1 00:00:01,635 --> 00:00:03,437 ‐ Previously on "The Bachelorette"... 2 00:00:03,437 --> 00:00:04,872 ‐ Is this really goodbye? 3 00:00:04,872 --> 00:00:08,642 ‐ Tayshia sent Bennett home on an emotional two‐on‐one 4 00:00:08,642 --> 00:00:11,712 and faced tough choices about whose families she'll meet. 5 00:00:11,712 --> 00:00:14,615 ‐ Next week is Hometowns, and that's a big deal. 6 00:00:14,615 --> 00:00:16,316 ‐ That makes it really real. 7 00:00:16,316 --> 00:00:17,651 My family's everything. 8 00:00:17,651 --> 00:00:19,586 ‐ I'm falling in love with these guys, 9 00:00:19,586 --> 00:00:20,787 and I don't know what to do. 10 00:00:20,787 --> 00:00:23,557 ‐ The gravity of this situation is intense. 11 00:00:23,557 --> 00:00:26,493 ‐ [gasps] ‐ Hello, Tayshia. 12 00:00:26,493 --> 00:00:28,595 I had to tell you that I love you. 13 00:00:28,595 --> 00:00:29,663 ‐ [exhales] 14 00:00:29,663 --> 00:00:31,665 I am so confused. 15 00:00:31,665 --> 00:00:34,034 ‐ And tonight... 16 00:00:34,034 --> 00:00:37,738 ‐ There are three roses left, but eight guys here. 17 00:00:37,738 --> 00:00:40,407 ‐ Tayshia makes some heartbreaking decisions. 18 00:00:40,407 --> 00:00:41,675 ‐ This is really hard. 19 00:00:41,675 --> 00:00:43,710 ‐ Who will make it to her final four? 20 00:00:43,710 --> 00:00:44,878 ‐ This intensifies 21 00:00:44,878 --> 00:00:47,881 every single moment from here on out. 22 00:00:47,881 --> 00:00:51,251 ‐ I felt like there was a lot of unfinished business, so... 23 00:00:51,251 --> 00:00:52,753 Good evening. 24 00:00:52,753 --> 00:00:54,788 ‐ Bennett walks in like he never left. 25 00:00:54,788 --> 00:00:56,623 ‐ You guys look like you've seen a ghost. 26 00:00:56,623 --> 00:00:58,692 ‐ Why is he still here? I don't know what it means. 27 00:00:58,692 --> 00:01:00,961 ‐ I have eight really amazing men here, 28 00:01:00,961 --> 00:01:04,364 but I can only meet four of their families. 29 00:01:04,364 --> 00:01:05,499 ‐ I'm nervous as hell. 30 00:01:05,499 --> 00:01:06,533 ‐ I'm scared to death. 31 00:01:06,533 --> 00:01:08,669 ‐ Now it's literally do or die. 32 00:01:08,669 --> 00:01:10,837 ‐ I don't wanna hurt anyone. 33 00:01:10,837 --> 00:01:12,706 ‐ I don't see him coming back. 34 00:01:12,706 --> 00:01:15,375 ‐ [sobbing] Okay, I'm sorry. 35 00:01:15,375 --> 00:01:16,643 Oh, my God! 36 00:01:16,643 --> 00:01:19,746 I'm done. I don't wanna do it anymore. 37 00:01:19,746 --> 00:01:22,849 ‐ Plus, it's a shocking Men Tell All 38 00:01:22,849 --> 00:01:25,619 like you've never seen before. 39 00:01:25,619 --> 00:01:26,920 It's all tonight on a special, 40 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,623 dramatic episode of "The Bachelorette." 41 00:01:29,623 --> 00:01:32,459 [birds singing] 42 00:01:37,598 --> 00:01:40,400 [tense music] 43 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:45,872 ♪ ♪ 44 00:01:45,872 --> 00:01:49,443 ‐ Going in today, I'm really overwhelmed. 45 00:01:49,443 --> 00:01:50,844 Last night, 46 00:01:50,844 --> 00:01:54,681 like, the state of, like, shock and confusion. 47 00:01:54,681 --> 00:01:57,351 I couldn't even give out a Group Date Rose. 48 00:01:57,351 --> 00:01:58,986 [knock at door] 49 00:01:58,986 --> 00:02:02,589 I'm frustrated because I feel like I can't really get a grasp 50 00:02:02,589 --> 00:02:03,890 on exactly what I'm feeling 51 00:02:03,890 --> 00:02:07,361 and my thoughts about these guys. 52 00:02:09,529 --> 00:02:11,865 You're back! [both laugh] 53 00:02:11,865 --> 00:02:14,534 It's so nice to see you. 54 00:02:14,534 --> 00:02:15,902 ‐ Hometowns are around the corner, 55 00:02:15,902 --> 00:02:18,605 and it's a lot of really serious decisions 56 00:02:18,605 --> 00:02:21,541 that need to be made, like, quickly. 57 00:02:21,541 --> 00:02:23,744 I've needed you. Where have you been? 58 00:02:23,744 --> 00:02:25,879 And I just wanna make sure I'm doing the right thing, 59 00:02:25,879 --> 00:02:28,715 because I have to send four guys home. 60 00:02:28,715 --> 00:02:30,517 So I feel‐‐ 61 00:02:30,517 --> 00:02:33,720 I feel kinda lost right now. 62 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:35,522 So how was dropping your son off at college? 63 00:02:35,522 --> 00:02:36,556 ‐ It was great. 64 00:02:36,556 --> 00:02:37,591 I didn't cry until the very end. 65 00:02:37,591 --> 00:02:38,659 I was really proud. 66 00:02:38,659 --> 00:02:39,660 But then he gave me a hug at the end. 67 00:02:39,660 --> 00:02:40,827 Then I lost it. ‐ You lost it. 68 00:02:40,827 --> 00:02:42,863 ‐ And then I was like, "Okay, I'm a big sap." 69 00:02:42,863 --> 00:02:44,798 So catch me up. What's going on? 70 00:02:44,798 --> 00:02:47,601 ‐ Honestly, I don't even know where to begin. 71 00:02:47,601 --> 00:02:48,802 ‐ You've cleaned house. 72 00:02:48,802 --> 00:02:50,837 ‐ Yeah, but the "honeymoon phase," 73 00:02:50,837 --> 00:02:52,839 if you will, is kind of over at this point, 74 00:02:52,839 --> 00:02:56,743 and, like, I started to really put my future in perspective. 75 00:02:56,743 --> 00:02:58,912 I have to make these tough decisions 76 00:02:58,912 --> 00:03:00,847 in order to get what I came here for. 77 00:03:00,847 --> 00:03:03,417 ‐ Yeah. Demar. ‐ Mm‐hmm. 78 00:03:03,417 --> 00:03:04,651 ‐ Eazy. ‐ Mm‐hmm. 79 00:03:04,651 --> 00:03:05,852 ‐ Spencer. ‐ Yes. 80 00:03:05,852 --> 00:03:07,454 ‐ Bennett. ‐ Yes. 81 00:03:07,454 --> 00:03:08,655 And Ed. ‐ And Ed. 82 00:03:08,655 --> 00:03:11,458 So Bennett's gone. 83 00:03:11,458 --> 00:03:12,492 ‐ Sort of. [laughs] 84 00:03:12,492 --> 00:03:13,794 ‐ Where's Bennett? 85 00:03:13,794 --> 00:03:16,630 ‐ Well, you know, I did send him home. 86 00:03:16,630 --> 00:03:17,731 ‐ Okay. 87 00:03:17,731 --> 00:03:18,799 ‐ And then at the end of the night, 88 00:03:18,799 --> 00:03:20,600 I was walking home, 89 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:21,968 and when I opened the door, 90 00:03:21,968 --> 00:03:24,538 Bennett was standing on my doorstep. 91 00:03:24,538 --> 00:03:25,672 He said he loved me. 92 00:03:25,672 --> 00:03:28,108 "I want to be with you. I will do anything. 93 00:03:28,108 --> 00:03:30,677 Like, I know this is where I'm supposed to be." 94 00:03:30,677 --> 00:03:31,945 ‐ Holy cow. ‐ Yeah. 95 00:03:31,945 --> 00:03:34,748 ‐ And as far as the guys know, Bennett's not here. 96 00:03:34,748 --> 00:03:36,750 ‐ The guys have no idea Bennett's here. 97 00:03:36,750 --> 00:03:38,485 ‐ So where's your head at? 98 00:03:38,485 --> 00:03:39,720 ‐ It's a lot, 99 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,922 but I feel like I'm getting somewhere. 100 00:03:41,922 --> 00:03:43,957 ‐ Hometowns are next week, 101 00:03:43,957 --> 00:03:45,759 and it really gets down to those people 102 00:03:45,759 --> 00:03:46,927 that you care for. 103 00:03:46,927 --> 00:03:48,795 It's a pivotal week. ‐ I think you're right. 104 00:03:48,795 --> 00:03:49,996 I don't wanna invest my feelings 105 00:03:49,996 --> 00:03:51,164 in these people's families 106 00:03:51,164 --> 00:03:54,868 if there's really just not anything to build on. 107 00:03:54,868 --> 00:03:57,637 But all I've been asking is for these guys to be open 108 00:03:57,637 --> 00:03:59,172 and honest and vulnerable with me, 109 00:03:59,172 --> 00:04:01,641 and every step of the way, they've done exactly that. 110 00:04:01,641 --> 00:04:03,643 I don't think I've ever seen so many men 111 00:04:03,643 --> 00:04:04,678 in touch with their feelings 112 00:04:04,678 --> 00:04:06,780 and truly pouring their hearts out. 113 00:04:06,780 --> 00:04:09,816 I'm taking these Hometowns very seriously. 114 00:04:09,816 --> 00:04:11,051 Family means everything, 115 00:04:11,051 --> 00:04:13,720 and I just wanna see them in that setting. 116 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:15,689 I really want to marry someone. ‐ Yeah. 117 00:04:15,689 --> 00:04:16,823 ‐ I really wanna be with someone 118 00:04:16,823 --> 00:04:19,025 and have a really happy life after this. 119 00:04:19,025 --> 00:04:20,827 ‐ Like, at this point, you're splitting hairs. 120 00:04:20,827 --> 00:04:21,895 These are all good guys. 121 00:04:21,895 --> 00:04:22,929 You could end up with any of 'em, 122 00:04:22,929 --> 00:04:24,064 be perfectly happy. 123 00:04:24,064 --> 00:04:25,899 ‐ Absolutely. ‐ But who do you really love? 124 00:04:25,899 --> 00:04:27,134 That's what we gotta figure out. 125 00:04:27,134 --> 00:04:30,871 ‐ I'm gonna have to make some heartbreaking decisions. 126 00:04:30,871 --> 00:04:34,040 Now I'm at this point where it's like, 127 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,109 Hometowns are around the corner 128 00:04:36,109 --> 00:04:39,146 and I have eight really amazing men here, 129 00:04:39,146 --> 00:04:41,715 but I can only meet four of their families. 130 00:04:41,715 --> 00:04:46,820 ♪ ♪ 131 00:04:46,820 --> 00:04:49,823 I feel really conflicted, 132 00:04:49,823 --> 00:04:51,658 and so I think I need clarity 133 00:04:51,658 --> 00:04:54,728 before tomorrow's Rose Ceremony. 134 00:04:54,728 --> 00:04:55,929 Today, I have a date with Blake. 135 00:04:55,929 --> 00:04:58,765 I have our first one‐on‐one. 136 00:04:58,765 --> 00:05:00,233 There's so many different sides to Blake, 137 00:05:00,233 --> 00:05:02,903 but he's actually, like, the sweetest guy. 138 00:05:02,903 --> 00:05:04,137 But it's kind of hard right now 139 00:05:04,137 --> 00:05:06,740 when I have so much on my mind. 140 00:05:06,740 --> 00:05:10,177 This journey is very confusing. 141 00:05:10,177 --> 00:05:12,012 ‐ I know how serious you guys are here too, 142 00:05:12,012 --> 00:05:13,814 and it's like, the reason that I'm here 143 00:05:13,814 --> 00:05:15,749 is very, very, very true, 144 00:05:15,749 --> 00:05:17,818 and, like, I know what I have to offer, 145 00:05:17,818 --> 00:05:20,620 and I think Tayshia will end up seeing that 146 00:05:20,620 --> 00:05:21,888 after a full day together. 147 00:05:21,888 --> 00:05:23,957 So I expect to come home with a rose, 148 00:05:23,957 --> 00:05:26,827 but I'm like, don't fully know where her head's at. 149 00:05:26,827 --> 00:05:28,829 [door squeaks] 150 00:05:28,829 --> 00:05:30,730 I knew she was coming. [laughter] 151 00:05:30,730 --> 00:05:32,666 I knew it. [chuckles] 152 00:05:32,666 --> 00:05:33,867 [soft tense music] 153 00:05:33,867 --> 00:05:34,901 ‐ Hi. [laughter] 154 00:05:34,901 --> 00:05:37,103 ‐ Hi. ‐ What's up, Tayshia? 155 00:05:37,103 --> 00:05:39,072 ‐ Going on this one‐on‐one with Tayshia today, 156 00:05:39,072 --> 00:05:40,907 nothing up until this point really matters. 157 00:05:40,907 --> 00:05:42,642 Today is, like, the biggest thing. 158 00:05:42,642 --> 00:05:43,977 ‐ So what are we doing? 159 00:05:43,977 --> 00:05:46,613 ‐ I'm waiting to go. ‐ [laughs] 160 00:05:46,613 --> 00:05:47,914 Let's go. ‐ Have fun, guys. 161 00:05:47,914 --> 00:05:49,716 ‐ I'm excited. ‐ Let's do this. 162 00:05:49,716 --> 00:05:52,886 ‐ See you guys. ‐ Bye, guys. 163 00:05:52,886 --> 00:05:54,855 See ya. 164 00:05:54,855 --> 00:05:57,090 ‐ Take care of her. 165 00:05:57,090 --> 00:05:58,959 ‐ I feel like there's guys 166 00:05:58,959 --> 00:06:00,894 that I have to beat out here realistically. 167 00:06:00,894 --> 00:06:01,962 If I'm to get a rose, 168 00:06:01,962 --> 00:06:03,296 that means I'm gonna be beating out 169 00:06:03,296 --> 00:06:05,932 one of the three that have already had a one‐on‐one. 170 00:06:05,932 --> 00:06:08,635 So it's do or die. 171 00:06:08,635 --> 00:06:09,703 Today is everything. 172 00:06:09,703 --> 00:06:11,004 ‐ Does he come back with a rose? 173 00:06:11,004 --> 00:06:13,173 ‐ I gotta think it's either he's coming with a rose 174 00:06:13,173 --> 00:06:14,875 or he's gone right now, actually... 175 00:06:14,875 --> 00:06:16,843 ‐ Mm‐hmm. ‐ To be honest. 176 00:06:16,843 --> 00:06:18,645 ‐ [sighs] 177 00:06:18,645 --> 00:06:20,080 [dramatic music] 178 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:21,948 ‐ Please disrobe. [bird cries] 179 00:06:21,948 --> 00:06:24,684 ‐ Sorry? [laughter] 180 00:06:24,684 --> 00:06:25,919 ‐ Tayshia's unpredictable. 181 00:06:25,919 --> 00:06:27,387 ‐ You guys, I'm really trying. 182 00:06:27,387 --> 00:06:29,890 ‐ There can only be one guy at the end of the day. 183 00:06:29,890 --> 00:06:32,025 ‐ [crying] I'm so sorry. 184 00:06:32,025 --> 00:06:33,693 ‐ I just hope it's me. 185 00:06:35,262 --> 00:06:37,097 ‐ Do you know someone looking for love? 186 00:06:37,097 --> 00:06:38,265 Nominate someone or apply 187 00:06:38,265 --> 00:06:40,700 to date the Bachelor or Bachelorette 188 00:06:40,700 --> 00:06:43,670 at abc.com/casting. 189 00:06:45,639 --> 00:06:48,642 [relaxed music] 190 00:06:48,642 --> 00:06:49,809 ♪ ♪ 191 00:06:49,809 --> 00:06:51,111 [bird cries] 192 00:06:51,111 --> 00:06:52,779 ‐ This is something 193 00:06:52,779 --> 00:06:55,181 I genuinely, like, am interested in. 194 00:06:55,181 --> 00:06:58,051 I think you're gonna be too. ‐ Okay. 195 00:06:58,051 --> 00:06:59,386 ‐ I woke up really overwhelmed. 196 00:06:59,386 --> 00:07:02,022 I just have a lot of things going on in my head 197 00:07:02,022 --> 00:07:04,357 to figure out exactly who should be here, 198 00:07:04,357 --> 00:07:07,727 who shouldn't be here, like, where your relationship stands. 199 00:07:07,727 --> 00:07:09,095 It's been pretty tough. 200 00:07:09,095 --> 00:07:11,798 I just really needed today with Blake, 201 00:07:11,798 --> 00:07:12,899 'cause it's a big deal. 202 00:07:12,899 --> 00:07:16,136 I'm considering him for a Hometown. 203 00:07:16,136 --> 00:07:17,971 I definitely want to use this time 204 00:07:17,971 --> 00:07:19,172 to really just dive deep 205 00:07:19,172 --> 00:07:22,108 to knowing, like, what really makes us, us. 206 00:07:22,108 --> 00:07:25,812 I need to make sure this is all aligned and okay 207 00:07:25,812 --> 00:07:28,715 before I... 208 00:07:28,715 --> 00:07:30,083 can progress, really. 209 00:07:30,083 --> 00:07:33,820 [instrument rattling] ‐ [indistinct singing] 210 00:07:33,820 --> 00:07:35,889 ‐ What? 211 00:07:35,889 --> 00:07:37,891 ‐ Seekers. ‐ Seekers. 212 00:07:37,891 --> 00:07:39,926 ‐ Welcome. ‐ Thank you. 213 00:07:39,926 --> 00:07:41,061 ‐ My name is Gita, 214 00:07:41,061 --> 00:07:44,030 and I'm a Reiki and crystal master. 215 00:07:44,030 --> 00:07:46,099 And I know that you both are here 216 00:07:46,099 --> 00:07:49,002 to seek some answers about your relationship. 217 00:07:49,002 --> 00:07:51,037 Follow me. 218 00:07:51,037 --> 00:07:53,106 ‐ I have no idea what to expect, 219 00:07:53,106 --> 00:07:54,975 but today is super important. 220 00:07:54,975 --> 00:07:56,443 It's been a long, long time coming. 221 00:07:56,443 --> 00:07:58,945 She's seen who I am through a lot of the group dates 222 00:07:58,945 --> 00:08:01,081 and now it's literally do‐or‐die day. 223 00:08:01,081 --> 00:08:04,284 ‐ Tell me about some specific questions. 224 00:08:04,284 --> 00:08:07,921 ‐ Well, I have started to learn a lot about Blake, 225 00:08:07,921 --> 00:08:10,056 but it's been coming in, like... 226 00:08:10,056 --> 00:08:11,157 ‐ Chunks? ‐ Increments. 227 00:08:11,157 --> 00:08:12,225 ‐ Yeah. [laughter] 228 00:08:12,225 --> 00:08:14,894 ‐ It took a little bit for us both 229 00:08:14,894 --> 00:08:17,063 to kind of start connecting, 230 00:08:17,063 --> 00:08:19,265 but I feel like there is, like, a want there. 231 00:08:19,265 --> 00:08:21,067 ‐ You know, I told Tayshia the first time I met her 232 00:08:21,067 --> 00:08:22,268 that it was gonna take a little bit of patience 233 00:08:22,268 --> 00:08:25,038 for me to come around, and I think it did take that. 234 00:08:25,038 --> 00:08:28,441 I'm just hoping to see that we can continue 235 00:08:28,441 --> 00:08:31,311 based off this late connection that we've had. 236 00:08:31,311 --> 00:08:35,081 ‐ Well, please have a seat. ‐ Okay. 237 00:08:35,081 --> 00:08:36,316 ‐ I have to prove to Tayshia 238 00:08:36,316 --> 00:08:38,818 that I'm very, very real and serious. 239 00:08:38,818 --> 00:08:40,320 If I'm able to show that, 240 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:43,256 I think I'll 100% come home with the rose, 241 00:08:43,256 --> 00:08:46,393 and I know that if she met my mom and my family, 242 00:08:46,393 --> 00:08:48,928 they would, like, completely hit it off. 243 00:08:48,928 --> 00:08:51,031 ‐ Now I'm gonna give this to you. 244 00:08:51,031 --> 00:08:52,065 ‐ Kay. 245 00:08:52,065 --> 00:08:54,334 ‐ I want you to crack this open. 246 00:08:54,334 --> 00:08:57,037 ‐ That's‐‐oh, I think I really gotta give it. 247 00:08:57,037 --> 00:08:58,838 ‐ [gasps] 248 00:08:58,838 --> 00:09:00,140 Oh, God. 249 00:09:00,140 --> 00:09:02,142 ‐ Pick a piece each. ‐ Each? 250 00:09:02,142 --> 00:09:03,343 Kay. Phew! 251 00:09:03,343 --> 00:09:07,447 ‐ Since you both have a part of this stone, 252 00:09:07,447 --> 00:09:12,085 as long as you have this stone, you will always be connected. 253 00:09:12,085 --> 00:09:13,186 ‐ Hmm. 254 00:09:13,186 --> 00:09:14,354 I like that. ‐ That's really cool. 255 00:09:14,354 --> 00:09:17,891 ‐ Next, pick a crystal out of this. 256 00:09:19,859 --> 00:09:22,095 Okay. Blake? 257 00:09:22,095 --> 00:09:23,430 ‐ Okay. ‐ Beautiful. 258 00:09:23,430 --> 00:09:27,934 So let's see what you're holding in your hands. 259 00:09:27,934 --> 00:09:29,069 Ah! ‐ Ooh. 260 00:09:29,069 --> 00:09:30,336 ‐ [laughs] 261 00:09:30,336 --> 00:09:34,107 Now, Tayshia, this is a blue crystal. 262 00:09:34,107 --> 00:09:36,109 This is about communication. 263 00:09:36,109 --> 00:09:40,080 So voice your deepest desires with Blake. 264 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:42,415 [both laugh] ‐ Yeah, definitely. 265 00:09:42,415 --> 00:09:44,918 Her crystal was all about communication, 266 00:09:44,918 --> 00:09:46,186 and it's very clear 267 00:09:46,186 --> 00:09:48,354 that Tayshia still has lots of things to ask. 268 00:09:48,354 --> 00:09:51,124 She's trying to get a grasp of who I am, 269 00:09:51,124 --> 00:09:53,159 and I hope that she just hits me 270 00:09:53,159 --> 00:09:54,260 with everything she needs to know. 271 00:09:54,260 --> 00:09:56,062 I don't care what the question is. 272 00:09:56,062 --> 00:10:00,166 ‐ I would like to ask you to please disrobe. 