1 00:00:04,337 --> 00:00:05,505 >> Finn: Uh-- Douglas wrote-- 2 00:00:05,572 --> 00:00:07,240 wrote down your name? >> Steffy: Believe me, 3 00:00:07,307 --> 00:00:08,942 I am just as shocked as you are. 4 00:00:09,008 --> 00:00:11,211 >> Finn: Th-- this was supposed to be a custody 5 00:00:11,277 --> 00:00:14,047 hearing. Thomas convinced the court to let Douglas 6 00:00:14,114 --> 00:00:16,383 choose who he lives with, so-- >> Steffy: Yes, and he 7 00:00:16,449 --> 00:00:23,022 chose me. Us. >> Finn: Is this for real? 8 00:00:23,089 --> 00:00:25,258 Steffy, you-- your nephew's very sweet, I know he loves 9 00:00:25,325 --> 00:00:27,260 spending time here with Kelly and Hayes, but-- 10 00:00:27,327 --> 00:00:30,029 >> Steffy: Now, he wants to live with us. He wants to be 11 00:00:30,096 --> 00:00:35,702 part of our family. >> Hope: Steffy? Why did 12 00:00:35,769 --> 00:00:45,378 Douglas choose Steffy? He's-- he's grown up with us. 13 00:00:45,445 --> 00:00:49,215 I'm his mom. >> Liam: Yeah. And you always 14 00:00:49,282 --> 00:00:54,053 will be. That hasn't changed, and it's not going to. 15 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,322 >> Hope: But that was the entire point of going to 16 00:00:56,389 --> 00:00:58,124 court, Liam, was to finally-- >> Liam: I know. 17 00:00:58,191 --> 00:00:59,959 >> Hope: Get rid of the confusion around where 18 00:01:00,026 --> 00:01:01,828 he belongs. >> Liam: I know, okay. Just-- 19 00:01:01,895 --> 00:01:04,898 Listen-- listen for a second. Things didn't go our way, 20 00:01:04,964 --> 00:01:07,333 but they didn't go Thomas's way, either. 21 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:12,806 And this isn't over. >> Hope: It's my fault. 22 00:01:12,872 --> 00:01:14,808 >> Liam: It's n-- no. >> Hope: Mm-hmm. 23 00:01:14,874 --> 00:01:16,342 >> Liam: It's not-- it's not your fault. 24 00:01:16,409 --> 00:01:18,144 >> Hope: Yes, it is. >> Liam: Douglas loves you. 25 00:01:18,211 --> 00:01:22,515 He loves us. He made that so clear, Hope. 26 00:01:22,582 --> 00:01:25,885 >> Hope: Douglas is still a little boy, 27 00:01:25,952 --> 00:01:31,691 and we're the adults. We're his parents. I mean, how-- 28 00:01:31,758 --> 00:01:33,626 how did we agree to let him choose his 29 00:01:33,693 --> 00:01:40,333 own guardian? ♪♪ 30 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:40,633 ♪♪ 31 00:01:40,700 --> 00:01:50,043 ♪♪ 32 00:01:51,344 --> 00:01:53,913 >> Liam: It wasn't your idea to let Douglas choose, 33 00:01:53,980 --> 00:01:56,416 it was Thomas's. He's the one who pushed the issue, 34 00:01:56,483 --> 00:01:58,985 he's the one who set up the meeting, and besides-- 35 00:01:59,052 --> 00:02:02,021 We had a really good reason for being confident Douglas 36 00:02:02,088 --> 00:02:06,059 would choose us. >> Hope: So what? Now this is 37 00:02:06,125 --> 00:02:08,895 karmic payback? Punishment for being 38 00:02:08,962 --> 00:02:11,030 overly confident? >> Liam: N-- It's not-- No! 39 00:02:11,097 --> 00:02:12,866 It's not karma, it's not punishment, 40 00:02:12,932 --> 00:02:15,802 it's just us trusting Douglas to know what he needs, 41 00:02:15,869 --> 00:02:18,104 that's it. >> Hope: Yeah, well, now 42 00:02:18,171 --> 00:02:20,139 we have to trust his aunt to take care of him. 43 00:02:20,206 --> 00:02:22,909 >> Liam: Yeah! For a little while, though. I me-- 44 00:02:22,976 --> 00:02:25,311 Steffy doesn't want this. She doesn't wanna take 45 00:02:25,378 --> 00:02:27,680 Douglas from us. She told us that. 46 00:02:27,747 --> 00:02:30,550 >> Hope: Yeah. I know, she was just as stunned 47 00:02:30,617 --> 00:02:32,318 as we were. >> Liam: Right. 