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Oh, my God!

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I have a tattoo.

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Oh, that's not a tattoo.

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That, dear boy,
is a tramp stamp.

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A tramp stamp.

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Kids, too often in life,

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we make decisions that we're
not prepared to live with.

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This is a story about those decisions,

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and the consequences that follow.

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Say good-bye, kids,

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'cause it won't be around much longer.

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Oh, but Ted, if you get rid of the butterfly,

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how's everyone gonna know

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you're a stripper from Reno
with Daddy issues?

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Yes, yes,
enjoy these

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final moments of mockery

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because in just ten surprisingly
expensive sessions,

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Stella is gonna zap that butterfly

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right off the face of my lower back.

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Stella?
Dr. Stella Zinman.

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She's the best in the business.

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And she's rather cute.

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In fact... we're going
to a movie together tonight.

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What?
I asked her out.

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Oy. Oh. Ted, why would you do that?

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What's the matter with you?
What?

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What do you mean?
Dude...

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don't poop where you eat.

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Oh, no, this doesn't count.

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If it's someone you see on a regular basis,

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and you can't avoid them...

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And in this case,
you're paying them...

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then yes, it counts.

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Ted,

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you've heard of the Golden Rule, right?

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"Love thy neighbor?"

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Uh, actually,
it's "Do unto others

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as you would have them do unto you."

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It's from the Bible.

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Damn it, Ted, I've worked out
this whole thing

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where the Golden Rule is
"Love thy neighbor,"

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so just... okay?

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Now, the Golden Rule is
"Love thy neighbor."

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But there's one rule above it:

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the Platinum Rule: Mmm.

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"Never ever, ever, ever,
'love' thy neighbor."

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Well, that's cute.

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But she's not my neighbor;
she's my doctor.

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So if you'll excuse me... Wait, Ted,

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Barney has a point.

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Remember what happened

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with me and Curt down at the station?

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Oh, yeah, and remember
what happened with us

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and the Gerards across the hall?

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Need I remind you

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about me and Wendy the Waitress?

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Yeah, I don't have time for this.

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I'm out the door as soon
as I'm finished with my hair.

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Good, then we've got a solid half hour.

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And in that time,we will convince you

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not to set foot out that door.

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It's a story older than time, my friend,

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and it always plays out
in the same eight steps.

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Step 1: Attraction.

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No, that's not possible. It's true.

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That's not even possible.

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12 of them.
There's no way.

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Hi, Barney.
Hey.

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Here's your gin and tonic. Thanks.

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Oh, gosh.
Look at that.

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Oh, hi!
Hi. You must be our new neighbors.

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I'm Michael.
And I'm Laura.

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Oh, hi, welcome to the building. Yeah.

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Do you guys know any good
brunch places around here?

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We love brunch!

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You must be Robin.

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Mmm.

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Yeah.

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Curt "The Iron Man" Irons.

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I'm gonna be doing sports.

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Oh. Welcome.

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You look really familiar.

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Are you a former athlete?

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Hockey.

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The attraction is

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instant and undeniable.

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But you know better.

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You've seen your friends
make the same mistakes before.

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You've laughed smugly at them.

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Idiots.

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But still, you think,
"This is different.

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The Platinum Rule doesn't apply to me."

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And that's Step 2.

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Bargaining.

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I think I've got

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a little crush on our sports guy. No.

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No, don't do it.
No, no,no, no.

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I know, I know.

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But he used to play hockey,
and I'm a Canadian.

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I can't help it.

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If he were missing some teeth,

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I probably would've already hit that.

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Robin, it's a mistake.

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Remember what happened
with me and Marshall?

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The Gerards across the hall?

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Michael and Laura.

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They're awesome!

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We're gonna invite them over for dinner.

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No! No! Really? Are you insane?

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Guys, guys, guys,

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this is New York City.

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You don't get close to the neighbors.

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You nod at them politely in the hall.

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You call the cops if you haven't seen

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them in a while

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and you smell something
funny, and that is it.

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We're not gonna date them.

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We're just gonna be friends with them.

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That's the couples version of dating.

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And you've got the couples
version of the hots for them.

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Oh, yeah,

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you want to eat brunch with them.

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You want to browse
at Pottery Barn with them.

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You want to go antiquing
with them, don't you?

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Oh, yeah,

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you want to antique the crap out of them.

