1 00:03:52,075 --> 00:03:55,010 Do you have any idea what they were arguing about? 2 00:03:56,212 --> 00:03:57,645 Do you speak English? 3 00:03:57,913 --> 00:03:58,743 Yeah. 4 00:03:58,948 --> 00:04:01,679 No. I'm sorry, my German is not very good. 5 00:04:06,689 --> 00:04:08,590 Have you heard that as couples get older 6 00:04:08,791 --> 00:04:11,259 they lose their ability to hear each other? 7 00:04:11,461 --> 00:04:12,611 No. 8 00:04:13,262 --> 00:04:17,198 Supposedly, men lose their ability to hear high-pitched sounds... 9 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,390 and women lose hearing in the low end. 10 00:04:20,336 --> 00:04:22,201 I guess they nullify each other. 11 00:04:22,405 --> 00:04:25,567 I guess. Nature's way of allowing couples to grow old together... 12 00:04:25,775 --> 00:04:27,639 without killing each other. 13 00:04:29,779 --> 00:04:31,144 What are you reading? 14 00:04:32,215 --> 00:04:33,511 Oh, yeah. 15 00:04:34,617 --> 00:04:35,767 How about you? 16 00:04:53,468 --> 00:04:56,459 I was thinking about going to the lounge car. 17 00:04:56,805 --> 00:04:59,706 - Would you like to come with me? - Yeah. 18 00:05:00,609 --> 00:05:01,907 Okay. 19 00:05:21,429 --> 00:05:23,420 How do you speak such good English? 20 00:05:23,631 --> 00:05:26,293 I went to school for a summer in Los Angeles. 21 00:05:26,835 --> 00:05:29,064 - It's fine here? - Yeah, this is good. 22 00:05:29,805 --> 00:05:32,239 And I spent some time in London. 23 00:05:33,441 --> 00:05:36,205 - Wow. - How do you speak such good English? 24 00:05:36,410 --> 00:05:38,071 Me? I'm American. 25 00:05:38,379 --> 00:05:41,348 - You're American? Are you sure? - Yeah. 26 00:05:42,550 --> 00:05:45,576 No, I'm joking. I knew you were American. 27 00:05:45,820 --> 00:05:48,413 And you don't speak any other language, right? 28 00:05:49,090 --> 00:05:50,888 Yeah, yeah. I get it, I get it. 29 00:05:51,092 --> 00:05:53,287 I'm the crude, dumb, vulgar American... 30 00:05:53,495 --> 00:05:58,227 who doesn't speak other languages, who has no culture. But I tried. 31 00:05:58,432 --> 00:06:02,062 I took French in high school. When I first got to Paris... 32 00:06:02,269 --> 00:06:04,635 I stood in line at the metro station. 33 00:06:04,838 --> 00:06:06,032 I was practicing. 34 00:06:10,711 --> 00:06:11,861 Whatever. 35 00:06:15,417 --> 00:06:18,475 And I get up there, and I look at this woman... 36 00:06:18,685 --> 00:06:23,622 and my mind goes blank. And I say, "I need a ticket to get to..." 37 00:06:23,824 --> 00:06:25,291 So anyway... 38 00:06:26,860 --> 00:06:28,521 So where are you headed? 39 00:06:28,996 --> 00:06:30,792 Well, back to Paris. 40 00:06:30,997 --> 00:06:34,297 - My classes start next week. - You're still in school? Where? 41 00:06:35,034 --> 00:06:36,592 La Sorbonne. You know? 42 00:06:36,804 --> 00:06:37,954 Sure. 43 00:06:39,840 --> 00:06:41,397 You're coming from Budapest? 44 00:06:41,608 --> 00:06:44,634 - I was visiting my grandmother. - Oh. How is she? 45 00:06:45,879 --> 00:06:47,369 She's okay. 46 00:06:47,580 --> 00:06:49,741 - She's all right? - She's fine. 47 00:06:50,817 --> 00:06:54,082 - How about you? Where are you going? - I'm going to Vienna. 48 00:06:54,287 --> 00:06:55,437 Vienna? What's there? 49 00:06:55,622 --> 00:06:57,817 No idea. I'm flying out of there tomorrow. 50 00:06:58,024 --> 00:06:59,583 You're on holiday? 51 00:07:03,629 --> 00:07:06,155 I don't really know what I'm on. You know? 52 00:07:06,432 --> 00:07:10,663 I've just been traveling around, riding trains for two or three weeks. 53 00:07:10,870 --> 00:07:13,771 You were visiting friends or just on your own? 54 00:07:14,507 --> 00:07:16,497 I had a friend in Madrid, but... 55 00:07:16,709 --> 00:07:19,233 - Madrid, that's nice. - I got a Eurail pass... 56 00:07:19,445 --> 00:07:20,595 is what I did. 57 00:07:20,747 --> 00:07:21,897 That's great. 58 00:07:22,281 --> 00:07:26,650 So has this trip around Europe been good for you? 59 00:07:26,853 --> 00:07:29,753 Yeah, sure. It's been... It sucked. 60 00:07:30,423 --> 00:07:31,650 What? 61 00:07:33,725 --> 00:07:34,875 It's had its... 62 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:38,597 I'll tell you, sitting for weeks on end looking out the window... 63 00:07:38,798 --> 00:07:41,061 has actually been kind of great. 64 00:07:42,534 --> 00:07:44,092 What do you mean? 65 00:07:45,070 --> 00:07:47,037 Well, you know, for instance... 66 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:50,675 you have ideas that you ordinarily wouldn't have. 67 00:07:50,876 --> 00:07:52,902 - What kind of ideas? - Want to hear one? 68 00:07:53,111 --> 00:07:55,103 - Tell me. - All right. 69 00:07:55,313 --> 00:07:58,249 I have this idea, okay, for a television show. 70 00:07:58,450 --> 00:08:01,146 Some friends of mine are cable-access producers. 71 00:08:01,353 --> 00:08:02,944 Do you know what that is? 72 00:08:04,389 --> 00:08:08,189 Anybody can produce a show real cheap, and they have to put it on. 73 00:08:08,393 --> 00:08:12,557 I have this idea for a show that lasts 24 hours a day for a year straight. 74 00:08:12,764 --> 00:08:13,991 What you do is you get... 75 00:08:14,198 --> 00:08:18,532 365 people from cities all over the world... 76 00:08:18,737 --> 00:08:21,728 to do these 24-hour documents of real time. 77 00:08:21,939 --> 00:08:24,533 Capturing life as it's lived. 78 00:08:24,743 --> 00:08:28,701 You know, it would start with a guy waking up in the morning... 79 00:08:28,914 --> 00:08:30,937 and taking the long shower... 80 00:08:31,148 --> 00:08:34,879 eating a little breakfast, making a little coffee... 81 00:08:35,086 --> 00:08:36,236 reading the paper... 82 00:08:36,421 --> 00:08:38,479 Wait. All those mundane, boring things... 83 00:08:38,689 --> 00:08:41,715 everybody has to do every day of their fucking life? 84 00:08:41,927 --> 00:08:44,019 I was going to say, "The poetry of day-to-day life." 85 00:08:44,228 --> 00:08:46,720 You say it your way. I'll say it my way. 86 00:08:46,931 --> 00:08:48,921 - Think of it like this... - Who's gonna watch? 87 00:08:49,133 --> 00:08:53,263 Think about it like this. Why is it that a dog sleeping in the sun... 88 00:08:53,637 --> 00:08:56,129 is so beautiful? It is. It's beautiful. 89 00:08:56,340 --> 00:08:58,933 But a guy taking money from a bank machine... 90 00:08:59,143 --> 00:09:01,168 looks like a complete moron? 91 00:09:01,378 --> 00:09:05,577 So it's like a National Geographic program, but on people. 92 00:09:05,783 --> 00:09:06,933 Yeah. 93 00:09:07,752 --> 00:09:08,650 What do you think? 94 00:09:08,852 --> 00:09:12,721 Yeah, I can see it. Like, 24 boring hours... Sorry... 95 00:09:12,923 --> 00:09:16,381 and a three-minute sex scene where he falls asleep right after. 96 00:09:17,727 --> 00:09:20,629 Yeah, and that would be a great episode. 97 00:09:20,830 --> 00:09:23,230 People would talk about that episode. 98 00:09:23,900 --> 00:09:27,301 You and your friends could do one in Paris if you wanted. 99 00:09:27,504 --> 00:09:32,305 I don't know. The key, the thing that haunts me is the distribution. 100 00:09:32,509 --> 00:09:36,446 Getting these tapes from town to town so it would play continuously. 101 00:09:36,646 --> 00:09:41,310 Because it would have to play all the time, or it just wouldn't work. 102 00:09:42,152 --> 00:09:43,483 Thank you. 103 00:09:45,021 --> 00:09:46,171 Thanks. 104 00:09:47,856 --> 00:09:50,791 You know what? Not service oriented. 105 00:09:51,928 --> 00:09:54,761 Just an observation about Europe. 106 00:10:02,604 --> 00:10:05,971 My parents never really spoke of the possibility... 107 00:10:06,175 --> 00:10:09,736 of my falling in love or getting married or having children. 108 00:10:10,212 --> 00:10:12,077 Even as a little girl... 109 00:10:12,282 --> 00:10:15,739 they wanted me to think as a future career as a, you know... 110 00:10:15,952 --> 00:10:19,149 interior designer or lawyer or something like that. 111 00:10:19,355 --> 00:10:22,154 I'd say to my dad, "I want to be a writer." 112 00:10:22,358 --> 00:10:24,087 And he'd say, "Journalist." 113 00:10:24,294 --> 00:10:28,821 I'd say I wanted to have a refuge for stray cats. He'd say, "Veterinarian." 114 00:10:29,032 --> 00:10:32,660 I'd say I wanted to be an actress. He'd say, "TV newscaster." 115 00:10:32,869 --> 00:10:36,860 It was this constant conversion of my fanciful ambition into these... 116 00:10:37,072 --> 00:10:39,403 practical moneymaking ventures. 117 00:10:41,109 --> 00:10:44,237 I had a good bullshit detector when I was a kid. 118 00:10:44,446 --> 00:10:46,937 I always knew when they were lying to me. 119 00:10:47,149 --> 00:10:49,174 By high school, I was dead set... 120 00:10:49,384 --> 00:10:53,582 on listening to what everybody thought I should do with my life... 121 00:10:53,789 --> 00:10:55,586 and doing the opposite. 122 00:10:56,692 --> 00:11:01,356 Nobody was ever mean about it. I just could never get very excited... 123 00:11:01,563 --> 00:11:04,725 about other people's ambitions for my life. 124 00:11:05,199 --> 00:11:07,963 But you know what? If your parents never... 125 00:11:08,169 --> 00:11:11,833 fully contradict you about anything and are nice and supportive... 126 00:11:12,039 --> 00:11:13,189 Right. 127 00:11:13,574 --> 00:11:16,337 It makes it even harder to officially complain. 128 00:11:16,545 --> 00:11:20,412 Even when they're wrong, it's this passive-aggressive shit. 129 00:11:20,615 --> 00:11:22,014 You know what I mean? 130 00:11:22,216 --> 00:11:23,479 I hate it. 131 00:11:23,885 --> 00:11:25,477 I really hate it. 132 00:11:25,686 --> 00:11:29,486 Well, you know, despite all that kind of bullshit... 133 00:11:29,689 --> 00:11:31,351 that comes along with it... 134 00:11:31,926 --> 00:11:34,724 I remember childhood as... 135 00:11:35,596 --> 00:11:37,621 this magical time. 136 00:11:37,832 --> 00:11:42,769 I do. I remember when my mother first told me about death. 137 00:11:43,037 --> 00:11:47,735 My great-grandmother had died, and my family had visited them in Florida. 138 00:11:47,942 --> 00:11:50,000 I was about 3, 31/2 years old. 139 00:11:50,777 --> 00:11:53,645 Anyway, I was in the back yard playing... 140 00:11:53,848 --> 00:11:57,443 and my sister had just taught me how to take the garden hose... 141 00:11:57,651 --> 00:11:59,812 and do it in such a way that... 142 00:12:00,654 --> 00:12:03,783 it sprayed into the sun and would make a rainbow. 143 00:12:05,292 --> 00:12:07,157 And so I was doing that... 144 00:12:07,395 --> 00:12:10,522 and through the mist, I could see my grandmother. 145 00:12:10,730 --> 00:12:14,029 And she was just standing there, smiling at me. 146 00:12:14,235 --> 00:12:17,396 And I held it there for a long time... 147 00:12:17,604 --> 00:12:19,401 and I looked at her. 148 00:12:19,606 --> 00:12:22,871 And then finally, I let go of the nozzle, you know? 149 00:12:23,076 --> 00:12:25,044 And then I dropped the hose... 150 00:12:25,345 --> 00:12:26,971 and she disappeared. 151 00:12:27,881 --> 00:12:30,543 And so I run back inside and tell my parents. 152 00:12:30,884 --> 00:12:35,253 And they sit me down and give me this big rap on how... 153 00:12:36,089 --> 00:12:40,550 when people die, you never see them again, and how I'd imagined it. 154 00:12:40,759 --> 00:12:43,285 But I knew what I'd seen. I was glad I saw that. 155 00:12:43,497 --> 00:12:47,456 I've never seen anything like that since. But I don't know. 156 00:12:47,666 --> 00:12:51,728 It just kind of let me know how ambiguous everything was. 157 00:12:51,937 --> 00:12:53,371 Even death. 158 00:12:54,807 --> 00:12:58,039 You're lucky you can have this attitude toward death. 159 00:13:00,112 --> 00:13:02,910 I think I'm afraid of death 24 hours a day. 160 00:13:03,115 --> 00:13:06,552 I swear. I mean, that's why I'm in a train right now. 161 00:13:06,753 --> 00:13:09,414 I could've flown to Paris, but I'm scared. 162 00:13:09,622 --> 00:13:11,921 - Oh, come on. - I can't help it. 163 00:13:12,124 --> 00:13:15,525 I know the statistics say, "Na, Na, Na, it's safer." Whatever. 164 00:13:15,729 --> 00:13:18,856 When I'm in a plane, I can see the explosion. 