48 00:02:32,385 --> 00:02:34,654 >> Hope: And I get why she felt like she couldn't say no. 49 00:02:34,721 --> 00:02:37,724 >> Liam: Exactly, 'cause it-- No-- nobody here wants 50 00:02:37,790 --> 00:02:41,160 Douglas to feel rejected at this moment in his life. 51 00:02:41,227 --> 00:02:43,530 That's why. That's why Steffy agrees. 52 00:02:43,596 --> 00:02:45,732 Maybe it is a good idea that he stay with her for 53 00:02:45,798 --> 00:02:46,699 a little while. ♪♪ 54 00:02:54,007 --> 00:02:56,009 >> Steffy: I know it's shocking. 55 00:02:56,075 --> 00:02:58,545 >> Finn: No, it's-- it's-- it's confusing. Douglas has 56 00:02:58,611 --> 00:03:01,080 devoted parents. Hope and Thomas both wanna 57 00:03:01,147 --> 00:03:03,049 raise him. >> Steffy: But he wants 58 00:03:03,116 --> 00:03:06,119 to live with us. >> Finn: Why? What happened? 59 00:03:06,185 --> 00:03:08,121 Did Thomas and Hope get into it at the courthouse? 60 00:03:08,187 --> 00:03:10,823 >> Steffy: No. No, nothing like that. The things they 61 00:03:10,890 --> 00:03:13,526 said were actually quite touching. It's obvious 62 00:03:13,593 --> 00:03:16,029 how much they care about him. >> Finn: You know, see, 63 00:03:16,095 --> 00:03:17,931 I thought for sure Douglas would choose to stay with 64 00:03:17,997 --> 00:03:19,766 Hope and Liam. >> Steffy: I-- I was certain 65 00:03:19,832 --> 00:03:21,267 Thomas was giving his son away. 66 00:03:21,334 --> 00:03:22,969 >> Finn: Well, to you, apparently. 67 00:03:23,036 --> 00:03:28,107 >> Steffy: Nobody expected this. I know it's a lot to process. 68 00:03:28,174 --> 00:03:30,710 I told Douglas that we would talk more, but first and 69 00:03:30,777 --> 00:03:33,546 foremost, we need to figure out if this is something 70 00:03:33,613 --> 00:03:40,553 we can do. What do you think? How do you feel about Douglas 71 00:03:40,620 --> 00:03:42,021 living with us? ♪♪ 72 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:04,243 >> Liam: Yes, obviously I agree the best place for 73 00:04:04,310 --> 00:04:07,447 Douglas is here, with us. >> Hope: I agree. 74 00:04:07,513 --> 00:04:12,251 But Steffy clearly doesn't. >> Liam: That's-- that's not 75 00:04:12,318 --> 00:04:14,887 what she was saying, though. >> Hope: Yeah, she thinks 76 00:04:14,954 --> 00:04:17,156 it's best if Douglas stays with her for a while. 77 00:04:17,223 --> 00:04:19,459 >> Liam: Yeah, for a while! For a little while. 78 00:04:19,525 --> 00:04:21,527 And it's because none of us want Douglas to feel rejected, 79 00:04:21,594 --> 00:04:24,163 not because she thinks that you and I aren't capable of 80 00:04:24,230 --> 00:04:26,899 caring for him. Everyb-- Everybody knows how much 81 00:04:26,966 --> 00:04:28,601 he means to us. >> Hope: Yeah. But just 82 00:04:28,668 --> 00:04:30,937 the fact that he wants to go live with someone else. 83 00:04:31,004 --> 00:04:36,309 I mean, why? Why did he choose Steffy over us? 84 00:04:36,376 --> 00:04:40,780 >> Liam: I don't know. >> Hope: Part of me really 85 00:04:40,847 --> 00:04:46,452 wants to ask him. But I know how that would come across, 86 00:04:46,519 --> 00:04:51,190 and Douglas just needs to feel unconditionally loved 87 00:04:51,257 --> 00:04:52,759 right now. >> Liam: Yeah. 88 00:04:52,825 --> 00:04:54,761 >> Hope: That doesn't matter, what he says or does. It-- 89 00:04:54,827 --> 00:04:57,563 Nothing will change that. >> Liam: Right. Right. 