273 00:10:00,166 --> 00:10:04,070 ‐ Sorry? [laughter] 274 00:10:04,070 --> 00:10:07,340 ‐ Oh, the chakras are opening. 275 00:10:07,340 --> 00:10:10,043 ‐ So I want you to lay down. 276 00:10:10,043 --> 00:10:11,344 Yes. Thank you. 277 00:10:11,344 --> 00:10:15,882 We're gonna look at your chakras. 278 00:10:15,882 --> 00:10:18,184 Ah, look at that. 279 00:10:18,184 --> 00:10:19,452 Tayshia, 280 00:10:19,452 --> 00:10:23,056 your heart chakra is a little cautious. 281 00:10:23,056 --> 00:10:25,258 Do you feel it? 282 00:10:25,258 --> 00:10:27,460 So tell him exactly how you feel. 283 00:10:27,460 --> 00:10:31,231 All the doubts and all the beautiful things. 284 00:10:31,231 --> 00:10:33,099 ‐ This typically isn't my type of thing, 285 00:10:33,099 --> 00:10:36,202 but it was, like, very meaningful and deep. 286 00:10:36,202 --> 00:10:39,205 It brought us very close very quickly. 287 00:10:39,205 --> 00:10:40,507 It was perfect. 288 00:10:40,507 --> 00:10:43,209 If I can continue this feeling throughout the night 289 00:10:43,209 --> 00:10:44,477 and I end up with a rose 290 00:10:44,477 --> 00:10:46,379 and this feeling continues, which I think it will 291 00:10:46,379 --> 00:10:48,148 as soon as my family is involved, 292 00:10:48,148 --> 00:10:50,250 like, it's all gonna be good things. 293 00:10:50,250 --> 00:10:54,254 ‐ So this is a tantric breathing exercise 294 00:10:54,254 --> 00:10:58,024 that will reveal how much 295 00:10:58,024 --> 00:11:01,327 you can connect with each other. 296 00:11:01,327 --> 00:11:03,329 Look inside the soul. 297 00:11:03,329 --> 00:11:06,232 See each other. 298 00:11:06,232 --> 00:11:08,067 Inhale... 299 00:11:08,067 --> 00:11:09,969 [both inhale] 300 00:11:09,969 --> 00:11:12,872 And exhale. [both exhale] 301 00:11:12,872 --> 00:11:16,276 [chime resonates] 302 00:11:16,276 --> 00:11:20,947 Try to stay in sync as much as you can. 303 00:11:20,947 --> 00:11:23,950 [tense music] 304 00:11:23,950 --> 00:11:28,188 ♪ ♪ 305 00:11:28,188 --> 00:11:30,156 ‐ I care for Blake, 306 00:11:30,156 --> 00:11:32,425 but when I looked into his eyes, 307 00:11:32,425 --> 00:11:34,460 as I was looking for more validation 308 00:11:34,460 --> 00:11:37,997 and more confidence in the situation. 309 00:11:37,997 --> 00:11:40,333 I don't see it. 310 00:11:40,333 --> 00:11:42,202 And maybe that's why we haven't really progressed 311 00:11:42,202 --> 00:11:46,306 as much as some of the other relationships. 312 00:11:46,306 --> 00:11:48,274 ‐ How do you feel? 313 00:11:48,274 --> 00:11:49,442 ‐ It was good. It was very good. 314 00:11:49,442 --> 00:11:52,212 ‐ Like, it took me a minute to get into it, you know? 315 00:11:52,212 --> 00:11:53,413 ‐ Mm. 316 00:11:53,413 --> 00:11:55,515 Like, that brought me back up to speed with, like, 317 00:11:55,515 --> 00:11:59,219 where I feel like I need to be going to tonight. 318 00:11:59,219 --> 00:12:01,487 ‐ I don't know, I'm still, like, 319 00:12:01,487 --> 00:12:04,290 trying to figure us out, you know? 320 00:12:04,290 --> 00:12:05,525 I needed this date. 321 00:12:05,525 --> 00:12:07,560 It's brought to light where my heart is. 322 00:12:07,560 --> 00:12:10,363 We do have attraction towards one another 323 00:12:10,363 --> 00:12:14,601 and both of our hearts are open and receptive, you know, 324 00:12:14,601 --> 00:12:18,504 but I just‐‐ I don't think he's my guy. 325 00:12:18,504 --> 00:12:20,573 I feel like I need to tell him that. 326 00:12:20,573 --> 00:12:24,377 ‐ I'm so grateful that that's what we did today. 327 00:12:24,377 --> 00:12:27,413 It allowed us to connect very, very, very quickly. 328 00:12:27,413 --> 00:12:31,618 I would be comfortable going into next week. 329 00:12:31,618 --> 00:12:35,154 ‐ I don't know, I feel like it took us... 330 00:12:37,590 --> 00:12:40,526 A long time to, like, start having 331 00:12:40,526 --> 00:12:44,230 a conversation to where I actually kinda saw you. 332 00:12:44,230 --> 00:12:46,299 ‐ Well, I felt like I was constantly trying 333 00:12:46,299 --> 00:12:49,535 to, like, prove myself and how serious I was. 334 00:12:49,535 --> 00:12:51,571 I know what I have to offer. 335 00:12:51,571 --> 00:12:54,540 Like, I'm like... it'll get there. 336 00:12:54,540 --> 00:12:58,444 I don't have any doubt. None whatsoever. 337 00:12:58,444 --> 00:13:02,415 It just needs to, like, have more time. 338 00:13:02,415 --> 00:13:06,019 ‐ Like‐‐but, like‐‐ 339 00:13:11,624 --> 00:13:14,160 Like, families come in next week, 340 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:15,228 and then‐‐you know? 341 00:13:15,228 --> 00:13:17,430 Like, I wish we had more time. 342 00:13:17,430 --> 00:13:18,998 ‐ Mm‐hmm. 343 00:13:18,998 --> 00:13:21,200 [somber music] 344 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:25,305 ‐ I just don't know if, um... 345 00:13:25,305 --> 00:13:28,207 if I can get there. 346 00:13:28,207 --> 00:13:30,376 ♪ ♪ 347 00:13:30,376 --> 00:13:32,345 It's not that you're not an incredible guy. 348 00:13:32,345 --> 00:13:34,380 I just don't know if, like‐‐ 349 00:13:34,380 --> 00:13:38,217 the timing just, like, was off for us. 350 00:13:38,217 --> 00:13:44,457 ♪ ♪ 351 00:13:44,457 --> 00:13:47,527 I think it‐‐it's... 352 00:13:47,527 --> 00:13:51,297 ‐ It's all right. 353 00:13:51,297 --> 00:13:55,268 ‐ I think it's time to go our separate ways. 354 00:13:55,268 --> 00:13:57,970 ‐ Okay. 355 00:13:57,970 --> 00:14:01,407 ♪ ♪ 356 00:14:01,407 --> 00:14:04,177 ‐ It just really freaking sucks. 357 00:14:04,177 --> 00:14:05,411 He has all the qualities of, like, 358 00:14:05,411 --> 00:14:07,347 what I would want my person to be, you know? 359 00:14:07,347 --> 00:14:11,150 Like, he's such a good guy. 360 00:14:11,150 --> 00:14:13,786 ♪ ♪ 361 00:14:13,786 --> 00:14:15,588 But, like, at this point, like, right now, 362 00:14:15,588 --> 00:14:17,557 I just know that there's other relationships 363 00:14:17,557 --> 00:14:21,361 that my heart is more invested in. 364 00:14:21,361 --> 00:14:24,564 ♪ ♪ 365 00:14:24,564 --> 00:14:27,900 [softly] Oh, my God. 366 00:14:29,369 --> 00:14:32,271 I'm really sorry. ‐ It's okay. 367 00:14:32,271 --> 00:14:34,640 ‐ [sniffles] 368 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:38,277 [crying] I'm really sorry. ‐ It's okay. 369 00:14:38,277 --> 00:14:40,079 ‐ I'm really sorry. 370 00:14:40,079 --> 00:14:41,080 ‐ It's okay. 371 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:44,851 ‐ [sobbing] 372 00:14:46,452 --> 00:14:50,123 I really am. ‐ I know. 373 00:14:50,123 --> 00:14:51,224 Okay. 374 00:14:51,224 --> 00:14:56,496 ♪ ♪ 375 00:14:56,496 --> 00:15:00,199 [engine turns over] 376 00:15:00,199 --> 00:15:03,336 ‐ [sobbing] 377 00:15:03,336 --> 00:15:10,877 ♪ ♪ 378 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:18,251 ‐ [sighs] 379 00:15:18,251 --> 00:15:19,485 ‐ [sobs] 380 00:15:19,485 --> 00:15:23,656 ‐ I didn't see that coming. At all. 381 00:15:23,656 --> 00:15:27,427 How did that change so quickly? 382 00:15:27,427 --> 00:15:32,665 ♪ ♪ 383 00:15:32,665 --> 00:15:36,369 She still has no idea, no clue. 384 00:15:36,369 --> 00:15:39,238 I am, like, so crazy about her. 385 00:15:51,384 --> 00:15:53,586 ♪ ♪ 386 00:15:53,586 --> 00:15:56,355 ‐ That really hurt. 387 00:15:56,355 --> 00:15:57,990 I know I did the right thing. 388 00:15:57,990 --> 00:16:01,227 It just, like, doesn't feel good to send anybody home. 389 00:16:01,227 --> 00:16:04,797 [breathing deeply] 390 00:16:04,797 --> 00:16:08,201 Figuring out Hometowns, like... 391 00:16:08,201 --> 00:16:10,169 yeah, I'm overwhelmed. 392 00:16:10,169 --> 00:16:11,571 [sobs] 393 00:16:11,571 --> 00:16:13,773 Oh, my God. 394 00:16:13,773 --> 00:16:15,641 And I can't even imagine what it's gonna be like 395 00:16:15,641 --> 00:16:19,712 to dwindle all the way down to one. 396 00:16:19,712 --> 00:16:23,249 Saying goodbye to Blake provided clarity for me. 397 00:16:24,550 --> 00:16:26,486 It makes me realize that there's something else 398 00:16:26,486 --> 00:16:28,621 I need to do. 399 00:16:28,621 --> 00:16:30,523 And I need to take care of that tonight. 400 00:16:30,523 --> 00:16:32,325 [sighs] 401 00:16:32,325 --> 00:16:33,493 Right now. 402 00:16:33,493 --> 00:16:34,894 [dramatic music] 403 00:16:34,894 --> 00:16:37,396 ‐ One of us is not gonna get Hometowns. 404 00:16:37,396 --> 00:16:38,498 ‐ Yeah. 405 00:16:38,498 --> 00:16:40,766 If Blake comes back, that's one less rose, 406 00:16:40,766 --> 00:16:42,668 and, like, my mind just instantly goes 407 00:16:42,668 --> 00:16:44,337 to, like, the odds of me staying. 408 00:16:44,337 --> 00:16:47,473 ♪ ♪ 409 00:16:47,473 --> 00:16:49,342 ‐ I'm gonna stick with what I said earlier 410 00:16:49,342 --> 00:16:50,676 and say that he's coming back. 411 00:16:50,676 --> 00:16:54,847 ‐ I don't see him coming back with the rose. 412 00:16:54,847 --> 00:16:57,750 ‐ I think somebody's about to come grab Blake's bag 413 00:16:57,750 --> 00:16:59,652 'cause he didn't get a rose. 414 00:16:59,652 --> 00:17:03,523 [door squeaks] 415 00:17:03,523 --> 00:17:05,525 ‐ Tayshia? ‐ Hey. 416 00:17:05,525 --> 00:17:07,493 ‐ What's going on? 417 00:17:07,493 --> 00:17:08,728 ‐ You all right? 418 00:17:08,728 --> 00:17:10,396 ‐ We need to talk. 419 00:17:15,568 --> 00:17:18,638 [wind whooshing softly] 420 00:17:18,638 --> 00:17:22,208 [solemn music] 421 00:17:22,208 --> 00:17:27,613 ♪ ♪ 422 00:17:27,613 --> 00:17:29,649 ‐ Tayshia? ‐ Hey. 423 00:17:29,649 --> 00:17:32,318 ‐ What's going on? 424 00:17:32,318 --> 00:17:33,619 ‐ You all right? 425 00:17:33,619 --> 00:17:35,488 ‐ We need to talk. 426 00:17:35,488 --> 00:17:37,256 ‐ Of course. 427 00:17:37,256 --> 00:17:42,461 ♪ ♪ 428 00:17:42,461 --> 00:17:45,298 ‐ [sighs] 429 00:17:45,298 --> 00:17:46,699 [sniffles] 430 00:17:46,699 --> 00:17:48,734 ‐ The last thing I certainly expected 431 00:17:48,734 --> 00:17:51,637 was to see Tayshia walk in, 432 00:17:51,637 --> 00:17:54,173 and she was very emotional. 433 00:17:54,173 --> 00:17:55,641 ♪ ♪ 434 00:17:55,641 --> 00:17:58,544 ‐ Blake's not with her, so she sent him home. 435 00:17:58,544 --> 00:18:01,314 And I can tell it was a tough day. 436 00:18:01,314 --> 00:18:02,582 It shows all of us that, 437 00:18:02,582 --> 00:18:04,450 you know, she's taking this very seriously. 438 00:18:07,453 --> 00:18:09,455 ‐ [sobs] 439 00:18:09,455 --> 00:18:13,492 Oh, my God, this is so hard. 440 00:18:13,492 --> 00:18:15,761 Oh, my God. [sobbing] 441 00:18:15,761 --> 00:18:18,464 ‐ Tayshia, it's all right. 442 00:18:20,433 --> 00:18:22,702 ‐ [inhales] 443 00:18:22,702 --> 00:18:24,537 [whispering] Oh, my God. 444 00:18:26,639 --> 00:18:29,442 [sniffles] 445 00:18:29,442 --> 00:18:31,544 So... 446 00:18:31,544 --> 00:18:34,347 You guys, I'm really trying. 447 00:18:37,583 --> 00:18:40,753 Thank you. [sniffles] 448 00:18:40,753 --> 00:18:45,458 This is really hard. 449 00:18:45,458 --> 00:18:46,759 [whispering] Oh, my God. 450 00:18:46,759 --> 00:18:48,861 I don't know what I'm doing. 451 00:18:48,861 --> 00:18:52,465 [normally] Um, so... 452 00:18:55,668 --> 00:18:58,704 I sent Blake home earlier, 453 00:18:58,704 --> 00:19:03,142 because our relationship, it just wasn't... 454 00:19:04,644 --> 00:19:09,382 Wasn't where we thought it needed to be. 455 00:19:09,382 --> 00:19:10,516 It's a lot, you guys. 456 00:19:10,516 --> 00:19:13,285 I care about every single one of you 457 00:19:13,285 --> 00:19:14,120 so much. 458 00:19:14,120 --> 00:19:17,957 And I've been asking a lot of you guys since I got here. 459 00:19:17,957 --> 00:19:21,661 I appreciate it more than you guys realize, 460 00:19:21,661 --> 00:19:26,432 and this is really, really hard... 461 00:19:27,633 --> 00:19:30,536 Because I don't wanna hurt anyone. 462 00:19:30,536 --> 00:19:34,073 ♪ ♪ 463 00:19:34,073 --> 00:19:36,742 [whispering] Oh, my God, I am, like, shaking. 464 00:19:36,742 --> 00:19:41,514 ♪ ♪ 465 00:19:41,514 --> 00:19:43,616 Riley, can we go talk? 466 00:19:43,616 --> 00:19:45,718 ‐ Sure. 467 00:19:45,718 --> 00:19:51,557 ♪ ♪ 468 00:19:51,557 --> 00:19:53,426 ‐ You ready? 469 00:20:01,867 --> 00:20:04,036 ‐ I don't know what's going on. I have no idea. 470 00:20:04,036 --> 00:20:06,706 ‐ He could come back smiling. She could come back smiling. 471 00:20:06,706 --> 00:20:07,907 ‐ She could be going to get him a rose. 472 00:20:07,907 --> 00:20:09,141 ‐ She reached out for his hand, 473 00:20:09,141 --> 00:20:10,976 but I'm wondering if it's kinda the same situation... 474 00:20:10,976 --> 00:20:12,611 ‐ Comfort before. ‐ Who knows? 475 00:20:12,611 --> 00:20:14,547 Who knows what's about to happen? 476 00:20:14,547 --> 00:20:16,348 ‐ We'll find out. 477 00:20:16,348 --> 00:20:19,885 ♪ ♪ 478 00:20:19,885 --> 00:20:22,288 ‐ [exhales] 479 00:20:23,756 --> 00:20:27,460 ‐ What's going on? What's up? 480 00:20:27,460 --> 00:20:29,395 ‐ [sighs] 481 00:20:31,630 --> 00:20:34,767 Um... 482 00:20:34,767 --> 00:20:37,103 I feel like since day one, 483 00:20:37,103 --> 00:20:41,707 you have probably grown the most of everyone, 484 00:20:41,707 --> 00:20:43,743 in the sense of, like, I feel like 485 00:20:43,743 --> 00:20:46,645 now I'm seeing Riley, you know? 486 00:20:46,645 --> 00:20:48,714 I feel like you being vulnerable 487 00:20:48,714 --> 00:20:50,783 and open with someone is not something 488 00:20:50,783 --> 00:20:53,085 that comes around very often. 489 00:20:53,085 --> 00:20:56,655 But you doing that with me means a lot. 490 00:20:56,655 --> 00:20:58,591 ‐ Yeah. Sure. 491 00:21:01,961 --> 00:21:05,765 ‐ Today it hit me, like, the realization of, 492 00:21:05,765 --> 00:21:07,800 Hometowns are next week, 493 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:11,070 and I know how much family means to you, 494 00:21:11,070 --> 00:21:15,975 and I don't even wanna put you in that position... 495 00:21:15,975 --> 00:21:20,813 if my heart is not 100% matching yours. 496 00:21:20,813 --> 00:21:21,847 ‐ Oh. 497 00:21:21,847 --> 00:21:23,716 ‐ Because I don't want to hurt you. 498 00:21:23,716 --> 00:21:25,718 ‐ I see. ‐ And I know how much 499 00:21:25,718 --> 00:21:28,087 you are protective over that 500 00:21:28,087 --> 00:21:30,489 and your heart and everything. 501 00:21:30,489 --> 00:21:30,990 ‐ God. 502 00:21:30,990 --> 00:21:33,959 ‐ And I don't want... 503 00:21:33,959 --> 00:21:36,595 to lead you on. 504 00:21:36,595 --> 00:21:37,797 I'm sorry. 505 00:21:37,797 --> 00:21:39,064 ‐ How? Like, I don't get it. 506 00:21:39,064 --> 00:21:41,066 I don't‐‐what am I missing? What am I missing? 507 00:21:41,066 --> 00:21:44,537 ‐ To be honest with you, Riley, I feel so comforted by you, 508 00:21:44,537 --> 00:21:45,971 I feel safe with you, 509 00:21:45,971 --> 00:21:48,007 I feel like I can talk to you, 510 00:21:48,007 --> 00:21:49,875 and I appreciate you so much, 511 00:21:49,875 --> 00:21:54,713 and I can't help... 512 00:21:54,713 --> 00:21:57,883 [sighs] Where my heart is right now. 513 00:21:57,883 --> 00:21:59,919 ‐ Okay, why keep me around so long? 514 00:21:59,919 --> 00:22:02,855 Why... 515 00:22:02,855 --> 00:22:05,724 I...um... 516 00:22:05,724 --> 00:22:07,726 yeah, why keep me around so long? 517 00:22:07,726 --> 00:22:11,664 Why not just let me just... 518 00:22:11,664 --> 00:22:12,865 be? 519 00:22:12,865 --> 00:22:14,733 ‐ I felt like we did‐‐ 520 00:22:14,733 --> 00:22:16,869 we were finally breaking through 521 00:22:16,869 --> 00:22:19,205 these last couple of conversations that we've had, 522 00:22:19,205 --> 00:22:23,876 but that also started coming, like, a little bit later 523 00:22:23,876 --> 00:22:25,711 when you started feeling able to, like, 524 00:22:25,711 --> 00:22:27,613 open up and be vulnerable with me. 525 00:22:27,613 --> 00:22:28,347 ‐ I‐‐ 526 00:22:28,347 --> 00:22:32,117 ‐ I really, truly care about you, and I want you to find 527 00:22:32,117 --> 00:22:34,920 that person that makes your heart sing so loud, 528 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:36,388 and I need you to continue to be vulnerable, 529 00:22:36,388 --> 00:22:39,859 because this guy that I've seen these last couple of weeks 530 00:22:39,859 --> 00:22:41,861 is incredible. 531 00:22:41,861 --> 00:22:43,128 ‐ I get it. No, I do. I do. 532 00:22:43,128 --> 00:22:47,032 I think I can argue all day, 533 00:22:47,032 --> 00:22:50,803 but in the end, it doesn't matter, 534 00:22:50,803 --> 00:22:53,873 because the end result is the same. 535 00:22:53,873 --> 00:22:58,043 So the longer I sit here, 536 00:22:58,043 --> 00:23:02,181 the longer I look at you, the longer... 537 00:23:02,181 --> 00:23:07,820 I hear you talk, see you smile... 538 00:23:07,820 --> 00:23:10,623 the more pain I feel. 539 00:23:10,623 --> 00:23:14,727 And so, I‐‐I get it. 540 00:23:14,727 --> 00:23:15,961 I'm not saying 541 00:23:15,961 --> 00:23:17,997 that I'm gonna close myself off or something like that. 542 00:23:17,997 --> 00:23:19,665 That's not who I am. That's not what I do. 543 00:23:19,665 --> 00:23:21,800 It just takes time... 544 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,670 ‐ I understand. ‐ Which... 545 00:23:24,670 --> 00:23:26,705 I'm out of. 546 00:23:26,705 --> 00:23:30,676 So...wow. 547 00:23:30,676 --> 00:23:32,912 I'm gonna go now. ‐ Kay. 548 00:23:32,912 --> 00:23:35,915 [somber music] 549 00:23:35,915 --> 00:23:40,586 ♪ ♪ 550 00:23:40,586 --> 00:23:41,854 I'm sorry. 551 00:23:41,854 --> 00:23:47,860 ♪ ♪ 552 00:23:47,860 --> 00:23:49,662 [sobs] 553 00:23:51,830 --> 00:23:53,866 [softly] Let me walk with you. 554 00:23:55,768 --> 00:23:58,003 ‐ Riley's not coming back in. 555 00:23:58,003 --> 00:24:00,272 ‐ No, they're walking out. 556 00:24:00,272 --> 00:24:03,042 ‐ I can't imagine what she's going through. 557 00:24:03,042 --> 00:24:05,044 It's obviously really hard. 558 00:24:05,044 --> 00:24:07,880 ‐ It reiterates to us, like, how‐‐ 559 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:09,081 how invested she is. 560 00:24:09,081 --> 00:24:11,583 ‐ It's tough. 