1 00:00:01,502 --> 00:00:03,403 ‐ Previously, on "The Bachelorette"... 2 00:00:03,403 --> 00:00:04,505 ‐ Clare, my name is Dale. 3 00:00:04,505 --> 00:00:06,507 ‐ When Dale stepped out of the limo, 4 00:00:06,507 --> 00:00:07,875 it was like love at first sight. 5 00:00:07,875 --> 00:00:11,612 ‐ I know how I feel, and I'm not afraid. 6 00:00:11,612 --> 00:00:13,881 [enchanting music] 7 00:00:13,881 --> 00:00:16,016 ‐ I'm pissed off right now. ‐ Clare has 8 00:00:16,016 --> 00:00:19,653 a massive crush on Dale. She's got total tunnel vision. 9 00:00:19,653 --> 00:00:21,855 ‐ I was the best one suited. ‐ You were the best man suited? 10 00:00:21,855 --> 00:00:23,690 He thinks he's better than all of us? 11 00:00:23,690 --> 00:00:24,925 He's not better than all of us. 12 00:00:24,925 --> 00:00:26,793 ‐ It's almost like they're already dating. 13 00:00:26,793 --> 00:00:28,829 If you want Dale and that's what's up, 14 00:00:28,829 --> 00:00:31,231 how 'bout the rest of us walk out? 15 00:00:31,231 --> 00:00:32,332 [dramatic music] 16 00:00:32,332 --> 00:00:33,333 ‐ And tonight... 17 00:00:33,333 --> 00:00:34,701 ‐ [sobbing] 18 00:00:34,701 --> 00:00:37,371 ‐ The truth about Clare's journey 19 00:00:37,371 --> 00:00:38,639 is finally revealed. 20 00:00:38,639 --> 00:00:40,674 We have never dealt with anything like this 21 00:00:40,674 --> 00:00:41,775 in the history of our show. 22 00:00:41,775 --> 00:00:44,478 ‐ I'll apologize if I wasted your time. 23 00:00:44,478 --> 00:00:47,014 I'll apologize if I hurt you. ‐ Why am I here? 24 00:00:47,014 --> 00:00:50,517 ‐ Can all the shocking rumors really be true? 25 00:00:50,517 --> 00:00:52,653 ‐ I still haven't, like, fully comprehended 26 00:00:52,653 --> 00:00:53,954 what the hell's going on. 27 00:00:53,954 --> 00:00:56,723 ‐ You can tell that guys are getting drained and fed up. 28 00:00:56,723 --> 00:00:58,992 ‐ Dale is not her guy. [bleep] that. 29 00:00:58,992 --> 00:01:02,629 ‐ Has Clare's journey come to a dramatic end? 30 00:01:02,629 --> 00:01:05,566 ‐ [sobs] ‐ The path we're on right now, 31 00:01:05,566 --> 00:01:06,967 we can't continue. 32 00:01:06,967 --> 00:01:10,137 You've just blown up "The Bachelorette." 33 00:01:10,737 --> 00:01:13,707 Or is it just an unbelievable beginning? 34 00:01:13,707 --> 00:01:15,742 ‐ I am so in love with this man, 35 00:01:15,742 --> 00:01:17,878 and I can't wait for the next step with him. 36 00:01:17,878 --> 00:01:21,281 ‐ It feels like there's some unfinished business here. 37 00:01:21,281 --> 00:01:23,550 ‐ What is next? 38 00:01:23,550 --> 00:01:25,652 ‐ It's an episode of "The Bachelorette" 39 00:01:25,652 --> 00:01:30,490 you won't believe, and it all starts right now. 40 00:01:30,490 --> 00:01:33,493 [birds chirping] 41 00:01:36,897 --> 00:01:40,400 ‐ After last night, I don't know how to feel, personally. 42 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:41,802 No Group Rose for nobody. 43 00:01:41,802 --> 00:01:44,504 Like, we did everything you asked. 44 00:01:44,504 --> 00:01:46,573 ‐ I mean, it was not hard to feel defeated 45 00:01:46,573 --> 00:01:47,841 walking home last night. ‐ Mm‐hmm. 46 00:01:47,841 --> 00:01:49,042 ‐ Yeah. ‐ It definitely didn't 47 00:01:49,042 --> 00:01:50,677 sit well with a lot of people 'cause they're like, 48 00:01:50,677 --> 00:01:51,845 "Wow, then what was the point of this whole 49 00:01:51,845 --> 00:01:54,648 entire date if you didn't give us the time then?" 50 00:01:54,648 --> 00:01:58,552 ‐ Her explanation was, "I'm not giving a Group Date Rose 51 00:01:58,552 --> 00:01:59,653 "because I feel like I didn't 52 00:01:59,653 --> 00:02:01,054 get enough time with any of you." 53 00:02:01,054 --> 00:02:03,690 Well, you could have. ‐ You absolutely could have. 54 00:02:03,690 --> 00:02:05,459 ‐ And this has nothing to do with Dale. 55 00:02:05,459 --> 00:02:06,860 This is on her. 56 00:02:06,860 --> 00:02:09,663 At the end of our group date, she left it like: 57 00:02:09,663 --> 00:02:10,931 "You guys are all pieces of [bleep]. 58 00:02:10,931 --> 00:02:12,933 I'm not giving you a rose." 59 00:02:12,933 --> 00:02:14,901 She's wrapped up in whatever the [bleep]'s 60 00:02:14,901 --> 00:02:17,771 going on with Dale, but this needs to be addressed 61 00:02:17,771 --> 00:02:20,641 because we can't do anything forward 62 00:02:20,641 --> 00:02:22,776 with this [bleep] elephant in the room. 63 00:02:22,776 --> 00:02:24,678 She's not even giving 64 00:02:24,678 --> 00:02:27,714 anybody else in this house an opportunity. 65 00:02:27,714 --> 00:02:29,616 It's almost like she doesn't care 66 00:02:29,616 --> 00:02:31,585 to learn about anybody else. 67 00:02:31,585 --> 00:02:32,919 Like, why am I here? 68 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:34,888 We just need to know what's going on. 69 00:02:34,888 --> 00:02:36,623 Everybody would love to know 70 00:02:36,623 --> 00:02:38,125 just what the [bleep] are you thinking 71 00:02:38,125 --> 00:02:41,428 right now, Clare, 'cause you're not telling us [bleep]. 72 00:02:41,428 --> 00:02:44,598 [birds chirping] 73 00:02:47,534 --> 00:02:50,537 [soft music] 74 00:02:50,537 --> 00:02:52,406 ♪ ♪ 75 00:02:52,406 --> 00:02:53,740 ‐ [sighs] 76 00:02:53,740 --> 00:02:56,843 I'm so falling in love with Dale. 77 00:02:56,843 --> 00:02:59,913 We have this connection where it feels like 78 00:02:59,913 --> 00:03:01,581 I've known him forever. 79 00:03:01,581 --> 00:03:04,051 It's that intangible chemistry 80 00:03:04,051 --> 00:03:07,954 that you just can't make up and you can't replace. 81 00:03:07,954 --> 00:03:10,657 It's something that is just so rare, 82 00:03:10,657 --> 00:03:12,959 to feel so connected with somebody 83 00:03:12,959 --> 00:03:16,096 when you've only known 'em for such a short period of time. 84 00:03:16,096 --> 00:03:19,733 I mean, there really is that fine line 85 00:03:19,733 --> 00:03:22,035 between respecting the process 86 00:03:22,035 --> 00:03:24,705 but also going for what you want, 87 00:03:24,705 --> 00:03:28,341 and Dale is what I want. 88 00:03:28,341 --> 00:03:29,643 [sighs] 89 00:03:29,643 --> 00:03:31,678 ♪ ♪ 90 00:03:31,678 --> 00:03:33,847 What do we do from here? 91 00:03:33,847 --> 00:03:36,249 [softly] What do we do? 92 00:03:48,462 --> 00:03:49,629 Hi! ‐ Hey. 93 00:03:49,629 --> 00:03:50,697 ‐ Come on in. ‐ Surprise. 94 00:03:50,697 --> 00:03:51,865 How you doing? ‐ [laughs] 95 00:03:51,865 --> 00:03:53,166 I was just talking about you. ‐ Good to see you. 96 00:03:53,166 --> 00:03:55,469 ‐ Good to see you too. ‐ Oh, I hope good things. 97 00:03:55,469 --> 00:03:56,603 ‐ Yeah! ‐ [sighs] 98 00:03:56,603 --> 00:03:58,905 ‐ Come on in. ‐ Sit and have a chat? 99 00:03:58,905 --> 00:04:00,807 ‐ Yeah. ‐ Can I rearrange furniture? 100 00:04:00,807 --> 00:04:03,844 ‐ Please. [laughs] 101 00:04:03,844 --> 00:04:06,580 ‐ [sighs] 102 00:04:06,580 --> 00:04:07,714 ‐ I didn't know you were coming. 103 00:04:07,714 --> 00:04:08,949 ‐ I know. 104 00:04:08,949 --> 00:04:10,717 Last‐minute change. ‐ Yeah. 105 00:04:10,717 --> 00:04:12,853 ‐ A little surprise, but... ‐ Yeah. 106 00:04:12,853 --> 00:04:14,654 ‐ [sighs] 107 00:04:14,654 --> 00:04:16,656 ‐ What's up? ‐ We need to talk. 108 00:04:16,656 --> 00:04:19,025 ‐ Okay. ‐ Um... 109 00:04:19,025 --> 00:04:22,796 we need to have a serious, honest, just‐you‐and‐me talk. 110 00:04:22,796 --> 00:04:26,533 Right now, the guys in the house 111 00:04:26,533 --> 00:04:28,869 are unhappy. 112 00:04:28,869 --> 00:04:30,837 They're confused. 113 00:04:30,837 --> 00:04:32,672 These are good guys, and they're not dumb. 114 00:04:32,672 --> 00:04:33,774 ‐ Yeah. ‐ These are smart men. 115 00:04:33,774 --> 00:04:35,709 They know what's going on. ‐ Yeah. 116 00:04:35,709 --> 00:04:39,780 ‐ The path we're on right now... 117 00:04:39,780 --> 00:04:42,382 we can't continue. 118 00:04:44,885 --> 00:04:45,919 ‐ It's hard. 119 00:04:45,919 --> 00:04:49,790 It's hard because on one hand, like, 120 00:04:49,790 --> 00:04:53,026 I completely respect the process of all this. 121 00:04:53,026 --> 00:04:55,862 I completely understand what it means 122 00:04:55,862 --> 00:04:58,031 to see what works for me, to see what doesn't 123 00:04:58,031 --> 00:04:59,866 work for me, and to get to know these guys. 124 00:04:59,866 --> 00:05:02,969 And there are some really amazing guys here. 125 00:05:02,969 --> 00:05:04,171 ‐ What are you feeling? 126 00:05:04,171 --> 00:05:07,841 And‐‐and be totally and completely honest with me, 127 00:05:07,841 --> 00:05:09,509 no [bleep]. 128 00:05:09,509 --> 00:05:11,311 ‐ I... 129 00:05:12,779 --> 00:05:16,650 Totally am like head over heels for Dale. 130 00:05:16,650 --> 00:05:18,718 He's amazing. 131 00:05:20,887 --> 00:05:23,890 I don't know. Like, it's so crazy. 132 00:05:23,890 --> 00:05:25,926 Like, I feel like maybe the universe 133 00:05:25,926 --> 00:05:29,763 was like working in my favor, because even when we first 134 00:05:29,763 --> 00:05:31,865 stopped filming because of COVID 135 00:05:31,865 --> 00:05:33,934 and had to go into quarantine, 136 00:05:33,934 --> 00:05:36,169 everything was kind of stacked against me, 137 00:05:36,169 --> 00:05:38,205 and I couldn't have contact with anybody. 138 00:05:38,205 --> 00:05:41,274 And I would look at all the guys' social media pages, 139 00:05:41,274 --> 00:05:43,710 just to see what kind of guys are coming on, 140 00:05:43,710 --> 00:05:44,845 which kind of guys I'm gonna meet, 141 00:05:44,845 --> 00:05:46,780 and I was excited for it. 142 00:05:46,780 --> 00:05:48,915 But when I would see Dale's, 143 00:05:48,915 --> 00:05:52,919 it just was like, he's somebody 144 00:05:52,919 --> 00:05:55,055 that I could see hanging out with. 145 00:05:55,055 --> 00:05:56,122 I like what he talks about. 146 00:05:56,122 --> 00:05:57,724 I like what he's interested in. 147 00:05:57,724 --> 00:06:00,227 Like...on Mother's Day, 148 00:06:00,227 --> 00:06:03,830 I happened to look at his social media, 149 00:06:03,830 --> 00:06:07,133 and it was close to the anniversary 150 00:06:07,133 --> 00:06:08,768 that his mom passed away, 151 00:06:08,768 --> 00:06:10,737 and I could just relate so much, 152 00:06:10,737 --> 00:06:12,706 and my heart was so heavy for him. 153 00:06:12,706 --> 00:06:13,874 My heart went out to him. 154 00:06:13,874 --> 00:06:17,077 I would see his sister that's in a care facility, 155 00:06:17,077 --> 00:06:20,013 and...I relate to that because my mom's 156 00:06:20,013 --> 00:06:21,681 in the same situation. ‐ Yeah. 157 00:06:21,681 --> 00:06:24,084 ‐ And it's just so parallel 158 00:06:24,084 --> 00:06:27,087 that it was‐‐I would say definitely built up 159 00:06:27,087 --> 00:06:28,855 before we even got here. 160 00:06:28,855 --> 00:06:31,658 ‐ Can I ask you a very honest question? 161 00:06:31,658 --> 00:06:32,759 ‐ Yeah, absolutely. 162 00:06:32,759 --> 00:06:34,027 ‐ Don't [bleep] me. ‐ Yeah. 163 00:06:34,027 --> 00:06:36,363 ‐ Did you guys talk at all before the show? 164 00:06:36,363 --> 00:06:39,966 ‐ Not one bit, not one word. I swear on my dad's grave. 165 00:06:39,966 --> 00:06:41,134 ‐ Okay. ‐ Not one single word... 166 00:06:41,134 --> 00:06:44,104 ‐ Okay. ‐ Not one single contact, 100%. 167 00:06:44,104 --> 00:06:49,476 And that's why, like, I'm...so into this. 168 00:06:50,877 --> 00:06:55,148 I've just spent years knowing what I don't want, 169 00:06:55,148 --> 00:06:58,251 and it's given me so much clarity coming into this‐‐ 170 00:06:58,251 --> 00:07:02,722 especially in quarantine‐‐ to focus in on what I do want. 171 00:07:05,025 --> 00:07:08,995 I feel like Dale is my match. ‐ Mm‐hmm. 172 00:07:08,995 --> 00:07:13,700 ‐ He meets me on the level emotionally of... 173 00:07:15,235 --> 00:07:18,004 what I'm looking for, what‐‐ everything I want 174 00:07:18,004 --> 00:07:20,273 out of a relationship, everything I want out of life. 175 00:07:20,273 --> 00:07:23,910 When I was struggling with how Yosef was treating me... 176 00:07:23,910 --> 00:07:25,879 ‐ Yeah. ‐ I look over, 177 00:07:25,879 --> 00:07:27,981 and Dale's there, having my back, 178 00:07:27,981 --> 00:07:30,884 coming to check on me and protect me. 179 00:07:30,884 --> 00:07:33,286 ‐ You spent your whole life... ‐ [sniffles] 180 00:07:33,286 --> 00:07:37,958 ‐ Looking for someone that'll remind you of your dad. 181 00:07:37,958 --> 00:07:39,893 ‐ [softly] Yeah. 182 00:07:39,893 --> 00:07:42,862 ‐ Is Dale that man? 183 00:07:42,862 --> 00:07:44,898 ‐ I think he is. 184 00:07:44,898 --> 00:07:47,968 Like, he just continually shows up for me. 185 00:07:47,968 --> 00:07:50,670 [emotional music] 186 00:07:50,670 --> 00:07:51,771 [sniffles] 187 00:07:51,771 --> 00:07:55,909 ♪ ♪ 188 00:07:55,909 --> 00:07:58,845 [laughs, sniffles] 189 00:07:58,845 --> 00:07:59,946 Yeah. 190 00:07:59,946 --> 00:08:03,717 ♪ ♪ 191 00:08:03,717 --> 00:08:05,018 [sniffles] 192 00:08:05,018 --> 00:08:07,887 I've just waited so long for this. 193 00:08:07,887 --> 00:08:12,025 ♪ ♪ 194 00:08:12,025 --> 00:08:13,626 [sniffles] 195 00:08:13,626 --> 00:08:18,198 ♪ ♪ 196 00:08:18,198 --> 00:08:21,634 I waited so long for this. 197 00:08:21,634 --> 00:08:23,470 [sniffles] 198 00:08:26,072 --> 00:08:27,874 [sighs] 199 00:08:27,874 --> 00:08:30,877 ♪ ♪ 200 00:08:30,877 --> 00:08:31,945 [sniffles] 201 00:08:31,945 --> 00:08:38,985 ♪ ♪ 202 00:08:38,985 --> 00:08:40,186 What do we do? 203 00:08:40,186 --> 00:08:43,023 Because I don't know how to go on. 204 00:08:43,023 --> 00:08:44,157 I don't know how... 205 00:08:44,157 --> 00:08:46,226 [sniffles] 206 00:08:46,226 --> 00:08:48,094 I don't wanna disrespect these guys 207 00:08:48,094 --> 00:08:49,462 or waste their time. 208 00:08:49,462 --> 00:08:52,766 ‐ We've never dealt with anything like this before, 209 00:08:52,766 --> 00:08:54,667 and so... 210 00:08:55,969 --> 00:08:59,105 I think we have to reinvent this whole thing. 211 00:08:59,105 --> 00:09:01,975 What would you like to do? 212 00:09:01,975 --> 00:09:08,048 ‐ I would so just love to... 213 00:09:08,048 --> 00:09:10,817 spend as much as I can with him. 214 00:09:10,817 --> 00:09:12,852 ‐ Okay. 215 00:09:13,186 --> 00:09:16,689 ‐ I wanna be able to let him know how I feel... 216 00:09:23,363 --> 00:09:26,232 ‐ So in your mind, right now, 217 00:09:26,232 --> 00:09:29,002 is this over? 218 00:09:30,003 --> 00:09:31,104 ‐ [softly] Yeah. 219 00:09:31,104 --> 00:09:32,839 ‐ [softly] Okay. 220 00:09:33,907 --> 00:09:35,308 Okay. 221 00:09:35,308 --> 00:09:38,945 Congratulations; you've just blown up "The Bachelorette." 222 00:09:38,945 --> 00:09:40,146 ‐ [laughs] 223 00:09:40,146 --> 00:09:42,582 [sniffles] 224 00:09:46,086 --> 00:09:48,421 [birds chirping] 225 00:09:48,421 --> 00:09:50,423 ‐ Do y'all feel the vibes of, like, 226 00:09:50,423 --> 00:09:52,292 every Rose Ceremony that passes, like, 227 00:09:52,292 --> 00:09:53,460 when you start putting on that suit, 228 00:09:53,460 --> 00:09:56,196 it's like the nerves start going a little bit more. 229 00:09:56,196 --> 00:09:57,297 ‐ Yep. 230 00:09:57,297 --> 00:09:59,499 ‐ Tonight is the cocktail party, 231 00:09:59,499 --> 00:10:02,102 and we definitely wanted to ask Clare some things 232 00:10:02,102 --> 00:10:04,471 just so we know, you know, what's going on. 233 00:10:04,471 --> 00:10:07,874 ‐ Going into tonight, I‐‐I'm just kind of looking 234 00:10:07,874 --> 00:10:09,175 to get a‐‐a little bit more, 235 00:10:09,175 --> 00:10:13,146 uh, clarity from Clare. 236 00:10:13,146 --> 00:10:16,049 Uh, some stuff just doesn't seem 237 00:10:16,049 --> 00:10:17,450 to make sense to me right now. 238 00:10:17,450 --> 00:10:20,153 ‐ You can tell that guys are getting drained 239 00:10:20,153 --> 00:10:22,222 and kind of fed up with not having time 240 00:10:22,222 --> 00:10:24,457 and that little bit of time that they do have 241 00:10:24,457 --> 00:10:27,293 being focused on another person. 242 00:10:27,293 --> 00:10:29,295 ‐ I'm a lot of things, but I'm not a quitter. 243 00:10:29,295 --> 00:10:32,165 So that's the message I'm gonna get across. 244 00:10:32,165 --> 00:10:34,067 I'm gonna lean into that and let her know that, 245 00:10:34,067 --> 00:10:35,235 and I'm willing to fight for this 246 00:10:35,235 --> 00:10:37,237 and for whatever comes next 247 00:10:37,237 --> 00:10:38,438 and‐‐and leave it all on the field. 248 00:10:38,438 --> 00:10:40,907 And that's kind of the attitude I'm taking into tonight. 249 00:10:40,907 --> 00:10:42,008 ‐ Who knows? 