1 00:00:00,734 --> 00:00:03,136 announcer: Tonight, on "The Bachelor"... 2 00:00:03,203 --> 00:00:04,705 - Oh, my gosh. 3 00:00:04,771 --> 00:00:06,273 - Welcome to Iceland. 4 00:00:06,340 --> 00:00:08,242 - This is so cool. 5 00:00:08,308 --> 00:00:10,043 You can't even dream of a place like this. 6 00:00:10,110 --> 00:00:11,678 - This week is overnights. 7 00:00:11,745 --> 00:00:13,380 This time together could change everything. 8 00:00:13,447 --> 00:00:15,349 - It is exciting to know 9 00:00:15,415 --> 00:00:17,718 that we can still get deeper and deeper. 10 00:00:18,986 --> 00:00:20,821 This night could be one of the most incredible nights 11 00:00:20,888 --> 00:00:22,289 of my life. 12 00:00:22,356 --> 00:00:24,791 It could show me everything that I need to know. 13 00:00:24,858 --> 00:00:27,394 - It just feels like I'm dreaming. 14 00:00:27,461 --> 00:00:30,564 - I can really see us at the end of this. 15 00:00:30,631 --> 00:00:33,667 - It's time to let my walls down. 16 00:00:33,734 --> 00:00:35,235 I am falling in love... 17 00:00:35,302 --> 00:00:37,604 - Whoo! - And it feels so good! 18 00:00:37,671 --> 00:00:40,474 - I'm so all in with Clayton. 19 00:00:41,608 --> 00:00:44,411 - I don't want anything to be off limits between us. 20 00:00:44,478 --> 00:00:46,113 - My heart is telling me 21 00:00:46,179 --> 00:00:47,347 that I'm falling in love 22 00:00:47,414 --> 00:00:49,750 with all three of these women. 23 00:00:49,816 --> 00:00:51,552 [dramatic music] 24 00:00:51,618 --> 00:00:53,287 - It's really hard because I don't know 25 00:00:53,353 --> 00:00:55,055 how Clayton feels about these other women. 26 00:00:55,122 --> 00:00:56,590 - He could be in love with Susie. 27 00:00:56,657 --> 00:00:58,125 He could be in love with Gabby. 28 00:00:58,191 --> 00:01:00,027 - I know that I could end up heartbroken. 29 00:01:00,093 --> 00:01:02,863 - Just don't wanna hurt anybody. 30 00:01:02,930 --> 00:01:05,399 And I'm going to. 31 00:01:06,300 --> 00:01:08,368 This is exactly what I was afraid of. 32 00:01:08,435 --> 00:01:10,170 I don't believe in anything anymore. 33 00:01:10,237 --> 00:01:13,307 It's over. It's over. 34 00:01:13,373 --> 00:01:15,008 I am done. 35 00:01:15,075 --> 00:01:19,780 ♪ ♪ 36 00:01:19,846 --> 00:01:21,982 [wind whistling] 37 00:01:22,049 --> 00:01:25,018 [soft music] 38 00:01:25,085 --> 00:01:32,125 ♪ ♪ 39 00:01:33,093 --> 00:01:34,928 - Hello. - Hi, velkominn. 40 00:01:34,995 --> 00:01:36,263 Welcome to Iceland Air. 41 00:01:36,330 --> 00:01:38,632 - This is the most important week for me. 42 00:01:38,699 --> 00:01:40,033 - Have a safe flight. - Thank you. 43 00:01:40,100 --> 00:01:42,202 And I'm so excited. 44 00:01:42,269 --> 00:01:44,171 This is overnights week. 45 00:01:44,237 --> 00:01:47,140 And I will be continuing my journey 46 00:01:47,207 --> 00:01:49,509 to find love in Iceland. 47 00:01:49,576 --> 00:01:52,379 [engine roaring] 48 00:01:52,446 --> 00:01:53,947 As far as, like, falling in love, I mean, 49 00:01:54,014 --> 00:01:55,015 I don't know if there's a much better place 50 00:01:55,082 --> 00:01:56,216 to do it than Iceland. 51 00:01:56,283 --> 00:02:00,587 [dramatic music] 52 00:02:00,654 --> 00:02:03,290 It's absolutely beautiful and breathtaking. 53 00:02:03,357 --> 00:02:08,395 ♪ ♪ 54 00:02:10,764 --> 00:02:12,599 [bird chirping] 55 00:02:12,666 --> 00:02:14,234 I realized over the last week or so that 56 00:02:14,301 --> 00:02:16,603 I have been holding back, 57 00:02:16,670 --> 00:02:19,906 kind of protecting myself. 58 00:02:19,973 --> 00:02:22,342 Just trying to make sense of all my feelings. 59 00:02:22,409 --> 00:02:24,611 I'm really hoping that the overnights 60 00:02:24,678 --> 00:02:26,446 will give me some clarity. 61 00:02:29,683 --> 00:02:32,419 I do have a strong physical connection 62 00:02:32,486 --> 00:02:34,821 with each of the three women that are left. 63 00:02:34,888 --> 00:02:36,156 Susie, 64 00:02:36,223 --> 00:02:38,225 Gabby, 65 00:02:38,291 --> 00:02:40,761 and Rachel. 66 00:02:40,827 --> 00:02:43,830 And they all told me 67 00:02:43,897 --> 00:02:47,100 that they're falling in love with me. 68 00:02:47,167 --> 00:02:48,502 I think I might be falling in love 69 00:02:48,568 --> 00:02:49,936 with all three of these women. 70 00:02:50,003 --> 00:02:53,974 And I also might already be in love with Susie. 71 00:02:54,041 --> 00:02:56,843 [dramatic music] 72 00:02:56,910 --> 00:02:58,412 I don't know. 73 00:02:58,478 --> 00:02:59,980 Can you fall in love multiple times at the same time? 74 00:03:00,047 --> 00:03:02,015 I don't know. 75 00:03:02,082 --> 00:03:05,986 But I know it's time to let my walls down, 76 00:03:06,053 --> 00:03:07,821 quit being guarded. 77 00:03:07,888 --> 00:03:11,825 This is the perfect week to open up and be vulnerable. 78 00:03:11,892 --> 00:03:14,528 I'm done holding back. 79 00:03:14,594 --> 00:03:18,298 I am just so excited to see these women. 80 00:03:20,901 --> 00:03:23,904 [clock ticking] 81 00:03:29,676 --> 00:03:32,479 - It's weird, but I'm happy to see you all. 82 00:03:32,546 --> 00:03:33,914 - I know. I agree. - Yeah, same. 83 00:03:33,980 --> 00:03:35,449 - I can't believe there's three of us. 84 00:03:35,515 --> 00:03:36,917 - I know, it's crazy. - I know. 85 00:03:37,017 --> 00:03:38,351 - I feel like we blinked and all of a sudden, we're here. 86 00:03:38,418 --> 00:03:39,720 - I know. - I know. 87 00:03:39,786 --> 00:03:42,055 - So naturally, I'm having a panic attack, but... 88 00:03:42,122 --> 00:03:43,090 - Welcome to the panic attack room. 89 00:03:43,156 --> 00:03:44,091 - Yeah. - Yeah, literally. 90 00:03:44,157 --> 00:03:45,192 - We're all having one. 91 00:03:45,258 --> 00:03:46,827 - It's a big week. - Yeah. 92 00:03:46,893 --> 00:03:49,096 - It's exciting, but I think 93 00:03:49,162 --> 00:03:51,665 there's a lot of pressure there too. 94 00:03:51,732 --> 00:03:54,267 - I haven't dated anyone for this long 95 00:03:54,334 --> 00:03:58,605 and, like, not have had kind of, you know, like, 96 00:03:58,672 --> 00:04:01,408 just time alone, essentially. - Mm-hmm. 97 00:04:01,475 --> 00:04:03,944 - So it's like much needed in so many different ways. 98 00:04:04,010 --> 00:04:08,882 I mean, I don't want anything to be off-limits between us. 99 00:04:08,949 --> 00:04:10,317 - Yeah. 100 00:04:10,383 --> 00:04:11,351 It's strange. 101 00:04:11,418 --> 00:04:15,522 [tense music] 102 00:04:15,589 --> 00:04:17,124 - I'm so excited to spend some time 103 00:04:17,190 --> 00:04:19,659 with Clayton in the Fantasy Suite. 104 00:04:19,726 --> 00:04:21,561 Really get to, like, explore each other 105 00:04:21,628 --> 00:04:24,331 and give a taste of, like, what it's gonna be like. 106 00:04:24,397 --> 00:04:25,766 Last week, I told Clayton 107 00:04:25,832 --> 00:04:29,002 I was falling in love with him, which is definitely true. 108 00:04:29,069 --> 00:04:31,671 We just have so much fun together and we're, like, 109 00:04:31,738 --> 00:04:34,274 so natural and it's so easy between us. 110 00:04:34,341 --> 00:04:35,976 You know, I just feel like in our body language, 111 00:04:36,042 --> 00:04:39,579 he always makes me feel, like, loved. 112 00:04:39,646 --> 00:04:42,182 What we really do have is really special and, like, 113 00:04:42,249 --> 00:04:45,318 I can't wait to see him and have him all to myself. 114 00:04:45,385 --> 00:04:47,154 [knocking on door] 115 00:04:47,220 --> 00:04:48,155 - Hey. 116 00:04:48,221 --> 00:04:49,556 all: Hi. - Hi! 117 00:04:49,623 --> 00:04:50,624 How's everybody feeling? 118 00:04:50,690 --> 00:04:51,625 - Good. - Good! 119 00:04:51,691 --> 00:04:52,859 - Good. 120 00:04:52,926 --> 00:04:55,428 Well, congratulations on making it to Iceland. 121 00:04:55,495 --> 00:04:56,730 You know, when all this started, 122 00:04:56,797 --> 00:04:58,231 there were 30 women that 123 00:04:58,298 --> 00:05:00,233 didn't really know what they were getting themselves into. 124 00:05:00,300 --> 00:05:03,303 And here we are, there's three of you left. 125 00:05:04,604 --> 00:05:07,007 And within a matter of days, 126 00:05:07,073 --> 00:05:09,009 there's a really great chance that one of you 127 00:05:09,075 --> 00:05:10,477 is going to be engaged to Clayton. 128 00:05:10,544 --> 00:05:12,946 - Mm-hmm. - This really is 129 00:05:13,013 --> 00:05:15,248 the most important week yet 130 00:05:15,315 --> 00:05:17,083 because over the next couple of days, 131 00:05:17,150 --> 00:05:19,820 each of you will be embarking on a meaningful 132 00:05:19,886 --> 00:05:23,023 and intimate overnight date with Clayton. 133 00:05:23,089 --> 00:05:26,893 So, yes, I'm talking about Fantasy Suites. 134 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,796 If both you and Clayton accept the key to the Fantasy Suite, 135 00:05:29,863 --> 00:05:32,799 you will be given private, uninterrupted time. 136 00:05:32,866 --> 00:05:34,801 No cameras, no intrusions. 137 00:05:34,868 --> 00:05:36,736 Just the two of you alone. 138 00:05:36,803 --> 00:05:39,806 The time in that Fantasy Suite could bring you two 139 00:05:39,873 --> 00:05:41,875 closer than you ever thought possible. 140 00:05:41,942 --> 00:05:46,079 It could be the difference between you leaving here alone 141 00:05:46,146 --> 00:05:48,515 or leaving Iceland with Clayton. 142 00:05:50,116 --> 00:05:51,985 On that note, 143 00:05:52,052 --> 00:05:54,087 got the first date card right here. 144 00:05:54,154 --> 00:05:55,488 I wish you all the best of luck, 145 00:05:55,555 --> 00:05:57,123 and I hope to see you all at the next Rose Ceremony. 146 00:05:57,190 --> 00:05:58,225 - Thanks. - Thanks, Jesse. 147 00:05:58,291 --> 00:05:59,926 - Good luck. - Thank you. 148 00:05:59,993 --> 00:06:02,295 [tense music] 149 00:06:02,362 --> 00:06:04,564 ♪ ♪ 150 00:06:04,631 --> 00:06:07,834 - Yeah. 151 00:06:07,901 --> 00:06:10,604 - I feel like my connection with Clayton is 152 00:06:10,670 --> 00:06:14,274 definitely something I've never experienced before, 153 00:06:14,341 --> 00:06:16,409 and every time I'm with him, 154 00:06:16,476 --> 00:06:20,146 it changes and it just gets better. 155 00:06:20,213 --> 00:06:22,048 If it's not me and him at the end, 156 00:06:22,115 --> 00:06:23,383 I will be heartbroken. 157 00:06:23,450 --> 00:06:25,485 There's no way around that at this point. 158 00:06:25,552 --> 00:06:26,853 - Oh, my gosh. 159 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:29,623 - The dates this week are so important. 160 00:06:29,689 --> 00:06:32,092 It could just completely take us to the next level, 161 00:06:32,158 --> 00:06:35,161 and I want that so much. 162 00:06:35,228 --> 00:06:38,732 [soft, dramatic music] 163 00:06:38,798 --> 00:06:41,167 ♪ ♪ 164 00:06:41,234 --> 00:06:42,469 - Rachel. 165 00:06:45,405 --> 00:06:48,041 "Let's see how deep our love can go. 166 00:06:48,108 --> 00:06:50,010 Love, Clayton." 167 00:06:52,245 --> 00:06:53,813 - [chuckles] - [high-pitched] Oh, my gosh! 168 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:55,682 - Thanks, guys. - Yeah. 169 00:06:55,749 --> 00:06:58,318 - I'm definitely excited to see him after Hometowns. 170 00:06:58,385 --> 00:07:00,987 I feel like we all have so much to talk about, 171 00:07:01,054 --> 00:07:03,156 but, yeah, we'll see. 172 00:07:03,223 --> 00:07:05,625 I'm excited, really. - Yeah. 173 00:07:05,692 --> 00:07:06,927 - [exhales] 174 00:07:06,993 --> 00:07:08,228 - I'm happy for you. - Thank you. 175 00:07:08,295 --> 00:07:09,262 - Yes. - Me too. 176 00:07:09,329 --> 00:07:11,598 - Yeah, it'll be nice. 177 00:07:11,665 --> 00:07:14,668 [clock ticking] 178 00:07:16,870 --> 00:07:19,439 - All right, well, I'm gonna go get ready for the date. 179 00:07:19,506 --> 00:07:21,074 - Okay, have fun. - I'll see you guys 180 00:07:21,141 --> 00:07:23,443 back at our--our house. - Have fun, we love you. 181 00:07:23,510 --> 00:07:25,578 - Yeah. 182 00:07:25,645 --> 00:07:27,814 - Bye. - Bye. 183 00:07:27,881 --> 00:07:28,949 [door closes] 184 00:07:30,717 --> 00:07:32,385 - Oh, man. 185 00:07:32,452 --> 00:07:34,688 - This week's gonna be intense. 186 00:07:34,754 --> 00:07:37,891 There is, like, such big decisions to be made. 187 00:07:37,958 --> 00:07:39,392 - Yeah. 188 00:07:39,459 --> 00:07:41,828 I can't possibly know, 189 00:07:41,895 --> 00:07:44,197 like, where Clayton's head is at in this. 190 00:07:44,264 --> 00:07:47,934 If tonight goes really well for Rachel, like, 191 00:07:47,968 --> 00:07:51,338 obviously they would be, like, sharing intimate time together 192 00:07:51,404 --> 00:07:53,940 and, like, that would be, like, a really tough pill to swallow. 193 00:07:54,007 --> 00:07:55,542 - Yeah. 194 00:07:55,608 --> 00:07:57,877 - I don't know how Clayton feels about these other women, 195 00:07:57,944 --> 00:08:01,548 but in my head, it's me at the end of this with Clayton. 196 00:08:01,614 --> 00:08:03,616 I can see myself getting engaged to this man. 197 00:08:03,683 --> 00:08:05,986 I can see myself having a family with him, 198 00:08:06,052 --> 00:08:09,389 but I'm hoping that he takes, like, 199 00:08:09,456 --> 00:08:11,458 physical intimacy as seriously as I do. 200 00:08:11,524 --> 00:08:14,427 [dramatic music] 201 00:08:14,494 --> 00:08:17,497 Sex is incredibly important in a relationship, 202 00:08:17,564 --> 00:08:18,832 but it's something that 203 00:08:18,898 --> 00:08:21,568 I only do with people that I have 204 00:08:21,634 --> 00:08:24,371 some form of commitment with. 205 00:08:24,437 --> 00:08:26,306 If I find out that he's falling in love 206 00:08:26,373 --> 00:08:28,241 with other women or that he has become 207 00:08:28,308 --> 00:08:31,478 physically intimate with another woman, 208 00:08:31,544 --> 00:08:34,414 that would be devastating. 209 00:08:34,481 --> 00:08:36,282 This week seems impossible, 210 00:08:36,349 --> 00:08:39,386 and I don't know how to get through this. 211 00:08:45,191 --> 00:08:48,061 [lively music] 212 00:08:48,128 --> 00:08:50,096 [geese honking] 213 00:08:50,163 --> 00:08:51,197 [bike bell rings] 214 00:08:51,264 --> 00:08:57,537 ♪ ♪ 215 00:08:57,604 --> 00:09:00,206 - It feels really good to get the first overnight. 216 00:09:02,142 --> 00:09:04,511 I'm really excited to see Clayton 217 00:09:04,577 --> 00:09:06,980 and I already feel like we have such a great connection. 218 00:09:07,047 --> 00:09:12,385 And the more I'm with him, the more I see an engagement. 219 00:09:12,452 --> 00:09:17,123 For it to be this close, it's just--it's terrifying. 220 00:09:17,190 --> 00:09:21,728 [dramatic music] 221 00:09:21,795 --> 00:09:24,798 My fears going into today are kinda just all stemming 222 00:09:24,864 --> 00:09:28,401 off of how uneasy I felt after the Rose Ceremony. 223 00:09:28,468 --> 00:09:31,604 I got the last rose 224 00:09:31,671 --> 00:09:33,606 and I truly felt in that moment 225 00:09:33,673 --> 00:09:35,842 that he was about to send me home. 226 00:09:35,909 --> 00:09:39,946 This week is so huge. 227 00:09:40,013 --> 00:09:41,581 Fantasy Suites. 228 00:09:41,648 --> 00:09:43,750 I mean, you could walk out of it stronger than ever 229 00:09:43,817 --> 00:09:45,952 or maybe realizing it wouldn't work 230 00:09:46,019 --> 00:09:48,555 and that's really scary. 231 00:09:48,621 --> 00:09:50,657 So I'm just hoping that today, 232 00:09:50,723 --> 00:09:54,494 he tells me that he is falling in love with me. 233 00:09:54,561 --> 00:09:55,895 [laughs] Hi. 234 00:09:55,962 --> 00:09:58,631 [dramatic music] 235 00:09:58,698 --> 00:09:59,833 - Mm. 236 00:10:06,606 --> 00:10:07,640 How are you doing? 237 00:10:07,707 --> 00:10:09,943 - I really missed you. - Yeah? 238 00:10:10,009 --> 00:10:11,845 I missed you too. - I'm so excited to be here. 239 00:10:11,911 --> 00:10:13,546 - I know, like, we're in... 240 00:10:13,613 --> 00:10:14,814 I mean, look at this. - We're in Iceland. 241 00:10:14,881 --> 00:10:16,616 - First off, look at the view, it's ridiculous. 242 00:10:16,683 --> 00:10:18,485 Anywhere you look, it is absolutely beautiful. 243 00:10:18,551 --> 00:10:21,387 - I know. - I am extremely excited today. 244 00:10:21,454 --> 00:10:23,456 Do you have any clue what we're about to do? 245 00:10:23,523 --> 00:10:24,457 - No. 246 00:10:24,524 --> 00:10:25,558 - You don't? - Mm-mm. 247 00:10:25,625 --> 00:10:26,559 - But you're excited. 248 00:10:26,626 --> 00:10:27,760 - I'm so excited. - Okay, 249 00:10:27,827 --> 00:10:28,862 you ready to go see what we're gonna do? 250 00:10:28,928 --> 00:10:29,863 - Yes, show me. - Okay. 251 00:10:29,929 --> 00:10:31,431 All right, let's go. 252 00:10:31,498 --> 00:10:33,032 [soft music] 253 00:10:33,099 --> 00:10:34,100 This way. - What are we doing? 