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Need I remind you

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what happened with me
and Wendy the Waitress?

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No!Don't do it!
Request denied!

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What rule is there

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that says I can't seduce the waitress

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at my favorite bar?

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I don't know. I'd expect you
to have one already.

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Yeah, with some sort of catchy name.

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Well, I don't.

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I don't have one and I never will be

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because it's a great idea.

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Come on, guys.

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She's gullible.
I'm bored.

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We're perfect for each other.

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Barney.

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We love this bar.

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If you screw over Wendy the Waitress,

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you're going to kill the bar.

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Bar-killer. Don't kill the bar, dude.

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Yeah, well...
I think it'll be okay.

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And it was a huge mistake.

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Yeah, well, I think it'll be okay.

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And it was a huge mistake.

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Yeah, well...
I think it'll be okay.

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And it was a huge mistake.

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Yeah, well...
I think it'll be okay.

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Trust Me

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You don't want to do this.

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Look, Stella and I are both adults.

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We're both smart, mature people

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capable of making good decisions.

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You have a butterfly tramp stamp.

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We're just seeing a movie.

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If it seems at all weird,
I'll back off.

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That's what everyone thinks.

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And then along comes Step 3:

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Submission.

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Night.

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Hey, Barney.

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Carl had to take off.
You mind giving me a hand?

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Not at all.

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Robin.
Mmm?

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I got two tickets to the Rangers Center ice.

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Want to go?

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And then we discover the movers
lost all our kitchen boxes.

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We don't have a single pot or pan.

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Guess we're ordering take-out.

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Want to have dinner with us tonight?

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- I love them.
- Me, too.

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Wow.

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That was an interesting use
of the beverage gun.

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Club soda can get anything off.

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It finally happened.

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All this time,

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every drink I brought you...

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I always felt there was this
unspoken connection between us.

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And I was right.

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Hey, can I get a gin and tonic?

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See, I bet you didn't pay
for that gin and tonic.

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Oh, I paid for it.

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But you got to admit,
there is an upside

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to breaking The Platinum Rule.

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Like maybe as her boyfriend,

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I could get a discount on treatments.

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Oh, Ted.

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Of course there's an upside.

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At first.

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That's Step 4.Perks.

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We can split a cab to work together.

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We always have a standing lunch date.

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And last night,
at the hockey game,

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Curt got us into the locker room,

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and I met Mason Raymond.

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Left Wing for the Vancouver Canucks.

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What's the opposite of name-dropping?

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Damn it, you guys.

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Be psyched.

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Yes, we see each other every day,

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but I think it's going really well.

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That's what we thought.

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And it's so convenient.

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They're right across the hall.

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Say it's Sunday,

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and we want to have a brunch double date

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with someone?

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We just go across the hall.

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And say we want to have a dinner party

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exploring the wine and cuisine

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of France's Loire Valley?

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We just go across the hall.

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Say we want to play a game of charades...

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You just go across the hall?

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Come on, people.
Get excited for us.

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We've got a great thing going here.

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That's what I thought.

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Dude, you got to flick it. You don't...

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Hi, sweetie.

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I had the kitchen whip these up, no charge.

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Okay.

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Bye.

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I mean, not bye.
I'm not leaving.

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I'll be over there.

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Okay.

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Come on, guys.
Free nachos.

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What?

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We like this bar.

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Don't kill the bar, dude.

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Nay, we love this bar.
Don't kill the bar, dude.

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This bar is like home to us.

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Don't kill the bar, dude.
You're killing the bar.

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I am not killing the bar.

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Wendy the Waitress

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has seen how I operate in this place.

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It is perfectly clear

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to everyone involved

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that this is nothing more
than a temporary fling.

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It's fine.

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But it wasn't.

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It's fine.

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But it wasn't.

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It's fine.

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But it wasn't.

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Which brings us to Step 5:

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THE TIPPING POINT

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...but he should be back on the mound

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by spring training.

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And that's sports.

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Back to you, Robin.
Thanks, Iron Man.

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We'll be right back.

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And clear.

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So want to do something later?

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Oh, so you're talking to me now?

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What are you talking about?

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I'm talking about last night.

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You said you'd call and you didn't.

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I missed you and I waited up,
but you didn't call.

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That really hurt.

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Oh.