250 00:10:42,008 --> 00:10:43,276 Maybe she wants to see adversity, 251 00:10:43,276 --> 00:10:46,279 so tonight, I'm gonna maximize my opportunity, 252 00:10:46,279 --> 00:10:48,047 and I'm gonna talk to her as much as I can. 253 00:10:48,047 --> 00:10:51,117 [dramatic music] 254 00:10:51,117 --> 00:10:52,952 [door clicks open] 255 00:10:52,952 --> 00:10:54,320 ♪ ♪ 256 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:56,122 ‐ Boys. ‐ Oh. 257 00:10:56,122 --> 00:10:57,190 ‐ Hello. ‐ Ohh! 258 00:10:57,190 --> 00:10:58,958 ‐ How's it going? ‐ Okay. 259 00:10:58,958 --> 00:11:00,560 [laughs] ‐ Hello, hello. 260 00:11:00,560 --> 00:11:02,295 ‐ How's everybody doing? You guys all right? 261 00:11:02,295 --> 00:11:03,496 ‐ I'm good. [overlapping chatter] 262 00:11:03,496 --> 00:11:07,800 ‐ Uh, sorry to interrupt, but I just talked to Clare. 263 00:11:09,169 --> 00:11:12,138 And she was extremely emotional, 264 00:11:12,138 --> 00:11:13,273 and she let me know 265 00:11:13,273 --> 00:11:16,776 that there's not gonna be a cocktail party tonight. 266 00:11:22,215 --> 00:11:26,052 There's also not gonna be a Rose Ceremony tonight. 267 00:11:26,052 --> 00:11:28,054 ‐ Oh, wow. 268 00:11:28,555 --> 00:11:32,358 ‐ And I will see all of you tomorrow. 269 00:11:32,358 --> 00:11:34,394 Dale, can I talk to you outside real quick? 270 00:11:34,394 --> 00:11:36,162 ‐ Yep. ‐ Thanks. 271 00:11:36,162 --> 00:11:39,165 [uneasy music] 272 00:11:39,165 --> 00:11:44,204 ♪ ♪ 273 00:11:44,204 --> 00:11:46,072 ‐ What's happening right now? 274 00:11:46,072 --> 00:11:49,075 ‐ I have no idea what's going on. 275 00:11:49,075 --> 00:11:52,145 ‐ Why is he talking to Dale outside? 276 00:11:52,145 --> 00:11:53,246 [laughs] I mean‐‐what? 277 00:11:53,246 --> 00:11:55,181 Like, I'm still kind of confused. 278 00:11:55,181 --> 00:11:57,250 ‐ Um, I wanted to pull you out, 279 00:11:57,250 --> 00:11:59,519 uh, to not do this in front of the guys. 280 00:11:59,519 --> 00:12:01,454 ‐ I think Dale's just become a big distraction, 281 00:12:01,454 --> 00:12:03,156 is what it is‐‐a sideshow. 282 00:12:03,156 --> 00:12:04,390 ‐ It's like, give me a break, you know? 283 00:12:04,390 --> 00:12:06,593 It's like‐‐right? ‐ It's really not about Dale. 284 00:12:06,593 --> 00:12:10,196 It's really just about me trusting Clare, 285 00:12:10,196 --> 00:12:12,232 that she's giving everybody a fair shot. 286 00:12:12,232 --> 00:12:13,433 I just need to know, like, 287 00:12:13,433 --> 00:12:15,468 if she's still open to other people, 288 00:12:15,468 --> 00:12:19,172 or is it just about him at this point, and it's done? 289 00:12:19,172 --> 00:12:20,540 ‐ The reason there's no cocktail party 290 00:12:20,540 --> 00:12:22,475 and there's no Rose Ceremony... ‐ Mm‐hmm. 291 00:12:22,475 --> 00:12:25,345 ‐ Is Clare wants to spend time with you tonight. 292 00:12:25,345 --> 00:12:27,146 ‐ Listen. 293 00:12:27,146 --> 00:12:29,315 Dale is not her guy. [bleep] that. 294 00:12:29,315 --> 00:12:30,583 ‐ [laughs] ‐ It is so [bleep] early. 295 00:12:30,583 --> 00:12:32,619 ‐ Yeah. ‐ I'm telling you right now. 296 00:12:32,619 --> 00:12:34,387 There's a bunch of good dudes in here. 297 00:12:34,387 --> 00:12:35,555 She hasn't made up her mind early, 298 00:12:35,555 --> 00:12:38,358 so get it out of your head, 'cause [bleep] that. 299 00:12:38,358 --> 00:12:40,393 ‐ What is going on? 300 00:12:40,393 --> 00:12:43,196 No cocktail party, no Rose Ceremony, 301 00:12:43,196 --> 00:12:45,531 and I get some time with Clare. 302 00:12:45,531 --> 00:12:47,667 You know, I'm excited. 303 00:12:47,667 --> 00:12:50,336 I know Clare and I have a special connection. 304 00:12:50,336 --> 00:12:54,374 That's undeniable, but at the same time, 305 00:12:54,374 --> 00:12:56,776 I don't know what this is all about. 306 00:12:58,111 --> 00:12:59,245 ‐ [whimpers] 307 00:12:59,245 --> 00:13:01,214 I'm so falling in love with this man. 308 00:13:01,214 --> 00:13:03,383 It's a scary situation 309 00:13:03,383 --> 00:13:06,252 to express your feelings towards somebody 310 00:13:06,252 --> 00:13:07,687 for the first time. 311 00:13:07,687 --> 00:13:10,556 This is it for me. I'm taking a risk. 312 00:13:10,556 --> 00:13:14,427 Love innately is taking risks. 313 00:13:14,427 --> 00:13:17,063 And if he's not at the same place as me, 314 00:13:17,063 --> 00:13:18,364 I'll be crushed. 315 00:13:18,364 --> 00:13:22,035 [dramatic chords] 316 00:13:22,035 --> 00:13:23,102 ‐ Coming up... 317 00:13:23,102 --> 00:13:24,604 ‐ I'm really nervous for her. 318 00:13:24,604 --> 00:13:26,272 She's gonna get hurt in the end. 319 00:13:26,272 --> 00:13:29,342 ‐ You don't know anything about him. 320 00:13:29,342 --> 00:13:32,278 ‐ I'm so falling in love with you. 321 00:13:32,278 --> 00:13:33,646 ‐ Um... 322 00:13:33,646 --> 00:13:37,350 ‐ [sobbing] Love is always so hard for me. 323 00:13:37,350 --> 00:13:40,153 I show up... 324 00:13:40,153 --> 00:13:41,254 and they don't. 325 00:13:41,254 --> 00:13:43,890 [sobbing] This is hard. 326 00:13:45,458 --> 00:13:48,961 [moody music] 327 00:13:48,961 --> 00:13:53,766 ♪ ♪ 328 00:13:53,766 --> 00:13:56,436 ‐ Tonight, I have a dinner date with Dale, 329 00:13:56,436 --> 00:14:01,407 and...I want to tell him how I feel about him 330 00:14:01,407 --> 00:14:05,278 because Dale is the man of my dreams, 331 00:14:05,278 --> 00:14:09,082 and I'm so in love with him. 332 00:14:09,082 --> 00:14:10,583 ♪ ♪ 333 00:14:10,583 --> 00:14:13,286 I know it sounds so crazy saying that, 334 00:14:13,286 --> 00:14:15,855 but I just feel it. 335 00:14:17,123 --> 00:14:20,293 But I'm scared because 336 00:14:20,293 --> 00:14:23,329 what if he doesn't feel the same thing? 337 00:14:25,498 --> 00:14:28,000 This is such a big risk. 338 00:14:28,701 --> 00:14:30,470 It's putting a lot on the line 339 00:14:30,470 --> 00:14:33,940 because I have no idea what he's gonna say tonight. 340 00:14:35,508 --> 00:14:38,144 I don't know if it's mutual. 341 00:14:40,146 --> 00:14:42,315 That's terrifying. 342 00:14:42,315 --> 00:14:44,917 ‐ [softly] Oh. 343 00:14:45,451 --> 00:14:47,720 ‐ Hello. ‐ Hello. 344 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:49,455 ‐ I'm a lucky girl. ‐ How are you? 345 00:14:49,455 --> 00:14:50,556 ‐ Good. How are you? 346 00:14:50,556 --> 00:14:53,326 ‐ Good to see you. ‐ So good to see you. 347 00:14:53,326 --> 00:14:54,627 ‐ How are you? ‐ So good. 348 00:14:54,627 --> 00:14:57,330 How are you? ‐ I'm good. 349 00:14:57,330 --> 00:14:58,564 [sighs] 350 00:14:58,564 --> 00:14:59,665 ‐ Yeah. ‐ This is beautiful. 351 00:14:59,665 --> 00:15:00,800 ‐ Yeah. ‐ [chuckles] 352 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:03,336 ‐ Feels like this is most beautiful, perfect spot. 353 00:15:03,336 --> 00:15:04,470 ‐ Let me get this for ya. 354 00:15:04,470 --> 00:15:06,205 ‐ Oop. ‐ Here you go. 355 00:15:06,205 --> 00:15:07,340 ‐ Thank you. 356 00:15:09,242 --> 00:15:11,411 ‐ So you‐‐you chose this one, huh? 357 00:15:11,411 --> 00:15:13,413 ‐ Yeah, I actually feel like I'm the one 358 00:15:13,413 --> 00:15:14,447 who found this spot, to be honest. 359 00:15:14,447 --> 00:15:16,516 ‐ All right. Well, this is beautiful. 360 00:15:16,516 --> 00:15:17,650 ‐ Yeah. ‐ This is beautiful. 361 00:15:17,650 --> 00:15:19,385 ‐ I think it actually might be haunted 362 00:15:19,385 --> 00:15:20,486 but in a good way. 363 00:15:20,486 --> 00:15:22,555 ‐ Yeah, it's okay. ‐ Yeah? 364 00:15:22,555 --> 00:15:23,589 ‐ I feel like there's good energy 365 00:15:23,589 --> 00:15:25,691 throughout this entire, uh‐‐ 366 00:15:25,691 --> 00:15:28,461 at least‐‐I don't know. I felt good energy, 367 00:15:28,461 --> 00:15:29,562 for the most part. Yeah. ‐ Yeah? 368 00:15:29,562 --> 00:15:31,230 How are you? 369 00:15:31,230 --> 00:15:32,398 ‐ Um... 370 00:15:33,633 --> 00:15:36,202 ‐ I know this probably caught you off guard. 371 00:15:36,202 --> 00:15:37,537 ‐ Yeah. ‐ But I feel like 372 00:15:37,537 --> 00:15:41,674 this entire thing for me, I've been doing it my way. 373 00:15:41,674 --> 00:15:44,610 And I know that it's not the traditional way, 374 00:15:44,610 --> 00:15:47,346 but I come from just a space 375 00:15:47,346 --> 00:15:50,383 of really knowing what I want 376 00:15:50,383 --> 00:15:53,653 and believing in it. 377 00:15:53,653 --> 00:15:57,423 And since I have been doing everything 378 00:15:57,423 --> 00:15:58,658 the way I wanna do it, 379 00:15:58,658 --> 00:16:03,129 I was thinking about the guys on the date last night. 380 00:16:03,663 --> 00:16:08,334 I literally wasn't able to give a rose to any of them 381 00:16:08,334 --> 00:16:10,002 because I was thinking about you, 382 00:16:10,002 --> 00:16:12,638 and I was like, "I've already given him a rose, though." 383 00:16:12,638 --> 00:16:15,508 Like, how can I possibly give him another rose? 384 00:16:15,508 --> 00:16:21,380 But, um, it's been crazy to me because... 385 00:16:21,380 --> 00:16:23,749 we haven't even had a one‐on‐one date. 386 00:16:23,749 --> 00:16:27,386 Yet I feel like I know you so much better 387 00:16:27,386 --> 00:16:29,255 than all the other guys. 388 00:16:30,356 --> 00:16:33,493 And it's been, for me, 389 00:16:33,493 --> 00:16:35,761 years and years and years 390 00:16:35,761 --> 00:16:39,799 of, like, praying for a man 391 00:16:39,799 --> 00:16:43,536 that had those qualities that my dad had 392 00:16:43,536 --> 00:16:46,472 that I knew is out there, 393 00:16:46,472 --> 00:16:48,708 somebody who is, like, really strong 394 00:16:48,708 --> 00:16:50,810 but really compassionate. 395 00:16:50,810 --> 00:16:53,679 And everybody always told me‐‐ my sisters, my friends 396 00:16:53,679 --> 00:16:55,915 would always tell me, like, "You're wanting too much." 397 00:16:55,915 --> 00:16:58,618 Like, "You're expecting too much from a guy." 398 00:16:58,618 --> 00:17:02,555 But literally, the second you walked into my life, 399 00:17:02,555 --> 00:17:06,058 like, you have been nothing but that. 400 00:17:08,728 --> 00:17:11,864 ‐ You shared that‐‐ the fact that you saw qualities 401 00:17:11,864 --> 00:17:14,567 like, in me that you saw in your dad. 402 00:17:14,567 --> 00:17:17,503 That truly meant, uh, it meant a lot, 403 00:17:17,503 --> 00:17:20,506 and...like, 404 00:17:20,506 --> 00:17:21,874 I‐‐I've wanted to know more about, like, 405 00:17:21,874 --> 00:17:23,609 your parents and their relationship, 406 00:17:23,609 --> 00:17:25,711 like, why you are the way you are. 407 00:17:25,711 --> 00:17:27,513 You know? ‐ Yeah. 408 00:17:27,513 --> 00:17:29,415 James is my dad. ‐ James? 409 00:17:29,415 --> 00:17:30,416 ‐ Lili's my mom. 410 00:17:30,416 --> 00:17:31,417 ‐ Lili? ‐ Yeah. 411 00:17:31,417 --> 00:17:32,585 ‐ All right, James and Lili. 412 00:17:32,585 --> 00:17:36,656 ‐ Yeah, and she met my dad one night, 413 00:17:36,656 --> 00:17:40,626 and three weeks later, my dad showed up 414 00:17:40,626 --> 00:17:43,763 at her house... ‐ Mm‐hmm. 415 00:17:43,763 --> 00:17:45,898 ‐ In California. ‐ They met one time? 416 00:17:45,898 --> 00:17:47,833 ‐ Mm‐hmm. He hitchhiked 'cause he was‐‐ 417 00:17:47,833 --> 00:17:50,536 didn't have any money to propose to my mom. 418 00:17:50,536 --> 00:17:52,638 ‐ And they met one time? ‐ They met one time, 419 00:17:52,638 --> 00:17:53,773 and three weeks later, he proposed. 420 00:17:53,773 --> 00:17:55,775 ‐ James was committed. ‐ He was so committed. 421 00:17:55,775 --> 00:17:58,644 He‐‐he totally‐‐he was‐‐ ‐ James was committed. 422 00:17:58,644 --> 00:18:00,947 ‐ Yeah, he totally proposed three weeks later, 423 00:18:00,947 --> 00:18:03,616 and they were married three months later. 424 00:18:03,616 --> 00:18:04,951 ‐ Wow. ‐ Yeah. 425 00:18:04,951 --> 00:18:07,653 ‐ Talk about a story. ‐ Oh, for sure. 426 00:18:07,653 --> 00:18:09,722 And they were married for... ‐ James loved Lili. 427 00:18:09,722 --> 00:18:11,724 ‐ Yeah, they were married for, like 42 years. 428 00:18:11,724 --> 00:18:12,725 ‐ Yeah. ‐ Yeah. 429 00:18:12,725 --> 00:18:14,460 ‐ My parents were together for 40‐‐ 430 00:18:14,460 --> 00:18:15,595 a little over 40 years. 431 00:18:15,595 --> 00:18:17,830 Uh, my‐‐my dad shares a‐‐a story 432 00:18:17,830 --> 00:18:20,466 about when he first met my mom. 433 00:18:20,466 --> 00:18:22,535 She was doing basketball clinics 434 00:18:22,535 --> 00:18:23,736 in Omaha, Nebraska in the summers. 435 00:18:23,736 --> 00:18:24,837 Um... ‐ Yeah. 436 00:18:24,837 --> 00:18:26,606 ‐ And that's where they ended up meeting. 437 00:18:26,606 --> 00:18:30,910 And he was‐‐this is a town about a hour or two away, 438 00:18:30,910 --> 00:18:32,745 but he was so broke, he couldn't get back 439 00:18:32,745 --> 00:18:34,714 to see her, so he had to hitchhike to see her in Omaha. 440 00:18:34,714 --> 00:18:36,616 ‐ He hitchhiked to see her? ‐ Hitchhike, I swear. 441 00:18:36,616 --> 00:18:37,850 ‐ Stop! ‐ Yeah, um... 442 00:18:37,850 --> 00:18:39,652 ‐ Same thing as my dad? ‐ Yeah, he's, like‐‐ 443 00:18:39,652 --> 00:18:42,655 ‐ What? ‐ And, like, I wish 444 00:18:42,655 --> 00:18:43,990 you could meet my mother. ‐ Yeah. 445 00:18:43,990 --> 00:18:46,892 ‐ And, like, honestly, like, what I give off 446 00:18:46,892 --> 00:18:49,895 is because of the love and, like, what she gave 447 00:18:49,895 --> 00:18:52,632 to, you know, myself and my sisters‐‐ 448 00:18:52,632 --> 00:18:54,000 and just an amazing woman. 449 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,536 My parents expressed how they felt about everything, 450 00:18:57,536 --> 00:18:59,705 so it's been eas‐‐like, I‐‐I've grown up 451 00:18:59,705 --> 00:19:01,641 talking about feelings and emotions. 452 00:19:01,641 --> 00:19:02,742 ‐ Yeah. 453 00:19:02,742 --> 00:19:06,512 ‐ But after my mom passed, 454 00:19:06,512 --> 00:19:10,716 like, that changed my life forever, 455 00:19:10,716 --> 00:19:13,986 and my family was broken. [sniffles] 456 00:19:13,986 --> 00:19:17,423 Like, my dad‐‐they've been together for 40‐plus years. 457 00:19:17,423 --> 00:19:18,891 My dad was lost. 458 00:19:18,891 --> 00:19:20,860 My sisters were lost. 459 00:19:20,860 --> 00:19:24,764 Like‐‐and anything that I felt... 460 00:19:24,764 --> 00:19:25,898 throughout that process, 461 00:19:25,898 --> 00:19:27,700 like I had to put on the back burner, 462 00:19:27,700 --> 00:19:28,868 and I had to bury that. 463 00:19:28,868 --> 00:19:34,473 And, like, the idea of a relationship or anything was... 464 00:19:34,473 --> 00:19:36,008 like I couldn't feel 465 00:19:36,008 --> 00:19:39,545 because our family was completely falling apart. 466 00:19:39,545 --> 00:19:42,381 And this went on for like two years. 467 00:19:42,381 --> 00:19:43,949 [solemn music] 468 00:19:43,949 --> 00:19:45,084 ‐ I don't know if I've told you or not. 469 00:19:45,084 --> 00:19:46,852 Like, I went through exactly what you feel 470 00:19:46,852 --> 00:19:49,588 or what you felt like when your mom passed away. 471 00:19:49,588 --> 00:19:50,656 ‐ Yeah. 472 00:19:50,656 --> 00:19:51,824 ‐ So much of that when my dad passed away. 473 00:19:51,824 --> 00:19:53,793 ‐ Mm‐hmm. ‐ Like, so much of that, 474 00:19:53,793 --> 00:19:56,829 where it hurt to even feel anything. 475 00:19:56,829 --> 00:19:58,864 So I didn't even want to let anybody close to me 476 00:19:58,864 --> 00:20:00,800 because it just hurt too bad. 477 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:02,935 ‐ Yeah. ‐ But then, I think for me, 478 00:20:02,935 --> 00:20:06,672 it was just like, my dad wouldn't want that for me. 479 00:20:06,672 --> 00:20:08,908 ‐ Yeah. ‐ He wouldn't want that for me. 480 00:20:08,908 --> 00:20:12,545 So...how did you evolve 481 00:20:12,545 --> 00:20:14,780 from being so shut off? 482 00:20:14,780 --> 00:20:18,684 Because everything you have shown me 483 00:20:18,684 --> 00:20:21,520 is like emotionally intelligent. 484 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:22,054 ‐ Yeah. ‐ You're here. 485 00:20:22,054 --> 00:20:23,689 You're present. You're in it. 486 00:20:23,689 --> 00:20:25,091 You're vulnerable. You're open. 487 00:20:25,091 --> 00:20:27,526 To go from completely shut off to that, 488 00:20:27,526 --> 00:20:28,527 like, that's a huge... 489 00:20:28,527 --> 00:20:29,695 ‐ Yeah. ‐ Huge thing. 490 00:20:29,695 --> 00:20:31,097 ‐ Well, I mean, it‐‐it‐‐it took a while. 491 00:20:31,097 --> 00:20:35,801 You know, like, fast‐forward, we're in...February. 492 00:20:35,801 --> 00:20:37,636 You're announced as the Bachelorette, 493 00:20:37,636 --> 00:20:38,871 and I see you walk out. 494 00:20:38,871 --> 00:20:40,740 I remember it clear as yesterday. 495 00:20:40,740 --> 00:20:42,708 I'm watching on TV. 496 00:20:42,708 --> 00:20:44,677 You had a beautiful presence and aura 497 00:20:44,677 --> 00:20:47,613 and just an excitement that was, like‐‐ 498 00:20:47,613 --> 00:20:49,014 it was everything, and I was in. 499 00:20:49,014 --> 00:20:51,150 ‐ Same. ‐ After‐‐after we first met, 500 00:20:51,150 --> 00:20:53,886 it was like, "What the hell is going on?" 501 00:20:53,886 --> 00:20:55,988 I hadn't felt these emotions in years. 