254 00:10:34,167 --> 00:10:35,201 Tell me. - I can't. 255 00:10:35,268 --> 00:10:36,636 - Why? - 'Cause it's so much better 256 00:10:36,703 --> 00:10:38,037 if I don't tell you. 257 00:10:38,104 --> 00:10:40,373 - [gasps] 258 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:41,841 - So... - Oh, my gosh. 259 00:10:41,908 --> 00:10:43,910 - Iceland is great, but what better way 260 00:10:43,977 --> 00:10:46,779 to see it than a helicopter? 261 00:10:46,846 --> 00:10:49,582 [whirring] 262 00:10:49,649 --> 00:10:50,583 - [gasps] 263 00:10:50,650 --> 00:10:52,085 This is gonna be so cool. 264 00:10:52,152 --> 00:10:53,286 - Just wait. 265 00:10:53,353 --> 00:10:55,088 Just wait. 266 00:10:55,155 --> 00:10:57,390 - Gosh. - Going up. 267 00:10:57,457 --> 00:10:59,626 [dramatic music] 268 00:10:59,692 --> 00:11:01,261 I'm so excited to see Rachel. 269 00:11:01,327 --> 00:11:03,296 It's gonna be absolutely mind-blowing 270 00:11:03,363 --> 00:11:05,398 to experience Iceland with her, 271 00:11:05,465 --> 00:11:08,268 and I think it'll do a lot for our relationship. 272 00:11:08,334 --> 00:11:11,671 - Oh, my gosh, it's just so beautiful. 273 00:11:11,738 --> 00:11:13,273 - I love the mountains. 274 00:11:13,339 --> 00:11:15,675 Rachel's been all in since the beginning, 275 00:11:15,742 --> 00:11:18,711 and so it allowed us to really take our relationship 276 00:11:18,778 --> 00:11:22,115 to newer heights faster than anybody else. 277 00:11:22,182 --> 00:11:24,851 Always feels like so long from the last time I saw you. 278 00:11:24,918 --> 00:11:25,885 - I know. 279 00:11:25,952 --> 00:11:29,122 ♪ ♪ 280 00:11:29,189 --> 00:11:30,790 - Rachel and I have the strongest 281 00:11:30,857 --> 00:11:33,059 physical connection. 282 00:11:33,126 --> 00:11:35,094 You can't separate us if you tried. 283 00:11:35,161 --> 00:11:36,829 - This is a volcano. 284 00:11:36,896 --> 00:11:38,698 So this is an ongoing eruption here. 285 00:11:38,765 --> 00:11:40,767 - Oh, wow, look at this. This is actually really cool. 286 00:11:40,833 --> 00:11:42,535 - I'm glad we didn't miss it. 287 00:11:42,602 --> 00:11:45,205 - We have this explosive connection and, you know, 288 00:11:45,271 --> 00:11:47,907 Rachel has told me she is falling in love with me. 289 00:11:47,974 --> 00:11:50,143 I haven't told her that. 290 00:11:50,210 --> 00:11:52,212 I realize that if I just keep holding back, 291 00:11:52,278 --> 00:11:55,648 I run the risk of Rachel maybe losing some of the feelings. 292 00:11:55,715 --> 00:11:58,518 I know it's time to let my walls down. 293 00:11:58,585 --> 00:12:00,787 And I hope that I can do that today. 294 00:12:00,853 --> 00:12:05,758 ♪ ♪ 295 00:12:06,693 --> 00:12:07,627 I mean, look at this. 296 00:12:07,694 --> 00:12:09,095 You can't beat a view like this. 297 00:12:09,162 --> 00:12:12,065 - I've never seen anything like this. 298 00:12:20,707 --> 00:12:22,275 - All right, okay. - We have things to do. 299 00:12:22,342 --> 00:12:24,344 - We can do that all day, but... 300 00:12:25,511 --> 00:12:28,681 I wouldn't just bring you up here 301 00:12:28,748 --> 00:12:30,450 for no reason. - Mm-hmm. 302 00:12:30,516 --> 00:12:32,085 - That's actually a volcano. 303 00:12:32,151 --> 00:12:34,087 We're going inside of it. 304 00:12:34,153 --> 00:12:35,088 - [laughs] 305 00:12:35,154 --> 00:12:36,155 No way. - We are, 306 00:12:36,222 --> 00:12:37,590 we are going inside of it, 307 00:12:37,657 --> 00:12:40,627 so let's go ahead and--and head towards it. 308 00:12:40,693 --> 00:12:43,730 Can't believe that I'm about to go into a volcano. 309 00:12:43,796 --> 00:12:45,498 It isn't active, obviously. 310 00:12:45,565 --> 00:12:47,133 It's extremely exciting. 311 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:48,668 Ooh, look at this drop-off. 312 00:12:48,735 --> 00:12:50,536 - Do you want to slide down it? 313 00:12:50,603 --> 00:12:52,071 - Can't wait to see what the inside looks like. 314 00:12:52,138 --> 00:12:55,241 I can only imagine, but it's 400 feet down. 315 00:12:55,308 --> 00:12:56,242 Wow. 316 00:12:56,309 --> 00:12:57,343 [machinery clunking] 317 00:12:58,711 --> 00:13:00,880 Ooh-hoo-hoo! - Right? 318 00:13:00,947 --> 00:13:02,415 - Here we go. 319 00:13:05,018 --> 00:13:07,520 - Like, it just drops on the way down. 320 00:13:07,587 --> 00:13:09,889 - When it comes to Rachel, I--I realized that 321 00:13:09,956 --> 00:13:12,592 I was holding back 'cause I was just protecting myself. 322 00:13:12,659 --> 00:13:15,495 I have to start going deeper with our relationship 323 00:13:15,561 --> 00:13:20,466 and that's what today's about, no matter how scary it is. 324 00:13:20,533 --> 00:13:22,769 - Ooh! - Down into the depths. 325 00:13:22,835 --> 00:13:25,772 [water dripping] 326 00:13:25,838 --> 00:13:27,707 I know, like, what's at stake today, 327 00:13:27,774 --> 00:13:30,510 and I'm nervous, I'm scared. 328 00:13:31,811 --> 00:13:32,779 Really, if you look straight down, 329 00:13:32,845 --> 00:13:34,514 there's just nothing. 330 00:13:34,580 --> 00:13:36,316 - Wow. 331 00:13:36,382 --> 00:13:37,317 [tense music] 332 00:13:37,383 --> 00:13:38,484 - Oh. 333 00:13:38,551 --> 00:13:40,186 [laughs] That is far. 334 00:13:40,253 --> 00:13:41,788 You know, who knows how much more 335 00:13:41,854 --> 00:13:45,625 this relationship can grow once I open up and go deeper? 336 00:13:45,692 --> 00:13:47,994 I think that's been overdue, it's long overdue. 337 00:13:48,061 --> 00:13:49,762 - This is so cool. 338 00:13:52,565 --> 00:13:55,468 [majestic music] 339 00:13:55,535 --> 00:13:57,270 ♪ ♪ 340 00:13:57,337 --> 00:13:59,505 - Absolutely ridiculous. 341 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:03,076 - [chuckles] 342 00:14:03,142 --> 00:14:07,113 - I think I am falling for Rachel. 343 00:14:07,180 --> 00:14:09,916 I look at how she continually expresses herself. 344 00:14:09,982 --> 00:14:12,051 She shows me so much love. 345 00:14:12,118 --> 00:14:14,287 - [giggles] - Blowing my mind. 346 00:14:14,354 --> 00:14:17,357 I'm gonna try to dive into that fully. 347 00:14:17,423 --> 00:14:19,058 But, like, in the same way that it's scary 348 00:14:19,125 --> 00:14:21,894 to drop down into a 400 foot hole, 349 00:14:21,961 --> 00:14:24,664 opening up is--it's just hard. 350 00:14:24,731 --> 00:14:25,898 400 feet down. 351 00:14:25,965 --> 00:14:28,301 And touching down, there it is. 352 00:14:28,368 --> 00:14:30,536 - Man, this is so cool. 353 00:14:30,603 --> 00:14:33,706 - It's nothing that you'd ever think you'd do. 354 00:14:33,773 --> 00:14:35,475 We're 400 feet down. 355 00:14:35,541 --> 00:14:38,711 [water dripping] 356 00:14:38,778 --> 00:14:40,146 - In Iceland. 357 00:14:40,213 --> 00:14:42,715 I'm really happy to be here, honestly. 358 00:14:43,850 --> 00:14:47,120 I feel like, after Hometowns, it just, like, 359 00:14:47,186 --> 00:14:50,256 feels, like, incredible. 360 00:14:50,323 --> 00:14:52,358 - Yeah, that was great. That felt like forever ago, 361 00:14:52,425 --> 00:14:53,559 but it was really just last week. 362 00:14:53,626 --> 00:14:54,694 - I know. 363 00:14:54,761 --> 00:14:55,828 How was everything? 364 00:14:55,895 --> 00:14:58,197 Like, do you have any other, like, 365 00:14:58,264 --> 00:15:01,300 questions, like, after, like, talking to everyone? 366 00:15:01,367 --> 00:15:02,835 - [sniffs] Um... 367 00:15:02,902 --> 00:15:04,771 No, I feel like, honestly, I think it, like, 368 00:15:04,837 --> 00:15:07,306 went very well. 369 00:15:07,373 --> 00:15:09,108 - I know. I was very impressed by you. 370 00:15:09,175 --> 00:15:11,511 They're normally not that impressed by anyone. 371 00:15:11,577 --> 00:15:12,945 - They were--they were tough. - They could've given you 372 00:15:13,012 --> 00:15:14,847 a little bit more, but... - You think? 373 00:15:14,914 --> 00:15:16,416 - Yes. - I think they were tough. 374 00:15:16,482 --> 00:15:17,750 - You did? - Yeah. 375 00:15:17,817 --> 00:15:19,986 I thought I was, like, going into a firing squad. 376 00:15:20,052 --> 00:15:23,623 And I came out, you know, pretty--pretty not too bad, so. 377 00:15:23,689 --> 00:15:25,425 - I think the one thing I wanted, like, 378 00:15:25,491 --> 00:15:29,462 going in to the entire week was just for them to see me 379 00:15:29,529 --> 00:15:30,863 and, like, know how I felt. 380 00:15:30,930 --> 00:15:32,064 And I feel like they really did. 381 00:15:32,131 --> 00:15:33,332 - Yeah. - Like, every single person 382 00:15:33,399 --> 00:15:34,434 that saw me there, like, 383 00:15:34,500 --> 00:15:35,835 "We've never seen you like this." 384 00:15:35,902 --> 00:15:37,370 For them to see how I felt. 385 00:15:37,437 --> 00:15:39,005 - Yeah. - Because I know, 386 00:15:39,071 --> 00:15:40,840 like, how I feel. 387 00:15:40,907 --> 00:15:42,608 It was just really nice and to have, like, 388 00:15:42,675 --> 00:15:43,776 to share it with you. 389 00:15:43,843 --> 00:15:45,411 - Yeah, but it--for me too. 390 00:15:45,478 --> 00:15:47,146 Like, it was--like, 391 00:15:47,213 --> 00:15:48,681 yes, it was tough, but they-- 392 00:15:48,748 --> 00:15:50,116 I really felt like, you know, it was all a lot 393 00:15:50,183 --> 00:15:51,517 of great conversations 394 00:15:51,584 --> 00:15:53,519 and it was a really good, uh, visit. 395 00:15:53,586 --> 00:15:56,889 - So you don't have any, like, reservations or anything? 396 00:15:56,956 --> 00:15:58,191 - No. - No? 397 00:16:00,293 --> 00:16:01,461 - Yeah. 398 00:16:01,527 --> 00:16:02,728 What? - What? 399 00:16:02,795 --> 00:16:04,263 [giggles] 400 00:16:04,330 --> 00:16:07,667 [romantic music] 401 00:16:07,733 --> 00:16:11,037 I want him to open up, and he hasn't yet. 402 00:16:12,171 --> 00:16:14,340 It still was an incredible day and I'm-- 403 00:16:14,407 --> 00:16:17,376 I'm really excited to, you know, go into the night, 404 00:16:17,443 --> 00:16:19,579 have, you know, some conversations. 405 00:16:19,645 --> 00:16:21,481 - All right, should we get off this rock? 406 00:16:21,547 --> 00:16:24,917 - But I still think there are things I want to talk about 407 00:16:25,017 --> 00:16:27,620 just because I really truly feel like 408 00:16:27,687 --> 00:16:31,290 I have done nothing but be vulnerable 409 00:16:31,357 --> 00:16:33,025 this entire time, and I need him 410 00:16:33,092 --> 00:16:35,895 to just give a little bit back. 411 00:16:35,962 --> 00:16:38,264 My hopes are that I can get what I need 412 00:16:38,331 --> 00:16:40,333 to move forward into Fantasy Suites. 413 00:16:40,399 --> 00:16:43,703 If I don't, I'm really worried that our relationship, 414 00:16:43,769 --> 00:16:45,071 it's not meant to be. 415 00:16:45,137 --> 00:16:47,473 ♪ ♪ 416 00:16:49,942 --> 00:16:52,278 [tense music] 417 00:16:52,345 --> 00:16:54,780 - Feel like it's very strange times. 418 00:16:54,847 --> 00:16:56,115 - Yeah. 419 00:16:56,182 --> 00:16:58,851 Of course, they're gonna go to Fantasy Suites. 420 00:16:58,918 --> 00:17:00,152 I think all of us are. 421 00:17:00,219 --> 00:17:02,688 - Mm-hmm. - But I want the person 422 00:17:02,755 --> 00:17:05,157 I'm gonna be with to explore other relationships. 423 00:17:05,224 --> 00:17:06,959 - Mm-hmm. - And to on purpose choose me. 424 00:17:07,026 --> 00:17:09,228 - Mm-hmm. - Like, I want him to be able 425 00:17:09,295 --> 00:17:10,429 to explore everything. 426 00:17:10,496 --> 00:17:12,064 Like, I really do. - Mm-hmm. 427 00:17:12,131 --> 00:17:14,934 - Like, truly getting to know us inside and out. 428 00:17:14,967 --> 00:17:16,736 Just to see what it feels like. 429 00:17:16,802 --> 00:17:19,472 I'm like, "Do it." 430 00:17:19,539 --> 00:17:22,108 - I don't know that I feel the same way where I'm, like, 431 00:17:22,174 --> 00:17:24,210 I didn't even really, like, 432 00:17:24,277 --> 00:17:27,780 comprehend the gravity of it until this second. 433 00:17:27,847 --> 00:17:29,248 I don't know if he can 434 00:17:29,315 --> 00:17:30,883 fall in love with multiple people at once 435 00:17:30,950 --> 00:17:32,151 and, like, I don't know if he's falling in love 436 00:17:32,218 --> 00:17:33,619 with any one of us, like, I don't know. 437 00:17:33,686 --> 00:17:35,154 I haven't heard from him if he is. 438 00:17:35,221 --> 00:17:37,056 And, like, Rachel's literally gonna have 439 00:17:37,123 --> 00:17:42,161 that clarity or at least some aspect of it tonight. 440 00:17:42,228 --> 00:17:46,265 ♪ ♪ 441 00:17:52,071 --> 00:17:54,073 - You look nice. 442 00:17:54,140 --> 00:17:56,108 - Thank you. You look beautiful as always. 443 00:17:56,175 --> 00:17:57,510 - Oh, thank you. 444 00:18:00,346 --> 00:18:02,949 We had such an incredible day. 445 00:18:03,015 --> 00:18:05,084 I'm just so happy and, like, 446 00:18:05,151 --> 00:18:07,320 living in the moment and it just feels amazing. 447 00:18:07,386 --> 00:18:09,689 - Let's go. 448 00:18:09,755 --> 00:18:11,190 - I love Clayton. 449 00:18:11,257 --> 00:18:15,661 I can definitely see him being my future husband. 450 00:18:15,728 --> 00:18:17,730 [soft music] 451 00:18:17,797 --> 00:18:22,168 I feel that I have constantly pushed myself 452 00:18:22,234 --> 00:18:25,137 to be completely open and vulnerable. 453 00:18:25,204 --> 00:18:29,141 But I don't know how he feels. 454 00:18:29,208 --> 00:18:33,112 I definitely do need to have that two-way relationship, 455 00:18:33,179 --> 00:18:36,082 so I don't know if I would be able to go 456 00:18:36,148 --> 00:18:39,685 into Fantasy Suite not knowing where he's at at all. 457 00:18:39,752 --> 00:18:43,189 - Today was great as always. 458 00:18:43,255 --> 00:18:44,323 - It was the most incredible date, 459 00:18:44,390 --> 00:18:46,826 and I was not expecting it at all. 460 00:18:46,892 --> 00:18:49,929 It really felt like we were, like, on a different planet. 461 00:18:49,996 --> 00:18:53,566 - That's what's so great is we always have so much fun. 462 00:18:53,633 --> 00:18:55,101 - I know, and I feel like 463 00:18:55,167 --> 00:18:58,838 we have had such an incredible connection, like, day one. 464 00:18:58,904 --> 00:19:00,840 - Mm-hmm. - Like, and I've always, like, 465 00:19:00,906 --> 00:19:01,974 told you that. 466 00:19:02,041 --> 00:19:03,209 - It's just crazy. 467 00:19:03,275 --> 00:19:04,844 I dunno, this whole thing has been crazy. 468 00:19:04,910 --> 00:19:07,780 - I know. - How it happened so quickly 469 00:19:07,847 --> 00:19:09,915 that, like, it didn't almost make sense. 470 00:19:09,982 --> 00:19:11,784 - Yeah, like, you know, the way I feel, 471 00:19:11,851 --> 00:19:14,420 I've never in my life felt before. 472 00:19:14,487 --> 00:19:15,521 - Mm-hmm. - And I think it's because you 473 00:19:15,588 --> 00:19:17,823 continuously, like, push me. 474 00:19:17,890 --> 00:19:20,292 Then, like, going into Croatia and, like, 475 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:21,727 telling you how I felt and, like, 476 00:19:21,794 --> 00:19:23,362 how I was falling for you. 477 00:19:23,429 --> 00:19:28,567 And after Hometowns, I was so happy and so excited. 478 00:19:28,634 --> 00:19:31,871 But during the Rose Ceremony, 479 00:19:31,937 --> 00:19:35,274 I felt like I ha--couldn't breathe. 480 00:19:35,341 --> 00:19:37,009 And I was standing there 481 00:19:37,076 --> 00:19:39,311 and I--I couldn't read you. 482 00:19:39,378 --> 00:19:41,714 And I feel like I normally can and I was--I remember, 483 00:19:41,781 --> 00:19:43,716 like, looking at you. 484 00:19:43,783 --> 00:19:46,786 And, like, I genuinely was terrified. 485 00:19:46,852 --> 00:19:48,587 I don't even remember, like, 486 00:19:48,654 --> 00:19:50,156 those moments of you calling my name 487 00:19:50,222 --> 00:19:54,593 because I was so shocked 488 00:19:54,660 --> 00:19:56,362 that I could get to that point of thinking 489 00:19:56,429 --> 00:19:59,765 that you were about to walk me out and how it 490 00:19:59,832 --> 00:20:04,003 actually felt like a heartbreak before it even happened. 491 00:20:04,070 --> 00:20:07,940 It really did put everything into perspective 492 00:20:08,007 --> 00:20:09,709 of how I actually feel 493 00:20:09,775 --> 00:20:13,946 and I did, I cried the entire drive to the hotel 494 00:20:14,013 --> 00:20:15,581 'cause I was like, I don't know where he's at, 495 00:20:15,648 --> 00:20:17,049 I don't know. 496 00:20:17,116 --> 00:20:19,418 - [inhales] Yeah, um... 497 00:20:19,485 --> 00:20:22,254 [soft music] 498 00:20:25,157 --> 00:20:29,095 Yeah, I think honestly... 499 00:20:29,161 --> 00:20:30,663 I mean, I definitely have had something, 500 00:20:30,730 --> 00:20:32,064 you know, kind of weighing on me. 501 00:20:32,131 --> 00:20:33,866 - Mm-hmm. 502 00:20:33,933 --> 00:20:36,469 - I, uh, I don't feel like 503 00:20:36,535 --> 00:20:39,438 I was--been able to be like 100% transparent, 504 00:20:39,505 --> 00:20:41,273 like, when I was with your family. 