561 00:24:12,985 --> 00:24:14,787 ‐ I didn't have a lot of time 562 00:24:14,787 --> 00:24:18,757 to tell Tayshia 563 00:24:18,757 --> 00:24:21,860 how I truly felt. 564 00:24:21,860 --> 00:24:24,263 I would tell her how beautiful she is, 565 00:24:24,263 --> 00:24:28,300 how strong she is, how confident she is. 566 00:24:28,300 --> 00:24:32,705 I would tell her that she was... 567 00:24:32,705 --> 00:24:35,741 that she is someone 568 00:24:35,741 --> 00:24:39,144 that I could see myself 569 00:24:39,144 --> 00:24:42,014 spending the rest of my life with. 570 00:24:42,014 --> 00:24:44,049 I mean, at the end of the day, 571 00:24:44,049 --> 00:24:45,884 I felt like and I still feel like 572 00:24:45,884 --> 00:24:47,119 Tayshia's the one for me. 573 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,154 This is your journey, 574 00:24:49,154 --> 00:24:51,790 and I am happy to have met you. 575 00:24:51,790 --> 00:24:53,659 I don't regret that at all. 576 00:24:53,659 --> 00:25:00,666 ♪ ♪ 577 00:25:01,133 --> 00:25:04,737 ‐ [whispering] Bye, Riley. 578 00:25:04,737 --> 00:25:05,904 ‐ See you later. 579 00:25:05,904 --> 00:25:10,109 ♪ ♪ 580 00:25:10,109 --> 00:25:12,277 ‐ [sobs] [engine turns over] 581 00:25:12,277 --> 00:25:15,981 [whispering] This is not fun. Oh, my God. 582 00:25:15,981 --> 00:25:19,418 [sobbing] 583 00:25:19,418 --> 00:25:21,887 I feel like I let him down in some ways. 584 00:25:21,887 --> 00:25:24,123 I feel like I... 585 00:25:24,123 --> 00:25:26,025 I feel like I really hurt him. 586 00:25:26,025 --> 00:25:29,061 [sobbing] No. 587 00:25:29,061 --> 00:25:31,163 And I was‐‐which I was trying to avoid, 588 00:25:31,163 --> 00:25:32,331 and that's why I tried‐‐ I kept reassuring him, 589 00:25:32,331 --> 00:25:34,800 and I didn't know what else to do. 590 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,836 ♪ ♪ 591 00:25:37,836 --> 00:25:39,738 [whispering] I'm so sorry. 592 00:25:39,738 --> 00:25:42,174 [sobbing] 593 00:25:42,174 --> 00:25:44,777 Okay, I'm sorry! 594 00:25:44,777 --> 00:25:46,779 Oh, my God! 595 00:25:46,779 --> 00:25:50,883 ♪ ♪ 596 00:25:50,883 --> 00:25:54,920 [sobbing] 597 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:58,757 I feel so bad. 598 00:25:58,757 --> 00:26:00,926 It hurts. 599 00:26:10,035 --> 00:26:13,038 [dramatic music] 600 00:26:13,038 --> 00:26:16,241 ♪ ♪ 601 00:26:16,241 --> 00:26:18,077 ‐ Heading into the Rose Ceremony, 602 00:26:18,077 --> 00:26:21,213 things are getting really, really serious. 603 00:26:21,213 --> 00:26:24,149 Tayshia's sending guys home left and right. 604 00:26:24,149 --> 00:26:25,417 You know, Ben is already locked in 605 00:26:25,417 --> 00:26:27,286 for Tayshia to meet his family. 606 00:26:27,286 --> 00:26:29,021 There's four of us remaining 607 00:26:29,021 --> 00:26:32,224 with three roses available for Hometowns. 608 00:26:32,224 --> 00:26:35,094 I'm questioning my confidence going into this. 609 00:26:35,094 --> 00:26:38,931 It's scary at this point. 610 00:26:38,931 --> 00:26:40,232 ‐ Anything can happen. 611 00:26:40,232 --> 00:26:42,134 I know that. 612 00:26:42,134 --> 00:26:44,436 Who really knows? I don't. 613 00:26:44,436 --> 00:26:47,272 We started with 20 guys. We're down to five. 614 00:26:47,272 --> 00:26:50,609 At the end of the day, she chose everyone here, 615 00:26:50,609 --> 00:26:55,814 and she very well could be having feelings for many guys. 616 00:26:55,814 --> 00:26:56,515 I don't know. 617 00:26:56,515 --> 00:26:59,451 I don't know what's there behind closed doors. 618 00:26:59,451 --> 00:27:01,086 If I didn't get a rose tonight, 619 00:27:01,086 --> 00:27:03,755 it would be disastrous. 620 00:27:03,755 --> 00:27:07,126 ♪ ♪ 621 00:27:07,126 --> 00:27:08,360 ‐ Tayshia's not playing around. 622 00:27:08,360 --> 00:27:09,528 She's made that clear. 623 00:27:09,528 --> 00:27:13,065 She sent two guys home last night out of nowhere. 624 00:27:13,065 --> 00:27:15,400 Tonight, I want to tell her that, 625 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,503 you know, I'm ready for marriage. 626 00:27:17,503 --> 00:27:21,140 Meeting my family would be something that solidified 627 00:27:21,140 --> 00:27:23,308 our relationship ten times. 628 00:27:23,308 --> 00:27:27,212 That rose, to me, is, yeah, a big step. 629 00:27:27,212 --> 00:27:30,415 ♪ ♪ 630 00:27:30,415 --> 00:27:33,051 ‐ It's just nuts to look around and 631 00:27:33,051 --> 00:27:37,189 know that this is where we are. 632 00:27:37,189 --> 00:27:38,757 ‐ I'm‐‐I'm a little nervous. 633 00:27:38,757 --> 00:27:41,560 ‐ It's a big, important night, and I think we all know that, 634 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:45,097 looking to Hometowns and even past that. 635 00:27:45,097 --> 00:27:47,166 ‐ Yeah, it's‐‐ it would be hard to‐‐ 636 00:27:47,166 --> 00:27:49,501 a hard pill to swallow to go home. 637 00:27:49,501 --> 00:27:51,870 For me personally, it would be devastating. 638 00:27:51,870 --> 00:27:52,671 It really would. 639 00:27:52,671 --> 00:27:56,108 I'm extremely nervous about what the future could hold. 640 00:27:56,108 --> 00:27:58,877 [door opens] 641 00:27:58,877 --> 00:28:02,981 ♪ ♪ 642 00:28:02,981 --> 00:28:04,416 ‐ How are you? Good to see you. 643 00:28:04,416 --> 00:28:07,052 You guys look like you've seen a ghost. 644 00:28:07,052 --> 00:28:08,187 How's it going? How's it going? 645 00:28:08,187 --> 00:28:10,088 ‐ Bennett's here. 646 00:28:10,088 --> 00:28:11,924 He's here. 647 00:28:11,924 --> 00:28:13,225 ‐ Let's take a seat. 648 00:28:13,225 --> 00:28:14,660 I'll explain. 649 00:28:14,660 --> 00:28:17,162 ‐ I'm not gonna jump up and give him a fist pound 650 00:28:17,162 --> 00:28:18,397 and say, "Welcome back." 651 00:28:18,397 --> 00:28:21,266 ‐ How much did you guys hate on me while I was gone? 652 00:28:21,266 --> 00:28:23,368 ‐ What are you putting your hand on me for? 653 00:28:23,368 --> 00:28:26,104 My sincere hope is that this week, 654 00:28:26,104 --> 00:28:28,407 Tayshia Adams is meeting the Clarks. 655 00:28:28,407 --> 00:28:30,175 And now I don't know. 656 00:28:30,175 --> 00:28:31,276 Why is he still here? 657 00:28:31,276 --> 00:28:34,213 I can't even picture what it means. 658 00:28:34,213 --> 00:28:35,447 I don't get the sense 659 00:28:35,447 --> 00:28:38,383 she's just kinda playing around here. 660 00:28:38,383 --> 00:28:41,987 So you never left, obviously. 661 00:28:41,987 --> 00:28:42,621 ‐ Sort of started 662 00:28:42,621 --> 00:28:45,224 with this really strange, bizarre walk out of here. 663 00:28:45,224 --> 00:28:47,259 I had a really emotional time, 664 00:28:47,259 --> 00:28:48,460 ultimately coming to the conclusion 665 00:28:48,460 --> 00:28:50,229 that I was gonna be written off 666 00:28:50,229 --> 00:28:52,197 as this, you know, Harvard D‐bag 667 00:28:52,197 --> 00:28:53,732 that I certainly am not. 668 00:28:53,732 --> 00:28:55,601 I felt like there was a lot of unfinished business, 669 00:28:55,601 --> 00:28:59,171 to say the least, so went to see Tayshia 670 00:28:59,171 --> 00:29:02,107 and told her I loved her. 671 00:29:02,107 --> 00:29:03,342 And, you know, the following day, 672 00:29:03,342 --> 00:29:04,376 I received a note, 673 00:29:04,376 --> 00:29:06,211 you know, saying that my words meant a lot 674 00:29:06,211 --> 00:29:08,981 and she'd like to see me at the Rose Ceremony. 675 00:29:08,981 --> 00:29:10,349 So here I am. 676 00:29:10,349 --> 00:29:12,451 ‐ It's just a lot to take in that you're here right now. 677 00:29:12,451 --> 00:29:14,119 ‐ Well, she invited me, 678 00:29:14,119 --> 00:29:15,420 so, you know, I think you gotta, 679 00:29:15,420 --> 00:29:19,157 like we've always done, trust her decisions, you know? 680 00:29:19,157 --> 00:29:26,198 ♪ ♪ 681 00:29:29,134 --> 00:29:30,335 ‐ I am definitely a person 682 00:29:30,335 --> 00:29:33,372 that it takes a little bit of time to process. 683 00:29:33,372 --> 00:29:35,240 Just sometimes, either my heart gets in the way, 684 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:36,608 or my head gets in the way. 685 00:29:36,608 --> 00:29:40,245 I genuinely care about every single one of these men, 686 00:29:40,245 --> 00:29:44,316 and I want to not make a mistake. 687 00:29:44,316 --> 00:29:45,517 I've been listening to my heart 688 00:29:45,517 --> 00:29:47,686 and just kind of reflecting all day today 689 00:29:47,686 --> 00:29:51,256 and knowing where I stand with everyone. 690 00:29:51,256 --> 00:29:54,393 I feel like I got so much clarity, 691 00:29:54,393 --> 00:29:56,561 and instead of trying to dance around it 692 00:29:56,561 --> 00:29:58,697 and trying to figure out if I can, 693 00:29:58,697 --> 00:30:03,368 it's better just to be, like, honest with them. 694 00:30:03,368 --> 00:30:05,370 I think I know what I have to do tonight. 695 00:30:05,370 --> 00:30:08,206 ♪ ♪ 696 00:30:08,206 --> 00:30:11,109 ‐ [exhales] 697 00:30:11,109 --> 00:30:12,844 [door opens] 698 00:30:15,180 --> 00:30:16,348 ‐ Hey, guys. ‐ Welcome back, Chris. 699 00:30:16,348 --> 00:30:17,482 ‐ Hello. ‐ Hey, thanks. 700 00:30:17,482 --> 00:30:19,518 Good to see you guys again. ‐ Nice to see you. 701 00:30:19,518 --> 00:30:20,719 ‐ I'm glad to be back. 702 00:30:20,719 --> 00:30:23,422 Probably not so glad to see me right now. 703 00:30:23,422 --> 00:30:26,058 I know you guys were expecting to see Tayshia tonight. 704 00:30:26,058 --> 00:30:27,392 I talked to her. 705 00:30:27,392 --> 00:30:30,262 She is very clear what's on the line 706 00:30:30,262 --> 00:30:32,264 on hometown dates this week. 707 00:30:32,264 --> 00:30:33,498 She also told me that she knows 708 00:30:33,498 --> 00:30:36,234 exactly what she wants to do tonight. 709 00:30:36,234 --> 00:30:37,469 And she thought 710 00:30:37,469 --> 00:30:40,439 a cocktail party tonight would just delay the inevitable, 711 00:30:40,439 --> 00:30:42,274 so her decision? 712 00:30:42,274 --> 00:30:44,376 We're gonna go straight to Rose Ceremony. 713 00:30:44,376 --> 00:30:45,477 It's good to see you again. 714 00:30:45,477 --> 00:30:47,546 I'm sorry it's under these circumstances. 715 00:30:47,546 --> 00:30:49,414 But I'll see you guys at the Rose Ceremony. 716 00:30:49,414 --> 00:30:51,450 Night, fellas. ‐ Bye, Chris. 717 00:30:51,450 --> 00:30:53,518 ‐ See you. 718 00:30:53,518 --> 00:30:56,455 ‐ What can I say? 719 00:30:56,455 --> 00:30:59,124 She's making the decisions that she feels best for her 720 00:30:59,124 --> 00:31:00,592 to find love. 721 00:31:00,592 --> 00:31:04,529 I'm hoping that I get a rose. 722 00:31:04,529 --> 00:31:05,630 ‐ If she's got her mind made up, 723 00:31:05,630 --> 00:31:06,698 I respect that as well. 724 00:31:06,698 --> 00:31:09,167 You know, no need to have a cocktail party 725 00:31:09,167 --> 00:31:10,235 with your mind made up. 726 00:31:10,235 --> 00:31:12,504 ‐ I mean, yeah, it's her decision. 727 00:31:12,504 --> 00:31:15,707 Unfortunate's the word. That's what I'ma stick with. 728 00:31:15,707 --> 00:31:17,442 ‐ There's some great guys in there, 729 00:31:17,442 --> 00:31:20,345 and, you know, the competition is fierce, 730 00:31:20,345 --> 00:31:23,448 but still, I'm feeling like this is a lock. 731 00:31:23,448 --> 00:31:24,649 I don't think she would invite me 732 00:31:24,649 --> 00:31:28,153 if she doesn't, you know, have serious feelings for me. 733 00:31:28,153 --> 00:31:29,421 ‐ I respect the decision. 734 00:31:29,421 --> 00:31:32,190 Two guys are going home. 735 00:31:32,190 --> 00:31:33,492 ‐ Let's go. 736 00:31:33,492 --> 00:31:35,394 ‐ [exhales] 737 00:31:35,394 --> 00:31:40,232 ♪ ♪ 738 00:31:42,134 --> 00:31:45,137 [dramatic music] 739 00:31:45,137 --> 00:31:51,576 ♪ ♪ 740 00:31:51,576 --> 00:31:53,545 ‐ Shocked. I'm shocked. 741 00:31:53,545 --> 00:31:54,813 No cocktail party. 742 00:31:54,813 --> 00:31:56,882 Tayshia said she already had her mind made up 743 00:31:56,882 --> 00:31:59,584 and that we're going straight to the Rose Ceremony, 744 00:31:59,584 --> 00:32:01,820 and it's just crazy, but Bennett is back, 745 00:32:01,820 --> 00:32:04,723 so now there's six guys left, only four hometown dates, 746 00:32:04,723 --> 00:32:06,491 so two of us will be going home. 747 00:32:06,491 --> 00:32:08,427 I was ready to see my family next week 748 00:32:08,427 --> 00:32:09,561 and have them meet Tayshia, 749 00:32:09,561 --> 00:32:12,164 but I'm also realizing this could be the end. 750 00:32:13,865 --> 00:32:16,668 ‐ If I go home tonight, it would be terrible. 751 00:32:16,668 --> 00:32:18,804 Hometowns is gonna be amazing, and I could really show her 752 00:32:18,804 --> 00:32:20,772 that, you know, I'm ready for marriage. 753 00:32:20,772 --> 00:32:22,774 It'd just be a shame that I got stifled 754 00:32:22,774 --> 00:32:26,378 by some narcissistic Harvard D‐bag. 755 00:32:27,813 --> 00:32:30,382 ‐ I'm feeling very confident and optimistic. 756 00:32:30,382 --> 00:32:31,683 When Tayshia said, "Please come 757 00:32:31,683 --> 00:32:33,452 to the cocktail party tonight," 758 00:32:33,452 --> 00:32:34,853 I sort of got a good, uplifting feeling, 759 00:32:34,853 --> 00:32:37,722 and I felt, you know, this is going to continue. 760 00:32:37,722 --> 00:32:39,758 You know, I'm just very, very excited 761 00:32:39,758 --> 00:32:41,593 to kinda get through this evening 762 00:32:41,593 --> 00:32:45,030 and continue my journey with Tayshia. 763 00:32:49,534 --> 00:32:52,370 ‐ Hey. 764 00:32:52,370 --> 00:32:54,406 [exhales] 765 00:32:54,406 --> 00:32:58,410 This week has... 766 00:32:58,410 --> 00:32:59,811 been the most difficult yet. 767 00:32:59,811 --> 00:33:04,516 It's truly been really hard to process through everything, 768 00:33:04,516 --> 00:33:07,586 but I feel it's getting me 769 00:33:07,586 --> 00:33:10,722 to exactly where I wanna be at the end of all of this. 770 00:33:10,722 --> 00:33:14,426 I just wanna say, like, I really appreciate 771 00:33:14,426 --> 00:33:15,760 some of you really stepping up 772 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,697 and showing me the depths of your heart this week, 773 00:33:18,697 --> 00:33:21,666 because it's changed everything for me. 774 00:33:21,666 --> 00:33:25,837 But I will say that I am extremely confident 775 00:33:25,837 --> 00:33:29,574 in where my heart stands and my decisions tonight, 776 00:33:29,574 --> 00:33:31,776 because I know that I will be meeting your families, 777 00:33:31,776 --> 00:33:33,879 and you know that family means a lot to me, 778 00:33:33,879 --> 00:33:37,449 and I appreciate every single one of you. 779 00:33:37,449 --> 00:33:42,521 ♪ ♪ 780 00:33:42,521 --> 00:33:45,390 [tense music] 781 00:33:45,390 --> 00:33:52,163 ♪ ♪ 782 00:33:56,167 --> 00:33:57,335 Zac. 783 00:33:57,335 --> 00:34:03,441 ♪ ♪ 784 00:34:03,441 --> 00:34:05,844 Zac, will you accept this rose? 785 00:34:05,844 --> 00:34:10,248 ‐ Yes, and I cannot wait for you to meet my family. 786 00:34:10,248 --> 00:34:11,383 ‐ [chuckles] 787 00:34:11,383 --> 00:34:13,585 ‐ Cannot wait. 788 00:34:13,585 --> 00:34:21,126 ♪ ♪ 789 00:34:34,406 --> 00:34:35,540 ‐ Ivan. 790 00:34:35,540 --> 00:34:40,712 ♪ ♪ 791 00:34:40,712 --> 00:34:42,647 Ivan, will you accept this rose? 792 00:34:42,647 --> 00:34:45,750 ‐ Of course. 793 00:34:45,750 --> 00:34:47,786 ‐ We spoke at the group date and I told her 794 00:34:47,786 --> 00:34:51,723 that I'm not gonna propose if I'm not 100% ready. 795 00:34:51,723 --> 00:34:54,793 She said she understood, but I would've loved to 796 00:34:54,793 --> 00:34:56,995 have that follow‐up conversation with Tayshia, 797 00:34:56,995 --> 00:35:00,565 but then the cocktail party was canceled. 798 00:35:00,565 --> 00:35:01,600 I'm sweating. 799 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:03,535 My heart is beating through my chest. 800 00:35:03,535 --> 00:35:05,770 I hope she knows how much I want this, 801 00:35:05,770 --> 00:35:09,274 how much I want for her to meet my family. 802 00:35:09,274 --> 00:35:16,314 ♪ ♪ 803 00:35:17,282 --> 00:35:18,583 ‐ Tayshia, 804 00:35:18,583 --> 00:35:20,619 gentlemen, 805 00:35:20,619 --> 00:35:22,487 this is the final rose tonight. 806 00:35:22,487 --> 00:35:24,689 When you're ready. 807 00:35:24,689 --> 00:35:32,197 ♪ ♪ 808 00:35:44,576 --> 00:35:45,677 ‐ Brendan. 809 00:35:45,677 --> 00:35:48,680 [solemn music] 810 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:53,852 ♪ ♪ 811 00:35:53,852 --> 00:35:56,554 Brendan, will you accept this rose? 812 00:35:56,554 --> 00:35:59,624 ‐ [softly] Absolutely. 813 00:35:59,624 --> 00:36:01,459 Thank you. 814 00:36:01,459 --> 00:36:08,500 ♪ ♪ 815 00:36:11,503 --> 00:36:13,905 ‐ Bennett, Noah, I'm sorry. 816 00:36:13,905 --> 00:36:16,041 Take a moment, say your goodbyes. 817 00:36:16,041 --> 00:36:18,376 ‐ See you, buddy. ‐ See you back at the room. 818 00:36:18,376 --> 00:36:19,744 ‐ I'm done. 819 00:36:19,744 --> 00:36:21,846 [soft indistinct chatter] 820 00:36:21,846 --> 00:36:24,616 ‐ See you, bud. ‐ See you, man. 821 00:36:24,616 --> 00:36:26,818 ‐ Thank you for opening your heart, 822 00:36:26,818 --> 00:36:28,820 showing how incredible you are. 823 00:36:28,820 --> 00:36:30,689 I truly, truly think you're amazing 824 00:36:30,689 --> 00:36:33,591 and hope that you get what you're looking for. 825 00:36:33,591 --> 00:36:35,427 ‐ Thanks. 826 00:36:35,427 --> 00:36:39,731 ♪ ♪ 827 00:36:39,731 --> 00:36:42,434 ‐ Boys, I don't need to say it. Treat her well. 828 00:36:45,403 --> 00:36:47,172 I am heartbroken. 829 00:36:47,172 --> 00:36:49,908 I mean, you know, maybe things didn't go exactly 830 00:36:49,908 --> 00:36:52,010 how I wanted, but I do care for Tayshia. 831 00:36:52,010 --> 00:36:54,746 I want what's best for her. [engine turns over] 832 00:36:54,746 --> 00:36:56,881 I will make somebody 833 00:36:56,881 --> 00:36:58,883 feel very special and very happy, 834 00:36:58,883 --> 00:37:03,588 you know, as my wife, but it wasn't Tayshia. 835 00:37:03,588 --> 00:37:05,657 That's a shame. 836 00:37:05,657 --> 00:37:07,358 So... 837 00:37:07,358 --> 00:37:09,627 ♪ ♪ 838 00:37:09,627 --> 00:37:10,662 [sniffs] 839 00:37:13,832 --> 00:37:16,701 ‐ I do wanna say, though, I appreciate you 840 00:37:16,701 --> 00:37:17,902 sharing your feelings this week. 841 00:37:17,902 --> 00:37:19,838 ‐ Yeah, of course. ‐ It means a lot. 842 00:37:19,838 --> 00:37:21,740 ‐ Like, it just wasn't me. 843 00:37:21,740 --> 00:37:23,775 ‐ I'm sorry, Bennett. 844 00:37:23,775 --> 00:37:25,777 ‐ I wish it was different. 