416 If any moment you weren't happy, 772 00:27:29,449 --> 00:27:30,884 if you could have told me, 773 00:27:30,917 --> 00:27:32,318 I would have whipped something else out. 774 00:27:32,352 --> 00:27:34,487 But I never wanted to complain or say something. 775 00:27:34,521 --> 00:27:35,822 I get it, but you know what? 776 00:27:35,855 --> 00:27:37,057 We are friends, Emily. 777 00:27:37,090 --> 00:27:39,059 If you are upset with me in the future, 778 00:27:39,092 --> 00:27:41,027 will you please just call me and we can talk about it? 779 00:27:41,061 --> 00:27:43,063 - Can we do that? - Absolutely. Yes. 780 00:27:43,096 --> 00:27:44,898 - Okay. - You know, I really appreciate 781 00:27:44,931 --> 00:27:46,332 that Heather says, I hear you. 782 00:27:46,366 --> 00:27:47,767 I just wanted her 783 00:27:47,801 --> 00:27:49,869 to have a little bit of understanding 784 00:27:49,903 --> 00:27:51,237 of where I was coming from, 785 00:27:51,271 --> 00:27:53,807 and I feel like that finally resonated with her. 786 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:54,841 You know I love you. 787 00:27:54,874 --> 00:27:56,142 I love you too. 788 00:27:56,176 --> 00:27:57,944 I embrace that and I'm happy with that. 789 00:27:57,977 --> 00:27:59,245 Why is the birthday girl so late? 790 00:27:59,279 --> 00:28:01,181 - She wants to make an entrance. - Oh, okay. 791 00:28:01,214 --> 00:28:02,349 Well, hello. 792 00:28:02,382 --> 00:28:03,817 - Oh, hi. - You look cute. 793 00:28:03,850 --> 00:28:05,352 Look how cute all this glassware is. 794 00:28:05,385 --> 00:28:06,453 I know, it's super pretty. 795 00:28:06,486 --> 00:28:07,520 This place is adorable. 796 00:28:07,554 --> 00:28:08,788 There she is. 797 00:28:08,822 --> 00:28:10,924 - Birthday girl. - Hi! 798 00:28:10,957 --> 00:28:12,492 Oh, you look so pretty. 799 00:28:12,525 --> 00:28:14,327 You look gorgeous. 800 00:28:14,361 --> 00:28:15,795 You look beautiful. 801 00:28:15,829 --> 00:28:17,464 I just want to say, I am so excited 802 00:28:17,497 --> 00:28:18,932 that you guys are all here. 803 00:28:18,965 --> 00:28:20,834 I have a little gift for each of you, 804 00:28:20,867 --> 00:28:22,535 so I'd like you to open that up now. 805 00:28:22,569 --> 00:28:24,204 - Now? - Okay. 806 00:28:24,237 --> 00:28:26,339 Did you see what I got you? Look at your picture. 807 00:28:26,373 --> 00:28:27,540 Oh, stop it. 808 00:28:27,574 --> 00:28:29,309 - Wait, did everyone see? - Oh. 809 00:28:29,342 --> 00:28:30,477 Yeah. 810 00:28:30,510 --> 00:28:31,878 I'm going to be the ring girl. 811 00:28:31,911 --> 00:28:33,880 I look like a madam in a brothel. 812 00:28:33,913 --> 00:28:35,915 Well, a hot madam. 813 00:28:35,949 --> 00:28:37,450 Shannon looks like a madam. 814 00:28:37,484 --> 00:28:41,955 That's prostitutes, right, we're talking about? Right? 815 00:28:41,988 --> 00:28:44,124 I think she would be a phenomenal madam. 816 00:28:44,157 --> 00:28:47,127 I think she would have, like, the most fun hen house. 817 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:48,561 Do we open the box at the same time? 818 00:28:48,595 --> 00:28:50,263 Yes. 819 00:28:50,296 --> 00:28:52,499 One, two, three. 820 00:28:52,532 --> 00:28:54,234 - Oh. - It's some tea. 821 00:28:54,267 --> 00:28:56,836 Because we're going to have a brilliant time. 822 00:28:56,870 --> 00:28:58,271 Brilliant. 