505 00:20:41,340 --> 00:20:43,375 - Mm-hmm. 506 00:20:43,442 --> 00:20:47,413 - And I've kind of come 507 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:51,050 to terms with, like, what I am feeling. 508 00:20:53,319 --> 00:20:56,455 And I kind of wish I had told you earlier. 509 00:20:56,522 --> 00:20:59,091 And I was kind of holding on to it. 510 00:20:59,158 --> 00:21:01,460 So... 511 00:21:01,527 --> 00:21:03,829 I'll just come out and say, like... 512 00:21:05,765 --> 00:21:08,501 I'm falling in love with you. 513 00:21:08,567 --> 00:21:11,337 I am, and I haven't-- 514 00:21:11,403 --> 00:21:14,640 - You just scared me. I was like... 515 00:21:14,707 --> 00:21:17,209 My--do you know how cold my hands are? 516 00:21:17,276 --> 00:21:18,477 - [chuckles] 517 00:21:18,544 --> 00:21:23,082 I realize that I have been feeling this way 518 00:21:23,149 --> 00:21:26,685 for probably a couple weeks, if not more. 519 00:21:26,752 --> 00:21:29,155 But part of me was scared because I hadn't 520 00:21:29,221 --> 00:21:31,991 felt those feelings for over five or six years 521 00:21:32,057 --> 00:21:33,592 since my last relationship. 522 00:21:33,659 --> 00:21:36,395 So thank you for being patient with me. 523 00:21:36,462 --> 00:21:38,297 - Of course. - I'm just glad, obviously, 524 00:21:38,364 --> 00:21:39,999 I could finally tell you, because it's like 525 00:21:40,065 --> 00:21:41,567 a weight on my shoulders and I'm just happy 526 00:21:41,634 --> 00:21:42,735 'cause I've been wanting to say it. 527 00:21:42,802 --> 00:21:44,336 - I'm glad you finally did, 528 00:21:44,403 --> 00:21:48,073 because I feel so much better. 529 00:21:48,140 --> 00:21:51,010 [romantic music] 530 00:21:51,076 --> 00:21:55,381 ♪ ♪ 531 00:21:55,447 --> 00:21:58,551 To finally see him be vulnerable 532 00:21:58,617 --> 00:22:02,555 and to hear that he is also falling in love with me 533 00:22:02,621 --> 00:22:06,992 is the most incredible feeling. 534 00:22:07,059 --> 00:22:10,796 It just feels like I'm dreaming. 535 00:22:12,731 --> 00:22:15,901 I feel incredibly close to him to know that 536 00:22:15,968 --> 00:22:19,004 all of my feelings are reciprocated 537 00:22:19,071 --> 00:22:21,407 and going forward, 538 00:22:21,473 --> 00:22:24,743 I'm ready for whatever happens tonight. 539 00:22:24,810 --> 00:22:26,679 - I have something for you. 540 00:22:26,745 --> 00:22:29,148 ♪ ♪ 541 00:22:36,488 --> 00:22:37,990 - Oh. 542 00:22:40,292 --> 00:22:42,695 "Clayton and Rachel, 543 00:22:42,761 --> 00:22:46,498 "from high in the sky to far beneath the ground, 544 00:22:46,565 --> 00:22:49,902 "your day has been nothing short of breathtaking. 545 00:22:49,969 --> 00:22:53,639 "Should you choose to forgo your individual rooms, 546 00:22:53,706 --> 00:22:56,475 "please use this key to stay 547 00:22:56,542 --> 00:22:59,511 "as a couple in the Fantasy Suite. 548 00:22:59,578 --> 00:23:02,147 Jesse." 549 00:23:02,214 --> 00:23:06,285 Going into tonight, I really did need an answer 550 00:23:06,352 --> 00:23:08,654 from you, and I think you 551 00:23:08,721 --> 00:23:11,090 surpassed every expectation always. 552 00:23:11,156 --> 00:23:13,692 And I feel very confident that 553 00:23:13,759 --> 00:23:18,130 we should definitely stay tonight together. 554 00:23:18,197 --> 00:23:20,099 - [chuckles] 555 00:23:20,165 --> 00:23:21,533 - I feel like I have 556 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,703 searched my whole life to feel this way. 557 00:23:24,770 --> 00:23:26,205 - Get outta here? 558 00:23:26,272 --> 00:23:29,575 - It feels amazing and almost too good to be true. 559 00:23:29,642 --> 00:23:32,678 I don't think it's a question in either of our minds 560 00:23:32,745 --> 00:23:35,180 that we're going to be physically, 561 00:23:35,247 --> 00:23:37,716 you know, very intimate. 562 00:23:37,783 --> 00:23:41,120 The Fantasy Suite will change everything. 563 00:23:44,023 --> 00:23:46,258 - All right, here it is. 564 00:23:46,325 --> 00:23:48,227 The Fantasy Suite. 565 00:23:48,294 --> 00:23:50,062 - Ooh. 566 00:23:50,129 --> 00:23:52,231 - Gonna, uh, check it out a little bit. 567 00:23:52,298 --> 00:23:53,699 It's really exciting 568 00:23:53,766 --> 00:23:56,268 for me to finally be fully vulnerable myself 569 00:23:56,335 --> 00:23:58,037 and to tell her, like, say the words, 570 00:23:58,103 --> 00:23:59,471 "I'm falling in love with you." 571 00:23:59,538 --> 00:24:01,774 - Kitchen. We can cook breakfast in the morning. 572 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,008 - Yeah. 573 00:24:03,075 --> 00:24:04,510 This girl is beyond special, like, 574 00:24:04,576 --> 00:24:06,312 she has it all. 575 00:24:06,378 --> 00:24:08,881 I love the fact that when I see her 576 00:24:08,948 --> 00:24:10,582 she just has this little grin on her face. 577 00:24:10,649 --> 00:24:12,151 - Ready? - Yeah. 578 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:15,554 [mouth full] You gotta let go of it. 579 00:24:15,621 --> 00:24:16,922 [giggling] 580 00:24:16,989 --> 00:24:18,457 There's just this feeling she gives me 581 00:24:18,524 --> 00:24:20,426 that pulls me in. 582 00:24:22,328 --> 00:24:24,797 Hopefully we are falling more in love tomorrow morning 583 00:24:24,863 --> 00:24:27,199 than we were tonight. 584 00:24:27,266 --> 00:24:28,867 [triumphant music] 585 00:24:28,934 --> 00:24:31,437 - I don't know how Clayton feels about Rachel, 586 00:24:31,503 --> 00:24:34,673 but it's very intimidating, like, to think about. 587 00:24:34,740 --> 00:24:36,041 - Right. - I think I would, like, 588 00:24:36,108 --> 00:24:38,310 want to know his intentions on everything. 589 00:24:38,377 --> 00:24:39,979 On every action he makes this week, 590 00:24:40,045 --> 00:24:42,081 I just--I would just want to know his intentions on it. 591 00:24:42,147 --> 00:24:45,250 - Yeah, and I think, like, 592 00:24:45,317 --> 00:24:48,620 he's always spoke really loud with his actions. 593 00:24:48,687 --> 00:24:49,989 - Yeah. 594 00:24:50,055 --> 00:24:52,324 If Clayton is feeling that, like, intuition 595 00:24:52,391 --> 00:24:54,693 that I'm feeling in this relationship 596 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,931 that, like, I see myself at the end of this with him, 597 00:24:58,998 --> 00:24:59,932 I think sex would be, like, 598 00:24:59,999 --> 00:25:01,500 a really big boundary to cross. 599 00:25:01,567 --> 00:25:04,536 - [giggling] 600 00:25:04,603 --> 00:25:06,805 - And I am still really confident in who he is. 601 00:25:06,872 --> 00:25:09,675 I'm not making any assumptions at this point, 602 00:25:09,742 --> 00:25:12,778 but if Clayton 603 00:25:12,845 --> 00:25:15,047 thinks that it's me at the end of this... 604 00:25:15,114 --> 00:25:16,415 - [gasps] 605 00:25:16,482 --> 00:25:17,683 - And then proceeds 606 00:25:17,750 --> 00:25:21,020 to sleep with another woman, like, anyways... 607 00:25:23,088 --> 00:25:26,191 I would have a really hard time 608 00:25:26,258 --> 00:25:27,960 moving forward with him. 609 00:25:28,027 --> 00:25:31,764 ♪ ♪ 610 00:25:33,732 --> 00:25:36,735 [birds chirping] 611 00:25:38,470 --> 00:25:41,306 [ducks quacking] 612 00:25:56,922 --> 00:26:01,760 - It is absolutely incredible to finally 613 00:26:01,827 --> 00:26:04,096 wake up next to you. 614 00:26:04,163 --> 00:26:07,166 - I mean, just to me it was, like, so special 615 00:26:07,232 --> 00:26:11,403 to, like, wake up and, like, have you be, like, 616 00:26:11,470 --> 00:26:13,138 on my shoulder which is a little dead, but whatever. 617 00:26:13,205 --> 00:26:14,239 - I'm sorry! 618 00:26:14,306 --> 00:26:15,808 [laughter] 619 00:26:15,874 --> 00:26:19,545 - Rachel and I had a near-perfect night together. 620 00:26:19,611 --> 00:26:21,780 Everything went exactly as I hoped it would go. 621 00:26:21,847 --> 00:26:26,518 We talked about so much, we had a strong connection. 622 00:26:26,585 --> 00:26:28,420 It felt like a dream. 623 00:26:28,487 --> 00:26:31,190 - It's been a really long journey 624 00:26:31,256 --> 00:26:34,626 since stepping out of the limo. 625 00:26:34,693 --> 00:26:38,163 And now we're in Iceland, and I'm in love with you. 626 00:26:38,230 --> 00:26:40,466 - It just--like I said, it doesn't feel real. 627 00:26:40,532 --> 00:26:41,600 - Mm-mm. 628 00:26:41,667 --> 00:26:43,669 You make it easy. 629 00:26:43,735 --> 00:26:45,003 - Everything with us is easy. 630 00:26:45,070 --> 00:26:46,538 - Yeah, it is. 631 00:26:46,605 --> 00:26:47,806 - It really is. 632 00:26:47,873 --> 00:26:49,675 [romantic music] 633 00:26:49,741 --> 00:26:52,611 I know how I feel right now. 634 00:26:52,678 --> 00:26:54,980 I do love Rachel. 635 00:26:55,047 --> 00:26:59,384 And it's just scary, 'cause it's like 636 00:26:59,451 --> 00:27:01,820 I've never been so open. 637 00:27:01,887 --> 00:27:03,355 I just have to follow my heart 638 00:27:03,422 --> 00:27:06,458 and my heart is telling me that I'm in love with her. 639 00:27:06,525 --> 00:27:07,860 All right, should we go make some breakfast? 640 00:27:07,926 --> 00:27:09,128 - Mm-hmm. - Yeah. 641 00:27:09,194 --> 00:27:11,663 - [giggles] 642 00:27:11,730 --> 00:27:13,866 [romantic music] 643 00:27:13,932 --> 00:27:17,336 - I just couldn't have imagined it going any better, 644 00:27:17,402 --> 00:27:19,605 and I just feel like our relationship 645 00:27:19,671 --> 00:27:22,407 is on an entirely new level now. 646 00:27:22,474 --> 00:27:24,109 [giggles] 647 00:27:31,049 --> 00:27:32,784 Intimacy is really important 648 00:27:32,851 --> 00:27:35,921 in a relationship and so, 649 00:27:35,988 --> 00:27:38,590 yeah, it was a good night. 650 00:27:38,657 --> 00:27:41,994 That's all I have to say. 651 00:27:42,060 --> 00:27:44,997 [sweeping music] 652 00:27:45,063 --> 00:27:49,134 ♪ ♪ 653 00:27:49,201 --> 00:27:50,869 Hey! 654 00:27:50,936 --> 00:27:53,405 I love you! 655 00:27:53,472 --> 00:27:55,541 - I love you too, Rachel! 656 00:27:55,607 --> 00:27:56,675 ♪ ♪ 657 00:27:56,742 --> 00:27:59,011 All the time! 658 00:27:59,077 --> 00:28:01,380 I'm gonna miss you. 659 00:28:01,446 --> 00:28:04,283 - This morning, it was so perfect, 660 00:28:04,349 --> 00:28:06,752 and it's like I will hold onto that 661 00:28:06,818 --> 00:28:08,420 for the rest of my life. 662 00:28:08,487 --> 00:28:11,423 For--yeah, forever. It's incredible. 663 00:28:11,490 --> 00:28:13,692 I feel like you do not get moments like that 664 00:28:13,759 --> 00:28:15,194 in life a lot. 665 00:28:15,260 --> 00:28:17,429 Yeah, I'm definitely gonna hold on to it. 666 00:28:17,496 --> 00:28:20,532 [bell tolling] 667 00:28:26,638 --> 00:28:28,974 - I didn't sleep great. 668 00:28:29,041 --> 00:28:31,343 I woke up in the middle of the night and I'm just, like, 669 00:28:31,410 --> 00:28:33,512 running every possible scenario 670 00:28:33,579 --> 00:28:34,513 through my head, like-- 671 00:28:34,580 --> 00:28:35,681 - Yeah. - Every which way 672 00:28:35,747 --> 00:28:37,683 this week could go. - Yeah. 673 00:28:37,749 --> 00:28:40,352 - No one knows what's going on 674 00:28:40,419 --> 00:28:41,954 literally behind closed doors at this point. 675 00:28:42,020 --> 00:28:44,856 - Yeah. - So it's, like, to assume-- 676 00:28:44,923 --> 00:28:46,792 it's--it makes it worse for yourself. 677 00:28:46,858 --> 00:28:48,527 - Yeah, totally, yeah. - So I think we'll 678 00:28:48,594 --> 00:28:50,495 pick up on some vibes for sure. 679 00:28:50,562 --> 00:28:51,763 - Right. - But, like, I don't think-- 680 00:28:51,830 --> 00:28:53,732 I'm not gonna try to read into it too much. 681 00:28:53,799 --> 00:28:55,500 - Yeah, me either. 682 00:28:55,567 --> 00:28:57,336 - Mm-hmm. 683 00:28:57,402 --> 00:28:59,738 [soft music] 684 00:28:59,805 --> 00:29:01,240 To me, Clayton is like the person 685 00:29:01,306 --> 00:29:03,842 that I want to get engaged to. 686 00:29:03,909 --> 00:29:06,311 But, like, I don't know what happened last night. 687 00:29:06,378 --> 00:29:08,213 Like, obviously, their relationship 688 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,549 probably reached new levels. 689 00:29:10,616 --> 00:29:13,585 And, like, it's very possible that they had sex. 690 00:29:13,652 --> 00:29:16,288 It's possible that he told her he loved her. 691 00:29:16,355 --> 00:29:18,390 But I just feel like 692 00:29:18,457 --> 00:29:22,361 I would be crazy to assume anything, in my opinion. 693 00:29:22,427 --> 00:29:25,163 Or maybe I'm crazy to assume that they didn't. 694 00:29:25,230 --> 00:29:26,965 But there's obviously a part of me that's hoping 695 00:29:27,032 --> 00:29:28,934 that they didn't because, like... 696 00:29:31,470 --> 00:29:34,072 That would suck, you know? 697 00:29:36,942 --> 00:29:37,876 [door opening] - [gasps] 698 00:29:37,943 --> 00:29:39,611 Hi! 699 00:29:39,678 --> 00:29:41,280 - [giggles] - Hi. 700 00:29:41,346 --> 00:29:42,814 - You look so cute. - How are you? 701 00:29:42,881 --> 00:29:45,350 - Look at you. - Oh, hello. 702 00:29:45,417 --> 00:29:46,385 - How's it going? 703 00:29:46,451 --> 00:29:49,354 - Hi, guys. - Hi. 704 00:29:49,421 --> 00:29:50,622 - What'd you do? 705 00:29:50,689 --> 00:29:52,090 Do you wanna tell us, like, what your date was? 706 00:29:52,157 --> 00:29:54,559 - Yeah, so we went, like, in a ca-- 707 00:29:54,626 --> 00:29:56,228 like, down a volcano, like, in a cave. 708 00:29:56,295 --> 00:29:59,564 It was fun. - Mm. 709 00:30:02,167 --> 00:30:04,636 - I know this is really awkward and I respect you guys so much. 710 00:30:04,703 --> 00:30:05,771 - Same. - I know. 711 00:30:05,837 --> 00:30:06,905 - We all respect each other. - Yeah. 712 00:30:06,972 --> 00:30:09,141 Yeah. - I'm really sorry in advance. 713 00:30:09,207 --> 00:30:13,545 [tense music] 714 00:30:13,612 --> 00:30:14,980 I think it's just gonna be a tough week 715 00:30:15,047 --> 00:30:16,281 for all of us having 716 00:30:16,348 --> 00:30:18,483 to, you know, see all of us come home 717 00:30:18,550 --> 00:30:20,252 because it is a-- it's a big night. 718 00:30:20,319 --> 00:30:24,222 - Yeah. - But yeah, it was nice. 719 00:30:24,289 --> 00:30:25,657 Yeah. 720 00:30:26,591 --> 00:30:28,093 - Rachel seemed to have clarity. 721 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,129 She seemed happy. 722 00:30:31,196 --> 00:30:33,332 But, like... 723 00:30:35,901 --> 00:30:38,870 [tearfully] There was, like, that side of me that 724 00:30:38,937 --> 00:30:41,840 just kept thinking, like, so much has happened. 725 00:30:41,907 --> 00:30:44,109 [sobs] 726 00:30:44,176 --> 00:30:48,246 I haven't ever met someone like Clayton. 727 00:30:48,313 --> 00:30:50,315 I do have, like, you know, high hopes, 728 00:30:50,382 --> 00:30:52,718 but right now, 729 00:30:52,784 --> 00:30:56,088 it just feels, like, too good to be true, you know? 730 00:30:56,154 --> 00:30:59,024 - I think I'm gonna go get ready. 731 00:30:59,091 --> 00:31:00,559 I'll see you guys soon. - Yes. 732 00:31:00,625 --> 00:31:01,727 - Have fun. 733 00:31:01,793 --> 00:31:03,528 See you. 734 00:31:03,595 --> 00:31:05,330 - Like, I hope Clayton's for me. 735 00:31:05,397 --> 00:31:07,599 Like, I hope that--he's like this person I've, like, 736 00:31:07,666 --> 00:31:09,267 dreamt of him being and, like... 737 00:31:09,334 --> 00:31:10,802 [sniffles] 738 00:31:10,869 --> 00:31:13,338 That's the thing is, like, you don't know. 739 00:31:13,405 --> 00:31:16,341 [somber music] 740 00:31:16,408 --> 00:31:19,177 ♪ ♪ 741 00:31:19,244 --> 00:31:21,947 - I felt so good after 742 00:31:22,013 --> 00:31:24,616 spending the night with Rachel. 743 00:31:24,683 --> 00:31:26,051 It was perfect, it was perfect. 744 00:31:26,118 --> 00:31:28,453 There was nothing... 745 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:29,988 there was nothing that could've went 746 00:31:30,055 --> 00:31:33,158 any differently or any better. 747 00:31:33,225 --> 00:31:34,626 And if it was just her, 748 00:31:34,693 --> 00:31:37,562 I would just be bouncing off the walls and so excited 749 00:31:37,629 --> 00:31:40,832 to see what was gonna happen next between us, 750 00:31:40,899 --> 00:31:42,167 but it's like it's not just her. 751 00:31:42,234 --> 00:31:46,371 [somber music] 752 00:31:46,438 --> 00:31:48,673 I didn't know I was gonna say I'm in love with Rachel, 753 00:31:48,740 --> 00:31:50,108 but, like, I meant it. 754 00:31:50,175 --> 00:31:52,043 That's why I said it. 755 00:31:52,110 --> 00:31:55,547 There's two other women that I could also 756 00:31:55,614 --> 00:31:57,816 wake up feeling the exact same way, 757 00:31:57,883 --> 00:31:59,684 because I just don't know 758 00:31:59,751 --> 00:32:02,120 what's gonna happen in these next two overnights. 