845 00:37:25,777 --> 00:37:33,318 ♪ ♪ 846 00:37:35,854 --> 00:37:38,690 I'm feeling hurt, 847 00:37:38,690 --> 00:37:39,958 I'm feeling sad, 848 00:37:39,958 --> 00:37:43,061 but it's more confusion really. 849 00:37:43,061 --> 00:37:47,665 I mean, this was not going to end this way, 850 00:37:47,665 --> 00:37:48,900 never in a million years in my mind, 851 00:37:48,900 --> 00:37:53,304 and here we are, you know, doing this again. 852 00:37:54,706 --> 00:37:56,040 [upbeat music] 853 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,843 ‐ Guys, bring on your families. 854 00:37:58,843 --> 00:38:01,546 I'm so excited. ‐ So excited. 855 00:38:01,546 --> 00:38:03,948 ‐ [laughs] 856 00:38:03,948 --> 00:38:06,785 ‐ I love the path that Tayshia and I are on right now. 857 00:38:06,785 --> 00:38:08,920 This is awesome. This is awesome. I love it. 858 00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:11,689 ‐ What's up, Mr. Clark? 859 00:38:11,689 --> 00:38:15,059 ‐ The Clarks are gonna meet Tayshia. 860 00:38:15,059 --> 00:38:16,928 All gas, no brakes. Here we go. 861 00:38:16,928 --> 00:38:18,196 ‐ [laughs] 862 00:38:18,196 --> 00:38:20,832 You know, this week has been really difficult. 863 00:38:20,832 --> 00:38:24,702 It's hard to let men go that I truly care about. 864 00:38:24,702 --> 00:38:26,638 But it's all been worth it... 865 00:38:26,638 --> 00:38:27,739 [laughs] 866 00:38:27,739 --> 00:38:29,207 Because it gets me one step closer 867 00:38:29,207 --> 00:38:32,811 to finding true love and true happiness. 868 00:38:32,811 --> 00:38:33,978 And if you were to tell me 869 00:38:33,978 --> 00:38:36,714 that I literally just hugged my husband, and... 870 00:38:36,714 --> 00:38:37,949 [laughs] You know? 871 00:38:37,949 --> 00:38:41,486 Like, that's mind‐blowing to me. 872 00:38:41,486 --> 00:38:42,954 So bizarre. 873 00:38:42,954 --> 00:38:44,923 But in the best way possible. 874 00:38:44,923 --> 00:38:46,724 To family. 875 00:38:46,724 --> 00:38:49,894 all: To family. 876 00:38:49,894 --> 00:38:51,095 [dramatic music] 877 00:38:51,095 --> 00:38:53,198 ‐ Noah, you created this drama every step of the way. 878 00:38:53,198 --> 00:38:55,200 ‐ Personally, I think you're intimidated. 879 00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:59,204 ‐ It's a shocking Men Tell All like you've never seen before. 880 00:38:59,204 --> 00:39:01,306 ‐ Multiple guys went home that night all because of you. 881 00:39:01,306 --> 00:39:04,742 ‐ Coming from the One Direction party boy manager. 882 00:39:04,742 --> 00:39:06,344 ‐ You created all of this. 883 00:39:07,612 --> 00:39:08,213 ‐ And now... 884 00:39:08,213 --> 00:39:09,948 ‐ I personally think you're an ostentatious 885 00:39:09,948 --> 00:39:11,282 Harvard D‐bag. ‐ Yo! 886 00:39:11,282 --> 00:39:15,019 ‐ It's a shocking Men Tell All like you've never seen before. 887 00:39:15,019 --> 00:39:17,188 ‐ You stirred the [bleep] pot. ‐ You were out of line. 888 00:39:17,188 --> 00:39:19,057 ‐ Your guys' "connection" has nothing to do with me. 889 00:39:19,057 --> 00:39:20,191 ‐ That's not right. 890 00:39:20,191 --> 00:39:21,726 ‐ All of your favorite men are back. 891 00:39:21,726 --> 00:39:23,895 ‐ Boom. ‐ Bennett, Noah, Blake, 892 00:39:23,895 --> 00:39:27,999 Riley, Jason, Demar, Kenny, Ed, and Yosef. 893 00:39:27,999 --> 00:39:30,168 ‐ No woman deserves to be talked to like that. 894 00:39:30,168 --> 00:39:32,937 ‐ I'm sorry you can't express how you feel as a man. 895 00:39:32,937 --> 00:39:34,672 ‐ Shut the [bleep] up, Yosef. 896 00:39:34,672 --> 00:39:35,807 ‐ Thing's heating up. 897 00:39:35,807 --> 00:39:37,141 ‐ Wassup? 898 00:39:37,141 --> 00:39:40,945 ‐ And then, Tayshia faces the men she sent home. 899 00:39:40,945 --> 00:39:42,080 ‐ It was one of the hardest things 900 00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:43,248 I've ever been through. 901 00:39:43,248 --> 00:39:45,049 ‐ Do you stand by the decision you made? 902 00:39:45,049 --> 00:39:46,217 ‐ I think it just hit me 903 00:39:46,217 --> 00:39:48,286 that I just sent an amazing man home. 904 00:39:48,286 --> 00:39:52,857 ‐ It's the Men Tell All, and it starts right now. 905 00:39:52,857 --> 00:39:55,860 [upbeat music] 906 00:39:55,860 --> 00:40:02,634 ♪ ♪ 907 00:40:03,101 --> 00:40:04,168 Good to see you guys. 908 00:40:04,168 --> 00:40:05,937 ‐ You too. ‐ Great to see you. 909 00:40:05,937 --> 00:40:07,972 ‐ Bunch of handsome‐looking devils. 910 00:40:07,972 --> 00:40:09,040 [all chuckling] 911 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,009 All right, here we go. 912 00:40:11,009 --> 00:40:12,844 Hello, Bachelor Nation. I'm Chris Harrison. 913 00:40:12,844 --> 00:40:15,046 And welcome to one of your favorite parts 914 00:40:15,046 --> 00:40:18,116 of "The Bachelorette," the Men Tell All. 915 00:40:18,116 --> 00:40:22,186 This season has truly been like nothing we've ever seen before. 916 00:40:22,186 --> 00:40:24,789 35 men, two Bachelorettes, 917 00:40:24,789 --> 00:40:26,324 at least one proposal, 918 00:40:26,324 --> 00:40:30,028 and one unexpected dramatic turn after another. 919 00:40:30,028 --> 00:40:33,164 And now, Tayshia has chosen her final four men 920 00:40:33,164 --> 00:40:34,966 and she'll meet their families. 921 00:40:34,966 --> 00:40:37,035 But what happened to all the amazing men 922 00:40:37,035 --> 00:40:38,403 that didn't get that chance? 923 00:40:38,403 --> 00:40:41,940 Well, they're back to face Tayshia and each other 924 00:40:41,940 --> 00:40:43,942 for the very first time. 925 00:40:43,942 --> 00:40:45,343 Due to the times we're living in, 926 00:40:45,343 --> 00:40:48,947 this will be a much more intimate Men Tell All, 927 00:40:48,947 --> 00:40:51,149 a reunion show like you've never seen before. 928 00:40:51,149 --> 00:40:53,952 There is no audience, there's actually no stage, 929 00:40:53,952 --> 00:40:56,220 but we do have a lot of candles, 930 00:40:56,220 --> 00:40:58,056 and, of course, there's gonna be a lot of drama. 931 00:40:58,056 --> 00:40:59,991 So what do you say we do this? 932 00:40:59,991 --> 00:41:02,894 Let's say hello to the gentlemen. 933 00:41:02,894 --> 00:41:04,862 Fellas, good to see you again. 934 00:41:04,862 --> 00:41:06,364 I wanna start going back. 935 00:41:06,364 --> 00:41:09,100 I mean, it was a wild summer all the way around. 936 00:41:09,100 --> 00:41:11,069 We were in the middle of the desert, 937 00:41:11,069 --> 00:41:12,303 120 degree heat, 938 00:41:12,303 --> 00:41:14,872 and a bunch of great guys that were fighting over 939 00:41:14,872 --> 00:41:16,341 what would turned out to be two women. 940 00:41:16,341 --> 00:41:18,910 So yeah, there was bound to be a little bit of drama. 941 00:41:18,910 --> 00:41:20,078 Let's take a look. 942 00:41:20,078 --> 00:41:23,081 [sweeping music] 943 00:41:23,081 --> 00:41:24,682 ♪ ♪ 944 00:41:24,682 --> 00:41:25,850 ‐ Oh, my goodness. 945 00:41:25,850 --> 00:41:27,185 ‐ [laughs] 946 00:41:27,185 --> 00:41:29,053 Hey. ‐ Well, hello! 947 00:41:29,053 --> 00:41:31,089 ‐ She's beautiful. ‐ Hi, guys. 948 00:41:31,089 --> 00:41:32,991 ‐ She's stunning. She's gorgeous. 949 00:41:32,991 --> 00:41:35,693 ‐ I'm Tayshia. Nice to meet you. 950 00:41:35,693 --> 00:41:38,029 ‐ Clare who? 951 00:41:38,029 --> 00:41:39,464 ‐ We have a new Bachelorette, Tayshia. 952 00:41:39,464 --> 00:41:43,101 It's gonna stir a lot of chaos in the house, trust me. 953 00:41:43,101 --> 00:41:47,005 [all shouting and cheering] 954 00:41:47,005 --> 00:41:49,273 ‐ It felt like a death match. all: Oh! 955 00:41:49,273 --> 00:41:51,342 ‐ This is battle. I'm ready to fight somebody. 956 00:41:51,342 --> 00:41:53,177 ‐ Oh, my God, that's a lot of blood. 957 00:41:53,177 --> 00:41:55,113 ‐ We call you Lunch Meat. 958 00:41:55,113 --> 00:41:57,348 If you wanna [bleep] with me, you can go. 959 00:41:57,348 --> 00:41:59,183 ‐ Stop jibber‐jabbing your [bleep] mouth. 960 00:41:59,183 --> 00:42:00,318 ‐ Sit the [bleep] down. 961 00:42:00,318 --> 00:42:02,220 You're gonna stand over me like a boy? 962 00:42:02,220 --> 00:42:04,055 ‐ On my new word, she's a smoke show. 963 00:42:04,055 --> 00:42:05,189 ‐ [laughs] ‐ Tayshia's a smoke show. 964 00:42:05,189 --> 00:42:06,424 [laughter] 965 00:42:06,424 --> 00:42:08,259 ‐ I think everyone's all fired up at this point. 966 00:42:08,259 --> 00:42:10,261 I mean, we got Noah and Bennett battling it out. 967 00:42:10,261 --> 00:42:12,830 ‐ The behaviors that I have seen out of you 968 00:42:12,830 --> 00:42:14,165 have been juvenile. 969 00:42:14,165 --> 00:42:16,034 ‐ You come from this place of privilege 970 00:42:16,034 --> 00:42:18,336 and superiority when you talk down to people. 971 00:42:18,336 --> 00:42:20,972 ‐ Like when you asked me how to spell privilege today? 972 00:42:20,972 --> 00:42:22,340 Is that a snarky comment? 973 00:42:22,340 --> 00:42:25,143 ‐ I think Bennett is intimidated a little bit 974 00:42:25,143 --> 00:42:27,111 by the young, cocky 25 year old, 975 00:42:27,111 --> 00:42:28,413 but I'm not changing. 976 00:42:28,413 --> 00:42:31,049 If anything, I'm gonna take it up a notch. 977 00:42:31,049 --> 00:42:33,017 It's kinda been implied that you gave me the rose 978 00:42:33,017 --> 00:42:35,119 just to kinda shake things up. 979 00:42:35,119 --> 00:42:36,354 ‐ Like, that's my intention? 980 00:42:36,354 --> 00:42:38,089 ‐ Kinda whispers. ‐ And this is everyone? 981 00:42:38,089 --> 00:42:40,124 ‐ [bleep] Noah! 982 00:42:40,124 --> 00:42:41,359 [bleep] that guy! 983 00:42:41,359 --> 00:42:46,030 ‐ There is 0% chance that you end up with Tayshia. 984 00:42:46,030 --> 00:42:47,265 Everyone here knows it. 985 00:42:47,265 --> 00:42:48,466 She will know it very soon. 986 00:42:48,466 --> 00:42:51,002 I'm sorry to be the one that tells you the truth. 987 00:42:51,002 --> 00:42:52,236 [dramatic music] 988 00:42:52,236 --> 00:42:55,473 I'm not here to coach or to parent or to mentor. 989 00:42:55,473 --> 00:42:59,911 I'm here for love, not for breastfeeding Noah. 990 00:42:59,911 --> 00:43:01,079 ‐ Is that a war gift, or‐‐ 991 00:43:01,079 --> 00:43:02,947 ‐ It's more of a gentlemanly gift, 992 00:43:02,947 --> 00:43:04,148 I think, but I think‐‐ 993 00:43:04,148 --> 00:43:06,217 ‐ I'll let you go on with this if you'll let me respond. 994 00:43:06,217 --> 00:43:08,219 ‐ Sure. ‐ I'll let you say your piece. 995 00:43:08,219 --> 00:43:10,054 With your fake gifts. 996 00:43:10,054 --> 00:43:13,057 ‐ There are actually four components 997 00:43:13,057 --> 00:43:14,258 of emotional intelligence. 998 00:43:14,258 --> 00:43:17,128 You are deficient in three of those four. 999 00:43:17,128 --> 00:43:18,296 ‐ Bennett is the problem. 1000 00:43:18,296 --> 00:43:19,464 It's just his actions 1001 00:43:19,464 --> 00:43:21,099 and how he treats and talks to people. 1002 00:43:21,099 --> 00:43:22,266 Harvard's gonna regret 1003 00:43:22,266 --> 00:43:24,102 the day that they gave Bennett a diploma. 1004 00:43:24,102 --> 00:43:27,138 Anyone that's in that realm that he's in, 1005 00:43:27,138 --> 00:43:28,306 everybody looks bad, 1006 00:43:28,306 --> 00:43:32,510 'cause he's acting like a pretentious [bleep]. 1007 00:43:32,510 --> 00:43:35,213 ‐ Pretty intense there in the desert this summer. 1008 00:43:35,213 --> 00:43:36,314 ‐ Oh, hey. ‐ Thing's heating up. 1009 00:43:36,314 --> 00:43:38,516 ‐ Noah and Bennett, a lot to talk about, 1010 00:43:38,516 --> 00:43:41,252 and we'll dive into all of it, but before we get to it, 1011 00:43:41,252 --> 00:43:44,255 Ed, what was it about Chasen 1012 00:43:44,255 --> 00:43:46,224 that just drove you crazy? 1013 00:43:46,224 --> 00:43:48,126 ‐ I mean, I think the better question, Chris, is, 1014 00:43:48,126 --> 00:43:50,094 what didn't drive me crazy about Chasen? 1015 00:43:50,094 --> 00:43:51,429 I mean, from the monotonous voice 1016 00:43:51,429 --> 00:43:54,599 to the idiotic comments from him constantly. 1017 00:43:54,599 --> 00:43:56,567 He had his feelings for Clare and he had a right to have them 1018 00:43:56,567 --> 00:43:59,170 and I can't challenge those, but when I hear him 1019 00:43:59,170 --> 00:44:01,506 use the same exact verbiage and adjectives 1020 00:44:01,506 --> 00:44:03,674 to describe two completely different women, 1021 00:44:03,674 --> 00:44:06,344 it really draws your attention to why the hell are you here? 1022 00:44:06,344 --> 00:44:08,479 We all came out here to find love, 1023 00:44:08,479 --> 00:44:10,448 and Chasen came out with the intention 1024 00:44:10,448 --> 00:44:12,450 to find likes and social media gratification. 1025 00:44:12,450 --> 00:44:14,418 ‐ Wait, Ed, I got a question for you quick. 1026 00:44:14,418 --> 00:44:16,587 ‐ Yeah. ‐ So with Chasen, right? 1027 00:44:16,587 --> 00:44:19,290 He had the same adjectives or whatever you wanna say 1028 00:44:19,290 --> 00:44:21,392 for beautiful for Clare and beautiful for Tayshia. 1029 00:44:21,392 --> 00:44:22,426 ‐ No, no, the beautiful's not‐‐ 1030 00:44:22,426 --> 00:44:23,928 that's not one of the adjectives 1031 00:44:23,928 --> 00:44:24,629 we're talking about. 1032 00:44:24,629 --> 00:44:26,464 He thought that was, so he came up with smoke show. 1033 00:44:26,464 --> 00:44:27,565 It is the verbiage that he used 1034 00:44:27,565 --> 00:44:29,267 to describe his connection with them. 1035 00:44:29,267 --> 00:44:31,369 "I've never felt something like‐‐this is so magical." 1036 00:44:31,369 --> 00:44:33,004 ‐ But then what if that was genuine for him? 1037 00:44:33,004 --> 00:44:34,272 Who are you to say that for him? 1038 00:44:34,272 --> 00:44:36,107 ‐ So you're telling me he had the most magical connection 1039 00:44:36,107 --> 00:44:37,441 one week, and the next week... 1040 00:44:37,441 --> 00:44:38,442 ‐ It's possible. ‐ 30 seconds in, 1041 00:44:38,442 --> 00:44:40,144 he had the most‐‐ ‐ It's possible. 1042 00:44:40,144 --> 00:44:41,379 It's possible. ‐ He's the three Fs. 1043 00:44:41,379 --> 00:44:43,581 He's a fraud, fake, and phony, 1044 00:44:43,581 --> 00:44:46,217 and phony has a P‐H, but he's too dumb to know that. 1045 00:44:46,217 --> 00:44:47,385 [laughter] ‐ See, look‐‐ 1046 00:44:47,385 --> 00:44:48,486 ‐ So we're gonna go with that. 1047 00:44:48,486 --> 00:44:50,021 ‐ I honestly don't believe that‐‐ 1048 00:44:50,021 --> 00:44:50,555 ‐ And he's a terrible actor. 1049 00:44:50,555 --> 00:44:52,156 ‐ Because for me, I didn't see that. 1050 00:44:52,156 --> 00:44:53,191 I was around Chasen a good amount as well. 1051 00:44:53,191 --> 00:44:54,392 For me, he was trying 1052 00:44:54,392 --> 00:44:55,593 to form his relationships with these people, 1053 00:44:55,593 --> 00:44:57,528 where I feel like, Ed, when it came down to it, 1054 00:44:57,528 --> 00:44:59,263 I feel like you talked more about Chasen 1055 00:44:59,263 --> 00:45:01,232 than you did about Clare, than you did about Tayshia. 1056 00:45:01,232 --> 00:45:02,233 That's not right. 1057 00:45:02,233 --> 00:45:03,367 ‐ No, I think Ed's point, 1058 00:45:03,367 --> 00:45:05,102 it was a competition, we all know that. 1059 00:45:05,102 --> 00:45:06,604 ‐ That's fine. ‐ And Ed was frustrated 1060 00:45:06,604 --> 00:45:09,473 hearing all of this from Chasen about himself, 1061 00:45:09,473 --> 00:45:11,509 and when it was, clearly, we were there, 1062 00:45:11,509 --> 00:45:13,477 focused very much on our relationships 1063 00:45:13,477 --> 00:45:15,546 and trying to forward those on a daily basis. 1064 00:45:15,546 --> 00:45:20,484 ‐ Okay, so the other big part of that was 1065 00:45:20,484 --> 00:45:23,254 the feud between Noah and Bennett. 1066 00:45:23,254 --> 00:45:24,322 ‐ [laughs] 1067 00:45:24,322 --> 00:45:26,390 ‐ What was it between you two, Noah, 1068 00:45:26,390 --> 00:45:29,060 that you just did not get along? 1069 00:45:29,060 --> 00:45:30,361 ‐ I don't think there‐‐ 1070 00:45:30,361 --> 00:45:32,563 like, I couldn't give you a reason 1071 00:45:32,563 --> 00:45:35,299 why Bennett disliked me from the second I showed up. 1072 00:45:35,299 --> 00:45:36,534 ‐ [scoffs] ‐ That's not my problem. 1073 00:45:36,534 --> 00:45:39,003 His insecurities, I don't have any control of. 1074 00:45:39,003 --> 00:45:40,471 ‐ Pfft. ‐ Okay? 1075 00:45:40,471 --> 00:45:42,573 Personally, I think he was intimidated. 1076 00:45:42,573 --> 00:45:46,210 He has this prestige where Tayshia would not like anybody 1077 00:45:46,210 --> 00:45:48,079 except for somebody like Bennett. 1078 00:45:48,079 --> 00:45:49,413 And I brushed it to the side 1079 00:45:49,413 --> 00:45:51,482 until I started having feelings for Tayshia, 1080 00:45:51,482 --> 00:45:53,451 so I didn't want her to end up with somebody 1081 00:45:53,451 --> 00:45:54,585 that would treat her like that. 1082 00:45:54,585 --> 00:45:56,153 ‐ Noah, I already told you this, 1083 00:45:56,153 --> 00:45:57,221 so I'm gonna repeat it 1084 00:45:57,221 --> 00:45:58,356 so hopefully, you hear it this time. 1085 00:45:58,356 --> 00:45:59,557 I never thought there was tension with you. 1086 00:45:59,557 --> 00:46:01,492 I never had beef with you when you walked in the house. 1087 00:46:01,492 --> 00:46:03,494 You created this drama every step of the way. 1088 00:46:03,494 --> 00:46:05,396 ‐ Noah, do you believe 1089 00:46:05,396 --> 00:46:06,664 that Bennett was completely unaware 1090 00:46:06,664 --> 00:46:08,432 of any tension between the two of you? 1091 00:46:08,432 --> 00:46:10,067 ‐ I could tell there was tension 1092 00:46:10,067 --> 00:46:11,335 by the little sly remarks. 1093 00:46:11,335 --> 00:46:13,304 I'd try to give him the benefit of the doubt 1094 00:46:13,304 --> 00:46:15,373 until I realized that he's not clueless. 1095 00:46:15,373 --> 00:46:18,442 He's meticulous in how he does stuff, 1096 00:46:18,442 --> 00:46:20,244 he's very intentional with his words, 1097 00:46:20,244 --> 00:46:21,445 and he's conniving in how he does it. 1098 00:46:21,445 --> 00:46:24,749 ‐ And to the point of the book, 1099 00:46:24,749 --> 00:46:29,320 do you believe that Bennett gave that book to you 1100 00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:31,122 out of good intentions? 1101 00:46:31,122 --> 00:46:31,689 ‐ That's the question. 1102 00:46:31,689 --> 00:46:33,291 We all know the answer to that question. 