1 00:00:02,669 --> 00:00:15,874 ♪ 2 00:00:15,874 --> 00:00:17,644 >> GRANT, HERE'S THE THING. BOTH WOMEN ARE ON THEIR WAY HERE 3 00:00:17,644 --> 00:00:21,248 RIGHT NOW. I REALLY NEED TO KNOW WHICH ONE 4 00:00:21,248 --> 00:00:23,817 TO SEND FIRST. DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU KNOW WHAT 5 00:00:23,817 --> 00:00:25,552 YOU WANT TO DO? 6 00:00:25,552 --> 00:00:32,359 >> THE TRUTH IS I DON'T KNOW. 7 00:00:36,797 --> 00:00:37,297 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 8 00:00:37,297 --> 00:00:43,537 ♪ 9 00:00:43,537 --> 00:00:50,878 >> Jesse: HOW YOU DOING? HI. HELLO. HI, GUYS. 10 00:00:50,878 --> 00:00:55,983 THANK YOU. THANK YOU, THANK YOU. 11 00:00:55,983 --> 00:01:01,889 WOW. GOOD EVENING, "BACHELOR" NATION. 12 00:01:01,889 --> 00:01:05,626 I'M JESSE PALMER, AND WE'RE COMING TO YOU LIVE FROM LOS 13 00:01:05,626 --> 00:01:13,600 ANGELES IN A DRAMATIC THREE-HOUR SEASON FINALE OF "THE BACHELOR." 14 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:15,936 NOW TONIGHT IT ALL COMES DOWN TO THIS. 15 00:01:15,936 --> 00:01:18,805 IT'S THE STUNNING CONCLUSION TO GRANT'S SEARCH FOR LOVE AS HE 16 00:01:18,805 --> 00:01:22,276 PREPARES TO MAKE THE MOST IMPORTANT DECISION OF HIS LIFE. 17 00:01:22,276 --> 00:01:26,079 WE HAVE TWO INCREDIBLE WOMEN REMAINING AT THIS POINT, LITIA 18 00:01:26,079 --> 00:01:30,184 AND JULIANA. SO WHO WILL GRANT PROPOSE TO? 19 00:01:30,184 --> 00:01:34,655 AND WILL SHE SAY YES? OR WILL GRANT LEAVE THE 20 00:01:34,655 --> 00:01:36,423 DOMINICAN REPUBLIC ALONE AND HEARTBROKEN? 21 00:01:36,423 --> 00:01:40,994 NOW I KNOW THERE'S BEEN A LOT OF SPECULATION ABOUT HOW GRANT'S 22 00:01:40,994 --> 00:01:42,329 JOURNEY ENDS, AND YOU ARE GOING TO GET ALL OF YOUR ANSWERS 23 00:01:42,329 --> 00:01:45,566 TONIGHT. I PROMISE YOU, BUT FOR NOW, I'M 24 00:01:45,566 --> 00:01:50,037 JUST GOING TO SAY THIS. THERE HAS NEVER BEEN A BACHELOR 25 00:01:50,037 --> 00:01:54,975 WHO HAS BEEN MORE TORN OVER THE TWO FINAL WOMEN AT THE END, AND 26 00:01:54,975 --> 00:01:57,544 WHEN I MEAN THE END, I MEAN THE VERY END. 27 00:01:57,544 --> 00:02:01,281 THIS IS GOING TO BE AN EMOTIONAL AND AN HISTORIC CONCLUSION THAT 28 00:02:01,281 --> 00:02:05,252 YOU TRULY WILL NOT SEE COMING. SO GET YOUR TISSUES OUT NOW. 29 00:02:05,252 --> 00:02:08,222 BUT BEFORE WE GET TO THAT, WE'VE GOT SEVERAL "BACHELOR" ALUMNI IN 30 00:02:08,222 --> 00:02:09,356 THE AUDIENCE TONIGHT. IT'S GREAT TO SEE EVERYBODY. 31 00:02:09,356 --> 00:02:14,261 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 32 00:02:14,261 --> 00:02:17,064 AND A FEW OF THEM ARE GOING TO BE JOINING ME LATER ON STAGE FOR 33 00:02:17,064 --> 00:02:20,968 A VERY EYE-OPENING DISCUSSION THAT YOU'RE NOT GOING TO WANT TO 34 00:02:20,968 --> 00:02:24,338 MISS. ALSO, WHO'S READY FOR "BACHELOR 35 00:02:24,338 --> 00:02:29,109 IN PARADISE"? THAT'S RIGHT. WE ARE OFFICIALLY HEADED BACK TO 36 00:02:29,109 --> 00:02:31,812 THE BEACH FOR A SEASON OF "PARADISE" UNLIKE ANYTHING 37 00:02:31,812 --> 00:02:36,016 YOU'VE EVER SEEN BEFORE, AND THEN LATER TONIGHT, WE'RE GOING 38 00:02:36,016 --> 00:02:37,885 TO BE ANNOUNCING A "PARADISE" TWIST THAT WILL REALLY SHAKE 39 00:02:37,885 --> 00:02:40,387 THINGS UP. SO BE SURE TO STICK AROUND FOR 40 00:02:40,387 --> 00:02:46,927 THAT, BUT FIRST, IT'S NOW TIME TO HEAD BACK TO THE DOMINICAN 41 00:02:46,927 --> 00:02:48,262 REPUBLIC WHERE LITIA AND JULIANA ARE SET TO MEET GRANT'S FAMILY. 42 00:02:48,262 --> 00:02:50,931 WILL GRANT'S PARENTS RECEIVE THEM WITH OPEN ARMS OR IS THERE 43 00:02:50,931 --> 00:02:56,970 TROUBLE ON THE HORIZON? LET'S FIND OUT. 44 00:02:56,970 --> 00:03:02,442 THE LIVE "BACHELOR" FINALE STARTS RIGHT NOW. 45 00:03:02,442 --> 00:03:08,215 ♪ 46 00:03:09,283 --> 00:03:13,720 ♪ 47 00:03:14,254 --> 00:03:19,793 ♪ 48 00:03:20,327 --> 00:03:22,629 ♪ 49 00:03:22,629 --> 00:03:22,963 >> HI. 50 00:03:22,963 --> 00:03:25,799 >> HELLO. HOW ARE YOU? 51 00:03:25,799 --> 00:03:28,635 >> GOOD. YOU LOOK SO CUTE. 52 00:03:28,635 --> 00:03:30,370 >> YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL. 53 00:03:30,370 --> 00:03:30,937 >> THANK YOU. 54 00:03:30,937 --> 00:03:35,042 >> SO TODAY YOU'RE GOING TO MEET MY MOM, MY DAD, AND MY SISTER, 55 00:03:35,042 --> 00:03:36,276 AND I KNOW THEY'RE GOING TO LOVE YOU. 56 00:03:36,276 --> 00:03:37,477 >> OKAY. I'M READY. 57 00:03:37,477 --> 00:03:37,844 >> LET'S DO IT. 58 00:03:37,844 --> 00:03:39,980 >> OKAY. 59 00:03:39,980 --> 00:03:43,083 >> THIS WEEK IS THE MOST IMPORTANT WEEK OF THIS WHOLE 60 00:03:43,083 --> 00:03:45,152 JOURNEY. IT'S ALL ABOUT PERSPECTIVE AND 61 00:03:45,152 --> 00:03:50,991 WHO I CAN SEE BEING MY WIFE, AND I PICTURE LITIA BEING MY WIFE. 62 00:03:50,991 --> 00:03:57,931 LITIA IS LOVING, PATIENT, KIND. OBVIOUSLY SHE'S BEAUTIFUL, AND 63 00:03:57,931 --> 00:03:58,865 SHE'S READY. I THINK MY FAMILY IS GOING TO 64 00:03:58,865 --> 00:03:59,199 LOVE LITIA. 65 00:03:59,199 --> 00:04:00,233 >> HELLO. 66 00:04:00,233 --> 00:04:00,701 >> HEY, GUYS. 67 00:04:00,701 --> 00:04:03,370 >> HEY, GUYS. HELLO. 68 00:04:03,370 --> 00:04:05,405 >> I'M EXCITED. TODAY'S THE FIRST DAY IN ALMOST 69 00:04:05,405 --> 00:04:09,209 A DECADE THAT WE'VE ALL BEEN TOGETHER SINCE MY PARENTS SPLIT. 70 00:04:09,209 --> 00:04:10,410 >> HOW ARE YOU? 71 00:04:10,410 --> 00:04:11,979 >> SO GOOD TO MEET YOU. 72 00:04:11,979 --> 00:04:13,413 >> HOW ARE YOU? 73 00:04:13,413 --> 00:04:15,115 >> AND TO HAVE AN OPINION FROM THE PEOPLE THAT LOVE ME THE MOST 74 00:04:15,115 --> 00:04:17,317 IS IMPORTANT. 75 00:04:17,317 --> 00:04:20,721 >> SO TELL US. GIVE US SOME OF THOSE MEMORABLE 76 00:04:20,721 --> 00:04:23,657 MOMENTS THAT YOU GUYS HAVE CREATED TOGETHER. 77 00:04:23,657 --> 00:04:27,461 >> WHAT DID YOU GUYS DO? WHAT KIND OF DATES DID YOU GO ON? 78 00:04:27,461 --> 00:04:30,397 >> SO OUR FIRST DATE IN L.A. WAS WHEN WE MADE, LIKE, A BIG 79 00:04:30,397 --> 00:04:35,102 CONNECTION, BUT THEN WE WENT TO MADRID WHICH IS BIG BECAUSE HE 80 00:04:35,102 --> 00:04:37,871 PLAYED BASKETBALL IN SPAIN. 81 00:04:37,871 --> 00:04:38,105 >> YEAH. 82 00:04:38,105 --> 00:04:39,873 >> YES. SO YOU WENT TO SPAIN. OH MY GOSH. 83 00:04:39,873 --> 00:04:41,241 >> YES. 84 00:04:41,241 --> 00:04:43,477 >> MY MOST MEMORABLE TIME WAS THE CONVERSATION WE HAD AFTER 85 00:04:43,477 --> 00:04:47,414 THAT DATE IN L.A. WHERE SHE REAFFIRMED TO ME THAT HER MORALS 86 00:04:47,414 --> 00:04:51,485 REALLY AND WHERE SHE STANDS, AND WHEN WE WERE IN SCOTLAND, THAT'S 87 00:04:51,485 --> 00:04:54,021 WHEN WE'VE HAD OUR FIRST TALK ABOUT FAITH AND WHAT THAT MEANT 88 00:04:54,021 --> 00:04:59,893 TO US, AND I WAS, LIKE, OKAY. SHE DOESN'T LEAD WITH HER BEAUTY. 89 00:04:59,893 --> 00:05:03,397 SHE'S SOMEBODY WHO'S A LOT DEEPER THAN THAT. 90 00:05:03,397 --> 00:05:04,364 WE CONTINUED TO GROW AND HERE WE ARE TODAY. 91 00:05:04,364 --> 00:05:09,469 >> SO YOU MAKE EACH OTHER HAPPY? M I MEAN, YOU FIND JOY BEING 92 00:05:09,469 --> 00:05:10,003 AROUND ONE ANOTHER? 93 00:05:10,003 --> 00:05:11,972 >> YES, YEAH. 94 00:05:11,972 --> 00:05:13,039 >> THAT'S IMPORTANT. 95 00:05:13,039 --> 00:05:19,346 >> YOU GUYS LOOK SO GOOD TOGETHER. 96 00:05:19,346 --> 00:05:19,813 >> YOU GUYS ARE CUTE. 97 00:05:19,813 --> 00:05:20,480 >> YOU BOTH HAVE DIMPLES. 98 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:21,782 >> I LIKED YOU SINCE DAY ONE. 99 00:05:21,782 --> 00:05:22,416 >> I LIKED YOU. 100 00:05:22,416 --> 00:05:25,419 >> SEEING HER AND HIM TOGETHER, 101 00:05:25,419 --> 00:05:32,259 I JUST SENSE THE SYNERGY, AND I SEE THE JOY THAT HE HAS WITH 102 00:05:32,259 --> 00:05:39,466 HER, BUT HE'S STILL, AGAIN, HE'S STILL TORN. OO 103 00:05:39,466 --> 00:05:46,373 I'M SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU, LITIA. IF HE IS TO BE EDNGAGED WITH THS 104 00:05:46,373 --> 00:05:49,142 WOMAN, WHAT MAKES HIM FEEL SPECIAL TO YOU, AND DOES SHE 105 00:05:49,142 --> 00:05:52,779 RECIPROCATE THAT LOVE? SOMEONE WHO LOVES HIM, SHOULD BE 106 00:05:52,779 --> 00:05:57,384 ABLE TO ANSWER THOSE QUESTIONS. WHAT MAKES YOU LOVE MY SON? 107 00:05:57,384 --> 00:06:00,320 WHAT MADE THAT HAPPEN? WHAT IS IT. 108 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:04,191 >> SO I KNEW WHAT I LOVED GRANT 109 00:06:04,191 --> 00:06:08,562 WHEN SAY HIM WITH MY FAMILY. 110 00:06:08,562 --> 00:06:08,829 >> OKAY. 111 00:06:08,829 --> 00:06:10,097 >> HE'S SO CONSCIENTIOUS OF EVERYONE'S NEEDS AND HE WANTS TO 112 00:06:10,097 --> 00:06:11,264 TAKE CARE OF EVERYONE AROUND HIM. 113 00:06:11,264 --> 00:06:12,999 >> THAT IS SO GRANT. 114 00:06:12,999 --> 00:06:16,803 >> WHICH IS, LIKE, SUCH AN ADMIRABLE TRAIT AND THAT'S A 115 00:06:16,803 --> 00:06:19,673 TRAIT THAT I WANT IN A PARTNER FOR MY KIDS, LIKE -- 116 00:06:19,673 --> 00:06:22,309 >> HE'S BEEN LIKE THAT SINCE HE WAS A LITTLE BOY. SO ALWAYS. 117 00:06:22,309 --> 00:06:23,877 >> I BELIEVE THAT. IT'S IN HIM. YOU CAN TELL. 118 00:06:23,877 --> 00:06:27,881 >> ALWAYS GREAT. SO WHEN YOU LEAVE THE 119 00:06:27,881 --> 00:06:30,117 SURROUNDING OF "THE BACHELOR" -- 120 00:06:30,117 --> 00:06:31,351 >> YEP. 121 00:06:31,351 --> 00:06:34,354 >> -- AND THIS HAS ALL FADED AWAY. 122 00:06:34,354 --> 00:06:34,588 >> YEP. 123 00:06:34,588 --> 00:06:37,824 >> WHAT WILL IT LOOK LIKE TO YOU BACK AT WORK, HAVING TO MAYBE 124 00:06:37,824 --> 00:06:39,993 LOOK FOR A HOME OR HAVING KIDS AT SOME POINT? 125 00:06:39,993 --> 00:06:44,965 >> THAT'S A GOOD QUESTION. I WOULD NEVER EXPECT HIM TO MOVE 126 00:06:44,965 --> 00:06:47,701 TO ME. SO I THINK IF WE KIND OF CAN 127 00:06:47,701 --> 00:06:52,005 START IN A NEUTRAL PLACE WHERE IT'S NEW FOR BOTH OF US, AND WE 128 00:06:52,005 --> 00:06:56,543 FIGURE IT OUT TOGETHER, YOU KNOW, MY FAMILY IS AMAZING AND I 129 00:06:56,543 --> 00:07:01,214 LOVE THEM, BUT I WANT MY KIDS TO 130 00:07:01,214 --> 00:07:05,585 LEARN FROM -- OUR KIDS. SORRY. 131 00:07:05,585 --> 00:07:07,587 >> MOTHER TAKES CONTROL. IT'S FINE. 132 00:07:07,587 --> 00:07:09,823 BUT I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU'RE SAYING. 133 00:07:09,823 --> 00:07:10,590 >> I WANT THEM TO LEARN FROM YOU. 134 00:07:10,590 --> 00:07:11,324 >> THAT IS SO BEAUTIFUL. 135 00:07:11,324 --> 00:07:12,325 >> AND FROM YOUR FAMILY. 136 00:07:12,325 --> 00:07:13,360 >> THAT IS SO BEAUTIFUL. 137 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:16,196 >> YEAH. I JUST, YOU KNOW, YEAH. 138 00:07:16,196 --> 00:07:18,298 >> YOU KNOW, GRANT, HE'S GONE THROUGH A LOT. 139 00:07:18,298 --> 00:07:18,698 >> YEAH. 140 00:07:18,698 --> 00:07:21,768 >> WE HAVE EXPERIENCED HARD TIMES WITH OUR FAMILY. 141 00:07:21,768 --> 00:07:28,375 DAD HAVING THAT HISTORY OF DRUG ABUSE AND GRANT WAS STRUGGLING 142 00:07:28,375 --> 00:07:34,247 TO FIND HIS HAPPINESS, AND SO I SAW THAT REAL DOWN, DARK PLACE 143 00:07:34,247 --> 00:07:36,983 HE WAS IN. THIS HAS BEEN A JOY FOR ME. 144 00:07:36,983 --> 00:07:37,551 >> I KNOW. 145 00:07:37,551 --> 00:07:39,519 >> TO SEE HIM SO HAPPY. 146 00:07:39,519 --> 00:07:46,726 >> I HAVE TO TELL YOU JUST WITH MY TIME WITH HIM, I JUST 147 00:07:46,726 --> 00:07:48,461 UNDERSTOOD HOW HARD OF A TIME HE'S HAD. 148 00:07:48,461 --> 00:07:52,666 IT'S BEEN LONELIER FOR HIM THAN I -- THAN I, LIKE, REALIZED. 149 00:07:52,666 --> 00:07:55,235 >> JUST A MAJOR LONELY TIME. 150 00:07:55,235 --> 00:07:57,637 >> YEAH. 151 00:07:57,637 --> 00:08:00,674 >> BUT YOU KNOW HE LOVES YOU BECAUSE YOU GUYS HAVE 152 00:08:00,674 --> 00:08:01,474 RECIPROCATED THAT TO ONE ANOTHER. 153 00:08:01,474 --> 00:08:03,877 >> YEAH. 154 00:08:03,877 --> 00:08:04,377 >> 155 00:08:04,377 --> 00:08:09,349 >> I LIKE TO HEAR THAT. SO YOU'RE 1,000% SURE GRANT IS 156 00:08:09,349 --> 00:08:12,552 THE MAN IF HE WERE TO ASK YOU TO MARRY HIM, YOU WOULD DEFINITELY 157 00:08:12,552 --> 00:08:13,653 SAY YES. THERE'S NO DOUBTS AT ALL? 158 00:08:13,653 --> 00:08:16,523 >> NO. 159 00:08:16,523 --> 00:08:19,960 >> GRANT'S HAD A HARD PAST, BUT I THINK WITH LITIA, THEY'LL BE 160 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:23,096 ABLE TO GET THROUGH SOME HARD PLACES WHEN THEY GET THERE. 161 00:08:23,096 --> 00:08:29,302 SO FOR ME, THAT WAS IMPORTANT. LITIA'S VERY HUMBLE, AND SHE'S 162 00:08:29,302 --> 00:08:32,172 GENUINE, AND SHE LOVES GRANT. YOU CAN SEE IT. 163 00:08:32,172 --> 00:08:38,144 SO I WOULD BE VERY HAPPY WITH LITIA. SHE WOULD MAKE A GREAT 164 00:08:38,144 --> 00:08:38,511 DAUGHTER-IN-LAW. 165 00:08:38,511 --> 00:08:39,546 >> HOW YOU FEELING TODAY? 166 00:08:39,546 --> 00:08:41,615 >> I FEEL GOOD TODAY. HOW DO YOU FEEL? 167 00:08:41,615 --> 00:08:42,749 >> I FEEL GOOD. 168 00:08:42,749 --> 00:08:42,983 >> OKAY. 169 00:08:42,983 --> 00:08:46,820 >> I FEEL GOOD. THIS IS A LOT. 170 00:08:46,820 --> 00:08:47,320 >> IT IS. 171 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:50,724 >> THIS IS A LOT TO DEAL WITH. I KNOW IT'S HARD FOR HIM. 172 00:08:50,724 --> 00:08:51,024 >> YEAH. 173 00:08:51,024 --> 00:08:54,127 >> SO ME AND MY WIFE ARE DIVORCED. 174 00:08:54,127 --> 00:08:58,164 WE HAD A GREAT RELATIONSHIP UNTIL IT TOOK ITS COURSE, AND I 175 00:08:58,164 --> 00:09:00,734 DON'T WANT THAT TO HAPPEN FOR HIM, YOU KNOW? 176 00:09:00,734 --> 00:09:01,501 >> OF COURSE. 177 00:09:01,501 --> 00:09:04,804 >> SO HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT? 178 00:09:04,804 --> 00:09:10,243 >> I THINK THAT HE AND I BOTH WANT TO TAKE PIECES OF OUR 179 00:09:10,243 --> 00:09:13,346 CHILDHOOD AND COMBINE THEM AND KIND OF HAVE OUR OWN WAY OF 180 00:09:13,346 --> 00:09:18,151 DOING THINGS, AND I AM EXCITED TO SUPPORT HIM AND LET HIM KNOW 181 00:09:18,151 --> 00:09:21,988 THAT HE IS OKAY, LIKE, HE'S ENOUGH, AND THAT HE FEELS LIKE 182 00:09:21,988 --> 00:09:25,125 HIS CUP IS FULL. 183 00:09:25,125 --> 00:09:27,661 >> ARE YOU ACTUALLY READY TO HAVE SOMEONE BE YOUR HUSBAND? 184 00:09:27,661 --> 00:09:28,295 >> YEAH. 185 00:09:28,295 --> 00:09:30,730 >> AT THIS POINT IN TIME? 186 00:09:30,730 --> 00:09:34,668 >> YEAH. I'M 31, YOU KNOW, I HAVE MY 187 00:09:34,668 --> 00:09:39,606 CAREER, AND I'M READY TO FIND MY PARTNER AND SETTLE DOWN AND HAVE 188 00:09:39,606 --> 00:09:43,410 KIDS, YEAH. I JUST FEEL LIKE THE MOST 189 00:09:43,410 --> 00:09:50,817 FULFILLING PART OF YOUR LIFE STARTS WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS. 190 00:09:50,817 --> 00:09:56,723 >> SHE'S A VERY NICE GIRL. SHE HAS VALUES, AND THEY PUT ME 191 00:09:56,723 --> 00:09:59,159 AT EASE. YOU SEEM VERY GENUINE, YOU KNOW? 192 00:09:59,159 --> 00:10:02,829 FAMILY MEANS A LOT TO ME, AND I'M GLAD IT MEANS A LOT TO YOU. 193 00:10:02,829 --> 00:10:03,797 YOU REASSURED ME. 194 00:10:03,797 --> 00:10:04,264 >> GOOD. 195 00:10:04,264 --> 00:10:06,299 >> IT WAS A PLEASURE TO SPEND SOME TIME WITH YOU. 196 00:10:06,299 --> 00:10:06,933 >> YEAH, YOU TOO. 197 00:10:06,933 --> 00:10:11,471 >> FOR SURE. FOR SURE. MY FAMILY WENT THROUGH A TIME 198 00:10:11,471 --> 00:10:14,374 WHERE IT WAS KIND OF TURBULENT WITH US. 199 00:10:14,374 --> 00:10:19,546 GRANT SAW WHAT I DID, BUT HE KNOWS BETTER, AND NOW HE HAS HIS 200 00:10:19,546 --> 00:10:26,820 OWN FAMILY TO FORGE, AND LITIA, IF SHE GETS MARRIED TO MY SON, 201 00:10:26,820 --> 00:10:31,858 SHE'S GOING TO FIGHT FOR HER MARRIAGE. 202 00:10:31,858 --> 00:10:37,630 YOU SEEM LIKE YOU'RE HAPPY. DO YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN? 203 00:10:37,630 --> 00:10:39,666 I LIKE HER FOR YOU. SHE SEEMS TO BE AN AMAZING YOUNG 204 00:10:39,666 --> 00:10:39,866 LADY. 205 00:10:39,866 --> 00:10:40,333 >> MM-HMM. 206 00:10:40,333 --> 00:10:42,035 >> SHE KNOWS KIND OF, LIKE, YOUR STRUGGLE. 207 00:10:42,035 --> 00:10:43,069 >> YEAH. SHE UNDERSTANDS. 208 00:10:43,069 --> 00:10:43,436 >> YEAH. 209 00:10:43,436 --> 00:10:47,340 >> YEAH. SO THE BIGGEST THING WITH LITIA, 210 00:10:47,340 --> 00:10:51,678 YOU KNOW, SHE'S 31, AND SHE WANTS KIDS, LIKE, SO SHE SAID, 211 00:10:51,678 --> 00:10:54,647 YOU KNOW, SHE WANTS TO START TRYING WITHIN TWO YEARS, YOU 212 00:10:54,647 --> 00:10:58,651 KNOW, AND MY WHOLE 20s, I PLAYED BASKETBALL, YOU KNOW, AND I 213 00:10:58,651 --> 00:11:02,155 TRAVELED BY DIDN'T REALLY GET TO EXPERIENCE AND ENJOY MY LIFE. 214 00:11:02,155 --> 00:11:04,257 THE NEXT THREE TO FOUR YEARS, I REALLY WANT TO EXPERIENCE LIFE 215 00:11:04,257 --> 00:11:06,192 AND TRAVEL WITH MY PARTNER AND HAVE FUN. 216 00:11:06,192 --> 00:11:08,194 YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING? AND BE ABLE TO DO THAT. 217 00:11:08,194 --> 00:11:11,231 RIGHT NOW, THAT'S OUR BIGGEST ISSUE I FEEL LIKE BECAUSE OF OUR 218 00:11:11,231 --> 00:11:12,966 TIMELINE. SHE WANTS TO HAVE CHILDREN RIGHT 219 00:11:12,966 --> 00:11:13,166 AWAY. 220 00:11:13,166 --> 00:11:17,370 >> OKAY. SO EVERYBODY HAS DREAMS AND 221 00:11:17,370 --> 00:11:21,775 HOPES AND THEY WANT A SCRIPTED LIFE, BUT WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE, 222 00:11:21,775 --> 00:11:24,811 YOU'LL BE ABLE TO DO ALL THOSE THINGS. 223 00:11:24,811 --> 00:11:27,280 AS LONG AS YOU'RE BOTH HAPPY, YOU'RE GOING TO NOT AGREE ON 224 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:29,182 EVERY SINGLE THING. 225 00:11:29,182 --> 00:11:29,549 >> RIGHT. 226 00:11:29,549 --> 00:11:35,955 >> BUT YOU'RE GOING TO BE OKAY. DON'T LET THAT PUT YOU IN A BOX 227 00:11:35,955 --> 00:11:38,658 OF THIS IS THE WAY IT HAS TO BE FOR ME TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP. 228 00:11:38,658 --> 00:11:38,958 >> RIGHT. 229 00:11:38,958 --> 00:11:43,797 >> IF YOU LOVE THE PERSON, DON'T LET ONE LITTLE ISSUE STOP THE 230 00:11:43,797 --> 00:11:44,063 SHOW. 231 00:11:44,063 --> 00:11:44,964 >> YEAH. RIGHT. 232 00:11:44,964 --> 00:11:45,732 >> DO YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN? 233 00:11:45,732 --> 00:11:50,336 >> YEAH, THAT MAKES SENSE. HAVING MY DAD HERE HELPING ME 234 00:11:50,336 --> 00:11:52,238 MAKE THIS DECISION IS REALLY IMPORTANT TO ME. 235 00:11:52,238 --> 00:11:55,375 FOR HIM TO BE ABLE TO HELP POINT ME IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION WITH 236 00:11:55,375 --> 00:11:58,077 MY MOM, IT MEANS A LOT TO ME. IT'S ACTUALLY, LIKE, SOMETHING I 237 00:11:58,077 --> 00:11:59,345 ALWAYS DREAMED ABOUT. 238 00:11:59,345 --> 00:12:04,451 >> I THINK LITIA IS GREAT. SHE'S CARING, LOVES HER FAMILY, 239 00:12:04,451 --> 00:12:09,656 LOVES GOD, BUT I DON'T WANT YOU TO BASE YOUR DECISION ON WHAT I 240 00:12:09,656 --> 00:12:09,856 LIKE. 241 00:12:09,856 --> 00:12:12,459 >> OBVIOUSLY I HAVE A REALLY TOUGH DECISION TO MAKE. 242 00:12:12,459 --> 00:12:15,128 THE WEIGHT OF WHAT'S COMING THIS WEEK, IT'S -- IT'S A LOT, YOU 243 00:12:15,128 --> 00:12:16,629 KNOW? 244 00:12:16,629 --> 00:12:24,103 >> YOU NEED TO TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND YOUR HAPPINESS HAS TO 245 00:12:24,103 --> 00:12:25,271 BE NUMBER ONE AS WELL. 246 00:12:25,271 --> 00:12:28,641 >> I'M HAPPY WITH LITIA, ESPECIALLY AFTER TODAY. 247 00:12:28,641 --> 00:12:29,676 >> I LOVE YOU, SON. 248 00:12:29,676 --> 00:12:30,977 >> I LOVE YOU TOO, MOM. 249 00:12:30,977 --> 00:12:32,979 >> I'M SO PROUD OF YOU. 250 00:12:32,979 --> 00:12:36,549 >> LITIA MEETING MY FAMILY WAS REALLY AWESOME, AND I THINK THAT 251 00:12:36,549 --> 00:12:39,485 MY PARENTS LOVED HER. 252 00:12:39,485 --> 00:12:41,988 >> LITIA, IT WAS NICE TO MEET YOU. 253 00:12:41,988 --> 00:12:42,555 >> SO GOOD TO MEET YOU. 254 00:12:42,555 --> 00:12:43,189 >> WHAT PLEASURE. 255 00:12:43,189 --> 00:12:45,725 >> OVERALL, TODAY WENT SO GREAT. THIS IS SOMETHING THAT I CAN GET 256 00:12:45,725 --> 00:12:48,328 USED TO, YOU KNOW? LITIA BEING AROUND MY FAMILY. 257 00:12:48,328 --> 00:12:52,065 >> BYE, LITIA. BYE. BYE, SON. SEE YOU LATER. 258 00:12:52,065 --> 00:12:54,467 >> BYE. LITIA'S AN AMAZING, SPECIAL 259 00:12:54,467 --> 00:12:56,536 WOMAN, AND MY FAMILY CAN SEE THAT. 260 00:12:56,536 --> 00:12:57,904 >> I'M HAPPY FOR HIM. 261 00:12:57,904 --> 00:12:59,272 >> SHE COULD BE THE ONE FOR GRANT. 262 00:12:59,272 --> 00:13:00,773 >> YES. 263 00:13:00,773 --> 00:13:04,210 >> AND THAT WAS ALL I COULD ASK FOR, AND IT MAKES ME FEEL 264 00:13:04,210 --> 00:13:06,412 CONFIDENT IN THE LOVE THAT WE HAVE FOR EACH OTHER. 265 00:13:06,412 --> 00:13:10,250 I DEFINITELY COULD SEE YOU BEING WITH MY FAMILY. 