823 00:28:58,304 --> 00:29:00,273 I would like to invite you guys to go to... 824 00:29:00,306 --> 00:29:04,577 [cheering] 825 00:29:04,611 --> 00:29:05,912 That was so fun. 826 00:29:05,945 --> 00:29:07,547 That's the real birthday party. 827 00:29:07,580 --> 00:29:09,149 I've never been to London. 828 00:29:09,182 --> 00:29:10,950 - I haven't either. - I've never been to London. 829 00:29:10,984 --> 00:29:12,318 - I've been to the airport. - Oh, so have I. 830 00:29:12,352 --> 00:29:14,821 - That's it. - I've never been to London. 831 00:29:14,854 --> 00:29:16,122 Yes, Shannon! 832 00:29:16,156 --> 00:29:18,358 I love London, I've been many times. 833 00:29:18,391 --> 00:29:20,527 We're going to have a little bit of tea, 834 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:21,928 maybe some spotted dick. 835 00:29:21,961 --> 00:29:24,164 I love Princess Kate. 836 00:29:24,197 --> 00:29:27,467 And I love Harry Potter and Hermione. 837 00:29:27,500 --> 00:29:29,302 And I love... 838 00:29:31,938 --> 00:29:33,540 Nope, that's it. 839 00:29:33,573 --> 00:29:35,942 That's what I love about London. 840 00:29:36,409 --> 00:29:39,212 - Here's from me. Love you. - Guys, this is a lot. 841 00:29:39,245 --> 00:29:40,447 Okay. 842 00:29:40,647 --> 00:29:42,015 Thank you. 843 00:29:42,215 --> 00:29:44,884 - Thank you so much. - Ooh. Gorgeous. 844 00:29:44,918 --> 00:29:46,853 - I love these. - Those are nice. 845 00:29:46,886 --> 00:29:48,254 Heather, that's way too generous. 846 00:29:48,288 --> 00:29:49,923 - Oh, my gosh, enjoy. - You know my size. 847 00:29:49,956 --> 00:29:51,024 It's your 60th. 848 00:29:51,057 --> 00:29:52,592 I love them. Thank you. 849 00:29:52,625 --> 00:29:54,060 You're so welcome. 850 00:29:54,928 --> 00:29:56,029 - Happy birthday. - Thank you. 851 00:29:56,062 --> 00:29:57,564 She does like Ferragamo. 852 00:29:57,597 --> 00:29:59,132 By the way, Gina can tell you, 853 00:29:59,165 --> 00:30:00,166 I showed her the receipts for every single thing. 854 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:01,935 - Okay, let it go. - Okay. 855 00:30:02,102 --> 00:30:05,905 On Valentine's Day, 856 00:30:06,339 --> 00:30:08,375 I bought him those loafers he was wearing. 857 00:30:08,408 --> 00:30:11,478 I'll ----ing write the check to Shannon right now 858 00:30:11,511 --> 00:30:13,413 for the $400 shoes. 859 00:30:14,114 --> 00:30:15,415 She really loved that. 860 00:30:15,448 --> 00:30:17,083 She was happy about the receipts, Shannon. 861 00:30:17,117 --> 00:30:19,352 Well, happy 60th birthday. 862 00:30:19,386 --> 00:30:21,054 - Thank you. - You look amazing. 863 00:30:21,087 --> 00:30:22,422 - Thank you. - Love you. 864 00:30:22,455 --> 00:30:24,190 Next steps. Next steps. Whatever they may be. 865 00:30:24,224 --> 00:30:25,291 - Cheers to your next steps. - Next steps. 866 00:30:25,325 --> 00:30:26,659 - Whatever they may be. - Cheers. 867 00:30:26,693 --> 00:30:27,994 Whatever they may be. 868 00:30:28,028 --> 00:30:29,262 Oh, look at this. 869 00:30:30,363 --> 00:30:31,231 Oh, wow. 870 00:30:31,264 --> 00:30:33,500 Thank you. Do you want to put it here? 871 00:30:33,533 --> 00:30:35,635 Do you want to put it here? It's very heavy. 872 00:30:35,669 --> 00:30:38,004 Wow. That is something. 873 00:30:38,972 --> 00:30:40,073 It's got a message. 