165 00:13:19,064 --> 00:13:21,362 I can see me falling through the clouds. 166 00:13:21,567 --> 00:13:25,832 And I'm so scared of those few seconds of consciousness... 167 00:13:26,038 --> 00:13:29,439 before you die. When you know you're gonna die. 168 00:13:32,311 --> 00:13:34,643 I can't stop thinking that way. 169 00:13:34,847 --> 00:13:36,280 It's exhausting. 170 00:13:36,482 --> 00:13:38,039 Yeah, I bet. 171 00:13:38,249 --> 00:13:40,047 Really exhausting. 172 00:13:43,989 --> 00:13:46,422 - I think this is Vienna. - Yeah. 173 00:13:47,626 --> 00:13:50,458 - You get off here, no? - Yeah, what a drag. 174 00:13:50,929 --> 00:13:54,365 I wish I'd met you earlier. I really like talking to you. 175 00:13:55,601 --> 00:13:56,898 Yeah, me too. 176 00:13:57,669 --> 00:13:59,830 It was really nice of you too. 177 00:14:31,169 --> 00:14:34,934 I have an admittedly insane idea, but if I don't ask you this... 178 00:14:35,139 --> 00:14:37,163 it'll haunt me the rest of my life. 179 00:14:37,375 --> 00:14:38,525 What? 180 00:14:41,378 --> 00:14:46,078 I want to keep talking to you. I have no idea what your situation is... 181 00:14:46,583 --> 00:14:49,018 but I feel like we have some kind of... 182 00:14:49,219 --> 00:14:50,653 connection. Right? 183 00:14:50,887 --> 00:14:52,037 Yeah. Me too. 184 00:14:52,390 --> 00:14:54,255 Right. Great. Here's the deal. 185 00:14:54,458 --> 00:14:57,859 Get off here in Vienna and come check out the town. 186 00:14:58,062 --> 00:14:59,722 - What? - Come on. It'll be fun. 187 00:15:00,131 --> 00:15:01,860 - Come on. - What would we do? 188 00:15:02,065 --> 00:15:06,661 I don't know. All I know is I catch a flight tomorrow morning at 9:30... 189 00:15:06,870 --> 00:15:10,237 and I can't afford a hotel, so I was going to walk around... 190 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:12,306 and it'd be more fun if you came with me. 191 00:15:12,509 --> 00:15:16,240 And if I turn out to be a psycho, just get on the next train. 192 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:19,677 All right, all right. Think of it like this. 193 00:15:21,151 --> 00:15:23,778 Jump ahead 10, 20 years, okay? 194 00:15:23,986 --> 00:15:25,148 And you're married. 195 00:15:25,355 --> 00:15:29,188 Only your marriage doesn't have that same energy it used to have. 196 00:15:29,625 --> 00:15:31,388 You start to blame your husband. 197 00:15:31,595 --> 00:15:34,530 You think about all those guys you've met in your life... 198 00:15:34,730 --> 00:15:38,394 and what might've happened if you'd picked up with one of them. 199 00:15:38,602 --> 00:15:40,593 I'm one of those guys. That's me. 200 00:15:40,803 --> 00:15:42,668 So think of this as time travel... 201 00:15:42,871 --> 00:15:46,808 from then to now to find out what you're missing out on. 202 00:15:47,010 --> 00:15:49,307 What this could be is a gigantic favor... 203 00:15:49,512 --> 00:15:53,142 to you and your husband to find out you're not missing anything. 204 00:15:53,350 --> 00:15:56,341 I'm just as big a loser as he is. Unmotivated. Boring. 205 00:15:56,553 --> 00:15:59,179 You made the right choice. You're happy. 206 00:16:05,761 --> 00:16:07,524 Let me get my bag. 207 00:16:34,022 --> 00:16:36,321 We should get a locker for all this. 208 00:16:41,362 --> 00:16:42,557 What's your name? 209 00:16:42,765 --> 00:16:43,915 My name? 210 00:16:44,099 --> 00:16:47,627 Jesse. James, actually, but everybody calls me Jesse. 211 00:16:47,836 --> 00:16:49,997 You mean, Jesse James, no? 212 00:16:50,205 --> 00:16:51,503 No. No, just Jesse. 213 00:16:51,706 --> 00:16:52,856 I'm Celine. 214 00:17:07,255 --> 00:17:08,881 This is a nice bridge. 215 00:17:09,090 --> 00:17:10,352 Yeah. 216 00:17:14,696 --> 00:17:16,288 This is kind of weird. 217 00:17:16,498 --> 00:17:19,227 Isn't it? I mean, I feel a little awkward. 218 00:17:20,435 --> 00:17:23,232 - But it's all right. Right? - Yeah, this is great. 219 00:17:23,437 --> 00:17:27,204 - Let's go to some places. - Yeah, let's go to some places. 220 00:17:27,407 --> 00:17:28,897 - Let's ask these guys. - Okay. 221 00:17:29,109 --> 00:17:31,476 Excuse me. Excuse me? 222 00:17:31,678 --> 00:17:33,407 Do you speak English? 223 00:17:33,615 --> 00:17:37,073 - Yes, of course. - Do you speak German for a change? 224 00:17:37,284 --> 00:17:39,082 - What? - No, it was a joke. 225 00:17:39,287 --> 00:17:43,086 We just got into Vienna today, and we're looking for something fun to do. 226 00:17:43,290 --> 00:17:45,019 Like museums, exhibitions... 227 00:17:45,225 --> 00:17:48,662 But museums are not that funny anymore these days. 228 00:17:48,862 --> 00:17:53,162 They are closing right now. How long are you going to be here? 229 00:17:53,368 --> 00:17:54,562 Just for tonight. 230 00:17:54,935 --> 00:17:57,903 Why did you come to Vienna? What could you be expecting? 231 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:02,106 We're on honeymoon. 232 00:18:02,910 --> 00:18:05,402 Yeah, she got pregnant, we had to get married... 233 00:18:05,611 --> 00:18:08,080 I don't believe you. You're a bad liar. 234 00:18:13,587 --> 00:18:17,956 This is a play we're both in. We would like to invite you. 235 00:18:18,157 --> 00:18:19,454 You're actors? 236 00:18:19,660 --> 00:18:21,855 Not professional. Part-time for fun. 237 00:18:22,062 --> 00:18:25,190 It's a play about a cow and Indians searching for it. 238 00:18:25,399 --> 00:18:27,958 There are also politicians, Mexicans... 239 00:18:28,168 --> 00:18:30,101 Russians, communists... 240 00:18:30,636 --> 00:18:34,266 - You have a real cow on stage? - No, an actor in a cow costume. 241 00:18:34,473 --> 00:18:36,373 - He's the cow. - Yes, I am the cow. 242 00:18:36,576 --> 00:18:39,705 - And the cow's a bit weird. - The cow has a disease. 243 00:18:39,913 --> 00:18:42,312 She's acting a bit strange. Like a dog. 244 00:18:42,516 --> 00:18:45,142 If someone throws a stick, she fetches it. 245 00:18:45,351 --> 00:18:48,581 And she can smoke with hoofs and everything. 246 00:18:49,121 --> 00:18:51,611 - Great. - As you see, there is the address. 247 00:18:51,824 --> 00:18:53,553 It's in the second district. 248 00:18:53,758 --> 00:18:55,351 Near the Prater. You know it? 249 00:18:55,561 --> 00:18:58,495 The big Ferris wheel? We should go. We should. 250 00:18:58,699 --> 00:19:01,223 Perhaps you can go to the Prater before the play. 251 00:19:01,434 --> 00:19:04,267 It starts at 2130. 252 00:19:04,704 --> 00:19:06,763 - 2130? - It's at 9:30. 253 00:19:06,974 --> 00:19:08,997 - 9:30. - Oh, right. 254 00:19:09,275 --> 00:19:10,935 What's the name of this play? 255 00:19:11,142 --> 00:19:15,238 It translates as "Bring Me the Horns of Wilmington's Cow." 256 00:19:15,448 --> 00:19:16,598 I'm Wilmington's cow. 257 00:19:17,048 --> 00:19:18,516 - All right. - Great. 258 00:19:18,718 --> 00:19:19,868 - You'll be there? - We'll try. 259 00:19:20,018 --> 00:19:21,815 I'm the cow. 260 00:19:22,054 --> 00:19:23,204 Goodbye. 261 00:19:43,808 --> 00:19:46,072 I got an idea. Are you ready? 262 00:19:46,277 --> 00:19:48,940 It's Q and A time. We've known each other a little while. 263 00:19:49,147 --> 00:19:53,139 We're stuck together, so we'll ask each other a few direct questions. 264 00:19:53,418 --> 00:19:54,568 All right? 265 00:19:54,853 --> 00:19:58,754 - We ask each other questions? - And you have to answer honestly. 266 00:19:58,957 --> 00:20:00,720 - Of course. - Okay. 267 00:20:00,925 --> 00:20:02,723 All right, first question. 268 00:20:02,927 --> 00:20:05,122 - You. - Yes, I am going to ask you. 269 00:20:05,330 --> 00:20:09,061 Describe for me your first sexual feelings... 270 00:20:09,267 --> 00:20:11,360 towards a person. 271 00:20:12,237 --> 00:20:14,603 My first sexual feelings? Oh, my God. 272 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:18,569 I know. I know. 273 00:20:18,809 --> 00:20:20,505 Jean-Marc Fleury. 274 00:20:21,211 --> 00:20:22,872 Jean-Marc Fleury? 275 00:20:23,348 --> 00:20:27,113 We were at this summer camp together, and he was a swimmer. 276 00:20:27,751 --> 00:20:30,721 He had bleached-out chlorine hair and green eyes... 277 00:20:30,921 --> 00:20:34,187 and to improve his times, he'd shave his legs and arms. 278 00:20:34,391 --> 00:20:37,827 - That's disgusting. - He was like this gorgeous dolphin. 279 00:20:38,028 --> 00:20:40,258 My friend Emma had a big crush on him. 280 00:20:40,464 --> 00:20:43,900 So one day, I was cutting across the field back to my room... 281 00:20:44,101 --> 00:20:46,831 and he came walking up beside me. I told him... 282 00:20:47,037 --> 00:20:50,438 "You should date Emma. She has a big crush on you." 283 00:20:50,641 --> 00:20:52,200 And he turned to me and said... 284 00:20:52,408 --> 00:20:56,277 "Well, that's too bad, because I have a big crush on you." 285 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:59,643 So, yeah, it really scared the hell out of me... 286 00:20:59,850 --> 00:21:02,045 because I thought he was so fine. 287 00:21:02,286 --> 00:21:07,223 Then he officially asked me on a date. I pretended I didn't like him. 288 00:21:08,358 --> 00:21:12,762 You know, I was so afraid of what I might do, you know. 289 00:21:14,430 --> 00:21:17,866 So I went to see him swim a few times at the competition. 290 00:21:18,068 --> 00:21:21,094 And he was so sexy. Really. I mean, really sexy. 291 00:21:21,305 --> 00:21:25,799 We wrote these little declarations of love at the end of the summer... 292 00:21:26,009 --> 00:21:29,410 and, you know, promised we would keep writing forever... 293 00:21:29,612 --> 00:21:31,877 and meet again very soon and... 294 00:21:32,081 --> 00:21:33,231 Did you? 295 00:21:33,517 --> 00:21:34,847 Of course not. 296 00:21:35,284 --> 00:21:39,914 Then this is the opportune time to tell you I'm a fantastic swimmer. 297 00:21:40,424 --> 00:21:41,720 - Really? - Yeah. 298 00:21:42,593 --> 00:21:44,958 - I make note of that. - Okay. 299 00:21:45,161 --> 00:21:47,629 - So it's my turn. No? - Yes, your turn. 300 00:21:47,829 --> 00:21:49,059 Hit me. 301 00:21:50,967 --> 00:21:52,764 Have you ever been in love? 302 00:21:54,637 --> 00:21:55,534 Yes. 303 00:21:55,738 --> 00:21:56,888 Next question. 304 00:21:57,573 --> 00:21:59,130 - What was the... - Wait a minute. 305 00:21:59,342 --> 00:22:01,708 - So I can give one-word answers? - Why not? 306 00:22:01,911 --> 00:22:04,777 After I went into detail about my sexual feelings? 307 00:22:04,981 --> 00:22:09,440 They're different questions. I could answer the sexual-feelings thing. 308 00:22:09,652 --> 00:22:13,348 But, you know, love... I mean, what if I asked you about love? 309 00:22:13,556 --> 00:22:17,321 I would have lied, but at least I would have made up a great story. 310 00:22:17,526 --> 00:22:20,120 Love is a complex issue, you know? 311 00:22:20,328 --> 00:22:25,061 I mean, yes, I've told somebody that I love them, and I've meant it. 312 00:22:25,267 --> 00:22:28,498 But was it totally unselfish, giving love? 313 00:22:28,702 --> 00:22:30,603 Was it a beautiful thing? 314 00:22:30,805 --> 00:22:33,866 Not really. You know, it's like, love... 315 00:22:34,476 --> 00:22:36,273 I mean, I don't know. 316 00:22:36,912 --> 00:22:38,062 You know? 317 00:22:39,014 --> 00:22:42,609 - Yeah. I know what you mean. - But as far as sexual feelings go... 318 00:22:42,817 --> 00:22:45,685 it started with an obsessive relationship... 319 00:22:45,886 --> 00:22:48,912 with Miss July, 1978. Do you know Playboy magazine? 320 00:22:49,124 --> 00:22:51,455 - I've heard of it. - You know Crystal? 321 00:22:51,859 --> 00:22:54,385 You don't know Crystal? Well, I knew Crystal. 322 00:22:56,597 --> 00:22:58,225 Is it my turn now? 323 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,124 Tell me something that really pisses you off. 324 00:23:01,335 --> 00:23:03,895 - Really drives you crazy. - Pisses me off. 325 00:23:04,105 --> 00:23:06,870 - God, everything pisses me off. - List a couple. 326 00:23:08,109 --> 00:23:11,443 Oh, I know. I hate being told by strange men... 327 00:23:11,645 --> 00:23:13,511 strange men in the street... 