90 00:04:57,630 --> 00:05:01,067 And that-- and that we're his family, 91 00:05:01,134 --> 00:05:08,341 and this is his home. >> Hope: Yeah. Well, maybe 92 00:05:08,408 --> 00:05:16,349 it won't be. What if it's not what he wants? 93 00:05:16,416 --> 00:05:19,986 I mean, we only just got him back, Liam. 94 00:05:20,053 --> 00:05:24,424 >> Liam: Th-- This isn't permanent, 95 00:05:24,490 --> 00:05:26,859 it-- it's-- it's just that we're all 96 00:05:26,926 --> 00:05:30,797 blindsided by it, and there's a lot to sort out. 97 00:05:30,863 --> 00:05:33,232 >> Hope: Well, the priority needs to be Douglas. 98 00:05:33,299 --> 00:05:35,301 >> Liam: Yeah. >> Hope: No, but we need 99 00:05:35,368 --> 00:05:37,570 to do what's best for him. >> Liam: Yeah. And you know 100 00:05:37,637 --> 00:05:40,239 something? Steffy feels exactly the same way. 101 00:05:40,306 --> 00:05:43,743 She-- she loves Douglas, but she didn't walk in 102 00:05:43,810 --> 00:05:47,080 to court thinking she was gonna walk out his guardian. 103 00:05:47,146 --> 00:05:50,249 >> Hope: Look, I-- I understand that Steffy is 104 00:05:50,316 --> 00:05:53,653 in a difficult position. I mean, no one wants Douglas 105 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:57,790 to feel abandoned or unloved, but at the same time, 106 00:05:57,857 --> 00:06:01,794 does that really mean that we just have to blindly 107 00:06:01,861 --> 00:06:03,696 go along with whatever he wants? 108 00:06:13,973 --> 00:06:14,974 ♪♪ >> Steffy: Should have seen 109 00:06:15,041 --> 00:06:18,544 Douglas's face, asking if I didn't want him here. 110 00:06:18,611 --> 00:06:22,915 >> Finn: I get it, Steffy, okay? It's just... 111 00:06:22,982 --> 00:06:26,652 this is not a simple decision. >> Steffy: I told him that. 112 00:06:26,719 --> 00:06:30,556 I tried to explain. But I was completely caught 113 00:06:30,623 --> 00:06:34,627 off guard. Thankfully, the judge and Liam took 114 00:06:34,694 --> 00:06:38,331 Douglas out, so Hope, Thomas and I could talk. 115 00:06:38,397 --> 00:06:40,500 >> Finn: How did Hope take it? >> Steffy: She was 116 00:06:40,566 --> 00:06:42,902 beside herself. >> Finn: I bet. 117 00:06:42,969 --> 00:06:45,404 >> Steffy: At first, she wanted me to say no, 118 00:06:45,471 --> 00:06:48,107 but then she realized what this could do to Douglas, 119 00:06:48,174 --> 00:06:50,843 how it'd make him feel. And as his mother, 120 00:06:50,910 --> 00:06:52,912 she doesn't want to cause him any pain. 121 00:06:52,979 --> 00:06:54,981 >> Finn: Even if that meant letting him go? 122 00:06:55,047 --> 00:06:59,418 >> Steffy: She agreed to let Douglas decide. I'm not 123 00:06:59,485 --> 00:07:03,122 saying she deserves this. She's devastated. 124 00:07:03,189 --> 00:07:06,259 >> Finn: Well, I'm sure she was certain that he would 125 00:07:06,325 --> 00:07:08,394 pick her. >> Steffy: I don't know why 126 00:07:08,461 --> 00:07:11,964 he didn't. There must be a reason. 