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Um, I'm sorry,
I- I guess I just forgot.

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I'm sorry, sweetie.

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I don't want to fight tonight.

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It's our first weekiversary.

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On my suggestion,
you flip it.

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Why would you flip it? It doesn't...

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Hey, Wendy, uh,
do me a favor

272
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and send a glass of champagne

273
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to that pretty young thing over there.

274
00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:12,900
What?

275
00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:17,700
Over there.

276
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You.

277
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You're the pretty young thing...

278
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is what I meant.

279
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Champagne? Would you? On me.

280
00:10:27,700 --> 00:10:28,900
Oh. Okay.

281
00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:30,200
Thanks, sweetie.

282
00:10:31,900 --> 00:10:32,800
Okay.

283
00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:34,600
All right.

284
00:10:38,900 --> 00:10:39,700
Hey, neighbors.

285
00:10:39,700 --> 00:10:42,400
We bought all the fixings
for a Mexican fiesta.

286
00:10:42,900 --> 00:10:43,900
Oh.

287
00:10:44,100 --> 00:10:46,200
Um, well, we actually have tickets...

288
00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,000
And no fiesta would be complete without...

289
00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:49,200
Dude, actually,
we made other plans, so...

290
00:10:49,300 --> 00:10:50,100
Okay. One word.

291
00:10:51,300 --> 00:10:55,300
Two syllables.
Sounds like...

292
00:10:55,900 --> 00:10:56,900
..."parade." Charades.

293
00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:57,700
Charades.

294
00:10:57,700 --> 00:10:58,300
What do you say?

295
00:11:10,300 --> 00:11:11,800
Oh, no. Oh, no. Oh, no.

296
00:11:15,900 --> 00:11:17,400
which brings us to Step 6.

297
00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:18,200
Yeah, listen,
I'm leaving.

298
00:11:18,300 --> 00:11:19,800
So if you want to write
the rest of these down,

299
00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:21,300
I will read it tomorrow.

300
00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:23,400
Don't do this, Ted.

301
00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:25,400
You want to get out of the way?

302
00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:28,100
Don't do this, Ted.
All right.

303
00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:29,200
Don't.

304
00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:30,300
Dude! Gah!

305
00:11:30,300 --> 00:11:31,700
It was perfect!

306
00:11:31,700 --> 00:11:32,500
You're such a jerk.

307
00:11:32,900 --> 00:11:35,200
Which brings us to Step 6.

308
00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,400
You finally realize
you've made a huge mistake

309
00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:38,400
and now you have to live with it.

310
00:11:38,700 --> 00:11:41,200
Step 6 is called Purg...
Wait for it.

311
00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:43,400
Keep waiting...

312
00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:45,000
keep waiting for all eternity

313
00:11:45,100 --> 00:11:47,800
only to discover there's no escape-- atory.

314
00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:50,000
God, I'm such

315
00:11:50,300 --> 00:11:52,000
an idiot.

316
00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:52,800
Yeah.

317
00:11:53,500 --> 00:11:55,600
Curt "The Iron Man" Irons

318
00:11:56,100 --> 00:11:57,500
keeps leaving me love notes on Post-Its.

319
00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,400
On the teleprompter,
on my desk,

320
00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:01,600
on the coffee-maker,

321
00:12:01,700 --> 00:12:05,100
on the jar of sugar packets
next to the coffee-maker.

322
00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,700
"Here's some sugar for my sugar."

323
00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:08,800
The Iron Man.

324
00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:13,600
I remember that.

325
00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:15,400
God, we are such idiots.

326
00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,100
Yup.Every time we step out the door,

327
00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:19,900
they're out there waiting for us.

328
00:12:20,500 --> 00:12:23,300
Sometimes, we'll send Ted out
first as a scout.

329
00:12:23,700 --> 00:12:24,700
Nobody's there.

330
00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,900
Then we'll go out one second
later, and there they are.

331
00:12:27,900 --> 00:12:29,200
It's freakin' supernatural.

332
00:12:29,300 --> 00:12:31,500
Are they ghosts?
Can only we see them?

333
00:12:31,500 --> 00:12:33,300
"Hey, neighbor." "Hey,
neighbor." "Hey, neighbor."

334
00:12:36,100 --> 00:12:38,000
Hmm, I rember that.