328 00:23:13,715 --> 00:23:18,515 you know, to smile to make them feel better about their boring life. 329 00:23:19,086 --> 00:23:20,236 What else? 330 00:23:20,354 --> 00:23:21,686 I hate... 331 00:23:21,890 --> 00:23:25,381 I hate that 300 kilometers from here, there's a war... 332 00:23:25,594 --> 00:23:27,788 people are dying, and nobody knows what to do. 333 00:23:27,995 --> 00:23:30,293 Or they don't give a shit. I don't know. 334 00:23:30,498 --> 00:23:34,127 I hate that the media's trying to control our minds. 335 00:23:34,336 --> 00:23:35,962 - The media? - Yeah, the media. 336 00:23:36,170 --> 00:23:39,696 It's very subtle, but it's a new form of fascism, really. 337 00:23:41,610 --> 00:23:42,760 I hate... 338 00:23:43,644 --> 00:23:47,171 I hate when I'm in a foreign country, especially in America... 339 00:23:47,380 --> 00:23:51,943 each time I wear black or lose my temper or say anything about anything... 340 00:23:52,152 --> 00:23:55,418 they always go, "Oh, it's so French. It's so cute." 341 00:23:55,623 --> 00:23:58,989 I hate that. I can't stand that. Really. 342 00:24:00,094 --> 00:24:01,244 Is that all? 343 00:24:01,395 --> 00:24:03,885 Well, there's a lot of things, but... 344 00:24:04,097 --> 00:24:06,566 - So it's my turn. - Okay. 345 00:24:06,866 --> 00:24:09,096 - You're gonna answer. - Yes, I'll answer. 346 00:24:09,302 --> 00:24:11,031 What's a problem for you? 347 00:24:11,704 --> 00:24:13,070 You, probably. 348 00:24:13,339 --> 00:24:14,489 What? 349 00:24:15,241 --> 00:24:18,074 I had a thought the other day that kind of... 350 00:24:18,278 --> 00:24:20,075 qualifies as a problem. 351 00:24:20,381 --> 00:24:21,404 What is it? 352 00:24:21,614 --> 00:24:24,583 It was a thought I had on the train, so... 353 00:24:24,784 --> 00:24:26,445 Okay. All right. 354 00:24:26,686 --> 00:24:28,517 Do you believe in reincarnation? 355 00:24:28,755 --> 00:24:30,745 Yeah. Yeah, it's interesting. 356 00:24:30,990 --> 00:24:35,188 A lot of people talk about past lives and things like that, you know? 357 00:24:35,396 --> 00:24:38,853 And even if they don't believe in it in some specific way... 358 00:24:39,065 --> 00:24:41,363 people have a notion of an eternal soul. 359 00:24:41,567 --> 00:24:42,465 - Yeah. - Okay. 360 00:24:42,669 --> 00:24:45,160 This is my thought: 50,000 years ago... 361 00:24:45,370 --> 00:24:47,339 there's not even a million people. 362 00:24:47,539 --> 00:24:51,373 Ten thousand years ago, there's, like, two million people. 363 00:24:51,577 --> 00:24:55,537 Now there's between five and six billion people on the planet. 364 00:24:55,747 --> 00:24:57,272 If we all have our own... 365 00:24:57,482 --> 00:24:59,382 individual, unique... 366 00:24:59,651 --> 00:25:00,801 soul... 367 00:25:00,986 --> 00:25:02,783 where did they all come from? 368 00:25:02,988 --> 00:25:06,583 Are modern souls only a fraction of the original souls? 369 00:25:06,793 --> 00:25:10,785 If they are, that represents a 5000 to 1 split of each soul... 370 00:25:10,997 --> 00:25:14,727 in the last 50,000 years, which is a blip in the Earth's time. 371 00:25:14,933 --> 00:25:18,198 So at best, we're these tiny fractions... 372 00:25:18,570 --> 00:25:19,867 of people walking... 373 00:25:20,073 --> 00:25:24,406 Is that why we're so scattered? Is that why we're so specialized? 374 00:25:24,609 --> 00:25:26,167 Wait a minute, I'm not sure... 375 00:25:26,378 --> 00:25:29,836 Yeah, I know, I know. It's a totally scattered thought. 376 00:25:30,849 --> 00:25:32,976 Which is kind of why it makes sense. 377 00:25:33,517 --> 00:25:35,348 I agree with you. 378 00:25:36,587 --> 00:25:38,488 Let's get off this damn train. 379 00:26:14,191 --> 00:26:15,886 This place is pretty neat. 380 00:26:16,092 --> 00:26:17,082 Yeah. 381 00:26:17,295 --> 00:26:19,627 There's even a listening booth. 382 00:26:23,466 --> 00:26:25,697 Have you heard of this singer? 383 00:26:27,505 --> 00:26:29,769 I think she's American. A friend told me about her. 384 00:26:29,974 --> 00:26:33,306 Do you want to go see if that listening booth still works? 385 00:26:33,511 --> 00:26:34,705 Yeah, okay. 386 00:27:12,449 --> 00:27:17,012 ♪There's a wind that blows in from the north 387 00:27:17,220 --> 00:27:22,055 ♪And it says that loving takes this course 388 00:27:22,559 --> 00:27:25,050 ♪Come here 389 00:27:27,365 --> 00:27:29,855 ♪Come here 390 00:27:31,301 --> 00:27:36,067 ♪No, I'm not impossible to touch 391 00:27:36,339 --> 00:27:41,139 ♪I have never wanted you so much 392 00:27:41,677 --> 00:27:44,271 ♪Come here 393 00:27:46,483 --> 00:27:48,314 ♪Come here 394 00:27:49,751 --> 00:27:54,689 ♪Have I never laid down by your side 395 00:27:55,757 --> 00:28:00,559 ♪Baby, let's forget about this pride 396 00:28:01,063 --> 00:28:03,725 ♪Come here 397 00:28:05,734 --> 00:28:08,897 ♪Come here 398 00:28:14,209 --> 00:28:16,608 Look at this. This is beautiful. 399 00:28:23,819 --> 00:28:25,343 Quick. It's leaving. 400 00:28:49,977 --> 00:28:51,502 Look, there's a rabbit. 401 00:28:52,180 --> 00:28:53,330 Yeah. 402 00:28:54,247 --> 00:28:55,738 Hey there, rabbit. 403 00:28:56,951 --> 00:28:58,316 It's so cute. 404 00:29:00,923 --> 00:29:03,322 I visited this as a young teenager. 405 00:29:04,225 --> 00:29:07,990 It left a bigger impression on me at that time than the museums. 406 00:29:08,196 --> 00:29:09,993 Yeah? It's tiny. 407 00:29:10,198 --> 00:29:11,348 I know. 408 00:29:11,799 --> 00:29:14,996 A little old man talked to us. He was the groundskeeper. 409 00:29:15,204 --> 00:29:18,036 He explained that most of the people buried here... 410 00:29:18,239 --> 00:29:20,764 had washed up on the bank of the Danube. 411 00:29:22,275 --> 00:29:23,742 How old are these? 412 00:29:24,245 --> 00:29:28,011 Around the beginning of the century. It's called No Name Cemetery... 413 00:29:28,216 --> 00:29:30,809 because they often didn't know who those people were. 414 00:29:31,017 --> 00:29:33,110 Maybe a first name, that's all. 415 00:29:33,453 --> 00:29:35,354 Why were all the bodies washing up? 416 00:29:35,555 --> 00:29:39,491 I think some were from accidents on boats and things like that. 417 00:29:39,694 --> 00:29:42,992 But most of them were suicides that jumped in the river. 418 00:29:44,998 --> 00:29:48,730 I always liked the idea of all those unknown people lost in the world. 419 00:29:48,935 --> 00:29:50,994 When I was a little girl, I thought... 420 00:29:51,204 --> 00:29:53,729 if none of your family or friends knew you were dead... 421 00:29:53,940 --> 00:29:55,908 then it's like not really being dead. 422 00:29:56,108 --> 00:29:59,010 People can invent the best and the worst for you. 423 00:30:02,517 --> 00:30:04,575 Here she is, I think. 424 00:30:04,851 --> 00:30:08,217 Yeah, this is the one I remember the most. 425 00:30:11,191 --> 00:30:13,784 She was only 13 when she died. 426 00:30:14,193 --> 00:30:18,596 That meant something to me. I was that age when I first saw this. 427 00:30:23,068 --> 00:30:27,870 Now I'm 10 years older, and she's still 13, I guess. 428 00:30:29,042 --> 00:30:30,192 That's funny. 429 00:30:50,462 --> 00:30:52,521 That's the Danube over there. 430 00:30:53,032 --> 00:30:54,693 That's a river, right? 431 00:30:54,935 --> 00:30:56,085 Yeah. 432 00:31:03,909 --> 00:31:05,467 This is... 433 00:31:05,743 --> 00:31:07,108 gorgeous. 434 00:31:08,112 --> 00:31:10,239 Yeah, this is beautiful. 435 00:31:16,521 --> 00:31:17,716 I mean, we got... 436 00:31:18,090 --> 00:31:19,613 We got a sunset here. 437 00:31:20,558 --> 00:31:22,925 - Yeah. - We got the Ferris wheel. 438 00:31:25,064 --> 00:31:26,826 It seems like... 439 00:31:27,633 --> 00:31:29,122 this would be a... 440 00:31:31,135 --> 00:31:32,285 What? 441 00:31:36,441 --> 00:31:37,591 You know... 442 00:31:42,747 --> 00:31:45,147 Are you trying to say you want to kiss me? 443 00:32:54,451 --> 00:32:55,439 But you know what? 444 00:32:55,652 --> 00:32:58,586 It doesn't matter what generation you're born into. 445 00:32:58,790 --> 00:33:00,051 Look at my parents. 446 00:33:00,257 --> 00:33:04,455 They were angry, young May '68 people revolting against everything. 447 00:33:04,661 --> 00:33:08,426 The government, their conservative Catholic backgrounds... 448 00:33:08,632 --> 00:33:12,123 Then I was born, and my father became a successful architect. 449 00:33:12,334 --> 00:33:15,360 We traveled around the world while he built bridges... 450 00:33:15,571 --> 00:33:17,801 and, you know, towers and stuff. 451 00:33:18,075 --> 00:33:20,872 I mean, I really can't complain about anything. 452 00:33:21,078 --> 00:33:23,068 They love me more than anything... 453 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,442 and I've been raised with all the freedom they fought for. 454 00:33:26,650 --> 00:33:29,676 And yet, for me now, it's another type of fight. 455 00:33:29,885 --> 00:33:33,218 We have to deal with the same shit, but we can't really know... 456 00:33:33,422 --> 00:33:35,913 who or, you know, what the enemy is. 457 00:33:36,125 --> 00:33:38,958 I don't know if there really is an enemy. 458 00:33:39,161 --> 00:33:41,221 Everybody's parents fucked them up. 459 00:33:41,429 --> 00:33:44,888 Rich kids' parents gave them too much. Poor kids', not enough. 460 00:33:45,102 --> 00:33:47,466 Too much attention, not enough attention. 461 00:33:47,670 --> 00:33:50,900 They either left or taught them the wrong things. 462 00:33:51,107 --> 00:33:54,907 My parents are just two people who didn't like each other much... 463 00:33:55,111 --> 00:33:56,976 who got married and had a kid. 464 00:33:57,179 --> 00:33:59,511 And they tried their best to be nice to me. 465 00:34:00,850 --> 00:34:03,683 - Did your parents divorce? - Yeah, finally. 466 00:34:03,885 --> 00:34:06,115 They should have done it sooner. They stuck together... 467 00:34:06,321 --> 00:34:09,985 for the well-being of my sister and I. Thank you very much. 468 00:34:10,291 --> 00:34:13,727 I remember my mother told me right in front of my father... 469 00:34:13,928 --> 00:34:16,454 that he didn't really want to have me. 470 00:34:16,664 --> 00:34:19,964 That he was pissed off when he found out she was pregnant. 471 00:34:20,168 --> 00:34:23,798 That I was a big mistake. That really shaped the way I think. 472 00:34:24,005 --> 00:34:28,271 I always saw the world as this place where I really wasn't meant to be. 473 00:34:28,476 --> 00:34:29,466 That's so sad. 474 00:34:29,677 --> 00:34:32,840 Well, I mean, I eventually kind of took pride in it. 475 00:34:33,046 --> 00:34:35,537 You know, like my life was my own doing. 476 00:34:35,750 --> 00:34:38,878 You know, like I was crashing the big party. 477 00:34:39,087 --> 00:34:41,112 That's the way to see it. 478 00:34:41,321 --> 00:34:44,688 My parents are still married and I guess they're happy. 479 00:34:45,260 --> 00:34:49,822 But I think it's healthy to rebel against everything that came before. 480 00:34:54,269 --> 00:34:56,533 You know, I've been wondering lately... 481 00:34:57,305 --> 00:35:00,741 do you know anyone who's in a happy relationship? 482 00:35:02,409 --> 00:35:05,402 Yeah, sure. You know, I know happy couples. 483 00:35:06,181 --> 00:35:08,239 But I think they lie to each other. 484 00:35:08,950 --> 00:35:10,212 Yeah. 485 00:35:11,186 --> 00:35:13,278 People can live their whole life as a lie. 486 00:35:13,487 --> 00:35:15,388 My grandmother was married... 487 00:35:15,589 --> 00:35:18,683 and I thought she had an uncomplicated love life. 488 00:35:18,892 --> 00:35:22,919 But she just confessed to me that she spent her whole life... 489 00:35:23,131 --> 00:35:26,190 dreaming about another man she was in love with. 490 00:35:26,500 --> 00:35:29,730 She just accepted her fate. It's so sad. 491 00:35:30,304 --> 00:35:33,068 In the same time, I love that she had these emotions... 492 00:35:33,272 --> 00:35:35,605 and feelings I never thought she had. 493 00:35:35,808 --> 00:35:38,039 I guarantee you it was better that way. 494 00:35:38,245 --> 00:35:41,612 If she'd known him, he'd have disappointed her eventually. 495 00:35:41,814 --> 00:35:44,181 - How do you know? - I know. I know. 496 00:35:44,383 --> 00:35:46,943 People put romantic projections on everything. 497 00:35:47,154 --> 00:35:49,850 It's not based in any kind of reality. 498 00:35:50,057 --> 00:35:53,753 Romantic projections? Oh, Mr. Romantic up in the Ferris wheel? 