127 00:07:12,031 --> 00:07:19,405 My gut says, "Trust that." But I needed to talk to you 128 00:07:19,472 --> 00:07:23,910 first because this isn't just my decision. 129 00:07:23,976 --> 00:07:26,045 So, what do you think? 130 00:07:31,751 --> 00:07:36,155 I know it's a lot. Totally unexpected. 131 00:07:36,222 --> 00:07:39,859 >> Finn: Look, Douglas is a great kid, and I hate that 132 00:07:39,926 --> 00:07:42,128 he's having to make these grown up decisions, 133 00:07:42,195 --> 00:07:45,231 and that his dad has put him in this awful position. 134 00:07:45,298 --> 00:07:48,601 Again. But this-- 135 00:07:48,668 --> 00:07:52,638 this isn't about Douglas needing a place to stay, okay? 136 00:07:52,705 --> 00:07:55,441 We would be putting ourselves and our family right in the 137 00:07:55,508 --> 00:08:00,413 middle of his parents' drama. Steffy, we have been 138 00:08:00,479 --> 00:08:06,085 through so much. And thankfully, we are okay. 139 00:08:06,152 --> 00:08:09,488 We are healthy. We are secure. And I am incredibly grateful 140 00:08:09,555 --> 00:08:12,592 for that. I was-- I was just telling my mom 141 00:08:12,658 --> 00:08:17,697 how blessed I feel. And how you, Kelly and Hayes 142 00:08:17,763 --> 00:08:20,666 are everything that I could have ever wanted. 143 00:08:20,733 --> 00:08:23,536 >> Steffy: I feel the same way. 144 00:08:23,603 --> 00:08:25,738 >> Finn: Well, I don't want anyone or anything 145 00:08:25,805 --> 00:08:30,042 to disrupt that again. >> Steffy: So, you're saying 146 00:08:30,109 --> 00:08:32,078 having Douglas here, that could disrupt things-- 147 00:08:32,144 --> 00:08:34,580 >> Finn: Uh, uh, uh, no-- Douglas, he is a sweet, 148 00:08:34,647 --> 00:08:37,817 sweet little boy, and I love having him around, and I know 149 00:08:37,884 --> 00:08:41,087 how much Kelly and Hayes love having him. 150 00:08:41,153 --> 00:08:44,790 But he's not our son. And he's not alone in 151 00:08:44,857 --> 00:08:49,428 the world. This-- this isn't... like when he lost his mom, 152 00:08:49,495 --> 00:08:51,898 and Hope stepped up and adopted him. 153 00:08:51,964 --> 00:08:56,369 Douglas has a stable home. All right? He has devoted 154 00:08:56,435 --> 00:08:59,472 parents. And he has Thomas. He isn't a perfect father, 155 00:08:59,538 --> 00:09:04,677 but Hope and Liam more than make up for that. 156 00:09:04,744 --> 00:09:07,013 So tell me you understand, tell me you hear what 157 00:09:07,079 --> 00:09:07,847 I'm saying. ♪♪ 158 00:09:19,091 --> 00:09:24,730 >> Hope: Why? Why did I listen to Thomas? 159 00:09:24,797 --> 00:09:28,434 What-- what on Earth was I thinking? 160 00:09:28,501 --> 00:09:32,972 >> Liam: Hey, I know-- I know hindsight is 20/20, 161 00:09:33,039 --> 00:09:37,009 but you're talking about this as if it was a gamble. 162 00:09:37,076 --> 00:09:39,645 It was not a gamble. Douglas told us he would 163 00:09:39,712 --> 00:09:46,085 rather live with us and Beth. >> Hope: Oh, Beth. 164 00:09:46,152 --> 00:09:48,220 How are we going to explain this to her? She 165 00:09:48,287 --> 00:09:50,556 views Douglas as her brother. >> Liam: Yeah, and-- 166 00:09:50,623 --> 00:09:53,125 and Kelly is her half-sister. They don't live together, 167 00:09:53,192 --> 00:09:57,363 but they couldn't possibly be any closer. 