759 00:32:02,187 --> 00:32:03,455 There's the potential 760 00:32:03,522 --> 00:32:05,590 to be in love with all three of them. 761 00:32:05,657 --> 00:32:10,162 And it's, like, so then what? 762 00:32:11,730 --> 00:32:15,367 That's the scary part about it. 763 00:32:19,538 --> 00:32:22,240 [dramatic music] 764 00:32:22,307 --> 00:32:27,712 ♪ ♪ 765 00:32:27,779 --> 00:32:31,450 - I'm so excited to have my overnight date with Clayton 766 00:32:31,516 --> 00:32:34,686 and get some intimate one-on-one time. 767 00:32:34,753 --> 00:32:36,788 This date's important for us 768 00:32:36,855 --> 00:32:39,558 to continue to grow and potentially take things 769 00:32:39,624 --> 00:32:41,827 to a whole new level. 770 00:32:41,893 --> 00:32:45,096 I just always feel better when I'm in his presence. 771 00:32:45,163 --> 00:32:48,300 So I can't wait to see him again. 772 00:32:48,366 --> 00:32:50,302 I don't know what we're gonna be doing, 773 00:32:50,368 --> 00:32:53,605 but I obviously bundled to stay warm. 774 00:32:53,672 --> 00:32:56,441 I was hoping an Icelandic cruise 775 00:32:56,508 --> 00:32:59,244 with whale-watching and strawberries and champagne. 776 00:32:59,311 --> 00:33:01,980 But I think, um, that's not it. 777 00:33:11,523 --> 00:33:14,726 [adventurous music] 778 00:33:14,793 --> 00:33:16,895 Oh, God, no. 779 00:33:19,631 --> 00:33:20,765 Oh, my God. 780 00:33:20,832 --> 00:33:21,900 [laughs] 781 00:33:21,967 --> 00:33:24,903 Oh, my God, this is crazy. 782 00:33:24,970 --> 00:33:26,438 - All right. 783 00:33:26,505 --> 00:33:28,206 - I'm so dead. 784 00:33:28,273 --> 00:33:31,376 [laughs] 785 00:33:31,443 --> 00:33:33,645 - Oh, wait. 786 00:33:33,712 --> 00:33:34,746 Helmet. 787 00:33:34,813 --> 00:33:36,081 - [laughs] Hi. 788 00:33:36,147 --> 00:33:37,883 What is going on? 789 00:33:37,949 --> 00:33:39,117 It's so cold. 790 00:33:39,184 --> 00:33:40,519 [giggling] 791 00:33:40,585 --> 00:33:42,787 - It is freezing. 792 00:33:42,854 --> 00:33:44,222 - It's good to see you. - Look at you all bundled up. 793 00:33:44,289 --> 00:33:45,290 - [laughs] 794 00:33:45,357 --> 00:33:47,259 - So welcome to Iceland. - Thank you. 795 00:33:47,325 --> 00:33:48,627 - We're gonna go explore the beach... 796 00:33:48,693 --> 00:33:50,629 - Uh-huh. - In that, okay? 797 00:33:50,695 --> 00:33:51,696 - Okay. - All right, ready to go? 798 00:33:51,763 --> 00:33:53,265 - Yeah. - All right, let's do it. 799 00:33:53,331 --> 00:33:55,967 I'm extremely excited to see Gabby today. 800 00:33:56,001 --> 00:33:58,136 I have a really, really fun dune buggy date 801 00:33:58,203 --> 00:33:59,204 planned for the two of us, so... 802 00:33:59,271 --> 00:34:00,405 You need a helmet. 803 00:34:00,472 --> 00:34:01,673 I'm really excited for it, I can't wait. 804 00:34:01,740 --> 00:34:03,041 It's something I've never done. 805 00:34:03,909 --> 00:34:05,377 - This is crazy. - There you go. 806 00:34:05,443 --> 00:34:07,345 Last week, Gabby told me she's falling in love with me 807 00:34:07,412 --> 00:34:09,481 and that was nice to hear, 808 00:34:09,548 --> 00:34:11,983 because Gabby and I had a slow start in our relationship 809 00:34:12,050 --> 00:34:13,718 as opposed to Rachel and Susie who completely 810 00:34:13,785 --> 00:34:14,920 took off right out the gate. 811 00:34:15,921 --> 00:34:18,390 - Stop, you have to stop. 812 00:34:18,456 --> 00:34:20,025 - But with Gabby, I continue to see 813 00:34:20,091 --> 00:34:21,560 this upward trajectory 814 00:34:21,626 --> 00:34:23,128 and it's, like, we're not slowing down. 815 00:34:23,194 --> 00:34:24,930 I really love so many things about her. 816 00:34:24,996 --> 00:34:27,232 And I'm excited to see, like, what today brings. 817 00:34:27,299 --> 00:34:29,501 - You have to start off in low gear. 818 00:34:29,568 --> 00:34:31,002 - No, stop! - High it is. 819 00:34:31,069 --> 00:34:32,537 [buggy engine roars] 820 00:34:32,604 --> 00:34:33,672 And we're off! - No, stop! 821 00:34:33,738 --> 00:34:35,440 - Whoo-hoo-hoo! - Oh, my God! 822 00:34:35,507 --> 00:34:37,175 Oh, my God! - Whoo! 823 00:34:37,242 --> 00:34:39,477 - Oh, my God, this is so pretty. 824 00:34:39,544 --> 00:34:41,346 - Where's a ramp at? We need to find a ramp. 825 00:34:41,413 --> 00:34:43,248 - [laughs] 826 00:34:43,315 --> 00:34:44,749 [shrieks] 827 00:34:44,816 --> 00:34:46,251 - Whoo-hoo-hoo! - Which way are you dri-- 828 00:34:46,318 --> 00:34:47,352 [screams] - Whoa! 829 00:34:47,419 --> 00:34:48,553 [laughter] 830 00:34:48,620 --> 00:34:49,621 This thing is fast! 831 00:34:49,688 --> 00:34:51,423 - Don't go this way. Go that way. 832 00:34:51,489 --> 00:34:53,191 I trust Clayton with my heart, 833 00:34:53,258 --> 00:34:56,328 but not so much when it comes to, like, this buggy. 834 00:34:56,394 --> 00:34:58,330 He has this need for speed. 835 00:35:00,398 --> 00:35:03,101 [screaming] 836 00:35:03,168 --> 00:35:05,203 Oh, no! 837 00:35:05,270 --> 00:35:08,006 [imitating engine roaring] 838 00:35:08,073 --> 00:35:10,175 - Take it down by the water a little bit? 839 00:35:10,241 --> 00:35:12,677 - Oh, my God, it's so beautiful. 840 00:35:12,744 --> 00:35:14,145 ♪ ♪ 841 00:35:14,212 --> 00:35:16,314 I'm gonna cry. 842 00:35:16,381 --> 00:35:19,184 [serene music] 843 00:35:19,250 --> 00:35:21,953 It's, like, such an amazing date. 844 00:35:22,020 --> 00:35:24,122 The terrain is very romantic. 845 00:35:24,189 --> 00:35:28,360 We're having so much fun just, like, being kids. 846 00:35:28,426 --> 00:35:30,829 I can see us, like, always playing around 847 00:35:30,895 --> 00:35:32,797 and living some of our life like this. 848 00:35:32,864 --> 00:35:34,199 It's really so fun. 849 00:35:34,265 --> 00:35:35,467 - Do I get to drive? 850 00:35:35,533 --> 00:35:36,534 - Okay. 851 00:35:37,869 --> 00:35:38,837 - Being there with Clayton, like, 852 00:35:38,903 --> 00:35:40,505 I just feel, like, so free. 853 00:35:40,572 --> 00:35:43,408 I love that he loves adventure so much. 854 00:35:43,475 --> 00:35:45,110 He's just, like, so cute. 855 00:35:45,176 --> 00:35:46,211 - Here we go. - [shrieks] 856 00:35:46,277 --> 00:35:48,279 - [laughs] 857 00:35:48,346 --> 00:35:50,248 Do a little turn. 858 00:35:50,315 --> 00:35:51,983 There we go. 859 00:35:52,050 --> 00:35:53,151 Push it. 860 00:35:53,218 --> 00:35:54,786 - I gave it the juice! 861 00:35:54,853 --> 00:35:57,355 - You're cutting these corners way harder than I did. 862 00:35:57,422 --> 00:35:59,624 - She can't be stopped! 863 00:35:59,691 --> 00:36:01,159 - [laughs] 864 00:36:01,226 --> 00:36:03,061 - It's because of days like this 865 00:36:03,128 --> 00:36:06,765 I can see myself with Clayton for the rest of my life. 866 00:36:06,831 --> 00:36:10,268 I want him to know that I am ready for our next step. 867 00:36:10,335 --> 00:36:12,837 Like, I want to be with him at the end of this. 868 00:36:12,904 --> 00:36:14,506 That was fun. 869 00:36:14,572 --> 00:36:15,707 - Yeah, see? 870 00:36:15,774 --> 00:36:17,575 You were giving me trouble. - [giggling] 871 00:36:17,642 --> 00:36:19,344 ♪ ♪ 872 00:36:19,411 --> 00:36:20,879 What'd you think of my family? 873 00:36:20,945 --> 00:36:22,947 I feel like we haven't talked about Hometowns. 874 00:36:23,014 --> 00:36:24,482 - They were so much fun. - Yeah. 875 00:36:24,549 --> 00:36:26,251 - They're--like, your grandpa the second I walked in 876 00:36:26,317 --> 00:36:27,352 was just cracking jokes right off the bat. 877 00:36:27,419 --> 00:36:29,287 - Mm-hmm. - And it's so obvious, 878 00:36:29,354 --> 00:36:31,456 like, where you're-- you're coming from, 879 00:36:31,523 --> 00:36:32,590 I feel like I fit in. 880 00:36:32,657 --> 00:36:34,025 - Yeah, okay. 881 00:36:34,092 --> 00:36:35,660 - And--and obviously like to see that, 882 00:36:35,727 --> 00:36:37,696 even if for a moment, 883 00:36:37,762 --> 00:36:39,230 was really special. - Yeah. 884 00:36:39,297 --> 00:36:40,899 I feel like it went, like, so well. 885 00:36:40,965 --> 00:36:45,203 But then after, I was, like, very emotional. 886 00:36:45,270 --> 00:36:48,907 Because, like, I realized how serious things were getting 887 00:36:48,973 --> 00:36:52,610 and obviously, I didn't have any expectations coming here. 888 00:36:52,677 --> 00:36:54,145 So, like, each week has always 889 00:36:54,212 --> 00:36:56,214 exceeded any kind of expectation, 890 00:36:56,281 --> 00:36:58,717 but I also didn't, like, 891 00:36:58,783 --> 00:37:02,487 have the expectation of, like, being so, like, scared 892 00:37:02,554 --> 00:37:05,356 just because, you know, like, what's at stake. 893 00:37:05,423 --> 00:37:08,126 Especially after seeing my family, honestly. 894 00:37:08,193 --> 00:37:09,627 - Yeah, I feel like 895 00:37:09,694 --> 00:37:12,030 we're all realizing, like, how emotionally invested, like, 896 00:37:12,097 --> 00:37:13,565 this has--this journey has been. 897 00:37:13,631 --> 00:37:15,166 - Yeah. - And I think it is 898 00:37:15,233 --> 00:37:17,535 really natural to have us even start to be fearful. 899 00:37:17,602 --> 00:37:19,771 Like, I'm--I'm fearful in my own ways. 900 00:37:19,838 --> 00:37:21,940 - Yeah, I'm sure. - Knowing, like, that there's, 901 00:37:22,006 --> 00:37:24,275 like, the emotions are getting stronger and stronger. 902 00:37:24,342 --> 00:37:26,044 - Yeah. - And it's--it is scary 903 00:37:26,111 --> 00:37:27,879 but I think it's also at the end of it 904 00:37:27,946 --> 00:37:29,414 it'll be very rewarding 905 00:37:29,481 --> 00:37:31,516 but it's not easy. - Totally. 906 00:37:31,583 --> 00:37:33,818 I know that I could end up, like, heartbroken 907 00:37:33,885 --> 00:37:36,087 and that's scary as hell to think about. 908 00:37:36,154 --> 00:37:40,859 But like, I trust you and if I do end up at the end, 909 00:37:40,925 --> 00:37:42,093 I don't want it to be because 910 00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,062 you didn't explore your options, you know? 911 00:37:44,129 --> 00:37:45,430 - Yeah. - Like, I want it to be 912 00:37:45,497 --> 00:37:49,768 because you did and with that, like, you chose me. 913 00:37:49,834 --> 00:37:52,370 - Mm-hmm. - Like, I'm ready, 914 00:37:52,437 --> 00:37:54,773 you know, and I don't know if I've 915 00:37:54,839 --> 00:37:56,875 been like this, like, this vocal about it before. 916 00:37:56,941 --> 00:37:58,343 I'm sure I haven't. [chuckles] 917 00:37:58,409 --> 00:38:02,547 But like, I am, you know, and like, 918 00:38:02,614 --> 00:38:07,452 I feel like I want you to know that, like... 919 00:38:07,519 --> 00:38:10,321 - I really do appreciate you telling me all this 920 00:38:10,388 --> 00:38:11,990 because it's good that I know where you're at mentally. 921 00:38:12,056 --> 00:38:14,459 - Mm-hmm. - And yes, 922 00:38:14,526 --> 00:38:15,860 you can protect yourself 923 00:38:15,927 --> 00:38:17,695 and not say something, but like, 924 00:38:17,762 --> 00:38:18,997 on the reverse side of it, 925 00:38:19,063 --> 00:38:20,465 it's like what happens if I don't say this? 926 00:38:20,532 --> 00:38:22,000 Then, like walls go back up. 927 00:38:22,066 --> 00:38:23,268 - Yeah. 928 00:38:23,334 --> 00:38:25,270 - One of us had to start opening up, right? 929 00:38:25,336 --> 00:38:26,538 - Yeah. - It was you. 930 00:38:26,604 --> 00:38:28,339 - Mm-hmm. - Like, you opened up 931 00:38:28,406 --> 00:38:29,407 and, like, now we're here. 932 00:38:29,474 --> 00:38:30,775 Like, that's why we're here. 933 00:38:30,842 --> 00:38:32,043 - Totally. - That is why, 934 00:38:32,110 --> 00:38:35,647 so I really do appreciate it so much. 935 00:38:35,713 --> 00:38:37,982 - [chuckles] 936 00:38:38,049 --> 00:38:41,452 [serene music] 937 00:38:41,519 --> 00:38:43,855 - Today's date went great with Gabby. 938 00:38:43,922 --> 00:38:46,057 It was about as perfect as it gets. 939 00:38:46,124 --> 00:38:48,793 I love that she's able to be vulnerable and doesn't 940 00:38:48,860 --> 00:38:53,164 have to just put up her, like, funny front to be around me. 941 00:38:53,231 --> 00:38:57,435 And she's shown me so much, she's given me everything. 942 00:38:57,502 --> 00:38:59,571 It makes me feel vulnerable and emotional. 943 00:38:59,637 --> 00:39:01,840 It's really a great sign of where we're at. 944 00:39:01,906 --> 00:39:04,309 It's just, like, I have the feelings there, 945 00:39:04,375 --> 00:39:07,645 and I'm not gonna fight it. 946 00:39:07,712 --> 00:39:10,148 You know, I'm falling in love with her. 947 00:39:10,215 --> 00:39:12,217 ♪ ♪ 948 00:39:15,486 --> 00:39:18,556 [bell tolling] 949 00:39:22,961 --> 00:39:26,064 [soft music] 950 00:39:26,130 --> 00:39:28,600 ♪ ♪ 951 00:39:28,666 --> 00:39:30,668 - [gasps] 952 00:39:32,804 --> 00:39:35,573 [giggles] 953 00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:36,574 Hi. - How are you doing? 954 00:39:36,641 --> 00:39:37,742 You look great. 955 00:39:37,809 --> 00:39:39,110 - You do too. 956 00:39:39,177 --> 00:39:41,112 - Thank you. 957 00:39:44,349 --> 00:39:45,316 Ready to go inside? 958 00:39:45,383 --> 00:39:46,484 - Yeah. - All right, let's go. 959 00:39:46,551 --> 00:39:47,952 [laughter] 960 00:39:48,019 --> 00:39:49,854 - Going into dinner tonight 961 00:39:49,921 --> 00:39:52,824 after a really great day together 962 00:39:52,891 --> 00:39:55,894 feels like a dream. 963 00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:57,528 I know it's a day we'll never forget. 964 00:39:57,595 --> 00:39:59,631 And tonight is another chance to, like, 965 00:39:59,697 --> 00:40:01,633 bond us deeper. 966 00:40:01,699 --> 00:40:03,801 I told Clayton that I was falling in love with him 967 00:40:03,868 --> 00:40:07,205 last week at Hometowns, so it would really mean 968 00:40:07,272 --> 00:40:11,676 so much to, you know, for him to say it back. 969 00:40:11,743 --> 00:40:13,077 - Such a fun day, like. - So much fun. 970 00:40:13,144 --> 00:40:15,213 - Yeah. It was really, really cool. 971 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:16,814 Even considering, like, the elements. 972 00:40:16,881 --> 00:40:18,783 Like, it was just, like, I've never seen weather 973 00:40:18,850 --> 00:40:20,051 be so all over the place. 974 00:40:20,118 --> 00:40:21,486 - [giggles] - Like, it was freezing. 975 00:40:21,552 --> 00:40:22,687 - I thought you were talking about me for a second. 976 00:40:22,754 --> 00:40:23,721 - No, not you. - I'm like, that answer... 977 00:40:23,788 --> 00:40:24,789 - You could switch gears, though. 978 00:40:24,856 --> 00:40:26,090 - I did. - You went from being, like, 979 00:40:26,157 --> 00:40:27,325 "You're crazy, like, what are you doing?" 980 00:40:27,392 --> 00:40:28,726 to like all of a sudden putting your hands 981 00:40:28,793 --> 00:40:29,861 on the wheel and there's fire in your eyes. 982 00:40:29,928 --> 00:40:30,862 I was like, "Oh, no." 983 00:40:30,929 --> 00:40:33,765 [laughter] 984 00:40:33,831 --> 00:40:36,401 No, I really thought that the talk we had 985 00:40:36,467 --> 00:40:37,769 at that little, like, diner 986 00:40:37,835 --> 00:40:40,738 was just, like, so natural and it just flowed. 987 00:40:40,805 --> 00:40:43,408 And it was, like, everything that you said 988 00:40:43,474 --> 00:40:44,776 I thought at one time or another. 989 00:40:44,842 --> 00:40:47,045 - Yeah, I feel the same. 990 00:40:47,111 --> 00:40:49,414 I know, it's so nice that we both are able 991 00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:50,982 to open that line of communication. 992 00:40:51,049 --> 00:40:52,350 - Yeah. - 'Cause, like, 993 00:40:52,417 --> 00:40:55,186 the men I've been in relationships with in the past 994 00:40:55,253 --> 00:40:57,922 just expected me to be, like, the fun Gabby 995 00:40:57,989 --> 00:41:01,159 and, like, not have any other sides to me. 996 00:41:01,225 --> 00:41:05,196 But, like, you saw that there's a lot of different sides to me 997 00:41:05,263 --> 00:41:07,065 that I, like, want to be able to show people. 998 00:41:07,131 --> 00:41:08,833 - Yeah. - But also, you hear me 999 00:41:08,900 --> 00:41:10,535 and, like, that speaks volumes. 1000 00:41:10,601 --> 00:41:11,703 Like, you're even, like, willing 1001 00:41:11,769 --> 00:41:13,438 to have those conversations and, like, 1002 00:41:13,504 --> 00:41:16,174 go those places with me. - Yeah. 1003 00:41:16,240 --> 00:41:17,508 Yeah, absolutely, I mean, I--I just 1004 00:41:17,575 --> 00:41:21,279 talking about, like, not holding back. 1005 00:41:21,346 --> 00:41:22,647 I've been proud of you for, like, 1006 00:41:22,714 --> 00:41:24,415 going through all this and hearing about your past 1007 00:41:24,482 --> 00:41:27,185 and what you've dealt with to get to this point. 