502 00:20:55,988 --> 00:20:57,690 ‐ [softly] Same. 503 00:20:57,690 --> 00:20:59,191 [tender music] 504 00:20:59,191 --> 00:21:01,093 I've been falling in love with Dale 505 00:21:01,093 --> 00:21:04,663 this entire time, and I wanna let him know 506 00:21:04,663 --> 00:21:06,132 exactly how I feel about him. 507 00:21:06,132 --> 00:21:08,567 It's all just stirring inside of me, 508 00:21:08,567 --> 00:21:10,035 and I want to let him know. 509 00:21:10,035 --> 00:21:13,005 I'm so in love with this man, 510 00:21:13,005 --> 00:21:16,876 but I don't fully know how Dale feels, 511 00:21:16,876 --> 00:21:19,812 and... 512 00:21:19,812 --> 00:21:22,782 that's what makes it so scary. 513 00:21:22,782 --> 00:21:26,452 Being vulnerable is incredibly scary. 514 00:21:27,853 --> 00:21:30,623 What is he gonna say? 515 00:21:30,623 --> 00:21:32,658 ♪ ♪ 516 00:21:35,594 --> 00:21:37,797 [curious music] 517 00:21:37,797 --> 00:21:39,165 ‐ Did Chris Harrison ever come back 518 00:21:39,165 --> 00:21:41,233 or Dale or anybody? ‐ Nah, man. 519 00:21:41,233 --> 00:21:43,202 ‐ Nothing? ‐ Both of them have been gone 520 00:21:43,202 --> 00:21:46,872 since Chris took Dale out from‐‐when that whole situation 521 00:21:46,872 --> 00:21:48,974 kind of happened. ‐ Wow. 522 00:21:48,974 --> 00:21:50,676 ‐ Yeah, right. It's been a minute. 523 00:21:50,676 --> 00:21:53,546 We haven't heard a peep, so what is‐‐ 524 00:21:53,546 --> 00:21:55,614 what does that mean? 525 00:21:56,882 --> 00:21:58,751 It's frustrating as hell. 526 00:21:59,919 --> 00:22:02,121 ‐ The day you start to [bleep] with my feelings and emotions, 527 00:22:02,121 --> 00:22:04,890 you're gonna start seeing a different side of me. 528 00:22:04,890 --> 00:22:06,192 And when I start getting hurt 529 00:22:06,192 --> 00:22:08,227 and I start being resented like this 530 00:22:08,227 --> 00:22:10,963 and I'm not able to express my feelings to somebody 531 00:22:10,963 --> 00:22:14,033 and they're not able to express to me, I'm gonna freak out. 532 00:22:14,033 --> 00:22:15,201 ‐ I mean, it's a little ridiculous 533 00:22:15,201 --> 00:22:18,237 if she's been spending this entire time with Dale. 534 00:22:18,237 --> 00:22:20,940 I don't see it working out with Dale and Clare. 535 00:22:20,940 --> 00:22:23,976 Is she putting emphasis on one relationship 536 00:22:23,976 --> 00:22:27,046 and ixnaying 16 already? 537 00:22:27,046 --> 00:22:29,849 It's been, like‐‐it's... 538 00:22:29,849 --> 00:22:32,585 [sighs] it's too early! 539 00:22:32,585 --> 00:22:34,887 If she really... 540 00:22:34,887 --> 00:22:37,022 wants to end up with someone like for real 541 00:22:37,022 --> 00:22:38,924 and actually get married and take this seriously, 542 00:22:38,924 --> 00:22:40,125 it's not Dale. ‐ No. 543 00:22:40,125 --> 00:22:41,894 ‐ There's a lot of other guys here 544 00:22:41,894 --> 00:22:43,729 I could, like, see it happening. 545 00:22:43,729 --> 00:22:45,898 ‐ Yeah, not Dale. ‐ Not him. 546 00:22:45,898 --> 00:22:49,034 [tense music] 547 00:22:49,034 --> 00:22:52,271 ‐ I was feeling, like, the other day, um... 548 00:22:52,271 --> 00:22:54,974 like I'm‐‐you know I'm all in this process. 549 00:22:54,974 --> 00:22:56,942 I'm here... ‐ Mm‐hmm. 550 00:22:56,942 --> 00:22:58,777 ‐ And ready for this. 551 00:22:58,777 --> 00:23:02,381 I want this, um, but... 552 00:23:03,849 --> 00:23:07,887 Like, it's hard for me talking about... 553 00:23:07,887 --> 00:23:10,222 honestly, like how much I feel for you. 554 00:23:10,222 --> 00:23:14,226 ‐ Yeah. ‐ Because, like, it's so new. 555 00:23:14,226 --> 00:23:17,763 Like, we've just started this process. 556 00:23:17,763 --> 00:23:20,032 ‐ Yeah. ‐ And... 557 00:23:20,032 --> 00:23:21,934 I'm thinking about it, and I'm like, 558 00:23:21,934 --> 00:23:23,903 no, like, Clare, stop think‐‐you know, 559 00:23:23,903 --> 00:23:26,372 just‐‐you're too into this. Like, be open‐minded. 560 00:23:26,372 --> 00:23:29,975 Be open‐‐like, I'm literally trying to convince myself 561 00:23:29,975 --> 00:23:33,012 to be open‐minded and try my best to be present 562 00:23:33,012 --> 00:23:35,547 in every conversation with everybody. 563 00:23:36,749 --> 00:23:41,020 But every time I wake up... 564 00:23:41,020 --> 00:23:42,922 like, I think about you. 565 00:23:42,922 --> 00:23:46,492 And when I go to bed at night, I think about you. 566 00:23:48,294 --> 00:23:52,731 I can't even put it into words, like, how you make me feel. 567 00:23:52,731 --> 00:23:54,733 ‐ Yeah. 568 00:23:54,733 --> 00:23:55,834 ‐ It's insane to me. 569 00:23:55,834 --> 00:23:57,436 It's insane. ‐ [chuckles] 570 00:23:58,671 --> 00:24:01,206 ‐ All I know is that... 571 00:24:01,206 --> 00:24:04,510 like, I'm so falling in love with you. 572 00:24:09,581 --> 00:24:11,083 ‐ When we met... 573 00:24:11,083 --> 00:24:14,320 I felt love, and, like‐‐ 574 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,555 like, that's what I came here for. 575 00:24:16,555 --> 00:24:20,025 And, like, I'm falling in love with you through this process. 576 00:24:20,025 --> 00:24:22,127 Like, I'm not afraid to say that at all. 577 00:24:22,127 --> 00:24:25,464 ‐ Honestly, me too. Like, me too. 578 00:24:25,464 --> 00:24:30,903 ‐ And my heart is open, and I'm not gonna fight that. 579 00:24:30,903 --> 00:24:32,338 ‐ Oh, my gosh. 580 00:24:32,338 --> 00:24:37,176 ‐ And I've been dying to share this with you, and... 581 00:24:37,176 --> 00:24:38,978 ‐ So have I. ‐ Yeah. 582 00:24:38,978 --> 00:24:42,147 ‐ Like, so have I, and I could not sit through 583 00:24:42,147 --> 00:24:44,483 another Rose Ceremony without talking about it. 584 00:24:44,483 --> 00:24:48,153 ‐ It's like it's right here, right in front of our face. 585 00:24:48,153 --> 00:24:51,223 ‐ What is happening? ‐ It is what it is. 586 00:24:51,223 --> 00:24:52,958 ‐ Dale. ‐ [laughs] 587 00:24:52,958 --> 00:24:55,928 I don't know... ‐ What is happening? 588 00:24:55,928 --> 00:24:57,796 ‐ Life. Love. 589 00:24:57,796 --> 00:24:59,098 Just go with it. 590 00:24:59,098 --> 00:25:02,067 [romantic music] 591 00:25:02,067 --> 00:25:09,608 ♪ ♪ 592 00:25:12,144 --> 00:25:15,781 ‐ Dale said he's falling in love with me. 593 00:25:15,781 --> 00:25:20,185 ♪ ♪ 594 00:25:20,185 --> 00:25:22,721 [whispers] Oh, my goodness. 595 00:25:22,721 --> 00:25:28,427 ♪ ♪ 596 00:25:28,427 --> 00:25:31,930 I mean, I don't even know what is happening. 597 00:25:33,198 --> 00:25:35,634 I've been waiting forever for this feeling. 598 00:25:37,102 --> 00:25:39,138 And to every single person 599 00:25:39,138 --> 00:25:43,242 who has ever told me to settle 600 00:25:43,242 --> 00:25:47,312 and that the man I'm looking for is not out there... 601 00:25:47,312 --> 00:25:50,682 like, I'm having dinner with him right now. 602 00:25:52,384 --> 00:25:55,387 [Chris and Bri's "Found You" playing] 603 00:25:55,387 --> 00:25:58,724 ‐ Tonight, you‐‐ obviously you look gorgeous. 604 00:25:58,724 --> 00:25:59,858 You‐‐like... 605 00:25:59,858 --> 00:26:01,026 [sighs] 606 00:26:01,026 --> 00:26:03,095 ♪ ♪ 607 00:26:03,095 --> 00:26:05,130 Hey! 608 00:26:05,130 --> 00:26:07,232 ‐ ♪ I had a dream ♪ 609 00:26:07,232 --> 00:26:10,035 ♪ Once upon a time ♪ 610 00:26:10,035 --> 00:26:12,104 ♪ ♪ 611 00:26:12,104 --> 00:26:15,841 ♪ That what I hoped for I'd find ♪ 612 00:26:15,841 --> 00:26:18,277 ♪ ♪ 613 00:26:18,277 --> 00:26:23,015 ‐ ♪ I was searching to belong ♪ 614 00:26:23,015 --> 00:26:24,049 ♪ ♪ 615 00:26:24,049 --> 00:26:29,021 ♪ Like a melody to a new song ♪ 616 00:26:29,021 --> 00:26:32,891 ♪ Never before have I ♪ 617 00:26:32,891 --> 00:26:35,961 ♪ Known how to fly ♪ 618 00:26:35,961 --> 00:26:38,897 ♪ But you show me ♪ 619 00:26:38,897 --> 00:26:41,200 ♪ New skies ♪ 620 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:44,069 ‐ Finally telling Clare, you know, 621 00:26:44,069 --> 00:26:45,337 that I'm falling in love with her, 622 00:26:45,337 --> 00:26:47,172 it‐‐it feels pretty amazing, 623 00:26:47,172 --> 00:26:49,174 and I definitely want her to know 624 00:26:49,174 --> 00:26:51,210 that I'm not shying away from it. 625 00:26:51,210 --> 00:26:53,178 And that's what she deserves. 626 00:26:53,178 --> 00:26:57,950 both: ♪ So I will hold you ♪ 627 00:26:57,950 --> 00:26:59,985 ♪ Hold you in my arms ♪ 628 00:26:59,985 --> 00:27:03,956 ♪ And I will love you ♪ 629 00:27:03,956 --> 00:27:06,091 ♪ Love you all along ♪ 630 00:27:06,091 --> 00:27:08,927 ♪ Because I found you ♪ 631 00:27:08,927 --> 00:27:11,997 ♪ Found you, found you ♪ 632 00:27:11,997 --> 00:27:16,201 ♪ Found your love ♪ 633 00:27:16,201 --> 00:27:17,302 ♪ ♪ 634 00:27:17,302 --> 00:27:18,971 ‐ What's happening with Dale and I 635 00:27:18,971 --> 00:27:23,041 is just magical, and... 636 00:27:23,041 --> 00:27:25,277 there's not like a doubt in my mind 637 00:27:25,277 --> 00:27:27,246 that this is my person. 638 00:27:27,246 --> 00:27:31,049 This is exactly everything I've wanted. 639 00:27:31,049 --> 00:27:35,154 both: ♪ So I will hold you ♪ 640 00:27:35,154 --> 00:27:37,222 ♪ Hold you in my arms ♪ 641 00:27:37,222 --> 00:27:41,193 ♪ And I will love you ♪ 642 00:27:41,193 --> 00:27:43,262 ♪ Love you all along ♪ 643 00:27:43,262 --> 00:27:46,098 ♪ Because I found you ♪ 644 00:27:46,098 --> 00:27:49,134 ♪ Found you, found you ♪ 645 00:27:49,134 --> 00:27:53,238 ♪ Found your love ♪ 646 00:27:53,238 --> 00:27:55,374 ♪ ♪ 647 00:27:55,374 --> 00:27:58,343 both: ♪ Because I found you ♪ 648 00:27:58,343 --> 00:28:01,280 ♪ Found you, found you ♪ 649 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:08,053 ♪ Found true love ♪ 650 00:28:08,053 --> 00:28:09,154 [insects chirping] 651 00:28:09,154 --> 00:28:10,289 ‐ Coming up... 652 00:28:10,289 --> 00:28:13,025 We have never dealt with anything like this 653 00:28:13,025 --> 00:28:14,259 in the history of our show. 654 00:28:14,259 --> 00:28:17,229 ‐ I just don't know how you can be so sure so quick. 655 00:28:17,229 --> 00:28:19,331 ‐ You don't know anything about him. 656 00:28:19,331 --> 00:28:23,001 ‐ Clare is waiting for a proposal. 657 00:28:23,001 --> 00:28:24,269 ‐ I'm really nervous for her. 658 00:28:24,269 --> 00:28:25,470 She's gonna get hurt in the end. 659 00:28:25,470 --> 00:28:27,472 ‐ I don't if he expected it to go so quick. 660 00:28:27,472 --> 00:28:30,342 He's like, "I actually have to marry this girl?" 661 00:28:30,342 --> 00:28:33,145 ‐ [sniffles] I deserve to be happy. 662 00:28:33,145 --> 00:28:36,081 I've literally begged guys to love me. 663 00:28:36,081 --> 00:28:39,051 [sobbing] This is hard. 664 00:28:41,153 --> 00:28:44,156 [birds chirping] 665 00:28:47,259 --> 00:28:49,428 [buzzing] 666 00:28:49,428 --> 00:28:52,264 [tender music] 667 00:28:52,264 --> 00:28:57,502 ♪ ♪ 668 00:28:57,502 --> 00:29:02,307 ‐ Yesterday, I woke up preparing for a Rose Ceremony, 669 00:29:02,307 --> 00:29:04,109 and‐‐and now we're here. 670 00:29:04,109 --> 00:29:07,312 ♪ ♪ 671 00:29:07,312 --> 00:29:11,149 Like, I just want you and I to spend time together 672 00:29:11,149 --> 00:29:13,485 and just let you know how I feel 673 00:29:13,485 --> 00:29:16,588 'cause I told you I was falling in love with you. 674 00:29:16,588 --> 00:29:19,591 You ever think that was gonna happen last night? 675 00:29:19,591 --> 00:29:22,427 ‐ I wanted to tell you that, so I wanted dinner with you. 676 00:29:22,427 --> 00:29:24,529 ‐ Yeah. Um... 677 00:29:24,529 --> 00:29:28,033 ‐ I felt it and, like, even more now‐‐ 678 00:29:28,033 --> 00:29:29,301 even so much more now. 679 00:29:29,301 --> 00:29:30,369 ‐ Yeah. 680 00:29:30,369 --> 00:29:32,271 ‐ Yeah, I just wanna be with you 681 00:29:32,271 --> 00:29:34,273 and spend time with you. 682 00:29:34,273 --> 00:29:36,908 ‐ [breathes deeply] 683 00:29:37,409 --> 00:29:40,212 ‐ Honestly, what do you think is gonna happen next? 684 00:29:42,114 --> 00:29:43,415 ‐ I have no idea. 685 00:29:43,415 --> 00:29:45,317 I really haven't thought about it. 686 00:29:45,317 --> 00:29:47,352 ‐ I mean, but think about it. 687 00:29:47,352 --> 00:29:50,088 ‐ I am thinking about it a little bit, but... 688 00:29:50,088 --> 00:29:53,158 ‐ What are you thinking? 689 00:29:53,158 --> 00:29:54,293 ‐ [exhales] 690 00:29:54,293 --> 00:29:55,627 ‐ Go back to the house? 691 00:29:55,627 --> 00:29:58,964 ‐ Pfft, I don't know. That's a good question. 692 00:30:00,198 --> 00:30:02,634 ‐ We'll see because... 693 00:30:02,634 --> 00:30:06,938 this kind of‐‐I mean, it's been a game changer. 694 00:30:07,572 --> 00:30:10,409 I just never knew how to approach what to do 695 00:30:10,409 --> 00:30:13,745 because...I don't ever wanna, like, 696 00:30:13,745 --> 00:30:18,216 turn away how I'm feeling or lessen how I'm feeling... 697 00:30:18,216 --> 00:30:20,052 ‐ Mm‐hmm. ‐ Or feel like I have to. 698 00:30:20,052 --> 00:30:21,586 ‐ Yeah. 699 00:30:21,586 --> 00:30:23,588 You're not supposed to, 700 00:30:23,588 --> 00:30:29,294 and we didn't plan for things to happen in this way. 701 00:30:30,529 --> 00:30:33,865 There was nothing going on before I got here, and, like‐‐ 702 00:30:33,865 --> 00:30:37,703 ‐ We should lie detector it, 'cause nobody believes us. 703 00:30:37,703 --> 00:30:40,405 ‐ I'd pass. ‐ I'd definitely kill it. 704 00:30:40,405 --> 00:30:44,076 ‐ I'll pass with flying colors. ‐ For sure. 705 00:30:44,076 --> 00:30:44,643 [inhales sharply] 706 00:30:44,643 --> 00:30:47,346 Oh, my God. I don't want you to leave. 707 00:30:47,346 --> 00:30:48,447 ‐ I know. 708 00:30:48,447 --> 00:30:51,483 ‐ I don't want you to leave at all... 709 00:30:51,483 --> 00:30:56,288 like, not today, not tomorrow. 710 00:30:56,288 --> 00:30:59,191 Dale is the type of man you get 711 00:30:59,191 --> 00:31:02,361 when you refuse to settle. 712 00:31:02,361 --> 00:31:04,730 He is strong and sensitive, 713 00:31:04,730 --> 00:31:08,567 kind and compassionate, makes me feel protected. 714 00:31:08,567 --> 00:31:13,004 Dale is just everything. 715 00:31:15,006 --> 00:31:15,674 [groans] 716 00:31:15,674 --> 00:31:17,676 I do have so many other great guys here, 717 00:31:17,676 --> 00:31:21,413 and I genuinely wanted to get to know these guys 718 00:31:21,413 --> 00:31:24,783 and to give 'em a chance, but... 719 00:31:24,783 --> 00:31:30,288 nothing compares to, like, what I have with Dale‐‐nothing. 720 00:31:30,288 --> 00:31:32,357 [warm music] 721 00:31:32,357 --> 00:31:36,361 And I could most definitely, 722 00:31:36,361 --> 00:31:39,498 gladly spend the rest of my life with Dale. 723 00:31:39,498 --> 00:31:41,466 ♪ ♪ 724 00:31:41,466 --> 00:31:42,834 ‐ Thank you for last night. 725 00:31:42,834 --> 00:31:45,604 ‐ I'm glad you came over. ‐ We finally got our date. 726 00:31:45,604 --> 00:31:49,441 ‐ Our one‐on‐one! ‐ Our one‐on‐one. 727 00:31:49,441 --> 00:31:52,511 Waking up this morning, I'm feeling great, 728 00:31:52,511 --> 00:31:55,347 being able to have time to just enjoy 729 00:31:55,347 --> 00:31:57,416 an amazing experience together on our date. 730 00:31:57,416 --> 00:32:00,519 I'll see you soon, okay? ‐ Yeah. 731 00:32:00,519 --> 00:32:03,488 ‐ I didn't expect a lot of things to happen this quickly. 732 00:32:03,488 --> 00:32:05,424 All right. ‐ Bye. 733 00:32:05,424 --> 00:32:06,525 ‐ Bye. 734 00:32:06,525 --> 00:32:08,627 But there's still a lot of time 735 00:32:08,627 --> 00:32:10,862 left in this process 736 00:32:10,862 --> 00:32:15,600 to really nurture, like, this love that we have 737 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,403 and really see where it goes. 738 00:32:18,403 --> 00:32:22,340 ♪ ♪ 739 00:32:22,340 --> 00:32:24,876 [birds chirping] 740 00:32:24,876 --> 00:32:27,579 ‐ No sign of him yet? ‐ No sign of him, yeah. 741 00:32:27,579 --> 00:32:29,347 ‐ No signs of Dale. 742 00:32:29,347 --> 00:32:31,583 ‐ Almost been gone for 18 hours. 743 00:32:31,583 --> 00:32:33,718 Today's a new day. 744 00:32:33,718 --> 00:32:37,689 Where is he? Like...aw, man. 745 00:32:37,689 --> 00:32:40,492 ‐ There was no cocktail party, no Rose Ceremony. 746 00:32:40,492 --> 00:32:43,562 Um, Dale and Clare seem to still be 747 00:32:43,562 --> 00:32:46,465 on like a one‐on‐one, um, overnight type of deal. 748 00:32:46,465 --> 00:32:48,467 So it's like, I don't know what's happening! 