1103 00:46:33,291 --> 00:46:34,292 Bennett did that 1104 00:46:34,292 --> 00:46:37,361 in a pretentious, conniving way. 1105 00:46:37,361 --> 00:46:38,462 ‐ Did you read the book? ‐ Yeah, did you‐‐ 1106 00:46:38,462 --> 00:46:39,664 ‐ Yeah, I read it. It's a good book. 1107 00:46:39,664 --> 00:46:41,365 It's a shame that you read it four times, you said, 1108 00:46:41,365 --> 00:46:43,100 and you clearly haven't applied a lot of it, 1109 00:46:43,100 --> 00:46:44,235 but it's a good book. 1110 00:46:44,235 --> 00:46:45,503 ‐ Oh, my God. 1111 00:46:45,503 --> 00:46:47,571 ‐ Well, Bennett, you did say Noah was deficient 1112 00:46:47,571 --> 00:46:49,307 in three of the four categories. 1113 00:46:49,307 --> 00:46:51,442 ‐ Yeah, I did say, and you know what? 1114 00:46:51,442 --> 00:46:53,344 I was being a nice guy, because in fact, 1115 00:46:53,344 --> 00:46:55,179 you were deficient in four of the four. 1116 00:46:55,179 --> 00:46:56,180 [laughter] 1117 00:46:56,180 --> 00:46:58,582 And I had witnessed behaviors 1118 00:46:58,582 --> 00:47:01,385 that Tayshia had not been privy to 1119 00:47:01,385 --> 00:47:03,554 within the first 24 hours of you being there, 1120 00:47:03,554 --> 00:47:05,589 and clearly you were here to create drama, 1121 00:47:05,589 --> 00:47:08,192 and, you know, to your credit, you did a heck of a good job. 1122 00:47:08,192 --> 00:47:09,460 ‐ That's a false assumption. 1123 00:47:09,460 --> 00:47:10,795 I mean, you're wasting so much time worried about‐‐ 1124 00:47:10,795 --> 00:47:12,563 ‐ How is it a false assumption if that's what happened? 1125 00:47:12,563 --> 00:47:13,798 ‐ I was never‐‐that is literally what happened. 1126 00:47:13,798 --> 00:47:15,433 ‐ That's not‐‐ you can't tell me why I'm here. 1127 00:47:15,433 --> 00:47:17,134 ‐ How is he assuming? ‐ You were in the way. 1128 00:47:17,134 --> 00:47:18,202 ‐ But to tell a man, though‐‐ 1129 00:47:18,202 --> 00:47:19,270 ‐ You can't tell me why I'm here. 1130 00:47:19,270 --> 00:47:20,671 ‐ That he has a 0% chance with somebody, 1131 00:47:20,671 --> 00:47:22,573 for one, it's disrespectful, not only to him, 1132 00:47:22,573 --> 00:47:24,308 it's also disrespectful to Tayshia. 1133 00:47:24,308 --> 00:47:26,477 Tayshia had just specifically came out 1134 00:47:26,477 --> 00:47:28,646 and confronted us about that exact issue. 1135 00:47:28,646 --> 00:47:30,548 ‐ She didn't confront. ‐ No, no, why did she do that? 1136 00:47:30,548 --> 00:47:32,383 She did that because he went and talked to her about it. 1137 00:47:32,383 --> 00:47:33,551 ‐ No, it's 'cause she brought it up. 1138 00:47:33,551 --> 00:47:34,752 She asked. ‐ The problem is, 1139 00:47:34,752 --> 00:47:36,887 everything Bennett said actually played out anyways. 1140 00:47:36,887 --> 00:47:39,490 ‐ Yeah, give me a break. ‐ He acts like a drunk [bleep]. 1141 00:47:39,490 --> 00:47:40,658 She gives him the rose‐‐ ‐ How? 1142 00:47:40,658 --> 00:47:43,561 ‐ Coming from the One Direction party boy manager 1143 00:47:43,561 --> 00:47:46,397 wearing camo with your star tattoos. 1144 00:47:46,397 --> 00:47:47,498 Talk about a drunk [bleep]. 1145 00:47:47,498 --> 00:47:49,533 ‐ Yeah, party boy. That's you. 1146 00:47:49,533 --> 00:47:51,736 I didn't get a chance to talk to her that night. 1147 00:47:51,736 --> 00:47:54,672 Multiple guys that went home that night all because of you. 1148 00:47:54,672 --> 00:47:57,174 ‐ She brought‐‐okay, if she brings it up to me‐‐ 1149 00:47:57,174 --> 00:47:58,376 ‐ You started so much [bleep]. 1150 00:47:58,376 --> 00:47:59,577 ‐ She didn't bring it up. You did. 1151 00:47:59,577 --> 00:48:01,445 ‐ Like, seven guys went home. ‐ Okay‐‐okay, hold on. 1152 00:48:01,445 --> 00:48:02,613 ‐ And Tayshia didn't even get a‐‐ 1153 00:48:02,613 --> 00:48:04,281 ‐ Dude, I can't speak for why some guy went home. 1154 00:48:04,281 --> 00:48:05,583 All I can focus on is me and Tayshia. 1155 00:48:05,583 --> 00:48:06,717 ‐ You robbed Tayshia. You robbed Tayshia. 1156 00:48:06,717 --> 00:48:08,519 ‐ All right, hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up. 1157 00:48:08,519 --> 00:48:10,287 ‐ You went and cried to Tayshia that night. 1158 00:48:10,287 --> 00:48:11,422 ‐ Okay, Kenny‐‐ 1159 00:48:11,422 --> 00:48:12,523 ‐ And she shot down the Rose Ceremony 1160 00:48:12,523 --> 00:48:14,458 'cause you were being a [bleep] bitch. 1161 00:48:14,458 --> 00:48:15,493 ‐ She asked. ‐ [laughs] 1162 00:48:15,493 --> 00:48:17,528 ‐ [whistles] Hey, guys, guys. 1163 00:48:17,528 --> 00:48:20,398 You guys, let's hit the pause button for a second. 1164 00:48:20,398 --> 00:48:21,465 We have time. 1165 00:48:21,465 --> 00:48:22,633 We will get to the bottom of this. 1166 00:48:22,633 --> 00:48:23,768 More with Bennett, Noah, 1167 00:48:23,768 --> 00:48:26,404 and the rest of Tayshia's men when we come back. 1168 00:48:26,404 --> 00:48:29,940 [tense music] 1169 00:48:31,442 --> 00:48:34,378 [dramatic music] 1170 00:48:34,378 --> 00:48:35,479 ♪ ♪ 1171 00:48:35,479 --> 00:48:37,448 ‐ Welcome back to what has already become 1172 00:48:37,448 --> 00:48:39,583 a very heated Men Tell All, 1173 00:48:39,583 --> 00:48:41,619 and I'm here with Tayshia's men. 1174 00:48:41,619 --> 00:48:43,854 So, Noah, what was it from the very beginning? 1175 00:48:43,854 --> 00:48:48,192 Was there one thing that really turned you guys... 1176 00:48:48,192 --> 00:48:48,793 ‐ To answer you, 1177 00:48:48,793 --> 00:48:50,461 Bennett attacked me from the beginning. 1178 00:48:50,461 --> 00:48:51,695 ‐ [scoffs] ‐ I brushed it off. 1179 00:48:51,695 --> 00:48:54,498 And I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt. 1180 00:48:54,498 --> 00:48:56,667 Like, maybe Bennett doesn't realize 1181 00:48:56,667 --> 00:48:57,735 the way he talks to people, 1182 00:48:57,735 --> 00:48:58,769 'cause he talks to everybody like that. 1183 00:48:58,769 --> 00:49:00,371 You can ask anybody in the house. 1184 00:49:00,371 --> 00:49:01,572 ‐ Like what? ‐ He talks condescendingly. 1185 00:49:01,572 --> 00:49:03,274 ‐ Bennett, you were nothing but respectful to me. 1186 00:49:03,274 --> 00:49:04,375 ‐ Thank you. 1187 00:49:04,375 --> 00:49:05,643 Thank you very much, Jason. ‐ Great guy. 1188 00:49:05,643 --> 00:49:07,645 ‐ And I'd be challenged to hear if someone else said 1189 00:49:07,645 --> 00:49:10,581 a specific example where I was condescending to them. 1190 00:49:10,581 --> 00:49:13,350 It is my appearance, it's how I carry myself, 1191 00:49:13,350 --> 00:49:14,585 and it is the résumé that you know, 1192 00:49:14,585 --> 00:49:16,620 and you make this, and you project. 1193 00:49:16,620 --> 00:49:20,724 ‐ There is times, Bennett, where you are condescending. 1194 00:49:20,724 --> 00:49:22,560 Not to me. You've treated me respectfully. 1195 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:23,661 You have, the whole time. 1196 00:49:23,661 --> 00:49:25,463 But there are times where I'm just like, 1197 00:49:25,463 --> 00:49:26,564 "Mm," like‐‐ 1198 00:49:26,564 --> 00:49:28,566 ‐ But can you say one specific example 1199 00:49:28,566 --> 00:49:31,402 where I said something that was condescending to someone? 1200 00:49:31,402 --> 00:49:33,370 ‐ Uh... ‐ I can. 1201 00:49:33,370 --> 00:49:34,839 ‐ Demar. ‐ So for me personally, 1202 00:49:34,839 --> 00:49:37,508 you never treated me like I was the youngest guy of the house, 1203 00:49:37,508 --> 00:49:39,844 but when it came down to young guys in the house, 1204 00:49:39,844 --> 00:49:42,513 you talked down on us, speaking on‐‐ 1205 00:49:42,513 --> 00:49:43,714 ‐ Not you, 'cause you don't act like he did. 1206 00:49:43,714 --> 00:49:44,782 ‐ So that's what I'm saying. 1207 00:49:44,782 --> 00:49:45,950 ‐ Even though you're the same age. 1208 00:49:45,950 --> 00:49:47,685 ‐ It's not about age. ‐ That's cool. That's great. 1209 00:49:47,685 --> 00:49:49,420 That's great. That's great. ‐ It's about behaviors. 1210 00:49:49,420 --> 00:49:50,521 ‐ That's fine. That's fine. 1211 00:49:50,521 --> 00:49:51,622 But I'm saying I‐‐ 1212 00:49:51,622 --> 00:49:53,757 from a unbiased opinion, I'm seeing these things. 1213 00:49:53,757 --> 00:49:55,459 That's all I'm saying, Bennett. ‐ All right, hold on. 1214 00:49:55,459 --> 00:49:56,627 I wanna stop‐‐I'm gonna‐‐ 1215 00:49:56,627 --> 00:49:58,395 we're gonna put a pin in this so we can move on, 1216 00:49:58,395 --> 00:50:00,664 but I wanna give both these gentlemen 1217 00:50:00,664 --> 00:50:02,500 the opportunity to speak, so Bennett, 1218 00:50:02,500 --> 00:50:06,403 let me give you last words on this whole thing. 1219 00:50:06,403 --> 00:50:08,839 ‐ Noah, I'm sorry that my words 1220 00:50:08,839 --> 00:50:10,908 came across as, you know, condescending, 1221 00:50:10,908 --> 00:50:13,677 and I know that I have this look and this feel, 1222 00:50:13,677 --> 00:50:14,812 and I'm sorry that it, you know, 1223 00:50:14,812 --> 00:50:16,480 affected you the way that it did. 1224 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,482 ‐ I mean, I'll accept any genuine apology. 1225 00:50:18,482 --> 00:50:20,384 I can't tell if that was genuine or not, 1226 00:50:20,384 --> 00:50:23,487 but... 1227 00:50:23,487 --> 00:50:24,688 I personally think 1228 00:50:24,688 --> 00:50:27,825 you're an ostentatious Harvard D‐bag 1229 00:50:27,825 --> 00:50:31,195 and you're a condescending [bleep]. 1230 00:50:31,195 --> 00:50:31,795 I really do. 1231 00:50:31,795 --> 00:50:32,796 I don't see us being friends after this. 1232 00:50:32,796 --> 00:50:34,865 ‐ But‐‐ ‐ That's fine, man. 1233 00:50:34,865 --> 00:50:36,901 ‐ All right, fellas. Let's put a pin in this. 1234 00:50:36,901 --> 00:50:39,303 We do have a lot more to get to tonight, 1235 00:50:39,303 --> 00:50:40,504 and we will get to it. 1236 00:50:40,504 --> 00:50:42,473 We're gonna lighten it up a little bit. 1237 00:50:42,473 --> 00:50:43,607 I wanna dive back 1238 00:50:43,607 --> 00:50:45,409 into some of the hijinks and shenanigans 1239 00:50:45,409 --> 00:50:46,644 from this season. 1240 00:50:46,644 --> 00:50:50,614 I wanna start out with, Blake, your date with Tayshia. 1241 00:50:50,614 --> 00:50:52,483 ‐ Yeah? ‐ And the shaman. 1242 00:50:52,483 --> 00:50:54,518 The sex guru. ‐ Mm‐hmm. 1243 00:50:54,518 --> 00:50:55,686 ‐ Now, this is something 1244 00:50:55,686 --> 00:50:58,522 that viewers did not get a chance to see, 1245 00:50:58,522 --> 00:50:59,723 but they deserve to see. 1246 00:50:59,723 --> 00:51:01,959 You're welcome, America. Let's take a look. 1247 00:51:01,959 --> 00:51:06,597 ‐ I would like to ask you to please disrobe. 1248 00:51:06,597 --> 00:51:10,568 ‐ Sorry? [laughter] 1249 00:51:10,568 --> 00:51:13,804 ‐ We're gonna look at your chakras. 1250 00:51:13,804 --> 00:51:16,707 Tayshia, this is about communication. 1251 00:51:16,707 --> 00:51:18,776 Your deepest desires with Blake. 1252 00:51:18,776 --> 00:51:21,812 We're gonna look at the sexual energy. 1253 00:51:21,812 --> 00:51:24,915 Oh, there's a lot there. [laughter] 1254 00:51:24,915 --> 00:51:26,850 ‐ I'm a pretty, like, I guess, like, sexually‐open guy. 1255 00:51:26,850 --> 00:51:29,853 Like, I think sex is a big part of love and passion. 1256 00:51:29,853 --> 00:51:32,523 It's just funny that, like, that came to light 1257 00:51:32,523 --> 00:51:33,524 as much as it did. 1258 00:51:33,524 --> 00:51:36,627 ‐ Oh, this is beautiful. 1259 00:51:36,627 --> 00:51:37,661 ‐ [laughs] Beautiful. 1260 00:51:37,661 --> 00:51:40,397 ‐ Actually, you're very aligned there 1261 00:51:40,397 --> 00:51:41,599 in a big way. 1262 00:51:41,599 --> 00:51:42,600 ‐ Oh, my God. [men laughing] 1263 00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:43,901 ‐ Oh, that's beautiful. 1264 00:51:43,901 --> 00:51:47,438 It's pure and simple magic. 1265 00:51:47,438 --> 00:51:50,841 And we're charging your presence. 1266 00:51:50,841 --> 00:51:52,509 ‐ That's a date. ‐ I mean... 1267 00:51:52,509 --> 00:51:53,677 [laughter] 1268 00:51:53,677 --> 00:51:54,778 ‐ Canadians rise to the occasion. 1269 00:51:54,778 --> 00:51:56,580 ‐ Yeah. ‐ Ayo. 1270 00:51:56,580 --> 00:51:59,550 ‐ Oh. And Blake... 1271 00:51:59,550 --> 00:52:01,518 ‐ I'm not shy. ‐ No. 1272 00:52:01,518 --> 00:52:02,920 [laughter] No. 1273 00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:05,556 ‐ Yeah. I mean, listen... 1274 00:52:05,556 --> 00:52:07,825 ‐ [laughs] ‐ I was charged, I guess. 1275 00:52:07,825 --> 00:52:09,026 If you wanna call it‐‐ we'll call it charged. 1276 00:52:09,026 --> 00:52:10,694 I was charged in that moment and that‐‐ 1277 00:52:10,694 --> 00:52:12,563 ‐ Hey, she charged your chakras. 1278 00:52:12,563 --> 00:52:13,764 ‐ Yes, she charged me up. 1279 00:52:13,764 --> 00:52:15,966 ‐ So throughout the season, 1280 00:52:15,966 --> 00:52:17,668 one of the things I always tell you guys, 1281 00:52:17,668 --> 00:52:18,802 the rules are, there are no rules, 1282 00:52:18,802 --> 00:52:19,903 and sometimes, you know, 1283 00:52:19,903 --> 00:52:21,739 that instigates some aggressive moves 1284 00:52:21,739 --> 00:52:23,607 and guys try to sneak over 1285 00:52:23,607 --> 00:52:25,909 and get some extra time with our Bachelorette. 1286 00:52:25,909 --> 00:52:30,648 One night in particular, it didn't go well for Ed. 1287 00:52:30,648 --> 00:52:33,283 Or me. 1288 00:52:33,283 --> 00:52:34,752 ‐ [sighs] 1289 00:52:34,752 --> 00:52:36,453 ‐ Oh! 1290 00:52:36,453 --> 00:52:39,456 [tense music] 1291 00:52:39,456 --> 00:52:40,724 ♪ ♪ 1292 00:52:40,724 --> 00:52:42,660 [laughter] 1293 00:52:42,660 --> 00:52:43,761 ‐ Chris. ‐ Ed. 1294 00:52:43,761 --> 00:52:46,030 ‐ How's it going? 1295 00:52:46,030 --> 00:52:48,465 ‐ It's 2:30 in the morning. What are you doing? 1296 00:52:48,465 --> 00:52:49,800 ‐ I just came by‐‐ 1297 00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:52,536 just wanted to get a quick chat with Tayshia if she's around. 1298 00:52:52,536 --> 00:52:54,538 [laughter] 1299 00:52:54,538 --> 00:52:55,639 ‐ This is my room. 1300 00:52:55,639 --> 00:52:56,907 ‐ Oh, this is‐‐I thought this was Tayshia's room. 1301 00:52:56,907 --> 00:52:58,976 ‐ Tayshia's not here, man. 1302 00:52:58,976 --> 00:53:00,811 She's, like, I mean, on the other side 1303 00:53:00,811 --> 00:53:03,547 of the entire resort. 1304 00:53:03,547 --> 00:53:04,615 ‐ Wow. ‐ Yeah. 1305 00:53:04,615 --> 00:53:06,750 [laughter] Come on in, dude. 1306 00:53:06,750 --> 00:53:09,620 You want a drink? ‐ Oh, sure. 1307 00:53:09,620 --> 00:53:10,854 [laughter] 1308 00:53:10,854 --> 00:53:11,989 ‐ Well, sorry to ruin your night, man. 1309 00:53:11,989 --> 00:53:15,826 ‐ [laughing] No, it's a great consolation here. 1310 00:53:15,826 --> 00:53:17,728 One note from the house... ‐ Yeah. 1311 00:53:17,728 --> 00:53:18,829 ‐ Everyone's worried 1312 00:53:18,829 --> 00:53:20,664 that you're not knocking anymore at the door. 1313 00:53:20,664 --> 00:53:21,999 [laughter] 1314 00:53:21,999 --> 00:53:24,535 The first time, you knocked, and now you just kinda come in. 1315 00:53:24,535 --> 00:53:25,636 ‐ Oh, so I should knock first. 1316 00:53:25,636 --> 00:53:26,770 ‐ I think people want the knock. 1317 00:53:26,770 --> 00:53:27,938 ‐ Okay. I'm gonna take that note. 1318 00:53:27,938 --> 00:53:29,640 I'm gonna knock and I'm gonna say 1319 00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:30,641 it's a note from Ed. 1320 00:53:30,641 --> 00:53:32,609 ‐ Okay. ‐ That's funny. 1321 00:53:32,609 --> 00:53:34,678 ‐ Womp, womp, womp, womp. [laughter] 1322 00:53:34,678 --> 00:53:36,680 ‐ Oh, that's good. ‐ That is amazing. 1323 00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:38,782 ‐ Oh. ‐ Wow, that's‐‐I'm real happy. 1324 00:53:38,782 --> 00:53:40,684 ‐ Chris, what do you think? Disappointed or happy? 1325 00:53:40,684 --> 00:53:41,752 [laughter] 1326 00:53:41,752 --> 00:53:42,820 ‐ I mean, disappointed at first, 1327 00:53:42,820 --> 00:53:43,854 but we had a good time, man. 1328 00:53:43,854 --> 00:53:44,888 Just a couple of guys hanging out, 1329 00:53:44,888 --> 00:53:46,123 had a nice bottle of wine. 1330 00:53:46,123 --> 00:53:48,826 ‐ Initially, I was‐‐there's that second of disappointment, 1331 00:53:48,826 --> 00:53:50,761 but then I looked across and I was like, 1332 00:53:50,761 --> 00:53:52,696 "I mean, I could learn a lot from Chris on love," 1333 00:53:52,696 --> 00:53:53,964 so it was pretty epic. 1334 00:53:53,964 --> 00:53:55,999 I enjoyed being there and it was great, 1335 00:53:55,999 --> 00:53:57,134 and I'm, you know, somehow glad 1336 00:53:57,134 --> 00:53:59,536 I wasn't at Tayshia's that night actually. 1337 00:53:59,536 --> 00:54:01,805 [laughter] So... 1338 00:54:01,805 --> 00:54:03,741 ‐ Well, fellas, thank you for diving into that. 1339 00:54:03,741 --> 00:54:05,843 That was a lot of fun. Truly appreciate it. 1340 00:54:05,843 --> 00:54:09,480 Coming up next, it's the woman we've all been waiting for. 1341 00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:10,848 Tayshia is here. 1342 00:54:10,848 --> 00:54:12,182 What is she gonna say to these guys, 1343 00:54:12,182 --> 00:54:15,018 seeing 'em for the first time since she said goodbye? 1344 00:54:15,018 --> 00:54:16,920 Well, we're gonna find out, and later, 1345 00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:20,057 how will this end for Tayshia and for her final four men? 1346 00:54:20,057 --> 00:54:22,693 Well, you're gonna get an exclusive sneak peek, 1347 00:54:22,693 --> 00:54:24,428 so stick around. 1348 00:54:25,629 --> 00:54:26,663 ‐ [laughs] 1349 00:54:26,663 --> 00:54:27,765 Dude, I don't know how to do it. 1350 00:54:27,765 --> 00:54:29,233 ‐ Don't do too much of it. 1351 00:54:29,233 --> 00:54:32,603 So basically just put the wax on and pull it off. 1352 00:54:32,603 --> 00:54:33,670 ‐ Yeah. Kay, ready? 1353 00:54:33,670 --> 00:54:35,139 ‐ Wait, no! Don't do it yet. 1354 00:54:35,139 --> 00:54:37,708 ‐ Dude, it's gotta be done. ‐ All right, go, go, go, go. 1355 00:54:37,708 --> 00:54:39,610 ‐ [laughing] I can't do this. I can't. 1356 00:54:39,610 --> 00:54:40,778 I'm nervous for you! ‐ Just go. 1357 00:54:40,778 --> 00:54:42,579 Just go, man. ‐ Kay, ready? 1358 00:54:42,579 --> 00:54:44,581 ‐ [bleep]! ‐ [laughs] 1359 00:54:44,581 --> 00:54:45,616 ‐ [bleep]! 