266 00:13:10,250 --> 00:13:10,717 >> YOU CAN? 267 00:13:10,717 --> 00:13:13,253 >> YEAH. I FEEL LIKE IT ONLY REAFFIRMS MY 268 00:13:13,253 --> 00:13:16,723 FEELINGS THAT I DO LOVE YOU. I'M HAPPY TO BE WITH YOU, AND I 269 00:13:16,723 --> 00:13:22,095 LOVE SEEING YOU SMILE. SO YEAH. 270 00:13:22,095 --> 00:13:29,502 >> I LOVE YOU. I FEEL SO EXCITED WHEN I HEAR 271 00:13:29,502 --> 00:13:32,572 YOU SAY IT, AND I DIDN'T REALLY 272 00:13:32,572 --> 00:13:39,345 SAY THIS BEFORE, BUT, LIKE, I 273 00:13:39,345 --> 00:13:44,884 HAVEN'T SAID IT BEFORE TO 274 00:13:44,884 --> 00:13:52,425 SOMEONE THAT I LOVE THEM. SO I JUST KNOW WITH YOU, AND 275 00:13:52,425 --> 00:13:56,496 YEAH. I JUST LOVE YOU. I'M JUST SO EXCITED TO SPEND 276 00:13:56,496 --> 00:13:59,198 MORE TIME WITH YOU. 277 00:13:59,198 --> 00:14:00,967 >> I'M EXCITED TOO. 278 00:14:00,967 --> 00:14:06,172 >> OH MY GOSH. I WANT TO KISS YOU. 279 00:14:06,172 --> 00:14:08,608 ♪ TELL ME THAT YOU FEEL THIS 280 00:14:08,608 --> 00:14:09,275 WAY ♪ 281 00:14:09,275 --> 00:14:12,245 ♪ I WANT YOU TO FEEL THE SAME 282 00:14:12,245 --> 00:14:13,212 ♪ THIS IS DO OR DIE 283 00:14:13,212 --> 00:14:18,051 ♪ CAN I HEAR A LINE 284 00:14:18,051 --> 00:14:18,651 ♪ I DO TOO 285 00:14:18,651 --> 00:14:20,520 ♪ TELL ME THAT YOU FEEL THIS 286 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:21,487 WAY ♪ 287 00:14:21,487 --> 00:14:26,192 >> I'M SO HAPPY. I LOVE HIM, AND HE LOVES ME, AND 288 00:14:26,192 --> 00:14:33,099 WE'RE IN LOVE. OKAY. 289 00:14:33,099 --> 00:14:40,073 GRANT MAKES ME FEEL SPECIAL AND LUCKY, AND YEAH. I JUST LOVE HIM. 290 00:14:40,073 --> 00:14:40,540 SEE YOU LATER. 291 00:14:40,540 --> 00:14:40,773 >> BYE. 292 00:14:40,773 --> 00:14:48,414 >> BYE. AFTER TODAY, I AM THE MOST 293 00:14:48,414 --> 00:14:51,417 CONFIDENT THAT I'LL BE ENGAGED BY THE END OF THE WEEK. 294 00:14:51,417 --> 00:14:53,686 MEET YOUR MRS. ELLIS. 295 00:14:53,686 --> 00:14:56,089 ♪ TELL ME THAT YOU FEEL THIS 296 00:14:56,089 --> 00:14:56,289 WAY ♪ 297 00:14:56,289 --> 00:14:57,890 ♪ I WANT YOU TO FEEL THE SAME 298 00:14:57,890 --> 00:14:59,659 ♪ THIS IS DO OR DIE 299 00:14:59,659 --> 00:15:01,394 ♪ CAN YOU SEE THE LIGHT 300 00:15:07,933 --> 00:15:12,355 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 301 00:15:12,355 --> 00:15:14,516 >> Jesse: WELCOME BACK TO THE FINALE OF "THE BACHELOR." 302 00:15:14,516 --> 00:15:17,519 OF COURSE WE'RE COMING TO YOU LIVE FROM LOS ANGELES. 303 00:15:17,519 --> 00:15:20,689 NOW, BEFORE THE BREAK, WE WATCHED GRANT'S FAMILY MEET 304 00:15:20,689 --> 00:15:23,025 LITIA. AND THEY ABSOLUTELY LOVED HER, 305 00:15:23,025 --> 00:15:30,265 WHICH ONLY FURTHER CEMENTED GRANT AND LITIA'S LOVE FOR EACH 306 00:15:30,265 --> 00:15:33,435 OTHER. NOW IT'S JULIANA'S TURN TO MEET 307 00:15:33,435 --> 00:15:36,205 GRANT'S FAMILY. WHAT WILL THEY THINK OF HER AND 308 00:15:36,205 --> 00:15:42,411 HER CONNECTION WITH GRANT? LET'S WATCH. 309 00:15:42,411 --> 00:15:46,915 ♪ 310 00:15:49,985 --> 00:15:55,057 >> WOW. GIULIANA IS GOING TO MEET MY 311 00:15:55,057 --> 00:15:58,227 FAMILY TODAY, AND I'M A LITTLE NERVOUS. 312 00:15:58,227 --> 00:15:58,894 >> HOW ARE YOU BEAUTIFUL? 313 00:15:58,894 --> 00:15:59,962 >> GOOD, HOW ARE YOU? 314 00:15:59,962 --> 00:16:03,265 >> I'M GOOD. I DO HAVE VERY STRONG FEELINGS 315 00:16:03,265 --> 00:16:08,003 FOR HER, BUT THERE IS A SLIGHT FEAR IF SHE'S 100% READY TO BE 316 00:16:08,003 --> 00:16:10,572 ENGAGED. YOU KNOW, I KNOW MY MOM IS GOING 317 00:16:10,572 --> 00:16:13,775 TO ASK SOME TOUGH QUESTIONS. AND I JUST NEED TO SEE IF SHE'S 318 00:16:13,775 --> 00:16:17,212 TRULY READY FOR LOVE. HOW YOU DOING? 319 00:16:17,212 --> 00:16:17,446 >> GOOD. 320 00:16:17,446 --> 00:16:18,513 >> I MISSED YOU. 321 00:16:18,513 --> 00:16:19,781 >> I MISSED YOU TOO. 322 00:16:19,781 --> 00:16:22,150 >> SO, ARE YOU NERVOUS AT ALL? 323 00:16:22,150 --> 00:16:24,653 >> I AM, REALLY NERVOUS. 324 00:16:24,653 --> 00:16:29,191 >> I'M NERVOUS. BUT I'M SURE WE'RE GOING TO HAVE 325 00:16:29,191 --> 00:16:29,925 AN AMAZING TIME. 326 00:16:29,925 --> 00:16:30,926 >> YEAH, ME TOO. 327 00:16:30,926 --> 00:16:32,027 >> ALL RIGHT. LET'S DO THIS. 328 00:16:32,027 --> 00:16:39,801 >> LET'S GO. I AM PRETTY NERVOUS TODAY TO 329 00:16:39,801 --> 00:16:44,339 MEET GRANT'S FAMILY BECAUSE ME AND GRANT HAVE NOT SAID I LOVE 330 00:16:44,339 --> 00:16:46,441 YOU TO EACH OTHER. AND IT SCARES ME TO THINK THAT 331 00:16:46,441 --> 00:16:50,012 I'M NOT GOING TO LET MYSELF GET THERE WITH HIM. 332 00:16:50,012 --> 00:16:51,013 >> ARE YOU GUYS EXCITED? 333 00:16:51,013 --> 00:16:52,080 >> COMPLETELY EXCITED. 334 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:54,082 >> HELLO. 335 00:16:54,082 --> 00:16:55,784 >> HI, JULIANA! 336 00:16:55,784 --> 00:16:59,554 >> BUT I'M HOPING THAT AFTER TODAY, YOU KNOW, SEEING HIM WITH 337 00:16:59,554 --> 00:17:04,993 HIS PEOPLE AND SEEING, YOU KNOW, HOW I, KIND OF, FEEL BEING 338 00:17:04,993 --> 00:17:07,930 AROUND THEM, THAT MAYBE WILL EASE MY MIND A LITTLE BIT. 339 00:17:07,930 --> 00:17:09,698 >> I'M SO EXCITED. 340 00:17:09,698 --> 00:17:11,333 >> ME TOO, ME TOO. 341 00:17:11,333 --> 00:17:14,202 >> TELL US A LITTLE BIT ABOUT YOUR FAMILY. 342 00:17:14,202 --> 00:17:15,637 YOU HAVE A BIG ITALIAN FAMILY. 343 00:17:15,637 --> 00:17:16,071 >> I DO. 344 00:17:16,071 --> 00:17:20,008 >> DO THEY MAKE SAUCE ON SUNDAYS? 345 00:17:20,008 --> 00:17:22,311 >> YEAH. I HAVE SOME AUNTS THAT DO AS 346 00:17:22,311 --> 00:17:22,511 WELL. 347 00:17:22,511 --> 00:17:27,215 >> I GREW UP IN CANARSIE, AN ITALIAN NEIGHBORHOOD IN BROOKLYN. 348 00:17:27,215 --> 00:17:30,686 I CAN RELATE TO THE SUNDAYS ALL ABOUT FAMILY, AND YOU CAN'T 349 00:17:30,686 --> 00:17:34,489 TOUCH THE POT UNTIL EVERYTHING IS FINISHED. 350 00:17:34,489 --> 00:17:37,626 >> FAMILY IS REALLY IMPORTANT. 351 00:17:37,626 --> 00:17:38,894 >> IT'S BIG. FAMILY IS BIG. HE TOLD US THAT WAS SPECIAL. 352 00:17:38,894 --> 00:17:41,964 >> YEAH. 353 00:17:41,964 --> 00:17:45,567 >> YOUR DAD IS SO COOL. WE LITERALLY JUST SAT DOWN OVER 354 00:17:45,567 --> 00:17:47,736 A GLASS AND JUST HUNG OUT AND TALKED. 355 00:17:47,736 --> 00:17:51,740 >> OH, WONDERFUL. SO, WHERE ELSE DID YOU GUYS GO? 356 00:17:51,740 --> 00:17:52,741 WHERE ELSE DID YOU TRAVEL TO? 357 00:17:52,741 --> 00:17:56,812 >> WE WERE IN SCOTLAND. AND WE TOOK A HELICOPTER TO A 358 00:17:56,812 --> 00:17:59,047 BEAUTIFUL CASTLE. 359 00:17:59,047 --> 00:18:03,919 >> AND THE BUTLER CAME AND WE TRIED ON SOME OUTFITS. 360 00:18:03,919 --> 00:18:05,721 >> AND WE WALTZED A LITTLE BIT. 361 00:18:05,721 --> 00:18:09,524 >> HOLD ON, HOLD ON, HE WALTZED? OKAY. 362 00:18:09,524 --> 00:18:12,160 >> YEAH. AND THEN, YOU KNOW, WE ENDED THE 363 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:15,731 NIGHT WITH AN AMAZING CONVERSATION. 364 00:18:15,731 --> 00:18:19,935 >> WE REALLY CONNECTED EMOTIONALLY AND WE HAVE VERY 365 00:18:19,935 --> 00:18:23,372 SIMILAR, SIMILAR STORIES. I SHOWED HER MY TATTOO AND WHAT 366 00:18:23,372 --> 00:18:25,907 IT MEANT. I WAS LIKE, I GOT THIS TATTOO 367 00:18:25,907 --> 00:18:28,276 WHEN I WAS IN THE DOMINICAN REPUBLIC AND I WAS FEELING 368 00:18:28,276 --> 00:18:31,847 REALLY ALONE. AND THERE'S SOME AREAS OF MY 369 00:18:31,847 --> 00:18:35,917 LIFE WHERE I FELT LIKE THAT. THAT'S WHERE IT RESONATED. 370 00:18:35,917 --> 00:18:37,619 I REMEMBER WE STARTED CRYING OVER THAT. 371 00:18:37,619 --> 00:18:40,422 THAT WAS THE MOMENT WHERE I FELT LIKE WE REALLY UNDERSTOOD EACH 372 00:18:40,422 --> 00:18:40,689 OTHER. 373 00:18:40,689 --> 00:18:48,363 >> JULIANA HAS THIS ENERGY, THIS VIBRANT, POSITIVE ENERGY, AND I 374 00:18:48,363 --> 00:18:50,932 SENSE THAT SHE BRINGS PEACE TO HIS LIFE. 375 00:18:50,932 --> 00:18:53,168 THAT'S IMPORTANT, YOU KNOW, BECAUSE HE'S BEEN WALKING A 376 00:18:53,168 --> 00:18:55,303 JOURNEY FOR A LONG TIME BY HIMSELF. 377 00:18:55,303 --> 00:18:56,571 JULIANA, CAN WE TALK A MOMENT? 378 00:18:56,571 --> 00:18:57,539 >> YES, ABSOLUTELY. 379 00:18:57,539 --> 00:19:00,208 >> OKAY. LET'S GO. SO, I'M JUST EXCITED TO SEE WHAT 380 00:19:00,208 --> 00:19:05,680 SHE HAS LEARNED MORE ABOUT HIM. I HAVE SO MANY QUESTIONS FOR HER. 381 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:05,981 JULIANA -- 382 00:19:05,981 --> 00:19:07,249 >> HELLO, HELLO. 383 00:19:07,249 --> 00:19:08,517 >> SO NICE TO MEET YOU. 384 00:19:08,517 --> 00:19:09,651 >> I'M SO EXCITED. 385 00:19:09,651 --> 00:19:12,287 >> I CAN'T EVEN TELL YOU. I DIDN'T EVEN SLEEP LAST NIGHT. 386 00:19:12,287 --> 00:19:13,221 >> I'M NERVOUS. 387 00:19:13,221 --> 00:19:14,956 >> I HAVE SOME HARD QUESTIONS. 388 00:19:14,956 --> 00:19:16,158 >> YES, ABSOLUTELY. 389 00:19:16,158 --> 00:19:19,161 >> I GUESS THE FIRST ONE WOULD BE, WHAT HAVE YOU FOUND IN GRANT 390 00:19:19,161 --> 00:19:21,263 THAT YOU FELT LIKE YOU'VE FALLEN IN LOVE WITH? 391 00:19:21,263 --> 00:19:24,433 >> SO, I APPRECIATE THAT QUESTION A LOT BECAUSE IT'S 392 00:19:24,433 --> 00:19:27,836 SOMETHING I THINK ABOUT A LOT. YOU KNOW, BEFORE COMING INTO 393 00:19:27,836 --> 00:19:32,107 THIS, WHAT WAS HARD FOR ME IS SHOWING MY VULNERABLE SIDE 394 00:19:32,107 --> 00:19:35,310 BECAUSE I WAS IN AN INSTANCE WHERE, YOU KNOW, I WAS HAVING A 395 00:19:35,310 --> 00:19:39,481 HARD TIME WALKING AWAY FROM SOMEBODY THAT I LOVED, BUT IT 396 00:19:39,481 --> 00:19:44,086 WASN'T -- IT WASN'T GOOD. THE LONELINESS SEEPS IN AND ALL 397 00:19:44,086 --> 00:19:47,255 THE DOUBTS ABOUT YOURSELF KIND OF COME SWARMING. 398 00:19:47,255 --> 00:19:50,492 AND, YOU KNOW, WE WERE ABLE TO HAVE THOSE DEEP CONVERSATIONS, 399 00:19:50,492 --> 00:19:54,563 WHICH I REALLY APPRECIATED. AND, YOU KNOW, I FELT UNDERSTOOD. 400 00:19:54,563 --> 00:19:59,901 >> SO, I'VE SEEN HIM DEPRESSED AND SAD AND LONELY. 401 00:19:59,901 --> 00:20:03,772 BUT YET NOW THAT I'VE SEEN HIM WITH YOU, I HAVE SEEN, LIKE, 402 00:20:03,772 --> 00:20:07,576 THIS HAPPY, FULFILLED YOUNG MAN WHO HAS FOUND HIS WAY AGAIN. 403 00:20:07,576 --> 00:20:08,143 >> YEAH. 404 00:20:08,143 --> 00:20:12,681 >> I JUST WANT TO MAKE SURE THAT IF HE SHOULD OR WOULD WANT TO 405 00:20:12,681 --> 00:20:17,686 ASK FOR YOUR HAND IN MARRIAGE OR AN ENGAGEMENT, DO YOU LOVE MY 406 00:20:17,686 --> 00:20:17,853 SON? 407 00:20:17,853 --> 00:20:24,593 >> OKAY. SO, GRANT AND I HAVE NOT TOLD 408 00:20:24,593 --> 00:20:27,529 EACH OTHER WE LOVE EACH OTHER. I'VE BEEN KIND OF HOLDING BACK A 409 00:20:27,529 --> 00:20:32,100 LITTLE BIT IN THAT SENSE JUST BECAUSE WHAT, YOU KNOW, THAT 410 00:20:32,100 --> 00:20:32,300 MEANS. 411 00:20:32,300 --> 00:20:37,639 >> SO, IF YOU'RE NOT THERE YET, HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU'LL EVER GET 412 00:20:37,639 --> 00:20:38,140 THERE? 413 00:20:38,140 --> 00:20:40,809 >> RIGHT. THAT'S A VERY GOOD QUESTION, AND 414 00:20:40,809 --> 00:20:44,312 IT'S ONE THAT DEFINITELY HAS BEEN ON MY HEAD. 415 00:20:44,312 --> 00:20:48,583 BUT, YOU KNOW, AN ENGAGEMENT MEANS FOREVER TO ME. 416 00:20:48,583 --> 00:20:54,055 LOVE MEANS FOREVER TO ME. AND HE IS TRULY SOMEBODY THAT I 417 00:20:54,055 --> 00:20:56,992 CAN SEE MYSELF BEING IN LOVE WITH AND SPENDING, YOU KNOW, THE 418 00:20:56,992 --> 00:21:01,663 REST OF ETERNITY WITH. SOME HESITANCY IS I JUST WANT TO 419 00:21:01,663 --> 00:21:06,168 MAKE SURE I CAN GIVE -- I CAN GIVE HIM THAT. 420 00:21:06,168 --> 00:21:09,170 I WANT TO TELL HER THAT, YOU KNOW, I WILL PROTECT YOUR SON, 421 00:21:09,170 --> 00:21:11,673 AND I WILL MAKE SURE HE FEELS SAFE AND LOVED. 422 00:21:11,673 --> 00:21:15,644 BUT I DON'T KNOW IF MY HEART, YOU KNOW, WOULD BE ABLE TO 423 00:21:15,644 --> 00:21:18,113 HANDLE SAYING "I LOVE YOU" KNOWING THERE'S STILL A CHANCE 424 00:21:18,113 --> 00:21:20,415 IT'S NOT GOING TO BE ME. 425 00:21:20,415 --> 00:21:24,920 >> HAVING SPOKEN TO JULIANA, I ASKED HER SOME HARD QUESTIONS. 426 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:29,291 WHY DOES SHE LOVE YOU, IF SHE LOVES YOU, HAS SHE TOLD YOU SHE 427 00:21:29,291 --> 00:21:32,561 LOVES YOU. AND SO HER -- YOU KNOW, MAINLY 428 00:21:32,561 --> 00:21:34,329 IT'S JUST THAT SHE'S NOT QUITE THERE YET. 429 00:21:34,329 --> 00:21:38,033 >> I DON'T KNOW IF IT'S BECAUSE SHE CAN'T GET THERE, IF IT'S ME, 430 00:21:38,033 --> 00:21:42,070 OR IF THERE'S SOMEBODY ELSE INVOLVED THAT SHE DOESN'T FEEL 431 00:21:42,070 --> 00:21:43,538 SAFE. I THINK IT'S NO FAULT TO HER. 432 00:21:43,538 --> 00:21:48,643 YOU KNOW, I THINK IT'S HARD TO SAY YOU LOVE SOMEBODY WHEN 433 00:21:48,643 --> 00:21:49,678 THERE'S SOMEBODY ELSE IN THE PICTURE. 434 00:21:49,678 --> 00:21:52,480 >> YOU HAVE TWO BEAUTIFUL WOMEN BEFORE YOU. I LOVE JULIANA. 435 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:56,084 I THINK SHE'S A SWEETHEART. SHE'S KIND, SHE'S COMPASSIONATE, 436 00:21:56,084 --> 00:21:58,887 SHE'S A PROTECTOR, SHE'S A WARM, LOVING PERSON. 437 00:21:58,887 --> 00:22:03,525 BUT AS YOUR MOM, THIS IS ABOUT YOU AND YOUR HEART AND YOUR HEAD. 438 00:22:03,525 --> 00:22:06,761 SO, IF SHE DOESN'T TELL YOU SHE LOVES YOU, I AM ASKING YOU TO 439 00:22:06,761 --> 00:22:10,498 WALK AWAY FROM THAT. 440 00:22:10,498 --> 00:22:11,633 >> HOW ARE YOU FEELING? 441 00:22:11,633 --> 00:22:12,834 >> I'M GOOD. HOW ARE YOU? 442 00:22:12,834 --> 00:22:16,471 >> I'M GOOD. 443 00:22:16,471 --> 00:22:19,941 >> GRANT, WHEN HE TALKED ABOUT YOU, I FELT HIS EXCITEMENT. 444 00:22:19,941 --> 00:22:21,543 >> I'M SO GLAD TO HEAR THAT. 445 00:22:21,543 --> 00:22:26,815 >> HE TOLD ME THAT YOU WERE A LITTLE BIT GUARDED AT FIRST BUT, 446 00:22:26,815 --> 00:22:30,685 YOU KNOW, YOU STARTED TO TALK AND IT TOOK SOME TIME FOR YOU 447 00:22:30,685 --> 00:22:30,952 AND HIM. 448 00:22:30,952 --> 00:22:32,053 >> YEAH. 449 00:22:32,053 --> 00:22:35,490 >> SO, JULIANA, DO YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS FOR ME ABOUT MY SON 450 00:22:35,490 --> 00:22:36,591 THAT I CAN TELL YOU? 451 00:22:36,591 --> 00:22:40,829 >> I JUST WANT TO MAKE SURE THAT HE UNDERSTANDS THAT, YOU KNOW, 452 00:22:40,829 --> 00:22:43,298 HE CAN HAVE HIS BAD DAYS AND HE CAN, YOU KNOW, NOT BE SO HAPPY 453 00:22:43,298 --> 00:22:47,435 AND CHIPPER IF HE NEEDS TO, KIND OF, PUT MORE EFFORT INTO THAT. 454 00:22:47,435 --> 00:22:52,407 YOU KNOW, IS THAT SOMETHING THAT YOU THINK HE STRUGGLES WITH? 455 00:22:52,407 --> 00:22:54,075 >> SO, THAT'S A GREAT QUESTION. 456 00:22:54,075 --> 00:22:54,976 >> OKAY. 457 00:22:54,976 --> 00:22:57,579 >> SO, LIFE IS NOT ALWAYS HAPPY AND CHIPPER. 458 00:22:57,579 --> 00:22:58,346 >> MM-HMM. 459 00:22:58,346 --> 00:23:00,715 >> I'VE SEEN HIM HAVE BAD DAYS. 460 00:23:00,715 --> 00:23:01,716 >> MM-HMM, OKAY. 461 00:23:01,716 --> 00:23:06,454 >> AND I SEE -- AND I'VE BEEN THERE FOR HIM, AND I'VE TRIED TO 462 00:23:06,454 --> 00:23:08,690 SAY, I'M HERE FOR YOU. YOU KNOW WHAT HE'S TOLD ME? 463 00:23:08,690 --> 00:23:09,290 >> WHAT? 464 00:23:09,290 --> 00:23:12,360 >> SO, I'M TELLING YOU ABOUT THIS. 465 00:23:12,360 --> 00:23:13,161 >> YEAH. 466 00:23:13,161 --> 00:23:15,530 >> I GOT THIS. I NEED MY SPACE. 467 00:23:15,530 --> 00:23:16,197 >> YEAH. 468 00:23:16,197 --> 00:23:17,098 >> I GAVE IT TO HIM. 469 00:23:17,098 --> 00:23:17,932 >> YEAH. 470 00:23:17,932 --> 00:23:24,372 >> MAYBE HE DIDN'T TRUST ME AT THAT TIME. 471 00:23:24,372 --> 00:23:28,743 MY HOUSE WAS A LITTLE BIT FIERY. 472 00:23:28,743 --> 00:23:32,847 SO, BOTH GRANT AND KELLY, THEY SAW THAT. 473 00:23:32,847 --> 00:23:34,949 HE WANTS TO TRY TO BE -- AND HE'S GOING TO BE A BETTER 474 00:23:34,949 --> 00:23:42,090 HUSBAND THAN I WAS. I WAS THERE, BUT SOMETIMES I 475 00:23:42,090 --> 00:23:42,324 WASN'T. 476 00:23:42,324 --> 00:23:42,924 >> OKAY. 477 00:23:42,924 --> 00:23:45,260 >> HE FEELS SAFE AROUND YOU. HE TOLD ME THAT. 478 00:23:45,260 --> 00:23:45,827 >> OKAY. 479 00:23:45,827 --> 00:23:50,432 >> YOU MAKE HIM WANT TO OPEN UP. 480 00:23:50,432 --> 00:23:50,665 >> GOOD. 481 00:23:50,665 --> 00:23:52,701 >> SO, HE NEEDS THAT. YOU NEED THAT TOO. 482 00:23:52,701 --> 00:23:53,201 >> YEAH. 483 00:23:53,201 --> 00:23:55,470 >> YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO TALK TO YOUR PARTNER. 484 00:23:55,470 --> 00:23:56,204 >> ABSOLUTELY. 485 00:23:56,204 --> 00:23:58,406 >> ABOUT EVERYTHING. 486 00:23:58,406 --> 00:23:59,307 >> MM-HMM. 487 00:23:59,307 --> 00:24:04,145 >> JULIANA, SHE ASKED ME A KEY QUESTION ABOUT HIS FEELINGS, AND 488 00:24:04,145 --> 00:24:11,453 I SAID, IF YOU CAN GET HIM TO SPEAK ABOUT HIS FEELINGS, YOU 489 00:24:11,453 --> 00:24:14,122 ARE ALREADY ON THIRD BASE COMING HOME. 490 00:24:14,122 --> 00:24:20,261 BUT WHETHER IT BE JULIANA OR LITIA, I'M GOING TO BE RIGHT 491 00:24:20,261 --> 00:24:22,831 THERE. I HOPE HE CONFIDES IN ME, AND I 492 00:24:22,831 --> 00:24:25,500 JUST WANT TO SUPPORT HIM. I JUST WANT TO BE HERE FOR HIM. 493 00:24:25,500 --> 00:24:28,603 >> WHAT'S UP, DAD? 494 00:24:28,603 --> 00:24:30,905 >> YOU. I JUST FINISHED TALKING TO 495 00:24:30,905 --> 00:24:34,409 JULIANA. SHE ASKED ME A QUESTION. SHE SAID, HOW WOULD YOU REACT, 496 00:24:34,409 --> 00:24:38,146 LIKE, IF YOU HAD, LIKE, A CHALLENGING SITUATION, WHEN YOU 497 00:24:38,146 --> 00:24:40,548 WERE FEELING DOWN? I SAID, HE WANTS SOMEBODY TO 498 00:24:40,548 --> 00:24:43,852 SHARE THAT WITH. SHE WANT TO KNOW, YOU KNOW, WHAT 499 00:24:43,852 --> 00:24:45,553 MAKES YOU TICK LIKE THAT. 500 00:24:45,553 --> 00:24:50,759 >> SHE'S ALREADY STARTING TO CRACK THROUGH THAT. 501 00:24:50,759 --> 00:24:50,992 >> YEAH. 502 00:24:50,992 --> 00:24:52,293 >> I HOLD SO MUCH STUFF IN, I'M LOOKING FOR SOMEBODY I DON'T 503 00:24:52,293 --> 00:24:55,130 HAVE TO DO THAT. I'M SO USED TO BEING LIKE, I'M 504 00:24:55,130 --> 00:24:55,330 GOOD. 505 00:24:55,330 --> 00:24:56,064 >> I KNOW, I KNOW. 506 00:24:56,064 --> 00:24:59,067 >> SO, FOR ME TO HAVE THAT PERSON, WHICH I FEEL LIKE COULD 507 00:24:59,067 --> 00:25:02,170 BE HER, BUT IT HAS TO -- THE LOVE HAS TO BE THERE FIRST. 508 00:25:02,170 --> 00:25:06,608 >> YOU KNOW, ALL I CAN TELL YOU IS THAT YOU SAFE WITH HER. 509 00:25:06,608 --> 00:25:08,243 YOU HAVE TO FIGURE OUT THE REST. 510 00:25:08,243 --> 00:25:09,811 >> YEAH. 511 00:25:09,811 --> 00:25:12,347 >> YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN? I'M HERE FOR YOU. 512 00:25:12,347 --> 00:25:17,485 >> TO HAVE JULIANA HERE, FOR YOU TO MEET HER, AS SOMEBODY WHO 513 00:25:17,485 --> 00:25:19,454 COULD POTENTIALLY BE MY WIFE, IT MEANS A LOT. 514 00:25:19,454 --> 00:25:24,325 IT MEANS A LOT TO ME, YOU KNOW? AND I'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE 515 00:25:24,325 --> 00:25:28,196 ABLE TO COME TO YOU. WE'RE TALKING NOW. 516 00:25:28,196 --> 00:25:30,899 THERE'S NO -- THERE'S NO JUDGMENT. 517 00:25:30,899 --> 00:25:34,135 I FEEL LIKE I HAVE A FRIEND, A BEST FRIEND I CAN TALK TO, AND I 518 00:25:34,135 --> 00:25:37,338 DON'T HAVE TO HOLD THINGS IN. YOU KNOW? 519 00:25:37,338 --> 00:25:39,874 >> SON, I'M SO -- I'M PROUD OF YOU, MAN. 520 00:25:39,874 --> 00:25:43,144 MAN, YOU PUT UP WITH SOME STUFF. 521 00:25:43,144 --> 00:25:46,614 >> IT'S OKAY. IT'S OKAY. 522 00:25:46,614 --> 00:25:50,618 >> YOU KNOW I GOT YOU. 523 00:25:50,618 --> 00:25:56,624 >> MAN, YOU'VE BEEN THERE FOR ME. IT'S HARD, MAN. 524 00:25:56,624 --> 00:25:59,561 IT'S BECAUSE OF YOU THAT I'M HERE. 525 00:25:59,561 --> 00:26:02,096 IN SPITE OF MY MADNESS, YOU'RE STILL MY SON. 526 00:26:02,096 --> 00:26:05,300 YOU STILL LOVE ME, YOU KNOW? I MADE SOME BAD DECISIONS, BUT 527 00:26:05,300 --> 00:26:09,404 YOU TURNED OUT, YOU'RE A GEM. I LOVE YOU. I LOVE YOU. 528 00:26:09,404 --> 00:26:14,709 I LOVE THE MAN THAT YOU'VE 529 00:26:14,709 --> 00:26:19,714 BECOME. I'M NOT LEAVING YOU NO MORE, YOU 530 00:26:19,714 --> 00:26:22,917 KNOW WHAT I MEAN? I'M HERE UNTIL GOD TAKES ME. 531 00:26:22,917 --> 00:26:26,221 I'M HERE. YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY, AND I 532 00:26:26,221 --> 00:26:29,724 KNOW YOU WILL MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE. 533 00:26:29,724 --> 00:26:36,698 AND WHOEVER FINDS YOU, THEY'RE THE LUCKIEST WOMAN IN THE WORLD. 534 00:26:36,698 --> 00:26:41,870 GIVE ME SOME LOVE. 535 00:26:41,870 --> 00:26:45,139 >> I'M GLAD THAT MY DAD IS ABLE TO BE A PART OF THIS AND FOR 536 00:26:45,139 --> 00:26:47,942 THIS TO BE ONE OF THE BIGGEST DECISIONS OF MY LIFE AND FOR HIM 537 00:26:47,942 --> 00:26:51,546 TO BE ABLE TO HELP POINT ME IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION ALONGSIDE MY 538 00:26:51,546 --> 00:26:54,516 MOTHER, I CAN ONLY BE GRATEFUL FOR THAT. 539 00:26:54,516 --> 00:26:56,851 >> THANK YOU SO MUCH. NICE TO MEET YOU. 540 00:26:56,851 --> 00:27:00,688 >> YOU KNOW, I'VE TAKEN A LOT FROM MY MOM AND I'VE TAKEN A LOT 541 00:27:00,688 --> 00:27:02,924 FROM MY DAD. AND ULTIMATELY, I THINK THEY 542 00:27:02,924 --> 00:27:07,695 HAVE DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVES. BUT IT FEELS GOOD THAT MY FAMILY 543 00:27:07,695 --> 00:27:09,931 HAS MY BACK, AND REALLY THAT'S THE MOST IMPORTANT THING. 544 00:27:09,931 --> 00:27:10,431 >> BYE BYE. 545 00:27:10,431 --> 00:27:15,303 >> I CAME IN HERE SAYING I WAS GOING TO PUT MY HEART OUT THERE, 546 00:27:15,303 --> 00:27:17,071 AND I FEEL LIKE EXPRESSING THIS TO JULIANA IS THE RIGHT WAY TO 547 00:27:17,071 --> 00:27:18,973 DO IT. YOU KNOW, PUT MY FEELINGS OUT 548 00:27:18,973 --> 00:27:24,579 THERE AND SEE WHERE THE PIECES FALL. 549 00:27:24,579 --> 00:27:27,015 WE'VE HAD A CONNECTION THROUGH THIS WHOLE JOURNEY. 