749 00:32:48,467 --> 00:32:50,669 ‐ I mean, I think it would blow me away 750 00:32:50,669 --> 00:32:53,371 if he slept over there. ‐ Yeah, I don't know. 751 00:32:53,371 --> 00:32:56,308 I think Clare wouldn't do that 752 00:32:56,308 --> 00:32:57,609 this early in the game. 753 00:32:57,609 --> 00:32:58,977 I think the type of person she is‐‐ 754 00:32:58,977 --> 00:33:03,548 I don't think she would, like, do an overnight with Dale 755 00:33:03,548 --> 00:33:06,451 and, like, take that intimacy to the next level. 756 00:33:06,451 --> 00:33:09,521 Like, I just‐‐I‐‐ I just don't see it. 757 00:33:09,521 --> 00:33:11,356 I don't know. ‐ I don't know, dude. 758 00:33:11,356 --> 00:33:12,891 I don't know. ‐ Aw, man. 759 00:33:12,891 --> 00:33:15,594 It's just a big ol' question mark right now. 760 00:33:15,594 --> 00:33:18,263 ‐ Yeah. I agree. 761 00:33:19,331 --> 00:33:21,399 [bird chittering] 762 00:33:21,399 --> 00:33:24,135 [knocking on door] 763 00:33:27,405 --> 00:33:29,307 ‐ Hello. ‐ Hey, how's it going? 764 00:33:29,307 --> 00:33:31,109 ‐ Good. Come on in. 765 00:33:33,578 --> 00:33:35,313 ‐ [groans] 766 00:33:35,313 --> 00:33:36,548 So... 767 00:33:36,548 --> 00:33:39,451 ‐ Oh, my gosh! ‐ How was last night? 768 00:33:39,451 --> 00:33:40,685 ‐ Amazing! 769 00:33:40,685 --> 00:33:43,655 I needed that so bad. ‐ Yeah. 770 00:33:43,655 --> 00:33:45,390 ‐ So bad. That time with him 771 00:33:45,390 --> 00:33:46,992 was just priceless. 772 00:33:46,992 --> 00:33:50,462 And when the cameras turned off and went away 773 00:33:50,462 --> 00:33:53,498 and let us be on our own, 774 00:33:53,498 --> 00:33:55,534 he was even better than I expected, 775 00:33:55,534 --> 00:33:58,303 and I have so much clarity. 776 00:33:58,303 --> 00:34:00,405 It was so nice 777 00:34:00,405 --> 00:34:02,474 to get the reassurance from him 778 00:34:02,474 --> 00:34:04,676 that he feels the same way I feel. 779 00:34:04,676 --> 00:34:06,845 ‐ Did you tell him you love him? 780 00:34:06,845 --> 00:34:10,482 ‐ Yes, absolutely. Absolutely. 781 00:34:10,482 --> 00:34:11,650 And guess what. 782 00:34:11,650 --> 00:34:14,252 ‐ What? ‐ He didn't run away. 783 00:34:14,252 --> 00:34:15,520 [both laugh] 784 00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:18,390 It was‐‐it was amazing. ‐ So... 785 00:34:19,524 --> 00:34:21,560 Is he in love with you? 786 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,695 ‐ Yes, he's in love with me. [laughs] 787 00:34:23,695 --> 00:34:26,598 ‐ He told you? ‐ Yeah. 788 00:34:26,598 --> 00:34:29,334 It's kind of unbelievable for me, and it's surreal. 789 00:34:29,334 --> 00:34:31,002 [soft music] 790 00:34:31,002 --> 00:34:34,573 Like, he's exactly what I've been looking for, 791 00:34:34,573 --> 00:34:38,710 and I would be so honored 792 00:34:38,710 --> 00:34:42,480 to be with this guy for the rest of my life, easily‐‐ 793 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,283 easily‐‐and I don't even hesitate on that. 794 00:34:46,518 --> 00:34:47,719 He's my person. 795 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:52,724 ♪ ♪ 796 00:34:52,724 --> 00:34:55,694 ‐ This is...unprecedented, to say the least. 797 00:34:55,694 --> 00:34:58,597 I mean, you have broken every record, 798 00:34:58,597 --> 00:35:01,199 everything we've ever had on this show. 799 00:35:02,701 --> 00:35:03,868 But you've fallen in love. 800 00:35:03,868 --> 00:35:06,638 Like, the goal was: fall in love, 801 00:35:06,638 --> 00:35:07,806 find the man of your dreams. 802 00:35:07,806 --> 00:35:10,442 You've done it. ‐ Yeah. 803 00:35:10,442 --> 00:35:12,544 [bright music] 804 00:35:12,544 --> 00:35:15,413 [laughs] What do we do? 805 00:35:15,413 --> 00:35:17,349 What do we do? 806 00:35:18,383 --> 00:35:22,487 ‐ The next step...proposal. 807 00:35:22,487 --> 00:35:24,456 ♪ ♪ 808 00:35:24,456 --> 00:35:25,824 ‐ [whispers] Oh, my gosh. 809 00:35:25,824 --> 00:35:27,592 ‐ That's where we're headed. 810 00:35:27,592 --> 00:35:29,461 ‐ Yeah. 811 00:35:29,461 --> 00:35:31,429 Oh, my gosh. ‐ You want that? 812 00:35:31,429 --> 00:35:33,431 ‐ Of course I want that. 813 00:35:33,431 --> 00:35:35,033 Of course I want that! 814 00:35:35,033 --> 00:35:36,668 That's the dumbest question you've ever asked. 815 00:35:36,668 --> 00:35:40,405 [both laugh] 816 00:35:40,405 --> 00:35:42,340 When are we doing this? 817 00:35:43,441 --> 00:35:45,577 ‐ When are we doing this? 818 00:35:45,577 --> 00:35:47,445 Tonight. 819 00:35:48,546 --> 00:35:50,448 ‐ What? 820 00:35:50,448 --> 00:35:52,283 [gasps] 821 00:35:54,019 --> 00:35:56,955 ‐ And you're gonna be an engaged woman very soon. 822 00:35:56,955 --> 00:35:59,891 ‐ I'm so excited. ‐ Me too. 823 00:35:59,891 --> 00:36:03,728 ‐ This means...so much to me. 824 00:36:03,728 --> 00:36:06,731 This means so much to me. Like... 825 00:36:06,731 --> 00:36:10,035 when you called me to be the Bachelorette 826 00:36:10,035 --> 00:36:14,506 and you said that you'd never give up on me... 827 00:36:14,506 --> 00:36:17,475 like, that's what this has led to. 828 00:36:17,842 --> 00:36:22,514 And because you never gave up on me, like... 829 00:36:22,514 --> 00:36:24,582 I get this... 830 00:36:24,582 --> 00:36:26,618 the man of my dreams. 831 00:36:28,386 --> 00:36:29,654 [sighs] 832 00:36:29,654 --> 00:36:31,289 I'm so excited. 833 00:36:32,624 --> 00:36:33,758 [upbeat music] 834 00:36:33,758 --> 00:36:34,793 ‐ I'm not gonna rest... ‐ The best man ever. 835 00:36:34,793 --> 00:36:35,994 ‐ Until this is done. ‐ Oh! 836 00:36:35,994 --> 00:36:37,762 It couldn't be more of a great guy. 837 00:36:37,762 --> 00:36:38,830 ‐ Oh, my God. 838 00:36:38,830 --> 00:36:40,598 I can't believe what you're doing to us. 839 00:36:40,598 --> 00:36:41,666 ‐ Oh, my gosh. [laughs] 840 00:36:41,666 --> 00:36:42,801 ‐ This is crazy. [both laugh] 841 00:36:42,801 --> 00:36:44,069 This is crazy. 842 00:36:44,069 --> 00:36:46,638 ‐ True Clare fashion, right? ‐ Oh, my gosh. 843 00:36:46,638 --> 00:36:49,541 ‐ I've never felt like this before... 844 00:36:49,541 --> 00:36:51,876 like, pure happiness. 845 00:36:51,876 --> 00:36:54,579 Pure happiness. 846 00:36:54,579 --> 00:36:55,980 Thank you. 847 00:36:55,980 --> 00:36:59,684 My whole point in coming here was to find love, 848 00:36:59,684 --> 00:37:02,387 and I found it. 849 00:37:02,387 --> 00:37:03,888 ♪ ♪ 850 00:37:03,888 --> 00:37:06,591 [softly] I'm just so in love with Dale. 851 00:37:06,591 --> 00:37:09,461 Oh, my gosh. Oh, my gosh. 852 00:37:09,461 --> 00:37:10,995 ♪ ♪ 853 00:37:10,995 --> 00:37:14,632 Like, it seriously is true; 854 00:37:14,632 --> 00:37:17,669 you know when you know. 855 00:37:17,669 --> 00:37:19,037 And I know, 856 00:37:19,037 --> 00:37:22,507 but does Dale wanna get engaged to me? 857 00:37:22,507 --> 00:37:24,709 Oh, my gosh. 858 00:37:24,709 --> 00:37:28,012 I just hope that he's ready for this. 859 00:37:28,012 --> 00:37:30,782 This is crazy! What's happening? 860 00:37:30,782 --> 00:37:32,817 [laughs] Oh, my God. 861 00:37:32,817 --> 00:37:35,086 ♪ ♪ 862 00:37:35,086 --> 00:37:36,955 ‐ Coming up... ‐ I'll apologize 863 00:37:36,955 --> 00:37:38,790 if I wasted your time, 864 00:37:38,790 --> 00:37:40,225 but I'm not gonna apologize for love. 865 00:37:40,225 --> 00:37:43,828 ‐ I just don't know how you can be so sure so quick. 866 00:37:43,828 --> 00:37:47,065 ‐ Clare is waiting for a proposal. 867 00:37:47,065 --> 00:37:49,701 ‐ What if he's not as certain as I am? 868 00:37:49,701 --> 00:37:50,902 It's just scary. 869 00:37:50,902 --> 00:37:53,838 [uneasy music] 870 00:37:53,838 --> 00:37:55,673 ‐ There's something I need to tell you. 871 00:37:55,673 --> 00:37:56,908 ‐ What? 872 00:37:56,908 --> 00:37:59,611 [sobbing] 873 00:38:03,782 --> 00:38:06,818 [birds chirping] 874 00:38:06,818 --> 00:38:08,987 [soft music] 875 00:38:08,987 --> 00:38:11,756 ‐ I came into this knowing what I want, 876 00:38:11,756 --> 00:38:13,558 and I found it. 877 00:38:14,926 --> 00:38:18,129 Dale is just everything to me. 878 00:38:18,129 --> 00:38:21,866 He's literally the reason why I haven't settled, 879 00:38:21,866 --> 00:38:25,503 and I'm so excited to move forward with him. 880 00:38:25,503 --> 00:38:27,739 ♪ ♪ 881 00:38:27,739 --> 00:38:30,642 But what do I do from here? 882 00:38:30,642 --> 00:38:32,210 How do I navigate this? 883 00:38:32,210 --> 00:38:35,880 Because I can't hide the truth, and I can't deny the truth. 884 00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,550 And I'm not gonna pretend like it's not happening. 885 00:38:38,550 --> 00:38:40,919 [somber music] 886 00:38:40,919 --> 00:38:44,956 ♪ ♪ 887 00:38:44,956 --> 00:38:46,891 ‐ This is so stupid. 888 00:38:46,891 --> 00:38:47,992 I think for all of us, 889 00:38:47,992 --> 00:38:51,196 we just need to know what's going on, like... 890 00:38:51,196 --> 00:38:53,064 ‐ Whatever's going on right now, 891 00:38:53,064 --> 00:38:54,332 it needs to be addressed. 892 00:38:54,332 --> 00:38:58,837 I think Clare needs to step in front of the group, 893 00:38:58,837 --> 00:39:01,306 and, uh, we need to air all this out. 894 00:39:01,306 --> 00:39:04,943 ‐ It's just been a lingering lull, and I don't like it. 895 00:39:04,943 --> 00:39:06,911 I don't think anyone does, 896 00:39:06,911 --> 00:39:08,313 and I think she kind of owes it to us 897 00:39:08,313 --> 00:39:10,982 because I think a lot of guys are checking out right now, 898 00:39:10,982 --> 00:39:13,218 and I don't think that's a good thing for her. 899 00:39:13,218 --> 00:39:16,020 ‐ She's lost the house, at this point. 900 00:39:16,020 --> 00:39:18,256 Like, this is screwed up, dude. 901 00:39:18,256 --> 00:39:20,825 And this has nothing to do with Dale. 902 00:39:20,825 --> 00:39:22,827 This is her show. 903 00:39:22,827 --> 00:39:24,095 She let this happen. 904 00:39:24,095 --> 00:39:25,997 ‐ Bottom line, it'd just be important 905 00:39:25,997 --> 00:39:27,832 for Clare to talk to all of us. 906 00:39:27,832 --> 00:39:28,933 ‐ Yeah, agree. 907 00:39:28,933 --> 00:39:30,535 [door creaks open] 908 00:39:32,036 --> 00:39:34,873 all: Hello. ‐ Hi, guys. 909 00:39:34,873 --> 00:39:36,741 ‐ Hi, Clare. 910 00:39:36,741 --> 00:39:38,042 ‐ How you guys doing? 911 00:39:38,042 --> 00:39:39,711 ‐ Doing all right. ‐ Good, good. 912 00:39:39,711 --> 00:39:41,846 ‐ We're all right. ‐ How are you? 913 00:39:41,846 --> 00:39:43,882 ‐ Yeah, how are you, more importantly? 914 00:39:43,882 --> 00:39:46,150 ‐ I'm okay. I'm okay. 915 00:39:46,150 --> 00:39:49,687 It's been an interesting last couple of days for me. 916 00:39:49,687 --> 00:39:52,991 Um, but... 917 00:39:52,991 --> 00:39:55,760 100%, I wanted to come talk to you guys about it. 918 00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:57,528 It's just taken me a minute. 919 00:39:57,528 --> 00:39:59,564 Um... 920 00:40:00,965 --> 00:40:03,568 This is so hard for me... [small laugh] 921 00:40:03,568 --> 00:40:05,503 Because, um... 922 00:40:07,705 --> 00:40:08,907 [exhales deeply] 923 00:40:08,907 --> 00:40:13,444 You guys are all... such amazing guys. 924 00:40:15,146 --> 00:40:18,082 Essentially, when I came here, 925 00:40:18,082 --> 00:40:22,921 like, I was so ready and open 926 00:40:22,921 --> 00:40:26,024 and willing to, like, find the love of my life. 927 00:40:26,024 --> 00:40:27,859 And, um... 928 00:40:31,162 --> 00:40:33,831 [exhales deeply] What I came here for... 929 00:40:35,967 --> 00:40:37,602 Um... 930 00:40:39,771 --> 00:40:41,906 I think I found, 931 00:40:41,906 --> 00:40:43,741 and it's with Dale. 932 00:40:43,741 --> 00:40:50,048 ♪ ♪ 933 00:40:50,048 --> 00:40:51,849 I know each and every one of you, like, 934 00:40:51,849 --> 00:40:53,985 have so much to offer. 935 00:40:53,985 --> 00:40:56,988 But, um, and I've always said, like, 936 00:40:56,988 --> 00:40:59,190 "I'm a woman that knows what I want," 937 00:40:59,190 --> 00:41:01,893 and I'm going for it. 938 00:41:01,893 --> 00:41:06,164 ♪ ♪ 939 00:41:06,164 --> 00:41:08,166 I just have so much respect for you guys, 940 00:41:08,166 --> 00:41:11,002 I would never, ever wanna lead any of you on. 941 00:41:11,002 --> 00:41:14,405 And I hope you guys know it doesn't devalue 942 00:41:14,405 --> 00:41:16,374 any of the conversations and any of the energy 943 00:41:16,374 --> 00:41:19,777 that I've put into you guys because I was there, 944 00:41:19,777 --> 00:41:20,778 and I was present. 945 00:41:20,778 --> 00:41:22,180 And I hope that, like, 946 00:41:22,180 --> 00:41:24,983 what I have found in Dale, 947 00:41:24,983 --> 00:41:28,119 I seriously, sincerely want the same for you guys. 948 00:41:28,119 --> 00:41:31,723 [somber music] 949 00:41:31,723 --> 00:41:38,730 ♪ ♪ 950 00:41:41,099 --> 00:41:42,367 ‐ I mean, I'm bummed. It definitely sucks. 951 00:41:42,367 --> 00:41:44,235 This is what you wanted, and that's what you came for. 952 00:41:44,235 --> 00:41:46,170 And that's great, so I appreciate you 953 00:41:46,170 --> 00:41:48,039 addressing all of us, but... ‐ Yeah. 954 00:41:48,039 --> 00:41:50,208 ‐ Yeah, I'm bummed I didn't get more time to spend... 955 00:41:50,208 --> 00:41:51,709 ‐ I know. I know. 956 00:41:51,709 --> 00:41:53,644 I totally‐‐trust me. 957 00:41:53,644 --> 00:41:54,278 I get it. 958 00:41:54,278 --> 00:41:57,982 ‐ I mean...I just hope you don't get hurt, 959 00:41:57,982 --> 00:42:01,319 and I'm scared that in 24 hours, like... 960 00:42:01,319 --> 00:42:03,287 however amount of time you had with him, 961 00:42:03,287 --> 00:42:04,956 I'm just scared that you're gonna get hurt 962 00:42:04,956 --> 00:42:06,457 and be devastated after this. 963 00:42:06,457 --> 00:42:09,961 I just don't know how you can be so sure so quick, 964 00:42:09,961 --> 00:42:12,163 and... 965 00:42:12,163 --> 00:42:14,132 it worries me for you a little bit. 966 00:42:14,132 --> 00:42:15,466 But, I mean, you gotta trust what you think 967 00:42:15,466 --> 00:42:18,136 in this short period of time, and it just sucks, I guess, 968 00:42:18,136 --> 00:42:19,303 for other guys that truly thought 969 00:42:19,303 --> 00:42:21,072 there might be something there. 970 00:42:21,072 --> 00:42:23,007 So... ‐ Yeah. 971 00:42:23,007 --> 00:42:25,810 ‐ Were you talking to Dale before the show started? 972 00:42:25,810 --> 00:42:27,178 ‐ 100% no. 973 00:42:27,178 --> 00:42:29,981 I never had one interaction, one conversation, 974 00:42:29,981 --> 00:42:33,851 not one text, not one DM‐‐100% nothing. 975 00:42:33,851 --> 00:42:35,420 ‐ Well, you know what? 976 00:42:35,420 --> 00:42:37,221 You should apologize to the group. 977 00:42:37,221 --> 00:42:39,157 [tense music] 978 00:42:39,157 --> 00:42:41,025 ‐ Can you tell me what I'm apologizing for, though? 979 00:42:41,025 --> 00:42:42,393 Because I'm sitting here, like‐‐ 980 00:42:42,393 --> 00:42:44,395 I'm not gonna apologize for love. 981 00:42:44,395 --> 00:42:46,297 Like, that's not something that's negative. 982 00:42:46,297 --> 00:42:49,067 ‐ You don't have to apologize for falling in love with Dale. 983 00:42:49,067 --> 00:42:50,201 That's not what we're asking. 984 00:42:50,201 --> 00:42:53,404 I just feel like a lot of time's been wasted. 985 00:42:53,404 --> 00:42:55,306 Because like the conversation we had, 986 00:42:55,306 --> 00:42:57,208 I‐‐I could tell your head wasn't there. 987 00:42:57,208 --> 00:42:59,077 You know what I mean? I'm like‐‐I'm talking to you, 988 00:42:59,077 --> 00:43:01,079 but it's like, I don't think you really cared. 989 00:43:01,079 --> 00:43:03,314 So, like, I can tell when someone's not into it, 990 00:43:03,314 --> 00:43:05,316 and I said that to the group. 991 00:43:05,316 --> 00:43:07,618 So you should apologize for faking it 992 00:43:07,618 --> 00:43:10,888 when you should have admitted you were in love with Dale 993 00:43:10,888 --> 00:43:12,056 after the first night 994 00:43:12,056 --> 00:43:14,959 'cause that's kind of what it looks like. 995 00:43:14,959 --> 00:43:16,961 ‐ [sighs] 996 00:43:17,562 --> 00:43:20,465 I truly did not wanna waste any more of your guys' time 997 00:43:20,465 --> 00:43:25,036 because you guys have given up so much to be here, 998 00:43:25,036 --> 00:43:29,207 [sniffles] and...it means everything to me. 999 00:43:29,207 --> 00:43:31,976 From the bottom of my heart, I mean it when I say 1000 00:43:31,976 --> 00:43:34,045 every word of this. 1001 00:43:34,045 --> 00:43:36,247 I'll apologize if I wasted your time. 1002 00:43:36,247 --> 00:43:38,182 I'll apologize if I hurt you. 1003 00:43:38,182 --> 00:43:41,919 But I'm not gonna apologize for love. 1004 00:43:44,322 --> 00:43:46,858 ‐ As you shouldn't. ‐ Yeah. 1005 00:43:46,858 --> 00:43:48,793 ‐ Thank you. 1006 00:43:50,061 --> 00:43:51,262 [exhales deeply] 1007 00:43:51,262 --> 00:43:55,166 ‐ Um...you know, it takes guts to do what you just did. 1008 00:43:55,166 --> 00:43:56,434 ‐ It's hard. 1009 00:43:56,434 --> 00:43:58,002 ‐ I just really appreciate you, 1010 00:43:58,002 --> 00:43:59,137 and I really hope the best for you 1011 00:43:59,137 --> 00:44:00,338 no matter what. ‐ Thank you. 1012 00:44:00,338 --> 00:44:02,440 Thank you so much. ‐ I'll second that. 1013 00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:04,275 I appreciate your courage coming in front of us 1014 00:44:04,275 --> 00:44:05,476 and just sharing this. 1015 00:44:05,476 --> 00:44:09,247 Uh, you know, the thing that I was most attracted to 1016 00:44:09,247 --> 00:44:11,182 about you was your boldness and your ability 1017 00:44:11,182 --> 00:44:13,050 to stay true to yourself, and you're doing that, 1018 00:44:13,050 --> 00:44:14,152 you know, once again. 