335
00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,400
How could you guys let me date
Wendy the Waitress?

336
00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:41,200
Oh, you are kidding me.
What?!

337
00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,000
Don't kill the bar, dude.
We said, "Don't do it."

338
00:12:54,100 --> 00:12:56,200
My own bar.

339
00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:59,200
I can't hit on women in my own bar.

340
00:12:59,900 --> 00:13:00,700
Remember the old Barney?

341
00:13:01,300 --> 00:13:03,300
He was a lion,
the king of the jungle,

342
00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:05,600
stalking whatever prey he chose,

343
00:13:06,100 --> 00:13:07,200
going in for the kill.

344
00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:09,700
You've got a whole meat locker at home

345
00:13:09,700 --> 00:13:10,400
full of corpses,
don't you?

346
00:13:11,500 --> 00:13:12,800
Now look at me.

347
00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:14,800
Declawed. Neutered.

348
00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:16,100
What was once

349
00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:18,000
my jungle is now my zoo.

350
00:13:18,300 --> 00:13:21,900
And I am forced to mate
with the same old lioness

351
00:13:22,500 --> 00:13:24,900
again and again and again,

352
00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:27,200
while families pay to watch.

353
00:13:27,900 --> 00:13:29,400
Yeah, this metaphor's really falling apart.

354
00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:34,700
Put a bell around my neck
and scratch my belly, kids,

355
00:13:35,300 --> 00:13:38,900
for I am just a docile housecat now.

356
00:13:41,100 --> 00:13:41,900
Meow.

357
00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:44,800
Well, we love this bar.

358
00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:46,200
You can't dump her.

359
00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:47,700
Marry her if you have to.

360
00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,700
Wendy the Waitress-Hyphen-Stinson.

361
00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:52,800
Don't kill the bar, dude.

362
00:13:56,500 --> 00:13:59,300
And so, inevitably,
you have to do the thing

363
00:13:59,300 --> 00:14:00,500
you've been dreading all along.

364
00:14:01,100 --> 00:14:03,100
Now, a relationship-ectomy

365
00:14:03,700 --> 00:14:05,600
is a delicate surgery as it is,

366
00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:07,000
but in the case of the Platinum Rule,

367
00:14:07,300 --> 00:14:10,800
it takes a very, very steady hand, and that's

368
00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:13,900
Step 7: Confrontation.

369
00:14:17,900 --> 00:14:20,600
Curt, we need to talk.

370
00:14:22,500 --> 00:14:23,300
I like you...

371
00:14:23,900 --> 00:14:25,000
Guys, we like you a lot...

372
00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:26,600
I don't like you.

373
00:14:28,500 --> 00:14:30,800
We're pretending this works,
but it doesn't.

374
00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:33,400
And I'm getting a little
sick of the whole charade.

375
00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:35,400
We're getting a little sick of charades.

376
00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:38,200
I mean, I don't like you that way.

377
00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:39,500
I used to like you that way.

378
00:14:39,500 --> 00:14:40,500
But now that I've seen everything

379
00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:42,600
there is to see, I don't know,

380
00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:44,100
I kind of want to see those same parts

381
00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:46,200
just on other girls.

382
00:14:46,700 --> 00:14:50,700
So maybe, we could go back
to just being coworkers.

383
00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,000
Maybe we should just go
back to being neighbors.

384
00:14:55,300 --> 00:14:56,200
Other girls and you,

385
00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:57,600
if you're into that.

386
00:14:58,100 --> 00:15:00,100
But the other girls have to be there, too.

387
00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:02,200
That's the important part.

388
00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:05,900
Gosh, you're just terrified

389
00:15:05,900 --> 00:15:08,200
of ever getting close to anyone,
aren't you?

390
00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:10,800
Or that. Let's say it's that.

391
00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:16,100
So can I get a gin and tonic?

392
00:15:16,100 --> 00:15:17,700
And in any other relationship,

393
00:15:18,300 --> 00:15:19,100
that would be it.

394
00:15:19,100 --> 00:15:20,200
End of story.

395
00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:22,200
But because you have
to see this person again,

396
00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:25,100
there's a Step 8: Fallout.

397
00:15:26,100 --> 00:15:26,900
And now, here's

398
00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:30,100
Curt "The Iron Man" Irons with sports.

399
00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:31,500
Curt?

400
00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:36,000
Curt?