550 00:27:27,015 --> 00:27:29,951 AND WHEN I AM WITH YOU, I GET BUTTERFLIES, I DO. 551 00:27:29,951 --> 00:27:30,852 >> ME TOO. 552 00:27:30,852 --> 00:27:36,858 >> YEAH, I THINK THAT NOT ONLY AM I SO ATTRACTED TO YOU, BUT I 553 00:27:36,858 --> 00:27:39,527 HAVE FALLEN. I FEEL LIKE WE COULD BE LAYING 554 00:27:39,527 --> 00:27:43,097 IN BED JUST TALKING TO EACH OTHER AND BEING SO OPEN AND 555 00:27:43,097 --> 00:27:45,600 HONEST WITH EACH OTHER. AND I'VE BEEN WAITING TO TELL 556 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:49,570 YOU THAT I DO LOVE YOU, AND AFTER TODAY, I CAN FEEL THAT, 557 00:27:49,570 --> 00:27:51,172 YOU KNOW? AND THERE'S NO PRESSURE ON YOU. 558 00:27:51,172 --> 00:27:55,443 I JUST FEEL LIKE FOR ME TO SAY THAT TO YOU, TO LET YOU KNOW, 559 00:27:55,443 --> 00:27:58,112 WHEN I SAY IT, I MEAN IT. YOU KNOW, I LOVE YOU. 560 00:27:58,112 --> 00:28:05,887 AND I SEE A FUTURE HERE. 561 00:28:10,758 --> 00:28:15,330 >> YOU KNOW, THIS IS SO EXCITING AND EXHILARATING, AND I FEEL 562 00:28:15,330 --> 00:28:20,735 LIKE THIS, WITH YOU, IT'S ALSO OBVIOUSLY NERVE-RACKING BECAUSE 563 00:28:20,735 --> 00:28:26,007 THERE'S SOMEBODY ELSE HERE. AND NOT TO THINK ABOUT THAT TOO 564 00:28:26,007 --> 00:28:30,878 MUCH, BUT, YOU KNOW, FOR SO LONG I'VE DEBATED ON JUST, LIKE, WHAT 565 00:28:30,878 --> 00:28:36,784 IT WOULD MEAN TO ACTUALLY KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU. 566 00:28:36,784 --> 00:28:39,387 AND I THINK I'M FINALLY REALIZING, YOU KNOW, AFTER 567 00:28:39,387 --> 00:28:42,457 MEETING YOUR FAMILY, IT'S NOT, LIKE, ONE IN PARTICULAR MOMENT 568 00:28:42,457 --> 00:28:47,195 THAT I'M GOING TO -- JUST GOING TO HIT ME. 569 00:28:47,195 --> 00:28:50,531 I THINK I KNOW I LOVE YOU TOO, AND I WANT IT TO BE YOU AND I AT 570 00:28:50,531 --> 00:28:56,371 THE END OF THIS. I LOVE YOU TOO. 571 00:28:56,371 --> 00:29:00,642 >> I'VE BEEN FEELING A WAY ABOUT JULIANA FOR A WHILE, YOU KNOW? 572 00:29:00,642 --> 00:29:05,046 AND I WAS SCARED AND EMBARRASSED TO TELL JULIANA I LOVED HER. 573 00:29:05,046 --> 00:29:08,383 AND HER SAYING IT BACK, IT MAKES ME FEEL SPECIAL. 574 00:29:08,383 --> 00:29:09,484 >> YOU LOVE ME? 575 00:29:09,484 --> 00:29:11,619 >> YES, I DO. I DO LOVE YOU. 576 00:29:11,619 --> 00:29:16,524 I LITERALLY WAS WAITING -- LITERALLY MY HEART IS BEATING SO 577 00:29:16,524 --> 00:29:19,293 FAST RIGHT NOW. WE ARE IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER. 578 00:29:19,293 --> 00:29:25,166 AND IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I'M READY TO CONQUER EVERYTHING WITH 579 00:29:25,166 --> 00:29:26,401 HER. SEE YOU SOON, OKAY? 580 00:29:26,401 --> 00:29:27,568 >> OKAY. 581 00:29:27,568 --> 00:29:33,875 >> BYE. 582 00:29:33,875 --> 00:29:37,945 WATCHING HER LEAVE, IT WAS A SURREAL MOMENT FOR ME. 583 00:29:37,945 --> 00:29:40,214 IF IT WAS AN EXCLUSIVE THING, I WOULD BE OVER THE MOON. 584 00:29:40,214 --> 00:29:44,085 IN MY MIND, IT'S HEAVY BECAUSE, LIKE, I ALSO AM IN LOVE WITH 585 00:29:44,085 --> 00:29:48,022 SOMEBODY ELSE. BUT NOW IT'S, LIKE, I HAVE A 586 00:29:48,022 --> 00:29:50,224 CHOICE BETWEEN TWO WOMEN, AND I FEEL CONFUSED. 587 00:29:50,224 --> 00:29:53,161 I'M TRYING TO FIGURE THIS OUT. 588 00:30:00,201 --> 00:30:05,673 >> Jesse: THERE YOU HAVE IT. GRANT IS NOW OFFICIALLY IN LOVE 589 00:30:05,673 --> 00:30:11,312 WITH BOTH LITIA AND JULIANA. ONE BACHELOR IN LOVE WITH TWO 590 00:30:11,312 --> 00:30:17,418 WOMEN AT THE SAME TIME. I FEEL LIKE WE'VE SEEN THIS 591 00:30:17,418 --> 00:30:20,822 MOVIE BEFORE. HAVEN'T WE? WELL, WHEN WE COME BACK, WE'RE 592 00:30:20,822 --> 00:30:26,027 GOING TO HEAR FROM SOME PAST BACHELORS AND BACHELORETTES WHO 593 00:30:26,027 --> 00:30:31,165 FACED A SIMILAR PREDICAMENT. HOW DID THEY HANDLE IT, AND WHAT 594 00:30:31,165 --> 00:30:34,669 ADVICE DO THEY HAVE FOR GRANT. FIND OUT WHEN THE DRAMATIC LIVE 595 00:30:34,669 --> 00:30:36,771 FINALE OF "THE BACHELOR" RETURNS. DON'T GO AWAY. 596 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:49,492 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 597 00:30:49,492 --> 00:30:51,846 >> Jesse: WELCOME BACK TO THE LIVE FINALE OF "THE BACHELOR." 598 00:30:51,846 --> 00:30:54,381 OF COURSE WE'RE JUST GETTING STARTED TONIGHT, AND GRANT IS 599 00:30:54,381 --> 00:30:57,885 ALREADY FACING AN IMPOSSIBLE SITUATION BECAUSE HE'S IN LOVE 600 00:30:57,885 --> 00:31:00,721 WITH BOTH LITIA AND JULIANA. IT REALLY IS A COMPLICATED SET 601 00:31:00,721 --> 00:31:03,724 OF EMOTIONS THAT SEEMS IMPOSSIBLE. 602 00:31:03,724 --> 00:31:08,896 YET IT HAS HAPPENED MANY TIMES HERE ON "THE BACHELOR" AND "THE 603 00:31:08,896 --> 00:31:12,666 BACHELORETTE." SO, WE'VE CONVENED A PANEL OF 604 00:31:12,666 --> 00:31:16,170 SOME OF THE FEW PEOPLE IN THE WORLD WHO CAN SHED SOME LIGHT ON 605 00:31:16,170 --> 00:31:18,906 WHAT GRANT IS GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW. 606 00:31:18,906 --> 00:31:26,380 PLEASE HELP ME WELCOME CHARITY, CLAYTON, AND GERRY. 607 00:31:26,380 --> 00:31:30,117 IT'S SO GREAT TO SEE THE THREE OF YOU. 608 00:31:30,117 --> 00:31:37,324 I GET A TIDAL WAVE OF MEMORIES. CHARITY, YOU TOLD THE FINAL TWO 609 00:31:37,324 --> 00:31:40,794 MEN ON YOUR JOURNEY, LOVED THEM -- AND VERY HAPPY ENGAGED 610 00:31:40,794 --> 00:31:41,195 TO SCOTT. 611 00:31:41,195 --> 00:31:42,363 >> YES, WE ARE. 612 00:31:42,363 --> 00:31:46,033 >> TAKE US BACK TO FIJI. DID YOU EVER THINK IT WAS 613 00:31:46,033 --> 00:31:49,003 POSSIBLE TO FEEL SUCH STRONG FEELINGS FOR TWO MEN AT THE SAME 614 00:31:49,003 --> 00:31:49,236 TIME? 615 00:31:49,236 --> 00:31:52,173 >> NO, I THINK OBVIOUSLY BEFORE COMING INTO THIS, YOU TELL 616 00:31:52,173 --> 00:31:54,275 YOURSELF IT'S NOT POSSIBLE AND IT'S NOT SOMETHING THAT COULD 617 00:31:54,275 --> 00:32:00,581 HAPPEN. BUT UNLESS YOU LIVE THIS EXPERIENCE FROM START TO FINISH, 618 00:32:00,581 --> 00:32:02,816 IT OBVIOUSLY IT HAPPENS AND IT HAPPENS TO SO MANY OF US. 619 00:32:02,816 --> 00:32:07,922 AND I THINK, LIKE, FOR ME, LIKE, I OBVIOUSLY FELT THOSE FEELINGS. 620 00:32:07,922 --> 00:32:12,359 BUT IT REALLY IS UP TO LEE TO DECIDE WHAT THAT LOVE LOOKS LIKE 621 00:32:12,359 --> 00:32:19,466 AND HOW STRONG THAT LOVE LOOKS LIKE IN REAL LIFE. 622 00:32:19,466 --> 00:32:25,172 I THINK THAT'S WHERE I WAS TORN. TOWARD THE END, YOU FACE DELIB 623 00:32:25,172 --> 00:32:26,440 DECISION PARALYSIS. YOU ARE RUNNING OUT OF TIME. 624 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:29,710 THERE ARE A LOT OF LIMITING FACTORS THAT AFFECT THAT. 625 00:32:29,710 --> 00:32:30,778 BUT IT IS OBVIOUSLY POSSIBLE. 626 00:32:30,778 --> 00:32:35,115 >> IT SEEMS LIKE SOMETIMES, MAYBE GIVING YOURSELF UP TO THE 627 00:32:35,115 --> 00:32:35,349 PROCESS. 628 00:32:35,349 --> 00:32:42,556 >> NO, NO. YOU HAVE TO SURRENDER, FOR SURE. 629 00:32:42,556 --> 00:32:44,792 >> IT'S GREAT SEEING YOU. YOUR FIRST SEASON WAS MY FIRST 630 00:32:44,792 --> 00:32:45,993 AS WELL. I ALWAYS LOOK BACK ON YOUR 631 00:32:45,993 --> 00:32:49,830 SEASON WITH FOND MEMORIES. I'M ALSO NEVER GOING TO FORGET 632 00:32:49,830 --> 00:32:53,233 HOW DRAMATIC THAT LAST WEEK IN ICELAND WAS WHEN YOU TOLD THE 633 00:32:53,233 --> 00:32:57,571 FINAL THREE WOMEN, SUZIE, RACHEL, AND GABBY YOU LOVED THEM. 634 00:32:57,571 --> 00:32:59,840 WHEN YOU THINK BACK TO THAT WEEK, WHAT STANDS OUT? 635 00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:03,177 >> OH, I FOUGHT IT SO HARD, THE FEELINGS. 636 00:33:03,177 --> 00:33:06,146 I DIDN'T WANT TO FIND MYSELF IN THAT POSITION BECAUSE I KNEW 637 00:33:06,146 --> 00:33:12,052 THAT IF I DID, I WOULD -- IT WOULD BE A MESS. AND IT WAS. 638 00:33:12,052 --> 00:33:16,924 BUT -- BUT ONCE I GAVE MYSELF PERMISSION TO REALLY LEAN INTO 639 00:33:16,924 --> 00:33:19,927 THE EXPERIENCE, I REALIZED I HAD FALLEN IN LOVE WITH EACH OF THE 640 00:33:19,927 --> 00:33:23,230 WOMEN FOR THEIR OWN UNIQUE CHARACTERISTICS. 641 00:33:23,230 --> 00:33:26,333 >> GERRY, IT'S GREAT SEEING YOU AS WELL. 642 00:33:26,333 --> 00:33:30,304 YOU'RE GETTING MORE HANDSOME AS THE OLDER YOU GET. 643 00:33:30,304 --> 00:33:33,741 YOU'RE AGING IN REVERSE. YOU ALSO TOLD THE LAST THREE 644 00:33:33,741 --> 00:33:36,977 WOMEN ON YOUR JOURNEY THAT YOU LOVE THEM. 645 00:33:36,977 --> 00:33:40,414 WHEN YOU CONSIDER THE POSITION GRANT IS IN RIGHT NOW, IS THERE 646 00:33:40,414 --> 00:33:43,183 A PART OF YOU THAT CAN RELATE EMOTIONALLY? 647 00:33:43,183 --> 00:33:45,285 >> ABSOLUTELY. YOU SEE THE BURDEN HE'S UNDER. 648 00:33:45,285 --> 00:33:47,021 I THINK IT'S IMPORTANT TO KNOW HOW AND WHY THIS HAPPENS. 649 00:33:47,021 --> 00:33:50,291 WHEN YOU'RE ON THE SHOW AND YOU STRIP YOURSELF OF 650 00:33:50,291 --> 00:33:53,060 VULNERABILITIES AND THE BARRIERS ARE DOWN AND YOU'VE COMMITTED 651 00:33:53,060 --> 00:33:58,732 YOURSELF TO FINDING YOUR PERSON, ALL OF A SUDDEN, YOU LOOK AT 652 00:33:58,732 --> 00:34:00,934 THIS WOMAN YOU FORMED A CONNECTION WITH, AND YOU HAVE 653 00:34:00,934 --> 00:34:05,305 THAT FEELING. AND YOU BELIEVE THAT THAT WOMAN 654 00:34:05,305 --> 00:34:09,410 THERE IS THE RIGHT PERSON. AND UNLESS YOU'VE BEEN IN THAT 655 00:34:09,410 --> 00:34:11,145 SPOT, IT'S HARD TO DESCRIBE. 656 00:34:11,145 --> 00:34:13,347 >> YEAH. LISTENING TO THE THREE OF YOU, 657 00:34:13,347 --> 00:34:16,517 IT SOUNDS LIKE IT'S A POSITION YOU NEVER ANTICIPATE BEING IN. 658 00:34:16,517 --> 00:34:22,256 SO, CHARITY, I'LL ASK YOU. IF YOU COULD GIVE ANY ADVICE TO 659 00:34:22,256 --> 00:34:24,491 GRANT MOVING FORWARD, WHAT WOULD YOU TELL HIM? 660 00:34:24,491 --> 00:34:27,728 >> TRY NOT TO WAIT UNTIL 45 MINUTES BEFORE THE PROPOSAL. 661 00:34:27,728 --> 00:34:30,898 I WILL SAY TO OBVIOUSLY TRUST YOUR GUT. 662 00:34:30,898 --> 00:34:36,270 I THINK FOR ME, LIKE, MY BODY WAS TELLING ME ALL ALONG, LIKE, 663 00:34:36,270 --> 00:34:38,439 WHO I SHOULD HAVE PICKED AND WHO I DID PICK. 664 00:34:38,439 --> 00:34:41,108 I THINK TRUSTING THAT AND BELIEVING REALLY IN YOUR HEART, 665 00:34:41,108 --> 00:34:44,578 YOU GET ADVICE OBVIOUSLY FROM FAMILY MEMBERS AND OBVIOUSLY THE 666 00:34:44,578 --> 00:34:46,980 PEOPLE THAT ARE AROUND US THROUGHOUT THIS EXPERIENCE. 667 00:34:46,980 --> 00:34:50,617 BUT ONLY REALLY YOU KNOW. BELIEVE IN THAT. 668 00:34:50,617 --> 00:34:54,221 >> Jesse: THAT'S GREAT ADVICE. GERRY, GRANT IS JUST MOMENTS 669 00:34:54,221 --> 00:34:57,591 AWAY FROM MAKING THE BIGGEST DECISION OF HIS LIFE. 670 00:34:57,591 --> 00:34:59,026 HOW DOES HE CHOOSE? 671 00:34:59,026 --> 00:35:02,629 >> I WOULD JUST SAY YOU MISS 100% OF THE SHOTS YOU DON'T TAKE. 672 00:35:02,629 --> 00:35:07,901 SO, YOU TRUST YOUR FEELINGS. IT'S BAD THAT I THINK SOME OF US 673 00:35:07,901 --> 00:35:10,437 DIDN'T DO A GREAT JOB OF. WE TRIED TO BE LOGICAL. 674 00:35:10,437 --> 00:35:13,273 TRUST THAT FEELING. WHEN YOU GET THE FEELING, YOU'LL 675 00:35:13,273 --> 00:35:16,143 KNOW. AND CHARITY JUST SAID IT TOO. 676 00:35:16,143 --> 00:35:19,079 >> IT REALLY IS GREAT HEARING ALL YOUR INSIGHTS. 677 00:35:19,079 --> 00:35:22,049 THERE'S ACTUALLY IS ONE OTHER PERSON IN OUR AUDIENCE TONIGHT 678 00:35:22,049 --> 00:35:26,019 WHO LIVED IT A LITTLE BIT. AND SHE TOOK A COMPLETELY 679 00:35:26,019 --> 00:35:26,854 DIFFERENT APPROACH TO THIS WHOLE THING. 680 00:35:26,854 --> 00:35:32,092 OF COURSE I'M REFERENCING OUR AMAZING GOLDEN BACHELORETTE, 681 00:35:32,092 --> 00:35:36,029 JOAN, IS WITH US TONIGHT. JOAN, YOU LOOK ABSOLUTELY 682 00:35:36,029 --> 00:35:37,397 INCREDIBLE. SO, I WANT TO ASK YOU BECAUSE 683 00:35:37,397 --> 00:35:40,868 YOU REALLY MADE A COMMITMENT TO YOURSELF THAT YOU WERE ONLY 684 00:35:40,868 --> 00:35:44,104 GOING TO TELL ONE PERSON ON THE ENTIRE JOURNEY AT THE VERY END 685 00:35:44,104 --> 00:35:47,541 THAT YOU LOVED THEM. OF COURSE THAT ENDED UP BEING 686 00:35:47,541 --> 00:35:50,911 YOUR VERY HANDSOME FIANCE SITTING BESIDE YOU. 687 00:35:50,911 --> 00:35:52,146 WHY WAS THAT SO IMPORTANT TO YOU? 688 00:35:52,146 --> 00:35:53,914 >> I'M SORRY. I DIDN'T HEAR THE QUESTION. 689 00:35:53,914 --> 00:35:59,019 >> WHY DID YOU -- WHY WAS IT SO IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO TELL ONLY 690 00:35:59,019 --> 00:36:01,588 ONE PERSON ON THE WHOLE JOURNEY? YOU REALLY COMMITTED YOURSELF? 691 00:36:01,588 --> 00:36:04,458 >> I THINK IT'S HARD TO GO BACKWARDS, SO YOU HAVE TO BE 692 00:36:04,458 --> 00:36:08,195 VERY CAREFUL WITH YOUR WORDS. AND I THOUGHT ABOUT THIS A LOT 693 00:36:08,195 --> 00:36:10,297 BEFORE I ACTUALLY EVEN WENT ON THE SHOW AND THOUGHT, I DON'T 694 00:36:10,297 --> 00:36:12,032 WANT TO DO THAT TO ANOTHER PERSON. 695 00:36:12,032 --> 00:36:15,869 SO, EVEN IF I HAVE THE FEELINGS, I'M NOT SAYING IT TO ANYONE 696 00:36:15,869 --> 00:36:19,406 UNTIL I AM STANDING IN FRONT OF THEM AND KNOW THAT THEY'RE THE 697 00:36:19,406 --> 00:36:21,475 PERSON TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH. 698 00:36:21,475 --> 00:36:25,412 >> AGAIN, I THINK THERE REALLY ONLY ARE A SELECT HANDFUL OF 699 00:36:25,412 --> 00:36:28,115 PEOPLE IN THE WORLD WHO CAN EVEN POSSIBLY RELATE TO WHAT GRANT 700 00:36:28,115 --> 00:36:31,485 MIGHT BE FEELING AT THIS MOMENT. IT REALLY MEANS A LOT TO US TO 701 00:36:31,485 --> 00:36:34,588 HAVE ALL OF YOU HEAR SHARING YOUR INSIGHTS. THANK YOU SO MUCH. 702 00:36:34,588 --> 00:36:40,761 LET'S HEAR IT FOR CHARITY, CLAYTON, GERRY, AND JOAN. 703 00:36:40,761 --> 00:36:42,463 ALL RIGHT. WELL, WE'RE JUST GETTING STARTED 704 00:36:42,463 --> 00:36:45,299 HERE TONIGHT, FOLKS. BUT BEFORE WE GO TO BREAK, I 705 00:36:45,299 --> 00:36:49,970 WANT TO SHOUTOUT FAMILIAR FACES IN STUDIO WITH US. 706 00:36:49,970 --> 00:36:56,143 WE'VE GOT BACHELOR NATION'S VERY OWN DEBBIE BURNETT WITH US. 707 00:36:56,143 --> 00:36:59,046 REALITY COMPETITION SERIES "GOT TO GET OUT." 708 00:36:59,046 --> 00:37:03,450 THAT'S PREMIERING APRIL 11th. CANNOT WAIT TO SEE THAT ONE. 709 00:37:03,450 --> 00:37:09,590 SPEAKING OF CAN'T WAIT. ARE YOU READY FOR MORE DRAMA? 710 00:37:09,590 --> 00:37:15,529 VANDERPUMP VILLA IS HEADING TO ITALY, A STUNNING CASTLE IN THE 711 00:37:15,529 --> 00:37:21,268 ITALIAN COUNTRYSIDE. SPECIAL GUESTS AND THE ALL NEW 712 00:37:21,268 --> 00:37:25,505 SEASON PREMIERES APRIL 24th ON HULU. 713 00:37:25,505 --> 00:37:29,009 >> THIS SEASON I'VE CHOSEN THIS ITALIAN CASTLE. 714 00:37:29,009 --> 00:37:30,143 >> THIS PLACE IS CRAZY. 715 00:37:30,143 --> 00:37:37,284 >> I HAVE A SPECIAL VIP GUEST. MY EYES AND EARS. 716 00:37:37,284 --> 00:37:37,517 >> JOE. 717 00:37:37,517 --> 00:37:42,089 >> I'M EXCITED TO STICK MY NOSE WHERE IT DOESN'T BELONG. 718 00:37:42,089 --> 00:37:46,960 >> THEY'RE NAUGHTY. YOU NEVER LET THE -- WE ARE 719 00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:48,262 DONE-ZO. 720 00:37:48,262 --> 00:37:49,830 >> WHAT DO YOU KNOW DONE-ZO? 721 00:37:58,408 --> 00:38:02,505 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 722 00:38:02,505 --> 00:38:04,524 >> Jesse: WE'RE BACK WITH THE THREE-HOUR FINALE OF "THE 723 00:38:04,524 --> 00:38:09,762 BACHELOR" COMING TO YOU LIVE FROM LOS ANGELES. 724 00:38:09,762 --> 00:38:14,934 BOTH LITIA AND JULIANA HAVE MET GRANT'S FAMILY AND BOTH 725 00:38:14,934 --> 00:38:19,572 PROFESSED THEIR LOVE FOR HIM. NOW, WITH JUST ONE LAST DATE 726 00:38:19,572 --> 00:38:23,976 LEFT WITH EACH WOMAN, WILL HE GET THE CLARITY HE'S LOOKING FOR? 727 00:38:23,976 --> 00:38:32,051 LET'S WATCH. 728 00:38:32,752 --> 00:38:39,592 ♪ 729 00:38:43,629 --> 00:38:46,933 >> TODAY IS MY LAST DATE WITH GRANT BEFORE HE POTENTIALLY 730 00:38:46,933 --> 00:38:50,203 PROPOSES TO ME. I'M STILL TRYING TO PROCESS 731 00:38:50,203 --> 00:38:52,939 SEEING HIM AND HIS FAMILY AND HIM, OF COURSE, TELLING ME THAT 732 00:38:52,939 --> 00:38:57,310 HE LOVES ME AND ME SAYING THAT I ALSO LOVE HIM. 733 00:38:57,310 --> 00:39:01,247 IT FEELS GOOD WHEN I THINK ABOUT IT AND REALLY EXCITED AND HAPPY. 734 00:39:01,247 --> 00:39:04,884 BUT AT THE SAME TIME, IT'S, LIKE, MY STOMACH, LIKE, DROPS. 735 00:39:04,884 --> 00:39:09,155 MY HEART, YOU KNOW, LIKE, STARTS RACING, AND MY MIND STARTS TO 736 00:39:09,155 --> 00:39:13,092 KIND OF PANIC. I THINK THERE'S JUST THE FEAR OF 737 00:39:13,092 --> 00:39:17,430 BEING HURT BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT I'VE EXPERIENCED IN 738 00:39:17,430 --> 00:39:20,299 RELATIONSHIPS. SO, I'M EXCITED THAT GRANT SAID 739 00:39:20,299 --> 00:39:28,007 IT. BUT, YOU KNOW, IT MAKES ME NERVOUS. 740 00:39:28,007 --> 00:39:32,144 >> HOW ARE YOU, BEAUTIFUL? WHAT'S GOING ON? 741 00:39:32,144 --> 00:39:33,880 YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL. 742 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:34,447 >> THANK YOU. 743 00:39:34,447 --> 00:39:35,414 >> HOW DO YOU FEEL? 744 00:39:35,414 --> 00:39:36,716 >> I FEEL GOOD. 745 00:39:36,716 --> 00:39:37,483 >> HAPPY TO SEE YOU. 746 00:39:37,483 --> 00:39:38,718 >> I'M EXCITED TO BE WITH YOU. 747 00:39:38,718 --> 00:39:42,088 >> I HAVE SOMETHING PLANNED FOR TODAY. 748 00:39:42,088 --> 00:39:42,321 >> OKAY. 749 00:39:42,321 --> 00:39:50,196 >> SO, WE'RE GOING TO EXPLORE PUNTA CANA IN OUR NEW RIDE. 750 00:39:50,196 --> 00:39:50,463 YOU READY? 751 00:39:50,463 --> 00:39:51,097 >> I'M READY! 752 00:39:51,097 --> 00:39:56,335 >> LET'S GO. 753 00:39:56,335 --> 00:39:58,337 ♪ 754 00:40:00,406 --> 00:40:02,608 >> SO, A TOAST TO HOW FAR WE'VE COME. 755 00:40:02,608 --> 00:40:06,212 A TOAST TO US, AND A TOAST TO US HAVING A GOOD TIME. CHEERS? 756 00:40:06,212 --> 00:40:11,884 >> CHEERS! 757 00:40:11,884 --> 00:40:14,654 >> IN THE BEGINNING OF THIS JOURNEY, JULIANA AND I STARTED 758 00:40:14,654 --> 00:40:17,223 OFF WITH REALLY JUST A PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP. 759 00:40:17,223 --> 00:40:21,360 YOU KNOW, WE WERE KISSING A LOT. IT WAS REALLY TOUCHY, FEELY. 760 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:27,233 AND I DIDN'T KNOW IF WE WERE GOING TO EMOTIONALLY CONNECT. 761 00:40:27,233 --> 00:40:30,636 >> FROM -- TO THIS. 762 00:40:30,636 --> 00:40:33,839 >> BUT OVER TIME WE FOUND OUT WE HAD A LOT MORE THAN THAT. 763 00:40:33,839 --> 00:40:36,876 OUR EMOTIONAL CONNECTION HAS JUST CONTINUES TO GROW. 764 00:40:36,876 --> 00:40:38,644 >> YESTERDAY WAS A BIG DAY FOR ME. 765 00:40:38,644 --> 00:40:39,545 >> YEAH. 766 00:40:39,545 --> 00:40:44,617 >> YOU KNOW, AND TELLING YOU HOW I FELT, YOU KNOW, I WAS A LITTLE 767 00:40:44,617 --> 00:40:47,553 NERVOUS BECAUSE THERE WAS A CHANCE, JULIANA, I LOVE YOU, 768 00:40:47,553 --> 00:40:50,389 WELL, I LIKE YOUR SHIRT. YOU KNOW, BUT WE BOTH OPENED UP. 769 00:40:50,389 --> 00:40:50,690 >> YEAH. 770 00:40:50,690 --> 00:40:53,659 >> AND I FEEL LIKE THAT'S SOMETHING THAT MEANS A LOT TO ME. 771 00:40:53,659 --> 00:40:56,963 >> I DON'T KNOW THAT THERE'S MANY MEN OUT THERE IN TODAY'S 772 00:40:56,963 --> 00:40:58,331 WORLD THAT ARE LIKE GRANT. 773 00:40:58,331 --> 00:41:00,766 >> IT IS SO PRETTY HERE, HONESTLY. 774 00:41:00,766 --> 00:41:03,436 >> HE SAID SOMETHING THAT STUCK WITH ME THIS WHOLE TIME. 775 00:41:03,436 --> 00:41:06,138 HE WAS LOOKING FOR SOMEBODY THAT HE WANTS TO WATER BUT ALSO CAN 776 00:41:06,138 --> 00:41:09,875 WATER HIM BECAUSE HE'S NOT JUST LOOKING FOR SOMEBODY TO, LIKE, 777 00:41:09,875 --> 00:41:12,078 COMPLETE HIM. IT'S MORE SO HELPING EACH OTHER 778 00:41:12,078 --> 00:41:15,881 GROW CONSTANTLY AND FOREVER. AND I'M EXCITED FOR THAT. 779 00:41:15,881 --> 00:41:23,756 >> THREE, TWO, ONE, GO. 780 00:41:23,756 --> 00:41:27,159 >> IN THIS MOMENT, KNOWING THAT WE LOVE EACH OTHER, THERE'S 781 00:41:27,159 --> 00:41:31,263 NOWHERE ELSE I'D RATHER BE THAN BE HERE WITH JULIANA. 782 00:41:31,263 --> 00:41:38,671 BUT IT'S REALLY IMPORTANT TO SEE HOW TONIGHT GOES. 783 00:41:43,376 --> 00:41:46,746 >> WHEN YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR SOMEBODY, YOU TEND TO GET A 784 00:41:46,746 --> 00:41:52,284 LITTLE INSECURE. JULIANA HAS BEEN GUARDING HER 785 00:41:52,284 --> 00:41:54,987 HEART BECAUSE SHE'S BEEN HURT IN THE PAST. 786 00:41:54,987 --> 00:42:00,259 SHE'S HAD RELATIONSHIPS THAT HER TRUST WAS BESTRAYED. 787 00:42:00,259 --> 00:42:07,833 SO, UNDERSTANDABLY, HER HEART IS A LOT MORE GUARDED. 788 00:42:07,833 --> 00:42:09,135 >> HI. 789 00:42:09,135 --> 00:42:09,402 >> HELLO. 790 00:42:09,402 --> 00:42:13,305 >> SO, I NEED TO KNOW IF SHE'S READY FOR AN ENGAGEMENT, AND IF 791 00:42:13,305 --> 00:42:17,309 I WERE TO GET ON ONE KNEE, IS SHE GOING TO SAY YES? 792 00:42:17,309 --> 00:42:21,747 IS SHE GOING TO SAY NO? IS SHE GOING TO SAY, MAYBE, I'LL 793 00:42:21,747 --> 00:42:24,417 THINK ABOUT IT? WILL SHE BREAK MY HEART IN THE 794 00:42:24,417 --> 00:42:24,784 END? 795 00:42:24,784 --> 00:42:26,118 >> HOW WAS YOUR DAY TODAY? 