1019 00:44:14,152 --> 00:44:16,220 And so even though it didn't work out 1020 00:44:16,220 --> 00:44:18,055 the way that I would have liked, 1021 00:44:18,055 --> 00:44:19,257 I'm so happy for you. 1022 00:44:19,257 --> 00:44:21,893 ‐ Thank you so much. ‐ Yeah. 1023 00:44:21,893 --> 00:44:22,994 [solemn music] 1024 00:44:22,994 --> 00:44:25,296 ‐ God. I'm gonna miss you guys. 1025 00:44:25,296 --> 00:44:26,397 ‐ Good luck. ‐ Good luck. 1026 00:44:26,397 --> 00:44:27,398 ‐ Can I have hugs from you guys? 1027 00:44:27,398 --> 00:44:29,100 ‐ Yeah. ‐ [laughs] 1028 00:44:29,100 --> 00:44:30,535 ‐ [indistinct muffled speech] 1029 00:44:30,535 --> 00:44:33,304 ‐ I'm not only in shock; I'm in disbelief. 1030 00:44:33,304 --> 00:44:34,572 I'm crushed. I mean, my heart's‐‐ 1031 00:44:34,572 --> 00:44:37,275 I don't know if it's gonna come out or if it'll sink. 1032 00:44:37,275 --> 00:44:40,011 Um...it sucks. 1033 00:44:40,011 --> 00:44:41,479 Thank you. ‐ [whispers] Jason. 1034 00:44:41,479 --> 00:44:44,382 ‐ I hit bottom when I gave my last hug to her, 1035 00:44:44,382 --> 00:44:46,017 and I said goodbye. 1036 00:44:46,017 --> 00:44:48,085 ‐ Congratulations. 1037 00:44:48,085 --> 00:44:50,154 ‐ I just‐‐I don't get it. 1038 00:44:50,154 --> 00:44:51,355 It's just like you're letting go of something 1039 00:44:51,355 --> 00:44:52,957 that you thought was real. 1040 00:44:52,957 --> 00:44:54,125 ‐ Bye, guys. 1041 00:44:55,993 --> 00:44:57,161 [exhales deeply] 1042 00:44:57,161 --> 00:44:59,230 ♪ ♪ 1043 00:44:59,230 --> 00:45:01,065 ‐ It's tough. I‐‐I don't know. 1044 00:45:01,065 --> 00:45:02,867 It's tough. I don't know. 1045 00:45:02,867 --> 00:45:05,269 ♪ ♪ 1046 00:45:05,269 --> 00:45:08,105 What is next? I don't even know what to do. 1047 00:45:08,105 --> 00:45:11,142 ♪ ♪ 1048 00:45:11,142 --> 00:45:13,177 It sucks. 1049 00:45:13,177 --> 00:45:16,714 ‐ [sobbing] 1050 00:45:18,049 --> 00:45:19,283 It's so hard. 1051 00:45:19,283 --> 00:45:21,352 [breathing shakily, sniffling] 1052 00:45:21,352 --> 00:45:23,421 ‐ What the [bleep] just happened? 1053 00:45:23,421 --> 00:45:26,524 ‐ It'll have to digest, man, a lot, to get the words out. 1054 00:45:26,524 --> 00:45:28,125 I didn't even wanna speak 'cause I had 1055 00:45:28,125 --> 00:45:29,293 nothing really I could say. 1056 00:45:29,293 --> 00:45:31,229 ‐ How much cumulative time before yesterday 1057 00:45:31,229 --> 00:45:32,496 did she spend with Dale? Like, you know, like‐‐ 1058 00:45:32,496 --> 00:45:34,699 like, two hours? ‐ At this point, 1059 00:45:34,699 --> 00:45:38,202 I feel like, uh, kind of a joke, like, you know? 1060 00:45:38,202 --> 00:45:39,537 ‐ Never in a million years 1061 00:45:39,537 --> 00:45:42,106 have I ever been around so many great guys. 1062 00:45:42,106 --> 00:45:44,508 [whimpering, sniffles] 1063 00:45:44,508 --> 00:45:46,277 ‐ I don't know. I just, like‐‐I invested early 1064 00:45:46,277 --> 00:45:47,478 when I found out it was her. 1065 00:45:47,478 --> 00:45:48,713 Like, I bought a book on like 1066 00:45:48,713 --> 00:45:50,648 dementia and Alzheimer's to make sure I can understand 1067 00:45:50,648 --> 00:45:52,416 like what she was going through with her mom. 1068 00:45:52,416 --> 00:45:56,220 I fully, like, dove in to make sure that I could 1069 00:45:56,220 --> 00:45:58,289 potentially be that fairy‐tale ending for her 1070 00:45:58,289 --> 00:45:59,357 if I got there. 1071 00:45:59,357 --> 00:46:00,458 ‐ It is hard. 1072 00:46:00,458 --> 00:46:01,559 ‐ Yeah, they're amazing. 1073 00:46:01,559 --> 00:46:03,661 ‐ They're all, like, amazing. [sniffles] 1074 00:46:03,661 --> 00:46:08,399 ‐ Why did I invest so much and not get anything in return? 1075 00:46:08,399 --> 00:46:10,268 I'm just shocked. 1076 00:46:10,268 --> 00:46:11,469 If she wants a true marriage, I don't‐‐ 1077 00:46:11,469 --> 00:46:12,603 I don't think you go that route. 1078 00:46:12,603 --> 00:46:15,206 I don't think you go the route with Dale. 1079 00:46:15,206 --> 00:46:18,376 Like, you don't know anything about him. 1080 00:46:18,376 --> 00:46:20,645 You know nothing about him. ‐ [sniffles] 1081 00:46:20,645 --> 00:46:22,446 ‐ I'm really nervous for her. ‐ [whimpers] 1082 00:46:22,446 --> 00:46:24,515 ‐ I don't know, I think she's gonna get hurt in the end. 1083 00:46:24,515 --> 00:46:26,484 ‐ I'm interested to see what's gonna happen next. 1084 00:46:26,484 --> 00:46:28,486 ‐ I'm like, "Are we going home now or what?" 1085 00:46:28,486 --> 00:46:29,687 I mean, I don't know. ‐ I don't know. 1086 00:46:29,687 --> 00:46:31,289 It'll be interesting. I still don't‐‐ 1087 00:46:31,289 --> 00:46:32,423 still a little shocked. So... 1088 00:46:32,423 --> 00:46:34,258 ‐ I don't really find any comfort 1089 00:46:34,258 --> 00:46:35,626 in any of this at all right now. 1090 00:46:35,626 --> 00:46:37,561 Everybody's questioning everything, 1091 00:46:37,561 --> 00:46:39,630 wondering what's going on, and right now, 1092 00:46:39,630 --> 00:46:41,799 it just raises more uncertainty amongst the house. 1093 00:46:41,799 --> 00:46:45,236 And we're just not sure what's gonna happen next. 1094 00:46:45,236 --> 00:46:48,239 [dramatic music] 1095 00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:50,241 ♪ ♪ 1096 00:46:52,376 --> 00:46:56,213 [phone line trilling] 1097 00:46:58,215 --> 00:47:01,118 ‐ Hey. Neil Lane! 1098 00:47:01,118 --> 00:47:02,453 ‐ What's up? 1099 00:47:02,453 --> 00:47:05,423 ‐ Everything has been turned upside down here. 1100 00:47:05,423 --> 00:47:09,360 Clare came here to find love, and she did. 1101 00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,229 ‐ Already? ‐ Already. 1102 00:47:12,229 --> 00:47:15,333 So here's the situation. ‐ Okay. 1103 00:47:15,333 --> 00:47:19,170 ‐ I need to get the ring today. 1104 00:47:20,438 --> 00:47:22,373 ‐ Today? ‐ Today. 1105 00:47:22,373 --> 00:47:26,444 There's going to be, hopefully, a proposal today. 1106 00:47:26,444 --> 00:47:29,480 [mellow music] 1107 00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:33,117 [birds chirping] 1108 00:47:33,117 --> 00:47:34,618 ♪ ♪ 1109 00:47:34,618 --> 00:47:37,355 ‐ It was tough saying goodbye this morning to Clare. 1110 00:47:37,355 --> 00:47:39,423 I definitely didn't wanna leave. 1111 00:47:39,423 --> 00:47:41,325 I just felt comfortable, you know, when I was there, 1112 00:47:41,325 --> 00:47:42,893 and it just felt right. 1113 00:47:42,893 --> 00:47:45,763 I love Clare and, like, I know that she loves me, 1114 00:47:45,763 --> 00:47:49,166 and I'm excited to spend more time together, 1115 00:47:49,166 --> 00:47:50,434 whenever that is. 1116 00:47:50,434 --> 00:47:52,436 There's no stress, no pressure. 1117 00:47:52,436 --> 00:47:54,538 So I believe we're on the same page 1118 00:47:54,538 --> 00:47:58,242 and just exploring, like, where this goes. 1119 00:47:58,242 --> 00:48:02,880 ♪ ♪ 1120 00:48:04,482 --> 00:48:06,350 ‐ Dale. ‐ Hey, what's up, Chris? 1121 00:48:06,350 --> 00:48:07,485 ‐ How's it going, bud? ‐ How you doing? 1122 00:48:07,485 --> 00:48:09,387 ‐ Got a sec? ‐ Yeah, I'm good. 1123 00:48:09,387 --> 00:48:11,055 ‐ Thanks. 1124 00:48:12,289 --> 00:48:14,191 Have a seat. ‐ All right. 1125 00:48:19,463 --> 00:48:20,698 ‐ It's a bit wild, huh? 1126 00:48:20,698 --> 00:48:23,367 ‐ Yeah, it's been an interesting, uh, 1127 00:48:23,367 --> 00:48:25,536 last 24 hours, but I'm doing good. 1128 00:48:25,536 --> 00:48:28,506 ‐ Yeah, um, how are you feeling right now? 1129 00:48:28,506 --> 00:48:30,574 Where's your head at? Where's your heart? 1130 00:48:30,574 --> 00:48:32,610 ‐ Honestly, like... like I feel good. 1131 00:48:32,610 --> 00:48:34,445 I feel relaxed. I'm not stressed. 1132 00:48:34,445 --> 00:48:37,848 Um...like, I was able to spend one‐on‐one time 1133 00:48:37,848 --> 00:48:40,718 with Clare last night, and I‐‐I definitely wanted 1134 00:48:40,718 --> 00:48:43,354 to‐‐to share how I felt about her, you know. 1135 00:48:43,354 --> 00:48:44,555 That's something that... ‐ Yeah. 1136 00:48:44,555 --> 00:48:45,689 ‐ Doesn't scare me. 1137 00:48:45,689 --> 00:48:47,625 I told her that I was falling in love with her 1138 00:48:47,625 --> 00:48:50,694 throughout this process and, um... 1139 00:48:50,694 --> 00:48:54,498 that I only see things going, you know, further and further. 1140 00:48:54,498 --> 00:48:55,533 ‐ Yeah. ‐ Or at least, you know, 1141 00:48:55,533 --> 00:48:56,700 I‐‐I wanna explore that. 1142 00:48:56,700 --> 00:48:59,603 And the goal was to come into it with an open heart, 1143 00:48:59,603 --> 00:49:02,373 and she pulled a lot out of me. 1144 00:49:02,373 --> 00:49:04,341 ‐ So you're in love with this girl? 1145 00:49:04,341 --> 00:49:06,377 ‐ Yeah, that's exactly where I'm at, 1146 00:49:06,377 --> 00:49:09,480 and I know she feels the same way. 1147 00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:10,781 The thing that's exciting about it, 1148 00:49:10,781 --> 00:49:14,485 even in a short span, is just really, you know, 1149 00:49:14,485 --> 00:49:16,787 looking at this, you know, situation 1150 00:49:16,787 --> 00:49:18,789 and, like, how lucky I am in it... 1151 00:49:18,789 --> 00:49:20,558 ‐ Yeah. ‐ And just nurturing that. 1152 00:49:20,558 --> 00:49:21,926 And I think that's all you can do. 1153 00:49:21,926 --> 00:49:24,795 ‐ Yeah, well, let me fill you in on some gaps, then, 1154 00:49:24,795 --> 00:49:26,430 since you don't know what's going on. 1155 00:49:26,430 --> 00:49:27,498 ‐ Yeah. ‐ 'Cause it's been a busy day. 1156 00:49:27,498 --> 00:49:30,434 ‐ Yeah. ‐ Um, this is unprecedented. 1157 00:49:30,434 --> 00:49:31,702 We've never dealt with anything like this. 1158 00:49:31,702 --> 00:49:34,939 ‐ Yeah. ‐ So I can tell you 1159 00:49:34,939 --> 00:49:40,377 that Clare broke up with all the other guys today. 1160 00:49:40,377 --> 00:49:43,647 ‐ [laughs] 1161 00:49:43,647 --> 00:49:47,518 ‐ And with that said, 1162 00:49:47,518 --> 00:49:49,520 there are no more steps. 1163 00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:51,455 [pensive music] 1164 00:49:51,455 --> 00:49:52,756 This is it. 1165 00:49:52,756 --> 00:49:55,426 This is the end of this part of the journey. 1166 00:49:55,426 --> 00:49:57,394 ‐ Mm‐hmm. 1167 00:49:57,394 --> 00:50:01,565 ‐ And what's next is the final step. 1168 00:50:01,565 --> 00:50:05,603 Clare is gonna be waiting for you. 1169 00:50:05,603 --> 00:50:07,371 ‐ [exhales] 1170 00:50:08,906 --> 00:50:13,143 ‐ And she's gonna be waiting for a proposal. 1171 00:50:15,646 --> 00:50:19,149 [dramatic music] 1172 00:50:19,149 --> 00:50:22,019 ♪ ♪ 1173 00:50:22,019 --> 00:50:24,588 ‐ She's a mature woman. She's been through a lot. 1174 00:50:24,588 --> 00:50:27,691 I truly believe she knows about herself and her wants, 1175 00:50:27,691 --> 00:50:28,893 but what about Dale? 1176 00:50:28,893 --> 00:50:31,595 ‐ Yeah, you‐‐you never know if he's scrambling 1177 00:50:31,595 --> 00:50:33,864 at the moment and is like, "Oh, [bleep]. 1178 00:50:33,864 --> 00:50:36,567 I actually have to marry this girl?" 1179 00:50:36,567 --> 00:50:38,502 ‐ I mean, if Dale proposes‐‐ ‐ There's no way. 1180 00:50:38,502 --> 00:50:39,637 ‐ That would be insane. That would be insane. 1181 00:50:39,637 --> 00:50:41,672 ‐ She doesn't seem like she's in the mode 1182 00:50:41,672 --> 00:50:43,641 right now to take things slow, though. 1183 00:50:43,641 --> 00:50:45,576 ‐ True. ‐ She‐‐she‐‐she seems like... 1184 00:50:45,576 --> 00:50:46,911 ‐ That's true. ‐ She's rip‐roaring ready 1185 00:50:46,911 --> 00:50:50,481 for a wedding. ‐ Like, if it wasn't 2020, 1186 00:50:50,481 --> 00:50:51,615 I'd be like, "That's crazy." ‐ True. 1187 00:50:51,615 --> 00:50:53,684 ‐ But this is all crazy, dude. 1188 00:50:53,684 --> 00:50:55,653 I mean, what the heck is going on? 1189 00:50:55,653 --> 00:50:59,156 [tense music] 1190 00:51:15,973 --> 00:51:19,043 I know what Dale and I have between each other right now. 1191 00:51:19,043 --> 00:51:23,547 Like, I know what that is, and I know that I want 1192 00:51:23,547 --> 00:51:25,950 to spend the rest of my life with Dale. 1193 00:51:25,950 --> 00:51:28,519 But if he's not at the same place as me, 1194 00:51:28,519 --> 00:51:29,720 what do we do? 1195 00:51:29,720 --> 00:51:31,488 [heavy music] 1196 00:51:31,488 --> 00:51:33,524 [sniffling] 1197 00:51:33,524 --> 00:51:36,627 And it totally scares me because... 1198 00:51:36,627 --> 00:51:37,828 [sniffles] 1199 00:51:37,828 --> 00:51:40,698 Love has always been so hard for me‐‐ 1200 00:51:40,698 --> 00:51:42,766 to feel love, to want love. 1201 00:51:42,766 --> 00:51:46,704 Like, I've literally begged guys to love me. 1202 00:51:46,704 --> 00:51:48,405 [sniffles] 1203 00:51:48,405 --> 00:51:51,642 ♪ ♪ 1204 00:51:51,642 --> 00:51:53,544 [laughs, sniffles] 1205 00:51:53,544 --> 00:51:55,746 ♪ ♪ 1206 00:51:55,746 --> 00:51:57,648 ‐ Clare? How you feeling? 1207 00:51:57,648 --> 00:52:00,684 ‐ Um, nervous. ‐ Yeah? 1208 00:52:00,684 --> 00:52:02,620 What's happening? ‐ [sniffles] 1209 00:52:02,620 --> 00:52:05,689 I've been in those relationships every time 1210 00:52:05,689 --> 00:52:10,561 where I show up, and they don't. 1211 00:52:10,561 --> 00:52:13,430 And that's everything I'm used to, 1212 00:52:13,430 --> 00:52:14,865 and I don't know different. 1213 00:52:14,865 --> 00:52:16,567 So when I'm in a situation 1214 00:52:16,567 --> 00:52:20,638 where this is the next step... 1215 00:52:20,638 --> 00:52:24,508 I'm used to a different outcome every single time. 1216 00:52:24,508 --> 00:52:26,310 And it... 1217 00:52:29,313 --> 00:52:30,881 ‐ I know that, 1218 00:52:30,881 --> 00:52:32,750 and I'm sorry for that. 1219 00:52:32,750 --> 00:52:35,519 ‐ This is just bringing up so many old fears 1220 00:52:35,519 --> 00:52:36,620 and old stuff. 1221 00:52:38,622 --> 00:52:40,758 It's scary. 1222 00:52:40,758 --> 00:52:44,061 ‐ I know where this fear comes from, 1223 00:52:44,061 --> 00:52:47,631 but you need to actually trust yourself. 1224 00:52:48,799 --> 00:52:50,734 What you feel, what you saw, 1225 00:52:50,734 --> 00:52:54,471 what you've heard, all the work... 1226 00:52:54,471 --> 00:52:58,609 you have to trust that. 1227 00:52:58,609 --> 00:53:01,845 This last hurdle is... 1228 00:53:01,845 --> 00:53:04,615 the biggest one for you to get over. 1229 00:53:05,883 --> 00:53:07,918 ‐ My whole adult life 1230 00:53:07,918 --> 00:53:12,690 has been dysfunctional relationships... 1231 00:53:12,690 --> 00:53:15,492 that love equaled pain. 1232 00:53:15,492 --> 00:53:17,361 [sniffles] 1233 00:53:17,361 --> 00:53:18,896 [whimpers] 1234 00:53:18,896 --> 00:53:21,932 And here is this man who is just everything 1235 00:53:21,932 --> 00:53:24,401 of what I'm looking for. 1236 00:53:24,401 --> 00:53:25,602 [sniffles] 1237 00:53:25,602 --> 00:53:26,670 [dramatic music] 1238 00:53:26,670 --> 00:53:29,740 All I've ever wanted is to... 1239 00:53:29,740 --> 00:53:32,910 find the feeling that I'm feeling right now. 1240 00:53:32,910 --> 00:53:35,979 But I know what we feel is real. 1241 00:53:35,979 --> 00:53:38,749 You, like, obviously, can't deny that, 1242 00:53:38,749 --> 00:53:40,651 but I don't know... 1243 00:53:40,651 --> 00:53:44,555 ♪ ♪ 1244 00:53:44,555 --> 00:53:46,657 Why this is so hard for me. 1245 00:53:46,657 --> 00:53:48,759 [sniffling] 1246 00:53:48,759 --> 00:53:52,663 I fought my whole life to find good love. 1247 00:53:52,663 --> 00:53:54,798 I deserve to be happy. 1248 00:53:54,798 --> 00:53:58,502 [sniffling] 1249 00:53:58,502 --> 00:54:00,370 It's just scary. 1250 00:54:00,370 --> 00:54:03,240 ♪ ♪ 1251 00:54:04,742 --> 00:54:07,745 [uneasy music] 1252 00:54:07,745 --> 00:54:14,051 ♪ ♪ 1253 00:54:14,051 --> 00:54:17,921 ‐ This feels like a dream‐‐ a dream come true. 1254 00:54:17,921 --> 00:54:20,557 I've been waiting my whole life for this day. 1255 00:54:21,191 --> 00:54:23,894 Like, this has been a long journey coming, 1256 00:54:23,894 --> 00:54:26,797 and I'm not even talking about being the Bachelorette. 