1360 00:54:45,616 --> 00:54:48,752 Oh, oh! Oh! 1361 00:54:48,752 --> 00:54:49,920 ‐ It's done. 1362 00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:51,889 [laughter] 1363 00:54:51,889 --> 00:54:54,024 ‐ Oh, that's good. ‐ That is amazing. 1364 00:54:54,024 --> 00:54:55,926 ‐ Oh, my goodness. ‐ Welcome back. 1365 00:54:55,926 --> 00:54:56,994 I am here with the guys 1366 00:54:56,994 --> 00:54:59,663 from this season of "The Bachelorette." 1367 00:54:59,663 --> 00:55:00,998 Before Tayshia stepped in, 1368 00:55:00,998 --> 00:55:02,900 our Bachelorette was, of course, Clare. 1369 00:55:02,900 --> 00:55:05,202 And on her path to finding love with Dale, 1370 00:55:05,202 --> 00:55:08,772 one man said goodbye to her in what I can confidently say 1371 00:55:08,772 --> 00:55:10,641 was one of the most contentious moments 1372 00:55:10,641 --> 00:55:12,109 in "Bachelorette" history. 1373 00:55:12,109 --> 00:55:14,711 I'm talking, of course, about Yosef. 1374 00:55:14,711 --> 00:55:16,046 Does he have any regrets, 1375 00:55:16,046 --> 00:55:19,850 or does he stand by his words and his actions that night? 1376 00:55:19,850 --> 00:55:22,052 Well, let's find out what he has to say. 1377 00:55:22,052 --> 00:55:23,987 Let's bring him out. Yosef. 1378 00:55:23,987 --> 00:55:27,090 [dramatic music] 1379 00:55:27,090 --> 00:55:28,192 How you doing? ‐ How's it going? 1380 00:55:28,192 --> 00:55:29,793 Thanks for having me. ‐ Good to see you. 1381 00:55:29,793 --> 00:55:30,794 Hey, thanks for being here. ‐ You too. 1382 00:55:30,794 --> 00:55:31,829 ‐ Have a seat. ‐ Thanks. 1383 00:55:31,829 --> 00:55:33,831 How's it going? ‐ What's up, man? 1384 00:55:33,831 --> 00:55:34,998 ‐ Appreciate you coming out here. 1385 00:55:34,998 --> 00:55:36,900 A lot to talk about, and we'll dive into all of it, 1386 00:55:36,900 --> 00:55:39,036 but before we get to it, let's take a look back 1387 00:55:39,036 --> 00:55:42,773 and remind everybody what happened. 1388 00:55:42,773 --> 00:55:44,608 ‐ Buddy, whoa. ‐ What? 1389 00:55:44,608 --> 00:55:45,776 What the hell? ‐ Oh! 1390 00:55:45,776 --> 00:55:48,145 ‐ Classless challenge. It's ridiculous. 1391 00:55:48,145 --> 00:55:51,348 It's completely unacceptable and completely classless. 1392 00:55:51,348 --> 00:55:55,085 We all have our line that, you know, can't be crossed. 1393 00:55:55,085 --> 00:55:56,887 I don't care what these guys say. 1394 00:55:56,887 --> 00:55:57,955 I really don't. 1395 00:55:57,955 --> 00:55:59,756 I'm not gonna back down from anyone, 1396 00:55:59,756 --> 00:56:01,892 including the Bachelorette. 1397 00:56:01,892 --> 00:56:03,927 I've sacrificed a lot to be here. 1398 00:56:03,927 --> 00:56:05,162 Every second I'm here, 1399 00:56:05,162 --> 00:56:07,097 that's one second I've taken away 1400 00:56:07,097 --> 00:56:08,999 from being with my child. 1401 00:56:08,999 --> 00:56:10,634 ‐ Honestly, I get it. ‐ Yeah. 1402 00:56:10,634 --> 00:56:12,202 ‐ My mom is dying. 1403 00:56:12,202 --> 00:56:14,071 ‐ Yeah, let me‐‐ ‐ I‐‐I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 1404 00:56:14,071 --> 00:56:15,105 Go ahead, go ahead. ‐ Let me continue. 1405 00:56:15,105 --> 00:56:16,240 ‐ I'm sorry. ‐ Let me continue. 1406 00:56:16,240 --> 00:56:17,975 ‐ I totally understand. ‐ Thank you. 1407 00:56:17,975 --> 00:56:21,044 I was absolutely appalled. 1408 00:56:21,044 --> 00:56:25,148 There's naked guys playing dodgeball together. 1409 00:56:25,148 --> 00:56:29,519 It's so humiliating and degrading. 1410 00:56:29,519 --> 00:56:30,187 ‐ Mm‐hmm. 1411 00:56:30,187 --> 00:56:31,955 ‐ Like, if my daughter saw me doing that, 1412 00:56:31,955 --> 00:56:35,025 think of the example that would be setting. 1413 00:56:35,025 --> 00:56:36,360 I expected a lot more 1414 00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:39,329 from the oldest Bachelorette that's ever been. 1415 00:56:39,329 --> 00:56:43,133 Like, I'm ashamed to be associated with you. 1416 00:56:43,133 --> 00:56:47,004 I can't believe I sacrificed so much to be here. 1417 00:56:47,004 --> 00:56:50,140 I'm serious. Like, so appalled. 1418 00:56:50,140 --> 00:56:52,709 ‐ I want guys who are here for me. 1419 00:56:52,709 --> 00:56:54,011 I'm looking for a husband. 1420 00:56:54,011 --> 00:56:55,045 I'm looking for someone‐‐ ‐ Clare. 1421 00:56:55,045 --> 00:56:56,213 Clare, hold on. Hold on. ‐ To love me. 1422 00:56:56,213 --> 00:56:57,214 I'm looking for some‐‐ ‐ Hold on, Clare. 1423 00:56:57,214 --> 00:56:58,282 Hold on. ‐ I've listened to you... 1424 00:56:58,282 --> 00:56:59,883 ‐ No, no, no, no. ‐ This entire time. 1425 00:56:59,883 --> 00:57:01,184 ‐ No, no, stop. ‐ Do not stop me. 1426 00:57:01,184 --> 00:57:02,386 I've listened to you this entire time. 1427 00:57:02,386 --> 00:57:04,087 ‐ Do not interrupt me. Like, seriously, I asked you‐‐ 1428 00:57:04,087 --> 00:57:05,389 ‐ I've listened to you for the last 20 minutes. 1429 00:57:05,389 --> 00:57:07,057 ‐ And I'm not done yet. I asked you, please‐‐ 1430 00:57:07,057 --> 00:57:08,191 ‐ You know what? You are done. 1431 00:57:08,191 --> 00:57:09,259 Let me tell you something. 1432 00:57:09,259 --> 00:57:11,194 The way you're talking to me right now? 1433 00:57:11,194 --> 00:57:13,964 Never in a million years‐‐ ‐ Clare. 1434 00:57:13,964 --> 00:57:15,198 ‐ Listen to me. Listen to me. ‐ Clare. Hey, no. 1435 00:57:15,198 --> 00:57:17,100 ‐ Never in a million years‐‐ ‐ No. 1436 00:57:17,100 --> 00:57:20,938 ‐ Did I ever think I would have to utter these words again. 1437 00:57:20,938 --> 00:57:23,040 Do not ever talk to me like that. 1438 00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:26,076 I never thought I'd ever have to tell any man 1439 00:57:26,076 --> 00:57:28,912 that I would never want them being the father of my child, 1440 00:57:28,912 --> 00:57:30,113 and I stand by that. 1441 00:57:30,113 --> 00:57:33,050 I would never want my children having a father like you. 1442 00:57:33,050 --> 00:57:34,751 Get outta here. ‐ Hey, believe it. 1443 00:57:34,751 --> 00:57:35,385 ‐ Get outta here. 1444 00:57:35,385 --> 00:57:37,788 ‐ You're not fit to be a mother to my child. 1445 00:57:37,788 --> 00:57:39,022 I expected way more 1446 00:57:39,022 --> 00:57:41,325 from the oldest Bachelorette in history. 1447 00:57:41,325 --> 00:57:42,826 ‐ Bro, what are you talking about? 1448 00:57:42,826 --> 00:57:43,994 ‐ Go home, dog. Go home. 1449 00:57:43,994 --> 00:57:45,128 ‐ To sit there and say, 1450 00:57:45,128 --> 00:57:46,930 "You're the oldest Bachelorette"‐‐guess what? 1451 00:57:46,930 --> 00:57:48,131 I'm the oldest Bachelorette, 1452 00:57:48,131 --> 00:57:50,334 this 39 that's standing here that's single, 1453 00:57:50,334 --> 00:57:53,904 because I didn't settle for men like that. 1454 00:57:55,339 --> 00:57:58,175 ‐ So back here with Yosef. A lot to talk about. 1455 00:57:58,175 --> 00:58:01,912 Obviously, whatever chemistry and good feelings you had, 1456 00:58:01,912 --> 00:58:04,014 it all changed dramatically 1457 00:58:04,014 --> 00:58:07,084 after the strip dodgeball date, 1458 00:58:07,084 --> 00:58:09,186 a date you weren't even on. 1459 00:58:09,186 --> 00:58:11,355 What was it that struck such a chord with you? 1460 00:58:11,355 --> 00:58:13,290 ‐ You know, I mean, there were some red flags 1461 00:58:13,290 --> 00:58:16,126 that popped up on our first group date, actually. 1462 00:58:16,126 --> 00:58:19,196 And then the strip dodgeball was definitely something 1463 00:58:19,196 --> 00:58:21,932 that I did not agree with, 1464 00:58:21,932 --> 00:58:23,033 but it was more than that. 1465 00:58:23,033 --> 00:58:25,736 It was the actual fact of the humiliation 1466 00:58:25,736 --> 00:58:27,037 for the losing team. 1467 00:58:27,037 --> 00:58:29,172 I'm a very outspoken person, I'm gonna speak my mind, 1468 00:58:29,172 --> 00:58:33,143 and, you know, I think everyone deserves that honesty, 1469 00:58:33,143 --> 00:58:35,112 and, you know, I was raw. 1470 00:58:35,112 --> 00:58:37,114 But I don't regret sticking up for these guys. 1471 00:58:37,114 --> 00:58:38,949 I would do it‐‐ ‐ Sticking up for us? 1472 00:58:38,949 --> 00:58:40,050 ‐ Yeah. 1473 00:58:40,050 --> 00:58:41,251 ‐ Kay, I was on the date. ‐ Yeah. 1474 00:58:41,251 --> 00:58:43,120 ‐ I was too, and so was Demar. ‐ Yeah. 1475 00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:44,221 ‐ We actually were three 1476 00:58:44,221 --> 00:58:46,089 of the most naked guys, I think. 1477 00:58:46,089 --> 00:58:47,124 I don't have a‐‐I didn't‐‐ 1478 00:58:47,124 --> 00:58:48,358 did you have a problem? ‐ No. 1479 00:58:48,358 --> 00:58:50,727 ‐ At the end of the day, Yosef, like, we could've said no. 1480 00:58:50,727 --> 00:58:51,395 ‐ Right. 1481 00:58:51,395 --> 00:58:53,296 ‐ But I just don't get‐‐ because you weren't there. 1482 00:58:53,296 --> 00:58:55,399 ‐ All right, so it doesn't matter if I was there or not. 1483 00:58:55,399 --> 00:58:57,134 I can have my own opinion about it. 1484 00:58:57,134 --> 00:58:58,268 And I didn't bring it up 1485 00:58:58,268 --> 00:59:00,037 with, you know, really, like, any of y'all. 1486 00:59:00,037 --> 00:59:02,039 ‐ No, I know, but once you start saying it, 1487 00:59:02,039 --> 00:59:03,473 it makes us three look like [bleep], 1488 00:59:03,473 --> 00:59:06,109 because we're the ones that did it willingly. 1489 00:59:06,109 --> 00:59:08,078 ‐ Listen, you can argue that with anyone you want. 1490 00:59:08,078 --> 00:59:09,146 Don't argue with me. 1491 00:59:09,146 --> 00:59:10,981 I already have my opinion on it, all right? 1492 00:59:10,981 --> 00:59:12,215 And I brought it up to the source... 1493 00:59:12,215 --> 00:59:15,052 ‐ But it seems hypocritical... ‐ In a [bleep] way. 1494 00:59:15,052 --> 00:59:16,286 ‐ No, not in a [bleep] way. ‐ Yeah, it was. 1495 00:59:16,286 --> 00:59:17,387 It was kind of [bleep]. 1496 00:59:17,387 --> 00:59:19,122 ‐ Listen, I'm sorry you can't express, 1497 00:59:19,122 --> 00:59:21,124 like, how you feel, like, as a man to someone, 1498 00:59:21,124 --> 00:59:22,125 but, like, that's how I feel. 1499 00:59:22,125 --> 00:59:23,160 ‐ Yelling and screaming? 1500 00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:24,161 Yelling and screaming like that? 1501 00:59:24,161 --> 00:59:25,228 ‐ "That's demeaning"? 1502 00:59:25,228 --> 00:59:26,363 ‐ You brought up‐‐ ‐ Yosef. Yosef. 1503 00:59:26,363 --> 00:59:28,198 ‐ I think we can all, like, go back and see‐‐ 1504 00:59:28,198 --> 00:59:29,466 hold on a second. 1505 00:59:29,466 --> 00:59:31,201 I think when y'all, like, go back and see that 1506 00:59:31,201 --> 00:59:34,337 that conversation started out very calm, cool, and collected. 1507 00:59:34,337 --> 00:59:37,240 I didn't, like, accelerate until Clare started talking‐‐ 1508 00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:39,409 ‐ Because you controlled the whole conversation, 1509 00:59:39,409 --> 00:59:41,511 and when she tried to express and say, 1510 00:59:41,511 --> 00:59:43,880 "Yosef, I completely understand where you're coming from"‐‐ 1511 00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:44,881 ‐ First‐‐ ‐ No. 1512 00:59:44,881 --> 00:59:46,016 Shut the [bleep] up, Yosef. 1513 00:59:46,016 --> 00:59:47,984 Then you just took it to a whole new level 1514 00:59:47,984 --> 00:59:50,020 of [bleep] disrespect. 1515 00:59:50,020 --> 00:59:51,288 ‐ I'm gonna break in for a second, 1516 00:59:51,288 --> 00:59:54,357 'cause I'm actually curious if you have any regrets. 1517 00:59:54,357 --> 00:59:55,892 Now, you‐‐ ‐ He just said no! 1518 00:59:55,892 --> 00:59:57,227 ‐ No, but you've gone back 1519 00:59:57,227 --> 00:59:58,962 and you've had the opportunity to watch it. 1520 00:59:58,962 --> 01:00:00,330 ‐ Right. ‐ No doubt. We all have. 1521 01:00:00,330 --> 01:00:02,365 But do you stand by what you said? 1522 01:00:02,365 --> 01:00:04,201 Do you stand by all of your actions? 1523 01:00:04,201 --> 01:00:05,235 Do you have any regrets? 1524 01:00:05,235 --> 01:00:06,970 ‐ No, I have no regrets. 1525 01:00:06,970 --> 01:00:08,271 I mean, the thing is, I mean, 1526 01:00:08,271 --> 01:00:10,040 everything I said was factually accurate. 1527 01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:12,209 I don't think I said anything inflammatory, 1528 01:00:12,209 --> 01:00:13,410 you know, to warrant that response, 1529 01:00:13,410 --> 01:00:15,045 you know, saying, like, you're not fit 1530 01:00:15,045 --> 01:00:17,080 to be the father of my children, I mean‐‐ 1531 01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:19,149 ‐ You came at her. You called her classless. 1532 01:00:19,149 --> 01:00:20,517 You were out of line. You're a terrible person. 1533 01:00:20,517 --> 01:00:22,419 Ladies, watch out for this man. ‐ Why didn't y'all run up to me 1534 01:00:22,419 --> 01:00:24,087 and tell me when I was walking out? 1535 01:00:24,087 --> 01:00:25,455 Why y'all gotta wait a few months to tell me? 1536 01:00:25,455 --> 01:00:27,124 [overlapping chatter] ‐ I'm telling you right now. 1537 01:00:27,124 --> 01:00:28,325 We are only 10 feet from each other. 1538 01:00:28,325 --> 01:00:30,293 No, no, no, no, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 1539 01:00:30,293 --> 01:00:33,096 I am 10 feet from you and I am telling you right now. 1540 01:00:33,096 --> 01:00:34,231 ‐ Not just Riley. 1541 01:00:34,231 --> 01:00:36,066 We're all telling you how it is right now. 1542 01:00:36,066 --> 01:00:37,067 ‐ Yeah, man. 1543 01:00:37,067 --> 01:00:39,302 ‐ I think the most shocking thing is 1544 01:00:39,302 --> 01:00:41,471 that you have no regret or remorse. 1545 01:00:41,471 --> 01:00:43,406 Not only are you owning the behavior, 1546 01:00:43,406 --> 01:00:45,342 but the way in which you went about it 1547 01:00:45,342 --> 01:00:46,543 is really shocking. 1548 01:00:46,543 --> 01:00:50,046 ‐ I respect y'all's opinion, but I have my own opinion 1549 01:00:50,046 --> 01:00:51,982 and I'm gonna stand by that. 1550 01:00:51,982 --> 01:00:53,150 ‐ So just so we're clear, 1551 01:00:53,150 --> 01:00:55,218 when you watch that, you're like, 1552 01:00:55,218 --> 01:00:56,553 "That's cool. I would never mind 1553 01:00:56,553 --> 01:00:58,622 anyone talking to my daughter like that." 1554 01:00:58,622 --> 01:01:00,590 ‐ If, like, my daughter did something like that, 1555 01:01:00,590 --> 01:01:04,995 I would hope someone would call her out. 1556 01:01:04,995 --> 01:01:06,296 ‐ [whistles] 1557 01:01:06,296 --> 01:01:08,298 ‐ I rarely do this. 1558 01:01:08,298 --> 01:01:10,400 I wanna try to help you help yourself. 1559 01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:12,369 I've seen a lot of crazy stuff in 20 years, 1560 01:01:12,369 --> 01:01:14,571 but that was really not a good look. 1561 01:01:14,571 --> 01:01:17,607 It just‐‐the way it escalated, the way you spoke, 1562 01:01:17,607 --> 01:01:22,112 but what I would love is if you could just see that 1563 01:01:22,112 --> 01:01:24,181 and just be like, "You know what? 1564 01:01:24,181 --> 01:01:28,451 I do see that, and Clare, for that, I'm sorry." 1565 01:01:28,451 --> 01:01:29,653 ‐ I'm not gonna apologize to Clare, 1566 01:01:29,653 --> 01:01:32,189 and with all due respect, like, I really don't care 1567 01:01:32,189 --> 01:01:34,424 what any of these guys really think about me. 1568 01:01:34,424 --> 01:01:36,226 I'm gonna stay true to myself. 1569 01:01:36,226 --> 01:01:37,527 ‐ Mm‐kay. 1570 01:01:37,527 --> 01:01:41,431 I tried to help, and I thank you for being here. 1571 01:01:41,431 --> 01:01:43,366 ‐ Yeah. ‐ All right. 1572 01:01:43,366 --> 01:01:45,135 We have so much more to get to. 1573 01:01:45,135 --> 01:01:47,170 As dramatic as Yosef's departure was, 1574 01:01:47,170 --> 01:01:49,339 it wasn't all drama in the desert. 1575 01:01:49,339 --> 01:01:51,508 When we come back, we're gonna catch up 1576 01:01:51,508 --> 01:01:55,212 with the woman who, well, was a surprise to all of us, 1577 01:01:55,212 --> 01:01:56,980 the lovely Tayshia. 1578 01:01:56,980 --> 01:01:59,216 And yes, we have bloopers. 1579 01:01:59,216 --> 01:02:00,917 So don't go away. 1580 01:02:03,186 --> 01:02:05,655 [razor whirring] 1581 01:02:05,655 --> 01:02:08,091 ‐ You know I've never done this for a guy before, 1582 01:02:08,091 --> 01:02:09,125 but it's kinda hot. 1583 01:02:09,125 --> 01:02:10,894 It's really white under here. 1584 01:02:10,894 --> 01:02:12,295 ‐ Mm‐hmm. 1585 01:02:12,295 --> 01:02:13,997 ‐ Oh, my gosh. 1586 01:02:13,997 --> 01:02:15,532 ‐ Is it, uh‐‐how bad? 1587 01:02:15,532 --> 01:02:17,601 ‐ Wait, actually, you look really good! 1588 01:02:17,601 --> 01:02:20,237 Like, you're kinda hot. ‐ I don't‐‐what was I before? 1589 01:02:20,237 --> 01:02:21,304 ‐ You just went up, like, ten points. 1590 01:02:21,304 --> 01:02:23,039 ‐ But what was I before? ‐ [laughs] 1591 01:02:23,039 --> 01:02:24,241 You were all right. 1592 01:02:24,241 --> 01:02:25,342 [laughter] 1593 01:02:25,342 --> 01:02:26,543 ‐ Welcome back to a Men Tell All 1594 01:02:26,543 --> 01:02:29,145 like you have never seen before. 1595 01:02:29,145 --> 01:02:30,513 We've been waiting all night for her, 1596 01:02:30,513 --> 01:02:33,149 and, well, it's time to bring her out. 1597 01:02:33,149 --> 01:02:34,451 You ready, guys? ‐ Mm. 1598 01:02:34,451 --> 01:02:36,152 Tayshia, come on out and join us. 1599 01:02:36,152 --> 01:02:39,022 [upbeat music] 1600 01:02:39,022 --> 01:02:41,424 ‐ Whoo! 1601 01:02:41,424 --> 01:02:42,692 ‐ Hello. ‐ Hello. 1602 01:02:42,692 --> 01:02:44,394 ‐ So good to see you again. ‐ So good to see you too. 1603 01:02:44,394 --> 01:02:46,263 ‐ Hi. You look fantastic. ‐ Thank you so much. 1604 01:02:46,263 --> 01:02:48,131 ‐ All these fellas dressed up for you. 1605 01:02:48,131 --> 01:02:49,332 ‐ You guys look good. 1606 01:02:49,332 --> 01:02:50,500 ‐ You look better. ‐ You look even better. 1607 01:02:50,500 --> 01:02:52,369 ‐ Have a seat. Have a seat. ‐ Okay. 1608 01:02:52,369 --> 01:02:54,437 ‐ What's it like, still, walking out here 1609 01:02:54,437 --> 01:02:57,207 and doing this and seeing these guys? 1610 01:02:57,207 --> 01:02:59,009 ‐ I mean, I wasn't nervous before, 1611 01:02:59,009 --> 01:02:59,643 but I'm shaking now. 1612 01:02:59,643 --> 01:03:01,444 ‐ Yeah? ‐ I'm still a little nervous. 