796 00:42:26,118 --> 00:42:29,055 >> IT WAS GOOD. I HAD A LOT OF FUN WITH YOU AS 797 00:42:29,055 --> 00:42:29,288 ALWAYS. 798 00:42:29,288 --> 00:42:32,892 >> I HAD A LOT OF FUN WITH YOU, TOO, AS ALWAYS. 799 00:42:32,892 --> 00:42:34,560 AND YOU'RE SPECIAL. AND I WANT TO MAKE YOU FEEL THAT 800 00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,195 WAY. YOU KNOW, I CAME HERE WITH MY 801 00:42:36,195 --> 00:42:39,565 HEART OPEN, AND I HAVE A FEAR OF GETTING MY HEART BROKEN, YOU 802 00:42:39,565 --> 00:42:40,566 KNOW, BECAUSE IT'S HAPPENED BEFORE. 803 00:42:40,566 --> 00:42:41,200 >> YEAH. 804 00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:46,806 >> I DO WANT TO ASK, YOU KNOW, IF AN ENGAGEMENT COMING UP IN 805 00:42:46,806 --> 00:42:52,078 TWO DAYS AND THUS, YOU KNOW, BEING TOGETHER, I WOULDN'T ASK 806 00:42:52,078 --> 00:42:58,050 THIS QUESTION UNLESS I WAS COMPLETELY SERIOUS. 807 00:42:58,050 --> 00:43:00,786 ARE YOU READY FOR AN ENGAGEMENT IN TWO DAYS? 808 00:43:00,786 --> 00:43:01,754 WILL YOU BREAK MY HEART? 809 00:43:01,754 --> 00:43:10,229 IS THAT SOMETHING THAT YOU KNOW 810 00:43:10,229 --> 00:43:11,831 FOR SURE YOU WILL DO OR WON'T DO? 811 00:43:11,831 --> 00:43:16,769 >> THAT'S A GOOD QUESTION. WHAT I CAN AT LEAST PROMISE YOU 812 00:43:16,769 --> 00:43:22,842 MOVING FORWARD IS THAT I WILL DO MY BEST TO HANDLE YOUR HEART 813 00:43:22,842 --> 00:43:27,046 WITH CARE BECAUSE, AS I'VE SHARED, TOO, I KNOW THAT FEELING. 814 00:43:27,046 --> 00:43:31,917 AND IT'S THE REASON THAT I'VE RESERVED MYSELF FROM BEING IN A 815 00:43:31,917 --> 00:43:34,120 RELATIONSHIP. AND I THINK DIVING INTO THIS WAS 816 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:38,557 REALLY SCARY FOR ME AS WELL. 817 00:43:38,557 --> 00:43:43,095 >> I THINK GRANT AND I HAVE BOTH BEEN HURT BY PEOPLE WE LOVED. 818 00:43:43,095 --> 00:43:47,099 AND I'VE RESISTED LOVE FOR SO LONG FOR THESE EXACT REASONS. 819 00:43:47,099 --> 00:43:50,703 I KNOW IT'S A HARD QUESTION TO ASK, BUT I KNOW THAT HE'S REALLY 820 00:43:50,703 --> 00:43:55,674 TRYING TO SEEK ANY SORT OF REASSURANCE AT THIS POINT THAT 821 00:43:55,674 --> 00:43:58,244 HE CAN GET. AND I THINK THE BEST WAY TO GO 822 00:43:58,244 --> 00:44:00,913 ABOUT THAT IS JUST BE HONEST. 823 00:44:00,913 --> 00:44:07,486 >> SO, I WILL SAY THAT I DIDN'T KNOW IF I WAS GOING TO BE ABLE 824 00:44:07,486 --> 00:44:12,391 TO GET TO THIS POINT WITH YOU, AND I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW WHAT 825 00:44:12,391 --> 00:44:14,160 READY REALLY WOULD LOOK LIKE OR 826 00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:21,534 I THINK FEEL LIKE. AND THIS HAPPENED SO RAPIDLY. 827 00:44:21,534 --> 00:44:25,604 BUT I THINK BEING ABLE TO ADMIT TO MYSELF AND YOU THAT I LOVE 828 00:44:25,604 --> 00:44:29,975 YOU AND HAVE YOU TELL ME YOU LOVE ME WAS, I THINK, ALL THE 829 00:44:29,975 --> 00:44:35,214 REASSURANCE THAT I NEEDED TO, YOU KNOW, FEEL REALLY PREPARED 830 00:44:35,214 --> 00:44:39,552 TO ENTER AN ENGAGEMENT WITH YOU AND ONE DAY BE MARRIED TO YOU 831 00:44:39,552 --> 00:44:45,925 AND BE YOUR WIFE. I THINK YOU'RE A VERY SPECIAL 832 00:44:45,925 --> 00:44:50,162 TYPE OF MAN THAT, YOU KNOW, NOT MANY PEOPLE COME ACROSS IN THEIR 833 00:44:50,162 --> 00:44:53,666 LIFETIME. AND I THINK FOREVER IS A BIG 834 00:44:53,666 --> 00:44:55,501 COMMITMENT, BUT I DON'T THINK IT'S ANYTHING THAT YOU AND I 835 00:44:55,501 --> 00:44:56,702 COULDN'T HANDLE TOGETHER. 836 00:44:56,702 --> 00:44:58,571 >> I THINK WE CAN HANDLE ANYTHING TOGETHER. 837 00:44:58,571 --> 00:45:02,274 >> SO, ON MY END, HECK YEAH, I'M READY. 838 00:45:02,274 --> 00:45:04,143 >> HEARING HER SAY THAT MEANS A LOT TO ME. 839 00:45:04,143 --> 00:45:08,581 YOU KNOW, AT FIRST, SHE WAS KIND OF DENYING THE FACT THAT SHE WAS 840 00:45:08,581 --> 00:45:13,452 IN LOVE, AND I UNDERSTAND WHERE THAT COMES FROM BECAUSE THIS IS 841 00:45:13,452 --> 00:45:16,822 SO SCARY. IT'S A SCARY THING, YOU KNOW, TO 842 00:45:16,822 --> 00:45:19,458 FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEBODY THAT'S DATING OTHER PEOPLE, AND 843 00:45:19,458 --> 00:45:23,095 IT'S SCARY TO PUT YOUR HEART OUT THERE. 844 00:45:23,095 --> 00:45:25,831 BUT I THINK THE BEST THING THAT WE COULD HAVE DONE IS ADMIT OUR 845 00:45:25,831 --> 00:45:33,372 FEELINGS TO EACH OTHER. THAT ALLOWS US TO BOTH FEEL SAFE. 846 00:45:41,780 --> 00:45:42,481 >> I'LL SEE YOU SOON. 847 00:45:42,481 --> 00:45:45,618 >> OKAY. 848 00:45:45,618 --> 00:45:50,689 >> WITH GRANT, I KNOW THAT, YOU KNOW, I'VE COME SO FAR AND I'M 849 00:45:50,689 --> 00:45:55,394 JUST EXCITED FOR, HOPEFULLY, FEELING REALLY GOOD THE DAY OF 850 00:45:55,394 --> 00:46:01,233 PROPOSAL AND WALKING AWAY WITH MY MAN AND READY TO START LIFE 851 00:46:01,233 --> 00:46:11,477 OUTSIDE OF HERE. 852 00:46:11,477 --> 00:46:15,314 PART OF ME WONDERS WHAT HIS CONVERSATIONS WITH LITIA ARE AND 853 00:46:15,314 --> 00:46:18,817 IF HE'S HAVING THE SAME AMAZING TIME THAT SHE'S HAVING WITH ME, 854 00:46:18,817 --> 00:46:21,687 OR IF HE'S SAYING THE SAME THINGS TO LITIA. 855 00:46:21,687 --> 00:46:22,755 >> BYE. 856 00:46:22,755 --> 00:46:23,722 >> BYE. 857 00:46:23,722 --> 00:46:30,596 >> YOU KNOW, IT'S HIS DECISION, AND ONE OF US IS GOING TO HAVE A 858 00:46:30,596 --> 00:46:33,399 LIFE SHATTERED DAY, AND THE OTHER IS GOING TO HAVE ONE OF 859 00:46:33,399 --> 00:46:35,367 THE BEST DAYS OF THEIR LIFE THUS FAR. 860 00:46:35,367 --> 00:46:38,270 I FEEL SHAKY KNOWING THAT HE MAY NOT CHOOSE ME. 861 00:46:38,270 --> 00:46:39,899 IT WILL REALLY BE DEVASTATING. 862 00:46:45,201 --> 00:46:49,421 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 863 00:46:49,421 --> 00:46:52,712 >> Jesse: WELCOME BACK TO THE LIVE FINALE OF "THE BACHELOR." 864 00:46:52,712 --> 00:46:59,118 NOW, BEFORE THE BREAK, JULIANA REASSURED GRANT THAT SHE IS, IN 865 00:46:59,118 --> 00:47:02,989 FACT, READY TO BE ENGAGED. BUT THEN AS HE LEFT, SHE WAS 866 00:47:02,989 --> 00:47:06,292 REMINDED OF THE STARK REALITY THAT HE COULD STILL CHOOSE 867 00:47:06,292 --> 00:47:10,196 SOMEBODY ELSE. SO, HOW WILL GRANT'S FINAL DATE 868 00:47:10,196 --> 00:47:11,764 WITH LITIA HELP SWAY HIS HEART? 869 00:47:11,764 --> 00:47:19,372 LET'S FIND OUT. 870 00:47:19,372 --> 00:47:22,709 ♪ 871 00:47:27,313 --> 00:47:29,849 >> YESTERDAY WAS MY LAST DATE WITH JULIANA BEFORE THE BIGGEST 872 00:47:29,849 --> 00:47:35,688 DECISION IN MY LIFE THUS FAR. AND IT WENT REALLY WELL. 873 00:47:35,688 --> 00:47:41,461 BUT TODAY IS MY LAST DATE WITH LITIA. AND I LOVE LITIA. 874 00:47:41,461 --> 00:47:45,298 BUT I ALSO LOVE JULIANA. IT'S SO WEIRD TO HAVE TO FEEL 875 00:47:45,298 --> 00:47:47,266 LIKE THIS. I'VE NEVER FELT LIKE THIS BEFORE. 876 00:47:47,266 --> 00:47:48,835 I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW IF IT WAS POSSIBLE. 877 00:47:48,835 --> 00:47:53,005 IF YOU WERE TO ASK ME BEFORE THIS SHOW, COULD YOU BE IN LOVE 878 00:47:53,005 --> 00:47:54,941 WITH TWO PEOPLE, I WOULD SAY, NO. 879 00:47:54,941 --> 00:47:56,142 >> HI, CUTIE. 880 00:47:56,142 --> 00:47:57,343 >> HEY, BEAUTIFUL. 881 00:47:57,343 --> 00:48:01,748 >> BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY, I CAN ONLY CHOOSE ONE PERSON. 882 00:48:01,748 --> 00:48:07,186 SO, TODAY IS ABOUT MAKING THE MOST OF EVERY MOMENT WITH LITIA. 883 00:48:07,186 --> 00:48:11,090 >> YOU FEEL GOOD? 884 00:48:11,090 --> 00:48:12,325 >> YOU FEEL GOOD? 885 00:48:12,325 --> 00:48:14,927 >> YEAH, I DO. I'VE GOT A SURPRISE FOR US TODAY. 886 00:48:14,927 --> 00:48:15,194 >> OKAY. 887 00:48:15,194 --> 00:48:18,131 >> WE'RE GOING TO HAVE SOME FUN. 888 00:48:18,131 --> 00:48:19,031 >> I'M READY. 889 00:48:19,031 --> 00:48:19,899 >> ALL RIGHT. LET'S GO. 890 00:48:19,899 --> 00:48:22,401 >> I LOVE A BIG DATE. 891 00:48:22,401 --> 00:48:25,538 >> I'M SO EXCITED TO HAVE TIME WITH GRANT TODAY. 892 00:48:25,538 --> 00:48:30,042 THIS IS THE FIRST TIME THAT I HAVE A DATE WITH HIM AND I'M NOT 893 00:48:30,042 --> 00:48:32,044 SCARED. 894 00:48:32,044 --> 00:48:36,015 >> WOW. HELLO. 895 00:48:36,015 --> 00:48:39,085 >> I FEEL JUST HAPPY AND EXCITED. 896 00:48:39,085 --> 00:48:41,954 THIS MIGHT BE MY LAST DATE 897 00:48:41,954 --> 00:48:49,896 BEFORE GRANT PUTS A RING ON IT. 898 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:57,670 >> I KNEW FROM ALMOST THE BEGINNING THAT LITIA WAS RIGHT 899 00:48:57,670 --> 00:49:00,940 FOR ME, AND THAT'S THE KIND OF LOVE THAT IS -- THAT'S, LIKE, A 900 00:49:00,940 --> 00:49:03,776 ONCE IN A LIFETIME KIND OF THING, YOU KNOW? 901 00:49:03,776 --> 00:49:10,550 LITIA IS A PICTURE OF WHAT I CAME IN HERE LOOKING FOR. 902 00:49:10,550 --> 00:49:15,688 ♪ THAT'S ALL I NEED 903 00:49:15,688 --> 00:49:18,591 >> I LOVE LITIA. AND THERE'S A SENSE OF COMFORT 904 00:49:18,591 --> 00:49:22,295 KNOWING THAT OUR FEELINGS ARE THERE AND WE CAN KIND OF WEATHER 905 00:49:22,295 --> 00:49:23,229 THE STORM. 906 00:49:23,229 --> 00:49:26,732 ♪ I WANT BLUE SKIES 907 00:49:26,732 --> 00:49:33,372 >> WHAT A FUN DATE WITH GRANT. EVERY TIME I SEE HIM, I FEEL SO 908 00:49:33,372 --> 00:49:38,678 REASSURED, AND I'M REMINDED OF HOW STRONG OUR CONNECTION IS AND 909 00:49:38,678 --> 00:49:45,318 HOW INVESTED BOTH OF US ARE. 910 00:49:50,623 --> 00:49:51,557 >> WHAT A DAY. 911 00:49:51,557 --> 00:49:56,896 >> WHAT A DAY. 912 00:49:56,896 --> 00:50:02,702 >> I LOVE THIS DATE. I LOVED THE HORSES. 913 00:50:02,702 --> 00:50:06,339 IT IS SO BEAUTIFUL, THE SETTING. I LOVE THE BEACH. 914 00:50:06,339 --> 00:50:09,775 IT'S, LIKE, PERFECT FOR WHO I AM. AND I DON'T KNOW IF I TOLD YOU 915 00:50:09,775 --> 00:50:13,045 THIS, BUT I FEEL LIKE WHEN I'M BY THE OCEAN IS, LIKE, WHEN I 916 00:50:13,045 --> 00:50:20,920 FEEL CLOSEST TO MY DAD. AND HORSES, I FEEL CLOSE TO MY 917 00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:29,962 CANDY, AND I LOVE YOU. 918 00:50:29,962 --> 00:50:34,333 >> THAT'S SPECIAL TO ME. MY FAMILY LOVED YOU. 919 00:50:34,333 --> 00:50:37,236 THAT'S SOMETHING THAT'S SO BIG. MY PARENTS HAVING A RELATIONSHIP 920 00:50:37,236 --> 00:50:37,803 WITH MY WIFE -- 921 00:50:37,803 --> 00:50:39,405 >> YES, I AGREE. 922 00:50:39,405 --> 00:50:42,008 >> IT'S A GREAT THING, YOU KNOW? THAT'S WHAT I WANT. 923 00:50:42,008 --> 00:50:44,377 AND ACTUALLY IT FEELS REALLY GOOD. 924 00:50:44,377 --> 00:50:47,880 >> I LOVED THEM. I FEEL LIKE I HAD SUCH GOOD 925 00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:51,717 CONVERSATIONS. I JUST LOVE ANY, LIKE, SNEAK 926 00:50:51,717 --> 00:50:56,989 PEEK THAT I CAN GET INTO, LIKE, WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE IF WE WERE 927 00:50:56,989 --> 00:50:58,357 TOGETHER, YOU KNOW? 928 00:50:58,357 --> 00:51:00,293 >> IT MAKES ME EXCITED, YOU KNOW? 929 00:51:00,293 --> 00:51:03,262 >> MAKES ME EXCITED. 930 00:51:03,262 --> 00:51:06,465 >> YOU KNOW, I HAVEN'T DONE EVERYTHING RIGHT THIS JOURNEY, 931 00:51:06,465 --> 00:51:12,204 BUT THE BEST THING THAT I DID IS GET TO KNOW YOU. 932 00:51:12,204 --> 00:51:18,678 YEAH, I'M EXCITED ABOUT THAT. SO, A TOAST TO YOU MEETING MY 933 00:51:18,678 --> 00:51:22,381 FAMILY AND ME MEETING YOUR FAMILY AND US FINDING THE 934 00:51:22,381 --> 00:51:24,417 COMMONALITIES BETWEEN THEM AND ALSO THE DIFFERENCES THAT MAKE 935 00:51:24,417 --> 00:51:27,720 US US. I FEEL LIKE THAT'S WHAT'S SPECIAL AND THAT'S WHERE LOVE 936 00:51:27,720 --> 00:51:30,122 COMES IN. SO, CHEERS TO THAT AND CHEERS TO 937 00:51:30,122 --> 00:51:30,289 US. 938 00:51:30,289 --> 00:51:33,793 >> CHEERS TO US. 939 00:51:33,793 --> 00:51:36,862 >> SEEING LITIA TODAY IS JUST -- IT'S AMAZING. 940 00:51:36,862 --> 00:51:41,934 BUT I DO HAVE A BIT OF A HEAVY HEART BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT IS 941 00:51:41,934 --> 00:51:45,371 LATER ON. TONIGHT, YOU KNOW, I THINK 942 00:51:45,371 --> 00:51:47,573 THERE'S SOME IMPORTANT QUESTIONS THAT WE NEED TO ASK EACH OTHER 943 00:51:47,573 --> 00:51:50,944 BEFORE I MAKE THE BIGGEST DECISION OF MY LIFE. 944 00:51:56,552 --> 00:51:58,488 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 945 00:51:58,488 --> 00:52:10,299 ♪ 946 00:52:10,299 --> 00:52:12,097 >>> TODAY I HAD A BEAUTIFUL DATE WITH LITIA. 947 00:52:12,097 --> 00:52:15,467 TONIGHT WE'RE GOING TO HAVE SOME SERIOUS TALKS. 948 00:52:15,467 --> 00:52:19,171 THIS IS THE LAST TIME I GET TO TALK TO HER BEFORE TOMORROW, AND 949 00:52:19,171 --> 00:52:22,808 IT'S A BIG, BIG DECISION I'VE GOT TO MAKE, YOU KNOW? 950 00:52:22,808 --> 00:52:27,346 I DO LOVE LITIA VERY MUCH. SO, I THINK THAT TONIGHT IS JUST 951 00:52:27,346 --> 00:52:30,682 A NIGHT TO ASK THOSE FINAL QUESTIONS TO SEE WHERE SHE 952 00:52:30,682 --> 00:52:30,916 STANDS. 953 00:52:30,916 --> 00:52:31,550 >> HELLO. 954 00:52:31,550 --> 00:52:33,452 >> HELLO. HOW ARE YOU? 955 00:52:33,452 --> 00:52:33,952 >> GOOD. 956 00:52:33,952 --> 00:52:37,956 >> I'M TRYING TO MAKE A DECISION HERE, NOT JUST WITH MY HEART, 957 00:52:37,956 --> 00:52:42,027 WITH MY HEAD, WHAT'S GOING TO BE THE BEST FOR ME. 958 00:52:42,027 --> 00:52:46,432 SO, I NEED TO HAVE THE MOST CLARITY I CAN. 959 00:52:46,432 --> 00:52:47,399 >> YOU KNOW, TODAY IS BIG. 960 00:52:47,399 --> 00:52:47,733 >> YEAH. 961 00:52:47,733 --> 00:52:50,536 >> AND I DID WANT TO TALK. YOU KNOW, I WANT TO KEEP IT 962 00:52:50,536 --> 00:52:52,371 LIGHT, BUT I ALSO WANTED TO -- 963 00:52:52,371 --> 00:52:56,508 >> DON'T KEEP IT LIGHT FOR ME. 964 00:52:56,508 --> 00:52:59,745 >> WE SPOKE ABOUT OUR TIMELINE, RIGHT? 965 00:52:59,745 --> 00:53:03,048 AND I KNOW THAT'S SOMETHING BIG FOR YOU, AND I KNOW WE HAD THIS 966 00:53:03,048 --> 00:53:07,953 CONVERSATION. BUT TO TALK MORE IN DEPTH ABOUT 967 00:53:07,953 --> 00:53:12,458 IT IS IMPORTANT. LITIA, THE WOMAN SHE WANTS TO BE 968 00:53:12,458 --> 00:53:15,194 AND WHEN. PEOPLE IN YOUR FAMILY HAVE 969 00:53:15,194 --> 00:53:18,230 CHILDREN AND IT'S SUCH A BIG FAMILY. 970 00:53:18,230 --> 00:53:20,699 HOW MUCH PRESSURE DO YOU FEEL TO ACCOMPLISH THAT? 971 00:53:20,699 --> 00:53:25,504 >> I THINK THAT, LIKE, MY DESIRE TO BE A MOTHER COMES FROM MY 972 00:53:25,504 --> 00:53:29,641 HEART. I THINK MY FAMILY KNOWS THAT. 973 00:53:29,641 --> 00:53:35,814 AND SO THEY WANT IT FOR ME. BUT I DON'T FEEL PRESSURE FROM 974 00:53:35,814 --> 00:53:37,182 THEM ON TIMELINE. 975 00:53:37,182 --> 00:53:42,688 >> WHAT IF, IN TWO YEARS, I COME TO YOU AND SAY, LITIA, WHAT IF 976 00:53:42,688 --> 00:53:45,491 I'M NOT READY YET? WHAT IF I WANT TO WAIT ANOTHER 977 00:53:45,491 --> 00:53:47,526 YEAR? HOW DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD HANDLE THAT? 978 00:53:47,526 --> 00:53:50,395 >> I THINK IT WOULD DEPEND ON YOUR REASONS. 979 00:53:50,395 --> 00:53:55,200 IF YOUR REASONS WERE THERE'S STILL MORE THAT YOU WANT TO 980 00:53:55,200 --> 00:54:02,741 ACCOMPLISH BEFORE YOU HAVE KIDS, I THINK YOU WANT TO BE A VERY 981 00:54:02,741 --> 00:54:05,544 PRESENT FATHER. AND SO, I THINK IF YOU'RE NOT 982 00:54:05,544 --> 00:54:10,816 READY AND THERE ARE THINGS THAT YOU WANT TO DO, I THINK, OF 983 00:54:10,816 --> 00:54:13,285 COURSE, YOU KNOW. I WANT TO MAKE YOU HAPPY. 984 00:54:13,285 --> 00:54:18,290 AND I WANT YOU TO FEEL READY. 985 00:54:18,290 --> 00:54:22,060 AND I WANT BOTH OF US TO FEEL 986 00:54:22,060 --> 00:54:32,437 EXCITED AND READY AT THAT TIME. 987 00:54:32,437 --> 00:54:37,242 >> WHEN I SEE, LIKE, SAD OR STRESS OR, LIKE, GOING THROUGH A 988 00:54:37,242 --> 00:54:39,878 HARD TIME, I FEEL THOSE THINGS. 989 00:54:39,878 --> 00:54:47,085 AND, LIKE, THIS WEEK, I FEEL SO 990 00:54:47,085 --> 00:54:53,926 CALM FOR MYSELF. BUT I JUST, LIKE, I KNOW HOW 991 00:54:53,926 --> 00:54:58,096 MUCH FRUSTRATING IT MUST FEEL AND HOW HEAVY IT MUST BE FOR YOU. 992 00:54:58,096 --> 00:55:00,232 I JUST WANT TO DO ANYTHING I CAN 993 00:55:00,232 --> 00:55:06,738 TO, LIKE, SHARE THAT STRESS WITH YOU. 994 00:55:06,738 --> 00:55:08,106 >> YOU'RE GOING TO MAKE ME CRY. 995 00:55:08,106 --> 00:55:14,680 >> NO, NO, NO. MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE 996 00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:21,386 ENOUGH. YOU ARE SO MUCH MORE THAN ENOUGH. AND I LOVE YOU. 997 00:55:23,555 --> 00:55:27,860 >> I KIND OF STARTED TO SAY IT THE OTHER DAY, BUT, LIKE, I 998 00:55:27,860 --> 00:55:33,131 HAVEN'T REALLY SAID I LOVE YOU 999 00:55:33,131 --> 00:55:38,971 IN PAST RELATIONSHIPS. 1000 00:55:38,971 --> 00:55:46,478 AND IT'S BECAUSE, FOR WHATEVER REASON, I JUST HAVE, LIKE, THIS 1001 00:55:46,478 --> 00:55:53,919 FEAR THAT WHEN I SAY IT OR WHEN I EXPRESS IT OR FEEL IT, IT 1002 00:55:53,919 --> 00:56:00,792 MAKES IT MORE LIKELY THAT I WILL LOSE IT. 1003 00:56:00,792 --> 00:56:04,429 LIKE, THEY ARE NOT IN MY LIFE ANYMORE. 1004 00:56:04,429 --> 00:56:08,033 BUT, LIKE, I LOVED YOU WAY BEFORE I TOLD YOU. 1005 00:56:08,033 --> 00:56:12,838 AND I FELT MYSELF -- LIKE, I HAD TO STOP MYSELF FROM SAYING IT 1006 00:56:12,838 --> 00:56:18,043 BECAUSE YOU JUST, LIKE, MAKE ME FEEL SO SAFE. 1007 00:56:18,043 --> 00:56:24,816 SAYING IT, I JUST DON'T GET SCARED. 1008 00:56:24,816 --> 00:56:32,691 >> THERE'S SO MUCH THAT I DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT MYSELF AND ABOUT MY 1009 00:56:32,691 --> 00:56:36,995 OWN RELATIONSHIP WITH LOVE AND, LIKE, WITH HAVING A PARTNER. 1010 00:56:36,995 --> 00:56:43,468 AND IT'S GRANT. HE TAUGHT ME. HE'S CREATED SUCH A SPACE OF 1011 00:56:43,468 --> 00:56:48,040 SAFETY FOR ME TO LOVE SO OPENLY 1012 00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:54,479 AND JUST WITH NO OTHER MOTIVE EXCEPT FOR TO MAKE THE OTHER 1013 00:56:54,479 --> 00:56:59,051 PERSON HAPPY. THAT'S THE PART ABOUT GRANT'S 1014 00:56:59,051 --> 00:57:01,720 LOVE THAT MAKES ME KNOW I WANT TO MARRY HIM. 1015 00:57:01,720 --> 00:57:07,259 >> YOU KNOW, YOU ARE SPECIAL. AND OBVIOUSLY THE FIRST DAY I 1016 00:57:07,259 --> 00:57:13,265 MET YOU, I WAS VERY LIKE, WOW, THIS WOMAN IS STUNNING. 1017 00:57:13,265 --> 00:57:17,302 BUT I STARTED TO SEE YOUR HEART AND YOUR COMPASSION AND THE WAY 1018 00:57:17,302 --> 00:57:20,572 YOU FEEL ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE AND THE WAY THAT YOU MADE ME FEEL. 1019 00:57:20,572 --> 00:57:25,177 YOU KNOW, YOUR HEART IS PROBABLY THE MOST SPECIAL THING ABOUT 1020 00:57:25,177 --> 00:57:30,916 YOU. SO -- AND THAT'S SOMETHING THAT'S REALLY HARD TO FIND. 1021 00:57:30,916 --> 00:57:38,690 YOU KNOW, THESE ARE THINGS THAT SOMETIMES IT'S HARD TO KNOW WHAT 1022 00:57:38,690 --> 00:57:45,397 YOU WANT OR WHAT YOU NEED UNTIL IT'S IN FRONT OF YOU. 1023 00:57:45,397 --> 00:57:48,066 AND I KNOW WHAT I NEED. AND, YOU KNOW, I SEE THAT IN YOU. 1024 00:57:48,066 --> 00:57:53,372 SO, JUST WANT TO LET YOU KNOW THAT. 1025 00:57:53,372 --> 00:57:59,678 I FEEL LIKE, YOU KNOW -- 1026 00:57:59,678 --> 00:58:00,212 >> ME. 1027 00:58:00,212 --> 00:58:03,382 >> YOU'RE FUNNY. TONIGHT THE CONVERSATION WITH 1028 00:58:03,382 --> 00:58:06,184 LITIA, WE SHARED OUR FEELINGS, AND I FEEL LIKE THE LOVE THAT WE 1029 00:58:06,184 --> 00:58:08,120 HAVE FOR EACH OTHER IS GENUINE. IT'S REAL. 1030 00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:11,990 >> I HAD SUCH A FUN DAY WITH YOU. 1031 00:58:11,990 --> 00:58:12,891 >> AND I LOVE YOU. 1032 00:58:12,891 --> 00:58:15,327 >> AND I LOVE YOU. 1033 00:58:15,327 --> 00:58:18,163 >> SHE SEES SOMETHING IN ME THAT I DON'T EVEN SEE IN MYSELF A LOT 1034 00:58:18,163 --> 00:58:20,699 OF TIMES. AND FOR HER TO FEEL THAT WAY 1035 00:58:20,699 --> 00:58:22,667 ABOUT ME, IT FEELS REALLY AMAZING. 1036 00:58:22,667 --> 00:58:24,436 I SEE STUFF IN HER THAT IS SO SPECIAL. 1037 00:58:24,436 --> 00:58:28,673 AND THE LOVE THAT SHE HAS TO OFFER IS SOMETHING I NEED. 1038 00:58:28,673 --> 00:58:29,541 >> SEE YOU -- 1039 00:58:29,541 --> 00:58:30,642 >> SEE YOU TOMORROW. 1040 00:58:30,642 --> 00:58:32,177 >> SEE YOU TOMORROW. 1041 00:58:32,177 --> 00:58:36,248 >> THE REALITY OF THIS IS I STILL HAVE A VERY HARD DECISION 1042 00:58:36,248 --> 00:58:40,685 TO MAKE BECAUSE TOMORROW I HAVE TO PICK BETWEEN TWO AMAZING 1043 00:58:40,685 --> 00:58:42,888 WOMEN. HONESTLY, THIS IS A SCARY PLACE 1044 00:58:42,888 --> 00:58:47,125 TO BE IN BECAUSE I LOVE BOTH OF THESE WOMEN EQUALLY. 1045 00:58:47,125 --> 00:58:52,731 BOTH HEARTS ARE ESSENTIALLY IN 1046 00:58:52,731 --> 00:58:58,670 MY HAND AND THEIR HEART IS IN MY HAND. 1047 00:58:58,670 --> 00:59:01,706 I DON'T WANT TO HURT ANYBODY. AND TO TELL EITHER ONE OF THEM 1048 00:59:01,706 --> 00:59:05,644 THEY'RE NOT THE ONE FOR ME, WHY NOT? THEY'RE BOTH CARING, THEY'RE 1049 00:59:05,644 --> 00:59:08,080 BOTH BEAUTIFUL, THEY'RE SMART. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M GOING TO 1050 00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:12,184 DO. MY EMOTIONS ARE JUST EVERYWHERE. 1051 00:59:17,189 --> 00:59:19,291 [ APPLAUSE ] 1052 00:59:19,291 --> 00:59:24,029 >> Jesse: MAN, YOU REALLY CAN FEEL GRANT'S STRUGGLE AT THIS 1053 00:59:24,029 --> 00:59:25,597 POINT. SO, HOW IN THE WORLD DOES HE 1054 00:59:25,597 --> 00:59:28,233 MAKE A DECISION BETWEEN LITIA AND JULIANA? 1055 00:59:28,233 --> 00:59:33,305 BECAUSE YOU KNOW SOMEONE IS GOING TO BE ABSOLUTELY CRUSHED. 1056 00:59:33,305 --> 00:59:38,577 WHO'S THAT GOING TO BE? MAYBE IT'S GRANT HIMSELF. 1057 00:59:38,577 --> 00:59:41,980 WE'RE GOING TO FIND OUT IN THE DRAMATIC LIVE FINALE OF "THE 1058 00:59:41,980 --> 00:59:44,282 BACHELOR." 1059 01:00:01,074 --> 01:00:06,153 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 1060 01:00:06,153 --> 01:00:09,107 >> Jesse: WELCOME BACK TO THE LIVE FINALE OF "THE BACHELOR." 1061 01:00:09,107 --> 01:00:11,777 OKAY. WE'VE NOW MADE IT TO THE FINAL 1062 01:00:11,777 --> 01:00:15,514 DAY OF GRANT'S JOURNEY, AS HE PREPARES TO GET DOWN ON A KNEE 1063 01:00:15,514 --> 01:00:17,583 AND PROPOSE. BUT BEFORE HE DOES THAT, HE'S 1064 01:00:17,583 --> 01:00:20,819 GOT TO MAKE THE HARDEST DECISION OF HIS LIFE. 1065 01:00:20,819 --> 01:00:24,356 SO, THE BIG QUESTION NOW, IS GRANT READY TO DO THAT? 1066 01:00:24,356 --> 01:00:26,725 LET'S FIND OUT. 1067 01:00:26,725 --> 01:00:34,032 ♪ 1068 01:00:42,107 --> 01:00:51,717 ♪ 1069 01:00:54,820 --> 01:00:59,257 >> WAKING UP THIS MORNING, I'M HOPING THAT TODAY I GET ENGAGED. 1070 01:00:59,257 --> 01:01:05,797 BUT I LOVE TWO WOMEN. AND I CAN ONLY CHOOSE ONE. 1071 01:01:05,797 --> 01:01:11,303 I WENT TO BED LAST NIGHT THINKING I KNEW WHAT I WANTED. 1072 01:01:11,303 --> 01:01:15,240 BUT I WOKE UP AND I REALIZED THAT I STILL DON'T. 1073 01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:21,446 THIS IS THE BIGGEST DAY OF MY LIFE. FOR ME TO NOT KNOW WHAT I'M 1074 01:01:21,446 --> 01:01:26,151 GOING TO DO IS TEARING ME UP INSIDE. 1075 01:01:26,151 --> 01:01:29,755 BOTH THESE WOMEN ARE EQUALLY AMAZING. 1076 01:01:29,755 --> 01:01:34,359 AND I'M SO CLOSE TO BOTH OF THEM. 1077 01:01:34,359 --> 01:01:42,234 BUT IN THIS MOMENT, I CAN'T LEAN ON THEM. I FEEL ALONE. 1078 01:01:42,234 --> 01:01:46,938 AND I HAVE TO MAKE A DECISION. AND TO MAKE A DECISION PRETTY 1079 01:01:46,938 --> 01:01:52,411 FAST. I JUST -- I DON'T -- I DON'T -- 1080 01:01:52,411 --> 01:01:56,448 I DON'T KNOW. 1081 01:02:07,259 --> 01:02:10,295 >> WHAT THE HECK? 1082 01:02:10,295 --> 01:02:11,697 >> YEAH, I'M STILL HERE. 1083 01:02:11,697 --> 01:02:12,497 >> WHAT'S GOING ON? 1084 01:02:12,497 --> 01:02:14,399 >> I STAYED FOR YOU. HOW YOU DOING? 1085 01:02:14,399 --> 01:02:15,667 >> I'M GOOD. 1086 01:02:15,667 --> 01:02:20,372 >> YOU SERIOUSLY GOOD? YOU LOOK GOOD. 1087 01:02:20,372 --> 01:02:22,841 >> MOM FLEW BACK. TAYLOR FLEW BACK. 1088 01:02:22,841 --> 01:02:25,777 >> YEAH, THEY FLEW BACK. BUT I KNOW THIS IS A BIG 1089 01:02:25,777 --> 01:02:27,813 DECISION FOR YOU, SON. 1090 01:02:27,813 --> 01:02:31,249 >> IT IS. I HAVE TO DECIDE AND IT'S LIKE, 1091 01:02:31,249 --> 01:02:37,689 THEY'RE BOTH AMAZING WOMEN. 1092 01:02:37,689 --> 01:02:38,657 >> BUT? 1093 01:02:38,657 --> 01:02:43,328 >> THERE'S NO BUT. IT'S A DYNAMIC WHERE I'M 1094 01:02:43,328 --> 01:02:48,767 STRUGGLING TO MAKE A DECISION. 1095 01:02:48,767 --> 01:02:55,540 >> THAT'S A HARD DECISION. 1096 01:02:55,540 --> 01:02:58,176 AND THERE'S RISK ON BOTH SIDES BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOU COULD LEAVE 1097 01:02:58,176 --> 01:03:00,312 HERE AND THINGS COULD BE DIFFERENT. 1098 01:03:00,312 --> 01:03:04,850 BUT GENUINELY, THERE'S BLOOD ON BOTH SIDES. 1099 01:03:04,850 --> 01:03:05,117 >> RIGHT. 1100 01:03:05,117 --> 01:03:08,386 >> BUT DECIDING WHAT TO PICK IN SUCH A SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME WHEN 1101 01:03:08,386 --> 01:03:13,925 I HAVE A WOMAN WHO'S 31 AND KNOW WHAT IS SHE WANTS AND WHO WOULD 1102 01:03:13,925 --> 01:03:16,928 BE, LIKE, THERE FOR ME NO MATTER WHAT. 1103 01:03:16,928 --> 01:03:20,332 AND I HAVE A WOMAN WHO ALSO LOVES ME, BUT OUR RELATIONSHIP 1104 01:03:20,332 --> 01:03:20,799 IS MORE FUN. 1105 01:03:20,799 --> 01:03:25,036 >> YOU HAVE IT IN YOUR MIND. LISTEN, GO WITH YOUR HEART, SON. 1106 01:03:25,036 --> 01:03:27,139 THEY'RE BOTH BEAUTIFUL LADIES, YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN? 1107 01:03:27,139 --> 01:03:30,108 GOOD PERSONALITIES. I LIKE THEM BOTH. 1108 01:03:30,108 --> 01:03:33,845 BUT ULTIMATELY, YOU KNOW, SOMEBODY'S BETTER FOR YOU. 1109 01:03:33,845 --> 01:03:37,983 >> I'M JUST SCARED THAT WHEN I LEAVE HERE, THINGS WILL BE 1110 01:03:37,983 --> 01:03:39,618 DIFFERENT THAN HOW PERFECT THEY WERE HERE. 1111 01:03:39,618 --> 01:03:40,385 >> THAT'S NORMAL. 1112 01:03:40,385 --> 01:03:40,819 >> YEAH. 1113 01:03:40,819 --> 01:03:44,556 >> IT'S NORMAL. YOU'RE THINKING, OH, I'M NOT 1114 01:03:44,556 --> 01:03:46,691 GOING TO HAVE BUMPS IN THE ROAD? 1115 01:03:46,691 --> 01:03:51,163 >> I THINK I AM A LITTLE NERVOUS ABOUT, YOU KNOW, LETTING 1116 01:03:51,163 --> 01:03:54,933 SOMEBODY DOWN, AND ESPECIALLY WHEN THE CONNECTION IS SO, SO 1117 01:03:54,933 --> 01:03:55,167 STRONG. 1118 01:03:55,167 --> 01:03:58,069 >> SOMEBODY'S GOING TO BE HURT. BUT, YOU KNOW, LIFE GOES ON. 1119 01:03:58,069 --> 01:04:04,876 YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE IT'S RIGHT FOR YOU. SON, LISTEN. 1120 01:04:04,876 --> 01:04:05,777 EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE GOOD WITH YOU. 1121 01:04:05,777 --> 01:04:12,450 YOU PUT YOUR HEART OUT THERE AND YOU WANT THEM JUST FOR A REASON. 1122 01:04:12,450 --> 01:04:14,920 AND IT'S IMPORTANT THAT YOU REMEMBER YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY. 1123 01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:19,891 AND THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS, THAT YOU'RE HAPPY IN EVERY 1124 01:04:19,891 --> 01:04:20,992 LITTLE ASPECT, YOU KNOW? 1125 01:04:20,992 --> 01:04:22,160 >> RIGHT. 1126 01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:27,132 >> I KNOW YOU'RE GOOD. I KNOW YOU'RE GOING TO MAKE THE 1127 01:04:27,132 --> 01:04:31,269 RIGHT DECISION. AND THE FUTURE IS BRIGHT, SON. 1128 01:04:31,269 --> 01:04:31,803 >> THANK YOU. 1129 01:04:31,803 --> 01:04:35,640 >> I'M FORTUNATE TO HAVE A SON LIKE GRANT. 1130 01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:38,610 HE'S SUCH A GOOD MAN, YOU KNOW? 1131 01:04:38,610 --> 01:04:39,344 >> I LOVE YOU. 1132 01:04:39,344 --> 01:04:46,051 >> I LOVE YOU TOO. BYE, DAD. BE SAFE, ALL RIGHT? 1133 01:04:46,051 --> 01:04:46,585 >> STAY STRONG. 1134 01:04:46,585 --> 01:04:48,987 >> ALL RIGHT. I'LL SEE YOU. 1135 01:04:48,987 --> 01:04:49,387 >> ALL RIGHT. 1136 01:04:49,387 --> 01:04:57,128 >> SO, ANYBODY -- ANYBODY HE ENDS UP WITH, WHO ENDS UP WITH 1137 01:04:57,128 --> 01:05:04,903 HIM, GOT A GOOD CATCH. 1138 01:05:04,903 --> 01:05:12,110 ♪ 1139 01:05:14,512 --> 01:05:20,552 >> WAKING UP THIS MORNING, I AM FEELING EXCITED, ANXIOUS A 1140 01:05:20,552 --> 01:05:23,655 LITTLE BIT, NERVOUS KNOWING THAT 1141 01:05:23,655 --> 01:05:31,029 TODAY I COULD BE GETTING 1142 01:05:31,029 --> 01:05:31,763 ENGAGED. 1143 01:05:31,763 --> 01:05:32,964 >> I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT I'M HERE. 1144 01:05:32,964 --> 01:05:37,235 IT FELT LIKE IN THE BLINK OF AN EYE, IT WENT FROM 25 WOMEN TO 1145 01:05:37,235 --> 01:05:41,306 JUST ME AND LITIA. I'M ALSO TERRIFIED BECAUSE 1146 01:05:41,306 --> 01:05:42,540 THERE'S A 50% CHANCE THAT IT'S NOT ME. 1147 01:05:42,540 --> 01:05:46,211 AND THAT'S KIND OF ALL I'VE KNOWN IN RELATIONSHIPS IN THE 1148 01:05:46,211 --> 01:05:49,648 PAST IS THE SADNESS AND THE NERVOUSNESS OF SOMEBODY WALKING 1149 01:05:49,648 --> 01:05:51,650 AWAY EVEN THOUGH THEY SAY THEY LOVE YOU. 1150 01:05:51,650 --> 01:05:55,220 SO, TO ADMIT, YOU KNOW, I REALLY LOVE GRANT AND ME TELLING HIM 1151 01:05:55,220 --> 01:05:59,758 HOW I FEEL, THE THOUGHT OF SUFFERING HEARTBREAK AGAIN IS 1152 01:05:59,758 --> 01:06:04,729 DEFINITELY PLAYING OUT IN MY MIND. 1153 01:06:04,729 --> 01:06:08,166 KNOWING THAT TODAY IS THE LAST 1154 01:06:08,166 --> 01:06:15,106 DAY, I FEEL HOPEFUL. I LOVE GRANT, AND HE LOVES ME 1155 01:06:15,106 --> 01:06:21,746 TOO. I KNOW THAT. BUT THERE'S SOMEONE ELSE HERE, 1156 01:06:21,746 --> 01:06:27,052 JULIANA. SHE'S BEAUTIFUL AND KIND, AND 1157 01:06:27,052 --> 01:06:34,159 SHE DESERVES LOVE TOO. SO, I REALIZE THERE IS A 1158 01:06:34,159 --> 01:06:38,663 POSSIBILITY I WON'T BE WITH GRANT AT THE END. 1159 01:06:38,663 --> 01:06:43,034 BUT I WOULD FEEL VERY CONFUSED 1160 01:06:43,034 --> 01:06:47,439 AND HEART BROKEN. 1161 01:06:47,439 --> 01:06:50,108 >> HOW ARE YOU? 1162 01:06:50,108 --> 01:06:52,344 >> I'M GOOD. 1163 01:06:52,344 --> 01:06:53,745 >> I'M GRANT. NICE TO MEET YOU. 1164 01:06:53,745 --> 01:06:57,048 >> TIME IS WINDING DOWN. AND SINCE THE VERY BEGINNING, I 1165 01:06:57,048 --> 01:06:59,317 SAID I WANTED AN ENGAGEMENT. I WANT A MARRIAGE. 1166 01:06:59,317 --> 01:07:01,653 AND A RING IS A PHYSICAL REPRESENTATION OF THAT. 1167 01:07:01,653 --> 01:07:05,890 >> SIX RINGS HERE, ONE GUY, AND TWO GIRLS. 1168 01:07:05,890 --> 01:07:08,960 >> BOTH OF THEM ARE SPECIAL TO ME. 1169 01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:10,495 >> IT'S DEFINITELY HARD. IT'S FOREVER. 1170 01:07:10,495 --> 01:07:13,531 SO, YOU'VE GOT TO MAKE THAT DECISION, WHO'S FOREVER? 1171 01:07:13,531 --> 01:07:14,165 >> YEAH. 1172 01:07:14,165 --> 01:07:15,967 >> I LOVE LITIA. I LOVE JULIANA. 1173 01:07:15,967 --> 01:07:20,138 AND IT'S CAUSING ME TO HAVE DOUBT. 1174 01:07:20,138 --> 01:07:24,109 >> THIS ONE, THAT IS A CLASSIC EMERALD CUT. 1175 01:07:24,109 --> 01:07:24,743 >> WOW. 1176 01:07:24,743 --> 01:07:26,978 >> MY DAD TOLD ME TO GO WITH MY HEART. 1177 01:07:26,978 --> 01:07:30,615 BUT IT'S NOT NORMAL THAT YOU GO INTO AN ENGAGEMENT AND YOU'RE 1178 01:07:30,615 --> 01:07:34,552 STILL TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHO YOUR PERSON IS. 1179 01:07:34,552 --> 01:07:39,591 I THINK IT'S AN AMAZING TESTAMENT TO HOW AMAZING THESE 1180 01:07:39,591 --> 01:07:43,194 TWO WOMEN ARE. WHAT I LOVE ABOUT LITIA IS HOW 1181 01:07:43,194 --> 01:07:45,630 READY SHE IS. AND LOOKING BACK, I'M CONFIDENT 1182 01:07:45,630 --> 01:07:48,800 ABOUT WHAT WE WANT IN OUR FUTURE. 1183 01:07:48,800 --> 01:07:52,470 >> I WANT TO GET MARRIED. I WANT TO HAVE A FAMILY. 1184 01:07:52,470 --> 01:07:57,142 >> I WANT TO CARE FOR SOMEBODY AND BE THERE FOR SOMEBODY. 1185 01:07:57,142 --> 01:07:59,077 AND I THINK I CAN DO THAT WITH YOU. 1186 01:07:59,077 --> 01:08:01,279 >> REALLY? 1187 01:08:01,279 --> 01:08:01,613 >> YES, I DO. 1188 01:08:01,613 --> 01:08:02,881 >> ME TOO. 1189 01:08:02,881 --> 01:08:05,850 ♪ DON'T GIVE UP ON THIS 1190 01:08:05,850 --> 01:08:08,920 >> WITH LITIA, EVERYTHING THAT I LOOK FOR, SHE IS. 1191 01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:15,093 AND I DO FEEL AS THOUGH LITIA COULD BE MY WIFE. 1192 01:08:15,093 --> 01:08:16,928 >> THIS IS A CLASSIC ROUND DIAMOND. 1193 01:08:16,928 --> 01:08:20,965 >> WOW. THIS IS BEAUTIFUL. IT IS, LIKE, A RING FOREVER. 1194 01:08:20,965 --> 01:08:23,134 >> WITH JULIANA, I LOVE HOW MUCH FUN WE HAVE. 1195 01:08:23,134 --> 01:08:26,638 I LOVE HOW MUCH ROMANCE WE HAVE. AND WE HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON. 1196 01:08:26,638 --> 01:08:30,341 >> I WAS ALONE, AND I SPENT A 1197 01:08:30,341 --> 01:08:34,879 LOT OF MY LIFE BEING REALLY SAD. 1198 01:08:34,879 --> 01:08:42,520 >> THIS IS THE LONE WOLF BECAUSE I HANDLED THINGS ALONE FOR A LOT 1199 01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:42,921 OF MY LIFE TOO. 1200 01:08:42,921 --> 01:08:45,457 >> THE UNDERSTANDING WE HAVE OVER WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE 1201 01:08:45,457 --> 01:08:47,759 ALONE. WE CAN HELP EACH OTHER HEAL AND 1202 01:08:47,759 --> 01:08:49,494 GROW. AND THAT'S SOMETHING I'VE BEEN 1203 01:08:49,494 --> 01:08:52,263 SEARCHING FOR FOR A LONG TIME. 1204 01:08:52,263 --> 01:08:58,603 ♪ PROMISE ME YOU WON'T LET GO 1205 01:08:58,603 --> 01:09:03,775 >> I HAVE A CHOICE BETWEEN TWO WOMEN, BOTH EQUALLY AS 1206 01:09:03,775 --> 01:09:07,479 WONDERFUL, EQUALLY AS SUPPORTING AND LOVING. 1207 01:09:07,479 --> 01:09:08,947 IT'S IMPOSSIBLE DECISION. IT'S IMPOSSIBLE. 1208 01:09:08,947 --> 01:09:17,155 BUT TIME IS -- IS WINDING DOWN. 1209 01:09:19,424 --> 01:09:22,994 ♪ 1210 01:09:22,994 --> 01:09:29,901 >> I HAVE A RING AND I DON'T KNOW WHO I'M GOING TO GIVE IT TO. 1211 01:09:29,901 --> 01:09:32,871 IT'S, LIKE, WE'RE ON A TIME CLOCK, AND I HAVE TO MAKE THIS 1212 01:09:32,871 --> 01:09:38,109 DECISION. 1213 01:09:38,109 --> 01:09:41,513 ♪ PROMISE YOU WON'T LET GO SO 1214 01:09:41,513 --> 01:09:42,380 QUICK ♪ 1215 01:09:42,380 --> 01:09:45,517 ♪ DON'T GIVE UP 1216 01:09:45,517 --> 01:09:53,992 ♪ DON'T GIVE UP 1217 01:09:58,196 --> 01:10:00,732 ♪ 1218 01:10:13,511 --> 01:10:14,512 >> Jesse: HEY, MAN. 1219 01:10:14,512 --> 01:10:16,281 >> HOW YOU DOING? 1220 01:10:16,281 --> 01:10:17,582 >> Jesse: GOOD TO SEE YOU, BROTHER. 1221 01:10:17,582 --> 01:10:19,450 >> GOOD TO SEE YOU TOO. 1222 01:10:19,450 --> 01:10:20,451 >> Jesse: IT'S A BIG DAY. 1223 01:10:20,451 --> 01:10:22,887 >> YEAH, VERY BIG DAY. MY HEART IS RACING. 1224 01:10:22,887 --> 01:10:25,557 YOU KNOW, IT'S DEFINITELY -- IT'S DEFINITELY A LOT. 1225 01:10:25,557 --> 01:10:27,725 >> Jesse: YEAH. HOW DO YOU CHOOSE BETWEEN TWO 1226 01:10:27,725 --> 01:10:30,028 WOMEN THAT YOU'RE IN LOVE WITH? 1227 01:10:30,028 --> 01:10:36,701 >> I DON'T KNOW. I'M A PERSON WHO KNOWS WHAT HE 1228 01:10:36,701 --> 01:10:37,769 WANTS. BUT IT'S BEEN BACK AND FORTH, 1229 01:10:37,769 --> 01:10:39,971 BACK AND FORTH. IT'S BEEN REALLY HARD FOR ME. 1230 01:10:39,971 --> 01:10:41,639 IT'S REALLY WEIGHED ON ME. 1231 01:10:41,639 --> 01:10:44,275 >> Jesse: GRANT, HERE'S THE THING. 1232 01:10:44,275 --> 01:10:46,945 BOTH WOMEN ARE ON THEIR WAY HERE RIGHT NOW. 1233 01:10:46,945 --> 01:10:50,114 I REALLY NEED TO KNOW WHICH ONE TO SEND FIRST. 1234 01:10:50,114 --> 01:10:53,751 >> Jesse: I JUST DON'T KNOW HOW YOU LOOK SOMEBODY IN THE FACE 1235 01:10:53,751 --> 01:10:56,854 THAT YOU REALLY DO LOVE AND TELL THEM THAT YOU CAN'T BE WITH 1236 01:10:56,854 --> 01:11:02,126 THEM. I DON'T KNOW IF I COULD DO THAT. 1237 01:11:02,126 --> 01:11:04,729 >>. 1238 01:11:04,729 --> 01:11:06,864 >> Jesse: YOU FEEL LIKE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. 1239 01:11:06,864 --> 01:11:11,703 >> I HOPE AND I PRAY THAT I MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE. 1240 01:11:11,703 --> 01:11:22,080 [ APPLAUSE ] 1241 01:11:24,916 --> 01:11:29,487 >> Jesse: IN ALL OF "BACHELOR" HISTORY, IT HAS NEVER COME DOWN 1242 01:11:29,487 --> 01:11:33,157 TO THE WIRE LIKE THIS. SO, WHAT HAPPENS NEXT? 1243 01:11:33,157 --> 01:11:39,430 DOES GRANT PROPOSE TO LITIA? DOES GRANT PROPOSE TO JULIANA? 1244 01:11:39,430 --> 01:11:44,569 OR DOES GRANT PROPOSE TO NEITHER OF THE WOMEN? 1245 01:11:44,569 --> 01:11:46,604 GET THOSE TISSUES OUT NOW, FOLKS. 1246 01:11:46,604 --> 01:11:51,009 THE EMOTIONAL ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR ALL SEASON LONG IS 1247 01:11:51,009 --> 01:11:52,944 HERE WHEN WE RETURN. 1248 01:12:10,063 --> 01:12:13,816 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 1249 01:12:13,816 --> 01:12:16,371 >> Jesse: WE'RE BACK WITH THE LIVE FINALE OF "THE BACHELOR." 1250 01:12:16,371 --> 01:12:19,975 OKAY. I JUST WANT TO DO A QUICK CHECK-IN WITH EVERYBODY. 1251 01:12:19,975 --> 01:12:22,878 HOW IS EVERYBODY'S ANXIETY LEVEL RIGHT ABOUT RIGHT NOW? LISTEN. 1252 01:12:22,878 --> 01:12:25,680 I HEAR YOU. I MEAN, I WAS ACTUALLY THERE, 1253 01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:29,418 AND I'M STILL FEELING ANXIOUS WATCHING THIS WHOLE THING BACK. 1254 01:12:29,418 --> 01:12:33,054 WELL, WE'VE NEVER SEEN AN ENDING QUITE LIKE THIS. 1255 01:12:33,054 --> 01:12:37,426 AND IT ALL COMES DOWN TO THIS EXACT MOMENT. 1256 01:12:37,426 --> 01:12:41,997 BOTH WOMEN ARE ON THEIR WAY TO THE PROPOSAL SITE RIGHT NOW, 1257 01:12:41,997 --> 01:12:45,267 WHILE GRANT IS STILL STRUGGLING TO MAKE HIS FINAL DECISION. 1258 01:12:45,267 --> 01:12:51,339 SO, WHICH WOMAN WILL ARRIVE FIRST, LITIA OR JULIANA? 1259 01:12:51,339 --> 01:12:56,611 WHO'S GOING TO LEAVE HEART BROKEN? WHO WILL LEAVE ENGAGED? 1260 01:12:56,611 --> 01:12:59,147 WILL GRANT EVEN BE ABLE TO DECIDE? 1261 01:12:59,147 --> 01:13:01,650 WE'RE ABOUT TO FIND OUT RIGHT 1262 01:13:01,650 --> 01:13:07,189 NOW. 1263 01:13:20,802 --> 01:13:24,606 ♪ 1264 01:13:27,042 --> 01:13:30,312 >> THIS IS THE BIGGEST DECISION OF MY LIFE. 1265 01:13:30,312 --> 01:13:36,284 I LOVE LITIA, AND I LOVE JULIANA. AND KNOWING I HAVE TO BREAK 1266 01:13:36,284 --> 01:13:42,224 SOMEBODY'S HEART DOES NOT MAKE ME FEEL GOOD AT ALL. 1267 01:13:42,224 --> 01:13:50,198 BOTH THESE WOMEN ARE AMAZING. I COULD SEE LITIA BEING MY WIFE. 1268 01:13:50,198 --> 01:13:55,237 AND I COULD SEE JULIANA BEING MY WIFE. 1269 01:13:55,237 --> 01:14:01,376 IT REALLY IS HAVING TWO HEARTS IN THE PALM OF YOUR HAND. 1270 01:14:01,376 --> 01:14:03,445 TO ME, IT BOILS DOWN TO WHO'S 1271 01:14:03,445 --> 01:14:10,085 THE BEST FIT FOR ME. 1272 01:14:10,085 --> 01:14:17,192 AND I'VE MADE MY DECISION. 1273 01:14:17,192 --> 01:14:23,832 MY DAD GAVE ME SOME GREAT ADVICE. 1274 01:14:23,832 --> 01:14:31,940 IT WAS TO FOLLOW MY HEART. 1275 01:14:36,144 --> 01:14:41,483 SO, THAT'S WHAT I'M GOING TO DO. 1276 01:14:49,658 --> 01:14:55,897 ♪ 1277 01:15:09,077 --> 01:15:21,656 ♪ 1278 01:15:24,359 --> 01:15:31,032 >> I'M SO EXCITED TO SEE GRANT, AND I'M READY TO GET ENGAGED 1279 01:15:31,032 --> 01:15:36,771 TODAY. I LOVE HIM, AND HE HAS SET A NEW 1280 01:15:36,771 --> 01:15:38,673 STANDARD FOR THE KIND OF LOVE 1281 01:15:38,673 --> 01:15:45,947 THAT I WANT TO HAVE IN MY LIFE FOREVER. 1282 01:15:45,947 --> 01:15:51,953 I'M READY TO START A FAMILY WITH HIM, AND I KNOW THAT MY FUTURE 1283 01:15:51,953 --> 01:15:58,793 WITH GRANT LOOKS LIKE -- JUST, LIKE, SO MUCH LOVE. 1284 01:15:58,793 --> 01:15:59,461 >> HI, GRANT. 1285 01:15:59,461 --> 01:16:00,629 >> HELLO. HOW ARE YOU? 1286 01:16:00,629 --> 01:16:02,330 >> I'M GOOD. HOW ARE YOU? 1287 01:16:02,330 --> 01:16:03,164 >> YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL. 1288 01:16:03,164 --> 01:16:10,472 >> YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL. SO GOOD. 1289 01:16:10,472 --> 01:16:11,506 >> GOOD? 1290 01:16:11,506 --> 01:16:14,576 >> YES. HOW DO YOU FEEL? 1291 01:16:14,576 --> 01:16:15,310 >> NERVOUS. 1292 01:16:15,310 --> 01:16:25,687 >> YEAH. 1293 01:16:25,687 --> 01:16:28,390 OKAY. GRANT! P I STARTED FALLING FOR YOU ON 1294 01:16:28,390 --> 01:16:33,795 WEEK TWO, BUT I DIDN'T TELL YOU BECAUSE I DON'T LIKE TO EXPRESS 1295 01:16:33,795 --> 01:16:40,635 IT, YOU KNOW. AND IN SCOTLAND, I KNEW THAT I 1296 01:16:40,635 --> 01:16:45,840 LOVED YOU. HEARING YOU TALK ABOUT YOUR 1297 01:16:45,840 --> 01:16:51,680 CHILDHOOD AND HOW HARD IT WAS FOR YOU GROWING UP AND HOW ALONE 1298 01:16:51,680 --> 01:16:58,553 YOU FELT SOMETIMES. IT MADE ME WANT TO GIVE YOU -- 1299 01:16:58,553 --> 01:17:00,555 WHERE YOU NEVER HAVE TO FEEL THAT WAY. 1300 01:17:00,555 --> 01:17:03,925 AND IT MADE ME WANT TO MAKE A HOME WHERE OUR KIDS WILL ALWAYS 1301 01:17:03,925 --> 01:17:08,496 KNOW THAT THEY'RE LOVED AND CHERISHED. 1302 01:17:08,496 --> 01:17:14,903 I CAN SEE YOU AS MY HUSBAND, AND I JUST FEEL COMPLETE FOR ME. 1303 01:17:14,903 --> 01:17:21,543 I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. AND I FEEL SO LUCKY TO BE LOVED 1304 01:17:21,543 --> 01:17:24,913 BY YOU. YOU JUST HAVE SHOWN HOW I WANT 1305 01:17:24,913 --> 01:17:34,122 TO BE LOVED FOREVER. 1306 01:17:34,122 --> 01:17:41,730 >> YEAH. LITIA, I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR 1307 01:17:41,730 --> 01:17:46,634 EMOTIONAL CONNECTION, AND I FEEL LIKE I HAVE THAT WITH YOU. 1308 01:17:46,634 --> 01:17:52,340 I FEEL LIKE YOU ARE ONE OF THE MOST AMAZING, BEAUTIFUL WOMEN 1309 01:17:52,340 --> 01:17:56,277 THAT I'VE EVER MET. AND YOU DESERVE LOVE. 1310 01:17:56,277 --> 01:18:04,686 YOU DESERVE TO BE TREATED RIGHT. 1311 01:18:04,686 --> 01:18:10,525 THIS IS -- THIS IS HARD FOR ME. 1312 01:18:10,525 --> 01:18:18,366 LITIA, I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH. I WANT TO GIVE YOU EVERYTHING 1313 01:18:18,366 --> 01:18:23,404 THAT YOU DESERVE. 1314 01:18:23,404 --> 01:18:32,947 BUT I'M NOT YOUR PERSON. 1315 01:18:32,947 --> 01:18:37,552 AND I'M SORRY TO HAVE GOTTEN TO THIS POINT. 