1008 00:41:27,251 --> 00:41:29,954 - Yeah. - And you've opened up more 1009 00:41:30,021 --> 00:41:31,322 and more every single time. 1010 00:41:31,389 --> 00:41:34,158 And to hear the word, like, love. 1011 00:41:34,225 --> 00:41:35,526 You know, I--when you said it, it was like, 1012 00:41:35,593 --> 00:41:36,828 that's not holding back. 1013 00:41:36,894 --> 00:41:38,363 Like, that's being all in. 1014 00:41:38,429 --> 00:41:40,031 - Yeah. 1015 00:41:40,098 --> 00:41:42,033 - And I can't believe at times that, like, 1016 00:41:42,100 --> 00:41:44,402 I'm fortunate enough to, like, be receiving 1017 00:41:44,469 --> 00:41:46,604 that kind of love and so I-- I really just want to say 1018 00:41:46,671 --> 00:41:48,873 thank you so much because now it's really 1019 00:41:48,940 --> 00:41:50,475 shown me, I was like, "Wow, like, 1020 00:41:50,541 --> 00:41:52,110 this is something special." 1021 00:41:52,176 --> 00:41:53,644 - Oh, my God. 1022 00:41:53,711 --> 00:41:56,714 - And you've really allowed me to get there as well 1023 00:41:56,781 --> 00:41:59,817 because I was so afraid. - Yeah. 1024 00:41:59,884 --> 00:42:06,024 - And, you know, because of that, you know, I've--I've 1025 00:42:06,090 --> 00:42:11,796 realized that, like, you know, I'm falling in love with you. 1026 00:42:11,863 --> 00:42:14,198 I am--I really am. 1027 00:42:14,265 --> 00:42:16,434 And it wasn't just like something I came to today. 1028 00:42:16,501 --> 00:42:18,936 I'd had these feelings, I just wasn't allowing myself 1029 00:42:19,003 --> 00:42:21,606 to, like, admit it because I was so fearful 1030 00:42:21,672 --> 00:42:23,074 from, like, my past relationship. 1031 00:42:23,141 --> 00:42:25,510 I mean, I've been dying. - Thank you. 1032 00:42:25,576 --> 00:42:28,146 ♪ ♪ 1033 00:42:28,212 --> 00:42:30,148 - It just feels right to tell Gabby 1034 00:42:30,214 --> 00:42:34,185 I'm falling in love with her and not hold back any longer. 1035 00:42:34,252 --> 00:42:36,554 I'm not going to fight the feelings anymore. 1036 00:42:36,621 --> 00:42:38,790 We were both slow to open up, but yet we're exactly 1037 00:42:38,856 --> 00:42:40,191 where we need to be. 1038 00:42:40,258 --> 00:42:42,960 She's just as excited to hear it as I am to say it. 1039 00:42:43,027 --> 00:42:45,430 Like, it's beautiful, and it just makes me extremely happy. 1040 00:42:47,832 --> 00:42:49,567 I have something for you. 1041 00:42:50,768 --> 00:42:56,340 ♪ ♪ 1042 00:42:56,407 --> 00:43:00,278 - "Clayton and Gabby, today you forged your own path 1043 00:43:00,344 --> 00:43:04,115 to love on the beautiful black sand beaches of Iceland." 1044 00:43:04,182 --> 00:43:06,250 - Ooh! 1045 00:43:06,317 --> 00:43:10,021 - "Should you choose to forgo your individual rooms..." 1046 00:43:10,088 --> 00:43:11,956 Oh, my God, it's so cute! 1047 00:43:12,023 --> 00:43:13,357 "Please use this key 1048 00:43:13,424 --> 00:43:16,994 to stay as a couple in the Fantasy Suite." 1049 00:43:17,061 --> 00:43:18,196 Oh, my God. - With a hot tub. 1050 00:43:18,262 --> 00:43:20,131 - [gasps] - Look at this. 1051 00:43:20,198 --> 00:43:21,532 - Oh, my God... 1052 00:43:21,599 --> 00:43:22,967 both: Oh... 1053 00:43:23,034 --> 00:43:24,769 - Oh, my God, strawberries and champagne. 1054 00:43:24,836 --> 00:43:26,871 - In Iceland in a friggin' igloo. 1055 00:43:26,938 --> 00:43:29,040 - This is amazing. - This is crazy. 1056 00:43:29,107 --> 00:43:34,011 - It's amazing to hear Clayton is falling in love with me, 1057 00:43:34,078 --> 00:43:37,515 especially on a night that we get some time alone. 1058 00:43:37,582 --> 00:43:39,951 It feels so right, like, it feels like 1059 00:43:40,051 --> 00:43:42,687 we're in the right place at the right time 1060 00:43:42,753 --> 00:43:45,556 and opening a new door to our relationship. 1061 00:43:45,623 --> 00:43:49,494 - Oh, we are doing it in style tonight. 1062 00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:51,896 - We're just connecting on, like, a whole new level. 1063 00:43:51,963 --> 00:43:57,301 ♪ ♪ 1064 00:43:57,368 --> 00:44:00,304 [uneasy music] 1065 00:44:00,371 --> 00:44:06,777 ♪ ♪ 1066 00:44:06,844 --> 00:44:09,347 - I'm just spiraling emotionally 1067 00:44:09,413 --> 00:44:13,284 thinking through the worst-case scenario. 1068 00:44:13,351 --> 00:44:15,720 Whether it's, like, Clayton falling in love 1069 00:44:15,786 --> 00:44:18,923 or him being physically intimate with Gabby. 1070 00:44:18,990 --> 00:44:20,057 [sniffling] 1071 00:44:20,124 --> 00:44:22,994 I can't, like, grasp the concept of it. 1072 00:44:26,998 --> 00:44:31,369 For me, sex is connective with somebody. 1073 00:44:31,435 --> 00:44:33,838 I just hope that, like, Clayton's on the same page 1074 00:44:33,905 --> 00:44:36,274 and sees it from my perspective. 1075 00:44:36,340 --> 00:44:37,842 If that's--I don't even-- 1076 00:44:37,909 --> 00:44:39,544 I'm talking as if it's, like, the reality. 1077 00:44:39,610 --> 00:44:42,280 I don't really know what's happening. 1078 00:44:42,346 --> 00:44:49,320 ♪ ♪ 1079 00:44:49,387 --> 00:44:53,057 It would suck to, like, not end up with Clayton, like... 1080 00:44:53,124 --> 00:44:55,860 - Keep the fire hot. I got you. 1081 00:44:58,596 --> 00:45:01,032 - I value him and I cherish him and, like, 1082 00:45:01,098 --> 00:45:06,337 have love for him in my heart, but I don't know what to do. 1083 00:45:06,404 --> 00:45:11,008 I just feel sad, 'cause I feel like it's ending. 1084 00:45:15,780 --> 00:45:18,716 [soft music] 1085 00:45:18,783 --> 00:45:23,054 ♪ ♪ 1086 00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:24,689 - I remember just waking up, like, 1087 00:45:24,755 --> 00:45:26,824 where all the covers went, like, I don't know if 1088 00:45:26,891 --> 00:45:28,693 you were kicking them off or what happened. 1089 00:45:28,759 --> 00:45:30,061 Were you throwing them? Were you sabotaging me? 1090 00:45:30,127 --> 00:45:32,763 - Not intentionally. - Yeah. 1091 00:45:32,830 --> 00:45:33,998 That was a great night. 1092 00:45:34,065 --> 00:45:35,466 I used to be able to, like, fall asleep, like, 1093 00:45:35,533 --> 00:45:37,902 to the rain was--it's, like, one of my favorite things. 1094 00:45:37,969 --> 00:45:39,103 - Me too. - Yeah. 1095 00:45:39,170 --> 00:45:40,705 - I know. 1096 00:45:40,771 --> 00:45:47,011 ♪ ♪ 1097 00:45:47,078 --> 00:45:50,548 - Last night really was just so special. 1098 00:45:50,615 --> 00:45:53,317 Like, it didn't feel like the first time 1099 00:45:53,384 --> 00:45:54,885 with somebody new. 1100 00:45:54,952 --> 00:45:59,023 It felt like the comfortability of, like, home. 1101 00:45:59,090 --> 00:46:01,292 [laughing] - Look what I brought. 1102 00:46:01,359 --> 00:46:02,627 - Oh, my God! 1103 00:46:02,693 --> 00:46:04,028 Champagne for breakfast! 1104 00:46:04,095 --> 00:46:05,630 It feels just, like, fun for us, 1105 00:46:05,696 --> 00:46:09,467 like, no pressure, we're able to laugh together. 1106 00:46:09,533 --> 00:46:11,002 Where's yours? 1107 00:46:11,068 --> 00:46:12,870 [laughter] 1108 00:46:12,937 --> 00:46:15,072 - Oh, you're gonna put this all down? 1109 00:46:15,139 --> 00:46:16,374 - Yeah. 1110 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:18,476 It just feels like everything's gonna work out. 1111 00:46:18,542 --> 00:46:21,045 - Falling in love is effortless with you 1112 00:46:21,112 --> 00:46:23,347 and I just want to cheers to that. 1113 00:46:23,414 --> 00:46:25,850 - Aw, you're so sweet. 1114 00:46:27,752 --> 00:46:30,721 - With Gabby, I really just am at peace. 1115 00:46:30,788 --> 00:46:33,291 Things with Gabby are easy, like, they're easy 1116 00:46:33,357 --> 00:46:35,293 and they just fit, they make sense. 1117 00:46:35,359 --> 00:46:37,061 There's no, like, fear, 1118 00:46:37,128 --> 00:46:38,562 there's no pressure, there's no stress. 1119 00:46:38,629 --> 00:46:41,666 It's just like, let's just continue to grow. 1120 00:46:41,732 --> 00:46:44,702 Last night, I had so much fun with you, 1121 00:46:44,769 --> 00:46:48,439 more than I could have ever expected and it feels so right. 1122 00:46:48,506 --> 00:46:51,042 - Mm. 1123 00:46:51,108 --> 00:46:53,778 Thank you. 1124 00:46:53,844 --> 00:46:57,748 You're easy to fall in love with. 1125 00:46:57,815 --> 00:46:59,617 - I am falling more in love with her 1126 00:46:59,684 --> 00:47:01,786 with every moment that we have. 1127 00:47:01,852 --> 00:47:05,089 Okay, well, I have to go. - Okay. 1128 00:47:05,156 --> 00:47:08,592 - See you later. - Okay--okay, bye! 1129 00:47:10,995 --> 00:47:14,665 - Walking away this morning, it's hard, 1130 00:47:14,732 --> 00:47:18,869 but it feels really good to be able to tell Gabby my feelings 1131 00:47:18,936 --> 00:47:22,106 and not hold back any longer on what she means to me. 1132 00:47:22,173 --> 00:47:23,874 Hey, Gabby, one more thing. 1133 00:47:23,941 --> 00:47:26,544 I just want you to know 1134 00:47:26,610 --> 00:47:32,016 that I am falling in love, and it feels so good. 1135 00:47:32,083 --> 00:47:33,417 - [laughs] 1136 00:47:33,484 --> 00:47:39,090 ♪ ♪ 1137 00:47:42,226 --> 00:47:44,095 - These mornings are so awkward, like, 1138 00:47:44,161 --> 00:47:45,830 I know she's gonna feel awkward. 1139 00:47:45,896 --> 00:47:49,100 How are you feeling having to watch this again? 1140 00:47:49,166 --> 00:47:51,369 I mean, I'm--I know how tough it feels right now. 1141 00:47:51,435 --> 00:47:52,803 I can't imagine you're... 1142 00:47:52,870 --> 00:47:56,240 - Yeah, I don't know, I'm just--I'm getting through. 1143 00:47:56,307 --> 00:47:58,242 - I don't know how you're doing it because-- 1144 00:47:58,309 --> 00:47:59,977 [door opens] Oh. 1145 00:48:00,044 --> 00:48:04,548 all: Hi! - You guys look cute. 1146 00:48:04,615 --> 00:48:08,285 - So do you, you look so comfy-cozy. 1147 00:48:11,922 --> 00:48:14,291 Welcome home. - Thank you. 1148 00:48:14,358 --> 00:48:15,726 - How was it? - It was good. 1149 00:48:15,793 --> 00:48:17,661 - What'd you guys end up doing? 1150 00:48:17,728 --> 00:48:20,364 - We rode dune buggies... - What? 1151 00:48:20,431 --> 00:48:22,366 - On the black sand beaches. [both gasp] 1152 00:48:22,433 --> 00:48:26,170 Yeah, I was scared 'cause he's a maniac. 1153 00:48:26,237 --> 00:48:28,105 - Oh, my God! 1154 00:48:28,172 --> 00:48:31,509 - And then we stayed in, like--like a yurt. 1155 00:48:31,575 --> 00:48:32,877 Like, have you seen one of those yurts? 1156 00:48:32,943 --> 00:48:34,278 - Oh, really? 1157 00:48:34,345 --> 00:48:37,815 - It was small, but there was, like, a huge bed 1158 00:48:37,882 --> 00:48:39,850 in the middle just, like, with all these, 1159 00:48:39,917 --> 00:48:42,052 like, cute blankets and stuff, but... 1160 00:48:42,119 --> 00:48:43,521 - It sounds beautiful. 1161 00:48:43,587 --> 00:48:45,923 - It was really beautiful, like, you felt pretty remote. 1162 00:48:45,990 --> 00:48:47,825 - That's cool. 1163 00:48:49,326 --> 00:48:51,362 - Yeah, so... 1164 00:48:52,797 --> 00:48:56,767 - She got bed-head. - Yeah. 1165 00:48:56,834 --> 00:48:59,537 This is always a mess. 1166 00:49:02,273 --> 00:49:04,675 Is it okay? - Mm-hmm. 1167 00:49:06,343 --> 00:49:08,813 I'm just, like, kind of freaking out. 1168 00:49:08,879 --> 00:49:11,649 I'm in the dark. I don't know what happened. 1169 00:49:11,715 --> 00:49:16,487 Nobody's, like, sharing what he's expressed to them. 1170 00:49:18,556 --> 00:49:21,792 Like, it's very possible that Clayton's either, like, 1171 00:49:21,859 --> 00:49:23,260 falling in love with somebody else 1172 00:49:23,327 --> 00:49:26,163 or has been, like, physically intimate 1173 00:49:26,230 --> 00:49:27,898 with somebody else and, like, 1174 00:49:27,965 --> 00:49:30,568 just ready to know, like, if... 1175 00:49:30,634 --> 00:49:33,504 Clayton and I are moving forward. 1176 00:49:33,571 --> 00:49:40,611 ♪ ♪ 1177 00:49:44,148 --> 00:49:46,383 I don't want to cry. 1178 00:49:48,319 --> 00:49:50,454 There's no reason to be crying. I don't know anything. 1179 00:49:50,521 --> 00:49:51,956 Like, I literally don't know. 1180 00:49:52,022 --> 00:49:56,594 But, like, at this point, it's all confusing. 1181 00:49:56,660 --> 00:49:58,929 I just want to get to the bottom of everything. 1182 00:49:58,996 --> 00:50:06,003 ♪ ♪ 1183 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,341 - Last night, it felt like a dream, 1184 00:50:10,407 --> 00:50:13,844 the whole night did, the morning did. 1185 00:50:13,911 --> 00:50:15,679 And then, all of a sudden, 1186 00:50:15,746 --> 00:50:18,115 everything came crashing back in. 1187 00:50:21,185 --> 00:50:22,620 I've now realized I've told two women 1188 00:50:22,686 --> 00:50:24,355 I'm in love with them. 1189 00:50:24,421 --> 00:50:28,125 I also know that I could feel that way with Susie. 1190 00:50:28,192 --> 00:50:31,095 And so now, a thousand percent, 1191 00:50:31,161 --> 00:50:33,998 I'm going to absolutely shatter somebody. 1192 00:50:36,433 --> 00:50:38,636 Like, I just don't want to hurt anybody... 1193 00:50:43,574 --> 00:50:45,643 And I'm going to. 1194 00:50:46,810 --> 00:50:49,446 Like, I wanted to fall in love, but I just 1195 00:50:49,513 --> 00:50:52,082 didn't want to fall in love with multiple people. 1196 00:50:52,149 --> 00:50:55,119 [tense music] 1197 00:50:55,185 --> 00:51:01,959 ♪ ♪ 1198 00:51:03,327 --> 00:51:06,263 [dramatic music] 1199 00:51:07,197 --> 00:51:14,204 ♪ ♪ 1200 00:51:14,371 --> 00:51:16,407 - It's absolutely crazy to think that 1201 00:51:16,473 --> 00:51:18,375 I could be in love with three women. 1202 00:51:18,442 --> 00:51:20,744 I'm just very confused. 1203 00:51:20,811 --> 00:51:23,314 I told Rachel that I was in love. 1204 00:51:23,380 --> 00:51:25,649 Gabby, I told her I was in love with her. 1205 00:51:25,716 --> 00:51:28,285 And then today is the overnight date with Susie. 1206 00:51:28,352 --> 00:51:29,987 I'm so excited. 1207 00:51:30,054 --> 00:51:32,790 This is, you know, someone that really was 1208 00:51:32,856 --> 00:51:37,261 the first person that I started to have feelings of love for. 1209 00:51:37,328 --> 00:51:39,363 And I just hope that when I'm with her today 1210 00:51:39,430 --> 00:51:43,000 that we can continue to, like, pick up where we left off. 1211 00:51:43,067 --> 00:51:48,005 ♪ ♪ 1212 00:51:48,072 --> 00:51:50,941 - This whole week has been one of the most challenging 1213 00:51:51,008 --> 00:51:52,543 in my life. 1214 00:51:52,610 --> 00:51:54,044 I'm just in a dark place. 1215 00:51:54,111 --> 00:51:56,981 I just want to get to the bottom of everything. 1216 00:51:59,450 --> 00:52:02,286 It's very possible that he is falling in love 1217 00:52:02,353 --> 00:52:04,822 with the other women. 1218 00:52:04,888 --> 00:52:06,457 I'm, like, struggling emotionally, 1219 00:52:06,523 --> 00:52:08,392 but at the same time, like, 1220 00:52:08,459 --> 00:52:10,995 I'm not taking on the assumption of anything 1221 00:52:11,061 --> 00:52:13,297 at this point. 1222 00:52:13,364 --> 00:52:16,867 I'm going to go into the date obviously hoping for the best 1223 00:52:16,934 --> 00:52:18,235 and, like, hoping that I've just been, like, 1224 00:52:18,302 --> 00:52:21,372 worked up and, like, distraught over this for no reason. 1225 00:52:21,438 --> 00:52:23,440 So I just hope I can be comfortable 1226 00:52:23,507 --> 00:52:24,742 and, like, relax today. 1227 00:52:24,808 --> 00:52:29,647 [wind whistling] 1228 00:52:32,483 --> 00:52:33,851 - [laughs] 1229 00:52:33,917 --> 00:52:36,186 - I can't even do anything. 1230 00:52:36,253 --> 00:52:39,390 - Are you gonna make it here? - I can't even make this cute! 1231 00:52:41,525 --> 00:52:42,860 This is too crazy! 1232 00:52:42,926 --> 00:52:44,028 - Do the jump. 1233 00:52:44,094 --> 00:52:46,664 - No. How's it going? 1234 00:52:46,730 --> 00:52:48,365 - [laughing] Good. 1235 00:52:49,500 --> 00:52:52,936 - I can't do it, but I'm happy to see you. 1236 00:52:54,405 --> 00:52:57,608 Oh, my God, it's hailing! What's happening here? 1237 00:52:57,675 --> 00:52:59,176 - Well, welcome to Iceland. 1238 00:52:59,243 --> 00:53:01,612 I am so excited to be here with you, 1239 00:53:01,679 --> 00:53:04,281 and my only question is, do you have a swimsuit? 1240 00:53:04,348 --> 00:53:05,482 - Yes. - Okay. 1241 00:53:05,549 --> 00:53:07,651 All right, well, let's go. - Okay, let's go. 1242 00:53:07,718 --> 00:53:09,453 - I'm really excited. 1243 00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:11,321 We have a really fun day planned 1244 00:53:11,388 --> 00:53:14,091 that's going to really allow us to see Iceland 1245 00:53:14,158 --> 00:53:15,859 and what it's really known for. 1246 00:53:15,926 --> 00:53:17,594 - I'm ready to go inside. 