1257 00:54:26,797 --> 00:54:28,832 I'm talking like six years ago 1258 00:54:28,832 --> 00:54:32,736 when I started my journey on this show... 1259 00:54:32,736 --> 00:54:35,572 wanting love, believing in love. 1260 00:54:35,572 --> 00:54:38,776 ♪ ♪ 1261 00:54:38,776 --> 00:54:42,746 But falling in love is hard, and it's‐‐it's scary 1262 00:54:42,746 --> 00:54:45,816 because always in my past, 1263 00:54:45,816 --> 00:54:47,785 once you pour your heart out to a guy, 1264 00:54:47,785 --> 00:54:49,853 once you fully commit to a guy, 1265 00:54:49,853 --> 00:54:54,424 he runs away and finds an excuse to leave. 1266 00:54:55,058 --> 00:54:57,127 I've never had a guy stick around. 1267 00:54:57,127 --> 00:54:59,830 I've never had a guy want to stick around. 1268 00:54:59,830 --> 00:55:01,598 Hi. ‐ Hey. 1269 00:55:01,598 --> 00:55:02,900 ‐ [softly] How are you? 1270 00:55:02,900 --> 00:55:03,967 ‐ I'm great. How are you? 1271 00:55:03,967 --> 00:55:06,870 ‐ [sighs] I'm here, and I'm doing good. 1272 00:55:06,870 --> 00:55:07,971 ‐ You showed up. 1273 00:55:07,971 --> 00:55:09,773 I know it took a lot to be here. 1274 00:55:09,773 --> 00:55:10,841 ‐ Yeah. 1275 00:55:10,841 --> 00:55:12,543 ‐ You ready to go take your place? 1276 00:55:12,543 --> 00:55:14,011 ‐ Yeah. ‐ Okay. 1277 00:55:14,011 --> 00:55:16,914 ‐ But Dale is the man of my dreams, 1278 00:55:16,914 --> 00:55:19,950 and I've never felt like this before. 1279 00:55:19,950 --> 00:55:22,586 This is just so different. 1280 00:55:22,586 --> 00:55:25,622 [stirring music] 1281 00:55:25,622 --> 00:55:26,757 ♪ ♪ 1282 00:55:26,757 --> 00:55:28,725 I've been falling in love with Dale 1283 00:55:28,725 --> 00:55:30,627 this entire time. 1284 00:55:30,627 --> 00:55:31,829 He's literally everything 1285 00:55:31,829 --> 00:55:34,264 I've ever, ever wanted in a man, 1286 00:55:34,264 --> 00:55:38,001 and I can't wait for the next step with him. 1287 00:55:38,001 --> 00:55:40,871 But it's terrifying 1288 00:55:40,871 --> 00:55:44,608 because I don't know what Dale wants to do. 1289 00:55:45,843 --> 00:55:48,078 The unknown is so scary. 1290 00:55:48,078 --> 00:55:51,048 Like, what if he's not as certain as I am, 1291 00:55:51,048 --> 00:55:54,518 and he doesn't show up? 1292 00:55:54,518 --> 00:56:01,525 ♪ ♪ 1293 00:56:15,839 --> 00:56:16,907 ‐ You okay? ‐ Yeah. 1294 00:56:16,907 --> 00:56:18,242 ‐ All right. 1295 00:56:18,242 --> 00:56:21,011 There's something I need to tell you. 1296 00:56:21,011 --> 00:56:22,579 [unsettling music] 1297 00:56:22,579 --> 00:56:24,047 ‐ What? 1298 00:56:24,047 --> 00:56:27,818 ‐ I have a feeling that Dale might be, 1299 00:56:27,818 --> 00:56:29,152 like, "Oh, [bleep]." ‐ Yeah. 1300 00:56:29,152 --> 00:56:31,788 ‐ I don't know if he expected it to go so quick. 1301 00:56:31,788 --> 00:56:33,156 I could see her falling quickly, 1302 00:56:33,156 --> 00:56:36,026 but for him also to, like, mimic those feelings, 1303 00:56:36,026 --> 00:56:38,195 it doesn't seem... ‐ Natural. 1304 00:56:38,195 --> 00:56:40,330 ‐ No. ‐ If she's so set on him 1305 00:56:40,330 --> 00:56:43,033 this quick, she's expecting it to move quick. 1306 00:56:43,033 --> 00:56:44,334 ‐ I agree. ‐ She's gonna be putting 1307 00:56:44,334 --> 00:56:46,803 the pressure on him to be like, "Let's get engaged," 1308 00:56:46,803 --> 00:56:47,971 and he's gonna be like, "Oh‐‐oh‐‐uh‐‐" 1309 00:56:47,971 --> 00:56:49,907 Maybe he was completely prepared to do all that 1310 00:56:49,907 --> 00:56:51,041 'cause he never talked about any of that. 1311 00:56:51,041 --> 00:56:52,075 ‐ Maybe, but it just didn't seem like it. 1312 00:56:52,075 --> 00:56:53,243 Right? ‐ No, no, it didn't. 1313 00:56:53,243 --> 00:56:55,913 I'd be shocked. ‐ I would be shocked too. 1314 00:56:55,913 --> 00:56:58,348 [uneasy music] 1315 00:56:58,348 --> 00:57:00,951 ‐ [whispers] Don't make me cry. ‐ I'm not gonna make you cry. 1316 00:57:00,951 --> 00:57:03,053 ‐ [sighs] 1317 00:57:03,053 --> 00:57:05,489 ‐ Just wanna say... 1318 00:57:06,857 --> 00:57:08,859 We are so proud of you. 1319 00:57:08,859 --> 00:57:10,928 ‐ [exhales] [whispers] Thank you. 1320 00:57:10,928 --> 00:57:13,997 ‐ And if you're ready, I'll go get Dale. 1321 00:57:13,997 --> 00:57:16,867 Okay. ‐ I'm so ready. 1322 00:57:16,867 --> 00:57:18,702 ‐ Good luck. ‐ Thank you. 1323 00:57:18,702 --> 00:57:21,705 [tender music] 1324 00:57:21,705 --> 00:57:26,109 ♪ ♪ 1325 00:57:26,109 --> 00:57:28,946 There's not a doubt in my mind how I feel, 1326 00:57:28,946 --> 00:57:32,849 but I'm scared because I have no idea 1327 00:57:32,849 --> 00:57:34,351 what he wants to do tonight. 1328 00:57:34,351 --> 00:57:37,955 ‐ You look good, looking sharp. ‐ Yeah, thank you. 1329 00:57:37,955 --> 00:57:39,990 ‐ Ready for tonight? 1330 00:57:39,990 --> 00:57:42,159 ‐ Um... [clicks tongue] 1331 00:57:42,159 --> 00:57:44,361 ‐ Like, I don't ever wanna live with regret 1332 00:57:44,361 --> 00:57:47,431 and wonder, like, what could have been. 1333 00:57:47,431 --> 00:57:51,969 So I'm gonna tell him everything that I have felt 1334 00:57:51,969 --> 00:57:55,172 this entire frickin' time. 1335 00:57:55,172 --> 00:57:58,075 I wanna let him know that, literally, 1336 00:57:58,075 --> 00:58:00,143 from the moment he stepped out of that limo, 1337 00:58:00,143 --> 00:58:02,679 I knew it was him. 1338 00:58:03,947 --> 00:58:05,949 There's a lot I'm scared of, 1339 00:58:05,949 --> 00:58:08,885 but it'll all be worth it 1340 00:58:08,885 --> 00:58:11,054 if Dale gets down on one knee. 1341 00:58:11,054 --> 00:58:17,594 ♪ ♪ 1342 00:58:18,996 --> 00:58:21,531 Hello. 1343 00:58:24,868 --> 00:58:26,003 How are you? ‐ I'm good. 1344 00:58:26,003 --> 00:58:27,871 How are you? ‐ [softly] So good. 1345 00:58:30,007 --> 00:58:32,909 Oh, my gosh, so much better right now. 1346 00:58:32,909 --> 00:58:35,879 ‐ Long day, huh? ‐ Yeah. 1347 00:58:35,879 --> 00:58:37,981 [sighs deeply] 1348 00:58:37,981 --> 00:58:39,116 ‐ [chuckles] 1349 00:58:39,116 --> 00:58:41,018 ‐ I cannot believe we're standing here. 1350 00:58:41,018 --> 00:58:42,152 ‐ I know. 1351 00:58:42,152 --> 00:58:44,688 ‐ There's one rose. 1352 00:58:46,023 --> 00:58:48,925 From the moment I knew 1353 00:58:48,925 --> 00:58:51,228 that you were coming... 1354 00:58:51,228 --> 00:58:54,197 like, I was so excited to meet you. 1355 00:58:54,197 --> 00:58:56,199 Then when you got here, 1356 00:58:56,199 --> 00:58:58,869 it was like electricity for me 1357 00:58:58,869 --> 00:59:02,039 because I knew 1358 00:59:02,039 --> 00:59:04,441 that I had just met my husband. 1359 00:59:04,441 --> 00:59:10,113 You embody everything that I want in a man‐‐ 1360 00:59:10,113 --> 00:59:12,182 everything just like my dad had. 1361 00:59:12,182 --> 00:59:14,017 Like, you're kind. 1362 00:59:14,017 --> 00:59:15,919 You're strong. 1363 00:59:15,919 --> 00:59:17,454 You're compassionate. 1364 00:59:17,454 --> 00:59:21,792 And I just am so in love with the man that you are. 1365 00:59:21,792 --> 00:59:22,993 [sighs] 1366 00:59:22,993 --> 00:59:26,296 You made me feel like 1367 00:59:26,296 --> 00:59:28,432 everything that I've ever been through‐‐ 1368 00:59:28,432 --> 00:59:31,334 all the ups and downs in other relationships‐‐ 1369 00:59:31,334 --> 00:59:36,106 like, it was all worth it because I've got you right now, 1370 00:59:36,106 --> 00:59:38,475 and most importantly, 1371 00:59:38,475 --> 00:59:41,912 you've shown me that you would never run away... 1372 00:59:41,912 --> 00:59:43,447 ‐ Yeah. ‐ And never leave me. 1373 00:59:43,447 --> 00:59:47,250 And I've never, ever had a man that would stay, 1374 00:59:47,250 --> 00:59:51,154 and you continue to show up for me. 1375 00:59:51,154 --> 00:59:54,057 And I promise you, I wanna show up for you 1376 00:59:54,057 --> 00:59:55,992 each and every single day. 1377 00:59:58,061 --> 01:00:00,697 You make me so happy. 1378 01:00:03,733 --> 01:00:04,901 [sighs] 1379 01:00:06,770 --> 01:00:07,370 ‐ [sighs] 1380 01:00:07,370 --> 01:00:10,941 Yeah, it's, uh‐‐it's wild, right, 1381 01:00:10,941 --> 01:00:12,876 that we're here right now? 1382 01:00:12,876 --> 01:00:14,845 Um... 1383 01:00:16,146 --> 01:00:18,715 But I‐‐I‐‐I've said this before. 1384 01:00:19,349 --> 01:00:22,119 From the moment I stepped out of the limo, 1385 01:00:22,119 --> 01:00:23,587 I knew this was special, 1386 01:00:23,587 --> 01:00:28,191 and I know you and I, we both felt it immediately, 1387 01:00:28,191 --> 01:00:31,194 and there was absolutely no denying it. 1388 01:00:31,194 --> 01:00:34,264 You made it so clear and apparent 1389 01:00:34,264 --> 01:00:38,368 at every phase of this that you believed in us, 1390 01:00:38,368 --> 01:00:40,003 you believed in you and I. 1391 01:00:40,003 --> 01:00:41,304 ‐ [softly] Yeah. 1392 01:00:41,304 --> 01:00:44,407 ‐ And I know without the shadow of a doubt 1393 01:00:44,407 --> 01:00:46,977 that you would go to the end of the world for me, 1394 01:00:46,977 --> 01:00:49,146 and I've never had that. 1395 01:00:49,146 --> 01:00:51,581 And I'm so grateful for that. 1396 01:00:51,581 --> 01:00:57,020 And you talked about strength and compassion 1397 01:00:57,020 --> 01:00:58,355 and how you saw that in me. 1398 01:00:58,355 --> 01:01:00,290 It's similar to‐‐to your father, 1399 01:01:00,290 --> 01:01:02,425 and‐‐and that meant everything. 1400 01:01:02,425 --> 01:01:04,895 You know, I wanna be here for you. 1401 01:01:04,895 --> 01:01:05,462 I wanna be strong. 1402 01:01:05,462 --> 01:01:07,330 I want you to feel protected, 1403 01:01:07,330 --> 01:01:11,401 and I want nothing more than to keep moving forward, 1404 01:01:11,401 --> 01:01:14,070 to be there for you each and every day. 1405 01:01:14,070 --> 01:01:15,305 [romantic music] 1406 01:01:15,305 --> 01:01:19,142 And‐‐and I thought a lot about, you know, my mother 1407 01:01:19,142 --> 01:01:21,144 and, like, what she would think about you, 1408 01:01:21,144 --> 01:01:23,446 and she would absolutely love you. 1409 01:01:23,446 --> 01:01:26,316 And all she's ever wanted for me 1410 01:01:26,316 --> 01:01:29,319 is someone who just loves me unconditionally 1411 01:01:29,319 --> 01:01:33,256 and wh‐‐who would be there for me... 1412 01:01:33,256 --> 01:01:35,825 no matter what. 1413 01:01:35,825 --> 01:01:37,427 ♪ ♪ 1414 01:01:37,427 --> 01:01:40,330 I mean, I know that I have that, and I love you. 1415 01:01:40,330 --> 01:01:44,034 And... ‐ [softly] I love you too. 1416 01:01:44,034 --> 01:01:46,036 ‐ I'm so appreciative for you. 1417 01:01:48,371 --> 01:01:52,242 And...the best is yet to come. 1418 01:01:52,242 --> 01:01:54,311 I'm not going anywhere, and I wanna make you happy 1419 01:01:54,311 --> 01:01:56,379 each and every day. 1420 01:01:56,379 --> 01:02:00,083 So...with that being said... 1421 01:02:00,083 --> 01:02:01,484 ‐ [gasps, squeals] 1422 01:02:01,484 --> 01:02:04,354 ‐ I'm gonna do it. ‐ You're doing it. 1423 01:02:04,354 --> 01:02:05,555 Oh, my God. 1424 01:02:05,555 --> 01:02:08,425 ‐ I'm doing it. ‐ Yeah, do it. 1425 01:02:08,425 --> 01:02:11,361 [enchanting music] 1426 01:02:11,361 --> 01:02:14,431 ‐ Clare, will you marry me? 1427 01:02:14,431 --> 01:02:17,000 ‐ [softly] Yes. 1428 01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:18,335 Oh, my God. 1429 01:02:18,335 --> 01:02:20,904 [stirring music] 1430 01:02:20,904 --> 01:02:22,105 Oh, my God. 1431 01:02:23,306 --> 01:02:25,375 ‐ You said "yes." ‐ Ohh... 1432 01:02:25,375 --> 01:02:26,910 ‐ [laughs] ‐ I meant it. 1433 01:02:26,910 --> 01:02:28,311 [laughs] Hold on! 1434 01:02:28,311 --> 01:02:29,312 ‐ Oh. ‐ [gasps] 1435 01:02:29,312 --> 01:02:30,413 Put that ring on my finger. 1436 01:02:30,413 --> 01:02:32,349 I waited a lot‐‐a lot years for this. 1437 01:02:32,349 --> 01:02:34,217 ‐ I got it. 1438 01:02:34,217 --> 01:02:36,319 [gentle music] 1439 01:02:36,319 --> 01:02:39,155 ‐ [whispers] Oh, my God. 1440 01:02:39,155 --> 01:02:40,457 Oh, my God. ‐ That'll do. 1441 01:02:40,457 --> 01:02:42,025 ‐ [sniffles] Clare Moss. 1442 01:02:42,025 --> 01:02:43,126 ‐ Mm‐hmm. 1443 01:02:43,126 --> 01:02:45,996 ‐ Oh, my gosh. [inhales sharply] 1444 01:02:45,996 --> 01:02:48,031 Oh, my God! 1445 01:02:48,031 --> 01:02:50,533 [tender music] 1446 01:02:50,533 --> 01:02:53,003 Thank you so much for showing up. 1447 01:02:53,003 --> 01:02:54,304 ‐ Thank you. 1448 01:02:54,304 --> 01:02:56,172 ‐ [whispers] I was so scared. 1449 01:02:56,172 --> 01:02:59,242 [sniffles] Oh, my God. 1450 01:02:59,242 --> 01:03:01,378 ♪ ♪ 1451 01:03:01,378 --> 01:03:03,480 Oh, my God. 1452 01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:05,548 Like, look at you, though. 1453 01:03:05,548 --> 01:03:09,786 ‐ [laughs] "Look at you." ‐ I mean...what? 1454 01:03:10,387 --> 01:03:12,355 Oh, my God. 1455 01:03:12,355 --> 01:03:14,257 Mm. 1456 01:03:14,257 --> 01:03:17,394 [romantic music] 1457 01:03:17,394 --> 01:03:18,495 ‐ We're engaged! 1458 01:03:18,495 --> 01:03:20,130 ‐ [gasps] We're engaged! 1459 01:03:20,130 --> 01:03:21,231 ‐ We're engaged! 1460 01:03:21,231 --> 01:03:22,532 ‐ [gasps] Oh, my God. 1461 01:03:22,532 --> 01:03:24,234 ‐ We're‐‐we're engaged right now. 1462 01:03:24,234 --> 01:03:26,202 ‐ Yeah, we are. 1463 01:03:26,202 --> 01:03:28,371 ‐ [laughs] This is real life. 1464 01:03:28,371 --> 01:03:31,007 ‐ Oh, but is it? Oh, my God. 1465 01:03:31,007 --> 01:03:32,842 ‐ It is. 1466 01:03:34,077 --> 01:03:36,079 ‐ Oh, my gosh. 1467 01:03:36,079 --> 01:03:38,348 [exhales sharply] 1468 01:03:38,348 --> 01:03:41,017 One more thing. 1469 01:03:41,017 --> 01:03:42,619 ♪ ♪ 1470 01:03:42,619 --> 01:03:45,488 Dale, will you accept this rose? 1471 01:03:45,488 --> 01:03:48,291 ‐ I will accept the Final Rose. 1472 01:03:48,291 --> 01:03:50,593 ‐ My Final Rose. 1473 01:03:50,593 --> 01:03:53,096 ‐ [laughs] There it is. 1474 01:03:53,096 --> 01:03:54,264 Ahh. 1475 01:03:54,264 --> 01:03:55,565 ‐ Ooh! 1476 01:03:55,565 --> 01:03:57,600 ‐ Whee! ‐ Whoo! 1477 01:03:57,600 --> 01:04:00,470 ‐ It's wild, right, that we're here right now, 1478 01:04:00,470 --> 01:04:01,871 but, like, when you know, you know. 1479 01:04:01,871 --> 01:04:04,607 This is how it was supposed to happen at the beginning. 1480 01:04:04,607 --> 01:04:06,276 We saw this coming... ‐ [softly] Yeah. 1481 01:04:06,276 --> 01:04:07,477 ‐ A long time ago. 1482 01:04:07,477 --> 01:04:10,513 ‐ We so saw this coming. I felt it. 1483 01:04:10,513 --> 01:04:12,515 ‐ I accepted it. ‐ I knew it. 1484 01:04:12,515 --> 01:04:14,517 ‐ I accepted it. ‐ Yeah, you did. 1485 01:04:14,517 --> 01:04:16,519 ‐ Dang, that thing's like‐‐ ‐ I mean... 1486 01:04:16,519 --> 01:04:18,588 what? ‐ I need some shades on that. 1487 01:04:18,588 --> 01:04:20,557 ‐ [squeals] Get some sunglasses on, baby. 1488 01:04:20,557 --> 01:04:23,360 ‐ You're gonna hurt your wrists carrying this thing around. 1489 01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:25,128 [both laugh] 1490 01:04:25,128 --> 01:04:26,429 ‐ Oh, my God. 1491 01:04:26,429 --> 01:04:28,231 We're engaged. ‐ Yeah. 1492 01:04:28,231 --> 01:04:29,599 ‐ Now we gotta put in the work. 1493 01:04:29,599 --> 01:04:32,335 We're gonna have some fun too. This is when it gets exciting. 1494 01:04:32,335 --> 01:04:34,571 This was already exciting, 1495 01:04:34,571 --> 01:04:38,108 but, uh...let's do the damn thing. 1496 01:04:38,108 --> 01:04:39,442 ‐ Yeah. [squeals] 1497 01:04:39,442 --> 01:04:41,578 ‐ [growls] ‐ [laughs] 1498 01:04:41,578 --> 01:04:44,481 ‐ And we're off. ‐ To the rest of our lives. 1499 01:04:44,481 --> 01:04:46,583 ‐ Off on a journey... ‐ You're stuck with me. 1500 01:04:46,583 --> 01:04:49,519 ‐ To the rest of our lives. ‐ [whispers] You're stuck. 1501 01:04:49,519 --> 01:04:50,653 ‐ I'm good... ‐ [laughs] 1502 01:04:50,653 --> 01:04:53,223 ‐ Wherever you wanna go. ‐ Whoo! 1503 01:04:53,223 --> 01:04:55,291 ‐ [laughs] This is so wild. 1504 01:04:55,291 --> 01:04:56,993 ‐ [laughs] 1505 01:04:59,396 --> 01:05:00,630 ‐ Coming up... 1506 01:05:00,630 --> 01:05:03,500 ‐ Everything crumbled in an instant. 1507 01:05:03,500 --> 01:05:04,701 ‐ I guess we're packing it up. 1508 01:05:04,701 --> 01:05:06,503 It's gonna suck to, like, get on a plane 1509 01:05:06,503 --> 01:05:08,271 tomorrow and go home. ‐ Gentlemen, I'm here 1510 01:05:08,271 --> 01:05:10,573 to tell you if you decide to stay, 1511 01:05:10,573 --> 01:05:12,475 your journey is not over. 1512 01:05:12,475 --> 01:05:14,744 ‐ What the [bleep] is happening? 1513 01:05:14,744 --> 01:05:17,480 ‐ Do I wanna start that process all over again? 