1316 01:18:37,552 --> 01:18:43,057 MY EMOTIONAL CONNECTION IS 1317 01:18:43,057 --> 01:18:46,194 STRONGER WITH SOMEONE ELSE. 1318 01:18:46,194 --> 01:18:48,329 >> WHEN DID IT CHANGE? 1319 01:18:48,329 --> 01:18:53,868 >> IT DIDN'T CHANGE. I DO LOVE YOU, AND I DON'T WANT 1320 01:18:53,868 --> 01:18:56,504 YOU TO FEEL LIKE I HAVEN'T BEEN OPEN, I HAVEN'T BEEN HONEST, 1321 01:18:56,504 --> 01:19:01,543 BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN. AND I'M TRULY SORRY. 1322 01:19:01,543 --> 01:19:07,382 AND I HOPE YOU DON'T VIEW ME ANY DIFFERENTLY, AND I HOPE THAT -- 1323 01:19:07,382 --> 01:19:12,187 >> OH, I DO, FOR SURE. COME ON NOW. 1324 01:19:12,187 --> 01:19:14,789 >> THIS IS NOT ABOUT ME -- 1325 01:19:14,789 --> 01:19:17,625 >> IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU, COME ON NOW. 1326 01:19:17,625 --> 01:19:21,462 >> THIS MOMENT IS NOT -- IS NOT -- I'M CONCERNED ABOUT HOW 1327 01:19:21,462 --> 01:19:23,464 YOU FEEL. 1328 01:19:23,464 --> 01:19:27,268 >> I THINK I GOT MY ANSWERS. 1329 01:19:27,268 --> 01:19:35,476 I'M DISAPPOINTED. 1330 01:19:35,476 --> 01:19:40,782 YOU'RE DIFFERENT THAN I THOUGHT. 1331 01:19:40,782 --> 01:19:44,285 >> I DON'T KNOW WHAT THAT -- 1332 01:19:44,285 --> 01:19:52,093 LISTEN, I KNOW THAT YOU WOULD BE 1333 01:19:52,093 --> 01:19:53,094 GOOD FOR ME -- 1334 01:19:53,094 --> 01:19:54,496 >> COME ON. 1335 01:19:54,496 --> 01:19:56,564 >> I WOULD. I'M JUST TRYING TO FIGURE OUT 1336 01:19:56,564 --> 01:20:02,170 WHAT BEST SUITS ME. AND THAT'S WHERE I'M AT. 1337 01:20:02,170 --> 01:20:06,040 >> JULIANA IS A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, AND SHE DESERVES LOVE. 1338 01:20:06,040 --> 01:20:10,845 AND I LOVE HER. 1339 01:20:10,845 --> 01:20:16,951 AND I WOULD HAVE A LOT OF QUESTIONS ABOUT HER FROM THE 1340 01:20:16,951 --> 01:20:24,425 THINGS THAT YOU'VE SAID TO ME. AND I THINK THAT'S FOR YOU GUYS 1341 01:20:24,425 --> 01:20:31,399 TO WORK OUT. THAT'S NOT MY BUSINESS. 1342 01:20:31,399 --> 01:20:36,204 >> I DON'T MEAN TO END THINGS LIKE THIS, BUT THIS IS HOW I 1343 01:20:36,204 --> 01:20:39,107 FEEL. I HAVE TO BE HONEST. 1344 01:20:39,107 --> 01:20:44,045 >> SURE. 1345 01:20:44,045 --> 01:20:51,586 YEAH. 1346 01:20:51,586 --> 01:20:58,693 >> YOU FEEL LIKE I'VE BEEN MISLEADING YOU? 1347 01:20:58,693 --> 01:21:01,596 >> GRANT, COME ON. THE THINGS YOU'VE SAID TO ME ALL 1348 01:21:01,596 --> 01:21:08,136 ALONG THE WAY MAKE THIS DECISION THAT YOU'VE MADE SO MUCH MORE 1349 01:21:08,136 --> 01:21:10,371 DEVASTATING. FOR ME, THE SWITCHUP IS CRAZY. 1350 01:21:10,371 --> 01:21:13,875 >> I DIDN'T SWITCH UP. I HAD FEELINGS FOR YOU -- OKAY. 1351 01:21:13,875 --> 01:21:20,782 YOU'RE RIGHT. YOU'RE RIGHT. I'LL TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR 1352 01:21:20,782 --> 01:21:21,182 THAT. 1353 01:21:21,182 --> 01:21:27,221 >> I'M DISAPPOINTED. 1354 01:21:27,221 --> 01:21:29,891 >> LITIA, I STILL HAVE LOVE FOR YOU. 1355 01:21:29,891 --> 01:21:33,561 BUT IT CAME DOWN TO THE FINAL DAY WHERE I HAD TO MAKE A 1356 01:21:33,561 --> 01:21:41,169 DECISION, AND I THINK THAT THE SITUATION IS VERY AWKWARD AND 1357 01:21:41,169 --> 01:21:48,343 DIFFICULT, AND I'M NOT PERFECT. I TRY TO DO MY BEST, AND I'M 1358 01:21:48,343 --> 01:21:48,776 TRULY SORRY. 1359 01:21:48,776 --> 01:21:53,681 >> I BELIEVE THAT. I JUST WANT TO BE SO CLEAR THAT 1360 01:21:53,681 --> 01:22:01,589 I'M CONFUSED AND I'M SAD. AND I'M MAD. 1361 01:22:01,589 --> 01:22:03,658 >> I'M SORRY THAT I MADE YOU FEEL LIKE THAT. 1362 01:22:03,658 --> 01:22:05,727 AND I MEAN THAT FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART. 1363 01:22:05,727 --> 01:22:12,867 I DO LOVE YOU, AND I WISH THE BEST FOR YOU. 1364 01:22:12,867 --> 01:22:19,374 THANK YOU. 1365 01:22:19,374 --> 01:22:23,945 ♪ 1366 01:22:27,048 --> 01:22:33,688 ♪ 1367 01:22:38,593 --> 01:22:45,867 ♪ 1368 01:22:50,038 --> 01:22:57,812 ♪ 1369 01:23:02,550 --> 01:23:10,024 >> OKAY. 1370 01:23:10,024 --> 01:23:15,530 ♪ 1371 01:23:19,801 --> 01:23:27,542 >> WELL, WHAT A SURPRISE. 1372 01:23:27,542 --> 01:23:30,712 HOW DISAPPOINTING. I FELT LIKE HE LOVED ME AND HE 1373 01:23:30,712 --> 01:23:32,914 PICKED SOMEONE ELSE THAT HE 1374 01:23:32,914 --> 01:23:40,021 LOVED MORE. 1375 01:23:44,826 --> 01:23:45,726 ♪ 1376 01:23:48,196 --> 01:23:50,832 >> I HOPE THAT I CAN FIND 1377 01:23:50,832 --> 01:23:56,771 SOMEONE THAT WILL LOVE ME LIKE 1378 01:23:56,771 --> 01:23:59,207 THAT FOREVER. 1379 01:23:59,207 --> 01:24:06,447 NOT TODAY THOUGH. 1380 01:24:06,447 --> 01:24:14,622 ♪ 1381 01:24:16,824 --> 01:24:20,061 ♪ 1382 01:24:22,830 --> 01:24:30,404 >> YEAH, IT DEFINITELY HURTS. 1383 01:24:32,774 --> 01:24:34,542 ♪ 1384 01:24:34,542 --> 01:24:39,080 IT DEFINITELY HURTS. 1385 01:24:50,358 --> 01:24:53,928 >> Jesse: OKAY. THAT WAS DEFINITELY A TOUGH ONE. 1386 01:24:53,928 --> 01:24:56,831 LITIA IS HERE, AND WE'RE GOING TO TALK TO HER RIGHT AFTER THE 1387 01:24:56,831 --> 01:24:57,765 BREAK. 1388 01:25:10,700 --> 01:25:15,281 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 1389 01:25:15,281 --> 01:25:17,515 >> Jesse: WELCOME BACK TO THE DRAMATIC LIVE FINALE OF "THE 1390 01:25:17,515 --> 01:25:19,617 BACHELOR." I'M JOINED NOW BY LITIA. 1391 01:25:19,617 --> 01:25:22,920 FIRST OFF, I JUST WANT TO SAY THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING HERE 1392 01:25:22,920 --> 01:25:25,189 WITH US TONIGHT. THAT WAS PROBABLY ONE OF THE 1393 01:25:25,189 --> 01:25:29,493 MORE EMOTIONAL GOOD-BYES WE'VE EVER SEEN, AND I KNOW YOU JUST 1394 01:25:29,493 --> 01:25:34,699 RELIVED IT AND WATCHED IT BACK BACKSTAGE FOR THE FIRST TIME. 1395 01:25:34,699 --> 01:25:36,300 HOW ARE YOU FEELING AFTER WATCHING IT BACK? 1396 01:25:36,300 --> 01:25:39,570 >> I MEAN, IT DOESN'T MAKE MORE 1397 01:25:39,570 --> 01:25:46,310 SENSE NOW THAN IT DID TO ME THAT 1398 01:25:46,310 --> 01:25:52,516 DAY, BUT I THINK IT JUST REMINDS ME HOW SHOCKED I WAS AND HOW I 1399 01:25:52,516 --> 01:25:56,721 REALLY FELT LIKE I GOT THE RUG PULLED OUT FROM UNDER ME. 1400 01:25:56,721 --> 01:26:00,591 GRANT AND I HAD TALKED A LOT ABOUT THAT DAY AND EVERYTHING 1401 01:26:00,591 --> 01:26:06,597 THAT HE HAD EVER SAID ABOUT IT WAS THAT IT WAS GOING TO BE US. 1402 01:26:06,597 --> 01:26:11,302 WE WERE GETTING ENGAGED. FROM, YOU KNOW, THE FIRST 1403 01:26:11,302 --> 01:26:16,240 ONE-ON-ONE WE HAD IN L.A. UNTIL THE NIGHT BEFORE, THAT DAY. 1404 01:26:16,240 --> 01:26:20,911 YOU KNOW, I REMEMBER SAYING GOOD-BYE TO HIM AND SAYING, OH, 1405 01:26:20,911 --> 01:26:24,448 MY GOSH, WE'RE GETTING ENGAGED TOMORROW. 1406 01:26:24,448 --> 01:26:27,585 AND HE SAID, I KNOW, I CAN'T WAIT. 1407 01:26:27,585 --> 01:26:30,855 I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU. 1408 01:26:30,855 --> 01:26:34,525 AND THOSE WERE THE LAST WORDS THAT HE SAID TO ME BEFORE I 1409 01:26:34,525 --> 01:26:37,995 WALKED UP THERE. SO, IT WAS A SHOCK. 1410 01:26:37,995 --> 01:26:41,332 >> IT ALWAYS REALLY SEEMED LIKE YOU HAD SUCH STRONG FEELINGS FOR 1411 01:26:41,332 --> 01:26:45,236 GRANT. OF COURSE, I WAS THERE. I SAW THE CONNECTION BETWEEN THE 1412 01:26:45,236 --> 01:26:47,471 TWO OF YOU. WHEN YOU LOOK BACK AT THIS WHOLE 1413 01:26:47,471 --> 01:26:51,876 THING, WERE YOU REALLY IN LOVE WITH GRANT? 1414 01:26:51,876 --> 01:26:55,746 >> YEAH. YEAH. I LOVED THE PARTS OF GRANT THAT 1415 01:26:55,746 --> 01:27:03,688 HE CHOSE TO SHOW ME. I LEARNED A LOT ABOUT HIM THAT 1416 01:27:03,688 --> 01:27:06,490 DAY. AND WATCHING IT BACK, I THINK 1417 01:27:06,490 --> 01:27:11,696 IT'S GIVEN ME A LOT OF CONTEXT. AND I THINK HE MADE THE RIGHT 1418 01:27:11,696 --> 01:27:13,264 CHOICE. I AGREE WITH HIS DECISION. 1419 01:27:13,264 --> 01:27:16,000 >> I WANT TO ACTUALLY ASK YOU ABOUT THAT BECAUSE WHEN YOU WERE 1420 01:27:16,000 --> 01:27:20,037 BREAKING UP, HE SAID TO YOU, I HOPE YOU DON'T VIEW ME ANY 1421 01:27:20,037 --> 01:27:21,372 DIFFERENTLY. AND YOU SAID, YOU'RE DIFFERENT 1422 01:27:21,372 --> 01:27:23,474 THAN I THOUGHT. HOW SO? 1423 01:27:23,474 --> 01:27:30,581 >> I MEAN, ON THE FIRST GROUP DATE, I OPENED UP TO GRANT AND 1424 01:27:30,581 --> 01:27:34,585 TOLD HIM ABOUT MY EXPERIENCES IN 1425 01:27:34,585 --> 01:27:41,058 DATING PAST AND TOLD HIM HOW INTENTIONAL I WAS BEING ABOUT 1426 01:27:41,058 --> 01:27:44,161 THIS JOURNEY SPECIFICALLY AT THIS POINT IN MY LIFE, AND HE 1427 01:27:44,161 --> 01:27:46,464 EXPRESSED THAT HE WAS IN THE SAME POSITION, THAT HE WAS 1428 01:27:46,464 --> 01:27:49,834 LOOKING FOR THE SAME THINGS. AND WE TALKED ABOUT TIMELINE THE 1429 01:27:49,834 --> 01:27:53,604 NEXT DATE -- THE NEXT WEEK ON THE GROUP DATE. 1430 01:27:53,604 --> 01:28:01,512 SO, THAT WASN'T NEW INFORMATION. AND HE CONTINUED TO GIVE ME 1431 01:28:01,512 --> 01:28:06,417 REASSURANCES AND PROMISES ALL ALONG THE WAY EVERY WEEK. 1432 01:28:06,417 --> 01:28:09,820 AND HE DIDN'T CHOOSE TO RAISE THOSE SERIOUS QUESTIONS UNTIL 1433 01:28:09,820 --> 01:28:13,524 THE END. AND IT WAS NOT NEW INFORMATION. 1434 01:28:13,524 --> 01:28:16,160 >> IT JUST LOOKED LIKE YOU WERE TRYING TO PROCESS SO MANY 1435 01:28:16,160 --> 01:28:18,996 DIFFERENT EMOTIONS ON THAT FINAL DAY THERE. 1436 01:28:18,996 --> 01:28:21,932 I MEAN, OBVIOUSLY YOU'VE SEEN IT BACK NOW, AND YOU CAN SEE THAT 1437 01:28:21,932 --> 01:28:25,770 HE WAS STRUGGLING TO MAKE THAT FINAL DECISION ALL THE WAY UP TO 1438 01:28:25,770 --> 01:28:28,272 THE REALLY VERY END. DID YOU EVER EVEN HAVE THE SENSE 1439 01:28:28,272 --> 01:28:29,974 THAT HE WAS SO CONFLICTED? 1440 01:28:29,974 --> 01:28:34,445 >> NOT AT ALL. NO. FROM OUR FIRST ONE ON ONE IN 1441 01:28:34,445 --> 01:28:37,982 L.A., EVERY CONVERSATION THAT I HAD WITH GRANT, I MEAN, HE SAID 1442 01:28:37,982 --> 01:28:42,052 IT ON THAT DATE. IT WASN'T SHOWN, BUT HE SAID, I 1443 01:28:42,052 --> 01:28:43,921 KNOW IT'S YOU. I COULD STOP THE WHOLE SHOW 1444 01:28:43,921 --> 01:28:47,691 RIGHT NOW. I KNOW IT'S YOU. THAT'S HOW CONFIDENT I FEEL. 1445 01:28:47,691 --> 01:28:55,666 HE SAID IT TO MY MOM ON FACETIME. 1446 01:28:55,666 --> 01:28:58,602 AND THOSE WORDS HAVE MEANING TO ME. 1447 01:28:58,602 --> 01:29:02,139 AND I ASKED HIM -- I KNOW WHAT I SIGNED UP FOR. 1448 01:29:02,139 --> 01:29:03,440 THERE ARE SO MANY AMAZING WOMEN HERE. 1449 01:29:03,440 --> 01:29:06,877 AND IT'S OKAY, I'M NOT EXPECTING THOSE PROMISES RIGHT NOW. 1450 01:29:06,877 --> 01:29:10,848 AND I TRIED IN AN EFFORT TO PROTECT MY OWN FEELINGS, I ASKED 1451 01:29:10,848 --> 01:29:13,117 HIM, PLEASE DON'T MAKE ME PROMISES LIKE THAT IF YOU'RE 1452 01:29:13,117 --> 01:29:17,254 GOING TO CHANGE YOUR MIND. AND IT'S SO LIKELY THAT YOU'LL 1453 01:29:17,254 --> 01:29:20,624 CHANGE YOUR MIND, AT THAT POINT IN WEEK TWO. 1454 01:29:20,624 --> 01:29:23,227 AND EVERY WEEK, HE CONTINUED TO RAISE THE STAKES. 1455 01:29:23,227 --> 01:29:29,934 EVERY TIME I PUMPED THE BRAKES, HE PUSHED THE GAS. 1456 01:29:29,934 --> 01:29:34,872 AND IT WAS, LIKE, I NEED -- I FELT LIKE EVERY WEEK I NEEDED TO 1457 01:29:34,872 --> 01:29:38,842 CATCH UP TO WHERE HIS FEELINGS WERE. HE WAS ALWAYS THE FIRST TO 1458 01:29:38,842 --> 01:29:41,779 EXPRESS FEELINGS AND TO RAISE THE STAKES OF THE RELATIONSHIP. 1459 01:29:41,779 --> 01:29:44,081 >> I THINK WHAT'S REALLY HEARTBREAKING FOR A LOT OF 1460 01:29:44,081 --> 01:29:47,718 PEOPLE WATCHING THAT BACK IS THE FACT THAT I THINK WE ALL SAW 1461 01:29:47,718 --> 01:29:50,654 SOME OF THE EMOTIONAL MOMENTS YOU TWO HAD TOGETHER. 1462 01:29:50,654 --> 01:29:54,458 WE ALSO HEARD THOSE REALLY INTIMATE CONVERSATIONS YOU TWO 1463 01:29:54,458 --> 01:29:56,460 HAD, RIGHT? BECAUSE YOU REALLY, REALLY 1464 01:29:56,460 --> 01:30:00,864 OPENED UP TO EACH OTHER. SO, I IMAGINE IT HAD TO BE 1465 01:30:00,864 --> 01:30:05,302 REALLY DIFFICULT WHEN YOU HEARD GRANT SAY THAT HE HAD A STRONGER 1466 01:30:05,302 --> 01:30:10,274 EMOTIONAL CONNECTION WITH SOMEONE ELSE. 1467 01:30:10,274 --> 01:30:15,880 >> YEAH. IT WAS TOUGH TO HEAR THAT, 1468 01:30:15,880 --> 01:30:17,114 ESPECIALLY BECAUSE THAT WAS OUR THING. 1469 01:30:17,114 --> 01:30:21,352 I MEAN, WE HAD TALKED ABOUT IT SO MUCH. 1470 01:30:21,352 --> 01:30:25,756 OUR EMOTIONAL CONNECTION, LIKE, THE EMOTIONAL ASPECT, WAS OUR 1471 01:30:25,756 --> 01:30:29,226 STRONGEST POINT. AND HE HAD USED THE WORDS "YOU 1472 01:30:29,226 --> 01:30:34,164 ARE MY NUMBER ONE EMOTIONAL CONNECTION." 1473 01:30:34,164 --> 01:30:39,003 SO, THERE'S JUST -- THERE WASN'T A WAY FOR ME TO MISINTERPRET 1474 01:30:39,003 --> 01:30:39,203 THAT. 1475 01:30:39,203 --> 01:30:40,871 >> Jesse: THERE'S ONE THING I KNOW ABOUT YOU. 1476 01:30:40,871 --> 01:30:44,575 YOU HAVE AN AMAZING FAMILY. AND THEY LOVE YOU VERY MUCH. 1477 01:30:44,575 --> 01:30:47,845 AND WE'RE LUCKY TO HAVE YOUR PARENTS IN THE AUDIENCE HERE 1478 01:30:47,845 --> 01:30:55,486 WITH US TONIGHT. 1479 01:30:55,486 --> 01:30:58,789 HOW HAVE YOUR PARENTS SUPPORTED YOU SINCE YOU'VE BEEN HOME? 1480 01:30:58,789 --> 01:31:04,628 >> I MEAN, I WAS PRETTY SICK WHEN I GOT BACK. 1481 01:31:04,628 --> 01:31:09,366 WE DIDN'T TALK ABOUT IT, BUT I HAD FOOD POISONING IN THE DR. 1482 01:31:09,366 --> 01:31:12,970 SO, I DID SOME EMOTIONAL RECOVERY AND SOME PHYSICAL 1483 01:31:12,970 --> 01:31:16,940 RECOVERY AT THEIR HOUSE FOR A FEW WEEKS. 1484 01:31:16,940 --> 01:31:22,946 THEY'RE EVERYTHING THAT THEY WERE ON MY HOMETOWN AND MORE. 1485 01:31:22,946 --> 01:31:24,315 >> Jesse: THAT'S SO IMPORTANT. 1486 01:31:24,315 --> 01:31:25,516 >> YEAH. SO LUCKY. 1487 01:31:25,516 --> 01:31:28,686 >> Jesse: SO LUCKY TO HAVE AN AMAZING FAMILY. 1488 01:31:28,686 --> 01:31:29,954 >> I'M SO LUCKY. 1489 01:31:29,954 --> 01:31:32,556 >> Jesse: IT'S IMPORTANT TO HAVE THAT SUPPORT UNIT, ESPECIALLY AT 1490 01:31:32,556 --> 01:31:34,658 A TIME LIKE THAT. I'M SO HAPPY YOU HAD THAT. 1491 01:31:34,658 --> 01:31:35,559 >> YEAH. 1492 01:31:35,559 --> 01:31:37,428 >> Jesse: LISTEN, I KNOW THERE ARE PROBABLY SOME THINGS YOU 1493 01:31:37,428 --> 01:31:39,730 WANT TO SAY TO GRANT. OF COURSE HE'S HERE TONIGHT. 1494 01:31:39,730 --> 01:31:41,966 HE IS COMING OUT HERE A LITTLE BIT LATER. 1495 01:31:41,966 --> 01:31:44,501 MY BIGGEST HOPE IS JUST THAT YOU'LL GET ANY ANSWERS TO ANY 1496 01:31:44,501 --> 01:31:48,605 QUESTIONS THAT YOU MAY STILL HAVE FOR HIM, OKAY? 1497 01:31:48,605 --> 01:31:50,607 WHEN WE COME BACK, GRANT WILL SIT DOWN WITH LITIA FOR THE 1498 01:31:50,607 --> 01:31:53,010 FIRST TIME SINCE THEIR EMOTIONAL BREAKUP IN THE DOMINICAN 1499 01:31:53,010 --> 01:31:56,246 REPUBLIC. DON'T GO AWAY. 1500 01:32:09,143 --> 01:32:11,647 >> Jesse: WE'RE BACK NOW WITH THE LIVE "BACHELOR" FINALE. 1501 01:32:11,647 --> 01:32:15,284 OF COURSE I'M HERE WITH LITIA. YOU ALL JUST WITNESSED HER 1502 01:32:15,284 --> 01:32:19,989 EMOTIONAL BREAKUP WITH GRANT IN THE DOMINICAN REPUBLIC. 1503 01:32:19,989 --> 01:32:21,790 ALL RIGHT. GRANT'S BACKSTAGE. HE'S ABOUT TO COME OUT. 1504 01:32:21,790 --> 01:32:22,558 YOU DOING OKAY? 1505 01:32:22,558 --> 01:32:23,359 >> YEP. 1506 01:32:23,359 --> 01:32:25,394 >> Jesse: ALL RIGHT. LET'S BRING HIM OUT. 1507 01:32:25,394 --> 01:32:32,635 LADIES AND GENTLEMEN, PLEASE WELCOME GRANT. 1508 01:32:33,869 --> 01:32:38,907 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 1509 01:32:43,245 --> 01:32:48,250 >> IT'S GREAT TO SEE YOU. I KNOW THE TWO OF YOU HAVEN'T 1510 01:32:48,250 --> 01:32:54,356 SEEN EACH OTHER SINCE THAT DAY IN THE DOMINICAN REPUBLIC. 1511 01:32:54,356 --> 01:32:57,559 I'LL OPEN IT UP TO YOU. WHAT DO YOU WANT TO SAY TO GRANT? 1512 01:32:57,559 --> 01:33:00,562 >> GRANT, I JUST WANT TO START BY SAYING THAT I DON'T THINK 1513 01:33:00,562 --> 01:33:07,069 YOU'RE A BAD GUY, AND I THINK YOU STARTED OUT WITH GREAT 1514 01:33:07,069 --> 01:33:10,973 INTENTIONS. AND YOU TALKED A LOT FROM THE 1515 01:33:10,973 --> 01:33:14,777 BEGINNING ABOUT HONESTY AND 1516 01:33:14,777 --> 01:33:20,649 MATURITY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND THE RESPONSIBILITY THAT YOU FELT 1517 01:33:20,649 --> 01:33:25,120 FOR YOUR PARTNER'S FEELINGS, AND SPECIFICALLY THE 25 WOMEN THAT 1518 01:33:25,120 --> 01:33:32,561 STARTED THIS JOURNEY WITH YOU. AND YOU SAID A LOT OF THINGS TO 1519 01:33:32,561 --> 01:33:37,132 ME FROM THE BEGINNING, FROM OUR FIRST ONE ON ONE IN L.A. WHEN 1520 01:33:37,132 --> 01:33:40,669 YOU SAID YOU WANTED TO STOP THE WHOLE SHOW BECAUSE THAT'S HOW 1521 01:33:40,669 --> 01:33:43,038 SURE YOU WERE AND HOW CONFIDENT YOU WERE IN OUR CONNECTION. 1522 01:33:43,038 --> 01:33:49,545 YOU SAID IT TO MY MOM. AND YOU CONTINUED -- AND I ASKED 1523 01:33:49,545 --> 01:33:52,581 YOU THAT NIGHT, PLEASE DON'T MAKE PROMISES TO ME. 1524 01:33:52,581 --> 01:33:58,654 I KNOW WHAT I SIGNED UP FOR. AND IT'S REALLY GOING TO HURT ME 1525 01:33:58,654 --> 01:34:01,023 IN THE END IF YOU CHANGE YOUR MIND. 1526 01:34:01,023 --> 01:34:03,525 AND DO YOU REMEMBER WHAT YOU SAID? 1527 01:34:03,525 --> 01:34:06,328 MY MIND'S NOT GOING TO CHANGE. YOU WERE SCARED THAT IF YOU 1528 01:34:06,328 --> 01:34:10,265 DIDN'T TELL ME HOW YOU FELT THAT I WAS GOING TO LEAVE. 1529 01:34:10,265 --> 01:34:12,701 AND YOU COULDN'T STAND TO LOSE ME. 1530 01:34:12,701 --> 01:34:16,905 SO, EVERY WEEK, YOU CONTINUED TO RAISE THE STAKES. 1531 01:34:16,905 --> 01:34:23,912 AND YOU WENT OUT OF BOUNDS. IN MADRID, YOU GAVE ME A JOURNAL 1532 01:34:23,912 --> 01:34:26,782 TELLING ME TO WRITE ALL MY THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS SO WE 1533 01:34:26,782 --> 01:34:29,051 COULD READ THROUGH IT TOGETHER AT THE END. 1534 01:34:29,051 --> 01:34:34,023 YOU TOLD ME I WAS YOUR NUMBER ONE CONNECTION, THAT FROM THE 1535 01:34:34,023 --> 01:34:36,925 FIRST GROUP DATE YOU KNEW I WAS YOUR WIFE. 1536 01:34:36,925 --> 01:34:43,165 THOSE AREN'T THINGS THAT YOU SAY WHEN YOU'RE CONFLICTED. 1537 01:34:43,165 --> 01:34:49,571 AND I STILL KNEW THE FORMAT OF THIS WHOLE EQUATION AND THAT YOU 1538 01:34:49,571 --> 01:34:51,607 WERE PURSUING OTHER RELATIONSHIPS. 1539 01:34:51,607 --> 01:34:57,246 AND THAT WAS SUBJECT TO CHANGE. BUT YOU NEVER LET UP UP UNTIL 1540 01:34:57,246 --> 01:35:00,616 THE LAST NIGHT. IN OVERNIGHTS, YOU SAID A LOT. 1541 01:35:00,616 --> 01:35:05,320 AND UP UNTIL THE LAST NIGHT BEFORE PROPOSAL, WHEN I SAID, 1542 01:35:05,320 --> 01:35:10,325 OH, MY GOSH, WE'RE GETTING ENGAGED TOMORROW, AND YOU SAID, 1543 01:35:10,325 --> 01:35:16,198 I KNOW. I CAN'T WAIT. I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU, I LOVE 1544 01:35:16,198 --> 01:35:18,834 YOU. WHERE IS THE PROTECTION AND THE 1545 01:35:18,834 --> 01:35:23,772 HONESTY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND THE MATURITY THAT YOU TALKED 1546 01:35:23,772 --> 01:35:23,972 ABOUT? 1547 01:35:23,972 --> 01:35:29,778 >> LISTEN, FIRST AND FOREMOST, AS A MAN, I HAVE TO ACCEPT 1548 01:35:29,778 --> 01:35:32,314 RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY ACTIONS. THAT'S FIRST AND FOREMOST. 1549 01:35:32,314 --> 01:35:38,487 I'M DEFINITELY NOT PERFECT. AND I THINK THAT EVERYBODY CAN 1550 01:35:38,487 --> 01:35:42,157 SEE OUR RELATIONSHIP ON SCREEN YOU KNOW? 1551 01:35:42,157 --> 01:35:44,593 I DID LOVE YOU VERY MUCH. I HAVE LOVE FOR YOU. 1552 01:35:44,593 --> 01:35:49,031 YOU TAUGHT ME A LOT AS A MAN. I THINK IT'S A VERY DIFFICULT 1553 01:35:49,031 --> 01:35:56,972 SITUATION THAT I'M IN. AND I JUST WANT TO APOLOGIZE FOR 1554 01:35:56,972 --> 01:36:02,144 HURTING YOU, HURTING YOUR FEELINGS, AND HURTING THE PEOPLE 1555 01:36:02,144 --> 01:36:07,583 THAT LOVE YOU. SO, THAT'S ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT 1556 01:36:07,583 --> 01:36:13,255 I'M TRULY SORRY, AND I HAD TO MAKE A DECISION THAT WAS BEST 1557 01:36:13,255 --> 01:36:19,828 FOR ME. AND IT CAME DOWN TO THE WIRE FOR 1558 01:36:19,828 --> 01:36:23,832 ME. AND I'M SORRY I HURT YOU, TRULY. 1559 01:36:23,832 --> 01:36:25,901 I HOPE YOU FEEL THE SINCERITY WHEN I SPEAK TO YOU. 1560 01:36:25,901 --> 01:36:29,304 AND I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT. 1561 01:36:29,304 --> 01:36:33,408 >> Jesse: GRANT, DO YOU REGRET TELLING LITIA THAT YOU LOVED HER? 1562 01:36:33,408 --> 01:36:36,645 >> NO, I DON'T. I WEAR MY HEART ON MY SLEEVE, 1563 01:36:36,645 --> 01:36:40,048 AND I LOVED YOU. I REALLY DID. YOU ARE AN AMAZING WOMAN, AND 1564 01:36:40,048 --> 01:36:44,119 YOU HAVE SO MUCH TO OFFER. AND I THINK THAT I DON'T REGRET 1565 01:36:44,119 --> 01:36:46,155 IT. YOU KNOW? I STAND ON WHAT I SAID. 1566 01:36:46,155 --> 01:36:51,760 BUT WHAT I DO REGRET IS THE MISTAKES THAT I MADE. 1567 01:36:51,760 --> 01:36:56,231 AND SPEAKING EARLY IN SITUATIONS WHEN I DIDN'T KNOW HOW 1568 01:36:56,231 --> 01:37:00,169 CONFLICTED I WOULD BE. AND I DIDN'T KNOW THE SEVERITY 1569 01:37:00,169 --> 01:37:01,670 OF THIS JOURNEY. IT'S A WHIRLWIND. 