168 00:09:57,430 --> 00:10:00,866 >> Hope: Except he won't be here. 169 00:10:00,933 --> 00:10:03,703 Liam, you know it won't be the same. And Beth, 170 00:10:03,769 --> 00:10:08,307 she is so attached to him. You know she's going to be 171 00:10:08,374 --> 00:10:10,509 devastated if he leaves here again. It was already so hard, 172 00:10:10,576 --> 00:10:12,979 having to explain to her why Douglas was over at 173 00:10:13,045 --> 00:10:16,582 Eric's, and we had to keep reminding her that it was 174 00:10:16,649 --> 00:10:18,417 just temporary, only this time, 175 00:10:18,484 --> 00:10:23,856 it might not be. It feels like 176 00:10:23,923 --> 00:10:30,229 our family's getting torn apart. >> Liam: Hey. Hope. 177 00:10:30,296 --> 00:10:34,433 Can you look at me? Please, look at me. 178 00:10:34,500 --> 00:10:39,138 Nothing is getting torn apart. Douglas could be on the moon 179 00:10:39,205 --> 00:10:41,674 and he'd be just as connected to us. 180 00:10:41,741 --> 00:10:45,411 That is-- that is family. That's what family means. 181 00:10:45,478 --> 00:10:48,848 >> Hope: Beth and Douglas are children. And they need 182 00:10:48,914 --> 00:10:51,484 to feel secure. They need to feel safe, 183 00:10:51,550 --> 00:10:53,386 and they need to feel protected, and what have 184 00:10:53,452 --> 00:10:55,588 we told them? We told them that harm would never 185 00:10:55,654 --> 00:10:57,656 come to our family. >> Liam: We-- Harm will not 186 00:10:57,723 --> 00:11:00,159 come to our-- That's not what this is. Wha-- 187 00:11:00,226 --> 00:11:05,297 This is us feeling unprepared. It was a surprise, right? 188 00:11:05,364 --> 00:11:07,867 And there's a lot to sort through. That's-- that's all 189 00:11:07,933 --> 00:11:09,735 this is. >> Hope: Yeah, well you heard 190 00:11:09,802 --> 00:11:14,540 the judge. She wants us to go along with what Douglas asks. 191 00:11:14,607 --> 00:11:16,575 >> Liam: Yeah, I know, but you-- you also know that 192 00:11:16,642 --> 00:11:19,078 she knows this is more complicated than packing 193 00:11:19,145 --> 00:11:25,117 a suitcase. >> Hope: Can't even think 194 00:11:25,184 --> 00:11:29,088 about that. Going into his room 195 00:11:29,155 --> 00:11:32,658 and not seeing him there. Not being able to hear him 196 00:11:32,725 --> 00:11:37,630 reading Beth a bedtime story. No more new projects on 197 00:11:37,696 --> 00:11:42,935 the table, or muddy shoes at the door. 198 00:11:43,002 --> 00:11:48,841 Douglas going to live with Steffy just feels like 199 00:11:48,908 --> 00:11:54,246 it's creating this giant hole, not only in our family, 200 00:11:54,313 --> 00:11:59,685 but in my heart. >> Liam: I know. 201 00:12:05,024 --> 00:12:15,067 ♪♪ 202 00:12:19,438 --> 00:12:24,944 >> Steffy: I will never take you, our love, and our family 203 00:12:25,010 --> 00:12:31,717 for granted... because honestly, I am-- 204 00:12:31,784 --> 00:12:38,090 I didn't really believe in-- in miracles, until today. 205 00:12:38,157 --> 00:12:44,163 Seeing you there at the church. 