874 00:30:40,106 --> 00:30:41,574 Is it from you guys? 875 00:30:41,608 --> 00:30:43,476 No. 876 00:30:43,510 --> 00:30:45,078 Thank you so much. 877 00:30:45,111 --> 00:30:47,113 Is it from Tinder? 878 00:30:47,681 --> 00:30:49,115 From Grindr. 879 00:30:49,149 --> 00:30:50,550 Grindr's the gay one. 880 00:30:50,583 --> 00:30:52,052 - Oh. - Isn't it? 881 00:30:52,085 --> 00:30:53,386 Well, I don't know. 882 00:30:55,622 --> 00:30:57,090 Who's it from? 883 00:30:58,658 --> 00:31:01,027 It's from Alexis Bellino. 884 00:31:13,206 --> 00:31:13,406 ** 885 00:31:16,743 --> 00:31:18,011 Who's it from? 886 00:31:18,044 --> 00:31:19,512 It's from Alexis Bellino. 887 00:31:21,614 --> 00:31:23,616 Oh, my gosh. 888 00:31:23,650 --> 00:31:25,018 Can you read it? 889 00:31:25,051 --> 00:31:26,419 It says, "Happy 60th." 890 00:31:26,453 --> 00:31:28,588 "I genuinely hope this olive branch can bring us 891 00:31:28,621 --> 00:31:31,124 "a fresh start as you begin this new decade. 892 00:31:31,157 --> 00:31:32,992 "May God bless you with happiness 893 00:31:33,026 --> 00:31:36,463 "and good health on your milestone." 894 00:31:40,233 --> 00:31:41,634 There's an olive branch. 895 00:31:41,668 --> 00:31:43,036 There is? 896 00:31:43,069 --> 00:31:44,304 Oh, yeah. 897 00:31:44,337 --> 00:31:45,705 - What are your thoughts? - An olive tree. 898 00:31:45,739 --> 00:31:47,340 You know what? I appreciate it, 899 00:31:47,374 --> 00:31:49,709 and I really don't want to spend today talking about it, 900 00:31:49,743 --> 00:31:52,312 but it's nine weeks too late. 901 00:31:52,345 --> 00:31:54,414 I feel like there's been a lot of unkind things done 902 00:31:54,447 --> 00:31:59,252 and I have no interest in being friendly with her, 903 00:31:59,285 --> 00:32:01,254 and I don't think anywhere on this universe, 904 00:32:01,287 --> 00:32:03,723 anyone in my position would feel differently, 905 00:32:03,757 --> 00:32:05,325 so that's how it is. 906 00:32:05,358 --> 00:32:08,595 How many peace offerings does Alexis want to offer 907 00:32:08,628 --> 00:32:13,066 to Shannon while simultaneously being involved in a lawsuit, 908 00:32:13,099 --> 00:32:16,069 talking sh-- about her, making her life hell? 909 00:32:16,102 --> 00:32:17,470 I mean, give me a ----ing break. 910 00:32:17,504 --> 00:32:19,472 It's definitely a difficult position to be in. 911 00:32:19,506 --> 00:32:20,407 For sure. 912 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,043 I'm sure her coach told her to do all this. 913 00:32:23,576 --> 00:32:27,213 I think it's horrendous that you're being coached by John. 914 00:32:27,247 --> 00:32:28,448 Like, what kind of person does that? 915 00:32:28,481 --> 00:32:30,216 You're poking a bear, and I haven't been 916 00:32:30,250 --> 00:32:31,484 - coached by anyone. - Okay. 917 00:32:31,518 --> 00:32:33,253 You really want to keep lying about him? 918 00:32:33,286 --> 00:32:35,388 You're going to go down. 919 00:32:35,622 --> 00:32:39,359 The coming after me didn't work, so now the coach is saying 920 00:32:39,392 --> 00:32:41,494 that you've got to be overly nice to her. 921 00:32:41,528 --> 00:32:43,697 Oh, my God. 922 00:32:43,730 --> 00:32:44,798 We're going to blame it on John. 923 00:32:44,831 --> 00:32:46,466 This is what Shannon does. 924 00:32:46,499 --> 00:32:49,736 Why can't Alexis just send her flowers to be nice? 925 00:32:49,769 --> 00:32:53,273 It's-- Shannon's exhausting. 