1514 01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:19,215 ‐ It just feels like there's some 1515 01:05:19,215 --> 01:05:21,184 unfinished business here. 1516 01:05:21,184 --> 01:05:23,219 ‐ What is next for us? 1517 01:05:23,219 --> 01:05:26,089 [suspenseful music] 1518 01:05:26,089 --> 01:05:26,723 ♪ ♪ 1519 01:05:26,723 --> 01:05:29,159 Tayshia, are you ready? ‐ [exhales] 1520 01:05:31,194 --> 01:05:32,495 [birds chirping] 1521 01:05:32,495 --> 01:05:34,531 [zippering] 1522 01:05:34,531 --> 01:05:38,067 [uneasy music] 1523 01:05:38,067 --> 01:05:41,571 ♪ ♪ 1524 01:05:41,571 --> 01:05:44,541 ‐ Yesterday doesn't sit well with me. 1525 01:05:44,541 --> 01:05:46,576 Um... ‐ Oh, it was bad. 1526 01:05:46,576 --> 01:05:47,644 [laughs] ‐ It was real bad, you know. 1527 01:05:47,644 --> 01:05:48,678 ‐ It was‐‐it was tough. ‐ Yeah. 1528 01:05:48,678 --> 01:05:51,414 I didn't expect the process 1529 01:05:51,414 --> 01:05:52,816 to be cut short. 1530 01:05:52,816 --> 01:05:55,685 The past 24 hours have really been a whirlwind. 1531 01:05:55,685 --> 01:05:59,355 When everything crumbled in an instant, 1532 01:05:59,355 --> 01:06:00,557 I was really crushed. 1533 01:06:00,557 --> 01:06:03,326 I have a lot to give. I have a lot left in the tank. 1534 01:06:03,326 --> 01:06:04,794 ‐ Just knowing it's all over, 1535 01:06:04,794 --> 01:06:06,296 I feel like a letdown, you know? 1536 01:06:06,296 --> 01:06:07,297 So... ‐ Yeah. 1537 01:06:07,297 --> 01:06:08,498 I guess we're packing it up. 1538 01:06:08,498 --> 01:06:11,835 ‐ It was hard enough to do the bubble, quarantine 1539 01:06:11,835 --> 01:06:15,405 just to be [bleep] around and doing all that‐‐ 1540 01:06:15,405 --> 01:06:16,573 like, I don't wanna go home. 1541 01:06:16,573 --> 01:06:19,509 ‐ Clare threw me, like, through, such a crazy, 1542 01:06:19,509 --> 01:06:22,212 emotional, mental ride, and I'm just like, 1543 01:06:22,212 --> 01:06:24,280 "What the hell?" 1544 01:06:24,280 --> 01:06:25,415 ‐ It's a bummer. 1545 01:06:25,415 --> 01:06:26,549 You know, it just‐‐it just feels like 1546 01:06:26,549 --> 01:06:28,485 there's some unfinished business here 1547 01:06:28,485 --> 01:06:30,620 and, quite frankly, that there's, like, 1548 01:06:30,620 --> 01:06:32,722 more love to give and more love to be received. 1549 01:06:32,722 --> 01:06:34,591 ‐ I'm very happy for her, 1550 01:06:34,591 --> 01:06:35,892 and, uh, I wish the best for them, 1551 01:06:35,892 --> 01:06:37,794 but, um, you know, I've had my heart broken 1552 01:06:37,794 --> 01:06:39,529 in the past, and it‐‐it sucks. 1553 01:06:39,529 --> 01:06:41,664 It's like one of the worst things to‐‐to mend back. 1554 01:06:41,664 --> 01:06:43,867 ‐ You know, my heart breaks for a guy like Chasen, 1555 01:06:43,867 --> 01:06:46,903 a guy like Blake, a guy like Jason. 1556 01:06:46,903 --> 01:06:49,339 It's gonna suck to like get on a plane tomorrow 1557 01:06:49,339 --> 01:06:50,573 and go home. 1558 01:06:50,573 --> 01:06:52,709 ‐ Ah, here we go. ‐ There he is. 1559 01:06:52,709 --> 01:06:54,611 ‐ Fellas, good morning. ‐ Hello. 1560 01:06:54,611 --> 01:06:55,678 ‐ Hey. ‐ Hey, guys. 1561 01:06:55,678 --> 01:06:57,714 ‐ Hey, Chris. ‐ Um... 1562 01:06:57,714 --> 01:06:59,582 first of all, I just wanna say I'm sorry. 1563 01:06:59,582 --> 01:07:02,585 I'm sorry that all of you put your hearts on the line, 1564 01:07:02,585 --> 01:07:05,855 put your lives on pause, and, to be quite frank, 1565 01:07:05,855 --> 01:07:09,459 it's not turning out the way you'd hoped. 1566 01:07:09,459 --> 01:07:11,461 It's probably been a pretty stressful 1567 01:07:11,461 --> 01:07:12,762 24 hours for you guys. 1568 01:07:12,762 --> 01:07:14,831 So for that, I'm sorry. 1569 01:07:14,831 --> 01:07:18,668 ‐ Chris, what's your opinion of her sort of 1570 01:07:18,668 --> 01:07:22,405 coming into night one already researching Dale and knowing‐‐ 1571 01:07:22,405 --> 01:07:23,840 ‐ Yeah, this is so unprecedented. 1572 01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:26,342 We've never had to do a show like this. 1573 01:07:26,342 --> 01:07:27,343 But I did grill her. 1574 01:07:27,343 --> 01:07:28,611 I said, "Did you guys have 1575 01:07:28,611 --> 01:07:30,380 "a relationship before this? Just tell me 1576 01:07:30,380 --> 01:07:31,447 because it's gonna get out." 1577 01:07:31,447 --> 01:07:33,449 ‐ Mm‐hmm. ‐ And she swore up and down 1578 01:07:33,449 --> 01:07:35,752 that there wasn't a relationship. 1579 01:07:35,752 --> 01:07:37,787 So, um, did she have it in her mind? 1580 01:07:37,787 --> 01:07:39,522 Was she already in love with him before we started? 1581 01:07:39,522 --> 01:07:41,724 I don't know. 1582 01:07:41,724 --> 01:07:45,361 And...I can share with you guys, 1583 01:07:45,361 --> 01:07:46,896 last night... 1584 01:07:46,896 --> 01:07:51,267 Dale got down on one knee and proposed to Clare, 1585 01:07:51,267 --> 01:07:52,569 and she said "yes." 1586 01:07:52,569 --> 01:07:55,572 [melancholy music] 1587 01:07:55,572 --> 01:07:58,608 ‐ [exhales sharply] ‐ So Clare and Dale 1588 01:07:58,608 --> 01:08:00,843 have left quarantine, have left this bubble. 1589 01:08:00,843 --> 01:08:03,313 They've left the resort together. 1590 01:08:03,313 --> 01:08:04,747 ♪ ♪ 1591 01:08:04,747 --> 01:08:05,882 Blake, I know‐‐I can tell, man. 1592 01:08:05,882 --> 01:08:07,884 You're wearing this, and I'm sorry. 1593 01:08:07,884 --> 01:08:11,554 ‐ Yeah, I think it's just disbelief still. 1594 01:08:11,554 --> 01:08:13,423 Like, I‐‐it hasn't really sunk in 1595 01:08:13,423 --> 01:08:14,591 as to what just happened. 1596 01:08:14,591 --> 01:08:15,992 So... 1597 01:08:15,992 --> 01:08:19,762 I don't know if I need like drinks or sleep or what, but... 1598 01:08:19,762 --> 01:08:21,798 ‐ You know, the ultimate goal‐‐ 1599 01:08:21,798 --> 01:08:26,402 and I hate to say it‐‐ was to help Clare find love, 1600 01:08:26,402 --> 01:08:27,937 and we did that. 1601 01:08:27,937 --> 01:08:32,575 But as much as it was about her and her journey to find love, 1602 01:08:32,575 --> 01:08:33,776 it was also about you guys. 1603 01:08:33,776 --> 01:08:35,678 And in that regard, 1604 01:08:35,678 --> 01:08:38,715 I do feel like you guys were cheated a little bit. 1605 01:08:38,715 --> 01:08:40,717 We have never dealt with anything like this 1606 01:08:40,717 --> 01:08:43,519 in the history of our show, 1607 01:08:43,519 --> 01:08:46,789 and that's going to cause us 1608 01:08:46,789 --> 01:08:49,492 to do something historic as well. 1609 01:08:52,762 --> 01:08:54,897 So, gentlemen, what I'm here to tell you 1610 01:08:54,897 --> 01:08:58,401 is that your journey is not over. 1611 01:08:58,401 --> 01:09:01,371 [dramatic music] 1612 01:09:01,371 --> 01:09:04,841 ♪ ♪ 1613 01:09:04,841 --> 01:09:07,510 ‐ What the... [laughter] 1614 01:09:07,510 --> 01:09:10,680 ‐ What is up? ‐ Whoa. 1615 01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:12,015 ‐ Yo, what a ride right now. 1616 01:09:12,015 --> 01:09:14,083 ‐ Each of you needs to make a decision, 1617 01:09:14,083 --> 01:09:16,853 truly think about your relationship with Clare‐‐ 1618 01:09:16,853 --> 01:09:18,588 where you were, where your head is, 1619 01:09:18,588 --> 01:09:19,756 where your heart is. 1620 01:09:19,756 --> 01:09:22,725 And can you look past 1621 01:09:22,725 --> 01:09:24,794 your feelings with Clare and that relationship 1622 01:09:24,794 --> 01:09:27,430 and what just happened and move on? 1623 01:09:28,031 --> 01:09:30,600 And if you decide you can't get past this, 1624 01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:32,835 if you decide "I'm out. 1625 01:09:32,835 --> 01:09:35,805 I've had enough," I respect that, 1626 01:09:35,805 --> 01:09:38,474 respect you, no hard feelings. 1627 01:09:38,474 --> 01:09:39,676 There's not a guy in this room 1628 01:09:39,676 --> 01:09:42,612 that won't blame you for doing that and walking away. 1629 01:09:42,612 --> 01:09:44,681 ‐ Chr‐‐Chris, can I ask a question? 1630 01:09:44,681 --> 01:09:45,682 How much time are you giving us? 1631 01:09:45,682 --> 01:09:46,683 'Cause, like, this is hard 1632 01:09:46,683 --> 01:09:47,950 'cause I‐‐I‐‐I‐‐I opened up 1633 01:09:47,950 --> 01:09:49,686 to somebody that I've never done. 1634 01:09:49,686 --> 01:09:50,720 ‐ Yeah. ‐ That's tough, man. 1635 01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:51,788 Like‐‐so, uh, 1636 01:09:51,788 --> 01:09:52,855 what‐‐what's the timetable‐‐ 1637 01:09:52,855 --> 01:09:54,857 ‐ Well, I'll tell you what. 1638 01:09:54,857 --> 01:09:58,661 Each of you needs to make a decision by tonight 1639 01:09:58,661 --> 01:10:00,730 if you wanna stay or you wanna go. 1640 01:10:00,730 --> 01:10:04,801 If you decide to stay, be dressed 1641 01:10:04,801 --> 01:10:08,705 and be ready to continue your journey tonight. 1642 01:10:08,705 --> 01:10:11,507 That's all the details I'm gonna give you for now. 1643 01:10:11,507 --> 01:10:12,842 I hope to see you all. 1644 01:10:12,842 --> 01:10:15,645 All right, gentlemen, thanks. ‐ Thanks, Chris. 1645 01:10:15,645 --> 01:10:16,713 ‐ Thank you, Chris. 1646 01:10:16,713 --> 01:10:21,250 [overlapping chatter] 1647 01:10:21,851 --> 01:10:23,720 ‐ Bro, what is happening? 1648 01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:25,021 ‐ Bro, I don't get it. I don't... 1649 01:10:25,021 --> 01:10:26,823 ‐ [bleep]. Like, I'm still like, 1650 01:10:26,823 --> 01:10:28,658 "What the [bleep] is happening?" 1651 01:10:28,658 --> 01:10:29,926 Honestly. 1652 01:10:29,926 --> 01:10:31,761 I still haven't, like, fully comprehended 1653 01:10:31,761 --> 01:10:34,030 what the hell's going on, but I hope 1654 01:10:34,030 --> 01:10:35,732 that whatever the hell it is 1655 01:10:35,732 --> 01:10:37,967 quickly cleans the slate for me in my head 1656 01:10:37,967 --> 01:10:39,802 and I can just try to, like, 1657 01:10:39,802 --> 01:10:44,040 pretend that Clare... wasn't a thing. 1658 01:10:44,040 --> 01:10:47,009 ‐ There's a completely new opportunity 1659 01:10:47,009 --> 01:10:49,812 to try to find love, which is the reason why we're here, 1660 01:10:49,812 --> 01:10:51,714 but I just don't know. 1661 01:10:51,714 --> 01:10:53,649 I don't know if they're bringing in 1662 01:10:53,649 --> 01:10:55,885 one other woman, and we're just basically 1663 01:10:55,885 --> 01:10:57,854 gonna start from zero, um, 1664 01:10:57,854 --> 01:10:59,222 or if they're bringing in a bunch, 1665 01:10:59,222 --> 01:11:01,824 and we're gonna make this into some "Paradise" type stuff. 1666 01:11:01,824 --> 01:11:03,159 ‐ To be honest, I don't really know how to feel. 1667 01:11:03,159 --> 01:11:07,797 After, you know, months of thinking only about Clare, 1668 01:11:07,797 --> 01:11:09,866 I have to now switch that. 1669 01:11:09,866 --> 01:11:11,868 I have no idea if I can do it. 1670 01:11:11,868 --> 01:11:13,770 Taking a shot at love is always a risk. 1671 01:11:13,770 --> 01:11:15,872 Do I wanna start that process all over again 1672 01:11:15,872 --> 01:11:18,775 with a new woman who I have no idea about? 1673 01:11:18,775 --> 01:11:21,744 Um, I really don't know. 1674 01:11:21,744 --> 01:11:24,547 ♪ ♪ 1675 01:11:26,749 --> 01:11:30,486 [birds chirping] 1676 01:11:31,254 --> 01:11:34,791 ‐ I came into this open mind, open heart with Clare, but... 1677 01:11:34,791 --> 01:11:36,993 ‐ Honestly, I wasn't invested, you know. 1678 01:11:36,993 --> 01:11:38,261 I had no chance to be invested. 1679 01:11:38,261 --> 01:11:40,997 I was trying to mentally get myself there, you know, 1680 01:11:40,997 --> 01:11:43,065 with Clare, but this is just a, you know, clean slate. 1681 01:11:43,065 --> 01:11:45,968 Clare's gone. Dale's gone. 1682 01:11:45,968 --> 01:11:48,805 Personally, I'm very, very, very excited 1683 01:11:48,805 --> 01:11:50,106 for, um, a possibility 1684 01:11:50,106 --> 01:11:52,842 that I never thought was going to happen. 1685 01:11:52,842 --> 01:11:55,678 [sighs] Now we get a fresh start. 1686 01:11:55,678 --> 01:11:58,181 [solemn music] 1687 01:11:58,181 --> 01:12:00,883 ‐ It's hard to think about things right now 1688 01:12:00,883 --> 01:12:02,018 because it's like, 1689 01:12:02,018 --> 01:12:04,720 I had a lot of optimism about Clare. 1690 01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:06,889 Just because I put so much into Clare 1691 01:12:06,889 --> 01:12:08,124 and thinking about Clare, 1692 01:12:08,124 --> 01:12:10,259 and everything I did revolved around Clare, 1693 01:12:10,259 --> 01:12:13,830 that, like, do I wanna go through all that again? 1694 01:12:13,830 --> 01:12:15,798 Like, I don't know. 1695 01:12:15,798 --> 01:12:17,834 ‐ I don't know. I'm‐‐I'm feeling excited. 1696 01:12:17,834 --> 01:12:18,968 Like for me, it's excitement. 1697 01:12:18,968 --> 01:12:21,070 That's‐‐that's where I'm at with this whole thing, 1698 01:12:21,070 --> 01:12:23,906 and I know everyone's having their process, but... 1699 01:12:23,906 --> 01:12:25,608 ‐ It was‐‐man. 1700 01:12:27,677 --> 01:12:29,312 It's hard, man. 1701 01:12:30,513 --> 01:12:31,581 It sucks. 1702 01:12:31,581 --> 01:12:32,782 Having that one‐on‐one, 1703 01:12:32,782 --> 01:12:34,450 opening up like that... 1704 01:12:35,785 --> 01:12:37,486 I don't know. It's‐‐ 1705 01:12:38,955 --> 01:12:40,056 I don't know. 1706 01:12:40,056 --> 01:12:43,192 It hurts. It's tough 'cause I did invest. 1707 01:12:43,192 --> 01:12:46,162 Like, I took this journey, and‐‐and I opened up. 1708 01:12:46,162 --> 01:12:49,031 And I invested a lot into coming out here 1709 01:12:49,031 --> 01:12:52,335 and to really putting myself in front of this woman. 1710 01:12:52,869 --> 01:12:54,003 I still do care about Clare. 1711 01:12:54,003 --> 01:12:55,705 [snorts softly] 1712 01:12:55,705 --> 01:12:56,906 It sucks. 1713 01:12:56,906 --> 01:12:59,675 ♪ ♪ 1714 01:12:59,675 --> 01:13:01,944 [exhales deeply] 1715 01:13:01,944 --> 01:13:03,546 [bleep]. 1716 01:13:04,780 --> 01:13:05,848 Mm. 1717 01:13:05,848 --> 01:13:08,784 ♪ ♪ 1718 01:13:08,784 --> 01:13:10,620 Can I be here anymore? 1719 01:13:11,287 --> 01:13:14,991 But I‐‐I‐‐I wanna be honest. I don't know if I can. 1720 01:13:14,991 --> 01:13:21,998 ♪ ♪ 1721 01:13:21,998 --> 01:13:24,967 [dramatic music] 1722 01:13:24,967 --> 01:13:32,475 ♪ ♪ 1723 01:13:34,911 --> 01:13:36,412 ‐ There's 16 of us left. 1724 01:13:36,412 --> 01:13:39,782 You know, we're the‐‐ we're the leftovers right now. 1725 01:13:39,782 --> 01:13:42,084 I'm still in the same place I was. 1726 01:13:42,084 --> 01:13:43,986 I never did anything yet. 1727 01:13:43,986 --> 01:13:46,088 I never really got deep with Clare. 1728 01:13:46,088 --> 01:13:47,924 I never opened up. 1729 01:13:47,924 --> 01:13:49,725 I was totally prepared to do that. 1730 01:13:49,725 --> 01:13:53,162 So I am 110% ready 1731 01:13:53,162 --> 01:13:56,732 to find out what is next for us here. 1732 01:13:56,732 --> 01:14:00,269 ♪ ♪ 1733 01:14:00,269 --> 01:14:02,905 ‐ We're heading into tonight with a little bit of unknown. 1734 01:14:02,905 --> 01:14:04,941 Like, we don't really exactly know 1735 01:14:04,941 --> 01:14:06,108 what's gonna happen tonight. 1736 01:14:06,108 --> 01:14:07,410 For myself, I don't‐‐ 1737 01:14:07,410 --> 01:14:09,845 I don't think it could be a better situation. 1738 01:14:09,845 --> 01:14:11,247 I think there's a handful of guys 1739 01:14:11,247 --> 01:14:13,783 that I'm gonna be shocked if they're really, truly 1740 01:14:13,783 --> 01:14:15,017 able to come back 1741 01:14:15,017 --> 01:14:17,653 because they did have a connection with Clare. 1742 01:14:17,653 --> 01:14:19,055 ‐ Boys. 1743 01:14:19,055 --> 01:14:20,656 [overlapping greetings] 1744 01:14:20,656 --> 01:14:22,024 ‐ Hell, yeah. 1745 01:14:22,024 --> 01:14:24,327 ‐ I really hope every guy goes in with an open mind, 1746 01:14:24,327 --> 01:14:26,929 open heart, but if I was to pinpoint a guy 1747 01:14:26,929 --> 01:14:29,031 who still has Clare somewhat on the mind, 1748 01:14:29,031 --> 01:14:31,000 it might be Blake. 1749 01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:38,474 ♪ ♪ 1750 01:14:39,008 --> 01:14:41,043 ‐ What I'm looking for hasn't changed. 1751 01:14:41,043 --> 01:14:42,144 You know, I came here to find somebody 1752 01:14:42,144 --> 01:14:43,346 and be serious about something. 1753 01:14:43,346 --> 01:14:45,448 I want that rock. I want that companionship, 1754 01:14:45,448 --> 01:14:48,951 and so I wanna move past the whole Clare situation. 1755 01:14:48,951 --> 01:14:52,121 I want someone to spark like an energy in me 1756 01:14:52,121 --> 01:14:54,156 that just makes it easy to forget. 1757 01:14:54,156 --> 01:14:55,925 ‐ I think Jason of all people, you know, 1758 01:14:55,925 --> 01:14:57,159 he had some of that time, and I know 1759 01:14:57,159 --> 01:14:58,294 he opened up emotionally. 