499 00:35:53,961 --> 00:35:57,259 "Oh, kiss me. The sunset. Oh, it's so beautiful." 500 00:35:57,463 --> 00:36:00,956 Tell me about your grandmother. What were you saying about her? 501 00:36:19,385 --> 00:36:20,613 Check these guys out. 502 00:36:20,821 --> 00:36:25,314 "Hans, I have a confession. I'm not wearing underwear underneath this." 503 00:36:25,525 --> 00:36:28,186 "Oh, really? Does that frighten you?" 504 00:36:34,599 --> 00:36:36,033 Can I tell you a secret? 505 00:36:36,401 --> 00:36:37,551 Yeah. 506 00:36:37,637 --> 00:36:38,787 Come here. 507 00:36:39,105 --> 00:36:40,572 - What? - Come here. 508 00:36:54,619 --> 00:36:57,612 Look at this palm reader. She's interesting looking. 509 00:36:57,822 --> 00:36:58,972 Yeah. 510 00:36:59,292 --> 00:37:00,759 - Uh-oh. Uh-oh. - What? 511 00:37:01,227 --> 00:37:03,718 - I made eye contact. - She's not coming over here. 512 00:37:03,929 --> 00:37:05,921 - Yes, she is. - Oh, shit. 513 00:37:09,100 --> 00:37:10,260 Oh, no. 514 00:37:10,535 --> 00:37:12,526 - You want your palm read? - No. 515 00:37:12,737 --> 00:37:14,899 - Are you sure? - I'm sure. 516 00:37:15,105 --> 00:37:16,596 - Okay. - Hello. 517 00:37:17,175 --> 00:37:18,506 Oh, here she is. 518 00:37:28,752 --> 00:37:30,687 I want your palm read. 519 00:37:33,224 --> 00:37:34,987 Yeah. How much is it? 520 00:37:35,427 --> 00:37:36,916 For you, 50. 521 00:37:37,228 --> 00:37:38,378 Okay? 522 00:37:38,662 --> 00:37:39,812 Okay. 523 00:37:46,237 --> 00:37:49,205 So you have been on a journey... 524 00:37:49,406 --> 00:37:51,375 and you're a stranger to this place. 525 00:37:53,078 --> 00:37:54,044 You are... 526 00:37:54,245 --> 00:37:55,802 an adventurer. 527 00:37:56,247 --> 00:37:57,839 A seeker. 528 00:37:58,881 --> 00:38:00,873 An adventurer in your mind. 529 00:38:05,823 --> 00:38:09,123 You are interested in the power of the woman. 530 00:38:09,326 --> 00:38:14,229 In the woman's deep strength and creativity. 531 00:38:14,632 --> 00:38:16,963 You're becoming this woman. 532 00:38:22,206 --> 00:38:26,609 You need to resign yourself to the awkwardness of life. 533 00:38:27,277 --> 00:38:30,678 Only if you find peace within yourself... 534 00:38:31,348 --> 00:38:34,909 will you find true connection with others. 535 00:38:38,421 --> 00:38:39,888 That is a stranger to you? 536 00:38:40,723 --> 00:38:42,055 I guess so. 537 00:38:47,831 --> 00:38:50,492 You will be all right. He's learning. 538 00:38:51,299 --> 00:38:52,449 Okay. 539 00:38:52,902 --> 00:38:54,052 Money. 540 00:39:01,644 --> 00:39:03,578 You're both stars. 541 00:39:03,780 --> 00:39:05,339 Don't forget. 542 00:39:05,815 --> 00:39:08,875 When the stars exploded billions of years ago... 543 00:39:09,085 --> 00:39:11,884 they formed everything that is this world. 544 00:39:12,088 --> 00:39:14,954 Everything we know is stardust. 545 00:39:15,158 --> 00:39:19,094 So don't forget, you are stardust. 546 00:39:23,933 --> 00:39:25,560 That's very nice and all. 547 00:39:25,767 --> 00:39:28,100 I mean, that we're all stardust... 548 00:39:28,303 --> 00:39:30,738 and you're becoming this great woman. 549 00:39:31,340 --> 00:39:33,831 But I hope you don't take that any more seriously... 550 00:39:34,042 --> 00:39:36,169 than some horoscope in a newspaper. 551 00:39:36,379 --> 00:39:40,645 What? She knew I was on vacation and that we didn't know each other... 552 00:39:40,849 --> 00:39:43,750 and that I was going to become this great woman. 553 00:39:43,952 --> 00:39:46,318 But what was that "I am learning" bullshit? 554 00:39:46,521 --> 00:39:48,854 That's way condescending, you know? 555 00:39:49,057 --> 00:39:51,116 I mean, she wasn't even doing me. 556 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:55,660 I mean, if opportunists like that ever had to tell the real truth... 557 00:39:55,864 --> 00:39:57,922 it would put them out of business. 558 00:39:58,133 --> 00:40:02,729 Just once, I'd love to see some little old lady save up all her money... 559 00:40:02,938 --> 00:40:07,602 to go to the fortuneteller. She'd get there and the woman would say... 560 00:40:09,643 --> 00:40:12,738 "Tomorrow and all your remaining days... 561 00:40:12,948 --> 00:40:14,973 will be exactly like today... 562 00:40:15,182 --> 00:40:17,708 a tedious collection of hours. 563 00:40:17,918 --> 00:40:21,150 And you will have no new passions and no new thoughts... 564 00:40:21,356 --> 00:40:23,755 and no new travels. 565 00:40:23,959 --> 00:40:26,860 And when you die, you'll be completely forgotten. 566 00:40:27,828 --> 00:40:29,295 Fifty schillings, please." 567 00:40:29,498 --> 00:40:31,227 That I'd like to see. 568 00:40:32,299 --> 00:40:33,732 It's so funny how... 569 00:40:33,934 --> 00:40:37,461 she almost didn't notice you. It's weird. I wonder why. 570 00:40:37,706 --> 00:40:41,835 She was really wise and intense. I really loved what she said. 571 00:40:42,043 --> 00:40:45,877 You pay your money to hear what makes you feel good about yourself. 572 00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:49,572 Maybe there's a seedy section of Vienna. We can buy a hit of crack. 573 00:40:49,784 --> 00:40:51,307 Would you like that? 574 00:40:52,119 --> 00:40:53,644 You're so... 575 00:40:54,855 --> 00:40:56,948 Stardust. Stardust. 576 00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,162 There's an exhibition. 577 00:41:09,904 --> 00:41:13,236 I guess we'll miss it. It doesn't start until next week. 578 00:41:13,741 --> 00:41:15,641 Yeah, I think so. 579 00:41:16,877 --> 00:41:20,677 I actually saw this one in a museum. 580 00:41:21,981 --> 00:41:23,916 I stared and stared at it. 581 00:41:24,118 --> 00:41:26,416 Must have been 45 minutes. 582 00:41:27,188 --> 00:41:28,338 I love it. 583 00:41:29,122 --> 00:41:31,557 La voie ferrée. It's great. 584 00:41:33,326 --> 00:41:36,921 I love the way the people are dissolving into the background. 585 00:41:38,331 --> 00:41:39,481 Look at this. 586 00:41:41,035 --> 00:41:42,524 It's like the environments... 587 00:41:42,969 --> 00:41:45,131 are stronger than the people. 588 00:41:46,806 --> 00:41:49,740 His human figures are always so transitory. 589 00:41:49,944 --> 00:41:52,002 It's funny. Transitory? 590 00:41:52,512 --> 00:41:53,979 Transitory. 591 00:42:13,031 --> 00:42:16,057 - You think this is open? - I don't know. Let's try it. 592 00:42:42,394 --> 00:42:44,225 I was in an old church like this... 593 00:42:44,430 --> 00:42:47,558 with my grandmother a few days ago in Budapest. 594 00:42:49,668 --> 00:42:52,501 Even though I reject most of the religious thing... 595 00:42:52,839 --> 00:42:56,797 I can't help but feeling for those people that come here... 596 00:42:57,009 --> 00:43:00,273 lost or in pain, guilt... 597 00:43:01,014 --> 00:43:03,344 looking for some kind of answers. 598 00:43:04,850 --> 00:43:08,513 It fascinates me how a single place can join pain and happiness... 599 00:43:08,720 --> 00:43:11,052 of so many generations. 600 00:43:11,657 --> 00:43:13,749 You're close with your grandmother? 601 00:43:15,527 --> 00:43:16,677 Yeah. 602 00:43:18,996 --> 00:43:22,694 I think it's because I always have this strange feeling... 603 00:43:22,901 --> 00:43:26,893 that I'm this very old woman laying down, about to die. 604 00:43:28,507 --> 00:43:30,701 You know, that my life is just... 605 00:43:31,008 --> 00:43:32,737 her memories or something. 606 00:43:36,414 --> 00:43:38,109 That's so wild. 607 00:43:40,151 --> 00:43:43,746 I always think that I'm still this 13-year-old boy... 608 00:43:43,955 --> 00:43:47,047 who doesn't really know how to be an adult, pretending to... 609 00:43:47,258 --> 00:43:51,751 live my life, taking notes for when I'll really have to do it. 610 00:43:52,129 --> 00:43:55,030 Like I'm in a dress rehearsal for a junior high play. 611 00:43:57,468 --> 00:43:58,958 That's funny. 612 00:43:59,770 --> 00:44:02,068 Then up there in the Ferris wheel, it was like... 613 00:44:02,273 --> 00:44:06,334 this very old woman kissing this very young boy. Right? 614 00:44:11,147 --> 00:44:15,209 Do you know anything about the Quakers, the Quaker religion? 615 00:44:15,653 --> 00:44:16,803 No, not much. 616 00:44:17,621 --> 00:44:20,248 Well, I went to this Quaker wedding once... 617 00:44:20,458 --> 00:44:22,322 and it was fantastic. 618 00:44:22,660 --> 00:44:23,820 What they do is... 619 00:44:24,027 --> 00:44:28,293 the couple comes in and they kneel in front of the whole congregation... 620 00:44:28,498 --> 00:44:30,022 and they stare at each other. 621 00:44:31,202 --> 00:44:35,160 Nobody says a word unless they feel that God moves them to speak... 622 00:44:35,372 --> 00:44:37,033 or say something. 623 00:44:37,974 --> 00:44:40,636 And then, after an hour or so of just... 624 00:44:42,112 --> 00:44:43,943 staring at each other... 625 00:44:44,414 --> 00:44:45,779 they're married. 626 00:44:47,716 --> 00:44:49,776 That's beautiful. I like that. 627 00:45:06,569 --> 00:45:08,059 This is a horrible story. 628 00:45:09,138 --> 00:45:10,288 What? 629 00:45:10,707 --> 00:45:13,072 It's not the appropriate place to tell it. 630 00:45:13,275 --> 00:45:16,210 Well, I was driving around with this buddy of mine. 631 00:45:16,413 --> 00:45:18,313 He's a big atheist, you know. 632 00:45:18,515 --> 00:45:21,381 And he came to a stop next to this homeless guy. 633 00:45:21,650 --> 00:45:23,881 My buddy takes out a $ 100 bill... 634 00:45:24,087 --> 00:45:25,484 and leans out the window... 635 00:45:25,688 --> 00:45:28,951 and he says, "Do you believe in God?" 636 00:45:29,792 --> 00:45:33,524 And the guy looks at my friend, he looks at the money. 637 00:45:33,796 --> 00:45:35,697 He says... 638 00:45:36,065 --> 00:45:37,725 "Yes, I do." 639 00:45:37,932 --> 00:45:39,867 My friend says, "Wrong answer." 640 00:45:40,068 --> 00:45:41,558 We drove away. 641 00:45:42,404 --> 00:45:43,894 That's mean. 642 00:45:55,184 --> 00:45:59,017 Would you be in Paris by now if you hadn't gotten off the train? 643 00:45:59,487 --> 00:46:01,148 No, not yet. 644 00:46:02,291 --> 00:46:03,518 What would you be doing? 645 00:46:03,724 --> 00:46:06,387 I'd probably be hanging around the airport... 646 00:46:06,595 --> 00:46:09,961 crying in my coffee because you didn't come with me. 647 00:46:14,068 --> 00:46:17,835 I'd probably gotten off the train in Salzburg with someone else. 648 00:46:18,039 --> 00:46:20,008 Oh, yeah? Oh, I see. 649 00:46:20,208 --> 00:46:22,109 So I'm just a dumb American... 650 00:46:22,310 --> 00:46:26,440 momentarily decorating your blank canvas, huh? 651 00:46:26,681 --> 00:46:29,809 - I'm having a great time. - Really? 652 00:46:30,017 --> 00:46:31,245 Me too. 653 00:46:33,054 --> 00:46:35,023 I'm glad, because no one knows I'm here. 654 00:46:35,223 --> 00:46:37,214 I don't know anyone that would tell me... 655 00:46:37,425 --> 00:46:39,518 all those bad things you've done. 656 00:46:39,727 --> 00:46:42,059 - I'll tell you some. - Yeah, I'm sure. 657 00:46:43,064 --> 00:46:47,058 You hear so much shit about people. I always feel like... 658 00:46:47,267 --> 00:46:49,668 the general of an army when I start dating. 659 00:46:49,871 --> 00:46:51,963 Plotting my strategy and maneuverings... 660 00:46:52,173 --> 00:46:55,701 knowing his weak points, what would hurt him, seduce him. 661 00:46:56,010 --> 00:46:57,442 It's horrible. 662 00:47:01,748 --> 00:47:03,511 If we were always around each other... 663 00:47:03,718 --> 00:47:07,518 what would be the first thing about me that would drive you mad? 664 00:47:08,255 --> 00:47:11,223 No. I'm not going to answer this question. 665 00:47:11,425 --> 00:47:14,518 I dated this girl once who used to always ask me that. 666 00:47:14,728 --> 00:47:16,321 "What about me bugs you?" 667 00:47:16,530 --> 00:47:20,227 Finally I said, "I don't think you handle criticism too well." 668 00:47:20,434 --> 00:47:23,527 She flew into a rage and broke up with me. That's true. 669 00:47:23,737 --> 00:47:25,864 All she wanted was to have an excuse... 