926 00:32:53,306 --> 00:32:54,774 I have to create boundaries for myself 927 00:32:54,808 --> 00:32:56,476 and that's what I'm learning. 928 00:32:56,509 --> 00:32:59,646 So, I'm-- You know? I'm kind of-- I'm out at this point. 929 00:32:59,679 --> 00:33:01,481 Things keep happening 930 00:33:01,514 --> 00:33:04,284 and I know you all saw what came out in the press on Friday 931 00:33:04,317 --> 00:33:06,119 and it's just mind-boggling to me 932 00:33:06,152 --> 00:33:07,654 when I offered everything he wanted 933 00:33:07,687 --> 00:33:09,155 and his answer was no. 934 00:33:09,189 --> 00:33:11,124 I tried to call you that day. 935 00:33:11,157 --> 00:33:12,425 - On Friday? - Oh, yeah. 936 00:33:12,459 --> 00:33:14,294 And then you butt-dialed me. 937 00:33:26,873 --> 00:33:28,541 You were crying. 938 00:33:28,575 --> 00:33:31,111 Well, because they said, do you want to make a statement? 939 00:33:31,144 --> 00:33:32,645 And I said, absolutely. 940 00:33:32,679 --> 00:33:35,248 Can you wait 30 minutes until I speak to my attorney? 941 00:33:35,281 --> 00:33:37,117 And then I got a text five minutes later 942 00:33:37,150 --> 00:33:38,451 no, they're not going to wait. 943 00:33:38,485 --> 00:33:40,420 So, yeah, I was upset because I offered him 944 00:33:40,453 --> 00:33:42,522 what he wanted, and I don't need to. 945 00:33:42,555 --> 00:33:47,427 Issuing a press release about this lawsuit? 946 00:33:47,460 --> 00:33:50,163 John's trying to smear me. 947 00:33:50,697 --> 00:33:54,701 Because he's this good guy, and I'm not paying him back. 948 00:33:55,201 --> 00:33:56,736 I hope that you guys understand 949 00:33:56,770 --> 00:33:59,205 that there have been a lot of things coming at me recently 950 00:33:59,239 --> 00:34:02,642 that could have, in my past, taken me down, 951 00:34:02,676 --> 00:34:06,346 but I'm doing everything in my power not to let that happen. 952 00:34:06,379 --> 00:34:10,350 But exposing myself to Alexis has not been healthy 953 00:34:10,383 --> 00:34:12,485 and I need to create healthy boundaries for myself. 954 00:34:12,519 --> 00:34:15,555 What the real issue is here is that I have your ex-boyfriend. 955 00:34:15,588 --> 00:34:17,557 That's what the real issue is. So, guess what? 956 00:34:17,590 --> 00:34:20,326 If you don't like it, there's the door, Shannon Bedour. 957 00:34:20,927 --> 00:34:22,328 Wait, I have a question, though. 958 00:34:22,362 --> 00:34:24,230 Are you going to send a thank you note? 959 00:34:24,264 --> 00:34:26,399 Oh, [bleep], Emily. 960 00:34:26,433 --> 00:34:29,469 Well, I pre-wrote a text to Alexis. 961 00:34:29,502 --> 00:34:32,272 - Wait, what? - I wrote a text to Alexis. 962 00:34:32,305 --> 00:34:33,373 I haven't sent it yet. 963 00:34:33,406 --> 00:34:35,342 Okay, this is what I said. 964 00:34:35,375 --> 00:34:37,344 "Hello, Alexis. It's Shannon Bedour. 965 00:34:37,377 --> 00:34:40,146 "I am hosting a trip to Europe with my friends 966 00:34:40,180 --> 00:34:41,448 "and I just wanted to make it clear 967 00:34:41,481 --> 00:34:42,582 "that you are not invited." 968 00:34:42,615 --> 00:34:44,818 - Shannon! - [women cackling] 969 00:34:44,851 --> 00:34:46,353 Shannon, this is bad. 970 00:34:46,386 --> 00:34:47,721 Do you want somebody else to tell her? 971 00:34:47,754 --> 00:34:49,556 Yeah, then you guys go ahead and tell her. 972 00:34:49,589 --> 00:34:51,358 - I'm fine with that. - Why don't we-- 973 00:34:51,391 --> 00:34:52,659 - We can tell her. - I'm not just going to 974 00:34:52,692 --> 00:34:55,362 stand by and let people try and hurt me. 975 00:34:55,395 --> 00:34:57,230 I think it should be more like, 976 00:34:57,263 --> 00:34:58,798 we're not on good terms, so maybe-- 977 00:34:58,832 --> 00:35:00,333 No, no, there's no maybe! 