1247 00:53:17,661 --> 00:53:18,862 - What do you think we're doing? 1248 00:53:18,929 --> 00:53:19,963 - I don't know, this looks like a-- 1249 00:53:20,030 --> 00:53:20,964 - What does this look like to you? 1250 00:53:21,031 --> 00:53:23,400 - A hobbit hole, but like modern. 1251 00:53:23,467 --> 00:53:26,336 - Today we'll be going to the Sky Lagoon, 1252 00:53:26,403 --> 00:53:29,506 which is a hot springs. 1253 00:53:29,573 --> 00:53:31,175 So there's a ritual at the lagoon 1254 00:53:31,241 --> 00:53:34,578 to kind of go through different steps of a process towards, 1255 00:53:34,645 --> 00:53:36,513 like, really full rejuvenation. 1256 00:53:36,580 --> 00:53:39,049 - I feel better inside already. 1257 00:53:39,116 --> 00:53:40,217 - Hi, guys. - Hi! 1258 00:53:40,284 --> 00:53:41,518 - As you may have heard, 1259 00:53:41,585 --> 00:53:43,587 Iceland is known for its geothermal waters. 1260 00:53:43,654 --> 00:53:46,523 Today, you'll get to experience it together, to heal your mind 1261 00:53:46,590 --> 00:53:49,359 and body, and bring you closer together on your journey. 1262 00:53:49,426 --> 00:53:51,361 Once you go in the change room and get ready, 1263 00:53:51,428 --> 00:53:53,530 you'll warm up and then you'll cool down a little bit 1264 00:53:53,597 --> 00:53:54,531 and have fun. 1265 00:53:54,598 --> 00:53:56,200 - Thank you. - Thank you. 1266 00:53:56,266 --> 00:53:58,569 - It's safe to say that the water that's-- 1267 00:53:58,635 --> 00:54:00,170 that'll be steamy today. 1268 00:54:00,237 --> 00:54:03,307 I imagine the chemistry between Susie and I 1269 00:54:03,373 --> 00:54:05,743 will also be right there with it. 1270 00:54:05,809 --> 00:54:08,178 - Oh, my gosh! - Cold mist. 1271 00:54:08,245 --> 00:54:09,480 - Cold mist? 1272 00:54:09,546 --> 00:54:11,281 Clayton! 1273 00:54:11,348 --> 00:54:13,450 What've you got me into? 1274 00:54:13,517 --> 00:54:16,386 Okay, ah, how long do we stay in here? 1275 00:54:16,453 --> 00:54:18,255 - How long? - Yeah? 1276 00:54:18,322 --> 00:54:24,128 The cold room, mm-mm. This is brutal. 1277 00:54:24,194 --> 00:54:25,729 - I feel like it's getting better, no? 1278 00:54:25,796 --> 00:54:28,365 - Is it? Are your toes not freezing? 1279 00:54:28,432 --> 00:54:30,267 - Are you feeling like you got another minute in you? 1280 00:54:30,334 --> 00:54:31,769 - I'm cold, I don't know, maybe 30 seconds. 1281 00:54:31,835 --> 00:54:33,637 - 30 seconds, okay. 1282 00:54:33,704 --> 00:54:34,772 - I was, like, struggling at first just 'cause 1283 00:54:34,838 --> 00:54:36,774 I was so cold and, like, so nervous. 1284 00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:38,342 Ahh! 1285 00:54:38,408 --> 00:54:42,246 Ah, oh, my God! 1286 00:54:42,312 --> 00:54:44,248 What in the hell? 1287 00:54:44,314 --> 00:54:45,716 Okay, it feels much better in here. 1288 00:54:45,783 --> 00:54:48,218 We're just going from hot to cold, and hot to cold. 1289 00:54:48,285 --> 00:54:51,121 I have no idea what I'm getting myself into. 1290 00:54:51,188 --> 00:54:52,623 This is crazy. 1291 00:54:52,689 --> 00:54:54,625 Maybe this is like my relationship with Clayton. 1292 00:54:54,691 --> 00:54:55,726 - Oh, it's cold. 1293 00:54:58,095 --> 00:55:00,364 - Oh, my gosh, okay. - All right, ready--oh! 1294 00:55:00,430 --> 00:55:02,833 - Ah! Okay, I'm done! 1295 00:55:03,867 --> 00:55:06,904 I did it. Come on! 1296 00:55:06,970 --> 00:55:08,739 It, like, took me a minute to, like, get my bearings. 1297 00:55:08,806 --> 00:55:11,041 I was, like, kind of feeling nervous going into the day. 1298 00:55:11,108 --> 00:55:15,412 And then there was my, like, dark mindset. 1299 00:55:15,479 --> 00:55:18,148 But I'm just like, can I be present right now? 1300 00:55:18,215 --> 00:55:20,818 Ooh, this is nice. - Yeah? 1301 00:55:20,884 --> 00:55:23,420 - Yeah. - Don't lose your balance here. 1302 00:55:23,487 --> 00:55:27,257 This firm--firm base. - Okay, really get in there. 1303 00:55:29,326 --> 00:55:32,429 It feels nice to be in there together and, like, be playful. 1304 00:55:34,698 --> 00:55:37,868 Strong legs, strong man. 1305 00:55:39,436 --> 00:55:44,908 Clayton's shirtless, looking good, looking hot. 1306 00:55:47,744 --> 00:55:48,946 - Oh, did you? - Yeah. 1307 00:55:49,012 --> 00:55:51,481 - Do you need to get more salt off, is that right? 1308 00:55:51,548 --> 00:55:54,017 Oh, yeah, I think there's a little salt on your butt too. 1309 00:55:54,084 --> 00:55:55,352 - Oh, no, it's fine. 1310 00:55:55,419 --> 00:55:57,487 [laughter] 1311 00:55:57,554 --> 00:56:02,926 ♪ ♪ 1312 00:56:02,993 --> 00:56:05,562 - It's been such an emotional week 1313 00:56:05,629 --> 00:56:07,931 and I was, like, kind of feeling nervous. 1314 00:56:08,732 --> 00:56:13,503 But to finally see Clayton and, like, feel his energy, 1315 00:56:13,570 --> 00:56:16,139 this guy that I'm falling in love with... 1316 00:56:20,010 --> 00:56:22,613 I just feel so reassured of, like, my connection 1317 00:56:22,679 --> 00:56:25,682 with him and, like, how strongly I'm feeling for him. 1318 00:56:25,749 --> 00:56:28,919 This was fun. - It really was, yeah. 1319 00:56:28,986 --> 00:56:31,221 - This was really cool and so beautiful. 1320 00:56:31,288 --> 00:56:33,323 - Like, for me, I was obviously looking forward 1321 00:56:33,390 --> 00:56:36,059 to this and--and being back in the know. 1322 00:56:36,126 --> 00:56:38,595 - Right? - Let's highlight that again. 1323 00:56:38,662 --> 00:56:41,665 - Me too, for all I know, you could be gone by now. 1324 00:56:41,732 --> 00:56:43,200 - It was like a week, I was like, uh-oh. 1325 00:56:43,267 --> 00:56:44,668 - It's been so long. 1326 00:56:44,735 --> 00:56:46,403 - How does she feel? It's been a while. 1327 00:56:46,470 --> 00:56:47,938 - It's been a minute. 1328 00:56:48,005 --> 00:56:50,073 I definitely was feeling, like, a little bit, like, nervous. 1329 00:56:50,140 --> 00:56:51,742 And I feel like I haven't really felt 1330 00:56:51,808 --> 00:56:53,577 super nervous around you in a while. 1331 00:56:53,644 --> 00:56:55,579 Like, I still feel like giddy and, like, 1332 00:56:55,646 --> 00:56:58,615 excited and stuff, but, like, nerves have kind of subdued, 1333 00:56:58,682 --> 00:57:00,884 but, of course, like, as soon as I saw you, 1334 00:57:00,951 --> 00:57:02,753 once we got through the wind tunnel. 1335 00:57:02,819 --> 00:57:04,421 - Once you came back down-- 1336 00:57:04,488 --> 00:57:07,024 - And the cold bath and the other cold things. 1337 00:57:07,090 --> 00:57:08,191 - Yeah, once we got-- 1338 00:57:08,258 --> 00:57:10,027 - Everything, I mean, yeah, I'm, like, 1339 00:57:10,093 --> 00:57:12,095 so happy to be here and move forward. 1340 00:57:12,162 --> 00:57:13,630 - I mean, I totally get that. 1341 00:57:13,697 --> 00:57:15,465 I definitely felt the nerves too, just because, again, 1342 00:57:15,532 --> 00:57:16,967 I was like, wow, it's been, like, 1343 00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:18,669 a substantial amount of time and I was like, I don't know, 1344 00:57:18,735 --> 00:57:21,505 I just want to make sure obviously that everything is 1345 00:57:21,571 --> 00:57:24,007 just as--kind of, like, how it was--last--last was. 1346 00:57:24,074 --> 00:57:25,776 - For sure. 1347 00:57:25,842 --> 00:57:28,779 [warm music] 1348 00:57:28,845 --> 00:57:32,249 ♪ ♪ 1349 00:57:32,316 --> 00:57:35,252 Today was incredible, like, on so many levels. 1350 00:57:35,319 --> 00:57:37,554 Oh, it feels so nice. 1351 00:57:38,889 --> 00:57:40,157 Whoo! 1352 00:57:40,223 --> 00:57:42,793 I feel rejuvenated, and I feel good. 1353 00:57:42,859 --> 00:57:43,894 I'm so happy. 1354 00:57:45,729 --> 00:57:48,065 I can see Clayton as somebody to start a family with 1355 00:57:48,131 --> 00:57:50,100 and spend a life with. 1356 00:57:50,167 --> 00:57:51,935 Like, I can totally see that. 1357 00:57:52,002 --> 00:57:53,570 Ah! 1358 00:57:53,637 --> 00:57:54,805 ♪ ♪ 1359 00:57:54,871 --> 00:57:56,340 Obviously I have so many questions 1360 00:57:56,406 --> 00:57:59,676 I still need answered, but, like, I feel hopeful. 1361 00:57:59,743 --> 00:58:02,913 At this point, like, I'm so all in with Clayton. 1362 00:58:02,980 --> 00:58:07,484 ♪ ♪ 1363 00:58:07,551 --> 00:58:09,586 - The date was perfect. 1364 00:58:09,653 --> 00:58:13,056 It feels like we picked up right where we left off. 1365 00:58:13,123 --> 00:58:14,524 Like, when I'm with Susie, it's like I'm just beaming 1366 00:58:14,591 --> 00:58:16,126 with energy and I always just want to, like, 1367 00:58:16,193 --> 00:58:19,296 be next to her and, like, you can't hide that. 1368 00:58:19,363 --> 00:58:21,398 [laughter] 1369 00:58:21,465 --> 00:58:23,433 - The love for her is on another level. 1370 00:58:25,469 --> 00:58:28,005 I have every intention of telling Susie tonight 1371 00:58:28,071 --> 00:58:29,840 that I'm in love with her. 1372 00:58:29,906 --> 00:58:32,442 The expectations are through the roof tonight. 1373 00:58:36,113 --> 00:58:39,149 [wind howling] 1374 00:58:45,455 --> 00:58:47,057 - I'm so excited. 1375 00:58:47,124 --> 00:58:49,760 This is a day that will change everything, 1376 00:58:49,826 --> 00:58:51,361 potentially. 1377 00:58:51,428 --> 00:58:54,664 Tonight at dinner, I'm going to tell Susie 1378 00:58:54,731 --> 00:58:57,601 that I am in love with her. 1379 00:58:57,667 --> 00:58:59,736 Now that I've really addressed my emotions 1380 00:58:59,803 --> 00:59:02,272 the last week as a whole, you know, 1381 00:59:02,339 --> 00:59:04,641 it's so easy for me to come to the conclusion 1382 00:59:04,708 --> 00:59:06,610 that this wasn't a matter of, like, falling in love. 1383 00:59:06,676 --> 00:59:08,412 I was past that point. 1384 00:59:08,478 --> 00:59:10,680 The anticipation is killing me. 1385 00:59:10,747 --> 00:59:12,816 There's no doubt in my mind, 1386 00:59:12,883 --> 00:59:17,854 this is the biggest night of this entire journey. 1387 00:59:17,921 --> 00:59:20,857 [soft music] 1388 00:59:20,924 --> 00:59:23,126 ♪ ♪ 1389 00:59:23,193 --> 00:59:24,961 - Today was very special. 1390 00:59:25,028 --> 00:59:28,265 I felt like Clayton really made me feel, 1391 00:59:28,331 --> 00:59:31,001 like, secure in my connection with him. 1392 00:59:31,068 --> 00:59:32,502 This night could be, like, one of the most 1393 00:59:32,569 --> 00:59:34,504 incredible nights of my life and it could show me 1394 00:59:34,571 --> 00:59:36,740 everything that I need to know and, like, 1395 00:59:36,807 --> 00:59:40,811 move forward with him and start a future with him. 1396 00:59:40,877 --> 00:59:46,817 ♪ ♪ 1397 00:59:48,685 --> 00:59:49,753 - Hello! 1398 00:59:49,820 --> 00:59:51,088 - Susie, you look beautiful. 1399 00:59:51,154 --> 00:59:54,324 - How's it going? Thank you, you look handsome. 1400 00:59:55,158 --> 00:59:57,727 I do have such a strong connection with Clayton 1401 00:59:57,794 --> 01:00:00,497 and I can see him as a future husband 1402 01:00:00,564 --> 01:00:01,932 and somebody that I start a family with. 1403 01:00:01,998 --> 01:00:03,967 Thank you. 1404 01:00:04,034 --> 01:00:06,770 But I still have questions going into tonight. 1405 01:00:06,837 --> 01:00:08,772 I know how I feel about him, but I don't know 1406 01:00:08,839 --> 01:00:11,041 where he is with everybody else. 1407 01:00:11,108 --> 01:00:13,643 And I know what I'm not willing to compromise on, 1408 01:00:13,710 --> 01:00:16,880 so tonight is going to be a really big step for us. 1409 01:00:16,947 --> 01:00:21,518 - We are in Iceland, which is absolutely wild to me. 1410 01:00:21,585 --> 01:00:23,720 - Mm-hmm. 1411 01:00:23,787 --> 01:00:26,857 - And everything that we went through, 1412 01:00:26,923 --> 01:00:29,626 I mean, like, it's like we've had so many experiences, 1413 01:00:29,693 --> 01:00:33,130 so many first times, and you make it easy 1414 01:00:33,196 --> 01:00:38,702 to embrace all the-- all the wild things we've done. 1415 01:00:38,768 --> 01:00:40,504 I mean-- - It's been so fun. 1416 01:00:40,570 --> 01:00:44,608 - Yeah, the biggest moment for me 1417 01:00:44,674 --> 01:00:47,644 was in Croatia. 1418 01:00:47,711 --> 01:00:49,446 - For sure. 1419 01:00:49,513 --> 01:00:51,148 - At the top of the clock tower, like, 1420 01:00:51,214 --> 01:00:54,050 for you to tell me that you were falling in love with me, 1421 01:00:54,117 --> 01:00:58,622 like, I hadn't felt that in--for so--in so long. 1422 01:00:58,688 --> 01:01:00,657 It's like I almost just forgot what it felt like. 1423 01:01:00,724 --> 01:01:02,893 And when you said it, I just remember I was, 1424 01:01:02,959 --> 01:01:05,128 like, beaming, like, ear to ear, I was so happy. 1425 01:01:05,195 --> 01:01:06,863 It was like one of the happiest moments 1426 01:01:06,930 --> 01:01:08,932 I've had in a long time. 1427 01:01:08,999 --> 01:01:10,767 But I kind of walked away from it and was like, 1428 01:01:10,834 --> 01:01:12,469 okay, what is this I'm feeling? 1429 01:01:14,304 --> 01:01:16,806 Since that point, I've had a lot of time 1430 01:01:16,873 --> 01:01:20,243 to think about it and... 1431 01:01:20,310 --> 01:01:22,112 the more that we've, like, spent time together, 1432 01:01:22,179 --> 01:01:24,714 and spending time with your family, 1433 01:01:24,781 --> 01:01:27,951 I realized, like, how serious things were getting. 1434 01:01:28,051 --> 01:01:30,554 And, you know, the more I thought about it, 1435 01:01:30,620 --> 01:01:33,156 I realized that it was, like, that night, 1436 01:01:33,223 --> 01:01:35,792 I was also falling in love with you. 1437 01:01:35,859 --> 01:01:39,362 You've made me feel what I haven't felt in so long 1438 01:01:39,429 --> 01:01:42,499 and it's so exciting when I finally allowed myself 1439 01:01:42,566 --> 01:01:44,134 to open up and feel those feelings 1440 01:01:44,201 --> 01:01:46,203 and acknowledge them because I think I was trying to 1441 01:01:46,269 --> 01:01:49,806 avoid them just because of how much I was hurt in the past. 1442 01:01:49,873 --> 01:01:52,742 And I had my own walls up. 1443 01:01:52,809 --> 01:01:58,014 And I was so afraid to admit it, 1444 01:01:58,081 --> 01:02:02,452 but since that point, like, it's no longer about me 1445 01:02:02,519 --> 01:02:06,223 falling in love with you, like, I am in love with you. 1446 01:02:06,289 --> 01:02:07,891 - Oh, my gosh. 1447 01:02:07,958 --> 01:02:11,261 - And I've wanted to tell you. 1448 01:02:11,328 --> 01:02:14,197 It scared me to think, like, the longer I wait, 1449 01:02:14,264 --> 01:02:15,532 like, she doesn't know how I feel. 1450 01:02:15,599 --> 01:02:18,835 Like, I want her to know and so-- 1451 01:02:18,902 --> 01:02:20,337 it's a lot, I know, right? 1452 01:02:20,403 --> 01:02:22,872 But I haven't--the thing is, like, I just hadn't told you 1453 01:02:22,939 --> 01:02:25,442 anything on my side and you were so patient. 1454 01:02:25,508 --> 01:02:29,779 So I have been waiting to tell you, and I was so excited, 1455 01:02:29,846 --> 01:02:32,749 and this just felt like the perfect time. 1456 01:02:32,816 --> 01:02:36,152 - Well, I, like, appreciate you telling me. 1457 01:02:36,219 --> 01:02:38,355 I honestly, like, didn't expect to hear that. 1458 01:02:38,421 --> 01:02:41,591 I've been very much, like, in this with you for sure. 1459 01:02:41,658 --> 01:02:44,728 Like, you know how I feel. Like, I adore you. 1460 01:02:44,794 --> 01:02:48,231 Like, I think you're incredible, but... 1461 01:02:48,298 --> 01:02:50,967 there are things, like, in knowing that there's 1462 01:02:51,034 --> 01:02:54,638 an engagement, like, literally in a week, like, 1463 01:02:54,704 --> 01:02:56,606 there are things that I feel like I can't compromise 1464 01:02:56,673 --> 01:03:01,444 and, like, tonight, like, I feel uncomfortable. 1465 01:03:01,511 --> 01:03:03,513 Like, I feel like I don't want to even, 1466 01:03:03,580 --> 01:03:04,914 like, have this conversation. 1467 01:03:04,981 --> 01:03:07,017 But I do feel like I have to tell you kind of, like, 1468 01:03:07,083 --> 01:03:09,419 where I'm at with, like, my expectations 1469 01:03:09,486 --> 01:03:13,690 that I'm not willing to, like, let go of in this. 1470 01:03:13,757 --> 01:03:15,492 I know you just told me that, like, you feel like 1471 01:03:15,558 --> 01:03:18,295 you're in love with me, but I don't know, like, 1472 01:03:18,361 --> 01:03:22,599 do you feel that same way with somebody else? 1473 01:03:22,666 --> 01:03:27,637 Or have you, like, slept with another woman? 1474 01:03:27,704 --> 01:03:31,174 Like, those are things that, like, I think would be, like, 1475 01:03:31,241 --> 01:03:34,144 impossible to move forward towards an engagement. 