206 00:12:44,230 --> 00:12:46,632 Did you know that you were coming back to me 207 00:12:46,699 --> 00:12:51,470 and our family? I love you. 208 00:12:51,537 --> 00:12:54,340 >> Both: I love you. >> Finn: I love you so much, 209 00:12:54,406 --> 00:12:57,977 Steffy. Forever. [ both murmuring ] 210 00:13:12,258 --> 00:13:14,727 [ Steffy sighing ] >> Steffy: Kelly and Hayes 211 00:13:14,793 --> 00:13:17,796 fell asleep watching a movie. They're in bed now. 212 00:13:17,863 --> 00:13:20,499 >> Finn: I could have helped. >> Steffy: Oh, no. It was-- 213 00:13:20,566 --> 00:13:23,869 it was easy. I hear you regarding 214 00:13:23,936 --> 00:13:26,839 the whole Douglas situation. I get it. 215 00:13:26,906 --> 00:13:29,275 >> Finn: Look, and-- and I sympathize with Douglas, 216 00:13:29,341 --> 00:13:32,178 having Thomas as a father. >> Steffy: I do believe 217 00:13:32,244 --> 00:13:34,547 Thomas wants to do better. >> Finn: Hun, Douglas isn't 218 00:13:34,613 --> 00:13:36,682 ready to give him that chance yet. 219 00:13:36,749 --> 00:13:38,684 >> Steffy: I think that's one of the reasons Douglas 220 00:13:38,751 --> 00:13:42,555 looks up to you. The compassion he feels. 221 00:13:42,621 --> 00:13:47,159 You're the kind of man people look up to. Trust. 222 00:13:47,226 --> 00:13:49,795 >> Finn: Well, I'm glad I can be that for him. 223 00:13:49,862 --> 00:13:52,631 >> Steffy: Can't be surprised that he wants to spend time 224 00:13:52,698 --> 00:13:55,201 with us. >> Finn: Yeah, but living 225 00:13:55,267 --> 00:13:58,070 here, that's-- that's different. 226 00:13:58,137 --> 00:13:59,939 >> Steffy: But we said he's always welcome. 227 00:14:00,005 --> 00:14:02,007 >> Finn: And he is. It's just, Steffy, 228 00:14:02,074 --> 00:14:04,210 we are not his parents. >> Steffy: But he can rely 229 00:14:04,276 --> 00:14:07,580 on us. I-- I'm not saying he can't count on Hope, or-- 230 00:14:07,646 --> 00:14:11,283 or Liam. He can. And he loves them with all his heart. 231 00:14:11,350 --> 00:14:13,719 And despite everything Thomas has done to mess up 232 00:14:13,786 --> 00:14:17,723 their relationship, I know Douglas loves him too. 233 00:14:17,790 --> 00:14:22,494 I just feel like it's a lot. Maybe he-- 234 00:14:22,561 --> 00:14:24,697 maybe he needs a break. >> Finn: Break? 235 00:14:24,763 --> 00:14:33,072 >> Steffy: Yeah. Okay. What if Douglas lives with us 236 00:14:33,138 --> 00:14:38,310 temporarily? He's a little boy, he's gonna miss his mom. 237 00:14:38,377 --> 00:14:40,713 And once he gets it out of his system, he's gonna 238 00:14:40,779 --> 00:14:46,285 want to go back home. So, what do you think? 239 00:14:46,352 --> 00:14:49,054 Are you willing to open up our family to Douglas for 240 00:14:49,121 --> 00:14:50,055 a little while? ♪♪ 241 00:15:00,566 --> 00:15:05,237 >> Finn: You wanna let Douglas stay for a while? 242 00:15:05,304 --> 00:15:07,506 >> Steffy: I suggested it to Hope so Douglas 243 00:15:07,573 --> 00:15:11,410 feels heard. Hey, once he realizes 244 00:15:11,477 --> 00:15:17,249 he wants to go home, he can. We would have to meet with 245 00:15:17,316 --> 00:15:20,386 the judge again to straighten everything out. Just, 246 00:15:20,452 --> 00:15:22,855 Douglas is such a sweet, innocent little boy. 247 00:15:22,921 --> 00:15:28,894 I don't want him to feel rejected or unwanted. 248 00:15:28,961 --> 00:15:32,931 I'm not saying he's gonna live with us permanently. 