978 00:35:00,367 --> 00:35:03,570 I feel like I'm drawing my strength from myself. 979 00:35:03,603 --> 00:35:06,773 I know that I'm a survivor. I'm not a victim. 980 00:35:06,806 --> 00:35:08,541 It's my 60th birthday. 981 00:35:08,575 --> 00:35:10,643 You're damn straight you're not coming on the trip. 982 00:35:10,677 --> 00:35:12,545 I'm ----ing sticking up for myself today. 983 00:35:12,579 --> 00:35:14,180 - That's what I'm doing. - That's okay. 984 00:35:14,214 --> 00:35:15,248 It's your birthday. 985 00:35:15,281 --> 00:35:16,916 Sorry. It's a little harsh. 986 00:35:16,950 --> 00:35:18,385 - Yeah. - It's a little-- 987 00:35:18,418 --> 00:35:19,719 We gotta soften it just a tiny bit. 988 00:35:19,753 --> 00:35:21,788 Okay, you know what? Do I need to list off again? 989 00:35:21,821 --> 00:35:23,323 No, no, no, no. 990 00:35:23,356 --> 00:35:24,457 I don't think you should say that. 991 00:35:24,491 --> 00:35:25,792 I think you should send it. 992 00:35:25,825 --> 00:35:28,862 My hope is Katie and I can sit with Alexis 993 00:35:28,895 --> 00:35:33,366 and lovingly try to help her navigate her feelings on this. 994 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,402 I can make it make sense for Alexis 995 00:35:35,435 --> 00:35:37,270 without it being painful for her. 996 00:35:37,504 --> 00:35:38,872 Maybe we should go around the table 997 00:35:38,905 --> 00:35:41,641 and everyone share their favorite memory with Shannon. 998 00:35:41,675 --> 00:35:44,344 One of the funniest memories of all, 999 00:35:44,377 --> 00:35:46,579 we somehow fell into the pool. 1000 00:35:46,613 --> 00:35:49,449 - This is the drag queen-- - No, no, no, no! 1001 00:35:52,285 --> 00:35:53,687 We're laughing. 1002 00:35:53,720 --> 00:35:56,956 My favorite is when we were in Cabo 1003 00:35:56,990 --> 00:35:58,925 and then we tried to ride the-- 1004 00:35:58,958 --> 00:36:00,727 - Pinata. - The pinata. 1005 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:02,429 [screams] 1006 00:36:03,263 --> 00:36:04,964 Oh, my God. 1007 00:36:04,998 --> 00:36:06,566 I gotta get off of my bare ass. 1008 00:36:06,599 --> 00:36:08,735 One of my favorite things is when we're on a trip 1009 00:36:08,768 --> 00:36:11,738 late at night and being just stupid. 1010 00:36:11,771 --> 00:36:13,473 - Hey Shannon! - Wait, throw one. 1011 00:36:13,506 --> 00:36:15,008 - Throw one. - Oh, my God! 1012 00:36:15,041 --> 00:36:17,344 You're trying to beat me? 1013 00:36:17,877 --> 00:36:19,312 Oh, my God. 1014 00:36:19,346 --> 00:36:21,314 We laugh so much. 1015 00:36:21,348 --> 00:36:23,016 - Thank you. - I love those times. 1016 00:36:23,049 --> 00:36:25,585 I really can't wait to have some laughs with you guys. 1017 00:36:25,618 --> 00:36:27,320 - I can't wait. - It's gonna be fun. 1018 00:36:27,354 --> 00:36:30,457 So, see you soon in London! 1019 00:36:30,490 --> 00:36:32,258 In jolly ol' London. 1020 00:36:32,292 --> 00:36:33,860 - Cheerio! - Cheerio! 1021 00:36:33,893 --> 00:36:34,961 Cheerio! 