1613 01:03:01,444 --> 01:03:03,413 But it's really good seeing you guys. 1614 01:03:03,413 --> 01:03:06,383 ‐ I wanna go back to Clare falling for Dale, 1615 01:03:06,383 --> 01:03:07,617 a new Bachelorette coming in, 1616 01:03:07,617 --> 01:03:10,453 and a lot of crazy rumors have been flying around 1617 01:03:10,453 --> 01:03:12,555 that this whole thing was this elaborate scheme 1618 01:03:12,555 --> 01:03:15,158 and you were there from the start 1619 01:03:15,158 --> 01:03:17,227 and this was all a setup. 1620 01:03:17,227 --> 01:03:18,461 ‐ I wish, 'cause that would mean 1621 01:03:18,461 --> 01:03:19,596 I had a little bit more preparation. 1622 01:03:19,596 --> 01:03:21,231 ‐ Right. ‐ As you guys know, 1623 01:03:21,231 --> 01:03:23,566 my story of being in bed, reading a book, 1624 01:03:23,566 --> 01:03:26,970 and getting a phone call while I'm eating doughnuts. 1625 01:03:26,970 --> 01:03:27,671 [laughter] 1626 01:03:27,671 --> 01:03:29,539 It was the last phone call I thought I would ever get, 1627 01:03:29,539 --> 01:03:32,409 but from that point on, it was about 48 hours 1628 01:03:32,409 --> 01:03:33,510 when I rolled onto the property. 1629 01:03:33,510 --> 01:03:34,544 ‐ It was a leap of faith 1630 01:03:34,544 --> 01:03:36,179 and you were so gracious to do this, 1631 01:03:36,179 --> 01:03:37,314 and thank you, 1632 01:03:37,314 --> 01:03:39,349 but we still weren't sure what was gonna happen 1633 01:03:39,349 --> 01:03:41,151 with Clare and Dale at that time. 1634 01:03:41,151 --> 01:03:42,285 ‐ Absolutely. 1635 01:03:42,285 --> 01:03:44,721 On the phone call, nothing was guaranteed. 1636 01:03:44,721 --> 01:03:47,190 It looked like Clare had found her love, 1637 01:03:47,190 --> 01:03:48,658 and if it continued to progress, 1638 01:03:48,658 --> 01:03:52,228 then there was still amazing men 1639 01:03:52,228 --> 01:03:53,530 that were looking for love, 1640 01:03:53,530 --> 01:03:57,367 but other than that, like, I was still... 1641 01:03:57,367 --> 01:03:58,401 trying to figure out what was going on. 1642 01:03:58,401 --> 01:03:59,502 ‐ Right. ‐ And I didn't know 1643 01:03:59,502 --> 01:04:00,670 if you guys were gonna be willing to accept me. 1644 01:04:00,670 --> 01:04:02,305 I didn't know if you guys were gonna be 1645 01:04:02,305 --> 01:04:03,406 too far along with Clare 1646 01:04:03,406 --> 01:04:05,308 that you were not gonna be ready 1647 01:04:05,308 --> 01:04:06,609 to welcome me with open arms. 1648 01:04:06,609 --> 01:04:08,611 I didn't know what to expect, and that was 1649 01:04:08,611 --> 01:04:10,447 what I was scared of most, to be honest. 1650 01:04:10,447 --> 01:04:11,581 ‐ And then you walked in 1651 01:04:11,581 --> 01:04:14,117 and there wasn't a jaw that wasn't on the floor. 1652 01:04:14,117 --> 01:04:15,318 [both laugh] 1653 01:04:15,318 --> 01:04:16,686 There was a lot of wide eyes. 1654 01:04:16,686 --> 01:04:19,589 ‐ I mean, for me as well. I mean, that was overwhelming. 1655 01:04:19,589 --> 01:04:21,691 ‐ Tayshia, I wanna open it up to the guys 1656 01:04:21,691 --> 01:04:23,393 so they get a chance to speak to you, 1657 01:04:23,393 --> 01:04:26,396 but I wanna start with Noah, who's here. 1658 01:04:26,396 --> 01:04:28,231 What was that relationship like? 1659 01:04:28,231 --> 01:04:29,599 [laughter] 1660 01:04:29,599 --> 01:04:30,767 ‐ Well, I mean, I said it 1661 01:04:30,767 --> 01:04:33,336 from the moment he walked out of that limo. 1662 01:04:33,336 --> 01:04:35,271 I said, "That guy's gonna be trouble." 1663 01:04:35,271 --> 01:04:36,339 And, um... [laughs] 1664 01:04:36,339 --> 01:04:38,475 He was very true to that. 1665 01:04:38,475 --> 01:04:42,379 But, I mean, Noah just has this amazing energy, 1666 01:04:42,379 --> 01:04:44,147 and he brought that out of me. 1667 01:04:44,147 --> 01:04:45,315 It was just fun. 1668 01:04:45,315 --> 01:04:47,117 ‐ Did you really like the mustache? 1669 01:04:47,117 --> 01:04:48,418 ‐ [laughs] ‐ Or no? 1670 01:04:48,418 --> 01:04:51,454 ‐ I think it's better gone, but I see it's returned. 1671 01:04:51,454 --> 01:04:53,757 [laughs] You still look good, Noah. 1672 01:04:53,757 --> 01:04:56,526 ‐ I will say that probably one of the only regrets 1673 01:04:56,526 --> 01:04:59,662 that I did have from the show is that... 1674 01:04:59,662 --> 01:05:02,832 Bennett and I had a qualm from the start. 1675 01:05:02,832 --> 01:05:07,437 You know, I kept getting caught up in a mess. 1676 01:05:07,437 --> 01:05:09,806 But yeah, I had a blast with you. 1677 01:05:09,806 --> 01:05:12,308 ‐ Tayshia, I know it was a difficult decision 1678 01:05:12,308 --> 01:05:13,576 to send Bennett home 1679 01:05:13,576 --> 01:05:15,745 on the two‐on‐one date with Noah, 1680 01:05:15,745 --> 01:05:18,581 but I also know it was a huge surprise 1681 01:05:18,581 --> 01:05:21,584 when he showed back up on your doorstep. 1682 01:05:21,584 --> 01:05:24,320 Let's take a look. 1683 01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:25,455 ‐ As I sat there 1684 01:05:25,455 --> 01:05:26,689 kinda going through all of these emotions, 1685 01:05:26,689 --> 01:05:29,793 I just felt like our goodbye was so bizarre. 1686 01:05:29,793 --> 01:05:31,694 And I was thinking of all of these things 1687 01:05:31,694 --> 01:05:33,596 that I hadn't been able to share with you. 1688 01:05:33,596 --> 01:05:37,300 You know, sometimes, when you don't realize things 1689 01:05:37,300 --> 01:05:38,668 until they're gone. 1690 01:05:38,668 --> 01:05:41,304 And I realized in that moment that I love you. 1691 01:05:41,304 --> 01:05:43,373 [dramatic music] 1692 01:05:43,373 --> 01:05:47,477 ‐ [sighs] 1693 01:05:47,477 --> 01:05:49,379 I'm... 1694 01:05:49,379 --> 01:05:50,547 I'm not gonna lie, 1695 01:05:50,547 --> 01:05:53,116 I'm, like, speechless right now. 1696 01:05:55,118 --> 01:05:56,519 ‐ Bennett, 1697 01:05:56,519 --> 01:06:00,490 what brought you to admit that 1698 01:06:00,490 --> 01:06:02,859 and bare your soul like that to Tayshia? 1699 01:06:02,859 --> 01:06:06,362 ‐ Yeah, I mean, that was really, really tough, you know? 1700 01:06:07,764 --> 01:06:10,433 Kind of feeling like I had the rug ripped out 1701 01:06:10,433 --> 01:06:12,535 from underneath me on that two‐on‐one 1702 01:06:12,535 --> 01:06:14,404 is one of the hardest things I've ever‐‐ 1703 01:06:14,404 --> 01:06:15,605 sincerely ever been through, 1704 01:06:15,605 --> 01:06:18,708 and I spent about 24, 36 hours 1705 01:06:18,708 --> 01:06:20,877 kinda crying, back and forth. 1706 01:06:20,877 --> 01:06:24,180 So I went and, you know, I was very insecure 1707 01:06:24,180 --> 01:06:25,748 and super nervous, 1708 01:06:25,748 --> 01:06:27,550 but at least wanted to come and tell you, 1709 01:06:27,550 --> 01:06:30,620 you know, how I felt and what I had come to. 1710 01:06:30,620 --> 01:06:32,388 And then the cocktail party was canceled 1711 01:06:32,388 --> 01:06:34,524 and I was sent home. 1712 01:06:34,524 --> 01:06:36,559 It was really, really tough. 1713 01:06:36,559 --> 01:06:38,628 Without any, you know, sort of explanation, 1714 01:06:38,628 --> 01:06:40,697 and I‐‐you know, I'd love to hear 1715 01:06:40,697 --> 01:06:42,332 you know, your thought, 1716 01:06:42,332 --> 01:06:44,634 and sort of‐‐you know? 1717 01:06:44,634 --> 01:06:45,768 I'm a big boy. 1718 01:06:45,768 --> 01:06:48,471 Maybe you, you know, just weren't that into me. 1719 01:06:48,471 --> 01:06:52,342 But I'm curious, you know? 1720 01:06:52,342 --> 01:06:54,344 ‐ Well... 1721 01:06:57,447 --> 01:06:59,516 I will say, when you did show up 1722 01:06:59,516 --> 01:07:01,584 and you poured your heart out to me, 1723 01:07:01,584 --> 01:07:02,919 I was definitely caught off‐guard. 1724 01:07:02,919 --> 01:07:05,722 I‐‐it was a lot to take in at that moment. 1725 01:07:05,722 --> 01:07:07,624 I had just come off of, you know, a date, 1726 01:07:07,624 --> 01:07:10,360 and I wanted to give you the respect, also, 1727 01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:11,794 of kinda thinking about it, 1728 01:07:11,794 --> 01:07:13,363 'cause I didn't wanna say goodbye to you 1729 01:07:13,363 --> 01:07:13,897 right then and there, 1730 01:07:13,897 --> 01:07:15,598 'cause I respected those words from you 1731 01:07:15,598 --> 01:07:19,402 and I respect you, but... 1732 01:07:19,402 --> 01:07:20,904 we just weren't exactly there yet, 1733 01:07:20,904 --> 01:07:23,673 and there were relationships that had formed 1734 01:07:23,673 --> 01:07:27,410 and were a little bit stronger at the time. 1735 01:07:27,410 --> 01:07:28,545 ‐ I understand. That's tough. 1736 01:07:28,545 --> 01:07:29,746 ‐ Sorry. 1737 01:07:29,746 --> 01:07:33,750 ‐ There was another extremely heartbreaking goodbye 1738 01:07:33,750 --> 01:07:36,653 that we actually all just watched tonight, 1739 01:07:36,653 --> 01:07:39,756 and that was saying goodbye to Blake. 1740 01:07:39,756 --> 01:07:42,492 I wanna talk about that after we take a look. 1741 01:07:42,492 --> 01:07:45,094 ‐ I'm really sorry. ‐ It's okay. 1742 01:07:47,530 --> 01:07:49,699 ‐ [crying] I'm really sorry. ‐ It's okay. 1743 01:07:49,699 --> 01:07:51,734 ‐ [crying] 1744 01:07:51,734 --> 01:07:54,537 I really am. ‐ I know. 1745 01:07:54,537 --> 01:07:57,206 Okay. 1746 01:07:57,206 --> 01:08:02,679 ♪ ♪ 1747 01:08:02,679 --> 01:08:06,282 ‐ [sobbing] 1748 01:08:06,282 --> 01:08:10,353 ♪ ♪ 1749 01:08:10,353 --> 01:08:11,888 No. 1750 01:08:11,888 --> 01:08:16,159 [whispering] Oh, God. I can't do this. 1751 01:08:19,262 --> 01:08:20,463 ‐ [sighs] 1752 01:08:21,998 --> 01:08:25,602 ‐ What was it about that breakup with Blake 1753 01:08:25,602 --> 01:08:28,137 that was so tough? 1754 01:08:31,474 --> 01:08:32,775 ‐ I think I‐‐ 1755 01:08:32,775 --> 01:08:33,876 it just, like, hit me 1756 01:08:33,876 --> 01:08:36,846 that I just sent, like, an amazing man home. 1757 01:08:36,846 --> 01:08:39,882 And I had put a lot into our relationship. 1758 01:08:39,882 --> 01:08:44,587 I really did have feelings for you. 1759 01:08:44,587 --> 01:08:45,888 I just didn't know 1760 01:08:45,888 --> 01:08:47,991 if we could get there at the end. 1761 01:08:47,991 --> 01:08:51,427 ‐ I think, like, for me, since I left, 1762 01:08:51,427 --> 01:08:53,730 I kept hanging on, 1763 01:08:53,730 --> 01:08:57,500 you know, that we'd basically blamed it on time. 1764 01:08:57,500 --> 01:08:58,534 ‐ Mm‐hmm. 1765 01:08:58,534 --> 01:09:00,737 ‐ It was never, like, a full‐on, like, 1766 01:09:00,737 --> 01:09:04,440 "No, I don't see this. You're not for me." 1767 01:09:05,708 --> 01:09:08,544 But did you ever, I guess‐‐ 1768 01:09:08,544 --> 01:09:11,814 do you stand by the decision you made 1769 01:09:11,814 --> 01:09:15,718 at that time, or have you ever thought about 1770 01:09:15,718 --> 01:09:18,354 the potential if we gave it time? 1771 01:09:21,658 --> 01:09:22,892 ‐ Um... ‐ And, like, this is the thing. 1772 01:09:22,892 --> 01:09:24,794 This is where I feel like I'm in a way selfish, like‐‐ 1773 01:09:24,794 --> 01:09:26,729 I just‐‐it's something I constantly have thought about 1774 01:09:26,729 --> 01:09:27,864 since I left. 1775 01:09:27,864 --> 01:09:29,532 I always think about that question mark 1776 01:09:29,532 --> 01:09:32,168 as like, if we had more time. 1777 01:09:34,270 --> 01:09:35,605 ‐ I think 1778 01:09:35,605 --> 01:09:38,708 time is not only the factor. 1779 01:09:38,708 --> 01:09:39,842 I feel like there was a lot of things 1780 01:09:39,842 --> 01:09:42,578 that kind of played into that decision. 1781 01:09:42,578 --> 01:09:43,713 And I think, you know, 1782 01:09:43,713 --> 01:09:45,948 maybe that first conversation that we had, 1783 01:09:45,948 --> 01:09:47,717 that you still said that you, like, were working 1784 01:09:47,717 --> 01:09:49,018 through your feelings with Clare, 1785 01:09:49,018 --> 01:09:51,120 that maybe I didn't realize, like, subconsciously, 1786 01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:54,023 I had put up a little bit of walls to protect myself. 1787 01:09:54,023 --> 01:09:55,925 ‐ Yeah. ‐ And to be honest, like, 1788 01:09:55,925 --> 01:09:58,594 I didn't want to start, like, investing, 1789 01:09:58,594 --> 01:09:59,962 and then what if I was blindsided 1790 01:09:59,962 --> 01:10:02,565 because you couldn't get over that? 1791 01:10:02,565 --> 01:10:06,636 And so in that moment, I just... 1792 01:10:06,636 --> 01:10:08,971 didn't know if we can get there. 1793 01:10:08,971 --> 01:10:10,673 ‐ It's just‐‐yeah, I guess so. 1794 01:10:10,673 --> 01:10:11,974 I'll just always kinda hang on that a bit, 1795 01:10:11,974 --> 01:10:14,844 but, I mean, when it comes down to it, like, 1796 01:10:14,844 --> 01:10:16,813 I can only say amazing things about you, 1797 01:10:16,813 --> 01:10:18,648 your glow, everything you bring, 1798 01:10:18,648 --> 01:10:19,849 and, like, that will always be imprinted, 1799 01:10:19,849 --> 01:10:22,051 and I'm glad now that I can look at you and, like‐‐ 1800 01:10:22,051 --> 01:10:24,620 with a smile and remember you like this 1801 01:10:24,620 --> 01:10:25,688 and not like that, 1802 01:10:25,688 --> 01:10:27,957 because, like, that was, you know, 1803 01:10:27,957 --> 01:10:29,926 brutal for the longest time. 1804 01:10:29,926 --> 01:10:31,761 So I'm just, like, super thankful 1805 01:10:31,761 --> 01:10:33,129 that you came, 1806 01:10:33,129 --> 01:10:36,833 because I would've regretted it all if you didn't. 1807 01:10:36,833 --> 01:10:37,967 ‐ Thank you. 1808 01:10:37,967 --> 01:10:39,736 ‐ All you gentlemen, thank you so much, 1809 01:10:39,736 --> 01:10:40,870 and Tayshia, thank you for being here. 1810 01:10:40,870 --> 01:10:42,004 We're not done quite yet. 1811 01:10:42,004 --> 01:10:45,675 There was another breakup tonight 1812 01:10:45,675 --> 01:10:48,211 that was extremely difficult to get through 1813 01:10:48,211 --> 01:10:51,848 and for everyone to watch, and that, of course, was Riley. 1814 01:10:51,848 --> 01:10:55,618 Riley, we're gonna talk to you when we come back. 1815 01:10:55,618 --> 01:10:57,620 ‐ [exhales] 1816 01:10:59,822 --> 01:11:02,825 [upbeat music] 1817 01:11:02,825 --> 01:11:04,060 ♪ ♪ 1818 01:11:04,060 --> 01:11:05,228 ‐ Welcome back to an intimate 1819 01:11:05,228 --> 01:11:08,965 and, to this point, very riveting Men Tell All. 1820 01:11:08,965 --> 01:11:10,133 We watched earlier tonight 1821 01:11:10,133 --> 01:11:13,970 as Tayshia tearfully said goodbye to Riley. 1822 01:11:13,970 --> 01:11:15,805 Tayshia joins us now, 1823 01:11:15,805 --> 01:11:18,875 and I wanna go back to that moment. 1824 01:11:18,875 --> 01:11:20,009 I wanna talk about it. 1825 01:11:20,009 --> 01:11:22,512 But first, let's take a look at what happened. 1826 01:11:24,781 --> 01:11:27,483 ‐ Hey. ‐ Well, hello. 1827 01:11:27,483 --> 01:11:28,584 ‐ Hi, guys. 1828 01:11:28,584 --> 01:11:29,886 ‐ Tayshia is beautiful. 1829 01:11:29,886 --> 01:11:31,020 ‐ You look good. 1830 01:11:31,020 --> 01:11:32,789 ‐ Ah, you look better. ‐ [laughs] 1831 01:11:32,789 --> 01:11:34,757 ‐ You can get lost in her eyes. 1832 01:11:34,757 --> 01:11:36,926 This agreement is legally binding. 1833 01:11:36,926 --> 01:11:38,194 If all parties agree, 1834 01:11:38,194 --> 01:11:42,465 they are officially boyfriend and girlfriend. 1835 01:11:42,465 --> 01:11:43,199 [both laugh] 1836 01:11:43,199 --> 01:11:46,836 She's sweet, she's honest, she's open, she's truthful. 1837 01:11:46,836 --> 01:11:48,905 How many children do you want? 1838 01:11:48,905 --> 01:11:50,640 ‐ Five. ‐ Wow! 1839 01:11:50,640 --> 01:11:52,074 ‐ I know. ‐ A'ight. A'ight. 1840 01:11:52,074 --> 01:11:53,810 You got a whole basketball team going. 1841 01:11:53,810 --> 01:11:54,844 ‐ That's what I want. 1842 01:11:54,844 --> 01:11:56,112 ‐ She is amazing 1843 01:11:56,112 --> 01:11:58,714 and she's everything that I want in a woman, 1844 01:11:58,714 --> 01:11:59,816 everything that I want in a wife. 1845 01:11:59,816 --> 01:12:01,884 ‐ You're an incredible man. 1846 01:12:01,884 --> 01:12:03,753 ‐ All I want is a loving family. 1847 01:12:03,753 --> 01:12:04,954 [laughs] ‐ No, I know. 1848 01:12:04,954 --> 01:12:08,758 ‐ And I think I'm on my way to finding it. 1849 01:12:08,758 --> 01:12:10,827 The truth is, I'm falling in love. 1850 01:12:10,827 --> 01:12:12,929 I love how beautiful she is, 1851 01:12:12,929 --> 01:12:15,164 how strong she is, how confident she is. 1852 01:12:15,164 --> 01:12:17,967 She's someone that I could see myself 1853 01:12:17,967 --> 01:12:19,769 spending the rest of my life with. 1854 01:12:19,769 --> 01:12:21,037 I hope she feels the same way. 1855 01:12:21,037 --> 01:12:22,738 ‐ Riley, can we go talk? 1856 01:12:22,738 --> 01:12:24,774 ‐ Sure. 1857 01:12:24,774 --> 01:12:26,609 ‐ [sighs] 1858 01:12:28,144 --> 01:12:31,147 Today, it hit me, like, the realization of, 1859 01:12:31,147 --> 01:12:36,519 my heart is not 100% matching yours. 1860 01:12:36,519 --> 01:12:37,753 ‐ God. 1861 01:12:37,753 --> 01:12:39,121 ‐ I'm sorry. 1862 01:12:39,121 --> 01:12:42,658 ‐ The longer I sit here, the longer I look at you, 1863 01:12:42,658 --> 01:12:44,894 the longer... 1864 01:12:44,894 --> 01:12:46,996 I see you smile, 1865 01:12:46,996 --> 01:12:49,932 the more pain I feel. 1866 01:12:49,932 --> 01:12:52,668 I'm gonna go now. ‐ Okay. 1867 01:12:52,668 --> 01:12:56,706 [somber music] 1868 01:12:56,706 --> 01:12:58,908 I'm sorry. 1869 01:12:58,908 --> 01:13:02,678 ♪ ♪ 1870 01:13:02,678 --> 01:13:03,880 ‐ This is your journey. 1871 01:13:03,880 --> 01:13:06,082 And I am happy to have been on it. 1872 01:13:06,082 --> 01:13:08,217 I'm happy to have met you. 1873 01:13:08,217 --> 01:13:12,688 I don't regret that at all, and I want you to know that. 1874 01:13:12,688 --> 01:13:16,792 ♪ ♪ 1875 01:13:16,792 --> 01:13:19,896 ‐ [softly] Bye, Riley. 1876 01:13:19,896 --> 01:13:21,797 ‐ See you later. 1877 01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:25,935 [engine turns over] 1878 01:13:25,935 --> 01:13:29,639 ‐ [whispering] This is not fun. Oh, my God. 1879 01:13:29,639 --> 01:13:30,306 [sniffles] 1880 01:13:30,306 --> 01:13:32,775 ‐ I felt like and I still feel like 1881 01:13:32,775 --> 01:13:34,710 Tayshia is the one for me. 1882 01:13:34,710 --> 01:13:36,946 ‐ [softly] I'm so sorry. 1883 01:13:36,946 --> 01:13:38,648 [sobs] 1884 01:13:38,648 --> 01:13:40,616 I am so sorry. 