670 00:47:26,073 --> 00:47:28,768 to tell me what she thought was wrong with me. 671 00:47:28,974 --> 00:47:30,203 Is that what you want? 672 00:47:30,410 --> 00:47:32,139 Something about me bugs you? 673 00:47:32,647 --> 00:47:35,547 - What is it about me bugs you? - Nothing at all. 674 00:47:35,749 --> 00:47:38,217 If it had to be something, what would it be? 675 00:47:38,585 --> 00:47:42,077 If it had to be something, if I had to think about it... 676 00:47:42,289 --> 00:47:45,884 I kind of didn't really like this reaction at the palm reader. 677 00:47:46,092 --> 00:47:48,457 You were like this rooster prick. 678 00:47:48,661 --> 00:47:50,526 What the hell is a rooster prick? 679 00:47:50,731 --> 00:47:52,220 You were like a boy whining... 680 00:47:52,432 --> 00:47:55,093 because all the attention wasn't focused on him. 681 00:47:55,302 --> 00:47:58,396 All right, listen. This woman robs you blind, okay? 682 00:47:58,604 --> 00:48:00,937 You were like a boy walking by an ice-cream store... 683 00:48:01,140 --> 00:48:03,904 crying because his mom won't buy him a milk shake. 684 00:48:04,109 --> 00:48:07,169 I don't care what this charlatan has to say about... 685 00:48:09,382 --> 00:48:10,532 What? 686 00:48:13,420 --> 00:48:15,853 I understand a little, but he doesn't at all. 687 00:48:19,859 --> 00:48:21,415 May I ask you a question? 688 00:48:23,763 --> 00:48:26,663 So I would like to make a deal with you. 689 00:48:28,566 --> 00:48:32,765 I mean, instead of just asking you for money, I will ask you for a word. 690 00:48:33,272 --> 00:48:37,572 You give me a word, I take the word, and then I will write a poem... 691 00:48:37,810 --> 00:48:39,277 with the word inside. 692 00:48:40,512 --> 00:48:42,980 And if you like it, if you like my poem... 693 00:48:43,381 --> 00:48:45,942 if it adds something to your life in any way... 694 00:48:46,151 --> 00:48:48,778 then you can pay me whatever you feel like. 695 00:48:49,455 --> 00:48:51,445 I'll write in English, of course. 696 00:48:52,690 --> 00:48:54,385 - Okay. - All right. Great. 697 00:48:56,961 --> 00:48:58,111 So? 698 00:49:00,198 --> 00:49:01,461 Pick a word. 699 00:49:03,334 --> 00:49:04,484 A word. 700 00:49:05,969 --> 00:49:08,234 - Milk shake. - Milk shake? Oh, good. 701 00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:11,340 I was gonna say "rooster prick." But great. Milk shake. 702 00:49:11,543 --> 00:49:12,975 "Milk shake"? 703 00:49:13,511 --> 00:49:15,308 Okay, milk shake. 704 00:49:15,979 --> 00:49:17,972 - All right, so... - Good. 705 00:49:29,027 --> 00:49:33,259 I gotta say, I like this Viennese variation of bum. 706 00:49:33,465 --> 00:49:36,557 I like what he said about adding something to your life. 707 00:49:36,768 --> 00:49:40,568 So, were we having our first fight back there? 708 00:49:42,006 --> 00:49:44,099 I think so. I think we were. 709 00:49:44,341 --> 00:49:47,903 Even if we were, why does everyone think conflict is so bad? 710 00:49:48,112 --> 00:49:50,945 There's a lot of good things coming out of conflict. 711 00:49:51,148 --> 00:49:52,877 Yeah, I guess so. 712 00:49:53,283 --> 00:49:56,515 I always think if I could just accept the fact... 713 00:49:56,720 --> 00:50:00,656 that my life was supposed to be difficult, that's what's expected... 714 00:50:00,858 --> 00:50:02,689 then I might not get so pissed off. 715 00:50:02,893 --> 00:50:05,692 And I'd just be glad when something nice happens. 716 00:50:05,929 --> 00:50:07,396 That's why I'm still in school. 717 00:50:07,597 --> 00:50:10,088 It's easier to have something to fight against. 718 00:50:10,300 --> 00:50:14,031 Well, we've all had such competitiveness ingrained in us. 719 00:50:14,471 --> 00:50:17,599 You know, I can be doing the most nothing thing. 720 00:50:17,808 --> 00:50:20,140 Throwing some darts or shooting some pool. 721 00:50:20,343 --> 00:50:23,176 Then all of a sudden, I feel it come over me. 722 00:50:23,379 --> 00:50:25,609 I have got to win. 723 00:50:25,816 --> 00:50:29,275 Is that why you tried to get me off the train? Competitiveness? 724 00:50:29,485 --> 00:50:30,817 What do you mean? 725 00:50:32,723 --> 00:50:33,917 I got a poem. 726 00:50:34,291 --> 00:50:35,848 Oh, all right. 727 00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,222 Will you read it to us? 728 00:50:42,865 --> 00:50:44,265 Sure. Okay. 729 00:50:48,304 --> 00:50:50,238 "Daydream delusion 730 00:50:50,706 --> 00:50:52,674 "Limousine eyelash 731 00:50:53,609 --> 00:50:55,907 "Oh, baby, with your pretty face 732 00:50:57,214 --> 00:51:01,150 "Drop a tear in my wine glass Look at those big eyes 733 00:51:01,417 --> 00:51:03,544 "See what you mean to me 734 00:51:03,886 --> 00:51:06,752 "Sweetcakes and milk shakes 735 00:51:07,056 --> 00:51:09,218 "I am a delusion angel 736 00:51:09,859 --> 00:51:11,952 "I'm a fantasy parade 737 00:51:12,460 --> 00:51:16,396 "I want you to know what I think Don't want you to guess anymore 738 00:51:16,599 --> 00:51:18,999 "You have no idea where I came from 739 00:51:19,367 --> 00:51:21,268 "We have no idea where we're going 740 00:51:21,604 --> 00:51:23,333 "Lodged in life 741 00:51:23,538 --> 00:51:25,097 "Like branches in the river 742 00:51:25,307 --> 00:51:28,242 "Flowing downstream Caught in the current 743 00:51:28,476 --> 00:51:29,999 "I carry you 744 00:51:30,279 --> 00:51:31,768 "You'll carry me 745 00:51:32,515 --> 00:51:34,210 "That's how it could be 746 00:51:35,417 --> 00:51:37,078 "Don't you know me? 747 00:51:38,053 --> 00:51:39,883 "Don't you know me by now?" 748 00:51:41,122 --> 00:51:42,316 Great. 749 00:51:42,991 --> 00:51:45,221 - Thanks. - Thanks, man. 750 00:51:48,831 --> 00:51:50,058 Here you go. 751 00:51:51,867 --> 00:51:53,562 - Thanks. - All right. 752 00:51:53,768 --> 00:51:55,963 - Here. Thank you. - Thank you. 753 00:51:56,172 --> 00:51:57,322 Good luck. 754 00:52:13,355 --> 00:52:15,049 It was wonderful, no? 755 00:52:19,727 --> 00:52:22,389 - What? - He probably didn't just write that. 756 00:52:22,596 --> 00:52:25,259 He wrote it, but he probably plugs that word in. 757 00:52:25,466 --> 00:52:27,729 You know, whatever, "milk shake." 758 00:52:27,936 --> 00:52:29,528 What do you mean? 759 00:52:29,736 --> 00:52:31,932 Nothing. I loved it. It was great. 760 00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:42,205 You know what drives me crazy? People talking about... 761 00:52:42,416 --> 00:52:45,112 how great technology is, how it saves all this time. 762 00:52:45,319 --> 00:52:48,312 But what good is saved time if nobody uses it? 763 00:52:48,522 --> 00:52:50,854 If it just turns into more busy work. 764 00:52:51,058 --> 00:52:55,496 I never hear anybody say, "With the time I've saved using my word processor... 765 00:52:55,696 --> 00:52:58,597 I'm gonna go to a Zen monastery and hang out." 766 00:52:58,966 --> 00:53:01,957 - You don't hear that. - Time is so abstract anyway. 767 00:53:02,202 --> 00:53:04,796 - Are you looking at this girl? - What? 768 00:53:05,004 --> 00:53:06,370 Nothing. 769 00:53:07,007 --> 00:53:08,440 You wanna go in here? 770 00:53:08,642 --> 00:53:12,100 - You wanna go in here? - Yeah. It's a club, no? 771 00:53:14,213 --> 00:53:15,203 Wanna go? 772 00:53:15,415 --> 00:53:16,565 Hello. 773 00:53:18,384 --> 00:53:20,215 Fifty schillings. 774 00:53:20,420 --> 00:53:23,320 - Each. - I got 100. Here, I got it. 775 00:53:24,157 --> 00:53:26,318 I'll buy you a beer. Thank you. 776 00:54:14,307 --> 00:54:16,536 - You gonna buy me a beer? - Yeah. 777 00:54:20,445 --> 00:54:23,142 You think Old Milwaukee is expensive here? 778 00:54:51,043 --> 00:54:54,842 We haven't talked about this yet, but are you dating anyone? 779 00:54:55,046 --> 00:54:59,414 You got a boyfriend waiting on you back in Paris or anything like that? 780 00:54:59,617 --> 00:55:02,414 - No, not right now. - But you did. 781 00:55:03,822 --> 00:55:05,516 We broke up six months ago. 782 00:55:05,724 --> 00:55:08,215 Six months ago? Oh, I'm sorry. 783 00:55:08,426 --> 00:55:11,155 I mean, I'm not that sorry. Tell me about it. 784 00:55:11,362 --> 00:55:15,129 No way. I can't. It's really, really boring. 785 00:55:15,332 --> 00:55:17,301 Come on. Tell me about it. 786 00:55:19,570 --> 00:55:21,333 I was really disappointed. 787 00:55:21,539 --> 00:55:24,565 I thought this one would last for a while. He was... 788 00:55:25,010 --> 00:55:28,844 very stupid, ugly, bad in bed, alcoholic... 789 00:55:29,748 --> 00:55:32,341 - You know. - A real prize winner. 790 00:55:33,484 --> 00:55:35,385 I was kind of giving him a favor. 791 00:55:35,586 --> 00:55:38,350 But he left me, saying I loved him too much. 792 00:55:38,555 --> 00:55:43,288 I was blocking his artistic expression or some shit like that. 793 00:55:44,028 --> 00:55:46,622 But anyway, I was traumatized and became... 794 00:55:47,231 --> 00:55:49,461 And became totally obsessed with him. 795 00:55:49,967 --> 00:55:53,094 So I went to a shrink, and it came up that I had written... 796 00:55:53,303 --> 00:55:57,763 this stupid story about this woman trying to kill her boyfriend... 797 00:55:58,808 --> 00:56:00,105 and how she'd do it. 798 00:56:00,310 --> 00:56:03,643 It's all the details of how to do it and not get caught... 799 00:56:03,847 --> 00:56:05,838 She was gonna kill her boyfriend? 800 00:56:07,851 --> 00:56:12,082 Yeah, she was. It's nothing I would do, but it was just some writing. 801 00:56:12,288 --> 00:56:13,551 No, I understand. 802 00:56:13,757 --> 00:56:16,590 This stupid shrink believed everything I told her. 803 00:56:16,793 --> 00:56:20,490 It was my first time seeing her. She said she had to call the police. 804 00:56:20,696 --> 00:56:22,597 She had to call the police? 805 00:56:24,300 --> 00:56:27,098 She was totally convinced I was really gonna do it. 806 00:56:27,303 --> 00:56:30,239 Even though I had explained it was just some writing. 807 00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,375 She said, looking into my eyes, "The way you said it... 808 00:56:33,576 --> 00:56:35,442 I know you are going to do it." 809 00:56:35,645 --> 00:56:38,205 She was totally out of her mind. 810 00:56:39,015 --> 00:56:41,575 It was my first and last session. 811 00:56:41,784 --> 00:56:43,547 So what happened then? 812 00:56:45,456 --> 00:56:47,514 I totally got over him. 813 00:56:47,957 --> 00:56:49,288 But now, I'm obsessed... 814 00:56:49,491 --> 00:56:53,986 that he's gonna die from an accident or 1000 kilometers away. 815 00:56:54,329 --> 00:56:56,525 And I'm gonna be the one accused. 816 00:56:59,001 --> 00:57:01,765 Why is it you become obsessed with people you don't... 817 00:57:01,970 --> 00:57:03,699 really like that much? 818 00:57:03,906 --> 00:57:05,271 I don't know. 819 00:57:07,709 --> 00:57:08,859 So how about you? 820 00:57:10,646 --> 00:57:12,876 - What? - Are you with anyone? 821 00:57:14,783 --> 00:57:18,549 It's funny how we managed to avoid this subject for so long. 822 00:57:18,753 --> 00:57:20,516 But now you have to tell me. 823 00:57:20,722 --> 00:57:22,917 Well, I kind of see love... 824 00:57:23,125 --> 00:57:27,357 as this escape for two people who don't know how to be alone. 825 00:57:29,164 --> 00:57:31,632 It's funny. People always talk about how... 826 00:57:31,834 --> 00:57:34,631 love is this totally unselfish, giving thing. 827 00:57:34,837 --> 00:57:38,101 But if you think about it, there's nothing more selfish. 828 00:57:38,940 --> 00:57:40,201 I know. 829 00:57:41,042 --> 00:57:42,976 So who just broke up with you? 830 00:57:44,912 --> 00:57:46,074 What? 831 00:57:48,382 --> 00:57:50,681 You sound like you just were hurt. 832 00:57:50,886 --> 00:57:52,182 Do I? 833 00:57:52,454 --> 00:57:53,716 All right. 834 00:57:54,890 --> 00:57:56,323 Big confession. 835 00:57:57,058 --> 00:57:59,652 I should've told you this earlier or something. 836 00:58:00,662 --> 00:58:03,129 I didn't come to Europe just to... 837 00:58:03,330 --> 00:58:06,528 hang out and read Hemingway in Paris and shit like that. 838 00:58:07,268 --> 00:58:10,568 I saved up my money all spring to fly to Madrid... 839 00:58:10,771 --> 00:58:13,331 and spend the summer with my girlfriend... 840 00:58:13,542 --> 00:58:15,271 - Your girlfriend? - My ex-girlfriend... 