1760 01:14:58,294 --> 01:15:01,030 And I sympathize, I empathize with Jason 1761 01:15:01,030 --> 01:15:03,065 as far as, you know, what he went through 1762 01:15:03,065 --> 01:15:04,200 with Clare in that short time. 1763 01:15:04,200 --> 01:15:08,204 ‐ I didn't know... it was as deep as it was. 1764 01:15:08,204 --> 01:15:10,806 Jason's struggling. 1765 01:15:10,806 --> 01:15:11,974 I think it's just tough for him 1766 01:15:11,974 --> 01:15:16,045 because he has to pick up those pieces so quickly. 1767 01:15:16,045 --> 01:15:17,980 To be completely honest, 1768 01:15:17,980 --> 01:15:19,448 if that was me, I feel like I'd be broken. 1769 01:15:19,448 --> 01:15:22,084 Hopefully, he'll, you know, take it by the horns 1770 01:15:22,084 --> 01:15:24,120 and bounce back and‐‐and take advantage 1771 01:15:24,120 --> 01:15:25,187 of this opportunity. 1772 01:15:25,187 --> 01:15:28,657 [tense music] 1773 01:15:28,657 --> 01:15:32,194 ♪ ♪ 1774 01:15:32,194 --> 01:15:33,963 [door clicks open] 1775 01:15:37,033 --> 01:15:39,835 There he is. That's my roommate, y'all. 1776 01:15:39,835 --> 01:15:41,103 ‐ The Big J, the groom. 1777 01:15:41,103 --> 01:15:44,206 [uneasy music] 1778 01:15:44,206 --> 01:15:45,441 ‐ Jason, I'm not gonna lie. You made me nervous 1779 01:15:45,441 --> 01:15:47,209 for, like, two seconds. I was like, "Where's Jason at?" 1780 01:15:47,209 --> 01:15:48,344 ‐ Same. That's what I said. 1781 01:15:48,344 --> 01:15:51,047 ‐ I was like, "Where‐‐where is Jason?" 1782 01:15:51,047 --> 01:15:54,050 ‐ All right, focus is back on love. 1783 01:15:54,050 --> 01:15:55,618 Here we go again. 1784 01:15:59,255 --> 01:16:00,990 ‐ Boys. ‐ What's up, Chris? 1785 01:16:00,990 --> 01:16:02,291 [overlapping greetings] 1786 01:16:02,291 --> 01:16:04,393 ‐ Good to see everybody. 1787 01:16:04,393 --> 01:16:05,428 ‐ Good to see you. ‐ Good to see you. 1788 01:16:05,428 --> 01:16:07,096 ‐ Everybody looks great, by the way. 1789 01:16:07,096 --> 01:16:08,197 Let me just say, you're looking sharp tonight. 1790 01:16:08,197 --> 01:16:09,398 ‐ You said "your best." ‐ Thank you. 1791 01:16:09,398 --> 01:16:11,400 ‐ Well done. In all seriousness, 1792 01:16:11,400 --> 01:16:13,135 it is great to see all of you here. 1793 01:16:13,135 --> 01:16:16,038 It means a lot that everybody's taking this leap of faith 1794 01:16:16,038 --> 01:16:19,141 and gonna continue because you guys‐‐ 1795 01:16:19,141 --> 01:16:22,111 to no fault of anybody‐‐ got a little cheated. 1796 01:16:22,111 --> 01:16:26,148 You didn't really have an honest chance to find love. 1797 01:16:26,148 --> 01:16:27,950 And I said, if you guys get dressed up 1798 01:16:27,950 --> 01:16:30,119 and you show up tonight... 1799 01:16:30,119 --> 01:16:32,088 that this journey would continue. 1800 01:16:32,088 --> 01:16:33,255 [dramatic music] 1801 01:16:33,255 --> 01:16:36,992 And if you guys take this leap of faith, 1802 01:16:36,992 --> 01:16:38,961 you will have a shot at love. 1803 01:16:41,030 --> 01:16:43,532 So...gentlemen, 1804 01:16:43,532 --> 01:16:48,204 your new Bachelorette is on her way here right now. 1805 01:16:48,204 --> 01:16:51,707 [tense music] 1806 01:16:51,707 --> 01:16:53,809 ♪ ♪ 1807 01:16:53,809 --> 01:16:54,477 That's right. 1808 01:16:54,477 --> 01:16:58,013 You guys have a brand‐new Bachelorette. 1809 01:16:59,315 --> 01:17:02,351 This woman is incredible. 1810 01:17:02,351 --> 01:17:07,089 She is smart, independent, stunningly beautiful, 1811 01:17:07,089 --> 01:17:09,358 really kind and charismatic, 1812 01:17:09,358 --> 01:17:11,460 wants to spend time with you guys, 1813 01:17:11,460 --> 01:17:14,196 wants to get to know you guys, and most importantly, 1814 01:17:14,196 --> 01:17:17,266 she really is in a place in her life 1815 01:17:17,266 --> 01:17:20,002 where she wants to find love. 1816 01:17:20,002 --> 01:17:21,303 ♪ ♪ 1817 01:17:21,303 --> 01:17:25,007 So...we're gonna start "The Bachelorette" 1818 01:17:25,007 --> 01:17:27,176 right now, again. 1819 01:17:27,176 --> 01:17:28,177 [overlapping chatter] ‐ Yes, sir! 1820 01:17:28,177 --> 01:17:29,812 ‐ Let's get it. ‐ Sheesh. 1821 01:17:29,812 --> 01:17:31,080 ‐ All to me. 1822 01:17:31,080 --> 01:17:32,148 ‐ [exhales] 1823 01:17:32,148 --> 01:17:33,315 This is a fresh start. 1824 01:17:33,315 --> 01:17:36,652 I'm reenergized. Everybody seems reenergized. 1825 01:17:37,186 --> 01:17:39,054 ‐ My life to this point 1826 01:17:39,054 --> 01:17:41,056 was kind of built on second chances. 1827 01:17:41,056 --> 01:17:43,025 You know, I'm a guy that believes 1828 01:17:43,025 --> 01:17:44,293 in giving second chances 1829 01:17:44,293 --> 01:17:46,328 and taking advantage of second chances. 1830 01:17:46,328 --> 01:17:48,264 So I'm just excited. 1831 01:17:48,264 --> 01:17:52,234 ‐ Well, the big question: who is she? 1832 01:17:52,234 --> 01:17:53,302 ‐ Yep. 1833 01:17:53,302 --> 01:17:56,939 ‐ Well, how 'bout I just go get her 1834 01:17:56,939 --> 01:17:58,274 and I let her come in here? 1835 01:17:58,274 --> 01:17:59,275 ‐ That works. 1836 01:17:59,275 --> 01:18:00,309 ‐ That works too. ‐ Yeah. 1837 01:18:00,309 --> 01:18:01,443 ‐ So, gentlemen, 1838 01:18:01,443 --> 01:18:03,646 your journey's about to begin again, 1839 01:18:03,646 --> 01:18:07,049 'cause the next person to walk through these doors 1840 01:18:07,049 --> 01:18:09,985 will be your new Bachelorette... 1841 01:18:09,985 --> 01:18:12,121 and possibly your wife. 1842 01:18:13,189 --> 01:18:15,124 So good luck. Have fun tonight. 1843 01:18:15,124 --> 01:18:16,392 I'll see you guys later. 1844 01:18:16,392 --> 01:18:17,393 ‐ Thanks, Chris. ‐ Thank you. 1845 01:18:17,393 --> 01:18:19,028 [overlapping chatter] 1846 01:18:19,028 --> 01:18:21,997 ‐ What? ‐ Oh, my, my, my. 1847 01:18:21,997 --> 01:18:24,400 [soft music] 1848 01:18:24,400 --> 01:18:26,101 ‐ Whew. ‐ I think everybody's palms 1849 01:18:26,101 --> 01:18:27,303 are getting sweaty. ‐ Yeah. 1850 01:18:27,303 --> 01:18:29,205 Mine are already sweaty. ‐ Yeah. 1851 01:18:29,205 --> 01:18:31,173 ‐ Mine are already sweaty. ‐ I like the fact 1852 01:18:31,173 --> 01:18:32,308 that we don't know nothing about her. 1853 01:18:32,308 --> 01:18:34,109 ‐ Yeah. ‐ Like, that for me 1854 01:18:34,109 --> 01:18:35,377 is‐‐is way better. 1855 01:18:35,377 --> 01:18:37,713 It's all very equal playing field right now. 1856 01:18:37,713 --> 01:18:40,382 We didn't start with an equal playing field, obviously, 1857 01:18:40,382 --> 01:18:41,417 coming into this. 1858 01:18:41,417 --> 01:18:43,185 Clare knew more about 1859 01:18:43,185 --> 01:18:44,253 some guys than others, 1860 01:18:44,253 --> 01:18:46,989 but this time, it's like a clean slate. 1861 01:18:46,989 --> 01:18:49,024 ♪ ♪ 1862 01:18:49,024 --> 01:18:50,326 ‐ Oh, man. 1863 01:18:50,326 --> 01:18:52,294 I can feel Eazy's heartbeat in the couch. 1864 01:18:52,294 --> 01:18:53,963 ‐ It's in the couch. [laughter] 1865 01:18:53,963 --> 01:18:54,563 ‐ [exhales deeply] 1866 01:18:54,563 --> 01:18:57,233 The night one like anticipation feeling 1867 01:18:57,233 --> 01:18:58,267 is, like, back. 1868 01:18:58,267 --> 01:19:00,069 I thought we were done with that. 1869 01:19:00,069 --> 01:19:02,037 I hate that. 1870 01:19:02,037 --> 01:19:08,944 ♪ ♪ 1871 01:19:08,944 --> 01:19:10,980 [stirring music] 1872 01:19:10,980 --> 01:19:12,047 ‐ [exhales] 1873 01:19:12,047 --> 01:19:17,152 ♪ ♪ 1874 01:19:17,152 --> 01:19:18,520 Hello. 1875 01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:20,356 ‐ Tayshia? ‐ [laughs] 1876 01:19:20,356 --> 01:19:22,124 Surprise. ‐ What are you doing here? 1877 01:19:22,124 --> 01:19:24,126 ‐ [laughs] I don't know. 1878 01:19:24,126 --> 01:19:25,327 ‐ Hi. ‐ Hi. 1879 01:19:25,327 --> 01:19:26,395 ‐ Ah. 1880 01:19:26,395 --> 01:19:28,130 ‐ [inhales sharply] 1881 01:19:28,130 --> 01:19:30,165 ‐ This is great. ‐ I know. 1882 01:19:30,165 --> 01:19:31,967 Hasn't hit me yet. ‐ Has it not? 1883 01:19:31,967 --> 01:19:32,501 ‐ No. 1884 01:19:32,501 --> 01:19:34,303 ‐ What are you feeling right now? 1885 01:19:34,303 --> 01:19:36,205 ‐ Well, seeing you, I think, makes it more real. 1886 01:19:36,205 --> 01:19:37,406 ‐ Yeah. ‐ But... 1887 01:19:37,406 --> 01:19:39,341 ‐ Does seeing me actually‐‐ does it put you at ease, 1888 01:19:39,341 --> 01:19:40,609 or does it like freak you out? 1889 01:19:40,609 --> 01:19:42,478 ‐ It actually puts me at ease. ‐ Okay, good. 1890 01:19:42,478 --> 01:19:45,180 ‐ But it makes it, like, feel like this is actually‐‐ 1891 01:19:45,180 --> 01:19:46,282 like, I'm not being punked or anything. 1892 01:19:46,282 --> 01:19:47,283 ‐ No, you're not being punked. ‐ Okay. 1893 01:19:47,283 --> 01:19:48,317 ‐ No. No, no. 1894 01:19:48,317 --> 01:19:49,418 No, no. ‐ [laughs] 1895 01:19:49,418 --> 01:19:50,419 ‐ I will tell you this. 1896 01:19:50,419 --> 01:19:52,521 It is a great group of guys. 1897 01:19:52,521 --> 01:19:54,256 ‐ I can't wait. ‐ Solid group. 1898 01:19:54,256 --> 01:19:56,225 ‐ I can only imagine what she's going through. 1899 01:19:56,225 --> 01:19:58,460 "I have 16 guys here, 1900 01:19:58,460 --> 01:20:01,297 "but they weren't originally here, you know, for me. 1901 01:20:01,297 --> 01:20:03,299 Can they make the shift?" ‐ Do you have that fear 1902 01:20:03,299 --> 01:20:04,600 that these guys aren't gonna accept you 1903 01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:06,468 because of what happened with Clare? 1904 01:20:06,468 --> 01:20:09,271 ‐ I just know that this process moves very quickly... 1905 01:20:09,271 --> 01:20:10,272 ‐ Yeah. ‐ And you start to invest 1906 01:20:10,272 --> 01:20:11,440 a lot of feelings really early on. 1907 01:20:11,440 --> 01:20:13,442 I don't know if that's the case for some of them, 1908 01:20:13,442 --> 01:20:15,611 and if so, I am more than happy to have 1909 01:20:15,611 --> 01:20:17,613 that conversation with them if they don't feel like 1910 01:20:17,613 --> 01:20:19,214 this is the right time for them, 1911 01:20:19,214 --> 01:20:20,582 or I'm not right for them. ‐ Yeah. 1912 01:20:20,582 --> 01:20:21,884 ‐ I can't wait to see where her head is at. 1913 01:20:21,884 --> 01:20:25,387 As nervous as I am, I'm sure she's doubly nervous right now. 1914 01:20:25,387 --> 01:20:28,290 ‐ I'm sure she's nervous, but hopefully she's ready 1915 01:20:28,290 --> 01:20:29,725 for what she's getting into. ‐ Yep. 1916 01:20:29,725 --> 01:20:31,627 ‐ I feel like this is the right moment in time. 1917 01:20:31,627 --> 01:20:33,395 I wouldn't be standing here, I don't think, 1918 01:20:33,395 --> 01:20:34,430 if it wasn't meant to be. 1919 01:20:34,430 --> 01:20:35,631 That's what I pray for. 1920 01:20:35,631 --> 01:20:36,799 ‐ Well, I'm sending you in. ‐ And here I am. 1921 01:20:36,799 --> 01:20:39,168 In the next ten seconds, you could meet your husband. 1922 01:20:39,168 --> 01:20:40,636 ‐ Oh, my gosh! 1923 01:20:40,636 --> 01:20:42,571 ‐ Are you ready? ‐ I am so ready! 1924 01:20:42,571 --> 01:20:46,308 ‐ The way that Clare described how she felt about Dale, 1925 01:20:46,308 --> 01:20:47,409 I want that. 1926 01:20:47,409 --> 01:20:49,311 Like, literally, like, from the moment 1927 01:20:49,311 --> 01:20:51,347 she walks in, like I wanna, like, 1928 01:20:51,347 --> 01:20:54,483 lock eyes and just know that, like, that's it. 1929 01:20:54,483 --> 01:20:56,118 ‐ All right. ‐ Good luck. 1930 01:20:56,118 --> 01:20:57,720 ‐ Thank you. [laughs] 1931 01:20:57,720 --> 01:21:00,422 ‐ There's a certain level of anticipation 1932 01:21:00,422 --> 01:21:02,491 and nervousness about the whole thing. 1933 01:21:02,491 --> 01:21:04,460 You know, there could be someone that walks in 1934 01:21:04,460 --> 01:21:05,561 that I'm not attracted to. 1935 01:21:05,561 --> 01:21:07,262 You know, like, physical attraction 1936 01:21:07,262 --> 01:21:08,430 is an important thing to me. 1937 01:21:08,430 --> 01:21:11,200 [dramatic music] 1938 01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:12,468 ‐ [exhales] 1939 01:21:12,468 --> 01:21:14,403 ‐ Who the hell is it? 1940 01:21:14,403 --> 01:21:16,338 This is completely blind date. 1941 01:21:16,338 --> 01:21:17,606 Who likes a blind date? 1942 01:21:17,606 --> 01:21:19,541 Like, nobody likes a blind date. 1943 01:21:19,541 --> 01:21:21,410 At least you see a picture or something. 1944 01:21:21,410 --> 01:21:24,346 Like, this is completely blind date. 1945 01:21:24,346 --> 01:21:25,581 ‐ She's gotta be going through a lot right now, 1946 01:21:25,581 --> 01:21:27,383 but I think more than anything, she's gotta be excited 1947 01:21:27,383 --> 01:21:28,517 'cause she's looking for the same thing 1948 01:21:28,517 --> 01:21:30,419 we're looking for. I think my walls 1949 01:21:30,419 --> 01:21:32,788 are a little bit higher, maybe a little bit stronger 1950 01:21:32,788 --> 01:21:35,357 than what they were coming in, but that doesn't mean 1951 01:21:35,357 --> 01:21:37,459 I'm not willing to break those down. 1952 01:21:37,459 --> 01:21:40,229 So we'll see. 1953 01:21:40,229 --> 01:21:43,232 [stirring music] 1954 01:21:43,232 --> 01:21:49,538 ♪ ♪ 1955 01:21:49,538 --> 01:21:51,707 ‐ Coming up next week... ‐ Hello. 1956 01:21:51,707 --> 01:21:53,709 ‐ [laughs] ‐ Clare and Dale return 1957 01:21:53,709 --> 01:21:56,145 to tell all. ‐ It's just been 1958 01:21:56,145 --> 01:21:57,279 a dream come true. 1959 01:21:57,279 --> 01:21:58,747 Everything he was looking for 1960 01:21:58,747 --> 01:22:00,749 was everything I was looking for. 1961 01:22:00,749 --> 01:22:02,651 ‐ But are the rumors really true? 1962 01:22:02,651 --> 01:22:04,386 There's skepticism out there. 1963 01:22:04,386 --> 01:22:07,322 Did you lie to all of Bachelor Nation? 1964 01:22:07,322 --> 01:22:08,624 ‐ Um... 1965 01:22:08,624 --> 01:22:09,758 [tense music] 1966 01:22:09,758 --> 01:22:11,760 ‐ And then what happens next... 1967 01:22:11,760 --> 01:22:13,595 ‐ I'm really nervous 'cause I haven't been 1968 01:22:13,595 --> 01:22:15,330 in this position, you know. 1969 01:22:15,330 --> 01:22:16,799 ‐ When Tayshia's journey begins. 1970 01:22:16,799 --> 01:22:19,468 ‐ One of my fears is if they were gonna be accepting of me. 1971 01:22:19,468 --> 01:22:22,671 ‐ Full transparency, like, I had feelings for Clare. 1972 01:22:22,671 --> 01:22:24,640 ‐ I really wasn't even sure if I was gonna stay. 1973 01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:26,341 ‐ I don't know about Tayshia. 1974 01:22:26,341 --> 01:22:27,443 ‐ Some of the guys might view me 1975 01:22:27,443 --> 01:22:28,477 as a second choice. 1976 01:22:28,477 --> 01:22:30,579 I never wanna feel that way again. 1977 01:22:30,579 --> 01:22:35,117 ‐ Tayshia, unfortunately, everything is about to change. 1978 01:22:35,117 --> 01:22:36,518 ‐ Okay. 1979 01:22:36,518 --> 01:22:39,655 ♪ ♪ 1980 01:22:39,655 --> 01:22:41,657 ‐ What up, ladies and gentlemen? 1981 01:22:41,657 --> 01:22:42,858 Today is a great day. You know why? 1982 01:22:42,858 --> 01:22:46,462 Because Queen Clare is cooking in the kitchen. 1983 01:22:46,462 --> 01:22:47,629 What you doing over there, Mama? 1984 01:22:47,629 --> 01:22:48,897 ‐ Making a salad! 1985 01:22:48,897 --> 01:22:51,300 ‐ Take us through the salad‐making process. 1986 01:22:51,300 --> 01:22:53,335 ‐ A little bit of romaine, 1987 01:22:53,335 --> 01:22:54,703 and that's what we're starting at. 1988 01:22:54,703 --> 01:22:56,605 ‐ She looks so goo‐‐you look so good. 1989 01:22:56,605 --> 01:22:58,407 ‐ Does this make me look even better? 1990 01:22:58,407 --> 01:22:59,708 ‐ I mean, it's hard to make you look b‐‐ 1991 01:22:59,708 --> 01:23:01,543 but that‐‐that's a nice accessory. 1992 01:23:01,543 --> 01:23:03,612 ‐ Can you even believe, you guys, 1993 01:23:03,612 --> 01:23:05,514 I am engaged? 1994 01:23:05,514 --> 01:23:06,682 [upbeat music] 1995 01:23:06,682 --> 01:23:08,817 Dale and I have been outside the bubble 1996 01:23:08,817 --> 01:23:13,555 for four days, and it just is unbelievable. 1997 01:23:13,555 --> 01:23:16,458 Every tear that has been cried, 1998 01:23:16,458 --> 01:23:19,394 every ounce of it has been worth it 1999 01:23:19,394 --> 01:23:20,729 to have this ending for me. 2000 01:23:20,729 --> 01:23:25,300 ‐ Cheers to the start of a new life together. 2001 01:23:25,300 --> 01:23:26,502 ‐ Cheers. ‐ Cheers. 2002 01:23:26,502 --> 01:23:29,404 ‐ I'm a woman that has found the man of my dreams 2003 01:23:29,404 --> 01:23:31,240 because I didn't give up. 2004 01:23:31,240 --> 01:23:32,474 ♪ ♪ 2005 01:23:32,474 --> 01:23:35,344 And my love story is just beginning. 2006 01:23:35,344 --> 01:23:37,379 ♪ ♪ 2007 01:23:37,379 --> 01:23:40,182 ‐ [laughing]