1476 01:03:37,747 --> 01:03:41,451 If I'm sharing your love with somebody else, 1477 01:03:41,518 --> 01:03:47,390 I don't think that I would be comfortable, like... 1478 01:03:50,527 --> 01:03:56,132 - I guess my--you know, what--what... 1479 01:03:56,199 --> 01:04:01,738 I mean, I understand, like, that thought process, 1480 01:04:01,805 --> 01:04:04,107 and it is-- like, for me, I think 1481 01:04:04,174 --> 01:04:06,376 the big thing that I'm shocked at is, 1482 01:04:06,443 --> 01:04:09,646 like, you did say to, like, explore, like, 1483 01:04:09,713 --> 01:04:14,551 the relationships, and I thought, like, 1484 01:04:14,617 --> 01:04:16,052 when we talked, it was about, you know, like, 1485 01:04:16,119 --> 01:04:17,587 saying, like, I want you to explore 1486 01:04:17,654 --> 01:04:20,323 and I don't want to be the default at the end of it. 1487 01:04:20,390 --> 01:04:22,192 - Yeah. - Like, I want you to pick me 1488 01:04:22,258 --> 01:04:23,660 for me, and... 1489 01:04:26,196 --> 01:04:28,198 So I want to... 1490 01:04:32,869 --> 01:04:34,371 To answer your question, yes. 1491 01:04:34,437 --> 01:04:39,776 Like, I have slept with someone else here and... 1492 01:04:41,878 --> 01:04:44,180 Yes, I've expressed feelings towards someone else 1493 01:04:44,247 --> 01:04:46,449 of falling in love. 1494 01:04:54,958 --> 01:04:56,459 - If you feel like you're in love with me, 1495 01:04:56,526 --> 01:04:59,028 like, it doesn't, like, make sense to me 1496 01:04:59,095 --> 01:05:00,597 to, like, sleep with somebody else. 1497 01:05:00,663 --> 01:05:02,465 Like, those are, like, the two things where I'm, 1498 01:05:02,532 --> 01:05:04,334 like, feeling strong. 1499 01:05:04,401 --> 01:05:06,870 Like, coming into tonight and, like, moving forward, 1500 01:05:06,936 --> 01:05:09,706 I don't think I would feel comfortable. 1501 01:05:09,773 --> 01:05:12,208 - Like, I told myself coming in this that I wouldn't 1502 01:05:12,275 --> 01:05:13,643 fall in love with multiple women, 1503 01:05:13,710 --> 01:05:17,147 but it's happened, and what I can tell you, though, 1504 01:05:17,213 --> 01:05:20,283 is that, where I stand, 1505 01:05:20,350 --> 01:05:22,619 there's different feelings for different people. 1506 01:05:22,685 --> 01:05:26,322 It's not--like, with you, I feel way different 1507 01:05:26,389 --> 01:05:27,757 than I feel with somebody else. 1508 01:05:27,824 --> 01:05:32,028 And I can promise you, like, that it's very special, 1509 01:05:32,095 --> 01:05:33,596 where we're at. 1510 01:05:33,663 --> 01:05:35,899 - I didn't go into this assuming that it was 1511 01:05:35,965 --> 01:05:39,636 gonna be me at the end of this, or even this week, but like, 1512 01:05:39,702 --> 01:05:43,072 I thought, like, certainly, if he knows or hopes, like, 1513 01:05:43,139 --> 01:05:44,808 has like an inkling of, like, a feeling of like, 1514 01:05:44,874 --> 01:05:47,544 I hope that it's Susie, like, I would--like, 1515 01:05:47,610 --> 01:05:49,612 I hoped that you would like protect me in that 1516 01:05:49,679 --> 01:05:51,381 and, like... 1517 01:05:51,448 --> 01:05:55,351 and I know that's maybe cutting your experience short as well, 1518 01:05:55,418 --> 01:05:56,686 but I didn't want to ask you to do that. 1519 01:05:56,753 --> 01:05:58,221 I just, like, if that were the case, like, 1520 01:05:58,288 --> 01:06:02,425 I would have hoped, like, that would have been your action. 1521 01:06:04,260 --> 01:06:07,397 - I hope that, like, you can see that, like, 1522 01:06:07,464 --> 01:06:08,765 everything that we went through 1523 01:06:08,832 --> 01:06:12,101 was so very real and so authentic. 1524 01:06:12,168 --> 01:06:16,039 And, like, I don't want you to, like, 1525 01:06:16,105 --> 01:06:20,743 just give up and walk away on this because of that. 1526 01:06:20,810 --> 01:06:23,012 Like, I mean to hear you say, like, you don't know 1527 01:06:23,079 --> 01:06:24,948 if you can continue forward, it just like--it's, like, 1528 01:06:25,014 --> 01:06:26,282 it's the worst thing I could have heard. 1529 01:06:26,349 --> 01:06:28,885 - Yeah. - And, like, I have 1530 01:06:28,952 --> 01:06:31,554 such strong feelings for you, like, very strong feelings. 1531 01:06:31,621 --> 01:06:34,457 And I can tell you that, like, right now, like, 1532 01:06:34,524 --> 01:06:36,559 I am the most in love with you. 1533 01:06:36,626 --> 01:06:39,496 And--and I really felt that, it's like, 1534 01:06:39,562 --> 01:06:41,331 this could be it, like... 1535 01:06:41,397 --> 01:06:43,032 - Like, I mean, honestly, to hear all this, like, 1536 01:06:43,099 --> 01:06:46,236 makes it so much worse, like, makes me feel worse and, like, 1537 01:06:46,302 --> 01:06:50,273 makes me more sad, like, for all of it because, like... 1538 01:06:52,342 --> 01:06:55,278 Like, I honestly, like, don't feel like I knew 1539 01:06:55,345 --> 01:06:59,182 how strongly you felt as well and I didn't want--like, 1540 01:06:59,249 --> 01:07:00,683 I really didn't want to give you an ultimatum, 1541 01:07:00,750 --> 01:07:02,986 I really didn't want to say, like, I can't move forward 1542 01:07:03,052 --> 01:07:05,154 if you sleep with other people because I don't--I didn't 1543 01:07:05,221 --> 01:07:08,992 want you to cut yourself short in this process, and like... 1544 01:07:11,828 --> 01:07:13,863 It's like, it's heartbreaking to hear, like... 1545 01:07:13,930 --> 01:07:15,431 [sniffling] 1546 01:07:16,833 --> 01:07:19,102 It sucks because, like, I do feel, like, 1547 01:07:19,168 --> 01:07:20,503 so strongly about you. 1548 01:07:20,570 --> 01:07:23,139 And I feel like you're this incredible person that's, 1549 01:07:23,206 --> 01:07:25,975 like, shocked me in so many ways, like, 1550 01:07:26,042 --> 01:07:30,280 come into my life and been, like, so wonderful. 1551 01:07:30,346 --> 01:07:32,916 You've reassured, like, my ability to know that 1552 01:07:32,982 --> 01:07:34,083 there's, like, good men out there. 1553 01:07:34,150 --> 01:07:35,351 Like, I don't know, like, I've had 1554 01:07:35,418 --> 01:07:37,620 some bad experiences. 1555 01:07:37,687 --> 01:07:42,058 But this is something, like, very big to me. 1556 01:07:42,125 --> 01:07:45,695 And, like, I don't think I can get past those things 1557 01:07:45,762 --> 01:07:50,767 and, like--like, I don't--I just don't think I can, and... 1558 01:07:52,902 --> 01:07:54,337 - I... 1559 01:07:56,406 --> 01:07:57,473 - I know, like... 1560 01:07:57,540 --> 01:08:01,244 - No, it's just, like, it's because... 1561 01:08:06,482 --> 01:08:08,518 I feel like I did what I did, 1562 01:08:08,585 --> 01:08:12,088 but had I known how important that was to you, 1563 01:08:12,155 --> 01:08:13,790 that that was literally a deal-breaker, 1564 01:08:13,856 --> 01:08:15,992 I would have changed the way that I approached things 1565 01:08:16,059 --> 01:08:17,760 because I know what we have. 1566 01:08:17,827 --> 01:08:19,896 I mean, I'm sorry that I went and did that, like, 1567 01:08:19,963 --> 01:08:23,032 I ask for your forgiveness because, like, I don't want 1568 01:08:23,099 --> 01:08:25,768 to throw something away that we have that I feel so sure about. 1569 01:08:25,835 --> 01:08:28,237 I do love you and I--like, 1570 01:08:28,304 --> 01:08:30,239 I didn't--like, I'm not expecting you to say it back, 1571 01:08:30,306 --> 01:08:32,175 but like, I would hope that, like, 1572 01:08:32,241 --> 01:08:34,677 what we have is something that's worth fighting for. 1573 01:08:36,746 --> 01:08:38,481 - I don't know, like-- like, I think one of 1574 01:08:38,548 --> 01:08:39,949 my biggest fears, like, in telling you, 1575 01:08:40,016 --> 01:08:42,418 like, go explore other relationships is that, like, 1576 01:08:42,485 --> 01:08:44,787 I didn't want to have to share, like, your heart or your love. 1577 01:08:44,854 --> 01:08:46,756 And I know you're saying, like, you would be able to, 1578 01:08:46,823 --> 01:08:48,625 like, close that off. 1579 01:08:48,691 --> 01:08:53,896 But it still feels like I need somebody who would have... 1580 01:08:55,498 --> 01:08:57,367 I don't know, like thought through that. 1581 01:08:57,433 --> 01:08:58,668 I don't--I don't know, like... 1582 01:08:58,735 --> 01:09:00,470 - A relationship isn't easy, and there are times 1583 01:09:00,536 --> 01:09:02,538 where you have--you go through those challenging times, 1584 01:09:02,605 --> 01:09:04,641 and it's like, is it worth fighting for? 1585 01:09:04,707 --> 01:09:07,043 Because you feel that that person, like, 1586 01:09:07,110 --> 01:09:09,178 is special and you don't want to lose them. 1587 01:09:09,245 --> 01:09:11,881 Let's work through it, like, that's what a relationship is, 1588 01:09:11,948 --> 01:09:14,817 it's working through the hard times, because this isn't-- 1589 01:09:14,884 --> 01:09:17,253 - I'm hearing, like, every word you're saying, for sure. 1590 01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:21,290 And I just, like, feel terrible in general, but I don't know, 1591 01:09:21,357 --> 01:09:23,860 like, I don't know if I can get through this, like... 1592 01:09:23,926 --> 01:09:26,562 - But, do you--I mean, would any of this, like, 1593 01:09:26,629 --> 01:09:29,699 being able to talk through it, like, to me, it's like, 1594 01:09:29,766 --> 01:09:31,901 worth spending an extra seven hours talking through 1595 01:09:31,968 --> 01:09:34,137 everything and seeing if this is worth it? 1596 01:09:34,203 --> 01:09:37,373 I mean like that's-- like, to me, like, 1597 01:09:37,440 --> 01:09:40,943 I feel like that is worth it, and... 1598 01:09:41,010 --> 01:09:43,046 - I agree, like, I do think we have something 1599 01:09:43,112 --> 01:09:44,681 special so I don't know, it's like--it's like, 1600 01:09:44,747 --> 01:09:47,383 I'm so confused, like, this is so confusing for me to be 1601 01:09:47,450 --> 01:09:51,421 in this situation because, like, I couldn't have imagined, 1602 01:09:51,487 --> 01:09:55,792 like, a scenario in which, like, you become physically 1603 01:09:55,858 --> 01:09:57,727 intimate with any other person and it's me at the end. 1604 01:09:57,794 --> 01:09:59,162 Like, I just--I... 1605 01:09:59,228 --> 01:10:00,563 - No one told me I had to go sleep with somebody, 1606 01:10:00,630 --> 01:10:03,733 okay, like I was in l--I was, you know, having feelings 1607 01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:05,334 of love with these-- with--with--with this-- 1608 01:10:05,401 --> 01:10:07,637 this person and I slept with them 1609 01:10:07,704 --> 01:10:09,739 because I love this person, 1610 01:10:09,806 --> 01:10:13,376 so I'm going to, like, see, like, how the physical 1611 01:10:13,443 --> 01:10:16,713 connection is because, like, you would just explore that. 1612 01:10:16,779 --> 01:10:18,147 If you were in love with somebody, then you would 1613 01:10:18,214 --> 01:10:19,782 explore that--it wasn't like I was just sleeping with 1614 01:10:19,849 --> 01:10:21,751 somebody because I'm like, they're here so I'm 1615 01:10:21,818 --> 01:10:23,252 just gonna sleep with them. - Right, I get that. 1616 01:10:23,319 --> 01:10:26,856 - So I--me sleeping with, like, with... 1617 01:10:27,857 --> 01:10:29,559 Both. - Mm-hmm. 1618 01:10:29,625 --> 01:10:32,161 - Was because I've somehow fallen in love 1619 01:10:32,228 --> 01:10:35,164 with three women, and it makes zero sense to me. 1620 01:10:35,231 --> 01:10:37,900 And, but the thing is, is it's, like, I literally 1621 01:10:37,967 --> 01:10:40,570 didn't understand how it could, and I freaked out, 1622 01:10:40,636 --> 01:10:42,739 and I cried about it, because I was like, 1623 01:10:42,805 --> 01:10:45,141 I'm going to hurt somebody and, like, this scares me. 1624 01:10:45,208 --> 01:10:46,676 But then I was like, you know what, like, 1625 01:10:46,743 --> 01:10:48,945 at the same time, I'm finding what I'm looking for here 1626 01:10:49,011 --> 01:10:50,146 and if I just continue to press forward 1627 01:10:50,213 --> 01:10:51,447 with the relationships I have, 1628 01:10:51,514 --> 01:10:53,316 like, I will walk out of here with one person 1629 01:10:53,382 --> 01:10:55,351 because they were the best person for me. 1630 01:10:55,418 --> 01:10:59,055 - I just feel like-- I don't know, I can't-- 1631 01:10:59,122 --> 01:11:01,457 I have been rationalizing, like, all week, like, 1632 01:11:01,524 --> 01:11:04,293 every possible way this could go and, like, 1633 01:11:04,360 --> 01:11:06,295 I don't think there's, like, a single scenario in which 1634 01:11:06,362 --> 01:11:08,698 those are true and, like, I can move forward. 1635 01:11:11,501 --> 01:11:13,736 - I'm a week out and this-- this is shattering me. 1636 01:11:13,803 --> 01:11:15,772 Like, it's like I look at it and I see you in front of me 1637 01:11:15,838 --> 01:11:16,973 and it's like, that's it. 1638 01:11:17,039 --> 01:11:18,841 Like, everything that we went through. 1639 01:11:18,908 --> 01:11:21,010 Like, you--if you--if you felt this strongly about this, 1640 01:11:21,077 --> 01:11:22,812 why wouldn't you have told me early on? 1641 01:11:22,879 --> 01:11:25,348 You let us get all the way to this point and then you just 1642 01:11:25,414 --> 01:11:27,583 let--you just--you just don't tell me until now 1643 01:11:27,650 --> 01:11:29,218 and it's after the fact, and you're like, 1644 01:11:29,285 --> 01:11:32,488 I'm not willing to forgive you, I can't--I can't move on? 1645 01:11:32,555 --> 01:11:33,723 How can you do that? 1646 01:11:33,790 --> 01:11:35,158 Like, after everything we went through, 1647 01:11:35,224 --> 01:11:38,127 after all the feelings and experiences that we've had, 1648 01:11:38,194 --> 01:11:39,529 how can you just straight up say 1649 01:11:39,595 --> 01:11:41,831 I can't move forward after all this, like-- 1650 01:11:41,898 --> 01:11:43,633 - I don't know, like, I'm very confused right now 1651 01:11:43,699 --> 01:11:46,402 and I don't know what to think. 1652 01:11:49,939 --> 01:11:51,474 - I-- 1653 01:11:54,410 --> 01:11:57,346 [dramatic music] 1654 01:11:57,413 --> 01:12:03,553 ♪ ♪ 1655 01:12:03,619 --> 01:12:05,688 I don't want to be [bleep], you know, like... 1656 01:12:05,755 --> 01:12:07,657 like, I understand everything he's saying, 1657 01:12:07,723 --> 01:12:10,760 like, I really do, and I, like, believe him. 1658 01:12:20,603 --> 01:12:22,271 I don't know what to do. 1659 01:12:23,906 --> 01:12:26,142 - This is exactly what I was afraid of. 1660 01:12:29,478 --> 01:12:31,581 I don't believe in anything anymore. 1661 01:12:32,415 --> 01:12:33,616 It's just, it's everything-- 1662 01:12:33,683 --> 01:12:36,886 everything is literally invalidated. 1663 01:12:38,087 --> 01:12:39,755 [sighs] 1664 01:12:39,822 --> 01:12:42,959 ♪ ♪ 1665 01:12:51,534 --> 01:12:53,169 - [sighs] 1666 01:12:56,906 --> 01:13:00,142 Jesse, how's it going? - You tell me, what's going on? 1667 01:13:01,944 --> 01:13:05,214 - I mean, I'm just absolutely blown away. 1668 01:13:05,281 --> 01:13:06,816 You know, Susie, just-- she asked me the question, 1669 01:13:06,883 --> 01:13:08,718 if you've slept with anybody, if you've fallen in love 1670 01:13:08,784 --> 01:13:11,921 with anybody else, then like, I can't continue. 1671 01:13:11,988 --> 01:13:14,490 If that was a deal-breaker to you, 1672 01:13:14,557 --> 01:13:16,525 then why would you not tell me that? 1673 01:13:16,592 --> 01:13:19,528 - [sniffling] I believe, like, everything he's saying 1674 01:13:19,595 --> 01:13:22,064 and, like, and I feel it and, like, and I don't know. 1675 01:13:22,131 --> 01:13:24,367 Like, maybe it is asking too much, but like, 1676 01:13:24,433 --> 01:13:26,402 at the same time, I'm not willing to accept it, 1677 01:13:26,469 --> 01:13:29,338 like, and I know that's, like, the truth for me. 1678 01:13:29,405 --> 01:13:31,073 But, like, it feels so awful. 1679 01:13:31,140 --> 01:13:33,509 Like, I feel so [bleep] right now. 1680 01:13:33,576 --> 01:13:35,811 - I mean, hopefully she comes back and she's like, 1681 01:13:35,878 --> 01:13:39,548 okay, like, I thought about it and let's talk it out. 1682 01:13:41,484 --> 01:13:42,919 I don't know where to go from here. 1683 01:13:42,985 --> 01:13:45,154 - I'm sorry, man. - I have no idea. 1684 01:13:45,221 --> 01:13:48,157 - I know you--I know you had really strong feelings for her. 1685 01:13:48,224 --> 01:13:49,158 I know you were in love with her. 1686 01:13:49,225 --> 01:13:51,394 - She's just torn me apart. 1687 01:13:51,460 --> 01:13:53,195 Everything that I've-- that we went through, 1688 01:13:53,262 --> 01:13:54,397 she just completely destroyed me. 1689 01:13:54,463 --> 01:13:56,132 - I mean this man, listen, I'm sorry. 