1570 01:37:01,670 --> 01:37:06,408 IT'S UP AND DOWN. AND IT'S VERY HARD, ESPECIALLY 1571 01:37:06,408 --> 01:37:13,782 WHEN YOU HAVE A WOMAN OF SUCH STATURE AND SOMEBODY THAT 1572 01:37:13,782 --> 01:37:16,752 CARRIES THEMSELVES LIKE YOU. I THINK I SPOKE TOO SOON IN A 1573 01:37:16,752 --> 01:37:19,988 LOT OF SITUATIONS, AND I WILL ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR THAT. 1574 01:37:19,988 --> 01:37:22,858 >> YOU SPOKE TOO SOON, BUT YOU DIDN'T LET UP ALL THE WAY 1575 01:37:22,858 --> 01:37:25,561 THROUGH. YOU RAISED THE STAKES. YOU WENT OUT OF BOUNDS. 1576 01:37:25,561 --> 01:37:26,762 >> LISTEN I -- 1577 01:37:26,762 --> 01:37:27,963 >> UP UNTIL THE LAST NIGHT. 1578 01:37:27,963 --> 01:37:29,264 >> I UNDERSTAND -- 1579 01:37:29,264 --> 01:37:31,667 >> IT'S NOT JUST THE EARLY ASSURANCE THAT'S THE ISSUE. 1580 01:37:31,667 --> 01:37:35,537 IT'S THAT THERE WAS NO TRANSPARENCY THAT YOU WERE 1581 01:37:35,537 --> 01:37:37,806 CONFLICTED. 1582 01:37:37,806 --> 01:37:41,910 >> YEAH, AND I SAID, LIKE, IN THE SITUATION, IN THIS JOURNEY, 1583 01:37:41,910 --> 01:37:49,618 IT'S VERY HARD TO COMPARTMENTALIZE YOUR FEELINGS. 1584 01:37:49,618 --> 01:37:53,555 YOU'RE GOING ON ONE DATE AND YOU'RE MEETING FAMILIES, AND 1585 01:37:53,555 --> 01:37:56,558 IT'S AMAZING. AND THEN YOU'RE GOING ON -- AND 1586 01:37:56,558 --> 01:37:58,126 I'VE NEVER BEEN IN THIS SITUATION BEFORE. 1587 01:37:58,126 --> 01:37:58,427 >> RIGHT. 1588 01:37:58,427 --> 01:38:02,898 >> AND LIKE I SAID, I CAN ADMIT MY MISTAKES. 1589 01:38:02,898 --> 01:38:05,334 THAT'S ONE THING I'M ALWAYS GOING TO DO AS A MAN IS SAY WHEN 1590 01:38:05,334 --> 01:38:08,704 I'M WRONG. I WAS WRONG FOR THAT. 1591 01:38:08,704 --> 01:38:11,540 >> Jesse: LITIA, I WANT TO ASK YOU QUICKLY BEFORE WE MOVE ON. 1592 01:38:11,540 --> 01:38:13,775 IS THERE ANYTHING YOU WOULD HAVE DONE QUICKLY? 1593 01:38:13,775 --> 01:38:16,178 >> NO. I DON'T REGRET OPENING UP. 1594 01:38:16,178 --> 01:38:18,580 I WAS MYSELF FROM THE VERY BEGINNING. 1595 01:38:18,580 --> 01:38:21,683 I WAS TRANSPARENT WITH YOU ABOUT EVERYTHING, INCLUDING MY 1596 01:38:21,683 --> 01:38:26,788 TIMELINE, WHICH WE TALKED ABOUT ON WEEK TWO THAT SEEMED TO BE A 1597 01:38:26,788 --> 01:38:30,058 BIG ISSUE AT THE END. BUT THAT WAS NEWS TO ME AS I 1598 01:38:30,058 --> 01:38:32,961 WATCHED IT BACK. AND I THINK THAT I'M EXCITED FOR 1599 01:38:32,961 --> 01:38:35,330 THIS TO BE THE LAST TIME THAT I TALK TO YOU ABOUT THIS. 1600 01:38:35,330 --> 01:38:39,267 I'M GLAD THAT THIS WHOLE -- THAT LAST WEEK AND THAT LAST DAY 1601 01:38:39,267 --> 01:38:46,908 ISN'T A PART OF MY LOVE STORY. I KNOW THAT I DESERVE SOMEONE 1602 01:38:46,908 --> 01:38:50,545 WAKING UP ONE MORNING AND KNOWING WITHOUT A SHADOW OF A 1603 01:38:50,545 --> 01:38:53,982 DOUBT THAT THEY'RE GOING TO CHOOSE ME. 1604 01:38:53,982 --> 01:38:58,887 I THINK EVERY WOMAN DESERVES THAT. 1605 01:38:58,887 --> 01:38:59,388 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 1606 01:38:59,388 --> 01:39:00,689 >> I AGREE. 1607 01:39:00,689 --> 01:39:04,593 >> AND I'M EXCITED TO FIND IT. AND I'M EXCITED TO FIND IT. 1608 01:39:04,593 --> 01:39:07,396 >> Jesse: I WANT TO THANK YOU BOTH FOR BEING HERE, HAVING THIS 1609 01:39:07,396 --> 01:39:09,097 CONVERSATION, BEING SO OPEN AND SO HONEST. 1610 01:39:09,097 --> 01:39:13,268 I KNOW IT'S NOT AN EASY CONVERSATION TO HAVE, BUT IT'S 1611 01:39:13,268 --> 01:39:14,870 OBVIOUSLY BOTH STILL RESPECT EACH OTHER. 1612 01:39:14,870 --> 01:39:17,472 SO, THANK YOU SO MUCH. LET'S HEAR IT FOR LITIA AND 1613 01:39:17,472 --> 01:39:22,244 GRANT, EVERYBODY. OKAY. 1614 01:39:22,244 --> 01:39:29,217 GRANT'S JOURNEY IS NOT OVER YET. THERE'S ONE MORE FACE SMILING 1615 01:39:29,217 --> 01:39:31,853 BEHIND HIM. THE EMOTIONAL ENDING YOU DON'T 1616 01:39:31,853 --> 01:39:34,823 WANT TO MISS. DON'T GO AWAY. 1617 01:39:43,767 --> 01:39:48,556 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 1618 01:39:48,556 --> 01:39:50,476 >> Jesse: WELCOME BACK. IT HAS ALREADY BEEN AN 1619 01:39:50,476 --> 01:39:54,280 UNBELIEVABLY EMOTIONAL NIGHT. EARLIER WE WATCHED GRANT AND 1620 01:39:54,280 --> 01:39:58,117 LITIA'S TEARFUL BREAK UP. THAT MEANS THERE'S JUST ONE 1621 01:39:58,117 --> 01:40:01,821 WOMAN LEFT. THAT'S JULIANA. SHE'S PULLING UP TO THE PROPOSAL 1622 01:40:01,821 --> 01:40:05,358 SITE RIGHT NOW. HOW WILL GRANT'S STORY END? 1623 01:40:05,358 --> 01:40:12,899 LET'S WATCH. 1624 01:40:12,899 --> 01:40:16,903 ♪ 1625 01:40:19,872 --> 01:40:25,278 >> SAYING GOOD-BYE TO LITIA WAS TOUGH. IT WAS VERY HARD. 1626 01:40:25,278 --> 01:40:28,781 BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY, AS WONDERFUL A WOMAN AS LITIA WAS 1627 01:40:28,781 --> 01:40:32,018 AND ALL THE TRAITS THAT SHE BROUGHT, SHE WASN'T MY PERSON. 1628 01:40:32,018 --> 01:40:37,023 AND I KNOW THAT IN MY HEART JULIANA MAKES ME HAPPY. 1629 01:40:37,023 --> 01:40:43,329 AND IT'S NOT ONLY HER BEAUTY. WHAT I SEE IN JULIANA IS A WOMAN 1630 01:40:43,329 --> 01:40:48,067 OF STRONG CHARACTER, A WOMAN THAT'S COMPASSIONATE AND CARING, 1631 01:40:48,067 --> 01:40:55,441 A WOMAN THAT WANTS LOVE. AND, YOU KNOW, I LOVE JULIANA 1632 01:40:55,441 --> 01:40:57,777 VERY MUCH, AND I SEE A FOREVER LOVE BETWEEN US. 1633 01:40:57,777 --> 01:41:04,617 AND THAT'S WHY I WANT TO BE WITH HER. 1634 01:41:04,617 --> 01:41:07,954 >> OKAY. TODAY IS, LIKE, IT'S SUCH A 1635 01:41:07,954 --> 01:41:11,057 SURREAL DREAM. AND I'M SO IN LOVE WITH THIS MAN. 1636 01:41:11,057 --> 01:41:15,328 I AM SO IN LOVE WITH GRANT. GRANT AND I BONDED OVER FEELING 1637 01:41:15,328 --> 01:41:18,164 REALLY ALONE AT TIMES IN OUR LIVES. 1638 01:41:18,164 --> 01:41:23,269 BUT WITH HIM, I DON'T FEEL LIKE THAT ANYMORE. 1639 01:41:23,269 --> 01:41:28,074 AND SO TODAY THE WORDS I REALLY WANT TO HEAR IS HE'S GOING TO 1640 01:41:28,074 --> 01:41:29,909 CHOOSE ME. AND THEN HE'S GOING TO CONTINUE 1641 01:41:29,909 --> 01:41:32,845 TO CHOOSE ME OUTSIDE OF HERE FOREVER. 1642 01:41:32,845 --> 01:41:36,282 AND I WANT TO CONTINUE TO CHOOSE HIM OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN 1643 01:41:36,282 --> 01:41:41,554 UNTIL DEATH DO US PART BECAUSE HE'S JUST THE MAN OF MY DREAMS. 1644 01:41:41,554 --> 01:41:42,822 >> HELLO. 1645 01:41:42,822 --> 01:41:43,523 >> HI. 1646 01:41:43,523 --> 01:41:44,624 >> HOW ARE YOU? 1647 01:41:44,624 --> 01:41:47,727 >> I'M GOOD. 1648 01:41:47,727 --> 01:41:50,430 >> YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL. 1649 01:41:50,430 --> 01:41:50,763 >> THANK YOU. 1650 01:41:50,763 --> 01:41:53,800 >> YOU LOOK AMAZING. YOU OKAY? 1651 01:41:53,800 --> 01:41:56,602 >> I THINK SO. 1652 01:41:56,602 --> 01:42:04,710 OKAY. 1653 01:42:04,710 --> 01:42:09,949 GRANT, NOT TOO LONG AGO, THERE WAS A PART OF ME THAT BELIEVED I 1654 01:42:09,949 --> 01:42:17,824 MAY NOT BE DESERVING OF TRUE 1655 01:42:17,824 --> 01:42:19,659 LOVE. BUT TODAY, I STAND IN FRONT OF 1656 01:42:19,659 --> 01:42:26,299 THE MAN WHO GAVE ME A REASON TO FIGHT THOSE BELIEFS. 1657 01:42:26,299 --> 01:42:34,307 WE'VE COME SO FAR, MR. ALEX. 1658 01:42:34,307 --> 01:42:40,012 I'M TRYING TO WIN YOU OVER WITH MY LACK OF BASKETBALL SKILLS, 1659 01:42:40,012 --> 01:42:43,749 OUR DEEPER CONNECTION FLYING OVER THE CASTLES IN SCOTLAND. 1660 01:42:43,749 --> 01:42:47,420 I CAN NOW STAND IN FRONT OF YOU AS A WOMAN WHO FEELS SHE IS VERY 1661 01:42:47,420 --> 01:42:49,689 DESERVING OF THE TYPE OF LOVE THAT YOU'VE GIVEN ME. 1662 01:42:49,689 --> 01:42:53,726 I WANT TO PROTECT YOUR HEART WITH EVERY PIECE OF MINE, AND I 1663 01:42:53,726 --> 01:42:59,031 WANT TO CELEBRATE THE GOOD DAYS WITH YOU AND MAKE SURE THAT YOU 1664 01:42:59,031 --> 01:43:03,269 KNOW THAT ON THE NOT SO GOOD DAYS I WILL CREATE A SAFE SPACE 1665 01:43:03,269 --> 01:43:05,605 FOR YOU JUST AS YOU'VE DONE SO FOR ME. 1666 01:43:05,605 --> 01:43:10,743 BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY, I BELIEVE THAT BETWEEN YOU, ME, OUR 1667 01:43:10,743 --> 01:43:13,412 FAMILIES, AND GOD, THE SKY'S THE LIMIT. 1668 01:43:13,412 --> 01:43:18,284 AND I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU, AND YOU MAKE ME THE 1669 01:43:18,284 --> 01:43:23,656 LUCKIEST GIRL IN THE WORLD IF I COULD SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE 1670 01:43:23,656 --> 01:43:29,395 WITH YOU BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT I WANT SO BADLY. 1671 01:43:29,395 --> 01:43:30,162 >> JULIANA -- 1672 01:43:30,162 --> 01:43:31,797 >> YEAH? 1673 01:43:31,797 --> 01:43:34,967 >> -- SINCE OUR FIRST NIGHT PLAYING THE PIANO AND GETTING TO 1674 01:43:34,967 --> 01:43:38,971 KNOW YOU, WE'VE ALWAYS HAD A CONNECTION. 1675 01:43:38,971 --> 01:43:42,074 THROUGH THIS WHOLE JOURNEY, YOU'VE BEEN SOMEBODY WHO HAS 1676 01:43:42,074 --> 01:43:45,611 INSPIRED ME, KEPT ME LAUGHING WITH YOUR CONTAGIOUS SMILE, 1677 01:43:45,611 --> 01:43:47,680 BECAUSE WE UNDERSTAND WHAT WE'VE BEEN THROUGH. 1678 01:43:47,680 --> 01:43:51,284 AND WE UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS TO PERSEVERE. 1679 01:43:51,284 --> 01:43:56,455 AND I TRULY BELIEVE THAT YOU'RE SOMEBODY WHO IS MY BEST FRIEND. 1680 01:43:56,455 --> 01:44:01,961 AND I'M SO GRATEFUL FOR OUR JOURNEY. 1681 01:44:01,961 --> 01:44:05,464 AND WHEN YOU'RE GOING THROUGH THE TOUGHEST TIMES OF YOUR LIFE, 1682 01:44:05,464 --> 01:44:09,769 I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO THROUGH IT 1683 01:44:09,769 --> 01:44:11,737 ALONE, THAT I'LL BE THERE FOR YOU AS YOUR MAN, AS YOUR FRIEND, 1684 01:44:11,737 --> 01:44:15,007 AS YOUR PARTNER. 1685 01:44:15,007 --> 01:44:21,747 >> OH, MY GOD. 1686 01:44:21,747 --> 01:44:24,850 >> JULIANA -- 1687 01:44:24,850 --> 01:44:26,118 >> YEAH? 1688 01:44:26,118 --> 01:44:29,555 >> -- WILL YOU MARRY ME? 1689 01:44:29,555 --> 01:44:36,128 >> YES! I'M SO HAPPY. 1690 01:44:36,128 --> 01:44:43,569 OH, MY GOD, OH, MY GOD. OH, MY GOD, OH, MY GOD, OH, MY 1691 01:44:43,569 --> 01:44:51,043 GOD. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. 1692 01:44:51,043 --> 01:44:54,180 >> I LOVE YOU TOO. 1693 01:44:54,180 --> 01:45:04,323 >> SHUT UP! 1694 01:45:04,323 --> 01:45:07,326 >> I KNOW OUR CONNECTION IS SO STRONG AND WE CAN HELP EACH 1695 01:45:07,326 --> 01:45:09,729 OTHER THROUGH THE GOOD, THE BAD, AND EVERYTHING IN BETWEEN. 1696 01:45:09,729 --> 01:45:11,330 >> EVERYTHING. 1697 01:45:11,330 --> 01:45:11,664 >> EVERYTHING. 1698 01:45:11,664 --> 01:45:12,431 >> ALL THE THINGS. 1699 01:45:12,431 --> 01:45:18,170 >> ALL THE THINGS. 1700 01:45:25,678 --> 01:45:26,646 >> YOU'RE MY MAN. 1701 01:45:26,646 --> 01:45:29,482 >> OF COURSE. 1702 01:45:29,482 --> 01:45:34,020 >> LOVE IS A CHOICE, AND HE CHOSE ME TODAY, AND I FEEL LIKE 1703 01:45:34,020 --> 01:45:35,454 YOU'RE GOING TO CHOOSE ME FOREVER. 1704 01:45:35,454 --> 01:45:37,023 AND I WANT TO CHOOSE YOU RIGHT BACK. 1705 01:45:37,023 --> 01:45:38,958 AND I JUST FEEL SO SPECIAL AND SO HAPPY. 1706 01:45:38,958 --> 01:45:44,797 >> YOU KNOW, I CANNOT WAIT TO BE A PART OF THE WOLF PACK. 1707 01:45:44,797 --> 01:45:50,803 ONE MORE THING. JULIANA, WILL YOU ACCEPT THIS 1708 01:45:50,803 --> 01:45:51,003 ROSE? 1709 01:45:51,003 --> 01:46:01,881 >> ABSOLUTELY! 1710 01:46:01,881 --> 01:46:07,520 >> WE'RE TYING THE KNOT. 1711 01:46:07,520 --> 01:46:10,089 >> THIS IS THE HAPPIEST DAY OF MY LIFE. 1712 01:46:10,089 --> 01:46:12,158 I'M TRYING TO GET OUT OF HERE. 1713 01:46:12,158 --> 01:46:19,365 >> ME TOO, BABY. 1714 01:46:19,365 --> 01:46:26,539 ♪ 1715 01:46:29,442 --> 01:46:33,079 ♪ 1716 01:46:35,915 --> 01:46:42,488 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 1717 01:46:46,058 --> 01:46:48,327 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 1718 01:46:51,197 --> 01:46:52,498 >> Jesse: THAT'S ALWAYS MY FAVORITE PART. 1719 01:46:52,498 --> 01:46:57,236 SUCH AN INCREDIBLE MOMENT. WHAT DO Y'ALL THINK? 1720 01:46:57,236 --> 01:47:01,440 A HUGE CONGRATULATIONS TO GRANT AND JULIANA. 1721 01:47:01,440 --> 01:47:06,078 TRULY A FAIRY TALE ENDING FOR THOSE TWO. AND THE HAPPY COUPLE. 1722 01:47:06,078 --> 01:47:09,949 THEY'RE GOING TO BE OUT HERE NEXT TO CELEBRATE THEIR 1723 01:47:09,949 --> 01:47:14,153 ENGAGEMENT AND CATCH US UP ON EVERYTHING IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP 1724 01:47:14,153 --> 01:47:16,155 SINCE THAT MAGICAL DAY IN THE DOMINICAN REPUBLIC. 1725 01:47:16,155 --> 01:47:16,856 DON'T GO AWAY. 1726 01:47:25,863 --> 01:47:30,661 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 1727 01:47:30,661 --> 01:47:33,064 >> Jesse: WELCOME BACK TO THE LIVE FINALE OF "THE BACHELOR." 1728 01:47:33,064 --> 01:47:37,369 WE'RE JOINED ONCE AGAIN BY OR BACHELOR, GRANT. 1729 01:47:37,369 --> 01:47:40,472 MAN, WE JUST WATCHED BACK THAT BEAUTIFUL PROPOSAL. 1730 01:47:40,472 --> 01:47:43,642 SUCH AN INCREDIBLE MOMENT. WHAT'S IT LIKE FOR YOU RELIVING 1731 01:47:43,642 --> 01:47:45,310 THAT AND WATCHING IT BACK AGAIN JUST NOW? 1732 01:47:45,310 --> 01:47:48,813 >> OH, MAN, THIS IS -- YOU KNOW, THAT DAY WAS ONE OF THE HAPPIEST 1733 01:47:48,813 --> 01:47:53,418 DAYS IN MY LIFE. AND GOING THROUGH THE HIGHS AND 1734 01:47:53,418 --> 01:47:56,888 LOWS OF THE JOURNEY, YOU DON'T KNOW REALLY WHAT IT ENTAILS. 1735 01:47:56,888 --> 01:47:58,523 AND THERE'S NO RIGHT WAY TO DO IT. 1736 01:47:58,523 --> 01:48:02,127 YOU JUST HAVE TO PUT YOUR HEART OUT THERE. 1737 01:48:02,127 --> 01:48:04,562 AND ALWAYS LEAD WITH YOUR HEART, AND THAT'S SOMETHING I DID. 1738 01:48:04,562 --> 01:48:09,834 AND I'M SO HAPPY THAT JULIANA IS SOMEBODY WHO'S MY ROCK. 1739 01:48:09,834 --> 01:48:10,335 >> Jesse: YEAH. 1740 01:48:10,335 --> 01:48:13,738 >> AND SHE'S MY BEST FRIEND. AND SHE'S HAD MY BACK THROUGH 1741 01:48:13,738 --> 01:48:16,574 HIGHS AND LOWS. MY FAMILY ALONG WITH HER FAMILY 1742 01:48:16,574 --> 01:48:20,412 HAS HAD MY BACK. AND I'M THANKFUL I'M WITH 1743 01:48:20,412 --> 01:48:23,582 SOMEONE I ALWAYS WANTED. AND NOW THAT I'M 31, I GET TO 1744 01:48:23,582 --> 01:48:24,649 HAVE THAT. I'M BLESSED. 1745 01:48:24,649 --> 01:48:26,518 >> YOU MENTIONED THE HIGHS AND LOWS. 1746 01:48:26,518 --> 01:48:29,988 IT WAS A CRAZY JOURNEY, MAN. SO MANY EMOTIONAL TWISTS AND 1747 01:48:29,988 --> 01:48:31,890 TURNS. TAKE US BACK TO THE DOMINICAN 1748 01:48:31,890 --> 01:48:34,459 REPUBLIC FOR A MOMENT. JUST HOW HARD WERE THOSE FINAL 1749 01:48:34,459 --> 01:48:36,361 DAYS FOR YOU THERE? 1750 01:48:36,361 --> 01:48:40,832 >> EXTREMELY HARD. YOU KNOW, I WISH -- YOU KNOW, I 1751 01:48:40,832 --> 01:48:46,738 LOOK BACK AND, YOU KNOW, DURING THIS JOURNEY, I REALLY PUT IT 1752 01:48:46,738 --> 01:48:47,172 ALL OUT THERE. 1753 01:48:47,172 --> 01:48:47,672 >> Jesse: YEAH. 1754 01:48:47,672 --> 01:48:51,876 >> AND I APPROACHED EACH DAY WITH EVERYTHING I HAD, EACH 1755 01:48:51,876 --> 01:48:56,114 RELATIONSHIP, BECAUSE I TRULY WAS SEARCHING FOR MY WIFE. 1756 01:48:56,114 --> 01:49:01,419 AND I FOUND THAT. AND IT'S DIFFICULT, UNUSUAL 1757 01:49:01,419 --> 01:49:04,456 SITUATION THAT'S EXPEDITED. IT'S REALLY SHORT. 1758 01:49:04,456 --> 01:49:10,362 AND I REALLY HAD TO TRY MY BEST TO FIND MY PERSON. AND I DID IT. 1759 01:49:10,362 --> 01:49:15,133 >> LISTEN, YOU WEATHERED STORM, LITERALLY AND FIGURATIVELY ON 1760 01:49:15,133 --> 01:49:17,936 THAT LAST DAY. ABSOLUTELY. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS YOU 1761 01:49:17,936 --> 01:49:22,207 CAME OUT THE OTHER SIDE A HAPPILY ENGAGED MAN. YES. 1762 01:49:22,207 --> 01:49:24,876 >> Jesse: SO I'VE GOT TO ASK, WAS IT ALL WORTH IT? 1763 01:49:24,876 --> 01:49:27,579 >> IT WAS ALL WORTH IT. TO FIND SOMEBODY WHO'S YOUR LIFE 1764 01:49:27,579 --> 01:49:30,415 PARTNER IS SOMETHING THAT IS TRULY HARD. IT'S WORTH IT. 1765 01:49:30,415 --> 01:49:31,516 IT'S WORTH IT. 1766 01:49:31,516 --> 01:49:33,885 >> Jesse: LISTEN. I COULDN'T BE HAPPIER FOR YOU. 1767 01:49:33,885 --> 01:49:36,988 I'M SO PROUD OF YOU TOO. I COULD SIT HERE WITH YOU ALL 1768 01:49:36,988 --> 01:49:38,857 NIGHT. I FEEL LIKE WE SHOULD PROBABLY 1769 01:49:38,857 --> 01:49:43,695 INVITE OUT YOUR BEAUTIFUL FIANCE. WHAT DO WE SAY? 1770 01:49:43,695 --> 01:49:46,398 SHOULD WE BRING OUT THE LADY OF THE HOUR? OKAY. 1771 01:49:46,398 --> 01:49:47,866 LADIES AND GENTLEMEN, PLEASE 1772 01:49:47,866 --> 01:49:54,873 WELCOME GRANT'S FIANCE, JULIANA! 1773 01:49:55,940 --> 01:50:03,248 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 1774 01:50:09,320 --> 01:50:12,891 >> Jesse: HAVE A SEAT. 1775 01:50:12,891 --> 01:50:13,458 >> OKAY. 1776 01:50:13,458 --> 01:50:21,032 >> Jesse: GOOD TO SEE YOU TOO. IT IS SO GREAT TO SEE YOU. 1777 01:50:21,032 --> 01:50:24,803 IT'S SO GREAT TO SEE YOU TWO OUT TOGETHER OUT IN THE PUBLIC. 1778 01:50:24,803 --> 01:50:29,007 THESE SMILES ON YOUR FACES, THERE'S SO MUCH I WANT TO ASK 1779 01:50:29,007 --> 01:50:33,678 YOU, JULIANA. I HAVE SO MANY QUESTIONS TO ASK 1780 01:50:33,678 --> 01:50:34,779 YOU. BEFORE WE DO THAT, WE'VE GOT TO 1781 01:50:34,779 --> 01:50:38,616 GET A CLOSER LOOK AT THE RING. I FEEL LIKE HE KNOWS WHAT HE'S 1782 01:50:38,616 --> 01:50:42,187 DOING. HE DID A PRETTY GOOD JOB HERE 1783 01:50:42,187 --> 01:50:42,454 TOO. 1784 01:50:42,454 --> 01:50:43,254 >> FOR SURE. 1785 01:50:43,254 --> 01:50:47,358 >> Jesse: IT PROBABLY WAS EXCRUCIATING FOR YOU TWO TO KEEP 1786 01:50:47,358 --> 01:50:50,795 THE SECRET FOR MONTHS NOW. THIS IS THE FIRST TIME WE'RE 1787 01:50:50,795 --> 01:50:53,698 SEEING YOU OUT IN PUBLIC. 1788 01:50:53,698 --> 01:50:55,834 >> THIS MOMENT DOES FEEL SURREAL. 1789 01:50:55,834 --> 01:50:58,770 THE WHOLE JOURNEY HAS FELT A BIT LIKE A FEVER DREAM. 1790 01:50:58,770 --> 01:51:03,374 BUT, YOU KNOW, WE'VE LIVED SO MANY MONTHS JUST REALLY 1791 01:51:03,374 --> 01:51:04,309 RECONNECTING AND GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER. 1792 01:51:04,309 --> 01:51:07,312 AND I'M JUST SO EXCITED TO GET DINNER WITH THIS MAN AND HAVE A 1793 01:51:07,312 --> 01:51:11,282 GLASS OF WINE. FOR FREE. 1794 01:51:11,282 --> 01:51:12,584 >> EXACTLY. 1795 01:51:12,584 --> 01:51:15,854 >> Jesse: I THINK IT'S SO MUCH FUN FOR US TO SEE YOUR JOURNEY 1796 01:51:15,854 --> 01:51:19,524 ON THIS THROUGHOUT THE ENTIRE WAY. I THINK IT REALLY WAS 1797 01:51:19,524 --> 01:51:21,192 TRANSFORMATIVE. I REMEMBER YOU THE VERY FIRST 1798 01:51:21,192 --> 01:51:23,661 NIGHT. YOU WERE CHEERY. YOU WERE BUBBLEY. 1799 01:51:23,661 --> 01:51:27,699 BUT AS THE JOURNEY WENT ON, WE SAW LAYERS BEING PEELED BACK. 1800 01:51:27,699 --> 01:51:30,368 WE SAW A MORE VULNERABLE SIDE OF YOU. 1801 01:51:30,368 --> 01:51:34,205 WHAT WAS IT ABOUT THIS GUY THAT MADE YOU SAFE TO BE THAT WAY? 1802 01:51:34,205 --> 01:51:38,176 >> WELL, JESSE, I THINK SOMETHING THAT'S REALLY 1803 01:51:38,176 --> 01:51:41,012 IMPORTANT FOR ME IS HAVING CONFIDENCE IN WHO I AM. 1804 01:51:41,012 --> 01:51:43,615 AND I PUT A LOT OF WORK INTO MYSELF OVER THE YEARS, AND I'M 1805 01:51:43,615 --> 01:51:47,252 CONFIDENT WHO I AM AS A PERSON. AND I THINK JUST TELLING HIM 1806 01:51:47,252 --> 01:51:52,557 THAT IT MAY TAKE ME SOME TIME TO GET THERE, BUT HE GAVE ME GRACE. 1807 01:51:52,557 --> 01:51:55,426 AND IN THE SMALL CONVERSATIONS WE HAD BUILDING UP TO SCOTLAND, 1808 01:51:55,426 --> 01:51:58,062 I REALLY FOUND A SAFE SPACE IN YOU, GRANT. 1809 01:51:58,062 --> 01:52:04,536 AND IT JUST ALLOWED ME TO FEEL OKAY TO OPEN UP TO YOU AND LET 1810 01:52:04,536 --> 01:52:07,572 YOU SEE ALL THE SIDES OF ME. 1811 01:52:07,572 --> 01:52:09,440 >> Jesse: YOU HAVE TO TAKE A LEAP OF FAITH. 1812 01:52:09,440 --> 01:52:09,908 >> YEAH. 1813 01:52:09,908 --> 01:52:17,749 >> Jesse: AND IT REALLY PAID 1814 01:52:17,749 --> 01:52:19,651 OFF. GRANT, WHAT WAS IT ABOUT THIS 1815 01:52:19,651 --> 01:52:22,487 INCREDIBLE WOMAN THAT MADE THE DECISION EASY FOR YOU? 1816 01:52:22,487 --> 01:52:24,789 >> I CAN'T SAY EVERYTHING, SO I'LL BE SPECIFIC. 1817 01:52:24,789 --> 01:52:27,625 HER OUTLOOK ON LIFE AND HER CHARACTER AND HER DEMEANOR AND 1818 01:52:27,625 --> 01:52:31,763 HER RISING ABOVE SITUATIONS IN HER LIFE AND HOW SHE CARRIES 1819 01:52:31,763 --> 01:52:33,331 HERSELF. I THINK THAT SHE'S NEVER CHANGED 1820 01:52:33,331 --> 01:52:38,636 WHO SHE IS. AND SHE'S SOMEBODY WHO'S PROVEN 1821 01:52:38,636 --> 01:52:40,138 TO ME THAT SHE IS A SOLID FOUNDATION. 1822 01:52:40,138 --> 01:52:42,640 I THINK THAT'S SOMETHING THAT IS IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP AND 1823 01:52:42,640 --> 01:52:44,909 A FRIENDSHIP. SO, THOSE ARE SOME OF THE 1824 01:52:44,909 --> 01:52:50,548 THINGS -- I COULD GO ON ALL DAY. BUT THOSE ARE SOME OF THE 1825 01:52:50,548 --> 01:52:51,816 THINGS. 1826 01:52:51,816 --> 01:52:51,983 >>. 