401
00:15:42,500 --> 00:15:43,700
Well, the Knicks lost.

402
00:15:44,700 --> 00:15:45,700
It's sad, really.

403
00:15:46,300 --> 00:15:48,200
They had a real shot.

404
00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:51,400
Then, out of nowhere, game over.

405
00:15:52,500 --> 00:15:54,800
And why?

406
00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:55,500
Why, Robin?

407
00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,300
Uh, well, their perimeter shooting

408
00:15:59,300 --> 00:16:00,600
has been a little bit off this season...

409
00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:01,700
The Knicks lost because they were

410
00:16:01,900 --> 00:16:02,900
afraid of getting hurt.

411
00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:04,500
So they didn't even try.

412
00:16:05,300 --> 00:16:06,300
Well, you know what I think?

413
00:16:07,500 --> 00:16:08,400
I think

414
00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:10,500
the Knicks didn't deserve
my love to begin with.

415
00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:13,300
The Knicks suck.

416
00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:20,600
And that's sports.

417
00:16:22,500 --> 00:16:23,600
Do you see anything?

418
00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:27,600
I think we're clear.
okay, go, go, go!

419
00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:36,000
That was close.

420
00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:36,900
Too close.

421
00:16:38,900 --> 00:16:39,900
You've got to be kidding me.

422
00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:41,800
- What do we do?
- I have no idea.

423
00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:45,600
Guys, are you there?

424
00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:46,900
I forgot my keys.
Can you open up?

425
00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:48,800
It's just Ted.

426
00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:52,700
Wait!

427
00:16:52,700 --> 00:16:56,700
Hello?
Guys?

428
00:17:02,900 --> 00:17:05,500
Baby, we only have one choice.

429
00:17:05,500 --> 00:17:08,300
Okay, hurry! Michael
and Laura are probably...

430
00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,700
Hey, neighbors.
Yeah.

431
00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:17,100
Barney, I just want you to know,
I have no hard feelings.

432
00:17:17,700 --> 00:17:18,600
It wasn't the best idea

433
00:17:18,700 --> 00:17:19,700
for us to get involved.

434
00:17:20,500 --> 00:17:21,700
I hope we can still be friends.

435
00:17:22,900 --> 00:17:24,300
Thanks, Wendy.
Of course we can.

436
00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:26,400
If you need anything else,
let me know.

437
00:17:28,700 --> 00:17:29,700
Wow.

438
00:17:29,700 --> 00:17:30,700
I've got to hand it to Wendy the Waitress:

439
00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:31,700
that was very mature of her.

440
00:17:32,900 --> 00:17:33,700
She's gonna try to kill me.

441
00:17:36,100 --> 00:17:37,200
This is poisoned.

442
00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:38,500
What? You're being ridiculous.

443
00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:39,800
Yours is poisoned, too.

444
00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:41,300
She's trying to kill me
and everyone close to me.

445
00:17:41,300 --> 00:17:43,400
What are you talking about?
Ted!

446
00:17:43,700 --> 00:17:45,300
Look at the facts: I dump her

447
00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:46,600
and she says,
"No hard feelings."

448
00:17:48,700 --> 00:17:49,500
She's a psycho!

449
00:17:49,500 --> 00:17:50,400
What other explanation is there?

450
00:17:51,300 --> 00:17:52,600
Uh, that you're letting yourself

451
00:17:52,700 --> 00:17:53,700
believe she's crazy

452
00:17:53,700 --> 00:17:55,400
so you don't have to face
the far more likely possibility

453
00:17:55,500 --> 00:17:57,000
that she doesn't want to date you either?

454
00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:01,000
Where did Marshall get that hamburger?

455
00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:02,600
I don't know, I guess

456
00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:03,800
Wendy the Waitress brought it to him.

457
00:18:04,700 --> 00:18:08,000
Nooo!

458
00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:15,600
Dude.

459
00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:17,800
You're welcome.

460
00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:18,800
Wait a second.

461
00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:19,800
You've been sitting here,

462
00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,900
pretending to be the expert on all this,

463
00:18:23,100 --> 00:18:25,300
but the truth is,
there was no real fallout

464
00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:26,400
from your breakup at all?

465
00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:29,400
Yet.
You're an idiot.

466
00:18:30,500 --> 00:18:31,600
All right, I'm taking off.