841 00:58:15,476 --> 00:58:18,809 who has been on this art history program for the last year. 842 00:58:19,013 --> 00:58:22,414 Anyway, I got here. We were reunited at long last... 843 00:58:22,617 --> 00:58:26,746 and we went out to dinner our first night with six of her friends. 844 00:58:26,953 --> 00:58:29,582 Pedro, Antonio, Gonzalo... 845 00:58:29,790 --> 00:58:31,951 Maria, Suzy from home. 846 00:58:32,158 --> 00:58:35,525 She managed to avoid being alone with me for the first few days... 847 00:58:35,729 --> 00:58:40,358 and I stuck around just to let it sink in that she wished I hadn't come. 848 00:58:42,136 --> 00:58:45,901 So I bought the cheapest flight out, this one leaving out of Vienna. 849 00:58:46,106 --> 00:58:49,598 It didn't leave for a couple weeks, so I bought this Eurail pass. 850 00:58:50,277 --> 00:58:54,407 You know what's the worst thing about somebody breaking up with you? 851 00:58:56,316 --> 00:58:59,115 It's when you remember how little you thought about... 852 00:58:59,319 --> 00:59:02,050 the people you broke up with, and you realize... 853 00:59:02,255 --> 00:59:05,885 that that is how little they're thinking about you. 854 00:59:06,092 --> 00:59:08,391 You'd like to think you're both in pain... 855 00:59:08,596 --> 00:59:11,587 but really, they're just, "Hey, I'm glad you're gone." 856 00:59:11,798 --> 00:59:14,232 Believe me, I know. 857 00:59:14,467 --> 00:59:16,458 You should look at bright colors. 858 00:59:18,171 --> 00:59:20,037 That's what the shrink told me. 859 00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:22,834 I was paying her 900 francs an hour... 860 00:59:23,043 --> 00:59:25,341 to hear that I was a homicidal maniac... 861 00:59:25,545 --> 00:59:29,607 but I could shift my obsession if I would concentrate on bright colors. 862 00:59:29,816 --> 00:59:31,078 Did it work? 863 00:59:34,621 --> 00:59:36,679 - Didn't help your pinball. - Well, no. 864 00:59:37,290 --> 00:59:41,090 Yeah, well, you know, I haven't killed anyone lately. 865 00:59:41,293 --> 00:59:42,625 Not lately? 866 00:59:42,929 --> 00:59:44,828 That's good. You're cured then. 867 00:59:51,270 --> 00:59:54,502 There's breeds of monkeys, and all they do is have sex... 868 00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:56,274 all the time. 869 00:59:56,475 --> 00:59:58,705 And they turn out to be the least violent... 870 00:59:58,911 --> 01:00:01,879 the most peaceful, the most happy. 871 01:00:02,081 --> 01:00:04,571 So maybe fooling around's not so bad. 872 01:00:04,783 --> 01:00:07,912 - Are you talking about monkeys? - Yes, I am. 873 01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:09,485 - I thought so. - Why? 874 01:00:09,688 --> 01:00:13,386 I never heard this one. But it reminds me of this perfect... 875 01:00:13,592 --> 01:00:16,027 male argument to justify them fooling around. 876 01:00:16,228 --> 01:00:19,664 Women monkeys are fooling around too. Everybody's fooling around. 877 01:00:21,500 --> 01:00:25,061 That's cute. I have this awful, paranoid thought... 878 01:00:25,270 --> 01:00:28,467 that feminism was mostly invented by men so they could... 879 01:00:28,674 --> 01:00:29,971 fool around more. 880 01:00:30,175 --> 01:00:33,337 "Woman, free your mind, free your body. Sleep with me. 881 01:00:33,544 --> 01:00:38,072 We're all happy and free, as long as I can fuck as much as I can." 882 01:00:38,884 --> 01:00:39,815 All right. 883 01:00:40,018 --> 01:00:43,317 But maybe there's some biological things at work here. 884 01:00:43,522 --> 01:00:45,046 If you had an island... 885 01:00:45,257 --> 01:00:49,887 and there were 99 women on the island and only one man... 886 01:00:50,094 --> 01:00:52,893 in a year, you'd have the possibility of 99 babies. 887 01:00:53,097 --> 01:00:56,396 But if you have an island with 99 men and only one woman... 888 01:00:56,600 --> 01:01:01,264 in a year, you have the possibility of only one baby. So... 889 01:01:01,572 --> 01:01:02,539 You know what? 890 01:01:02,740 --> 01:01:06,904 On this island, I think there will be only, like, maybe 43 men left. 891 01:01:07,111 --> 01:01:11,013 They would've killed each other trying to fuck this poor woman. 892 01:01:11,214 --> 01:01:15,447 And on the other island, there would be 99 women, 99 babies... 893 01:01:15,653 --> 01:01:17,314 and no more man. 894 01:01:17,522 --> 01:01:20,082 Because they would've all eaten him alive. 895 01:01:20,291 --> 01:01:21,691 Oh, yeah? 896 01:01:21,892 --> 01:01:23,621 There's something to that. 897 01:01:23,828 --> 01:01:27,992 On some level, women don't mind the idea of destroying a man. 898 01:01:29,199 --> 01:01:32,067 I was walking down the street with my ex-girlfriend... 899 01:01:32,269 --> 01:01:36,763 and we'd just walked by these four thuggy-looking guys next to a Camaro. 900 01:01:36,974 --> 01:01:40,137 And one of them says, "Hey, baby. Nice ass!" 901 01:01:40,345 --> 01:01:44,007 So I'm like, "No big deal. I won't get uptight about this." 902 01:01:44,215 --> 01:01:45,773 Plus, there were four of them. 903 01:01:45,983 --> 01:01:48,952 Exactly. But she says, "Fuck you, dickheads!" 904 01:01:49,152 --> 01:01:52,350 And I'm like, "Okay. Wait a minute, here." 905 01:01:52,556 --> 01:01:55,116 They're not gonna come over and kick her ass. 906 01:01:55,326 --> 01:01:58,260 So who just got pushed to the frontline on that one? 907 01:01:58,461 --> 01:02:01,430 Women say they hate it if you're all protective. 908 01:02:01,631 --> 01:02:06,000 But if it suits them, then they'll tell you you're being unmanly. 909 01:02:06,202 --> 01:02:10,332 You know what? I don't think woman really wants to destroy man. 910 01:02:11,241 --> 01:02:13,607 Even if they want to, they don't succeed. 911 01:02:13,810 --> 01:02:16,005 I'm sure even men are destroying women... 912 01:02:16,212 --> 01:02:19,272 or are capable of destroying women much more than women... 913 01:02:19,482 --> 01:02:21,780 Anyway, it's depressing. You know what? 914 01:02:21,985 --> 01:02:24,579 - You wanna stop talking about this? - I hate it. 915 01:02:24,788 --> 01:02:26,347 Men, women, it's... 916 01:02:26,555 --> 01:02:29,046 There's no end to it. 917 01:02:29,592 --> 01:02:31,081 It's like a skipping record. 918 01:02:31,293 --> 01:02:34,491 Every couple's been having this conversation forever. 919 01:02:34,697 --> 01:02:36,790 And nobody came up with anything. 920 01:02:53,449 --> 01:02:55,884 I saw a documentary on that. It's a birth dance. 921 01:02:56,084 --> 01:02:57,551 A birth dance? 922 01:03:26,014 --> 01:03:27,675 Should I give her some money? 923 01:03:28,283 --> 01:03:31,184 Everything that's interesting costs a little money. 924 01:03:33,121 --> 01:03:34,712 So a birth dance, huh? 925 01:03:34,923 --> 01:03:37,653 Looked a little bit like a mating dance to me. 926 01:03:37,859 --> 01:03:40,658 No, but really. Women used it when giving birth. 927 01:03:40,862 --> 01:03:43,263 In part of the world, they still do it. 928 01:03:44,500 --> 01:03:46,967 The woman in labor enters a tent... 929 01:03:47,168 --> 01:03:49,761 and the women of her tribe surround her and dance. 930 01:03:49,971 --> 01:03:52,269 They encourage her to dance with them... 931 01:03:52,474 --> 01:03:54,772 so as to make the birth less painful. 932 01:03:54,976 --> 01:03:58,412 And when the baby is born, they all dance in celebration. 933 01:03:59,547 --> 01:04:01,811 I don't think my mom would've gone for that. 934 01:04:02,350 --> 01:04:06,548 I like the idea of dancing as something everybody participates in. 935 01:04:06,755 --> 01:04:09,883 I know. I heard about this old guy... 936 01:04:10,091 --> 01:04:12,217 who was watching some young people dance. 937 01:04:12,426 --> 01:04:13,824 He said, "How beautiful. 938 01:04:14,027 --> 01:04:16,963 They're shaking off their genitals to become angels." 939 01:04:17,164 --> 01:04:18,062 I like that. 940 01:04:18,266 --> 01:04:19,459 One question, though. 941 01:04:19,666 --> 01:04:23,329 When the women are dancing and being all spiritual and stuff... 942 01:04:23,538 --> 01:04:24,688 where are the men? 943 01:04:24,839 --> 01:04:29,138 Are we out food gathering? Are we not invited? You all don't need us? 944 01:04:29,342 --> 01:04:31,641 Men are lucky we don't bite off their heads after mating. 945 01:04:31,846 --> 01:04:34,815 Certain insects do that, like spiders and stuff? 946 01:04:35,015 --> 01:04:37,415 We let you live. What are you complaining about? 947 01:04:37,618 --> 01:04:41,246 See, you're officially kidding. But there's something to that. 948 01:04:41,454 --> 01:04:43,581 You keep bringing stuff like that up. 949 01:04:44,224 --> 01:04:47,626 No, no. Wait a minute. Talking seriously here. 950 01:04:47,827 --> 01:04:50,729 I mean, I always feel this pressure of being... 951 01:04:50,931 --> 01:04:53,559 a strong and independent icon of womanhood... 952 01:04:53,767 --> 01:04:55,792 and not making it look like... 953 01:04:56,002 --> 01:04:59,095 my whole life is revolving around some guy. 954 01:05:00,673 --> 01:05:02,005 But loving someone... 955 01:05:02,208 --> 01:05:05,644 and being loved means so much to me. 956 01:05:06,313 --> 01:05:08,645 I always make fun of it and stuff... 957 01:05:09,650 --> 01:05:11,674 but isn't everything we do in life... 958 01:05:11,884 --> 01:05:14,752 a way to be loved a little more? 959 01:05:19,125 --> 01:05:20,422 I don't know. 960 01:05:20,860 --> 01:05:22,794 Sometimes I dream... 961 01:05:22,996 --> 01:05:26,022 about being a good father and a good husband. 962 01:05:26,232 --> 01:05:28,699 And sometimes it feels really close. 963 01:05:29,368 --> 01:05:31,268 But then other times... 964 01:05:32,339 --> 01:05:34,363 it seems silly... 965 01:05:34,574 --> 01:05:36,040 like it would... 966 01:05:36,408 --> 01:05:38,205 ruin my whole life. 967 01:05:38,878 --> 01:05:42,040 And it's not just a fear of commitment... 968 01:05:42,248 --> 01:05:45,375 or that I'm incapable of caring or loving because... 969 01:05:45,585 --> 01:05:46,812 I can. 970 01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:51,849 It's just that, if I'm totally honest with myself... 971 01:05:52,124 --> 01:05:53,786 I think I'd rather die knowing... 972 01:05:53,993 --> 01:05:56,518 that I was really good at something. 973 01:05:56,729 --> 01:05:59,561 That I had excelled in some way... 974 01:05:59,798 --> 01:06:01,699 than that I'd just been in... 975 01:06:01,900 --> 01:06:05,198 a nice, caring relationship. 976 01:06:11,409 --> 01:06:14,811 I had worked for this older man, and once he told me... 977 01:06:15,014 --> 01:06:18,677 that he had spent all of his life thinking about his career. 978 01:06:18,885 --> 01:06:21,182 He was 52, and it suddenly struck him... 979 01:06:21,820 --> 01:06:25,050 that he had never really given anything of himself. 980 01:06:25,390 --> 01:06:27,825 His life was for no one and nothing. 981 01:06:29,128 --> 01:06:31,459 He was almost crying saying that. 982 01:06:34,465 --> 01:06:36,934 I believe if there's any kind of God... 983 01:06:37,135 --> 01:06:39,126 it wouldn't be in any of us... 984 01:06:39,437 --> 01:06:41,337 not you or me... 985 01:06:42,107 --> 01:06:45,234 but just this little space in between. 986 01:06:47,711 --> 01:06:50,272 If there's any kind of magic in this world... 987 01:06:50,481 --> 01:06:54,884 it must be in the attempt of understanding someone sharing something. 988 01:06:57,155 --> 01:07:00,454 I know, it's almost impossible to succeed... 989 01:07:01,292 --> 01:07:03,021 but who cares really? 990 01:07:04,128 --> 01:07:06,562 The answer must be in the attempt. 991 01:08:15,030 --> 01:08:18,797 I think this is a civilization in decline. Look at the service. 992 01:08:19,002 --> 01:08:22,437 Where is the waitress? In New York, she'd be out of a job. 993 01:08:31,547 --> 01:08:33,708 I'm gonna call my friend in Paris... 994 01:08:33,883 --> 01:08:37,011 who I'm supposed to have lunch with in eight hours. 995 01:08:45,227 --> 01:08:46,455 Pick up. 996 01:08:46,663 --> 01:08:48,596 - Pick up the phone. - All right. 997 01:09:01,644 --> 01:09:05,546 I've been working on my English. You wanna talk in English, for laughs? 998 01:09:05,981 --> 01:09:08,380 Yeah, okay. That's a good idea. 999 01:09:10,118 --> 01:09:13,610 I don't think I'll be able to make it for lunch today. 