1885 01:13:44,954 --> 01:13:46,289 ‐ So, Riley, I know that's a lot to take in. 1886 01:13:46,289 --> 01:13:49,292 You haven't seen that, because it just aired tonight. 1887 01:13:49,292 --> 01:13:52,828 But when you see that back again, 1888 01:13:52,828 --> 01:13:54,096 what's going through your head? 1889 01:13:54,096 --> 01:13:57,433 ‐ [exhales] 1890 01:13:58,768 --> 01:13:59,936 I've tried my best 1891 01:13:59,936 --> 01:14:02,104 to just kinda get it out of my mind. 1892 01:14:02,104 --> 01:14:04,740 I didn't wanna relive it. 1893 01:14:04,740 --> 01:14:07,143 And seeing it right now, 1894 01:14:07,143 --> 01:14:08,911 it just brought everything back. 1895 01:14:08,911 --> 01:14:12,048 And I feel like I did myself 1896 01:14:12,048 --> 01:14:14,884 a disservice 1897 01:14:14,884 --> 01:14:16,953 by waiting so long to tell you, 1898 01:14:16,953 --> 01:14:19,722 you know, exactly who I was. 1899 01:14:19,722 --> 01:14:21,691 [sighs] 1900 01:14:23,759 --> 01:14:24,427 I'm sorry. 1901 01:14:24,427 --> 01:14:26,963 It's still more difficult than what I thought. 1902 01:14:26,963 --> 01:14:29,031 ‐ Can I give you a hug? ‐ Please. 1903 01:14:29,031 --> 01:14:30,099 ‐ Riley, why don't you come up here 1904 01:14:30,099 --> 01:14:31,867 and join us, actually? 1905 01:14:31,867 --> 01:14:33,502 ‐ Of course. 1906 01:14:34,971 --> 01:14:37,073 ‐ It's okay. 1907 01:14:37,073 --> 01:14:39,075 It's okay. 1908 01:14:39,075 --> 01:14:40,810 ‐ Why don't you have a seat up here with us? 1909 01:14:40,810 --> 01:14:43,746 ‐ Thank you. Come on. 1910 01:14:43,746 --> 01:14:46,816 ‐ Um... 1911 01:14:46,816 --> 01:14:48,017 [sighs] 1912 01:14:48,017 --> 01:14:50,019 I realized when I got home, 1913 01:14:50,019 --> 01:14:52,888 I fell hard, way harder... 1914 01:14:52,888 --> 01:14:55,958 [laughs] Than what I thought I would. 1915 01:14:55,958 --> 01:14:58,761 I was at home for the first week 1916 01:14:58,761 --> 01:14:59,895 when I got back. 1917 01:14:59,895 --> 01:15:01,063 I didn't move. 1918 01:15:01,063 --> 01:15:03,099 I felt too bad. 1919 01:15:03,099 --> 01:15:06,902 I mean, I don't open up, you know, to people that often 1920 01:15:06,902 --> 01:15:09,005 and tell them, you know, about myself, 1921 01:15:09,005 --> 01:15:12,208 but you allowed me, you know, to be vulnerable 1922 01:15:12,208 --> 01:15:15,378 and overcome, you know, my fears. 1923 01:15:15,378 --> 01:15:18,214 You know, sometimes, you have to share these things 1924 01:15:18,214 --> 01:15:19,949 with other people that are there for you, 1925 01:15:19,949 --> 01:15:22,218 and you were there for me. 1926 01:15:22,218 --> 01:15:24,353 I just wish I could've told you sooner, 1927 01:15:24,353 --> 01:15:28,324 and I appreciate everything that you did for me, 1928 01:15:28,324 --> 01:15:31,227 and I would not change this experience 1929 01:15:31,227 --> 01:15:32,995 for anything in the world. 1930 01:15:32,995 --> 01:15:35,164 You are amazing. I wanna get that across. 1931 01:15:35,164 --> 01:15:37,299 And if somebody doesn't tell you that enough, 1932 01:15:37,299 --> 01:15:41,037 trust me, I will be there to remind you, okay? 1933 01:15:41,037 --> 01:15:43,806 You are outstanding. Thank you for everything. 1934 01:15:43,806 --> 01:15:47,710 ‐ [laughs] 1935 01:15:47,710 --> 01:15:49,812 Thank you. 1936 01:15:49,812 --> 01:15:52,114 Because like I said then, 1937 01:15:52,114 --> 01:15:54,283 you're incredible, 1938 01:15:54,283 --> 01:15:56,952 and I don't want you to think that‐‐ 1939 01:15:56,952 --> 01:16:00,089 everybody has things of their past. 1940 01:16:00,089 --> 01:16:03,025 Like, everybody has things that they hold onto 1941 01:16:03,025 --> 01:16:04,393 that they're scared to open up about, 1942 01:16:04,393 --> 01:16:08,064 but, like, that can't hold you back. 1943 01:16:08,064 --> 01:16:09,265 ‐ Right. ‐ And at the end of the day, 1944 01:16:09,265 --> 01:16:11,967 you opening up to me 1945 01:16:11,967 --> 01:16:14,870 wasn't the reason for that decision. 1946 01:16:14,870 --> 01:16:15,971 I don't want‐‐ ‐ Thank God. 1947 01:16:15,971 --> 01:16:17,373 [both laugh] 1948 01:16:17,373 --> 01:16:20,076 ‐ I don't want you to think that at all. 1949 01:16:20,076 --> 01:16:22,078 ‐ You telling me that, 1950 01:16:22,078 --> 01:16:24,013 I mean, it means so much. 1951 01:16:24,013 --> 01:16:25,147 It's a weight off my chest. 1952 01:16:25,147 --> 01:16:27,149 It's something that I've been thinking about 1953 01:16:27,149 --> 01:16:29,285 since that day, like, "Man, 1954 01:16:29,285 --> 01:16:30,853 did I just scare her off?" 1955 01:16:30,853 --> 01:16:31,353 [laughs] ‐ No, no. 1956 01:16:31,353 --> 01:16:35,324 ‐ "Or was I too emotional?" 1957 01:16:35,324 --> 01:16:37,460 And you telling me that, it really means the world, 1958 01:16:37,460 --> 01:16:40,162 and I'm trying to keep it together. 1959 01:16:40,162 --> 01:16:43,399 [laughs] 1960 01:16:43,399 --> 01:16:45,301 So thank you. ‐ Absolutely. 1961 01:16:45,301 --> 01:16:47,336 You're gonna make an amazing husband. 1962 01:16:47,336 --> 01:16:49,105 ‐ Thank you. ‐ And an amazing dad. 1963 01:16:49,105 --> 01:16:50,306 ‐ Thank you. Can't wait. 1964 01:16:50,306 --> 01:16:52,875 ‐ I appreciate you, because you made my experience 1965 01:16:52,875 --> 01:16:54,143 ten times better as well. 1966 01:16:54,143 --> 01:16:56,445 ‐ Thank you. I appreciate that. 1967 01:16:56,445 --> 01:16:58,414 ‐ Riley, thank you very much, and Tayshia as well, 1968 01:16:58,414 --> 01:17:00,316 and I just‐‐ I really appreciate it, 1969 01:17:00,316 --> 01:17:02,351 you guys opening up like you did tonight. 1970 01:17:02,351 --> 01:17:05,387 I know it's never easy to be this candid, 1971 01:17:05,387 --> 01:17:08,157 so thank you very much. 1972 01:17:08,157 --> 01:17:09,225 Ladies and gentlemen, 1973 01:17:09,225 --> 01:17:11,160 we're gonna lighten it up a little bit. 1974 01:17:11,160 --> 01:17:13,262 It's what you've been waiting for, Bachelor Nation. 1975 01:17:13,262 --> 01:17:14,296 We got bloopers. 1976 01:17:14,296 --> 01:17:15,598 And that's coming up. ‐ Oh, boy. 1977 01:17:15,598 --> 01:17:18,200 ‐ And then you're gonna get an exclusive sneak peek 1978 01:17:18,200 --> 01:17:20,503 at what's to come for Tayshia and her final four men. 1979 01:17:20,503 --> 01:17:23,405 You think you know how all this is gonna end? 1980 01:17:23,405 --> 01:17:25,374 Well, guess what? You don't. 1981 01:17:25,374 --> 01:17:27,743 You may wanna stick around. 1982 01:17:31,180 --> 01:17:34,183 [upbeat music] 1983 01:17:34,183 --> 01:17:35,384 ♪ ♪ 1984 01:17:35,384 --> 01:17:38,120 ‐ Welcome back to a very special Men Tell All. 1985 01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:41,257 It has been quite a night with Tayshia, 1986 01:17:41,257 --> 01:17:42,525 Tayshia's gentlemen, 1987 01:17:42,525 --> 01:17:45,261 but now it's time to have just a little bit of fun. 1988 01:17:45,261 --> 01:17:47,429 There is one thing that I am sure of, 1989 01:17:47,429 --> 01:17:50,232 and that is, well, we're never complete 1990 01:17:50,232 --> 01:17:53,068 in our hearts, in our souls, 1991 01:17:53,068 --> 01:17:55,104 until we watch the bloopers, 1992 01:17:55,104 --> 01:17:56,438 and Bachelor Nation, 1993 01:17:56,438 --> 01:17:58,274 you know I'm always here for you. 1994 01:17:58,274 --> 01:17:59,875 Let's do it. 1995 01:17:59,875 --> 01:18:02,878 [pleasant music] 1996 01:18:02,878 --> 01:18:07,917 ♪ ♪ 1997 01:18:07,917 --> 01:18:09,018 [dress rips] ‐ [gasps] 1998 01:18:09,018 --> 01:18:10,252 ‐ Oh, no. [laughter] 1999 01:18:10,252 --> 01:18:12,221 ‐ Your dress got stuck in the door. 2000 01:18:12,221 --> 01:18:14,323 ‐ One more time, guys. Ready from the top. 2001 01:18:14,323 --> 01:18:17,826 [quirky music] 2002 01:18:17,826 --> 01:18:20,262 ♪ ♪ 2003 01:18:20,262 --> 01:18:21,263 ‐ Whoa. 2004 01:18:21,263 --> 01:18:23,065 [laughs] 2005 01:18:23,065 --> 01:18:24,433 Uh, door's locked. 2006 01:18:24,433 --> 01:18:26,202 ‐ I just don't ever wanna forget 2007 01:18:26,202 --> 01:18:28,871 this experience, you know? 2008 01:18:28,871 --> 01:18:29,939 [laughter] 2009 01:18:29,939 --> 01:18:31,807 I smell the chicken. 2010 01:18:31,807 --> 01:18:33,209 Joe is‐‐ 2011 01:18:33,209 --> 01:18:34,476 you're eating that chicken, aren't you? 2012 01:18:34,476 --> 01:18:37,046 I could eat, like, 25 of these things. 2013 01:18:37,046 --> 01:18:38,214 Could you imagine if they showed 2014 01:18:38,214 --> 01:18:40,015 everything I've eaten on here? 2015 01:18:40,015 --> 01:18:43,085 [laughter] 2016 01:18:45,187 --> 01:18:47,389 What's his name again? 2017 01:18:47,389 --> 01:18:49,325 ‐ Garin. ‐ Aaron? 2018 01:18:49,325 --> 01:18:51,126 ‐ Garin. 2019 01:18:51,126 --> 01:18:53,162 ‐ Garrett? 2020 01:18:53,162 --> 01:18:54,997 both: Garin. ‐ With a G. 2021 01:18:54,997 --> 01:18:56,265 ‐ Karen? [laughter] 2022 01:18:56,265 --> 01:18:57,399 [upbeat tropical music] 2023 01:18:57,399 --> 01:19:00,069 ‐ Who would've thought it? Who would've thought it? 2024 01:19:00,069 --> 01:19:01,370 ♪ ♪ 2025 01:19:01,370 --> 01:19:04,306 ‐ Hey! Hey! [laughter] 2026 01:19:04,306 --> 01:19:06,242 ♪ ♪ 2027 01:19:06,242 --> 01:19:09,044 ‐ I don't think this is salsa, but, like, I like it. 2028 01:19:09,044 --> 01:19:10,145 [laughs] 2029 01:19:10,145 --> 01:19:12,147 [silly singing] [laughs] 2030 01:19:12,147 --> 01:19:14,883 No. [sings high note] 2031 01:19:14,883 --> 01:19:16,085 ‐ Higher. 2032 01:19:16,085 --> 01:19:18,220 ‐ [screams] Oh! 2033 01:19:18,220 --> 01:19:19,455 ‐ Ready? ‐ Oh. 2034 01:19:19,455 --> 01:19:21,257 ‐ Uh‐oh. [laughter] 2035 01:19:21,257 --> 01:19:22,424 ‐ That's a workout. 2036 01:19:22,424 --> 01:19:24,260 ‐ Oh, my‐‐oh, oh! 2037 01:19:24,260 --> 01:19:26,095 Oh! [laughs] ‐ You all right? 2038 01:19:26,095 --> 01:19:27,529 [objects clattering] 2039 01:19:27,529 --> 01:19:29,365 ‐ Oh, no. ‐ We're good. 2040 01:19:29,365 --> 01:19:30,366 [sighs] 2041 01:19:30,366 --> 01:19:32,301 [insect buzzing] 2042 01:19:32,301 --> 01:19:33,402 I feel like I'm really good at‐‐ 2043 01:19:33,402 --> 01:19:35,938 [insect buzzing] Hey! 2044 01:19:35,938 --> 01:19:37,239 Stupid flies. 2045 01:19:37,239 --> 01:19:38,307 [insect buzzing] 2046 01:19:38,307 --> 01:19:39,541 Oh! Oh, Lord Jesus. 2047 01:19:39,541 --> 01:19:42,044 ‐ Oh, my God! A rat just came out. 2048 01:19:42,044 --> 01:19:43,145 [rat squeaks] [gasps] 2049 01:19:43,145 --> 01:19:44,513 I'm the Bachelorette! 2050 01:19:44,513 --> 01:19:47,950 [rat shrieks] [laughter] 2051 01:19:47,950 --> 01:19:49,051 ‐ You a soprano? 2052 01:19:49,051 --> 01:19:50,219 ‐ [laughs] No. 2053 01:19:50,219 --> 01:19:52,121 It comes out sometimes. 2054 01:19:52,121 --> 01:19:53,355 ‐ Ah, but we had a great time, 2055 01:19:53,355 --> 01:19:56,292 and overall, it was just such a season 2056 01:19:56,292 --> 01:19:59,061 unlike any other we had all ever been through. 2057 01:19:59,061 --> 01:19:59,662 I know it was rushed, 2058 01:19:59,662 --> 01:20:01,664 I know it was a crazy moment in your life, 2059 01:20:01,664 --> 01:20:03,699 but as you look back, are you glad 2060 01:20:03,699 --> 01:20:06,335 you picked up the phone and answered the call? 2061 01:20:06,335 --> 01:20:07,603 ‐ Absolutely. ‐ Yeah? 2062 01:20:07,603 --> 01:20:10,406 ‐ I just took a leap of faith and knew my heart was ready 2063 01:20:10,406 --> 01:20:12,441 and I dove in and I met all of you, 2064 01:20:12,441 --> 01:20:14,677 so no, I don't regret a thing. 2065 01:20:14,677 --> 01:20:17,179 ‐ Well, to you, my dear friend, thank you. 2066 01:20:17,179 --> 01:20:18,647 It's always good to be by your side. 2067 01:20:18,647 --> 01:20:21,517 Bachelor Nation, join us tomorrow night 2068 01:20:21,517 --> 01:20:25,120 for another dramatic episode of "The Bachelorette." 2069 01:20:25,120 --> 01:20:26,221 Now, for that sneak peek 2070 01:20:26,221 --> 01:20:28,157 of Tayshia's journey I promised you? 2071 01:20:28,157 --> 01:20:29,358 Let's take a look. 2072 01:20:29,358 --> 01:20:31,427 Good night, everybody. 2073 01:20:31,427 --> 01:20:32,461 ‐ Hi! 2074 01:20:32,461 --> 01:20:33,629 ‐ Tomorrow night, 2075 01:20:33,629 --> 01:20:36,398 Tayshia's journey to find love continues. 2076 01:20:36,398 --> 01:20:38,500 ‐ I am so excited for Hometowns. 2077 01:20:38,500 --> 01:20:39,601 Oh, my‐‐ ‐ Hi. Hi. 2078 01:20:39,601 --> 01:20:41,270 Seeing Tayshia with my family, 2079 01:20:41,270 --> 01:20:43,038 I felt like I saw a glimpse of the future. 2080 01:20:43,038 --> 01:20:43,706 ‐ Mama. 2081 01:20:43,706 --> 01:20:46,542 ‐ I haven't seen him smile that much in a long time. 2082 01:20:46,542 --> 01:20:48,977 ‐ Tonight was the most important night of my life. 2083 01:20:48,977 --> 01:20:49,645 [both cheer] 2084 01:20:49,645 --> 01:20:51,447 ‐ The way you guys look at each other, 2085 01:20:51,447 --> 01:20:53,415 there's definitely a connection there. 2086 01:20:53,415 --> 01:20:55,451 ‐ I have these concerns about proposing 2087 01:20:55,451 --> 01:20:57,519 that I haven't been able to shake. 2088 01:20:57,519 --> 01:20:59,488 ‐ You love her. 2089 01:20:59,488 --> 01:21:00,622 ‐ I don't know. 2090 01:21:00,622 --> 01:21:03,425 ‐ I'm still a big skeptic. It's just so fast. 2091 01:21:03,425 --> 01:21:04,693 ‐ Where are you at with Zac 2092 01:21:04,693 --> 01:21:06,762 in comparison to the other three? 2093 01:21:06,762 --> 01:21:08,497 ‐ I'm definitely falling in love with Zac. 2094 01:21:08,497 --> 01:21:10,466 ‐ You didn't answer the question. 2095 01:21:10,466 --> 01:21:11,700 ‐ Yeah. ‐ [sobbing] 2096 01:21:11,700 --> 01:21:13,569 ‐ This is not how I thought it was gonna end. 2097 01:21:13,569 --> 01:21:15,237 ‐ I should have told her. 2098 01:21:15,237 --> 01:21:17,206 ‐ This is really real for me. 2099 01:21:17,206 --> 01:21:18,474 ‐ [sobbing] 2100 01:21:18,474 --> 01:21:21,343 It's just, like, a lot. 2101 01:21:21,343 --> 01:21:23,379 It's, like, a lot. 2102 01:21:23,379 --> 01:21:24,646 ‐ And next week, 2103 01:21:24,646 --> 01:21:27,316 it's the dramatic season finale 2104 01:21:27,316 --> 01:21:28,717 Monday and Tuesday, 2105 01:21:28,717 --> 01:21:32,254 when Tayshia's journey comes to an emotional end. 2106 01:21:32,254 --> 01:21:33,489 ‐ Oh, my God. 2107 01:21:33,489 --> 01:21:36,592 Fantasy Suites are this week, and it stresses me out. 2108 01:21:36,592 --> 01:21:39,528 ‐ I've never felt this feeling, but I'm in love with you. 2109 01:21:39,528 --> 01:21:41,397 ‐ It's strange envisioning 2110 01:21:41,397 --> 01:21:44,466 her spending the night with another man. 2111 01:21:44,466 --> 01:21:46,502 ‐ It's, like, the elephant in the room. 2112 01:21:46,502 --> 01:21:49,605 When the love is this real, there's a lot to lose. 2113 01:21:49,605 --> 01:21:53,175 ‐ This thing could be the bomb that just explodes everything. 2114 01:21:53,175 --> 01:21:54,410 ‐ There's a Rose Ceremony. 2115 01:21:54,410 --> 01:21:56,378 What do I do with that? 2116 01:21:56,378 --> 01:21:58,313 I could be getting engaged. I'm terrified. 2117 01:21:58,313 --> 01:21:59,481 [crying] 2118 01:21:59,481 --> 01:22:00,883 I have been down this road before. 2119 01:22:00,883 --> 01:22:03,485 There's a lot of things that I don't wanna experience 2120 01:22:03,485 --> 01:22:05,254 that I have in the past. 2121 01:22:05,254 --> 01:22:06,422 [sobbing] Oh, my God. 2122 01:22:06,422 --> 01:22:08,557 The stress and anxiety just kind of hit me. 2123 01:22:08,557 --> 01:22:10,592 What if it didn't work out? 2124 01:22:10,592 --> 01:22:12,327 ‐ Frankly, I'm worried. 2125 01:22:12,327 --> 01:22:14,296 I've seen you hurt before. 2126 01:22:14,296 --> 01:22:15,664 I don't want you to get hurt. 2127 01:22:15,664 --> 01:22:16,732 I don't want you to be making 2128 01:22:16,732 --> 01:22:18,567 the biggest mistake of your life. 2129 01:22:18,567 --> 01:22:20,569 [dramatic music] 2130 01:22:20,569 --> 01:22:24,072 ‐ [sobbing] 2131 01:22:25,641 --> 01:22:28,677 ‐ The drama and emotion of Tayshia's journey continues 2132 01:22:28,677 --> 01:22:31,480 tomorrow night on "The Bachelorette." 2133 01:22:31,480 --> 01:22:33,682 ‐ You know, Château Bennétt is a little bit more 2134 01:22:33,682 --> 01:22:36,485 than just top‐shelf spa water 2135 01:22:36,485 --> 01:22:38,587 and impeccably‐tailored suits. 2136 01:22:38,587 --> 01:22:41,323 It's really more of a mind, body, you know, and spirit. 2137 01:22:41,323 --> 01:22:42,458 I'd wake up every morning, 2138 01:22:42,458 --> 01:22:43,859 do some yoga outside in the backyard, 2139 01:22:43,859 --> 01:22:47,196 and then, usually, I'd have a green juice. 2140 01:22:47,196 --> 01:22:48,730 Pauly! 2141 01:22:48,730 --> 01:22:49,932 ‐ [gasps] Green juice! 2142 01:22:49,932 --> 01:22:52,601 ‐ Some green juices for everyone here to enjoy. 2143 01:22:52,601 --> 01:22:55,304 ‐ Hey, you know what, Bennett? I've always liked you. 2144 01:22:55,304 --> 01:22:57,272 ‐ Thanks, Pauly. 2145 01:22:57,272 --> 01:22:58,507 Fellas? ‐ Oh, God. 2146 01:22:58,507 --> 01:23:00,576 ‐ My good sir, thank you. ‐ Riley. 2147 01:23:00,576 --> 01:23:02,311 There we go. ‐ Thank you, Bennett. 2148 01:23:02,311 --> 01:23:03,445 ‐ Here we go. ‐ [laughs] 2149 01:23:03,445 --> 01:23:05,614 ‐ One for you. ‐ Thank you. 2150 01:23:05,614 --> 01:23:06,882 Christopher. ‐ Oh, wow, the host gets one. 2151 01:23:06,882 --> 01:23:08,484 ‐ Yeah, of course. Of course. ‐ Thanks, man. 2152 01:23:08,484 --> 01:23:09,518 No one's ever brought me a drink. 2153 01:23:09,518 --> 01:23:10,686 ‐ Keep your greens. 2154 01:23:10,686 --> 01:23:13,455 And for my little baby herb, baby Noah, 2155 01:23:13,455 --> 01:23:14,656 we've got a little baby sippy cup. 2156 01:23:14,656 --> 01:23:16,492 ‐ Do I two‐hand it or one‐hand it? 2157 01:23:16,492 --> 01:23:17,693 ‐ Two hands, probably. Clink. Thank you. 2158 01:23:17,693 --> 01:23:21,597 Fellas, this one's to health, wealth, and happiness. 2159 01:23:21,597 --> 01:23:22,831 both: Cheers. ‐ Cheers, boys. 2160 01:23:22,831 --> 01:23:24,399 ‐ Cheers, fellas. ‐ Cheers, man. 2161 01:23:24,399 --> 01:23:25,634 ‐ Cheers. ‐ Little veggie, yeah. 2162 01:23:25,634 --> 01:23:26,869 ‐ Thanks, man. That was really good. 2163 01:23:26,869 --> 01:23:28,871 ‐ I don't know if I should be mad or happy, 2164 01:23:28,871 --> 01:23:32,040 to be honest, 'cause this tastes great.