1022 00:36:34,994 --> 00:36:36,696 Coming up... 1023 00:37:01,521 --> 00:37:02,522 [knocking on door] 1024 00:37:02,555 --> 00:37:04,657 There's a doorbell. 1025 00:37:04,691 --> 00:37:05,792 Hey! 1026 00:37:05,825 --> 00:37:06,626 Hi! 1027 00:37:06,659 --> 00:37:08,528 Oh, my God, look how cute you look. 1028 00:37:08,561 --> 00:37:10,063 Oh, you have food. Hallelu'. 1029 00:37:10,096 --> 00:37:11,664 Yes. Have some of this. 1030 00:37:11,698 --> 00:37:13,900 Let me get a couple little plates for us, okay? 1031 00:37:13,933 --> 00:37:16,569 - [doorbell ringing] - She rang the doorbell. 1032 00:37:17,737 --> 00:37:19,639 - Hello! - I could have walked over. 1033 00:37:19,673 --> 00:37:21,074 - Is Katie here? - I'm here. 1034 00:37:21,107 --> 00:37:22,509 This is gorgeous. 1035 00:37:22,542 --> 00:37:23,843 - Let's walk in here. - Yeah. 1036 00:37:23,877 --> 00:37:25,645 Do you want me to help you carry this? 1037 00:37:25,679 --> 00:37:27,013 - Nope, I'm good. - Okay. 1038 00:37:27,047 --> 00:37:28,348 Oh, wow! 1039 00:37:28,381 --> 00:37:29,749 How pretty, Alexis! 1040 00:37:29,783 --> 00:37:32,452 And then let me get my diet Coke. 1041 00:37:35,789 --> 00:37:38,825 I think Alexis is owed someone face-to-face to say 1042 00:37:38,858 --> 00:37:42,062 "Hey, this is maybe not the trip for you." 1043 00:37:42,095 --> 00:37:43,563 I'll sit here. 1044 00:37:43,596 --> 00:37:44,964 Let's just give Alexis a couple drinks. 1045 00:37:44,998 --> 00:37:46,099 We can chill. 1046 00:37:46,132 --> 00:37:47,834 And then we can be like... 1047 00:37:48,401 --> 00:37:49,669 "And, but it's great to see you. 1048 00:37:49,703 --> 00:37:50,970 "Thanks for the wine." And then we'll go. 1049 00:37:51,004 --> 00:37:52,605 How was it? Did you guys see the flowers? 1050 00:37:52,639 --> 00:37:54,007 I sent her a bouquet. 1051 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,009 - It was gorgeous. - Are we going to move forward? 1052 00:37:56,042 --> 00:37:57,377 - No. - No. 1053 00:37:57,410 --> 00:37:58,745 Why? 1054 00:37:58,778 --> 00:38:00,413 She said she should have done it eight weeks ago. 1055 00:38:00,447 --> 00:38:01,748 - Why now? - Why now? 1056 00:38:01,781 --> 00:38:02,749 Hold on! 1057 00:38:03,883 --> 00:38:04,551 Why? 1058 00:38:04,584 --> 00:38:06,920 I'm extending an olive branch 1059 00:38:06,953 --> 00:38:10,557 and I'm still ----ing getting always sh-- on. 1060 00:38:10,590 --> 00:38:13,927 My last effort was to extend an olive branch. 1061 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,863 Unfortunately, I keep hitting a brick wall. 1062 00:38:16,896 --> 00:38:18,932 I want peace in the group. That's it. 1063 00:38:18,965 --> 00:38:21,901 So, she has a text message for you. 1064 00:38:21,935 --> 00:38:23,737 So, you might want to check your phone. 1065 00:38:23,770 --> 00:38:25,472 I thought maybe she sent it. 1066 00:38:25,505 --> 00:38:27,007 - Did you hear it? - Go get your phone. 1067 00:38:28,108 --> 00:38:30,810 - John, do you have my phone? - Wait, is he here? 1068 00:38:30,844 --> 00:38:33,546 Shannon sent a text. This is awesome. 1069 00:38:36,549 --> 00:38:39,919 I am praying to sweet baby Jesus 1070 00:38:39,953 --> 00:38:42,122 that Shannon has toned the wording down. 1071 00:38:42,155 --> 00:38:43,490 It's a little softer. 1072 00:38:43,523 --> 00:38:44,858 - Read it. - But read it to us. 1073 00:38:44,891 --> 00:38:47,761 Okay. "Hello, Alexis. It's Shannon Bedour. 