1000 01:09:15,256 --> 01:09:19,022 I met a guy on the train, and I got off with him in Vienna. 1001 01:09:19,261 --> 01:09:21,251 Are you crazy? 1002 01:09:22,297 --> 01:09:23,696 Probably. 1003 01:09:24,166 --> 01:09:27,191 - He's Austrian? He's from there? - No, No. 1004 01:09:27,402 --> 01:09:31,099 He's passing through. He's American. He's going back home tomorrow. 1005 01:09:31,306 --> 01:09:32,671 Why'd you get off? 1006 01:09:33,875 --> 01:09:36,309 Well, he convinced me. 1007 01:09:37,245 --> 01:09:41,011 I mean, actually, I was ready to get off the train with him... 1008 01:09:41,216 --> 01:09:43,184 after talking to him a short while. 1009 01:09:43,384 --> 01:09:45,409 He was so sweet, I couldn't help it. 1010 01:09:46,821 --> 01:09:49,254 In the lounge car, he began to talk about... 1011 01:09:49,458 --> 01:09:52,550 him as a boy seeing his great-grandmother's ghost. 1012 01:09:53,928 --> 01:09:56,158 I think that's when I fell for him. 1013 01:09:57,265 --> 01:10:01,100 Just the idea of this little boy with all those beautiful dreams. 1014 01:10:02,570 --> 01:10:04,196 He trapped me. 1015 01:10:07,408 --> 01:10:09,102 And he's so cute. 1016 01:10:09,309 --> 01:10:11,470 He has beautiful blue eyes... 1017 01:10:11,679 --> 01:10:13,669 nice pink lips... 1018 01:10:14,514 --> 01:10:16,106 greasy hair. 1019 01:10:16,817 --> 01:10:18,408 I love it. 1020 01:10:18,785 --> 01:10:21,618 He's kind of tall, and he's a little clumsy. 1021 01:10:23,290 --> 01:10:25,724 I like to feel his eyes on me when I look away. 1022 01:10:30,430 --> 01:10:33,524 He kind of kisses like an adolescent. It's so cute. 1023 01:10:33,734 --> 01:10:37,294 - What? - Yeah, we kissed. It was so adorable. 1024 01:10:38,238 --> 01:10:41,331 As the night went on, I began to like him more and more. 1025 01:10:43,176 --> 01:10:44,803 I'm afraid he's scared of me. 1026 01:10:45,011 --> 01:10:48,970 I told him the story about the woman that kills her ex-boyfriend. 1027 01:10:49,482 --> 01:10:50,950 He must be scared to death. 1028 01:10:51,151 --> 01:10:54,416 He must be thinking I'm this manipulative, mean woman. 1029 01:10:56,689 --> 01:10:59,181 I just hope he doesn't feel that way about me. 1030 01:10:59,392 --> 01:11:02,362 Because, you know me, I'm the most harmless person. 1031 01:11:03,864 --> 01:11:06,764 The only person I could really hurt is myself. 1032 01:11:07,668 --> 01:11:09,567 I don't think he's scared of you. 1033 01:11:09,769 --> 01:11:11,601 I think he's crazy about you. 1034 01:11:12,238 --> 01:11:14,331 - Really? - I've known you a long time. 1035 01:11:14,541 --> 01:11:17,009 I got a good feeling. You gonna see him again? 1036 01:11:19,779 --> 01:11:22,213 We haven't talked about that yet. 1037 01:11:26,886 --> 01:11:29,583 Okay, it's your turn. You call your friend. 1038 01:11:29,789 --> 01:11:31,689 All right, all right. 1039 01:11:35,093 --> 01:11:37,619 I usually get this guy's answering machine. 1040 01:11:40,333 --> 01:11:41,960 Hi, dude. What's up? 1041 01:11:43,902 --> 01:11:46,735 Hey, Frank. How you been? I'm glad you're home. 1042 01:11:46,939 --> 01:11:48,371 Cool. Yeah. 1043 01:11:48,574 --> 01:11:50,131 So how was Madrid? 1044 01:11:50,809 --> 01:11:52,902 Madrid sucked. 1045 01:11:53,579 --> 01:11:56,241 Lisa and I had our long overdue meltdown. 1046 01:11:56,781 --> 01:11:58,682 Too bad. I told you, no? 1047 01:11:58,884 --> 01:12:02,046 Yeah, yeah. The long-distance thing just never works. 1048 01:12:02,254 --> 01:12:04,278 I was only in Madrid for a couple days. 1049 01:12:04,490 --> 01:12:07,151 I got a cheaper flight out of Vienna. 1050 01:12:09,161 --> 01:12:12,391 You know, it really wasn't that much cheaper. I just... 1051 01:12:12,598 --> 01:12:16,829 I couldn't go home right away. I didn't want to see anybody I knew. 1052 01:12:17,034 --> 01:12:19,800 I just wanted to be a ghost, completely anonymous. 1053 01:12:21,473 --> 01:12:22,804 So are you okay now? 1054 01:12:23,008 --> 01:12:26,034 Yeah. I'm great. I'm great. That's the thing. 1055 01:12:26,644 --> 01:12:27,794 I'm rapturous. 1056 01:12:28,312 --> 01:12:29,803 And I'll tell you why. 1057 01:12:30,015 --> 01:12:32,916 I met somebody on my last night in Europe. 1058 01:12:33,118 --> 01:12:35,815 - That's incredible. - I know, I know. 1059 01:12:36,021 --> 01:12:39,387 You know how they say we're all each other's demons and angels? 1060 01:12:40,424 --> 01:12:43,791 Well, she was literally a Botticelli angel... 1061 01:12:44,595 --> 01:12:46,621 telling me everything would be okay. 1062 01:12:49,634 --> 01:12:50,794 How did you meet? 1063 01:12:52,403 --> 01:12:53,871 On the train. 1064 01:12:54,339 --> 01:12:57,501 She was sitting next to a weird couple that was fighting... 1065 01:12:57,708 --> 01:13:00,871 so she moved. She sat right across the aisle from me. 1066 01:13:01,078 --> 01:13:03,012 So we started to talk. 1067 01:13:03,214 --> 01:13:05,409 She didn't like me much at first. 1068 01:13:05,616 --> 01:13:06,777 She's super smart... 1069 01:13:07,451 --> 01:13:09,682 very passionate... 1070 01:13:10,254 --> 01:13:11,448 and beautiful. 1071 01:13:12,990 --> 01:13:15,480 And I was so unsure of myself. 1072 01:13:15,793 --> 01:13:18,523 I thought everything I said sounded so stupid. 1073 01:13:20,397 --> 01:13:23,423 Oh, man. I wouldn't worry about that. 1074 01:13:24,034 --> 01:13:26,297 No, I'm sure she was not judging you. 1075 01:13:26,804 --> 01:13:29,102 No, and by the way, she sat next to you. 1076 01:13:29,306 --> 01:13:31,034 I'm sure she did it on purpose. 1077 01:13:31,241 --> 01:13:32,572 Oh, yeah? 1078 01:13:36,346 --> 01:13:40,146 Us men are so stupid. We don't understand anything about women. 1079 01:13:41,418 --> 01:13:43,909 They act strange, the little I know of them. 1080 01:13:44,521 --> 01:13:45,818 Don't they? 1081 01:13:52,861 --> 01:13:56,764 I feel like this is some dream world we're in. 1082 01:13:56,967 --> 01:13:58,558 Yeah, it's so weird. 1083 01:13:58,968 --> 01:14:01,164 It's like our time together is just ours. 1084 01:14:01,371 --> 01:14:03,201 It's our own creation. 1085 01:14:03,940 --> 01:14:06,966 It must be like I'm in your dream and you're in mine. 1086 01:14:07,844 --> 01:14:11,143 And what's so cool is that this whole evening... 1087 01:14:11,347 --> 01:14:14,839 all our time together, shouldn't officially be happening. 1088 01:14:15,051 --> 01:14:18,509 Yeah, I know. Maybe that's why this feels so otherworldly. 1089 01:14:20,623 --> 01:14:24,218 But then the morning comes and we turn into pumpkins, right? 1090 01:14:24,961 --> 01:14:26,393 I know. 1091 01:14:27,531 --> 01:14:30,327 But now, you're supposed to produce the glass slipper... 1092 01:14:30,532 --> 01:14:32,125 and see if it fits. 1093 01:14:35,271 --> 01:14:36,636 It'll fit. 1094 01:14:55,158 --> 01:14:56,853 This friend of mine had a kid... 1095 01:14:57,058 --> 01:15:00,289 and it was a home birth, so he was there helping out. 1096 01:15:00,495 --> 01:15:03,293 But he said at that profound moment of birth... 1097 01:15:04,766 --> 01:15:08,532 he was watching his child experiencing life for the first time... 1098 01:15:08,737 --> 01:15:10,671 trying to take its first breath. 1099 01:15:10,872 --> 01:15:14,399 All he could think about was that he was looking at something... 1100 01:15:14,609 --> 01:15:16,635 that was gonna die someday. 1101 01:15:16,978 --> 01:15:19,071 He couldn't get it out of his head. 1102 01:15:19,814 --> 01:15:23,409 And I think that's so true. Everything is so finite. 1103 01:15:23,685 --> 01:15:26,449 But don't you think that's what... 1104 01:15:26,654 --> 01:15:29,987 makes our time and specific moments so important? 1105 01:15:30,192 --> 01:15:31,056 Yeah, I know. 1106 01:15:31,426 --> 01:15:33,586 It's the same for us tonight, though. 1107 01:15:36,564 --> 01:15:40,228 After tomorrow, we'll probably never see each other again, right? 1108 01:15:42,170 --> 01:15:44,365 You don't think we'll ever see each other? 1109 01:15:47,041 --> 01:15:48,303 What do you think? 1110 01:15:54,648 --> 01:15:56,172 Actually, I don't know. 1111 01:15:57,251 --> 01:15:58,479 I hadn't planned another... 1112 01:15:58,686 --> 01:16:02,247 Me too. I live in Paris, you live in the U.S. I understand. 1113 01:16:02,456 --> 01:16:05,221 I'd hate to make you fly. You'd hate to fly, right? 1114 01:16:05,593 --> 01:16:07,653 I'm not so scared of flying. 1115 01:16:08,529 --> 01:16:09,752 I mean, I could. 1116 01:16:09,763 --> 01:16:11,458 Well, if you were gonna... 1117 01:16:11,732 --> 01:16:13,256 come to the U.S... 1118 01:16:13,500 --> 01:16:14,899 or if, you know, if I... 1119 01:16:15,103 --> 01:16:17,536 I mean, I could come back here. 1120 01:16:18,605 --> 01:16:19,766 What? 1121 01:16:20,608 --> 01:16:23,838 No, let's just be rational adults about this. 1122 01:16:26,779 --> 01:16:28,474 We should try something different. 1123 01:16:28,682 --> 01:16:31,912 It's not so bad if tonight is our only night, right? 1124 01:16:33,219 --> 01:16:35,120 People exchange numbers, addresses. 1125 01:16:35,321 --> 01:16:38,155 They end up writing once, calling each other twice. 1126 01:16:38,358 --> 01:16:40,121 Right. Fizzles out. 1127 01:16:40,427 --> 01:16:42,918 Yeah, I don't want that. I hate that. 1128 01:16:43,929 --> 01:16:45,523 I hate that too. 1129 01:16:46,132 --> 01:16:49,432 Why does everybody think relationships should last forever? 1130 01:16:49,670 --> 01:16:51,762 Yeah, why? It's stupid. 1131 01:16:53,573 --> 01:16:56,167 But you think tonight's it? 1132 01:16:56,442 --> 01:16:59,934 I mean, that tonight's our only night? 1133 01:17:01,948 --> 01:17:04,007 It's the only way, no? 1134 01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:08,451 Well, all right. 1135 01:17:09,989 --> 01:17:11,250 Let's do it. 1136 01:17:11,590 --> 01:17:13,923 No delusions, no projections. 1137 01:17:15,327 --> 01:17:17,319 We'll just make tonight great. 1138 01:17:20,032 --> 01:17:21,227 Let's do that. 1139 01:17:38,718 --> 01:17:40,948 We should do some kind of handshake. 1140 01:17:41,420 --> 01:17:42,683 Give me your hand. 1141 01:17:46,158 --> 01:17:49,094 To our one and only... 1142 01:17:49,928 --> 01:17:51,418 night together... 1143 01:17:52,164 --> 01:17:54,724 and the hours that remain. 1144 01:18:03,342 --> 01:18:04,492 What? 1145 01:18:07,179 --> 01:18:08,476 It's just... 1146 01:18:08,847 --> 01:18:10,644 It's depressing, no? 1147 01:18:11,649 --> 01:18:14,414 Now, the only thing we're gonna think of is... 1148 01:18:14,618 --> 01:18:16,552 when we'll have to say goodbye. 1149 01:18:17,355 --> 01:18:20,348 We could say goodbye now. Then we won't worry about it. 1150 01:18:20,759 --> 01:18:21,909 Now? 1151 01:18:22,694 --> 01:18:23,853 Say goodbye. 1152 01:18:24,062 --> 01:18:25,552 - Bye. - Goodbye. 1153 01:18:27,132 --> 01:18:28,099 Au revoir. 1154 01:18:28,299 --> 01:18:30,063 - Later. - Later, yeah. 1155 01:19:00,398 --> 01:19:01,548 Here's the plan. 1156 01:19:01,665 --> 01:19:04,963 You're gonna grab the glasses, and I'm gonna get the wine. 1157 01:19:05,469 --> 01:19:07,163 - Red wine. - Red wine. Right. 1158 01:19:07,371 --> 01:19:10,498 - You think you can do that? - No problem. 1159 01:19:15,311 --> 01:19:17,576 - Wish me luck. - Good luck. 1160 01:19:19,517 --> 01:19:20,667 Hello. 1161 01:19:25,155 --> 01:19:26,452 Do you speak English? 1162 01:19:26,657 --> 01:19:28,715 - A bit. - Yeah? A bit? 1163 01:19:28,926 --> 01:19:31,554 I'm having kind of an odd situation... 1164 01:19:31,761 --> 01:19:33,558 which is that... 1165 01:19:33,897 --> 01:19:35,832 You see that girl over there? 1166 01:19:40,236 --> 01:19:42,705 Well, this is our only night together... 1167 01:19:43,373 --> 01:19:44,897 and she... 1168 01:19:46,976 --> 01:19:50,275 The problem is that she wants a bottle of red wine... 1169 01:19:50,480 --> 01:19:52,640 and I don't have any money. 1170 01:19:55,051 --> 01:19:57,519 But I was thinking that you might want to... 1171 01:19:58,555 --> 01:20:02,115 give me the address of this bar, and I would promise... 1172 01:20:02,524 --> 01:20:05,961 to send you the money, and you'd be making our night complete. 1173 01:20:06,162 --> 01:20:08,095 You would send me the money? 