1827 01:52:51,983 --> 01:52:55,220 >> Jesse: YOUR DAD TOLD YOU TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART. AND YOU DID. 1828 01:52:55,220 --> 01:53:01,826 JULIANA, SOME IN "BACHELOR" NATION HAVE YOUR THOUGHTS, HOW 1829 01:53:01,826 --> 01:53:04,963 LONG IT TOOK THIS GUY TO MAKE HIS FINAL DECISION. 1830 01:53:04,963 --> 01:53:07,198 HAVE YOU GIVEN HIM ENOUGH GRIEF ABOUT IT? 1831 01:53:07,198 --> 01:53:10,001 >> I DON'T THINK GRIEF IS THE RIGHT WORD. 1832 01:53:10,001 --> 01:53:13,004 I THINK I'VE GIVEN HIM GRACE BECAUSE HE IS THE TYPE OF MAN 1833 01:53:13,004 --> 01:53:16,407 WHO LEADS WITH HIS HEART. HE CAME INTO THIS OPEN MINDED. 1834 01:53:16,407 --> 01:53:20,578 AND HE LET HIMSELF EXPERIENCE WHAT YOU NEED TO EXPERIENCE WITH 1835 01:53:20,578 --> 01:53:24,215 ALL THE AMAZING WOMEN WE HAD. WE HAD SUCH A GOOD GROUP OF 1836 01:53:24,215 --> 01:53:25,583 GIRLS. I WANTED HIM TO FEEL SURE, AND 1837 01:53:25,583 --> 01:53:31,589 LIKE I SAID, I'M CONFIDENT IN WHO I AM AND I'M CONFIDENT IN 1838 01:53:31,589 --> 01:53:35,326 WHAT WE HAVE. IT'S UP TO HIM, BUT I THINK HE 1839 01:53:35,326 --> 01:53:35,827 MADE A GOOD DECISION. 1840 01:53:35,827 --> 01:53:37,695 >> Jesse: I THINK HE MADE AN OUTSTANDING DECISION. 1841 01:53:37,695 --> 01:53:43,301 I KNOW AS DIFFICULT AS THAT LAST DAY WAS, IT REALLY WAS AN 1842 01:53:43,301 --> 01:53:47,005 INCREDIBLE ENDING AS WELL. IN THE WEEKS LEADING UP TO 1843 01:53:47,005 --> 01:53:49,240 TONIGHT, THERE REALLY HAS BEEN A LOT OF SPECULATION ABOUT HOW 1844 01:53:49,240 --> 01:53:52,143 THIS WHOLE THING ENDED. THE QUESTIONS REALLY STARTED 1845 01:53:52,143 --> 01:53:56,648 POURING IN AFTER THE WOMEN TELL ALL, WHEN BACHELOR NATION 1846 01:53:56,648 --> 01:53:59,584 NOTICED A CERTAIN SHIFT IN GRANT'S DEMEANOR WHEN WE WERE 1847 01:53:59,584 --> 01:54:04,355 TALKING ABOUT THE FINALE. GRANT, HERE YOU ARE AFTER WE 1848 01:54:04,355 --> 01:54:08,660 SHOWED THE TEASE OF THE FINALE. AND THAT'S EITHER AN AMAZING 1849 01:54:08,660 --> 01:54:12,330 POKER FACE, OR YOU ATE SOMETHING REALLY FUNKY RIGHT BEFORE THE 1850 01:54:12,330 --> 01:54:14,065 SHOW. BUT THE MEMES STARTED ROLLING IN. 1851 01:54:14,065 --> 01:54:16,934 WHAT WAS IT LIKE TO SEE ALL THAT ONLINE CHATTER OUT THERE? 1852 01:54:16,934 --> 01:54:18,369 >> YOU KNOW -- GO AHEAD. 1853 01:54:18,369 --> 01:54:22,206 >> OKAY. YEAH. THIS -- THIS WHOLE PROCESS HAS 1854 01:54:22,206 --> 01:54:25,643 REALLY BEEN A GREAT REMINDER FOR ME THAT I HAVE AN AMAZING 1855 01:54:25,643 --> 01:54:27,946 SUPPORT SYSTEM. I HAVE FAMILY, AND I HAVE 1856 01:54:27,946 --> 01:54:31,182 FRIENDS WHO ARE FAMILY BY CHOICE. AND THOSE ARE THE OPINIONS THAT 1857 01:54:31,182 --> 01:54:34,285 MATTER TO ME, RIGHT? AND SO THE OUTSIDE NOISE IS 1858 01:54:34,285 --> 01:54:37,488 SOMETHING WHERE WE CAN SIT HERE TODAY KNOWING THIS DAY WAS 1859 01:54:37,488 --> 01:54:40,191 COMING AND KIND OF HAVE FUN WITH IT. THE TRUTH WAS COMING OUT. 1860 01:54:40,191 --> 01:54:45,296 I PLAYED PART IN THE ONLINE SPECULATION AND ADDED TO THAT 1861 01:54:45,296 --> 01:54:47,098 UNCERTAINTY. BUT YOU'VE GOT TO HAVE FUN WITH 1862 01:54:47,098 --> 01:54:50,668 IT BECAUSE LIFE IS JUST TOO SERIOUS TO TAKE SERIOUSLY. 1863 01:54:50,668 --> 01:54:53,004 >> Jesse: YOU BOTH HAVE INCREDIBLE POKER FACES. 1864 01:54:53,004 --> 01:55:00,645 I THINK IT'S SAFE TO SAY YOU BOTH HAD THE FINAL LAUGH IN THIS. 1865 01:55:00,645 --> 01:55:03,081 >> I DO HAVE A LOT OF BUDDIES. 1866 01:55:03,081 --> 01:55:04,615 >> Jesse: WE DO HAVE TO TAKE A BREAK. 1867 01:55:04,615 --> 01:55:09,020 BUT WE'LL HAVE MUCH MORE WITH THE HAPPY COUPLE WHEN WE COME 1868 01:55:09,020 --> 01:55:11,422 BACK. PLUS, WE'VE GOT SOME MAJOR -- 1869 01:55:11,422 --> 01:55:16,861 AND I DO MEAN MAJOR -- "BACHELOR IN PARADISE" NEWS, INCLUDING A 1870 01:55:16,861 --> 01:55:18,262 SHOCKING NEW TWIST. WHAT IS IT? I'M GOING TO TELL YOU. 1871 01:55:18,262 --> 01:55:19,364 STAY WITH US. 1872 01:55:28,571 --> 01:55:32,858 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 1873 01:55:32,858 --> 01:55:34,623 >> Jesse: WELCOME BACK TO "THE BACHELOR" FINALE. 1874 01:55:34,623 --> 01:55:38,026 WE'RE HERE LIVE WITH OUR NEWLY ENGAGED AND GLOWING COUPLE, 1875 01:55:38,026 --> 01:55:41,897 JULIANA AND GRANT. EVERYBODY IS JUST SO THRILLED 1876 01:55:41,897 --> 01:55:45,701 FOR THE TWO OF YOU, BUT NONE MORE SO THAN YOUR TWO AMAZING 1877 01:55:45,701 --> 01:55:47,269 FAMILIES. I KNOW THEY'RE SUCH A BIG PART 1878 01:55:47,269 --> 01:55:49,838 OF YOUR SUPPORT SYSTEM THROUGHOUT THIS ENTIRE JOURNEY. 1879 01:55:49,838 --> 01:55:54,977 WE'RE REALLY LUCKY TO HAVE BOTH OF YOUR FAMILIES IN THE AUDIENCE 1880 01:55:54,977 --> 01:55:58,580 TONIGHT, JULIANA, INCLUDING YOUR INCREDIBLE PARENTS, CARL AND 1881 01:55:58,580 --> 01:56:01,216 DONNA. CARL, I'D LOVE TO ASK YOU, YOU 1882 01:56:01,216 --> 01:56:04,853 AND YOUR FAMILY, YOU REALLY ACCEPTED GRANT WITH OPEN ARMS 1883 01:56:04,853 --> 01:56:11,393 WHEN HE CAME AND VISITED YOU ALL IN THE HOMETOWN IN NEWTON, 1884 01:56:11,393 --> 01:56:13,362 MASSACHUSETTS. AS A DAD, HOW DOES IT FEEL TO 1885 01:56:13,362 --> 01:56:15,464 SEE YOUR DAUGHTER SO HAPPY UP HERE? 1886 01:56:15,464 --> 01:56:18,033 >> THANK YOU. IT'S BEEN A BLAST. 1887 01:56:18,033 --> 01:56:21,103 SINCERELY FROM MY FAMILY, WE'RE THRILLED TO GET THE TWO FAMILIES 1888 01:56:21,103 --> 01:56:21,937 TOGETHER FINALLY. 1889 01:56:21,937 --> 01:56:22,571 >> YEAH. 1890 01:56:22,571 --> 01:56:26,141 >> AND I WOULD ALSO SAY IN TOTAL SINCERITY, I DO NOT HAVE A 1891 01:56:26,141 --> 01:56:29,044 PROBLEM ON MY HANDS NOW. 1892 01:56:29,044 --> 01:56:33,282 >> Jesse: VERY WELL SAID. I THINK SHE'S IN VERY, VERY GOOD 1893 01:56:33,282 --> 01:56:36,285 HANDS FOR SURE. HE HAD SUCH GREAT THINGS TO SAY 1894 01:56:36,285 --> 01:56:40,455 ABOUT YOU ONCE HE VISITED. IT IS GREAT SEEING ALL YOUR 1895 01:56:40,455 --> 01:56:43,392 FAMILIES HERE SUPPORTING YOU TWO. I THINK THERE WAS ONE PERSON 1896 01:56:43,392 --> 01:56:47,863 THAT MAYBE PULLED ON BACHELOR NATION'S COLLECTIVE HEART 1897 01:56:47,863 --> 01:56:50,465 STRINGS MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE, AND GRANT, I'M TALKING ABOUT 1898 01:56:50,465 --> 01:56:52,734 YOUR FATHER ROBERT. I DON'T KNOW IF THERE WAS A DRY 1899 01:56:52,734 --> 01:56:56,371 EYE IN THERE LISTENING TO THAT CONVERSATION THAT YOU HAD WITH 1900 01:56:56,371 --> 01:56:59,808 HIM IN THE DOMINICAN REPUBLIC. SO, GRANT, WHAT DID IT MEAN TO 1901 01:56:59,808 --> 01:57:02,944 YOU TO HAVE YOUR DAD'S SUPPORT THROUGHOUT ALL THIS? 1902 01:57:02,944 --> 01:57:07,015 >> IT MEANT A LOT. YOU KNOW, TO HAVE MY DAD -- NOT 1903 01:57:07,015 --> 01:57:12,621 ONLY MY DAD, BUT MY FULL FAMILY THERE TO SUPPORT ME IS SOMETHING 1904 01:57:12,621 --> 01:57:14,122 THAT, YOU KNOW, IT CAN'T BE REPLACED. 1905 01:57:14,122 --> 01:57:16,792 AND I THINK THAT MY DAD'S BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH IN HIS LIFE. 1906 01:57:16,792 --> 01:57:21,563 AND HE'S A SURVIVOR. HE PERSEVERES, AND HE ALWAYS HAS 1907 01:57:21,563 --> 01:57:23,932 A POSITIVE MENTALITY. AND IT MEANT SO MUCH FOR HIM TO 1908 01:57:23,932 --> 01:57:27,002 COME BACK AND GIVE ADVICE THAT I NEEDED. 1909 01:57:27,002 --> 01:57:29,338 AND FOR MY FAMILY TO HELP ME ALONG THIS JOURNEY. 1910 01:57:29,338 --> 01:57:34,643 I LOVE YOU GUYS. THANK YOU. 1911 01:57:34,643 --> 01:57:38,547 >> Jesse: IT'S GREAT SEEING YOU. AND YOU SAID THAT GRANT WAS YOUR 1912 01:57:38,547 --> 01:57:41,316 HEART. SO, HOW DOES IT FEEL FOR YOU TO 1913 01:57:41,316 --> 01:57:43,952 SEE HIM SO HAPPY WITH THIS AMAZING WOMAN? 1914 01:57:43,952 --> 01:57:46,822 >> HOW COULD I NOT BE HAPPY FOR HIM AND HER? 1915 01:57:46,822 --> 01:57:49,591 LOOK AT THOSE TWO TOGETHER. THIS IS WHAT IT'S ABOUT. 1916 01:57:49,591 --> 01:57:54,996 I MEAN, THIS JOURNEY WAS SOMETHING ELSE. 1917 01:57:54,996 --> 01:58:00,035 I DON'T ENVY HIM. HOW HE ENDED UP WITH HIS PERSON 1918 01:58:00,035 --> 01:58:04,673 AND HE'S HAPPY, THAT'S ALL I WANTED FOR HIM IS TO BE HAPPY. 1919 01:58:04,673 --> 01:58:05,240 SO, KUDOS. 1920 01:58:05,240 --> 01:58:09,144 >> Jesse: SO WELL SAID. SO WELL SAID. 1921 01:58:09,144 --> 01:58:12,681 JULIANA, OBVIOUSLY UNBELIEVABLE JOURNEY AND UNBELIEVABLE NIGHT 1922 01:58:12,681 --> 01:58:16,651 AND UNBELIEVABLE ENDING. I THINK EVERYBODY NOW WANTS TO 1923 01:58:16,651 --> 01:58:18,854 KNOW, WHAT'S NEXT FOR YOU TWO? 1924 01:58:18,854 --> 01:58:20,255 >> SHIPPING UP TO BOSTON. 1925 01:58:20,255 --> 01:58:23,392 >> Jesse: REALLY, GOING TO BOSTON? 1926 01:58:23,392 --> 01:58:23,625 >> YEAH. 1927 01:58:23,625 --> 01:58:27,129 >> Jesse: YOU GUYS ARE TAKING IT BACK TO THE EAST COAST. 1928 01:58:27,129 --> 01:58:29,030 THAT'S AMAZING. THAT'S GOING TO BE AN 1929 01:58:29,030 --> 01:58:32,034 UNBELIEVABLE NEXT CHAPTER IN YOUR LIVES TOGETHER. 1930 01:58:32,034 --> 01:58:36,171 BEFORE YOU GET TO THAT CHAPTER, WE COULDN'T LET YOU LEAVE HERE 1931 01:58:36,171 --> 01:58:39,241 EMPTY HANDED TONIGHT. LET'S GO BACK FOR A SECOND. 1932 01:58:39,241 --> 01:58:42,677 JULIANA, WHEN YOU MET GRANT, YOU WERE HOLDING A CANOLI. 1933 01:58:42,677 --> 01:58:46,114 AND GRANT, WHEN YOU MET JULIANA'S FAMILY, YOU HAD A 1934 01:58:46,114 --> 01:58:49,317 STACK OF PIZZAS. I THINK BACHELOR NATION WAS A 1935 01:58:49,317 --> 01:58:53,088 LITTLE BIT LESS IMPRESSED BY YOUR PIZZA MAKING SKILLS, 1936 01:58:53,088 --> 01:58:58,760 INCLUDING MYSELF. YOU CAN'T TREAT PIZZA DOUGH LIKE 1937 01:58:58,760 --> 01:59:00,796 THAT. WE GOT TO THINKING, WHAT BETTER 1938 01:59:00,796 --> 01:59:07,402 PLACE TO GO TO REALLY LEARN THE TRUE ART OF PIZZA THAN ITS BIRTH 1939 01:59:07,402 --> 01:59:07,702 PLACE. 1940 01:59:07,702 --> 01:59:08,303 >> STOP. 1941 01:59:08,303 --> 01:59:09,571 >> Jesse: THAT'S RIGHT -- 1942 01:59:09,571 --> 01:59:11,773 >> SHUT UP! 1943 01:59:11,773 --> 01:59:16,311 >> Jesse: JULIANA, GRANT, WE'RE SEN 1944 01:59:16,311 --> 01:59:20,182 SENDING YOU TO ITALY! 1945 01:59:20,182 --> 01:59:21,116 >> WOW. 1946 01:59:21,116 --> 01:59:24,219 >> Jesse: GRANT, HAVE YOU EVER BEEN BEFORE? 1947 01:59:24,219 --> 01:59:25,320 >> NO. 1948 01:59:25,320 --> 01:59:27,155 >> Jesse: JULIANA, HAVE YOU BEEN? 1949 01:59:27,155 --> 01:59:27,789 >> OF COURSE. 1950 01:59:27,789 --> 01:59:31,526 >> Jesse: YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO SHOW HIM THE ROPES. 1951 01:59:31,526 --> 01:59:37,232 EAT ALL THE CANOLIS, EAT ALL THE PIZZAS, DRINK ALL YOUR HEARTS 1952 01:59:37,232 --> 01:59:39,034 DESIRE. LET'S GIVE IT UP FOR ONE MORE 1953 01:59:39,034 --> 01:59:43,338 TIME FOR OUR NEWLY ENGAGED COUPLE, GRANT AND JULIANA. 1954 01:59:43,338 --> 01:59:47,809 WE ARE NOT DONE YET. COMING UP, WE'VE GOT A MASSIVE 1955 01:59:47,809 --> 01:59:52,714 "BACHELOR IN PARADISE" UPDATE THAT IS GOING TO LEAVE YOU 1956 01:59:52,714 --> 01:59:53,615 SPEECHLESS. YOU THINK YOU KNOW WHAT IT IS? 1957 01:59:53,615 --> 01:59:56,151 THINK AGAIN. THAT'S NEXT. 1958 02:00:13,096 --> 02:00:15,398 [ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ] 1959 02:00:18,644 --> 02:00:20,255 >> Jesse: WELCOME BACK BACHELOR NATION. 1960 02:00:20,255 --> 02:00:24,626 IT HAS BEEN UHAN UNFORGETTABLE NIGHT ALREADY. TRUST ME. 1961 02:00:24,626 --> 02:00:28,096 IT'S ABOUT TO GET EVEN BETTER. I'M VERY HAPPY TO BE JOINED BY A 1962 02:00:28,096 --> 02:00:33,334 VERY SPECIAL GUEST. PLEASE GIVE IT UP FOR ZOE. 1963 02:00:33,334 --> 02:00:36,371 WELL, IT'S REALLY GREAT SEEING YOU AGAIN. 1964 02:00:36,371 --> 02:00:38,373 I KNOW IT'S BEEN A MINUTE. I WANT TO GIVE YOU AN 1965 02:00:38,373 --> 02:00:41,209 OPPORTUNITY TO TALK A LITTLE BIT ABOUT YOUR JOURNEY THIS SEASON 1966 02:00:41,209 --> 02:00:42,877 AS WELL. I KNOW THERE WERE A LOT OF UPS 1967 02:00:42,877 --> 02:00:46,714 AND DOWNS, OBVIOUSLY, AND YOU EXPERIENCED A FULL ARRAY OF 1968 02:00:46,714 --> 02:00:49,617 EMOTIONS THROUGHOUT. I KNOW YOU DIDN'T FIND WHAT YOU 1969 02:00:49,617 --> 02:00:52,187 WERE LOOKING FOR AT THE VERY END. BUT WHEN YOU THINK BACK TO THIS 1970 02:00:52,187 --> 02:00:53,822 EXPERIENCE, WHAT DO YOU TAKE AWAY FROM IT? 1971 02:00:53,822 --> 02:00:55,790 >> YEAH. I THINK IT'S FAIR TO SAY I DID 1972 02:00:55,790 --> 02:01:00,895 NOT HAVE A TYPICAL JOURNEY. AND MAYBE A LOT OF IT WASN'T 1973 02:01:00,895 --> 02:01:03,898 SEEN. BUT I AM GRATEFUL. I WAS REMINDED OF WHO THE HECK I 1974 02:01:03,898 --> 02:01:08,269 AM ON THIS JOURNEY. I'M A STRONG, COMPETITIVE WOMAN. 1975 02:01:08,269 --> 02:01:12,040 I AM AWKWARD AT TIMES. BUT I ALSO AM VERY STRONG. 1976 02:01:12,040 --> 02:01:14,409 AND I THINK THROUGHOUT THE PROCESS, I KIND OF REMINDED 1977 02:01:14,409 --> 02:01:18,479 MYSELF OF THAT. AND I REMAINED POSITIVE AND 1978 02:01:18,479 --> 02:01:19,447 OPTIMISTIC. TO MAKE IT THROUGH TO THE VERY 1979 02:01:19,447 --> 02:01:22,450 END AND SEE THE PROCESS THROUGH, I'M VERY PROUD OF MYSELF FOR 1980 02:01:22,450 --> 02:01:24,752 THAT. I KNOW IT'S SOMETHING A YOUNGER 1981 02:01:24,752 --> 02:01:28,656 ME PROBABLY WOULDN'T HAVE DONE. AND I KNOW MY PERSON IS OUT 1982 02:01:28,656 --> 02:01:31,326 THERE, SO IT JUST, KIND OF, EXCITES ME FOR THE FUTURE. 1983 02:01:31,326 --> 02:01:33,394 >> I WANT TO ASK YOU ABOUT THAT TOO. 1984 02:01:33,394 --> 02:01:38,199 YOU WERE VERY TRUE TO YOURSELF THROUGHOUT THIS, NO DOUBT ABOUT 1985 02:01:38,199 --> 02:01:39,033 IT. AFTER DATING GRANT, WHAT DO YOU 1986 02:01:39,033 --> 02:01:43,905 THINK IT HELPED YOU LEARN ABOUT WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR IN A 1987 02:01:43,905 --> 02:01:44,472 FUTURE HUSBAND? 1988 02:01:44,472 --> 02:01:48,810 >> WELL, HOPEFULLY NOT WAITING FOR A ONE-ON-ONE BEFORE MEETING 1989 02:01:48,810 --> 02:01:54,949 THE FAMILY. BUT I JUST REALLY WANT A MAN WHO 1990 02:01:54,949 --> 02:01:57,018 SEES MY VALUE FROM THE JUMP. I THINK I HAVE A LOT TO OFFER 1991 02:01:57,018 --> 02:02:00,021 AND A LOT OF LOVE TO GIVE. AND, YOU KNOW, I THINK BEING ON 1992 02:02:00,021 --> 02:02:04,926 THIS SORT OF JOURNEY, I FELT I CONSTANTLY HAD TO PROVE MYSELF. 1993 02:02:04,926 --> 02:02:08,162 AND I KNOW THE RIGHT PERSON WITH SEE THAT FROM THE JUMP. 1994 02:02:08,162 --> 02:02:10,565 AS I SAID, THERE'S A YOUNGER VERSION OF ME THAT'S JUST 1995 02:02:10,565 --> 02:02:13,701 LOOKING TO BE LOVED. BUT I'M A GROWN WOMAN WHO HAS SO 1996 02:02:13,701 --> 02:02:19,807 MUCH LOVE TO GIVE AND WANTS TO BE SUCH A GREAT PARTNER TO MY 1997 02:02:19,807 --> 02:02:26,381 PERSON. AND YOU GET A RING ON MY FINGER. 1998 02:02:26,381 --> 02:02:28,149 I'M READY FOR LOVE AND I'M EXCITED FOR THAT. 1999 02:02:28,149 --> 02:02:29,551 >> Jesse: AND YOU'RE VERY, VERY DESERVED OF LOVE. 2000 02:02:29,551 --> 02:02:32,053 I'M REALLY HAPPY TO HEAR YOU'RE DOING SO WELL. 2001 02:02:32,053 --> 02:02:37,158 IT MAKES ME SO HAPPY. AS YOU KNOW, "BACHELOR IN 2002 02:02:37,158 --> 02:02:39,093 PARADISE" IS COMING BACK THIS SUMMER. 2003 02:02:39,093 --> 02:02:42,630 AND LIKE ALL OF YOU, I AM JUST COUNTING DOWN THE SECONDS TO GET 2004 02:02:42,630 --> 02:02:45,166 BACK ON THAT BEACH. AND HERE'S THE THING. 2005 02:02:45,166 --> 02:02:47,602 I KNOW YOU OBVIOUSLY WENT THROUGH A LOT THIS SEASON. 2006 02:02:47,602 --> 02:02:51,773 AND I REALLY DO BELIEVE THAT YOU DESERVE ANOTHER CHANCE AT LOVE. 2007 02:02:51,773 --> 02:02:55,476 AND HONESTLY, I THINK YOU DESERVE TO HAVE SOME FUN THIS 2008 02:02:55,476 --> 02:03:01,382 SUMMER TOO. SO, ZOE, I WOULD LIKE TO 2009 02:03:01,382 --> 02:03:06,120 OFFICIALLY ASK YOU TO COME TO PARADISE THIS SUMMER. 2010 02:03:06,120 --> 02:03:08,423 WOULD YOU DO IT? 2011 02:03:08,423 --> 02:03:10,291 >> I WOULD LOVE TO. 2012 02:03:10,291 --> 02:03:11,993 >> Jesse: IS THAT A YES? 2013 02:03:11,993 --> 02:03:13,227 >> YES. THAT'S A YES. 2014 02:03:13,227 --> 02:03:19,300 >> Jesse: IT'S A YES! ZOE'S COMING TO PARADISE. 2015 02:03:19,300 --> 02:03:21,803 PARADISE AUTOMATICALLY, IMMEDIATELY JUST GOT A WHOLE LOT 2016 02:03:21,803 --> 02:03:23,371 BETTER. I'M SO HAPPY TO HEAR THAT. 2017 02:03:23,371 --> 02:03:26,674 THIS IS DEFINITELY THE START OF AN EPIC SUMMER THAT WE NEEDED. 2018 02:03:26,674 --> 02:03:32,013 BUT THAT'S NOT ALL. BECAUSE LIKE I MENTIONED, 2019 02:03:32,013 --> 02:03:33,781 THERE'S GOING TO BE A LITTLE TWIST THIS SUMMER. 2020 02:03:33,781 --> 02:03:39,754 JUST WHAT IS IT? I'M THINKING THAT MAYBE MY NEXT 2021 02:03:39,754 --> 02:03:44,325 TWO GUESTS COULD HELP ME EXPLAIN THAT JUST A LITTLE BIT MORE. 2022 02:03:44,325 --> 02:03:51,432 SO, LADIES AND GENTLEMEN, PLEASE WELCOME YOUR NEWEST AND FIRST 2023 02:03:51,432 --> 02:03:52,266 EVER GOLDEN BACHELOR IN PARADISE 2024 02:03:52,266 --> 02:04:05,380 CAST MEMBERS! 2025 02:04:10,251 --> 02:04:14,922 >> Jesse: GOOD TO SEE YOU AGAIN. I MISSED YOU. CONGRATULATIONS. 2026 02:04:14,922 --> 02:04:21,729 COME ON. SO GREAT SEEING YOU. OKAY. 2027 02:04:21,729 --> 02:04:25,733 >> SO, THIS IS REALLY HAPPENING. FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER, GOLDEN 2028 02:04:25,733 --> 02:04:28,603 MEN AND WOMEN WILL BE HITTING THE BEACHES OF PARADISE 2029 02:04:28,603 --> 02:04:33,675 ALONGSIDE ALL OF YOUR BACHELOR AND BACHELORETTE FAVORITES FROM 2030 02:04:33,675 --> 02:04:36,010 SEASONS PAST. I DON'T KNOW THAT I'VE EVER BEEN 2031 02:04:36,010 --> 02:04:41,282 MORE EXCITED FOR ANYTHING EVER. HOW EXCITED ARE YOU TO BE GOING 2032 02:04:41,282 --> 02:04:42,550 TO PARADISE THIS SEASON? 2033 02:04:42,550 --> 02:04:44,986 >> I'M SO EXCITED. THE BEACH IS MY THING. 2034 02:04:44,986 --> 02:04:48,289 SO I'M VERY EXCITED. I'M SO EXCITED TO BE WITH MY OLD 2035 02:04:48,289 --> 02:04:53,995 FRIENDS, MAKE NEW FRIENDS, AND MAYBE SIGN UP. 2036 02:04:53,995 --> 02:04:56,664 >> Jesse: YOU'RE GOING TO SEE A LOT OF FAMILIAR FACES THERE. 2037 02:04:56,664 --> 02:05:01,402 I'M EXCITED FOR YOU. BIG G., YOU'RE KNOWN FOR THE 2038 02:05:01,402 --> 02:05:02,203 STYLE AND VERY LIGHT ON YOUR TOES. 2039 02:05:02,203 --> 02:05:04,205 >> WELL, THANK YOU FOR THAT. 2040 02:05:04,205 --> 02:05:06,340 >> Jesse: WHAT CAN BACHELOR NATION EXPECT FROM YOU THIS 2041 02:05:06,340 --> 02:05:06,574 SUMMER? 2042 02:05:06,574 --> 02:05:10,278 >> A LOT OF DANCING IN THE SAND. BUT MORE SO THAN THAT, LAYING 2043 02:05:10,278 --> 02:05:12,880 OUT IN THE SUN AND ENJOYING THE MOMENT AND LOOKING FOR LOVE IN 2044 02:05:12,880 --> 02:05:13,815 ALL THE RIGHT PLACES. 2045 02:05:13,815 --> 02:05:18,519 >> Jesse: I LOVE THAT. SO, I KNOW THERE'S PROBABLY A 2046 02:05:18,519 --> 02:05:21,589 LOT OF PEOPLE EXCITED, A LOT OF PEOPLE TRYING TO PROCESS ALL 2047 02:05:21,589 --> 02:05:24,592 THIS RIGHT HERE. ZOE, OF COURSE YOU'RE GOING TO 2048 02:05:24,592 --> 02:05:26,227 PARADISE. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS 2049 02:05:26,227 --> 02:05:26,561 EXCITING NEWS? 2050 02:05:26,561 --> 02:05:29,497 >> YEAH. I WAS EXCITED FOR THE MANSION. 2051 02:05:29,497 --> 02:05:32,467 AS A PISCES, I THINK I'M MORE EXCITED FOR THE BEACH. 2052 02:05:32,467 --> 02:05:35,336 SO, HOPEFULLY I CAN FIND MY LOVE THERE. 2053 02:05:35,336 --> 02:05:38,506 >> Jesse: I THINK YOU CAN. LESLIE, WHAT ARE YOU MOST 2054 02:05:38,506 --> 02:05:38,739 EXCITED? 2055 02:05:38,739 --> 02:05:44,412 >> I AM MOST EXCITED TO CONTINUE MY JOURNEY, JESSE, BECAUSE, 2056 02:05:44,412 --> 02:05:51,152 YEAH, I THINK THIS IS MY FORTE, THE BEACH, AND MY FRIENDS -- AND 2057 02:05:51,152 --> 02:05:53,154 GERRY AND ARE GOOD FRIENDS NOW. 2058 02:05:53,154 --> 02:05:55,857 >> YOU ARE. YOU ALSO ARE VERY GOOD DANCERS. 2059 02:05:55,857 --> 02:05:57,225 I THINK YOU SHOULD HAVE A DANCE ON THE BEACH. 2060 02:05:57,225 --> 02:05:59,694 >> WE'RE GOING TO DANCE. WE'RE GOING TO DANCE. 2061 02:05:59,694 --> 02:06:02,897 >> Jesse: I TRULY CANNOT WAIT FOR THIS. 2062 02:06:02,897 --> 02:06:04,732 SO, HOW IS THIS WHOLE THING GOING TO WORK? 2063 02:06:04,732 --> 02:06:07,969 YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO TUNE IN TO FIND OUT ON A BRAND-NEW ONE 2064 02:06:07,969 --> 02:06:12,540 OF A KIND SEASON OF "BACHELOR IN PARADISE." 2065 02:06:12,540 --> 02:06:18,713 PREMIERES THIS SUMMER ON ABC. NEXT TIME I SEE, IT'LL BE ON THE 2066 02:06:18,713 --> 02:06:20,348 BEACH. THAT'S ALL SHE WROTE, FOLKS. 2067 02:06:20,348 --> 02:06:24,385 IT'S BEEN AN AMAZING NIGHT, AN AMAZING SEASON. 2068 02:06:24,385 --> 02:06:28,222 CONGRATS TO OUR HAPPY COUPLE, GRANT AND JULIANA. 2069 02:06:28,222 --> 02:06:31,425 WISH YOU THE VERY BEST. AND THANK YOU TO ALL OF OUR 2070 02:06:31,425 --> 02:06:36,030 BACHELOR FAMILY WHO SHOWED UP HERE TONIGHT AS WELL AS OUR LIVE 2071 02:06:36,030 --> 02:06:38,699 STUDIO AUDIENCE. AND THE BIGGEST THANK YOU TO YOU 2072 02:06:38,699 --> 02:06:40,735 BACHELOR NATION. WE WOULD SIMPLY BE LOST WITHOUT. 2073 02:06:40,735 --> 02:06:43,905 FROM ALL OF US IN LOS ANGELES, I'M JESSE PALMER. 2074 02:06:43,905 --> 02:06:45,706 SO LONG FOR NOW. GOOD NIGHT, EVERYBODY. 2075 02:06:45,706 --> 02:06:47,708 THIS IS SO GREAT. 2076 02:06:47,708 --> 02:06:54,282 ♪ 2077 02:06:54,282 --> 02:07:06,994 ♪