1074 00:38:47,794 --> 00:38:50,397 "I am hosting a trip to Europe with my friends 1075 00:38:50,430 --> 00:38:52,932 "and just wanted to make it clear that you are not invited." 1076 00:38:54,434 --> 00:38:57,771 Well, we did encourage her to soften it a little bit. 1077 00:38:57,804 --> 00:38:59,639 "That should be quite understandable 1078 00:38:59,673 --> 00:39:01,174 "given these circumstances. 1079 00:39:01,207 --> 00:39:02,776 "Thank you for the flowers, 1080 00:39:02,809 --> 00:39:04,444 "but I am not interested in any olive branch." 1081 00:39:04,477 --> 00:39:06,112 You know what? 1082 00:39:06,146 --> 00:39:07,781 I've tried it all, girls. 1083 00:39:07,814 --> 00:39:09,616 - I know. - Now, I'm ----ing done. 1084 00:39:09,649 --> 00:39:11,117 But-- [sighs] 1085 00:39:11,151 --> 00:39:12,652 What is she so hung up on? 1086 00:39:12,686 --> 00:39:14,054 It's very hard to move on. 1087 00:39:14,087 --> 00:39:15,922 Well, she can't move on because of the lawsuit. 1088 00:39:15,955 --> 00:39:17,924 I mean, it's very hard. If you guys were just moving on, 1089 00:39:17,957 --> 00:39:19,726 - I'm sorry. - that would be different. 1090 00:39:19,759 --> 00:39:21,528 Her actions have caused all of this. 1091 00:39:21,795 --> 00:39:23,596 If she didn't borrow the money 1092 00:39:23,630 --> 00:39:24,931 and she paid it back, 1093 00:39:24,964 --> 00:39:27,000 we wouldn't be in this situation, would we? 1094 00:39:27,033 --> 00:39:29,836 I didn't want to take legal action, 1095 00:39:29,869 --> 00:39:33,773 but my hands were tied as I was days away 1096 00:39:33,807 --> 00:39:36,710 from crossing the statute of limitations 1097 00:39:36,743 --> 00:39:39,045 on being able to do anything legally. 1098 00:39:41,548 --> 00:39:43,650 She 100% knows these are loans. 1099 00:39:43,683 --> 00:39:45,085 We have evidence. 1100 00:39:45,118 --> 00:39:46,753 I have proof of that. 1101 00:39:46,786 --> 00:39:49,856 Shannon sent me an email admitting that it's a loan, 1102 00:39:49,889 --> 00:39:52,525 so the comments about these being gifts 1103 00:39:52,559 --> 00:39:54,060 are patently false 1104 00:39:54,094 --> 00:39:57,664 and Shannon has an interesting relationship with the truth. 1105 00:39:57,997 --> 00:40:00,500 Now, you can see it. It's in the tabloids. 1106 00:40:00,533 --> 00:40:01,668 It's a legal battle. 1107 00:40:01,701 --> 00:40:02,969 How did it get to People? 1108 00:40:03,003 --> 00:40:05,171 Was that you and John that took it to them? 1109 00:40:05,205 --> 00:40:06,873 Here's what happened. 1110 00:40:07,607 --> 00:40:09,876 John said 70. 1111 00:40:09,909 --> 00:40:12,846 She said sure, but you have to have a muzzle on. 1112 00:40:12,879 --> 00:40:15,115 We're not putting a muzzle on John. 1113 00:40:15,148 --> 00:40:16,649 Not going to happen. 1114 00:40:16,683 --> 00:40:18,018 Muzzle talking about the non-disparagement. 1115 00:40:18,651 --> 00:40:20,720 That and yeah. 1116 00:40:20,754 --> 00:40:22,489 And other things or just that? 1117 00:40:22,522 --> 00:40:24,024 Just that. 1118 00:40:24,157 --> 00:40:25,959 [indistinct] 1119 00:40:25,992 --> 00:40:27,627 [laughing] 1120 00:40:27,660 --> 00:40:29,829 Do I think Alexis leaked it? 1121 00:40:32,298 --> 00:40:35,101 [bleep]. Yeah, no, she didn't. 1122 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:40,974 Stop it, go, next. 1123 00:40:41,007 --> 00:40:43,243 Well, I do know she has a good relationship 1124 00:40:43,276 --> 00:40:44,878 with people at People. 