467
00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:32,900
What?!
I have a date.

468
00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:38,200
Wha...? you are such a jerk!

469
00:18:38,300 --> 00:18:40,400
Ted, have you not

470
00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:42,600
Attraction,
bargaining, submission,

471
00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:44,200
perks, tipping point,

472
00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,000
purgatory,
confrontation, fallout!

473
00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:47,400
These things will all happen to you

474
00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,100
as surely as they happened to all of us!

475
00:18:49,300 --> 00:18:50,300
It's a rule of nature!

476
00:18:50,900 --> 00:18:52,400
Well, I'm sick of all the rules!

477
00:18:52,500 --> 00:18:54,100
There's too many of them!

478
00:18:54,100 --> 00:18:55,400
The Hot/Crazy Scale,
the Lemon Law,

479
00:18:55,700 --> 00:18:56,500
the Platinum Rule...

480
00:18:57,100 --> 00:18:58,100
If everyone in the world

481
00:18:58,100 --> 00:18:59,400
followed every one of your rules,

482
00:18:59,700 --> 00:19:01,600
the human race would cease to exist.

483
00:19:02,300 --> 00:19:03,300
Yes, chances are

484
00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:04,900
Stella and I are not

485
00:19:04,900 --> 00:19:06,100
going to live happily ever after.

486
00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:08,800
The overwhelming odds
have it ending badly.

487
00:19:09,100 --> 00:19:09,900
And when that happens,

488
00:19:10,300 --> 00:19:12,700
it'll be for one of a million possible reasons.

489
00:19:12,700 --> 00:19:14,000
But that doesn't mean I'm not gonna try.

490
00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:15,600
And when it does fail,

491
00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:19,500
so help me God, it's not gonna
be because of some rule.

492
00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:24,400
P.S.

493
00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:27,200
you just made my hair look awesome.

494
00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:28,300
Good night.

495
00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:32,300
So Stella and I went on our date.

496
00:19:32,700 --> 00:19:33,700
But here's the funny thing:

497
00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:37,600
turns out,
it wasn't actually a date.

498
00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:38,800
So what do you mean "it wasn't a date"?

499
00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:41,800
She thought we were seeing
a movie just as friends.

500
00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:42,800
Why would she think that?

501
00:19:43,300 --> 00:19:44,000
Did she see your tattoo

502
00:19:44,100 --> 00:19:44,900
and assume you were gay?

503
00:19:46,100 --> 00:19:48,900
Apparently, there's a rule
that says I can't date Stella.

504
00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:51,300
Exactly: the Platinum Rule.

505
00:19:51,500 --> 00:19:53,200
Stella reads my blog.

506
00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:55,900
No, this rule comes from the
American Medical Association.

507
00:19:55,900 --> 00:19:58,000
Doctors aren't legally allowed
to date their patients.

508
00:19:58,100 --> 00:19:59,600
Oh, sorry, Ted.

509
00:19:59,900 --> 00:20:01,500
Eh, it's okay.

510
00:20:02,300 --> 00:20:04,000
What are you guys watching?

511
00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:04,900
So that was the end of the story

512
00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:08,200
between me and Stella,
at least for the time being.

513
00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:10,700
But I don't know, looking back
on the Platinum Rule,

514
00:20:11,300 --> 00:20:12,100
I think there's a ninth step.

515
00:20:12,900 --> 00:20:14,200
We'll call it Coexistence.

516
00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,000
It's the moment you realize
that all that anger

517
00:20:17,100 --> 00:20:18,400
and resentment just isn't useful.

518
00:20:19,100 --> 00:20:20,200
Thanks for watching.

519
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:20,900
Good night.

520
00:20:23,700 --> 00:20:24,700
And you start to let go of it.

521
00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:26,300
Hey, guys.

522
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,100
So what do you guys
have going on tonight?

523
00:20:29,500 --> 00:20:30,500
We're going to have a few friends over.

524
00:20:30,900 --> 00:20:31,700
Gonna play some charades.

525
00:20:32,900 --> 00:20:33,700
Have fun.

526
00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:38,100
And move on with your life.

527
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:40,600
It just takes a while.

528
00:20:41,500 --> 00:20:43,800
On the house.Thanks.

529
00:20:48,500 --> 00:20:50,100
Cuckoo!