249 00:15:32,998 --> 00:15:36,402 We don't have to decide tonight. We can sit with it. 250 00:15:36,468 --> 00:15:39,004 Think it over, and if you wanna meet with Thomas, 251 00:15:39,071 --> 00:15:44,109 Hope, and Liam, we can. You have a big, loving, 252 00:15:44,176 --> 00:15:48,347 generous heart. I know there's room in there 253 00:15:48,414 --> 00:15:50,983 for Douglas, too. 254 00:16:03,962 --> 00:16:04,930 ♪♪ >> Hope: I get it, I get it. 255 00:16:04,997 --> 00:16:07,333 Douglas doesn't want to be fought over. 256 00:16:07,399 --> 00:16:09,568 >> Liam: I don't think it's that. I think it's more 257 00:16:09,635 --> 00:16:11,937 that he doesn't want to hurt you or his dad. 258 00:16:12,004 --> 00:16:15,674 >> Hope: All right, Liam, we're the adults here. 259 00:16:15,741 --> 00:16:17,976 We're the ones who should be taking care of him. 260 00:16:18,043 --> 00:16:20,679 He shouldn't be worrying about us. 261 00:16:20,746 --> 00:16:24,583 >> Liam: I know, but... it's Douglas. 262 00:16:24,650 --> 00:16:28,754 You know how he is. >> Hope: So what, he thinks 263 00:16:28,821 --> 00:16:31,190 he'd just be happier living over at Steffy's, 264 00:16:31,256 --> 00:16:33,425 and more secure? >> Liam: I, uh, well-- 265 00:16:33,492 --> 00:16:35,561 I, you know, he's been spending a lot of time over there. 266 00:16:35,627 --> 00:16:39,031 Maybe he just feels comfortable. >> Hope: Liam, 267 00:16:39,098 --> 00:16:41,600 this is his home. >> Liam: I'd-- Hope, I'm not-- 268 00:16:41,667 --> 00:16:43,836 I don't want him walking out that door any more than 269 00:16:43,902 --> 00:16:45,637 you do. I'm just saying. >> Hope: Okay, so then 270 00:16:45,704 --> 00:16:48,407 we shouldn't let it happen. >> Liam: No, no. We have 271 00:16:48,474 --> 00:16:52,544 to let it happen. We have to. Because we promised him 272 00:16:52,611 --> 00:16:55,013 we would respect his decision. We renege on that, 273 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:56,782 he's never gonna trust us again. 274 00:16:56,849 --> 00:17:01,820 And you understand that. >> Hope: I understand that. 275 00:17:01,887 --> 00:17:04,723 Doesn't mean I have to like it, or that makes it 276 00:17:04,790 --> 00:17:06,825 any easier. >> Liam: I know, I know. 277 00:17:06,892 --> 00:17:09,261 But think of it this-- May-- maybe, maybe Steffy's thought 278 00:17:09,328 --> 00:17:13,031 here is-- is a good one, which is you think long term, 279 00:17:13,098 --> 00:17:15,634 he comes over to her place, he has like a little 280 00:17:15,701 --> 00:17:18,971 mini-vacation at Aunt Steffy's, it's like party time, right? 281 00:17:19,037 --> 00:17:21,306 We see how he likes it. But he's still a kid. 282 00:17:21,373 --> 00:17:24,510 And in a few weeks, he's gonna get homesick, 283 00:17:24,576 --> 00:17:27,146 and he's gonna want to come back. 284 00:17:27,212 --> 00:17:30,082 >> Hope: Only what if he doesn't? 285 00:17:30,149 --> 00:17:32,518 What if he doesn't want to? What if he stays, Liam? 286 00:17:32,584 --> 00:17:34,453 It could be just like the hearing all over again, 287 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:37,189 where we assume we know the outcome. And then, 288 00:17:37,256 --> 00:17:43,061 it backfires. Like, Liam, uh-- Douglas is just as much 289 00:17:43,128 --> 00:17:45,798 a part of me as Beth is, and I know I didn't give 290 00:17:45,864 --> 00:17:50,569 birth to him, but I love him just as much. He is my child 291 00:17:50,636 --> 00:17:56,508 in every way that counts, and... 292 00:17:56,575 --> 00:18:01,146 I can't lose him. He's our son, and-- 293 00:18:01,213 --> 00:18:04,416 and I can't lose Douglas. I can't. 294 00:18:18,730 --> 00:18:19,965 ♪♪