1174 01:20:14,203 --> 01:20:15,465 Your hand? 1175 01:20:31,654 --> 01:20:34,019 For the greatest night in your life. 1176 01:20:34,223 --> 01:20:35,919 Thank you very much. 1177 01:20:59,615 --> 01:21:03,210 So often I've been with people and shared beautiful moments... 1178 01:21:03,418 --> 01:21:07,478 like traveling or staying up all night and watching the sunrise. 1179 01:21:08,356 --> 01:21:10,916 And I knew those were special moments. 1180 01:21:11,526 --> 01:21:13,757 But something was always wrong. 1181 01:21:14,896 --> 01:21:17,127 I wished I'd been with someone else. 1182 01:21:18,900 --> 01:21:21,062 I knew that what I was feeling... 1183 01:21:21,269 --> 01:21:25,331 exactly what was so important to me, they didn't understand. 1184 01:21:30,011 --> 01:21:32,002 But I'm happy to be with you. 1185 01:21:34,749 --> 01:21:37,216 You couldn't know why a night like this... 1186 01:21:37,419 --> 01:21:39,909 is so important to my life right now... 1187 01:21:40,120 --> 01:21:41,520 but it is. 1188 01:21:44,625 --> 01:21:46,592 This is a great morning. 1189 01:21:47,161 --> 01:21:48,924 It is a great morning. 1190 01:21:51,233 --> 01:21:53,530 Do you think we have others like this? 1191 01:21:56,503 --> 01:21:59,632 What about our rational, adult decision? 1192 01:21:59,840 --> 01:22:01,501 Oh, yeah. 1193 01:22:05,879 --> 01:22:09,111 I know what you mean about wishing somebody wasn't there. 1194 01:22:10,150 --> 01:22:12,085 It's just, usually, it's myself... 1195 01:22:12,286 --> 01:22:14,446 that I wish I could get away from. 1196 01:22:15,089 --> 01:22:16,989 Seriously, think about this. 1197 01:22:17,490 --> 01:22:19,720 I have never been anywhere... 1198 01:22:19,927 --> 01:22:21,621 that I haven't been. 1199 01:22:22,162 --> 01:22:24,494 I've never had a kiss... 1200 01:22:24,698 --> 01:22:26,723 when I wasn't one of the kissers. 1201 01:22:26,934 --> 01:22:28,798 You know, I've never... 1202 01:22:29,003 --> 01:22:32,233 gone to the movies when I wasn't there in the audience. 1203 01:22:32,439 --> 01:22:35,034 I've never been out bowling if I wasn't there... 1204 01:22:35,241 --> 01:22:36,799 making some stupid joke. 1205 01:22:37,010 --> 01:22:39,910 That's why so many people hate themselves. Seriously. 1206 01:22:40,113 --> 01:22:42,240 It's just, they are sick to death... 1207 01:22:42,448 --> 01:22:44,713 of being around themselves. 1208 01:22:45,485 --> 01:22:49,182 Let's say that you and I were together all the time. 1209 01:22:49,389 --> 01:22:51,619 You'd start to hate a lot of my mannerisms. 1210 01:22:52,225 --> 01:22:53,556 The way... 1211 01:22:53,760 --> 01:22:56,991 the way every time that we would have people over... 1212 01:22:57,597 --> 01:23:00,828 I'd be insecure, and I'd get a little too drunk. 1213 01:23:01,635 --> 01:23:05,400 Or the way I tell the same stupid, pseudo-intellectual story... 1214 01:23:05,605 --> 01:23:07,367 again and again. 1215 01:23:09,108 --> 01:23:11,269 You see, I've heard all those stories... 1216 01:23:11,544 --> 01:23:14,172 so of course I'm sick of myself. 1217 01:23:18,318 --> 01:23:19,808 But being with you... 1218 01:23:22,054 --> 01:23:24,716 it's made me feel like I was somebody else. 1219 01:23:26,325 --> 01:23:30,421 I mean, the only other way to lose yourself like that is... 1220 01:23:31,296 --> 01:23:33,527 you know, dancing... 1221 01:23:33,899 --> 01:23:35,833 or alcohol... 1222 01:23:36,468 --> 01:23:39,334 or drugs, or stuff like that. 1223 01:23:41,873 --> 01:23:43,135 Fucking. 1224 01:23:44,375 --> 01:23:47,538 Fucking, yeah. That's one way. 1225 01:24:01,893 --> 01:24:03,656 Do you know what I want? 1226 01:24:04,863 --> 01:24:06,160 What? 1227 01:24:09,500 --> 01:24:11,092 To be kissed. 1228 01:24:14,405 --> 01:24:16,033 Well, I could do that. 1229 01:24:30,021 --> 01:24:31,171 Wait. 1230 01:24:35,460 --> 01:24:37,325 I have to say something stupid. 1231 01:24:38,963 --> 01:24:40,113 All right. 1232 01:24:41,466 --> 01:24:43,093 It's very stupid. 1233 01:24:46,236 --> 01:24:48,397 I don't think we should sleep together. 1234 01:24:50,741 --> 01:24:55,202 I want to, but since we're never going to see each other again... 1235 01:24:55,413 --> 01:24:57,312 it'll make me feel bad. 1236 01:24:58,215 --> 01:25:00,945 I'll wonder who else you're with. I'll miss you. 1237 01:25:06,357 --> 01:25:08,824 I know. It's not very adult. 1238 01:25:09,025 --> 01:25:11,893 Maybe it's a female thing. I can't help it. 1239 01:25:12,430 --> 01:25:14,260 Let's see each other again. 1240 01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:20,993 No, I don't want you to break our vow just so you can get laid. 1241 01:25:21,538 --> 01:25:25,474 I don't want to just get laid. I want to... I mean... 1242 01:25:25,942 --> 01:25:28,103 I mean, I think we should. 1243 01:25:29,211 --> 01:25:31,372 We die in the morning, right? 1244 01:25:32,782 --> 01:25:35,717 - I think we should. - Then it's like some male fantasy. 1245 01:25:35,919 --> 01:25:39,116 Meet a French girl, fuck her and never see her again. 1246 01:25:39,322 --> 01:25:42,917 And have this great story to tell. I don't want... 1247 01:25:43,126 --> 01:25:45,856 this great evening to just have been for that. 1248 01:25:46,696 --> 01:25:50,223 Okay, we don't have to have sex. It's not a big deal. 1249 01:26:01,110 --> 01:26:03,078 You don't want to see me again? 1250 01:26:04,513 --> 01:26:05,775 No, of course I do. 1251 01:26:05,981 --> 01:26:08,575 If somebody gave me the choice right now... 1252 01:26:08,784 --> 01:26:11,686 of to never see you again or to marry you... 1253 01:26:11,921 --> 01:26:13,071 I would marry you. 1254 01:26:13,222 --> 01:26:15,383 Maybe that's a lot of romantic bullshit... 1255 01:26:15,592 --> 01:26:18,320 but people have gotten married for a lot less. 1256 01:26:21,764 --> 01:26:22,914 Actually... 1257 01:26:24,601 --> 01:26:29,334 I think I decided I wanted to sleep with you when we got off the train. 1258 01:26:32,975 --> 01:26:35,876 Now that we've talked so much, I don't know anymore. 1259 01:26:46,722 --> 01:26:49,053 Why do we make everything so complicated? 1260 01:26:49,258 --> 01:26:50,748 I don't know. 1261 01:27:52,552 --> 01:27:56,283 What's the first thing you'll do when you get back to Paris? 1262 01:27:56,757 --> 01:27:58,315 Call my parents. 1263 01:27:58,558 --> 01:27:59,923 What about you? 1264 01:28:00,260 --> 01:28:04,390 I don't know. I'll probably go pick up my dog. He's with a friend. 1265 01:28:04,598 --> 01:28:06,031 You have a dog? I love dogs. 1266 01:28:06,233 --> 01:28:07,859 - You do? - Yeah. 1267 01:28:08,201 --> 01:28:10,101 - Oh, shit. - What? 1268 01:28:11,139 --> 01:28:13,698 I don't know. We're back in real time. 1269 01:28:14,107 --> 01:28:15,801 I know. I hate that. 1270 01:28:16,142 --> 01:28:17,440 What is that? 1271 01:28:19,512 --> 01:28:21,538 Sounds like a harpsichord. 1272 01:28:22,014 --> 01:28:23,642 Check that out. 1273 01:28:24,017 --> 01:28:25,814 Somebody's playing. 1274 01:28:32,591 --> 01:28:33,741 That's cool. 1275 01:28:52,211 --> 01:28:54,476 Can we dance to the harpsichord? 1276 01:28:54,680 --> 01:28:56,045 Of course. 1277 01:28:59,986 --> 01:29:01,136 Oh, wow. 1278 01:29:05,324 --> 01:29:06,985 I'm gonna take your picture... 1279 01:29:08,260 --> 01:29:10,251 so I never forget you... 1280 01:29:12,565 --> 01:29:13,827 or all this. 1281 01:29:14,600 --> 01:29:16,227 Okay, me too. 1282 01:30:14,626 --> 01:30:18,083 "The years shall run like rabbits." 1283 01:30:20,633 --> 01:30:21,783 What? 1284 01:30:23,835 --> 01:30:25,165 Nothing. 1285 01:30:27,072 --> 01:30:28,833 I have... 1286 01:30:29,339 --> 01:30:31,500 this recording of Dylan Thomas... 1287 01:30:31,776 --> 01:30:33,767 reading a W.H. Auden poem. 1288 01:30:33,977 --> 01:30:36,639 He's got a great voice. 1289 01:30:38,583 --> 01:30:39,777 It's like... 1290 01:30:41,119 --> 01:30:43,314 "All the clocks in the city 1291 01:30:43,520 --> 01:30:46,319 Began to whirr and chime: 1292 01:30:46,556 --> 01:30:49,047 "O let not Time deceive you 1293 01:30:49,259 --> 01:30:51,853 "You cannot conquer Time. 1294 01:30:52,196 --> 01:30:54,289 "In headaches and in worry 1295 01:30:54,630 --> 01:30:57,532 "Vaguely life leaks away 1296 01:30:57,733 --> 01:30:59,963 "And Time will have his fancy 1297 01:31:00,170 --> 01:31:02,763 "Tomorrow or today." 1298 01:31:03,340 --> 01:31:04,966 Something like that. 1299 01:31:05,942 --> 01:31:07,136 That's good. 1300 01:31:14,751 --> 01:31:18,619 When you talked earlier about after a few years... 1301 01:31:18,821 --> 01:31:21,450 how a couple would begin to hate each other... 1302 01:31:21,658 --> 01:31:23,626 by anticipating their reactions... 1303 01:31:23,826 --> 01:31:25,852 or getting tired of their mannerisms. 1304 01:31:26,596 --> 01:31:28,962 I think it would be the opposite for me. 1305 01:31:30,133 --> 01:31:34,468 I think I can really fall in love when I know everything about someone. 1306 01:31:35,706 --> 01:31:37,367 The way he's gonna part his hair... 1307 01:31:37,574 --> 01:31:39,700 which shirt he's gonna wear that day... 1308 01:31:39,909 --> 01:31:44,141 knowing the exact story he'd tell in a given situation. 1309 01:31:45,848 --> 01:31:48,372 I'm sure that's when I know I'm really in love. 1310 01:32:10,039 --> 01:32:12,371 - Hey, guess what. - What? 1311 01:32:12,742 --> 01:32:14,709 We didn't go to those guys' play. 1312 01:32:14,910 --> 01:32:16,139 Play? 1313 01:32:16,344 --> 01:32:17,676 The cow? 1314 01:32:17,880 --> 01:32:19,609 Oh, yeah, we didn't. 1315 01:32:19,814 --> 01:32:22,045 Oh, no. We missed it. 1316 01:32:47,741 --> 01:32:49,734 You know what bus to take to the airport? 1317 01:32:49,944 --> 01:32:50,843 No problem. 1318 01:32:51,047 --> 01:32:54,447 - I should get on this one. - Right here. You wanna get on there? 1319 01:32:58,253 --> 01:33:00,186 I guess this is it, no? 1320 01:33:01,855 --> 01:33:03,345 I really... 1321 01:33:08,729 --> 01:33:11,061 - You know... - Yeah, I know. Me too. 1322 01:33:17,705 --> 01:33:21,196 Have a great life. Have fun with everything you're gonna do. 1323 01:33:21,408 --> 01:33:23,774 Good luck with school and all that. 1324 01:33:25,179 --> 01:33:26,704 I hate this. 1325 01:33:27,381 --> 01:33:29,906 Me too. The train is about to leave. 1326 01:33:37,726 --> 01:33:40,421 You know all this bullshit we're talking about... 1327 01:33:40,627 --> 01:33:43,187 not seeing each other? I don't want that. 1328 01:33:43,397 --> 01:33:44,591 I don't either. 1329 01:33:44,798 --> 01:33:46,356 - You don't? - I waited for you to say it. 1330 01:33:46,567 --> 01:33:48,125 Why didn't you say something? 1331 01:33:48,334 --> 01:33:50,496 I was afraid you didn't wanna see me. 1332 01:33:50,704 --> 01:33:51,966 What do you wanna do? 1333 01:33:53,107 --> 01:33:56,075 Maybe we should meet here in five years or something. 1334 01:33:56,276 --> 01:33:58,472 Five years? That's a long time. 1335 01:33:58,679 --> 01:34:02,114 It's awful. It's like a sociological experiment. 1336 01:34:02,349 --> 01:34:04,340 - How about one year? - One year. 1337 01:34:05,252 --> 01:34:07,345 - How about six months? - Six months? 1338 01:34:08,222 --> 01:34:09,985 It's gonna be freezing. 1339 01:34:10,189 --> 01:34:12,851 Who cares? We come here, we go somewhere else. 1340 01:34:16,029 --> 01:34:17,963 Six months from now or last night? 1341 01:34:19,432 --> 01:34:23,095 Last night. Six months from last night, which was... 1342 01:34:23,369 --> 01:34:24,632 June 16th. 1343 01:34:24,837 --> 01:34:29,366 So track nine, six months from now at 6:00 at night. 1344 01:34:29,574 --> 01:34:30,724 December. 1345 01:34:31,277 --> 01:34:34,645 It's a train ride for you, but I gotta fly all the way here. 1346 01:34:34,847 --> 01:34:36,314 But I'm gonna be here. 1347 01:34:36,516 --> 01:34:38,814 - Okay, me too. - All right. 1348 01:34:40,553 --> 01:34:42,111 We won't call, write or... 1349 01:34:42,322 --> 01:34:43,754 No, it's depressing. 1350 01:34:47,060 --> 01:34:48,823 Your train's gonna leave. 1351 01:34:49,028 --> 01:34:50,655 Say goodbye. 1352 01:34:51,364 --> 01:34:52,514 Bye. 1353 01:34:53,533 --> 01:34:54,726 Goodbye. 1354 01:34:55,867 --> 01:34:57,061 Au revoir. 1355 01:34:58,538 --> 01:34:59,697 Later.