1125 00:40:44,911 --> 00:40:48,615 So, maybe she is the one that gave the story to People. 1126 00:40:48,648 --> 00:40:50,917 Ugh. I hate even saying it. 1127 00:40:50,950 --> 00:40:53,586 I want to be ----ing Asian Switzerland. 1128 00:40:53,620 --> 00:40:55,021 You know what? 1129 00:40:55,822 --> 00:40:58,191 I won't be around this group. 1130 00:40:58,692 --> 00:40:59,659 But that's not fair to us, Alexis. 1131 00:40:59,693 --> 00:41:00,927 I know, Alexis. 1132 00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:02,295 I have loved getting to know you. 1133 00:41:02,328 --> 00:41:03,663 - I know. - Maybe we just do things 1134 00:41:03,697 --> 00:41:05,131 not with Shannon there. 1135 00:41:05,165 --> 00:41:06,132 I'm... 1136 00:41:07,067 --> 00:41:08,034 I'm done. 1137 00:41:10,770 --> 00:41:12,605 I don't want you to be done. 1138 00:41:12,639 --> 00:41:14,040 - I'm done. - Okay. 1139 00:41:14,074 --> 00:41:15,675 I'm done. 1140 00:41:25,085 --> 00:41:26,052 I'm done. 1141 00:41:27,587 --> 00:41:29,189 Okay, we'll go. Yeah. 1142 00:41:29,222 --> 00:41:30,790 I love you guys. 1143 00:41:30,824 --> 00:41:32,192 Are we getting kicked out? 1144 00:41:32,225 --> 00:41:35,729 Thank you for being the horrible communicator of-- 1145 00:41:35,762 --> 00:41:36,963 The horrible news. 1146 00:41:36,996 --> 00:41:38,832 Oh, I've never been kicked out of any-- 1147 00:41:38,865 --> 00:41:40,633 Wait, I did get evicted. 1148 00:41:40,667 --> 00:41:42,068 - Bye, girls. - Bye. 1149 00:41:43,136 --> 00:41:44,804 Oh, sh--. 1150 00:41:44,838 --> 00:41:46,006 It feels like she's pissed at us. 1151 00:41:46,039 --> 00:41:47,807 - I know. - Did she just slam the door? 1152 00:41:47,841 --> 00:41:49,209 Yes, but I didn't do anything. 1153 00:41:49,242 --> 00:41:51,644 [Alexis crying] 1154 00:41:51,678 --> 00:41:54,080 - Holy sh--. - No, that's bullsh--. 1155 00:41:54,114 --> 00:41:55,982 We didn't want to come over here and do this. 1156 00:41:56,016 --> 00:41:57,951 I for sure didn't want to come over here and do this. 1157 00:41:57,984 --> 00:41:59,686 We had to come tell her to her face. 1158 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:01,021 Somebody had to tell her. 1159 00:42:03,089 --> 00:42:05,225 - Okay, well that was fun. - Yeah, that was great. 1160 00:42:05,258 --> 00:42:06,826 Love you, good night. 1161 00:42:11,197 --> 00:42:13,967 Next time on The Real Housewives of Orange County. 1162 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:15,735 - We'll have a spot of tea. - Okay. 1163 00:42:15,769 --> 00:42:17,771 - Say cheerio! - Cheerio. 1164 00:42:17,804 --> 00:42:19,639 Wait, is that Buckingham Palace? 1165 00:42:19,673 --> 00:42:21,207 That's ---ingham Palace. 1166 00:42:21,241 --> 00:42:23,109 [screaming] 1167 00:42:25,779 --> 00:42:26,980 No, no, no, no, no, no. 1168 00:42:27,013 --> 00:42:29,916 I don't find this fun at all. 1169 00:42:29,949 --> 00:42:32,052 - Are we going to bring up the-- - The Jeff Lewis thing? 1170 00:42:32,085 --> 00:42:34,354 There's something you said that was a lie. 1171 00:42:34,387 --> 00:42:36,990 The fact that you're bringing this up, you know what? 1172 00:42:37,023 --> 00:42:38,858 - Shannon. - No, stop it. 1173 00:42:38,892 --> 00:42:39,959 - No! - I'm going home. 1174 00:42:39,993 --> 00:42:41,227 I don't need this sh--. Wow.