1690 01:13:56,198 --> 01:13:57,767 I know from the beginning of this you told me 1691 01:13:57,833 --> 01:13:59,402 that this is what you were afraid of. 1692 01:13:59,468 --> 01:14:01,637 [footsteps] 1693 01:14:01,704 --> 01:14:04,607 Hey, we'll leave you two alone. 1694 01:14:05,241 --> 01:14:08,077 - How's it going out here? 1695 01:14:08,144 --> 01:14:10,246 Do you wanna come back inside? 1696 01:14:10,313 --> 01:14:12,381 - I mean, I want to hear what you have to say, 1697 01:14:12,448 --> 01:14:14,750 but now I have-- 1698 01:14:14,817 --> 01:14:17,420 we'll go back inside. 1699 01:14:17,486 --> 01:14:24,527 ♪ ♪ 1700 01:14:27,730 --> 01:14:29,565 - Um... 1701 01:14:35,604 --> 01:14:39,475 Yeah, I don't know, like, I'm-- I feel, like, awful right now. 1702 01:14:39,542 --> 01:14:41,577 Like, hearing you out and, like, hearing your 1703 01:14:41,644 --> 01:14:44,313 perspective on all this has, like, made this, like, 1704 01:14:44,380 --> 01:14:47,616 way harder and, like, I probably should have, like, 1705 01:14:47,683 --> 01:14:51,387 had that conversation just about maybe, you know, 1706 01:14:51,454 --> 01:14:53,322 like, what sex means to me earlier on, 1707 01:14:53,389 --> 01:14:57,626 but I didn't know that you were feeling so strongly. 1708 01:14:57,693 --> 01:15:01,864 Like, I don't feel like I can leave here with you, but like-- 1709 01:15:01,931 --> 01:15:05,034 like, I don't know what to do right now because, like-- 1710 01:15:05,101 --> 01:15:07,069 - What do you mean? You made your mind up. 1711 01:15:07,136 --> 01:15:09,205 You literally have said-- like, you came back in here. 1712 01:15:09,271 --> 01:15:10,840 I was waiting to see and hoping you'd say, 1713 01:15:10,906 --> 01:15:12,241 you know what, honestly, I thought about it, 1714 01:15:12,308 --> 01:15:13,743 I heard you, I believe everything you're saying and, 1715 01:15:13,809 --> 01:15:15,444 like, I want to give, like, I want us to give us more time 1716 01:15:15,511 --> 01:15:17,213 to talk through it and maybe we can make it work. 1717 01:15:17,279 --> 01:15:19,615 - My hope was that you wouldn't have done that this week 1718 01:15:19,682 --> 01:15:20,916 and that we would be able to leave here, 1719 01:15:20,983 --> 01:15:23,619 and I would feel totally, like, total clarity. 1720 01:15:23,686 --> 01:15:25,821 And I thought that would be my clarity, like, I thought that 1721 01:15:25,888 --> 01:15:28,724 would be my way to be like, oh, there's no [bleep] way, like, 1722 01:15:28,791 --> 01:15:32,294 this dude would compromise what we have, like, in any way. 1723 01:15:32,361 --> 01:15:34,530 And, like, that's how I thought I was gonna know, 1724 01:15:34,597 --> 01:15:35,898 like, at the end of this. 1725 01:15:35,965 --> 01:15:37,299 - So what am I supposed-- so what am I supposed to do? 1726 01:15:37,366 --> 01:15:38,467 - That's what I'm saying, like-- 1727 01:15:38,534 --> 01:15:40,036 - I'm still fighting-- I'm still fighting 1728 01:15:40,102 --> 01:15:41,270 'cause I'm trying to, like, I was trying 1729 01:15:41,337 --> 01:15:43,472 to convince you, but now it's like... 1730 01:15:44,907 --> 01:15:48,677 - I feel so [bleep], like, I feel awful. 1731 01:15:48,744 --> 01:15:50,713 I feel like I just [bleep] everything up, 1732 01:15:50,780 --> 01:15:53,516 and, like, I don't know how... 1733 01:15:55,051 --> 01:15:57,153 I don't know how I could have, like, done it better, but I 1734 01:15:57,219 --> 01:16:02,291 just know that I feel, like, awful about this whole thing. 1735 01:16:02,358 --> 01:16:07,129 ♪ ♪ 1736 01:16:07,196 --> 01:16:11,534 - I'm just gonna be honest with you, I mean, in my eyes, 1737 01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:15,871 like, you just invalidated everything that we had. 1738 01:16:15,938 --> 01:16:18,974 And it just, like, to me, like, if you cared so much 1739 01:16:19,041 --> 01:16:20,242 about me, if you really actually 1740 01:16:20,309 --> 01:16:22,978 thought I was the person, and I instilled, like, 1741 01:16:23,045 --> 01:16:24,647 this belief in you that there's good men out there, 1742 01:16:24,713 --> 01:16:26,348 and I re-instilled that and, like, your family 1743 01:16:26,415 --> 01:16:28,250 said they'd never seen you happier. 1744 01:16:28,317 --> 01:16:30,152 Like, if it was really true, like, I would think 1745 01:16:30,219 --> 01:16:32,121 you would work through something like this. 1746 01:16:32,188 --> 01:16:34,557 - I believe everything that you have said to me tonight, 1747 01:16:34,623 --> 01:16:37,726 like, and it's actually, like, made me rethink, 1748 01:16:37,793 --> 01:16:39,061 like, did I go about this the wrong way? 1749 01:16:39,128 --> 01:16:40,596 Like, was I expecting too much? 1750 01:16:40,663 --> 01:16:42,698 Or like, you know, it's made me think those things, but then 1751 01:16:42,765 --> 01:16:44,400 at the same time I'm like, but you had sex with two women. 1752 01:16:44,467 --> 01:16:47,203 - If--if you had this big old reservation, this huge 1753 01:16:47,269 --> 01:16:50,473 deal-breaker, why would you not bring this up until right now? 1754 01:16:50,539 --> 01:16:52,374 - I feel like at this point, like, you're not--like, I feel 1755 01:16:52,441 --> 01:16:54,944 like at this point, like, I'm going home for sure now, like, 1756 01:16:55,010 --> 01:16:57,379 you're--you are committed to me going home at this point. 1757 01:16:57,446 --> 01:16:58,547 And, like, that's okay, like, 1758 01:16:58,614 --> 01:17:00,049 I realize I [bleep] this up and like... 1759 01:17:00,116 --> 01:17:02,184 - What do you mean, don't-- you're putting this on me now. 1760 01:17:02,251 --> 01:17:03,486 - I'm not. I'm not. 1761 01:17:03,552 --> 01:17:04,920 - You made the decision when I walked back in. 1762 01:17:04,987 --> 01:17:06,388 - I'm telling you right now, like, I realize and, like, 1763 01:17:06,455 --> 01:17:08,624 it feels very much like this is, like, ending and, like-- 1764 01:17:08,691 --> 01:17:09,959 - Because you put an end to it. 1765 01:17:10,025 --> 01:17:11,994 - I know, I know, but, like, I still feel 1766 01:17:12,061 --> 01:17:14,497 strongly about what I'm feeling. 1767 01:17:14,563 --> 01:17:15,865 - It's--I'm not trying to place any 1768 01:17:15,931 --> 01:17:17,633 extra blame on you, but the fact of the matter is, 1769 01:17:17,700 --> 01:17:19,902 it's like, I don't even know who I'm looking at anymore. 1770 01:17:19,969 --> 01:17:21,036 Like, I don't. 1771 01:17:21,103 --> 01:17:22,404 - Dude, like, please don't say that, 1772 01:17:22,471 --> 01:17:24,240 like, that's like the worst part in all of this. 1773 01:17:24,306 --> 01:17:25,407 - I'm sorry, Susie, but it's the honest truth. 1774 01:17:25,474 --> 01:17:26,842 - How, like, how can you not? 1775 01:17:26,909 --> 01:17:28,144 Like that's, like, the part that's upsetting to me. 1776 01:17:28,210 --> 01:17:29,311 - Because you just dropped a bombshell on me-- 1777 01:17:29,378 --> 01:17:30,579 you just dropped a bombshell on me. 1778 01:17:30,646 --> 01:17:32,281 And like, and I don't agree with it at all, 1779 01:17:32,348 --> 01:17:33,549 how you-- how you went about this. 1780 01:17:33,616 --> 01:17:36,318 I think it's BS and, like, just, we're done. 1781 01:17:36,385 --> 01:17:38,420 And I'm done--I'm done. We're not getting 1782 01:17:38,487 --> 01:17:39,922 anything else out of what we're saying anymore. 1783 01:17:39,989 --> 01:17:41,290 - Okay. 1784 01:17:41,357 --> 01:17:42,658 - I don't--I'm sorry that I even raised my voice 1785 01:17:42,725 --> 01:17:44,293 because this is--this is out of character for me. 1786 01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:47,062 It's just 'cause I cared so much and I really did love you. 1787 01:17:47,129 --> 01:17:49,565 And to have this ripped from me is why 1788 01:17:49,632 --> 01:17:51,734 you're seeing what you're seeing right now. 1789 01:17:52,468 --> 01:17:54,737 I have nothing more to say-- there's nothing more. 1790 01:17:54,803 --> 01:17:57,006 Anything you say to me at this point doesn't matter anymore, 1791 01:17:57,072 --> 01:18:00,776 and so I'm just gonna walk you and this--I'm done. 1792 01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:06,282 - I'm sorry that this is, like, the way this has gone, 1793 01:18:06,348 --> 01:18:08,651 like, I mean, I know that you're saying, like, 1794 01:18:08,717 --> 01:18:11,053 at this point nothing you-- nothing I can say will, like, 1795 01:18:11,120 --> 01:18:17,927 mean anything different to you, but like, I genuinely, like, 1796 01:18:17,993 --> 01:18:24,633 want you to know that this was real for me and, like... 1797 01:18:30,105 --> 01:18:32,942 I'm, like, I know that you, like, don't want to hear 1798 01:18:33,008 --> 01:18:34,777 anything at this point and, like, I can tell by, 1799 01:18:34,843 --> 01:18:37,446 like, every ounce in you that you probably hate me 1800 01:18:37,513 --> 01:18:40,983 at this point, and, like, I'm genuinely so sorry for, 1801 01:18:41,050 --> 01:18:42,918 like, the pain I've caused you and, like, 1802 01:18:42,985 --> 01:18:46,655 I promise you, like, every ounce of this has been 1803 01:18:46,722 --> 01:18:51,427 real and, like, genuine and, like, and I actually feel, 1804 01:18:51,493 --> 01:18:54,863 like, awful in how this has gone down tonight in every way. 1805 01:18:54,930 --> 01:18:56,932 - This is the last thing I'll say. 1806 01:18:58,534 --> 01:18:59,602 Because of my faith, I believe everything 1807 01:18:59,668 --> 01:19:01,704 happens for a reason. 1808 01:19:01,770 --> 01:19:04,006 And I'm just gonna take that and move forward 1809 01:19:04,073 --> 01:19:05,975 in my life and realize that, like, I had to go through this. 1810 01:19:06,041 --> 01:19:09,211 So at some point, I'll end up finding somebody that actually 1811 01:19:09,278 --> 01:19:11,580 will stick through it and will understand me for who I am, 1812 01:19:11,647 --> 01:19:13,949 and will fight for me as much as I fight for them. 1813 01:19:14,016 --> 01:19:16,619 And I thought you were that person, you're not that person, 1814 01:19:16,685 --> 01:19:18,254 and, like, this is how it's supposed to end 1815 01:19:18,320 --> 01:19:20,656 and I'm done-- I'm done, I just... 1816 01:19:20,723 --> 01:19:22,258 - Okay. 1817 01:19:26,161 --> 01:19:27,896 Oh, my God. 1818 01:19:38,707 --> 01:19:41,644 [somber music] 1819 01:19:41,710 --> 01:19:48,751 ♪ ♪ 1820 01:20:26,789 --> 01:20:28,691 - Oh, my gosh. 1821 01:20:35,564 --> 01:20:38,367 [dramatic music] 1822 01:20:38,434 --> 01:20:40,769 That was my biggest fear, I'm like, I'm falling in love, 1823 01:20:40,836 --> 01:20:42,438 and this is my person, and I believe that person's 1824 01:20:42,504 --> 01:20:47,409 out there, and-- that's right in front of me, 1825 01:20:47,476 --> 01:20:49,912 and now it's not--now it's not. 1826 01:20:51,480 --> 01:20:52,915 - I just, like, thought he would have had more 1827 01:20:52,981 --> 01:20:55,084 compassion for me in the end, to be honest, like, 1828 01:20:55,150 --> 01:20:58,721 regardless of what kind of love, at this point, 1829 01:20:58,787 --> 01:21:03,258 I'd just thought, like, we would have been better 1830 01:21:03,325 --> 01:21:05,961 at getting through that conversation kindly. 1831 01:21:10,733 --> 01:21:12,234 - Everything is invalidated to me right now, 1832 01:21:12,301 --> 01:21:13,502 this--this whole thing--nothing, 1833 01:21:13,569 --> 01:21:15,537 I don't even--my heart's not in it anymore. 1834 01:21:15,604 --> 01:21:18,040 My heart's out--it's out, it's done. 1835 01:21:18,107 --> 01:21:19,441 It's over--it's over. 1836 01:21:19,508 --> 01:21:26,548 ♪ ♪ 1837 01:21:31,420 --> 01:21:33,756 [breathing heavily] 1838 01:21:36,425 --> 01:21:39,294 announcer: Next week, on "The Bachelor"... 1839 01:21:39,361 --> 01:21:41,230 the crazy drama begins. 1840 01:21:41,296 --> 01:21:43,665 - Your actions speak way louder than words. 1841 01:21:43,732 --> 01:21:47,269 I can't believe anything you say--not one thing. 1842 01:21:47,336 --> 01:21:49,071 announcer: Get ready for two nights 1843 01:21:49,138 --> 01:21:50,672 of unbelievable television. 1844 01:21:50,739 --> 01:21:52,274 - I'm so broken. 1845 01:21:52,341 --> 01:21:53,742 announcer: Clayton's hopes and dreams 1846 01:21:53,809 --> 01:21:55,344 have blown up in his face. 1847 01:21:55,411 --> 01:21:57,279 - You've put yourself in this situation. 1848 01:21:57,346 --> 01:21:59,348 You screwed the pooch, in my opinion. 1849 01:21:59,415 --> 01:22:01,150 - I wish I never would have fallen in love. 1850 01:22:01,216 --> 01:22:03,952 announcer: And there is more shocking drama to come. 1851 01:22:04,019 --> 01:22:07,089 - I wanna be fully transparent. 1852 01:22:07,156 --> 01:22:08,757 I am in love with each of you. 1853 01:22:08,824 --> 01:22:10,993 announcer: Welcome to the Rose Ceremony from hell. 1854 01:22:11,059 --> 01:22:14,897 - And I also was... intimate with both of you. 1855 01:22:14,963 --> 01:22:16,398 - [sobbing] 1856 01:22:16,465 --> 01:22:18,500 announcer: No Bachelor has ever done this before. 1857 01:22:18,567 --> 01:22:20,302 - He told me he was falling in love with me, 1858 01:22:20,369 --> 01:22:21,804 and he told Rachel. 1859 01:22:21,870 --> 01:22:22,905 - He's in love with all of us, 1860 01:22:22,971 --> 01:22:25,340 so how could it be special at all? 1861 01:22:25,407 --> 01:22:26,975 - I had no idea this was what was gonna happen. 1862 01:22:27,042 --> 01:22:28,043 - Don't blame anybody but yourself. 1863 01:22:28,110 --> 01:22:29,044 - I'm not blaming anybody, but Dad-- 1864 01:22:29,111 --> 01:22:30,045 - But you are. 1865 01:22:30,112 --> 01:22:31,280 You're grasping at straws. 1866 01:22:31,346 --> 01:22:34,483 - This is like the worst feeling I've ever had. 1867 01:22:34,550 --> 01:22:36,752 announcer: And if you think you know what happens next... 1868 01:22:36,819 --> 01:22:37,786 ♪ ♪ 1869 01:22:37,853 --> 01:22:39,922 Guess again. 1870 01:22:39,988 --> 01:22:41,924 - I've got some news 1871 01:22:41,990 --> 01:22:44,092 that I think is gonna change everything for you. 1872 01:22:44,159 --> 01:22:45,461 ♪ ♪ 1873 01:22:45,527 --> 01:22:47,563 announcer: Don't miss this historic moment 1874 01:22:47,629 --> 01:22:49,331 Monday and Tuesday night. 1875 01:22:49,398 --> 01:22:50,632 - No matter what's gonna happen, 1876 01:22:50,699 --> 01:22:51,967 you're gonna hurt somebody. 1877 01:22:52,034 --> 01:22:54,369 - I do love you, but-- - That is [bleep]! 1878 01:22:54,436 --> 01:22:57,506 - [crying] This is not how I wanted it to go. 1879 01:22:58,507 --> 01:22:59,875 - I wanna believe love's here, 1880 01:22:59,942 --> 01:23:02,311 but I just don't know what's gonna happen. 1881 01:23:02,377 --> 01:23:04,179 announcer: It's the truly shocking 1882 01:23:04,246 --> 01:23:07,616 live season finale of "The Bachelor." 1883 01:23:07,683 --> 01:23:10,219 - The date card said, "Let's see how deep 1884 01:23:10,285 --> 01:23:13,555 our love can go, or is," something like that? 1885 01:23:13,622 --> 01:23:15,624 - Yeah. - Scuba diving. 1886 01:23:15,691 --> 01:23:17,893 - S--that wouldn't be fun. 1887 01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:20,028 - But deep. 1888 01:23:20,095 --> 01:23:23,799 - Um, maybe they're gonna be ice fishing. 1889 01:23:23,866 --> 01:23:25,901 - [gasps] Oh, my God. 1890 01:23:25,968 --> 01:23:27,236 Yeah, that could be a thing. 1891 01:23:27,302 --> 01:23:30,205 Um, I feel like cavern, like, you know, like, 1892 01:23:30,272 --> 01:23:32,574 cave-ish, but not quite. 1893 01:23:32,641 --> 01:23:34,776 - Do you know "spelunkeling"? 1894 01:23:34,843 --> 01:23:38,013 - No, is that a--what is it? 1895 01:23:38,080 --> 01:23:40,449 Is that the name of a place here? 1896 01:23:40,516 --> 01:23:42,284 What is it? 1897 01:23:42,351 --> 01:23:44,286 - Spunk--spunkeling? 1898 01:23:44,353 --> 01:23:46,088 - Like, that's what you call cave adventures, 1899 01:23:46,154 --> 01:23:49,558 spelunkel--spunkel-- spelunkel--spelunkeling. 1900 01:23:49,625 --> 01:23:51,026 [laughter] 1901 01:23:51,093 --> 01:23:52,160 - Spelunkeling? - Yeah. 1902 01:23:52,227 --> 01:23:53,362 - Maybe they're going spelunkeling. 1903 01:23:53,428 --> 01:23:54,930 - I think they're going spelunkeling. 1904 01:23:54,997 --> 01:23:56,331 And you know what? She can have it. 1905 01:23:56,398 --> 01:23:57,866 - You know what? Have fun. 1906 01:23:57,933 --> 01:23:59,701 - You know what? I hope a stalagmite 1907 01:23:59,768 --> 01:24:00,802 doesn't hit you in the ass on the way out. 1908 01:24:00,869 --> 01:24:03,872 - Yeah. [both laughing] 1909 01:24:03,939 --> 01:24:07,709 - Uh-oh, too bad.